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Speaker 1: well a good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. Yeah, I got a radio show. Okay, this

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Speaker 1: is timely for everybody. I'm sure I want to offer

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Speaker 1: tell you something. You strike out on your goals, you

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Speaker 1: as it happens to all of us. Here it comes life.

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Speaker 1: when when the out of nowhere appears, when I didn't

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Speaker 1: Here is the thing that I have been teaching myself

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Speaker 1: be encouraged anyway. Now that's difficult, Okay, Steve, what you're

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Speaker 1: talking about? You just told me all this discouraging stuff

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Speaker 1: Old Lord? Why met old Lord? Something always happened to me,

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Speaker 1: something always happens to everybody. But here's what you got

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Speaker 1: all that you've come through. You have to remember those

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Speaker 1: And I don't watch this dude too. He to mess

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Speaker 1: But stay in that place, man, don't ever give up.

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Speaker 1: Don't let go be encouraged. Think of all you've been through,

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Speaker 1: Don't give up. I'll just tell you that flat out.

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Speaker 1: Don't ever give up. You're listening, coming in Salt, coming

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Speaker 1: Timmy holding it down. Steve harp In Morning Show with

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Speaker 1: another month? Don't you worrybody right now? Sexy Timmy to you,

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Speaker 1: Now you go ahead, call you go ahead. Wait. I

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Speaker 1: That's all that is I just don't ask you to

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Speaker 1: That's it. Just sexy times, that's all. Good morning, sexy times,

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Speaker 1: Good morning sexy Tommy was scratch that I'm and just

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Speaker 1: I know I've been knowing you for years. I know

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Speaker 1: when when your voice coming back. I need the strong

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Speaker 1: I don't think we've ever heard your sexy boys. What

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Speaker 1: All right, guys, it is time to start your morning

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Speaker 1: That's right here. It's title bring my Breast Back, you understand.

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying, you bought them. You bought them you

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Speaker 1: ought to be to get them back? What's up calling you? What? What? What? What?

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Speaker 1: What about the BBL You kind of touched on it yesterday.

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Speaker 1: I ain't never invested in No, but no, no bbl's here.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? Why I sound like some

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Speaker 1: big booty Ladies? Okay? Is that what it is? Bbl's

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Speaker 1: that's what That's what some people think it stands for.

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Speaker 1: If I buy you Brazilian butt lifts, that's what it's

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Speaker 1: now me oh, let oh, let just a just a

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach Oliver. Yeah, this is him. Hey,

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Speaker 1: you married? You? You engaged in Madison? Right? Yes, I am.

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Speaker 1: My name is Ricky. Man. Have you heard about the

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Speaker 1: last person that she was engaged too? Well, she kind

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Speaker 1: of spoke briefly about you. You know what. Man? First

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Speaker 1: of all, let me just say this, congratulations. Okay. Let

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Speaker 1: What you got hair on your calf muscle? Dog, Come

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Speaker 1: is you doing in his toiletry bay? That's how you

419
00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:35,639
Speaker 1: flipping it? What are you doing in there? That's got

420
00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:37,720
Speaker 1: nothing to do with you. That. Ain't you deodorin that,

421
00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:41,000
Speaker 1: ain't your toothpaste? What are you doing in his toiletry bay?

422
00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:44,200
Speaker 1: And whatever? He said, that's what it is. That's for

423
00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:47,840
Speaker 1: the rest of the group. Okay, that's Robbie, Bobby Rick

424
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:57,560
Speaker 1: and Mike. Robbie Bobby Rick and Mike shout out to

425
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Speaker 1: brook manager, what's up? Yeah, No, I'm with Tommy. If

426
00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:10,440
Speaker 1: we stand inside, what are you doing in that toward

427
00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:12,280
Speaker 1: your back? That is none of your business. Let me

428
00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:15,320
Speaker 1: say something. Do you know how much sex backup singers get.

429
00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:19,080
Speaker 1: It ain't just for the league group. Backup singers get

430
00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:24,840
Speaker 1: action too, they do, Okay, get the matter. They don't

431
00:27:24,880 --> 00:27:26,920
Speaker 1: get what the group don't want. They get what the

432
00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:29,240
Speaker 1: group don't want. That's how that go. You have to

433
00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:32,120
Speaker 1: have condoms for them because they ain't thinking. And then

434
00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:35,720
Speaker 1: the band got the drama, got get a drama song.

435
00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:43,680
Speaker 1: Come on, rama that stupid. I don't believe them, don't

436
00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:47,440
Speaker 1: believe them, don't don't believe them. Oh my god, you

437
00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:52,639
Speaker 1: have to. I believe because he believe manager managers. They

438
00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:56,280
Speaker 1: got promise you. The road manager got everything in me

439
00:27:56,920 --> 00:28:01,320
Speaker 1: everything I'd be proof and condoms. Come on now, all

440
00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:05,280
Speaker 1: that he got all of it and whatever he don't have,

441
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:08,280
Speaker 1: he gonna. He knows how to get it even okay,

442
00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:12,200
Speaker 1: all right, all right, um, moving on, last one guy,

443
00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:16,560
Speaker 1: he can get some chilly go ahead. I'm moving on

444
00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:20,280
Speaker 1: to Marcus in Nashville. Marcus says, I'm forty nine and

445
00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:23,040
Speaker 1: I've been married since i was twenty one years old.

446
00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:26,280
Speaker 1: I've been focused NonStop. I'm providing a good life for

447
00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:29,040
Speaker 1: my family. My wife says she needs a break from

448
00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:31,280
Speaker 1: me and our kids. So she's going on a vacation

449
00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 1: by herself. I've done because I've never needed a break

450
00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:39,120
Speaker 1: from her. Why does she need to be alone? Well,

451
00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:40,400
Speaker 1: let me tell you this. I don't know why she

452
00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:42,200
Speaker 1: need to be alone. It's probably you. But let me

453
00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:44,600
Speaker 1: tell you it's been to happen on that weekend. Does

454
00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:49,080
Speaker 1: she leave? It's going down? What's going down? What everything

455
00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:55,720
Speaker 1: she beends to do? It? Calla what? What? What? Man?

456
00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:58,000
Speaker 1: You're saying, she's gonna be with a man? Don't meet

457
00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:01,200
Speaker 1: somebody now? Or somebody gonna meet hard hel she gonna

458
00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:04,720
Speaker 1: meet somebody? Why she there? But it's going down and

459
00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:07,280
Speaker 1: when she come back, you're not gonna know what damn

460
00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:09,440
Speaker 1: thinking about. I just think it's a self care mental

461
00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:18,000
Speaker 1: health break. Yeah, I'm all right, Thank you guys. Coming

462
00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:20,160
Speaker 1: up next it is at the top of the hour.

463
00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:22,840
Speaker 1: Some entertainment news for you. Right after this, you can

464
00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:24,800
Speaker 1: go to your mama house with self kill. You ain't

465
00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:33,040
Speaker 1: got to go way out. You're listening show. We've all

466
00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:36,680
Speaker 1: seen the picture of Kanye West and right wing activist

467
00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:40,560
Speaker 1: political activist Candice owens they were both rocking White Live

468
00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 1: Matter T shirts at his Easy fashion show in Paris. Now,

469
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:49,280
Speaker 1: in response to the picture, black Lives Matter movement is

470
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Speaker 1: going after Kanye, saying it's nothing but a stunt to

471
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Speaker 1: her folks fighting for justice. In a released statement, black

472
00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:59,840
Speaker 1: Lives Matter said, um, while some may see Kanye and can'

473
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:03,120
Speaker 1: it's a stunt as a distraction, we recognize that it

474
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Speaker 1: harms thousands of families fighting for justice for their loved

475
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Speaker 1: ones killed by state sanctioned violence. Kanye says he wore

476
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Speaker 1: the White Lives Matter T shirt at his fashion show

477
00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:18,720
Speaker 1: because he thinks Black Lives Matter was a quote scam. Wow,

478
00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:24,280
Speaker 1: he just can't get him stupid to te Yeah, I'm

479
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:26,840
Speaker 1: tired of talking about him. I really am. I'm dead.

480
00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:28,880
Speaker 1: I'm not giving him the more chances. I'm not. He

481
00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:30,640
Speaker 1: not getting the more for me. That's it, and that's

482
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:34,240
Speaker 1: what happens. We keep giving him chances, we keep talking

483
00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:39,280
Speaker 1: to him and listening to him. Yeah, it's insulting for him.

484
00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:44,160
Speaker 1: It is shirt. It is sulting and I cannot believe

485
00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:46,160
Speaker 1: that he wore that shirt. And I can't this. Some

486
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:50,600
Speaker 1: one I could care less. Yeah, and we can believe. Yes,

487
00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:55,800
Speaker 1: I'm not shocked about her. But Kanye, come on, come on,

488
00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:58,960
Speaker 1: come on this Yeah, it's disappointing. It's it's but like

489
00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:04,840
Speaker 1: he's attention, very much so attention and you know this

490
00:31:05,040 --> 00:31:08,760
Speaker 1: whole it's we never said. No one has ever said

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Speaker 1: that white lives matter, white lives didn't matter, No one

492
00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:16,040
Speaker 1: has ever said that. All we said is black lives matter.

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00:31:16,320 --> 00:31:18,840
Speaker 1: That's what we as a people have said because we

494
00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:21,680
Speaker 1: were the ones being gunned down, shot and killed, you

495
00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:26,000
Speaker 1: know before America's very eyes, you know, and that's all. Yeah,

496
00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:30,520
Speaker 1: and that's all it's been. Yeah, Tommy, all lives matter.

497
00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:34,840
Speaker 1: Absolutely they did. But I want to say this, a

498
00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:38,360
Speaker 1: good black ass whooping would matter, mole. If we can

499
00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:46,400
Speaker 1: just give Kanye to whopping that beam black ass whopping,

500
00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:51,640
Speaker 1: we just need it bad that he needed good baw.

501
00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:54,560
Speaker 1: He does well. And it goes back to what we

502
00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:56,800
Speaker 1: were saying too well, what Shirley was saying with black

503
00:31:56,880 --> 00:32:02,080
Speaker 1: lives matter, all we were saying was don't It's like

504
00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:04,600
Speaker 1: when you kill us and you shoot us, we're saying,

505
00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:06,920
Speaker 1: don't kill and shoot us like you don't do them.

506
00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:11,040
Speaker 1: We're not telling you to do that. We're saying, don't

507
00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:13,840
Speaker 1: kill us, like you don't kill them. That's what black

508
00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:17,240
Speaker 1: lives matter, That's what it means, that's what right. That's

509
00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:21,160
Speaker 1: killing us. Stop killing us. You don't kill them. Don't

510
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:24,920
Speaker 1: kill usus for just a minor traffic stop, you know,

511
00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:28,440
Speaker 1: you stop someone black person in a car. Yeah, and

512
00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:32,760
Speaker 1: there still and it were still and we're still seeing it.

513
00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:34,760
Speaker 1: I mean, I was looking on social media to day.

514
00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:37,080
Speaker 1: I'm looking at a kid that did something wrong in

515
00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:39,800
Speaker 1: school and I'm watching police officers come up and just

516
00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:44,320
Speaker 1: oh my god, what they are doing. The amount, the

517
00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 1: limit that they go to is is crazy. Man. But

518
00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:51,400
Speaker 1: Drell drugged this kid down the bleachers, pepper spray, I

519
00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:53,560
Speaker 1: mean everything, And I'm like, oh my god, they're gonna

520
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:57,200
Speaker 1: kill it. Yeah yeah, yeah. So Kanye, you're wrong for this.

521
00:32:57,560 --> 00:33:00,680
Speaker 1: You're you're wrong for this. You are wrong for his

522
00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:07,440
Speaker 1: name marries him, Yeah all right, herschell Walker also in

523
00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:11,080
Speaker 1: the news. Yeah, he's of course, a Republican Senate candidate

524
00:33:11,160 --> 00:33:14,680
Speaker 1: in Georgia. Walker has come under fire by his own son,

525
00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:18,000
Speaker 1: Christian Walker, in a series of tweets. The Daily Beast

526
00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:20,280
Speaker 1: recently ran a story about a woman who claimed that

527
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Speaker 1: herschel Walker got her pregnant in two thousand and nine

528
00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:26,440
Speaker 1: and then paid for her to have an abortion. Christian

529
00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:30,200
Speaker 1: his son tweeted, I know my mom and I would

530
00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:33,800
Speaker 1: really appreciate if my father herschel Walker stopped lying and

531
00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:37,120
Speaker 1: making a mockery of us. You're not a family man.

532
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:40,280
Speaker 1: When you left us to bang a bunch of women,

533
00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:42,880
Speaker 1: threatened to kill us, and had us move over six

534
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:47,240
Speaker 1: times in six months running from your violence. Yeah, he continued,

535
00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:50,080
Speaker 1: I don't care about someone who has had bad past

536
00:33:50,320 --> 00:33:53,960
Speaker 1: and who's had a bad past and takes accountability. But

537
00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:56,520
Speaker 1: how dare you lie in act as though you're some

538
00:33:56,720 --> 00:34:01,000
Speaker 1: moral Christian upright man. You've lived a life of destroying

539
00:34:01,160 --> 00:34:11,040
Speaker 1: other people's lives. How dare you you? Huh herschel Oh yeah, goodness.

540
00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:15,880
Speaker 1: You know there are a bunch of commercials in Georgia,

541
00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:18,799
Speaker 1: and you know one of them is his ex wife

542
00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:20,719
Speaker 1: saying that he put a gun to her head, and

543
00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:26,680
Speaker 1: you know, oh my god. Yeah. Yeah, but he wants

544
00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:31,200
Speaker 1: to run for senator. Yeah, he's running against Senator Senator

545
00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:35,879
Speaker 1: Rafael Warnock. Yeah, from Georgia to get out of voting. Yeah,

546
00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:38,239
Speaker 1: we have to, we have to. I want to send

547
00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:42,200
Speaker 1: Herschel a nice bouquet of cotton. You know what I'm saying,

548
00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:47,000
Speaker 1: bouquet of cotton. You know what I'm saying. I mean that.

549
00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:50,359
Speaker 1: Don't that make sense? Though? It makes sense though. Oh

550
00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:54,760
Speaker 1: and by the way, uh, the debate between Senator Rafael

551
00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:58,080
Speaker 1: Warnock and Herschel Walker, it was scheduled for next week

552
00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:00,400
Speaker 1: and making verse they weren't going to debate, then they

553
00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:05,239
Speaker 1: scheduled a debate. Well, now that debate has been canceled. Yeah,

554
00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:11,680
Speaker 1: bet it has, Yeah, yeah it has. Yeah. And finally,

555
00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 1: this story is really weird. In entertainment news R and

556
00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:17,840
Speaker 1: B singer Life Jennings. We know him. He's been on

557
00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:20,839
Speaker 1: the show a few times. Well, he dropped a fun

558
00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:23,360
Speaker 1: fact we'll call it a fun fact on social media.

559
00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:27,840
Speaker 1: He claims that serial killer Jeffrey Dahmer asked him to

560
00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:31,040
Speaker 1: sing pretty Brown Eyes while they were in prison together.

561
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:34,799
Speaker 1: Life posted a video on the brand and said, uh,

562
00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:37,319
Speaker 1: look it up. You better get the sang your ass

563
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:40,919
Speaker 1: better get the singing Life. Why you say that, Betty,

564
00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:44,319
Speaker 1: because you will be eating. If not, you better get

565
00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:50,000
Speaker 1: to cannibal life. Yeah. Life Porter inside the Wisconsin jail,

566
00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:52,839
Speaker 1: and he explained what a porter is, according to Life

567
00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:57,040
Speaker 1: a porter clean, clean railings, mops the floors, et cetera.

568
00:35:57,120 --> 00:35:58,920
Speaker 1: He went on to say that Dahmer asked him to

569
00:35:59,000 --> 00:36:05,720
Speaker 1: sing it. You know, anyway, coming up in twenty minutes

570
00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:10,040
Speaker 1: after the hour, celebrity divorce couple news. We'll talk about

571
00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:18,000
Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening to all right. After

572
00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:23,080
Speaker 1: fourteen years of marriage, actress Tiamari has filed for divorce

573
00:36:23,239 --> 00:36:26,800
Speaker 1: from her husband and actor Corey Hardrick. Uh. This is

574
00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:31,240
Speaker 1: due to irreconcilable differences. According to TMZ, Tia is asking

575
00:36:31,360 --> 00:36:34,600
Speaker 1: a judge for joint physical and legal custody of their

576
00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:37,920
Speaker 1: two children. She's also asking the judge to terminate the

577
00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:42,120
Speaker 1: courts ability to give spousal support to either, and notes

578
00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:46,799
Speaker 1: the couple has a pre nup. Wow that was a shock. Yeah,

579
00:36:46,920 --> 00:36:49,319
Speaker 1: that was very shock. Yeah it was a shock. Yeah,

580
00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:55,640
Speaker 1: it really was to see that. I hate Yeah. I

581
00:36:55,719 --> 00:36:59,320
Speaker 1: mean a lot of divorce is going on, or divorce

582
00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:03,239
Speaker 1: talk going on this week. Uh, why Junior, they heard

583
00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:08,120
Speaker 1: I got married? They won't me. I know it is

584
00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:11,279
Speaker 1: the street. Why you think all this stuff is happening time?

585
00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:15,240
Speaker 1: I just got married. I've been eighteen days. Look, look

586
00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:18,520
Speaker 1: I tell you look at this, man, look at this.

587
00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:20,640
Speaker 1: I tell you, when I got married to Queen Dad,

588
00:37:20,719 --> 00:37:25,040
Speaker 1: it was I think, give it up. When I got married,

589
00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:29,800
Speaker 1: I knew that. I knew it. Who get go ahead?

590
00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 1: Well Tom and Giselle, Yeah, we've heard about them. They're

591
00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:41,759
Speaker 1: looking to hire attorneys to handle their divorce proceedings. Yeah,

592
00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:45,640
Speaker 1: they are up. Uh huh. Giselle is not happy about time.

593
00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:49,000
Speaker 1: Just told three weeks ago, I told you. Talked to Giselle. Yeah,

594
00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:52,359
Speaker 1: you and Antonio. I said, stay what I told him?

595
00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:58,480
Speaker 1: Tom divorced and weeks ago the singer Miguel and his

596
00:37:58,719 --> 00:38:03,000
Speaker 1: wife of just three years asked the statement. But they've

597
00:38:03,040 --> 00:38:06,480
Speaker 1: been off and on about separation and stuff for a while.

598
00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:09,960
Speaker 1: So I hate this. Yeah I do too. I don't

599
00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:14,880
Speaker 1: like Yeah. Yeah. Marriage is hard work. Um, you know

600
00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:19,160
Speaker 1: it involves trust, commitment, love, patience, forgiveness, anything else you

601
00:38:19,239 --> 00:38:21,319
Speaker 1: guys can think of off the top of your head.

602
00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 1: What makes a good marriage. Well let's yeah, Junior, stay

603
00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:28,719
Speaker 1: with who you had. Don't don't come out here for me.

604
00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:31,200
Speaker 1: Don't get the void because of me. I'm I'm gone.

605
00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:34,839
Speaker 1: I can't do stay with you. You had you off

606
00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:39,600
Speaker 1: the market. I told I told you. Zille on September fourteenth.

607
00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:41,520
Speaker 1: Don't leave tom that here, I asked. Now, I got

608
00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:45,040
Speaker 1: to talk about this at work. I can't believe I

609
00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:47,520
Speaker 1: told till. I said, till, don't do that. I told

610
00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:50,320
Speaker 1: you what we had and what we had it is.

611
00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:54,080
Speaker 1: They don't believe me, don't even believe me. What have

612
00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:57,800
Speaker 1: you learned being married to? Yea? What have I learned?

613
00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:04,040
Speaker 1: Shut I've got so far? Shut up, just shut up.

614
00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:06,400
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. I saw my name on

615
00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:12,200
Speaker 1: that paperwork, and it's Leagal. That's what's scary married, trust me. Yeah,

616
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:14,600
Speaker 1: people getting married, Let me tell you something your wife

617
00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:18,880
Speaker 1: might tell it. Piece of paper. Up going up to

618
00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:22,080
Speaker 1: thirty four minutes after the hour, we're gonna talk about

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00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:25,279
Speaker 1: cuffing season. Right after this you might have a tap

620
00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:29,439
Speaker 1: it back together, but up a couple of times. You're

621
00:39:29,480 --> 00:39:34,560
Speaker 1: listening to the string show. Well, guys, it is upon

622
00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:38,279
Speaker 1: us cuffing season. You know, fall in winter means it

623
00:39:38,600 --> 00:39:41,960
Speaker 1: is cuffing season. That's the time of year when singles

624
00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:45,200
Speaker 1: start to get all booed up. But it's only for

625
00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:47,960
Speaker 1: a short time. It's only four a short term romance

626
00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:50,839
Speaker 1: to pass those cold months, you know, because it gets

627
00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:53,600
Speaker 1: cold and you want somebody to you know, cuddle up

628
00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:55,960
Speaker 1: to and all of that. It's like the total opposite

629
00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:58,720
Speaker 1: of a summer fling. That's what it is. Cuffing season

630
00:39:58,840 --> 00:40:01,480
Speaker 1: usually kicks off at the start of October. Here we

631
00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:04,439
Speaker 1: are what at the start of October? And it ends

632
00:40:04,640 --> 00:40:10,960
Speaker 1: right after Valentine's Day? Okay, yeah, it ends, or get

633
00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:13,799
Speaker 1: in after Christmas, to get in after New Year's et cetera,

634
00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:16,320
Speaker 1: et cetera. So I gotta ask you, guys, if you

635
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:21,239
Speaker 1: have any any advice for coffers out there. Oh to

636
00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:25,839
Speaker 1: you couples, find you somebody first of all, who can cook.

637
00:40:26,200 --> 00:40:28,120
Speaker 1: You can't be all trapped up in there and can't

638
00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:30,440
Speaker 1: go to where I can't nobody to cook. All right,

639
00:40:30,760 --> 00:40:33,200
Speaker 1: So you don't want to cough for sure? You need

640
00:40:33,239 --> 00:40:37,120
Speaker 1: a real couple. Okay, somebody does Somebody who can cook,

641
00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:40,239
Speaker 1: Somebody who want to have six two three times a

642
00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:44,080
Speaker 1: day these this is good covering three day. Hey, you

643
00:40:44,160 --> 00:40:48,200
Speaker 1: ain't got a job. We gotta go to work. Yeah, hey, hey, hey,

644
00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:52,360
Speaker 1: coughing it Ryan, we're coughing. Hey, Hey, what are we

645
00:40:52,440 --> 00:41:00,720
Speaker 1: doing here? Come on, new what's you think? Yeah, i'mna

646
00:41:00,719 --> 00:41:03,680
Speaker 1: tell you what makes a good cuffing season. Find somebody

647
00:41:03,719 --> 00:41:06,239
Speaker 1: that got a strong fact you need that die over

648
00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:14,680
Speaker 1: a strong people. Yeah, you don't need a strong makes

649
00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:20,400
Speaker 1: a difference. Okay, So are there don't that you don't

650
00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:22,800
Speaker 1: do what on your list for cuffing season? When you

651
00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:27,160
Speaker 1: don't get nobody under one sixty, I know that you

652
00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:30,359
Speaker 1: need some weight. You need some weight weight, Okay, don't

653
00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:33,640
Speaker 1: get nobody into one sixty. Come on, you remember time?

654
00:41:33,760 --> 00:41:36,000
Speaker 1: You remember how you used to do a side sixteening

655
00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:40,640
Speaker 1: it up, a shout hair cut? Why you don't understand

656
00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:45,440
Speaker 1: nothing like a six stage? Boy will giving somebody? So

657
00:41:45,680 --> 00:41:48,400
Speaker 1: do you think it could maybe last for longer than

658
00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:51,879
Speaker 1: cuffing season? You know? Maybe getting hot you started making

659
00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:54,520
Speaker 1: our way out? Yeah, because that lead get too heavy around.

660
00:41:56,200 --> 00:42:00,120
Speaker 1: Don't need that? Yeah, I'm dot me tell you what's

661
00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:02,640
Speaker 1: an end? Carling? This when coming season ends? Soon as

662
00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:11,680
Speaker 1: you click on your air condition, when you when your

663
00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:17,560
Speaker 1: league start sweating on my league up? It sounds like

664
00:42:17,719 --> 00:42:20,439
Speaker 1: no wit before a Memorial Day and no white after

665
00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:22,919
Speaker 1: Labor Day. That's what this said. That like coming seas?

666
00:42:24,320 --> 00:42:26,640
Speaker 1: What you got? What you got? Well, I have a question,

667
00:42:26,840 --> 00:42:32,560
Speaker 1: So relationships take time, you know in your season? Caller

668
00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:36,600
Speaker 1: no your season though, So we get together in October,

669
00:42:37,640 --> 00:42:39,759
Speaker 1: we get this in this you know you ain't you

670
00:42:39,880 --> 00:42:44,960
Speaker 1: know you ain't March. You know you ain't you October

671
00:42:45,200 --> 00:42:47,640
Speaker 1: We're gonna get you through because you're not You're not

672
00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:51,360
Speaker 1: You're not built the March not truthful time. Don't nobody

673
00:42:51,440 --> 00:42:53,520
Speaker 1: even see you, They don't even know we together, you

674
00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:57,680
Speaker 1: and I, we are ain't nobody seeing you. We have

675
00:42:57,960 --> 00:43:01,160
Speaker 1: a nat we have when when that sun come out

676
00:43:01,200 --> 00:43:04,880
Speaker 1: in March? You know this over you? Well, how do

677
00:43:04,960 --> 00:43:09,440
Speaker 1: you break up with them? Though? Gonna go Yeah, I

678
00:43:09,480 --> 00:43:11,040
Speaker 1: don't know she knew it. But the minute I don't

679
00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:15,719
Speaker 1: call no more, I'm gonna it's over. I gotta get

680
00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:19,200
Speaker 1: to the you't fann me way too much food. I

681
00:43:19,280 --> 00:43:21,120
Speaker 1: gotta get to the gym in March and get this

682
00:43:21,200 --> 00:43:26,040
Speaker 1: off me. Somebody. I just think this is so wrong

683
00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:29,839
Speaker 1: because I think you just terrible relationships. It takes time.

684
00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:32,200
Speaker 1: You need to, you know, get to know each other.

685
00:43:32,360 --> 00:43:35,080
Speaker 1: You got Thanksgiving, you can meet the family. What about

686
00:43:35,120 --> 00:43:40,080
Speaker 1: that Christmas Holidays? New Years? You got a date for

687
00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:42,560
Speaker 1: New Years and then you just break it out. That's

688
00:43:42,640 --> 00:43:45,239
Speaker 1: kind of cold blood. Look you got all them good

689
00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:48,600
Speaker 1: days in now, why you. Why would you? Why would you?

690
00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:51,440
Speaker 1: Why you want to overdo it? I get Christmas you

691
00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:54,359
Speaker 1: did in front of nobody, though you got your gift

692
00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:57,880
Speaker 1: in front of nobody. I mean you ain't over here

693
00:43:57,920 --> 00:44:00,439
Speaker 1: with the family. I bringed your gift to you. Oh,

694
00:44:02,680 --> 00:44:06,160
Speaker 1: anybody who see you open this? No Christmas, it's Christmas

695
00:44:06,239 --> 00:44:10,279
Speaker 1: Eve and you know that you know it? All right,

696
00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:13,680
Speaker 1: We're got to get so much for this nothing season. Yeah,

697
00:44:14,239 --> 00:44:22,480
Speaker 1: is a savvy season or coughing season. With the brain

698
00:44:22,560 --> 00:44:30,160
Speaker 1: phone call right after this, you're listening, all right. Coming

699
00:44:30,239 --> 00:44:32,160
Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, right about four

700
00:44:32,200 --> 00:44:34,800
Speaker 1: minutes after, it's my strawberry letter for today, and the

701
00:44:34,920 --> 00:44:38,719
Speaker 1: subject is get a load of this subject. Guys, I'd

702
00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:45,600
Speaker 1: rather be in prison than to live with her. Lowda.

703
00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:55,759
Speaker 1: That is deeper. You know what you're trying to do?

704
00:44:55,880 --> 00:45:00,520
Speaker 1: Three to five? Three to five, Wow, we'll find out

705
00:45:00,520 --> 00:45:03,480
Speaker 1: what that's all about. Is if we don't know? Coming up,

706
00:45:04,600 --> 00:45:07,439
Speaker 1: But right now the nephew is here with today's prank

707
00:45:07,480 --> 00:45:10,080
Speaker 1: phone call. Now, what's your gout today? This right here

708
00:45:10,280 --> 00:45:13,320
Speaker 1: is just vintage time and stupid. Right here, this is

709
00:45:13,520 --> 00:45:17,399
Speaker 1: vintage time and stupid. Now we're gonna call somebody. We're

710
00:45:17,400 --> 00:45:20,080
Speaker 1: gonna I want to I want to go to the

711
00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:23,440
Speaker 1: high school reunion. You understand. I want to go to

712
00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:25,360
Speaker 1: the high school reunion. But I want to go to

713
00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:27,160
Speaker 1: the high school. But I want to go to the

714
00:45:27,239 --> 00:45:32,279
Speaker 1: high school reunion with my high school sweetheart. Okay, Now,

715
00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:39,120
Speaker 1: the high school sweetheart. She's married. She's okay, son, we're

716
00:45:39,160 --> 00:45:42,960
Speaker 1: gonna We're gonna call the husband and ask Kim, Kim,

717
00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:46,239
Speaker 1: can I go to the high school reunion with her?

718
00:45:46,360 --> 00:45:48,480
Speaker 1: Which is his wife? You see what I'm saying. I mean,

719
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:52,919
Speaker 1: it's it's the it's the gentleman thing to do, right, Yeah,

720
00:45:53,480 --> 00:45:56,120
Speaker 1: you play too much calling in your high school sweetheart

721
00:45:56,160 --> 00:45:57,800
Speaker 1: and call and ask your husband to take you to

722
00:45:57,880 --> 00:46:02,080
Speaker 1: your reunion? Can you do that? Never? Never? I saw

723
00:46:02,200 --> 00:46:04,480
Speaker 1: him in the mall one day. I bumped into him,

724
00:46:04,600 --> 00:46:09,560
Speaker 1: just walking, I said, I screamed, Oh my gosh, Oh

725
00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:15,680
Speaker 1: he can ask. That's all that matters. When you're ex seagures,

726
00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:19,280
Speaker 1: you're fly? Yeah? Did you say that? Like you gotta

727
00:46:19,320 --> 00:46:26,319
Speaker 1: be fly? Like? Whoa man? All right, buckle up, here

728
00:46:26,400 --> 00:46:29,480
Speaker 1: we go. This is the high school reunion. High school reunion.

729
00:46:29,560 --> 00:46:33,640
Speaker 1: Let's go. Care dog, Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach Sylvia.

730
00:46:33,760 --> 00:46:36,719
Speaker 1: Please she's unavailable. This is a husband. I'm driving to

731
00:46:36,800 --> 00:46:38,719
Speaker 1: help you. How you doing, man, My name is Ken,

732
00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:42,440
Speaker 1: I'm I graduated with Sylvia. We're having a big twenty

733
00:46:42,480 --> 00:46:46,239
Speaker 1: five year class reunion this year, okay for nineteen eighty five.

734
00:46:46,719 --> 00:46:49,480
Speaker 1: We should be homesome. I don't know, man, she had

735
00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:52,799
Speaker 1: shopping right now? Okay, okay? Cool? Well, um, hey, listen,

736
00:46:52,840 --> 00:46:54,880
Speaker 1: as you heard about does she know about the reunion

737
00:46:55,040 --> 00:46:58,279
Speaker 1: or or do you know anything about that? Not? To

738
00:46:58,400 --> 00:47:00,960
Speaker 1: my knowledge, that's the first I ever heard about reunion. Okay,

739
00:47:01,320 --> 00:47:04,040
Speaker 1: well there was a reunion, man, she's actually I think

740
00:47:04,160 --> 00:47:05,880
Speaker 1: signed up for it. I'm not sure that's why I

741
00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:08,000
Speaker 1: asked you, but I think I saw her name was

742
00:47:08,120 --> 00:47:11,239
Speaker 1: that she was signed up to come. Let me I

743
00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:13,920
Speaker 1: should just when? When? When exactly did you graduate? I

744
00:47:14,120 --> 00:47:17,320
Speaker 1: graduated in eighty two? Okay, eighty two, Okay, you a

745
00:47:17,440 --> 00:47:20,000
Speaker 1: little bit before us. Then, all right, we'll listen. Um

746
00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:24,280
Speaker 1: let me let me go ahead and say this sounds drink. Uh. Actually,

747
00:47:24,360 --> 00:47:28,200
Speaker 1: in high school, man, Sylvia was mine, you know, my

748
00:47:28,320 --> 00:47:31,319
Speaker 1: high school sweetheart, and we you know, we dated from

749
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:34,359
Speaker 1: ninth grade to freshman year in college. And I wanted

750
00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:37,040
Speaker 1: to see if you know, if if it was cool

751
00:47:37,080 --> 00:47:39,560
Speaker 1: with you, you know, if you didn't mind me escorting

752
00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:43,080
Speaker 1: her to the twenty five year class reunion doing what.

753
00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:46,040
Speaker 1: Let me say that again, Like I say, man, my

754
00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:49,800
Speaker 1: name is Ken. I got that part. I'm trying to

755
00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:52,040
Speaker 1: make sure I heard right what you said. Yeah, I

756
00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:55,319
Speaker 1: said that I Sylvia and Iowa high school sweethearts. Man.

757
00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:57,799
Speaker 1: I was you know, from ninth grade all the way

758
00:47:57,800 --> 00:48:00,719
Speaker 1: to freshman year in college. We dated each other. Okay, yeah, yeah,

759
00:48:00,719 --> 00:48:02,440
Speaker 1: I got I got that. But what did you ask me?

760
00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:04,840
Speaker 1: I asked you if if it was all right for you,

761
00:48:05,280 --> 00:48:08,120
Speaker 1: if you didn't mind if I escorted her to the

762
00:48:08,480 --> 00:48:11,000
Speaker 1: twenty five year class for you union. Are you related

763
00:48:11,120 --> 00:48:14,040
Speaker 1: to her? No? I mean no, I'm not related to

764
00:48:14,080 --> 00:48:16,680
Speaker 1: I just told y'all was in a high school sweetheart. No, man,

765
00:48:16,680 --> 00:48:19,040
Speaker 1: I'm saying, nobody gonna be ascooting my wife nowhere. I

766
00:48:19,160 --> 00:48:20,960
Speaker 1: put the ring on my finger. You said you was

767
00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:22,960
Speaker 1: you was a high school sweetheart. Yeah, I mean we

768
00:48:23,120 --> 00:48:25,239
Speaker 1: was together from you know, ninth grade always to months

769
00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:27,880
Speaker 1: to press me year in college. You know, so that

770
00:48:28,000 --> 00:48:29,959
Speaker 1: was that was in the past. But hood, I'm sorry

771
00:48:29,960 --> 00:48:31,920
Speaker 1: to let you know that, but that was in the past.

772
00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:34,279
Speaker 1: I'm the president so I don't much think she's gonna

773
00:48:34,280 --> 00:48:36,120
Speaker 1: be interested in trying to go know where was you anyway?

774
00:48:36,480 --> 00:48:38,080
Speaker 1: Hey man? What I'm trying to explain to you? This

775
00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:40,160
Speaker 1: is something innocent though, Man, This is just me taking

776
00:48:40,200 --> 00:48:41,799
Speaker 1: her to you know. You know, I thought she might

777
00:48:41,840 --> 00:48:44,080
Speaker 1: get a kick out of us going together. You know,

778
00:48:44,600 --> 00:48:46,680
Speaker 1: I don't know what's wrong with you. I hadn't told you.

779
00:48:46,719 --> 00:48:48,560
Speaker 1: If it's not going to one ear, put the phone

780
00:48:48,600 --> 00:48:50,840
Speaker 1: on the other one. She ain't going nowhere? What you

781
00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:52,960
Speaker 1: can do? I need to break it down anymore? Hey man,

782
00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:54,520
Speaker 1: you ain't gotta you ain't gonna talk to me and

783
00:48:54,600 --> 00:48:56,960
Speaker 1: disrespect me like this. Man, Now, all I try to

784
00:48:57,000 --> 00:49:01,600
Speaker 1: do you, I'm disrespecting you gonna call want to tell

785
00:49:01,680 --> 00:49:04,319
Speaker 1: me I'm disrespecting you? You asking me, can you take

786
00:49:04,520 --> 00:49:07,480
Speaker 1: my wife to the damn class reunion? And expect me

787
00:49:07,560 --> 00:49:09,600
Speaker 1: to be okay with that? What kind of damned food

788
00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:12,080
Speaker 1: that to call? Somebody ask? Can you take the white

789
00:49:12,120 --> 00:49:15,320
Speaker 1: to class reunion? Hey man? That was my high school sweetheart?

790
00:49:15,400 --> 00:49:17,680
Speaker 1: All right? We had we asked something. I was our

791
00:49:17,800 --> 00:49:21,200
Speaker 1: first okay, I was our first dog. If you was

792
00:49:21,239 --> 00:49:23,160
Speaker 1: the first thing, I'm the laugh and I'm the only one.

793
00:49:23,200 --> 00:49:25,600
Speaker 1: So We're gonna leave it at that. How about that partner?

794
00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:28,279
Speaker 1: It's whatever, man, You know what, Man, I try to

795
00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:30,440
Speaker 1: call you and talk to you like a man. But

796
00:49:30,560 --> 00:49:33,040
Speaker 1: you know what I should have did. I should like

797
00:49:33,560 --> 00:49:35,600
Speaker 1: you doing a little stuff. Man, I should have called

798
00:49:35,640 --> 00:49:37,640
Speaker 1: Sylvia in the first I should have never called. Matter

799
00:49:37,680 --> 00:49:40,279
Speaker 1: of fact, you know what I apologize for called. Let

800
00:49:40,360 --> 00:49:42,040
Speaker 1: me get out the phone and just called Sylvia. C

801
00:49:44,120 --> 00:49:46,320
Speaker 1: me the head and do that. You go right on

802
00:49:46,440 --> 00:49:48,600
Speaker 1: the head and call them. Well, that's what I'm gonna do.

803
00:49:48,680 --> 00:49:51,040
Speaker 1: Because Sylvia can make a decision on what Sylvia want

804
00:49:51,080 --> 00:49:53,360
Speaker 1: to do. I can tell you what thing Sylvia do,

805
00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:56,480
Speaker 1: what Sylvia want to do. But Sylvia ain't interested in you. Man.

806
00:49:56,600 --> 00:49:58,920
Speaker 1: This is not about being interested in me. Man. This

807
00:49:59,120 --> 00:50:01,440
Speaker 1: is innocent. This is just me and her going to

808
00:50:01,520 --> 00:50:04,719
Speaker 1: the damn class reunion together. Man. And it ain't like

809
00:50:04,800 --> 00:50:08,680
Speaker 1: we're gonna go do something together. Man, on a physical level,

810
00:50:08,880 --> 00:50:12,120
Speaker 1: We're just going to have phone I sing. Its my clue.

811
00:50:12,680 --> 00:50:15,560
Speaker 1: I'm trying to tell you that I've already told you no. Okay,

812
00:50:15,800 --> 00:50:18,040
Speaker 1: if you can't get no, I don't know what you

813
00:50:18,160 --> 00:50:20,360
Speaker 1: can't get. But you ain't getting Sylvia. I tell you

814
00:50:20,440 --> 00:50:23,480
Speaker 1: that much. She's not going to no reunion. You know what, man,

815
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:26,320
Speaker 1: I'm through talking to you. I'm just gonna call Sylvia

816
00:50:26,320 --> 00:50:27,960
Speaker 1: because that's what I should have done in the first place.

817
00:50:28,200 --> 00:50:31,279
Speaker 1: I told you, brother, you ain't gonna call nobody. You

818
00:50:31,400 --> 00:50:33,759
Speaker 1: bet not doubt my wife another man, I'm telling you

819
00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:36,680
Speaker 1: this right now, I'll be at that pass reunion. I've

820
00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:39,120
Speaker 1: been looking for your can whatever your name is. I'm

821
00:50:39,120 --> 00:50:41,440
Speaker 1: gonna mind out who you are. I ain't playing no

822
00:50:41,880 --> 00:50:46,120
Speaker 1: like asn't told you you are disrespectful in the first place.

823
00:50:46,280 --> 00:50:49,560
Speaker 1: I didn't told Joe, don't call my wife. She ain't

824
00:50:49,640 --> 00:50:53,000
Speaker 1: going to don't but union told you best not call

825
00:50:53,120 --> 00:50:59,000
Speaker 1: her phone. I've been to walk up and my situation

826
00:50:59,239 --> 00:51:01,560
Speaker 1: not until you will come to this class reunion. And

827
00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:04,239
Speaker 1: I want your man, because you look like you're playing

828
00:51:04,280 --> 00:51:06,319
Speaker 1: with me, an acting stupid or something. You ain't taking

829
00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:08,839
Speaker 1: my wife to no class reunion. You understand what I'm saying.

830
00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:10,480
Speaker 1: Your wife don't gonna want to go to the reunion

831
00:51:10,560 --> 00:51:12,640
Speaker 1: with me. How do you know that you ain't going nowhere?

832
00:51:12,680 --> 00:51:14,200
Speaker 1: What you would have told you, man, don't get me

833
00:51:14,280 --> 00:51:16,480
Speaker 1: act the quas up in here. I'd have told you now,

834
00:51:16,520 --> 00:51:18,120
Speaker 1: I said first, I was gonna come to the class

835
00:51:18,120 --> 00:51:20,040
Speaker 1: when you but I will come to that just to

836
00:51:20,160 --> 00:51:23,120
Speaker 1: make shout, knock your likes out. Donna be acting stupid

837
00:51:23,160 --> 00:51:25,440
Speaker 1: like I can't find they got all kind of a

838
00:51:25,480 --> 00:51:27,400
Speaker 1: ain't signed or some of it. But I'll find you.

839
00:51:27,960 --> 00:51:29,960
Speaker 1: What's just innocent, man, Me and her going to the

840
00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:31,880
Speaker 1: reunion is innocent, and she want to be able to

841
00:51:31,960 --> 00:51:33,680
Speaker 1: decide if she want to go with me or not.

842
00:51:33,840 --> 00:51:36,480
Speaker 1: Holding it about to your sounds trife in any way,

843
00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:39,879
Speaker 1: calling somebody talking about a class reunion. Ain't even much

844
00:51:39,920 --> 00:51:41,560
Speaker 1: hurt about it, Like I don't. I'll tell you what

845
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:44,719
Speaker 1: you know what I'm gonna get our phone calls him. Okay,

846
00:51:44,800 --> 00:51:47,320
Speaker 1: respect the ring. You understand what I'm saying to you.

847
00:51:47,480 --> 00:51:50,040
Speaker 1: I didn't sue, man, but I don't understand what you

848
00:51:50,080 --> 00:51:54,160
Speaker 1: can understand about that. Respect the ring, and man, I

849
00:51:54,239 --> 00:51:55,960
Speaker 1: got one more things I need to say to you. Man,

850
00:51:56,160 --> 00:51:58,040
Speaker 1: got to say to me. Man, you ain't got a

851
00:51:58,280 --> 00:52:00,640
Speaker 1: faint to say to me except to hit it clicking

852
00:52:00,719 --> 00:52:02,920
Speaker 1: your heel. I got one more damn thing to say

853
00:52:02,920 --> 00:52:04,040
Speaker 1: to you, and then I'm gonna get off the phone.

854
00:52:04,040 --> 00:52:05,839
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be through with it. Man, I'm gonna got

855
00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:08,960
Speaker 1: to say to me. What what's you gotta say to

856
00:52:09,040 --> 00:52:11,200
Speaker 1: me for? I hang up? I got this to say

857
00:52:11,239 --> 00:52:15,000
Speaker 1: to you. This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Hobbin

858
00:52:15,160 --> 00:52:19,200
Speaker 1: Morning Show. Your wife Silvia got me to prank phone

859
00:52:19,320 --> 00:52:31,720
Speaker 1: call you serious, man, oh man, I'm over here winning

860
00:52:31,800 --> 00:52:35,439
Speaker 1: and everything. Man, just man, oh, this is a joke.

861
00:52:35,840 --> 00:52:39,560
Speaker 1: You all right, I'm gonna be out right about an

862
00:52:39,600 --> 00:52:44,960
Speaker 1: hour to that's that's okay, that's all right, all right,

863
00:52:45,080 --> 00:52:47,480
Speaker 1: y'all got me, y'all got me. Well, I guess this

864
00:52:47,640 --> 00:52:50,040
Speaker 1: is a good time to tell you the class reunion

865
00:52:50,200 --> 00:52:55,040
Speaker 1: is coming up. And I guess ain't no classroom. Huh No,

866
00:52:55,320 --> 00:52:57,280
Speaker 1: here's a classroom you need to get rid of because

867
00:52:57,280 --> 00:53:05,399
Speaker 1: you're going. Yeah, I'll be making well that stupid enough, Yes,

868
00:53:07,640 --> 00:53:12,920
Speaker 1: always are, ok. I'm gonna be that same stupid Chawston,

869
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:16,120
Speaker 1: South Carolina Baby, Saturday, November to twelfth at the Old

870
00:53:16,160 --> 00:53:20,600
Speaker 1: mar Shrine Auditorium. The nephew with the microphone just as stupid,

871
00:53:21,120 --> 00:53:23,600
Speaker 1: most stupid than that prank called most stupid than that

872
00:53:24,520 --> 00:53:30,080
Speaker 1: ticket sale red. Now all right, nephew, thank you, coming up.

873
00:53:30,360 --> 00:53:32,680
Speaker 1: It is a strawberry letter subject I'd rather be in

874
00:53:32,880 --> 00:53:36,080
Speaker 1: prison than to live with her. We'll get into that

875
00:53:36,400 --> 00:53:40,319
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show

876
00:53:41,719 --> 00:53:44,440
Speaker 1: time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need

877
00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:49,200
Speaker 1: advice and relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting and more. Please

878
00:53:49,800 --> 00:53:52,719
Speaker 1: submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey FM and click

879
00:53:52,800 --> 00:53:55,680
Speaker 1: submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter live

880
00:53:55,880 --> 00:53:57,879
Speaker 1: on the air, just like we're gonna read this one

881
00:53:58,040 --> 00:54:01,560
Speaker 1: right here, right now. Bugle up and hold on tight.

882
00:54:01,640 --> 00:54:04,160
Speaker 1: We got it for you. Here it is the Strawberry Letter.

883
00:54:04,680 --> 00:54:06,759
Speaker 1: All right, guys, You guys didn't like this title, but

884
00:54:06,920 --> 00:54:09,760
Speaker 1: here it is the subject. I'd rather be in prison

885
00:54:10,320 --> 00:54:14,840
Speaker 1: than live with her. Dear Stephen Shirley. I was released

886
00:54:14,920 --> 00:54:18,520
Speaker 1: from state prison a few months ago. While in prison

887
00:54:18,640 --> 00:54:22,239
Speaker 1: for twenty three months, I thought my girlfriend had my

888
00:54:22,360 --> 00:54:25,719
Speaker 1: back and we get married. When I came home, boy

889
00:54:26,080 --> 00:54:28,840
Speaker 1: was I wrong. And I came home to a situation

890
00:54:28,960 --> 00:54:32,640
Speaker 1: that was worse than prison. I was released to my

891
00:54:32,800 --> 00:54:35,960
Speaker 1: own home with my girlfriend, who has been staying in

892
00:54:36,120 --> 00:54:38,920
Speaker 1: my home while I was in prison. It was supposed

893
00:54:38,960 --> 00:54:43,840
Speaker 1: to be a joyous homecoming, but instead I walked into hell.

894
00:54:44,480 --> 00:54:48,319
Speaker 1: My girlfriend has turned into a conniving, cheating, and very

895
00:54:48,400 --> 00:54:52,320
Speaker 1: immature person. I don't know what happened while I was away,

896
00:54:52,440 --> 00:54:54,400
Speaker 1: but I thank god I got to see who she

897
00:54:54,560 --> 00:54:57,960
Speaker 1: really is before I married her. I found out that

898
00:54:58,040 --> 00:55:00,480
Speaker 1: she's been cheating on me and the I was all

899
00:55:00,640 --> 00:55:03,560
Speaker 1: up in my house all of the time. She also

900
00:55:03,680 --> 00:55:07,200
Speaker 1: hasn't been doing the upkeep on my house, and it's filthy.

901
00:55:07,719 --> 00:55:11,360
Speaker 1: Along with real life obstacles I'll face as a convicted felon,

902
00:55:11,840 --> 00:55:15,239
Speaker 1: she has run up my credit cards, mismanaged a lot

903
00:55:15,320 --> 00:55:19,560
Speaker 1: of my money, and destroyed my credit I've told her

904
00:55:19,680 --> 00:55:22,680
Speaker 1: it's over and asked her to move out several times,

905
00:55:22,760 --> 00:55:25,600
Speaker 1: but she said it's her house too, and she's not

906
00:55:25,760 --> 00:55:28,880
Speaker 1: going anywhere. I can't raise my voice at her or

907
00:55:29,000 --> 00:55:31,520
Speaker 1: touch a hair on her head because I live in

908
00:55:31,640 --> 00:55:35,280
Speaker 1: constant fear that she may use the criminal justice justice

909
00:55:35,320 --> 00:55:38,799
Speaker 1: system as a weapon against me. It's back to jail

910
00:55:38,880 --> 00:55:42,360
Speaker 1: I go. If I have any police contact, other guys

911
00:55:42,440 --> 00:55:44,879
Speaker 1: call her and she'll go in another room and talk

912
00:55:44,960 --> 00:55:47,359
Speaker 1: to them, and I can't say a word to her

913
00:55:47,440 --> 00:55:50,879
Speaker 1: about it. I am living in sheer hell. I thought

914
00:55:50,880 --> 00:55:53,840
Speaker 1: about calling my parole officer to explain what's going on,

915
00:55:54,280 --> 00:55:56,160
Speaker 1: but I don't want to get anyone involved in my

916
00:55:56,280 --> 00:56:00,239
Speaker 1: business like that. I do not need relationship advice. I

917
00:56:00,360 --> 00:56:02,640
Speaker 1: need advice on how to get away from her so

918
00:56:02,880 --> 00:56:06,440
Speaker 1: I can have peace and get situated back into my community.

919
00:56:06,719 --> 00:56:10,080
Speaker 1: How can I handle this? Yeah, well, you know we

920
00:56:10,239 --> 00:56:14,080
Speaker 1: give relationship advice here, that is what we do. But

921
00:56:16,239 --> 00:56:18,160
Speaker 1: we'll see what we can do to help you, sir,

922
00:56:18,360 --> 00:56:20,840
Speaker 1: because we don't want you to go back to prison.

923
00:56:21,000 --> 00:56:23,040
Speaker 1: That's definitely what we don't want. And first of all,

924
00:56:23,120 --> 00:56:25,879
Speaker 1: let me say this. I need you to be as

925
00:56:26,120 --> 00:56:29,640
Speaker 1: nice to her as you possibly can while she's in

926
00:56:29,760 --> 00:56:34,600
Speaker 1: your home and until the day she leaves. Okay, yeah,

927
00:56:35,719 --> 00:56:39,439
Speaker 1: keep it up, keep it up. This willum, I'm sure

928
00:56:39,600 --> 00:56:42,160
Speaker 1: have to involve some very skilled acting on your part.

929
00:56:42,239 --> 00:56:44,440
Speaker 1: You're you're doing a great job so far. Just keep

930
00:56:44,480 --> 00:56:47,520
Speaker 1: it up. But like you say, you can't give her

931
00:56:47,560 --> 00:56:50,640
Speaker 1: any reason at all to suspect you're up to anything.

932
00:56:51,120 --> 00:56:53,080
Speaker 1: You don't want her calling the police. You don't want

933
00:56:53,120 --> 00:56:56,399
Speaker 1: to go back to prison, so um, I'll just say

934
00:56:56,560 --> 00:56:59,640
Speaker 1: start building a support system. You know you're out now,

935
00:57:01,320 --> 00:57:04,600
Speaker 1: start you know, dealing with people that you know have

936
00:57:04,800 --> 00:57:10,360
Speaker 1: your back, like family members, people that you can trust, friends,

937
00:57:10,440 --> 00:57:13,359
Speaker 1: like I say, have your back, maybe a pastor, maybe

938
00:57:13,440 --> 00:57:17,200
Speaker 1: someone who has knowledge of the law, real estate, all

939
00:57:17,280 --> 00:57:19,560
Speaker 1: of that. You need to find out your rights as

940
00:57:19,560 --> 00:57:22,760
Speaker 1: a homeowner you have. You know, you gotta be smart

941
00:57:22,840 --> 00:57:25,320
Speaker 1: in this. You gotta be strategic. Again, you don't want

942
00:57:25,360 --> 00:57:29,120
Speaker 1: her finding out anything. This woman sounds like the devil

943
00:57:29,200 --> 00:57:33,880
Speaker 1: himself sent her to your house. So you definitely need

944
00:57:33,960 --> 00:57:36,120
Speaker 1: to have God on your side. That's why I mentioned

945
00:57:36,160 --> 00:57:38,800
Speaker 1: a pastor. If you're gonna, you know, get her out

946
00:57:38,840 --> 00:57:41,040
Speaker 1: of your house. I'm saying all of this. I don't

947
00:57:41,040 --> 00:57:43,800
Speaker 1: even know why you went in prison and spent two years,

948
00:57:43,880 --> 00:57:46,680
Speaker 1: almost two years to begin with, but the tone of

949
00:57:46,720 --> 00:57:49,000
Speaker 1: your letters sounds like it comes from a decent man.

950
00:57:49,080 --> 00:57:52,880
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say you're a decent man. You know. Anytime

951
00:57:52,960 --> 00:57:55,040
Speaker 1: you say you'd rather be in prison than in the

952
00:57:55,160 --> 00:57:57,840
Speaker 1: comfort of your own home, I just think it's think

953
00:57:57,880 --> 00:58:01,400
Speaker 1: it's a major problem and having this woman who has

954
00:58:01,480 --> 00:58:04,440
Speaker 1: taken over your home and basically your life is beyond

955
00:58:04,600 --> 00:58:08,080
Speaker 1: unsettling and she needs to go. So I just say,

956
00:58:08,200 --> 00:58:11,280
Speaker 1: please get a plan together, her together to get her out.

957
00:58:11,400 --> 00:58:15,280
Speaker 1: Now write it down. But you know, never let her

958
00:58:15,400 --> 00:58:18,160
Speaker 1: know what you're doing, because you don't want to upset

959
00:58:18,200 --> 00:58:20,720
Speaker 1: her or alert her or anything like that. But you

960
00:58:20,840 --> 00:58:22,640
Speaker 1: can get her out of your house. It's just gonna

961
00:58:22,680 --> 00:58:26,520
Speaker 1: take a plan. Steve. Yeah, bron, I don't know what

962
00:58:26,680 --> 00:58:29,200
Speaker 1: to say to you in this letter. Honestly, man, it stup.

963
00:58:29,280 --> 00:58:31,880
Speaker 1: I feel for you, I really really do. Man, you

964
00:58:32,000 --> 00:58:34,520
Speaker 1: did your time for whatever the mistake boys you made.

965
00:58:35,000 --> 00:58:39,480
Speaker 1: Thought your girl had your back, y'all was gonna get married. Boy,

966
00:58:39,600 --> 00:58:42,840
Speaker 1: were you wrong when you came to a situation worst

967
00:58:42,920 --> 00:58:46,240
Speaker 1: in prison. Now let me say this. You're saying that

968
00:58:46,400 --> 00:58:49,160
Speaker 1: you're glad you find out that she's been staying in

969
00:58:49,280 --> 00:58:52,400
Speaker 1: your home while you was in prison, and it was

970
00:58:52,400 --> 00:58:55,080
Speaker 1: supposed to be a joyous home coming, but you walked

971
00:58:55,080 --> 00:58:59,240
Speaker 1: into hell. She's turned into a conniving, cheating and very

972
00:58:59,280 --> 00:59:02,080
Speaker 1: immature paid I don't know what happened while I was away,

973
00:59:02,400 --> 00:59:04,760
Speaker 1: but here's the deal. I thank god I got to

974
00:59:04,840 --> 00:59:08,000
Speaker 1: see who she really is before I married her. BINGO,

975
00:59:09,280 --> 00:59:13,360
Speaker 1: that's the good thing. Somebody sent me a text one time,

976
00:59:14,200 --> 00:59:15,960
Speaker 1: and I'll try to see if I can find it

977
00:59:16,040 --> 00:59:19,360
Speaker 1: while I'm talking to you. But sometimes, and I've often

978
00:59:19,440 --> 00:59:22,680
Speaker 1: said this to women, the blessing is in the breakup,

979
00:59:23,920 --> 00:59:26,880
Speaker 1: and you've got to realize what that is when you

980
00:59:26,960 --> 00:59:30,000
Speaker 1: get it. I think you had a blessing, and so

981
00:59:30,120 --> 00:59:33,440
Speaker 1: I'm trying to find this thing that someone sent me

982
00:59:34,280 --> 00:59:40,120
Speaker 1: about this situation you're in. First of all, young brother,

983
00:59:41,040 --> 00:59:44,320
Speaker 1: here's what it is. It says, don't worry about the

984
00:59:44,480 --> 00:59:49,360
Speaker 1: people God removed from your life. He heard conversations you didn't,

985
00:59:49,840 --> 00:59:54,160
Speaker 1: saw things you couldn't, and made moves you wouldn't. Now, brother,

986
00:59:55,280 --> 00:59:57,680
Speaker 1: you seem like a good man. I'm going to assume

987
00:59:58,200 --> 01:00:01,840
Speaker 1: that this crime you went to jail forwards federal prison,

988
01:00:02,440 --> 01:00:06,720
Speaker 1: and you did some federal time, and you probably did

989
01:00:06,800 --> 01:00:09,280
Speaker 1: some type of white collar crime. I don't really know

990
01:00:09,440 --> 01:00:13,280
Speaker 1: what it is. I know it's a nonviolent offense. Let's

991
01:00:13,320 --> 01:00:16,440
Speaker 1: just say that you did twenty three months you got out.

992
01:00:18,120 --> 01:00:21,200
Speaker 1: All right, Steve, we'll have part two of your response

993
01:00:21,280 --> 01:00:25,800
Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour, subject

994
01:00:25,840 --> 01:00:30,360
Speaker 1: for today, I'd rather be in prison than live with her.

995
01:00:30,640 --> 01:00:34,040
Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this you're listening

996
01:00:34,320 --> 01:00:39,040
Speaker 1: to all right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's Strawberry

997
01:00:39,160 --> 01:00:44,880
Speaker 1: Letters subject I'd rather be in prison than live with her. Well, brother,

998
01:00:45,000 --> 01:00:49,360
Speaker 1: I know what you're saying, but we can't go back

999
01:00:49,440 --> 01:00:51,560
Speaker 1: to prison. I don't think you're trying to do that,

1000
01:00:52,200 --> 01:00:56,000
Speaker 1: so we're faced with this situation. This woman has turned

1001
01:00:56,040 --> 01:00:58,800
Speaker 1: out to be a cheated here's the upside. You found

1002
01:00:58,840 --> 01:01:02,080
Speaker 1: out just in time. You didn't marry her. All you

1003
01:01:02,160 --> 01:01:05,320
Speaker 1: gotta do now is get her out your house. Now.

1004
01:01:05,680 --> 01:01:09,400
Speaker 1: There are ways to file for this. I'm sure now

1005
01:01:09,480 --> 01:01:12,080
Speaker 1: you being a convicted felon, that's going to create a

1006
01:01:12,200 --> 01:01:16,440
Speaker 1: couple of problems because once you go down there and

1007
01:01:16,640 --> 01:01:19,120
Speaker 1: you include the court system to get her put out

1008
01:01:19,200 --> 01:01:21,440
Speaker 1: the house, all she got to do is spending and

1009
01:01:21,560 --> 01:01:24,480
Speaker 1: lowing you, as she may do the dirty on you,

1010
01:01:24,640 --> 01:01:27,040
Speaker 1: just so she can go back to business as usual.

1011
01:01:27,840 --> 01:01:32,200
Speaker 1: So you have to be extremely careful and cunning. Here.

1012
01:01:32,760 --> 01:01:35,120
Speaker 1: You had a house that you still manage to keep.

1013
01:01:35,400 --> 01:01:38,280
Speaker 1: She's ran up all your credit, she's ruined your money,

1014
01:01:38,840 --> 01:01:41,520
Speaker 1: and she's been in your house. Well at leasha had

1015
01:01:41,560 --> 01:01:45,560
Speaker 1: a house. So we gotta get smart here, man. You

1016
01:01:45,680 --> 01:01:48,440
Speaker 1: gotta go a couple of friends house. You gotta get

1017
01:01:48,560 --> 01:01:53,440
Speaker 1: some measures taken legally that can help you out. In

1018
01:01:53,560 --> 01:01:56,080
Speaker 1: the meantime, spend as less time as home as you

1019
01:01:56,200 --> 01:01:59,760
Speaker 1: can until you find a way to work through this legally.

1020
01:02:00,720 --> 01:02:02,760
Speaker 1: But then you're gonna have to spend time away from

1021
01:02:02,840 --> 01:02:05,400
Speaker 1: the house because if you stay there. She can get

1022
01:02:05,480 --> 01:02:07,840
Speaker 1: you jammed up. All she gotta do is call nine

1023
01:02:07,880 --> 01:02:10,640
Speaker 1: one one one time. They come to your house, bro,

1024
01:02:10,960 --> 01:02:13,120
Speaker 1: and you backed up. Now. I know you say you'd

1025
01:02:13,160 --> 01:02:14,720
Speaker 1: rather go to prison and live with her, but you

1026
01:02:14,800 --> 01:02:19,360
Speaker 1: really don't mean that, because nothing happens when you locked up. Nothing.

1027
01:02:20,080 --> 01:02:23,720
Speaker 1: So get with a friend, Get with some smart friends,

1028
01:02:23,760 --> 01:02:27,320
Speaker 1: because you got some smart friends. Get yourself some knowledge

1029
01:02:27,320 --> 01:02:30,480
Speaker 1: about what you can do. Move out of there and

1030
01:02:30,680 --> 01:02:34,120
Speaker 1: start the process then, and don't go nowhere near her.

1031
01:02:35,320 --> 01:02:40,000
Speaker 1: Put a restraining order on yourself before she asked for one.

1032
01:02:40,840 --> 01:02:42,840
Speaker 1: See if you don't go over there by her dog,

1033
01:02:43,200 --> 01:02:45,560
Speaker 1: she can't put a restraint in order on you. That's

1034
01:02:45,600 --> 01:02:48,080
Speaker 1: the worst thing can happen to a convicted fellow. You

1035
01:02:48,200 --> 01:02:51,680
Speaker 1: start getting some of those insinuated charges, and when you're

1036
01:02:51,720 --> 01:02:54,680
Speaker 1: on probation, man, you can't do nothing. You can't have

1037
01:02:54,840 --> 01:02:57,480
Speaker 1: police contact you. Already know that they can set you

1038
01:02:57,560 --> 01:02:59,880
Speaker 1: down for violation or parole and you could be in

1039
01:03:00,000 --> 01:03:01,560
Speaker 1: now for up to a year before they even bring

1040
01:03:01,640 --> 01:03:04,480
Speaker 1: in front of a judge. You know how this system works. Man.

1041
01:03:05,280 --> 01:03:08,200
Speaker 1: So I feel badly for you, brother, but surely did

1042
01:03:08,280 --> 01:03:10,280
Speaker 1: the right thing and told you the right thing. I

1043
01:03:10,360 --> 01:03:12,760
Speaker 1: think you should separate yourself from a situation because it

1044
01:03:12,880 --> 01:03:15,760
Speaker 1: sounds like you're gonna get in deep and ain't gonna

1045
01:03:15,920 --> 01:03:18,240
Speaker 1: ain't gonna donna lead you down a dark road, man,

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01:03:18,320 --> 01:03:21,000
Speaker 1: and don't put yourself out there. Don't throw your freedom away. Brother.

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01:03:21,600 --> 01:03:27,560
Speaker 1: She is not worth it. The cheating, immature, stealing, low down,

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01:03:27,760 --> 01:03:34,840
Speaker 1: perfect person, disrespectful now noncommittal. Yeah, it ain't worth it, bro, Yeah,

1049
01:03:35,120 --> 01:03:37,280
Speaker 1: it ain't worth it. And don't let her know anything

1050
01:03:37,400 --> 01:03:44,080
Speaker 1: you're doing. Please, it's terrible. That's like a really bad

1051
01:03:44,240 --> 01:03:49,640
Speaker 1: document everything you do. True, Yeah, that's everything. Everything. Whose

1052
01:03:49,680 --> 01:03:54,040
Speaker 1: house you're staying over? Where was you at? Pictures? Time checks?

1053
01:03:54,600 --> 01:03:57,400
Speaker 1: Who paying for the house? Who's paying for that house?

1054
01:03:57,600 --> 01:04:01,360
Speaker 1: It's his house, it's his house, Stop paying for it,

1055
01:04:01,440 --> 01:04:07,200
Speaker 1: let it go. But she yeah, she said it was

1056
01:04:07,280 --> 01:04:15,600
Speaker 1: her house. Yeah. But if the bank kick everybody at Yeah. Yeah,

1057
01:04:15,680 --> 01:04:20,400
Speaker 1: he wanted to sad Steve, that's one way to do

1058
01:04:20,440 --> 01:04:22,440
Speaker 1: because he sounds like a really nice guy. Man. Yeah,

1059
01:04:22,480 --> 01:04:25,520
Speaker 1: that's an ugly situation for this guy to be in, man,

1060
01:04:25,560 --> 01:04:31,320
Speaker 1: because this woman could hurt him and because he's on probation. Yeah,

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01:04:32,040 --> 01:04:35,040
Speaker 1: he walked on eggshells. Yeah. I like the fact that

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01:04:35,120 --> 01:04:38,960
Speaker 1: you said, don't stay there. No, he's got a family,

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01:04:39,080 --> 01:04:44,360
Speaker 1: he's got friends, you know. Yeah, good, I have out

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01:04:44,440 --> 01:04:48,640
Speaker 1: from around her. Yes, Junior, what you got I just

1065
01:04:48,720 --> 01:04:50,480
Speaker 1: haven't suggested to men. You know, that's one way. For

1066
01:04:50,640 --> 01:04:52,000
Speaker 1: closure could be one way. But I have a lot

1067
01:04:52,040 --> 01:04:54,920
Speaker 1: of experience for pro officers and all that type of stuff,

1068
01:04:55,120 --> 01:04:56,440
Speaker 1: a lot of family members that have been through that.

1069
01:04:56,680 --> 01:04:59,480
Speaker 1: But one thing we could do is people that he

1070
01:04:59,600 --> 01:05:01,840
Speaker 1: met he was in there, if you know, they out,

1071
01:05:02,480 --> 01:05:04,280
Speaker 1: we could use this to our been. We could scare

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01:05:04,360 --> 01:05:07,760
Speaker 1: her out the house. Gonna be good, Junior. I'm just

1073
01:05:07,840 --> 01:05:10,240
Speaker 1: saying we could scare act. Don't you think we thought

1074
01:05:10,280 --> 01:05:12,840
Speaker 1: of that? You don't. You don't think they're gonna be

1075
01:05:12,880 --> 01:05:18,000
Speaker 1: able to tie them? Also, he wasn't to keep him

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01:05:18,080 --> 01:05:27,400
Speaker 1: out of prison. We can't do that, Junior. I'm sorry, Okay,

1077
01:05:28,160 --> 01:05:30,360
Speaker 1: I know you want to. He's got to kind of

1078
01:05:30,440 --> 01:05:32,920
Speaker 1: go by the book on this one. That's any false

1079
01:05:33,120 --> 01:05:35,919
Speaker 1: move he could go back in and that's what we're

1080
01:05:35,960 --> 01:05:38,080
Speaker 1: trying to avoid. But he could tell his proofs of

1081
01:05:38,160 --> 01:05:40,480
Speaker 1: what's going on, because you got to update the buntial status.

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01:05:40,640 --> 01:05:42,280
Speaker 1: You know. I like the fact that he said I

1083
01:05:42,360 --> 01:05:45,680
Speaker 1: don't need relationship advice too, because he knows that's over No,

1084
01:05:45,920 --> 01:05:49,520
Speaker 1: that's over with. Yeah, that's really sad. Yeah, it really is.

1085
01:05:50,160 --> 01:05:54,200
Speaker 1: It really really is. She's taking advantage of him, and

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01:05:54,440 --> 01:05:58,560
Speaker 1: she's going to take advantage of the judicial system, and

1087
01:05:58,720 --> 01:06:01,800
Speaker 1: he's smart enough to know that. Yeah, yeah he No

1088
01:06:01,920 --> 01:06:04,760
Speaker 1: one said. He didn't say how long he's on parole either.

1089
01:06:05,080 --> 01:06:08,919
Speaker 1: You know, this could be going on for quite a while.

1090
01:06:09,040 --> 01:06:12,040
Speaker 1: But yeah, he's got to get rid of her, get

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01:06:12,120 --> 01:06:14,960
Speaker 1: her out of his house and out of his life. No,

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01:06:16,560 --> 01:06:18,640
Speaker 1: I don't rather be in prison, or I'll sleep in

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01:06:18,720 --> 01:06:22,200
Speaker 1: the car for I'll go to jail. Yeah I noticed that.

1094
01:06:22,280 --> 01:06:24,600
Speaker 1: Ain't no damn option, Like you can't even go to

1095
01:06:24,720 --> 01:06:30,920
Speaker 1: the stove. Yeah, I'm gonna swing around. He need a

1096
01:06:31,000 --> 01:06:35,840
Speaker 1: cheek fil a. They don't have that in prison, right, Okay,

1097
01:06:36,160 --> 01:06:39,080
Speaker 1: all right, guys, post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter

1098
01:06:39,120 --> 01:06:43,000
Speaker 1: and Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook, and please

1099
01:06:43,160 --> 01:06:46,560
Speaker 1: check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. You're listening

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01:06:46,840 --> 01:06:51,080
Speaker 1: to show. All right, Junior, it is time now for

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01:06:51,200 --> 01:06:53,960
Speaker 1: sports talk. What you got Junior? Okay, surely, but let

1102
01:06:54,000 --> 01:06:56,760
Speaker 1: me let the people know. Listen, Virginia Beach, I'm there

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01:06:56,800 --> 01:06:59,680
Speaker 1: tomorrow night now at the funny Bone. Okay, two show,

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01:07:00,240 --> 01:07:02,400
Speaker 1: two shows Saturday, I'll FINNI go out here and act

1105
01:07:02,400 --> 01:07:03,880
Speaker 1: of food time Finn to go out head and get

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01:07:04,000 --> 01:07:05,680
Speaker 1: to him. But then also, I ain't gonna I gotta

1107
01:07:05,680 --> 01:07:07,400
Speaker 1: put this out here too. Man, I'm out here on

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01:07:07,440 --> 01:07:10,400
Speaker 1: this road. I'm back. I got man, I'm back to work. Richmond, Virginia.

1109
01:07:10,440 --> 01:07:12,520
Speaker 1: Get ready for just to smoke weekend. It's better happen

1110
01:07:12,600 --> 01:07:15,720
Speaker 1: for you, Richmond. Funny Bone Thursday party on Friday. All

1111
01:07:15,760 --> 01:07:18,200
Speaker 1: this to raise money for the foundation. We're doing all

1112
01:07:18,240 --> 01:07:21,760
Speaker 1: this for Curious Hope. On January. On October twentieth and

1113
01:07:21,840 --> 01:07:23,959
Speaker 1: twenty first, I said, January, what the hell I'm talking about?

1114
01:07:23,960 --> 01:07:28,440
Speaker 1: We get October October twentieth and October twenty first, Richmond, Virginia.

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01:07:28,480 --> 01:07:30,040
Speaker 1: All right, t let's get to it. Man. Here it

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01:07:30,240 --> 01:07:33,040
Speaker 1: is picks, Timy. I need to know how you feel.

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01:07:33,440 --> 01:07:35,520
Speaker 1: You get the pick? Man. Here we go, starting to

1118
01:07:35,640 --> 01:07:41,520
Speaker 1: night Coats, Broncos. What you got? Which one you go? Coats? Okay, okay,

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01:07:41,640 --> 01:07:45,640
Speaker 1: I ain't he going against Russell Wilson like Sieria. Ain't

1120
01:07:45,680 --> 01:07:48,280
Speaker 1: gonna be happy about that. If this was about dancing,

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01:07:48,360 --> 01:07:54,480
Speaker 1: then I would pick Siera. Here you go Jad's Packers. Man,

1122
01:07:54,560 --> 01:07:59,200
Speaker 1: what you got man? Backers? Backers over to Jack. Okay,

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01:07:59,760 --> 01:08:05,800
Speaker 1: here go Stealers Bills. That's my friend brother over there.

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01:08:05,800 --> 01:08:10,640
Speaker 1: I gotta go with Pittsburgh. That's my friend brother. Hey, hey,

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01:08:10,840 --> 01:08:16,400
Speaker 1: hey hey, I picked for different reasons. I picked true. Okay,

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01:08:16,920 --> 01:08:19,720
Speaker 1: this ain't this ain't like Steve, This ain't pimping. This

1127
01:08:19,960 --> 01:08:25,120
Speaker 1: is time I picked the different reason speaking Steve. See

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01:08:25,600 --> 01:08:30,519
Speaker 1: charges Browns. Oh, I don't fool with the Browns, just Steve.

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01:08:32,000 --> 01:08:36,639
Speaker 1: I'm going with the Chargers, thank you. Okay, Vikings, yeah,

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01:08:37,040 --> 01:08:39,639
Speaker 1: on on, you act like the Sean playing already. Ain't

1131
01:08:39,680 --> 01:08:44,320
Speaker 1: playing Cleveland. Cleveland is not looking good right now? Okay

1132
01:08:44,400 --> 01:08:49,080
Speaker 1: then okay, Viking's bed Vikings Burgers go with the bikers

1133
01:08:49,160 --> 01:08:53,200
Speaker 1: because well, I don't know. I like Chicago, though, I'm

1134
01:08:53,240 --> 01:08:56,600
Speaker 1: going with Shot. I'm the only reason I'm going with

1135
01:08:56,720 --> 01:08:58,760
Speaker 1: Chicago because it's not too cold yet. When it gets

1136
01:08:58,760 --> 01:09:03,680
Speaker 1: too cold, I don't I'm I just came back from Chicago. Chicago.

1137
01:09:04,439 --> 01:09:08,720
Speaker 1: Right here we go, Lions pay I'm not picking Chicago. Cousin, you,

1138
01:09:08,880 --> 01:09:15,280
Speaker 1: I'm not going here. You're gonna Lions Patriots, Lions Patriots

1139
01:09:15,560 --> 01:09:17,639
Speaker 1: Lions versus I'm going with the Lions. That's my boy

1140
01:09:17,720 --> 01:09:22,200
Speaker 1: over there. You know, defensive corn deepensive cornet. I'm going

1141
01:09:22,240 --> 01:09:26,320
Speaker 1: with so man, all right, here we go, Seahawks Saints.

1142
01:09:26,400 --> 01:09:29,240
Speaker 1: I got to get this. You call us it right there?

1143
01:09:29,720 --> 01:09:32,760
Speaker 1: Lord see Yawks listen. Yeah, they're gonna get that boys

1144
01:09:32,800 --> 01:09:34,640
Speaker 1: and crab legs. He can play his ass off. But

1145
01:09:34,720 --> 01:09:37,519
Speaker 1: if y'all not gonna get that bottom crab leg you're not.

1146
01:09:38,280 --> 01:09:45,880
Speaker 1: I'm just saying struggle. All right, Thank you guys. Coming

1147
01:09:45,960 --> 01:09:48,479
Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, Um, some advice

1148
01:09:48,640 --> 01:09:51,280
Speaker 1: is needed for a few of our listeners on social media.

1149
01:09:51,400 --> 01:09:54,320
Speaker 1: We'll try and answer their questions right after this. You're

1150
01:09:54,400 --> 01:10:01,240
Speaker 1: listening show. All right, So, guys, we have a question

1151
01:10:01,400 --> 01:10:05,160
Speaker 1: from Mark on Facebook. Mark says, my girlfriend and I

1152
01:10:05,280 --> 01:10:08,400
Speaker 1: have been together for six months, and all this time

1153
01:10:08,560 --> 01:10:12,960
Speaker 1: I've known she was quote the one. Marriage is clearly

1154
01:10:13,160 --> 01:10:16,120
Speaker 1: in our future, but she just sprung one of her

1155
01:10:16,280 --> 01:10:19,559
Speaker 1: rules on me and I'm tripping about it. She's adamant

1156
01:10:19,600 --> 01:10:23,439
Speaker 1: about us both having our separate lives even though we're

1157
01:10:23,520 --> 01:10:27,360
Speaker 1: together and faithful. That includes separate places to live. She

1158
01:10:27,520 --> 01:10:30,160
Speaker 1: wants to keep her apartment and she doesn't care where

1159
01:10:30,280 --> 01:10:33,200
Speaker 1: I live as long as it's not with her. She says,

1160
01:10:33,280 --> 01:10:36,280
Speaker 1: she's very picky about her living space, and me messing

1161
01:10:36,400 --> 01:10:39,760
Speaker 1: that up would not end well for us as a couple. Dog,

1162
01:10:39,920 --> 01:10:42,360
Speaker 1: I don't even know how should I feel about this.

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01:10:43,400 --> 01:10:49,240
Speaker 1: This is beautiful, This is absolutely beautiful. You get your

1164
01:10:49,320 --> 01:10:51,760
Speaker 1: own spot, You get to go visit her when you

1165
01:10:51,880 --> 01:10:55,680
Speaker 1: want to visit her. This is beautiful. They're dating at

1166
01:10:55,760 --> 01:10:59,200
Speaker 1: this point, they're not married. But when we get married,

1167
01:10:59,280 --> 01:11:02,360
Speaker 1: we're gonna have my own places. I love it, surely,

1168
01:11:02,840 --> 01:11:06,080
Speaker 1: Oh my god, sure listen. And I in my in

1169
01:11:06,160 --> 01:11:09,599
Speaker 1: my in the neighborhood where my grandmother lived in when

1170
01:11:09,800 --> 01:11:11,479
Speaker 1: when I was in front of Houston, when my grandmother's

1171
01:11:11,520 --> 01:11:14,320
Speaker 1: living that was a person that was married and and

1172
01:11:14,520 --> 01:11:16,720
Speaker 1: and the husband lived down the street in another house.

1173
01:11:16,760 --> 01:11:18,439
Speaker 1: It was the craziest thing I don't see. And he

1174
01:11:18,520 --> 01:11:20,960
Speaker 1: would come down to her house, to his wife's house

1175
01:11:21,320 --> 01:11:23,839
Speaker 1: half dinner, and then go back to his house. Craziest

1176
01:11:23,840 --> 01:11:28,240
Speaker 1: thing I ever see. But I love it. Wow thing.

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01:11:28,920 --> 01:11:35,439
Speaker 1: I'm all for separate bathrooms, but in the same house thing. Surely? Yeah, yeah,

1178
01:11:35,520 --> 01:11:39,040
Speaker 1: this is nonsense. What about you, newly Web What you think? Mark?

1179
01:11:39,720 --> 01:11:42,720
Speaker 1: What are you writing us for? She said this? She

1180
01:11:43,040 --> 01:11:48,200
Speaker 1: said it we gonna have separate living. You're good. I

1181
01:11:48,400 --> 01:11:54,640
Speaker 1: love it. I come on wish telling eighteen days in.

1182
01:11:54,960 --> 01:11:57,479
Speaker 1: I wish she would have say it. I wish you

1183
01:11:57,479 --> 01:12:01,640
Speaker 1: would have see she it. She said it. Mark, And

1184
01:12:01,680 --> 01:12:05,720
Speaker 1: you're writing us complaining, Missim. You're perfect, You're good. I

1185
01:12:05,800 --> 01:12:08,599
Speaker 1: wish I wish Jackie little down the street. If jack

1186
01:12:08,600 --> 01:12:15,759
Speaker 1: can live down the street, down the street? What crazy

1187
01:12:16,439 --> 01:12:20,120
Speaker 1: got right here? Well, I get married. What's the point

1188
01:12:20,160 --> 01:12:23,479
Speaker 1: of getting married separately? I don't get it. Do you

1189
01:12:23,600 --> 01:12:29,360
Speaker 1: mean by getting married, nobody have you? Okay, that's I'm selfish.

1190
01:12:29,439 --> 01:12:33,920
Speaker 1: Don't nobody had? But we just don't have to live together.

1191
01:12:34,120 --> 01:12:36,800
Speaker 1: We don't have to live together because I'm gonna tell

1192
01:12:36,840 --> 01:12:39,160
Speaker 1: you all these errands I'm running. I didn't have to

1193
01:12:39,200 --> 01:12:42,000
Speaker 1: do these eighteen days ago. Now I'm doing every day.

1194
01:12:42,240 --> 01:12:45,360
Speaker 1: I got some way to go. Tire you. I'm tired.

1195
01:12:46,920 --> 01:12:49,759
Speaker 1: Hold on, I'm tired. Dropped me off at the airport.

1196
01:12:49,800 --> 01:12:54,320
Speaker 1: I've never driven to the airport. What did you writing

1197
01:12:54,400 --> 01:12:58,439
Speaker 1: us for? Mark? Me and Tommy gave you out? Oh,

1198
01:12:58,520 --> 01:13:00,479
Speaker 1: I wish Jackie little on it. I'll be fans about

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01:13:00,520 --> 01:13:12,679
Speaker 1: jack insanity. Guys, every merryman, listen to the show right now. Said,

1200
01:13:12,760 --> 01:13:15,479
Speaker 1: what is you write before? Shut up? This is a

1201
01:13:15,520 --> 01:13:22,360
Speaker 1: perfect times shut your damn mouth. All right, let's see

1202
01:13:22,360 --> 01:13:25,400
Speaker 1: if we have time for one more um. This is

1203
01:13:25,439 --> 01:13:28,360
Speaker 1: from Ronnie on Twitter. Ronnie writes, Uh, I just got

1204
01:13:28,520 --> 01:13:32,799
Speaker 1: called into HR for having a sexually degrading material posted

1205
01:13:32,880 --> 01:13:36,040
Speaker 1: in my cubicles. Apparently one of my female co workers

1206
01:13:36,120 --> 01:13:39,599
Speaker 1: wandered her nosy behind into my cubicle. Uh, and had

1207
01:13:39,680 --> 01:13:42,280
Speaker 1: an issue with a picture that was on my desk.

1208
01:13:42,640 --> 01:13:46,800
Speaker 1: The picture in question my wife, who is built like

1209
01:13:47,040 --> 01:13:52,280
Speaker 1: a brick house. Yes, uh, and it's a professional bodybuilder.

1210
01:13:52,880 --> 01:13:55,920
Speaker 1: Earlier this year she won a regional competition and the

1211
01:13:56,040 --> 01:14:00,439
Speaker 1: picture is of her flexing in her bikini with her trophy. Okay,

1212
01:14:01,120 --> 01:14:04,320
Speaker 1: can I really get in trouble for celebrating the greatness

1213
01:14:04,479 --> 01:14:10,400
Speaker 1: that is my wife? What? Yeah? I'm just not a

1214
01:14:10,520 --> 01:14:12,840
Speaker 1: fan of these cubicles. They always get your ass in trouble.

1215
01:14:12,880 --> 01:14:18,479
Speaker 1: All these It's always a problem with these cubicles. Dogs

1216
01:14:19,080 --> 01:14:21,840
Speaker 1: can't You can't put your life up in your cubicle. Dogs,

1217
01:14:21,880 --> 01:14:25,320
Speaker 1: you can't do it, and you are yo. Your co

1218
01:14:25,479 --> 01:14:30,120
Speaker 1: worker is not fine, and she's intimidated. I find your wife,

1219
01:14:31,360 --> 01:14:33,479
Speaker 1: But you got we got we gotta get these people

1220
01:14:33,479 --> 01:14:37,000
Speaker 1: out in cubicles. I've seen it coming. I've been twenty minutes.

1221
01:14:37,040 --> 01:14:39,400
Speaker 1: After the hour, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey

1222
01:14:39,439 --> 01:14:47,040
Speaker 1: Morning Show right after this. You're listening Stry Morning Show. Hey, listen, guys,

1223
01:14:47,520 --> 01:14:50,120
Speaker 1: uh listen. My candles are back. I want to thank

1224
01:14:50,280 --> 01:14:54,639
Speaker 1: everyone who purchased a candle on my love sh Shirley

1225
01:14:54,680 --> 01:14:58,479
Speaker 1: Strawberry Candles. Thank you so much. I also added something

1226
01:14:58,600 --> 01:15:00,439
Speaker 1: new to my line. I have can those now. And

1227
01:15:00,560 --> 01:15:03,519
Speaker 1: I also have new designer bags. That's right. I have

1228
01:15:03,680 --> 01:15:07,599
Speaker 1: new design handbags for women. Thank you, guys, Thank you Carla.

1229
01:15:07,920 --> 01:15:12,320
Speaker 1: I have new handbags. I do. I do. They will

1230
01:15:12,479 --> 01:15:16,040
Speaker 1: debut at a place called the lab Factory. It's a

1231
01:15:16,120 --> 01:15:21,000
Speaker 1: brand new store manufacturing company in the city of Atlanta

1232
01:15:21,080 --> 01:15:25,280
Speaker 1: and Buckhead actually eight hundred Miami Circle in Buckhead in Atlanta.

1233
01:15:25,840 --> 01:15:28,800
Speaker 1: And they're having a big grand opening this Saturday, a

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01:15:28,920 --> 01:15:31,960
Speaker 1: big grand opening, celebrities, all of that coming out. It

1235
01:15:32,120 --> 01:15:34,880
Speaker 1: starts at eleven eight m and I just want you

1236
01:15:34,960 --> 01:15:36,519
Speaker 1: guys to come out and see what I've been doing.

1237
01:15:36,600 --> 01:15:38,439
Speaker 1: My candles are back, like I said, and I have

1238
01:15:38,560 --> 01:15:43,479
Speaker 1: handbags and an array of colors red, pink, blue, green, black,

1239
01:15:44,280 --> 01:15:47,479
Speaker 1: rust pumpkins every color that you can imagine. Yeah, I

1240
01:15:47,600 --> 01:15:51,400
Speaker 1: have them, So please come eight hundred Miami Circle in Atlanta.

1241
01:15:51,600 --> 01:15:55,080
Speaker 1: Sweet one, if I buy my wife a bag, you'll

1242
01:15:55,120 --> 01:15:59,240
Speaker 1: slide me two candles in there. Let's I know, two

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Speaker 1: for one? Yeah, wash a little old little sum on

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01:16:04,640 --> 01:16:07,639
Speaker 1: the side. Well, I want a pink bag. Breast cancer

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01:16:07,680 --> 01:16:11,439
Speaker 1: you want, I'll get a guy and thank you for

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01:16:11,640 --> 01:16:19,320
Speaker 1: my wonderful candles. It smells so yeah, green, pink, red, white, blue, white, yes,

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Speaker 1: all of that, all of that all right. Coming up

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01:16:24,360 --> 01:16:26,280
Speaker 1: at thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll play a

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01:16:26,360 --> 01:16:29,000
Speaker 1: round of would you rather? Right after this you're listening

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01:16:29,240 --> 01:16:33,400
Speaker 1: to show. All right, guys, it is time now for

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01:16:33,640 --> 01:16:40,320
Speaker 1: would you rather? Would you rather have nosy neighbors? Or

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01:16:40,400 --> 01:16:50,120
Speaker 1: would you rather have noisy neighbors? Nosy? Ye don't like.

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01:16:50,320 --> 01:16:54,240
Speaker 1: I don't like a nosy neighbor. I don't uh, I

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01:16:54,360 --> 01:16:56,559
Speaker 1: don't not not do anything. I just don't. I don't

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01:16:56,640 --> 01:16:58,599
Speaker 1: need all that in action. I don't need that out

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01:16:58,640 --> 01:17:02,240
Speaker 1: of my business. Yeah, I think i'd rather you be noisy.

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01:17:04,320 --> 01:17:09,280
Speaker 1: He's coming over to my house. No right, really, you

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01:17:09,360 --> 01:17:15,400
Speaker 1: could actually spark something up in here. Yeah, get you

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01:17:15,560 --> 01:17:19,920
Speaker 1: some business, all right? Would you rather spend a week

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01:17:20,080 --> 01:17:23,880
Speaker 1: with no soap, or would you rather spend a week

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01:17:23,960 --> 01:17:32,040
Speaker 1: with no toothbrush? God, I'm brushing my teeth. I gotta

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01:17:32,080 --> 01:17:34,160
Speaker 1: have that soap off, I gotta have that soap. I got,

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01:17:36,200 --> 01:17:38,280
Speaker 1: you know what, I'm gonna take that soap and I'm

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01:17:38,320 --> 01:17:40,840
Speaker 1: gonna wash my mouth out with that damn soap. But

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01:17:40,960 --> 01:17:43,479
Speaker 1: I'm but I'm gonna be able to hit everything that too.

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01:17:43,560 --> 01:17:46,680
Speaker 1: Brush on your own problem, You own your own. You

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01:17:46,760 --> 01:17:49,840
Speaker 1: can't hit enough spots, you know. One time that way

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01:17:49,840 --> 01:17:51,000
Speaker 1: I look at it is that you know I'm gonna

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01:17:51,000 --> 01:17:52,439
Speaker 1: brush my teeth now, I ain't got no soap, but

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01:17:52,439 --> 01:17:54,920
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get it in the shower. Uh huh, I'm

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01:17:54,960 --> 01:17:57,479
Speaker 1: still gonna make it. Just ain't no soap. Oh, you

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01:17:57,600 --> 01:18:01,720
Speaker 1: can be wet and funky. I'm sorry. You can be

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01:18:01,840 --> 01:18:05,200
Speaker 1: wet and funky. I'm sorry, but my breath is amazing.

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01:18:09,360 --> 01:18:15,479
Speaker 1: My breath gonna smell like men's dub soap. Okay, all right?

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01:18:15,960 --> 01:18:20,080
Speaker 1: Would you guys rather walk barefoot in a public restroom?

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01:18:21,000 --> 01:18:29,360
Speaker 1: You'd rather get food poisoning? Ye? I'm not walking. I'm

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01:18:29,400 --> 01:18:33,440
Speaker 1: not I'm not walking on that flow in that bathroom.

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01:18:33,880 --> 01:18:38,240
Speaker 1: I'm not doing it. Tommy, I'm not walking on that

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01:18:38,400 --> 01:18:41,679
Speaker 1: floor at all. Have you seen the restrooms in the airport?

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01:18:42,080 --> 01:18:46,519
Speaker 1: Just starting? Oh my god, So you'd rather get food points,

1281
01:18:46,600 --> 01:18:49,360
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be sick because, let me tell you some

1282
01:18:49,479 --> 01:18:51,360
Speaker 1: if I go on that bathroom, if I go in

1283
01:18:51,400 --> 01:18:53,400
Speaker 1: that bathroom, I'm gonna find out that my ass and

1284
01:18:53,479 --> 01:18:56,160
Speaker 1: spider Man, because I'm gonna be stuck to the I'm

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01:18:56,200 --> 01:19:00,360
Speaker 1: gonna be stuck to the ceiling, ain't I'm not No,

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01:19:00,520 --> 01:19:04,120
Speaker 1: I'm not walking on that flow sider nephew. All right?

1287
01:19:04,120 --> 01:19:07,599
Speaker 1: Would you rather be blind and not be able to talk?

1288
01:19:07,760 --> 01:19:09,640
Speaker 1: Or not be able to talk for the rest of

1289
01:19:09,720 --> 01:19:12,439
Speaker 1: your life? Not be able to not be able to

1290
01:19:12,520 --> 01:19:16,360
Speaker 1: talk for the rest of your life? I'm guessing you're

1291
01:19:16,360 --> 01:19:21,120
Speaker 1: going with eight times what I'm try I'm trying to

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01:19:21,240 --> 01:19:30,760
Speaker 1: talk now. The struggle is real. You're getting better every day, though.

1293
01:19:30,880 --> 01:19:33,080
Speaker 1: What I ain't gonna do is be blind too. No, no, no,

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01:19:35,320 --> 01:19:43,680
Speaker 1: you cast a free baby, you can't cast all right.

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01:19:45,120 --> 01:19:47,760
Speaker 1: That is today's round of would you rather? Coming up

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01:19:47,800 --> 01:19:49,960
Speaker 1: at forty nine minutes after the hour. It's our last

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Speaker 1: break of the day, and we'll have some closing remarks

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Speaker 1: from the one and only Steve Harvey right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, Steve, Here we are last break

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Speaker 1: of the day on this Thursday. Take us home with

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01:20:05,360 --> 01:20:09,800
Speaker 1: some closing remarks. You know, somebody sent me something a

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01:20:09,920 --> 01:20:13,000
Speaker 1: while back. You know, I keep stuff that people send

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01:20:13,080 --> 01:20:18,040
Speaker 1: me because a lot of people send me things when

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01:20:18,080 --> 01:20:21,280
Speaker 1: I know I'm going through something. A lot of people

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01:20:21,360 --> 01:20:24,120
Speaker 1: send me stuff when just to say, Steve, if you're

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01:20:24,120 --> 01:20:28,280
Speaker 1: out there talking, man, here's a thought for you. And

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Speaker 1: one of the things that I've learned in my life

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Speaker 1: is that all of us are going to be tested.

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01:20:38,840 --> 01:20:44,439
Speaker 1: We're gonna be tested and tried throughout our life. It's

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01:20:44,479 --> 01:20:48,799
Speaker 1: these tests that are presented to us that has allows

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01:20:48,920 --> 01:20:53,000
Speaker 1: us an opportunity to grow. Every test that comes your

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01:20:53,080 --> 01:20:56,200
Speaker 1: way is an opportunity for you to gain some valuable

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01:20:56,320 --> 01:20:59,639
Speaker 1: knowledge from it, and so throughout life you will always

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01:20:59,720 --> 01:21:04,360
Speaker 1: be tested. Everything that happens to you is not just

1315
01:21:04,760 --> 01:21:09,680
Speaker 1: because the devil is busy. Some thing's happened to you

1316
01:21:09,880 --> 01:21:13,840
Speaker 1: because God has to present certain things for you in

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01:21:14,080 --> 01:21:15,800
Speaker 1: order for you to learn how to deal with it,

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01:21:16,000 --> 01:21:19,679
Speaker 1: which better prepares you for what you ask for later

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01:21:19,840 --> 01:21:22,800
Speaker 1: in life, or to prepare you for what God is

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01:21:22,840 --> 01:21:25,760
Speaker 1: going to present to you. Later in life. So when

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01:21:25,800 --> 01:21:28,160
Speaker 1: you're going through hardships, you got to understand that these

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01:21:28,240 --> 01:21:32,639
Speaker 1: hardships are preparing you for the future. And like I've

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01:21:32,680 --> 01:21:35,599
Speaker 1: been saying a lot over the past few weeks, if

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01:21:35,680 --> 01:21:38,120
Speaker 1: you think about all your hardships and your tough days

1325
01:21:38,160 --> 01:21:44,080
Speaker 1: and your rough days, your actual record for surviving bad

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01:21:44,280 --> 01:21:47,240
Speaker 1: days all the way up until this point, y'all, is one.

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01:21:48,880 --> 01:21:52,640
Speaker 1: And that's a pretty good track record. Now, in this

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01:21:52,880 --> 01:21:56,479
Speaker 1: test that God is going to present to you, somebody

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01:21:56,600 --> 01:21:58,559
Speaker 1: sent this to me on a plaque, and it's said

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01:21:58,600 --> 01:22:01,920
Speaker 1: that life has many ways of testing a person's will.

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01:22:03,000 --> 01:22:05,160
Speaker 1: I want you to hear me clearly. It says life

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01:22:06,520 --> 01:22:13,000
Speaker 1: has many ways of testing a person's will, either though

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01:22:14,280 --> 01:22:19,879
Speaker 1: by having nothing happened at all, or by having everything

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01:22:20,080 --> 01:22:23,600
Speaker 1: happened all at once. Do you know how true of

1335
01:22:23,600 --> 01:22:29,320
Speaker 1: a statement that is? You get tested by first of all,

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01:22:30,320 --> 01:22:34,000
Speaker 1: a person's will get tested by either having nothing happened

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Speaker 1: at all. You know how hard it is man when

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01:22:36,240 --> 01:22:38,599
Speaker 1: you ain't got nothing going on? Do you know how

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01:22:38,680 --> 01:22:41,040
Speaker 1: hard it is man when you can't get nothing popping?

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01:22:41,640 --> 01:22:43,439
Speaker 1: You know how difficult life can be man when you

1341
01:22:43,560 --> 01:22:45,880
Speaker 1: just can't seem to get it right? Do you know

1342
01:22:46,000 --> 01:22:49,240
Speaker 1: the difficulties you face. Man, ain't nothing clicking on none

1343
01:22:49,280 --> 01:22:52,200
Speaker 1: of the cylinders. Man, ain't nothing happening at at all.

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01:22:52,600 --> 01:22:56,040
Speaker 1: That's a test, Man, that's a real hard test. Man.

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01:22:56,560 --> 01:22:59,479
Speaker 1: That's when you're sitting up that man, going Lord, Heavenly Father.

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01:22:59,760 --> 01:23:03,599
Speaker 1: And now it's preparing you and conditioning you to get

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01:23:03,680 --> 01:23:06,639
Speaker 1: closer to God, because I'm telling you, man, you can't

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01:23:06,720 --> 01:23:08,640
Speaker 1: make it in this world without God. Now you can

1349
01:23:08,760 --> 01:23:10,880
Speaker 1: keep on trying this way if you want to, but

1350
01:23:11,000 --> 01:23:13,800
Speaker 1: I got news for you. You can lock in on

1351
01:23:13,920 --> 01:23:15,960
Speaker 1: this room. This is a fact. You can't make it

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01:23:16,040 --> 01:23:18,280
Speaker 1: through this life without no God. You can't do it.

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01:23:19,160 --> 01:23:22,320
Speaker 1: You cannot do it. It's too difficult. And one of

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01:23:22,400 --> 01:23:24,400
Speaker 1: the tests to get you to draw closer to Him

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01:23:24,760 --> 01:23:28,800
Speaker 1: is sometimes a person's will is tested by having nothing

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01:23:28,920 --> 01:23:32,120
Speaker 1: happened at all. But here's the other way you get tested.

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01:23:32,439 --> 01:23:36,360
Speaker 1: How about this one? Or by having everything happened all

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01:23:36,560 --> 01:23:42,960
Speaker 1: at wants? How many times that didn't happen? Man, when

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01:23:43,000 --> 01:23:47,400
Speaker 1: it just felt like man, it's raining cats and dogs

1360
01:23:47,560 --> 01:23:51,360
Speaker 1: on you. It's almost like, man, you can't catch a breaking.

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01:23:52,520 --> 01:23:54,720
Speaker 1: Ten minute ago you couldn't catch a break to get

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01:23:54,800 --> 01:23:57,080
Speaker 1: something happened, And now all of a suddenly look like

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01:23:57,160 --> 01:24:00,200
Speaker 1: you can't stop this thing from happening. It's just old

1364
01:24:00,240 --> 01:24:04,080
Speaker 1: balling on you. Man, that's a test, you know what.

1365
01:24:04,320 --> 01:24:06,240
Speaker 1: God has wanted you to get close to him too,

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01:24:06,560 --> 01:24:08,360
Speaker 1: so he can take some of that weight up off you,

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01:24:09,560 --> 01:24:11,599
Speaker 1: so you can take your troubles to him and tied

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01:24:11,640 --> 01:24:13,280
Speaker 1: to him, so he can prove to you that you

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01:24:13,320 --> 01:24:15,560
Speaker 1: ain't in this thing by yourself. See, you ain't in

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01:24:15,680 --> 01:24:18,200
Speaker 1: life by yourself. When it ain't you ain't got nothing happening,

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01:24:18,560 --> 01:24:21,080
Speaker 1: and you ain't got and you ain't by yourself in

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01:24:21,160 --> 01:24:25,800
Speaker 1: life when you got everything happened. You need God. Man,

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Speaker 1: I kid you not. And you know how I know

1374
01:24:30,760 --> 01:24:32,360
Speaker 1: what I'm talking about because you're looking at a man

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01:24:32,400 --> 01:24:34,560
Speaker 1: who tried it without him. And I knew better. My

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01:24:34,640 --> 01:24:37,240
Speaker 1: mom was a Sunday school teacher. I knew better than

1377
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Speaker 1: to turn away and try it in my way. But

1378
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Speaker 1: I did it for years and I made you know

1379
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Speaker 1: what I mean, I made a mess out of myself.

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Speaker 1: I was turning myself into a big old glob or nothing.

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01:24:49,840 --> 01:24:55,960
Speaker 1: But he got my undivided attention one day when I

1382
01:24:56,120 --> 01:24:59,040
Speaker 1: was at a real low point. But one of them days,

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01:24:59,080 --> 01:25:01,600
Speaker 1: why I thought I'm gonna rit eyes no more. On

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01:25:01,720 --> 01:25:03,320
Speaker 1: one of them days where I thought, man, I hadn't

1385
01:25:03,360 --> 01:25:05,559
Speaker 1: had enough of this. I ain't never thought about killing myself.

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01:25:05,600 --> 01:25:07,439
Speaker 1: I ain't never thought about checking out. The thought has

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01:25:07,479 --> 01:25:09,519
Speaker 1: never crossed my mind. But I'm just talking about I

1388
01:25:09,560 --> 01:25:11,519
Speaker 1: just had some days, man, we're just felt like, Man,

1389
01:25:11,600 --> 01:25:13,680
Speaker 1: this is like, yeah, I can't do no more this hill.

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Speaker 1: When I was living in that car, I had some

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01:25:15,960 --> 01:25:17,519
Speaker 1: days man, when I just said, Man, I can't do

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Speaker 1: this no more. I'm gonna go home. Man, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: go home my mom and daddy. Man, just see if

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01:25:22,520 --> 01:25:24,200
Speaker 1: I can stay there until I find a job. I

1395
01:25:24,320 --> 01:25:29,200
Speaker 1: almost did that because, you know what, was nothing happening

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01:25:29,320 --> 01:25:33,840
Speaker 1: at all. I couldn't get nothing clicking and right about

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01:25:33,920 --> 01:25:36,600
Speaker 1: the man, I just say, as Scottison, man, can you

1398
01:25:36,640 --> 01:25:38,479
Speaker 1: just show me a sign that it's gonna be our

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Speaker 1: Next thing? I knew I called as some machine in

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01:25:41,360 --> 01:25:44,360
Speaker 1: my mama's house, and it was a message and it

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01:25:44,439 --> 01:25:46,400
Speaker 1: was a guy named Chuck Chuck Sutton that showed time

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01:25:46,400 --> 01:25:51,040
Speaker 1: with your power. Next thing, you know, man, next thing?

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01:25:51,200 --> 01:25:55,760
Speaker 1: You know? That weekend I was on TV for the

1404
01:25:56,000 --> 01:25:59,800
Speaker 1: very first time. And do you know something that I

1405
01:26:00,080 --> 01:26:03,400
Speaker 1: been on TV? Every since that. But it was real

1406
01:26:03,520 --> 01:26:06,400
Speaker 1: dog for me for a minute. But he always comes.

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01:26:06,840 --> 01:26:09,000
Speaker 1: Life got a lot of ways of testing the people's will,

1408
01:26:09,400 --> 01:26:12,000
Speaker 1: either about having nothing happened at all, about having everything

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01:26:12,120 --> 01:26:14,720
Speaker 1: happening all at once. But either way as a test

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01:26:14,840 --> 01:26:17,000
Speaker 1: you can pass. You've done all the rest of them,

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01:26:17,040 --> 01:26:19,840
Speaker 1: ain't you got through it? Yeah? Yeah, that's it. Keep

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01:26:19,880 --> 01:26:22,519
Speaker 1: your faith. Put some God in your life. You need him.

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01:26:22,920 --> 01:26:27,240
Speaker 1: Drop thumb, mic Hey, y'all tell you momm and nelm,

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01:26:27,280 --> 01:26:42,519
Speaker 1: I said, what's happening for all? Steve Every contests no

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Speaker 1: purchase necessary, void where prohibited. Participants must be legal US

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Speaker 1: residents at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For

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Speaker 1: complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey fm dot com. You're

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