1 00:00:01,000 --> 00:00:04,640 Speaker 1: The Best Bits of the week with Morgan listener Q daytime. 2 00:00:04,880 --> 00:00:08,000 Speaker 1: We're Morgan in a show member answer almost all your questions. 3 00:00:10,000 --> 00:00:15,080 Speaker 1: Good morning everybody. From me and my allergies and miss 4 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:16,600 Speaker 1: Abbey who's joining me this weekend. 5 00:00:16,720 --> 00:00:17,920 Speaker 2: Oh, you have allergies too. 6 00:00:18,239 --> 00:00:19,119 Speaker 1: They're kicking my butt. 7 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:21,400 Speaker 2: It's so bad. What is happening. 8 00:00:21,000 --> 00:00:23,360 Speaker 1: Whenever the weather is like cold hot cold hot, my 9 00:00:23,360 --> 00:00:25,119 Speaker 1: body's like, I don't know what's happening. So I'm just 10 00:00:25,120 --> 00:00:29,920 Speaker 1: gonna break down Merrometric pressure I think has something to 11 00:00:29,960 --> 00:00:30,319 Speaker 1: do with that. 12 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:32,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's bad, like all right, and yours are best, 13 00:00:33,000 --> 00:00:35,240 Speaker 2: uh huh. I never have them, but for some reason, 14 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 2: I'm like dying over here. 15 00:00:37,360 --> 00:00:40,040 Speaker 1: Welcome to Tennessee, y'all. Yeah, all right, we got a 16 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:42,200 Speaker 1: listener Q and I. We're gonna start with some shout outs. 17 00:00:42,280 --> 00:00:44,599 Speaker 1: We got a shout out from Leah. She says I 18 00:00:44,640 --> 00:00:46,960 Speaker 1: love you both and she's sending some love your way, 19 00:00:47,120 --> 00:00:50,199 Speaker 1: oh sweet, and Anna and Virginia said both of you 20 00:00:50,280 --> 00:00:53,440 Speaker 1: are so beautiful inside and out. Keep doing you. And 21 00:00:53,479 --> 00:00:56,320 Speaker 1: then we've also got Nikki and Charleston who wanted to 22 00:00:56,360 --> 00:00:59,440 Speaker 1: tell me to keep the banks. Okay, we got lots 23 00:00:59,480 --> 00:01:00,480 Speaker 1: of shout outs. Happening. 24 00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:02,040 Speaker 2: That's so nice. I know. 25 00:01:02,080 --> 00:01:03,920 Speaker 1: I love starting with compliments. I'm not going to say 26 00:01:03,920 --> 00:01:05,800 Speaker 1: there's not other things in there, but I like starting 27 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:09,160 Speaker 1: everything with good energy. Yes, all right, we're diving in. 28 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 1: I mean we are diving in like someone straight for it. 29 00:01:13,640 --> 00:01:17,480 Speaker 1: Shila from California wants a boyfriend update. 30 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:18,880 Speaker 2: A boyfriend update? 31 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:22,120 Speaker 1: Yah, howse life, house romance. 32 00:01:22,120 --> 00:01:26,199 Speaker 2: Everything's going well. It really is like, I'm not gonna 33 00:01:26,200 --> 00:01:26,760 Speaker 2: put you to share. 34 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:28,320 Speaker 1: You can share whatever you want to share it. 35 00:01:28,480 --> 00:01:31,039 Speaker 2: I know, I don't know why I'm keeping it so 36 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:35,039 Speaker 2: like private or I don't know. I just am and 37 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:37,400 Speaker 2: like I want to add pictures so bad on Instagram. 38 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 2: And that's what I'm like debating, cause it's like, you know, 39 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 2: I don't want to keep everything off because we've taken 40 00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:45,759 Speaker 2: so many pictures. And he's like, I don't care if 41 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:48,320 Speaker 2: you post, and I'm like, I know, but I'm still just. 42 00:01:49,840 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 1: Do you know telling or the situation? Yeah, I guess 43 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 1: so okay, So it's going good though, Yes, it is 44 00:01:57,720 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 1: anything else you want to give us or is that. 45 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:07,120 Speaker 2: All I'll have an update? No? Things are great, like, yeah. 46 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:07,400 Speaker 1: Your happy life is good? 47 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:10,679 Speaker 2: Okay, all right, I don't have many updates. 48 00:02:10,840 --> 00:02:12,800 Speaker 1: Well, Jessica from Arizona wanted to know if you're going 49 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:14,000 Speaker 1: to post a picture of them, So I think the 50 00:02:14,040 --> 00:02:14,880 Speaker 1: answers that question. 51 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:18,200 Speaker 2: Yes, I will pretty soon. I think so because I 52 00:02:18,200 --> 00:02:20,560 Speaker 2: have a lot and I'm like, what does that hurt? Really? 53 00:02:20,919 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 1: Do you have a favorite of the two of you 54 00:02:22,480 --> 00:02:24,519 Speaker 1: where you're like, oh, this is like totally adorable? 55 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:27,640 Speaker 2: Yes, I have many. They're really cute. I don't know, 56 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 2: because we went to Asheville together and that was super 57 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:31,800 Speaker 2: fun and we have a lot of pictures from that, 58 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:35,720 Speaker 2: So I will post one soon. Oh, my story on. 59 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:38,120 Speaker 1: Your story isn't the same as in the feed. 60 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:38,920 Speaker 2: I know it's not. 61 00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:41,560 Speaker 1: That would be a huge thing posted on your story before. 62 00:02:41,720 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, I have, I guess for sure. 63 00:02:43,720 --> 00:02:45,040 Speaker 1: I think I've seen him on there. 64 00:02:45,160 --> 00:02:48,119 Speaker 2: Oh so she means an actual post, Yeah, I feel 65 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 2: like I barely. I was thinking that the other day. 66 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:52,480 Speaker 2: I was like, I barely post on my actual page. 67 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:55,399 Speaker 1: You're just like, great, it's low cup. 68 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:03,320 Speaker 2: I postly once a month of that. That's bad trying 69 00:03:03,320 --> 00:03:03,960 Speaker 2: to get back in it. 70 00:03:04,200 --> 00:03:06,120 Speaker 1: You know, if you're going to pursue the artist's career, 71 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 1: you definitely gotta bump that up a little bit. 72 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 2: Hm. The thing with him and I is I try 73 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:13,400 Speaker 2: to not be on my phone, and so does he. 74 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:16,920 Speaker 2: Like we're never on our phones, which is really I mean, 75 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:21,919 Speaker 2: I guess that's good because at this point since November. 76 00:03:21,520 --> 00:03:24,440 Speaker 1: Okay, I mean it was strong on the no phones. 77 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 2: I know, I don't know why we still do that. 78 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 2: I just want to feel like I'm in the moment. 79 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:30,680 Speaker 2: I feel like I'm being rude, like we just were 80 00:03:30,720 --> 00:03:32,919 Speaker 2: having fun. I don't need to be on my phone. 81 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:36,280 Speaker 1: I think that's a good thing, you know, right, I 82 00:03:36,280 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 1: mean I feel like that. 83 00:03:38,040 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 2: I think it is. I'm just not used to that. 84 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 2: I'm like, why is it though? When we're together we 85 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:44,080 Speaker 2: don't even look at our phone, so like, is that weird? 86 00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 2: I don't know. 87 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:46,880 Speaker 1: Have you guys had your first fight yet? 88 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:47,840 Speaker 2: Yes? 89 00:03:48,160 --> 00:03:50,640 Speaker 1: Okay and go, but it went well. We we did 90 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 1: good from it. 91 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:55,640 Speaker 2: Yes, it was all like miscommunication, you know, I mean right, 92 00:03:55,720 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 2: it was definitely like a learning thing. 93 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:00,640 Speaker 1: Okay. I'm trying to figure out what else I can 94 00:04:00,960 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 1: have you talk about without like giving too much that 95 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:04,400 Speaker 1: you don't want to give. 96 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:08,040 Speaker 2: I know, I will, I don't know. 97 00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:11,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't have to. You never have to actually, 98 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 1: like you can go your whole life and never bring 99 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:14,440 Speaker 1: it up. 100 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:16,720 Speaker 2: That'd be weird. I think that'd be weird too. There's 101 00:04:16,720 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 2: like a fine line between like Eddie who never mentions 102 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:25,240 Speaker 2: anything or we have no idea who she is, but 103 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:29,320 Speaker 2: then like you know, Bobby who has no problem talking about. 104 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:32,800 Speaker 1: His So yeah, maybe there's in between for you. 105 00:04:33,160 --> 00:04:35,240 Speaker 2: I'm in between, all right, Well check out. 106 00:04:35,080 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 1: Her Instagram stories because that's maybe where things are hiding. 107 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:40,919 Speaker 1: Rachel from Idaho ass if we've ever been on a 108 00:04:40,920 --> 00:04:42,840 Speaker 1: double date together or set each other up. 109 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 2: We haven't, And I always think this. I'm like, because 110 00:04:47,839 --> 00:04:50,400 Speaker 2: most of my friends in Nashville are single, and I'm like, 111 00:04:50,520 --> 00:04:53,040 Speaker 2: I don't know any guys that I would feel comfortable 112 00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:56,279 Speaker 2: setting you up with. Honestly, you no same, you know? Yeah, 113 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:58,080 Speaker 2: And I always wonder that too. I'm like, why didn't 114 00:04:58,120 --> 00:04:59,720 Speaker 2: my friends ever set me up? And I think that's 115 00:04:59,760 --> 00:05:00,560 Speaker 2: three and why. 116 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:04,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, because we are all single? Like I think setting 117 00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:06,840 Speaker 1: up comes from like your married friends or like your 118 00:05:06,839 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 1: friends who've been in relationships a while because they're there 119 00:05:10,560 --> 00:05:13,800 Speaker 1: guys then have friends, But like when all of you 120 00:05:13,839 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 1: are single, I mean, there's not a lot of guys 121 00:05:17,880 --> 00:05:20,279 Speaker 1: in that spectrum. Also, having like guy friends as an 122 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:23,640 Speaker 1: adult is pretty hard, like making them all of the sudden. 123 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:25,839 Speaker 1: Like I have a few that I've made in my 124 00:05:25,920 --> 00:05:29,839 Speaker 1: adult life who I'm good friends with, but it's also 125 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 1: they have wives, and I've been friends with their wives, 126 00:05:32,080 --> 00:05:34,279 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Like, yes, it's not like 127 00:05:34,320 --> 00:05:36,080 Speaker 1: when you're in high school and college and you just 128 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:40,560 Speaker 1: randomly make all the friends like adult friends. Like as 129 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:43,880 Speaker 1: a female to making a male friendship is really difficult. 130 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:46,080 Speaker 2: Right because I feel like in my case, they I've 131 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 2: always just wanted something more or they just try to 132 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:50,240 Speaker 2: hook up with you and I'm like, Okay, I just 133 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:51,599 Speaker 2: want to be friends, and they don't like that. They 134 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 2: don't like the friend zone. I'm like, can't we just 135 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:54,520 Speaker 2: be friends? 136 00:05:55,040 --> 00:05:57,640 Speaker 1: Can't we just be friends? Yeah? Those are probably the 137 00:05:57,680 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 1: words they never wanted to hear. Oh yeah for sure, 138 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:03,160 Speaker 1: So yeah, I don't. I don't think we've ever even 139 00:06:03,240 --> 00:06:06,280 Speaker 1: had the guys to set each other up with. And 140 00:06:06,320 --> 00:06:08,200 Speaker 1: then no, we haven't gone on a double date because 141 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:11,960 Speaker 1: you know, I mean, I'm still technically single over here. 142 00:06:12,279 --> 00:06:14,359 Speaker 2: I'll go on one day, like your second date, we 143 00:06:14,400 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 2: can make it a double date. 144 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 1: How awkward for you'd be like, this is awesome Morgan's 145 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:19,840 Speaker 1: on our second day with this guy? 146 00:06:20,400 --> 00:06:21,320 Speaker 2: Would that be awkward? 147 00:06:21,680 --> 00:06:24,720 Speaker 1: I feel like it would like I don't introduce guys 148 00:06:24,760 --> 00:06:27,640 Speaker 1: to my friends until like a certain point, you know 149 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:29,920 Speaker 1: what I mean, Because the reality is is they would 150 00:06:29,960 --> 00:06:33,760 Speaker 1: they would just meet such a so many random people 151 00:06:33,800 --> 00:06:35,680 Speaker 1: that would be like, Morgan, what are you doing? 152 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:38,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true. 153 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:40,800 Speaker 1: Like I feel like it has to at least reach 154 00:06:40,839 --> 00:06:43,280 Speaker 1: like five dates and then I feel like I can 155 00:06:43,320 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 1: bring them around my friends and start introducing to people 156 00:06:46,880 --> 00:06:49,839 Speaker 1: in double dates and whatever. But like, until it hits 157 00:06:49,880 --> 00:06:55,159 Speaker 1: that five date limit, nobody's seeing, nobody's carried about it, whatever. 158 00:06:55,680 --> 00:06:57,760 Speaker 2: I know. So we've never been dating somebody at the 159 00:06:57,800 --> 00:06:59,560 Speaker 2: same time where we could go on a double date. 160 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:03,719 Speaker 1: That's true at that point, maybe sometime this year I 161 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:04,240 Speaker 1: feel it. 162 00:07:04,680 --> 00:07:06,360 Speaker 2: If I feel the future, let's go. 163 00:07:06,480 --> 00:07:08,360 Speaker 1: I mean, I feel for you already because it's already happening. 164 00:07:08,520 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 1: So we just got to get it to have it 165 00:07:10,520 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 1: for me. 166 00:07:10,920 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 2: I know. 167 00:07:11,360 --> 00:07:13,240 Speaker 1: Okay, We're gonna take a quick break and won't be 168 00:07:13,360 --> 00:07:20,400 Speaker 1: right back, all right. Miss Wendy from Georgia would like 169 00:07:20,400 --> 00:07:24,320 Speaker 1: to know your favorite song to sing besides your original song. 170 00:07:26,280 --> 00:07:29,440 Speaker 2: Let's see, like karaoke or something. 171 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:33,960 Speaker 1: It can be like if you cover a song maybe. 172 00:07:35,120 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 2: I mean my go to is always Kerosene or Gunpowder 173 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:40,120 Speaker 2: and Lead by Miranda Lambert. I love singing those. 174 00:07:40,640 --> 00:07:43,160 Speaker 1: Do you feel like that's like in your range? Yes? 175 00:07:43,360 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 1: Is that the right way of putting that? 176 00:07:44,720 --> 00:07:47,040 Speaker 2: Uh huh? And they're like sassy in fun? 177 00:07:47,320 --> 00:07:49,160 Speaker 1: You know are you sassy in fun? 178 00:07:49,480 --> 00:07:54,560 Speaker 2: I would say, I mean yeah, they make me kind 179 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 2: of out of my comfort zone, you know, like it's 180 00:07:56,320 --> 00:08:00,080 Speaker 2: like Gunpowder and Lead, Like, what's another one? Like a 181 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:01,160 Speaker 2: slower song? 182 00:08:02,160 --> 00:08:04,760 Speaker 1: I think Unpowder and Letter Carosen are both good songs 183 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:07,640 Speaker 1: to cover the get the crowd going. Hm, they're good hits, 184 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:08,640 Speaker 1: country hits. 185 00:08:09,080 --> 00:08:11,280 Speaker 2: I love singing from this moment on Shania Twain. I 186 00:08:11,320 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 2: don't know why. It's just so pretty. 187 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:15,280 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's a slow ballad. Yes. And that's like 188 00:08:15,320 --> 00:08:18,720 Speaker 1: a builder too, where you like hit a really high 189 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:19,760 Speaker 1: point at one. 190 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:22,800 Speaker 2: I know you do. Isn't it like a duet too? 191 00:08:23,240 --> 00:08:28,360 Speaker 1: From this I think moment? Yeah, um this, I don't 192 00:08:28,360 --> 00:08:30,080 Speaker 1: think it started out as a duet. I think she 193 00:08:30,160 --> 00:08:31,080 Speaker 1: might have released it. 194 00:08:31,440 --> 00:08:33,480 Speaker 2: Yeah there's a duet foret who's in there? 195 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:36,719 Speaker 1: But yeah, I love that has the boyfriend's seing you 196 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:37,680 Speaker 1: do like karaoke. 197 00:08:38,160 --> 00:08:40,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, he has sang with me and it was the 198 00:08:40,080 --> 00:08:40,880 Speaker 2: funniest thing ever. 199 00:08:41,720 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 1: Wait, because is he good, like is he low key good? 200 00:08:44,040 --> 00:08:47,400 Speaker 2: So bad? He is terrible and he knows it. But 201 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:50,320 Speaker 2: he was so embarrassed and so shy did not want 202 00:08:50,320 --> 00:08:53,200 Speaker 2: to get up there, and we did picture by Kid 203 00:08:53,280 --> 00:08:55,079 Speaker 2: Rock and Cheryl Cross. 204 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:56,640 Speaker 1: Is there a video of this that lives out there? 205 00:08:56,760 --> 00:08:59,840 Speaker 2: Yes, there is. It is the funniest thing. He's like, 206 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:03,320 Speaker 2: I found your picture today and you're. 207 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:06,080 Speaker 1: Over here singing really good and he's just chilling. 208 00:09:07,400 --> 00:09:09,680 Speaker 2: Basically, it was the most awesome thing ever. Yeah, my 209 00:09:09,679 --> 00:09:11,520 Speaker 2: friend got a video because we did it the first 210 00:09:11,520 --> 00:09:13,520 Speaker 2: time and he was like, no videos, and then he 211 00:09:13,559 --> 00:09:15,200 Speaker 2: had a little bit more to drink, so we did 212 00:09:15,280 --> 00:09:19,360 Speaker 2: it later in the evening again. It's actually it's great. 213 00:09:19,559 --> 00:09:22,000 Speaker 1: So is that one of your favorite videos together? 214 00:09:22,559 --> 00:09:25,400 Speaker 2: Yes, for sure. But I will say back to house 215 00:09:25,440 --> 00:09:29,480 Speaker 2: the relationship, like he is so supportive and just like 216 00:09:29,840 --> 00:09:31,520 Speaker 2: in the past, I've always had guys that are just 217 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:34,559 Speaker 2: kind of like not jealous, but they don't they're never 218 00:09:34,600 --> 00:09:37,680 Speaker 2: supportive of like when my first my song came out, 219 00:09:37,880 --> 00:09:40,200 Speaker 2: like the guy was dating he really didn't really care, 220 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:41,760 Speaker 2: you know, and. 221 00:09:41,679 --> 00:09:43,240 Speaker 1: He even, Yeah, that's not good energy. 222 00:09:43,360 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 2: It's really not. And you know what he said too, 223 00:09:45,400 --> 00:09:47,200 Speaker 2: I'm just gonna say this because it is what it is. 224 00:09:47,440 --> 00:09:49,559 Speaker 2: But he was like, wichita is such an ugly word 225 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:51,960 Speaker 2: for a song. And I was like, that's what you 226 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:52,839 Speaker 2: took from the song? 227 00:09:53,400 --> 00:09:53,760 Speaker 1: Wow? 228 00:09:54,320 --> 00:09:57,480 Speaker 2: Wait, okay, the one that's like in the song that's 229 00:09:57,480 --> 00:09:59,880 Speaker 2: what I was gonna have. Yeah, And I was like, oh, 230 00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:02,840 Speaker 2: that's not the reaction I wanted from this. And also 231 00:10:02,920 --> 00:10:05,720 Speaker 2: it's my hometown. What do you mean it's ugly? I 232 00:10:05,760 --> 00:10:06,320 Speaker 2: can't help it. 233 00:10:07,280 --> 00:10:07,839 Speaker 1: Wow. 234 00:10:08,200 --> 00:10:10,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know. So there was that that. Yeah, that 235 00:10:10,679 --> 00:10:14,080 Speaker 2: was part of the issue. That was part of the like, 236 00:10:14,360 --> 00:10:17,000 Speaker 2: I don't know if that's a red flag. Definitely a 237 00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:17,440 Speaker 2: red flag. 238 00:10:17,800 --> 00:10:19,120 Speaker 1: That's one hundred percent of red flag. 239 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:21,160 Speaker 2: Yes, But I guess I was used to that, Like 240 00:10:21,200 --> 00:10:23,440 Speaker 2: when you're used to just being in back to back 241 00:10:23,520 --> 00:10:28,200 Speaker 2: relationships and you ignore the red flags, you you know, 242 00:10:28,720 --> 00:10:31,199 Speaker 2: and then you realize, wait, that was not good. When 243 00:10:31,240 --> 00:10:34,520 Speaker 2: you're in a current good one, you look back and 244 00:10:34,520 --> 00:10:37,400 Speaker 2: you're like, wow, I ignored things that are that's not okay. 245 00:10:37,760 --> 00:10:40,280 Speaker 1: Well, hindsight, it's always twenty twenty. Yeah, you know, when 246 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:43,360 Speaker 1: you're in it, everything's a little bit fuzzy, right, especially 247 00:10:43,400 --> 00:10:46,640 Speaker 1: when you care about somebody and think they care about you. Yeah, 248 00:10:46,679 --> 00:10:50,640 Speaker 1: so I understand. I Sympathetz has been there, done that. 249 00:10:51,520 --> 00:10:55,040 Speaker 1: So but at least you're in this situation now where 250 00:10:55,200 --> 00:10:58,280 Speaker 1: the relationship is very supportive and he wants you to succeed. 251 00:10:59,200 --> 00:11:01,520 Speaker 1: That's awesome. Yeah, and he's even singing karaoke with you. 252 00:11:01,640 --> 00:11:03,720 Speaker 2: I know, that's great. That's the way out of his 253 00:11:03,800 --> 00:11:06,520 Speaker 2: comfort zone. But like when I was doing the Indie 254 00:11:06,559 --> 00:11:09,480 Speaker 2: country showdown, like I hosted it, I co hosted it 255 00:11:09,520 --> 00:11:13,679 Speaker 2: with somebody, and then I sang my song there and 256 00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:15,680 Speaker 2: like he was. He came to two of the Knights 257 00:11:15,679 --> 00:11:17,160 Speaker 2: and was sitting out there, and it was like really 258 00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:19,600 Speaker 2: cool to just like look out and see him there. 259 00:11:19,640 --> 00:11:20,640 Speaker 2: I don't know, it was really cool. 260 00:11:20,800 --> 00:11:24,280 Speaker 1: Oh he was supporting green flags, right, green flags are waving. 261 00:11:24,480 --> 00:11:26,800 Speaker 2: I know, I don't know. It was really nice. 262 00:11:26,840 --> 00:11:29,400 Speaker 1: So Okay, well, hey we got we got further of 263 00:11:29,400 --> 00:11:31,320 Speaker 1: have a boyfriend update, just not at the question that 264 00:11:31,400 --> 00:11:32,360 Speaker 1: we needed, right. 265 00:11:32,559 --> 00:11:35,560 Speaker 2: Yes, I hope you stuck around and heard that part. 266 00:11:36,720 --> 00:11:40,280 Speaker 1: What is the hardest part about living a life where 267 00:11:40,280 --> 00:11:43,520 Speaker 1: strangers feel like they now know you? Keith from Kansas 268 00:11:43,600 --> 00:11:44,160 Speaker 1: wants to know. 269 00:11:45,440 --> 00:11:49,560 Speaker 2: See that's the thing. I feel like they really don't 270 00:11:49,600 --> 00:11:52,200 Speaker 2: know me. And that's I got so self conscious after 271 00:11:52,240 --> 00:11:55,000 Speaker 2: the guitar recital that I did. Like that's why I 272 00:11:55,040 --> 00:11:58,040 Speaker 2: didn't post for a while because like the comments just 273 00:11:58,120 --> 00:12:02,240 Speaker 2: like really got to me, like a comment, yes, Like 274 00:12:02,280 --> 00:12:04,679 Speaker 2: there were so many good ones, but the annoying part 275 00:12:04,880 --> 00:12:07,160 Speaker 2: is you focus on the bad ones and I'm like, man, 276 00:12:07,200 --> 00:12:09,839 Speaker 2: I wish they knew me. And they're like, oh, she's 277 00:12:09,840 --> 00:12:12,080 Speaker 2: trying to get a record deal, like good job, good luck, 278 00:12:12,200 --> 00:12:13,560 Speaker 2: like stick to your day job. And I'm like, well, 279 00:12:13,600 --> 00:12:16,080 Speaker 2: I'm actually not trying to get a record deal, Like 280 00:12:16,679 --> 00:12:19,280 Speaker 2: I know, I'm not at that level, and you know, 281 00:12:19,400 --> 00:12:19,800 Speaker 2: I don't know. 282 00:12:20,559 --> 00:12:22,920 Speaker 1: I kind of just feel like you should put yourself 283 00:12:22,960 --> 00:12:27,120 Speaker 1: down there. I don't think anybody like you're chasing a dream. 284 00:12:27,480 --> 00:12:30,079 Speaker 1: I don't think you ever say never, you know what 285 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:33,240 Speaker 1: I mean, Like, if that opportunity comes along, then you 286 00:12:33,240 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 1: would totally take it, right. So I also think it's 287 00:12:36,800 --> 00:12:39,080 Speaker 1: great if you want to chase that. I think you 288 00:12:39,120 --> 00:12:41,240 Speaker 1: do have talent and you have a beautiful voice if 289 00:12:41,240 --> 00:12:44,880 Speaker 1: you wanted to go after that, right, So just remember 290 00:12:44,920 --> 00:12:47,559 Speaker 1: that mm hm. As you're sitting here talking about yourself. 291 00:12:47,640 --> 00:12:52,040 Speaker 2: I know, I know, yeah, I'm just it is it's 292 00:12:52,080 --> 00:12:54,920 Speaker 2: it's hard, like not being able to show who you 293 00:12:54,960 --> 00:12:58,160 Speaker 2: truly are. I guess sometimes because I'm on the show 294 00:12:58,800 --> 00:13:02,320 Speaker 2: certain times and a lot of it is when Lunchbox 295 00:13:02,360 --> 00:13:05,680 Speaker 2: critiques me and when I'm like super nervous or like 296 00:13:05,760 --> 00:13:09,160 Speaker 2: put on the spot, and so I feel like that's 297 00:13:09,360 --> 00:13:12,240 Speaker 2: really only a side that people see sometimes. 298 00:13:12,559 --> 00:13:15,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I can totally echo that. I think it's 299 00:13:16,120 --> 00:13:19,640 Speaker 1: hard that people believe they know every single thing about 300 00:13:19,720 --> 00:13:22,080 Speaker 1: us just because of the few moments they hear from 301 00:13:22,120 --> 00:13:25,200 Speaker 1: us or they see us on social media, and they're like, 302 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:27,959 Speaker 1: this is who they are, and they've put that picture 303 00:13:27,960 --> 00:13:32,360 Speaker 1: in their head and it's who they believe, and you 304 00:13:32,400 --> 00:13:36,000 Speaker 1: can't convince them otherwise, right when in reality, like we're 305 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:40,240 Speaker 1: these full dynamic people who are real humans, you know, 306 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:44,040 Speaker 1: on the other end of the computer screen, and they 307 00:13:44,040 --> 00:13:47,280 Speaker 1: don't see it that way. So I do, like I 308 00:13:47,320 --> 00:13:51,440 Speaker 1: can echo what you're saying. I think it's really hard 309 00:13:51,480 --> 00:13:54,840 Speaker 1: when people just believe. You know, there's one side of 310 00:13:54,880 --> 00:13:58,520 Speaker 1: this where you want them to connect with you and 311 00:13:58,559 --> 00:14:02,160 Speaker 1: you want them to believe they know you. But for 312 00:14:02,280 --> 00:14:05,920 Speaker 1: you and I who aren't on the show one hundred 313 00:14:05,920 --> 00:14:08,439 Speaker 1: percent of the time. They get little snippets of who 314 00:14:08,480 --> 00:14:11,520 Speaker 1: we are. It's not a whole, complete, rounded person, right, 315 00:14:11,559 --> 00:14:14,520 Speaker 1: It's just like here and there, and we're just talking 316 00:14:14,520 --> 00:14:19,080 Speaker 1: about certain things. So you may think Abby is only 317 00:14:19,840 --> 00:14:21,880 Speaker 1: pursuing her career and that's who she is as a person, 318 00:14:21,920 --> 00:14:25,920 Speaker 1: that's her whole entire identity, right, And then you may 319 00:14:25,960 --> 00:14:28,360 Speaker 1: hear me and you're like, oh, she only talks about 320 00:14:28,400 --> 00:14:31,200 Speaker 1: her dating life and she's single, when in real life, 321 00:14:31,680 --> 00:14:35,680 Speaker 1: as friends, we never talk about those things. No, I 322 00:14:35,800 --> 00:14:38,760 Speaker 1: got everything else right, But those almost most of the time, 323 00:14:38,840 --> 00:14:41,240 Speaker 1: you know, unless it's catching each other up on what's happening. 324 00:14:42,160 --> 00:14:45,000 Speaker 1: And so that part's hard, it is, and I think 325 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:46,600 Speaker 1: that's similar to what you're saying. 326 00:14:47,520 --> 00:14:49,520 Speaker 2: But then there's the other side of people that I 327 00:14:49,560 --> 00:14:52,000 Speaker 2: feel like they are my friends, like most of people 328 00:14:52,040 --> 00:14:54,720 Speaker 2: that follow me or you know that message me, or 329 00:14:54,800 --> 00:14:57,720 Speaker 2: they can relate or they're like, oh, you know, now 330 00:14:57,720 --> 00:15:00,000 Speaker 2: I want to pursue something I've been scared to pursue. 331 00:15:00,560 --> 00:15:03,760 Speaker 2: Like that I love And that's like the really good 332 00:15:03,760 --> 00:15:04,880 Speaker 2: part of it. Part of it. 333 00:15:05,040 --> 00:15:08,000 Speaker 1: There's always there's always more good than bad. Yes, But 334 00:15:08,440 --> 00:15:11,680 Speaker 1: to your point, the bad do always shine. Like it's 335 00:15:11,800 --> 00:15:14,080 Speaker 1: really hard to see an entire comment section and they're 336 00:15:14,080 --> 00:15:17,320 Speaker 1: all good, and then it's like the one bad one 337 00:15:17,440 --> 00:15:19,880 Speaker 1: is just like blinking lights, like look at me, pay 338 00:15:19,920 --> 00:15:20,600 Speaker 1: attention to me. 339 00:15:20,800 --> 00:15:23,080 Speaker 2: Yes, And I don't know why it's so annoying. I'm like, 340 00:15:23,120 --> 00:15:27,440 Speaker 2: why are you It's like ninety five percent good, focus 341 00:15:27,520 --> 00:15:29,960 Speaker 2: on that. Why are you looking at the five percent? 342 00:15:30,160 --> 00:15:32,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, all depends on the day. You know. Some days 343 00:15:32,120 --> 00:15:34,600 Speaker 1: you're like, I got this, no big deal. In other 344 00:15:34,720 --> 00:15:36,920 Speaker 1: days it just hits you at the wrong time. It does. 345 00:15:37,240 --> 00:15:38,680 Speaker 1: It kind of makes me sad that you and I 346 00:15:38,720 --> 00:15:42,800 Speaker 1: both have to feel that way. I do. I love 347 00:15:42,840 --> 00:15:45,040 Speaker 1: what we do, and I love getting to connect with 348 00:15:45,080 --> 00:15:48,400 Speaker 1: people and all the amazing people who do see through 349 00:15:48,440 --> 00:15:50,440 Speaker 1: all of that. Yes, and they see it on just 350 00:15:50,480 --> 00:15:53,240 Speaker 1: a different level and they're normal humans like us. 351 00:15:53,560 --> 00:15:55,520 Speaker 2: M hmm. I love it. I mean people that call 352 00:15:55,560 --> 00:15:57,560 Speaker 2: in all the time they're like, Abby, don't give up, 353 00:15:57,640 --> 00:16:00,080 Speaker 2: I love your singing, don't listen to lunchbox And I'm like, OK, 354 00:16:00,240 --> 00:16:03,240 Speaker 2: thank you. That's what gives me, like that extra you know, 355 00:16:03,560 --> 00:16:05,360 Speaker 2: pep in my step. I guess so. 356 00:16:05,560 --> 00:16:07,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think it's also not a bad thing. 357 00:16:07,600 --> 00:16:11,280 Speaker 1: For like constructive criticism, but nobody's ever constructive, right, It's 358 00:16:11,320 --> 00:16:14,960 Speaker 1: just criticism. And I don't know if you saw this 359 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:17,040 Speaker 1: because you haven't been on your phone a lot, because 360 00:16:17,040 --> 00:16:21,600 Speaker 1: you're like in a love bubble. But Brenne Brown said this, 361 00:16:21,880 --> 00:16:23,480 Speaker 1: and I shared it on my story because my sister 362 00:16:23,480 --> 00:16:26,160 Speaker 1: shared it with me, and it really put a lot 363 00:16:26,200 --> 00:16:29,320 Speaker 1: of things in perspective for me. She says, if you're 364 00:16:29,360 --> 00:16:31,960 Speaker 1: not in the arena getting your ass kicked on occasion, 365 00:16:32,280 --> 00:16:35,520 Speaker 1: I'm not interested in or open to your feedback. There 366 00:16:35,520 --> 00:16:37,720 Speaker 1: are a million cheap seats in the world today, filled 367 00:16:37,720 --> 00:16:39,960 Speaker 1: with people who will never be brave with their own lives, 368 00:16:40,200 --> 00:16:42,320 Speaker 1: but will spend every ounce of energy they have harling 369 00:16:42,360 --> 00:16:45,160 Speaker 1: advice and judgment at those of us trying to dare greatly. 370 00:16:45,520 --> 00:16:49,440 Speaker 1: Their only contributions are criticism, cynicism, and fear mongreen If 371 00:16:49,480 --> 00:16:51,680 Speaker 1: you're criticizing from a place where you're not also putting 372 00:16:51,720 --> 00:16:54,080 Speaker 1: yourself on the line, I'm not interested in your feedback. 373 00:16:54,960 --> 00:16:58,120 Speaker 1: And I think a lot of people need to hear that, right, 374 00:16:58,200 --> 00:17:01,160 Speaker 1: I really yeah, I love that. Yeah, Because anytime you're 375 00:17:01,200 --> 00:17:03,960 Speaker 1: chasing a dream, chasing a goal, there's always going to 376 00:17:04,000 --> 00:17:06,280 Speaker 1: be people that don't agree with you, you know, and 377 00:17:06,560 --> 00:17:09,520 Speaker 1: my sister always has to remind me, like, you're not 378 00:17:09,600 --> 00:17:13,879 Speaker 1: going to be for everyone, and as a people pleaser 379 00:17:14,040 --> 00:17:16,600 Speaker 1: in an impath, I don't love that. 380 00:17:16,640 --> 00:17:18,119 Speaker 2: Oh my god, exactly. Yes. 381 00:17:18,240 --> 00:17:19,920 Speaker 1: I don't want to disappoint people. I don't want to 382 00:17:19,960 --> 00:17:22,399 Speaker 1: let people down. I don't want people to be to 383 00:17:22,760 --> 00:17:26,720 Speaker 1: feel sad or whatever because of me, you know. So 384 00:17:27,520 --> 00:17:29,679 Speaker 1: I had to learn to accept that I won't be 385 00:17:29,720 --> 00:17:34,000 Speaker 1: for everybody. That's a hard like exception, especially when we're 386 00:17:34,000 --> 00:17:40,520 Speaker 1: sitting here talking about how they don't really know us entirely. Yes, 387 00:17:39,920 --> 00:17:45,080 Speaker 1: that I totally agree. I'm like on my little I 388 00:17:45,119 --> 00:17:48,280 Speaker 1: know a moment, but maybe maybe it helps you, maybe 389 00:17:48,320 --> 00:17:49,480 Speaker 1: the quote helps you like it helps me. 390 00:17:49,720 --> 00:17:51,440 Speaker 2: No, it really does, and I try to think about 391 00:17:51,440 --> 00:17:53,720 Speaker 2: that all the time. I'm like, why if I wouldn't 392 00:17:53,760 --> 00:17:57,159 Speaker 2: listen to their I don't know, if there's like a 393 00:17:57,200 --> 00:17:59,040 Speaker 2: saying if I wouldn't listen to their advice, why would 394 00:17:59,040 --> 00:18:00,760 Speaker 2: I take their critique or something like that. I don't know. 395 00:18:01,000 --> 00:18:03,879 Speaker 2: So yeah, I'm all about like constructive criticism, you know, 396 00:18:03,960 --> 00:18:05,600 Speaker 2: but if you're just gonna be like you sound so 397 00:18:05,720 --> 00:18:08,960 Speaker 2: nasally or terrible, or they're like you know you should 398 00:18:08,960 --> 00:18:12,080 Speaker 2: work on being nasally. I'm okay, well what should I 399 00:18:12,119 --> 00:18:14,760 Speaker 2: do? Do you have advice? And like how I can change that? 400 00:18:14,800 --> 00:18:16,280 Speaker 2: Because I'm like, I feel like this is my voice 401 00:18:16,280 --> 00:18:18,960 Speaker 2: at this point, you know, like Willie Nelson's nasally. 402 00:18:19,560 --> 00:18:21,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, you have your unique sound. 403 00:18:21,960 --> 00:18:24,360 Speaker 2: I guess, so, yeah, I don't know. Maybe, I mean 404 00:18:24,480 --> 00:18:27,119 Speaker 2: I can tell too, but I'm not sure what. 405 00:18:27,440 --> 00:18:31,000 Speaker 1: Well it always, you know, the criticism always points out 406 00:18:31,320 --> 00:18:33,840 Speaker 1: insecurities you already have, you know what I mean, So 407 00:18:34,480 --> 00:18:36,879 Speaker 1: when you see them, it always makes you It heightens 408 00:18:37,320 --> 00:18:41,920 Speaker 1: the way you already feel. So I don't think you do. 409 00:18:42,640 --> 00:18:45,040 Speaker 1: But if you already feel like that, and then somebody 410 00:18:45,080 --> 00:18:48,360 Speaker 1: says that it's only heightening it even more to make 411 00:18:48,400 --> 00:18:50,640 Speaker 1: you feel worse about it, I know, but I don't 412 00:18:50,640 --> 00:18:55,240 Speaker 1: believe any of that's true. I don't believe that anything. 413 00:18:55,440 --> 00:18:58,320 Speaker 1: If somebody is sitting at home, just like she said, 414 00:18:58,720 --> 00:19:01,399 Speaker 1: in criticizing from a place where they're not putting their 415 00:19:01,440 --> 00:19:03,440 Speaker 1: self out there and doing the things that you're doing, 416 00:19:03,480 --> 00:19:07,879 Speaker 1: then they don't get to offer advice or can criticism 417 00:19:07,880 --> 00:19:10,760 Speaker 1: in that area. Right now, If Kelsey Ballerini comes up 418 00:19:10,760 --> 00:19:13,800 Speaker 1: to you and says, hey, maybe try this, Yeah, that's 419 00:19:13,800 --> 00:19:14,720 Speaker 1: somebody to listen to. 420 00:19:14,880 --> 00:19:16,240 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you know what I mean. 421 00:19:16,400 --> 00:19:19,119 Speaker 1: So I don't think you do. I think you have 422 00:19:19,119 --> 00:19:21,000 Speaker 1: a beautiful voice, and I think you should keep pursuing 423 00:19:21,040 --> 00:19:24,480 Speaker 1: it as much and as little as you want to. 424 00:19:24,680 --> 00:19:25,080 Speaker 2: Mm hmm. 425 00:19:25,840 --> 00:19:30,320 Speaker 1: And don't thank you. But Keith from Kansas, you got 426 00:19:30,400 --> 00:19:31,360 Speaker 1: us on a little soapbox. 427 00:19:31,600 --> 00:19:33,760 Speaker 2: You did not to be negative because there is so 428 00:19:33,840 --> 00:19:35,919 Speaker 2: much positive. But it's like I said, I'm trying to 429 00:19:35,960 --> 00:19:38,639 Speaker 2: work on not looking at the negative so much and 430 00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:39,800 Speaker 2: just focusing on the positive. 431 00:19:39,920 --> 00:19:42,560 Speaker 1: So I'm with you. Hey, I'm with you. We're in 432 00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:46,520 Speaker 1: the trenches together, so it's okay. Charlene in New Hampshire 433 00:19:46,520 --> 00:19:50,360 Speaker 1: wants to know if Lunchbox is speaking of hatred towards singing. 434 00:19:50,560 --> 00:19:51,960 Speaker 1: Your singing bothers you at all. 435 00:19:52,680 --> 00:19:56,760 Speaker 2: It actually does. It actually does, And I know that 436 00:19:57,040 --> 00:20:00,320 Speaker 2: he does it a lot, you know, for the sh 437 00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:02,879 Speaker 2: he does it to be that's just how he is. 438 00:20:03,640 --> 00:20:06,320 Speaker 2: But at the same time, in the hallways he's not like, 439 00:20:06,320 --> 00:20:09,840 Speaker 2: I'm just kidding. You're good, and so I just start like, 440 00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:12,720 Speaker 2: once it's something is said over and over, you start 441 00:20:12,720 --> 00:20:14,320 Speaker 2: to believe it. You're like, oh my gosh, wait, is 442 00:20:14,359 --> 00:20:17,879 Speaker 2: this actually true? Then? If you're saying it so much 443 00:20:17,920 --> 00:20:21,760 Speaker 2: and you're hearing it, you kinda just have that in 444 00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:24,760 Speaker 2: your head. And so then that's when like the insecurities 445 00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:27,000 Speaker 2: come out. But I'm like, oh my gosh, that's just 446 00:20:27,040 --> 00:20:30,320 Speaker 2: another thing. Just like ignore him, you know, ignore the negativity, 447 00:20:30,359 --> 00:20:34,159 Speaker 2: because like, why would he He can't even sing on tune? 448 00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:36,919 Speaker 2: You know, he doesn't even have rhythm, right, Yeah, they 449 00:20:36,960 --> 00:20:39,520 Speaker 2: can't even clap on beat. So why does he think 450 00:20:39,520 --> 00:20:41,119 Speaker 2: he can be a critic for me? You know, like 451 00:20:41,160 --> 00:20:43,880 Speaker 2: if it comes to acting or whatever, or I don't 452 00:20:43,920 --> 00:20:46,119 Speaker 2: even know what lets he do? What does he do? 453 00:20:46,760 --> 00:20:51,640 Speaker 2: Talk on the radio? Yeah, hey, he's amazing that personality. 454 00:20:51,760 --> 00:20:54,440 Speaker 2: I will give him that I cannot talk. I mean, 455 00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:57,359 Speaker 2: he can make a yes or no question into like 456 00:20:57,400 --> 00:21:01,080 Speaker 2: a ten minute answers true and that is in okay. 457 00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:05,199 Speaker 2: So like when it comes to that, he's amazing. But 458 00:21:05,240 --> 00:21:08,399 Speaker 2: I just it's hard to even though I do listen 459 00:21:08,400 --> 00:21:09,600 Speaker 2: to him, because it's in my head. 460 00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:13,760 Speaker 1: Well, and he's your coworker, so you're internalizing that. Yes, 461 00:21:14,160 --> 00:21:16,000 Speaker 1: but he's not right, you know. 462 00:21:16,880 --> 00:21:20,400 Speaker 2: But he gets those people to you know, agree. 463 00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:23,040 Speaker 1: He does. He does know how to row some people up. 464 00:21:23,119 --> 00:21:26,640 Speaker 1: He does. He's very good at that. Also, he's like, they're. 465 00:21:26,400 --> 00:21:30,000 Speaker 2: Like, I love lunch. Proxyity says how it is? You know, 466 00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:32,879 Speaker 2: He's like, he doesn't hold back from the truth. I'm like, 467 00:21:33,280 --> 00:21:34,320 Speaker 2: well that is true. 468 00:21:35,560 --> 00:21:37,800 Speaker 1: Well I think you're great, and I think you should 469 00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:39,320 Speaker 1: keep pursuing it if you want to. 470 00:21:39,840 --> 00:21:43,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, thank you. I like that. Yeah, no, yes, 471 00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:44,960 Speaker 2: I need to just get out of my little I 472 00:21:44,960 --> 00:21:47,920 Speaker 2: think we all get in little funks or you know, 473 00:21:47,960 --> 00:21:50,600 Speaker 2: where we doubt ourselves and we're like should I really 474 00:21:50,680 --> 00:21:52,879 Speaker 2: do this? Like is this really worth it? And I 475 00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:54,840 Speaker 2: think that's where I am right now, but I'm going 476 00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:55,520 Speaker 2: to get out of it. 477 00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:59,000 Speaker 1: I think it's always worth it. It's better than the alternative, 478 00:21:59,359 --> 00:22:02,840 Speaker 1: which is not doing it and then always wondering what if, 479 00:22:03,240 --> 00:22:07,480 Speaker 1: right that alternative sucks, so that would be the worst exactly. 480 00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:09,639 Speaker 1: So if you do it, the worst that happens is 481 00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:12,760 Speaker 1: you fail. But you did it, so I think you 482 00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:15,640 Speaker 1: should always try it, always go after what you want. 483 00:22:15,920 --> 00:22:18,560 Speaker 2: You too, you too. Let's go all. 484 00:22:18,520 --> 00:22:20,399 Speaker 1: Right, We're gonna take one more break, and we have 485 00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:27,240 Speaker 1: two more questions. Okay, We've got Ben in Colorado, who 486 00:22:27,440 --> 00:22:31,600 Speaker 1: wants to know our favorite dive bars in Nashville. 487 00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:33,120 Speaker 2: Oh, dive bar. 488 00:22:33,280 --> 00:22:35,960 Speaker 1: We're doing like two recommendations. We're doing a Nashville recommendation 489 00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:38,960 Speaker 1: and then we're gonna do some wichita ones. Okay, so 490 00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:41,240 Speaker 1: dive bars in Nashville go. 491 00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:44,360 Speaker 2: Okay, so dive bar. But it's like the karaoke bar, 492 00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:45,960 Speaker 2: but it's kind of a secret. 493 00:22:46,840 --> 00:22:51,639 Speaker 1: Oh you're talking about the seasonal one. Yeah, I think 494 00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:53,040 Speaker 1: you can say. People have said it. 495 00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:56,000 Speaker 2: Okay, that's your Santa's Pub. That's definitely a die bar. 496 00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:57,240 Speaker 2: It's like a double wide trailer. 497 00:22:57,359 --> 00:22:58,400 Speaker 1: Oh and it's cash only. 498 00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:01,000 Speaker 2: Yes, it is the most awesome thing. And beer is 499 00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:02,639 Speaker 2: like three dollars. Well it used to be three dollars. 500 00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:05,280 Speaker 2: I mean maybe a little more now, but still it's amazing. 501 00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:06,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, and Santa sometimes is there. 502 00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:08,400 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, he was there when I was going 503 00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:13,439 Speaker 2: in and I was so excited, like half thousand times. Yeah, 504 00:23:13,520 --> 00:23:15,680 Speaker 2: because I got there like super early and no one 505 00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:18,320 Speaker 2: was there. It was I've never been there at that time. 506 00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:20,720 Speaker 2: It's usually like when you're drunk on a Friday night, 507 00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:23,120 Speaker 2: you know, and you go You're like, let's do karaoke 508 00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:25,359 Speaker 2: and it's like eleven or midnight. 509 00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:26,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I got in bed by then. 510 00:23:27,080 --> 00:23:31,199 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, So this is like six. I think like 511 00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:34,600 Speaker 2: right early, you went hard early. Yeah, uh huh, okay, 512 00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:37,280 Speaker 2: it was actually it was actually fun because it was 513 00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:38,120 Speaker 2: just like us in there. 514 00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:42,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, so we got we got Sana's, Santa's and then 515 00:23:42,359 --> 00:23:43,000 Speaker 1: Sala's Pub. 516 00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:46,760 Speaker 2: There is a place in West Nashville and it is 517 00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:49,040 Speaker 2: called brew House West. Oh. 518 00:23:49,119 --> 00:23:50,200 Speaker 1: Yeah. I love brew House. 519 00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:52,840 Speaker 2: Yes, And they have the best bushwhackers ever. 520 00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:55,640 Speaker 1: They are the original Bushwhacker. 521 00:23:55,720 --> 00:23:58,600 Speaker 2: Broadway brew House downtown or like in Midtown. I used 522 00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:01,720 Speaker 2: to get them there. There's also one on Broadway downtown 523 00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:02,840 Speaker 2: the best bushwhackers. 524 00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:06,240 Speaker 1: And for those who are wondering, bushwhacker is a frozen drink. 525 00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:08,480 Speaker 1: I believe it has a few different things of alcohol. 526 00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:10,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like five things. It's so dangerous. 527 00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:15,520 Speaker 1: It tastes kind of like a root beer float milkshake. 528 00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:18,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like more of a milkshake milkshake with. 529 00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:20,080 Speaker 1: Liquor in it. It's frozen. 530 00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:21,679 Speaker 2: It is. 531 00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:24,160 Speaker 1: It'll get you on your butt, like you yield down 532 00:24:24,240 --> 00:24:26,280 Speaker 1: one because you don't know you're drinking so much liquor. 533 00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:28,560 Speaker 2: Because it is so good. It doesn't seem too sweet, 534 00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:30,840 Speaker 2: you know, like a milkshake. I'm just like, ooh, that's 535 00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:32,960 Speaker 2: once you get halfway, you're like, oh man, that's kind 536 00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:35,120 Speaker 2: of really heavy. But these do not feel like that. 537 00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:39,440 Speaker 1: No, the like if you're having like a frozen margarita, 538 00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:42,160 Speaker 1: a little kind of yeah, just more creamy because yeah, 539 00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:43,560 Speaker 1: but oh yeah, it's a good one. 540 00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:45,920 Speaker 2: But I love it there. It's it is super dive bari. 541 00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:49,800 Speaker 2: They have like they do have karaoke on one night. 542 00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:51,000 Speaker 1: You really koke? 543 00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:55,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, I really do. Then they have trivia, so it's fun. 544 00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:55,760 Speaker 2: Love it. 545 00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:59,920 Speaker 1: Okay, those are good one os. Oh man, I'm looking 546 00:24:59,920 --> 00:25:01,679 Speaker 1: at my mind because most of mine intend to be 547 00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:05,560 Speaker 1: in East Nashville. Okay, when I go out down there 548 00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:07,800 Speaker 1: is where all like the dive bars are. We got 549 00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:10,720 Speaker 1: like Lakeside Lounge and I think it's called Lucky seven. 550 00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:14,560 Speaker 1: That's what I was looking up. Oh I want to 551 00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:18,040 Speaker 1: say that's what it was. Maybe it's not anymore. I've 552 00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:21,120 Speaker 1: never yet I got turned into something else. It's there's 553 00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:24,760 Speaker 1: one and I can't it's a motel now and it 554 00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:27,080 Speaker 1: has a pool. I've been there for like an album 555 00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:29,160 Speaker 1: release party. But it's a cool. It's like it's very 556 00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:31,560 Speaker 1: like viby. Oh oh, I know what you're trying to 557 00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:32,080 Speaker 1: talk about. 558 00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:35,200 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. And the rooms are like retro looking. 559 00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:35,600 Speaker 1: Yes. 560 00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:39,679 Speaker 2: Oh oh it's dive Dive. 561 00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:42,400 Speaker 1: Dive Motel here. Yeah, that's a cool one. 562 00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:44,600 Speaker 2: Yes, I've been there. That is awesome. They have like 563 00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:48,320 Speaker 2: a disco ball like a dance floor looking mm hmmm, 564 00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:50,000 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, it's cool there. 565 00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:52,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, so Dive Dive Motel is one of them. And 566 00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:54,680 Speaker 1: then Never Never in whig would okay. 567 00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:56,159 Speaker 2: Oh that's a good one too. Oh Dan, there's so 568 00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:56,880 Speaker 2: many good ones. 569 00:25:56,960 --> 00:25:58,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, we have a lot of good dive bars. 570 00:25:58,240 --> 00:26:00,080 Speaker 2: Never Never is good or. 571 00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:03,560 Speaker 1: Bashit, but it's it's a little less divy, but it's 572 00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:06,120 Speaker 1: still pretty small. So that's what I consider divy. Yes, 573 00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:08,600 Speaker 1: but those two over there in which Houston are good. 574 00:26:08,480 --> 00:26:10,000 Speaker 2: Those are good, okay for sure. 575 00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:14,080 Speaker 1: Now we're talking Wichita. Favorite place in Wichita from Katie 576 00:26:14,119 --> 00:26:16,040 Speaker 1: in Wichita the ugly word. 577 00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:20,520 Speaker 2: I know, such a hideous city name. I'm just kidding. 578 00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:26,200 Speaker 2: I like it. I like okay, rude witch da Yeah. Wait, 579 00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:27,359 Speaker 2: favorite place like to eat? 580 00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:30,919 Speaker 1: I think just in general, like favorite places in Wichita, Kansas. 581 00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:34,720 Speaker 1: And we can just like talk about random things, so 582 00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:38,200 Speaker 1: there can be anything, food, activities, whatever you want. 583 00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:41,600 Speaker 2: I love Bella Luna. Oh great, I love the hummus. 584 00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:43,920 Speaker 2: I used to work there, take it home every shift. 585 00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:45,960 Speaker 2: I would take home this huge thing of hummus and 586 00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:48,680 Speaker 2: I got a half price. We're else I mean Chicken 587 00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:50,520 Speaker 2: and pickle. That's super fun. 588 00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:53,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, the original like pickle. I wish we had a 589 00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:54,480 Speaker 1: chicken and a pickle here. 590 00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:57,280 Speaker 2: I don't know why there are there more in the US. 591 00:26:57,359 --> 00:27:00,480 Speaker 1: Or Chicken and Pickle is a chain, okay, but I 592 00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:04,360 Speaker 1: don't know that it's come this far south. It's been. 593 00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:07,359 Speaker 1: I think it started west and it came kind of Midwest. 594 00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:10,960 Speaker 1: But love that place. Yes, before pickleball was a thing, 595 00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:12,280 Speaker 1: we had chicken in a pickle. 596 00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:14,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's such a good vibe. 597 00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:17,960 Speaker 1: Okay. What about do you like Homegrown? That's one of 598 00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:22,440 Speaker 1: my favorite breakfast bots. Yes, Like they're a little homemade 599 00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:23,040 Speaker 1: pop tarts. 600 00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:25,320 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, they're so cute. Yeah. They are the 601 00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:27,800 Speaker 2: best lattes too, they are cut. Yes. 602 00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:33,040 Speaker 1: And then there's I may pronounce this wrong, al Zavino 603 00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:33,920 Speaker 1: Wine Tavern. 604 00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:35,480 Speaker 2: Never been, haven't been. 605 00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:37,760 Speaker 1: They have wine on tap and basically they give you 606 00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:39,919 Speaker 1: a card and then you just keep going up and 607 00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:42,199 Speaker 1: filling your wine whenever you want it. You can do 608 00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:44,080 Speaker 1: all the different wines that it is. 609 00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:46,600 Speaker 2: So fun, super cute spot. Are you serious? 610 00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:50,359 Speaker 1: Yeah? It's in downtown Okay. And then there's also Grow 611 00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:52,560 Speaker 1: that's new that I really love. Have you been to Grow? 612 00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:54,600 Speaker 2: I went there and I was obsessed. 613 00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:56,919 Speaker 1: So you build your own little plant while you're drinking 614 00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:57,600 Speaker 1: and hanging out. 615 00:27:57,760 --> 00:28:00,440 Speaker 2: Everything was so cute. I was like, we need that here, 616 00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:01,560 Speaker 2: just everything. 617 00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:04,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, like shout out. They've got some spots that I'm like, Okay, 618 00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:07,480 Speaker 1: can you guys come here? Whoa. That's the part of 619 00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:09,320 Speaker 1: being like a fun cool city is everybody has their 620 00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:12,920 Speaker 1: own kind of different things. So both of those and 621 00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:18,080 Speaker 1: then I really love I believe what is that area? 622 00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:22,080 Speaker 1: It's by downtown but closer to Exploration Place? 623 00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:25,320 Speaker 2: Is it Delayanne Delano District? Dee? 624 00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:27,520 Speaker 1: Is that that has a little roundabout Why can I 625 00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:28,159 Speaker 1: remember this right? 626 00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:28,879 Speaker 2: Yeah? 627 00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:30,960 Speaker 1: And it's like cute little There's like a bunch of 628 00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:32,760 Speaker 1: things in there. There's some like a you're having to 629 00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:34,040 Speaker 1: be a pizza place there? 630 00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:36,400 Speaker 2: Was they have an ex throwing place there? Yeah too? 631 00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:38,240 Speaker 1: Yes, Okay, so we're talking about the same place, but 632 00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:39,400 Speaker 1: I don't know if it's the right place. 633 00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:44,400 Speaker 2: That sounds right? Why am I We've been from away 634 00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:45,400 Speaker 2: from which little. 635 00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:46,440 Speaker 1: Line I know I. 636 00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:48,400 Speaker 2: Used to be. 637 00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:51,200 Speaker 1: I mean I type that in Yeah, I think that's it. 638 00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:55,400 Speaker 1: Which is Delano District? Yes, I love that little area like. 639 00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:55,800 Speaker 2: I do too. 640 00:28:55,920 --> 00:28:58,400 Speaker 1: Although it's cute just to walk around, but they also 641 00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:01,600 Speaker 1: have really cool restaurants and you know, and then you 642 00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:06,240 Speaker 1: can also walk and go see the Indian at the. 643 00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:10,560 Speaker 2: Planes. Yes, yeah, by that bridge. That is so cool. 644 00:29:10,720 --> 00:29:15,920 Speaker 2: Like they've really early one morning. I'm surprised I'm on 645 00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:17,600 Speaker 2: it like usually my brain's like. 646 00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:20,680 Speaker 1: We're helping each other out right now. 647 00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:22,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, this is great. 648 00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:24,880 Speaker 1: Yes, keeper of the planes, thank you? So cool when 649 00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:26,240 Speaker 1: they light it awesome? 650 00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:29,080 Speaker 2: Yeah? Why not look at whichita people need to go visit? 651 00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:30,680 Speaker 1: They do? Which show is awesome? 652 00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:33,680 Speaker 2: It is? People make fun of Kansas whenever I stand 653 00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:35,880 Speaker 2: from w each other, like oh you got electricity? Did 654 00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:37,160 Speaker 2: you ride your horse to school? 655 00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:42,400 Speaker 1: I'm like, huh so fun like hilarious, like what like, guys, 656 00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:44,320 Speaker 1: there's so much more to offer in which than you 657 00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:46,120 Speaker 1: would think. And also most people think of Kansas City 658 00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:48,760 Speaker 1: when they think of Kansas and it really you know what, 659 00:29:49,320 --> 00:29:51,000 Speaker 1: actually I take it back, you know, I just leave 660 00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:53,680 Speaker 1: us witch job people by by ourselves. We'll be fine. 661 00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:54,200 Speaker 2: We're good. 662 00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:57,920 Speaker 1: We don't need it, don't need to be overrun with tourism. 663 00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:01,960 Speaker 1: Everybody's living and thriving there. All right, that's all for us. 664 00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:04,320 Speaker 2: It is sounds good. That wasn't too hard. 665 00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:06,320 Speaker 1: Nah, I didn't make you talk about to me. 666 00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:08,160 Speaker 2: Great, thank you. Just the dating question. 667 00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:12,280 Speaker 1: I was like, we got there, we worked through it. 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