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All right, let's get into 18 00:00:59,520 --> 00:00:59,960 Speaker 1: the episode. 19 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 2: All from here? 20 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:08,760 Speaker 1: Hello, Hello, who is this Abraham like from the fucking 21 00:01:08,880 --> 00:01:12,160 Speaker 1: like from the Torah? From where the Torah? You know, 22 00:01:12,200 --> 00:01:14,440 Speaker 1: the Torah, the Jewish thing. 23 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:19,600 Speaker 2: Oh no, no, no, no, this is Abraham the Bible. 24 00:01:20,880 --> 00:01:23,800 Speaker 1: Not true, Abraham, Abraham was in the tea. I think 25 00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:29,000 Speaker 1: he's been in He's had a lot of roles, right, 26 00:01:29,040 --> 00:01:29,440 Speaker 1: he's in the. 27 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:34,039 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, in the Bible, the Quran. Two. 28 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:40,880 Speaker 1: You sound you so that I that I insinuated that 29 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:43,080 Speaker 1: you are from the Torah. 30 00:01:43,080 --> 00:01:45,120 Speaker 2: I am not. It's an honor. 31 00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:47,880 Speaker 1: What's your dealing. 32 00:01:47,960 --> 00:01:50,480 Speaker 2: I just bought your tickets. I just bought your tickets. 33 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:52,200 Speaker 1: Oh ship, thanks dude. 34 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 2: We're at yeah, ah, Virginia. 35 00:01:56,080 --> 00:01:56,880 Speaker 1: Where in Virginia? 36 00:01:58,360 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 2: H Alexandria? 37 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:05,240 Speaker 1: I think Alexandria. Oh cool, yeah, cool, cool, cool, yeah, awesome, awesome, Yeah, 38 00:02:05,240 --> 00:02:09,840 Speaker 1: that'll be fun. What's your What's what's what's up with you? 39 00:02:10,639 --> 00:02:14,520 Speaker 1: I almost called you Alexandria, which is lame. But Abraham, 40 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 1: what's up with you? Abraham? What's going on? Man? 41 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:17,840 Speaker 3: Well? 42 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:21,040 Speaker 2: I think so too good and too bad at the. 43 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:25,280 Speaker 1: Same time, too good and too bad? All right, why 44 00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:27,120 Speaker 1: why are they too bad? Let's start with that. 45 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:29,920 Speaker 2: I wonder if that was what they're good? 46 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:34,080 Speaker 1: Say that again. 47 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:38,000 Speaker 2: I want to start with what is they're good? All right? 48 00:02:38,080 --> 00:02:41,360 Speaker 1: To do that? Yeah? Sure, sure, all right, all right. 49 00:02:41,480 --> 00:02:44,919 Speaker 2: So I've been here for a couple of years now, 50 00:02:45,200 --> 00:02:49,560 Speaker 2: with mostly a year and a half, and the main 51 00:02:49,720 --> 00:02:54,400 Speaker 2: motivation to coming to the list was like, I pretty 52 00:02:54,520 --> 00:03:00,359 Speaker 2: much have everything that agreemed and wasted appear in life. 53 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:04,799 Speaker 2: Let's basically workedward got it. And then all of the 54 00:03:04,919 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 2: goals I sent myself for, like when I was twenty eight, 55 00:03:07,480 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 2: I already did him by the time I was like 56 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:14,520 Speaker 2: twenty one, and ticks got bombed. I just got bummed 57 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:17,320 Speaker 2: over them. And then basically, you know what, thank for challenge. 58 00:03:17,320 --> 00:03:18,280 Speaker 2: And then I moved here. 59 00:03:19,760 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 1: Where'd you move from? 60 00:03:22,960 --> 00:03:27,520 Speaker 2: I would rather not say, but in Africa. Somewhere in Africa. 61 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:34,480 Speaker 1: Okay, so you you one hundred percented Africa. You you look, 62 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:41,720 Speaker 1: you you completed all of your goals, You unlocked all 63 00:03:41,760 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 1: the collectibles, all the alternative costumes, and you're like, you 64 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:52,560 Speaker 1: know what, Africa was too easy for this guy. Let's 65 00:03:52,560 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 1: go to America for elliver a challenge. 66 00:03:55,280 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 2: Huh yeah, I think exactly what happened? All right? 67 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 1: What's the what was the challenge? What were you trying 68 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:06,280 Speaker 1: to do here? 69 00:04:08,200 --> 00:04:11,400 Speaker 2: Back there? I wanted to be stable, so I had 70 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 2: a job. I had a bunch of countries I wanted 71 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 2: to visit, like five or six. I did those and 72 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:22,719 Speaker 2: then basically moved down from a living now you know what, 73 00:04:22,960 --> 00:04:26,200 Speaker 2: it was time to move on. Then I came here, 74 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:29,960 Speaker 2: but when I did, I didn't have the proper paperwork, 75 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:35,719 Speaker 2: So basically I had to start from the bottom bottom, 76 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:39,640 Speaker 2: which I kind of appreciated like after it passed. So 77 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:42,839 Speaker 2: the first time I got here was in seven eleven. 78 00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:48,680 Speaker 1: That was your first job here? Was working at seven eleven? 79 00:04:49,440 --> 00:04:53,400 Speaker 1: M What was your job at? What was your job 80 00:04:53,480 --> 00:04:54,200 Speaker 1: back in Africa? 81 00:04:55,640 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 2: I was a soft engineer. 82 00:04:58,440 --> 00:05:00,360 Speaker 1: You went from software engineer to seven eleven? 83 00:05:01,160 --> 00:05:02,039 Speaker 2: Mm hmmm hmm. 84 00:05:03,320 --> 00:05:07,360 Speaker 1: Interesting. So you really so you really did just go 85 00:05:08,160 --> 00:05:12,280 Speaker 1: you know what, fuck this. Let's let's like you were 86 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:16,640 Speaker 1: at I don't know you you completed the game and 87 00:05:16,720 --> 00:05:19,440 Speaker 1: your character had all these was what you maxed out, 88 00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:22,400 Speaker 1: all the stats, and you were like fuck it, just 89 00:05:22,480 --> 00:05:23,240 Speaker 1: start a new game. 90 00:05:24,200 --> 00:05:32,039 Speaker 2: Yep, even going to get better. So yeah, uh, I 91 00:05:32,200 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 2: worked there for a couple of months, around six months, 92 00:05:35,880 --> 00:05:40,360 Speaker 2: and so there's the paper issued us sort out and 93 00:05:40,560 --> 00:05:45,159 Speaker 2: now after all that has been the got back on place. 94 00:05:45,520 --> 00:05:49,480 Speaker 2: I also have the software job here now now I'm 95 00:05:49,520 --> 00:05:53,760 Speaker 2: working for some government contractors, not contractors, but what the 96 00:05:53,800 --> 00:05:57,600 Speaker 2: government itself as a software engineer. 97 00:05:57,240 --> 00:06:00,880 Speaker 1: Here tell me more about working at seven eleven because 98 00:06:00,880 --> 00:06:03,720 Speaker 1: I go into seven eleven all the time and I 99 00:06:05,240 --> 00:06:08,240 Speaker 1: stop and chat with the guys working there. 100 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:10,200 Speaker 2: They always has. 101 00:06:11,240 --> 00:06:12,720 Speaker 1: Its fantastic, tell me more. 102 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:16,760 Speaker 2: It's fantastic. So I had like two nights where I 103 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:20,320 Speaker 2: used to was an agree yet shift, and I love 104 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:24,120 Speaker 2: those because usually during the night, most people that come 105 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 2: in are big high, they're really hungry or really like 106 00:06:29,600 --> 00:06:33,640 Speaker 2: drunk out of their minds. So to be at that 107 00:06:33,800 --> 00:06:38,560 Speaker 2: moment with them trying to experience their whole life and 108 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:44,559 Speaker 2: watching them being as happy as humanly possible, and that's 109 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:48,280 Speaker 2: sometimes ranger. Sometimes people coming being as sad as possible, 110 00:06:48,839 --> 00:06:52,240 Speaker 2: But they all have this one thing in common. They're 111 00:06:52,240 --> 00:06:54,880 Speaker 2: all wantful. They're all hungry, and they want something to drink. Right, 112 00:06:55,440 --> 00:06:58,920 Speaker 2: So at that time, nobody wants called food. So when 113 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:01,560 Speaker 2: I'm staying at night, I don't make any kind of foods. 114 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:06,000 Speaker 2: So what I did is I would make them food 115 00:07:06,720 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 2: if they needed the request that I now just imagine 116 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:14,240 Speaker 2: being high out of your mind, turning out of your mind, 117 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:17,480 Speaker 2: saying the guy the seven eleven. They just said, oh, 118 00:07:17,560 --> 00:07:19,840 Speaker 2: there's no for the night, but I can make you 119 00:07:19,880 --> 00:07:26,040 Speaker 2: want and being like that kind of source of happiness 120 00:07:26,040 --> 00:07:31,320 Speaker 2: for someone just needed so much fun and they can't 121 00:07:31,320 --> 00:07:35,560 Speaker 2: see the like glow in their eyes too. It's amazing. 122 00:07:37,720 --> 00:07:39,480 Speaker 1: You were really their hero in that moment. 123 00:07:40,600 --> 00:07:45,360 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, and they I don't know, they are some 124 00:07:45,560 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 2: of them just a lot of times some of them don't. 125 00:07:49,360 --> 00:07:53,240 Speaker 2: But you know, it's what I really liked it, just like. 126 00:07:53,720 --> 00:07:56,440 Speaker 1: People generally nice steal. 127 00:07:57,520 --> 00:08:01,200 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, oh yeah, Like ninety nine percent of the time, 128 00:08:01,240 --> 00:08:04,800 Speaker 2: I never had any kind of altercations, Like I can 129 00:08:04,920 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 2: count on one hat at the time the time time 130 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:09,240 Speaker 2: altercations anyone. 131 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:16,440 Speaker 1: M So you really enjoyed working at this seven eleven. 132 00:08:16,480 --> 00:08:19,200 Speaker 1: It's so interesting to hear because I mean, I'll just 133 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:22,880 Speaker 1: be honest, like I Like I said, I am consistently 134 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:26,040 Speaker 1: at seven eleven at two o'clock in the morning, and 135 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 1: a lot of the times the people working there look 136 00:08:30,680 --> 00:08:32,079 Speaker 1: kept pretty bummed out. 137 00:08:33,200 --> 00:08:37,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, of course we have to. I mean it's takes long. 138 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:40,800 Speaker 2: I was like extremely shitu wages, especially if you don't 139 00:08:40,800 --> 00:08:46,679 Speaker 2: have papers. But thankfully I had my uncle and aunt 140 00:08:47,040 --> 00:08:51,080 Speaker 2: live here on crashing with them and they didn't make 141 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:53,839 Speaker 2: me play rent or food, so I had the less 142 00:08:53,880 --> 00:08:56,280 Speaker 2: things to worry about. That kind of gets someone that's 143 00:08:56,320 --> 00:09:00,679 Speaker 2: stressed out of my head. But yeah, I didn't have 144 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:03,160 Speaker 2: to worry much about that. Just they also want you 145 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:06,080 Speaker 2: to get settled in just getting waking on the ground. 146 00:09:06,400 --> 00:09:10,000 Speaker 2: So I was really really lucky. 147 00:09:11,600 --> 00:09:13,720 Speaker 1: What else did you enjoy about working at seven eleven. 148 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:23,080 Speaker 2: Oh, well, you're gonna the coffee. I'm a huge coffee physicist, 149 00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:27,360 Speaker 2: so you take the drink as much coffee as possible 150 00:09:27,400 --> 00:09:31,559 Speaker 2: about it. That was much coffee. I probably developed like 151 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:35,440 Speaker 2: a severe addictions. Now every time you walk into a Stooks, 152 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:38,680 Speaker 2: I ordered like six shot of espresso. There's no sugar, normalk, 153 00:09:38,760 --> 00:09:39,360 Speaker 2: no effect. 154 00:09:40,960 --> 00:09:48,680 Speaker 1: M Now, when you make these people food, do you 155 00:09:48,800 --> 00:09:50,080 Speaker 1: make a little something for yourself? 156 00:09:53,080 --> 00:09:56,400 Speaker 2: I mean I want to, but I wouldn't eat the food. 157 00:09:57,920 --> 00:10:02,840 Speaker 2: It's a seven E level feet it's too greasy. Everything 158 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:07,720 Speaker 2: is already like becomes unpret prepared, Like I tried my 159 00:10:07,840 --> 00:10:10,920 Speaker 2: best to do all the even and the grilling. It 160 00:10:11,000 --> 00:10:14,480 Speaker 2: came over there as clean as possible, but it can 161 00:10:14,640 --> 00:10:19,360 Speaker 2: never be clean. So I think I believe when people 162 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:24,319 Speaker 2: are coming there and what they're doing theirselfs into so 163 00:10:25,240 --> 00:10:26,400 Speaker 2: I wouldn't eat it myself. 164 00:10:30,640 --> 00:10:31,120 Speaker 1: That's fair. 165 00:10:32,800 --> 00:10:38,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, mm hmmm. 166 00:10:38,440 --> 00:10:40,560 Speaker 1: So okay, what were some of the bad parts of 167 00:10:40,600 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 1: working at seven eleven. 168 00:10:44,320 --> 00:10:49,160 Speaker 2: The money, it's ship. Mm hmm, it's ship. You know, 169 00:10:49,200 --> 00:10:52,720 Speaker 2: one should be speak, you know, to survive that ituld 170 00:10:52,720 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 2: be like eleven thousan an hour. So it's now libble. 171 00:11:00,480 --> 00:11:03,400 Speaker 2: I was ruling that gain someone else here, but I 172 00:11:03,480 --> 00:11:08,520 Speaker 2: was supposed to myself myself, but no one's I would 173 00:11:08,600 --> 00:11:08,920 Speaker 2: be able to. 174 00:11:13,480 --> 00:11:15,400 Speaker 1: It's it's I guess it's very funny to me that 175 00:11:15,480 --> 00:11:21,760 Speaker 1: you you gave a very I don't know, I don't know. 176 00:11:21,800 --> 00:11:23,000 Speaker 1: I don't want to use I don't know if i'll 177 00:11:23,080 --> 00:11:25,640 Speaker 1: use the word. I don't know what the word is. 178 00:11:25,640 --> 00:11:25,840 Speaker 1: Is it? 179 00:11:26,080 --> 00:11:26,280 Speaker 2: Yeah? 180 00:11:26,320 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 1: It was a passion, do you passion? You give a 181 00:11:29,160 --> 00:11:34,360 Speaker 1: very impassioned speech about the honor that is to help 182 00:11:34,480 --> 00:11:37,480 Speaker 1: hungry people working at the seven eleven, but also that 183 00:11:37,520 --> 00:11:39,479 Speaker 1: you would never eat that ship yourself. 184 00:11:40,600 --> 00:11:45,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, at that time, if you're at that point, I 185 00:11:45,120 --> 00:11:48,800 Speaker 2: fear that high And if you're that cracked up, you're 186 00:11:48,840 --> 00:11:51,800 Speaker 2: not going to choose what you're going to eat. You're hungry, 187 00:11:52,080 --> 00:11:58,000 Speaker 2: that's it. You want water, you won't two so getting 188 00:11:58,400 --> 00:12:02,720 Speaker 2: hot food. At that time, I wish you could stay 189 00:12:02,800 --> 00:12:05,160 Speaker 2: there like for like a couple of minutes, like Fermins 190 00:12:05,200 --> 00:12:08,120 Speaker 2: and see people coming in and out and then just 191 00:12:08,960 --> 00:12:11,839 Speaker 2: almost feels like I'm make something lest thinking for though 192 00:12:12,480 --> 00:12:16,120 Speaker 2: it was really nice, it makes me still set myself. 193 00:12:16,480 --> 00:12:21,520 Speaker 1: So you said, it makes you feel better about yourself. Hm, 194 00:12:24,160 --> 00:12:31,480 Speaker 1: that's great, that's great. So you moved on to be 195 00:12:31,520 --> 00:12:34,320 Speaker 1: a software engineer from seven to eleven? Was it was it? 196 00:12:34,400 --> 00:12:36,200 Speaker 1: Was there any other in between jobs or was it 197 00:12:36,240 --> 00:12:39,800 Speaker 1: just seven eleven straight to software engineer? 198 00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:42,720 Speaker 2: Well, I had all of the experiences. I knew what 199 00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:45,720 Speaker 2: I was doing, so in every process and all that 200 00:12:45,960 --> 00:12:48,360 Speaker 2: wasn't the hard It was just the papers that was 201 00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:49,200 Speaker 2: a big issue. 202 00:12:50,960 --> 00:12:52,800 Speaker 1: Mhm and. 203 00:12:54,240 --> 00:12:55,240 Speaker 2: Mmmmmmm. 204 00:12:55,960 --> 00:12:58,120 Speaker 1: And is that what you still do? 205 00:12:59,720 --> 00:13:01,200 Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah. 206 00:13:03,400 --> 00:13:04,760 Speaker 1: How long you've been living in America for. 207 00:13:07,240 --> 00:13:10,160 Speaker 2: Now about a year and a half, year. 208 00:13:10,000 --> 00:13:13,160 Speaker 1: And a half. How is it compared to Africa? What's better? 209 00:13:13,200 --> 00:13:13,679 Speaker 1: What's worse? 210 00:13:18,600 --> 00:13:23,480 Speaker 2: It is we don't have a social life here. Everyone 211 00:13:23,480 --> 00:13:25,680 Speaker 2: in the lady thisechnique. I don't know. Maybe I haven't 212 00:13:25,760 --> 00:13:28,960 Speaker 2: just because I haven't lived here long enough. But back 213 00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:32,920 Speaker 2: home there was a lot of business why people should 214 00:13:33,000 --> 00:13:36,720 Speaker 2: just gather and talk and chill us the work, But 215 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:41,280 Speaker 2: here everybody like from work to work and then everyone's 216 00:13:41,280 --> 00:13:45,080 Speaker 2: trying to get their bills, paid groceries, whatever. They're trying 217 00:13:45,080 --> 00:13:49,760 Speaker 2: to live as much as possible without actually living. And 218 00:13:49,880 --> 00:13:52,360 Speaker 2: that's kind of if you're disconnected from whatever you have 219 00:13:52,480 --> 00:13:57,280 Speaker 2: around you. So friendship don't last that long. Oh, family 220 00:13:57,280 --> 00:13:59,840 Speaker 2: members don't last that song. We need some kind of graduation, 221 00:14:00,000 --> 00:14:02,360 Speaker 2: any party or you know, to teach you all together. 222 00:14:03,320 --> 00:14:08,040 Speaker 2: I really noticed that part here. It's really shack back home. 223 00:14:08,120 --> 00:14:11,200 Speaker 2: You don't need a reason. You can just say like, oh, yeah, 224 00:14:11,240 --> 00:14:14,360 Speaker 2: like I just made some coffee, come over, and then 225 00:14:14,520 --> 00:14:18,160 Speaker 2: you can just hanging out with your homes. That's usually 226 00:14:18,160 --> 00:14:22,600 Speaker 2: the months. What they do is like Saturday afternoons or 227 00:14:22,640 --> 00:14:25,520 Speaker 2: any kind of the day afternoons. He was like, oh 228 00:14:25,560 --> 00:14:28,960 Speaker 2: your home, just come over, just need coffee, you know. Hm. 229 00:14:31,480 --> 00:14:34,240 Speaker 1: So you feel like, do you have a lot less 230 00:14:34,280 --> 00:14:40,600 Speaker 1: social interaction here in the States than in Africa, Like 231 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:44,800 Speaker 1: people are less willing to gather with one another because 232 00:14:44,800 --> 00:14:48,760 Speaker 1: they're so stressed out and worried about taking care of 233 00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:50,800 Speaker 1: all the problems that they have going on. 234 00:14:51,880 --> 00:15:01,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, m hm. 235 00:15:02,840 --> 00:15:06,840 Speaker 1: M hm. You know, I just I don't want to 236 00:15:06,880 --> 00:15:09,000 Speaker 1: ask you again, but is there a reason you don't 237 00:15:09,000 --> 00:15:11,720 Speaker 1: want to tell me what what country in Africa you 238 00:15:12,240 --> 00:15:16,479 Speaker 1: came here from. 239 00:15:14,600 --> 00:15:24,240 Speaker 2: No, it's just st a typical. I know it's known 240 00:15:24,280 --> 00:15:25,080 Speaker 2: for their coffee. 241 00:15:26,920 --> 00:15:33,240 Speaker 1: Now, how long were you were you born in Ethiopia? 242 00:15:34,640 --> 00:15:38,360 Speaker 2: I've been there. I was born there. Mm hmm. 243 00:15:38,920 --> 00:15:41,680 Speaker 1: Do you like I guess just like looking around and 244 00:15:41,760 --> 00:15:44,440 Speaker 1: talking to people. Do you do you feel like the 245 00:15:44,480 --> 00:15:48,920 Speaker 1: folks in Ethiopia are happier than the folks in wherever, 246 00:15:49,040 --> 00:15:49,920 Speaker 1: whatever state you're in. 247 00:15:52,000 --> 00:15:55,800 Speaker 2: Well, that's a true question. Well, I don't have any 248 00:15:55,840 --> 00:16:01,320 Speaker 2: times here. I have like maybe one or two cousins, 249 00:16:02,840 --> 00:16:10,000 Speaker 2: but friends, not really. M hmm. Yeah. 250 00:16:10,920 --> 00:16:12,560 Speaker 1: Do you have a lot of friends back in Ethiopia? 251 00:16:14,080 --> 00:16:14,200 Speaker 3: Oh? 252 00:16:14,280 --> 00:16:18,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, a whole bunch. Like I said, it was like 253 00:16:18,320 --> 00:16:21,680 Speaker 2: almost like I feel like the whole city city feels 254 00:16:21,680 --> 00:16:25,280 Speaker 2: like a close community. So I went to school there, 255 00:16:25,680 --> 00:16:30,840 Speaker 2: and then when we went to college, basically everyone we 256 00:16:30,960 --> 00:16:33,600 Speaker 2: know en back in high school made friends in their 257 00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:37,240 Speaker 2: college and we instantly became friends with their friends, and 258 00:16:37,840 --> 00:16:40,119 Speaker 2: that went along with like every single school. 259 00:16:39,880 --> 00:16:40,040 Speaker 1: So. 260 00:16:41,600 --> 00:16:45,240 Speaker 2: You know, basically everyone in the city because like one 261 00:16:45,320 --> 00:16:46,560 Speaker 2: connection away from everyone. 262 00:16:49,120 --> 00:16:52,000 Speaker 1: How do you feel being here? Do you feel isolated 263 00:16:52,040 --> 00:16:52,360 Speaker 1: at all? 264 00:16:54,160 --> 00:16:58,800 Speaker 2: No? Not really no, un losing James has been spending 265 00:16:58,840 --> 00:17:02,360 Speaker 2: time by myself. I get to do a lot of reading, 266 00:17:02,640 --> 00:17:07,840 Speaker 2: so that's nice. But I haven't been asking a lot 267 00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:11,399 Speaker 2: of shows. I was listening, but I mean heavy on 268 00:17:11,520 --> 00:17:14,120 Speaker 2: these books. So that's pretty nice. 269 00:17:14,200 --> 00:17:21,159 Speaker 1: But no, mm hmm. Do do you miss Ethiopia at all? 270 00:17:21,200 --> 00:17:22,080 Speaker 1: Do you miss your friends? 271 00:17:24,280 --> 00:17:26,440 Speaker 2: I have a certain sense, like two or three frients 272 00:17:26,520 --> 00:17:33,359 Speaker 2: that I missed. I'm close friends by nothing else. Yeah, yeah, 273 00:17:34,960 --> 00:17:39,800 Speaker 2: so yeah, that's pret you want to say. Now I'm 274 00:17:39,920 --> 00:17:43,920 Speaker 2: at the level of everyone also kind of like conquering 275 00:17:44,160 --> 00:17:46,679 Speaker 2: the US also where I just I feel like it. 276 00:17:48,400 --> 00:17:50,520 Speaker 1: If you feel like you're you feel like you're conquering 277 00:17:50,560 --> 00:17:57,000 Speaker 1: the US. I'm almost there, right, Okay, Yes, so back 278 00:17:57,080 --> 00:18:01,040 Speaker 1: to the beginning. You you are unundred percent of Africa, 279 00:18:01,320 --> 00:18:04,960 Speaker 1: you one hundred percent of Ethiopia. You did everything you 280 00:18:05,240 --> 00:18:09,840 Speaker 1: you literally became friends with the entire town. Uh you 281 00:18:10,200 --> 00:18:13,760 Speaker 1: you won, You beat the level. Okay, and so now 282 00:18:13,880 --> 00:18:18,399 Speaker 1: you're you're onto greater things. What what as you conquering 283 00:18:20,040 --> 00:18:21,080 Speaker 1: the US? Look like? 284 00:18:23,560 --> 00:18:27,200 Speaker 2: Well, four starters. I want to move out for my 285 00:18:27,320 --> 00:18:33,840 Speaker 2: own stouse and good by myself. So that was like 286 00:18:33,920 --> 00:18:36,840 Speaker 2: the first step. So that's my immediate goal right now. 287 00:18:38,480 --> 00:18:40,760 Speaker 2: So I got a good job. Now, just want to 288 00:18:40,800 --> 00:18:45,480 Speaker 2: call last week of the big lest expensive computer. So 289 00:18:45,640 --> 00:18:48,800 Speaker 2: basically imp set for like my big purchase needs for 290 00:18:48,920 --> 00:18:53,800 Speaker 2: the next maybe six seventies, I'm guessing. So the next 291 00:18:53,880 --> 00:18:57,880 Speaker 2: thing is going to be moving gay, you know, living 292 00:18:57,960 --> 00:18:59,040 Speaker 2: by yourself, by yourself. 293 00:19:01,160 --> 00:19:04,760 Speaker 1: What's your sort of like ultimate goal or or dream. 294 00:19:10,320 --> 00:19:20,359 Speaker 2: I want to have cows, cows cows rout and I 295 00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:23,640 Speaker 2: don't want the sort of milk it's not gonna said. 296 00:19:23,760 --> 00:19:30,440 Speaker 2: I mean, I want to make a cheese, all. 297 00:19:30,440 --> 00:19:33,320 Speaker 1: Right, that's a cool goal. You want to make cherr 298 00:19:33,720 --> 00:19:36,080 Speaker 1: like to sell it or just to like have a 299 00:19:36,160 --> 00:19:38,880 Speaker 1: cow to make cheese just to eat. 300 00:19:39,000 --> 00:19:41,239 Speaker 2: Depends on how much I make. It depends on how 301 00:19:41,320 --> 00:19:44,600 Speaker 2: much I make. If I make too much of I'm 302 00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:45,800 Speaker 2: not going to be eating myself. 303 00:19:46,960 --> 00:19:49,480 Speaker 1: But I feel like you can get I feel like 304 00:19:49,560 --> 00:19:51,119 Speaker 1: you can get a cow. How hard is it to 305 00:19:51,160 --> 00:19:52,760 Speaker 1: get a cow? Like if I wanted a cow, how 306 00:19:52,800 --> 00:19:56,240 Speaker 1: would I even I know what I would do? 307 00:19:57,400 --> 00:20:00,919 Speaker 2: I feel like it's pretty them because you can get them, 308 00:20:00,960 --> 00:20:04,560 Speaker 2: but you have to feed them clean music. So I'll 309 00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:08,359 Speaker 2: make sure that everything. I fell in love with them. 310 00:20:08,480 --> 00:20:10,359 Speaker 2: Like we used to have this like a lemble of 311 00:20:10,520 --> 00:20:12,600 Speaker 2: farm where we used to get milk, so we basically 312 00:20:12,800 --> 00:20:16,080 Speaker 2: go like around those two boys, and then these people 313 00:20:16,080 --> 00:20:18,960 Speaker 2: will have like cows in their house and then they'll 314 00:20:19,040 --> 00:20:22,359 Speaker 2: just send us milk. And I was like, I wonder 315 00:20:22,400 --> 00:20:27,159 Speaker 2: what you could do more with these cows? Trying to 316 00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:28,080 Speaker 2: stop about the cows. 317 00:20:28,840 --> 00:20:32,280 Speaker 1: Abraham, what are you are? You do you have a girlfriend? 318 00:20:33,480 --> 00:20:40,720 Speaker 2: That's the extremely extremely table part. So apparently wherever I go, 319 00:20:40,840 --> 00:20:45,280 Speaker 2: wherever I do, I cannot seem to be form any 320 00:20:45,359 --> 00:20:47,640 Speaker 2: kind of Semas connection with anymore. 321 00:20:49,520 --> 00:20:54,040 Speaker 1: Mm hmm. Well now what about back what about back 322 00:20:54,080 --> 00:20:56,119 Speaker 1: in Ethiopia? Did you ever have a girlfriend or go 323 00:20:56,240 --> 00:20:57,080 Speaker 1: on dates or any of that? 324 00:20:58,240 --> 00:21:02,600 Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, but they nothing lefted more than like three days, 325 00:21:03,080 --> 00:21:11,360 Speaker 2: three days maybe maximum four months. That kind of routine 326 00:21:11,440 --> 00:21:16,240 Speaker 2: in my head the character you play, right, So I 327 00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:20,040 Speaker 2: depending on the girl, I would say, depending on her 328 00:21:20,280 --> 00:21:23,400 Speaker 2: interest and who their friends are, I would have these 329 00:21:23,520 --> 00:21:25,879 Speaker 2: things that I basically rehr from my head and it 330 00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:30,840 Speaker 2: would work every time. So like, first you're making gat impressions, whatnot, 331 00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:34,959 Speaker 2: funny jokes, and they, you know, a little bit more clearly, 332 00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:37,720 Speaker 2: a little bit more interested, and then certain usually like 333 00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:41,639 Speaker 2: things happen. You want to cable to produce all that. 334 00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:46,560 Speaker 2: But once after that I kind of get tired to 335 00:21:46,640 --> 00:21:51,560 Speaker 2: play that character, and the same character was just different 336 00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:53,080 Speaker 2: interests with all of them. 337 00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:56,439 Speaker 1: Have you tried like dating at all since you've been 338 00:21:56,520 --> 00:21:57,600 Speaker 1: in the in the States. 339 00:21:59,080 --> 00:22:01,879 Speaker 2: No, No, I just thought it was going to be 340 00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:05,400 Speaker 2: a dissection because you know, you didn't seem right. 341 00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:12,080 Speaker 1: You said it didn't seem right? 342 00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:22,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, why not? I mean, well, I barely know anything 343 00:22:22,640 --> 00:22:25,520 Speaker 2: about this place. I don't know anything, and I don't 344 00:22:25,560 --> 00:22:29,080 Speaker 2: know anyone, So I want to get my seat, like 345 00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:31,920 Speaker 2: on the lamp first before I started making any candles, 346 00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:37,080 Speaker 2: just like that. Now do you it go deeper than that? 347 00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:38,320 Speaker 2: It's actually. 348 00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:44,720 Speaker 1: Do you dream of like having like a wife and 349 00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:49,040 Speaker 1: children and to accompany you with the cows? Or will 350 00:22:49,080 --> 00:22:54,520 Speaker 1: the cows be enough company for you? M m. 351 00:22:56,480 --> 00:23:04,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I do, of course you have to otherwise. Yeah, 352 00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:06,040 Speaker 2: I wasn't gonna helpe you show all this ship. 353 00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:09,040 Speaker 1: Do you have a good relationship with your aunt and 354 00:23:09,119 --> 00:23:09,919 Speaker 1: uncle that you're staying with. 355 00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:16,040 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah the door and I really love them too, 356 00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:22,320 Speaker 2: and like their kids, their kids kids, like they're reading 357 00:23:22,480 --> 00:23:26,320 Speaker 2: reading I love me too, you know ad relationship. 358 00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:34,800 Speaker 1: So h, I guess I'm surprised that you know you 359 00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:40,280 Speaker 1: went from this place where like the whole town knew 360 00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:43,000 Speaker 1: each other, and I bet you had so many friends 361 00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:45,560 Speaker 1: and you'd probably go to the supermarket and run into 362 00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:49,399 Speaker 1: five different people you knew and all that stuff, at 363 00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:52,119 Speaker 1: least from the way that you're describing your your community 364 00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:56,199 Speaker 1: and like going from that, yeah, yeah, well, I mean 365 00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:59,119 Speaker 1: going from that to like literally saying that you have 366 00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:03,439 Speaker 1: no friends in America and you've been here for at 367 00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:07,399 Speaker 1: least a year, like that sounds, it sounds rough, but 368 00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:11,040 Speaker 1: you seem like you are totally not bothered by it. 369 00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:16,159 Speaker 2: No, I don't know, of course, not no sense, Like 370 00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:20,560 Speaker 2: I've kind of knew this was gonna happen in my heart, 371 00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:24,680 Speaker 2: you know. Yeah, there would be a time where like, Okay, 372 00:24:24,760 --> 00:24:26,879 Speaker 2: I'm gonna have to be getting your stuff by yourself. 373 00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:27,120 Speaker 3: Man. 374 00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:31,600 Speaker 2: I was always mentally prepared for it, so it didn't 375 00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:33,240 Speaker 2: really bother you that much. I didn't have to just 376 00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:33,760 Speaker 2: that much. 377 00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:39,520 Speaker 1: M you were always prepared to have to go solo dolo. 378 00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:43,840 Speaker 2: Yeah mm hmm. 379 00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:50,440 Speaker 1: Well, what's what do you think you'll stay in America 380 00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:52,240 Speaker 1: or do you or once you conquered, are you gonna 381 00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:57,000 Speaker 1: move to fucking I don't know, Brazil or something. 382 00:24:58,240 --> 00:24:59,960 Speaker 2: It depends on how bad it's. 383 00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:05,000 Speaker 1: What do you mean by that? What does that mean? How? 384 00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:05,440 Speaker 2: Like? 385 00:25:05,560 --> 00:25:08,680 Speaker 1: How bad would it have to get? And what would 386 00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:09,960 Speaker 1: what would it getting bad? 387 00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:16,320 Speaker 2: Look like? Who? I feel like if I at least once, 388 00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:19,720 Speaker 2: not once, it's like it's abound to happen three times. 389 00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:20,840 Speaker 2: I'm moving away. 390 00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:24,240 Speaker 1: Hold on, you said bound to happen? 391 00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:25,439 Speaker 2: Oh? 392 00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:28,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, can I ask? And I know I already got 393 00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:31,880 Speaker 1: you to tell me what country you're you came here from? 394 00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:33,840 Speaker 2: But what what? 395 00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:36,080 Speaker 1: What? What state are you in? If you don't mind me. 396 00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:37,920 Speaker 2: Asking, I'm in Maryland. 397 00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:41,119 Speaker 1: You're in Maryland, that's my home state. 398 00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:44,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm coming to your show, Virginia. 399 00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:47,119 Speaker 1: You know right right, you did say that. You did 400 00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:51,320 Speaker 1: say that? Bro, wait do you you don't? Okay? And 401 00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:53,760 Speaker 1: again you know I telling you? What do you live in? 402 00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:57,600 Speaker 1: Like Baltimore, Baltimore? Do you like Baltimore City, Baltimore. 403 00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:01,280 Speaker 2: No, I'm around the college park. 404 00:26:02,359 --> 00:26:09,240 Speaker 1: Oh, oh, okay, you're not gonna, dude, I don't, You're 405 00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:11,920 Speaker 1: not gonna. It's I'm so it's so crazy to me 406 00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:14,920 Speaker 1: that you're like the way you're talking about getting shot at, 407 00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:17,720 Speaker 1: like it's some sort of like inevitability. 408 00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:24,320 Speaker 2: Well, I mean, I won't be said if I didn't once. 409 00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:29,480 Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, that's like you notice for me to 410 00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:30,960 Speaker 2: get that definite an American experience. 411 00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:36,920 Speaker 1: You said you would be sad if you didn't get 412 00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:40,080 Speaker 1: shot at at least once, because you would be missing 413 00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:41,840 Speaker 1: out on the American experience. 414 00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:45,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, God, we have it. 415 00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:47,880 Speaker 1: We have some horrible pr. 416 00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:57,119 Speaker 2: You do. It's a wild Yeah, who do you think's 417 00:26:57,119 --> 00:26:57,280 Speaker 2: going on? 418 00:26:57,480 --> 00:26:59,440 Speaker 1: It's I I I feel like I talked about this 419 00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:02,760 Speaker 1: on the pod cast before, but and I definitely talked 420 00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:04,800 Speaker 1: about it on the streets with people while I was 421 00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:06,879 Speaker 1: over there. But I talked to people on the streets 422 00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:09,040 Speaker 1: of Australia and they told me that like they felt 423 00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:11,399 Speaker 1: the same way. They were like if they were genuinely 424 00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:14,520 Speaker 1: afraid to go to America because they thought they would 425 00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:19,200 Speaker 1: get shot, as if you're just gonna get randomly shot 426 00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:24,600 Speaker 1: walking on the streets. And yes, that happened, but it 427 00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:29,600 Speaker 1: doesn't happen. It doesn't happen way more than it does happen. 428 00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:34,000 Speaker 2: So a couple of times I was robbed when I 429 00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:38,320 Speaker 2: was in the seventy eleven and thankfully, like they didn't 430 00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:40,879 Speaker 2: put anything in good or anything on me, but like 431 00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:43,239 Speaker 2: one of my coworkers, they put a gun at her 432 00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:46,600 Speaker 2: and then they just everything. But what did happen to 433 00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:51,560 Speaker 2: me is a couple they came and one came in 434 00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:54,399 Speaker 2: like after the other, like a couple of months aparts. 435 00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:57,680 Speaker 2: But she was really distressed and she didn't have any car, 436 00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:01,480 Speaker 2: and she came in asked for some kind of cigarettes. 437 00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:04,439 Speaker 2: I gave it to her, and then I saw her 438 00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:06,720 Speaker 2: coming from the really dark side of the world, so 439 00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:09,080 Speaker 2: I asked her. I was like, are you Are you okay? 440 00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:11,320 Speaker 2: Like do you want me to call your cab or anyone? 441 00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:13,199 Speaker 2: Like where are you going by yourself? Like this night 442 00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:15,440 Speaker 2: it was like three am in the morning, and she 443 00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:18,640 Speaker 2: said like no, no, no, don't worry, like I'm good. 444 00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:21,200 Speaker 2: And then she just pulled out like a gun purse, 445 00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:26,639 Speaker 2: I'm strapped, and then she just like went walking. And 446 00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:27,960 Speaker 2: this happened twice. 447 00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:31,760 Speaker 1: She pulled out a gun at you or she was 448 00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:33,280 Speaker 1: just like, don't worry, I'm okay, and oh no, no, 449 00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:34,080 Speaker 1: she just showed. 450 00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:35,920 Speaker 2: Me the gun. She just showed me the gun. Oh, 451 00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:38,880 Speaker 2: don't worry about me, like I'm good, and then she 452 00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:42,760 Speaker 2: just walked out. Now, imagine like if some kind of 453 00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:47,480 Speaker 2: if I made contact with this woman, like during the 454 00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:51,160 Speaker 2: daytime or like any other place O seven eleven and 455 00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:53,600 Speaker 2: maybe she was in the wife's mood or anything and 456 00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:56,400 Speaker 2: she just pulled out a gun just to sturb me. No, 457 00:28:57,560 --> 00:29:00,680 Speaker 2: So it is a real possibility. I hope it is. 458 00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:03,120 Speaker 3: M hm. 459 00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:09,000 Speaker 1: How many times was the seven eleven rob the only ones? Uh? 460 00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:17,280 Speaker 2: Like a major robbery was well, uh so the something 461 00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:19,840 Speaker 2: that I worked at, the owner had like three other 462 00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:23,160 Speaker 2: seven eleven. So when there's like a missing shift, like 463 00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:26,720 Speaker 2: I would cover for the other one. So one shift 464 00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:29,360 Speaker 2: what I was supposed to be working, some other guy 465 00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:32,600 Speaker 2: covered my shift and he got robbed. The same guy 466 00:29:33,120 --> 00:29:35,480 Speaker 2: came to the store that I was working at, and 467 00:29:36,080 --> 00:29:39,480 Speaker 2: that's like two months after that he rocked it. He 468 00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:44,960 Speaker 2: got ropped again. So technically, the only time I was 469 00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:47,360 Speaker 2: lobbed was just like some people just took out all 470 00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:49,880 Speaker 2: the things like they bought and they ran away without pay. 471 00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:53,360 Speaker 2: That's as much as robbery counts. Second, my case that 472 00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:56,680 Speaker 2: the other guy was whated like multiple times, like red handed, 473 00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:59,400 Speaker 2: like with a gun. They were pointed at him and 474 00:29:59,880 --> 00:30:02,320 Speaker 2: was getting what happened. 475 00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:10,000 Speaker 1: Man, you're a first of all, I mean, that's that's 476 00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:12,280 Speaker 1: such a bummer for the guy who took your shift. 477 00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:16,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, for Christmas too. 478 00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:29,360 Speaker 1: You know what, Abe, I don't. I haven't been doing 479 00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:31,560 Speaker 1: this a lot, but I'm gonna try this out. I'm 480 00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:34,040 Speaker 1: going to see if the chat has any questions for you? 481 00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:35,320 Speaker 2: Chat. 482 00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:37,000 Speaker 1: Do you have any questions for Abe? 483 00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:37,920 Speaker 2: I do. 484 00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:41,120 Speaker 1: I've been doing this at my shows where I ask 485 00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:43,400 Speaker 1: the crowd if they have any questions for the person 486 00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:45,000 Speaker 1: at the end. So I'm going to try it out 487 00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:47,640 Speaker 1: with you, Gabe, because you seem like you have a 488 00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:50,680 Speaker 1: lot of interesting things to talk about that maybe I 489 00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:54,160 Speaker 1: I uh am too dumb to have the questions for. 490 00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:59,200 Speaker 1: But someone asked. Somebody asks you. A cheek spreader X 491 00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:02,720 Speaker 1: wants to know if you have the desire to ever 492 00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:04,680 Speaker 1: own a gun yourself. 493 00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:10,200 Speaker 2: No, no, that's too much responsibility. 494 00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:17,840 Speaker 1: Uh ipout eight says, would you ever actually date anybody 495 00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:18,520 Speaker 1: in America? 496 00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:26,800 Speaker 2: Yeah? Oh yeah, why wouldn't I. 497 00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:30,360 Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe because they would have a gun? 498 00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:34,080 Speaker 2: I mean a song of than not putting at me? 499 00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:42,200 Speaker 1: Uh crying says Abe. You see mad chill? How do 500 00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:45,600 Speaker 1: you find calmness in stressful situations? 501 00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:55,120 Speaker 2: A crazy mom, a super super crazy mom. If you 502 00:31:55,200 --> 00:31:57,080 Speaker 2: grow up in a house that was the mom moving 503 00:31:57,920 --> 00:32:01,320 Speaker 2: super crazy. Just you've seen it nothing scarcely of that. 504 00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:06,240 Speaker 2: So yeah, m hmm. 505 00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:08,480 Speaker 1: Are you still close with your parents? 506 00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:14,000 Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, yeah, very much so. 507 00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:17,920 Speaker 1: And they and your parents live in Ethiopia now, or 508 00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:19,080 Speaker 1: they're in America with you. 509 00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:24,240 Speaker 2: They're in Ethiopia, but they come o visit sometimes. I think, 510 00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:27,400 Speaker 2: I hope so east they can't. I know they can come, 511 00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:29,240 Speaker 2: but they haven't been here since I. 512 00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:31,760 Speaker 1: Do you keeping hot? Do you keep in a pretty 513 00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:34,360 Speaker 1: consistent contact with them over phone and texts and stuff? 514 00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:39,640 Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, yeah, we talk really like on weekends, but 515 00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:41,040 Speaker 2: other times we just said. 516 00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:45,520 Speaker 1: Okay, that's how old you are, Abe, I'm curious. Twenty four, 517 00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:50,760 Speaker 1: twenty four, twenty four, nice bro, nice man. Yeah, you're 518 00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:54,480 Speaker 1: you're you're younger than me. You're we're about the same age. Ish, 519 00:32:56,160 --> 00:32:58,400 Speaker 1: that's you. You gotta you got a real chill head 520 00:32:58,440 --> 00:32:59,560 Speaker 1: on your shoulders. Man. 521 00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:04,240 Speaker 2: Wow, Well that's the thing. I mean, I'm going to 522 00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:09,440 Speaker 2: need help with this thing. So I kind of have 523 00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:11,840 Speaker 2: stumbled upon the reason why it's can out for any 524 00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:17,160 Speaker 2: kind of infamous ant or anyone. And I think you 525 00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:20,160 Speaker 2: might give me some kind of perspective. 526 00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:27,240 Speaker 1: M shake, zula, shout out. That's an aquitine hunger force reference. 527 00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:33,520 Speaker 1: Master shake, Zula asks, is America like how you thought 528 00:33:33,560 --> 00:33:33,920 Speaker 1: it would be? 529 00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:41,560 Speaker 2: No, it's so much terrible to be honest, really, yeah, 530 00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:46,040 Speaker 2: because one can't. I hate the most is why do 531 00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:49,680 Speaker 2: you have to take a car anywhere? So Like I 532 00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:52,160 Speaker 2: work in like a Virginia for American wife, So I 533 00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:55,120 Speaker 2: have to take ten dollar Uber to the metro station 534 00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:58,440 Speaker 2: and then I have to crme you like an tower 535 00:33:58,560 --> 00:34:01,600 Speaker 2: or something, and then capack and then I'd take another 536 00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:05,920 Speaker 2: ten dollars over. So really, like I'm washing like twenty 537 00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:11,000 Speaker 2: bucks just an Uber at day, and I just it's 538 00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:14,080 Speaker 2: pretty wishful. And you don't have any kind of public transport, 539 00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:18,319 Speaker 2: can't go anywhere without you, like Croup if you don't 540 00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:22,480 Speaker 2: have the car, and that is just that's terrible, buddy. 541 00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:26,600 Speaker 1: I am one hundred percent with you after going to 542 00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:31,719 Speaker 1: places that have better public transport. Fucking That's the thing 543 00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:34,160 Speaker 1: I think I hate about America the most. I tried 544 00:34:34,160 --> 00:34:37,160 Speaker 1: to think about this the other day of like what cities. 545 00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:40,759 Speaker 1: How many cities in America can you really live in 546 00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:45,560 Speaker 1: without a car? And there's there's what New York, Chicago, 547 00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:49,200 Speaker 1: San fran No. 548 00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:55,840 Speaker 2: Maybe interesting in the downtown arenas, but nothing more than that. 549 00:34:57,080 --> 00:35:00,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, in Ethiopia, is it easy to get around without 550 00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:00,480 Speaker 1: a car? 551 00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:05,640 Speaker 2: So much easy. They're like so the window transportation barries, right, 552 00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:08,040 Speaker 2: So you have trains that go from like end to 553 00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:10,399 Speaker 2: end city, so like the one that goes what east 554 00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:13,080 Speaker 2: to west and then north to south, and then you 555 00:35:13,200 --> 00:35:16,200 Speaker 2: have like the usual buses, and then they're like buses 556 00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:18,759 Speaker 2: but also kind of smaller busses where they take these 557 00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:22,640 Speaker 2: really really big pickup trucks and they kind of make 558 00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:24,680 Speaker 2: their body for them to carry you like twenty to 559 00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:28,440 Speaker 2: thirty people. And then after that you have mini busines. 560 00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:32,360 Speaker 2: Those usually kill like twelve people. So they are a 561 00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:36,560 Speaker 2: little bit expensive, like maybe one or two dollars, like 562 00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:40,160 Speaker 2: expensive work, but they get around really fast. You think around, 563 00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:42,960 Speaker 2: that's tic go anywhere. And if you live like a 564 00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:45,920 Speaker 2: really really like outskirts of the city pars, you have 565 00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:50,400 Speaker 2: like these things like the jarge by that sorry, So 566 00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:52,960 Speaker 2: there's like three legged motorcycles where you have like three 567 00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:54,799 Speaker 2: people sit in the back and two on the prone 568 00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:57,640 Speaker 2: and one in the middle. So basically you can get 569 00:35:57,800 --> 00:35:59,839 Speaker 2: anywhere at any time without. 570 00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:03,640 Speaker 1: The car, but you have to ride a motorcycle. 571 00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:08,040 Speaker 2: No, you don't have to. The guy dunk it for 572 00:36:08,160 --> 00:36:09,480 Speaker 2: you and you can just sit at it back. 573 00:36:10,840 --> 00:36:11,920 Speaker 1: Motorcycles scare men. 574 00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:16,120 Speaker 2: It's not a motorcycle. It's like it's like a tin 575 00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:18,920 Speaker 2: cycle where like they're like people sit at the back 576 00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:20,520 Speaker 2: and then once got in parts in the plot. 577 00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:27,479 Speaker 1: Oh, Jukies, you know I like doing that. I'm gonna 578 00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:29,919 Speaker 1: start doing this more often. This is this is fun. 579 00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:31,640 Speaker 1: I'm gonna start doing this more often. I'm not gonna 580 00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:34,839 Speaker 1: do it every time, I'm gonna do it more often. 581 00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:37,279 Speaker 1: This is this is the last one. Jukiees wants to 582 00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:40,920 Speaker 1: know where did the ideas that you had about America 583 00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:44,719 Speaker 1: before coming? Where did they come from? Did they come from? Movies? 584 00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:47,040 Speaker 1: The Internet? Where did where did the ideas that you 585 00:36:47,120 --> 00:36:47,960 Speaker 1: did have come from? 586 00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:52,319 Speaker 2: Yeah? The Internet, movies, Internet. I mean I'm twenty four, 587 00:36:52,520 --> 00:36:57,960 Speaker 2: so I'm basically written the Internet. So yeah, and the 588 00:36:58,080 --> 00:37:02,000 Speaker 2: news not of news, and the muse is terrible. 589 00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:10,440 Speaker 1: So well, what's your name again? Abraham? 590 00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:12,320 Speaker 2: Right? Abraham? 591 00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:15,680 Speaker 1: Abraham? Abraham, Abraham? How did you How did you feel 592 00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:19,600 Speaker 1: talking to a gecko on the phone for a half 593 00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:21,000 Speaker 1: hour or however long this was. 594 00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:24,239 Speaker 2: It's been a half an hour, Oh my god. Yeah, 595 00:37:24,640 --> 00:37:28,000 Speaker 2: I mean we've been talking a lot but I need 596 00:37:28,080 --> 00:37:28,960 Speaker 2: your hope something. 597 00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:32,719 Speaker 1: Oh wait, we talked for a whole half hour and 598 00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:34,680 Speaker 1: we we didn't even get to the thing that you 599 00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:37,640 Speaker 1: You had a and this whole time you had a 600 00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:42,479 Speaker 1: thing that you called in to want to talk about. Yes, yes, 601 00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:47,120 Speaker 1: well fuck yeah. And this has been a long call already. 602 00:37:47,239 --> 00:37:49,640 Speaker 1: I mean ship A lot of the pike, a lot 603 00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:51,160 Speaker 1: of the calls on this podcast have been. 604 00:37:51,280 --> 00:37:51,920 Speaker 2: You can come out. 605 00:37:53,239 --> 00:37:55,640 Speaker 1: I mean no, that's I mean, what what what? What? 606 00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:55,920 Speaker 2: What? 607 00:37:56,320 --> 00:37:58,120 Speaker 1: Maybe we can maybe we can speed run it? 608 00:37:58,160 --> 00:38:04,439 Speaker 2: What is it? So for some reason I cannot seem 609 00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:07,319 Speaker 2: to be able to accept like any kind of love 610 00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:11,120 Speaker 2: and affection towards me is real and genuine. I just 611 00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:14,080 Speaker 2: don't believe that whatever I have this and who says 612 00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:17,480 Speaker 2: it a word is just like you know, what's the 613 00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:20,680 Speaker 2: motive behind it? Like what's next? So I always try 614 00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:23,960 Speaker 2: to keep like a mental distance away from everything, especially 615 00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:28,120 Speaker 2: when it comes to intimate connections. And one of the 616 00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:30,360 Speaker 2: main reasons is because, like I mentioned, you know, the 617 00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:33,520 Speaker 2: crazy moms. So I never got to see like a 618 00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:37,520 Speaker 2: real love and real affection towards anyone in the family. 619 00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:42,880 Speaker 2: So that's kind of I don't know, propagated to me. 620 00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:47,520 Speaker 2: In a way. And now, yeah, you. 621 00:38:47,880 --> 00:38:51,759 Speaker 1: Really burying the lead here, Abraham, really burying the lead. 622 00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:55,720 Speaker 2: I'm not I'm just trying to get one as possible. 623 00:38:56,320 --> 00:39:00,680 Speaker 1: No, I'm fucking with you. Have a thought about what 624 00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:06,120 Speaker 1: you just said. Here's my thought of what you just said, Abraham, 625 00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:09,400 Speaker 1: over the course of this conversation, I mean talking about 626 00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:12,279 Speaker 1: like all the friends and community. 627 00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:12,920 Speaker 2: That you have in. 628 00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:17,839 Speaker 1: In Ethiopia, The way that you talked about your your 629 00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:22,880 Speaker 1: uncle and your aunt and you know, loving them. The 630 00:39:22,960 --> 00:39:26,000 Speaker 1: way that you talked about your your parents and your 631 00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:27,600 Speaker 1: mom even though you know you just said that she 632 00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:29,800 Speaker 1: was a little bit crazy, you know, the way that 633 00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:31,880 Speaker 1: the fact that you keep in contact with her, you 634 00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:34,520 Speaker 1: love her, She's in your life. Even the way you 635 00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:41,560 Speaker 1: talked about the the fucking crackheads, and I guess you should, 636 00:39:42,560 --> 00:39:45,359 Speaker 1: but even the way you talked about like the even 637 00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:48,520 Speaker 1: the way you talked about the tweakers at seven to eleven, 638 00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:51,800 Speaker 1: who you who you went out of your way to 639 00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:56,319 Speaker 1: make food for every You've not really said an unkind 640 00:39:57,760 --> 00:40:02,080 Speaker 1: thing about any person that you've or a group of people, 641 00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:07,000 Speaker 1: or anything that you've brought up in the time that 642 00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:09,520 Speaker 1: I have been talking to you. You've been very gracious, 643 00:40:09,719 --> 00:40:14,640 Speaker 1: very loving again not just towards your family and friends 644 00:40:14,719 --> 00:40:17,600 Speaker 1: of community, but towards motherfuckers that you don't know running 645 00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:23,360 Speaker 1: into your seven eleven. So you know, I hope you know. 646 00:40:24,719 --> 00:40:27,520 Speaker 1: And again this is what I'm getting from just talking 647 00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:29,800 Speaker 1: to you, that you have a lot of love in 648 00:40:29,920 --> 00:40:35,320 Speaker 1: your heart. You have a really great hard and you 649 00:40:35,600 --> 00:40:37,680 Speaker 1: and you and you give you give it a lot, 650 00:40:37,760 --> 00:40:43,279 Speaker 1: You give it a lot, right, So I hope you 651 00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:47,520 Speaker 1: understand that about yourself, and that your understanding of that 652 00:40:48,600 --> 00:40:53,920 Speaker 1: helps you to understand why you should be able to 653 00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:55,600 Speaker 1: receive all of that back. 654 00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:07,600 Speaker 2: Well, that's the thing I cannot It's just the only 655 00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:11,760 Speaker 2: one person I can genuinely believe is okay, I can't 656 00:41:11,760 --> 00:41:13,680 Speaker 2: believe like any kind of affection for worse, you take 657 00:41:13,800 --> 00:41:17,720 Speaker 2: my sister and then that's it. And that's mainly because 658 00:41:17,800 --> 00:41:20,600 Speaker 2: like weally bretically go up, she knows me like longer 659 00:41:20,680 --> 00:41:24,759 Speaker 2: than anyone has ever been a sooner you know, go 660 00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:26,279 Speaker 2: from being a target of this one. 661 00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:30,680 Speaker 1: But other than that, yeah, I'm sorry, who did you 662 00:41:30,719 --> 00:41:31,120 Speaker 1: say again? 663 00:41:32,280 --> 00:41:33,600 Speaker 2: My sister, sister? 664 00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:36,839 Speaker 1: Your sister, So the only person you can believe could 665 00:41:36,880 --> 00:41:39,640 Speaker 1: ever are we talking about love you or just like. 666 00:41:41,640 --> 00:41:43,759 Speaker 2: Or any kind of affection, just like the. 667 00:41:43,800 --> 00:41:46,200 Speaker 1: Only person that could show any amount of affection and 668 00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:52,400 Speaker 1: care towards you is and you're saying that because she's 669 00:41:52,880 --> 00:41:53,839 Speaker 1: known you for so long. 670 00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:59,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not like no other person. Duke does give 671 00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:02,840 Speaker 2: me all those affections, but like I just don't believe it, 672 00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:06,520 Speaker 2: or like subconsciously I don't accept them in a way. 673 00:42:08,080 --> 00:42:09,080 Speaker 2: Maybe that's why I. 674 00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:11,560 Speaker 1: Why don't you? Why don't you believe it? 675 00:42:14,160 --> 00:42:17,399 Speaker 2: Well, like I said, like I don't think this kind 676 00:42:17,440 --> 00:42:22,120 Speaker 2: of affection of transfers like I've never witnessed it in 677 00:42:22,200 --> 00:42:23,200 Speaker 2: any kind of scenario. 678 00:42:24,000 --> 00:42:26,640 Speaker 1: Yep, you've given it, so you have that's a lie. 679 00:42:26,680 --> 00:42:31,400 Speaker 1: You've witnessed it, like when I do, LIKEEO, you've witnessed 680 00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:34,160 Speaker 1: it in scenario after scenario in which you've given it 681 00:42:34,239 --> 00:42:35,839 Speaker 1: to other people, so you know it's real. 682 00:42:37,239 --> 00:42:39,000 Speaker 2: Well, like when I do that, I don't think of, 683 00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:41,080 Speaker 2: oh yeah, this is a section that I'm giving and 684 00:42:41,239 --> 00:42:43,560 Speaker 2: keep a mental tecknifs, But I just do it because 685 00:42:43,600 --> 00:42:46,160 Speaker 2: you know, it's like at the moment, it seems like 686 00:42:46,280 --> 00:42:49,640 Speaker 2: you know it's the thing to do. Just the people 687 00:42:49,760 --> 00:42:52,400 Speaker 2: that need to be giving them. You have like some 688 00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:53,960 Speaker 2: stuff to do it, then we do it. 689 00:42:54,920 --> 00:43:01,120 Speaker 1: Okay, well I'll say I'll say this, and I'm not 690 00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:05,239 Speaker 1: and I'm looking at and peeking at the chat a 691 00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:05,759 Speaker 1: little bit. 692 00:43:08,480 --> 00:43:10,200 Speaker 2: I don't I don't want to read it now because 693 00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:14,239 Speaker 2: I will give to my head too much and then 694 00:43:14,320 --> 00:43:16,000 Speaker 2: if it's bad, the same thing happens. 695 00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:19,000 Speaker 1: Well, well, I'll say this. Obviously you and me are 696 00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:23,120 Speaker 1: not going to be friends forever, and obviously we're not 697 00:43:23,719 --> 00:43:27,160 Speaker 1: you know, I'm not the same on any sort of 698 00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:29,680 Speaker 1: level of of you know, like how your family and 699 00:43:29,800 --> 00:43:32,879 Speaker 1: your the people you know in your real life are. 700 00:43:33,600 --> 00:43:35,800 Speaker 1: But I'll say that, and maybe if you can't accept 701 00:43:36,000 --> 00:43:38,880 Speaker 1: some form of a of a maybe it'll take you 702 00:43:38,920 --> 00:43:40,920 Speaker 1: a while to be able to accept some form of 703 00:43:41,040 --> 00:43:46,520 Speaker 1: a you know, uh, deep emotional loving connection. But if 704 00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:50,480 Speaker 1: we started a bit smaller, right, and let's just talk 705 00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:52,360 Speaker 1: about you and me right now and the people that 706 00:43:52,440 --> 00:43:56,160 Speaker 1: are listening to this in this moment again without knowing you, 707 00:43:58,400 --> 00:44:04,800 Speaker 1: just you as you've presented yourself today, uh, with with 708 00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:10,560 Speaker 1: the with the small depth of our relationship that people 709 00:44:10,640 --> 00:44:14,040 Speaker 1: have formed with you from listening to you. That again 710 00:44:14,200 --> 00:44:18,000 Speaker 1: is not some kind of long lasting whatever thing, but 711 00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:21,400 Speaker 1: like just about the most basic unit of something of 712 00:44:21,520 --> 00:44:24,880 Speaker 1: the most basic unit of us something, okay, okay, not 713 00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:29,840 Speaker 1: just to start small. Can you believe and accept that 714 00:44:29,920 --> 00:44:34,320 Speaker 1: I've enjoyed talking to you for the duration that we 715 00:44:34,480 --> 00:44:39,440 Speaker 1: have been talking. I've appreciated your perspective. I think you 716 00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:43,120 Speaker 1: seem like a good dude, and that the people that 717 00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:47,360 Speaker 1: are listening to this right now would agree. Is that 718 00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:49,240 Speaker 1: a difficult thing for you to accept? 719 00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:50,440 Speaker 3: No? 720 00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:53,080 Speaker 2: No, I've been listening to you for more than three years, 721 00:44:53,600 --> 00:44:55,680 Speaker 2: so I do believe it when you say it. 722 00:44:57,680 --> 00:44:58,600 Speaker 1: Okay, good? 723 00:44:59,760 --> 00:45:00,239 Speaker 3: So oh. 724 00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:04,640 Speaker 1: That's I think. That's all I can That's all that's 725 00:45:04,640 --> 00:45:08,440 Speaker 1: all I can give you right now, is that if 726 00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:14,919 Speaker 1: you can accept that little amounts, then maybe hard good good. 727 00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:18,120 Speaker 1: If you can accept that little amount, maybe you can you. 728 00:45:18,160 --> 00:45:21,160 Speaker 2: Know, uh, give it to the next person. 729 00:45:21,840 --> 00:45:23,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, sure, I doublet and give it to 730 00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:30,080 Speaker 1: the next person or whatever. Abraham, is there anything else 731 00:45:30,120 --> 00:45:32,440 Speaker 1: you want to say to the people of the computer 732 00:45:32,640 --> 00:45:34,080 Speaker 1: before we go? Mm? 733 00:45:35,440 --> 00:45:35,920 Speaker 3: No, Just. 734 00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:42,719 Speaker 2: Don't be shy to people. You know, make good food 735 00:45:42,760 --> 00:45:43,640 Speaker 2: to drunk people. 736 00:45:45,880 --> 00:45:51,160 Speaker 1: You know what, Abraham, I'm gonna I'm gonna down for 737 00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:54,960 Speaker 1: taketos right after the stream in your honor. 738 00:45:56,400 --> 00:46:00,520 Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you. No, no, no, no, get thet 739 00:46:00,640 --> 00:46:01,440 Speaker 2: don't get a tektos. 740 00:46:01,440 --> 00:46:03,799 Speaker 1: The groups that want what should I get? 741 00:46:05,040 --> 00:46:10,560 Speaker 2: Uh, get anything that's cooked like immediately, so either like 742 00:46:10,640 --> 00:46:13,840 Speaker 2: the chicken, the tadcast, or any kind of the pizza. 743 00:46:14,840 --> 00:46:19,160 Speaker 1: I love having an inside guy at seven eleven. 744 00:46:20,200 --> 00:46:23,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, there wasn't the grill. They usually stayed like longer 745 00:46:23,320 --> 00:46:26,560 Speaker 2: than they should. So don't get anything. Don't get anything else. 746 00:46:28,719 --> 00:46:37,400 Speaker 1: Have aggressed that night, man, you too, you get I 747 00:46:37,560 --> 00:46:42,320 Speaker 1: liked that guy. He was cool. He was cool again. 748 00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:44,239 Speaker 1: I don't want I want to be real. I'm not 749 00:46:44,360 --> 00:46:47,279 Speaker 1: gonna be like so I don't. I don't, uh, I don't. 750 00:46:47,360 --> 00:46:55,760 Speaker 1: I'm like, obviously, I think there's a long, stretchy road between. 751 00:46:57,000 --> 00:47:04,120 Speaker 1: I enjoyed having this synonymous conversation with you and I 752 00:47:04,280 --> 00:47:07,960 Speaker 1: know you fullheartedly and deeply and love you on a 753 00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:18,640 Speaker 1: spiritual level. But there's there's something there. I think there's something. 754 00:47:22,560 --> 00:47:22,759 Speaker 2: There. 755 00:47:22,920 --> 00:47:24,759 Speaker 1: Hopefully I did. I meant what I meant what I said. 756 00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:28,239 Speaker 1: I enjoyed talking to the Abe. It was cool. It 757 00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:30,960 Speaker 1: makes me it's and also it's funny, right, it's it's funny. 758 00:47:30,960 --> 00:47:33,160 Speaker 1: I didn't want to say this, but it's like I 759 00:47:33,280 --> 00:47:37,279 Speaker 1: think the average American's idea of what Ethiopia is like 760 00:47:38,080 --> 00:47:41,640 Speaker 1: is is probably not great. And the way that he 761 00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:49,560 Speaker 1: described it is it's it sounded fucking awesome. Yeah, I'd 762 00:47:49,560 --> 00:47:51,480 Speaker 1: love to. I'd love to when when one day I'll 763 00:47:51,520 --> 00:48:00,080 Speaker 1: do being a gecko in Africa And yeah, it's no. 764 00:48:00,160 --> 00:48:02,320 Speaker 1: I like talking to people from other places because I 765 00:48:02,360 --> 00:48:04,040 Speaker 1: agree with them. One that I agree with the the 766 00:48:04,800 --> 00:48:08,200 Speaker 1: the car's thing is it is a pain in the cunt. 767 00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:13,600 Speaker 1: It really is having to uber everywhere. 768 00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:15,160 Speaker 2: I like. 769 00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:20,640 Speaker 1: I like the three leg and motorcycle thing better. Also, 770 00:48:20,719 --> 00:48:29,240 Speaker 1: you know, it's funny. Despite Abraham's suggestion, I'm totally still 771 00:48:30,560 --> 00:48:32,600 Speaker 1: going to get taketos. 772 00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:34,319 Speaker 2: All right. 773 00:48:35,760 --> 00:48:45,759 Speaker 1: Paul from Shell, Hello, Hi, Hey, who's this. Hi? 774 00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:49,000 Speaker 3: I'm Shell. Well, I mean that's the name I'll be 775 00:48:49,040 --> 00:48:49,880 Speaker 3: giving for right now. 776 00:48:52,000 --> 00:48:55,000 Speaker 1: Shell. What's up, Shell? How's life going? Have we ever 777 00:48:55,040 --> 00:48:55,760 Speaker 1: spoken before? 778 00:48:56,760 --> 00:49:00,319 Speaker 3: No, we have not. I am a fan from I'm 779 00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:02,600 Speaker 3: I'm I've been a fan for like a few years now, 780 00:49:02,840 --> 00:49:06,520 Speaker 3: but h this is the first time I've actually tried 781 00:49:06,600 --> 00:49:07,000 Speaker 3: calling in. 782 00:49:08,520 --> 00:49:13,279 Speaker 1: Hell. Yeah, what's uh? What's up? Shell? What's life like? 783 00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:17,680 Speaker 3: Life has been good? I mean I feel like life 784 00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:21,520 Speaker 3: wasn't good like a month two months ago, but it's 785 00:49:21,880 --> 00:49:24,359 Speaker 3: a lot better now, but I think everyone has been 786 00:49:24,400 --> 00:49:28,320 Speaker 3: going If there's something going around in the air right now, honestly. 787 00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:33,000 Speaker 1: A good thing or a bad thing, I just think 788 00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:33,760 Speaker 1: it's changed. 789 00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:35,400 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna say it's a bad thing, because I'm 790 00:49:35,400 --> 00:49:37,000 Speaker 3: gonna be honest with you. I feel like a lot 791 00:49:37,239 --> 00:49:39,600 Speaker 3: of people in my life recently have just been going 792 00:49:39,640 --> 00:49:43,839 Speaker 3: through like, let's say, like breakups or like getting six 793 00:49:43,960 --> 00:49:46,279 Speaker 3: stuff like that. So it's like every like I have 794 00:49:46,440 --> 00:49:48,360 Speaker 3: like five or six of my friends that were like 795 00:49:48,800 --> 00:49:51,480 Speaker 3: all at the same time, like, yeah, me and this 796 00:49:51,640 --> 00:49:53,719 Speaker 3: dude just broke up, which is the same thing that 797 00:49:53,760 --> 00:49:56,120 Speaker 3: happened to me as well. So I think it was 798 00:49:56,200 --> 00:49:57,759 Speaker 3: just something that was going around in the air. But 799 00:49:57,800 --> 00:50:01,200 Speaker 3: a breakup isn't always a bad thing, So I'm gonna 800 00:50:01,239 --> 00:50:02,920 Speaker 3: say it's not a bad change. 801 00:50:04,080 --> 00:50:07,880 Speaker 1: Okay, as far as the air, I don't know. I 802 00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:12,239 Speaker 1: think people's definitely I don't know. I was gonna say 803 00:50:12,280 --> 00:50:15,000 Speaker 1: this seems like there's problems, but there's If you compare 804 00:50:16,600 --> 00:50:21,600 Speaker 1: twenty twenty three to like, I don't know, twenty twenty 805 00:50:21,680 --> 00:50:24,799 Speaker 1: twenty things, life's better for sure. 806 00:50:25,760 --> 00:50:28,920 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, I mean I think there's going on, 807 00:50:29,239 --> 00:50:31,319 Speaker 3: but it's just different, you know what I mean, Because 808 00:50:31,400 --> 00:50:34,399 Speaker 3: like I don't think anything's gonna get bad as bad 809 00:50:34,480 --> 00:50:37,200 Speaker 3: as like twenty twenty. Like a whole pandemic hitting the 810 00:50:37,280 --> 00:50:39,920 Speaker 3: world is like as bad as it can get. Like 811 00:50:40,040 --> 00:50:41,879 Speaker 3: we thought the world was gonna end in twenty twelve, 812 00:50:41,920 --> 00:50:44,719 Speaker 3: and I think this is it was way worse than 813 00:50:44,760 --> 00:50:46,200 Speaker 3: even thinking the world's gonna end. 814 00:50:49,360 --> 00:50:54,200 Speaker 1: Well, Shelle, enough about the world. Is there anything in 815 00:50:54,239 --> 00:50:55,839 Speaker 1: particular you wanted to talk about today? 816 00:50:57,440 --> 00:50:57,480 Speaker 2: So? 817 00:50:57,680 --> 00:51:00,359 Speaker 3: I mean there was like two topics. There were one 818 00:51:00,440 --> 00:51:02,359 Speaker 3: that was like kind of like a revelation that I've 819 00:51:02,440 --> 00:51:05,200 Speaker 3: come to that I've I kind of just want to 820 00:51:05,280 --> 00:51:07,120 Speaker 3: like spring on you. But it doesn't have to be 821 00:51:07,200 --> 00:51:10,880 Speaker 3: like a long convo because I also feel like I 822 00:51:11,000 --> 00:51:13,759 Speaker 3: want to talk about the ship that went on, like 823 00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:17,080 Speaker 3: like I said, like two months ago and stuff like that. 824 00:51:17,400 --> 00:51:20,759 Speaker 3: It's more like about like trying to find myself again. 825 00:51:21,520 --> 00:51:24,920 Speaker 3: But there is just something very weird I found out recently, 826 00:51:25,080 --> 00:51:28,280 Speaker 3: and like I've been like researching stuff about like veganism, 827 00:51:28,760 --> 00:51:30,280 Speaker 3: right because like I don't. 828 00:51:30,120 --> 00:51:31,799 Speaker 1: Want to be a vegan, but like it was, okay, 829 00:51:31,880 --> 00:51:34,360 Speaker 1: you're hold on, hold on, hold on you, You're firing 830 00:51:34,440 --> 00:51:37,800 Speaker 1: on all cylinders at me. Right now show. Okay, So 831 00:51:38,000 --> 00:51:41,440 Speaker 1: thing one, yeah is a revelation? 832 00:51:42,719 --> 00:51:43,839 Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, which thing? 833 00:51:43,960 --> 00:51:45,799 Speaker 1: What's what's what's top What's topic two? 834 00:51:47,880 --> 00:51:54,160 Speaker 3: So the uh topic two would basically be like I have, 835 00:51:54,560 --> 00:51:56,640 Speaker 3: like I've been going through like a breakup and so, 836 00:51:57,080 --> 00:51:58,920 Speaker 3: and I mean it wasn't a breakup to someone that 837 00:51:58,920 --> 00:52:01,200 Speaker 3: I was dating for long, but for some reason, like 838 00:52:01,920 --> 00:52:04,160 Speaker 3: it was very much affecting my life. Then I was like, 839 00:52:04,200 --> 00:52:07,600 Speaker 3: I don't understand why, Okay, And the realization is that 840 00:52:07,880 --> 00:52:12,399 Speaker 3: I think I needed to focus on myself and I've been. 841 00:52:12,360 --> 00:52:14,480 Speaker 1: Trying to, like ware, I guess I'm confused. Are these 842 00:52:14,560 --> 00:52:15,520 Speaker 1: two different things? 843 00:52:16,400 --> 00:52:18,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, there're two different things. One of them is just 844 00:52:18,280 --> 00:52:21,200 Speaker 3: kind of like a stupid like fact that I wanted 845 00:52:21,200 --> 00:52:22,840 Speaker 3: to spring on you and your thoughts on it, and 846 00:52:22,960 --> 00:52:26,160 Speaker 3: then the other one is more like that conversation. 847 00:52:26,440 --> 00:52:29,920 Speaker 1: Okay, what's the what's the fact? 848 00:52:32,000 --> 00:52:36,520 Speaker 3: So, like I was saying before, I started researching veganism 849 00:52:36,560 --> 00:52:38,279 Speaker 3: a little bit, and then I found out because I'm 850 00:52:38,320 --> 00:52:41,560 Speaker 3: reading a book that like the topics are about cannibalism, 851 00:52:42,760 --> 00:52:46,440 Speaker 3: and I come to this weird realization that like, let's say, 852 00:52:46,480 --> 00:52:49,600 Speaker 3: like breast milk, because it comes from a human being, 853 00:52:50,320 --> 00:52:57,319 Speaker 3: it's vegan. So with that same thought process, supposedly if 854 00:52:57,520 --> 00:53:00,480 Speaker 3: cannibalism were allowed, it would be vegan. 855 00:53:02,719 --> 00:53:04,799 Speaker 1: Is it is it illegal to drink some of these 856 00:53:04,840 --> 00:53:05,319 Speaker 1: breast milk? 857 00:53:06,520 --> 00:53:09,440 Speaker 3: No, it's not. People sell breast milk online, right, Like 858 00:53:10,120 --> 00:53:13,560 Speaker 3: I ninety percent of the time it's for mothers that 859 00:53:13,719 --> 00:53:17,640 Speaker 3: can't breastfeed their kids and they want natural breast milk, 860 00:53:17,760 --> 00:53:20,400 Speaker 3: so you can buy that online that people actually just 861 00:53:20,560 --> 00:53:23,200 Speaker 3: like pump it and sell it. But I think there's 862 00:53:23,280 --> 00:53:25,520 Speaker 3: like a like a five percent of that that might 863 00:53:25,600 --> 00:53:30,680 Speaker 3: be a weird fetish thing. But ninety percent of the time, 864 00:53:30,800 --> 00:53:32,800 Speaker 3: ninety five percent of the time, I think it is 865 00:53:32,960 --> 00:53:38,440 Speaker 3: for babies that that need breast milk produce. 866 00:53:38,760 --> 00:53:45,759 Speaker 1: So you wanted my opinion on drinking breast milk, No. 867 00:53:45,880 --> 00:53:50,800 Speaker 3: I wanted your opinion on the idea of cannibalism being vegan. 868 00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:53,360 Speaker 3: I obviously wouldn't partake in that, But it's like the 869 00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:56,560 Speaker 3: weird idea. I just never had thought about it. But 870 00:53:57,480 --> 00:54:01,360 Speaker 3: the part of the make that makes that happen is 871 00:54:01,400 --> 00:54:07,040 Speaker 3: because animals can't consent, but a person can, Like we're 872 00:54:07,080 --> 00:54:09,719 Speaker 3: sentient and animals aren't shentient, Like that's a that's a 873 00:54:09,800 --> 00:54:12,480 Speaker 3: piece of uh like veganism that I didn't you know. 874 00:54:12,520 --> 00:54:13,719 Speaker 1: What, all right, I'll give you the all right, I'll 875 00:54:13,719 --> 00:54:15,200 Speaker 1: tell you this. I'll tell you this. I think I 876 00:54:15,520 --> 00:54:19,560 Speaker 1: I you know, you're you're presenting something, you know what. 877 00:54:20,000 --> 00:54:21,880 Speaker 1: Sheelle It took me a little bit to wrap my 878 00:54:21,920 --> 00:54:26,800 Speaker 1: head around everything you're saying right now. But but you 879 00:54:26,960 --> 00:54:30,840 Speaker 1: bring up a fascinating point. You bring up a fascinating 880 00:54:31,600 --> 00:54:36,000 Speaker 1: is it which is more fucked up eating a chicken 881 00:54:36,080 --> 00:54:41,960 Speaker 1: sandwich or eating a dude who said it was totally 882 00:54:42,120 --> 00:54:45,400 Speaker 1: chill for you to eat him. That's a you know what, 883 00:54:45,600 --> 00:54:48,160 Speaker 1: that's a legit. That's a legitimate point that you're making 884 00:54:48,239 --> 00:54:50,440 Speaker 1: right now. And let me moll it up. Because yes, 885 00:54:50,520 --> 00:54:54,239 Speaker 1: because the chicken had no say and whether or not 886 00:54:54,840 --> 00:54:57,520 Speaker 1: it was it's it's on paper, it's more fucked up 887 00:54:57,560 --> 00:54:59,759 Speaker 1: to eat the chicken because the chicken had no say 888 00:55:00,320 --> 00:55:02,640 Speaker 1: and whether or not you killed it and eat it. 889 00:55:03,040 --> 00:55:10,640 Speaker 1: But if the dude, with full awareness and sentience of himself, 890 00:55:12,120 --> 00:55:15,239 Speaker 1: makes the informed decision that he wants you to eat him, 891 00:55:16,400 --> 00:55:19,800 Speaker 1: that should theoretically be more ethical than eating the chicken. 892 00:55:20,760 --> 00:55:21,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. 893 00:55:21,320 --> 00:55:24,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, That's why I bring up this point because like 894 00:55:24,480 --> 00:55:26,319 Speaker 3: it's also like weird if you think about Let's say 895 00:55:26,360 --> 00:55:29,359 Speaker 3: like one day an animal decided to speak. Then at 896 00:55:29,400 --> 00:55:32,239 Speaker 3: that point, if the animal was like, here, I will 897 00:55:32,320 --> 00:55:36,560 Speaker 3: let you eat my leg, it would be vegan. It 898 00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:41,000 Speaker 3: would be vegan, and it would be okay. But it's 899 00:55:41,120 --> 00:55:43,800 Speaker 3: more fucked up because the animal literally can't consent. And 900 00:55:43,880 --> 00:55:46,360 Speaker 3: I never thought veganism had anything to do with consent. 901 00:55:46,719 --> 00:55:49,160 Speaker 3: I thought it was literally just don't eat animals. But 902 00:55:50,080 --> 00:55:52,320 Speaker 3: a big part of his like let's say, like eggs, 903 00:55:52,760 --> 00:55:54,920 Speaker 3: the chicken didn't tell you, hey, come and eat my eggs. 904 00:55:55,320 --> 00:55:58,239 Speaker 3: You know, you're basically kicking the chickens babies away and 905 00:55:58,320 --> 00:55:58,960 Speaker 3: then eating them. 906 00:55:59,760 --> 00:56:05,040 Speaker 1: So if a parrot says to chop his head off 907 00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:08,400 Speaker 1: and make it into a soup, that's vegan. 908 00:56:09,440 --> 00:56:12,640 Speaker 3: Yeah. So like there's like certain rules coming to veganism, 909 00:56:12,719 --> 00:56:15,399 Speaker 3: but that's like the main point of veganism. I don't 910 00:56:15,440 --> 00:56:18,080 Speaker 3: know if a lot of vegans know this, but like 911 00:56:18,880 --> 00:56:21,560 Speaker 3: when I started research, like when I heard, like the 912 00:56:21,680 --> 00:56:24,000 Speaker 3: fact that I that I came down this rabbit hole 913 00:56:24,280 --> 00:56:27,320 Speaker 3: was breast milk is vegan, right, And I was like, 914 00:56:27,480 --> 00:56:30,640 Speaker 3: how is breast milk vegan? Like I don't understand that, 915 00:56:31,560 --> 00:56:35,279 Speaker 3: how can that even be vegan? And it turns out 916 00:56:35,360 --> 00:56:37,800 Speaker 3: like when you look that up, it says, oh, because 917 00:56:37,840 --> 00:56:41,640 Speaker 3: a mother consents to someone buying the milk and drinking it. 918 00:56:42,400 --> 00:56:45,000 Speaker 3: So like if someone wanted to drink milk but they 919 00:56:45,360 --> 00:56:47,680 Speaker 3: are vegan, easily be like, Okay, I'm just going to 920 00:56:47,760 --> 00:56:49,239 Speaker 3: go online and buy some breast milk right now. 921 00:56:50,040 --> 00:56:51,560 Speaker 1: Well, you know what I'm going to take away from 922 00:56:51,560 --> 00:56:56,880 Speaker 1: this conversation, Michelle, is that if you know, maybe I 923 00:56:56,880 --> 00:57:00,840 Speaker 1: should give breast milk a try, put in some apple jacks, 924 00:57:01,360 --> 00:57:03,719 Speaker 1: and then then it makes a little sugary apple jack 925 00:57:04,800 --> 00:57:08,880 Speaker 1: breast milk milk or fry dude, wait, cinnamon toast crunch 926 00:57:08,920 --> 00:57:13,960 Speaker 1: with breast milk, a guilty free delicacy. 927 00:57:15,000 --> 00:57:15,440 Speaker 2: I like that. 928 00:57:16,600 --> 00:57:20,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yes, So I mean I wonder if breast 929 00:57:20,360 --> 00:57:23,360 Speaker 3: milk even tastes different. That's also something I'm probably gonna 930 00:57:23,360 --> 00:57:24,880 Speaker 3: have to sit down in research. 931 00:57:26,280 --> 00:57:27,560 Speaker 1: Is there anything else you want to say to the 932 00:57:27,600 --> 00:57:28,840 Speaker 1: people of the computer before we go? 933 00:57:30,520 --> 00:57:34,600 Speaker 3: No, I honestly hope that you guys gained a little 934 00:57:34,600 --> 00:57:37,720 Speaker 3: bit of facts from this, uh, because if I had 935 00:57:37,760 --> 00:57:39,440 Speaker 3: to learn this information, So do. 936 00:57:39,480 --> 00:57:44,400 Speaker 1: You I respect you putting that all on us. 937 00:57:45,520 --> 00:57:48,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, you're welcome. Have you got. 938 00:57:56,160 --> 00:57:57,720 Speaker 1: She was? She was cut off. I didn't even hang 939 00:57:57,800 --> 00:57:58,840 Speaker 1: up yet. Are you still here? 940 00:57:59,240 --> 00:58:00,240 Speaker 3: Oh no, I'm still here. 941 00:58:00,360 --> 00:58:01,600 Speaker 2: That was that was all I said. 942 00:58:02,000 --> 00:58:03,400 Speaker 3: I did you want me to keep talking? 943 00:58:04,080 --> 00:58:04,240 Speaker 2: Oh? 944 00:58:04,280 --> 00:58:06,400 Speaker 1: Well, you you were, You were about you could finish 945 00:58:06,440 --> 00:58:08,000 Speaker 1: your You were about to finish a sentence. 946 00:58:08,480 --> 00:58:10,680 Speaker 3: Oh oh you didn't hear it. Oh yeah, I said. 947 00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:14,200 Speaker 3: Now you can just spread the word to everybody, spread 948 00:58:14,280 --> 00:58:14,680 Speaker 3: the milk. 949 00:58:15,680 --> 00:58:17,400 Speaker 1: Yes, we need to bring we need to bring back 950 00:58:17,640 --> 00:58:20,040 Speaker 1: we need to bring back the Gotten Milk campaign. But 951 00:58:20,240 --> 00:58:22,360 Speaker 1: instead it's just adults breastfeeding. 952 00:58:23,680 --> 00:58:26,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what sounds beautiful. 953 00:58:27,880 --> 00:58:28,120 Speaker 2: You know what. 954 00:58:28,200 --> 00:58:30,280 Speaker 1: I'm glad we had that little awkward phone moment so 955 00:58:30,360 --> 00:58:32,800 Speaker 1: that we can we could get that in there. 956 00:58:33,680 --> 00:58:37,440 Speaker 3: M absolutely absolutely. If I am good at one thing, 957 00:58:37,480 --> 00:58:42,080 Speaker 3: it's creating an awkward moment. So bye, show bye. 958 00:58:43,920 --> 00:58:48,040 Speaker 1: Never goes on the line making your phone calls every night, 959 00:58:49,320 --> 00:58:51,520 Speaker 1: goes to just teaching you Cloud