WEBVTT - Has A Relationship Ended Without Notice?

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<v Speaker 1>It's topic times.

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<v Speaker 2>The phone.

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<v Speaker 3>Called eight hundred and five five five one to join

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<v Speaker 3>into the discussion with the Breakfast Club talk about it.

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<v Speaker 3>Warning everybody, it's DJ env Charlamagne the guy.

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<v Speaker 1>We are the Breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 4>Now.

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<v Speaker 3>If you're just joining us, we got our guest co

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<v Speaker 3>host Lauren LaRosa, formerly of TMZ. We found out today.

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<v Speaker 3>If you didn't know the story, we'll get back into

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<v Speaker 3>that story later on. There'd be in one of those

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<v Speaker 3>room reports.

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<v Speaker 1>But we're talking about Tiffany had Its.

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<v Speaker 3>Tiffany had It sat down with the Washington Post and

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<v Speaker 3>she was talking about her relationship with Common. She said,

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<v Speaker 3>it was healthy, it was funny, it was probably one

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<v Speaker 3>of the funniest relationships she's been in. It was safe,

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<v Speaker 3>and then all of a sudden, it just didn't work.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's not because of her. She said, the feeling

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<v Speaker 3>wasn't mutual, that they were together, and then all of

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<v Speaker 3>a sudden comment hit her with a Texas said.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the relationships ran its course.

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<v Speaker 3>So we're asking eight hundred five a five one oh

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<v Speaker 3>five to one, has that ever happened to you?

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<v Speaker 1>You thought your relationship was good, you thought.

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<v Speaker 3>Everything was good money, and then all of a sudden

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<v Speaker 3>it wasn't Is that happen to you before?

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<v Speaker 1>No answer, No, not at all.

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<v Speaker 5>No, I'm not going out like that.

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<v Speaker 4>What do you mean like that like that?

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<v Speaker 6>Because that's so hurtful, Like for you you really didn't

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<v Speaker 6>don't care much about that person. If you just wake

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<v Speaker 6>up one day and you're like, this isn't working for me,

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<v Speaker 6>I'll call you back.

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<v Speaker 1>But what if what and I'm not saying Tiffany is

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<v Speaker 1>this person?

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<v Speaker 3>But what if you know that the person in the

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<v Speaker 3>date is kind of crazy, like kind of the one

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<v Speaker 3>that will put hands and feet on you.

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<v Speaker 2>Looking at your eyes right now because you see that,

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<v Speaker 2>you know you would have got a.

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<v Speaker 4>Text men maybe a DA.

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<v Speaker 6>I have learned in my adult life that women cannot

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<v Speaker 6>put their hands on minutes and that's a violence.

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<v Speaker 5>I would not do that, but don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>I just feel like there there should be a level

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<v Speaker 6>of respect decency. Yes, a phone call is not, especially

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<v Speaker 6>when you're very like there at that age, but also

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<v Speaker 6>too at that height of celebrity.

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<v Speaker 5>It's like it's embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 6>She was so happy, it's so excited about the relationship

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<v Speaker 6>and to know and also too, I don't know, like

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<v Speaker 6>the me I just feel like I expected just a

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<v Speaker 6>little bit more smoothness from Common, Like it really makes

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<v Speaker 6>me look at him in a way that I don't

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<v Speaker 6>want to.

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<v Speaker 4>Look at him now.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know nothing about Common in tiffany situation, right,

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<v Speaker 2>But what if I spoke to you prior, face to

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<v Speaker 2>face and we decided that this wasn't going to work,

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<v Speaker 2>and I told you this face to face, but you.

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<v Speaker 1>Couldn't let them see.

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<v Speaker 5>That's different.

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<v Speaker 4>You know that's different.

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<v Speaker 5>That that's really different.

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<v Speaker 6>That's kind of like with the whole scandal thing you

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<v Speaker 6>guys watch, No, no, okay, all right, that's a lot

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<v Speaker 6>different because there's a fore warning. It's kind of put

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<v Speaker 6>out there that regardless of how anybody feels, it's not

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<v Speaker 6>working for at least one person and the person that

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<v Speaker 6>I willing to work through it.

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<v Speaker 5>But it doesn't seem like.

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<v Speaker 6>That's what was given to her, Like it's kind of

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<v Speaker 6>like she didn't even have the are we going to

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<v Speaker 6>fight for this?

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<v Speaker 5>Is this a thing?

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<v Speaker 6>Like type of conversation, Like it was just like, no,

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<v Speaker 6>this doesn't work for me. I'm good, she says. She responded, Okay, cool,

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<v Speaker 6>So you just gonna be this single man at fifty

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<v Speaker 6>Like it but like I'm thinking.

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<v Speaker 2>About, I'm not gonna be But that's what that's the

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<v Speaker 2>technically he's saying.

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<v Speaker 6>I hate that comment. As a love bomber like that,

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<v Speaker 6>and it's a love bomba. It's a person that like

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<v Speaker 6>comes into your life. They fill you up in all

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<v Speaker 6>the ways that you need, You do everything right, and

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<v Speaker 6>the love is there, the passion is there, and then

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<v Speaker 6>it's just like I'm going and can you imagine, like

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<v Speaker 6>you know what I mean, like you're it's common, and

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<v Speaker 6>then think about the you got the voice on top

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<v Speaker 6>of it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I want to hug.

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<v Speaker 2>I would have definitely been a love bomber back because

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a cancer. I'm a sensitive cancer.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, y'all are the ones there's so much emotions tied

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<v Speaker 6>up into it so fast that the other person feels like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 6>this is going somewhere because I got them. I got

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<v Speaker 6>that emotion when some people just are emotional people.

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<v Speaker 5>And when you come, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Drop in and you did you love bomba? You right, Chris?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>And I talk to us, Chrissy, he was with somebody

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<v Speaker 1>for two years? What happened? Yes?

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<v Speaker 7>I was two years after.

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<v Speaker 4>You never said nothing not even a phone call or

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<v Speaker 4>text nothing.

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<v Speaker 7>Nothing.

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<v Speaker 5>Is he in jail?

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<v Speaker 1>Was it he or she?

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<v Speaker 2>It was a she?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh she left you, dann Is she in jail?

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<v Speaker 5>Is she alive?

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<v Speaker 7>Like, yeah, she's alive. I said her a couple of

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<v Speaker 7>days ago with the money.

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<v Speaker 2>We don't talk about how toxic lesbians are to each other.

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<v Speaker 2>We really don't.

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<v Speaker 4>Y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>Are some cruel people to each other. I've seen it happen. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm talking about the person you was dating.

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<v Speaker 3>That she loves you, you, she she careshed you, she

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<v Speaker 3>held you, she ate the box right, and then just

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<v Speaker 3>left you one day.

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<v Speaker 6>You're funny, But I feel like you said two years, right, yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>two years. I feel like the first two years of

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<v Speaker 6>a relationship. And I'm sorry I have to say this

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<v Speaker 6>to you, Like, it's not you. You haven't even fully

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<v Speaker 6>cut off everybody that you were dealing with before the relationship.

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<v Speaker 7>Damn.

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<v Speaker 2>Then she did, well, she might not have what she

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<v Speaker 2>doing now she with somebody.

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<v Speaker 6>You haven't like, looked at the Instagram, Facebook Nothing, I

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<v Speaker 6>don't have Instagram.

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<v Speaker 2>That's being a relationships is so complicated because whenever you

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<v Speaker 2>play paper Rock says, it's always.

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<v Speaker 1>And you were making jokes's wrong with you?

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<v Speaker 5>Obviously? She could barely get the words out.

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<v Speaker 3>Karen, Karen, Karen and Karen Karen, Okay, Core, what happened

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<v Speaker 3>with you?

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<v Speaker 4>Karen?

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<v Speaker 7>And Mark? My boyfriend of eight years just broke up

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<v Speaker 7>with me like that he was moving to New York.

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<v Speaker 1>Damn that he just text you or deep cough, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>Hello, Oh no, I thought you was crying just now.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't know what you was.

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<v Speaker 7>Doing start to laugh.

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<v Speaker 6>So were there issues leading up to the conversation about

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<v Speaker 6>moving to New York?

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<v Speaker 7>No, it was the relationships. I thought it was.

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<v Speaker 4>Y'all got to stop this.

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<v Speaker 5>You're not y'are not being honest.

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<v Speaker 2>You're not being honest. Something happened. You just don't wake

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<v Speaker 2>up one day say it's over.

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<v Speaker 4>Were you?

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<v Speaker 7>I swear? I thought's the same thing?

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<v Speaker 5>Were you?

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<v Speaker 6>Perfect relationship? Like I don't go looking so it's not happening.

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<v Speaker 6>Like something had to happen. There had to be something.

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<v Speaker 6>What did he move to the year for a job

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<v Speaker 6>or like a person or a job?

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<v Speaker 1>Not after eight years? Though eight years? Something must have

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<v Speaker 1>changed in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe he finally.

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<v Speaker 2>Decided damn like long, Maybe he finally decided to do

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<v Speaker 2>right by his wife.

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<v Speaker 3>Yo, shut up, goodbybe sorry? What's wrong with you man?

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<v Speaker 1>Eight hundred five eight five one oh five one?

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<v Speaker 3>If you just joined us, yo, you're a fool man.

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<v Speaker 3>We're talking about Tiffany had And she sat down with

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<v Speaker 3>the Washington Post. She was talking about her relationship with

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<v Speaker 3>Common and said it was the healthiest, funniest relationship ever.

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<v Speaker 3>She felt safe, everything was good, and then all of

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<v Speaker 3>a sudden, you know, comment here with a text and

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<v Speaker 3>was like, uh, the relationship run its course.

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<v Speaker 1>She was hurt by it. Has this happened to you?

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<v Speaker 1>Let's talk about it. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Its topics called eight hundred.

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<v Speaker 2>Five five one five one to join into the discussion

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<v Speaker 2>with the Breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 3>Warning everybody, it's DJ Envy Charlamagne the God.

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<v Speaker 1>We are the Breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 3>Now youw just joined us with here with our guest

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<v Speaker 3>co host Lauren Lroossa, formerly of TMZ. And the reason

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<v Speaker 3>I say, formally, well, explain it a little bit, but

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<v Speaker 3>we're asking this comes from Tiffany Hattish. She recently sat

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<v Speaker 3>down with The Washington Post. She was talking about her

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<v Speaker 3>relationship with Common. She said, during that relationship, it was

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<v Speaker 3>the healthiest, funniest relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>She says she felt.

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<v Speaker 3>Safe and Common well just didn't think so the feeling

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<v Speaker 3>wasn't mutual.

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<v Speaker 1>She said.

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<v Speaker 3>Common hit with a text like which relationship is running

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<v Speaker 3>its course? Jesus Christ. So we're asking eight hundred five

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<v Speaker 3>eight five one oh five one has that happened to you?

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<v Speaker 3>Lauren Lorossa said, No, that hasn't happened, and it won't.

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<v Speaker 5>No, it won't.

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<v Speaker 2>Lauren brought up a good point and a good term

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<v Speaker 2>that I never heard before, which is called love bombing, right,

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<v Speaker 2>and I think that guys who love bomb, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>really have to learn how to pull back on that

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<v Speaker 2>because you can't approach every situation like that person is

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<v Speaker 2>the one or.

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<v Speaker 5>They need to not date until they can emotionally mature.

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<v Speaker 4>Very true, because.

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<v Speaker 6>For me, I feel like you love vomb and you

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<v Speaker 6>run away from something like that, because anybody that keeps

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<v Speaker 6>getting this serious because this is a common pattern with

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<v Speaker 6>common and you keep stepping away from it. Though, I

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<v Speaker 6>just there's something like he's not getting over that hump

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<v Speaker 6>for a reason.

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<v Speaker 3>But what if it's the fact that he maybe he

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<v Speaker 3>might think that he's in love or thinks he's in

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<v Speaker 3>that situation and then something he sees turns him off.

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<v Speaker 2>But that's something with him though, that's something he gotta

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<v Speaker 2>fix and he gotta correct because how many times are

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<v Speaker 2>you going to do this with people?

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<v Speaker 5>I just hate this.

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<v Speaker 6>It makes me feel like he's a f boy like

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<v Speaker 6>I Damn, I hate to think about him that way.

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<v Speaker 6>It's always just been like melodies and great lyrics and.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just there.

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<v Speaker 6>I promise you guys, us women live in like a

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<v Speaker 6>fantasy state of common really, and I think, what, yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>So listen, that's a good point. You just brought up, lawn.

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<v Speaker 2>So maybe it's the women's fault because maybe the women

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<v Speaker 2>have this understanding because mabe, the women have this idea

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<v Speaker 2>of common and maybe it ain't even like that. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe common just dating and kicking it. But these women

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<v Speaker 2>are like, no, it's gonna be my husband.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to see that.

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<v Speaker 6>But also too, I think when you meet you know,

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<v Speaker 6>a man who is successful, he's attractive, he's going to

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<v Speaker 6>speak to you the right way.

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<v Speaker 5>He's going to speak life into you, you know what

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<v Speaker 5>I mean? She says she felt safe.

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<v Speaker 6>You are instantly, whether it's common or not, going to

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<v Speaker 6>feel like I love it here, I want to you

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<v Speaker 6>know what I mean, Like I'm honestly thinking now, like

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<v Speaker 6>because you know he's allegedly with Jennifer Hudson. Now I'm

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<v Speaker 6>trying to figure out, like where that's going.

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<v Speaker 2>What if that's just his nature though, But if he's

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<v Speaker 2>just that kind of person that makes you feel that way,

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<v Speaker 2>that's going to send you to Maya Angelo poems in

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<v Speaker 2>the morning, because that's him, just because he is a

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<v Speaker 2>protective person.

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<v Speaker 6>Like maybe I think I don't I don't know how

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<v Speaker 6>he goes into these things then, because I don't know

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<v Speaker 6>what Tiffany had it. She seems like she was very

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<v Speaker 6>called off guard, And I think if he is just

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<v Speaker 6>that person, there's nothing wrong with that. And I don't

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<v Speaker 6>even know if I would call him a love bomber.

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<v Speaker 6>Then if you go into and you're honest in your friend,

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<v Speaker 6>that's just how you court one of my friends, just

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<v Speaker 6>Mike DePaul, y'all know, just Mike, Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>So he talks about that a lot, The.

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<v Speaker 6>Fact that he courts women so well, even if he

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<v Speaker 6>doesn't want to be long term with them, it makes

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<v Speaker 6>women hate him. And it's because women are not used

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<v Speaker 6>to being courted a certain way or treated a certain way.

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<v Speaker 6>So in the minute they do, they like latch on.

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<v Speaker 6>So if it's that, I can understand that. But Tiffany

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<v Speaker 6>had it seemed very well, called off guard, like it

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<v Speaker 6>was given. He might have proposed one day and said,

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<v Speaker 6>is your uber here yet the next.

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<v Speaker 1>Damn well, let's go to the phone line. Tell her

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<v Speaker 1>who's this Torell Calday, Terrell? What's going on?

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<v Speaker 4>What's happening? Brother?

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<v Speaker 7>Love a bunch? Man?

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<v Speaker 1>Tell us your story, Terrell.

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<v Speaker 7>So, me and my girl at the time was together

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<v Speaker 7>for like five years and we got engaged on Thomas

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<v Speaker 7>the Island or whatever, and when we came back, he

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<v Speaker 7>broke it off with me and she was her girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 7>I didn't even know nothing about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh she cheated on you with a girl, her co worker.

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<v Speaker 4>You see what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>We just was talking about how topic these lesbians are.

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<v Speaker 2>You see, one done stole your but one stole you.

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<v Speaker 5>You don't you don't want to turn the l against

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Man, But does it hurt more that she that she

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<v Speaker 1>cheated on you with a woman or No?

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<v Speaker 2>I really don't you know whatever I mean, getting your girls,

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<v Speaker 2>getting your girls stolen ain't nothing you can.

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<v Speaker 4>Do about it.

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<v Speaker 7>But I did get my get back over her?

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<v Speaker 4>How did you get back the girl that used to.

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<v Speaker 7>Beat her up in school? I end up with her?

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<v Speaker 1>Was it good? What the girl I used to beat her?

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<v Speaker 4>What was that low vibrational response to this game?

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<v Speaker 5>What I thought you was gonna go for? Like the sister?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Something else, like the girl that used to beat her up?

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<v Speaker 4>Beat her up? Winning elementary school, middle school.

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<v Speaker 7>High school, high school? So street street?

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<v Speaker 1>So where you from?

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<v Speaker 2>So let me ask your question. So you mustn't know

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<v Speaker 2>that that triggered her. She must used to talk about

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<v Speaker 2>getting beat up by that girl a lot. Yeah, And

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<v Speaker 2>how old are y'all?

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<v Speaker 7>Thirty?

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<v Speaker 4>So this is about twelve y'all?

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<v Speaker 2>Y'all about twelve, thirteen years fourteen years remove? You just

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<v Speaker 2>did it because you knew that was going to traumatize her.

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<v Speaker 2>She must have got beat up in front of the

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<v Speaker 2>whole school. She must have been talking about it for

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<v Speaker 2>years multiple times. So you had sex with her bully?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, multiple times?

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<v Speaker 4>Dropping the clues BOMD for this young man.

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<v Speaker 1>How does the bully look though? Because if the bully was.

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<v Speaker 6>Beven matter, the girlfriend don't care if she can fight

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<v Speaker 6>now like, if she can fight down.

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<v Speaker 7>She could. Yo.

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<v Speaker 4>Having sex with a girl's bully is crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>But the bully looked like I'm just caring what the

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<v Speaker 1>bully looked like.

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<v Speaker 7>On a five one to five five.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, there's no way.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think so that bully that somebody beating in

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<v Speaker 3>it getting like Goose Creek man. Alright, what's the mollent

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<v Speaker 3>of the story.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know what's the more of the story.

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<v Speaker 5>Long, don't tell your man about your bully.

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<v Speaker 7>Story.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not telling you nothing.

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<v Speaker 4>All right.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, when we come back, we got your rumor report, Lauren,

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<v Speaker 3>you doing these rumors? Yes, what are we talking about?

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<v Speaker 3>Give us a little tease.

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<v Speaker 6>We are talking about Coiler Ray and we were going

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<v Speaker 6>to talk about Elliott Wilson.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, all right, we'll get into all that when we

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<v Speaker 1>come back. Keep a lock. This the Breakfast Club. Good morning,