1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:03,720 Speaker 1: Sup y'all we wanted to give some shout outs. Yeah, yeah, 2 00:00:03,720 --> 00:00:07,240 Speaker 1: we were. So we went to Playlist Live in Orlando, Florida. 3 00:00:07,440 --> 00:00:11,560 Speaker 1: Yeah we did, and dude, I got recognized by my 4 00:00:11,680 --> 00:00:15,560 Speaker 1: TSA agent on the way over there. John missed it 5 00:00:15,600 --> 00:00:17,280 Speaker 1: by like like a little bit. 6 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:19,520 Speaker 2: I saw we I ended up having this whole debacle 7 00:00:19,560 --> 00:00:21,840 Speaker 2: with my flight, so I left thirty seconds before he 8 00:00:21,920 --> 00:00:25,320 Speaker 2: was recognized. Yeah, and then my TSA agent I pull 9 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:29,960 Speaker 2: out my ID and I am clean shaven, and he's like, oh, 10 00:00:30,040 --> 00:00:32,360 Speaker 2: you look better with a beard. And I'm like, yeah, 11 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:34,199 Speaker 2: why why you disson me when I'm just trying to 12 00:00:34,240 --> 00:00:36,160 Speaker 2: get to my try to go to the flight, trying 13 00:00:36,159 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 2: to get a shout out to Kevin. 14 00:00:37,040 --> 00:00:40,240 Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure he having Kevin. Shout out to Kevin. 15 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:43,879 Speaker 2: He said he's listened to every episode for like the 16 00:00:43,920 --> 00:00:46,279 Speaker 2: past year or something. Now I know, so Kevin, if 17 00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:48,560 Speaker 2: you say this right now, big shout out to Kevin. 18 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:51,720 Speaker 2: Not to you, also, Camment if you if you saw this, 19 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:56,680 Speaker 2: definitely also shout out to Hayley. That's why I I 20 00:00:57,040 --> 00:00:58,920 Speaker 2: don't know if we. 21 00:00:58,840 --> 00:01:01,120 Speaker 1: Also ran into a bunch of Fanto Playlists Live when 22 00:01:01,120 --> 00:01:04,080 Speaker 1: we were actually there, yes, which is crazy because it's like, 23 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 1: you know, you know, we see like you guys comment 24 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:09,839 Speaker 1: on the videos and its views, but it's so weird, 25 00:01:09,959 --> 00:01:11,640 Speaker 1: just like actually seeing people in real life. 26 00:01:11,720 --> 00:01:13,319 Speaker 3: It's very it's very insane. 27 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:16,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, because we don't think of ourselves as not at 28 00:01:16,560 --> 00:01:17,560 Speaker 1: all anyone. 29 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:20,720 Speaker 3: Bro, literally not. We are worse than darts. 30 00:01:20,840 --> 00:01:23,200 Speaker 2: I'm literally thinking like people say like, oh hi, and 31 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:24,319 Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, do you know what? 32 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:25,920 Speaker 3: Like do you want to know what time it is? 33 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:28,280 Speaker 3: Or you're looking for something? You know what I mean? 34 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:31,600 Speaker 2: But yeah, Haley shout out to Haley. I don't think 35 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:34,399 Speaker 2: you ran into her. But she took a picture with 36 00:01:34,480 --> 00:01:37,119 Speaker 2: me and Alex Weber and some other people. 37 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:39,119 Speaker 3: I don't know she compared to Alex Weber. 38 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:40,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, in the same photo. 39 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:41,320 Speaker 3: Not in the same pot. 40 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:41,960 Speaker 4: Okay, that's cool. 41 00:01:42,280 --> 00:01:42,520 Speaker 3: Yeah. 42 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:45,960 Speaker 2: Alex Webber is like, bro, I love okop, Bro, you 43 00:01:46,040 --> 00:01:47,880 Speaker 2: guys are so great. No, no, no, not at all, 44 00:01:47,920 --> 00:01:49,600 Speaker 2: not at all. Sam was wait did you get to 45 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 2: see him? No? 46 00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:52,640 Speaker 1: Oh, I saw him in the airport going back. Actually 47 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 1: oh really, I didn't say hi. 48 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:55,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's it's always a tough call with it. 49 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 2: I actually recently saw the Chief Content Officer of Title 50 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:02,280 Speaker 2: was right next to me at a Kendrick concerts. The 51 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:07,280 Speaker 2: title titles the big streaming platform like Spotify and Spotify competitor. Uh, 52 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:10,400 Speaker 2: and I mean he's like a legend. Yeah, and no 53 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:12,880 Speaker 2: one recognized who he was except for me, I'm sure. 54 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:15,680 Speaker 2: And but it was a Kendrick concert so it was 55 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:17,880 Speaker 2: like loud and sweaty bodies were everywhere. 56 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:19,960 Speaker 3: So I was like, let me not do it. And 57 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:22,560 Speaker 3: then a concert was over. I looked around. 58 00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:23,200 Speaker 4: He was gone. 59 00:02:24,080 --> 00:02:26,760 Speaker 1: Also, shout out to a Laura. I think we might 60 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:30,440 Speaker 1: be I remember one person that we we we saw 61 00:02:30,480 --> 00:02:36,160 Speaker 1: a ton forgetting her her name. But if please comment, 62 00:02:36,240 --> 00:02:38,080 Speaker 1: please comment. If you were there and you saw us, 63 00:02:38,160 --> 00:02:39,720 Speaker 1: we're there and you saw us, we do comment, and 64 00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 1: we'll give. 65 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:41,680 Speaker 3: You another a whole second. 66 00:02:41,760 --> 00:02:44,919 Speaker 1: Who shout second shout out and it'll be a fat, 67 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:50,520 Speaker 1: beefy shout at, like we'll we'll read your life story. Yeah, 68 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 1: and if you guys ever see us in the wild, 69 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:54,119 Speaker 1: please say what's up? 70 00:02:54,200 --> 00:02:57,320 Speaker 3: Please say hi, that's cool, it's nice. 71 00:02:57,480 --> 00:03:00,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, We're we try. I think we're nice person. 72 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:03,760 Speaker 2: I think so I'm like down to like it was 73 00:03:03,760 --> 00:03:06,280 Speaker 2: funny because Haley ran up and like took a picture 74 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:07,400 Speaker 2: and then ran away. 75 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:09,959 Speaker 3: And I was like I'm down, like hey, like what's up? 76 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:12,200 Speaker 2: Like how you doing? Like how are you doing this? 77 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 2: So we won't like, uh like, oh gosh, take a 78 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 2: picture and leave. You know, that's that's not us. 79 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:21,519 Speaker 1: We're down to like chat shoot the ship man. But AnyWho, 80 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 1: we got a hot, steaming fresh story for y'all today. 81 00:03:26,200 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 1: I decided to ban my transgender sister from attending my 82 00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:33,720 Speaker 1: own wedding because my parents did the unthinkable. I banned 83 00:03:33,720 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 1: the sister when the parents did the unthinkable. Wait what 84 00:03:37,400 --> 00:03:40,800 Speaker 1: why ban the sister when the parents said the unthinkable? Right, 85 00:03:40,920 --> 00:03:42,080 Speaker 1: That's that's the question. 86 00:03:42,120 --> 00:03:45,160 Speaker 4: I am. This is a case that needs to be solved, 87 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 4: that's right. 88 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:48,400 Speaker 2: So there's something not right here. So some background. I 89 00:03:48,400 --> 00:03:50,480 Speaker 2: have a transistor who came out to us around a 90 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:53,320 Speaker 2: year ago, but had been on hormones for longer and 91 00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:55,680 Speaker 2: hid it from us until she had moved out into 92 00:03:55,720 --> 00:03:59,600 Speaker 2: her own place, probably because our parents are very conservative 93 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 2: and known to be transphobic. 94 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:01,400 Speaker 4: Yikes. 95 00:04:01,520 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 2: As a result, there was a huge fight and a 96 00:04:04,160 --> 00:04:07,240 Speaker 2: ton of people in our family, including our own parents, 97 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 2: cut her off and did not want to talk to 98 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 2: her anymore. 99 00:04:10,160 --> 00:04:13,160 Speaker 4: Yo. That sucks freaking rough. 100 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:14,520 Speaker 3: People are insane. 101 00:04:15,320 --> 00:04:17,600 Speaker 2: I like to think I've been pretty supportive of her 102 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:20,680 Speaker 2: so far, using her pronouns and her name and all that, 103 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:23,719 Speaker 2: which has been hard considering our family gives us crap 104 00:04:23,800 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 2: for doing so. I even make it a point to 105 00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:28,920 Speaker 2: visit her every so often, while she hasn't seen most 106 00:04:28,960 --> 00:04:30,760 Speaker 2: of our other family since last year. 107 00:04:31,040 --> 00:04:34,839 Speaker 1: Wow, just being totally cut off, it's so rough awful. 108 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:37,240 Speaker 2: I also promised her that if and when I got 109 00:04:37,240 --> 00:04:40,680 Speaker 2: married in the future, she'd still be invited despite any 110 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:41,920 Speaker 2: tension with our family. 111 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:45,360 Speaker 4: Okay, So, I mean it seems like Op's being. 112 00:04:45,839 --> 00:04:50,120 Speaker 2: Thus far like doing what they should be, just support 113 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:50,559 Speaker 2: their sister. 114 00:04:50,760 --> 00:04:54,600 Speaker 1: But dude, what a what a awful And how do 115 00:04:54,640 --> 00:04:55,440 Speaker 1: you like navigate? 116 00:04:55,520 --> 00:04:58,800 Speaker 2: Literally you're cut off from the people you grew up 117 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:00,760 Speaker 2: with and like everything. 118 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 1: And it's like also like OP he is is caught 119 00:05:03,560 --> 00:05:06,920 Speaker 1: in the middle of it too. They're caught up in 120 00:05:06,920 --> 00:05:10,560 Speaker 1: in the the bigotry that these parents exactly. 121 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:12,320 Speaker 3: And it's and that's a that's a tough position to 122 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:13,479 Speaker 3: be into, you know what I mean. 123 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:15,200 Speaker 4: It's tough for Yeah. 124 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 2: It's tough for everybody, well not the people. It's easy 125 00:05:18,520 --> 00:05:20,800 Speaker 2: easy to cut someone off, but not easy for OP. 126 00:05:21,240 --> 00:05:24,800 Speaker 2: Or their sibling. Now, me and my fiance got engaged 127 00:05:24,880 --> 00:05:29,160 Speaker 2: a while back. My parents, especially my dad, absolutely adore 128 00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:32,200 Speaker 2: this guy, and since my sister came out, they've almost 129 00:05:32,240 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 2: seen him as their substitute son. 130 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:39,520 Speaker 1: Oh that's bro, that's like I mean, like it's good 131 00:05:40,200 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 1: that they like the son, but the substitute substitute son 132 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:52,320 Speaker 1: so fun. But my like, my brain just breaks comprehending, like, okay, uh, 133 00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:55,240 Speaker 1: the parents were probably raised with all this ideology. 134 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:58,120 Speaker 3: Did I get that? But it's like your your your child? 135 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:01,280 Speaker 1: How does like how does like like love not trump, 136 00:06:02,200 --> 00:06:03,240 Speaker 1: you know, the bigot tree and. 137 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:07,840 Speaker 2: Even like your child like murdering someone, It's just like 138 00:06:08,080 --> 00:06:11,680 Speaker 2: it's it's still had, there's still an element of like, 139 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:13,920 Speaker 2: like that is that is my child? I don't know, 140 00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:15,919 Speaker 2: Like I just can't. 141 00:06:15,760 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 1: And like how like how could you disown your child 142 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:20,279 Speaker 1: and you walk away from your own child? 143 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:22,279 Speaker 3: It just blows my mind, Like I don't. 144 00:06:22,120 --> 00:06:24,800 Speaker 4: Understand not good parents? No. 145 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:29,159 Speaker 2: Almost As a result, he's definitely more on their side 146 00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:29,919 Speaker 2: of the situation. 147 00:06:30,320 --> 00:06:30,800 Speaker 3: Yikes. 148 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:33,520 Speaker 2: And he's made it clear that he doesn't really agree 149 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:36,680 Speaker 2: with or like my sister at all that much. That's 150 00:06:36,720 --> 00:06:40,720 Speaker 2: a red flag, bro, Right, that's a big red flag if. 151 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:44,920 Speaker 1: You don't like someone's family. I mean, it's that's especially 152 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 1: if you are if that person likes their family, that's 153 00:06:49,040 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 1: gonna be a hard thing to. 154 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:51,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's one thing if like it's just like a 155 00:06:51,720 --> 00:06:54,440 Speaker 2: random family member who's like an asshole. Yeah, but like 156 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:58,080 Speaker 2: this is like the sister that has done literally nothing 157 00:06:58,400 --> 00:07:00,599 Speaker 2: nothing wrong, literally nothing wrong. 158 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:02,719 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's a red flag. 159 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:06,920 Speaker 2: Also seems like weirdly opportunistic. It's like what it seems 160 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:09,880 Speaker 2: it seems like Opie's fiance is kind of like a 161 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:14,360 Speaker 2: dot like leaning into this adoption the like adopted son role, 162 00:07:14,760 --> 00:07:16,400 Speaker 2: which is like I don't know, it's like a bit 163 00:07:17,120 --> 00:07:18,080 Speaker 2: like let me use this to. 164 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:20,840 Speaker 1: Know if I necessarily see it as opportunistic. But I 165 00:07:20,880 --> 00:07:24,920 Speaker 1: do see it as a like red flag that he 166 00:07:25,120 --> 00:07:29,000 Speaker 1: is siding with the parents on these issues. 167 00:07:29,240 --> 00:07:31,720 Speaker 2: I'm making an assumption, but yeah, it's it's it's at 168 00:07:31,760 --> 00:07:35,120 Speaker 2: the bare minimum. It's very strange that you're not sighting 169 00:07:35,120 --> 00:07:38,280 Speaker 2: with is usually you side with your partner that's the 170 00:07:38,280 --> 00:07:41,080 Speaker 2: one you love and like literally live your life with. 171 00:07:41,320 --> 00:07:45,600 Speaker 2: So it after the proposal, which was very elaborate and 172 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:49,840 Speaker 2: surprising and orchestrated by my parents, my parents who also. 173 00:07:49,680 --> 00:07:51,880 Speaker 4: Have to be parents, orchestrated the proposal. 174 00:07:52,320 --> 00:07:57,200 Speaker 2: They're also wedding planners, it seems that's that's interesting. They 175 00:07:57,240 --> 00:07:59,840 Speaker 2: all started talking with me about planning the big day 176 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:04,400 Speaker 2: and even offered to pay for everything. Oh wow, I 177 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:07,360 Speaker 2: mentioned wanting to invite my sister, and they shut the 178 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:12,840 Speaker 2: idea down immediately, talking about how she disrespected the family 179 00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:16,920 Speaker 2: and cut them off and all that. Buddy, it sounds 180 00:08:16,960 --> 00:08:19,679 Speaker 2: like you cut the sister off. 181 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:21,440 Speaker 4: Yeah. Wow. 182 00:08:21,760 --> 00:08:26,440 Speaker 2: They basically gave me an ultimatum either have my wedding 183 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:30,960 Speaker 2: planned and paid for by them or have my sister there, 184 00:08:31,360 --> 00:08:33,000 Speaker 2: and they do not come at all. 185 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:33,880 Speaker 4: Fuck. 186 00:08:34,360 --> 00:08:42,439 Speaker 2: What a terrible, awful, absolutely effing awful. Why why you 187 00:08:42,440 --> 00:08:45,280 Speaker 2: would literally miss your own child's wedding because of something 188 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:48,560 Speaker 2: as stupid as that your own child's wedding? 189 00:08:48,760 --> 00:08:51,320 Speaker 4: Dude, that I feel like, that's a hard decision. 190 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:55,320 Speaker 1: That's a very hard decision. That's a hard decision. Maybe 191 00:08:55,400 --> 00:08:58,360 Speaker 1: like maybe you have like a double wedding or something. 192 00:08:58,960 --> 00:09:00,880 Speaker 3: I don't know, This is a that's tough. 193 00:09:01,120 --> 00:09:01,400 Speaker 4: Fuck. 194 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:06,160 Speaker 2: I took my parents off. In the end, I finally 195 00:09:06,240 --> 00:09:10,640 Speaker 2: decided to take my parents' offer because I can't really 196 00:09:10,720 --> 00:09:13,920 Speaker 2: afford to pay for an entire wedding and because my 197 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:16,560 Speaker 2: fiance pressured me into accepting it. 198 00:09:17,160 --> 00:09:23,200 Speaker 1: The fiance sounds like, I don't know, not not not great. 199 00:09:24,160 --> 00:09:27,079 Speaker 1: Fiance is like that's more in bed with the parents. 200 00:09:27,080 --> 00:09:30,080 Speaker 2: Then I broke the news to my sister and she's 201 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:34,760 Speaker 2: very understandably upset. But I'm still inviting her to a 202 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:37,760 Speaker 2: smaller after party over zoom, so we can still be 203 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:41,800 Speaker 2: together on the big day over zoom. Though over zoom, 204 00:09:41,880 --> 00:09:46,560 Speaker 2: like assume after party that's almost like assault to injury. 205 00:09:46,600 --> 00:09:47,439 Speaker 4: Yeah, you know what I mean. 206 00:09:47,640 --> 00:09:50,880 Speaker 3: I still feel really guilty about this though, So Reddit, 207 00:09:51,200 --> 00:09:52,839 Speaker 3: am I the a hole dude? 208 00:09:53,080 --> 00:09:59,760 Speaker 2: I mean this, this is a drastically drastically challenging situation 209 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:02,680 Speaker 2: to be in, and. 210 00:10:04,280 --> 00:10:07,480 Speaker 4: You know, not the a whole not yeah, not the 211 00:10:07,520 --> 00:10:08,079 Speaker 4: a whole. 212 00:10:08,360 --> 00:10:12,440 Speaker 1: I don't know if, like, like, by accepting this kind 213 00:10:12,480 --> 00:10:15,640 Speaker 1: of wedding, you're probably doing so in a way that 214 00:10:15,679 --> 00:10:17,480 Speaker 1: doesn't completely align with your values. 215 00:10:18,040 --> 00:10:22,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like, I'm so. Here's here's one question I have. 216 00:10:23,440 --> 00:10:28,280 Speaker 2: The parents later in the story offered to pay for 217 00:10:28,360 --> 00:10:31,200 Speaker 2: the wedding, So were they going to pay for the 218 00:10:31,200 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 2: wedding themselves before. 219 00:10:34,360 --> 00:10:35,280 Speaker 3: Like it came up? 220 00:10:35,880 --> 00:10:37,480 Speaker 4: I think I think they were it seems like they 221 00:10:37,480 --> 00:10:38,560 Speaker 4: were going to pay for the wedding. 222 00:10:38,800 --> 00:10:45,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe maybe, I mean, but I don't know. I mean. 223 00:10:46,960 --> 00:10:51,840 Speaker 2: So actually probably the payment is in all, in the 224 00:10:51,880 --> 00:10:54,720 Speaker 2: grander scheme of things, the payment issue is the much 225 00:10:54,760 --> 00:10:58,600 Speaker 2: smaller issue. The issue is the parents and the sister. 226 00:10:59,240 --> 00:10:59,440 Speaker 4: I mean. 227 00:10:59,480 --> 00:11:02,160 Speaker 1: The payment a huge issue though too. That's like can 228 00:11:02,200 --> 00:11:05,760 Speaker 1: be I mean a wedding like like like a like 229 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:07,160 Speaker 1: a like a bigger. 230 00:11:06,880 --> 00:11:08,520 Speaker 4: Wedding if you want to have a big wedding, it's like, 231 00:11:08,520 --> 00:11:08,960 Speaker 4: can you think. 232 00:11:09,160 --> 00:11:12,440 Speaker 2: But the thing is, we recently had some friends married 233 00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:14,840 Speaker 2: that paid like less than three thousand dollars for their wedding, right, 234 00:11:14,880 --> 00:11:15,520 Speaker 2: so it's like. 235 00:11:16,960 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 3: It was on a beach. It was amazing. 236 00:11:18,160 --> 00:11:20,480 Speaker 2: Actually they had they made like a handmade like chalkboard 237 00:11:20,520 --> 00:11:22,560 Speaker 2: sign and who was on the beach, like, I mean, 238 00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:27,240 Speaker 2: it had all of them like it's it had the 239 00:11:27,280 --> 00:11:29,559 Speaker 2: same like impact as like a kind of big fancy 240 00:11:29,559 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 2: wedding wood in my opinion, And so at the end 241 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:35,520 Speaker 2: of the day, there it sucks because this is supposed 242 00:11:35,520 --> 00:11:38,200 Speaker 2: to this. It's totally fair for it to be like, hey, 243 00:11:38,240 --> 00:11:40,400 Speaker 2: this is Op's like big day, like op should be 244 00:11:40,400 --> 00:11:42,880 Speaker 2: able to have, you know what she wants, but like 245 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:48,920 Speaker 2: either way, this is an absolutely f FT scenario all around, 246 00:11:48,960 --> 00:11:50,040 Speaker 2: all around, all around,