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Speaker 1: this episode, folks of Amy and TJ. Robes. How is

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Speaker 1: your anxiety today?

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Speaker 2: You are saying that to me because I was feeling

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Speaker 2: a little anxious and I didn't know why today. So yes,

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Speaker 2: it's elevated.

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Speaker 1: You're what's elevated, You're anxiety. So we always have it.

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Speaker 1: Yours are just elevated.

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Speaker 2: I mean maybe not. I I'm not always anxious, but

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Speaker 1: I thought that was only because you were sitting across

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Speaker 2: You were all, I know some I'm just confusing. Is

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Speaker 2: Yeah, my mom is going to freak out, but it's fine.

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Speaker 2: But we've done enough of these stories where you know,

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Speaker 2: And then I just haven't been able to shake the anxiety.

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Speaker 2: I didn't google anything, but I know enough.

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Speaker 2: breathe it out. Actually, I asked for a hug. I've

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Speaker 1: When it comes to social media, it comes to it's everywhere,

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Speaker 1: Is it weird? Can you support someone as a human

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Speaker 1: We too often like we have to. This person did

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the day, the week, the months to come.

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Speaker 1: Yes, and you know we might find out like Scheffler,

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Speaker 1: Here's the thing? We know this, don't we Do you

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Speaker 1: it's it's our responsibility to know what your kids are

436
00:20:32,000 --> 00:20:35,280
Speaker 1: doing on that phone. It just is. So we will

437
00:20:35,280 --> 00:20:37,560
Speaker 1: see what comes of that. But I applaud at least

438
00:20:37,600 --> 00:20:40,800
Speaker 1: the effort in the conversation is starting the did we

439
00:20:40,840 --> 00:20:41,919
Speaker 1: talk about the Watchers here?

440
00:20:41,920 --> 00:20:42,400
Speaker 5: Already?

441
00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:43,199
Speaker 2: We have not?

442
00:20:43,400 --> 00:20:47,960
Speaker 1: We haven't talked about the Watchers? Oh what movie? Did

443
00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:48,320
Speaker 1: we had?

444
00:20:48,359 --> 00:20:48,600
Speaker 2: Two?

445
00:20:48,760 --> 00:20:52,360
Speaker 1: We've been off Mother's Day and Father's Day. We went

446
00:20:52,400 --> 00:20:54,760
Speaker 1: and saw two movies that we normally wouldn't go to

447
00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:56,840
Speaker 1: the theater and see. So now we getting back to

448
00:20:56,840 --> 00:20:59,720
Speaker 1: our horror roots. Yes, now, okay, so we we saw.

449
00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:01,680
Speaker 1: We're very excited to see. It's been talked about for

450
00:21:01,720 --> 00:21:05,080
Speaker 1: a long time though. M Night Shmalon's daughter Yes is

451
00:21:06,080 --> 00:21:10,679
Speaker 1: twenty four and doing a feature horrid debut with the

452
00:21:10,880 --> 00:21:13,560
Speaker 1: last name shut on Nights.

453
00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:15,480
Speaker 2: A lot to live up to, a lot to live

454
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Speaker 2: up to.

455
00:21:16,400 --> 00:21:19,000
Speaker 1: That movie started out the first few minutes, we were

456
00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:21,239
Speaker 1: jumping out of our seats excited about it.

457
00:21:21,359 --> 00:21:25,760
Speaker 2: The music, the setting, the cinematography. You were just getting

458
00:21:25,800 --> 00:21:29,120
Speaker 2: swept into this other world. And Dakota Fanning, who's amazing.

459
00:21:28,800 --> 00:21:33,000
Speaker 1: That The performances are wonderful. But that is one that

460
00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:35,400
Speaker 1: a lot of people talked about that she just obviously

461
00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:37,240
Speaker 1: she got the opportunity because of her last name, and

462
00:21:37,280 --> 00:21:40,120
Speaker 1: that's okay. She's had training since birth.

463
00:21:39,880 --> 00:21:41,520
Speaker 2: Right most certainly to be.

464
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Speaker 1: A movie maker. So we saw the Watchers. But while

465
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Speaker 1: we were waiting to watch the Watchers, there was a

466
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Speaker 1: preview of another movie called Long Legs. I don't know

467
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Speaker 1: if you all have heard about this one or not yet,

468
00:21:54,359 --> 00:21:57,040
Speaker 1: but we just saw it yesterday courtesy of our superstar

469
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Speaker 1: producer here Andy. He said, hey, guys, we've got a screening.

470
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Speaker 1: Y'all want to come check it out now? I didn't

471
00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:04,200
Speaker 1: exactly know what it was about after even seeing the preview,

472
00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:05,639
Speaker 1: did you know? Abahana did not?

473
00:22:06,040 --> 00:22:07,520
Speaker 2: Nope, it just looked really scary.

474
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Speaker 1: Okay, So what is your would you say, it looked

475
00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:14,000
Speaker 1: really scary. Were you really scared sitting in there?

476
00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:16,520
Speaker 2: I had a couple jump scares. I always appreciate a few.

477
00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:18,560
Speaker 2: Andy was sitting next to me. I think he jumped

478
00:22:18,560 --> 00:22:21,439
Speaker 2: alongside me, So there were a couple were like whoa

479
00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:26,040
Speaker 2: And Nick Cage is unreal in this movie. In fact,

480
00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:28,840
Speaker 2: I didn't recognize him. I was like, wait, where's Oh

481
00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:34,200
Speaker 2: that's Nick Cage and he was in it is incredible.

482
00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:37,280
Speaker 2: I mean, so good deal didn't It took me a

483
00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:40,359
Speaker 2: while to even know in the voice everything He changed

484
00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:41,920
Speaker 2: it all and it was so creepy.

485
00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:43,720
Speaker 1: What is there? Can you think? I'm trying to think

486
00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:48,680
Speaker 1: of what was the creepiest Nick Cage performance? Like carrig,

487
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Speaker 1: I'm trying to go through his characters. I don't know

488
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Speaker 1: why this isn't a creepy one, but he was just

489
00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:55,959
Speaker 1: a character gone in sixty seconds. He was like a

490
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Speaker 1: wild dude that I really liked. His name was Memphis

491
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Speaker 1: Rains and it was just the coolest thing.

492
00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:00,600
Speaker 2: Wow.

493
00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:03,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm trying to He's had some really what about

494
00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:04,200
Speaker 1: the ghost Rider?

495
00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:07,600
Speaker 2: That was a But I don't feel like there's anything

496
00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:10,080
Speaker 2: I've seen him in that compares to what he does

497
00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:11,240
Speaker 2: in this film in Long Leves.

498
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Speaker 1: What is the name we gotta check it. What is

499
00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:17,360
Speaker 1: the name of the movie he's in in which everybody's

500
00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:19,920
Speaker 1: dreaming about him? We just saw, Oh that's so good.

501
00:23:19,920 --> 00:23:21,760
Speaker 2: I love that one. He just looks like a dorky

502
00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:23,879
Speaker 2: dad in that one. But he's amazing in that movie.

503
00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:25,800
Speaker 1: But the premise of the movie.

504
00:23:25,520 --> 00:23:29,439
Speaker 2: Everyone starts at first they're having like happy dreams about him.

505
00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:31,440
Speaker 2: So he's like a hero and people are saying, yay,

506
00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:33,840
Speaker 2: look all over the world. He becomes this famous, like

507
00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:36,840
Speaker 2: more famous and beloved than Tom Cruise, like in a moment,

508
00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:39,040
Speaker 2: and then he starts getting into their bad dreams. Then

509
00:23:39,040 --> 00:23:41,239
Speaker 2: he starts killing them in the dreams, and people are

510
00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:43,680
Speaker 2: afraid of him, and he becomes ostracized and his whole

511
00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:44,480
Speaker 2: life crumbles.

512
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Speaker 1: Amazing. Do we know the name of dream scenario? He

513
00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:48,439
Speaker 1: just dream scenario scenario.

514
00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:50,200
Speaker 2: He that's a great one.

515
00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:55,040
Speaker 1: Is a really dream scenario for sure. But this U

516
00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:58,120
Speaker 1: long legs maka Micah.

517
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Speaker 2: Is it Mica Monroe or I think that's how you

518
00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:03,320
Speaker 2: say her name. We love her. We can't pronounce her name,

519
00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:05,680
Speaker 2: but we've seen her in several films and you have

520
00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:07,840
Speaker 2: great She was great in this movie.

521
00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:09,920
Speaker 1: You all have seen her. She's in so many horror

522
00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:11,800
Speaker 1: movies and every time you see her you're like, oh,

523
00:24:11,840 --> 00:24:14,600
Speaker 1: I'll watch that. She's one of those actors who's been

524
00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:16,399
Speaker 1: in so much and you love and you respect.

525
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:17,960
Speaker 2: You can't come up with the name something the name

526
00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:20,080
Speaker 2: of the hiking one she goes on and she gets engaged,

527
00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:21,800
Speaker 2: so good. I forgot that one.

528
00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:24,639
Speaker 1: So that was our watching. But we try. We've been

529
00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:28,760
Speaker 1: trying for weeks to get ready for House of the Dragon. Yes,

530
00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:30,399
Speaker 1: we failed, we failed.

531
00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:34,360
Speaker 2: We watched the first episode of season one. We did

532
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:39,520
Speaker 2: a while. Yeah, it's so complicated, you forget how complicated

533
00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:41,639
Speaker 2: it is. And then my favorite part is after we

534
00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:45,400
Speaker 2: watched the first episode of season two this weekend, we

535
00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:47,679
Speaker 2: watched it again a second time. Think, I've had to

536
00:24:47,680 --> 00:24:49,680
Speaker 2: do this with Game of Throne so often, and then

537
00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:51,680
Speaker 2: you didn't even realize they did this. But if you

538
00:24:51,680 --> 00:24:54,159
Speaker 2: wait until after the credits, the producers come on and

539
00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:57,879
Speaker 2: really go through the episode and explain what happened. And

540
00:24:58,080 --> 00:25:00,520
Speaker 2: because that's how complicated it is, you can't just like

541
00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:02,720
Speaker 2: I applaud anyone who can just watch it once and

542
00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:06,760
Speaker 2: know exactly what happened. I need a second watch, and

543
00:25:06,800 --> 00:25:09,040
Speaker 2: then the cliff notes of them from the producers telling

544
00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:10,560
Speaker 2: me what happened that move?

545
00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:14,240
Speaker 1: That show is so good. It is okay, everybody House

546
00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:17,560
Speaker 1: of the Dragon on HBO. If you haven't seen it,

547
00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:19,879
Speaker 1: go watch the first season and then start with a

548
00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:22,040
Speaker 1: second seat. It is just wonderful.

549
00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:22,520
Speaker 3: It is.

550
00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:25,040
Speaker 2: I feel like it's a tamer version because if you

551
00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:27,520
Speaker 2: some people got really turned off when they watched the

552
00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:30,400
Speaker 2: first season of Game of Thrones because it is basically

553
00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:34,280
Speaker 2: like watching violent and then violence and then soft porn

554
00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:37,640
Speaker 2: and and incestuousness. I mean, it's tough. It's a lot.

555
00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:40,000
Speaker 1: First two or three it took me. I was not

556
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Speaker 1: going to continue with Game of Thrones.

557
00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:43,600
Speaker 2: It's a lot. Yeah, But this one, I feel like

558
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:49,320
Speaker 2: still has those elements, but it's not as intense. So

559
00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:55,560
Speaker 2: there's some well, there's softer incestuousness. It's the least. It's

560
00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:56,359
Speaker 2: not brother and sister.

561
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Speaker 1: That's not a thing.

562
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Speaker 4: Softer uncle and incestuousness. Yeah, because it's an that has

563
00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:06,359
Speaker 4: been of course I made that up. It's an uncle

564
00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:10,400
Speaker 4: with his niece versus a brother and a sister. See,

565
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Speaker 4: that's why I felt like it was a little less incestuous.

566
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Speaker 1: You can deal with that.

567
00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:18,440
Speaker 2: It's yeah, that feels less gross. It's still gross, don't

568
00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:19,000
Speaker 2: get me wrong.

569
00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:21,000
Speaker 1: But the show is. But you know what, the weird thing,

570
00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:23,359
Speaker 1: I'm not even gonna say that. It sound like a weirdo,

571
00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:26,679
Speaker 1: you know it. No matter what, I'm not gonna say it.

572
00:26:27,080 --> 00:26:29,120
Speaker 1: I'll tell you all when we started recording. But it's

573
00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:32,240
Speaker 1: that bad. I shouldn't say it because it makes me

574
00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:35,479
Speaker 1: seem odd. The last thing we want to hit on

575
00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:43,760
Speaker 1: today is that we are officially officially training for the

576
00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:49,080
Speaker 1: Chicago Marathon. It started last week. Official training, yes. And

577
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:51,679
Speaker 1: the way that goes, we had we keep the board

578
00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:53,399
Speaker 1: up in the house. We keep a sheet up. She

579
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:55,920
Speaker 1: has one in her place, I got one in mine,

580
00:26:56,280 --> 00:26:59,040
Speaker 1: and we cross it off. But we got eighteen weeks

581
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Speaker 1: of training in. This is week number two. But you

582
00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:02,960
Speaker 1: go for eighteen weeks of running.

583
00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:05,760
Speaker 2: It's kind of amazing because people, it is a daunting

584
00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:08,480
Speaker 2: thing to train for. Luckily we've been down this road.

585
00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:11,600
Speaker 2: But I have found if you just print out the

586
00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:14,920
Speaker 2: marathon training. We go with Halhigden the novice one because

587
00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:17,359
Speaker 2: I like to keep it with something that's worked. I

588
00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:21,119
Speaker 2: just stay with it. But if you just mark off

589
00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:23,560
Speaker 2: the runs, and as intimidating as they are, they build

590
00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:26,159
Speaker 2: and there's a rhyme to the reason and it works.

591
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:28,840
Speaker 2: It's worked every time. So we were actually surprised that

592
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:30,080
Speaker 2: we had to run as much as we did the

593
00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:33,040
Speaker 2: first time. We had a three, a three, a three,

594
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Speaker 2: and then a six mile and I was like, already

595
00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:37,159
Speaker 2: a six miler. Couldn't we like ease into it with

596
00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:40,200
Speaker 2: a four miler or a five? And I struggled a

597
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:42,680
Speaker 2: little bit with the six. Yeah, I was a little

598
00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:44,800
Speaker 2: slow on mile four and five. I wasn't used to it.

599
00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:48,480
Speaker 1: But we were so excited afterwards because wow, we just

600
00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:51,200
Speaker 1: knocked out six We're good because we haven't run that

601
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:54,359
Speaker 1: much since the half Maria have Marathon, so to be

602
00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:56,800
Speaker 1: back in it feels good to be on schedule, on routine.

603
00:27:57,119 --> 00:27:57,520
Speaker 1: It is great.

604
00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:00,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, and running is not like riding a bike. You

605
00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:02,800
Speaker 2: if you you have to start from scratch when you're

606
00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:04,560
Speaker 2: when you're training for these things, it's not like, oh,

607
00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:06,600
Speaker 2: well I've run this many so I'll just be good.

608
00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:06,720
Speaker 1: No.

609
00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:09,639
Speaker 2: You I have bad runs. When I have a six miler,

610
00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:11,840
Speaker 2: you know you have to really start building it back up.

611
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:13,280
Speaker 1: Was it today? Do you have a bad run?

612
00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:16,240
Speaker 2: No? Today I did. I had a great three miles.

613
00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:17,520
Speaker 2: If I had a bad run of three miles, I

614
00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:19,600
Speaker 2: mean it could happen, but that'd be really sad.

615
00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:24,600
Speaker 1: But on our three miler this well, just yes, yeah, yesterday,

616
00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:26,359
Speaker 1: right U we had a three mile yesterday?

617
00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:29,199
Speaker 2: No, you're wrongday, Today's Tuesday. So today we had a

618
00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:29,760
Speaker 2: three miler.

619
00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:30,840
Speaker 1: Today we had it.

620
00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:35,920
Speaker 2: Yes, today we had we had three three last ran today? Yes,

621
00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:38,680
Speaker 2: because you got it at four. It already feels like tomorrow.

622
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:39,120
Speaker 1: Damn.

623
00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:43,440
Speaker 2: We ran today, Yeah you rode today? We ran today?

624
00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:46,360
Speaker 1: Okay, Yes, I was had a really early run right day.

625
00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:49,800
Speaker 2: Yes, Oh my god, maybe you should get some more

626
00:28:49,840 --> 00:29:02,880
Speaker 2: sleeve hun So anyway, this week end, it's seven miles.

627
00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:05,400
Speaker 2: But along our six miler we saw.

628
00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:08,120
Speaker 1: Oh that was the six. It wasn't a three. That

629
00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:09,440
Speaker 1: was on Saturday.

630
00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 2: Yes, and I told you I was dragging a little bit,

631
00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:13,320
Speaker 2: but I know you weren't.

632
00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:15,240
Speaker 1: Really If we look it up on Strava, it wasn't bad.

633
00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:17,400
Speaker 1: But okay, I get what you're saying. You didn't feel

634
00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:19,880
Speaker 1: the way you wanted to feel. But we ended the

635
00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:24,480
Speaker 1: run and we laid eyes on somebody we hadn't laid

636
00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:29,520
Speaker 1: eyes on a while a wonderful, wonderful friend who I

637
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:33,000
Speaker 1: would also like to say is the worst friend I

638
00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:38,720
Speaker 1: think I've ever had. We are ending, right, I'm literally

639
00:29:38,760 --> 00:29:42,440
Speaker 1: stopping and stopping my Strava on my phone, and I

640
00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:45,200
Speaker 1: hear somebody run over to like coming right at me,

641
00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:49,120
Speaker 1: like a big brother, coming right at me, full speed,

642
00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:52,320
Speaker 1: coming right and getting in my face. And this is

643
00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:55,000
Speaker 1: what he said to me, keep up the pace, DJ,

644
00:29:55,520 --> 00:29:56,760
Speaker 1: all right, and kep running.

645
00:29:56,800 --> 00:29:58,960
Speaker 2: He said the exact same thing to me, because.

646
00:29:58,720 --> 00:30:02,160
Speaker 1: You were just behind, but you didn't know he came

647
00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:04,720
Speaker 1: and said the same thing to you. And as he's

648
00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:07,000
Speaker 1: running away from me, before he even got to you,

649
00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:10,080
Speaker 1: he puts his phone up in the air, like running

650
00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:12,960
Speaker 1: away from me, saying, I'm ana text you, And that's

651
00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:13,440
Speaker 1: what he said.

652
00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:14,280
Speaker 2: Has he texted you?

653
00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:18,800
Speaker 1: He has? Oh, he has, because he knew I was

654
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:22,760
Speaker 1: about to talk shit about him in this podcast. And

655
00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:23,640
Speaker 1: who are we talking about?

656
00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:25,720
Speaker 2: Robes Matt James.

657
00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:33,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, mister bachelor, mister first black bachelor.

658
00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:38,840
Speaker 3: Mister bachelor that we have gotten on and embraced him

659
00:30:39,000 --> 00:30:42,880
Speaker 3: about how much he was a great friend during some

660
00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:45,040
Speaker 3: of our lowest, lowest days.

661
00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:50,520
Speaker 2: But now that he knows we're good where's he been him?

662
00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:55,320
Speaker 1: I freaking a okay, So I don't know how what

663
00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:57,360
Speaker 1: does that say about her? Because you've said this plenty

664
00:30:57,400 --> 00:30:59,479
Speaker 1: of times during all we went through. You know who

665
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:01,840
Speaker 1: your friends are. You came out of this and there

666
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:04,640
Speaker 1: are people who's stuck by you when it was at

667
00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:07,520
Speaker 1: the absolute worst. Those are the people you know are

668
00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:11,800
Speaker 1: your friends. Problem with Matt is he only shows up

669
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:16,200
Speaker 1: when it's an emergency, which is good. That means you's

670
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:19,080
Speaker 1: a friend. He's there for in your hardest times. But

671
00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:22,160
Speaker 1: when things are good, that was like, ah, you got this,

672
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:23,640
Speaker 1: What do you say about it?

673
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:26,280
Speaker 2: Well, it's funny because we call the opposite of that,

674
00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:29,120
Speaker 2: and these are friends to be worried about, fair weather friends.

675
00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:31,680
Speaker 2: They're only there when things are good and you can

676
00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:34,600
Speaker 2: do things for them and all that. But what would

677
00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:36,480
Speaker 2: that be called? Like he's the he's like the what

678
00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:39,440
Speaker 2: is like Defcon five friend? I don't know what what

679
00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:39,880
Speaker 2: is he?

680
00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:42,640
Speaker 1: I don't know If I text him right now and say, yo, yo,

681
00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:45,080
Speaker 1: I'm going through something to rollback. I really need something

682
00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:50,880
Speaker 1: you really needs. Yeah, it's something I'm gonna I wanted

683
00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:53,200
Speaker 1: to float it, it didn't land, so I'm gonna keep

684
00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:55,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go I'm gonna still a row back. Oh

685
00:31:56,840 --> 00:31:58,880
Speaker 1: my god, So it didn't. I was trying to sneak

686
00:31:58,880 --> 00:31:59,600
Speaker 1: it in on y'all.

687
00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:01,920
Speaker 2: And y'all, would you have let me slide if I

688
00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:03,480
Speaker 2: had mispronounced your last name?

689
00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:06,560
Speaker 1: Uh? You don't ever say homes that's true?

690
00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:09,520
Speaker 2: Ever, that's true. What if I said TG.

691
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:14,160
Speaker 1: TG who's the guy that you're building? Agg ag? Then

692
00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:16,320
Speaker 1: I would have issues. Man, we get off the track

693
00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:19,760
Speaker 1: real fast. But now what do you call that? He

694
00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:23,120
Speaker 1: is there for everything you need and you'r he will

695
00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:26,080
Speaker 1: show He always always shows up. But when things are

696
00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:28,040
Speaker 1: going well and you just want to want to holler,

697
00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 1: he's back. You can't find that.

698
00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:32,120
Speaker 2: That's true. Well, you can find him on Instagram. He's

699
00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:36,320
Speaker 2: he's eating himself around the world. So it's amazing.

700
00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:40,560
Speaker 1: That's why he was out running, correct.

701
00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:42,880
Speaker 2: I mean I don't. I mean I've never seen a

702
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:43,920
Speaker 2: man eat more in my life.

703
00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:45,920
Speaker 1: You know what I am. You say whatever you want

704
00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:47,360
Speaker 1: to say about it right now. Because I told him

705
00:32:47,360 --> 00:32:49,240
Speaker 1: we were about to call him out, He's like, bring

706
00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:51,800
Speaker 1: it what he's talking to So anything you want to

707
00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:53,920
Speaker 1: get off your chest about Matt James right now, get it.

708
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:55,000
Speaker 1: Because he's welcoming it.

709
00:32:56,000 --> 00:32:59,280
Speaker 2: I think I've settled. I need to say I really

710
00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:01,400
Speaker 2: just want peace in my life. Thank you. I'm to

711
00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:02,120
Speaker 2: say peace out.

712
00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:04,760
Speaker 1: No, we love some math. It's good to reconnect with

713
00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:07,280
Speaker 1: him and the other friend we want to talk about today.

714
00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:11,120
Speaker 1: And a lot of people saw the news that a

715
00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:15,000
Speaker 1: friend of ours is retiring. Now that doesn't sound like

716
00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:16,840
Speaker 1: necessarily the biggest deal in the world, but this is

717
00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:20,280
Speaker 1: somebody who is one of the most prominent names and

718
00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:23,440
Speaker 1: voices associated with the NBA, and he has been for

719
00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:25,720
Speaker 1: forty years. And to think about the NBA without this

720
00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:29,520
Speaker 1: guy as a player or as a an analyst's kind

721
00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:32,400
Speaker 1: of unfathomable, Like he's just been such a part of

722
00:33:32,440 --> 00:33:38,440
Speaker 1: it for so long. So hats off to Charles Wade Barklay,

723
00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:41,600
Speaker 1: who announced just last week that he is going to

724
00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:46,240
Speaker 1: retire from NBA broadcasting after next season. So he'll get

725
00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:49,480
Speaker 1: his kind of farewell farewell tour. But Robes, this is

726
00:33:49,520 --> 00:33:52,480
Speaker 1: something you've only been hanging out with Chuck for the

727
00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:55,880
Speaker 1: past against a couple of years with me. But he's

728
00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:57,920
Speaker 1: somebody who's been a friend of mine of seventeen eighteen years.

729
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:02,760
Speaker 1: You have heard him even the past two years. How

730
00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:06,560
Speaker 1: he talks about retirement, talks about wanting to finally stop working.

731
00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:08,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, and so you know what good for him? He

732
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:11,960
Speaker 2: loves to golf, he loves to travel, he loves his family.

733
00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:14,040
Speaker 2: So this is gonna be great. I don't know. I

734
00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:16,760
Speaker 2: can't imagine him. I mean, you said you can slowing

735
00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:19,239
Speaker 2: down and saying I'm done with this. But he is

736
00:34:19,360 --> 00:34:21,800
Speaker 2: always just going, going, going going. I mean, he holds

737
00:34:21,800 --> 00:34:24,640
Speaker 2: court wherever he goes. I mean, and I think that'll

738
00:34:24,640 --> 00:34:26,520
Speaker 2: probably always be the case. So will he ever really

739
00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:29,719
Speaker 2: get to relax? Because he walks into any room anywhere,

740
00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:34,319
Speaker 2: and he is, yes, the most important, most interesting person

741
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:36,080
Speaker 2: in the room. But he's just got such a great

742
00:34:36,960 --> 00:34:41,759
Speaker 2: I love what he does for sports commentary. I've obviously

743
00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:43,160
Speaker 2: been watching it a lot more than I ever have

744
00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:46,480
Speaker 2: in my life since dating you. But he just I

745
00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:50,040
Speaker 2: love his plane speak. He just says it exactly like

746
00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:54,200
Speaker 2: he sees it. He doesn't try to sound like the

747
00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:56,560
Speaker 2: smartest person in the room. He doesn't try to sound

748
00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:59,520
Speaker 2: like he's trying to impress anyone. He just says what

749
00:34:59,600 --> 00:35:01,799
Speaker 2: he thinks and more importantly, what he knows. Because he's

750
00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:05,799
Speaker 2: earned the right to have that kind of commentary. He

751
00:35:05,960 --> 00:35:08,400
Speaker 2: just doesn't need to prove anything, and that's such a

752
00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:10,839
Speaker 2: great place to be and he's such a pleasure to watch.

753
00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:11,720
Speaker 2: So he will be missed.

754
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:14,920
Speaker 1: And you know you said that, the part about not

755
00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:18,000
Speaker 1: trying to prove he's smarter than anybody, and I've always look,

756
00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:19,719
Speaker 1: I'll take the opportunity publicly to say this, I'll talk

757
00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:21,759
Speaker 1: to him about it privately all the time. But I

758
00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:24,279
Speaker 1: hate that he gets a reputation of people thinks he's

759
00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:28,840
Speaker 1: a dumb jock or think he's just write some fat OVERWEG,

760
00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:31,480
Speaker 1: just hot dog eatn just blabermouth type of thing. And

761
00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:36,319
Speaker 1: I think he I think he's even made some money

762
00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:38,600
Speaker 1: off some of that over the years, right with certain

763
00:35:38,640 --> 00:35:41,839
Speaker 1: commercials with some advertise just coming after him or wanting

764
00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:43,640
Speaker 1: him to be a part. But he is one of

765
00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:46,000
Speaker 1: the sharpest dudes I know, and he is so in

766
00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:48,440
Speaker 1: tune with business, he's in tune with culture, he's in

767
00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:50,880
Speaker 1: tune with what's going on in news. And so I

768
00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:53,000
Speaker 1: always hated when any time he got that because I

769
00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:55,160
Speaker 1: have not made a decision in the past seventeen to

770
00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:58,640
Speaker 1: eighteen years without consulting with not a major decision without

771
00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:01,160
Speaker 1: consulting with him on it, and the things that have

772
00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:04,120
Speaker 1: gone bad are the ones I didn't consult with him about.

773
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:06,319
Speaker 2: Wow, what does he have to say about us?

774
00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:08,279
Speaker 1: See? I didn't consult with him ahead of time.

775
00:36:10,840 --> 00:36:11,840
Speaker 2: He knew I was going to ask that.

776
00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:13,560
Speaker 1: You know what, I didn't pulled. I thought about this

777
00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:15,960
Speaker 1: earlier and didn't pull Chuck as out and say, hey,

778
00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:19,200
Speaker 1: this is happening with me, and this is happening. What

779
00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:21,200
Speaker 1: do you think I should do? And I, you know,

780
00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:23,160
Speaker 1: next time with him, we should ask what his advice

781
00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:26,720
Speaker 1: would have been, but he I didn't, But I trust

782
00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:29,280
Speaker 1: him in that kind of way. He's just a sharp,

783
00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:33,399
Speaker 1: sharp dude. So leaving yeah, T and T says he's

784
00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:35,400
Speaker 1: not going anywhere. The speculation that he's going to go

785
00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:36,759
Speaker 1: with other places, and this is just a part of

786
00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:39,360
Speaker 1: a ploy and he's not really going to retire. The

787
00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:42,239
Speaker 1: dude wants to just enjoy. He's made enough money, he's

788
00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:44,360
Speaker 1: lived enough life, and he wants to enjoy that life.

789
00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:46,239
Speaker 1: So Chuck, we love your brother, and we will see

790
00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:47,880
Speaker 1: you back here. We're still holding on to your wine.

791
00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:51,239
Speaker 2: And oh, yeah, well, well my dad had a bottle. Yeah,

792
00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:52,759
Speaker 2: he really enjoyed it.

793
00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:56,040
Speaker 1: Better get here before dad gets back, because we don't

794
00:36:56,040 --> 00:36:57,240
Speaker 1: buy that fin of stuff.

795
00:36:57,440 --> 00:36:58,640
Speaker 2: No, we don't know, we don't.

796
00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:01,719
Speaker 1: But but yeah, good luck to your brother. We will

797
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:06,880
Speaker 1: see you plenty of course. But the NBA is losinggend,

798
00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:09,640
Speaker 1: a legend, one of the best to ever play the game,

799
00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:11,799
Speaker 1: one of the best. We forget that because a lot

800
00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:14,239
Speaker 1: of kids who like m was over there looking. I mean,

801
00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:16,640
Speaker 1: you know who Charles Barkley is, though, Do you ever

802
00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:17,480
Speaker 1: watch him?

803
00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:21,279
Speaker 2: Yes? I love seeing him on the TV basketball?

804
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:24,439
Speaker 1: Do you where? Do you where does a twenty two

805
00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:29,279
Speaker 1: year old see Charles Barkley if you're not watching NBA.

806
00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:33,560
Speaker 2: Basketball online but mostly next to my dad watching sports.

807
00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:36,520
Speaker 1: Ah, And what does your dad tell you about Charles Barklay.

808
00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:40,759
Speaker 5: He loves him, he would love to be his friend, but.

809
00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:43,520
Speaker 1: Had no idea that he was the round mound to rebound.

810
00:37:43,560 --> 00:37:46,480
Speaker 1: He is a eleven time NBA All Star, he was

811
00:37:46,520 --> 00:37:49,040
Speaker 1: the MVP in the early nineties, went to the NBA.

812
00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 1: All right, all these things about him. He was just

813
00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:54,399
Speaker 1: a great, great, great basketball player. So we gotta miss

814
00:37:54,480 --> 00:37:56,080
Speaker 1: Chuck on the air, but we'll see him playing.

815
00:37:56,080 --> 00:37:57,640
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, he's going to be a great, great, great

816
00:37:57,680 --> 00:37:59,400
Speaker 2: great friend. Now he's going to have a lot of

817
00:37:59,400 --> 00:37:59,839
Speaker 2: free time.

818
00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:02,400
Speaker 1: Well, he's always been a better friend than Matt James.

819
00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:05,319
Speaker 1: Let's just make that care. Chuck will show up Rain.

820
00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:07,400
Speaker 1: He actually prefers to be with me when things are

821
00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:11,720
Speaker 1: going great, yes, because we party. Yeah, and when things

822
00:38:11,760 --> 00:38:14,440
Speaker 1: go bad, he'll show up as well. Folks. That's what

823
00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:17,760
Speaker 1: we got for it. We appreciate you all listening as always.

824
00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:20,960
Speaker 1: You can find us, of course on Instagram, the official show,

825
00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:23,759
Speaker 1: pa at Amy and TJ Podcast. But from now, bro,

826
00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:26,920
Speaker 1: I leave them with something, give them something profound. Y'allhould

827
00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:28,759
Speaker 1: see her face. I'm so sorry to do you like that.

828
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:30,719
Speaker 2: And you'd chose to do this on a day when

829
00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:34,400
Speaker 2: I had anxiety?

830
00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:40,399
Speaker 1: See this, right, isn't this the thing? We go to

831
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:42,880
Speaker 1: it so easily? There are people who are really dealing

832
00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:47,640
Speaker 1: with anxiety and depression, real things, and you just want

833
00:38:47,640 --> 00:38:48,400
Speaker 1: to play the card.

834
00:38:50,040 --> 00:38:57,840
Speaker 2: Alright, Oh my goodness, I just say, stay cool, everyone.

835
00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:59,160
Speaker 1: Okay, we're gonna go hug get out. We'll see y'all

836
00:38:59,160 --> 00:38:59,600
Speaker 1: next time.

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