1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:04,040 Speaker 1: First Date to follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury 2 00:00:04,080 --> 00:00:06,760 Speaker 1: Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com. 3 00:00:07,080 --> 00:00:08,960 Speaker 2: Zach is on the phone today for our first Date 4 00:00:09,000 --> 00:00:11,200 Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Leah. So in 5 00:00:11,240 --> 00:00:12,720 Speaker 2: a few minutes we'll call her and see if she'll 6 00:00:12,720 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him 7 00:00:14,960 --> 00:00:17,120 Speaker 2: another date. But first, Zach, how long has it been 8 00:00:17,120 --> 00:00:18,160 Speaker 2: since you heard from Leah? 9 00:00:18,680 --> 00:00:19,720 Speaker 3: It's been about a week. 10 00:00:20,560 --> 00:00:20,880 Speaker 4: Okay. 11 00:00:21,079 --> 00:00:22,799 Speaker 5: That's kind of a sweet spot where people start to 12 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:23,720 Speaker 5: panic a little bit, you know. 13 00:00:24,280 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 4: I get that, though. Have you tried to reach out 14 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:26,680 Speaker 4: to her? 15 00:00:27,480 --> 00:00:30,760 Speaker 3: I have and honestly just throwing the straight to voicemail. 16 00:00:31,360 --> 00:00:33,120 Speaker 4: Oh man, Oh that's got to hurt. 17 00:00:33,760 --> 00:00:34,519 Speaker 3: Yeah. 18 00:00:34,680 --> 00:00:35,920 Speaker 4: Anyway, tell us about your date. 19 00:00:36,560 --> 00:00:39,680 Speaker 3: We didn't do anything too crazy. I cooked your dinner 20 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:43,239 Speaker 3: at my place, and like, I really can't cook, so 21 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:47,040 Speaker 3: it was a good time. We played some Monopoly and 22 00:00:47,360 --> 00:00:48,200 Speaker 3: how long was the date? 23 00:00:48,320 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 4: Like seven hours? Monopoly takes forever. 24 00:00:52,920 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 3: Came over for dinner around seven, We started playing around 25 00:00:56,080 --> 00:00:58,520 Speaker 3: a thirty. She didn't leave for a long time. 26 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:03,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, it was a joke, but that's okay. It sounds 27 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:05,440 Speaker 5: like you guys are really enjoying each other's company. 28 00:01:05,560 --> 00:01:08,720 Speaker 3: Ish. Yeah, no, Like I even let her be the car, 29 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:14,080 Speaker 3: so clearly she's winning a live. Well, we messed around 30 00:01:14,080 --> 00:01:15,319 Speaker 3: a little bit. It was fun. 31 00:01:15,959 --> 00:01:17,880 Speaker 2: Like when you say messed around a little bit, you 32 00:01:17,880 --> 00:01:20,039 Speaker 2: don't have to give us like details, but what's a 33 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:22,080 Speaker 2: little bit, Like did you guys hook up all the way? 34 00:01:22,520 --> 00:01:26,760 Speaker 4: That is details? Yeah, go on, like all the details. 35 00:01:27,959 --> 00:01:30,080 Speaker 4: We had a good time, okay. 36 00:01:30,440 --> 00:01:32,600 Speaker 3: You know, at the end, I thought we were we 37 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 3: were going to like hang out because she said, you know, 38 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:38,600 Speaker 3: let's do this again, and I thought that was not facetious. 39 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:41,199 Speaker 3: And I haven't really heard back. 40 00:01:41,959 --> 00:01:46,680 Speaker 5: Did anything happen like during monopoly or while you guys 41 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 5: were messing around? That may be a reason why. 42 00:01:51,360 --> 00:01:54,040 Speaker 3: No, Like so like during monopoly, everything was going great. 43 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 3: We're connecting and you know, everything like flowed really really well, 44 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:02,000 Speaker 3: and like she's probably the most beautiful woman I've ever 45 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 3: seen in my life. 46 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:04,160 Speaker 4: And oh okay. 47 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 3: It had me like wondering, like do I just have 48 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:10,320 Speaker 3: bad lighting in my house and my like a nightclub 49 00:02:10,360 --> 00:02:12,839 Speaker 3: in there? But like the only thing I could think 50 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:16,120 Speaker 3: of is I have a picture of my son by 51 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:19,240 Speaker 3: the door, and uh, I noticed that she glanced at it, 52 00:02:19,320 --> 00:02:23,040 Speaker 3: but she didn't say anything, and uh, maybe that preasure out. 53 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:25,119 Speaker 4: Did she already know that you have a son? 54 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:28,799 Speaker 3: No, Like, I didn't really know how to bring it up. 55 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:30,800 Speaker 4: Okay, so you didn't tell her you have a kid. 56 00:02:31,720 --> 00:02:32,440 Speaker 3: No, not yet. 57 00:02:32,639 --> 00:02:34,400 Speaker 2: So I think I'll be gold if you were dating, 58 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 2: if you're a single dad, I feel like that'd be good. 59 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:38,760 Speaker 2: I mean some people are super into it. Meeting one 60 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:41,880 Speaker 2: of those people. But me, yeah, well, so did you 61 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:42,799 Speaker 2: notice her like. 62 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:45,680 Speaker 4: Looking at it? Was there a moment that was kind 63 00:02:45,680 --> 00:02:46,320 Speaker 4: of weird with that? 64 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:51,560 Speaker 3: No, she glanced at it and you know, moved forward. 65 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:54,440 Speaker 3: Everything seemed fine, nothing really changed. She asked me anything 66 00:02:54,480 --> 00:02:56,880 Speaker 3: about it, So I didn't think that there was anything there. 67 00:02:56,960 --> 00:02:58,400 Speaker 4: It could also be that you didn't mention it. 68 00:02:59,480 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, some things are just better to be. 69 00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:03,799 Speaker 6: Discovered, right. 70 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:05,680 Speaker 2: But I mean for her, she might be like, oh, 71 00:03:05,720 --> 00:03:07,960 Speaker 2: he didn't tell me he had a kid, like he's 72 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:08,960 Speaker 2: hiding things. 73 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean maybe I should have just lead with that. 74 00:03:12,760 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 4: Yeah. 75 00:03:13,040 --> 00:03:16,919 Speaker 5: I wouldn't lead with it, but there's definitely a place 76 00:03:16,919 --> 00:03:19,840 Speaker 5: where maybe that would come up in conversation, especially if 77 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:21,920 Speaker 5: she's at your house with the picture. But did that 78 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 5: happen at the end of the night, in the middle 79 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:26,119 Speaker 5: of the night. I'm just trying to see, like if 80 00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:28,000 Speaker 5: her mood shifted it all. 81 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 2: Okay, all right, well we'll see if that is the reason. 82 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 2: We'll play a song, come back and call her and 83 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:37,600 Speaker 2: see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and 84 00:03:37,640 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 2: maybe get you another date. Okay, thank you, all right, 85 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:42,200 Speaker 2: play a song, come back, get your first Day follow 86 00:03:42,280 --> 00:03:47,240 Speaker 2: up next. You're just joining us for today's first Day 87 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 2: follow up. Zach is on the phone and he's not 88 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:52,360 Speaker 2: getting a call back from Leah. So we're about to 89 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:54,280 Speaker 2: call her and see if she'll tell us why she's 90 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:56,080 Speaker 2: ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But before 91 00:03:56,120 --> 00:03:58,920 Speaker 2: we do that, Zach, refresh our memory about your day 92 00:03:58,920 --> 00:03:59,520 Speaker 2: with Leah. 93 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:03,120 Speaker 3: So she came over to my place. I made her dinner, 94 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 3: We played Monopoly. We had an amazing time. I think 95 00:04:06,720 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 3: she's the prettiest grill I've ever seen. And I've been 96 00:04:09,080 --> 00:04:10,680 Speaker 3: getting ghosted for about a week now. 97 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 4: Why was it again that you think you might be 98 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:13,440 Speaker 4: getting ghosted? 99 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:16,680 Speaker 3: I mean, before she walked out, she noticed the picture 100 00:04:16,720 --> 00:04:20,400 Speaker 3: of my son on the wall, and I'm not sure 101 00:04:20,720 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 3: that freaked her out. 102 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 4: A little bit because you didn't tell her. 103 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:26,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah. I mean I didn't really know her to 104 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:28,800 Speaker 3: put that in our first date conversation. 105 00:04:29,279 --> 00:04:31,640 Speaker 4: You ready for us to call her? Yeah? All right, 106 00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:32,160 Speaker 4: here we go. 107 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:45,840 Speaker 6: Hello him. Please, this is hard, not going to help you. 108 00:04:46,080 --> 00:04:47,880 Speaker 2: Leah was up. This is a radio show. It's called 109 00:04:47,920 --> 00:04:49,599 Speaker 2: The Jewbil Show. How are you hi, Leah? 110 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 4: I'm Nina. Hi, I am Victoria. My name is Jewbel. 111 00:04:53,520 --> 00:04:56,159 Speaker 6: Oh my god. I didn't think people actually did this 112 00:04:56,320 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 6: in real life. I mean, like you hear clips online, 113 00:04:59,080 --> 00:05:01,320 Speaker 6: but I didn't know it was actually. 114 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:02,560 Speaker 4: So you actually have heard of the show. 115 00:05:03,279 --> 00:05:04,839 Speaker 6: Oh yeah, totally sweet. 116 00:05:05,400 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 4: Great, Well, Leah, do you know why we're calling. 117 00:05:08,760 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 6: I'm hoping I won something. 118 00:05:10,880 --> 00:05:12,320 Speaker 4: Oh, I'm hoping you did too. 119 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:15,479 Speaker 2: We do a segment called the First Day follow Up 120 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 2: this where if you go on a date with someone 121 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:18,599 Speaker 2: and you ghost them, they can email us to call 122 00:05:18,640 --> 00:05:20,000 Speaker 2: you and ask why you're ghosting them. 123 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:23,839 Speaker 4: Oh, I'm not telling you that for no reason. That's 124 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:24,720 Speaker 4: the reason we're calling. 125 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:28,400 Speaker 2: You're ghosting somebody, and they emailed us because they're wondering 126 00:05:28,440 --> 00:05:30,720 Speaker 2: why you're not calling them back, more specifically, why you're 127 00:05:30,720 --> 00:05:32,120 Speaker 2: just sending him to the voicemail when they call you. 128 00:05:32,800 --> 00:05:34,560 Speaker 6: Okay, well, it's definitely zact. 129 00:05:34,560 --> 00:05:37,279 Speaker 2: Then huh, yes it is. Oh, can you tell us 130 00:05:37,320 --> 00:05:39,040 Speaker 2: why you're ghosting him? He really wants to know. 131 00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 6: Okay, the date was great. He's clearly a nice guy. 132 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:45,560 Speaker 7: I think we had a lot of fun, but someone 133 00:05:45,800 --> 00:05:48,640 Speaker 7: has definitely been there besides me, and I think she 134 00:05:48,839 --> 00:05:52,479 Speaker 7: was cooking, like right before you you mean, I mean, 135 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:53,800 Speaker 7: I wouldn't be surprised. 136 00:05:53,839 --> 00:05:57,599 Speaker 6: Like his place is immaculate, Like it looks amazing. 137 00:05:58,120 --> 00:06:01,320 Speaker 7: And I'm talking like this is that guy stuff right, 138 00:06:01,400 --> 00:06:06,160 Speaker 7: Like there's perfectly arranged flowers, the decorative pillows literally everywhere, and. 139 00:06:06,120 --> 00:06:12,680 Speaker 2: I don't know, you know, somewhere they've been usually been taught. 140 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:14,800 Speaker 7: And I guess that's what I'm saying is like it 141 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:16,560 Speaker 7: felt like I've walked into Pinterest. 142 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:17,640 Speaker 6: It's doing it wrong. 143 00:06:17,760 --> 00:06:19,919 Speaker 7: It was very nice, and he just kind of so 144 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:22,240 Speaker 7: this is where it gets where it's word. So I 145 00:06:22,360 --> 00:06:24,800 Speaker 7: mentioned that, I'm like, wow, your place is really beautiful, 146 00:06:24,839 --> 00:06:27,159 Speaker 7: and he goes He just like casually says, yeah, my 147 00:06:27,279 --> 00:06:30,120 Speaker 7: ex was an interior designer and still brings me fresh 148 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:32,800 Speaker 7: flowers and decorates every once in a while. 149 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:35,800 Speaker 4: She still brings him fresh flowers. 150 00:06:35,720 --> 00:06:39,400 Speaker 6: I guess, And I'm twice a week. 151 00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:44,640 Speaker 4: Wait, Leah, that's Zach. He's actually on the phone list thing. 152 00:06:44,640 --> 00:06:45,479 Speaker 6: I want to talk to you. 153 00:06:46,279 --> 00:06:52,160 Speaker 7: Oh okay, I didn't know you were high. 154 00:06:52,600 --> 00:06:53,800 Speaker 4: So let's pick back up, Zach. 155 00:06:53,800 --> 00:06:56,240 Speaker 5: You'r ex bring to see you in the flowers still 156 00:06:56,320 --> 00:06:56,880 Speaker 5: to your house. 157 00:06:58,040 --> 00:07:00,920 Speaker 3: It's not like that, Like she's just been you're your designer, 158 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:04,120 Speaker 3: and she likes arranging stuff as the project for her 159 00:07:04,279 --> 00:07:08,320 Speaker 3: and we haven't been together in forever and there's nothing 160 00:07:08,320 --> 00:07:09,440 Speaker 3: that's going on between us. 161 00:07:10,120 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 2: Zac. 162 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:14,640 Speaker 6: There are throw pillows. No man has that many SMOs. 163 00:07:14,800 --> 00:07:17,800 Speaker 6: I do unless someone else is acting. 164 00:07:17,360 --> 00:07:18,400 Speaker 4: I've got a lot throw pillows. 165 00:07:18,440 --> 00:07:23,840 Speaker 6: Yeah. I like it though, Okay, I mean yeah, I 166 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:26,120 Speaker 6: mean I like having a nice place, and like, I 167 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:29,119 Speaker 6: guess maybe flowers and pillows are a bit much. 168 00:07:29,160 --> 00:07:32,800 Speaker 3: But like she's not living there, Like I can't just 169 00:07:32,880 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 3: have a little bit of taste and appreciate some fresh 170 00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:36,120 Speaker 3: flowers here in there. 171 00:07:36,520 --> 00:07:38,320 Speaker 4: I don't even know that it's because you have a 172 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:39,120 Speaker 4: nice playsack. 173 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:41,160 Speaker 5: It almost seems like this is her way of being like, 174 00:07:41,200 --> 00:07:42,280 Speaker 5: what's the deal with your ex? 175 00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:45,320 Speaker 7: Yeah, you can have flowers. I think they're cool. It's 176 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:47,400 Speaker 7: clearly pretty, but they're coming from your ex. 177 00:07:47,960 --> 00:07:50,960 Speaker 3: All right, Wait, the you sing a photo of my son? 178 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:54,560 Speaker 6: What son? 179 00:07:54,400 --> 00:07:56,640 Speaker 3: The pictures that I saw you glancing at on the wall? 180 00:07:57,480 --> 00:08:01,320 Speaker 6: So you lied to me twice. Your ex decorates your house, 181 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:03,680 Speaker 6: and you have a kid that you never mentioned. Oh, 182 00:08:03,920 --> 00:08:07,680 Speaker 6: I feel like those are good things to just skip over. 183 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:13,680 Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, I get where you're coming from. Still for 184 00:08:13,760 --> 00:08:18,400 Speaker 3: a second, it looks like reset. Okay, let's just start fresh. Hey, 185 00:08:19,720 --> 00:08:22,280 Speaker 3: I have a son. I have a good relationship with 186 00:08:22,320 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 3: his mom. She's an interior designer, and she keeps the 187 00:08:25,720 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 3: place nice for him, not me. She has a boyfriend, 188 00:08:28,960 --> 00:08:31,960 Speaker 3: by the way, and she's supportive of whoever I choose 189 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:32,320 Speaker 3: to date. 190 00:08:32,559 --> 00:08:35,440 Speaker 4: Wait, so backup, So your ex is also your baby mom? 191 00:08:36,160 --> 00:08:39,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, that's why she's still over. She brings my 192 00:08:39,920 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 3: son over and she brings a few things, and like 193 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:46,800 Speaker 3: it's probably for him to feel more comfortable, so that 194 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:49,959 Speaker 3: his place that he's staying in with her is similar 195 00:08:50,000 --> 00:08:51,760 Speaker 3: to my place. She doesn't want me to look bad 196 00:08:51,800 --> 00:08:54,480 Speaker 3: in front of our kids, and like it creates a 197 00:08:54,559 --> 00:08:58,240 Speaker 3: more comforting environment. So I'm open towards having my place 198 00:08:58,280 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 3: have some thorough pillows and some flowers, as long as 199 00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:02,360 Speaker 3: it makes my son happy. 200 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:05,640 Speaker 7: I mean look, Zach, that's all well and good, but 201 00:09:05,679 --> 00:09:07,920 Speaker 7: I don't see why you couldn't have told me that sooner. 202 00:09:08,480 --> 00:09:10,360 Speaker 7: I really don't feel like this was when I should 203 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:11,920 Speaker 7: have been, you know. I mean, like that's not something 204 00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:15,600 Speaker 7: you just drop on someone after a date, and like, 205 00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:17,560 Speaker 7: I just feel like it feels like you held out 206 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:19,000 Speaker 7: on that, like you kept it. 207 00:09:18,960 --> 00:09:21,360 Speaker 6: A secret for me or something. No. 208 00:09:21,559 --> 00:09:23,800 Speaker 3: Like, Listen, you're the first person I've gone on a 209 00:09:23,880 --> 00:09:27,440 Speaker 3: day with in a very very long time. I did intentionally. 210 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:30,560 Speaker 3: I'm actually interested in you. I just I didn't really 211 00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 3: know how to bring that up into the conversation. I 212 00:09:33,400 --> 00:09:36,120 Speaker 3: thought that was more of like a second day conversation. 213 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:37,960 Speaker 3: I thought the first thing was just to see how 214 00:09:38,000 --> 00:09:43,520 Speaker 3: we connect without complicating the scenario. It's not really something 215 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:45,560 Speaker 3: I did intentionally. And I'm sorry if you feel like 216 00:09:45,640 --> 00:09:48,200 Speaker 3: that was what helped for me, But that wasn't one. 217 00:09:48,080 --> 00:09:49,719 Speaker 7: Of those It's just weird because when you asked me 218 00:09:49,760 --> 00:09:52,280 Speaker 7: about my family, I definitely mentioned everyone in it. 219 00:09:54,320 --> 00:09:56,079 Speaker 6: I didn't skip a child. 220 00:09:56,720 --> 00:09:59,720 Speaker 3: Listen, I would really love to like see you again, 221 00:10:00,200 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 3: you out again, and you know, if you're open towards it, 222 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:06,280 Speaker 3: you know, It's just I didn't know how to bring 223 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:09,160 Speaker 3: that up in a conversation. This is you're the first 224 00:10:09,160 --> 00:10:11,280 Speaker 3: person I've got on a day with since Lea. 225 00:10:11,320 --> 00:10:12,920 Speaker 4: Would you like to go on another day with Zach? 226 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:13,719 Speaker 4: Will pay for it? 227 00:10:14,800 --> 00:10:16,480 Speaker 6: My heart wants to say yes, but I feel like 228 00:10:16,520 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 6: I should say no. I've had this happen to me before. 229 00:10:19,080 --> 00:10:21,440 Speaker 1: I've had an ex who held out that he had 230 00:10:21,520 --> 00:10:25,240 Speaker 1: kids and it did not go well. Like, so, yeah, 231 00:10:25,280 --> 00:10:27,920 Speaker 1: he had two and didn't tell me until like four 232 00:10:27,960 --> 00:10:30,080 Speaker 1: months into dating, which like obviously way worse. 233 00:10:30,120 --> 00:10:32,120 Speaker 6: But like, this just gives me bad vibes. 234 00:10:32,160 --> 00:10:35,360 Speaker 3: I'm not comfortable the fact that after a first day 235 00:10:35,400 --> 00:10:37,600 Speaker 3: you found out I have a kid. You're not comfortable. 236 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:40,880 Speaker 3: I mean, I guess that if you don't want to 237 00:10:40,880 --> 00:10:42,920 Speaker 3: be around a kid. I mean, I don't think I 238 00:10:43,240 --> 00:10:46,800 Speaker 3: to you. I didn't. I didn't bring up something I 239 00:10:46,840 --> 00:10:51,400 Speaker 3: didot your family, and you didn't mention a child like 240 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:55,679 Speaker 3: that's longing, it's liing by omission. I didn't lie to you. 241 00:10:55,720 --> 00:10:57,160 Speaker 3: I just with held the shrip. 242 00:11:00,480 --> 00:11:04,400 Speaker 6: You sound like a delight. Yeah no, that's just like 243 00:11:04,600 --> 00:11:06,520 Speaker 6: line but with wrapping paper on it. 244 00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:09,360 Speaker 3: I guess we can agree disagree. 245 00:11:09,679 --> 00:11:11,640 Speaker 7: If that's why you want to put it, fine, but Yeah, no, 246 00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:14,080 Speaker 7: m I'm not doing that again. 247 00:11:14,080 --> 00:11:15,480 Speaker 6: I'm not going down that road twice. 248 00:11:16,080 --> 00:11:18,439 Speaker 3: And that's the last time I let somebody win a monopoly. 249 00:11:20,480 --> 00:11:24,760 Speaker 4: Wow, you will, first date, follow up