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Speaker 1: And am I the ahle for giving my ex girlfriend

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Speaker 1: her ticket for Taylor Swift but canceling everything else. Well,

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Speaker 1: this comes from automatic Trick seventy seven to fifty five,

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Speaker 1: who says posting here because I want certain people to

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Speaker 1: Swift tickets in Singapore, which.

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Speaker 2: That that's the Swift tickets.

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Speaker 1: Big W, big W. My plan was to fly my

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Speaker 1: from Connecticut, which is I guess where they're at. So

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Speaker 1: she was going to be staying for ten days. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's Connecticut to Singapore, big trip.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, how long is that? Hello?

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Speaker 3: Long?

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Speaker 1: Got to be probably twenty four hours, similar to our

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Speaker 1: our baldy flights. I was clear, and I told her

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Speaker 1: the daytime. Last week she called me and she said

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Speaker 1: I asked for clarification. She said she would come for

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Speaker 1: ten days and we could have fun, but that.

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Speaker 4: We were done. Relationship over, relationship ended. But I know

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Speaker 4: you're in shock, Sam, I know you're dumbfounded. But everyone

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Speaker 4: is pouring into the stream right now.

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Speaker 1: Say hi, say where you're coming in from.

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Speaker 2: The stream is live, the stream is live, and we

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Speaker 2: were here Shields of Apollo. She asking for a break. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe I could. So the relationship is over. I

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Speaker 1: can have fun without paying for it. I transferred her

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Speaker 1: the one concert ticket and I canceled everything else. To

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Speaker 1: be clear, that is, she gets the Taylor Swift ticket,

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Speaker 1: the I'm thinking the flight, probably hotel, any other accommodation.

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Speaker 2: So she has to do everything else, which is very expensive. Yes, yeah, yes,

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Speaker 2: but she has the Taylor Swift concert, which is also expensive.

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Speaker 2: She should be thankful for that.

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Speaker 1: I'm curious chat Ahole or not. We're gonna check in

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Speaker 1: Ahole or not for that. She called me to scream

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Speaker 1: at me for canceling the flights and the hotel. I

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Speaker 1: am hearing from people back home that she was losing

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Speaker 1: her mind. She had been bragging about getting to see

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Speaker 1: Taylor Swift and the vacation. Well, poor timing, sweetheart.

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Speaker 2: Now maybe you don't get to have them pay for

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Speaker 2: everything and get to break up with them.

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Speaker 1: Low key like almost just wait till the concert's over.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, almost, yeah, which was a dick move as well. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's a dick move just to go just for the

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Speaker 2: either way.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but like you can't, yeah, you can't have your

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Speaker 1: cake and eat it too.

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Speaker 2: Also, I know there's some donations that have come in.

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Speaker 2: We're getting that fixed right now.

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Speaker 1: Yes, it's coming in, ladies and gentlemen, we read it out.

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Speaker 1: Andrea Espinoza ten dollars want to be your first today? Lol,

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Speaker 1: Love you guys, Riley, You're the best. Where Sophia. Sophia's coming,

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Speaker 1: She's coming. She will be here, she will be here.

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Speaker 1: Now she's telling everyone that I canceled the plans just

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Speaker 1: Don't say that, I'll be I did not discuss it

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Speaker 1: what I did. I unblocked her long enough to offer

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Speaker 1: use it. Okay, that conversation was unpleasant and involved a

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Speaker 5: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Her friends have been defending her and calling me an

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Auntie Aaron, thanks for the fifty bucks. Who aunt

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Speaker 2: really fumble the bag? Yeah? She did, and I think

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Speaker 2: Auntie Aeron you also donated on the donation like she did.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, we have some relevant comments and an update

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Speaker 1: coming up. A quick TLDR. The girlfriend broke up with

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Speaker 1: op Opie canceled everything in the trip except for the

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Speaker 1: Tailor Swift tickets, everything but the Tailor shift so.

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Speaker 2: Still giving the main gift, and.

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Speaker 1: Then offered to buy it off of her after purchasing

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Speaker 2: It, which is a nice enough I guess pretty solid

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Speaker 2: if you don't get the break up with someone and

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Speaker 1: That's true. But Sleepless Nights does get to give ten

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Speaker 1: people memberships Sleepless Nights coming into the chat.

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Speaker 2: Thanks Sleepless so a whole or not? I don't think

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Speaker 2: not like, I don't think the ahole at all, not

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Speaker 1: For honestly very classy move.

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Speaker 2: I mean like, so he's just not again, he's just

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Speaker 1: We're talking about like, you know, thousands of dollars. Marika

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Speaker 1: Waterman's is not the a hole as well, shen Valley

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Speaker 1: Mamas is not the a hole. Yeah, it seems pretty

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Is there more to the story?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 1: There is? Into the relevant comments. Illustrious Pain thirty nine

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Speaker 1: two says, why did you transfer the ticket to her?

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Speaker 1: Did she pay for the ticket? Which I don't think

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Speaker 1: we know yet. She should have just canceled everything and

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Speaker 1: told her too bad. You should have waited till the

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Speaker 1: concert was over. Not my problem. You've learnt the concepts

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Speaker 1: of timing and relationships.

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Speaker 2: Ohp.

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Speaker 1: He responds with the ticket was a birthday gift, so

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Speaker 1: I believe Opie bought.

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Speaker 1: Widow Jones says she's the dumbest person on earth. For

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Speaker 1: warning you that she was going to dump you after

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Speaker 1: using you for a vacation. Come on, not the a hole,

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Speaker 1: Opie says. I think she thought ten days of doing

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Speaker 1: it was a good trade. Yeah, that's actually wild. She's like,

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Speaker 1: I intend to bring up.

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Speaker 2: With you, but we can still hook up.

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Speaker 1: But we'll be hooking up during you know, we'll have

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Speaker 2: That is that like, especially if this is like a

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Speaker 2: those would be the saddest fun times. It wouldn't be fun, right,

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Speaker 2: no fun, Like there would be no fun had. It

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Speaker 2: would be crying, truly, truly like being used all the Yeah,

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Speaker 2: yeah for for everything, not your ordinary wife. Thanks for

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Speaker 2: the ten euros.

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Speaker 1: We love you too, We appreciate you, but we have

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Speaker 1: more on the way to the trip, this was important

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Speaker 1: for op Honestly, her visit was for me. I missed her.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to propose. Wait, oh he was gonna propose?

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Speaker 1: Wait wait, wait on why the trip was important for

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Speaker 1: op I'm reading it one more time.

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Speaker 2: Oh, he was going to propose at the Taylor Swift

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Speaker 2: concert and she broke up with him beforehand.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, wow, that's so bad. Yeah, him bringing her out.

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Speaker 1: He was like, this was actually it was a gift

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Speaker 1: to her, but it was a gift to him because

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Speaker 2: Oh geez, well he missed.

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Speaker 1: A dodge the bullet, honestly, very much. Dodgeabullet, very much

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Speaker 1: dodge the bullet. But ladies and gentlemen, you know what

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Speaker 1: we have, say what and updates? Thank let's get into it.

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Speaker 1: My ex sold me back her ticket at face value.

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Speaker 1: She couldn't find anyone interested in paying for her flight

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Speaker 1: and hotel over, so she was she was trying to

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Speaker 1: get a new sugar daddy. How go over?

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Speaker 2: Where is she going to find someone to pay for

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Speaker 2: this ticket on such short notice?

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Speaker 1: Sugar babies dot com sugar Baby's rs.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean some of y'all actually have done That's right,

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Speaker 2: So I guess it happens.

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Speaker 1: We know there are platforms, there are means moment that

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Speaker 1: g says I need a sugar daddy too, let's find one.

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Speaker 1: I wish I had more to tell. I wish I

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Speaker 1: I wish I could say my ex Flo flew out

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Speaker 1: on her own dime to win me back at the concert.

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Speaker 2: Well, you shouldn't wish that though she already like proved

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Speaker 2: herself to be a bad person, that that is true,

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Speaker 2: that I would like the blonde one who proved to

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Speaker 2: be a good person by tipping twenty five seventeen. The

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Speaker 2: uneven sentim out gives me anxiety. Even gang, yeah it is,

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Speaker 2: it's even versus odds, let's go.

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Speaker 1: Opie goes on to say, none of that would be true.

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Speaker 1: I made money selling something I bought for a woman

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Speaker 1: I thought I was going to Mary. I am glad

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Speaker 1: I found out what sort of person she really is

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Speaker 1: before I made that mistake. Sorry, this isn't more exciting.

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Speaker 1: Thanks everyone for helping me see my way through this.

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Speaker 2: That's the ends.

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Speaker 1: Went to the concert. Nothing crazy happened.

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Speaker 2: question here, So can you I feel like generally it

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Speaker 2: if like, let's say you give a present to someone,

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Speaker 2: let's say a VITAM mix, and then the person breaks

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Speaker 2: the Vitam mix back. But it feels like you just

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Speaker 2: maybe were in the relationship past December to get the

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Speaker 2: Vitam mix like that feels like I feel like it's

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Speaker 2: still even if that all is true, it's still.

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Speaker 1: Bad bad vibe to take the Vitam mix back question,

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Speaker 1: just to really paint the site. Person named Damiel soner,

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Speaker 1: is that is that possible?

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Speaker 2: I did buy that vitax. It was six hundred dollars

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Speaker 2: and I was making no money when I was in college,

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Speaker 2: none and then she broke up with me very soon

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Speaker 2: after December.

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Speaker 5: I'm not mad.

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Speaker 2: I don't even think about it. But at the time time, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm still not thinking about it. Don't worry, I'm not.

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Speaker 2: I'm not even thinking about it.

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Speaker 1: You're not bringing up years later, years later.

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Speaker 2: But but I think it's it's it's a not classy

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Speaker 2: move to it's a classless move to ask for it back. Right.

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Speaker 2: But this guy is in the clear because he allowed

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Speaker 2: her to keep the Taylor Swift tickets but just wasn't

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Speaker 2: going to pay for the extravagance that was, like the hotel.

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Speaker 1: And the plane and stuff. Great compromise, great compromise. I

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Speaker 2: I would love to know what you guys think.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, I think that's per I mean, it worked out

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Speaker 1: in this case that there was like multiple expenditures that

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Speaker 1: But I think that was the perfect move. Yeah, because

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Speaker 1: Now he can join something else. Yeah, Yes, what are

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Speaker 2: Back's not too late, it's too late.

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Speaker 1: Hey even gang, where are you at?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? But I think we should get into this next story.

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Speaker 2: Oh we should. All right, let's get into it. How

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Speaker 2: I mean, it depends where you're sitting. Am I the

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Speaker 1: Mm?

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Speaker 2: Refusing refusing a threesome with my girlfriend's best friend?

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Speaker 2: That's uh ah girlfriend? Maybe?

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Speaker 1: Maybe?

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Speaker 2: Are you an asshole if your girlfriend asked for a

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Speaker 2: I don't know this until recently, as my girlfriend mentioned

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Speaker 1: Even Gang Susan's not the A hole, that's for sure. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: the OP is not the A hole at all.

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Speaker 1: I think he has the exact right approach. He's like, Look,

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Speaker 2: So Also, it feels like the friend and the best

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Speaker 2: I mean conspiracy theory.

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Speaker 1: We do we dare intro. Yeah, I mean that's a

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Speaker 1: pretty plausible conspiracy. Listen. She gets so mad at op

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Speaker 1: right that she's like, you know what, I just can't hit.

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Speaker 1: You are blocking me from all the three sums. Who's

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it seems like you have so much in comment.

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Speaker 1: Truly, threesomes and many other things.

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Speaker 2: I had to talk with my girlfriend and cleared some

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Speaker 2: nothing to do with her friend. I told her it

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Speaker 2: didn't matter whom she suggested. It would have been a

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Speaker 2: Something I didn't think about that you all mentioned is

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Speaker 2: and it's not a current issue, so it's like with oh,

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Speaker 1: Definitely not. I also love how this is the opposite

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: She then asked me why I didn't want a threesome

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Speaker 2: She tried to dodge the question and said, I mean,

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Speaker 1: A habit, yeah, a habit. You wake up, you have

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Speaker 2: Crushing your teeth is a habit. Threesomes aren't to have it.

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Speaker 1: You you get home from work, you wash your hands.

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Speaker 2: That's insane. But you know what is a habit that

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Speaker 2: we love is drip drop donating ten bucks. Glad you

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Speaker 2: guys are all right. Goal, we were getting worried something

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Speaker 1: We are alive.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we are alive. We are just late and kim

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Speaker 2: kwand thanks for the two bucks. Expect hats on Saturday. Oh,

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Speaker 2: I think that might mean someone's sending some stuff.

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Speaker 1: To our people. Time coming soon, all right?

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Speaker 2: So I it was a yes or no question about

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Speaker 2: I decided that our sexual needs are just too different

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Speaker 1: The opposite of every story we've read so far.

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Speaker 2: I'm sad that, out of everything that could have caused

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Speaker 2: some of the comments, no, the friend wasn't ugly.

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Speaker 1: We don't know that.

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Speaker 2: Well, oh he's saying that. I guess he's like saying like, oh,

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Speaker 2: like I might be like a tiny I would like physically,

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Speaker 2: barring my current relationship, of course. So a commenter said,

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Speaker 2: when telling a story like this, people want to know

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Speaker 2: what your girlfriend's reaction was when you broke up with her.

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Speaker 2: Opie responded, she was upset and confused. She says that

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Speaker 2: it makes no sense for a guy to turn down

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Speaker 2: I think that's the term. What does that mean? Oh?

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Speaker 2: with other women altogether? No? See, even if I become

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Speaker 2: attracted to another woman, that doesn't mean I'm going to

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Speaker 2: gonna like cheat on their spouse. So tldr. Opie refused

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Speaker 2: the threesome, girlfriend was upset, and the relationship ended due

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Speaker 1: Again, I truly think I mean same. How many stories

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Speaker 2: Oh, I don't think this has ever happened. This is

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Speaker 1: Two women approach the guy and they're like, have a

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Speaker 1: of it's kind of cute.

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Speaker 2: It iss wholesome.

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Speaker 1: I only want to have sex with you because I

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Speaker 2: I just have a feeling. Again, going back to a

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Speaker 1: Is there any updates.

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Speaker 2: There's no updates. That's where it ends, dude, that's where

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Speaker 2: it adds tragic. Mombo the G says to say all

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Speaker 1: That's true. Not all men, not all Literally we have one.

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Speaker 2: We have one man that does want.

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Speaker 1: Uh.

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Speaker 2: General Cactus says, I don't think I trust her to

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Speaker 2: not go cheat with her friend. Yeah, I agree. I

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Speaker 1: She's literally like saying like, oh, it's a habit. Like

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Speaker 2: It, so used to it. I mean she's basically I

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Speaker 1: Or just why even relationship?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Just around, run it?

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Speaker 2: But you know what I want to run around? What

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Speaker 2: this next story?

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Speaker 1: Let's get into it, ladies and gentlemen. So, uh, my

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Speaker 1: Uh no, oh, Pomegranate ninety eighty one says I twenty

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Speaker 1: three female and my boyfriend thirty male? Is that weird

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Speaker 1: been dating for two years. We don't live together because

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Speaker 1: I don't want to live with his roommates, and I

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Speaker 2: Hey, it could be a sick place. Dude, Is that

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Speaker 2: a red flag? No, it's not a red flag.

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Speaker 1: I'm just bro.

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Speaker 2: You're shitting on a thirty year old for having his

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Speaker 2: in front of him, his place?

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Speaker 1: Or is it green flag? Saving money?

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Speaker 2: Saving money? Saving money?

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Speaker 1: You let us know? Yeah, what is this? I have

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Speaker 1: three years?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you have three years? Three years to what until

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Speaker 2: you're thirty? Wow?

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Speaker 1: Thanks guys. Actually, okay, super super great.

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Speaker 6: Wait, Sam, you have three years to your shutting up.

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Speaker 1: I was literally me and Sam had a meeting today.

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Speaker 1: We had to like give our IDs and stuff for

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Speaker 1: my ID. He's like ninety six millennial. Huh. Literally said

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Speaker 1: that to my face. Literally, Wow, I just had to confirmed.

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Speaker 2: It's confirmed you're a millennial.

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Speaker 1: But random banker, what does he know about you? Say

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Speaker 1: about him?

443
00:20:19,119 --> 00:20:19,920
Speaker 6: What do you say about him?

444
00:20:19,920 --> 00:20:25,120
Speaker 1: You didn't say anything. Okay, we're I'm that's right, We're

445
00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:26,840
Speaker 1: back to the story. You guess your a little tidbit

446
00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:30,119
Speaker 1: for today. So, uh, the space just isn't large enough.

447
00:20:30,280 --> 00:20:32,560
Speaker 1: I was the only girl in my house growing up

448
00:20:32,600 --> 00:20:37,480
Speaker 1: with five brothers. Wow, I know, men, I couldn't imagine

449
00:20:37,480 --> 00:20:40,400
Speaker 1: a woman living with like five guys like that is

450
00:20:40,680 --> 00:20:47,320
Speaker 1: like unimaginable. I mean torture. Honestly, she had all that.

451
00:20:47,840 --> 00:20:54,080
Speaker 2: I mean, Queen is in the room and.

452
00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:55,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, she slithers silently prepare for awakening.

453
00:20:57,640 --> 00:20:57,720
Speaker 8: Uh.

454
00:20:57,960 --> 00:20:59,479
Speaker 1: I was the only girl in my house growing up

455
00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:02,800
Speaker 1: with five brothers. I know, men don't like to know

456
00:21:02,920 --> 00:21:05,639
Speaker 1: about this stuff. My dad and brothers always made me

457
00:21:05,720 --> 00:21:09,000
Speaker 1: throw away my women things in the outside trash, and

458
00:21:09,040 --> 00:21:11,680
Speaker 1: I was never allowed to talk about that's.

459
00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:18,280
Speaker 2: Whack outside trash. You have to go outside side, that's insane.

460
00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:21,520
Speaker 2: In the bathroom, wrap it in a piece of toilet paper,

461
00:21:21,680 --> 00:21:24,960
Speaker 2: like every other normal person in the trash.

462
00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:29,120
Speaker 6: Can you throw it inside? Yeah, Like that's like.

463
00:21:31,480 --> 00:21:35,000
Speaker 2: It's the trash, bro, what are you talking about?

464
00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:36,439
Speaker 1: Trash? All right?

465
00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:38,240
Speaker 2: When you have a band aid, do you go throw

466
00:21:38,280 --> 00:21:43,679
Speaker 2: it outside? But it's a little bit of blood, Well,

467
00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:50,920
Speaker 2: it'sactly a lot more blood, but like it's it's.

468
00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:50,040
Speaker 6: Yeah, you're not.

469
00:21:51,280 --> 00:21:54,280
Speaker 1: It's not like a like a cast. That's like I

470
00:21:54,280 --> 00:21:55,640
Speaker 1: thought it was like filled.

471
00:21:55,920 --> 00:22:02,000
Speaker 2: Dude, it's like that big. That's that it's not that big.

472
00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:07,760
Speaker 2: You're a sophie. She has to go outside her feminine.

473
00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:09,600
Speaker 2: I mean I don't have the same bathroom issue. So

474
00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:10,439
Speaker 2: you do what you gotta do.

475
00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:16,159
Speaker 1: I mean I didn't know.

476
00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:16,639
Speaker 2: I didn't know.

477
00:22:16,680 --> 00:22:19,080
Speaker 6: I just was like, oh, it's it's bloody. It's like

478
00:22:19,160 --> 00:22:21,000
Speaker 6: you know, like you know in the doctor's office when

479
00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:23,120
Speaker 6: they have the needles and they put them into that thing.

480
00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:25,720
Speaker 1: That's a bio hazard. Yeah, that's a bio I didn't

481
00:22:25,760 --> 00:22:26,080
Speaker 1: know if.

482
00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:27,760
Speaker 6: It was the same, because like you're going through like

483
00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:29,720
Speaker 6: this whole thing that only happens once a month, and

484
00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:31,880
Speaker 6: it's just like, is it just blood? Ers are more

485
00:22:31,880 --> 00:22:32,200
Speaker 6: in there?

486
00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:36,840
Speaker 2: Yo, Well it's blood. It's just blood. What are you

487
00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:38,200
Speaker 2: worried this is gonna happen?

488
00:22:38,880 --> 00:22:39,639
Speaker 6: Like, I don't know.

489
00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:40,880
Speaker 1: There's no danger.

490
00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:43,880
Speaker 6: So it's not like poison coming out.

491
00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:48,320
Speaker 2: You think women emit poisonous blood from their vaginas once

492
00:22:48,359 --> 00:22:52,160
Speaker 2: a month that if you touch it you will die. No,

493
00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:56,360
Speaker 2: I just know, like it's like, yeah, dude, you could

494
00:22:56,440 --> 00:22:57,359
Speaker 2: drink period blood.

495
00:23:02,640 --> 00:23:04,760
Speaker 6: Okay, give me a book, Give me a book.

496
00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:07,520
Speaker 1: Back to the story, suck. I'm learning.

497
00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:09,080
Speaker 6: I'm learning.

498
00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:12,160
Speaker 2: Educate, Riley needs the talk.

499
00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:17,240
Speaker 1: Guys, guys comments, all you incredible women, go ahead, educate.

500
00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:20,280
Speaker 6: I grew up with like three brothers and no one

501
00:23:20,359 --> 00:23:22,679
Speaker 6: ever talked about this stuff. Like I'm now living with

502
00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:28,440
Speaker 6: Sophia and I'm learning what that looks like. Yeah, so

503
00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:30,560
Speaker 6: don't don't tell me. Sorry, I'm learning. I'll learn.

504
00:23:30,680 --> 00:23:33,440
Speaker 2: Shout out crafty Witch for twenty for the two dollars tip.

505
00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:36,679
Speaker 2: What sacrificed a doth of the worm queen require to

506
00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:40,480
Speaker 2: grace us with her radiant presence. You guys have to

507
00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:45,399
Speaker 2: spam the chat with worm queens. That's right, yes, queens

508
00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:48,919
Speaker 2: of the chat, and maybe she will rise. You will

509
00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:50,520
Speaker 2: see bring it back into the story.

510
00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:53,760
Speaker 1: That's correct. When I know I'm going to be with

511
00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:56,320
Speaker 1: my boyfriend or if I'm at work in public.

512
00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:57,800
Speaker 2: I will use a disc.

513
00:23:58,400 --> 00:23:58,919
Speaker 1: A disc.

514
00:24:00,600 --> 00:24:00,879
Speaker 3: I'm not.

515
00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:04,679
Speaker 2: Oh A disc is like it's like it's like, oh okay,

516
00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:07,800
Speaker 2: so so there's this little cup that you can insert

517
00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:10,840
Speaker 2: in and then instead of having something that absorbs, it's

518
00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:12,840
Speaker 2: something that you could like wash out. I see there's

519
00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:14,919
Speaker 2: like a period cup, got it, which I think is similar?

520
00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:17,320
Speaker 2: Oh no, there's well, yeah, there's a diva cup. But

521
00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:20,600
Speaker 2: then there's also a disc that like like imagine a

522
00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:23,359
Speaker 2: bottle cap that you stuff up there and then it

523
00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:25,879
Speaker 2: like just like holds all of the period juice in.

524
00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:31,600
Speaker 2: Is it a diva cup? Said dis yeah, evil potato

525
00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:32,520
Speaker 2: eat or ninety eight. Yeah.

526
00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:33,760
Speaker 1: I've had girlfriends.

527
00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:39,159
Speaker 2: Uh oh yeah yeah, big man, you're yeah, I like

528
00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:41,840
Speaker 2: dial says go say, oh yeah, well there we go.

529
00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:46,480
Speaker 2: That's what having girlfriends six since sixteen will do. There

530
00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:48,200
Speaker 2: you go all about periods.

531
00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:51,919
Speaker 1: So they work, Okay, The discs for short periods of

532
00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:54,040
Speaker 1: time for me. But at night, when I'm going to

533
00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:56,720
Speaker 1: be alone, I will use disposable I will use those

534
00:24:56,720 --> 00:25:00,880
Speaker 1: disposable underwears. I don't worry about toss around at night

535
00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:05,960
Speaker 1: and leaking. I don't think about getting ts S. What's

536
00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:14,200
Speaker 1: t S S Y S S, which is yes, so

537
00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:20,560
Speaker 1: it is poisonous. It's poisonous.

538
00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:25,480
Speaker 2: If you leave the period blood in too long, you

539
00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:29,720
Speaker 2: poison yourself the tampons. Okay, okay, got.

540
00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:32,600
Speaker 5: All toxic shock syndrome.

541
00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:37,360
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, And honestly, I crample us, shout out

542
00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:38,800
Speaker 1: to blame it five for the five dollars to give

543
00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:42,320
Speaker 1: us the worm queen soon get ready, But they look

544
00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:44,199
Speaker 1: like a diaper, and I know that that is not

545
00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:48,200
Speaker 1: sexy the period underwear. As she described it, My boyfriend

546
00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:51,720
Speaker 1: had a weekend trip to Vegas planned leaving Friday and

547
00:25:52,080 --> 00:25:54,399
Speaker 1: to come back on Monday. I was on my period

548
00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:55,919
Speaker 1: and knew he would be out of town, so I

549
00:25:55,960 --> 00:26:00,240
Speaker 1: decided to sleep comfortably with the ends. Something happened on

550
00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:03,040
Speaker 1: the trip and they ended up coming back late Sunday

551
00:26:03,160 --> 00:26:06,520
Speaker 1: instead of Monday. He decided not to tell me because

552
00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:09,000
Speaker 1: he wanted to surprise me. So I went to bed

553
00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:12,359
Speaker 1: Sunday night around nine, Like always, at some point in

554
00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:14,679
Speaker 1: the middle of the night, he slipped into bed with me.

555
00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:18,600
Speaker 1: When he got into bed, he felt the period underwear

556
00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:24,840
Speaker 1: and freaked out. A period underwear A hole or not?

557
00:26:27,080 --> 00:26:27,280
Speaker 2: Op?

558
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:29,920
Speaker 1: The A hole is the boyfriend the A hole? Oh,

559
00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:30,960
Speaker 1: I guess you could say both.

560
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:34,240
Speaker 2: All right, Well, actually, hot take, OPI is the a

561
00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:40,480
Speaker 2: hole because hurting the environment by having constantly disposable underwear.

562
00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:44,600
Speaker 2: Whoa bam, hot hot take. Welcome to Sam's Bad Takes,

563
00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:48,280
Speaker 2: where I only have bad takes and your animation and

564
00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:50,960
Speaker 2: for the ten bucks first time catching a stream. Y'all

565
00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:55,560
Speaker 2: are great reprieve from scrubbing toilets and mopping floors all day. Well, hey,

566
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:58,000
Speaker 2: scrub your ear holes with our words. Yeah, and ex

567
00:26:58,080 --> 00:27:01,359
Speaker 2: husband do thanks for the one buck? Uh donate trained?

568
00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:03,160
Speaker 2: Do you guys even want another hour?

569
00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:03,520
Speaker 1: Yeah?

570
00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:07,080
Speaker 2: Damn straight? Yeah, and your problem says horrible take. No,

571
00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 2: of course she's not the a hole. Of course he's

572
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:13,119
Speaker 2: not the a whole for wearing period pants.

573
00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:14,520
Speaker 1: But we love Sam's Bad Takes.

574
00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:17,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, we love best the best. It is disposable, is

575
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:22,720
Speaker 2: it not? It's disposable underwear? Right, it's Oh, it's reusable underwear. Oh,

576
00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:23,480
Speaker 2: there we go.

577
00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 1: Okay, so oh you wash it? No way?

578
00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:32,800
Speaker 2: Okay, damn that she had that. And not only is

579
00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:35,120
Speaker 2: she not the A hole, she's not the a hole

580
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:37,760
Speaker 2: for for hurting the environment. She's saving the environment and.

581
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:41,080
Speaker 1: The two dollars donation from Forgetful Sophie. Uh, the undies

582
00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:41,600
Speaker 1: are watchable.

583
00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:44,760
Speaker 2: Oh okay, okay, there we go.

584
00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:48,359
Speaker 1: All right, that's everybody, so double not the double, not

585
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:50,840
Speaker 1: the A hole. Literally, she's saving the earth. There we go,

586
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:52,080
Speaker 1: there we go by.

587
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:56,240
Speaker 2: Not using tampons. Let's fucking go. So now if you

588
00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:58,840
Speaker 2: use a tampon, then you're hurting Mother Earth. Evil.

589
00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:00,560
Speaker 1: Just kidding, I'm kidding.

590
00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:01,119
Speaker 2: I'm kidding.

591
00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:05,920
Speaker 6: By the way, Wow, he's misogynistic too, straight up, straight up.

592
00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:10,320
Speaker 1: My boyfriend said I was gross for laying there in

593
00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:13,280
Speaker 1: the blood. I got up, took a shower and changed

594
00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:16,080
Speaker 1: into a disk. Oh when I laid back down, he

595
00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:17,960
Speaker 1: just ignored me and went to sleep. Bro, what do

596
00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:20,320
Speaker 1: you think is happening the other times?

597
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:21,680
Speaker 2: Sir? What?

598
00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:22,840
Speaker 9: Like?

599
00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:25,000
Speaker 1: It's still it's not like a drop is there?

600
00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:25,199
Speaker 2: Like?

601
00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:27,560
Speaker 1: Oh, change it up and then whoop? You know what

602
00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:33,560
Speaker 1: I'm saying? Like if one drop comes out, according to

603
00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:36,720
Speaker 1: the boyfriend's logic, one little drop of blood comes out

604
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 1: and instantly got to replace it because I'm I'm sitting

605
00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:39,960
Speaker 1: here in the blood.

606
00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:41,520
Speaker 2: That's crazy.

607
00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:42,040
Speaker 1: It's crazy.

608
00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:42,440
Speaker 2: Yeah.

609
00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:45,960
Speaker 1: I went to work and didn't hear from him on Monday.

610
00:28:46,320 --> 00:28:50,760
Speaker 1: Wow all day. Tuesday afternoon, he comes over to talk

611
00:28:50,880 --> 00:28:54,280
Speaker 1: and said he thinks uh and said when he thinks

612
00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:57,240
Speaker 1: about me, all he can see is a child wearing

613
00:28:57,320 --> 00:29:04,160
Speaker 1: a diaper. Oh, oh my god. He asked if I

614
00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:07,920
Speaker 1: used them, and I said, of course, Uh, of course not.

615
00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:11,680
Speaker 1: But he says he doesn't believe believe me, and Opie said.

616
00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:16,040
Speaker 1: He asked if I used them like in quotations.

617
00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:17,560
Speaker 2: Or us, Oh, like diapers.

618
00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:21,720
Speaker 1: Ah, okay, I just saw you in a not okay,

619
00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:22,000
Speaker 1: got it?

620
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:25,040
Speaker 2: Got it? Yeah, Stella Davis canceled. Amen.

621
00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:28,280
Speaker 1: Oh my god. That I'm being a horrible girlfriend for

622
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:33,600
Speaker 1: hiding this fetish from him. Ooh, that he's wasted all

623
00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:38,720
Speaker 1: of his time and energy on our relationship. I tried

624
00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:41,560
Speaker 1: to explain why I used them when he's not around,

625
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:44,320
Speaker 1: and that I know that they're not attractive. That I'll

626
00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:47,120
Speaker 1: stop using them altogether because I love him and I

627
00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:48,719
Speaker 1: don't want it to ruin our relationship.

628
00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:53,520
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, really quick, really quick. Oh pee. If wearing

629
00:29:53,720 --> 00:29:58,360
Speaker 2: period panties makes him not interested in you, then he

630
00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:01,720
Speaker 2: was for the streets to begin with. Stinky man, stinky man,

631
00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:04,160
Speaker 2: Take him out, yeah, put him in a diaper.

632
00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:07,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Yeah, he's a stoke up. Soak up. That's

633
00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:10,920
Speaker 1: stenchy's got because he's s Thanks. He said he'll think

634
00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:12,920
Speaker 1: about it, but he wants me to talk to my

635
00:30:13,080 --> 00:30:15,760
Speaker 1: doctor about getting on a different birth control. So I

636
00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:18,520
Speaker 1: don't have my period at all because now the thought

637
00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:20,600
Speaker 1: of me having one grosses him out.

638
00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:25,400
Speaker 2: Dude, I bet I bet he doesn't. He will never

639
00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:29,600
Speaker 2: have ketchup with his hot dog. Yes, that is the

640
00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:31,680
Speaker 2: vibe I'm getting. And that's not a real man.

641
00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:32,440
Speaker 1: No, it is not.

642
00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:33,520
Speaker 2: It's not a real man.

643
00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:33,960
Speaker 1: It is not.

644
00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:34,240
Speaker 9: No.

645
00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:37,040
Speaker 2: Further, if you're afraid of ketchup on your hot dog,

646
00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:38,960
Speaker 2: you are a butt a boy.

647
00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:43,520
Speaker 1: That's right, That's right. I told him I don't want

648
00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:46,080
Speaker 1: to change of birth controls. So now he says I'm

649
00:30:46,120 --> 00:30:48,800
Speaker 1: an a hole for not being willing to do something

650
00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:52,640
Speaker 1: so simple to make him feel better. Wow, I told

651
00:30:52,720 --> 00:30:54,600
Speaker 1: him I needed a few days to get a hold

652
00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:57,560
Speaker 1: of my doctor. I have an appointment on Friday. Am

653
00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:00,360
Speaker 1: I the a hole if I decide not to change

654
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:03,719
Speaker 1: birth controls? And ladies and gentlemen, there is an updates

655
00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:06,440
Speaker 1: on but tildr for everyone just joining the stream. The

656
00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:09,960
Speaker 1: boyfriend shame's OP for her period and demands OP change

657
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:11,240
Speaker 1: birth control to stop.

658
00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:15,400
Speaker 2: He's literally trying to control her body. Dude, Like, literally,

659
00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 2: that is so fucked.

660
00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:19,160
Speaker 1: You know what I'd be like, I'd be like, hey,

661
00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:22,520
Speaker 1: so you like not living in a giant hamster bubble,

662
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:24,840
Speaker 1: like you could get a cut and that's disgusting. So

663
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Speaker 1: I need you to live in a hamster bubble twenty

664
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Speaker 1: four to seven because that is just gross.

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00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:31,560
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, the thought of what might in a bubble

666
00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:33,400
Speaker 2: so you don't have to breathe his air.

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00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:35,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, he sounds awful.

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Speaker 2: Then shout out Shira Yuki, We see you, Sugar Mama,

669
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Speaker 2: Shira Sugar Yuki. Sugar Sugar Yuki was the one we gave.

670
00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:47,440
Speaker 2: This man is for the streets. Yeah, one thousand, one

671
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Speaker 2: thousand billion percent and uh Lydia Whittager.

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00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:54,000
Speaker 1: Uh the boyfriend is such a sticky man. Red flags

673
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:58,120
Speaker 1: all around. Also, all hail the worm queen. Absolutely, it's

674
00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:00,480
Speaker 1: always all hale there she is. There's there's the hands

675
00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:04,240
Speaker 1: of your your fearless leader. But ladies and gentlemen, we

676
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Speaker 1: have something huge. What an update.

677
00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:13,520
Speaker 2: These updates. He's such a dick dude, what a man.

678
00:32:13,600 --> 00:32:15,400
Speaker 2: I hate the stories like this where it's just like

679
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:19,120
Speaker 2: you have this woman who just is like, like not

680
00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:21,560
Speaker 2: realizing how much of an asshole this guy is.

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Speaker 6: Okay, okay, you don't have to be a pick me boy.

682
00:32:23,560 --> 00:32:24,480
Speaker 6: We get it, we get it.

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00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:26,520
Speaker 2: What the fuck, Riley?

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00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 6: You're giving pick me energy?

685
00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:30,240
Speaker 2: How am I give you pick me energy?

686
00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:32,840
Speaker 6: You're like, oh, I just hate women have to go

687
00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:34,920
Speaker 6: through this, and I wish I could do it.

688
00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:37,760
Speaker 2: Do you like when women go through this? Because I

689
00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:40,800
Speaker 2: misogyny coming from your mouth right now.

690
00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:45,040
Speaker 1: I love when women go through this.

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00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:47,320
Speaker 6: So I'm just saying, it's sounded like you were like

692
00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:50,000
Speaker 6: you were putting it on because of your misogynistic traits

693
00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:52,040
Speaker 6: from earlier. You're trying to cancel it out.

694
00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:59,480
Speaker 2: Right, Riley, the misogyny because he is misogynistic. Whoa what

695
00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:03,160
Speaker 2: it's crazy? Red flags and the Chad for Riley right

696
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:07,160
Speaker 2: that Jeffers said it was crazy. That is crazy.

697
00:33:07,280 --> 00:33:11,800
Speaker 1: Oh my god, boy. All right, I'm going to read

698
00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:18,600
Speaker 1: this update. Okay, so I canceled the doctor's appointment. A

699
00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:20,720
Speaker 1: good sign. A good sign, Brittany, thanks for the one

700
00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:25,960
Speaker 1: seventy six even gang, let's go. I'm reading through everyone's comments.

701
00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:28,520
Speaker 1: There's so many I can't respond, and I want to

702
00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:31,640
Speaker 1: clear a few things up here. Him coming in while

703
00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:33,960
Speaker 1: I was sleeping. He had permission to do that for

704
00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:36,560
Speaker 1: most of our relationship because he works very early in

705
00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:38,560
Speaker 1: the morning and would wake me up. So we can

706
00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:40,760
Speaker 1: now spend time together on days that we wouldn't see

707
00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:43,480
Speaker 1: each other later. So that's good context. As a teen,

708
00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:46,800
Speaker 1: my best friend's mom is who bought me pats. My

709
00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:49,200
Speaker 1: mom passed away when I was only nine years old.

710
00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:50,360
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.

711
00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:53,760
Speaker 1: Some people messaged me and during those conversations a few

712
00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:59,920
Speaker 1: more things have connected, And yeah, I am going to

713
00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:03,920
Speaker 1: break up with him. Thankdies gentlemen.

714
00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:06,960
Speaker 2: Theya Riley would want them to stay together, but like

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Speaker 2: they Thank God we have good men in the world.

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00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:10,759
Speaker 2: By John No.

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Speaker 6: I think he's a stinky, stinky man and he's horrible.

718
00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:17,240
Speaker 2: It doesn't sound like he's not taking.

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Speaker 6: Care of his girlfriend and seeing her as the person

720
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Speaker 6: that she is not in the light of someone that.

721
00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:25,080
Speaker 2: He wants her to be literally being the most pick

722
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Speaker 2: me guy right now. This is ridiculous. Honestly, get a

723
00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:30,040
Speaker 2: grip Riley. This is really sad.

724
00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:34,799
Speaker 6: For a reason I came into this. No true, did you?

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00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:38,680
Speaker 2: Also, maya riddle? Thanks for the five dollars tip. I'm

726
00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:41,560
Speaker 2: glad you guys are live while I have to consume

727
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:44,600
Speaker 2: two hundred and thirty eight grand bottle of me relax

728
00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:47,239
Speaker 2: like a laxative. I don't know this. I would be

729
00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:50,480
Speaker 2: alive after this. Oh you should and for him a

730
00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:52,160
Speaker 2: sudden the thanks for the five bucks. Listening to men

731
00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:55,520
Speaker 2: talk about periods with the utmost respect is perfect plus

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Speaker 2: from my four fave people to watch. Yeah, we appreciate

733
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Speaker 2: it about it, but I feel like when you like

734
00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:02,799
Speaker 2: grow like I don't know, I grew up with a sister,

735
00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:04,600
Speaker 2: so you kind of understand that. But like if you

736
00:35:04,640 --> 00:35:06,560
Speaker 2: grew up with like nothing but brothers, you might just

737
00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:08,920
Speaker 2: be a misogynist. Bro.

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Speaker 1: The beef is real today.

739
00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:13,680
Speaker 2: Come for me. I will come for you.

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00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:16,759
Speaker 6: I'm trying to learn you.

741
00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:20,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, there you go, peace and love. There you go.

742
00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:23,480
Speaker 1: Thanks Sophia. Also, maya good luck on your rocket launch

743
00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:27,400
Speaker 1: and IVY being two dollars green flags only for Riley,

744
00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:29,759
Speaker 1: we do love Riley, and two dollars for gift for Sophie.

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00:35:30,040 --> 00:35:32,200
Speaker 1: Not Sam turning that on you Riley.

746
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Speaker 2: L l YEA well no, then she said, I turned that.

747
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:40,480
Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep freeing.

748
00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:41,320
Speaker 2: I love you, Riley.

749
00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:45,320
Speaker 5: Truth, I love you, truth, truth, Truth.

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00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:47,240
Speaker 2: There we go, truth all right, I love.

751
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Speaker 1: You, and then cal cow Girl for God great user

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Speaker 1: name Victoria's Secret. They make period.

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Speaker 2: Slash bladder leak underwear.

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00:35:55,040 --> 00:35:57,799
Speaker 1: Boyfriend is a complete, a whole totally agree cow Girl

755
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Speaker 1: totally agree.

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00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:03,560
Speaker 6: Huh chre sponsors though, but that's.

757
00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:08,560
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, just kidding. There are other things he's done

758
00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:11,960
Speaker 1: that I didn't think were problems and they are. Thank

759
00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:16,600
Speaker 1: you everyone for helping me. And there is one final

760
00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:20,360
Speaker 1: concluding update. I took the little bit of stuff he

761
00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:24,520
Speaker 1: had here at the apartment while he was at work.

762
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:27,080
Speaker 1: I met with him. I met with him after he

763
00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:29,080
Speaker 1: got off and told him I wasn't going to change

764
00:36:29,160 --> 00:36:32,040
Speaker 1: birth control. And after thinking about his reaction and a

765
00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:35,160
Speaker 1: few other conversations we've had, I had no interest in

766
00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:39,080
Speaker 1: being with him any more. Let's go the end and

767
00:36:39,120 --> 00:36:42,480
Speaker 1: shout out bandon eighteen for the five bucks got my

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Speaker 1: Starbucks working ready to fill your ear holes with okop,

769
00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:48,640
Speaker 1: that's right, open them up, ladies and gentlemen, your ear

770
00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:53,120
Speaker 1: holes are ready. And then Brandon burget three bucks. Thank you,

771
00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:56,440
Speaker 1: we appreciate it. He threw a tantrum saying that I

772
00:36:56,480 --> 00:36:59,319
Speaker 1: am never going to find someone who loves me like him,

773
00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:01,080
Speaker 1: and a lot of other gross things.

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00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:01,960
Speaker 2: I don't want to.

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00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:05,920
Speaker 6: Write that's crazy, because he was like, you wear a

776
00:37:05,920 --> 00:37:07,600
Speaker 6: diaper and he's throwing a trantrum.

777
00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:09,240
Speaker 1: Oh that's so whack.

778
00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:13,560
Speaker 2: Oh what what are you laughing about.

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00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:17,120
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna get up on Ryley. I'm not gonna

780
00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:20,239
Speaker 1: do it. No, no, no, it's all peace of love

781
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:27,080
Speaker 1: giggles in my mind. I didn't want to say with

782
00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:30,000
Speaker 1: my mouth. When I got home, I thanked my landlord

783
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:32,799
Speaker 1: for telling me to post here and told her what

784
00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:35,200
Speaker 1: the outcome was. Wow, even the landlord is involved. Just

785
00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:37,680
Speaker 1: so everyone isn't worried. You have to go through a

786
00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:40,920
Speaker 1: gate with a code to get here where my studio is.

787
00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:44,040
Speaker 1: I have changed my access code so he can't get in,

788
00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:47,120
Speaker 1: and I gave the night security his car information and

789
00:37:47,160 --> 00:37:49,879
Speaker 1: a photo just to be safe. There are so many

790
00:37:49,880 --> 00:37:52,080
Speaker 1: comments I can't respond to all of them. Thank you

791
00:37:52,160 --> 00:37:54,920
Speaker 1: all for the advice not only about the situation, but

792
00:37:54,960 --> 00:37:57,359
Speaker 1: many of you commented about my upbringing and that there

793
00:37:57,360 --> 00:37:59,799
Speaker 1: are some things I need to work through. Wow, I

794
00:37:59,840 --> 00:38:03,400
Speaker 1: am going to do that and thank you for everything,

795
00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:08,880
Speaker 1: and that is the end of the story. Wooo. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Well first Wednesday, just here for the protein one hundred percent.

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Speaker 1: But Daddy Jesse even gang one hundred and sixty four

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Speaker 1: dollars in two cents. Men that are grossed out by

799
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Speaker 1: periods or period products are for the.

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00:38:22,239 --> 00:38:26,719
Speaker 2: Trash, stinky stinky men. Dump them, yeah, dump them. But

801
00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:28,759
Speaker 2: you know what I want to undump and put into

802
00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:34,160
Speaker 2: my mouth? What this next story? So eighteen year old

803
00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:40,239
Speaker 2: boyfriend in trouble over sixteen year old girlfriend. WHOA, that's

804
00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:44,799
Speaker 2: math throwaway account having a bit of an issue here.

805
00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:49,520
Speaker 2: My son just turned eighteen and is a senior in

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00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:53,680
Speaker 2: high school. Just turn eighteen, so I believe he was

807
00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:56,280
Speaker 2: originally dating as it was a sixteen and a seventeen

808
00:38:56,360 --> 00:38:56,719
Speaker 2: year old.

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00:38:56,840 --> 00:38:58,040
Speaker 1: Illegal?

810
00:38:58,600 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 2: Is that illegal? Sixteen seventeen?

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00:39:00,719 --> 00:39:01,000
Speaker 1: Maybe?

812
00:39:01,040 --> 00:39:02,480
Speaker 2: Sometimes is that illegal?

813
00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:04,000
Speaker 1: No, I'm gonna look at it.

814
00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:08,120
Speaker 2: Sophia says, it's not illegal. I don't think it's illegal. Okay,

815
00:39:08,239 --> 00:39:11,840
Speaker 2: So my son just turned eighteen as a senior in

816
00:39:11,880 --> 00:39:14,520
Speaker 2: high school. His girlfriend is sixteen and a junior. They've

817
00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:18,080
Speaker 2: been together for three years now, and her parents and

818
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:21,520
Speaker 2: my wife and I have always had a great relationship.

819
00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:26,440
Speaker 2: Several dinners together, family outings, et cetera. She will be

820
00:39:26,560 --> 00:39:32,040
Speaker 2: seventeen in one month. Okay, so she's like literally one

821
00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:35,400
Speaker 2: month later. It'll be fine. Now to the issue. The

822
00:39:35,440 --> 00:39:38,600
Speaker 2: girlfriend's father has been out of work for several months.

823
00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:41,800
Speaker 2: I fought hard to get him hired on at my job.

824
00:39:42,080 --> 00:39:46,320
Speaker 2: He started strong, but fizzled out. Called in multiple times.

825
00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:48,120
Speaker 1: This eighteen year old is helping her.

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00:39:48,239 --> 00:39:51,920
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, girlfriend's father. Oh girlfriend, so the sixteenth

827
00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:58,400
Speaker 2: so opie, we got OPI who is the parents of

828
00:39:58,440 --> 00:40:01,720
Speaker 2: the son who was eighteen and the girlfriend's father. The girlfriend,

829
00:40:01,719 --> 00:40:04,759
Speaker 2: who was sixteen had been out of work for several months. Right,

830
00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:07,480
Speaker 2: Apparently I was supposed to fight for him to keep

831
00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:10,480
Speaker 2: his job. However, I had already vouched for him to

832
00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:13,760
Speaker 2: get it in the first place. That's when the tension began.

833
00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:18,320
Speaker 2: No more dinners together or talking slash texting between our wives.

834
00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:22,719
Speaker 2: Put I see you in the chat. If you see

835
00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:26,720
Speaker 2: where this is going, Put I see you in the chat.

836
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Speaker 2: Put I see you Also Kendall McLean, thanks for the

837
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Speaker 2: five bucks. We see you, We see you. My wife

838
00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:37,680
Speaker 2: and I made the decision to reach out to try

839
00:40:37,719 --> 00:40:40,440
Speaker 2: to make amends. However, we got frantic text.

840
00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:42,120
Speaker 1: Oh but I see you with the chat.

841
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:47,680
Speaker 2: However, we got frantic texts from our son about the

842
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:54,400
Speaker 2: police being at the school. Apparently the father filed a

843
00:40:54,520 --> 00:40:59,000
Speaker 2: police report on my son due to him being eighteen.

844
00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:03,760
Speaker 2: We're in Texas for context, where the age of consent

845
00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:09,480
Speaker 2: is seventeen. Our whole family is completely appalled by this

846
00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:13,719
Speaker 2: and hurts. This is something that could potentially change my

847
00:41:13,840 --> 00:41:19,000
Speaker 2: son's future. Oh yeah, is the father the a hole

848
00:41:19,080 --> 00:41:21,880
Speaker 2: or not a hole? Or not the ahole? We have

849
00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:24,320
Speaker 2: more of the story and an update. But what do

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00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:28,840
Speaker 2: you think, John, Well, he's a lawbreaker. He broke the

851
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:33,840
Speaker 2: law Bro that is I'm joking, worst taking I'm joking.

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00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:37,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's crazy because like, did Bro not have his

853
00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:39,360
Speaker 1: birthday in the calendar? He must not have had his

854
00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:40,640
Speaker 1: birthday in the calendar or something.

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00:41:40,719 --> 00:41:43,239
Speaker 2: Why was he so cool with it before? Because he's

856
00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:47,399
Speaker 2: he's using this as a retaliation tactic to have Ope's

857
00:41:48,000 --> 00:41:52,840
Speaker 2: dad or to have Op get him a job, because

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00:41:52,880 --> 00:41:55,800
Speaker 2: basically he's like, oh, you did you basically, you didn't

859
00:41:55,840 --> 00:41:58,279
Speaker 2: defend me hard enough to get to keep my job,

860
00:41:58,320 --> 00:42:04,880
Speaker 2: and so he's using this as a leverage. That is stinky, disgusting. Yeah,

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00:42:05,040 --> 00:42:08,080
Speaker 2: Teresa g thanks for the five bucks. Let's get another

862
00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:12,440
Speaker 2: hour eighty minutes left. We'll see. We've contacted a lawyer

863
00:42:12,520 --> 00:42:17,439
Speaker 2: already and have a consultation tomorrow. However, I'm wondering if

864
00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:21,640
Speaker 2: talking to the father might help maybe well hurt Spiffy Tivvy,

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00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:24,040
Speaker 2: thanks for the fifty bucks. As always, it's great to

866
00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:27,280
Speaker 2: catch a live Gonna miss Friday's live, so sending extra

867
00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:28,880
Speaker 2: love today. Thanks Piffy Tivvy.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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00:42:30,040 --> 00:42:33,080
Speaker 2: His girlfriend will not answer calls or texts for my son.

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00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:37,960
Speaker 2: He believes she has blocked his number. That's crazy. I'm

871
00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:40,279
Speaker 2: not sure if this was the right place to post this,

872
00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:44,360
Speaker 2: but any and all advice is appreciated. Sorry for the

873
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:46,680
Speaker 2: long post. There is a small note and update before

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00:42:46,719 --> 00:42:49,840
Speaker 2: we get into the relevant comments and the big thick update.

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00:42:50,239 --> 00:42:53,000
Speaker 2: I think everyone that has commented to support and advice.

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00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:55,920
Speaker 2: We had good family meeting and concluded no contact with

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00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:58,240
Speaker 2: her or the father from the time beating. Our meeting

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00:42:58,239 --> 00:43:00,680
Speaker 2: with the lawyer is early in the morning. So update

879
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:04,240
Speaker 2: after my son seems to be better in better spirits

880
00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:07,320
Speaker 2: obviously still very shaken. So there are some relevant comments

881
00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:11,719
Speaker 2: and a thick update. But before we get into that,

882
00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:14,120
Speaker 2: what do we think about this situation? Like, what do

883
00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:16,520
Speaker 2: you think the parent of this son should do?

884
00:43:16,719 --> 00:43:19,920
Speaker 1: I'm ready, I'm ready, So Daddy Jesse with thirty dollars

885
00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:21,400
Speaker 1: in one cent, which.

886
00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:27,000
Speaker 2: Means another hour of this Daddy Jesse coming in thick

887
00:43:27,360 --> 00:43:31,520
Speaker 2: also even gang even gang, even gang even by one cent,

888
00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:33,799
Speaker 2: we cannot have it is even, it is even, it

889
00:43:33,840 --> 00:43:35,759
Speaker 2: can't be uneven. But yeah, so what do you think?

890
00:43:35,800 --> 00:43:36,400
Speaker 2: What do you think?

891
00:43:36,560 --> 00:43:39,200
Speaker 1: I know exactly what O P should do. So this

892
00:43:39,280 --> 00:43:41,600
Speaker 1: is a legal thing, right, He's like filed a report

893
00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:44,000
Speaker 1: with the police, Like oh, he's like of age and

894
00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:47,080
Speaker 1: she isn't right, All right, let's get legal, go to

895
00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:49,840
Speaker 1: the court and be like, yeah, get a lawyer, lawyer

896
00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:56,640
Speaker 1: up Dia Bright absolutely and then countersue him for blackmail

897
00:43:56,640 --> 00:43:57,839
Speaker 1: and emotional distress.

898
00:43:58,160 --> 00:43:59,719
Speaker 2: Can't you do that with that work? You think?

899
00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:04,480
Speaker 1: Maybe I'm totally probably booty.

900
00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:08,920
Speaker 2: I can't imagine that this like sticks also because like

901
00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:11,160
Speaker 2: people are saying, look up Romeo and Juliet law. But

902
00:44:11,200 --> 00:44:13,759
Speaker 2: I think that's if it's seventeen and they turn eighteen, right,

903
00:44:14,239 --> 00:44:17,720
Speaker 2: And also wamu, thanks for the fifty dollars two wamoo.

904
00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:19,719
Speaker 2: I feel like that's the first time that we've seen.

905
00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:21,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're in the Dono gang, Don't gang.

906
00:44:22,000 --> 00:44:27,799
Speaker 2: Let's go eighteen dating sixty Yeah, Casanda, thanks for that TLDR.

907
00:44:29,040 --> 00:44:31,120
Speaker 2: And also Baby Godzilla thanks for the four to twenty.

908
00:44:31,239 --> 00:44:33,360
Speaker 2: Nothing like working a ten hour shift and hearing Sam

909
00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:37,319
Speaker 2: say period juice amazing five times into her PSM. Your

910
00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:39,719
Speaker 2: girl told me to let you know she's running late

911
00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:43,920
Speaker 2: and will join sue Baby Godzilla.

912
00:44:44,239 --> 00:44:45,560
Speaker 6: She got a whole campaign going.

913
00:44:46,080 --> 00:44:47,600
Speaker 2: She is really doing the campaign.

914
00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:49,640
Speaker 1: Also, harmless Hag of the Woods, I don't know if

915
00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:51,520
Speaker 1: you shouted it out. Two dollars was excited for the stream.

916
00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:52,520
Speaker 1: Here's two dollars for another hour.

917
00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:58,080
Speaker 2: Go so lick Sheenstein says, No, Romeo and Juliette laws

918
00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:01,880
Speaker 2: cover a three year difference, so op he would be

919
00:45:01,880 --> 00:45:05,200
Speaker 2: in the clear. Opie's Opie's kid.

920
00:45:05,440 --> 00:45:07,400
Speaker 1: But maybe in Texas that's.

921
00:45:07,520 --> 00:45:09,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, different states have different laws, Okay, according to

922
00:45:09,920 --> 00:45:13,600
Speaker 2: Texas rome and Julia Lydia Whittaker. According to Texas, Romeo

923
00:45:13,600 --> 00:45:16,080
Speaker 2: and Juliette Law. Anyone between the ages of fourteen and

924
00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 2: seventeen can legally give consent to have sex with someone

925
00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:24,560
Speaker 2: within three years of their age. So then I think,

926
00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:24,960
Speaker 2: you're good.

927
00:45:25,000 --> 00:45:25,600
Speaker 1: That's covered.

928
00:45:25,719 --> 00:45:29,000
Speaker 2: That's covered, You're covered. But that's between fourteen and seventeen.

929
00:45:30,120 --> 00:45:31,280
Speaker 2: Does it change when you're eighteen?

930
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:34,279
Speaker 1: So it's three years, right, So because they're two years apart.

931
00:45:34,160 --> 00:45:36,759
Speaker 2: Okay, So a seventeen year twenty year old will be fine.

932
00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:39,839
Speaker 1: The seventeen and twenty year old would be fine.

933
00:45:39,840 --> 00:45:42,719
Speaker 2: I think yes, okay, so okay, I think so so

934
00:45:44,080 --> 00:45:47,440
Speaker 2: relevant comments that actually, I think get into this ages.

935
00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:50,080
Speaker 2: They started dating fifteen and fourteen, then he turned sixteen

936
00:45:50,120 --> 00:45:52,640
Speaker 2: not long after Romey and Juliet Law I read off

937
00:45:52,680 --> 00:45:54,040
Speaker 2: on this. Thank you very much. I will be sure

938
00:45:54,040 --> 00:45:56,200
Speaker 2: to tell my son this. He's been a wreck since

939
00:45:56,200 --> 00:45:59,400
Speaker 2: we came home. Commenter says, don't stress. As long as

940
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:02,399
Speaker 2: they don't have for a month, it won't matter. Tell

941
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:04,320
Speaker 2: your son. He doesn't have to talk with the police,

942
00:46:04,360 --> 00:46:06,799
Speaker 2: even if they tell him he has to. If they

943
00:46:06,840 --> 00:46:09,160
Speaker 2: ask any questions, he's allowed to use his Fifth Amendment

944
00:46:09,239 --> 00:46:12,880
Speaker 2: right to stay silent, and he should stay silent. They

945
00:46:12,880 --> 00:46:14,799
Speaker 2: would need to be caught in the act to get

946
00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:19,000
Speaker 2: arrest arrested or for her to get pregnant. Op said, Apparently,

947
00:46:19,000 --> 00:46:22,240
Speaker 2: because he's eighteen, we were not required to be notified.

948
00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:25,319
Speaker 2: The officer even went as far as to tell him

949
00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:28,040
Speaker 2: he could not use his phone. Thankfully, he was able

950
00:46:28,040 --> 00:46:32,520
Speaker 2: to send me several texts before the interrogation larissaep's jealespe

951
00:46:32,600 --> 00:46:35,320
Speaker 2: thanks for the two bucks and Evil Potato Eater ninety

952
00:46:35,320 --> 00:46:38,280
Speaker 2: eight thanks for the two bucks. So another commenter said,

953
00:46:38,440 --> 00:46:40,479
Speaker 2: I would definitely have an issue with the school. Yes,

954
00:46:40,520 --> 00:46:42,759
Speaker 2: as an eighteen year old, the police don't have guardianship

955
00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:46,440
Speaker 2: notification requirements, but at school, don't you still have guardianship

956
00:46:46,800 --> 00:46:50,040
Speaker 2: privileges in OPI responds this was an issue I brought up.

957
00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:53,239
Speaker 2: It was the school resource officer that pulled him into

958
00:46:53,239 --> 00:46:56,120
Speaker 2: the office. Apparently at that point in time the school

959
00:46:56,520 --> 00:47:00,439
Speaker 2: was unaware. And then another commenter says, the heart part

960
00:47:00,520 --> 00:47:02,719
Speaker 2: is that your son was in a good relationship and

961
00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:05,480
Speaker 2: a brick wall has been put up to rip his

962
00:47:05,560 --> 00:47:08,000
Speaker 2: heart out and that is cruel by the girl's dad.

963
00:47:08,000 --> 00:47:10,799
Speaker 2: But your son can't contact his girlfriend as now he

964
00:47:10,840 --> 00:47:14,440
Speaker 2: can be charged with harassment, so he can't eat no

965
00:47:14,600 --> 00:47:18,080
Speaker 2: contact and op said, and that part tears me the shreds.

966
00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:20,200
Speaker 2: She was literally a part of the family. He loves

967
00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:23,240
Speaker 2: her so much. So TLDR for everyone is let's joined.

968
00:47:23,520 --> 00:47:28,280
Speaker 2: Son's girlfriend's dad fired by Opie's company. Girlfriend's dad filed

969
00:47:28,280 --> 00:47:32,240
Speaker 2: police report due to the son girlfriend age difference because

970
00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:37,440
Speaker 2: Op's eighteen and his girlfriend was sixteen. And there is

971
00:47:37,719 --> 00:47:42,680
Speaker 2: a thick, juicy update. But what I feel like right

972
00:47:42,719 --> 00:47:46,160
Speaker 2: now is we're maybe we're okay.

973
00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:48,240
Speaker 1: Because I think they can get the record cleared.

974
00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:48,640
Speaker 2: Yeah.

975
00:47:48,640 --> 00:47:50,920
Speaker 1: First, at a minimum, I think they can clear the

976
00:47:50,960 --> 00:47:54,760
Speaker 1: Sun's record. Yeah, which that kind of removes the damage

977
00:47:54,800 --> 00:47:56,840
Speaker 1: at least, like big, big picture stuff.

978
00:47:56,920 --> 00:47:58,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think so. I think so. And balar blitz

979
00:47:58,880 --> 00:48:01,240
Speaker 2: Kid nineteen ninety four, you being active in the stream

980
00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:02,920
Speaker 2: makes for the two bucks broke. But love your show.

981
00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:06,480
Speaker 2: Appreciate we appreciate you absolutely. Okay, up date, all right,

982
00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:09,360
Speaker 2: we're getting too the Eppo. Okay, Hey everyone, Sorry, I

983
00:48:09,360 --> 00:48:11,320
Speaker 2: have not replied to the comments. It's overwhelming, but I

984
00:48:11,600 --> 00:48:14,719
Speaker 2: sincerely appreciate the supporting kind words. We finished up with

985
00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:17,879
Speaker 2: the lawyer showed him all proof of the relationship. Being

986
00:48:18,080 --> 00:48:21,800
Speaker 2: three years old. He was extremely confident this would be

987
00:48:21,880 --> 00:48:24,600
Speaker 2: dropped by the DA. There have been no explicit pictures

988
00:48:24,800 --> 00:48:28,680
Speaker 2: between my son and the girl, thankfully, not even explicit

989
00:48:28,800 --> 00:48:30,880
Speaker 2: text messages, which is good because that could have been

990
00:48:30,960 --> 00:48:34,279
Speaker 2: used as evidence against him because Nowady's eighteen. Apparently the

991
00:48:34,320 --> 00:48:37,160
Speaker 2: girl has always had a strong fear of her dad

992
00:48:37,280 --> 00:48:41,560
Speaker 2: seeing something he didn't like and retaliating. My son actually

993
00:48:41,600 --> 00:48:45,080
Speaker 2: has text from her stating such good for my son.

994
00:48:45,800 --> 00:48:48,040
Speaker 2: The wife has reached out to my wife this morning

995
00:48:48,160 --> 00:48:50,600
Speaker 2: stating this was a mister understanding and that her husband

996
00:48:50,760 --> 00:48:54,720
Speaker 2: simply asked the SRO about the legality of an eighteen

997
00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:58,160
Speaker 2: year old and a sixteen year old. Hey, you know, like,

998
00:48:58,520 --> 00:49:02,160
Speaker 2: would there be anything wrong if like this were to happen, If.

999
00:49:02,040 --> 00:49:06,520
Speaker 10: I were to say a file of reports, what would happened?

1000
00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:08,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, he totally knew what he was doing. That's

1001
00:49:08,440 --> 00:49:12,080
Speaker 2: totally BS. We believe this is a lie and obviously

1002
00:49:12,480 --> 00:49:15,719
Speaker 2: have not responded. I did bring up a countersuit to

1003
00:49:15,719 --> 00:49:19,360
Speaker 2: the lawyer and he is firmly on board, So I

1004
00:49:19,400 --> 00:49:22,000
Speaker 2: think maybe your idea of that emotional support and defamation

1005
00:49:22,040 --> 00:49:24,480
Speaker 2: could be true. I will update as much as I

1006
00:49:24,520 --> 00:49:27,040
Speaker 2: can as it progresses. My family knows about this post

1007
00:49:27,040 --> 00:49:29,799
Speaker 2: and are okay with it. As my wife said, if

1008
00:49:29,800 --> 00:49:31,960
Speaker 2: this can help someone else that's been in this position,

1009
00:49:32,160 --> 00:49:35,200
Speaker 2: all the better. I will leave you with this. For

1010
00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:37,680
Speaker 2: the first time my son was a small child, I

1011
00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:40,800
Speaker 2: put him from the first time since my son was

1012
00:49:40,840 --> 00:49:42,799
Speaker 2: a small child, I put him to bed last night.

1013
00:49:43,239 --> 00:49:46,279
Speaker 2: I hugged him, told him I love him, tucked him

1014
00:49:46,320 --> 00:49:49,160
Speaker 2: in and sat with him as he fell asleep. This

1015
00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:53,120
Speaker 2: has completely broken him and I will never forgive or

1016
00:49:53,239 --> 00:49:59,360
Speaker 2: forget these actions. And we do have a final update

1017
00:49:59,360 --> 00:50:02,400
Speaker 2: for it, but forever one who's joined the stream TLDR Son,

1018
00:50:02,840 --> 00:50:06,480
Speaker 2: son's girlfriend's dad fired by Opie's company. Girlfriend's dad filed

1019
00:50:06,480 --> 00:50:09,560
Speaker 2: to police report due to the son girlfriend aige difference.

1020
00:50:09,760 --> 00:50:14,279
Speaker 2: The son is eighteen, the girlfriend is sixteen, And we

1021
00:50:14,320 --> 00:50:16,759
Speaker 2: do have a final update. What do you think is

1022
00:50:16,800 --> 00:50:17,719
Speaker 2: it gonna be dropped or not?

1023
00:50:18,480 --> 00:50:22,640
Speaker 1: I think I you know what, conspiracy, conspiracy, throw it up, Riley.

1024
00:50:23,239 --> 00:50:26,160
Speaker 1: I think that they are going to go through with

1025
00:50:26,440 --> 00:50:31,200
Speaker 1: the lawsuit because let's get let's get a little bit

1026
00:50:31,200 --> 00:50:34,560
Speaker 1: of petty revenge. Also, what an absolute idiot he thought

1027
00:50:34,600 --> 00:50:36,840
Speaker 1: that this is what was going to get him the job.

1028
00:50:37,160 --> 00:50:39,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's gonna be e It's gonna.

1029
00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:39,879
Speaker 1: Lose all his money because of this.

1030
00:50:40,000 --> 00:50:45,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, but let's see what happened back to final updates.

1031
00:50:45,760 --> 00:50:47,960
Speaker 2: Sorry everyone, I've now been on Reddit for a few days.

1032
00:50:48,000 --> 00:50:51,440
Speaker 2: All charges have been dropped.

1033
00:50:51,520 --> 00:50:51,880
Speaker 1: Damn it.

1034
00:50:52,400 --> 00:50:55,080
Speaker 2: As many mentioned, the Romeo and Juliette law came into play.

1035
00:50:55,280 --> 00:50:57,959
Speaker 2: My son supplied all evidence of the past relationships before

1036
00:50:57,960 --> 00:51:00,400
Speaker 2: he was eighteen, and the girlfriend spoke up to the

1037
00:51:00,440 --> 00:51:02,880
Speaker 2: state they had been in a three year relationship. So

1038
00:51:02,920 --> 00:51:07,319
Speaker 2: that means the original lawsuit has been dropped. But oh,

1039
00:51:07,360 --> 00:51:10,600
Speaker 2: the countersuit may still be in black. As far as

1040
00:51:10,640 --> 00:51:13,680
Speaker 2: any lawyer goes, my son just wants this all dropped

1041
00:51:13,760 --> 00:51:16,319
Speaker 2: and forgotten about. I agree. We blocked the parents on

1042
00:51:16,360 --> 00:51:19,360
Speaker 2: everything when this began and do not intend on unblocking.

1043
00:51:19,760 --> 00:51:22,440
Speaker 2: Next month, the daughter turns seventeen, and the son fully

1044
00:51:22,560 --> 00:51:27,040
Speaker 2: intends on continuing the relationship with her as his parent.

1045
00:51:27,280 --> 00:51:30,440
Speaker 2: I am extremely wary of this, but as he is eighteen,

1046
00:51:30,680 --> 00:51:34,080
Speaker 2: he can make his own choices. Thank you everyone for

1047
00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:37,840
Speaker 2: all the support. It was very much appreciated and helped

1048
00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:42,200
Speaker 2: a lot. So kind of all ended, Okay.

1049
00:51:42,040 --> 00:51:42,719
Speaker 1: Kind of all ended.

1050
00:51:42,719 --> 00:51:43,040
Speaker 2: Okay.

1051
00:51:43,360 --> 00:51:46,440
Speaker 1: A detail I forgot was that if they bankrupted the dad,

1052
00:51:46,520 --> 00:51:48,920
Speaker 1: that would horribly affect his girlfriend.

1053
00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:51,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, YEAHLFA would be correct.

1054
00:51:51,160 --> 00:51:53,279
Speaker 1: So actually, maybe not the best plan that. Yeah, it

1055
00:51:53,320 --> 00:51:54,279
Speaker 1: was good that they didn't do that.

1056
00:51:54,320 --> 00:51:59,560
Speaker 2: Ma says, karma is coming, Yeah it is. Yeah, I'm

1057
00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:02,680
Speaker 2: glad that finally happened. And Jinks Angel says, that's not

1058
00:52:02,719 --> 00:52:05,800
Speaker 2: even petty revenge anymore. It's straight up evil and against

1059
00:52:05,960 --> 00:52:09,839
Speaker 2: kids too. Do you mean the petty revenge of countersuit? Yeah,

1060
00:52:09,920 --> 00:52:12,440
Speaker 2: but but I don't know if it's like against the kids.

1061
00:52:12,440 --> 00:52:15,040
Speaker 2: It's just like punishing someone who did something terrible.

1062
00:52:15,560 --> 00:52:17,399
Speaker 1: The effect though, does hit the.

1063
00:52:17,520 --> 00:52:20,560
Speaker 2: Hit the and I do, I mean, I do think

1064
00:52:20,640 --> 00:52:23,960
Speaker 2: that the kid, the eighteen year old kid, had the

1065
00:52:23,960 --> 00:52:25,560
Speaker 2: best idea. It's like, hey, let's just drop it and

1066
00:52:25,600 --> 00:52:25,880
Speaker 2: move on.

1067
00:52:26,080 --> 00:52:28,040
Speaker 1: That was that was the right move. Should they have

1068
00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:28,920
Speaker 1: stayed together?

1069
00:52:29,640 --> 00:52:32,959
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, they love each other, do they they do?

1070
00:52:33,080 --> 00:52:36,520
Speaker 2: What do you mean do they relationship? It's a long time.

1071
00:52:37,040 --> 00:52:38,360
Speaker 2: How long have you been a relationship?

1072
00:52:38,440 --> 00:52:42,840
Speaker 1: Three and a half years? So all right, big Daddy

1073
00:52:42,920 --> 00:52:45,120
Speaker 1: John with his big relationship.

1074
00:52:44,600 --> 00:52:44,960
Speaker 3: Is in here.

1075
00:52:44,960 --> 00:52:47,120
Speaker 2: All right, but can you slap me with this big

1076
00:52:47,239 --> 00:52:53,080
Speaker 2: bad daddy story or we get a call? Okay, we'll

1077
00:52:53,080 --> 00:52:55,319
Speaker 2: be calling. Let's freaking go.

1078
00:52:55,680 --> 00:52:59,879
Speaker 6: No sorry, no label these sorry, there's so much going

1079
00:52:59,880 --> 00:53:05,120
Speaker 6: on here. Okay, So I had a threesome and accidentally

1080
00:53:05,400 --> 00:53:06,080
Speaker 6: ruin a marriage.

1081
00:53:07,120 --> 00:53:10,560
Speaker 2: Oh hopefully it wasn't your own. Hopefully it wasn't your own.

1082
00:53:10,600 --> 00:53:14,080
Speaker 2: That would But I had a threesome and accidentally ruined

1083
00:53:14,080 --> 00:53:21,439
Speaker 2: my marriage a marriage amage, maybe not mine? Floria, thanks

1084
00:53:21,440 --> 00:53:25,000
Speaker 2: for the five bucks. Appreciate your hello. This is okayop

1085
00:53:25,200 --> 00:53:27,160
Speaker 2: with John and Sam. Who are we talking with?

1086
00:53:28,200 --> 00:53:28,480
Speaker 8: Hi?

1087
00:53:28,560 --> 00:53:30,640
Speaker 9: You're talking to Carmel Carme.

1088
00:53:31,120 --> 00:53:33,239
Speaker 2: Okay, we've seen you in the chat. Also, that's my

1089
00:53:33,239 --> 00:53:33,799
Speaker 2: mom's name.

1090
00:53:34,800 --> 00:53:37,319
Speaker 9: Yeah, so he's saying, so, so she's a Carmel. I'm

1091
00:53:37,320 --> 00:53:37,880
Speaker 9: a Caramel.

1092
00:53:38,719 --> 00:53:41,520
Speaker 2: Yes, Carmel. Yeah, I guess I say it like that, yeah, Carmel.

1093
00:53:41,680 --> 00:53:46,120
Speaker 2: So Carmel. Uh, how did you have this threesome? How

1094
00:53:46,120 --> 00:53:46,680
Speaker 2: did that begin?

1095
00:53:48,320 --> 00:53:48,680
Speaker 11: Well?

1096
00:53:49,120 --> 00:53:51,279
Speaker 9: When I was a young, single, sexy and free in

1097
00:53:51,320 --> 00:53:56,279
Speaker 9: my twenty I had just moved to a major metropolitan

1098
00:53:56,360 --> 00:53:59,120
Speaker 9: city from like a mids five town. I had always

1099
00:53:59,200 --> 00:54:00,840
Speaker 9: been a bit of a while child, but I was

1100
00:54:00,880 --> 00:54:04,319
Speaker 9: trying something new and and X reached out going through

1101
00:54:04,320 --> 00:54:05,920
Speaker 9: a divorce and was like, hey, can I come to

1102
00:54:05,960 --> 00:54:09,799
Speaker 9: your roommate in this new city? And I don't have

1103
00:54:10,000 --> 00:54:13,400
Speaker 9: emotional feelings for you, but you know, can you a roommate?

1104
00:54:13,440 --> 00:54:13,759
Speaker 11: I can.

1105
00:54:13,840 --> 00:54:15,719
Speaker 9: I can help you out. But this is not romantic.

1106
00:54:16,200 --> 00:54:20,319
Speaker 1: Wait, so this roommate. It wasn't like, oh, hey, let's

1107
00:54:20,320 --> 00:54:21,960
Speaker 1: like split the rent. It was like, hey, can I

1108
00:54:22,000 --> 00:54:24,280
Speaker 1: come live with you for free?

1109
00:54:24,320 --> 00:54:26,560
Speaker 9: He would split the rent, We'll find a job, like

1110
00:54:26,640 --> 00:54:27,240
Speaker 9: get settled.

1111
00:54:27,280 --> 00:54:28,000
Speaker 2: We're both like.

1112
00:54:27,920 --> 00:54:28,720
Speaker 9: Trying to get settled.

1113
00:54:30,239 --> 00:54:32,680
Speaker 2: But you were very clear, like, hey, this is not

1114
00:54:32,719 --> 00:54:35,239
Speaker 2: going to turn romantic. You are just my like my

1115
00:54:35,360 --> 00:54:36,480
Speaker 2: roommate and nothing more.

1116
00:54:37,520 --> 00:54:41,360
Speaker 9: Correct, very very explicit. He was like sure, And the

1117
00:54:41,400 --> 00:54:43,680
Speaker 9: second he arrived, he was like, I'm still in love

1118
00:54:43,719 --> 00:54:44,000
Speaker 9: with you.

1119
00:54:44,120 --> 00:54:47,080
Speaker 11: We should be together, sir.

1120
00:54:47,440 --> 00:54:52,879
Speaker 9: I told him this was an actual yeah, And like

1121
00:54:52,960 --> 00:54:55,000
Speaker 9: when I was that high school age and we're now

1122
00:54:55,080 --> 00:54:56,040
Speaker 9: in our mid twenties.

1123
00:54:56,200 --> 00:55:00,680
Speaker 2: Oh my god. Oh so your ex tried to live

1124
00:55:00,760 --> 00:55:03,000
Speaker 2: with you and he was still in love with you.

1125
00:55:04,320 --> 00:55:06,880
Speaker 9: We hadn't seen each other in like six years.

1126
00:55:06,920 --> 00:55:10,520
Speaker 2: Come on, oh my god. So uh, but you're already

1127
00:55:10,520 --> 00:55:13,400
Speaker 2: living with him at this point when he admits.

1128
00:55:13,000 --> 00:55:16,399
Speaker 9: This, not yet. He had just arrived and talked about

1129
00:55:16,600 --> 00:55:19,280
Speaker 9: got here off the great hoound here for like forty

1130
00:55:19,320 --> 00:55:21,560
Speaker 9: eight hours in the city. He had not moved in

1131
00:55:21,600 --> 00:55:23,080
Speaker 9: with me yet. And so I told him, you got

1132
00:55:23,080 --> 00:55:24,040
Speaker 9: to find a different roommate.

1133
00:55:24,600 --> 00:55:29,919
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, dummy, Okay, our boundaries. How does this lead

1134
00:55:30,040 --> 00:55:31,279
Speaker 2: into the threesome?

1135
00:55:32,520 --> 00:55:38,960
Speaker 9: Well, because he had roommates, okay. So he ended up

1136
00:55:39,000 --> 00:55:41,600
Speaker 9: renting a room from a married couple. They were a

1137
00:55:41,680 --> 00:55:44,120
Speaker 9: doctor and a nurse okay, And they were renting out

1138
00:55:44,200 --> 00:55:47,880
Speaker 9: the rooms and their three flats, and we all became

1139
00:55:47,960 --> 00:55:51,040
Speaker 9: really friendly, and you know, it was very well to do,

1140
00:55:51,160 --> 00:55:53,680
Speaker 9: and I was still struggling. So they would sometimes buy

1141
00:55:53,760 --> 00:55:56,320
Speaker 9: me groceries or invite me here for dinner.

1142
00:55:56,960 --> 00:55:57,360
Speaker 1: Okay.

1143
00:55:57,400 --> 00:56:01,080
Speaker 9: And one night the husband doctor comes to pick me

1144
00:56:01,160 --> 00:56:03,800
Speaker 9: up from work to bring over for dinner. It's a Friday,

1145
00:56:03,880 --> 00:56:06,800
Speaker 9: and we're going to hang out, and he looks really nice,

1146
00:56:06,960 --> 00:56:09,919
Speaker 9: like a nice suit, he smells good, he looks really great,

1147
00:56:10,239 --> 00:56:12,399
Speaker 9: and I'm like, wow, you're really dressed up. And he's like, oh,

1148
00:56:12,480 --> 00:56:14,880
Speaker 9: you know, busy day at the office. And we get

1149
00:56:14,920 --> 00:56:18,160
Speaker 9: to the apartment and his wife isn't there yet. He's like, oh,

1150
00:56:18,200 --> 00:56:21,160
Speaker 9: she's getting her hair done. She shows up, she looks

1151
00:56:21,280 --> 00:56:23,440
Speaker 9: really nice. And I'm thinking to myself, this feels like

1152
00:56:23,440 --> 00:56:27,800
Speaker 9: a date, a date that you didn't know.

1153
00:56:27,680 --> 00:56:31,680
Speaker 2: That you were also on with both of them correct.

1154
00:56:31,760 --> 00:56:34,279
Speaker 9: I wish I would have shaved my legs, said, I know,

1155
00:56:34,800 --> 00:56:36,920
Speaker 9: but I didn't know.

1156
00:56:37,000 --> 00:56:37,959
Speaker 3: I thought it was just going.

1157
00:56:37,880 --> 00:56:40,719
Speaker 9: To be something friendly and you know, we're drinking.

1158
00:56:40,480 --> 00:56:41,920
Speaker 2: With It was friendly.

1159
00:56:43,120 --> 00:56:48,560
Speaker 9: It was very friendly, a little too friendly, all night friendly,

1160
00:56:48,880 --> 00:56:50,480
Speaker 9: and it was it was a wonderful experience.

1161
00:56:51,200 --> 00:56:52,040
Speaker 2: How did it progress?

1162
00:56:52,120 --> 00:56:52,200
Speaker 11: Like?

1163
00:56:52,239 --> 00:56:56,960
Speaker 2: How did how did how did the threesome ice get broken? Yeah?

1164
00:56:57,000 --> 00:56:59,600
Speaker 9: Well, we had already connected and I was very you know,

1165
00:57:00,080 --> 00:57:03,520
Speaker 9: open with my sexuality, especially at the time. And we

1166
00:57:03,520 --> 00:57:05,719
Speaker 9: were sitting on the couch and we're playing video games

1167
00:57:06,280 --> 00:57:10,880
Speaker 9: and I was sitting closest to a lamp and his

1168
00:57:10,960 --> 00:57:13,319
Speaker 9: wife was like, oh, like, let me like turn off

1169
00:57:13,400 --> 00:57:14,920
Speaker 9: lights so we can see the game a little bit better.

1170
00:57:15,000 --> 00:57:17,360
Speaker 9: Let me adjust it, and she leaned across me to

1171
00:57:17,440 --> 00:57:20,160
Speaker 9: turn off the lamp and went.

1172
00:57:19,960 --> 00:57:25,560
Speaker 1: In for a kid whoa, whoa, not the lamp move?

1173
00:57:25,880 --> 00:57:29,480
Speaker 2: And did you like that at this point where you like, Okay,

1174
00:57:29,520 --> 00:57:32,000
Speaker 2: I kind of know what's happening, like let's go, or

1175
00:57:32,000 --> 00:57:36,240
Speaker 2: were you surprised that this this woman with her husband

1176
00:57:36,320 --> 00:57:37,280
Speaker 2: right there was kissing you.

1177
00:57:38,920 --> 00:57:41,120
Speaker 9: So I knew who they were. It's people, So the

1178
00:57:41,200 --> 00:57:44,360
Speaker 9: behavior wasn't completely out of left field. I just didn't

1179
00:57:44,440 --> 00:57:46,360
Speaker 9: imagine they would be interested.

1180
00:57:46,000 --> 00:57:46,880
Speaker 11: In me that way.

1181
00:57:47,840 --> 00:57:49,840
Speaker 9: But you know, once our lists met, and I was

1182
00:57:49,840 --> 00:57:52,600
Speaker 9: thinking to myself, why why not. They're both you know,

1183
00:57:52,600 --> 00:57:55,240
Speaker 9: they're both attractive, they're well to do. This is fun,

1184
00:57:55,440 --> 00:57:58,320
Speaker 9: You're comfortable with them, you know them. And once I

1185
00:57:58,400 --> 00:58:01,080
Speaker 9: kissed her back, it was on video game was off.

1186
00:58:02,280 --> 00:58:04,480
Speaker 2: Oh my god, so you said it was in all

1187
00:58:04,560 --> 00:58:08,160
Speaker 2: that experience it was great, Yes, it was.

1188
00:58:08,240 --> 00:58:10,320
Speaker 9: It was wonderful. It was fun. It was bigly and

1189
00:58:10,360 --> 00:58:14,120
Speaker 9: awkward and explorative and all the things the threesome should be.

1190
00:58:14,240 --> 00:58:16,200
Speaker 9: And I thought we all had a really good time.

1191
00:58:17,560 --> 00:58:21,760
Speaker 9: Perhaps she's good at the time, so afterwards we went

1192
00:58:21,840 --> 00:58:23,760
Speaker 9: right back to being friends. I was like, you know,

1193
00:58:23,800 --> 00:58:26,440
Speaker 9: they're older. This isn't going to get weird, Like this

1194
00:58:26,480 --> 00:58:29,520
Speaker 9: will be fine. And it started off with like weird comments.

1195
00:58:29,520 --> 00:58:32,520
Speaker 9: The doctor was actually a plastic surgeon and the wife

1196
00:58:32,600 --> 00:58:35,040
Speaker 9: was his assistant, and she kept making comments about like

1197
00:58:35,120 --> 00:58:37,400
Speaker 9: oh my measurements, like oh maybe I should get a

1198
00:58:37,400 --> 00:58:40,920
Speaker 9: boot job so we can match, and like strange up

1199
00:58:41,120 --> 00:58:42,360
Speaker 9: comments about my body.

1200
00:58:43,360 --> 00:58:45,560
Speaker 2: Wait, and did you when she said that, did you

1201
00:58:45,600 --> 00:58:48,960
Speaker 2: pick up on like, oh wait, like is she is

1202
00:58:49,000 --> 00:58:52,800
Speaker 2: there jealousy? That's maybe coming up? From her or was

1203
00:58:52,800 --> 00:58:53,680
Speaker 2: that not the vibe at.

1204
00:58:53,640 --> 00:58:55,720
Speaker 11: All at first?

1205
00:58:55,760 --> 00:58:57,360
Speaker 9: No, Like, at first it was like, oh my god,

1206
00:58:57,400 --> 00:58:59,720
Speaker 9: I love your body and it felt really complimentary. But

1207
00:58:59,760 --> 00:59:04,360
Speaker 9: then when she started talking about getting surgery to be

1208
00:59:04,760 --> 00:59:08,040
Speaker 9: similar in size, yeah, it started to make me feel

1209
00:59:08,080 --> 00:59:11,200
Speaker 9: a little uncomfortable. And on top of that, I have

1210
00:59:11,320 --> 00:59:13,800
Speaker 9: her husband, you know, trying to text me on the

1211
00:59:13,840 --> 00:59:17,040
Speaker 9: side to tell me about his day or to like

1212
00:59:17,160 --> 00:59:20,920
Speaker 9: talk negatively about her, and then she would reach out

1213
00:59:20,920 --> 00:59:22,960
Speaker 9: and talk negatively about him, and it felt like I

1214
00:59:23,040 --> 00:59:27,160
Speaker 9: was in this relationship with these two people and I'm like,

1215
00:59:27,240 --> 00:59:29,919
Speaker 9: you know, I'm like twenty five. This is a little

1216
00:59:29,960 --> 00:59:34,440
Speaker 9: too heavy for me. So I politely distanced myself and

1217
00:59:34,480 --> 00:59:36,720
Speaker 9: I eventually boasted. I mean, you're in your twenties. So

1218
00:59:36,760 --> 00:59:40,680
Speaker 9: I ast them. But two years later, the doctor looked

1219
00:59:40,720 --> 00:59:43,840
Speaker 9: me up and he was divorced or going through a divorce,

1220
00:59:44,760 --> 00:59:46,360
Speaker 9: and he's like, hey, do you want to meet up?

1221
00:59:46,360 --> 00:59:49,160
Speaker 9: He found me on Facebook, Kaye, you know, we missed you.

1222
00:59:49,200 --> 00:59:50,360
Speaker 9: I'd love to touch up with you.

1223
00:59:50,920 --> 00:59:54,200
Speaker 1: And during a dinner, Oh so you took the dinner.

1224
00:59:54,240 --> 00:59:56,400
Speaker 9: It happened. I took the dinner at the dogs.

1225
00:59:56,520 --> 00:59:56,760
Speaker 11: Yeah.

1226
00:59:57,840 --> 01:00:00,200
Speaker 9: It had been two years and I didn't know at

1227
01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:02,080
Speaker 9: this time that he was divorced. He could be kept

1228
01:00:02,080 --> 01:00:05,200
Speaker 9: saying we've missed you. So I didn't know that he

1229
01:00:05,240 --> 01:00:09,080
Speaker 9: was going to Oh it's been a couple of years,

1230
01:00:09,160 --> 01:00:11,080
Speaker 9: you know, I wonder how they're doing. I was in

1231
01:00:11,120 --> 01:00:13,959
Speaker 9: a better place, you know, so I thought it would

1232
01:00:13,960 --> 01:00:16,600
Speaker 9: be just like a casual catch up. And that's when

1233
01:00:16,600 --> 01:00:18,600
Speaker 9: he told me that they were going through a divorce.

1234
01:00:18,760 --> 01:00:22,520
Speaker 9: She got really insecure. Then after I ghosted them, they

1235
01:00:22,520 --> 01:00:24,720
Speaker 9: started getting into arguments because she was like, well you

1236
01:00:24,880 --> 01:00:29,000
Speaker 9: liked her more, and he was trying to assuage her insecurities.

1237
01:00:29,200 --> 01:00:31,960
Speaker 9: And it's just really blew up, and she ended up

1238
01:00:31,960 --> 01:00:33,200
Speaker 9: moving back in with her parents.

1239
01:00:33,480 --> 01:00:34,320
Speaker 5: Oh my god.

1240
01:00:36,760 --> 01:00:37,920
Speaker 2: So was he still hot though?

1241
01:00:38,160 --> 01:00:39,880
Speaker 9: Not funny?

1242
01:00:40,160 --> 01:00:40,920
Speaker 2: Was he still hot?

1243
01:00:41,200 --> 01:00:41,600
Speaker 1: Slash?

1244
01:00:41,720 --> 01:00:41,920
Speaker 8: Is he?

1245
01:00:42,120 --> 01:00:42,400
Speaker 11: No?

1246
01:00:43,200 --> 01:00:45,439
Speaker 9: He was, I mean, not that I mind a balding man,

1247
01:00:45,480 --> 01:00:46,960
Speaker 9: but you know, he was starting to lose it here

1248
01:00:47,560 --> 01:00:50,200
Speaker 9: the little live a jelly belly, and he was enjoying

1249
01:00:50,280 --> 01:00:52,600
Speaker 9: extracurricular activities of the nose variety.

1250
01:00:53,280 --> 01:00:56,480
Speaker 2: Oh I see, I see, So he kind of went downhill.

1251
01:00:57,520 --> 01:01:02,240
Speaker 2: So you did that dinner just remain purely platonic?

1252
01:01:03,600 --> 01:01:08,000
Speaker 9: Yes, truly. Okay, we definitely hung out. We definitely like reconnected,

1253
01:01:08,040 --> 01:01:10,160
Speaker 9: but not in the sexual manner, not even a kiss,

1254
01:01:10,600 --> 01:01:12,840
Speaker 9: not the healthy boundaries. But I would say of the

1255
01:01:12,880 --> 01:01:14,800
Speaker 9: two of them, he was the more respectful one of

1256
01:01:14,800 --> 01:01:17,959
Speaker 9: boundaries anyhow, So I did appreciate that, but I did

1257
01:01:18,360 --> 01:01:21,400
Speaker 9: absolutely never reach out to him again. So Jack, if

1258
01:01:21,440 --> 01:01:22,920
Speaker 9: you're out there and if you're listening, I hope you're

1259
01:01:22,920 --> 01:01:23,400
Speaker 9: doing all right.

1260
01:01:23,960 --> 01:01:28,440
Speaker 2: So has this okay? So like, basically, you had this threesome,

1261
01:01:28,800 --> 01:01:32,080
Speaker 2: this woman got a little insecure because you were so hot,

1262
01:01:32,160 --> 01:01:38,919
Speaker 2: and then the marriage kind of disintegrated. So does did

1263
01:01:38,960 --> 01:01:42,040
Speaker 2: this like did you take the learnings from this to

1264
01:01:42,960 --> 01:01:46,080
Speaker 2: your future hookups? Like, have you had any threesome since?

1265
01:01:47,240 --> 01:01:49,360
Speaker 9: So they were my last threesome, but they were not

1266
01:01:49,480 --> 01:01:53,960
Speaker 9: my first, so I haven't done them since just because

1267
01:01:54,000 --> 01:01:56,400
Speaker 9: I see now they're really messy. I think my first

1268
01:01:56,400 --> 01:01:59,040
Speaker 9: threesome when I was like nineteen with like two friends,

1269
01:01:59,040 --> 01:02:01,440
Speaker 9: and it was really fun and kind of giggly, but

1270
01:02:01,520 --> 01:02:04,120
Speaker 9: you know, you're just learning. Yeah, And then I used

1271
01:02:04,120 --> 01:02:06,640
Speaker 9: to have an open relationship where we had like a

1272
01:02:06,640 --> 01:02:09,080
Speaker 9: couple that we would date. And I think I will

1273
01:02:09,080 --> 01:02:11,680
Speaker 9: say this if anyone's thinking of doing like group activities

1274
01:02:12,560 --> 01:02:16,480
Speaker 9: groups of two, two, four, six is that's where things

1275
01:02:16,520 --> 01:02:19,680
Speaker 9: get more balanced threesomes or anything of that nature. Someone's

1276
01:02:19,680 --> 01:02:22,920
Speaker 9: always going to feel left out. But after this, when

1277
01:02:22,920 --> 01:02:25,080
Speaker 9: I was like, you know, kind of ring a marriage,

1278
01:02:25,080 --> 01:02:26,680
Speaker 9: maybe you need to look at yourself a little bit,

1279
01:02:27,560 --> 01:02:32,400
Speaker 9: not be not be so wild and honestly, I mean

1280
01:02:32,400 --> 01:02:35,520
Speaker 9: it's been years, but I did learn that just because

1281
01:02:35,560 --> 01:02:36,800
Speaker 9: you can doesn't.

1282
01:02:36,480 --> 01:02:37,240
Speaker 8: Mean you should.

1283
01:02:38,120 --> 01:02:42,760
Speaker 2: I feel like that is incredible advice to end on. Carmel,

1284
01:02:43,080 --> 01:02:46,360
Speaker 2: thank you so much for telling this threesome story. And

1285
01:02:46,400 --> 01:02:48,560
Speaker 2: it's not at all weird that you have the same

1286
01:02:48,920 --> 01:02:49,680
Speaker 2: name as my mom.

1287
01:02:49,760 --> 01:02:52,880
Speaker 9: Talking about this, well, I thank you and like I said,

1288
01:02:52,920 --> 01:02:54,560
Speaker 9: you can call me mommy anytime.

1289
01:02:55,040 --> 01:03:11,600
Speaker 10: Oh bow chickle, wow, wow, I blushing, she got wow.

1290
01:03:11,640 --> 01:03:12,240
Speaker 2: That was great?

1291
01:03:14,000 --> 01:03:14,280
Speaker 7: All right?

1292
01:03:17,000 --> 01:03:21,960
Speaker 2: You know what? I also like, what this next story?

1293
01:03:22,200 --> 01:03:24,640
Speaker 2: Or are we doing another calling? Whatever you want, let's

1294
01:03:24,640 --> 01:03:30,120
Speaker 2: do another story? Hey, what episode? Let's do to be

1295
01:03:30,200 --> 01:03:30,680
Speaker 2: coming in here?

1296
01:03:31,560 --> 01:03:33,200
Speaker 6: Three seventy nine.

1297
01:03:33,240 --> 01:03:38,040
Speaker 2: We gotta just for Sophie the chat for y'all, queen,

1298
01:03:38,560 --> 01:03:41,960
Speaker 2: she has arrived. I am a good boy. I am

1299
01:03:42,000 --> 01:03:45,800
Speaker 2: a good boy. Yes, I was blushing, And Carmel is

1300
01:03:45,840 --> 01:03:49,680
Speaker 2: a legend. What a great what a great story? Absolutely

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Speaker 2: for the five dollars in one cent. We appreciate you.

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01:04:11,600 --> 01:04:14,520
Speaker 2: Stella Davis says, Sam is a naughty thoughtye, not a

1308
01:04:14,560 --> 01:04:15,160
Speaker 2: good boy.

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01:04:16,960 --> 01:04:18,200
Speaker 1: All righty boy.

1310
01:04:18,760 --> 01:04:25,160
Speaker 2: Let's get in to this next story. So am I

1311
01:04:25,560 --> 01:04:28,680
Speaker 2: the a hole for refusing to pay for my friend's

1312
01:04:28,760 --> 01:04:33,840
Speaker 2: wedding because she invited me? Because she uninvited me? I'm

1313
01:04:33,840 --> 01:04:35,760
Speaker 2: gonna say that again. Am I the a hole for

1314
01:04:35,800 --> 01:04:39,240
Speaker 2: refusing to pay for my friend's wedding because she uninvited me?

1315
01:04:40,560 --> 01:04:42,320
Speaker 5: If you're not there, why would you pay?

1316
01:04:42,600 --> 01:04:45,840
Speaker 2: Exactly? So okay, so here's the deal. My friend, let's

1317
01:04:45,840 --> 01:04:49,040
Speaker 2: call her Sarah, and I have been tight since high school.

1318
01:04:49,360 --> 01:04:53,400
Speaker 2: We've been through everything together, breakups, makeups, you name it.

1319
01:04:53,520 --> 01:04:55,520
Speaker 2: But have you been through a threesome together like hermel

1320
01:04:55,720 --> 01:04:59,280
Speaker 2: I don't know, I can't. I don't want to say that.

1321
01:04:59,280 --> 01:05:02,400
Speaker 2: My all's gonna watch, says a cringe. So when she

1322
01:05:02,480 --> 01:05:05,840
Speaker 2: got engaged, I was over the moon for her. Fast

1323
01:05:05,880 --> 01:05:08,440
Speaker 2: forward to a few months before the wedding. Sarah sends

1324
01:05:08,480 --> 01:05:14,640
Speaker 2: out the invitations and I'm psyched to rs VP anyway,

1325
01:05:14,840 --> 01:05:17,440
Speaker 2: But then out of nowhere, she texts me saying that

1326
01:05:17,480 --> 01:05:20,160
Speaker 2: she's had to cut down the guest list due to

1327
01:05:20,280 --> 01:05:24,960
Speaker 2: budget constraints, and unfortunately I didn't make the cut.

1328
01:05:25,240 --> 01:05:26,560
Speaker 5: She downsize the wedding.

1329
01:05:26,720 --> 01:05:30,360
Speaker 2: That is, so I'm gonna put you on furlough.

1330
01:05:30,520 --> 01:05:32,760
Speaker 1: Okay, you're still gonna get your snacks that you would

1331
01:05:32,760 --> 01:05:36,840
Speaker 1: have gotten. You're getting, yeah, your cup of wine.

1332
01:05:37,120 --> 01:05:43,320
Speaker 2: That is so sad, so sad, sad. Yeah, yeah, I

1333
01:05:43,480 --> 01:05:46,960
Speaker 2: was devastated. I get weddings are expensive at all, but

1334
01:05:47,040 --> 01:05:50,760
Speaker 2: to invite me after we've been friends for so long,

1335
01:05:50,840 --> 01:05:53,280
Speaker 2: I mean, like again, they've been friends since high school.

1336
01:05:53,720 --> 01:05:58,280
Speaker 2: Out fast forward again to the wedding day. I see

1337
01:05:58,320 --> 01:06:01,240
Speaker 2: all these photos on social media and it looks like

1338
01:06:01,320 --> 01:06:05,040
Speaker 2: a fairy tale. But here's the kicker. Sarah texts me

1339
01:06:05,120 --> 01:06:08,200
Speaker 2: later that week asking for money to help cover the

1340
01:06:08,240 --> 01:06:12,320
Speaker 2: costs of the weddings. Apparently they went over budget, and

1341
01:06:12,400 --> 01:06:16,000
Speaker 2: she's asking all the guests who didn't attend to chip in.

1342
01:06:17,120 --> 01:06:20,920
Speaker 2: I was floored. Not only did she uninvite me, but

1343
01:06:20,960 --> 01:06:22,840
Speaker 2: now she expects me to foot the bill for a

1344
01:06:22,840 --> 01:06:25,880
Speaker 2: wedding I didn't even get to go to. I told

1345
01:06:25,920 --> 01:06:28,720
Speaker 2: her no way. I refuse to pay a single time.

1346
01:06:28,760 --> 01:06:31,560
Speaker 2: But now she's saying I'm being selfish and unsupportive? Am

1347
01:06:31,680 --> 01:06:34,480
Speaker 2: I the A hole here? Readit? Or is Sarah oudeline

1348
01:06:34,640 --> 01:06:37,640
Speaker 2: for expecting me to pay for her mistake? And there

1349
01:06:38,080 --> 01:06:40,960
Speaker 2: is a couple updates in some relevant comments. But what

1350
01:06:41,040 --> 01:06:43,400
Speaker 2: do we think is op the A hole chat? Let

1351
01:06:43,480 --> 01:06:47,919
Speaker 2: us know aholes are not the A whole? But Sophia John,

1352
01:06:47,960 --> 01:06:48,840
Speaker 2: why a whole?

1353
01:06:49,040 --> 01:06:49,440
Speaker 1: Why?

1354
01:06:49,920 --> 01:06:52,440
Speaker 5: Why not not the age?

1355
01:06:52,400 --> 01:06:53,240
Speaker 1: No, not the whole?

1356
01:06:53,600 --> 01:06:53,720
Speaker 9: Who?

1357
01:06:54,240 --> 01:06:54,760
Speaker 2: But why?

1358
01:06:54,880 --> 01:06:59,920
Speaker 5: Because Sarah is a college sending out a request for donations.

1359
01:07:01,000 --> 01:07:02,080
Speaker 5: It's one of those emails.

1360
01:07:02,200 --> 01:07:03,160
Speaker 2: It's one of those emails.

1361
01:07:03,160 --> 01:07:05,920
Speaker 1: But you didn't even graduate, you didn't even.

1362
01:07:05,720 --> 01:07:08,080
Speaker 5: Get into metaphor, you didn't even get to do which

1363
01:07:08,040 --> 01:07:09,520
Speaker 5: should they do to me? Okay?

1364
01:07:09,680 --> 01:07:10,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I feel you?

1365
01:07:12,120 --> 01:07:13,600
Speaker 2: Okay, so you're not the A hill too? John?

1366
01:07:13,680 --> 01:07:13,760
Speaker 11: Right?

1367
01:07:13,840 --> 01:07:14,000
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1368
01:07:14,000 --> 01:07:20,080
Speaker 2: Absolutely and Cassie Mailer stars fall up on Kalia also

1369
01:07:20,120 --> 01:07:22,600
Speaker 2: say not the a whole ballroom? Blitzki says the second

1370
01:07:22,600 --> 01:07:25,560
Speaker 2: problematic Sarah of this week.

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01:07:25,400 --> 01:07:27,760
Speaker 5: Also, mom dou had a funny comment where they said

1372
01:07:27,920 --> 01:07:29,600
Speaker 5: did she have an ice one which is a.

1373
01:07:29,640 --> 01:07:35,280
Speaker 2: Great at the ice one or whatever, But everyone on

1374
01:07:35,320 --> 01:07:40,080
Speaker 2: reddit also says, uh, not the ahole. But let's get

1375
01:07:40,120 --> 01:07:42,840
Speaker 2: into some more context. So this happened about a week ago,

1376
01:07:42,920 --> 01:07:45,400
Speaker 2: and I tried talking to her about it again. She

1377
01:07:45,520 --> 01:07:48,560
Speaker 2: relented that the two have been having financial struggles, and

1378
01:07:48,600 --> 01:07:51,520
Speaker 2: this time she respected me not wanting to pay for

1379
01:07:51,560 --> 01:07:53,880
Speaker 2: the wedding. Okay, so at least there's some stuff there,

1380
01:07:53,920 --> 01:07:56,400
Speaker 2: and Amy, thanks for the two bucks. John is awesome,

1381
01:07:56,520 --> 01:08:01,400
Speaker 2: triple his salary. Immediately agreed. However, she still wants me

1382
01:08:01,440 --> 01:08:03,920
Speaker 2: to consider helping out in other ways, like pitching in

1383
01:08:04,000 --> 01:08:07,400
Speaker 2: for the honeymoon or contributing to future expenses. Yeah, don't

1384
01:08:07,400 --> 01:08:09,520
Speaker 2: give me money for the wedding, give me money for

1385
01:08:09,560 --> 01:08:11,960
Speaker 2: everything else. But still give me money right now?

1386
01:08:12,200 --> 01:08:15,040
Speaker 1: Take me? Yeah, can you just empty your making out.

1387
01:08:15,520 --> 01:08:18,519
Speaker 2: She's basically asking for money now, but with extra steps

1388
01:08:19,200 --> 01:08:22,880
Speaker 2: like like nothing has change, nothing has changed. Is this

1389
01:08:22,960 --> 01:08:24,920
Speaker 2: not the same thing? Put the same thing in the chat?

1390
01:08:25,000 --> 01:08:26,240
Speaker 2: You think this is the same thing. It seems like

1391
01:08:26,280 --> 01:08:30,920
Speaker 2: the same thing. I appreciate that she's acknowledging her financial difficulties,

1392
01:08:31,080 --> 01:08:33,320
Speaker 2: but it still feels like she's trying to guilt trip

1393
01:08:33,360 --> 01:08:35,320
Speaker 2: me into footing the bill for her wedding in some

1394
01:08:35,520 --> 01:08:38,519
Speaker 2: form or another. I'm torn because on one hand, I

1395
01:08:38,560 --> 01:08:40,640
Speaker 2: want to be supportive and help her out during a

1396
01:08:40,640 --> 01:08:43,240
Speaker 2: tough time, but on the other hand, I can't shake

1397
01:08:43,320 --> 01:08:47,040
Speaker 2: off the feeling that I'm being taken advantage of. I'm

1398
01:08:47,040 --> 01:08:49,160
Speaker 2: not sure how to proceed from here. Should I continue

1399
01:08:49,160 --> 01:08:51,839
Speaker 2: to stand my ground and refuse any further financial involvement,

1400
01:08:52,000 --> 01:08:54,040
Speaker 2: or should I try to find a compromise that works

1401
01:08:54,040 --> 01:08:57,640
Speaker 2: for both of us. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

1402
01:08:57,960 --> 01:09:00,639
Speaker 2: And there are some relevant comments, but before we hear

1403
01:09:00,680 --> 01:09:03,719
Speaker 2: those relevant comments, I want to hear your relevant comments.

1404
01:09:03,720 --> 01:09:07,040
Speaker 2: So wow, what we know is op and this friend

1405
01:09:07,080 --> 01:09:11,040
Speaker 2: have been friends since high school, so they go way back.

1406
01:09:11,360 --> 01:09:15,639
Speaker 2: But Op was uninvited from the wedding right and now

1407
01:09:15,880 --> 01:09:18,640
Speaker 2: this person is saying, like, pay for my wedding and

1408
01:09:18,680 --> 01:09:22,600
Speaker 2: possibly honeymoon and other expenses. So, uh, why or why not?

1409
01:09:22,960 --> 01:09:25,920
Speaker 2: Should Ope help? Or not?

1410
01:09:26,960 --> 01:09:31,280
Speaker 1: Opie should absolutely not help because you didn't get the invite.

1411
01:09:31,760 --> 01:09:34,599
Speaker 1: Maybe if it was, like you know, it would almost

1412
01:09:34,680 --> 01:09:36,800
Speaker 1: be like a little cute like this is how you

1413
01:09:36,920 --> 01:09:40,200
Speaker 1: should have approached it. Hey everyone, I'm not like, the

1414
01:09:40,600 --> 01:09:42,920
Speaker 1: wedding isn't going too well, so I'm like refiguring things.

1415
01:09:43,000 --> 01:09:45,959
Speaker 1: I bet they would have chipped in naturally, yes.

1416
01:09:45,920 --> 01:09:49,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, except because it sounded like, hey, you're not that close,

1417
01:09:49,160 --> 01:09:51,920
Speaker 2: so you're uninvited. But I feel like it said like, hey,

1418
01:09:52,040 --> 01:09:53,880
Speaker 2: like we just don't have enough money.

1419
01:09:54,000 --> 01:09:54,639
Speaker 1: Yes, too.

1420
01:09:54,680 --> 01:09:56,599
Speaker 2: And then maybe those friends that have been like, hey,

1421
01:09:56,680 --> 01:10:00,479
Speaker 2: like we'll wedding gift. Yeah, early wedding gift. Yeah. I

1422
01:10:00,520 --> 01:10:03,639
Speaker 2: think Sarah is being a bad friend. I think Sarah

1423
01:10:03,680 --> 01:10:05,400
Speaker 2: is being a bad friend. And Susan, thanks for the

1424
01:10:05,479 --> 01:10:08,160
Speaker 2: three bucks. Y'all are driving me bonker with the odds,

1425
01:10:08,240 --> 01:10:09,320
Speaker 2: the two ninety nine tip.

1426
01:10:09,439 --> 01:10:11,360
Speaker 1: Let's go even gang, come on even.

1427
01:10:11,720 --> 01:10:14,560
Speaker 2: So let's get into some relevant comments. So trail s

1428
01:10:15,000 --> 01:10:18,360
Speaker 2: Ya says, not the a hole, and I hope you

1429
01:10:18,520 --> 01:10:21,120
Speaker 2: know you are. I would stop this friendship, immediately, send

1430
01:10:21,120 --> 01:10:24,559
Speaker 2: her a few laughing emojis, and then block her. One

1431
01:10:24,600 --> 01:10:27,920
Speaker 2: of the tackiest things I have ever heard. And for

1432
01:10:27,960 --> 01:10:31,120
Speaker 2: everyone who just came in, let's throw a TLDR on

1433
01:10:31,160 --> 01:10:35,520
Speaker 2: the streams that we know. And let's also thank Banana

1434
01:10:35,680 --> 01:10:38,040
Speaker 2: for the fifteen dollars. Is that anner banana or is

1435
01:10:38,040 --> 01:10:40,840
Speaker 2: that just banana? Might be just finish and I already

1436
01:10:40,880 --> 01:10:45,320
Speaker 2: read that, so OPI thank you for your support and understanding.

1437
01:10:45,360 --> 01:10:49,520
Speaker 2: It's been a rollercoaster of emotions dealing with this situation.

1438
01:10:49,840 --> 01:10:52,200
Speaker 2: To add a bit more contact, Sarah and I had

1439
01:10:52,320 --> 01:10:54,640
Speaker 2: always been there for each other, so her decision to

1440
01:10:54,680 --> 01:10:57,720
Speaker 2: uninvite me really caught me off guard. I tried to

1441
01:10:57,800 --> 01:11:00,640
Speaker 2: rationalize it, thinking maybe she was under a lot of

1442
01:11:00,640 --> 01:11:04,120
Speaker 2: stress or pressure to cut costs, but it still hurts

1443
01:11:04,520 --> 01:11:07,160
Speaker 2: none the less. Jess M thanks for the ten bucks.

1444
01:11:07,200 --> 01:11:09,400
Speaker 2: Love the stream. If you haven't liked the stream already

1445
01:11:09,720 --> 01:11:10,960
Speaker 2: like this, what are you doing?

1446
01:11:11,240 --> 01:11:11,800
Speaker 1: What are you doing?

1447
01:11:12,800 --> 01:11:15,280
Speaker 2: So hurt? Nonetheless, I don't want to cut her off,

1448
01:11:15,320 --> 01:11:17,160
Speaker 2: and she helped me through some tough times. Is there

1449
01:11:17,160 --> 01:11:19,160
Speaker 2: anything else I can do in this situation? I mean,

1450
01:11:19,200 --> 01:11:20,920
Speaker 2: maybe what she can do if she feels like she

1451
01:11:20,960 --> 01:11:23,680
Speaker 2: still wants to help out, is like just give like

1452
01:11:23,720 --> 01:11:27,400
Speaker 2: a little bit money as an early wedding present if

1453
01:11:27,439 --> 01:11:28,080
Speaker 2: she wants to.

1454
01:11:28,760 --> 01:11:31,760
Speaker 5: I don't know, she just was she wasn't invited, Yeah.

1455
01:11:31,479 --> 01:11:33,800
Speaker 2: But you can still give, Like like if if one

1456
01:11:33,800 --> 01:11:36,639
Speaker 2: of my friends was struggling financially, I might just give

1457
01:11:36,680 --> 01:11:39,880
Speaker 2: them money, even if they if they really needed I do.

1458
01:11:39,840 --> 01:11:43,280
Speaker 1: Like a little like kind of a little something and.

1459
01:11:45,040 --> 01:11:49,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it feels like I mean, she Sarah is

1460
01:11:49,160 --> 01:11:51,639
Speaker 2: the one like kind of pushing her away. So it's

1461
01:11:51,680 --> 01:11:54,720
Speaker 2: like it's like or pushing Ope away. So I don't know.

1462
01:11:54,760 --> 01:11:56,880
Speaker 2: And Florian, thanks for the five bucks. I have to

1463
01:11:56,920 --> 01:12:01,000
Speaker 2: go smoke some green. Also, I love Sophia shirt. Goodbye.

1464
01:12:01,720 --> 01:12:05,920
Speaker 2: So scho Wagon says, Okay, reality check. Please, who's being

1465
01:12:05,920 --> 01:12:08,439
Speaker 2: an adult and in the right mind expects other people

1466
01:12:08,439 --> 01:12:12,680
Speaker 2: to pay for their luxuries? Mind you? A wedding, guest, honeymoon,

1467
01:12:12,720 --> 01:12:16,920
Speaker 2: whatever is not necessarily is not a necessity. It is

1468
01:12:17,160 --> 01:12:20,360
Speaker 2: a luxury. Yeah, you have to budget and you can't budget.

1469
01:12:20,560 --> 01:12:22,880
Speaker 2: Why the hell should other people pay for that? Would

1470
01:12:22,960 --> 01:12:25,200
Speaker 2: she have paid for your vacation so you can have

1471
01:12:25,320 --> 01:12:29,000
Speaker 2: some fun because you're tired from work? Know what's the difference. Actually,

1472
01:12:29,000 --> 01:12:30,800
Speaker 2: that's a great, great Gues's not.

1473
01:12:30,960 --> 01:12:34,080
Speaker 5: Like housing or food. It's a vacation.

1474
01:12:34,600 --> 01:12:36,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's actually a good point. I kind of retract

1475
01:12:36,880 --> 01:12:39,800
Speaker 2: my earlier statement. I feel like these are luxuries and

1476
01:12:39,840 --> 01:12:43,000
Speaker 2: she doesn't deserve money for luxury. True, that's just crazy.

1477
01:12:43,040 --> 01:12:45,960
Speaker 2: She shows you zero respect and zero care for your

1478
01:12:45,960 --> 01:12:48,479
Speaker 2: feelings and just trying to use you and guilt trip you.

1479
01:12:48,720 --> 01:12:51,720
Speaker 2: And she literally threw you out of her wedding and

1480
01:12:51,840 --> 01:12:54,160
Speaker 2: still feels it's okay to ask you for money like

1481
01:12:54,240 --> 01:12:58,200
Speaker 2: you're a doormat. That's just a whole behavior. True, it's

1482
01:12:58,360 --> 01:13:01,479
Speaker 2: very selfish to care about your well being instead of

1483
01:13:01,520 --> 01:13:04,720
Speaker 2: catering to other people's expensive wants. Yes, you may tell

1484
01:13:04,720 --> 01:13:08,519
Speaker 2: her you're very selfish and you shouldn't be friends. And

1485
01:13:08,560 --> 01:13:10,680
Speaker 2: then finally OPI responds, and we're going to get to

1486
01:13:10,800 --> 01:13:14,280
Speaker 2: the update before and right after this. But OPI responds,

1487
01:13:14,280 --> 01:13:16,879
Speaker 2: thank you for the reality check. You're absolutely right. Expecting

1488
01:13:16,920 --> 01:13:20,760
Speaker 2: others to pay for luxuries like weddings and honeymoons is unreasonable,

1489
01:13:21,160 --> 01:13:23,919
Speaker 2: especially when it comes at the expense of someone's feelings

1490
01:13:24,160 --> 01:13:27,839
Speaker 2: and boundaries. It's been a tough pill to swallow realizing

1491
01:13:27,840 --> 01:13:30,200
Speaker 2: that Sarah may not value her friendship as much as

1492
01:13:30,240 --> 01:13:32,880
Speaker 2: I thought she did. The fact that she uninvited me

1493
01:13:32,920 --> 01:13:34,720
Speaker 2: from her wedding and then tried to guilt trip me

1494
01:13:35,040 --> 01:13:38,439
Speaker 2: into covering expenses feels like a betrayal of trust. I've

1495
01:13:38,439 --> 01:13:41,160
Speaker 2: come to realize that I need to prioritize my own

1496
01:13:41,160 --> 01:13:44,240
Speaker 2: well being and not allow myself to be taken advantage of.

1497
01:13:44,760 --> 01:13:48,599
Speaker 2: It's clear that Sarah's behavior is selfish and disrespectful, and

1498
01:13:48,640 --> 01:13:51,639
Speaker 2: I shouldn't feel obligated to cater to her expensive wants

1499
01:13:51,720 --> 01:13:54,360
Speaker 2: at my own expense. It's going to be hard, but

1500
01:13:54,400 --> 01:13:56,400
Speaker 2: I think it's time to reevaluate this friendship and so

1501
01:13:56,600 --> 01:13:59,680
Speaker 2: some boundaries moving forward. Your words have given me the

1502
01:14:00,360 --> 01:14:03,240
Speaker 2: and confidence to stand my ground. Thank you for the

1503
01:14:03,240 --> 01:14:07,680
Speaker 2: supports and there is an update, but t LDR for

1504
01:14:07,720 --> 01:14:11,440
Speaker 2: everyone coming in the stream. Sarah got uninvited, Sarah uninvited,

1505
01:14:11,479 --> 01:14:16,640
Speaker 2: op to the wedding, still wants Opie's money. OPI refuses,

1506
01:14:17,920 --> 01:14:20,680
Speaker 2: but let's get in to this day. Let's do it.

1507
01:14:20,760 --> 01:14:23,719
Speaker 2: Let me get yeah. Peaky to Slayers is very very stinky.

1508
01:14:23,920 --> 01:14:26,880
Speaker 2: Pixie Cake says, my dearest friend got married in the

1509
01:14:26,880 --> 01:14:29,240
Speaker 2: middle of the forest. I got married on a camping trip.

1510
01:14:29,320 --> 01:14:34,160
Speaker 2: Affordable weddings are possible. So true, that's so true. Kim

1511
01:14:34,240 --> 01:14:36,559
Speaker 2: Quant says, you invite guests and they provide gifts if

1512
01:14:36,600 --> 01:14:39,360
Speaker 2: they can. She should have had a honeymoon fund if

1513
01:14:39,400 --> 01:14:41,919
Speaker 2: that's what she wanted as a gift, and only expecting

1514
01:14:41,960 --> 01:14:46,200
Speaker 2: people who were invited to the wedding to maybe pay it.

1515
01:14:46,520 --> 01:14:48,160
Speaker 5: My wedding's going to be a barbecue.

1516
01:14:48,479 --> 01:14:49,599
Speaker 2: That's very cute.

1517
01:14:49,680 --> 01:14:50,160
Speaker 1: That's sick.

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01:14:50,479 --> 01:14:53,880
Speaker 2: Also, I mean maybe problematic if you are a pescatarian.

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01:14:54,320 --> 01:14:56,200
Speaker 5: Well, we're going to barbecue salmon.

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01:14:56,360 --> 01:15:00,480
Speaker 1: Only salmon, salmon on a bat and corn and holdtoes

1521
01:15:01,000 --> 01:15:03,120
Speaker 1: a mushrooms? Wrong?

1522
01:15:03,160 --> 01:15:03,439
Speaker 5: All right?

1523
01:15:03,479 --> 01:15:03,800
Speaker 2: All right?

1524
01:15:03,960 --> 01:15:04,839
Speaker 1: Do you like mushrooms?

1525
01:15:04,840 --> 01:15:08,720
Speaker 2: All right? Update? So hey everyone, Opie here with an

1526
01:15:08,800 --> 01:15:12,400
Speaker 2: update about refusing to pay for my friend's wedding because

1527
01:15:12,439 --> 01:15:15,880
Speaker 2: she uninvited me. Firstly, I want to express my gratitude

1528
01:15:15,920 --> 01:15:19,040
Speaker 2: to all seven hundred plus of you who took the

1529
01:15:19,160 --> 01:15:22,760
Speaker 2: time to read my story and offer your thoughts. Your

1530
01:15:22,840 --> 01:15:27,200
Speaker 2: support and perspectives have been invaluable during this challenging time.

1531
01:15:27,720 --> 01:15:31,600
Speaker 2: So since my last update, there have been some significant developments.

1532
01:15:32,000 --> 01:15:37,080
Speaker 2: Sarah saw the post and confronted me, and things got heated.

1533
01:15:37,200 --> 01:15:41,560
Speaker 2: Oh no, there was yelling, emotions ran high, and in

1534
01:15:41,680 --> 01:15:44,840
Speaker 2: the end I made the difficult decision to go no

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01:15:45,040 --> 01:15:46,519
Speaker 2: contact with Sarah.

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01:15:46,960 --> 01:15:48,759
Speaker 5: Yeah it seems like the right decision.

1537
01:15:48,880 --> 01:15:50,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's the right decision. While it was

1538
01:15:51,120 --> 01:15:53,640
Speaker 2: a tough choice to make, I realized that the toxicity

1539
01:15:53,720 --> 01:15:55,920
Speaker 2: in a relationship had reached a point where it was

1540
01:15:56,040 --> 01:15:58,960
Speaker 2: no longer healthy for either of us. Despite my initial

1541
01:15:59,000 --> 01:16:02,880
Speaker 2: hopes for reconciliation, it became clear that certain underlying issues

1542
01:16:02,880 --> 01:16:05,320
Speaker 2: in our friendship needed to be addressed and resolved before

1543
01:16:05,439 --> 01:16:09,360
Speaker 2: any meaningful progress could be made. Going no contact was

1544
01:16:09,400 --> 01:16:12,120
Speaker 2: not a decision I made lightly, but rather one born

1545
01:16:12,320 --> 01:16:15,519
Speaker 2: out of necessity for my own well being and mental health.

1546
01:16:16,080 --> 01:16:18,679
Speaker 2: It's never easy to distance yourself from someone you care about,

1547
01:16:18,840 --> 01:16:24,439
Speaker 2: but sometimes it's necessary for personal growth and healing. I

1548
01:16:24,520 --> 01:16:27,680
Speaker 2: want to thank everyone once again for their support and

1549
01:16:27,880 --> 01:16:31,679
Speaker 2: encouragement throughout this journey. Your words have been a source

1550
01:16:31,720 --> 01:16:34,960
Speaker 2: of strength and comfort during a challenging time in my life,

1551
01:16:35,439 --> 01:16:38,280
Speaker 2: and surrounding myself with positive influence has been important. I

1552
01:16:38,360 --> 01:16:40,800
Speaker 2: think people are asking for some tldrs or Ailey's going

1553
01:16:40,840 --> 01:16:45,160
Speaker 2: to put one on stream right now. Well, it's sad

1554
01:16:45,240 --> 01:16:48,280
Speaker 2: to say goodbye to a friendship that once meant so

1555
01:16:48,479 --> 01:16:52,439
Speaker 2: much to me. I'm hopeful that this decision will ultimately

1556
01:16:52,560 --> 01:16:58,680
Speaker 2: lead to greater happiness and fulfillment and fulfillment and in

1557
01:16:58,760 --> 01:17:00,760
Speaker 2: the long run. Thank you all for being part of

1558
01:17:00,840 --> 01:17:05,120
Speaker 2: my story and for your unwavering supports. And there are

1559
01:17:05,240 --> 01:17:09,080
Speaker 2: some final relevant comments, but basically I mean it seems

1560
01:17:09,160 --> 01:17:13,280
Speaker 2: like OPI kind of got the I got to a

1561
01:17:13,360 --> 01:17:16,120
Speaker 2: point where she feels good with where the friendship.

1562
01:17:15,880 --> 01:17:17,680
Speaker 1: Ended, justified, which I think she is.

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01:17:18,200 --> 01:17:20,560
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, all Trista Cable Car says yeah, if you

1564
01:17:20,680 --> 01:17:23,360
Speaker 2: handed that out, you'd be a massive a hole. Sorry

1565
01:17:23,400 --> 01:17:25,960
Speaker 2: about having to go no contact, but seems like it

1566
01:17:26,040 --> 01:17:29,200
Speaker 2: was the only way to go forward to keep yourself

1567
01:17:29,200 --> 01:17:32,080
Speaker 2: saying best of luck, and Opie responds, it hurts because

1568
01:17:32,080 --> 01:17:34,240
Speaker 2: she helped me when I was battling depression and low

1569
01:17:34,280 --> 01:17:36,759
Speaker 2: on money. But thank you for your understanding and support.

1570
01:17:37,160 --> 01:17:42,479
Speaker 2: It wasn't an easy decision to make, but sometimes it's

1571
01:17:42,560 --> 01:17:44,840
Speaker 2: necessary for self preservation. Your words to mean a lot

1572
01:17:44,840 --> 01:17:47,280
Speaker 2: to me, and I appreciate your well wishes. Here's prioritizing

1573
01:17:47,320 --> 01:17:50,040
Speaker 2: your mental health and moving towards a brighter future. Take care.

1574
01:17:51,439 --> 01:17:56,840
Speaker 5: It's interesting about the Sarah helping her with money. Did

1575
01:17:56,880 --> 01:17:57,679
Speaker 5: we know that before?

1576
01:17:57,760 --> 01:17:59,080
Speaker 2: I don't think we didn't know that. Ye.

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01:17:59,320 --> 01:18:02,240
Speaker 1: So if if she did, indeed, like help her financially

1578
01:18:02,280 --> 01:18:04,639
Speaker 1: when she was down, is there, does that change things?

1579
01:18:04,800 --> 01:18:05,120
Speaker 5: I think?

1580
01:18:05,520 --> 01:18:07,519
Speaker 1: And she didn't pay her back? What do you think?

1581
01:18:07,720 --> 01:18:09,800
Speaker 2: But I think it's okay. I think it's different. I

1582
01:18:09,800 --> 01:18:11,639
Speaker 2: think it's different, So right, let me. Let me give

1583
01:18:11,680 --> 01:18:16,439
Speaker 2: you an example. Let's say you buy someone a vitamix, right,

1584
01:18:16,760 --> 01:18:18,679
Speaker 2: and you were super close when you bought a vitem

1585
01:18:18,800 --> 01:18:23,400
Speaker 2: x L, and then five years later, Christmas comes, where's

1586
01:18:23,439 --> 01:18:26,960
Speaker 2: my vitam X. Well, I shouldn't expect aviem X, right,

1587
01:18:27,160 --> 01:18:31,720
Speaker 2: I shouldn't expect the vitamx because we're no longer close, right,

1588
01:18:31,800 --> 01:18:35,479
Speaker 2: And I think Sarah is basically pushing Opie away. So

1589
01:18:35,800 --> 01:18:39,600
Speaker 2: I don't think there is like reciprocity that needs to

1590
01:18:39,680 --> 01:18:43,840
Speaker 2: happen because now they're not as close as they thought.

1591
01:18:44,920 --> 01:18:48,639
Speaker 5: I do think that if she did not pay Sarah back,

1592
01:18:48,840 --> 01:18:52,280
Speaker 5: then she could just pay that amount and that that's it.

1593
01:18:52,840 --> 01:18:55,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, it is, it is. I think it does change

1594
01:18:56,000 --> 01:19:01,840
Speaker 1: the dynamic, even though they did did like Sarah was

1595
01:19:02,000 --> 01:19:04,880
Speaker 1: kind of like forcing the hand almost of like their

1596
01:19:04,960 --> 01:19:09,240
Speaker 1: relationship like severing. It is like, okay, you gave me

1597
01:19:09,360 --> 01:19:12,920
Speaker 1: money when I was down and then I so.

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01:19:12,960 --> 01:19:15,800
Speaker 2: Do you think like no matter how like? So you

1599
01:19:15,960 --> 01:19:20,080
Speaker 2: think like if if when I had no way to

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01:19:20,240 --> 01:19:25,920
Speaker 2: blend my vegetables when I was down, yep uh, that

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01:19:26,120 --> 01:19:29,000
Speaker 2: that should be received in back. If I if I

1602
01:19:29,200 --> 01:19:31,080
Speaker 2: don't have any way to blend by vegetables right now,

1603
01:19:31,120 --> 01:19:33,080
Speaker 2: so I should expect something back if.

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01:19:33,000 --> 01:19:36,040
Speaker 1: You are down, bad, in in need. And what I

1605
01:19:36,120 --> 01:19:39,760
Speaker 1: would say is it wasn't so horrible the severing of

1606
01:19:39,840 --> 01:19:42,320
Speaker 1: their Oh wait no, there was a lot of There

1607
01:19:42,439 --> 01:19:46,720
Speaker 1: was like an angry exchange exchange to the conduct. That's right.

1608
01:19:46,960 --> 01:19:48,880
Speaker 5: So it wasn't going to be no contact before. I

1609
01:19:48,960 --> 01:19:51,320
Speaker 5: don't think. But I do think had they not had

1610
01:19:51,360 --> 01:19:53,599
Speaker 5: that fight, yes, it would have changed.

1611
01:19:53,960 --> 01:19:56,800
Speaker 1: I think I agree with you. I think no fight,

1612
01:19:57,479 --> 01:19:59,439
Speaker 1: maybe give her some. But with the fight, I think

1613
01:19:59,479 --> 01:19:59,760
Speaker 1: it's OK.

1614
01:20:00,120 --> 01:20:01,800
Speaker 2: You all think I kind of want to know from

1615
01:20:01,880 --> 01:20:04,880
Speaker 2: the chat what like what where you all stand?

1616
01:20:05,040 --> 01:20:08,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's weird that she wasn't invited the wedding, So.

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01:20:09,280 --> 01:20:11,920
Speaker 2: Jennifer, can you so Pinky slayers is agree with Sophia

1618
01:20:12,040 --> 01:20:14,439
Speaker 2: because of the fact that if she needed money, Sarah

1619
01:20:14,479 --> 01:20:16,519
Speaker 2: helped her. If she had not paid her back, Sarah

1620
01:20:16,560 --> 01:20:19,640
Speaker 2: should be like, okay, help me pay like help like

1621
01:20:19,800 --> 01:20:22,080
Speaker 2: pay me back. I'd like you to give me X

1622
01:20:22,120 --> 01:20:24,240
Speaker 2: amount of dollars so I can go on my honeymoon.

1623
01:20:24,560 --> 01:20:27,160
Speaker 2: But like when you give a friend money, you're not

1624
01:20:27,360 --> 01:20:29,400
Speaker 2: expecting the money back with interest, So you're not a

1625
01:20:29,520 --> 01:20:32,880
Speaker 2: fucking bank you Well, I don't think.

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01:20:32,800 --> 01:20:35,840
Speaker 5: You should expect the money that you give willingly back.

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01:20:36,240 --> 01:20:40,599
Speaker 2: But it also if you scroll up a little bit.

1628
01:20:41,120 --> 01:20:45,760
Speaker 2: Riley Jennifer Raker Berr says Sarah lent money to OP

1629
01:20:45,960 --> 01:20:50,040
Speaker 2: when OP was down and out and not for luxury

1630
01:20:50,120 --> 01:20:52,960
Speaker 2: vacations like Sarah is expecting for OP. Now it's a

1631
01:20:52,960 --> 01:20:53,679
Speaker 2: different situation.

1632
01:20:53,920 --> 01:20:56,600
Speaker 12: But I will I keep putting Devil's Advocate here. I

1633
01:20:56,680 --> 01:20:59,479
Speaker 12: know usually I'm like not on that side, but I know, right,

1634
01:21:00,000 --> 01:21:01,920
Speaker 12: I think it's on the same way. I think just

1635
01:21:01,960 --> 01:21:03,720
Speaker 12: because it was at the end and it was like

1636
01:21:03,760 --> 01:21:06,120
Speaker 12: a piece of information that I think could have but it.

1637
01:21:06,160 --> 01:21:08,080
Speaker 2: Was in like high school or like, it was like

1638
01:21:08,280 --> 01:21:09,200
Speaker 2: way long ago.

1639
01:21:09,920 --> 01:21:12,320
Speaker 1: And it is like I can kind of see like

1640
01:21:13,040 --> 01:21:15,800
Speaker 1: if so I think that Sarah, I'm gonna guess that

1641
01:21:15,880 --> 01:21:17,720
Speaker 1: Sarah is kind of an irresponsible and you.

1642
01:21:17,760 --> 01:21:20,920
Speaker 2: Know, knock money was just getting it money to his friends.

1643
01:21:21,000 --> 01:21:24,519
Speaker 1: She doesn't even care about it, but like it is,

1644
01:21:25,000 --> 01:21:26,760
Speaker 1: it is nice to be able to go on a

1645
01:21:26,840 --> 01:21:30,679
Speaker 1: honeymoon after your way a while. It totally is a luxury. Again,

1646
01:21:30,720 --> 01:21:32,800
Speaker 1: if she hadn't paid her any money in the past

1647
01:21:32,840 --> 01:21:35,000
Speaker 1: when she was like down bad, I would be like

1648
01:21:35,400 --> 01:21:35,800
Speaker 1: screw it.

1649
01:21:35,880 --> 01:21:37,200
Speaker 5: You know, Yeah, I don't know.

1650
01:21:38,600 --> 01:21:40,479
Speaker 2: I would feel pretty bad if one of my close

1651
01:21:40,560 --> 01:21:42,519
Speaker 2: friends didn't invite me to the wedding and then sent

1652
01:21:42,600 --> 01:21:44,519
Speaker 2: me a gofund mailing for their honeymoon. I would be

1653
01:21:44,640 --> 01:21:47,800
Speaker 2: like I would a hole.

1654
01:21:48,720 --> 01:21:51,840
Speaker 5: But I just think it changes things slightly because of

1655
01:21:51,840 --> 01:21:54,320
Speaker 5: the information I think that information should have been.

1656
01:21:54,680 --> 01:21:57,160
Speaker 2: It makes her less the a hole. Yeah, yeah, it

1657
01:21:57,240 --> 01:21:58,920
Speaker 2: makes her less the a hole. We don't know how

1658
01:21:59,000 --> 01:22:00,639
Speaker 2: much jac, We don't know how much money was given.

1659
01:22:00,720 --> 01:22:03,120
Speaker 2: We don't we don't, or if it was paid back.

1660
01:22:03,280 --> 01:22:06,200
Speaker 2: Tragedy sharps is the money ode ode makes a difference.

1661
01:22:06,200 --> 01:22:08,000
Speaker 2: So I think we're kind of split. I feel like

1662
01:22:08,040 --> 01:22:08,759
Speaker 2: we're kind of split.

1663
01:22:08,920 --> 01:22:10,160
Speaker 5: I think I just need more information.

1664
01:22:10,400 --> 01:22:10,599
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1665
01:22:10,760 --> 01:22:13,200
Speaker 2: And Joanna Lynn thanks to the ten bucks. Finally cut alive.

1666
01:22:13,320 --> 01:22:16,560
Speaker 2: Recently started watching y'all and really enjoy the content and

1667
01:22:16,600 --> 01:22:19,560
Speaker 2: y'all's personalities so much fun. Thanks for all you do.

1668
01:22:20,240 --> 01:22:23,120
Speaker 1: We enjoy your personality. Hello, Yeah, you're incredible.

1669
01:22:23,360 --> 01:22:25,240
Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't talk about personalities.

1670
01:22:25,479 --> 01:22:28,280
Speaker 2: Oh and Elite Technician, thanks for the two bucks. Today

1671
01:22:28,520 --> 01:22:31,760
Speaker 2: is my boyfriend and I's eighth anniversary.

1672
01:22:33,920 --> 01:22:36,960
Speaker 1: Hey, yo, what was that? What was that? Where's the ring?

1673
01:22:38,479 --> 01:22:40,200
Speaker 5: You should watch us for eight hours?

1674
01:22:40,880 --> 01:22:45,320
Speaker 2: You should support your anniversary. Yeah, we do have an

1675
01:22:45,360 --> 01:22:46,440
Speaker 2: eight hour stream.

1676
01:22:46,200 --> 01:22:47,920
Speaker 1: Great activity, low key.

1677
01:22:48,120 --> 01:22:51,320
Speaker 6: I would love to do like like a little what

1678
01:22:51,400 --> 01:22:53,680
Speaker 6: do you call it the scientists do for people? I'm

1679
01:22:53,800 --> 01:22:54,559
Speaker 6: talking like, Sophie.

1680
01:22:54,640 --> 01:22:57,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was just Riley's complete thoughts.

1681
01:22:58,320 --> 01:22:59,920
Speaker 6: No, no, no, what a scientists do with people?

1682
01:23:00,240 --> 01:23:00,439
Speaker 2: Test?

1683
01:23:00,840 --> 01:23:03,439
Speaker 6: You should do test of relationships that listen to OKOP

1684
01:23:03,760 --> 01:23:05,160
Speaker 6: and how will they do in their marriages?

1685
01:23:05,320 --> 01:23:05,559
Speaker 1: Wow?

1686
01:23:05,680 --> 01:23:07,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, like a like a long study on there.

1687
01:23:07,800 --> 01:23:10,479
Speaker 5: Of people who listen to OP have long.

1688
01:23:10,400 --> 01:23:14,439
Speaker 2: Longer marriages. Well, you know what, I want to have

1689
01:23:14,560 --> 01:23:19,160
Speaker 2: a long successful marriage to what this next story should

1690
01:23:19,160 --> 01:23:19,400
Speaker 2: it be?

1691
01:23:19,800 --> 01:23:25,200
Speaker 1: So the worm queen herself Moir, you sure your.

1692
01:23:26,600 --> 01:23:26,920
Speaker 5: Phone?

1693
01:23:27,040 --> 01:23:31,240
Speaker 2: Here we go, Here we go, and a long one.

1694
01:23:31,439 --> 01:23:31,840
Speaker 5: You're great?

1695
01:23:31,920 --> 01:23:35,200
Speaker 2: Okay, here we go. Take that, take that, take that

1696
01:23:35,560 --> 01:23:35,840
Speaker 2: this thing?

1697
01:23:36,680 --> 01:23:40,400
Speaker 5: All right, get it, Sophia, all right, let's crack into

1698
01:23:40,520 --> 01:23:45,320
Speaker 5: this cracking. My brother wants me to back his marriage,

1699
01:23:45,439 --> 01:23:47,000
Speaker 5: but I want nothing to.

1700
01:23:47,120 --> 01:23:47,560
Speaker 11: Do with it.

1701
01:23:48,080 --> 01:23:49,479
Speaker 2: Damn, Sophie, you really feel like that?

1702
01:23:49,720 --> 01:23:51,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm not backing.

1703
01:23:51,960 --> 01:23:56,000
Speaker 6: Also comes from our subredditok show.

1704
01:23:56,120 --> 01:23:58,719
Speaker 2: If you haven't already joined our subreddit, you should totally

1705
01:23:58,800 --> 01:24:02,080
Speaker 2: do so because it's popping off right now. Our slash

1706
01:24:02,120 --> 01:24:04,080
Speaker 2: okop show and Reddit and you can submit your stories

1707
01:24:04,080 --> 01:24:05,640
Speaker 2: there and we'll probably read it.

1708
01:24:06,080 --> 01:24:11,200
Speaker 5: Yeah. So brother's wedding, Ta says background. I'm the youngest

1709
01:24:11,240 --> 01:24:14,639
Speaker 5: of four children and the only daughter. My two eldest brothers,

1710
01:24:14,760 --> 01:24:17,960
Speaker 5: brother number one and brother number two, are married. Let's

1711
01:24:17,960 --> 01:24:22,400
Speaker 5: give them names two each other. No, okay, Well, who's

1712
01:24:23,040 --> 01:24:26,680
Speaker 5: brother number one? Give him a name Bill, Bill and

1713
01:24:26,800 --> 01:24:30,599
Speaker 5: brother number two Sam. Okay. Bill had an arranged marriage

1714
01:24:30,720 --> 01:24:33,920
Speaker 5: and Sam had a love marriage. This is relevant. My family,

1715
01:24:34,080 --> 01:24:38,479
Speaker 5: especially my parents, are conservative Indian Muslims. Also relevant as

1716
01:24:38,520 --> 01:24:40,519
Speaker 5: of now, my parents and brothers, as well as their

1717
01:24:40,560 --> 01:24:43,560
Speaker 5: respective families all live together in one home. I have

1718
01:24:43,720 --> 01:24:46,519
Speaker 5: moved out after my marriage. Also, everything here is from

1719
01:24:46,600 --> 01:24:49,600
Speaker 5: secondhand information that I have received, as most of this

1720
01:24:49,760 --> 01:24:53,000
Speaker 5: took place after I moved out after my marriage. Also,

1721
01:24:53,160 --> 01:24:55,360
Speaker 5: I have an eight month old baby. We all live

1722
01:24:55,439 --> 01:24:57,479
Speaker 5: in the Middle East. That's all the background.

1723
01:24:57,640 --> 01:24:57,920
Speaker 2: Okay.

1724
01:24:58,280 --> 01:25:01,599
Speaker 5: This whole drama has been brewing for a few years

1725
01:25:01,800 --> 01:25:04,800
Speaker 5: since at least late twenty twenty one, but nes come

1726
01:25:04,880 --> 01:25:07,280
Speaker 5: to a head early this year, early twenty twenty three.

1727
01:25:07,640 --> 01:25:09,479
Speaker 5: Brother number three give him a name.

1728
01:25:10,840 --> 01:25:11,479
Speaker 2: Brother three.

1729
01:25:11,880 --> 01:25:13,800
Speaker 1: Riley Hiley Okay, Riley.

1730
01:25:13,760 --> 01:25:18,280
Speaker 5: Fell in love with his colleague a I'm gonna April.

1731
01:25:18,760 --> 01:25:19,040
Speaker 2: Okay.

1732
01:25:19,760 --> 01:25:23,040
Speaker 5: April is an Egyptian Muslim. They started getting close and

1733
01:25:23,160 --> 01:25:25,400
Speaker 5: my brother pursued with the intent of marriage.

1734
01:25:26,040 --> 01:25:29,479
Speaker 2: At the time, he thought brother brother number three, right, okay, Riley,

1735
01:25:29,640 --> 01:25:31,160
Speaker 2: Riley was pursuing April.

1736
01:25:31,320 --> 01:25:35,840
Speaker 5: Yes, at the time, he thought my parents wouldn't be

1737
01:25:35,920 --> 01:25:41,320
Speaker 5: opposed to the idea, as April is Muslim and Sam

1738
01:25:41,560 --> 01:25:43,639
Speaker 5: also had a love marriage. That's brother number two. It's

1739
01:25:44,479 --> 01:25:47,640
Speaker 5: what he was ignoring nor taking into consideration was that

1740
01:25:47,760 --> 01:25:50,720
Speaker 5: Sam's wife is Indian and from the same community as us,

1741
01:25:50,920 --> 01:25:53,839
Speaker 5: and even with that, she's had trouble adjusting initially.

1742
01:25:54,479 --> 01:25:58,519
Speaker 2: So so he's saying this third brother might not have

1743
01:25:58,720 --> 01:26:00,680
Speaker 2: like a great marriage because she isn't come from the

1744
01:26:00,720 --> 01:26:01,320
Speaker 2: same background.

1745
01:26:01,400 --> 01:26:03,880
Speaker 5: Yes, yeah, so Riley and April might not have a

1746
01:26:03,920 --> 01:26:04,559
Speaker 5: great marriage.

1747
01:26:04,800 --> 01:26:07,800
Speaker 2: I feel like that is I feel like that's I mean,

1748
01:26:07,880 --> 01:26:10,479
Speaker 2: we also maybe don't come from that culture. But that

1749
01:26:10,600 --> 01:26:14,120
Speaker 2: feels a little bit like getting ahead of yourself a

1750
01:26:14,120 --> 01:26:14,600
Speaker 2: little bit, you know.

1751
01:26:15,520 --> 01:26:17,600
Speaker 5: So my brother brings up the idea up to my

1752
01:26:17,720 --> 01:26:21,840
Speaker 5: dad and he I think this is Riley brings up

1753
01:26:21,840 --> 01:26:24,040
Speaker 5: the idea to my dad and he ignored it at first,

1754
01:26:24,439 --> 01:26:26,639
Speaker 5: and then later shuts it down, saying that the cultural

1755
01:26:26,680 --> 01:26:29,599
Speaker 5: differences would be too much to handle and Mom would

1756
01:26:29,600 --> 01:26:32,120
Speaker 5: not agree. And that's exactly what happened, bro.

1757
01:26:32,320 --> 01:26:36,800
Speaker 2: But love transcend cultures. It don't matter.

1758
01:26:37,600 --> 01:26:41,080
Speaker 5: Riley went ahead and introduced April to my mom. Anyways,

1759
01:26:41,520 --> 01:26:44,240
Speaker 5: April speaks Arabic mostly and a little bit of English.

1760
01:26:44,479 --> 01:26:48,240
Speaker 5: My mom can't speak either of those languages. Anytime April

1761
01:26:48,280 --> 01:26:50,240
Speaker 5: and my Mom have met, most of the conversations have

1762
01:26:50,320 --> 01:26:53,719
Speaker 5: been through my other sisters in laws. Riley keeps bringing

1763
01:26:53,760 --> 01:26:56,920
Speaker 5: April around to meet my Mom under various pretenses, hoping

1764
01:26:57,000 --> 01:26:59,080
Speaker 5: that my mother would warm up to April and see

1765
01:26:59,160 --> 01:27:02,920
Speaker 5: past the cultural differences. Examples of such where April wants

1766
01:27:02,960 --> 01:27:06,519
Speaker 5: to wants my sister in law to apply headed for her,

1767
01:27:06,920 --> 01:27:11,400
Speaker 5: her sister and niece for oh Eed, a major Muslim celebration,

1768
01:27:11,960 --> 01:27:18,080
Speaker 5: or April is six, so he had my dad recite

1769
01:27:18,960 --> 01:27:21,679
Speaker 5: I don't know rook ya type of prayer where one

1770
01:27:22,080 --> 01:27:25,680
Speaker 5: recites versus of the Holy Kron with the intention of healing. Now,

1771
01:27:25,760 --> 01:27:28,600
Speaker 5: in our culture, daughter in laws are expected to at

1772
01:27:28,720 --> 01:27:31,599
Speaker 5: least be helpful towards the in laws after marriage, though

1773
01:27:31,680 --> 01:27:33,519
Speaker 5: my mother is pretty lax in this matter, as she

1774
01:27:33,600 --> 01:27:36,120
Speaker 5: prefers to do things herself. She and my sister in

1775
01:27:36,200 --> 01:27:40,200
Speaker 5: laws managed the household chores together, but such instances portrayed

1776
01:27:40,240 --> 01:27:42,880
Speaker 5: April in a negative light, as she would only come

1777
01:27:42,920 --> 01:27:45,519
Speaker 5: around when she needed something. Strike one.

1778
01:27:46,840 --> 01:27:49,679
Speaker 2: That is an because that's not like a cultural strike.

1779
01:27:49,760 --> 01:27:54,679
Speaker 2: That's just being like maybe thoughtful of the family. Strike. Yeah,

1780
01:27:54,720 --> 01:27:57,040
Speaker 2: So it sounds like it's more like, oh, she's not thoughtful,

1781
01:27:57,200 --> 01:27:59,960
Speaker 2: rather than she's from a different culture and potentially.

1782
01:27:59,640 --> 01:28:04,160
Speaker 1: Not thoughtful, and there is this expectation baked into the

1783
01:28:04,320 --> 01:28:07,920
Speaker 1: tradition of the culture. So it's like maybe a little bit.

1784
01:28:07,840 --> 01:28:09,559
Speaker 2: Of a double oy ye, a little bit of both.

1785
01:28:09,880 --> 01:28:10,080
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1786
01:28:10,640 --> 01:28:12,760
Speaker 1: But shout out to Auntie Aaron with a five dollars

1787
01:28:12,840 --> 01:28:16,439
Speaker 1: one cent donation, playing BG three and working intro outra

1788
01:28:16,600 --> 01:28:18,559
Speaker 1: oh wait is that no, she's actually talking to us,

1789
01:28:19,080 --> 01:28:21,400
Speaker 1: waiting for the music like the stream for the worm queen.

1790
01:28:21,920 --> 01:28:23,720
Speaker 2: Like the stream for the word queen. If you haven't

1791
01:28:23,720 --> 01:28:26,160
Speaker 2: already do it. And Stanley Costa, thanks for the two

1792
01:28:26,200 --> 01:28:29,400
Speaker 2: buck tip have been watching for a few months now,

1793
01:28:29,560 --> 01:28:31,760
Speaker 2: would like to support Thank you for supporting you rock.

1794
01:28:31,960 --> 01:28:35,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, I agree, Casana. Riley should have warned April yeah

1795
01:28:36,040 --> 01:28:36,360
Speaker 5: about that.

1796
01:28:36,640 --> 01:28:40,040
Speaker 2: He should have warned a le and people are asking

1797
01:28:40,160 --> 01:28:41,720
Speaker 2: for a TLDR, we're gonna get yes.

1798
01:28:42,520 --> 01:28:45,240
Speaker 5: Also, Riley is my mother's golden child, and she was

1799
01:28:45,280 --> 01:28:48,560
Speaker 5: already separated from four years during his college years. In

1800
01:28:48,680 --> 01:28:52,280
Speaker 5: Egyptian culture, the bride and group lives separately after marriage. Yeah,

1801
01:28:52,400 --> 01:28:55,000
Speaker 5: that's definitely not going to happen, at least not with

1802
01:28:55,160 --> 01:28:59,519
Speaker 5: a ton of drama. That strike too. Strike three happened

1803
01:28:59,560 --> 01:29:01,800
Speaker 5: when my mom and my sister in laws were visiting

1804
01:29:01,840 --> 01:29:04,680
Speaker 5: April's home to meet her mother, who was sick at

1805
01:29:04,720 --> 01:29:07,160
Speaker 5: that time. April's niece kept clinging on to my brother.

1806
01:29:07,520 --> 01:29:09,439
Speaker 5: The niece, from what I could gather, is about ten

1807
01:29:10,400 --> 01:29:12,840
Speaker 5: being that touchy with a man that's not your family

1808
01:29:13,360 --> 01:29:17,200
Speaker 5: and is significantly older, is very much frowned upon and

1809
01:29:17,439 --> 01:29:20,640
Speaker 5: to that, in fact, no one tried to stop her.

1810
01:29:21,560 --> 01:29:24,599
Speaker 5: That just added fuel to the fire. Now one might wonder,

1811
01:29:24,680 --> 01:29:26,840
Speaker 5: why is this girl so close to my brother. Turns

1812
01:29:26,880 --> 01:29:28,720
Speaker 5: out my brother has been spending a lot of time

1813
01:29:28,760 --> 01:29:32,400
Speaker 5: with April and her family, even Bailey out our Riley.

1814
01:29:33,040 --> 01:29:34,360
Speaker 5: Even this is Riley in April.

1815
01:29:34,760 --> 01:29:37,000
Speaker 2: But wait, shouldn't she spend a lot of time with her?

1816
01:29:37,640 --> 01:29:39,920
Speaker 5: Bailing out on our family to go meet up with

1817
01:29:40,000 --> 01:29:41,320
Speaker 5: April strike four.

1818
01:29:42,040 --> 01:29:46,879
Speaker 2: But so basically they have an expectation of basically being.

1819
01:29:46,840 --> 01:29:53,400
Speaker 5: Like prioritizing everything above everything and basically having the incoming

1820
01:29:53,560 --> 01:29:59,280
Speaker 5: bride or the incoming partner adopt that family. Yeah, so

1821
01:29:59,560 --> 01:30:01,519
Speaker 5: with all what is happening, my parents said heck no

1822
01:30:01,760 --> 01:30:05,320
Speaker 5: to my brother's idea Riley to marrying April. This all

1823
01:30:05,439 --> 01:30:08,840
Speaker 5: happened early mid twenty twenty two. My brother was heartbroken,

1824
01:30:09,040 --> 01:30:11,400
Speaker 5: so he spoke to April and they decided to part ways.

1825
01:30:11,880 --> 01:30:14,439
Speaker 5: April was even engaged by end of twenty twenty two

1826
01:30:14,560 --> 01:30:17,639
Speaker 5: to someone else that's unclear. Oh wow, And my family

1827
01:30:17,760 --> 01:30:20,439
Speaker 5: was also looking for marriage proposals for my brother, but

1828
01:30:20,600 --> 01:30:23,240
Speaker 5: things didn't go anywhere on that aspect, partly due to

1829
01:30:23,320 --> 01:30:26,120
Speaker 5: my parents being overly picky. To top it off, April

1830
01:30:26,160 --> 01:30:28,439
Speaker 5: broke up her engagement and told my brother that she

1831
01:30:28,560 --> 01:30:31,760
Speaker 5: is still hung up on him. That's where we get

1832
01:30:32,080 --> 01:30:35,759
Speaker 5: to present day, where after many arguments and failed attempts,

1833
01:30:35,960 --> 01:30:37,920
Speaker 5: my brother calls me to inform me that all the

1834
01:30:37,960 --> 01:30:39,960
Speaker 5: men of the family are going over to April's home

1835
01:30:40,160 --> 01:30:43,879
Speaker 5: with the marriage proposal and would like me and if possible,

1836
01:30:43,960 --> 01:30:46,320
Speaker 5: my husband to come along. In his call to me,

1837
01:30:46,439 --> 01:30:48,320
Speaker 5: my brother talked to me about the woman who's the

1838
01:30:48,400 --> 01:30:50,320
Speaker 5: love of his life and asked me to convince my

1839
01:30:50,400 --> 01:30:52,639
Speaker 5: brother my mother and get her on board.

1840
01:30:52,880 --> 01:30:54,040
Speaker 1: Whoa so real quick?

1841
01:30:54,160 --> 01:30:54,320
Speaker 2: Yes?

1842
01:30:54,439 --> 01:30:57,560
Speaker 1: So now they had broken it off previously, Yes, and

1843
01:30:57,680 --> 01:31:01,120
Speaker 1: now they're all getting together and going back to please

1844
01:31:01,240 --> 01:31:05,040
Speaker 1: their case, like, hey, get with Riley brother number three again.

1845
01:31:05,160 --> 01:31:07,960
Speaker 5: So yeah, A three is bringing all of the men

1846
01:31:08,040 --> 01:31:11,240
Speaker 5: in the family over to April's house to basically propose

1847
01:31:11,320 --> 01:31:14,240
Speaker 5: marriage again. Wow, even though it didn't work the first time.

1848
01:31:14,880 --> 01:31:18,960
Speaker 5: And Brother number three slash Riley, goes to OPI and

1849
01:31:19,120 --> 01:31:21,040
Speaker 5: is like, hey, can I get your support? And then

1850
01:31:21,120 --> 01:31:24,160
Speaker 5: you get mom on our side and yeah, And so

1851
01:31:24,280 --> 01:31:26,720
Speaker 5: that's where we're at the TLDR.

1852
01:31:26,880 --> 01:31:30,040
Speaker 2: Op's brother wants to marry outside their religion and wants

1853
01:31:30,120 --> 01:31:33,320
Speaker 2: ope support, but the family is not on board, and

1854
01:31:33,479 --> 01:31:36,519
Speaker 2: it feels like they're not on board, mostly for cultural differences.

1855
01:31:36,640 --> 01:31:41,240
Speaker 5: Yeah, my mom is vehemently against this marriage, and my

1856
01:31:41,360 --> 01:31:43,920
Speaker 5: sister in laws are in her corner. My father and

1857
01:31:44,040 --> 01:31:46,360
Speaker 5: other brothers are not on board either, but are going

1858
01:31:46,520 --> 01:31:50,280
Speaker 5: for my brother's sake. But here's the kicker. I've met

1859
01:31:50,360 --> 01:31:53,559
Speaker 5: April once, maybe twice. I can't even recall her face

1860
01:31:53,760 --> 01:31:57,639
Speaker 5: much less her personality. Damn, I made much postpartum as

1861
01:31:58,520 --> 01:32:02,120
Speaker 5: and trying to trying to jump my own hurdles. Everything

1862
01:32:02,160 --> 01:32:04,200
Speaker 5: I know about her is from secondary sources, and the

1863
01:32:04,320 --> 01:32:07,960
Speaker 5: information is very polarizing. My brother's presenting her as a

1864
01:32:08,040 --> 01:32:10,479
Speaker 5: saintly and pious woman, and my mother and sister in

1865
01:32:10,560 --> 01:32:13,519
Speaker 5: law say the opposite. How should I vouch for someone

1866
01:32:13,560 --> 01:32:16,920
Speaker 5: I don't know? Also, my mom is stubborn as an ox.

1867
01:32:17,439 --> 01:32:20,400
Speaker 5: She won't budge on this no matter what. She's even

1868
01:32:20,439 --> 01:32:22,400
Speaker 5: said that if he goes through with this, she'll go

1869
01:32:22,560 --> 01:32:23,639
Speaker 5: no contact with him.

1870
01:32:23,800 --> 01:32:26,560
Speaker 2: Oh wow, So they're really serious. They're like, no, she

1871
01:32:26,720 --> 01:32:29,040
Speaker 2: does not deserve to be in this family at all.

1872
01:32:29,560 --> 01:32:32,360
Speaker 5: There's no way to change my mother's decision unless there's

1873
01:32:32,439 --> 01:32:35,559
Speaker 5: a miracle. And if my brother, who's the golden child,

1874
01:32:35,760 --> 01:32:38,800
Speaker 5: the apple of my mother's eye, can't convince her, then

1875
01:32:38,880 --> 01:32:40,080
Speaker 5: what chance do I have?

1876
01:32:41,000 --> 01:32:44,439
Speaker 2: Hmm? Yeah, but I think so. I think it's not like, Oh,

1877
01:32:45,439 --> 01:32:48,519
Speaker 2: I think what Op's responsibility maybe is is not like

1878
01:32:48,640 --> 01:32:51,479
Speaker 2: to convince the mom, but just show that he supports

1879
01:32:51,520 --> 01:32:55,120
Speaker 2: who his brother loves. Yeah, And I think that, like,

1880
01:32:55,360 --> 01:32:57,719
Speaker 2: like I don't, it doesn't sound like he's gonna convince

1881
01:32:57,760 --> 01:32:59,439
Speaker 2: his mom. But what he can do is be like, hey,

1882
01:33:00,080 --> 01:33:03,560
Speaker 2: whatever happens, I will be there for you, whatever your is.

1883
01:33:03,720 --> 01:33:07,120
Speaker 1: Being part of being there going in the the artillery

1884
01:33:07,240 --> 01:33:10,000
Speaker 1: the cavalry to go over there to plead the case

1885
01:33:10,080 --> 01:33:13,200
Speaker 1: and so support him in that in that mission.

1886
01:33:13,680 --> 01:33:16,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I think he can support him from

1887
01:33:16,120 --> 01:33:18,599
Speaker 2: being like I think he should be able to marry

1888
01:33:18,680 --> 01:33:19,719
Speaker 2: whom he loves.

1889
01:33:19,960 --> 01:33:22,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, like basically going to like saying to the mom

1890
01:33:22,600 --> 01:33:24,320
Speaker 1: something like, hey, he should be able to marry who

1891
01:33:24,360 --> 01:33:27,960
Speaker 1: he wants, not but not necessarily obligated to join the

1892
01:33:28,040 --> 01:33:29,280
Speaker 1: cavalry to go plead the.

1893
01:33:29,320 --> 01:33:31,759
Speaker 2: Case because he doesn't I mean, he's right, he doesn't

1894
01:33:31,840 --> 01:33:34,960
Speaker 2: know her or yeah, so she she doesn't know she

1895
01:33:35,040 --> 01:33:37,800
Speaker 2: doesn't know her, so it's like it'll be hard to

1896
01:33:38,720 --> 01:33:43,400
Speaker 2: plead her case specifically, but she knows her brother, and

1897
01:33:43,560 --> 01:33:45,680
Speaker 2: I think and she and I think she knows her

1898
01:33:45,880 --> 01:33:49,960
Speaker 2: brother loves her, so like maybe maybe op he could

1899
01:33:50,040 --> 01:33:52,840
Speaker 2: just plead it from that space where it's like just

1900
01:33:52,960 --> 01:33:53,400
Speaker 2: let him.

1901
01:33:53,360 --> 01:33:56,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, let it be happy, rather than like I know

1902
01:33:56,160 --> 01:33:57,040
Speaker 5: this woman personally.

1903
01:33:57,400 --> 01:34:00,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, And also none of the family really knows her,

1904
01:34:00,920 --> 01:34:03,720
Speaker 2: like to a certain extent, so maybe maybe it's also like.

1905
01:34:05,320 --> 01:34:07,760
Speaker 5: Maybe it seems like the mother and the sister in

1906
01:34:07,880 --> 01:34:09,360
Speaker 5: laws know are a little bit better.

1907
01:34:09,600 --> 01:34:13,320
Speaker 2: Yeah though, yeah so yeah, But let's see more of

1908
01:34:13,439 --> 01:34:13,840
Speaker 2: this story.

1909
01:34:13,880 --> 01:34:17,479
Speaker 5: A little bit left of the story. My brother has

1910
01:34:17,560 --> 01:34:20,400
Speaker 5: burned all his bridges with the other family members over

1911
01:34:20,439 --> 01:34:23,719
Speaker 5: the past few months, said many horrible and inconsiderate things

1912
01:34:23,760 --> 01:34:26,240
Speaker 5: to my sister in laws, which also added to their

1913
01:34:26,320 --> 01:34:29,720
Speaker 5: dislike of the situation. The meeting day came and went.

1914
01:34:30,080 --> 01:34:32,040
Speaker 5: My baby was sick, so I didn't go to the meetup.

1915
01:34:32,240 --> 01:34:34,600
Speaker 5: I have decided to take a neutral stance on the

1916
01:34:34,640 --> 01:34:38,439
Speaker 5: whole subject. Also, more drama unfolded after the meeting. Turns

1917
01:34:38,439 --> 01:34:41,479
Speaker 5: out April's family aren't too happy about this marriage either.

1918
01:34:42,080 --> 01:34:44,360
Speaker 5: April has warned my brother that if our mom's not

1919
01:34:44,479 --> 01:34:48,040
Speaker 5: on board, then her family won't let the marriage go through. Oh,

1920
01:34:48,680 --> 01:34:51,160
Speaker 5: the mother of the groom is held in high regard

1921
01:34:51,280 --> 01:34:53,800
Speaker 5: in her culture. Part of me wonders why they don't

1922
01:34:53,840 --> 01:34:56,479
Speaker 5: give up. Surely this many hiccups are assigned that maybe

1923
01:34:56,520 --> 01:34:57,160
Speaker 5: they aren't meant to.

1924
01:34:57,160 --> 01:34:59,120
Speaker 2: Be because they love each other.

1925
01:35:02,960 --> 01:35:05,680
Speaker 5: Another bart of me wonders how my brother could be

1926
01:35:05,760 --> 01:35:07,519
Speaker 5: so stupid in the handling of this matter.

1927
01:35:08,280 --> 01:35:11,640
Speaker 2: Oh, man, yeah, they have. Both families are against each other.

1928
01:35:11,680 --> 01:35:14,960
Speaker 2: It's like Romeo and Juliet. It's truly Romeo and Juliet.

1929
01:35:15,000 --> 01:35:17,680
Speaker 2: Hopefully they don't both die at the end, hopefully and

1930
01:35:17,760 --> 01:35:20,160
Speaker 2: shout out sandwich or the five bucks just got stood

1931
01:35:20,200 --> 01:35:22,040
Speaker 2: up on my by my date. So thank you so

1932
01:35:22,160 --> 01:35:24,720
Speaker 2: much for the stream. It's cheering me up more than

1933
01:35:24,760 --> 01:35:27,040
Speaker 2: you know. While I'm inhaling a tub of ben and

1934
01:35:27,160 --> 01:35:31,120
Speaker 2: Jerry's well, that date is terrible, but hey, you're on

1935
01:35:31,200 --> 01:35:31,639
Speaker 2: a date.

1936
01:35:31,520 --> 01:35:34,599
Speaker 5: With us, so you know what he's he has avoided

1937
01:35:34,680 --> 01:35:36,760
Speaker 5: attachment issues, but we're here for you.

1938
01:35:38,840 --> 01:35:41,360
Speaker 2: We're at least anxiously attached to you, So you're welcome.

1939
01:35:44,200 --> 01:35:44,479
Speaker 5: God.

1940
01:35:45,479 --> 01:35:46,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, so what do you well? All, I got a

1941
01:35:46,880 --> 01:35:49,000
Speaker 2: couple questions. I got a couple of questions. So and

1942
01:35:49,080 --> 01:35:52,920
Speaker 2: this just for chat too. So do we think that

1943
01:35:53,600 --> 01:35:56,920
Speaker 2: the brother Riley should still be pursuing April even though

1944
01:35:56,960 --> 01:35:58,800
Speaker 2: both their families are kind of against it.

1945
01:36:00,680 --> 01:36:03,920
Speaker 5: I think it's really difficult because I mean I've never

1946
01:36:04,000 --> 01:36:08,920
Speaker 5: had to experience this kind of like cultural like you know,

1947
01:36:09,360 --> 01:36:10,080
Speaker 5: just cultural thing.

1948
01:36:10,200 --> 01:36:14,280
Speaker 2: Chloe Clark, thanks for the hundred bucks. Love overcomes all

1949
01:36:14,400 --> 01:36:17,640
Speaker 2: of this story, just like my love for y'all overcomes

1950
01:36:17,720 --> 01:36:18,439
Speaker 2: any studying.

1951
01:36:18,560 --> 01:36:22,080
Speaker 1: I often I'm talking about Hey, Chloe, I'm hurrying on it.

1952
01:36:22,800 --> 01:36:25,320
Speaker 2: I mean, apparently people study us, so maybe maybe you

1953
01:36:25,360 --> 01:36:28,320
Speaker 2: can study what I don't. I don't get it either.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I really say, yeah, I think it's hard when

1955
01:36:31,240 --> 01:36:34,000
Speaker 5: you have like cultural things to consider. But I think

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01:36:34,640 --> 01:36:37,600
Speaker 5: I guess if he chooses to pursue it, then he

1957
01:36:37,680 --> 01:36:42,000
Speaker 5: has to recognize that it's going to affect his family

1958
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Speaker 5: or in his relationship with his family.

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Speaker 2: I think what Op can say is like, hey, this

1960
01:36:47,560 --> 01:36:49,160
Speaker 2: is I think this is what I would do if

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01:36:49,240 --> 01:36:52,880
Speaker 2: I was in this situation and if Sophia was going

1962
01:36:53,120 --> 01:36:57,600
Speaker 2: for a love that was against our familial or our parents' desires.

1963
01:36:57,880 --> 01:37:01,120
Speaker 2: But I would say, like, Sophia, you know, love who

1964
01:37:01,160 --> 01:37:03,880
Speaker 2: you want to love. I don't. I think Mom will

1965
01:37:03,920 --> 01:37:06,200
Speaker 2: diszone you potentially, and I will work to maybe not

1966
01:37:06,680 --> 01:37:09,759
Speaker 2: have that happen, but just know that I'm like always

1967
01:37:09,800 --> 01:37:11,880
Speaker 2: in your corner no matter what, right. And I think

1968
01:37:11,960 --> 01:37:14,760
Speaker 2: that's what Yeah, that's what I would say. And I

1969
01:37:14,840 --> 01:37:17,840
Speaker 2: think like that's what OPI could say to her brother.

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01:37:17,920 --> 01:37:19,720
Speaker 2: It's like, hey, like this is the follow up that

1971
01:37:19,840 --> 01:37:21,800
Speaker 2: might happen if you pursue this person, So like be

1972
01:37:21,920 --> 01:37:24,599
Speaker 2: prepared for these consequences, But just know that I will

1973
01:37:24,640 --> 01:37:27,160
Speaker 2: always love you, and I will always be there for you,

1974
01:37:27,280 --> 01:37:30,040
Speaker 2: and I will always like, like, no matter what, be

1975
01:37:30,120 --> 01:37:30,599
Speaker 2: in your corner.

1976
01:37:30,760 --> 01:37:34,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like it's like your responsibility. It's I think

1977
01:37:34,160 --> 01:37:36,840
Speaker 1: it's your responsibility to be a good sibling. It is

1978
01:37:37,000 --> 01:37:40,960
Speaker 1: not your responsibility to make their relationship work exactly.

1979
01:37:41,040 --> 01:37:44,320
Speaker 2: And it's impossible. It's impossible. You can't. You can't. You

1980
01:37:44,439 --> 01:37:47,000
Speaker 2: can't change someone's mind. But what you can do is

1981
01:37:47,439 --> 01:37:49,559
Speaker 2: love your sibling with every fiber of their being.

1982
01:37:49,720 --> 01:37:57,160
Speaker 1: Boom beautiful, Oh and Aoki with a twenty seven ninety

1983
01:37:57,200 --> 01:38:00,559
Speaker 1: nine Canadian donation. I got paired with my big girl's

1984
01:38:00,680 --> 01:38:04,559
Speaker 1: job presence. Uh re getting sent next big payday?

1985
01:38:04,600 --> 01:38:07,320
Speaker 5: Wait wait oh I got paid for my big girl job.

1986
01:38:07,840 --> 01:38:09,559
Speaker 5: Presents are getting sent next pay day?

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01:38:10,000 --> 01:38:14,840
Speaker 2: Oh there we go, There we go. Oh wait, like

1988
01:38:15,040 --> 01:38:17,320
Speaker 2: presents to are boss.

1989
01:38:18,080 --> 01:38:21,439
Speaker 1: Let's fucking go because anyone sent anything yet. By the way,

1990
01:38:21,520 --> 01:38:23,920
Speaker 1: me and Riley haven't got the notifications yet, so very curious.

1991
01:38:24,120 --> 01:38:26,240
Speaker 6: But I'm kind of disappointed that UPS wasn't like, hey,

1992
01:38:26,640 --> 01:38:29,639
Speaker 6: this is where you get text from. I don't know, yes, guy,

1993
01:38:29,840 --> 01:38:30,960
Speaker 6: I don't think he likes us.

1994
01:38:31,000 --> 01:38:32,760
Speaker 1: I don't think so he's about to know us very well.

1995
01:38:32,800 --> 01:38:35,360
Speaker 2: Wait, who does like us? O? Cassie A. Miller. Thanks

1996
01:38:35,400 --> 01:38:37,160
Speaker 2: for the five bucks. I am so proud of the

1997
01:38:37,320 --> 01:38:40,479
Speaker 2: growth of this channel. I've been watching since the beginning.

1998
01:38:40,920 --> 01:38:45,040
Speaker 2: That's freaking awesome. Wait, wait before we announce that, Barbie

1999
01:38:45,320 --> 01:38:51,200
Speaker 2: RT even number gang, Thank you Barbie RT. But the

2000
01:38:51,400 --> 01:38:58,120
Speaker 2: King has arrived. The King has arrived, King Frederick two

2001
01:38:58,360 --> 01:39:03,160
Speaker 2: hundred dollars super chat. Wow, King Frederick the third?

2002
01:39:03,360 --> 01:39:03,599
Speaker 3: Wow.

2003
01:39:04,160 --> 01:39:07,880
Speaker 2: Goodness. Once again, it looks like we're gonna get another hour.

2004
01:39:08,000 --> 01:39:09,400
Speaker 1: How regal?

2005
01:39:09,760 --> 01:39:15,120
Speaker 2: How legal? Egal? You King? You pang Frederick? King Frederick?

2006
01:39:15,600 --> 01:39:19,280
Speaker 2: Back at it again, But we're because of King Frederick,

2007
01:39:19,800 --> 01:39:21,479
Speaker 2: We're gonna get back at it against right.

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01:39:21,640 --> 01:39:21,840
Speaker 5: Yeah?

2009
01:39:22,000 --> 01:39:23,040
Speaker 1: Is it another hour yet?

2010
01:39:23,640 --> 01:39:24,080
Speaker 3: Not yet?

2011
01:39:24,200 --> 01:39:27,719
Speaker 2: But we got another twenty minutes, I mean almost definitely,

2012
01:39:27,800 --> 01:39:31,719
Speaker 2: we're gonna make it to another hour. But who's reading

2013
01:39:31,800 --> 01:39:35,479
Speaker 2: this next one? Riley? I just read Daddy Jesse with

2014
01:39:35,640 --> 01:39:40,000
Speaker 2: a twenty three thirty eight tip getting its over one thousand.

2015
01:39:40,080 --> 01:39:42,800
Speaker 2: We got another hour for y'all and Naira, thanks for

2016
01:39:42,880 --> 01:39:45,680
Speaker 2: the five dollars. We are always at the y'all are

2017
01:39:45,680 --> 01:39:49,400
Speaker 2: always the light working on my original day off. You're

2018
01:39:49,439 --> 01:39:51,960
Speaker 2: making the shift fly by faster. Thank you, I e

2019
01:39:52,040 --> 01:39:55,880
Speaker 2: fing love you guys. Here's my offering to the worm queen.

2020
01:39:56,000 --> 01:39:57,400
Speaker 2: Thank you, yeah, I love you back.

2021
01:39:57,720 --> 01:40:01,000
Speaker 1: That's right, And shall we to two the next story?

2022
01:40:01,000 --> 01:40:06,080
Speaker 1: I think it's me uh and it is S three

2023
01:40:06,560 --> 01:40:07,000
Speaker 1: S three.

2024
01:40:07,240 --> 01:40:10,599
Speaker 2: Also shout out Daddy Jesse and King Frederick for carrying

2025
01:40:10,720 --> 01:40:13,920
Speaker 2: the stream the absolute goats, Absolute goats.

2026
01:40:15,600 --> 01:40:18,640
Speaker 1: Chat salute in the chat. W in the chat for

2027
01:40:19,400 --> 01:40:20,680
Speaker 1: Frederick and Jesse, guys, W.

2028
01:40:20,880 --> 01:40:26,400
Speaker 2: Crowns in the chat for King Frederick, and I mustaches

2029
01:40:26,479 --> 01:40:30,120
Speaker 2: Daddy mustaches in the uh the chat for Daddy Jesse.

2030
01:40:30,080 --> 01:40:32,000
Speaker 1: Crowns and mustaches drop him. I want to see him.

2031
01:40:32,120 --> 01:40:35,519
Speaker 1: But let's get into this next story that is not

2032
01:40:35,600 --> 01:40:37,080
Speaker 1: as three. What episode are we in?

2033
01:40:39,240 --> 01:40:40,960
Speaker 2: We are in three?

2034
01:40:43,200 --> 01:40:46,000
Speaker 1: There we go three S three. That's that's the ticket,

2035
01:40:46,080 --> 01:40:48,840
Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. And the ticket is this, which is

2036
01:40:49,840 --> 01:40:52,960
Speaker 1: am I the a whole for breaking my breaking up

2037
01:40:53,040 --> 01:40:58,120
Speaker 1: my engagement because my fiance isn't traditional enough, traditional enough? Interesting?

2038
01:40:58,400 --> 01:41:00,599
Speaker 2: Oh wow? Are the Are these like a tradition stories

2039
01:41:00,640 --> 01:41:03,439
Speaker 2: of like talking about like families with traditional values and stuff?

2040
01:41:03,520 --> 01:41:05,000
Speaker 2: This might be. It feels like that's what it is.

2041
01:41:05,120 --> 01:41:08,080
Speaker 1: We're going to see from what e. River, who says

2042
01:41:08,439 --> 01:41:11,680
Speaker 1: a little background. I twenty six female, come from a

2043
01:41:12,000 --> 01:41:15,280
Speaker 1: relatively traditional Asian family, so sorry in advance for any

2044
01:41:15,320 --> 01:41:18,560
Speaker 1: bad English. My father owns a red wine brewery and

2045
01:41:18,800 --> 01:41:21,120
Speaker 1: my mother helps him with it. Even though I said,

2046
01:41:21,160 --> 01:41:23,679
Speaker 1: my family is pretty much conservative from what I've seen

2047
01:41:23,720 --> 01:41:26,600
Speaker 1: growing up, my father never told my mother to do

2048
01:41:26,720 --> 01:41:28,960
Speaker 1: all the chores and he helps her with them. My

2049
01:41:29,080 --> 01:41:31,920
Speaker 1: father always says that he couldn't provide for the family

2050
01:41:32,000 --> 01:41:35,080
Speaker 1: alone and that she my mom, also has to work.

2051
01:41:35,520 --> 01:41:37,960
Speaker 1: That's why he never expected her to do everything in

2052
01:41:38,040 --> 01:41:41,639
Speaker 1: the house chores wise. But we are thankful to Tragically

2053
01:41:41,680 --> 01:41:43,800
Speaker 1: Sharp for the five dollars donation. I discovered you guys

2054
01:41:43,840 --> 01:41:45,880
Speaker 1: on TikTok and fell in love. I want to hear

2055
01:41:46,000 --> 01:41:50,160
Speaker 1: all the tea from you for Tragically Sharp. You're tragically incredible. Okay,

2056
01:41:50,240 --> 01:41:52,960
Speaker 1: thank you. It is tragic how awesome you are, except

2057
01:41:52,960 --> 01:41:57,600
Speaker 1: it's great. Just like how they share family responsibilities to

2058
01:41:57,720 --> 01:42:01,120
Speaker 1: earn for our family, my parents also responsibilities taking care

2059
01:42:01,120 --> 01:42:04,439
Speaker 1: of the household. Now come my fiance, twenty nine male.

2060
01:42:04,800 --> 01:42:07,400
Speaker 1: We met on social media and he's an American currently

2061
01:42:07,479 --> 01:42:10,000
Speaker 1: working in my country. We've been dating for three years

2062
01:42:10,040 --> 01:42:13,080
Speaker 1: and we've been engaged for five months. Congrats. He always

2063
01:42:13,160 --> 01:42:15,840
Speaker 1: tells me that he's looking for a traditional woman and

2064
01:42:16,200 --> 01:42:16,600
Speaker 1: wanted to.

2065
01:42:16,680 --> 01:42:23,440
Speaker 2: Date passport for passport bro shout out to a previous episode.

2066
01:42:23,080 --> 01:42:25,040
Speaker 1: Yes, comment passor bro in the comments if you think

2067
01:42:25,080 --> 01:42:26,800
Speaker 1: that's what it is. We'll break it down and this

2068
01:42:26,920 --> 01:42:27,400
Speaker 1: I just know if you.

2069
01:42:27,360 --> 01:42:29,280
Speaker 2: Don't know what a passport bro is actually yeah, Sofia,

2070
01:42:29,360 --> 01:42:30,599
Speaker 2: maybe a quick quick definition.

2071
01:42:30,800 --> 01:42:34,800
Speaker 5: A passport bro is someone who usually American man, who

2072
01:42:34,880 --> 01:42:41,080
Speaker 5: travels to a country, usually low income country, looking for

2073
01:42:41,400 --> 01:42:43,240
Speaker 5: traditional women to date.

2074
01:42:43,560 --> 01:42:44,559
Speaker 1: Indeed or Mary.

2075
01:42:44,880 --> 01:42:48,200
Speaker 2: But it sounds like this might be slightly different because

2076
01:42:48,720 --> 01:42:52,440
Speaker 2: this person is a it comes from a traditional family looking.

2077
01:42:52,320 --> 01:42:55,920
Speaker 5: For no no, no American man yeaking for it.

2078
01:42:56,080 --> 01:42:58,920
Speaker 2: So maybe this person isn't a passport bro because they

2079
01:42:58,920 --> 01:43:00,759
Speaker 2: come from a traditional family looking traditional.

2080
01:43:00,960 --> 01:43:04,920
Speaker 1: Possibly also so they mentioned I believe it's yeah, Oh

2081
01:43:05,280 --> 01:43:06,679
Speaker 1: he's a woman. Yeah, he's a woman.

2082
01:43:06,760 --> 01:43:09,240
Speaker 2: Yes, wait who wait for.

2083
01:43:09,320 --> 01:43:13,599
Speaker 1: Fiance might be a past America he's from America coming

2084
01:43:13,640 --> 01:43:17,800
Speaker 1: into the Asian country. But also note so this is

2085
01:43:17,960 --> 01:43:26,080
Speaker 1: translated traditional possibly might be conservative switch potentially potentially Yeah,

2086
01:43:26,120 --> 01:43:28,880
Speaker 1: we'll see, but shout out to forget for Sophie two dollars.

2087
01:43:28,920 --> 01:43:31,400
Speaker 1: Also part of the okaf fan growth. Go off, you

2088
01:43:31,479 --> 01:43:31,960
Speaker 1: go off, forget.

2089
01:43:32,680 --> 01:43:35,200
Speaker 2: It's gonna get crazy. It's it's gonna get crazy.

2090
01:43:35,280 --> 01:43:36,799
Speaker 5: We're going to grow like Clifford.

2091
01:43:37,120 --> 01:43:39,880
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, but.

2092
01:43:39,960 --> 01:43:43,600
Speaker 1: Dogs a Fione. We're putting a T L d R

2093
01:43:43,760 --> 01:43:45,960
Speaker 1: the Chad just for you, Fiona, courtesy of Sam.

2094
01:43:47,080 --> 01:43:47,120
Speaker 8: So.

2095
01:43:47,560 --> 01:43:50,160
Speaker 1: He always tells me he's looking for a traditional woman

2096
01:43:50,360 --> 01:43:53,439
Speaker 1: and once to date with marriage and mind. He said

2097
01:43:53,760 --> 01:43:56,800
Speaker 1: that women who are able, who are able to take

2098
01:43:56,840 --> 01:43:59,599
Speaker 1: care of a household and children and children wearing are

2099
01:43:59,640 --> 01:44:02,639
Speaker 1: ad And I always agree with him without much thought

2100
01:44:02,720 --> 01:44:04,639
Speaker 1: because that's an incredible feat.

2101
01:44:04,880 --> 01:44:07,880
Speaker 2: Right question, manky it is. I love incredible feet, and

2102
01:44:07,960 --> 01:44:10,760
Speaker 2: I guess so does the ok OPI fam. If you've

2103
01:44:10,760 --> 01:44:13,840
Speaker 2: seen our discord at all, it's a little bananas. But

2104
01:44:13,920 --> 01:44:16,920
Speaker 2: Barbie r T shout out for the one hundred Mexican pesos.

2105
01:44:17,040 --> 01:44:18,800
Speaker 2: I would have spent this on junk food. So you

2106
01:44:18,880 --> 01:44:19,920
Speaker 2: are helping me eat healthier.

2107
01:44:20,040 --> 01:44:20,759
Speaker 5: You're so welcome.

2108
01:44:20,800 --> 01:44:21,479
Speaker 1: Well that's interesting.

2109
01:44:22,320 --> 01:44:28,439
Speaker 2: So it worked, okay, shout out to Riley for fixing

2110
01:44:28,520 --> 01:44:31,680
Speaker 2: the bar. Man has been working like day and night

2111
01:44:32,160 --> 01:44:33,040
Speaker 2: make this bar work.

2112
01:44:33,120 --> 01:44:36,200
Speaker 6: And Mohammad, yeah, thank you, thank you.

2113
01:44:36,360 --> 01:44:36,600
Speaker 1: They did.

2114
01:44:36,720 --> 01:44:39,040
Speaker 2: We did it, lads, and gentlemen, thanks for Barbie Barbie art,

2115
01:44:39,240 --> 01:44:40,000
Speaker 2: you're the one.

2116
01:44:39,880 --> 01:44:40,400
Speaker 1: That tested it.

2117
01:44:40,479 --> 01:44:42,840
Speaker 2: And yeah using the chat for Riley.

2118
01:44:42,640 --> 01:44:45,320
Speaker 6: For being show them piggies since you mentioned feet too.

2119
01:44:45,400 --> 01:44:46,800
Speaker 2: Oh boy, maybe not.

2120
01:44:48,280 --> 01:44:48,880
Speaker 3: That was so.

2121
01:44:50,320 --> 01:44:53,160
Speaker 1: So he's working in a small university and I'm currently

2122
01:44:53,240 --> 01:44:55,720
Speaker 1: working in a hospital. We saved enough money to buy

2123
01:44:55,720 --> 01:44:57,679
Speaker 1: a house with a little bit of help from my parents.

2124
01:44:58,040 --> 01:45:02,160
Speaker 1: But we've moved in together, uh though because oh but

2125
01:45:02,280 --> 01:45:06,360
Speaker 1: we haven't moved in together though, because you know, Asian parents. Anyways,

2126
01:45:06,560 --> 01:45:09,280
Speaker 1: on my father's birthday last week, we talked about marriage

2127
01:45:09,360 --> 01:45:12,880
Speaker 1: once again. He doesn't think his income alone would be

2128
01:45:13,040 --> 01:45:15,320
Speaker 1: enough for after our marriage. I think this is the

2129
01:45:15,360 --> 01:45:18,480
Speaker 1: father talking and it's giving him insecurities. So I suggested

2130
01:45:18,680 --> 01:45:23,439
Speaker 1: that I'm sorry, Thank you, Sophia. So I suggested that

2131
01:45:23,520 --> 01:45:25,920
Speaker 1: I keep working after marriage. And that's not a problem

2132
01:45:26,000 --> 01:45:28,040
Speaker 1: because you know, we would be partners. We'd be doing

2133
01:45:28,160 --> 01:45:31,720
Speaker 1: this together in a relationship. My father also offered that

2134
01:45:31,840 --> 01:45:34,800
Speaker 1: we take over his brewery. Oh that's great. And while

2135
01:45:34,840 --> 01:45:37,760
Speaker 1: I found that idea lovely, my fiance, on the other hand,

2136
01:45:38,240 --> 01:45:42,120
Speaker 1: seemed hesitant. Why but he agreed that I should keep

2137
01:45:42,160 --> 01:45:45,040
Speaker 1: my job. Do we have a stinky man?

2138
01:45:45,240 --> 01:45:45,920
Speaker 2: Do we have a stinky.

2139
01:45:46,040 --> 01:45:48,679
Speaker 1: Do we think he's a sticky stinky or not I don't.

2140
01:45:48,479 --> 01:45:51,800
Speaker 2: See stinkiness yet, or no, I don't see stinkiness. What's

2141
01:45:51,840 --> 01:45:54,720
Speaker 2: the stinky possible So I think the stink I see

2142
01:45:54,720 --> 01:45:55,439
Speaker 2: where this is going.

2143
01:45:55,560 --> 01:45:59,519
Speaker 1: Yes, so the possible stinkiness is he's like, uh, you

2144
01:46:00,200 --> 01:46:02,400
Speaker 1: cannot work. You need to be home, you need to

2145
01:46:02,400 --> 01:46:03,040
Speaker 1: be doing the choice.

2146
01:46:03,080 --> 01:46:04,479
Speaker 2: But he's saying that she can't work.

2147
01:46:05,040 --> 01:46:07,679
Speaker 5: I'm seeing another stink but I won't reveal my moment.

2148
01:46:07,760 --> 01:46:10,040
Speaker 2: I'm saying that she can work.

2149
01:46:10,160 --> 01:46:11,559
Speaker 1: I think it's one of you know how we've seen

2150
01:46:11,640 --> 01:46:13,439
Speaker 1: situations before where they're like, oh, you can't do this,

2151
01:46:13,520 --> 01:46:15,240
Speaker 1: but I'll let you do this, and then later they're like, oh,

2152
01:46:15,280 --> 01:46:16,000
Speaker 1: I didn't want you to do.

2153
01:46:16,200 --> 01:46:16,760
Speaker 2: X the whole time.

2154
01:46:16,960 --> 01:46:19,680
Speaker 5: Norm see I think seeing what I'm seeing what.

2155
01:46:20,120 --> 01:46:23,160
Speaker 2: He wants a traditional wife without being a traditional husband.

2156
01:46:23,240 --> 01:46:23,920
Speaker 2: Stinky man?

2157
01:46:24,439 --> 01:46:24,760
Speaker 1: What is that?

2158
01:46:25,040 --> 01:46:25,240
Speaker 8: What? What?

2159
01:46:25,439 --> 01:46:25,479
Speaker 3: What?

2160
01:46:25,680 --> 01:46:26,960
Speaker 2: What part does he want traditional?

2161
01:46:28,000 --> 01:46:29,719
Speaker 1: That she doesn't see other people?

2162
01:46:29,760 --> 01:46:34,320
Speaker 2: What he does is that No, you'll find out, well, Sophia,

2163
01:46:34,320 --> 01:46:36,120
Speaker 2: I feel like Sophia knows this story, so I do.

2164
01:46:36,200 --> 01:46:37,679
Speaker 2: I don't want to that's true.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well what do you what do you think that

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01:46:41,800 --> 01:46:44,360
Speaker 1: was I don't necessarily think that's the case, but I'm

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01:46:44,920 --> 01:46:48,680
Speaker 1: you know, that possibly could be where we're leading where

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01:46:48,720 --> 01:46:50,479
Speaker 1: he like says like, oh, you can work, but just

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01:46:50,520 --> 01:46:53,040
Speaker 1: don't work at your dad's thing. And then he's like, actually,

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01:46:53,400 --> 01:46:55,439
Speaker 1: I don't want you working at all and you can't work.

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01:46:55,520 --> 01:46:58,520
Speaker 1: That was my suspicion of what possibly.

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01:46:58,400 --> 01:47:03,120
Speaker 2: Could But he's saying, oh, you can work for yourself,

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01:47:03,600 --> 01:47:05,720
Speaker 2: but he's like reticent about working at the dads.

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01:47:05,880 --> 01:47:07,599
Speaker 1: You can work at your current company, but you can't

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01:47:07,600 --> 01:47:09,840
Speaker 1: take over your dads is what he's saying. Right now,

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01:47:10,600 --> 01:47:11,320
Speaker 1: your current job.

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01:47:11,680 --> 01:47:14,880
Speaker 2: You can't take over my dad's or his. It's O's father,

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01:47:15,040 --> 01:47:17,400
Speaker 2: it's Op's father, Yes, that is doing the brewery.

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01:47:17,600 --> 01:47:19,960
Speaker 1: Yes, And so Opie's father's like, hey, you guys, if

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01:47:20,000 --> 01:47:22,400
Speaker 1: you want to take over, and probably mostly to Op,

2181
01:47:22,680 --> 01:47:24,479
Speaker 1: like hey, if you want to take over the brewery,

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01:47:24,600 --> 01:47:26,200
Speaker 1: like go ahead to support yourselves.

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01:47:26,439 --> 01:47:32,720
Speaker 2: Oh, and like Op is like an Ope's fiance is like, no,

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01:47:32,800 --> 01:47:34,599
Speaker 2: I don't want you taking over that don't take people

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01:47:34,640 --> 01:47:37,400
Speaker 2: in the comments. Oh he doesn't. Yeah, he doesn't want

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01:47:37,400 --> 01:47:38,720
Speaker 2: to be outshines his cat. M.

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01:47:39,040 --> 01:47:40,920
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, there we go. That's a much better way

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01:47:40,920 --> 01:47:42,200
Speaker 1: of Yeah, yes.

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01:47:42,200 --> 01:47:45,519
Speaker 2: As the breadwinner because okay, yeah, Noah says Sam needs

2190
01:47:45,520 --> 01:47:48,640
Speaker 2: a TLDR. Honestly, I think I do, Guys, I'd be

2191
01:47:48,720 --> 01:47:52,439
Speaker 2: needing tldrs like crazy. Okay, it's also a question for y'all,

2192
01:47:52,560 --> 01:47:55,120
Speaker 2: would you so right now we have the TLDR coming

2193
01:47:55,240 --> 01:47:57,160
Speaker 2: up like every once in a while, would you like

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01:47:57,240 --> 01:48:01,880
Speaker 2: the TLDR to always be there like right here? Let

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01:48:01,960 --> 01:48:04,200
Speaker 2: us know? Yeah, But the husband wants a traditional wife

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01:48:04,280 --> 01:48:06,840
Speaker 2: but also wants him to work.

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01:48:07,120 --> 01:48:07,559
Speaker 11: Her to work.

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01:48:07,760 --> 01:48:12,160
Speaker 1: Yes, it seems so far. This is where the first

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01:48:12,320 --> 01:48:15,120
Speaker 1: problem started. I told him that since I have to work,

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01:48:15,400 --> 01:48:17,680
Speaker 1: then I expect that he will also help out with

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01:48:17,760 --> 01:48:20,000
Speaker 1: the household chores later, because remember they're not moved in

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01:48:20,120 --> 01:48:22,960
Speaker 1: just yet. After I said that, he suddenly got irritated.

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01:48:23,320 --> 01:48:25,280
Speaker 1: He said that he had been telling me he's looking

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01:48:25,320 --> 01:48:27,479
Speaker 1: for a traditional woman and that now he.

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01:48:27,560 --> 01:48:35,480
Speaker 2: Had been done, done, done, catfish. He had been catfishish.

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01:48:34,200 --> 01:48:37,519
Speaker 5: Because she asked him to chip in because they're both working,

2207
01:48:37,800 --> 01:48:39,439
Speaker 5: and he's like, well, I wanted you to be a

2208
01:48:39,520 --> 01:48:42,400
Speaker 5: traditional woman and do all the housework, but.

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Speaker 2: He said that it would be okay if she worked.

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01:48:45,360 --> 01:48:47,760
Speaker 5: He no, he wants her to work, but he also

2211
01:48:47,880 --> 01:48:49,680
Speaker 5: wants her to do all of the housework too.

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01:48:49,800 --> 01:48:50,000
Speaker 2: Yeah.

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01:48:50,120 --> 01:48:52,439
Speaker 1: Not he does not want to contribute.

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01:48:52,040 --> 01:48:58,040
Speaker 5: To she's saying, but we're both working, so it doesn't.

2215
01:49:00,160 --> 01:49:02,519
Speaker 1: He wants her to do like motherly duties.

2216
01:49:05,240 --> 01:49:08,200
Speaker 2: I smell the stink. Is this is real?

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01:49:08,960 --> 01:49:09,479
Speaker 1: That's right?

2218
01:49:11,320 --> 01:49:11,439
Speaker 8: Oh?

2219
01:49:11,600 --> 01:49:14,320
Speaker 1: Also, Barbiert Barbie Art with the five dollars, less than

2220
01:49:14,360 --> 01:49:16,720
Speaker 1: five hundred likes on the stream and over seven hundred viewers,

2221
01:49:16,720 --> 01:49:19,840
Speaker 1: shake my head. Come on, Barbie Art, you're bringing up

2222
01:49:19,840 --> 01:49:20,400
Speaker 1: a great point here.

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01:49:20,520 --> 01:49:21,479
Speaker 5: You say shake my head.

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01:49:22,240 --> 01:49:23,160
Speaker 1: I did say shake my head.

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01:49:23,479 --> 01:49:25,679
Speaker 5: Oh see, I interpret that as so much hate.

2226
01:49:26,520 --> 01:49:29,720
Speaker 2: Nomh is definitely shaking my head.

2227
01:49:29,720 --> 01:49:31,200
Speaker 5: I've always been told it's so much hate?

2228
01:49:31,560 --> 01:49:31,880
Speaker 1: All right?

2229
01:49:32,040 --> 01:49:33,720
Speaker 2: Is it so much hate? Or shake my head?

2230
01:49:33,760 --> 01:49:34,560
Speaker 1: I'm praying.

2231
01:49:35,800 --> 01:49:37,240
Speaker 2: No, it's definitely shake my head.

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01:49:37,320 --> 01:49:37,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's got to be.

2233
01:49:38,400 --> 01:49:39,360
Speaker 2: There's no way you're right.

2234
01:49:39,520 --> 01:49:40,840
Speaker 5: I've always done so much hate.

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01:49:40,920 --> 01:49:43,840
Speaker 2: There's no way, Like, there's like a zero chance of

2236
01:49:43,920 --> 01:49:46,679
Speaker 2: you being right right now. I think it's regional, because

2237
01:49:46,880 --> 01:49:50,320
Speaker 2: if it is, then my whole world would turn upside down.

2238
01:49:50,840 --> 01:49:52,880
Speaker 1: One so much hate, one out of like.

2239
01:49:53,400 --> 01:49:54,920
Speaker 2: And they said I think so much.

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Speaker 5: I think, but yeah, but maybe those are people who

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01:49:57,160 --> 01:49:57,760
Speaker 5: are closer to you.

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01:49:57,840 --> 01:50:00,320
Speaker 2: Guys, shake my head. Do we have any gen z

2243
01:50:00,479 --> 01:50:04,120
Speaker 2: people that say shape Lego? Queen Jen going to have

2244
01:50:04,240 --> 01:50:06,880
Speaker 2: to go to sleep after midnight in England. Will catch

2245
01:50:06,960 --> 01:50:10,479
Speaker 2: up on my next Lego day. Keep up the great work.

2246
01:50:10,520 --> 01:50:11,880
Speaker 2: Love you guys. Hey, we love Leo.

2247
01:50:12,040 --> 01:50:14,120
Speaker 5: We had one person who was on my I'm not

2248
01:50:14,200 --> 01:50:15,840
Speaker 5: saying you guys are wrong. I'm just saying that's what

2249
01:50:15,960 --> 01:50:17,920
Speaker 5: I was like, this is what I've been grown up with.

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Speaker 1: Dude.

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01:50:19,000 --> 01:50:22,519
Speaker 6: That is so concerning because I didn't take out the

2252
01:50:22,560 --> 01:50:24,960
Speaker 6: trash and she said, hey, take out the trash shape.

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01:50:25,040 --> 01:50:25,439
Speaker 3: S m h.

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01:50:27,160 --> 01:50:32,920
Speaker 6: You said so much hate when sometime damn, I was like,

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01:50:33,000 --> 01:50:33,519
Speaker 6: shake my head.

2256
01:50:33,560 --> 01:50:34,559
Speaker 1: I was like, oh you're gonna need.

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01:50:36,040 --> 01:50:40,559
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, the trash.

2258
01:50:40,680 --> 01:50:41,360
Speaker 2: So much hate.

2259
01:50:43,160 --> 01:50:45,400
Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like Sophia. So first she

2260
01:50:46,439 --> 01:50:49,840
Speaker 1: got the the wrong interpretation, but she sees everyone else

2261
01:50:50,000 --> 01:50:53,519
Speaker 1: using it, so it's like it lost it. Yeah yeah,

2262
01:50:54,960 --> 01:50:59,679
Speaker 1: but that's that's hate. That's a lot of hate.

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01:50:59,680 --> 01:51:04,719
Speaker 2: Though I kind of do like so much, like shake

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01:51:04,800 --> 01:51:08,639
Speaker 2: my head, like so much hate. Yeah, but you would

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01:51:08,680 --> 01:51:11,280
Speaker 2: say so much hate to someone like like, but as

2266
01:51:11,320 --> 01:51:13,639
Speaker 2: I realize what that means, that really that you're saying

2267
01:51:14,000 --> 01:51:18,280
Speaker 2: for so much hate. If you say you didn't take. No,

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01:51:18,479 --> 01:51:20,519
Speaker 2: not that I don't like it. There is so much

2269
01:51:20,560 --> 01:51:21,479
Speaker 2: hate in my heart for you.

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01:51:21,840 --> 01:51:25,960
Speaker 5: Are you physically laughing out loud?

2271
01:51:27,040 --> 01:51:27,080
Speaker 8: No?

2272
01:51:29,120 --> 01:51:31,959
Speaker 2: You So it's like it's like you're saying the inverse

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01:51:32,000 --> 01:51:34,360
Speaker 2: of of L O L so much.

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01:51:35,280 --> 01:51:38,320
Speaker 1: Anyways, all right, sorry, good shout to Susan for the

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01:51:38,760 --> 01:51:41,120
Speaker 1: two o two donation for even gang Let's f and go.

2276
01:51:41,360 --> 01:51:42,840
Speaker 1: But let's get back to it. So we just we

2277
01:51:42,960 --> 01:51:46,600
Speaker 1: just had the catfish accusation thrown on the gauntlet. He

2278
01:51:46,880 --> 01:51:50,400
Speaker 1: said he'd been catfish since I don't want to take

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01:51:50,479 --> 01:51:53,639
Speaker 1: care of every household shore because I would still work anyways.

2280
01:51:54,080 --> 01:51:56,679
Speaker 1: Whenever he said he was looking for a traditional spouse,

2281
01:51:56,880 --> 01:52:00,360
Speaker 1: I always thought that he'd also be a traditional spouse

2282
01:52:00,720 --> 01:52:04,320
Speaker 1: aka being a soul provider, so I can focus on

2283
01:52:04,439 --> 01:52:06,160
Speaker 1: taking care of the house and the child if we

2284
01:52:06,200 --> 01:52:09,280
Speaker 1: ever have any. So Op is actually saying like, I

2285
01:52:09,560 --> 01:52:11,680
Speaker 1: could take care of all the household chores, but you

2286
01:52:12,000 --> 01:52:15,280
Speaker 1: have to be earning enough in for me to.

2287
01:52:15,360 --> 01:52:18,679
Speaker 2: Not put on your big boy pants. I can put

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01:52:18,760 --> 01:52:20,280
Speaker 2: on my big girl pants.

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01:52:20,080 --> 01:52:22,240
Speaker 1: Which kind like if we don't have enough money and

2290
01:52:22,280 --> 01:52:22,920
Speaker 1: we both got to.

2291
01:52:22,920 --> 01:52:26,799
Speaker 2: Work, then honestly it's super reasonable.

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01:52:26,880 --> 01:52:29,160
Speaker 1: And then she's like, then once we have enough, then

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01:52:29,240 --> 01:52:29,600
Speaker 1: I can go.

2294
01:52:29,960 --> 01:52:32,440
Speaker 2: That's she's being the most considerate.

2295
01:52:32,560 --> 01:52:34,880
Speaker 1: Totally, totally, I'm I'm more.

2296
01:52:34,640 --> 01:52:35,759
Speaker 2: Considerate than he deserves.

2297
01:52:36,080 --> 01:52:38,160
Speaker 1: Yes, I'm on board with a pe uh. But when

2298
01:52:38,160 --> 01:52:40,560
Speaker 1: I told him that, he said that I am a

2299
01:52:40,760 --> 01:52:45,680
Speaker 1: gold digger and materialistic like any other woman, even when

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01:52:45,760 --> 01:52:48,759
Speaker 1: I never once asked him to be my soul provider.

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01:52:49,160 --> 01:52:50,080
Speaker 1: He brought that up first.

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01:52:50,400 --> 01:52:50,720
Speaker 2: Mind you.

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01:52:50,920 --> 01:52:54,040
Speaker 1: I don't even let him spend alone whenever we go

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01:52:54,120 --> 01:52:57,040
Speaker 1: out for a date. Example, he paid for dinner, I

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01:52:57,120 --> 01:53:00,160
Speaker 1: paid for coffee in a movie. Even my father willingly

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01:53:00,240 --> 01:53:03,080
Speaker 1: offered his brewery if we want to take care of

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01:53:03,160 --> 01:53:06,679
Speaker 1: it as a means of providing for ourselves. So where's

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01:53:06,720 --> 01:53:08,120
Speaker 1: the gold that I should have been digging?

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01:53:08,160 --> 01:53:08,280
Speaker 3: Here?

2310
01:53:08,640 --> 01:53:11,799
Speaker 1: Literally? Her dad offered the business.

2311
01:53:11,880 --> 01:53:14,960
Speaker 2: Yea, the gold, the gold plants.

2312
01:53:15,280 --> 01:53:15,960
Speaker 9: No, what is it?

2313
01:53:16,080 --> 01:53:18,160
Speaker 2: Fucking the mind? The mine? He offered the mine.

2314
01:53:18,080 --> 01:53:21,920
Speaker 1: Exactly, the gold mine. Yeah, the fiances gold digger. Yeah,

2315
01:53:22,320 --> 01:53:23,439
Speaker 1: I guess he didn't take the business.

2316
01:53:23,479 --> 01:53:27,200
Speaker 2: But he didn't. But I mean, OPI has more gold

2317
01:53:27,240 --> 01:53:31,280
Speaker 2: than the work, that's right, Yea, Kadam says he cries

2318
01:53:31,320 --> 01:53:34,040
Speaker 2: about being a gold digger and has no gold.

2319
01:53:36,720 --> 01:53:38,960
Speaker 1: I feel like that's the classic paradox of people who

2320
01:53:39,040 --> 01:53:39,719
Speaker 1: cry gold digger.

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01:53:39,800 --> 01:53:42,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, have no gold, have no gold to dig, and

2322
01:53:42,040 --> 01:53:43,720
Speaker 2: there's some new people in the streams. Let's get that

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01:53:43,800 --> 01:53:44,840
Speaker 2: t ld R on the screen.

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01:53:45,240 --> 01:53:46,000
Speaker 1: We have a pot of.

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01:53:46,040 --> 01:53:47,800
Speaker 5: Gold at the end of the rainbow. I don't want

2326
01:53:47,840 --> 01:53:48,479
Speaker 5: to hear about it.

2327
01:53:48,640 --> 01:53:51,639
Speaker 1: That's right, Get out of here, stinkies. That is when

2328
01:53:51,800 --> 01:53:55,800
Speaker 1: I actually put the ring down and I told him

2329
01:53:55,840 --> 01:54:02,040
Speaker 1: that I want to break up. That's right, Marley, pre worse, prevorse, prevorce. Absolutely,

2330
01:54:02,080 --> 01:54:04,160
Speaker 1: that's what's happening before our very eyes.

2331
01:54:04,280 --> 01:54:13,080
Speaker 2: About darn time. Honestly, smh, dude, shake my head, and

2332
01:54:13,120 --> 01:54:16,960
Speaker 2: I mean that so much hate, true, true, fair enough.

2333
01:54:17,160 --> 01:54:19,599
Speaker 1: This is the one time where it works. I told

2334
01:54:19,680 --> 01:54:23,000
Speaker 1: him he's not traditional enough if he wants a fully

2335
01:54:23,200 --> 01:54:26,360
Speaker 1: traditional wife. I didn't want to deal with someone who

2336
01:54:26,400 --> 01:54:29,559
Speaker 1: could easily called me a gold digger because I want

2337
01:54:29,600 --> 01:54:32,520
Speaker 1: to share the chores that haven't even happened yet, mind you,

2338
01:54:32,920 --> 01:54:36,080
Speaker 1: in front of my parents. I can't help but think

2339
01:54:36,160 --> 01:54:38,200
Speaker 1: that he could easily have said what he said in

2340
01:54:38,280 --> 01:54:41,080
Speaker 1: front of my parents when we haven't even been married yet.

2341
01:54:41,400 --> 01:54:44,360
Speaker 1: Then he could be saying anything worse if we're married

2342
01:54:44,720 --> 01:54:49,040
Speaker 1: and alone, Okay, I went home alone, and he texted

2343
01:54:49,120 --> 01:54:51,200
Speaker 1: me saying that he was sorry and he didn't mean

2344
01:54:51,240 --> 01:54:54,560
Speaker 1: what he said. He asked to meet, but I don't

2345
01:54:54,560 --> 01:54:55,040
Speaker 1: feel like it.

2346
01:54:55,800 --> 01:54:58,360
Speaker 2: How I feel like he's giving up so many red flags,

2347
01:54:58,520 --> 01:55:00,360
Speaker 2: so many red flag five.

2348
01:55:00,240 --> 01:55:03,040
Speaker 1: Percent, But Maggie Chee is not with the two dollars

2349
01:55:03,040 --> 01:55:06,440
Speaker 1: do nation. SMH means shaking my head out of disappointment.

2350
01:55:06,960 --> 01:55:09,040
Speaker 2: I think we're adopting a new meeting today.

2351
01:55:09,200 --> 01:55:12,480
Speaker 5: Okay, I did look it up. Commonly, it's shaking my head,

2352
01:55:12,720 --> 01:55:14,640
Speaker 5: but it can also be used to so much hate,

2353
01:55:14,800 --> 01:55:16,280
Speaker 5: so it's it's it's interchangeable.

2354
01:55:17,160 --> 01:55:19,360
Speaker 1: All the cool kids, yeah, have so much hate.

2355
01:55:19,400 --> 01:55:25,600
Speaker 5: That's all the cool kids. I'm hating their heart, so

2356
01:55:26,560 --> 01:55:26,840
Speaker 5: suck it.

2357
01:55:27,640 --> 01:55:30,640
Speaker 1: However, when I told my friends, most of them told

2358
01:55:30,680 --> 01:55:34,200
Speaker 1: me that I was being a bit too emotional, hasty,

2359
01:55:34,640 --> 01:55:37,600
Speaker 1: and impulsive. That I might look like an a hole

2360
01:55:37,680 --> 01:55:40,200
Speaker 1: because I don't even want to meet up with him.

2361
01:55:40,720 --> 01:55:42,920
Speaker 1: His mother is now trying to talk me out of it,

2362
01:55:43,160 --> 01:55:45,480
Speaker 1: and that I'm too old to act like this and

2363
01:55:45,680 --> 01:55:49,720
Speaker 1: it's the cultural barrier that has led us to this point. Dang, Mama,

2364
01:55:49,760 --> 01:55:51,680
Speaker 1: I don't know about that. So here I am trying

2365
01:55:51,680 --> 01:55:53,080
Speaker 1: to look for a new perspective.

2366
01:55:53,200 --> 01:55:54,160
Speaker 2: Am I the A hole?

2367
01:55:54,280 --> 01:55:57,840
Speaker 1: There are relevant comments chat Sam, Sophia. Let's break it down.

2368
01:55:57,840 --> 01:55:59,680
Speaker 1: By the way, thank you forget Sophie for the two dollars.

2369
01:56:00,040 --> 01:56:03,320
Speaker 1: She is unreasonable, she is reasonable. I'm so sorry he

2370
01:56:03,520 --> 01:56:08,760
Speaker 1: is failing at the traditional and Taylor hard yet two

2371
01:56:08,840 --> 01:56:12,280
Speaker 1: seventy nine Canadian love you guys so much, not so

2372
01:56:12,440 --> 01:56:15,160
Speaker 1: much hate. How can I join the little sillies? There's

2373
01:56:15,160 --> 01:56:17,440
Speaker 1: a little button right now on YouTube on YouTube.

2374
01:56:17,480 --> 01:56:20,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, and if you interact more on the stream, you

2375
01:56:20,680 --> 01:56:22,880
Speaker 2: have a possibility of being gifted one.

2376
01:56:23,040 --> 01:56:25,720
Speaker 1: You could be so chat all that stuff.

2377
01:56:25,800 --> 01:56:31,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, I think like Op is definitely not

2378
01:56:31,680 --> 01:56:34,280
Speaker 2: the A hole. But I think the question is should

2379
01:56:34,400 --> 01:56:37,720
Speaker 2: Ope meet up with him? Is she the a hole

2380
01:56:37,800 --> 01:56:39,400
Speaker 2: for not meeting up with it? And I guess like

2381
01:56:39,440 --> 01:56:42,280
Speaker 2: maybe just circling and like sticking on that question. Should

2382
01:56:42,360 --> 01:56:45,600
Speaker 2: Ope meet up with him after this fallout? How long

2383
01:56:45,680 --> 01:56:46,320
Speaker 2: have they been dating?

2384
01:56:46,840 --> 01:56:49,840
Speaker 1: They've been together for three years and and engaged for

2385
01:56:49,960 --> 01:56:50,560
Speaker 1: five months.

2386
01:56:51,520 --> 01:56:54,800
Speaker 2: I think she can totally stick by it, Yes, but

2387
01:56:54,960 --> 01:56:59,480
Speaker 2: I think that long maybe deserves a follow up, even

2388
01:56:59,520 --> 01:57:00,720
Speaker 2: if he's totally in the wrong.

2389
01:57:01,760 --> 01:57:05,120
Speaker 1: As Sam usually says, asking me what I would do uh,

2390
01:57:05,440 --> 01:57:09,600
Speaker 1: I think I probably would still meet up, but totally

2391
01:57:09,800 --> 01:57:11,280
Speaker 1: justified in her stance.

2392
01:57:11,400 --> 01:57:14,920
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, keep this stance, but maybe just explain it

2393
01:57:15,120 --> 01:57:17,400
Speaker 2: more of like why you feel strongly about it. Like,

2394
01:57:17,440 --> 01:57:20,360
Speaker 2: I don't know. I think one of my exes broke

2395
01:57:20,440 --> 01:57:22,560
Speaker 2: up with me and I was so in love with her,

2396
01:57:22,800 --> 01:57:25,520
Speaker 2: and like a couple months later she did me the

2397
01:57:25,560 --> 01:57:27,640
Speaker 2: courtesy of like just like meeting up for dinner and

2398
01:57:27,840 --> 01:57:30,680
Speaker 2: like that was like super super nice, and I feel

2399
01:57:30,720 --> 01:57:34,000
Speaker 2: like I feel like I took that. I'm like, okay,

2400
01:57:34,040 --> 01:57:36,720
Speaker 2: I always want to give my partners, even if we

2401
01:57:36,800 --> 01:57:40,560
Speaker 2: break up for good reasons, like the benefit of hey,

2402
01:57:40,640 --> 01:57:42,960
Speaker 2: there was something here. We were together for a couple

2403
01:57:43,000 --> 01:57:45,120
Speaker 2: of years and three years, like as long as there

2404
01:57:45,200 --> 01:57:49,080
Speaker 2: wasn't any like like violence here or whatever, like really

2405
01:57:49,160 --> 01:57:52,240
Speaker 2: terrible stuff, like like, let let's give the benefit of

2406
01:57:52,800 --> 01:57:56,560
Speaker 2: of like the courtesy of, Hey, here's why we're breaking up,

2407
01:57:56,600 --> 01:58:00,120
Speaker 2: and like here's here's why I'm maybe, uh confident in

2408
01:58:00,240 --> 01:58:03,480
Speaker 2: that decision. What do you think for YOUA, I don't know.

2409
01:58:03,840 --> 01:58:07,920
Speaker 5: I think I'm just like worried about his reaction to it,

2410
01:58:08,280 --> 01:58:10,440
Speaker 5: because you know, because there's been so many red flags.

2411
01:58:10,560 --> 01:58:12,320
Speaker 1: Totally, you gotta be angry about it.

2412
01:58:12,960 --> 01:58:15,160
Speaker 5: I think, you know, there's a world where she might

2413
01:58:15,240 --> 01:58:16,720
Speaker 5: have to bring someone if she does go and meet

2414
01:58:16,760 --> 01:58:17,240
Speaker 5: up with him.

2415
01:58:17,160 --> 01:58:17,960
Speaker 1: That's very fair.

2416
01:58:18,120 --> 01:58:23,560
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, oh wait, you think she has to like

2417
01:58:23,640 --> 01:58:26,200
Speaker 2: she has to be worried about the safety. Yeah, maybe potentially.

2418
01:58:26,640 --> 01:58:28,240
Speaker 1: I think bringing someone's a pretty good idea for.

2419
01:58:28,240 --> 01:58:29,080
Speaker 2: The public place.

2420
01:58:30,000 --> 01:58:34,120
Speaker 1: Public place, which I think is what I don't know

2421
01:58:34,160 --> 01:58:35,840
Speaker 1: if it was explicit, but that was kind of what

2422
01:58:35,920 --> 01:58:37,760
Speaker 1: I was interpreting, is like, hey, let's go get some coffee,

2423
01:58:38,160 --> 01:58:39,040
Speaker 1: which is public.

2424
01:58:39,120 --> 01:58:41,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I think I think, but I think a

2425
01:58:41,880 --> 01:58:44,920
Speaker 2: lot of people in the chat completely disagree with us.

2426
01:58:45,320 --> 01:58:49,040
Speaker 2: Dia Breet says, hell, no, don't go. I think there's

2427
01:58:49,040 --> 01:58:53,000
Speaker 2: some I don't think she owes him anything, Like I'm

2428
01:58:53,120 --> 01:58:55,800
Speaker 2: like John and I are like thinking of it from

2429
01:58:55,880 --> 01:58:59,280
Speaker 2: like what would you do? And I feel like maybe

2430
01:59:00,000 --> 01:59:02,720
Speaker 2: one coffee meeting, we both would do one coffee meeting.

2431
01:59:03,280 --> 01:59:05,200
Speaker 2: But also there's a bunch of new people in the stream.

2432
01:59:05,240 --> 01:59:07,080
Speaker 2: Can we get a TLDR for all these for all

2433
01:59:07,120 --> 01:59:07,839
Speaker 2: these peeps?

2434
01:59:08,000 --> 01:59:10,000
Speaker 1: Absolutely and slide it on the screen if you could, Riley.

2435
01:59:10,080 --> 01:59:14,880
Speaker 1: But basically OPI is in an Asian country. Her fiance

2436
01:59:15,040 --> 01:59:17,320
Speaker 1: now ex fiance was American. He was always like, I

2437
01:59:17,360 --> 01:59:19,800
Speaker 1: want a traditional wife. I want a traditional wife. Well,

2438
01:59:20,360 --> 01:59:23,560
Speaker 1: comes to find out that what he meant by that

2439
01:59:23,880 --> 01:59:26,480
Speaker 1: was that she had to always do all the chores,

2440
01:59:26,520 --> 01:59:29,600
Speaker 1: the motherly duties, even if she had a job, and

2441
01:59:30,000 --> 01:59:33,760
Speaker 1: basically they both have to work. So he started getting

2442
01:59:33,800 --> 01:59:35,840
Speaker 1: kind of weird and being stinky, so she ended it.

2443
01:59:36,000 --> 01:59:37,200
Speaker 1: Now he wants to meet up for coffee.

2444
01:59:37,400 --> 01:59:42,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, Arime says, Sam's classic bad takes. Thanks for that again,

2445
01:59:42,960 --> 01:59:46,080
Speaker 2: kat Em says, in my opinion, he's been such a

2446
01:59:46,120 --> 01:59:49,960
Speaker 2: bad person that he doesn't deserve coffee with her. Hamson Grogrity,

2447
01:59:50,040 --> 01:59:52,400
Speaker 2: thanks for the five bucks and love Bubbles, thanks for

2448
01:59:52,480 --> 01:59:55,240
Speaker 2: the ten. Does the double meeting apply to LOLL laughed

2449
01:59:55,240 --> 01:59:56,720
Speaker 2: out loud versus lots of love?

2450
01:59:56,880 --> 01:59:56,920
Speaker 11: No?

2451
01:59:57,360 --> 02:00:00,880
Speaker 5: I don't think so, because I saw comments on like

2452
02:00:00,920 --> 02:00:03,760
Speaker 5: a Facebook years ago where or even in I think

2453
02:00:03,800 --> 02:00:07,560
Speaker 5: our chat, where family members were using LOL to make

2454
02:00:07,640 --> 02:00:11,920
Speaker 5: lots of love when talking about like like people dying,

2455
02:00:12,040 --> 02:00:15,640
Speaker 5: like funerals and stuff like sending my oh We're there

2456
02:00:15,720 --> 02:00:19,640
Speaker 5: for you l O L that's so funny. I don't think.

2457
02:00:19,720 --> 02:00:21,960
Speaker 5: I don't think you can use it interchangeably because it's

2458
02:00:22,360 --> 02:00:23,080
Speaker 5: so exclusive.

2459
02:00:23,520 --> 02:00:28,600
Speaker 2: That's so funny bro bro so sorry your grandpa died?

2460
02:00:28,880 --> 02:00:31,040
Speaker 5: Who Yes, people were doing that.

2461
02:00:31,600 --> 02:00:32,760
Speaker 1: That is hilarious.

2462
02:00:34,320 --> 02:00:37,440
Speaker 2: You know what is not hilarious and honestly kind of beautiful.

2463
02:00:38,160 --> 02:00:41,160
Speaker 2: Mile High Maven just tipped us one hundred dollars, which

2464
02:00:41,200 --> 02:00:44,120
Speaker 2: is awesome because YouTube doesn't take thirty percent away from

2465
02:00:44,240 --> 02:00:46,320
Speaker 2: us if you use the tiplank. Mile High may even

2466
02:00:46,400 --> 02:00:51,040
Speaker 2: next the straight to these because I'm not going to

2467
02:00:51,160 --> 02:00:53,680
Speaker 2: make it through my late night of a crules without

2468
02:00:53,800 --> 02:00:57,680
Speaker 2: you four and the little silly is. Thank you so much,

2469
02:00:58,200 --> 02:01:01,240
Speaker 2: Mile High, Mile High, shout out to you and Emily Ashford,

2470
02:01:01,440 --> 02:01:04,600
Speaker 2: Yorkshire mermaid from Twitch. Please give me longer episodes on

2471
02:01:04,640 --> 02:01:07,640
Speaker 2: Spotify so me and my farm animals can have a

2472
02:01:07,840 --> 02:01:10,720
Speaker 2: class entertainment. Thanks my guys and gal.

2473
02:01:11,040 --> 02:01:12,920
Speaker 5: Is seven hours not long enough?

2474
02:01:13,120 --> 02:01:15,640
Speaker 1: Emily? Can the animals like the stream?

2475
02:01:16,480 --> 02:01:18,800
Speaker 5: Can they do that because otherwise we can't give them

2476
02:01:18,800 --> 02:01:19,120
Speaker 5: the longer.

2477
02:01:19,360 --> 02:01:23,760
Speaker 2: That is true, we do need the lights the longer.

2478
02:01:27,040 --> 02:01:28,720
Speaker 2: But is there more to this story?

2479
02:01:28,880 --> 02:01:29,000
Speaker 8: Oh?

2480
02:01:29,440 --> 02:01:32,960
Speaker 1: There is some relevant comments? What do your parents think?

2481
02:01:33,200 --> 02:01:35,760
Speaker 1: My parents don't really speak English, so they can only

2482
02:01:35,960 --> 02:01:38,200
Speaker 1: understand it a bit and bits and pieces of what

2483
02:01:38,280 --> 02:01:41,800
Speaker 1: he said. My father initially felt bad. He even thought

2484
02:01:41,840 --> 02:01:44,800
Speaker 1: that we fought because he brought up the business after

2485
02:01:44,920 --> 02:01:47,640
Speaker 1: I told them the reason, excluding the gold digger and

2486
02:01:47,720 --> 02:01:48,800
Speaker 1: materialistic remarks.

2487
02:01:49,200 --> 02:01:49,320
Speaker 11: Uh.

2488
02:01:49,520 --> 02:01:51,760
Speaker 1: They are fully on my side, and if I want

2489
02:01:51,840 --> 02:01:53,800
Speaker 1: to end it, then they think that I should just

2490
02:01:53,920 --> 02:01:57,640
Speaker 1: do it. I I should, but they think I should

2491
02:01:57,640 --> 02:02:01,360
Speaker 1: meet him at least once to end our relationship properly. Riley,

2492
02:02:01,360 --> 02:02:02,880
Speaker 1: if we could get a TLDR and I'm going to

2493
02:02:02,920 --> 02:02:06,919
Speaker 1: share it to everyone right now. Basically OPI was engaged.

2494
02:02:07,080 --> 02:02:09,840
Speaker 1: Opie was in an Asian country. We don't we don't know.

2495
02:02:10,240 --> 02:02:13,240
Speaker 1: The fiance was American. The fiance was like, Hey, I

2496
02:02:13,560 --> 02:02:17,280
Speaker 1: want you to work and do the chores and motherly duties.

2497
02:02:17,320 --> 02:02:19,880
Speaker 1: And then OPI was like, I have to work because

2498
02:02:20,080 --> 02:02:22,920
Speaker 1: you're too broke, So loel we're gonna split the chores.

2499
02:02:23,680 --> 02:02:26,440
Speaker 1: He didn't like that. Now they're broken up. It seems like,

2500
02:02:26,560 --> 02:02:28,520
Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe not the most official breaking up,

2501
02:02:28,600 --> 02:02:30,520
Speaker 1: but it is. It is broken up.

2502
02:02:30,760 --> 02:02:33,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, the fiance wants a coffee meeting. We're going through

2503
02:02:33,520 --> 02:02:36,560
Speaker 2: some relevant comments kind of done, and the question is

2504
02:02:37,080 --> 02:02:38,480
Speaker 2: does she give the coffee meeting?

2505
02:02:38,560 --> 02:02:40,800
Speaker 1: Does she give the coffee meeting or not coffee meeting

2506
02:02:40,920 --> 02:02:44,400
Speaker 1: or not be careful when you break up with him

2507
02:02:44,520 --> 02:02:47,720
Speaker 1: and bring someone along. Opie says, all right, thank you

2508
02:02:47,840 --> 02:02:50,320
Speaker 1: for your advice. My parents are coming and my father

2509
02:02:50,440 --> 02:02:52,640
Speaker 1: said he's not going to let me meet him alone.

2510
02:02:53,040 --> 02:02:58,080
Speaker 1: Thank you once again. And this brings us to the updates,

2511
02:02:58,200 --> 02:03:00,640
Speaker 1: the update, the updates. Let's going to do get into it.

2512
02:03:01,240 --> 02:03:03,160
Speaker 1: First of all, I want to thank everyone who kindly

2513
02:03:03,240 --> 02:03:05,400
Speaker 1: replied and messaged me in the past week. I am

2514
02:03:05,920 --> 02:03:08,640
Speaker 1: truly grateful for all the encouragement I received from everyone,

2515
02:03:08,720 --> 02:03:09,920
Speaker 1: and it really warms my heart.

2516
02:03:10,000 --> 02:03:13,240
Speaker 2: Amidst all of this mess I want to admit to

2517
02:03:13,280 --> 02:03:18,680
Speaker 2: you that I too, ignored quite a number of red flax.

2518
02:03:18,600 --> 02:03:22,440
Speaker 1: Okay that he's displayed in the past years, brushing it

2519
02:03:22,560 --> 02:03:24,919
Speaker 1: off as a difference in our culture and our upbringing.

2520
02:03:25,360 --> 02:03:28,240
Speaker 1: I thought I was being open minded and accommodating, not

2521
02:03:28,440 --> 02:03:31,520
Speaker 1: knowing that I should have been opened a deeper conversation

2522
02:03:32,000 --> 02:03:36,960
Speaker 1: regarding what I want if I were to deepen our relationship.

2523
02:03:37,080 --> 02:03:39,760
Speaker 1: So basically, you know, the deep conversations of what do

2524
02:03:39,880 --> 02:03:41,520
Speaker 1: we want in this relationship? What is this going to

2525
02:03:41,560 --> 02:03:44,240
Speaker 1: look like? Many people kindly gave me praises in my

2526
02:03:44,280 --> 02:03:48,320
Speaker 1: previous posts, but I feel rather undeserving to receive them.

2527
02:03:48,440 --> 02:03:51,320
Speaker 1: Because I also did so many stupid things that.

2528
02:03:51,560 --> 02:03:53,880
Speaker 2: Got me here. Yeah, but you're learning. I think it's.

2529
02:03:54,000 --> 02:03:55,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like you kind of don't know what you

2530
02:03:56,200 --> 02:03:58,320
Speaker 1: learn through experience. You don't know what you don't know.

2531
02:03:58,440 --> 02:04:01,440
Speaker 1: But I do know that Chloe Clark donated twenty five

2532
02:04:01,520 --> 02:04:04,640
Speaker 1: dollars through the donation link at that keep.

2533
02:04:04,480 --> 02:04:07,640
Speaker 2: That we get one percent of those person Chloe Clark,

2534
02:04:07,760 --> 02:04:08,280
Speaker 2: thank you for that.

2535
02:04:08,600 --> 02:04:10,080
Speaker 1: What an MVP. My goodness.

2536
02:04:11,640 --> 02:04:14,200
Speaker 2: Uh Okay, now on to the real update.

2537
02:04:14,520 --> 02:04:17,680
Speaker 1: Last night I had dinner alongside my father, and after

2538
02:04:17,800 --> 02:04:20,800
Speaker 1: much thought and input I received from redditors, friends, and family.

2539
02:04:21,320 --> 02:04:24,360
Speaker 1: Long story short, he still.

2540
02:04:24,480 --> 02:04:26,320
Speaker 2: Didn't want to end our relationship.

2541
02:04:27,280 --> 02:04:32,960
Speaker 1: Hmm oh oh sorry, last night I had dinner with

2542
02:04:33,360 --> 02:04:36,440
Speaker 1: the fiance alongside my my father.

2543
02:04:36,520 --> 02:04:38,520
Speaker 2: Okay, just to be super clear, Oh wait, had a

2544
02:04:38,680 --> 02:04:40,560
Speaker 2: dinner basically the meet up date.

2545
02:04:40,480 --> 02:04:42,680
Speaker 1: To meet up to meet up with her father with

2546
02:04:42,760 --> 02:04:46,200
Speaker 1: her father present. So long story short, the fiance still

2547
02:04:46,240 --> 02:04:49,160
Speaker 1: didn't want to end a relationship. He apologized, saying that

2548
02:04:49,240 --> 02:04:51,560
Speaker 1: he misspoke and wanted to fix his mistakes.

2549
02:04:51,680 --> 02:04:52,440
Speaker 5: He didn't miss speak.

2550
02:04:52,680 --> 02:04:55,000
Speaker 2: I feel like he just kind of like just said

2551
02:04:55,040 --> 02:04:56,720
Speaker 2: what he actually Yeah, I.

2552
02:04:56,760 --> 02:04:58,640
Speaker 5: Feel like he just yeah, he was sorry.

2553
02:04:58,680 --> 02:05:00,920
Speaker 1: I shared my real feeling. I'm going to roll it

2554
02:05:01,040 --> 02:05:02,240
Speaker 1: back in disguise it now.

2555
02:05:02,480 --> 02:05:05,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, so we can say I realized that didn't

2556
02:05:05,480 --> 02:05:07,240
Speaker 5: come off quite as I intended.

2557
02:05:07,480 --> 02:05:10,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't want to show you all of myself

2558
02:05:10,560 --> 02:05:12,080
Speaker 2: before we really like locked it in.

2559
02:05:12,240 --> 02:05:12,400
Speaker 11: You know.

2560
02:05:14,040 --> 02:05:17,520
Speaker 1: He said it was because he was too comfortable with me,

2561
02:05:18,000 --> 02:05:21,880
Speaker 1: since I'm not a confrontational person. And I did help

2562
02:05:22,120 --> 02:05:25,440
Speaker 1: quite a lot with his chores, bringing side dishes, help

2563
02:05:25,520 --> 02:05:27,480
Speaker 1: cleaning up his place every now and then, et cetera,

2564
02:05:27,560 --> 02:05:28,000
Speaker 1: et cetera.

2565
02:05:28,200 --> 02:05:30,800
Speaker 2: That's so crazy. I can't imagine like someone like a

2566
02:05:30,880 --> 02:05:34,480
Speaker 2: partner cleaning up after me regularly. That's insane. I still like,

2567
02:05:35,080 --> 02:05:39,120
Speaker 2: I like, I always like do my own stuff. I'm

2568
02:05:39,160 --> 02:05:40,959
Speaker 2: just yeah, I'm.

2569
02:05:40,800 --> 02:05:42,960
Speaker 5: Sure you've never had anyone clean up after you.

2570
02:05:44,360 --> 02:05:50,480
Speaker 2: I mean, she's got you. I set a partner, Yeah, regularly,

2571
02:05:53,480 --> 02:05:56,520
Speaker 2: you don't count. Is the only one in the house

2572
02:05:56,600 --> 02:05:59,880
Speaker 2: that really consistently stacks and unstacks the dish. And she

2573
02:06:00,080 --> 02:06:01,080
Speaker 2: deserves a shout out for that.

2574
02:06:01,240 --> 02:06:04,720
Speaker 1: You show me out in the chat worms and dishes

2575
02:06:04,840 --> 02:06:08,560
Speaker 1: in the chats. Okay, yeah, stinky boy.

2576
02:06:08,720 --> 02:06:13,240
Speaker 2: Sam Statham says he wants a bang made, not a partner.

2577
02:06:13,880 --> 02:06:16,840
Speaker 5: Literally He's like, I just love having someone who cleans

2578
02:06:16,920 --> 02:06:17,520
Speaker 5: up after me.

2579
02:06:17,840 --> 02:06:21,520
Speaker 1: Basically, he said that, he's like, I'm sorry you were

2580
02:06:21,560 --> 02:06:23,920
Speaker 1: offended by what I said. Yeah, you keep cleaning and

2581
02:06:24,080 --> 02:06:24,600
Speaker 1: banging me.

2582
02:06:24,720 --> 02:06:27,320
Speaker 2: Yeah. Literally, you shouldn't expect that from your partner. You

2583
02:06:27,360 --> 02:06:28,560
Speaker 2: should expect that from your sister.

2584
02:06:29,320 --> 02:06:32,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, the clean Thank you for the clarification.

2585
02:06:33,320 --> 02:06:36,320
Speaker 5: I didn't need that clarific on that page.

2586
02:06:36,120 --> 02:06:41,120
Speaker 1: Anyways, so op, he says, I also apologize that I've

2587
02:06:41,200 --> 02:06:44,120
Speaker 1: never really brought up this kind of topic seriously and

2588
02:06:44,320 --> 02:06:46,680
Speaker 1: not and not making sure that we were on the

2589
02:06:46,720 --> 02:06:49,440
Speaker 1: same page whenever we did discuss this type of topic.

2590
02:06:51,040 --> 02:06:52,760
Speaker 5: Again, I don't know.

2591
02:06:53,560 --> 02:06:55,080
Speaker 2: I don't know that you need to.

2592
02:06:55,880 --> 02:06:57,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, no, it's we don't apologize.

2593
02:06:58,040 --> 02:06:59,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I don't think it's like I'm sorry. I

2594
02:06:59,800 --> 02:07:03,000
Speaker 1: did know he wanted me to serve you hand and foot. Yeah,

2595
02:07:03,000 --> 02:07:05,440
Speaker 1: I'll try to like clarify that. You don't need to

2596
02:07:05,480 --> 02:07:09,480
Speaker 1: clarify that. No, insane, But we clarify that lay Fairy

2597
02:07:09,640 --> 02:07:11,200
Speaker 1: is now a little silly. Thank you for joining me.

2598
02:07:12,960 --> 02:07:16,840
Speaker 1: He agreed that I should have told him before because

2599
02:07:16,920 --> 02:07:18,880
Speaker 1: that way it never would have got to this point,

2600
02:07:19,160 --> 02:07:22,240
Speaker 1: and then kept bringing up my bad communication.

2601
02:07:23,320 --> 02:07:27,960
Speaker 2: Oh, I know he should be on his hands and knees.

2602
02:07:30,920 --> 02:07:31,560
Speaker 5: He's crazy.

2603
02:07:31,640 --> 02:07:33,640
Speaker 1: I know it's my fault too, but I don't feel

2604
02:07:33,680 --> 02:07:36,320
Speaker 1: good at all hearing that from him. Absolutely right, but

2605
02:07:36,400 --> 02:07:38,920
Speaker 1: I feel good seeing the one dollar tip from Sarah. Really,

2606
02:07:39,160 --> 02:07:42,240
Speaker 1: I absolutely, I absolutely adore all of you. Thank you

2607
02:07:42,440 --> 02:07:45,400
Speaker 1: for billing a boring stay at home mom's day. Wish

2608
02:07:45,480 --> 02:07:48,600
Speaker 1: I could give more, but I'm forced to give. I

2609
02:07:48,760 --> 02:07:50,760
Speaker 1: was forced to rent a twenty dollars movie with my

2610
02:07:50,840 --> 02:07:56,720
Speaker 1: girls tonight, Sarah, right, really, yeah what movie? And also, no,

2611
02:07:56,880 --> 02:08:01,080
Speaker 1: thank you, We're through appreciated. This is amazing. We appreciate you.

2612
02:08:01,600 --> 02:08:04,120
Speaker 1: Even if he admitted his faults and never spoke badly

2613
02:08:04,200 --> 02:08:07,000
Speaker 1: to me before except for that one time, I still

2614
02:08:07,040 --> 02:08:09,840
Speaker 1: can't shake off my distrust for him. Terry smart Opie.

2615
02:08:10,200 --> 02:08:13,520
Speaker 1: I don't know why, but something about him is it

2616
02:08:13,680 --> 02:08:18,120
Speaker 1: that he is an asshole? I don't know why, but

2617
02:08:18,200 --> 02:08:21,839
Speaker 1: what happened last week is like an instant feeling repellent.

2618
02:08:22,120 --> 02:08:22,880
Speaker 1: That's hilarious.

2619
02:08:23,400 --> 02:08:27,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm allergic to him, I mean, which makes sense totally.

2620
02:08:27,840 --> 02:08:28,920
Speaker 2: He's shown his cards.

2621
02:08:29,120 --> 02:08:32,240
Speaker 1: Absolutely, thank you Silver Clover for showing your cards of

2622
02:08:32,320 --> 02:08:35,040
Speaker 1: ten dollars donation. Thanks for helping me get through this

2623
02:08:35,120 --> 02:08:36,600
Speaker 1: day of chores. Love you guys, We.

2624
02:08:36,720 --> 02:08:37,200
Speaker 2: Love you back.

2625
02:08:38,120 --> 02:08:43,920
Speaker 1: So I returned the ring he gave me that's the

2626
02:08:44,000 --> 02:08:46,640
Speaker 1: nail on the coffee. Good move, and told him I'll

2627
02:08:46,720 --> 02:08:49,800
Speaker 1: return more than half of the amount we used to

2628
02:08:49,920 --> 02:08:52,960
Speaker 1: buy our house, so overpaying him for his share of

2629
02:08:53,000 --> 02:08:56,680
Speaker 1: the house. It seems he initially refused the money, saying

2630
02:08:56,800 --> 02:08:59,280
Speaker 1: he wants to keep trying to win back my trust

2631
02:08:59,640 --> 02:09:02,400
Speaker 1: and even contact with him. But this morning I said

2632
02:09:02,520 --> 02:09:05,400
Speaker 1: that I can transfer his money because marriage is not

2633
02:09:05,600 --> 02:09:10,880
Speaker 1: really happening now bold text. And tried to prevent uh.

2634
02:09:11,360 --> 02:09:13,560
Speaker 1: And he tried to prevent me to sell the house.

2635
02:09:14,640 --> 02:09:18,840
Speaker 1: Oh wait, uh because or because marriage is not really

2636
02:09:18,920 --> 02:09:21,560
Speaker 1: happening now, and tried to prevent me to sell the

2637
02:09:21,640 --> 02:09:24,120
Speaker 1: house nor tell our mutual friends that the marriage is

2638
02:09:24,160 --> 02:09:26,120
Speaker 1: off the table. He was basically be like, don't sell

2639
02:09:26,200 --> 02:09:28,520
Speaker 1: the house and don't tell our friends that we're breaking

2640
02:09:28,640 --> 02:09:31,640
Speaker 1: up because he's trying to slip his ways.

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02:09:31,720 --> 02:09:35,600
Speaker 5: He's like, if you don't tell anybody, that's right.

2642
02:09:35,760 --> 02:09:35,920
Speaker 11: Yeah.

2643
02:09:36,800 --> 02:09:40,160
Speaker 1: So I just updated almost all of my group chats

2644
02:09:40,240 --> 02:09:43,080
Speaker 1: now that I am single and here to tell everyone

2645
02:09:43,160 --> 02:09:45,880
Speaker 1: that I'm single because now my fix because now my

2646
02:09:46,040 --> 02:09:49,680
Speaker 1: ex fiance got a big old red flag so big

2647
02:09:49,960 --> 02:09:57,240
Speaker 1: that even China would be crying with envy. Is a dude,

2648
02:09:57,560 --> 02:10:01,839
Speaker 1: Funny Burn and Auntie Aeron gifting the little silly membership.

2649
02:10:01,840 --> 02:10:02,839
Speaker 1: We appreciate you, Auntie.

2650
02:10:03,760 --> 02:10:05,480
Speaker 2: Shout out to Auntie. Oh we just got a bunch

2651
02:10:05,480 --> 02:10:07,520
Speaker 2: of tips love bubbles, thanks to the two bucks. Can't

2652
02:10:07,520 --> 02:10:12,200
Speaker 2: see red flags through rose hinted goggles. That is a bar.

2653
02:10:13,640 --> 02:10:14,600
Speaker 2: That's a friction bar.

2654
02:10:14,920 --> 02:10:15,920
Speaker 1: No, I've never heard them?

2655
02:10:16,320 --> 02:10:19,080
Speaker 2: Yeah wow right, and Beck, thanks for the five bucks.

2656
02:10:19,080 --> 02:10:20,960
Speaker 2: I always binge your videos on my way to work

2657
02:10:21,000 --> 02:10:24,440
Speaker 2: and doing daily tasks. Love you guys, you rock you.

2658
02:10:24,680 --> 02:10:27,760
Speaker 1: Thank you. I feel like an a hole, to be honest,

2659
02:10:27,800 --> 02:10:30,960
Speaker 1: because it seems like my feelings for him were that

2660
02:10:31,240 --> 02:10:34,360
Speaker 1: shallow all along. But maybe reality hasn't hit me yet.

2661
02:10:34,480 --> 02:10:37,400
Speaker 1: But that's it. But guess what, that's not it because

2662
02:10:37,440 --> 02:10:38,040
Speaker 1: we do have.

2663
02:10:39,640 --> 02:10:46,000
Speaker 2: Some relevant comments update and a lot of relevant comments, okay,

2664
02:10:46,120 --> 02:10:48,440
Speaker 2: a lot of relevant comment with I think some updates

2665
02:10:48,880 --> 02:10:53,040
Speaker 2: interspersed throughout well. Sugar Uki has a relevant comment and

2666
02:10:53,160 --> 02:10:56,240
Speaker 2: a seven dollars ninety five tip. Thanks for making it.

2667
02:10:56,320 --> 02:10:59,440
Speaker 2: Even my partner has told me he would prefer I

2668
02:10:59,480 --> 02:11:02,640
Speaker 2: would stay at home. Would be a stay at home

2669
02:11:02,720 --> 02:11:04,760
Speaker 2: partner but understands I don't want to be a stay

2670
02:11:04,760 --> 02:11:07,760
Speaker 2: at home partner unless I have work from home job.

2671
02:11:08,160 --> 02:11:10,960
Speaker 2: It is one hundred percent something they should have discussed

2672
02:11:11,480 --> 02:11:13,200
Speaker 2: before even talking about marriage.

2673
02:11:13,480 --> 02:11:13,720
Speaker 11: Yeah.

2674
02:11:13,840 --> 02:11:16,000
Speaker 1: I think like you could be like, hey, do you

2675
02:11:16,880 --> 02:11:18,120
Speaker 1: you don't want to be a stay at home mom?

2676
02:11:18,200 --> 02:11:19,680
Speaker 1: That would be that would be cool, That'd be something

2677
02:11:19,720 --> 02:11:22,880
Speaker 1: I like I tell people, some like are okay with that?

2678
02:11:23,120 --> 02:11:25,320
Speaker 5: It is okay. It's just when you have the expectation

2679
02:11:25,400 --> 02:11:28,640
Speaker 5: of them being a mom, doing all the household chores

2680
02:11:28,720 --> 02:11:30,080
Speaker 5: and working, making.

2681
02:11:29,880 --> 02:11:31,600
Speaker 1: Someone do when you're not doing anything.

2682
02:11:31,360 --> 02:11:34,280
Speaker 2: And also like doing that without having a conversation. I

2683
02:11:34,360 --> 02:11:38,520
Speaker 2: think an expectation of almost anything in a relationship is

2684
02:11:38,640 --> 02:11:42,760
Speaker 2: fine as long as there's communication that that is okay

2685
02:11:43,200 --> 02:11:44,000
Speaker 2: between both of you.

2686
02:11:44,120 --> 02:11:45,880
Speaker 1: If you communicate it and you're both happy about it.

2687
02:11:46,520 --> 02:11:48,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, happy about it? Yeah, exact, it's great.

2688
02:11:50,040 --> 02:11:53,360
Speaker 1: Yeah Kiwi Fox three, Stinky Sneaky du Lulu boy one

2689
02:11:53,440 --> 02:11:57,040
Speaker 1: hundred percent, one hundred percent but true. Can we get

2690
02:11:57,080 --> 02:12:00,680
Speaker 1: a t L d R stuck on for the let's

2691
02:12:00,680 --> 02:12:05,200
Speaker 1: strow it on and yeah, quick deal dr. Basically, OPI

2692
02:12:05,320 --> 02:12:07,880
Speaker 1: was engaged to this guy, but then he was like, hey,

2693
02:12:08,040 --> 02:12:10,520
Speaker 1: can you work and do all the chores and motherly

2694
02:12:10,640 --> 02:12:14,280
Speaker 1: duties and then OPI was like hot, no, goodbye.

2695
02:12:14,920 --> 02:12:15,040
Speaker 9: Uh.

2696
02:12:15,240 --> 02:12:18,920
Speaker 1: He's pleaded and kind of still pleading to get back together,

2697
02:12:19,360 --> 02:12:21,600
Speaker 1: but Opie's like, I'm done. Gave him the ring back

2698
02:12:22,400 --> 02:12:23,840
Speaker 1: smart and maybe he'll keep going.

2699
02:12:23,960 --> 02:12:24,320
Speaker 2: We don't know.

2700
02:12:24,480 --> 02:12:28,120
Speaker 1: We have some relevant comments with hopefully some updates interspersed throughout.

2701
02:12:28,800 --> 02:12:31,280
Speaker 1: You absolutely did the right thing. What does your dad think?

2702
02:12:31,280 --> 02:12:34,200
Speaker 1: A great question. My dad is a typically Japanese father,

2703
02:12:34,400 --> 02:12:36,920
Speaker 1: so we don't talk a lot since I've since I've

2704
02:12:36,960 --> 02:12:39,800
Speaker 1: grown up, but he's supporting my decision to cancel the engagement.

2705
02:12:40,600 --> 02:12:43,080
Speaker 1: He doesn't say much, but he looks quite happy since

2706
02:12:43,120 --> 02:12:46,360
Speaker 1: he wasn't into it for quite a long while back.

2707
02:12:47,360 --> 02:12:48,960
Speaker 1: Thank you for the kind words. I hope you and

2708
02:12:49,040 --> 02:12:52,560
Speaker 1: everyone around you is always kind to you like you

2709
02:12:52,760 --> 02:12:55,160
Speaker 1: are to me right now. It certainly makes me feel better.

2710
02:12:55,240 --> 02:12:59,000
Speaker 1: Herd emoji. That is so cute. Another comment, You need

2711
02:12:59,120 --> 02:13:01,560
Speaker 1: to go to intense therapy so it doesn't happen again.

2712
02:13:01,920 --> 02:13:04,520
Speaker 1: You apologize to a man for not being his maid.

2713
02:13:04,880 --> 02:13:08,400
Speaker 1: Ope replies, thank you for the response. I didn't apologizing

2714
02:13:08,480 --> 02:13:11,160
Speaker 1: for not wanting to be someone's maid, but not for

2715
02:13:11,320 --> 02:13:14,120
Speaker 1: being open and talking about what I want and expect

2716
02:13:14,240 --> 02:13:18,040
Speaker 1: in our relationship. I read in my previous post that

2717
02:13:18,240 --> 02:13:20,160
Speaker 1: many of you pointed out in the conversation with this

2718
02:13:20,280 --> 02:13:23,320
Speaker 1: topic should have happened long before, and I agree with that.

2719
02:13:23,800 --> 02:13:28,280
Speaker 1: That's why I apologize. However, I will also keep working

2720
02:13:28,360 --> 02:13:31,440
Speaker 1: on myself, so thank you for your suggestion. I will

2721
02:13:31,600 --> 02:13:35,600
Speaker 1: keep it in mind. An another comment the house, Did

2722
02:13:35,680 --> 02:13:38,160
Speaker 1: you go fifty to fifty? Why does he get more?

2723
02:13:39,560 --> 02:13:43,680
Speaker 1: We went forty five forty five and my father, oh, oh, okay,

2724
02:13:43,760 --> 02:13:46,760
Speaker 1: so this is actually asking the purchase of the house,

2725
02:13:47,520 --> 02:13:50,960
Speaker 1: not the household chores. So on purchasing the house, did

2726
02:13:51,040 --> 02:13:54,200
Speaker 1: you split the cost fifty to fifty? Why does he

2727
02:13:54,360 --> 02:13:56,840
Speaker 1: get more? Because Ope paid him back more than half.

2728
02:13:57,560 --> 02:14:00,480
Speaker 1: We actually went forty five forty five because my father

2729
02:14:00,680 --> 02:14:05,080
Speaker 1: added the final ten percent. Yet another reason why OPI

2730
02:14:05,240 --> 02:14:07,360
Speaker 1: is not a gold digger. My father was the one

2731
02:14:07,400 --> 02:14:10,839
Speaker 1: who offered to give him fifty percent of the shares

2732
02:14:11,280 --> 02:14:15,160
Speaker 1: as an extra layer of protection. Now he cannot complain

2733
02:14:15,480 --> 02:14:18,120
Speaker 1: and has no reason to contact me or my family.

2734
02:14:18,600 --> 02:14:22,120
Speaker 1: To catch a sea brim with a shrimp, he said,

2735
02:14:22,520 --> 02:14:25,640
Speaker 1: I guess that is a saying that I don't.

2736
02:14:25,560 --> 02:14:28,000
Speaker 5: For him with the shrimp. Also, I took Sam's chair

2737
02:14:28,040 --> 02:14:28,840
Speaker 5: because he's gone.

2738
02:14:29,000 --> 02:14:32,160
Speaker 1: He's gone, and now the queen has you sepped a throne?

2739
02:14:32,440 --> 02:14:37,320
Speaker 1: Comment to the worms for your queen. Yeah, yeah, I'm

2740
02:14:37,360 --> 02:14:39,600
Speaker 1: trying to I'm trying to interpret what was just said too.

2741
02:14:39,640 --> 02:14:48,240
Speaker 1: But basically, I think the dad offered my father. Okay, okay, okay,

2742
02:14:49,000 --> 02:14:54,080
Speaker 1: here we go. So the Opie and her father reached

2743
02:14:54,120 --> 02:14:57,880
Speaker 1: out to purchase the house back. The father was like, hey,

2744
02:14:57,920 --> 02:15:02,120
Speaker 1: I'll pay for your fifty percent, which is more. It

2745
02:15:02,240 --> 02:15:04,760
Speaker 1: was more than his forty five percent got he put

2746
02:15:04,800 --> 02:15:07,560
Speaker 1: into it as a way to just get him out

2747
02:15:07,560 --> 02:15:10,560
Speaker 1: of their lives, like you have literally no legal reason

2748
02:15:10,720 --> 02:15:13,120
Speaker 1: to ever get in contact with us again, which is

2749
02:15:13,280 --> 02:15:15,880
Speaker 1: super smart and a w dad move. Let's put some

2750
02:15:16,320 --> 02:15:17,640
Speaker 1: W in the chat. Oh, here we go. One doum

2751
02:15:17,720 --> 02:15:20,120
Speaker 1: millennial says, as a white woman in China, it is

2752
02:15:20,240 --> 02:15:24,600
Speaker 1: incredibly hard to date, as most men here are passport bros. Aha,

2753
02:15:25,360 --> 02:15:29,240
Speaker 1: just want to play around, intimidated by Western women, fetishize

2754
02:15:29,360 --> 02:15:35,000
Speaker 1: Western women, or are already committed. Okay, interesting, interesting perspective,

2755
02:15:37,200 --> 02:15:39,440
Speaker 1: and uh oh there is actually more in this one.

2756
02:15:39,960 --> 02:15:42,080
Speaker 1: Opie says, thank you for your reassurance and I'll work

2757
02:15:42,160 --> 02:15:44,600
Speaker 1: hard to be better. Thank you for your response. Also,

2758
02:15:44,680 --> 02:15:48,960
Speaker 1: I really appreciate it. And another commenter comes in, if

2759
02:15:49,040 --> 02:15:51,240
Speaker 1: you two guys are joint owners and want to cash

2760
02:15:51,360 --> 02:15:53,360
Speaker 1: out of it, he is entitled to a share in

2761
02:15:53,440 --> 02:15:55,760
Speaker 1: the house's current value, not a share of what he

2762
02:15:55,800 --> 02:15:59,640
Speaker 1: initially paid. Opie says, the house is under my name

2763
02:16:00,120 --> 02:16:02,680
Speaker 1: as it's difficult for foreigners to own property in good

2764
02:16:02,760 --> 02:16:05,360
Speaker 1: condition here. Thank you for your concern.

2765
02:16:06,000 --> 02:16:08,520
Speaker 5: Okay, So basically, yeah, if it's her house, keep the

2766
02:16:08,640 --> 02:16:09,440
Speaker 5: house it is.

2767
02:16:09,680 --> 02:16:12,760
Speaker 1: And I guess the commenter was saying, like, it's probably

2768
02:16:12,840 --> 02:16:16,680
Speaker 1: the value has gone up. So but also he got

2769
02:16:16,800 --> 02:16:18,120
Speaker 1: five percent more than he put in.

2770
02:16:18,720 --> 02:16:19,040
Speaker 2: I don't know.

2771
02:16:19,080 --> 02:16:21,680
Speaker 1: It wasn't exactly answered, but maybe that equals out. We're

2772
02:16:21,720 --> 02:16:26,120
Speaker 1: not sure. We're not sure. But so another one someone

2773
02:16:26,240 --> 02:16:31,480
Speaker 1: called op and her family spineless Jesus what, And I

2774
02:16:31,680 --> 02:16:35,440
Speaker 1: really appreciate her response to that comment. If you don't mind,

2775
02:16:35,600 --> 02:16:37,560
Speaker 1: I don't have a problem with you insulting me, but

2776
02:16:37,840 --> 02:16:40,200
Speaker 1: do not attempt to do that to my family. Not

2777
02:16:40,440 --> 02:16:43,600
Speaker 1: everything can be resolved by being tough and formidable. I

2778
02:16:43,680 --> 02:16:46,160
Speaker 1: don't think it's stupid knowing when to be firm and

2779
02:16:46,320 --> 02:16:49,640
Speaker 1: how we compromise for our final decision. To avoid future problems.

2780
02:16:50,120 --> 02:16:52,880
Speaker 1: But I do think it's naive when one doesn't even

2781
02:16:52,959 --> 02:16:56,000
Speaker 1: consider that there are other ways to solve a problem

2782
02:16:56,080 --> 02:16:58,920
Speaker 1: other than butting heads and fighting. It's stupid when they

2783
02:16:58,959 --> 02:17:02,119
Speaker 1: don't even try to understand the logic behind another person's

2784
02:17:02,240 --> 02:17:05,160
Speaker 1: problem solving methods. I think OP is just being like

2785
02:17:05,760 --> 02:17:09,120
Speaker 1: super empathetic in the scenario, being like, hey, you know what,

2786
02:17:09,600 --> 02:17:12,400
Speaker 1: you know, where could I have gone wrong? Just exploring

2787
02:17:12,560 --> 02:17:15,680
Speaker 1: like what possibly could I have done to make it better,

2788
02:17:15,760 --> 02:17:17,920
Speaker 1: which is more than OP needs to do and is

2789
02:17:18,000 --> 02:17:18,640
Speaker 1: very kind of her.

2790
02:17:18,840 --> 02:17:20,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's very kind. I think it's a bit rude

2791
02:17:20,959 --> 02:17:24,040
Speaker 5: to call the family spine like crazy. Yeah. I feel

2792
02:17:24,080 --> 02:17:25,879
Speaker 5: like it would have been enough to just be like, hey,

2793
02:17:26,080 --> 02:17:29,160
Speaker 5: you did nothing wrong, you don't owe an apology.

2794
02:17:29,440 --> 02:17:32,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, one hundred percent. Yeah, why all hail the

2795
02:17:32,200 --> 02:17:39,000
Speaker 1: worm Queen City agreed, Agreed, guys. Thoughts on opening a window?

2796
02:17:39,720 --> 02:17:40,600
Speaker 1: Are we toasty in here?

2797
02:17:42,800 --> 02:17:43,039
Speaker 2: Okay?

2798
02:17:43,200 --> 02:17:44,240
Speaker 1: Let me know if it gets too cold?

2799
02:17:44,480 --> 02:17:48,680
Speaker 2: Multiple layers so cool for fashion, for fashion, and it

2800
02:17:48,920 --> 02:17:51,800
Speaker 2: is fashioning? Throw whims in the comments for your queen,

2801
02:17:51,840 --> 02:17:52,640
Speaker 2: who is fashioned?

2802
02:17:53,959 --> 02:17:57,320
Speaker 1: Who is fashion? But I do think I already said

2803
02:17:57,320 --> 02:18:02,960
Speaker 1: that there's another response that's your prerogative right to insult us.

2804
02:18:03,120 --> 02:18:06,880
Speaker 1: It's also within my prerogative right to ask you to stop. Yeah,

2805
02:18:06,879 --> 02:18:07,640
Speaker 1: one hundred percent.

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02:18:08,560 --> 02:18:08,680
Speaker 11: Uh.

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02:18:08,879 --> 02:18:13,600
Speaker 1: This kind of exchange is called conversation in Japan. Boom,

2808
02:18:14,000 --> 02:18:16,720
Speaker 1: my job, dude, OPI has such great burns. Yeah, so great.

2809
02:18:17,080 --> 02:18:19,440
Speaker 1: A religious little thing called conversation.

2810
02:18:20,920 --> 02:18:21,120
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2811
02:18:21,800 --> 02:18:24,880
Speaker 1: I don't know what it's called in your country. Is

2812
02:18:24,959 --> 02:18:28,280
Speaker 1: it another cultural difference? Question mark? If someone's uncomfortable, they

2813
02:18:28,320 --> 02:18:31,840
Speaker 1: should have sucked it up or didn't go slash talk

2814
02:18:32,000 --> 02:18:34,880
Speaker 1: to them in the first place. Excellent. My apology for

2815
02:18:34,959 --> 02:18:39,040
Speaker 1: being so ignorant giving him more money than he deserved

2816
02:18:39,200 --> 02:18:44,119
Speaker 1: guaranteed me an excuse for cutting contact immediately that I've

2817
02:18:44,400 --> 02:18:48,600
Speaker 1: compromised my decision. Social circles run differently here because breaking

2818
02:18:48,680 --> 02:18:51,200
Speaker 1: up an engagement slash divorce will always be a hot topic,

2819
02:18:51,520 --> 02:18:55,280
Speaker 1: and it sometimes affects you on an institutional level. Sometimes

2820
02:18:55,360 --> 02:18:58,119
Speaker 1: it'll affect your career even more when you're a woman.

2821
02:18:58,240 --> 02:19:01,320
Speaker 1: That is very unfortunate. Yes, there are some cases where

2822
02:19:01,360 --> 02:19:05,520
Speaker 1: people are getting fired because they got divorced. Oh my god,

2823
02:19:05,840 --> 02:19:09,240
Speaker 1: that's bananas. But what's bananas in a good way? Is

2824
02:19:09,320 --> 02:19:15,400
Speaker 1: Kiwi Fox's three dollars donation tip donation link donation. When

2825
02:19:15,760 --> 02:19:19,000
Speaker 1: if do you think when you have a fan?

2826
02:19:19,400 --> 02:19:19,520
Speaker 9: Oh?

2827
02:19:20,400 --> 02:19:21,920
Speaker 1: When can we have guys? I don't know what's wrong

2828
02:19:21,920 --> 02:19:24,080
Speaker 1: with me today? When can we have a fan dedicated

2829
02:19:24,120 --> 02:19:27,760
Speaker 1: show slash stream? Can fan submit ideas topics as a

2830
02:19:27,879 --> 02:19:28,800
Speaker 1: thank you episode?

2831
02:19:29,360 --> 02:19:29,480
Speaker 11: Uh?

2832
02:19:30,040 --> 02:19:31,360
Speaker 1: What would be a goal for that?

2833
02:19:31,600 --> 02:19:31,760
Speaker 2: You know?

2834
02:19:31,879 --> 02:19:36,840
Speaker 1: Kiwi, that is a very fun, interesting and fun idea.

2835
02:19:38,200 --> 02:19:38,560
Speaker 2: I love it.

2836
02:19:39,160 --> 02:19:41,560
Speaker 1: I absolutely love it. Right now we uh if you

2837
02:19:41,640 --> 02:19:44,960
Speaker 1: guys have probably seen, we recently ramped way up to

2838
02:19:45,200 --> 02:19:48,560
Speaker 1: three streams a week to fill out the schedule. But

2839
02:19:48,840 --> 02:19:52,280
Speaker 1: I think that is a fantastic idea, Kiwi fawkes uh

2840
02:19:52,360 --> 02:19:54,280
Speaker 1: and I think I think we'll chat about yeah, try

2841
02:19:54,360 --> 02:19:56,240
Speaker 1: to figure it out. Try to squeeze an extra one

2842
02:19:56,240 --> 02:19:59,400
Speaker 1: in there. Yeah, you know, sit down at the table

2843
02:19:59,480 --> 02:20:05,520
Speaker 1: and the hash stuff brainstorm m hm doo uh Op

2844
02:20:05,680 --> 02:20:09,000
Speaker 1: says sometimes some companies go so far as to giving

2845
02:20:09,160 --> 02:20:14,800
Speaker 1: paid leave and vacation to mend employee's married life. See

2846
02:20:14,840 --> 02:20:17,640
Speaker 1: that's maybe the flip side of that. That's maybe good.

2847
02:20:17,840 --> 02:20:20,360
Speaker 1: They're like, hey, I'm going through marital trouble. They're like, hey,

2848
02:20:20,760 --> 02:20:24,000
Speaker 1: here's paid time off. You can go and like work

2849
02:20:24,360 --> 02:20:27,360
Speaker 1: on your relationship and like have that time.

2850
02:20:27,600 --> 02:20:27,800
Speaker 5: Yeah.

2851
02:20:28,080 --> 02:20:30,520
Speaker 1: But it seems like a double edged sword. Though, They're like, hey,

2852
02:20:31,120 --> 02:20:33,199
Speaker 1: here's paid leave so you can figure out your relationship.

2853
02:20:33,280 --> 02:20:36,720
Speaker 1: If you don't, you're five. Yeah, that's kind of crazy.

2854
02:20:36,879 --> 02:20:42,160
Speaker 1: Yeah either way, I'm not breaking up. I'm canceling an engagement.

2855
02:20:42,520 --> 02:20:45,000
Speaker 1: It weighs differently, so I guess culturally, like the engagement

2856
02:20:45,040 --> 02:20:47,840
Speaker 1: isn't as heavy as the marriage. You're you're naive to

2857
02:20:47,920 --> 02:20:50,600
Speaker 1: think every society works like yours, and your value is

2858
02:20:50,600 --> 02:20:54,360
Speaker 1: applicable to every part of the world without considerating their

2859
02:20:54,640 --> 02:20:58,080
Speaker 1: social their social circumstances. Agreed and shout out to you,

2860
02:20:58,160 --> 02:21:01,000
Speaker 1: Amanda Joe Fisk for the Devil six six six step.

2861
02:21:01,040 --> 02:21:01,680
Speaker 1: We appreciate you.

2862
02:21:02,320 --> 02:21:02,400
Speaker 3: Uh.

2863
02:21:04,600 --> 02:21:08,000
Speaker 1: I'm not excusing it, but I'm not someone so important

2864
02:21:08,080 --> 02:21:10,440
Speaker 1: that I can change them overnight, nor do I want

2865
02:21:10,520 --> 02:21:14,280
Speaker 1: to sacrifice my family and my own reputation. I'm not

2866
02:21:14,360 --> 02:21:17,039
Speaker 1: delusional enough to think I'm the main character. If if

2867
02:21:17,080 --> 02:21:19,800
Speaker 1: that's still spineless to you, then sure, I hope you

2868
02:21:20,120 --> 02:21:22,160
Speaker 1: do him well. I hope you do as well as

2869
02:21:22,240 --> 02:21:23,840
Speaker 1: him at navigating your life here?

2870
02:21:24,640 --> 02:21:28,480
Speaker 6: What are we laughing at Sophia's comment about the Devil's tip.

2871
02:21:28,879 --> 02:21:34,119
Speaker 1: Oh now I'm here, Now I'm here. Oh my god more,

2872
02:21:34,640 --> 02:21:36,960
Speaker 1: it's more relevant comments. But let's stop real quick. I'll

2873
02:21:37,000 --> 02:21:38,760
Speaker 1: give you TLDR. Maybe we can chat in the comments

2874
02:21:38,760 --> 02:21:41,160
Speaker 1: a little bit right down here, comments below, because I

2875
02:21:41,280 --> 02:21:44,600
Speaker 1: want to see your relevant comments. Okay, guys. But basically,

2876
02:21:44,920 --> 02:21:48,200
Speaker 1: uh op was in I think Japan. Actually her father

2877
02:21:48,360 --> 02:21:53,280
Speaker 1: is Japanese and Japanese and she's Japanese. She married this guy.

2878
02:21:53,400 --> 02:21:55,640
Speaker 1: He was American, and he was like, I want a

2879
02:21:55,680 --> 02:22:00,400
Speaker 1: traditional wife. And I would like to thank my high

2880
02:22:00,480 --> 02:22:04,280
Speaker 1: Maven for joining the Dono gang kind of starting to

2881
02:22:04,360 --> 02:22:08,959
Speaker 1: carry the pack with five gifted donations. Male, High Maven,

2882
02:22:09,600 --> 02:22:12,520
Speaker 1: you freaking rock, You're awesome. Was there a message in there?

2883
02:22:12,840 --> 02:22:14,200
Speaker 5: No, I think it was just the people that it

2884
02:22:14,280 --> 02:22:14,680
Speaker 5: was gifted to.

2885
02:22:14,879 --> 02:22:19,560
Speaker 1: Hell yeah, but uh yeah. So uh Opie had the

2886
02:22:19,840 --> 02:22:21,920
Speaker 1: you know, the the fiance that wanted a traditional wife,

2887
02:22:21,959 --> 02:22:25,840
Speaker 1: which meant she had to work, clean, do household chores,

2888
02:22:25,920 --> 02:22:28,440
Speaker 1: and take care of motherly duties. Op he was like,

2889
02:22:28,560 --> 02:22:31,760
Speaker 1: hell no, see you later, and he basically tried to

2890
02:22:32,320 --> 02:22:36,240
Speaker 1: wiggle and squeam his way in any which way he could,

2891
02:22:36,320 --> 02:22:39,320
Speaker 1: but he was not having it, not having it. And

2892
02:22:39,400 --> 02:22:42,040
Speaker 1: now we're having a very thoughtful discussion. Let's see here,

2893
02:22:42,080 --> 02:22:46,119
Speaker 1: Oh kat em Japanese culture is very opposite to Western culture.

2894
02:22:46,160 --> 02:22:49,640
Speaker 1: It's far more collective as opposed to individualists. That means

2895
02:22:49,720 --> 02:22:53,600
Speaker 1: conflicts and disruption of cohesion are frowned upon far more so.

2896
02:22:53,879 --> 02:22:56,640
Speaker 1: I'm guessing, Katim, let me know, it's like anything that

2897
02:22:56,800 --> 02:22:59,800
Speaker 1: kind of disrupts, you know, like I guess the like

2898
02:23:00,040 --> 02:23:02,640
Speaker 1: like a divorce is a kind of disrupting thing that

2899
02:23:02,840 --> 02:23:06,119
Speaker 1: is kind of a more frowned upon thing, I guess

2900
02:23:06,480 --> 02:23:09,680
Speaker 1: in this specific instance, talking about that Aoki with the

2901
02:23:09,760 --> 02:23:13,720
Speaker 1: six ninety nine Canadian Sofia, would you rather have hoodies

2902
02:23:13,879 --> 02:23:19,240
Speaker 1: or a stuffed angel duet? I don't know the second thing.

2903
02:23:19,320 --> 02:23:22,360
Speaker 5: I think it was stuffed animal animal, But I would

2904
02:23:22,400 --> 02:23:25,200
Speaker 5: love I mean either one would be great. I love hoodies.

2905
02:23:25,240 --> 02:23:27,480
Speaker 5: I'm wearing a hoodie right now, true, so I would

2906
02:23:27,600 --> 02:23:29,440
Speaker 5: you would see me wear it? So it's just like,

2907
02:23:29,520 --> 02:23:31,400
Speaker 5: do you want to see me wear a hoodie or

2908
02:23:31,600 --> 02:23:33,520
Speaker 5: do you want me to have do you want me

2909
02:23:33,560 --> 02:23:34,560
Speaker 5: to cuddle with the button?

2910
02:23:35,240 --> 02:23:38,360
Speaker 1: That's true that I think maybe their choice.

2911
02:23:38,440 --> 02:23:39,959
Speaker 5: Yeah, I would love either.

2912
02:23:40,600 --> 02:23:41,280
Speaker 1: Very good to you.

2913
02:23:41,520 --> 02:23:45,120
Speaker 2: We love that. And Kadam added some great clarification, Yes, John,

2914
02:23:45,440 --> 02:23:47,279
Speaker 2: anything that disrupts a unit.

2915
02:23:49,040 --> 02:23:50,520
Speaker 1: Is a moral failure.

2916
02:23:50,840 --> 02:23:53,000
Speaker 5: Views there, Angel Dust, I understand.

2917
02:23:53,080 --> 02:23:54,400
Speaker 1: Sorry, what is stuffed? Angel Dust?

2918
02:23:54,480 --> 02:23:56,800
Speaker 5: A character from That's Awesome?

2919
02:23:57,080 --> 02:24:01,880
Speaker 1: That is awesome. Those are both amazing. Yeah, it seems like,

2920
02:24:02,600 --> 02:24:07,520
Speaker 1: uh yeah, so that's that's awful context. Yes, I'm glad.

2921
02:24:07,920 --> 02:24:10,879
Speaker 1: I'm glad they weren't married because imagine this, like, oh.

2922
02:24:10,840 --> 02:24:13,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, that would be a lot I feel like, yeah's job.

2923
02:24:14,040 --> 02:24:16,160
Speaker 1: Yeah maybe, I mean luckily it looks like she has

2924
02:24:16,200 --> 02:24:19,240
Speaker 1: her dad's brewery no matter what. But that would suck

2925
02:24:19,320 --> 02:24:22,400
Speaker 1: to get fired just because you your relationship didn't work

2926
02:24:22,400 --> 02:24:22,640
Speaker 1: out there.

2927
02:24:22,720 --> 02:24:26,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's crazy hard, especially if yeah with this guy.

2928
02:24:27,040 --> 02:24:30,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, Riley, just be on your toes. Okay, how's your

2929
02:24:30,160 --> 02:24:34,040
Speaker 1: dates gone? Be on your toes? Yeah? Is it going good?

2930
02:24:34,240 --> 02:24:34,440
Speaker 9: Yeah?

2931
02:24:34,520 --> 02:24:35,480
Speaker 1: Very great? Are you sure?

2932
02:24:36,120 --> 02:24:38,760
Speaker 5: Because if it's not going good, we're firing.

2933
02:24:38,959 --> 02:24:43,640
Speaker 1: Don't disrupt us. Okay, okay, buddy, there you go, good boy.

2934
02:24:45,480 --> 02:24:48,680
Speaker 1: But we have some more relevant comments. Delirium Bread says,

2935
02:24:48,760 --> 02:24:51,279
Speaker 1: I'm shocked at these dudes because I don't get exactly

2936
02:24:51,360 --> 02:24:53,840
Speaker 1: what they are offering. No wonder they are trying to

2937
02:24:53,920 --> 02:24:57,520
Speaker 1: take choices away from women because the value proposition proposition

2938
02:24:57,680 --> 02:24:59,560
Speaker 1: is and I think this is referencing passport pros like

2939
02:24:59,600 --> 02:25:02,520
Speaker 1: we were talking about earlier. Uh, you do the work

2940
02:25:02,600 --> 02:25:05,160
Speaker 1: outside of the home to fund my wanted lifestyle. You

2941
02:25:05,280 --> 02:25:07,760
Speaker 1: do everything inside the home while I do nothing. You

2942
02:25:07,879 --> 02:25:11,760
Speaker 1: put effort into maintaining your appearance, appearance, finances, and everything yourself.

2943
02:25:12,160 --> 02:25:15,200
Speaker 1: You give me sex every time I want. You give

2944
02:25:15,280 --> 02:25:17,920
Speaker 1: birth to my children, then raise them yourself while I

2945
02:25:19,000 --> 02:25:23,800
Speaker 1: have a wiener. The only stipulation, why exactly do they

2946
02:25:23,879 --> 02:25:27,200
Speaker 1: think anyone would sign up for this? And you know what,

2947
02:25:27,280 --> 02:25:29,640
Speaker 1: delirium reread. That is a great, great question to end

2948
02:25:30,120 --> 02:25:32,160
Speaker 1: this story with. Who would want that deal?

2949
02:25:32,720 --> 02:25:32,960
Speaker 8: Not me?

2950
02:25:33,600 --> 02:25:34,440
Speaker 2: Would you rather?

2951
02:25:34,720 --> 02:25:38,280
Speaker 1: Would you rather have all that? Yeah? No, that's it's

2952
02:25:38,320 --> 02:25:40,480
Speaker 1: a terrible deal, bad deal. I'm not taking that deal.

2953
02:25:40,680 --> 02:25:42,200
Speaker 1: L's in the chat for that deal, ladies, a joke,

2954
02:25:42,800 --> 02:25:45,879
Speaker 1: the Devil's deal, big old l for the Devil's deal. Okay,

2955
02:25:47,080 --> 02:25:51,920
Speaker 1: but you know what I want you to deal to me, Sophia, Yeah,

2956
02:25:52,720 --> 02:25:58,280
Speaker 1: deal me in this next story. And Riley, Oh, go ahead,

2957
02:25:58,280 --> 02:26:02,080
Speaker 1: go ahead. I was just gonna say, uh, Alejandra hashtag

2958
02:26:02,240 --> 02:26:04,879
Speaker 1: like the stream, Riley, we have eight fifty five watching,

2959
02:26:04,920 --> 02:26:08,000
Speaker 1: but how many likes? Oh boy, you don't even want

2960
02:26:08,000 --> 02:26:11,000
Speaker 1: to know. I don't even want to know. I'm afraid,

2961
02:26:11,040 --> 02:26:11,320
Speaker 1: but go.

2962
02:26:11,480 --> 02:26:18,199
Speaker 6: Go all right. It's kind. It's only if it will load.

2963
02:26:19,600 --> 02:26:25,400
Speaker 1: Five fifty four, five fifty four, ladies, and it is Oh,

2964
02:26:25,440 --> 02:26:29,560
Speaker 1: I got you, ladies and gentlemen. We have We have

2965
02:26:29,680 --> 02:26:35,800
Speaker 1: farms with animals, we have classes, we have libraries. Wherever

2966
02:26:35,879 --> 02:26:38,440
Speaker 1: you are right now, go to the people around you,

2967
02:26:38,520 --> 02:26:42,000
Speaker 1: walking on the street, the subway, walking in your neighborhood,

2968
02:26:42,080 --> 02:26:44,199
Speaker 1: Go to your neighbors. Knock on their door. Hey, guys,

2969
02:26:44,440 --> 02:26:47,800
Speaker 1: why haven't you liked? Okayope, knocked on them. I you know,

2970
02:26:47,959 --> 02:26:50,120
Speaker 1: it is really weird. Why all of your neighbors haven't

2971
02:26:50,160 --> 02:26:52,440
Speaker 1: liked the stream yet? It is kind of a big time.

2972
02:26:52,600 --> 02:26:55,720
Speaker 1: I don't understand. Shout out to sugar, yuki, share a

2973
02:26:55,800 --> 02:26:59,160
Speaker 1: yuki with the eight nineteen tip. The sexualization of Asian

2974
02:26:59,200 --> 02:27:02,440
Speaker 1: women as a missive sucks because they are the very

2975
02:27:02,520 --> 02:27:06,279
Speaker 1: opposite of that. Sure you key throwing down absolute facts

2976
02:27:07,000 --> 02:27:07,680
Speaker 1: that deserve to be.

2977
02:27:07,680 --> 02:27:09,200
Speaker 5: Sure fetishizing agent.

2978
02:27:09,480 --> 02:27:13,840
Speaker 1: Don't do it, But Sophia, could you do us the honor?

2979
02:27:14,400 --> 02:27:14,640
Speaker 5: Yeah?

2980
02:27:15,520 --> 02:27:16,320
Speaker 6: It is a calling.

2981
02:27:16,480 --> 02:27:18,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, are we doing a Colin or even want a store?

2982
02:27:18,879 --> 02:27:21,000
Speaker 1: How many stories have we done back to back? Probably

2983
02:27:21,040 --> 02:27:21,920
Speaker 1: Colin can do.

2984
02:27:23,560 --> 02:27:24,160
Speaker 2: What have we gotten?

2985
02:27:25,680 --> 02:27:29,080
Speaker 6: So we have my mother in law invited twenty three

2986
02:27:29,120 --> 02:27:32,680
Speaker 6: people on the day of our wedding got ship faced.

2987
02:27:33,360 --> 02:27:36,400
Speaker 1: That is awesome. Also, sorry, real quick before we call them.

2988
02:27:36,440 --> 02:27:37,600
Speaker 1: Could you scroll up a little bit? There was a

2989
02:27:37,680 --> 02:27:42,800
Speaker 1: great comment I wanted to read. It was from cat Familier.

2990
02:27:43,840 --> 02:27:45,920
Speaker 1: Sorry a little bit. Where was it? She said? It

2991
02:27:46,040 --> 02:27:48,920
Speaker 1: was the stream is illegal? Where is it? Maybe it's down?

2992
02:27:48,959 --> 02:27:52,320
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, kat M. I saw your comment again

2993
02:27:52,360 --> 02:27:53,880
Speaker 1: and I wanted to read it out because it was,

2994
02:27:54,520 --> 02:27:57,800
Speaker 1: uh where it's the stream is illegal?

2995
02:27:57,879 --> 02:27:58,840
Speaker 2: Are you are you seeing it?

2996
02:27:59,480 --> 02:28:02,240
Speaker 1: Many men? That was up on my weight go down.

2997
02:28:03,840 --> 02:28:07,360
Speaker 6: It's not that one, oh kat M.

2998
02:28:08,560 --> 02:28:10,439
Speaker 5: On my way to hards elderly.

2999
02:28:11,800 --> 02:28:14,560
Speaker 1: I might have read it, but earlier, Oh, I think

3000
02:28:14,600 --> 02:28:17,680
Speaker 1: it was one done Millennial who is in China. YouTube

3001
02:28:17,840 --> 02:28:21,160
Speaker 1: is illegal. There yet, one done Millennial is still here

3002
02:28:21,240 --> 02:28:21,960
Speaker 1: liking the stream.

3003
02:28:22,680 --> 02:28:26,440
Speaker 5: Still here. It is illegal. It is literally illegal to like.

3004
02:28:26,800 --> 02:28:29,280
Speaker 1: Yes, thank you? Yeah YouTube? Sorry, there we go. YouTube

3005
02:28:29,360 --> 02:28:31,240
Speaker 1: is technically illegal. So it might be a problem as

3006
02:28:31,280 --> 02:28:33,960
Speaker 1: I'll walk up to people and as them guys, guys, guys,

3007
02:28:34,160 --> 02:28:37,160
Speaker 1: hold on, hold on. One done Millennial is literally willing

3008
02:28:37,240 --> 02:28:41,240
Speaker 1: to break the law in order to get more people

3009
02:28:41,360 --> 02:28:44,480
Speaker 1: on and like the stream. Guys, what are we doing?

3010
02:28:45,040 --> 02:28:47,600
Speaker 1: What are we doing here where it is perfectly legal,

3011
02:28:48,120 --> 02:28:51,240
Speaker 1: perfect There is no law in our in our law.

3012
02:28:52,120 --> 02:28:56,280
Speaker 5: And you guys aren't even going to your neighbors, your

3013
02:28:56,360 --> 02:28:57,759
Speaker 5: elderly neighbors.

3014
02:28:57,440 --> 02:29:01,359
Speaker 1: And knocking on their doors. Get them all in one done, Millennial,

3015
02:29:01,640 --> 02:29:04,560
Speaker 1: you are indeed a hero. Thank you for that. Sorry,

3016
02:29:04,560 --> 02:29:07,080
Speaker 1: I just had to do a huge shadow Could you

3017
02:29:07,120 --> 02:29:09,119
Speaker 1: give us the rundown of the story one more time?

3018
02:29:09,120 --> 02:29:12,360
Speaker 6: Because yes, yes, yes, So my mother in law invited

3019
02:29:12,360 --> 02:29:14,360
Speaker 6: twenty three people on the day of our wedding, got

3020
02:29:14,440 --> 02:29:15,400
Speaker 6: ship faced.

3021
02:29:16,879 --> 02:29:22,920
Speaker 1: Bad, okay bad bad, naughty, stinky behavior, steky mother, naughty behavior,

3022
02:29:23,080 --> 02:29:25,680
Speaker 1: stinky mother. Let's see if they pick up stinking at

3023
02:29:25,720 --> 02:29:26,039
Speaker 1: the wedding.

3024
02:29:26,080 --> 02:29:31,720
Speaker 5: All right, here we go, banking out the wedding. Here

3025
02:29:31,800 --> 02:29:35,680
Speaker 5: we go, here it is waiting for the call.

3026
02:29:37,959 --> 02:29:48,800
Speaker 1: Wait, not me shouting. That's so funny, Stella Davis. We're

3027
02:29:48,800 --> 02:29:51,640
Speaker 1: gonna try again, Stella Davis said, one dunbe Millennial breaks

3028
02:29:51,680 --> 02:29:54,280
Speaker 1: a lot, John, Let's make sure the government officials know

3029
02:29:54,360 --> 02:29:54,800
Speaker 1: their breaking.

3030
02:29:55,240 --> 02:29:58,760
Speaker 5: Shouting undone Millennial, that is breaking the law.

3031
02:29:59,200 --> 02:30:00,680
Speaker 1: I had to give her the biggest shout out of

3032
02:30:00,720 --> 02:30:02,880
Speaker 1: her because that's amazing. One more time.

3033
02:30:03,040 --> 02:30:05,720
Speaker 6: One more time's ringing one more time?

3034
02:30:09,760 --> 02:30:13,840
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, all right, don't go to voicemail one more time.

3035
02:30:14,760 --> 02:30:21,400
Speaker 1: Alright, we're gonna celebrate. Oh yeah, not ring it's a

3036
02:30:21,480 --> 02:30:23,520
Speaker 1: magical non ringing number. That's that's too bad. Do we

3037
02:30:23,560 --> 02:30:26,280
Speaker 1: have any do we have anyone else?

3038
02:30:26,480 --> 02:30:26,680
Speaker 2: Yeah?

3039
02:30:26,720 --> 02:30:27,560
Speaker 1: Well but there's another one.

3040
02:30:31,840 --> 02:30:32,280
Speaker 2: Get in there.

3041
02:30:33,320 --> 02:30:34,640
Speaker 1: No free adverts, love bubbles?

3042
02:30:34,879 --> 02:30:35,480
Speaker 5: Who are we at?

3043
02:30:35,560 --> 02:30:38,600
Speaker 1: You know the drill? I have no idea John would know.

3044
02:30:39,120 --> 02:30:39,880
Speaker 2: No sponsors.

3045
02:30:41,120 --> 02:30:43,520
Speaker 1: We're always excited for those pre sponsors. It's my favorite.

3046
02:30:43,800 --> 02:30:47,280
Speaker 1: It's my favorite. No sponsor. That was the call song

3047
02:30:47,600 --> 02:30:51,280
Speaker 1: me singing? Yeah? Can we can we record that and

3048
02:30:51,400 --> 02:30:56,120
Speaker 1: have it play while it's ringing? Okay, give you a

3049
02:30:56,360 --> 02:30:58,120
Speaker 1: call one more time?

3050
02:30:59,320 --> 02:31:02,720
Speaker 5: Get up, magu Rita and llah.

3051
02:31:04,240 --> 02:31:04,560
Speaker 1: Fire.

3052
02:31:05,200 --> 02:31:06,440
Speaker 5: I don't know what that was. I'm sorry.

3053
02:31:06,480 --> 02:31:08,400
Speaker 6: I don't want my mother in law to speak at

3054
02:31:08,440 --> 02:31:10,840
Speaker 6: my wedding because I'm afraid of what she might say.

3055
02:31:14,440 --> 02:31:15,920
Speaker 1: I don't want my maid of honor to speak at

3056
02:31:15,920 --> 02:31:18,920
Speaker 1: the wedding because, okay, here we go. I wonder what

3057
02:31:19,000 --> 02:31:25,320
Speaker 1: you say dialing now, Queen tailor's your freestyle with dialing?

3058
02:31:25,840 --> 02:31:27,200
Speaker 5: This calling?

3059
02:31:28,360 --> 02:31:35,760
Speaker 1: Don't go to boys hall. I love the like theater

3060
02:31:35,920 --> 02:31:39,760
Speaker 1: influence on that that was I only do well, you

3061
02:31:39,840 --> 02:31:42,280
Speaker 1: did it great attention.

3062
02:31:42,560 --> 02:31:42,800
Speaker 8: Hello.

3063
02:31:43,360 --> 02:31:46,920
Speaker 1: Hello, it is John Sophia and rather from okop show.

3064
02:31:47,200 --> 02:31:48,000
Speaker 1: Who are we speaking with?

3065
02:31:49,600 --> 02:31:50,240
Speaker 8: This is Ruth?

3066
02:31:50,920 --> 02:31:51,240
Speaker 5: Ruth.

3067
02:31:51,440 --> 02:31:53,680
Speaker 1: What's up, Ruth? So we hear that you have a

3068
02:31:53,800 --> 02:31:58,080
Speaker 1: wedding and a maid of honor that you're afraid of

3069
02:31:58,200 --> 02:32:00,680
Speaker 1: what she might say? Could you give us the quick

3070
02:32:00,879 --> 02:32:02,520
Speaker 1: rundown on what's happening over there?

3071
02:32:03,879 --> 02:32:06,400
Speaker 8: All right, So we've been best friends for about ten years,

3072
02:32:06,560 --> 02:32:09,000
Speaker 8: but she's been in a lot of my highs and

3073
02:32:09,120 --> 02:32:11,520
Speaker 8: lows in life, and like she knows a lot of

3074
02:32:11,600 --> 02:32:15,640
Speaker 8: the juicy secrets I have. And I'm just slightly afraid

3075
02:32:15,680 --> 02:32:19,800
Speaker 8: if we combine alcohol with her, you know, partying with me,

3076
02:32:20,360 --> 02:32:23,199
Speaker 8: you know, focusing on my day, that she might reveal

3077
02:32:23,320 --> 02:32:28,440
Speaker 8: some things in front of my extremely conservative family. I

3078
02:32:28,480 --> 02:32:34,359
Speaker 8: don't want to share, such as my first bisexual experimenting

3079
02:32:34,720 --> 02:32:40,760
Speaker 8: with her, and we have dabbled in intimate things. I

3080
02:32:41,040 --> 02:32:44,280
Speaker 8: quickly realized I don't really want to date women. I'd

3081
02:32:44,400 --> 02:32:47,720
Speaker 8: rather spend quality time with them, be frans, flirt, but

3082
02:32:48,040 --> 02:32:51,520
Speaker 8: I don't want to date with it. Yeah, it's a

3083
02:32:51,680 --> 02:32:55,600
Speaker 8: little a little messy for me, but my partner is

3084
02:32:55,720 --> 02:32:58,600
Speaker 8: very cool, with this, like he knows that we previously

3085
02:32:59,440 --> 02:33:03,240
Speaker 8: were in a uh larting slash.

3086
02:33:03,120 --> 02:33:05,600
Speaker 1: You know, situationship, but perhaps.

3087
02:33:06,920 --> 02:33:08,279
Speaker 8: Yeah, and my partner.

3088
02:33:08,080 --> 02:33:08,520
Speaker 5: School with it.

3089
02:33:08,920 --> 02:33:10,960
Speaker 8: I recently came out to my sister as like, hey,

3090
02:33:11,000 --> 02:33:13,440
Speaker 8: am guy, you know, just let you know because one

3091
02:33:13,480 --> 02:33:15,720
Speaker 8: of her best friends is gay. But it got kind

3092
02:33:15,760 --> 02:33:17,800
Speaker 8: of awkward because my sister said, well, I don't think

3093
02:33:17,840 --> 02:33:19,840
Speaker 8: being gay as a sin, but like I do think,

3094
02:33:20,040 --> 02:33:26,160
Speaker 8: like I don't encourage it, and I'm like, okay, yeah,

3095
02:33:26,920 --> 02:33:30,560
Speaker 8: it's a little awkward sometimes. Yeah, if someone's like, oh,

3096
02:33:30,680 --> 02:33:32,720
Speaker 8: your best friend, oh, we're more than best friends? What

3097
02:33:33,200 --> 02:33:33,680
Speaker 8: never mind?

3098
02:33:34,280 --> 02:33:37,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so she's giving you some hot and cold vibes.

3099
02:33:38,080 --> 02:33:41,280
Speaker 1: Yeah wait wait hold on, let me clarify something real quick.

3100
02:33:41,360 --> 02:33:46,840
Speaker 1: So was was this your best friend that said, uh oh,

3101
02:33:48,000 --> 02:33:52,360
Speaker 1: I don't know, yeah, your sister, I'm sorry, thank you

3102
02:33:52,440 --> 02:33:54,920
Speaker 1: for clarifying. Yes, okay, go ahead continue, Sorry about that.

3103
02:33:55,879 --> 02:33:56,080
Speaker 11: Yeah.

3104
02:33:56,200 --> 02:33:58,959
Speaker 8: And so the funny thing is that at least one

3105
02:33:59,040 --> 02:34:01,120
Speaker 8: part of my family would probably be cool with it

3106
02:34:01,200 --> 02:34:03,960
Speaker 8: and not be upset because my my favorite aunt is

3107
02:34:03,959 --> 02:34:07,040
Speaker 8: a lesbian and her parents were supportive. They you know,

3108
02:34:07,200 --> 02:34:09,840
Speaker 8: said we love you for you, and my aunt told them,

3109
02:34:09,920 --> 02:34:12,640
Speaker 8: you know, them being supportive, like really changed her mental

3110
02:34:12,720 --> 02:34:14,760
Speaker 8: health and like how she's able to live her life

3111
02:34:14,800 --> 02:34:17,640
Speaker 8: as her to herself like and so part of my

3112
02:34:17,720 --> 02:34:19,640
Speaker 8: fame was cool with it, but the other part most

3113
02:34:19,720 --> 02:34:23,400
Speaker 8: definitely would not be okay. So it's just one of

3114
02:34:23,520 --> 02:34:26,720
Speaker 8: those things of like, you know, like you've seen really

3115
02:34:26,840 --> 02:34:30,920
Speaker 8: bad wedding speeches when people are drunk on yeah and

3116
02:34:31,160 --> 02:34:34,240
Speaker 8: YouTube and TikTok, and I'm like, I really don't want

3117
02:34:34,320 --> 02:34:37,080
Speaker 8: boost to happen because I'm an anxious person and I'm

3118
02:34:37,120 --> 02:34:39,520
Speaker 8: just sitting there, like what if we go too fart?

3119
02:34:39,560 --> 02:34:43,000
Speaker 8: Because to give to give you more context, this is

3120
02:34:43,120 --> 02:34:44,600
Speaker 8: this is why I want you know, y'all to know

3121
02:34:44,680 --> 02:34:47,280
Speaker 8: whether or not I'm the jerk for taking that you're

3122
02:34:47,280 --> 02:34:50,440
Speaker 8: not allowed to give speeches. My best friend has a

3123
02:34:50,720 --> 02:34:55,720
Speaker 8: very particular habit when she's drunk, which is she's either

3124
02:34:55,879 --> 02:35:00,440
Speaker 8: trying to flirt with every man everyone in there.

3125
02:35:01,000 --> 02:35:04,480
Speaker 9: Oh and uh, well we'll we'll.

3126
02:35:04,400 --> 02:35:08,680
Speaker 8: Make efforts to push boundaries and and show off how

3127
02:35:08,760 --> 02:35:10,680
Speaker 8: such she is. Now I want to cliffy. She's a

3128
02:35:10,879 --> 02:35:14,480
Speaker 8: very attractive woman and usually gets a lot of attention,

3129
02:35:14,800 --> 02:35:18,960
Speaker 8: But my favorite thing was the fact that I babysit

3130
02:35:19,080 --> 02:35:21,720
Speaker 8: her daughters for Christmas because she went to a Christmas party.

3131
02:35:21,800 --> 02:35:24,160
Speaker 8: She drank way too much at the Christmas party and

3132
02:35:24,640 --> 02:35:26,760
Speaker 8: came home and I was mentioning to her, Oh, yeah,

3133
02:35:26,879 --> 02:35:29,280
Speaker 8: my friend just had a breakup and he's, you know,

3134
02:35:29,440 --> 02:35:32,119
Speaker 8: trying to date again. She said, send him my way

3135
02:35:32,200 --> 02:35:36,120
Speaker 8: and proceeds to gesture to her lady bits. And I

3136
02:35:36,320 --> 02:35:39,000
Speaker 8: was just like, this is why I warn people about

3137
02:35:39,040 --> 02:35:39,800
Speaker 8: when you drink.

3138
02:35:40,480 --> 02:35:41,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's crazy.

3139
02:35:42,040 --> 02:35:44,000
Speaker 5: Send god.

3140
02:35:44,120 --> 02:35:48,039
Speaker 1: Okay, So your question is, are you the jerk if

3141
02:35:48,120 --> 02:35:50,400
Speaker 1: you basically sit her down and you're like, hey, don't

3142
02:35:50,480 --> 02:35:53,000
Speaker 1: don't blabber your mouth at your big speech.

3143
02:35:53,160 --> 02:35:53,560
Speaker 3: Is that right?

3144
02:35:54,640 --> 02:35:55,840
Speaker 11: Well, so my my.

3145
02:35:55,959 --> 02:35:59,520
Speaker 8: Partner made a suggestion. Yes, I phraise it that no

3146
02:35:59,680 --> 02:36:03,360
Speaker 8: one giving speeches. Then it won't be like I'm specifically

3147
02:36:03,440 --> 02:36:07,840
Speaker 8: telling her please do not reveal the juicy stuff because

3148
02:36:08,080 --> 02:36:09,800
Speaker 8: keep in mind, her.

3149
02:36:09,879 --> 02:36:11,920
Speaker 9: Husband is my ex.

3150
02:36:13,160 --> 02:36:19,360
Speaker 8: Oh wow, she knows all the juicy secrets. Oh they

3151
02:36:19,520 --> 02:36:24,120
Speaker 8: drinklabbering about all the old stories of hookah, three esomes

3152
02:36:24,160 --> 02:36:27,600
Speaker 8: and whatnot. Yeah, all the stuff.

3153
02:36:27,840 --> 02:36:30,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, no, no, no, Can I ask you

3154
02:36:30,120 --> 02:36:30,760
Speaker 1: a question, Ruth?

3155
02:36:30,959 --> 02:36:31,520
Speaker 3: Is this like?

3156
02:36:32,360 --> 02:36:33,879
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of us have this type

3157
02:36:33,879 --> 02:36:35,960
Speaker 1: of friend where they were like they were kind of

3158
02:36:36,040 --> 02:36:39,160
Speaker 1: there with us, with us and maybe for us during

3159
02:36:39,320 --> 02:36:42,400
Speaker 1: like down times or for a long time, but maybe

3160
02:36:42,480 --> 02:36:47,439
Speaker 1: they're not the most like supportive or you know, overall

3161
02:36:47,879 --> 02:36:49,840
Speaker 1: great friends, but they've kind of like always been there

3162
02:36:49,879 --> 02:36:51,840
Speaker 1: and maybe we're there in a hard time. Would do

3163
02:36:51,959 --> 02:36:55,040
Speaker 1: you think this friend falls in that bucket? Or she

3164
02:36:55,280 --> 02:36:57,360
Speaker 1: is actually genuinely supportive but just kind of has a

3165
02:36:57,680 --> 02:36:58,879
Speaker 1: big mouth when she gets.

3166
02:36:58,720 --> 02:37:03,080
Speaker 8: Tipsy, So she genuinely is a great friend. The funniest

3167
02:37:03,120 --> 02:37:05,720
Speaker 8: thing is, because my family's so conservative, they don't like her.

3168
02:37:06,760 --> 02:37:09,920
Speaker 8: This actually ties into another story that I've admitted for you,

3169
02:37:10,040 --> 02:37:13,519
Speaker 8: old boy, which ties into the standale butteraro and witchcraft.

3170
02:37:13,560 --> 02:37:14,960
Speaker 8: And it was it was a whole There was a

3171
02:37:15,000 --> 02:37:16,360
Speaker 8: satanic panic at my house.

3172
02:37:16,440 --> 02:37:17,320
Speaker 5: It was a whole ordeal.

3173
02:37:18,120 --> 02:37:21,040
Speaker 8: But I'll save that for another time if you call

3174
02:37:21,160 --> 02:37:25,800
Speaker 8: me back. But basically, my best friend has been been there.

3175
02:37:25,879 --> 02:37:29,680
Speaker 8: We could talk about anything, any topic, anything going on

3176
02:37:29,800 --> 02:37:31,920
Speaker 8: our life. And she's a person that would answer a

3177
02:37:31,920 --> 02:37:34,879
Speaker 8: phone call two am in the morning, any situation, drive

3178
02:37:34,959 --> 02:37:36,320
Speaker 8: and help me and support me. And I'll do the

3179
02:37:36,360 --> 02:37:39,120
Speaker 8: same for her. I love my goddaughter. That's her, you know,

3180
02:37:39,240 --> 02:37:42,920
Speaker 8: her two beautiful girls aren't my babies until I have babies,

3181
02:37:43,080 --> 02:37:45,640
Speaker 8: like I love and adore her and her children. So

3182
02:37:45,840 --> 02:37:49,240
Speaker 8: a bit of drama between her and I. She got

3183
02:37:49,520 --> 02:37:52,040
Speaker 8: she got jealous of the fact of spending more time

3184
02:37:52,080 --> 02:37:55,840
Speaker 8: with my partner than her. Yeah, started dating, and we

3185
02:37:55,920 --> 02:37:57,680
Speaker 8: had to resolve that. We didn't talk for six months,

3186
02:37:57,840 --> 02:38:00,000
Speaker 8: and we started talking again, and I said, I apologize.

3187
02:38:00,040 --> 02:38:01,920
Speaker 8: I said, I wasn't focused on you because she was

3188
02:38:02,000 --> 02:38:04,600
Speaker 8: going through a bunch of family stuff, like her sister

3189
02:38:05,040 --> 02:38:09,440
Speaker 8: ran away from home and like her parents are horrible people. Yeah,

3190
02:38:09,480 --> 02:38:11,360
Speaker 8: so she was going through a lot, and she's turned

3191
02:38:11,400 --> 02:38:13,760
Speaker 8: to me and was all like, hey, you're not like

3192
02:38:13,879 --> 02:38:15,560
Speaker 8: there for me when I need you, And I was

3193
02:38:15,600 --> 02:38:18,039
Speaker 8: there for you. Why are you so focused on your boyfriend?

3194
02:38:18,080 --> 02:38:21,760
Speaker 8: And I said, well, fair enough, he my boyfriend is

3195
02:38:21,840 --> 02:38:26,240
Speaker 8: extremely like touchy feely, and so my whole thing is

3196
02:38:26,440 --> 02:38:29,200
Speaker 8: like he's extremely affectionate. And she got so upset that

3197
02:38:29,280 --> 02:38:31,760
Speaker 8: he was like almost like showing off, like, hey, we're

3198
02:38:31,840 --> 02:38:36,280
Speaker 8: dating now, like she's mine, you know, very very you know,

3199
02:38:37,040 --> 02:38:40,120
Speaker 8: demanding my attention, which I get it, that's how he is,

3200
02:38:40,200 --> 02:38:43,760
Speaker 8: You're an extremely affectionate person. But I think she was

3201
02:38:43,879 --> 02:38:46,440
Speaker 8: just so jealous that when it was just her and

3202
02:38:46,520 --> 02:38:47,600
Speaker 8: I for so long.

3203
02:38:48,400 --> 02:38:51,440
Speaker 1: Yeah that I was not like, okay, her full.

3204
02:38:51,280 --> 02:38:52,360
Speaker 3: Attention got it.

3205
02:38:52,440 --> 02:38:58,320
Speaker 1: Okay, So I think that. I mean I normally would say,

3206
02:38:58,360 --> 02:39:00,600
Speaker 1: and Sophia, let me know what you think. If they're

3207
02:39:00,600 --> 02:39:03,840
Speaker 1: a great friends, then like sitting them down and being like, hey,

3208
02:39:04,080 --> 02:39:07,879
Speaker 1: like you know how conservative my family is. Like I'm

3209
02:39:08,000 --> 02:39:10,480
Speaker 1: kind of like making the rounds to you know, everyone

3210
02:39:11,160 --> 02:39:12,920
Speaker 1: involved in the wedding and be like, hey, let's like

3211
02:39:13,120 --> 02:39:15,280
Speaker 1: keep all the crazy stories like just you know, just

3212
02:39:15,400 --> 02:39:17,360
Speaker 1: in the tight little friend group and not like put

3213
02:39:17,400 --> 02:39:20,840
Speaker 1: it in the speeches or anything. However, if it does

3214
02:39:21,240 --> 02:39:24,320
Speaker 1: seem it seems like maybe there could be some kind

3215
02:39:24,360 --> 02:39:28,000
Speaker 1: of retaliation, maybe the safe move is actually to have

3216
02:39:28,160 --> 02:39:29,600
Speaker 1: no one speak. I don't know, what do you think

3217
02:39:29,640 --> 02:39:29,800
Speaker 1: of it?

3218
02:39:30,000 --> 02:39:31,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, I would agree. I was gonna say, you can

3219
02:39:32,080 --> 02:39:34,240
Speaker 5: try and have a conversation with her, But if the

3220
02:39:34,360 --> 02:39:37,600
Speaker 5: worry is more like she'll get drunk and then sell

3221
02:39:37,600 --> 02:39:40,200
Speaker 5: it anyways, that I think a safe route would be

3222
02:39:40,440 --> 02:39:42,920
Speaker 5: to go no one makes speeches and then also takes

3223
02:39:42,920 --> 02:39:44,880
Speaker 5: a lot of stress off of you totally and this

3224
02:39:45,000 --> 02:39:46,600
Speaker 5: is your big day and you don't need to be

3225
02:39:46,600 --> 02:39:47,600
Speaker 5: stressed about these things.

3226
02:39:48,240 --> 02:39:50,760
Speaker 1: How does that feel really yeah, we had Yeah.

3227
02:39:50,640 --> 02:39:53,920
Speaker 8: No, I definitely want a second opinions because with her,

3228
02:39:54,120 --> 02:39:57,480
Speaker 8: I've like talked to my friends and been like, I

3229
02:39:57,600 --> 02:40:01,240
Speaker 8: don't want to hurt her feeling totally yeah.

3230
02:40:01,600 --> 02:40:05,280
Speaker 1: Yeah. And to be clear, I think you're not the

3231
02:40:05,400 --> 02:40:07,200
Speaker 1: jerk in this situation as well, Like.

3232
02:40:07,400 --> 02:40:09,160
Speaker 5: I think no speeches would be yeah.

3233
02:40:09,000 --> 02:40:11,720
Speaker 1: One hundred percent. I think you're in the right and

3234
02:40:11,800 --> 02:40:13,400
Speaker 1: I think you know no speeches are safe.

3235
02:40:14,200 --> 02:40:14,480
Speaker 2: Ruth.

3236
02:40:14,840 --> 02:40:17,080
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for calling and sharing your story.

3237
02:40:17,240 --> 02:40:20,480
Speaker 1: I look forward to hearing this satanic panic story in

3238
02:40:20,560 --> 02:40:24,640
Speaker 1: the future as well, so we appreciate you. You, of course,

3239
02:40:24,680 --> 02:40:29,959
Speaker 1: have a good one every wedding. Oh my gosh. Another

3240
02:40:31,120 --> 02:40:34,800
Speaker 1: King Frederick, the third God for.

3241
02:40:36,520 --> 02:40:40,720
Speaker 13: And he has dropped three hundred royal regal dollars to

3242
02:40:41,200 --> 02:40:44,800
Speaker 13: Riley extend the stream another hour, ladies and gentlemen.

3243
02:40:44,879 --> 02:40:51,480
Speaker 1: That is another hour on the books. Okay, that is right. Wow, guys,

3244
02:40:51,680 --> 02:40:54,039
Speaker 1: Crowns in the chap crowns, crowns, crowns, crowns. I want

3245
02:40:54,080 --> 02:40:57,320
Speaker 1: to see. I want crowns to be coming in so

3246
02:40:57,520 --> 02:41:01,000
Speaker 1: fast that I just pass out. That's how fast I

3247
02:41:01,080 --> 02:41:01,920
Speaker 1: want those coming in the chow.

3248
02:41:03,040 --> 02:41:03,160
Speaker 8: Uh.

3249
02:41:03,560 --> 02:41:08,240
Speaker 1: It worked, Thank you, King Frederick. Wow. Incredible and shout

3250
02:41:08,360 --> 02:41:08,920
Speaker 1: to Ruth as well.

3251
02:41:10,600 --> 02:41:11,119
Speaker 2: Cut off.

3252
02:41:11,600 --> 02:41:13,560
Speaker 6: That was my bad. Sorry Ruth, Sorry Ruth.

3253
02:41:13,720 --> 02:41:17,199
Speaker 5: Oh yes, yeah, apologies there apologies in the chat for Ruth.

3254
02:41:17,320 --> 02:41:21,800
Speaker 1: Yes, apologies Chef Ruth, be thoughtful and Stanley, thank you

3255
02:41:22,040 --> 02:41:24,040
Speaker 1: for the one seventy six tip. Would you guys ever

3256
02:41:24,120 --> 02:41:26,200
Speaker 1: be open to sharing a good love story based on

3257
02:41:26,920 --> 02:41:30,360
Speaker 1: perseverance rather than bad stories about love? We do have

3258
02:41:30,440 --> 02:41:32,880
Speaker 1: wholesome Yeah, we do have some wholesome, wholesome stories which

3259
02:41:32,920 --> 02:41:34,960
Speaker 1: wish we could definitely get a lot more of him

3260
02:41:34,959 --> 02:41:37,040
Speaker 1: in there. Yeah, we like I think the core thing

3261
02:41:37,080 --> 02:41:40,000
Speaker 1: we want to have his relationship stories, but definitely wholesome

3262
02:41:40,200 --> 02:41:43,320
Speaker 1: and tests and trials, Tests and trials. I think there's

3263
02:41:43,320 --> 02:41:46,640
Speaker 1: also learning lessons to those things. But absolutely Stanley, Yes,

3264
02:41:46,800 --> 02:41:51,080
Speaker 1: to answer your question, speaking of reading stories, Yeah, who

3265
02:41:51,200 --> 02:41:51,520
Speaker 1: is next?

3266
02:41:51,640 --> 02:41:52,240
Speaker 5: I think it's me.

3267
02:41:52,560 --> 02:41:57,119
Speaker 1: I think it's the whim queen Queen. What are we got?

3268
02:41:57,680 --> 02:41:58,160
Speaker 1: Are we doing?

3269
02:41:58,240 --> 02:42:00,560
Speaker 5: Three eighty three or three D two?

3270
02:42:01,440 --> 02:42:01,560
Speaker 11: Uh?

3271
02:42:03,760 --> 02:42:03,920
Speaker 3: Pick?

3272
02:42:05,440 --> 02:42:08,600
Speaker 1: Wait you tell us three D three three D three

3273
02:42:09,440 --> 02:42:11,200
Speaker 1: eighty three. Let's do it?

3274
02:42:11,480 --> 02:42:12,280
Speaker 5: You could jok it.

3275
02:42:12,680 --> 02:42:15,560
Speaker 1: Get's tart. I'm gonna grab some water. Yes, can get

3276
02:42:15,560 --> 02:42:16,680
Speaker 1: anything for YouTube?

3277
02:42:16,760 --> 02:42:20,119
Speaker 5: Pa, could you get me a little bowl full of cashues,

3278
02:42:20,240 --> 02:42:25,240
Speaker 5: bowl of Casho's done. It's on my shelf like when

3279
02:42:25,280 --> 02:42:28,800
Speaker 5: you're looking, you know, so your coffee area, and then

3280
02:42:28,800 --> 02:42:30,720
Speaker 5: you turn around and my shelf has all of those,

3281
02:42:31,040 --> 02:42:36,000
Speaker 5: like the shelf in the kitchen. Okay, I'm getting some cashoes, guys,

3282
02:42:36,320 --> 02:42:39,560
Speaker 5: but I will read a story in the meantime. Alrighty

3283
02:42:40,520 --> 02:42:43,160
Speaker 5: am I the a hole for ignoring a crying baby

3284
02:42:43,280 --> 02:42:49,480
Speaker 5: in a restaurant and focusing on desserts. You mind your business, honestly, honestly,

3285
02:42:49,560 --> 02:42:53,360
Speaker 5: that's the best thing business. That's fair. Uh So, Puppa

3286
02:42:53,440 --> 02:42:55,960
Speaker 5: here says a few days back, I was out for

3287
02:42:56,000 --> 02:43:00,400
Speaker 5: dinner with two friends and is pregnant currently seventeen weeks.

3288
02:43:00,600 --> 02:43:05,520
Speaker 5: Kim is married for three years and currently desperately trying

3289
02:43:05,600 --> 02:43:09,280
Speaker 5: to get pregnant. I hate when people do this. Don't

3290
02:43:09,320 --> 02:43:11,920
Speaker 5: tell me it what. I don't want people to tell

3291
02:43:11,959 --> 02:43:13,240
Speaker 5: me that they're trying to get pregnant.

3292
02:43:13,440 --> 02:43:17,200
Speaker 6: Oh I thought baby fever and you're like, don't tell

3293
02:43:17,240 --> 02:43:17,680
Speaker 6: me you trying to.

3294
02:43:17,640 --> 02:43:19,160
Speaker 1: Have a baby. Oh I want a baby.

3295
02:43:19,280 --> 02:43:19,560
Speaker 5: I don't.

3296
02:43:19,560 --> 02:43:20,640
Speaker 1: I don't need a baby right now.

3297
02:43:21,040 --> 02:43:23,200
Speaker 6: That's good. I don't know what that was.

3298
02:43:23,440 --> 02:43:27,040
Speaker 5: I want a baby even know right now anyway, because

3299
02:43:27,080 --> 02:43:30,160
Speaker 5: Anne is pregnant, Kim cannot stand the idea of not

3300
02:43:30,400 --> 02:43:33,120
Speaker 5: being pregnant yet, and that's all she can think or

3301
02:43:33,200 --> 02:43:36,040
Speaker 5: talk about. Though it doesn't interest me as much as

3302
02:43:36,120 --> 02:43:39,280
Speaker 5: someone who doesn't plan on ever having children. I happen

3303
02:43:39,320 --> 02:43:42,240
Speaker 5: to have developed a good tolerance for pregnancy slash child

3304
02:43:42,360 --> 02:43:45,440
Speaker 5: related topics because all of my friends are either pregnant

3305
02:43:45,640 --> 02:43:50,400
Speaker 5: or parents. During dinner, they spoke only about pregnancies and childbirth,

3306
02:43:50,560 --> 02:43:52,959
Speaker 5: where I was hoping to catch up on other topics

3307
02:43:54,040 --> 02:43:57,280
Speaker 5: because I couldn't get them to talk about anything else,

3308
02:43:57,440 --> 02:44:02,039
Speaker 5: despite politely and subtly trying to change the topics several times.

3309
02:44:02,840 --> 02:44:05,320
Speaker 5: And thank you Susan for the three twenty four tip,

3310
02:44:05,520 --> 02:44:08,040
Speaker 5: even Gang and stan Lee for the one somebody six

3311
02:44:09,200 --> 02:44:11,879
Speaker 5: which actually we already read that one. Now you're fine

3312
02:44:12,720 --> 02:44:16,720
Speaker 5: and continuing with the story. Where was I? But as

3313
02:44:16,760 --> 02:44:20,000
Speaker 5: I understand that these topics interest them more right now,

3314
02:44:20,280 --> 02:44:23,160
Speaker 5: I very politely contributed to the conversation where I could

3315
02:44:23,720 --> 02:44:26,840
Speaker 5: otherwise I let them talk as they pleased. So far,

3316
02:44:26,920 --> 02:44:29,480
Speaker 5: I feel like OP hasn't done anything wrong.

3317
02:44:29,920 --> 02:44:30,120
Speaker 6: Yeah.

3318
02:44:30,480 --> 02:44:33,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, their friends are talking about babies and they're like, Okay,

3319
02:44:33,160 --> 02:44:35,120
Speaker 5: I guess, I guess that's the combo right now?

3320
02:44:35,840 --> 02:44:37,039
Speaker 6: Is there more tolive?

3321
02:44:37,440 --> 02:44:37,640
Speaker 1: Yeah?

3322
02:44:38,440 --> 02:44:40,240
Speaker 6: Doesn't that suck? Like when like one of your friend

3323
02:44:40,280 --> 02:44:43,640
Speaker 6: groups gets really focused in on something and you're like, ah, yeah,

3324
02:44:43,720 --> 02:44:44,800
Speaker 6: I can't relate to this.

3325
02:44:44,959 --> 02:44:47,440
Speaker 5: Like when all of your friends are in relationships.

3326
02:44:46,840 --> 02:44:52,840
Speaker 2: And you're like, you know, yeah, you know right, Yeah,

3327
02:44:52,959 --> 02:44:53,920
Speaker 2: I do know what you mean.

3328
02:44:54,640 --> 02:44:54,879
Speaker 8: Yeah.

3329
02:44:55,280 --> 02:44:56,480
Speaker 6: I couldn't imagine being.

3330
02:44:56,320 --> 02:44:57,039
Speaker 2: In one of those.

3331
02:44:57,879 --> 02:44:59,800
Speaker 5: Thank you mile Hi Mavin for the five dollar tip.

3332
02:45:00,000 --> 02:45:03,440
Speaker 5: Why does Riley always need ice packs because he's he's

3333
02:45:03,480 --> 02:45:05,600
Speaker 5: got bruises covering his body.

3334
02:45:06,360 --> 02:45:09,440
Speaker 6: No, it's because the cameras they overheat. You you may

3335
02:45:09,480 --> 02:45:12,800
Speaker 6: have seen him over heat once or twice those things. Yeah,

3336
02:45:13,600 --> 02:45:15,879
Speaker 6: send us icebacks if you guys want to send us something,

3337
02:45:16,040 --> 02:45:16,760
Speaker 6: that would be great.

3338
02:45:17,040 --> 02:45:18,600
Speaker 5: Oh my god, wave we scrawl up. It is a

3339
02:45:18,600 --> 02:45:23,959
Speaker 5: good Oh Sydney without kidneys. Always when Sophia and Riley

3340
02:45:24,000 --> 02:45:26,920
Speaker 5: are alone, they talk about having kids. This conspiracy that

3341
02:45:26,959 --> 02:45:29,080
Speaker 5: they're going to get together eventually is looking.

3342
02:45:29,000 --> 02:45:31,720
Speaker 1: Prossibly conspiracy theory.

3343
02:45:31,959 --> 02:45:32,920
Speaker 5: Conspiracy theory.

3344
02:45:33,240 --> 02:45:35,560
Speaker 6: Uh, there is not any conspiracy theory.

3345
02:45:36,360 --> 02:45:37,240
Speaker 1: I'm with childs.

3346
02:45:38,560 --> 02:45:39,240
Speaker 6: Who's the father?

3347
02:45:40,640 --> 02:45:40,879
Speaker 5: God?

3348
02:45:41,959 --> 02:45:42,240
Speaker 2: Mary?

3349
02:45:42,400 --> 02:45:43,400
Speaker 6: Oh she's marry cool?

3350
02:45:43,560 --> 02:45:46,320
Speaker 5: Nice, But let's continue.

3351
02:45:45,920 --> 02:45:46,720
Speaker 1: With this story.

3352
02:45:48,360 --> 02:45:52,400
Speaker 5: A baby started crying in our vicinity and kept crying

3353
02:45:52,560 --> 02:45:54,760
Speaker 5: for a while, even though the mother tried to calm

3354
02:45:54,800 --> 02:45:57,600
Speaker 5: it down. It didn't seem hurting anyway. It seemed to

3355
02:45:57,640 --> 02:46:00,320
Speaker 5: be a normal cry for a baby. I know it

3356
02:46:00,440 --> 02:46:03,600
Speaker 5: started crying because it was loud, and then didn't notice

3357
02:46:03,680 --> 02:46:06,000
Speaker 5: it anymore. So they noticed the baby was crying and

3358
02:46:06,080 --> 02:46:10,000
Speaker 5: then kind of tuned it out. The crying was like, oh,

3359
02:46:10,760 --> 02:46:12,760
Speaker 5: I know I was crying because that's what my friends

3360
02:46:12,879 --> 02:46:15,119
Speaker 5: kept talking about. But I tuned it out and went

3361
02:46:15,240 --> 02:46:19,120
Speaker 5: back to savoring my dessert. The crying was like background

3362
02:46:19,200 --> 02:46:22,840
Speaker 5: noise to me. But then my friends noticed how I'm

3363
02:46:22,920 --> 02:46:26,240
Speaker 5: enjoying my dessert and not contributing to their conversation about

3364
02:46:26,280 --> 02:46:28,840
Speaker 5: how sad they feel for the baby and how it's

3365
02:46:28,920 --> 02:46:32,400
Speaker 5: making their heart ache. As in, they were having some

3366
02:46:32,520 --> 02:46:36,920
Speaker 5: sort of physical reaction to the baby crying, which is

3367
02:46:37,200 --> 02:46:39,840
Speaker 5: which is a thing, but like, why are they calling

3368
02:46:39,879 --> 02:46:40,320
Speaker 5: op out?

3369
02:46:40,400 --> 02:46:43,160
Speaker 6: But it's given like pick me mom, Yeah, yeah, it's.

3370
02:46:43,200 --> 02:46:46,320
Speaker 5: Like I I I'm having such a reaction to the

3371
02:46:46,400 --> 02:46:49,640
Speaker 5: baby crying. Oh pee, why aren't you having that reaction?

3372
02:46:50,600 --> 02:46:55,959
Speaker 5: I don't know about that. We thank you for five

3373
02:46:56,000 --> 02:46:58,880
Speaker 5: bucks for Rachel the axe hatchet I swear Riley and

3374
02:46:59,000 --> 02:46:59,920
Speaker 5: Sophia is an ever.

3375
02:47:00,720 --> 02:47:02,920
Speaker 6: Wow, that's so crazy because like we live together and

3376
02:47:03,000 --> 02:47:04,640
Speaker 6: work together and together.

3377
02:47:04,360 --> 02:47:07,760
Speaker 5: And works together. Yeah right, inevitable.

3378
02:47:08,200 --> 02:47:09,720
Speaker 6: John kidding here to break up the tension.

3379
02:47:11,840 --> 02:47:16,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, Belle Conkling says she doesn't have the hormones from

3380
02:47:16,440 --> 02:47:21,720
Speaker 5: birthing to cause that yea was there, there was? Mom

3381
02:47:21,879 --> 02:47:25,400
Speaker 5: went up more. Uh dear Jo says, I'm a mom

3382
02:47:25,440 --> 02:47:28,400
Speaker 5: and crying babies irk me. It's actually very funny, very

3383
02:47:28,480 --> 02:47:32,119
Speaker 5: quickly before we read on my mom like hates crying babies,

3384
02:47:32,160 --> 02:47:34,400
Speaker 5: and so it was very funny. It went what she

3385
02:47:34,560 --> 02:47:40,280
Speaker 5: had us what she obviously thank you? Sure, So what's

3386
02:47:40,320 --> 02:47:41,160
Speaker 5: a good service?

3387
02:47:43,120 --> 02:47:46,960
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'll leave you a tip later, but maybe the

3388
02:47:47,080 --> 02:47:48,160
Speaker 6: color of your shirt.

3389
02:47:49,680 --> 02:47:49,880
Speaker 5: Red.

3390
02:47:50,680 --> 02:47:52,440
Speaker 6: I'll leave you a tip later, but it will be

3391
02:47:52,520 --> 02:47:54,880
Speaker 6: the color of your shirt anyway.

3392
02:47:55,120 --> 02:47:56,920
Speaker 5: Let's get on with the story. T l g R

3393
02:47:57,040 --> 02:48:02,960
Speaker 5: for John. Basically, Op went out to to get food

3394
02:48:03,160 --> 02:48:06,200
Speaker 5: with their friends who are both one is pregnant, one

3395
02:48:06,320 --> 02:48:08,400
Speaker 5: is desperately trying.

3396
02:48:08,160 --> 02:48:08,800
Speaker 1: To get pregnant.

3397
02:48:08,879 --> 02:48:12,880
Speaker 5: Oh yes, so all they're thinking about is pregnancy. A

3398
02:48:12,959 --> 02:48:18,680
Speaker 5: baby starts crying in the restaurant. Op ignores it, continues

3399
02:48:18,720 --> 02:48:22,560
Speaker 5: eating dessert and then Opie's friends are like, like, what

3400
02:48:22,800 --> 02:48:26,400
Speaker 5: you don't care about this crying baby, Like, like, you're

3401
02:48:26,440 --> 02:48:30,720
Speaker 5: not having a physical reaction to the baby crying. And

3402
02:48:30,840 --> 02:48:32,000
Speaker 5: so that's that's where we're at.

3403
02:48:32,320 --> 02:48:36,240
Speaker 1: Interesting, all right, let me eat this hold on important

3404
02:48:36,320 --> 02:48:43,320
Speaker 1: cash you break? Okay, ladies and gentlemen, bella conkling. No, yeah,

3405
02:48:43,720 --> 02:48:50,240
Speaker 1: what they were shipping, oh kat m the Rioley ex

3406
02:48:50,360 --> 02:48:53,520
Speaker 1: John fanfic. When well, that's up to you, guys. Yeah,

3407
02:48:53,560 --> 02:48:55,400
Speaker 1: that's the other that is up.

3408
02:48:58,440 --> 02:48:58,720
Speaker 2: As in.

3409
02:48:59,000 --> 02:49:02,520
Speaker 5: Okay. So so they're asking her how they don't like

3410
02:49:02,760 --> 02:49:05,320
Speaker 5: why she's not sad about this. I tell them I

3411
02:49:05,360 --> 02:49:07,960
Speaker 5: don't hear the baby crying anymore. They asked me if

3412
02:49:08,040 --> 02:49:10,560
Speaker 5: I have a hearing issue, So I explained how it

3413
02:49:10,720 --> 02:49:13,600
Speaker 5: was like background noise to me. After the first ten seconds,

3414
02:49:14,240 --> 02:49:19,680
Speaker 5: both of them looked at me with horror pity. Kim

3415
02:49:19,800 --> 02:49:22,000
Speaker 5: told me that it is good I don't have plans

3416
02:49:22,040 --> 02:49:25,400
Speaker 5: on having children because I'm heartless and the baby will

3417
02:49:25,440 --> 02:49:28,440
Speaker 5: be unlucky to be my baby. Oh my god, and

3418
02:49:28,640 --> 02:49:30,840
Speaker 5: said that she pities me. That I'll never know the

3419
02:49:30,920 --> 02:49:36,959
Speaker 5: feeling that they both had. Oh my god, Jesus, Oh calm.

3420
02:49:36,920 --> 02:49:39,280
Speaker 1: Down, Oh my god, who has this reaction when a

3421
02:49:39,320 --> 02:49:39,879
Speaker 1: baby cries.

3422
02:49:40,040 --> 02:49:44,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, who's like, oh the baby, Like, what can you do?

3423
02:49:45,640 --> 02:49:48,200
Speaker 1: What are you gonna do? Take the baby and feel

3424
02:49:48,280 --> 02:49:49,440
Speaker 1: the baby like it's okay.

3425
02:49:49,760 --> 02:49:51,680
Speaker 5: Also, I did say before like it is a thing

3426
02:49:51,720 --> 02:49:54,040
Speaker 5: where like mothers will have reactions to crying babies, that

3427
02:49:54,160 --> 02:49:56,000
Speaker 5: is a thing. One of them is not a mother.

3428
02:49:57,000 --> 02:49:59,480
Speaker 5: One of them is just desperately trying to be pregnant.

3429
02:50:00,400 --> 02:50:02,760
Speaker 5: Like so this is not even like they're both pregnant.

3430
02:50:02,760 --> 02:50:03,680
Speaker 5: They're having reactions.

3431
02:50:03,879 --> 02:50:08,640
Speaker 1: No, she wants to steal the baby. Baby steelers.

3432
02:50:10,000 --> 02:50:11,520
Speaker 5: Shout out to baby stealers.

3433
02:50:15,080 --> 02:50:17,680
Speaker 6: I'll shout out them, Yeah, shout out to baby makers,

3434
02:50:17,879 --> 02:50:19,640
Speaker 6: not stealers. Dude, that's not cool.

3435
02:50:20,400 --> 02:50:21,400
Speaker 5: Don't steal babies.

3436
02:50:22,040 --> 02:50:22,800
Speaker 1: I have no words.

3437
02:50:24,240 --> 02:50:28,480
Speaker 5: Anyway, I laughed at their comments because I thought that

3438
02:50:28,600 --> 02:50:31,440
Speaker 5: Kim wasn't very serious about her comment. And Anne is going,

3439
02:50:31,640 --> 02:50:33,640
Speaker 5: how would how could she have said that? Not seriously?

3440
02:50:34,080 --> 02:50:36,320
Speaker 5: She's like, good, you're not playing and not having children

3441
02:50:36,440 --> 02:50:38,519
Speaker 5: because you're heartless.

3442
02:50:38,360 --> 02:50:42,400
Speaker 1: And your baby would be unlucky to terrible Bob.

3443
02:50:42,720 --> 02:50:49,520
Speaker 5: She said, ands like ah, just jokes, playful ribbing, and

3444
02:50:49,640 --> 02:50:51,880
Speaker 5: Anne is going through a few hormonal changes with their

3445
02:50:51,920 --> 02:50:54,920
Speaker 5: pregnancy and deserves some leniency regarding what she says to me.

3446
02:50:55,280 --> 02:50:59,840
Speaker 5: But they both got mad at me. Neither according to

3447
02:50:59,879 --> 02:51:04,800
Speaker 5: that it wasn't something to laugh about. Also something not

3448
02:51:05,080 --> 02:51:08,960
Speaker 5: to laugh about, ye either is Ellie Salazar gifting four

3449
02:51:09,000 --> 02:51:12,080
Speaker 5: bucks sing you and also ivb in for the other

3450
02:51:12,200 --> 02:51:14,920
Speaker 5: five bucks. Okay, so, as a mother of two infants,

3451
02:51:14,959 --> 02:51:17,920
Speaker 5: crying in public doesn't really bother me. Infants cry, however,

3452
02:51:18,080 --> 02:51:21,800
Speaker 5: toddler's whining and tantrums is a different story. And also,

3453
02:51:21,840 --> 02:51:24,359
Speaker 5: thank you Susan for the even gang.

3454
02:51:24,200 --> 02:51:25,080
Speaker 1: Tip, even gang.

3455
02:51:25,400 --> 02:51:27,640
Speaker 5: Let's go, but let's finish up this story. There's only

3456
02:51:27,640 --> 02:51:30,680
Speaker 5: a little bit left here we go. Neither of these

3457
02:51:30,720 --> 02:51:33,320
Speaker 5: comments bothered me at first, but after I posted about

3458
02:51:33,360 --> 02:51:35,920
Speaker 5: it yesterday, I received a lot of comments telling me

3459
02:51:36,040 --> 02:51:39,480
Speaker 5: that they're not good friends. I argued in their favor

3460
02:51:39,560 --> 02:51:44,280
Speaker 5: because of their difficult situations, they're emotionally having a tough time.

3461
02:51:44,600 --> 02:51:47,720
Speaker 5: But after what happened today, I'm not so sure anymore.

3462
02:51:48,160 --> 02:51:50,280
Speaker 5: Kim texted me today saying that I need to start

3463
02:51:50,320 --> 02:51:53,760
Speaker 5: showing a little more concern towards crying children if I'm

3464
02:51:53,840 --> 02:51:57,320
Speaker 5: to spend time with her future children. Oh my god.

3465
02:51:57,680 --> 02:51:59,480
Speaker 5: When I asked her if my heart should ache every

3466
02:51:59,520 --> 02:52:02,720
Speaker 5: time range child cry just because I have a uterist

3467
02:52:02,920 --> 02:52:06,000
Speaker 5: she called me an a hole? So am I the

3468
02:52:06,080 --> 02:52:08,879
Speaker 5: ale for ignoring that crying child?

3469
02:52:09,120 --> 02:52:09,280
Speaker 3: Uh?

3470
02:52:09,800 --> 02:52:14,840
Speaker 1: You know, honestly, I crying. I think that the point?

3471
02:52:15,400 --> 02:52:17,600
Speaker 1: Oh who was it? The main point? I've been Ivy Bean,

3472
02:52:17,760 --> 02:52:20,480
Speaker 1: I think made a great point. Babies crying. Usually I'm

3473
02:52:20,520 --> 02:52:23,080
Speaker 1: able to kind of just like phase out, but a

3474
02:52:23,200 --> 02:52:27,120
Speaker 1: toddler like talking and whining is kind of annoying to me.

3475
02:52:27,200 --> 02:52:30,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's like low five music versus like music with words.

3476
02:52:31,520 --> 02:52:35,000
Speaker 1: That's yeah, that's a great way of putting it. Damn. Also,

3477
02:52:35,320 --> 02:52:38,480
Speaker 1: kat M one sixty nine donation felt like being chaotic.

3478
02:52:38,600 --> 02:52:41,440
Speaker 6: Wow, oh my gosh, I literally put the link in

3479
02:52:41,640 --> 02:52:42,039
Speaker 6: just for her.

3480
02:52:42,000 --> 02:52:42,320
Speaker 3: To do that.

3481
02:52:42,560 --> 02:52:46,560
Speaker 1: That that is hilarious. And oh jeez, and susan even

3482
02:52:46,640 --> 02:52:49,360
Speaker 1: gang with the three forty one dude, the even is

3483
02:52:49,400 --> 02:52:52,760
Speaker 1: the odd gang entering the chat is that that would

3484
02:52:52,800 --> 02:52:56,040
Speaker 1: be anarchy. Sleepless Nights five dollars, Hey, I posted and

3485
02:52:56,120 --> 02:52:58,160
Speaker 1: am I the a hole for breaking up with my

3486
02:52:58,280 --> 02:53:02,320
Speaker 1: situationship through text? This happened on Friday last week. Would

3487
02:53:02,360 --> 02:53:05,160
Speaker 1: love advice on what to do next? Thank you? Was

3488
02:53:05,200 --> 02:53:09,200
Speaker 1: that in our sub breddit Sleepless We Will we will

3489
02:53:09,240 --> 02:53:12,600
Speaker 1: definitely give you advice. We will definitely peep that and

3490
02:53:12,760 --> 02:53:15,920
Speaker 1: check that out. Maybe do we know if it is

3491
02:53:15,959 --> 02:53:16,680
Speaker 1: that in the queue?

3492
02:53:16,760 --> 02:53:18,840
Speaker 6: Do we know I can put it? I could put

3493
02:53:18,840 --> 02:53:19,360
Speaker 6: it in the cue.

3494
02:53:19,440 --> 02:53:21,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe check it out. Riley's Riley's gonna look into it.

3495
02:53:22,360 --> 02:53:24,480
Speaker 5: The CAG nineteen ninety five says I would not remain

3496
02:53:24,520 --> 02:53:25,320
Speaker 5: friends with these people.

3497
02:53:25,800 --> 02:53:26,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree.

3498
02:53:26,480 --> 02:53:30,240
Speaker 5: They're they're being like really mean for no reason for

3499
02:53:30,360 --> 02:53:33,040
Speaker 5: you literally like trying to enjoy your meal and not

3500
02:53:33,400 --> 02:53:36,080
Speaker 5: you know, getting in someone else's business. I just like

3501
02:53:36,440 --> 02:53:36,959
Speaker 5: your business.

3502
02:53:37,080 --> 02:53:41,560
Speaker 1: These people in these stories. I'm just like, why, why,

3503
02:53:42,320 --> 02:53:46,120
Speaker 1: why why do you suck? I don't know, it's just it. Yeah,

3504
02:53:46,840 --> 02:53:47,200
Speaker 1: I don't know.

3505
02:53:47,400 --> 02:53:50,040
Speaker 2: I I get speech till sometimes and this is one

3506
02:53:50,080 --> 02:53:52,360
Speaker 2: of those times where I'm like, just let people live

3507
02:53:52,400 --> 02:53:52,880
Speaker 2: their lives.

3508
02:53:53,320 --> 02:53:55,920
Speaker 5: Also, Opie said that they didn't want children anyway, so

3509
02:53:55,959 --> 02:53:57,000
Speaker 5: I don't understand why this is.

3510
02:53:57,120 --> 02:54:00,240
Speaker 1: Like yeah, and like if you like, I totally I

3511
02:54:00,320 --> 02:54:02,480
Speaker 1: totally see you can understand. Like like you said, like

3512
02:54:03,040 --> 02:54:04,760
Speaker 1: a mom or pregnant woman kind of like having this

3513
02:54:04,920 --> 02:54:09,680
Speaker 1: like reaction like almost like uh like internal reaction to it.

3514
02:54:09,720 --> 02:54:11,040
Speaker 1: That makes that makes a ton of sense. But like

3515
02:54:11,240 --> 02:54:13,080
Speaker 1: if someone else doesn't have the same reaction as you

3516
02:54:13,480 --> 02:54:18,720
Speaker 1: who cares exactly cares. Let them live their freaking lives.

3517
02:54:18,920 --> 02:54:21,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, it'd be so different if, like op was like,

3518
02:54:21,680 --> 02:54:24,440
Speaker 5: all right, hate that baby, That baby needs to get

3519
02:54:24,480 --> 02:54:25,400
Speaker 5: out of the restaurant.

3520
02:54:25,640 --> 02:54:28,800
Speaker 1: Like that wasn't they just ignored it, by the way,

3521
02:54:29,120 --> 02:54:31,440
Speaker 1: Rachel Hatch and I see you. Am I ever gonna

3522
02:54:31,440 --> 02:54:34,119
Speaker 1: get in the QE l M A O. Yes, let's

3523
02:54:34,200 --> 02:54:36,080
Speaker 1: let's figure that out. You have you have been an

3524
02:54:36,120 --> 02:54:37,360
Speaker 1: absolute champion, Rachel.

3525
02:54:37,520 --> 02:54:39,520
Speaker 5: I think I put you in the queue, okay, and

3526
02:54:39,560 --> 02:54:40,480
Speaker 5: then we didn't like that.

3527
02:54:40,520 --> 02:54:42,080
Speaker 1: And then we didn't get to it, and then we

3528
02:54:42,240 --> 02:54:45,879
Speaker 1: ended the stream text Riley, and we'll figure that out.

3529
02:54:45,879 --> 02:54:48,080
Speaker 1: And also the one fifty five tip from Susan Martin

3530
02:54:48,920 --> 02:54:51,440
Speaker 1: and then the four ninety tips. Sorry, even gang, I'm

3531
02:54:51,480 --> 02:54:54,160
Speaker 1: bad at math Okay. The odd gang, guys, the odd

3532
02:54:54,240 --> 02:54:57,959
Speaker 1: gang is rising, kat m sent out a call, sent

3533
02:54:58,080 --> 02:55:01,880
Speaker 1: out a beacon to the odd gang that is now

3534
02:55:02,120 --> 02:55:04,640
Speaker 1: rising before our very eyes. Is Does the worm Queen

3535
02:55:04,680 --> 02:55:05,160
Speaker 1: approve of this?

3536
02:55:06,200 --> 02:55:07,400
Speaker 5: Do I approve of discols?

3537
02:55:07,440 --> 02:55:10,280
Speaker 1: Amongst my subjects, the odd and it's the odd and

3538
02:55:10,440 --> 02:55:11,440
Speaker 1: even gang war.

3539
02:55:11,600 --> 02:55:15,560
Speaker 5: We must remain neutral, yes, in this war.

3540
02:55:17,520 --> 02:55:20,560
Speaker 1: Pride and all. The worm Queen does not participate in

3541
02:55:20,640 --> 02:55:24,199
Speaker 1: the in the carnage. No, I understand it, I understand,

3542
02:55:24,360 --> 02:55:26,320
Speaker 1: but I am you know what I'm here for. I'm

3543
02:55:26,360 --> 02:55:28,840
Speaker 1: here for the chaos. Odd even gang, do what you're

3544
02:55:29,000 --> 02:55:29,200
Speaker 1: here for?

3545
02:55:29,520 --> 02:55:30,480
Speaker 5: What this next door?

3546
02:55:30,760 --> 02:55:33,720
Speaker 1: What a transition? Let me get into it all right?

3547
02:55:33,840 --> 02:55:34,040
Speaker 2: Where?

3548
02:55:34,200 --> 02:55:35,880
Speaker 1: What story are we in? Episode again?

3549
02:55:37,360 --> 02:55:42,400
Speaker 6: Three eighty three S two three eighty S two three eighty.

3550
02:55:42,320 --> 02:55:45,360
Speaker 1: Three, three eighty three S two. I hope you guys

3551
02:55:45,440 --> 02:55:46,520
Speaker 1: like us reading our thank you?

3552
02:55:47,520 --> 02:55:50,280
Speaker 5: Is it ao ichigo for the five bucks? H I

3553
02:55:50,480 --> 02:55:53,480
Speaker 5: love the content, guys. Also, shipping real life people even

3554
02:55:53,560 --> 02:55:57,080
Speaker 5: jokingly is pretty weird. Our worm Queen doesn't need this slander.

3555
02:55:57,400 --> 02:56:02,920
Speaker 1: Respect your queen, that's right? What is S three?

3556
02:56:03,320 --> 02:56:03,520
Speaker 2: Yeah?

3557
02:56:03,760 --> 02:56:07,640
Speaker 1: Yes? By the way, someone said I saw someone says

3558
02:56:07,680 --> 02:56:09,680
Speaker 1: in the child that discord. Has anyone put my head

3559
02:56:09,720 --> 02:56:11,720
Speaker 1: on Palpatine yet? That would be fire, So I would

3560
02:56:11,760 --> 02:56:16,160
Speaker 1: appreciate that. Next story, I refuse to have a child

3561
02:56:16,280 --> 02:56:20,360
Speaker 1: with my wife if they don't take my name done

3562
02:56:20,640 --> 02:56:24,760
Speaker 1: dun dump. This comes from a kindly red forty six

3563
02:56:24,879 --> 02:56:29,280
Speaker 1: twenty eight, who says, so, my wife and I are

3564
02:56:29,480 --> 02:56:32,440
Speaker 1: finally financially at a point where we want to be

3565
02:56:32,560 --> 02:56:36,600
Speaker 1: trying for a baby. Congratulations, have fun. We are we

3566
02:56:37,080 --> 02:56:39,720
Speaker 1: married seven years ago. And she really wanted to keep

3567
02:56:39,760 --> 02:56:42,480
Speaker 1: her last name as she is an only child of

3568
02:56:42,600 --> 02:56:48,920
Speaker 1: two children. Waits, as she is an only child of

3569
02:56:49,040 --> 02:56:51,879
Speaker 1: two only children. Okay, so no one else to keep

3570
02:56:52,000 --> 02:56:55,160
Speaker 1: carrying the name along? Yeah, totally. She will essentially be

3571
02:56:55,600 --> 02:56:58,680
Speaker 1: the last of her name in the nearest future. I

3572
02:56:58,800 --> 02:57:01,960
Speaker 1: am also an only child, so I understand so as

3573
02:57:02,040 --> 02:57:04,200
Speaker 1: I also want to keep my family's name going as well.

3574
02:57:04,560 --> 02:57:07,440
Speaker 1: Neither of us wanted to hyphenate, as both of our

3575
02:57:07,520 --> 02:57:11,279
Speaker 1: last names are long and don't go well together. Understandable.

3576
02:57:12,200 --> 02:57:14,360
Speaker 1: Someone wants to keep the last name, I want to

3577
02:57:14,400 --> 02:57:15,040
Speaker 1: keep my last name.

3578
02:57:15,240 --> 02:57:16,360
Speaker 5: I want to keep my last name.

3579
02:57:17,959 --> 02:57:20,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's simple. Let's do it. Oh in shout

3580
02:57:20,720 --> 02:57:25,600
Speaker 1: out to Susan the last hurrah for the even Gang guys.

3581
02:57:26,120 --> 02:57:28,240
Speaker 1: Is he and the eleven dollars from Jojo forty five

3582
02:57:28,440 --> 02:57:30,720
Speaker 1: X just finished class and you guys are still here?

3583
02:57:31,240 --> 02:57:34,360
Speaker 1: Odd Chaos gang. Yeah, Jojo, you have entered during the war.

3584
02:57:34,520 --> 02:57:36,000
Speaker 1: It is it is an interesting time.

3585
02:57:36,240 --> 02:57:37,000
Speaker 2: Is the war?

3586
02:57:37,160 --> 02:57:39,040
Speaker 1: It is an interesting It is war time? Okay?

3587
02:57:39,480 --> 02:57:41,640
Speaker 5: There the last.

3588
02:57:42,920 --> 02:57:44,920
Speaker 1: That hatches. Oh and Daddy Jesse, did we read that

3589
02:57:45,280 --> 02:57:49,000
Speaker 1: eight forty six ew odd numbers? Yeah, daddy, Jesse, I

3590
02:57:49,040 --> 02:57:53,000
Speaker 1: think was the even Gang, like the founding of the

3591
02:57:53,120 --> 02:57:56,600
Speaker 1: Evening Gang, the founding general, the leader of the revolution,

3592
02:57:56,800 --> 02:57:59,520
Speaker 1: if you will. But I'm here for the chaos, Jesse

3593
02:57:59,640 --> 02:58:04,080
Speaker 1: Chavin Chevez with the two dollars usd We appreciate you,

3594
02:58:04,320 --> 02:58:07,520
Speaker 1: thank you. But back to the story. When we got married,

3595
02:58:07,560 --> 02:58:09,920
Speaker 1: we agreed that even though she was keeping her last name,

3596
02:58:10,840 --> 02:58:13,120
Speaker 1: that our firstborn would have my last name and the

3597
02:58:13,200 --> 02:58:17,520
Speaker 1: second born would have hers, regardless of gender. Interesting, I've

3598
02:58:17,600 --> 02:58:18,080
Speaker 1: never heard.

3599
02:58:17,959 --> 02:58:20,280
Speaker 5: Of that gender matter for the last name.

3600
02:58:20,720 --> 02:58:23,320
Speaker 1: That is a great question. This is an interesting and

3601
02:58:23,520 --> 02:58:24,920
Speaker 1: slash thing I've never heard of.

3602
02:58:25,240 --> 02:58:27,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, so both children, so they get both ways,

3603
02:58:28,120 --> 02:58:29,800
Speaker 5: but both children have different surnames.

3604
02:58:30,040 --> 02:58:36,440
Speaker 1: Actually, so very quickly, my girlfriend technically has a different

3605
02:58:36,520 --> 02:58:40,440
Speaker 1: last name, being the firstborn, and the entire other family

3606
02:58:41,080 --> 02:58:43,680
Speaker 1: technically has a different name. That's a cultural thing. But

3607
02:58:43,760 --> 02:58:47,360
Speaker 1: then also she became an American citizen when she was

3608
02:58:47,400 --> 02:58:50,880
Speaker 1: like five, and then her name and documentation got all

3609
02:58:50,920 --> 02:58:53,119
Speaker 1: mixed up because it's not used to that kind of thing.

3610
02:58:53,520 --> 02:58:56,080
Speaker 1: So she kind of has like two last names Loki,

3611
02:58:56,560 --> 02:58:58,640
Speaker 1: but does have a kind of a similar situation where

3612
02:58:58,680 --> 02:59:01,039
Speaker 1: she has one last name, everyone else in her family

3613
02:59:01,080 --> 02:59:03,320
Speaker 1: has a different last name, and she doesn't like that.

3614
02:59:04,720 --> 02:59:07,119
Speaker 1: I've been five dollars. This is totally irrelevant. But does

3615
02:59:07,160 --> 02:59:09,600
Speaker 1: anyone else get the vibe that John has such dad,

3616
02:59:10,000 --> 02:59:11,680
Speaker 1: such great girl dad vibes?

3617
02:59:13,560 --> 02:59:18,320
Speaker 13: I would be the girl daddiest of I am sitting

3618
02:59:18,480 --> 02:59:22,800
Speaker 13: at the tea time. I am getting the make up mascara. Okay,

3619
02:59:23,400 --> 02:59:26,680
Speaker 13: I am, I am there, I am, I'm here for it.

3620
02:59:27,000 --> 02:59:28,720
Speaker 13: I am so here for I feel like I'm gonna

3621
02:59:28,760 --> 02:59:29,400
Speaker 13: get a girl for ours.

3622
02:59:29,600 --> 02:59:30,440
Speaker 9: Oh my gosh.

3623
02:59:30,920 --> 02:59:32,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would to be your girl dad.

3624
02:59:32,879 --> 02:59:35,840
Speaker 1: We could be girl dads to get girl dad gang.

3625
02:59:36,520 --> 02:59:36,800
Speaker 1: Let's go.

3626
02:59:36,959 --> 02:59:37,280
Speaker 6: I'm there.

3627
02:59:37,520 --> 02:59:41,199
Speaker 1: Let absolutely children, two children.

3628
02:59:41,120 --> 02:59:42,800
Speaker 6: Any girls, any gender.

3629
02:59:42,840 --> 02:59:43,240
Speaker 5: I don't care.

3630
02:59:43,920 --> 02:59:46,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I kind of don't care. But the girl, the girl,

3631
02:59:46,440 --> 02:59:48,920
Speaker 1: the girl that it's grown on me, I must say,

3632
02:59:49,200 --> 02:59:52,440
Speaker 1: I must say, But back to the story, thank you

3633
02:59:52,520 --> 02:59:56,720
Speaker 1: for that compliment. When we got married, we already said that. Well,

3634
02:59:56,840 --> 02:59:58,800
Speaker 1: now she is saying that she wants to first born

3635
02:59:58,879 --> 03:00:02,920
Speaker 1: to have her last name, and I can have the

3636
03:00:03,000 --> 03:00:05,160
Speaker 1: second born. I wouldn't care all that much if it

3637
03:00:05,280 --> 03:00:07,200
Speaker 1: wasn't for the fact that we are now in our

3638
03:00:07,280 --> 03:00:09,560
Speaker 1: late thirties, and the odds of being able to have

3639
03:00:09,760 --> 03:00:13,000
Speaker 1: multiple children as much lower if we had started trying

3640
03:00:13,040 --> 03:00:16,240
Speaker 1: for kids almost a decade ago when we had first married.

3641
03:00:17,080 --> 03:00:20,480
Speaker 5: Wait, okay, so I understand his logic, but he was

3642
03:00:20,560 --> 03:00:24,480
Speaker 5: totally fine when she got the second child because he's like, oh, well,

3643
03:00:24,520 --> 03:00:26,160
Speaker 5: it's not gonna happen exactly.

3644
03:00:26,600 --> 03:00:29,440
Speaker 2: This is a weird setup.

3645
03:00:29,720 --> 03:00:29,920
Speaker 12: Yeah.

3646
03:00:30,120 --> 03:00:32,000
Speaker 1: I feel like you just have like you just have

3647
03:00:32,080 --> 03:00:35,880
Speaker 1: to hyphenate I And maybe it doesn't sound nice together,

3648
03:00:36,040 --> 03:00:37,880
Speaker 1: but like, just just do it.

3649
03:00:38,240 --> 03:00:38,680
Speaker 11: Just do it.

3650
03:00:39,200 --> 03:00:41,880
Speaker 1: If you can't find like common ground, you just have

3651
03:00:41,959 --> 03:00:44,000
Speaker 1: to yphen it or not even hyphenate, but just have

3652
03:00:44,240 --> 03:00:49,240
Speaker 1: I have four names. Yeah, for example, technically I I

3653
03:00:49,320 --> 03:00:52,840
Speaker 1: have four names, John, Randolph, park Hill, Fry. Yeah. You

3654
03:00:52,879 --> 03:00:54,520
Speaker 1: can also make it a middle name or something. Yeah,

3655
03:00:54,720 --> 03:00:58,600
Speaker 1: so technic identity. Dang it. Somebody also talks me here.

3656
03:00:58,640 --> 03:01:00,840
Speaker 1: I actually think we forgot to read the donation, but

3657
03:01:00,920 --> 03:01:03,520
Speaker 1: someone docked my original home county. So shout out to

3658
03:01:03,600 --> 03:01:08,520
Speaker 1: you comment below forgot to read it. Yeah, please don't

3659
03:01:08,520 --> 03:01:12,760
Speaker 1: dox me. Please thank you. But uh, what was I saying? Yeah?

3660
03:01:12,800 --> 03:01:15,320
Speaker 1: I think I think you could have either like two

3661
03:01:15,400 --> 03:01:16,440
Speaker 1: last names or hyphen it.

3662
03:01:16,520 --> 03:01:18,080
Speaker 2: Just just just do it.

3663
03:01:18,240 --> 03:01:23,039
Speaker 5: One of my childhood friends combined, like her last name.

3664
03:01:22,959 --> 03:01:24,680
Speaker 1: Was a combo of.

3665
03:01:26,240 --> 03:01:28,480
Speaker 6: I thought her last name was a combo.

3666
03:01:31,120 --> 03:01:33,040
Speaker 5: Both last names, so it was like spushed together.

3667
03:01:33,640 --> 03:01:35,880
Speaker 1: That's that's cool. I like that hot take.

3668
03:01:36,240 --> 03:01:37,720
Speaker 6: I'm gonna get a lot of heat from that. This

3669
03:01:38,520 --> 03:01:40,760
Speaker 6: people two names, gonna watch out for.

3670
03:01:40,840 --> 03:01:46,600
Speaker 5: Him, bro, all Hispanic people. That's a very common thing.

3671
03:01:46,760 --> 03:01:52,119
Speaker 1: Nice job, God, nice job bro. Also, it was always

3672
03:01:52,240 --> 03:01:55,120
Speaker 1: me and all the Hispanic kids because nobody had like

3673
03:01:55,200 --> 03:01:56,119
Speaker 1: two middle names.

3674
03:01:56,800 --> 03:02:01,680
Speaker 6: First names, two first names, like Mary Joe, like the

3675
03:02:01,720 --> 03:02:03,080
Speaker 6: Marriya Joe. I went to a high school with a

3676
03:02:03,080 --> 03:02:05,560
Speaker 6: guy nam John Michael, and he was like the worst

3677
03:02:05,760 --> 03:02:07,200
Speaker 6: out different.

3678
03:02:07,600 --> 03:02:13,240
Speaker 1: That is different. You're out of stinky Mangael. Congratulations manjail

3679
03:02:15,200 --> 03:02:18,720
Speaker 1: very close. Anyways, back to the story. I told her

3680
03:02:18,800 --> 03:02:21,440
Speaker 1: she knows. I told her she knows what she's doing

3681
03:02:21,520 --> 03:02:24,120
Speaker 1: and this isn't will be agreed upon before we got married.

3682
03:02:24,400 --> 03:02:26,760
Speaker 1: She said she knows, but since she's the one who

3683
03:02:26,800 --> 03:02:30,400
Speaker 1: has to carry the child, she should get first dips. Again,

3684
03:02:30,560 --> 03:02:33,880
Speaker 1: it just gets so messy. That's a good point, and

3685
03:02:34,040 --> 03:02:36,080
Speaker 1: it's a good point, but I think it's too messy.

3686
03:02:36,280 --> 03:02:38,480
Speaker 1: The whole thing is too messy, you have to hype name.

3687
03:02:39,360 --> 03:02:40,960
Speaker 1: I told her that I was not okay with this,

3688
03:02:41,120 --> 03:02:44,200
Speaker 1: and that's why we U Then why don't we just

3689
03:02:44,280 --> 03:02:46,840
Speaker 1: decide to hyphenate our child's last name? Then okay, there

3690
03:02:46,879 --> 03:02:49,040
Speaker 1: we go. She said she didn't want to as that

3691
03:02:49,080 --> 03:02:51,560
Speaker 1: would be ugly and if we do have a child,

3692
03:02:51,680 --> 03:02:54,520
Speaker 1: it's going to be her last name. Her dang her

3693
03:02:54,600 --> 03:02:58,240
Speaker 1: Already here we go. When I told her that I'm

3694
03:02:58,280 --> 03:03:01,960
Speaker 1: not quite sure that's how the law works where we live.

3695
03:03:03,160 --> 03:03:06,080
Speaker 1: If she isn't willing to make that compromise and I'm

3696
03:03:06,120 --> 03:03:11,840
Speaker 1: not comfortable having a child with her, well, wow.

3697
03:03:12,320 --> 03:03:14,160
Speaker 5: I honestly think that this is getting in your way.

3698
03:03:14,240 --> 03:03:15,680
Speaker 5: Then maybe you aren't such a good couple.

3699
03:03:15,879 --> 03:03:19,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, if the name, like, I get no doubt the

3700
03:03:19,480 --> 03:03:20,240
Speaker 1: name is important.

3701
03:03:20,800 --> 03:03:22,840
Speaker 5: But but if you can't even compromise on this on

3702
03:03:22,959 --> 03:03:24,480
Speaker 5: the name, what are.

3703
03:03:24,440 --> 03:03:27,160
Speaker 1: We doing here? But I know what Caitlin Bryan is doing,

3704
03:03:27,200 --> 03:03:31,760
Speaker 1: which is donating twenty nine dollars USD appreciate you uh

3705
03:03:32,200 --> 03:03:35,199
Speaker 1: want that hour such a weird situation. I'm considering hyphen

3706
03:03:35,320 --> 03:03:37,840
Speaker 1: as a future child's last name as the last of

3707
03:03:37,959 --> 03:03:40,920
Speaker 1: my line, as everyone else is married or has a

3708
03:03:41,000 --> 03:03:42,840
Speaker 1: different last name. You have the last of the line

3709
03:03:43,200 --> 03:03:45,080
Speaker 1: is uh yeah.

3710
03:03:45,200 --> 03:03:48,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, no, I want to keep my Do you want

3711
03:03:48,320 --> 03:03:50,040
Speaker 5: to Do you want your children to have your last name?

3712
03:03:50,160 --> 03:03:50,520
Speaker 6: Or are you not?

3713
03:03:51,080 --> 03:03:53,720
Speaker 1: I am very much a fan of both names. Yeah,

3714
03:03:53,959 --> 03:03:56,680
Speaker 1: I really don't care if my spouse like, cause again

3715
03:03:56,959 --> 03:03:59,400
Speaker 1: I want to keep my name. Yeah, so like like,

3716
03:03:59,680 --> 03:04:01,240
Speaker 1: who can keep your name if you want?

3717
03:04:01,360 --> 03:04:03,520
Speaker 5: Like, no, I'm a fan of the hyphenating. I want

3718
03:04:03,560 --> 03:04:05,359
Speaker 5: to keep my own name and then my kids.

3719
03:04:05,640 --> 03:04:09,560
Speaker 1: Actually to be nuanced. I'm pro two names instead of hyphenating.

3720
03:04:10,920 --> 03:04:12,880
Speaker 1: What do you mean to two last names? So no

3721
03:04:12,959 --> 03:04:15,120
Speaker 1: hyphen Oh you're just taking out the hyphen I just

3722
03:04:15,600 --> 03:04:16,640
Speaker 1: like I just don't.

3723
03:04:16,440 --> 03:04:18,640
Speaker 5: Want to Yeah, that's fine with me. Yeah, I don't

3724
03:04:18,640 --> 03:04:21,000
Speaker 5: like the hyphen either. Yeah, get rid of the hyphen.

3725
03:04:21,200 --> 03:04:23,240
Speaker 1: Just go to last name hashtag no hyphen but two

3726
03:04:23,280 --> 03:04:23,680
Speaker 1: last names.

3727
03:04:24,040 --> 03:04:26,760
Speaker 5: Like our mom doesn't her she kept her last name.

3728
03:04:27,360 --> 03:04:30,520
Speaker 1: See yeah, point in case and thank you and thankful,

3729
03:04:30,800 --> 03:04:34,640
Speaker 1: thank you forgetful Sophie for the two AutoNation. I bring

3730
03:04:34,720 --> 03:04:37,760
Speaker 1: this up early because it is a deal breaker. Yeah.

3731
03:04:37,920 --> 03:04:41,400
Speaker 1: I think this is kind of crazy that they're seven

3732
03:04:41,480 --> 03:04:43,959
Speaker 1: years deep in their marriage and not having a baby.

3733
03:04:44,200 --> 03:04:46,320
Speaker 1: By the way, tildr Riley if you could throw it

3734
03:04:46,400 --> 03:04:49,480
Speaker 1: on the screen as well. But basically this couple, they've

3735
03:04:49,480 --> 03:04:52,200
Speaker 1: been married for seven years, they were having a kid,

3736
03:04:52,200 --> 03:04:55,680
Speaker 1: and they had this very strange setup where they the

3737
03:04:55,879 --> 03:04:58,560
Speaker 1: wife didn't take the last name and the firstborn was

3738
03:04:58,600 --> 03:05:01,840
Speaker 1: originally going to get open Key's last name, but now

3739
03:05:02,320 --> 03:05:05,680
Speaker 1: the wife wants the firstborn to take her last name,

3740
03:05:06,280 --> 03:05:09,720
Speaker 1: and they're not reaching a compromise and maybe they might

3741
03:05:09,920 --> 03:05:11,000
Speaker 1: end up not having a child.

3742
03:05:11,480 --> 03:05:12,800
Speaker 5: Stop the relationship.

3743
03:05:13,200 --> 03:05:15,280
Speaker 1: We shall see. Oh in my Myahi Maven with the

3744
03:05:15,320 --> 03:05:17,959
Speaker 1: one dollar donation through the donation link, appreciate that whatever

3745
03:05:18,000 --> 03:05:21,000
Speaker 1: you do, do not hyphenate. I have a hyphenated name,

3746
03:05:21,040 --> 03:05:23,880
Speaker 1: and it makes any medical, government, et cetera, docks and processes,

3747
03:05:24,200 --> 03:05:29,640
Speaker 1: even booking a flight a massive problem. That's agree just

3748
03:05:29,720 --> 03:05:29,920
Speaker 1: like the.

3749
03:05:29,920 --> 03:05:32,160
Speaker 5: Double name is like the problem or is it the

3750
03:05:32,240 --> 03:05:32,959
Speaker 5: hyphen itself?

3751
03:05:33,080 --> 03:05:33,240
Speaker 3: Yeah?

3752
03:05:33,240 --> 03:05:35,680
Speaker 1: I think I have a double names and I have

3753
03:05:36,000 --> 03:05:39,480
Speaker 1: once uh I got turned down by TSA and had

3754
03:05:39,520 --> 03:05:41,520
Speaker 1: to literally go back and they had to like redo

3755
03:05:41,600 --> 03:05:44,560
Speaker 1: my ticket because it didn't include both of my middle

3756
03:05:44,680 --> 03:05:47,600
Speaker 1: names that is in my legal government name. So I

3757
03:05:47,720 --> 03:05:50,080
Speaker 1: have had a little bit of issues before, but nothing

3758
03:05:50,280 --> 03:05:53,040
Speaker 1: too too crazy and shout out forgetful so Fi again.

3759
03:05:54,080 --> 03:05:56,240
Speaker 1: Oh wait, I already read that, and then Rachel the

3760
03:05:56,320 --> 03:05:59,160
Speaker 1: acts hatchet five dollars. I want my friends to hyphenate

3761
03:05:59,240 --> 03:06:03,520
Speaker 1: their names because it would have been naw nah gash.

3762
03:06:03,800 --> 03:06:08,040
Speaker 1: Yeah that's funny, hilarious. But back to the story, and

3763
03:06:08,280 --> 03:06:09,800
Speaker 1: oh to finish the taal the r Yeah, they were

3764
03:06:09,800 --> 03:06:11,720
Speaker 1: in a seven year relationship. Yeah, they're not sure if

3765
03:06:11,920 --> 03:06:14,000
Speaker 1: they want to baby have children now, or at least

3766
03:06:14,040 --> 03:06:17,480
Speaker 1: Opie as She got really upset at this and said

3767
03:06:17,560 --> 03:06:19,360
Speaker 1: I was being selfish and that if we don't have

3768
03:06:19,440 --> 03:06:23,480
Speaker 1: a kid, my name wouldn't live on anyways. Well, damn,

3769
03:06:23,640 --> 03:06:25,440
Speaker 1: we're just we're just fighting fire with fire. This is

3770
03:06:25,560 --> 03:06:27,000
Speaker 1: not good. This is not good.

3771
03:06:27,120 --> 03:06:29,480
Speaker 2: This is bad communication. I told her the same.

3772
03:06:29,360 --> 03:06:31,440
Speaker 1: Would apply to her, and if she isn't willing to

3773
03:06:31,480 --> 03:06:34,760
Speaker 1: compromise and hyphenate, it looks like both of our names

3774
03:06:34,800 --> 03:06:38,280
Speaker 1: will die out. This is crazy. We've been really upset

3775
03:06:38,320 --> 03:06:40,200
Speaker 1: with each other the last few days, and this has

3776
03:06:40,280 --> 03:06:43,280
Speaker 1: me questioning our marriage as it seems that she is

3777
03:06:43,360 --> 03:06:46,959
Speaker 1: being selfish and self centered about a pretty major thing.

3778
03:06:48,040 --> 03:06:51,520
Speaker 1: My guy, there's this thing called a mirror. Edit number

3779
03:06:51,560 --> 03:06:54,480
Speaker 1: one just showed my wife this and we agreed that

3780
03:06:54,600 --> 03:06:57,960
Speaker 1: whichever last name gets more votes than will go with that.

3781
03:06:58,720 --> 03:07:03,280
Speaker 1: What the hell Reddit is deciding your children's names? Is

3782
03:07:03,400 --> 03:07:04,440
Speaker 1: the last names?

3783
03:07:05,320 --> 03:07:05,520
Speaker 13: Oh?

3784
03:07:05,840 --> 03:07:06,640
Speaker 5: My god?

3785
03:07:07,959 --> 03:07:12,600
Speaker 1: Okay, oh god, guys, I don't know if you children

3786
03:07:12,680 --> 03:07:15,280
Speaker 1: at least making a poll on the okop live stream

3787
03:07:15,320 --> 03:07:19,240
Speaker 1: at the very very least, my god, I won't say

3788
03:07:19,800 --> 03:07:27,240
Speaker 1: who is who? The two last names are Jerobowski and Wiley. Okay,

3789
03:07:28,520 --> 03:07:35,279
Speaker 1: jarzy Bowski, thank you, but you can do Wiley?

3790
03:07:36,120 --> 03:07:36,280
Speaker 2: Wait?

3791
03:07:36,440 --> 03:07:41,520
Speaker 1: Was it Wiley Ji? That's kind of fun? Fun, that's fun.

3792
03:07:41,720 --> 03:07:42,160
Speaker 5: I like that.

3793
03:07:43,520 --> 03:07:46,600
Speaker 1: We have decided to go edit number two. We have

3794
03:07:46,840 --> 03:07:50,360
Speaker 1: decided to go with my last name. Thank you. We

3795
03:07:50,480 --> 03:07:53,480
Speaker 1: don't know, Thank you everyone. We will try hard to

3796
03:07:53,560 --> 03:07:55,720
Speaker 1: have a second child right after, as we've always wanted

3797
03:07:55,760 --> 03:07:58,800
Speaker 1: two kids. If possible, the second child will have her

3798
03:07:58,879 --> 03:07:59,360
Speaker 1: last name.

3799
03:08:00,640 --> 03:08:03,359
Speaker 6: Dude, Everyone say Wiley Wiley.

3800
03:08:04,480 --> 03:08:05,160
Speaker 2: That's so funny.

3801
03:08:05,480 --> 03:08:09,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, our our chat has has chosen. Yeah we still

3802
03:08:09,400 --> 03:08:14,640
Speaker 1: we still don't know, guys. Okay, question for the Chot

3803
03:08:15,360 --> 03:08:20,440
Speaker 1: and Sophia. Everyone. The ahole is everyone the ale? Why

3804
03:08:20,879 --> 03:08:22,440
Speaker 1: why do you think that you're.

3805
03:08:22,440 --> 03:08:24,600
Speaker 5: Having a child together and you're married, and you should

3806
03:08:24,600 --> 03:08:28,080
Speaker 5: be able to come to an agreement without Reddit's help,

3807
03:08:28,640 --> 03:08:29,840
Speaker 5: and you should be able to communicate.

3808
03:08:30,040 --> 03:08:33,720
Speaker 1: Truly, this seems like we could surely find some compromise.

3809
03:08:33,800 --> 03:08:36,400
Speaker 1: Brown Eyed Chick says, my husband is Filipino. Oh, could

3810
03:08:36,400 --> 03:08:38,440
Speaker 1: you scroll up a little bit from me ready? My

3811
03:08:38,600 --> 03:08:42,440
Speaker 1: husband is Filipino, and his name has both his parents'

3812
03:08:42,520 --> 03:08:46,120
Speaker 1: last names, uh not hyphenated. His mom's surname is technically

3813
03:08:46,360 --> 03:08:49,680
Speaker 1: his middle name, quote unquote, So he's got four names.

3814
03:08:49,840 --> 03:08:52,879
Speaker 1: Think of it like John Robert Garcia Smith or John

3815
03:08:52,920 --> 03:08:55,119
Speaker 1: Randolph Parkilfry. I can imagine that very well.

3816
03:08:55,280 --> 03:08:58,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I think that's the I think that

3817
03:08:59,000 --> 03:09:00,360
Speaker 5: was the way to go. I don't know why they

3818
03:09:01,800 --> 03:09:02,640
Speaker 5: like it's.

3819
03:09:02,560 --> 03:09:07,560
Speaker 1: So simple and those that kind of fun Wiley jar Zabowski,

3820
03:09:07,840 --> 03:09:10,080
Speaker 1: it's kind of like a fun mouthful, kind of like

3821
03:09:10,120 --> 03:09:13,680
Speaker 1: a tongue twister a little bit. Yeah, But I think

3822
03:09:13,760 --> 03:09:17,279
Speaker 1: we have something major about to happen, an earth.

3823
03:09:17,360 --> 03:09:19,680
Speaker 13: Shaking activity that we will never be the same from

3824
03:09:19,720 --> 03:09:23,240
Speaker 13: it as Sam returning to the stream.

3825
03:09:22,959 --> 03:09:25,440
Speaker 1: And taking the rightful place on the throne.

3826
03:09:26,200 --> 03:09:30,480
Speaker 2: Sam, since you've been gone, we have had a and

3827
03:09:30,600 --> 03:09:34,240
Speaker 2: actually a revolution, if you will, all at war. We've

3828
03:09:34,280 --> 03:09:35,199
Speaker 2: had the Even Gang.

3829
03:09:35,400 --> 03:09:38,080
Speaker 1: But say hello to the Odd Gang, and they have

3830
03:09:38,160 --> 03:09:42,520
Speaker 1: been waging war against each other in the donations, constantly

3831
03:09:43,400 --> 03:09:48,080
Speaker 1: going against the balance. The the queen is neutral, and

3832
03:09:48,240 --> 03:09:51,800
Speaker 1: the revolution continues. So just to fill you in, and

3833
03:09:52,000 --> 03:09:55,880
Speaker 1: I'm eating gang, eating gang, even gang, even gang. Yeah,

3834
03:09:55,879 --> 03:09:57,480
Speaker 1: I think I like, you know what, I'm gonna go

3835
03:09:57,520 --> 03:10:00,600
Speaker 1: odd gang just for I'm gonna godd for anarchy.

3836
03:10:01,160 --> 03:10:03,760
Speaker 2: Also shout out Rachel the axe Hatchet, thanks for the

3837
03:10:03,840 --> 03:10:06,240
Speaker 2: ten bucks. My kiddos, Airis and Athena want you to

3838
03:10:06,240 --> 03:10:10,199
Speaker 2: say good night to them. Good night, Rachel.

3839
03:10:10,360 --> 03:10:12,960
Speaker 1: You need to name these children from the story because

3840
03:10:13,200 --> 03:10:16,440
Speaker 1: those names are incredible, and these two people are idiots,

3841
03:10:16,920 --> 03:10:20,440
Speaker 1: so we need you doing that. Sierra has been Sam

3842
03:10:20,920 --> 03:10:23,880
Speaker 1: been out tanning. We don't know he is a he

3843
03:10:23,959 --> 03:10:25,080
Speaker 1: has a beautiful complexion.

3844
03:10:25,200 --> 03:10:28,120
Speaker 2: I did go surfing this morning with my friend Henry.

3845
03:10:28,200 --> 03:10:28,680
Speaker 1: Yeare we go.

3846
03:10:28,920 --> 03:10:32,360
Speaker 5: I don't know why Sam tan's a lot easierly.

3847
03:10:33,200 --> 03:10:35,480
Speaker 2: No, it's just because I go out into the sun.

3848
03:10:35,840 --> 03:10:37,879
Speaker 5: Because I go out in the sun and I burn immediately,

3849
03:10:38,800 --> 03:10:42,080
Speaker 5: and I think Mom tends to tan more. But I

3850
03:10:42,240 --> 03:10:43,240
Speaker 5: got dad's complexion.

3851
03:10:44,760 --> 03:10:47,959
Speaker 2: Suan, Susan, thanks for the one fifty five Even gang

3852
03:10:48,040 --> 03:10:53,680
Speaker 2: must arise. That actually is oh my god, oh my god.

3853
03:10:54,920 --> 03:10:56,720
Speaker 2: But I'm surfing all the time, obviously.

3854
03:10:58,320 --> 03:11:01,880
Speaker 1: But guys, can we burn through another story?

3855
03:11:02,080 --> 03:11:02,879
Speaker 2: What are we reading next?

3856
03:11:03,200 --> 03:11:06,920
Speaker 1: Sam, You Take the Throne three eighty three.

3857
03:11:07,120 --> 03:11:09,840
Speaker 2: Three two eighty three S.

3858
03:11:10,320 --> 03:11:13,880
Speaker 5: Two yeast bell conkling. I am putting on I'm reapplying sunscreen.

3859
03:11:14,520 --> 03:11:16,080
Speaker 5: I wear my face sunscreen every day.

3860
03:11:16,360 --> 03:11:16,600
Speaker 1: Nice.

3861
03:11:17,000 --> 03:11:20,959
Speaker 2: Oh, this is a thick one buckle up buttercups. Because

3862
03:11:21,959 --> 03:11:27,480
Speaker 2: we are going to be, We're gonna be. We're gonna

3863
03:11:27,480 --> 03:11:29,920
Speaker 2: be going fast. We're gonna be fast and loose. All right.

3864
03:11:30,360 --> 03:11:35,840
Speaker 2: So I'm having a baby with my former husband after

3865
03:11:36,040 --> 03:11:42,480
Speaker 2: we divorced. Interesting, this is long long ago. I'm sorry.

3866
03:11:42,560 --> 03:11:44,640
Speaker 2: I've sort of written a novel here. I wanted to

3867
03:11:44,680 --> 03:11:47,800
Speaker 2: post this in relationship advice, but the subject matter isn't allowed.

3868
03:11:47,840 --> 03:11:51,959
Speaker 2: So my ex husband and I were married for ten years,

3869
03:11:52,000 --> 03:11:55,879
Speaker 2: although the last two were spent in variations of separation,

3870
03:11:56,720 --> 03:12:02,000
Speaker 2: which is probably not healthy. Variation of separation kind of

3871
03:12:02,120 --> 03:12:04,080
Speaker 2: sounds like they're going back and forth hot and cold.

3872
03:12:04,200 --> 03:12:05,280
Speaker 1: Sounds like a great band name.

3873
03:12:05,400 --> 03:12:06,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, variation separation.

3874
03:12:07,120 --> 03:12:07,480
Speaker 11: There we go.

3875
03:12:08,400 --> 03:12:10,360
Speaker 2: We've been divorced for roughly a year and we have

3876
03:12:10,560 --> 03:12:15,720
Speaker 2: three kids, ten, eight, and five. I'm pregnant right now

3877
03:12:16,120 --> 03:12:20,880
Speaker 2: this second with my fourth baby. There you go. I

3878
03:12:20,959 --> 03:12:23,480
Speaker 2: don't know if we'll actually be parents to four kids

3879
03:12:23,600 --> 03:12:29,040
Speaker 2: or not. I'm so conflicted. We are so conflicted, so

3880
03:12:29,160 --> 03:12:30,960
Speaker 2: it might be a question of do you have that

3881
03:12:31,120 --> 03:12:35,920
Speaker 2: fourth baby. There was no abuse or cheating in our marriage,

3882
03:12:35,920 --> 03:12:39,320
Speaker 2: although he did sleep with someone else during our support separation,

3883
03:12:39,400 --> 03:12:43,600
Speaker 2: which I think if you're like, it's already going towards divorce, yeah,

3884
03:12:44,160 --> 03:12:47,480
Speaker 2: I think it's maybe fine. But if you're just separated.

3885
03:12:47,560 --> 03:12:51,320
Speaker 5: This in terms of like the like when you're actually divorcing,

3886
03:12:51,480 --> 03:12:52,720
Speaker 5: like the legal grammars.

3887
03:12:53,120 --> 03:12:56,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, because you can it can like use you

3888
03:12:56,400 --> 03:12:59,280
Speaker 2: can use it against them. There are a variety of

3889
03:12:59,360 --> 03:13:03,800
Speaker 2: other reasons why we ultimately got divorced. After the initial

3890
03:13:03,879 --> 03:13:07,440
Speaker 2: feelings of failure and heartache, there was an immense amount

3891
03:13:07,520 --> 03:13:09,920
Speaker 2: of heartache on my end, despite being the one who

3892
03:13:10,040 --> 03:13:13,040
Speaker 2: filed for divorce, we were able to get along pretty well.

3893
03:13:13,320 --> 03:13:16,120
Speaker 2: It became platonic so quickly, and it's like when we

3894
03:13:16,200 --> 03:13:20,879
Speaker 2: remove the romantic and married relationship from the equation, things got.

3895
03:13:20,840 --> 03:13:24,280
Speaker 5: So much better, took the pressure off.

3896
03:13:24,560 --> 03:13:26,520
Speaker 2: We split time with our kids fifty to fifty. That's

3897
03:13:26,560 --> 03:13:29,039
Speaker 2: really the hard part for me because being a mom

3898
03:13:29,200 --> 03:13:31,640
Speaker 2: is such a huge part of my identity that I

3899
03:13:31,760 --> 03:13:34,640
Speaker 2: still sometimes struggle to know what to do with myself

3900
03:13:34,840 --> 03:13:39,160
Speaker 2: during his time with the kids. Ultimately, I'm happy that

3901
03:13:39,280 --> 03:13:42,480
Speaker 2: he's a loving, involved father, and I'm glad that if

3902
03:13:42,520 --> 03:13:44,960
Speaker 2: they do spend half their time with him. And I'm

3903
03:13:44,959 --> 03:13:46,600
Speaker 2: glad that they do spend half their time with him,

3904
03:13:46,800 --> 03:13:49,360
Speaker 2: even if I still sometimes cry over not being with

3905
03:13:49,480 --> 03:13:52,240
Speaker 2: them all the time. It just sounds like they both

3906
03:13:52,280 --> 03:13:55,160
Speaker 2: really love their kids, which is totally We sit together

3907
03:13:55,240 --> 03:13:59,600
Speaker 2: at our kids' activities, things like that. Well, he has

3908
03:13:59,800 --> 03:14:04,400
Speaker 2: a girlfriend now. She seems nice. She seems nice. He

3909
03:14:04,520 --> 03:14:09,119
Speaker 2: met her not long after the divorce was finalized. It hurts, man,

3910
03:14:09,200 --> 03:14:13,119
Speaker 2: that's gotta hurt. I imagine that hurts. I cried way

3911
03:14:13,200 --> 03:14:16,360
Speaker 2: too much over it. He waited over six months to

3912
03:14:16,440 --> 03:14:18,840
Speaker 2: introduce her to our kids, which I was thankful for.

3913
03:14:19,480 --> 03:14:22,240
Speaker 2: My kids like her. He's doing all the right steps.

3914
03:14:22,800 --> 03:14:25,359
Speaker 2: But he's like, it feels like he's winning the divorce,

3915
03:14:25,680 --> 03:14:28,840
Speaker 2: not that there is a winner, because everyone loses in

3916
03:14:28,840 --> 03:14:32,960
Speaker 2: a divorce. Yeah, it doesn't feel great, but everyone also wins.

3917
03:14:33,040 --> 03:14:35,640
Speaker 5: Though kind of it probably hurts that, you know, from

3918
03:14:35,680 --> 03:14:37,160
Speaker 5: her perspective, then they liked her.

3919
03:14:37,640 --> 03:14:40,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I can see that, though, although I'm kind

3920
03:14:40,920 --> 03:14:43,680
Speaker 2: of just getting only green flags from the husband.

3921
03:14:43,800 --> 03:14:46,240
Speaker 5: He's not doing anything wrong, Like everyone's going about this

3922
03:14:46,480 --> 03:14:46,879
Speaker 5: the right way.

3923
03:14:46,959 --> 03:14:48,360
Speaker 1: Sometimes people can do everything right.

3924
03:14:48,480 --> 03:14:52,600
Speaker 2: But Kimberly Fine says it's okay to close a chapter

3925
03:14:52,720 --> 03:14:56,359
Speaker 2: without despising him, which is one hundred percent. Our youngest

3926
03:14:56,440 --> 03:14:59,360
Speaker 2: child was unexpectedly admitted to the hospital not long ago.

3927
03:14:59,760 --> 03:15:01,600
Speaker 2: He ha surgery. In the grand scheme of things, it

3928
03:15:01,680 --> 03:15:04,400
Speaker 2: was pretty minor and he's absolutely fine now, but this

3929
03:15:04,680 --> 03:15:07,000
Speaker 2: is my baby and he had to spend multiple nights

3930
03:15:07,040 --> 03:15:08,560
Speaker 2: in the hospital, so this was a big deal for me.

3931
03:15:09,480 --> 03:15:12,760
Speaker 2: Also shout out to k B for the twenty seven

3932
03:15:12,959 --> 03:15:17,360
Speaker 2: dollars tip even gang going hard watch y'all every day.

3933
03:15:17,480 --> 03:15:21,400
Speaker 2: Thank you for the last and juicy stories. We're glad

3934
03:15:21,440 --> 03:15:24,959
Speaker 2: that we could give you some juice. So pretty minor,

3935
03:15:25,200 --> 03:15:27,000
Speaker 2: but it was a big deal for me. My ex

3936
03:15:27,120 --> 03:15:29,640
Speaker 2: husband was there the entire time, being a great dad,

3937
03:15:30,080 --> 03:15:33,400
Speaker 2: being a supportive partner to me as I was worried

3938
03:15:33,480 --> 03:15:36,440
Speaker 2: over every little thing. He spent all those nights in

3939
03:15:36,480 --> 03:15:40,800
Speaker 2: the hospital together, and I remembered why I married him.

3940
03:15:41,680 --> 03:15:43,840
Speaker 2: Put I see you in the chat if you see

3941
03:15:43,959 --> 03:15:46,560
Speaker 2: maybe where things might be going, I.

3942
03:15:46,680 --> 03:15:49,920
Speaker 1: See you guys, what do you think still with his girlfriend?

3943
03:15:51,520 --> 03:15:52,800
Speaker 2: He is still with his girlfriend?

3944
03:15:52,840 --> 03:15:55,040
Speaker 1: I think, well, Bella Conkling said, real love is liking

3945
03:15:55,080 --> 03:15:55,720
Speaker 1: the stream, So.

3946
03:15:56,040 --> 03:16:00,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's all I'm saying. That's real love. Conspiracy theory. Yes,

3947
03:16:01,200 --> 03:16:07,920
Speaker 2: here we go. They might hook up. What do we

3948
03:16:08,000 --> 03:16:11,920
Speaker 2: got They might hook up? Yeah, they hook up.

3949
03:16:12,560 --> 03:16:15,680
Speaker 1: Honestly, crazier conspiracy theory. They try to have a poly

3950
03:16:15,840 --> 03:16:17,000
Speaker 1: relationship with all three of them.

3951
03:16:19,560 --> 03:16:23,600
Speaker 2: Friends, Come on, now, that's a conspiracy and shout out

3952
03:16:23,640 --> 03:16:28,400
Speaker 2: insatia for the nine sixty nine tip. I can't even so,

3953
03:16:28,600 --> 03:16:34,080
Speaker 2: I'm odd divorced. We spent all those nights in the

3954
03:16:34,120 --> 03:16:37,880
Speaker 2: hospital together and I remembered why I married him. He

3955
03:16:38,000 --> 03:16:41,000
Speaker 2: was always able to be strong and level headed rock

3956
03:16:41,240 --> 03:16:44,520
Speaker 2: for me. He was this safe person who I knew

3957
03:16:44,520 --> 03:16:48,480
Speaker 2: would take care of everything and protect me. When we

3958
03:16:48,680 --> 03:16:51,400
Speaker 2: were in the hospital, he told me that I'm the

3959
03:16:51,480 --> 03:16:56,680
Speaker 2: most important woman in his life. Still over the girlfriend.

3960
03:16:56,920 --> 03:16:58,400
Speaker 5: Over the girlfriend.

3961
03:16:59,120 --> 03:17:01,480
Speaker 2: When our son was just My ex husband came back

3962
03:17:01,520 --> 03:17:05,000
Speaker 2: to my house. My baby was home safe, Our other

3963
03:17:05,080 --> 03:17:07,440
Speaker 2: two children were excited to be home. After staying with

3964
03:17:07,560 --> 03:17:10,440
Speaker 2: my husband's sister for several nights. We were all home

3965
03:17:10,520 --> 03:17:16,640
Speaker 2: together like a family again. That night, after our kids

3966
03:17:17,520 --> 03:17:21,119
Speaker 2: were in bed, we just went to sleep.

3967
03:17:23,280 --> 03:17:23,800
Speaker 5: We had.

3968
03:17:28,280 --> 03:17:31,800
Speaker 2: Sex. I hadn't been hoping for it or planning it.

3969
03:17:32,480 --> 03:17:34,039
Speaker 2: It was just like, as soon as the kids were

3970
03:17:34,080 --> 03:17:40,080
Speaker 2: tucked away in their rooms, we were having this intensely passionate, needy,

3971
03:17:40,440 --> 03:17:43,400
Speaker 2: amazing sex that we shouldn't have been having, which probably

3972
03:17:43,520 --> 03:17:44,760
Speaker 2: made it so much harder.

3973
03:17:45,520 --> 03:17:47,240
Speaker 1: Because he's still with the girlfriend.

3974
03:17:48,200 --> 03:17:55,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's still dating the girlfriends messy. We went to

3975
03:17:55,560 --> 03:17:57,080
Speaker 2: sleep in my bed and at some point in the

3976
03:17:57,120 --> 03:18:02,120
Speaker 2: middle of night we had sex again. You woke up

3977
03:18:02,840 --> 03:18:07,360
Speaker 2: in the middle of the night. Do you have sex again? Yeah? Yike.

3978
03:18:07,560 --> 03:18:08,400
Speaker 5: I hope he's not dating this.

3979
03:18:08,720 --> 03:18:11,480
Speaker 2: From the next morning, we both decided our emotions with

3980
03:18:11,560 --> 03:18:13,960
Speaker 2: the whole situation with our son just got the better

3981
03:18:14,000 --> 03:18:16,680
Speaker 2: of us, right, because they just like overcame this thing.

3982
03:18:17,160 --> 03:18:20,040
Speaker 2: We said, we didn't regret sleeping together. You should regret

3983
03:18:20,080 --> 03:18:23,200
Speaker 2: it a little bit because he has a girlfriend. But

3984
03:18:23,360 --> 03:18:25,160
Speaker 2: that's all it was, and we were going to go

3985
03:18:25,280 --> 03:18:29,600
Speaker 2: back to our normal divorced lives. We just wouldn't make

3986
03:18:29,600 --> 03:18:34,680
Speaker 2: it awkward, just move on. But then I found out

3987
03:18:35,520 --> 03:18:42,120
Speaker 2: I was pregnant. Ye, he didn't use a condom. I

3988
03:18:42,200 --> 03:18:45,400
Speaker 2: don't even have condoms in my house anymore. I'm not

3989
03:18:45,640 --> 03:18:51,000
Speaker 2: on birth control. I haven't been since we divorced. What

3990
03:18:51,200 --> 03:18:55,280
Speaker 2: kind of excuses that did you even pull out? Probably not,

3991
03:18:57,480 --> 03:19:00,320
Speaker 2: I haven't had time, or it's like I wanted to

3992
03:19:00,600 --> 03:19:04,400
Speaker 2: have the interest to start investing in dating again. I

3993
03:19:04,520 --> 03:19:06,720
Speaker 2: really wanted to be single for a while. I know

3994
03:19:07,040 --> 03:19:09,480
Speaker 2: I was ovulating when we slept together. Okay, the cards

3995
03:19:09,520 --> 03:19:11,560
Speaker 2: were really stacked against them forging again.

3996
03:19:11,640 --> 03:19:14,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, I wasn't on birth control and we didn't use

3997
03:19:14,120 --> 03:19:15,760
Speaker 5: a condom, and I knew at the time that I

3998
03:19:15,879 --> 03:19:17,800
Speaker 5: wasn't ovulating, But I didn't expect this.

3999
03:19:19,240 --> 03:19:20,400
Speaker 1: How could it have happened?

4000
03:19:20,760 --> 03:19:25,000
Speaker 2: Which was probably contributing subconsciously as to why it happened.

4001
03:19:25,440 --> 03:19:27,840
Speaker 2: My body sees him being a good dad to our kids,

4002
03:19:27,879 --> 03:19:30,760
Speaker 2: and it wants an out there. My cycle is like clockwork,

4003
03:19:30,800 --> 03:19:34,680
Speaker 2: and we've always conceived on the first try every time

4004
03:19:34,920 --> 03:19:39,040
Speaker 2: we've tried to get pregnant. Fern damn Oh, conspiracy theory,

4005
03:19:39,160 --> 03:19:44,840
Speaker 2: chronic case, says baby trap Oh, Belle Conkling says the

4006
03:19:44,879 --> 03:19:47,720
Speaker 2: math is mathing. Keiky Doyle says, I'm thinking she did

4007
03:19:47,800 --> 03:19:50,720
Speaker 2: it on purpose. That's a conspiracy.

4008
03:19:51,560 --> 03:19:53,520
Speaker 5: I don't think. I don't know if like she would

4009
03:19:53,520 --> 03:19:55,320
Speaker 5: admit that because this is from her perspective.

4010
03:19:55,480 --> 03:19:57,760
Speaker 2: Yes, she might not. Yeah, she might not admit it.

4011
03:19:58,280 --> 03:20:00,280
Speaker 2: Our first kid was not even a try. It was

4012
03:20:00,440 --> 03:20:02,879
Speaker 2: two weeks before your wedding, you find out you're pregnant

4013
03:20:03,120 --> 03:20:08,680
Speaker 2: and spend your honeymoon with morning sickness. Surprise. So now

4014
03:20:09,040 --> 03:20:12,440
Speaker 2: I'm about eight weeks pregnant. I've known for about a week.

4015
03:20:13,040 --> 03:20:17,520
Speaker 2: I just told him this past weekend. I didn't know

4016
03:20:17,560 --> 03:20:19,920
Speaker 2: if I would tell him at all. I realized now

4017
03:20:20,240 --> 03:20:22,960
Speaker 2: that I only told him in hopes he'd tell me

4018
03:20:23,120 --> 03:20:26,680
Speaker 2: what to do and figure out a situation for me.

4019
03:20:27,280 --> 03:20:31,600
Speaker 2: Only he didn't. I knew, and I know it makes

4020
03:20:31,640 --> 03:20:33,480
Speaker 2: no sense to have a baby with somebody I chose

4021
03:20:33,560 --> 03:20:38,240
Speaker 2: a divorce. I don't need a fourth child, though. Why

4022
03:20:38,600 --> 03:20:42,400
Speaker 2: can't I let this? Why can't I let go of this? Though?

4023
03:20:44,320 --> 03:20:47,120
Speaker 2: TILDR for everyone who's just joining the stream. OP and

4024
03:20:47,280 --> 03:20:51,520
Speaker 2: X hookup after Sun's hopitalization. Opie's pregnant now and OP

4025
03:20:52,160 --> 03:20:56,600
Speaker 2: and the ex were married, and there is an update.

4026
03:20:57,440 --> 03:20:59,760
Speaker 2: But what do we think? What do we think OP

4027
03:21:00,040 --> 03:21:00,400
Speaker 2: should do?

4028
03:21:02,000 --> 03:21:03,879
Speaker 5: I need to know if the husband has a girl,

4029
03:21:03,920 --> 03:21:06,440
Speaker 5: has the girlfriend still because that not Yeah.

4030
03:21:06,280 --> 03:21:09,400
Speaker 2: There's been no mention, no mention, Like, I'm pretty sure that.

4031
03:21:09,640 --> 03:21:13,240
Speaker 5: She's been introduced to the kids. Yeah, I need to

4032
03:21:13,280 --> 03:21:14,320
Speaker 5: know what's going on with her.

4033
03:21:16,000 --> 03:21:19,680
Speaker 2: Let's assume because right now it seems like the girlfriend

4034
03:21:19,840 --> 03:21:21,920
Speaker 2: is still there. There's no mention of the girlfriend not

4035
03:21:22,000 --> 03:21:25,640
Speaker 2: being there. Let's assume that the girlfriend is still in

4036
03:21:26,520 --> 03:21:30,960
Speaker 2: her ex husband's life. Yeah, so she's pregnant. She's told

4037
03:21:31,040 --> 03:21:34,320
Speaker 2: the husband. He said, hey, like, do whatever you want?

4038
03:21:37,120 --> 03:21:39,560
Speaker 1: What do you do as the husband?

4039
03:21:41,120 --> 03:21:43,760
Speaker 2: M and as the wife too?

4040
03:21:44,000 --> 03:21:46,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean you definitely have to tell the girlfriend.

4041
03:21:46,680 --> 03:21:47,439
Speaker 1: If you're still.

4042
03:21:47,320 --> 03:21:51,360
Speaker 5: Girlfriends, you have to there's oh tell the girlfriend tells

4043
03:21:51,560 --> 03:21:52,080
Speaker 5: the husband.

4044
03:21:52,280 --> 03:21:53,680
Speaker 2: Hey, he already told the husband.

4045
03:21:54,080 --> 03:21:55,080
Speaker 1: Husband tells the girlfriend.

4046
03:21:55,080 --> 03:21:58,560
Speaker 2: Okay, so what should ope do? She's like, I don't

4047
03:21:58,640 --> 03:22:02,480
Speaker 2: need another kid, but I can't let go of this.

4048
03:22:03,360 --> 03:22:07,000
Speaker 1: I mean that is a hard hard I know.

4049
03:22:07,080 --> 03:22:08,800
Speaker 2: It makes no sense to have a baby with somebody

4050
03:22:08,879 --> 03:22:09,840
Speaker 2: I chose to divorce.

4051
03:22:10,800 --> 03:22:12,720
Speaker 5: I think he needs to have a conversation with her

4052
03:22:12,800 --> 03:22:16,320
Speaker 5: husband and figure out what the go the plan is.

4053
03:22:17,080 --> 03:22:19,520
Speaker 5: If it's like, are we raising this child together? Are

4054
03:22:19,600 --> 03:22:20,600
Speaker 5: we going to try again?

4055
03:22:20,800 --> 03:22:22,920
Speaker 1: To like what are they?

4056
03:22:23,280 --> 03:22:23,440
Speaker 6: Yeah?

4057
03:22:23,520 --> 03:22:26,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, that is my question, Like, Okay, you just hooked up.

4058
03:22:26,720 --> 03:22:30,240
Speaker 1: It seems like something is bubbling back. Yes, So, like

4059
03:22:30,480 --> 03:22:32,480
Speaker 1: I think you need to sit down. You know, you've

4060
03:22:32,760 --> 03:22:35,560
Speaker 1: made a decision, a consequence happened. We need to sit

4061
03:22:35,640 --> 03:22:38,279
Speaker 1: down and have big boy a big girl adult conversation.

4062
03:22:38,400 --> 03:22:42,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, because he's involved, Like, yes, like it's it's her

4063
03:22:42,360 --> 03:22:46,280
Speaker 2: choice ultimately, but he's involved. I feel like it, Like

4064
03:22:46,840 --> 03:22:49,280
Speaker 2: I feel like maybe it's a little unempathetic to be like,

4065
03:22:49,720 --> 03:22:51,720
Speaker 2: whatever you want, babe, Like I feel like, you know,

4066
03:22:51,959 --> 03:22:53,840
Speaker 2: like he is, which is still what he should do,

4067
03:22:53,920 --> 03:22:55,080
Speaker 2: but like be there for her a lot.

4068
03:22:55,200 --> 03:22:56,119
Speaker 1: It is what she wants.

4069
03:22:56,200 --> 03:22:59,160
Speaker 5: But it's also like she's asking you what you are

4070
03:22:59,240 --> 03:23:02,280
Speaker 5: willing to give in this relationship and what your role

4071
03:23:02,360 --> 03:23:02,600
Speaker 5: will be.

4072
03:23:03,400 --> 03:23:07,000
Speaker 2: And also, to be clear, she has three children, is

4073
03:23:07,160 --> 03:23:09,200
Speaker 2: pregnant with the fourth, which is the child that we're

4074
03:23:09,240 --> 03:23:13,800
Speaker 2: talking about right here. Cassie Kremer says she wants him

4075
03:23:13,840 --> 03:23:15,760
Speaker 2: back and hopes the baby will get him back. I

4076
03:23:15,800 --> 03:23:18,080
Speaker 2: think that's a little bit of what's happening.

4077
03:23:17,800 --> 03:23:19,240
Speaker 5: Even if she doesn't like recognize them.

4078
03:23:19,440 --> 03:23:19,600
Speaker 11: Yeah.

4079
03:23:19,800 --> 03:23:22,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think maybe a subconsciously part of her

4080
03:23:23,640 --> 03:23:29,959
Speaker 2: wanted to get pregnant subconscious subconsciously. Belle says, why are

4081
03:23:30,040 --> 03:23:32,720
Speaker 2: you raw dogging your almost ex husband if you're not

4082
03:23:32,840 --> 03:23:33,760
Speaker 2: trying to keep it together.

4083
03:23:34,160 --> 03:23:37,680
Speaker 1: That is such a great question. Bella that Belle bell

4084
03:23:38,120 --> 03:23:39,920
Speaker 1: are sure this is actual?

4085
03:23:40,120 --> 03:23:41,640
Speaker 5: This is her ex husband?

4086
03:23:41,800 --> 03:23:44,560
Speaker 2: Full full ex Katam says she needs to think logically

4087
03:23:44,600 --> 03:23:49,840
Speaker 2: about whether she can actually handle a fourth or not. Yeah. Yeah,

4088
03:23:49,879 --> 03:23:52,960
Speaker 2: I think I think they just need they need to

4089
03:23:53,000 --> 03:23:53,520
Speaker 2: talk to each other.

4090
03:23:53,600 --> 03:23:55,800
Speaker 1: Oh no, it's Lizzie Joe. Seriously, she knows he wasn't

4091
03:23:55,800 --> 03:23:58,280
Speaker 1: shooting blanks like so many things.

4092
03:23:58,360 --> 03:24:00,920
Speaker 2: The thing is, but they both know, they both they

4093
03:24:01,040 --> 03:24:03,320
Speaker 2: both know. I mean maybe he thought she was on

4094
03:24:03,480 --> 03:24:06,119
Speaker 2: birth control, but he should, he should have acted.

4095
03:24:06,400 --> 03:24:08,600
Speaker 5: So it was it was both of them. I don't

4096
03:24:08,600 --> 03:24:11,680
Speaker 5: think this was her, you know, tricking him or anything.

4097
03:24:12,000 --> 03:24:14,240
Speaker 5: He didn't have a condom, he didn't, you know, there

4098
03:24:14,280 --> 03:24:16,040
Speaker 5: were things that he could have done to you know,

4099
03:24:16,160 --> 03:24:16,879
Speaker 5: protect himself.

4100
03:24:17,000 --> 03:24:17,160
Speaker 7: Yeah.

4101
03:24:17,240 --> 03:24:20,800
Speaker 2: But also she knew she was ovulating. Yeah too, It's

4102
03:24:20,800 --> 03:24:22,879
Speaker 2: true she knew. So like I feel like a.

4103
03:24:22,879 --> 03:24:26,520
Speaker 5: Little both sides, totally for sure, a lot on both sides.

4104
03:24:26,760 --> 03:24:32,439
Speaker 2: But let's get in to the update. So again TLDR

4105
03:24:32,520 --> 03:24:36,240
Speaker 2: for everyone who's new opiate x hook up. After Sun's

4106
03:24:36,280 --> 03:24:39,000
Speaker 2: hospitilation op He's pregnant. Now we're going to see what

4107
03:24:39,160 --> 03:24:41,680
Speaker 2: they actually do, but first, can we see what you

4108
03:24:41,760 --> 03:24:44,520
Speaker 2: actually do by liking this stream right now? If you

4109
03:24:44,680 --> 03:24:48,200
Speaker 2: haven't already liked this stream, come on, help us out.

4110
03:24:48,240 --> 03:24:51,040
Speaker 1: We had people breaking the law to watch and like

4111
03:24:51,120 --> 03:24:53,480
Speaker 1: the stream. Someone earlier was in China and was like,

4112
03:24:54,560 --> 03:24:56,440
Speaker 1: I one done, Millennial. She's like, it's a legal right now,

4113
03:24:56,520 --> 03:24:57,120
Speaker 1: but I'm gonna do it.

4114
03:24:57,280 --> 03:25:01,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, it freaking like the stream and also spam. W's

4115
03:25:01,760 --> 03:25:04,040
Speaker 2: in the chat so we can get more people. It's

4116
03:25:04,680 --> 03:25:05,440
Speaker 2: the chat and.

4117
03:25:05,560 --> 03:25:08,720
Speaker 5: You can also bring the odd even gang war.

4118
03:25:08,760 --> 03:25:13,080
Speaker 2: To the to the likes we yeah, yeah, we choose

4119
03:25:13,120 --> 03:25:15,160
Speaker 2: it if you want odd or even in the likes.

4120
03:25:15,280 --> 03:25:18,640
Speaker 2: Freaking yeah, come on blast plastic girl in the family.

4121
03:25:19,080 --> 03:25:22,400
Speaker 6: W' is in the chat all right, so we're at sorry,

4122
03:25:22,680 --> 03:25:24,360
Speaker 6: seven hundred and twelve likes.

4123
03:25:24,440 --> 03:25:26,000
Speaker 5: Wow, even gang is winning.

4124
03:25:26,920 --> 03:25:27,440
Speaker 1: What are you gonna do?

4125
03:25:27,520 --> 03:25:32,200
Speaker 2: Our gang? So let's get in to this update I

4126
03:25:32,360 --> 03:25:35,800
Speaker 2: posted about a week ago. My ex husband and I

4127
03:25:35,920 --> 03:25:38,080
Speaker 2: have been divorce for about a year. We have three

4128
03:25:38,200 --> 03:25:42,640
Speaker 2: kids ranging from ten to five years old, and Ali

4129
03:25:42,760 --> 03:25:45,879
Speaker 2: Kat thank you for the twenty five dollars chip tip.

4130
03:25:46,080 --> 03:25:48,080
Speaker 2: This fifty year old mom loves you.

4131
03:25:48,200 --> 03:25:48,360
Speaker 11: All.

4132
03:25:51,000 --> 03:25:55,480
Speaker 2: So we've gotten along rate since the divorce, better than

4133
03:25:55,520 --> 03:25:58,520
Speaker 2: we were married. It's almost like we're friends. We can

4134
03:25:58,600 --> 03:26:01,520
Speaker 2: do things with our kids and being around each other.

4135
03:26:02,320 --> 03:26:08,280
Speaker 2: About two months ago, our youngest unexpectedly ended up having

4136
03:26:08,360 --> 03:26:10,440
Speaker 2: surgery and spending several nights in the hospital. Stuff we

4137
03:26:10,440 --> 03:26:13,560
Speaker 2: already know. Susan, thanks for the two thirty one tip,

4138
03:26:13,680 --> 03:26:16,200
Speaker 2: making the even gang even again. She should have taken

4139
03:26:16,560 --> 03:26:18,680
Speaker 2: a day after pill just in case, especially since she

4140
03:26:18,760 --> 03:26:20,320
Speaker 2: knew she was ovulated when they were doing it.

4141
03:26:20,440 --> 03:26:21,200
Speaker 1: Another great point.

4142
03:26:21,240 --> 03:26:25,480
Speaker 2: Another great point, he's fine now. My ex husband I

4143
03:26:25,560 --> 03:26:27,240
Speaker 2: stayed together with our son the entire time was in

4144
03:26:27,280 --> 03:26:29,320
Speaker 2: the hospital when he was just charged. My ex husband

4145
03:26:29,400 --> 03:26:32,080
Speaker 2: came back to the house, our former family home at

4146
03:26:32,200 --> 03:26:34,440
Speaker 2: our son's request. He was just supposed to spend a

4147
03:26:34,440 --> 03:26:37,160
Speaker 2: few hours to help her son get settled then go home. However,

4148
03:26:37,440 --> 03:26:39,280
Speaker 2: I guess all the emotions of being together as a

4149
03:26:39,320 --> 03:26:41,240
Speaker 2: family and our former shared at home get the better

4150
03:26:41,280 --> 03:26:43,920
Speaker 2: of us, and we ended up having sex twice that night,

4151
03:26:45,280 --> 03:26:47,960
Speaker 2: and they had sex twice. They had the opportunity to like,

4152
03:26:48,080 --> 03:26:48,960
Speaker 2: not have sex again.

4153
03:26:49,560 --> 03:26:51,920
Speaker 1: Oh my god, this girlfriend.

4154
03:26:52,320 --> 03:26:57,080
Speaker 2: Now I'm nine weeks pregnant and daddy Jesse. Thanks for

4155
03:26:57,160 --> 03:27:01,840
Speaker 2: impregnating us with twenty one dollars. We appreciate you. Now,

4156
03:27:01,879 --> 03:27:06,040
Speaker 2: I'm nine weeks pregnant. I wasn't on birth control, was

4157
03:27:06,120 --> 03:27:08,960
Speaker 2: on it until after our divorce was finalized, but have

4158
03:27:09,160 --> 03:27:15,080
Speaker 2: been intentionally was on it until after a divorce was finalized,

4159
03:27:15,120 --> 03:27:20,000
Speaker 2: So maybe he assumed she was still on it right, Oh,

4160
03:27:20,760 --> 03:27:23,120
Speaker 2: but have intentionally remaining single for a while and not

4161
03:27:23,280 --> 03:27:25,320
Speaker 2: involved with men in any way, So it was giving

4162
03:27:25,400 --> 03:27:27,800
Speaker 2: my body a break from birth control, So he I mean,

4163
03:27:27,879 --> 03:27:30,160
Speaker 2: if she was on it for the entire relationship up

4164
03:27:30,240 --> 03:27:33,440
Speaker 2: until the divorce, I think like he still should have

4165
03:27:33,520 --> 03:27:36,720
Speaker 2: asked totally, he still should have asked, but I understand

4166
03:27:36,879 --> 03:27:42,920
Speaker 2: him like assuming yes potentially, Yeah, initially we were undecided

4167
03:27:43,160 --> 03:27:46,760
Speaker 2: about what to do, but as of last weekend, we

4168
03:27:46,959 --> 03:27:50,240
Speaker 2: made the decision together. Two, what do we think? Are

4169
03:27:50,280 --> 03:27:52,040
Speaker 2: they having the baby or not having the baby?

4170
03:27:53,640 --> 03:27:54,240
Speaker 1: Having baby?

4171
03:27:54,360 --> 03:27:55,760
Speaker 2: What do you guys think having the baby or not

4172
03:27:55,840 --> 03:27:59,240
Speaker 2: having the baby? Also, yeah, love Bubble says he's still

4173
03:27:59,360 --> 03:27:59,920
Speaker 2: in a relation.

4174
03:28:00,760 --> 03:28:00,960
Speaker 13: I know.

4175
03:28:01,200 --> 03:28:04,480
Speaker 14: That's what I'm stuck on, which is why he's an ale. Potentially,

4176
03:28:05,120 --> 03:28:09,080
Speaker 14: I'm so confused. They haven't mentioned the girlfriend at all. Yeah,

4177
03:28:09,120 --> 03:28:12,640
Speaker 14: haven't mentioned the girlfriend, Like literally introduced her to the kids.

4178
03:28:13,520 --> 03:28:19,240
Speaker 2: I'm so confused. Okay, okay, so but as of last weekend,

4179
03:28:19,920 --> 03:28:24,600
Speaker 2: we made the decision together two have the baby.

4180
03:28:25,520 --> 03:28:25,920
Speaker 1: There we go.

4181
03:28:26,520 --> 03:28:29,000
Speaker 2: It feels sort of crazy to me. Definitely not a

4182
03:28:29,040 --> 03:28:32,520
Speaker 2: situation I ever imagined i'd find myself in. I already

4183
03:28:32,640 --> 03:28:36,480
Speaker 2: picture this baby looking just like our other kids. I

4184
03:28:36,560 --> 03:28:38,800
Speaker 2: guess that's why I struggled with the idea of not

4185
03:28:39,000 --> 03:28:42,680
Speaker 2: continuing the pregnancy, which I know isn't really valid reason

4186
03:28:42,879 --> 03:28:45,279
Speaker 2: to have a baby. This is probably the last baby

4187
03:28:45,400 --> 03:28:48,160
Speaker 2: I'll ever have. I'm thirty nine, so even if I

4188
03:28:48,240 --> 03:28:50,760
Speaker 2: were to meet a man who I trust enough to

4189
03:28:50,800 --> 03:28:52,200
Speaker 2: want to have a child with in a future with,

4190
03:28:52,520 --> 03:28:54,600
Speaker 2: I'll be well into my forties by then. I plan

4191
03:28:54,720 --> 03:28:56,760
Speaker 2: to be very picky. But I'm not even at the

4192
03:28:56,800 --> 03:29:00,920
Speaker 2: point of wanting to find someone new parent bertle Fertile,

4193
03:29:01,160 --> 03:29:04,359
Speaker 2: we're not getting back together, okay for now because.

4194
03:29:04,400 --> 03:29:05,640
Speaker 5: Because he's in a relationship.

4195
03:29:05,680 --> 03:29:06,560
Speaker 2: He's still in a relationship.

4196
03:29:06,560 --> 03:29:06,880
Speaker 5: I don't know.

4197
03:29:07,040 --> 03:29:07,920
Speaker 1: They haven't met him.

4198
03:29:08,120 --> 03:29:11,440
Speaker 2: How they not mention tell us we get along great

4199
03:29:11,760 --> 03:29:13,720
Speaker 2: when we're not married and living in the same house.

4200
03:29:14,080 --> 03:29:17,800
Speaker 2: We feel maybe you just be like X's with benefits. Yeah,

4201
03:29:19,680 --> 03:29:22,600
Speaker 2: if there's no thing you'll have like thirty children. Yeah,

4202
03:29:22,640 --> 03:29:25,119
Speaker 2: if you have no girlfriend. We get along great when

4203
03:29:25,120 --> 03:29:26,960
Speaker 2: we're not married and living in the same house and

4204
03:29:27,160 --> 03:29:29,800
Speaker 2: living oh oh, when we're not married and not living

4205
03:29:29,840 --> 03:29:34,400
Speaker 2: in the same house. Yeah, we feel it'd be irresponsible

4206
03:29:34,440 --> 03:29:36,320
Speaker 2: to all of our children to attempt to get back

4207
03:29:36,320 --> 03:29:38,920
Speaker 2: together right now. Because of this, chances are higher that

4208
03:29:39,000 --> 03:29:42,120
Speaker 2: we'll be able to co parent this baby successfully if

4209
03:29:42,200 --> 03:29:45,640
Speaker 2: we live separately. However, we are committed to working together

4210
03:29:45,879 --> 03:29:48,119
Speaker 2: to do what has to be done to take care

4211
03:29:48,160 --> 03:29:50,720
Speaker 2: of the baby when he or she gets here. Our

4212
03:29:50,800 --> 03:29:53,400
Speaker 2: kids are doing so great right now, and they seem

4213
03:29:53,520 --> 03:29:57,240
Speaker 2: very happy and secure with the current setup of our

4214
03:29:57,360 --> 03:29:59,200
Speaker 2: lives and home. So we want to stick with this

4215
03:29:59,560 --> 03:30:03,000
Speaker 2: for now. And to be clear, there is another juicy update.

4216
03:30:03,600 --> 03:30:05,960
Speaker 2: There's another juicy update, and there's more to this update

4217
03:30:06,000 --> 03:30:09,320
Speaker 2: we have right here, so there's like way more to

4218
03:30:09,400 --> 03:30:12,080
Speaker 2: this story, all right. Keep giving to me, We'll keep giving.

4219
03:30:12,120 --> 03:30:17,880
Speaker 2: We keep giving, all right. So so we're committed, our

4220
03:30:17,959 --> 03:30:20,080
Speaker 2: kids are doing great. We're gonna stick with us for now.

4221
03:30:20,440 --> 03:30:20,600
Speaker 11: Now.

4222
03:30:21,000 --> 03:30:23,240
Speaker 2: I don't know if I really understand what I'm getting

4223
03:30:23,280 --> 03:30:26,520
Speaker 2: myself into. My other kids or other kids were all

4224
03:30:26,640 --> 03:30:29,400
Speaker 2: born into a marriage into a two parent home. I

4225
03:30:29,520 --> 03:30:31,440
Speaker 2: know that sharing custody of a baby will be a

4226
03:30:31,520 --> 03:30:34,000
Speaker 2: lot different than the kids going back and forth between homes.

4227
03:30:34,320 --> 03:30:37,080
Speaker 2: I might be feeling too positive about this, but I

4228
03:30:37,200 --> 03:30:40,280
Speaker 2: think it could work out fine. The new baby. We'll

4229
03:30:40,400 --> 03:30:43,360
Speaker 2: just see this as normal, right. Next thing to worry about.

4230
03:30:43,480 --> 03:30:45,800
Speaker 2: We'll be having to explain this to everyone when we

4231
03:30:45,959 --> 03:30:48,520
Speaker 2: tell them. My family and friends will get over it.

4232
03:30:49,320 --> 03:30:51,000
Speaker 2: How about his girlfriends?

4233
03:30:51,200 --> 03:30:51,600
Speaker 5: The kids?

4234
03:30:52,120 --> 03:30:53,720
Speaker 2: Oh? Oh, okay, we have an update.

4235
03:30:53,720 --> 03:30:56,599
Speaker 1: We have an up date. Okay, okay, please, okay, please.

4236
03:30:56,879 --> 03:31:02,040
Speaker 2: So so helpamily and friends will get over it. But

4237
03:31:02,200 --> 03:31:06,720
Speaker 2: I'm especially concerned with explaining it to our kids. I'm

4238
03:31:06,840 --> 03:31:11,200
Speaker 2: worried our oldest won't take the news. Well, yeah, she

4239
03:31:11,360 --> 03:31:14,520
Speaker 2: also knows what sex is and how babies are made.

4240
03:31:15,280 --> 03:31:15,800
Speaker 10: She knows.

4241
03:31:17,400 --> 03:31:24,240
Speaker 2: And for everyone concerned about his girlfriend, she's not his

4242
03:31:24,480 --> 03:31:26,240
Speaker 2: girlfriend anymore.

4243
03:31:29,200 --> 03:31:29,720
Speaker 1: Was this the thing?

4244
03:31:32,440 --> 03:31:32,640
Speaker 11: Yeah?

4245
03:31:32,720 --> 03:31:35,720
Speaker 2: Did he break up with the girlfriend before or after this?

4246
03:31:36,920 --> 03:31:37,480
Speaker 5: I need to know?

4247
03:31:39,200 --> 03:31:43,520
Speaker 2: And new update alert because we're getting a thick, juicy update.

4248
03:31:44,480 --> 03:31:47,520
Speaker 2: Thick and juicy. So are we ready to dive into this?

4249
03:31:47,680 --> 03:31:48,640
Speaker 1: Let's go? Let's go.

4250
03:31:48,800 --> 03:31:51,600
Speaker 2: Also, how do we feel about them co parenting in

4251
03:31:51,640 --> 03:31:51,959
Speaker 2: this way?

4252
03:31:52,200 --> 03:31:55,240
Speaker 1: It seems like it's healthy, it's smart. I mean they're like, hey,

4253
03:31:55,520 --> 03:31:58,200
Speaker 1: we know ourselves and we know that we work well

4254
03:31:58,240 --> 03:32:02,120
Speaker 1: and have a good vibe co parenting separately. Yeah, so

4255
03:32:02,280 --> 03:32:02,760
Speaker 1: keep doing that.

4256
03:32:03,000 --> 03:32:05,920
Speaker 2: Oh no, it's Lizzie, Joe says, oldest child. Probably heard

4257
03:32:06,040 --> 03:32:08,880
Speaker 2: the parents in the other room that night. So much haste,

4258
03:32:09,000 --> 03:32:09,959
Speaker 2: so much lo key.

4259
03:32:10,160 --> 03:32:13,400
Speaker 6: I feel like it's gonna be like co parenting with benefits.

4260
03:32:13,600 --> 03:32:16,400
Speaker 2: Co parenting with ben and yeah, dude, it's got it.

4261
03:32:16,720 --> 03:32:19,160
Speaker 2: That's what it's going to turn into, you know. I

4262
03:32:19,240 --> 03:32:22,040
Speaker 2: mean they had they had a great time, a great

4263
03:32:22,080 --> 03:32:24,920
Speaker 2: time and Lavelle Erica thanks for the one buck.

4264
03:32:25,080 --> 03:32:29,039
Speaker 5: Carooney appearance is as a psychology major, this is confusing.

4265
03:32:29,400 --> 03:32:30,040
Speaker 1: Please study this.

4266
03:32:30,120 --> 03:32:33,920
Speaker 2: Anti erin Also, can we get a TLDR for everyone here?

4267
03:32:34,120 --> 03:32:37,920
Speaker 2: But we're going to get into the update. All right,

4268
03:32:38,320 --> 03:32:41,800
Speaker 2: you all ready for this. Let's jump into it. Several

4269
03:32:41,840 --> 03:32:44,480
Speaker 2: people have asked for an update on my situation, like us,

4270
03:32:45,000 --> 03:32:46,720
Speaker 2: so we're gonna get into it. My ex husband and

4271
03:32:46,760 --> 03:32:49,320
Speaker 2: I are having a baby. My other posts are on

4272
03:32:49,440 --> 03:32:51,840
Speaker 2: my profile. A recap is that we were married for

4273
03:32:51,959 --> 03:32:54,240
Speaker 2: ten years, divorced for one and a half, and now

4274
03:32:54,360 --> 03:32:57,680
Speaker 2: have three kids together. We slept together try twice during

4275
03:32:57,720 --> 03:33:00,680
Speaker 2: a stressful family time and ended up getting preg We've

4276
03:33:00,720 --> 03:33:03,720
Speaker 2: since admitted we are both still in love with each

4277
03:33:03,760 --> 03:33:08,640
Speaker 2: other that yeah, but have not actually declared that we're

4278
03:33:08,640 --> 03:33:11,200
Speaker 2: back together, mainly for the sake of our kids. I

4279
03:33:11,360 --> 03:33:14,480
Speaker 2: last posted towards the end of January, and we're in March.

4280
03:33:14,560 --> 03:33:18,480
Speaker 2: In shout out to Tamara or Tamara for the five bucks.

4281
03:33:18,560 --> 03:33:20,000
Speaker 2: Listened for a long time, and this is the first

4282
03:33:20,080 --> 03:33:25,280
Speaker 2: live I've caught, and you listen every day. Welcome yea welcome, Welcome, Welcome, Welcome, We.

4283
03:33:25,360 --> 03:33:25,760
Speaker 1: Got that one.

4284
03:33:26,920 --> 03:33:29,320
Speaker 2: Several people have asked me for an up day. Oh,

4285
03:33:29,360 --> 03:33:32,800
Speaker 2: we already said that. Okay. So I'm twenty eight weeks pregnant.

4286
03:33:33,280 --> 03:33:37,520
Speaker 2: Twenty weeks we're having a little girl. As far as

4287
03:33:37,560 --> 03:33:40,840
Speaker 2: the pregnancy goes, it's been like a textbook pregnancy, and

4288
03:33:40,920 --> 03:33:43,920
Speaker 2: so I feel very pretty good, just more tired than

4289
03:33:43,959 --> 03:33:47,000
Speaker 2: I ever remember during during a pregnancy. My husband and

4290
03:33:47,000 --> 03:33:49,680
Speaker 2: I continue to live separately and share custody of our kids.

4291
03:33:50,240 --> 03:33:52,520
Speaker 2: We each have them fifty percent of the time. They're

4292
03:33:52,640 --> 03:33:55,200
Speaker 2: all aware that we're having a baby, and none of

4293
03:33:55,240 --> 03:33:58,120
Speaker 2: them seem to be deeply confused or emotionally damaged by

4294
03:33:58,120 --> 03:34:01,360
Speaker 2: the divorce parents having a baby together. It is a

4295
03:34:01,400 --> 03:34:03,200
Speaker 2: weird situation that probably doesn't happen often.

4296
03:34:03,879 --> 03:34:06,039
Speaker 5: He got divorced, though, right.

4297
03:34:07,080 --> 03:34:10,480
Speaker 2: We explained it in an age appropriate way. Our oldest

4298
03:34:10,560 --> 03:34:13,800
Speaker 2: child was more grossed out that her parents had sex

4299
03:34:14,000 --> 03:34:16,640
Speaker 2: more than anything else, since she now understands what sex

4300
03:34:16,760 --> 03:34:19,840
Speaker 2: is and how babies are made. Does school Sten the

4301
03:34:19,920 --> 03:34:23,280
Speaker 2: school Sten. We've been involving her quite a bit, and

4302
03:34:23,440 --> 03:34:30,560
Speaker 2: she's excited now hopefully not she's exact, I mean, just

4303
03:34:30,840 --> 03:34:33,360
Speaker 2: just hopefully not in being too graphic about their sex lives,

4304
03:34:33,520 --> 03:34:37,000
Speaker 2: you know. Anyway, Yeah, she's excited to have a baby sister,

4305
03:34:37,360 --> 03:34:39,920
Speaker 2: and she understands that mom and dad love her and

4306
03:34:40,040 --> 03:34:42,880
Speaker 2: her siblings, that we love this new baby, and that

4307
03:34:43,000 --> 03:34:46,320
Speaker 2: we love each other as people and as parenting partners.

4308
03:34:46,560 --> 03:34:49,680
Speaker 2: With actually being together as a married couple in one house.

4309
03:34:49,800 --> 03:34:52,200
Speaker 2: It's just that they love each other so much they

4310
03:34:52,360 --> 03:34:55,280
Speaker 2: have to have sex with each other. They can't contain it.

4311
03:34:55,360 --> 03:34:59,440
Speaker 2: They just got a philly up other with says they.

4312
03:34:59,640 --> 03:35:04,440
Speaker 5: Marry all actually go toss myself into.

4313
03:35:04,280 --> 03:35:06,480
Speaker 2: A lake of lava if they remarry. Why.

4314
03:35:08,320 --> 03:35:10,280
Speaker 1: I think it's like just the back and forth and

4315
03:35:10,440 --> 03:35:13,920
Speaker 1: just craziness of it all that, you know, stop, Like Jesse.

4316
03:35:13,840 --> 03:35:15,560
Speaker 2: Doyle says, I think they should get back together so

4317
03:35:15,680 --> 03:35:19,800
Speaker 2: they can cheat again on anyone later, So they can't

4318
03:35:19,840 --> 03:35:23,800
Speaker 2: cheat again on anyone later. So it's like, oh, like.

4319
03:35:23,920 --> 03:35:26,280
Speaker 6: They won't cheat if they're with each other. It's for

4320
03:35:26,400 --> 03:35:27,640
Speaker 6: the better of society.

4321
03:35:27,879 --> 03:35:29,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, like he might get a new girlfriend and then

4322
03:35:29,600 --> 03:35:30,400
Speaker 5: they'll cheat again.

4323
03:35:30,560 --> 03:35:40,920
Speaker 2: Right, Danielle Conkling says revorse, that's funny. Meanwhile, my husband

4324
03:35:40,920 --> 03:35:43,480
Speaker 2: and I have started attending couple's counseling.

4325
03:35:44,080 --> 03:35:47,879
Speaker 5: Thank you, we needed this, Yes, we needed.

4326
03:35:47,680 --> 03:35:50,960
Speaker 2: The Jays were and says toxic love story. It's kind

4327
03:35:51,000 --> 03:35:51,840
Speaker 2: of cute in a way.

4328
03:35:52,280 --> 03:35:56,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's like it's so messy.

4329
03:35:56,920 --> 03:36:00,400
Speaker 1: It weren't for the ex girlfriend, which it.

4330
03:36:02,440 --> 03:36:04,960
Speaker 2: But there may have not been cheating. They may have

4331
03:36:05,040 --> 03:36:07,080
Speaker 2: broken up before. They don't believe that.

4332
03:36:07,800 --> 03:36:12,520
Speaker 1: I think I think they they're cheating. What else would it?

4333
03:36:12,640 --> 03:36:13,560
Speaker 1: Fucking bee?

4334
03:36:15,040 --> 03:36:15,280
Speaker 5: Maybe?

4335
03:36:15,560 --> 03:36:16,640
Speaker 2: I don't know other stuff.

4336
03:36:16,920 --> 03:36:20,080
Speaker 1: Good dad seems like generally a good dude outside of this.

4337
03:36:20,280 --> 03:36:23,760
Speaker 2: Like, I don't know, I think I think they broke

4338
03:36:23,840 --> 03:36:28,880
Speaker 2: up before. Yeah, yeah, Hallmark MESSI as who said that

4339
03:36:29,160 --> 03:36:34,880
Speaker 2: it just went away Hallmark mess love Bubbles, Bubbles. We've

4340
03:36:34,879 --> 03:36:35,600
Speaker 2: been seeing you in the chat.

4341
03:36:35,640 --> 03:36:36,720
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, all right.

4342
03:36:37,080 --> 03:36:40,840
Speaker 2: So we tried marriage counseling when we were separated before

4343
03:36:40,840 --> 03:36:44,080
Speaker 2: we divorce, but I think we both already got pretty

4344
03:36:44,120 --> 03:36:46,400
Speaker 2: mentally done, so counseling didn't do much for us.

4345
03:36:46,440 --> 03:36:46,600
Speaker 8: Then.

4346
03:36:46,959 --> 03:36:48,760
Speaker 2: I think we're getting way more out of it now

4347
03:36:49,120 --> 03:36:52,040
Speaker 2: because we're actually invested in it and putting in a

4348
03:36:52,080 --> 03:36:54,880
Speaker 2: lot of effort. Sometimes I feel great after a session,

4349
03:36:54,920 --> 03:36:56,880
Speaker 2: and other times I feel not so great and am

4350
03:36:56,920 --> 03:37:01,320
Speaker 2: reminded of the reasons why we divorced. Overall, I think

4351
03:37:01,320 --> 03:37:03,359
Speaker 2: it's a good thing for us, no matter what happens

4352
03:37:03,440 --> 03:37:07,800
Speaker 2: with our relationship. We've been sleeping together for the last

4353
03:37:08,000 --> 03:37:15,680
Speaker 2: few months. Called that divorce benefits. Let's go. We already

4354
03:37:15,720 --> 03:37:17,960
Speaker 2: agreed that we won't be seeing other people at this time,

4355
03:37:18,120 --> 03:37:20,440
Speaker 2: so they're exclusive.

4356
03:37:19,879 --> 03:37:22,960
Speaker 5: Divorce exclusive divorces.

4357
03:37:23,160 --> 03:37:27,440
Speaker 2: Okay, I wouldn't be saying I wouldn't be saying, well,

4358
03:37:27,520 --> 03:37:30,040
Speaker 2: pregnant anyway. Oh, I wouldn't be. I wouldn't be like

4359
03:37:30,120 --> 03:37:32,680
Speaker 2: cooking up yeah by opening anyway. And it's not as

4360
03:37:32,760 --> 03:37:36,199
Speaker 2: if I'll even have time with three kids and a newborn.

4361
03:37:36,480 --> 03:37:39,000
Speaker 2: We agreed that we will not open ourselves to being

4362
03:37:39,080 --> 03:37:41,560
Speaker 2: with other people while we were working on our relationship

4363
03:37:41,680 --> 03:37:45,240
Speaker 2: and before that conversation has had between us. Okay, which

4364
03:37:45,760 --> 03:37:46,240
Speaker 2: is smart.

4365
03:37:46,440 --> 03:37:49,440
Speaker 5: So yeah, So it seems like they're going to stay

4366
03:37:49,520 --> 03:37:50,720
Speaker 5: divorced until they.

4367
03:37:50,840 --> 03:37:53,520
Speaker 2: Really figure out the right yeah. Yeah, or well they're

4368
03:37:53,520 --> 03:37:56,119
Speaker 2: gonna stay divorced until they really well no, they're gonna

4369
03:37:56,120 --> 03:37:59,560
Speaker 2: stay exclusive until they really figure out the relationship, and

4370
03:37:59,600 --> 03:38:02,440
Speaker 2: then they might open up the relationship possibly once they

4371
03:38:02,480 --> 03:38:03,520
Speaker 2: figure out the relationship.

4372
03:38:03,600 --> 03:38:04,199
Speaker 1: This is crazy.

4373
03:38:05,040 --> 03:38:08,600
Speaker 2: What forgetful? Sophie says, they need to stop. I don't know.

4374
03:38:08,680 --> 03:38:11,560
Speaker 2: I think it's cute. We are carrying on just as

4375
03:38:11,640 --> 03:38:13,680
Speaker 2: we have been since our divorce. As far as our

4376
03:38:13,760 --> 03:38:16,160
Speaker 2: kids are concerned. Dad doesn't spend the night at our house.

4377
03:38:16,200 --> 03:38:18,640
Speaker 2: We do things together as a family sometimes, but we

4378
03:38:18,760 --> 03:38:21,400
Speaker 2: are doing that even before anything was kindled between us.

4379
03:38:21,680 --> 03:38:23,560
Speaker 2: We're not acting as a couple when we're together as

4380
03:38:23,560 --> 03:38:26,320
Speaker 2: a family. We're friendly with each other, but there's no

4381
03:38:26,520 --> 03:38:31,119
Speaker 2: holding hands and no kissing, et cetera. Our main concern

4382
03:38:31,440 --> 03:38:33,880
Speaker 2: is our kids. We refuse to say we're back together.

4383
03:38:34,120 --> 03:38:36,240
Speaker 2: If we officially get back together, we really want to

4384
03:38:36,280 --> 03:38:39,320
Speaker 2: feel certain and it be for the long term for

4385
03:38:39,360 --> 03:38:41,600
Speaker 2: the sake of the kids. Also, Amy Everett, thanks for

4386
03:38:41,640 --> 03:38:45,640
Speaker 2: the ten BUCKAROONI let's hit them with a TLDR for

4387
03:38:45,720 --> 03:38:50,600
Speaker 2: everyone knew who just joined. We don't want to give

4388
03:38:50,600 --> 03:38:53,280
Speaker 2: our kids whiplash or do anything to make them seek

4389
03:38:53,400 --> 03:38:56,480
Speaker 2: and feel or seem insecure about our family. We'd like

4390
03:38:56,560 --> 03:38:58,480
Speaker 2: to get that and get to the point, but we

4391
03:38:58,600 --> 03:39:01,440
Speaker 2: aren't there yet. I think if my husband had his way,

4392
03:39:01,800 --> 03:39:04,920
Speaker 2: we'd be there. I think of my He says he's

4393
03:39:05,080 --> 03:39:08,960
Speaker 2: ready to be there now. He loved to move back home,

4394
03:39:10,240 --> 03:39:14,000
Speaker 2: but he understands and agrees with my reasoning. I'd love

4395
03:39:14,080 --> 03:39:16,920
Speaker 2: for him to move back home too, based only on emotions.

4396
03:39:17,160 --> 03:39:19,360
Speaker 2: We both have things to work on, separately and together.

4397
03:39:19,640 --> 03:39:21,360
Speaker 2: I want to be a better spouse this time around.

4398
03:39:21,520 --> 03:39:23,440
Speaker 2: I thought I was being a really great wife, and

4399
03:39:23,560 --> 03:39:25,800
Speaker 2: I was on the surface. I also know that right

4400
03:39:25,840 --> 03:39:28,720
Speaker 2: now I feel so in love and am hopped up

4401
03:39:28,840 --> 03:39:32,920
Speaker 2: on hormones and pregnancy happiness. I always feel super happy,

4402
03:39:33,000 --> 03:39:37,840
Speaker 2: super positive, positive, and super horny during pregnancy, and I

4403
03:39:37,920 --> 03:39:39,640
Speaker 2: know I have to be careful with trusting anything I

4404
03:39:39,720 --> 03:39:42,000
Speaker 2: feel during this time because it's like I'm on a

4405
03:39:42,080 --> 03:39:45,640
Speaker 2: twenty four to seven natural high. I think the biggest

4406
03:39:45,760 --> 03:39:49,000
Speaker 2: issue right now is that he's far more Let's throw

4407
03:39:49,120 --> 03:39:52,200
Speaker 2: caution into the wind, even though he agrees with all

4408
03:39:52,360 --> 03:39:56,160
Speaker 2: my reasoning. And I want to be more careful and

4409
03:39:56,400 --> 03:40:01,680
Speaker 2: teldr god Opian ex reconcile, navigate code parency, unplanned pregnancy

4410
03:40:02,200 --> 03:40:06,800
Speaker 2: and we kindled feelings. Yeah, and shout out to Insatia

4411
03:40:06,920 --> 03:40:09,400
Speaker 2: for the nine sixty nine tip. This is so messy.

4412
03:40:09,720 --> 03:40:12,680
Speaker 2: There is no way that if they open up their

4413
03:40:12,800 --> 03:40:15,560
Speaker 2: relationship that I would date either of them. Yeah, I

4414
03:40:15,680 --> 03:40:17,920
Speaker 2: definitely wouldn't want to get Yeah.

4415
03:40:18,040 --> 03:40:21,720
Speaker 5: Imagine someone coming up to you and being like, would

4416
03:40:21,720 --> 03:40:25,240
Speaker 5: you like to be the third in my divorce?

4417
03:40:25,879 --> 03:40:27,959
Speaker 2: With benefits benefits?

4418
03:40:28,240 --> 03:40:29,400
Speaker 5: We have four children.

4419
03:40:29,879 --> 03:40:32,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's pretty whack. And shout out to kids you

4420
03:40:32,360 --> 03:40:34,920
Speaker 2: Kitty Rogers for the seventy four cents one dollar Canadian.

4421
03:40:35,000 --> 03:40:35,680
Speaker 2: We appreciate you.

4422
03:40:35,959 --> 03:40:38,959
Speaker 5: I honestly, as long as there is no cheating involved,

4423
03:40:39,080 --> 03:40:41,000
Speaker 5: I am. I think this is cute.

4424
03:40:41,640 --> 03:40:43,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's cute. As long as it's just

4425
03:40:44,040 --> 03:40:47,200
Speaker 2: so messy, I will agree.

4426
03:40:47,360 --> 03:40:50,640
Speaker 1: I will agree it is cute, but it is, but.

4427
03:40:50,720 --> 03:40:55,160
Speaker 2: It's their mess, Jo, They're making their own mess. That's

4428
03:40:55,200 --> 03:41:00,640
Speaker 2: pretty cute. One I did cute or two MESSI put

4429
03:41:00,680 --> 03:41:02,920
Speaker 2: your answers in the chat. Is it cute or messy? Oh?

4430
03:41:02,959 --> 03:41:05,240
Speaker 2: It's definitely messy. Is it cute or too messy too?

4431
03:41:05,400 --> 03:41:05,879
Speaker 5: Yeah?

4432
03:41:07,520 --> 03:41:09,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, let us know. Put your answers in the chat.

4433
03:41:09,640 --> 03:41:10,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, cute, but worth the mess.

4434
03:41:11,320 --> 03:41:13,520
Speaker 2: Cute, but I think it's cute but worth the mess.

4435
03:41:13,520 --> 03:41:14,600
Speaker 5: I think it's worth the mess.

4436
03:41:15,080 --> 03:41:17,160
Speaker 2: Let me go. So's I don't know, like.

4437
03:41:17,200 --> 03:41:21,800
Speaker 7: With the kids involved, but they're they're making whoa sorry,

4438
03:41:21,879 --> 03:41:26,120
Speaker 7: They're making like they're making sure that they are sure

4439
03:41:26,160 --> 03:41:28,119
Speaker 7: about the relationship before because of the kids.

4440
03:41:28,440 --> 03:41:30,760
Speaker 1: But will they vote? I don't trust them.

4441
03:41:31,280 --> 03:41:34,600
Speaker 2: Toxic Zombie Wolf says this isn't cute, it's toxic.

4442
03:41:34,920 --> 03:41:37,320
Speaker 1: Ooh, I wouldn't.

4443
03:41:37,800 --> 03:41:38,080
Speaker 5: I don't know.

4444
03:41:38,120 --> 03:41:41,640
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say that, but it's I think it would

4445
03:41:41,640 --> 03:41:42,240
Speaker 1: be messy.

4446
03:41:42,400 --> 03:41:44,360
Speaker 2: But I think it would be toxic if they were

4447
03:41:44,480 --> 03:41:47,680
Speaker 2: like just going emotions and not like going to a

4448
03:41:47,760 --> 03:41:48,680
Speaker 2: therapist and stuff.

4449
03:41:48,760 --> 03:41:51,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, going to a therapist. They're not telling their

4450
03:41:51,720 --> 03:41:54,800
Speaker 5: kids that they're like back together because they're not. They're

4451
03:41:54,920 --> 03:41:58,240
Speaker 5: actively working on the relationship separately, like in separate houses

4452
03:41:58,560 --> 03:42:01,160
Speaker 5: to see if they can make this work. Obviously it's

4453
03:42:01,200 --> 03:42:02,600
Speaker 5: messy because they already got divorced.

4454
03:42:02,640 --> 03:42:06,760
Speaker 2: But you know, people have, people grow, Yeah, people change.

4455
03:42:07,040 --> 03:42:08,640
Speaker 2: They're having a kid, they had.

4456
03:42:08,520 --> 03:42:11,240
Speaker 5: Four kids together already, so obviously there was like three

4457
03:42:11,320 --> 03:42:14,400
Speaker 5: kids past, sorry, three kids together, so there's a past

4458
03:42:14,680 --> 03:42:15,240
Speaker 5: that's you know.

4459
03:42:16,440 --> 03:42:18,920
Speaker 2: In play Ay twelve says there's a reason they divorce.

4460
03:42:19,000 --> 03:42:21,400
Speaker 2: Why would you try the same thing again? Insanity? I mean,

4461
03:42:21,440 --> 03:42:23,440
Speaker 2: but maybe the reasons that they divorced in the three

4462
03:42:23,520 --> 03:42:26,000
Speaker 2: years they've had time to like have breathing But they

4463
03:42:26,080 --> 03:42:26,600
Speaker 2: also know.

4464
03:42:26,680 --> 03:42:30,080
Speaker 1: That when they're together that like living in the same house,

4465
03:42:30,160 --> 03:42:32,600
Speaker 1: then things get rough. But when they are separate, that's

4466
03:42:32,640 --> 03:42:33,680
Speaker 1: like enough breathing.

4467
03:42:33,440 --> 03:42:35,560
Speaker 2: Room, Okay, so here we go, here we go. Maybe

4468
03:42:35,640 --> 03:42:38,240
Speaker 2: they live separately. People do that, that is like I know,

4469
03:42:38,600 --> 03:42:40,640
Speaker 2: and they just hook up exclusively.

4470
03:42:40,200 --> 03:42:42,880
Speaker 5: People in separate rooms. I think this could be a

4471
03:42:42,959 --> 03:42:46,760
Speaker 5: situation of like like in you know, where you're not

4472
03:42:46,879 --> 03:42:48,840
Speaker 5: living with your partner. Like let's say they're just dating.

4473
03:42:49,160 --> 03:42:51,160
Speaker 5: You're not living with your partner, but you're coming and

4474
03:42:51,240 --> 03:42:53,720
Speaker 5: going from each place. Obviously it makes a little harder

4475
03:42:53,800 --> 03:42:55,800
Speaker 5: with children, but they're already doing that.

4476
03:42:56,000 --> 03:42:58,119
Speaker 1: I think I just want them to make a decision.

4477
03:42:58,240 --> 03:43:00,120
Speaker 1: I think that's what I want to they are are.

4478
03:43:00,280 --> 03:43:03,000
Speaker 2: I think this is well they're going to they're going

4479
03:43:03,080 --> 03:43:05,960
Speaker 2: towards the decision. Yeah, and they're not making a final

4480
03:43:06,040 --> 03:43:06,800
Speaker 2: decision totally.

4481
03:43:07,080 --> 03:43:10,640
Speaker 5: They really know, as long as there's no cheating involved,

4482
03:43:10,879 --> 03:43:11,760
Speaker 5: I'm I'm all for.

4483
03:43:11,840 --> 03:43:15,720
Speaker 2: The mess and shout out Amy. I was thinking of

4484
03:43:16,040 --> 03:43:20,840
Speaker 2: the stay toxic creoles too. Uh, Caro says Sam. Wash

4485
03:43:20,920 --> 03:43:24,880
Speaker 2: that hoodie, it probably stand on. I always see you

4486
03:43:24,959 --> 03:43:25,120
Speaker 2: in it.

4487
03:43:25,959 --> 03:43:28,840
Speaker 1: It's my friend's brand, and I do wash it. I

4488
03:43:29,040 --> 03:43:30,240
Speaker 1: swear it's a great hoodie.

4489
03:43:30,360 --> 03:43:31,920
Speaker 2: That's great. I don't know.

4490
03:43:32,000 --> 03:43:33,640
Speaker 6: The washing machine has been acting up recently.

4491
03:43:33,760 --> 03:43:35,280
Speaker 2: It has been we're getting get fixed in did it?

4492
03:43:35,360 --> 03:43:35,640
Speaker 11: Riley?

4493
03:43:35,800 --> 03:43:38,240
Speaker 1: Was there something about King Frederick? I saw in the

4494
03:43:38,360 --> 03:43:42,879
Speaker 1: chats Daddy Jesse dads for fifty.

4495
03:43:42,720 --> 03:43:45,960
Speaker 2: Seven give it us eighteen hundred and did an even

4496
03:43:46,120 --> 03:43:50,560
Speaker 2: gang for the even with the odds? Wait? Did we

4497
03:43:50,720 --> 03:43:53,840
Speaker 2: missed Frederick's Do we miss Frederick's donation?

4498
03:43:54,160 --> 03:43:57,720
Speaker 1: I believe there was a free earlier that we definitely did.

4499
03:43:57,800 --> 03:43:58,039
Speaker 11: Shout.

4500
03:43:58,240 --> 03:44:00,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, we shout it out. I don't think think we

4501
03:44:00,240 --> 03:44:00,520
Speaker 2: missed it.

4502
03:44:00,640 --> 03:44:02,039
Speaker 1: Might have been you might have seen the old one.

4503
03:44:02,360 --> 03:44:04,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, Daddy Jesse for making it even.

4504
03:44:04,840 --> 03:44:07,880
Speaker 1: We appreciate you, the general of even Gang. But you

4505
03:44:07,959 --> 03:44:09,920
Speaker 1: know what I want to lead us into?

4506
03:44:10,640 --> 03:44:12,000
Speaker 2: Yeah? What a story?

4507
03:44:18,480 --> 03:44:20,560
Speaker 6: Would I be the a hole for not telling my

4508
03:44:20,680 --> 03:44:23,080
Speaker 6: mother that she's a grandmother again.

4509
03:44:24,480 --> 03:44:29,000
Speaker 2: My mother, if she's a grandmother again, is pregnant lying

4510
03:44:29,080 --> 03:44:32,600
Speaker 2: about the grand babies. Hmmm, I guess it's hid.

4511
03:44:34,640 --> 03:44:35,920
Speaker 5: Evolved in the child's life.

4512
03:44:35,959 --> 03:44:39,879
Speaker 2: Let's see, sweet left Leif says we missed two hundred?

4513
03:44:40,080 --> 03:44:40,520
Speaker 2: Is that true?

4514
03:44:40,800 --> 03:44:40,840
Speaker 8: What?

4515
03:44:41,879 --> 03:44:44,160
Speaker 2: Let me go look, I'll go look, I'll go look.

4516
03:44:44,160 --> 03:44:45,040
Speaker 2: I don't think we did.

4517
03:44:46,720 --> 03:44:47,440
Speaker 6: I'll investigate.

4518
03:44:47,480 --> 03:44:49,280
Speaker 2: But here, yeah, bell coll He says, we didn't miss it.

4519
03:44:49,600 --> 03:44:52,200
Speaker 5: Thank you, bo, thank you appreciate that.

4520
03:44:58,040 --> 03:45:02,039
Speaker 2: We're calling. We're calling Natalia. Hers I says, well, glad,

4521
03:45:02,040 --> 03:45:03,440
Speaker 2: this is still lying after a long shift.

4522
03:45:04,440 --> 03:45:05,360
Speaker 1: Close, We're here for you.

4523
03:45:06,000 --> 03:45:12,000
Speaker 2: Jackson Gagnon says, I need another hour. Casa says, you

4524
03:45:12,160 --> 03:45:13,080
Speaker 2: just want another hour?

4525
03:45:18,400 --> 03:45:19,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, we do need the waiting song?

4526
03:45:20,440 --> 03:45:21,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh that would actually be good.

4527
03:45:22,120 --> 03:45:26,720
Speaker 1: We did, I can get one. We just have the second.

4528
03:45:26,879 --> 03:45:28,280
Speaker 2: Why don't we just have Why don't we just have

4529
03:45:28,440 --> 03:45:30,000
Speaker 2: the Yeah?

4530
03:45:30,560 --> 03:45:32,360
Speaker 6: Everyone likes Sophia's singing.

4531
03:45:33,000 --> 03:45:35,160
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we need a Sophia song. Can we just

4532
03:45:35,280 --> 03:45:36,480
Speaker 2: have Sofia singing?

4533
03:45:36,720 --> 03:45:38,360
Speaker 5: Sorry, this is my six singings.

4534
03:45:38,600 --> 03:45:39,120
Speaker 6: One more time.

4535
03:45:39,800 --> 03:45:42,280
Speaker 2: We're gonna get it, Kiky Doyle, what if she doesn't

4536
03:45:42,280 --> 03:45:46,880
Speaker 2: ANSWER's gonna go to the next person geta with Casana,

4537
03:45:46,879 --> 03:45:49,640
Speaker 2: says elevator music. While that would actually be fun, we

4538
03:45:49,760 --> 03:45:52,600
Speaker 2: are thinking about for the videos and possibly this dream

4539
03:45:52,680 --> 03:45:57,920
Speaker 2: have like very light like jazz music underneath the whole

4540
03:45:57,959 --> 03:46:06,280
Speaker 2: thing when falling asleep to soul every day. So like

4541
03:46:06,440 --> 03:46:08,720
Speaker 2: that is that's how exactly what I'm falling.

4542
03:46:08,959 --> 03:46:09,560
Speaker 6: I got another one?

4543
03:46:09,640 --> 03:46:09,920
Speaker 3: All right?

4544
03:46:09,920 --> 03:46:10,640
Speaker 2: We got another way?

4545
03:46:11,160 --> 03:46:14,279
Speaker 6: Is it cheating if he refused to leave me alone

4546
03:46:14,400 --> 03:46:15,560
Speaker 6: when I told him it was over?

4547
03:46:17,160 --> 03:46:17,720
Speaker 1: One more time?

4548
03:46:18,320 --> 03:46:20,840
Speaker 6: Is it cheating if he refused to leave me alone

4549
03:46:20,920 --> 03:46:22,680
Speaker 6: when I told him it was over. I told him

4550
03:46:22,680 --> 03:46:25,480
Speaker 6: I would wouldn't marry him, so he tried to propose

4551
03:46:25,560 --> 03:46:26,720
Speaker 6: to me at Disney World?

4552
03:46:27,400 --> 03:46:28,200
Speaker 1: Is that cheating?

4553
03:46:28,360 --> 03:46:31,520
Speaker 2: So like you like cut it off basically, and he's like, no,

4554
03:46:31,720 --> 03:46:34,600
Speaker 2: we're not cutting off. And you hooked up with someone? Yes?

4555
03:46:34,920 --> 03:46:36,959
Speaker 2: Got it? Okay, all right, what's calling? Let's see.

4556
03:46:42,920 --> 03:46:46,120
Speaker 5: Seven years of Spanish it didn't work.

4557
03:46:50,080 --> 03:46:53,160
Speaker 2: Hello? You're on with OKOP with John Sam and Sophia.

4558
03:46:53,360 --> 03:46:55,680
Speaker 2: Who we're talking to? Hi?

4559
03:46:55,840 --> 03:46:57,440
Speaker 3: My name is Amber Amber.

4560
03:46:59,040 --> 03:46:59,240
Speaker 11: Yeah?

4561
03:46:59,640 --> 03:47:04,360
Speaker 2: Hello, so Amber, we hear that you have a question

4562
03:47:04,560 --> 03:47:06,840
Speaker 2: for us of whether it's cheating or not.

4563
03:47:09,120 --> 03:47:10,240
Speaker 5: Yes, so.

4564
03:47:16,200 --> 03:47:17,000
Speaker 2: Hit us with the story.

4565
03:47:18,840 --> 03:47:23,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, so long story short My mom was very controlling.

4566
03:47:23,400 --> 03:47:26,400
Speaker 3: I was about nineteen years old, and she loved this

4567
03:47:26,560 --> 03:47:28,839
Speaker 3: guy basically was your favorite.

4568
03:47:28,760 --> 03:47:31,080
Speaker 2: Son, Okay.

4569
03:47:32,879 --> 03:47:38,000
Speaker 3: And what ended up happening was it wasn't quite working out.

4570
03:47:38,800 --> 03:47:41,119
Speaker 9: He wasn't getting motivated.

4571
03:47:41,280 --> 03:47:44,039
Speaker 3: Things just for getting kind of toxic, and I'm trying

4572
03:47:44,080 --> 03:47:44,360
Speaker 3: to leave.

4573
03:47:44,440 --> 03:47:45,360
Speaker 9: My mom wouldn't buy me.

4574
03:47:46,000 --> 03:47:49,640
Speaker 3: She even moved him into the house. So it got

4575
03:47:49,720 --> 03:47:51,920
Speaker 3: really complicated to try to leave. And it got to

4576
03:47:51,959 --> 03:47:54,280
Speaker 3: the point where I was telling him he needed to

4577
03:47:54,520 --> 03:47:56,360
Speaker 3: leave me, that I no longer wanted to be in

4578
03:47:56,400 --> 03:47:56,920
Speaker 3: a really shops.

4579
03:47:56,920 --> 03:48:00,200
Speaker 2: Wait, wait, who was going into the house? Can you

4580
03:48:00,240 --> 03:48:03,080
Speaker 2: repeat everything you just said? I'm a little confused so far.

4581
03:48:05,720 --> 03:48:13,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I had a boyfriend my mom, Yeah, I

4582
03:48:13,480 --> 03:48:15,960
Speaker 3: had a boyfriend. My mom thought he was like the

4583
03:48:16,000 --> 03:48:20,120
Speaker 3: favorite child. Even moved him into the house. The relationship

4584
03:48:20,200 --> 03:48:22,080
Speaker 3: wasn't working, but it was difficult to get him to.

4585
03:48:22,160 --> 03:48:25,879
Speaker 2: Leave, Okay, okay, and rather, let's increase the volume for everyone.

4586
03:48:29,120 --> 03:48:34,000
Speaker 3: So what ended up happening was after a while, I

4587
03:48:34,640 --> 03:48:38,960
Speaker 3: had to tell him to leave me because there is

4588
03:48:39,000 --> 03:48:41,320
Speaker 3: no way I could get him to leave the house otherwise.

4589
03:48:43,520 --> 03:48:44,920
Speaker 11: And he wouldn't.

4590
03:48:45,160 --> 03:48:47,480
Speaker 3: He wouldn't, he wouldn't he wouldn't. And at that point

4591
03:48:47,560 --> 03:48:49,440
Speaker 3: I literally was like, I don't want to fix this.

4592
03:48:49,760 --> 03:48:52,400
Speaker 3: This is broken. I'm no longer into this. I'm moving on.

4593
03:48:54,959 --> 03:48:57,440
Speaker 2: Your mom moved him into the house. Is that is

4594
03:48:57,480 --> 03:48:57,920
Speaker 2: that true?

4595
03:48:58,200 --> 03:48:58,400
Speaker 3: Yeah?

4596
03:48:58,840 --> 03:49:02,000
Speaker 2: That's crazy. That's crazy. So your mom is like, I

4597
03:49:02,360 --> 03:49:04,160
Speaker 2: like this guy more than you.

4598
03:49:06,320 --> 03:49:07,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you can't leave him.

4599
03:49:08,520 --> 03:49:10,480
Speaker 2: You can't leave him. You have to live with him.

4600
03:49:10,880 --> 03:49:13,440
Speaker 2: This is your roommate. Now, you know you might not

4601
03:49:13,520 --> 03:49:15,960
Speaker 2: want him out your boyfrienther. This is your freaking roommate.

4602
03:49:16,840 --> 03:49:18,600
Speaker 1: If he won't be your boyfriend, then he will be

4603
03:49:18,720 --> 03:49:19,120
Speaker 1: your brother.

4604
03:49:19,320 --> 03:49:22,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, damn, that's wild.

4605
03:49:23,480 --> 03:49:26,320
Speaker 3: No, Like my mom is even trying to like force

4606
03:49:26,600 --> 03:49:29,040
Speaker 3: an engagement, like with planning a wedding and all of

4607
03:49:29,080 --> 03:49:30,960
Speaker 3: this before, and I was like, I don't want this,

4608
03:49:31,160 --> 03:49:31,760
Speaker 3: I don't want this.

4609
03:49:31,920 --> 03:49:33,240
Speaker 11: Please leaved.

4610
03:49:33,880 --> 03:49:37,360
Speaker 2: Okay, but it got to.

4611
03:49:37,400 --> 03:49:40,560
Speaker 3: The point where I had to move out. I was

4612
03:49:40,600 --> 03:49:44,440
Speaker 3: finally like financially secure enough to do it, and he

4613
03:49:45,000 --> 03:49:48,040
Speaker 3: had a feeling. So there was a family trip to Disney.

4614
03:49:48,160 --> 03:49:51,160
Speaker 3: He was like coming along and his brother tips me

4615
03:49:51,240 --> 03:49:52,560
Speaker 3: off that he was going to propose.

4616
03:49:53,520 --> 03:49:56,320
Speaker 2: Wait, wait, so you you've been wanting to end it.

4617
03:49:56,840 --> 03:49:59,600
Speaker 2: To be clear, you wanted to end it and your

4618
03:49:59,640 --> 03:50:01,720
Speaker 2: mom is it's like, hey, hey, I know you want

4619
03:50:01,760 --> 03:50:04,000
Speaker 2: to end this relationship. I know you wanted to move out,

4620
03:50:04,040 --> 03:50:06,240
Speaker 2: but you know what we should all do family trip

4621
03:50:06,440 --> 03:50:09,000
Speaker 2: including your boyfriend to Disneyland.

4622
03:50:09,320 --> 03:50:12,200
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, oh my god.

4623
03:50:12,600 --> 03:50:14,800
Speaker 2: Also, is this stream going onto the background? Can you

4624
03:50:14,880 --> 03:50:15,200
Speaker 2: mute that?

4625
03:50:16,600 --> 03:50:16,800
Speaker 5: Yeah?

4626
03:50:17,040 --> 03:50:19,600
Speaker 3: I was trying to do it before and then audio

4627
03:50:19,720 --> 03:50:21,760
Speaker 3: wasn't coming through on the phone and was like, oh weird,

4628
03:50:21,800 --> 03:50:22,680
Speaker 3: hold on, let me hear you.

4629
03:50:23,480 --> 03:50:25,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, see if you can maybe like mute it on

4630
03:50:26,880 --> 03:50:29,800
Speaker 2: on on your end, I don't care it anymore. I

4631
03:50:29,840 --> 03:50:31,480
Speaker 2: think people are hearing it right now.

4632
03:50:32,000 --> 03:50:32,200
Speaker 1: Yeah.

4633
03:50:32,280 --> 03:50:32,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's good.

4634
03:50:33,600 --> 03:50:34,640
Speaker 1: I appreciate it, all right.

4635
03:50:35,480 --> 03:50:38,400
Speaker 11: Yes, so it was.

4636
03:50:38,480 --> 03:50:40,960
Speaker 3: It was pretty crazy. His brother tipped me off, and

4637
03:50:41,160 --> 03:50:43,840
Speaker 3: my sister actually saw the ring after I had told

4638
03:50:43,880 --> 03:50:45,640
Speaker 3: this guy I did not want to be in this

4639
03:50:45,760 --> 03:50:49,200
Speaker 3: relationship anymore. He needed to straighten up the act or

4640
03:50:49,400 --> 03:50:52,320
Speaker 3: like there was no relationship, Like at that point there

4641
03:50:52,440 --> 03:50:55,000
Speaker 3: was nothing there to make me ever want to marry him.

4642
03:50:56,520 --> 03:50:56,720
Speaker 5: Yeah.

4643
03:50:57,240 --> 03:50:59,040
Speaker 3: So he show us up on the strip trying to

4644
03:50:59,120 --> 03:51:02,200
Speaker 3: do that, and I kept Sean and I did everything

4645
03:51:02,320 --> 03:51:04,520
Speaker 3: I could to not be alone with him.

4646
03:51:05,080 --> 03:51:08,800
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, my god.

4647
03:51:09,000 --> 03:51:09,200
Speaker 5: Yeah.

4648
03:51:09,560 --> 03:51:15,520
Speaker 3: So every photo we're on separate sides to the point

4649
03:51:15,520 --> 03:51:18,080
Speaker 3: where I'm like, I cannot be alone. But my sister

4650
03:51:18,200 --> 03:51:21,360
Speaker 3: tipped me off that he wanted to propose in Toy

4651
03:51:21,480 --> 03:51:25,440
Speaker 3: story Land because Toy story was my favorite, and I

4652
03:51:25,600 --> 03:51:28,320
Speaker 3: was going, this boy is about to ruin my favorite

4653
03:51:28,360 --> 03:51:32,040
Speaker 3: thing about who I'm doing exactly what I told him

4654
03:51:32,080 --> 03:51:35,120
Speaker 3: not to and the one place I actually wanted to.

4655
03:51:39,640 --> 03:51:42,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, so what happened?

4656
03:51:42,200 --> 03:51:44,920
Speaker 2: Did you just avoid Toy story World all costs?

4657
03:51:45,800 --> 03:51:46,280
Speaker 1: Did he do it?

4658
03:51:47,040 --> 03:51:47,080
Speaker 8: No?

4659
03:51:47,560 --> 03:51:50,720
Speaker 3: I still did it, but my sister kind of told him,

4660
03:51:50,760 --> 03:51:52,880
Speaker 3: don't make a fool of yourself. She's not going to

4661
03:51:53,000 --> 03:51:53,560
Speaker 3: say yet.

4662
03:51:54,560 --> 03:51:57,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, so it didn't happen. He didn't end up proposing

4663
03:51:57,440 --> 03:51:58,240
Speaker 1: at Disney.

4664
03:51:58,240 --> 03:51:59,000
Speaker 3: Thankfully not.

4665
03:52:00,240 --> 03:52:00,440
Speaker 11: Yeah.

4666
03:52:00,560 --> 03:52:02,760
Speaker 2: Wow, so you still can't get rid of this guy? Like,

4667
03:52:02,960 --> 03:52:06,080
Speaker 2: this guy is living with you, trying to propose. Your

4668
03:52:06,160 --> 03:52:10,480
Speaker 2: mom is somehow on his side for some reason. So

4669
03:52:10,760 --> 03:52:12,720
Speaker 2: how do we get into cheating territory?

4670
03:52:15,080 --> 03:52:17,800
Speaker 3: It got to the point where I emotionally ended up

4671
03:52:17,840 --> 03:52:20,200
Speaker 3: invested in someone else, but kept telling him, like, I

4672
03:52:20,280 --> 03:52:22,200
Speaker 3: don't want to be here anymore. I fell in love

4673
03:52:22,240 --> 03:52:24,840
Speaker 3: with someone else and he would not leave.

4674
03:52:26,840 --> 03:52:27,680
Speaker 5: Broke up with him?

4675
03:52:27,720 --> 03:52:30,320
Speaker 2: You broke up with him now?

4676
03:52:31,200 --> 03:52:31,840
Speaker 11: Yeah? Yeah?

4677
03:52:31,920 --> 03:52:34,080
Speaker 3: Like I literally had said, I do not want to

4678
03:52:34,120 --> 03:52:36,280
Speaker 3: be in this relationship. I don't want to pick something

4679
03:52:36,760 --> 03:52:41,200
Speaker 3: that I don't want fixed. This isn't working, please leave,

4680
03:52:41,600 --> 03:52:44,320
Speaker 3: And he still kept lingering, kept staying in the house,

4681
03:52:44,960 --> 03:52:47,640
Speaker 3: kept trying to act all boyfriend like, and I'm going, no,

4682
03:52:48,840 --> 03:52:51,760
Speaker 3: I'm really trying to move on, and he wouldn't get it.

4683
03:52:52,440 --> 03:52:55,040
Speaker 3: So eventually, when I finally managed to get him out

4684
03:52:55,040 --> 03:52:57,600
Speaker 3: of the house, now I'm, you know, the jerk who

4685
03:52:58,280 --> 03:53:02,520
Speaker 3: cheated emotionally destroyed him, And in my head, I'm like,

4686
03:53:02,720 --> 03:53:05,200
Speaker 3: is it cheating if I told you long ago?

4687
03:53:06,040 --> 03:53:14,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely not like you clearly, chen Witch in the

4688
03:53:14,360 --> 03:53:18,440
Speaker 2: chat says it's not cheating. He's a squatter in the relationship.

4689
03:53:22,240 --> 03:53:24,560
Speaker 1: Bro. Yeah, that's insane. That's insane.

4690
03:53:24,600 --> 03:53:26,800
Speaker 2: I mean, like you could only tell someone you're breaking

4691
03:53:26,920 --> 03:53:29,880
Speaker 2: up with them so many times true, and like after

4692
03:53:29,960 --> 03:53:32,760
Speaker 2: a while, it's on them, like, yeah, maybe he got hurt,

4693
03:53:32,800 --> 03:53:37,520
Speaker 2: but it's because he's freaking nuts yea, yeah, Okay.

4694
03:53:38,120 --> 03:53:41,480
Speaker 3: So eventually he ended up sleeping with his brother's girlfriend.

4695
03:53:41,680 --> 03:53:47,040
Speaker 2: So, oh my god, please tell me he's no longer

4696
03:53:47,160 --> 03:53:53,760
Speaker 2: your mother's favorite. Yeah no, no, that's not also living

4697
03:53:53,800 --> 03:53:54,000
Speaker 2: with you.

4698
03:53:55,400 --> 03:53:58,080
Speaker 3: But after a couple of years, so he didn't really

4699
03:53:58,120 --> 03:54:00,800
Speaker 3: improve his life. So my mom kind of realized he

4700
03:54:00,920 --> 03:54:01,400
Speaker 3: was a loser.

4701
03:54:01,960 --> 03:54:04,480
Speaker 2: Okay, and he's no longer living with you.

4702
03:54:05,840 --> 03:54:07,800
Speaker 1: No, I mean that hoefully.

4703
03:54:07,880 --> 03:54:10,840
Speaker 3: It's kind of a stunt on myself. I had got

4704
03:54:10,920 --> 03:54:13,200
Speaker 3: an apartment with a friend because I had to move

4705
03:54:13,480 --> 03:54:18,160
Speaker 3: closer to work, and I was already packing and I

4706
03:54:18,320 --> 03:54:21,200
Speaker 3: met up with him after his shift and I said, hey, listen,

4707
03:54:21,400 --> 03:54:24,080
Speaker 3: I'm moving out. You're not coming with me? And he

4708
03:54:24,200 --> 03:54:27,360
Speaker 3: went his face strapped, because what do you mean? I'm like,

4709
03:54:27,400 --> 03:54:29,320
Speaker 3: can you afford half the rent? And he went no.

4710
03:54:29,480 --> 03:54:36,000
Speaker 1: I'm like, well, then by yes you should. Yeah, like, sir,

4711
03:54:36,120 --> 03:54:37,560
Speaker 1: you better pay me ten X.

4712
03:54:38,320 --> 03:54:39,880
Speaker 2: Yeah I know.

4713
03:54:40,160 --> 03:54:43,160
Speaker 3: Well I am glad I knew he couldn't afford it.

4714
03:54:43,640 --> 03:54:44,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure.

4715
03:54:44,680 --> 03:54:46,960
Speaker 2: Well I am so glad you got rid of that

4716
03:54:47,280 --> 03:54:52,320
Speaker 2: schedule four clinger, and uh, hopefully you're off to better

4717
03:54:52,440 --> 03:54:55,840
Speaker 2: and greater things. Thank you so much for calling in.

4718
03:54:57,680 --> 03:54:59,720
Speaker 3: Oh, thanks for having me this fun.

4719
03:55:00,120 --> 03:55:01,120
Speaker 1: Of course, have a.

4720
03:55:01,160 --> 03:55:07,600
Speaker 2: Good one, thank you sweet Oh my goodness, it.

4721
03:55:08,160 --> 03:55:12,280
Speaker 1: Works me to endless degrees. When the mother sides with

4722
03:55:12,400 --> 03:55:17,240
Speaker 1: the create, why not support your child? I know, I

4723
03:55:17,400 --> 03:55:18,000
Speaker 1: can't believe it.

4724
03:55:18,480 --> 03:55:23,040
Speaker 2: Also, Asian persuasion says we need another hour. Brittany, I

4725
03:55:23,200 --> 03:55:26,000
Speaker 2: see you, Lynn. I love the name change, keeping it

4726
03:55:26,120 --> 03:55:28,320
Speaker 2: even hoping that everyone will drop a few bucks so

4727
03:55:28,360 --> 03:55:32,480
Speaker 2: we get another hour. Teresa Manley says this grandma enjoys

4728
03:55:32,520 --> 03:55:37,400
Speaker 2: watching y'all. Thanks for keepings go. Let's go, and then

4729
03:55:37,560 --> 03:55:42,000
Speaker 2: Aoki sends two Canadian bucks. Gifts are sent Love, I.

4730
03:55:42,000 --> 03:55:44,120
Speaker 5: Say, I saw your thing. You said that you're setting

4731
03:55:44,280 --> 03:55:47,880
Speaker 5: both the plushy and the hood crazy, and I'm sorry.

4732
03:55:48,160 --> 03:55:51,960
Speaker 2: We are so excited to do a opening stuff on stream.

4733
03:55:52,360 --> 03:55:53,240
Speaker 1: We will be good.

4734
03:55:53,360 --> 03:55:56,800
Speaker 6: We have something in the mailbox already, so well did

4735
03:55:56,840 --> 03:55:59,240
Speaker 6: the notifications come through? It didn't come through, but it's

4736
03:55:59,320 --> 03:56:01,600
Speaker 6: like a host and someone said that they that it

4737
03:56:01,720 --> 03:56:02,160
Speaker 6: landed off.

4738
03:56:02,360 --> 03:56:03,520
Speaker 5: I've never been more excited.

4739
03:56:03,560 --> 03:56:05,960
Speaker 2: Should we like wait? Should we like wait for it

4740
03:56:06,040 --> 03:56:08,000
Speaker 2: to build up before we open it all on stream?

4741
03:56:08,080 --> 03:56:09,400
Speaker 2: Because I feel like it would be fun to have

4742
03:56:09,600 --> 03:56:12,320
Speaker 2: like five Yeah, like this is like Chris segment.

4743
03:56:13,200 --> 03:56:14,280
Speaker 5: I love opening gifts.

4744
03:56:14,600 --> 03:56:16,400
Speaker 1: Actually, it would be so fun, Chris.

4745
03:56:16,880 --> 03:56:18,680
Speaker 5: But you're telling me that I can't open this or

4746
03:56:18,880 --> 03:56:20,040
Speaker 5: that we just show everyone.

4747
03:56:20,560 --> 03:56:21,240
Speaker 2: I think we wait.

4748
03:56:21,520 --> 03:56:24,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, gets a reaction of seeing it for the first time,

4749
03:56:24,720 --> 03:56:25,520
Speaker 1: like that's you know.

4750
03:56:26,240 --> 03:56:29,160
Speaker 2: Harry Frankenstein. Thanks for the twenty bucks. Y'all are keeping

4751
03:56:29,200 --> 03:56:33,720
Speaker 2: me sane while I finish my pH D. There we

4752
03:56:33,840 --> 03:56:37,320
Speaker 2: go the a hatchet. Thank you for the five bucks.

4753
03:56:37,400 --> 03:56:41,840
Speaker 2: Aoki needs a title to so true? We do ok Aoki,

4754
03:56:42,360 --> 03:56:45,600
Speaker 2: Okyo Okay okay okay, Aoki.

4755
03:56:46,200 --> 03:56:47,640
Speaker 1: That's kind of fun. Yeah Aoki.

4756
03:56:47,720 --> 03:56:50,360
Speaker 5: Let us know, let us know, like like a title

4757
03:56:50,480 --> 03:56:52,000
Speaker 5: like others, you know, like you could be.

4758
03:56:54,160 --> 03:56:55,640
Speaker 1: We're running at a family.

4759
03:56:56,400 --> 03:56:59,640
Speaker 5: Great great godparents and riojas.

4760
03:56:59,680 --> 03:57:02,160
Speaker 2: Thanks the ten buck tip. Crystal Bings, thanks for the

4761
03:57:02,200 --> 03:57:03,920
Speaker 2: five bucks. Love you guys, wish you the best and

4762
03:57:04,000 --> 03:57:07,160
Speaker 2: hope you guys continue to grow a fan like y'all,

4763
03:57:07,240 --> 03:57:08,280
Speaker 2: I mean I think we will.

4764
03:57:08,640 --> 03:57:10,480
Speaker 6: We are growers and showers.

4765
03:57:11,840 --> 03:57:12,560
Speaker 1: Thanks well.

4766
03:57:12,640 --> 03:57:16,800
Speaker 2: Should we read one final story to close it out again?

4767
03:57:16,880 --> 03:57:18,160
Speaker 2: Unless something crazy happens?

4768
03:57:18,760 --> 03:57:18,920
Speaker 3: Uh?

4769
03:57:21,400 --> 03:57:22,600
Speaker 2: Are you reading this? Or am I reading this?

4770
03:57:23,760 --> 03:57:25,480
Speaker 6: A short story? You got a short story on you?

4771
03:57:26,760 --> 03:57:26,800
Speaker 8: What?

4772
03:57:27,040 --> 03:57:27,680
Speaker 2: What we got?

4773
03:57:28,640 --> 03:57:28,840
Speaker 8: What? What?

4774
03:57:28,960 --> 03:57:32,120
Speaker 2: What haven't we read? Right now? Bernie heart Dragon, thanks

4775
03:57:32,160 --> 03:57:35,840
Speaker 2: for the two bucks. Og read confessions on discord? Oh?

4776
03:57:35,960 --> 03:57:36,320
Speaker 2: Should we?

4777
03:57:36,920 --> 03:57:37,120
Speaker 11: Yeah?

4778
03:57:37,400 --> 03:57:41,920
Speaker 2: Actually a great done is a great iank you Bernie? Okay? Also,

4779
03:57:42,000 --> 03:57:44,480
Speaker 2: if you haven't already joined our discord, you should totally

4780
03:57:44,600 --> 03:57:47,720
Speaker 2: do so are you? Are you in confessions right now?

4781
03:57:48,400 --> 03:57:49,040
Speaker 6: Let me get to it.

4782
03:57:49,400 --> 03:57:52,080
Speaker 2: Ok op fam confessions something up?

4783
03:57:56,000 --> 03:57:56,040
Speaker 9: No?

4784
03:57:56,200 --> 03:58:00,560
Speaker 2: No, okay, signal imagination just donated. Then for the ten

4785
03:58:00,640 --> 03:58:04,280
Speaker 2: books support the stream, it's because they realize they can't

4786
03:58:04,360 --> 03:58:08,040
Speaker 2: live vicariously by you, so they get upset and strike back.

4787
03:58:08,480 --> 03:58:09,680
Speaker 5: Oh is that the mother in law comment?

4788
03:58:09,920 --> 03:58:10,120
Speaker 2: Yeah?

4789
03:58:10,920 --> 03:58:12,160
Speaker 5: I thought it was about people giving us.

4790
03:58:12,680 --> 03:58:16,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I am so all right. Shall we read Shall

4791
03:58:16,040 --> 03:58:20,800
Speaker 2: we read the uh okay okay o p fam confession?

4792
03:58:20,840 --> 03:58:21,800
Speaker 2: Should we read their?

4793
03:58:22,840 --> 03:58:28,120
Speaker 5: Oh? Giants milk, giants milk.

4794
03:58:30,000 --> 03:58:36,480
Speaker 2: Hour, love you guys, Let's go our giants milk. I

4795
03:58:36,600 --> 03:58:38,640
Speaker 2: think that is the Is that the first.

4796
03:58:38,760 --> 03:58:39,560
Speaker 6: We've seen them before?

4797
03:58:39,920 --> 03:58:40,080
Speaker 1: Yeah?

4798
03:58:40,120 --> 03:58:43,560
Speaker 2: I recognize giants milk when I was here. Wow, well,

4799
03:58:43,640 --> 03:58:44,320
Speaker 2: giants milk.

4800
03:58:44,400 --> 03:58:45,360
Speaker 1: I recognize Gihn's milk.

4801
03:58:45,720 --> 03:58:49,480
Speaker 2: Thank you for giving a giant donation, big old milksho,

4802
03:58:49,680 --> 03:58:54,600
Speaker 2: big old milky donation. Last minute, save you another hour

4803
03:58:54,880 --> 03:59:00,760
Speaker 2: to the stes. Oh my goodness, don't be using the

4804
03:59:01,280 --> 03:59:04,160
Speaker 2: giant smell milk carton if that's an emoji? Oh yeah,

4805
03:59:04,920 --> 03:59:10,640
Speaker 2: put some milk in the jab some giant milkers for giantlayed.

4806
03:59:10,880 --> 03:59:13,320
Speaker 1: I love the I just love all the inside jokes

4807
03:59:13,360 --> 03:59:13,840
Speaker 1: and everything.

4808
03:59:14,000 --> 03:59:17,920
Speaker 5: I know, like when we get really big and we

4809
03:59:18,000 --> 03:59:19,800
Speaker 5: have a bunch of people, you guys are gonna have

4810
03:59:20,120 --> 03:59:22,560
Speaker 5: like all the background lore. Yeah, you're gonna like bring

4811
03:59:22,640 --> 03:59:23,440
Speaker 5: it in and like sprinking.

4812
03:59:23,840 --> 03:59:26,560
Speaker 1: Oh, you don't know about the milk. There we go, glasses.

4813
03:59:26,800 --> 03:59:27,480
Speaker 5: We got.

4814
03:59:29,160 --> 03:59:33,000
Speaker 2: Miss Bella ce Cilia. Thanks for the twenty five dollars tip.

4815
03:59:33,080 --> 03:59:35,600
Speaker 2: Thank you okay op fan for keeping me company on

4816
03:59:35,680 --> 03:59:39,800
Speaker 2: this solo cross country trip. Four states down, one to go.

4817
03:59:40,240 --> 03:59:43,600
Speaker 1: Honestly great great road trip. Yeah, yeah, not gonna lie.

4818
03:59:43,760 --> 03:59:46,880
Speaker 2: I mean we have streams that are eight hours, so

4819
03:59:47,040 --> 03:59:49,440
Speaker 2: that's like a whole that's a whole whole leg of

4820
03:59:49,480 --> 03:59:49,800
Speaker 2: the trip.

4821
03:59:49,920 --> 03:59:50,920
Speaker 5: I can watch all of us.

4822
03:59:51,080 --> 03:59:53,760
Speaker 2: Yeah. Also, Chelsea Johnson just became a little Silly's member.

4823
03:59:53,800 --> 03:59:57,320
Speaker 2: If you want to listen to the Tuesday streams after

4824
03:59:57,400 --> 04:00:00,200
Speaker 2: we finish, uh, you can only it's only for our

4825
04:00:00,240 --> 04:00:00,840
Speaker 2: little sillies.

4826
04:00:00,920 --> 04:00:02,120
Speaker 5: I think it'd be kind of fun to go on

4827
04:00:02,200 --> 04:00:04,920
Speaker 5: a road trip and just have us like live talking

4828
04:00:04,960 --> 04:00:05,120
Speaker 5: to you.

4829
04:00:06,440 --> 04:00:08,640
Speaker 2: We do want to get the ok op van. Yeah,

4830
04:00:08,720 --> 04:00:11,800
Speaker 2: we're thinking about we're thinking about doing this like live

4831
04:00:11,920 --> 04:00:15,200
Speaker 2: on the street, so it's coming down the pipeline.

4832
04:00:14,920 --> 04:00:16,280
Speaker 1: The way y'all we're coming down.

4833
04:00:17,200 --> 04:00:19,600
Speaker 2: Should we do a little something like three a couple

4834
04:00:19,640 --> 04:00:20,200
Speaker 2: of confessions.

4835
04:00:20,480 --> 04:00:21,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that'd be fun.

4836
04:00:21,800 --> 04:00:26,560
Speaker 5: We promised the people, we promised thee We must give

4837
04:00:27,360 --> 04:00:28,520
Speaker 5: that story, ready.

4838
04:00:28,800 --> 04:00:33,080
Speaker 2: Thanks baby cakes. All right, so we're going into the discord.

4839
04:00:33,120 --> 04:00:35,400
Speaker 2: If you haven't already joined the discord, go into the description.

4840
04:00:35,560 --> 04:00:39,760
Speaker 2: The discord is there. So should I keep these anonymous?

4841
04:00:39,840 --> 04:00:42,840
Speaker 2: I don't know they can see it no, or well,

4842
04:00:42,840 --> 04:00:45,680
Speaker 2: they can see it in the discord maybe docs. Man. Now,

4843
04:00:45,720 --> 04:00:47,440
Speaker 2: I'm gonna keep it anonymous.

4844
04:00:48,240 --> 04:00:49,800
Speaker 1: But you can comment below if it's yours.

4845
04:00:50,080 --> 04:00:50,240
Speaker 3: Yeah.

4846
04:00:50,320 --> 04:00:56,280
Speaker 2: Yeah. Also, Rachel, the thank you for the five gifted memberships.

4847
04:00:56,360 --> 04:00:57,000
Speaker 2: We appreciate.

4848
04:00:57,160 --> 04:00:57,440
Speaker 1: Thank you.

4849
04:00:57,960 --> 04:01:02,760
Speaker 2: All right, So confession this comes from K. I actually

4850
04:01:02,880 --> 04:01:06,200
Speaker 2: do have mutual friends with Shane and Damien from Smash,

4851
04:01:06,520 --> 04:01:07,800
Speaker 2: but I don't talk about it a lot.

4852
04:01:08,240 --> 04:01:08,400
Speaker 3: Oh.

4853
04:01:09,080 --> 04:01:11,400
Speaker 2: I would never want said friends to think I'm only

4854
04:01:11,440 --> 04:01:13,880
Speaker 2: friends with them because of their connections. I'm friends with

4855
04:01:14,080 --> 04:01:16,920
Speaker 2: one of their former co stars, but I was friends

4856
04:01:17,000 --> 04:01:20,280
Speaker 2: with her husband first before they even got together. From

4857
04:01:20,320 --> 04:01:23,480
Speaker 2: what I've heard, Damien and Shane are genuinely good people.

4858
04:01:23,640 --> 04:01:26,360
Speaker 2: So I would love for Smash to someday get to

4859
04:01:26,440 --> 04:01:27,360
Speaker 2: collab with Okop.

4860
04:01:27,560 --> 04:01:30,880
Speaker 1: Well that if you ever want to put a good

4861
04:01:30,920 --> 04:01:34,240
Speaker 1: word in. Yeah, well we're angry at you.

4862
04:01:34,960 --> 04:01:41,320
Speaker 5: Just like, hey, I know I'm close personal friends with Okay, yes,

4863
04:01:43,520 --> 04:01:44,680
Speaker 5: we're super close.

4864
04:01:45,040 --> 04:01:47,200
Speaker 2: It's all brown Eyed Chick thanks to the two Bucks

4865
04:01:47,280 --> 04:01:50,720
Speaker 2: collab idea Juicy Confessions with Stephanie. Sue put that at

4866
04:01:50,760 --> 04:01:52,880
Speaker 2: the discord. That's a great We're actually looking for people

4867
04:01:53,040 --> 04:01:58,320
Speaker 2: to collaborate with. Oh, baby Godzilla, could you actually make

4868
04:01:58,440 --> 04:02:03,800
Speaker 2: a channel called collabs and we will if you like, Yeah,

4869
04:02:03,800 --> 04:02:07,080
Speaker 2: we will literally collab with whoever you think we should

4870
04:02:07,280 --> 04:02:10,840
Speaker 2: reach it, Baby Godzilla, if you're still in here. Oh yeah,

4871
04:02:11,480 --> 04:02:15,800
Speaker 2: all right, we got another We got another confession, So

4872
04:02:16,800 --> 04:02:19,320
Speaker 2: h says, can we can we share this because it's

4873
04:02:19,440 --> 04:02:22,480
Speaker 2: kind of it's kind of like go by the first,

4874
04:02:24,080 --> 04:02:28,960
Speaker 2: but can we share this on the on with everyone

4875
04:02:29,000 --> 04:02:31,400
Speaker 2: else so we could see two hot takes. Is looking

4876
04:02:31,440 --> 04:02:34,120
Speaker 2: to collaborate we did with or just with anyone we

4877
04:02:34,200 --> 04:02:36,960
Speaker 2: did reach out. I have talked to you her in person. Yeah,

4878
04:02:37,720 --> 04:02:41,360
Speaker 2: produce not pills. Is we are going to add We

4879
04:02:41,440 --> 04:02:43,320
Speaker 2: are going to add polls. It is coming.

4880
04:02:43,400 --> 04:02:44,320
Speaker 1: I promise you.

4881
04:02:44,760 --> 04:02:45,360
Speaker 2: I promise you.

4882
04:02:45,840 --> 04:02:46,760
Speaker 1: Bang doors.

4883
04:02:49,200 --> 04:02:52,920
Speaker 2: Okay, so we are going to read this confession. H

4884
04:02:53,600 --> 04:02:57,760
Speaker 2: I accidentally unalived a marriage. I work at a hotel

4885
04:02:58,240 --> 04:03:01,240
Speaker 2: late one night and I was watching the Dopest Friends

4886
04:03:01,320 --> 04:03:06,320
Speaker 2: episode when I was rudely interrupted by Bob's frantic wife

4887
04:03:06,680 --> 04:03:09,200
Speaker 2: calling the front desk in a huff. I don't know

4888
04:03:09,360 --> 04:03:12,800
Speaker 2: who Bob is either. Anyway, she tells me she got

4889
04:03:12,880 --> 04:03:16,120
Speaker 2: confirmation email that her husband had a reservation here tonight

4890
04:03:16,520 --> 04:03:20,280
Speaker 2: and she wanted answers. Put I see you in the

4891
04:03:20,400 --> 04:03:24,880
Speaker 2: chat if you know where this is going, because I

4892
04:03:25,560 --> 04:03:27,040
Speaker 2: see where this is going. I mean, I think the

4893
04:03:27,240 --> 04:03:30,520
Speaker 2: Bob is probably cheating. Bob is probably cheating. Also, someone

4894
04:03:30,600 --> 04:03:33,040
Speaker 2: said collab with judges. We actually have collab with Judges.

4895
04:03:33,080 --> 04:03:33,440
Speaker 1: That's true.

4896
04:03:33,600 --> 04:03:35,760
Speaker 2: And we also had a collab with redd and on

4897
04:03:35,800 --> 04:03:38,120
Speaker 2: wiki as well. That's right. So if you've seen them,

4898
04:03:38,360 --> 04:03:40,800
Speaker 2: you should. You should we we'll probably do another one soon.

4899
04:03:41,000 --> 04:03:44,000
Speaker 2: So now, if you think this is the first time

4900
04:03:44,160 --> 04:03:47,400
Speaker 2: some dumb dude has done his wife dirty by using

4901
04:03:47,480 --> 04:03:51,840
Speaker 2: her own points to book a room to bang his bee,

4902
04:03:52,360 --> 04:03:56,840
Speaker 2: you would be wrong. Yikes, Big yangs. Also, h this

4903
04:03:57,000 --> 04:03:59,520
Speaker 2: is a great story, by the way. Yeah, shout out

4904
04:03:59,520 --> 04:04:02,200
Speaker 2: to the con sessions in our discorder. We should totally

4905
04:04:02,240 --> 04:04:04,960
Speaker 2: make this a regular second. This is great all right.

4906
04:04:05,040 --> 04:04:08,040
Speaker 2: So at this point I was getting really bored with her.

4907
04:04:08,120 --> 04:04:12,480
Speaker 2: Dittly dude, dang, and I really need and I really

4908
04:04:12,560 --> 04:04:14,880
Speaker 2: needed to get back to Rachel and Chandler eating cake

4909
04:04:14,920 --> 04:04:18,880
Speaker 2: off the floor. Dude hadn't checked into his reservation yet,

4910
04:04:18,960 --> 04:04:21,560
Speaker 2: but I couldn't tell her that, so I simply said, ma'am,

4911
04:04:22,160 --> 04:04:26,320
Speaker 2: if you read the email that you received, it states

4912
04:04:26,440 --> 04:04:29,120
Speaker 2: you can check in the reservation online through the app.

4913
04:04:29,440 --> 04:04:34,600
Speaker 2: So maybe just like do that, like the email says.

4914
04:04:35,920 --> 04:04:39,040
Speaker 2: It's all I really did was ask her to carefully

4915
04:04:39,160 --> 04:04:42,280
Speaker 2: read her email. Yeah, so h is just like, I'm

4916
04:04:42,320 --> 04:04:43,720
Speaker 2: just gonna just carefully read the email.

4917
04:04:43,720 --> 04:04:45,160
Speaker 1: Come on, it'll tell you when he's checking in.

4918
04:04:45,360 --> 04:04:49,960
Speaker 2: It's Oh. Also, Kirsten, thank you for the hundred dollars

4919
04:04:50,360 --> 04:04:54,880
Speaker 2: tip okop juicy story time call me. We'll call awesome

4920
04:04:56,720 --> 04:04:59,120
Speaker 2: b Yeah yeah textas at four to four zero five

4921
04:04:59,200 --> 04:05:02,720
Speaker 2: zero eight six five seven. All right. So at this

4922
04:05:02,800 --> 04:05:05,200
Speaker 2: point I was getting really bored with her. Diadlely do dang,

4923
04:05:05,280 --> 04:05:08,400
Speaker 2: and I really need to get back to Rachel Tannam anyway, dude, Okay,

4924
04:05:08,640 --> 04:05:10,640
Speaker 2: just check the email. It's all all I really did

4925
04:05:10,880 --> 04:05:13,600
Speaker 2: was ask her carefully to read your email. Let's scroll

4926
04:05:14,400 --> 04:05:18,440
Speaker 2: so it's not my fault. The dude was so dumb

4927
04:05:18,480 --> 04:05:20,920
Speaker 2: and so cheap that he used his wife's points to

4928
04:05:21,000 --> 04:05:23,960
Speaker 2: do it, and not even smart enough to realize that

4929
04:05:24,000 --> 04:05:27,560
Speaker 2: she would get an emailed out about it. Play stupid games,

4930
04:05:27,960 --> 04:05:36,160
Speaker 2: win stupid prizes. These are my confessions. H freakin' great confession.

4931
04:05:36,760 --> 04:05:37,640
Speaker 2: Should we do another one?

4932
04:05:38,120 --> 04:05:39,200
Speaker 1: Let's do another one?

4933
04:05:40,160 --> 04:05:41,920
Speaker 2: All right, We'll do one more and then we'll get

4934
04:05:42,000 --> 04:05:45,400
Speaker 2: back to a regularly scheduled program.

4935
04:05:45,920 --> 04:05:48,440
Speaker 1: Also, people are are typing in the confession. Shat, I

4936
04:05:48,480 --> 04:05:49,000
Speaker 1: see you guys.

4937
04:05:49,080 --> 04:05:52,480
Speaker 2: Oh, people are typing right now. Answer girl, I see you.

4938
04:05:53,680 --> 04:05:56,400
Speaker 2: Kimberly Latour says, Oh my goodness, I finally get to

4939
04:05:56,400 --> 04:05:58,200
Speaker 2: watch a live Love you guys so much. I watched

4940
04:05:58,280 --> 04:06:00,480
Speaker 2: daily during my lunch break. Such a great way unwined

4941
04:06:00,560 --> 04:06:02,480
Speaker 2: from teaching morning all morning.

4942
04:06:03,520 --> 04:06:08,800
Speaker 5: What do we got, Riley, We'll do a kids friendly episode.

4943
04:06:08,960 --> 04:06:11,040
Speaker 1: That's right. Am I the a Hope for stealing his

4944
04:06:11,160 --> 04:06:17,400
Speaker 1: juicy couch? But yeah, am I the Meani Pantan? But

4945
04:06:17,640 --> 04:06:19,160
Speaker 1: too much a little bit?

4946
04:06:19,200 --> 04:06:22,520
Speaker 2: All right? Confession? Okay, are you ready?

4947
04:06:22,720 --> 04:06:23,200
Speaker 1: Let's do it?

4948
04:06:23,520 --> 04:06:27,440
Speaker 2: All right? M says confession, Actually, you're John, you want

4949
04:06:27,440 --> 04:06:30,320
Speaker 2: to read this one. Let's do it, read it, read it,

4950
04:06:30,680 --> 04:06:31,000
Speaker 2: got it.

4951
04:06:34,600 --> 04:06:39,320
Speaker 1: Here's the command. There's a lot of there's a lot of.

4952
04:06:42,240 --> 04:06:42,560
Speaker 3: Thank you.

4953
04:06:43,200 --> 04:06:45,000
Speaker 1: There's a lot of these I have, So I'm just

4954
04:06:45,040 --> 04:06:47,320
Speaker 1: going to start with the easiest one to mentally deal with.

4955
04:06:47,480 --> 04:06:50,360
Speaker 1: So I come from a pretty well off family. Grandpa

4956
04:06:50,480 --> 04:06:53,360
Speaker 1: on dad's side runs his own business. Both my parents,

4957
04:06:53,440 --> 04:06:56,680
Speaker 1: most of my childhood, had their own businesses too. Grandparents

4958
04:06:56,760 --> 04:07:00,520
Speaker 1: on mom's side are collecting three different pensions. My goodness,

4959
04:07:00,880 --> 04:07:04,040
Speaker 1: and shout out to Kita slash Kim for the five

4960
04:07:04,120 --> 04:07:06,080
Speaker 1: dollar donation. Hoping for another hour?

4961
04:07:06,320 --> 04:07:08,520
Speaker 2: Another hour? Yeah, we're crazy, we're hoping.

4962
04:07:08,560 --> 04:07:10,520
Speaker 5: So do I need to leave for dinner?

4963
04:07:11,160 --> 04:07:15,400
Speaker 1: True? Grandparents on my mom's side are collecting three different pensions.

4964
04:07:15,480 --> 04:07:19,160
Speaker 1: I don't that's possible. So, yeah, my family is well off. I,

4965
04:07:19,440 --> 04:07:22,200
Speaker 1: on the other hand, am not. Neither is my husband

4966
04:07:22,320 --> 04:07:25,320
Speaker 1: or his family. The confession comes in at the family.

4967
04:07:26,880 --> 04:07:29,680
Speaker 1: The family doesn't treat me that. The family doesn't treat

4968
04:07:29,720 --> 04:07:31,920
Speaker 1: me or my brother the same, even though they try

4969
04:07:31,960 --> 04:07:34,800
Speaker 1: to brag that they all do. My brother has a

4970
04:07:34,920 --> 04:07:38,800
Speaker 1: six figure income yearly with a job that guarantees retirement

4971
04:07:38,960 --> 04:07:40,400
Speaker 1: and pension rails.

4972
04:07:40,520 --> 04:07:42,760
Speaker 2: Pensionings like pension is hard to get these.

4973
04:07:42,840 --> 04:07:47,320
Speaker 1: Also, is he earning six figures working with railroads, the

4974
04:07:47,400 --> 04:07:50,920
Speaker 1: railroad's big railroad. I guess. So he lives in a

4975
04:07:51,000 --> 04:07:54,080
Speaker 1: house that he put no work or effort into and

4976
04:07:54,240 --> 04:07:56,520
Speaker 1: is fully and has it fully furnished and ready for him.

4977
04:07:56,520 --> 04:07:59,760
Speaker 1: I'm guessing provided by the company all he pays his utilities. I,

4978
04:08:00,040 --> 04:08:02,000
Speaker 1: on the other hand, and lucky to make seventy K

4979
04:08:02,200 --> 04:08:04,280
Speaker 1: year if I can find a place willing to pay

4980
04:08:04,360 --> 04:08:07,240
Speaker 1: that for jobs that they will let you go for

4981
04:08:07,400 --> 04:08:10,720
Speaker 1: for any little thing. Accounting the house he lives in,

4982
04:08:11,000 --> 04:08:14,640
Speaker 1: I helped renovate with my grandparents. I tore out the carpet, tile,

4983
04:08:14,840 --> 04:08:18,280
Speaker 1: and counters and helped rebuild most of it. Wow.

4984
04:08:18,520 --> 04:08:21,760
Speaker 2: Miss Bella Cecilia says, yes, a conductor can make that much.

4985
04:08:22,360 --> 04:08:26,960
Speaker 1: Damn chew chew. Where my big trained Daddy's at? Uh?

4986
04:08:27,320 --> 04:08:30,200
Speaker 1: Where My biggest issue is my brother has had financial

4987
04:08:30,320 --> 04:08:34,240
Speaker 1: help throughout everything, family always backing him because of my

4988
04:08:34,480 --> 04:08:37,120
Speaker 1: late ex. Another story that I'll spill, but that one

4989
04:08:37,160 --> 04:08:40,200
Speaker 1: has quite a few trigger warnings. No one in my

4990
04:08:40,320 --> 04:08:45,920
Speaker 1: family will offer me help. Wow. So because she because

4991
04:08:45,960 --> 04:08:50,120
Speaker 1: of her late her deceased X. That's crazy, mind you.

4992
04:08:50,360 --> 04:08:52,920
Speaker 1: That guy has been gone for ten years I'm happily

4993
04:08:53,000 --> 04:08:56,760
Speaker 1: married to someone. My family adores crazy family. No one

4994
04:08:56,800 --> 04:08:59,480
Speaker 1: on the other no, no one other than my grandpa

4995
04:08:59,560 --> 04:09:01,640
Speaker 1: and my dad side. And my husband listens to me

4996
04:09:01,800 --> 04:09:03,680
Speaker 1: when I say we're struggling and need the help.

4997
04:09:03,720 --> 04:09:09,320
Speaker 2: So Opie basically needs the help financially, and they and

4998
04:09:09,360 --> 04:09:12,160
Speaker 2: they're only helping the brother. And they will not help

4999
04:09:12,240 --> 04:09:16,880
Speaker 2: her because of her ex husband, yes, or her deceased husband.

5000
04:09:16,960 --> 04:09:19,360
Speaker 1: And they're going to say they only listen to my husband,

5001
04:09:19,440 --> 04:09:21,640
Speaker 1: so they'll even listen to the husband, but not even her,

5002
04:09:22,000 --> 04:09:25,160
Speaker 1: which is crazy. Now, my parents just came into a

5003
04:09:25,240 --> 04:09:29,360
Speaker 1: good chunk of money with Dad's promotion. Were recently married

5004
04:09:29,600 --> 04:09:32,960
Speaker 1: in a wedding. My parents took over and made their own.

5005
04:09:33,360 --> 04:09:36,120
Speaker 1: My dad, the illogical man he is, calls me to

5006
04:09:36,160 --> 04:09:39,200
Speaker 1: tell me all about the surgical work. My mom is

5007
04:09:39,240 --> 04:09:42,840
Speaker 1: going to have plastic surgery because she wants it. Meanwhile,

5008
04:09:42,960 --> 04:09:45,200
Speaker 1: my husband and myself are too scared to ask for

5009
04:09:45,280 --> 04:09:50,320
Speaker 1: even ten grand because everything comes at a price to them. Example,

5010
04:09:50,440 --> 04:09:53,160
Speaker 1: they got me an electric skillet only if I bring

5011
04:09:53,280 --> 04:09:57,800
Speaker 1: it over for Christmas to use for Christmas dinner. That is,

5012
04:09:58,040 --> 04:09:59,880
Speaker 1: get elect it's a pain.

5013
04:10:00,480 --> 04:10:03,200
Speaker 2: I only let you get plastic surgery if I did

5014
04:10:03,240 --> 04:10:04,760
Speaker 2: a cut of your only fans.

5015
04:10:04,600 --> 04:10:08,160
Speaker 1: Oh my, Uh guess I'm not looking for an answer,

5016
04:10:08,360 --> 04:10:12,480
Speaker 1: just confessing to bitch. Really, my whole family has generations

5017
04:10:12,520 --> 04:10:15,480
Speaker 1: of trauma and I'm the first one who got therapy

5018
04:10:15,600 --> 04:10:17,560
Speaker 1: for all of it. Now I just sit back and

5019
04:10:17,680 --> 04:10:21,280
Speaker 1: watch the chaos with gas lighting and along with gas

5020
04:10:21,400 --> 04:10:22,240
Speaker 1: lighting and hip hop.

5021
04:10:22,320 --> 04:10:24,800
Speaker 2: That sucks that your family isn't helping you. That really sucks.

5022
04:10:24,880 --> 04:10:27,200
Speaker 2: That really sucks. I mean it sounds like maybe the

5023
04:10:27,280 --> 04:10:29,440
Speaker 2: brother is a little bit we have a little bit

5024
04:10:29,480 --> 04:10:33,400
Speaker 2: of a golden child syndrome. Yeah, yeah, I wouldn't know

5025
04:10:33,440 --> 04:10:35,640
Speaker 2: anything about being the golden child? But how does it feel?

5026
04:10:35,680 --> 04:10:36,000
Speaker 2: So if you.

5027
04:10:39,040 --> 04:10:41,280
Speaker 1: It feels amazing spoken.

5028
04:10:43,200 --> 04:10:46,000
Speaker 2: We have also Kittie Rodgers. Thanks for the one dollar Canadia.

5029
04:10:46,800 --> 04:10:47,480
Speaker 1: We appreciate you.

5030
04:10:47,720 --> 04:10:49,200
Speaker 2: And Sophia, do you want to read one or should

5031
04:10:49,200 --> 04:10:50,600
Speaker 2: we go into the next story? Riley, what do you think?

5032
04:10:51,800 --> 04:10:52,680
Speaker 6: Let me find another one?

5033
04:10:53,280 --> 04:10:55,360
Speaker 2: Here we go, Here we go. Also, Tom A Lee,

5034
04:10:55,440 --> 04:10:58,080
Speaker 2: thanks for becoming a member of our little Philly.

5035
04:10:59,280 --> 04:11:05,840
Speaker 1: Oh good.

5036
04:11:08,240 --> 04:11:14,800
Speaker 2: We're looking for a confession, some suspicious.

5037
04:11:16,000 --> 04:11:17,919
Speaker 5: I wanna confression.

5038
04:11:19,760 --> 04:11:21,640
Speaker 2: Maybe we just go straight into a story. It might

5039
04:11:21,680 --> 04:11:23,960
Speaker 2: be hard to find something.

5040
04:11:25,840 --> 04:11:28,760
Speaker 1: Puts more in the future, more in the future.

5041
04:11:28,880 --> 04:11:36,480
Speaker 5: Right, thank you kind yeah voice, Oh these ones are

5042
04:11:36,520 --> 04:11:37,400
Speaker 5: good actually I like these.

5043
04:11:38,520 --> 04:11:41,880
Speaker 2: Let's go. How do you join the membership? Can anyone

5044
04:11:42,040 --> 04:11:44,720
Speaker 2: tell Emily w how to join the membership? Because the

5045
04:11:44,760 --> 04:11:48,120
Speaker 2: little old star join button that's right, join button at

5046
04:11:48,120 --> 04:11:53,520
Speaker 2: the bottom of the screen. Join all right, Keky Doyle says, story, story, story.

5047
04:11:54,160 --> 04:11:54,760
Speaker 5: I'll give it to you.

5048
04:11:55,040 --> 04:11:55,280
Speaker 11: Do it.

5049
04:11:56,200 --> 04:11:59,880
Speaker 5: Today, I aft up by confirming for the flight attendant

5050
04:12:00,120 --> 04:12:01,720
Speaker 5: that I am a reverend.

5051
04:12:03,200 --> 04:12:06,080
Speaker 2: Oh like like a like a PC.

5052
04:12:08,720 --> 04:12:12,560
Speaker 5: So without Dennis Nedri says, today, I fed up by

5053
04:12:12,640 --> 04:12:14,640
Speaker 5: confirming for the flight attendant that I am a reverend.

5054
04:12:14,960 --> 04:12:17,880
Speaker 5: This happened about this time last year. I was across

5055
04:12:17,960 --> 04:12:20,920
Speaker 5: the country US attending the funeral of my cousin who

5056
04:12:21,000 --> 04:12:24,000
Speaker 5: had passed from COVID, and I'd used my vacation savings

5057
04:12:24,080 --> 04:12:29,320
Speaker 5: to purchase first class plane tickets for my journey. It

5058
04:12:29,520 --> 04:12:31,720
Speaker 5: wasn't the fun vacation I had saved for, but I

5059
04:12:31,840 --> 04:12:34,320
Speaker 5: was glad I had stashed enough to shell out for

5060
04:12:34,400 --> 04:12:35,000
Speaker 5: the good seats.

5061
04:12:35,880 --> 04:12:40,880
Speaker 2: Funeral. Yeah, damn yea as I was in.

5062
04:12:41,080 --> 04:12:44,280
Speaker 5: An absolutely bad mood and just wanted a little bit

5063
04:12:44,320 --> 04:12:47,760
Speaker 5: of comfort for myself in such an emotional time. So

5064
04:12:47,920 --> 04:12:49,760
Speaker 5: I'm on the four and a half hour section of

5065
04:12:49,800 --> 04:12:52,600
Speaker 5: my trip home and we're just getting up to cruising

5066
04:12:52,640 --> 04:12:55,640
Speaker 5: altitude when I notice a bit of a commotion at

5067
04:12:55,680 --> 04:12:56,440
Speaker 5: the back of the plane.

5068
04:12:56,600 --> 04:12:57,680
Speaker 2: Oh what's the commotion.

5069
04:12:58,280 --> 04:13:00,400
Speaker 5: I'm not in the mood for drama, so I norrit

5070
04:13:00,560 --> 04:13:03,000
Speaker 5: and put my headphones on to listen to some true

5071
04:13:03,160 --> 04:13:04,520
Speaker 5: crime pod gusts.

5072
04:13:04,960 --> 04:13:08,480
Speaker 2: I love how like this priest is just like, I

5073
04:13:08,560 --> 04:13:10,640
Speaker 2: don't care about what's going on in the back. I

5074
04:13:10,720 --> 04:13:13,160
Speaker 2: want to talk about listen to murder.

5075
04:13:14,760 --> 04:13:15,120
Speaker 1: Right now.

5076
04:13:15,320 --> 04:13:15,960
Speaker 6: Oh my god.

5077
04:13:16,160 --> 04:13:18,600
Speaker 5: So I'm starting to doze off to murder and may

5078
04:13:18,680 --> 04:13:22,600
Speaker 5: have when I get a tap of my shoulder. Looking up,

5079
04:13:22,800 --> 04:13:25,000
Speaker 5: I see a flight attendant motioning for me to remove

5080
04:13:25,040 --> 04:13:28,680
Speaker 5: my headphones with please hands. I slide them off one

5081
04:13:28,760 --> 04:13:32,160
Speaker 5: ear and she says, I'm sorry, miss Dennis Snetrie, but

5082
04:13:32,400 --> 04:13:35,680
Speaker 5: you're flying under the honorific of reverend. Are you a

5083
04:13:35,800 --> 04:13:36,920
Speaker 5: minister of some sort?

5084
04:13:37,360 --> 04:13:37,560
Speaker 11: Yeah?

5085
04:13:38,320 --> 04:13:47,440
Speaker 5: A little background time machine. That was really good.

5086
04:13:48,160 --> 04:13:48,640
Speaker 1: Let me wait.

5087
04:13:49,280 --> 04:13:54,160
Speaker 5: Back in two thousand two zero zero zero, my sister

5088
04:13:54,320 --> 04:13:57,360
Speaker 5: was getting married in a secular ceremony and asked me

5089
04:13:57,840 --> 04:14:03,160
Speaker 5: to officiate. So I got my official ordination credentials through

5090
04:14:03,360 --> 04:14:07,800
Speaker 5: ULC Universal Life Church for that purpose. Since then, I've

5091
04:14:07,880 --> 04:14:11,120
Speaker 5: actually married six couples over the years, so it's been

5092
04:14:11,160 --> 04:14:12,320
Speaker 5: a super handy.

5093
04:14:12,080 --> 04:14:12,720
Speaker 1: Thing to have.

5094
04:14:13,440 --> 04:14:20,040
Speaker 2: So he's uh, he's a polyamorous priest. He married six couples.

5095
04:14:20,400 --> 04:14:20,680
Speaker 9: Like, what.

5096
04:14:24,600 --> 04:14:27,760
Speaker 5: Chest you know their gender? So we're gonna eave it

5097
04:14:27,800 --> 04:14:30,720
Speaker 5: at they because of the next line too annoyed that

5098
04:14:30,880 --> 04:14:34,160
Speaker 5: the only non binary honorifics available when purchasing a plane

5099
04:14:34,200 --> 04:14:37,840
Speaker 5: ticket through most US airlines are doctor and reverend. I

5100
04:14:38,080 --> 04:14:42,200
Speaker 5: always chose the reverend option when I fly. Why we

5101
04:14:42,360 --> 04:14:45,360
Speaker 5: even still require such titles for air travel when you're

5102
04:14:45,400 --> 04:14:47,960
Speaker 5: already understandably have to state your gender to purchase a

5103
04:14:48,000 --> 04:14:50,600
Speaker 5: ticket is beyond me, but that's for another day. I

5104
04:14:50,720 --> 04:14:52,880
Speaker 5: always wonder that about that too, because you have to

5105
04:14:52,960 --> 04:14:56,280
Speaker 5: answer like the miss, missus, doctor, mister thing.

5106
04:14:58,200 --> 04:14:58,280
Speaker 11: Ye.

5107
04:14:58,560 --> 04:15:04,800
Speaker 5: Apparently that's the only one. Yeah, yeah, back to the flight.

5108
04:15:04,880 --> 04:15:05,760
Speaker 1: I don't know why they get.

5109
04:15:05,600 --> 04:15:11,880
Speaker 2: That information, Casanda, I appreciate all of the like CTAs.

5110
04:15:11,680 --> 04:15:15,440
Speaker 1: Cassandra has been a goat getting people liking the street.

5111
04:15:15,680 --> 04:15:18,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, my god, if you have a.

5112
04:15:18,400 --> 04:15:19,760
Speaker 1: Title, we'll give you one.

5113
04:15:19,920 --> 04:15:22,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, to give you one. Also shout out to crow

5114
04:15:22,200 --> 04:15:25,080
Speaker 2: Queen for the three dollars and one cent for the

5115
04:15:25,160 --> 04:15:27,920
Speaker 2: odd gang. You guys should have guest appearances with your

5116
04:15:28,160 --> 04:15:31,600
Speaker 2: local sillies. We are planning on doing like pop up

5117
04:15:31,640 --> 04:15:34,120
Speaker 2: shows soon for the local sillies.

5118
04:15:34,200 --> 04:15:39,360
Speaker 5: So I'm accused by why the flight attendant is asking.

5119
04:15:39,600 --> 04:15:42,360
Speaker 5: I'm thinking, maybe she has a religious question, and even

5120
04:15:42,400 --> 04:15:45,120
Speaker 5: though I'm an atheist, I do have an advanced degree

5121
04:15:45,160 --> 04:15:48,360
Speaker 5: in religious studies and one in philosophy and ken and

5122
04:15:48,480 --> 04:15:52,040
Speaker 5: we'll happily talk theology most days. Or maybe she has

5123
04:15:52,080 --> 04:15:55,240
Speaker 5: a question about getting credentials like I did. Curious, I

5124
04:15:55,400 --> 04:15:58,480
Speaker 5: answer to the affirmative. She follows up by asking can

5125
04:15:58,520 --> 04:16:02,720
Speaker 5: you please follow me, and motions to do so. Oh crap,

5126
04:16:02,960 --> 04:16:05,600
Speaker 5: I think, what if someone's dying and they want last

5127
04:16:05,680 --> 04:16:08,480
Speaker 5: rites or something. I'm clearly not a priest. I don't

5128
04:16:08,520 --> 04:16:11,360
Speaker 5: know what I was thinking. Now I'm really confused, and

5129
04:16:11,440 --> 04:16:14,320
Speaker 5: since my headphones are off, I can hear stifled wailing

5130
04:16:14,440 --> 04:16:17,440
Speaker 5: from somewhere behind me. I get up and follow As

5131
04:16:17,520 --> 04:16:19,200
Speaker 5: she and I walk to the back of the plane.

5132
04:16:19,840 --> 04:16:22,920
Speaker 5: At the very last row, there's a woman in clear

5133
04:16:23,000 --> 04:16:26,760
Speaker 5: distress with a few other passengers and another decidedly annoyed

5134
04:16:26,800 --> 04:16:31,000
Speaker 5: looking flight attendant around her. The flight attendant I'm following,

5135
04:16:31,040 --> 04:16:33,680
Speaker 5: turns to me and says, this woman says she's in

5136
04:16:33,760 --> 04:16:36,480
Speaker 5: a spiritual crisis and asked us to find if anyone

5137
04:16:36,560 --> 04:16:38,920
Speaker 5: on the plane is a minister or deacon or something similar.

5138
04:16:39,400 --> 04:16:41,680
Speaker 5: We looked at the manifest and saw a reverend in

5139
04:16:41,760 --> 04:16:46,520
Speaker 5: front of your name and wondered, please help her calm down. So,

5140
04:16:46,840 --> 04:16:51,160
Speaker 5: to be clear, is not technically OPA is a reverend.

5141
04:16:51,720 --> 04:16:53,920
Speaker 5: They are not actually a practicing.

5142
04:16:53,560 --> 04:16:56,679
Speaker 2: Reverence Okay, okay, but they're technically.

5143
04:16:58,040 --> 04:16:59,440
Speaker 5: Very technically yeah.

5144
04:16:59,560 --> 04:17:01,760
Speaker 2: Also to someone said we're in Ohio?

5145
04:17:01,880 --> 04:17:02,120
Speaker 11: Are we?

5146
04:17:02,600 --> 04:17:03,920
Speaker 2: We are in Los Angeles?

5147
04:17:05,200 --> 04:17:06,800
Speaker 1: We're in Los Angeles, Ohio.

5148
04:17:07,600 --> 04:17:11,720
Speaker 6: Our phone says Ohio, Yeah, area code where we live

5149
04:17:11,760 --> 04:17:12,080
Speaker 6: in LA.

5150
04:17:12,280 --> 04:17:12,480
Speaker 2: Yeah.

5151
04:17:12,640 --> 04:17:14,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, sorry to disappointment, Yeah yeah, sorry.

5152
04:17:14,960 --> 04:17:16,960
Speaker 2: If everyone thought we were in Ohio, we.

5153
04:17:17,000 --> 04:17:18,000
Speaker 6: You precisely live in.

5154
04:17:20,960 --> 04:17:23,720
Speaker 1: Give that down. Yeah okay.

5155
04:17:26,720 --> 04:17:29,280
Speaker 5: As she's saying this, the lady, i'd say around sixty

5156
04:17:29,320 --> 04:17:31,600
Speaker 5: five or so, looks at me with puffy eyes and

5157
04:17:31,680 --> 04:17:34,840
Speaker 5: a red fright face, and she just looks so sad.

5158
04:17:35,640 --> 04:17:37,960
Speaker 5: I'm kind of on the spot here if I say no,

5159
04:17:38,200 --> 04:17:40,120
Speaker 5: I really feel like this woman is going to continue

5160
04:17:40,160 --> 04:17:43,400
Speaker 5: to carry on making everyone's flight miserable. But at the

5161
04:17:43,440 --> 04:17:47,560
Speaker 5: same time. Number one, she's not my responsibility. Two, I'm

5162
04:17:47,640 --> 04:17:50,400
Speaker 5: not the kind of practicing reverend I'm sure she's looking for.

5163
04:17:51,160 --> 04:17:54,120
Speaker 5: Three I'm a freaking atheist. I feel like i'd be.

5164
04:17:55,200 --> 04:17:56,080
Speaker 2: That's so funny.

5165
04:17:56,480 --> 04:17:59,800
Speaker 5: There's something very disingenuous about thinking my college degrees could

5166
04:17:59,800 --> 04:18:02,200
Speaker 5: come look close to the work a real religious leader

5167
04:18:02,280 --> 04:18:05,280
Speaker 5: does for people. Four, I don't want to get involved

5168
04:18:05,440 --> 04:18:07,960
Speaker 5: in the level of potential crazy that is a public

5169
04:18:08,000 --> 04:18:10,880
Speaker 5: crisis on an airplane, of all places. And number five,

5170
04:18:11,000 --> 04:18:12,760
Speaker 5: I really just want to be left alone and not

5171
04:18:13,160 --> 04:18:16,400
Speaker 5: drugged dragged into an in flight telenovela.

5172
04:18:16,680 --> 04:18:19,240
Speaker 2: Okay, story time about fake religious leaders and shout out

5173
04:18:19,240 --> 04:18:21,120
Speaker 2: to pixel Pucket for the one any one tip and

5174
04:18:21,240 --> 04:18:25,640
Speaker 2: making it even OMG joyous days almost off work and

5175
04:18:25,800 --> 04:18:28,840
Speaker 2: y'all at y'all still on Yes, we are still on

5176
04:18:29,040 --> 04:18:33,640
Speaker 2: hy es days and we've already read that one. Riley, Sorry, lot,

5177
04:18:33,800 --> 04:18:36,360
Speaker 2: let's keep I know, I know we love you.

5178
04:18:36,680 --> 04:18:39,160
Speaker 5: So I look at the flight attendant and tell her

5179
04:18:39,240 --> 04:18:42,560
Speaker 5: I'm sorry. I'm a reverend in name only, and I

5180
04:18:42,600 --> 04:18:45,840
Speaker 5: don't think I'm what they need. She looks pretty dejected

5181
04:18:46,160 --> 04:18:48,560
Speaker 5: and says she understands, but really, the woman just needs

5182
04:18:48,600 --> 04:18:50,560
Speaker 5: someone to talk to as she's coming back from her

5183
04:18:50,680 --> 04:18:54,680
Speaker 5: son's funeral. Damn, she says, I'm free to go back

5184
04:18:54,720 --> 04:18:56,440
Speaker 5: to my seat, of course, and she'll let the lady

5185
04:18:56,560 --> 04:18:58,880
Speaker 5: know I can't help her, but I think you would.

5186
04:18:59,040 --> 04:18:59,640
Speaker 2: You'd be dack.

5187
04:18:59,760 --> 04:19:03,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'll let you know that you don't want to

5188
04:19:03,760 --> 04:19:05,160
Speaker 5: help her, you hate her.

5189
04:19:06,040 --> 04:19:10,320
Speaker 2: Please watch on your left as this massive suche bag

5190
04:19:10,400 --> 04:19:11,600
Speaker 2: walks back to his seat.

5191
04:19:14,960 --> 04:19:18,240
Speaker 5: So, y'all, my heart broke for the woman. Maybe it

5192
04:19:18,320 --> 04:19:20,200
Speaker 5: was because I was dealing with my own grief, because

5193
04:19:20,200 --> 04:19:22,920
Speaker 5: they also just lost their cousin, or because the lady

5194
04:19:23,080 --> 04:19:25,640
Speaker 5: just looked so broken, but I really felt for her.

5195
04:19:26,320 --> 04:19:28,080
Speaker 5: I leaned over the seat in front of her and

5196
04:19:28,200 --> 04:19:31,920
Speaker 5: told her I was not a real practicing reverend, but

5197
04:19:32,040 --> 04:19:34,080
Speaker 5: if she just needed someone to listen to her, I'm

5198
04:19:34,120 --> 04:19:34,560
Speaker 5: all years.

5199
04:19:34,800 --> 04:19:34,960
Speaker 8: Oh.

5200
04:19:35,720 --> 04:19:37,840
Speaker 5: I spent the rest of my fight in her husband's seat,

5201
04:19:38,240 --> 04:19:40,280
Speaker 5: and he got to sit in mine in first class.

5202
04:19:41,120 --> 04:19:44,920
Speaker 5: Oh damn. He looked like he maybe needed it more

5203
04:19:44,920 --> 04:19:47,600
Speaker 5: than I did, tbh. Her name was Lydia, and she

5204
04:19:47,760 --> 04:19:50,640
Speaker 5: talked my ear off about her son for four more hours.

5205
04:19:51,320 --> 04:19:54,440
Speaker 5: We laughed, we cried. I really really wanted to sit

5206
04:19:54,560 --> 04:19:56,600
Speaker 5: in peace in my own seat. And ignore the world.

5207
04:19:57,200 --> 04:20:00,040
Speaker 5: But I'm glad I could be there for Lydia. He

5208
04:20:00,120 --> 04:20:02,360
Speaker 5: was just overwhelmed and it all came spilling out when

5209
04:20:02,400 --> 04:20:03,320
Speaker 5: she least expected it.

5210
04:20:03,520 --> 04:20:04,280
Speaker 2: I totally get it.

5211
04:20:05,200 --> 04:20:08,040
Speaker 5: Anyway, Have a flight attendant told me what was going

5212
04:20:08,080 --> 04:20:11,400
Speaker 5: on before taking me down the plane to Miseryville, I

5213
04:20:11,440 --> 04:20:14,040
Speaker 5: would have immediately let her know I couldn't help. I

5214
04:20:14,160 --> 04:20:16,280
Speaker 5: wonder if it had been someone with a doctor in

5215
04:20:16,360 --> 04:20:18,640
Speaker 5: front of their name and a medical emergency was happening,

5216
04:20:19,080 --> 04:20:21,680
Speaker 5: if the flight attendant would have sprung someone in cardiac

5217
04:20:21,800 --> 04:20:25,760
Speaker 5: arrest on a physicist or a classical history professor. Sounds

5218
04:20:25,800 --> 04:20:28,760
Speaker 5: like a Monty Python sketch. Lol. Yeah, calling for a

5219
04:20:28,840 --> 04:20:33,920
Speaker 5: doctor and someone's like, I have a doctorate? Yeah, and

5220
04:20:34,520 --> 04:20:37,600
Speaker 5: TLDR quickly op confirmed for a flight attendant that they're

5221
04:20:37,600 --> 04:20:40,480
Speaker 5: a reverend and lost their first class seat. And there

5222
04:20:40,520 --> 04:20:42,600
Speaker 5: is an edit and a little bit more of this story.

5223
04:20:42,760 --> 04:20:45,280
Speaker 2: Oh, let's keep going. That's a little cute.

5224
04:20:45,680 --> 04:20:47,920
Speaker 5: And some folks seem to be hung up on the

5225
04:20:48,000 --> 04:20:50,560
Speaker 5: honorific part of my story and are confused on why

5226
04:20:50,640 --> 04:20:53,000
Speaker 5: I didn't just choose none oh.

5227
04:20:53,440 --> 04:20:57,800
Speaker 2: For their Oh I thought it was yeah, yeah, why

5228
04:20:57,800 --> 04:21:00,680
Speaker 2: do you just choose Nune? Just being none.

5229
04:21:00,760 --> 04:21:01,320
Speaker 1: I thought that too.

5230
04:21:02,720 --> 04:21:07,240
Speaker 5: No, no, any So I'll clarify. Some airlines require one

5231
04:21:07,320 --> 04:21:10,320
Speaker 5: to book your ticket. I fly so rarely anymore. I

5232
04:21:10,400 --> 04:21:12,720
Speaker 5: fly so rarely. I didn't realize that's not a thing

5233
04:21:12,800 --> 04:21:15,360
Speaker 5: so much now, and many US airlines that used to

5234
04:21:15,440 --> 04:21:18,800
Speaker 5: require one no longer do. Oh, so they put it

5235
04:21:18,920 --> 04:21:20,880
Speaker 5: like they didn't realize that they didn't have to put

5236
04:21:20,920 --> 04:21:23,320
Speaker 5: in any of them at all, so they put verriend.

5237
04:21:24,680 --> 04:21:27,240
Speaker 5: I made it a count with this particular airline well

5238
04:21:27,280 --> 04:21:30,120
Speaker 5: over a decade ago when purchasing tickets to Mexico, I think,

5239
04:21:30,560 --> 04:21:32,560
Speaker 5: and when I did, there was no option to not

5240
04:21:32,800 --> 04:21:35,680
Speaker 5: choose one from a drop down menu. You literally couldn't

5241
04:21:35,680 --> 04:21:39,240
Speaker 5: continue booking the flight unless you chose one. As I recall,

5242
04:21:39,360 --> 04:21:44,640
Speaker 5: the options were mister, missus, miss doctor, and reverend. I'm

5243
04:21:44,680 --> 04:21:47,200
Speaker 5: sorry that wasn't clear in the post. For those that

5244
04:21:47,320 --> 04:21:49,760
Speaker 5: assume I'm a man from a username, I've got news

5245
04:21:49,840 --> 04:21:52,600
Speaker 5: for you. Username isn't a good indicator of gender. Oh,

5246
04:21:53,000 --> 04:21:55,320
Speaker 5: Jurassic Park is my favorite movie and my name is

5247
04:21:55,400 --> 04:21:58,080
Speaker 5: partial quote from the film. My real name is not

5248
04:21:58,280 --> 04:22:01,360
Speaker 5: Dennis lol. For those who assume I'm a man because

5249
04:22:01,360 --> 04:22:04,400
Speaker 5: I've chose reverend, reverend I've got news for you. Reverend

5250
04:22:04,560 --> 04:22:07,280
Speaker 5: is a gender neutral, non specific term that can apply

5251
04:22:07,360 --> 04:22:10,120
Speaker 5: to anyone, and seeing as I'm technically a reverend at

5252
04:22:10,160 --> 04:22:12,360
Speaker 5: the time, it seemed like the best option for someone

5253
04:22:12,400 --> 04:22:15,400
Speaker 5: who doesn't like gender binary terms. When I made the

5254
04:22:15,440 --> 04:22:17,760
Speaker 5: account with the airline, initially, I was a little urked

5255
04:22:17,800 --> 04:22:20,520
Speaker 5: I couldn't choose no honorific at all and googled if

5256
04:22:20,560 --> 04:22:24,000
Speaker 5: it really mattered, finding out that it didn't really. For example,

5257
04:22:24,080 --> 04:22:26,000
Speaker 5: my idea didn't need to say reverend, just like they

5258
04:22:26,040 --> 04:22:28,160
Speaker 5: don't need to have a mister or missus, and therefore

5259
04:22:28,160 --> 04:22:30,360
Speaker 5: I wouldn't be denying travel if I chose it. I

5260
04:22:30,480 --> 04:22:32,720
Speaker 5: just clicked reverend and moved on. I really didn't think

5261
04:22:32,720 --> 04:22:35,560
Speaker 5: too much about it, and honestly had completely forgotten. It

5262
04:22:35,640 --> 04:22:38,160
Speaker 5: was always on there when I flew with that particular

5263
04:22:38,200 --> 04:22:41,480
Speaker 5: airline and the app auto filled my info. For those

5264
04:22:41,480 --> 04:22:43,200
Speaker 5: saying it's my own fault for trying to be woke,

5265
04:22:43,320 --> 04:22:46,840
Speaker 5: no one likes you. There's lots of subrenets here for

5266
04:22:46,920 --> 04:22:48,680
Speaker 5: you to be nasty. Go bother those people.

5267
04:22:49,280 --> 04:22:53,280
Speaker 2: And one more clarification and shout out to one done millennial.

5268
04:22:53,360 --> 04:22:55,240
Speaker 2: If you can like this, if I can like the stream,

5269
04:22:55,280 --> 04:22:58,200
Speaker 2: when it is illegal, you can too shout out.

5270
04:22:59,120 --> 04:23:00,960
Speaker 1: Shout out my goodness.

5271
04:23:01,600 --> 04:23:04,440
Speaker 5: One more clarification was I annoyed that I got roped

5272
04:23:04,440 --> 04:23:07,000
Speaker 5: into helping this woman a little at first. I'm not

5273
04:23:07,080 --> 04:23:09,160
Speaker 5: going to lie. I felt a little ambushed, and I

5274
04:23:09,320 --> 04:23:12,000
Speaker 5: was in a pretty dark place trying to hold it

5275
04:23:12,080 --> 04:23:15,680
Speaker 5: together myself. But I think you're confusing mild annoyance with malice.

5276
04:23:15,800 --> 04:23:17,760
Speaker 5: And maybe that's because I have a dark sense of humor,

5277
04:23:17,800 --> 04:23:20,640
Speaker 5: which is reflected in the way I write. Ultimately, I

5278
04:23:20,960 --> 04:23:23,280
Speaker 5: chose to sit with her. I thought my sympathy for

5279
04:23:23,320 --> 04:23:25,480
Speaker 5: her was clear in the post. I had an out.

5280
04:23:25,600 --> 04:23:27,040
Speaker 5: I could have gone back to my seat and put

5281
04:23:27,040 --> 04:23:30,200
Speaker 5: my headphones back on. It didn't seem right to do that, though.

5282
04:23:30,800 --> 04:23:33,320
Speaker 5: Here was this poor grieving mother, and my own emotions

5283
04:23:33,360 --> 04:23:35,600
Speaker 5: were so raw because I too was traveling back from

5284
04:23:35,600 --> 04:23:38,520
Speaker 5: putting a loved one in the ground. Her husband was there. Yes,

5285
04:23:39,000 --> 04:23:40,920
Speaker 5: I don't know why she didn't find solace in him,

5286
04:23:41,120 --> 04:23:44,440
Speaker 5: but everyone breethes differently, and he too was going through it.

5287
04:23:44,520 --> 04:23:47,280
Speaker 5: I'm sure I don't judge them, and you shouldn't either.

5288
04:23:47,560 --> 04:23:49,760
Speaker 5: He probably needed a break and she needed to lean

5289
04:23:49,800 --> 04:23:52,120
Speaker 5: on someone else for a while. I'm sure She would

5290
04:23:52,160 --> 04:23:54,560
Speaker 5: have rather spoken with someone of her own religion, someone

5291
04:23:54,680 --> 04:23:57,840
Speaker 5: qualified to hear her and offer her platitudes and comfort

5292
04:23:57,880 --> 04:23:59,920
Speaker 5: that aligne with her beliefs, which is why she asked

5293
04:24:00,120 --> 04:24:02,680
Speaker 5: for a real deacon or past her. That's why I

5294
04:24:02,800 --> 04:24:05,560
Speaker 5: clarified with her that I'm not the person that person

5295
04:24:05,680 --> 04:24:07,960
Speaker 5: before asking if I would be an acceptable stand in.

5296
04:24:08,520 --> 04:24:10,640
Speaker 5: She just wanted to be heard. We all do, and

5297
04:24:10,720 --> 04:24:12,840
Speaker 5: I'm glad I could be that for her. She was

5298
04:24:12,880 --> 04:24:15,280
Speaker 5: able to spend those hours telling me all about her

5299
04:24:15,360 --> 04:24:17,640
Speaker 5: son and the funny kid he was growing up to be,

5300
04:24:18,760 --> 04:24:21,520
Speaker 5: telling me about him getting busted with pot in college,

5301
04:24:21,680 --> 04:24:23,760
Speaker 5: thinking he was some kind of drug kingpin when he

5302
04:24:23,880 --> 04:24:26,720
Speaker 5: really was just a dumb twenty something year old, telling

5303
04:24:26,760 --> 04:24:29,320
Speaker 5: me about his wedding and career. She was able to

5304
04:24:29,360 --> 04:24:32,040
Speaker 5: focus on his life instead of his passing for a spell,

5305
04:24:32,480 --> 04:24:33,520
Speaker 5: and we had a lovely.

5306
04:24:33,400 --> 04:24:35,040
Speaker 2: Long conversation that's really cute.

5307
04:24:35,120 --> 04:24:35,320
Speaker 1: Yeah.

5308
04:24:35,840 --> 04:24:37,760
Speaker 5: I wouldn't take back to my time with that lady

5309
04:24:37,880 --> 04:24:40,960
Speaker 5: for the world. What initially was an f up because

5310
04:24:41,000 --> 04:24:42,880
Speaker 5: I just wanted to be alone with some extra leg

5311
04:24:42,960 --> 04:24:45,600
Speaker 5: room and not focus on my own personal loss turned

5312
04:24:45,960 --> 04:24:48,480
Speaker 5: into something I think was really beautiful, and I wanted

5313
04:24:48,520 --> 04:24:51,080
Speaker 5: to share that. That's all. Oh, so all in all,

5314
04:24:51,400 --> 04:24:54,720
Speaker 5: I've learned a few things from posting my story. First,

5315
04:24:54,920 --> 04:24:57,320
Speaker 5: the airline I have that account with no longer requires

5316
04:24:57,360 --> 04:24:59,600
Speaker 5: an honorific to book a flight, so I'll be changing

5317
04:24:59,600 --> 04:25:02,760
Speaker 5: my accoun details TURTLEFF like that. Second, it doesn't matter

5318
04:25:02,840 --> 04:25:05,200
Speaker 5: if you post an experience that seems wholesome as hell.

5319
04:25:05,360 --> 04:25:07,320
Speaker 5: People on the internet will find a way to be

5320
04:25:07,440 --> 04:25:07,880
Speaker 5: nasty to you.

5321
04:25:08,720 --> 04:25:11,040
Speaker 2: I'll remember that people on the internet can be that

5322
04:25:11,320 --> 04:25:14,360
Speaker 2: nasty in a lot of ways. Except for o Yeah,

5323
04:25:14,360 --> 04:25:15,400
Speaker 2: except for our little cities.

5324
04:25:15,480 --> 04:25:16,240
Speaker 1: Y'all are the best.

5325
04:25:16,640 --> 04:25:18,960
Speaker 2: Also shout out Bernie hard Dragon for the two dollars tip.

5326
04:25:19,080 --> 04:25:21,880
Speaker 2: My son calls okop that show with that guy and

5327
04:25:21,960 --> 04:25:25,400
Speaker 2: his pretty sister. Say hi to Vincent. Please Hi, Vincent.

5328
04:25:27,120 --> 04:25:30,080
Speaker 1: Your mom is the coolest mom on the planet, so

5329
04:25:30,520 --> 04:25:32,600
Speaker 1: respect have some respect son.

5330
04:25:32,880 --> 04:25:36,160
Speaker 5: Wow, I like your son. Your son's cool. Yeah, that

5331
04:25:36,400 --> 04:25:38,040
Speaker 5: is the full The rest of it is just them

5332
04:25:38,040 --> 04:25:38,520
Speaker 5: saying thank you.

5333
04:25:38,760 --> 04:25:41,560
Speaker 2: Okay. I love that. I love that. I do have

5334
04:25:41,600 --> 04:25:45,720
Speaker 2: an okay story time based on religious Uh all right,

5335
04:25:45,920 --> 04:25:48,240
Speaker 2: it's kind of not quite an okay story time. It's

5336
04:25:48,280 --> 04:25:51,360
Speaker 2: like an okay movie. So I saw this movie called

5337
04:25:51,520 --> 04:25:53,720
Speaker 2: I think it was like Guru or something, and it

5338
04:25:53,840 --> 04:25:57,000
Speaker 2: was this documentary. Of course John has never heard of it.

5339
04:25:57,440 --> 04:26:02,680
Speaker 2: It's his documentary that basically follows this Indian dude that's

5340
04:26:02,720 --> 04:26:04,880
Speaker 2: like from New York, just like a regular Indian dude,

5341
04:26:04,960 --> 04:26:07,240
Speaker 2: like totally American, and he's like, I bet you I

5342
04:26:07,320 --> 04:26:09,600
Speaker 2: could convince people that I'm a guru, And so he

5343
04:26:09,720 --> 04:26:13,520
Speaker 2: grows out his hair super long and then starts talking

5344
04:26:13,600 --> 04:26:16,320
Speaker 2: in like an Indian accent, and it's basically like like

5345
04:26:16,640 --> 04:26:20,480
Speaker 2: convinces a group of forty people to become his followers

5346
04:26:20,520 --> 04:26:24,440
Speaker 2: because he's like has the secrets to enlightenment. And then

5347
04:26:24,760 --> 04:26:26,640
Speaker 2: I won't ruin the ending because I think it's really

5348
04:26:26,680 --> 04:26:28,960
Speaker 2: really good. But he basically goes through like how easy

5349
04:26:29,080 --> 04:26:31,800
Speaker 2: is it to become someone's religious a group of people's

5350
04:26:31,840 --> 04:26:34,800
Speaker 2: religious leader, and essentially start a cult if you have

5351
04:26:35,000 --> 04:26:36,000
Speaker 2: the lookdown.

5352
04:26:35,760 --> 04:26:38,280
Speaker 1: I mean, if someone's looking for I feel like those

5353
04:26:38,320 --> 04:26:39,640
Speaker 1: people are like looking.

5354
04:26:39,440 --> 04:26:40,680
Speaker 2: For looking for answers.

5355
04:26:40,720 --> 04:26:40,880
Speaker 3: Yah.

5356
04:26:40,960 --> 04:26:41,160
Speaker 2: Yeah.

5357
04:26:41,720 --> 04:26:44,080
Speaker 5: It's also a movie about or a TV series. I

5358
04:26:44,120 --> 04:26:46,080
Speaker 5: think it's a limited TV series on Netflix called like

5359
04:26:46,160 --> 04:26:48,680
Speaker 5: Messiah or something, and this guy pretends to be like

5360
04:26:49,560 --> 04:26:51,080
Speaker 5: Jesus basically, yeah.

5361
04:26:51,040 --> 04:26:56,480
Speaker 2: Dude, I mean it's people I mean, honestly, people kind

5362
04:26:56,520 --> 04:26:59,280
Speaker 2: of need that, so it's like not necessarily always bad.

5363
04:27:00,200 --> 04:27:01,160
Speaker 2: It is bad to lie.

5364
04:27:01,440 --> 04:27:04,840
Speaker 1: It's like manipulating, but it is manipulative. Yeah, that depends on.

5365
04:27:04,920 --> 04:27:06,760
Speaker 5: What you're trying to manipulate them to do.

5366
04:27:07,080 --> 04:27:12,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, hopefully nothing bad. Hopefully and thirty exclamation point says

5367
04:27:12,840 --> 04:27:15,480
Speaker 2: fuck yeah, you guys are still live?

5368
04:27:15,680 --> 04:27:19,360
Speaker 1: Oh of course, what did I think this was? Okay?

5369
04:27:20,440 --> 04:27:24,440
Speaker 2: Also, John's real name is John jink Oleheama jink Oleheimer Smith.

5370
04:27:24,720 --> 04:27:28,160
Speaker 2: His name is mine name you. Whenever I go out,

5371
04:27:28,560 --> 04:27:29,640
Speaker 2: people always out there.

5372
04:27:32,440 --> 04:27:34,600
Speaker 1: People would always sing that to me because my name

5373
04:27:34,680 --> 04:27:37,080
Speaker 1: is so long and it starts with Johnny. He would

5374
04:27:37,080 --> 04:27:37,480
Speaker 1: annoy me.

5375
04:27:37,640 --> 04:27:44,120
Speaker 2: Whenever I go out, people always shout Heyaheimers. Anyway, Velvet,

5376
04:27:44,160 --> 04:27:46,400
Speaker 2: thanks for the five bucks. I'm late, but I love y'all.

5377
04:27:47,480 --> 04:27:47,920
Speaker 1: Let me too.

5378
04:27:48,080 --> 04:27:50,560
Speaker 2: We're gonna get into another story. Riley, who's reading this?

5379
04:27:50,640 --> 04:27:50,960
Speaker 2: Next one?

5380
04:27:52,640 --> 04:27:52,680
Speaker 11: Me?

5381
04:27:53,120 --> 04:27:55,160
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, oh yeah.

5382
04:27:57,040 --> 04:27:59,000
Speaker 1: Where are we at?

5383
04:27:59,160 --> 04:28:00,000
Speaker 5: It's under the realige.

5384
04:28:04,800 --> 04:28:08,160
Speaker 1: Three two, let's get into it.

5385
04:28:08,440 --> 04:28:11,280
Speaker 2: Ladyndre Lovado says, love you so much.

5386
04:28:12,880 --> 04:28:15,360
Speaker 1: We love you too, Appreciate you.

5387
04:28:15,920 --> 04:28:19,240
Speaker 2: Rachel the axe hatchet. How it ends your rock star? No,

5388
04:28:19,640 --> 04:28:24,600
Speaker 2: your rock star's right star Willowy Milch says, y'all are

5389
04:28:24,800 --> 04:28:28,080
Speaker 2: so underrated. This is my favorite show. Who the fuck

5390
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Speaker 2: is underrating us?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

5392
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Speaker 2: Yeah, slot, Let's go Fighting rated?

5393
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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, we're rated.

5394
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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're rated.

5395
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Speaker 1: Speaking of which, I'm gonna rate this story excellent and

5396
04:28:37,880 --> 04:28:40,560
Speaker 1: read it to you. My parents tried to force me

5397
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Speaker 1: to join a cult? How do I escape? Oh?

5398
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Speaker 2: Wow?

5399
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Speaker 1: This comes from About to Be Taken twenty one Wow.

5400
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Speaker 1: So I don't really know how to say this, but

5401
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Speaker 1: Signal Imagination just donated ten dollars. Spiritual resiliency is extremely important,

5402
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Speaker 1: no matter what your beliefs. Dropping bars, thanks gang, Let's

5403
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Speaker 1: go y. So, my mom and stepdad are really into

5404
04:29:04,800 --> 04:29:07,920
Speaker 1: New age science and beliefs. I have never agreed with

5405
04:29:08,040 --> 04:29:11,960
Speaker 1: them on this and didn't know how extreme it was. Recently, though,

5406
04:29:12,120 --> 04:29:16,280
Speaker 1: they have been involved in an extremely weird support group.

5407
04:29:16,640 --> 04:29:18,880
Speaker 1: I say it in quotes because I have no ethink

5408
04:29:18,960 --> 04:29:22,200
Speaker 1: clue who they are when I'm around. They never mentioned

5409
04:29:22,240 --> 04:29:25,000
Speaker 1: any group names or what organization they work for, or

5410
04:29:25,080 --> 04:29:27,480
Speaker 1: what they're or what it is they're part of. Because

5411
04:29:27,520 --> 04:29:30,040
Speaker 1: of this I have had I have not had much

5412
04:29:30,160 --> 04:29:33,880
Speaker 1: luck finding out stuff, as New Age cults gives too

5413
04:29:34,160 --> 04:29:36,280
Speaker 1: many results to look into.

5414
04:29:36,520 --> 04:29:37,400
Speaker 2: Is it scientology?

5415
04:29:37,600 --> 04:29:37,640
Speaker 11: No?

5416
04:29:38,360 --> 04:29:42,760
Speaker 1: Probably yeah, because the opis not even getting a name

5417
04:29:43,280 --> 04:29:47,600
Speaker 1: of it. It is just the belief. This Monday, my

5418
04:29:47,720 --> 04:29:50,680
Speaker 1: mom and stepdad sat me and my four siblings down.

5419
04:29:51,080 --> 04:29:52,960
Speaker 1: They told us that we will be moving at the

5420
04:29:53,080 --> 04:29:55,880
Speaker 1: end of the month to a more stable location within

5421
04:29:56,240 --> 04:29:58,120
Speaker 1: a spiritual community.

5422
04:29:58,280 --> 04:29:59,640
Speaker 2: Dude, they're going to the cult land.

5423
04:30:00,240 --> 04:30:05,280
Speaker 1: It's more stable. Ah, stables the worst we're on spiritually stable.

5424
04:30:05,640 --> 04:30:07,440
Speaker 2: That's crazy. I kind of want to know what the

5425
04:30:07,520 --> 04:30:08,240
Speaker 2: cult is, dude.

5426
04:30:08,360 --> 04:30:11,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, well maybe we find out. According to them, they

5427
04:30:11,680 --> 04:30:15,000
Speaker 1: plan to pull all five of us. I'm sixteen and

5428
04:30:15,040 --> 04:30:17,080
Speaker 1: couldn't think of anywhere else to mention this, but I

5429
04:30:17,200 --> 04:30:21,640
Speaker 1: will mention Alex l Rod five dollars donation. No, John's

5430
04:30:21,680 --> 04:30:23,840
Speaker 1: mom is the coolest person on the planet. My twins

5431
04:30:23,960 --> 04:30:26,440
Speaker 1: love her. Also proud to see how you're doing, John.

5432
04:30:26,600 --> 04:30:30,280
Speaker 1: Thank you, Alex. I grew up around Alex, so big

5433
04:30:30,360 --> 04:30:31,040
Speaker 1: shout out to you.

5434
04:30:31,280 --> 04:30:32,800
Speaker 2: That's awesome being on the stream.

5435
04:30:32,880 --> 04:30:34,680
Speaker 1: I saw you in the discord the other day. Dude.

5436
04:30:34,680 --> 04:30:36,480
Speaker 6: It's like, what time is it over there?

5437
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Speaker 11: Oh?

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04:30:38,160 --> 04:30:42,000
Speaker 1: Late eleven thirteen. Also, I can confirm Alex's twins are

5439
04:30:42,040 --> 04:30:46,320
Speaker 1: the most adorable humans on the planet. It is certified.

5440
04:30:46,480 --> 04:30:48,920
Speaker 2: Also shout out Christina for making it to the live show.

5441
04:30:49,080 --> 04:30:53,120
Speaker 1: I love you, Welcome, Welcome. I'm sixteen.

5442
04:30:53,160 --> 04:30:55,640
Speaker 2: Couldn't think of anywhere else to mention this out of

5443
04:30:55,720 --> 04:30:59,040
Speaker 2: school here and enroll us in their mind awakening school

5444
04:30:59,240 --> 04:31:00,360
Speaker 2: wherever we move.

5445
04:31:00,760 --> 04:31:03,120
Speaker 1: I tried to get anything out of them, but they

5446
04:31:03,200 --> 04:31:06,320
Speaker 1: refuse to talk to me about it at all. Bro,

5447
04:31:06,520 --> 04:31:09,160
Speaker 1: is this child abduction? Sixteen?

5448
04:31:09,720 --> 04:31:13,080
Speaker 2: Like, well, it's not child abduction quite because like.

5449
04:31:13,440 --> 04:31:16,320
Speaker 5: Like, if you move to a what is this the

5450
04:31:16,440 --> 04:31:20,280
Speaker 5: mom and the step dad, I mean the.

5451
04:31:20,400 --> 04:31:23,000
Speaker 2: Data has custody, then yeah, it could be. Could be

5452
04:31:23,320 --> 04:31:25,320
Speaker 2: the dada has custody. I mean, if they're just moving,

5453
04:31:25,400 --> 04:31:29,080
Speaker 2: it's like no different than moving to a new state.

5454
04:31:29,280 --> 04:31:29,720
Speaker 1: That's true.

5455
04:31:29,880 --> 04:31:31,520
Speaker 2: The law's eyes like cold state.

5456
04:31:32,280 --> 04:31:34,440
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, and yeah, so the law it's like tricky

5457
04:31:34,520 --> 04:31:37,840
Speaker 1: because anyways, do.

5458
04:31:37,920 --> 04:31:38,400
Speaker 2: Do do do do?

5459
04:31:39,440 --> 04:31:44,520
Speaker 1: They cut out the internet, phone, and TV and Tuesday,

5460
04:31:44,960 --> 04:31:48,840
Speaker 1: uh on Tuesday, and they have been keeping an effing

5461
04:31:49,080 --> 04:31:52,200
Speaker 1: laser focus on me and my siblings since then. I

5462
04:31:52,320 --> 04:31:54,480
Speaker 1: am currently at a friend's house and this is the

5463
04:31:54,680 --> 04:31:58,960
Speaker 1: only way I actually got access to the internet. Oh wow, right,

5464
04:31:59,000 --> 04:32:01,120
Speaker 1: because you need to be and hear the even post

5465
04:32:01,200 --> 04:32:04,880
Speaker 1: a Reddit story hope he doesn't even have internet.

5466
04:32:05,160 --> 04:32:08,040
Speaker 2: That is normally insane. That means it's like a really

5467
04:32:08,160 --> 04:32:09,080
Speaker 2: intense cult too.

5468
04:32:09,200 --> 04:32:13,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, man, ivy being donation the irony because y'all have

5469
04:32:14,040 --> 04:32:15,360
Speaker 1: also created a cult.

5470
04:32:16,720 --> 04:32:18,920
Speaker 5: My friend actually told me that one of my talents

5471
04:32:19,360 --> 04:32:20,320
Speaker 5: was creating a cult.

5472
04:32:20,560 --> 04:32:25,720
Speaker 1: Like friends told me that, are we competing on colts

5473
04:32:25,760 --> 04:32:26,080
Speaker 1: over here?

5474
04:32:26,960 --> 04:32:30,840
Speaker 2: You're fearless cult leaders right here? If we got land,

5475
04:32:30,920 --> 04:32:31,520
Speaker 2: would you want to.

5476
04:32:31,560 --> 04:32:35,360
Speaker 5: Squad of owning like a commune?

5477
04:32:35,560 --> 04:32:38,280
Speaker 2: Yeah? I actually do want to own a commune with

5478
04:32:38,360 --> 04:32:40,400
Speaker 2: all my friends collectively. Yeah, I mean that's why I

5479
04:32:40,520 --> 04:32:41,040
Speaker 2: want to live.

5480
04:32:41,800 --> 04:32:43,520
Speaker 5: That's what I want to I want to buy a

5481
04:32:43,680 --> 04:32:45,840
Speaker 5: castle and live in it with all my friends.

5482
04:32:45,960 --> 04:32:48,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean we're we basically are kind of doing

5483
04:32:48,280 --> 04:32:49,880
Speaker 2: that right now. I know it's great, we just don't

5484
04:32:49,920 --> 04:32:50,640
Speaker 2: have a castle yet.

5485
04:32:51,040 --> 04:32:53,880
Speaker 5: Let's get a cast like for a castle like.

5486
04:32:54,320 --> 04:32:55,640
Speaker 1: The donation link is below.

5487
04:32:59,080 --> 04:33:03,160
Speaker 2: What what do we got? Si bucks? If you're new

5488
04:33:03,200 --> 04:33:05,200
Speaker 2: to the stream, makes you to like it. We may

5489
04:33:05,280 --> 04:33:08,400
Speaker 2: be over on likes, but you are still required to

5490
04:33:08,520 --> 04:33:11,320
Speaker 2: do your civic duty as part of this, okay. Am. Also,

5491
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Speaker 2: Mammy Sleepless loves you. She does.

5492
04:33:14,200 --> 04:33:21,640
Speaker 1: We love you Sleepless thanks to moments. But last night

5493
04:33:22,080 --> 04:33:24,080
Speaker 1: they had three people come and talk to me and

5494
04:33:24,160 --> 04:33:28,000
Speaker 1: my siblings, and the stuff they told us was effing crazy.

5495
04:33:28,919 --> 04:33:30,120
Speaker 2: What what they say?

5496
04:33:30,280 --> 04:33:30,600
Speaker 5: What was it?

5497
04:33:30,759 --> 04:33:33,719
Speaker 2: Dude? This is actually like super there's much intrigue.

5498
04:33:34,000 --> 04:33:37,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm intrigued. I'm intrigued and scared for the sixteen

5499
04:33:37,919 --> 04:33:38,200
Speaker 5: year old.

5500
04:33:38,280 --> 04:33:41,960
Speaker 1: Actually right, I was talked to alone by an old

5501
04:33:42,120 --> 04:33:45,960
Speaker 1: man who told me about how my mind is closed

5502
04:33:46,960 --> 04:33:49,200
Speaker 1: and that I will slowly learn to open it as

5503
04:33:49,280 --> 04:33:52,400
Speaker 1: my parents have, and that the leaders would love to

5504
04:33:52,480 --> 04:33:54,759
Speaker 1: meet me and put me in their programs.

5505
04:33:55,120 --> 04:33:59,920
Speaker 2: Oh, they're gonna drug you for this child. I'm frightened,

5506
04:34:00,040 --> 04:34:04,560
Speaker 2: but someone so interesting. I am so interested. Kei Doyles.

5507
04:34:04,640 --> 04:34:07,480
Speaker 2: I'm literally on the edge of my seat right here

5508
04:34:07,520 --> 04:34:11,320
Speaker 2: with you, Ki with Scarierly. Yeah, I need to know

5509
04:34:12,240 --> 04:34:14,079
Speaker 2: what the f I can do here.

5510
04:34:14,880 --> 04:34:17,400
Speaker 1: My dad has shared custody of me, and since Monday,

5511
04:34:17,720 --> 04:34:20,360
Speaker 1: I have had no contact with him.

5512
04:34:20,440 --> 04:34:21,680
Speaker 2: Okay, that's illegal.

5513
04:34:21,759 --> 04:34:22,200
Speaker 1: That's there, we go.

5514
04:34:22,400 --> 04:34:24,079
Speaker 2: That's that's illegal.

5515
04:34:24,280 --> 04:34:26,640
Speaker 1: He is supposed to have a call with me every night,

5516
04:34:26,759 --> 04:34:31,040
Speaker 1: but my mom claims he's been informed and supports this

5517
04:34:31,400 --> 04:34:35,720
Speaker 1: one hundred percent. I thought, like informed, like uh, something else?

5518
04:34:35,800 --> 04:34:38,880
Speaker 1: I don't even know Yeah, he's been taking like he's

5519
04:34:38,919 --> 04:34:42,039
Speaker 1: been compromised. Yeah, take care of I tried calling him

5520
04:34:42,040 --> 04:34:44,720
Speaker 1: this morning, but he didn't answer. He lives in another state,

5521
04:34:44,800 --> 04:34:46,920
Speaker 1: so it's kind of hard to get into contact with

5522
04:34:47,040 --> 04:34:49,440
Speaker 1: him outside of phone and email. I'm at a friend's

5523
04:34:49,440 --> 04:34:51,280
Speaker 1: house because I was able to leave the house for

5524
04:34:51,360 --> 04:34:53,880
Speaker 1: the first time in a week this morning after I

5525
04:34:54,000 --> 04:34:56,080
Speaker 1: told my parents I wanted to go to the park,

5526
04:34:56,400 --> 04:34:58,680
Speaker 1: but came here and told my friend everything.

5527
04:34:58,759 --> 04:35:04,720
Speaker 2: Oh thank god. They've got friend smart, a good head

5528
04:35:04,720 --> 04:35:05,320
Speaker 2: on their shoulders.

5529
04:35:06,080 --> 04:35:08,320
Speaker 1: Her parents are not home, but she's trying to call them,

5530
04:35:08,400 --> 04:35:10,400
Speaker 1: and I plan to stay here tonight if I can.

5531
04:35:10,880 --> 04:35:13,920
Speaker 1: My parents have forbid me from using the internet because

5532
04:35:14,360 --> 04:35:16,920
Speaker 1: it's full of lies from them.

5533
04:35:17,600 --> 04:35:20,600
Speaker 2: Road it's going to expose your parents' lives more like that.

5534
04:35:20,840 --> 04:35:22,559
Speaker 1: Truly, I am so lost right now.

5535
04:35:22,640 --> 04:35:23,640
Speaker 2: It makes me sick.

5536
04:35:24,080 --> 04:35:26,520
Speaker 1: I do not want to go with them to this

5537
04:35:26,759 --> 04:35:29,520
Speaker 1: obvious compound, and I need to note what the f

5538
04:35:29,680 --> 04:35:31,840
Speaker 1: I can do here? Can I just run away? And

5539
04:35:31,919 --> 04:35:34,079
Speaker 1: if my parents harbor me, then they can they get

5540
04:35:34,080 --> 04:35:37,040
Speaker 1: in trouble? If my mom has been lying about my.

5541
04:35:37,200 --> 04:35:39,720
Speaker 2: Dad, can he do anything? Thanks?

5542
04:35:40,280 --> 04:35:41,600
Speaker 1: There is an update?

5543
04:35:41,960 --> 04:35:43,200
Speaker 5: Uh, definitely do something.

5544
04:35:43,320 --> 04:35:46,480
Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure. There is like legal recourse.

5545
04:35:46,160 --> 04:35:48,960
Speaker 5: In this situation visitation rights and he has custody.

5546
04:35:49,080 --> 04:35:52,200
Speaker 2: We have custody, he has Yeah, he does have custody,

5547
04:35:52,640 --> 04:35:53,160
Speaker 2: can do something.

5548
04:35:53,440 --> 04:35:55,120
Speaker 1: But it is like I could see it being a

5549
04:35:55,160 --> 04:35:58,360
Speaker 1: tricky situation where sometimes like it's like the joke of

5550
04:35:58,520 --> 04:36:01,480
Speaker 1: like the kids calling CPS on the parents when it's like, oh,

5551
04:36:01,600 --> 04:36:03,600
Speaker 1: I want to hang out with my friends this weekend.

5552
04:36:03,640 --> 04:36:05,399
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call CPS on you if you don't let

5553
04:36:05,440 --> 04:36:05,920
Speaker 1: me or whatever.

5554
04:36:05,960 --> 04:36:08,480
Speaker 5: But I think the kids can call CPS and the

5555
04:36:08,560 --> 04:36:10,560
Speaker 5: kid can be like, hey, my parents are planning to

5556
04:36:10,759 --> 04:36:15,040
Speaker 5: take away take me away from my dad and they.

5557
04:36:14,960 --> 04:36:17,800
Speaker 2: Get in trouble. That's why it's such a good like

5558
04:36:18,040 --> 04:36:20,440
Speaker 2: bargaining chip because the CPS will listen.

5559
04:36:20,560 --> 04:36:24,480
Speaker 1: Basically, Yeah, Basically my question is like where is I

5560
04:36:24,520 --> 04:36:26,120
Speaker 1: guess the line drawn, or like.

5561
04:36:27,240 --> 04:36:30,760
Speaker 2: He feels uncomfortable and there's a cult and they are

5562
04:36:30,840 --> 04:36:36,000
Speaker 2: being taken away from their biological father, then yeah, that's

5563
04:36:36,080 --> 04:36:39,000
Speaker 2: definitely yeah, I would pray. I feel like CPS is

5564
04:36:39,480 --> 04:36:41,920
Speaker 2: worth a call and Mile High Maven, thanks for the

5565
04:36:42,000 --> 04:36:46,239
Speaker 2: five bucks. The next next Flix cult will be exposing

5566
04:36:46,840 --> 04:36:51,160
Speaker 2: the Worm Queen, an elusive woman who bows the hearts

5567
04:36:51,200 --> 04:36:53,480
Speaker 2: of all. And by the way, my ten year plan

5568
04:36:53,720 --> 04:36:56,440
Speaker 2: involves a self sufficient homestead commune.

5569
04:36:58,560 --> 04:37:00,160
Speaker 5: Like I love the idea of a commune with that

5570
04:37:00,240 --> 04:37:00,800
Speaker 5: a cult, you know?

5571
04:37:01,080 --> 04:37:02,800
Speaker 2: Yeah? Or maybe it does a fun cult?

5572
04:37:02,840 --> 04:37:03,000
Speaker 8: You know.

5573
04:37:03,120 --> 04:37:05,600
Speaker 1: So if you're if you are a commune, are you

5574
04:37:05,720 --> 04:37:06,560
Speaker 1: already a cult?

5575
04:37:06,680 --> 04:37:10,680
Speaker 5: That's the thing, Like which is a distinguishes between communes?

5576
04:37:10,800 --> 04:37:14,600
Speaker 2: That's true, but like, yeah, I don't know. I think

5577
04:37:14,640 --> 04:37:15,320
Speaker 2: we can make it fun.

5578
04:37:15,400 --> 04:37:16,640
Speaker 5: Feel like they can be fun.

5579
04:37:17,040 --> 04:37:19,480
Speaker 2: Also shout out to how it ends for the five

5580
04:37:19,520 --> 04:37:24,280
Speaker 2: dollars tip half my family. Are Jehovah's witnesses? Talk about

5581
04:37:24,440 --> 04:37:24,879
Speaker 2: a cult?

5582
04:37:26,000 --> 04:37:27,320
Speaker 5: Are they the door knocking kind?

5583
04:37:27,600 --> 04:37:27,800
Speaker 2: Yeah?

5584
04:37:28,120 --> 04:37:31,079
Speaker 1: Can we can we get everyone to knock on doors

5585
04:37:31,160 --> 04:37:34,640
Speaker 1: and spread the good word about Yeah, if you haven't.

5586
04:37:34,440 --> 04:37:37,640
Speaker 5: We did ask, We did knock on people's doors. We're

5587
04:37:37,720 --> 04:37:38,440
Speaker 5: literally a cult.

5588
04:37:38,600 --> 04:37:42,320
Speaker 2: If you haven't told a friend or family member about okayop,

5589
04:37:42,919 --> 04:37:46,040
Speaker 2: do so today and you will get into ok op

5590
04:37:46,200 --> 04:37:50,120
Speaker 2: heaven zero six five for salvation.

5591
04:37:51,040 --> 04:37:51,840
Speaker 1: Amen, brother.

5592
04:37:52,440 --> 04:38:01,200
Speaker 5: But y'all we have a let's freaking go and mids cood?

5593
04:38:01,880 --> 04:38:05,480
Speaker 1: Yeahs could for the two dollars donation happy for twenty

5594
04:38:05,520 --> 04:38:08,240
Speaker 1: from church or New Zealand. Hell yeah, no, it is

5595
04:38:08,320 --> 04:38:08,760
Speaker 1: four twenty.

5596
04:38:08,800 --> 04:38:12,040
Speaker 2: I don't even realize. How are we not getting suited?

5597
04:38:12,200 --> 04:38:13,720
Speaker 1: Oh it's twenty.

5598
04:38:14,160 --> 04:38:15,400
Speaker 2: Oh oh, it's three twenty.

5599
04:38:16,120 --> 04:38:19,480
Speaker 1: It's four twenty. Where they're at I guess oh yeah, okay,

5600
04:38:19,960 --> 04:38:23,240
Speaker 1: try again, say all right, it's already faded.

5601
04:38:23,800 --> 04:38:26,520
Speaker 2: Christina. Thanks for the ten it's for twenty New Zealand.

5602
04:38:26,840 --> 04:38:28,600
Speaker 2: We see Christina, and we appreciate you.

5603
04:38:29,759 --> 04:38:33,240
Speaker 1: It's I was march, I was wraw, yes, yes, I

5604
04:38:33,360 --> 04:38:36,320
Speaker 1: see yeah, Sam made a silly oops, I made it

5605
04:38:36,400 --> 04:38:39,880
Speaker 1: oop and did we are shot? Christina? Shout out anyways,

5606
04:38:40,240 --> 04:38:42,000
Speaker 1: even if we did already for the ten dollars donation,

5607
04:38:42,560 --> 04:38:45,080
Speaker 1: but we haven't up night, let's get into it. I

5608
04:38:45,200 --> 04:38:47,320
Speaker 1: talked to my mom and told her, because I would

5609
04:38:47,360 --> 04:38:49,040
Speaker 1: be moving soon and this might be one of the

5610
04:38:49,120 --> 04:38:51,680
Speaker 1: last times I could see my friend, I would like

5611
04:38:51,720 --> 04:38:53,559
Speaker 1: to stay the night. And she said it was okay

5612
04:38:54,040 --> 04:38:57,120
Speaker 1: and that this family was trustworthy not to.

5613
04:38:57,240 --> 04:39:00,399
Speaker 5: Try to corrupt my view the friends family.

5614
04:39:00,960 --> 04:39:01,640
Speaker 1: Yes exactly.

5615
04:39:01,680 --> 04:39:05,239
Speaker 2: A shout out to Tova for the whoo wait repeat

5616
04:39:05,240 --> 04:39:05,600
Speaker 2: that again.

5617
04:39:06,040 --> 04:39:09,120
Speaker 1: So basically, she asked if she could our op asked

5618
04:39:09,160 --> 04:39:13,200
Speaker 1: if they could stay over and the friend's house that's

5619
04:39:13,240 --> 04:39:15,840
Speaker 1: okay because they won't try to persuade you for.

5620
04:39:16,440 --> 04:39:17,160
Speaker 2: Are they in the cult?

5621
04:39:17,600 --> 04:39:17,640
Speaker 13: No?

5622
04:39:18,440 --> 04:39:19,680
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, this is good.

5623
04:39:19,840 --> 04:39:20,040
Speaker 5: Yeah.

5624
04:39:20,320 --> 04:39:23,760
Speaker 1: I got in contact with my dad and he is

5625
04:39:24,840 --> 04:39:28,760
Speaker 1: actually totally pissed. Oh you really got me, got you

5626
04:39:29,680 --> 04:39:32,240
Speaker 1: totally on board. He said, yes, listen to your mother.

5627
04:39:33,040 --> 04:39:35,840
Speaker 1: He did not agree and was told that I didn't

5628
04:39:36,000 --> 04:39:37,520
Speaker 1: want to talk to him.

5629
04:39:39,759 --> 04:39:43,199
Speaker 2: Oh wow, So the mom completely.

5630
04:39:42,720 --> 04:39:44,840
Speaker 5: Lies its practively trying to cut off all of his

5631
04:39:45,120 --> 04:39:46,240
Speaker 5: like the kids relations.

5632
04:39:46,440 --> 04:39:50,320
Speaker 2: Yep, MJ grow for the five dollars looking into the

5633
04:39:50,400 --> 04:39:54,040
Speaker 2: Republic of Slow Jamistan. I would love to sham there.

5634
04:39:54,720 --> 04:39:55,560
Speaker 2: He sounds great.

5635
04:39:56,680 --> 04:39:59,600
Speaker 1: Also, my fifteen year old sister's dad was told the same,

5636
04:40:00,080 --> 04:40:03,400
Speaker 1: despite the fact that he has primary custody and she

5637
04:40:03,560 --> 04:40:05,080
Speaker 1: only spends the summers with us.

5638
04:40:05,240 --> 04:40:06,320
Speaker 2: That's even worse.

5639
04:40:06,640 --> 04:40:07,919
Speaker 5: The other actively kid death.

5640
04:40:07,919 --> 04:40:10,720
Speaker 1: Mom and dad about to get a roasted Yeah, my

5641
04:40:10,840 --> 04:40:13,240
Speaker 1: sister's dad is going to call CPS two and I

5642
04:40:13,400 --> 04:40:15,120
Speaker 1: just got done with my call to them, but I

5643
04:40:15,200 --> 04:40:18,640
Speaker 1: won't repeat what they said there. I will be spending

5644
04:40:18,680 --> 04:40:20,840
Speaker 1: the night here and when my mom asks me to

5645
04:40:20,919 --> 04:40:23,520
Speaker 1: come back tomorrow, my dad has told me not to

5646
04:40:23,640 --> 04:40:26,480
Speaker 1: go back and tell her that he will be flying

5647
04:40:26,560 --> 04:40:29,800
Speaker 1: down here to Florida. Immediately if I didn't check in

5648
04:40:29,880 --> 04:40:33,040
Speaker 1: with him or he hears I went back to her.

5649
04:40:33,200 --> 04:40:37,239
Speaker 2: So basically, God that OPI has a dad that actually cares,

5650
04:40:37,240 --> 04:40:42,480
Speaker 2: because I'm hoping this gets resolved. It seems like looking

5651
04:40:42,919 --> 04:40:46,520
Speaker 2: I mean it's looking it's looking serious, evolves involved, So

5652
04:40:46,520 --> 04:40:48,640
Speaker 2: I think it's gonna be okay, but but maybe not.

5653
04:40:48,960 --> 04:40:51,080
Speaker 2: I mean, like they could go crazy totally.

5654
04:40:51,160 --> 04:40:55,840
Speaker 1: It's it's seems like a dicey situation. He says that

5655
04:40:55,919 --> 04:40:58,880
Speaker 1: he's already looking into emergency custody. I want to thank

5656
04:40:59,040 --> 04:41:03,000
Speaker 1: my friend's parents for real, because holy fuck, have they

5657
04:41:03,080 --> 04:41:05,720
Speaker 1: been great. They have both been great and are working

5658
04:41:05,800 --> 04:41:08,280
Speaker 1: with my dad right now to help me. I also

5659
04:41:08,400 --> 04:41:10,800
Speaker 1: will be going and buying a burner phone tomorrow and

5660
04:41:10,919 --> 04:41:14,280
Speaker 1: withdrawing all my money from the bank. My dad says

5661
04:41:14,320 --> 04:41:17,080
Speaker 1: he will handle getting my stuff from my mom when

5662
04:41:17,160 --> 04:41:21,440
Speaker 1: the time comes. Thanks guys for the advice. Very smart,

5663
04:41:22,080 --> 04:41:23,160
Speaker 1: smart sixteen year old.

5664
04:41:23,320 --> 04:41:26,120
Speaker 5: Yeah I know, superxteen year old got the super situation

5665
04:41:26,280 --> 04:41:26,920
Speaker 5: and they're really.

5666
04:41:27,320 --> 04:41:29,160
Speaker 2: Super strong head on their shoulders for sure.

5667
04:41:29,320 --> 04:41:33,080
Speaker 1: And TLDR for everyone who just joined the chat. Opie's

5668
04:41:33,120 --> 04:41:35,440
Speaker 1: mom joins a call and tries to force OPI to join.

5669
04:41:35,600 --> 04:41:38,320
Speaker 1: So then Opie calls dad. There might be a rescue mission. Yes,

5670
04:41:39,040 --> 04:41:42,120
Speaker 1: and there's an update. Okay. Since my last post got

5671
04:41:42,160 --> 04:41:44,360
Speaker 1: popular and people still seem interested in my situation, I

5672
04:41:44,360 --> 04:41:46,399
Speaker 1: thought I would give you guys an update on everything.

5673
04:41:46,800 --> 04:41:48,520
Speaker 1: It's been over a month, and I'm sorry that I

5674
04:41:48,640 --> 04:41:51,080
Speaker 1: kept you guys waiting. Things were pretty crazy, and my

5675
04:41:51,160 --> 04:41:53,440
Speaker 1: therapist said it probably wasn't the best idea to rant

5676
04:41:53,480 --> 04:41:57,680
Speaker 1: about it online until I felt ready. That is very fair. Okay, Well,

5677
04:41:57,880 --> 04:41:59,680
Speaker 1: now that I'm settled down a bit, I feel like

5678
04:41:59,759 --> 04:42:02,640
Speaker 1: it to be good to get this off my chest. Anyways.

5679
04:42:03,160 --> 04:42:06,160
Speaker 1: Sorry if this disappoints you guys. Though, as my dad says,

5680
04:42:06,280 --> 04:42:08,440
Speaker 1: I should not include any personal details for fear of

5681
04:42:08,520 --> 04:42:11,239
Speaker 1: leaking my identity. So even though I know the group now,

5682
04:42:11,320 --> 04:42:14,039
Speaker 1: I won't be naming them for fear of it getting

5683
04:42:14,240 --> 04:42:14,680
Speaker 1: back to me.

5684
04:42:15,520 --> 04:42:16,960
Speaker 5: I mean, that's very smart, but I do want to know.

5685
04:42:17,040 --> 04:42:17,920
Speaker 5: But it's very smart.

5686
04:42:18,640 --> 04:42:21,520
Speaker 1: So after I stayed the night with my friends my

5687
04:42:21,640 --> 04:42:24,440
Speaker 1: friend's family, my mom and stepdad tried to get me

5688
04:42:24,560 --> 04:42:28,200
Speaker 1: to come back home immediately. My dad said not to go,

5689
04:42:28,800 --> 04:42:31,400
Speaker 1: so I somehow convinced my mom to let me stay

5690
04:42:31,440 --> 04:42:33,720
Speaker 1: the rest of this day and I would come home

5691
04:42:33,919 --> 04:42:34,440
Speaker 1: that night.

5692
04:42:34,960 --> 04:42:36,399
Speaker 5: Oh, stay with his friend.

5693
04:42:36,720 --> 04:42:38,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's basically still.

5694
04:42:38,200 --> 04:42:38,640
Speaker 5: With the friends.

5695
04:42:38,919 --> 04:42:40,480
Speaker 1: He's been kind of kicking the cane down the road.

5696
04:42:40,680 --> 04:42:41,520
Speaker 1: Just stay there as long.

5697
04:42:41,360 --> 04:42:43,480
Speaker 5: As let me just stay the whole day with my friends.

5698
04:42:43,560 --> 04:42:46,480
Speaker 1: Exactly the coordinate everything, which is smart, so smart. This

5699
04:42:46,640 --> 04:42:50,520
Speaker 1: plan did not work out very well, though, as my

5700
04:42:50,680 --> 04:42:55,280
Speaker 1: sister's dad called the police to report that he couldn't

5701
04:42:55,320 --> 04:42:59,640
Speaker 1: contact my sister and was afraid she was kidnapped. It

5702
04:42:59,680 --> 04:43:02,120
Speaker 1: didn't take long before my mom caught on that I

5703
04:43:02,600 --> 04:43:05,200
Speaker 1: was the one who leaked them and their plans, and

5704
04:43:05,400 --> 04:43:09,079
Speaker 1: they freaked out. Oh my god. My mom then came

5705
04:43:09,160 --> 04:43:12,040
Speaker 1: to my friend's house and tried to force her way

5706
04:43:12,160 --> 04:43:16,240
Speaker 1: in to take me because I had been corrupted and

5707
04:43:16,480 --> 04:43:20,120
Speaker 1: needed to be locked away from bad influences till we

5708
04:43:20,360 --> 04:43:22,000
Speaker 1: left for the company.

5709
04:43:22,160 --> 04:43:25,080
Speaker 2: Is so frightening, This is so sanity.

5710
04:43:25,840 --> 04:43:29,559
Speaker 1: My parents called the police, and I my friend's parents

5711
04:43:29,640 --> 04:43:32,880
Speaker 1: called the police, and I called my dad, my bio dad,

5712
04:43:33,000 --> 04:43:35,399
Speaker 1: and he got to talk to my mom. I'll leave

5713
04:43:35,440 --> 04:43:37,960
Speaker 1: it short and say this was a nightmare situation that

5714
04:43:38,120 --> 04:43:42,000
Speaker 1: almost ended up with my mom being charged with trespassing.

5715
04:43:42,560 --> 04:43:45,399
Speaker 1: I mean, she deserves it. My mom and dad argued

5716
04:43:45,440 --> 04:43:48,080
Speaker 1: on the phone for over three hours outside of my

5717
04:43:48,200 --> 04:43:50,640
Speaker 1: friend's house. Oh, the dad is now here in pert

5718
04:43:50,840 --> 04:43:52,400
Speaker 1: Oh on the phone. I'm sorry, I called the phone

5719
04:43:52,480 --> 04:43:55,040
Speaker 1: just kidding. In the end, my dad made it so

5720
04:43:55,320 --> 04:43:57,360
Speaker 1: I would not have to go with them. But the

5721
04:43:57,480 --> 04:44:00,400
Speaker 1: only safe place my mom would agree to me staying

5722
04:44:00,880 --> 04:44:03,760
Speaker 1: is with my uncle four hours away. I stayed with

5723
04:44:03,880 --> 04:44:05,640
Speaker 1: him for over a week and it was the worst

5724
04:44:05,720 --> 04:44:09,640
Speaker 1: week of my life. My mom called me constantly trying

5725
04:44:09,919 --> 04:44:12,440
Speaker 1: to talk to me and save me from the evil

5726
04:44:12,640 --> 04:44:17,240
Speaker 1: energies my father had possessed me. Dude, horrible mother.

5727
04:44:17,400 --> 04:44:21,600
Speaker 2: I'm also like so confused how the father didn't see

5728
04:44:21,640 --> 04:44:26,200
Speaker 2: this coming sooner because they were in the cult before

5729
04:44:26,280 --> 04:44:27,040
Speaker 2: they moved to this.

5730
04:44:28,120 --> 04:44:30,000
Speaker 5: It seems that they joined a new cult. I thought

5731
04:44:30,080 --> 04:44:30,880
Speaker 5: at the beginning they.

5732
04:44:30,880 --> 04:44:34,440
Speaker 2: Said, like it's joined, there's gotten deeper.

5733
04:44:34,560 --> 04:44:38,360
Speaker 1: This is so crazy. My stepfather also began to send

5734
04:44:38,440 --> 04:44:41,559
Speaker 1: me various threats and told me that at the end

5735
04:44:41,600 --> 04:44:43,760
Speaker 1: of the month, I was coming no matter.

5736
04:44:43,720 --> 04:44:47,840
Speaker 5: What can't they do. I'm like, can't they do anything

5737
04:44:47,919 --> 04:44:51,920
Speaker 5: with like the police, But because they have tactical like

5738
04:44:52,080 --> 04:44:52,360
Speaker 5: this is.

5739
04:44:52,400 --> 04:44:55,640
Speaker 1: The mother, but there's the bio dad too, so that

5740
04:44:55,720 --> 04:44:59,600
Speaker 1: bio Dad's coming to the rest because imagine God was

5741
04:44:59,680 --> 04:45:03,080
Speaker 1: both the biological parents. I mean, this was a it

5742
04:45:03,200 --> 04:45:04,520
Speaker 1: was parents.

5743
04:45:04,560 --> 04:45:05,840
Speaker 2: It would be very hard. You would have to get

5744
04:45:05,840 --> 04:45:06,320
Speaker 2: a man's mad.

5745
04:45:06,520 --> 04:45:11,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, one hundred percent, one hundred percent. After a week

5746
04:45:11,240 --> 04:45:14,640
Speaker 1: of this, everything changed. My mom stopped calling me, my

5747
04:45:14,720 --> 04:45:18,000
Speaker 1: stepdad stopped texting, and they went quiet for four days. Me,

5748
04:45:18,360 --> 04:45:21,240
Speaker 1: my uncle, my dad, all of them couldn't reach them.

5749
04:45:21,759 --> 04:45:24,320
Speaker 1: My sister's dad also stopped being able to reach them

5750
04:45:24,600 --> 04:45:27,520
Speaker 1: during this time. My mom bought my sister a plane

5751
04:45:27,520 --> 04:45:30,320
Speaker 1: ticket home, and my sister's dad only learned of this

5752
04:45:30,480 --> 04:45:32,440
Speaker 1: when he got a call after my parents dropped my

5753
04:45:32,480 --> 04:45:35,200
Speaker 1: sister off at the airport. After this, my mom called

5754
04:45:35,240 --> 04:45:37,680
Speaker 1: me one last time, thank you, told me for the

5755
04:45:37,680 --> 04:45:38,399
Speaker 1: five dollars donation.

5756
04:45:38,560 --> 04:45:40,880
Speaker 2: I've been friends and housemates with a guy that grew

5757
04:45:40,960 --> 04:45:45,080
Speaker 2: up in the Children of God called one Yeah, and

5758
04:45:45,280 --> 04:45:46,520
Speaker 2: a libertarian.

5759
04:45:46,040 --> 04:45:50,880
Speaker 1: Social movement decided to choose my state. I don't know

5760
04:45:50,919 --> 04:45:53,120
Speaker 1: what that last part or was that means.

5761
04:45:53,000 --> 04:45:56,120
Speaker 2: But that's crazy wild. God is an intense call. I

5762
04:45:56,800 --> 04:46:00,120
Speaker 2: didn't know about them, well, you know what, I in

5763
04:46:00,160 --> 04:46:03,480
Speaker 2: Phoenix's parents were in the Children's God.

5764
04:46:03,960 --> 04:46:05,960
Speaker 5: Really didn't they all leave for something?

5765
04:46:07,759 --> 04:46:09,640
Speaker 2: I think they were part of it for a while was.

5766
04:46:09,680 --> 04:46:11,000
Speaker 1: That the key to make a great actor.

5767
04:46:11,160 --> 04:46:14,000
Speaker 2: I think so his brother was an actor as well.

5768
04:46:14,680 --> 04:46:16,800
Speaker 2: Interesting shout out for Bubbles or the five bucks. I

5769
04:46:16,919 --> 04:46:19,720
Speaker 2: swear I saw Sam's doppelganger at the d m V

5770
04:46:19,919 --> 04:46:20,360
Speaker 2: last week.

5771
04:46:20,640 --> 04:46:22,240
Speaker 5: Maybe it was just Sam, it was just me.

5772
04:46:22,480 --> 04:46:25,640
Speaker 2: Maybe you mutually haven't know. And shout out to nid

5773
04:46:25,880 --> 04:46:30,640
Speaker 2: zeke Wood for the two New Zealand dollars. Puff Puff

5774
04:46:30,720 --> 04:46:33,880
Speaker 2: passed the Sam big love to you four and big.

5775
04:46:33,840 --> 04:46:34,720
Speaker 1: Love right back.

5776
04:46:35,440 --> 04:46:37,160
Speaker 2: But we get back to this story.

5777
04:46:37,520 --> 04:46:42,040
Speaker 1: Let's get back to the story exactly. So my mom

5778
04:46:42,160 --> 04:46:45,360
Speaker 1: proceeded to tell me that she had been meditating, praying

5779
04:46:45,520 --> 04:46:50,080
Speaker 1: to my guardian spirits daily and talking to the leaders,

5780
04:46:51,080 --> 04:46:54,600
Speaker 1: all to help me open my third eye to see

5781
04:46:54,720 --> 04:46:57,680
Speaker 1: the truth and understand that I was being used for

5782
04:46:58,040 --> 04:47:05,720
Speaker 1: evil during this sessions she apparently she apparent sessions. Apparently

5783
04:47:05,840 --> 04:47:09,720
Speaker 1: she finally realized the truth and saw for me the

5784
04:47:09,880 --> 04:47:12,960
Speaker 1: evil spawn wha I was. According to her, I am

5785
04:47:13,000 --> 04:47:16,160
Speaker 1: an evil seed, and that I was not only brought

5786
04:47:16,200 --> 04:47:19,280
Speaker 1: to her to bring evil spirits onto her and her

5787
04:47:19,640 --> 04:47:20,440
Speaker 1: good children.

5788
04:47:20,759 --> 04:47:23,320
Speaker 2: My God, we had some new people in the stream.

5789
04:47:23,320 --> 04:47:26,200
Speaker 2: So I think we need TLDR on screen for everyone.

5790
04:47:26,480 --> 04:47:29,000
Speaker 1: Indeed, so Riley will flash that on the screen. But

5791
04:47:29,080 --> 04:47:33,560
Speaker 1: basically Opie's parents joined a cults and then Opie was like,

5792
04:47:33,840 --> 04:47:35,920
Speaker 1: I'm getting the f out of here, called the dad

5793
04:47:36,120 --> 04:47:38,080
Speaker 1: and is getting out. Now we're hearing from the mom

5794
04:47:38,160 --> 04:47:41,360
Speaker 1: who's basically saying she is an evil spirit and is

5795
04:47:41,800 --> 04:47:45,040
Speaker 1: better off being gone anyways. I guess, Wow, what parenting

5796
04:47:45,160 --> 04:47:48,120
Speaker 1: parenting of the Year award? I also infected the womb

5797
04:47:48,320 --> 04:47:51,600
Speaker 1: and corrupted my sister. She told me to send my

5798
04:47:51,840 --> 04:47:55,160
Speaker 1: uncle down and pick up all of my worldly possessions

5799
04:47:55,440 --> 04:47:58,600
Speaker 1: that were infected, and to not come with him or

5800
04:47:58,759 --> 04:48:01,160
Speaker 1: ever contact her or her family again.

5801
04:48:01,960 --> 04:48:03,880
Speaker 2: Wow, oh wow.

5802
04:48:04,640 --> 04:48:09,239
Speaker 1: She ended by telling me that I was never her

5803
04:48:09,480 --> 04:48:12,920
Speaker 1: child and she hopes the universe deals with.

5804
04:48:13,520 --> 04:48:17,600
Speaker 2: Oh my god, so she, like the mother, literally cursed Opie.

5805
04:48:18,080 --> 04:48:19,160
Speaker 5: Jesus God.

5806
04:48:19,400 --> 04:48:22,680
Speaker 1: The last contact I know about was her telling my

5807
04:48:22,800 --> 04:48:25,360
Speaker 1: dad that she wants to provoke her parental rights.

5808
04:48:26,040 --> 04:48:28,560
Speaker 2: This mother fuck you.

5809
04:48:29,160 --> 04:48:31,080
Speaker 1: At the end of the last month, they moved to

5810
04:48:31,160 --> 04:48:34,200
Speaker 1: the compound with my three step siblings. I am terrified

5811
04:48:34,240 --> 04:48:34,520
Speaker 1: for them.

5812
04:48:34,720 --> 04:48:36,520
Speaker 5: They feel so bad for the step siblings.

5813
04:48:36,919 --> 04:48:40,800
Speaker 2: How old are they because I'm I'm imagining they're probably younger.

5814
04:48:41,120 --> 04:48:45,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, like indoctrinatble and Opie is like just at that

5815
04:48:45,280 --> 04:48:46,080
Speaker 1: age where it's like.

5816
04:48:46,880 --> 04:48:50,760
Speaker 5: You know, they knew they also had like you know,

5817
04:48:50,919 --> 04:48:54,600
Speaker 5: time with their dad, whereas these kids are in it

5818
04:48:55,280 --> 04:48:56,880
Speaker 5: step like the step that is their dad.

5819
04:48:57,960 --> 04:48:59,800
Speaker 1: I moved out to live with my dad and have

5820
04:49:00,040 --> 04:49:02,560
Speaker 1: been in therapy ever since. That's great. Things are still

5821
04:49:02,600 --> 04:49:05,400
Speaker 1: pretty raw right now, and I really don't feel like

5822
04:49:05,640 --> 04:49:08,920
Speaker 1: getting into the emotions. I feel towards this, but I

5823
04:49:09,040 --> 04:49:12,239
Speaker 1: at least uh, but I feel like at least updating.

5824
04:49:12,600 --> 04:49:12,719
Speaker 3: Uh.

5825
04:49:12,919 --> 04:49:15,400
Speaker 1: This might be a start. Thank you everyone who gave

5826
04:49:15,440 --> 04:49:19,520
Speaker 1: advice and sent me kind message messages on here offering help.

5827
04:49:19,880 --> 04:49:24,120
Speaker 1: I do really appreciate it. And that is the end

5828
04:49:24,200 --> 04:49:26,480
Speaker 1: of the story. My goodness.

5829
04:49:26,720 --> 04:49:27,960
Speaker 2: So at least you got saved.

5830
04:49:28,480 --> 04:49:32,840
Speaker 1: Yes, uh, op is safe and sound. I don't know

5831
04:49:32,919 --> 04:49:34,680
Speaker 1: what it is. By the way, we had a spillage

5832
04:49:34,720 --> 04:49:41,520
Speaker 1: over gentlemen. Yeah, oh yeah, it's NS fault. It's left

5833
04:49:41,640 --> 04:49:45,000
Speaker 1: the Watcher. The evil spirits that I poured in the

5834
04:49:45,080 --> 04:49:47,360
Speaker 1: cup of Satan have spilt.

5835
04:49:49,520 --> 04:49:52,120
Speaker 2: Everywhereop.

5836
04:49:53,000 --> 04:49:55,320
Speaker 1: Sorry guys, but I listen to read some comments. One

5837
04:49:55,360 --> 04:49:57,960
Speaker 1: don Millennial hopefully they got out somehow. I agree to

5838
04:49:58,400 --> 04:50:02,200
Speaker 1: Cosmosis twenty seven says hope the steps siblings can get out. Agreed,

5839
04:50:02,720 --> 04:50:06,120
Speaker 1: Kiki Doyle, Thank God for the dad. Dad is right.

5840
04:50:06,720 --> 04:50:09,400
Speaker 1: That is absolutely right. A Cindy Sugar makes a great point.

5841
04:50:09,560 --> 04:50:13,440
Speaker 1: Support the worm cults. Okay, that is a cult that

5842
04:50:13,759 --> 04:50:16,760
Speaker 1: that we need. Oh, Alex Elrod, what is this the

5843
04:50:16,880 --> 04:50:21,400
Speaker 1: cults of Florida? Man, great question, Alex. Yeah, they did

5844
04:50:21,480 --> 04:50:23,400
Speaker 1: say it wasn't Florida that the cult was in Florida.

5845
04:50:23,720 --> 04:50:27,400
Speaker 1: Oh really, yes, because the dad flew down to Florida

5846
04:50:27,480 --> 04:50:30,600
Speaker 1: to come get Ope. I don't know if they were

5847
04:50:30,600 --> 04:50:32,600
Speaker 1: there originally, but the colts at a minimum was there.

5848
04:50:32,759 --> 04:50:35,239
Speaker 1: But shout out to Tova for the five bucks. Sorry.

5849
04:50:35,720 --> 04:50:40,000
Speaker 1: They picked my state to influence government. Low population and

5850
04:50:40,200 --> 04:50:42,640
Speaker 1: it is very easy to run for office and change

5851
04:50:42,759 --> 04:50:46,559
Speaker 1: laws and affect federal politics. Oh wait a second, they

5852
04:50:46,600 --> 04:50:49,440
Speaker 1: picked my state. Oh okay, I think I understand what

5853
04:50:49,520 --> 04:50:51,400
Speaker 1: Tovah was saying earlier. So the what is it? The

5854
04:50:51,480 --> 04:50:54,080
Speaker 1: Children of God cults? Yeah, they chose to move to

5855
04:50:54,440 --> 04:50:57,640
Speaker 1: Tova's hometown because it was so small they could easily

5856
04:50:57,800 --> 04:51:02,480
Speaker 1: win public office and effect federal regulations like house seats.

5857
04:51:02,560 --> 04:51:06,160
Speaker 1: Probably that's so sick, that is I mean, I mean

5858
04:51:06,240 --> 04:51:07,480
Speaker 1: like it's evil genius.

5859
04:51:07,520 --> 04:51:11,000
Speaker 2: It's it's sick in both ways. Kind of it's terrible

5860
04:51:11,120 --> 04:51:13,040
Speaker 2: and also that's kind of cool that you can do that.

5861
04:51:13,440 --> 04:51:17,680
Speaker 1: Here's take over a town exactly, and Bubble says five

5862
04:51:17,720 --> 04:51:20,120
Speaker 1: dollars usd I want you to make a Sophia a

5863
04:51:20,280 --> 04:51:23,000
Speaker 1: warm crown. Do you guys have a po box? Absolutely?

5864
04:51:23,040 --> 04:51:27,840
Speaker 1: And Riley just commented in the chat in the chat below, okay,

5865
04:51:28,560 --> 04:51:32,240
Speaker 1: so yes, oh my god, Keiky Doyle says, not the

5866
04:51:32,280 --> 04:51:33,719
Speaker 1: little spillys.

5867
04:51:33,600 --> 04:51:36,760
Speaker 2: Ha little so Sophia.

5868
04:51:37,080 --> 04:51:41,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh water, she's working on it. We're getting there.

5869
04:51:43,520 --> 04:51:46,440
Speaker 1: We got a call it. Let's let's check it out.

5870
04:51:46,560 --> 04:51:50,160
Speaker 2: Okay, Colin, all right, here it is.

5871
04:51:50,520 --> 04:51:54,040
Speaker 6: It is from Rachel the Axe Hatchet.

5872
04:51:54,360 --> 04:51:59,680
Speaker 2: Rachel you've been asking, we've been listening. We're doing it.

5873
04:52:00,080 --> 04:52:03,759
Speaker 6: There we go, uh am I the A for blowing

5874
04:52:03,840 --> 04:52:05,440
Speaker 6: up a family and getting a man deported.

5875
04:52:07,200 --> 04:52:12,280
Speaker 2: Uh oh, I will see out where you said this man.

5876
04:52:12,600 --> 04:52:14,600
Speaker 1: Let's see Rachel Hatchett. Can you hear?

5877
04:52:14,600 --> 04:52:14,719
Speaker 7: It's?

5878
04:52:14,759 --> 04:52:15,000
Speaker 1: Okay?

5879
04:52:16,040 --> 04:52:16,240
Speaker 11: Yeah?

5880
04:52:16,919 --> 04:52:20,000
Speaker 1: Awesome? So uh we got the whole okay, gang here,

5881
04:52:21,160 --> 04:52:25,320
Speaker 1: could you break down what exactly happened here? What's going on?

5882
04:52:26,880 --> 04:52:34,520
Speaker 11: Okay? So trigger warning there is physical violence and possible

5883
04:52:35,040 --> 04:52:41,640
Speaker 11: dv SO trigger warning on that. So I'm outside with

5884
04:52:41,680 --> 04:52:44,800
Speaker 11: a bunch of my friends and my friend. One of

5885
04:52:44,880 --> 04:52:48,840
Speaker 11: my friends, Breezily, had his car hit like a week

5886
04:52:48,880 --> 04:52:53,600
Speaker 11: before that. We hear this crash and he freaks out.

5887
04:52:53,640 --> 04:52:56,000
Speaker 11: We all go running to see if it's his truck again,

5888
04:52:57,040 --> 04:53:00,680
Speaker 11: and we see the signs to the parking lot leveled out,

5889
04:53:01,200 --> 04:53:02,880
Speaker 11: you see. We go up to the only car that

5890
04:53:03,240 --> 04:53:05,719
Speaker 11: it could possibly be. I gets out. I asked him.

5891
04:53:05,720 --> 04:53:08,000
Speaker 11: I'm like, hey, dude, are you okay? Like he just

5892
04:53:08,080 --> 04:53:09,840
Speaker 11: ran over that sign. He's like, I didn't run over

5893
04:53:09,919 --> 04:53:13,919
Speaker 11: a sign. I'm like, dude, you have the damage you're

5894
04:53:13,919 --> 04:53:17,640
Speaker 11: on your car? Yeah, And I'm telling him that. He

5895
04:53:17,800 --> 04:53:21,480
Speaker 11: reaches into the back seat and pulls out no more

5896
04:53:21,520 --> 04:53:25,320
Speaker 11: than three month old baby okay, And there is no

5897
04:53:25,440 --> 04:53:30,200
Speaker 11: way this child was even strapped in whatsoever. I asked

5898
04:53:30,240 --> 04:53:32,000
Speaker 11: him him, like, is the baby okay? Are you okay?

5899
04:53:32,320 --> 04:53:35,800
Speaker 11: And he starts responding yeah, no, no, we're fine, We're fine.

5900
04:53:36,800 --> 04:53:42,600
Speaker 11: And I noticed that this man is absolutely hammered, absolutely hammered.

5901
04:53:43,200 --> 04:53:47,680
Speaker 11: I asked him if he's drunk, and he like instantly

5902
04:53:47,800 --> 04:53:51,239
Speaker 11: forgets how to speak English. So we can't get anywhere

5903
04:53:51,280 --> 04:53:56,520
Speaker 11: with him from there. My friends come running over. I

5904
04:53:56,640 --> 04:53:58,400
Speaker 11: tell them because the car is still running. I tell them.

5905
04:53:58,400 --> 04:54:00,440
Speaker 11: I'm like, hey, this dude's drunk. There's baby in the car.

5906
04:54:00,960 --> 04:54:03,759
Speaker 11: My friend comes flying over, takes keys out of the car.

5907
04:54:04,520 --> 04:54:05,960
Speaker 11: I keep the guys from getting into the car.

5908
04:54:06,080 --> 04:54:09,520
Speaker 2: The guys O, your friend stole the keys of the

5909
04:54:09,600 --> 04:54:11,200
Speaker 2: guy that crashed and had the baby.

5910
04:54:13,160 --> 04:54:16,920
Speaker 11: Yes, because the keys are still the ignition. Yeah, man, yeah,

5911
04:54:17,919 --> 04:54:20,400
Speaker 11: So he gets in between him and the driver's seat.

5912
04:54:20,520 --> 04:54:24,320
Speaker 11: The guy starts like body checking him while holding his child,

5913
04:54:25,080 --> 04:54:27,920
Speaker 11: trying to get into the car. We finally get the

5914
04:54:28,000 --> 04:54:31,160
Speaker 11: car shut and walked up. He starts asking us, what's

5915
04:54:31,200 --> 04:54:32,720
Speaker 11: the problem. What's the problem. I don't have a problem

5916
04:54:32,759 --> 04:54:33,919
Speaker 11: with you. I don't have a problem with you. Look

5917
04:54:33,919 --> 04:54:35,440
Speaker 11: at him like, I've got a problem with you. Dude,

5918
04:54:35,680 --> 04:54:41,480
Speaker 11: you're driving drunk with a child. Yeah, And he starts

5919
04:54:41,520 --> 04:54:43,640
Speaker 11: cussing us out and everything, and he decides he's gonna,

5920
04:54:43,800 --> 04:54:45,560
Speaker 11: you know, just turn around and go home. Well, we've

5921
04:54:45,560 --> 04:54:48,200
Speaker 11: already called the cops on him, and we need to

5922
04:54:48,240 --> 04:54:49,680
Speaker 11: know where he's going. We need to make sure this

5923
04:54:49,840 --> 04:54:55,000
Speaker 11: child is face because this guy is done like he's lammed.

5924
04:54:55,640 --> 04:54:59,680
Speaker 11: And he starts walking off and I'm like, there' anybody

5925
04:54:59,720 --> 04:55:03,640
Speaker 11: gonna follow him well with the baby, with the baby,

5926
04:55:04,360 --> 04:55:06,640
Speaker 11: and it's just me and three other guys, and like

5927
04:55:06,720 --> 04:55:08,720
Speaker 11: all the guys start looking at each other like, well,

5928
04:55:08,720 --> 04:55:10,400
Speaker 11: I'm not going to follow him, Like fuck it, I'll

5929
04:55:10,440 --> 04:55:18,400
Speaker 11: follow him. Then he turns around and he starts cussing

5930
04:55:18,440 --> 04:55:19,840
Speaker 11: me out and everything, calling.

5931
04:55:19,640 --> 04:55:24,080
Speaker 1: Me in englisher or in both.

5932
04:55:24,480 --> 04:55:27,560
Speaker 2: Okay, so he does speak a little bit of English

5933
04:55:27,720 --> 04:55:29,759
Speaker 2: enough to enough to cuss you out.

5934
04:55:29,880 --> 04:55:33,080
Speaker 1: He was earlier. Initially he was like talking to you

5935
04:55:33,240 --> 04:55:35,320
Speaker 1: in English, and then when you asked, he's drunk. That's

5936
04:55:35,360 --> 04:55:38,480
Speaker 1: when he stopped in English, exactly right, okay.

5937
04:55:40,440 --> 04:55:45,240
Speaker 11: And he starts calling to F and B and and

5938
04:55:46,240 --> 04:55:48,320
Speaker 11: I just look at him and I'm like, I know, well,

5939
04:55:48,360 --> 04:55:51,600
Speaker 11: apparently that was the wrong answer, because he just starts

5940
04:55:51,640 --> 04:55:54,000
Speaker 11: attacking me. He starts kicking me while holding his child

5941
04:55:54,320 --> 04:55:58,000
Speaker 11: with baby in the hand, with his baby in his hand, yes,

5942
04:56:01,120 --> 04:56:03,520
Speaker 11: I tell him, I'm like, dude, don't do this with

5943
04:56:03,600 --> 04:56:08,280
Speaker 11: your kid. He starts kicking me even more, and he

5944
04:56:08,440 --> 04:56:12,320
Speaker 11: then turns and places the baby in between me and

5945
04:56:12,520 --> 04:56:15,800
Speaker 11: him and then goes to swing at me with his

5946
04:56:16,000 --> 04:56:19,320
Speaker 11: free hand, and so I grab his arms. He's swinging

5947
04:56:19,360 --> 04:56:21,800
Speaker 11: at me, I bring it around his back, put my

5948
04:56:22,000 --> 04:56:25,840
Speaker 11: hand around over his shoulder and his neck. And he

5949
04:56:25,919 --> 04:56:27,760
Speaker 11: did the one and only thing that he should have

5950
04:56:27,840 --> 04:56:32,960
Speaker 11: done to begin with, which is he ends up handing

5951
04:56:33,080 --> 04:56:36,680
Speaker 11: his baby off to my friend, and I end up

5952
04:56:36,720 --> 04:56:40,240
Speaker 11: taking him down to the ground, and he and I

5953
04:56:40,320 --> 04:56:42,680
Speaker 11: are going back and forth because he is trying to

5954
04:56:42,919 --> 04:56:46,600
Speaker 11: bite me, he's got my hair. He is trying to

5955
04:56:46,720 --> 04:56:48,720
Speaker 11: kick me and punch me in the head.

5956
04:56:48,880 --> 04:56:51,800
Speaker 2: And where is the baby as you guys are rolling

5957
04:56:51,800 --> 04:56:54,360
Speaker 2: around on the floor to the friend. Okay, so if

5958
04:56:54,360 --> 04:56:56,560
Speaker 2: a friend has the baby, is the friend just watching

5959
04:56:56,919 --> 04:56:58,320
Speaker 2: or has a friend left with the baby?

5960
04:57:00,160 --> 04:57:03,360
Speaker 11: He's standing there watching My other two friends, well one

5961
04:57:04,160 --> 04:57:07,280
Speaker 11: my other friend and my boyfriend are kind of standing.

5962
04:57:07,320 --> 04:57:09,800
Speaker 11: They're like, because this all happens so fast, they're just

5963
04:57:09,880 --> 04:57:15,120
Speaker 11: kind of like, what's going on. Basically, my boyfriend runs over,

5964
04:57:15,400 --> 04:57:18,480
Speaker 11: jumps into it, helps me hold this guy down because

5965
04:57:18,560 --> 04:57:22,600
Speaker 11: as anybody who's ever been in a drunken fight, you know,

5966
04:57:22,640 --> 04:57:27,200
Speaker 11: there is no strength like drunk strengths. Like, yeah, my

5967
04:57:27,360 --> 04:57:30,600
Speaker 11: other friend finally comes over and ends up holding him

5968
04:57:30,640 --> 04:57:34,680
Speaker 11: down as well, and finally get my hair out of

5969
04:57:34,759 --> 04:57:38,920
Speaker 11: his grasp and whatnot. Those two start wrestling around with

5970
04:57:39,000 --> 04:57:40,759
Speaker 11: him a little bit. I need to help them out,

5971
04:57:40,759 --> 04:57:41,720
Speaker 11: so I jump back in.

5972
04:57:42,480 --> 04:57:47,160
Speaker 2: So all three of you guys are fighting this drunk

5973
04:57:47,320 --> 04:57:50,520
Speaker 2: dude who crashed into you, and there is now his

5974
04:57:50,800 --> 04:57:53,120
Speaker 2: baby being held by one of your other friends. As

5975
04:57:53,200 --> 04:57:56,600
Speaker 2: all of you guys are on the floor tossle, Excellen

5976
04:57:56,919 --> 04:57:57,680
Speaker 2: and Joscelyn.

5977
04:57:58,560 --> 04:58:03,880
Speaker 11: Yes, we all end up getting free of him again.

5978
04:58:04,000 --> 04:58:06,600
Speaker 11: At one point he stands up and gets ready to

5979
04:58:06,640 --> 04:58:08,840
Speaker 11: try and go after my boyfriend, and that's when I

5980
04:58:08,880 --> 04:58:10,800
Speaker 11: grab the back of his shirt and drop kick him

5981
04:58:10,800 --> 04:58:14,520
Speaker 11: in the face and then end up taking him back

5982
04:58:14,560 --> 04:58:17,360
Speaker 11: down to the ground. He again grabs hold of my

5983
04:58:17,480 --> 04:58:19,520
Speaker 11: hair and starts trying to kick me in the head.

5984
04:58:20,520 --> 04:58:24,759
Speaker 2: And my god, Rachel the axe hatchet, you really live

5985
04:58:24,880 --> 04:58:29,360
Speaker 2: up to your name, certified bad ass. So, like, how

5986
04:58:29,440 --> 04:58:32,200
Speaker 2: do how does this tossling and jostle end?

5987
04:58:32,320 --> 04:58:32,360
Speaker 4: Like?

5988
04:58:32,440 --> 04:58:32,880
Speaker 2: Where does it?

5989
04:58:33,240 --> 04:58:33,280
Speaker 8: Like?

5990
04:58:33,480 --> 04:58:35,440
Speaker 2: Like, how does how you wrap up?

5991
04:58:37,040 --> 04:58:40,440
Speaker 11: The baby? Has then again then passed to another version

5992
04:58:40,480 --> 04:58:42,719
Speaker 11: one of the other friends that was in the original scuffle,

5993
04:58:43,440 --> 04:58:48,399
Speaker 11: And then I finally get released from the whole thing.

5994
04:58:48,560 --> 04:58:51,680
Speaker 11: I call the cops again, telling them we need them now.

5995
04:58:52,400 --> 04:58:55,239
Speaker 11: Baby didn't get handed off to me. Now we've got

5996
04:58:55,320 --> 04:58:58,080
Speaker 11: all three guys trying to hold this guy down. My

5997
04:58:58,280 --> 04:59:00,759
Speaker 11: other neighbor comes out. We hand the baby off to her.

5998
04:59:01,040 --> 04:59:08,720
Speaker 11: So the baby's just getting handed everywhere, and finally the

5999
04:59:08,800 --> 04:59:12,840
Speaker 11: cops show up. My girlfriend is out front watching our kids.

6000
04:59:12,960 --> 04:59:16,320
Speaker 11: She's trying to direct them, you know where to go,

6001
04:59:16,880 --> 04:59:19,560
Speaker 11: and she tells them to go directly into the specific

6002
04:59:19,640 --> 04:59:22,160
Speaker 11: parking lot and they drive right past it. The second

6003
04:59:22,240 --> 04:59:25,400
Speaker 11: cop car finally shows up. It's this teeny time. He

6004
04:59:25,480 --> 04:59:30,000
Speaker 11: can't be more than four to eleven. Cop comes flying

6005
04:59:30,160 --> 04:59:34,759
Speaker 11: in and gets him in a handcuff, starts naming sart.

6006
04:59:34,800 --> 04:59:37,240
Speaker 11: Do you want to telling me? Keep trying to bite me?

6007
04:59:37,320 --> 04:59:42,880
Speaker 11: I swear to God. And finally the other cops get there.

6008
04:59:43,360 --> 04:59:48,720
Speaker 11: They have to back their vehicle up because he is

6009
04:59:48,880 --> 04:59:54,120
Speaker 11: so violent that they cannot pick him up safely to

6010
04:59:54,759 --> 04:59:56,680
Speaker 11: take him to a car. They had to bring the

6011
04:59:56,720 --> 05:00:01,360
Speaker 11: car to him to pick the win knows out. He's

6012
05:00:01,640 --> 05:00:05,720
Speaker 11: trying to kick and punch anything that he can while

6013
05:00:05,840 --> 05:00:11,520
Speaker 11: in there. Meanwhile, meanwhile the wife finally shows up.

6014
05:00:13,040 --> 05:00:14,080
Speaker 1: His wife.

6015
05:00:15,400 --> 05:00:19,079
Speaker 11: Finally shows up, and that's when the paramedics are checking

6016
05:00:19,120 --> 05:00:29,040
Speaker 11: out the baby. Everybody gets home okay, but the detectives

6017
05:00:29,080 --> 05:00:30,920
Speaker 11: called me the next day and told me that he

6018
05:00:31,120 --> 05:00:37,600
Speaker 11: was being charged with destruction of private property, destruction of

6019
05:00:37,800 --> 05:00:44,920
Speaker 11: city property, vandalism, drunk driving because he wasn't just like

6020
05:00:45,040 --> 05:00:48,640
Speaker 11: drunk driving. He was drinking and driving. They like grab

6021
05:00:48,720 --> 05:00:50,160
Speaker 11: all the empties out of the car.

6022
05:00:51,200 --> 05:00:53,840
Speaker 2: He is getting charges on charges right now.

6023
05:00:55,080 --> 05:01:02,840
Speaker 11: Assault, assault on a police officer, resisting arrest, and come

6024
05:01:02,919 --> 05:01:04,720
Speaker 11: to find out, like on top of all that, and

6025
05:01:04,800 --> 05:01:06,399
Speaker 11: I know that's not all the charges. I can't remember

6026
05:01:06,440 --> 05:01:09,600
Speaker 11: all them right now. And the whole time, I'm like

6027
05:01:10,080 --> 05:01:13,079
Speaker 11: I'm literally wrestling around this guy. I'm just sitting here

6028
05:01:13,160 --> 05:01:17,800
Speaker 11: like praying, you know, please don't be illegal.

6029
05:01:18,240 --> 05:01:19,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, And it.

6030
05:01:19,800 --> 05:01:28,080
Speaker 11: Turns out he has warrants with immigration h so he

6031
05:01:28,480 --> 05:01:36,480
Speaker 11: is absolutely going to be deported. And like all I

6032
05:01:36,560 --> 05:01:40,800
Speaker 11: wanted to do is keep that baby safe and whatnot,

6033
05:01:40,880 --> 05:01:43,320
Speaker 11: and I like blew up this whole family.

6034
05:01:44,680 --> 05:01:49,919
Speaker 2: Honest, the baby sounds better off without him, actually, I mean,

6035
05:01:50,040 --> 05:01:52,759
Speaker 2: like if he's putting down the baby in the middle

6036
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Speaker 2: of a fight, or like kicking you, I mean driving drunk,

6037
05:01:57,680 --> 05:02:00,600
Speaker 2: kicking you while holding a baby, getting into like a

6038
05:02:00,720 --> 05:02:04,920
Speaker 2: whole out brawl with a baby. I mean, I really

6039
05:02:05,040 --> 05:02:10,320
Speaker 2: feel like he's better off without. I mean, but most

6040
05:02:10,480 --> 05:02:13,200
Speaker 2: likely it's an abusive relationship if he's acting that violent

6041
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Speaker 2: with a stranger.

6042
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Speaker 11: Funny is my neighbor and my friend both asked me

6043
05:02:20,320 --> 05:02:25,040
Speaker 11: if I saw a mark under the wife's eye, which

6044
05:02:25,080 --> 05:02:27,720
Speaker 11: I didn't see because by that time, by the time

6045
05:02:27,759 --> 05:02:29,879
Speaker 11: I actually got to see her, it was really dark outside,

6046
05:02:30,640 --> 05:02:32,640
Speaker 11: and they both think that they saw a black eye.

6047
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Speaker 2: Yeah, honestly, with how he's acting, I would not be surprised.

6048
05:02:37,640 --> 05:02:41,239
Speaker 2: I think, like, not the asshole at all forgetting this guy.

6049
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Speaker 2: The guy deported, He does not sound that he was.

6050
05:02:44,440 --> 05:02:47,800
Speaker 2: He's definitely not good for the child, definitely not good

6051
05:02:47,919 --> 05:02:48,640
Speaker 2: for the wife.

6052
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Speaker 5: And deport Hi. Yeah a guy, Yeah, behaving badly with

6053
05:02:53,880 --> 05:02:56,000
Speaker 5: a baby and endangering a child, and you reacted.

6054
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Speaker 2: I mean you're basically a hero. A hero literally w

6055
05:03:00,640 --> 05:03:04,320
Speaker 2: is in the chat for Rachel, I mean, oh, my goodness,

6056
05:03:04,600 --> 05:03:07,720
Speaker 2: bad ass or to the max. And also, thank you

6057
05:03:07,960 --> 05:03:10,800
Speaker 2: so much for being so active at the chat call again.

6058
05:03:10,919 --> 05:03:13,160
Speaker 2: You are a complete badass and live up to the name.

6059
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Speaker 11: Thank you anything, family, Thank you Rachel.

6060
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Speaker 2: Well, thank you so much for calling in, and thank

6061
05:03:22,680 --> 05:03:25,400
Speaker 2: you for closing out the stream were your awesome story.

6062
05:03:26,960 --> 05:03:28,960
Speaker 11: Thank you guys so much. I love you guys.

6063
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Speaker 2: Rachel Rachel, Oh my goodness, there's I mean, this is

6064
05:03:39,360 --> 05:03:44,160
Speaker 2: like the best closing closing we could ask for what

6065
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Speaker 2: a certain goodness?

6066
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Speaker 1: But also how like, how like sweet of her to

6067
05:03:48,640 --> 05:03:50,880
Speaker 1: like have the empathy to think about that, you know

6068
05:03:50,880 --> 05:03:53,880
Speaker 1: what I mean, like just just handled it so perfectly

6069
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Speaker 1: all around. Damn.

6070
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Speaker 2: Also, we had some we had some donations come in

6071
05:04:00,520 --> 05:04:03,360
Speaker 2: before we wrap up this stream, So bubbles, five bucks,

6072
05:04:03,400 --> 05:04:06,440
Speaker 2: I want Sophia. I want to make Sophia a worm crown.

6073
05:04:06,880 --> 05:04:08,000
Speaker 2: Do you guys have a po box?

6074
05:04:08,080 --> 05:04:10,560
Speaker 5: I think we did read that one, but I would

6075
05:04:10,600 --> 05:04:11,440
Speaker 5: love a worm crown.

6076
05:04:11,800 --> 05:04:16,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, And then shout out Rhea Skits Skits Paniak for

6077
05:04:16,640 --> 05:04:20,200
Speaker 2: the three bucks ain't much, but I love y'all. Every

6078
05:04:20,240 --> 05:04:23,440
Speaker 2: bit counts right, and shout out Caitlin Bryant for the

6079
05:04:23,560 --> 05:04:26,400
Speaker 2: twenty dollars. Last story was so sad but so happy

6080
05:04:26,680 --> 05:04:29,360
Speaker 2: to have you guys getting me through this rough day

6081
05:04:29,360 --> 05:04:32,840
Speaker 2: of work. Long nights aren't as long listening to you

6082
05:04:33,280 --> 05:04:35,199
Speaker 2: love you all. And I think that was a reference

6083
05:04:35,320 --> 05:04:38,160
Speaker 2: to the Cult story story, which, yeah, it seems like

6084
05:04:38,200 --> 05:04:38,880
Speaker 2: it ended well.

6085
05:04:38,840 --> 05:04:41,640
Speaker 1: For op but not so great for the steps.

6086
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Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, Well, thank you everyone for such an

6087
05:04:44,520 --> 05:04:50,640
Speaker 2: amazing stream. This was incredible. Kirsten. Will have to call

6088
05:04:50,759 --> 05:04:55,840
Speaker 2: you next time, yes, and and get your story. Riley,

6089
05:04:55,880 --> 05:04:59,400
Speaker 2: I just make a note of that. But if you

6090
05:04:59,600 --> 05:05:02,040
Speaker 2: love also, if you haven't been already part of the

6091
05:05:02,120 --> 05:05:03,720
Speaker 2: Mittle Sillies, make sure to be a part of the

6092
05:05:03,759 --> 05:05:06,399
Speaker 2: Little Sillies. Ivy Bean, thanks for the five bucks. If

6093
05:05:06,440 --> 05:05:08,440
Speaker 2: you like this bit, oh wow, you're you're doing our

6094
05:05:08,520 --> 05:05:11,360
Speaker 2: send up John, if you want to do the honors U,

6095
05:05:11,720 --> 05:05:14,200
Speaker 2: if I just forgot, if you love us.

6096
05:05:14,280 --> 05:05:16,320
Speaker 1: If you love us, make sure to subscribe.

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Speaker 11: We