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Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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Speaker 2: Hey, guys, welcome to another Napa episode of the Almost Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Except I'm not in Napa because I have a baby

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Speaker 2: strapped to my chest and another one sleeping in the

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Speaker 2: next room. I'll be on the next trip. But right now,

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Speaker 2: Natasha Parker is with me via zoom, and she is

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Speaker 2: in Napa with so many Bachelor alum I'm jealous. I'm

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Speaker 2: having fom But Natasha, Welcome to the Almost Famous Podcast.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure you're doing multiple days, aren't you. Yes, yes, yes, yeah, Okay,

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Speaker 2: Well this one's your solo your solo interview. Hello, all right, well,

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Speaker 2: I just like you know, I like to just go

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Speaker 2: in full throttle. So you have a podcast. It's been

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Speaker 2: around for a bit. Now I want to say closer

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Speaker 2: to you're no months? No? How long is it? Four months? Man?

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Speaker 2: I think time flies, and now I say that doesn't

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Speaker 2: make sense. All right, four months? How's it going?

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Speaker 3: It's going great. I love it so much. It's like

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Speaker 3: my little baby passion project because I feel like in

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Speaker 3: my life I've been stuck and had to pivot so

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Speaker 3: many times and continuing too. And I'm like some people

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Speaker 3: just really get this thing called life, or at least it

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Speaker 3: seems like it, and I want to talk about how

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Speaker 3: they get to where they go and kind of dissect

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Speaker 3: that with them and share it with people. So it's

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Speaker 3: been great.

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Speaker 2: I love it. It's called Hidden Gems with Natasha Parker.

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Speaker 2: And that wasn't my dramatic question. My dramatic question was

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Speaker 2: you recently had Rachel Lindsay on the podcast and she

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Speaker 2: hasn't done that many interviews besides, you know, her own

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Speaker 2: podcasts since the whole divorce has been well ongoing. Now,

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Speaker 2: I know you won't answer the question, which is what

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Speaker 2: did she tell you off Mike because Brian suck, That's

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Speaker 2: what I said, Yes, he does. Yeah, I was just

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Speaker 2: going to ask you, after interviewing her and talking to

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Speaker 2: her off Mike, what do you have to say about

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Speaker 2: the drama that's going on there because there's like a

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Speaker 2: new headline every week.

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Speaker 3: I know it's I mean, I I will say that

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Speaker 3: she is someone who is handling this so well, but

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Speaker 3: it's not easy and as her friend and as people

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Speaker 3: who know her to see these headlines and to see

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Speaker 3: some of the shenanigans that Brian's up to it's like,

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Speaker 3: are you okay, bro, Like, like what's happening here?

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 3: So she she is freakishly okay, you know, as okay

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Speaker 3: as someone can be. That it's going through a divorce

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Speaker 3: from a man who's trying to take all of their money.

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Speaker 3: You know, it's like kind of crazy, right, I'm like, what,

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Speaker 3: I'm sure she did not think she would ever be

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Speaker 3: in this position. So it's tough, but you know, it's ongoing.

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Speaker 3: And I'm saying this as her friend, and like, you know,

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Speaker 3: she has been, in my opinion, very gracious to him.

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Speaker 3: I don't know that I would have had as much

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Speaker 3: for Strath, you know what I mean, like restraint if

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Speaker 3: I were her. But I think she's handling it really well.

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Speaker 3: And yes, like you said, she has her own podcast,

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Speaker 3: so she I'm sure I'm just gonna have like a

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Speaker 3: episode about it when maybe all of the divorce things

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Speaker 3: are done. But she doesn't want this. She don't want

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Speaker 3: she didn't want this. I know she didn't want it

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Speaker 3: to be like this. It's messy, it's real messy.

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Speaker 2: How's the messiness made her just be like, Oh, I'm

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Speaker 2: really glad that I'm out of this? Has it made

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Speaker 2: her have less sadness around.

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Speaker 3: It, I think, I mean, I think, at least from

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Speaker 3: the podcast, she's like, some days we're happy, some days

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Speaker 3: were sad. I think she's like, really it's helped her

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Speaker 3: be more present because it's like every day it's something new,

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Speaker 3: you know, like she'll be like, Okay, like we're almost

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Speaker 3: else will happen, you know, So it seems like it's

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Speaker 3: like a crazy emotional rollercoaster. So I don't know that

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Speaker 3: she's like, I'm good being done with this. It's more

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Speaker 3: so I think probably that's the case sometimes, but sometimes

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Speaker 3: she's probably like how did I get here? How did

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Speaker 3: we get here? You know, that's I think the sentiment.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to pepper you with more. I don't

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Speaker 2: want to pepper you with questions about somebody else.

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Speaker 3: But but we love her, and I really hope that

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Speaker 3: every day, you know, I really do, because I'm like, girl,

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Speaker 3: it's it's tough and having people dissect your life every day.

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Speaker 3: So I'm trying to do it in a way that

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Speaker 2: Yeah for sure. All right, well, yeah, we both we do,

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Speaker 2: both do. But I do have to have one more questions.

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Speaker 2: I take it that was like, how are you doing that?

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Speaker 2: Move in with your parents or something.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I don't think that was up to her.

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Speaker 3: I don't think that was up to her. But I

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Speaker 3: think I don't think that they're still in the same house.

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Speaker 3: But I'm not sure. I'm really not sure.

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Speaker 2: I'm really because I know that was a big complication

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Speaker 3: Yeah, not well, at the time of our podcast, he

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Speaker 3: was still living there. That I do know that.

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Speaker 2: I do know that.

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Speaker 2: And they are just ghosts ships in the night.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I guess I'm like, girl, you can come

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Speaker 2: How is your love life in New York? I felt

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Speaker 3: Oh, I mean my love life, my love life, you know,

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Speaker 3: my dating life. I'll say my dating life, because a girl,

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Speaker 3: a girl hasn't been in love.

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Speaker 2: That's a better way of saying it anyway. Yeah, love life,

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Speaker 2: that's an antiquated term.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I haven't been, actually, I think in

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Speaker 3: that was three years ago that we dated. But my

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Speaker 3: There is always someone hitting me up to date me.

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Speaker 3: But it that's the thing about New York, you know

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Speaker 3: wanting to go to the next level with someone. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: so it is, you know, like they say, like a

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Speaker 2: You know. One of my best friends just became single

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Speaker 2: your age, mid thirties. So what is your best advice

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Speaker 3: Yes, my advice for her would be to listen to

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Speaker 3: my podcasts, every one about dating. There's a Femininity one

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Speaker 3: about dating.

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Speaker 2: Feminous energy versus masculine orgy.

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, there's a femininity episode. I would tell her

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Speaker 3: when you have that pick me energy, it's like, oh,

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Speaker 3: whatever for whatever reason. Now I'm like, I'm so specific

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Speaker 3: when I meet someone and they aren't giving me what

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Speaker 3: is like you know, wanting someone who you know, if

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Speaker 2: Me, you do it?

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Speaker 3: Do you do what you mean? You mean what you say,

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Speaker 3: you know? And things like that, like a man of

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Speaker 3: meet these guys who are like, oh, like they're you know,

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Speaker 3: willy nilly fly by the night, it's like, you actually

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Speaker 3: don't want to date that, Like, let's be honest, you

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Speaker 2: You know? Right? So because why is it so tempting

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Speaker 3: Well, not for me anymore. Not for me anymore. I

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Speaker 3: don't feel that way. And so that's why when I

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Speaker 3: not texting back or they're not it's like, I will

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Speaker 3: say my heart, I will say my piece, I had

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Speaker 3: a great time. I'd love to see you again. And

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Speaker 3: follow up, he's gonna say I want to take you

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Speaker 3: do these things right. So I think that it's all

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Speaker 3: it will be If she thinks it's gonna be fun

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Speaker 3: and it's cool to meet people. And you know, I

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Speaker 3: think people are fascinating. I go on, I've been on

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Speaker 2: Well, welcome to my next question. What has been your

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Speaker 2: worst date? Oh boy, there's been a there's love horror

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Speaker 2: dating stories.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, there's been a few, you know, there was once.

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Speaker 3: There was one time that I mean, manners is I

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Speaker 3: people talk about manners, like if they're like nice to

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Speaker 3: waiters and stuff like that. Sure, and you know, if

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Speaker 4: Like you know, like I'm not like I like, you know,

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Speaker 4: you're sitting up straight, You're I went on a date

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Speaker 4: with this guy took me to a really nice restaurant,

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Speaker 4: which was like, okay, that's cutie.

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Speaker 3: You know, and then he proceeded to like put his

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Speaker 2: Like, on, but I thought you were gonna stay on

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Speaker 2: the seat across the way, like your seat on the ball.

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Speaker 3: Wait, he's exhausted such a long so gross, I said,

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Speaker 3: do you want to reschedule? Becuz, like, what's happening here?

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Speaker 2: And that's horrific? Yeah, it's how did you go on?

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Speaker 2: And what did it get worse? Well?

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Speaker 3: I was like, Oh, we're gonna eat on this table?

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Speaker 3: Are you sure this is a place for your feet?

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Speaker 3: And he was like, oh, my bad, my bad, like

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Speaker 3: it was giving too much and this is the first

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Speaker 3: time I'm meeting this person in the stardioacting like but

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Speaker 2: was we're at next wedding. You're on the dance floor,

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Speaker 2: and then all of a sudden, one of the confetti blowers, Yes,

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Speaker 2: was way too close to your face. Yes, so there

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Speaker 2: were no CONTI your eye.

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Speaker 3: Yes, there were no rules or instructions on how to

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Speaker 3: do this, and someone pulled the string and she was

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Speaker 3: literally like it's right on impact, and it popped right

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Speaker 3: into my eyeball and it hurt so bad, and I

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Speaker 3: was fine at first. My eye was watery and I

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Speaker 3: was fine at first, and then it just fully went

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Speaker 3: black and then I like fell. I didn't faint, but

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Speaker 3: like I fell because I couldn't see. And it was

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Speaker 3: just a little dramatic. It was a little drama, you know,

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Speaker 3: but what's what's not drama at a at a bachelor wedding.

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Speaker 3: It was a lot of drama at that wedding. Right

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Speaker 3: of course, yeah, And so then I ended up going

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Speaker 3: to the bathroom and was so nicely assisted and we

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Speaker 3: I just kept having to like move my eye until

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Speaker 3: it like refocused. It wouldn't like focus, and then it

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Speaker 3: finally refocused, and then I talked to this I dude

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Speaker 3: when I got home, and he was like, yeah, like

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Speaker 3: it's fine, like you know, we don't see any bad

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Speaker 3: trauma to it. It took like two weeks for me

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Speaker 3: to go and it stopped hurting.

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Speaker 2: But did it hurt for two weeks?

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Speaker 3: No, it hurt for maybe five days. It was I

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Speaker 3: was super sensitive to light and it kept getting watery,

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Speaker 3: just like randomly getting watery, which was also very annoying.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, it was.

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Speaker 2: It was.

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Speaker 3: It was hard. It was it would it hurt, definitely hurt,

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Speaker 3: and we were having so much fun we were having that.

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Speaker 2: I'm so glad that you're okay. Yeah you're scared.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, No, that was really it was really wild. That

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Speaker 3: was crazy.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, Natasha, thank you so much for joining me.

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Speaker 2: Wish I was there with you. I know, I'll see

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Speaker 2: you next time.

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Speaker 3: I know, I'll see you next time. Kisses to the babes,

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Speaker 3: Bye bye.

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