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Speaker 1: All right, everybody, welcome to another episode of Horrible Decisions,

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Speaker 1: probably my favorite ever because every fucking accident I ever

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Speaker 1: do on this goddamn show comes from the same one

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Speaker 1: that all we're at. This is wheezy and I'm here

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Speaker 1: with my co host. Hey, y'all, this is you girl,

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Speaker 1: Mandy be Ak, and we are We are joined by

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Speaker 1: what do you have? Any a k as Blake? Um,

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Speaker 1: just hollow Brooks, No allow Brooks for me. So we're

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Speaker 1: here with Blake and Jazz off one of my favorite

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Speaker 1: things ever. You guys can google it, Google hollow brook

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Speaker 1: Google Jack and Blake and Jazz Jake. And I'm telling

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Speaker 1: you right now, I'm that excited. I feel like we

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Speaker 1: can have Beyonce or someone from like that's how excited

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Speaker 1: about having your Okay, I'm glad to be. Let's talk

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Speaker 1: about quarantine really quick with you guys. As everybody knows

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Speaker 1: that me and Mandy have been going through it. I'm

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Speaker 1: stuck in the house with my boyfriend. Mandy has been

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Speaker 1: mountains and weeks without Dick. What about you, guys, how's

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Speaker 1: your quarantine going? The quarantine is cool, it's just um,

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Speaker 1: you know, we try to avoid going out as much

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Speaker 1: as possible, trying to avoid going on as much as possible,

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Speaker 1: and then um, you know, just we've been here together.

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Speaker 1: We got a cat recently. When cooking more are you using?

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Speaker 1: Are you using more than salt and pepper and the

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Speaker 1: new cooking or what I was? I use you as

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Speaker 1: the excuse all the time. I'm like, you see, I'm

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Speaker 1: on my food. It's like pretty girls come with a thing,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, that's all they use. Now

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Speaker 1: are you Have you guys gotten in a fight yet?

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Speaker 1: Your first quarantine fight? Huh? Quarantine fight? Yeah, I think so,

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Speaker 1: would say, so? Yeah about what? Well, it's just like

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Speaker 1: it wasn't so much a fire was just like her mistake,

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Speaker 1: you know, like my turtle almost died. Like and it's

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Speaker 1: not funny, but like yo, but like my turtle almost

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Speaker 1: died and she almost killed him man, And gosh, you

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Speaker 1: know how you almost kill something that's in the house

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Speaker 1: with you that you don't think that's the part. That's

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Speaker 1: why I kind of got upset, you know, And like

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Speaker 1: I've explained to her, like you know, because I've had it.

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Speaker 1: I've had it for eighteen years with any water animals,

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Speaker 1: so I don't know anything about them, man, And I

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Speaker 1: just made it real simple, you know, just pretty much

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Speaker 1: their water is like our air if anything goes in there.

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Speaker 1: But still, so, so what you're going to do about

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Speaker 1: this cat? Man? Do you forget to be other than

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Speaker 1: the cat is cool? The cat is cool, and she's

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Speaker 1: you know, she puts some soap in there, you know,

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Speaker 1: like and she didn't like bush and that she was

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Speaker 1: my turtle was jack, but I wasn't I wasn't home.

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Speaker 1: But when I come home, my totals just trying to

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Speaker 1: And then when it goes under, his eyes are closer. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was all bad. I think I told this story

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Speaker 1: once before in the podcast. So I only had a

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Speaker 1: I'm like, what the fund is going on? Well, my

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Speaker 1: what I had going on. Oh man, Well, we're happy

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Speaker 1: to see you guys together. I know this episode is

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Speaker 1: it is more about, you know, just Blake and we

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Speaker 1: want to talk about interracial dating. But I just want

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Speaker 1: to do a few icebreakers with you guys because it

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Speaker 1: makes me really happy to just see you guys together

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Speaker 1: and smiling and happy. I think that's all great because

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Speaker 1: I just feel like TV ruins everybody and it's just

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Speaker 1: it's nice to see you guys. Okay, So may do

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Speaker 1: you want to start with the first one? I'm not

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Speaker 1: you can go ahead, go ahead and ask the questions. So,

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Speaker 1: who is the horny is out of the two of you.

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Speaker 1: We don't need we don't need the paper. I want

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Speaker 1: you guys to just point if if you point at

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Speaker 1: That's easy. I guess. I guess, yeah, me, I guess

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Speaker 1: sure that everyone listening UM, just you know, audibly, can

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Speaker 1: both pointed at Jasmine. I didn't see that coming. What

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Speaker 1: oh the answer Jasmine? Sure, no, no. But but the

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Speaker 1: only reason why I sighed with her because I know

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Speaker 1: or doing something and that's when she'll want it, you know.

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Speaker 1: But but like we like watching your work, but no,

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Speaker 1: but she's not even in here watching me. It's like

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Speaker 1: any time I wanted, like three times, but like I'm

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Speaker 1: night and then she's already sleep by midnight. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: then you're going wait wait, wait, wait wait three times,

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Speaker 1: don't Like. Have you guys had sex twice a day? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we've done them more of course, like morning and since quarantine,

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Speaker 1: but yeah, this is what we see why you got

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Speaker 1: okay one piece. There's no way my man would move

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Speaker 1: me anywhere, but I get it now. Yeah, no, I

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Speaker 1: don't in the numb. So Jazz Jazz, where are you feel?

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Speaker 1: Finl okay? And you've been in America for nine months now,

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Speaker 1: alienating to like move for somebody and like not have

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Speaker 1: we know you're the horny ist um who has who

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Speaker 1: the quarantine shower least Blake show. I think showers to day,

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Speaker 1: She's like, oh, I do mine twics twice a day,

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Speaker 1: twice the day. If I'm eating your grass, well, don't

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Speaker 1: I respect. Get some of that turtle soap? Oh no,

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Speaker 1: no more? Okay, out of the two of you, who

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Speaker 1: is the kinkiest me? Yeah? Really, what do you mean?

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Speaker 1: at the beginning I was more horny, you know what

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Speaker 1: for kinkier is an American thing? Oh No, I don't

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Speaker 1: But I'm curious to know have you ever been with

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Speaker 1: a black eye before? And when you were in Finland

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Speaker 1: I don't think they care about are you black, are

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Speaker 1: you Asian? Are you white? Are you whatever? Like they

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Speaker 1: just say him as blake so and they love him.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't like thing. They didn't ask, like or say

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Speaker 1: because but like I feel like the at least here

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Speaker 1: I feel like my European friends sometimes are jaded with this.

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Speaker 1: so they Oh my god, this is normal. I don't

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Speaker 1: Where'd you guys meet? Where? Yeah? I met out here? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: This is like when she was out here visiting, you know,

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Speaker 1: out the news until you've already seen him first? No,

423
00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:21,760
Speaker 1: I mean news. I mean I've mentioned how like, I

424
00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:25,879
Speaker 1: don't mind talking about sex to somebody, but I'm not

425
00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:29,320
Speaker 1: sending nudes to someone that I haven't really been with

426
00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:32,680
Speaker 1: yet or someone that I don't trust. That's a big

427
00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:34,800
Speaker 1: that's a big thing with me now. I mean, I'm

428
00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:36,919
Speaker 1: I'm a savage though. I mean I will get on

429
00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:40,240
Speaker 1: you know, Snapchat, and I do send things over snap

430
00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:43,800
Speaker 1: but I'm not really sending nudes. I don't even have nudes.

431
00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:46,080
Speaker 1: Like you're gonna get these same pictures that I posted

432
00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:49,280
Speaker 1: on Instagram maybe, I mean, I I do end up

433
00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:52,560
Speaker 1: taking like twenty pictures before I post on Instagram. So

434
00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:55,800
Speaker 1: maybe you can get you could get the you could

435
00:23:55,840 --> 00:23:57,840
Speaker 1: get the one that maybe didn't make it. But it's

436
00:23:58,119 --> 00:24:00,600
Speaker 1: it's in the same You don't be like it's the

437
00:24:00,600 --> 00:24:03,960
Speaker 1: same picture. Now look at my pones. No, yeah, look,

438
00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:06,480
Speaker 1: look my hip is poked out more in the picture

439
00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:09,119
Speaker 1: I sent you. That's not the one I posted like

440
00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:11,360
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know. I'm not really into like

441
00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:14,440
Speaker 1: sending pictures for all for all, um. I mean one

442
00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:17,800
Speaker 1: thing that the guys that that I talked to like

443
00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:20,439
Speaker 1: and they know I don't really send pictures and do that,

444
00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:22,440
Speaker 1: so I'll be like, well, I'm getting in the shower,

445
00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:24,720
Speaker 1: and so what I'll do is I'll call them all

446
00:24:24,760 --> 00:24:28,280
Speaker 1: like snapchat all these like FaceTime them, and I'll get

447
00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:30,919
Speaker 1: on FaceTime when I get out the shower, so you

448
00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:33,040
Speaker 1: get to see me out the shower. That's about it.

449
00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:35,560
Speaker 1: One of my guys got lucky and face time me

450
00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:40,760
Speaker 1: while I was in the shower, so he got yeah,

451
00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:44,520
Speaker 1: I mean I answered, so he got he got lucky.

452
00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:46,960
Speaker 1: But I don't even just out you're just like sending

453
00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:50,120
Speaker 1: us and you got to start up here. And then

454
00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:53,640
Speaker 1: he was like no, I mean like even I mean

455
00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:57,080
Speaker 1: even right now, like I can't see you. So like

456
00:24:57,119 --> 00:25:00,320
Speaker 1: the whole sending nudes mind you. I'm on Twitter a lot,

457
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:03,760
Speaker 1: so nigga see Dickieople having sex and all that crazy

458
00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:06,240
Speaker 1: sh on Twitter all day long. I don't care to

459
00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:08,840
Speaker 1: see a nigga that I can't see. I don't care

460
00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:12,280
Speaker 1: about his dick. I don't know that makes that makes sense.

461
00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:16,240
Speaker 1: You can't knock that because that's that's true. That How

462
00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:18,000
Speaker 1: many times am I gonna say I can't wait to

463
00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:21,040
Speaker 1: see you? Like, yeah, nigga, we don't even know when

464
00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:23,120
Speaker 1: to stay at home. Order gonna be lifted. We got

465
00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:26,399
Speaker 1: another at least three weeks. I'm not going to tease myself.

466
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:28,239
Speaker 1: I know what you did. Like, I mean, we know

467
00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:33,879
Speaker 1: we're here. Let me let me know. When when I

468
00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:37,800
Speaker 1: saw Wisconsin extended until May, I was like, there's no

469
00:25:37,920 --> 00:25:40,640
Speaker 1: way in New York is getting out of this by

470
00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:42,800
Speaker 1: by the end of there's no way, like we got

471
00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:44,679
Speaker 1: we're gonna be in this motherfucker. Wait where are you?

472
00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:50,080
Speaker 1: Where are you? We're burning out? Oh why did they

473
00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:51,760
Speaker 1: think you? I thought you guys are out here for

474
00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:54,520
Speaker 1: some reason. I mean, but even but even you being

475
00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:57,719
Speaker 1: in in l A. M. I have a ton of

476
00:25:57,720 --> 00:26:00,800
Speaker 1: friends that the niggas who the nigga was right now

477
00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:03,760
Speaker 1: in l a. So I'm like, even when we were talking,

478
00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:07,600
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, you're so like like you're not

479
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:09,399
Speaker 1: even close enough to where I would be like, okay,

480
00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:11,440
Speaker 1: let me hop in a car and drive to you,

481
00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:15,760
Speaker 1: because that's not an option. But I know that your plane.

482
00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:21,880
Speaker 1: So if them ships going in style, not even even

483
00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:25,000
Speaker 1: the even the private planes they're sending people back. Um

484
00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:28,240
Speaker 1: who wasn't There was a celebrity most recently that thought

485
00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:30,239
Speaker 1: that he could just hop on his private plane and

486
00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:33,880
Speaker 1: go to an island or something, and they sent him back.

487
00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:35,960
Speaker 1: They gassed up when they got there. I was like, sorry,

488
00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:39,440
Speaker 1: specifically Americans, they're not letting us land in different places.

489
00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:43,760
Speaker 1: So keep talking about l A. You said, what what

490
00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:47,159
Speaker 1: about it? So there's do you guys remember like the

491
00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:50,800
Speaker 1: Kim Kardashian jet Smart and people could do this annual

492
00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:53,679
Speaker 1: membership service to be on like a private plane and

493
00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:56,640
Speaker 1: you could ride with other people. Well, now all them

494
00:26:56,640 --> 00:26:58,760
Speaker 1: people are like jumping on them ships to go to

495
00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:02,280
Speaker 1: their summer homes. Mom Tanna Wisconsin. All that ship like

496
00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:05,720
Speaker 1: private planes are being flown now more than ever. They

497
00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:10,320
Speaker 1: talk about like how those airports are completely congested. I

498
00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:13,600
Speaker 1: mean with people like the smaller hubs, way more busy.

499
00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:15,760
Speaker 1: It's like ten times the volume or some shi it.

500
00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:20,679
Speaker 1: So it should be nice for the right. I'm like,

501
00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:22,280
Speaker 1: I don't give a funk about these whole take of

502
00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:24,360
Speaker 1: private planes. I ain't on a private lane. I don't

503
00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:29,840
Speaker 1: give an I'm just assuming your nigga's rich. Yeah, but

504
00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:32,000
Speaker 1: I'm still not going to an airport where I may

505
00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:34,600
Speaker 1: have to share with people, like even though my niggas

506
00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:38,560
Speaker 1: are rich, like being just put on a private plane.

507
00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:42,200
Speaker 1: Like my homegirl works for Floyd Mayweather. He's not flying

508
00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:45,119
Speaker 1: his bitches on a private plane. Like niggas aren't just

509
00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:48,280
Speaker 1: sending pj's to to to send their work to come.

510
00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:53,600
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to be going on fulfill this quarantine fantasy. Okay,

511
00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:56,720
Speaker 1: that is not what you're Niggas ain't sending bitches on

512
00:27:56,800 --> 00:28:00,400
Speaker 1: private Is the guy that you the guy that's out here,

513
00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:02,360
Speaker 1: and if you can meet up with him, would you,

514
00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:04,560
Speaker 1: would you still take the precaution, have the mask on

515
00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:08,080
Speaker 1: and keep your gloves. Well, well, no, that's the thing.

516
00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:10,359
Speaker 1: Like I mean, I've been I've been offered to be

517
00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:15,000
Speaker 1: flown out to other cities, especially like um or guys

518
00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:19,080
Speaker 1: flying too here, Like um, they lifted some ship in Texas,

519
00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:21,560
Speaker 1: so one of my little work down there hit me

520
00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:23,400
Speaker 1: and like, well they lifted shut up so I don't

521
00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:25,879
Speaker 1: have to worry about quarantining when I get back. And

522
00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:28,400
Speaker 1: I was like, no, think I'm good, but not like

523
00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:32,560
Speaker 1: especially because like flying in or flying out of New York.

524
00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:36,439
Speaker 1: You're going through one of these airports, and you know

525
00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:40,560
Speaker 1: what I mean, whether it's JFK, whether it's Lagordia, um

526
00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:42,320
Speaker 1: New Work. I mean, at the end of the day,

527
00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:44,440
Speaker 1: we are in the epicenter where there's the most cases.

528
00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:47,360
Speaker 1: So you're taking the risk going through that, and then

529
00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 1: when you land you gotta hop in ap uber Like

530
00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 1: to me, you're still exposing yourself to hundreds of people

531
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:56,840
Speaker 1: just by taking a flight exactly exactly. I think it's

532
00:28:57,400 --> 00:29:01,480
Speaker 1: I don't know how much is Dick worth Dick gat workship.

533
00:29:01,520 --> 00:29:03,360
Speaker 1: That's why I'm two months in. I ain't even had

534
00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:06,240
Speaker 1: a local nigga come through, like even if he was

535
00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:09,360
Speaker 1: right down or he or he can't come over. Now,

536
00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:12,040
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. That's what I'm saying. If he

537
00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:14,840
Speaker 1: was here, would you keep the gloves on, the mask

538
00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:20,240
Speaker 1: and everything? I know? I know, well, I mean, I mean,

539
00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:22,560
Speaker 1: I I mean I also just said to like, you know,

540
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:25,720
Speaker 1: if he was even in driving distance, Um, I mean

541
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:28,960
Speaker 1: I I had considered driving three hours for Dick when

542
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:33,880
Speaker 1: all of this started. Yeah, no it's not, but but

543
00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:36,680
Speaker 1: that's what something else are we gonna do during the

544
00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:40,440
Speaker 1: days I'm not even gonna hold you. I was considering

545
00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 1: getting a rental car and going on a road trip

546
00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 1: with body, just so that I could see the country

547
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:49,080
Speaker 1: side like a bitches bored. And then that's the thing,

548
00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:53,960
Speaker 1: Like for for anyone listening, Um, it's it's even harder

549
00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:57,320
Speaker 1: for like so myself. I don't have roommates, I don't

550
00:29:57,360 --> 00:29:59,760
Speaker 1: have family here. I don't have a nigga that I'm

551
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:03,520
Speaker 1: can But also I don't have a balcony. I don't

552
00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:05,960
Speaker 1: have a backyard. I mean, should as soon as I

553
00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:11,280
Speaker 1: leave my building, I'm exposed to you know, ten a

554
00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:13,760
Speaker 1: hundred people. Like I told y'all, I waited in line

555
00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:16,440
Speaker 1: forty minutes just to get into Walgreens, which is my

556
00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:21,040
Speaker 1: local wal Greens. So like, I mean, I'm literally staying inside.

557
00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:24,160
Speaker 1: I mean, I get it. At this point, I think

558
00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 1: I really believe it's the grocery stores. If nothing else

559
00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:28,920
Speaker 1: is open and we keep getting exposed, I mean, how

560
00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:32,080
Speaker 1: else could it not be the grocery store? Thing? I

561
00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:35,280
Speaker 1: want to it's the grocery store. I have an impromptu

562
00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:37,160
Speaker 1: thing I want to spring on you guys, so blake

563
00:30:37,280 --> 00:30:40,520
Speaker 1: every episode we do a whole mail but Mandy just

564
00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:43,680
Speaker 1: made me think of it because she mentioned the word roommate.

565
00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:46,440
Speaker 1: So one of my good friends, I'm gonna send this

566
00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:48,520
Speaker 1: clip to him because he called me yesterday for advice.

567
00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:52,120
Speaker 1: Lives with this chick. Not attracted to her, or said

568
00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:57,720
Speaker 1: he really wasn't until until they've been quarantining. He's been

569
00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:00,280
Speaker 1: sleeping with someone else. But they kind of stopped, and

570
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:02,960
Speaker 1: the girl was basically like, listen, we live in the

571
00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:05,760
Speaker 1: same house. We're quarantining, Like, you're making me really uncomfortable

572
00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:07,480
Speaker 1: even just going out and hugging her and going on

573
00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:09,680
Speaker 1: walks with her. And he's like, I totally understand. I'll

574
00:31:09,680 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 1: respect the boundary. So they get high. They're chilling watching TV,

575
00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:16,080
Speaker 1: he says, which they always do, and she says, how

576
00:31:16,160 --> 00:31:19,320
Speaker 1: did you feel about physical intimacy? He said that he

577
00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:23,360
Speaker 1: never thought about having sex with her before, never crossed

578
00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:25,800
Speaker 1: his mind. He's like, suddenly I noticed her ass like

579
00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:28,920
Speaker 1: now I'm starting to like think about it, and he's like,

580
00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:30,880
Speaker 1: and I don't know how long we'll be in this situation.

581
00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:33,480
Speaker 1: She technically is the safest person I can have sex with.

582
00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:40,200
Speaker 1: Should I do it? So I initially said no, until

583
00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:44,720
Speaker 1: he was like, I mean what if we set ground

584
00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:46,880
Speaker 1: rules like we can't do it in a common or

585
00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:52,960
Speaker 1: is there any world that could exist where they could

586
00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:57,760
Speaker 1: have sex, because I'm sure whether they could have sex,

587
00:31:57,800 --> 00:32:01,320
Speaker 1: and then what like like in the way like is

588
00:32:01,360 --> 00:32:04,040
Speaker 1: there a world like a space where it could work?

589
00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:05,880
Speaker 1: What would they have to do? What boundaries do they

590
00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:09,040
Speaker 1: need for it's not I mean you have to see

591
00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:12,720
Speaker 1: her every day if you have your partner's coming over

592
00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:16,200
Speaker 1: or she has her partners coming over and again, where

593
00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:19,920
Speaker 1: you will become awkward or weird. Um. Also if you

594
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:22,920
Speaker 1: start to really like someone and then the conversation does

595
00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:25,880
Speaker 1: come up that yeah, me and my roommate just once,

596
00:32:26,280 --> 00:32:29,600
Speaker 1: it still becomes awkward. The same way, I don't recommend

597
00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:32,440
Speaker 1: that anyone has sex with their boss or co workers.

598
00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:35,040
Speaker 1: I don't believe you should. I don't believe you should

599
00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:37,280
Speaker 1: ship where you eat or ship where you sleep or

600
00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 1: any of that. Ship. So I don't know. I don't

601
00:32:39,960 --> 00:32:42,480
Speaker 1: think that that's okay. I think that the fact that

602
00:32:42,520 --> 00:32:47,360
Speaker 1: he's even considering it now, no, it's just no, no, no.

603
00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:53,160
Speaker 1: If what do you think if he doesn't see himself

604
00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:56,800
Speaker 1: with being with the with the roommate, he doesn't see

605
00:32:56,840 --> 00:32:59,520
Speaker 1: himself being with her, then no, but if he does

606
00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:02,920
Speaker 1: see him stuff being with her and he really wants

607
00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:07,280
Speaker 1: to try that, and he really wants to risk it, Yeo,

608
00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:09,480
Speaker 1: I think he's going to. So now here's how he

609
00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:13,040
Speaker 1: started to tell me, right, because immediately I'm like hell no, right,

610
00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:16,760
Speaker 1: But then he was like, yo, it's already awkward because

611
00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:19,560
Speaker 1: now she brought it up. He's like, so, I feel

612
00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:23,240
Speaker 1: not awkward. You didn't never But what did he say?

613
00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:27,920
Speaker 1: What did he say? Answer? What would he say? What

614
00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:30,120
Speaker 1: did he say to her? Oh? He told her no.

615
00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:32,320
Speaker 1: He said, I'm cool with like cuddling and stuff like that,

616
00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:34,560
Speaker 1: but like, I just think that's too far, he said

617
00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:37,280
Speaker 1: he and she was like all right, cool, and he

618
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:39,440
Speaker 1: said she went to bed. He said, but now he's

619
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:41,520
Speaker 1: been thinking about the ship like crazy, and he's like yo,

620
00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:44,520
Speaker 1: he's like, it's not awkward, which shows that we can

621
00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:47,160
Speaker 1: overcome the ship. And I'm like, bro, no, I mean

622
00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:49,240
Speaker 1: because you haven't done it yet. You don't know the

623
00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:56,920
Speaker 1: awkward trying to get something he never had before. And

624
00:33:56,960 --> 00:34:00,280
Speaker 1: that's a thing like if a woman offers you pussy, Yeah,

625
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:03,920
Speaker 1: any nigga might start second guessing, like damn, well if

626
00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:06,560
Speaker 1: it's there or why not. But nah, it's not. It's

627
00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:09,200
Speaker 1: not worth it, not when you live with a person. Well,

628
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:14,320
Speaker 1: speaking of her, she also too like was a Caucasian woman,

629
00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:18,279
Speaker 1: and today's episode, I want to I want to talk

630
00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:24,480
Speaker 1: about interracial relationships a lot, because you know, so I

631
00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:26,080
Speaker 1: really wanted to be honest with you. I've been wanting

632
00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:27,680
Speaker 1: to have a black girl the day's white boys on

633
00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:29,880
Speaker 1: the show because other than me, I feel like I

634
00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:31,960
Speaker 1: meet them once in a blue and it's like, oh,

635
00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:34,560
Speaker 1: I found one. But it's more common that we see

636
00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:37,799
Speaker 1: black men with white women, and I feel like a

637
00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:40,600
Speaker 1: lot of black men get berated online for it. I've

638
00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:43,440
Speaker 1: made my jokes about it. Specifically, of course, athletes to

639
00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:45,960
Speaker 1: end up with white women ship like that. I want

640
00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:48,320
Speaker 1: to know what athletes. I mean. We've had the conversation

641
00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:49,799
Speaker 1: and Blake I was like, I want you to know

642
00:34:50,200 --> 00:34:52,040
Speaker 1: this is a this is a I mean, but it's

643
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:54,799
Speaker 1: down to the common people. You've said often that you

644
00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:57,200
Speaker 1: kind of look at a black man with a white

645
00:34:57,200 --> 00:34:59,880
Speaker 1: woman in a judging way. And We've had this conversation

646
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:02,440
Speaker 1: because Blake, my my mom is white and my dad

647
00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:05,919
Speaker 1: is black, and so I you know, I've always been like, well,

648
00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:08,600
Speaker 1: why would you look at it different. Mind you, both

649
00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:11,000
Speaker 1: Wheezy and I are biracial, So I want to let

650
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 1: you know that, like my mom is white, my dad

651
00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:15,279
Speaker 1: is black, and Wheezy is on the other spectrum where

652
00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:17,920
Speaker 1: her dad is white, her mom is black. And so

653
00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:21,000
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't like the idea that you know,

654
00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:25,720
Speaker 1: you know, there's any sort of weird looks at someone

655
00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:30,280
Speaker 1: for dating someone um that's not their race, um soefically,

656
00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:32,399
Speaker 1: because that's how I was raised. But I mean, but

657
00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:34,279
Speaker 1: but I'm saying from my experience, and that's what I

658
00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:37,239
Speaker 1: don't like. Like the idea that people would you know,

659
00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:39,839
Speaker 1: look at me and my sisters with my white mom

660
00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:43,200
Speaker 1: and ask if you know she was babysitting us or

661
00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:46,799
Speaker 1: knowing that my mom went through um a lot of

662
00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:50,200
Speaker 1: our family disowning us because we were part black. So

663
00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:54,319
Speaker 1: the idea that there's any issue with interracial dating, knowing that,

664
00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:57,040
Speaker 1: I mean, ship we're a melting pot in America. And

665
00:35:57,040 --> 00:36:00,360
Speaker 1: of course, um, jazz Is is not a man American.

666
00:36:00,760 --> 00:36:03,680
Speaker 1: But I'm yeah, I'm curious to talk to you about

667
00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:08,040
Speaker 1: just your experience with interracial dating and and how dating

668
00:36:08,040 --> 00:36:12,680
Speaker 1: a white woman has been with your family. Um, for sure,

669
00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:16,120
Speaker 1: and and bringing her home and also your friends. So

670
00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:18,200
Speaker 1: so I'm interested to hear all all of the questions

671
00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:26,680
Speaker 1: that we have happened. So so that the whole interracial

672
00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:31,680
Speaker 1: dating thing like that's nothing new, you know, that's nothing new,

673
00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:34,799
Speaker 1: um with me. And I'm not saying like, oh yeah,

674
00:36:34,840 --> 00:36:37,040
Speaker 1: that's I on only date Webmon bl blah blah. No,

675
00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:40,360
Speaker 1: it has to do with where I grew up. Um.

676
00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:44,799
Speaker 1: I was born in Inglewood, Um in l A. I

677
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:49,560
Speaker 1: moved to the valley when I was like eight. Um,

678
00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:54,040
Speaker 1: and I moved to Calabasas. I live literally like right

679
00:36:54,080 --> 00:37:02,520
Speaker 1: behind Calabasas High. Money. But Calabasas Nigga was how about

680
00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:07,520
Speaker 1: the same black I used to be a product straight

681
00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:11,279
Speaker 1: Inglewood to Caliba. Yeah. So I was born in eighty

682
00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:13,319
Speaker 1: nine and you know my parents are doing their thing,

683
00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:17,000
Speaker 1: you know. So, um so I lived out there and

684
00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:19,720
Speaker 1: I I have my older brother. I have two older brothers.

685
00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:22,279
Speaker 1: My oldest brother didn't he went to Inglewood High. But

686
00:37:22,360 --> 00:37:26,200
Speaker 1: the one that's older than me, he lives in New York. Now, um,

687
00:37:26,280 --> 00:37:28,480
Speaker 1: he went to Calabasas High. And I went to Calabasas

688
00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:33,279
Speaker 1: High too. And now yeah there's a there's more black

689
00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:36,280
Speaker 1: people there. But back then, like he graduated in two thousands.

690
00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:39,200
Speaker 1: I graduated in two thousand seven, So even back then,

691
00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:42,759
Speaker 1: like we were there, and I wouldn't I wouldn't say

692
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:46,560
Speaker 1: it's rare, but like, yeah, we're there, and around us

693
00:37:46,640 --> 00:37:48,640
Speaker 1: is you know, it's white people, and there's other type

694
00:37:48,640 --> 00:37:50,720
Speaker 1: of people there too, but mainly you know, white people

695
00:37:50,760 --> 00:37:53,480
Speaker 1: that are there. And so I think like the first

696
00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:56,120
Speaker 1: time I had like a like a white girlfriend, I

697
00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:59,520
Speaker 1: think it was like middle school, and I guess that's

698
00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:01,400
Speaker 1: like one you can call like real because it was

699
00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:04,080
Speaker 1: more than like a couple of months, but one that

700
00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:06,920
Speaker 1: I actually got serious with and then brought home and

701
00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:09,200
Speaker 1: met my mom and my parents and everything, like I

702
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:12,279
Speaker 1: was in high school, and you know, they're fine with it.

703
00:38:12,400 --> 00:38:14,880
Speaker 1: It's not like, you know, they had a problem with it.

704
00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:19,520
Speaker 1: Um the ones that I've dated, like their parents who

705
00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:21,960
Speaker 1: never really had a problem with it. I haven't, you know,

706
00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:24,800
Speaker 1: I'm blessed to not have to experience that. But and

707
00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:27,520
Speaker 1: the outside of the world, yeah, I've experienced ship like

708
00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:30,799
Speaker 1: what cops and I Remebrite a book about dumb ship,

709
00:38:31,000 --> 00:38:33,000
Speaker 1: you know, like not dumb ship, like dumb ship that

710
00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:35,600
Speaker 1: has happened to me you know, like for quick example,

711
00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:37,759
Speaker 1: like there was just one chick I was seeing and yeah,

712
00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:40,960
Speaker 1: she's she was white, and I was driving and on

713
00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:44,480
Speaker 1: pch and um, I'm driving back and then I get

714
00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:46,080
Speaker 1: pulled over right before I get into it to paying

715
00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:48,839
Speaker 1: a candy to head back towards you know, Calabassies and

716
00:38:49,080 --> 00:38:52,680
Speaker 1: cop pulls me over and he separates both of us,

717
00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:56,400
Speaker 1: and it starts to ask me questions, and you know,

718
00:38:56,520 --> 00:38:59,080
Speaker 1: he's asking her like if she's okay live, like if

719
00:38:59,080 --> 00:39:00,919
Speaker 1: we're seeing each other, and this and this and that,

720
00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:03,840
Speaker 1: and he's like if I if I she told me that,

721
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:08,040
Speaker 1: like if she's been held for some reason, if something

722
00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:10,240
Speaker 1: went wrong, And he's asking me like where I'm going,

723
00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:12,919
Speaker 1: Like who she is? How do we know each other?

724
00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:15,399
Speaker 1: Where do I get my car? This and this and that,

725
00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:18,239
Speaker 1: you know, And that's just a mild story, Like I

726
00:39:18,320 --> 00:39:21,040
Speaker 1: have stories, but that's just a mild thing, you know

727
00:39:21,040 --> 00:39:25,680
Speaker 1: what I mean. So how about besides as far as

728
00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:28,640
Speaker 1: my parents and I felt of people, like, yeah, we

729
00:39:28,760 --> 00:39:32,359
Speaker 1: get looks, you know, I've got people always gonna look,

730
00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:34,400
Speaker 1: you know, depending on the area that you're in, you know,

731
00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:38,440
Speaker 1: but as far as like parents and the other person's parents,

732
00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:41,799
Speaker 1: like having a problem with me. I haven't really seem

733
00:39:41,880 --> 00:39:48,560
Speaker 1: that experience. Do you do you think that? Like, I

734
00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:51,640
Speaker 1: don't know. I guess because you had experience, have you

735
00:39:51,680 --> 00:39:55,040
Speaker 1: Do you have a type? No, I wouldn't No, I

736
00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:59,080
Speaker 1: wouldn't say I have a type. Yeah, Like I would say,

737
00:39:59,160 --> 00:40:01,880
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna like with listening to you though, you know,

738
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:06,279
Speaker 1: bringing up that you were, you know, in Calabasas and

739
00:40:06,360 --> 00:40:10,320
Speaker 1: so I'm sure you're kind of a product of your environment,

740
00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:12,160
Speaker 1: which is something we like to use a lot for

741
00:40:12,200 --> 00:40:14,680
Speaker 1: people like me. The schools that I went to were

742
00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:18,480
Speaker 1: majority black my almost my entire life, which is probably

743
00:40:18,480 --> 00:40:22,680
Speaker 1: why I've never had, you know, any sort of crush

744
00:40:22,920 --> 00:40:25,920
Speaker 1: or interaction or relationship with a white man because that

745
00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:28,840
Speaker 1: wasn't what I grew up around. I always grew up around,

746
00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:32,560
Speaker 1: you know, black people. That was my that that was

747
00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:35,279
Speaker 1: my environment, that was my family because I didn't even

748
00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:37,359
Speaker 1: hang you know, I didn't even hang around my white

749
00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:40,440
Speaker 1: side that much because, like I said, my mom's family

750
00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:44,600
Speaker 1: didn't really um, you know, partake in our upbringing. So

751
00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:47,800
Speaker 1: to me, I would say, my type or the people

752
00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:50,120
Speaker 1: I date is kind of just a product of my environment.

753
00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:53,520
Speaker 1: Where it makes sense where you don't kind of see

754
00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:56,800
Speaker 1: see it as I'm dating white girls and not black girls.

755
00:40:57,040 --> 00:41:00,600
Speaker 1: I think my question to you is, um, which is

756
00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:04,839
Speaker 1: I think when we sense the issue of interracial dating,

757
00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:07,680
Speaker 1: where a black man goes after a woman is when

758
00:41:07,719 --> 00:41:11,520
Speaker 1: they undermine why they don't like black women. Now, so

759
00:41:11,640 --> 00:41:21,160
Speaker 1: my question to you is, yeah, um, like it's funny. Um,

760
00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:23,640
Speaker 1: before me and Jasmine had you know, before me and

761
00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:27,560
Speaker 1: Jasmine were talking, before we had met, Um, I actually

762
00:41:27,719 --> 00:41:29,520
Speaker 1: was dating one and like for a year and a half,

763
00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:34,960
Speaker 1: you know, and it's not the first time, you know,

764
00:41:35,239 --> 00:41:41,040
Speaker 1: and one of the first times. So I'm trying to

765
00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:43,000
Speaker 1: remember the questions, you know, asking like, oh, how about

766
00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:44,600
Speaker 1: your family and friends and stuff? And they didn't think

767
00:41:44,640 --> 00:41:46,719
Speaker 1: it was weird even though that like they didn't see

768
00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:48,680
Speaker 1: it wasn't it's not asked commin And I'm not sick.

769
00:41:49,080 --> 00:41:53,080
Speaker 1: That's interesting that right before you dated her black woman,

770
00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:57,239
Speaker 1: did you did you have any reaction like from your

771
00:41:57,239 --> 00:41:59,120
Speaker 1: ex where it was like, okay, well you married her,

772
00:41:59,160 --> 00:42:02,000
Speaker 1: but not feelings from the black women you've dated where

773
00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:06,319
Speaker 1: they felt like no, not just from like because like

774
00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:11,400
Speaker 1: I said, it wasn't just it wasn't just one or two. Um,

775
00:42:11,560 --> 00:42:15,319
Speaker 1: but the one like like before, which is the one

776
00:42:15,320 --> 00:42:18,960
Speaker 1: I'm talking about. Um, yeah, she obviously has something to

777
00:42:19,080 --> 00:42:20,680
Speaker 1: say and that doesn't have anything to do with her

778
00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:23,680
Speaker 1: being white or black or whatever, you know what I mean.

779
00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:26,000
Speaker 1: That has just to do I guess with the timing

780
00:42:26,360 --> 00:42:29,120
Speaker 1: of things. But you know, things weren't working out between

781
00:42:29,120 --> 00:42:31,640
Speaker 1: me and her and everything's cool, you know, and it's

782
00:42:31,640 --> 00:42:35,000
Speaker 1: not like we're on bad terms. It's just you know,

783
00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:38,440
Speaker 1: like I said, I really don't have a type. I'm

784
00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 1: just more you know people person. Did you did you

785
00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:45,200
Speaker 1: have some um, some feedback from people like you know,

786
00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:48,200
Speaker 1: you you put your relationship on TV, and of course

787
00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:49,960
Speaker 1: I know that could be hard because like you already

788
00:42:49,960 --> 00:42:52,000
Speaker 1: have everybody jumping in and telling you how to run

789
00:42:52,040 --> 00:42:54,960
Speaker 1: your relationship. Did you have people go on there? I

790
00:42:55,560 --> 00:42:57,359
Speaker 1: had read one thing about you that I was like,

791
00:42:58,400 --> 00:43:00,840
Speaker 1: someone was like, oh, of course he he would be

792
00:43:00,840 --> 00:43:02,400
Speaker 1: the one day to white girl. Did you do you

793
00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:04,600
Speaker 1: ever did you here see stuff like that where people

794
00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:06,799
Speaker 1: were like, well, he's the type to day to white girl.

795
00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:08,560
Speaker 1: Did you How did you feel about reading things like

796
00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:11,799
Speaker 1: that about your interracial relationship online? Hold on? Like this

797
00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:17,160
Speaker 1: thing just fell um Like I said, Um, at first,

798
00:43:17,200 --> 00:43:19,960
Speaker 1: you know we got on the show, and when we

799
00:43:20,000 --> 00:43:21,880
Speaker 1: did it, you know, Johnson was a fan, you know,

800
00:43:22,560 --> 00:43:26,080
Speaker 1: a fan of the Soul and you know, and from

801
00:43:26,160 --> 00:43:27,839
Speaker 1: the way that you know, they pitched it to us

802
00:43:27,880 --> 00:43:29,360
Speaker 1: and told us everything and how we were going to

803
00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:31,279
Speaker 1: do it. You know, I didn't mind, you know, I

804
00:43:31,320 --> 00:43:33,920
Speaker 1: didn't mind how you know, being on the show and

805
00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:36,000
Speaker 1: putting it out there and stuff. And now that I

806
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:38,400
Speaker 1: see that it is and it's a little bit different,

807
00:43:39,040 --> 00:43:42,600
Speaker 1: it's a little bit different from what actually happens. Um.

808
00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:46,759
Speaker 1: So when it comes to people telling me about my

809
00:43:46,840 --> 00:43:49,160
Speaker 1: relationship like number one, like I said, like I've lived

810
00:43:49,719 --> 00:43:51,760
Speaker 1: I was living out in the valley and being around

811
00:43:51,800 --> 00:43:56,120
Speaker 1: that for and dated like different white women and you know, yeah,

812
00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:58,640
Speaker 1: I haven't had anything to encounter, but if somebody did,

813
00:43:58,719 --> 00:44:00,440
Speaker 1: you know, it's not like it really gets me. So

814
00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:03,360
Speaker 1: now it's just people that like actually don't even know me,

815
00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:06,200
Speaker 1: that actually haven't even seen me in her you know,

816
00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:10,319
Speaker 1: judging from edited version of me, you know what I mean,

817
00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:14,000
Speaker 1: not like re over. I guess my my question to

818
00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:18,160
Speaker 1: you is now now that you're open to critique, um,

819
00:44:18,200 --> 00:44:20,680
Speaker 1: you know, for being on a TV show and actually

820
00:44:21,000 --> 00:44:24,040
Speaker 1: having just the world give all of their unsolicited opinions

821
00:44:24,040 --> 00:44:27,480
Speaker 1: on your relationship. Do you feel like you're getting more

822
00:44:27,560 --> 00:44:30,440
Speaker 1: slack for being a black man dating a white woman,

823
00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:33,600
Speaker 1: or do you think that she gets more slack for

824
00:44:33,680 --> 00:44:36,000
Speaker 1: being a white woman choosing to date a black man.

825
00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:47,800
Speaker 1: I would say, like shit, I would say, like maybe

826
00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:55,919
Speaker 1: her because okay, because the whole fact that she's from

827
00:44:55,920 --> 00:44:58,040
Speaker 1: over from Finland, she's not from here, you know what

828
00:44:58,040 --> 00:44:59,720
Speaker 1: I mean, the whole oh, she's just doing it because

829
00:44:59,800 --> 00:45:02,719
Speaker 1: she's a green card and the fact that it's in

830
00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:07,000
Speaker 1: a racial so it's like really, you know, like when

831
00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:08,640
Speaker 1: they when they talk about that, it's it's always the

832
00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:11,400
Speaker 1: green card too, you know what I mean? You know

833
00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:13,880
Speaker 1: that that kind of gets exhausting with That's why we

834
00:45:14,000 --> 00:45:15,600
Speaker 1: just like tune it out. Let's be real here, Like

835
00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:17,759
Speaker 1: she's a she's a she's a pretty girl. So like

836
00:45:17,800 --> 00:45:20,040
Speaker 1: I feel like y'all is a little different, like when

837
00:45:20,040 --> 00:45:24,040
Speaker 1: we're watching them, like Nigerian instance, Like you know, when

838
00:45:24,040 --> 00:45:26,120
Speaker 1: you're when you have two people that at the same

839
00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:29,280
Speaker 1: age and they're attractive, like you can understand and connect

840
00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:31,920
Speaker 1: with that more. But I hear what you're saying. I

841
00:45:32,000 --> 00:45:36,120
Speaker 1: am curious to know. Like I said, she was a

842
00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:39,400
Speaker 1: fan of it and and and the whole edit and

843
00:45:39,400 --> 00:45:42,160
Speaker 1: how everything came out. Yeah, it's messed up, and we

844
00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:43,680
Speaker 1: we kind of tune it out. I'm not going to

845
00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:45,400
Speaker 1: say that we didn't pay attention to it, like, no,

846
00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:47,319
Speaker 1: we did, like when things came out and it was

847
00:45:47,360 --> 00:45:49,880
Speaker 1: aired and stuff like, we pay attention to you know,

848
00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:51,759
Speaker 1: what people have said and are. But I would try

849
00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:53,920
Speaker 1: to make sure that she because I would go to

850
00:45:53,920 --> 00:45:55,200
Speaker 1: work and do my thing and I'm trying to make

851
00:45:55,239 --> 00:45:57,520
Speaker 1: sure that she's not here just looking at Reddit and

852
00:45:57,719 --> 00:45:59,239
Speaker 1: seeing all that ship because it can be crazy and

853
00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:01,239
Speaker 1: you give me brutal, you know what I mean. But

854
00:46:01,960 --> 00:46:04,120
Speaker 1: I don't think that you guys actually looked too bad.

855
00:46:04,280 --> 00:46:06,239
Speaker 1: The only thing that I that I thought made it

856
00:46:06,280 --> 00:46:08,120
Speaker 1: look bad and then I wanted to ask you about,

857
00:46:08,239 --> 00:46:11,880
Speaker 1: was with with your mom um. So Mandy, there's this

858
00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:14,200
Speaker 1: scene where his mom where you guys coming the island.

859
00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:18,759
Speaker 1: So his mom is making some kind of food I

860
00:46:18,800 --> 00:46:21,560
Speaker 1: don't know what it was or whatever, and she's chopping

861
00:46:21,640 --> 00:46:25,480
Speaker 1: up every onion, every pepper, all of it and she's like,

862
00:46:25,520 --> 00:46:28,600
Speaker 1: oh my god, right jazz. And I'm curious to know,

863
00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:31,759
Speaker 1: like how cultural difference is, you know, for people that

864
00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:34,360
Speaker 1: are listening that are may be interested in dating outside

865
00:46:34,360 --> 00:46:37,160
Speaker 1: of their race and things like that, Like, has that

866
00:46:37,400 --> 00:46:39,840
Speaker 1: been like hard for you? Because for me when I

867
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:42,080
Speaker 1: date European guys, I always feel like, oh my god,

868
00:46:42,080 --> 00:46:43,960
Speaker 1: this is hard, Like I'm missing something, whether it's a

869
00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:46,080
Speaker 1: relation to hip hop and jazz said she don't really

870
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:50,640
Speaker 1: like rap like that, Like I said that the whole edit,

871
00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:53,960
Speaker 1: the whole fun man, that whole edit is just it's

872
00:46:54,080 --> 00:46:58,239
Speaker 1: it's jack because when she when she when she's doing

873
00:46:58,239 --> 00:47:00,320
Speaker 1: her thing and she's she's working out, she listens to

874
00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:02,879
Speaker 1: her a little Nicki Minaj and some wrap here and there,

875
00:47:02,920 --> 00:47:04,640
Speaker 1: and she does her think so it's not like, oh,

876
00:47:04,719 --> 00:47:06,879
Speaker 1: I don't like rap. And then when they and then

877
00:47:06,920 --> 00:47:08,719
Speaker 1: like when they say the salt and pepper thing, like

878
00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:11,680
Speaker 1: she was talking about like her workout food that she eats,

879
00:47:11,719 --> 00:47:13,520
Speaker 1: like when it's like a workout meal, you know what

880
00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:15,960
Speaker 1: I mean, not like what she eats on a daily basis,

881
00:47:16,200 --> 00:47:21,600
Speaker 1: So it really throws you off, you know. So um, yes,

882
00:47:21,680 --> 00:47:26,400
Speaker 1: and I just need to know did she eat the pickle? People? Fuck? No,

883
00:47:29,160 --> 00:47:33,440
Speaker 1: I don't care if it's spicy, don't because my people know,

884
00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:40,160
Speaker 1: we gotta ask. Blake talking about the spaghetti that she makes. O.

885
00:47:40,480 --> 00:47:43,400
Speaker 1: I'm so glad that you're Haitian. Tell me you have

886
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:49,439
Speaker 1: had the Haitian spaghetti with the hot dogs and look

887
00:47:49,920 --> 00:47:55,799
Speaker 1: yeah like spaghetti stuff. Hell yeah, of course, of course, yes,

888
00:47:57,880 --> 00:48:00,000
Speaker 1: chopped up. I'm gonna sit with Jazz on this one

889
00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:04,719
Speaker 1: and say, I don't eat she eats. She eats all

890
00:48:04,760 --> 00:48:07,320
Speaker 1: of it. So the cortial difference things like, she hasn't

891
00:48:07,360 --> 00:48:09,600
Speaker 1: really we haven't really had a problem with it. And um,

892
00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:12,000
Speaker 1: as far as food wise, you know what I mean,

893
00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:15,439
Speaker 1: it's real easy to eat. Like sometimes it's mainly like me,

894
00:48:16,600 --> 00:48:18,160
Speaker 1: like when we go out and get something to eat,

895
00:48:18,200 --> 00:48:21,359
Speaker 1: you know, she's down for anything. Um as far as

896
00:48:21,480 --> 00:48:24,799
Speaker 1: like um you know, like like he was saying, the

897
00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:27,319
Speaker 1: hip hop thing like music stuff like some thing's like yeah,

898
00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:29,680
Speaker 1: like sometimes I get into my real trap stuff, you

899
00:48:29,680 --> 00:48:31,719
Speaker 1: know what I mean, and she's she's just over it.

900
00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:37,359
Speaker 1: She's over it. But but I mean I think that's

901
00:48:37,400 --> 00:48:39,520
Speaker 1: common though. Like I remember there was a guy that

902
00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:42,920
Speaker 1: came over and he was Dominican. He was mixed, but

903
00:48:42,960 --> 00:48:45,439
Speaker 1: he was mixed with Dominican and he put on its

904
00:48:45,440 --> 00:48:47,640
Speaker 1: own and I was not feeling it. I said, Nigga,

905
00:48:47,680 --> 00:48:54,360
Speaker 1: this is an English speaking household, please like I was

906
00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:57,400
Speaker 1: not here like and and I mean, I'm just not

907
00:48:57,520 --> 00:48:59,520
Speaker 1: interested in I don't think I would feel offended. Or

908
00:49:00,000 --> 00:49:02,000
Speaker 1: if anyone said they didn't want to listen to reggae

909
00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:07,120
Speaker 1: you know, which comes you know, from Jamaica, it seems

910
00:49:07,160 --> 00:49:10,759
Speaker 1: like like, um oh they like there was a part

911
00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:12,799
Speaker 1: you know, it's like, oh jazz it says Jasmine doesn't

912
00:49:12,840 --> 00:49:15,320
Speaker 1: like his music and blah blah blah blah blah, listen

913
00:49:15,320 --> 00:49:20,800
Speaker 1: this and that. Um like I said that, that's that's okay.

914
00:49:21,320 --> 00:49:23,479
Speaker 1: It's like, okay, even if she didn't like she does,

915
00:49:23,719 --> 00:49:27,520
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But even if she didn't um.

916
00:49:27,520 --> 00:49:29,839
Speaker 1: As far, it's not just me as an artist as

917
00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:31,880
Speaker 1: far as the production, the stuff that it goes into it,

918
00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:33,839
Speaker 1: like when I'm playing my chords and my beads, like

919
00:49:34,120 --> 00:49:35,960
Speaker 1: she sees all of it and she likes that, you

920
00:49:35,960 --> 00:49:38,560
Speaker 1: know what I mean. But when it's the final product

921
00:49:38,800 --> 00:49:40,880
Speaker 1: and people are talking about bitches and holes and pussy

922
00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:42,640
Speaker 1: this and pussy and then she's like, I don't want

923
00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:45,600
Speaker 1: to hear that. So it's like the instrument. If I'm

924
00:49:45,640 --> 00:49:48,640
Speaker 1: being real, I don't know if my boyfriend likes my podcast,

925
00:49:48,880 --> 00:49:52,120
Speaker 1: he loves seeing the shows, he loves seeing what I

926
00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:54,719
Speaker 1: do and the people that we affect, and the touring ship.

927
00:49:54,800 --> 00:49:56,480
Speaker 1: I don't know if he's just gonna pop that ship

928
00:49:56,600 --> 00:49:58,560
Speaker 1: on on the train, if that's really his thing, if

929
00:49:58,600 --> 00:50:01,759
Speaker 1: it wasn't a think that's okay. And exactly, you know,

930
00:50:01,840 --> 00:50:03,880
Speaker 1: and and and and you know, there's gonna be a

931
00:50:03,880 --> 00:50:06,360
Speaker 1: topic that eventually he's gonna listen to, you know what

932
00:50:06,360 --> 00:50:10,920
Speaker 1: I mean? You know it's not even topics here. I

933
00:50:10,960 --> 00:50:13,160
Speaker 1: mean I agree with that, like as a creative I

934
00:50:13,160 --> 00:50:15,200
Speaker 1: mean it just as a human being we have It

935
00:50:15,239 --> 00:50:18,239
Speaker 1: doesn't matter our color, it doesn't matter our ethnicity or race,

936
00:50:18,360 --> 00:50:22,600
Speaker 1: like we like things differently, and even when we're with

937
00:50:22,680 --> 00:50:25,680
Speaker 1: our partners, I think it's important for us to be

938
00:50:25,840 --> 00:50:28,040
Speaker 1: true to who we are. So like, you know, even me,

939
00:50:28,160 --> 00:50:30,600
Speaker 1: like I'm a fan of basketball, nigger, if you end

940
00:50:30,680 --> 00:50:32,480
Speaker 1: up on a team I don't like, I'm sorry, I'm

941
00:50:32,520 --> 00:50:34,080
Speaker 1: not rooting for it yet, you know what I mean.

942
00:50:34,400 --> 00:50:39,680
Speaker 1: I mean, just it is what it is. I mean,

943
00:50:39,719 --> 00:50:43,479
Speaker 1: I might root for him and exactly exactly knowing that,

944
00:50:43,719 --> 00:50:47,279
Speaker 1: knowing that, knowing that I'm a fan of say, you know,

945
00:50:47,320 --> 00:50:49,680
Speaker 1: I grew up in Orlando, I'm a Magic fan. If

946
00:50:49,719 --> 00:50:51,759
Speaker 1: they go against the Lakers, which I know I have

947
00:50:51,880 --> 00:50:54,959
Speaker 1: not liked the Lakers four years on end, I'm gonna

948
00:50:55,000 --> 00:50:58,360
Speaker 1: be like, go Magic, but they got home exactly exactly

949
00:50:58,480 --> 00:51:01,839
Speaker 1: as long. It's exactly that. That's what I'm saying, So

950
00:51:02,280 --> 00:51:04,960
Speaker 1: she don't she don't like to have to point from

951
00:51:05,000 --> 00:51:08,640
Speaker 1: that to those is like just knowing that not every

952
00:51:08,680 --> 00:51:11,200
Speaker 1: couple has to blend their interests so much. And I

953
00:51:11,239 --> 00:51:13,839
Speaker 1: feel like that happens a lot when someone's like, oh,

954
00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:16,200
Speaker 1: like we don't like the same stuff, and da da da,

955
00:51:16,719 --> 00:51:19,040
Speaker 1: Like I really do believe that opposites can attract, and

956
00:51:19,040 --> 00:51:21,040
Speaker 1: I believe that you can show some interest and the

957
00:51:21,120 --> 00:51:23,080
Speaker 1: things that your partner loves, But I really have never

958
00:51:23,120 --> 00:51:26,479
Speaker 1: found it necessary. Like, you know, it's something I really

959
00:51:26,520 --> 00:51:28,480
Speaker 1: liked about you guys that I mentioned to a friend

960
00:51:28,520 --> 00:51:31,080
Speaker 1: of mine who doesn't drink is so Blake drinks and

961
00:51:31,160 --> 00:51:33,120
Speaker 1: Jazz doesn't, And it came up a few times in

962
00:51:33,160 --> 00:51:35,560
Speaker 1: the show, and I'm like, I don't think that ship

963
00:51:35,600 --> 00:51:38,920
Speaker 1: is that wild, Like like, if I like to party,

964
00:51:39,160 --> 00:51:40,480
Speaker 1: don't get me wrong, it would be a cool if

965
00:51:40,480 --> 00:51:43,719
Speaker 1: your party with me, but I don't need you for it, Like, yeah,

966
00:51:43,760 --> 00:51:46,400
Speaker 1: I drink and a lot of my niggas don't drink them,

967
00:51:47,080 --> 00:51:49,480
Speaker 1: so they'd even let me. And I wasn't able to

968
00:51:49,520 --> 00:51:51,919
Speaker 1: even say that, like I smoke more, you know, And

969
00:51:52,440 --> 00:51:54,160
Speaker 1: it's not like I have a problem with me. If

970
00:51:54,160 --> 00:51:56,560
Speaker 1: I had a problem, then she she could not like

971
00:51:56,719 --> 00:51:58,600
Speaker 1: me doing it. But it's not like that much of

972
00:51:58,600 --> 00:52:01,520
Speaker 1: a problem. You know. It's only special occasions. And I'm

973
00:52:01,560 --> 00:52:03,600
Speaker 1: drinking her birthday to drink like she was like the

974
00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:05,480
Speaker 1: other not too long ago. Last month we were out

975
00:52:05,480 --> 00:52:09,279
Speaker 1: of this quarantine, she was drinking king straight, so you

976
00:52:09,320 --> 00:52:14,200
Speaker 1: know what I mean. Yes, that's what I said, but

977
00:52:14,320 --> 00:52:15,960
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, and it's and that's what

978
00:52:15,960 --> 00:52:17,719
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So yeah, this thing is in there. But

979
00:52:17,760 --> 00:52:19,799
Speaker 1: at the same time, yeah, we don't. We don't. She

980
00:52:19,840 --> 00:52:21,439
Speaker 1: doesn't like you know, she said, she doesn't like putting

981
00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:23,680
Speaker 1: poison in her body. So for her, like it's more strict,

982
00:52:23,719 --> 00:52:26,959
Speaker 1: But for me, it's just you know, special occasions, things

983
00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:30,200
Speaker 1: with clients that I'm making productions for. We celebrate and

984
00:52:30,200 --> 00:52:32,799
Speaker 1: that's it. I'm not blacking out, you know what I mean.

985
00:52:32,800 --> 00:52:34,440
Speaker 1: I'm not saying I haven't you know, I've done my

986
00:52:34,560 --> 00:52:37,919
Speaker 1: things in college or whatever. I have party. It's it's

987
00:52:38,200 --> 00:52:41,080
Speaker 1: four o'clock. I don't had two vodka, Solda's already well.

988
00:52:41,200 --> 00:52:44,799
Speaker 1: Speaking of blacking out, my last question would be how

989
00:52:44,800 --> 00:52:47,040
Speaker 1: do you make sure in an in a relation relationship,

990
00:52:47,040 --> 00:52:48,800
Speaker 1: because I think that we all have are owe that

991
00:52:48,880 --> 00:52:51,200
Speaker 1: due diligence and not just being with someone white, but

992
00:52:51,360 --> 00:52:55,200
Speaker 1: like even Latino or whatever. How do you make sure

993
00:52:55,280 --> 00:52:57,279
Speaker 1: that you're and what steps do you take to teach

994
00:52:57,360 --> 00:52:59,880
Speaker 1: jazz about your culture? Like I think it's important that

995
00:53:00,320 --> 00:53:02,839
Speaker 1: when I'm dating a white guy or like, you know,

996
00:53:02,960 --> 00:53:05,479
Speaker 1: making sure that they know how important being pro black

997
00:53:05,600 --> 00:53:10,120
Speaker 1: is to me. And yeah, I'm just curious, like what

998
00:53:10,200 --> 00:53:12,560
Speaker 1: things you've had to maybe teach her since you've moved

999
00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:13,880
Speaker 1: here or do you feel like it was important to

1000
00:53:13,880 --> 00:53:17,160
Speaker 1: talk about Like I had to show a dude Chakazoolu once. OK.

1001
00:53:17,920 --> 00:53:23,400
Speaker 1: No I um um um? So what what what I

1002
00:53:23,520 --> 00:53:25,719
Speaker 1: what I try to do? Yeah, Like I tell her

1003
00:53:25,840 --> 00:53:29,319
Speaker 1: things from like my experience, and what really helps is

1004
00:53:29,840 --> 00:53:34,080
Speaker 1: like movies and or documentaries about certain things you know,

1005
00:53:34,400 --> 00:53:40,239
Speaker 1: and um that I think right there is one way

1006
00:53:40,280 --> 00:53:44,560
Speaker 1: of you know, showing her you know, um, because my

1007
00:53:44,560 --> 00:53:47,640
Speaker 1: my brother lives like on Florence and Normandy and I

1008
00:53:47,719 --> 00:53:49,680
Speaker 1: used to live with my brother, and those are like

1009
00:53:50,080 --> 00:53:53,439
Speaker 1: historical streets, like yeah, that's like historical streets, like whether

1010
00:53:53,520 --> 00:53:55,440
Speaker 1: riot's like I don't know if you remember whether that

1011
00:53:55,520 --> 00:53:57,719
Speaker 1: I damn, I forgot his name. I'm blinking out on it.

1012
00:53:57,760 --> 00:53:59,960
Speaker 1: But when the riots were going on and that guy

1013
00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:02,440
Speaker 1: it wasn't like in a big eighteen wheeler and they

1014
00:54:02,440 --> 00:54:03,920
Speaker 1: grabbed him out of the car and just like hit

1015
00:54:03,960 --> 00:54:06,000
Speaker 1: him with a brick like that was right there like

1016
00:54:06,080 --> 00:54:09,600
Speaker 1: those streets anyway, So I tell her about it, you

1017
00:54:09,600 --> 00:54:10,799
Speaker 1: know what I mean. And the way I told her

1018
00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:13,040
Speaker 1: about it was just like like a video clip that

1019
00:54:13,080 --> 00:54:15,040
Speaker 1: I was watching, like they had a documentary on it,

1020
00:54:15,640 --> 00:54:17,880
Speaker 1: and um, so it's just here and there, you know,

1021
00:54:17,960 --> 00:54:21,239
Speaker 1: like little by little. I'm trying not to put too

1022
00:54:21,320 --> 00:54:23,319
Speaker 1: much to where it's like it could be overwhelming or

1023
00:54:23,360 --> 00:54:27,239
Speaker 1: you know, forgetful, but um you know, I think what

1024
00:54:27,360 --> 00:54:29,799
Speaker 1: really helps is just like movies and documunities and you know,

1025
00:54:29,880 --> 00:54:32,480
Speaker 1: telling her experiences that I've had, you know, like the

1026
00:54:32,520 --> 00:54:35,080
Speaker 1: story I told you guys about me pulled over, like

1027
00:54:35,120 --> 00:54:36,759
Speaker 1: I told her that, you know, I told there are

1028
00:54:36,760 --> 00:54:38,640
Speaker 1: plenty stories that I've happened with me and the cops.

1029
00:54:38,719 --> 00:54:41,480
Speaker 1: And because of things that I've happened. So you know,

1030
00:54:41,520 --> 00:54:46,279
Speaker 1: I tried to touch on every subject. You know, we're

1031
00:54:47,920 --> 00:54:51,000
Speaker 1: white people are Yeah, well, I was gonna say, I

1032
00:54:51,040 --> 00:54:54,520
Speaker 1: think that's very important because even when I went to London, UM,

1033
00:54:55,080 --> 00:54:57,719
Speaker 1: I was even around black men there, they don't understand

1034
00:54:57,880 --> 00:55:03,000
Speaker 1: the plight of or the lation between black African Americans

1035
00:55:03,480 --> 00:55:06,439
Speaker 1: here and the police. So knowing that she's coming from

1036
00:55:06,480 --> 00:55:10,279
Speaker 1: feeling where, you know, the engagement between cops and black

1037
00:55:10,320 --> 00:55:13,560
Speaker 1: men may not necessarily be as extreme as it is here,

1038
00:55:13,960 --> 00:55:16,239
Speaker 1: I think that that's definitely important to share and to

1039
00:55:16,320 --> 00:55:18,680
Speaker 1: talk about, um, just so that she can gather more

1040
00:55:18,719 --> 00:55:21,640
Speaker 1: of what your experience is like, you know, being here

1041
00:55:22,000 --> 00:55:25,120
Speaker 1: and even being out with her and people view you um,

1042
00:55:25,200 --> 00:55:27,360
Speaker 1: because of course I don't think she views you that way,

1043
00:55:27,480 --> 00:55:30,359
Speaker 1: but I think it's important for her to know, you know,

1044
00:55:30,440 --> 00:55:35,279
Speaker 1: kind of your struggle as a black man. And I

1045
00:55:35,280 --> 00:55:36,920
Speaker 1: do let her. I I let her know, you know,

1046
00:55:36,920 --> 00:55:39,120
Speaker 1: as much as I can. And you know, there's like

1047
00:55:39,200 --> 00:55:42,719
Speaker 1: little things like depending on which area will be in,

1048
00:55:43,360 --> 00:55:45,319
Speaker 1: I could be driving and I'll have my hat on

1049
00:55:45,400 --> 00:55:47,239
Speaker 1: and I'll take it off and like show wonder why,

1050
00:55:47,280 --> 00:55:48,919
Speaker 1: and then I'll tell her why, you know what I mean,

1051
00:55:48,960 --> 00:55:50,879
Speaker 1: because like that's the kind of shift they look for,

1052
00:55:51,239 --> 00:55:53,960
Speaker 1: you know, it's straight up like even though like everything,

1053
00:55:54,000 --> 00:55:56,400
Speaker 1: I don't have nothing on me, even though I'm fine,

1054
00:55:56,440 --> 00:55:59,440
Speaker 1: it's just I just do it just because I don't

1055
00:55:59,440 --> 00:56:01,040
Speaker 1: want to. I don't don't want that problem because it's

1056
00:56:01,040 --> 00:56:04,040
Speaker 1: happened before, thankfully, you know, I know, dumb ship like

1057
00:56:04,080 --> 00:56:07,440
Speaker 1: that has happened in a long time, but it has

1058
00:56:07,480 --> 00:56:09,279
Speaker 1: happened before. And it's not like I'm gonna, you know,

1059
00:56:10,000 --> 00:56:11,960
Speaker 1: be lightly on it. You know, so if if I

1060
00:56:11,960 --> 00:56:14,680
Speaker 1: could take their precautions, I can take the precautions, and so,

1061
00:56:15,120 --> 00:56:16,880
Speaker 1: you know, because it's having multiple time until where she

1062
00:56:16,960 --> 00:56:18,160
Speaker 1: was just like yeo, why do you keep doing that?

1063
00:56:18,239 --> 00:56:22,600
Speaker 1: And then so I tell her why, you know. So, well,

1064
00:56:22,640 --> 00:56:24,600
Speaker 1: at least you dated a blackbouf before Blake, because I

1065
00:56:24,960 --> 00:56:27,799
Speaker 1: was I wasn't sure when you started with Calabasas. I

1066
00:56:27,880 --> 00:56:30,960
Speaker 1: was like no, no, no, and and and and you know,

1067
00:56:31,040 --> 00:56:33,560
Speaker 1: and the ones that I've dated they weren't from around

1068
00:56:33,640 --> 00:56:36,520
Speaker 1: that area, like one it was, one wasn't, the other

1069
00:56:36,520 --> 00:56:40,279
Speaker 1: one wasn't and no, no, the other one wasn't yet.

1070
00:56:40,320 --> 00:56:42,520
Speaker 1: So but I mean, at least you had a mixed

1071
00:56:42,520 --> 00:56:45,080
Speaker 1: bag bag though I think like there are sometimes like

1072
00:56:45,160 --> 00:56:47,319
Speaker 1: serial daters, and that's when stuff gets weird, right when

1073
00:56:47,320 --> 00:56:49,319
Speaker 1: it's like the whole fetishizing thing. But I mean when

1074
00:56:49,360 --> 00:56:51,279
Speaker 1: people date for people, that's the beautiful thing. I think

1075
00:56:51,320 --> 00:56:53,839
Speaker 1: I'm one of those people. Yea. And even though right

1076
00:56:53,880 --> 00:56:56,399
Speaker 1: now my boyfriend's black, I'm going through this phase where

1077
00:56:56,400 --> 00:56:57,759
Speaker 1: like I look at like a bunch of white guys

1078
00:56:57,760 --> 00:57:00,920
Speaker 1: on the street and I'm like, oh, I feel good.

1079
00:57:02,920 --> 00:57:05,000
Speaker 1: That's that's that's just like that's just being like people

1080
00:57:05,080 --> 00:57:07,719
Speaker 1: person and it's cool because like it's not like I

1081
00:57:07,760 --> 00:57:09,120
Speaker 1: forget where I come from, you know what I mean.

1082
00:57:09,160 --> 00:57:11,600
Speaker 1: It's just like people like that I've met me from

1083
00:57:11,640 --> 00:57:13,480
Speaker 1: being over there. They think that that I only only

1084
00:57:13,520 --> 00:57:15,520
Speaker 1: from the valley. It's like, No, I was born in Inglewood,

1085
00:57:15,520 --> 00:57:17,680
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And it's not like I

1086
00:57:17,760 --> 00:57:20,320
Speaker 1: left Inglewood when I was like three, Like I left

1087
00:57:20,320 --> 00:57:22,080
Speaker 1: when I was at an old enough age to see

1088
00:57:22,080 --> 00:57:24,320
Speaker 1: the differences of where I'm going where I'm living now,

1089
00:57:24,640 --> 00:57:27,000
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, living there. How the difference

1090
00:57:27,040 --> 00:57:28,560
Speaker 1: was when I was living in l A As opposed

1091
00:57:28,560 --> 00:57:30,640
Speaker 1: to living in the valley, because I was still going

1092
00:57:30,680 --> 00:57:32,479
Speaker 1: back and forth and being with my mom and going

1093
00:57:32,520 --> 00:57:35,600
Speaker 1: back to her because she's um. She does she owns

1094
00:57:35,600 --> 00:57:37,600
Speaker 1: a hair salon, so like sometimes I'll go with her

1095
00:57:37,640 --> 00:57:39,760
Speaker 1: to work from how Baster's to l A, you know.

1096
00:57:39,800 --> 00:57:42,680
Speaker 1: So I'm still seeing the differences between the two. So

1097
00:57:42,920 --> 00:57:44,840
Speaker 1: I just feel real blessed to you know, be on

1098
00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:47,280
Speaker 1: that side. So as far as me being a people person, yeah,

1099
00:57:47,280 --> 00:57:51,919
Speaker 1: I don't think there's like this one strict type you know. Yeah,

1100
00:57:52,200 --> 00:57:55,240
Speaker 1: that's dope. Well, I'm I'm glad we talked about it.

1101
00:57:55,280 --> 00:57:57,120
Speaker 1: We're gonna get into our last segment, which is our

1102
00:57:57,120 --> 00:57:58,760
Speaker 1: whole male. I don't know if you guys could give

1103
00:57:58,800 --> 00:58:01,840
Speaker 1: advice on this. I feel of like maybe not for

1104
00:58:01,880 --> 00:58:06,800
Speaker 1: you and jazz, but whatever. So this says, hey, ladies,

1105
00:58:06,840 --> 00:58:09,120
Speaker 1: you'll hear it. I'm just gonna jump right into it.

1106
00:58:09,120 --> 00:58:11,160
Speaker 1: This may not may or may not be a long one.

1107
00:58:11,200 --> 00:58:13,480
Speaker 1: But my husband really wants to have a threesome, like

1108
00:58:13,600 --> 00:58:16,320
Speaker 1: really bad. I'm not scared because I do like girls,

1109
00:58:16,320 --> 00:58:18,360
Speaker 1: and I've had three sums before, but that was before

1110
00:58:18,440 --> 00:58:20,880
Speaker 1: mine and his relationship. We have two kids together, and

1111
00:58:20,920 --> 00:58:24,160
Speaker 1: since having them, I'm extremely self conscious about him about

1112
00:58:24,160 --> 00:58:26,560
Speaker 1: my body. It took me forever to get used to

1113
00:58:26,600 --> 00:58:29,200
Speaker 1: him seeing my body after kids, so I'm nervous about

1114
00:58:29,240 --> 00:58:31,160
Speaker 1: getting someone else to go down on me. My husband

1115
00:58:31,200 --> 00:58:32,960
Speaker 1: loves to do what he says, I smell good, tastes good,

1116
00:58:32,960 --> 00:58:34,440
Speaker 1: all of that, but I still feel a way, and

1117
00:58:34,480 --> 00:58:36,920
Speaker 1: he says he knows it's because of how self conscious

1118
00:58:36,960 --> 00:58:38,600
Speaker 1: I am. I don't want to do it with someone

1119
00:58:38,640 --> 00:58:40,160
Speaker 1: I don't know for that reason, and I'm scared of

1120
00:58:40,200 --> 00:58:42,440
Speaker 1: a stranger because of STDs. And if I ever build

1121
00:58:42,480 --> 00:58:46,000
Speaker 1: up the courage, how do I start? I love the podcast,

1122
00:58:46,120 --> 00:58:49,200
Speaker 1: keep up the work sign. Finally confident, but not that confident.

1123
00:58:53,240 --> 00:58:56,840
Speaker 1: First off, i'd have told y'all holes, I'm feting recent questions.

1124
00:58:56,880 --> 00:59:02,000
Speaker 1: Good God, damn, I'm fucking fed. Jesus Christ. We're in quarantine.

1125
00:59:02,080 --> 00:59:05,360
Speaker 1: So you can't have a threesome no time soon anyways. Um,

1126
00:59:05,440 --> 00:59:08,640
Speaker 1: she did say she was subconscious about That's really what

1127
00:59:08,720 --> 00:59:10,880
Speaker 1: made me want to bring it up though, because I

1128
00:59:10,920 --> 00:59:13,880
Speaker 1: feel like for another woman, I feel like women are

1129
00:59:14,160 --> 00:59:18,040
Speaker 1: so much easier to have sex with than men and

1130
00:59:18,120 --> 00:59:21,919
Speaker 1: be comfortable about. Just personally speaking, I actually, I mean,

1131
00:59:21,960 --> 00:59:25,280
Speaker 1: I actually think differently. I remember one of the threesomes

1132
00:59:25,360 --> 00:59:28,880
Speaker 1: that I had with a partner. Um, me and me

1133
00:59:28,920 --> 00:59:31,480
Speaker 1: and him knew each other, and he and her knew

1134
00:59:31,480 --> 00:59:34,360
Speaker 1: each other. Um. And one of the first things that

1135
00:59:34,400 --> 00:59:37,400
Speaker 1: she actually told me was the reason she enjoyed the

1136
00:59:37,440 --> 00:59:39,560
Speaker 1: threesome and even had the threesoms because we were the

1137
00:59:39,600 --> 00:59:43,000
Speaker 1: same size. She said, had I been any smaller, there

1138
00:59:43,040 --> 00:59:45,840
Speaker 1: would have been an insecurity there for her. So I

1139
00:59:45,880 --> 00:59:49,000
Speaker 1: think also the insecurity of a woman having a better

1140
00:59:49,080 --> 00:59:53,040
Speaker 1: body than you, being with another woman necessarily doesn't bring

1141
00:59:53,440 --> 00:59:57,360
Speaker 1: more comfort because now you're comparing your breast to her breast,

1142
00:59:57,560 --> 01:00:01,120
Speaker 1: her vaginay, your vagina. I actually think there's more pressure, um,

1143
01:00:01,160 --> 01:00:03,720
Speaker 1: with bringing another woman into the bedroom if you're already

1144
01:00:03,720 --> 01:00:08,040
Speaker 1: insecure with yourself specifically, because now if your partner shows

1145
01:00:08,040 --> 01:00:11,520
Speaker 1: her any more attention, that insecurity is gonna go into

1146
01:00:11,520 --> 01:00:13,840
Speaker 1: your head about does he like something on her more

1147
01:00:13,880 --> 01:00:17,080
Speaker 1: than me? I think, um, the idea of bringing another

1148
01:00:17,120 --> 01:00:20,720
Speaker 1: partner into the bedroom, specifically another woman, when you're insecure

1149
01:00:20,800 --> 01:00:23,680
Speaker 1: with how you look, is something that you you have

1150
01:00:23,760 --> 01:00:27,240
Speaker 1: to get comfortable with yourself way before you think bringing

1151
01:00:27,240 --> 01:00:30,040
Speaker 1: in another woman is going to change the comfortability that

1152
01:00:30,120 --> 01:00:33,920
Speaker 1: you have with your body. Um. And unfortunately, even the

1153
01:00:33,920 --> 01:00:37,560
Speaker 1: only way and this is gonna be super shitty to say,

1154
01:00:37,600 --> 01:00:39,480
Speaker 1: but the only way for her to have a threesome

1155
01:00:39,720 --> 01:00:42,280
Speaker 1: where she does feel comfortable is to have a threesome

1156
01:00:42,320 --> 01:00:44,080
Speaker 1: with someone that she thinks she looks better than that,

1157
01:00:44,360 --> 01:00:47,040
Speaker 1: So maybe someone with a worse body or someone that

1158
01:00:47,240 --> 01:00:49,960
Speaker 1: isn't as cute as her, So then she feels better

1159
01:00:50,000 --> 01:00:52,880
Speaker 1: about her fucking self. But then, as the guy gonna

1160
01:00:52,960 --> 01:00:55,240
Speaker 1: enjoy that, I was gonna say the reason that it

1161
01:00:55,360 --> 01:00:58,640
Speaker 1: only makes me feel better with women is because, for example,

1162
01:00:58,720 --> 01:01:02,080
Speaker 1: like I feel like even as a teenager right locker

1163
01:01:02,160 --> 01:01:05,080
Speaker 1: rooms things like that I've generally been gone to college

1164
01:01:05,120 --> 01:01:08,000
Speaker 1: is I've generally been more comfortable naked in front of

1165
01:01:08,000 --> 01:01:12,240
Speaker 1: women than men, right, Just thinking of like historically speaking

1166
01:01:12,680 --> 01:01:16,040
Speaker 1: the competitive aspect though that Mandy's talking about, obviously that

1167
01:01:16,120 --> 01:01:19,840
Speaker 1: happens right to me in my head. I think what

1168
01:01:19,960 --> 01:01:22,320
Speaker 1: you have to always remember and having a threesome, especially

1169
01:01:22,360 --> 01:01:24,440
Speaker 1: with someone that you haven't had a long relationship with,

1170
01:01:24,600 --> 01:01:28,080
Speaker 1: is everyone that's new to them. New pussy has always

1171
01:01:28,080 --> 01:01:30,840
Speaker 1: be an exciting thing. So it's not like she's that

1172
01:01:30,960 --> 01:01:34,880
Speaker 1: much better than you, it's just new. So I think,

1173
01:01:34,960 --> 01:01:38,120
Speaker 1: just keeping in mind that, like I think, for the

1174
01:01:38,160 --> 01:01:41,000
Speaker 1: most part, women are better about each other. Like I've

1175
01:01:41,000 --> 01:01:43,919
Speaker 1: seen men treat women worse than women treating women. Women

1176
01:01:43,960 --> 01:01:46,600
Speaker 1: are still shitty to women sometimes, but as far as

1177
01:01:46,640 --> 01:01:48,640
Speaker 1: talking on the internet. You know, there's something I read

1178
01:01:48,640 --> 01:01:52,000
Speaker 1: recently where it said, when men don't like a woman's body,

1179
01:01:52,280 --> 01:01:54,360
Speaker 1: all they do is talk about it. When women don't

1180
01:01:54,360 --> 01:01:55,919
Speaker 1: like the way a man looks, they're just like, okay,

1181
01:01:55,960 --> 01:01:58,760
Speaker 1: and they pass it on. But men are constantly talking

1182
01:01:58,760 --> 01:02:01,160
Speaker 1: about women's bodies, and I think that that might be

1183
01:02:01,240 --> 01:02:02,880
Speaker 1: a part of the thing that's in her head too.

1184
01:02:03,280 --> 01:02:05,440
Speaker 1: This is gonna sound fucked up. Many said sleep with

1185
01:02:05,520 --> 01:02:08,840
Speaker 1: someone that you're is not as cute as you. I'm

1186
01:02:08,880 --> 01:02:10,919
Speaker 1: gonna be RealD with you. I think that you need

1187
01:02:10,960 --> 01:02:14,160
Speaker 1: to just work to wherever you feel like will be

1188
01:02:14,200 --> 01:02:17,720
Speaker 1: some progress for you. Then go fuck Like I'm gonna

1189
01:02:17,720 --> 01:02:20,320
Speaker 1: be totally honest here. Like a few months ago, when

1190
01:02:20,320 --> 01:02:21,720
Speaker 1: my I T man was sucked up, some of you

1191
01:02:21,720 --> 01:02:24,840
Speaker 1: guys remember this. I hated being naked, I hated putting

1192
01:02:24,840 --> 01:02:26,240
Speaker 1: on a bath in the suit, and I had to

1193
01:02:26,280 --> 01:02:28,360
Speaker 1: get to this point where I started to feel better again.

1194
01:02:28,720 --> 01:02:32,280
Speaker 1: If you're not working on it actively, even if you

1195
01:02:32,360 --> 01:02:34,680
Speaker 1: lose five pounds, you're gonna feel better. You know what

1196
01:02:34,760 --> 01:02:38,200
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like, you gotta do something that is making

1197
01:02:38,280 --> 01:02:40,960
Speaker 1: you feel like you're making change to your body. And

1198
01:02:41,000 --> 01:02:43,080
Speaker 1: if you are, because if that's the reason you don't

1199
01:02:43,120 --> 01:02:44,760
Speaker 1: like your body, not saying that you shouldn't love it

1200
01:02:44,760 --> 01:02:46,120
Speaker 1: the way it is, but if you want to be

1201
01:02:46,120 --> 01:02:49,600
Speaker 1: a different size girl, quarantine a perfect time, become a

1202
01:02:49,680 --> 01:02:53,760
Speaker 1: diet expert. Download noon track that ship, and the second

1203
01:02:53,760 --> 01:02:57,320
Speaker 1: that you out this motherfucker, get on the apps, put

1204
01:02:57,360 --> 01:02:59,680
Speaker 1: on a little whatever, a little teddy if you need

1205
01:02:59,720 --> 01:03:01,840
Speaker 1: to cut with the fop by the time y'all meet

1206
01:03:01,880 --> 01:03:04,360
Speaker 1: the chick. Anyway, you're gonna lose it. I'm telling you.

1207
01:03:04,440 --> 01:03:06,840
Speaker 1: Just give it a goal. Don't be that scared. If

1208
01:03:06,840 --> 01:03:08,960
Speaker 1: you're not scared to eat pussy, you should not be

1209
01:03:09,000 --> 01:03:12,040
Speaker 1: scared about your stomach. Like, seriously, I feel like that

1210
01:03:12,200 --> 01:03:14,920
Speaker 1: is the biggest hump to get over. And she mentioned

1211
01:03:14,920 --> 01:03:17,240
Speaker 1: nothing about being jealous about him and another woman. That's

1212
01:03:17,280 --> 01:03:20,520
Speaker 1: like step one for every girl in a threesome. They're

1213
01:03:20,520 --> 01:03:22,800
Speaker 1: always talking about the other woman. You didn't even say that,

1214
01:03:22,840 --> 01:03:25,440
Speaker 1: So that's a great sign. So you're worries are probably

1215
01:03:25,480 --> 01:03:27,640
Speaker 1: the best of them because the fat will go away,

1216
01:03:27,920 --> 01:03:30,400
Speaker 1: but like the jealousy won't. But just have that ship

1217
01:03:30,440 --> 01:03:32,680
Speaker 1: forever and ever and ever, and it's always a problem.

1218
01:03:32,720 --> 01:03:36,040
Speaker 1: You're in a good place. That makes sense. What do

1219
01:03:36,200 --> 01:03:42,920
Speaker 1: you think, man, So I don't know if she's feeling uncomfortable,

1220
01:03:42,960 --> 01:03:44,720
Speaker 1: you know what I mean with herself, I would just said,

1221
01:03:44,760 --> 01:03:48,320
Speaker 1: like you said, um, it's something that can go away,

1222
01:03:48,600 --> 01:03:50,560
Speaker 1: like she's in the right place. Like you said, i'd

1223
01:03:50,560 --> 01:03:53,080
Speaker 1: even until you brought it out. That makes perfect sense,

1224
01:03:53,120 --> 01:03:54,880
Speaker 1: because I was just gonna say, you know, as as

1225
01:03:54,960 --> 01:03:57,120
Speaker 1: long as she gets to the points of where she

1226
01:03:57,160 --> 01:04:01,160
Speaker 1: feels comfortable, then yeah, you know, then I would say,

1227
01:04:01,560 --> 01:04:04,600
Speaker 1: go for it. But at the same time, but Mandy

1228
01:04:04,680 --> 01:04:08,840
Speaker 1: said I wouldn't. I would say, like, get someone that

1229
01:04:08,960 --> 01:04:11,800
Speaker 1: gonna look as good as you, but like, don't make

1230
01:04:11,840 --> 01:04:18,240
Speaker 1: it obvious. Fix someone that's obviously way different. You know,

1231
01:04:18,320 --> 01:04:22,960
Speaker 1: then you're gonna know. Then he's gonna know. But yeah,

1232
01:04:23,120 --> 01:04:26,640
Speaker 1: he's gonna knowing, he's gonna know. Like, but she also

1233
01:04:26,680 --> 01:04:28,320
Speaker 1: wanted to be a thing for the both of you.

1234
01:04:28,360 --> 01:04:33,680
Speaker 1: But I mean I haven't kid, Like I'm trying to see,

1235
01:04:33,680 --> 01:04:38,040
Speaker 1: I'm trying to put my Yeah, myself, I can't and

1236
01:04:38,040 --> 01:04:39,920
Speaker 1: I've never even had it three some either. I mean,

1237
01:04:40,160 --> 01:04:43,440
Speaker 1: that's what she's saying, changed her body. I'm assuming, but girl,

1238
01:04:43,600 --> 01:04:47,360
Speaker 1: look they look at your pussy, not not the stretch marks.

1239
01:04:47,360 --> 01:04:49,480
Speaker 1: At the end of the day, I'm being real with you,

1240
01:04:49,520 --> 01:04:51,640
Speaker 1: but I still think that you've You've just got to

1241
01:04:51,680 --> 01:04:53,320
Speaker 1: work on your body because I don't think I don't

1242
01:04:53,320 --> 01:04:54,840
Speaker 1: think women can get over that. I don't think there's

1243
01:04:54,840 --> 01:04:57,320
Speaker 1: any encouraging words that we can give someone until they

1244
01:04:57,320 --> 01:04:59,120
Speaker 1: feel like they're making steps to where they want to look.

1245
01:04:59,560 --> 01:05:01,840
Speaker 1: You know, I have friends that are that are big girls,

1246
01:05:01,920 --> 01:05:03,680
Speaker 1: that don't give a funk about losing weight, so they

1247
01:05:03,680 --> 01:05:05,240
Speaker 1: don't talk about ship like this. But if it's in

1248
01:05:05,240 --> 01:05:07,000
Speaker 1: your mind that you're not perfect the way you are,

1249
01:05:07,440 --> 01:05:09,200
Speaker 1: do what you gotta do to get some new pussy. Girl.

1250
01:05:11,880 --> 01:05:14,640
Speaker 1: All right, Blake, I'm so glad we had you on.

1251
01:05:14,840 --> 01:05:16,480
Speaker 1: I want you to drop. I'm sorry I didn't call

1252
01:05:16,480 --> 01:05:18,520
Speaker 1: you all over some time that I've watched you for

1253
01:05:18,560 --> 01:05:21,320
Speaker 1: a month and a half calling you, Blake, So drop

1254
01:05:21,360 --> 01:05:23,320
Speaker 1: all that you need to drop. Tell people where to

1255
01:05:23,360 --> 01:05:26,880
Speaker 1: find you. We want to hear all of it. What

1256
01:05:26,880 --> 01:05:30,240
Speaker 1: are you working on YouTube channel? You can find our

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Speaker 1: YouTube channel, um Blake and Jasmine Reality Reels. Um. I

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Speaker 1: got about twelve videos up there, and you know we

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Speaker 1: did um. We uploaded alive that she did the other

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01:05:42,960 --> 01:05:45,440
Speaker 1: day and people were asking a question, so you can

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01:05:45,520 --> 01:05:47,919
Speaker 1: check that out. You see, if we got our cat.

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01:05:48,400 --> 01:05:50,200
Speaker 1: You know, I was doing just like daily stuff now

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01:05:50,240 --> 01:05:51,800
Speaker 1: that we're in this quarantine thing, so it's kind of

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01:05:51,800 --> 01:05:58,000
Speaker 1: like quarantine edition right now. Um right, and UM, so

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01:05:58,080 --> 01:06:02,560
Speaker 1: you can find me at Hollow Brooks. Um. You know Jasmine,

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Speaker 1: she's on um at Jasmine O'Neil. Um. What else we

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01:06:07,960 --> 01:06:10,200
Speaker 1: got go on? So Product Records is the label that

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Speaker 1: I started with. My boy can find us s U

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Speaker 1: p r A T t A Records. Um. And yeah,

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Speaker 1: we've just been cooking up making some stuff and I'm

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Speaker 1: probably gonna eat right now and start to get into it. Mhmm,

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Speaker 1: thank you. We're gonna post those. Yeah, and before we

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Speaker 1: get out here. I guess, um when when Jazz was on,

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Speaker 1: I didn't want to start the episode intense by by

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Speaker 1: any you know, because this is my first time um,

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01:06:40,880 --> 01:06:43,640
Speaker 1: I guess meeting even though it's you know, um and

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Speaker 1: Jazz Jazz was Jazz joined us in the beginning, so

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Speaker 1: I didn't want to start that episode, um, you know,

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01:06:49,200 --> 01:06:51,560
Speaker 1: too wild. But I did want to, um sit here

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01:06:51,600 --> 01:06:53,800
Speaker 1: and say just because I think it's our responsibility with

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01:06:53,880 --> 01:06:57,240
Speaker 1: this platform to voice what have been going on. UM.

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01:06:57,280 --> 01:07:01,040
Speaker 1: If you guys aren't UM up to with everything that's

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01:07:01,080 --> 01:07:03,600
Speaker 1: been going on, one of our past guests on our

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01:07:03,640 --> 01:07:07,880
Speaker 1: episode UM have pretty much you know. It's it's come

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01:07:07,960 --> 01:07:11,120
Speaker 1: to to the light that he has been acting in

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01:07:11,160 --> 01:07:14,920
Speaker 1: a predatory way to not only some of our fellow friends,

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01:07:14,960 --> 01:07:18,960
Speaker 1: but so many other women. UM. And I just want

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01:07:18,960 --> 01:07:21,080
Speaker 1: to sit here and say that I am not in

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01:07:21,120 --> 01:07:25,120
Speaker 1: any way supporting anyone who is a predator of anyone. UM,

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01:07:25,920 --> 01:07:29,440
Speaker 1: whether he's a rapist, whether he coerced women, whether he

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01:07:30,240 --> 01:07:34,400
Speaker 1: abused his power UM as a means to gain access

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01:07:34,400 --> 01:07:37,840
Speaker 1: of a to a woman's body. UM, it's really you know,

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01:07:37,920 --> 01:07:41,000
Speaker 1: it's really unfortunate. UM. I was on the phone a

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01:07:41,040 --> 01:07:43,720
Speaker 1: lot yesterday with a lot of people involved, and I

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01:07:43,760 --> 01:07:47,720
Speaker 1: feel like I have lost someone as an acquaintance. UM.

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01:07:47,760 --> 01:07:52,640
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say a full blown friend, because reading the stories,

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01:07:53,080 --> 01:07:56,640
Speaker 1: I one percent believe every woman just because I have

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01:07:56,800 --> 01:08:00,400
Speaker 1: my own experience with this person. UM. And although I

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01:08:00,440 --> 01:08:04,080
Speaker 1: did not publicly come out, I have confided in UM

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01:08:04,240 --> 01:08:08,760
Speaker 1: people who are victims of his actions. And so again

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Speaker 1: I know we've had this person as a guest on

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01:08:10,720 --> 01:08:13,720
Speaker 1: her show. We partied with this person, we have photos

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01:08:13,720 --> 01:08:17,040
Speaker 1: with this individual. UM. I just wanted to be responsible

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01:08:17,120 --> 01:08:21,400
Speaker 1: and use our platform to let everyone know that it

1305
01:08:21,520 --> 01:08:24,880
Speaker 1: is your responsibility to also hold the people in your

1306
01:08:24,920 --> 01:08:29,080
Speaker 1: immediate circles accountable for their actions. So, ladies and gentlemen,

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01:08:29,400 --> 01:08:32,120
Speaker 1: if you know that any of your friends are out

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01:08:32,200 --> 01:08:36,720
Speaker 1: here UM doing things that are inappropriate, more so specifically

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01:08:36,760 --> 01:08:40,760
Speaker 1: putting women in harm or making women feel uncomfortable, I

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01:08:40,800 --> 01:08:43,639
Speaker 1: definitely think that it is your job as a friend,

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01:08:43,720 --> 01:08:47,960
Speaker 1: as a brother, as a sister, as a cousin UM

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01:08:48,000 --> 01:08:51,160
Speaker 1: to hold those people accountable for their actions. So, so

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01:08:51,200 --> 01:08:54,120
Speaker 1: again I want to let you know that, speaking for myself,

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01:08:54,479 --> 01:08:59,439
Speaker 1: I am no longer UM friends or in association with

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01:09:00,240 --> 01:09:05,680
Speaker 1: that individual UM. But also for everyone who has been

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01:09:05,720 --> 01:09:09,280
Speaker 1: on the receiving end of that person's actions or anyone

1317
01:09:09,880 --> 01:09:13,480
Speaker 1: UM over time in your life where you felt uncomfortable

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01:09:13,520 --> 01:09:16,679
Speaker 1: with a man, I appreciate you guys sticking up and

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01:09:16,680 --> 01:09:23,759
Speaker 1: and like I said, so this my my what happened

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01:09:24,160 --> 01:09:28,519
Speaker 1: in my instance with him. I checked him for it, UM,

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01:09:28,560 --> 01:09:31,040
Speaker 1: and I told him like damn, I thought we were

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01:09:31,040 --> 01:09:33,360
Speaker 1: better than that, or it was to where I felt

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01:09:33,400 --> 01:09:36,880
Speaker 1: uncomfortable and checked him for it, um, But in no

1324
01:09:37,680 --> 01:09:41,920
Speaker 1: point in time did it crossed my mind that damn,

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01:09:42,600 --> 01:09:46,960
Speaker 1: he's probably doing this to other people or damn, you know,

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01:09:49,040 --> 01:09:51,680
Speaker 1: it just never crossed my mind. So just knowing that

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01:09:51,720 --> 01:09:55,519
Speaker 1: if you come into an uncomfortable um place with someone,

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01:09:56,040 --> 01:09:58,120
Speaker 1: even if you checked them, even if you tell them

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01:09:58,120 --> 01:10:01,479
Speaker 1: they're wrong, just to kind of maybe remove yourself, but

1330
01:10:01,560 --> 01:10:03,759
Speaker 1: also to let other people know that this is happening

1331
01:10:03,840 --> 01:10:06,840
Speaker 1: is important because although I checked him, I didn't think

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01:10:06,880 --> 01:10:09,960
Speaker 1: that people around me would have been affected by his

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01:10:10,000 --> 01:10:12,880
Speaker 1: actions in the same manner. Um. And so yeah, I

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01:10:12,920 --> 01:10:15,240
Speaker 1: just wanted to make sure I got that out. Again,

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01:10:15,320 --> 01:10:19,080
Speaker 1: I'm glad you did. I mean, I don't I can't

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01:10:19,080 --> 01:10:21,439
Speaker 1: share your sentiments about that happening to me, but I'm

1337
01:10:21,479 --> 01:10:24,280
Speaker 1: really glad you shared that. I'm grateful for it. I

1338
01:10:24,320 --> 01:10:27,719
Speaker 1: think that, um, what we read is very important because

1339
01:10:27,760 --> 01:10:30,479
Speaker 1: a year ago, UM, I don't know if you're remember Blake,

1340
01:10:30,479 --> 01:10:33,400
Speaker 1: when a ziz Ansari had a situation where a girl

1341
01:10:33,439 --> 01:10:36,920
Speaker 1: was in his home and he was forceful. Um, it

1342
01:10:37,040 --> 01:10:39,280
Speaker 1: was very easy for everybody to jump down his throat

1343
01:10:39,320 --> 01:10:42,000
Speaker 1: because he wasn't someone that was a part of our community,

1344
01:10:42,280 --> 01:10:44,840
Speaker 1: and I was very hurt to see men being defensive

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01:10:45,520 --> 01:10:50,400
Speaker 1: of this person and women, um, mainly because no, me

1346
01:10:50,520 --> 01:10:53,559
Speaker 1: walking into your apartment doesn't mean my body and I

1347
01:10:53,600 --> 01:10:57,080
Speaker 1: appreciate um, you know, just everybody that is UM an

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01:10:57,080 --> 01:11:00,360
Speaker 1: allegiance together with those women and people that know they

1349
01:11:00,360 --> 01:11:02,880
Speaker 1: may have something to lose by going against him by

1350
01:11:02,880 --> 01:11:05,400
Speaker 1: saying that, because I mean, it's gross and UM, I

1351
01:11:05,439 --> 01:11:07,840
Speaker 1: still say to this day and if you refer back

1352
01:11:07,880 --> 01:11:10,639
Speaker 1: to the episode when I remember the day, I think

1353
01:11:10,720 --> 01:11:14,120
Speaker 1: that these women being in spaces with men don't mean

1354
01:11:14,120 --> 01:11:18,040
Speaker 1: that they owe anything UM to anyone. And we are

1355
01:11:18,240 --> 01:11:22,840
Speaker 1: always and constantly trained to almost face backlash. And it's

1356
01:11:22,840 --> 01:11:26,280
Speaker 1: the ones to blame just because men treat us like shit. Right,

1357
01:11:26,360 --> 01:11:28,719
Speaker 1: It's like, well, I don't want to give any teuse

1358
01:11:28,760 --> 01:11:30,280
Speaker 1: to it. Just please let me sit in my thoughts.

1359
01:11:30,479 --> 01:11:33,800
Speaker 1: I'm speaking for myself. Women do not deserve blame for

1360
01:11:34,000 --> 01:11:37,559
Speaker 1: being in a space. If a dude is acting wild

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01:11:37,640 --> 01:11:39,720
Speaker 1: and violating you and touching you when they don't need

1362
01:11:39,760 --> 01:11:43,200
Speaker 1: to be touching you, just because you are somewhere doesn't

1363
01:11:43,240 --> 01:11:45,960
Speaker 1: mean you deserve it. And UM, I just want to

1364
01:11:46,000 --> 01:11:48,600
Speaker 1: thank everybody for for yeah, for for being able to

1365
01:11:48,600 --> 01:11:51,000
Speaker 1: talk about it, you know, including humanity especially that is

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01:11:51,040 --> 01:11:53,880
Speaker 1: somebody that's a public figure, because people never expect public

1367
01:11:53,880 --> 01:11:56,040
Speaker 1: figures to talk out about things. So I think it's

1368
01:11:56,080 --> 01:11:58,840
Speaker 1: great that we are talking about it. Um, I don't

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01:11:58,840 --> 01:12:02,720
Speaker 1: know if you even have an idea. No, I'm not

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01:12:03,120 --> 01:12:05,479
Speaker 1: sure if you know me. I'm not talking. I don't

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01:12:05,479 --> 01:12:08,960
Speaker 1: know the person that Mandy is talking about. But obviously

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01:12:09,000 --> 01:12:11,240
Speaker 1: I know you know the subject of what you guys

1373
01:12:11,240 --> 01:12:14,280
Speaker 1: are talking about. UM. But I think I think it's

1374
01:12:14,280 --> 01:12:16,960
Speaker 1: sucked up too, because like sometimes when when when people

1375
01:12:16,960 --> 01:12:20,559
Speaker 1: do speak about it or bring it up, you know,

1376
01:12:20,600 --> 01:12:23,600
Speaker 1: there's people that like deny it without knowing that person

1377
01:12:23,720 --> 01:12:27,840
Speaker 1: or knowing anything. You know, there's one person that like that, Like,

1378
01:12:28,760 --> 01:12:30,160
Speaker 1: I don't know, I think it's a few days ago

1379
01:12:30,280 --> 01:12:32,920
Speaker 1: some person brought it out another about another public figure,

1380
01:12:33,479 --> 01:12:35,439
Speaker 1: and uh, I guess she brought it out like through

1381
01:12:35,479 --> 01:12:39,080
Speaker 1: a TikTok video or something like that, and people were

1382
01:12:39,120 --> 01:12:41,360
Speaker 1: just like, oh, well she brought it out like this way.

1383
01:12:41,479 --> 01:12:44,920
Speaker 1: That's like right there, I'm not even going to pay

1384
01:12:44,920 --> 01:12:46,960
Speaker 1: attention to it, Like you lost me at that and

1385
01:12:47,000 --> 01:12:51,439
Speaker 1: it's just like all right, well, they never even looked

1386
01:12:51,439 --> 01:12:53,760
Speaker 1: into it or to you know, see any further or

1387
01:12:53,760 --> 01:12:55,760
Speaker 1: see who this person is too before they even wrote

1388
01:12:55,800 --> 01:12:58,040
Speaker 1: that and set that about this person. But turns to

1389
01:12:58,080 --> 01:13:00,439
Speaker 1: find it comes to find out like people on Reddit

1390
01:13:00,520 --> 01:13:02,960
Speaker 1: as talking about this person. There's like multiple girls talking

1391
01:13:02,960 --> 01:13:07,160
Speaker 1: about this same guy. So it's like and and and

1392
01:13:07,200 --> 01:13:12,680
Speaker 1: that's I mean, sh it just happened, and it's sucked up,

1393
01:13:12,720 --> 01:13:16,600
Speaker 1: because like it's sucked up. Was at first that that

1394
01:13:16,680 --> 01:13:18,519
Speaker 1: initial comments like oh yeah, I'm not even gonna pay

1395
01:13:18,520 --> 01:13:20,120
Speaker 1: attention because you put it out this way. It doesn't

1396
01:13:20,120 --> 01:13:21,880
Speaker 1: matter how the person put it out. The person put

1397
01:13:21,920 --> 01:13:24,320
Speaker 1: it out, you know what I mean, It doesn't it

1398
01:13:24,360 --> 01:13:28,520
Speaker 1: doesn't matter. I was conflicted actually just now with um.

1399
01:13:28,560 --> 01:13:30,400
Speaker 1: You know, I saw someone saying that they knew this

1400
01:13:30,439 --> 01:13:32,080
Speaker 1: thing for a while and they were waiting for someone

1401
01:13:32,120 --> 01:13:34,599
Speaker 1: to expose him. And people were like, you just say

1402
01:13:34,600 --> 01:13:37,639
Speaker 1: his name and I'll be honest. I was just thinking

1403
01:13:37,640 --> 01:13:42,120
Speaker 1: about saying until I realized we get slander. Um. Oh yeah, no, no, no, no,

1404
01:13:42,160 --> 01:13:43,800
Speaker 1: there's a reason why I didn't say his name. I

1405
01:13:43,840 --> 01:13:46,600
Speaker 1: went on Live also earlier to talk about it, and

1406
01:13:46,600 --> 01:13:48,080
Speaker 1: they're like, well, why won't you just say his name?

1407
01:13:48,080 --> 01:13:50,360
Speaker 1: And I'm like, well, his name is all in the comments.

1408
01:13:50,439 --> 01:13:52,880
Speaker 1: I'm saying, everyone is writing his name in the comments

1409
01:13:52,920 --> 01:13:54,360
Speaker 1: you could see the name right there. There's no need

1410
01:13:54,400 --> 01:13:56,519
Speaker 1: for the name to come UM straight out of my mouth.

1411
01:13:56,560 --> 01:13:59,160
Speaker 1: But yeah, like I said, UM, it was you know,

1412
01:13:59,560 --> 01:14:03,000
Speaker 1: to to a to a place where you know, I'm

1413
01:14:03,040 --> 01:14:06,479
Speaker 1: still getting stories sent to my d M for women

1414
01:14:07,120 --> 01:14:10,040
Speaker 1: UM that have again been on the receiving end of

1415
01:14:10,080 --> 01:14:12,559
Speaker 1: his actions. And I also have friends who have been

1416
01:14:12,560 --> 01:14:16,000
Speaker 1: intimate with him by choice and us having those conversations

1417
01:14:16,000 --> 01:14:18,800
Speaker 1: to where even though they made the choice to be

1418
01:14:18,880 --> 01:14:21,680
Speaker 1: intimate with him, there are still other things that he

1419
01:14:21,720 --> 01:14:24,680
Speaker 1: did aggressively. And so I mean, like I said, I

1420
01:14:24,720 --> 01:14:26,680
Speaker 1: just wanted to speak out about I just wanted to

1421
01:14:26,720 --> 01:14:30,000
Speaker 1: speak out about that, UM. And I know you know,

1422
01:14:30,600 --> 01:14:34,600
Speaker 1: many people maybe you know, hold us definitely to a

1423
01:14:34,680 --> 01:14:37,519
Speaker 1: higher standard and bringing these conversations to light. So I

1424
01:14:37,600 --> 01:14:40,479
Speaker 1: just want everyone to know that, UM, that person has

1425
01:14:40,520 --> 01:14:43,599
Speaker 1: been unfollowed by me. Again, I am speaking for myself,

1426
01:14:44,080 --> 01:14:47,160
Speaker 1: UM that I am no longer associating with that individual.

1427
01:14:47,200 --> 01:14:49,439
Speaker 1: But also UM, to all the women who have reached

1428
01:14:49,439 --> 01:14:53,240
Speaker 1: out to me two people I've had private conversations with. UM,

1429
01:14:53,439 --> 01:14:55,800
Speaker 1: just just know that this has been definitely a matter

1430
01:14:55,880 --> 01:14:59,960
Speaker 1: taken serious and a lot of his friends now are

1431
01:15:00,040 --> 01:15:03,160
Speaker 1: are are definitely holding him accountable. And it's just it's

1432
01:15:03,280 --> 01:15:06,200
Speaker 1: a really rough situation the same way you know, y'all know,

1433
01:15:06,200 --> 01:15:09,760
Speaker 1: I don't like Nicki Minaj, but her brother was, you know,

1434
01:15:10,200 --> 01:15:12,280
Speaker 1: out here being accused of something that she wanted to

1435
01:15:12,280 --> 01:15:14,880
Speaker 1: look past because that was her brother. And a lot

1436
01:15:14,920 --> 01:15:17,680
Speaker 1: of these people are finding the difficulty in holding this

1437
01:15:17,720 --> 01:15:21,280
Speaker 1: man accountable for his actions because their friends. Um, this

1438
01:15:21,320 --> 01:15:25,519
Speaker 1: man is still someone's son, someone's brother, someone's best friend,

1439
01:15:25,640 --> 01:15:28,479
Speaker 1: someone's lying brother. Um. And so just know that it

1440
01:15:28,520 --> 01:15:31,720
Speaker 1: does become difficult when it's the people closest to you

1441
01:15:32,080 --> 01:15:36,000
Speaker 1: being accused with something so heinous. Um. But yeah, I know,

1442
01:15:36,080 --> 01:15:39,000
Speaker 1: I know. Protecting black men is important to us, and

1443
01:15:39,000 --> 01:15:42,200
Speaker 1: in protecting black women, the most disrespected in America is

1444
01:15:42,240 --> 01:15:45,040
Speaker 1: also what I'm in a business for all day, every day.

1445
01:15:45,080 --> 01:15:47,920
Speaker 1: And I know it's hard because you know, we we

1446
01:15:48,000 --> 01:15:49,880
Speaker 1: have to make that choice, but it is what it is.

1447
01:15:49,920 --> 01:15:52,200
Speaker 1: We need to call people when their wrongs. But on

1448
01:15:52,240 --> 01:15:54,880
Speaker 1: a lighter note, um, Blake and Jazz, if you want

1449
01:15:54,880 --> 01:15:57,880
Speaker 1: to have some fun on Sanco de Mayo, drum roll

1450
01:15:59,640 --> 01:16:03,240
Speaker 1: man and you're gonna go on her Patreon again live.

1451
01:16:03,360 --> 01:16:05,080
Speaker 1: So last time we did it, you guys, we had

1452
01:16:05,120 --> 01:16:07,280
Speaker 1: a hundred people because it capped at a hundred, and

1453
01:16:07,320 --> 01:16:09,559
Speaker 1: we basically went on there and we did our whole

1454
01:16:09,560 --> 01:16:11,720
Speaker 1: episode live on the feed and it was fun as fuck.

1455
01:16:12,040 --> 01:16:13,840
Speaker 1: Someone showed a titty at the end. I miss it,

1456
01:16:15,040 --> 01:16:18,720
Speaker 1: but we have. We have lifted our zoom cap as

1457
01:16:18,800 --> 01:16:20,720
Speaker 1: much as we can for right now. So it's two

1458
01:16:20,800 --> 01:16:23,080
Speaker 1: fifty and I'm hoping we can manage that. But I

1459
01:16:23,120 --> 01:16:25,400
Speaker 1: am really looking forward to meeting some more of you guys.

1460
01:16:25,680 --> 01:16:28,960
Speaker 1: I only picked Sinco de Mayo because I'm a lover

1461
01:16:29,000 --> 01:16:31,120
Speaker 1: of tequila and maybe you'll drink because what did you say,

1462
01:16:31,200 --> 01:16:38,840
Speaker 1: birthdays and special cases? Well, yeah, we're good, alright cool.

1463
01:16:39,000 --> 01:16:41,200
Speaker 1: So you guys, if you aren't patrons yet, joined patreon

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Speaker 1: and you'll also be on the receiving end of the

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Speaker 1: link to our zoom with the password. And all right, guys,

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Speaker 1: you're gonna enjoy a five minute clip of our last

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Speaker 1: Patreon episode and we will see you tomorrow. Nate say

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Speaker 1: go to mi ow by by bitch bitch. I ain't

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Speaker 1: even gonna bleat that out. That's owing ship though. That's

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Speaker 1: the kind of stuff you're gonna so you're just letting

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Speaker 1: them know that he ain't using animals out here, You

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Speaker 1: ain't ship. He need to clean the booty before that's

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Speaker 1: the booty play going on. Whoa okay, guys, it's buddy's bitch.

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Speaker 1: I am Medina Monroe and I am a nasty bitch.

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Speaker 1: There you go, there you go. So we are going

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Speaker 1: to get into the icebreaker. And for the icebreaker, I

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Speaker 1: came up with a game. Fuck that. This is a

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Speaker 1: game never played before, and I don't even know how

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Speaker 1: I came up with it, but the name of this

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Speaker 1: game is a nice way to say. So for this game,

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Speaker 1: the that, I am going to give you some scenarios

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Speaker 1: that a lot of us maybe have or have not

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Speaker 1: came across. And you need to let me know. What

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01:18:08,760 --> 01:18:16,120
Speaker 1: is a nice way to say these things? Okay, okay, okay,

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01:18:16,120 --> 01:18:19,040
Speaker 1: what is a nice way to say that your partner

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Speaker 1: has a stench down there? Right? Why did I think

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01:18:25,680 --> 01:18:28,000
Speaker 1: these are gonna be easy? Why did I think that?

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Speaker 1: So he comes in and it comes in, and you

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01:18:33,040 --> 01:18:36,840
Speaker 1: know you you're horny. You'll have been texting Sexton all

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Speaker 1: day and you was ready to put him in your mouth.

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01:18:40,040 --> 01:18:43,800
Speaker 1: And when you go down there, something just doesn't smell right.

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01:18:44,400 --> 01:18:47,360
Speaker 1: How do you let your partner know it's not smeller

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Speaker 1: right down there? Okay? And I'm doing this in a

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Speaker 1: nice way. I would be like I would be down

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Speaker 1: there and I wouldn't be doing anything, Like I would

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Speaker 1: just be down there and not wait for him to

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Speaker 1: say what's what's wrong? And then I would look up

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Speaker 1: and be like, something is something's just a little bit off.

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure what it is, but maybe we both

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01:19:08,479 --> 01:19:11,000
Speaker 1: need to go to the bathroom and check ourselves. Both

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01:19:11,040 --> 01:19:13,200
Speaker 1: of us go to the bathroom and check ourselves because

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Speaker 1: it makes it feel better when I don't know if

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Speaker 1: we need to check ourselves in the nice way you

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Speaker 1: I was thinking, let's just say, let's get exciting, you know,

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01:19:25,240 --> 01:19:28,280
Speaker 1: let's get let's go in the shower, let's spice it

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Speaker 1: up a little bit. That would so you don't want

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Speaker 1: him to actually know he stinksy. I want you to

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01:19:34,479 --> 01:19:39,599
Speaker 1: know something's off, like normally when it's a little independent

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Speaker 1: on what that stinch is, if it's smelling a little fishy.

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Speaker 1: Because here's the thing, Nigga's the only thing. Bitches canna

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Speaker 1: smell like fish but dicks can smell like fish too,

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Speaker 1: especially if you're not circumcised. Okay, see, and I'm not

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Speaker 1: gonna lie. I hate the turtleneck on the peen, so

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Speaker 1: I don't really deal with many turtlenecks. So, wait, you've

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Speaker 1: had men that smell like fish. I've had one one

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Speaker 1: man that he wasn't circumcised. A lot of Canadians aren't circumcised.

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Speaker 1: I think that that's a foreign at least I think

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01:20:08,520 --> 01:20:10,160
Speaker 1: it's like a thing. Yeah, and so if you don't

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Speaker 1: clean it good, it gets that fishy smell. And I

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Speaker 1: think it's because like maybe you have some type of infection.

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Speaker 1: Do you not? Did you not think that maybe he

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Speaker 1: had just got dune a girl? No? Because I rolled

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Speaker 1: it back. Okay, see you are really nasty, but I

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Speaker 1: didn't do it. We didn't have sex. I was just

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Speaker 1: kind of like, oh, I started my period, and that's

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Speaker 1: always like a good that's always a good segue out

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Speaker 1: a tampon in my when I wasn't bleeding, just because

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Speaker 1: niggas being a string and I'd be like, yeah, when

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Speaker 1: you start to either the string hanging, what are you doing?

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Speaker 1: Or they'll be like let me feel and be like there,

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Speaker 1: it's right, there, I'm on it. We'd be lying, but yeah, girl,

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Speaker 1: I would make it a wee thing. I'll be like,

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Speaker 1: let's go to the bathroom and checker. So the next

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Speaker 1: thing is, I would love how you get out of

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Speaker 1: this one. What is a nice way to say your

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Speaker 1: partner sucks at giving it and that has happened, and

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Speaker 1: what do you say? I I hate to say I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna say the nice thing, but I typically don't say anything.

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Speaker 1: I just pull their chin up so that they stopped

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01:21:16,800 --> 01:21:18,439
Speaker 1: and just come up and kiss me. But if I

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Speaker 1: had to actually use my words to say this doesn't

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Speaker 1: feel good, I'll be like, baby, can you spit on

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01:21:23,320 --> 01:21:25,200
Speaker 1: it a little bit? Make it wetter? I would start

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01:21:25,240 --> 01:21:27,320
Speaker 1: to just guide them into what I want them to do.

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01:21:27,360 --> 01:21:31,160
Speaker 1: I like wet head, And to me, the only way

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01:21:31,200 --> 01:21:33,599
Speaker 1: the pussy is not eating right is if you're like

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01:21:33,800 --> 01:21:38,360
Speaker 1: cat or or you're nawing right. Yeah, y'all know, I

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01:21:38,400 --> 01:21:41,120
Speaker 1: don't even like it like that. But I mean, I'm

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01:21:41,120 --> 01:21:44,360
Speaker 1: going to go down there just we're having oral but

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01:21:44,400 --> 01:21:46,360
Speaker 1: then i'd be just man. But I don't really like

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01:21:46,439 --> 01:21:49,040
Speaker 1: it like that. So even if you're having sex with

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01:21:49,080 --> 01:21:52,280
Speaker 1: a woman, you don't want her to eat your pussy. No,

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01:21:52,600 --> 01:21:56,639
Speaker 1: Like even when when me Andreau she did some things

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01:21:56,680 --> 01:22:01,360
Speaker 1: with her fingers, bitch she made. I was like, holy

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01:22:01,439 --> 01:22:04,639
Speaker 1: sh it, Like I was like she made so even

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Speaker 1: when I funk with a girl, I'm I'm cool on heads,

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Speaker 1: so like we got because I come off penetration. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I've shared this on the show so many times, like

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Speaker 1: like that's why I felt like every time I was like,

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Speaker 1: I came like he like I come off dick. I come,

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Speaker 1: which is why I know I'm not gay, Like, so

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Speaker 1: do you eat? I love I love sucking dick and

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Speaker 1: I love giving head, so I love giving it. I

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Speaker 1: get wet by giving and pleasing