WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Kissing My Cousin

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<v Speaker 1>Brooking jewels. Second date date. You know you're getting blown

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<v Speaker 1>off for a date when somebody tells you that they

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<v Speaker 1>have a doctor's appointment at eight o'clock on a Friday night.

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<v Speaker 1>As far as I know, not a lot of doctors

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<v Speaker 1>working that late on a Friday night. That's what happened

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<v Speaker 1>to Matt, who is on the phone right now and

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<v Speaker 1>wants to do a second date update. He wants to

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<v Speaker 1>call a girl named Claire. Apparently Claire is really bad

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<v Speaker 1>at blowing guys off. Yeah, because he asked her out

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<v Speaker 1>after their date, and that was one of her excuses

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<v Speaker 1>that she used. Apparently she's used a bunch of excuses,

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<v Speaker 1>and he's wondering why she just keeps blowing him off.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, Matt? How are you? I'm doing great, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you good? So she actually sent you a

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<v Speaker 1>text after your date saying that she had a doctor's

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<v Speaker 1>appointment at eight on a Friday night. Yeah twice. Actually

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<v Speaker 1>she did that two different weekends. Because I waited a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of days. I didn't want to come off desperate anything.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to play it cool, So I texted her

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<v Speaker 1>and I think you want to grab some drinks tonight?

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<v Speaker 1>Or something. This was earlier in the day, and she's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I have a doctor's appointment tonight. What did you stay back?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I wasn't going to try to test her

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<v Speaker 1>because I kind of took a little bit of a hint.

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<v Speaker 1>I gave her the benefit of the doubt. I'm like, Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, let me know after we're tipping up and

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<v Speaker 1>maybe we can do party. You wanted to text her

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<v Speaker 1>back and be like, it's Friday night at eight o'clock.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you really have a doctor's appointment? Absolutely? I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to call her out on it. At the

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<v Speaker 1>same time, I'd feel bad if she did have some

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<v Speaker 1>kind of random doctor's appointment. And then I called her

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<v Speaker 1>a liar and then yeah, it's one of those where

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<v Speaker 1>you just bite your tongue and you're like, oh my god, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>do you think she said it? And she's like, oh, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>that doesn't make any sense. He's gonna know that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>blowing him. I don't know how lady doctors work. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe lady doctors are open. You're not getting pap smears

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<v Speaker 1>on a Friday night. It's not what we do. No,

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<v Speaker 1>there's no like happy hour or late night happy hour

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<v Speaker 1>for those things. Yeah, what was the other excuse that

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<v Speaker 1>she used on you? I texted her a second time.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't as late. I figured, you know, maybe she

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<v Speaker 1>want to do like a happy hour or something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>And what you say back, Actually, I would surprise because

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<v Speaker 1>that one was a dentist appointment. She needs to get

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<v Speaker 1>more creative. Is the problem? Are you sure you want

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<v Speaker 1>to call this girl and try to get a second date.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I think more it's I want closure. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to know what happened, because we hit it off

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<v Speaker 1>really well. She's she's gorgeous. I don't usually do blind dates,

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<v Speaker 1>but the one time that I did it, it it worked

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<v Speaker 1>out really well. I thought we had a lot in common.

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<v Speaker 1>So this was a date that was set up by somebody. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>our friends. We have some mutual friends, and they kept

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<v Speaker 1>pestering me over a couple of weeks, and finally they

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<v Speaker 1>showed me a picture of her on Facebook and yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, oh, absolutely. Do you think that she was

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<v Speaker 1>maybe disappointed when she saw you? If she was, she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't act like it. I mean, maybe she's really nice.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I don't think I'm that much of a disappointment.

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<v Speaker 1>To look at being what she really enjoyed herself. So

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<v Speaker 1>everything on your date seemed cool. What did you guys do?

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<v Speaker 1>It was just a first date kind of thing where

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<v Speaker 1>we just went out to a bar and had a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of drinks and we ended up just talking for

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<v Speaker 1>you know, at least two or three hours. That's good time. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, if she didn't like you initially, I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>stay around that long. And I'm pretty good at reading people,

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<v Speaker 1>so I I mean, either she's a really good actress

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<v Speaker 1>or if she was having a good time. But I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it just it felt like things were really clicking. Was

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<v Speaker 1>there anything weird that happened during your date? Not that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm aware of. I mean, there's a couple of times,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, she went to the bathroom, just like once

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<v Speaker 1>or twice. But then after you're having drinks, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>someone goes to the restroom. Yeah, that's right, unless she's

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<v Speaker 1>a cokehead and she's just sounds to me like she's

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<v Speaker 1>doing drugs in the bathroom during your date. Matt, I've

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<v Speaker 1>never actually thought about it. Yeah, well you gotta think

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<v Speaker 1>about it more often whenever I'm out on a date.

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<v Speaker 1>As soon as she goes to the bathroom. I know

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<v Speaker 1>exactly what's going on in there. I'm tired of going

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<v Speaker 1>out with all these druggies. All right, So you still

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<v Speaker 1>want to call this girl even though she's blatantly blowing

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<v Speaker 1>you off. Oh? Absolutely, She's really one of the prettiest

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<v Speaker 1>girls that i've I've ever went on a date with. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>we're just really beautiful. I'm absolutely my type, and we

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<v Speaker 1>just the stuff that you look for in common with someone,

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<v Speaker 1>those things that we had together, it was just something,

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<v Speaker 1>just something that we could build on. Did you give

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<v Speaker 1>her a kiss at the end of the night. No,

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<v Speaker 1>we just hugged and um, you know, went on a

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<v Speaker 1>better way. Okay, well we'll play a song, come back,

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<v Speaker 1>call her and get your second date update. All right, awesome,

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<v Speaker 1>thanks guys, all right, man, hold on looking jubil In

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<v Speaker 1>the morning, Matt is on the phone with us and

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<v Speaker 1>he wants to call a girl named Claire. Today they

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<v Speaker 1>met through friends, went out on a date. He thought

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<v Speaker 1>everything seemed cool, but since then he's tried to text

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<v Speaker 1>her and gotten horrible excuses back as to why she

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<v Speaker 1>can't go out with him. It was a Friday night

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<v Speaker 1>at eight o'clock and she said she had a doctor's appointment,

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<v Speaker 1>and then the next time he said let's hang out earlier,

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<v Speaker 1>like five o'clock on a Saturday, she said she had

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<v Speaker 1>a dentist appointment, obviously blowing him off. Matt, Are you

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<v Speaker 1>ready to make the phone call? Yeah? Man, absolutely, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>Well i'nn have to, unfortunately tell you I'm gonna need

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<v Speaker 1>to reschedule. I've got autometrius appointment here in ten minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>Shouldn't be a surprise to you, though, this is kind

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<v Speaker 1>of what people do to right Yeah. Absolutely. Yeah. Have

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<v Speaker 1>you ever been this blatantly blown off before? Never? No,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what's bugging me so much. Yeah, I can see

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<v Speaker 1>your point, because I would be like, I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to know why why do you feel the need to

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<v Speaker 1>pretend with a doctor's appointment at eight o'clock on a

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<v Speaker 1>Friday night. All right, man, I'm gonna dial the phoneumber

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<v Speaker 1>right now, get her on the phone and get your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. Okay, cool? Thanks, here we go. Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>can I speak to Claire please? Yeah? This is Clay.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Claire, how are you doing? This is Jewel from

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jewel in the morning. I'm sorry, I don't understand. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's fine. It's a morning radio show, and one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners recently emailed us about you. Who his name

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<v Speaker 1>is Matt. We do a segment on our show called

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<v Speaker 1>the second Date Update. Matt is wondering why you are

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<v Speaker 1>blowing him off. Wait, Matt called you, guys. Yes, huh,

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<v Speaker 1>do you have a few minutes to tell us why

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want to go out with Matt again? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess there's not much to tell. There's not much

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<v Speaker 1>to tell. Well, let me, can I tell you something? Sure,

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<v Speaker 1>we talked to Matt about your date, when we talked

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<v Speaker 1>to him about everything after the date, and Matt thinks

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<v Speaker 1>that you're a liar. He thinks him a liar. He

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<v Speaker 1>thinks that you're a liar. Okay, why because you told

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<v Speaker 1>him you couldn't go out with him because you had

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<v Speaker 1>a doctor's appointment at eight o'clock on a Friday night.

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<v Speaker 1>And then the next time he asked you out, you

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<v Speaker 1>said you had a dentist's appointment. So like, that's my business.

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<v Speaker 1>And for the record of not lying, okay, you're not

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<v Speaker 1>lying that you went to the doctors at eight o'clock

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<v Speaker 1>on a Friday night. I can explain this that you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>So the doctor's appointment stuff is all true, and you

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<v Speaker 1>haven't been blowing him off. You want to see mad again?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean like, like not necessarily, I don't want like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't actually want to see him again. Why woun't

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<v Speaker 1>you make up lame excuses? Why don't you just tell him, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think it's gonna work. I don't. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>need to justify any of this to you, Guys. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't get that feeling with him, and I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to see him again. But hey, I don't care if

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<v Speaker 1>you blew him off the way you did. Whatever doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not my life, that's his. But is there a

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<v Speaker 1>specific reason why you don't want to see him again

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<v Speaker 1>so that I can go back to him and tell him, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I just I just didn't get the feeling I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I should get. So there's just no chemistry, like

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<v Speaker 1>you weren't attracted to him. There's just like a feeling

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<v Speaker 1>a girl gets when a guy really likes her and

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<v Speaker 1>he thinks it's weird. I didn't get that from him

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<v Speaker 1>at all. So you didn't think that he liked you,

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<v Speaker 1>But he's asked you out a bunch of times. Since

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<v Speaker 1>your date. I mean it was weirder than that. It

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<v Speaker 1>was like when we went into the bar, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, here's my ex play friend and he

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<v Speaker 1>was gonna het the bar two and so I told

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<v Speaker 1>Matt that, like I used to date this guy, and

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<v Speaker 1>like he wasn't even face, Like he didn't even like

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't care, he didn't like he just went along

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<v Speaker 1>with the date like nothing happened. And I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>don't you get it, Like we slept together, Like this

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<v Speaker 1>is like weird. You know, so wanted you wanted him

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<v Speaker 1>to be upset that your ex boyfriend was there. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not that he has to like get upset or angry

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<v Speaker 1>about it, but like I went to like show that

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<v Speaker 1>he actually likes me, he probably should seem like he's

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<v Speaker 1>at least faced by a little bit like a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit weird it out. So you wanted to like go

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<v Speaker 1>up to your ex boyfriend and threaten him right there

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<v Speaker 1>or something. No, I'm like fight or anything. I just

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<v Speaker 1>like I want him to be a little bit jealous

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<v Speaker 1>and show me that he carries about me. Like that

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<v Speaker 1>just comes off as a little crazy to me. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you purposely take him to a bar that you knew

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<v Speaker 1>your ex is gonna be at Oh my god, what

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<v Speaker 1>is this? Like, I honestly don't need to explain any

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<v Speaker 1>of this you. I'm being nice by explaining why I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not calling back a guy that obviously was acting weird

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<v Speaker 1>in the date. I talked to all my girlfriend's. They

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<v Speaker 1>agree it's weird if you're just like, don't even care.

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<v Speaker 1>You know that, like this guy I used a date like,

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't want to leave. He just wanted to stay

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<v Speaker 1>there and keep talking about books. Okay, so you would

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<v Speaker 1>have rather that it weirded him out, and maybe he

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I don't want to be here around your ex,

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go somewhere else exactly. Yeah, but it's like a

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<v Speaker 1>first date and he's not even invested in your guys's relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>Like what does he have to be jealous of? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I slept with the guy that's like five bars fools down,

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<v Speaker 1>I would be jealous. And I'm like, okay, So halfway

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<v Speaker 1>through the night, my ex boyfriend came up and introduced

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<v Speaker 1>himself and like, Matt just like offered to buy him

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<v Speaker 1>a drink. I mean that's over there. So Matt was

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<v Speaker 1>too cool to your ex. You would have rather been like,

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<v Speaker 1>how would okay, in a perfect world, Claire, if you

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<v Speaker 1>were out with a guy and this happened, how would

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<v Speaker 1>you want him to react. I would want him to

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<v Speaker 1>be like cold and like defend me and like not

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<v Speaker 1>to sit there and not cool about it, like he

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't care about me? Like are we friends? Or are

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<v Speaker 1>we like aren't we on the date? I couldn't tell.

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<v Speaker 1>I really couldn't tell, Claire. All right, so you like

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<v Speaker 1>a guy who gets a little jealous, and Matt is

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<v Speaker 1>obviously not that guy. Obviously not that guy. Okay, Hey, Claire,

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<v Speaker 1>I should let you know that Matt is actually on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line listening to this conversation. What. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what I'm supposed to say to you. Is

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<v Speaker 1>it that I'm too nice? I don't understand what it

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<v Speaker 1>is for your information that like if you're out with

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<v Speaker 1>a girl, they want you to be jealous, like if

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<v Speaker 1>some guys start explorting with me, especially if it's my

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<v Speaker 1>ex boyfriend. Honestly, I was just trying to be a

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<v Speaker 1>nice guy and like just play it cool. I figured

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<v Speaker 1>if if I come off means that that would you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you wouldn't find that attractive. I want to try to

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<v Speaker 1>be polite and nice. No, Like, what's attractive is being

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<v Speaker 1>a man in that situation and like, like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>playing it cool. I don't want you to play it cool. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>so what I was supposed to like punch him out

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<v Speaker 1>when he walked up or something, Well, you also to

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<v Speaker 1>buy him a beer. I know that you weren't. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't like you had any kind of look on

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<v Speaker 1>your face like you were mad that he was there.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just figured you guys were, you know, still

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<v Speaker 1>at least friends or clause I'm not. I'm not the

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<v Speaker 1>jealous type I've got. I've got friends in my life

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<v Speaker 1>that that I've dated. It a long time ago. So

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes you remain friends, you remain close. I figured you

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<v Speaker 1>guys were still close. I wanted to be nice. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>course I was playing it cool. That's what I'm supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to do in that situation. Your role like stick up

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<v Speaker 1>for me no matter what. Look I have a day.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I just I'm really confused right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I really do not understand women at all. Yeah, obviously

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<v Speaker 1>you don't understand woman obviously, Claire. That is not how

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<v Speaker 1>all women think. It's how I think, and it's how

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<v Speaker 1>most of my girlfriends think. So like, I have no

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<v Speaker 1>idea what you're talking about. You're gonna end up with

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<v Speaker 1>like some control freak, jealous royd rage dude. If that's

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<v Speaker 1>the type of parameters you're putting on your dates, don't

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<v Speaker 1>judge me about who I want to date. You're the

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<v Speaker 1>one who called me, yeah, Brooke, back off, back off.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sticking up for Claire right now, Claire, Claire, I

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<v Speaker 1>got your back, all right. I'm sticking up for you

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<v Speaker 1>like a good man should do. Wow, finally a real

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<v Speaker 1>man is doing something. There you go, Claren. If you

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<v Speaker 1>and I were out on a date and your ex

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<v Speaker 1>boyfriend was there, he's not getting a beer from me. Good.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, at least somebody understand. Yeah, I'm glad here, Matt.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you even like to go out on a second

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<v Speaker 1>date with Claire? I mean, knowing what I know now,

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely not. She's obviously got some kind of point of

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<v Speaker 1>view of what the roles of men and women are.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, okay, okay, it's nobody want some macho guy.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want a guy that has like balls, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, whatever I'm done with you, that actually probably

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<v Speaker 1>will get you another date. With clarific good job, Matt