Speaker 1: All right, everybody, welcome to another episode of Horrible Decisions,
Speaker 1: probably my favorite ever because every fucking accident I ever
Speaker 1: do on this goddamn show comes from the same one
Speaker 1: that all we're at. This is wheezy and I'm here
Speaker 1: with my co host. Hey, y'all, this is you girl,
Speaker 1: Mandy be Ak, and we are We are joined by
Speaker 1: what do you have? Any a k as Blake? Um,
Speaker 1: just hollow Brooks, No allow Brooks for me. So we're
Speaker 1: here with Blake and Jazz off one of my favorite
Speaker 1: things ever. You guys can google it, Google hollow brook
Speaker 1: Google Jack and Blake and Jazz Jake. And I'm telling
Speaker 1: you right now, I'm that excited. I feel like we
Speaker 1: can have Beyonce or someone from like that's how excited
Speaker 1: about having your Okay, I'm glad to be. Let's talk
Speaker 1: about quarantine really quick with you guys. As everybody knows
Speaker 1: that me and Mandy have been going through it. I'm
Speaker 1: stuck in the house with my boyfriend. Mandy has been
Speaker 1: mountains and weeks without Dick. What about you, guys, how's
Speaker 1: your quarantine going? The quarantine is cool, it's just um,
Speaker 1: you know, we try to avoid going out as much
Speaker 1: as possible, trying to avoid going on as much as possible,
Speaker 1: and then um, you know, just we've been here together.
Speaker 1: We got a cat recently. When cooking more are you using?
Speaker 1: Are you using more than salt and pepper and the
Speaker 1: new cooking or what I was? I use you as
Speaker 1: the excuse all the time. I'm like, you see, I'm
Speaker 1: not that cute, but I'll put more salt and pepper
Speaker 1: on my food. It's like pretty girls come with a thing,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, that's all they use. Now
Speaker 1: are you Have you guys gotten in a fight yet?
Speaker 1: Your first quarantine fight? Huh? Quarantine fight? Yeah, I think so,
Speaker 1: would say, so? Yeah about what? Well, it's just like
Speaker 1: it wasn't so much a fire was just like her mistake,
Speaker 1: you know, like my turtle almost died. Like and it's
Speaker 1: not funny, but like yo, but like my turtle almost
Speaker 1: died and she almost killed him man, And gosh, you
Speaker 1: know how you almost kill something that's in the house
Speaker 1: with you that you don't think that's the part. That's
Speaker 1: why I kind of got upset, you know, And like
Speaker 1: I've explained to her, like you know, because I've had it.
Speaker 1: I've had it for eighteen years with any water animals,
Speaker 1: so I don't know anything about them, man, And I
Speaker 1: just made it real simple, you know, just pretty much
Speaker 1: their water is like our air if anything goes in there.
Speaker 1: But still, so, so what you're going to do about
Speaker 1: this cat? Man? Do you forget to be other than
Speaker 1: the cat is cool? The cat is cool, and she's
Speaker 1: fine with Yeah, the cat is cool. She just accidentally,
Speaker 1: you know, she puts some soap in there, you know,
Speaker 1: like and she didn't like bush and that she was
Speaker 1: cleaning around it and it got in there. And like,
Speaker 1: my turtle was jack, but I wasn't I wasn't home.
Speaker 1: But when I come home, my totals just trying to
Speaker 1: keep his head about water, like look, what the hell?
Speaker 1: And then when it goes under, his eyes are closer. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was all bad. I think I told this story
Speaker 1: once before in the podcast. So I only had a
Speaker 1: turtle for like three hours. My cousin. My cousin goes
Speaker 1: to pick me up this turtle, I think it was
Speaker 1: like a pet smart And we're in the back of
Speaker 1: the car with the turtle, and I guess he slammed
Speaker 1: on the brake so the water comes out of the cage.
Speaker 1: So he's like, oh my god, no, he's visiting and
Speaker 1: he were in my mom's car. So he grabs a
Speaker 1: bottle of water and pours it into the turtle rake
Speaker 1: and the turtle starts freaking out and it's like going crazy.
Speaker 1: I'm like, what the fund is going on? Well, my
Speaker 1: mom hides vodka and water. Oh the turtle guy sucked
Speaker 1: up like literally, so safe was probably beat at like
Speaker 1: what I had going on. Oh man, Well, we're happy
Speaker 1: to see you guys together. I know this episode is
Speaker 1: it is more about, you know, just Blake and we
Speaker 1: want to talk about interracial dating. But I just want
Speaker 1: to do a few icebreakers with you guys because it
Speaker 1: makes me really happy to just see you guys together
Speaker 1: and smiling and happy. I think that's all great because
Speaker 1: I just feel like TV ruins everybody and it's just
Speaker 1: it's nice to see you guys. Okay, So may do
Speaker 1: you want to start with the first one? I'm not
Speaker 1: you can go ahead, go ahead and ask the questions. So,
Speaker 1: who is the horny is out of the two of you.
Speaker 1: We don't need we don't need the paper. I want
Speaker 1: you guys to just point if if you point at
Speaker 1: yourself and if it's your partner, point at your partner.
Speaker 1: That's easy. I guess. I guess, yeah, me, I guess
Speaker 1: see yeah, I guess with the question, can can you
Speaker 1: guys just say who you guys think um is the
Speaker 1: person for the question? Maybe even at the same time
Speaker 1: if you have to, because so some of the people
Speaker 1: listen to us without okay, so well it looks great
Speaker 1: at you guys pointing each other. I want to be
Speaker 1: sure that everyone listening UM, just you know, audibly, can
Speaker 1: can join in on the game now. So you guys
Speaker 1: both pointed at Jasmine. I didn't see that coming. What
Speaker 1: oh the answer Jasmine? Sure, no, no. But but the
Speaker 1: only reason why I sighed with her because I know
Speaker 1: she was gonna go say no. But the thing is,
Speaker 1: the reason why I pointed to her and she's gonna
Speaker 1: say her is because it's just the times she wants it,
Speaker 1: you know, like I'll be cooking up in the studio
Speaker 1: or doing something and that's when she'll want it, you know.
Speaker 1: But but like we like watching your work, but no,
Speaker 1: but she's not even in here watching me. It's like
Speaker 1: I come out for two seconds and then then you know,
Speaker 1: and it's like I'm in the middle of stuff or
Speaker 1: any time I wanted, like three times, but like I'm
Speaker 1: a night person, so like I'll come at her at
Speaker 1: night and then she's already sleep by midnight. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: then you're going wait wait, wait, wait wait three times,
Speaker 1: don't Like. Have you guys had sex twice a day? Yeah,
Speaker 1: we've done them more of course, like morning and since quarantine,
Speaker 1: since quarantine, I think, so yeah, not like every single day,
Speaker 1: but yeah, this is what we see why you got
Speaker 1: okay one piece. There's no way my man would move
Speaker 1: me anywhere, but I get it now. Yeah, no, I
Speaker 1: don't in the numb. So Jazz Jazz, where are you feel?
Speaker 1: Finl okay? And you've been in America for nine months now,
Speaker 1: I think, so, okay, are you enjoying You're enjoying yourself?
Speaker 1: I am, yeah, okay. So so Mandy Jazz has her
Speaker 1: her sister luckily in the same city, which is which
Speaker 1: is really nice because I know it could feel so
Speaker 1: alienating to like move for somebody and like not have
Speaker 1: anybody around you. I mean, I couldn't imagine like being
Speaker 1: in a new place, I'm not having somebody. Okay, So
Speaker 1: we know you're the horny ist um who has who
Speaker 1: has been the one who has showered the least during
Speaker 1: the quarantine shower least Blake show. I think showers to day,
Speaker 1: and I don't know when you shower a few times
Speaker 1: a week? No, okay, she said a few times she
Speaker 1: is okay, no, because she just likes to be extra.
Speaker 1: She's like, oh, I do mine twics twice a day,
Speaker 1: but like I do mine like late night, and she's
Speaker 1: not down like I'll do I'll go oh, now you're
Speaker 1: saying she doesn't see it, so she just like, no,
Speaker 1: you don't do it, you know, But I know, I
Speaker 1: know sometimes like like usually I would go back to
Speaker 1: like when I was working, like going to work at
Speaker 1: the hotel that I work at, Okay, back to back
Speaker 1: to back of course obviously exees me, but like, yeah,
Speaker 1: dad has gone by. When I've just been at the house,
Speaker 1: She'll be on my case about it, act like it's
Speaker 1: been a whole week or something. I don't you know what.
Speaker 1: Shout out to Jazz, because at least she still wants
Speaker 1: to sleep with you, even though we know your showers
Speaker 1: are suspect. Jazz, I would not blame you if you
Speaker 1: do not want to you know, I need a shower
Speaker 1: twice the day. If I'm eating your grass, well, don't
Speaker 1: kissing me. Well obviously we're doing like, you know, stuff
Speaker 1: with that. Then yeah, have respect for her, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean? You know, so I respect for your Yeah,
Speaker 1: I respect. Get some of that turtle soap? Oh no,
Speaker 1: no more? Okay, out of the two of you, who
Speaker 1: is the kinkiest me? Yeah? Really, what do you mean?
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm but you because before. The reason
Speaker 1: why I say me is because before, when we first met,
Speaker 1: you know, like when we first met, she was kind
Speaker 1: of shy, you know, so I had to open her
Speaker 1: up a little bit about it in here and there
Speaker 1: and then and then that's going to be about because
Speaker 1: at the beginning I was more horny, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. But now that we're here and we're together
Speaker 1: and doing everything, okay, now she's on it and it's
Speaker 1: just like you know, So that's why I'll say I'm
Speaker 1: more kinkies. I can I can see it taken a
Speaker 1: while for a woman to open up, specifically like being
Speaker 1: preaky or too kinky early, um and even showing how
Speaker 1: much she wants sex. So I could see, like, you know,
Speaker 1: it's taking her a little bit to open up to
Speaker 1: showing you her kinky ways. And we know each other
Speaker 1: for kinkier is an American thing? Oh No, I don't
Speaker 1: think it's an American thing. I's just I think it's
Speaker 1: just a personal thing, like being kinky and stuff. It's
Speaker 1: just a personal thing. But it's just, you know, we
Speaker 1: knowing each other for for three years and you know so,
Speaker 1: and she's been out here before, so it's not like
Speaker 1: she hasn't like experienced or seeing like wild stuff out
Speaker 1: here because you didn't come to l A and you'll
Speaker 1: see some stuff, you know what I mean. So, but
Speaker 1: I think as far as her doing it, yeah, no,
Speaker 1: it's not until like now I'm down to Yeah. See,
Speaker 1: I think she got it from me, jev. I'm curious
Speaker 1: to know. I have one last question before you know,
Speaker 1: you go you go back and Blake is hollow Brooks,
Speaker 1: But I'm curious to know have you ever been with
Speaker 1: a black eye before? And when you were in Finland
Speaker 1: where your friends like, oh my god, like it's an
Speaker 1: American black eye or they were like surprised, or how
Speaker 1: did they feel about you dating yeah black guy, don't
Speaker 1: I don't think they care about are you black, are
Speaker 1: you Asian? Are you white? Are you whatever? Like they
Speaker 1: just say him as blake so and they love him.
Speaker 1: It wasn't like thing. They didn't ask, like or say
Speaker 1: anything about it. I mean, we have black people too,
Speaker 1: because but like I feel like the at least here
Speaker 1: right in the States, and I've talked about this a lot.
Speaker 1: I feel like my European friends sometimes are jaded with this.
Speaker 1: But like I feel like in the States, a lot
Speaker 1: of white women are like, oh my god, black eyes
Speaker 1: big blah blah blah, did you did you did your friends? No? No,
Speaker 1: they didn't say that, and we don't know. No, no,
Speaker 1: so they Oh my god, this is normal. I don't
Speaker 1: think about me. But I don't know. It's a question.
Speaker 1: What have you dated a black eye? Now? Really, where'd you?
Speaker 1: Where'd you guys meet? Where? Yeah? I met out here? Yeah,
Speaker 1: but like shut up, yeah, but she was like, but
Speaker 1: this is but this is but this is you know,
Speaker 1: um damn, I don't even know if I could go apart.
Speaker 1: This is like when she was out here visiting, you know,
Speaker 1: vacation with her family, didn't meet exactly what we were
Speaker 1: just talking. Then we didn't see each other we didn't
Speaker 1: physically see each other, so we were still talking and
Speaker 1: then we finally physically seeing each other in Finland. I
Speaker 1: fell out there after talking to her for like, wow,
Speaker 1: it's close to a year. Yeah did it? Did it
Speaker 1: live up to the hype to this thing? She's like,
Speaker 1: why do you think I'm in here? Oh? That is
Speaker 1: so sweet. You guys are so cute. Thanks for coming
Speaker 1: and joining us. Yeah, I appreciate it. Okay, I want
Speaker 1: you to jump in with us on this one. Anymore.
Speaker 1: We're getting into us. Do you guys need anymore? Oh? No,
Speaker 1: we're good to go. Okay, i'llot you guys. Okay, cool, alright, no,
Speaker 1: oh yeah I need it. I'll just move this over here.
Speaker 1: Seas in the closet. I know he is. If you
Speaker 1: want to open up, if you want to open that door,
Speaker 1: you can do it. Sorry, she's gonna she's gonna get
Speaker 1: the cat out there, so don't worry about her. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So put my cat in another room because he likes
Speaker 1: to attack my feet. So when I'm recording, he just
Speaker 1: constantly attacks my ankles. So I'm like, okay, body, you
Speaker 1: have to go in the other room. Can you can
Speaker 1: you imagine if we had jobs like on CNN with
Speaker 1: the cats or the people coming in the middle of
Speaker 1: like a live stream, right all you have an orange
Speaker 1: cat just like he trying to hold the mic. You're
Speaker 1: trying to trying to spit, are trying to spit? Trying
Speaker 1: to spit on the mic? Is I love it? I
Speaker 1: actually really can't say, but that would like seeing him
Speaker 1: now is making me like, yeah, yeah, he's a cool
Speaker 1: eight months now and I'm glad we got him. He's cool. Well,
Speaker 1: you're not a cat lady, Mandy, because if a couple
Speaker 1: got won during quarantine, then it lets you know, we
Speaker 1: need somebody else to break up the energy. I'm comfortable
Speaker 1: with my He's been everything I've needed during this time,
Speaker 1: and I've actually refrained from having anyone in my house
Speaker 1: for like it's just it's just been me and him.
Speaker 1: So we're gonna get into our segment Vanilla Ship, which
Speaker 1: is when we talk about sex in the news. And
Speaker 1: a lot of you guys have been hearing about abortions
Speaker 1: and seeing jokes about planned parenthood being closed and it's
Speaker 1: actually real in some places. So um, the US, you know,
Speaker 1: it mainly remains on lockdown, but there are a few
Speaker 1: places that aren't allowing abortions right now? Um, does anyone
Speaker 1: have a guess? One stage? Just give me a guest
Speaker 1: that aren't that's not having it. Uh, I don't know.
Speaker 1: Maybe Texas, Texas. Maybe, I mean I can't guess because
Speaker 1: I have the article open in front of So the
Speaker 1: states are including Okay, Okay, Alabama, Iowa, Louisiana, Louisiana, Ohio, Oklahoma, Tennessee, Texas.
Speaker 1: They are all attempting to restrict access where that when
Speaker 1: what that means is there are some places that are open,
Speaker 1: but mainly no. Abortions in Texas were actually completely cut
Speaker 1: out and banned as far as last week. UM federal
Speaker 1: appeals in court were ruled on Monday. Where now they're
Speaker 1: letting abortion services UM be done at home, so the
Speaker 1: abortion pill, but most women have been driving to get
Speaker 1: them or trying to do him at home and having
Speaker 1: unsafe abortions. And the Washington Post said it's the most
Speaker 1: extreme shutdown of abortion ever beside ninety rowerses Wade. So,
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I saw a tweet and I was
Speaker 1: making a joke about it. How this girl said playing
Speaker 1: parenthood needs to open up this motherfucker growing. But so
Speaker 1: I would say, we've we've been in quarantine for two months.
Speaker 1: I would say this time, more than any time, is
Speaker 1: the time to be practicing safe sex if who you're
Speaker 1: having sex with you don't want to have a baby
Speaker 1: with specifically, So I mean, of course I've been getting
Speaker 1: all my friends for having casual sex during this time.
Speaker 1: But more than anything, I think it's um our responsibility
Speaker 1: more than anything to take control of our health and
Speaker 1: use condoms. And you know, definitely, you know, probably birth
Speaker 1: control isn't an option right now to get on or start,
Speaker 1: but if the conscious is the thing too though, if
Speaker 1: you think about it, it's access, Like my bodega is closed.
Speaker 1: I live in the Lower east Side. It's a crazy
Speaker 1: busy neighborhood. I mean, we we live in we live
Speaker 1: in the most, We live in the most. You know,
Speaker 1: probably we are in the epicenter. And yes, I did
Speaker 1: have to wait forty minutes to get into Walgreens, but
Speaker 1: I got into Walgreens, so I still think it's yeah,
Speaker 1: forty minutes, So I mean, to me, it's just okay,
Speaker 1: take the precautions, wait till as the line they're they're
Speaker 1: they're around. Targets still open a lot of stores are open.
Speaker 1: Is they're gonna take you longer to get into it? Yes, Um.
Speaker 1: Are they only allowing a certain amount of people in
Speaker 1: at a time, yes, Um. But me being you know,
Speaker 1: talking to my friends and other states, they're not witnessing
Speaker 1: the forty minute wait to get into a grocery store
Speaker 1: or things, um, in other parts of the country like
Speaker 1: we are. So I mean still there's access to condoms
Speaker 1: and so. Like I said, yes, abortion, um, if that
Speaker 1: is the last result. Um, it's unfortunate that some of
Speaker 1: these states are using this at the time, you know,
Speaker 1: to make you know, to get to make it legal
Speaker 1: or illegal, and lawsuits regarding it. Um. But it definitely
Speaker 1: this is a time not to be having um, irresponsible
Speaker 1: and protected sex. I would say for sure too. I
Speaker 1: mean it's just hard right now because like when I
Speaker 1: mentioned access, you know, of course we all want to
Speaker 1: use condoms and stuff like that. I think it's just
Speaker 1: it's hard because it may fall on death ears and unfortunately,
Speaker 1: there's gonna be somebody who sucks and it's gonna be
Speaker 1: midnight and they're gonna be like, well, I mean I'm
Speaker 1: scared to lead a house and I want you guys
Speaker 1: to just really keep in mind that if you are
Speaker 1: in one of those states and you do happen to
Speaker 1: be one of those people, your access is I mean
Speaker 1: even getting STD testing right now. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: It's not safe for us to really go into a
Speaker 1: city m D or an urgent care. Just like, keep
Speaker 1: in mind that order your condoms ahead of time. Dog.
Speaker 1: If we have an ad this week, the promost condoms, Goddamn,
Speaker 1: it'll be the best ad we ever sold, because everything
Speaker 1: is coming to my door. Food is coming to my door,
Speaker 1: Dick comes to my door. Everything is delivered ship. Anyway,
Speaker 1: speaking of Dick, we're gonna get into the Horrid Derve,
Speaker 1: which is our sex tip of the week. So mine
Speaker 1: is erotica. I feel like I've been reading more lately.
Speaker 1: I mean, who isn't because we have all this time.
Speaker 1: But I was doing UM and the Bonus episode with
Speaker 1: Cocktails last week and Kiki said to me, like, what
Speaker 1: would be your sexty tip? And I told her something
Speaker 1: about sending a sexy picture. But I think it'd be
Speaker 1: dope to send a sexy piece of literature and like
Speaker 1: take a picture of the page, tell the person and
Speaker 1: made you think about it. And like I mean, I
Speaker 1: don't know, we just got to a creative I don't
Speaker 1: know what else to do. The niggadents seeing pictures of
Speaker 1: my pussy a million times, so I feel like we're
Speaker 1: running out of ship to do, and I feel like
Speaker 1: erotica would be besides sane. I don't know if I
Speaker 1: know any other erotica, but I guess this is the
Speaker 1: time to google. Um, do you guys know anything else?
Speaker 1: Started saying the soldier. Um, there's someone Jerome Dickens. I
Speaker 1: believe his name is, or Dickinson. Um. Oh god, see.
Speaker 1: I think a lot of the erotica that I used
Speaker 1: to read had a lot of crime in it as well,
Speaker 1: normally drugg killers and love triangles and all of that.
Speaker 1: The best com Dane is Yeah, yeah, I'm even looking
Speaker 1: on my shelf. I don't think I have many sex erotica.
Speaker 1: I guess so something that I did Um yesterday I
Speaker 1: was talking on the phone with I'll call him a friend.
Speaker 1: He was a friend of mine. He's actually the only
Speaker 1: person that I want to have sex with right now
Speaker 1: and even immediately after quarantine. But I'm struggling with with
Speaker 1: wanting to fund him and staying abcinent. Um. But we
Speaker 1: were actually on the phone for damn near an hour
Speaker 1: and after we like just talked about just our lives
Speaker 1: and just a lot of different things. We actually shared. Um.
Speaker 1: I had him share his wildest sex night. Um. And
Speaker 1: so he started it off with him going to dinner
Speaker 1: and the friends involved, and it was pretty intense though.
Speaker 1: Even just listening to him retell the story, I could
Speaker 1: tell it was like triggering. Yeah, it was like him
Speaker 1: reminiscing on on even that night. So it was exciting
Speaker 1: to to even just hear him blush as he was
Speaker 1: telling the story about how it happened. And so that
Speaker 1: was fun just to hear about the jail, Like you
Speaker 1: know what you're talking to in jail and you gotta
Speaker 1: like really describe ship. That's what we're doing, right. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I liked it when you were doing long distance stuff
Speaker 1: with Jazz Blake. What stuff kept it? Like, I mean
Speaker 1: that's technically quarantine, Like what did you guys do to
Speaker 1: keep it spicy? Well, yeah, it's now so you know,
Speaker 1: we we we had the technology we can see each
Speaker 1: other FaceTime, just like we're doing right now, you know. Um.
Speaker 1: But when we you know, first started talking, it wasn't
Speaker 1: like that off the bat, So you know, we did
Speaker 1: talk amongst ourselves like obviously texting, you know, our sexty
Speaker 1: and then um, then they got and then she opened
Speaker 1: up a little bit more than like I've seen stuff
Speaker 1: and you know when we're facetiming or skipping or whatever
Speaker 1: you use. I to this day, I cannot like have
Speaker 1: FaceTime sex. I try, but then I start feeling, yeah,
Speaker 1: if I come first, I'm like, exactly, it is kind
Speaker 1: of weird. It's kind of weird, but like you know,
Speaker 1: because it is after after a while we did it,
Speaker 1: we kind of just like stopped because we were just
Speaker 1: like I'm coming out there anyway, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: So I don't know, I think I think it was
Speaker 1: like we were talking for like close to a year
Speaker 1: before I actually came out there. So the time like
Speaker 1: that I've you know, seen each other on FaceTime or
Speaker 1: actually done stuff on FaceTime like that, I don't know,
Speaker 1: probably like ten times and so fifteen times, because like
Speaker 1: you said, it kind of feels weird. How do you
Speaker 1: guys feel about showing Like okay, like I get a
Speaker 1: sexy picks, right, But I used to say, and this
Speaker 1: was like kind of a line like I would change
Speaker 1: my mind for certain people, but I would always say like, well,
Speaker 1: I don't want to show like my pussy or show
Speaker 1: this much until you see me for the first time naked.
Speaker 1: What do you guys think about that being naked and pictured? Like,
Speaker 1: what do you think would you prefer someone to see
Speaker 1: you naked in person? First? Um? For me? Yeah? Like
Speaker 1: for me yeah, because it's just like I think, well yeah,
Speaker 1: for me, yeah, I think just because it's like, guys,
Speaker 1: I'm sure girls getting a million fucking dick fix, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean? So, like you know what, it
Speaker 1: always the same as like, okay, anybody can photo shop
Speaker 1: it or make it like this, so me personally, like
Speaker 1: I have to see, you know, like, Okay, a photo
Speaker 1: can look cool, photo can look cool, but like I said,
Speaker 1: we're in twenty you can make anything look cool. So
Speaker 1: it's it's just it's just at this point I I
Speaker 1: have to see. So that's why I was I front,
Speaker 1: I almost like photoshop the nude like a few on
Speaker 1: the back. I was like damn because my foopa was
Speaker 1: just pushing through and I was like, fucking he don't know,
Speaker 1: like who would really photo shopping nude, Like who would
Speaker 1: go that bar? So I was like, fucking, I guess
Speaker 1: he wrote, what do you think? Do you? Mandy? Do
Speaker 1: you share? Do you feel like you try to hold
Speaker 1: out the news until you've already seen him first? No,
Speaker 1: I mean news. I mean I've mentioned how like, I
Speaker 1: don't mind talking about sex to somebody, but I'm not
Speaker 1: sending nudes to someone that I haven't really been with
Speaker 1: yet or someone that I don't trust. That's a big
Speaker 1: that's a big thing with me now. I mean, I'm
Speaker 1: I'm a savage though. I mean I will get on
Speaker 1: you know, Snapchat, and I do send things over snap
Speaker 1: but I'm not really sending nudes. I don't even have nudes.
Speaker 1: Like you're gonna get these same pictures that I posted
Speaker 1: on Instagram maybe, I mean, I I do end up
Speaker 1: taking like twenty pictures before I post on Instagram. So
Speaker 1: maybe you can get you could get the you could
Speaker 1: get the one that maybe didn't make it. But it's
Speaker 1: it's in the same You don't be like it's the
Speaker 1: same picture. Now look at my pones. No, yeah, look,
Speaker 1: look my hip is poked out more in the picture
Speaker 1: I sent you. That's not the one I posted like
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know. I'm not really into like
Speaker 1: sending pictures for all for all, um. I mean one
Speaker 1: thing that the guys that that I talked to like
Speaker 1: and they know I don't really send pictures and do that,
Speaker 1: so I'll be like, well, I'm getting in the shower,
Speaker 1: and so what I'll do is I'll call them all
Speaker 1: like snapchat all these like FaceTime them, and I'll get
Speaker 1: on FaceTime when I get out the shower, so you
Speaker 1: get to see me out the shower. That's about it.
Speaker 1: One of my guys got lucky and face time me
Speaker 1: while I was in the shower, so he got yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I answered, so he got he got lucky.
Speaker 1: But I don't even just out you're just like sending
Speaker 1: us and you got to start up here. And then
Speaker 1: he was like no, I mean like even I mean
Speaker 1: even right now, like I can't see you. So like
Speaker 1: the whole sending nudes mind you. I'm on Twitter a lot,
Speaker 1: so nigga see Dickieople having sex and all that crazy
Speaker 1: sh on Twitter all day long. I don't care to
Speaker 1: see a nigga that I can't see. I don't care
Speaker 1: about his dick. I don't know that makes that makes sense.
Speaker 1: You can't knock that because that's that's true. That How
Speaker 1: many times am I gonna say I can't wait to
Speaker 1: see you? Like, yeah, nigga, we don't even know when
Speaker 1: to stay at home. Order gonna be lifted. We got
Speaker 1: another at least three weeks. I'm not going to tease myself.
Speaker 1: I know what you did. Like, I mean, we know
Speaker 1: we're here. Let me let me know. When when I
Speaker 1: saw Wisconsin extended until May, I was like, there's no
Speaker 1: way in New York is getting out of this by
Speaker 1: by the end of there's no way, like we got
Speaker 1: we're gonna be in this motherfucker. Wait where are you?
Speaker 1: Where are you? We're burning out? Oh why did they
Speaker 1: think you? I thought you guys are out here for
Speaker 1: some reason. I mean, but even but even you being
Speaker 1: in in l A. M. I have a ton of
Speaker 1: friends that the niggas who the nigga was right now
Speaker 1: in l a. So I'm like, even when we were talking,
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, you're so like like you're not
Speaker 1: even close enough to where I would be like, okay,
Speaker 1: let me hop in a car and drive to you,
Speaker 1: because that's not an option. But I know that your plane.
Speaker 1: So if them ships going in style, not even even
Speaker 1: the even the private planes they're sending people back. Um
Speaker 1: who wasn't There was a celebrity most recently that thought
Speaker 1: that he could just hop on his private plane and
Speaker 1: go to an island or something, and they sent him back.
Speaker 1: They gassed up when they got there. I was like, sorry,
Speaker 1: specifically Americans, they're not letting us land in different places.
Speaker 1: So keep talking about l A. You said, what what
Speaker 1: about it? So there's do you guys remember like the
Speaker 1: Kim Kardashian jet Smart and people could do this annual
Speaker 1: membership service to be on like a private plane and
Speaker 1: you could ride with other people. Well, now all them
Speaker 1: people are like jumping on them ships to go to
Speaker 1: their summer homes. Mom Tanna Wisconsin. All that ship like
Speaker 1: private planes are being flown now more than ever. They
Speaker 1: talk about like how those airports are completely congested. I
Speaker 1: mean with people like the smaller hubs, way more busy.
Speaker 1: It's like ten times the volume or some shi it.
Speaker 1: So it should be nice for the right. I'm like,
Speaker 1: I don't give a funk about these whole take of
Speaker 1: private planes. I ain't on a private lane. I don't
Speaker 1: give an I'm just assuming your nigga's rich. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: I'm still not going to an airport where I may
Speaker 1: have to share with people, like even though my niggas
Speaker 1: are rich, like being just put on a private plane.
Speaker 1: Like my homegirl works for Floyd Mayweather. He's not flying
Speaker 1: his bitches on a private plane. Like niggas aren't just
Speaker 1: sending pj's to to to send their work to come.
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to be going on fulfill this quarantine fantasy. Okay,
Speaker 1: that is not what you're Niggas ain't sending bitches on
Speaker 1: private Is the guy that you the guy that's out here,
Speaker 1: and if you can meet up with him, would you,
Speaker 1: would you still take the precaution, have the mask on
Speaker 1: and keep your gloves. Well, well, no, that's the thing.
Speaker 1: Like I mean, I've been I've been offered to be
Speaker 1: flown out to other cities, especially like um or guys
Speaker 1: flying too here, Like um, they lifted some ship in Texas,
Speaker 1: so one of my little work down there hit me
Speaker 1: and like, well they lifted shut up so I don't
Speaker 1: have to worry about quarantining when I get back. And
Speaker 1: I was like, no, think I'm good, but not like
Speaker 1: especially because like flying in or flying out of New York.
Speaker 1: You're going through one of these airports, and you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, whether it's JFK, whether it's Lagordia, um
Speaker 1: New Work. I mean, at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: we are in the epicenter where there's the most cases.
Speaker 1: So you're taking the risk going through that, and then
Speaker 1: when you land you gotta hop in ap uber Like
Speaker 1: to me, you're still exposing yourself to hundreds of people
Speaker 1: just by taking a flight exactly exactly. I think it's
Speaker 1: I don't know how much is Dick worth Dick gat workship.
Speaker 1: That's why I'm two months in. I ain't even had
Speaker 1: a local nigga come through, like even if he was
Speaker 1: right down or he or he can't come over. Now,
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. That's what I'm saying. If he
Speaker 1: was here, would you keep the gloves on, the mask
Speaker 1: and everything? I know? I know, well, I mean, I mean,
Speaker 1: I I mean I also just said to like, you know,
Speaker 1: if he was even in driving distance, Um, I mean
Speaker 1: I I had considered driving three hours for Dick when
Speaker 1: all of this started. Yeah, no it's not, but but
Speaker 1: that's what something else are we gonna do during the
Speaker 1: days I'm not even gonna hold you. I was considering
Speaker 1: getting a rental car and going on a road trip
Speaker 1: with body, just so that I could see the country
Speaker 1: side like a bitches bored. And then that's the thing,
Speaker 1: Like for for anyone listening, Um, it's it's even harder
Speaker 1: for like so myself. I don't have roommates, I don't
Speaker 1: have family here. I don't have a nigga that I'm
Speaker 1: can But also I don't have a balcony. I don't
Speaker 1: have a backyard. I mean, should as soon as I
Speaker 1: leave my building, I'm exposed to you know, ten a
Speaker 1: hundred people. Like I told y'all, I waited in line
Speaker 1: forty minutes just to get into Walgreens, which is my
Speaker 1: local wal Greens. So like, I mean, I'm literally staying inside.
Speaker 1: I mean, I get it. At this point, I think
Speaker 1: I really believe it's the grocery stores. If nothing else
Speaker 1: is open and we keep getting exposed, I mean, how
Speaker 1: else could it not be the grocery store? Thing? I
Speaker 1: want to it's the grocery store. I have an impromptu
Speaker 1: thing I want to spring on you guys, so blake
Speaker 1: every episode we do a whole mail but Mandy just
Speaker 1: made me think of it because she mentioned the word roommate.
Speaker 1: So one of my good friends, I'm gonna send this
Speaker 1: clip to him because he called me yesterday for advice.
Speaker 1: Lives with this chick. Not attracted to her, or said
Speaker 1: he really wasn't until until they've been quarantining. He's been
Speaker 1: sleeping with someone else. But they kind of stopped, and
Speaker 1: the girl was basically like, listen, we live in the
Speaker 1: same house. We're quarantining, Like, you're making me really uncomfortable
Speaker 1: even just going out and hugging her and going on
Speaker 1: walks with her. And he's like, I totally understand. I'll
Speaker 1: respect the boundary. So they get high. They're chilling watching TV,
Speaker 1: he says, which they always do, and she says, how
Speaker 1: did you feel about physical intimacy? He said that he
Speaker 1: never thought about having sex with her before, never crossed
Speaker 1: his mind. He's like, suddenly I noticed her ass like
Speaker 1: now I'm starting to like think about it, and he's like,
Speaker 1: and I don't know how long we'll be in this situation.
Speaker 1: She technically is the safest person I can have sex with.
Speaker 1: Should I do it? So I initially said no, until
Speaker 1: he was like, I mean what if we set ground
Speaker 1: rules like we can't do it in a common or
Speaker 1: is there any world that could exist where they could
Speaker 1: have sex, because I'm sure whether they could have sex,
Speaker 1: and then what like like in the way like is
Speaker 1: there a world like a space where it could work?
Speaker 1: What would they have to do? What boundaries do they
Speaker 1: need for it's not I mean you have to see
Speaker 1: her every day if you have your partner's coming over
Speaker 1: or she has her partners coming over and again, where
Speaker 1: you will become awkward or weird. Um. Also if you
Speaker 1: start to really like someone and then the conversation does
Speaker 1: come up that yeah, me and my roommate just once,
Speaker 1: it still becomes awkward. The same way, I don't recommend
Speaker 1: that anyone has sex with their boss or co workers.
Speaker 1: I don't believe you should. I don't believe you should
Speaker 1: ship where you eat or ship where you sleep or
Speaker 1: any of that. Ship. So I don't know. I don't
Speaker 1: think that that's okay. I think that the fact that
Speaker 1: he's even considering it now, no, it's just no, no, no.
Speaker 1: If what do you think if he doesn't see himself
Speaker 1: with being with the with the roommate, he doesn't see
Speaker 1: himself being with her, then no, but if he does
Speaker 1: see him stuff being with her and he really wants
Speaker 1: to try that, and he really wants to risk it, Yeo,
Speaker 1: I think he's going to. So now here's how he
Speaker 1: started to tell me, right, because immediately I'm like hell no, right,
Speaker 1: But then he was like, yo, it's already awkward because
Speaker 1: now she brought it up. He's like, so, I feel
Speaker 1: not awkward. You didn't never But what did he say?
Speaker 1: What did he say? Answer? What would he say? What
Speaker 1: did he say to her? Oh? He told her no.
Speaker 1: He said, I'm cool with like cuddling and stuff like that,
Speaker 1: but like, I just think that's too far, he said
Speaker 1: he and she was like all right, cool, and he
Speaker 1: said she went to bed. He said, but now he's
Speaker 1: been thinking about the ship like crazy, and he's like yo,
Speaker 1: he's like, it's not awkward, which shows that we can
Speaker 1: overcome the ship. And I'm like, bro, no, I mean
Speaker 1: because you haven't done it yet. You don't know the
Speaker 1: awkward trying to get something he never had before. And
Speaker 1: that's a thing like if a woman offers you pussy, Yeah,
Speaker 1: any nigga might start second guessing, like damn, well if
Speaker 1: it's there or why not. But nah, it's not. It's
Speaker 1: not worth it, not when you live with a person. Well,
Speaker 1: speaking of her, she also too like was a Caucasian woman,
Speaker 1: and today's episode, I want to I want to talk
Speaker 1: about interracial relationships a lot, because you know, so I
Speaker 1: really wanted to be honest with you. I've been wanting
Speaker 1: to have a black girl the day's white boys on
Speaker 1: the show because other than me, I feel like I
Speaker 1: meet them once in a blue and it's like, oh,
Speaker 1: I found one. But it's more common that we see
Speaker 1: black men with white women, and I feel like a
Speaker 1: lot of black men get berated online for it. I've
Speaker 1: made my jokes about it. Specifically, of course, athletes to
Speaker 1: end up with white women ship like that. I want
Speaker 1: to know what athletes. I mean. We've had the conversation
Speaker 1: and Blake I was like, I want you to know
Speaker 1: this is a this is a I mean, but it's
Speaker 1: down to the common people. You've said often that you
Speaker 1: kind of look at a black man with a white
Speaker 1: woman in a judging way. And We've had this conversation
Speaker 1: because Blake, my my mom is white and my dad
Speaker 1: is black, and so I you know, I've always been like, well,
Speaker 1: why would you look at it different. Mind you, both
Speaker 1: Wheezy and I are biracial, So I want to let
Speaker 1: you know that, like my mom is white, my dad
Speaker 1: is black, and Wheezy is on the other spectrum where
Speaker 1: her dad is white, her mom is black. And so
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't like the idea that you know,
Speaker 1: you know, there's any sort of weird looks at someone
Speaker 1: for dating someone um that's not their race, um soefically,
Speaker 1: because that's how I was raised. But I mean, but
Speaker 1: but I'm saying from my experience, and that's what I
Speaker 1: don't like. Like the idea that people would you know,
Speaker 1: look at me and my sisters with my white mom
Speaker 1: and ask if you know she was babysitting us or
Speaker 1: knowing that my mom went through um a lot of
Speaker 1: our family disowning us because we were part black. So
Speaker 1: the idea that there's any issue with interracial dating, knowing that,
Speaker 1: I mean, ship we're a melting pot in America. And
Speaker 1: of course, um, jazz Is is not a man American.
Speaker 1: But I'm yeah, I'm curious to talk to you about
Speaker 1: just your experience with interracial dating and and how dating
Speaker 1: a white woman has been with your family. Um, for sure,
Speaker 1: and and bringing her home and also your friends. So
Speaker 1: so I'm interested to hear all all of the questions
Speaker 1: that we have happened. So so that the whole interracial
Speaker 1: dating thing like that's nothing new, you know, that's nothing new,
Speaker 1: um with me. And I'm not saying like, oh yeah,
Speaker 1: that's I on only date Webmon bl blah blah. No,
Speaker 1: it has to do with where I grew up. Um.
Speaker 1: I was born in Inglewood, Um in l A. I
Speaker 1: moved to the valley when I was like eight. Um,
Speaker 1: and I moved to Calabasas. I live literally like right
Speaker 1: behind Calabasas High. Money. But Calabasas Nigga was how about
Speaker 1: the same black I used to be a product straight
Speaker 1: Inglewood to Caliba. Yeah. So I was born in eighty
Speaker 1: nine and you know my parents are doing their thing,
Speaker 1: you know. So, um so I lived out there and
Speaker 1: I I have my older brother. I have two older brothers.
Speaker 1: My oldest brother didn't he went to Inglewood High. But
Speaker 1: the one that's older than me, he lives in New York. Now, um,
Speaker 1: he went to Calabasas High. And I went to Calabasas
Speaker 1: High too. And now yeah there's a there's more black
Speaker 1: people there. But back then, like he graduated in two thousands.
Speaker 1: I graduated in two thousand seven, So even back then,
Speaker 1: like we were there, and I wouldn't I wouldn't say
Speaker 1: it's rare, but like, yeah, we're there, and around us
Speaker 1: is you know, it's white people, and there's other type
Speaker 1: of people there too, but mainly you know, white people
Speaker 1: that are there. And so I think like the first
Speaker 1: time I had like a like a white girlfriend, I
Speaker 1: think it was like middle school, and I guess that's
Speaker 1: like one you can call like real because it was
Speaker 1: more than like a couple of months, but one that
Speaker 1: I actually got serious with and then brought home and
Speaker 1: met my mom and my parents and everything, like I
Speaker 1: was in high school, and you know, they're fine with it.
Speaker 1: It's not like, you know, they had a problem with it.
Speaker 1: Um the ones that I've dated, like their parents who
Speaker 1: never really had a problem with it. I haven't, you know,
Speaker 1: I'm blessed to not have to experience that. But and
Speaker 1: the outside of the world, yeah, I've experienced ship like
Speaker 1: what cops and I Remebrite a book about dumb ship,
Speaker 1: you know, like not dumb ship, like dumb ship that
Speaker 1: has happened to me you know, like for quick example,
Speaker 1: like there was just one chick I was seeing and yeah,
Speaker 1: she's she was white, and I was driving and on
Speaker 1: pch and um, I'm driving back and then I get
Speaker 1: pulled over right before I get into it to paying
Speaker 1: a candy to head back towards you know, Calabassies and
Speaker 1: cop pulls me over and he separates both of us,
Speaker 1: and it starts to ask me questions, and you know,
Speaker 1: he's asking her like if she's okay live, like if
Speaker 1: we're seeing each other, and this and this and that,
Speaker 1: and he's like if I if I she told me that,
Speaker 1: like if she's been held for some reason, if something
Speaker 1: went wrong, And he's asking me like where I'm going,
Speaker 1: Like who she is? How do we know each other?
Speaker 1: Where do I get my car? This and this and that,
Speaker 1: you know, And that's just a mild story, Like I
Speaker 1: have stories, but that's just a mild thing, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. So how about besides as far as
Speaker 1: my parents and I felt of people, like, yeah, we
Speaker 1: get looks, you know, I've got people always gonna look,
Speaker 1: you know, depending on the area that you're in, you know,
Speaker 1: but as far as like parents and the other person's parents,
Speaker 1: like having a problem with me. I haven't really seem
Speaker 1: that experience. Do you do you think that? Like, I
Speaker 1: don't know. I guess because you had experience, have you
Speaker 1: Do you have a type? No, I wouldn't No, I
Speaker 1: wouldn't say I have a type. Yeah, Like I would say,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna like with listening to you though, you know,
Speaker 1: bringing up that you were, you know, in Calabasas and
Speaker 1: so I'm sure you're kind of a product of your environment,
Speaker 1: which is something we like to use a lot for
Speaker 1: people like me. The schools that I went to were
Speaker 1: majority black my almost my entire life, which is probably
Speaker 1: why I've never had, you know, any sort of crush
Speaker 1: or interaction or relationship with a white man because that
Speaker 1: wasn't what I grew up around. I always grew up around,
Speaker 1: you know, black people. That was my that that was
Speaker 1: my environment, that was my family because I didn't even
Speaker 1: hang you know, I didn't even hang around my white
Speaker 1: side that much because, like I said, my mom's family
Speaker 1: didn't really um, you know, partake in our upbringing. So
Speaker 1: to me, I would say, my type or the people
Speaker 1: I date is kind of just a product of my environment.
Speaker 1: Where it makes sense where you don't kind of see
Speaker 1: see it as I'm dating white girls and not black girls.
Speaker 1: I think my question to you is, um, which is
Speaker 1: I think when we sense the issue of interracial dating,
Speaker 1: where a black man goes after a woman is when
Speaker 1: they undermine why they don't like black women. Now, so
Speaker 1: my question to you is, yeah, um, like it's funny. Um,
Speaker 1: before me and Jasmine had you know, before me and
Speaker 1: Jasmine were talking, before we had met, Um, I actually
Speaker 1: was dating one and like for a year and a half,
Speaker 1: you know, and it's not the first time, you know,
Speaker 1: and one of the first times. So I'm trying to
Speaker 1: remember the questions, you know, asking like, oh, how about
Speaker 1: your family and friends and stuff? And they didn't think
Speaker 1: it was weird even though that like they didn't see
Speaker 1: it wasn't it's not asked commin And I'm not sick.
Speaker 1: That's interesting that right before you dated her black woman,
Speaker 1: did you did you have any reaction like from your
Speaker 1: ex where it was like, okay, well you married her,
Speaker 1: but not feelings from the black women you've dated where
Speaker 1: they felt like no, not just from like because like
Speaker 1: I said, it wasn't just it wasn't just one or two. Um,
Speaker 1: but the one like like before, which is the one
Speaker 1: I'm talking about. Um, yeah, she obviously has something to
Speaker 1: say and that doesn't have anything to do with her
Speaker 1: being white or black or whatever, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: That has just to do I guess with the timing
Speaker 1: of things. But you know, things weren't working out between
Speaker 1: me and her and everything's cool, you know, and it's
Speaker 1: not like we're on bad terms. It's just you know,
Speaker 1: like I said, I really don't have a type. I'm
Speaker 1: just more you know people person. Did you did you
Speaker 1: have some um, some feedback from people like you know,
Speaker 1: you you put your relationship on TV, and of course
Speaker 1: I know that could be hard because like you already
Speaker 1: have everybody jumping in and telling you how to run
Speaker 1: your relationship. Did you have people go on there? I
Speaker 1: had read one thing about you that I was like,
Speaker 1: someone was like, oh, of course he he would be
Speaker 1: the one day to white girl. Did you do you
Speaker 1: ever did you here see stuff like that where people
Speaker 1: were like, well, he's the type to day to white girl.
Speaker 1: Did you How did you feel about reading things like
Speaker 1: that about your interracial relationship online? Hold on? Like this
Speaker 1: thing just fell um Like I said, Um, at first,
Speaker 1: you know we got on the show, and when we
Speaker 1: did it, you know, Johnson was a fan, you know,
Speaker 1: a fan of the Soul and you know, and from
Speaker 1: the way that you know, they pitched it to us
Speaker 1: and told us everything and how we were going to
Speaker 1: do it. You know, I didn't mind, you know, I
Speaker 1: didn't mind how you know, being on the show and
Speaker 1: putting it out there and stuff. And now that I
Speaker 1: see that it is and it's a little bit different,
Speaker 1: it's a little bit different from what actually happens. Um.
Speaker 1: So when it comes to people telling me about my
Speaker 1: relationship like number one, like I said, like I've lived
Speaker 1: I was living out in the valley and being around
Speaker 1: that for and dated like different white women and you know, yeah,
Speaker 1: I haven't had anything to encounter, but if somebody did,
Speaker 1: you know, it's not like it really gets me. So
Speaker 1: now it's just people that like actually don't even know me,
Speaker 1: that actually haven't even seen me in her you know,
Speaker 1: judging from edited version of me, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: not like re over. I guess my my question to
Speaker 1: you is now now that you're open to critique, um,
Speaker 1: you know, for being on a TV show and actually
Speaker 1: having just the world give all of their unsolicited opinions
Speaker 1: on your relationship. Do you feel like you're getting more
Speaker 1: slack for being a black man dating a white woman,
Speaker 1: or do you think that she gets more slack for
Speaker 1: being a white woman choosing to date a black man.
Speaker 1: I would say, like shit, I would say, like maybe
Speaker 1: her because okay, because the whole fact that she's from
Speaker 1: over from Finland, she's not from here, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, the whole oh, she's just doing it because
Speaker 1: she's a green card and the fact that it's in
Speaker 1: a racial so it's like really, you know, like when
Speaker 1: they when they talk about that, it's it's always the
Speaker 1: green card too, you know what I mean? You know
Speaker 1: that that kind of gets exhausting with That's why we
Speaker 1: just like tune it out. Let's be real here, Like
Speaker 1: she's a she's a she's a pretty girl. So like
Speaker 1: I feel like y'all is a little different, like when
Speaker 1: we're watching them, like Nigerian instance, Like you know, when
Speaker 1: you're when you have two people that at the same
Speaker 1: age and they're attractive, like you can understand and connect
Speaker 1: with that more. But I hear what you're saying. I
Speaker 1: am curious to know. Like I said, she was a
Speaker 1: fan of it and and and the whole edit and
Speaker 1: how everything came out. Yeah, it's messed up, and we
Speaker 1: we kind of tune it out. I'm not going to
Speaker 1: say that we didn't pay attention to it, like, no,
Speaker 1: we did, like when things came out and it was
Speaker 1: aired and stuff like, we pay attention to you know,
Speaker 1: what people have said and are. But I would try
Speaker 1: to make sure that she because I would go to
Speaker 1: work and do my thing and I'm trying to make
Speaker 1: sure that she's not here just looking at Reddit and
Speaker 1: seeing all that ship because it can be crazy and
Speaker 1: you give me brutal, you know what I mean. But
Speaker 1: I don't think that you guys actually looked too bad.
Speaker 1: The only thing that I that I thought made it
Speaker 1: look bad and then I wanted to ask you about,
Speaker 1: was with with your mom um. So Mandy, there's this
Speaker 1: scene where his mom where you guys coming the island.
Speaker 1: So his mom is making some kind of food I
Speaker 1: don't know what it was or whatever, and she's chopping
Speaker 1: up every onion, every pepper, all of it and she's like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, right jazz. And I'm curious to know,
Speaker 1: like how cultural difference is, you know, for people that
Speaker 1: are listening that are may be interested in dating outside
Speaker 1: of their race and things like that, Like, has that
Speaker 1: been like hard for you? Because for me when I
Speaker 1: date European guys, I always feel like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: this is hard, Like I'm missing something, whether it's a
Speaker 1: relation to hip hop and jazz said she don't really
Speaker 1: like rap like that, Like I said that the whole edit,
Speaker 1: the whole fun man, that whole edit is just it's
Speaker 1: it's jack because when she when she when she's doing
Speaker 1: her thing and she's she's working out, she listens to
Speaker 1: her a little Nicki Minaj and some wrap here and there,
Speaker 1: and she does her think so it's not like, oh,
Speaker 1: I don't like rap. And then when they and then
Speaker 1: like when they say the salt and pepper thing, like
Speaker 1: she was talking about like her workout food that she eats,
Speaker 1: like when it's like a workout meal, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, not like what she eats on a daily basis,
Speaker 1: So it really throws you off, you know. So um, yes,
Speaker 1: and I just need to know did she eat the pickle? People? Fuck? No,
Speaker 1: I don't care if it's spicy, don't because my people know,
Speaker 1: we gotta ask. Blake talking about the spaghetti that she makes. O.
Speaker 1: I'm so glad that you're Haitian. Tell me you have
Speaker 1: had the Haitian spaghetti with the hot dogs and look
Speaker 1: yeah like spaghetti stuff. Hell yeah, of course, of course, yes,
Speaker 1: chopped up. I'm gonna sit with Jazz on this one
Speaker 1: and say, I don't eat she eats. She eats all
Speaker 1: of it. So the cortial difference things like, she hasn't
Speaker 1: really we haven't really had a problem with it. And um,
Speaker 1: as far as food wise, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: it's real easy to eat. Like sometimes it's mainly like me,
Speaker 1: like when we go out and get something to eat,
Speaker 1: you know, she's down for anything. Um as far as
Speaker 1: like um you know, like like he was saying, the
Speaker 1: hip hop thing like music stuff like some thing's like yeah,
Speaker 1: like sometimes I get into my real trap stuff, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean, and she's she's just over it.
Speaker 1: She's over it. But but I mean I think that's
Speaker 1: common though. Like I remember there was a guy that
Speaker 1: came over and he was Dominican. He was mixed, but
Speaker 1: he was mixed with Dominican and he put on its
Speaker 1: own and I was not feeling it. I said, Nigga,
Speaker 1: this is an English speaking household, please like I was
Speaker 1: not here like and and I mean, I'm just not
Speaker 1: interested in I don't think I would feel offended. Or
Speaker 1: if anyone said they didn't want to listen to reggae
Speaker 1: you know, which comes you know, from Jamaica, it seems
Speaker 1: like like, um oh they like there was a part
Speaker 1: you know, it's like, oh jazz it says Jasmine doesn't
Speaker 1: like his music and blah blah blah blah blah, listen
Speaker 1: this and that. Um like I said that, that's that's okay.
Speaker 1: It's like, okay, even if she didn't like she does,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But even if she didn't um.
Speaker 1: As far, it's not just me as an artist as
Speaker 1: far as the production, the stuff that it goes into it,
Speaker 1: like when I'm playing my chords and my beads, like
Speaker 1: she sees all of it and she likes that, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. But when it's the final product
Speaker 1: and people are talking about bitches and holes and pussy
Speaker 1: this and pussy and then she's like, I don't want
Speaker 1: to hear that. So it's like the instrument. If I'm
Speaker 1: being real, I don't know if my boyfriend likes my podcast,
Speaker 1: he loves seeing the shows, he loves seeing what I
Speaker 1: do and the people that we affect, and the touring ship.
Speaker 1: I don't know if he's just gonna pop that ship
Speaker 1: on on the train, if that's really his thing, if
Speaker 1: it wasn't a think that's okay. And exactly, you know,
Speaker 1: and and and and you know, there's gonna be a
Speaker 1: topic that eventually he's gonna listen to, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean? You know it's not even topics here. I
Speaker 1: mean I agree with that, like as a creative I
Speaker 1: mean it just as a human being we have It
Speaker 1: doesn't matter our color, it doesn't matter our ethnicity or race,
Speaker 1: like we like things differently, and even when we're with
Speaker 1: our partners, I think it's important for us to be
Speaker 1: true to who we are. So like, you know, even me,
Speaker 1: like I'm a fan of basketball, nigger, if you end
Speaker 1: up on a team I don't like, I'm sorry, I'm
Speaker 1: not rooting for it yet, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: I mean, just it is what it is. I mean,
Speaker 1: I might root for him and exactly exactly knowing that,
Speaker 1: knowing that, knowing that I'm a fan of say, you know,
Speaker 1: I grew up in Orlando, I'm a Magic fan. If
Speaker 1: they go against the Lakers, which I know I have
Speaker 1: not liked the Lakers four years on end, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: be like, go Magic, but they got home exactly exactly
Speaker 1: as long. It's exactly that. That's what I'm saying, So
Speaker 1: she don't she don't like to have to point from
Speaker 1: that to those is like just knowing that not every
Speaker 1: couple has to blend their interests so much. And I
Speaker 1: feel like that happens a lot when someone's like, oh,
Speaker 1: like we don't like the same stuff, and da da da,
Speaker 1: Like I really do believe that opposites can attract, and
Speaker 1: I believe that you can show some interest and the
Speaker 1: things that your partner loves, But I really have never
Speaker 1: found it necessary. Like, you know, it's something I really
Speaker 1: liked about you guys that I mentioned to a friend
Speaker 1: of mine who doesn't drink is so Blake drinks and
Speaker 1: Jazz doesn't, And it came up a few times in
Speaker 1: the show, and I'm like, I don't think that ship
Speaker 1: is that wild, Like like, if I like to party,
Speaker 1: don't get me wrong, it would be a cool if
Speaker 1: your party with me, but I don't need you for it, Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I drink and a lot of my niggas don't drink them,
Speaker 1: so they'd even let me. And I wasn't able to
Speaker 1: even say that, like I smoke more, you know, And
Speaker 1: it's not like I have a problem with me. If
Speaker 1: I had a problem, then she she could not like
Speaker 1: me doing it. But it's not like that much of
Speaker 1: a problem. You know. It's only special occasions. And I'm
Speaker 1: drinking her birthday to drink like she was like the
Speaker 1: other not too long ago. Last month we were out
Speaker 1: of this quarantine, she was drinking king straight, so you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. Yes, that's what I said, but
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, and it's and that's what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So yeah, this thing is in there. But
Speaker 1: at the same time, yeah, we don't. We don't. She
Speaker 1: doesn't like you know, she said, she doesn't like putting
Speaker 1: poison in her body. So for her, like it's more strict,
Speaker 1: But for me, it's just you know, special occasions, things
Speaker 1: with clients that I'm making productions for. We celebrate and
Speaker 1: that's it. I'm not blacking out, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying I haven't you know, I've done my
Speaker 1: things in college or whatever. I have party. It's it's
Speaker 1: four o'clock. I don't had two vodka, Solda's already well.
Speaker 1: Speaking of blacking out, my last question would be how
Speaker 1: do you make sure in an in a relation relationship,
Speaker 1: because I think that we all have are owe that
Speaker 1: due diligence and not just being with someone white, but
Speaker 1: like even Latino or whatever. How do you make sure
Speaker 1: that you're and what steps do you take to teach
Speaker 1: jazz about your culture? Like I think it's important that
Speaker 1: when I'm dating a white guy or like, you know,
Speaker 1: making sure that they know how important being pro black
Speaker 1: is to me. And yeah, I'm just curious, like what
Speaker 1: things you've had to maybe teach her since you've moved
Speaker 1: here or do you feel like it was important to
Speaker 1: talk about Like I had to show a dude Chakazoolu once. OK.
Speaker 1: No I um um um? So what what what I
Speaker 1: what I try to do? Yeah, Like I tell her
Speaker 1: things from like my experience, and what really helps is
Speaker 1: like movies and or documentaries about certain things you know,
Speaker 1: and um that I think right there is one way
Speaker 1: of you know, showing her you know, um, because my
Speaker 1: my brother lives like on Florence and Normandy and I
Speaker 1: used to live with my brother, and those are like
Speaker 1: historical streets, like yeah, that's like historical streets, like whether
Speaker 1: riot's like I don't know if you remember whether that
Speaker 1: I damn, I forgot his name. I'm blinking out on it.
Speaker 1: But when the riots were going on and that guy
Speaker 1: it wasn't like in a big eighteen wheeler and they
Speaker 1: grabbed him out of the car and just like hit
Speaker 1: him with a brick like that was right there like
Speaker 1: those streets anyway, So I tell her about it, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. And the way I told her
Speaker 1: about it was just like like a video clip that
Speaker 1: I was watching, like they had a documentary on it,
Speaker 1: and um, so it's just here and there, you know,
Speaker 1: like little by little. I'm trying not to put too
Speaker 1: much to where it's like it could be overwhelming or
Speaker 1: you know, forgetful, but um you know, I think what
Speaker 1: really helps is just like movies and documunities and you know,
Speaker 1: telling her experiences that I've had, you know, like the
Speaker 1: story I told you guys about me pulled over, like
Speaker 1: I told her that, you know, I told there are
Speaker 1: plenty stories that I've happened with me and the cops.
Speaker 1: And because of things that I've happened. So you know,
Speaker 1: I tried to touch on every subject. You know, we're
Speaker 1: white people are Yeah, well, I was gonna say, I
Speaker 1: think that's very important because even when I went to London, UM,
Speaker 1: I was even around black men there, they don't understand
Speaker 1: the plight of or the lation between black African Americans
Speaker 1: here and the police. So knowing that she's coming from
Speaker 1: feeling where, you know, the engagement between cops and black
Speaker 1: men may not necessarily be as extreme as it is here,
Speaker 1: I think that that's definitely important to share and to
Speaker 1: talk about, um, just so that she can gather more
Speaker 1: of what your experience is like, you know, being here
Speaker 1: and even being out with her and people view you um,
Speaker 1: because of course I don't think she views you that way,
Speaker 1: but I think it's important for her to know, you know,
Speaker 1: kind of your struggle as a black man. And I
Speaker 1: do let her. I I let her know, you know,
Speaker 1: as much as I can. And you know, there's like
Speaker 1: little things like depending on which area will be in,
Speaker 1: I could be driving and I'll have my hat on
Speaker 1: and I'll take it off and like show wonder why,
Speaker 1: and then I'll tell her why, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: because like that's the kind of shift they look for,
Speaker 1: you know, it's straight up like even though like everything,
Speaker 1: I don't have nothing on me, even though I'm fine,
Speaker 1: it's just I just do it just because I don't
Speaker 1: want to. I don't don't want that problem because it's
Speaker 1: happened before, thankfully, you know, I know, dumb ship like
Speaker 1: that has happened in a long time, but it has
Speaker 1: happened before. And it's not like I'm gonna, you know,
Speaker 1: be lightly on it. You know, so if if I
Speaker 1: could take their precautions, I can take the precautions, and so,
Speaker 1: you know, because it's having multiple time until where she
Speaker 1: was just like yeo, why do you keep doing that?
Speaker 1: And then so I tell her why, you know. So, well,
Speaker 1: at least you dated a blackbouf before Blake, because I
Speaker 1: was I wasn't sure when you started with Calabasas. I
Speaker 1: was like no, no, no, and and and and you know,
Speaker 1: and the ones that I've dated they weren't from around
Speaker 1: that area, like one it was, one wasn't, the other
Speaker 1: one wasn't and no, no, the other one wasn't yet.
Speaker 1: So but I mean, at least you had a mixed
Speaker 1: bag bag though I think like there are sometimes like
Speaker 1: serial daters, and that's when stuff gets weird, right when
Speaker 1: it's like the whole fetishizing thing. But I mean when
Speaker 1: people date for people, that's the beautiful thing. I think
Speaker 1: I'm one of those people. Yea. And even though right
Speaker 1: now my boyfriend's black, I'm going through this phase where
Speaker 1: like I look at like a bunch of white guys
Speaker 1: on the street and I'm like, oh, I feel good.
Speaker 1: That's that's that's just like that's just being like people
Speaker 1: person and it's cool because like it's not like I
Speaker 1: forget where I come from, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: It's just like people like that I've met me from
Speaker 1: being over there. They think that that I only only
Speaker 1: from the valley. It's like, No, I was born in Inglewood,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And it's not like I
Speaker 1: left Inglewood when I was like three, Like I left
Speaker 1: when I was at an old enough age to see
Speaker 1: the differences of where I'm going where I'm living now,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, living there. How the difference
Speaker 1: was when I was living in l A As opposed
Speaker 1: to living in the valley, because I was still going
Speaker 1: back and forth and being with my mom and going
Speaker 1: back to her because she's um. She does she owns
Speaker 1: a hair salon, so like sometimes I'll go with her
Speaker 1: to work from how Baster's to l A, you know.
Speaker 1: So I'm still seeing the differences between the two. So
Speaker 1: I just feel real blessed to you know, be on
Speaker 1: that side. So as far as me being a people person, yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't think there's like this one strict type you know. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's dope. Well, I'm I'm glad we talked about it.
Speaker 1: We're gonna get into our last segment, which is our
Speaker 1: whole male. I don't know if you guys could give
Speaker 1: advice on this. I feel of like maybe not for
Speaker 1: you and jazz, but whatever. So this says, hey, ladies,
Speaker 1: you'll hear it. I'm just gonna jump right into it.
Speaker 1: This may not may or may not be a long one.
Speaker 1: But my husband really wants to have a threesome, like
Speaker 1: really bad. I'm not scared because I do like girls,
Speaker 1: and I've had three sums before, but that was before
Speaker 1: mine and his relationship. We have two kids together, and
Speaker 1: since having them, I'm extremely self conscious about him about
Speaker 1: my body. It took me forever to get used to
Speaker 1: him seeing my body after kids, so I'm nervous about
Speaker 1: getting someone else to go down on me. My husband
Speaker 1: loves to do what he says, I smell good, tastes good,
Speaker 1: all of that, but I still feel a way, and
Speaker 1: he says he knows it's because of how self conscious
Speaker 1: I am. I don't want to do it with someone
Speaker 1: I don't know for that reason, and I'm scared of
Speaker 1: a stranger because of STDs. And if I ever build
Speaker 1: up the courage, how do I start? I love the podcast,
Speaker 1: keep up the work sign. Finally confident, but not that confident.
Speaker 1: First off, i'd have told y'all holes, I'm feting recent questions.
Speaker 1: Good God, damn, I'm fucking fed. Jesus Christ. We're in quarantine.
Speaker 1: So you can't have a threesome no time soon anyways. Um,
Speaker 1: she did say she was subconscious about That's really what
Speaker 1: made me want to bring it up though, because I
Speaker 1: feel like for another woman, I feel like women are
Speaker 1: so much easier to have sex with than men and
Speaker 1: be comfortable about. Just personally speaking, I actually, I mean,
Speaker 1: I actually think differently. I remember one of the threesomes
Speaker 1: that I had with a partner. Um, me and me
Speaker 1: and him knew each other, and he and her knew
Speaker 1: each other. Um. And one of the first things that
Speaker 1: she actually told me was the reason she enjoyed the
Speaker 1: threesome and even had the threesoms because we were the
Speaker 1: same size. She said, had I been any smaller, there
Speaker 1: would have been an insecurity there for her. So I
Speaker 1: think also the insecurity of a woman having a better
Speaker 1: body than you, being with another woman necessarily doesn't bring
Speaker 1: more comfort because now you're comparing your breast to her breast,
Speaker 1: her vaginay, your vagina. I actually think there's more pressure, um,
Speaker 1: with bringing another woman into the bedroom if you're already
Speaker 1: insecure with yourself specifically, because now if your partner shows
Speaker 1: her any more attention, that insecurity is gonna go into
Speaker 1: your head about does he like something on her more
Speaker 1: than me? I think, um, the idea of bringing another
Speaker 1: partner into the bedroom, specifically another woman, when you're insecure
Speaker 1: with how you look, is something that you you have
Speaker 1: to get comfortable with yourself way before you think bringing
Speaker 1: in another woman is going to change the comfortability that
Speaker 1: you have with your body. Um. And unfortunately, even the
Speaker 1: only way and this is gonna be super shitty to say,
Speaker 1: but the only way for her to have a threesome
Speaker 1: where she does feel comfortable is to have a threesome
Speaker 1: with someone that she thinks she looks better than that,
Speaker 1: So maybe someone with a worse body or someone that
Speaker 1: isn't as cute as her, So then she feels better
Speaker 1: about her fucking self. But then, as the guy gonna
Speaker 1: enjoy that, I was gonna say the reason that it
Speaker 1: only makes me feel better with women is because, for example,
Speaker 1: like I feel like even as a teenager right locker
Speaker 1: rooms things like that I've generally been gone to college
Speaker 1: is I've generally been more comfortable naked in front of
Speaker 1: women than men, right, Just thinking of like historically speaking
Speaker 1: the competitive aspect though that Mandy's talking about, obviously that
Speaker 1: happens right to me in my head. I think what
Speaker 1: you have to always remember and having a threesome, especially
Speaker 1: with someone that you haven't had a long relationship with,
Speaker 1: is everyone that's new to them. New pussy has always
Speaker 1: be an exciting thing. So it's not like she's that
Speaker 1: much better than you, it's just new. So I think,
Speaker 1: just keeping in mind that, like I think, for the
Speaker 1: most part, women are better about each other. Like I've
Speaker 1: seen men treat women worse than women treating women. Women
Speaker 1: are still shitty to women sometimes, but as far as
Speaker 1: talking on the internet. You know, there's something I read
Speaker 1: recently where it said, when men don't like a woman's body,
Speaker 1: all they do is talk about it. When women don't
Speaker 1: like the way a man looks, they're just like, okay,
Speaker 1: and they pass it on. But men are constantly talking
Speaker 1: about women's bodies, and I think that that might be
Speaker 1: a part of the thing that's in her head too.
Speaker 1: This is gonna sound fucked up. Many said sleep with
Speaker 1: someone that you're is not as cute as you. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna be RealD with you. I think that you need
Speaker 1: to just work to wherever you feel like will be
Speaker 1: some progress for you. Then go fuck Like I'm gonna
Speaker 1: be totally honest here. Like a few months ago, when
Speaker 1: my I T man was sucked up, some of you
Speaker 1: guys remember this. I hated being naked, I hated putting
Speaker 1: on a bath in the suit, and I had to
Speaker 1: get to this point where I started to feel better again.
Speaker 1: If you're not working on it actively, even if you
Speaker 1: lose five pounds, you're gonna feel better. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like, you gotta do something that is making
Speaker 1: you feel like you're making change to your body. And
Speaker 1: if you are, because if that's the reason you don't
Speaker 1: like your body, not saying that you shouldn't love it
Speaker 1: the way it is, but if you want to be
Speaker 1: a different size girl, quarantine a perfect time, become a
Speaker 1: diet expert. Download noon track that ship, and the second
Speaker 1: that you out this motherfucker, get on the apps, put
Speaker 1: on a little whatever, a little teddy if you need
Speaker 1: to cut with the fop by the time y'all meet
Speaker 1: the chick. Anyway, you're gonna lose it. I'm telling you.
Speaker 1: Just give it a goal. Don't be that scared. If
Speaker 1: you're not scared to eat pussy, you should not be
Speaker 1: scared about your stomach. Like, seriously, I feel like that
Speaker 1: is the biggest hump to get over. And she mentioned
Speaker 1: nothing about being jealous about him and another woman. That's
Speaker 1: like step one for every girl in a threesome. They're
Speaker 1: always talking about the other woman. You didn't even say that,
Speaker 1: So that's a great sign. So you're worries are probably
Speaker 1: the best of them because the fat will go away,
Speaker 1: but like the jealousy won't. But just have that ship
Speaker 1: forever and ever and ever, and it's always a problem.
Speaker 1: You're in a good place. That makes sense. What do
Speaker 1: you think, man, So I don't know if she's feeling uncomfortable,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean with herself, I would just said,
Speaker 1: like you said, um, it's something that can go away,
Speaker 1: like she's in the right place. Like you said, i'd
Speaker 1: even until you brought it out. That makes perfect sense,
Speaker 1: because I was just gonna say, you know, as as
Speaker 1: long as she gets to the points of where she
Speaker 1: feels comfortable, then yeah, you know, then I would say,
Speaker 1: go for it. But at the same time, but Mandy
Speaker 1: said I wouldn't. I would say, like, get someone that
Speaker 1: gonna look as good as you, but like, don't make
Speaker 1: it obvious. Fix someone that's obviously way different. You know,
Speaker 1: then you're gonna know. Then he's gonna know. But yeah,
Speaker 1: he's gonna knowing, he's gonna know. Like, but she also
Speaker 1: wanted to be a thing for the both of you.
Speaker 1: But I mean I haven't kid, Like I'm trying to see,
Speaker 1: I'm trying to put my Yeah, myself, I can't and
Speaker 1: I've never even had it three some either. I mean,
Speaker 1: that's what she's saying, changed her body. I'm assuming, but girl,
Speaker 1: look they look at your pussy, not not the stretch marks.
Speaker 1: At the end of the day, I'm being real with you,
Speaker 1: but I still think that you've You've just got to
Speaker 1: work on your body because I don't think I don't
Speaker 1: think women can get over that. I don't think there's
Speaker 1: any encouraging words that we can give someone until they
Speaker 1: feel like they're making steps to where they want to look.
Speaker 1: You know, I have friends that are that are big girls,
Speaker 1: that don't give a funk about losing weight, so they
Speaker 1: don't talk about ship like this. But if it's in
Speaker 1: your mind that you're not perfect the way you are,
Speaker 1: do what you gotta do to get some new pussy. Girl.
Speaker 1: All right, Blake, I'm so glad we had you on.
Speaker 1: I want you to drop. I'm sorry I didn't call
Speaker 1: you all over some time that I've watched you for
Speaker 1: a month and a half calling you, Blake, So drop
Speaker 1: all that you need to drop. Tell people where to
Speaker 1: find you. We want to hear all of it. What
Speaker 1: are you working on YouTube channel? You can find our
Speaker 1: YouTube channel, um Blake and Jasmine Reality Reels. Um. I
Speaker 1: got about twelve videos up there, and you know we
Speaker 1: did um. We uploaded alive that she did the other
Speaker 1: day and people were asking a question, so you can
Speaker 1: check that out. You see, if we got our cat.
Speaker 1: You know, I was doing just like daily stuff now
Speaker 1: that we're in this quarantine thing, so it's kind of
Speaker 1: like quarantine edition right now. Um right, and UM, so
Speaker 1: you can find me at Hollow Brooks. Um. You know Jasmine,
Speaker 1: she's on um at Jasmine O'Neil. Um. What else we
Speaker 1: got go on? So Product Records is the label that
Speaker 1: I started with. My boy can find us s U
Speaker 1: p r A T t A Records. Um. And yeah,
Speaker 1: we've just been cooking up making some stuff and I'm
Speaker 1: probably gonna eat right now and start to get into it. Mhmm,
Speaker 1: thank you. We're gonna post those. Yeah, and before we
Speaker 1: get out here. I guess, um when when Jazz was on,
Speaker 1: I didn't want to start the episode intense by by
Speaker 1: any you know, because this is my first time um,
Speaker 1: I guess meeting even though it's you know, um and
Speaker 1: Jazz Jazz was Jazz joined us in the beginning, so
Speaker 1: I didn't want to start that episode, um, you know,
Speaker 1: too wild. But I did want to, um sit here
Speaker 1: and say just because I think it's our responsibility with
Speaker 1: this platform to voice what have been going on. UM.
Speaker 1: If you guys aren't UM up to with everything that's
Speaker 1: been going on, one of our past guests on our
Speaker 1: episode UM have pretty much you know. It's it's come
Speaker 1: to to the light that he has been acting in
Speaker 1: a predatory way to not only some of our fellow friends,
Speaker 1: but so many other women. UM. And I just want
Speaker 1: to sit here and say that I am not in
Speaker 1: any way supporting anyone who is a predator of anyone. UM,
Speaker 1: whether he's a rapist, whether he coerced women, whether he
Speaker 1: abused his power UM as a means to gain access
Speaker 1: of a to a woman's body. UM, it's really you know,
Speaker 1: it's really unfortunate. UM. I was on the phone a
Speaker 1: lot yesterday with a lot of people involved, and I
Speaker 1: feel like I have lost someone as an acquaintance. UM.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say a full blown friend, because reading the stories,
Speaker 1: I one percent believe every woman just because I have
Speaker 1: my own experience with this person. UM. And although I
Speaker 1: did not publicly come out, I have confided in UM
Speaker 1: people who are victims of his actions. And so again
Speaker 1: I know we've had this person as a guest on
Speaker 1: her show. We partied with this person, we have photos
Speaker 1: with this individual. UM. I just wanted to be responsible
Speaker 1: and use our platform to let everyone know that it
Speaker 1: is your responsibility to also hold the people in your
Speaker 1: immediate circles accountable for their actions. So, ladies and gentlemen,
Speaker 1: if you know that any of your friends are out
Speaker 1: here UM doing things that are inappropriate, more so specifically
Speaker 1: putting women in harm or making women feel uncomfortable, I
Speaker 1: definitely think that it is your job as a friend,
Speaker 1: as a brother, as a sister, as a cousin UM
Speaker 1: to hold those people accountable for their actions. So, so
Speaker 1: again I want to let you know that, speaking for myself,
Speaker 1: I am no longer UM friends or in association with
Speaker 1: that individual UM. But also for everyone who has been
Speaker 1: on the receiving end of that person's actions or anyone
Speaker 1: UM over time in your life where you felt uncomfortable
Speaker 1: with a man, I appreciate you guys sticking up and
Speaker 1: and like I said, so this my my what happened
Speaker 1: in my instance with him. I checked him for it, UM,
Speaker 1: and I told him like damn, I thought we were
Speaker 1: better than that, or it was to where I felt
Speaker 1: uncomfortable and checked him for it, um, But in no
Speaker 1: point in time did it crossed my mind that damn,
Speaker 1: he's probably doing this to other people or damn, you know,
Speaker 1: it just never crossed my mind. So just knowing that
Speaker 1: if you come into an uncomfortable um place with someone,
Speaker 1: even if you checked them, even if you tell them
Speaker 1: they're wrong, just to kind of maybe remove yourself, but
Speaker 1: also to let other people know that this is happening
Speaker 1: is important because although I checked him, I didn't think
Speaker 1: that people around me would have been affected by his
Speaker 1: actions in the same manner. Um. And so yeah, I
Speaker 1: just wanted to make sure I got that out. Again,
Speaker 1: I'm glad you did. I mean, I don't I can't
Speaker 1: share your sentiments about that happening to me, but I'm
Speaker 1: really glad you shared that. I'm grateful for it. I
Speaker 1: think that, um, what we read is very important because
Speaker 1: a year ago, UM, I don't know if you're remember Blake,
Speaker 1: when a ziz Ansari had a situation where a girl
Speaker 1: was in his home and he was forceful. Um, it
Speaker 1: was very easy for everybody to jump down his throat
Speaker 1: because he wasn't someone that was a part of our community,
Speaker 1: and I was very hurt to see men being defensive
Speaker 1: of this person and women, um, mainly because no, me
Speaker 1: walking into your apartment doesn't mean my body and I
Speaker 1: appreciate um, you know, just everybody that is UM an
Speaker 1: allegiance together with those women and people that know they
Speaker 1: may have something to lose by going against him by
Speaker 1: saying that, because I mean, it's gross and UM, I
Speaker 1: still say to this day and if you refer back
Speaker 1: to the episode when I remember the day, I think
Speaker 1: that these women being in spaces with men don't mean
Speaker 1: that they owe anything UM to anyone. And we are
Speaker 1: always and constantly trained to almost face backlash. And it's
Speaker 1: the ones to blame just because men treat us like shit. Right,
Speaker 1: It's like, well, I don't want to give any teuse
Speaker 1: to it. Just please let me sit in my thoughts.
Speaker 1: I'm speaking for myself. Women do not deserve blame for
Speaker 1: being in a space. If a dude is acting wild
Speaker 1: and violating you and touching you when they don't need
Speaker 1: to be touching you, just because you are somewhere doesn't
Speaker 1: mean you deserve it. And UM, I just want to
Speaker 1: thank everybody for for yeah, for for being able to
Speaker 1: talk about it, you know, including humanity especially that is
Speaker 1: somebody that's a public figure, because people never expect public
Speaker 1: figures to talk out about things. So I think it's
Speaker 1: great that we are talking about it. Um, I don't
Speaker 1: know if you even have an idea. No, I'm not
Speaker 1: sure if you know me. I'm not talking. I don't
Speaker 1: know the person that Mandy is talking about. But obviously
Speaker 1: I know you know the subject of what you guys
Speaker 1: are talking about. UM. But I think I think it's
Speaker 1: sucked up too, because like sometimes when when when people
Speaker 1: do speak about it or bring it up, you know,
Speaker 1: there's people that like deny it without knowing that person
Speaker 1: or knowing anything. You know, there's one person that like that, Like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, I think it's a few days ago
Speaker 1: some person brought it out another about another public figure,
Speaker 1: and uh, I guess she brought it out like through
Speaker 1: a TikTok video or something like that, and people were
Speaker 1: just like, oh, well she brought it out like this way.
Speaker 1: That's like right there, I'm not even going to pay
Speaker 1: attention to it, Like you lost me at that and
Speaker 1: it's just like all right, well, they never even looked
Speaker 1: into it or to you know, see any further or
Speaker 1: see who this person is too before they even wrote
Speaker 1: that and set that about this person. But turns to
Speaker 1: find it comes to find out like people on Reddit
Speaker 1: as talking about this person. There's like multiple girls talking
Speaker 1: about this same guy. So it's like and and and
Speaker 1: that's I mean, sh it just happened, and it's sucked up,
Speaker 1: because like it's sucked up. Was at first that that
Speaker 1: initial comments like oh yeah, I'm not even gonna pay
Speaker 1: attention because you put it out this way. It doesn't
Speaker 1: matter how the person put it out. The person put
Speaker 1: it out, you know what I mean, It doesn't it
Speaker 1: doesn't matter. I was conflicted actually just now with um.
Speaker 1: You know, I saw someone saying that they knew this
Speaker 1: thing for a while and they were waiting for someone
Speaker 1: to expose him. And people were like, you just say
Speaker 1: his name and I'll be honest. I was just thinking
Speaker 1: about saying until I realized we get slander. Um. Oh yeah, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: there's a reason why I didn't say his name. I
Speaker 1: went on Live also earlier to talk about it, and
Speaker 1: they're like, well, why won't you just say his name?
Speaker 1: And I'm like, well, his name is all in the comments.
Speaker 1: I'm saying, everyone is writing his name in the comments
Speaker 1: you could see the name right there. There's no need
Speaker 1: for the name to come UM straight out of my mouth.
Speaker 1: But yeah, like I said, UM, it was you know,
Speaker 1: to to a to a place where you know, I'm
Speaker 1: still getting stories sent to my d M for women
Speaker 1: UM that have again been on the receiving end of
Speaker 1: his actions. And I also have friends who have been
Speaker 1: intimate with him by choice and us having those conversations
Speaker 1: to where even though they made the choice to be
Speaker 1: intimate with him, there are still other things that he
Speaker 1: did aggressively. And so I mean, like I said, I
Speaker 1: just wanted to speak out about I just wanted to
Speaker 1: speak out about that, UM. And I know you know,
Speaker 1: many people maybe you know, hold us definitely to a
Speaker 1: higher standard and bringing these conversations to light. So I
Speaker 1: just want everyone to know that, UM, that person has
Speaker 1: been unfollowed by me. Again, I am speaking for myself,
Speaker 1: UM that I am no longer associating with that individual.
Speaker 1: But also UM, to all the women who have reached
Speaker 1: out to me two people I've had private conversations with. UM,
Speaker 1: just just know that this has been definitely a matter
Speaker 1: taken serious and a lot of his friends now are
Speaker 1: are are definitely holding him accountable. And it's just it's
Speaker 1: a really rough situation the same way you know, y'all know,
Speaker 1: I don't like Nicki Minaj, but her brother was, you know,
Speaker 1: out here being accused of something that she wanted to
Speaker 1: look past because that was her brother. And a lot
Speaker 1: of these people are finding the difficulty in holding this
Speaker 1: man accountable for his actions because their friends. Um, this
Speaker 1: man is still someone's son, someone's brother, someone's best friend,
Speaker 1: someone's lying brother. Um. And so just know that it
Speaker 1: does become difficult when it's the people closest to you
Speaker 1: being accused with something so heinous. Um. But yeah, I know,
Speaker 1: I know. Protecting black men is important to us, and
Speaker 1: in protecting black women, the most disrespected in America is
Speaker 1: also what I'm in a business for all day, every day.
Speaker 1: And I know it's hard because you know, we we
Speaker 1: have to make that choice, but it is what it is.
Speaker 1: We need to call people when their wrongs. But on
Speaker 1: a lighter note, um, Blake and Jazz, if you want
Speaker 1: to have some fun on Sanco de Mayo, drum roll
Speaker 1: man and you're gonna go on her Patreon again live.
Speaker 1: So last time we did it, you guys, we had
Speaker 1: a hundred people because it capped at a hundred, and
Speaker 1: we basically went on there and we did our whole
Speaker 1: episode live on the feed and it was fun as fuck.
Speaker 1: Someone showed a titty at the end. I miss it,
Speaker 1: but we have. We have lifted our zoom cap as
Speaker 1: much as we can for right now. So it's two
Speaker 1: fifty and I'm hoping we can manage that. But I
Speaker 1: am really looking forward to meeting some more of you guys.
Speaker 1: I only picked Sinco de Mayo because I'm a lover
Speaker 1: of tequila and maybe you'll drink because what did you say,
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Speaker 1: you're gonna enjoy a five minute clip of our last
Speaker 1: Patreon episode and we will see you tomorrow. Nate say
Speaker 1: go to mi ow by by bitch bitch. I ain't
Speaker 1: even gonna bleat that out. That's owing ship though. That's
Speaker 1: the kind of stuff you're gonna so you're just letting
Speaker 1: them know that he ain't using animals out here, You
Speaker 1: ain't ship. He need to clean the booty before that's
Speaker 1: the booty play going on. Whoa okay, guys, it's buddy's bitch.
Speaker 1: I am Medina Monroe and I am a nasty bitch.
Speaker 1: There you go, there you go. So we are going
Speaker 1: to get into the icebreaker. And for the icebreaker, I
Speaker 1: came up with a game. Fuck that. This is a
Speaker 1: game never played before, and I don't even know how
Speaker 1: I came up with it, but the name of this
Speaker 1: game is a nice way to say. So for this game,
Speaker 1: the that, I am going to give you some scenarios
Speaker 1: that a lot of us maybe have or have not
Speaker 1: came across. And you need to let me know. What
Speaker 1: is a nice way to say these things? Okay, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: what is a nice way to say that your partner
Speaker 1: has a stench down there? Right? Why did I think
Speaker 1: these are gonna be easy? Why did I think that?
Speaker 1: So he comes in and it comes in, and you
Speaker 1: know you you're horny. You'll have been texting Sexton all
Speaker 1: day and you was ready to put him in your mouth.
Speaker 1: And when you go down there, something just doesn't smell right.
Speaker 1: How do you let your partner know it's not smeller
Speaker 1: right down there? Okay? And I'm doing this in a
Speaker 1: nice way. I would be like I would be down
Speaker 1: there and I wouldn't be doing anything, Like I would
Speaker 1: just be down there and not wait for him to
Speaker 1: say what's what's wrong? And then I would look up
Speaker 1: and be like, something is something's just a little bit off.
Speaker 1: I'm not sure what it is, but maybe we both
Speaker 1: need to go to the bathroom and check ourselves. Both
Speaker 1: of us go to the bathroom and check ourselves because
Speaker 1: it makes it feel better when I don't know if
Speaker 1: we need to check ourselves in the nice way you
Speaker 1: I was thinking, let's just say, let's get exciting, you know,
Speaker 1: let's get let's go in the shower, let's spice it
Speaker 1: up a little bit. That would so you don't want
Speaker 1: him to actually know he stinksy. I want you to
Speaker 1: know something's off, like normally when it's a little independent
Speaker 1: on what that stinch is, if it's smelling a little fishy.
Speaker 1: Because here's the thing, Nigga's the only thing. Bitches canna
Speaker 1: smell like fish but dicks can smell like fish too,
Speaker 1: especially if you're not circumcised. Okay, see, and I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna lie. I hate the turtleneck on the peen, so
Speaker 1: I don't really deal with many turtlenecks. So, wait, you've
Speaker 1: had men that smell like fish. I've had one one
Speaker 1: man that he wasn't circumcised. A lot of Canadians aren't circumcised.
Speaker 1: I think that that's a foreign at least I think
Speaker 1: it's like a thing. Yeah, and so if you don't
Speaker 1: clean it good, it gets that fishy smell. And I
Speaker 1: think it's because like maybe you have some type of infection.
Speaker 1: Do you not? Did you not think that maybe he
Speaker 1: had just got dune a girl? No? Because I rolled
Speaker 1: it back. Okay, see you are really nasty, but I
Speaker 1: didn't do it. We didn't have sex. I was just
Speaker 1: kind of like, oh, I started my period, and that's
Speaker 1: always like a good that's always a good segue out
Speaker 1: a tampon in my when I wasn't bleeding, just because
Speaker 1: niggas being a string and I'd be like, yeah, when
Speaker 1: you start to either the string hanging, what are you doing?
Speaker 1: Or they'll be like let me feel and be like there,
Speaker 1: it's right, there, I'm on it. We'd be lying, but yeah, girl,
Speaker 1: I would make it a wee thing. I'll be like,
Speaker 1: let's go to the bathroom and checker. So the next
Speaker 1: thing is, I would love how you get out of
Speaker 1: this one. What is a nice way to say your
Speaker 1: partner sucks at giving it and that has happened, and
Speaker 1: what do you say? I I hate to say I'm
Speaker 1: gonna say the nice thing, but I typically don't say anything.
Speaker 1: I just pull their chin up so that they stopped
Speaker 1: and just come up and kiss me. But if I
Speaker 1: had to actually use my words to say this doesn't
Speaker 1: feel good, I'll be like, baby, can you spit on
Speaker 1: it a little bit? Make it wetter? I would start
Speaker 1: to just guide them into what I want them to do.
Speaker 1: I like wet head, And to me, the only way
Speaker 1: the pussy is not eating right is if you're like
Speaker 1: cat or or you're nawing right. Yeah, y'all know, I
Speaker 1: don't even like it like that. But I mean, I'm
Speaker 1: going to go down there just we're having oral but
Speaker 1: then i'd be just man. But I don't really like
Speaker 1: it like that. So even if you're having sex with
Speaker 1: a woman, you don't want her to eat your pussy. No,
Speaker 1: Like even when when me Andreau she did some things
Speaker 1: with her fingers, bitch she made. I was like, holy
Speaker 1: sh it, Like I was like she made so even
Speaker 1: when I funk with a girl, I'm I'm cool on heads,
Speaker 1: so like we got because I come off penetration. I mean,
Speaker 1: I've shared this on the show so many times, like
Speaker 1: like that's why I felt like every time I was like,
Speaker 1: I came like he like I come off dick. I come,
Speaker 1: which is why I know I'm not gay, Like, so
Speaker 1: do you eat? I love I love sucking dick and
Speaker 1: I love giving head, so I love giving it. I
Speaker 1: get wet by giving and pleasing