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Speaker 1: Hey everybody. I'm Jenny Garth and I am joined today

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Speaker 1: on the Mommy and Me podcast by my me. This

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Speaker 1: is my little me.

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Speaker 2: Hi, I'm the me. I'm Luca Bella. I'm Jenny's oldest daughter.

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Speaker 1: You're my first little baby me. Yes, it's your first,

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Speaker 1: my first born. We are taking over Bethany's podcast today.

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Speaker 1: This is pretty fun.

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Speaker 2: It's just like hanging out. Though I purposely didn't call

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Speaker 2: you earlier because I was like, we gotta have some

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Speaker 2: juice for the for the pod. I call you like

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Speaker 2: choice to day three times a day before before noon.

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Speaker 1: For those of the of you that don't know, Luca

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Speaker 1: is living in New York City now and I'm living

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Speaker 1: in California, So we're a by coastal mommy and me.

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Speaker 2: Longest and relationship. We make it work.

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Speaker 1: We make it work.

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Speaker 2: We we're honestly together a lot.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. We zoom while I'm driving, which is probably not

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Speaker 1: a good idea. We zoom while we're making dinner at

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Speaker 1: our different houses. Anytime you go on the subway, I

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Speaker 1: feel like you zoom me because then I have a

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Speaker 1: panic attack.

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Speaker 2: Also, it's like very loud and you're like, why are

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Speaker 2: you going me? At the loudest moment.

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Speaker 1: That's the worst. But every time you go to the

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Speaker 1: subway and you're I can hear you like click click click,

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Speaker 1: like walking downstairs. I can hear like the thing, like

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Speaker 1: the money when you put the card, and the like

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Speaker 1: turnstile thing. And then I can hear you standing there waiting,

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Speaker 1: and my mind is just racing with all the bad

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Speaker 1: things that could happen to you down there. And then

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Speaker 1: this is the best part. We'll be talking mid sentence,

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Speaker 1: I'll just lose you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll cut out. Yeah, sorry, let the subway.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, But you know what happens to my mommy

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Speaker 1: brain at that point, I'm like full blown panic. What

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Speaker 1: someone's pushed her onto the tracks, There's been a gunfight,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I think of the worst possible scenarios

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Speaker 1: when that happens.

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Speaker 2: Usually I'm just hanging up on you. I'm sorry. I

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Speaker 2: do abruptly out a lot.

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Speaker 1: Oh, well, you are a big girl. I guess I

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Speaker 1: should let you take the subway.

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Speaker 2: I you know, I am out here hustling. I'm out

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Speaker 2: here grinding, so every day you never.

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Speaker 1: Know, You're not kidding. Living in New York City is

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Speaker 1: a ussle. It's a grind.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. They say that New York is hard on the body,

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Speaker 2: but Ela is hard on the soul. They say, I've

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Speaker 2: heard that. I think it's funny because La is a

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Speaker 2: little dryer. I feel like New York you just get

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Speaker 2: like so much culture and so much you know, energy.

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Speaker 2: So I feel like it's a really good place for

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Speaker 2: me at this chapter in my life, but definitely definitely

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Speaker 2: a harder place to live.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Every time I come to visit you in New

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Speaker 1: York's city, we walk at least fourteen thousand steps in

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Speaker 2: Well, I feel like I'm hard on you, and we

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Speaker 2: come because I really love to walk, so you do,

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Speaker 2: Oh it's only two blocks away, and then I'll there

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Speaker 2: minutes later. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: The thing we all know about you is you lie

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Speaker 1: about how far our destination is. Because you'll say it's

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Speaker 1: two blocks, and in two blocks, I'll be like, are

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Speaker 1: two more blocks. And that happens over and over and over,

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Speaker 1: and Yeah. I don't know why you do that. I

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Speaker 1: guess you don't want me to know how far it is,

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Speaker 2: I feel like it feels like two blocks to me,

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Speaker 2: but to other people.

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Speaker 1: Well, your legs are really long, right, and you are

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Speaker 1: so used to that life, like I'm used to getting

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Speaker 2: I feel like you have a pretty good setup when

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Speaker 2: you ride around. You have your music, you have your dogs,

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Speaker 2: like I wish I'm fighting to the New York cold.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I have a lot of respect for you, Luca.

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Speaker 1: I mean I have a lot of respect for you

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Speaker 1: just because you're amazing, but also because you make living

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Speaker 2: To My mom is telling me I should start like

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Speaker 2: a TikTok on how to live in New York for

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Speaker 1: I definitely yeah, tell them.

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Speaker 2: I've been known to stretch a dollar in New York City.

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Speaker 1: You are a magician when it comes to cash money, Like,

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Speaker 1: I don't know how you do it. You don't. This

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because you killer problem.

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Speaker 1: But where do you think that that ability came from?

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Speaker 2: You're good a budget. You always taught me to be

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Speaker 2: smart with money, But I just also just like I

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Speaker 2: feel like I have like a less a zest for life,

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Speaker 2: Like I like to like do a lot. So it's

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Speaker 2: about like getting as much done as possible, and you know,

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Speaker 2: you got to stretch it when you can.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but you can get into any door with that

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Speaker 1: smile of yours and your personality. You can get into

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Speaker 1: do it. You're a master at all of that. I

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Speaker 1: have a lot of respect for you.

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Speaker 2: I have a lot of respect for you. I feel

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Speaker 2: like that's one of my favorite things about our adult

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Speaker 2: mother daughter relationship is that it's founded on really great

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Speaker 2: mutual respect. And I don't really know when that started.

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Speaker 2: Do you remember, because I feel like we've always been

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Speaker 2: really close. But I feel like as I've gotten older

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Speaker 2: and you've gotten older, it's just really deepened in a

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Speaker 2: really beautiful way.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, first of all, I haven't gotten older.

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Speaker 2: You are a rich one. No.

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Speaker 1: I We've always had such a good relationship. You were

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Speaker 1: the baby, you were the first child that your dad

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Speaker 1: and I had, and we were so young, Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: So it was like we were growing up together. I

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Speaker 1: think that's probably one of the things that bonded us

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Speaker 1: the most, and when I had you, like nothing else mattered.

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Speaker 1: All that mattered was spending time with you. So we

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Speaker 2: But I still feel like you're that way, like anytime

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Speaker 2: we have time off or any time you're not working,

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Speaker 2: like we're together or we're making plans to meet up

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Speaker 2: somewhere and have an adventure, Like I think that's something

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Speaker 2: you really made a value in your motherhood, is presence

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Speaker 2: and being there and always showing up. And yeah, I

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Speaker 2: just really am inspired by that.

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Speaker 1: Oh thanks Lou. Yeah, it's really hard on me having

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Speaker 1: you live in New York, I'll be honest, but you

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Speaker 1: already know that I tried not to put it on you.

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Speaker 2: I love how you text me every night or at

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Speaker 2: least every day once a day and like saco nay

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Speaker 2: or check in. Like, I still feel like you're very

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Speaker 2: present in my life.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I think that's called helicopter mom.

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Speaker 2: No, I think you're the opposite. I don't think you

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Speaker 2: ever were like super involved in like my decisions. I

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Speaker 2: think you're very like hands off, And that's going back

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Speaker 2: to the mutual respect thing. It's like you just trust

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Speaker 2: me to make the best decisions for myself. And yeah,

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Speaker 2: I just I love your parenting style. I hope if

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Speaker 2: I'm ever a mommy that can be as good mommy

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Speaker 2: as you thought.

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Speaker 1: I can't wait till you're a mommy.

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Speaker 2: Told me many times. I'm alone.

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Speaker 1: I like babies.

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Speaker 2: No no, no, no, no, you're right, just wait, keep waiting.

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Speaker 1: But going back to that thing about parenting, I I

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Speaker 1: was looking through my old journals the other day and

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Speaker 1: I saw this part about like I don't know, I

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Speaker 1: was talking about being a parent, and I was kind

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Speaker 1: of defined my rule as a parent. It's if I

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Speaker 1: imagine a ping No, no, what's that thing? Your dad

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Speaker 1: has one with Elvis on it? The machine, the.

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Speaker 2: Player ping pong ball, pinball.

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Speaker 1: Pinball, pinball, Yes, if you have a okay, So it's

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Speaker 1: like a pinball machine, right, and I'm standing I'm playing it,

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Speaker 1: and I'm standing there, and I have the two buttons

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Speaker 1: on the side and they control the flippers.

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 1: So I launched you out, No, no, no, I can

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Speaker 1: only flippers. I launched you out of the huote that

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Speaker 1: little thing you pull back and you're like ding. And

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Speaker 1: when you go into the world into the ping ball machine,

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Speaker 1: and you ding did ding ding ding, did ding ding

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Speaker 1: I'm right there to push my little flippers to like

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Speaker 1: get you back up there. And I feel like that's all.

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Speaker 1: That's all I'm supposed to do as a mom, is

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Speaker 1: to help you and keep you from falling down on

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Speaker 2: I don't want to fall down there.

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Speaker 1: No, So that's that's my parenting analogy for the day.

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Speaker 1: You're welcome.

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Speaker 2: No, it's really really true, and I think it's kind

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Speaker 2: you know, even family members where their parents are way

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Speaker 2: more involved, and I feel like you're just what you said,

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Speaker 2: like somebody to kind of like support but not be

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Speaker 1: You know, I have so much respect for each of

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Speaker 1: you are capable of, and I know what each of

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Speaker 1: your strong suits are and where you need a little

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Speaker 1: a healthy mother daughter relationship because I'm not as much

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Speaker 1: your mommy now as I am your friend or your

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Speaker 1: sort of mentor kind of a vibe. And I really

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I'm the oldest, so I feel like you

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Speaker 2: kind of spread us each like there's five years kind

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Speaker 2: feel like, is that hard for you as a mom

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Speaker 2: to like hit our different needs at different times? You

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Speaker 2: have no idea? So I feel like I always kept

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Speaker 2: more in the childhood world for a long time because

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Speaker 2: we're very siblings. Like Sanna came until I was like

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Speaker 2: twenty one. You know it still come.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, you've got five years. First of all, you

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Speaker 1: got five years completely on your own, best years ever know,

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Speaker 1: before your first sister Lola came along. No, but you

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Speaker 1: say always that's the best gift you ever got.

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Speaker 2: Best gift I ever got. And it's funny because when

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Speaker 2: a big sister, Like you'll have her as a best

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Speaker 1: Well you, that's the thing about you, You, Luca, are

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Speaker 1: Well, I feel like I've always taught you guys that

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Speaker 1: read so early, remember, I.

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Speaker 2: Know, and you were working a lot when I was

440
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Speaker 2: very very little. So if we have anything maybe grateful

441
00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:02,280
Speaker 2: for it is that she was right there and she

442
00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:05,360
Speaker 2: was very present and helpful for you when we were

443
00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:08,960
Speaker 2: working so hard. And yeah, that's another huge reason that

444
00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:10,760
Speaker 2: I have a lot of respect for you, is because

445
00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:13,800
Speaker 2: you were a super mom, Like you were literally taking

446
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Speaker 2: me to set with you and making time to be

447
00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:21,440
Speaker 2: a mother amongst like the craziness of filming, the long

448
00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:23,359
Speaker 2: hours that you did when you're shooting now, I don't know,

449
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Speaker 2: you know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I would wake you up at like five am.

451
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Speaker 1: We'll try to not wake you up at one month old. Yeah,

452
00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:34,439
Speaker 1: get you strapped into a car seat in the dark,

453
00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:39,320
Speaker 1: take you to work in the dark. And you're Nina.

454
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Speaker 1: Who when when Mimi wasn't on the job, it was Nina.

455
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Speaker 1: And Nina's been with us and she's helped me raise

456
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Speaker 1: you girls. She's like a second mom to me and

457
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Speaker 1: I know to you guys.

458
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Speaker 2: But for Mother's Day, we celebrate you Mina and me.

459
00:24:57,200 --> 00:25:12,800
Speaker 2: That's right anyway. So yeah, you'd take me to work

460
00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:15,480
Speaker 2: with you, which is crazy because you were literally working

461
00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:17,240
Speaker 2: on a teen show. So that must have been like

462
00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:19,320
Speaker 2: the disorienting so weird.

463
00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:22,800
Speaker 1: I was, like, you know, Kelly Taylor, like hot stuff,

464
00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:26,400
Speaker 1: And meantime, my boobs were hurting because it was time

465
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Speaker 1: to go back to the trailer and feed you.

466
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Speaker 2: Like.

467
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Speaker 1: It was really the weirdest time for me because I

468
00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:35,879
Speaker 1: didn't I didn't have the same identity that I had

469
00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:40,200
Speaker 1: a month earlier, and I and nobody.

470
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Speaker 2: Was your like maternal leave or like break or did

471
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Speaker 2: you not want one?

472
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Speaker 1: Literally? Man, Yeah, for all of you, I think, oh

473
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:51,080
Speaker 1: except Fiona. I had a little more time with Fiona

474
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Speaker 1: before I went back to work. But yeah, it was

475
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Speaker 1: like I was living two lives. I was living like

476
00:25:58,040 --> 00:26:02,240
Speaker 1: the life of you know, young little starlet Kelly Taylor whatever,

477
00:26:02,359 --> 00:26:04,880
Speaker 1: playing actress. And then I.

478
00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:07,880
Speaker 2: Would whatever drama she was going through, Yeah, she went

479
00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:08,280
Speaker 2: through it.

480
00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:12,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, And then I would after they would call cut,

481
00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:16,359
Speaker 1: I would run literally back to wherever you were the

482
00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:20,159
Speaker 1: baby trailer and I would be like, Okay, let me

483
00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:22,240
Speaker 1: give her to me, let me feed her, like I

484
00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:24,760
Speaker 1: wanted to be with you all the time.

485
00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:29,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, you made me a priority, which is kind of

486
00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:32,520
Speaker 2: going back to choosing, like what was important to you,

487
00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:36,760
Speaker 2: and you just chose to have me be part of

488
00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:40,159
Speaker 2: the deal. You know, I was going it was a

489
00:26:40,200 --> 00:26:44,880
Speaker 2: two for Yeah. And you did that with Lola too,

490
00:26:44,920 --> 00:26:47,560
Speaker 2: which is like, it's just hard to be working mom.

491
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Speaker 2: A lot of them, a lot of moms have to

492
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Speaker 2: go through that, like balancing work and real life.

493
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Speaker 1: It's so so much more than people even know or

494
00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:02,520
Speaker 1: give it, give women and mom's credit for. And I

495
00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:04,960
Speaker 1: was so fortunate and blessed to be able to take

496
00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:09,040
Speaker 1: my girls with me to work and bring someone along

497
00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:11,760
Speaker 1: like Nina or Mimi to help me while when I

498
00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:15,920
Speaker 1: did have to go to set, and I was very

499
00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:18,200
Speaker 1: fortunate to be in that position, because so often women

500
00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:21,280
Speaker 1: aren't able to take their children to work with them,

501
00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:26,120
Speaker 1: or there's no childcare available. And I think that that's

502
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Speaker 1: something we should all We should definitely change, you know,

503
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:35,680
Speaker 1: societal because babies belong with their mommies. Yeah.

504
00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:37,320
Speaker 2: Still, I still feel like I.

505
00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:43,080
Speaker 1: Could talk to you all day long, Luca Bella.

506
00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:44,560
Speaker 2: I feel like we usually do.

507
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:49,480
Speaker 1: Did you know your name is Luca Bella?

508
00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:52,000
Speaker 2: Okay, so that this is actually a problem in my

509
00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 2: life because my parents have given me an identity crisis.

510
00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:57,639
Speaker 2: Who were like, I don't know how to spell my

511
00:27:57,720 --> 00:28:01,760
Speaker 2: name and my mom spells it because.

512
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Speaker 1: Your dad and I. Another one of the things that

513
00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:04,879
Speaker 1: we don't agree with.

514
00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:11,040
Speaker 2: Is giving me some very difficult paperwork and legal issues,

515
00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:12,639
Speaker 2: all thanks to you.

516
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:18,199
Speaker 1: Well, your name is Luca Bella, girth Faction Elli. And

517
00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:19,840
Speaker 1: don't you forget it.

518
00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:24,119
Speaker 2: It's a full title. Your name is Jennifer Eve Garth.

519
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:26,200
Speaker 2: That's it, Abrams.

520
00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:37,840
Speaker 1: No, Well, I guess marital maritally legal, yes, But I

521
00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:39,880
Speaker 1: kept I always kept my own name. I hope you

522
00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:40,680
Speaker 1: guys will too.

523
00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:44,160
Speaker 2: Because yeah, that's your title. Yeah.

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00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:46,680
Speaker 1: I don't really get why a woman needs to give

525
00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:50,120
Speaker 1: up her name just because she gets married. That's never

526
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:50,800
Speaker 1: made sense to me.

527
00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:55,160
Speaker 2: Sometimes peopel like the sound the ring of a new

528
00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:58,960
Speaker 2: last that's something fun, Like what if you were like

529
00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:02,280
Speaker 2: Jennifer Jones. There's something like really fun. I don't know.

530
00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:05,280
Speaker 1: And it's your choice. You can change your name, whatever

531
00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:05,840
Speaker 1: you want.

532
00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:08,240
Speaker 2: To choose, whatever you want to choose, you to choose

533
00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:13,960
Speaker 2: whatever shipped to steer h But I'm just really excited

534
00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:17,600
Speaker 2: for all that to come, and hopefully I did a

535
00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:19,240
Speaker 2: good job and you'll have me on.

536
00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:24,120
Speaker 1: Yes, you've you've passed, you've passed the audition. You've won

537
00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:28,120
Speaker 1: the role as my daughter.

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00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:31,520
Speaker 2: I love you, I love you.