WEBVTT - Ep165: An Interracial Marriage Feat Blake & Jas 0:00:02.800 --> 0:00:06.600 All right, everybody, welcome to another episode of Horrible Decisions, 0:00:07.120 --> 0:00:10.160 probably my favorite ever because every fucking accident I ever 0:00:10.200 --> 0:00:12.360 do on this goddamn show comes from the same one 0:00:12.400 --> 0:00:14.920 that all we're at. This is wheezy and I'm here 0:00:14.920 --> 0:00:17.680 with my co host. Hey, y'all, this is you girl, 0:00:17.800 --> 0:00:23.800 Mandy be Ak, and we are We are joined by 0:00:23.880 --> 0:00:26.200 what do you have? Any a k as Blake? Um, 0:00:26.239 --> 0:00:33.360 just hollow Brooks, No allow Brooks for me. So we're 0:00:33.400 --> 0:00:35.879 here with Blake and Jazz off one of my favorite 0:00:35.960 --> 0:00:38.800 things ever. You guys can google it, Google hollow brook 0:00:39.320 --> 0:00:45.560 Google Jack and Blake and Jazz Jake. And I'm telling 0:00:45.600 --> 0:00:48.320 you right now, I'm that excited. I feel like we 0:00:48.400 --> 0:00:52.360 can have Beyonce or someone from like that's how excited 0:00:52.520 --> 0:00:58.240 about having your Okay, I'm glad to be. Let's talk 0:00:58.280 --> 0:01:00.920 about quarantine really quick with you guys. As everybody knows 0:01:01.120 --> 0:01:04.200 that me and Mandy have been going through it. I'm 0:01:04.280 --> 0:01:06.520 stuck in the house with my boyfriend. Mandy has been 0:01:06.959 --> 0:01:09.479 mountains and weeks without Dick. What about you, guys, how's 0:01:09.480 --> 0:01:12.920 your quarantine going? The quarantine is cool, it's just um, 0:01:12.959 --> 0:01:15.280 you know, we try to avoid going out as much 0:01:15.319 --> 0:01:18.400 as possible, trying to avoid going on as much as possible, 0:01:18.400 --> 0:01:22.560 and then um, you know, just we've been here together. 0:01:23.000 --> 0:01:28.959 We got a cat recently. When cooking more are you using? 0:01:29.800 --> 0:01:31.760 Are you using more than salt and pepper and the 0:01:31.840 --> 0:01:39.120 new cooking or what I was? I use you as 0:01:39.160 --> 0:01:41.880 the excuse all the time. I'm like, you see, I'm 0:01:41.920 --> 0:01:44.720 not that cute, but I'll put more salt and pepper 0:01:44.720 --> 0:01:46.600 on my food. It's like pretty girls come with a thing, 0:01:46.640 --> 0:01:50.639 you know what I'm saying, that's all they use. Now 0:01:51.400 --> 0:01:52.800 are you Have you guys gotten in a fight yet? 0:01:52.840 --> 0:01:58.320 Your first quarantine fight? Huh? Quarantine fight? Yeah, I think so, 0:02:00.040 --> 0:02:04.440 would say, so? Yeah about what? Well, it's just like 0:02:05.240 --> 0:02:08.280 it wasn't so much a fire was just like her mistake, 0:02:08.480 --> 0:02:12.120 you know, like my turtle almost died. Like and it's 0:02:12.160 --> 0:02:15.440 not funny, but like yo, but like my turtle almost 0:02:15.440 --> 0:02:18.840 died and she almost killed him man, And gosh, you 0:02:18.840 --> 0:02:23.280 know how you almost kill something that's in the house 0:02:23.360 --> 0:02:26.680 with you that you don't think that's the part. That's 0:02:26.720 --> 0:02:28.280 why I kind of got upset, you know, And like 0:02:28.320 --> 0:02:30.600 I've explained to her, like you know, because I've had it. 0:02:30.680 --> 0:02:34.119 I've had it for eighteen years with any water animals, 0:02:34.120 --> 0:02:36.160 so I don't know anything about them, man, And I 0:02:36.200 --> 0:02:39.160 just made it real simple, you know, just pretty much 0:02:39.160 --> 0:02:42.920 their water is like our air if anything goes in there. 0:02:43.280 --> 0:02:46.520 But still, so, so what you're going to do about 0:02:46.520 --> 0:02:48.080 this cat? Man? Do you forget to be other than 0:02:48.280 --> 0:02:50.519 the cat is cool? The cat is cool, and she's 0:02:50.560 --> 0:02:53.160 fine with Yeah, the cat is cool. She just accidentally, 0:02:53.200 --> 0:02:55.240 you know, she puts some soap in there, you know, 0:02:55.320 --> 0:02:57.320 like and she didn't like bush and that she was 0:02:57.320 --> 0:02:59.480 cleaning around it and it got in there. And like, 0:02:59.600 --> 0:03:01.840 my turtle was jack, but I wasn't I wasn't home. 0:03:02.040 --> 0:03:03.679 But when I come home, my totals just trying to 0:03:03.760 --> 0:03:05.919 keep his head about water, like look, what the hell? 0:03:06.000 --> 0:03:08.399 And then when it goes under, his eyes are closer. Yeah, 0:03:08.440 --> 0:03:11.120 it was all bad. I think I told this story 0:03:11.160 --> 0:03:13.160 once before in the podcast. So I only had a 0:03:13.160 --> 0:03:18.440 turtle for like three hours. My cousin. My cousin goes 0:03:18.520 --> 0:03:20.280 to pick me up this turtle, I think it was 0:03:20.320 --> 0:03:21.920 like a pet smart And we're in the back of 0:03:21.960 --> 0:03:25.280 the car with the turtle, and I guess he slammed 0:03:25.280 --> 0:03:27.440 on the brake so the water comes out of the cage. 0:03:27.919 --> 0:03:30.120 So he's like, oh my god, no, he's visiting and 0:03:30.120 --> 0:03:31.919 he were in my mom's car. So he grabs a 0:03:31.960 --> 0:03:35.280 bottle of water and pours it into the turtle rake 0:03:35.320 --> 0:03:37.640 and the turtle starts freaking out and it's like going crazy. 0:03:37.680 --> 0:03:39.840 I'm like, what the fund is going on? Well, my 0:03:39.920 --> 0:03:47.320 mom hides vodka and water. Oh the turtle guy sucked 0:03:47.400 --> 0:03:49.840 up like literally, so safe was probably beat at like 0:03:50.160 --> 0:03:56.560 what I had going on. Oh man, Well, we're happy 0:03:56.600 --> 0:03:59.040 to see you guys together. I know this episode is 0:03:59.800 --> 0:04:02.200 it is more about, you know, just Blake and we 0:04:02.240 --> 0:04:03.880 want to talk about interracial dating. But I just want 0:04:03.920 --> 0:04:05.680 to do a few icebreakers with you guys because it 0:04:05.720 --> 0:04:07.640 makes me really happy to just see you guys together 0:04:07.680 --> 0:04:10.000 and smiling and happy. I think that's all great because 0:04:10.000 --> 0:04:12.640 I just feel like TV ruins everybody and it's just 0:04:12.720 --> 0:04:16.320 it's nice to see you guys. Okay, So may do 0:04:16.360 --> 0:04:19.960 you want to start with the first one? I'm not 0:04:20.120 --> 0:04:22.320 you can go ahead, go ahead and ask the questions. So, 0:04:22.520 --> 0:04:25.160 who is the horny is out of the two of you. 0:04:25.240 --> 0:04:28.000 We don't need we don't need the paper. I want 0:04:28.040 --> 0:04:30.640 you guys to just point if if you point at 0:04:30.640 --> 0:04:33.120 yourself and if it's your partner, point at your partner. 0:04:33.240 --> 0:04:41.880 That's easy. I guess. I guess, yeah, me, I guess 0:04:42.160 --> 0:04:45.120 see yeah, I guess with the question, can can you 0:04:45.160 --> 0:04:49.279 guys just say who you guys think um is the 0:04:49.360 --> 0:04:52.080 person for the question? Maybe even at the same time 0:04:52.120 --> 0:04:54.159 if you have to, because so some of the people 0:04:54.200 --> 0:04:57.400 listen to us without okay, so well it looks great 0:04:57.440 --> 0:04:58.839 at you guys pointing each other. I want to be 0:04:58.839 --> 0:05:02.719 sure that everyone listening UM, just you know, audibly, can 0:05:03.120 --> 0:05:05.200 can join in on the game now. So you guys 0:05:05.400 --> 0:05:09.320 both pointed at Jasmine. I didn't see that coming. What 0:05:10.279 --> 0:05:16.359 oh the answer Jasmine? Sure, no, no. But but the 0:05:16.400 --> 0:05:18.800 only reason why I sighed with her because I know 0:05:18.880 --> 0:05:21.599 she was gonna go say no. But the thing is, 0:05:21.640 --> 0:05:24.480 the reason why I pointed to her and she's gonna 0:05:24.480 --> 0:05:28.160 say her is because it's just the times she wants it, 0:05:28.360 --> 0:05:30.000 you know, like I'll be cooking up in the studio 0:05:30.160 --> 0:05:32.720 or doing something and that's when she'll want it, you know. 0:05:33.080 --> 0:05:36.039 But but like we like watching your work, but no, 0:05:36.160 --> 0:05:38.200 but she's not even in here watching me. It's like 0:05:38.240 --> 0:05:41.919 I come out for two seconds and then then you know, 0:05:41.960 --> 0:05:43.520 and it's like I'm in the middle of stuff or 0:05:44.279 --> 0:05:47.000 any time I wanted, like three times, but like I'm 0:05:47.040 --> 0:05:49.000 a night person, so like I'll come at her at 0:05:49.080 --> 0:05:53.200 night and then she's already sleep by midnight. Yeah, but 0:05:53.200 --> 0:05:55.240 then you're going wait wait, wait, wait wait three times, 0:05:55.440 --> 0:05:59.520 don't Like. Have you guys had sex twice a day? Yeah, 0:05:59.520 --> 0:06:03.240 we've done them more of course, like morning and since quarantine, 0:06:03.560 --> 0:06:08.720 since quarantine, I think, so yeah, not like every single day, 0:06:09.120 --> 0:06:12.480 but yeah, this is what we see why you got 0:06:12.520 --> 0:06:18.040 okay one piece. There's no way my man would move 0:06:18.080 --> 0:06:22.880 me anywhere, but I get it now. Yeah, no, I 0:06:22.880 --> 0:06:25.760 don't in the numb. So Jazz Jazz, where are you feel? 0:06:27.800 --> 0:06:31.960 Finl okay? And you've been in America for nine months now, 0:06:32.560 --> 0:06:37.560 I think, so, okay, are you enjoying You're enjoying yourself? 0:06:37.640 --> 0:06:42.280 I am, yeah, okay. So so Mandy Jazz has her 0:06:42.360 --> 0:06:44.880 her sister luckily in the same city, which is which 0:06:44.920 --> 0:06:46.479 is really nice because I know it could feel so 0:06:46.560 --> 0:06:50.440 alienating to like move for somebody and like not have 0:06:50.520 --> 0:06:53.720 anybody around you. I mean, I couldn't imagine like being 0:06:53.760 --> 0:06:56.000 in a new place, I'm not having somebody. Okay, So 0:06:56.040 --> 0:07:00.840 we know you're the horny ist um who has who 0:07:00.960 --> 0:07:03.599 has been the one who has showered the least during 0:07:03.640 --> 0:07:10.760 the quarantine shower least Blake show. I think showers to day, 0:07:10.800 --> 0:07:13.000 and I don't know when you shower a few times 0:07:13.000 --> 0:07:18.400 a week? No, okay, she said a few times she 0:07:18.640 --> 0:07:22.600 is okay, no, because she just likes to be extra. 0:07:22.760 --> 0:07:25.440 She's like, oh, I do mine twics twice a day, 0:07:25.600 --> 0:07:27.880 but like I do mine like late night, and she's 0:07:27.960 --> 0:07:30.840 not down like I'll do I'll go oh, now you're 0:07:30.880 --> 0:07:35.280 saying she doesn't see it, so she just like, no, 0:07:35.400 --> 0:07:37.880 you don't do it, you know, But I know, I 0:07:37.920 --> 0:07:39.960 know sometimes like like usually I would go back to 0:07:40.040 --> 0:07:42.040 like when I was working, like going to work at 0:07:42.040 --> 0:07:43.600 the hotel that I work at, Okay, back to back 0:07:43.600 --> 0:07:45.680 to back of course obviously exees me, but like, yeah, 0:07:45.800 --> 0:07:47.559 dad has gone by. When I've just been at the house, 0:07:48.880 --> 0:07:50.520 She'll be on my case about it, act like it's 0:07:50.520 --> 0:07:53.840 been a whole week or something. I don't you know what. 0:07:54.120 --> 0:07:56.240 Shout out to Jazz, because at least she still wants 0:07:56.240 --> 0:07:58.280 to sleep with you, even though we know your showers 0:07:58.280 --> 0:08:05.800 are suspect. Jazz, I would not blame you if you 0:08:05.840 --> 0:08:08.800 do not want to you know, I need a shower 0:08:08.880 --> 0:08:12.000 twice the day. If I'm eating your grass, well, don't 0:08:12.080 --> 0:08:16.440 kissing me. Well obviously we're doing like, you know, stuff 0:08:16.680 --> 0:08:19.400 with that. Then yeah, have respect for her, you know 0:08:19.440 --> 0:08:23.240 what I mean? You know, so I respect for your Yeah, 0:08:24.000 --> 0:08:30.920 I respect. Get some of that turtle soap? Oh no, 0:08:30.920 --> 0:08:34.760 no more? Okay, out of the two of you, who 0:08:34.960 --> 0:08:42.440 is the kinkiest me? Yeah? Really, what do you mean? 0:08:42.480 --> 0:08:48.680 I don't know. I'm but you because before. The reason 0:08:48.720 --> 0:08:50.880 why I say me is because before, when we first met, 0:08:51.520 --> 0:08:53.959 you know, like when we first met, she was kind 0:08:53.960 --> 0:08:55.640 of shy, you know, so I had to open her 0:08:55.720 --> 0:08:57.440 up a little bit about it in here and there 0:08:57.480 --> 0:09:00.560 and then and then that's going to be about because 0:09:00.520 --> 0:09:02.600 at the beginning I was more horny, you know what 0:09:02.600 --> 0:09:05.640 I mean. But now that we're here and we're together 0:09:05.679 --> 0:09:08.000 and doing everything, okay, now she's on it and it's 0:09:08.040 --> 0:09:11.240 just like you know, So that's why I'll say I'm 0:09:11.280 --> 0:09:14.520 more kinkies. I can I can see it taken a 0:09:14.520 --> 0:09:18.880 while for a woman to open up, specifically like being 0:09:18.920 --> 0:09:22.720 preaky or too kinky early, um and even showing how 0:09:22.800 --> 0:09:25.640 much she wants sex. So I could see, like, you know, 0:09:25.720 --> 0:09:27.839 it's taking her a little bit to open up to 0:09:27.960 --> 0:09:30.679 showing you her kinky ways. And we know each other 0:09:30.720 --> 0:09:33.120 for kinkier is an American thing? Oh No, I don't 0:09:33.120 --> 0:09:35.040 think it's an American thing. I's just I think it's 0:09:35.080 --> 0:09:37.520 just a personal thing, like being kinky and stuff. It's 0:09:37.520 --> 0:09:39.160 just a personal thing. But it's just, you know, we 0:09:39.240 --> 0:09:43.120 knowing each other for for three years and you know so, 0:09:43.480 --> 0:09:46.120 and she's been out here before, so it's not like 0:09:46.120 --> 0:09:48.720 she hasn't like experienced or seeing like wild stuff out 0:09:48.720 --> 0:09:49.959 here because you didn't come to l A and you'll 0:09:50.000 --> 0:09:52.400 see some stuff, you know what I mean. So, but 0:09:52.480 --> 0:09:55.360 I think as far as her doing it, yeah, no, 0:09:55.760 --> 0:09:58.360 it's not until like now I'm down to Yeah. See, 0:09:58.880 --> 0:10:03.480 I think she got it from me, jev. I'm curious 0:10:03.480 --> 0:10:05.640 to know. I have one last question before you know, 0:10:05.679 --> 0:10:08.680 you go you go back and Blake is hollow Brooks, 0:10:08.720 --> 0:10:11.600 But I'm curious to know have you ever been with 0:10:11.640 --> 0:10:15.240 a black eye before? And when you were in Finland 0:10:15.400 --> 0:10:18.320 where your friends like, oh my god, like it's an 0:10:18.320 --> 0:10:20.959 American black eye or they were like surprised, or how 0:10:20.960 --> 0:10:23.880 did they feel about you dating yeah black guy, don't 0:10:24.120 --> 0:10:26.040 I don't think they care about are you black, are 0:10:26.080 --> 0:10:28.000 you Asian? Are you white? Are you whatever? Like they 0:10:28.040 --> 0:10:31.120 just say him as blake so and they love him. 0:10:31.240 --> 0:10:33.440 It wasn't like thing. They didn't ask, like or say 0:10:33.440 --> 0:10:36.160 anything about it. I mean, we have black people too, 0:10:36.160 --> 0:10:41.080 because but like I feel like the at least here 0:10:41.360 --> 0:10:43.680 right in the States, and I've talked about this a lot. 0:10:43.760 --> 0:10:46.360 I feel like my European friends sometimes are jaded with this. 0:10:46.440 --> 0:10:48.440 But like I feel like in the States, a lot 0:10:48.480 --> 0:10:50.640 of white women are like, oh my god, black eyes 0:10:50.960 --> 0:10:55.840 big blah blah blah, did you did you did your friends? No? No, 0:10:55.920 --> 0:11:01.080 they didn't say that, and we don't know. No, no, 0:11:01.160 --> 0:11:04.560 so they Oh my god, this is normal. I don't 0:11:04.559 --> 0:11:07.520 think about me. But I don't know. It's a question. 0:11:10.240 --> 0:11:16.439 What have you dated a black eye? Now? Really, where'd you? 0:11:16.480 --> 0:11:22.080 Where'd you guys meet? Where? Yeah? I met out here? Yeah, 0:11:22.080 --> 0:11:25.320 but like shut up, yeah, but she was like, but 0:11:25.360 --> 0:11:27.600 this is but this is but this is you know, 0:11:27.920 --> 0:11:31.400 um damn, I don't even know if I could go apart. 0:11:32.360 --> 0:11:34.440 This is like when she was out here visiting, you know, 0:11:34.679 --> 0:11:38.680 vacation with her family, didn't meet exactly what we were 0:11:38.760 --> 0:11:40.840 just talking. Then we didn't see each other we didn't 0:11:40.840 --> 0:11:43.640 physically see each other, so we were still talking and 0:11:43.679 --> 0:11:47.120 then we finally physically seeing each other in Finland. I 0:11:47.160 --> 0:11:49.960 fell out there after talking to her for like, wow, 0:11:50.040 --> 0:11:53.240 it's close to a year. Yeah did it? Did it 0:11:53.320 --> 0:11:58.560 live up to the hype to this thing? She's like, 0:11:58.559 --> 0:12:04.320 why do you think I'm in here? Oh? That is 0:12:04.360 --> 0:12:07.000 so sweet. You guys are so cute. Thanks for coming 0:12:07.040 --> 0:12:12.440 and joining us. Yeah, I appreciate it. Okay, I want 0:12:12.480 --> 0:12:15.280 you to jump in with us on this one. Anymore. 0:12:15.520 --> 0:12:19.559 We're getting into us. Do you guys need anymore? Oh? No, 0:12:19.600 --> 0:12:23.959 we're good to go. Okay, i'llot you guys. Okay, cool, alright, no, 0:12:24.080 --> 0:12:28.240 oh yeah I need it. I'll just move this over here. 0:12:28.360 --> 0:12:30.760 Seas in the closet. I know he is. If you 0:12:30.760 --> 0:12:33.040 want to open up, if you want to open that door, 0:12:33.160 --> 0:12:35.520 you can do it. Sorry, she's gonna she's gonna get 0:12:35.559 --> 0:12:40.640 the cat out there, so don't worry about her. Yeah, 0:12:40.960 --> 0:12:44.000 So put my cat in another room because he likes 0:12:44.040 --> 0:12:47.200 to attack my feet. So when I'm recording, he just 0:12:47.360 --> 0:12:50.480 constantly attacks my ankles. So I'm like, okay, body, you 0:12:50.520 --> 0:12:53.640 have to go in the other room. Can you can 0:12:53.640 --> 0:12:55.840 you imagine if we had jobs like on CNN with 0:12:55.880 --> 0:12:58.360 the cats or the people coming in the middle of 0:12:58.440 --> 0:13:01.360 like a live stream, right all you have an orange 0:13:01.360 --> 0:13:05.559 cat just like he trying to hold the mic. You're 0:13:05.559 --> 0:13:09.000 trying to trying to spit, are trying to spit? Trying 0:13:09.000 --> 0:13:13.240 to spit on the mic? Is I love it? I 0:13:13.280 --> 0:13:16.600 actually really can't say, but that would like seeing him 0:13:16.720 --> 0:13:20.680 now is making me like, yeah, yeah, he's a cool 0:13:22.600 --> 0:13:28.800 eight months now and I'm glad we got him. He's cool. Well, 0:13:28.840 --> 0:13:30.760 you're not a cat lady, Mandy, because if a couple 0:13:30.840 --> 0:13:33.959 got won during quarantine, then it lets you know, we 0:13:34.200 --> 0:13:37.480 need somebody else to break up the energy. I'm comfortable 0:13:37.559 --> 0:13:41.400 with my He's been everything I've needed during this time, 0:13:41.440 --> 0:13:44.880 and I've actually refrained from having anyone in my house 0:13:44.920 --> 0:13:51.000 for like it's just it's just been me and him. 0:13:51.040 --> 0:13:53.240 So we're gonna get into our segment Vanilla Ship, which 0:13:53.240 --> 0:13:54.840 is when we talk about sex in the news. And 0:13:54.880 --> 0:13:57.479 a lot of you guys have been hearing about abortions 0:13:57.559 --> 0:14:00.520 and seeing jokes about planned parenthood being closed and it's 0:14:00.600 --> 0:14:05.320 actually real in some places. So um, the US, you know, 0:14:05.360 --> 0:14:08.760 it mainly remains on lockdown, but there are a few 0:14:08.840 --> 0:14:13.600 places that aren't allowing abortions right now? Um, does anyone 0:14:13.640 --> 0:14:15.520 have a guess? One stage? Just give me a guest 0:14:15.559 --> 0:14:24.720 that aren't that's not having it. Uh, I don't know. 0:14:24.800 --> 0:14:31.000 Maybe Texas, Texas. Maybe, I mean I can't guess because 0:14:31.000 --> 0:14:33.160 I have the article open in front of So the 0:14:33.240 --> 0:14:43.520 states are including Okay, Okay, Alabama, Iowa, Louisiana, Louisiana, Ohio, Oklahoma, Tennessee, Texas. 0:14:43.560 --> 0:14:47.600 They are all attempting to restrict access where that when 0:14:47.640 --> 0:14:49.680 what that means is there are some places that are open, 0:14:50.040 --> 0:14:53.440 but mainly no. Abortions in Texas were actually completely cut 0:14:53.440 --> 0:14:56.120 out and banned as far as last week. UM federal 0:14:56.120 --> 0:14:58.560 appeals in court were ruled on Monday. Where now they're 0:14:58.600 --> 0:15:01.440 letting abortion services UM be done at home, so the 0:15:01.480 --> 0:15:04.880 abortion pill, but most women have been driving to get 0:15:04.920 --> 0:15:06.880 them or trying to do him at home and having 0:15:07.040 --> 0:15:10.160 unsafe abortions. And the Washington Post said it's the most 0:15:10.160 --> 0:15:15.880 extreme shutdown of abortion ever beside ninety rowerses Wade. So, 0:15:16.000 --> 0:15:17.880 I mean, yeah, I saw a tweet and I was 0:15:17.920 --> 0:15:20.440 making a joke about it. How this girl said playing 0:15:20.480 --> 0:15:29.440 parenthood needs to open up this motherfucker growing. But so 0:15:29.560 --> 0:15:33.440 I would say, we've we've been in quarantine for two months. 0:15:33.880 --> 0:15:37.560 I would say this time, more than any time, is 0:15:37.600 --> 0:15:41.160 the time to be practicing safe sex if who you're 0:15:41.280 --> 0:15:44.360 having sex with you don't want to have a baby 0:15:44.400 --> 0:15:48.200 with specifically, So I mean, of course I've been getting 0:15:48.240 --> 0:15:51.040 all my friends for having casual sex during this time. 0:15:51.280 --> 0:15:54.800 But more than anything, I think it's um our responsibility 0:15:55.120 --> 0:15:57.680 more than anything to take control of our health and 0:15:57.880 --> 0:16:02.960 use condoms. And you know, definitely, you know, probably birth 0:16:03.000 --> 0:16:06.040 control isn't an option right now to get on or start, 0:16:06.320 --> 0:16:08.360 but if the conscious is the thing too though, if 0:16:08.360 --> 0:16:11.720 you think about it, it's access, Like my bodega is closed. 0:16:11.720 --> 0:16:13.360 I live in the Lower east Side. It's a crazy 0:16:13.400 --> 0:16:15.840 busy neighborhood. I mean, we we live in we live 0:16:15.880 --> 0:16:18.560 in the most, We live in the most. You know, 0:16:18.680 --> 0:16:22.600 probably we are in the epicenter. And yes, I did 0:16:22.600 --> 0:16:25.560 have to wait forty minutes to get into Walgreens, but 0:16:25.680 --> 0:16:28.840 I got into Walgreens, so I still think it's yeah, 0:16:29.960 --> 0:16:34.320 forty minutes, So I mean, to me, it's just okay, 0:16:34.520 --> 0:16:37.600 take the precautions, wait till as the line they're they're 0:16:37.640 --> 0:16:40.120 they're around. Targets still open a lot of stores are open. 0:16:40.360 --> 0:16:43.760 Is they're gonna take you longer to get into it? Yes, Um. 0:16:43.800 --> 0:16:45.760 Are they only allowing a certain amount of people in 0:16:45.800 --> 0:16:49.680 at a time, yes, Um. But me being you know, 0:16:49.720 --> 0:16:52.880 talking to my friends and other states, they're not witnessing 0:16:52.960 --> 0:16:56.120 the forty minute wait to get into a grocery store 0:16:56.200 --> 0:16:58.680 or things, um, in other parts of the country like 0:16:58.760 --> 0:17:03.040 we are. So I mean still there's access to condoms 0:17:03.080 --> 0:17:07.080 and so. Like I said, yes, abortion, um, if that 0:17:07.240 --> 0:17:10.480 is the last result. Um, it's unfortunate that some of 0:17:10.480 --> 0:17:12.800 these states are using this at the time, you know, 0:17:12.880 --> 0:17:16.520 to make you know, to get to make it legal 0:17:16.640 --> 0:17:20.200 or illegal, and lawsuits regarding it. Um. But it definitely 0:17:20.240 --> 0:17:23.600 this is a time not to be having um, irresponsible 0:17:23.640 --> 0:17:25.560 and protected sex. I would say for sure too. I 0:17:25.560 --> 0:17:28.159 mean it's just hard right now because like when I 0:17:28.200 --> 0:17:30.920 mentioned access, you know, of course we all want to 0:17:31.000 --> 0:17:32.800 use condoms and stuff like that. I think it's just 0:17:32.920 --> 0:17:36.080 it's hard because it may fall on death ears and unfortunately, 0:17:36.080 --> 0:17:38.280 there's gonna be somebody who sucks and it's gonna be 0:17:38.359 --> 0:17:39.960 midnight and they're gonna be like, well, I mean I'm 0:17:39.960 --> 0:17:42.080 scared to lead a house and I want you guys 0:17:42.119 --> 0:17:44.800 to just really keep in mind that if you are 0:17:44.840 --> 0:17:46.639 in one of those states and you do happen to 0:17:46.640 --> 0:17:48.720 be one of those people, your access is I mean 0:17:48.720 --> 0:17:51.240 even getting STD testing right now. You know what I'm saying, 0:17:51.280 --> 0:17:53.119 It's not safe for us to really go into a 0:17:53.160 --> 0:17:55.760 city m D or an urgent care. Just like, keep 0:17:55.800 --> 0:17:58.600 in mind that order your condoms ahead of time. Dog. 0:17:58.720 --> 0:18:01.840 If we have an ad this week, the promost condoms, Goddamn, 0:18:01.880 --> 0:18:05.000 it'll be the best ad we ever sold, because everything 0:18:05.119 --> 0:18:08.040 is coming to my door. Food is coming to my door, 0:18:08.359 --> 0:18:13.200 Dick comes to my door. Everything is delivered ship. Anyway, 0:18:13.359 --> 0:18:15.920 speaking of Dick, we're gonna get into the Horrid Derve, 0:18:15.960 --> 0:18:18.679 which is our sex tip of the week. So mine 0:18:18.880 --> 0:18:21.639 is erotica. I feel like I've been reading more lately. 0:18:22.119 --> 0:18:24.120 I mean, who isn't because we have all this time. 0:18:24.480 --> 0:18:27.440 But I was doing UM and the Bonus episode with 0:18:27.480 --> 0:18:29.919 Cocktails last week and Kiki said to me, like, what 0:18:30.000 --> 0:18:32.400 would be your sexty tip? And I told her something 0:18:32.440 --> 0:18:34.879 about sending a sexy picture. But I think it'd be 0:18:34.920 --> 0:18:37.159 dope to send a sexy piece of literature and like 0:18:37.280 --> 0:18:39.520 take a picture of the page, tell the person and 0:18:39.600 --> 0:18:41.600 made you think about it. And like I mean, I 0:18:41.640 --> 0:18:43.320 don't know, we just got to a creative I don't 0:18:43.320 --> 0:18:45.480 know what else to do. The niggadents seeing pictures of 0:18:45.520 --> 0:18:47.960 my pussy a million times, so I feel like we're 0:18:48.000 --> 0:18:50.399 running out of ship to do, and I feel like 0:18:50.440 --> 0:18:54.560 erotica would be besides sane. I don't know if I 0:18:54.640 --> 0:18:56.879 know any other erotica, but I guess this is the 0:18:56.880 --> 0:18:59.840 time to google. Um, do you guys know anything else? 0:19:00.040 --> 0:19:05.560 Started saying the soldier. Um, there's someone Jerome Dickens. I 0:19:05.560 --> 0:19:10.920 believe his name is, or Dickinson. Um. Oh god, see. 0:19:10.960 --> 0:19:13.360 I think a lot of the erotica that I used 0:19:13.359 --> 0:19:16.280 to read had a lot of crime in it as well, 0:19:16.359 --> 0:19:19.840 normally drugg killers and love triangles and all of that. 0:19:20.720 --> 0:19:25.000 The best com Dane is Yeah, yeah, I'm even looking 0:19:25.000 --> 0:19:27.680 on my shelf. I don't think I have many sex erotica. 0:19:27.760 --> 0:19:30.959 I guess so something that I did Um yesterday I 0:19:31.000 --> 0:19:33.480 was talking on the phone with I'll call him a friend. 0:19:33.560 --> 0:19:35.720 He was a friend of mine. He's actually the only 0:19:35.760 --> 0:19:38.240 person that I want to have sex with right now 0:19:38.320 --> 0:19:42.280 and even immediately after quarantine. But I'm struggling with with 0:19:42.400 --> 0:19:45.680 wanting to fund him and staying abcinent. Um. But we 0:19:45.680 --> 0:19:47.800 were actually on the phone for damn near an hour 0:19:47.960 --> 0:19:50.920 and after we like just talked about just our lives 0:19:51.040 --> 0:19:55.480 and just a lot of different things. We actually shared. Um. 0:19:55.520 --> 0:19:59.040 I had him share his wildest sex night. Um. And 0:19:59.080 --> 0:20:01.600 so he started it off with him going to dinner 0:20:01.760 --> 0:20:05.840 and the friends involved, and it was pretty intense though. 0:20:05.960 --> 0:20:09.000 Even just listening to him retell the story, I could 0:20:09.000 --> 0:20:12.880 tell it was like triggering. Yeah, it was like him 0:20:12.920 --> 0:20:16.760 reminiscing on on even that night. So it was exciting 0:20:16.840 --> 0:20:19.959 to to even just hear him blush as he was 0:20:20.280 --> 0:20:23.160 telling the story about how it happened. And so that 0:20:23.200 --> 0:20:26.480 was fun just to hear about the jail, Like you 0:20:26.520 --> 0:20:29.720 know what you're talking to in jail and you gotta 0:20:29.800 --> 0:20:33.480 like really describe ship. That's what we're doing, right. Yeah. 0:20:33.560 --> 0:20:37.480 I liked it when you were doing long distance stuff 0:20:37.520 --> 0:20:40.080 with Jazz Blake. What stuff kept it? Like, I mean 0:20:40.080 --> 0:20:43.520 that's technically quarantine, Like what did you guys do to 0:20:43.600 --> 0:20:48.919 keep it spicy? Well, yeah, it's now so you know, 0:20:49.040 --> 0:20:51.480 we we we had the technology we can see each 0:20:51.480 --> 0:20:56.720 other FaceTime, just like we're doing right now, you know. Um. 0:20:56.760 --> 0:20:59.080 But when we you know, first started talking, it wasn't 0:20:59.119 --> 0:21:03.760 like that off the bat, So you know, we did 0:21:03.760 --> 0:21:07.920 talk amongst ourselves like obviously texting, you know, our sexty 0:21:08.280 --> 0:21:10.800 and then um, then they got and then she opened 0:21:10.840 --> 0:21:12.520 up a little bit more than like I've seen stuff 0:21:12.560 --> 0:21:16.680 and you know when we're facetiming or skipping or whatever 0:21:16.760 --> 0:21:20.000 you use. I to this day, I cannot like have 0:21:20.119 --> 0:21:23.080 FaceTime sex. I try, but then I start feeling, yeah, 0:21:23.320 --> 0:21:25.800 if I come first, I'm like, exactly, it is kind 0:21:25.800 --> 0:21:28.520 of weird. It's kind of weird, but like you know, 0:21:28.520 --> 0:21:30.639 because it is after after a while we did it, 0:21:30.760 --> 0:21:33.119 we kind of just like stopped because we were just 0:21:33.119 --> 0:21:35.160 like I'm coming out there anyway, you know what I mean. 0:21:35.880 --> 0:21:37.879 So I don't know, I think I think it was 0:21:37.920 --> 0:21:39.680 like we were talking for like close to a year 0:21:39.720 --> 0:21:42.480 before I actually came out there. So the time like 0:21:42.680 --> 0:21:45.440 that I've you know, seen each other on FaceTime or 0:21:45.480 --> 0:21:47.639 actually done stuff on FaceTime like that, I don't know, 0:21:47.720 --> 0:21:51.600 probably like ten times and so fifteen times, because like 0:21:52.119 --> 0:21:55.480 you said, it kind of feels weird. How do you 0:21:55.480 --> 0:21:59.359 guys feel about showing Like okay, like I get a 0:21:59.400 --> 0:22:02.160 sexy picks, right, But I used to say, and this 0:22:02.240 --> 0:22:03.960 was like kind of a line like I would change 0:22:04.000 --> 0:22:07.640 my mind for certain people, but I would always say like, well, 0:22:07.640 --> 0:22:09.600 I don't want to show like my pussy or show 0:22:09.680 --> 0:22:12.119 this much until you see me for the first time naked. 0:22:12.160 --> 0:22:14.959 What do you guys think about that being naked and pictured? Like, 0:22:15.720 --> 0:22:17.480 what do you think would you prefer someone to see 0:22:17.480 --> 0:22:23.119 you naked in person? First? Um? For me? Yeah? Like 0:22:23.200 --> 0:22:26.440 for me yeah, because it's just like I think, well yeah, 0:22:26.480 --> 0:22:28.800 for me, yeah, I think just because it's like, guys, 0:22:28.800 --> 0:22:33.280 I'm sure girls getting a million fucking dick fix, you 0:22:33.320 --> 0:22:36.159 know what I mean? So, like you know what, it 0:22:36.240 --> 0:22:38.639 always the same as like, okay, anybody can photo shop 0:22:38.640 --> 0:22:41.160 it or make it like this, so me personally, like 0:22:41.320 --> 0:22:44.000 I have to see, you know, like, Okay, a photo 0:22:44.040 --> 0:22:46.040 can look cool, photo can look cool, but like I said, 0:22:46.040 --> 0:22:49.800 we're in twenty you can make anything look cool. So 0:22:50.160 --> 0:22:53.480 it's it's just it's just at this point I I 0:22:53.600 --> 0:22:56.720 have to see. So that's why I was I front, 0:22:56.920 --> 0:23:00.040 I almost like photoshop the nude like a few on 0:23:00.119 --> 0:23:02.399 the back. I was like damn because my foopa was 0:23:02.480 --> 0:23:04.760 just pushing through and I was like, fucking he don't know, 0:23:05.960 --> 0:23:08.400 like who would really photo shopping nude, Like who would 0:23:08.400 --> 0:23:10.320 go that bar? So I was like, fucking, I guess 0:23:10.320 --> 0:23:13.960 he wrote, what do you think? Do you? Mandy? Do 0:23:14.040 --> 0:23:15.800 you share? Do you feel like you try to hold 0:23:15.800 --> 0:23:18.679 out the news until you've already seen him first? No, 0:23:19.080 --> 0:23:21.760 I mean news. I mean I've mentioned how like, I 0:23:21.760 --> 0:23:25.879 don't mind talking about sex to somebody, but I'm not 0:23:25.960 --> 0:23:29.320 sending nudes to someone that I haven't really been with 0:23:29.440 --> 0:23:32.680 yet or someone that I don't trust. That's a big 0:23:32.720 --> 0:23:34.800 that's a big thing with me now. I mean, I'm 0:23:34.800 --> 0:23:36.919 I'm a savage though. I mean I will get on 0:23:37.200 --> 0:23:40.240 you know, Snapchat, and I do send things over snap 0:23:40.320 --> 0:23:43.800 but I'm not really sending nudes. I don't even have nudes. 0:23:43.880 --> 0:23:46.080 Like you're gonna get these same pictures that I posted 0:23:46.119 --> 0:23:49.280 on Instagram maybe, I mean, I I do end up 0:23:49.320 --> 0:23:52.560 taking like twenty pictures before I post on Instagram. So 0:23:52.640 --> 0:23:55.800 maybe you can get you could get the you could 0:23:55.840 --> 0:23:57.840 get the one that maybe didn't make it. But it's 0:23:58.119 --> 0:24:00.600 it's in the same You don't be like it's the 0:24:00.600 --> 0:24:03.960 same picture. Now look at my pones. No, yeah, look, 0:24:04.280 --> 0:24:06.480 look my hip is poked out more in the picture 0:24:06.520 --> 0:24:09.119 I sent you. That's not the one I posted like 0:24:09.200 --> 0:24:11.360 I don't. I don't know. I'm not really into like 0:24:11.520 --> 0:24:14.440 sending pictures for all for all, um. I mean one 0:24:14.480 --> 0:24:17.800 thing that the guys that that I talked to like 0:24:18.320 --> 0:24:20.439 and they know I don't really send pictures and do that, 0:24:20.560 --> 0:24:22.440 so I'll be like, well, I'm getting in the shower, 0:24:22.920 --> 0:24:24.720 and so what I'll do is I'll call them all 0:24:24.760 --> 0:24:28.280 like snapchat all these like FaceTime them, and I'll get 0:24:28.280 --> 0:24:30.919 on FaceTime when I get out the shower, so you 0:24:30.920 --> 0:24:33.040 get to see me out the shower. That's about it. 0:24:33.160 --> 0:24:35.560 One of my guys got lucky and face time me 0:24:35.600 --> 0:24:40.760 while I was in the shower, so he got yeah, 0:24:41.800 --> 0:24:44.520 I mean I answered, so he got he got lucky. 0:24:45.000 --> 0:24:46.960 But I don't even just out you're just like sending 0:24:47.200 --> 0:24:50.120 us and you got to start up here. And then 0:24:50.119 --> 0:24:53.640 he was like no, I mean like even I mean 0:24:53.640 --> 0:24:57.080 even right now, like I can't see you. So like 0:24:57.119 --> 0:25:00.320 the whole sending nudes mind you. I'm on Twitter a lot, 0:25:00.800 --> 0:25:03.760 so nigga see Dickieople having sex and all that crazy 0:25:03.800 --> 0:25:06.240 sh on Twitter all day long. I don't care to 0:25:06.280 --> 0:25:08.840 see a nigga that I can't see. I don't care 0:25:08.880 --> 0:25:12.280 about his dick. I don't know that makes that makes sense. 0:25:12.320 --> 0:25:16.240 You can't knock that because that's that's true. That How 0:25:16.240 --> 0:25:18.000 many times am I gonna say I can't wait to 0:25:18.040 --> 0:25:21.040 see you? Like, yeah, nigga, we don't even know when 0:25:21.040 --> 0:25:23.120 to stay at home. Order gonna be lifted. We got 0:25:23.119 --> 0:25:26.399 another at least three weeks. I'm not going to tease myself. 0:25:26.440 --> 0:25:28.239 I know what you did. Like, I mean, we know 0:25:28.280 --> 0:25:33.879 we're here. Let me let me know. When when I 0:25:33.920 --> 0:25:37.800 saw Wisconsin extended until May, I was like, there's no 0:25:37.920 --> 0:25:40.640 way in New York is getting out of this by 0:25:40.640 --> 0:25:42.800 by the end of there's no way, like we got 0:25:42.800 --> 0:25:44.679 we're gonna be in this motherfucker. Wait where are you? 0:25:44.760 --> 0:25:50.080 Where are you? We're burning out? Oh why did they 0:25:50.119 --> 0:25:51.760 think you? I thought you guys are out here for 0:25:51.800 --> 0:25:54.520 some reason. I mean, but even but even you being 0:25:54.560 --> 0:25:57.719 in in l A. M. I have a ton of 0:25:57.720 --> 0:26:00.800 friends that the niggas who the nigga was right now 0:26:00.880 --> 0:26:03.760 in l a. So I'm like, even when we were talking, 0:26:03.800 --> 0:26:07.600 I was like, oh, you're so like like you're not 0:26:07.640 --> 0:26:09.399 even close enough to where I would be like, okay, 0:26:09.440 --> 0:26:11.440 let me hop in a car and drive to you, 0:26:11.840 --> 0:26:15.760 because that's not an option. But I know that your plane. 0:26:16.119 --> 0:26:21.880 So if them ships going in style, not even even 0:26:21.920 --> 0:26:25.000 the even the private planes they're sending people back. Um 0:26:25.040 --> 0:26:28.240 who wasn't There was a celebrity most recently that thought 0:26:28.280 --> 0:26:30.239 that he could just hop on his private plane and 0:26:30.320 --> 0:26:33.880 go to an island or something, and they sent him back. 0:26:34.000 --> 0:26:35.960 They gassed up when they got there. I was like, sorry, 0:26:36.160 --> 0:26:39.440 specifically Americans, they're not letting us land in different places. 0:26:39.720 --> 0:26:43.760 So keep talking about l A. You said, what what 0:26:43.840 --> 0:26:47.159 about it? So there's do you guys remember like the 0:26:47.280 --> 0:26:50.800 Kim Kardashian jet Smart and people could do this annual 0:26:50.840 --> 0:26:53.679 membership service to be on like a private plane and 0:26:53.840 --> 0:26:56.640 you could ride with other people. Well, now all them 0:26:56.640 --> 0:26:58.760 people are like jumping on them ships to go to 0:26:58.800 --> 0:27:02.280 their summer homes. Mom Tanna Wisconsin. All that ship like 0:27:02.640 --> 0:27:05.720 private planes are being flown now more than ever. They 0:27:05.760 --> 0:27:10.320 talk about like how those airports are completely congested. I 0:27:10.320 --> 0:27:13.600 mean with people like the smaller hubs, way more busy. 0:27:13.680 --> 0:27:15.760 It's like ten times the volume or some shi it. 0:27:16.040 --> 0:27:20.679 So it should be nice for the right. I'm like, 0:27:20.720 --> 0:27:22.280 I don't give a funk about these whole take of 0:27:22.320 --> 0:27:24.360 private planes. I ain't on a private lane. I don't 0:27:24.400 --> 0:27:29.840 give an I'm just assuming your nigga's rich. Yeah, but 0:27:29.920 --> 0:27:32.000 I'm still not going to an airport where I may 0:27:32.040 --> 0:27:34.600 have to share with people, like even though my niggas 0:27:34.600 --> 0:27:38.560 are rich, like being just put on a private plane. 0:27:38.800 --> 0:27:42.200 Like my homegirl works for Floyd Mayweather. He's not flying 0:27:42.320 --> 0:27:45.119 his bitches on a private plane. Like niggas aren't just 0:27:45.160 --> 0:27:48.280 sending pj's to to to send their work to come. 0:27:48.320 --> 0:27:53.600 I'm just trying to be going on fulfill this quarantine fantasy. Okay, 0:27:53.600 --> 0:27:56.720 that is not what you're Niggas ain't sending bitches on 0:27:56.800 --> 0:28:00.400 private Is the guy that you the guy that's out here, 0:28:00.520 --> 0:28:02.360 and if you can meet up with him, would you, 0:28:02.400 --> 0:28:04.560 would you still take the precaution, have the mask on 0:28:04.680 --> 0:28:08.080 and keep your gloves. Well, well, no, that's the thing. 0:28:08.119 --> 0:28:10.359 Like I mean, I've been I've been offered to be 0:28:10.480 --> 0:28:15.000 flown out to other cities, especially like um or guys 0:28:15.080 --> 0:28:19.080 flying too here, Like um, they lifted some ship in Texas, 0:28:19.560 --> 0:28:21.560 so one of my little work down there hit me 0:28:21.560 --> 0:28:23.400 and like, well they lifted shut up so I don't 0:28:23.400 --> 0:28:25.879 have to worry about quarantining when I get back. And 0:28:25.920 --> 0:28:28.400 I was like, no, think I'm good, but not like 0:28:28.840 --> 0:28:32.560 especially because like flying in or flying out of New York. 0:28:32.680 --> 0:28:36.439 You're going through one of these airports, and you know 0:28:36.440 --> 0:28:40.560 what I mean, whether it's JFK, whether it's Lagordia, um 0:28:40.720 --> 0:28:42.320 New Work. I mean, at the end of the day, 0:28:42.360 --> 0:28:44.440 we are in the epicenter where there's the most cases. 0:28:44.760 --> 0:28:47.360 So you're taking the risk going through that, and then 0:28:47.360 --> 0:28:49.280 when you land you gotta hop in ap uber Like 0:28:49.680 --> 0:28:52.840 to me, you're still exposing yourself to hundreds of people 0:28:52.920 --> 0:28:56.840 just by taking a flight exactly exactly. I think it's 0:28:57.400 --> 0:29:01.480 I don't know how much is Dick worth Dick gat workship. 0:29:01.520 --> 0:29:03.360 That's why I'm two months in. I ain't even had 0:29:03.560 --> 0:29:06.240 a local nigga come through, like even if he was 0:29:06.320 --> 0:29:09.360 right down or he or he can't come over. Now, 0:29:09.720 --> 0:29:12.040 that's what I'm saying. That's what I'm saying. If he 0:29:12.160 --> 0:29:14.840 was here, would you keep the gloves on, the mask 0:29:14.920 --> 0:29:20.240 and everything? I know? I know, well, I mean, I mean, 0:29:20.320 --> 0:29:22.560 I I mean I also just said to like, you know, 0:29:22.680 --> 0:29:25.720 if he was even in driving distance, Um, I mean 0:29:25.760 --> 0:29:28.960 I I had considered driving three hours for Dick when 0:29:28.960 --> 0:29:33.880 all of this started. Yeah, no it's not, but but 0:29:33.920 --> 0:29:36.680 that's what something else are we gonna do during the 0:29:36.800 --> 0:29:40.440 days I'm not even gonna hold you. I was considering 0:29:40.480 --> 0:29:43.240 getting a rental car and going on a road trip 0:29:43.280 --> 0:29:45.920 with body, just so that I could see the country 0:29:46.040 --> 0:29:49.080 side like a bitches bored. And then that's the thing, 0:29:49.160 --> 0:29:53.960 Like for for anyone listening, Um, it's it's even harder 0:29:54.080 --> 0:29:57.320 for like so myself. I don't have roommates, I don't 0:29:57.360 --> 0:29:59.760 have family here. I don't have a nigga that I'm 0:30:00.080 --> 0:30:03.520 can But also I don't have a balcony. I don't 0:30:03.520 --> 0:30:05.960 have a backyard. I mean, should as soon as I 0:30:06.040 --> 0:30:11.280 leave my building, I'm exposed to you know, ten a 0:30:11.360 --> 0:30:13.760 hundred people. Like I told y'all, I waited in line 0:30:14.080 --> 0:30:16.440 forty minutes just to get into Walgreens, which is my 0:30:16.480 --> 0:30:21.040 local wal Greens. So like, I mean, I'm literally staying inside. 0:30:21.200 --> 0:30:24.160 I mean, I get it. At this point, I think 0:30:24.200 --> 0:30:26.480 I really believe it's the grocery stores. If nothing else 0:30:26.560 --> 0:30:28.920 is open and we keep getting exposed, I mean, how 0:30:28.920 --> 0:30:32.080 else could it not be the grocery store? Thing? I 0:30:32.120 --> 0:30:35.280 want to it's the grocery store. I have an impromptu 0:30:35.400 --> 0:30:37.160 thing I want to spring on you guys, so blake 0:30:37.280 --> 0:30:40.520 every episode we do a whole mail but Mandy just 0:30:40.560 --> 0:30:43.680 made me think of it because she mentioned the word roommate. 0:30:43.840 --> 0:30:46.440 So one of my good friends, I'm gonna send this 0:30:46.440 --> 0:30:48.520 clip to him because he called me yesterday for advice. 0:30:48.720 --> 0:30:52.120 Lives with this chick. Not attracted to her, or said 0:30:52.160 --> 0:30:57.720 he really wasn't until until they've been quarantining. He's been 0:30:57.720 --> 0:31:00.280 sleeping with someone else. But they kind of stopped, and 0:31:00.360 --> 0:31:02.960 the girl was basically like, listen, we live in the 0:31:03.000 --> 0:31:05.760 same house. We're quarantining, Like, you're making me really uncomfortable 0:31:05.800 --> 0:31:07.480 even just going out and hugging her and going on 0:31:07.560 --> 0:31:09.680 walks with her. And he's like, I totally understand. I'll 0:31:09.680 --> 0:31:13.320 respect the boundary. So they get high. They're chilling watching TV, 0:31:13.440 --> 0:31:16.080 he says, which they always do, and she says, how 0:31:16.160 --> 0:31:19.320 did you feel about physical intimacy? He said that he 0:31:19.520 --> 0:31:23.360 never thought about having sex with her before, never crossed 0:31:23.360 --> 0:31:25.800 his mind. He's like, suddenly I noticed her ass like 0:31:26.000 --> 0:31:28.920 now I'm starting to like think about it, and he's like, 0:31:28.960 --> 0:31:30.880 and I don't know how long we'll be in this situation. 0:31:31.120 --> 0:31:33.480 She technically is the safest person I can have sex with. 0:31:34.040 --> 0:31:40.200 Should I do it? So I initially said no, until 0:31:41.240 --> 0:31:44.720 he was like, I mean what if we set ground 0:31:44.800 --> 0:31:46.880 rules like we can't do it in a common or 0:31:50.240 --> 0:31:52.960 is there any world that could exist where they could 0:31:53.000 --> 0:31:57.760 have sex, because I'm sure whether they could have sex, 0:31:57.800 --> 0:32:01.320 and then what like like in the way like is 0:32:01.360 --> 0:32:04.040 there a world like a space where it could work? 0:32:04.120 --> 0:32:05.880 What would they have to do? What boundaries do they 0:32:05.880 --> 0:32:09.040 need for it's not I mean you have to see 0:32:09.080 --> 0:32:12.720 her every day if you have your partner's coming over 0:32:13.000 --> 0:32:16.200 or she has her partners coming over and again, where 0:32:16.200 --> 0:32:19.920 you will become awkward or weird. Um. Also if you 0:32:19.920 --> 0:32:22.920 start to really like someone and then the conversation does 0:32:22.960 --> 0:32:25.880 come up that yeah, me and my roommate just once, 0:32:26.280 --> 0:32:29.600 it still becomes awkward. The same way, I don't recommend 0:32:29.760 --> 0:32:32.440 that anyone has sex with their boss or co workers. 0:32:32.920 --> 0:32:35.040 I don't believe you should. I don't believe you should 0:32:34.760 --> 0:32:37.280 ship where you eat or ship where you sleep or 0:32:37.360 --> 0:32:39.960 any of that. Ship. So I don't know. I don't 0:32:39.960 --> 0:32:42.480 think that that's okay. I think that the fact that 0:32:42.520 --> 0:32:47.360 he's even considering it now, no, it's just no, no, no. 0:32:48.200 --> 0:32:53.160 If what do you think if he doesn't see himself 0:32:54.040 --> 0:32:56.800 with being with the with the roommate, he doesn't see 0:32:56.840 --> 0:32:59.520 himself being with her, then no, but if he does 0:32:59.560 --> 0:33:02.920 see him stuff being with her and he really wants 0:33:02.960 --> 0:33:07.280 to try that, and he really wants to risk it, Yeo, 0:33:07.360 --> 0:33:09.480 I think he's going to. So now here's how he 0:33:09.520 --> 0:33:13.040 started to tell me, right, because immediately I'm like hell no, right, 0:33:13.080 --> 0:33:16.760 But then he was like, yo, it's already awkward because 0:33:16.760 --> 0:33:19.560 now she brought it up. He's like, so, I feel 0:33:19.600 --> 0:33:23.240 not awkward. You didn't never But what did he say? 0:33:23.280 --> 0:33:27.920 What did he say? Answer? What would he say? What 0:33:28.000 --> 0:33:30.120 did he say to her? Oh? He told her no. 0:33:30.360 --> 0:33:32.320 He said, I'm cool with like cuddling and stuff like that, 0:33:32.360 --> 0:33:34.560 but like, I just think that's too far, he said 0:33:34.560 --> 0:33:37.280 he and she was like all right, cool, and he 0:33:37.320 --> 0:33:39.440 said she went to bed. He said, but now he's 0:33:39.440 --> 0:33:41.520 been thinking about the ship like crazy, and he's like yo, 0:33:42.240 --> 0:33:44.520 he's like, it's not awkward, which shows that we can 0:33:44.640 --> 0:33:47.160 overcome the ship. And I'm like, bro, no, I mean 0:33:47.160 --> 0:33:49.240 because you haven't done it yet. You don't know the 0:33:49.280 --> 0:33:56.920 awkward trying to get something he never had before. And 0:33:56.960 --> 0:34:00.280 that's a thing like if a woman offers you pussy, Yeah, 0:34:00.480 --> 0:34:03.920 any nigga might start second guessing, like damn, well if 0:34:03.920 --> 0:34:06.560 it's there or why not. But nah, it's not. It's 0:34:06.600 --> 0:34:09.200 not worth it, not when you live with a person. Well, 0:34:10.480 --> 0:34:14.320 speaking of her, she also too like was a Caucasian woman, 0:34:14.719 --> 0:34:18.279 and today's episode, I want to I want to talk 0:34:18.280 --> 0:34:24.480 about interracial relationships a lot, because you know, so I 0:34:24.520 --> 0:34:26.080 really wanted to be honest with you. I've been wanting 0:34:26.120 --> 0:34:27.680 to have a black girl the day's white boys on 0:34:27.680 --> 0:34:29.880 the show because other than me, I feel like I 0:34:29.960 --> 0:34:31.960 meet them once in a blue and it's like, oh, 0:34:32.000 --> 0:34:34.560 I found one. But it's more common that we see 0:34:34.560 --> 0:34:37.799 black men with white women, and I feel like a 0:34:37.840 --> 0:34:40.600 lot of black men get berated online for it. I've 0:34:40.920 --> 0:34:43.440 made my jokes about it. Specifically, of course, athletes to 0:34:43.520 --> 0:34:45.960 end up with white women ship like that. I want 0:34:45.960 --> 0:34:48.320 to know what athletes. I mean. We've had the conversation 0:34:48.360 --> 0:34:49.799 and Blake I was like, I want you to know 0:34:50.200 --> 0:34:52.040 this is a this is a I mean, but it's 0:34:52.160 --> 0:34:54.799 down to the common people. You've said often that you 0:34:54.960 --> 0:34:57.200 kind of look at a black man with a white 0:34:57.200 --> 0:34:59.880 woman in a judging way. And We've had this conversation 0:35:00.080 --> 0:35:02.440 because Blake, my my mom is white and my dad 0:35:02.520 --> 0:35:05.919 is black, and so I you know, I've always been like, well, 0:35:06.360 --> 0:35:08.600 why would you look at it different. Mind you, both 0:35:08.640 --> 0:35:11.000 Wheezy and I are biracial, So I want to let 0:35:11.040 --> 0:35:13.120 you know that, like my mom is white, my dad 0:35:13.160 --> 0:35:15.279 is black, and Wheezy is on the other spectrum where 0:35:15.320 --> 0:35:17.920 her dad is white, her mom is black. And so 0:35:18.040 --> 0:35:21.000 I mean, I don't like the idea that you know, 0:35:21.960 --> 0:35:25.720 you know, there's any sort of weird looks at someone 0:35:25.760 --> 0:35:30.280 for dating someone um that's not their race, um soefically, 0:35:30.280 --> 0:35:32.399 because that's how I was raised. But I mean, but 0:35:32.400 --> 0:35:34.279 but I'm saying from my experience, and that's what I 0:35:34.280 --> 0:35:37.239 don't like. Like the idea that people would you know, 0:35:37.400 --> 0:35:39.839 look at me and my sisters with my white mom 0:35:39.880 --> 0:35:43.200 and ask if you know she was babysitting us or 0:35:43.440 --> 0:35:46.799 knowing that my mom went through um a lot of 0:35:46.800 --> 0:35:50.200 our family disowning us because we were part black. So 0:35:50.320 --> 0:35:54.319 the idea that there's any issue with interracial dating, knowing that, 0:35:54.440 --> 0:35:57.040 I mean, ship we're a melting pot in America. And 0:35:57.040 --> 0:36:00.360 of course, um, jazz Is is not a man American. 0:36:00.760 --> 0:36:03.680 But I'm yeah, I'm curious to talk to you about 0:36:04.000 --> 0:36:08.040 just your experience with interracial dating and and how dating 0:36:08.040 --> 0:36:12.680 a white woman has been with your family. Um, for sure, 0:36:12.800 --> 0:36:16.120 and and bringing her home and also your friends. So 0:36:16.120 --> 0:36:18.200 so I'm interested to hear all all of the questions 0:36:18.239 --> 0:36:26.680 that we have happened. So so that the whole interracial 0:36:27.000 --> 0:36:31.680 dating thing like that's nothing new, you know, that's nothing new, 0:36:32.239 --> 0:36:34.799 um with me. And I'm not saying like, oh yeah, 0:36:34.840 --> 0:36:37.040 that's I on only date Webmon bl blah blah. No, 0:36:37.120 --> 0:36:40.360 it has to do with where I grew up. Um. 0:36:40.400 --> 0:36:44.799 I was born in Inglewood, Um in l A. I 0:36:44.960 --> 0:36:49.560 moved to the valley when I was like eight. Um, 0:36:49.640 --> 0:36:54.040 and I moved to Calabasas. I live literally like right 0:36:54.080 --> 0:37:02.520 behind Calabasas High. Money. But Calabasas Nigga was how about 0:37:02.520 --> 0:37:07.520 the same black I used to be a product straight 0:37:08.239 --> 0:37:11.279 Inglewood to Caliba. Yeah. So I was born in eighty 0:37:11.360 --> 0:37:13.319 nine and you know my parents are doing their thing, 0:37:13.520 --> 0:37:17.000 you know. So, um so I lived out there and 0:37:17.120 --> 0:37:19.720 I I have my older brother. I have two older brothers. 0:37:19.840 --> 0:37:22.279 My oldest brother didn't he went to Inglewood High. But 0:37:22.360 --> 0:37:26.200 the one that's older than me, he lives in New York. Now, um, 0:37:26.280 --> 0:37:28.480 he went to Calabasas High. And I went to Calabasas 0:37:28.560 --> 0:37:33.279 High too. And now yeah there's a there's more black 0:37:33.320 --> 0:37:36.280 people there. But back then, like he graduated in two thousands. 0:37:36.480 --> 0:37:39.200 I graduated in two thousand seven, So even back then, 0:37:39.360 --> 0:37:42.759 like we were there, and I wouldn't I wouldn't say 0:37:42.760 --> 0:37:46.560 it's rare, but like, yeah, we're there, and around us 0:37:46.640 --> 0:37:48.640 is you know, it's white people, and there's other type 0:37:48.640 --> 0:37:50.720 of people there too, but mainly you know, white people 0:37:50.760 --> 0:37:53.480 that are there. And so I think like the first 0:37:53.520 --> 0:37:56.120 time I had like a like a white girlfriend, I 0:37:56.160 --> 0:37:59.520 think it was like middle school, and I guess that's 0:37:59.560 --> 0:38:01.400 like one you can call like real because it was 0:38:01.440 --> 0:38:04.080 more than like a couple of months, but one that 0:38:04.120 --> 0:38:06.920 I actually got serious with and then brought home and 0:38:07.239 --> 0:38:09.200 met my mom and my parents and everything, like I 0:38:09.239 --> 0:38:12.279 was in high school, and you know, they're fine with it. 0:38:12.400 --> 0:38:14.880 It's not like, you know, they had a problem with it. 0:38:15.440 --> 0:38:19.520 Um the ones that I've dated, like their parents who 0:38:19.680 --> 0:38:21.960 never really had a problem with it. I haven't, you know, 0:38:22.040 --> 0:38:24.800 I'm blessed to not have to experience that. But and 0:38:24.880 --> 0:38:27.520 the outside of the world, yeah, I've experienced ship like 0:38:27.520 --> 0:38:30.799 what cops and I Remebrite a book about dumb ship, 0:38:31.000 --> 0:38:33.000 you know, like not dumb ship, like dumb ship that 0:38:33.000 --> 0:38:35.600 has happened to me you know, like for quick example, 0:38:35.680 --> 0:38:37.759 like there was just one chick I was seeing and yeah, 0:38:37.800 --> 0:38:40.960 she's she was white, and I was driving and on 0:38:41.080 --> 0:38:44.480 pch and um, I'm driving back and then I get 0:38:44.520 --> 0:38:46.080 pulled over right before I get into it to paying 0:38:46.080 --> 0:38:48.839 a candy to head back towards you know, Calabassies and 0:38:49.080 --> 0:38:52.680 cop pulls me over and he separates both of us, 0:38:52.680 --> 0:38:56.400 and it starts to ask me questions, and you know, 0:38:56.520 --> 0:38:59.080 he's asking her like if she's okay live, like if 0:38:59.080 --> 0:39:00.919 we're seeing each other, and this and this and that, 0:39:01.480 --> 0:39:03.840 and he's like if I if I she told me that, 0:39:03.920 --> 0:39:08.040 like if she's been held for some reason, if something 0:39:08.080 --> 0:39:10.240 went wrong, And he's asking me like where I'm going, 0:39:10.880 --> 0:39:12.919 Like who she is? How do we know each other? 0:39:13.440 --> 0:39:15.399 Where do I get my car? This and this and that, 0:39:16.239 --> 0:39:18.239 you know, And that's just a mild story, Like I 0:39:18.320 --> 0:39:21.040 have stories, but that's just a mild thing, you know 0:39:21.040 --> 0:39:25.680 what I mean. So how about besides as far as 0:39:25.840 --> 0:39:28.640 my parents and I felt of people, like, yeah, we 0:39:28.760 --> 0:39:32.359 get looks, you know, I've got people always gonna look, 0:39:32.360 --> 0:39:34.400 you know, depending on the area that you're in, you know, 0:39:34.920 --> 0:39:38.440 but as far as like parents and the other person's parents, 0:39:38.520 --> 0:39:41.799 like having a problem with me. I haven't really seem 0:39:41.880 --> 0:39:48.560 that experience. Do you do you think that? Like, I 0:39:48.560 --> 0:39:51.640 don't know. I guess because you had experience, have you 0:39:51.680 --> 0:39:55.040 Do you have a type? No, I wouldn't No, I 0:39:55.040 --> 0:39:59.080 wouldn't say I have a type. Yeah, Like I would say, 0:39:59.160 --> 0:40:01.880 I'm not gonna like with listening to you though, you know, 0:40:01.960 --> 0:40:06.279 bringing up that you were, you know, in Calabasas and 0:40:06.360 --> 0:40:10.320 so I'm sure you're kind of a product of your environment, 0:40:10.360 --> 0:40:12.160 which is something we like to use a lot for 0:40:12.200 --> 0:40:14.680 people like me. The schools that I went to were 0:40:14.760 --> 0:40:18.480 majority black my almost my entire life, which is probably 0:40:18.480 --> 0:40:22.680 why I've never had, you know, any sort of crush 0:40:22.920 --> 0:40:25.920 or interaction or relationship with a white man because that 0:40:26.000 --> 0:40:28.840 wasn't what I grew up around. I always grew up around, 0:40:29.280 --> 0:40:32.560 you know, black people. That was my that that was 0:40:32.640 --> 0:40:35.279 my environment, that was my family because I didn't even 0:40:35.280 --> 0:40:37.359 hang you know, I didn't even hang around my white 0:40:37.400 --> 0:40:40.440 side that much because, like I said, my mom's family 0:40:40.480 --> 0:40:44.600 didn't really um, you know, partake in our upbringing. So 0:40:44.640 --> 0:40:47.800 to me, I would say, my type or the people 0:40:47.840 --> 0:40:50.120 I date is kind of just a product of my environment. 0:40:50.520 --> 0:40:53.520 Where it makes sense where you don't kind of see 0:40:53.920 --> 0:40:56.800 see it as I'm dating white girls and not black girls. 0:40:57.040 --> 0:41:00.600 I think my question to you is, um, which is 0:41:00.640 --> 0:41:04.839 I think when we sense the issue of interracial dating, 0:41:04.880 --> 0:41:07.680 where a black man goes after a woman is when 0:41:07.719 --> 0:41:11.520 they undermine why they don't like black women. Now, so 0:41:11.640 --> 0:41:21.160 my question to you is, yeah, um, like it's funny. Um, 0:41:21.200 --> 0:41:23.640 before me and Jasmine had you know, before me and 0:41:23.680 --> 0:41:27.560 Jasmine were talking, before we had met, Um, I actually 0:41:27.719 --> 0:41:29.520 was dating one and like for a year and a half, 0:41:29.640 --> 0:41:34.960 you know, and it's not the first time, you know, 0:41:35.239 --> 0:41:41.040 and one of the first times. So I'm trying to 0:41:41.040 --> 0:41:43.000 remember the questions, you know, asking like, oh, how about 0:41:43.040 --> 0:41:44.600 your family and friends and stuff? And they didn't think 0:41:44.640 --> 0:41:46.719 it was weird even though that like they didn't see 0:41:46.760 --> 0:41:48.680 it wasn't it's not asked commin And I'm not sick. 0:41:49.080 --> 0:41:53.080 That's interesting that right before you dated her black woman, 0:41:53.160 --> 0:41:57.239 did you did you have any reaction like from your 0:41:57.239 --> 0:41:59.120 ex where it was like, okay, well you married her, 0:41:59.160 --> 0:42:02.000 but not feelings from the black women you've dated where 0:42:02.000 --> 0:42:06.319 they felt like no, not just from like because like 0:42:06.360 --> 0:42:11.400 I said, it wasn't just it wasn't just one or two. Um, 0:42:11.560 --> 0:42:15.319 but the one like like before, which is the one 0:42:15.320 --> 0:42:18.960 I'm talking about. Um, yeah, she obviously has something to 0:42:19.080 --> 0:42:20.680 say and that doesn't have anything to do with her 0:42:20.760 --> 0:42:23.680 being white or black or whatever, you know what I mean. 0:42:23.719 --> 0:42:26.000 That has just to do I guess with the timing 0:42:26.360 --> 0:42:29.120 of things. But you know, things weren't working out between 0:42:29.120 --> 0:42:31.640 me and her and everything's cool, you know, and it's 0:42:31.640 --> 0:42:35.000 not like we're on bad terms. It's just you know, 0:42:36.400 --> 0:42:38.440 like I said, I really don't have a type. I'm 0:42:38.440 --> 0:42:41.640 just more you know people person. Did you did you 0:42:41.680 --> 0:42:45.200 have some um, some feedback from people like you know, 0:42:45.440 --> 0:42:48.200 you you put your relationship on TV, and of course 0:42:48.239 --> 0:42:49.960 I know that could be hard because like you already 0:42:49.960 --> 0:42:52.000 have everybody jumping in and telling you how to run 0:42:52.040 --> 0:42:54.960 your relationship. Did you have people go on there? I 0:42:55.560 --> 0:42:57.359 had read one thing about you that I was like, 0:42:58.400 --> 0:43:00.840 someone was like, oh, of course he he would be 0:43:00.840 --> 0:43:02.400 the one day to white girl. Did you do you 0:43:02.440 --> 0:43:04.600 ever did you here see stuff like that where people 0:43:04.600 --> 0:43:06.799 were like, well, he's the type to day to white girl. 0:43:06.840 --> 0:43:08.560 Did you How did you feel about reading things like 0:43:08.600 --> 0:43:11.799 that about your interracial relationship online? Hold on? Like this 0:43:11.840 --> 0:43:17.160 thing just fell um Like I said, Um, at first, 0:43:17.200 --> 0:43:19.960 you know we got on the show, and when we 0:43:20.000 --> 0:43:21.880 did it, you know, Johnson was a fan, you know, 0:43:22.560 --> 0:43:26.080 a fan of the Soul and you know, and from 0:43:26.160 --> 0:43:27.839 the way that you know, they pitched it to us 0:43:27.880 --> 0:43:29.360 and told us everything and how we were going to 0:43:29.400 --> 0:43:31.279 do it. You know, I didn't mind, you know, I 0:43:31.320 --> 0:43:33.920 didn't mind how you know, being on the show and 0:43:33.960 --> 0:43:36.000 putting it out there and stuff. And now that I 0:43:36.040 --> 0:43:38.400 see that it is and it's a little bit different, 0:43:39.040 --> 0:43:42.600 it's a little bit different from what actually happens. Um. 0:43:42.680 --> 0:43:46.759 So when it comes to people telling me about my 0:43:46.840 --> 0:43:49.160 relationship like number one, like I said, like I've lived 0:43:49.719 --> 0:43:51.760 I was living out in the valley and being around 0:43:51.800 --> 0:43:56.120 that for and dated like different white women and you know, yeah, 0:43:56.280 --> 0:43:58.640 I haven't had anything to encounter, but if somebody did, 0:43:58.719 --> 0:44:00.440 you know, it's not like it really gets me. So 0:44:00.520 --> 0:44:03.360 now it's just people that like actually don't even know me, 0:44:03.400 --> 0:44:06.200 that actually haven't even seen me in her you know, 0:44:06.320 --> 0:44:10.319 judging from edited version of me, you know what I mean, 0:44:10.880 --> 0:44:14.000 not like re over. I guess my my question to 0:44:14.040 --> 0:44:18.160 you is now now that you're open to critique, um, 0:44:18.200 --> 0:44:20.680 you know, for being on a TV show and actually 0:44:21.000 --> 0:44:24.040 having just the world give all of their unsolicited opinions 0:44:24.040 --> 0:44:27.480 on your relationship. Do you feel like you're getting more 0:44:27.560 --> 0:44:30.440 slack for being a black man dating a white woman, 0:44:30.760 --> 0:44:33.600 or do you think that she gets more slack for 0:44:33.680 --> 0:44:36.000 being a white woman choosing to date a black man. 0:44:40.840 --> 0:44:47.800 I would say, like shit, I would say, like maybe 0:44:47.920 --> 0:44:55.919 her because okay, because the whole fact that she's from 0:44:55.920 --> 0:44:58.040 over from Finland, she's not from here, you know what 0:44:58.040 --> 0:44:59.720 I mean, the whole oh, she's just doing it because 0:44:59.800 --> 0:45:02.719 she's a green card and the fact that it's in 0:45:02.800 --> 0:45:07.000 a racial so it's like really, you know, like when 0:45:07.000 --> 0:45:08.640 they when they talk about that, it's it's always the 0:45:08.640 --> 0:45:11.400 green card too, you know what I mean? You know 0:45:11.520 --> 0:45:13.880 that that kind of gets exhausting with That's why we 0:45:14.000 --> 0:45:15.600 just like tune it out. Let's be real here, Like 0:45:15.640 --> 0:45:17.759 she's a she's a she's a pretty girl. So like 0:45:17.800 --> 0:45:20.040 I feel like y'all is a little different, like when 0:45:20.040 --> 0:45:24.040 we're watching them, like Nigerian instance, Like you know, when 0:45:24.040 --> 0:45:26.120 you're when you have two people that at the same 0:45:26.160 --> 0:45:29.280 age and they're attractive, like you can understand and connect 0:45:29.320 --> 0:45:31.920 with that more. But I hear what you're saying. I 0:45:32.000 --> 0:45:36.120 am curious to know. Like I said, she was a 0:45:36.160 --> 0:45:39.400 fan of it and and and the whole edit and 0:45:39.400 --> 0:45:42.160 how everything came out. Yeah, it's messed up, and we 0:45:42.160 --> 0:45:43.680 we kind of tune it out. I'm not going to 0:45:43.760 --> 0:45:45.400 say that we didn't pay attention to it, like, no, 0:45:45.520 --> 0:45:47.319 we did, like when things came out and it was 0:45:47.360 --> 0:45:49.880 aired and stuff like, we pay attention to you know, 0:45:49.880 --> 0:45:51.759 what people have said and are. But I would try 0:45:51.760 --> 0:45:53.920 to make sure that she because I would go to 0:45:53.920 --> 0:45:55.200 work and do my thing and I'm trying to make 0:45:55.239 --> 0:45:57.520 sure that she's not here just looking at Reddit and 0:45:57.719 --> 0:45:59.239 seeing all that ship because it can be crazy and 0:45:59.280 --> 0:46:01.239 you give me brutal, you know what I mean. But 0:46:01.960 --> 0:46:04.120 I don't think that you guys actually looked too bad. 0:46:04.280 --> 0:46:06.239 The only thing that I that I thought made it 0:46:06.280 --> 0:46:08.120 look bad and then I wanted to ask you about, 0:46:08.239 --> 0:46:11.880 was with with your mom um. So Mandy, there's this 0:46:11.960 --> 0:46:14.200 scene where his mom where you guys coming the island. 0:46:16.800 --> 0:46:18.759 So his mom is making some kind of food I 0:46:18.800 --> 0:46:21.560 don't know what it was or whatever, and she's chopping 0:46:21.640 --> 0:46:25.480 up every onion, every pepper, all of it and she's like, 0:46:25.520 --> 0:46:28.600 oh my god, right jazz. And I'm curious to know, 0:46:28.680 --> 0:46:31.759 like how cultural difference is, you know, for people that 0:46:31.800 --> 0:46:34.360 are listening that are may be interested in dating outside 0:46:34.360 --> 0:46:37.160 of their race and things like that, Like, has that 0:46:37.400 --> 0:46:39.840 been like hard for you? Because for me when I 0:46:39.920 --> 0:46:42.080 date European guys, I always feel like, oh my god, 0:46:42.080 --> 0:46:43.960 this is hard, Like I'm missing something, whether it's a 0:46:44.000 --> 0:46:46.080 relation to hip hop and jazz said she don't really 0:46:46.120 --> 0:46:50.640 like rap like that, Like I said that the whole edit, 0:46:50.680 --> 0:46:53.960 the whole fun man, that whole edit is just it's 0:46:54.080 --> 0:46:58.239 it's jack because when she when she when she's doing 0:46:58.239 --> 0:47:00.320 her thing and she's she's working out, she listens to 0:47:00.360 --> 0:47:02.879 her a little Nicki Minaj and some wrap here and there, 0:47:02.920 --> 0:47:04.640 and she does her think so it's not like, oh, 0:47:04.719 --> 0:47:06.879 I don't like rap. And then when they and then 0:47:06.920 --> 0:47:08.719 like when they say the salt and pepper thing, like 0:47:08.880 --> 0:47:11.680 she was talking about like her workout food that she eats, 0:47:11.719 --> 0:47:13.520 like when it's like a workout meal, you know what 0:47:13.600 --> 0:47:15.960 I mean, not like what she eats on a daily basis, 0:47:16.200 --> 0:47:21.600 So it really throws you off, you know. So um, yes, 0:47:21.680 --> 0:47:26.400 and I just need to know did she eat the pickle? People? Fuck? No, 0:47:29.160 --> 0:47:33.440 I don't care if it's spicy, don't because my people know, 0:47:33.560 --> 0:47:40.160 we gotta ask. Blake talking about the spaghetti that she makes. O. 0:47:40.480 --> 0:47:43.400 I'm so glad that you're Haitian. Tell me you have 0:47:43.480 --> 0:47:49.439 had the Haitian spaghetti with the hot dogs and look 0:47:49.920 --> 0:47:55.799 yeah like spaghetti stuff. Hell yeah, of course, of course, yes, 0:47:57.880 --> 0:48:00.000 chopped up. I'm gonna sit with Jazz on this one 0:48:00.000 --> 0:48:04.719 and say, I don't eat she eats. She eats all 0:48:04.760 --> 0:48:07.320 of it. So the cortial difference things like, she hasn't 0:48:07.360 --> 0:48:09.600 really we haven't really had a problem with it. And um, 0:48:10.320 --> 0:48:12.000 as far as food wise, you know what I mean, 0:48:12.400 --> 0:48:15.439 it's real easy to eat. Like sometimes it's mainly like me, 0:48:16.600 --> 0:48:18.160 like when we go out and get something to eat, 0:48:18.200 --> 0:48:21.359 you know, she's down for anything. Um as far as 0:48:21.480 --> 0:48:24.799 like um you know, like like he was saying, the 0:48:24.840 --> 0:48:27.319 hip hop thing like music stuff like some thing's like yeah, 0:48:27.440 --> 0:48:29.680 like sometimes I get into my real trap stuff, you 0:48:29.680 --> 0:48:31.719 know what I mean, and she's she's just over it. 0:48:32.360 --> 0:48:37.359 She's over it. But but I mean I think that's 0:48:37.400 --> 0:48:39.520 common though. Like I remember there was a guy that 0:48:39.640 --> 0:48:42.920 came over and he was Dominican. He was mixed, but 0:48:42.960 --> 0:48:45.439 he was mixed with Dominican and he put on its 0:48:45.440 --> 0:48:47.640 own and I was not feeling it. I said, Nigga, 0:48:47.680 --> 0:48:54.360 this is an English speaking household, please like I was 0:48:54.440 --> 0:48:57.400 not here like and and I mean, I'm just not 0:48:57.520 --> 0:48:59.520 interested in I don't think I would feel offended. Or 0:49:00.000 --> 0:49:02.000 if anyone said they didn't want to listen to reggae 0:49:02.320 --> 0:49:07.120 you know, which comes you know, from Jamaica, it seems 0:49:07.160 --> 0:49:10.759 like like, um oh they like there was a part 0:49:10.840 --> 0:49:12.799 you know, it's like, oh jazz it says Jasmine doesn't 0:49:12.840 --> 0:49:15.320 like his music and blah blah blah blah blah, listen 0:49:15.320 --> 0:49:20.800 this and that. Um like I said that, that's that's okay. 0:49:21.320 --> 0:49:23.479 It's like, okay, even if she didn't like she does, 0:49:23.719 --> 0:49:27.520 you know what I mean. But even if she didn't um. 0:49:27.520 --> 0:49:29.839 As far, it's not just me as an artist as 0:49:29.840 --> 0:49:31.880 far as the production, the stuff that it goes into it, 0:49:31.880 --> 0:49:33.839 like when I'm playing my chords and my beads, like 0:49:34.120 --> 0:49:35.960 she sees all of it and she likes that, you 0:49:35.960 --> 0:49:38.560 know what I mean. But when it's the final product 0:49:38.800 --> 0:49:40.880 and people are talking about bitches and holes and pussy 0:49:40.960 --> 0:49:42.640 this and pussy and then she's like, I don't want 0:49:42.640 --> 0:49:45.600 to hear that. So it's like the instrument. If I'm 0:49:45.640 --> 0:49:48.640 being real, I don't know if my boyfriend likes my podcast, 0:49:48.880 --> 0:49:52.120 he loves seeing the shows, he loves seeing what I 0:49:52.200 --> 0:49:54.719 do and the people that we affect, and the touring ship. 0:49:54.800 --> 0:49:56.480 I don't know if he's just gonna pop that ship 0:49:56.600 --> 0:49:58.560 on on the train, if that's really his thing, if 0:49:58.600 --> 0:50:01.759 it wasn't a think that's okay. And exactly, you know, 0:50:01.840 --> 0:50:03.880 and and and and you know, there's gonna be a 0:50:03.880 --> 0:50:06.360 topic that eventually he's gonna listen to, you know what 0:50:06.360 --> 0:50:10.920 I mean? You know it's not even topics here. I 0:50:10.960 --> 0:50:13.160 mean I agree with that, like as a creative I 0:50:13.160 --> 0:50:15.200 mean it just as a human being we have It 0:50:15.239 --> 0:50:18.239 doesn't matter our color, it doesn't matter our ethnicity or race, 0:50:18.360 --> 0:50:22.600 like we like things differently, and even when we're with 0:50:22.680 --> 0:50:25.680 our partners, I think it's important for us to be 0:50:25.840 --> 0:50:28.040 true to who we are. So like, you know, even me, 0:50:28.160 --> 0:50:30.600 like I'm a fan of basketball, nigger, if you end 0:50:30.680 --> 0:50:32.480 up on a team I don't like, I'm sorry, I'm 0:50:32.520 --> 0:50:34.080 not rooting for it yet, you know what I mean. 0:50:34.400 --> 0:50:39.680 I mean, just it is what it is. I mean, 0:50:39.719 --> 0:50:43.479 I might root for him and exactly exactly knowing that, 0:50:43.719 --> 0:50:47.279 knowing that, knowing that I'm a fan of say, you know, 0:50:47.320 --> 0:50:49.680 I grew up in Orlando, I'm a Magic fan. If 0:50:49.719 --> 0:50:51.759 they go against the Lakers, which I know I have 0:50:51.880 --> 0:50:54.959 not liked the Lakers four years on end, I'm gonna 0:50:55.000 --> 0:50:58.360 be like, go Magic, but they got home exactly exactly 0:50:58.480 --> 0:51:01.839 as long. It's exactly that. That's what I'm saying, So 0:51:02.280 --> 0:51:04.960 she don't she don't like to have to point from 0:51:05.000 --> 0:51:08.640 that to those is like just knowing that not every 0:51:08.680 --> 0:51:11.200 couple has to blend their interests so much. And I 0:51:11.239 --> 0:51:13.839 feel like that happens a lot when someone's like, oh, 0:51:13.960 --> 0:51:16.200 like we don't like the same stuff, and da da da, 0:51:16.719 --> 0:51:19.040 Like I really do believe that opposites can attract, and 0:51:19.040 --> 0:51:21.040 I believe that you can show some interest and the 0:51:21.120 --> 0:51:23.080 things that your partner loves, But I really have never 0:51:23.120 --> 0:51:26.479 found it necessary. Like, you know, it's something I really 0:51:26.520 --> 0:51:28.480 liked about you guys that I mentioned to a friend 0:51:28.520 --> 0:51:31.080 of mine who doesn't drink is so Blake drinks and 0:51:31.160 --> 0:51:33.120 Jazz doesn't, And it came up a few times in 0:51:33.160 --> 0:51:35.560 the show, and I'm like, I don't think that ship 0:51:35.600 --> 0:51:38.920 is that wild, Like like, if I like to party, 0:51:39.160 --> 0:51:40.480 don't get me wrong, it would be a cool if 0:51:40.480 --> 0:51:43.719 your party with me, but I don't need you for it, Like, yeah, 0:51:43.760 --> 0:51:46.400 I drink and a lot of my niggas don't drink them, 0:51:47.080 --> 0:51:49.480 so they'd even let me. And I wasn't able to 0:51:49.520 --> 0:51:51.919 even say that, like I smoke more, you know, And 0:51:52.440 --> 0:51:54.160 it's not like I have a problem with me. If 0:51:54.160 --> 0:51:56.560 I had a problem, then she she could not like 0:51:56.719 --> 0:51:58.600 me doing it. But it's not like that much of 0:51:58.600 --> 0:52:01.520 a problem. You know. It's only special occasions. And I'm 0:52:01.560 --> 0:52:03.600 drinking her birthday to drink like she was like the 0:52:03.600 --> 0:52:05.480 other not too long ago. Last month we were out 0:52:05.480 --> 0:52:09.279 of this quarantine, she was drinking king straight, so you 0:52:09.320 --> 0:52:14.200 know what I mean. Yes, that's what I said, but 0:52:14.320 --> 0:52:15.960 you know what I mean, and it's and that's what 0:52:15.960 --> 0:52:17.719 I'm saying. So yeah, this thing is in there. But 0:52:17.760 --> 0:52:19.799 at the same time, yeah, we don't. We don't. She 0:52:19.840 --> 0:52:21.439 doesn't like you know, she said, she doesn't like putting 0:52:21.440 --> 0:52:23.680 poison in her body. So for her, like it's more strict, 0:52:23.719 --> 0:52:26.959 But for me, it's just you know, special occasions, things 0:52:26.960 --> 0:52:30.200 with clients that I'm making productions for. We celebrate and 0:52:30.200 --> 0:52:32.799 that's it. I'm not blacking out, you know what I mean. 0:52:32.800 --> 0:52:34.440 I'm not saying I haven't you know, I've done my 0:52:34.560 --> 0:52:37.919 things in college or whatever. I have party. It's it's 0:52:38.200 --> 0:52:41.080 four o'clock. I don't had two vodka, Solda's already well. 0:52:41.200 --> 0:52:44.799 Speaking of blacking out, my last question would be how 0:52:44.800 --> 0:52:47.040 do you make sure in an in a relation relationship, 0:52:47.040 --> 0:52:48.800 because I think that we all have are owe that 0:52:48.880 --> 0:52:51.200 due diligence and not just being with someone white, but 0:52:51.360 --> 0:52:55.200 like even Latino or whatever. How do you make sure 0:52:55.280 --> 0:52:57.279 that you're and what steps do you take to teach 0:52:57.360 --> 0:52:59.880 jazz about your culture? Like I think it's important that 0:53:00.320 --> 0:53:02.839 when I'm dating a white guy or like, you know, 0:53:02.960 --> 0:53:05.479 making sure that they know how important being pro black 0:53:05.600 --> 0:53:10.120 is to me. And yeah, I'm just curious, like what 0:53:10.200 --> 0:53:12.560 things you've had to maybe teach her since you've moved 0:53:12.560 --> 0:53:13.880 here or do you feel like it was important to 0:53:13.880 --> 0:53:17.160 talk about Like I had to show a dude Chakazoolu once. OK. 0:53:17.920 --> 0:53:23.400 No I um um um? So what what what I 0:53:23.520 --> 0:53:25.719 what I try to do? Yeah, Like I tell her 0:53:25.840 --> 0:53:29.319 things from like my experience, and what really helps is 0:53:29.840 --> 0:53:34.080 like movies and or documentaries about certain things you know, 0:53:34.400 --> 0:53:40.239 and um that I think right there is one way 0:53:40.280 --> 0:53:44.560 of you know, showing her you know, um, because my 0:53:44.560 --> 0:53:47.640 my brother lives like on Florence and Normandy and I 0:53:47.719 --> 0:53:49.680 used to live with my brother, and those are like 0:53:50.080 --> 0:53:53.439 historical streets, like yeah, that's like historical streets, like whether 0:53:53.520 --> 0:53:55.440 riot's like I don't know if you remember whether that 0:53:55.520 --> 0:53:57.719 I damn, I forgot his name. I'm blinking out on it. 0:53:57.760 --> 0:53:59.960 But when the riots were going on and that guy 0:54:00.000 --> 0:54:02.440 it wasn't like in a big eighteen wheeler and they 0:54:02.440 --> 0:54:03.920 grabbed him out of the car and just like hit 0:54:03.960 --> 0:54:06.000 him with a brick like that was right there like 0:54:06.080 --> 0:54:09.600 those streets anyway, So I tell her about it, you 0:54:09.600 --> 0:54:10.799 know what I mean. And the way I told her 0:54:10.800 --> 0:54:13.040 about it was just like like a video clip that 0:54:13.080 --> 0:54:15.040 I was watching, like they had a documentary on it, 0:54:15.640 --> 0:54:17.880 and um, so it's just here and there, you know, 0:54:17.960 --> 0:54:21.239 like little by little. I'm trying not to put too 0:54:21.320 --> 0:54:23.319 much to where it's like it could be overwhelming or 0:54:23.360 --> 0:54:27.239 you know, forgetful, but um you know, I think what 0:54:27.360 --> 0:54:29.799 really helps is just like movies and documunities and you know, 0:54:29.880 --> 0:54:32.480 telling her experiences that I've had, you know, like the 0:54:32.520 --> 0:54:35.080 story I told you guys about me pulled over, like 0:54:35.120 --> 0:54:36.759 I told her that, you know, I told there are 0:54:36.760 --> 0:54:38.640 plenty stories that I've happened with me and the cops. 0:54:38.719 --> 0:54:41.480 And because of things that I've happened. So you know, 0:54:41.520 --> 0:54:46.279 I tried to touch on every subject. You know, we're 0:54:47.920 --> 0:54:51.000 white people are Yeah, well, I was gonna say, I 0:54:51.040 --> 0:54:54.520 think that's very important because even when I went to London, UM, 0:54:55.080 --> 0:54:57.719 I was even around black men there, they don't understand 0:54:57.880 --> 0:55:03.000 the plight of or the lation between black African Americans 0:55:03.480 --> 0:55:06.439 here and the police. So knowing that she's coming from 0:55:06.480 --> 0:55:10.279 feeling where, you know, the engagement between cops and black 0:55:10.320 --> 0:55:13.560 men may not necessarily be as extreme as it is here, 0:55:13.960 --> 0:55:16.239 I think that that's definitely important to share and to 0:55:16.320 --> 0:55:18.680 talk about, um, just so that she can gather more 0:55:18.719 --> 0:55:21.640 of what your experience is like, you know, being here 0:55:22.000 --> 0:55:25.120 and even being out with her and people view you um, 0:55:25.200 --> 0:55:27.360 because of course I don't think she views you that way, 0:55:27.480 --> 0:55:30.359 but I think it's important for her to know, you know, 0:55:30.440 --> 0:55:35.279 kind of your struggle as a black man. And I 0:55:35.280 --> 0:55:36.920 do let her. I I let her know, you know, 0:55:36.920 --> 0:55:39.120 as much as I can. And you know, there's like 0:55:39.200 --> 0:55:42.719 little things like depending on which area will be in, 0:55:43.360 --> 0:55:45.319 I could be driving and I'll have my hat on 0:55:45.400 --> 0:55:47.239 and I'll take it off and like show wonder why, 0:55:47.280 --> 0:55:48.919 and then I'll tell her why, you know what I mean, 0:55:48.960 --> 0:55:50.879 because like that's the kind of shift they look for, 0:55:51.239 --> 0:55:53.960 you know, it's straight up like even though like everything, 0:55:54.000 --> 0:55:56.400 I don't have nothing on me, even though I'm fine, 0:55:56.440 --> 0:55:59.440 it's just I just do it just because I don't 0:55:59.440 --> 0:56:01.040 want to. I don't don't want that problem because it's 0:56:01.040 --> 0:56:04.040 happened before, thankfully, you know, I know, dumb ship like 0:56:04.080 --> 0:56:07.440 that has happened in a long time, but it has 0:56:07.480 --> 0:56:09.279 happened before. And it's not like I'm gonna, you know, 0:56:10.000 --> 0:56:11.960 be lightly on it. You know, so if if I 0:56:11.960 --> 0:56:14.680 could take their precautions, I can take the precautions, and so, 0:56:15.120 --> 0:56:16.880 you know, because it's having multiple time until where she 0:56:16.960 --> 0:56:18.160 was just like yeo, why do you keep doing that? 0:56:18.239 --> 0:56:22.600 And then so I tell her why, you know. So, well, 0:56:22.640 --> 0:56:24.600 at least you dated a blackbouf before Blake, because I 0:56:24.960 --> 0:56:27.799 was I wasn't sure when you started with Calabasas. I 0:56:27.880 --> 0:56:30.960 was like no, no, no, and and and and you know, 0:56:31.040 --> 0:56:33.560 and the ones that I've dated they weren't from around 0:56:33.640 --> 0:56:36.520 that area, like one it was, one wasn't, the other 0:56:36.520 --> 0:56:40.279 one wasn't and no, no, the other one wasn't yet. 0:56:40.320 --> 0:56:42.520 So but I mean, at least you had a mixed 0:56:42.520 --> 0:56:45.080 bag bag though I think like there are sometimes like 0:56:45.160 --> 0:56:47.319 serial daters, and that's when stuff gets weird, right when 0:56:47.320 --> 0:56:49.319 it's like the whole fetishizing thing. But I mean when 0:56:49.360 --> 0:56:51.279 people date for people, that's the beautiful thing. I think 0:56:51.320 --> 0:56:53.839 I'm one of those people. Yea. And even though right 0:56:53.880 --> 0:56:56.399 now my boyfriend's black, I'm going through this phase where 0:56:56.400 --> 0:56:57.759 like I look at like a bunch of white guys 0:56:57.760 --> 0:57:00.920 on the street and I'm like, oh, I feel good. 0:57:02.920 --> 0:57:05.000 That's that's that's just like that's just being like people 0:57:05.080 --> 0:57:07.719 person and it's cool because like it's not like I 0:57:07.760 --> 0:57:09.120 forget where I come from, you know what I mean. 0:57:09.160 --> 0:57:11.600 It's just like people like that I've met me from 0:57:11.640 --> 0:57:13.480 being over there. They think that that I only only 0:57:13.520 --> 0:57:15.520 from the valley. It's like, No, I was born in Inglewood, 0:57:15.520 --> 0:57:17.680 you know what I mean. And it's not like I 0:57:17.760 --> 0:57:20.320 left Inglewood when I was like three, Like I left 0:57:20.320 --> 0:57:22.080 when I was at an old enough age to see 0:57:22.080 --> 0:57:24.320 the differences of where I'm going where I'm living now, 0:57:24.640 --> 0:57:27.000 you know what I mean, living there. How the difference 0:57:27.040 --> 0:57:28.560 was when I was living in l A As opposed 0:57:28.560 --> 0:57:30.640 to living in the valley, because I was still going 0:57:30.680 --> 0:57:32.479 back and forth and being with my mom and going 0:57:32.520 --> 0:57:35.600 back to her because she's um. She does she owns 0:57:35.600 --> 0:57:37.600 a hair salon, so like sometimes I'll go with her 0:57:37.640 --> 0:57:39.760 to work from how Baster's to l A, you know. 0:57:39.800 --> 0:57:42.680 So I'm still seeing the differences between the two. So 0:57:42.920 --> 0:57:44.840 I just feel real blessed to you know, be on 0:57:44.880 --> 0:57:47.280 that side. So as far as me being a people person, yeah, 0:57:47.280 --> 0:57:51.919 I don't think there's like this one strict type you know. Yeah, 0:57:52.200 --> 0:57:55.240 that's dope. Well, I'm I'm glad we talked about it. 0:57:55.280 --> 0:57:57.120 We're gonna get into our last segment, which is our 0:57:57.120 --> 0:57:58.760 whole male. I don't know if you guys could give 0:57:58.800 --> 0:58:01.840 advice on this. I feel of like maybe not for 0:58:01.880 --> 0:58:06.800 you and jazz, but whatever. So this says, hey, ladies, 0:58:06.840 --> 0:58:09.120 you'll hear it. I'm just gonna jump right into it. 0:58:09.120 --> 0:58:11.160 This may not may or may not be a long one. 0:58:11.200 --> 0:58:13.480 But my husband really wants to have a threesome, like 0:58:13.600 --> 0:58:16.320 really bad. I'm not scared because I do like girls, 0:58:16.320 --> 0:58:18.360 and I've had three sums before, but that was before 0:58:18.440 --> 0:58:20.880 mine and his relationship. We have two kids together, and 0:58:20.920 --> 0:58:24.160 since having them, I'm extremely self conscious about him about 0:58:24.160 --> 0:58:26.560 my body. It took me forever to get used to 0:58:26.600 --> 0:58:29.200 him seeing my body after kids, so I'm nervous about 0:58:29.240 --> 0:58:31.160 getting someone else to go down on me. My husband 0:58:31.200 --> 0:58:32.960 loves to do what he says, I smell good, tastes good, 0:58:32.960 --> 0:58:34.440 all of that, but I still feel a way, and 0:58:34.480 --> 0:58:36.920 he says he knows it's because of how self conscious 0:58:36.960 --> 0:58:38.600 I am. I don't want to do it with someone 0:58:38.640 --> 0:58:40.160 I don't know for that reason, and I'm scared of 0:58:40.200 --> 0:58:42.440 a stranger because of STDs. And if I ever build 0:58:42.480 --> 0:58:46.000 up the courage, how do I start? I love the podcast, 0:58:46.120 --> 0:58:49.200 keep up the work sign. Finally confident, but not that confident. 0:58:53.240 --> 0:58:56.840 First off, i'd have told y'all holes, I'm feting recent questions. 0:58:56.880 --> 0:59:02.000 Good God, damn, I'm fucking fed. Jesus Christ. We're in quarantine. 0:59:02.080 --> 0:59:05.360 So you can't have a threesome no time soon anyways. Um, 0:59:05.440 --> 0:59:08.640 she did say she was subconscious about That's really what 0:59:08.720 --> 0:59:10.880 made me want to bring it up though, because I 0:59:10.920 --> 0:59:13.880 feel like for another woman, I feel like women are 0:59:14.160 --> 0:59:18.040 so much easier to have sex with than men and 0:59:18.120 --> 0:59:21.919 be comfortable about. Just personally speaking, I actually, I mean, 0:59:21.960 --> 0:59:25.280 I actually think differently. I remember one of the threesomes 0:59:25.360 --> 0:59:28.880 that I had with a partner. Um, me and me 0:59:28.920 --> 0:59:31.480 and him knew each other, and he and her knew 0:59:31.480 --> 0:59:34.360 each other. Um. And one of the first things that 0:59:34.400 --> 0:59:37.400 she actually told me was the reason she enjoyed the 0:59:37.440 --> 0:59:39.560 threesome and even had the threesoms because we were the 0:59:39.600 --> 0:59:43.000 same size. She said, had I been any smaller, there 0:59:43.040 --> 0:59:45.840 would have been an insecurity there for her. So I 0:59:45.880 --> 0:59:49.000 think also the insecurity of a woman having a better 0:59:49.080 --> 0:59:53.040 body than you, being with another woman necessarily doesn't bring 0:59:53.440 --> 0:59:57.360 more comfort because now you're comparing your breast to her breast, 0:59:57.560 --> 1:00:01.120 her vaginay, your vagina. I actually think there's more pressure, um, 1:00:01.160 --> 1:00:03.720 with bringing another woman into the bedroom if you're already 1:00:03.720 --> 1:00:08.040 insecure with yourself specifically, because now if your partner shows 1:00:08.040 --> 1:00:11.520 her any more attention, that insecurity is gonna go into 1:00:11.520 --> 1:00:13.840 your head about does he like something on her more 1:00:13.880 --> 1:00:17.080 than me? I think, um, the idea of bringing another 1:00:17.120 --> 1:00:20.720 partner into the bedroom, specifically another woman, when you're insecure 1:00:20.800 --> 1:00:23.680 with how you look, is something that you you have 1:00:23.760 --> 1:00:27.240 to get comfortable with yourself way before you think bringing 1:00:27.240 --> 1:00:30.040 in another woman is going to change the comfortability that 1:00:30.120 --> 1:00:33.920 you have with your body. Um. And unfortunately, even the 1:00:33.920 --> 1:00:37.560 only way and this is gonna be super shitty to say, 1:00:37.600 --> 1:00:39.480 but the only way for her to have a threesome 1:00:39.720 --> 1:00:42.280 where she does feel comfortable is to have a threesome 1:00:42.320 --> 1:00:44.080 with someone that she thinks she looks better than that, 1:00:44.360 --> 1:00:47.040 So maybe someone with a worse body or someone that 1:00:47.240 --> 1:00:49.960 isn't as cute as her, So then she feels better 1:00:50.000 --> 1:00:52.880 about her fucking self. But then, as the guy gonna 1:00:52.960 --> 1:00:55.240 enjoy that, I was gonna say the reason that it 1:00:55.360 --> 1:00:58.640 only makes me feel better with women is because, for example, 1:00:58.720 --> 1:01:02.080 like I feel like even as a teenager right locker 1:01:02.160 --> 1:01:05.080 rooms things like that I've generally been gone to college 1:01:05.120 --> 1:01:08.000 is I've generally been more comfortable naked in front of 1:01:08.000 --> 1:01:12.240 women than men, right, Just thinking of like historically speaking 1:01:12.680 --> 1:01:16.040 the competitive aspect though that Mandy's talking about, obviously that 1:01:16.120 --> 1:01:19.840 happens right to me in my head. I think what 1:01:19.960 --> 1:01:22.320 you have to always remember and having a threesome, especially 1:01:22.360 --> 1:01:24.440 with someone that you haven't had a long relationship with, 1:01:24.600 --> 1:01:28.080 is everyone that's new to them. New pussy has always 1:01:28.080 --> 1:01:30.840 be an exciting thing. So it's not like she's that 1:01:30.960 --> 1:01:34.880 much better than you, it's just new. So I think, 1:01:34.960 --> 1:01:38.120 just keeping in mind that, like I think, for the 1:01:38.160 --> 1:01:41.000 most part, women are better about each other. Like I've 1:01:41.000 --> 1:01:43.919 seen men treat women worse than women treating women. Women 1:01:43.960 --> 1:01:46.600 are still shitty to women sometimes, but as far as 1:01:46.640 --> 1:01:48.640 talking on the internet. You know, there's something I read 1:01:48.640 --> 1:01:52.000 recently where it said, when men don't like a woman's body, 1:01:52.280 --> 1:01:54.360 all they do is talk about it. When women don't 1:01:54.360 --> 1:01:55.919 like the way a man looks, they're just like, okay, 1:01:55.960 --> 1:01:58.760 and they pass it on. But men are constantly talking 1:01:58.760 --> 1:02:01.160 about women's bodies, and I think that that might be 1:02:01.240 --> 1:02:02.880 a part of the thing that's in her head too. 1:02:03.280 --> 1:02:05.440 This is gonna sound fucked up. Many said sleep with 1:02:05.520 --> 1:02:08.840 someone that you're is not as cute as you. I'm 1:02:08.880 --> 1:02:10.919 gonna be RealD with you. I think that you need 1:02:10.960 --> 1:02:14.160 to just work to wherever you feel like will be 1:02:14.200 --> 1:02:17.720 some progress for you. Then go fuck Like I'm gonna 1:02:17.720 --> 1:02:20.320 be totally honest here. Like a few months ago, when 1:02:20.320 --> 1:02:21.720 my I T man was sucked up, some of you 1:02:21.720 --> 1:02:24.840 guys remember this. I hated being naked, I hated putting 1:02:24.840 --> 1:02:26.240 on a bath in the suit, and I had to 1:02:26.280 --> 1:02:28.360 get to this point where I started to feel better again. 1:02:28.720 --> 1:02:32.280 If you're not working on it actively, even if you 1:02:32.360 --> 1:02:34.680 lose five pounds, you're gonna feel better. You know what 1:02:34.760 --> 1:02:38.200 I'm saying, Like, you gotta do something that is making 1:02:38.280 --> 1:02:40.960 you feel like you're making change to your body. And 1:02:41.000 --> 1:02:43.080 if you are, because if that's the reason you don't 1:02:43.120 --> 1:02:44.760 like your body, not saying that you shouldn't love it 1:02:44.760 --> 1:02:46.120 the way it is, but if you want to be 1:02:46.120 --> 1:02:49.600 a different size girl, quarantine a perfect time, become a 1:02:49.680 --> 1:02:53.760 diet expert. Download noon track that ship, and the second 1:02:53.760 --> 1:02:57.320 that you out this motherfucker, get on the apps, put 1:02:57.360 --> 1:02:59.680 on a little whatever, a little teddy if you need 1:02:59.720 --> 1:03:01.840 to cut with the fop by the time y'all meet 1:03:01.880 --> 1:03:04.360 the chick. Anyway, you're gonna lose it. I'm telling you. 1:03:04.440 --> 1:03:06.840 Just give it a goal. Don't be that scared. If 1:03:06.840 --> 1:03:08.960 you're not scared to eat pussy, you should not be 1:03:09.000 --> 1:03:12.040 scared about your stomach. Like, seriously, I feel like that 1:03:12.200 --> 1:03:14.920 is the biggest hump to get over. And she mentioned 1:03:14.920 --> 1:03:17.240 nothing about being jealous about him and another woman. That's 1:03:17.280 --> 1:03:20.520 like step one for every girl in a threesome. They're 1:03:20.520 --> 1:03:22.800 always talking about the other woman. You didn't even say that, 1:03:22.840 --> 1:03:25.440 So that's a great sign. So you're worries are probably 1:03:25.480 --> 1:03:27.640 the best of them because the fat will go away, 1:03:27.920 --> 1:03:30.400 but like the jealousy won't. But just have that ship 1:03:30.440 --> 1:03:32.680 forever and ever and ever, and it's always a problem. 1:03:32.720 --> 1:03:36.040 You're in a good place. That makes sense. What do 1:03:36.200 --> 1:03:42.920 you think, man, So I don't know if she's feeling uncomfortable, 1:03:42.960 --> 1:03:44.720 you know what I mean with herself, I would just said, 1:03:44.760 --> 1:03:48.320 like you said, um, it's something that can go away, 1:03:48.600 --> 1:03:50.560 like she's in the right place. Like you said, i'd 1:03:50.560 --> 1:03:53.080 even until you brought it out. That makes perfect sense, 1:03:53.120 --> 1:03:54.880 because I was just gonna say, you know, as as 1:03:54.960 --> 1:03:57.120 long as she gets to the points of where she 1:03:57.160 --> 1:04:01.160 feels comfortable, then yeah, you know, then I would say, 1:04:01.560 --> 1:04:04.600 go for it. But at the same time, but Mandy 1:04:04.680 --> 1:04:08.840 said I wouldn't. I would say, like, get someone that 1:04:08.960 --> 1:04:11.800 gonna look as good as you, but like, don't make 1:04:11.840 --> 1:04:18.240 it obvious. Fix someone that's obviously way different. You know, 1:04:18.320 --> 1:04:22.960 then you're gonna know. Then he's gonna know. But yeah, 1:04:23.120 --> 1:04:26.640 he's gonna knowing, he's gonna know. Like, but she also 1:04:26.680 --> 1:04:28.320 wanted to be a thing for the both of you. 1:04:28.360 --> 1:04:33.680 But I mean I haven't kid, Like I'm trying to see, 1:04:33.680 --> 1:04:38.040 I'm trying to put my Yeah, myself, I can't and 1:04:38.040 --> 1:04:39.920 I've never even had it three some either. I mean, 1:04:40.160 --> 1:04:43.440 that's what she's saying, changed her body. I'm assuming, but girl, 1:04:43.600 --> 1:04:47.360 look they look at your pussy, not not the stretch marks. 1:04:47.360 --> 1:04:49.480 At the end of the day, I'm being real with you, 1:04:49.520 --> 1:04:51.640 but I still think that you've You've just got to 1:04:51.680 --> 1:04:53.320 work on your body because I don't think I don't 1:04:53.320 --> 1:04:54.840 think women can get over that. I don't think there's 1:04:54.840 --> 1:04:57.320 any encouraging words that we can give someone until they 1:04:57.320 --> 1:04:59.120 feel like they're making steps to where they want to look. 1:04:59.560 --> 1:05:01.840 You know, I have friends that are that are big girls, 1:05:01.920 --> 1:05:03.680 that don't give a funk about losing weight, so they 1:05:03.680 --> 1:05:05.240 don't talk about ship like this. But if it's in 1:05:05.240 --> 1:05:07.000 your mind that you're not perfect the way you are, 1:05:07.440 --> 1:05:09.200 do what you gotta do to get some new pussy. Girl. 1:05:11.880 --> 1:05:14.640 All right, Blake, I'm so glad we had you on. 1:05:14.840 --> 1:05:16.480 I want you to drop. I'm sorry I didn't call 1:05:16.480 --> 1:05:18.520 you all over some time that I've watched you for 1:05:18.560 --> 1:05:21.320 a month and a half calling you, Blake, So drop 1:05:21.360 --> 1:05:23.320 all that you need to drop. Tell people where to 1:05:23.360 --> 1:05:26.880 find you. We want to hear all of it. What 1:05:26.880 --> 1:05:30.240 are you working on YouTube channel? You can find our 1:05:30.280 --> 1:05:36.440 YouTube channel, um Blake and Jasmine Reality Reels. Um. I 1:05:36.560 --> 1:05:39.840 got about twelve videos up there, and you know we 1:05:39.880 --> 1:05:42.880 did um. We uploaded alive that she did the other 1:05:42.960 --> 1:05:45.440 day and people were asking a question, so you can 1:05:45.520 --> 1:05:47.919 check that out. You see, if we got our cat. 1:05:48.400 --> 1:05:50.200 You know, I was doing just like daily stuff now 1:05:50.240 --> 1:05:51.800 that we're in this quarantine thing, so it's kind of 1:05:51.800 --> 1:05:58.000 like quarantine edition right now. Um right, and UM, so 1:05:58.080 --> 1:06:02.560 you can find me at Hollow Brooks. Um. You know Jasmine, 1:06:02.880 --> 1:06:07.920 she's on um at Jasmine O'Neil. Um. What else we 1:06:07.960 --> 1:06:10.200 got go on? So Product Records is the label that 1:06:10.280 --> 1:06:12.720 I started with. My boy can find us s U 1:06:12.920 --> 1:06:16.880 p r A T t A Records. Um. And yeah, 1:06:16.920 --> 1:06:19.440 we've just been cooking up making some stuff and I'm 1:06:19.440 --> 1:06:23.440 probably gonna eat right now and start to get into it. Mhmm, 1:06:25.160 --> 1:06:29.640 thank you. We're gonna post those. Yeah, and before we 1:06:29.640 --> 1:06:32.680 get out here. I guess, um when when Jazz was on, 1:06:32.760 --> 1:06:37.000 I didn't want to start the episode intense by by 1:06:37.080 --> 1:06:40.840 any you know, because this is my first time um, 1:06:40.880 --> 1:06:43.640 I guess meeting even though it's you know, um and 1:06:43.760 --> 1:06:46.280 Jazz Jazz was Jazz joined us in the beginning, so 1:06:46.320 --> 1:06:49.040 I didn't want to start that episode, um, you know, 1:06:49.200 --> 1:06:51.560 too wild. But I did want to, um sit here 1:06:51.600 --> 1:06:53.800 and say just because I think it's our responsibility with 1:06:53.880 --> 1:06:57.240 this platform to voice what have been going on. UM. 1:06:57.280 --> 1:07:01.040 If you guys aren't UM up to with everything that's 1:07:01.080 --> 1:07:03.600 been going on, one of our past guests on our 1:07:03.640 --> 1:07:07.880 episode UM have pretty much you know. It's it's come 1:07:07.960 --> 1:07:11.120 to to the light that he has been acting in 1:07:11.160 --> 1:07:14.920 a predatory way to not only some of our fellow friends, 1:07:14.960 --> 1:07:18.960 but so many other women. UM. And I just want 1:07:18.960 --> 1:07:21.080 to sit here and say that I am not in 1:07:21.120 --> 1:07:25.120 any way supporting anyone who is a predator of anyone. UM, 1:07:25.920 --> 1:07:29.440 whether he's a rapist, whether he coerced women, whether he 1:07:30.240 --> 1:07:34.400 abused his power UM as a means to gain access 1:07:34.400 --> 1:07:37.840 of a to a woman's body. UM, it's really you know, 1:07:37.920 --> 1:07:41.000 it's really unfortunate. UM. I was on the phone a 1:07:41.040 --> 1:07:43.720 lot yesterday with a lot of people involved, and I 1:07:43.760 --> 1:07:47.720 feel like I have lost someone as an acquaintance. UM. 1:07:47.760 --> 1:07:52.640 I wouldn't say a full blown friend, because reading the stories, 1:07:53.080 --> 1:07:56.640 I one percent believe every woman just because I have 1:07:56.800 --> 1:08:00.400 my own experience with this person. UM. And although I 1:08:00.440 --> 1:08:04.080 did not publicly come out, I have confided in UM 1:08:04.240 --> 1:08:08.760 people who are victims of his actions. And so again 1:08:08.800 --> 1:08:10.680 I know we've had this person as a guest on 1:08:10.720 --> 1:08:13.720 her show. We partied with this person, we have photos 1:08:13.720 --> 1:08:17.040 with this individual. UM. I just wanted to be responsible 1:08:17.120 --> 1:08:21.400 and use our platform to let everyone know that it 1:08:21.520 --> 1:08:24.880 is your responsibility to also hold the people in your 1:08:24.920 --> 1:08:29.080 immediate circles accountable for their actions. So, ladies and gentlemen, 1:08:29.400 --> 1:08:32.120 if you know that any of your friends are out 1:08:32.200 --> 1:08:36.720 here UM doing things that are inappropriate, more so specifically 1:08:36.760 --> 1:08:40.760 putting women in harm or making women feel uncomfortable, I 1:08:40.800 --> 1:08:43.639 definitely think that it is your job as a friend, 1:08:43.720 --> 1:08:47.960 as a brother, as a sister, as a cousin UM 1:08:48.000 --> 1:08:51.160 to hold those people accountable for their actions. So, so 1:08:51.200 --> 1:08:54.120 again I want to let you know that, speaking for myself, 1:08:54.479 --> 1:08:59.439 I am no longer UM friends or in association with 1:09:00.240 --> 1:09:05.680 that individual UM. But also for everyone who has been 1:09:05.720 --> 1:09:09.280 on the receiving end of that person's actions or anyone 1:09:09.880 --> 1:09:13.480 UM over time in your life where you felt uncomfortable 1:09:13.520 --> 1:09:16.679 with a man, I appreciate you guys sticking up and 1:09:16.680 --> 1:09:23.759 and like I said, so this my my what happened 1:09:24.160 --> 1:09:28.519 in my instance with him. I checked him for it, UM, 1:09:28.560 --> 1:09:31.040 and I told him like damn, I thought we were 1:09:31.040 --> 1:09:33.360 better than that, or it was to where I felt 1:09:33.400 --> 1:09:36.880 uncomfortable and checked him for it, um, But in no 1:09:37.680 --> 1:09:41.920 point in time did it crossed my mind that damn, 1:09:42.600 --> 1:09:46.960 he's probably doing this to other people or damn, you know, 1:09:49.040 --> 1:09:51.680 it just never crossed my mind. So just knowing that 1:09:51.720 --> 1:09:55.519 if you come into an uncomfortable um place with someone, 1:09:56.040 --> 1:09:58.120 even if you checked them, even if you tell them 1:09:58.120 --> 1:10:01.479 they're wrong, just to kind of maybe remove yourself, but 1:10:01.560 --> 1:10:03.759 also to let other people know that this is happening 1:10:03.840 --> 1:10:06.840 is important because although I checked him, I didn't think 1:10:06.880 --> 1:10:09.960 that people around me would have been affected by his 1:10:10.000 --> 1:10:12.880 actions in the same manner. Um. And so yeah, I 1:10:12.920 --> 1:10:15.240 just wanted to make sure I got that out. Again, 1:10:15.320 --> 1:10:19.080 I'm glad you did. I mean, I don't I can't 1:10:19.080 --> 1:10:21.439 share your sentiments about that happening to me, but I'm 1:10:21.479 --> 1:10:24.280 really glad you shared that. I'm grateful for it. I 1:10:24.320 --> 1:10:27.719 think that, um, what we read is very important because 1:10:27.760 --> 1:10:30.479 a year ago, UM, I don't know if you're remember Blake, 1:10:30.479 --> 1:10:33.400 when a ziz Ansari had a situation where a girl 1:10:33.439 --> 1:10:36.920 was in his home and he was forceful. Um, it 1:10:37.040 --> 1:10:39.280 was very easy for everybody to jump down his throat 1:10:39.320 --> 1:10:42.000 because he wasn't someone that was a part of our community, 1:10:42.280 --> 1:10:44.840 and I was very hurt to see men being defensive 1:10:45.520 --> 1:10:50.400 of this person and women, um, mainly because no, me 1:10:50.520 --> 1:10:53.559 walking into your apartment doesn't mean my body and I 1:10:53.600 --> 1:10:57.080 appreciate um, you know, just everybody that is UM an 1:10:57.080 --> 1:11:00.360 allegiance together with those women and people that know they 1:11:00.360 --> 1:11:02.880 may have something to lose by going against him by 1:11:02.880 --> 1:11:05.400 saying that, because I mean, it's gross and UM, I 1:11:05.439 --> 1:11:07.840 still say to this day and if you refer back 1:11:07.880 --> 1:11:10.639 to the episode when I remember the day, I think 1:11:10.720 --> 1:11:14.120 that these women being in spaces with men don't mean 1:11:14.120 --> 1:11:18.040 that they owe anything UM to anyone. And we are 1:11:18.240 --> 1:11:22.840 always and constantly trained to almost face backlash. And it's 1:11:22.840 --> 1:11:26.280 the ones to blame just because men treat us like shit. Right, 1:11:26.360 --> 1:11:28.719 It's like, well, I don't want to give any teuse 1:11:28.760 --> 1:11:30.280 to it. Just please let me sit in my thoughts. 1:11:30.479 --> 1:11:33.800 I'm speaking for myself. Women do not deserve blame for 1:11:34.000 --> 1:11:37.559 being in a space. If a dude is acting wild 1:11:37.640 --> 1:11:39.720 and violating you and touching you when they don't need 1:11:39.760 --> 1:11:43.200 to be touching you, just because you are somewhere doesn't 1:11:43.240 --> 1:11:45.960 mean you deserve it. And UM, I just want to 1:11:46.000 --> 1:11:48.600 thank everybody for for yeah, for for being able to 1:11:48.600 --> 1:11:51.000 talk about it, you know, including humanity especially that is 1:11:51.040 --> 1:11:53.880 somebody that's a public figure, because people never expect public 1:11:53.880 --> 1:11:56.040 figures to talk out about things. So I think it's 1:11:56.080 --> 1:11:58.840 great that we are talking about it. Um, I don't 1:11:58.840 --> 1:12:02.720 know if you even have an idea. No, I'm not 1:12:03.120 --> 1:12:05.479 sure if you know me. I'm not talking. I don't 1:12:05.479 --> 1:12:08.960 know the person that Mandy is talking about. But obviously 1:12:09.000 --> 1:12:11.240 I know you know the subject of what you guys 1:12:11.240 --> 1:12:14.280 are talking about. UM. But I think I think it's 1:12:14.280 --> 1:12:16.960 sucked up too, because like sometimes when when when people 1:12:16.960 --> 1:12:20.559 do speak about it or bring it up, you know, 1:12:20.600 --> 1:12:23.600 there's people that like deny it without knowing that person 1:12:23.720 --> 1:12:27.840 or knowing anything. You know, there's one person that like that, Like, 1:12:28.760 --> 1:12:30.160 I don't know, I think it's a few days ago 1:12:30.280 --> 1:12:32.920 some person brought it out another about another public figure, 1:12:33.479 --> 1:12:35.439 and uh, I guess she brought it out like through 1:12:35.479 --> 1:12:39.080 a TikTok video or something like that, and people were 1:12:39.120 --> 1:12:41.360 just like, oh, well she brought it out like this way. 1:12:41.479 --> 1:12:44.920 That's like right there, I'm not even going to pay 1:12:44.920 --> 1:12:46.960 attention to it, Like you lost me at that and 1:12:47.000 --> 1:12:51.439 it's just like all right, well, they never even looked 1:12:51.439 --> 1:12:53.760 into it or to you know, see any further or 1:12:53.760 --> 1:12:55.760 see who this person is too before they even wrote 1:12:55.800 --> 1:12:58.040 that and set that about this person. But turns to 1:12:58.080 --> 1:13:00.439 find it comes to find out like people on Reddit 1:13:00.520 --> 1:13:02.960 as talking about this person. There's like multiple girls talking 1:13:02.960 --> 1:13:07.160 about this same guy. So it's like and and and 1:13:07.200 --> 1:13:12.680 that's I mean, sh it just happened, and it's sucked up, 1:13:12.720 --> 1:13:16.600 because like it's sucked up. Was at first that that 1:13:16.680 --> 1:13:18.519 initial comments like oh yeah, I'm not even gonna pay 1:13:18.520 --> 1:13:20.120 attention because you put it out this way. It doesn't 1:13:20.120 --> 1:13:21.880 matter how the person put it out. The person put 1:13:21.920 --> 1:13:24.320 it out, you know what I mean, It doesn't it 1:13:24.360 --> 1:13:28.520 doesn't matter. I was conflicted actually just now with um. 1:13:28.560 --> 1:13:30.400 You know, I saw someone saying that they knew this 1:13:30.439 --> 1:13:32.080 thing for a while and they were waiting for someone 1:13:32.120 --> 1:13:34.599 to expose him. And people were like, you just say 1:13:34.600 --> 1:13:37.639 his name and I'll be honest. I was just thinking 1:13:37.640 --> 1:13:42.120 about saying until I realized we get slander. Um. Oh yeah, no, no, no, no, 1:13:42.160 --> 1:13:43.800 there's a reason why I didn't say his name. I 1:13:43.840 --> 1:13:46.600 went on Live also earlier to talk about it, and 1:13:46.600 --> 1:13:48.080 they're like, well, why won't you just say his name? 1:13:48.080 --> 1:13:50.360 And I'm like, well, his name is all in the comments. 1:13:50.439 --> 1:13:52.880 I'm saying, everyone is writing his name in the comments 1:13:52.920 --> 1:13:54.360 you could see the name right there. There's no need 1:13:54.400 --> 1:13:56.519 for the name to come UM straight out of my mouth. 1:13:56.560 --> 1:13:59.160 But yeah, like I said, UM, it was you know, 1:13:59.560 --> 1:14:03.000 to to a to a place where you know, I'm 1:14:03.040 --> 1:14:06.479 still getting stories sent to my d M for women 1:14:07.120 --> 1:14:10.040 UM that have again been on the receiving end of 1:14:10.080 --> 1:14:12.559 his actions. And I also have friends who have been 1:14:12.560 --> 1:14:16.000 intimate with him by choice and us having those conversations 1:14:16.000 --> 1:14:18.800 to where even though they made the choice to be 1:14:18.880 --> 1:14:21.680 intimate with him, there are still other things that he 1:14:21.720 --> 1:14:24.680 did aggressively. And so I mean, like I said, I 1:14:24.720 --> 1:14:26.680 just wanted to speak out about I just wanted to 1:14:26.720 --> 1:14:30.000 speak out about that, UM. And I know you know, 1:14:30.600 --> 1:14:34.600 many people maybe you know, hold us definitely to a 1:14:34.680 --> 1:14:37.519 higher standard and bringing these conversations to light. So I 1:14:37.600 --> 1:14:40.479 just want everyone to know that, UM, that person has 1:14:40.520 --> 1:14:43.599 been unfollowed by me. Again, I am speaking for myself, 1:14:44.080 --> 1:14:47.160 UM that I am no longer associating with that individual. 1:14:47.200 --> 1:14:49.439 But also UM, to all the women who have reached 1:14:49.439 --> 1:14:53.240 out to me two people I've had private conversations with. UM, 1:14:53.439 --> 1:14:55.800 just just know that this has been definitely a matter 1:14:55.880 --> 1:14:59.960 taken serious and a lot of his friends now are 1:15:00.040 --> 1:15:03.160 are are definitely holding him accountable. And it's just it's 1:15:03.280 --> 1:15:06.200 a really rough situation the same way you know, y'all know, 1:15:06.200 --> 1:15:09.760 I don't like Nicki Minaj, but her brother was, you know, 1:15:10.200 --> 1:15:12.280 out here being accused of something that she wanted to 1:15:12.280 --> 1:15:14.880 look past because that was her brother. And a lot 1:15:14.920 --> 1:15:17.680 of these people are finding the difficulty in holding this 1:15:17.720 --> 1:15:21.280 man accountable for his actions because their friends. Um, this 1:15:21.320 --> 1:15:25.519 man is still someone's son, someone's brother, someone's best friend, 1:15:25.640 --> 1:15:28.479 someone's lying brother. Um. And so just know that it 1:15:28.520 --> 1:15:31.720 does become difficult when it's the people closest to you 1:15:32.080 --> 1:15:36.000 being accused with something so heinous. Um. But yeah, I know, 1:15:36.080 --> 1:15:39.000 I know. Protecting black men is important to us, and 1:15:39.000 --> 1:15:42.200 in protecting black women, the most disrespected in America is 1:15:42.240 --> 1:15:45.040 also what I'm in a business for all day, every day. 1:15:45.080 --> 1:15:47.920 And I know it's hard because you know, we we 1:15:48.000 --> 1:15:49.880 have to make that choice, but it is what it is. 1:15:49.920 --> 1:15:52.200 We need to call people when their wrongs. But on 1:15:52.240 --> 1:15:54.880 a lighter note, um, Blake and Jazz, if you want 1:15:54.880 --> 1:15:57.880 to have some fun on Sanco de Mayo, drum roll 1:15:59.640 --> 1:16:03.240 man and you're gonna go on her Patreon again live. 1:16:03.360 --> 1:16:05.080 So last time we did it, you guys, we had 1:16:05.120 --> 1:16:07.280 a hundred people because it capped at a hundred, and 1:16:07.320 --> 1:16:09.559 we basically went on there and we did our whole 1:16:09.560 --> 1:16:11.720 episode live on the feed and it was fun as fuck. 1:16:12.040 --> 1:16:13.840 Someone showed a titty at the end. I miss it, 1:16:15.040 --> 1:16:18.720 but we have. We have lifted our zoom cap as 1:16:18.800 --> 1:16:20.720 much as we can for right now. So it's two 1:16:20.800 --> 1:16:23.080 fifty and I'm hoping we can manage that. But I 1:16:23.120 --> 1:16:25.400 am really looking forward to meeting some more of you guys. 1:16:25.680 --> 1:16:28.960 I only picked Sinco de Mayo because I'm a lover 1:16:29.000 --> 1:16:31.120 of tequila and maybe you'll drink because what did you say, 1:16:31.200 --> 1:16:38.840 birthdays and special cases? Well, yeah, we're good, alright cool. 1:16:39.000 --> 1:16:41.200 So you guys, if you aren't patrons yet, joined patreon 1:16:41.240 --> 1:16:44.360 dot com slash Horrible Decisions. There's sixty bonus episodes on there, 1:16:44.400 --> 1:16:46.320 and you'll also be on the receiving end of the 1:16:46.360 --> 1:17:00.840 link to our zoom with the password. And all right, guys, 1:17:00.840 --> 1:17:02.960 you're gonna enjoy a five minute clip of our last 1:17:03.000 --> 1:17:07.320 Patreon episode and we will see you tomorrow. Nate say 1:17:07.360 --> 1:17:16.280 go to mi ow by by bitch bitch. I ain't 1:17:16.280 --> 1:17:20.439 even gonna bleat that out. That's owing ship though. That's 1:17:20.439 --> 1:17:23.920 the kind of stuff you're gonna so you're just letting 1:17:23.920 --> 1:17:26.360 them know that he ain't using animals out here, You 1:17:26.400 --> 1:17:28.920 ain't ship. He need to clean the booty before that's 1:17:28.920 --> 1:17:35.040 the booty play going on. Whoa okay, guys, it's buddy's bitch. 1:17:36.960 --> 1:17:40.000 I am Medina Monroe and I am a nasty bitch. 1:17:40.439 --> 1:17:42.960 There you go, there you go. So we are going 1:17:43.040 --> 1:17:46.400 to get into the icebreaker. And for the icebreaker, I 1:17:46.479 --> 1:17:49.080 came up with a game. Fuck that. This is a 1:17:49.160 --> 1:17:52.120 game never played before, and I don't even know how 1:17:52.160 --> 1:17:54.320 I came up with it, but the name of this 1:17:54.360 --> 1:17:59.679 game is a nice way to say. So for this game, 1:17:59.840 --> 1:18:02.000 the that, I am going to give you some scenarios 1:18:02.360 --> 1:18:04.720 that a lot of us maybe have or have not 1:18:05.240 --> 1:18:08.600 came across. And you need to let me know. What 1:18:08.760 --> 1:18:16.120 is a nice way to say these things? Okay, okay, okay, 1:18:16.120 --> 1:18:19.040 what is a nice way to say that your partner 1:18:19.120 --> 1:18:25.639 has a stench down there? Right? Why did I think 1:18:25.680 --> 1:18:28.000 these are gonna be easy? Why did I think that? 1:18:29.080 --> 1:18:33.040 So he comes in and it comes in, and you 1:18:33.040 --> 1:18:36.840 know you you're horny. You'll have been texting Sexton all 1:18:37.040 --> 1:18:40.040 day and you was ready to put him in your mouth. 1:18:40.040 --> 1:18:43.800 And when you go down there, something just doesn't smell right. 1:18:44.400 --> 1:18:47.360 How do you let your partner know it's not smeller 1:18:47.439 --> 1:18:52.200 right down there? Okay? And I'm doing this in a 1:18:52.320 --> 1:18:56.040 nice way. I would be like I would be down 1:18:56.120 --> 1:18:58.559 there and I wouldn't be doing anything, Like I would 1:18:58.560 --> 1:18:59.760 just be down there and not wait for him to 1:18:59.800 --> 1:19:02.680 say what's what's wrong? And then I would look up 1:19:02.720 --> 1:19:06.559 and be like, something is something's just a little bit off. 1:19:06.600 --> 1:19:08.439 I'm not sure what it is, but maybe we both 1:19:08.479 --> 1:19:11.000 need to go to the bathroom and check ourselves. Both 1:19:11.040 --> 1:19:13.200 of us go to the bathroom and check ourselves because 1:19:13.200 --> 1:19:18.080 it makes it feel better when I don't know if 1:19:18.120 --> 1:19:21.400 we need to check ourselves in the nice way you 1:19:21.880 --> 1:19:25.120 I was thinking, let's just say, let's get exciting, you know, 1:19:25.240 --> 1:19:28.280 let's get let's go in the shower, let's spice it 1:19:28.360 --> 1:19:31.120 up a little bit. That would so you don't want 1:19:31.200 --> 1:19:34.360 him to actually know he stinksy. I want you to 1:19:34.479 --> 1:19:39.599 know something's off, like normally when it's a little independent 1:19:39.640 --> 1:19:42.280 on what that stinch is, if it's smelling a little fishy. 1:19:42.280 --> 1:19:44.479 Because here's the thing, Nigga's the only thing. Bitches canna 1:19:44.479 --> 1:19:46.559 smell like fish but dicks can smell like fish too, 1:19:46.640 --> 1:19:48.880 especially if you're not circumcised. Okay, see, and I'm not 1:19:48.920 --> 1:19:52.639 gonna lie. I hate the turtleneck on the peen, so 1:19:52.800 --> 1:19:56.760 I don't really deal with many turtlenecks. So, wait, you've 1:19:56.760 --> 1:20:00.200 had men that smell like fish. I've had one one 1:20:00.200 --> 1:20:05.240 man that he wasn't circumcised. A lot of Canadians aren't circumcised. 1:20:05.640 --> 1:20:08.519 I think that that's a foreign at least I think 1:20:08.520 --> 1:20:10.160 it's like a thing. Yeah, and so if you don't 1:20:10.200 --> 1:20:12.280 clean it good, it gets that fishy smell. And I 1:20:12.280 --> 1:20:14.720 think it's because like maybe you have some type of infection. 1:20:14.920 --> 1:20:16.640 Do you not? Did you not think that maybe he 1:20:16.680 --> 1:20:21.400 had just got dune a girl? No? Because I rolled 1:20:21.439 --> 1:20:26.040 it back. Okay, see you are really nasty, but I 1:20:26.080 --> 1:20:27.920 didn't do it. We didn't have sex. I was just 1:20:27.960 --> 1:20:30.160 kind of like, oh, I started my period, and that's 1:20:30.160 --> 1:20:34.960 always like a good that's always a good segue out 1:20:36.200 --> 1:20:38.519 a tampon in my when I wasn't bleeding, just because 1:20:38.600 --> 1:20:41.360 niggas being a string and I'd be like, yeah, when 1:20:41.400 --> 1:20:43.559 you start to either the string hanging, what are you doing? 1:20:43.680 --> 1:20:45.280 Or they'll be like let me feel and be like there, 1:20:45.360 --> 1:20:50.400 it's right, there, I'm on it. We'd be lying, but yeah, girl, 1:20:50.400 --> 1:20:51.519 I would make it a wee thing. I'll be like, 1:20:51.560 --> 1:20:53.439 let's go to the bathroom and checker. So the next 1:20:53.439 --> 1:20:55.040 thing is, I would love how you get out of 1:20:55.080 --> 1:20:58.320 this one. What is a nice way to say your 1:20:58.400 --> 1:21:05.840 partner sucks at giving it and that has happened, and 1:21:05.880 --> 1:21:10.720 what do you say? I I hate to say I'm 1:21:10.720 --> 1:21:13.439 gonna say the nice thing, but I typically don't say anything. 1:21:13.560 --> 1:21:16.759 I just pull their chin up so that they stopped 1:21:16.800 --> 1:21:18.439 and just come up and kiss me. But if I 1:21:18.479 --> 1:21:20.760 had to actually use my words to say this doesn't 1:21:20.800 --> 1:21:23.280 feel good, I'll be like, baby, can you spit on 1:21:23.320 --> 1:21:25.200 it a little bit? Make it wetter? I would start 1:21:25.240 --> 1:21:27.320 to just guide them into what I want them to do. 1:21:27.360 --> 1:21:31.160 I like wet head, And to me, the only way 1:21:31.200 --> 1:21:33.599 the pussy is not eating right is if you're like 1:21:33.800 --> 1:21:38.360 cat or or you're nawing right. Yeah, y'all know, I 1:21:38.400 --> 1:21:41.120 don't even like it like that. But I mean, I'm 1:21:41.120 --> 1:21:44.360 going to go down there just we're having oral but 1:21:44.400 --> 1:21:46.360 then i'd be just man. But I don't really like 1:21:46.439 --> 1:21:49.040 it like that. So even if you're having sex with 1:21:49.080 --> 1:21:52.280 a woman, you don't want her to eat your pussy. No, 1:21:52.600 --> 1:21:56.639 Like even when when me Andreau she did some things 1:21:56.680 --> 1:22:01.360 with her fingers, bitch she made. I was like, holy 1:22:01.439 --> 1:22:04.639 sh it, Like I was like she made so even 1:22:04.680 --> 1:22:07.759 when I funk with a girl, I'm I'm cool on heads, 1:22:07.800 --> 1:22:11.559 so like we got because I come off penetration. I mean, 1:22:11.560 --> 1:22:13.559 I've shared this on the show so many times, like 1:22:14.200 --> 1:22:17.000 like that's why I felt like every time I was like, 1:22:18.200 --> 1:22:21.479 I came like he like I come off dick. I come, 1:22:21.720 --> 1:22:25.840 which is why I know I'm not gay, Like, so 1:22:25.960 --> 1:22:28.200 do you eat? I love I love sucking dick and 1:22:28.240 --> 1:22:31.280 I love giving head, so I love giving it. I 1:22:31.320 --> 1:22:33.160 get wet by giving and pleasing