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Speaker 1: And what they hold for expecting my boyfriend to pay

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Speaker 1: I'm dune because he's a man, You sexist piece of crap.

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Speaker 1: Lee and guys join us every week day and three

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Speaker 2: What are you doing?

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Speaker 1: Housing Issues says this is a doozy. I've been dating

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Speaker 1: I should say now that I, twenty four female, don't

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Speaker 1: so basically they both will never enter a like marriage

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Speaker 1: type status. Legally, common law marriage is so you can

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Speaker 1: they're not married. Okay, if you're a couple like me

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Speaker 1: and Naima, if we got a common law marriage, we

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Speaker 2: Huh okay.

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Speaker 1: So still we want to take things a bit further,

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Speaker 1: and we're talking about Josh and his two daughters moving

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Speaker 1: in with me. I own a three bed, two bath

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Speaker 1: My mortgage is one k a month and Josh's rent

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Speaker 1: is one point four k a month. Dude, op is up,

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Speaker 1: three bed, two bath, one grand a month.

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Speaker 2: Let's go in a nice area.

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Speaker 1: It was important to me that we would have everything

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Speaker 2: I figured it would be.

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Speaker 1: Unreasonable for Josh to expect to just live with me

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Speaker 1: So I suggested that Josh pays seven hundred dollars a

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Speaker 3: That's great, and he has a kid. That's awesome.

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Speaker 2: Two kids.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, wow, that's so nice. Right, Literally his rent gets

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he's bringing three people into the equation and only

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Speaker 3: Yeah, seven hundred makes sense, right, Yeah, yeah, yeah, take

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Speaker 1: I would cover the cost of any home repairs, internet, garbage,

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Speaker 1: I don't mind splitting since that would be about what

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Speaker 1: I'm currently paying, I predict, and since I meal prep

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Speaker 1: Josh was very unhappy. What and since it's my house

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Speaker 1: he shouldn't have to pay rent and that we should

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Speaker 2: I told him.

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Speaker 1: I told him he was welcome to buy his own

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Speaker 1: because rent prices have skyrocketed, and now two bedrooms now

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Speaker 1: I'm happy to have romance and companionship, but shared assets

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Speaker 3: Right, Let's get the white board. So mortgage is one

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Speaker 3: What would be like two point fifty for the house?

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Speaker 3: Maybe three hundred, Yeah, I'll say three hundred to be

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Speaker 3: saved three hundred. Okay, okay, okay, So so she's paying

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Speaker 3: So he's getting a steal out of this, paying seven

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Speaker 1: To fifty exactly, it's like fifteen hundred total for everything,

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Speaker 1: and then he's paying seven hundred seven hundred, which means

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Speaker 1: he pays eight hundred. He pays eight hundred, so she pays

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Speaker 1: eight hundred. But our calculations, this is Opie and the boyfriend.

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Speaker 2: OPI is still paying more.

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Speaker 1: Yes in this Now these aren't exact numbers here, so

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and if he's upset about the mortgage, say pay

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Speaker 3: five hundred, but then split the other utilities.

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Speaker 1: Dude to me, I think most of these situations like

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Speaker 2: They would both roughly pay the same did we get?

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Speaker 3: And it's been a year they've only been together, a

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Speaker 1: He's letting three new people into her home. She's letting

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Speaker 1: that like they both don't want to remarry, and she

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Speaker 1: know so, yeah, this is crazy, Like this is a

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I take this little bro.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Opie is probably cutting what she pays in half.

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Speaker 1: Both of them are are taking their expenses and cutting

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there is. Let's get into it. So bit boo

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Speaker 1: Oka Cram the second says, my wife and I had

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Speaker 2: What, we worked it out.

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Speaker 1: So I was still paying for bills and my child

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Speaker 1: sport because my kid isn't her responsibility. Literally, literally seven

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Speaker 1: I should one hundred percent take care of my kid. Actually,

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Speaker 1: Maybe maybe some people, some single moms are probably like

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Speaker 2: Maybe they think parents. A lot of people do.

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Speaker 1: So like, OPE always comes up, has consistently given a

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Speaker 1: Feminist man lover says, I had a guy do this

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Speaker 2: That is the question. That is the question that I

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Speaker 1: You want to give us an update, guys, we have

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Speaker 1: female daughter. Oh yeah, that's true. We're gonna finish out

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Speaker 1: But basically, tldr op has owns a house, three bedroom,

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Speaker 1: It's a great scenario. The boyfriend moving in is like, no,

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Speaker 1: you already own the house, like I want you to

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Speaker 1: like cover all the household expenses, like as you have.

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Speaker 2: Been number with us moving in crazy. This is the numbers.

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Speaker 2: It's a oh well you got no, this is we have.

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Speaker 1: We estimated these a thousand, uh for rent, mortgage, three hundred,

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Speaker 2: So it's so so Opie's having to pay more. Possibly

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Speaker 1: But there's an end and update. So I showed Josh

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Speaker 3: That's the other side. That's the other side.

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Speaker 1: Then, yeah, Like he is getting deeper in a relationship

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Speaker 1: Let's keep this relationship going when there's a clear misalignment,

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Speaker 2: Somebody financially on the same page, and you're not thinking

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Speaker 2: I don't think the expectator, like you can't put that

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Speaker 1: I mean it is tough too because on the flip

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Speaker 1: But they're talking about moving in together too, So it's like, yeah.

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Speaker 2: But after what you're saying, after one year of dating

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying that, but Riley, you're making one hundred

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Speaker 2: Are you? Like?

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Speaker 1: No, I am not going to.

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Speaker 2: Wait, who's making one hundred and twenty cats.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm kind of confused. First off, what kind of

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Speaker 2: House and the kids.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and the kids. I would be giving emotional you know,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well you're already in if you're inn Op's position,

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Speaker 3: Also, what kind of person is this because he's very

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it seems like the boyfriend is kind of coasting. O.

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Speaker 2: Wait to be clear, OPI is the girlfriend, the boyfriend

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Speaker 2: is with the kids, yes, and OP owns the house yes, okay,

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Speaker 2: I mean after only after a year, like expecting payment

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Speaker 1: That's it's unacceptable, but okay, Like where would he be

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Speaker 2: He's paying what like more rent than he would be

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Speaker 3: Oh Sam, he was paying fourteen hundred dollars a month

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Speaker 2: He's saving six hundred dollars. Yes, yes, she is literally

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Speaker 1: His rent was like he was paying fourteen hundred, making

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Speaker 2: That's crazy. Damn, that's a shoestring. But with two.

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Speaker 2: And you know what John has taught me, the ways

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Speaker 1: At one point at my peak, eighty bucks a month,

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Speaker 2: Guys, that's all it took to feed you. That's all.

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Speaker 1: It took eighty eight dollars a month. There's one month

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Speaker 2: Go back to the struggle days, d.

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Speaker 1: Yes, right, but let's get back to the story too.

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Speaker 1: This is the struggle days right here in this story.

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Speaker 1: So just two hours later update, thank you read it?

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Speaker 1: Oh you one, and I'm glad I posted here. After

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Speaker 2: That's crazy owning a house at twenty four and one

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Speaker 1: Opie's a catch. I can do better than a broke

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Speaker 1: who thinks it's okay to mooch off me and scream

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Speaker 1: in my face when I tell him, no, Hope, your

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Speaker 1: next girlfriend is stupid enough to put up with you, Josh, No,

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Speaker 1: wonder your ex wife left?

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Speaker 2: Listen the knife?

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Speaker 1: Yeah ah, I.

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Speaker 2: Mean it wasn't to his or I guess maybe he's

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Speaker 2: just needs to know. I mean, like he can go

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Speaker 2: a sugarman. He go get a sugar moment. Does he

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Speaker 2: got it? Like that? Does he got that? But dunk

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Speaker 2: is his?

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Speaker 1: I mean, I mean he was able to walk down

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Speaker 2: K a year. That is true. Bro's probably got some game. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: he's probably piping.

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Speaker 1: So hit up those sugar mamas and and that's true,

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Speaker 1: that's true.

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Speaker 2: Hit up the sugar mamas.

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Speaker 1: He is in a relationship with the wrong person who

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Speaker 2: A few solid feet picks can't solve exactly.

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Speaker 3: There's only like one man in my mind that I

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Speaker 2: Dude, my dad at thirty was fucking goad It unbeatable.

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Speaker 1: And that's it for the story.

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Speaker 2: Wow a son. So yeah, dude, I think she made

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Speaker 3: The game is a burden.

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Speaker 2: The game is a burden.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes that seems to be the only thing that maybe

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Speaker 2: But damn, how are you doing, man, dude? Not great?

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Speaker 2: Not great. I went to you, you know, Andrew Callahan.

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Speaker 2: like freestyle rapping at this skate park that goes by

441
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Speaker 2: Uncle Pill And then there was like it was like

442
00:18:44,880 --> 00:18:47,560
Speaker 2: thirty minutes into the movie, they cut and guess what

443
00:18:47,760 --> 00:18:50,800
Speaker 2: this is vo Uncle Pill is in the building and

444
00:18:50,840 --> 00:18:53,240
Speaker 2: everyone's like Uncle Pill and it was somebody who was

445
00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:55,760
Speaker 2: introduced maybe like five minutes before, and so Uncle Pill

446
00:18:55,800 --> 00:18:58,760
Speaker 2: comes on and does like a rap like one of

447
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Speaker 2: his songs and all. Obviously I wanted to see. So

448
00:19:01,760 --> 00:19:04,520
Speaker 2: I got up on my chair and was like, oh,

449
00:19:04,680 --> 00:19:11,240
Speaker 2: goopo and I was quickly uh pushed off by a

450
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Speaker 2: security guard. As I was falling to the floor. I

451
00:19:14,880 --> 00:19:18,520
Speaker 2: rolled my ankle the worst I've ever rolled it. Honestly,

452
00:19:18,600 --> 00:19:20,879
Speaker 2: the worst I've ever rolled it. It was it was

453
00:19:20,880 --> 00:19:23,760
Speaker 2: pretty bad. Can we sue? I don't think we can sue.

454
00:19:23,880 --> 00:19:25,280
Speaker 2: It was more he was waving me off. I don't.

455
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Speaker 2: He didn't put hands on me. I was just being

456
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Speaker 2: able to. He's he's one with the force. But dude,

457
00:19:32,400 --> 00:19:35,200
Speaker 2: it's fat my ankle fat dude. Well the doc say,

458
00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:38,359
Speaker 2: doc said six week recovery. But I can walk in

459
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Speaker 2: like maybe like two weeks. You walked in here. Well

460
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Speaker 2: I hobbled.

461
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Speaker 3: Oh.

462
00:19:42,320 --> 00:19:44,280
Speaker 2: But I have a date tonight with a nurse, so

463
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Speaker 2: maybe she can give me a second opinion.

464
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Speaker 1: Dude, you're gonna be she'll give you second something.

465
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Speaker 2: Sloppy you guys going in there.

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Speaker 1: I mean a nurse, dude, you know.

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Speaker 3: Be a twist is if she like feet.

468
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Speaker 2: She like feet, dude, she's gonna be really upset with

469
00:20:02,200 --> 00:20:06,080
Speaker 2: my feet. It is. It looks like someone stapled a

470
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Speaker 2: softball to my ankle.

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Speaker 1: It's correct. I mean, dude, she's inert. Maybe she's into that.

472
00:20:11,520 --> 00:20:14,280
Speaker 2: Maybe she's maybe I'm the broken bird that she confess.

473
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Speaker 1: And dude, how many dudes have a softball just growing

474
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Speaker 1: out of their ankle?

475
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Speaker 2: Not many, not many now most are hardball, but you know,

476
00:20:22,440 --> 00:20:25,560
Speaker 2: some people like it's soft they guys. Come on. I

477
00:20:25,640 --> 00:20:29,000
Speaker 2: also have two other dates scheduled for this week and

478
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Speaker 2: another like two other ones in the coffer. Dude, you're

479
00:20:34,040 --> 00:20:36,720
Speaker 2: on a tear. I've never gone on dating apps before.

480
00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:40,960
Speaker 2: It's crazy. Wait wait, like never, like really I used to.

481
00:20:41,080 --> 00:20:42,359
Speaker 2: What I used to do is I used to just

482
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Speaker 2: like message people weird messages and then post conversations on Reddit.

483
00:20:46,400 --> 00:20:48,840
Speaker 2: Oh like I like like I would, I would, I

484
00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:52,040
Speaker 2: would tell people weird stories, yeah myself and just like

485
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Speaker 2: post o. Yeah. So I never actually like and that

486
00:20:55,520 --> 00:20:57,399
Speaker 2: was in like college, so like I never actually have

487
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Speaker 2: taken dating apps even like a little bit serious. That's

488
00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:03,720
Speaker 2: I never knew you like never really use them. I've

489
00:21:03,800 --> 00:21:07,240
Speaker 2: never yeah, like not not not with any intention. Also,

490
00:21:07,320 --> 00:21:09,639
Speaker 2: I think like the landscape has changed or maybe like

491
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Speaker 2: when with because I'm like now it's like like my

492
00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:15,800
Speaker 2: range is like between like twenty four and twenty eight. Yeah,

493
00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:19,320
Speaker 2: I think those people are looking for maybe something more serious,

494
00:21:19,359 --> 00:21:21,400
Speaker 2: and so we're down to meet up very quickly because

495
00:21:21,400 --> 00:21:24,160
Speaker 2: it's like I'm literally it's like I send two messages

496
00:21:24,160 --> 00:21:27,040
Speaker 2: on hinge and then two messages on my message and

497
00:21:27,080 --> 00:21:29,800
Speaker 2: then it's like it's happening. Yeah, it's wow, oh wow,

498
00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:32,200
Speaker 2: although none of them have actually happened, so maybe everyone

499
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Speaker 2: w well flake god. But the first one is eight

500
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Speaker 2: pm tonight, beck you there we go. I'll hobble on

501
00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:43,080
Speaker 2: in more content for us, Yes, that'll be interesting. This

502
00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:46,639
Speaker 2: is an episode from Deep within the Archives. Time for okop.

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Speaker 1: Relash am I the a hole for leaving a fake

504
00:21:52,200 --> 00:21:55,680
Speaker 1: positive pregnancy test in the bedroom to catch my husband's

505
00:21:55,680 --> 00:21:58,760
Speaker 1: mom snooping. You know that's uh not a good trick

506
00:21:58,800 --> 00:22:01,640
Speaker 1: to play, but uh, we'll it's a great trick to play. Ooh,

507
00:22:01,680 --> 00:22:03,359
Speaker 1: I like that trick plot twists. I think if you

508
00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:05,040
Speaker 1: want a little bit more positive in your life. But

509
00:22:05,040 --> 00:22:07,360
Speaker 1: those pregnancy tests everywhere. Let him snoop, let him see

510
00:22:07,400 --> 00:22:09,480
Speaker 1: the positivity. Oh yeah, and I'll be like, oh, we're

511
00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:11,400
Speaker 1: having a kid, Bammed. I know you're not having a kid.

512
00:22:11,440 --> 00:22:15,320
Speaker 1: You're going to jail. We're trespassing, let's go. My mother

513
00:22:15,359 --> 00:22:17,439
Speaker 1: in law moved in with us a month ago. I

514
00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:19,320
Speaker 1: began to notice my stuff in the bedroom.

515
00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:24,520
Speaker 2: Being touched, furniture, rearranged, stuff moved at, et cetera. I

516
00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:26,520
Speaker 2: felt like I was going crazy because my husband is

517
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Speaker 2: the only one who has access to the bedroom. Yeah

518
00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:32,359
Speaker 2: he does, and he doesn't really usually touch nor come

519
00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:35,600
Speaker 2: near my things, but you know, he comes near my thighs.

520
00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:39,760
Speaker 2: You know, I'm talking about seemen. You know. Let I

521
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Speaker 2: figure it out. What you figure out? It must be

522
00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:45,439
Speaker 2: his mother walking in snooping on my personal things. I

523
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Speaker 2: told my husband and he said his mom would never

524
00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:50,040
Speaker 2: I had a huge hunch, but I couldn't install a

525
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Speaker 2: camera in the bedroom to catch her in the act,

526
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Speaker 2: could it. So guess what I did, John, what'd she do?

527
00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:57,719
Speaker 2: I got one of those fake positive pregnancy tests. Ooh,

528
00:22:58,119 --> 00:23:01,880
Speaker 2: and I in the bedroom trash can. Kind of genius.

529
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Speaker 2: Note the trash can is placed near the corner closet.

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Speaker 2: Literally the next day, after I got to work, I

531
00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:11,600
Speaker 2: got tons of calls and texts from my in laws

532
00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:15,439
Speaker 2: congratulating me on my pregnancy. My husband came to my

533
00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:18,400
Speaker 2: workplace and was all worked up about it, asking since

534
00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:21,160
Speaker 2: when I was pregnant and why I didn't tell him.

535
00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:23,080
Speaker 2: I asked how he found out, and he said his

536
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Speaker 2: mom found the positive test in the trash can in

537
00:23:26,040 --> 00:23:29,640
Speaker 2: the bedroom. Sounds like she was snooping, snooping. I asked

538
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Speaker 2: if his answer just confirmed that she's been snooping in

539
00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:36,840
Speaker 2: the bedroom all along, and then he had the realization,

540
00:23:39,320 --> 00:23:43,080
Speaker 2: but demanded we stick to the bigger issue. I said,

541
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Speaker 2: guess what, big dog, There ain't no other big issue,

542
00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:50,640
Speaker 2: ain't no buns in his seven Nah, the positive test

543
00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:52,879
Speaker 2: was a fake and the whole thing was a ruse

544
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Speaker 2: done to expose my mother in law snooping.

545
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Speaker 1: He was not convinced. He had me taken actual test

546
00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:03,840
Speaker 1: right in front of him. Oh my god, turns out

547
00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:07,960
Speaker 1: I actually am pregnant. Kidding you got me?

548
00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:11,639
Speaker 2: And he was living, asking how I could lie about

549
00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:13,760
Speaker 2: such a thing and break his mom's heart since I

550
00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:17,199
Speaker 2: know very well she longs for children. Once again, I

551
00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:19,240
Speaker 2: got a lot of shit because of this from him.

552
00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:21,760
Speaker 2: His mom and family are now calling me a liar

553
00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:23,400
Speaker 2: and a manipulator.

554
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Speaker 1: They ho, you know, no, could you have picked a

555
00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:35,200
Speaker 1: different thing? Sure, I mean she probably should have picked

556
00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:38,120
Speaker 1: a different thing because she threw away a pregnancy test,

557
00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:42,240
Speaker 1: a fake pregnancy test. Yeah, but it's like someone shouldn't

558
00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:45,400
Speaker 1: go be going through anyway, Like that's that's the thing.

559
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Speaker 1: So it's like, also like what, I don't even I

560
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Speaker 1: can't even think of what else she could you could do?

561
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Speaker 1: Maybe no, she wouldn't pick up a note, don't snoof grandma.

562
00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:56,720
Speaker 2: Grandma, grandma, Please stop snooping, Get please out of here,

563
00:24:56,760 --> 00:24:57,440
Speaker 2: Get out of here.

564
00:24:58,359 --> 00:25:01,200
Speaker 1: My boyfriend and his lady friend pranked me by saying

565
00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:02,760
Speaker 1: he was arrested in.

566
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Speaker 4: Mexico, and I think he's cheating on me. Okay, Op read,

567
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Speaker 4: Oh my god, we're going so fast, John.

568
00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:17,200
Speaker 2: Speed, Oh my god. Where we're going.

569
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Speaker 4: We're going to story Feeling the story next up? John,

570
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Speaker 4: This is Okayop. I'm Samuel Daughter and I'm John John.

571
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Speaker 4: I heard you have a great story for us in

572
00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:29,520
Speaker 4: the Storyville. I think we just rolled into that one.

573
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Speaker 1: Alright, let's get attal to the metal babies, all gas,

574
00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:36,760
Speaker 1: no breaks, r fallen soldier did he die?

575
00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:37,640
Speaker 2: No?

576
00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:39,040
Speaker 1: No, his stopped doing that.

577
00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:42,760
Speaker 2: Channel were born in Channel five? That's right? Oh my god.

578
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:46,040
Speaker 1: My boyfriend and his lady friend pranked me by saying

579
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Speaker 1: he was arrested in.

580
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Speaker 2: Mexico and I think he's cheating on me. Oh my goodness.

581
00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:55,000
Speaker 2: Also terrible prank. That's a mean prank. It's not even funny. Yeah.

582
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:57,560
Speaker 2: Oh wait, is the prank the Mexico or the cheating

583
00:25:58,960 --> 00:25:59,960
Speaker 2: cheated on you? God?

584
00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:03,480
Speaker 1: Oh goodness, op gets right into it. I'll cut the

585
00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 1: b es, Yeah, cut it.

586
00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:05,280
Speaker 2: Oh be.

587
00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:09,159
Speaker 1: My boyfriend went to Mexico with a group of his friends.

588
00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:14,400
Speaker 2: Alone, alone, not with me. Was she not invited? Sad? Well?

589
00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:18,959
Speaker 1: I could not afford to do this trip due to university. Okay, sorry,

590
00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:23,119
Speaker 1: but I encouraged him to go and have fun on

591
00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:26,200
Speaker 1: this trip and suggested some spots that I have visited before.

592
00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:28,320
Speaker 2: Oh okay, that's nice. Starts out good. Yes.

593
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:32,320
Speaker 1: Up until the trip, everything seemed great. The same group

594
00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:35,600
Speaker 1: of friends going to Mexico I've met previously twice.

595
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Speaker 2: Cool.

596
00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:39,320
Speaker 1: They all spoke a different language, Russian, but I made

597
00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:40,840
Speaker 1: some decent acquaintances.

598
00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:43,440
Speaker 2: But I also.

599
00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:47,000
Speaker 1: Made some enemies enemies some.

600
00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:50,199
Speaker 2: Ops, those freaking comic Russians.

601
00:26:51,560 --> 00:26:54,520
Speaker 1: We're getting some Cold War beef after got back to

602
00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:57,360
Speaker 1: the nineteen eighties. Reagan era about to drop a nuke

603
00:26:57,440 --> 00:26:59,840
Speaker 1: on these not to be quite just kidding. We love

604
00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:03,800
Speaker 1: by the way, nah, as soon as they sponsor as

605
00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:08,440
Speaker 1: we love them, he Vladimir sponsor us. I will bend

606
00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:10,640
Speaker 1: to your will for money. Yes, that's on the right.

607
00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:13,360
Speaker 1: How big and tall you are? He looks so good

608
00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:17,360
Speaker 1: on a horse. To be quite frank, I have been

609
00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:19,720
Speaker 1: against this one girl in particular.

610
00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:22,320
Speaker 2: Be frank, op, Yeah, be frank.

611
00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:25,919
Speaker 1: She and her close click have been cold since I

612
00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:28,840
Speaker 1: showed up at the first party, like the Cold War?

613
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:32,960
Speaker 2: Am I right? Damn? He's gone? What a call that? Wow?

614
00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:38,040
Speaker 2: She has a crush on my man? How does she know? Uh?

615
00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:41,600
Speaker 1: From what I've witnessed her leaning on him, kisses on

616
00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:46,119
Speaker 1: the cheek at the bar, attempting to drag him away

617
00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:49,359
Speaker 1: from me to dance, and what he's told me. She

618
00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:51,840
Speaker 1: has a huge crush on him and it's created issues

619
00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:53,000
Speaker 1: in past relationships.

620
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:58,760
Speaker 2: Oh that is uh, that's rough, bro. Red flags, Red

621
00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:01,920
Speaker 2: flags may and also like the fact that the boyfriend

622
00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:04,200
Speaker 2: isn't shutting it down like that's that's also a red fun.

623
00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:06,480
Speaker 1: Exactly slights foreshadowing.

624
00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:11,960
Speaker 2: So I've had my guard up. Guys, I can imagine op.

625
00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:16,040
Speaker 1: As one would. Anyhow, tonight I received a FaceTime. It

626
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:20,840
Speaker 1: was the same girl, his lady friend and her bff

627
00:28:20,960 --> 00:28:26,240
Speaker 1: calling me from my boyfriend's phone. Oh, no, peculiar, saying

628
00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:29,360
Speaker 1: he was in jail with his friend in Mexico.

629
00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:32,400
Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's never a call you want to get. Yeah, dude,

630
00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:34,800
Speaker 2: Mexican prisons are not fun. Oh it doesn't sound a

631
00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:35,960
Speaker 2: lock in the bark. No.

632
00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:39,920
Speaker 1: I kept calling for one minute while internally flipping out,

633
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:43,160
Speaker 1: and then my boyfriend appeared on the phone.

634
00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:44,880
Speaker 2: What thought you were in jail? Bro?

635
00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:51,040
Speaker 1: Maybe it's his one call, his one FaceTime. You are

636
00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:53,200
Speaker 1: allowed one FaceTime, no emojis.

637
00:28:56,800 --> 00:28:57,880
Speaker 2: See.

638
00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:01,640
Speaker 1: Then he told me it was a joke, but that

639
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:04,120
Speaker 1: his friend actually went to jail without him.

640
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:06,200
Speaker 2: Right, So his friend actually did go to his friend

641
00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:09,959
Speaker 2: actually is in jail. Wait, that's like a funny twist. Actually,

642
00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:12,960
Speaker 2: what are we doing here? What are we doing here? Guys?

643
00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:19,440
Speaker 2: What just meet on the girlfriends? Like? This is mean

644
00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:20,480
Speaker 2: on everyone? Now.

645
00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:22,480
Speaker 1: I was very upset by this. I told him he

646
00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:24,960
Speaker 1: made me feel hurt and disappointed in him after he

647
00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:29,920
Speaker 1: promised me no drama and that his lady friend wouldn't

648
00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:30,960
Speaker 1: be involved in our lives.

649
00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:34,680
Speaker 2: Sounds like she's getting pretty involved in this Mexico trip

650
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:38,000
Speaker 2: in this handcuffs, you know, the handcuffs coming out in

651
00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:43,600
Speaker 2: the jail to the bad bound. Wow.

652
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:48,600
Speaker 1: He then told me I was attacking his character. He

653
00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:51,760
Speaker 1: said I should never challenge him like this and insult

654
00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:56,560
Speaker 1: his character. Oh my goodness, how could you his character's character.

655
00:29:57,120 --> 00:30:05,200
Speaker 2: It's been assassinated man, Man's a freaking character. Sure, puppet, yeah, pulpit.

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Speaker 1: I told him I was disappointed in him and I

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Speaker 1: thought he would make better choices. He took this as disrespect.

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Speaker 2: I'm imagining this in a Russian accent. That's a Russian accent.

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Speaker 1: I can't believe you believe they're like Vladimir Assassin press.

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Speaker 2: How good you? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Fine?

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Speaker 2: Now?

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Speaker 1: Was I really being disrespectful?

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Speaker 2: Would you personally put up with this? I would? Audience.

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Speaker 2: Man's been kicked to the curb, kick to the curbs?

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Speaker 2: This three press in Russia? Oh hello, you have come.

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Speaker 1: You have written to die to the sequel of Vladimir's Rage.

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Speaker 1: Vladimir's rage, Ladmir's rage, Dude, that's a good name for

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Speaker 1: an energy ch that is Vladimir, right, bro, Vladimir's Red Rage.

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Speaker 1: And it's like cherry flavored. Maybe we should just like

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Speaker 1: we still do, Okayop, But basically it's all upfront for

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Speaker 1: a Russian like red bull.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. And it's like we make it in Russia, so

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Speaker 2: we can add all sorts of crazy chemicals to it,

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Speaker 2: like steroids.

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Speaker 1: Oh for sure. And what's addictive? What's the math? Math

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Speaker 1: is addictive? Right?

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Speaker 2: Math?

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Speaker 1: Liquid math? Liquid math has to be crazy? Yeah, dude, sorry,

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Speaker 1: reject it right into your eyeball. God, we're about to

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Speaker 1: make some money off of you, guys. Op goes on

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Speaker 1: to say, if this really is disrespect, then I have

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Speaker 1: a lot to learn in which I would do so willingly.

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Speaker 2: So please let me know. Wow, I love like the

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Speaker 2: openness of growth, growth mindset, Op, let's see it.

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Speaker 1: Yes, and OPI has an update, an.

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Speaker 2: Update, so so they basically they pranked them, frank them,

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Speaker 2: Yes and uh, and then we don't really have a

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Speaker 2: resolution until update now, ok, I read your comments and

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Speaker 2: I agree.

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Speaker 1: Last night, he continued to say he wouldn't let any

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Speaker 1: woman challenge him or disrespect him like I was apparently doing.

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Speaker 2: Wow, what a guy sounds like? This lady friend is

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Speaker 2: whispering in this boyfriend's ear. Sweet nothing.

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Speaker 1: I told him I won't accept this is I need

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Speaker 1: to be able to discuss how I feel. I told him,

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Speaker 1: he is continuing to flip this on me, and I

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Speaker 1: find it very sad he can't just apologize or communicate

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Speaker 1: with me properly.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, apologize, b Yeah, at least communicate just the bro

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Speaker 2: spooch boom.

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Speaker 1: He said he can go really far and just stop

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Speaker 1: contacting me.

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Speaker 2: Wow. Whatever, he's looking for an excuse to break up

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Speaker 2: with her because he cheated on her.

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Speaker 1: I asked him to stop acting like this and understand

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Speaker 1: I am actually hurt over this, to which he said

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Speaker 1: he didn't care. I was still challenging him.

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Speaker 2: What a what a ding dong? What a ding dong?

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Speaker 1: God like? How Either you're immensely stupid or you're hiding something.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the old man has some secrets of his sleeve.

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Speaker 1: He hung up and wouldn't pick up the phone again,

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Speaker 1: so I blocked him on my phone every single other

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Speaker 1: app as well. I also removed the friend the lady friend.

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Speaker 1: He was on vacation with so he can be single

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Speaker 1: and come home to an empty place. I guess they

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Speaker 1: were living together.

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Speaker 2: Wow, they were living together. It seems so.

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Speaker 1: After the overwhelming response, I have made my decision. I've

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Speaker 1: had good sleep and time to calm down. I've realized

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Speaker 1: that this is not the man for me and not

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Speaker 1: someone I could ever marry. It's sound straight, sister, Come on,

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Speaker 1: tell him. It's sad to say. It's sad to say,

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Speaker 1: but it's best it happened now after a few months

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Speaker 1: versus a couple of years down the line. Thank you everyone.

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Speaker 1: I wish I could give you hugs. Smiley face who

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Speaker 1: roller coaster, roller coaster, We've been as roller coaster.

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Speaker 2: But oh he made the right decision.

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Speaker 1: Oh he made the right And I also love how

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Speaker 1: you know, like the people have right it spoke, she

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Speaker 1: listened to it. Actually, you know, had a very positive impact.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know that often that Reddit comments are leading

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Speaker 2: people towards good decisions. But in the case, I think

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Speaker 2: it's worked out. But you know, what's always a good decision.

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