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Speaker 1: Two legs? Okay, alright, there's just nothing I can do.

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Speaker 1: His big golden but is Oh wow, this is quite

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Speaker 1: That is good.

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Speaker 3: At least he's shown nothing but love and respect you right,

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Speaker 3: That's always a good thing to show, just like how

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Speaker 1: The opposite. Until now, I counted myself lucky that two

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Speaker 1: Oh, oh, fair enough far. I'll keep reading, let me

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Speaker 1: Apparently, well there's more context here. He was curious to

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Speaker 3: I think I think, Oh, it's like soulmates. That that

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Speaker 3: As far as we are aware, he's husband and Opie's

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Speaker 1: That's good. That's a good. That's good, that's a good.

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Speaker 1: Like that, I like that move. That's a cash money move.

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Speaker 1: In the intense intens No, in then romantic way. Intense

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Speaker 1: She had no idea that they text daily. She had

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Speaker 3: Which if my partner is seeing someone daily, I would

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Speaker 1: Yes, I agree. In one of her texts, she wrote

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Speaker 3: Come on, dude, come on, so so obvious.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and maybe it's just like, babe, I love you

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Speaker 1: I love for you is so strong, it extends beyond.

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Speaker 1: But because he did all the Clinton, let's figure out

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Speaker 3: it's buy one, get one.

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Speaker 1: Dude, and there's a bunch of past orders in there.

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Speaker 1: It's five dollars. Yeah, get do the two for one.

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Speaker 1: We have? What a deal? We have? What a deal?

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Speaker 1: That's crazy? Can just order a lot from that? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I really enjoyed meeting you. Sophia and Luke as well

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Speaker 4: via video chat yesterday afternoon, Infamous Boost Takita got to speak.

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Speaker 4: Talking to you?

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Speaker 1: Is that is that who you ran into? No?

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Speaker 4: No, no On our chats yesterday, Luke and I had

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Speaker 4: And Jesse, thank you for the five buck tip or

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Speaker 1: Yes, he admitted that intellectually he has more in common

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Speaker 3: real maybe experience, maybe just being a great a haughty

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00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:16,240
Speaker 3: all the time.

440
00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:19,320
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe a uh insecurity thing.

441
00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:23,480
Speaker 3: I don't know, what of not being of not being

442
00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:26,320
Speaker 3: a great a hottie. No, just like not like be

443
00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:30,200
Speaker 3: more insecure if someone called you ugly than dumb.

444
00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:33,119
Speaker 1: But I'd be more insecure if someone called me ugly

445
00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:37,640
Speaker 1: than dumb. I feel like if someone's if a random

446
00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:41,159
Speaker 1: person said that to me, I would be more insecure.

447
00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:45,200
Speaker 1: I would like it less I would. I would hate

448
00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:46,400
Speaker 1: being called dumb more.

449
00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:48,960
Speaker 3: You would hate being called dumb more by a random person,

450
00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:52,240
Speaker 3: but you would not mind being called dumb by your partner.

451
00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:53,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think so.

452
00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:59,880
Speaker 3: I think so I would. I think on the opposite, Yeah,

453
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:04,920
Speaker 3: I would. I would not like being called And the

454
00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:09,119
Speaker 3: reason I'm the opposite is because, like, uh, the random

455
00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:16,440
Speaker 3: person if they call me, if they call me dumb, wait.

456
00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:18,240
Speaker 1: They don't really have context to really know.

457
00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:20,359
Speaker 3: They don't have the context. They can see your face.

458
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:22,600
Speaker 3: Yeah wait, so if they call you ugly, you're actually

459
00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:24,960
Speaker 3: ugly though. Yeah, if they call you ugly, you're actually ugly.

460
00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:26,679
Speaker 3: But if they call you dumb, it's like they don't know.

461
00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:30,760
Speaker 3: But if your partner calls you dumb, she actually knows,

462
00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:33,840
Speaker 3: So that hurts me. She calls me ugly, Yeah she knows.

463
00:26:33,840 --> 00:26:35,439
Speaker 3: But she was hitting that thing for the last like

464
00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:36,480
Speaker 3: a couple of years.

465
00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:40,159
Speaker 1: So that's true. How could it be? Yeah, you've been

466
00:26:40,200 --> 00:26:43,680
Speaker 1: hitting this ugly mug for her for years? Oh man,

467
00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:47,359
Speaker 1: but chat Chat agrees with you. Uh, spar overhat. I

468
00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:52,520
Speaker 1: think I think my like caveman instincts prefer hot Hmmm,

469
00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:53,520
Speaker 1: I think I think so.

470
00:26:54,320 --> 00:26:57,480
Speaker 3: I think my cave maybe I'm intellectualizing it too much

471
00:26:57,480 --> 00:26:58,800
Speaker 3: and I just want to be a hotty too.

472
00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:02,679
Speaker 1: But yeah, but that's interesting. Thanks for voting, Chats, So

473
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:05,720
Speaker 1: let's get back to the story. I think this whole

474
00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:09,400
Speaker 1: situation is messed up. Yeah, I think I am more

475
00:27:09,440 --> 00:27:12,080
Speaker 1: repulsed by them both. I am repulsed by them both.

476
00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:14,760
Speaker 1: I texted my sister all her screenshots, and she wrote

477
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:17,840
Speaker 1: that she was disappointed in her bestie and that your

478
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:20,439
Speaker 1: husband is all yours because I would never let anything

479
00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:22,920
Speaker 1: happen that would hurt you, because you're the most important

480
00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:25,399
Speaker 1: person to me. But you said you love it. You

481
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:27,520
Speaker 1: literally admitted to her husband that you Why didn't you

482
00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:30,520
Speaker 1: go to your sister and like be like I'm stopping

483
00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:31,360
Speaker 1: this before.

484
00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:35,040
Speaker 3: It begins, or like can we work out a situation.

485
00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:37,040
Speaker 1: Or can I start it before it begins?

486
00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:39,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like you have him at night, I have him

487
00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:43,280
Speaker 3: during the day. Actually we can read together on the weekends.

488
00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:46,880
Speaker 1: Yeah. In other words, they are both contradicting each other,

489
00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:49,760
Speaker 1: since both seem to believe that they are the one

490
00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:53,359
Speaker 1: who was not letting a relationship between them grow for

491
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:55,880
Speaker 1: my sake. Yeah, both of them are like I held

492
00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:56,399
Speaker 1: it off.

493
00:27:56,720 --> 00:27:59,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm holding off you know the other person's going crazy,

494
00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:00,000
Speaker 4: but you know I'm holding it up.

495
00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:02,879
Speaker 3: And both of them are saying that, which means they're

496
00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:05,760
Speaker 3: both just going at it like they're both they they're

497
00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:08,359
Speaker 3: both into each other. If they both think they're not,

498
00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:09,159
Speaker 3: they're both are.

499
00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:11,840
Speaker 1: They both think the other person is coming after them

500
00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:14,600
Speaker 1: and it and they both coming to each other. But

501
00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:17,879
Speaker 1: we do have some relevant comments, so art needs more

502
00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:20,840
Speaker 1: flof says you need to have an honest conversation with

503
00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:22,840
Speaker 1: your husband and if you have a hope of saving

504
00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:26,600
Speaker 1: this relationship, he and you need to go low contact

505
00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:28,760
Speaker 1: with your sister and you need couple therapy. Yeah, I

506
00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:32,120
Speaker 1: think at a minimum some space from the sister.

507
00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:34,080
Speaker 3: How long have they've been together? Like fifteen years?

508
00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:40,160
Speaker 1: Sixteen years relationship fourteen years? Okay, yeah, give me with

509
00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:41,840
Speaker 1: some golden rules. What do we got? What are we

510
00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:42,680
Speaker 1: looking at over here?

511
00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:43,280
Speaker 9: Umm?

512
00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:46,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, what are we sixteen years of marriage? Emotional cheating.

513
00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:50,920
Speaker 3: Emotional cheating one strike that is, Yeah, emotional cheating is

514
00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:52,239
Speaker 3: only one.

515
00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:53,800
Speaker 1: By your rules, they should stay together.

516
00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:56,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, which is what the commentary is saying. What commentary

517
00:28:56,720 --> 00:29:03,760
Speaker 3: is saying probably some uh the therapy, Yes, couple therapy.

518
00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:07,960
Speaker 3: So yeah, I wouldn't but nobody. But he lied for

519
00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 3: a long time because he kept it a secret.

520
00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:14,480
Speaker 1: And honestly, I'm kind of like, and I feel like

521
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:16,400
Speaker 1: I would say this in the counseling session. I'm like,

522
00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:19,640
Speaker 1: you're lying to me right now. I would almost rather

523
00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:22,240
Speaker 1: you be like, like, I feel like both of them

524
00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:24,760
Speaker 1: are in love with each other. Yeah, and there, and

525
00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:28,000
Speaker 1: the husband is like, at least she has a text

526
00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:31,560
Speaker 1: of the a text and her husband said that the

527
00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:33,960
Speaker 1: sister said she was in love with them. The husband

528
00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:35,680
Speaker 1: has still not admitted anywhere yet.

529
00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:37,680
Speaker 3: I think the fact that the husband is still lying

530
00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:45,880
Speaker 3: is like, you can only fix what is what someone

531
00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:49,360
Speaker 3: accepts to be the truth. Yes, and because the husband

532
00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:52,960
Speaker 3: isn't accepting and revealing the full truth, they cannot fix it.

533
00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:57,280
Speaker 3: Thus Sam's Golden Rules don't apply because they're not starting

534
00:29:57,280 --> 00:29:58,320
Speaker 3: from a place of honesty.

535
00:29:58,720 --> 00:30:01,760
Speaker 1: This is a this is a asteriska I have not

536
00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:02,600
Speaker 1: yet heard.

537
00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:06,440
Speaker 4: I think we need to flip through the appendix of

538
00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:08,240
Speaker 4: the Golden Rules book and.

539
00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:12,760
Speaker 1: See, Yes, Clinton is inquiring minds would like to know,

540
00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:18,360
Speaker 1: but we will venture on nonetheless. So but back to

541
00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:26,320
Speaker 1: this comment, best case your sister is suffering from Limerensard that.

542
00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:28,520
Speaker 3: Word limerence again.

543
00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:32,280
Speaker 4: It's like, it's okay, someone told me. It's not like

544
00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:36,280
Speaker 4: the fear of missing out. But but it's like you imagine.

545
00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:42,480
Speaker 4: I think what I remember is imagining No, no, no,

546
00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:46,760
Speaker 4: it's I tell you, I am Google. It is imagining

547
00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:50,680
Speaker 4: what you know your relationship would be like with that person,

548
00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 4: and like thinking that it would be better than.

549
00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:58,360
Speaker 1: What you have going through the fantasy of this. Yeah

550
00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:02,000
Speaker 1: got you, And then so best case is that worst

551
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:06,000
Speaker 1: case they are having an emotional or physical affair. Either way,

552
00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:09,240
Speaker 1: inappropriate behavior has been happening that has been deliberately hidden

553
00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:12,680
Speaker 1: from you. They say that don't want to hurt you.

554
00:31:12,840 --> 00:31:15,840
Speaker 1: Behaving inappropriately hurts you. Lying about it and hiding it

555
00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:18,000
Speaker 1: hurts you. Big facts, they are already hurting you, and

556
00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:21,320
Speaker 1: they have not stopped it. I know this conversation fills

557
00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:23,840
Speaker 1: you with dread. But here is the thing. It's not

558
00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:25,960
Speaker 1: going to go away, and it is not going to

559
00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:28,880
Speaker 1: get better until it is exposed to the light, aired out,

560
00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:31,480
Speaker 1: and addressed. Agreed to what Sam said earlier. Just tell

561
00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:34,200
Speaker 1: yourself it's like going to the er. You can't start

562
00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:37,040
Speaker 1: to heal the in. You can't start to heal the

563
00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:40,680
Speaker 1: heal until the injury is found and diagnosed. You found

564
00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:43,200
Speaker 1: the injury. Now you have to find out why the

565
00:31:43,200 --> 00:31:45,960
Speaker 1: injury consists of what the injury consists of, and start

566
00:31:45,960 --> 00:31:49,160
Speaker 1: treating it as terrible as the possibilities are. I always

567
00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:52,160
Speaker 1: find that knowing for sure is easier to deal with

568
00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:58,840
Speaker 1: than having the unknown dangling over your head. Like Democials,

569
00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:07,560
Speaker 1: Democles sword. What is that? Democles, Demoscals, Democles. I think

570
00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:12,640
Speaker 1: it's democ Democles. I think it's Democles, Domocles sword.

571
00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:16,640
Speaker 4: I don't I don't remember what it is, but I

572
00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:21,200
Speaker 4: believe it is Domocles. You know there's a no, it's coming,

573
00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:25,760
Speaker 4: we can find I know it's it's happening as.

574
00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:27,720
Speaker 1: We speak the Google. Yes.

575
00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:35,120
Speaker 4: Nice, okay, So it's like a bad omen.

576
00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:39,880
Speaker 1: It's like Clint, Yes.

577
00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:42,960
Speaker 3: I actually delegated, delegated.

578
00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:44,520
Speaker 1: I delegated. That's good?

579
00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:45,120
Speaker 4: Sorry?

580
00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:49,520
Speaker 1: Is that not what delegating? Delegating is good? Fair enough?

581
00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:53,240
Speaker 1: All right? So Opie says, That's what I've always felt.

582
00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:55,880
Speaker 1: I would rather know the truth until it happened to me,

583
00:32:56,160 --> 00:32:59,320
Speaker 1: and now I don't even know what to say. And

584
00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:02,440
Speaker 1: then Marv one fifteen says, if what the friend said

585
00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:04,240
Speaker 1: to you is true, You need to take a moment

586
00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:07,920
Speaker 1: and gather your thoughts before this talk you need to

587
00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:11,320
Speaker 1: have with your husband, if possible, check his phoned so

588
00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:14,040
Speaker 1: you have a first hand look at the communication.

589
00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:16,720
Speaker 3: Which they already did, which they already did.

590
00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:21,800
Speaker 1: Ye, is not the friends one? If the real, if real,

591
00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:24,800
Speaker 1: the emotional fare is more than enough of a betrayal.

592
00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:28,280
Speaker 1: Please be careful, Opie says, for me, even even an

593
00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:29,959
Speaker 1: emotional fair is a deal breaker.

594
00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:32,520
Speaker 3: Fortunately, then if it is that's what it is, then

595
00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:33,560
Speaker 3: is the deal breaker.

596
00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:36,400
Speaker 1: Which honestly I think because like I think they were

597
00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:37,880
Speaker 1: doing this for a year, I don't know, there's like

598
00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 1: so much there and again to me, like I feel

599
00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:48,200
Speaker 1: like he's soil has feelings for her.

600
00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:50,880
Speaker 3: He hasn't even fessed up to it. So it's like, yeah,

601
00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:56,200
Speaker 3: I think I think you're hiding. Yeah, I think it's not.

602
00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:59,120
Speaker 3: You can't repair something that's not admitted to.

603
00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:03,520
Speaker 1: Yes, Environmental Art says, don't. Don't bring it up with

604
00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:06,080
Speaker 1: him until you're ready to see proof it's there, because

605
00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:14,520
Speaker 1: as soon as it's brought up, I am no. I

606
00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:18,320
Speaker 1: just it is to him so frustrating. You need to

607
00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:20,560
Speaker 1: see his phone so that nothing can be deleted and

608
00:34:20,600 --> 00:34:24,120
Speaker 1: your sister can't be warned. He needs to he needs

609
00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:27,239
Speaker 1: to hand over his phone straight away, which they already did.

610
00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:31,520
Speaker 1: I don't know aways about that. Tired and Short says,

611
00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:34,359
Speaker 1: to be honest, it could be fully one sided. I

612
00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:37,279
Speaker 1: agree to look through his phone, but I would ask

613
00:34:38,080 --> 00:34:40,839
Speaker 1: again from what we know op he has already done.

614
00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:42,839
Speaker 1: I don't know if these comments came from before an

615
00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:46,640
Speaker 1: update or something I would show. I would first show

616
00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:50,680
Speaker 1: him the messages, then see how he reacts. If he confirms,

617
00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:53,880
Speaker 1: you go to the bottom of it all immediately and

618
00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:57,400
Speaker 1: you have no need to hurt yourself further with whatever

619
00:34:57,600 --> 00:35:00,359
Speaker 1: is on the phone. If he denies, then I would check.

620
00:35:01,120 --> 00:35:03,440
Speaker 1: Then if he says he's shocked too and has no

621
00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:05,400
Speaker 1: feelings for her, then you say, I hope you can

622
00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:07,640
Speaker 1: understand my point of view. When I ask if I

623
00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:10,880
Speaker 1: can check your phone right now, it reassures me that

624
00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:13,719
Speaker 1: you're shocked, but I need an extra layer of confirmation.

625
00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:17,640
Speaker 1: Pretty pretty good advice.

626
00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:20,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think taking it very like step by step

627
00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:23,600
Speaker 3: asking people for the phone, and I think I think

628
00:35:23,680 --> 00:35:29,200
Speaker 3: what's important here is you'd never want to violate someone's privacy.

629
00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:35,560
Speaker 3: Privacy and so always asking for consent in those situation.

630
00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:38,120
Speaker 1: Because it's like, not that it necessarily stoops you.

631
00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:40,640
Speaker 3: To it does I think it does. I think it's

632
00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:42,839
Speaker 3: to it stoops you to the level of hiding things

633
00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:45,399
Speaker 3: from your partner. And you could say, yes, they did

634
00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:47,319
Speaker 3: it first, but then it suits you.

635
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:49,719
Speaker 1: To the level of hiding things from your partner. I

636
00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:52,000
Speaker 1: mean it's to a different degree, for sure. Yeah, to

637
00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:54,880
Speaker 1: a different degree. It's it's honestly not even worth debating

638
00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:58,840
Speaker 1: that much because it breaks the trust with the partner. Yeah,

639
00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:03,120
Speaker 1: and ladies and gentle and we have an update, Oh,

640
00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:07,879
Speaker 1: we have an update. Oh. One month later, after one

641
00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:11,319
Speaker 1: week of being in love and my sister leaving her

642
00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:14,759
Speaker 1: children at my parents' door to be living at my

643
00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:18,120
Speaker 1: home with my soon to be ex husband and flaunting

644
00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:21,040
Speaker 1: everything on social media. What is happening?

645
00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:22,319
Speaker 4: Oh they are.

646
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:24,800
Speaker 3: Let's stare together, Let's run it back, let's un it

647
00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:25,520
Speaker 3: back there together.

648
00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:27,840
Speaker 1: The title my soon to be ex husband and my

649
00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:33,480
Speaker 1: sister through everything they cared for through my soon to

650
00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:36,880
Speaker 1: be ex husband and my sister through everything they cared

651
00:36:36,920 --> 00:36:39,959
Speaker 1: for or one week and this is one month later,

652
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:42,640
Speaker 1: after one week of being love and my sister leaving

653
00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:44,840
Speaker 1: her children at my parents' door to be living in

654
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:47,800
Speaker 1: my home with my soon to be ex husband, flaunting

655
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:50,800
Speaker 1: everything on social media and sharing cheesy quotes. She moved

656
00:36:50,880 --> 00:36:53,919
Speaker 1: back to her apartment and got her children from my parents.

657
00:36:55,280 --> 00:36:57,279
Speaker 1: It sounds like they're making this.

658
00:36:57,239 --> 00:37:04,160
Speaker 3: Happen so so so they got together for a week,

659
00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:07,000
Speaker 3: but it felt it's it's it's falling apart.

660
00:37:08,360 --> 00:37:11,400
Speaker 1: Yes, she moved back to your apartment and got her

661
00:37:11,520 --> 00:37:13,759
Speaker 1: children from my parents. Yeah, they are. They are at

662
00:37:13,840 --> 00:37:16,200
Speaker 1: least rolling it back, which we can infer.

663
00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:17,920
Speaker 3: I wonder what happened.

664
00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:18,320
Speaker 1: I want it.

665
00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:21,000
Speaker 3: I feel like maybe it was on his part of like,

666
00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:21,799
Speaker 3: oh this isn't right.

667
00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:25,040
Speaker 1: Maybe Uh, they aren't friends on Facebook and he unfollowed

668
00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:28,480
Speaker 1: her on Instagram. Now she is saying that I have

669
00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:32,280
Speaker 1: ruined her happiness. And he started texting me again, begging

670
00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:35,080
Speaker 1: to talk in private because he needed to explain everything

671
00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:42,000
Speaker 1: before we started getting our lawyers involved. Cween us. So

672
00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:45,920
Speaker 1: they threw everything away, they like kind of ran off together.

673
00:37:45,719 --> 00:37:47,920
Speaker 3: And then he's realizing, oh this is good to have

674
00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:50,880
Speaker 3: financial implications.

675
00:37:51,120 --> 00:37:54,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I do not feel bad for him.

676
00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:55,840
Speaker 1: I don't think yeah, I don't think you're own that.

677
00:37:56,320 --> 00:38:00,000
Speaker 3: I do not feel bad, stinky, stinky people as they

678
00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:04,080
Speaker 3: Asian persuasion, says Kas says, honeymoon phase is over. I'm

679
00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:07,479
Speaker 3: not sure if it's a honeymoon thing or if it's

680
00:38:07,640 --> 00:38:09,759
Speaker 3: a issue of.

681
00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:13,920
Speaker 1: More of like a long decline because her.

682
00:38:14,280 --> 00:38:17,000
Speaker 3: Well, I was thinking more like they got together for

683
00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:21,799
Speaker 3: a week and then Op's realizing that he could possibly

684
00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:26,439
Speaker 3: have financial implications. But maybe it's maybe it's both. Maybe

685
00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:28,920
Speaker 3: it's the honeymoon fell off and he's like financial it.

686
00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:31,399
Speaker 1: Might it might have been Yeah, yeah, yeah, I think

687
00:38:31,440 --> 00:38:34,239
Speaker 1: it might be that. Honest, I understand that people fall

688
00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:36,799
Speaker 1: out of love and sometimes they can't control who they

689
00:38:36,880 --> 00:38:39,080
Speaker 1: fall for, and they can and they can hurt many

690
00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:41,160
Speaker 1: people around them. But I've never heard of two people

691
00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:44,879
Speaker 1: throwing everything they pretended to care about for a week. Yeah,

692
00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:50,759
Speaker 1: that's crazy. You literally basically risk at all and leave

693
00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:55,880
Speaker 1: each other, leave everything for each other. And then one measly.

694
00:38:55,520 --> 00:39:03,080
Speaker 3: Lead erased, yeah, I'm the risk was Fornugh. I'm I'm

695
00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:05,280
Speaker 3: just curious what happened, Like, why?

696
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:09,040
Speaker 1: Why? This is true? We we do get, we get

697
00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:12,240
Speaker 1: in some relevant comments, hopefully hopefully we get it is relevant.

698
00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:14,200
Speaker 1: Update It's a very relevant.

699
00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:21,160
Speaker 3: Miss says no sexual chemistry. It was all intellectual. I mean, honestly,

700
00:39:22,080 --> 00:39:24,359
Speaker 3: maybe I think there's there's some truth to that.

701
00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:25,759
Speaker 1: Probably as a.

702
00:39:25,760 --> 00:39:29,680
Speaker 3: Guest asian persuasion not sexually compatible. That could be true.

703
00:39:29,480 --> 00:39:31,440
Speaker 4: Because think about her earlier comment.

704
00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:34,440
Speaker 1: She was like, they were talking about soulmates, and she's like,

705
00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:35,880
Speaker 1: I don't believe in soulmates. I don't think that we

706
00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:40,759
Speaker 1: should be soulmates. Like it feels unromantic. Their related It

707
00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:46,919
Speaker 1: feels like pragmatic, almost reading between the lines. And then

708
00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:50,080
Speaker 1: and then maybe he's like just used to this pragmatic relationship.

709
00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:54,600
Speaker 1: And then the sister comes along and she's hot and

710
00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:57,600
Speaker 1: is like, no, no, she's not hot, not hot, she's intellectual.

711
00:39:57,640 --> 00:40:00,480
Speaker 1: Oh that's right. I've thought she's ugly and and a

712
00:40:00,680 --> 00:40:07,320
Speaker 1: brilliant and uh she she woos him with her romantic brain.

713
00:40:08,040 --> 00:40:10,000
Speaker 3: You know, I don't know if you can only take her

714
00:40:10,040 --> 00:40:10,399
Speaker 3: so far.

715
00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:14,719
Speaker 1: That's that's that is true. Oh yeah, actually I think

716
00:40:14,719 --> 00:40:19,319
Speaker 1: we know what happened. What good a week with her?

717
00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:23,040
Speaker 1: He's like, all these these chats are so stimulating everything else.

718
00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:26,640
Speaker 1: But then when he went for another type of stimulation,

719
00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:29,560
Speaker 1: couldn't work, didn't work.

720
00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:34,160
Speaker 3: The bee didn't like it. As in the bastard as

721
00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:37,799
Speaker 3: in the husband. MM, the husband is a bastard who

722
00:40:37,840 --> 00:40:38,319
Speaker 3: didn't like it.

723
00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:40,000
Speaker 1: Let's see what actually happened.

724
00:40:40,120 --> 00:40:42,400
Speaker 3: That's right, yeah, K buddy cakes is one of them

725
00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:43,359
Speaker 3: was super bad in bed.

726
00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:48,400
Speaker 1: Probably the wielder of amorphism said speak to an attorney.

727
00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:52,840
Speaker 1: I I'd have that as my outgoing voice message, Opie.

728
00:40:52,880 --> 00:40:56,360
Speaker 1: I haven't answered any calls from him, his family or

729
00:40:56,520 --> 00:40:59,839
Speaker 1: unknown numbers. I don't. I didn't answer any text either.

730
00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:03,320
Speaker 1: Laws and dumbfound says from your last post. It seems

731
00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:09,319
Speaker 1: like maybe your ex two realized that they had who

732
00:41:10,320 --> 00:41:13,319
Speaker 1: you poisoned me Sam too much in common, or that

733
00:41:13,400 --> 00:41:15,960
Speaker 1: the idea of them being together didn't match the reality,

734
00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:19,120
Speaker 1: and you're ex decided to end it rather than forcing it.

735
00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:22,440
Speaker 1: It's unhinged that your sister went from You're the most person,

736
00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:26,080
Speaker 1: You're the most important person to me to rotten hell.

737
00:41:27,239 --> 00:41:30,960
Speaker 1: You left and she had what she wanted. Your husband

738
00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:33,880
Speaker 1: him no longer wanting to be with her is nothing

739
00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:37,799
Speaker 1: to do with you, OPI. Not only hell, not only

740
00:41:37,840 --> 00:41:41,120
Speaker 1: in hell, but in life too. I felt cold reading

741
00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:42,839
Speaker 1: her text after her gaslighting me.

742
00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:45,759
Speaker 3: For so many weeks and years. Really, and that's the

743
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:48,000
Speaker 3: end of the story. We literally get that sucks.

744
00:41:48,040 --> 00:41:50,880
Speaker 1: I wanted more. Dude, there is we are left so

745
00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:55,680
Speaker 1: high and dry over here. God, that all sucks.

746
00:41:56,520 --> 00:42:00,560
Speaker 3: I wanted more. Yeah, what what do we think happened?

747
00:42:03,640 --> 00:42:06,880
Speaker 3: I think John counter plus one those.

748
00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:09,200
Speaker 1: Sorry guys, I do not know what's happening, but I

749
00:42:09,239 --> 00:42:13,080
Speaker 1: think I think what happened is like they they it

750
00:42:13,160 --> 00:42:16,279
Speaker 1: was basically the it was the the Limerens thing. It was.

751
00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:18,720
Speaker 1: It was all it was hot when it was like naughty,

752
00:42:18,880 --> 00:42:20,719
Speaker 1: you know, it's like, ooh, we're like we're going to

753
00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:24,120
Speaker 1: lunch and she doesn't know, and I'm we're like basically

754
00:42:24,200 --> 00:42:26,640
Speaker 1: saying that we want each other but not saying it.

755
00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:30,879
Speaker 1: And then finally when the actual thing happens, it was, oh,

756
00:42:30,880 --> 00:42:33,279
Speaker 1: the grass is greener on the other side, we don't

757
00:42:33,320 --> 00:42:36,239
Speaker 1: actually want this, We just liked the fantasy, the idea.

758
00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:41,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, which doesn't as like the worst reason. It's it's

759
00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:44,800
Speaker 3: such a terrible reason to throw away so much.

760
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:47,239
Speaker 1: And did I not? Did I not keep saying like,

761
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:49,560
Speaker 1: I feel like the husband keeps lying about being in

762
00:42:49,600 --> 00:42:52,719
Speaker 1: love with her and like wanting wanting to be with her.

763
00:42:53,640 --> 00:42:56,040
Speaker 3: You think he was lying about being in love with

764
00:42:57,120 --> 00:42:57,560
Speaker 3: the sister.

765
00:42:57,680 --> 00:42:59,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, because he he would say like, oh, I basically

766
00:42:59,800 --> 00:43:02,920
Speaker 1: love for his family as as a sister, but he

767
00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:05,279
Speaker 1: he would not admit that he loves her or is

768
00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:08,080
Speaker 1: like interested in her romantically. He was like pretty explicit

769
00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:11,160
Speaker 1: about it's not romantic. My feelings for are not romantic.

770
00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:14,160
Speaker 1: But yet you throw your entire life away and.

771
00:43:14,200 --> 00:43:17,480
Speaker 3: Bore the shot of this romance shot thought there was

772
00:43:17,520 --> 00:43:18,600
Speaker 3: something there.

773
00:43:18,560 --> 00:43:23,360
Speaker 1: Like, honestly, I am like, I just I just don't

774
00:43:23,400 --> 00:43:26,000
Speaker 1: know that there can be. I think it's just exit interview,

775
00:43:26,719 --> 00:43:32,800
Speaker 1: exit interview, after after you throw away everything. I'm sure

776
00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:35,120
Speaker 1: someone could come back. I'm sure, but like that is

777
00:43:35,280 --> 00:43:39,400
Speaker 1: such a hard thing. Like would you guys ever let

778
00:43:39,520 --> 00:43:42,719
Speaker 1: a partner do that to you? Like they run away?

779
00:43:43,400 --> 00:43:46,760
Speaker 3: I would be so done, They're like, oh, never mind,

780
00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:50,600
Speaker 3: I would be unbelievably done. I would be unbelieved.

781
00:43:50,800 --> 00:43:52,719
Speaker 1: What if they said no?

782
00:43:53,120 --> 00:43:58,520
Speaker 3: Even in ops? Also, Clint, do you to go home?

783
00:44:00,600 --> 00:44:03,520
Speaker 1: Okay? Literally whenever you want? Yeah?

784
00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:05,799
Speaker 4: To feed him first?

785
00:44:07,280 --> 00:44:07,800
Speaker 1: Definitely?

786
00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:13,080
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, we did order sushi for you. Do you

787
00:44:13,080 --> 00:44:16,160
Speaker 3: want to stay for that? We'll be coming in thirty

788
00:44:16,440 --> 00:44:21,120
Speaker 3: twenty minutes. Nice, I'm so hungry and me too?

789
00:44:20,800 --> 00:44:22,040
Speaker 1: Me three two?

790
00:44:23,520 --> 00:44:26,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think op, he should feel very good in

791
00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:28,480
Speaker 3: completely exiting this.

792
00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:32,880
Speaker 1: Really it is freaking crystal clear. Yeah, crystal clear, and

793
00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:33,120
Speaker 1: that's it.

794
00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:34,839
Speaker 3: And also distancing from the sister.

795
00:44:35,719 --> 00:44:38,680
Speaker 1: Y oh, honestly, no contact with us.

796
00:44:38,800 --> 00:44:42,160
Speaker 3: No contact for sure. I mean she lied for ages.

797
00:44:41,880 --> 00:44:44,960
Speaker 1: And then she stole your husband from you. And the

798
00:44:44,960 --> 00:44:47,080
Speaker 1: fact that she was like you're what they said at

799
00:44:47,080 --> 00:44:49,879
Speaker 1: the end, she was like right before, was like, you're

800
00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:51,239
Speaker 1: the most important person in the world to me. I

801
00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:53,359
Speaker 1: could never imagine hurting you, when of course she already did,

802
00:44:53,360 --> 00:44:55,359
Speaker 1: so that's stupid and a lie. And then goes and

803
00:44:55,400 --> 00:44:56,760
Speaker 1: literally steals the husband.

804
00:44:57,239 --> 00:45:01,400
Speaker 3: If Sophias stole one of my partners, I would not

805
00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:04,680
Speaker 3: talk to her for at least a month. Yeah, at

806
00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:10,319
Speaker 3: least space, I won't at least a.

807
00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:12,200
Speaker 4: Month, at least a month in the world.

808
00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:14,720
Speaker 3: Okay, you know, Actually no, it would be a month

809
00:45:14,800 --> 00:45:16,480
Speaker 3: for every year of the relationship.

810
00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:20,400
Speaker 1: New golden rule, New golden rule. If your siblings steals

811
00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:24,920
Speaker 1: your your your wife or husband, uh, then it is

812
00:45:25,120 --> 00:45:27,920
Speaker 1: a month of no contact for every year that you

813
00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:28,600
Speaker 1: were in a room.

814
00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:30,879
Speaker 4: Okay, but is it is it only you stop talking

815
00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:34,600
Speaker 4: to me for a month if I get a relationship

816
00:45:34,640 --> 00:45:36,759
Speaker 4: and then break up with them, or what if I

817
00:45:36,840 --> 00:45:38,080
Speaker 4: continued the relationship.

818
00:45:38,960 --> 00:45:40,440
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's a good point.

819
00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:47,200
Speaker 3: Uh it only a year is added for every year

820
00:45:47,280 --> 00:45:50,919
Speaker 3: that you date that person. Well, how would you know, Well,

821
00:45:51,040 --> 00:45:54,759
Speaker 3: I would in advance, I would know, I would, I

822
00:45:54,800 --> 00:45:56,080
Speaker 3: would you know?

823
00:45:56,160 --> 00:45:58,920
Speaker 1: You don't know? Follow you now? I know after the fact.

824
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:02,400
Speaker 1: Yeah so so technically so wait, so wait, doing the

825
00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:06,000
Speaker 1: math for doing the math here, if they stayed together forever,

826
00:46:06,440 --> 00:46:09,920
Speaker 1: you will go no contact for because it's basically a

827
00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:14,120
Speaker 1: day day for a day.

828
00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:16,640
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, okay, okay, here we go, here we go,

829
00:46:16,680 --> 00:46:22,880
Speaker 3: here we go. All right, let's all right. Let's say

830
00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:25,360
Speaker 3: I'm dating someone for a year. So if he steals

831
00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:28,640
Speaker 3: them away from me, that means I don't talk to

832
00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:40,240
Speaker 3: her for a month. She starts seeing them immediately immediately, Okay,

833
00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:49,520
Speaker 3: if she's seeing them, then uh, double the time that right,

834
00:46:49,640 --> 00:46:51,520
Speaker 3: So it would be double. So it take me three

835
00:46:51,560 --> 00:46:53,640
Speaker 3: months until I would start talking to her again. So

836
00:46:53,680 --> 00:46:57,719
Speaker 3: it would be like it would be, uh, one month

837
00:46:57,800 --> 00:47:01,719
Speaker 3: for every year I was together and in two months.

838
00:47:04,640 --> 00:47:07,479
Speaker 1: There is eight eight hundred people watching right. Now, here's

839
00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:08,960
Speaker 1: what I want you to do. I want you to

840
00:47:09,040 --> 00:47:12,920
Speaker 1: take everything Sam just said, distill it down into an

841
00:47:12,960 --> 00:47:15,960
Speaker 1: easily digestible format. Then go to the discord and put

842
00:47:15,960 --> 00:47:17,080
Speaker 1: it in the SAM channel.

843
00:47:18,400 --> 00:47:20,160
Speaker 4: Put in the Sofia channel.

844
00:47:20,480 --> 00:47:21,640
Speaker 1: Why in the Sofia channel.

845
00:47:23,080 --> 00:47:24,719
Speaker 3: Okay, no, here we go, here we go, here we go,

846
00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:26,040
Speaker 3: here we go. I got I got I got I

847
00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:30,760
Speaker 3: got it. If she's still dating, triple triple the amount.

848
00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:33,120
Speaker 3: So it's but.

849
00:47:33,080 --> 00:47:34,879
Speaker 1: Then don't you still run into the problem if they

850
00:47:35,040 --> 00:47:36,600
Speaker 1: continue to date? Sorry?

851
00:47:36,680 --> 00:47:41,360
Speaker 3: So all right, so I'm dating a person for a year, Uh,

852
00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:44,840
Speaker 3: Sophia starts seeing them. If if she steals and lets

853
00:47:44,840 --> 00:47:48,680
Speaker 3: go immediately, then then it's it's catching a release.

854
00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:50,160
Speaker 1: Then it's one month.

855
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:55,400
Speaker 3: If she stays together, then it's uh at three months,

856
00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:59,280
Speaker 3: so you triple the time. So if she's together with someone,

857
00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:02,000
Speaker 3: if I'm to or someone for two years, she steals

858
00:48:02,040 --> 00:48:04,840
Speaker 3: them away, then that's six months of no talking.

859
00:48:05,760 --> 00:48:10,920
Speaker 1: But uh, if she stays with this person to build death,

860
00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:11,879
Speaker 1: do them part, but.

861
00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:14,080
Speaker 3: Then I'll be but I would be over it after

862
00:48:14,120 --> 00:48:14,760
Speaker 3: six months.

863
00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:16,800
Speaker 1: Oh oh, so there's a cap of six months.

864
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:18,440
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, so it would be it. So it's like,

865
00:48:18,480 --> 00:48:21,400
Speaker 3: all right, if Sophia steals my partner, I did it

866
00:48:21,440 --> 00:48:24,680
Speaker 3: for a year and catch and release one month of

867
00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:27,360
Speaker 3: no conic, then I talk again. All right, If Sophia's

868
00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:29,280
Speaker 3: still seeing them, then it's three months.

869
00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:31,560
Speaker 1: Any in any amount of time.

870
00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:33,920
Speaker 3: Then all right, Let's say I'm dating that person for

871
00:48:34,120 --> 00:48:39,719
Speaker 3: ten years, right, Sophia steals them away and uh, then

872
00:48:39,880 --> 00:48:42,160
Speaker 3: I don't talk to her for ten months. But then

873
00:48:42,280 --> 00:48:44,680
Speaker 3: if she's still seeing them, then I don't talk to

874
00:48:44,680 --> 00:48:48,000
Speaker 3: her for thirty months, So it's just tripled if she's

875
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:48,640
Speaker 3: still seeing them.

876
00:48:48,680 --> 00:48:52,400
Speaker 4: As rash as I love this riven in conversation, we've

877
00:48:52,480 --> 00:48:54,120
Speaker 4: hit another wheel.

878
00:48:54,160 --> 00:49:04,719
Speaker 1: Go let's spin that wheel. That actual joking? Are you

879
00:49:04,920 --> 00:49:09,200
Speaker 1: literally kidding me? What the this is? This is the

880
00:49:09,239 --> 00:49:15,000
Speaker 1: most like gamed like yeah, rings, this is a rain history.

881
00:49:15,680 --> 00:49:18,200
Speaker 1: This is the most ra stream in history.

882
00:49:18,480 --> 00:49:21,200
Speaker 3: You guys are waiting the wheel. I know, God, I

883
00:49:21,280 --> 00:49:25,880
Speaker 3: knew it. I knew it. Oh Loveboole says, what have

884
00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:26,359
Speaker 3: they become?

885
00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:27,400
Speaker 1: Off and on again?

886
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:32,799
Speaker 4: I don't know, man, Yeah, wait, do we want one

887
00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:34,560
Speaker 4: thousand or twelve hundred?

888
00:49:36,400 --> 00:49:41,319
Speaker 1: Let's do twelve hundred. Let's go big, go big, or.

889
00:49:41,440 --> 00:49:45,959
Speaker 3: Go because about five hundred to eight hundred, at least

890
00:49:45,960 --> 00:49:51,080
Speaker 3: eleven hundred. Okay, Bethany says, Sam and John are.

891
00:49:50,800 --> 00:49:56,560
Speaker 1: Prisoners for life. You'll never take me alive, Kappa, I'll

892
00:49:56,760 --> 00:50:02,319
Speaker 1: shoot down get them. Oh this them mist me.

893
00:50:03,000 --> 00:50:04,960
Speaker 2: That's missed a classic.

894
00:50:05,000 --> 00:50:07,200
Speaker 1: Oh I was. I was saying that we should have duels.

895
00:50:07,400 --> 00:50:09,560
Speaker 1: Anytime there's a disagreement, we should just have a duel.

896
00:50:09,640 --> 00:50:10,120
Speaker 4: Hamilton.

897
00:50:10,360 --> 00:50:13,640
Speaker 1: Uh oh yeah, I like that also.

898
00:50:13,840 --> 00:50:15,839
Speaker 10: I think I think on a on a hot day,

899
00:50:16,200 --> 00:50:19,480
Speaker 10: we should just have water water balloons around the house and.

900
00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:23,680
Speaker 11: Like in the house Clinton, maybe we don't live in

901
00:50:23,719 --> 00:50:24,720
Speaker 11: a frat house.

902
00:50:24,960 --> 00:50:25,280
Speaker 1: Yeah.

903
00:50:25,880 --> 00:50:28,560
Speaker 10: Maybe it's the type of thing where like we every

904
00:50:28,560 --> 00:50:31,040
Speaker 10: time you shoot somebody with the nerve gun or something

905
00:50:31,040 --> 00:50:33,960
Speaker 10: like that, you can you can scare them with the water. Well,

906
00:50:34,000 --> 00:50:36,520
Speaker 10: we can just go outside and like, yeah, yeah we could,

907
00:50:37,160 --> 00:50:40,360
Speaker 10: Yeah that works it probably water balloon.

908
00:50:42,440 --> 00:50:46,600
Speaker 1: What would happen if I just started throwing fired inside?

909
00:50:47,000 --> 00:50:47,960
Speaker 1: That would not be good.

910
00:50:48,480 --> 00:50:51,720
Speaker 3: You would I wouldn't talk to you, no contract for one.

911
00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:54,480
Speaker 1: But you would use your You would lose your magic

912
00:50:54,560 --> 00:50:56,839
Speaker 1: gleam that you have right now that is right now

913
00:50:56,880 --> 00:51:00,960
Speaker 1: you're yeah, right, you would. You would disappoint click.

914
00:51:01,400 --> 00:51:05,319
Speaker 2: I'd be first disappointment, yes, but.

915
00:51:05,239 --> 00:51:07,160
Speaker 4: Not the last.

916
00:51:07,160 --> 00:51:09,560
Speaker 3: Something don't knows about hatter got thanks for the ten bucks.

917
00:51:09,600 --> 00:51:11,840
Speaker 3: If you don't want to be blessed by the Lady

918
00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:17,400
Speaker 3: of Madness. Don't go live, Kaitlin Marie.

919
00:51:18,480 --> 00:51:22,640
Speaker 1: Says what Kaylin Marie, thanks for the five book tip.

920
00:51:22,719 --> 00:51:25,360
Speaker 3: So my mother sent me a reel of y'all reading

921
00:51:25,400 --> 00:51:28,080
Speaker 3: my story from a month ago. I had no idea

922
00:51:28,600 --> 00:51:31,080
Speaker 3: y'all even read it. It was about my sister matching

923
00:51:31,080 --> 00:51:34,040
Speaker 3: with my boyfriend on Tinder. I may have not told

924
00:51:34,080 --> 00:51:35,040
Speaker 3: people the story.

925
00:51:35,120 --> 00:51:35,720
Speaker 1: Good news.

926
00:51:35,960 --> 00:51:38,080
Speaker 3: Mom is now a fan in Binge watching Let's Go

927
00:51:39,719 --> 00:51:43,080
Speaker 3: Let's Go reel on Facebook. Probably on Facebook, probably right,

928
00:51:43,160 --> 00:51:46,960
Speaker 3: yeh yeah, no one watches our reels on Instagram. Timany Melvin,

929
00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:50,000
Speaker 3: thanks for the ten bucks. I've been around since back

930
00:51:50,000 --> 00:51:53,640
Speaker 3: when y'all were talking about that background check website.

931
00:51:55,800 --> 00:51:56,360
Speaker 1: That's great.

932
00:51:57,000 --> 00:52:00,120
Speaker 3: It's such a deep cut. Also appreciate you for not

933
00:52:00,239 --> 00:52:01,040
Speaker 3: mentioning there.

934
00:52:01,080 --> 00:52:03,760
Speaker 4: Yes, no free sponsors anymore.

935
00:52:03,680 --> 00:52:05,840
Speaker 1: Especially them. Loll y'all.

936
00:52:06,280 --> 00:52:10,400
Speaker 3: Wait, loll y'all have lasted longer than my last relationship.

937
00:52:10,480 --> 00:52:15,240
Speaker 3: Can we talk take this to the next level. We're ready.

938
00:52:15,480 --> 00:52:17,160
Speaker 4: I was gonna keep it a casual.

939
00:52:20,600 --> 00:52:21,200
Speaker 1: Mony. Cakes.

940
00:52:21,400 --> 00:52:28,840
Speaker 3: Thanks, I'm just kidding. Take me back. Damocles, if you

941
00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:31,960
Speaker 3: have Damocles, if you have a sword of Damocles hanging

942
00:52:32,000 --> 00:52:34,080
Speaker 3: over you, so lest your head, something bad seems very

943
00:52:34,120 --> 00:52:35,120
Speaker 3: likely to happen to you.

944
00:52:35,200 --> 00:52:36,040
Speaker 2: Yeah that checks out.

945
00:52:36,120 --> 00:52:44,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, Matt had got thanks about five buck ronnies, Sam.

946
00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:48,000
Speaker 1: Sam is just wagging as he's like.

947
00:52:48,560 --> 00:52:53,680
Speaker 4: What am I in clinch one? O?

948
00:52:53,840 --> 00:53:00,600
Speaker 1: Young Jess pissed some into my mouth? O yeah, young

949
00:53:00,680 --> 00:53:04,760
Speaker 1: water boy, I am. I'm a quiet first quench.

950
00:53:06,080 --> 00:53:08,920
Speaker 10: You should invest in a bell and put it on

951
00:53:10,400 --> 00:53:13,680
Speaker 10: just like ring you every time you need something.

952
00:53:13,880 --> 00:53:16,879
Speaker 1: That is something we unfortunately kind of ship we need. Yeah,

953
00:53:17,280 --> 00:53:19,719
Speaker 1: that is unfortunately something we are going to do now

954
00:53:19,719 --> 00:53:21,719
Speaker 1: that you give us the idea. So if you order

955
00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:25,080
Speaker 1: a bell, thanks.

956
00:53:26,160 --> 00:53:27,960
Speaker 4: Uh love you?

957
00:53:28,200 --> 00:53:33,880
Speaker 1: I love you that I go with the five bucks.

958
00:53:34,320 --> 00:53:36,279
Speaker 1: Does hat To need to come over and bring some

959
00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:38,400
Speaker 1: food for you all? Because hat To We'll do it.

960
00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:41,840
Speaker 1: Then send it over, send it over and then ken

961
00:53:41,960 --> 00:53:45,360
Speaker 1: you Nay, thanks for the two bucks. So what plans

962
00:53:45,480 --> 00:53:48,040
Speaker 1: did Sam have to candle today?

963
00:53:48,320 --> 00:53:52,760
Speaker 3: I did not make any plans. I knew better this time.

964
00:53:52,680 --> 00:53:55,200
Speaker 4: And asked me to make plans, but I just say no.

965
00:53:55,320 --> 00:53:59,560
Speaker 4: Can't do relationship for hours?

966
00:54:00,200 --> 00:54:03,240
Speaker 1: Like have you seen chat? Have you seen chat?

967
00:54:03,360 --> 00:54:04,000
Speaker 4: Watch your stream?

968
00:54:04,360 --> 00:54:06,200
Speaker 3: Chat is sexy?

969
00:54:07,520 --> 00:54:09,480
Speaker 4: Hot? Chat honestly turns my.

970
00:54:09,560 --> 00:54:17,280
Speaker 7: Camera off damn shutting it down so hot, got.

971
00:54:17,160 --> 00:54:20,400
Speaker 1: Chat about chat all of our donos.

972
00:54:21,239 --> 00:54:23,560
Speaker 3: Kudo says, won't it be funny if Riley comes back

973
00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:25,400
Speaker 3: and everyone starts asking.

974
00:54:26,120 --> 00:54:31,600
Speaker 1: Imagine we imagine we literally had Clinton disappear and then

975
00:54:31,640 --> 00:54:33,640
Speaker 1: we never mentioned him once ever again. We're like, what

976
00:54:33,719 --> 00:54:36,440
Speaker 1: are you guys talking about Clinton? Or like they're like,

977
00:54:36,480 --> 00:54:38,759
Speaker 1: well there's a Clinton. We just like delete all the

978
00:54:38,840 --> 00:54:41,760
Speaker 1: episodes of like Clinton in it, like what are you talking?

979
00:54:43,200 --> 00:54:48,719
Speaker 1: All right? Oh my god? Everyone?

980
00:54:49,760 --> 00:54:53,080
Speaker 3: When y comes back, let's flip it frank on him

981
00:54:53,320 --> 00:54:54,759
Speaker 3: where everyone says, who is.

982
00:54:54,760 --> 00:54:57,640
Speaker 1: The new dude? Guys chat?

983
00:54:57,680 --> 00:55:01,600
Speaker 3: Can we please do that chat? Please? I literally beg.

984
00:55:01,400 --> 00:55:03,560
Speaker 1: You to just be like, oh hey, who's the new guy?

985
00:55:05,880 --> 00:55:08,480
Speaker 4: Glad to see that you're expanding after Clinton?

986
00:55:09,280 --> 00:55:13,280
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah yeah right, like like talk just talk up Clinton,

987
00:55:13,360 --> 00:55:14,960
Speaker 1: like be like, oh is this guy gonna do be

988
00:55:15,040 --> 00:55:18,160
Speaker 1: like Clinton? And like yeah, yeah, yeah, it's gonna be Clinton.

989
00:55:18,840 --> 00:55:22,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, like Clinton, Yes, let's freaking go.

990
00:55:24,320 --> 00:55:26,520
Speaker 1: Please chat. We'll let you, We'll give you, we'll.

991
00:55:26,360 --> 00:55:31,400
Speaker 3: Get yeah, I'll give you feet picks. Sophia is only

992
00:55:31,400 --> 00:55:34,640
Speaker 3: committed for ten hours at a time. That's true, Oh

993
00:55:34,760 --> 00:55:38,680
Speaker 3: mad hatter Gal again with five bucks? Wait or or

994
00:55:38,800 --> 00:55:41,759
Speaker 3: was that we've been heard of that head of that one?

995
00:55:44,080 --> 00:55:45,160
Speaker 1: Is that it so? Yeah?

996
00:55:45,920 --> 00:55:53,000
Speaker 3: Okay, shot, No, it's not. We got forty minutes honestly,

997
00:55:53,040 --> 00:55:56,560
Speaker 3: and with the rate of our stream things.

998
00:55:56,640 --> 00:55:59,160
Speaker 4: Financial growth, exponential growth.

999
00:56:00,400 --> 00:56:05,120
Speaker 3: Also, is Christian's birthday yesterday and he's dying. Yeah, he's

1000
00:56:05,200 --> 00:56:08,520
Speaker 3: dying his birthday wish was Yeah, he's like, he's a sick.

1001
00:56:08,560 --> 00:56:09,320
Speaker 1: Boy, He's sick.

1002
00:56:10,160 --> 00:56:13,480
Speaker 4: Everyone's ill. I know, everyone's I took an airborne and

1003
00:56:13,520 --> 00:56:13,960
Speaker 4: a violin.

1004
00:56:14,560 --> 00:56:19,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, honestly, I Clinton sounds like a zombie when coffee.

1005
00:56:19,640 --> 00:56:24,080
Speaker 1: He sounds like a walking he's he sounds I'll tell

1006
00:56:24,120 --> 00:56:24,799
Speaker 1: him to his face.

1007
00:56:24,840 --> 00:56:28,600
Speaker 3: He sounds he literally has it all, including the play. Yes,

1008
00:56:30,719 --> 00:56:34,080
Speaker 3: we're all sick, and yeah, if we're all out, if

1009
00:56:34,120 --> 00:56:38,040
Speaker 3: if if it's like tomorrow or Thursday and and we're

1010
00:56:38,320 --> 00:56:42,480
Speaker 3: here and we're not here, it's probably because it's either yeah, yeah.

1011
00:56:42,400 --> 00:56:47,040
Speaker 1: Either extreme. Yeah. Hey, guys, we're sick. We're just going

1012
00:56:47,120 --> 00:56:47,720
Speaker 1: to read these.

1013
00:56:47,600 --> 00:56:49,760
Speaker 3: Stories just like we're just like laying on the couch

1014
00:56:49,760 --> 00:56:51,960
Speaker 3: and just like like napping.

1015
00:56:52,000 --> 00:56:53,839
Speaker 4: Like we have our bowling. Like you know, when you

1016
00:56:53,840 --> 00:56:57,319
Speaker 4: put the was it I no, no, no, the Vicks

1017
00:56:57,400 --> 00:56:58,480
Speaker 4: vapor rub in a bowl.

1018
00:56:58,960 --> 00:57:03,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I like the the the hot bowl with

1019
00:57:03,600 --> 00:57:07,960
Speaker 3: the steam, just putting our face over it. Who's this

1020
00:57:08,360 --> 00:57:10,399
Speaker 3: guy replacing Sophia.

1021
00:57:12,160 --> 00:57:12,680
Speaker 1: Let's go.

1022
00:57:14,680 --> 00:57:19,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, gas gaslight, gas lamp Riley. All right, what are

1023
00:57:19,640 --> 00:57:26,400
Speaker 3: we reading next? Which one's which one? I have seventy

1024
00:57:26,440 --> 00:57:28,800
Speaker 3: one s too. I can't believe we're only on it.

1025
00:57:30,320 --> 00:57:34,080
Speaker 4: I mean these episodes have two I.

1026
00:57:34,000 --> 00:57:36,080
Speaker 3: Know, but we've only read like three stories.

1027
00:57:37,920 --> 00:57:38,560
Speaker 1: Let's go.

1028
00:57:40,320 --> 00:57:46,360
Speaker 3: Clinton for the Clinton for the Winton. Let's go Clinton.

1029
00:57:46,560 --> 00:57:55,520
Speaker 3: Let's go. Let's oh oh oh, look at that Clinton

1030
00:57:55,560 --> 00:57:56,680
Speaker 3: found straws.

1031
00:57:56,880 --> 00:58:00,200
Speaker 1: Oh oh, but does clinton't care about the turtles? He

1032
00:58:00,280 --> 00:58:09,520
Speaker 1: does literally literally you wrong, just the one thing we

1033
00:58:09,560 --> 00:58:13,040
Speaker 1: could possibly get him on. He wants to murder murder

1034
00:58:13,440 --> 00:58:17,040
Speaker 1: turtle noses. No, he gives us paper straws like a

1035
00:58:17,080 --> 00:58:18,400
Speaker 1: true freaking dollar.

1036
00:58:19,800 --> 00:58:23,480
Speaker 4: I know, I don't even know anything from.

1037
00:58:22,720 --> 00:58:25,040
Speaker 2: You'd be so shocked by how much of this house

1038
00:58:25,080 --> 00:58:26,000
Speaker 2: I've explored on there.

1039
00:58:26,480 --> 00:58:29,800
Speaker 4: Wow, he's going through all of our.

1040
00:58:31,800 --> 00:58:38,240
Speaker 1: Looking at our passports. Say I need to get into

1041
00:58:38,240 --> 00:58:40,320
Speaker 1: a new passport. You'll got a three pages.

1042
00:58:40,080 --> 00:58:42,000
Speaker 2: Last, my mat My guy looks like an EXPIRERS.

1043
00:58:42,040 --> 00:58:44,280
Speaker 4: Soon get that checked out.

1044
00:58:45,520 --> 00:58:50,080
Speaker 3: All right, let's get this next story. So my wife

1045
00:58:50,120 --> 00:58:53,400
Speaker 3: wants a separation. Is there ever coming back from a

1046
00:58:53,560 --> 00:58:54,640
Speaker 3: trial separation?

1047
00:58:55,880 --> 00:58:56,120
Speaker 1: Is there?

1048
00:58:56,200 --> 00:58:57,440
Speaker 4: Maybe say? Is there money?

1049
00:58:59,560 --> 00:59:00,800
Speaker 3: Is there any coming back?

1050
00:59:01,040 --> 00:59:01,200
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1051
00:59:01,240 --> 00:59:01,760
Speaker 4: That sounds better.

1052
00:59:01,880 --> 00:59:04,520
Speaker 3: My wife wants a separation? Is there any coming back

1053
00:59:04,640 --> 00:59:14,160
Speaker 3: from a trial separation? Ooh, this comes from Drew UCF

1054
00:59:14,240 --> 00:59:18,640
Speaker 3: and they say my thirty nine male wife thirty four

1055
00:59:18,760 --> 00:59:20,760
Speaker 3: female have been together for almost eight years.

1056
00:59:20,840 --> 00:59:21,479
Speaker 1: Mary for form.

1057
00:59:21,760 --> 00:59:24,600
Speaker 3: Without going into a ton of background, she has lost

1058
00:59:24,680 --> 00:59:28,480
Speaker 3: a lot of family recently from either death or estrangement.

1059
00:59:29,560 --> 00:59:31,000
Speaker 1: That sucks. Ouch.

1060
00:59:33,320 --> 00:59:36,400
Speaker 3: She always has felt she has no family to turn

1061
00:59:36,520 --> 00:59:37,680
Speaker 3: to and is all alone.

1062
00:59:37,880 --> 00:59:43,320
Speaker 1: Ouch. Stop, dude makes me laugh at the worst part

1063
00:59:43,360 --> 00:59:43,919
Speaker 1: fits Ouch.

1064
00:59:45,000 --> 00:59:48,120
Speaker 3: Boom stafe to be able to afford a house in

1065
00:59:48,240 --> 00:59:51,040
Speaker 3: twenty twenty one, and she hates it here since we

1066
00:59:51,200 --> 00:59:54,920
Speaker 3: haven't really made any friends and her workplace is extremely toxic,

1067
00:59:55,400 --> 01:00:04,160
Speaker 3: adding to her stress. Ouch, I'm that things such a

1068
01:00:04,200 --> 01:00:07,760
Speaker 3: good commentary. I'm helping us read the story and stay

1069
01:00:07,800 --> 01:00:12,560
Speaker 3: on task, And that's very good, your regular chip of

1070
01:00:12,720 --> 01:00:17,920
Speaker 3: the regular ship. Before we met, she wandered and was

1071
01:00:18,000 --> 01:00:21,480
Speaker 3: impulsive and would move on a whim. Now she feels

1072
01:00:21,520 --> 01:00:26,440
Speaker 3: stuck in our tiny, tiny house and living situation. She

1073
01:00:26,560 --> 01:00:30,280
Speaker 3: has expressed these feelings often, and while I fully support

1074
01:00:30,400 --> 01:00:33,640
Speaker 3: her well being, I know I'm not always ken enough.

1075
01:00:34,240 --> 01:00:40,840
Speaker 1: We try to take trips. I've never knough for you.

1076
01:00:41,840 --> 01:00:42,440
Speaker 1: We tried.

1077
01:00:43,600 --> 01:00:46,720
Speaker 3: We try to take trips often to escape. But I've

1078
01:00:46,760 --> 01:00:49,680
Speaker 3: always mentioned to her if she ever felt the need

1079
01:00:49,800 --> 01:00:53,320
Speaker 3: to take a solo trip when feeling impulsive, I would

1080
01:00:53,400 --> 01:00:55,600
Speaker 3: stay behind to care for our dogs in house.

1081
01:00:56,360 --> 01:00:56,560
Speaker 1: Well.

1082
01:00:57,680 --> 01:00:59,960
Speaker 3: Two weeks ago, she booked a trip back to colleg

1083
01:01:00,080 --> 01:01:02,600
Speaker 3: Roder to visit old friends and stay alone in the

1084
01:01:02,640 --> 01:01:05,200
Speaker 3: mountains to grieve by herself for her losses over the

1085
01:01:05,240 --> 01:01:05,720
Speaker 3: past year.

1086
01:01:06,040 --> 01:01:06,880
Speaker 1: Out I.

1087
01:01:09,880 --> 01:01:15,360
Speaker 3: Was holding in so many which is so sad that

1088
01:01:15,480 --> 01:01:22,720
Speaker 3: there's so many opportunities to say, oh, I'm sorry. John

1089
01:01:23,120 --> 01:01:26,360
Speaker 3: doesn't understand your pain like I do.

1090
01:01:26,560 --> 01:01:29,200
Speaker 1: I understand your pain way more. I'm the one saying

1091
01:01:29,280 --> 01:01:33,640
Speaker 1: ouch that I'm the only one expressing words of pain.

1092
01:01:35,160 --> 01:01:36,120
Speaker 1: You know, it's painful.

1093
01:01:36,760 --> 01:01:41,439
Speaker 3: What when John's beautiful phase isn't in full frame when

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01:01:41,960 --> 01:01:42,760
Speaker 3: he's talking.

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01:01:43,200 --> 01:01:45,320
Speaker 1: That's true. And not to detail this more, I'm gonna

1096
01:01:45,320 --> 01:01:48,680
Speaker 1: make this very quick, but have we found an emoji

1097
01:01:48,760 --> 01:01:49,280
Speaker 1: for Clinton?

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01:01:49,560 --> 01:01:49,760
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1099
01:01:49,800 --> 01:01:51,880
Speaker 4: A lot of people are doing the little turtle emogent.

1100
01:01:51,920 --> 01:01:52,800
Speaker 1: You've so many.

1101
01:01:55,360 --> 01:01:59,520
Speaker 2: Started it with the dog, and then people are saying, alien.

1102
01:02:00,040 --> 01:02:08,080
Speaker 3: Tea, we'll vote on it. It's stuff, so great stuff. Anyway,

1103
01:02:08,400 --> 01:02:11,000
Speaker 3: so she booked a trip. Heck to.

1104
01:02:12,720 --> 01:02:13,080
Speaker 1: You do it?

1105
01:02:15,360 --> 01:02:16,360
Speaker 4: Just forgot who was reading?

1106
01:02:19,280 --> 01:02:25,280
Speaker 3: All right, So we booked a trip. She booked a

1107
01:02:25,360 --> 01:02:28,360
Speaker 3: trip to Colorado and visit herself, her friends and family.

1108
01:02:28,640 --> 01:02:29,000
Speaker 1: Anyway.

1109
01:02:29,200 --> 01:02:32,000
Speaker 3: I was completely for it until the day before she left.

1110
01:02:32,080 --> 01:02:34,920
Speaker 3: I could tell something was bothering her, and when I pressed,

1111
01:02:35,240 --> 01:02:39,120
Speaker 3: she said that she feels we need a separation. My

1112
01:02:39,400 --> 01:02:41,160
Speaker 3: heart absolutely sank.

1113
01:02:42,040 --> 01:02:42,320
Speaker 1: Ouch.

1114
01:02:43,520 --> 01:02:46,600
Speaker 3: Not only do I feel I've failed as a partner,

1115
01:02:46,840 --> 01:02:49,600
Speaker 3: but I'm so nervous about what that means going forward,

1116
01:02:49,640 --> 01:02:52,680
Speaker 3: if divorce happens with the house, our dogs, et cetera.

1117
01:02:53,280 --> 01:02:56,160
Speaker 3: After she left, I noticed she left our wedding ring

1118
01:02:56,320 --> 01:02:59,840
Speaker 3: behind and it pretty much killed any hopes you still

1119
01:03:00,080 --> 01:03:03,560
Speaker 3: viewed our marriage as something safe. Okay, that's pretty bad.

1120
01:03:03,680 --> 01:03:07,320
Speaker 3: That's pretty Bad's that's tough. As for the separation, we

1121
01:03:07,400 --> 01:03:10,280
Speaker 3: live in a small two bed house. There's nowhere to

1122
01:03:10,600 --> 01:03:13,880
Speaker 3: escape and be alone when one wants privacy. While I

1123
01:03:13,960 --> 01:03:17,080
Speaker 3: mostly work from home and get my me time, she

1124
01:03:17,320 --> 01:03:20,880
Speaker 3: rarely has the opportunity. We also don't have the funds

1125
01:03:21,320 --> 01:03:24,520
Speaker 3: for one of us to rent an apartment to truly

1126
01:03:24,600 --> 01:03:27,720
Speaker 3: be separated. So back to my original question, is there

1127
01:03:27,840 --> 01:03:30,840
Speaker 3: ever any hope for mending a marriage when one person

1128
01:03:30,920 --> 01:03:34,520
Speaker 3: wants a trial separation? I asked if we could try counseling,

1129
01:03:34,800 --> 01:03:37,880
Speaker 3: which she didn't oppose, but she's always been skeptical of

1130
01:03:38,000 --> 01:03:40,720
Speaker 3: therapists and counselors. I'm in a bad place right now,

1131
01:03:41,160 --> 01:03:43,880
Speaker 3: especially since she told me before she left, leaving me

1132
01:03:44,000 --> 01:03:48,520
Speaker 3: home by myself for four days, not knowing what the

1133
01:03:48,800 --> 01:03:53,120
Speaker 3: future holds. And there are some comments and a big fat,

1134
01:03:53,200 --> 01:03:59,840
Speaker 3: juicy updates, But what do you think is this looking good.

1135
01:03:59,680 --> 01:04:04,400
Speaker 1: For a way? Not at all? I mean the fact

1136
01:04:04,440 --> 01:04:08,240
Speaker 1: that she left the wedding man left and left the

1137
01:04:08,320 --> 01:04:13,880
Speaker 1: wedding ring like that is such a dude. That's like,

1138
01:04:14,040 --> 01:04:16,720
Speaker 1: that's like a It's like a great movie scene, like

1139
01:04:17,280 --> 01:04:19,160
Speaker 1: he leaves and then like he looks down on the

1140
01:04:19,240 --> 01:04:24,760
Speaker 1: desk and he sees it is very symbolic. So I

1141
01:04:25,800 --> 01:04:29,600
Speaker 1: I have close to zero faith that anything good will happen.

1142
01:04:31,320 --> 01:04:32,439
Speaker 1: That's what I'm feeling right.

1143
01:04:33,480 --> 01:04:36,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm I'm in the same boat.

1144
01:04:36,040 --> 01:04:36,520
Speaker 1: I feel like.

1145
01:04:38,160 --> 01:04:41,520
Speaker 3: I'm like, but like, in a separation, do you remove your.

1146
01:04:42,960 --> 01:04:48,680
Speaker 1: Wedding ring? I feel like if you're in a separate

1147
01:04:48,840 --> 01:04:51,640
Speaker 1: to me, separate like I was. I was initially reading

1148
01:04:51,680 --> 01:04:54,400
Speaker 1: it as I need some space and time, and I

1149
01:04:54,600 --> 01:04:59,560
Speaker 1: feel like you would bring the wedding ring with you.

1150
01:05:01,000 --> 01:05:02,280
Speaker 1: Yeah right.

1151
01:05:02,680 --> 01:05:04,600
Speaker 3: I actually, well, because it's not like hey, I need

1152
01:05:04,680 --> 01:05:08,080
Speaker 3: some space that I feel like, here are the these

1153
01:05:08,080 --> 01:05:09,760
Speaker 3: are the levels of divorce.

1154
01:05:09,800 --> 01:05:10,240
Speaker 1: I see it.

1155
01:05:10,640 --> 01:05:13,480
Speaker 3: I need space. You're still wearing your wedding rings, You're

1156
01:05:13,480 --> 01:05:16,760
Speaker 3: not hooking up with other people, but we're like, you're

1157
01:05:16,800 --> 01:05:18,560
Speaker 3: hooking up with other people, You're not hooking up with this.

1158
01:05:18,680 --> 01:05:20,680
Speaker 1: Oh okay. I was like, wow, we got there fast.

1159
01:05:20,840 --> 01:05:21,360
Speaker 1: No space.

1160
01:05:21,520 --> 01:05:26,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, separation is like I think it might I think actually,

1161
01:05:26,400 --> 01:05:30,200
Speaker 3: no separation, I think is I would still view it

1162
01:05:30,320 --> 01:05:34,840
Speaker 3: as you are. I would view it as trial divorce. Yeah,

1163
01:05:34,960 --> 01:05:37,160
Speaker 3: trial divorce. So I don't know if you're actually hooking

1164
01:05:37,200 --> 01:05:39,200
Speaker 3: up with other people at that point that I don't

1165
01:05:39,200 --> 01:05:42,240
Speaker 3: think so. But but but I also don't think you're

1166
01:05:42,280 --> 01:05:43,000
Speaker 3: wearing your wedding ring.

1167
01:05:43,800 --> 01:05:44,760
Speaker 1: That could be fair.

1168
01:05:45,080 --> 01:05:47,400
Speaker 3: And then divorce is like final final. I think it's

1169
01:05:47,440 --> 01:05:49,880
Speaker 3: divorce light. It's like, do I like divorce more than

1170
01:05:49,920 --> 01:05:50,360
Speaker 3: I like being with?

1171
01:05:50,480 --> 01:05:53,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're basically like you are, like you are low

1172
01:05:53,520 --> 01:05:56,640
Speaker 1: key like living this, this a single life, like seeing

1173
01:05:56,680 --> 01:05:59,440
Speaker 1: what your life would be like, just like living with

1174
01:05:59,720 --> 01:06:01,120
Speaker 1: your and being with herself.

1175
01:06:01,480 --> 01:06:04,760
Speaker 3: To Caro kudos asks, but doesn't he deserve to know

1176
01:06:04,960 --> 01:06:06,080
Speaker 3: the reason for the separation?

1177
01:06:06,600 --> 01:06:07,040
Speaker 1: For sure?

1178
01:06:07,880 --> 01:06:09,600
Speaker 3: I mean I feel like there needs to be communication.

1179
01:06:09,920 --> 01:06:12,439
Speaker 3: But like in terms of what's going on here, Yeah,

1180
01:06:12,480 --> 01:06:14,800
Speaker 3: it's like it's divorce light. It's divorce light.

1181
01:06:14,960 --> 01:06:17,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, like we're predicting that this is just not going

1182
01:06:18,440 --> 01:06:18,960
Speaker 1: it could.

1183
01:06:18,880 --> 01:06:21,280
Speaker 3: He could come back from it, good could, but he won't.

1184
01:06:21,920 --> 01:06:28,960
Speaker 3: Damn out all right, so comments Bopper. Bopper says, and

1185
01:06:29,040 --> 01:06:32,520
Speaker 3: also say proper. It also seems that somehow you ended

1186
01:06:32,600 --> 01:06:35,280
Speaker 3: up in a situation is the complete opposite of the

1187
01:06:35,360 --> 01:06:38,000
Speaker 3: way she likes to live. She wants friends, freedom and

1188
01:06:38,040 --> 01:06:40,480
Speaker 3: travel and you are living away from her friends in

1189
01:06:40,560 --> 01:06:43,960
Speaker 3: a tiny house. And maybe they're well, but it's like

1190
01:06:44,040 --> 01:06:46,120
Speaker 3: that's all they can afford. So what else is?

1191
01:06:47,040 --> 01:06:48,160
Speaker 1: Stop being poor?

1192
01:06:49,200 --> 01:06:52,760
Speaker 3: But yeah, exactly what other like, what other opportunity?

1193
01:06:52,840 --> 01:06:53,240
Speaker 1: Exactly?

1194
01:06:53,360 --> 01:06:59,600
Speaker 4: Stop being poor? What do you expect you're poor? Why

1195
01:06:59,640 --> 01:07:00,560
Speaker 4: would she stay with you?

1196
01:07:01,400 --> 01:07:06,560
Speaker 1: Oh, you guys are clouding on op right now?

1197
01:07:07,120 --> 01:07:12,240
Speaker 4: Sad, I'm saying that's mean of them to say. No,

1198
01:07:12,400 --> 01:07:15,560
Speaker 4: I'm saying like they're saying, oh, you should, you should,

1199
01:07:15,680 --> 01:07:17,520
Speaker 4: your wife should leave you because you're poor. That's a

1200
01:07:17,640 --> 01:07:18,880
Speaker 4: crazy thing for them to say.

1201
01:07:21,080 --> 01:07:26,520
Speaker 1: No, I was being them, Yeah, me too, were you not? Yes,

1202
01:07:27,280 --> 01:07:28,600
Speaker 1: I was being them of course.

1203
01:07:32,720 --> 01:07:36,520
Speaker 4: Dare you take anything else of me? You trying to

1204
01:07:36,560 --> 01:07:39,160
Speaker 4: loot me into your thing? But I'm on a different things.

1205
01:07:39,240 --> 01:07:40,600
Speaker 3: I think you guys are the same thing.

1206
01:07:42,160 --> 01:07:43,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't.

1207
01:07:43,960 --> 01:07:46,480
Speaker 3: You don't have no bullets, empty threat, and I have

1208
01:07:46,600 --> 01:07:51,600
Speaker 3: a bullet, couldn't have a no't.

1209
01:07:50,560 --> 01:07:52,240
Speaker 1: Give Clinton Clinton, don't give it to him.

1210
01:07:52,240 --> 01:07:55,880
Speaker 2: I'm gonna get cli Oh my god, he's just will have.

1211
01:07:55,960 --> 01:07:56,400
Speaker 1: To show him.

1212
01:07:56,520 --> 01:07:58,600
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, the big one. I want the big one.

1213
01:07:59,800 --> 01:08:02,880
Speaker 3: And anyway it may. It may be there's another person

1214
01:08:03,080 --> 01:08:05,920
Speaker 3: in her life. It may be that she's been telling

1215
01:08:05,960 --> 01:08:09,520
Speaker 3: you she's unhappy with the way that you live. Both

1216
01:08:09,840 --> 01:08:12,680
Speaker 3: with the way you live, you both are living for

1217
01:08:12,800 --> 01:08:15,120
Speaker 3: quite some time, and you've come up with excuses. It

1218
01:08:15,200 --> 01:08:20,520
Speaker 3: might be that you just fundamentally are incompatible with your lifestyles.

1219
01:08:22,520 --> 01:08:28,560
Speaker 1: Shit, that thing is strong. Honestly from point.

1220
01:08:30,400 --> 01:08:34,320
Speaker 3: We got NERF guns in the house and it's caused chaos.

1221
01:08:34,400 --> 01:08:40,320
Speaker 1: But look at show that one. Look at that, Yeah,

1222
01:08:40,640 --> 01:08:42,479
Speaker 1: that is a that is a real weapon.

1223
01:08:43,400 --> 01:08:52,639
Speaker 4: Fuck as an excellent question. Who's where's the sushi?

1224
01:08:53,360 --> 01:08:53,479
Speaker 1: Uh?

1225
01:08:53,640 --> 01:08:54,880
Speaker 3: It's here in five minutes.

1226
01:08:55,720 --> 01:08:57,760
Speaker 1: We should have a Clinton camp. And that's just him

1227
01:08:57,880 --> 01:09:04,080
Speaker 1: holding it to pointing at his anyway, going back.

1228
01:09:04,200 --> 01:09:06,800
Speaker 3: So she's unhappy with the way that you live. You

1229
01:09:06,920 --> 01:09:09,040
Speaker 3: both are living for quite some time. You come up

1230
01:09:09,040 --> 01:09:13,280
Speaker 3: with excuses, you may be fundamentally compatible. OPI responds. We

1231
01:09:13,439 --> 01:09:15,880
Speaker 3: originally moved here because we wanted to buy a house

1232
01:09:15,920 --> 01:09:18,760
Speaker 3: and couldn't afford to do where we're living. Unfortunately, that

1233
01:09:18,880 --> 01:09:21,679
Speaker 3: meant leaving friends behind but hoping to make new ones.

1234
01:09:22,280 --> 01:09:26,000
Speaker 3: Is a house worse? Is a house worth leaving all

1235
01:09:26,040 --> 01:09:27,160
Speaker 3: your friends and family behind?

1236
01:09:28,280 --> 01:09:31,200
Speaker 1: No? Absolutely not, absolutely not.

1237
01:09:31,360 --> 01:09:33,120
Speaker 4: My goal is to live with all of my friends

1238
01:09:33,160 --> 01:09:33,599
Speaker 4: and family.

1239
01:09:33,680 --> 01:09:35,200
Speaker 1: So no, yeah, what do you mean? What do you

1240
01:09:35,320 --> 01:09:38,080
Speaker 1: mean my my immediate is what you're doing life? Is

1241
01:09:38,800 --> 01:09:41,840
Speaker 1: that you're doing right now? No?

1242
01:09:42,000 --> 01:09:43,040
Speaker 4: My long term goal?

1243
01:09:44,200 --> 01:09:49,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, her other family you can have two past practice family, yeah,

1244
01:09:51,760 --> 01:09:52,840
Speaker 3: practice friends.

1245
01:09:54,080 --> 01:09:54,280
Speaker 1: Rough.

1246
01:09:56,320 --> 01:09:58,160
Speaker 4: No, I meant my long term goal is to like

1247
01:09:58,280 --> 01:09:59,920
Speaker 4: keep living with you guys in a house.

1248
01:10:00,200 --> 01:10:04,559
Speaker 1: Good. Good, That better be the goal. Anyway.

1249
01:10:05,120 --> 01:10:08,599
Speaker 3: Unfortunately that meant leaving friends behind but hoping to make

1250
01:10:08,640 --> 01:10:11,439
Speaker 3: new ones. We also take several trips a year together

1251
01:10:11,520 --> 01:10:14,360
Speaker 3: to fill that travel itch. But yes, I have been

1252
01:10:14,439 --> 01:10:17,040
Speaker 3: making excuses as far as her concerns because I didn't

1253
01:10:17,040 --> 01:10:19,559
Speaker 3: think we'd be able to financially afford a change at

1254
01:10:19,560 --> 01:10:22,479
Speaker 3: that time. But slowly I've been giving in to the

1255
01:10:22,600 --> 01:10:27,560
Speaker 3: thought as I saw how unhappy she's become. And trespassers

1256
01:10:27,600 --> 01:10:30,160
Speaker 3: Will says, are you actually in touch with her? Or

1257
01:10:30,240 --> 01:10:33,920
Speaker 3: did she just ghost? Are all these revelations and realizations

1258
01:10:33,960 --> 01:10:36,720
Speaker 3: too late, or she's still receptive to you? Leaving the

1259
01:10:36,920 --> 01:10:41,240
Speaker 3: Ring seems kind of final, Opie responds. We've texted a

1260
01:10:41,280 --> 01:10:44,479
Speaker 3: little yesterday and today. I'm trying to keep it light,

1261
01:10:44,680 --> 01:10:46,840
Speaker 3: knowing we'll have plenty of discuss when she gets back.

1262
01:10:47,200 --> 01:10:50,320
Speaker 3: She's only going for four days, though, Oh I didn't

1263
01:10:50,320 --> 01:10:53,519
Speaker 3: realize that because what she what he says, is leaving

1264
01:10:53,600 --> 01:10:56,280
Speaker 3: me home by myself for four days, not knowing what

1265
01:10:56,400 --> 01:10:57,040
Speaker 3: the future hold.

1266
01:10:59,160 --> 01:11:02,840
Speaker 4: Four days is that's not that long, yeah, comparison to

1267
01:11:02,960 --> 01:11:04,360
Speaker 4: the woman who went away for.

1268
01:11:06,520 --> 01:11:09,920
Speaker 1: Mental health for no other explained reason.

1269
01:11:10,000 --> 01:11:12,640
Speaker 3: Like, but I think I think that the the the

1270
01:11:12,880 --> 01:11:15,320
Speaker 3: leaving the ring behind him, It's like I want to

1271
01:11:15,360 --> 01:11:19,439
Speaker 3: be separated, and then it's like I want to sleep

1272
01:11:19,479 --> 01:11:23,800
Speaker 3: around potentially or like hook up with whoever is back home.

1273
01:11:23,840 --> 01:11:27,960
Speaker 1: I want to go on a four day bender bender dogs,

1274
01:11:29,200 --> 01:11:30,400
Speaker 1: bended dogs.

1275
01:11:30,160 --> 01:11:32,800
Speaker 3: Bended dogs of what's the thing called?

1276
01:11:34,560 --> 01:11:34,760
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1277
01:11:35,720 --> 01:11:43,040
Speaker 3: Flag, red flag for sure, So uh give me awards?

1278
01:11:43,320 --> 01:11:45,680
Speaker 1: Says uh. She's off on a.

1279
01:11:45,680 --> 01:11:48,519
Speaker 3: Solo trip to grieve by herself and conveniently drops the

1280
01:11:48,560 --> 01:11:52,080
Speaker 3: separation bomb right before. Sounds like she's already made up

1281
01:11:52,080 --> 01:11:56,240
Speaker 3: her mind embraced herself. Buddy, And we do have an update,

1282
01:11:57,080 --> 01:12:01,240
Speaker 3: a thick, juicy update. Good five days later. But if

1283
01:12:01,280 --> 01:12:04,559
Speaker 3: we're to predict what will happen, what do you think

1284
01:12:04,560 --> 01:12:12,840
Speaker 3: will happen? Failureship dies, ohp is eternally sad. Dang's dude,

1285
01:12:12,880 --> 01:12:16,640
Speaker 3: that's that is? That is not a good outcome. But

1286
01:12:17,240 --> 01:12:19,559
Speaker 3: let's see what actually happened. So update five days later.

1287
01:12:19,920 --> 01:12:22,280
Speaker 3: First off, thank you for the many of you who

1288
01:12:22,360 --> 01:12:26,240
Speaker 3: had kind words through posts and direct messages. It certainly

1289
01:12:26,600 --> 01:12:29,000
Speaker 3: helped allowing me to vent and get my thoughts out.

1290
01:12:29,200 --> 01:12:31,320
Speaker 3: Since it's been a few days since most of these comments,

1291
01:12:31,360 --> 01:12:33,720
Speaker 3: I can't remember everything that was asked or touched on,

1292
01:12:34,000 --> 01:12:36,240
Speaker 3: but I wanted to catch you all up to speed

1293
01:12:37,600 --> 01:12:38,479
Speaker 3: on the last few days.

1294
01:12:38,479 --> 01:12:39,080
Speaker 1: Put in the chat.

1295
01:12:39,120 --> 01:12:42,439
Speaker 3: If you think he's going to be able to stay

1296
01:12:42,479 --> 01:12:44,280
Speaker 3: with this person or if they're gonna break up? Yeah,

1297
01:12:44,720 --> 01:12:46,120
Speaker 3: pull and put it in the chat right now?

1298
01:12:46,240 --> 01:12:50,280
Speaker 1: Oh with their breakup hit the pole. Hello poll.

1299
01:12:50,600 --> 01:12:54,639
Speaker 3: So, since it's been a few days, most of these comments,

1300
01:12:54,680 --> 01:12:56,680
Speaker 3: I can't remember everything that was asked or touched on,

1301
01:12:56,840 --> 01:12:58,479
Speaker 3: but I want to catch you all up to speed

1302
01:12:58,520 --> 01:13:01,599
Speaker 3: the last few days. Me your soon to be ex

1303
01:13:01,680 --> 01:13:05,000
Speaker 3: wife will be touched on in Colorado oh maybe yo.

1304
01:13:05,720 --> 01:13:08,240
Speaker 3: We did speak throughout the weekend through text in a

1305
01:13:08,280 --> 01:13:09,760
Speaker 3: couple of calls. I also had a couple of our

1306
01:13:09,840 --> 01:13:12,519
Speaker 3: mutual friends reach out when they learned the news, as

1307
01:13:12,600 --> 01:13:15,679
Speaker 3: she used them as her outlet and a source of advice,

1308
01:13:16,200 --> 01:13:19,320
Speaker 3: having gone through their own separations. We had a Saturday

1309
01:13:19,439 --> 01:13:21,880
Speaker 3: night call where she was alone at the condo and

1310
01:13:22,040 --> 01:13:24,840
Speaker 3: was extremely low. I kept making sure she was safe,

1311
01:13:24,920 --> 01:13:27,040
Speaker 3: but she assured me she would never hurt herself as

1312
01:13:27,080 --> 01:13:29,000
Speaker 3: she has too much she needs to accomplish and prove.

1313
01:13:29,560 --> 01:13:32,599
Speaker 3: Sunday was a better day for her, running the trails

1314
01:13:32,920 --> 01:13:36,120
Speaker 3: and attending a big event in Vail. Finally, on Monday night,

1315
01:13:36,160 --> 01:13:38,080
Speaker 3: I picked her up around eleven pm, but we were

1316
01:13:38,120 --> 01:13:40,559
Speaker 3: too exhausted to speak and she passed out as soon

1317
01:13:40,600 --> 01:13:44,680
Speaker 3: as her head hit the pillow. Tuesday, after work, we

1318
01:13:44,760 --> 01:13:47,759
Speaker 3: had a couple hours worth of good discussion. It felt

1319
01:13:47,880 --> 01:13:50,519
Speaker 3: good to be able to speak openly about a lot

1320
01:13:50,560 --> 01:13:54,479
Speaker 3: of things. She was able to explain her motivations a

1321
01:13:54,520 --> 01:13:57,559
Speaker 3: little more. All her life she was told she couldn't

1322
01:13:57,600 --> 01:14:01,080
Speaker 3: do something or couldn't succeed. Her parents were either absent

1323
01:14:01,520 --> 01:14:05,839
Speaker 3: or manipulative. She feels she has something to prove by herself.

1324
01:14:06,200 --> 01:14:08,600
Speaker 3: I don't fully understand why she feels the need to

1325
01:14:08,680 --> 01:14:11,040
Speaker 3: do it on her own without her partner, and I

1326
01:14:11,160 --> 01:14:14,320
Speaker 3: may never understand this. She brought up codependency and how

1327
01:14:14,439 --> 01:14:17,280
Speaker 3: especially after moving to Florida, we lost who we were

1328
01:14:17,400 --> 01:14:20,519
Speaker 3: as individuals. We do everything together since we don't have

1329
01:14:20,600 --> 01:14:24,040
Speaker 3: any friends here, also having the one car, we feel

1330
01:14:24,120 --> 01:14:27,439
Speaker 3: obligated to never leave without the other. I thoroughly enjoy

1331
01:14:27,479 --> 01:14:29,680
Speaker 3: our activities together, but I get the point. We did

1332
01:14:29,840 --> 01:14:33,160
Speaker 3: lose ourselves in each other, pushing aside hobbies and friends.

1333
01:14:33,560 --> 01:14:35,920
Speaker 3: This is something I know we need to figure out.

1334
01:14:36,439 --> 01:14:39,799
Speaker 3: Her plans for sure include moving back to Colorado. Whatever

1335
01:14:39,880 --> 01:14:43,960
Speaker 3: that timeline looks like. So it seems like it seems

1336
01:14:44,040 --> 01:14:47,200
Speaker 3: like it is also clinton.

1337
01:14:47,320 --> 01:14:48,080
Speaker 1: We have a task for you.

1338
01:14:50,880 --> 01:14:57,160
Speaker 3: Yes, so she so she so she I agree, Okay,

1339
01:14:59,320 --> 01:15:01,280
Speaker 3: so this is something I need to figure out. So

1340
01:15:01,439 --> 01:15:03,599
Speaker 3: her plan for sure includes moving back to Colorado whatever

1341
01:15:03,640 --> 01:15:05,679
Speaker 3: that timeline looks like, which I mean, if she's struggling

1342
01:15:05,680 --> 01:15:07,400
Speaker 3: with mental health, it's probably better for her to be

1343
01:15:07,439 --> 01:15:10,479
Speaker 3: closer to friends and family, which is a cash money move.

1344
01:15:11,000 --> 01:15:13,439
Speaker 3: She speaks of them as referring to her doing it

1345
01:15:13,520 --> 01:15:16,840
Speaker 3: alone and figuring out jobs and living situations. Oh so

1346
01:15:16,960 --> 01:15:19,040
Speaker 3: she speaks of it. So she speaks of that move

1347
01:15:19,120 --> 01:15:22,160
Speaker 3: and that timeline as doing it alone. So it's like

1348
01:15:22,400 --> 01:15:23,439
Speaker 3: he's not included in that.

1349
01:15:23,640 --> 01:15:24,880
Speaker 1: Ye, Like I'm going to go.

1350
01:15:27,800 --> 01:15:33,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, ouch, not going to lie. This hurts hearing,

1351
01:15:33,320 --> 01:15:35,040
Speaker 3: but I went along with it as I'm here to

1352
01:15:35,080 --> 01:15:38,080
Speaker 3: be supportive. In a month, when her realtor friend returns

1353
01:15:38,120 --> 01:15:41,200
Speaker 3: from VAK, we're going to put our house up for sale.

1354
01:15:41,720 --> 01:15:44,120
Speaker 3: What the next moves afterwards are? I have no idea

1355
01:15:44,240 --> 01:15:46,360
Speaker 3: whether I will be part of them or not, and

1356
01:15:46,479 --> 01:15:47,320
Speaker 3: that scares the.

1357
01:15:47,320 --> 01:15:47,960
Speaker 1: Crap out of me.

1358
01:15:48,439 --> 01:15:51,000
Speaker 3: Having more flexibility at work in a support system of family,

1359
01:15:51,080 --> 01:15:53,839
Speaker 3: have decided to leave for two weeks starting this weekend.

1360
01:15:54,080 --> 01:15:55,800
Speaker 3: I'm going to buy a car and first head up

1361
01:15:55,840 --> 01:15:58,439
Speaker 3: to my parents place in North Carolina, then either my

1362
01:15:58,560 --> 01:16:02,240
Speaker 3: sisters or another relative. At this point, I know I'll

1363
01:16:02,320 --> 01:16:06,760
Speaker 3: need to Oh, at this point, I know. At this point,

1364
01:16:06,800 --> 01:16:08,880
Speaker 3: I know I'll need to come home to recharge, see

1365
01:16:08,920 --> 01:16:11,760
Speaker 3: my dogs, sleep in my own bed, et cetera. I

1366
01:16:11,880 --> 01:16:13,880
Speaker 3: told her this plan and that if she needs to

1367
01:16:13,960 --> 01:16:16,320
Speaker 3: be away from me, she'll need to find her own

1368
01:16:16,439 --> 01:16:21,200
Speaker 3: spot for however long. So he's kind of like, he's

1369
01:16:21,280 --> 01:16:23,519
Speaker 3: kind of like, Okay, I understand you want your distance.

1370
01:16:23,680 --> 01:16:26,720
Speaker 3: Now I'm creating some distance. Yeah, and which, honestly, I

1371
01:16:26,840 --> 01:16:29,599
Speaker 3: feel like maybe is important for his own sanity.

1372
01:16:29,840 --> 01:16:32,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, because like if if she's just kind of like,

1373
01:16:33,040 --> 01:16:35,040
Speaker 1: which I'm not, I don't know that she's doing this.

1374
01:16:35,320 --> 01:16:37,160
Speaker 1: If she's like, oh, I'll just come and go as

1375
01:16:37,240 --> 01:16:39,840
Speaker 1: I please, He's like, nah, like you like, you can't

1376
01:16:40,320 --> 01:16:42,000
Speaker 1: jerk me around at your own Yeah.

1377
01:16:42,280 --> 01:16:44,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think there needs to be some there needs

1378
01:16:45,000 --> 01:16:47,280
Speaker 3: to be Like I mean, he can he can allow

1379
01:16:47,320 --> 01:16:51,360
Speaker 3: her to jerk him around. Oh my allow, she can

1380
01:16:51,400 --> 01:16:56,280
Speaker 3: allow that, but I would under or he can allow that,

1381
01:16:56,439 --> 01:17:00,719
Speaker 3: but yeah, I think for his own sanity, it would

1382
01:17:00,720 --> 01:17:03,000
Speaker 3: be best to put some boundaries.

1383
01:17:02,600 --> 01:17:03,960
Speaker 1: Which is what he's doing here, Yeah, which is what

1384
01:17:04,040 --> 01:17:06,160
Speaker 1: he's saying, like, I'm gonna be gone, and you like,

1385
01:17:06,280 --> 01:17:12,280
Speaker 1: don't expect me to be there if you're like necessarily

1386
01:17:12,720 --> 01:17:13,240
Speaker 1: h coming back.

1387
01:17:13,320 --> 01:17:17,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, because like him him saying I will be there,

1388
01:17:17,520 --> 01:17:20,240
Speaker 3: then I will wait for you no matter. How can

1389
01:17:20,280 --> 01:17:23,680
Speaker 3: we move that that guy the the nerf nerf thing

1390
01:17:23,720 --> 01:17:27,160
Speaker 3: away him saying he will be there is kind of

1391
01:17:27,560 --> 01:17:34,680
Speaker 3: it's just opening himself up for hurt. Ok, can you

1392
01:17:34,760 --> 01:17:36,160
Speaker 3: pass that? Can you pass the uh?

1393
01:17:36,479 --> 01:17:40,920
Speaker 1: The soup? John? Do you want to sue? Yes? Please?

1394
01:17:41,880 --> 01:17:44,240
Speaker 3: I want to SUPs glint.

1395
01:17:46,040 --> 01:17:49,559
Speaker 1: I want to like sixty second muck bang, honestly, I want.

1396
01:17:49,640 --> 01:17:51,560
Speaker 3: We can just we can just slurp it like a

1397
01:17:52,400 --> 01:17:55,759
Speaker 3: that's true. We can just slurp, yeah, or we not slurp.

1398
01:17:55,800 --> 01:17:56,080
Speaker 1: We won't.

1399
01:17:56,080 --> 01:17:57,880
Speaker 3: We won't slurp for all of our people that are

1400
01:17:58,400 --> 01:18:04,840
Speaker 3: anti slurp, but we will mank A little cheers.

1401
01:18:12,200 --> 01:18:13,400
Speaker 1: A very gentle.

1402
01:18:17,840 --> 01:18:20,960
Speaker 3: Right, I feel so cozy now, or something about like

1403
01:18:21,080 --> 01:18:21,919
Speaker 3: warm tea.

1404
01:18:25,200 --> 01:18:28,920
Speaker 1: Whoa whoa whoa is soup, salty tea. Soup is definitely

1405
01:18:28,960 --> 01:18:37,080
Speaker 1: salty tea. Wow wow, Oh that's so.

1406
01:18:39,120 --> 01:18:39,360
Speaker 3: We have.

1407
01:18:39,680 --> 01:18:40,840
Speaker 1: Soup is just a tease to.

1408
01:18:40,880 --> 01:18:43,040
Speaker 3: Me, it is that's what it's supposed to be. It's

1409
01:18:43,040 --> 01:18:45,840
Speaker 3: supposed to be the tease for the full course. Soup

1410
01:18:45,960 --> 01:18:47,880
Speaker 3: is soup is the blow job of four sex.

1411
01:18:49,040 --> 01:18:50,960
Speaker 1: Dude, it's a hand job. Are you freaking kidding me?

1412
01:18:56,280 --> 01:18:56,400
Speaker 9: Right?

1413
01:18:57,040 --> 01:19:00,720
Speaker 4: Oh my god, you're a genius. Instead of the no

1414
01:19:00,880 --> 01:19:03,280
Speaker 4: sex sign, I just I just hit you with a

1415
01:19:03,320 --> 01:19:03,800
Speaker 4: nerve gun.

1416
01:19:04,600 --> 01:19:06,840
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna shoot Sam with this. This is do it,

1417
01:19:07,000 --> 01:19:07,760
Speaker 1: do it, do it, do it.

1418
01:19:07,880 --> 01:19:12,920
Speaker 3: I'm I'm covering my way too overpowered my eyes.

1419
01:19:13,439 --> 01:19:19,759
Speaker 1: Okay, ow it is pretty overpowered.

1420
01:19:21,640 --> 01:19:28,439
Speaker 2: Oh utually a sure destruction. We have nerve guns that

1421
01:19:28,479 --> 01:19:29,320
Speaker 2: are loaded over here.

1422
01:19:33,320 --> 01:19:37,160
Speaker 1: I love that like a massage.

1423
01:19:40,800 --> 01:19:45,080
Speaker 3: Okay, So someone's in the sad is blowing his soup.

1424
01:19:49,160 --> 01:19:49,880
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

1425
01:19:50,600 --> 01:19:54,240
Speaker 3: Okay, so wait where do I leave off? As for

1426
01:19:54,280 --> 01:19:55,320
Speaker 3: a living Okay, here we go.

1427
01:19:58,479 --> 01:19:58,679
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1428
01:19:58,720 --> 01:20:04,200
Speaker 3: So basically he's like, I need my own space. Yes, yeah,

1429
01:20:04,280 --> 01:20:06,760
Speaker 3: So I told her she'll need to plan to find

1430
01:20:06,760 --> 01:20:09,360
Speaker 3: another spot. This didn't go well and she took it

1431
01:20:09,520 --> 01:20:12,080
Speaker 3: as I was kicking her out. I love living with

1432
01:20:12,160 --> 01:20:14,439
Speaker 3: her and don't mind sharing the space, but I had

1433
01:20:14,520 --> 01:20:16,840
Speaker 3: to set a boundary. This was something she wants and

1434
01:20:16,960 --> 01:20:20,880
Speaker 3: I can't be the one leaving my own home indefinitely.

1435
01:20:21,320 --> 01:20:23,519
Speaker 3: I had to revisit this topic and tell her I'm

1436
01:20:23,560 --> 01:20:26,120
Speaker 3: not kicking her out, just that I don't want to

1437
01:20:26,400 --> 01:20:28,759
Speaker 3: have to leave my home and comfort.

1438
01:20:29,160 --> 01:20:29,559
Speaker 1: She said.

1439
01:20:29,600 --> 01:20:32,640
Speaker 3: She reacted because of the reality setting in that she

1440
01:20:32,760 --> 01:20:34,519
Speaker 3: has no one or nowhere to go.

1441
01:20:34,960 --> 01:20:36,679
Speaker 4: You're the one that wanted to leave.

1442
01:20:37,560 --> 01:20:40,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, what are you talking about? She said?

1443
01:20:40,760 --> 01:20:43,120
Speaker 3: She react She does have a couple of people that

1444
01:20:43,160 --> 01:20:45,320
Speaker 3: would take her in for a short duration if necessary,

1445
01:20:45,400 --> 01:20:48,160
Speaker 3: but she is full of self doubt and abandonment issues.

1446
01:20:48,200 --> 01:20:51,200
Speaker 1: Well, you're abandoning him. You're abandoning him.

1447
01:20:51,439 --> 01:20:52,599
Speaker 3: You can't have your cake and eat it too.

1448
01:20:52,760 --> 01:20:54,680
Speaker 1: What are you talking about? Oh?

1449
01:20:55,040 --> 01:20:58,120
Speaker 3: I hate when people are hypocrites like this and freaking

1450
01:20:58,320 --> 01:21:02,719
Speaker 3: grinds my. You know what, Opie's Opie's wife. Shoot the camera,

1451
01:21:02,800 --> 01:21:03,479
Speaker 3: shoot it, shoot it.

1452
01:21:03,760 --> 01:21:05,720
Speaker 1: No, it'll hurt it right, No, No, we''t shoot it.

1453
01:21:05,760 --> 01:21:10,640
Speaker 1: Shoot it. Watch out if you you got to cock it,

1454
01:21:11,800 --> 01:21:23,120
Speaker 1: I thought I already cocked it. Those are yeah, m

1455
01:21:23,280 --> 01:21:26,080
Speaker 1: hm hmmmm.

1456
01:21:27,360 --> 01:21:31,800
Speaker 3: So as for living separately, we're still sleeping in the

1457
01:21:31,880 --> 01:21:36,080
Speaker 3: same bed, though now we're clothed, sush pajamas, no cuddling,

1458
01:21:36,720 --> 01:21:40,240
Speaker 3: no kissing. Maybe I get a hug once today. It's

1459
01:21:40,280 --> 01:21:42,640
Speaker 3: hard to turn off the switch like this, As I'm

1460
01:21:42,680 --> 01:21:45,960
Speaker 3: a very affectionate person. Touch sash physical contact is my

1461
01:21:46,040 --> 01:21:48,640
Speaker 3: love language. So to that end, I'm scared as to

1462
01:21:48,760 --> 01:21:51,640
Speaker 3: what that means our living situation will be like Is

1463
01:21:51,720 --> 01:21:54,639
Speaker 3: this healthy? Is this healthy? Would be having a car

1464
01:21:54,800 --> 01:21:56,360
Speaker 3: leaving for a couple of weeks, then coming back and

1465
01:21:56,439 --> 01:21:59,840
Speaker 3: vowing to live separate but still interconnected lives work? Or

1466
01:22:00,080 --> 01:22:02,200
Speaker 3: do we need to absolutely move away from each other

1467
01:22:02,320 --> 01:22:05,200
Speaker 3: in order to heal? I reached out to my organization's

1468
01:22:05,320 --> 01:22:08,439
Speaker 3: mental health line and got to spell the gut my guts.

1469
01:22:08,760 --> 01:22:12,679
Speaker 3: They set me up with a marriage therapist. My wife

1470
01:22:13,120 --> 01:22:15,560
Speaker 3: question mark was referred to one by a coworker. We

1471
01:22:15,640 --> 01:22:17,640
Speaker 3: still have so much to work through. I go through

1472
01:22:17,760 --> 01:22:20,439
Speaker 3: highs and lows. The not sleeping thing is weighing me down.

1473
01:22:20,800 --> 01:22:23,080
Speaker 3: I just hope and pray that this is something we

1474
01:22:23,160 --> 01:22:26,320
Speaker 3: can work through and she's able to heal however she needs,

1475
01:22:27,479 --> 01:22:30,160
Speaker 3: she needs to do so without moving across the country.

1476
01:22:30,479 --> 01:22:32,800
Speaker 3: Best case I see is we continue to grow for

1477
01:22:32,920 --> 01:22:34,840
Speaker 3: our own selves until we can sell the house and

1478
01:22:34,920 --> 01:22:37,920
Speaker 3: move together and continue our lives back in the state

1479
01:22:38,200 --> 01:22:39,559
Speaker 3: we fell in love.

1480
01:22:39,439 --> 01:22:39,880
Speaker 1: With each other.

1481
01:22:40,120 --> 01:22:43,880
Speaker 3: And there are some relevant comments with op responding, ooh,

1482
01:22:44,720 --> 01:22:50,760
Speaker 3: we always love that, but yeah, any thoughts on it?

1483
01:22:50,840 --> 01:22:52,960
Speaker 3: And do you think still think they're gonna be I am.

1484
01:22:53,280 --> 01:23:02,240
Speaker 1: Annoyed endlessly at the wife question mark. I am like, uh, yeah,

1485
01:23:02,320 --> 01:23:05,120
Speaker 1: I just I feel like I'm even further in my

1486
01:23:05,400 --> 01:23:09,040
Speaker 1: in my feeling of this is not going to work out,

1487
01:23:09,280 --> 01:23:12,439
Speaker 1: And yeah, I feel and I feel like it's going

1488
01:23:12,520 --> 01:23:15,439
Speaker 1: to be there will be. It seems like some overlap

1489
01:23:15,520 --> 01:23:18,000
Speaker 1: of them living in the same space together, and it

1490
01:23:18,080 --> 01:23:20,559
Speaker 1: seems like it'll be kind of a confusing, weird dynamic.

1491
01:23:20,960 --> 01:23:23,800
Speaker 3: You sure get them around, Yeah, you sure him around?

1492
01:23:24,439 --> 01:23:31,840
Speaker 3: But relevant comments so uh oh god. The DJ by

1493
01:23:32,120 --> 01:23:36,439
Speaker 3: g set DC says it ain't coming back to what

1494
01:23:36,560 --> 01:23:40,200
Speaker 3: it was. Dude, rough, it's time to look out for

1495
01:23:40,280 --> 01:23:42,680
Speaker 3: your own best interest. I know it's not what you want,

1496
01:23:42,760 --> 01:23:46,880
Speaker 3: but reading this really made me feel like you don't like,

1497
01:23:47,040 --> 01:23:50,080
Speaker 3: you don't get that it's over. You don't recover from this,

1498
01:23:51,840 --> 01:23:55,280
Speaker 3: damn I hope. He respond I'm slowly coming to this realization.

1499
01:23:55,680 --> 01:23:59,679
Speaker 3: Letting go is the hardest part, and Vio Loo says

1500
01:24:00,000 --> 01:24:02,280
Speaker 3: it's okay, it takes time. This isn't like having a

1501
01:24:02,320 --> 01:24:04,320
Speaker 3: big blow up fight or finding out a spouse was

1502
01:24:04,400 --> 01:24:07,400
Speaker 3: cheating or some other horrible secret secret. There's no big

1503
01:24:07,560 --> 01:24:10,479
Speaker 3: catalysts forcing out of love. The best you can do

1504
01:24:10,760 --> 01:24:13,680
Speaker 3: is try to not to not talk yourself into having

1505
01:24:13,760 --> 01:24:17,240
Speaker 3: hope things will turn around. Instead talk yourself into moving

1506
01:24:17,400 --> 01:24:20,240
Speaker 3: forward and remind yourself that with time it will get

1507
01:24:20,280 --> 01:24:23,320
Speaker 3: easier hope. Who responds thank you for this? Yes, all

1508
01:24:23,400 --> 01:24:26,280
Speaker 3: advice from friends around me and material online says the same.

1509
01:24:26,720 --> 01:24:29,439
Speaker 3: Don't make the act any easier, but at least it's

1510
01:24:29,479 --> 01:24:31,519
Speaker 3: something to give me guidance and know I'm headed in

1511
01:24:31,520 --> 01:24:35,560
Speaker 3: the right direction. And actually I completely agree with that

1512
01:24:35,680 --> 01:24:39,439
Speaker 3: last point. It's so much harder to break up with

1513
01:24:39,520 --> 01:24:40,800
Speaker 3: someone when there's not a reason.

1514
01:24:42,520 --> 01:24:42,920
Speaker 1: That's true.

1515
01:24:43,200 --> 01:24:46,439
Speaker 3: And when I say that, like there's not some big

1516
01:24:46,520 --> 01:24:49,280
Speaker 3: catalysts like yeah, and some big catalysts, Like I had

1517
01:24:49,320 --> 01:24:55,200
Speaker 3: a relationship where there wasn't like there wasn't really anything big.

1518
01:24:55,360 --> 01:24:58,160
Speaker 3: It just wasn't it just like wasn't really good to

1519
01:24:58,280 --> 01:25:01,760
Speaker 3: be in a relationship with that person for our personalities,

1520
01:25:01,800 --> 01:25:03,560
Speaker 3: and it was hard, like it was it was a

1521
01:25:03,840 --> 01:25:06,360
Speaker 3: it was a messy breakup because it was like we

1522
01:25:06,400 --> 01:25:08,720
Speaker 3: didn't have a thing that we could look at and

1523
01:25:08,840 --> 01:25:11,840
Speaker 3: say that's why we're not together. It was like our

1524
01:25:11,960 --> 01:25:13,639
Speaker 3: just personalities, and when.

1525
01:25:13,479 --> 01:25:15,920
Speaker 1: You're sitting down and explaining it too, it's like, yeah,

1526
01:25:16,000 --> 01:25:17,960
Speaker 1: I feel like we're not messh it. Yeah, it's just like,

1527
01:25:18,439 --> 01:25:22,479
Speaker 1: even though that is a very valid point, totally valid reason,

1528
01:25:22,840 --> 01:25:23,599
Speaker 1: it's so much.

1529
01:25:23,520 --> 01:25:25,640
Speaker 3: Easier to just be like, oh, she cheated on me,

1530
01:25:25,800 --> 01:25:27,720
Speaker 3: that's why, and then you can always look back at

1531
01:25:27,760 --> 01:25:31,240
Speaker 3: that and be like, oh, I know I I did

1532
01:25:31,280 --> 01:25:35,000
Speaker 3: a good decision because of that. Thank you, clim muck

1533
01:25:35,120 --> 01:25:42,439
Speaker 3: bang time. But that's where that's where that story ends. Wow, button, Uh,

1534
01:25:42,479 --> 01:25:43,559
Speaker 3: do you want to read some donuts?

1535
01:25:45,080 --> 01:25:46,320
Speaker 1: I sure?

1536
01:25:47,720 --> 01:25:48,240
Speaker 6: Guns?

1537
01:25:49,840 --> 01:25:54,000
Speaker 1: Oh shoot, I gave an unintentional I dare you.

1538
01:25:55,800 --> 01:25:56,320
Speaker 2: All right?

1539
01:25:56,680 --> 01:25:59,120
Speaker 4: The Tomlin thank you for the five buck tip. Hey crew,

1540
01:25:59,360 --> 01:26:02,400
Speaker 4: I'm listening making afghan. I literally have no use for

1541
01:26:02,680 --> 01:26:07,519
Speaker 4: want it sure and post pics and discord also op

1542
01:26:07,680 --> 01:26:10,960
Speaker 4: suit b X is the a whole and entitled with

1543
01:26:11,120 --> 01:26:13,960
Speaker 4: five book tapu DK. Thank you for the one ninety

1544
01:26:14,000 --> 01:26:17,280
Speaker 4: eight Clinton's emoji water boy water.

1545
01:26:17,600 --> 01:26:20,320
Speaker 10: I know that's not supposed to be sexual, but I

1546
01:26:20,439 --> 01:26:23,639
Speaker 10: just can't what I thought though, I can't help interpret

1547
01:26:23,680 --> 01:26:25,760
Speaker 10: it in any way, can't help it.

1548
01:26:25,920 --> 01:26:29,599
Speaker 1: The water emoji. Water emoji is not allowed for Clintons.

1549
01:26:29,840 --> 01:26:30,639
Speaker 1: For Clinton's emoji.

1550
01:26:31,320 --> 01:26:32,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, he's too young.

1551
01:26:32,360 --> 01:26:33,040
Speaker 2: It might be allowed.

1552
01:26:33,200 --> 01:26:36,760
Speaker 1: All right, he's too young. He's barely legal. He's not.

1553
01:26:38,320 --> 01:26:40,400
Speaker 2: For two whole years. You can't you know how much

1554
01:26:40,439 --> 01:26:41,880
Speaker 2: you see in two whole years.

1555
01:26:42,439 --> 01:26:46,360
Speaker 3: Sorry, he could not buy us alcohol.

1556
01:26:46,880 --> 01:26:48,599
Speaker 4: Yeah, that is the one thing he can't too.

1557
01:26:48,760 --> 01:26:52,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, they're raging alcoholics. They've asked me so many times already.

1558
01:26:53,200 --> 01:26:56,400
Speaker 3: But did clear a giant handle of vodka from our

1559
01:26:56,439 --> 01:26:58,200
Speaker 3: studio because we were taking shot?

1560
01:26:58,400 --> 01:26:59,040
Speaker 1: What do I do with this?

1561
01:26:59,080 --> 01:27:02,559
Speaker 2: And I was like, oh my god, um.

1562
01:27:03,200 --> 01:27:05,280
Speaker 4: By bottle three four five butterfly? I think for then

1563
01:27:05,280 --> 01:27:08,000
Speaker 4: eight buck tip, enjoying the sunrise, working on my final

1564
01:27:08,200 --> 01:27:12,240
Speaker 4: architect project with you guys, great company, stand stand up,

1565
01:27:12,640 --> 01:27:16,120
Speaker 4: stand up, storytelling in a concert? What else could I.

1566
01:27:17,000 --> 01:27:17,920
Speaker 2: That sounds like the dream?

1567
01:27:19,360 --> 01:27:19,519
Speaker 12: Uh?

1568
01:27:20,800 --> 01:27:21,560
Speaker 1: Are you already read that?

1569
01:27:22,800 --> 01:27:24,720
Speaker 4: That's all of them. That's all.

1570
01:27:25,840 --> 01:27:28,519
Speaker 2: Thank you, just goes back to the munchion.

1571
01:27:30,560 --> 01:27:30,840
Speaker 1: Thanks.

1572
01:27:34,520 --> 01:27:35,559
Speaker 2: I could do my own little bit.

1573
01:27:35,720 --> 01:27:37,439
Speaker 4: Yeah, do you do a bit? Do your type five?

1574
01:27:40,479 --> 01:27:43,519
Speaker 3: I'm dying to know why your dad is so old.

1575
01:27:44,000 --> 01:27:45,320
Speaker 3: We never got to the bottom of it.

1576
01:27:45,680 --> 01:27:48,880
Speaker 10: Okay, So my dad came to his country when he

1577
01:27:49,400 --> 01:27:53,599
Speaker 10: seventeen years old from Mishua con So, Yeah, super young,

1578
01:27:53,640 --> 01:27:57,800
Speaker 10: didn't know a word of English. Uh somehow graduate high school,

1579
01:27:57,880 --> 01:28:00,120
Speaker 10: didn't make it to college. But the way that he

1580
01:28:00,240 --> 01:28:02,160
Speaker 10: grew up he worked in like he worked at home

1581
01:28:02,240 --> 01:28:06,360
Speaker 10: depot and then basically kind of climbed the tears of

1582
01:28:06,520 --> 01:28:09,320
Speaker 10: like getting to know and really well. So he was

1583
01:28:09,400 --> 01:28:12,599
Speaker 10: like he was just like Birk and then one day

1584
01:28:12,680 --> 01:28:15,160
Speaker 10: somebody was like, hey, project for you. I want to

1585
01:28:15,400 --> 01:28:18,880
Speaker 10: want to do it and it was in drywall, and

1586
01:28:19,200 --> 01:28:22,599
Speaker 10: from that he started his own drywall business. Then got

1587
01:28:22,680 --> 01:28:26,960
Speaker 10: really immersed into oh, that's what real estate. But throughout

1588
01:28:27,000 --> 01:28:32,559
Speaker 10: that entire process he's been disconnected from like I would say,

1589
01:28:32,640 --> 01:28:35,760
Speaker 10: like the modern like United States, you know, like how

1590
01:28:35,840 --> 01:28:39,360
Speaker 10: we how we grew up, and so he's just like

1591
01:28:39,840 --> 01:28:42,320
Speaker 10: foreign and you can tell and talking to him that

1592
01:28:42,360 --> 01:28:44,200
Speaker 10: he has no idea a lot of these concepts, you.

1593
01:28:44,240 --> 01:28:46,439
Speaker 3: Know, is there one that came up recently?

1594
01:28:47,479 --> 01:28:49,880
Speaker 10: They're watching like Seinfeld the other day and he was like,

1595
01:28:50,200 --> 01:28:54,320
Speaker 10: who is this guy? He's super funny, that.

1596
01:29:00,360 --> 01:29:00,599
Speaker 2: Dude.

1597
01:29:00,640 --> 01:29:03,760
Speaker 1: Even his examples are perfect. I want to see one

1598
01:29:03,920 --> 01:29:04,760
Speaker 1: flaw in this man.

1599
01:29:05,120 --> 01:29:05,240
Speaker 9: One.

1600
01:29:05,600 --> 01:29:07,040
Speaker 1: He is the most eligible.

1601
01:29:07,240 --> 01:29:08,440
Speaker 3: Actually he's in a relationship.

1602
01:29:08,520 --> 01:29:12,120
Speaker 1: He's in a very happy most five months almost five

1603
01:29:12,160 --> 01:29:13,280
Speaker 1: months almost five months.

1604
01:29:13,360 --> 01:29:16,840
Speaker 10: Let's go five months on the twenty ninth. Any any

1605
01:29:16,880 --> 01:29:20,839
Speaker 10: suggestions on on what I should do. Oh, it's your birthday.

1606
01:29:20,920 --> 01:29:24,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, he can't celebrate our months.

1607
01:29:26,800 --> 01:29:27,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, sorry, it's over.

1608
01:29:28,120 --> 01:29:29,120
Speaker 2: I got I got bigger.

1609
01:29:30,560 --> 01:29:32,200
Speaker 1: My boss is having a birthday.

1610
01:29:32,960 --> 01:29:34,080
Speaker 2: You should throw a rager.

1611
01:29:35,240 --> 01:29:39,439
Speaker 1: We are are Oh, we don't know that he is

1612
01:29:39,520 --> 01:29:41,240
Speaker 1: doing a renaissance.

1613
01:29:41,439 --> 01:29:43,000
Speaker 2: We can kill that vodka that I.

1614
01:29:46,000 --> 01:29:47,120
Speaker 4: I'm throwing a renaissance.

1615
01:29:48,560 --> 01:29:52,160
Speaker 1: Hold on, show the people I'm.

1616
01:29:52,000 --> 01:29:55,639
Speaker 3: Throwing beau Like Knight says, Clinton isn't speaking to the mic.

1617
01:29:55,680 --> 01:29:56,960
Speaker 3: That's why it's breaking up.

1618
01:29:57,000 --> 01:29:57,280
Speaker 1: Clinton.

1619
01:29:57,280 --> 01:29:59,599
Speaker 3: When you're speaking to it, just put it on your chin.

1620
01:30:00,360 --> 01:30:03,599
Speaker 3: Uh so, and then when you're then then people will

1621
01:30:03,600 --> 01:30:06,320
Speaker 3: always hear you because if it goes too far away

1622
01:30:06,400 --> 01:30:07,320
Speaker 3: then it will get cut out.

1623
01:30:10,600 --> 01:30:12,720
Speaker 2: Hopefully this is good now, I will I will mess

1624
01:30:12,800 --> 01:30:13,840
Speaker 2: this up in the future. Guys.

1625
01:30:14,000 --> 01:30:17,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, never, damn straight, I can see.

1626
01:30:17,920 --> 01:30:21,599
Speaker 10: I'm still I'm still advocating for the Riley and I stream.

1627
01:30:22,320 --> 01:30:24,919
Speaker 10: I think I think that'd be legendary.

1628
01:30:27,160 --> 01:30:27,880
Speaker 1: So what's going on?

1629
01:30:29,880 --> 01:30:30,080
Speaker 4: Oh?

1630
01:30:33,880 --> 01:30:34,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, were shoot you?

1631
01:30:37,840 --> 01:30:39,280
Speaker 4: Are you ready to read the story?

1632
01:30:40,040 --> 01:30:44,240
Speaker 1: Mm hmm, yeah, Well should we get to this next one?

1633
01:30:47,479 --> 01:30:51,960
Speaker 1: I O god, I wanted to see it in your window.

1634
01:30:54,439 --> 01:31:03,920
Speaker 3: All right, let's go well three five seventy one, No,

1635
01:31:04,640 --> 01:31:13,840
Speaker 3: four by seventy two? All right, Sidney with that kidney?

1636
01:31:14,080 --> 01:31:16,639
Speaker 3: Sam is always telling people to rest an their gin.

1637
01:31:23,600 --> 01:31:25,080
Speaker 4: Oh good stuff.

1638
01:31:25,720 --> 01:31:28,240
Speaker 3: Oh man, all right, let's get into the next story.

1639
01:31:29,120 --> 01:31:33,040
Speaker 4: So, didn't indust read a story of Mike crazy?

1640
01:31:33,880 --> 01:31:37,040
Speaker 3: I heard my husband fives one?

1641
01:31:37,520 --> 01:31:40,120
Speaker 4: I thought, I thought you just read? But maybe I'm

1642
01:31:40,760 --> 01:31:41,120
Speaker 4: did John?

1643
01:31:41,200 --> 01:31:41,840
Speaker 2: Did you just read?

1644
01:31:42,560 --> 01:31:43,120
Speaker 1: I just read?

1645
01:31:43,160 --> 01:31:49,920
Speaker 3: But we switch off because it's two stories? Okay, all right?

1646
01:31:50,120 --> 01:31:53,200
Speaker 3: So would I be the ale for breaking up with

1647
01:31:53,280 --> 01:31:56,559
Speaker 3: my husband after hearing him cry in the bathroom after

1648
01:31:56,720 --> 01:31:58,679
Speaker 3: we bumped into his ax.

1649
01:31:59,000 --> 01:32:04,880
Speaker 1: No, uh right, he cried, So he cried he should

1650
01:32:04,880 --> 01:32:06,920
Speaker 1: get a divorce divorced on for sure.

1651
01:32:08,080 --> 01:32:11,760
Speaker 3: Harry Collection eight five two says my husband and I

1652
01:32:12,040 --> 01:32:15,080
Speaker 3: met two years ago. He proposed six months later and

1653
01:32:15,240 --> 01:32:18,240
Speaker 3: told me he knew I was the one when he

1654
01:32:18,400 --> 01:32:20,479
Speaker 3: met me, and he didn't want to waste time or

1655
01:32:20,600 --> 01:32:25,080
Speaker 3: lose me. I was still is head over heels and agreed.

1656
01:32:25,560 --> 01:32:27,760
Speaker 3: We've been married for six months and are expecting our

1657
01:32:27,800 --> 01:32:32,000
Speaker 3: first baby. Last weekend, we bumped into his ex. They

1658
01:32:32,040 --> 01:32:34,760
Speaker 3: were together for nine years, but she ended the relationship

1659
01:32:34,920 --> 01:32:38,160
Speaker 3: when he didn't take the relationship to the next level.

1660
01:32:39,040 --> 01:32:44,479
Speaker 1: Ninety years. That's a heck, A long time, long time,

1661
01:32:45,040 --> 01:32:46,960
Speaker 1: a decade when we got engaged.

1662
01:32:46,920 --> 01:32:51,479
Speaker 4: When he should know the sexual history of her parents.

1663
01:32:52,520 --> 01:32:55,479
Speaker 3: That is true, all back, call back.

1664
01:32:55,720 --> 01:32:57,080
Speaker 4: I almost I almost bumbled it.

1665
01:32:57,840 --> 01:32:59,840
Speaker 3: You got it, you got it, you got it, stuck

1666
01:32:59,880 --> 01:33:04,680
Speaker 3: the landing right there, thank you. So when we got

1667
01:33:04,880 --> 01:33:09,040
Speaker 3: and engaged and married, my husband texted her to tell

1668
01:33:09,080 --> 01:33:12,080
Speaker 3: her and to apologize and talked about fate and how

1669
01:33:12,160 --> 01:33:14,840
Speaker 3: some things aren't meant to be, which is that's weird.

1670
01:33:15,640 --> 01:33:19,320
Speaker 3: He texted his ex when he married his current when

1671
01:33:19,320 --> 01:33:23,760
Speaker 3: he married OPI why I remember asking him why. He

1672
01:33:23,880 --> 01:33:26,400
Speaker 3: said that he owed it to her that so she

1673
01:33:26,560 --> 01:33:30,360
Speaker 3: doesn't hear it from other people and not be prepared.

1674
01:33:31,080 --> 01:33:35,680
Speaker 3: They broke up three years ago. She was pregnant and

1675
01:33:35,800 --> 01:33:38,280
Speaker 3: holding hands with that with a kid that could be

1676
01:33:38,400 --> 01:33:40,600
Speaker 3: seven or eight years old, and she was with a

1677
01:33:40,720 --> 01:33:44,200
Speaker 3: man who was obviously her partner, and they were very

1678
01:33:44,320 --> 01:33:47,400
Speaker 3: affectionate towards each other. My husband said hi, even though

1679
01:33:47,720 --> 01:33:51,720
Speaker 3: we could walk by unnoticed by them, but he insisted

1680
01:33:51,800 --> 01:33:52,240
Speaker 3: to talk.

1681
01:33:52,360 --> 01:33:56,160
Speaker 1: Wait. Oh yeah, they bumped, so they bumped into his axe.

1682
01:33:56,520 --> 01:33:58,599
Speaker 1: They then.

1683
01:34:01,800 --> 01:34:04,920
Speaker 3: Okay, right, really quick so last weekend bumped into the

1684
01:34:05,200 --> 01:34:09,400
Speaker 3: X yep, all right, But then also when they got

1685
01:34:09,560 --> 01:34:14,720
Speaker 3: engaged Op and her husband, he texted her. And then

1686
01:34:15,360 --> 01:34:17,840
Speaker 3: when they bumped in again, she was pregnant, holding the

1687
01:34:17,880 --> 01:34:20,559
Speaker 3: hands with a kid that could be seven or eight,

1688
01:34:21,320 --> 01:34:24,280
Speaker 3: had a partner affectionate. My husband said hi, even though

1689
01:34:24,320 --> 01:34:27,240
Speaker 3: we could walk by unnoticed, but then insisted we go talk.

1690
01:34:27,560 --> 01:34:31,240
Speaker 3: When we got home, I heard him crying in the bathroom.

1691
01:34:31,720 --> 01:34:33,720
Speaker 3: Now he has been depressed and distant the whole week.

1692
01:34:34,040 --> 01:34:37,200
Speaker 3: I realized he must have written to her after we

1693
01:34:37,320 --> 01:34:39,880
Speaker 3: got home, and he showed me his phone, and yes,

1694
01:34:39,960 --> 01:34:43,160
Speaker 3: he has again apologized for what he did and told

1695
01:34:43,200 --> 01:34:45,719
Speaker 3: her that some things are not meant to be. Would

1696
01:34:45,800 --> 01:34:48,519
Speaker 3: I be the a hole if I confronted him about

1697
01:34:48,560 --> 01:34:49,240
Speaker 3: what's going on?

1698
01:34:50,040 --> 01:34:51,080
Speaker 1: Why is he doing this?

1699
01:34:51,200 --> 01:34:54,000
Speaker 3: And there are some relevant contents in an update seven

1700
01:34:54,080 --> 01:35:00,040
Speaker 3: hours later. But Dylan, I feel like he's trying I

1701
01:35:00,080 --> 01:35:01,080
Speaker 3: kind to spark something up.

1702
01:35:01,840 --> 01:35:05,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's like, uh, like three years you're in

1703
01:35:05,840 --> 01:35:09,320
Speaker 1: a relationship with And so basically there was the first meeting,

1704
01:35:09,920 --> 01:35:13,160
Speaker 1: a text exchange, and then a second No.

1705
01:35:13,360 --> 01:35:16,719
Speaker 3: So the I believe how it went is when Ope

1706
01:35:17,560 --> 01:35:21,280
Speaker 3: and her husband got together, he texted her like, we're married.

1707
01:35:21,320 --> 01:35:23,160
Speaker 3: He texted her and said, hey, some things are not

1708
01:35:23,240 --> 01:35:30,759
Speaker 3: meant to be right that unprompted, unprompted. Then he bumped

1709
01:35:30,880 --> 01:35:34,120
Speaker 3: that last week, bumped into the x. They were together

1710
01:35:34,160 --> 01:35:37,160
Speaker 3: for nine years, and he went and talked to them

1711
01:35:37,439 --> 01:35:40,360
Speaker 3: and it was like saying hi. Then he texted her

1712
01:35:40,520 --> 01:35:43,240
Speaker 3: again saying something some things.

1713
01:35:43,040 --> 01:35:46,400
Speaker 1: Are not meant to be Someone take this man's phone.

1714
01:35:48,520 --> 01:35:51,760
Speaker 3: What the millennial says, could be his kid? Oh, could

1715
01:35:51,800 --> 01:35:54,479
Speaker 3: be his kid, as in oh PE's kid.

1716
01:35:55,120 --> 01:35:59,240
Speaker 1: Whoh that's a good conspiracy theory, but probably not, like

1717
01:35:59,360 --> 01:36:01,840
Speaker 1: I was. Assuming she's with this new guy. She's they're

1718
01:36:01,880 --> 01:36:03,840
Speaker 1: pregnant with a new baby, and that's the guy's kid.

1719
01:36:04,120 --> 01:36:05,320
Speaker 1: Yeah that was my Yeah.

1720
01:36:07,360 --> 01:36:09,720
Speaker 4: Oh, I think she would know if it was her kid.

1721
01:36:09,960 --> 01:36:14,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, but we do have some I think I think, op,

1722
01:36:14,520 --> 01:36:20,479
Speaker 3: he needs to confront them, yes, because like, what are

1723
01:36:20,520 --> 01:36:20,840
Speaker 3: you doing?

1724
01:36:21,160 --> 01:36:25,679
Speaker 1: Yeah? Clearly there's something insanely fishy, very stinky.

1725
01:36:26,360 --> 01:36:30,439
Speaker 3: Yeah so comments it sounds like he misses her. I

1726
01:36:30,479 --> 01:36:33,400
Speaker 3: would be heartbroken if my husband felt this way about

1727
01:36:33,400 --> 01:36:37,800
Speaker 3: another woman. I'm sorry. Hot Interaction six two six says, right,

1728
01:36:37,960 --> 01:36:40,840
Speaker 3: this whole thing is a lose, loose scenario. Uncle Nedda's

1729
01:36:40,880 --> 01:36:42,840
Speaker 3: dad says, not the a hole, but it sounds like

1730
01:36:43,040 --> 01:36:45,960
Speaker 3: that cliche story. Guy is happy with status quo and

1731
01:36:46,080 --> 01:36:48,680
Speaker 3: keeping the girlfriend around for nine years, and while he

1732
01:36:48,720 --> 01:36:51,320
Speaker 3: says he opens the idea of marriage to string her along,

1733
01:36:51,400 --> 01:36:55,640
Speaker 3: he believes it's unnecessary and doesn't actually make plans to

1734
01:36:55,680 --> 01:36:58,800
Speaker 3: get an engagement ring or pop the question. He just

1735
01:36:58,880 --> 01:37:01,479
Speaker 3: assumes if he runs, she will be stuck with him

1736
01:37:01,520 --> 01:37:04,400
Speaker 3: for life. His ex decides that she's had enough of

1737
01:37:04,479 --> 01:37:07,479
Speaker 3: his placating words and realizes if she wants to be

1738
01:37:07,760 --> 01:37:09,920
Speaker 3: married and get married and sort of family, it can't

1739
01:37:09,960 --> 01:37:12,760
Speaker 3: Slash won't be with him. After she takes charge of

1740
01:37:12,760 --> 01:37:15,400
Speaker 3: her life and dumps him, he begs her to take

1741
01:37:15,439 --> 01:37:17,439
Speaker 3: him back and that he will give her the ring

1742
01:37:17,560 --> 01:37:20,120
Speaker 3: and wedding that she wanted, but it's too little, too late.

1743
01:37:20,240 --> 01:37:23,000
Speaker 3: Curtain's close on this relationship. He takes a year or

1744
01:37:23,040 --> 01:37:25,160
Speaker 3: so to heal, then finds you, who checks off most

1745
01:37:25,200 --> 01:37:27,280
Speaker 3: of the boxes, and instead of risking the same thing

1746
01:37:27,280 --> 01:37:30,200
Speaker 3: happening again, he proposes to you. In six months of dating,

1747
01:37:30,240 --> 01:37:32,880
Speaker 3: and everything happens at warp speed because he has learned

1748
01:37:32,880 --> 01:37:35,719
Speaker 3: from his last serious relationship, don't leave it up to chance.

1749
01:37:35,960 --> 01:37:39,320
Speaker 3: Don't string someone along him. Bumping into his ex makes

1750
01:37:39,400 --> 01:37:41,479
Speaker 3: him realize he still had feelings for the one that

1751
01:37:41,560 --> 01:37:43,760
Speaker 3: got away, that if he hadn't been so stubborn and

1752
01:37:43,880 --> 01:37:46,280
Speaker 3: slow about getting a ring and making his ex happy,

1753
01:37:46,680 --> 01:37:49,640
Speaker 3: that could have been him again apologize for what he

1754
01:37:49,720 --> 01:37:52,000
Speaker 3: did and told her that some of the things are

1755
01:37:52,080 --> 01:37:55,120
Speaker 3: not meant to be. He keeps telling himself that because

1756
01:37:55,160 --> 01:37:58,320
Speaker 3: it's easier to blame fate and absolve himself about being

1757
01:37:58,400 --> 01:38:02,599
Speaker 3: a crop boyfriend who was wasting her time and ruined

1758
01:38:02,640 --> 01:38:07,320
Speaker 3: the relationship single handily. I'm glad his ex got her happy,

1759
01:38:07,439 --> 01:38:09,639
Speaker 3: ending I'm sorry your marriage is starting to show cracks

1760
01:38:09,680 --> 01:38:12,000
Speaker 3: because your husband may be incapable of love and had

1761
01:38:12,040 --> 01:38:14,800
Speaker 3: a hidden agenda when marrying you. He might have married

1762
01:38:14,840 --> 01:38:16,960
Speaker 3: you to prove to his ex he could commit, like

1763
01:38:17,040 --> 01:38:19,960
Speaker 3: when he texted her about the engagement, rather than because

1764
01:38:20,000 --> 01:38:22,560
Speaker 3: of his deep and lasting love for you.

1765
01:38:25,160 --> 01:38:35,639
Speaker 1: Yo, that is real and probably true. WHOA I mean?

1766
01:38:36,080 --> 01:38:40,040
Speaker 1: Imagine reading that as op and you're like, you're telling

1767
01:38:40,200 --> 01:38:45,400
Speaker 1: me he just wanted this to get back at the ex,

1768
01:38:46,160 --> 01:38:49,640
Speaker 1: which why else would he text her out of the

1769
01:38:49,720 --> 01:38:51,560
Speaker 1: ex out of the blue saying like, Hey, I just

1770
01:38:51,640 --> 01:38:55,559
Speaker 1: got married and crying the bathroom after really all all.

1771
01:38:55,520 --> 01:38:59,120
Speaker 3: Of these things, it is. It would be weird if

1772
01:38:59,400 --> 01:39:03,040
Speaker 3: I had an ex reach out when they got married.

1773
01:39:03,439 --> 01:39:05,960
Speaker 3: I think that would be weird, right, really weird.

1774
01:39:06,040 --> 01:39:09,800
Speaker 1: The only thing I can see being normal and acceptable

1775
01:39:10,080 --> 01:39:13,719
Speaker 1: is like you've become friends, you've become friends as axes,

1776
01:39:13,760 --> 01:39:16,880
Speaker 1: and you're like, hey, one, by the way, an idiot married, Yeah,

1777
01:39:17,040 --> 01:39:19,479
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get married, or like, I don't know if

1778
01:39:19,880 --> 01:39:21,400
Speaker 1: you're at that point, do you want to come to

1779
01:39:21,479 --> 01:39:22,280
Speaker 1: the wedding or whatever?

1780
01:39:22,400 --> 01:39:25,000
Speaker 10: But I do think if you're the ex, you like

1781
01:39:25,160 --> 01:39:29,000
Speaker 10: respond to that. Like if one of your exes texts

1782
01:39:29,080 --> 01:39:31,960
Speaker 10: you that you know they're getting married, and I.

1783
01:39:32,000 --> 01:39:35,800
Speaker 1: Think you were just I would ignore it. Stupid good

1784
01:39:35,960 --> 01:39:36,799
Speaker 1: question Clinton.

1785
01:39:37,080 --> 01:39:39,600
Speaker 4: Yes there's nothing he can't do.

1786
01:39:40,600 --> 01:39:41,719
Speaker 1: Good question Clinton.

1787
01:39:43,280 --> 01:39:47,200
Speaker 3: But yeah, I think I think, yeah, I think you

1788
01:39:47,200 --> 01:39:50,439
Speaker 3: wouldn't respond to that, which it seems like the ex

1789
01:39:50,520 --> 01:39:51,400
Speaker 3: hasn't been responding.

1790
01:39:51,439 --> 01:39:54,000
Speaker 1: He's just been sending no. She's probably just trying to

1791
01:39:54,040 --> 01:39:55,680
Speaker 1: live her life. She's like, I was with you for

1792
01:39:55,800 --> 01:39:57,280
Speaker 1: nine years. He didn't want to get married to me,

1793
01:39:57,680 --> 01:40:00,479
Speaker 1: So now I'm out here and I'm you're gonna have

1794
01:40:00,520 --> 01:40:03,000
Speaker 1: a kid with this guy, and like have a good relationship. Yeah,

1795
01:40:03,080 --> 01:40:03,400
Speaker 1: sue me.

1796
01:40:03,880 --> 01:40:08,800
Speaker 3: Wait, is Opie pregnant? The Yeah, No, I think it's

1797
01:40:08,920 --> 01:40:12,200
Speaker 3: I think it's uh, his ex, That's what I was saying,

1798
01:40:12,240 --> 01:40:14,560
Speaker 3: his ex. Yeah, she was pregnant and holding hands with

1799
01:40:14,600 --> 01:40:16,760
Speaker 3: a kid that could be seven or eight years old.

1800
01:40:16,880 --> 01:40:22,639
Speaker 3: That's what I was Yeah, I don't think op is pregnant.

1801
01:40:22,760 --> 01:40:25,960
Speaker 1: I was saying it was the X. Yeah. No, but someone,

1802
01:40:26,240 --> 01:40:27,320
Speaker 1: Oh are they pregnant?

1803
01:40:28,320 --> 01:40:29,960
Speaker 4: Also? I just wanted to point out that we are

1804
01:40:30,040 --> 01:40:31,120
Speaker 4: at another thirty minute.

1805
01:40:31,479 --> 01:40:33,799
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, wait, we need to read out some dons.

1806
01:40:33,880 --> 01:40:35,439
Speaker 1: Yeah we are crazy.

1807
01:40:36,000 --> 01:40:39,879
Speaker 3: Chris tinfoil hot Chris ten gifted memberships.

1808
01:40:39,920 --> 01:40:42,240
Speaker 1: Oh you thought you thought Christmas done? Oh you we

1809
01:40:42,320 --> 01:40:46,040
Speaker 1: thought it was over? No another ten gifted memberships? Oh

1810
01:40:46,200 --> 01:40:46,599
Speaker 1: you thought?

1811
01:40:47,120 --> 01:40:48,400
Speaker 3: Oh no, probably no of our domo.

1812
01:40:49,400 --> 01:40:50,560
Speaker 1: No, who else is gonna don't you?

1813
01:40:51,040 --> 01:40:51,320
Speaker 9: No? No?

1814
01:40:51,560 --> 01:40:53,120
Speaker 3: Don't pigeons eat worms?

1815
01:40:53,320 --> 01:40:53,880
Speaker 1: Yes they do.

1816
01:40:54,240 --> 01:40:57,920
Speaker 3: Five dollars tip. Please get that yawn checked out. Excessive

1817
01:40:58,080 --> 01:41:02,280
Speaker 3: yawn be indicative of anything. Cardiac issues among them? John,

1818
01:41:02,320 --> 01:41:03,080
Speaker 3: you could be dying.

1819
01:41:03,160 --> 01:41:04,439
Speaker 1: I've always yawned a lot.

1820
01:41:04,960 --> 01:41:07,599
Speaker 3: No, I think it could be death. Get that checked out.

1821
01:41:07,680 --> 01:41:09,120
Speaker 2: Maybe maybe death.

1822
01:41:09,520 --> 01:41:12,960
Speaker 1: What if it's death? This is what I think.

1823
01:41:13,920 --> 01:41:17,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, Oh my god, you're like that guy in Greek

1824
01:41:17,800 --> 01:41:21,840
Speaker 4: mythology who drops death and then he like lives forever,

1825
01:41:22,000 --> 01:41:24,519
Speaker 4: but then death escapes and then he's sent to hell.

1826
01:41:25,040 --> 01:41:29,680
Speaker 3: Honestly, it feels like you have a sword of Democles

1827
01:41:29,800 --> 01:41:32,360
Speaker 3: hanging over your head right now, and something bad is

1828
01:41:32,400 --> 01:41:33,120
Speaker 3: about to happen.

1829
01:41:33,240 --> 01:41:37,080
Speaker 1: Classic Democles, classic Crab. Maybe I was literally thinking of

1830
01:41:37,120 --> 01:41:39,080
Speaker 1: that tame song. But what is about to happen is

1831
01:41:39,520 --> 01:41:45,919
Speaker 1: uh or Layla Layla donating five gifted memberships. Let's breaking

1832
01:41:46,080 --> 01:41:49,160
Speaker 1: go Layla Ben Timon, Leayla Ben Simon. Thank you. I

1833
01:41:49,800 --> 01:41:52,040
Speaker 1: need some help there, Tony q ten, thanks for the

1834
01:41:52,120 --> 01:41:57,000
Speaker 1: five bucks on the donalink. Clinton, my family is from guahero.

1835
01:41:57,280 --> 01:41:59,680
Speaker 1: Did I say it right? Fucked it up? So right

1836
01:41:59,800 --> 01:42:01,479
Speaker 1: next to uh me.

1837
01:42:07,080 --> 01:42:07,960
Speaker 2: Shout out Mexico.

1838
01:42:08,200 --> 01:42:10,519
Speaker 3: Boom, what part of Mexico are you from?

1839
01:42:12,960 --> 01:42:13,960
Speaker 4: We just established.

1840
01:42:15,640 --> 01:42:19,080
Speaker 2: Oh the more you know, the more you know.

1841
01:42:21,880 --> 01:42:22,439
Speaker 1: I'm sorry.

1842
01:42:27,800 --> 01:42:30,600
Speaker 3: Thanks for the five It's cool that someone else is

1843
01:42:30,680 --> 01:42:31,920
Speaker 3: from his Oka.

1844
01:42:34,040 --> 01:42:35,640
Speaker 2: He already says, next to it.

1845
01:42:39,400 --> 01:42:53,759
Speaker 1: From you didn't understand twice in a row. My god, here, guys,

1846
01:42:54,080 --> 01:42:55,040
Speaker 1: who's back?

1847
01:42:56,640 --> 01:43:01,639
Speaker 3: Riley Wilson and the chare you'll.

1848
01:43:01,479 --> 01:43:07,880
Speaker 1: Still alive to bed, going to bed on Tuesday. No way,

1849
01:43:08,160 --> 01:43:12,519
Speaker 1: doggo what if I have issues? Riley? Yeah, righty, you

1850
01:43:12,560 --> 01:43:15,479
Speaker 1: gotta come back. We've been nerving it, hot dog. I

1851
01:43:15,560 --> 01:43:15,920
Speaker 1: miss you.

1852
01:43:16,080 --> 01:43:16,680
Speaker 3: We all miss you.

1853
01:43:16,800 --> 01:43:18,560
Speaker 1: I think I broke this thing. That's okay, what do

1854
01:43:18,600 --> 01:43:19,880
Speaker 1: you mean the thing?

1855
01:43:20,200 --> 01:43:20,720
Speaker 2: I'll fix it.

1856
01:43:22,040 --> 01:43:26,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh it's not broken. Just kidding. Yeah, you just

1857
01:43:26,840 --> 01:43:29,479
Speaker 1: have to clip it in to do that. Sierra.

1858
01:43:29,720 --> 01:43:31,640
Speaker 3: Thanks for the five buck tip, the first stream in

1859
01:43:31,720 --> 01:43:33,760
Speaker 3: a while. Just started a new job and finishing up

1860
01:43:33,800 --> 01:43:38,200
Speaker 3: my second to last class for my MBA.

1861
01:43:38,880 --> 01:43:40,920
Speaker 1: This will keep me going. Let's go, Sierra.

1862
01:43:41,120 --> 01:43:42,479
Speaker 2: We love people who get educated.

1863
01:43:42,760 --> 01:43:45,719
Speaker 1: That true, except for me. I hate education. John dropped

1864
01:43:45,760 --> 01:43:47,880
Speaker 1: out shout out to Jess. I mean as for the

1865
01:43:48,040 --> 01:43:50,639
Speaker 1: twenty dollars donation on super Chat.

1866
01:43:50,680 --> 01:43:58,320
Speaker 3: Wait, did we miss something? No, we didn't. Let's go,

1867
01:43:59,479 --> 01:44:03,840
Speaker 3: let's free, can go. What is this new nerve stuff?

1868
01:44:03,920 --> 01:44:07,639
Speaker 3: Riley says, Oh, it's nothing, it's nothing.

1869
01:44:07,800 --> 01:44:08,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, to be here.

1870
01:44:09,160 --> 01:44:13,000
Speaker 4: You were here, yeah inside, Yeah, you didn't really get it.

1871
01:44:13,040 --> 01:44:15,599
Speaker 3: Honestly, honestly, you've missed so much.

1872
01:44:15,760 --> 01:44:17,000
Speaker 4: It's kind of like a household thing.

1873
01:44:17,760 --> 01:44:20,400
Speaker 2: When Riley comes back, we should just bombard him.

1874
01:44:20,640 --> 01:44:22,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, Clinton's actually living in your.

1875
01:44:22,720 --> 01:44:31,080
Speaker 1: Room, right, who's Riley? What?

1876
01:44:31,640 --> 01:44:31,960
Speaker 2: Hold on?

1877
01:44:32,320 --> 01:44:32,360
Speaker 9: No?

1878
01:44:32,520 --> 01:44:34,760
Speaker 1: Riley? We miss you, we miss you. Yeah, hearts and

1879
01:44:34,760 --> 01:44:39,639
Speaker 1: the chat for Riley. Look at all this stuff.

1880
01:44:39,800 --> 01:44:42,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, we got a new cow Riley and where

1881
01:44:42,880 --> 01:44:44,679
Speaker 3: we're completely redesigning the studio.

1882
01:44:44,800 --> 01:44:46,479
Speaker 4: We completely redesigned everything.

1883
01:44:46,640 --> 01:44:48,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, everything has changed. Everything is changed.

1884
01:44:48,760 --> 01:44:50,720
Speaker 3: You're gonna come back, and honestly, the studio might be

1885
01:44:51,120 --> 01:44:52,840
Speaker 3: like unrecognizable, that is true.

1886
01:44:53,000 --> 01:44:56,719
Speaker 1: But you know what is unrecognizable? What the donation feed?

1887
01:44:56,800 --> 01:45:00,840
Speaker 1: Because carly D just donated fifty freaking bucker.

1888
01:45:00,520 --> 01:45:04,280
Speaker 3: Rooney's carly De. I am a longtime watcher since the

1889
01:45:04,400 --> 01:45:05,880
Speaker 3: days of Only.

1890
01:45:05,720 --> 01:45:08,719
Speaker 1: Sam and John. I love the glory days, the glory

1891
01:45:08,840 --> 01:45:11,040
Speaker 1: days we were strong.

1892
01:45:15,160 --> 01:45:16,360
Speaker 4: I don't think there was ever a.

1893
01:45:16,479 --> 01:45:28,000
Speaker 1: Time strong strong. I want to read, Okay, that's how

1894
01:45:28,000 --> 01:45:31,240
Speaker 1: I imagine some of these people stories. Anyways, I love

1895
01:45:31,280 --> 01:45:33,880
Speaker 1: how the show has evolved and the family has grown too.

1896
01:45:34,240 --> 01:45:37,000
Speaker 1: I joined the live stream tonight during the musical chaos,

1897
01:45:37,080 --> 01:45:39,640
Speaker 1: and the smiles that it brought to me deserves my

1898
01:45:39,800 --> 01:45:42,600
Speaker 1: first chat appearance, carly D.

1899
01:45:43,280 --> 01:45:44,560
Speaker 4: And what an appearance it is.

1900
01:45:46,160 --> 01:45:54,240
Speaker 1: My god one in the sky for you, Ba. Yes,

1901
01:45:55,680 --> 01:45:56,960
Speaker 1: I like how you can see.

1902
01:45:56,800 --> 01:45:59,479
Speaker 4: Them like shoot past the camera there.

1903
01:46:00,280 --> 01:46:03,759
Speaker 3: It's like, oh, but we're not done with this story.

1904
01:46:04,160 --> 01:46:08,400
Speaker 3: Wait what I just stopped in the middle of this update. So,

1905
01:46:09,479 --> 01:46:16,880
Speaker 3: uh update seven hours later? Wow, hi again, I hope

1906
01:46:16,920 --> 01:46:20,080
Speaker 3: you read this, referring to the comment from uncle ned

1907
01:46:20,240 --> 01:46:24,439
Speaker 3: is dead, which is the comment that we read before.

1908
01:46:25,080 --> 01:46:25,960
Speaker 4: Oh snap.

1909
01:46:27,040 --> 01:46:30,960
Speaker 3: So I showed my husband this comment and I told

1910
01:46:31,040 --> 01:46:34,120
Speaker 3: him that this was basically how I feel things were

1911
01:46:34,760 --> 01:46:39,880
Speaker 3: by that someone else wrote it better. Yes, First he

1912
01:46:40,000 --> 01:46:44,679
Speaker 3: got upset and defensive. Then he started arguing and telling

1913
01:46:44,720 --> 01:46:46,519
Speaker 3: me to leave him alone. I have for a week

1914
01:46:46,680 --> 01:46:50,200
Speaker 3: been nothing but supportive and leaving him alone. Then he

1915
01:46:50,320 --> 01:46:54,439
Speaker 3: started crying and asked to read again. He sat silent

1916
01:46:55,760 --> 01:47:00,120
Speaker 3: for like fifteen minutes of reading, but not once did

1917
01:47:00,160 --> 01:47:03,400
Speaker 3: he deny or try to deny it, or call me crazy,

1918
01:47:04,400 --> 01:47:09,040
Speaker 3: or at least tried to explain. If I know myself,

1919
01:47:09,600 --> 01:47:13,439
Speaker 3: this is over. I don't play second fiddle, I don't

1920
01:47:13,479 --> 01:47:17,360
Speaker 3: do consolation prize, and I absolutely am not going to

1921
01:47:17,479 --> 01:47:21,479
Speaker 3: have another women be being the main character in my

1922
01:47:21,600 --> 01:47:24,519
Speaker 3: own story. So I told him this was over and

1923
01:47:24,600 --> 01:47:27,400
Speaker 3: that I need a break to sort out my feelings,

1924
01:47:27,680 --> 01:47:30,479
Speaker 3: but this will eventually end in divorce because I know

1925
01:47:30,600 --> 01:47:36,479
Speaker 3: myself very well. He didn't say anything anything, just sat silent.

1926
01:47:37,160 --> 01:47:37,960
Speaker 1: I know his type.

1927
01:47:38,400 --> 01:47:41,240
Speaker 3: The only way he will realize my worth is when

1928
01:47:41,280 --> 01:47:44,840
Speaker 3: he has lost me, just like he did his exep.

1929
01:47:45,640 --> 01:47:48,559
Speaker 3: People like him are frugal with their feelings. He strung

1930
01:47:48,640 --> 01:47:51,240
Speaker 3: her along because he didn't want to give her all

1931
01:47:51,320 --> 01:47:53,559
Speaker 3: of him, and he turned around and gave me exactly

1932
01:47:53,640 --> 01:47:57,160
Speaker 3: what she wanted, but deprived me from exactly what I

1933
01:47:57,360 --> 01:48:00,680
Speaker 3: wanted that he gave her. Men like him him will

1934
01:48:00,800 --> 01:48:03,720
Speaker 3: never give all of themselves because he probably thinks he

1935
01:48:03,720 --> 01:48:06,680
Speaker 3: would lose control if he gave all of him to

1936
01:48:06,800 --> 01:48:13,080
Speaker 3: a woman. What a waste of a man, dude.

1937
01:48:14,479 --> 01:48:17,560
Speaker 1: Everything is just falling apart right now. It really is.

1938
01:48:18,439 --> 01:48:20,519
Speaker 1: What a waste of a man. I mean, honestly, a

1939
01:48:20,720 --> 01:48:23,920
Speaker 1: waste of dude. Imagine how sick and depraved you have

1940
01:48:24,040 --> 01:48:28,000
Speaker 1: to be to first, like, date someone for nine years

1941
01:48:28,040 --> 01:48:30,880
Speaker 1: and I guess like hold you know, hold the marriage,

1942
01:48:31,120 --> 01:48:33,680
Speaker 1: or someone to clean up that that sushi that just

1943
01:48:33,760 --> 01:48:38,519
Speaker 1: fell with with a wipe as well.

1944
01:48:39,680 --> 01:48:41,840
Speaker 3: There are cleaning supplies downstairs.

1945
01:48:42,680 --> 01:48:42,760
Speaker 1: And.

1946
01:48:46,400 --> 01:48:47,120
Speaker 4: Yeah put them in.

1947
01:48:47,960 --> 01:48:52,680
Speaker 1: Look at that first the first to do that, the

1948
01:48:52,800 --> 01:48:55,439
Speaker 1: nine years for the first, for the first partner, then

1949
01:48:55,520 --> 01:49:01,080
Speaker 1: the second person. You're revenge marrying because that's they were

1950
01:49:01,840 --> 01:49:06,439
Speaker 1: going to get married. Yeah, revenge marrying is revenge marrying

1951
01:49:06,600 --> 01:49:10,679
Speaker 1: is crazy. To be honest, I am not currently recalling

1952
01:49:10,760 --> 01:49:12,680
Speaker 1: a time that that is a story where that has

1953
01:49:12,720 --> 01:49:15,720
Speaker 1: happened on the show exploited. I have to I have

1954
01:49:15,800 --> 01:49:18,840
Speaker 1: to imagine it has, but I'm I mean, it's not

1955
01:49:19,040 --> 01:49:23,880
Speaker 1: recalling a specific instance, you know what I mean.

1956
01:49:24,560 --> 01:49:30,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, thanks Clinton, appreciate you. Yeah, I feel I mean,

1957
01:49:30,400 --> 01:49:33,920
Speaker 3: I don't know if it's quite revenge marrying, but that

1958
01:49:34,240 --> 01:49:36,880
Speaker 3: I think that's this that the underlying psychology.

1959
01:49:37,840 --> 01:49:39,519
Speaker 1: I feel like this is revenge Mary.

1960
01:49:41,080 --> 01:49:42,639
Speaker 3: I don't think he's doing it. I don't think he's

1961
01:49:42,680 --> 01:49:44,679
Speaker 3: doing I don't think he's thinking I'm going to marry

1962
01:49:44,760 --> 01:49:47,439
Speaker 3: this person as revenge. But I think it's very much

1963
01:49:47,479 --> 01:49:50,960
Speaker 3: what the comment was like, where it's like he's trying

1964
01:49:51,120 --> 01:49:56,519
Speaker 3: to uh do what he can with everything that went

1965
01:49:56,600 --> 01:49:58,519
Speaker 3: on with like the last relationship, be trying to give

1966
01:49:58,720 --> 01:50:01,760
Speaker 3: this person what he didn't in the last one. But

1967
01:50:02,800 --> 01:50:05,400
Speaker 3: he's like kind of doing it not for this partner,

1968
01:50:05,479 --> 01:50:08,479
Speaker 3: but for this other partner. I don't think he knows

1969
01:50:09,320 --> 01:50:10,479
Speaker 3: that he is.

1970
01:50:10,840 --> 01:50:11,960
Speaker 1: He's not doing it consciously.

1971
01:50:11,960 --> 01:50:14,640
Speaker 3: I don't think he's doing it consciously, which is not

1972
01:50:14,720 --> 01:50:17,320
Speaker 3: it's not necessarily that it's like any better.

1973
01:50:17,680 --> 01:50:22,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, but and this is a conspiracy still, but I

1974
01:50:23,680 --> 01:50:28,280
Speaker 1: I kind of believe that this is true.

1975
01:50:28,800 --> 01:50:31,360
Speaker 4: Okay, it wasn't my best to be clear.

1976
01:50:32,840 --> 01:50:40,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, to be clear, drop all over the ground.

1977
01:50:40,920 --> 01:50:44,280
Speaker 2: Can I I just left it there? Can I explain

1978
01:50:44,360 --> 01:50:49,000
Speaker 2: the truth? D I was fixing the camera angle.

1979
01:50:49,120 --> 01:50:51,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's true because Riley texted me and said, you

1980
01:50:51,320 --> 01:50:52,120
Speaker 4: look horrible.

1981
01:50:54,360 --> 01:50:55,680
Speaker 1: But I can't actually use the.

1982
01:50:55,720 --> 01:50:57,880
Speaker 4: Light anymore because there are a new monitor set.

1983
01:50:57,800 --> 01:51:01,320
Speaker 10: Upright which I set up. Yeah, I was moving moving

1984
01:51:01,360 --> 01:51:03,559
Speaker 10: the TV back because I knew that's how it worked.

1985
01:51:04,120 --> 01:51:06,599
Speaker 3: And there's a TV over there, I mean the monitor.

1986
01:51:06,800 --> 01:51:09,720
Speaker 10: But and then the sushi was just on the edge

1987
01:51:09,720 --> 01:51:13,760
Speaker 10: of the table and one piece was a ginger. No

1988
01:51:13,840 --> 01:51:15,840
Speaker 10: one was even gonna eat this piece. First of all,

1989
01:51:16,479 --> 01:51:18,559
Speaker 10: it just happened. Happened to fall on the floor.

1990
01:51:18,960 --> 01:51:19,280
Speaker 4: Happened.

1991
01:51:19,720 --> 01:51:22,000
Speaker 10: And right as I go to clean it up, I

1992
01:51:22,120 --> 01:51:24,880
Speaker 10: get I get pushed with comments saying how I needed

1993
01:51:24,880 --> 01:51:26,840
Speaker 10: to get cleaning splies and all this stuff, which is

1994
01:51:26,880 --> 01:51:27,560
Speaker 10: what I was gonna do.

1995
01:51:27,960 --> 01:51:29,680
Speaker 2: Get I had the opportunity.

1996
01:51:30,240 --> 01:51:31,439
Speaker 4: Didn't even give him a chance.

1997
01:51:32,080 --> 01:51:40,400
Speaker 1: Sure, Clinton's an okay, jail.

1998
01:51:42,120 --> 01:51:43,680
Speaker 2: Quickly, you go from being number one.

1999
01:51:45,680 --> 01:51:51,800
Speaker 1: How the mighty place appreciate you.

2000
01:51:52,040 --> 01:51:56,519
Speaker 3: Thank you for greeting up your goat. Why y'all bowling

2001
01:51:56,600 --> 01:51:59,160
Speaker 3: the intern because he's a freaking intern.

2002
01:52:01,680 --> 01:52:03,719
Speaker 4: Here, I'm fully on Clinton's side.

2003
01:52:03,800 --> 01:52:06,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, it has actually been the only one who's yeah,

2004
01:52:06,880 --> 01:52:07,479
Speaker 2: helped me here.

2005
01:52:07,680 --> 01:52:10,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, we've just been We've just been using him for

2006
01:52:10,320 --> 01:52:16,080
Speaker 1: target like Clinton, get over here, daddy's gonna practice is

2007
01:52:16,200 --> 01:52:18,040
Speaker 1: shot yesterday.

2008
01:52:18,200 --> 01:52:20,960
Speaker 10: Yesterday it was funny. We Uh, Sam came in and

2009
01:52:21,040 --> 01:52:23,599
Speaker 10: gave me the giant NERF gun. Yeah, okay story, Oh

2010
01:52:23,680 --> 01:52:28,080
Speaker 10: this is this my first, okay story. So Sam came

2011
01:52:28,160 --> 01:52:30,360
Speaker 10: in as I was setting up some stuff in here.

2012
01:52:31,160 --> 01:52:32,160
Speaker 10: Here's this huge gun.

2013
01:52:32,520 --> 01:52:33,120
Speaker 2: You could go to.

2014
01:52:33,240 --> 01:52:37,120
Speaker 10: John and just shoot him with it, I said, Christian,

2015
01:52:37,280 --> 01:52:39,720
Speaker 10: Oh you did say Christian. Yeah, But either way it

2016
01:52:39,800 --> 01:52:41,320
Speaker 10: was it was all the same to me because I

2017
01:52:41,439 --> 01:52:43,000
Speaker 10: was just gonna. I was gonna it was just a.

2018
01:52:43,080 --> 01:52:45,240
Speaker 4: Meat bag that I was using for target practice.

2019
01:52:45,280 --> 01:52:45,639
Speaker 1: Soldier.

2020
01:52:45,960 --> 01:52:46,960
Speaker 2: I was gonna reac havoc.

2021
01:52:47,320 --> 01:52:50,840
Speaker 10: So I got I got the gun, and Sophia came

2022
01:52:50,920 --> 01:52:53,120
Speaker 10: and we started making a shield for me with the

2023
01:52:53,160 --> 01:52:53,880
Speaker 10: cardboard boss.

2024
01:52:53,920 --> 01:52:57,160
Speaker 3: They literally attacked as Sophia and Clinton came from upstairs

2025
01:52:57,520 --> 01:53:00,880
Speaker 3: and it was an all out as saw against me,

2026
01:53:01,120 --> 01:53:03,680
Speaker 3: Christian and John, and we were battling against them.

2027
01:53:04,000 --> 01:53:07,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, and we did win well they they weren't expecting anything.

2028
01:53:09,160 --> 01:53:11,000
Speaker 3: I feel like we I feel like we set you

2029
01:53:11,080 --> 01:53:11,599
Speaker 3: back a little.

2030
01:53:11,760 --> 01:53:14,360
Speaker 4: No, it was a strategic retreat.

2031
01:53:14,520 --> 01:53:15,840
Speaker 2: That's simply not true.

2032
01:53:15,960 --> 01:53:21,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, anyway, I think that's that's the end of that story.

2033
01:53:21,720 --> 01:53:22,559
Speaker 3: That's the end of that story.

2034
01:53:22,680 --> 01:53:26,000
Speaker 1: It is, So do we hear this?

2035
01:53:26,840 --> 01:53:28,160
Speaker 4: Let's freaking do it.

2036
01:53:28,280 --> 01:53:34,600
Speaker 1: Where are we at? S two? S two? Let's go.

2037
01:53:35,479 --> 01:53:41,599
Speaker 1: I've been never queen. All right, strap in boys and girls?

2038
01:53:42,360 --> 01:53:51,360
Speaker 1: Are you ready, Sophia? Ummm uh ready. The act of

2039
01:53:51,439 --> 01:53:53,240
Speaker 1: being prepared for something about.

2040
01:53:53,200 --> 01:53:56,680
Speaker 4: Happened idea when they we're ready.

2041
01:53:57,280 --> 01:54:01,160
Speaker 1: Let's do it. Okay, you know about that?

2042
01:54:01,400 --> 01:54:01,679
Speaker 4: Riley?

2043
01:54:01,840 --> 01:54:02,320
Speaker 1: I already?

2044
01:54:02,400 --> 01:54:07,320
Speaker 3: I okay, sorry, yes, I I already I know Riley.

2045
01:54:07,439 --> 01:54:09,439
Speaker 3: Come on, you think we don't do pillow talk?

2046
01:54:09,600 --> 01:54:10,519
Speaker 2: Is this an okay? Story?

2047
01:54:10,600 --> 01:54:10,760
Speaker 3: Done?

2048
01:54:10,960 --> 01:54:14,080
Speaker 1: I can't. I can't say, I can't. I can't.

2049
01:54:14,560 --> 01:54:16,120
Speaker 3: Riley can't be docks in him like that.

2050
01:54:16,520 --> 01:54:20,680
Speaker 1: Right, He's he's using the chat to hide. Anyways, all right,

2051
01:54:20,800 --> 01:54:23,600
Speaker 1: let's do this. My soon to be husband called me

2052
01:54:23,720 --> 01:54:28,719
Speaker 1: by his assistant's name when they slept together? Is he cheating?

2053
01:54:36,200 --> 01:54:38,600
Speaker 3: I think we wrote that title wrong. I think it's

2054
01:54:39,280 --> 01:54:40,760
Speaker 3: when we waking up?

2055
01:54:40,880 --> 01:54:44,320
Speaker 1: Ye, yes, I think we might need to right, wait,

2056
01:54:44,400 --> 01:54:47,920
Speaker 1: what was it originally? It's it's my my soon to

2057
01:54:48,000 --> 01:54:50,840
Speaker 1: be husband called me by his assistant's name when they

2058
01:54:51,120 --> 01:54:52,120
Speaker 1: slept together.

2059
01:54:55,200 --> 01:55:05,040
Speaker 13: So no, no, you're right, it's when we spoilerler ladies

2060
01:55:05,120 --> 01:55:05,640
Speaker 13: and gentlemen.

2061
01:55:06,080 --> 01:55:06,920
Speaker 4: It's actually not a.

2062
01:55:07,000 --> 01:55:09,800
Speaker 3: Spoiler, you know, when we slept together. Yeah, when it

2063
01:55:09,920 --> 01:55:13,120
Speaker 3: was just its basically like O P and O P

2064
01:55:13,520 --> 01:55:19,520
Speaker 3: and there it is now, yes, very we just it

2065
01:55:19,600 --> 01:55:22,640
Speaker 3: needs to be changed though, I just changed okay with

2066
01:55:22,760 --> 01:55:27,760
Speaker 3: the program sick anyways, this is the Messy Street's run Back.

2067
01:55:28,160 --> 01:55:29,800
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, I'm trying, my pet.

2068
01:55:30,840 --> 01:55:33,200
Speaker 1: It is not just because of you. Yes, and it's

2069
01:55:33,240 --> 01:55:34,040
Speaker 1: messy in a good way.

2070
01:55:35,000 --> 01:55:38,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's so fun and messy. It's like a puddle

2071
01:55:38,160 --> 01:55:39,120
Speaker 4: of a story.

2072
01:55:40,280 --> 01:55:40,480
Speaker 1: Yeah.

2073
01:55:41,920 --> 01:55:43,200
Speaker 3: I do love puddles of much.

2074
01:55:44,120 --> 01:55:50,000
Speaker 1: We all know, all right, All right, hold on, st yeah,

2075
01:55:50,080 --> 01:55:50,360
Speaker 1: let's go.

2076
01:55:50,480 --> 01:55:50,800
Speaker 2: All right.

2077
01:55:51,360 --> 01:55:53,880
Speaker 1: My soon to be husband called me by his ass's

2078
01:55:53,960 --> 01:56:00,400
Speaker 1: name when we slept together? Is he cheating? What I think?

2079
01:56:01,360 --> 01:56:04,720
Speaker 4: Yes, Sophia, what say you?

2080
01:56:06,080 --> 01:56:06,240
Speaker 2: There?

2081
01:56:06,280 --> 01:56:06,480
Speaker 11: We go?

2082
01:56:07,880 --> 01:56:16,080
Speaker 10: Maybe we should give them a chance. I'm just realizing

2083
01:56:16,360 --> 01:56:17,680
Speaker 10: now that I have more and more power.

2084
01:56:18,040 --> 01:56:23,520
Speaker 4: Go back, I'll set all right.

2085
01:56:23,960 --> 01:56:27,160
Speaker 1: So this is answering. The question is thinking about being

2086
01:56:27,240 --> 01:56:30,320
Speaker 1: with someone else while in a relationship beating this kind

2087
01:56:30,320 --> 01:56:37,360
Speaker 1: of okay, yes, this comes from throwaway a q F

2088
01:56:37,400 --> 01:56:40,280
Speaker 1: who says, my significant other and I have been high

2089
01:56:40,280 --> 01:56:43,160
Speaker 1: school sweethearts and we are due to get married this June.

2090
01:56:44,040 --> 01:56:47,880
Speaker 1: We just have a chemistry that works extremely well. Well

2091
01:56:47,920 --> 01:56:56,520
Speaker 1: that's what you thought, ye until you. I love him

2092
01:56:56,800 --> 01:56:59,560
Speaker 1: very much and I know he loves me too, but

2093
01:57:00,080 --> 01:57:03,120
Speaker 1: what he did recently, I am having extreme doubts about

2094
01:57:03,160 --> 01:57:05,240
Speaker 1: his faithfulness. Extreme doubts.

2095
01:57:05,280 --> 01:57:07,720
Speaker 2: You say, do tell.

2096
01:57:09,280 --> 01:57:12,200
Speaker 1: We are we are trying to get pregnant, and we

2097
01:57:12,480 --> 01:57:15,120
Speaker 1: and we have spicy sleep when we had and we

2098
01:57:15,240 --> 01:57:17,680
Speaker 1: had spicy sleep a few days ago, and he called

2099
01:57:17,760 --> 01:57:22,320
Speaker 1: me by his assistant's name right as he got off.

2100
01:57:23,480 --> 01:57:31,520
Speaker 3: Oh that is pretty rough. But maybe maybe the yeah

2101
01:57:31,920 --> 01:57:38,800
Speaker 3: I am, I don't go. I don't know if they're here,

2102
01:57:38,840 --> 01:57:41,600
Speaker 3: we go, here we go, So maybe maybe what's happening

2103
01:57:41,760 --> 01:57:46,160
Speaker 3: to me is right as he's netting, he's like, oh no,

2104
01:57:46,320 --> 01:57:49,160
Speaker 3: I forgot to tell my assisted something. And then and

2105
01:57:49,200 --> 01:57:52,360
Speaker 3: then he's like, oh, Jessica classic.

2106
01:57:52,720 --> 01:57:56,560
Speaker 4: I okay, maybe I misread the story, but I believe

2107
01:57:56,640 --> 01:58:02,720
Speaker 4: it is open. I could be totally wrong, but I

2108
01:58:02,800 --> 01:58:04,480
Speaker 4: think it is important to buy.

2109
01:58:04,760 --> 01:58:06,600
Speaker 1: He called me by his assistance.

2110
01:58:09,440 --> 01:58:11,520
Speaker 3: It's pretty it's pretty bad.

2111
01:58:12,200 --> 01:58:15,400
Speaker 1: I don't know, Sam. I think, guys, there is there more?

2112
01:58:15,920 --> 01:58:16,960
Speaker 1: Is there more dust?

2113
01:58:18,720 --> 01:58:20,240
Speaker 4: Logical dig for truth?

2114
01:58:21,880 --> 01:58:22,520
Speaker 2: Is there more?

2115
01:58:23,480 --> 01:58:26,520
Speaker 1: Is there more clues in this corkboard of mystery that

2116
01:58:26,640 --> 01:58:28,000
Speaker 1: we need to wait? Wait?

2117
01:58:28,160 --> 01:58:31,520
Speaker 2: Hear me out. Yeah, what if the assistants really hot?

2118
01:58:32,400 --> 01:58:32,600
Speaker 1: Yeah?

2119
01:58:32,600 --> 01:58:34,120
Speaker 3: What if she puts the ass in assistance?

2120
01:58:35,280 --> 01:58:39,120
Speaker 4: Now you're sounding like, yeah, what if she's super smart?

2121
01:58:39,560 --> 01:58:42,880
Speaker 3: That's true? What if it's intellectually stimulating.

2122
01:58:42,400 --> 01:58:45,880
Speaker 2: When she's smart and attractive? Whoa? I mean we need

2123
01:58:45,960 --> 01:58:46,480
Speaker 2: to keep reading?

2124
01:58:46,760 --> 01:58:48,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, we need to keep reading. This is too too much.

2125
01:58:49,080 --> 01:58:53,000
Speaker 1: So he immediately got up and apologized and seemed extremely shocked,

2126
01:58:54,640 --> 01:59:01,920
Speaker 1: a perfect sign of innocence. Did I yeah, I think yeah,

2127
01:59:02,160 --> 01:59:04,640
Speaker 1: He's like, dam they might just say that was weird.

2128
01:59:05,720 --> 01:59:09,440
Speaker 1: I was shocked too. It's like sorry, I sneeze right,

2129
01:59:10,880 --> 01:59:13,800
Speaker 1: Oh my god. After that, he has been very apologetic

2130
01:59:13,880 --> 01:59:17,240
Speaker 1: and seemed genuinely remorseful. But I am having difficulty coming

2131
01:59:17,320 --> 01:59:20,160
Speaker 1: around to forgive him. The way he said it to

2132
01:59:20,160 --> 01:59:23,600
Speaker 1: you came across as he was thinking about her. No ship.

2133
01:59:25,560 --> 01:59:28,400
Speaker 1: The only other person I have told about this is

2134
01:59:28,480 --> 01:59:29,560
Speaker 1: my mom and dad.

2135
01:59:30,880 --> 01:59:33,680
Speaker 4: Freudian slip. That's relevant, right?

2136
01:59:34,320 --> 01:59:34,440
Speaker 9: Uh?

2137
01:59:35,320 --> 01:59:36,760
Speaker 1: Is this? Yes?

2138
01:59:37,160 --> 01:59:41,040
Speaker 4: This is a Freudian slip of the of the not

2139
01:59:41,200 --> 01:59:43,880
Speaker 4: of the parents, but of the of of him saying

2140
01:59:43,960 --> 01:59:45,000
Speaker 4: his assistants name.

2141
01:59:45,160 --> 01:59:50,440
Speaker 1: I think so. Yeah? And uh, she thinks that my

2142
01:59:50,560 --> 01:59:53,640
Speaker 1: boyfriend has or currently sleeps with his assistant and that

2143
01:59:53,880 --> 01:59:55,640
Speaker 1: his tongue slipped up.

2144
01:59:56,360 --> 01:59:59,680
Speaker 3: I'm slipping up when he seen his assistant slipping all.

2145
01:59:59,600 --> 02:00:04,520
Speaker 1: Over the Also the fact that you would tell your

2146
02:00:04,840 --> 02:00:06,720
Speaker 1: mom and dad this first.

2147
02:00:08,320 --> 02:00:11,040
Speaker 3: Maybe they're tight. Yeah, I guess maybe they're tight like that.

2148
02:00:11,320 --> 02:00:14,400
Speaker 3: I would want my kid to tell me that you would.

2149
02:00:15,160 --> 02:00:18,480
Speaker 10: Yes, if they're high school sweethearts like this is someone

2150
02:00:18,520 --> 02:00:19,560
Speaker 10: that the parents have known for a.

2151
02:00:19,560 --> 02:00:24,000
Speaker 3: While, I would probably I would probably like if something

2152
02:00:24,040 --> 02:00:24,880
Speaker 3: like this happened, I might.

2153
02:00:25,080 --> 02:00:26,240
Speaker 1: I don't know if I would tell my mom.

2154
02:00:27,400 --> 02:00:29,040
Speaker 4: You absolutely would?

2155
02:00:29,320 --> 02:00:29,640
Speaker 1: You think so?

2156
02:00:30,200 --> 02:00:32,920
Speaker 4: You absolutely would? What don't you tell her?

2157
02:00:33,560 --> 02:00:35,160
Speaker 3: I do tell my parents.

2158
02:00:35,320 --> 02:00:38,200
Speaker 1: Mostly I want to know whose doorstep I gotta show

2159
02:00:38,320 --> 02:00:43,400
Speaker 1: up to. All right, Big Danny Joan is here? No No,

2160
02:00:43,880 --> 02:00:47,720
Speaker 1: that is true. That is true. So I am having

2161
02:00:47,800 --> 02:00:50,840
Speaker 1: doubts because now everything looks suspicious to me. He goes

2162
02:00:50,880 --> 02:00:54,760
Speaker 1: to Dallas once every two weeks, and his assistant accompanies him.

2163
02:00:55,240 --> 02:00:56,600
Speaker 2: How peculiar.

2164
02:00:58,080 --> 02:01:00,760
Speaker 1: They Those are work trips and are paid for by

2165
02:01:00,840 --> 02:01:03,680
Speaker 1: his company. But those are starting to look suspicious to

2166
02:01:03,720 --> 02:01:08,080
Speaker 1: me now, Yeah, no, crab. Not three months ago, I

2167
02:01:08,160 --> 02:01:10,320
Speaker 1: got laid off from work and he asked me, if

2168
02:01:10,440 --> 02:01:13,120
Speaker 1: I want, I could stay at home. Thence we are

2169
02:01:13,240 --> 02:01:14,720
Speaker 1: trying to have a child and I could be a

2170
02:01:14,760 --> 02:01:17,280
Speaker 1: stay at home mom. Now I don't know if I

2171
02:01:17,280 --> 02:01:19,280
Speaker 1: should depend on him or try to get a job

2172
02:01:19,800 --> 02:01:23,080
Speaker 1: or not. My life is just filled with confusion all

2173
02:01:23,200 --> 02:01:27,520
Speaker 1: of the sudden. Honestly, just real quick in this story,

2174
02:01:27,640 --> 02:01:33,080
Speaker 1: stop trying to have a kid immediately, right before this

2175
02:01:33,240 --> 02:01:36,560
Speaker 1: is resolved. Oh yeah, immediately, because you don't want to

2176
02:01:36,600 --> 02:01:40,120
Speaker 1: be tied to this person forever, if exactly, if they

2177
02:01:40,440 --> 02:01:43,120
Speaker 1: just keep running and cheating on you. Honestly, I didn't

2178
02:01:43,120 --> 02:01:45,000
Speaker 1: think he would ever cheat on me. But I can't

2179
02:01:45,040 --> 02:01:48,000
Speaker 1: think of a reason why someone would say someone else's

2180
02:01:48,120 --> 02:01:55,080
Speaker 1: name after Spicyes. Hey you guys doing over there? Clinton?

2181
02:01:55,680 --> 02:02:00,640
Speaker 2: Good? God, we're good, We're good, all right?

2182
02:02:00,800 --> 02:02:05,360
Speaker 1: So do. His explanation is that he was thinking about

2183
02:02:05,400 --> 02:02:10,720
Speaker 1: work and that is why his assistance name slipped up.

2184
02:02:11,480 --> 02:02:14,680
Speaker 3: And everyone knows that right before you nut, you're thinking

2185
02:02:14,720 --> 02:02:16,120
Speaker 3: about work, ladies.

2186
02:02:15,840 --> 02:02:24,280
Speaker 1: And gentlemen, Little Samuel. Time, mate, make a pole. Let's

2187
02:02:24,280 --> 02:02:26,200
Speaker 1: make a pole. Is Sam right?

2188
02:02:26,640 --> 02:02:26,840
Speaker 2: Yes?

2189
02:02:27,160 --> 02:02:27,200
Speaker 1: No?

2190
02:02:28,960 --> 02:02:32,120
Speaker 4: Right, yes, no, he need a pole.

2191
02:02:33,720 --> 02:02:35,000
Speaker 2: We have to have a pole.

2192
02:02:35,800 --> 02:02:40,080
Speaker 1: Oh, my goodness, gracious? Is Sam right or not? So?

2193
02:02:40,240 --> 02:02:43,280
Speaker 1: Once again to remind you, good folks at home. Sam

2194
02:02:43,680 --> 02:02:49,000
Speaker 1: theory Sam's golden theories that he is so focused on

2195
02:02:49,240 --> 02:02:55,960
Speaker 1: providing for his soon to be family in the throes

2196
02:02:56,000 --> 02:03:00,320
Speaker 1: of passion, right as he climaxes with his with his

2197
02:03:00,560 --> 02:03:05,120
Speaker 1: uh wife, Yeah, with his wife, he's trying to impregnate

2198
02:03:05,280 --> 02:03:09,520
Speaker 1: with their child. He see his money on his mind,

2199
02:03:09,600 --> 02:03:15,960
Speaker 1: man on his mind. He exclaims the name, and then

2200
02:03:16,080 --> 02:03:18,760
Speaker 1: you know, maybe whispers, you know, I'll check out the

2201
02:03:18,760 --> 02:03:23,320
Speaker 1: spreadsheets tomorrow. It's it's unknown, but uh, that was the

2202
02:03:23,400 --> 02:03:25,520
Speaker 1: reason for him. You know, he had he had money

2203
02:03:25,560 --> 02:03:30,080
Speaker 1: on his mind. Yeah, it sounds right. Literally after.

2204
02:03:32,240 --> 02:03:33,880
Speaker 4: He's morning for the excel.

2205
02:03:36,520 --> 02:03:39,280
Speaker 3: Lost my click lost like honey, click click click it

2206
02:03:39,400 --> 02:03:47,960
Speaker 3: lost like Oddy, that's so good, lost, Like he's horny

2207
02:03:48,040 --> 02:03:49,480
Speaker 3: for these Oh.

2208
02:03:49,920 --> 02:03:51,680
Speaker 1: My god, well.

2209
02:03:53,000 --> 02:03:57,480
Speaker 4: So parent tips Riley.

2210
02:04:01,400 --> 02:04:05,560
Speaker 3: Sam, we miss you though thanks to the five bucks question.

2211
02:04:06,920 --> 02:04:09,839
Speaker 3: Would y'all be comfy hearing from my room.

2212
02:04:14,400 --> 02:04:16,400
Speaker 4: Like Sam or John's name?

2213
02:04:23,240 --> 02:04:27,160
Speaker 3: Look, it is like it is a similar context.

2214
02:04:29,240 --> 02:04:34,080
Speaker 1: Riley right before Yes, and they're like, wait, y'all, that's

2215
02:04:34,160 --> 02:04:35,200
Speaker 1: your boss's name.

2216
02:04:35,360 --> 02:04:37,440
Speaker 4: Okay, But the thing is that they wouldn't hear it.

2217
02:04:37,880 --> 02:04:39,960
Speaker 2: I would will technically would be me right.

2218
02:04:41,080 --> 02:04:41,680
Speaker 1: I guess.

2219
02:04:43,080 --> 02:04:46,000
Speaker 4: I was about to say, if it's like the assistant, Yeah,

2220
02:04:47,160 --> 02:04:48,240
Speaker 4: full parallel here.

2221
02:04:48,880 --> 02:04:52,000
Speaker 1: I mean Clinton was watching his car, got hold on

2222
02:04:55,480 --> 02:04:58,560
Speaker 1: you miss watching drinking.

2223
02:04:58,800 --> 02:05:01,120
Speaker 2: I really need to set up that four monitor system.

2224
02:05:03,160 --> 02:05:06,880
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, just you can pull it down, Clinton,

2225
02:05:06,920 --> 02:05:12,200
Speaker 1: You'll be through to like, go Tom, It's okay Clinton.

2226
02:05:12,360 --> 02:05:14,200
Speaker 1: Clinton does not deserve to be comfortable.

2227
02:05:14,280 --> 02:05:17,920
Speaker 4: Yet the mic doesn't reach that far.

2228
02:05:21,080 --> 02:05:23,120
Speaker 3: I see Clinton's earning press.

2229
02:05:23,520 --> 02:05:25,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is perfect.

2230
02:05:25,120 --> 02:05:27,040
Speaker 1: One day you'll have one day you will have a

2231
02:05:27,120 --> 02:05:30,200
Speaker 1: mic that you can move at your leisure. But that

2232
02:05:30,400 --> 02:05:34,040
Speaker 1: is not today's soldier. You have to earn that anyway. Okay,

2233
02:05:34,080 --> 02:05:36,520
Speaker 1: let's get back to this on the job. We got

2234
02:05:36,560 --> 02:05:39,560
Speaker 1: a few minutes left, okay, So what he has tried

2235
02:05:39,600 --> 02:05:43,720
Speaker 1: to fix things, but they don't seem good enough for

2236
02:05:44,080 --> 02:05:51,520
Speaker 1: some reason. What reason, we may never know. He told me,

2237
02:06:06,840 --> 02:06:10,160
Speaker 1: he told me, he told me. He told me, if

2238
02:06:10,200 --> 02:06:12,800
Speaker 1: I want, I can go through his phone or his computer.

2239
02:06:13,280 --> 02:06:17,480
Speaker 1: And I did, but I didn't find I mean, if

2240
02:06:17,480 --> 02:06:21,040
Speaker 1: she's a real good assistant, she also covers their honestly.

2241
02:06:22,120 --> 02:06:26,160
Speaker 1: Oh hey, Jessica, can you delete my surgestory things? Thanksape,

2242
02:06:26,320 --> 02:06:26,920
Speaker 1: Thanks babe.

2243
02:06:27,440 --> 02:06:29,760
Speaker 4: She's got that thing that Leanne has where she can

2244
02:06:29,840 --> 02:06:30,760
Speaker 4: access the computer.

2245
02:06:31,040 --> 02:06:35,440
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's true, Leanne.

2246
02:06:35,440 --> 02:06:38,280
Speaker 4: One time, don't but don't shout out Leanne.

2247
02:06:42,600 --> 02:06:46,960
Speaker 1: Sophia. Nice work, nice work. You are officially one of

2248
02:06:47,000 --> 02:06:53,600
Speaker 1: the boys today. You become a man today. You could

2249
02:06:53,640 --> 02:06:56,480
Speaker 1: adjust your like you learned that.

2250
02:06:56,800 --> 02:06:57,320
Speaker 2: That's right.

2251
02:06:58,120 --> 02:07:03,240
Speaker 1: Okay, So I want to trust him, I really do,

2252
02:07:04,400 --> 02:07:09,160
Speaker 1: but it feels foolish, fuugh to me to do so. Now.

2253
02:07:10,120 --> 02:07:13,360
Speaker 1: My mom thinks he is one hundred percent cheating, while

2254
02:07:13,440 --> 02:07:16,400
Speaker 1: my dad agrees. He also thinks that it could be

2255
02:07:16,480 --> 02:07:19,600
Speaker 1: a mistake and I should make sure before I end

2256
02:07:19,640 --> 02:07:25,560
Speaker 1: the relationship. Dad's like, yeah, I remember them days old

2257
02:07:26,040 --> 02:07:28,680
Speaker 1: Sarah and the assistant back in the seventies. What can

2258
02:07:28,760 --> 02:07:31,960
Speaker 1: I say? I just changed My wife's name is Sarah. Yeah,

2259
02:07:32,760 --> 02:07:33,480
Speaker 1: it was all good.

2260
02:07:36,200 --> 02:07:39,080
Speaker 3: That's why I always get it assisted with the same

2261
02:07:39,240 --> 02:07:40,200
Speaker 3: name as my wife.

2262
02:07:41,360 --> 02:07:44,480
Speaker 1: Oh my god, he does he does think that I

2263
02:07:44,520 --> 02:07:47,080
Speaker 1: should be He does think that I should one hundred

2264
02:07:47,080 --> 02:07:49,360
Speaker 1: percent be mad at him, even if it was a

2265
02:07:49,440 --> 02:07:53,040
Speaker 1: slip up. W Dad over here. I don't know what

2266
02:07:53,240 --> 02:07:55,960
Speaker 1: to do with us being so close to getting married.

2267
02:07:56,400 --> 02:08:02,200
Speaker 1: Advice please, we have some comments. We have some comments

2268
02:08:02,240 --> 02:08:04,000
Speaker 1: in an update. I I kind of want to keep

2269
02:08:04,040 --> 02:08:08,800
Speaker 1: going because I that's important. Let's do it all right,

2270
02:08:08,920 --> 02:08:14,880
Speaker 1: so relevant comments doctor and ndb Uh, Well, I can

2271
02:08:14,960 --> 02:08:18,240
Speaker 1: tell him for sure that if he works with colleges

2272
02:08:18,320 --> 02:08:22,160
Speaker 1: a lot. But well, I can tell for sure that

2273
02:08:22,240 --> 02:08:26,120
Speaker 1: he works with colleges a lot, it can happen. Does

2274
02:08:26,240 --> 02:08:27,840
Speaker 1: this and Jessica.

2275
02:08:29,120 --> 02:08:30,640
Speaker 4: Maybe they meant to say colleagues.

2276
02:08:32,320 --> 02:08:34,200
Speaker 1: Well, I can tell for sure that if he works

2277
02:08:34,240 --> 02:08:36,000
Speaker 1: with colleagues a lot, it can happen.

2278
02:08:36,600 --> 02:08:36,720
Speaker 9: Uh.

2279
02:08:37,720 --> 02:08:42,240
Speaker 1: Does does this and that? Jessica? Do you send reports? Jessica?

2280
02:08:42,960 --> 02:08:43,840
Speaker 1: When you do all?

2281
02:08:44,200 --> 02:08:44,320
Speaker 2: Uh?

2282
02:08:47,600 --> 02:08:50,280
Speaker 1: When you do this? Wait, so this commentary is like, yeah,

2283
02:08:50,320 --> 02:08:52,760
Speaker 1: happens all the time. Yeah, yeah, when you do this

2284
02:08:52,920 --> 02:08:56,560
Speaker 1: all day, it can come out automatically. Yeah. The amount

2285
02:08:56,600 --> 02:08:58,560
Speaker 1: of times I've screamed John in bed.

2286
02:08:58,840 --> 02:09:11,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's Jessica. I'm gonna come. I'm gonna come straight

2287
02:09:11,200 --> 02:09:12,080
Speaker 4: to this meeting.

2288
02:09:14,040 --> 02:09:22,880
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that that happens, you know, right Clinton exactly?

2289
02:09:24,040 --> 02:09:27,120
Speaker 1: Oh my god. By the way, Clinton is the only

2290
02:09:27,200 --> 02:09:35,120
Speaker 1: assistant to all of us. So just let that sink in, truly, exactly,

2291
02:09:35,760 --> 02:09:36,840
Speaker 1: it's only been two days.

2292
02:09:39,480 --> 02:09:41,480
Speaker 4: Well, probably was an editor and then he was a producer.

2293
02:09:41,920 --> 02:09:43,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, he started as an editor.

2294
02:09:43,800 --> 02:09:44,839
Speaker 2: He wasn't an assistant.

2295
02:09:45,040 --> 02:09:47,680
Speaker 1: Actually he was an editing intern. He wasn't in the right.

2296
02:09:50,040 --> 02:09:51,839
Speaker 1: That is a good point, and that's where we shouted

2297
02:09:51,920 --> 02:09:58,400
Speaker 1: his name exactly. So, uh, sometimes my colleague names his

2298
02:09:58,520 --> 02:10:02,000
Speaker 1: girlfriend in name of our our girl colleague. It can

2299
02:10:02,120 --> 02:10:07,200
Speaker 1: happen when you when you wear little you probably called

2300
02:10:07,760 --> 02:10:10,680
Speaker 1: when you were little, you probably called school teachers as mom,

2301
02:10:10,880 --> 02:10:14,080
Speaker 1: no talking as you were about to come.

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02:10:14,960 --> 02:10:20,000
Speaker 3: There's a difference between active like sometimes my mom will

2303
02:10:20,040 --> 02:10:23,200
Speaker 3: be like Sophia, Sam Frank and like say a bunch

2304
02:10:23,240 --> 02:10:24,080
Speaker 3: of not age.

2305
02:10:24,160 --> 02:10:27,320
Speaker 4: She's called me Ava and Oscar, which are our dog's names.

2306
02:10:27,760 --> 02:10:30,880
Speaker 3: But that is a completely different context.

2307
02:10:31,440 --> 02:10:35,800
Speaker 1: Well, the commenter says, uh, talk things out with him,

2308
02:10:36,120 --> 02:10:38,760
Speaker 1: tell him that it's bugging you a lot, all right,

2309
02:10:39,240 --> 02:10:42,520
Speaker 1: and we have a response. I haven't thought about this,

2310
02:10:43,600 --> 02:10:47,760
Speaker 1: and this could be a possibility. We might have cracked

2311
02:10:47,800 --> 02:10:51,400
Speaker 1: the case. Guys, I have been to his workplace and

2312
02:10:51,520 --> 02:10:54,600
Speaker 1: he does take her name. What he does say your

2313
02:10:54,680 --> 02:10:57,920
Speaker 1: name quite a lot. Still saying it during spicy sleep

2314
02:10:58,000 --> 02:10:59,960
Speaker 1: is a bit too much. But if this is the case,

2315
02:11:00,400 --> 02:11:03,040
Speaker 1: I think I can forgive him. I just have to

2316
02:11:03,160 --> 02:11:07,120
Speaker 1: find a way to make sure it isn't something else. Yeah,

2317
02:11:07,160 --> 02:11:12,400
Speaker 1: I mean I would be hell hella suspicious. Unable Snow says,

2318
02:11:13,160 --> 02:11:15,520
Speaker 1: you use your own money and you should surprise him

2319
02:11:15,600 --> 02:11:19,240
Speaker 1: in Dallas on his next trip. Good idea, that's smart, OPI.

2320
02:11:19,440 --> 02:11:22,200
Speaker 1: He is supposed to leave tonight, I can visit him

2321
02:11:22,200 --> 02:11:26,400
Speaker 1: tomorrow since I have time. Dude, she's gonna raise not

2322
02:11:26,520 --> 02:11:28,720
Speaker 1: gonna be the update. Please let this be the up.

2323
02:11:28,800 --> 02:11:30,920
Speaker 1: Oh my god, please let this be the up. So

2324
02:11:31,000 --> 02:11:33,440
Speaker 1: they start going back and forth. Unable Snow, well, I

2325
02:11:33,480 --> 02:11:35,880
Speaker 1: would show up after work at his apartment and see

2326
02:11:35,920 --> 02:11:39,520
Speaker 1: if his assistant is actually staying in his hotel. Opie, Yeah,

2327
02:11:39,560 --> 02:11:42,680
Speaker 1: I just booked a ticket. I wouldn't spine manning a

2328
02:11:42,760 --> 02:11:45,400
Speaker 1: day or two in Dallas myself. If everything is like

2329
02:11:45,520 --> 02:11:50,200
Speaker 1: he says it is, this is kidding, So please, if

2330
02:11:50,320 --> 02:11:54,280
Speaker 1: this ends without an update, I will cry there is

2331
02:11:54,280 --> 02:11:59,000
Speaker 1: an update. Thank god. Own brother says, uh, do you

2332
02:11:59,200 --> 02:12:01,200
Speaker 1: do you have keys the apartment? I'd go there, hang

2333
02:12:01,280 --> 02:12:02,760
Speaker 1: out and wait for him to get home. You know,

2334
02:12:03,040 --> 02:12:06,120
Speaker 1: a surprise, Opie says, I don't have keys to the apartment.

2335
02:12:06,240 --> 02:12:09,040
Speaker 1: I can visit him at nighttime. He should be home

2336
02:12:09,680 --> 02:12:14,280
Speaker 1: alone at that time. Okay, can we get into this update.

2337
02:12:14,520 --> 02:12:18,000
Speaker 1: Let's do it. I've never been more excited. Three weeks later,

2338
02:12:19,560 --> 02:12:22,920
Speaker 1: a lot to one wrap here, but I'm going to

2339
02:12:23,000 --> 02:12:26,120
Speaker 1: start by thanking those who decided to try to help

2340
02:12:26,160 --> 02:12:29,920
Speaker 1: me out here. He came from the last trip, and

2341
02:12:30,120 --> 02:12:33,880
Speaker 1: when he went again, I decided to go. When I

2342
02:12:34,000 --> 02:12:38,360
Speaker 1: went to his apartment, I found her there along with

2343
02:12:38,600 --> 02:12:42,160
Speaker 1: some other people. Okay, his coworkers were all planning to

2344
02:12:42,200 --> 02:12:45,960
Speaker 1: go out. This man is.

2345
02:12:48,760 --> 02:12:51,680
Speaker 3: If I mean they're all it's less suspicious because there's

2346
02:12:51,680 --> 02:12:52,640
Speaker 3: a bunch of coworkers.

2347
02:12:52,760 --> 02:12:56,440
Speaker 1: I could take this machine gun right here and just

2348
02:12:56,680 --> 02:13:00,520
Speaker 1: blast this guy, and every bullet would miss this guy.

2349
02:13:01,160 --> 02:13:06,200
Speaker 1: This guy is missing every single astance. Oh my god.

2350
02:13:07,120 --> 02:13:10,120
Speaker 1: Uh so, okay, his assistant gets every job done that

2351
02:13:10,920 --> 02:13:14,440
Speaker 1: that she does. So I did make up a story

2352
02:13:14,600 --> 02:13:16,640
Speaker 1: why I was there to make sure he wasn't embarrassed

2353
02:13:16,640 --> 02:13:19,360
Speaker 1: in front of his coworkers because I stormed in his apartment,

2354
02:13:19,640 --> 02:13:21,840
Speaker 1: and I think that that worked. They all went out

2355
02:13:21,920 --> 02:13:24,200
Speaker 1: After that, he stayed back and we had a fight.

2356
02:13:24,440 --> 02:13:27,080
Speaker 1: According to him, I just humiliated him in front of

2357
02:13:27,160 --> 02:13:31,320
Speaker 1: his colleagues. How so he's surprising you to come hang out.

2358
02:13:32,120 --> 02:13:35,640
Speaker 1: How is that humiliating? Right now? Things are tense between us.

2359
02:13:36,560 --> 02:13:39,080
Speaker 1: He stayed back in Dallas, saying he needs some space

2360
02:13:39,280 --> 02:13:43,240
Speaker 1: and we haven't talked. We haven't talked after that. He

2361
02:13:43,400 --> 02:13:46,360
Speaker 1: needs space. Yeah, he needs he needs some space so

2362
02:13:46,480 --> 02:13:47,160
Speaker 1: he can bang it.

2363
02:13:48,600 --> 02:13:51,400
Speaker 10: Him and Jessica need their own risk exactly because she

2364
02:13:51,520 --> 02:13:53,320
Speaker 10: came back anything.

2365
02:13:53,600 --> 02:13:56,200
Speaker 1: Oh my god. I don't know if I was trying

2366
02:13:56,240 --> 02:13:58,320
Speaker 1: to catch in the act or not, but it didn't

2367
02:13:58,360 --> 02:14:00,640
Speaker 1: work out, and now I feel a hundred times worse.

2368
02:14:00,960 --> 02:14:03,560
Speaker 1: I regret telling my mom about this, because she sent

2369
02:14:03,640 --> 02:14:05,960
Speaker 1: a voicemail to him and told him to stop being

2370
02:14:06,040 --> 02:14:09,040
Speaker 1: a baby, and nothing would have happened if I if

2371
02:14:09,080 --> 02:14:11,880
Speaker 1: he didn't say another woman's name he sent me the

2372
02:14:11,960 --> 02:14:14,200
Speaker 1: voicemail my mom sent him. I did get front of

2373
02:14:14,200 --> 02:14:16,920
Speaker 1: my mom about this, and she did apologize to him.

2374
02:14:17,320 --> 02:14:20,080
Speaker 1: Now I feel like maybe it was an honest mistake

2375
02:14:20,520 --> 02:14:23,000
Speaker 1: on his part, and I blew it out of proportion

2376
02:14:24,560 --> 02:14:26,760
Speaker 1: waiting on him to come back so we can talk

2377
02:14:26,840 --> 02:14:30,240
Speaker 1: it out and fix this and move forward. Just a

2378
02:14:30,320 --> 02:14:33,560
Speaker 1: little update. Things didn't go well like I wanted to.

2379
02:14:34,760 --> 02:14:38,160
Speaker 1: Oh dear Lord. Okay, there's thank god, there's more comments

2380
02:14:38,200 --> 02:14:44,240
Speaker 1: in an edit? Is there any There is not an updates,

2381
02:14:44,320 --> 02:14:48,600
Speaker 1: but there's two edits and relevant comments. So I think

2382
02:14:48,680 --> 02:14:51,440
Speaker 1: we might have hope. But boo boo boo boo boo boom.

2383
02:14:51,720 --> 02:14:53,920
Speaker 1: So the clumsy pirate says, did the assistant have any

2384
02:14:53,960 --> 02:14:57,360
Speaker 1: reaction to seeing you? Was she cold or surprised or anything? Honestly,

2385
02:14:57,480 --> 02:14:59,600
Speaker 1: this could be a harmless slip up in his end.

2386
02:15:00,440 --> 02:15:03,480
Speaker 1: What is happening right now? But to be fair, it

2387
02:15:03,640 --> 02:15:05,560
Speaker 1: could be it's not.

2388
02:15:05,840 --> 02:15:08,000
Speaker 3: I don't think it's a heart I think it definitely

2389
02:15:08,160 --> 02:15:11,160
Speaker 3: means he was thinking of her while sex.

2390
02:15:11,880 --> 02:15:13,440
Speaker 1: Mm but did he cheat with her?

2391
02:15:13,480 --> 02:15:16,360
Speaker 3: But I don't think it means that he cheated. Okay, yeah,

2392
02:15:16,400 --> 02:15:19,120
Speaker 3: maybe he has a fantasy that he was just thinking

2393
02:15:19,160 --> 02:15:19,760
Speaker 3: about work.

2394
02:15:20,240 --> 02:15:23,400
Speaker 1: It can't it can't be used to that. Let's please

2395
02:15:23,440 --> 02:15:28,080
Speaker 1: all agree, Oh my god, because yeah, a harmless slip

2396
02:15:28,160 --> 02:15:30,040
Speaker 1: up that means that they agree with the work thing,

2397
02:15:30,080 --> 02:15:32,080
Speaker 1: which is false. But anyways, this could be a harmless

2398
02:15:32,080 --> 02:15:33,360
Speaker 1: slip up on his end. But I would do my

2399
02:15:33,440 --> 02:15:36,120
Speaker 1: due diligence before the wedding no matter how angry he gets.

2400
02:15:36,240 --> 02:15:39,600
Speaker 1: Divorces are much harder than breakups. If you're trying to

2401
02:15:39,640 --> 02:15:42,160
Speaker 1: set the record straight before moving forward, he shouldn't be

2402
02:15:42,240 --> 02:15:45,280
Speaker 1: resistant about it. It was him who said another woman's

2403
02:15:45,360 --> 02:15:50,000
Speaker 1: name in bed. You didn't start any of it, but Opie, Uh,

2404
02:15:50,240 --> 02:15:52,040
Speaker 1: everyone was a little surprised to see me there, to

2405
02:15:52,120 --> 02:15:54,560
Speaker 1: be honest, not just her. My partner was surprised too.

2406
02:15:54,760 --> 02:15:58,720
Speaker 1: We aren't getting married, we are no longer engaged, probably

2407
02:15:58,800 --> 02:16:02,160
Speaker 1: in the future. WHOA. He is a pretty straightforward guy himself.

2408
02:16:02,680 --> 02:16:05,360
Speaker 1: Either he'll end it or be okay with it. Things

2409
02:16:05,400 --> 02:16:07,200
Speaker 1: are bad right now, and I'm gonna give him time

2410
02:16:07,280 --> 02:16:09,920
Speaker 1: and let him come and talk to me. I think

2411
02:16:09,960 --> 02:16:12,440
Speaker 1: he is just just flipping it back on her so

2412
02:16:12,520 --> 02:16:14,520
Speaker 1: he can have the upper hand of this.

2413
02:16:14,800 --> 02:16:14,920
Speaker 2: Uh.

2414
02:16:15,520 --> 02:16:19,040
Speaker 1: Twin SETA nine seventeen says info, why was it bad

2415
02:16:19,080 --> 02:16:20,000
Speaker 1: that you surprised him?

2416
02:16:20,320 --> 02:16:20,360
Speaker 2: What?

2417
02:16:20,800 --> 02:16:21,000
Speaker 1: Yes?

2418
02:16:21,320 --> 02:16:21,360
Speaker 9: What?

2419
02:16:21,760 --> 02:16:24,160
Speaker 1: Wondering what was wrong with you being around his colleagues

2420
02:16:24,200 --> 02:16:26,640
Speaker 1: and especially his assistant. If he loves you, he should

2421
02:16:26,640 --> 02:16:29,200
Speaker 1: be glad to see you. What was the deal? What

2422
02:16:29,400 --> 02:16:31,680
Speaker 1: did you say when you entered the apartment that could

2423
02:16:31,680 --> 02:16:33,800
Speaker 1: have embarrassed him? Got to be honest. I'm not liking

2424
02:16:33,840 --> 02:16:36,039
Speaker 1: his behavior. What's up with his friends? The whole thing

2425
02:16:36,160 --> 02:16:39,840
Speaker 1: is messed up. What is he doing talking about this

2426
02:16:39,959 --> 02:16:43,080
Speaker 1: with his assistant to update me? And OPI replies, I

2427
02:16:43,120 --> 02:16:45,120
Speaker 1: don't know what I said exactly because I was very

2428
02:16:45,160 --> 02:16:47,600
Speaker 1: angry at the time, but I mentioned in the post

2429
02:16:47,680 --> 02:16:50,920
Speaker 1: above I stormed in his apartment and was accusatory. So

2430
02:16:51,040 --> 02:16:53,000
Speaker 1: it does sound like OP he kind of like barged

2431
02:16:53,040 --> 02:16:55,600
Speaker 1: in and was like maybe was like.

2432
02:16:56,240 --> 02:16:58,600
Speaker 3: I caught you, I caught you, Yeah, which I could

2433
02:16:58,640 --> 02:17:00,080
Speaker 3: see if it's like a business man, I.

2434
02:17:00,120 --> 02:17:03,280
Speaker 1: See, that's startling. It's to me it sounds like the

2435
02:17:03,800 --> 02:17:07,720
Speaker 1: work colleagues are about to our pregaming to go out. Yeah,

2436
02:17:07,760 --> 02:17:09,959
Speaker 1: so they work together, but they're about to hang out and.

2437
02:17:10,160 --> 02:17:15,480
Speaker 3: There, which, if if OP is completely innocent, would would be.

2438
02:17:17,160 --> 02:17:20,160
Speaker 1: Whack yeah, because it would be like, oh, yes, if

2439
02:17:20,200 --> 02:17:21,800
Speaker 1: he was innocent, that would be whacky. Yeah.

2440
02:17:22,640 --> 02:17:24,160
Speaker 3: It would be like we're all going out to get

2441
02:17:24,240 --> 02:17:25,800
Speaker 3: drinks and then your prod of comas.

2442
02:17:25,640 --> 02:17:27,920
Speaker 1: Is I know, I know you, I know what you're doing,

2443
02:17:28,000 --> 02:17:29,440
Speaker 1: and you're just like, what's going on?

2444
02:17:29,680 --> 02:17:29,760
Speaker 3: Ye?

2445
02:17:31,200 --> 02:17:34,240
Speaker 1: Do do? Do? Do do? I did salvage the situation, though,

2446
02:17:34,520 --> 02:17:37,280
Speaker 1: but I think in his mind that that wasn't good

2447
02:17:37,400 --> 02:17:39,480
Speaker 1: enough and it forgot to mention.

2448
02:17:40,000 --> 02:17:40,120
Speaker 3: Uh.

2449
02:17:40,200 --> 02:17:42,880
Speaker 1: My boyfriend told me that he told this assistant about

2450
02:17:42,920 --> 02:17:46,120
Speaker 1: this and she made the mistake a while back with

2451
02:17:46,240 --> 02:17:49,280
Speaker 1: her fling because they refer to each other a lot.

2452
02:17:49,360 --> 02:17:55,240
Speaker 3: Wait so wait, so it's the wait wait you The

2453
02:17:55,400 --> 02:18:00,280
Speaker 3: assistant also said, oh, Pee's husband's name.

2454
02:18:00,720 --> 02:18:03,960
Speaker 1: Let me read this back again. Forgot to mention. My

2455
02:18:04,080 --> 02:18:09,440
Speaker 1: boyfriend told me that houses like dude. My boyfriend told

2456
02:18:09,480 --> 02:18:11,360
Speaker 1: me that he told his assistant about this and she

2457
02:18:11,600 --> 02:18:14,600
Speaker 1: made the same mistake a while back with her fling

2458
02:18:15,280 --> 02:18:20,600
Speaker 1: because they refer to each other a lot. I am sorry, dude,

2459
02:18:21,280 --> 02:18:24,720
Speaker 1: all in a bang. The amount of times I have

2460
02:18:24,879 --> 02:18:29,840
Speaker 1: said Samuel Donner's name in this context and other things

2461
02:18:30,280 --> 02:18:35,080
Speaker 1: in context, what context, in work context. Oh, and it

2462
02:18:35,160 --> 02:18:40,960
Speaker 1: has not entered the bedroom is astounding. I've probably said

2463
02:18:41,000 --> 02:18:44,000
Speaker 1: his name thousands of times as.

2464
02:18:44,160 --> 02:18:49,080
Speaker 3: Him to me, hundreds of thousands, hundreds of thousands, we've

2465
02:18:49,120 --> 02:18:53,280
Speaker 3: said each other's names. All right, all right, let me

2466
02:18:53,320 --> 02:18:56,320
Speaker 3: break this down for a second. Do you think that

2467
02:18:56,480 --> 02:19:01,760
Speaker 3: there is any job on earth where two people are

2468
02:19:01,920 --> 02:19:06,600
Speaker 3: talking together as much as us. We are literally talking

2469
02:19:06,680 --> 02:19:11,680
Speaker 3: to each other every single day, all the time, twenty

2470
02:19:11,800 --> 02:19:13,600
Speaker 3: four to seven, saying names back and.

2471
02:19:13,680 --> 02:19:19,440
Speaker 1: Forth, strategizing, talking, meetings, talking, texting, talking on the podcast.

2472
02:19:19,879 --> 02:19:24,039
Speaker 11: Knocking once have I said John's name in bed twice

2473
02:19:26,560 --> 02:19:31,320
Speaker 11: exactly and for me quintuple? Okay, so we're safe.

2474
02:19:31,560 --> 02:19:32,320
Speaker 2: We're in the clear.

2475
02:19:33,920 --> 02:19:38,280
Speaker 1: So yeah, so yes, literally you we read that insanity right.

2476
02:19:38,520 --> 02:19:40,720
Speaker 1: The assistant said that she has done the same thing

2477
02:19:40,800 --> 02:19:43,840
Speaker 1: and said they're at least attracted to each other. Is

2478
02:19:43,879 --> 02:19:44,280
Speaker 1: she hot?

2479
02:19:44,360 --> 02:19:45,320
Speaker 3: I want to know if she's hot.

2480
02:19:45,680 --> 02:19:46,080
Speaker 2: Is she hot?

2481
02:19:46,200 --> 02:19:47,520
Speaker 3: She has to be hot.

2482
02:19:47,560 --> 02:19:48,760
Speaker 2: There's no way that she's not hot.

2483
02:19:48,920 --> 02:19:49,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, Brue.

2484
02:19:49,680 --> 02:19:50,959
Speaker 2: And she sounds smart too.

2485
02:19:51,120 --> 02:19:54,120
Speaker 10: Like, to be honest, I think that her going like

2486
02:19:54,240 --> 02:19:56,480
Speaker 10: I think Jessica, this is it had this whole thing

2487
02:19:56,600 --> 02:19:58,840
Speaker 10: land out. I think she knew that the wife was

2488
02:19:58,879 --> 02:19:59,400
Speaker 10: coming to death.

2489
02:19:59,560 --> 02:20:04,560
Speaker 1: Spears theory, conspiracy theories from Clinton over here? What if? Yeah?

2490
02:20:04,680 --> 02:20:08,440
Speaker 1: What if? Actually it's not like Op is just like

2491
02:20:08,560 --> 02:20:10,200
Speaker 1: I kind of get the sense that Op is a

2492
02:20:10,280 --> 02:20:13,960
Speaker 1: bit of a bumbling idiot, but the the assistant is

2493
02:20:14,200 --> 02:20:17,760
Speaker 1: evil and smart, yeah, and is sowing the seeds of

2494
02:20:18,000 --> 02:20:21,959
Speaker 1: and is sowing the seeds of discord. Anyways, second edit,

2495
02:20:23,040 --> 02:20:25,240
Speaker 1: he left his Mac his computer at home, so I

2496
02:20:25,320 --> 02:20:29,320
Speaker 1: decided to see if he was talking to her or not. Oh, honestly,

2497
02:20:29,400 --> 02:20:32,080
Speaker 1: at this point, of course, he's talking to her. They

2498
02:20:33,520 --> 02:20:36,320
Speaker 1: at this point all the time. I just opened his

2499
02:20:36,400 --> 02:20:38,920
Speaker 1: WhatsApp and he is not talking to her. But his

2500
02:20:39,040 --> 02:20:42,480
Speaker 1: friends are all telling him to break up with me.

2501
02:20:42,920 --> 02:20:47,039
Speaker 1: Oh wow, Like I didn't even do anything drastic drastic.

2502
02:20:47,440 --> 02:20:49,640
Speaker 1: His chat with his assistant is work related, but I

2503
02:20:49,720 --> 02:20:53,600
Speaker 1: am disturbed by what his friends say. Looks like a

2504
02:20:53,640 --> 02:20:57,280
Speaker 1: breakup is about to happen. I let him break up

2505
02:20:57,320 --> 02:21:01,080
Speaker 1: with me because I think I let him break up

2506
02:21:01,120 --> 02:21:03,400
Speaker 1: with me because I think I'd get closure that way.

2507
02:21:04,040 --> 02:21:05,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, he didn't break up with me.

2508
02:21:05,440 --> 02:21:09,760
Speaker 1: I let him. I'd let him maybe yeah, maybe yeah,

2509
02:21:09,800 --> 02:21:12,680
Speaker 1: I'd like because yeah, that might be missing, but we

2510
02:21:12,720 --> 02:21:14,000
Speaker 1: think it's I'd let him break up with me.

2511
02:21:15,040 --> 02:21:19,160
Speaker 4: Sorry, I thought it was a bug.

2512
02:21:20,040 --> 02:21:26,000
Speaker 1: Can we somebody clip that, guys chata, we need to

2513
02:21:26,040 --> 02:21:29,280
Speaker 1: clip that. Honestly, I thought it was a bug too.

2514
02:21:31,240 --> 02:21:36,600
Speaker 4: I was so scary him through a nerf dart at

2515
02:21:36,760 --> 02:21:37,320
Speaker 4: my legs.

2516
02:21:38,240 --> 02:21:42,320
Speaker 1: All right, back to the story. So and then some

2517
02:21:42,440 --> 02:21:44,480
Speaker 1: meal of a comments a clumsy pirate. I am so

2518
02:21:44,640 --> 02:21:46,360
Speaker 1: sorry that it's such a mess. Op, but I am

2519
02:21:46,520 --> 02:21:49,400
Speaker 1: also looking at your edit and it's not good. I

2520
02:21:49,560 --> 02:21:53,040
Speaker 1: understand being straight for I understand being straight for a guy,

2521
02:21:53,160 --> 02:21:56,039
Speaker 1: But I don't know is he very simple? Because unless

2522
02:21:56,080 --> 02:21:59,000
Speaker 1: he is, I don't know how he would explain saying

2523
02:21:59,040 --> 02:22:01,440
Speaker 1: that to his assistant. Yeah, why would you tell your

2524
02:22:01,480 --> 02:22:02,800
Speaker 1: assistant that you said that in bed?

2525
02:22:03,240 --> 02:22:04,480
Speaker 3: That is yeah, that's crazy.

2526
02:22:05,400 --> 02:22:07,640
Speaker 1: Yes, this is an awkward thing that happened between me

2527
02:22:07,680 --> 02:22:11,080
Speaker 1: and my fiance because of you the way way yes,

2528
02:22:11,480 --> 02:22:14,480
Speaker 1: so this is yes, So this awkward thing happened between

2529
02:22:14,520 --> 02:22:17,520
Speaker 1: me and my fiance because of you the assistant. How

2530
02:22:17,560 --> 02:22:20,920
Speaker 1: does he justify disclosing something intimate to her? He knows

2531
02:22:21,000 --> 02:22:22,640
Speaker 1: this is embarrassing for you as well.

2532
02:22:22,959 --> 02:22:26,720
Speaker 3: But does he have a relationship podcast where he discloses

2533
02:22:26,760 --> 02:22:28,240
Speaker 3: the intimate details of his life?

2534
02:22:28,440 --> 02:22:32,320
Speaker 1: No, he does not allow that is I can say.

2535
02:22:32,440 --> 02:22:34,920
Speaker 1: I don't know for a fact, but I absolutely I

2536
02:22:34,959 --> 02:22:38,680
Speaker 1: would bet every single dollar I have to my name

2537
02:22:38,879 --> 02:22:41,640
Speaker 1: that he does not have a relationship podcast where he

2538
02:22:41,640 --> 02:22:44,280
Speaker 1: should share. The more the story transpires, the more it

2539
02:22:44,360 --> 02:22:46,800
Speaker 1: seems like you were actually were right to be wary

2540
02:22:46,879 --> 02:22:50,360
Speaker 1: of it. The fact that it was ever questioned melts

2541
02:22:50,480 --> 02:22:53,000
Speaker 1: my brain. At the very least, it seems like there's

2542
02:22:53,000 --> 02:22:55,400
Speaker 1: some emotional entanglement going on here for him not to

2543
02:22:55,480 --> 02:22:59,960
Speaker 1: realize that sharing this with the girl is out of line, OPCA,

2544
02:23:00,080 --> 02:23:04,080
Speaker 1: as he is quite simple, doesn't like to play games

2545
02:23:04,200 --> 02:23:07,760
Speaker 1: or make things complicated. He did and she did something similar,

2546
02:23:09,680 --> 02:23:12,440
Speaker 1: but I can't say for sure how that topic might

2547
02:23:12,520 --> 02:23:15,560
Speaker 1: have come up. Right now, reading this message with his friends,

2548
02:23:15,680 --> 02:23:18,160
Speaker 1: I do hate it, and it hurts like crap that

2549
02:23:18,280 --> 02:23:20,120
Speaker 1: they are all rooting for me to break up with him.

2550
02:23:20,280 --> 02:23:22,520
Speaker 1: This situation is a total mess, honestly, and I don't

2551
02:23:22,520 --> 02:23:25,800
Speaker 1: see way back now. Let's try again and again, says

2552
02:23:27,240 --> 02:23:29,320
Speaker 1: why do his friends want him to break up with you? Why?

2553
02:23:29,480 --> 02:23:31,120
Speaker 1: Why are there reasons? That's actually a great question.

2554
02:23:31,160 --> 02:23:35,880
Speaker 3: Probably because she stormed the and they're like yeah, because

2555
02:23:35,920 --> 02:23:38,200
Speaker 3: if if from his perspective, it's like he's probably not

2556
02:23:38,600 --> 02:23:41,400
Speaker 3: telling them I said my assistant's name in bed, and

2557
02:23:42,040 --> 02:23:44,400
Speaker 3: he's just saying, yeah, dude, she was crazy. She just

2558
02:23:44,520 --> 02:23:46,800
Speaker 3: stormed in and accused me of cheating with myself.

2559
02:23:46,520 --> 02:23:48,039
Speaker 1: And you guys saw it. We were all just hanging

2560
02:23:48,080 --> 02:23:52,560
Speaker 1: out there, OPI. Mostly because they think I ruined his

2561
02:23:52,680 --> 02:23:56,160
Speaker 1: relationship with my family forever, and that in that sense

2562
02:23:56,200 --> 02:23:58,720
Speaker 1: I don't trust him. He should put his energy elsewhere.

2563
02:23:58,760 --> 02:24:02,240
Speaker 1: So it's actually for Op telling her parents and then

2564
02:24:02,320 --> 02:24:06,119
Speaker 1: like ruining that relationship between the husband and the parents.

2565
02:24:08,040 --> 02:24:12,400
Speaker 1: That is at their reason. Apparently, Oh my god. Uh

2566
02:24:13,440 --> 02:24:15,680
Speaker 1: most of them are in this route. A few of

2567
02:24:15,840 --> 02:24:18,600
Speaker 1: them think I did it in front of his coworkers

2568
02:24:18,720 --> 02:24:22,600
Speaker 1: to jeopardize his job. It's it's hard reading their messages.

2569
02:24:23,080 --> 02:24:26,120
Speaker 1: Third and final edit to close this story and the

2570
02:24:26,160 --> 02:24:29,320
Speaker 1: stream out regarding his chat for a while, reading his

2571
02:24:29,480 --> 02:24:31,560
Speaker 1: chat for a while, and the last thing he said

2572
02:24:31,800 --> 02:24:36,080
Speaker 1: was I'll end it when I see her next. So

2573
02:24:36,320 --> 02:24:50,640
Speaker 1: it's over pretty much. Whoa I'm done? How How did

2574
02:24:50,720 --> 02:24:53,720
Speaker 1: this possibly get flipped back? Whoa?

2575
02:24:55,400 --> 02:24:55,520
Speaker 2: Haw?

2576
02:24:55,879 --> 02:24:56,199
Speaker 1: Update?

2577
02:24:56,920 --> 02:25:00,320
Speaker 6: There is one comment that I am all right. We

2578
02:25:00,400 --> 02:25:03,800
Speaker 6: might we might, oh, we might have more more context

2579
02:25:03,879 --> 02:25:07,680
Speaker 6: in info. Very little baby, very little, very little baby

2580
02:25:07,800 --> 02:25:08,600
Speaker 6: comment update.

2581
02:25:08,840 --> 02:25:17,400
Speaker 1: Way let me see show us okay from OP, here

2582
02:25:17,480 --> 02:25:19,240
Speaker 1: we go. This is a comment from Op in the post.

2583
02:25:19,640 --> 02:25:21,560
Speaker 1: Everyone is a little surprised to see me there, to

2584
02:25:21,600 --> 02:25:23,880
Speaker 1: be honest, not just her. My partner was surprised too.

2585
02:25:24,640 --> 02:25:26,879
Speaker 1: We aren't getting married. We are no longer engaged, probably

2586
02:25:26,920 --> 02:25:28,959
Speaker 1: in the future. He's a pretty straightfor a guy himself.

2587
02:25:29,080 --> 02:25:31,320
Speaker 1: Either her end it, either he'll end it or be

2588
02:25:31,400 --> 02:25:33,480
Speaker 1: okay with it. Things are bad right now, and I'm

2589
02:25:33,480 --> 02:25:35,560
Speaker 1: gonna give him time and let him come and talk

2590
02:25:35,600 --> 02:25:36,960
Speaker 1: to me. I think that might have been actually one

2591
02:25:38,879 --> 02:25:41,960
Speaker 1: comments above, but oh you're fine.

2592
02:25:42,200 --> 02:25:43,039
Speaker 2: Uh wow.

2593
02:25:43,720 --> 02:25:50,960
Speaker 1: I mean the fact that it flipped to op is insanity.

2594
02:25:51,160 --> 02:25:55,920
Speaker 1: This should be that The textbook definition of gaslighting should

2595
02:25:56,080 --> 02:25:59,080
Speaker 1: be this story. It should literally just be this story

2596
02:26:00,240 --> 02:26:04,320
Speaker 1: and all because like he was just thinking about spreadsheets,

2597
02:26:05,040 --> 02:26:09,760
Speaker 1: all the spread and cheets hoary for his fread sheet. Wow,

2598
02:26:10,200 --> 02:26:17,040
Speaker 1: pretty whack, pretty whack time. Well that is a rap.

2599
02:26:17,360 --> 02:26:19,280
Speaker 3: That's donuts and finish out.

2600
02:26:19,400 --> 02:26:23,600
Speaker 1: Let's do it. Scroll down, No, girl, there we go.

2601
02:26:24,120 --> 02:26:26,360
Speaker 3: Raina Jay, Thanks for the two bucks. So much clean

2602
02:26:26,400 --> 02:26:30,280
Speaker 3: to do. Please keep me company. Hopefully done, Matt Hattergal.

2603
02:26:30,360 --> 02:26:32,560
Speaker 3: The only way I would let this slide if it's

2604
02:26:32,640 --> 02:26:36,560
Speaker 3: an anime character. Both no Riley Wells the thanks to

2605
02:26:36,600 --> 02:26:40,360
Speaker 3: the five bucks question, which would y'all be comfortable hearing

2606
02:26:40,520 --> 02:26:44,560
Speaker 3: from my room? We have to say both John and

2607
02:26:44,640 --> 02:26:49,440
Speaker 3: I's name simultaneous. Yes, baby Godzilla, Welcome to Okay after

2608
02:26:49,560 --> 02:26:55,040
Speaker 3: Doug Clinton, Angie Alice, it's five thirty am here. You

2609
02:26:55,160 --> 02:26:59,600
Speaker 3: guys aren't going straight to bed just yet. Come on, Fams,

2610
02:27:00,640 --> 02:27:01,879
Speaker 3: hand it over to Johnny Boy.

2611
02:27:02,120 --> 02:27:07,080
Speaker 1: And then uh Tori Nicole celebrating three months membership. I

2612
02:27:07,360 --> 02:27:09,720
Speaker 1: think she needs to end this for good. He really

2613
02:27:09,840 --> 02:27:11,920
Speaker 1: manipulated her into thinking this was her fault, and I

2614
02:27:12,000 --> 02:27:14,720
Speaker 1: hope she realizes one day that it was his. I

2615
02:27:14,959 --> 02:27:15,480
Speaker 1: pray for that.

2616
02:27:15,760 --> 02:27:21,680
Speaker 3: It's such a big f up to say anyone's name, dude,

2617
02:27:21,800 --> 02:27:26,440
Speaker 3: anyone else's name, but your partner. Like I could easily

2618
02:27:26,520 --> 02:27:29,320
Speaker 3: see someone breaking up over a thousand percent just that,

2619
02:27:29,480 --> 02:27:32,760
Speaker 3: even if there was no cheating one thousand percent degree.

2620
02:27:32,879 --> 02:27:34,160
Speaker 3: Especially they're not married, you.

2621
02:27:34,200 --> 02:27:36,879
Speaker 1: Know, like they're they're they're about to be married.

2622
02:27:36,959 --> 02:27:37,680
Speaker 4: No, no sor sory.

2623
02:27:37,680 --> 02:27:40,120
Speaker 1: Sorry, they are married and are about to have a kid.

2624
02:27:40,160 --> 02:27:42,800
Speaker 1: They're trying to have a right, they were literally trying

2625
02:27:42,879 --> 02:27:46,360
Speaker 1: to conceive a kid in that spicy sleep session. Yeah.

2626
02:27:47,560 --> 02:27:49,360
Speaker 3: I don't know if I would. I don't know if

2627
02:27:49,360 --> 02:27:51,480
Speaker 3: I would end a marriage over my partner saying a

2628
02:27:51,480 --> 02:27:53,800
Speaker 3: different name to me, especially if it only happened once

2629
02:27:53,840 --> 02:27:56,120
Speaker 3: and they've been pretty on ninety nine percent of the time.

2630
02:27:56,160 --> 02:27:56,840
Speaker 1: They're saying my name.

2631
02:27:57,000 --> 02:27:59,280
Speaker 4: Don't believe they were married, though, I think they think

2632
02:27:59,360 --> 02:28:02,400
Speaker 4: they were not said husband might be right. I thought

2633
02:28:02,400 --> 02:28:03,840
Speaker 4: it was soon to be soon to be.

2634
02:28:04,680 --> 02:28:06,160
Speaker 1: That's I was. I was thinking of the soon to

2635
02:28:06,200 --> 02:28:07,920
Speaker 1: be husband. So they're not soon to be married and

2636
02:28:08,000 --> 02:28:08,640
Speaker 1: trying to have a baby.

2637
02:28:08,680 --> 02:28:17,080
Speaker 3: All right, question, Yes, your partner says their co founder's name.

2638
02:28:20,400 --> 02:28:28,240
Speaker 3: That do you do you break up? I'm making it

2639
02:28:28,480 --> 02:28:29,120
Speaker 3: so personal.

2640
02:28:29,280 --> 02:28:33,760
Speaker 1: This is as personal as it possibly can be. Uh,

2641
02:28:35,560 --> 02:28:41,720
Speaker 1: counseling for sure. Yeah, probably time apart counseling. Man.

2642
02:28:42,000 --> 02:28:44,360
Speaker 3: I feel I feel bad for taking it so far.

2643
02:28:46,120 --> 02:28:48,240
Speaker 3: John's just like fuck.

2644
02:28:50,320 --> 02:28:54,200
Speaker 1: Anyway. That's it.

2645
02:28:54,520 --> 02:28:56,560
Speaker 3: That's it, that's it. That's the end of this treat

2646
02:28:56,680 --> 02:29:00,440
Speaker 3: is over. I think I think I would I think

2647
02:29:00,440 --> 02:29:03,800
Speaker 3: if I think over, I think you get to say

2648
02:29:03,959 --> 02:29:07,480
Speaker 3: the wrong name one time every year of the relationship,

2649
02:29:08,280 --> 02:29:12,800
Speaker 3: one time every year to get counseling chat. Put it

2650
02:29:12,879 --> 02:29:16,240
Speaker 3: in Sam's chat. Put it in Sam's chat. But if

2651
02:29:16,280 --> 02:29:18,560
Speaker 3: you love us, make sure to subscribe.

2652
02:29:19,200 --> 02:29:21,680
Speaker 1: We love you and see it all.

2653
02:29:39,600 --> 02:29:40,640
Speaker 2: Oh okay.

2654
02:29:41,879 --> 02:29:44,560
Speaker 1: Peaka peak, Oh.

2655
02:29:44,760 --> 02:29:49,920
Speaker 11: My goodness, oh my god, my god, the pleasure beater

2656
02:29:50,080 --> 02:29:51,040
Speaker 11: of the century.

2657
02:29:51,560 --> 02:29:54,959
Speaker 4: This is the first stream in Okay story Time Mystery,

2658
02:29:55,040 --> 02:29:55,400
Speaker 4: where we.

2659
02:29:56,360 --> 02:30:00,240
Speaker 1: Went to the end screen. Sophia's finger was hovering.

2660
02:30:00,080 --> 02:30:03,959
Speaker 4: Over the hovering hovering, we will.

2661
02:30:03,840 --> 02:30:06,720
Speaker 1: Give it to you, bye, good day, We will give

2662
02:30:06,800 --> 02:30:11,440
Speaker 1: it to you. Oh my goodness, Oh my god, Peka Lee,

2663
02:30:11,959 --> 02:30:16,760
Speaker 1: another thirty minutes. I've gone through Like one second later,

2664
02:30:17,200 --> 02:30:19,760
Speaker 1: Sophia would have just clicked the button and the whole

2665
02:30:19,800 --> 02:30:21,920
Speaker 1: stream would have would have ended over. We wouldn't have

2666
02:30:22,000 --> 02:30:25,520
Speaker 1: seen it. We wouldn't have seen it. Literally, legitimate stream

2667
02:30:26,240 --> 02:30:26,800
Speaker 1: shut down.

2668
02:30:28,040 --> 02:30:35,400
Speaker 3: Wow, Wow, that's crazy. All right, add thirty minutes to

2669
02:30:35,480 --> 02:30:41,320
Speaker 3: the stream or fifteen two thousand, Peka, Lee, one hundred

2670
02:30:41,320 --> 02:30:47,560
Speaker 3: and forty. Thank you for the dono. Incredible, incredible, incredible.

2671
02:30:49,360 --> 02:30:52,800
Speaker 3: That was crazy, dude, that was crazy.

2672
02:30:53,240 --> 02:30:56,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, like Clinton said, the biggest buzzer beater of the century. Yeah,

2673
02:30:56,800 --> 02:30:59,120
Speaker 1: we've never never happened.

2674
02:30:59,760 --> 02:31:02,560
Speaker 3: This is normal. This is this is not this is

2675
02:31:02,640 --> 02:31:03,160
Speaker 3: not normal.

2676
02:31:05,959 --> 02:31:07,160
Speaker 1: You're right. Wow.

2677
02:31:07,680 --> 02:31:12,240
Speaker 3: Also asked in the chat for everyone who just laughteh, losers, losers.

2678
02:31:12,879 --> 02:31:16,480
Speaker 2: To get back on here, get back in here, more stories.

2679
02:31:16,200 --> 02:31:17,560
Speaker 1: To this extreme history.

2680
02:31:17,959 --> 02:31:23,000
Speaker 3: All right, which one next? I think it's third one

2681
02:31:24,240 --> 02:31:24,879
Speaker 3: third one in.

2682
02:31:26,560 --> 02:31:28,480
Speaker 4: We just what times on the US.

2683
02:31:28,360 --> 02:31:34,160
Speaker 3: Three two s three? Okay, there we go, here we go.

2684
02:31:34,720 --> 02:31:44,320
Speaker 3: We're coming through. Wait is that right?

2685
02:31:44,640 --> 02:31:45,360
Speaker 1: What is it thirty?

2686
02:31:45,480 --> 02:31:46,039
Speaker 3: Or is at fifteen?

2687
02:31:46,080 --> 02:31:48,760
Speaker 4: Now it's fifteen. I have not touched anything. It's just

2688
02:31:48,840 --> 02:31:50,760
Speaker 4: when I click that one, it goes to fifteen. That's

2689
02:31:50,840 --> 02:31:51,520
Speaker 4: just the setup.

2690
02:31:51,760 --> 02:31:54,279
Speaker 3: Oh sorry, yeah.

2691
02:31:54,160 --> 02:31:56,279
Speaker 4: They're trying to the trying not thirty guys.

2692
02:31:56,560 --> 02:31:58,000
Speaker 1: I where's is Riley still here?

2693
02:31:58,080 --> 02:32:00,920
Speaker 4: But no, I asked Riley? Or I said when does

2694
02:32:00,959 --> 02:32:02,920
Speaker 4: the fifteen minute thing come in? And he said after

2695
02:32:03,000 --> 02:32:07,120
Speaker 4: two thousand, that's what he said. No, no, no, like

2696
02:32:07,240 --> 02:32:11,199
Speaker 4: after so two thousand. I swear, guys, I don't touch

2697
02:32:11,360 --> 02:32:15,040
Speaker 4: the setup stuff. I just press the buttons and so

2698
02:32:15,200 --> 02:32:18,640
Speaker 4: when you hit too fifty it goes to fifteen minutes.

2699
02:32:19,720 --> 02:32:22,800
Speaker 4: I think it's it's not I asked right earlier.

2700
02:32:23,600 --> 02:32:24,840
Speaker 3: Okay, I think I think you're right.

2701
02:32:24,920 --> 02:32:27,680
Speaker 4: I think I specifically, I I also wouldn't even be

2702
02:32:27,800 --> 02:32:30,920
Speaker 4: able to change it to thirty more minutes, because that's

2703
02:32:31,080 --> 02:32:33,600
Speaker 4: just how it set up. Okay, I promise you.

2704
02:32:33,640 --> 02:32:35,200
Speaker 1: Guys anyway, that's how it's set up.

2705
02:32:35,400 --> 02:32:40,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, if if, if you, if you, I think I

2706
02:32:40,720 --> 02:32:41,280
Speaker 3: think that's right.

2707
02:32:41,320 --> 02:32:41,880
Speaker 1: I think that's right.

2708
02:32:42,200 --> 02:32:48,440
Speaker 4: Oh wait, oh wait, I see what y'all are saying. Okay,

2709
02:32:48,640 --> 02:32:51,119
Speaker 4: I'm sorry. I apologize and he's thirty.

2710
02:32:51,520 --> 02:32:54,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, there a way to change that. Yeah oh yeah, yeah, okay, well.

2711
02:32:54,600 --> 02:32:56,840
Speaker 4: No, no, no, so this one is right right now.

2712
02:32:57,120 --> 02:33:00,560
Speaker 4: The fifteen more minutes is correct, but they are saying

2713
02:33:00,680 --> 02:33:02,520
Speaker 4: that the one they just got was thirty minutes, which

2714
02:33:02,560 --> 02:33:04,920
Speaker 4: is correct. So I'll just add more fifty more yes,

2715
02:33:05,080 --> 02:33:08,440
Speaker 4: all right, that is totally my mad and I would sorry, perfect,

2716
02:33:08,520 --> 02:33:11,359
Speaker 4: there we go, all right. The next one is fifteen.

2717
02:33:11,080 --> 02:33:13,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, okay, thank you.

2718
02:33:13,920 --> 02:33:15,960
Speaker 4: Sorry, I wasn't ripping you up. I didn't understand what

2719
02:33:16,040 --> 02:33:16,440
Speaker 4: you were saying.

2720
02:33:17,480 --> 02:33:20,760
Speaker 1: All right, I'm so tired, right, y'all all are rabbit.

2721
02:33:21,160 --> 02:33:22,000
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

2722
02:33:22,000 --> 02:33:25,080
Speaker 3: I'm sorry it's thirty because it was cut before two.

2723
02:33:25,160 --> 02:33:26,480
Speaker 3: K okay, yeah, now we got it.

2724
02:33:26,560 --> 02:33:27,080
Speaker 1: The timer.

2725
02:33:27,400 --> 02:33:29,480
Speaker 4: I understand now, I just didn't get it. You don't

2726
02:33:29,520 --> 02:33:31,680
Speaker 4: have to call Riley in and tell on me. I

2727
02:33:32,120 --> 02:33:33,000
Speaker 4: understand now.

2728
02:33:33,959 --> 02:33:35,360
Speaker 1: Probably are blowing up.

2729
02:33:36,560 --> 02:33:37,240
Speaker 4: What are you doing?

2730
02:33:38,480 --> 02:33:38,800
Speaker 1: All right?

2731
02:33:39,080 --> 02:33:42,320
Speaker 4: I understand you're getting your full thing. You know what,

2732
02:33:42,560 --> 02:33:44,640
Speaker 4: I'll give you an extra minute, there you go, there

2733
02:33:44,800 --> 02:33:47,120
Speaker 4: go nice. Riley wouldn't do that.

2734
02:33:49,040 --> 02:33:51,440
Speaker 3: I feel I feel like you're divorced parents and you're

2735
02:33:51,760 --> 02:33:54,680
Speaker 3: giving your children like extra guests.

2736
02:33:56,000 --> 02:33:58,800
Speaker 1: Don't you love spending time with mommy. We'll go to

2737
02:33:58,959 --> 02:34:01,320
Speaker 1: Chuck E Cheese Billy. You don't have to worry about it.

2738
02:34:01,440 --> 02:34:03,440
Speaker 1: Do you want a PS two and a PS three?

2739
02:34:05,080 --> 02:34:07,320
Speaker 1: I don't think that's how the game. That's not how game.

2740
02:34:07,720 --> 02:34:10,840
Speaker 1: PS five Sam Yeah, two thousand and seven called they

2741
02:34:10,879 --> 02:34:11,840
Speaker 1: want their game concert.

2742
02:34:11,959 --> 02:34:16,920
Speaker 3: Oh oh.

2743
02:34:18,760 --> 02:34:20,320
Speaker 4: Okay, that's fifteen minutes.

2744
02:34:20,360 --> 02:34:21,360
Speaker 1: That's fifteen minutes.

2745
02:34:22,000 --> 02:34:26,879
Speaker 3: Oh tenfoil hot a little more please and also thanks

2746
02:34:26,959 --> 02:34:28,800
Speaker 3: Peka boom.

2747
02:34:29,440 --> 02:34:33,000
Speaker 4: Last fifteen minutes for real. Before time was thirty, Now

2748
02:34:33,080 --> 02:34:35,600
Speaker 4: it's fifteen. Nobody get on me.

2749
02:34:36,280 --> 02:34:38,879
Speaker 1: That is crazy. Militia.

2750
02:34:39,360 --> 02:34:41,920
Speaker 3: The militia is here. Do you see these bags? This

2751
02:34:42,040 --> 02:34:46,160
Speaker 3: is because of you, guys, because of you. My Lord

2752
02:34:46,480 --> 02:34:48,640
Speaker 3: can't believe I almost left the stream.

2753
02:34:48,920 --> 02:34:50,320
Speaker 1: Yeah we neither can we?

2754
02:34:50,720 --> 02:34:54,600
Speaker 3: Yeah neither can we were? We did, We did leave

2755
02:34:54,680 --> 02:34:58,520
Speaker 3: the stream. We were we were wrapping up My goodness.

2756
02:34:58,680 --> 02:35:00,320
Speaker 1: Wow, I'm gonna need some more sushi.

2757
02:35:01,160 --> 02:35:03,720
Speaker 4: There's so much more we have, like so much I

2758
02:35:03,760 --> 02:35:06,119
Speaker 4: can feed me Clinton.

2759
02:35:06,120 --> 02:35:08,080
Speaker 1: Can you just pass me like two trays that I

2760
02:35:08,120 --> 02:35:16,080
Speaker 1: can feed feed me this on Angie Alice. Uh, it's

2761
02:35:16,160 --> 02:35:18,920
Speaker 1: thirty minutes because it was before two K love of love,

2762
02:35:19,040 --> 02:35:20,119
Speaker 1: Thank you for the two fourteen.

2763
02:35:21,920 --> 02:35:24,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, I understand now. That was truly my bad. I

2764
02:35:24,480 --> 02:35:26,520
Speaker 4: was arguing for the wrong.

2765
02:35:27,040 --> 02:35:30,440
Speaker 1: Thing, Brittany. I see Lynn says welcome for real Clinton,

2766
02:35:32,160 --> 02:35:34,960
Speaker 1: you have you have officially is allowed to leave. So

2767
02:35:35,040 --> 02:35:38,199
Speaker 1: he's not do you have to leave? You never.

2768
02:35:40,680 --> 02:35:43,920
Speaker 3: If also you get, if you get, if you get tired,

2769
02:35:43,959 --> 02:35:44,120
Speaker 3: you can.

2770
02:35:44,360 --> 02:35:49,440
Speaker 1: You can sleep in Riley's actually just sleep in Riley's

2771
02:35:49,440 --> 02:35:52,160
Speaker 1: bed tonight. We didn't ask him. I'm just kidding.

2772
02:35:52,480 --> 02:35:58,080
Speaker 4: That was totally Oh oh, we have a we have

2773
02:35:58,160 --> 02:35:59,959
Speaker 4: an air mattress that's welcome.

2774
02:36:00,080 --> 02:36:02,840
Speaker 1: You actually are. If you want to sleep, you can.

2775
02:36:03,480 --> 02:36:06,800
Speaker 4: We have a very large comfy Yeah, you can stay.

2776
02:36:07,040 --> 02:36:07,920
Speaker 1: You shuld stay in my room.

2777
02:36:08,280 --> 02:36:10,879
Speaker 10: Yeah, I would ask to read bedtime stories today though.

2778
02:36:11,080 --> 02:36:12,040
Speaker 10: That's kind of what we've been doing.

2779
02:36:15,480 --> 02:36:18,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, I've got a collection of greekology.

2780
02:36:19,560 --> 02:36:21,600
Speaker 3: God, wait is it?

2781
02:36:21,760 --> 02:36:23,320
Speaker 1: Is it the Greek mythology pod?

2782
02:36:24,240 --> 02:36:24,280
Speaker 9: No?

2783
02:36:24,480 --> 02:36:26,880
Speaker 4: No, I have a book full of Greek Do you

2784
02:36:26,920 --> 02:36:30,119
Speaker 4: want I've got a book full of Greek myths?

2785
02:36:32,040 --> 02:36:35,879
Speaker 2: And'll be okay, that's what's happening.

2786
02:36:36,560 --> 02:36:39,040
Speaker 1: Oh man, I was trying to kick caffeine just like

2787
02:36:39,640 --> 02:36:41,480
Speaker 1: here I'm going to eat.

2788
02:36:42,240 --> 02:36:45,520
Speaker 4: It's funny because we're reaching all of these these goals,

2789
02:36:45,879 --> 02:36:49,960
Speaker 4: but we have yet to reach eleven hundred likes. WHOA

2790
02:36:50,760 --> 02:36:52,879
Speaker 4: and I have a really fun thing on the wheel.

2791
02:36:53,680 --> 02:36:56,000
Speaker 4: What I can't tell you? It's a secret.

2792
02:36:57,600 --> 02:36:58,560
Speaker 2: Oh I should.

2793
02:36:59,840 --> 02:36:59,880
Speaker 4: You?

2794
02:37:02,080 --> 02:37:13,879
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Oh my god, oh my god, it's

2795
02:37:13,959 --> 02:37:17,400
Speaker 1: oh my god. I'm just trying to like nourish myself

2796
02:37:17,480 --> 02:37:19,080
Speaker 1: right now. I can't even I do not have to

2797
02:37:19,200 --> 02:37:19,680
Speaker 1: cure few.

2798
02:37:20,280 --> 02:37:23,959
Speaker 2: I'm not that young. What is this notion that twenty

2799
02:37:24,120 --> 02:37:28,480
Speaker 2: is young as every twenty years?

2800
02:37:29,080 --> 02:37:31,199
Speaker 4: What do you mean he's not young?

2801
02:37:31,280 --> 02:37:31,880
Speaker 1: What do you mean?

2802
02:37:32,560 --> 02:37:33,760
Speaker 2: Let me call my mommy and makes.

2803
02:37:36,240 --> 02:37:41,600
Speaker 4: I already gave you your fifteen more minutes, baby Godzilla, Sophia,

2804
02:37:41,720 --> 02:37:42,560
Speaker 4: am I the eight Wait?

2805
02:37:42,640 --> 02:37:44,400
Speaker 1: What did you say with a two hundred and fifty

2806
02:37:44,440 --> 02:37:45,960
Speaker 1: dollars tip? Oh? Period?

2807
02:37:46,000 --> 02:37:47,200
Speaker 3: I will fight you, Sophia.

2808
02:37:48,000 --> 02:37:49,200
Speaker 4: What who's fighting me?

2809
02:37:50,640 --> 02:37:52,160
Speaker 1: Baby God said?

2810
02:37:52,959 --> 02:37:54,880
Speaker 4: I give you your time twelve years?

2811
02:37:55,000 --> 02:37:56,560
Speaker 1: Wait? Can we can we call in Riley?

2812
02:37:57,080 --> 02:38:01,119
Speaker 4: Yeah, he's asleep. He's asleep, actually sleeps a freaking sleep.

2813
02:38:02,360 --> 02:38:05,280
Speaker 1: No, he just said he went to bed Walliam.

2814
02:38:08,280 --> 02:38:11,040
Speaker 4: Sorry, oh, thank you. Pigeon's okay, that's very sweet of you.

2815
02:38:12,959 --> 02:38:15,240
Speaker 4: What's going on? I'm not okay, I'm not meaning to

2816
02:38:15,280 --> 02:38:16,959
Speaker 4: click these Okay, we.

2817
02:38:16,959 --> 02:38:18,480
Speaker 1: Actually haven't called in anybody yet.

2818
02:38:18,600 --> 02:38:19,400
Speaker 4: We've not called in this.

2819
02:38:19,560 --> 02:38:20,720
Speaker 1: Let's see, let's call on someone.

2820
02:38:24,440 --> 02:38:27,600
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, we have a lot, Ali right here. Thanks

2821
02:38:27,640 --> 02:38:30,400
Speaker 3: for the two bucks, Mega, my old orange. Doesn't Clinton

2822
02:38:30,480 --> 02:38:31,480
Speaker 3: have a curfew to be home?

2823
02:38:31,520 --> 02:38:31,640
Speaker 9: By?

2824
02:38:32,480 --> 02:38:36,880
Speaker 1: Haggie Alan? Alice? Wait? Can Clinton read a story? You

2825
02:38:36,959 --> 02:38:40,360
Speaker 1: know what yet? Okay, you know what?

2826
02:38:40,879 --> 02:38:40,920
Speaker 9: No.

2827
02:38:41,360 --> 02:38:43,440
Speaker 2: I can barely get my own microphone.

2828
02:38:45,480 --> 02:38:48,520
Speaker 1: But soon soon. We can't give you all of Clinton

2829
02:38:48,600 --> 02:38:49,560
Speaker 1: at once. Come on, true?

2830
02:38:52,040 --> 02:38:53,160
Speaker 3: What is his back?

2831
02:38:54,040 --> 02:38:54,440
Speaker 2: I don't know.

2832
02:38:55,280 --> 02:39:01,680
Speaker 4: I don't know someone's back. Is any of this interesting?

2833
02:39:03,400 --> 02:39:06,360
Speaker 1: Uh? We're gonna do a call and then we'll do

2834
02:39:06,400 --> 02:39:06,959
Speaker 1: another story.

2835
02:39:07,959 --> 02:39:08,840
Speaker 4: Do you like any of the.

2836
02:39:10,640 --> 02:39:11,040
Speaker 1: M hmm?

2837
02:39:11,640 --> 02:39:12,760
Speaker 4: Okay, we got we got this?

2838
02:39:14,400 --> 02:39:14,920
Speaker 1: What do we got?

2839
02:39:15,720 --> 02:39:16,160
Speaker 5: Got this?

2840
02:39:17,840 --> 02:39:18,320
Speaker 4: Got this?

2841
02:39:22,320 --> 02:39:23,440
Speaker 1: But my weaponry?

2842
02:39:24,400 --> 02:39:24,600
Speaker 10: Yeah?

2843
02:39:25,600 --> 02:39:26,800
Speaker 1: What do you think of the eel skin?

2844
02:39:27,800 --> 02:39:30,120
Speaker 4: I don't really love it? I don't really love it.

2845
02:39:31,600 --> 02:39:34,039
Speaker 1: Wasn't okay?

2846
02:39:34,080 --> 02:39:37,480
Speaker 4: Everyone, everyone, if you have a thing that you want

2847
02:39:37,520 --> 02:39:38,040
Speaker 4: to talk about.

2848
02:39:38,920 --> 02:39:40,840
Speaker 1: I thought we had people, Well we do.

2849
02:39:41,040 --> 02:39:42,840
Speaker 4: I just clicked through and you didn't say anything.

2850
02:39:43,560 --> 02:39:45,840
Speaker 1: I wasn't what was I supposed to be reading?

2851
02:39:46,040 --> 02:39:49,320
Speaker 4: I said, which one do you want? But there? But

2852
02:39:49,600 --> 02:39:51,320
Speaker 4: none of them are relevant to what we were because

2853
02:39:51,320 --> 02:39:58,040
Speaker 4: these are old. I guess what did we just read?

2854
02:39:59,400 --> 02:40:00,160
Speaker 4: What did we just read?

2855
02:40:00,160 --> 02:40:03,720
Speaker 3: You, guys, we should be careful of that. Havn't any

2856
02:40:04,600 --> 02:40:05,760
Speaker 3: getting any stuff on the couch.

2857
02:40:08,959 --> 02:40:11,879
Speaker 1: We read something about Jessica the assistant.

2858
02:40:12,480 --> 02:40:15,960
Speaker 4: Okay, if you ever have had your partner, have you

2859
02:40:16,000 --> 02:40:18,240
Speaker 4: ever said the wrong name? Have you ever said the

2860
02:40:18,240 --> 02:40:18,640
Speaker 4: wrong name?

2861
02:40:18,800 --> 02:40:20,600
Speaker 1: So I know one of you has that story on your.

2862
02:40:20,560 --> 02:40:23,400
Speaker 3: Message us immediately, I know if you've ever said the

2863
02:40:23,440 --> 02:40:27,440
Speaker 3: wrong name or had someone else say your wrong name?

2864
02:40:27,600 --> 02:40:37,120
Speaker 4: Yes, message us immediately. Oh whoa wait? Did you already

2865
02:40:37,120 --> 02:40:37,440
Speaker 4: read these?

2866
02:40:40,040 --> 02:40:44,880
Speaker 1: We've did making my own Orange Angie and Ali rape

2867
02:40:44,879 --> 02:40:47,560
Speaker 1: your thanks for the two box. Hats off to the

2868
02:40:47,680 --> 02:40:54,320
Speaker 1: baby Goldzilla. Absolutely, hats off. Guys. I'm sweating in here.

2869
02:40:57,560 --> 02:41:04,840
Speaker 4: Okay, there was more to that. It's just hote.

2870
02:41:06,040 --> 02:41:10,000
Speaker 3: Thanks for a five buck tip. I'm broke, but still

2871
02:41:10,120 --> 02:41:13,160
Speaker 3: changing the ten hour stream. Let's see if we could

2872
02:41:13,200 --> 02:41:14,640
Speaker 3: break in Clinton early.

2873
02:41:14,600 --> 02:41:15,160
Speaker 4: Break him in.

2874
02:41:16,959 --> 02:41:19,480
Speaker 2: Actually, nothing can break me Clinton.

2875
02:41:19,600 --> 02:41:20,720
Speaker 3: Is there napkins?

2876
02:41:21,040 --> 02:41:21,240
Speaker 2: Yes?

2877
02:41:22,600 --> 02:41:23,520
Speaker 4: Is there any naps?

2878
02:41:24,680 --> 02:41:27,199
Speaker 1: Oh? Naps? Any nap Clinton?

2879
02:41:27,320 --> 02:41:28,400
Speaker 4: You know what would be great? Right now?

2880
02:41:31,879 --> 02:41:36,080
Speaker 1: Are all the windows open? It seems like a lie.

2881
02:41:37,879 --> 02:41:41,000
Speaker 4: Oh well, we have air conditioning. I'm actually quite good.

2882
02:41:45,200 --> 02:41:49,600
Speaker 1: There's the electric kettle and then yes, yeah.

2883
02:41:49,560 --> 02:41:52,320
Speaker 4: Okay, you guys read while I while I chat about.

2884
02:41:52,120 --> 02:41:58,360
Speaker 1: That, came yeah I want nothing. I'll take or wise

2885
02:41:58,480 --> 02:41:59,519
Speaker 1: water please.

2886
02:42:07,240 --> 02:42:09,679
Speaker 4: Clinton? Clinton?

2887
02:42:11,480 --> 02:42:18,160
Speaker 1: Where that sty boy dude, French main outfit. Let's let's

2888
02:42:18,200 --> 02:42:20,160
Speaker 1: find a goal if you're comfortable with that, and then

2889
02:42:20,200 --> 02:42:21,440
Speaker 1: we'll hit that at some point.

2890
02:42:22,240 --> 02:42:27,680
Speaker 3: Anyways, dude, that would be great, although although it has

2891
02:42:27,760 --> 02:42:29,440
Speaker 3: it would have to be conservative because that is just

2892
02:42:29,480 --> 02:42:30,440
Speaker 3: way too much for chat.

2893
02:42:34,400 --> 02:42:36,120
Speaker 1: Megan, my my me and my old Orge. I've never

2894
02:42:36,160 --> 02:42:39,880
Speaker 1: said the wrong game during spicy sleep. Oh my gosh,

2895
02:42:40,160 --> 02:42:40,520
Speaker 1: a people.

2896
02:42:42,800 --> 02:42:49,400
Speaker 4: Oh maybe Sophia callen uh oh, not about this, but it's.

2897
02:42:49,320 --> 02:42:50,879
Speaker 1: A good story put there.

2898
02:42:51,080 --> 02:42:53,119
Speaker 3: So Sophia just put the t l d R in there?

2899
02:42:53,760 --> 02:42:56,960
Speaker 3: What but well, let's see, Le's see if we have

2900
02:42:57,120 --> 02:42:59,680
Speaker 3: someone that has the LDR. But no, like like they

2901
02:42:59,720 --> 02:43:02,320
Speaker 3: put their teeth, their their their their story title. Who

2902
02:43:02,440 --> 02:43:04,960
Speaker 3: did I'm just saying for Sophia to put it in.

2903
02:43:05,280 --> 02:43:06,920
Speaker 4: Oh oh, Sophia put your t L d R.

2904
02:43:07,680 --> 02:43:08,320
Speaker 1: I forget that.

2905
02:43:08,440 --> 02:43:10,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, sorry, you say my name.

2906
02:43:12,800 --> 02:43:15,600
Speaker 1: I forgot my own sister's name for a second. He's

2907
02:43:15,680 --> 02:43:20,760
Speaker 1: in the clear Love, Bubble, Sex and ten bucks on

2908
02:43:20,840 --> 02:43:24,440
Speaker 1: the general link two minutes for every lost we have,

2909
02:43:24,520 --> 02:43:29,080
Speaker 1: we not given you enough lost train of thought. That's

2910
02:43:29,600 --> 02:43:35,160
Speaker 1: does anyone happen? We are waiting your teldas in the

2911
02:43:35,400 --> 02:43:38,240
Speaker 1: in the DM, just choose one. Choose one.

2912
02:43:38,879 --> 02:43:41,599
Speaker 4: I const.

2913
02:43:43,400 --> 02:43:50,640
Speaker 3: She hasn't sent the the title, the title, pick your favorite,

2914
02:43:51,160 --> 02:43:52,199
Speaker 3: pick your best picure.

2915
02:43:52,280 --> 02:44:03,640
Speaker 1: I can't even read it, so a, okay, let's do it.

2916
02:44:04,920 --> 02:44:05,640
Speaker 1: We're calling you.

2917
02:44:05,760 --> 02:44:08,120
Speaker 4: Get ready, you got ready?

2918
02:44:16,879 --> 02:44:26,360
Speaker 1: Bringing a might not beyond Oh hello, a, I we

2919
02:44:26,520 --> 02:44:35,160
Speaker 1: heard you have a story of some sort. Please share? Okay?

2920
02:44:35,360 --> 02:44:35,680
Speaker 2: Story?

2921
02:44:37,080 --> 02:44:37,400
Speaker 4: Okay?

2922
02:44:37,800 --> 02:44:42,040
Speaker 9: So I just found you guys, like about a month ago.

2923
02:44:42,240 --> 02:44:46,600
Speaker 9: So I'm newbie, so and who doesn't love story time?

2924
02:44:47,040 --> 02:44:47,440
Speaker 1: That's right?

2925
02:44:47,879 --> 02:44:48,800
Speaker 3: How did you find us?

2926
02:44:50,360 --> 02:44:53,360
Speaker 12: You guys just popped up on my on my YouTube?

2927
02:44:53,920 --> 02:44:57,119
Speaker 3: Nice huge so yeah, so welcome to the fan.

2928
02:44:57,320 --> 02:44:58,720
Speaker 1: Yep, thank you.

2929
02:45:00,160 --> 02:45:06,000
Speaker 9: So the story that I gave you guys, my ex

2930
02:45:06,120 --> 02:45:09,680
Speaker 9: husband and I had issues when he remarried the current

2931
02:45:09,760 --> 02:45:10,800
Speaker 9: girl he's with now.

2932
02:45:12,560 --> 02:45:13,240
Speaker 4: We met.

2933
02:45:13,720 --> 02:45:16,520
Speaker 9: Long story short, We met in two thousand and nine.

2934
02:45:17,560 --> 02:45:20,840
Speaker 12: We are excuse me, we go back.

2935
02:45:21,280 --> 02:45:24,680
Speaker 9: We met in two thousand and two online aol surprise.

2936
02:45:26,400 --> 02:45:27,119
Speaker 12: We got married.

2937
02:45:28,160 --> 02:45:31,960
Speaker 9: He came to he's from Kentucky. I'm in Idaho.

2938
02:45:32,560 --> 02:45:33,480
Speaker 12: He came to live with me.

2939
02:45:34,320 --> 02:45:37,039
Speaker 9: We got married in two thousand and three. We had

2940
02:45:37,080 --> 02:45:39,760
Speaker 9: a child in two thousand and five. He wasn't ready

2941
02:45:39,800 --> 02:45:42,880
Speaker 9: to be a dad, so I left him were we

2942
02:45:43,000 --> 02:45:45,200
Speaker 9: got divorced A couple of years later.

2943
02:45:45,560 --> 02:45:46,520
Speaker 4: He met a dad.

2944
02:45:46,879 --> 02:45:48,280
Speaker 1: After you had a child together.

2945
02:45:49,240 --> 02:45:51,480
Speaker 12: Yeah, he'd rather play D and D and be with

2946
02:45:51,560 --> 02:45:53,080
Speaker 12: his guys than be become a parent.

2947
02:45:53,480 --> 02:45:59,480
Speaker 1: Oh my word, Okay, yeah, Now he is addictive, so

2948
02:45:59,600 --> 02:46:01,200
Speaker 1: he is from that stuff all the time.

2949
02:46:01,959 --> 02:46:04,840
Speaker 12: Oh, I love D and D and our child does too.

2950
02:46:04,879 --> 02:46:04,959
Speaker 9: So.

2951
02:46:06,879 --> 02:46:09,280
Speaker 1: So you love you love your child more than D

2952
02:46:09,360 --> 02:46:16,480
Speaker 1: and D. He did, Yes, but the D and D

2953
02:46:16,720 --> 02:46:17,600
Speaker 1: or you love your child?

2954
02:46:18,160 --> 02:46:23,200
Speaker 9: And I actually wanted to play. But parenting comes more

2955
02:46:23,240 --> 02:46:24,200
Speaker 9: important than Game ten.

2956
02:46:24,360 --> 02:46:24,720
Speaker 1: There we go.

2957
02:46:25,720 --> 02:46:28,879
Speaker 12: Game time comes when you're when your child is napping.

2958
02:46:29,600 --> 02:46:33,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, agreed, When you're not abandoning your wife and child

2959
02:46:33,520 --> 02:46:37,880
Speaker 1: until you can include the okay, okay.

2960
02:46:38,240 --> 02:46:44,600
Speaker 9: So he remarried this woman and after they she she's

2961
02:46:44,680 --> 02:46:46,440
Speaker 9: from Pocatello, Idaho.

2962
02:46:46,520 --> 02:46:47,119
Speaker 12: I'm an Aile.

2963
02:46:47,040 --> 02:46:52,920
Speaker 9: Falls, Idaho, but she was living with they married, They

2964
02:46:53,040 --> 02:46:56,400
Speaker 9: lived across the street of friends, and we came to

2965
02:46:56,520 --> 02:47:00,360
Speaker 9: the agreement that he would have child visitations after the

2966
02:47:00,400 --> 02:47:03,680
Speaker 9: divorce and everything was final, and I had no problem

2967
02:47:03,720 --> 02:47:03,920
Speaker 9: with it.

2968
02:47:04,879 --> 02:47:08,240
Speaker 3: Everyone saying it's a little loud, sorry a little bit.

2969
02:47:11,280 --> 02:47:15,760
Speaker 9: So she I called her one day because my ex

2970
02:47:15,840 --> 02:47:18,879
Speaker 9: husband was working. I was running late, so I called

2971
02:47:18,920 --> 02:47:20,920
Speaker 9: her and I was like, hey, just you know, I'm

2972
02:47:21,000 --> 02:47:24,800
Speaker 9: running a little bit late. I'll be there within the

2973
02:47:24,879 --> 02:47:27,680
Speaker 9: half hour because my son had an appointment.

2974
02:47:27,840 --> 02:47:28,800
Speaker 12: And she goes, oh, okay.

2975
02:47:30,080 --> 02:47:32,520
Speaker 9: Not even two minutes later, the ex husband calls me,

2976
02:47:34,200 --> 02:47:35,760
Speaker 9: why are you not bringing my son over?

2977
02:47:39,879 --> 02:47:41,120
Speaker 12: My ex husband called me.

2978
02:47:41,320 --> 02:47:43,360
Speaker 3: Why have you brought the son? Your your son over?

2979
02:47:43,520 --> 02:47:47,840
Speaker 1: So he's like, just explained it to Yeah, she called.

2980
02:47:47,800 --> 02:47:53,840
Speaker 12: She twisted my words. She told him that I wasn't

2981
02:47:54,120 --> 02:47:54,720
Speaker 12: bringing him.

2982
02:47:55,280 --> 02:47:58,640
Speaker 3: Oh so she's basically trying to get like wedge.

2983
02:47:58,879 --> 02:47:59,000
Speaker 1: Uh.

2984
02:48:00,600 --> 02:48:01,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, she's trying to sew discord.

2985
02:48:02,879 --> 02:48:04,440
Speaker 12: Oh yes, so she was.

2986
02:48:04,520 --> 02:48:08,480
Speaker 9: Trying to be a part of like, well he's not coming,

2987
02:48:08,640 --> 02:48:14,000
Speaker 9: so yeah, I is, I'm running late. This happened multiple times.

2988
02:48:15,840 --> 02:48:21,880
Speaker 9: So this is about five years later. He we our

2989
02:48:21,959 --> 02:48:24,400
Speaker 9: son is turning five. He run it wanted to do

2990
02:48:24,560 --> 02:48:28,240
Speaker 9: his son's birthday. I had no problem with it as

2991
02:48:28,320 --> 02:48:31,600
Speaker 9: long as I had my friends invited. And he I

2992
02:48:31,760 --> 02:48:34,320
Speaker 9: was frying with whoever he invited because I was friends

2993
02:48:34,360 --> 02:48:39,760
Speaker 9: with his friends. His birthday was just last week actually,

2994
02:48:41,120 --> 02:48:45,120
Speaker 9: but in the following month and month in May, I

2995
02:48:45,280 --> 02:48:49,400
Speaker 9: get a phone call and I hadn't talked to a

2996
02:48:49,480 --> 02:48:51,880
Speaker 9: couple A and couple B. I didn't talked to a

2997
02:48:51,959 --> 02:48:55,240
Speaker 9: couple A since August of the year before. I hadn't

2998
02:48:55,240 --> 02:48:57,879
Speaker 9: talked to the couple bees since January of that year.

2999
02:48:59,320 --> 02:49:03,120
Speaker 9: So May he calls me and he goes, hey, we

3000
02:49:03,240 --> 02:49:06,240
Speaker 9: need to talk. And when he says that, I know

3001
02:49:06,800 --> 02:49:09,680
Speaker 9: he did something because this has been going on for

3002
02:49:09,760 --> 02:49:14,240
Speaker 9: about five years now, and so I was like what,

3003
02:49:15,560 --> 02:49:18,600
Speaker 9: And he goes, A little Birdie told me, you called

3004
02:49:19,280 --> 02:49:20,560
Speaker 9: couple A and couple.

3005
02:49:20,360 --> 02:49:26,959
Speaker 12: B that they're not allowed to come to the party. Okay, okay, Uh,

3006
02:49:28,520 --> 02:49:30,160
Speaker 12: how'd you get that info?

3007
02:49:30,400 --> 02:49:32,640
Speaker 9: Because I hadn't talked to a couple A and B

3008
02:49:32,800 --> 02:49:36,320
Speaker 9: since October January or August January.

3009
02:49:36,720 --> 02:49:41,960
Speaker 12: And he's like, you haven't spoke to him. No, why

3010
02:49:42,280 --> 02:49:43,279
Speaker 12: would you think.

3011
02:49:43,240 --> 02:49:43,720
Speaker 4: I said that?

3012
02:49:43,920 --> 02:49:47,080
Speaker 1: Well, current wife, I see you. I see you.

3013
02:49:48,680 --> 02:49:51,080
Speaker 4: Clear as day, Clear's day.

3014
02:49:51,840 --> 02:49:54,600
Speaker 9: So I told him he'd better get his decks in

3015
02:49:54,600 --> 02:49:58,560
Speaker 9: a row or somebody's gonna come after Little Birdie's butt.

3016
02:49:59,360 --> 02:50:06,160
Speaker 9: M Oh, so day of party comes the couple A

3017
02:50:06,680 --> 02:50:10,440
Speaker 9: and one person of the couple bee was there. The

3018
02:50:11,240 --> 02:50:15,080
Speaker 9: wife of couple BEE was at work. So I pulled

3019
02:50:15,120 --> 02:50:17,960
Speaker 9: those three to the side. I get ex husband and

3020
02:50:18,120 --> 02:50:22,600
Speaker 9: current wife and I didn't say anything to the X

3021
02:50:22,680 --> 02:50:25,440
Speaker 9: and current wife. I looked straight at the other couples

3022
02:50:26,120 --> 02:50:28,680
Speaker 9: and I said, Hey, got a question.

3023
02:50:28,560 --> 02:50:30,360
Speaker 1: For you, my chance.

3024
02:50:30,440 --> 02:50:33,240
Speaker 9: Did I give you guys a call it any time

3025
02:50:33,320 --> 02:50:36,800
Speaker 9: of day to tell you not to come to our party?

3026
02:50:37,720 --> 02:50:42,320
Speaker 9: And they're like, we haven't spoke to you for months. Okay,

3027
02:50:42,440 --> 02:50:44,520
Speaker 9: So I'm getting this straight. You haven't heard from me

3028
02:50:45,000 --> 02:50:45,680
Speaker 9: a long time.

3029
02:50:46,000 --> 02:50:50,920
Speaker 1: So you're getting all the exposed. You're exposing all the

3030
02:50:51,120 --> 02:50:57,680
Speaker 1: lies in like real time. Yes, delicious and and xt

3031
02:50:57,720 --> 02:51:00,560
Speaker 1: book and what was the what was the The husband

3032
02:51:00,640 --> 02:51:03,440
Speaker 1: and the girl's response is move.

3033
02:51:03,959 --> 02:51:06,520
Speaker 12: He knew at this point, he knew that I was

3034
02:51:06,600 --> 02:51:10,800
Speaker 12: not playing her game. And I looked.

3035
02:51:11,200 --> 02:51:14,200
Speaker 9: I turned around and looked at her and I said

3036
02:51:15,160 --> 02:51:18,160
Speaker 9: some not very nice words, but I told her, your

3037
02:51:18,200 --> 02:51:18,880
Speaker 9: butt is mine.

3038
02:51:18,920 --> 02:51:21,959
Speaker 12: If this happens again, I'm done with your games.

3039
02:51:24,120 --> 02:51:26,560
Speaker 3: Good putting it out in the open, Yeah, Because I

3040
02:51:26,640 --> 02:51:30,160
Speaker 3: feel like people like that thrive and the darkness, you know,

3041
02:51:30,280 --> 02:51:33,560
Speaker 3: they want to just sow all this terrible I hate

3042
02:51:33,840 --> 02:51:38,959
Speaker 3: and and they do so successfully when they're they're not exposed,

3043
02:51:39,000 --> 02:51:41,960
Speaker 3: because like all they're just like whispering things in other

3044
02:51:42,000 --> 02:51:45,640
Speaker 3: people's ears to just like ruin your reputation. And the

3045
02:51:45,720 --> 02:51:47,680
Speaker 3: only way to do that is just like expose them

3046
02:51:47,720 --> 02:51:51,280
Speaker 3: in front of other people in in in like in

3047
02:51:51,400 --> 02:51:56,280
Speaker 3: a uh it's in a public settle, just broad daylight.

3048
02:51:56,480 --> 02:51:56,840
Speaker 1: It's like that.

3049
02:51:57,000 --> 02:51:59,680
Speaker 3: It's kind of like similar to when like you're getting

3050
02:51:59,720 --> 02:52:01,600
Speaker 3: bully and bullied and bullied and then you just like

3051
02:52:01,840 --> 02:52:04,400
Speaker 3: hit the bully back once and then the bully is like, oh,

3052
02:52:04,959 --> 02:52:07,520
Speaker 3: I know this person isn't a target. They might just

3053
02:52:07,640 --> 02:52:09,440
Speaker 3: be doing the same thing to other people, but at

3054
02:52:09,520 --> 02:52:11,320
Speaker 3: least they won't they won't get you, or.

3055
02:52:11,320 --> 02:52:13,640
Speaker 1: Maybe they'll learn. Maybe they'll learn, you know, but yeah,

3056
02:52:14,280 --> 02:52:17,280
Speaker 1: shout out to you that have they have they uh

3057
02:52:17,800 --> 02:52:18,920
Speaker 1: have been a problem.

3058
02:52:18,640 --> 02:52:24,000
Speaker 9: Since Actually the three that was there, all four of

3059
02:52:24,080 --> 02:52:27,240
Speaker 9: them got after her because they were done playing with

3060
02:52:27,360 --> 02:52:27,840
Speaker 9: her games.

3061
02:52:28,400 --> 02:52:30,480
Speaker 12: After that, she's been totally fine.

3062
02:52:30,879 --> 02:52:34,959
Speaker 1: Amazing, it worked A I give you an A plus

3063
02:52:35,080 --> 02:52:37,080
Speaker 1: A plus A A wow.

3064
02:52:38,200 --> 02:52:43,120
Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, we've beat we've we've compromised. And she did

3065
02:52:43,240 --> 02:52:45,960
Speaker 9: want to you know, the husband and I ex husband.

3066
02:52:46,000 --> 02:52:50,039
Speaker 9: I always said that we always would parent our child

3067
02:52:50,200 --> 02:52:54,040
Speaker 9: together and she's like, well, I want my two cents in.

3068
02:52:54,720 --> 02:52:57,000
Speaker 12: That's fine, but we get the final.

3069
02:52:56,840 --> 02:52:59,200
Speaker 3: Say yeah, completely agree.

3070
02:53:00,120 --> 02:53:05,520
Speaker 9: Yeah, Well, thank you for last year and she was

3071
02:53:05,560 --> 02:53:08,000
Speaker 9: at the graduation and we had no problems.

3072
02:53:08,120 --> 02:53:11,640
Speaker 12: And we've been getting along pretty.

3073
02:53:11,440 --> 02:53:14,840
Speaker 3: Well since sailing, which goes like when you stick up

3074
02:53:14,879 --> 02:53:18,160
Speaker 3: for yourself and like what's right and actually handle business,

3075
02:53:18,480 --> 02:53:21,800
Speaker 3: business gets handled. So a a plus for handling business.

3076
02:53:21,840 --> 02:53:23,680
Speaker 3: And thank you so much for calling it and telling

3077
02:53:23,720 --> 02:53:27,560
Speaker 3: your story. Thanks for joining the Okay fam a month.

3078
02:53:27,879 --> 02:53:29,280
Speaker 1: I love that. How's it feel?

3079
02:53:30,800 --> 02:53:32,800
Speaker 12: And by the way, I saw the dog earlier?

3080
02:53:33,520 --> 02:53:36,039
Speaker 3: Oh no way, Chip, Yeah, Chips, Chip's a good boy.

3081
02:53:36,560 --> 02:53:38,440
Speaker 12: I'm a dog lover. I grew up with five dogs.

3082
02:53:38,720 --> 02:53:42,360
Speaker 3: I know honestly every time. Chip is not actually our dog.

3083
02:53:42,560 --> 02:53:47,320
Speaker 3: It's our friend's dad's dog, our roommate Christian's dad's dog,

3084
02:53:47,440 --> 02:53:50,800
Speaker 3: so he will have Yeah, he's an honorary member of

3085
02:53:50,840 --> 02:53:52,840
Speaker 3: the household. But yeah, we're talking.

3086
02:53:52,920 --> 02:53:56,160
Speaker 9: He adopted you, guys, there we go, he adopted you.

3087
02:53:56,560 --> 02:53:57,039
Speaker 2: That's right.

3088
02:53:57,360 --> 02:53:59,360
Speaker 1: Well, hey, thank you so much for hopping on and

3089
02:53:59,400 --> 02:54:03,360
Speaker 1: sharing your story. Welcome to the family. Welcome I'm a

3090
02:54:03,400 --> 02:54:08,800
Speaker 1: good one you audios. There we go. Story and revenge

3091
02:54:08,840 --> 02:54:12,160
Speaker 1: that worked out, not even revenge like uh in just desserts.

3092
02:54:12,320 --> 02:54:15,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, justice story and justice, story and justice because I

3093
02:54:15,480 --> 02:54:18,920
Speaker 3: feel like revenge is is it's like a difference. Yeah,

3094
02:54:19,440 --> 02:54:24,480
Speaker 3: revenge feels like you're not. It's like it's like revenge

3095
02:54:24,560 --> 02:54:28,240
Speaker 3: is someone does something bad to you, they stop, and

3096
02:54:28,480 --> 02:54:32,520
Speaker 3: then you get back at them. This is like defending yourself.

3097
02:54:32,600 --> 02:54:36,120
Speaker 1: Well yeah, like like, yeah, revenge is doing something bad

3098
02:54:36,240 --> 02:54:39,600
Speaker 1: for the sake of doing something bad, versus justice, which

3099
02:54:39,720 --> 02:54:44,800
Speaker 1: is just like wronging an error, correcting it, correcting it wrong,

3100
02:54:44,920 --> 02:54:53,680
Speaker 1: and stopping. We're just getting ourselves organized, ladies and gentlemen.

3101
02:54:55,640 --> 02:54:59,039
Speaker 1: But in seat nice.

3102
02:55:00,600 --> 02:55:03,320
Speaker 3: We complete each other's sandwiches.

3103
02:55:03,840 --> 02:55:08,240
Speaker 1: That's what I was gonna say. Yeah, but are we

3104
02:55:08,640 --> 02:55:09,760
Speaker 1: what are we even doing right now?

3105
02:55:10,600 --> 02:55:11,280
Speaker 4: Another story?

3106
02:55:12,440 --> 02:55:15,640
Speaker 3: All right, Yeah, I have I have a I have one,

3107
02:55:15,760 --> 02:55:17,400
Speaker 3: cute three s three?

3108
02:55:19,040 --> 02:55:19,920
Speaker 4: We do ice packs?

3109
02:55:19,920 --> 02:55:22,160
Speaker 3: That's a good question, Nicole Hadden? Do we do do

3110
02:55:22,280 --> 02:55:22,680
Speaker 3: ice ex?

3111
02:55:23,400 --> 02:55:27,360
Speaker 1: I loved Clinton is a hero?

3112
02:55:28,640 --> 02:55:31,640
Speaker 3: Do we need new ones? Let's go wow.

3113
02:55:33,720 --> 02:55:41,440
Speaker 1: Shout that we need a man? What a long stream?

3114
02:55:42,000 --> 02:55:42,280
Speaker 5: This is?

3115
02:55:42,400 --> 02:55:46,720
Speaker 1: This is uber long long a while in a secone?

3116
02:55:46,840 --> 02:55:47,680
Speaker 1: What wow?

3117
02:55:47,720 --> 02:55:53,240
Speaker 3: It's almost and yeah, there's no way we go.

3118
02:55:53,680 --> 02:56:00,279
Speaker 4: More than shut your mouth, shut their partner.

3119
02:56:00,760 --> 02:56:03,879
Speaker 3: All right anyway, Yeah, Jellyba says, it's only been six

3120
02:56:04,000 --> 02:56:05,840
Speaker 3: hours up six hours.

3121
02:56:06,400 --> 02:56:08,720
Speaker 4: Who want you guys to know that we don't leave.

3122
02:56:09,160 --> 02:56:13,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's no ad break where we leave. Yeah, butts

3123
02:56:13,280 --> 02:56:14,000
Speaker 1: are in seats?

3124
02:56:14,520 --> 02:56:18,080
Speaker 3: How long did How long did Kaysanott mean with like

3125
02:56:18,160 --> 02:56:18,640
Speaker 3: Kevin Hurt?

3126
02:56:19,560 --> 02:56:22,440
Speaker 1: Was it all night? It was? It was at a minimum,

3127
02:56:22,480 --> 02:56:25,280
Speaker 1: it was all night, probably like eighteen hours. I think

3128
02:56:25,320 --> 02:56:27,720
Speaker 1: for thirty day. I think he streamed straight for thirty

3129
02:56:27,840 --> 02:56:31,920
Speaker 1: days on his sabbathan because he would have he would

3130
02:56:31,959 --> 02:56:34,360
Speaker 1: have other people come in and guest toast and stuff.

3131
02:56:34,520 --> 02:56:36,039
Speaker 1: But I'm pretty sure it was twenty four to seven

3132
02:56:36,120 --> 02:56:39,680
Speaker 1: for thirty day. That's so crazy, insane, right, do you

3133
02:56:39,760 --> 02:56:43,000
Speaker 1: think we could do that? Thirty days is kind of

3134
02:56:43,040 --> 02:56:47,040
Speaker 1: a lot. Twenty four no question. Twenty four hours we

3135
02:56:47,080 --> 02:56:49,720
Speaker 1: could one hundred percent deal, Yeah, But twenty.

3136
02:56:49,560 --> 02:56:51,760
Speaker 4: Four hours were like halfway to doing We just have

3137
02:56:51,920 --> 02:56:54,520
Speaker 4: to if Riley and I switched out and you and

3138
02:56:54,680 --> 02:56:55,480
Speaker 4: John switch.

3139
02:56:55,320 --> 02:56:56,560
Speaker 3: Out, yeah yeah we're there.

3140
02:56:58,240 --> 02:57:02,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, or actually Clinton and I all switch out, like

3141
02:57:02,760 --> 02:57:05,200
Speaker 4: we teach Clinton how to do this and then and

3142
02:57:05,280 --> 02:57:08,640
Speaker 4: then that allows me to switch out as producer and

3143
02:57:08,840 --> 02:57:11,920
Speaker 4: at house in the deep end so quickly.

3144
02:57:12,560 --> 02:57:17,000
Speaker 1: And wait actually, and he swam like Michael Phelps, Clinton,

3145
02:57:17,080 --> 02:57:18,720
Speaker 1: what is your perception of what's going on?

3146
02:57:19,360 --> 02:57:22,280
Speaker 3: Because because what were you what were you expecting yet,

3147
02:57:24,600 --> 02:57:26,520
Speaker 3: grab the micro, grab the mic, the mic.

3148
02:57:27,160 --> 02:57:30,800
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I wasn't expecting any of this at all.

3149
02:57:31,480 --> 02:57:34,280
Speaker 2: But to be honest, I love it.

3150
02:57:34,640 --> 02:57:37,160
Speaker 10: I love how quickly and I think I would be

3151
02:57:37,240 --> 02:57:43,480
Speaker 10: bored if it wasn't like this extreme. Yes, but yeah,

3152
02:57:43,640 --> 02:57:44,480
Speaker 10: I'm having a good time.

3153
02:57:45,760 --> 02:57:48,959
Speaker 4: Yeah, some pas just have to sit around and do nothing.

3154
02:57:49,440 --> 02:57:51,680
Speaker 1: Could you get imagine me working on a set all

3155
02:57:51,720 --> 02:57:53,400
Speaker 1: summer I had to work on.

3156
02:57:54,480 --> 02:57:57,360
Speaker 4: I worked on like a graduate student film and it

3157
02:57:57,440 --> 02:57:59,320
Speaker 4: was fun, but it was like a lot of driving

3158
02:57:59,360 --> 02:58:01,760
Speaker 4: around and just wait waiting.

3159
02:58:04,400 --> 02:58:07,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, lamel better, this is better, this is better? Another

3160
02:58:07,920 --> 02:58:09,800
Speaker 3: big tit al right, should we get into this next story?

3161
02:58:09,920 --> 02:58:15,760
Speaker 1: Let's do it all right? Am I the a hole

3162
02:58:15,800 --> 02:58:19,080
Speaker 1: for telling my fiance to get over her dead ex boyfriend?

3163
02:58:20,760 --> 02:58:21,840
Speaker 1: Oh my god?

3164
02:58:22,640 --> 02:58:25,920
Speaker 3: This comes from throwaway fit knee and they say, my

3165
02:58:26,080 --> 02:58:29,760
Speaker 3: fiance female thirty three, and I male thirty six, have

3166
02:58:29,879 --> 02:58:32,720
Speaker 3: been together for three years. She was with her previous

3167
02:58:32,800 --> 02:58:35,920
Speaker 3: boyfriend for around three years, and they have two young

3168
02:58:36,040 --> 02:58:41,160
Speaker 3: kids together. He died from an OD two weeks ago.

3169
02:58:41,920 --> 02:58:44,000
Speaker 3: Whoa two weeks ago?

3170
02:58:44,200 --> 02:58:45,600
Speaker 1: That is oh my god.

3171
02:58:46,320 --> 02:58:49,320
Speaker 3: He had been struggling with addiction on and off since

3172
02:58:49,440 --> 02:58:52,680
Speaker 3: before they were together. I've known him since childhood, but

3173
02:58:52,760 --> 02:58:56,080
Speaker 3: wasn't close. I can say he was very friendly, outgoing,

3174
02:58:56,320 --> 02:58:58,760
Speaker 3: charismatic guy when he was clean. He was the type

3175
02:58:58,800 --> 02:59:01,200
Speaker 3: of guy where if he was around, you'd stand no

3176
02:59:01,440 --> 02:59:05,400
Speaker 3: chance with the girls because they were all interested in him. Eventually,

3177
02:59:05,640 --> 02:59:07,920
Speaker 3: she broke up with him due to his addiction issues,

3178
02:59:08,160 --> 02:59:11,080
Speaker 3: but ensured that he still had a relationship with his kids.

3179
02:59:11,560 --> 02:59:14,800
Speaker 3: Recently that's been supervised visitations at his parents' house after

3180
02:59:14,879 --> 02:59:18,320
Speaker 3: he lost his job, lost his license, and failed court

3181
02:59:18,600 --> 02:59:24,200
Speaker 3: mandated drug testing. I believe he made some genuine attempts

3182
02:59:24,760 --> 02:59:25,840
Speaker 3: to get clean.

3183
02:59:30,080 --> 02:59:31,000
Speaker 1: Oh um.

3184
02:59:33,000 --> 02:59:37,720
Speaker 3: I I believe he made some genuine attempts to get clean.

3185
02:59:37,879 --> 02:59:38,720
Speaker 1: He was trying.

3186
02:59:39,160 --> 02:59:42,280
Speaker 3: I wanted to succeed. I wanted him to succeed because

3187
02:59:42,280 --> 02:59:44,320
Speaker 3: I've always thought he was a good guy and his

3188
02:59:44,560 --> 02:59:48,040
Speaker 3: kids deserved that version of him. I became the stable,

3189
02:59:48,160 --> 02:59:50,600
Speaker 3: day to day father figure, which I willingly took on,

3190
02:59:50,800 --> 02:59:55,000
Speaker 3: but respected that he was their dad, that they loved him, cute.

3191
02:59:56,160 --> 02:59:59,760
Speaker 3: Since he died, he's been a mess. Yesterday she stayed

3192
02:59:59,800 --> 03:00:02,600
Speaker 3: in all day before sitting outside at night crying for

3193
03:00:02,640 --> 03:00:06,160
Speaker 3: at least an hour. Today is Father's Day, and she

3194
03:00:06,280 --> 03:00:09,880
Speaker 3: practically woke up crying. I know she's not just sad

3195
03:00:09,959 --> 03:00:12,600
Speaker 3: that he's gone, but she's sad for her kids. I

3196
03:00:12,720 --> 03:00:15,240
Speaker 3: know it was devastating for her to have to tell

3197
03:00:15,680 --> 03:00:19,480
Speaker 3: her two very young children that their dad was dead.

3198
03:00:21,480 --> 03:00:26,840
Speaker 3: Which yeah, of course, of course, of course, but.

3199
03:00:26,920 --> 03:00:29,600
Speaker 1: Get over it. I am just waiting is about to

3200
03:00:29,680 --> 03:00:33,879
Speaker 1: say that. I am just waiting with my claws sinking

3201
03:00:33,959 --> 03:00:36,040
Speaker 1: into this couch for this bomb to drop.

3202
03:00:36,280 --> 03:00:36,480
Speaker 6: I am.

3203
03:00:36,760 --> 03:00:38,160
Speaker 1: I am nervous.

3204
03:00:38,240 --> 03:00:43,600
Speaker 3: Anyway, She's been moping around for two weeks, bro crying NonStop,

3205
03:00:44,040 --> 03:00:47,920
Speaker 3: calling off of work. I told her he really needs

3206
03:00:47,959 --> 03:00:51,240
Speaker 3: a snap out of it. Oh god, my god, Oh

3207
03:00:51,360 --> 03:00:56,680
Speaker 3: my god. Okay, but tell me, tell me if this

3208
03:00:56,760 --> 03:00:59,920
Speaker 3: is too much. She told me, I love him so much.

3209
03:01:00,920 --> 03:01:04,880
Speaker 3: He was the love of my life. I'll never love

3210
03:01:04,959 --> 03:01:06,520
Speaker 3: anyone that much.

3211
03:01:07,640 --> 03:01:09,760
Speaker 1: What if we said on that we We've done so

3212
03:01:09,879 --> 03:01:15,840
Speaker 1: many episodes on the Ask Away Loved One. Well, I

3213
03:01:15,920 --> 03:01:18,320
Speaker 1: guess I guess this is a recently different way so

3214
03:01:18,360 --> 03:01:20,440
Speaker 1: it's a different context, well.

3215
03:01:20,840 --> 03:01:24,400
Speaker 3: With different context because because when we've talked about how

3216
03:01:25,160 --> 03:01:29,440
Speaker 3: when someone dies that you were in a relationship with,

3217
03:01:29,920 --> 03:01:31,960
Speaker 3: it's not like you broke up, so you still like

3218
03:01:32,360 --> 03:01:33,800
Speaker 3: there's still going to be love.

3219
03:01:34,000 --> 03:01:38,840
Speaker 1: Yes, for that person. But this one they did break up.

3220
03:01:39,320 --> 03:01:42,200
Speaker 3: They did break up away, and then he passed away yea.

3221
03:01:42,320 --> 03:01:46,760
Speaker 3: And she said I'll never love anyone that much, my

3222
03:01:47,520 --> 03:01:51,800
Speaker 3: which which I imagine is hurtful to hear, even even

3223
03:01:52,000 --> 03:01:56,440
Speaker 3: though maybe he should be understanding of her grief process.

3224
03:01:56,959 --> 03:02:00,120
Speaker 1: Absolutely, the father of your children passes away, like are

3225
03:02:00,160 --> 03:02:03,680
Speaker 1: you freaking kidding me? Still would sting? I would be

3226
03:02:04,720 --> 03:02:08,080
Speaker 1: I would be crying a lot, like for my children

3227
03:02:08,240 --> 03:02:10,800
Speaker 1: to know that they didn't have know the father or

3228
03:02:10,879 --> 03:02:14,640
Speaker 1: mother figure there for them, you know what I mean,

3229
03:02:14,840 --> 03:02:19,000
Speaker 1: Just just that one piece of the grief alone would

3230
03:02:19,280 --> 03:02:23,320
Speaker 1: torture me for a long time because the kids will

3231
03:02:23,360 --> 03:02:25,320
Speaker 1: never have you know, their.

3232
03:02:25,400 --> 03:02:27,880
Speaker 3: And I think that father that is I feel like

3233
03:02:27,959 --> 03:02:30,560
Speaker 3: that is like, yeah, makes sense to me, right, But

3234
03:02:31,200 --> 03:02:35,160
Speaker 3: that extra line of no, never love anyone that much?

3235
03:02:35,280 --> 03:02:40,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, yes, I two things are happening here. One

3236
03:02:40,400 --> 03:02:45,000
Speaker 1: is like maybe maybe she well actually, so it sounds

3237
03:02:45,040 --> 03:02:46,720
Speaker 1: like from the beginning of a story. It's like she

3238
03:02:46,920 --> 03:02:49,160
Speaker 1: had to leave him. It was almost a grieving process

3239
03:02:49,200 --> 03:02:52,360
Speaker 1: of its own because she had to leave him because

3240
03:02:52,400 --> 03:02:53,800
Speaker 1: of the addiction issues.

3241
03:02:55,760 --> 03:02:59,360
Speaker 3: True, right, So it was the so it's like she

3242
03:02:59,480 --> 03:03:01,400
Speaker 3: still loved him, but it's like this is not good

3243
03:03:01,440 --> 03:03:02,240
Speaker 3: around my children.

3244
03:03:02,320 --> 03:03:04,880
Speaker 1: So you can kind of say, in a sense, he

3245
03:03:05,080 --> 03:03:09,720
Speaker 1: died then he he there the version of him that

3246
03:03:10,000 --> 03:03:12,400
Speaker 1: was the clean, sober guy that she fell in love with,

3247
03:03:12,520 --> 03:03:16,040
Speaker 1: because she's like, I cannot be in a relationship with

3248
03:03:16,160 --> 03:03:21,000
Speaker 1: you when you're not sober. So she went through that. Honestly,

3249
03:03:21,360 --> 03:03:23,160
Speaker 1: I'm I think I need to like listen to the

3250
03:03:23,200 --> 03:03:25,840
Speaker 1: whole story and really like let it soak. But uh,

3251
03:03:26,560 --> 03:03:30,959
Speaker 1: I don't know, right, I not that I'm not saying

3252
03:03:31,040 --> 03:03:33,920
Speaker 1: that excuses what she said. I also think that she's

3253
03:03:34,040 --> 03:03:36,320
Speaker 1: probably feeling so much pain and to have him say

3254
03:03:36,360 --> 03:03:40,520
Speaker 1: that to her triggered her to be vicious and bad back. Yeah,

3255
03:03:40,720 --> 03:03:42,600
Speaker 1: I feel like it might be true.

3256
03:03:42,720 --> 03:03:46,119
Speaker 3: Also, Yeah, but saying I told her she really needs

3257
03:03:46,160 --> 03:03:48,039
Speaker 3: to snap out of it, that was uncalled.

3258
03:03:47,720 --> 03:03:50,359
Speaker 1: For insane to me. That is insane.

3259
03:03:50,560 --> 03:03:54,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, she told me I love him so much he

3260
03:03:54,720 --> 03:03:57,200
Speaker 3: was the love of my life that I think I

3261
03:03:57,280 --> 03:03:59,080
Speaker 3: can get away with both this and says I'll never

3262
03:03:59,200 --> 03:04:02,800
Speaker 3: love anyone that much. I think stings, yes, but then

3263
03:04:03,120 --> 03:04:06,720
Speaker 3: we have this next part. Oh, I guess that was

3264
03:04:06,800 --> 03:04:10,040
Speaker 3: the last straw for me. And I told her to

3265
03:04:10,080 --> 03:04:14,200
Speaker 3: get over him or I'm out. I'm not going to

3266
03:04:14,240 --> 03:04:16,480
Speaker 3: be second in her heart after a dead guy she

3267
03:04:16,600 --> 03:04:21,000
Speaker 3: hasn't been in a relationship with four years. She told me,

3268
03:04:21,120 --> 03:04:23,959
Speaker 3: I'm not being empathetic and I have no tact I'm

3269
03:04:23,959 --> 03:04:26,520
Speaker 3: an a hole and he was never that mean to her,

3270
03:04:26,920 --> 03:04:30,120
Speaker 3: regardless of what he was of what was going on. Yeah,

3271
03:04:30,200 --> 03:04:31,400
Speaker 3: it's easy to not have to be an a hole

3272
03:04:31,440 --> 03:04:34,560
Speaker 3: when you're strung out on h or stay drunk twenty

3273
03:04:34,600 --> 03:04:37,600
Speaker 3: four to seven and are the happy type of drunk.

3274
03:04:38,440 --> 03:04:40,360
Speaker 3: Am I the a hole for telling her to get

3275
03:04:40,400 --> 03:04:43,640
Speaker 3: over him and that I won't stick around if she

3276
03:04:43,800 --> 03:04:46,440
Speaker 3: is still in love with him. Slash sees him as

3277
03:04:46,520 --> 03:04:49,040
Speaker 3: the love of her life. Slash says he won't ever

3278
03:04:49,120 --> 03:04:51,320
Speaker 3: love anyone like that again. I really want to know

3279
03:04:51,440 --> 03:04:53,480
Speaker 3: if this was an a whole thing to say, Slash

3280
03:04:53,640 --> 03:04:57,680
Speaker 3: ultimatum to give and there is a relevant comment from

3281
03:04:57,760 --> 03:05:01,000
Speaker 3: Op that will read in a sec but is OP

3282
03:05:01,120 --> 03:05:02,480
Speaker 3: the ale? Uh?

3283
03:05:03,360 --> 03:05:09,520
Speaker 1: Definitely, And I'm not saying it excuses her necessarily for

3284
03:05:09,920 --> 03:05:14,320
Speaker 1: for saying saying what she said back. But uh, I

3285
03:05:14,480 --> 03:05:20,000
Speaker 1: think op's being insanely. I don't even know what the

3286
03:05:20,240 --> 03:05:25,880
Speaker 1: what is it is it it's not controlling it. It's unempathetictive, unempathetic,

3287
03:05:26,280 --> 03:05:31,959
Speaker 1: like like I feel like he's oh so so unempathetic.

3288
03:05:32,080 --> 03:05:35,800
Speaker 1: I would be again for me. It's it's mostly torn

3289
03:05:35,879 --> 03:05:38,720
Speaker 1: up for the kids because the kids have to go

3290
03:05:38,879 --> 03:05:41,560
Speaker 1: through this grieving process and there and they're their children,

3291
03:05:42,280 --> 03:05:46,280
Speaker 1: you know, And I don't know, I think that is

3292
03:05:46,480 --> 03:05:50,480
Speaker 1: now if this was like three years in and they

3293
03:05:50,560 --> 03:05:52,840
Speaker 1: hadn't like, you know, done anything together that we've we've

3294
03:05:52,959 --> 03:05:55,560
Speaker 1: kind of read scenarios where it's like, oh it's been

3295
03:05:55,720 --> 03:05:57,840
Speaker 1: years and like we haven't like made love and like

3296
03:05:57,879 --> 03:06:00,720
Speaker 1: stuff like that. I feel like we've seen scenarios. Yeah, yeah, years,

3297
03:06:00,720 --> 03:06:02,240
Speaker 1: but it's literally two weeks.

3298
03:06:02,440 --> 03:06:05,440
Speaker 3: It's been two weeks, like allow her a grieving period

3299
03:06:05,560 --> 03:06:11,520
Speaker 3: for the father of her children, and like, yes, like

3300
03:06:11,959 --> 03:06:16,920
Speaker 3: saying saying saying that I will never love anyone as

3301
03:06:17,000 --> 03:06:20,880
Speaker 3: much as him is is, I don't think it is

3302
03:06:20,879 --> 03:06:21,720
Speaker 3: a good thing to say.

3303
03:06:21,879 --> 03:06:22,680
Speaker 1: Too painful.

3304
03:06:23,040 --> 03:06:27,840
Speaker 3: Painful painful might be true, might also be true might

3305
03:06:27,920 --> 03:06:28,959
Speaker 3: also be true, but.

3306
03:06:29,080 --> 03:06:32,280
Speaker 1: Maybe she knows. She's like I can never I can

3307
03:06:32,320 --> 03:06:34,320
Speaker 1: never be with him because of the addiction issue.

3308
03:06:34,640 --> 03:06:39,680
Speaker 3: But do you want to be like, sorry, right, really quick?

3309
03:06:39,879 --> 03:06:42,680
Speaker 3: I think he's the a hole for being insensitive, right.

3310
03:06:43,280 --> 03:06:43,879
Speaker 1: I think.

3311
03:06:45,320 --> 03:06:47,800
Speaker 3: She should be given grace because of what she's going

3312
03:06:47,879 --> 03:06:52,200
Speaker 3: through and should also be allowed to grieve for more

3313
03:06:52,280 --> 03:06:58,320
Speaker 3: than two weeks. But my question is if someone says

3314
03:06:58,640 --> 03:07:02,440
Speaker 3: to you, I will never love someone as much as

3315
03:07:02,520 --> 03:07:06,880
Speaker 3: I loved my ex partner who's dead, does that change

3316
03:07:06,879 --> 03:07:08,879
Speaker 3: the nature of your relationship with that person?

3317
03:07:09,280 --> 03:07:12,120
Speaker 1: Very painful? Probably changes the relationship, and I have a

3318
03:07:12,200 --> 03:07:17,520
Speaker 1: banger to return to you. Okay, So in other people's

3319
03:07:17,560 --> 03:07:22,200
Speaker 1: relationships where where they pass away and they were still

3320
03:07:22,200 --> 03:07:26,040
Speaker 1: in a relationship, they could, obviously again, it would probably

3321
03:07:26,040 --> 03:07:28,360
Speaker 1: be hurtful, but they could, if they're being totally honest,

3322
03:07:28,400 --> 03:07:31,200
Speaker 1: be like, hey, I probably won't love anyone like I,

3323
03:07:31,920 --> 03:07:34,160
Speaker 1: you know, loved my partner who passed away, but I

3324
03:07:34,200 --> 03:07:36,400
Speaker 1: still want to build a life with you and so

3325
03:07:36,640 --> 03:07:39,720
Speaker 1: on and so forth. And although that might feel very

3326
03:07:39,760 --> 03:07:42,880
Speaker 1: painful for the other person, I like you could say

3327
03:07:42,959 --> 03:07:44,920
Speaker 1: that that if they're just like being honest and upfront

3328
03:07:44,959 --> 03:07:48,680
Speaker 1: with that person. That could be a fair a fair exchange, right,

3329
03:07:48,760 --> 03:07:51,640
Speaker 1: I think being vindictive possibly.

3330
03:07:51,760 --> 03:07:55,080
Speaker 3: I think yes, But doing that you have to be

3331
03:07:55,240 --> 03:07:59,720
Speaker 3: like super upfront because I mean essentially essentially that person

3332
03:07:59,840 --> 03:08:02,400
Speaker 3: is like, oh, that like their second fiddle.

3333
03:08:02,640 --> 03:08:05,040
Speaker 1: But those people who say that like, oh, I know

3334
03:08:05,240 --> 03:08:05,920
Speaker 1: never loved someone.

3335
03:08:07,280 --> 03:08:10,680
Speaker 3: Fact reality, I never loved someone as I'll never love

3336
03:08:10,720 --> 03:08:14,039
Speaker 3: someone as much again, they cannot go back to that person.

3337
03:08:15,120 --> 03:08:20,000
Speaker 1: Oh, PE's wife could have gone back to him at

3338
03:08:20,160 --> 03:08:25,280
Speaker 1: any point in their life, but chose chose to stay.

3339
03:08:26,000 --> 03:08:29,039
Speaker 3: Yeah, but before because of the addiction than anything else.

3340
03:08:29,120 --> 03:08:32,400
Speaker 3: Like I wonder if he had gotten clean, but would.

3341
03:08:32,280 --> 03:08:34,720
Speaker 1: She have gone? That's also that's also a great point.

3342
03:08:35,080 --> 03:08:38,360
Speaker 3: Did she ever? Did she ever really get over him?

3343
03:08:38,400 --> 03:08:38,840
Speaker 1: Did he ever?

3344
03:08:39,280 --> 03:08:39,400
Speaker 10: Uh?

3345
03:08:39,720 --> 03:08:43,640
Speaker 1: He never got clean? He never got clean? Okay, yes, hmm, yeah,

3346
03:08:43,680 --> 03:08:47,440
Speaker 1: what a sticky situation. I I think I think that

3347
03:08:47,640 --> 03:08:51,920
Speaker 1: what she said was absolutely hurtful, but and and and

3348
03:08:52,160 --> 03:08:55,560
Speaker 1: honestly could totally be true. It could all I think it.

3349
03:08:55,560 --> 03:08:58,040
Speaker 3: Could be true, and it changes the nature of the relationship.

3350
03:08:58,080 --> 03:09:02,280
Speaker 3: And I think oh, p could like after maybe some

3351
03:09:02,440 --> 03:09:05,959
Speaker 3: time of being with her for like a friend or something,

3352
03:09:06,360 --> 03:09:11,119
Speaker 3: could say like I don't know it, Like, oh man,

3353
03:09:11,200 --> 03:09:15,680
Speaker 3: this is so tough, but it's like, all right, let's if.

3354
03:09:17,680 --> 03:09:18,800
Speaker 1: This is not the situation.

3355
03:09:19,080 --> 03:09:21,080
Speaker 3: I don't even I was gonna say, I was gonna

3356
03:09:21,200 --> 03:09:24,160
Speaker 3: this is not the situation, And excuse me if this

3357
03:09:24,600 --> 03:09:32,520
Speaker 3: leads us nowhere. But like if he had gotten clean

3358
03:09:33,800 --> 03:09:38,879
Speaker 3: and she and was living here like this this life,

3359
03:09:39,000 --> 03:09:43,320
Speaker 3: and he told and he was alive, and he had

3360
03:09:43,440 --> 03:09:48,080
Speaker 3: told she told him, I will never love anyone as

3361
03:09:48,200 --> 03:09:53,560
Speaker 3: much as him? Would that change anything in your eyes

3362
03:09:53,600 --> 03:09:56,320
Speaker 3: about the nature of the relationship. So like, basically he's alive,

3363
03:09:56,400 --> 03:09:58,720
Speaker 3: it's like I would never love anyone as much as him.

3364
03:09:58,800 --> 03:10:01,720
Speaker 3: That almost feels close to like the last story where

3365
03:10:02,840 --> 03:10:06,039
Speaker 3: or a couple of stories ago where he was still

3366
03:10:06,080 --> 03:10:07,080
Speaker 3: in love with his ex that he.

3367
03:10:07,120 --> 03:10:10,920
Speaker 1: Ran into I think probably at that point it would.

3368
03:10:11,480 --> 03:10:14,280
Speaker 3: But the only difference is, like the feelings are the same.

3369
03:10:14,440 --> 03:10:16,840
Speaker 3: The only difference is he's dead, so he can't like compete.

3370
03:10:17,080 --> 03:10:19,520
Speaker 1: Well, I think the only difference is he never got cleaned,

3371
03:10:20,480 --> 03:10:26,000
Speaker 1: so she knows she could. She Basically, I as much

3372
03:10:26,040 --> 03:10:29,120
Speaker 1: as I I think that she could be telling the truth,

3373
03:10:29,760 --> 03:10:31,400
Speaker 1: I think she probably is telling the truth.

3374
03:10:31,400 --> 03:10:32,480
Speaker 3: I think she's telling the truth.

3375
03:10:32,640 --> 03:10:36,360
Speaker 1: And I also, uh, as as much as I believe

3376
03:10:36,440 --> 03:10:40,000
Speaker 1: that roughly, I believe that she probably made a promise

3377
03:10:40,040 --> 03:10:42,920
Speaker 1: herself not to go back to him if he was.

3378
03:10:44,240 --> 03:10:48,120
Speaker 3: Not so man so tough, I would I would find

3379
03:10:48,160 --> 03:10:52,800
Speaker 3: it hard to stay with someone who basically was like,

3380
03:10:53,800 --> 03:10:55,640
Speaker 3: I'm never gonna love you as much as this other.

3381
03:10:55,520 --> 03:10:58,680
Speaker 1: Person, literally and totally fair. Right. What I think the

3382
03:10:58,959 --> 03:11:01,960
Speaker 1: biggest failure, which is also an a whole move ultimately,

3383
03:11:02,600 --> 03:11:05,440
Speaker 1: is she never sat her partner down and was like,

3384
03:11:06,040 --> 03:11:09,520
Speaker 1: I need to be straightforward with you because it's only

3385
03:11:09,640 --> 03:11:12,600
Speaker 1: fair that you know this is how I feel and

3386
03:11:13,160 --> 03:11:15,880
Speaker 1: that you are on board with that for us to

3387
03:11:15,959 --> 03:11:16,959
Speaker 1: continue the relationship.

3388
03:11:17,120 --> 03:11:22,080
Speaker 3: I feel like if she if she was upfront about

3389
03:11:22,080 --> 03:11:24,080
Speaker 3: that from the beginning, I think it would have been okay,

3390
03:11:24,240 --> 03:11:27,960
Speaker 3: totally different story. It's now that it's coming up that

3391
03:11:28,200 --> 03:11:30,840
Speaker 3: she's at a breaking point. I think it's. Yeah, three

3392
03:11:30,920 --> 03:11:32,840
Speaker 3: years into relationship is too late to say that you'll

3393
03:11:32,840 --> 03:11:39,000
Speaker 3: always be second best, Diana. Great message, That's that's I

3394
03:11:39,080 --> 03:11:42,080
Speaker 3: think what I'm feeling. He is the a hole for sure.

3395
03:11:42,680 --> 03:11:44,160
Speaker 3: She's in grief, So I don't know if I want

3396
03:11:44,200 --> 03:11:46,600
Speaker 3: to label her as an a hole, but it is

3397
03:11:46,879 --> 03:11:50,920
Speaker 3: not kind to keep this kind of I think, Actually, no,

3398
03:11:50,959 --> 03:11:52,760
Speaker 3: I think it is an a whole move to keep

3399
03:11:52,800 --> 03:11:53,879
Speaker 3: this kind of information away.

3400
03:11:53,959 --> 03:11:56,320
Speaker 1: It was like like you could almost separate out because

3401
03:11:56,640 --> 03:11:59,480
Speaker 1: she felt this way before. It's honestly, I feel like

3402
03:11:59,560 --> 03:12:02,640
Speaker 1: it's less of her saying saying the sentence she said now,

3403
03:12:03,120 --> 03:12:07,800
Speaker 1: but actually omitting it prior. Yes to me, that to

3404
03:12:07,920 --> 03:12:10,240
Speaker 1: me is the big a movie because she was she

3405
03:12:10,480 --> 03:12:13,240
Speaker 1: was poked and poked and prodded. I feel to the

3406
03:12:13,320 --> 03:12:16,720
Speaker 1: point of like exasperation, and that was said out of frustration,

3407
03:12:17,320 --> 03:12:19,360
Speaker 1: but it was true, and she should have said or

3408
03:12:19,560 --> 03:12:22,240
Speaker 1: we're hypothesizing here, but let's say it's let's just say

3409
03:12:22,280 --> 03:12:25,960
Speaker 1: it's true. We're saying it's true. She should have said

3410
03:12:26,000 --> 03:12:29,000
Speaker 1: that way before the three year mark. Yeah, before the

3411
03:12:29,040 --> 03:12:31,880
Speaker 1: three year mark. I think I feel pretty good about

3412
03:12:32,440 --> 03:12:38,800
Speaker 1: where landed. But dangs lot so much to navigate such

3413
03:12:38,840 --> 03:12:42,199
Speaker 1: a hard situation. Oh I am.

3414
03:12:44,640 --> 03:12:47,240
Speaker 3: I feel both navigated it badly. But there is a

3415
03:12:47,280 --> 03:12:51,440
Speaker 3: relevant comment. Okay, okay, throwaway. Fitney says, who's that this is? Opie.

3416
03:12:51,959 --> 03:12:55,240
Speaker 3: I'm certain she was being honest too. She hasn't even

3417
03:12:55,320 --> 03:12:58,120
Speaker 3: tried to backtrack or deny it before she actually said

3418
03:12:58,160 --> 03:13:01,600
Speaker 3: it with words. I found her heated Lee kissing his

3419
03:13:01,760 --> 03:13:05,280
Speaker 3: picture and this bracelet he gave her. I'm sorry, that's

3420
03:13:05,360 --> 03:13:08,120
Speaker 3: just too much to me, laying in bed with his picture,

3421
03:13:08,560 --> 03:13:10,440
Speaker 3: kissing it over and over.

3422
03:13:11,120 --> 03:13:15,640
Speaker 1: I think this is a a hurt cycle going on, right, Yeah,

3423
03:13:16,440 --> 03:13:18,039
Speaker 1: I think that like he.

3424
03:13:18,640 --> 03:13:21,760
Speaker 3: He knows that, and he's retaliating almost.

3425
03:13:21,959 --> 03:13:28,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, like he he started this like uh confrontation, this

3426
03:13:28,879 --> 03:13:32,440
Speaker 1: fight or whatever, and then you know, he started it

3427
03:13:32,959 --> 03:13:36,320
Speaker 1: hurt her and then uh, you know, he gave her

3428
03:13:36,360 --> 03:13:38,560
Speaker 1: the ultimatum, then she said that back, and then now

3429
03:13:39,400 --> 03:13:41,800
Speaker 1: she's kissing the pictures. I think it's just like this

3430
03:13:42,680 --> 03:13:46,760
Speaker 1: back and forth while she's in grief. And yeah, retaliating

3431
03:13:48,280 --> 03:13:50,320
Speaker 1: out of pain sucks. Retalliating out of pain.

3432
03:13:50,600 --> 03:13:55,040
Speaker 3: Alessa Roxanne says, uh, she's grieving so hard. Jellyby says, oh,

3433
03:13:55,160 --> 03:13:59,280
Speaker 3: she's in deep despair. Yeah, I mean it's it's it's

3434
03:13:59,400 --> 03:14:00,520
Speaker 3: definitely pretty rough.

3435
03:14:00,640 --> 03:14:04,320
Speaker 1: And and I I don't say this to excuse her

3436
03:14:04,400 --> 03:14:08,640
Speaker 1: behavior about like on oh P's side, Like you have

3437
03:14:08,800 --> 03:14:12,560
Speaker 1: to understand that if you like, if you uh harass

3438
03:14:12,680 --> 03:14:15,920
Speaker 1: someone in pain, you can't be shocked when they snap

3439
03:14:16,080 --> 03:14:19,400
Speaker 1: back like you just you have to be prepared for.

3440
03:14:20,080 --> 03:14:22,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a good point. I mean, yeah, she was right,

3441
03:14:22,720 --> 03:14:25,640
Speaker 3: and everything he said he lacks completely like he completely

3442
03:14:25,720 --> 03:14:27,560
Speaker 3: lacks tacked. Yeah, completely lacks.

3443
03:14:27,440 --> 03:14:32,360
Speaker 1: Tacked, Like why even why, Like he should never have said, uh,

3444
03:14:33,160 --> 03:14:35,560
Speaker 1: you know, get over it in two weeks to begin with,

3445
03:14:36,560 --> 03:14:38,840
Speaker 1: But that did you know? It ultimately got the truth

3446
03:14:38,879 --> 03:14:41,280
Speaker 1: out and maybe that maybe now they can finally have

3447
03:14:41,360 --> 03:14:42,960
Speaker 1: an honest conversation.

3448
03:14:43,200 --> 03:14:45,400
Speaker 3: Like and you know what, I think, I think what

3449
03:14:45,560 --> 03:14:46,560
Speaker 3: with with the truth out?

3450
03:14:46,920 --> 03:14:48,400
Speaker 1: What with that?

3451
03:14:48,520 --> 03:14:50,680
Speaker 3: And then with that honest conversation, I think they can

3452
03:14:50,840 --> 03:14:54,560
Speaker 3: decide whether to move forward because there's there's nothing wrong

3453
03:14:55,120 --> 03:14:58,840
Speaker 3: with your partner. And then it's gonna sound weird, but

3454
03:14:59,120 --> 03:15:03,720
Speaker 3: there's nothing more wrong with like loving someone else more

3455
03:15:03,800 --> 03:15:07,040
Speaker 3: than you could ever love your partner. There's something wrong

3456
03:15:07,120 --> 03:15:10,160
Speaker 3: in hiding it from that person. If that person's fine

3457
03:15:10,240 --> 03:15:12,240
Speaker 3: being in that position, that's okay. Yes, as long as

3458
03:15:12,360 --> 03:15:16,040
Speaker 3: both parties agree it is, it is fine.

3459
03:15:16,200 --> 03:15:18,320
Speaker 1: And like a lot a lot of people, and we've

3460
03:15:18,360 --> 03:15:21,520
Speaker 1: read so many stories with people with deceased partners where

3461
03:15:21,560 --> 03:15:23,280
Speaker 1: they say that, where it's like, oh, hey, you know,

3462
03:15:23,360 --> 03:15:25,360
Speaker 1: my partner passed away. I'll never love anyone as much

3463
03:15:25,360 --> 03:15:27,680
Speaker 1: as I love them, but I want to build a

3464
03:15:27,720 --> 03:15:29,960
Speaker 1: life with you and and be a life partner and

3465
03:15:30,200 --> 03:15:32,960
Speaker 1: get married to you and the person's like, yes, yeah,

3466
03:15:33,280 --> 03:15:35,920
Speaker 1: they I agree, but that wasn't the case here.

3467
03:15:36,200 --> 03:15:38,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I think there just has to be communication

3468
03:15:38,280 --> 03:15:42,000
Speaker 3: and and and someone said like, uh yeah, but she's

3469
03:15:42,080 --> 03:15:44,520
Speaker 3: in her her like in the midst of her grief.

3470
03:15:45,000 --> 03:15:47,800
Speaker 3: But that's not what we're talking about. That's the A

3471
03:15:47,920 --> 03:15:50,640
Speaker 3: whole move here. The A whole move is not saying

3472
03:15:50,720 --> 03:15:53,040
Speaker 3: it now. Actually that's good that she said it now.

3473
03:15:53,240 --> 03:15:55,800
Speaker 3: A whole move is keeping it a secret for three years?

3474
03:15:56,160 --> 03:15:59,120
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah it was. It was everything prior yeah to

3475
03:15:59,280 --> 03:16:00,200
Speaker 1: the thing.

3476
03:16:01,640 --> 03:16:02,760
Speaker 3: But that's where that story ends.

3477
03:16:03,320 --> 03:16:09,040
Speaker 1: Wow. Yeah, that might be the most like Rubik's Cube thing.

3478
03:16:09,879 --> 03:16:13,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, I honestly low key kind of we kind of

3479
03:16:14,160 --> 03:16:19,320
Speaker 3: dissected it really well, like like not not to pat

3480
03:16:19,400 --> 03:16:20,080
Speaker 3: her own backs.

3481
03:16:20,160 --> 03:16:23,640
Speaker 1: Yeah we did, I think, yeah, I think we did do.

3482
03:16:24,400 --> 03:16:27,320
Speaker 1: We did dive into all of the layers to truly,

3483
03:16:27,360 --> 03:16:32,480
Speaker 1: because it was such a there was such a specific

3484
03:16:32,640 --> 03:16:35,080
Speaker 1: angle you had to look at and so many things

3485
03:16:35,160 --> 03:16:36,840
Speaker 1: you had to consider.

3486
03:16:38,720 --> 03:16:40,840
Speaker 3: Jellybas says, we need something uplifting.

3487
03:16:40,920 --> 03:16:44,840
Speaker 4: Now, can we get something suppressing? I don't know if

3488
03:16:44,879 --> 03:16:45,720
Speaker 4: I have uplifting?

3489
03:16:46,080 --> 03:16:48,600
Speaker 3: Okay, can we get uplifting? Like, can we do like

3490
03:16:48,760 --> 03:16:51,720
Speaker 3: one of the is there any yeah? Yeah, Ricardo family

3491
03:16:51,760 --> 03:16:53,760
Speaker 3: says oof, that story was heavy, Yeah it was, and

3492
03:16:53,840 --> 03:16:57,000
Speaker 3: we can't we can't. We have one more story, yes,

3493
03:16:58,440 --> 03:16:59,240
Speaker 3: and we can't end on that.

3494
03:16:59,360 --> 03:17:04,000
Speaker 4: Also, Am I the a hole for asking my husband

3495
03:17:04,080 --> 03:17:06,120
Speaker 4: to cut off his male colleague that took him to

3496
03:17:06,160 --> 03:17:12,240
Speaker 4: a strip club? Is that uplifting? That one?

3497
03:17:29,480 --> 03:17:29,720
Speaker 1: Lucky?

3498
03:17:29,760 --> 03:17:32,600
Speaker 3: We fixed after eight hours on stream?

3499
03:17:33,840 --> 03:17:34,720
Speaker 1: What I said?

3500
03:17:34,760 --> 03:17:37,920
Speaker 3: Lucky we fixed it after eight hours on stream exactly,

3501
03:17:38,640 --> 03:17:39,800
Speaker 3: and now we have our thing again.

3502
03:17:41,360 --> 03:17:42,840
Speaker 1: Ah, the connection.

3503
03:17:43,800 --> 03:17:47,400
Speaker 3: I think I started this. I started this story set,

3504
03:17:47,480 --> 03:17:48,200
Speaker 3: so I think it's your term.

3505
03:17:48,800 --> 03:17:50,160
Speaker 1: Do we need to do it on a public live

3506
03:17:50,240 --> 03:17:53,880
Speaker 1: stream or just the recordings? Do we need to do

3507
03:17:53,959 --> 03:17:57,800
Speaker 1: that for public live streams? What have it?

3508
03:17:57,959 --> 03:17:58,080
Speaker 3: Well?

3509
03:17:58,160 --> 03:18:01,480
Speaker 4: I've been I'm cutting it off for every like episode.

3510
03:18:02,760 --> 03:18:05,240
Speaker 4: Oh I did it again? All right, that's okay, it's

3511
03:18:05,280 --> 03:18:05,760
Speaker 4: so close.

3512
03:18:06,280 --> 03:18:06,880
Speaker 1: Damn Sidney.

3513
03:18:06,959 --> 03:18:08,880
Speaker 3: Why am I catching strays right now?

3514
03:18:11,080 --> 03:18:13,440
Speaker 1: What's uh? Sorry? Where we're at again?

3515
03:18:13,720 --> 03:18:18,119
Speaker 4: We're gonna do I'm sixty five, that's two.

3516
03:18:21,520 --> 03:18:29,720
Speaker 1: Two and here we go. Let's do it. Thank you,

3517
03:18:30,800 --> 03:18:32,760
Speaker 1: am I may hold for asking my husband to cut

3518
03:18:32,800 --> 03:18:34,440
Speaker 1: off his female colleague that took.

3519
03:18:34,320 --> 03:18:37,480
Speaker 3: Him to a strip club. I mean kind of a

3520
03:18:37,600 --> 03:18:39,240
Speaker 3: weird place to take a colleague.

3521
03:18:40,240 --> 03:18:42,520
Speaker 1: Oh is this birthday cake or the other kind of cake?

3522
03:18:43,000 --> 03:18:43,240
Speaker 9: Yeah?

3523
03:18:43,360 --> 03:18:45,880
Speaker 1: Now, is she the stripper and he works at a

3524
03:18:45,879 --> 03:18:48,520
Speaker 1: strip club? What cake were you eating? That is the question,

3525
03:18:48,720 --> 03:18:51,080
Speaker 1: and we're here to solve it. This comes from uh

3526
03:18:52,160 --> 03:18:58,120
Speaker 1: uh the pitterrophobic nineteen who says, Hi, everyone, So my

3527
03:18:58,240 --> 03:19:01,440
Speaker 1: husband had his birthday a bit ago, uh, and we

3528
03:19:01,560 --> 03:19:04,160
Speaker 1: took a little trip to celebrate. He is very close

3529
03:19:04,240 --> 03:19:06,840
Speaker 1: to two colleagues, a guy and a girl, and I've

3530
03:19:07,040 --> 03:19:09,880
Speaker 1: met them plenty of times and also gone on short

3531
03:19:09,959 --> 03:19:12,640
Speaker 1: vocations with the girl as a group. For his birthday,

3532
03:19:12,840 --> 03:19:15,000
Speaker 1: they wanted to organize a little surprise for him, and

3533
03:19:15,160 --> 03:19:17,920
Speaker 1: she texted me to ask when a good time would

3534
03:19:18,000 --> 03:19:20,720
Speaker 1: be and to get him to the place that they chose.

3535
03:19:20,920 --> 03:19:23,920
Speaker 1: Obviously I agreed. On the day of a surprise, I

3536
03:19:24,080 --> 03:19:26,000
Speaker 1: was told that there was a meeting point, a bar

3537
03:19:26,520 --> 03:19:28,840
Speaker 1: where they would get a drink, where I was supposed

3538
03:19:28,840 --> 03:19:31,680
Speaker 1: to take him, and then they would dig into another place.

3539
03:19:31,920 --> 03:19:34,720
Speaker 1: As she told me in her initial text, really quick,

3540
03:19:35,680 --> 03:19:38,080
Speaker 1: is Opie a part of the surprise or is like?

3541
03:19:38,480 --> 03:19:40,160
Speaker 3: I know, it doesn't sound like it. It sounds like

3542
03:19:40,200 --> 03:19:41,000
Speaker 3: they're organizing it.

3543
03:19:41,040 --> 03:19:41,800
Speaker 1: Without Op.

3544
03:19:42,800 --> 03:19:44,720
Speaker 3: Well, maybe they're just like it's all like all friends

3545
03:19:44,840 --> 03:19:46,279
Speaker 3: organizing for the person.

3546
03:19:46,440 --> 03:19:49,720
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe maybe maybe OP isn't it. Let's see. So

3547
03:19:49,959 --> 03:19:52,200
Speaker 1: I assumed it was another restaurant or something like that,

3548
03:19:52,400 --> 03:19:57,080
Speaker 1: since you since she said it has great food and drinks. Well,

3549
03:19:57,120 --> 03:19:59,800
Speaker 1: about two hours later, since I didn't know where they

3550
03:19:59,840 --> 03:20:03,199
Speaker 1: were going, I checked my husband's location. We both share locations,

3551
03:20:03,680 --> 03:20:05,680
Speaker 1: and there was not much going on in the area

3552
03:20:05,879 --> 03:20:10,360
Speaker 1: except someplace with a weird name, Cheetah Club.

3553
03:20:11,760 --> 03:20:14,320
Speaker 3: Like, can you name every strip club that you've ever seen?

3554
03:20:15,280 --> 03:20:16,760
Speaker 1: Cheetah Club? Is that it?

3555
03:20:18,360 --> 03:20:18,560
Speaker 9: Oh?

3556
03:20:19,879 --> 03:20:23,960
Speaker 1: Magic? Now? Magic City?

3557
03:20:24,760 --> 03:20:26,360
Speaker 3: Put sees Sophia?

3558
03:20:26,400 --> 03:20:26,680
Speaker 1: How much?

3559
03:20:27,120 --> 03:20:28,480
Speaker 3: How many do you have? How many do you have?

3560
03:20:29,080 --> 03:20:31,080
Speaker 4: I don't know a single one?

3561
03:20:31,720 --> 03:20:32,080
Speaker 1: Do we all?

3562
03:20:32,200 --> 03:20:34,400
Speaker 3: We literally have billboards for them all over there?

3563
03:20:34,879 --> 03:20:35,320
Speaker 4: Look at them?

3564
03:20:36,320 --> 03:20:37,680
Speaker 3: Clinton? Do you know any strip clubs?

3565
03:20:39,560 --> 03:20:40,039
Speaker 2: Be careful?

3566
03:20:40,120 --> 03:20:42,439
Speaker 1: My friend a child.

3567
03:20:43,879 --> 03:20:46,680
Speaker 3: We were we were literally around the corner. I've never

3568
03:20:46,760 --> 03:20:49,160
Speaker 3: been to the strip strip club, to be clear, but

3569
03:20:49,360 --> 03:20:51,680
Speaker 3: we lived around the corner from one that was called

3570
03:20:51,760 --> 03:20:58,360
Speaker 3: Treasure Island when I lived in uh Sawtel. Treasure Island

3571
03:20:58,440 --> 03:21:04,440
Speaker 3: was one Plan b an Otherwise, there's one that was

3572
03:21:04,560 --> 03:21:08,359
Speaker 3: like the childhood strip club that I always passed childhood.

3573
03:21:08,400 --> 03:21:10,200
Speaker 2: Strip club.

3574
03:21:11,040 --> 03:21:15,160
Speaker 3: That's a cursed phrase. It's like it's x X something.

3575
03:21:15,240 --> 03:21:18,400
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, lions Den, Blue, Opal Body Shop. Those are

3576
03:21:18,520 --> 03:21:22,199
Speaker 3: so good, Pink Palace. Strip club names are fun.

3577
03:21:22,480 --> 03:21:27,039
Speaker 1: The Library, that's like the greatest I've ever heard.

3578
03:21:27,400 --> 03:21:32,800
Speaker 3: What is It's like x X something x X No,

3579
03:21:33,160 --> 03:21:36,360
Speaker 3: that's that actually would be a good one too. The

3580
03:21:36,480 --> 03:21:40,879
Speaker 3: Gentleman's Club. We have patients Den.

3581
03:21:41,320 --> 03:21:45,000
Speaker 1: True sen Valley Mama. These are all free sponsors. Bottoms

3582
03:21:45,040 --> 03:21:49,200
Speaker 1: up is so good? Is great. I'll give it, you know,

3583
03:21:49,320 --> 03:21:49,920
Speaker 1: and make up.

3584
03:21:49,920 --> 03:21:51,760
Speaker 4: Your own because then we're not sponsoring anything.

3585
03:21:51,920 --> 03:21:54,879
Speaker 1: That's just Cassana, says Sam knows all about strip club.

3586
03:21:54,959 --> 03:21:57,440
Speaker 1: I've literally never I wanted to go to a ship.

3587
03:22:00,200 --> 03:22:02,640
Speaker 4: You want to go? I want to go to the Empire.

3588
03:22:02,720 --> 03:22:06,199
Speaker 4: Strip's Back, which is a burlesque show that's touring. Yeah,

3589
03:22:06,600 --> 03:22:09,200
Speaker 4: And I'm so mad because the one time that I

3590
03:22:09,440 --> 03:22:12,600
Speaker 4: like really wanted to go, my roommates went without me.

3591
03:22:12,840 --> 03:22:13,400
Speaker 4: Not these ones.

3592
03:22:14,000 --> 03:22:14,640
Speaker 1: Is it in l A.

3593
03:22:15,320 --> 03:22:17,600
Speaker 3: It was, Oh, will it not be?

3594
03:22:18,200 --> 03:22:19,320
Speaker 4: I don't know, it might be back.

3595
03:22:19,600 --> 03:22:21,160
Speaker 3: You want to go to a burlesque show as a

3596
03:22:21,520 --> 03:22:23,640
Speaker 3: agreed a family, as a family family.

3597
03:22:24,080 --> 03:22:25,680
Speaker 1: I didn't get everything to do as a family.

3598
03:22:28,160 --> 03:22:29,360
Speaker 4: I've heard it's really good.

3599
03:22:29,600 --> 03:22:34,800
Speaker 1: The roommates without me and Luke accidentally uh and actually

3600
03:22:34,800 --> 03:22:38,360
Speaker 1: accidentally his girlfriend was there. Went to a burlesque show

3601
03:22:39,760 --> 03:22:40,640
Speaker 1: in North Hollywood.

3602
03:22:40,879 --> 03:22:45,600
Speaker 3: So but they is there? Is there nipples pastles?

3603
03:22:45,760 --> 03:22:48,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's not full, it's not stripping, it's more it's

3604
03:22:49,000 --> 03:22:49,680
Speaker 4: more artsy.

3605
03:22:50,120 --> 03:22:52,440
Speaker 1: Yes, it's artsy. It's plainful and tasteful.

3606
03:22:52,600 --> 03:22:54,840
Speaker 3: Well, I went to I went to dinner at this

3607
03:22:55,320 --> 03:22:58,199
Speaker 3: place the other night. It was like this fancy dinner

3608
03:22:58,280 --> 03:23:01,680
Speaker 3: place for a friend's birthday, and there were blessed dancers

3609
03:23:01,720 --> 03:23:02,400
Speaker 3: that came out.

3610
03:23:03,760 --> 03:23:08,680
Speaker 1: Just like there you go on tables resident stp Club Expersive.

3611
03:23:11,400 --> 03:23:14,240
Speaker 3: Anyways, we left before they really got out though, but

3612
03:23:14,280 --> 03:23:15,879
Speaker 3: apparently they he.

3613
03:23:16,000 --> 03:23:17,360
Speaker 1: Was outside.

3614
03:23:19,480 --> 03:23:25,640
Speaker 3: Anyways, Okay, enough enough doxing, Sam. So I look, it's

3615
03:23:25,680 --> 03:23:30,840
Speaker 3: not docxing, but uh oh yeah, yeah, enough doxing. So

3616
03:23:32,640 --> 03:23:35,640
Speaker 3: I looked it up on Google Maps, the location and

3617
03:23:35,840 --> 03:23:38,400
Speaker 3: guess what, it's a strip club.

3618
03:23:39,280 --> 03:23:39,320
Speaker 12: What.

3619
03:23:39,920 --> 03:23:43,480
Speaker 1: I texted my husband and he called back and confirmed

3620
03:23:43,560 --> 03:23:45,520
Speaker 1: that it was a strip club and that they had

3621
03:23:45,600 --> 03:23:48,200
Speaker 1: told him that I agreed for him to go there.

3622
03:23:48,959 --> 03:23:49,400
Speaker 1: I did not.

3623
03:23:49,800 --> 03:23:53,400
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, you didn't. Once think maybe I should talk

3624
03:23:53,600 --> 03:23:54,640
Speaker 4: directly with my.

3625
03:23:54,760 --> 03:23:58,120
Speaker 1: Wife about going to a strip club. Wait, because it

3626
03:23:58,200 --> 03:24:00,800
Speaker 1: was so yeah, so what happened? They it was like

3627
03:24:00,879 --> 03:24:05,520
Speaker 1: a it was almost like an ambush or like kidnapping birthday. Surprised.

3628
03:24:05,879 --> 03:24:07,840
Speaker 4: They were like, we talked your wife, she's jew.

3629
03:24:08,480 --> 03:24:08,680
Speaker 1: Yeah.

3630
03:24:08,760 --> 03:24:12,200
Speaker 3: Meanwhile, they're like, it has great food and drinks. Yeah,

3631
03:24:12,240 --> 03:24:15,760
Speaker 3: that was there for the strip hot wings Yeah, yeah, great, great,

3632
03:24:15,840 --> 03:24:20,520
Speaker 3: great lemon pepper wings, lemon pepper jew, lemon pepper jew.

3633
03:24:21,280 --> 03:24:24,160
Speaker 3: So uh, I did not and I told him to leave,

3634
03:24:24,520 --> 03:24:24,959
Speaker 3: and he did.

3635
03:24:25,400 --> 03:24:27,720
Speaker 1: But before he left, the girl called me saying I

3636
03:24:27,879 --> 03:24:30,240
Speaker 1: was being crazy and that she had already asked me

3637
03:24:30,280 --> 03:24:32,680
Speaker 1: about going there and that I had agreed. In her

3638
03:24:32,760 --> 03:24:35,120
Speaker 1: initial text, she said that she would be taking him

3639
03:24:35,160 --> 03:24:37,320
Speaker 1: to the Secret Square.

3640
03:24:38,120 --> 03:24:39,800
Speaker 3: That's another good strip club day.

3641
03:24:40,080 --> 03:24:43,360
Speaker 1: They're so good, it's pretty great. Okay, and that was

3642
03:24:43,440 --> 03:24:46,000
Speaker 1: apparently the name of the strip club.

3643
03:24:46,160 --> 03:24:51,000
Speaker 5: Okay, she she did, she did know this is she's like,

3644
03:24:51,080 --> 03:24:55,160
Speaker 5: I thought they were playing four square a classic miskill

3645
03:24:55,240 --> 03:24:56,599
Speaker 5: me in the kitchen.

3646
03:24:56,320 --> 03:24:58,400
Speaker 2: I see what are all these naked people?

3647
03:24:59,480 --> 03:24:59,880
Speaker 1: What are you?

3648
03:25:00,800 --> 03:25:01,720
Speaker 2: What are you doing?

3649
03:25:03,160 --> 03:25:04,200
Speaker 1: What's going on?

3650
03:25:04,800 --> 03:25:05,520
Speaker 4: For good eating?

3651
03:25:08,040 --> 03:25:08,920
Speaker 2: Good lookings?

3652
03:25:10,320 --> 03:25:12,039
Speaker 4: The wings that the women.

3653
03:25:16,640 --> 03:25:17,320
Speaker 2: Okay, so.

3654
03:25:19,480 --> 03:25:21,480
Speaker 1: That was apparently the name of the strip club. She

3655
03:25:21,640 --> 03:25:23,800
Speaker 1: sent no links, did not tell me that it was

3656
03:25:23,840 --> 03:25:28,600
Speaker 1: a strip club or anything. So I told her, you

3657
03:25:28,600 --> 03:25:29,680
Speaker 1: should know everything.

3658
03:25:29,360 --> 03:25:31,680
Speaker 3: I thought everyone knew about this place. Yeah right, Oh

3659
03:25:32,200 --> 03:25:35,760
Speaker 3: the secret Square. Private is a private square, secret.

3660
03:25:35,720 --> 03:25:36,320
Speaker 1: Secret Square.

3661
03:25:36,520 --> 03:25:37,879
Speaker 2: This place has been around per year.

3662
03:25:37,959 --> 03:25:40,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, Bobby's been running for you know, you don't know.

3663
03:25:41,000 --> 03:25:44,959
Speaker 1: Bobby Valentine's running it for thirty years. Over there, he's

3664
03:25:45,000 --> 03:25:47,400
Speaker 1: got the best slimming bember wings to the least well

3665
03:25:47,480 --> 03:25:48,640
Speaker 1: guarded secret in town.

3666
03:25:49,120 --> 03:25:50,840
Speaker 2: My great grandparents came to this.

3667
03:25:51,640 --> 03:26:00,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh, have you no word about My grandma actually

3668
03:26:00,080 --> 03:26:07,320
Speaker 1: met his assistant here, Jessica. We should we should have

3669
03:26:07,400 --> 03:26:10,280
Speaker 1: a stream where we have like a callback off where

3670
03:26:10,400 --> 03:26:11,400
Speaker 1: like how many how many?

3671
03:26:11,480 --> 03:26:12,680
Speaker 2: How many deep?

3672
03:26:12,800 --> 03:26:15,840
Speaker 1: Can we do a call like basically like double entendres.

3673
03:26:15,879 --> 03:26:17,640
Speaker 1: But that would be great. That wouldn't rely on.

3674
03:26:17,760 --> 03:26:19,720
Speaker 4: Me having to remember what I say.

3675
03:26:19,879 --> 03:26:21,800
Speaker 1: You would all have to dream, We all have to remember.

3676
03:26:22,040 --> 03:26:25,880
Speaker 4: I black out after every stream. Someone asked me that

3677
03:26:26,040 --> 03:26:28,879
Speaker 4: the last week, They were like, what did you talk about?

3678
03:26:28,920 --> 03:26:28,960
Speaker 1: Like?

3679
03:26:29,000 --> 03:26:30,640
Speaker 4: What stories did you read? I was like, I could not.

3680
03:26:30,720 --> 03:26:37,360
Speaker 1: Tell you, no clue one out the other anyway, here

3681
03:26:37,400 --> 03:26:40,800
Speaker 1: I go. So so I told her that she should

3682
03:26:40,800 --> 03:26:42,760
Speaker 1: have made it clear, because I never would have agreed

3683
03:26:42,760 --> 03:26:46,240
Speaker 1: to it, not to mention that it's completely unprofessional. Once

3684
03:26:46,320 --> 03:26:49,040
Speaker 1: the guy colleague saw what she had texted me, he

3685
03:26:49,280 --> 03:26:52,080
Speaker 1: understood that I did not, in fact know that it

3686
03:26:52,200 --> 03:26:54,960
Speaker 1: was a strip club and was very understanding. Now this

3687
03:26:55,200 --> 03:26:58,840
Speaker 1: is where I might be the ahleh and not the

3688
03:26:59,000 --> 03:27:04,080
Speaker 1: a cheek. This an a an ass cheek.

3689
03:27:04,640 --> 03:27:07,080
Speaker 4: Oh okay, sorry, I have to add a minute.

3690
03:27:08,920 --> 03:27:10,920
Speaker 1: Uh, this is the first time that this girl has

3691
03:27:11,160 --> 03:27:13,600
Speaker 1: This is not the first time that this girl has

3692
03:27:13,680 --> 03:27:17,040
Speaker 1: done something I don't like. She constantly crosses boundaries and

3693
03:27:17,120 --> 03:27:19,800
Speaker 1: every time we hang out, she only wants to do

3694
03:27:19,920 --> 03:27:22,480
Speaker 1: what she likes and everyone just goes with it. When

3695
03:27:22,520 --> 03:27:25,120
Speaker 1: she called me, she was being extremely unkind. It was

3696
03:27:25,240 --> 03:27:27,600
Speaker 1: quite an expensive place and they had to pay for

3697
03:27:27,720 --> 03:27:30,920
Speaker 1: the whole tasting menu even if they had only stayed

3698
03:27:30,920 --> 03:27:33,800
Speaker 1: for ten minutes, and overall very rude. When my husband

3699
03:27:33,879 --> 03:27:36,039
Speaker 1: came home, I told him that I did not want

3700
03:27:36,120 --> 03:27:38,279
Speaker 1: him to be friends with her or keep in contact

3701
03:27:38,320 --> 03:27:38,560
Speaker 1: with her.

3702
03:27:38,640 --> 03:27:41,560
Speaker 3: Okay, you're a tasting menu didn't have any food on.

3703
03:27:41,600 --> 03:27:52,920
Speaker 1: It, obviously. Obviously I understand that they are colleagues and

3704
03:27:53,000 --> 03:27:55,400
Speaker 1: he can't avoid her, and that their group of three

3705
03:27:55,520 --> 03:27:58,480
Speaker 1: is quite close, quite close, but I didn't want him

3706
03:27:58,480 --> 03:28:01,279
Speaker 1: being friends with her anymore. Just be polite and cordial.

3707
03:28:01,760 --> 03:28:04,560
Speaker 1: The issue is that, which is We'll talk about it,

3708
03:28:04,600 --> 03:28:08,039
Speaker 1: but that's tough. The issue is we haven't lived very

3709
03:28:08,120 --> 03:28:10,920
Speaker 1: long in this country, and his colleagues are his only

3710
03:28:11,040 --> 03:28:14,120
Speaker 1: friends here. It's been three years. I think this happened

3711
03:28:14,120 --> 03:28:16,280
Speaker 1: a few weeks back in today the same argument started.

3712
03:28:16,560 --> 03:28:18,480
Speaker 1: I am asking him to cut off a friend when

3713
03:28:18,520 --> 03:28:22,000
Speaker 1: he doesn't have very many already, and that I am

3714
03:28:22,240 --> 03:28:24,600
Speaker 1: only doing it because she is a girl. And this

3715
03:28:24,760 --> 03:28:26,680
Speaker 1: is crazy. I think this is what the husband is saying.

3716
03:28:27,520 --> 03:28:29,400
Speaker 1: I want to cut her out of our lives because

3717
03:28:29,400 --> 03:28:31,360
Speaker 1: she is disrespectful and this is not the first time

3718
03:28:31,400 --> 03:28:33,560
Speaker 1: that she has crossed the line. I honestly do not

3719
03:28:33,720 --> 03:28:37,000
Speaker 1: understand how he would even want to stay friends with

3720
03:28:37,120 --> 03:28:40,760
Speaker 1: someone that called her wife blind and stupid and disrespected her.

3721
03:28:41,000 --> 03:28:44,600
Speaker 1: He's in his late twenties. Can he's in his late twenties.

3722
03:28:44,680 --> 03:28:47,320
Speaker 1: He can make new friends. It's a big company. I

3723
03:28:47,520 --> 03:28:49,840
Speaker 1: just think he does not want to and sees nothing

3724
03:28:49,879 --> 03:28:53,600
Speaker 1: wrong with staying friends since she has apologized to me,

3725
03:28:54,720 --> 03:28:57,040
Speaker 1: to me and him, Am I the a hole? And

3726
03:28:57,240 --> 03:28:59,680
Speaker 1: how do I situation.

3727
03:29:00,280 --> 03:29:03,760
Speaker 3: I mean, I think someone disrespecting your wife his grounds

3728
03:29:03,800 --> 03:29:05,000
Speaker 3: for removal from a friend.

3729
03:29:05,200 --> 03:29:09,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's yeah. If someone called my girlfriend blind and.

3730
03:29:09,680 --> 03:29:16,440
Speaker 3: Stupid dude hands, Yeah, he's taking out the heavy weaponry. Also,

3731
03:29:16,480 --> 03:29:19,200
Speaker 3: I'd like to say how good John's side of things

3732
03:29:19,280 --> 03:29:19,960
Speaker 3: looks right now?

3733
03:29:20,160 --> 03:29:20,560
Speaker 1: It looks?

3734
03:29:20,640 --> 03:29:22,440
Speaker 3: Does it not look look nominal?

3735
03:29:22,760 --> 03:29:26,840
Speaker 1: A massive level up and like a true full production.

3736
03:29:27,240 --> 03:29:28,160
Speaker 3: It looks great.

3737
03:29:28,320 --> 03:29:30,760
Speaker 4: I actually also like how the mirror reflects.

3738
03:29:32,000 --> 03:29:35,320
Speaker 1: Well, guess what we get used to not liking it?

3739
03:29:35,440 --> 03:29:38,320
Speaker 3: I know, I know, removing it. They're removing it.

3740
03:29:39,760 --> 03:29:40,240
Speaker 1: Get ready.

3741
03:29:41,280 --> 03:29:48,800
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, I mean I feel like I feel

3742
03:29:48,840 --> 03:29:51,320
Speaker 3: like there wasn't enough communicated to the wife, and like

3743
03:29:51,400 --> 03:29:52,840
Speaker 3: he doesn't have to cut off all the friends or

3744
03:29:52,959 --> 03:29:58,280
Speaker 3: just that one, but get them, get them, get them,

3745
03:29:58,640 --> 03:30:04,680
Speaker 3: get them. Nope, nice, try that. Just Cassana says, Yeah,

3746
03:30:04,720 --> 03:30:07,240
Speaker 3: they need to sign up for some community groups and

3747
03:30:07,400 --> 03:30:09,640
Speaker 3: find new friends. Yeah, maybe they can find some new

3748
03:30:09,640 --> 03:30:10,160
Speaker 3: friends together.

3749
03:30:10,480 --> 03:30:15,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, honestly, Yeah, three years is take take the club. Yeah,

3750
03:30:17,240 --> 03:30:19,560
Speaker 1: I think that extra time that you've spent hanging out

3751
03:30:19,600 --> 03:30:22,160
Speaker 1: with them, and then you do some like some events,

3752
03:30:22,560 --> 03:30:26,480
Speaker 1: new pickleball, pickleball, pottery, other things like.

3753
03:30:26,560 --> 03:30:30,600
Speaker 3: A pottery, pottery. Actually, I was talking to dad about pottery.

3754
03:30:30,640 --> 03:30:31,840
Speaker 3: He wants to do some pottery.

3755
03:30:33,400 --> 03:30:33,879
Speaker 1: Fun idea.

3756
03:30:34,120 --> 03:30:36,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was also thinking bow making that he could

3757
03:30:36,959 --> 03:30:37,240
Speaker 3: try to.

3758
03:30:38,360 --> 03:30:40,360
Speaker 1: Wow, that's cool. Yeah, that's unique.

3759
03:30:40,400 --> 03:30:41,840
Speaker 3: There's a I told you I went to like that

3760
03:30:41,920 --> 03:30:42,720
Speaker 3: bow maker thing.

3761
03:30:44,200 --> 03:30:44,720
Speaker 1: I don't think so.

3762
03:30:44,800 --> 03:30:47,160
Speaker 3: I'm actually the video where like he was like shooting

3763
03:30:47,200 --> 03:30:50,040
Speaker 3: a bone arrow. This is a while ago, like a

3764
03:30:50,160 --> 03:30:55,039
Speaker 3: month ago. Remember it was like this a thing called

3765
03:30:55,200 --> 03:30:58,840
Speaker 3: La wood Shops. Pretty cool, and he makes bow bone arrows,

3766
03:31:00,240 --> 03:31:00,720
Speaker 3: pretty said.

3767
03:31:00,760 --> 03:31:03,400
Speaker 1: I forget, Yeah, but I want to keep seeing Sophia

3768
03:31:04,360 --> 03:31:09,800
Speaker 1: shake her mouse like like the strip Club, like.

3769
03:31:09,800 --> 03:31:16,680
Speaker 3: The Strip Club. Booties sucks. Empire, Sue, Sue, Empire, Coyote,

3770
03:31:17,040 --> 03:31:19,080
Speaker 3: thanks for two bucks. I needed to plug in my

3771
03:31:19,280 --> 03:31:22,920
Speaker 3: phone for this. That's the kind of commitment we needed

3772
03:31:23,000 --> 03:31:26,240
Speaker 3: this stream. In the final minutes.

3773
03:31:26,000 --> 03:31:29,879
Speaker 1: Our stream's murder phones, DoD.

3774
03:31:29,720 --> 03:31:32,560
Speaker 3: Has too much about with that. Get them, get them,

3775
03:31:35,320 --> 03:31:35,760
Speaker 3: get them.

3776
03:31:37,000 --> 03:31:40,760
Speaker 2: Really, I'm invincible this monitor. I'm aiming for you.

3777
03:31:41,920 --> 03:31:46,200
Speaker 3: Matt hatter Gal Okay, storytime crew, it's nine thirty two

3778
03:31:46,280 --> 03:31:48,240
Speaker 3: in the evening. You all need to go to bed

3779
03:31:48,560 --> 03:31:50,199
Speaker 3: unless you want to be zombies in the morning.

3780
03:31:50,280 --> 03:31:50,440
Speaker 1: Yeah.

3781
03:31:50,560 --> 03:31:56,480
Speaker 3: Luckily, literally four minutes. Is my bedtime hands alarms about

3782
03:31:56,480 --> 03:31:56,920
Speaker 3: to go off?

3783
03:31:58,440 --> 03:32:00,080
Speaker 1: Oh it is? Yeah, my journal.

3784
03:32:01,760 --> 03:32:05,520
Speaker 3: And Hans Ellis thanks for the many hours of keeping

3785
03:32:05,560 --> 03:32:08,360
Speaker 3: me company at work, university in general while I was

3786
03:32:08,440 --> 03:32:11,160
Speaker 3: not doing so well mentally. Thanks for the time buck tip, Hans.

3787
03:32:11,560 --> 03:32:13,760
Speaker 4: Alright, I am paying attention and we just don't have

3788
03:32:13,879 --> 03:32:14,720
Speaker 4: time for a call in.

3789
03:32:16,120 --> 03:32:16,280
Speaker 1: Yeah.

3790
03:32:16,520 --> 03:32:22,240
Speaker 3: Sorry, we have only thirty eight seconds or second time

3791
03:32:22,280 --> 03:32:24,080
Speaker 3: and we can hear you, we can. We can get

3792
03:32:24,120 --> 03:32:27,320
Speaker 3: you back for the next stream.

3793
03:32:27,560 --> 03:32:28,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, we will.

3794
03:32:28,040 --> 03:32:29,360
Speaker 3: We're literally going to be live tomorrow.

3795
03:32:29,440 --> 03:32:31,920
Speaker 4: Message me tomorrow and we'll get you on the stream.

3796
03:32:32,200 --> 03:32:32,560
Speaker 1: That's right.

3797
03:32:32,600 --> 03:32:37,600
Speaker 3: Also, if you haven't already joined the members. If you

3798
03:32:37,680 --> 03:32:40,120
Speaker 3: haven't already joined, what are you doing? Because we have

3799
03:32:40,200 --> 03:32:45,000
Speaker 3: a secret members only live stream tomorrow that literally you'll

3800
03:32:45,040 --> 03:32:49,360
Speaker 3: get immortalized in the okay story Time history books and

3801
03:32:49,520 --> 03:32:54,400
Speaker 3: our videos. But John, I think that's the end of

3802
03:32:54,440 --> 03:32:56,720
Speaker 3: the stream. I think that's the end of the stream.

3803
03:32:57,240 --> 03:33:00,680
Speaker 3: So before anyone does something crazy, if you love us,

3804
03:33:01,040 --> 03:33:02,080
Speaker 3: make sure to subscribe.

3805
03:33:02,160 --> 03:33:04,080
Speaker 4: We love you, I say, Uta.

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