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Speaker 1: He's the Fred Show. It's one of these.

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Speaker 2: Guys kids, says him, Chicago's number one hit music station.

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Speaker 2: It's Kiki here, Paulina's here, Kaylin's here.

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Speaker 3: It is Ladies Night. We locked Fred and Jason outside.

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Speaker 2: Of the studio, okay, and we get ted we Ladies

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Speaker 2: Night without our favorite lady.

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Speaker 3: Amy with the Right is here with us too, Hey, Amy.

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Speaker 4: Hey, Hey, Hey, I'm excited.

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Speaker 5: We got another big wedding coming up that we're gonna

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Speaker 5: help take care of.

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Speaker 4: And it's down in the Riviera Maya.

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Speaker 5: And I don't know if y'all have been there. Have

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Speaker 3: I haven't been there yet, Ladies, have you been there?

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Speaker 3: Not yet? Okay?

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Speaker 4: Oh, it's one of our favorite places to go. We'll

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Speaker 4: go to Maa Cove all the time. It's all, let's go.

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Speaker 4: I'm super psyched for these folks we're about to talk to.

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Speaker 4: Let's hook him up.

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Speaker 1: Let's do it.

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Speaker 3: Kirsten, Hello, are you there?

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Speaker 1: Hi?

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Speaker 6: Yes, I am Hey.

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Speaker 3: It's the girls from the Frend Show. Kiki here, Kaylin.

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Speaker 6: Paulina, morning, Kicky, good morning friend, and.

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Speaker 3: We have our favorite lady on the line. Amy with

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Speaker 3: the Right is here.

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Speaker 5: Oh, Hi, Amy, Hey, Kirsten, good morning, good morning, good morning.

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Speaker 4: Sounds like you're you're justice. Big day is just like

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Speaker 4: a month away.

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Speaker 6: Yes, April twenty fifth, we're getting so close.

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Speaker 4: That's fantastic.

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Speaker 5: And I read that you guys are getting married down

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Speaker 5: on the Riviera Amaya.

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Speaker 4: Which resort are you hooking up at?

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Speaker 6: So we are getting married at the Hyatt Z Lara

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Speaker 6: in Rivier Amaya.

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Speaker 4: Fantastic.

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Speaker 5: I just told all the ladies one of my favorite

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Speaker 5: which is just right down the road from there. So

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Speaker 5: we all suified to hook you up.

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Speaker 2: What do you think you well, we got to do it,

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Speaker 2: big Amy, because she needs to have her bestie by

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Speaker 2: her side and her wedding. She wrote in that she

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Speaker 2: wants to cover the fees to fly her bestie to

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Speaker 2: the wedding.

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Speaker 6: Yes, I am trying to get her flight and I

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Speaker 6: know she's not going to take money from me, but

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Speaker 6: I'm like, hey, maybe if I win it, she will go.

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Speaker 6: She's had such a rough year, so I would just

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Speaker 7: That's for sure.

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Speaker 4: Where's she traveling from from Chicago.

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Speaker 7: Oh, off them?

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Speaker 4: Okay, well this is easy peasy.

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Speaker 5: You tell your good friend that you and Justin are

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Speaker 5: not paying for this trip. One eight hundred truck rereck's

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Speaker 5: paying for it. And I got two things for you.

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Speaker 5: First off, I got a grand to get your friend

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Speaker 5: down there, get her flight, get her a ring, get up.

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Speaker 5: We got another thousand dollars for your honeymoon.

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Speaker 7: Si.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, are you serious?

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Speaker 7: Good?

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Speaker 4: Serious? Thank you so much.

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Speaker 7: This means so much.

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Speaker 6: My fiance lost his father earlier this year too, so

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Speaker 6: this just means everything to us. Thank you so much.

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Speaker 5: Well, we hope you have a beautiful, beautiful ceremony and

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Speaker 5: this is just the start of another wonderful adventure together.

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry that your father.

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Speaker 5: In law won't be there, but you know you all

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Speaker 5: will be surrounded in love and your best friend and

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Speaker 5: it's going to be beautiful.

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Speaker 3: Yes it is.

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Speaker 5: Yes.

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Speaker 1: Oh, thank you guys. I can't tell you how much

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Speaker 6: This is such an amazing gift, truly, thank you so much.

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Speaker 5: You gotta tell her the best part because now they

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Speaker 3: Else exactly, Kirsten, there is more to this.

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Speaker 2: You are now qualified to win the five thousand dollars

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Speaker 2: grand prize for your wedding as well, so stick around,

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Speaker 2: we'll get all of your information.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, thank you so much.

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Speaker 6: This is like the best day ever. You guys are amazing.

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Speaker 6: Thank you for everything like this means the world to be.

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Speaker 2: Hey, it's all from our friends and wedding hundred truck

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Speaker 2: wreg Amy with the right making miracles happen every single time.

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Speaker 3: We get her on this phone.

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Speaker 2: So we're wishing you and your fiance an amazing wedding

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Speaker 2: in Mexico. And girl, hang on because you might win

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Speaker 2: that five geez okay, oh Mike, ol thank.

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Speaker 4: You all fun stuff, fun stuff. I love doing this.

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Speaker 4: We don't need the guys back.

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Speaker 3: We got this cover, y know. I think that's right.

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Speaker 3: We do just fine giving away Amy's money.

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Speaker 7: Yes, that's right.

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Speaker 1: Hey, wake up, hey man, they don't call me know

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Speaker 1: it all for nothing.

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Speaker 7: Fred's show is on Friday.

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Speaker 1: Yay, wholly, yay.

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Speaker 7: Everything better on Friday.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes it is.

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Speaker 7: Yes, can you tell I'm genuinely happy about it. I

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Speaker 7: reunion an age of attraction. I mean, that's two things

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Speaker 7: do the rest of that time. But they got Easter.

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Speaker 7: That's exciting.

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Speaker 1: Yes, speaking of Eastern aren't you excited?

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Speaker 3: I'm so excited. I'm sneezing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he has risen.

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Speaker 7: You know, I live alone, and I live apart from

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Speaker 7: the one to provide some form of Easter candy or

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Speaker 7: morning miraculously believing that there'll be one sitting there. I

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Speaker 3: I got you one.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, you're gonna come to my house and Sunday morning

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Speaker 3: Yes, and would you like to have Easter dinner as well?

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Speaker 7: Maybe I will. But what are we having?

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Speaker 2: Actually we're having a really big dinner, like I don't

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Speaker 7: But yes, come on, come, I'm gonna come to your brother's. Yes,

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Speaker 7: I'm gonna eat Easter. I'm gonna eat Easter.

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Speaker 1: And you're how oh you're not doing normal eating for

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Speaker 7: And my parents are not cooking. We're going out. We're

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Speaker 1: Wow, because they throw down on Easter too.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, my dad normally, Yeah, it goes in harden. You

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Speaker 7: tiebreaker with Mahogany and the entertainer of for this hour,

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Speaker 9: K Britney Spears got a major win, and I think

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Speaker 9: that we should celebrate it because it's been a minute.

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Speaker 7: For okay and forty five minutes commercial free start show. Yeah,

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Speaker 7: they talk better than the excite about These are the

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Speaker 7: radio blogs. On The Fred Show. We're writing in our diaries,

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Speaker 1: Yes, thank you, dear blog.

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Speaker 9: So I'm in sort of a weird position with someone

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Speaker 1: For the first time ever.

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Speaker 9: So one of my friends, one of my closest best friends,

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Speaker 9: since high school, so for a very long time, because

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Speaker 9: I'm not a spring chicken anymore, and she is. She

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Speaker 7: Oh, I was wondering which comparison we were, Well.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, none, not her other things that she's done.

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Speaker 9: But she makes you look like you are outside extroverted,

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Speaker 7: You know, which I still don't know how to do.

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Speaker 1: But yes, right, yeah, no, you're in your killing era.

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Speaker 1: You said, I'm protecting my peace.

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Speaker 7: But she is no statement that I dislike more than

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Speaker 7: You drive me absolutely crazy. Protecting your peace from whom

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Speaker 7: maybe you're the one causing the chaos. You ever think

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Speaker 9: There's some therapy terms that like we've taken and lashed

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Speaker 9: Like in theory, we should protect our peace, but it's

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Speaker 9: she very much is introverted, and I've always accepted her

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Speaker 9: none of it. She knows none. She doesn't know I

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Speaker 7: our other friends' lives. Serious stuff, breakups, cancer, you know,

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Speaker 7: don't mean anything by it. No, but I also am

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Speaker 7: It sounds like you could use a little more of

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Speaker 7: And it sounds like she'd be there.

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Speaker 1: I accept her for who she is, but I have

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Speaker 7: Sometimes you're too good about that, really, I know. I

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Speaker 1: I don't know. It's just a weird thing.

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Speaker 9: And I also have a really hard time calling and going, hey,

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Speaker 1: So I don't know. It's just a weird it's a

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Speaker 9: Navigate, and it's almost like, is she gonna check in?

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Speaker 9: I think it just feels weird that she is truly

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Speaker 9: So it's just it's a weird feeling because like, I

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Speaker 2: Give it one last shot of you, like kind of

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and he totally does appear from my life.

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Speaker 2: He would be with us Thanksgiving, he missed my engagement,

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Speaker 3: I'm not. But sometimes you just got to.

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Speaker 1: I don't really know how.

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Speaker 9: It's just weird.

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Speaker 7: someone who communicates very differently than you do, then I

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Speaker 7: think it's fully within your within you not right, but

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Speaker 7: it would fully be within appropriate for you to reach

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Speaker 7: out and say I need you now. Yeah, it sounds

446
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Speaker 7: like she'd be there.

447
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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's hard for me, but I will try number Yeah.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, two introverts communicate, we do. We actually telepathic late,

449
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Speaker 7: I'll communicate with her without using words. We know each

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Speaker 7: other's language.

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Speaker 1: You got to show up at her house then, ever.

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Speaker 7: Been left waiting by the phone? It's the Fred Shell marsa.

453
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Speaker 7: Good morning, welcome to the program. How are you?

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Speaker 1: I'm doing okay, how are you doing?

455
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Speaker 7: Doing all right? What's going on with this guy trey

456
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Speaker 7: On waiting by the phone. We're trying to figure out

457
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Speaker 7: if you've been ghosted, but we need the backstory. How

458
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Speaker 7: did you meet? Tell us about any dates that you've

459
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Speaker 7: been on them? Then where things are now?

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Speaker 10: I'm a tray on hinge and it went really well.

461
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Speaker 10: We exchange numbers. We exchange numbers, and we started talking

462
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Speaker 10: on text and Instagram and like planning our date, and

463
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Speaker 10: then all of a sudden, in the middle of our planning,

464
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Speaker 10: he just disappeared. And I'm calling because I'm just like

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Speaker 10: so tired of talking to these guys and then ghost

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Speaker 10: to me with no explanation at all.

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Speaker 7: So you got ghosted before the date, which we do

468
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Speaker 7: hear about sometimes, but I mean, you're chatting, texting whatever,

469
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Speaker 7: planning this date, and then out of nowhere, the guy

470
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Speaker 7: just stops responding. So there was not even a date.

471
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Speaker 7: You got ghosted before the date even happened.

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Speaker 1: I never even met him.

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Speaker 7: Interesting, Okay, do just happen to you often? I mean

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Speaker 7: you said you're tired of this sort of thing, like

475
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Speaker 7: or he said something to that effect, like is it

476
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Speaker 7: just every now and again this happens or all the time?

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Speaker 10: I mean it's happened before for sure. I wouldn't say

478
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Speaker 10: it's like all the time, but definitely two or three times.

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Speaker 7: Okay, Well, let's see if we can get a hold

480
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Speaker 7: of this guy Tray and we're gonna talk to him.

481
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Speaker 7: You'll be on the phone at the same time, and

482
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Speaker 7: the hope is always is. We can straighten things now

483
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Speaker 7: said you got a date?

484
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Speaker 5: Now? Good? Yeah?

485
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Speaker 10: Thank you?

486
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Speaker 7: Hey Marcy, Yes, all right, let's call this guy Trey.

487
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Speaker 7: You met on one of the apps, you exchanged numbers,

488
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Speaker 7: you talked about a date, and yet he disappeared before

489
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Speaker 7: the date actually happened. And you want to know, how

490
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Speaker 7: do we go from matching and then texting and talking

491
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Speaker 7: and whatever so then not going out at all? Like,

492
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Speaker 7: how do we not even wind up on it? How

493
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Speaker 7: do I get ghosted before I even have a chance

494
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Speaker 7: to screw it up? This is what you must be wondering.

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Speaker 4: Yes, exactly.

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Speaker 7: Okay, we're gonna call Tray now, good luck, Marcy. Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 7: this Trey, Yes speaking, Hey Trey, good morning. My name

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Speaker 7: is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show, the Morning

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Speaker 7: radio show, and I have to tell you that we

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Speaker 7: are on the radio right now, and I would need

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Speaker 7: your permission to continue with the call. Is it okay

502
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Speaker 7: if we chat for just a second on the show?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 10: Sure?

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Speaker 4: Did I win tickets or something?

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Speaker 7: No, No, Jason's not absolutely not like this. I don't

507
00:20:27,480 --> 00:20:30,200
Speaker 7: know what he would give you win something. Well, maybe

508
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Speaker 7: we'll see. We're calling on behalf of a woman named Marcy.

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Speaker 7: I guess you guys matched on hinge recently, and you

510
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Speaker 7: guys have been texting or talking on the phone. Do

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Speaker 7: you remember Marci?

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Speaker 8: Marcy is extremely disrespectful and she no longer has access

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Speaker 8: to me.

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Speaker 7: She no longer has access to you. Okay, Okay, Sarah, Okay,

515
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Speaker 7: are you surprised?

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Speaker 10: Oh?

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Speaker 7: Look look at the Trey's out here protecting his piece. Yeah,

518
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Speaker 7: so what I'm not? I'm sorry. I shouldn't make fun

519
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Speaker 7: of you. What happened because we just talked to Marci

520
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Speaker 7: a second ago and she said that you guys had matched,

521
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Speaker 7: and then you guys were texting and planning a date,

522
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Speaker 7: and then we go from there to nothing at all.

523
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Speaker 7: So how do we Why are we ghosting her? And

524
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Speaker 7: why did she no longer have access to you? Before

525
00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:12,760
Speaker 7: she ever had access to you?

526
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Speaker 8: So I called her to check in and tell her

527
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Speaker 8: to have a good day, and she ignored the call,

528
00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:19,879
Speaker 8: and I know she was on the phone like she

529
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Speaker 8: usually answers right away. And then she posted something on

530
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Speaker 8: Instagram and I saw it and she's playing some games.

531
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Speaker 8: So I asked chat GPT and it said low effort,

532
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Speaker 8: low intentionality, you should walk away.

533
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Speaker 4: So I listened to my therapist.

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Speaker 7: Oh oh, not an actual therapist. It was your chat

535
00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:44,080
Speaker 7: GPT's your therapist. Okay, do you know Paulina? So okay,

536
00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:47,560
Speaker 7: you reached out to her, she didn't pick up, but

537
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Speaker 7: then she posted something on Instagram, which led you to

538
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Speaker 7: believe then that she was on her phone, meaning she

539
00:21:52,800 --> 00:21:54,920
Speaker 7: could have picked up, because if she's messing around on

540
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Speaker 7: her phone, then she could have answered and for you,

541
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Speaker 7: or at least for chat GPT. That means that we

542
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Speaker 7: never go on a date.

543
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Speaker 8: Yeah, like, I mean low effort, low rewards.

544
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Speaker 10: So.

545
00:22:07,000 --> 00:22:09,680
Speaker 7: Trey one time? Like, and who's to say? Are you

546
00:22:09,720 --> 00:22:13,239
Speaker 7: sure the post was even brand new versus it popped up,

547
00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:16,119
Speaker 7: you know, from the past. I mean, what if she

548
00:22:16,320 --> 00:22:19,080
Speaker 7: was somewhere where she could I've been in meetings before

549
00:22:19,119 --> 00:22:21,320
Speaker 7: where I can't talk to you on the phone, but

550
00:22:21,440 --> 00:22:24,040
Speaker 7: I can do other stuff on my phone that doesn't

551
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Speaker 7: involve talking. So she wasn't in a place where she

552
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Speaker 7: could answer the phone. But yet she was in a

553
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Speaker 7: place she could use her phone. And we're just qualifying.

554
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Speaker 3: She couldn't text to me.

555
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Speaker 7: All right, let me bring Marcia. I forgot to mention

556
00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:38,600
Speaker 7: that Martian is here. I'm very forgetful Marcie, what happened

557
00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:40,200
Speaker 7: with this? I mean you just heard all of this.

558
00:22:40,520 --> 00:22:42,719
Speaker 7: So he tried to call you. You didn't call him back,

559
00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:44,920
Speaker 7: but you were posting on Instagram. Apparently that's a crime.

560
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Speaker 10: You called me at two pm on a Tuesday.

561
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Speaker 5: I was at work.

562
00:22:49,520 --> 00:22:52,800
Speaker 7: I will not play your game and look like a dude.

563
00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:56,000
Speaker 7: You guys don't know each other, Like, who's a phone?

564
00:22:56,240 --> 00:23:00,480
Speaker 7: I know anything about what game is? I mean the

565
00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:02,680
Speaker 7: game she's playing is that she was wasting time in

566
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Speaker 7: a meeting at work that she didn't pay attention.

567
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Speaker 8: You don't respond back.

568
00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:08,720
Speaker 7: I have other things I have going on in my life. Guy,

569
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Speaker 7: I can't be doing this. Well, wait a minute. How

570
00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:12,800
Speaker 7: long before she responded to you?

571
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Speaker 5: I don't know.

572
00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:17,439
Speaker 7: Maybe she called me that evening, but like so same day,

573
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Speaker 7: so at the middle of the day, while she was

574
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Speaker 7: at work she called you back when she wasn't at work.

575
00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:24,680
Speaker 7: Like this is normal stuff, man, I mean.

576
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Speaker 4: That's a four hour difference.

577
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Speaker 8: You can send a text in between four hours. You

578
00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:29,760
Speaker 8: can't say you're bad at texting. You're on your phone

579
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Speaker 8: all day apparely know each other. I'm scared she doesn't

580
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Speaker 8: know you, that know you.

581
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Speaker 4: This is this is crazy. I maybe maybe a dog's.

582
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Speaker 7: All hurt you? Who hurts you? Man? Like this is

583
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Speaker 7: not She hadn't called you back for a week or something.

584
00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:53,880
Speaker 7: And then and then she posts a picture on Instagram,

585
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Speaker 7: like with a dude in Hawaii. Then you might have

586
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Speaker 7: some questions, but like, no, that's problem. Four hours later

587
00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:01,760
Speaker 7: she told you back when she had time to talk.

588
00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:04,760
Speaker 7: I don't think that's wrong at all. Listen, I read

589
00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:06,800
Speaker 7: the Dan Bavarian book and I listened to.

590
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Speaker 3: Myself.

591
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Speaker 7: Damn Blair. Okay, now I'm gonna go Yeah, all right,

592
00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:15,600
Speaker 7: that's all I need to do. Respect her mind.

593
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Speaker 3: So she said she's.

594
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Speaker 1: Supposed to beg you. Yeah, she's good to.

595
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Speaker 7: She's supposed to answer the phone one ring every time

596
00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:22,960
Speaker 7: you reach out.

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Speaker 8: I mean, come on, man, I mean I can acceptly

598
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Speaker 8: she picks up.

599
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Speaker 7: On the third or fourth ring, but like at least

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Speaker 7: bl Okay, So, Marcie, I think I know she's that interested, Trey.

601
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Speaker 7: I'll asked the question. I think I know the answer too.

602
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Speaker 7: Would you like to go out with Marcy? We'll pay

603
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Speaker 7: for it. No, I'd rather get concertickets to me and

604
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Speaker 7: do that.

605
00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:42,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, you need don't lead.

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Speaker 3: This stuff alone.

607
00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:43,480
Speaker 7: Yeah, I don't think so.

608
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Speaker 3: GPT you got them go. You need to lead it alone.

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Speaker 7: Okay, it's not going to work out. Marcie Tray best

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Speaker 7: have luked to both of you. Thank you. Caln's Entertainment report.

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Speaker 7: He's on the Fread Show.

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Speaker 9: Prettey Spears Son is making a noticeable change, at least online.

613
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Speaker 9: Sean Preston has updated his Instagram handle to Sean Pee

614
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Speaker 9: Spears My Little Heart, dropping his dad, Kevin Feederlin's last

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Speaker 9: name and adding his mama's. The change comes as he's

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Speaker 9: been spending more time as we've seen with Brittany recently,

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Speaker 9: including a family outing with his brother. They were on

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Speaker 9: a boat, signs of the relationship moving forward. And I

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Speaker 9: know she's going through it, but I know this is

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Speaker 9: all she's ever wanted and those boys mean everything to her.

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Speaker 1: So I love seeing that.

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Speaker 9: I told you how Rihanna is fully teamed Sierra from

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Speaker 9: Summerhouse and she even unfollowed Amanda Batula over this, you know,

624
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Speaker 9: surprise relationship. But now I'm hearing via Dumis that a

625
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Speaker 9: friend of Sierra's is saying that Rihanna is so team Sierra.

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Speaker 9: She has been incessantly dming her about an a list

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Speaker 9: actor that she wants to set her up with.

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Speaker 1: Oh, the streets thing is Michael B. Jordan.

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Speaker 9: You've heard that, which would be amazing. There would be

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Speaker 9: a little bit of a high difference. But he is

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Speaker 9: so fine and she is so fine. So I really

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Speaker 9: do believe this. I know Rihanna is like fully such

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Speaker 9: a fan of the show, and I know that I

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Speaker 9: could see her doing this, and so I do think

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Speaker 9: that she's trying to set her up with a rebound

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Speaker 9: and maybe even you know, some some brand deals or whatever.

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Speaker 9: So we we love to see Rihanna in her corner,

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00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:13,040
Speaker 9: and really quick, I know we got to move to

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Speaker 9: the showdown. But Buffalo Bills QB Josh Allen and singer

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Speaker 9: Hailey Steinfeld are the parents of a baby girl. I

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Speaker 9: love them so much. They announced yesterday in her newsletter

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Speaker 9: that their daughter has been born without cheering.

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Speaker 1: Yes, she has a newsletter apparently still, and so does

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Speaker 1: j Low. So like those two people set out newsletters to.

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Speaker 3: Start one, you know, that would be good for my friendships.

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Speaker 7: I'm let everybody what's going on with the good and

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Speaker 7: the bad?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: Every what?

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Speaker 3: Do want it? Every month or every week?

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Speaker 7: I want it? Well, I get one every day. Yeah,

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Speaker 7: I'm eager to go. You know, I may not need

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Speaker 7: to be on the list, but.

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Speaker 9: Some other folks like you right, you're right, So congrats

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Speaker 9: to them. She's been looking beautiful all award show ceremony

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Speaker 9: with her bump and now they have a baby girl

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Speaker 9: Fred show on demand. By the way, if you want

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Speaker 9: to catch up on an anything you missed from the

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Speaker 9: week on the Free I Heard radio, it's the fread show.

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Speaker 7: Do you have what it takes to battle show biz

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Speaker 7: Shelley in the show Biz Showdown? Here's the thing, you guys.

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Speaker 7: Someone cut the connection between Shelley's mansion and the radio station. Shelley.

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Speaker 1: Oh, hello, good morning.

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Speaker 7: Someone cuts a connection. I swear Coors trying to meddle again.

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Speaker 7: They can't beat us, so they try and steal from us,

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Speaker 7: and now they're coming here and cutting wires. Unbelievable.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, go ahead, yes, literally, like there's a wire cut.

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Speaker 7: That's what I've been told.

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Speaker 1: Like, literally, there's something that's not lovedy.

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Speaker 7: You know what I know can't stop Shelley because we

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Speaker 7: still got access to a landline plow Shelley. But you

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Speaker 7: know it can't Andy. That's exactly right, Mahogany is back

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Speaker 7: this morning. I'm Mahogany.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Good Friday, Good.

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Speaker 7: Morning, good morning. Yes, happy good Friday to you as well.

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Speaker 7: If you celebrate so five hundred bucks. You've tied now twice.

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Speaker 7: Shelley's overall record one and thirty five wins, only seventy

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Speaker 7: eight losses. Let's see if we can end this salemate today.

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Speaker 7: I don't know. Shelley, put the phone down, and we'll

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Speaker 7: send a smoke signal, yes, sign or something.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, yeah, all right, good luck.

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Speaker 7: All right, she put the phone done. We're getting the

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Speaker 7: fire ready to send the smoke signal the carrier pigeon.

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Speaker 7: We'll release it a moment over here. She cannot hear

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Speaker 7: these questions begining number one. In Breaking News yesterday, a

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Speaker 7: judge dismissed most of Blake Lively's charges against this actor director.

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Speaker 3: Oh Jonathan Baldoni.

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Speaker 7: Brittany, excuse me, Bethany Frankel, not Brittany, her sister, beth

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Speaker 7: her cousin, Berethany, Brethany, be right, god. Bethany Frankel, Sonia

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Speaker 7: Morgan and Ramona Singer was spotted together in Paris, which

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Speaker 7: Real Housewives franchise have they all been on.

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Speaker 1: Three.

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Speaker 7: Yes, the City the Row House of New York, which

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Speaker 7: singer announced her upcoming album, Too Much Info yesterday.

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Speaker 1: Oh three, say it again?

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Speaker 7: A new album, too Much Info? Three A what is

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Speaker 7: the name of the space mission to the Moon that's

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Speaker 7: happening right now? And this daughter to Michael Jackson is

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Speaker 7: twenty eight years old today?

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Speaker 1: Three? I think she got two?

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Speaker 10: Yeah? Two.

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Speaker 7: This is a little bit tough for today. Yeah, all right,

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Speaker 7: we're sending the smokes signal now, Jason the fireworks show,

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Speaker 7: all right, Shelley two, you got to get a two?

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Speaker 1: Oh wow?

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Speaker 3: Okay none.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, breaking news yesterday a judge dismissed most of Blake

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Speaker 7: Lively charges against this actor and director. Yeah, that's right.

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Speaker 7: Bethany frankel Sonia Morgan and Ramona Singer was spotted together

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Speaker 7: in Paris. Which Real Housewives franchise? Have they all been on? Yeah?

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Speaker 7: What's the problem?

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Speaker 9: So I think I got the title of the album wrong,

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Speaker 9: so we may need to give it to both of them.

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Speaker 7: Okay, all right, Well, what is the title of the album?

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Speaker 7: Read it?

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Speaker 1: Jed Is called you Seem Pretty Sad for a girl.

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Speaker 5: So in love.

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Speaker 7: I don't know how we got that anyway, too much info,

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Speaker 7: not the one that we gave out that it is right.

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Speaker 7: Maybe that's what you're thinking, is too much informational caption.

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Speaker 1: So I thought that was the name. It was bolded,

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Speaker 1: but that's not me.

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Speaker 7: We're going to give it to her. But let's just

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Speaker 7: see if you get it. Which singer announced her upcoming

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Speaker 7: album whatever he just said yesterday.

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Speaker 6: I don't know what we're talking about.

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Speaker 7: So yeah, all right, what is the name of the

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Speaker 7: space mission to the Moon this week? Yes? And this

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Speaker 7: daughter that Michael Jackson is twenty eight years old today.

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Speaker 1: All right, five, it's a clean one.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, you're going if we give you a three, Mahogany,

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Speaker 7: she got a five. Okay, So Mahogany, you did a

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Speaker 7: great job. We're gonna find you something because you were

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Speaker 7: on the show like eight times this week. But you

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Speaker 7: have to say, my name is Mahogany. I got showed

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Speaker 7: up on the showdown, and you can't hang with a gorilla.

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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, thank you guys.

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Speaker 6: I love you guys so much. My name is Mahogany,

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Speaker 6: and I got showed up on the showdown.

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Speaker 1: And I can't hang with the gorilla.

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Speaker 7: No, you're right, Mahogany you for a while, but today

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Speaker 7: you couldn't hang with Olivia Rodrigo.

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Speaker 10: Or Cat Cat Cat, Cat Cat Cat.

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Speaker 3: You seem so pretty sad for a girl in love.

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Speaker 7: What thank you, guys, Thank you, Mahogany, Shelley. I want

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Speaker 7: you both to have a great day and stay right there. Okay,

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Speaker 7: thank you, and get somebody out there. She'll be fixed

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Speaker 7: the line.

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Speaker 4: I am on it, trust me, I'm on it.

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Speaker 7: We got a beef something back in Yeah. So we

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Speaker 7: had a full security force for you, but we're gonna

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Speaker 7: have to get more, all right, Terry Mike, Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 7: where is he? He deployed or something. I don't know what.

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Speaker 7: We wouldn't know because he's you know.

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Speaker 1: Top secrets that live in Miami.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, he stopped secretly right exactly at the day Club

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Speaker 7: in Vegas. Uh So, five point fifty is the price

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Speaker 7: on Monday, and that's when number one and thirty six

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Speaker 7: for the show by Shelley. The Friday Throwback dance party

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Speaker 7: is next on The Fred Show's Day More Fred's Show

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Speaker 7: next right here,