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Speaker 1: If you found out your best friend is about to

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Can you congratulate them before they get proposed to? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's a good that's a good rule. Just in jail,

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Speaker 1: don't anything. I'm one of our listeners doesn't want to

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Speaker 1: ruin the surprise. In fact, she wants to stop the

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Speaker 1: proposal from happening altogether. Whoa And she has a pretty

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Speaker 1: valid reason for it, but needs our help. Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: don't worry. She's not in love with the guy too.

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Speaker 1: It's not that but it is a delicate situation. Can

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Speaker 1: we assist without destroying their friendship in the process. We're

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Speaker 1: going to try an obtextual healing.

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Speaker 3: Next, Text you will heal, Then text you will know.

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Speaker 1: A lot of the times on this show we try

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Speaker 1: to help people improve their dating lives. I love that Well,

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Speaker 1: today is a little bit different. Brook's wishes have finally

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Speaker 1: come true. We're actually going to try and block love today.

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Speaker 1: That's what one of our listeners, Emily, wants us to do.

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Speaker 4: I love love. Yeah, why do you always say that

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Speaker 4: about me?

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Speaker 1: Well, you're always trying to stop people from going out,

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Speaker 1: but Emily, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 4: Hi, Hi Emily.

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Speaker 5: I think Brook, like all of us, tries to help,

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Speaker 5: but we don't end up being very successful.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes that's okay.

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Speaker 4: Speak for yourself, Emily, what do you need?

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Speaker 1: Doesn't that sound so sweet? And help for yourself? What

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Speaker 1: do you need? Emily? Thank you for emailing this show.

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Speaker 1: Tell us a little bit about your love situation and

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Speaker 1: how we can help destroy it for you. What's going on?

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Speaker 6: Well, I have a really close friend. Her name is Kaylee.

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Speaker 6: I've known her for a long time. I love her

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Speaker 6: like a sister.

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Speaker 4: That's so great to have those type of friendships.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, sound like a yes.

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Speaker 4: No.

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Speaker 6: I love Kaylee. She's my best friend. And she's been

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Speaker 6: in a relationship with a guy for almost two years now.

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Speaker 1: Uh Okay, she loves.

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Speaker 6: How it's going. I mean, she likes the guy. He's

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Speaker 6: very handsome, he treats her right. The only thing is

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Speaker 4: Okay, that's fine. Why is that an issue?

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Speaker 6: Well, it wouldn't be, but like the problem is, I

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Speaker 6: heard a rumor that her boyfriend was going to be

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Speaker 4: Oh wait tonight.

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Speaker 2: Wow, the team they haven't talked about that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well, if you're dating for two years, you think

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Speaker 4: it would have come up.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Who'd you hear the rumor from.

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Speaker 6: It's from a mutual friend. And it's just I'm in

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Speaker 6: such an awkward situation right now because I've asked Haylee before,

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Speaker 6: like I've said, you know, if Thomas proposed to you,

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Speaker 6: what would you say? And she's not about it. She's

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Speaker 6: not into that. She told me she's not.

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Speaker 2: Just not yet like someday maybe, but just not right now.

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Speaker 4: You're saying, my mom told my dad no, I think

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Speaker 4: four times before she actually they actually agreed to get married.

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Speaker 1: So what's the problem.

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Speaker 6: You're worried that what she's gonna turn him down? Like

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Speaker 6: he's going to make a fool of himself.

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Speaker 1: No way.

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Speaker 5: Is there an event happening tonight, Like is it friends

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Speaker 2: Is that how you think it's going to go down?

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Speaker 6: Well, I just noticed they're going to go out on

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Speaker 6: a date tonight, and I wanted to warn her boyfriend,

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Speaker 6: just like without being very direct about the situation.

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Speaker 4: Wait, you want to tell wait, hold on, you want

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Speaker 4: to tell him why wouldn't you want to tell her

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Speaker 4: give her a heads up.

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Speaker 2: I want to ruin it.

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Speaker 4: Wait, she doesn't want it.

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Speaker 6: I know, my friend, Like, this is so much right now,

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Speaker 6: I don't want to put this on her. I don't

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Speaker 2: Well, like behind the scenes, you're doing work, so she

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Speaker 2: has zero stress. That's a good friend move.

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Speaker 4: I like to get rid of the situation.

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Speaker 1: So you want you want to text Kaylee's boyfriend and

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Speaker 1: stop him from proposing without alerting him that you know

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Speaker 1: that he's going to propose. Oh, that's hard to do.

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Speaker 6: That's why I turned to you guys, Like this is

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Speaker 6: so tough to navigate, Like, I need your help, and

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Speaker 6: I've already started a text message with him.

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Speaker 1: Oh you did good?

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Speaker 2: Wait, no, not usual for us.

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Speaker 4: I don't know if it's good. What did you say?

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Speaker 1: Well, it's good because we don't have to do as

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Speaker 4: What you say?

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Speaker 6: Okay, I'm gonna try to read this. So I sent

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Speaker 6: him Thomas, how's it going? He goes, stop, M doing great?

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Speaker 6: Thanks for asking. How about you put Oh, you know,

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Speaker 6: just trying to save Kaylee from a lifetime of misery.

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Speaker 4: Wait what whoa?

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Speaker 3: She put ha ha, It's okay, like you're coming out

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Speaker 6: This is why I needed your help because I thought

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Speaker 6: it was funny to kind of do this. You know, it.

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Speaker 4: Sounds like you're saying that being with him would be

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Speaker 4: a lifetime yah misery. I mean maybe he doesn't even

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Speaker 4: know that. There's not enough like context there even.

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Speaker 1: I mean, marriage is a lifetime of misery.

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Speaker 4: What did he say?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Well, then I tried to play it off cool. I

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Speaker 6: was like, but seriously, how's your day going?

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Speaker 4: Oh man, that's a serious time. Guess she knows that,

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Speaker 6: Now.

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Speaker 1: What did he say?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, he goes, my day's going pretty well. Why do

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Speaker 6: you ask? Yeah? I put, oh, no reason. I was

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Speaker 6: just wondering if you had any big plans.

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Speaker 4: Okay, oh my god, you are.

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Speaker 2: So we're kind of like doing more like restoration. We're

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Speaker 1: How did he respond?

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Speaker 6: He goes, Actually I do, but it's a big secret.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, no, it's shut your mouth. That's what he's

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Speaker 4: telling me to do. Keep your mouth shut.

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Speaker 1: Or maybe he's kind of a dummy and doesn't know

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: What have you written back to that? Did you say anything?

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Speaker 6: No? I didn't because I'm really stuck and I don't

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Speaker 5: Okay, okay, to neutralize the situation, I think immediately for

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Speaker 1: I think one common theme that we go to with

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Speaker 1: a little bit in order to make it there.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean we didn't start well with that whole

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Speaker 1: So I mean he's already admitted like there is something

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Speaker 1: I've played, but it's a big secret. What if we

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Speaker 1: throw out some horribly wrong guesses to make him laugh?

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Speaker 4: Oh, like, like, oh.

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Speaker 1: Let me guess. Is it a big casino heist tonight?

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 4: That's better.

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Speaker 2: That's funny.

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Speaker 1: Photographing Spider Man around the city, like just obvious, wrong,

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Speaker 1: that's good.

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Speaker 4: I like casino heist. Go with that one.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what do you what do you think, Emily?

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Speaker 6: I think that's good. Like I just want to like

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Speaker 4: But you know, yeah, I like casino heist. And then

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Speaker 4: you follow it up with because Kaylie's really not ready

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think so. And why why don't you start

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Speaker 1: typing that out? Like Ooh, let me guess we're doing

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Speaker 1: a casino heist tonight.

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Speaker 4: With the money bag emoji.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's good.

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Speaker 1: Are you typing Emily?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Okay, so I'm putting ooh, is it going to be

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Speaker 4: No, am I close?

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Speaker 1: Am I close question mark? We just want him to

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Speaker 4: And if you end it with a set, you have

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Speaker 6: To Okay, am I close question mark?

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Speaker 6: That's okay, I got it.

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Speaker 4: And are you sure your your best friend isn't like

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Speaker 4: telling you one thing about her commitment level and telling

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Speaker 6: No, I swear to gone. She does not want to

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Speaker 2: That's great?

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Speaker 1: Is that what you were doing with your husband, Brooke?

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Speaker 1: You were telling everybody else like the loser.

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Speaker 4: Are you kidding me? I was begging him to propose?

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Speaker 1: What are you doing? Well, get on it?

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Speaker 2: Remember that because every weekend you'd go away. We're like,

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Speaker 4: And then fake drop down on a knee and I'm like, so, Emily,

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Speaker 4: you sent that right?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? I did.

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Speaker 1: We're going to play a song, come back, and we'll

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Speaker 1: see if Kaylee's boyfriend has responded, and then we'll try

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Speaker 1: and stop him from proposing when we continue textual healing next.

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Speaker 1: How do you stop a guy from proposing to your

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Speaker 1: best friend?

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, Wow, it's usually the opposite. How do

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Speaker 4: you get a guy to do it?

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Speaker 1: I know there must be a Cosmo magazine article about that.

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Speaker 1: You must have thrown that issue away. So we're kind

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Speaker 1: of on our own here helping out one of our listeners, Emily,

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Speaker 1: because she knows her friend is about to get proposed

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Speaker 1: to buy her boyfriend tonight.

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Speaker 4: I mean, he confirmed a text. He said he had

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Speaker 4: a huge surprise.

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Speaker 1: The thing is, Emily's friend isn't ready to get married.

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Speaker 1: Even told her if he proposes, I'd probably say no.

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Speaker 1: Oh man, So to prevent all that drama. Emily wants

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Speaker 1: to get ahead of it and tell the boyfriend please

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Speaker 1: don't do it without letting him know that she knows.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's tricky.

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Speaker 1: There's been a whole conversation in the lead up, and

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Speaker 1: our suggestion was let's throw out some wrong.

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Speaker 4: Guesses and about what the secret is.

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Speaker 1: But what the secret is and we guess big casino heist?

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Speaker 1: Am I close? And has he responded to that? Emily?

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Speaker 6: Yes, he has.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what do you say?

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Speaker 6: So he put OMG, no casino heights. Ah, what I've

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Speaker 6: planned is kind of bigger than that. There will be

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Speaker 4: No, this guy is the worst at secrets ever. By

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Speaker 1: Now he's really confirming that something romantic is about to

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Speaker 4: I think we need to like deterret right now. I

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Speaker 4: like is there any I don't know, like is there

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Speaker 4: any way like your friend Kaylee's like going through like

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Speaker 4: Kaylee's going through so much, she just really needs a steady,

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Speaker 1: With It's not a bad idea, Like, is she going

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Speaker 1: Like something really stressful?

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Speaker 4: She got a hamster. She just really is not space

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Speaker 1: The hamster was pregnant and so now she's got twenty hamsters.

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Speaker 2: Ever since she got buttons, it's been rough for her.

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Speaker 1: Is anything going on like that?

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Speaker 6: Well, her wax person quitty recently, and she's looking for

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Speaker 4: Person who doesn't Kia.

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Speaker 1: Is that taking a big toll on her mentally?

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Speaker 6: Exactly? He loved before. She'd been going to her for years,

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Speaker 6: and she just doesn't need more stress.

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Speaker 4: Okay, she's really sad about wax lady.

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Speaker 1: Well, let's go with that. I think.

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Speaker 4: Are you just say I hope Kaylee's not involved in

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she really can't can't handle more stress on her plate.

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Speaker 6: Okay, so Kaylee can't handle more stress on her plate.

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Speaker 4: Just say I hope she's not involved in the surprise.

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Speaker 4: That's right, because Kaylee is not in the right head

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Speaker 1: We're still trying to play dumb, like we don't know

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Speaker 1: the proposals about that happen.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, so I put I hope Kaylee is not

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Speaker 6: involved in this. She doesn't need more stress. She's already

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Speaker 4: But Tony Fair, you want to get a wax before

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Speaker 4: you're proposed to, so it's stressful.

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Speaker 1: You come on and look, that's not stressful to us,

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Speaker 1: but for her friend, clearly it's causing some mental anguish

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Speaker 1: and that should be enough.

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Speaker 4: And no wonder Kaylee's not ready for a proposal or

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so we've sent that text, right Emily, Okay.

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Speaker 4: Now he's do you think he's freaking out?

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Speaker 1: Unwaxed body, If you got.

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Speaker 4: That text saying the person you're about to propose to

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Speaker 4: is like super freaked out, would you be like, oh

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Speaker 4: my god, I should do it another night.

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Speaker 5: As a guy, To be honest, I would be like,

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Speaker 5: You know, I don't know if it's gonna stop. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: like maybe I'll get her mind.

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Speaker 1: Off of it, but that makes it about you tonight.

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Speaker 1: The proposal is all about her.

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Speaker 2: That's true. That's true.

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Speaker 1: So you want her to be on the list the

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Speaker 1: best headspace that she possibly can be to guarantee you.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I well, especially because it sounds like they haven't

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Speaker 4: even talked about it. If he's proposing tonight and Kaylee

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Speaker 4: is so not on board the communication in this relationship, he's.

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Speaker 1: Probably super nervous flying blind on this anything, Emily.

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Speaker 6: Something just came in.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 6: It says, if you think I'm proposing tonight, that's one

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Speaker 6: hundred percent not true.

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Speaker 2: Oh right, Wait, so he finally clicked in his head.

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Speaker 1: I thought you confirmed with the rumor.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Wait, and what's all the roses and cameras are bad?

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Speaker 2: Hold on, there's more.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, he's sending something else. He's typing.

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Speaker 1: Wait what is going?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god?

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Speaker 5: What if he's breaking up with her with.

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Speaker 2: A cameraman?

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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 1: I mean, it would make a pretty devastating TikTok video

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Speaker 1: that would go viral.

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Speaker 4: He'll be a friend propose instead of him proposing himself.

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Speaker 6: Okay, I have another message. It says, wait do you

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god?

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Speaker 1: No? Wait is this good or bad?

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Speaker 4: But I don't know proposing?

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Speaker 1: So what is he what is going on?

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Speaker 4: Do you know what you have to text about?

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Speaker 1: Do I know what? Just maybe you fake like you

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Speaker 1: do know?

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Speaker 2: I totally know.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Times that works and then he'll ease up and go,

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Speaker 5: oh you know fine, I'll spill the bean.

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Speaker 4: No, say this, tell him I know something. Tell me

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Speaker 4: what you know first?

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Speaker 2: Okay, you know, first.

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Speaker 1: Into a game. Maybe it's like you play it kind

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Speaker 1: of cool, Like, I mean, I have a pretty good

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Speaker 1: idea of what's going on tonight, but he just said that.

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Speaker 4: He's not proposing. Do we have a good idea anymore?

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Speaker 1: Well Brook, we have no idea, but trying to get

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Speaker 1: him to tell us, yeah, we know. It's like, let

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Speaker 1: me know how I can.

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Speaker 2: Help give me the details.

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Speaker 1: That's a Jeff. What do you think, Emily?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, because I'm very confused right now. I'm just thinking

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Speaker 6: just playing along kind of telling.

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Speaker 1: Him text it, text it, then let's send it.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I am like dying what Wait? So does he

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Speaker 4: mean that he's not Like was he being sarcastic when

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Speaker 4: he was saying not proposing or was he being serious?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Now it's like what is he going to and

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Speaker 2: what does he think?

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Speaker 4: You know?

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Speaker 6: This is what I wrote I put, I do have

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Speaker 6: a good idea. What's opening. If there's any way that

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Speaker 6: I can help, and that's.

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Speaker 4: Great, just give me the details.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, so I'm putting please give me the details,

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Speaker 6: and I put a heart emoji.

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Speaker 2: And now you're being a supportive friend.

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Speaker 4: But that's not what she wants to be.

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Speaker 1: We got no time. We got to send this.

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Speaker 6: Send okay, I sent it all right?

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Speaker 1: Oh boy, Now I'm really curious.

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Speaker 4: What do you think it is.

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Speaker 2: Maybe he's going to give her, like an extra kidney

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Speaker 2: or something that would bond them.

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Speaker 4: I think that her biggest life issue right now is

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Speaker 4: kidney donation is on there.

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Speaker 1: Kidney swap is pretty romantic, though, I got you.

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Speaker 4: A romantic wait wait wait what.

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Speaker 6: I just got her response? Yeah, okay, it says l

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Speaker 6: O L you want to help with your own proposal?

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Speaker 1: What no way?

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Speaker 6: Because I don't think Shane would be cool with that.

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Speaker 6: L O L just actur prized when he asked, Oh

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Speaker 6: my god, what no way?

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Speaker 1: Wait about me? I thought you said that. I thought

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Speaker 1: you said that your friend has plans tonight, not you.

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Speaker 1: They probably don't throw her off.

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Speaker 4: Oh my, are you so excited?

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Speaker 6: I'm freaking Oh.

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Speaker 2: Wait, hold on, are you are you like your friend?

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Speaker 2: Are you ready for this?

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Speaker 4: We need a text your boyfriend. I don't know.

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Speaker 6: I didn't want to know this.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: It was snooped around and then we went back. She

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Speaker 2: just kind of said it.

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Speaker 3: You thought that she knew reacted like they shouldn't have.

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Speaker 2: Whose idea was that, Well.

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Speaker 4: At least you're gonna look great for the video because

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Speaker 4: you know there's gonna be a photographer that get your

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Speaker 4: nails done.

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Speaker 1: Now, hopefully you got a good wax or too. I mean,

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Speaker 1: quickly practice your shocked reaction when he asks it.

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Speaker 6: Okay, okay, let's see.

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Speaker 4: That's awesome.

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Speaker 2: Congratulation, you get married.

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Speaker 1: Let us know how it goes. Emily, good luck. That

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Speaker 1: was a shocking addition to textual healing. If you'd like

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Speaker 1: our socials at Brook and Jeffrey, we can ruin your

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Speaker 1: friends engagement and get you married instead. Brook and Jeffery

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Speaker 1: in

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Speaker 4: The morning, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,