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Speaker 1: call a girl named Claire. Apparently Claire is really bad

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Speaker 1: What's up, Matt? How are you? I'm doing great, guys,

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Speaker 1: how are you good? So she actually sent you a

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Speaker 1: really well. She's she's gorgeous. I don't usually do blind dates,

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Speaker 1: So this was a date that was set up by somebody. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: our friends. We have some mutual friends, and they kept

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Speaker 1: the morning, Matt is on the phone with us and

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Speaker 1: Hey Claire, how are you doing? This is Jewel from

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Speaker 1: our listeners recently emailed us about you. Who his name

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Speaker 1: we talked to Matt about your date, when we talked

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Speaker 1: to him about everything after the date, and Matt thinks

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Speaker 1: So the doctor's appointment stuff is all true, and you

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Speaker 1: Let's go somewhere else exactly. Yeah, but it's like a

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Speaker 1: course I was playing it cool. That's what I'm supposed

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Speaker 1: I really do not understand women at all. Yeah, obviously

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Speaker 1: you don't understand woman obviously, Claire. That is not how

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Speaker 1: I'm sticking up for Claire right now, Claire, Claire, I

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Speaker 1: man is doing something. There you go, Claren. If you

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Speaker 1: I mean, at least somebody understand. Yeah, I'm glad here, Matt.

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Speaker 1: Would you even like to go out on a second

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Speaker 1: will get you another date. With clarific good job, Matt