1 00:00:08,200 --> 00:00:11,720 Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours, Golden Hour. Thanks for 2 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:14,800 Speaker 1: joining us today. We are so excited to be back. 3 00:00:15,240 --> 00:00:19,560 Speaker 2: Indeed we are, and today we're getting into the premiere 4 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:23,360 Speaker 2: of The Golden Batcheler Kathy, Where do we even begin? 5 00:00:23,720 --> 00:00:26,560 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I have so much going on in 6 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 2: my head. 7 00:00:27,880 --> 00:00:33,919 Speaker 1: I honestly, Susan. First of all, we have to say women, women, 8 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:36,159 Speaker 1: Let's talk about the world. Let's start with that, or 9 00:00:36,200 --> 00:00:37,880 Speaker 1: we can start with mel Where do you want to start? 10 00:00:38,400 --> 00:00:42,120 Speaker 2: Oh? I don't know. Let's the women, Okay? To me, 11 00:00:42,479 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 2: it feels so different than our women. How if it was. 12 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:50,280 Speaker 2: They all have long hair, they look younger or act younger. 13 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:52,440 Speaker 2: I don't. I can't pin for okay. 14 00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:57,160 Speaker 1: So my thought is, first of all, some hairdresser is 15 00:00:57,160 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 1: making millions off of them because they all have hair extent. 16 00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:05,720 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, all of them. They all had lots of luscious, long, 17 00:01:05,880 --> 00:01:09,319 Speaker 1: curly hair. Here's my thing about the women, and we're 18 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:12,680 Speaker 1: not giving anything away here because they showed it in 19 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:16,080 Speaker 1: the in the preview for next week. You and I 20 00:01:16,160 --> 00:01:19,559 Speaker 1: have met some of these women and they're lovely. Having 21 00:01:19,720 --> 00:01:25,120 Speaker 1: said that, to me, they don't seem or act golden. 22 00:01:25,520 --> 00:01:28,640 Speaker 1: Many of them are younger than the than our crowd was. 23 00:01:29,240 --> 00:01:30,920 Speaker 2: But a couple of years shouldn't make that much. 24 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:33,640 Speaker 1: Well, but here's the thing. Many of these women this 25 00:01:33,840 --> 00:01:36,120 Speaker 1: you know, I've given this some thought. Many of these 26 00:01:36,200 --> 00:01:40,839 Speaker 1: women have careers, they own businesses. Yeah, so I think 27 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:44,120 Speaker 1: many of them are looking for mel. Some of them 28 00:01:44,160 --> 00:01:47,280 Speaker 1: aren't looking for Mel, but they're looking for exposure. They're 29 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:49,800 Speaker 1: looking to you know, up their game in the social 30 00:01:49,840 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 1: media world. I'm not blaming. I'm not saying it's a 31 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 1: bad thing. I'm saying we all came. 32 00:01:54,880 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 2: As innocence looking for love. Love love. That's the moral 33 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:02,280 Speaker 2: of this whole. That is the story that is Bachelor 34 00:02:02,680 --> 00:02:07,880 Speaker 2: about finding love in the most unorthodox way, if you will. 35 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:11,960 Speaker 2: I mean being on a show, all these women meeting 36 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:14,400 Speaker 2: one man. It's about love. 37 00:02:14,880 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 1: But I see, I don't I disagree. 38 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:21,240 Speaker 2: I think, oh, you're right with Not everybody's intentions are that. 39 00:02:21,360 --> 00:02:24,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, not everybody's certified love. Some people are there. I 40 00:02:24,760 --> 00:02:29,440 Speaker 1: mean some of those people have you know, hundreds of 41 00:02:29,520 --> 00:02:32,200 Speaker 1: thousands of followers already. I mean, these these are not 42 00:02:32,320 --> 00:02:35,079 Speaker 1: newbies to the world. So having said that, I mean 43 00:02:35,400 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 1: watching women in the previews jumping into the pool with 44 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 1: their gowns on. 45 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:41,720 Speaker 2: We don't do anything like that. 46 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:45,040 Speaker 1: Well, you know, I mean, I'm not sure I would 47 00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:48,280 Speaker 1: do it even now, but I want there's so many 48 00:02:48,280 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 1: things I want to talk about. 49 00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:52,400 Speaker 2: Let's let's start with him. Can we start with him? 50 00:02:52,520 --> 00:02:53,919 Speaker 1: Let's okay, go for it. 51 00:02:54,360 --> 00:02:59,800 Speaker 2: So coming out watching his story and seeing him with 52 00:02:59,840 --> 00:03:03,400 Speaker 2: his children, and and knowing still in the back of 53 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 2: my mind is statement that was made on that podcast, 54 00:03:06,960 --> 00:03:09,679 Speaker 2: I didn't forget it. I had a little judgy thing 55 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:16,520 Speaker 2: going on, if you will. But his his life, the apology, 56 00:03:16,600 --> 00:03:21,240 Speaker 2: he was sincere. He was so nervous about his stupid comment, 57 00:03:21,760 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 2: and I almost felt bad for him. In a way. 58 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 2: I did feel for him. I liked Telly seems so humble. 59 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 2: I liked hell he chatted with his boys, and he 60 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:33,280 Speaker 2: seemed ready. 61 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 1: See, I agree with some of what you're saying. Again, 62 00:03:38,960 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 1: I give a lot of grace to anyone who's the lead, 63 00:03:44,360 --> 00:03:47,560 Speaker 1: because we as the women, you know, we hang out 64 00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:49,520 Speaker 1: in the bedroom, We could talk, we could talk about 65 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:53,560 Speaker 1: our feelings. This guy is, you know, Mel has no 66 00:03:53,600 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 1: one he's and men aren't as typically as and lets 67 00:03:57,440 --> 00:04:00,840 Speaker 1: we're talking about Gary crime. Men aren't typically as emotional, 68 00:04:00,880 --> 00:04:03,160 Speaker 1: and they don't. They don't let their feelings out. So 69 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 1: I think, you know, personally, he started behind the eight ball. Yes, 70 00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 1: he gave a great apology. You know, I'm reading things 71 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 1: on the internet that you know, he was primed, he 72 00:04:15,680 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 1: was coached to say it. I don't know that that's true. 73 00:04:19,160 --> 00:04:23,160 Speaker 1: I think he said in the moment on a podcast. 74 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:26,279 Speaker 1: You know, he didn't realize the world was listening, A 75 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:30,479 Speaker 1: and B. He hadn't gotten into the show yet. And 76 00:04:31,040 --> 00:04:34,040 Speaker 1: if you and I think they're beautiful, fabulous looking women, 77 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 1: I think he was shocked. 78 00:04:36,160 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 2: Well now you hear them now. 79 00:04:38,600 --> 00:04:41,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, And so I think when he says, I believe 80 00:04:41,400 --> 00:04:44,440 Speaker 1: him when he said he is going to have to 81 00:04:44,480 --> 00:04:47,080 Speaker 1: earn it back, and he and he's and he thinks 82 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:51,360 Speaker 1: the women are lovely. I I'm I'm going with I 83 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 1: think he means it. You know, I got to say 84 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:57,640 Speaker 1: this is I wish you would wear shoes instead of sneakers, Like, really, 85 00:04:58,240 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 1: you got sore, fhie. You know, come on, we have 86 00:05:00,360 --> 00:05:03,479 Speaker 1: to wear bras with metal straps on them for god sakes, 87 00:05:03,520 --> 00:05:05,480 Speaker 1: Come on, mouth and put on a real pair of shoe, 88 00:05:05,560 --> 00:05:07,320 Speaker 1: nipple covers and everything else. 89 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 2: Remember when they're they're trying to put the mics on you. 90 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:10,679 Speaker 2: It's like, oh. 91 00:05:10,520 --> 00:05:14,520 Speaker 1: Well, okay, so so on on giving him grace. I'm 92 00:05:14,520 --> 00:05:17,039 Speaker 1: going to cut him some slack. I think he's a 93 00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:20,080 Speaker 1: good looking man. I think he's going to be surprised 94 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:23,080 Speaker 1: at this journey. So so that's what I have to 95 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:26,200 Speaker 1: say about him. I think he's doing his best to 96 00:05:26,279 --> 00:05:28,120 Speaker 1: dig himself out of a hole, and I'm going to 97 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:29,719 Speaker 1: give him some grace. Okay. 98 00:05:29,760 --> 00:05:32,960 Speaker 2: The next thing, energy, Cathy about his energy. He's there, 99 00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:35,560 Speaker 2: he's in the moment. He still feels a little. 100 00:05:36,680 --> 00:05:40,000 Speaker 1: I was just gonna say energy. I think, well, listen, 101 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:42,479 Speaker 1: this is you and me who you know, we're falling 102 00:05:42,480 --> 00:05:44,520 Speaker 1: all over each other with so much enterity. I mean, 103 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 1: he wouldn't know what to do with us. But I 104 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 1: think he just he's got it. It's gonna take some 105 00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:52,119 Speaker 1: time for him to warm up into what he's doing, 106 00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:54,160 Speaker 1: but I think he will the time he's ever done 107 00:05:54,200 --> 00:05:57,760 Speaker 1: this too. Yeah, okay, we have to jump in. The 108 00:05:57,800 --> 00:06:00,799 Speaker 1: women are lovely. I've said it. I said it on 109 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:05,040 Speaker 1: my social media. You know, my money is on s 110 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:10,200 Speaker 1: My Moody's on my Austin girls. But but wait, I 111 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:14,719 Speaker 1: love sending her eyes gorgeous, but I want to talk 112 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:17,600 Speaker 1: about as a mom and as a woman of a 113 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:21,599 Speaker 1: certain age, because for all those of you listening, you know, 114 00:06:21,680 --> 00:06:25,800 Speaker 1: my daughter was not really excited initially about me doing 115 00:06:25,839 --> 00:06:31,039 Speaker 1: the show. Nicole in the pool with mel making out 116 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:35,520 Speaker 1: with him, I'm sorry. I think I want to bring 117 00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:39,760 Speaker 1: I want to bring respect to women of our age. 118 00:06:39,920 --> 00:06:43,479 Speaker 1: I want the Bachelor Nation to say you can be 119 00:06:43,520 --> 00:06:47,240 Speaker 1: of a certain age and still command respect and love. 120 00:06:47,680 --> 00:06:50,600 Speaker 1: Nicole's lovely, but I'm saying I think it's over the 121 00:06:50,640 --> 00:06:52,000 Speaker 1: top and not a good look. 122 00:06:52,240 --> 00:06:54,599 Speaker 2: And you heard her line, like, you know, I'm going 123 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:56,840 Speaker 2: for it. I feel there's something between us. But I 124 00:06:56,880 --> 00:07:00,920 Speaker 2: love when Terry said, I don't act like out look 125 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 2: at her. She's jumping on what does she say? She's 126 00:07:04,040 --> 00:07:05,840 Speaker 2: she's climbing them like a tree. 127 00:07:06,400 --> 00:07:09,720 Speaker 1: That was Cindy. Cindy said, he's Cindy said, got that 128 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:12,040 Speaker 1: girl's climbing on white, which you know, thank you, Cindy. 129 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:12,600 Speaker 1: Love that. 130 00:07:13,720 --> 00:07:18,040 Speaker 2: But I I when he did say something to Nicole like, 131 00:07:18,160 --> 00:07:20,040 Speaker 2: you know, let's slow this, let's. 132 00:07:19,920 --> 00:07:22,320 Speaker 1: You know, yeah, but you know, did he though? 133 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:24,640 Speaker 2: I mean, he said inter making out of them all 134 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:27,720 Speaker 2: And I've we saw Gary kiss somebody else in front of. 135 00:07:27,720 --> 00:07:30,600 Speaker 1: It, I know, but you couldn't like that. But did 136 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:33,720 Speaker 1: you feel the tension? I mean I saw Cindy, Cindy 137 00:07:33,840 --> 00:07:38,080 Speaker 1: was talking with I think I think a little tear. 138 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:41,080 Speaker 1: I just want to go back to one thing that 139 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:46,960 Speaker 1: Mel said. He said, love is something you don't compete for. 140 00:07:47,240 --> 00:07:51,120 Speaker 1: It's Alexandra, sorry, not Mel. Alexandra said this. Love is 141 00:07:51,160 --> 00:07:54,720 Speaker 1: something you don't compete for. It's a feeling. I'm sorry. 142 00:07:55,080 --> 00:07:58,560 Speaker 1: But again, as a woman who has been on this journey, 143 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:03,560 Speaker 1: there is a competitive nature to this show. 144 00:08:03,960 --> 00:08:07,760 Speaker 2: Yes, of course, and so a small window of time 145 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:10,080 Speaker 2: that you get to spend with him, so you want 146 00:08:10,080 --> 00:08:11,920 Speaker 2: to make it the best that you can and make 147 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:12,760 Speaker 2: him notice you. 148 00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:18,000 Speaker 1: Okay, And and and to that, to that, we're all 149 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:21,080 Speaker 1: noticing Nicole. I mean, she's lovely and pretty that I love. 150 00:08:21,640 --> 00:08:23,880 Speaker 1: Now the next thing I have to talk about because 151 00:08:23,920 --> 00:08:26,000 Speaker 1: I thought of you, Susan when I watched this, I thought, oh, 152 00:08:26,080 --> 00:08:27,560 Speaker 1: I've got to talk. We've got to do this on 153 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:31,440 Speaker 1: the Byecaust. But would you rather gain? Would you rather? 154 00:08:31,880 --> 00:08:36,080 Speaker 1: But here's here's where I again, I want to I 155 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:39,120 Speaker 1: am the hopeful romantic. Remember I called that you are 156 00:08:39,160 --> 00:08:39,600 Speaker 1: in love. 157 00:08:39,920 --> 00:08:41,800 Speaker 2: I want to be in love I was a hopeless 158 00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:43,800 Speaker 2: romantic until I came off the show. 159 00:08:43,880 --> 00:08:48,360 Speaker 1: Now, well we're both hopeful romantics. Okay, here I had 160 00:08:48,480 --> 00:08:52,920 Speaker 1: I'm telling you I rebounded three times again twice. Wait 161 00:08:52,920 --> 00:08:57,880 Speaker 1: a second, Cheryl and here are planning this game Carrol 162 00:08:58,360 --> 00:09:01,439 Speaker 1: and and and he reads them and he says loyalty 163 00:09:01,720 --> 00:09:03,599 Speaker 1: or passion, And of course I'm thinking, well, this is 164 00:09:03,640 --> 00:09:07,080 Speaker 1: an idiot game. Of course loyalty. They both say passion. 165 00:09:07,559 --> 00:09:11,080 Speaker 1: I'm like, if you don't have loyalty in your relationship, 166 00:09:11,120 --> 00:09:14,320 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Out the door. The next one was a 167 00:09:14,440 --> 00:09:18,640 Speaker 1: mountain or ocean, and you know, whenever they said the beach. Okay, 168 00:09:19,720 --> 00:09:23,080 Speaker 1: early rids or whatever, fine, early resident care, but then 169 00:09:26,200 --> 00:09:31,600 Speaker 1: touch or emotional connection. And I'm like, oh, well, we 170 00:09:31,640 --> 00:09:34,280 Speaker 1: both want both. But if you don't have an what 171 00:09:34,600 --> 00:09:35,400 Speaker 1: are you kidding me? 172 00:09:35,800 --> 00:09:38,560 Speaker 2: But if to have a of course, yes, but that's 173 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:41,480 Speaker 2: really dissecting. It was just a quick little you know. 174 00:09:41,720 --> 00:09:44,880 Speaker 1: Oh no, see you know, no, I want the man. 175 00:09:45,240 --> 00:09:47,640 Speaker 1: Let's be clear, who is going to I would have 176 00:09:47,679 --> 00:09:50,319 Speaker 1: an emotional connection with him. There's going to be physical touch, 177 00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:54,520 Speaker 1: and by god, he better be loyal. So I was like, mel, 178 00:09:54,760 --> 00:09:56,480 Speaker 1: you and I have to have a talk here because 179 00:09:56,559 --> 00:10:01,080 Speaker 1: I didn't like that when he said passion, no bother you. 180 00:10:00,920 --> 00:10:05,320 Speaker 2: Because I need to be touched. I like physical touch. 181 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:06,600 Speaker 2: So I got it. 182 00:10:06,679 --> 00:10:09,640 Speaker 1: Great. Let me just say for all you people out there, 183 00:10:09,960 --> 00:10:12,480 Speaker 1: I'm going to call Frederic and I'm going to say, hey, listen, 184 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:14,760 Speaker 1: she doesn't care if you're loyal, she just wants. 185 00:10:14,520 --> 00:10:19,400 Speaker 2: To touch her. That's not true. You're not excusing one. Okay, 186 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:19,960 Speaker 2: yes it is. 187 00:10:20,040 --> 00:10:25,400 Speaker 1: You had to do like the four wood you ratther is, 188 00:10:25,559 --> 00:10:28,160 Speaker 1: pick one or the other. You don't get to picktooses 189 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:31,440 Speaker 1: and pick one. So that I'm just gonna say that 190 00:10:31,720 --> 00:10:32,760 Speaker 1: bothered me a little bit. 191 00:10:33,440 --> 00:10:36,640 Speaker 2: Something else that Mel said and I quote, age is 192 00:10:36,720 --> 00:10:41,560 Speaker 2: just the number. Spirit has no age. Yes, loved it. Yes, 193 00:10:41,720 --> 00:10:43,480 Speaker 2: that was well well said. 194 00:10:44,160 --> 00:10:47,119 Speaker 1: So when he when he said you know, love, happiness 195 00:10:47,120 --> 00:10:49,320 Speaker 1: and fun on his toast, like I said, I think 196 00:10:49,360 --> 00:10:51,559 Speaker 1: Mel's great. I think I mean, we all wanted to 197 00:10:51,600 --> 00:10:55,800 Speaker 1: find love. But I want these women. My thing is, 198 00:10:57,200 --> 00:11:02,040 Speaker 1: I want I want the Golden Patch or TV show 199 00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:07,720 Speaker 1: to be authentic with women who are golden and not 200 00:11:07,880 --> 00:11:11,880 Speaker 1: parading around like teenage girls. I don't like that. I 201 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:12,640 Speaker 1: have to be honest. 202 00:11:12,679 --> 00:11:16,240 Speaker 2: Anybody can parade around. I goofy a lot of times, Kathy, 203 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:20,240 Speaker 2: it's not what I'm talking about. Well, Golden, what are 204 00:11:20,280 --> 00:11:21,160 Speaker 2: you talking about that. 205 00:11:22,240 --> 00:11:26,560 Speaker 1: I'm talking about? When they're you know, everyone's gone, he's 206 00:11:26,559 --> 00:11:29,600 Speaker 1: so hot, It's like, Oh, that's well, that's what I'm saying. 207 00:11:29,640 --> 00:11:32,920 Speaker 1: I want, I want our message to be different, and 208 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:34,920 Speaker 1: so I'm hoping that we're going to get more of that. 209 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:44,640 Speaker 2: How about Peg. Let's talk about Peg. She sat down 210 00:11:44,640 --> 00:11:47,200 Speaker 2: and chatted with him. I love this woman, okay, and 211 00:11:47,240 --> 00:11:50,040 Speaker 2: her hair is real. It is so thick. I would 212 00:11:50,200 --> 00:11:51,720 Speaker 2: hate to be her hairdresser. 213 00:11:51,880 --> 00:11:54,000 Speaker 1: Okay, let me tell you what I think about Peg. 214 00:11:54,760 --> 00:11:57,800 Speaker 2: And I loved her conversation because she nailed it. She 215 00:11:57,960 --> 00:12:01,440 Speaker 2: asked very important questions. You're not retired, Well, how do 216 00:12:01,480 --> 00:12:03,760 Speaker 2: you spend time with people? I need somebody to spend 217 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:07,200 Speaker 2: time with me. Like, I really loved her conversation, and. 218 00:12:07,120 --> 00:12:09,240 Speaker 1: So let's talk about that for a minute. I agree 219 00:12:09,240 --> 00:12:11,079 Speaker 1: with you. She's very real. First of all, I love 220 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:15,319 Speaker 1: that she's a bomb squad, but she's a fire firefighter. 221 00:12:15,400 --> 00:12:18,440 Speaker 1: My son was a firefighter. So Peg, I love you 222 00:12:18,520 --> 00:12:20,160 Speaker 1: right there, love her to pieces. 223 00:12:20,200 --> 00:12:21,040 Speaker 2: But hold on. 224 00:12:21,440 --> 00:12:24,640 Speaker 1: When she said wait, when she said when the bomb 225 00:12:24,679 --> 00:12:31,160 Speaker 1: didn't find others, I felt so mad. But here's the 226 00:12:31,200 --> 00:12:38,360 Speaker 1: thing about Peg. Yes, she for me, is either gonna 227 00:12:38,360 --> 00:12:43,160 Speaker 1: go really far or not at all, or she is 228 00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:45,520 Speaker 1: going to be out the door because and I'll tell 229 00:12:45,520 --> 00:12:49,000 Speaker 1: you why that woman has been around. She said it 230 00:12:49,040 --> 00:12:52,320 Speaker 1: herself in a firehouse with you know, and she said, 231 00:12:52,360 --> 00:12:55,600 Speaker 1: all these women chatty chatty chang. She is not used to, 232 00:12:56,520 --> 00:12:59,160 Speaker 1: you know, hair flipping? What cold her lipstick? Am I 233 00:12:59,200 --> 00:13:01,960 Speaker 1: gonna wear today? Kind of girls that She's get the 234 00:13:02,040 --> 00:13:04,720 Speaker 1: job done. And I love her for that. So I'm 235 00:13:04,760 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 1: anxious to see what happens with her as but I'm 236 00:13:07,440 --> 00:13:07,960 Speaker 1: proud of her. 237 00:13:08,280 --> 00:13:12,160 Speaker 2: Yes, women as firefighter love, you've had this same exact 238 00:13:12,240 --> 00:13:14,080 Speaker 2: thing said to you when people have said to me, 239 00:13:14,120 --> 00:13:16,440 Speaker 2: how come you can't find anybody? And I'm a lot, 240 00:13:16,559 --> 00:13:19,880 Speaker 2: We're a lot, we're big personalities. Either you fall for 241 00:13:20,040 --> 00:13:22,800 Speaker 2: us or you don't at all? Right, yea, oh friend, 242 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:23,800 Speaker 2: I have a question. 243 00:13:24,360 --> 00:13:27,079 Speaker 1: I agree. I agree. But here's the question about Peg 244 00:13:27,160 --> 00:13:31,480 Speaker 1: and melt again as a woman who's looking for her partner. 245 00:13:31,920 --> 00:13:35,840 Speaker 1: When she said to Mel, you know I want you. 246 00:13:36,600 --> 00:13:38,960 Speaker 1: I'm looking for a man when you're going to retire, 247 00:13:39,040 --> 00:13:42,720 Speaker 1: he said never. Uh, And then I think if I'm 248 00:13:42,720 --> 00:13:45,880 Speaker 1: not if I'm I think I've got this right. She said, 249 00:13:45,880 --> 00:13:47,679 Speaker 1: what are you looking for? And he said, I've been 250 00:13:47,679 --> 00:13:50,640 Speaker 1: looking for you. So you already see the flirting going on. 251 00:13:50,880 --> 00:13:56,120 Speaker 1: But again, we are not twenty five or thirty. We're 252 00:13:56,160 --> 00:13:59,880 Speaker 1: not building careers. Apparently he is still working, So how 253 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:01,120 Speaker 1: is that gonna work? 254 00:14:01,360 --> 00:14:05,080 Speaker 2: Dumb women? Eat that up. That is an important thing 255 00:14:05,200 --> 00:14:07,920 Speaker 2: to say. Like even though he was putting it out 256 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:11,520 Speaker 2: there flirtatiously, some women think, oh my god, I've been 257 00:14:11,520 --> 00:14:14,120 Speaker 2: looking for you. He really does. He has a connection 258 00:14:14,280 --> 00:14:18,800 Speaker 2: with me. You when you're that into somebody, any little 259 00:14:18,880 --> 00:14:21,760 Speaker 2: thing they say, you're going to take it as oh, 260 00:14:22,320 --> 00:14:24,120 Speaker 2: it's it's me and him, it's me and him. Like 261 00:14:24,160 --> 00:14:27,240 Speaker 2: when him and Cindy had that talk and the three kisses, 262 00:14:27,320 --> 00:14:28,280 Speaker 2: you know, she kept going back. 263 00:14:28,360 --> 00:14:29,920 Speaker 1: Let me tell you that girl. I'm going to call 264 00:14:29,960 --> 00:14:31,880 Speaker 1: her in Austin. I'm gonna ask her to teach me 265 00:14:31,880 --> 00:14:34,960 Speaker 1: how to floor because man, she's got it down. Okay, 266 00:14:35,040 --> 00:14:37,440 Speaker 1: I want to. I will also want to talk about 267 00:14:37,600 --> 00:14:38,280 Speaker 1: Monica p. 268 00:14:40,400 --> 00:14:40,560 Speaker 2: Well. 269 00:14:40,680 --> 00:14:44,200 Speaker 1: I almost cried because I'm alone. And when she talked 270 00:14:44,360 --> 00:14:48,320 Speaker 1: and he that you could see that connection of eating 271 00:14:48,360 --> 00:14:50,400 Speaker 1: alone and I just. 272 00:14:51,160 --> 00:14:54,040 Speaker 2: And she felt maybe she said too much too soon. 273 00:14:55,960 --> 00:15:00,480 Speaker 1: So here is the difference again, as a woman of 274 00:15:00,520 --> 00:15:03,120 Speaker 1: a certain age, the thirty year olds, the twins, they 275 00:15:03,240 --> 00:15:05,920 Speaker 1: just throw it all out there. They don't care. We're 276 00:15:06,040 --> 00:15:08,320 Speaker 1: smart enough to sit back and say. 277 00:15:09,120 --> 00:15:10,160 Speaker 2: Look at the picture. 278 00:15:10,400 --> 00:15:12,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, should I have said that? Should I have none? 279 00:15:12,600 --> 00:15:13,360 Speaker 1: Am I gonna push it? 280 00:15:13,640 --> 00:15:15,200 Speaker 2: What she did? Yeah? 281 00:15:15,320 --> 00:15:18,840 Speaker 1: I don't know. I just I'm I'm amy. 282 00:15:18,720 --> 00:15:22,160 Speaker 2: A little firecracker. She's just a giddy, little tiny thing. 283 00:15:24,640 --> 00:15:25,440 Speaker 2: God bless her. 284 00:15:25,480 --> 00:15:29,520 Speaker 1: I love her. She's gonna be entertained for sure. Okay, 285 00:15:29,720 --> 00:15:34,280 Speaker 1: now you know Kathy Soandra has a twin. We knew that, 286 00:15:34,480 --> 00:15:37,840 Speaker 1: I of you we knew that, but I thought when 287 00:15:37,920 --> 00:15:40,520 Speaker 1: they she had told us on our show she had 288 00:15:40,520 --> 00:15:45,440 Speaker 1: a twin. But here's the thing. If Sondra had more 289 00:15:45,520 --> 00:15:48,680 Speaker 1: hair and a more upbeat style I got rid of 290 00:15:48,680 --> 00:15:51,400 Speaker 1: her glasses, they would look like the identical twins. They 291 00:15:51,400 --> 00:15:54,360 Speaker 1: are sorry that she went home the first night, but 292 00:15:54,600 --> 00:15:58,680 Speaker 1: we never really got a sense of her. So. But 293 00:15:58,720 --> 00:16:01,360 Speaker 1: the next thing I have to ask you about is 294 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:06,000 Speaker 1: before we get into the specific Senate, what do you 295 00:16:06,080 --> 00:16:10,800 Speaker 1: think about golden women who aren't totally golden? As cheerleader 296 00:16:10,880 --> 00:16:11,600 Speaker 1: on my show? 297 00:16:11,720 --> 00:16:15,120 Speaker 2: And I hate it on this show let's define golden. 298 00:16:15,200 --> 00:16:19,800 Speaker 2: Will you please to me the definition would mean age 299 00:16:19,840 --> 00:16:25,800 Speaker 2: of Social Security, which is sixty five, okay year olds? 300 00:16:25,800 --> 00:16:28,320 Speaker 1: And yeah me something I mean and then and and 301 00:16:28,720 --> 00:16:31,000 Speaker 1: let me tell you I was I want to talk 302 00:16:31,000 --> 00:16:33,440 Speaker 1: about the cheerleading. But well, bookmark that and come back 303 00:16:33,560 --> 00:16:35,960 Speaker 1: to Diane. Diane is seventy one. 304 00:16:36,360 --> 00:16:38,400 Speaker 2: I mean telling them I want to be I go 305 00:16:38,440 --> 00:16:40,480 Speaker 2: in and look at the picture, Diane. 306 00:16:40,520 --> 00:16:43,120 Speaker 1: It's the sweet librarian. I believe from Arkansas. I'm not 307 00:16:43,120 --> 00:16:45,920 Speaker 1: sure where it's from, but you know, cute, little short haircut. 308 00:16:46,040 --> 00:16:50,440 Speaker 1: She did not have extensions. Oh the oh you know 309 00:16:50,480 --> 00:16:53,080 Speaker 1: what she's not though she's not. She's from Alaska, which 310 00:16:53,120 --> 00:16:57,360 Speaker 1: is even she's from Alaska. But here's the thing. That woman, 311 00:16:57,520 --> 00:17:00,200 Speaker 1: in my mind, is there for the right reason. In 312 00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:04,800 Speaker 1: my opinion, she's she's there, she's authentic, she's and I'm like, yes, 313 00:17:04,880 --> 00:17:09,959 Speaker 1: we actually have a really wonderful golden woman. I'm not 314 00:17:10,040 --> 00:17:13,439 Speaker 1: sure there. Well, clearly she went home, which you know 315 00:17:13,600 --> 00:17:18,800 Speaker 1: was sad because I wanted to see a woman who's golden, 316 00:17:18,840 --> 00:17:21,399 Speaker 1: who's fit. I mean, gosh, that woman is fit. 317 00:17:22,040 --> 00:17:22,159 Speaker 2: Uh. 318 00:17:22,600 --> 00:17:25,000 Speaker 1: I wanted to see where that would go. But I 319 00:17:25,200 --> 00:17:29,439 Speaker 1: just had a genuine liking of her. Well, she was 320 00:17:29,480 --> 00:17:31,680 Speaker 1: the one that said, what the puck? Yeah, she's a 321 00:17:31,720 --> 00:17:35,080 Speaker 1: hard player, I mean, and he was shocked by that. 322 00:17:35,280 --> 00:17:37,919 Speaker 2: And we talk about Debbie and that dimples and how 323 00:17:38,080 --> 00:17:42,040 Speaker 2: she pretty in her smile, and she's never been married married, 324 00:17:42,080 --> 00:17:44,920 Speaker 2: and I wonder if that, you know, some people think 325 00:17:44,960 --> 00:17:47,840 Speaker 2: that's a red flag. I know you and I have said, oh, 326 00:17:47,920 --> 00:17:50,199 Speaker 2: he's never been married, was and I will not. 327 00:17:50,440 --> 00:17:54,440 Speaker 1: I dated one man, Debbie, I love you and you're beautiful, 328 00:17:54,520 --> 00:17:57,280 Speaker 1: And I'm not sure this applies to women, but as 329 00:17:57,320 --> 00:18:01,919 Speaker 1: a woman, I dated one man who had never been married. 330 00:18:03,000 --> 00:18:05,360 Speaker 2: Ask me if I'll ever do it again? Really? 331 00:18:05,600 --> 00:18:09,040 Speaker 1: What ever? Never red flag like that? 332 00:18:09,440 --> 00:18:12,640 Speaker 2: People that never had kids because they don't know what 333 00:18:12,720 --> 00:18:13,960 Speaker 2: it's like to have children. 334 00:18:14,080 --> 00:18:17,160 Speaker 1: Well, but sometimes you can't have children. That's a choice. 335 00:18:17,280 --> 00:18:20,199 Speaker 2: While I'm not being married, not having children, that's a 336 00:18:20,240 --> 00:18:24,359 Speaker 2: whole family unit, something you adjust, it's part of your life. 337 00:18:24,440 --> 00:18:27,960 Speaker 2: And they don't. They never to do it. So I think, 338 00:18:29,119 --> 00:18:29,560 Speaker 2: I don't know. 339 00:18:29,680 --> 00:18:32,000 Speaker 1: I think. I mean, Debbie said she built a business, 340 00:18:32,040 --> 00:18:34,680 Speaker 1: she started as a fitness instructor, all that stuff, and 341 00:18:35,920 --> 00:18:38,680 Speaker 1: it is a choice not to get married. But I 342 00:18:38,760 --> 00:18:42,600 Speaker 1: think I think if you've never been married. The only 343 00:18:42,640 --> 00:18:46,000 Speaker 1: person you've ever worried about is yourself. And if you 344 00:18:46,160 --> 00:18:50,520 Speaker 1: only worry about yourself, that doesn't bode well for me 345 00:18:50,760 --> 00:18:54,439 Speaker 1: for a partnership. And to me, at my age, I 346 00:18:54,520 --> 00:18:57,960 Speaker 1: am not looking to be led with by any age. 347 00:18:58,000 --> 00:18:59,679 Speaker 1: By the way, I hope women aren't looking to be 348 00:18:59,760 --> 00:19:01,920 Speaker 1: led by the nose. But I want to partner someone 349 00:19:01,920 --> 00:19:02,600 Speaker 1: to walk with. 350 00:19:02,480 --> 00:19:05,560 Speaker 2: Me, not in front of me, not behind me together. 351 00:19:06,000 --> 00:19:09,399 Speaker 2: How about Carol and the la and they they had 352 00:19:09,440 --> 00:19:12,080 Speaker 2: a lot in common, the love, the sports thing. I 353 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:15,200 Speaker 2: like that. Robin. I would definitely want to date Robin because. 354 00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:18,040 Speaker 1: Oh no, no, listen, you and I are taking a trip 355 00:19:18,080 --> 00:19:21,400 Speaker 1: out to Napa, Robert. We're gonna go see Rabbit and Terry. 356 00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:23,879 Speaker 1: I mean, I love some of these women have so 357 00:19:24,040 --> 00:19:27,600 Speaker 1: much spunk, But I would be lyne. I would be lying. 358 00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:30,359 Speaker 1: And for all you out there, don't send me messages 359 00:19:30,520 --> 00:19:34,399 Speaker 1: telling me I'm jealous, I'm not. I am perfectly happy 360 00:19:34,400 --> 00:19:40,119 Speaker 1: with who I am. I just believe in golden people 361 00:19:40,720 --> 00:19:45,120 Speaker 1: having energy. And you know, when you're fifty eight or sixty, 362 00:19:46,119 --> 00:19:48,520 Speaker 1: you know you have energy, but you're I just got 363 00:19:48,520 --> 00:19:52,800 Speaker 1: to say, maybe not that golden and. 364 00:19:52,200 --> 00:19:55,960 Speaker 2: That from Marshall Monica Monica Bee was so shocked when 365 00:19:55,960 --> 00:19:58,560 Speaker 2: she got the rose. Did you see her face? 366 00:19:58,640 --> 00:19:58,720 Speaker 1: Like? 367 00:19:59,080 --> 00:20:01,720 Speaker 2: Because I felt like she didn't think was going to 368 00:20:01,800 --> 00:20:06,040 Speaker 2: be there. And she's quiet but funny, like she's got 369 00:20:06,040 --> 00:20:08,920 Speaker 2: a great personality. 370 00:20:09,040 --> 00:20:12,280 Speaker 1: Yes, I'll tell you Another one I really like is Jerry. 371 00:20:12,560 --> 00:20:15,600 Speaker 1: And I'll tell you why I like her first all 372 00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:18,960 Speaker 1: because she's real and you and I are so real. 373 00:20:19,080 --> 00:20:21,360 Speaker 1: So I love her kids on her own, I mean, 374 00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:26,280 Speaker 1: but a widow at forty seven years of age, let's 375 00:20:26,320 --> 00:20:30,680 Speaker 1: talk about that raising kids again. I don't know if young. 376 00:20:31,119 --> 00:20:34,920 Speaker 1: I think the people watching this season are so going 377 00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:37,919 Speaker 1: to I have goosebumps, are so going to identify with 378 00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:41,200 Speaker 1: a golden woman. You know, she's sixty four. I'll cut 379 00:20:41,200 --> 00:20:45,960 Speaker 1: her slack for a year. And she said the overarching 380 00:20:46,080 --> 00:20:48,960 Speaker 1: themes that I love hearing about, you know, it's my 381 00:20:49,119 --> 00:20:53,680 Speaker 1: turn now eighteen years later, and I think Mel resonated 382 00:20:53,680 --> 00:20:58,879 Speaker 1: with that because he's raised his kids. And I just 383 00:20:58,960 --> 00:21:05,639 Speaker 1: think the the overarching themes of finding, wanting connection, looking, 384 00:21:05,760 --> 00:21:09,760 Speaker 1: taking time, you know, it's our time now, let's all 385 00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:12,600 Speaker 1: of those things. I want that to be displayed more. 386 00:21:12,640 --> 00:21:16,480 Speaker 1: I want that to be a more central focal theme 387 00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:19,640 Speaker 1: in this in this show, and I hope it becomes more. 388 00:21:19,720 --> 00:21:23,639 Speaker 2: So tell me something, Kathy. When you look at Mel, 389 00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:28,439 Speaker 2: he doesn't read. I can't read what it is he's 390 00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:29,320 Speaker 2: looking for. 391 00:21:29,960 --> 00:21:35,679 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? Okay, so I related. I 392 00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:37,360 Speaker 1: swear I can't. 393 00:21:37,040 --> 00:21:40,840 Speaker 2: Put my finger. Do you want the flirtatious, fun, jump 394 00:21:40,880 --> 00:21:42,280 Speaker 2: on your bones kind of girl? 395 00:21:42,840 --> 00:21:47,760 Speaker 1: Maybe Susan s mart like, maybe he doesn't know. Maybe 396 00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:50,360 Speaker 1: he doesn't know, and that's fair mail. If you don't know, 397 00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:52,040 Speaker 1: you don't know, you don't know what. 398 00:21:51,960 --> 00:21:52,439 Speaker 2: You don't know. 399 00:21:52,720 --> 00:21:56,879 Speaker 1: But that brings up something else that I thought about. 400 00:21:57,200 --> 00:22:02,000 Speaker 1: The women, uh, you know, were were enthusiastic and lots 401 00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:03,520 Speaker 1: of energy, and I do want to get back to 402 00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:04,240 Speaker 1: the cheerleading. 403 00:22:05,160 --> 00:22:08,520 Speaker 2: Yes, but did you hear. 404 00:22:08,520 --> 00:22:12,919 Speaker 1: Mel talking about the women and how you know they 405 00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:17,120 Speaker 1: gave up? They're so energetic and they're pretty Yes, But 406 00:22:17,119 --> 00:22:23,000 Speaker 1: but I didn't hear him sort of talking about what 407 00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:26,159 Speaker 1: it does for him, Yeah, and and what he's really 408 00:22:26,240 --> 00:22:29,760 Speaker 1: looking for. I didn't hear it. And so again, as 409 00:22:29,800 --> 00:22:32,240 Speaker 1: a woman of a certain age, if you don't know 410 00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:39,639 Speaker 1: by the time you're our age what you want. 411 00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:39,640 Speaker 2: Well, but you can't judge a book by its cover. 412 00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:40,400 Speaker 2: Heel he met them. 413 00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:43,600 Speaker 1: What I have not met him. I can't wait to 414 00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:46,400 Speaker 1: meet him. But all right, what about the cheerleading. I 415 00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:49,840 Speaker 1: was a cheerleader. Let's just start with that, would you. 416 00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:51,200 Speaker 1: I mean, come on. 417 00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:54,639 Speaker 2: I thought it was fun. It was better than the 418 00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:56,240 Speaker 2: talent contest. They s. 419 00:22:58,080 --> 00:23:01,520 Speaker 1: You know what I have. I had not thought about 420 00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:07,639 Speaker 1: karate chopping. Would like when when Paula I thought, you 421 00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:09,520 Speaker 1: know what, I thought it was going to be and 422 00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:11,399 Speaker 1: I was thinking, oh, damn it, I was on the 423 00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:14,480 Speaker 1: wrong season because I can throw a football. I can 424 00:23:14,560 --> 00:23:15,680 Speaker 1: throw a spiral football. 425 00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:16,320 Speaker 2: It was dance. 426 00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:18,720 Speaker 1: I know. I was thinking, well, I was a chow there. 427 00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:21,080 Speaker 1: I could do that too. But I was just when 428 00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:25,280 Speaker 1: they go we're shaking our booties, I'm like, come on, really, 429 00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:26,560 Speaker 1: look at us. 430 00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:29,520 Speaker 2: On stage doing that. That's what the show is about, 431 00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:33,960 Speaker 2: taking you out of your comfort zone and making you 432 00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:37,440 Speaker 2: do things that you wouldn't normally ordinarily. 433 00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:40,119 Speaker 1: Just Joe, you know what, Susan, You're right. I have 434 00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:44,920 Speaker 1: lived seventy plus years never jumping into a swimming pool 435 00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:48,160 Speaker 1: with a ball gown on. Damn, I haven't lived life yet. 436 00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:51,920 Speaker 2: That was a moment I loved. I love that. 437 00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:54,480 Speaker 1: Tell you would Susan you'd be like, I ruined my dress. 438 00:23:54,520 --> 00:23:57,679 Speaker 2: I ruined after the night, it wasn't before. And I 439 00:23:57,760 --> 00:24:00,320 Speaker 2: loved the rose ceremony outdoors by. 440 00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:03,640 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I did love that. That's something else. Wait, 441 00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:07,680 Speaker 1: that is something else that they changed on our season. 442 00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:10,880 Speaker 1: They were trying to hide that we're up all night long, 443 00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:14,119 Speaker 1: and you know, Sundra's bitching. Who was you know, not Sondra, 444 00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:18,359 Speaker 1: Natasha give me a chair. But this time it was 445 00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:21,240 Speaker 1: like they acknowledged the elephant in the room, which is friends, 446 00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:25,679 Speaker 1: you're up all night. The rose ceremony is in the morning, 447 00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:28,560 Speaker 1: they said at seven am. I like that because to me, 448 00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:32,879 Speaker 1: that's authentic and I want I want it to be real. 449 00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:34,760 Speaker 1: I really want it to be real. 450 00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:38,320 Speaker 2: To see what you watch on TV is really happening. 451 00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:40,080 Speaker 2: It's really happening. 452 00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:40,919 Speaker 1: It's really happening. 453 00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:44,760 Speaker 2: It's about finding love. Get back down to the basics. 454 00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:49,119 Speaker 2: It doesn't matter who flirts the most, who dresses the best, 455 00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:53,880 Speaker 2: who sleeps more, who shy, who is forward. It's about 456 00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:55,560 Speaker 2: a connection of love. 457 00:24:55,920 --> 00:25:00,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, well you are just okay it that's what 458 00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:04,000 Speaker 1: we want. What were you about life, thick girl? 459 00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:06,560 Speaker 2: Well, you know it's coming for me. 460 00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:11,240 Speaker 1: Susan I'm saying I want this show is the framework 461 00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:14,000 Speaker 1: is about love, but it's so much more and the 462 00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:16,720 Speaker 1: themes that we like anxiety. You know, you heard Mel 463 00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:21,359 Speaker 1: say at the beginning, this is real people, and forget 464 00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:24,280 Speaker 1: the TV show for a minute. People our age, We 465 00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:29,920 Speaker 1: have anxiety. We have worries about our children. When he 466 00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:33,400 Speaker 1: took Cheryl on that first date and she's talking about 467 00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:38,000 Speaker 1: her son and taking care of her mother and her 468 00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:39,919 Speaker 1: husband left, I'm sitting. 469 00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:43,040 Speaker 2: Her husband comes back and steals tyson for a week. 470 00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:44,119 Speaker 2: She didn't know where he was. 471 00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:55,080 Speaker 1: I was losing my shit. I'm all about what makes 472 00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:59,640 Speaker 1: the Goldens different, and their stories are real. I mean 473 00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:01,840 Speaker 1: they all have hair and extensions. I don't care what 474 00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:04,679 Speaker 1: you say. And they're all gorgeous now where bikini's and 475 00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:09,200 Speaker 1: for that I am jealous. However, their stories are real 476 00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:12,159 Speaker 1: rate you know, taking care of mother in laws, taking 477 00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:14,680 Speaker 1: you know, Mel taking care of his sons. 478 00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:18,520 Speaker 2: And not having any time to date in all those years. Right, 479 00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:22,560 Speaker 2: look at the young lady that we interviewed, Jerry. She 480 00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:26,159 Speaker 2: spent her life raising her children. When her husband passed 481 00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:30,800 Speaker 2: Neckli's time for her and he knows it, accepts it 482 00:26:30,960 --> 00:26:31,919 Speaker 2: and going after it. 483 00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:33,600 Speaker 1: Okay, now I'm gonna say something else that it's going 484 00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:35,320 Speaker 1: to irritate you. But why now we're just going for 485 00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:38,240 Speaker 1: the gusto today. I just love it because you know, 486 00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:39,359 Speaker 1: Susan and I, this is how. 487 00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:40,280 Speaker 2: We spend wine. 488 00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:43,480 Speaker 1: Yet you know either do I speacause you know we 489 00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:46,920 Speaker 1: might take a break care. I have to say, I'm 490 00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:49,800 Speaker 1: going to ask you because I have mixed emotions. And again, 491 00:26:50,520 --> 00:26:53,600 Speaker 1: when Cheryl got the first date, the princess date, just 492 00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:56,560 Speaker 1: like Ellen got it in ours. But can I just 493 00:26:56,680 --> 00:26:58,959 Speaker 1: say I love it? I mean I want that jewelry, 494 00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:04,600 Speaker 1: I want those dresses, I want it all. But I 495 00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:08,280 Speaker 1: just feel I can help. I'm a realist. I can help. 496 00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:11,800 Speaker 1: When she said starts crying, I want to be a princess, 497 00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:15,800 Speaker 1: I have not taught my daughter to be a princess. 498 00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:18,560 Speaker 1: I taught my daughter to get up off her ass, 499 00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:24,280 Speaker 1: get an education, work hard, earn your money. So it 500 00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:25,760 Speaker 1: bothers me a little bit. 501 00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:29,600 Speaker 2: A girl, you always teaching the girly things as well. 502 00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:35,000 Speaker 2: It's it's you're a female. Females are different than males. No, no, no. 503 00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:38,159 Speaker 1: When Cheryl said I want to be a princess and 504 00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:42,640 Speaker 1: she cries, I thought to myself. Okay, I mean we. 505 00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:45,880 Speaker 2: All had anybody treat her like a princess. 506 00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:51,320 Speaker 1: Treat yourself like a princess, believe in yourself for a. 507 00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:53,400 Speaker 2: Man to put you up on a pedestal and make 508 00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:56,080 Speaker 2: you feel like a princess. And at that date was 509 00:27:56,160 --> 00:27:57,160 Speaker 2: like a princess date. 510 00:27:57,440 --> 00:27:59,639 Speaker 1: It was no, no, no, hear me, no, no, no, the 511 00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:00,600 Speaker 1: way let me be. 512 00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:03,880 Speaker 2: Harry was sitting there, Hello, Wait. 513 00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:07,440 Speaker 1: I am not saying freaking princess. No, no, no, wait, I 514 00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:10,679 Speaker 1: don't think you're understanding what I'm saying. I am saying that. 515 00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:16,520 Speaker 1: When I hear a woman at our age say I 516 00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:18,840 Speaker 1: want to be a princess, I'm like, no, sweetheart, you 517 00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:22,879 Speaker 1: have so much more. Cheryl. You are a strong woman. 518 00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:25,600 Speaker 1: Who is you know, who has an open hearted is 519 00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:28,840 Speaker 1: taken care of your mother, you know you had. 520 00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:32,960 Speaker 2: A son that you've raised. That's what makes you worthy. 521 00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:35,000 Speaker 1: It's not about Okay. 522 00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:37,199 Speaker 2: So you're doing all that Because I could say that, 523 00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:40,160 Speaker 2: I could, I very well could say. I'm going to 524 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:43,320 Speaker 2: say it. I want to be a princess. I'm sixty 525 00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:46,120 Speaker 2: eight years old and it's time I be the princess. 526 00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:50,160 Speaker 2: You're right her careers like she did it all, why 527 00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:52,680 Speaker 2: not want to be the prince? Now? Maybe look at 528 00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:53,160 Speaker 2: it like that. 529 00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:56,840 Speaker 1: I guess it's the word princess. I you know, I 530 00:28:56,840 --> 00:29:01,280 Speaker 1: guess it's word struggling with. I mean, I remember, listen. 531 00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:03,920 Speaker 2: For Halloween, You're going to be a princess. I'm going 532 00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:07,000 Speaker 2: to dress you whip, I'm gonna keep the crown, I'm 533 00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:08,000 Speaker 2: gonna get your glass. 534 00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:12,280 Speaker 1: Listen, I want a guy who loves me at our age. 535 00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:14,600 Speaker 1: I'm saying this is stuff that you hear a twenty 536 00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:16,680 Speaker 1: year old saying I want to find a treat you. 537 00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:19,160 Speaker 2: It just came out of her mouth. Maybe maybe she 538 00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:20,800 Speaker 2: didn't even know she was going to say it. 539 00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:22,920 Speaker 1: She just said I want to be I guess what 540 00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:27,120 Speaker 1: I'm trying to say is Cheryl. I love you. I 541 00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:30,680 Speaker 1: think you are strong, I think you are capable. You 542 00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:34,720 Speaker 1: should be celebrated and all right, you want to be 543 00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:35,280 Speaker 1: a princess. 544 00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:38,959 Speaker 2: Okay, you know I love it being princess. I love it. 545 00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:42,560 Speaker 2: She came in on that motorbike and she wants to 546 00:29:42,560 --> 00:29:45,400 Speaker 2: be a princess because she was rugged. She's done the 547 00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:48,760 Speaker 2: timeboy things, she's done that. You know, the rough stuff. 548 00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:51,200 Speaker 2: Now you dress up and you're pretty. That's the best. 549 00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:53,560 Speaker 2: That's the problems. And I need the pretty clothes and 550 00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:56,200 Speaker 2: the jewelry. That's the benefit of being a woman. You 551 00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:57,040 Speaker 2: get to do boat. 552 00:29:57,480 --> 00:30:00,400 Speaker 1: Oh, I'm sorry. I thought you were gonna say, in sense, 553 00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:03,080 Speaker 1: I'm with you, be a woman. It's the princess I'm 554 00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:07,160 Speaker 1: struggling with. Okay, I want to talk about We talk 555 00:30:07,160 --> 00:30:07,520 Speaker 1: about it. 556 00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:08,440 Speaker 2: Oh wait, I want to. 557 00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:10,600 Speaker 1: Talk about I can't tell you because I'd have to 558 00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:16,280 Speaker 1: look them up other than let's see uh andre uh 559 00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:20,880 Speaker 1: the ones who went home, Diane. But I hate it? 560 00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:23,400 Speaker 1: Here can I ask you? And I want an honest 561 00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:30,440 Speaker 1: answer here, miss Princess, Yes, your highness, here's my question 562 00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:35,480 Speaker 1: for you. Yes, does it go against your grain as 563 00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:39,200 Speaker 1: a strong independent woman? And you and I both are that. 564 00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:41,200 Speaker 2: Women. 565 00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:45,800 Speaker 1: I mean, you understand I'm gunning to become a producer here. 566 00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:50,840 Speaker 1: I don't like the fact I know people have to 567 00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:53,840 Speaker 1: go home. I wish they would start with I think 568 00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:56,360 Speaker 1: there were seventeen left. I think they six went home. 569 00:30:56,400 --> 00:31:00,000 Speaker 1: I think I'm right. Why don't they just freaking start 570 00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:04,000 Speaker 1: with seventeen and have them stay a couple of episodes. 571 00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:07,960 Speaker 2: And less crowds like even the group dating make it 572 00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:11,520 Speaker 2: less of them. So they really can mingle and know 573 00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:12,960 Speaker 2: somebody's personality. 574 00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:16,920 Speaker 1: I mean, we're talking about two things here, what makes 575 00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:19,680 Speaker 1: a good show. We're talking about what makes a good show. 576 00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:24,200 Speaker 1: But I'm talking about women. We are trying to celebrate 577 00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:28,080 Speaker 1: golden women. We are not invisible anymore. We have things 578 00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:30,360 Speaker 1: to say. We want people to listen to us, except 579 00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:32,520 Speaker 1: we really don't because we're sending six of you home 580 00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:34,040 Speaker 1: the first night. I don't like that. 581 00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:37,040 Speaker 2: Before I forget, I hate to interrupt, but someone said, 582 00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:38,360 Speaker 2: I feel seen. 583 00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:44,840 Speaker 1: Was that Cindy, Yes, I'm safe? Safe scene? And again, 584 00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:49,800 Speaker 1: these are these overarching themes of feeling seen, being vulnerable, 585 00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:54,200 Speaker 1: having an open heart, coming for the right reasons, having 586 00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:58,640 Speaker 1: anxiety but overcoming in all these really serious kinds of things. 587 00:31:58,680 --> 00:32:02,520 Speaker 1: And that's why I hate seeing women call home the 588 00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:07,640 Speaker 1: first night who didn't even have a chance, whether they 589 00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:09,720 Speaker 1: spoke to him for two minutes or not. I just 590 00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:11,320 Speaker 1: wish that that. 591 00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:14,600 Speaker 2: The first time we got to sit with Gary, I 592 00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:17,280 Speaker 2: think it was like maybe two minutes. And what are 593 00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:19,960 Speaker 2: you going to talk about in two minutes? Except Peg 594 00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:22,040 Speaker 2: Peg knew what she was going to talk about. All right, 595 00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:24,080 Speaker 2: let me hear let it. I want to know what 596 00:32:24,160 --> 00:32:26,400 Speaker 2: it is you're looking for? What do you like to do? 597 00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:28,880 Speaker 2: Are you retired? How much time do you want to spend? 598 00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:30,680 Speaker 2: I'm not sure of her. 599 00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:33,600 Speaker 1: Such do I see me in peg? Do you I 600 00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:36,320 Speaker 1: see me in peg? I'm like, let's get down to 601 00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:37,120 Speaker 1: brass tacks here. 602 00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:38,040 Speaker 2: What do you think? 603 00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:40,760 Speaker 1: I mean? I've always been a direct I mean, I 604 00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:42,920 Speaker 1: wasn't a firefighter, but you know my son is and 605 00:32:43,120 --> 00:32:47,280 Speaker 1: I've seen it all. I love that she's strong. But again, 606 00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:50,480 Speaker 1: men are either going to be a brilliant. Why I 607 00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:54,120 Speaker 1: say man now is either really going to be attracted to. 608 00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:57,719 Speaker 2: That long woman or or not. Compare that to Nicole. 609 00:32:57,840 --> 00:33:01,080 Speaker 2: Have you heard conversation from the call in him? I 610 00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:04,120 Speaker 2: only see hanging on him making out, and I get it. 611 00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:07,280 Speaker 2: She feels like there's chemistry and she's going for it. 612 00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:09,840 Speaker 2: But I had never really heard a good conversation. 613 00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:12,480 Speaker 1: You're saying they did not have a conversation. 614 00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:16,600 Speaker 2: Did I miss something? Was there a deep conversation with them? 615 00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:19,760 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Jess, Nicole, you asked specifically. 616 00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:21,000 Speaker 2: I don't. 617 00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:24,480 Speaker 1: I don't think they had. But again, remember we're only 618 00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:27,800 Speaker 1: seeing what the TV show shows, so we don't know 619 00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:30,720 Speaker 1: if he did. But again I don't know why I'm 620 00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:34,560 Speaker 1: on such a terror today, But I want women. It's 621 00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:37,000 Speaker 1: it you want to go, you know, jump his bones 622 00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:40,920 Speaker 1: in the pool. Okay, fine, but I want I want 623 00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:47,880 Speaker 1: women to see that we can be graceful and strong 624 00:33:48,320 --> 00:33:51,440 Speaker 1: and have opinions and still be desired by men. 625 00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:54,480 Speaker 2: And they were very good point, and they were all 626 00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:58,560 Speaker 2: excited when she got the date, the first date. They 627 00:33:58,560 --> 00:34:01,360 Speaker 2: were all happy for her, like we were for everyone 628 00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:06,200 Speaker 2: when Teresa got the day. I feel like a job 629 00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:09,439 Speaker 2: like we were the first ever. Our show was the 630 00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:13,360 Speaker 2: first ever in the history of mass Yeah, we're seeing 631 00:34:13,560 --> 00:34:16,439 Speaker 2: they're gonna fine tune and they're you know what I mean. 632 00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:19,360 Speaker 2: But I don't think they should go any younger fifties 633 00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:22,879 Speaker 2: is out of the ballpark for me. That's not golden. Well, 634 00:34:23,080 --> 00:34:25,360 Speaker 2: you're still in puberty. 635 00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:28,239 Speaker 1: I want to know. Do you think some of the 636 00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:31,400 Speaker 1: women there we don't have to name names unless you 637 00:34:31,440 --> 00:34:34,080 Speaker 1: want to do. I think some of the women are 638 00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:35,200 Speaker 1: there for the wrong reason. 639 00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:38,120 Speaker 2: I think some of the women saw us and what 640 00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:40,720 Speaker 2: happened for us. 641 00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:43,400 Speaker 1: And they want that which But do you and I, Susan, 642 00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:46,040 Speaker 1: You and I never thought about this. We don't even 643 00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:49,719 Speaker 1: have Instagram. Okay, wait, I didn't know what an influencer was. 644 00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:51,239 Speaker 1: The whole Neither did I. 645 00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:54,080 Speaker 2: The whole thing was Kathy, and you and I both 646 00:34:54,160 --> 00:34:59,480 Speaker 2: share coming off that show, we're reaching so many women, 647 00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:03,240 Speaker 2: letting them no. Life is full of possibilities and that's 648 00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:04,640 Speaker 2: over in your sixties. 649 00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:07,600 Speaker 1: That's the message, and that's the message I want this 650 00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:12,759 Speaker 1: show to have, always, always, And what did you think? 651 00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:15,520 Speaker 1: I have a back to Nicole for one second, I 652 00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:18,520 Speaker 1: have another question. What did you think? I mean? I 653 00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:20,759 Speaker 1: want to say, Nicole, I love and I do. I 654 00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:22,560 Speaker 1: love all these women, I mean the ones we met, 655 00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:22,840 Speaker 1: I do. 656 00:35:23,000 --> 00:35:25,920 Speaker 2: I think they're in front of everybody. 657 00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:31,920 Speaker 1: All that was a lot. When she said he's my husband, 658 00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:36,480 Speaker 1: you know, I'm like, come on, is that really maybe something? 659 00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:39,040 Speaker 2: Remember you at twenty some years old and you saw 660 00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:41,879 Speaker 2: your man I was married, No, you weren't married yet. 661 00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:44,000 Speaker 2: He was across the room. You went to a party 662 00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:46,680 Speaker 2: in college or something, and you said, that man right 663 00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:48,800 Speaker 2: there is going to be my husband. 664 00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:53,520 Speaker 1: Susan, you just proved my point exactly. I was twenty 665 00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:56,520 Speaker 1: years old when I got married. I was eighteen when 666 00:35:56,560 --> 00:35:58,520 Speaker 1: I met my husband, and you're exactly right. I was 667 00:35:58,560 --> 00:36:01,520 Speaker 1: at a fraternity party, I pointed, I was holding my 668 00:36:01,640 --> 00:36:05,440 Speaker 1: red cup because drinking was up and so it was 669 00:36:05,520 --> 00:36:08,040 Speaker 1: legal at eighteen, because that's how old I am. And 670 00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:10,960 Speaker 1: I and I looked across the room and I saw him. 671 00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:15,120 Speaker 1: I and I tapped my roommate with that was there 672 00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:17,359 Speaker 1: and that guy over there, I'm going to marry him. 673 00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:21,200 Speaker 1: And I did eighteen months later. So Nicole is not eighteen. 674 00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:25,640 Speaker 2: No, well, maybe she still believes it. Maybe she really 675 00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:28,560 Speaker 2: thinks it. Hey, we don't know what's going to happen. 676 00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:32,399 Speaker 2: She may be the one. Maybe that's what he likes. 677 00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:37,239 Speaker 2: What I can't wait for more episodes to know what 678 00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:38,120 Speaker 2: turns him. 679 00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:40,080 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. 680 00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:43,680 Speaker 2: I feel life actually, but you know, in always what 681 00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:47,040 Speaker 2: makes him happy because right now he's going with the flow. 682 00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:49,920 Speaker 2: His first kiss, I saw him kiss, I was like, Oh, 683 00:36:49,960 --> 00:36:52,399 Speaker 2: that's kind of dead. When I kissed Gary, I thought, 684 00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:53,640 Speaker 2: what that's all you got? 685 00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:56,920 Speaker 1: Okay, So for all of you listening, I risk got 686 00:36:56,920 --> 00:37:00,200 Speaker 1: a little summation here before we move on. Let's see, 687 00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:05,200 Speaker 1: Susan's a princess, wants to be a princess. She's judging 688 00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:08,200 Speaker 1: how you kiss. She wants to be touched, she wants 689 00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:10,000 Speaker 1: to be loyal, but if you if you're as long 690 00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:12,160 Speaker 1: as you touch her, she's not really concerned if you're 691 00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:15,279 Speaker 1: loyal apparently, and it's oh and don't forget bring the 692 00:37:15,320 --> 00:37:17,480 Speaker 1: passion to the game. We got it that. 693 00:37:19,320 --> 00:37:21,120 Speaker 2: Have energy. 694 00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:22,000 Speaker 1: I don't know. 695 00:37:22,239 --> 00:37:26,640 Speaker 2: I'm excited about this season. I really am. I know, like, 696 00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:29,360 Speaker 2: I don't know what's going to happen. I don't know 697 00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:33,680 Speaker 2: who's leaving next. A part of me wants to know everything, 698 00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:35,800 Speaker 2: and there's people that know, but I don't want to 699 00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:37,280 Speaker 2: know w y it happened. 700 00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:40,279 Speaker 1: I will say if I am, if God knows, I 701 00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:43,400 Speaker 1: tell the truth. There is a part of me that 702 00:37:43,560 --> 00:37:47,640 Speaker 1: is very envious of what's going on there because I 703 00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:51,319 Speaker 1: would I well, first of all, I'm going to take 704 00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:54,840 Speaker 1: heat for this too. Well, I would take mel over 705 00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:59,680 Speaker 1: Gary any day of the week Monday through Sunday, three 706 00:37:59,760 --> 00:38:03,120 Speaker 1: six a year, or you know, pick your time, pick 707 00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:05,680 Speaker 1: your poison. He I mean, I think he is a 708 00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:09,400 Speaker 1: good looking man. I think he's fit, you know, I 709 00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:11,080 Speaker 1: think he's right now it's a little stiff, but I 710 00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:14,640 Speaker 1: believe he's gonna warm up. And and I will say, Susan, 711 00:38:14,760 --> 00:38:17,560 Speaker 1: if he'd met me, there wouldn't be in these comments 712 00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:19,120 Speaker 1: about you know forty to six year old. 713 00:38:19,280 --> 00:38:21,200 Speaker 2: Can we go backwards about his shoes? Did you hear 714 00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:21,760 Speaker 2: what he said? 715 00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:23,560 Speaker 1: Oh, we said he has wide feet. 716 00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:26,799 Speaker 2: The feet hurt man. And guess what, they weren't that 717 00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:28,960 Speaker 2: bad in the style today you see so many men 718 00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:31,400 Speaker 2: with sneakers in a suit. I love it. I love it. 719 00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:33,879 Speaker 2: I love it so. 720 00:38:33,920 --> 00:38:37,879 Speaker 1: And so wait, you're I can't honestly believe that they 721 00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:41,480 Speaker 1: spend ten seconds talking about his feet. I mean, trust me, 722 00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:43,520 Speaker 1: if I'm looking at if I'm looking at mel, I 723 00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:46,160 Speaker 1: can assure you I am not looking at his feet. Okay, 724 00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:48,480 Speaker 1: we're just gonna put that out there. You know, I 725 00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:51,080 Speaker 1: don't care if he has feet. They're not good for much, 726 00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:53,160 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Ever, Gary telling us more 727 00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:57,640 Speaker 1: than once what his shoe'size was, I was like, seriously, seriously, 728 00:38:57,760 --> 00:39:04,360 Speaker 1: save it. You know I am, but am envous because 729 00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:07,560 Speaker 1: I would love to do over there again. So I 730 00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:08,080 Speaker 1: want to. 731 00:39:08,040 --> 00:39:10,200 Speaker 2: Do over with a guy, a real guy. 732 00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:14,000 Speaker 1: That's we have my time. We have a do over. Yes, 733 00:39:14,080 --> 00:39:16,960 Speaker 1: let's let's start a campaign out there. And then if 734 00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:20,880 Speaker 1: you're listening right into Bachelor that we need Kathy and 735 00:39:20,920 --> 00:39:23,279 Speaker 1: Susan get a chance to do it again or both 736 00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:28,800 Speaker 1: of us with all men. There's just one little detail here, Susan, 737 00:39:28,840 --> 00:39:32,440 Speaker 1: in case any of the listeners are paying attention, you 738 00:39:32,719 --> 00:39:33,520 Speaker 1: have a man. 739 00:39:33,920 --> 00:39:34,920 Speaker 2: Remember that. 740 00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:38,719 Speaker 1: So so that means it to me. Guess what. Guess 741 00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:43,120 Speaker 1: what we're down to Kathy, Kathy and twenty five guys 742 00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:46,520 Speaker 1: or or Mel if he didn't choose anyone, No, I'm available. 743 00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:50,279 Speaker 2: Keep it golden, We got it. Is it in the 744 00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:51,680 Speaker 2: dictionary golden? 745 00:39:51,840 --> 00:39:51,920 Speaker 1: Like? 746 00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:53,760 Speaker 2: Is it just the color? 747 00:39:54,040 --> 00:39:55,719 Speaker 1: It's it's something about it. I think you look it 748 00:39:55,800 --> 00:40:00,040 Speaker 1: up something about very expensive metal. But you know, I 749 00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:02,400 Speaker 1: I think this is going to be a great season. 750 00:40:02,480 --> 00:40:06,879 Speaker 1: I am so excited about next season. I think that 751 00:40:06,920 --> 00:40:10,840 Speaker 1: these women are really have come with their A games. 752 00:40:10,920 --> 00:40:12,960 Speaker 1: Some of their A games are not maybe to find Mel, 753 00:40:13,040 --> 00:40:14,480 Speaker 1: but we're gonna find out more. 754 00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:17,960 Speaker 2: And they are in it to win it, you know what. 755 00:40:18,160 --> 00:40:21,960 Speaker 2: So with being said, yeah, I not wait till next week. 756 00:40:22,040 --> 00:40:25,279 Speaker 2: And all right, everybody, we want to thank you so 757 00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:29,160 Speaker 2: much for listening to us, and we hope you write 758 00:40:29,160 --> 00:40:31,920 Speaker 2: in and let us know your thoughts. Yeah, make sure 759 00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:34,960 Speaker 2: to tune in tomorrow for our interview with Jerry. 760 00:40:35,080 --> 00:40:39,200 Speaker 1: It was perfect, it was fabulous, and it was hysterical 761 00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:42,319 Speaker 1: because we're we couldn't it was Gary Jerry. We're having 762 00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:45,200 Speaker 1: trouble keeping it, but she is fabulous. We had so 763 00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:49,000 Speaker 1: much fun chatting with her. Okay, we cannot wait. I 764 00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:51,800 Speaker 1: know I can't to keep watching this season and giving 765 00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:55,239 Speaker 1: you guys our thoughts. Let us know what you think. 766 00:40:55,280 --> 00:40:57,880 Speaker 1: We want to hear your thoughts. Tell us what you 767 00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:00,120 Speaker 1: think about the guys, what you think about Mel, what 768 00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:01,640 Speaker 1: you think about all these ladies. 769 00:41:01,680 --> 00:41:03,680 Speaker 2: Absolutely, and we're going to tell you what we think. 770 00:41:03,719 --> 00:41:07,360 Speaker 2: That's for sure. So listen to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden 771 00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:10,680 Speaker 2: Hour on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you listen to 772 00:41:10,760 --> 00:41:12,920 Speaker 2: your podcast until next week. 773 00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:14,120 Speaker 1: Have a great week.