Speaker 1: The Best Bits of the week with Morgan listener Q daytime.
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Speaker 1: Good morning everybody. From me and my allergies and miss
Speaker 1: Abbey who's joining me this weekend.
Speaker 2: Oh, you have allergies too.
Speaker 1: They're kicking my butt.
Speaker 2: It's so bad. What is happening.
Speaker 1: Whenever the weather is like cold hot cold hot, my
Speaker 1: body's like, I don't know what's happening. So I'm just
Speaker 1: gonna break down Merrometric pressure I think has something to
Speaker 1: do with that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's bad, like all right, and yours are best,
Speaker 2: uh huh. I never have them, but for some reason,
Speaker 2: I'm like dying over here.
Speaker 1: Welcome to Tennessee, y'all. Yeah, all right, we got a
Speaker 1: listener Q and I. We're gonna start with some shout outs.
Speaker 1: We got a shout out from Leah. She says I
Speaker 1: love you both and she's sending some love your way,
Speaker 1: oh sweet, and Anna and Virginia said both of you
Speaker 1: are so beautiful inside and out. Keep doing you. And
Speaker 1: then we've also got Nikki and Charleston who wanted to
Speaker 1: tell me to keep the banks. Okay, we got lots
Speaker 1: of shout outs. Happening.
Speaker 2: That's so nice. I know.
Speaker 1: I love starting with compliments. I'm not going to say
Speaker 1: there's not other things in there, but I like starting
Speaker 1: everything with good energy. Yes, all right, we're diving in.
Speaker 1: I mean we are diving in like someone straight for it.
Speaker 1: Shila from California wants a boyfriend update.
Speaker 2: A boyfriend update?
Speaker 1: Yah, howse life, house romance.
Speaker 2: Everything's going well. It really is like, I'm not gonna
Speaker 2: put you to share.
Speaker 1: You can share whatever you want to share it.
Speaker 2: I know, I don't know why I'm keeping it so
Speaker 2: like private or I don't know. I just am and
Speaker 2: like I want to add pictures so bad on Instagram.
Speaker 2: And that's what I'm like debating, cause it's like, you know,
Speaker 2: I don't want to keep everything off because we've taken
Speaker 2: so many pictures. And he's like, I don't care if
Speaker 2: you post, and I'm like, I know, but I'm still just.
Speaker 1: Do you know telling or the situation? Yeah, I guess
Speaker 1: so okay, So it's going good though, Yes, it is
Speaker 1: anything else you want to give us or is that.
Speaker 2: All I'll have an update? No? Things are great, like, yeah.
Speaker 1: Your happy life is good?
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, I don't have many updates.
Speaker 1: Well, Jessica from Arizona wanted to know if you're going
Speaker 1: to post a picture of them, So I think the
Speaker 1: answers that question.
Speaker 2: Yes, I will pretty soon. I think so because I
Speaker 2: have a lot and I'm like, what does that hurt? Really?
Speaker 1: Do you have a favorite of the two of you
Speaker 1: where you're like, oh, this is like totally adorable?
Speaker 2: Yes, I have many. They're really cute. I don't know,
Speaker 2: because we went to Asheville together and that was super
Speaker 2: fun and we have a lot of pictures from that,
Speaker 2: So I will post one soon. Oh, my story on.
Speaker 1: Your story isn't the same as in the feed.
Speaker 2: I know it's not.
Speaker 1: That would be a huge thing posted on your story before.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I have, I guess for sure.
Speaker 1: I think I've seen him on there.
Speaker 2: Oh so she means an actual post, Yeah, I feel
Speaker 2: like I barely. I was thinking that the other day.
Speaker 2: I was like, I barely post on my actual page.
Speaker 1: You're just like, great, it's low cup.
Speaker 2: I postly once a month of that. That's bad trying
Speaker 2: to get back in it.
Speaker 1: You know, if you're going to pursue the artist's career,
Speaker 1: you definitely gotta bump that up a little bit.
Speaker 2: Hm. The thing with him and I is I try
Speaker 2: to not be on my phone, and so does he.
Speaker 2: Like we're never on our phones, which is really I mean,
Speaker 2: I guess that's good because at this point since November.
Speaker 1: Okay, I mean it was strong on the no phones.
Speaker 2: I know, I don't know why we still do that.
Speaker 2: I just want to feel like I'm in the moment.
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm being rude, like we just were
Speaker 2: having fun. I don't need to be on my phone.
Speaker 1: I think that's a good thing, you know, right, I
Speaker 1: mean I feel like that.
Speaker 2: I think it is. I'm just not used to that.
Speaker 2: I'm like, why is it though? When we're together we
Speaker 2: don't even look at our phone, so like, is that weird?
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: Have you guys had your first fight yet?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 1: Okay and go, but it went well. We we did
Speaker 1: good from it.
Speaker 2: Yes, it was all like miscommunication, you know, I mean right,
Speaker 2: it was definitely like a learning thing.
Speaker 1: Okay. I'm trying to figure out what else I can
Speaker 1: have you talk about without like giving too much that
Speaker 1: you don't want to give.
Speaker 2: I know, I will, I don't know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't have to. You never have to actually,
Speaker 1: like you can go your whole life and never bring
Speaker 1: it up.
Speaker 2: That'd be weird. I think that'd be weird too. There's
Speaker 2: like a fine line between like Eddie who never mentions
Speaker 2: anything or we have no idea who she is, but
Speaker 2: then like you know, Bobby who has no problem talking about.
Speaker 1: His So yeah, maybe there's in between for you.
Speaker 2: I'm in between, all right, Well check out.
Speaker 1: Her Instagram stories because that's maybe where things are hiding.
Speaker 1: Rachel from Idaho ass if we've ever been on a
Speaker 1: double date together or set each other up.
Speaker 2: We haven't, And I always think this. I'm like, because
Speaker 2: most of my friends in Nashville are single, and I'm like,
Speaker 2: I don't know any guys that I would feel comfortable
Speaker 2: setting you up with. Honestly, you no same, you know? Yeah,
Speaker 2: And I always wonder that too. I'm like, why didn't
Speaker 2: my friends ever set me up? And I think that's
Speaker 2: three and why.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because we are all single? Like I think setting
Speaker 1: up comes from like your married friends or like your
Speaker 1: friends who've been in relationships a while because they're there
Speaker 1: guys then have friends, But like when all of you
Speaker 1: are single, I mean, there's not a lot of guys
Speaker 1: in that spectrum. Also, having like guy friends as an
Speaker 1: adult is pretty hard, like making them all of the sudden.
Speaker 1: Like I have a few that I've made in my
Speaker 1: adult life who I'm good friends with, but it's also
Speaker 1: they have wives, and I've been friends with their wives,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Like, yes, it's not like
Speaker 1: when you're in high school and college and you just
Speaker 1: randomly make all the friends like adult friends. Like as
Speaker 1: a female to making a male friendship is really difficult.
Speaker 2: Right because I feel like in my case, they I've
Speaker 2: always just wanted something more or they just try to
Speaker 2: hook up with you and I'm like, Okay, I just
Speaker 2: want to be friends, and they don't like that. They
Speaker 2: don't like the friend zone. I'm like, can't we just
Speaker 2: be friends?
Speaker 1: Can't we just be friends? Yeah? Those are probably the
Speaker 1: words they never wanted to hear. Oh yeah for sure,
Speaker 1: So yeah, I don't. I don't think we've ever even
Speaker 1: had the guys to set each other up with. And
Speaker 1: then no, we haven't gone on a double date because
Speaker 1: you know, I mean, I'm still technically single over here.
Speaker 2: I'll go on one day, like your second date, we
Speaker 2: can make it a double date.
Speaker 1: How awkward for you'd be like, this is awesome Morgan's
Speaker 1: on our second day with this guy?
Speaker 2: Would that be awkward?
Speaker 1: I feel like it would like I don't introduce guys
Speaker 1: to my friends until like a certain point, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, Because the reality is is they would
Speaker 1: they would just meet such a so many random people
Speaker 1: that would be like, Morgan, what are you doing?
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true.
Speaker 1: Like I feel like it has to at least reach
Speaker 1: like five dates and then I feel like I can
Speaker 1: bring them around my friends and start introducing to people
Speaker 1: in double dates and whatever. But like, until it hits
Speaker 1: that five date limit, nobody's seeing, nobody's carried about it, whatever.
Speaker 2: I know. So we've never been dating somebody at the
Speaker 2: same time where we could go on a double date.
Speaker 1: That's true at that point, maybe sometime this year I
Speaker 1: feel it.
Speaker 2: If I feel the future, let's go.
Speaker 1: I mean, I feel for you already because it's already happening.
Speaker 1: So we just got to get it to have it
Speaker 1: for me.
Speaker 2: I know.
Speaker 1: Okay, We're gonna take a quick break and won't be
Speaker 1: right back, all right. Miss Wendy from Georgia would like
Speaker 1: to know your favorite song to sing besides your original song.
Speaker 2: Let's see, like karaoke or something.
Speaker 1: It can be like if you cover a song maybe.
Speaker 2: I mean my go to is always Kerosene or Gunpowder
Speaker 2: and Lead by Miranda Lambert. I love singing those.
Speaker 1: Do you feel like that's like in your range? Yes?
Speaker 1: Is that the right way of putting that?
Speaker 2: Uh huh? And they're like sassy in fun?
Speaker 1: You know are you sassy in fun?
Speaker 2: I would say, I mean yeah, they make me kind
Speaker 2: of out of my comfort zone, you know, like it's
Speaker 2: like Gunpowder and Lead, Like, what's another one? Like a
Speaker 2: slower song?
Speaker 1: I think Unpowder and Letter Carosen are both good songs
Speaker 1: to cover the get the crowd going. Hm, they're good hits,
Speaker 1: country hits.
Speaker 2: I love singing from this moment on Shania Twain. I
Speaker 2: don't know why. It's just so pretty.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's a slow ballad. Yes. And that's like
Speaker 1: a builder too, where you like hit a really high
Speaker 1: point at one.
Speaker 2: I know you do. Isn't it like a duet too?
Speaker 1: From this I think moment? Yeah, um this, I don't
Speaker 1: think it started out as a duet. I think she
Speaker 1: might have released it.
Speaker 2: Yeah there's a duet foret who's in there?
Speaker 1: But yeah, I love that has the boyfriend's seing you
Speaker 1: do like karaoke.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he has sang with me and it was the
Speaker 2: funniest thing ever.
Speaker 1: Wait, because is he good, like is he low key good?
Speaker 2: So bad? He is terrible and he knows it. But
Speaker 2: he was so embarrassed and so shy did not want
Speaker 2: to get up there, and we did picture by Kid
Speaker 2: Rock and Cheryl Cross.
Speaker 1: Is there a video of this that lives out there?
Speaker 2: Yes, there is. It is the funniest thing. He's like,
Speaker 2: I found your picture today and you're.
Speaker 1: Over here singing really good and he's just chilling.
Speaker 2: Basically, it was the most awesome thing ever. Yeah, my
Speaker 2: friend got a video because we did it the first
Speaker 2: time and he was like, no videos, and then he
Speaker 2: had a little bit more to drink, so we did
Speaker 2: it later in the evening again. It's actually it's great.
Speaker 1: So is that one of your favorite videos together?
Speaker 2: Yes, for sure. But I will say back to house
Speaker 2: the relationship, like he is so supportive and just like
Speaker 2: in the past, I've always had guys that are just
Speaker 2: kind of like not jealous, but they don't they're never
Speaker 2: supportive of like when my first my song came out,
Speaker 2: like the guy was dating he really didn't really care,
Speaker 2: you know, and.
Speaker 1: He even, Yeah, that's not good energy.
Speaker 2: It's really not. And you know what he said too,
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna say this because it is what it is.
Speaker 2: But he was like, wichita is such an ugly word
Speaker 2: for a song. And I was like, that's what you
Speaker 2: took from the song?
Speaker 1: Wow?
Speaker 2: Wait, okay, the one that's like in the song that's
Speaker 2: what I was gonna have. Yeah, And I was like, oh,
Speaker 2: that's not the reaction I wanted from this. And also
Speaker 2: it's my hometown. What do you mean it's ugly? I
Speaker 2: can't help it.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know. So there was that that. Yeah, that
Speaker 2: was part of the issue. That was part of the like,
Speaker 2: I don't know if that's a red flag. Definitely a
Speaker 2: red flag.
Speaker 1: That's one hundred percent of red flag.
Speaker 2: Yes, But I guess I was used to that, Like
Speaker 2: when you're used to just being in back to back
Speaker 2: relationships and you ignore the red flags, you you know,
Speaker 2: and then you realize, wait, that was not good. When
Speaker 2: you're in a current good one, you look back and
Speaker 2: you're like, wow, I ignored things that are that's not okay.
Speaker 1: Well, hindsight, it's always twenty twenty. Yeah, you know, when
Speaker 1: you're in it, everything's a little bit fuzzy, right, especially
Speaker 1: when you care about somebody and think they care about you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so I understand. I Sympathetz has been there, done that.
Speaker 1: So but at least you're in this situation now where
Speaker 1: the relationship is very supportive and he wants you to succeed.
Speaker 1: That's awesome. Yeah, and he's even singing karaoke with you.
Speaker 2: I know, that's great. That's the way out of his
Speaker 2: comfort zone. But like when I was doing the Indie
Speaker 2: country showdown, like I hosted it, I co hosted it
Speaker 2: with somebody, and then I sang my song there and
Speaker 2: like he was. He came to two of the Knights
Speaker 2: and was sitting out there, and it was like really
Speaker 2: cool to just like look out and see him there.
Speaker 2: I don't know, it was really cool.
Speaker 1: Oh he was supporting green flags, right, green flags are waving.
Speaker 2: I know, I don't know. It was really nice.
Speaker 1: So Okay, well, hey we got we got further of
Speaker 1: have a boyfriend update, just not at the question that
Speaker 1: we needed, right.
Speaker 2: Yes, I hope you stuck around and heard that part.
Speaker 1: What is the hardest part about living a life where
Speaker 1: strangers feel like they now know you? Keith from Kansas
Speaker 1: wants to know.
Speaker 2: See that's the thing. I feel like they really don't
Speaker 2: know me. And that's I got so self conscious after
Speaker 2: the guitar recital that I did. Like that's why I
Speaker 2: didn't post for a while because like the comments just
Speaker 2: like really got to me, like a comment, yes, Like
Speaker 2: there were so many good ones, but the annoying part
Speaker 2: is you focus on the bad ones and I'm like, man,
Speaker 2: I wish they knew me. And they're like, oh, she's
Speaker 2: trying to get a record deal, like good job, good luck,
Speaker 2: like stick to your day job. And I'm like, well,
Speaker 2: I'm actually not trying to get a record deal, Like
Speaker 2: I know, I'm not at that level, and you know,
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I kind of just feel like you should put yourself
Speaker 1: down there. I don't think anybody like you're chasing a dream.
Speaker 1: I don't think you ever say never, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, Like, if that opportunity comes along, then you
Speaker 1: would totally take it, right. So I also think it's
Speaker 1: great if you want to chase that. I think you
Speaker 1: do have talent and you have a beautiful voice if
Speaker 1: you wanted to go after that, right, So just remember
Speaker 1: that mm hm. As you're sitting here talking about yourself.
Speaker 2: I know, I know, yeah, I'm just it is it's
Speaker 2: it's hard, like not being able to show who you
Speaker 2: truly are. I guess sometimes because I'm on the show
Speaker 2: certain times and a lot of it is when Lunchbox
Speaker 2: critiques me and when I'm like super nervous or like
Speaker 2: put on the spot, and so I feel like that's
Speaker 2: really only a side that people see sometimes.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I can totally echo that. I think it's
Speaker 1: hard that people believe they know every single thing about
Speaker 1: us just because of the few moments they hear from
Speaker 1: us or they see us on social media, and they're like,
Speaker 1: this is who they are, and they've put that picture
Speaker 1: in their head and it's who they believe, and you
Speaker 1: can't convince them otherwise, right when in reality, like we're
Speaker 1: these full dynamic people who are real humans, you know,
Speaker 1: on the other end of the computer screen, and they
Speaker 1: don't see it that way. So I do, like I
Speaker 1: can echo what you're saying. I think it's really hard
Speaker 1: when people just believe. You know, there's one side of
Speaker 1: this where you want them to connect with you and
Speaker 1: you want them to believe they know you. But for
Speaker 1: you and I who aren't on the show one hundred
Speaker 1: percent of the time. They get little snippets of who
Speaker 1: we are. It's not a whole, complete, rounded person, right,
Speaker 1: It's just like here and there, and we're just talking
Speaker 1: about certain things. So you may think Abby is only
Speaker 1: pursuing her career and that's who she is as a person,
Speaker 1: that's her whole entire identity, right, And then you may
Speaker 1: hear me and you're like, oh, she only talks about
Speaker 1: her dating life and she's single, when in real life,
Speaker 1: as friends, we never talk about those things. No, I
Speaker 1: got everything else right, But those almost most of the time,
Speaker 1: you know, unless it's catching each other up on what's happening.
Speaker 1: And so that part's hard, it is, and I think
Speaker 1: that's similar to what you're saying.
Speaker 2: But then there's the other side of people that I
Speaker 2: feel like they are my friends, like most of people
Speaker 2: that follow me or you know that message me, or
Speaker 2: they can relate or they're like, oh, you know, now
Speaker 2: I want to pursue something I've been scared to pursue.
Speaker 2: Like that I love And that's like the really good
Speaker 2: part of it. Part of it.
Speaker 1: There's always there's always more good than bad. Yes, But
Speaker 1: to your point, the bad do always shine. Like it's
Speaker 1: really hard to see an entire comment section and they're
Speaker 1: all good, and then it's like the one bad one
Speaker 1: is just like blinking lights, like look at me, pay
Speaker 1: attention to me.
Speaker 2: Yes, And I don't know why it's so annoying. I'm like,
Speaker 2: why are you It's like ninety five percent good, focus
Speaker 2: on that. Why are you looking at the five percent?
Speaker 1: Yeah, all depends on the day. You know. Some days
Speaker 1: you're like, I got this, no big deal. In other
Speaker 1: days it just hits you at the wrong time. It does.
Speaker 1: It kind of makes me sad that you and I
Speaker 1: both have to feel that way. I do. I love
Speaker 1: what we do, and I love getting to connect with
Speaker 1: people and all the amazing people who do see through
Speaker 1: all of that. Yes, and they see it on just
Speaker 1: a different level and they're normal humans like us.
Speaker 2: M hmm. I love it. I mean people that call
Speaker 2: in all the time they're like, Abby, don't give up,
Speaker 2: I love your singing, don't listen to lunchbox And I'm like, OK,
Speaker 2: thank you. That's what gives me, like that extra you know,
Speaker 2: pep in my step. I guess so.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think it's also not a bad thing.
Speaker 1: For like constructive criticism, but nobody's ever constructive, right, It's
Speaker 1: just criticism. And I don't know if you saw this
Speaker 1: because you haven't been on your phone a lot, because
Speaker 1: you're like in a love bubble. But Brenne Brown said this,
Speaker 1: and I shared it on my story because my sister
Speaker 1: shared it with me, and it really put a lot
Speaker 1: of things in perspective for me. She says, if you're
Speaker 1: not in the arena getting your ass kicked on occasion,
Speaker 1: I'm not interested in or open to your feedback. There
Speaker 1: are a million cheap seats in the world today, filled
Speaker 1: with people who will never be brave with their own lives,
Speaker 1: but will spend every ounce of energy they have harling
Speaker 1: advice and judgment at those of us trying to dare greatly.
Speaker 1: Their only contributions are criticism, cynicism, and fear mongreen If
Speaker 1: you're criticizing from a place where you're not also putting
Speaker 1: yourself on the line, I'm not interested in your feedback.
Speaker 1: And I think a lot of people need to hear that, right,
Speaker 1: I really yeah, I love that. Yeah, Because anytime you're
Speaker 1: chasing a dream, chasing a goal, there's always going to
Speaker 1: be people that don't agree with you, you know, and
Speaker 1: my sister always has to remind me, like, you're not
Speaker 1: going to be for everyone, and as a people pleaser
Speaker 1: in an impath, I don't love that.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, exactly. Yes.
Speaker 1: I don't want to disappoint people. I don't want to
Speaker 1: let people down. I don't want people to be to
Speaker 1: feel sad or whatever because of me, you know. So
Speaker 1: I had to learn to accept that I won't be
Speaker 1: for everybody. That's a hard like exception, especially when we're
Speaker 1: sitting here talking about how they don't really know us entirely. Yes,
Speaker 1: that I totally agree. I'm like on my little I
Speaker 1: know a moment, but maybe maybe it helps you, maybe
Speaker 1: the quote helps you like it helps me.
Speaker 2: No, it really does, and I try to think about
Speaker 2: that all the time. I'm like, why if I wouldn't
Speaker 2: listen to their I don't know, if there's like a
Speaker 2: saying if I wouldn't listen to their advice, why would
Speaker 2: I take their critique or something like that. I don't know.
Speaker 2: So yeah, I'm all about like constructive criticism, you know,
Speaker 2: but if you're just gonna be like you sound so
Speaker 2: nasally or terrible, or they're like you know you should
Speaker 2: work on being nasally. I'm okay, well what should I
Speaker 2: do? Do you have advice? And like how I can change that?
Speaker 2: Because I'm like, I feel like this is my voice
Speaker 2: at this point, you know, like Willie Nelson's nasally.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you have your unique sound.
Speaker 2: I guess, so, yeah, I don't know. Maybe, I mean
Speaker 2: I can tell too, but I'm not sure what.
Speaker 1: Well it always, you know, the criticism always points out
Speaker 1: insecurities you already have, you know what I mean, So
Speaker 1: when you see them, it always makes you It heightens
Speaker 1: the way you already feel. So I don't think you do.
Speaker 1: But if you already feel like that, and then somebody
Speaker 1: says that it's only heightening it even more to make
Speaker 1: you feel worse about it, I know, but I don't
Speaker 1: believe any of that's true. I don't believe that anything.
Speaker 1: If somebody is sitting at home, just like she said,
Speaker 1: in criticizing from a place where they're not putting their
Speaker 1: self out there and doing the things that you're doing,
Speaker 1: then they don't get to offer advice or can criticism
Speaker 1: in that area. Right now, If Kelsey Ballerini comes up
Speaker 1: to you and says, hey, maybe try this, Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: somebody to listen to.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: So I don't think you do. I think you have
Speaker 1: a beautiful voice, and I think you should keep pursuing
Speaker 1: it as much and as little as you want to.
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.
Speaker 1: And don't thank you. But Keith from Kansas, you got
Speaker 1: us on a little soapbox.
Speaker 2: You did not to be negative because there is so
Speaker 2: much positive. But it's like I said, I'm trying to
Speaker 2: work on not looking at the negative so much and
Speaker 2: just focusing on the positive.
Speaker 1: So I'm with you. Hey, I'm with you. We're in
Speaker 1: the trenches together, so it's okay. Charlene in New Hampshire
Speaker 1: wants to know if Lunchbox is speaking of hatred towards singing.
Speaker 1: Your singing bothers you at all.
Speaker 2: It actually does. It actually does, And I know that
Speaker 2: he does it a lot, you know, for the sh
Speaker 2: he does it to be that's just how he is.
Speaker 2: But at the same time, in the hallways he's not like,
Speaker 2: I'm just kidding. You're good, and so I just start like,
Speaker 2: once it's something is said over and over, you start
Speaker 2: to believe it. You're like, oh my gosh, wait, is
Speaker 2: this actually true? Then? If you're saying it so much
Speaker 2: and you're hearing it, you kinda just have that in
Speaker 2: your head. And so then that's when like the insecurities
Speaker 2: come out. But I'm like, oh my gosh, that's just
Speaker 2: another thing. Just like ignore him, you know, ignore the negativity,
Speaker 2: because like, why would he He can't even sing on tune?
Speaker 2: You know, he doesn't even have rhythm, right, Yeah, they
Speaker 2: can't even clap on beat. So why does he think
Speaker 2: he can be a critic for me? You know, like
Speaker 2: if it comes to acting or whatever, or I don't
Speaker 2: even know what lets he do? What does he do?
Speaker 2: Talk on the radio? Yeah, hey, he's amazing that personality.
Speaker 2: I will give him that I cannot talk. I mean,
Speaker 2: he can make a yes or no question into like
Speaker 2: a ten minute answers true and that is in okay.
Speaker 2: So like when it comes to that, he's amazing. But
Speaker 2: I just it's hard to even though I do listen
Speaker 2: to him, because it's in my head.
Speaker 1: Well, and he's your coworker, so you're internalizing that. Yes,
Speaker 1: but he's not right, you know.
Speaker 2: But he gets those people to you know, agree.
Speaker 1: He does. He does know how to row some people up.
Speaker 1: He does. He's very good at that. Also, he's like, they're.
Speaker 2: Like, I love lunch. Proxyity says how it is? You know,
Speaker 2: He's like, he doesn't hold back from the truth. I'm like,
Speaker 2: well that is true.
Speaker 1: Well I think you're great, and I think you should
Speaker 1: keep pursuing it if you want to.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, thank you. I like that. Yeah, no, yes,
Speaker 2: I need to just get out of my little I
Speaker 2: think we all get in little funks or you know,
Speaker 2: where we doubt ourselves and we're like should I really
Speaker 2: do this? Like is this really worth it? And I
Speaker 2: think that's where I am right now, but I'm going
Speaker 2: to get out of it.
Speaker 1: I think it's always worth it. It's better than the alternative,
Speaker 1: which is not doing it and then always wondering what if,
Speaker 1: right that alternative sucks, so that would be the worst exactly.
Speaker 1: So if you do it, the worst that happens is
Speaker 1: you fail. But you did it, so I think you
Speaker 1: should always try it, always go after what you want.
Speaker 2: You too, you too. Let's go all.
Speaker 1: Right, We're gonna take one more break, and we have
Speaker 1: two more questions. Okay, We've got Ben in Colorado, who
Speaker 1: wants to know our favorite dive bars in Nashville.
Speaker 2: Oh, dive bar.
Speaker 1: We're doing like two recommendations. We're doing a Nashville recommendation
Speaker 1: and then we're gonna do some wichita ones. Okay, so
Speaker 1: dive bars in Nashville go.
Speaker 2: Okay, so dive bar. But it's like the karaoke bar,
Speaker 2: but it's kind of a secret.
Speaker 1: Oh you're talking about the seasonal one. Yeah, I think
Speaker 1: you can say. People have said it.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's your Santa's Pub. That's definitely a die bar.
Speaker 2: It's like a double wide trailer.
Speaker 1: Oh and it's cash only.
Speaker 2: Yes, it is the most awesome thing. And beer is
Speaker 2: like three dollars. Well it used to be three dollars.
Speaker 2: I mean maybe a little more now, but still it's amazing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and Santa sometimes is there.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, he was there when I was going
Speaker 2: in and I was so excited, like half thousand times. Yeah,
Speaker 2: because I got there like super early and no one
Speaker 2: was there. It was I've never been there at that time.
Speaker 2: It's usually like when you're drunk on a Friday night,
Speaker 2: you know, and you go You're like, let's do karaoke
Speaker 2: and it's like eleven or midnight.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I got in bed by then.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, So this is like six. I think like
Speaker 2: right early, you went hard early. Yeah, uh huh, okay,
Speaker 2: it was actually it was actually fun because it was
Speaker 2: just like us in there.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so we got we got Sana's, Santa's and then
Speaker 1: Sala's Pub.
Speaker 2: There is a place in West Nashville and it is
Speaker 2: called brew House West. Oh.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I love brew House.
Speaker 2: Yes, And they have the best bushwhackers ever.
Speaker 1: They are the original Bushwhacker.
Speaker 2: Broadway brew House downtown or like in Midtown. I used
Speaker 2: to get them there. There's also one on Broadway downtown
Speaker 2: the best bushwhackers.
Speaker 1: And for those who are wondering, bushwhacker is a frozen drink.
Speaker 1: I believe it has a few different things of alcohol.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like five things. It's so dangerous.
Speaker 1: It tastes kind of like a root beer float milkshake.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like more of a milkshake milkshake with.
Speaker 1: Liquor in it. It's frozen.
Speaker 2: It is.
Speaker 1: It'll get you on your butt, like you yield down
Speaker 1: one because you don't know you're drinking so much liquor.
Speaker 2: Because it is so good. It doesn't seem too sweet,
Speaker 2: you know, like a milkshake. I'm just like, ooh, that's
Speaker 2: once you get halfway, you're like, oh man, that's kind
Speaker 2: of really heavy. But these do not feel like that.
Speaker 1: No, the like if you're having like a frozen margarita,
Speaker 1: a little kind of yeah, just more creamy because yeah,
Speaker 1: but oh yeah, it's a good one.
Speaker 2: But I love it there. It's it is super dive bari.
Speaker 2: They have like they do have karaoke on one night.
Speaker 1: You really koke?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I really do. Then they have trivia, so it's fun.
Speaker 2: Love it.
Speaker 1: Okay, those are good one os. Oh man, I'm looking
Speaker 1: at my mind because most of mine intend to be
Speaker 1: in East Nashville. Okay, when I go out down there
Speaker 1: is where all like the dive bars are. We got
Speaker 1: like Lakeside Lounge and I think it's called Lucky seven.
Speaker 1: That's what I was looking up. Oh I want to
Speaker 1: say that's what it was. Maybe it's not anymore. I've
Speaker 1: never yet I got turned into something else. It's there's
Speaker 1: one and I can't it's a motel now and it
Speaker 1: has a pool. I've been there for like an album
Speaker 1: release party. But it's a cool. It's like it's very
Speaker 1: like viby. Oh oh, I know what you're trying to
Speaker 1: talk about.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. And the rooms are like retro looking.
Speaker 1: Yes.
Speaker 2: Oh oh it's dive Dive.
Speaker 1: Dive Motel here. Yeah, that's a cool one.
Speaker 2: Yes, I've been there. That is awesome. They have like
Speaker 2: a disco ball like a dance floor looking mm hmmm,
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, it's cool there.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so Dive Dive Motel is one of them. And
Speaker 1: then Never Never in whig would okay.
Speaker 2: Oh that's a good one too. Oh Dan, there's so
Speaker 2: many good ones.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we have a lot of good dive bars.
Speaker 2: Never Never is good or.
Speaker 1: Bashit, but it's it's a little less divy, but it's
Speaker 1: still pretty small. So that's what I consider divy. Yes,
Speaker 1: but those two over there in which Houston are good.
Speaker 2: Those are good, okay for sure.
Speaker 1: Now we're talking Wichita. Favorite place in Wichita from Katie
Speaker 1: in Wichita the ugly word.
Speaker 2: I know, such a hideous city name. I'm just kidding.
Speaker 2: I like it. I like okay, rude witch da Yeah. Wait,
Speaker 2: favorite place like to eat?
Speaker 1: I think just in general, like favorite places in Wichita, Kansas.
Speaker 1: And we can just like talk about random things, so
Speaker 1: there can be anything, food, activities, whatever you want.
Speaker 2: I love Bella Luna. Oh great, I love the hummus.
Speaker 2: I used to work there, take it home every shift.
Speaker 2: I would take home this huge thing of hummus and
Speaker 2: I got a half price. We're else I mean Chicken
Speaker 2: and pickle. That's super fun.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the original like pickle. I wish we had a
Speaker 1: chicken and a pickle here.
Speaker 2: I don't know why there are there more in the US.
Speaker 1: Or Chicken and Pickle is a chain, okay, but I
Speaker 1: don't know that it's come this far south. It's been.
Speaker 1: I think it started west and it came kind of Midwest.
Speaker 1: But love that place. Yes, before pickleball was a thing,
Speaker 1: we had chicken in a pickle.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's such a good vibe.
Speaker 1: Okay. What about do you like Homegrown? That's one of
Speaker 1: my favorite breakfast bots. Yes, Like they're a little homemade
Speaker 1: pop tarts.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, they're so cute. Yeah. They are the
Speaker 2: best lattes too, they are cut. Yes.
Speaker 1: And then there's I may pronounce this wrong, al Zavino
Speaker 1: Wine Tavern.
Speaker 2: Never been, haven't been.
Speaker 1: They have wine on tap and basically they give you
Speaker 1: a card and then you just keep going up and
Speaker 1: filling your wine whenever you want it. You can do
Speaker 1: all the different wines that it is.
Speaker 2: So fun, super cute spot. Are you serious?
Speaker 1: Yeah? It's in downtown Okay. And then there's also Grow
Speaker 1: that's new that I really love. Have you been to Grow?
Speaker 2: I went there and I was obsessed.
Speaker 1: So you build your own little plant while you're drinking
Speaker 1: and hanging out.
Speaker 2: Everything was so cute. I was like, we need that here,
Speaker 2: just everything.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like shout out. They've got some spots that I'm like, Okay,
Speaker 1: can you guys come here? Whoa. That's the part of
Speaker 1: being like a fun cool city is everybody has their
Speaker 1: own kind of different things. So both of those and
Speaker 1: then I really love I believe what is that area?
Speaker 1: It's by downtown but closer to Exploration Place?
Speaker 2: Is it Delayanne Delano District? Dee?
Speaker 1: Is that that has a little roundabout Why can I
Speaker 1: remember this right?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: And it's like cute little There's like a bunch of
Speaker 1: things in there. There's some like a you're having to
Speaker 1: be a pizza place there?
Speaker 2: Was they have an ex throwing place there? Yeah too?
Speaker 1: Yes, Okay, so we're talking about the same place, but
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's the right place.
Speaker 2: That sounds right? Why am I We've been from away
Speaker 2: from which little.
Speaker 1: Line I know I.
Speaker 2: Used to be.
Speaker 1: I mean I type that in Yeah, I think that's it.
Speaker 1: Which is Delano District? Yes, I love that little area like.
Speaker 2: I do too.
Speaker 1: Although it's cute just to walk around, but they also
Speaker 1: have really cool restaurants and you know, and then you
Speaker 1: can also walk and go see the Indian at the.
Speaker 2: Planes. Yes, yeah, by that bridge. That is so cool.
Speaker 2: Like they've really early one morning. I'm surprised I'm on
Speaker 2: it like usually my brain's like.
Speaker 1: We're helping each other out right now.
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is great.
Speaker 1: Yes, keeper of the planes, thank you? So cool when
Speaker 1: they light it awesome?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Why not look at whichita people need to go visit?
Speaker 1: They do? Which show is awesome?
Speaker 2: It is? People make fun of Kansas whenever I stand
Speaker 2: from w each other, like oh you got electricity? Did
Speaker 2: you ride your horse to school?
Speaker 1: I'm like, huh so fun like hilarious, like what like, guys,
Speaker 1: there's so much more to offer in which than you
Speaker 1: would think. And also most people think of Kansas City
Speaker 1: when they think of Kansas and it really you know what,
Speaker 1: actually I take it back, you know, I just leave
Speaker 1: us witch job people by by ourselves. We'll be fine.
Speaker 2: We're good.
Speaker 1: We don't need it, don't need to be overrun with tourism.
Speaker 1: Everybody's living and thriving there. All right, that's all for us.
Speaker 2: It is sounds good. That wasn't too hard.
Speaker 1: Nah, I didn't make you talk about to me.
Speaker 2: Great, thank you. Just the dating question.
Speaker 1: I was like, we got there, we worked through it. Yeah,
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