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Speaker 1: The Jewel Show on demand. It's The Jewel Show and

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Speaker 1: let's just get right into it on screen. Phone calls,

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Speaker 1: call up, talk about whatever you want. The show is

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Speaker 1: yours and it's the first one of the New Years.

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Speaker 1: So let's see how it goes. Hey, what's up? Who's this? Oh?

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Speaker 1: This is Sarah. Oh, this is Sarah. How are you doing?

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Speaker 1: Hi Sarah? Good morning, good, not too bad. So what

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Speaker 1: do you want to talk about today? The show is

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Speaker 1: now The Sarah Show. Go for it? So great. Um,

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Speaker 1: I just think it's so funny. So I want that work.

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Speaker 1: And I had my AirPod in my sweatshirt pocket, and

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Speaker 1: you know, I had to go to the bathroom and

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Speaker 1: my AirPod flipped out of my sweatshirt and I slush

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Speaker 1: them down the toilet. So, oh, if you have air pod,

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Speaker 1: you know, don't put them in your sweatshirt. Oh, man,

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Speaker 1: flush them. Damn it hurts. Okay, did you reach in

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Speaker 1: and try to grab them or you know, like out

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Speaker 1: of a reaction, just reach down and try to grab

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Speaker 1: them real quick before they flushed down, and then pull

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Speaker 1: away like no, I'm not reaching in the toilet. You know,

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Speaker 1: I grew up in a really messy sildhood. So my

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Speaker 1: hand I was so ready to go dig in for them,

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Speaker 1: but they were gone. They reacting. Well, there you go.

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Speaker 1: There's some good advice. Don't get your AirPods near the toilet. Igin.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to a podcast and you're like, god, it

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Speaker 1: was just getting good. Call us up eighty eight three

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Speaker 1: three one oh six one. If you've always had a

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Speaker 1: podcast but didn't have the time, congratulations, this is now

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Speaker 1: your podcast. It's on screen phone calls. You can talk

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Speaker 1: about whatever you want. Hello. Who's this? Uh? This is Brian. Hello, Brian,

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Speaker 1: how are you today? I'm okay. Well that's better than

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Speaker 1: not okay, So sure is what's up? Man? What do

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Speaker 1: you want to talk about? Okay? So I could use

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Speaker 1: some advice on a problem I've had for a really

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Speaker 1: long time. Um, I have this friend that I've known

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Speaker 1: for almost ten plusy years. Okay, and as this crush

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Speaker 1: on her the entire time. Thanks, whoa. Okay, so you've

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Speaker 1: had a crush on this person for the entire ten

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Speaker 1: years that you've known them, and they're a friend of

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Speaker 1: yours practically. Yeah, okay. I'm also married and have a family.

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Speaker 1: Oh so, what's the advice you're looking for? I just

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Speaker 1: don't know how to like change or get over this situation.

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Speaker 1: I've tried so many ways of just like going cold turkeys,

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Speaker 1: like ghosting, not talking to this person anymore, and I

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Speaker 1: like the feelings. I'm just ever subsided. Okay, did you

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Speaker 1: know this person before you met your wife? Yeah? Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: So at this point, who do you like more? I

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Speaker 1: think that's important. You know, you have to decide if

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Speaker 1: you're going to put that energy into your wife or

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Speaker 1: if you're going to pursue your friend. So I think

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Speaker 1: you have to decide that first. The other thing, too,

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Speaker 1: is that my friend is also not into guys. She

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Speaker 1: was the guys when I met her, and just we've

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Speaker 1: had had this weird, flirty relationship the entire time where

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Speaker 1: it's like we just tell each other everything and we

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Speaker 1: could be as open as possible. And when I met her,

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Speaker 1: I was in a different relationship than my wife, and

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Speaker 1: when ended, we actually did hook up once. Oh okay,

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Speaker 1: so you have hooked up once. You have a lot

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Speaker 1: of hurdles facing you. I need to start a list

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Speaker 1: of thanks to take that consideration. Christian is out a

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Speaker 1: question for a minute, because he's been trying. He's trying

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Speaker 1: to try and ask you something. Go for it, well,

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Speaker 1: I originally because I'm always like putting your put yourself

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Speaker 1: in someone else's shoes, you know. So if you found

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Speaker 1: out that your wife had secret feelings and a crush

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Speaker 1: for someone for the last ten years, you got to

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Speaker 1: think about how much that would probably hurt. So I

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Speaker 1: originally was going to say, have a conversation with her

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Speaker 1: and be honest, because it's only fair to her. However,

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Speaker 1: I also don't think you should risk it for someone

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Speaker 1: that is a lesbian. Yeah, so the woman that you

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Speaker 1: have a go ahead, Sorry, Brian, go for it. It's

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Speaker 1: super complicated because it would never happen anyway, even if

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Speaker 1: I wanted to. Two would never happen, right, okay, And

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Speaker 1: that she's on the rocks, that her relationship with her girlfriend,

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Speaker 1: and that she might even be in the guy, I'm like, oh, Brian,

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Speaker 1: you are in a very tough spot. All right. I'll

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Speaker 1: give you some advice and then I want you to

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Speaker 1: think about it if you even want to use it,

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Speaker 1: and then if you do use it, call back and

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Speaker 1: let me know if it helped you. Okay, because you're

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Speaker 1: still like in between two worlds. You're stuck, and you

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Speaker 1: want to drop those feelings for the woman that you

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Speaker 1: have whatever it is, like, i'll just call it infatuation

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Speaker 1: for ten years, right, and you love your wife and

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Speaker 1: you want to stay with your wife. She probably has

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Speaker 1: something that attracts you that your wife either doesn't have

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Speaker 1: or that you don't see in your wife. So take

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Speaker 1: the time to think about that, find what that thing is,

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Speaker 1: and maybe your wife actually does have that, and then

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Speaker 1: you highlight that in your wife and oh, hey, I

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Speaker 1: actually have everything I need Now that person is just

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Speaker 1: a friend. You're able to drop those feelings or change

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Speaker 1: the feelings to your wife. I'm not saying it's simple.

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Speaker 1: I'm saying it's really hard to do. But if you

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Speaker 1: spend some time and think about it and boil it down,

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Speaker 1: you might be able to figure out what that thing

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Speaker 1: is because there's something that is keeping you thinking about

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Speaker 1: that one. I feel like my wife also has a

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Speaker 1: crush on her woll then hey, I've got another price

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Speaker 1: of advice for you. And that's just the curves. The curves, yea,

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Speaker 1: the story. We have to go because it's time for

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Speaker 1: the phone prank. Yeah, and Bennett just called her right there.

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Speaker 1: If you think your wife is also into her, then

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Speaker 1: just hey, ask your wife and go, hey, what do

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Speaker 1: you think about maybe, um, we all just hang out

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Speaker 1: and have fun and yeah, let's watch the show's sister

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Speaker 1: wives and hang out. Thanks Brian, good luck, Colin. Let

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Speaker 1: us know how things go. Okay, did Jebel show on

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