1 00:00:00,840 --> 00:00:01,800 Speaker 1: It's topic times. 2 00:00:04,600 --> 00:00:05,320 Speaker 2: The phone. 3 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:09,240 Speaker 3: Called eight hundred and five five five one to join 4 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:12,040 Speaker 3: into the discussion with the Breakfast Club talk about it. 5 00:00:12,720 --> 00:00:16,080 Speaker 3: Warning everybody, it's DJ env Charlamagne the guy. 6 00:00:16,160 --> 00:00:17,560 Speaker 1: We are the Breakfast Club. 7 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 4: Now. 8 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:19,680 Speaker 3: If you're just joining us, we got our guest co 9 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:22,680 Speaker 3: host Lauren LaRosa, formerly of TMZ. We found out today. 10 00:00:22,720 --> 00:00:24,360 Speaker 3: If you didn't know the story, we'll get back into 11 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:25,720 Speaker 3: that story later on. There'd be in one of those 12 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:26,440 Speaker 3: room reports. 13 00:00:26,800 --> 00:00:28,360 Speaker 1: But we're talking about Tiffany had Its. 14 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:30,800 Speaker 3: Tiffany had It sat down with the Washington Post and 15 00:00:30,840 --> 00:00:33,360 Speaker 3: she was talking about her relationship with Common. She said, 16 00:00:33,360 --> 00:00:35,640 Speaker 3: it was healthy, it was funny, it was probably one 17 00:00:35,680 --> 00:00:38,400 Speaker 3: of the funniest relationships she's been in. It was safe, 18 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 3: and then all of a sudden, it just didn't work. 19 00:00:41,600 --> 00:00:43,320 Speaker 3: And it's not because of her. She said, the feeling 20 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:45,960 Speaker 3: wasn't mutual, that they were together, and then all of 21 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:48,080 Speaker 3: a sudden comment hit her with a Texas said. 22 00:00:47,880 --> 00:00:49,880 Speaker 1: It's the relationships ran its course. 23 00:00:50,159 --> 00:00:52,519 Speaker 3: So we're asking eight hundred five a five one oh 24 00:00:52,600 --> 00:00:54,319 Speaker 3: five to one, has that ever happened to you? 25 00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:56,160 Speaker 1: You thought your relationship was good, you thought. 26 00:00:55,920 --> 00:00:58,040 Speaker 3: Everything was good money, and then all of a sudden 27 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 3: it wasn't Is that happen to you before? 28 00:01:01,280 --> 00:01:06,240 Speaker 1: No answer, No, not at all. 29 00:01:06,680 --> 00:01:08,480 Speaker 5: No, I'm not going out like that. 30 00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:10,600 Speaker 4: What do you mean like that like that? 31 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:15,119 Speaker 6: Because that's so hurtful, Like for you you really didn't 32 00:01:15,120 --> 00:01:17,479 Speaker 6: don't care much about that person. If you just wake 33 00:01:17,560 --> 00:01:19,520 Speaker 6: up one day and you're like, this isn't working for me, 34 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:20,440 Speaker 6: I'll call you back. 35 00:01:20,520 --> 00:01:22,320 Speaker 1: But what if what and I'm not saying Tiffany is 36 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 1: this person? 37 00:01:22,760 --> 00:01:24,520 Speaker 3: But what if you know that the person in the 38 00:01:24,560 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 3: date is kind of crazy, like kind of the one 39 00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 3: that will put hands and feet on you. 40 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:29,920 Speaker 2: Looking at your eyes right now because you see that, 41 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:30,840 Speaker 2: you know you would have got a. 42 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:36,640 Speaker 4: Text men maybe a DA. 43 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:39,639 Speaker 6: I have learned in my adult life that women cannot 44 00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:41,400 Speaker 6: put their hands on minutes and that's a violence. 45 00:01:41,440 --> 00:01:45,240 Speaker 5: I would not do that, but don't know. 46 00:01:45,720 --> 00:01:47,520 Speaker 6: I just feel like there there should be a level 47 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 6: of respect decency. Yes, a phone call is not, especially 48 00:01:51,360 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 6: when you're very like there at that age, but also 49 00:01:55,280 --> 00:01:56,600 Speaker 6: too at that height of celebrity. 50 00:01:56,640 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 5: It's like it's embarrassing. 51 00:01:57,640 --> 00:02:01,080 Speaker 6: She was so happy, it's so excited about the relationship 52 00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:04,280 Speaker 6: and to know and also too, I don't know, like 53 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 6: the me I just feel like I expected just a 54 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:09,680 Speaker 6: little bit more smoothness from Common, Like it really makes 55 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:11,359 Speaker 6: me look at him in a way that I don't 56 00:02:11,360 --> 00:02:11,600 Speaker 6: want to. 57 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:12,280 Speaker 4: Look at him now. 58 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:14,880 Speaker 2: I don't know nothing about Common in tiffany situation, right, 59 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:18,480 Speaker 2: But what if I spoke to you prior, face to 60 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:21,760 Speaker 2: face and we decided that this wasn't going to work, 61 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:24,840 Speaker 2: and I told you this face to face, but you. 62 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:25,679 Speaker 1: Couldn't let them see. 63 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:26,240 Speaker 5: That's different. 64 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:27,400 Speaker 4: You know that's different. 65 00:02:27,760 --> 00:02:28,799 Speaker 5: That that's really different. 66 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:30,560 Speaker 6: That's kind of like with the whole scandal thing you 67 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:35,760 Speaker 6: guys watch, No, no, okay, all right, that's a lot 68 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:37,959 Speaker 6: different because there's a fore warning. It's kind of put 69 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:40,080 Speaker 6: out there that regardless of how anybody feels, it's not 70 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:41,920 Speaker 6: working for at least one person and the person that 71 00:02:41,919 --> 00:02:42,839 Speaker 6: I willing to work through it. 72 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 5: But it doesn't seem like. 73 00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:45,600 Speaker 6: That's what was given to her, Like it's kind of 74 00:02:45,639 --> 00:02:48,160 Speaker 6: like she didn't even have the are we going to 75 00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:48,720 Speaker 6: fight for this? 76 00:02:48,840 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 5: Is this a thing? 77 00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:52,639 Speaker 6: Like type of conversation, Like it was just like, no, 78 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 6: this doesn't work for me. I'm good, she says. She responded, Okay, cool, 79 00:02:55,040 --> 00:02:58,040 Speaker 6: So you just gonna be this single man at fifty 80 00:02:58,320 --> 00:03:01,399 Speaker 6: Like it but like I'm thinking. 81 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:04,320 Speaker 2: About, I'm not gonna be But that's what that's the 82 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 2: technically he's saying. 83 00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:07,880 Speaker 6: I hate that comment. As a love bomber like that, 84 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:10,840 Speaker 6: and it's a love bomba. It's a person that like 85 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:12,960 Speaker 6: comes into your life. They fill you up in all 86 00:03:12,960 --> 00:03:15,960 Speaker 6: the ways that you need, You do everything right, and 87 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 6: the love is there, the passion is there, and then 88 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 6: it's just like I'm going and can you imagine, like 89 00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:24,680 Speaker 6: you know what I mean, like you're it's common, and 90 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:26,639 Speaker 6: then think about the you got the voice on top 91 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 6: of it. 92 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:28,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, I want to hug. 93 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:31,120 Speaker 2: I would have definitely been a love bomber back because 94 00:03:31,120 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 2: I'm a cancer. I'm a sensitive cancer. 95 00:03:32,760 --> 00:03:33,320 Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. 96 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:36,720 Speaker 6: Yeah, y'all are the ones there's so much emotions tied 97 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 6: up into it so fast that the other person feels like, Okay, 98 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:42,600 Speaker 6: this is going somewhere because I got them. I got 99 00:03:42,600 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 6: that emotion when some people just are emotional people. 100 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 5: And when you come, you. 101 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:50,760 Speaker 1: Drop in and you did you love bomba? You right, Chris? 102 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:52,200 Speaker 5: Yes? 103 00:03:52,640 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 1: And I talk to us, Chrissy, he was with somebody 104 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:56,640 Speaker 1: for two years? What happened? Yes? 105 00:03:57,400 --> 00:04:00,840 Speaker 7: I was two years after. 106 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 4: You never said nothing not even a phone call or 107 00:04:04,560 --> 00:04:05,240 Speaker 4: text nothing. 108 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 7: Nothing. 109 00:04:07,880 --> 00:04:08,520 Speaker 5: Is he in jail? 110 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 1: Was it he or she? 111 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:10,480 Speaker 2: It was a she? 112 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:13,200 Speaker 1: Oh she left you, dann Is she in jail? 113 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:14,280 Speaker 5: Is she alive? 114 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:17,200 Speaker 7: Like, yeah, she's alive. I said her a couple of 115 00:04:17,240 --> 00:04:18,599 Speaker 7: days ago with the money. 116 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:21,800 Speaker 2: We don't talk about how toxic lesbians are to each other. 117 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 2: We really don't. 118 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 4: Y'all. 119 00:04:24,040 --> 00:04:28,880 Speaker 2: Are some cruel people to each other. I've seen it happen. Yeah, 120 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:30,680 Speaker 2: But I'm talking about the person you was dating. 121 00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:33,320 Speaker 3: That she loves you, you, she she careshed you, she 122 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:35,599 Speaker 3: held you, she ate the box right, and then just 123 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 3: left you one day. 124 00:04:37,880 --> 00:04:40,880 Speaker 6: You're funny, But I feel like you said two years, right, yeah, 125 00:04:40,920 --> 00:04:42,680 Speaker 6: two years. I feel like the first two years of 126 00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:44,520 Speaker 6: a relationship. And I'm sorry I have to say this 127 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:47,239 Speaker 6: to you, Like, it's not you. You haven't even fully 128 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 6: cut off everybody that you were dealing with before the relationship. 129 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:50,840 Speaker 7: Damn. 130 00:04:50,640 --> 00:04:53,920 Speaker 2: Then she did, well, she might not have what she 131 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:59,040 Speaker 2: doing now she with somebody. 132 00:04:57,200 --> 00:04:59,720 Speaker 6: You haven't like, looked at the Instagram, Facebook Nothing, I 133 00:04:59,760 --> 00:05:01,760 Speaker 6: don't have Instagram. 134 00:05:02,080 --> 00:05:04,360 Speaker 2: That's being a relationships is so complicated because whenever you 135 00:05:04,360 --> 00:05:07,040 Speaker 2: play paper Rock says, it's always. 136 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:12,040 Speaker 1: And you were making jokes's wrong with you? 137 00:05:12,240 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 5: Obviously? She could barely get the words out. 138 00:05:14,279 --> 00:05:20,520 Speaker 3: Karen, Karen, Karen and Karen Karen, Okay, Core, what happened 139 00:05:20,520 --> 00:05:20,719 Speaker 3: with you? 140 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:21,040 Speaker 4: Karen? 141 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:25,640 Speaker 7: And Mark? My boyfriend of eight years just broke up 142 00:05:25,680 --> 00:05:29,120 Speaker 7: with me like that he was moving to New York. 143 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:35,840 Speaker 1: Damn that he just text you or deep cough, I 144 00:05:35,839 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 1: don't know. 145 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:39,839 Speaker 4: Hello, Oh no, I thought you was crying just now. 146 00:05:39,839 --> 00:05:40,520 Speaker 4: I didn't know what you was. 147 00:05:40,560 --> 00:05:43,200 Speaker 7: Doing start to laugh. 148 00:05:43,560 --> 00:05:46,480 Speaker 6: So were there issues leading up to the conversation about 149 00:05:46,480 --> 00:05:47,240 Speaker 6: moving to New York? 150 00:05:47,720 --> 00:05:50,120 Speaker 7: No, it was the relationships. I thought it was. 151 00:05:50,360 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 4: Y'all got to stop this. 152 00:05:53,560 --> 00:05:56,360 Speaker 5: You're not y'are not being honest. 153 00:05:55,800 --> 00:05:59,120 Speaker 2: You're not being honest. Something happened. You just don't wake 154 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 2: up one day say it's over. 155 00:06:01,080 --> 00:06:01,560 Speaker 4: Were you? 156 00:06:01,720 --> 00:06:03,279 Speaker 7: I swear? I thought's the same thing? 157 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:04,520 Speaker 5: Were you? 158 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:08,480 Speaker 6: Perfect relationship? Like I don't go looking so it's not happening. 159 00:06:08,520 --> 00:06:10,559 Speaker 6: Like something had to happen. There had to be something. 160 00:06:10,560 --> 00:06:12,279 Speaker 6: What did he move to the year for a job 161 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:14,119 Speaker 6: or like a person or a job? 162 00:06:14,440 --> 00:06:17,040 Speaker 1: Not after eight years? Though eight years? Something must have 163 00:06:17,120 --> 00:06:18,159 Speaker 1: changed in a relationship. 164 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:20,000 Speaker 4: Maybe he finally. 165 00:06:19,760 --> 00:06:25,960 Speaker 2: Decided damn like long, Maybe he finally decided to do 166 00:06:26,040 --> 00:06:26,800 Speaker 2: right by his wife. 167 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:31,600 Speaker 3: Yo, shut up, goodbybe sorry? What's wrong with you man? 168 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:33,840 Speaker 1: Eight hundred five eight five one oh five one? 169 00:06:33,880 --> 00:06:36,279 Speaker 3: If you just joined us, yo, you're a fool man. 170 00:06:36,520 --> 00:06:38,479 Speaker 3: We're talking about Tiffany had And she sat down with 171 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:41,000 Speaker 3: the Washington Post. She was talking about her relationship with 172 00:06:41,080 --> 00:06:43,480 Speaker 3: Common and said it was the healthiest, funniest relationship ever. 173 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:46,120 Speaker 3: She felt safe, everything was good, and then all of 174 00:06:46,160 --> 00:06:48,280 Speaker 3: a sudden, you know, comment here with a text and 175 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 3: was like, uh, the relationship run its course. 176 00:06:51,680 --> 00:06:53,479 Speaker 1: She was hurt by it. Has this happened to you? 177 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:55,320 Speaker 1: Let's talk about it. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning. 178 00:06:59,240 --> 00:07:02,480 Speaker 1: Its topics called eight hundred. 179 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:04,600 Speaker 2: Five five one five one to join into the discussion 180 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:05,440 Speaker 2: with the Breakfast Club. 181 00:07:07,160 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 3: Warning everybody, it's DJ Envy Charlamagne the God. 182 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:11,760 Speaker 1: We are the Breakfast Club. 183 00:07:11,840 --> 00:07:14,560 Speaker 3: Now youw just joined us with here with our guest 184 00:07:14,600 --> 00:07:17,480 Speaker 3: co host Lauren Lroossa, formerly of TMZ. And the reason 185 00:07:17,480 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 3: I say, formally, well, explain it a little bit, but 186 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:22,520 Speaker 3: we're asking this comes from Tiffany Hattish. She recently sat 187 00:07:22,520 --> 00:07:24,320 Speaker 3: down with The Washington Post. She was talking about her 188 00:07:24,360 --> 00:07:27,120 Speaker 3: relationship with Common. She said, during that relationship, it was 189 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:28,720 Speaker 3: the healthiest, funniest relationship. 190 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:30,200 Speaker 1: She says she felt. 191 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:33,680 Speaker 3: Safe and Common well just didn't think so the feeling 192 00:07:33,720 --> 00:07:34,280 Speaker 3: wasn't mutual. 193 00:07:34,400 --> 00:07:34,680 Speaker 1: She said. 194 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:37,280 Speaker 3: Common hit with a text like which relationship is running 195 00:07:37,280 --> 00:07:42,040 Speaker 3: its course? Jesus Christ. So we're asking eight hundred five 196 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:44,560 Speaker 3: eight five one oh five one has that happened to you? 197 00:07:45,080 --> 00:07:47,880 Speaker 3: Lauren Lorossa said, No, that hasn't happened, and it won't. 198 00:07:48,560 --> 00:07:49,600 Speaker 5: No, it won't. 199 00:07:49,840 --> 00:07:51,520 Speaker 2: Lauren brought up a good point and a good term 200 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:53,920 Speaker 2: that I never heard before, which is called love bombing, right, 201 00:07:54,120 --> 00:07:57,320 Speaker 2: and I think that guys who love bomb, you know, 202 00:07:57,520 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 2: really have to learn how to pull back on that 203 00:08:01,080 --> 00:08:04,280 Speaker 2: because you can't approach every situation like that person is 204 00:08:04,280 --> 00:08:05,000 Speaker 2: the one or. 205 00:08:04,960 --> 00:08:07,360 Speaker 5: They need to not date until they can emotionally mature. 206 00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:09,200 Speaker 4: Very true, because. 207 00:08:08,880 --> 00:08:11,240 Speaker 6: For me, I feel like you love vomb and you 208 00:08:11,280 --> 00:08:13,880 Speaker 6: run away from something like that, because anybody that keeps 209 00:08:13,880 --> 00:08:16,200 Speaker 6: getting this serious because this is a common pattern with 210 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:21,360 Speaker 6: common and you keep stepping away from it. Though, I 211 00:08:21,960 --> 00:08:24,920 Speaker 6: just there's something like he's not getting over that hump 212 00:08:25,000 --> 00:08:25,600 Speaker 6: for a reason. 213 00:08:25,640 --> 00:08:28,360 Speaker 3: But what if it's the fact that he maybe he 214 00:08:28,480 --> 00:08:30,760 Speaker 3: might think that he's in love or thinks he's in 215 00:08:30,760 --> 00:08:33,600 Speaker 3: that situation and then something he sees turns him off. 216 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:36,880 Speaker 2: But that's something with him though, that's something he gotta 217 00:08:36,920 --> 00:08:39,080 Speaker 2: fix and he gotta correct because how many times are 218 00:08:39,120 --> 00:08:41,240 Speaker 2: you going to do this with people? 219 00:08:41,400 --> 00:08:42,040 Speaker 5: I just hate this. 220 00:08:42,120 --> 00:08:43,960 Speaker 6: It makes me feel like he's a f boy like 221 00:08:44,080 --> 00:08:46,719 Speaker 6: I Damn, I hate to think about him that way. 222 00:08:46,720 --> 00:08:50,600 Speaker 6: It's always just been like melodies and great lyrics and. 223 00:08:51,280 --> 00:08:52,120 Speaker 1: I'm just there. 224 00:08:52,960 --> 00:08:56,160 Speaker 6: I promise you guys, us women live in like a 225 00:08:56,160 --> 00:09:00,720 Speaker 6: fantasy state of common really, and I think, what, yeah, okay. 226 00:09:00,600 --> 00:09:02,320 Speaker 4: So listen, that's a good point. You just brought up, lawn. 227 00:09:02,559 --> 00:09:06,079 Speaker 2: So maybe it's the women's fault because maybe the women 228 00:09:06,160 --> 00:09:09,559 Speaker 2: have this understanding because mabe, the women have this idea 229 00:09:09,880 --> 00:09:12,720 Speaker 2: of common and maybe it ain't even like that. I mean, 230 00:09:12,840 --> 00:09:15,480 Speaker 2: maybe common just dating and kicking it. But these women 231 00:09:15,520 --> 00:09:17,040 Speaker 2: are like, no, it's gonna be my husband. 232 00:09:17,320 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 4: I'm going to see that. 233 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:21,439 Speaker 6: But also too, I think when you meet you know, 234 00:09:21,640 --> 00:09:24,959 Speaker 6: a man who is successful, he's attractive, he's going to 235 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:25,840 Speaker 6: speak to you the right way. 236 00:09:25,840 --> 00:09:27,400 Speaker 5: He's going to speak life into you, you know what 237 00:09:27,400 --> 00:09:28,600 Speaker 5: I mean? She says she felt safe. 238 00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:31,839 Speaker 6: You are instantly, whether it's common or not, going to 239 00:09:32,040 --> 00:09:34,199 Speaker 6: feel like I love it here, I want to you 240 00:09:34,240 --> 00:09:36,040 Speaker 6: know what I mean, Like I'm honestly thinking now, like 241 00:09:36,080 --> 00:09:40,200 Speaker 6: because you know he's allegedly with Jennifer Hudson. Now I'm 242 00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:41,640 Speaker 6: trying to figure out, like where that's going. 243 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:43,800 Speaker 2: What if that's just his nature though, But if he's 244 00:09:43,840 --> 00:09:45,880 Speaker 2: just that kind of person that makes you feel that way, 245 00:09:46,200 --> 00:09:49,040 Speaker 2: that's going to send you to Maya Angelo poems in 246 00:09:49,080 --> 00:09:51,000 Speaker 2: the morning, because that's him, just because he is a 247 00:09:51,040 --> 00:09:51,880 Speaker 2: protective person. 248 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:53,720 Speaker 6: Like maybe I think I don't I don't know how 249 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:56,839 Speaker 6: he goes into these things then, because I don't know 250 00:09:56,880 --> 00:09:58,600 Speaker 6: what Tiffany had it. She seems like she was very 251 00:09:58,640 --> 00:10:00,599 Speaker 6: called off guard, And I think if he is just 252 00:10:00,720 --> 00:10:03,680 Speaker 6: that person, there's nothing wrong with that. And I don't 253 00:10:03,679 --> 00:10:05,160 Speaker 6: even know if I would call him a love bomber. 254 00:10:05,240 --> 00:10:07,040 Speaker 6: Then if you go into and you're honest in your friend, 255 00:10:07,080 --> 00:10:08,959 Speaker 6: that's just how you court one of my friends, just 256 00:10:09,080 --> 00:10:11,400 Speaker 6: Mike DePaul, y'all know, just Mike, Okay. 257 00:10:11,480 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 5: So he talks about that a lot, The. 258 00:10:12,880 --> 00:10:15,559 Speaker 6: Fact that he courts women so well, even if he 259 00:10:15,559 --> 00:10:17,120 Speaker 6: doesn't want to be long term with them, it makes 260 00:10:17,160 --> 00:10:20,920 Speaker 6: women hate him. And it's because women are not used 261 00:10:20,960 --> 00:10:23,880 Speaker 6: to being courted a certain way or treated a certain way. 262 00:10:24,120 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 6: So in the minute they do, they like latch on. 263 00:10:25,960 --> 00:10:28,200 Speaker 6: So if it's that, I can understand that. But Tiffany 264 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:30,679 Speaker 6: had it seemed very well, called off guard, like it 265 00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:32,560 Speaker 6: was given. He might have proposed one day and said, 266 00:10:33,080 --> 00:10:34,400 Speaker 6: is your uber here yet the next. 267 00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:36,280 Speaker 1: Damn well, let's go to the phone line. Tell her 268 00:10:36,320 --> 00:10:40,959 Speaker 1: who's this Torell Calday, Terrell? What's going on? 269 00:10:41,120 --> 00:10:41,920 Speaker 4: What's happening? Brother? 270 00:10:42,240 --> 00:10:43,079 Speaker 7: Love a bunch? Man? 271 00:10:43,360 --> 00:10:44,360 Speaker 1: Tell us your story, Terrell. 272 00:10:44,800 --> 00:10:47,480 Speaker 7: So, me and my girl at the time was together 273 00:10:47,559 --> 00:10:51,319 Speaker 7: for like five years and we got engaged on Thomas 274 00:10:51,600 --> 00:10:54,559 Speaker 7: the Island or whatever, and when we came back, he 275 00:10:54,640 --> 00:10:59,560 Speaker 7: broke it off with me and she was her girlfriend. 276 00:11:00,640 --> 00:11:01,800 Speaker 7: I didn't even know nothing about it. 277 00:11:02,160 --> 00:11:06,160 Speaker 1: Oh she cheated on you with a girl, her co worker. 278 00:11:06,559 --> 00:11:07,320 Speaker 4: You see what I'm saying. 279 00:11:07,400 --> 00:11:09,560 Speaker 2: We just was talking about how topic these lesbians are. 280 00:11:10,080 --> 00:11:13,439 Speaker 2: You see, one done stole your but one stole you. 281 00:11:14,120 --> 00:11:15,839 Speaker 5: You don't you don't want to turn the l against 282 00:11:16,120 --> 00:11:17,199 Speaker 5: I'm just saying. 283 00:11:17,040 --> 00:11:19,000 Speaker 1: Man, But does it hurt more that she that she 284 00:11:19,120 --> 00:11:21,079 Speaker 1: cheated on you with a woman or No? 285 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:25,800 Speaker 2: I really don't you know whatever I mean, getting your girls, 286 00:11:26,240 --> 00:11:27,719 Speaker 2: getting your girls stolen ain't nothing you can. 287 00:11:27,720 --> 00:11:28,120 Speaker 4: Do about it. 288 00:11:28,440 --> 00:11:30,240 Speaker 7: But I did get my get back over her? 289 00:11:31,160 --> 00:11:33,320 Speaker 4: How did you get back the girl that used to. 290 00:11:33,320 --> 00:11:36,120 Speaker 7: Beat her up in school? I end up with her? 291 00:11:37,040 --> 00:11:39,520 Speaker 1: Was it good? What the girl I used to beat her? 292 00:11:39,800 --> 00:11:43,440 Speaker 4: What was that low vibrational response to this game? 293 00:11:44,200 --> 00:11:46,240 Speaker 5: What I thought you was gonna go for? Like the sister? 294 00:11:46,640 --> 00:11:46,800 Speaker 4: Yeah? 295 00:11:46,840 --> 00:11:48,800 Speaker 1: Something else, like the girl that used to beat her up? 296 00:11:48,960 --> 00:11:51,280 Speaker 4: Beat her up? Winning elementary school, middle school. 297 00:11:51,120 --> 00:11:55,120 Speaker 7: High school, high school? So street street? 298 00:11:55,120 --> 00:11:55,679 Speaker 1: So where you from? 299 00:11:57,760 --> 00:11:59,880 Speaker 2: So let me ask your question. So you mustn't know 300 00:12:00,280 --> 00:12:02,160 Speaker 2: that that triggered her. She must used to talk about 301 00:12:02,200 --> 00:12:05,079 Speaker 2: getting beat up by that girl a lot. Yeah, And 302 00:12:05,200 --> 00:12:05,880 Speaker 2: how old are y'all? 303 00:12:07,360 --> 00:12:07,720 Speaker 7: Thirty? 304 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:09,720 Speaker 4: So this is about twelve y'all? 305 00:12:09,840 --> 00:12:12,719 Speaker 2: Y'all about twelve, thirteen years fourteen years remove? You just 306 00:12:12,800 --> 00:12:14,920 Speaker 2: did it because you knew that was going to traumatize her. 307 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:16,120 Speaker 2: She must have got beat up in front of the 308 00:12:16,160 --> 00:12:18,760 Speaker 2: whole school. She must have been talking about it for 309 00:12:18,960 --> 00:12:23,679 Speaker 2: years multiple times. So you had sex with her bully? 310 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:25,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, multiple times? 311 00:12:26,080 --> 00:12:27,440 Speaker 4: Dropping the clues BOMD for this young man. 312 00:12:28,640 --> 00:12:30,440 Speaker 1: How does the bully look though? Because if the bully was. 313 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:33,880 Speaker 6: Beven matter, the girlfriend don't care if she can fight 314 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:35,520 Speaker 6: now like, if she can fight down. 315 00:12:35,440 --> 00:12:36,560 Speaker 7: She could. Yo. 316 00:12:36,679 --> 00:12:39,240 Speaker 4: Having sex with a girl's bully is crazy. 317 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:42,559 Speaker 1: But the bully looked like I'm just caring what the 318 00:12:42,600 --> 00:12:43,200 Speaker 1: bully looked like. 319 00:12:43,480 --> 00:12:46,640 Speaker 7: On a five one to five five. 320 00:12:47,080 --> 00:12:48,760 Speaker 4: Okay, there's no way. 321 00:12:49,000 --> 00:12:51,079 Speaker 3: I don't think so that bully that somebody beating in 322 00:12:51,080 --> 00:12:54,600 Speaker 3: it getting like Goose Creek man. Alright, what's the mollent 323 00:12:54,640 --> 00:12:55,120 Speaker 3: of the story. 324 00:12:55,320 --> 00:12:56,600 Speaker 4: I don't know what's the more of the story. 325 00:12:56,679 --> 00:12:58,599 Speaker 5: Long, don't tell your man about your bully. 326 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:00,440 Speaker 7: Story. 327 00:13:00,520 --> 00:13:01,680 Speaker 5: I'm not telling you nothing. 328 00:13:02,160 --> 00:13:02,559 Speaker 4: All right. 329 00:13:02,679 --> 00:13:04,560 Speaker 3: Now, when we come back, we got your rumor report, Lauren, 330 00:13:04,600 --> 00:13:06,760 Speaker 3: you doing these rumors? Yes, what are we talking about? 331 00:13:06,920 --> 00:13:07,720 Speaker 3: Give us a little tease. 332 00:13:07,920 --> 00:13:11,280 Speaker 6: We are talking about Coiler Ray and we were going 333 00:13:11,320 --> 00:13:12,400 Speaker 6: to talk about Elliott Wilson. 334 00:13:12,520 --> 00:13:14,000 Speaker 1: Yes, all right, we'll get into all that when we 335 00:13:14,080 --> 00:13:15,840 Speaker 1: come back. Keep a lock. This the Breakfast Club. Good morning,