WEBVTT - The Equals with Ed Sheeran 0:00:00.520 --> 0:00:07.600 From Hollywood. Thank you for listening to us with Ryan Seacrest. 0:00:09.560 --> 0:00:11.879 Bats gonna be opening up our jingle Bout presented by 0:00:11.880 --> 0:00:15.200 Capital One. It's one or two point seven kiss f M. 0:00:15.240 --> 0:00:17.200 That is kind of December three, and I've got your 0:00:17.200 --> 0:00:19.520 tickets again. In just a few minutes, we'll start this 0:00:19.560 --> 0:00:22.640 hour and we've got it for you every single hour here. 0:00:22.840 --> 0:00:25.400 Ed Shearon also will be at the show and Ed 0:00:25.680 --> 0:00:27.840 will join us in about an hour or so, right 0:00:27.840 --> 0:00:32.760 after seven o'clock. His album Equals is out now and 0:00:33.000 --> 0:00:35.360 he's written you Know First Times, which is a beautiful 0:00:35.400 --> 0:00:39.080 love song. The lyrics the first kiss, the first night, 0:00:39.159 --> 0:00:41.120 the first song that made you cry, the first drink 0:00:41.159 --> 0:00:44.080 red wine on a step in Brooklyn. I still feel 0:00:44.080 --> 0:00:46.800 the first fight and we both made it out alive, 0:00:47.120 --> 0:00:48.960 and I can't wait to make a million more first 0:00:49.000 --> 0:00:55.520 time time. That last line is just right. It just 0:00:55.560 --> 0:00:59.720 seems so normal and genuine. He also wrote a lullabye. 0:00:59.840 --> 0:01:15.480 This the lullaby Ed Shearon wrote this called Sandman hanging Out. 0:01:18.000 --> 0:01:21.800 I'm hanging out. It's a lullaby supposed to put somebody 0:01:21.800 --> 0:01:22.880 to sleep, but I don't want to stay up and 0:01:22.920 --> 0:01:26.240 watch that whole song. But that's not that's not knocking 0:01:26.280 --> 0:01:29.319 me out right, but it has that lullaby sound to 0:01:29.400 --> 0:01:33.600 it and the very very got that light sort of happy, 0:01:34.000 --> 0:01:37.240 you know, vibe to it. So we'll talk to Ed 0:01:37.360 --> 0:01:40.720 Shearon and just a little bit. That's very exciting. At 0:01:40.760 --> 0:01:45.360 a second date, update this morning, when you met Mr 0:01:45.400 --> 0:01:49.360 Everything on what? Then here we go? This is a 0:01:49.480 --> 0:01:56.680 story right that his new name now? Senor? Wait what 0:01:57.320 --> 0:02:00.800 Mr Mr All? Mr Everything Senior thought us? Why not? 0:02:01.840 --> 0:02:04.840 Um a second? They met on hands, bonded over the Dodgers, 0:02:05.400 --> 0:02:07.760 and they went out. Oh I thought they went out 0:02:07.760 --> 0:02:09.840 to brunch, but they were not a bunch. I think 0:02:09.840 --> 0:02:11.680 there might have been at r in one of those 0:02:12.200 --> 0:02:14.400 emails they went on a few times. They went on 0:02:14.480 --> 0:02:16.120 a bunch of times, I thought, I said, to a 0:02:16.160 --> 0:02:18.840 brunch anyway, Then I guess he goes out of town 0:02:18.919 --> 0:02:22.040 for a week or so. When we came back, nothing 0:02:22.360 --> 0:02:25.080 ice cold. So what happened? Why? Why? Why is it 0:02:25.120 --> 0:02:28.080 outside out of mind? Or is it absence makes our 0:02:28.120 --> 0:02:31.200 grow fonder? Could be either one of those. So we'll 0:02:31.240 --> 0:02:36.320 get to that in Oak Park this morning. Okay, Rionna 0:02:37.520 --> 0:02:42.640 is on the line. Ri own a good morning, Hi Ryan, 0:02:42.760 --> 0:02:48.799 it's Leona. Oh, Leona s r I O n n A. 0:02:49.360 --> 0:02:55.519 But Leona, actually it's l E N. Well I've never 0:02:55.520 --> 0:03:00.800 met a Riona so so but we'll keep that name 0:03:01.240 --> 0:03:06.520 for our list somewhere. But go ahead, thank you. Anyways, 0:03:06.639 --> 0:03:09.800 I'm calling because the other day I heard you guys 0:03:09.840 --> 0:03:17.560 talking about a sound a sonic logo. Yeah, okay, so 0:03:17.960 --> 0:03:20.560 you kind of played some of the kiss dounds and 0:03:21.520 --> 0:03:24.480 I heard that like boo boo, and I heard you 0:03:24.520 --> 0:03:26.800 even mention it, and I was just like, yes, Ryan, 0:03:27.720 --> 0:03:39.640 that sound that Do you know which one I'm talking about? Yes? Yes, 0:03:39.920 --> 0:03:44.520 that sound literally like reaches out to me as a 0:03:44.600 --> 0:03:48.640 kiss listener, and it says to me, you're listening to kiss. 0:03:48.800 --> 0:03:51.800 That's just automatically happen. So let me we need to 0:03:51.800 --> 0:03:54.880 isolate that and let's send that to Benny Blanc on 0:03:55.000 --> 0:03:57.160 having do a couple of versions of that, because that's 0:03:57.280 --> 0:04:03.440 you're right, do do do Do Do Do Do Do 0:04:03.440 --> 0:04:09.960 Do do do. I'm riffing. I'm riffing on it right right, Yeah, 0:04:10.920 --> 0:04:12.840 you think that after all these years of us working here, 0:04:12.840 --> 0:04:16.240 we could have figured that out. So here's the Netflix one. 0:04:17.000 --> 0:04:27.799 So then this is the one you're referring to, because 0:04:27.800 --> 0:04:32.240 meat chills there it is. That's it. Let's just give 0:04:32.279 --> 0:04:34.400 that to Betty nevn like go to town with that. 0:04:34.920 --> 0:04:38.880 We need words, no no, no, no no no no, 0:04:38.480 --> 0:04:41.600 it's no. It's stronger like this is like like that's 0:04:41.640 --> 0:04:44.480 strong no words, and then we can give the words 0:04:44.480 --> 0:04:47.560 like it would be like and I would say something 0:04:47.560 --> 0:04:54.480 like the morning hack is coming up. Yes, okayn, Thisney 0:04:54.520 --> 0:04:57.040 just got back. Can we be encouraging to each other? 0:04:59.200 --> 0:05:02.880 Thank you? Ver be welcome people to the show, you know, 0:05:02.960 --> 0:05:07.800 like I'll be there for you. You know, I like 0:05:07.920 --> 0:05:11.279 that too. Maybe we do two versions, so we have 0:05:11.400 --> 0:05:14.599 like our opening whatever, and then you have your little 0:05:14.720 --> 0:05:18.000 mini version of the sonic one with words. All right, well, 0:05:20.360 --> 0:05:22.800 thank you for calling with that. We appreciate the suggestion. 0:05:22.839 --> 0:05:31.800 You take good care you Yeah, all right, so I 0:05:31.800 --> 0:05:34.200 do like that too. That that is a it's a stamp. 0:05:34.360 --> 0:05:37.200 It's an audio stamp. Let's get to your morning hack 0:05:37.320 --> 0:05:41.200 and your quote of the day. This was posted in 0:05:41.240 --> 0:05:43.800 a Facebook group and went viral. The kids were home 0:05:43.800 --> 0:05:45.880 from school a few hours before the parents got home 0:05:45.920 --> 0:05:49.000 from work. The parents left them a note that said, quote, 0:05:49.080 --> 0:05:52.520 unload the dishwasher and take a pick, then walk the 0:05:52.560 --> 0:05:55.360 dog and take a pick. When you get the picks, 0:05:55.480 --> 0:05:59.240 will tell you where the Xbox power chord is. So 0:05:59.279 --> 0:06:03.080 basically they documented images of them doing all their chores 0:06:03.640 --> 0:06:09.200 and then they get you get your Xbox. Good back. 0:06:10.640 --> 0:06:13.720 That's really good. So the power chord was taken away, 0:06:13.760 --> 0:06:18.120 the Xbox lives there. Power chords taken away, and it's 0:06:18.120 --> 0:06:20.040 a really good trick. I would never thought of that. 0:06:21.920 --> 0:06:26.680 So documenting with pictures and then take away the plug 0:06:26.880 --> 0:06:29.600 the cord if you want, if you want to do 0:06:29.600 --> 0:06:32.200 that to your or unhooked the WiFi one or them. 0:06:33.040 --> 0:06:36.159 Today's quote every day we have one. You can't change anyone, 0:06:36.520 --> 0:06:39.760 So either change your expectations of them or change who 0:06:39.839 --> 0:06:46.799 is in your life with Ryan secret all right? Uh 0:06:47.000 --> 0:06:52.680 Tanya sis and he's gonna do the news. Yeah. All 0:06:52.960 --> 0:06:54.880 she did a lot of great newscast. Thank you Tony 0:06:54.960 --> 0:06:59.279 for that newcast. Whatever you know, top stories, sissy? What 0:06:59.320 --> 0:07:01.880 do we have this morning? Well, you know. Actor Alec 0:07:01.920 --> 0:07:05.200 Baldwin released a statement and it's calling on production companies 0:07:05.240 --> 0:07:09.159 in Hollywood to hire more police officers and on all 0:07:09.240 --> 0:07:12.640 film and television sets that use guns. This comes, obviously 0:07:12.720 --> 0:07:16.040 after his involvement in the accidental shooting on the Western 0:07:16.080 --> 0:07:18.800 movie set Rust last month in Santa Fe, New Mexico. 0:07:19.480 --> 0:07:21.640 The sixty three year old actor fired a gun while 0:07:21.680 --> 0:07:26.120 rehearsing for a scene, killing cinematographer Helena Hutchins and wounding 0:07:26.120 --> 0:07:29.960 director Joel's house um. Last year, the COVID nineteen pandemic 0:07:30.040 --> 0:07:33.160 forced many stores to keep their doors shut on Thanksgiving, 0:07:33.600 --> 0:07:35.480 some for the first time in years. When you think 0:07:35.480 --> 0:07:38.120 about it, right, and while the Black Friday shopping rush 0:07:38.160 --> 0:07:40.880 continues to kind of like encroach on Turkey Day, some 0:07:40.960 --> 0:07:43.800 retailers are actually trying to entice shoppers to open their 0:07:43.800 --> 0:07:47.080 wallets well before the holiday and actually buy gifts early. 0:07:47.360 --> 0:07:50.480 In fact, many stores have already started offering deep discounts 0:07:50.480 --> 0:07:54.680 on merchandise now this store this year. Stores closed on 0:07:54.680 --> 0:07:57.800 Thanksgiving Day include bed, Bath and Beyond, Best Buy, Costco, 0:07:57.920 --> 0:08:01.000 Home Depot, Sam's Club, Target to Water, Joe's, Walmart, and 0:08:01.200 --> 0:08:04.880 pretty much almost every department store. Winter is coming to 0:08:05.000 --> 0:08:07.440 Dodger Stadium this year. I'm so excited for this. This 0:08:07.520 --> 0:08:10.280 looks amazing. It's a little holiday festival. It's going to 0:08:10.320 --> 0:08:15.200 be including an eighty by sixty foot ice skating rink. Yeah, delicious, 0:08:15.200 --> 0:08:17.200 streets You can visit with Santa all the good stuff. 0:08:17.240 --> 0:08:20.640 It's happening from November through December thirty one to get 0:08:20.640 --> 0:08:22.960 start at sixteen dollars and we'll be available to purchase 0:08:23.040 --> 0:08:27.400 online starting tomorrow at ten am. Admission is free for 0:08:27.560 --> 0:08:35.199 children under three years old. On air with Ryan Seacrest, Well, 0:08:35.280 --> 0:08:39.079 it is one or two point seven Kiss f M. Shivers. 0:08:39.160 --> 0:08:42.200 That's Ed Sharon and Ed Shearon joining us now on 0:08:42.240 --> 0:08:46.000 the hot line. Ed, good morning, How are you pal great? 0:08:46.000 --> 0:08:48.280 How are you June? Well? I want to check in 0:08:48.320 --> 0:08:50.320 before we get to s NL. I want to check in. 0:08:50.400 --> 0:08:53.040 I uh know that you tested positive for COVID a 0:08:53.080 --> 0:08:55.760 few weeks now and also your daughter. Are you Are 0:08:55.760 --> 0:09:00.000 you good? Everything fine? Yeah? Man, everything's everything will good. 0:09:00.520 --> 0:09:04.679 I did the quarantine and you know I had symptoms 0:09:04.720 --> 0:09:06.960 and blah blah blah blah, being the sort of out 0:09:07.040 --> 0:09:09.040 for about ten days now. So everything is all good 0:09:09.040 --> 0:09:11.480 and I'm happy to be back promoting album. Good Well. 0:09:11.640 --> 0:09:13.760 It's good to hear that we got a chance to 0:09:13.800 --> 0:09:16.360 see you at s n L over the weekend. What's 0:09:16.400 --> 0:09:20.440 that experience like to perform in that environment? Um, you know, 0:09:20.480 --> 0:09:22.400 I never really take it for grant because I remember 0:09:22.720 --> 0:09:24.520 how much of the big deal it was when I 0:09:24.559 --> 0:09:26.880 first did it, and then the next time I did 0:09:26.920 --> 0:09:28.880 a huge deal. So like going back in this time, 0:09:28.920 --> 0:09:31.959 you sort of feel the gravitask of the show. It's 0:09:32.000 --> 0:09:35.200 been such a staple on American television for so long, 0:09:35.360 --> 0:09:39.240 and it's just I love I love how Blick and 0:09:40.040 --> 0:09:42.760 Great is the band that I got to use. Guy 0:09:42.800 --> 0:09:45.600 Adam Blackstone put it together, and it was like, it's 0:09:45.640 --> 0:09:48.240 just it's just great. It's out of the norm for me, 0:09:48.280 --> 0:09:51.640 and I just really enjoy it equals and sharing with 0:09:51.720 --> 0:09:55.720 us equals his new album it is out. You know, 0:09:55.760 --> 0:09:57.920 I listened to some of these songs, and I'm gonna 0:09:57.920 --> 0:09:59.839 play a couple of the clips here in a second, 0:09:59.840 --> 0:10:02.280 but listen to some of the songs, and on the outside, 0:10:03.040 --> 0:10:05.440 it's always as if so many of us want to 0:10:05.520 --> 0:10:09.280 have the kinds of relationship you have with your wife 0:10:09.400 --> 0:10:13.719 and now your baby, and I'm just curious how you 0:10:13.760 --> 0:10:17.640 maintain that or how you you stay so grounded and 0:10:17.720 --> 0:10:21.200 can can do that. Well, you know, listen, I'm I'm 0:10:21.280 --> 0:10:24.360 I'm human and my wife's human. And like the songs 0:10:24.800 --> 0:10:27.800 that I always the criticism that people always had for 0:10:27.920 --> 0:10:30.760 my songs is that relationships are reading the worst in 0:10:30.760 --> 0:10:32.240 the world or the best in the world. And I 0:10:32.240 --> 0:10:34.840 feel like songs. I don't feel like writing a song 0:10:35.200 --> 0:10:38.199 if everything's mid Like, if something's great, I'll write a song. 0:10:38.240 --> 0:10:40.200 And if something's really hurt me, then I'll write a song. 0:10:40.280 --> 0:10:43.959 So it's probably sounds like it's the perfect life. But man, 0:10:43.960 --> 0:10:47.559 we're we're we're humans and we I live. I live life, 0:10:47.559 --> 0:10:50.360 and you know, I'm a father, but I don't know 0:10:50.720 --> 0:10:54.000 exactly all the things I should about about parented. But 0:10:54.040 --> 0:10:56.080 I'm learning as I go, and I'm learning of my marriage. 0:10:56.080 --> 0:10:59.200 And it's just the The album just reflects all the 0:10:59.240 --> 0:11:00.840 good times and all the out times, but none of 0:11:00.840 --> 0:11:03.520 the middle day. Well, it's interesting to hear you say that. 0:11:03.559 --> 0:11:05.439 And when i'm you know, let me play actually a 0:11:05.480 --> 0:11:07.680 little bit of the song I'm thinking of first time, 0:11:08.000 --> 0:11:11.960 the first kise the first time, the first song made 0:11:12.000 --> 0:11:17.079 you cry. First look you when I said a few 0:11:17.679 --> 0:11:22.120 stealthy but the fun when we startled home that night, 0:11:22.600 --> 0:11:32.600 I'll go away to make a littliyarul. First time. You 0:11:32.640 --> 0:11:34.960 have to realize that that I'm looking at one of 0:11:35.000 --> 0:11:38.120 our co host Tanya. She's clutching her throat as she 0:11:38.520 --> 0:11:42.440 sings along to that song. And that's my favorite song 0:11:42.480 --> 0:11:45.319 on the album. I think it's in that one specific 0:11:45.400 --> 0:11:47.560 lyric of I can't wait to make a million more 0:11:47.600 --> 0:11:50.320 first times is just so special and beautiful and then 0:11:50.400 --> 0:11:53.560 like tugs at such a special place in my heart, 0:11:54.280 --> 0:11:56.480 Thank you so much. That's so that's so free. That 0:11:56.559 --> 0:11:58.920 was actually I think the first song that I've properly 0:11:58.920 --> 0:12:01.760 finished for the album. And yeah, I've just had it 0:12:01.840 --> 0:12:04.840 for a long time and I really like it. I 0:12:04.880 --> 0:12:06.679 really like it. And now, like being a dad, I'm 0:12:06.679 --> 0:12:09.000 now experiencing all the new first times, you know, seeing 0:12:09.240 --> 0:12:11.520 Laura and walked for the first time, and feel rained 0:12:11.520 --> 0:12:13.160 for the first time and eat a grape for the 0:12:13.160 --> 0:12:18.480 first you know, like we'll be rather are you as 0:12:18.640 --> 0:12:22.120 good a communicating? Like can you communicate as easily as 0:12:22.120 --> 0:12:25.079 you can write lyrics? No? And I think that's why 0:12:25.120 --> 0:12:30.520 I write songs. I think I think I am I find, honestly, 0:12:30.600 --> 0:12:33.360 and music way easier than I find just I mean, 0:12:33.640 --> 0:12:37.240 I'm English, so we always will be like yeah, yeah, fine, 0:12:38.040 --> 0:12:42.480 you're right, You're right. No, And I find like growing 0:12:42.559 --> 0:12:44.800 up now, like if if everyone in like an orchard 0:12:44.840 --> 0:12:47.520 situation with like a family member or a friend or something. 0:12:47.800 --> 0:12:51.599 I now know that just bringing up the thing instantly 0:12:51.640 --> 0:12:53.960 and clearing the air is actually the best thing to do, 0:12:54.000 --> 0:12:56.520 because if you leave stuff to fester, it just builds 0:12:56.520 --> 0:12:58.600 and building building, it actually becomes a bigger problem than 0:12:58.600 --> 0:13:02.200 it started in the first place. But I've never really 0:13:02.200 --> 0:13:04.439 had a problem with that in my music because I 0:13:04.640 --> 0:13:07.400 it's always such a need knee jerk reaction to songwriting. 0:13:07.760 --> 0:13:10.040 Something happens and I write a song and then that's that. 0:13:10.120 --> 0:13:12.600 But in like personal life, I would be, you know, 0:13:12.679 --> 0:13:14.920 five six years ago, I would let things build up, 0:13:15.040 --> 0:13:19.080 and yeah, I'm trying not to do that. Now. We 0:13:19.080 --> 0:13:22.320 were reading somewhere that You've got a lot. I mean, 0:13:22.320 --> 0:13:23.719 obviously this album is out now, but there are a 0:13:23.800 --> 0:13:27.319 lot more songs in the queue which could come out 0:13:27.360 --> 0:13:30.000 at any time. I mean I heard the number was 0:13:30.120 --> 0:13:31.840 like a huge number of songs that are written. Are 0:13:31.840 --> 0:13:35.080 they written in the stage where you're done with them? 0:13:35.480 --> 0:13:38.320 I mean, the songs are finished, but there's I need 0:13:38.360 --> 0:13:42.679 to sort of like tweak production um, because I always 0:13:42.760 --> 0:13:45.320 I never want songs to get stale production wise. So 0:13:45.400 --> 0:13:47.240 I've I've got, I've got the songs, and what I'm 0:13:47.280 --> 0:13:49.160 going to do is probably end the next year. I 0:13:49.160 --> 0:13:51.440 want to finish the first run of tour. I'm just 0:13:51.440 --> 0:13:55.000 going to go in and play them live and um 0:13:55.080 --> 0:13:58.280 yeah and see you see what to play them live 0:13:58.280 --> 0:14:01.680 and then make that the recording. I think so yeah. 0:14:01.720 --> 0:14:04.800 I think that's the that's the next idea for a record, 0:14:04.800 --> 0:14:07.120 because you know this, this record, I spent months and 0:14:07.160 --> 0:14:09.320 months and months getting production right and mixing and blah 0:14:09.320 --> 0:14:11.439 blah blah. And I love the idea of like a 0:14:11.520 --> 0:14:14.360 knee jerk reaction, just going in recording it and it 0:14:14.480 --> 0:14:15.640 is what it is, and then it and then it 0:14:15.679 --> 0:14:18.920 gets released after that. So even with an imperfection, you 0:14:19.000 --> 0:14:23.200 would let it release. Well. First times has so many intererfections, 0:14:23.200 --> 0:14:25.480 and I think that's what people like about it. I 0:14:25.520 --> 0:14:28.480 recorded that song I wrote. I wrote that song, and 0:14:28.480 --> 0:14:30.720 then I went to dinner with my friends and everyone 0:14:30.760 --> 0:14:33.760 had these his little CBD pens and we were drinking 0:14:34.040 --> 0:14:36.720 with drinking wine and I just got really blasted and 0:14:36.720 --> 0:14:38.440 I probably had like a bottle and a half of 0:14:38.440 --> 0:14:40.720 wine and I was like putting on this pen. And 0:14:40.760 --> 0:14:43.000 then at the end of dinner, the producer came up 0:14:43.040 --> 0:14:44.640 to me, come out, came up to me and said 0:14:44.640 --> 0:14:46.240 we didn't get the right vocal. Can you come back in? 0:14:46.280 --> 0:14:48.240 And I could barely open my eyes, and I was like, 0:14:49.440 --> 0:14:52.520 so I went in and recorded this this vocal that's 0:14:52.600 --> 0:14:56.360 really really fragile and gentle because I could barely sing. 0:14:56.800 --> 0:14:58.840 And that's the vocal that's on the album. And I 0:14:58.880 --> 0:15:02.560 love it because it sounds so imperfect basically, you know, 0:15:02.640 --> 0:15:04.400 you know, there's notes that I don't quite hit, and 0:15:04.440 --> 0:15:07.280 it's quite breathy and short and and and everything, and 0:15:07.280 --> 0:15:09.840 it's not perfect. And I think that's what is wonderful 0:15:09.880 --> 0:15:12.800 about it. Well, it is. It's so easting to hear 0:15:12.840 --> 0:15:15.480 that story behind. You know, the song that we were 0:15:15.520 --> 0:15:18.360 just talking about. Ed's new album, Equals is out now. 0:15:18.400 --> 0:15:20.360 Thank you for coming on man, hope to see you soon. 0:15:20.400 --> 0:15:23.840 Have a great holiday season. Absolutely, I'll see you when 0:15:23.840 --> 0:15:27.040 I'm I'm I'm there for the jingle stuff coming up 0:15:27.080 --> 0:15:28.400 before you know it, it's going to be here, the 0:15:28.480 --> 0:15:31.720 jingle stuff and those tickets FM jingle Bow Present my 0:15:31.800 --> 0:15:34.200 topit of one are coming up very shortly. See then, 0:15:34.280 --> 0:15:40.280 Thank you nice, Thank you man. It's sharing. Yeah, he 0:15:40.360 --> 0:15:44.680 just has that. I don't know, you know that the 0:15:44.760 --> 0:15:47.360 success has never changed him. It's interesting when he says 0:15:47.400 --> 0:15:49.320 about how he when he writes music, it's either the 0:15:49.400 --> 0:15:51.240 lows or the highs and not really there nothing in 0:15:51.240 --> 0:15:55.880 the middle. Well, it's like, yeah, it's like the arguments 0:15:55.920 --> 0:15:57.520 and when he gets in an argument with his wife, 0:15:57.560 --> 0:16:00.240 like do you think he apologizes first or does she? H? 0:16:01.000 --> 0:16:02.840 I think now he does. I think maybe before he did, 0:16:02.880 --> 0:16:12.240 because he said he had that that breakthrough. D it's 0:16:12.280 --> 0:16:15.680 time for a second date. Updates one or two point 0:16:15.760 --> 0:16:22.040 seven Kiss FM. This is let's see Colby has written 0:16:22.080 --> 0:16:27.000 to us. Colby is on Hey Colby, good morning morning. 0:16:27.840 --> 0:16:32.440 How are you doing. I'm doing fine now it's been 0:16:32.480 --> 0:16:35.000 all right Okay, well listen, So you went on a 0:16:35.000 --> 0:16:39.520 few dates with somebody bet On Hinges that right? Yeah? Yeah. 0:16:39.720 --> 0:16:41.960 We we went in a couple, you know, about four 0:16:42.080 --> 0:16:45.040 or five times over a couple of weeks. But I 0:16:45.080 --> 0:16:47.600 went out of town for a week for business. I 0:16:47.680 --> 0:16:51.280 get back and it's like everything's just changed out from 0:16:51.360 --> 0:16:54.280 underneath me. She doesn't want to go out, so she 0:16:54.400 --> 0:17:01.040 went on you Yep, she went absolutely just post. Okay, 0:17:01.080 --> 0:17:04.640 well it seems how long were you gone? A week? 0:17:05.160 --> 0:17:07.520 I went out for a week in San Francisco? Can 0:17:07.560 --> 0:17:12.080 I ask you something, what unhinged connected you? Guys? Well, 0:17:12.720 --> 0:17:15.320 I saw that she had answered the prompt for you know, 0:17:15.400 --> 0:17:19.560 what's your perfect Sunday? And she said that her perfect 0:17:19.600 --> 0:17:21.639 Sunday just we go to a Dodger game, were you 0:17:22.080 --> 0:17:24.040 in and out for dinner? And we take a sunset 0:17:24.080 --> 0:17:26.919 hike at Griffith Park And I'm like, boom that I 0:17:27.000 --> 0:17:30.439 love all three of those things. Those are perfect And 0:17:30.480 --> 0:17:34.480 we started connecting over thanks pretty good. I mean, you've 0:17:34.520 --> 0:17:39.719 made me hungry thinking about all right, So the question 0:17:39.800 --> 0:17:42.080 is what with you being out of sight? Why were 0:17:42.080 --> 0:17:43.280 you so out of mind? I think it's what we 0:17:43.320 --> 0:17:44.840 wanted to the bottom of, right, And you you really 0:17:44.840 --> 0:17:48.440 want to go out with her again? Yes, very much. 0:17:48.480 --> 0:17:51.160 So we really had. We had a bunch of good 0:17:51.280 --> 0:17:55.240 dates like this was really promising, and I just I'm 0:17:55.280 --> 0:17:57.800 I'm worried, like was it because I was gone? And 0:17:57.880 --> 0:18:01.560 now I'm just kind of what will give me some 0:18:01.600 --> 0:18:05.959 other You're pretty good the dating example. What's another date? Well, 0:18:06.000 --> 0:18:07.880 I mean, like I said, we went to like a 0:18:07.880 --> 0:18:12.320 Dodgers Giants playoff games. We we did more hiking, we 0:18:12.359 --> 0:18:15.440 went to in and Out, Um, we started we started 0:18:15.480 --> 0:18:18.200 squid game together, like we actually started really hanging out 0:18:18.200 --> 0:18:22.120 more intimately. Okay, So he said that he met her 0:18:22.160 --> 0:18:24.200 on Hinge. They went out, they went to a Dodger game, 0:18:24.240 --> 0:18:26.080 in and out in a sunset walk at Griffith Park 0:18:26.119 --> 0:18:29.040 and they hung out a little bit like they had 0:18:29.040 --> 0:18:31.480 a minute or two together. And then he went away 0:18:31.920 --> 0:18:34.840 work or whatever in San Francisco. A week goes by, 0:18:35.160 --> 0:18:38.160 and now she's not responding to him. She's she's ice cold. 0:18:38.200 --> 0:18:40.240 He said, So, Kobe, are you actually like sending text 0:18:40.280 --> 0:18:44.840 and she's not replying at all? Yeah, just straight up. 0:18:44.840 --> 0:18:50.160 It's like I don't exist. So rude. Mm hmm, what's 0:18:50.200 --> 0:18:54.240 the why? Why they about face? All right, we're gonna 0:18:54.640 --> 0:18:59.200 we have herd Is this her Penny? You got her? 0:18:59.400 --> 0:19:03.080 Her name is me? Mm hmm. Okay, Cob, be very quiet. 0:19:03.080 --> 0:19:07.399 I'm gonna put her up with us now, okay, okay, Amy, 0:19:07.480 --> 0:19:09.159 how are you? Thank you for agreeing to come on 0:19:09.160 --> 0:19:14.200 the air with us? Good morning, Good morning, I'm good. Uh. 0:19:15.119 --> 0:19:18.879 I don't know what's going on. Well, we are calling. 0:19:18.960 --> 0:19:20.080 I know it's a bit out of the blue, but 0:19:20.200 --> 0:19:22.920 we're calling you about a guy you met on Hinge 0:19:23.000 --> 0:19:27.880 named Kobe. You guys went out, Yeah, I remember him. 0:19:27.920 --> 0:19:36.760 He was super nice. Yeah. Was he a good det Yeah? Why? Um, 0:19:36.800 --> 0:19:40.080 I'm getting there. So you guys went to dodging game. 0:19:40.119 --> 0:19:42.280 You guys want to in and out like, Oh that's true. 0:19:42.720 --> 0:19:47.600 M Yeah that's true, and you say it's great. So 0:19:48.400 --> 0:19:54.280 are you still talking to him? Um? No, not really? 0:19:54.720 --> 0:20:00.240 And why is that? I mean, it's not a big deal. 0:20:00.320 --> 0:20:02.639 I just met someone else and I'm just kind of 0:20:02.640 --> 0:20:05.800 seeing where it's going. So did you know that someone 0:20:05.880 --> 0:20:10.600 else while you were dating Colby? No? I just you know, 0:20:10.720 --> 0:20:14.520 I'm just like dating around like so it And have 0:20:14.840 --> 0:20:20.560 you been open with him about that? I honestly, I 0:20:20.600 --> 0:20:24.520 didn't think he'd care that much. It's like, I mean, 0:20:24.640 --> 0:20:27.800 he wasn't putting in that much effort until you know, 0:20:27.840 --> 0:20:30.040 I stopped respotting right away, and then suddenly he was 0:20:30.119 --> 0:20:34.959 very attentive. But so I just didn't think he'd care. Okay, well, 0:20:34.960 --> 0:20:37.199 I'm gonna tell you he does care. He's on the 0:20:37.240 --> 0:20:42.000 line with us now. And Colby, what do you think 0:20:42.040 --> 0:20:44.400 of what Amy is saying and that you didn't put 0:20:44.440 --> 0:20:50.680 too much effort into it? I think that's I think 0:20:50.720 --> 0:20:53.320 that's just not true. I think I was really trying here. 0:20:53.400 --> 0:20:55.240 I thought we had a good thing and you're seeing 0:20:55.280 --> 0:20:56.960 someone else. I mean what I thought we had like 0:20:56.960 --> 0:21:00.800 a really good thing going back and forth here. I 0:21:00.880 --> 0:21:04.000 mean it was fine. I'm just dating right now, Like 0:21:04.080 --> 0:21:07.159 I don't have a boyfriend, so I'm just kind of 0:21:07.160 --> 0:21:09.000 seeing where the things go. So I mean, you're a 0:21:09.080 --> 0:21:13.359 nice guy who knows. But but it didn't that didn't 0:21:13.359 --> 0:21:16.920 you reach out to Amy and Amy didn't respond? Yeah, 0:21:17.119 --> 0:21:21.040 I reached out after after week after my business trip 0:21:21.119 --> 0:21:26.920 here and it got like nothing back. Because like, now 0:21:26.960 --> 0:21:28.800 I'm like dating someone else. But that doesn't mean that 0:21:28.840 --> 0:21:31.320 I'm like closing any doors. I'm just like seeing where 0:21:31.359 --> 0:21:34.600 this is going. So you just expect me to like 0:21:34.640 --> 0:21:38.720 wait around for you to be done. I can't. I 0:21:38.760 --> 0:21:42.240 don't expect anything. Like I'm just living my life. So 0:21:42.680 --> 0:21:45.640 you know, you live your life and maybe our pass 0:21:45.720 --> 0:21:48.159 a cross again and that's great, just like you know, 0:21:49.840 --> 0:21:53.040 this is no big deal. Yeah, but maybe communicate that 0:21:53.119 --> 0:22:00.200 to him instead of just ghosting him. I mean, we're 0:22:00.240 --> 0:22:03.240 both dating, right, It's that's what people do. You just date. 0:22:06.680 --> 0:22:10.440 I feel like if I hadn't gone out of town, 0:22:11.240 --> 0:22:13.320 this wouldn't be happening and we'd still be going on, 0:22:13.640 --> 0:22:18.840 Like I don't know, man, I mean, I feel like 0:22:18.840 --> 0:22:21.000 you can't live your life like that. You can't think 0:22:21.040 --> 0:22:24.200 like what if this? And what if that? It's just like, 0:22:24.600 --> 0:22:30.200 you know, you're nice. Maybe we'll we'll cross paths again, Kobe. 0:22:30.359 --> 0:22:33.960 I think she's being clear that she wants to get 0:22:34.119 --> 0:22:36.720 other people and just see what happens in life. And 0:22:36.720 --> 0:22:39.040 she's sort of in that that. You know, it's an 0:22:39.040 --> 0:22:42.080 offseason right now, so maybe you rekindle in spring, or 0:22:42.160 --> 0:22:46.320 maybe you don't, but at least you have a clear picture. Amy, 0:22:47.000 --> 0:22:50.800 I don't know. And Colby, all right, thank you very much, 0:22:50.920 --> 0:22:54.600 guys call me good luck. Well that was a dismiss 0:22:56.000 --> 0:23:00.640 I don't know, man, it's like, hey man, hey man, 0:23:00.720 --> 0:23:04.240 chill out, hey man, lighting up you here? I don't know, man, 0:23:04.280 --> 0:23:12.400 why did that make me cringe? Right? But d gaff 0:23:12.080 --> 0:23:16.520 But she just as deep as doesn't she doesn't care. 0:23:17.400 --> 0:23:21.040 She d gaffed. What does it mean? He doesn't give? 0:23:22.160 --> 0:23:26.199 Oh gosh who? But she had a gaff? You know, 0:23:26.200 --> 0:23:28.359 a gaff is like she screwed up? But then you 0:23:28.440 --> 0:23:30.240 like a d gaff. I'm like, was there an a gaff? 0:23:30.240 --> 0:23:38.560 A guffaw a gaff? Uh? Got it? Good for her? No? 0:23:38.920 --> 0:23:41.200 I thought it was, but she kind of didn't. Yeah, 0:23:41.200 --> 0:23:44.719 she wasn't communicative. She was she said she was very 0:23:44.720 --> 0:23:47.920 clear because we called her and asked her, well, I mean, 0:23:47.920 --> 0:23:52.080