WEBVTT - SOS, DWI, MIA 0:00:03.960 --> 0:00:07.920 Hey, the folks, In this episode, only two products come 0:00:07.960 --> 0:00:12.000 with a Surgeon General warning. The next possible product to 0:00:12.119 --> 0:00:15.640 get a Surgeon General warning is on your child's phone 0:00:15.920 --> 0:00:18.640 right now. Also in this episode, how did you react 0:00:18.680 --> 0:00:22.160 to the news that Justin Timberlake was arrested? And did 0:00:22.200 --> 0:00:26.520 your social media reaction match your private reaction? Plus in 0:00:26.520 --> 0:00:29.040 this episode you think you've seen Nicholas Cage at his 0:00:29.200 --> 0:00:32.840 craziest and creepiest in a movie? Well, hold my beer 0:00:33.520 --> 0:00:37.239 and it's official. Robot and I are preparing for a 0:00:37.280 --> 0:00:41.400 trip to the best summer city and America. And finally, 0:00:41.400 --> 0:00:44.199 in this episode, a shout out to two of our friends. 0:00:44.760 --> 0:00:48.000 One is retiring and the NBA will never be the same, 0:00:48.040 --> 0:00:50.360 and the other we want to call out for being 0:00:50.400 --> 0:00:55.480 the absolute best and the absolute worst friend we think 0:00:55.520 --> 0:00:57.960 we've ever had in life. And with that, welcome to 0:00:58.000 --> 0:01:02.200 this episode, folks of Amy and TJ. Robes. How is 0:01:02.240 --> 0:01:04.120 your anxiety today? 0:01:05.560 --> 0:01:07.720 You are saying that to me because I was feeling 0:01:07.840 --> 0:01:11.240 a little anxious and I didn't know why today. So yes, 0:01:12.000 --> 0:01:12.759 it's elevated. 0:01:12.959 --> 0:01:16.440 You're what's elevated, You're anxiety. So we always have it. 0:01:16.440 --> 0:01:17.399 Yours are just elevated. 0:01:17.480 --> 0:01:20.679 I mean maybe not. I I'm not always anxious, but 0:01:20.720 --> 0:01:23.360 when you're aware of your heart thumping, yes, that would 0:01:23.400 --> 0:01:25.880 be my telltale sign that I'm feeling a little anxious. 0:01:25.920 --> 0:01:27.600 I thought that was only because you were sitting across 0:01:27.640 --> 0:01:28.600 the table from me and. 0:01:28.520 --> 0:01:30.800 You were all, I know some I'm just confusing. Is 0:01:30.840 --> 0:01:34.720 this love or is this you know, heart problem? No, sorry, 0:01:36.280 --> 0:01:38.320 or a mental issue? It could be any of the evive. 0:01:38.200 --> 0:01:40.680 But this was real, and look, we're laughing about it now, 0:01:40.720 --> 0:01:43.000 but it was serious a little while ago. We are 0:01:43.000 --> 0:01:45.880 in studio now here, but a short time ago against 0:01:45.880 --> 0:01:48.760 a couple hours you had and you described the way 0:01:48.800 --> 0:01:51.480 the pain felt, and this was a serious moment at 0:01:51.480 --> 0:01:52.240 the house for a little while. 0:01:52.320 --> 0:01:55.400 Yeah, my mom is going to freak out, but it's fine. 0:01:55.400 --> 0:01:57.160 But we've done enough of these stories where you know, 0:01:57.440 --> 0:02:01.080 like women's heart issues don't come the same way men's do. 0:02:01.240 --> 0:02:02.880 And so anyway, I had this all of a sudden. 0:02:02.880 --> 0:02:04.040 We had just gone on a run and I was 0:02:04.040 --> 0:02:08.880 perfectly fine, and about maybe thirty minutes later, my arm 0:02:08.960 --> 0:02:13.400 just started like burning and there was numb numbness, and 0:02:13.440 --> 0:02:16.320 it was actually painful, and it felt like a surge. 0:02:16.720 --> 0:02:18.640 And I had not ever felt that before, and it 0:02:18.720 --> 0:02:20.679 lasted for several minutes and I had to kind of 0:02:20.680 --> 0:02:22.919 take deep breaths. Anyway, ever since then, I've had anxiety 0:02:22.919 --> 0:02:27.080 because my head's gone into a that spiral. Yeah, I 0:02:27.080 --> 0:02:30.600 think so, because I got nervous. Like you know, I 0:02:30.639 --> 0:02:34.080 have had heart surgery before. It was for a dangerous rhythm. 0:02:34.160 --> 0:02:36.840 It was an open heart surgery, it was an oblation. 0:02:37.480 --> 0:02:39.680 But I haven't had a heart issue since, and it's 0:02:39.720 --> 0:02:42.040 been since I was thirty eight. So anyway, that was 0:02:42.160 --> 0:02:43.720 I just started to freak out, like, oh no, what 0:02:43.760 --> 0:02:45.680 if I'm having a heart issue? What if I'm having 0:02:45.720 --> 0:02:47.960 And then I just haven't been able to shake the anxiety. 0:02:48.680 --> 0:02:50.560 I didn't google anything, but I know enough. 0:02:50.639 --> 0:02:55.880 So you're not actually physically feeling anything related to the 0:02:56.200 --> 0:03:01.200 numbness and pain. Now you are worried about it, Yeah, 0:03:01.200 --> 0:03:02.760 and which is causing another problem. 0:03:02.760 --> 0:03:07.280 Correct, it's called it's called, yes, self imposed heart palpitations. 0:03:08.760 --> 0:03:11.600 But I get it. But it does. And for look, 0:03:11.639 --> 0:03:13.639 folks who are out there who have had any kind 0:03:13.680 --> 0:03:16.480 of serious long term sort of the cancer or anything 0:03:16.560 --> 0:03:20.080 like that, you feel any little thing, and you. 0:03:19.680 --> 0:03:22.200 You tend to overreact, You tend to think you want 0:03:22.200 --> 0:03:24.480 to know, you go to worst case scenario because it 0:03:24.520 --> 0:03:26.760 happened once when you didn't think it could, and so 0:03:26.840 --> 0:03:29.040 then all of a sudden something that I would normally 0:03:29.040 --> 0:03:31.720 just laugh off, all of a sudden, I'm thinking going back, 0:03:31.800 --> 0:03:34.400 thinking now I feel a little lightheaded. Maybe I have 0:03:34.440 --> 0:03:36.240 a brain tumor. I mean, you really, you go into 0:03:36.280 --> 0:03:38.880 these like vicious cycles of fear and then you just 0:03:39.000 --> 0:03:41.960 kind of eventually have to talk yourself off the ledge, 0:03:42.160 --> 0:03:44.160 breathe it out. Actually, I asked for a hug. I've 0:03:44.200 --> 0:03:47.000 asked for several hugs today, which is highly unusual. 0:03:47.080 --> 0:03:48.360 Who were you asking from you? 0:03:48.560 --> 0:03:48.720 Oh? 0:03:48.800 --> 0:03:50.360 No, you didn't ask You only ask me once on 0:03:50.400 --> 0:03:50.960 the train. 0:03:50.840 --> 0:03:52.480 I know. But in the kitchen I asked you for 0:03:52.480 --> 0:03:53.520 a hug too, and I hugged you. 0:03:53.520 --> 0:03:56.720 Then you were hugging the dog Nikki. Was there a lot? 0:03:56.880 --> 0:03:59.400 But I hugged you like I asked you for a hug. 0:03:59.520 --> 0:04:01.200 Yeah it did, Yeah, it really did. 0:04:03.240 --> 0:04:06.640 Okay, let's feel better, all right, as while we can 0:04:06.640 --> 0:04:10.480 see to deal with the anxiety. But it's a real thing. 0:04:10.800 --> 0:04:13.960 I say it's a real thing in that I had 0:04:14.000 --> 0:04:16.520 to be cool, but I was in an absolute panic. 0:04:16.839 --> 0:04:19.520 You were, I was if you what did you notice. 0:04:19.200 --> 0:04:20.880 Me doing you were making jokes? 0:04:20.920 --> 0:04:24.000 No, no, no, no, no, no, sweetheart, you need to correct 0:04:24.000 --> 0:04:26.640 that one on the record for everybody to hear. I 0:04:26.680 --> 0:04:29.160 did not make a single joke when you were when 0:04:29.400 --> 0:04:32.040 you were hurting and you were dealing with you. Did 0:04:32.120 --> 0:04:33.240 you even notice what I was doing? 0:04:33.320 --> 0:04:35.240 You were walking out of the room. 0:04:35.360 --> 0:04:37.880 No, I was taking off my running clothes and getting 0:04:37.920 --> 0:04:40.000 prepared to go to the hospital. Really, you didn't see 0:04:40.040 --> 0:04:43.080 I was throwing clothes across to where the the washing 0:04:43.120 --> 0:04:47.440 machine was. And I didn't know quietly preparing. Oh no, 0:04:47.440 --> 0:04:49.719 no that that was not a time for wowd make 0:04:49.760 --> 0:04:52.479 a single Oh my goodness, now later the anxiety I 0:04:52.520 --> 0:04:53.880 gave your heart that. 0:04:54.320 --> 0:04:57.080 That's what I was thinking talking about. No, I didn't 0:04:57.120 --> 0:04:57.720 notice anything. 0:04:57.839 --> 0:04:58.320 I wow. 0:04:58.400 --> 0:04:59.920 Okay, well, I'm glad I didn't know you were doing. 0:05:00.600 --> 0:05:03.840 You just told everybody that while you thought you were dying, 0:05:04.040 --> 0:05:07.440 your boyfriend was making jokes. Of course I wasn't. 0:05:08.560 --> 0:05:10.320 All right, you're teasing me about the the. 0:05:11.120 --> 0:05:14.880 Which was an hour Yeah, that was two plus hours 0:05:14.920 --> 0:05:16.679 later when we were Nikki and yeah, okay. 0:05:16.760 --> 0:05:18.719 You know the crazy thing is, though, like I've done this, 0:05:18.880 --> 0:05:21.680 I've done these stories where you know, you don't want 0:05:21.720 --> 0:05:24.480 to be the it's embarrassing to say, like, my god, 0:05:24.480 --> 0:05:26.919 I'm having a medical issue, and so you try to 0:05:27.040 --> 0:05:30.200 just like downplay it or yeah, so that's what I 0:05:30.240 --> 0:05:32.640 was trying to do. But clearly that didn't work with you. 0:05:32.760 --> 0:05:35.559 But all good and all good. Never it's it's okay. 0:05:36.279 --> 0:05:37.760 We are good friends and we tease each other and 0:05:37.800 --> 0:05:40.279 I give you a hard time, but I no, maybe 0:05:40.360 --> 0:05:42.200 this was not a foking situation when you were in 0:05:42.200 --> 0:05:46.799 that pain. So we are sitting here, folks, recording this podcast, 0:05:46.880 --> 0:05:50.360 only a few hours removed from news that Justin Timberlake, 0:05:50.360 --> 0:05:52.960 of course, one of the biggest superstars on the planet, 0:05:53.000 --> 0:05:55.479 has been in the spotlight at the top of the game, 0:05:55.480 --> 0:05:58.040 I guess you could argue for a couple of decades, 0:06:00.600 --> 0:06:05.440 was arrested in sag Harbor on Long Island in the 0:06:05.480 --> 0:06:09.080 early morning hours for DUI. Now, the details that have 0:06:09.120 --> 0:06:11.520 come out, and I think the police have acknowledged, is 0:06:11.560 --> 0:06:13.640 that he did not take a breathalyzer. He was pulled 0:06:13.640 --> 0:06:15.919 over for I think running through a stops now how 0:06:15.920 --> 0:06:18.880 they right, Yes, okay, running through a stop sign after 0:06:18.960 --> 0:06:23.200 leaving dinner at some hotel restaurant, and they put him 0:06:23.200 --> 0:06:26.719 in jail, got it? D UI? Now my what was 0:06:26.760 --> 0:06:29.039 your And I asked some of our folks here, our producers, like, 0:06:29.080 --> 0:06:31.400 what was your first reaction to hearing what was your 0:06:31.640 --> 0:06:33.400 just in reading the headlin? I think we were watching 0:06:33.560 --> 0:06:35.440 we had it on TV at the time, just breaking news, 0:06:35.480 --> 0:06:37.080 just and Timberlake in custody, do U? I? 0:06:37.240 --> 0:06:39.279 Well, you know, I'm a huge JT fan, Like we 0:06:39.279 --> 0:06:42.479 are huge JT fan. I love his music, I love 0:06:42.720 --> 0:06:46.599 everything about him. So my heart kind of broke for him. 0:06:46.640 --> 0:06:49.000 And first of all, I was grateful no one was injured, 0:06:49.400 --> 0:06:51.120 you know that that was the big thing. I think 0:06:51.160 --> 0:06:54.839 we were all like, is everybody okay? So obviously that's 0:06:54.880 --> 0:06:58.240 the best case scenario in a tough situation. But yeah, 0:06:58.240 --> 0:07:01.200 I just I feel bad, feel bad for anyone who, 0:07:01.520 --> 0:07:04.600 you know, not only I mean, obviously he made a mistake. 0:07:05.040 --> 0:07:07.120 He hasn't been convicted, but he's been arrested, so that's 0:07:07.120 --> 0:07:09.479 important to point out. But if what they're saying is true, 0:07:09.480 --> 0:07:12.920 if the charges are in fact true or provable, I 0:07:12.960 --> 0:07:16.800 feel sad for him. I feel sad for you know, 0:07:16.840 --> 0:07:20.360 anyone who has to deal with the aftermath of drinking 0:07:20.400 --> 0:07:23.160 too much. And thank god, no one else was hurt. Obviously, 0:07:23.240 --> 0:07:25.160 that's the big concern that other people's lives are put 0:07:25.200 --> 0:07:26.880 at risk. If you get behind the wheel, it. 0:07:26.800 --> 0:07:30.720 Is that you are absolutely putting your own life in danger. 0:07:30.760 --> 0:07:35.640 You're absolutely pulling the life of your family. Essentially, they 0:07:35.640 --> 0:07:38.360 don't need to be without their dad in the house. 0:07:39.200 --> 0:07:42.560 So yes, see, if this turns out to be the case. 0:07:42.800 --> 0:07:44.920 My first concern when I heard it, though, I was like, 0:07:44.960 --> 0:07:48.840 oh God, what is he about to have to endure? 0:07:49.080 --> 0:07:53.320 When it comes to social media, it comes to it's everywhere, 0:07:53.360 --> 0:07:55.600 and it's everywhere, not just being reported. And this is 0:07:55.640 --> 0:07:58.880 what got me. There's nobody who is going to defend 0:07:58.960 --> 0:08:01.720 anybody who says they had right. If you make that mistake, 0:08:01.760 --> 0:08:04.960 get behind the wheel, then you messed up, and we 0:08:05.280 --> 0:08:10.520 get that. I immediately start, well, let me hear the details. Right, 0:08:10.720 --> 0:08:12.480 where was he what was he doing? Did he blow 0:08:12.520 --> 0:08:13.400 into a breathalyzer? 0:08:13.520 --> 0:08:13.600 Like? 0:08:13.680 --> 0:08:15.920 How much over did he do? Did he not just 0:08:15.960 --> 0:08:17.880 put on his signal and he got pulled over? I 0:08:18.200 --> 0:08:20.920 just didn't know the details. But then you started looking 0:08:20.920 --> 0:08:23.280 at social media stuff and sure enough it was exactly 0:08:23.280 --> 0:08:26.720 what you would imagine. I just I just it just 0:08:26.960 --> 0:08:29.840 it's hurt the jokes to start making jokes when I 0:08:29.960 --> 0:08:33.000 know this dude's kids. I have to see that or 0:08:33.080 --> 0:08:35.880 endure that, and it's awful. He is a he is yes, 0:08:35.880 --> 0:08:39.679 he is a superstar. He's dead. He's a dad. Yea, 0:08:39.800 --> 0:08:42.280 he is a he's a nephew, he's an uncle, he's 0:08:42.280 --> 0:08:44.360 a son, he's all these other things that I just 0:08:44.400 --> 0:08:46.600 looking at him as a human being and know that 0:08:46.720 --> 0:08:49.040 there's a human experience happening right now that really sucks 0:08:49.040 --> 0:08:50.920 for him. And maybe it is because of a mistake 0:08:50.960 --> 0:08:52.760 he made, but that was my first reaction. 0:08:52.960 --> 0:08:55.199 Yeah, And interestingly enough you point that out because when 0:08:55.240 --> 0:08:58.400 you google the last post he made in the last 0:08:58.440 --> 0:09:01.040 little headline that was about him is about Father's Day 0:09:01.080 --> 0:09:03.800 and just how proud he was of his sons and 0:09:03.840 --> 0:09:06.280 how they make him better. So obviously that's all on 0:09:06.360 --> 0:09:10.240 his mind, and of course we get it and just 0:09:10.280 --> 0:09:13.920 wish them the very best in whatever the next steps 0:09:13.920 --> 0:09:14.400 are for him. 0:09:14.640 --> 0:09:17.839 Is it weird? Can you support someone as a human 0:09:17.880 --> 0:09:20.600 being but still have an issue with the act, right? 0:09:20.679 --> 0:09:21.400 God, I hope so. 0:09:21.440 --> 0:09:23.880 We too often like we have to. This person did 0:09:23.880 --> 0:09:27.320 something bad, they have to be condemned wholly. Fully. You 0:09:27.360 --> 0:09:30.960 cannot support them in any there's no defense anybody's hearing 0:09:31.000 --> 0:09:33.079 anything we're saying about anybody who has it to you. 0:09:33.280 --> 0:09:37.079 I'm not defending anybody against that. But there's a human 0:09:37.160 --> 0:09:41.079 side always to these stories, and it's just at that part. 0:09:41.880 --> 0:09:43.720 I just like this as big as this star is. 0:09:43.760 --> 0:09:45.280 You know what the day is about to be? 0:09:45.559 --> 0:09:47.600 Yeah, the day, the week, the months to come. 0:09:47.760 --> 0:09:51.440 Yes, and you know we might find out like Scheffler, 0:09:52.160 --> 0:09:57.400 the golfer got arrested assaulting a police office on all this, 0:09:57.440 --> 0:10:01.040 next name in oh, charges dropped. Oh you know what, 0:10:02.000 --> 0:10:05.120 never mind, So you never know, this might turn out 0:10:05.160 --> 0:10:07.000 to be. You don't one of those right yep? 0:10:07.080 --> 0:10:10.240 Suspend judgment and innocent until proven guilty. 0:10:10.360 --> 0:10:13.480 Do you know what the label the surgeon the Surgeon 0:10:13.520 --> 0:10:17.000 General's label on a bottle of alcohol says? Do you 0:10:17.000 --> 0:10:19.440 know what the warning is? We know there is one, 0:10:19.480 --> 0:10:21.400 but do you all know the text of it? Can 0:10:21.440 --> 0:10:25.200 you recall any part of the Surgeon general warning on 0:10:25.360 --> 0:10:27.040 a bottle of liqua? 0:10:28.240 --> 0:10:31.800 Maybe that it could impair you if you're operating any vehicles. 0:10:31.800 --> 0:10:34.439 A warning for pregnant women that it could be dangerous 0:10:34.480 --> 0:10:36.240 to the unborn fetus. 0:10:36.440 --> 0:10:42.320 Yeah, okay, okay, I wouldn't have remembered the pregnant women party. 0:10:42.600 --> 0:10:44.960 But the line is, according to the Surgeon General, women 0:10:44.960 --> 0:10:48.120 should not drink alcoholic beverages during pregnancy because of the 0:10:48.200 --> 0:10:52.000 risk of birth effects. It goes on to say consumption 0:10:52.040 --> 0:10:55.120 of alcoholic beverages impairs your ability to drive a car 0:10:55.280 --> 0:10:59.240 or operate machinery and may cause health problems. Has this 0:10:59.480 --> 0:11:03.720 ever Has that ever caused anyone to not order the 0:11:03.760 --> 0:11:06.360 third martini? I do you argue? 0:11:06.440 --> 0:11:09.160 I would say the pregnant woman thing. Perhaps maybe if 0:11:09.160 --> 0:11:10.960 you're feeling stressed and then you see it, you're like, 0:11:11.120 --> 0:11:12.840 I really know I shouldn't be doing this. 0:11:12.960 --> 0:11:14.520 I feel like you feel it's effective. 0:11:14.640 --> 0:11:17.040 I feel like that would definitely if a woman, and 0:11:17.080 --> 0:11:19.240 I definitely have had friends who have been told it's 0:11:19.240 --> 0:11:20.640 fine to have a drink a day. But maybe if 0:11:20.640 --> 0:11:23.480 you're seeing that, it might make you. I think that 0:11:23.520 --> 0:11:25.760 could give you pause, even if you think, oh, it's okay, 0:11:25.840 --> 0:11:27.280 but you know what, why would I risk it? 0:11:27.440 --> 0:11:30.040 Here's the thing? We know this, don't we Do you 0:11:30.200 --> 0:11:32.920 need to as a pregnant as anybody, Do you need 0:11:32.960 --> 0:11:35.040 to look on the back of that beer, on the 0:11:35.080 --> 0:11:37.320 back of that bottle of vodka to know that drinking 0:11:37.360 --> 0:11:39.040 and over drinking is bad for your health. 0:11:39.440 --> 0:11:41.800 No, but I do think that it's a reminder as 0:11:41.840 --> 0:11:45.000 you're reaching for the next drink and maybe you've had 0:11:45.360 --> 0:11:47.520 I don't know. I mean, it can't hurt to have 0:11:47.600 --> 0:11:48.679 it on there? How about that? 0:11:49.240 --> 0:11:51.480 Okay, this is weird. I'm showing Rome's a picture now 0:11:51.600 --> 0:11:53.360 of a bottle we have in a how you can't 0:11:53.400 --> 0:11:54.719 even read that? 0:11:54.040 --> 0:11:54.079 No? 0:11:55.040 --> 0:11:57.800 No, it's on the back and small print at the bottom. 0:11:57.880 --> 0:11:59.319 We know it's there. 0:11:59.360 --> 0:12:02.200 I'm I'm pretty settled in my ways, but I don't know. 0:12:02.280 --> 0:12:04.120 I just feel like it can't hurt. 0:12:04.280 --> 0:12:06.520 Can't hurt. Now, I'm with you on that one hundred percent. 0:12:06.600 --> 0:12:09.000 What harm is it in having no problem? They do 0:12:09.040 --> 0:12:11.880 this on tobacco as well. I picked up a pack 0:12:11.920 --> 0:12:13.600 of Black and Miles at the house that we have. 0:12:14.080 --> 0:12:15.720 I said, y, I saw you taking a picture. 0:12:15.760 --> 0:12:17.960 I was like, what is he doing? Now that all 0:12:18.000 --> 0:12:18.520 makes sense? 0:12:18.679 --> 0:12:21.600 So, yes, tobacco products have a warning as well. I 0:12:21.600 --> 0:12:24.720 didn't realize that the cigars I have, Black and Miles. 0:12:25.600 --> 0:12:28.800 It's a long, long story that goes back to college. 0:12:28.880 --> 0:12:31.760 It's a once in a while thing for you. You probably, yes, 0:12:32.240 --> 0:12:34.319 like smoke one pack of those it takes you a 0:12:34.360 --> 0:12:34.800 full year. 0:12:35.040 --> 0:12:37.960 Yeah, you're probably right. You're probably right, but it does 0:12:38.000 --> 0:12:41.120 have a warning. That warning includes that you should not like, 0:12:41.200 --> 0:12:43.520 even if you don't inhale, that it's harmful for you 0:12:43.559 --> 0:12:47.040 from the Surgeon General. I didn't know that tobacco alcohol 0:12:47.160 --> 0:12:50.960 the only two things that got a Surgeon General warning. 0:12:51.120 --> 0:12:54.640 The tobacco got it back in nineteen late nineteen sixties. 0:12:55.120 --> 0:12:59.080 Alcohol got the warning about nineteen eighty six. We might 0:12:59.120 --> 0:13:03.280 now get the bird product robes. Ever, that's deemed so 0:13:03.440 --> 0:13:07.520 harmful that it needs a Surgeon General. 0:13:07.200 --> 0:13:11.120 Warning, and it is social media. And it makes a 0:13:11.160 --> 0:13:15.080 lot of sense because we heard from the Surgeon General. 0:13:15.920 --> 0:13:17.439 He is he wrote a not bad in New York 0:13:17.440 --> 0:13:21.520 Times avecmurthy, and he is talking about the mental health 0:13:21.880 --> 0:13:26.119 crisis that is facing our children, speaking of anxiety, depression 0:13:26.280 --> 0:13:29.400 and at worst case, dying by suicide. And a lot 0:13:29.400 --> 0:13:32.640 of it is based on the comparative nature of social media, 0:13:32.679 --> 0:13:36.720 the bullying that goes on through social media, and he 0:13:36.800 --> 0:13:40.679 wants there to be a warning on our phones as 0:13:40.679 --> 0:13:43.160 it pertains to social media that this could be detrimental 0:13:43.200 --> 0:13:45.319 to your mental health and ultimately your physical health. 0:13:45.840 --> 0:13:47.719 He has to he can't just do an onzone. He 0:13:48.200 --> 0:13:51.079 will need congressional approval to do so. But I am 0:13:52.520 --> 0:13:55.560 I wonder like just how the label itself. We wonder 0:13:55.600 --> 0:13:58.880 how effective it can be if we never talk about 0:13:58.920 --> 0:14:02.839 this again after today. I think it's effective because he 0:14:03.120 --> 0:14:05.120 is the top doctor in the country who is coming 0:14:05.200 --> 0:14:08.520 out and saying something is so detrimental to the health 0:14:08.800 --> 0:14:11.400 of this country and our kids that I'm saying we 0:14:11.480 --> 0:14:13.640 need to warn you about it. That's a big deal, correct. 0:14:13.640 --> 0:14:16.319 And there's this big controversy because we heard Mark Zuckerberger 0:14:16.320 --> 0:14:19.080 say that this isn't the case. But there is no 0:14:19.120 --> 0:14:21.800 evidence he's seen right that there is no link between 0:14:21.800 --> 0:14:26.840 mental health issues and children or teens using social media. However, 0:14:27.360 --> 0:14:31.160 it's undeniable that the algorithms that these social media companies 0:14:31.280 --> 0:14:35.880 use to target children through advertising and certain types of 0:14:36.520 --> 0:14:41.120 feeds or certain types of if you you guys know, 0:14:41.120 --> 0:14:43.000 if you click on one thing or I kind of 0:14:43.320 --> 0:14:45.040 if you even say something, I feel like, all of 0:14:45.080 --> 0:14:49.440 a sudden, my Instagram feed changes. It looks different. If 0:14:49.480 --> 0:14:51.600 I start talking about love, oh you should see all 0:14:51.640 --> 0:14:54.240 the love. How do you know your relationship? It's hilarious 0:14:54.360 --> 0:14:54.920 talk about love. 0:14:55.280 --> 0:14:56.200 Yeah, just randomly. 0:14:56.320 --> 0:14:58.560 Maybe they just yes, where am I when you talk 0:14:58.560 --> 0:15:00.440 about love with me? And so so I think my 0:15:00.480 --> 0:15:01.200 phone hears me. 0:15:02.120 --> 0:15:03.400 You're hugging all those other people. 0:15:03.560 --> 0:15:05.400 No, I just I have lots of you think it's it. 0:15:06.240 --> 0:15:08.200 I'm trying to yes, no, but I'm going to like, 0:15:08.320 --> 0:15:11.160 you know, you found you found the love of your life, 0:15:11.280 --> 0:15:13.720 if your best friend is your Like, I'm getting all 0:15:13.760 --> 0:15:17.000 of these ads and posts because somehow I've searched things 0:15:17.080 --> 0:15:20.720 or whatever. But yes, so children, even not knowing go 0:15:20.760 --> 0:15:23.720 and search something. They're being exposed to certain types of 0:15:23.720 --> 0:15:26.440 posts that they wouldn't have otherwise. And there are targeted programs. 0:15:26.480 --> 0:15:29.720 What's the what was the number of the average number 0:15:29.760 --> 0:15:32.320 of hours the four point eight the kids are on 0:15:32.680 --> 0:15:37.560 social media five hours a day. Now, let's forget the studies, 0:15:37.680 --> 0:15:40.120 let's forget the algorithms for a second, and let's just 0:15:40.120 --> 0:15:42.520 say if there is a kid out there who is twelve, thirteen, 0:15:42.640 --> 0:15:46.160 fourteen years old, and for five hours of the day 0:15:46.640 --> 0:15:49.200 they're staring at social media, that means that's five hours 0:15:49.240 --> 0:15:52.840 that they're not doing what any physical exercise, any reading 0:15:53.440 --> 0:15:56.920 of being educated necessarily, that's five hours that they're not 0:15:57.280 --> 0:16:00.240 interacting with another human being, which is right irl, which 0:16:00.280 --> 0:16:02.720 is important for social development in real life. 0:16:02.800 --> 0:16:07.400 Yes, they like you. The social awkwardness of kids is 0:16:07.720 --> 0:16:11.000 crazy to me because they only know how to not 0:16:11.080 --> 0:16:13.160 even text each other directly. No, we're going to go 0:16:13.200 --> 0:16:15.960 on Snapchat, We're going to go you know and DM 0:16:16.080 --> 0:16:18.360 but we're not going to It's almost they take one 0:16:18.400 --> 0:16:21.080 step out of it being impersonal and making it even less. 0:16:21.600 --> 0:16:27.320 But I'm scared for a lot of kids who have 0:16:27.360 --> 0:16:29.360 grown up with from the moment they were born. I mean, 0:16:29.400 --> 0:16:30.840 how many times do we see it. I'm not trying 0:16:30.840 --> 0:16:32.360 to judge here because I know it's really hard with 0:16:32.400 --> 0:16:35.120 toddlers and little kids. But we're in the greatest city 0:16:35.160 --> 0:16:36.680 in the world with so many things to look at 0:16:36.680 --> 0:16:38.840 and interact and point to, and you've got these kids 0:16:38.880 --> 0:16:42.200 and strollers with the big padded iPads with headphones on. 0:16:42.440 --> 0:16:45.880 They are in completely different universes than the ones they're 0:16:45.920 --> 0:16:49.840 actually in and they've had that since birth, which is 0:16:49.920 --> 0:16:50.680 really scary. 0:16:50.800 --> 0:16:53.680 So it's scary because Sabine is eleven and you've you've 0:16:53.720 --> 0:16:56.120 seen all these conversations. They've been difficult ones to have 0:16:56.200 --> 0:16:59.480 because some other kid has it, right, Sabine said, there's 0:16:59.520 --> 0:17:01.360 other kid it has it, so I want it so 0:17:01.400 --> 0:17:04.560 I can communicate with her. And then it's this other 0:17:04.640 --> 0:17:06.359 kid that has and it keeps going and going. And 0:17:06.400 --> 0:17:08.520 I didn't know some of these apps lets you track 0:17:09.520 --> 0:17:11.439 your friends? I didn't. I think I learned this man. 0:17:11.440 --> 0:17:14.280 At least, yes, they all emojis and you can see 0:17:14.280 --> 0:17:16.280 where they are all around the world. 0:17:16.800 --> 0:17:19.680 Okay, I didn't know that that you can actually track 0:17:19.800 --> 0:17:22.359 they they don't even text to see where their friend is. 0:17:22.720 --> 0:17:25.000 At least will pick up the phone and can see 0:17:25.040 --> 0:17:27.880 exactly where her friend is standing exactly. Okay, that's that's 0:17:27.880 --> 0:17:29.960 a little much. But but bec Murphy, I give them credit. 0:17:30.000 --> 0:17:33.240 This is somebody we've worked with over the years and 0:17:33.800 --> 0:17:36.040 have a respect for and gain and a relationship with 0:17:36.160 --> 0:17:39.119 to a certain degree. But to take this type of step, 0:17:39.200 --> 0:17:43.199 I applauded. I don't know what chance it has, but 0:17:43.280 --> 0:17:46.880 I think it's to have that conversation. It's when will 0:17:46.920 --> 0:17:49.960 we see the impact, Like when will we go finally, wow, 0:17:50.040 --> 0:17:52.760 look at this stat We got to do something about that. 0:17:52.920 --> 0:17:54.639 And then something changed. I don't know what you do. 0:18:04.000 --> 0:18:06.120 My twenty one year old and her friend were talking 0:18:06.200 --> 0:18:10.200 about how getting a flip phone is now in vogue 0:18:10.240 --> 0:18:13.480 because people are recognizing at their age that it's not 0:18:13.560 --> 0:18:15.760 healthy to always be on a smartphone, to always be 0:18:15.760 --> 0:18:18.840 looking down any free time you have instead of being bored, 0:18:19.040 --> 0:18:20.720 What can I search up? What can I look at? 0:18:20.840 --> 0:18:23.639 Who can I google? And that's really scary. And I 0:18:23.680 --> 0:18:27.679 will say this is I think Ava's eyes were opened 0:18:27.920 --> 0:18:29.560 when we went to and there aren't many places in 0:18:29.560 --> 0:18:33.359 the world hiking in the Andes Mountains and she couldn't 0:18:33.400 --> 0:18:35.040 get cell serviced and so she just had to put 0:18:35.040 --> 0:18:37.280 her phone away and she had a whole week where 0:18:37.320 --> 0:18:39.320 she had no contact and she said it was a 0:18:39.359 --> 0:18:40.680 happy at she had been. This is right in the 0:18:40.720 --> 0:18:42.840 middle of the beginning of high school. And she said, 0:18:42.880 --> 0:18:47.000 I learned that week that social media and just having 0:18:47.040 --> 0:18:50.400 constant access to that into looking and seeing what other 0:18:50.400 --> 0:18:52.800 people are doing and comparing it to has such a 0:18:52.880 --> 0:18:54.920 negative impact on my life. And so she learned from 0:18:54.920 --> 0:18:57.239 that and has really made an effort. So they were 0:18:57.240 --> 0:18:58.280 talking about flip phones. 0:18:59.440 --> 0:19:01.119 Will you will you going to go that route? 0:19:01.480 --> 0:19:03.639 I mean, Andy, you're shaking your head, you're. 0:19:03.480 --> 0:19:05.240