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Speaker 1: Everybody ready ready an iHeartRadio podcast A.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe we should just add it in there every

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Speaker 2: time we just do like or we.

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Speaker 3: Could edit it in my voice going an you're rat.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and Tanya rad.

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Speaker 3: We blew people's minds last week. We told them Sisany

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Speaker 3: was the voice of that. I kind of remember a

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Speaker 3: messages saying.

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Speaker 2: What oh really, yeah that is funny.

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Speaker 3: But we can't fix it till she gets back.

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Speaker 2: But until then we'll add our Tanya rad In ourselves.

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Speaker 4: Do it rogue.

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Speaker 2: Well, we'll make do with what we have, which is us.

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Speaker 4: What we have is everything we need.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's powerful. What's going on? I haven't seen I've

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Speaker 2: been out of town, so I haven't seen you. Limit

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Speaker 2: to when I'm with my family. I kind of like

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Speaker 2: zone into my family because I don't get to see

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Speaker 2: them that often.

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Speaker 1: So it's really like a brutal band aid that she

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Speaker 1: just rips off me because I will. And actually, I

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Speaker 1: don't know if you noticed yesterday, I didn't text you

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Speaker 1: at all, yeah until you texted you, because I want

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Speaker 1: to respect because first of all, it annoys me when

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Speaker 1: I text you in the hours go by and you

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Speaker 1: don't respond. I know you're with your family. No, you're

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Speaker 1: not doing it intentionally, but it's annoying. So I was like, O, hey, fine,

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Speaker 1: she's probably like at the beach again with her family.

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Speaker 4: I'm just gonna like not text.

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Speaker 2: I know. I feel like a lot of my friends

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Speaker 2: are like, hello, like where are you.

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Speaker 1: Beca's been like getting annoyed with me lately because I've

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Speaker 1: just been so demanding of her time.

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Speaker 2: That's my cardboard cutout for those of you. She apparently

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Speaker 2: has emotions towards Tanya was annoyed with you.

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Speaker 1: I've been also like ending up, like like I was

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Speaker 1: texting Jojo last night and I was like, I like,

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Speaker 1: do you miss me?

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Speaker 4: I'm like sorry, I'm being really needy right now.

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Speaker 3: And because oh my gosh.

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Speaker 4: And like Haley, Haley's like on tour and I'm like,

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Speaker 4: do you love me?

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Speaker 1: Still?

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Speaker 3: This is Jojo Fletcher and Hailey Steinfeldt. You're harassing.

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Speaker 2: Publicly apologize to Jojo. Sorry for that. Yes, Oh I'm

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Speaker 2: glad you're back. Thanks, I'm happy to be back. It's

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Speaker 2: like really good to see my family. But I flew

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Speaker 2: with Phoebe for the first time since Christmas when she

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Speaker 2: was she was like two pounds at the time. And

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Speaker 2: my sisters were flying with me, so it's pretty easy,

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Speaker 2: you know process flying with her then well, since then

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Speaker 2: she is very spoiled, does not like being contained, and

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Speaker 2: the flight attendants made me put her in the carrier

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Speaker 2: below the sea. It was I was mortified. I felt

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Speaker 2: like those moms whose babies don't stop crying. She was

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Speaker 2: like it was like the sharp yelping. So finally, so

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Speaker 2: finally everyone was like very understanding and they're like, oh,

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Speaker 2: I felt bad for it.

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Speaker 3: Like five hours.

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Speaker 2: Well, so she cried and then she'd like turn around

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Speaker 3: Oh no, that's cute.

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Speaker 1: You know what you should do next time you fly,

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Speaker 1: which I love when like parents that have a new

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Speaker 1: baby do that when they pass out, like those little

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Speaker 1: things to the people around them.

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Speaker 4: I'm going to be that mom when I have kids

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Speaker 4: and I fly with them. I'm going to be that

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Speaker 1: Has a little like care packages for the people that

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Speaker 1: sit around us, being like, I know my baby's probably

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Speaker 1: gonna cry. Sorry, here's a orbit gum and some sweet tree. Right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, ear plugs is like really what you need. But

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Speaker 2: my thing is most people fly with headphones in right.

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Speaker 2: I mean you're either watching so much.

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Speaker 4: The practicality of it, it's just the gesture, Okay.

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Speaker 2: I see. It opens the door of being like I'm sorry,

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Speaker 2: yeah in advance.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and you can't get the like dirty eyes because you.

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Speaker 3: Can though because I'm sorry at advance. It'd be like, oh.

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Speaker 1: No no, but if you give somebody the dirty eyes

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Speaker 1: after they give you a cute little package, like you're

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Speaker 1: an asshole?

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Speaker 4: Okay, but am I allowed to say that on you?

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Speaker 2: An a hole is what she meant? An a hole?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: This does not have an explicit warning near our name, Tanya.

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Speaker 2: That's true.

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Speaker 3: So it is Tanya's birthday Eve, Yeah, today it is.

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Speaker 2: I was supposed to be out of town for Tanya's

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Speaker 2: birthday tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: Literally all my like I'd say, like eighty five percent

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Speaker 3: Is it is vacation season?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, And so I was supposed to go to

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Speaker 2: Bermuda and then that, and so I moved that to

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Speaker 2: I'm not going at all. So here here for.

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Speaker 3: You and you and you guys are going to actually

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Speaker 2: Yes, it's gonna be Tawny's day of fun. Oh, whatever

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Speaker 2: wants to do. If she wants to do workout class,

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Speaker 2: I'll do whatever she wants to.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, go to the Yeah we can you do orange theory,

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Speaker 1: perfect swim walk on the beach for the New year.

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Speaker 2: Your new birth year birthday? Ye're not like, it's not

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Speaker 2: the new year.

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Speaker 3: Year thirty two.

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Speaker 2: You're thirty Yeah, thirty.

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Speaker 3: One turning thirty one, meaning you're starting your thirty second year.

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Speaker 2: Okay, oh wow, so interesting. Yeah. So I My whole

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Speaker 2: thing was like, it's Tawniest day. I'm up for whatever.

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Speaker 3: That's so nice.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 3: So what do you think shoot for the moon?

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Speaker 2: Yeah that sounds there's no honestly, like options are endless,

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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 3: So I guess next week we'll find out.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: By the way, we teased a lot of things last week.

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Speaker 3: One was the crackers.

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Speaker 1: Crackers Okay, so I tried them. They I actually enjoy them.

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Speaker 1: Mark was not a fan.

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Speaker 3: I think we should do a challenge on the show

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Speaker 4: I would be able to tell the I don't know I.

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Speaker 3: Could if we put the same spices on the cardboard.

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Speaker 3: I don't know that you could tell the difference.

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Speaker 4: I quite enjoyed the crowd.

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Speaker 2: Okay, however, so funny.

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Speaker 1: Message to the girl that made them or something, and

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Speaker 1: I was like, how many of these are you supposed

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, I don't know. I don't know if it's so.

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Speaker 1: What I've been doing is I've been crumbling them, like

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Speaker 1: my salads is like croutons.

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Speaker 3: That's actually that's probably that probably works delicious.

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Speaker 2: It's probably like there's not much taste, but you have

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Speaker 2: to Yeah, right, interesting, Okay, So that paid off inspired

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Speaker 2: by things that you do for your body, because I

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Speaker 2: not good things for my body. So the fact that

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Speaker 2: you're willing to eat cardboard tasting crackers to.

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Speaker 1: Help they're actually really I wish I had one so

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Speaker 4: But they're actually really delicious.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'll take your word for it.

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Speaker 3: Delicious is a strong like you could say, like they're

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Speaker 3: good or something, but there's nowhere new delicious. You do

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Speaker 3: a thing which I kind of respect.

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Speaker 2: I know what you're about to say.

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Speaker 3: You convince yourself like, no, no, no, no, I love kale

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Speaker 3: way more than chocolate. It's like a mental game you

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Speaker 3: play with yourself. Oh, you seem to have actually convinced.

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Speaker 3: And my wife does this too. You actually convinced yourself. No, no, no,

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Speaker 3: I much prefer this bowl of vegetables to the pizza.

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Speaker 3: The youeriat it. It's much rather.

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Speaker 2: She so does that, and I respect it too, because

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Speaker 2: I'm like, if I could mentally go there, I could

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Speaker 2: change a lot of things in my life. But I

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Speaker 2: know the reality is that pizza and chocolate are better

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Speaker 2: than salad and cardboard crackers.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm telling you though, it's because the way it

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Speaker 2: Okay, but its delicious.

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Speaker 3: Sure that was you telling yourself that I would love

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Speaker 3: for you to try these crackers back.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I can guarantee.

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Speaker 3: The first bite, you'd be like, you know what, they're

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Speaker 2: I did this three day like cleanse type thing last

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Speaker 2: year before Coachella, and it was like you drink the

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Speaker 2: proteins the protein powder, and it was literally like you couldn't.

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Speaker 2: It was like water in the protein powder. That was it.

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Speaker 2: And I did it for it was supposed to be

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Speaker 2: seven days. I made it for three. And then my

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Speaker 2: if I want anything from Jack in the box. And

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Speaker 2: that's where things turn. Yeah, they took a sharp turn.

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Speaker 3: What did you have for breakfast this morning? Or have

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Speaker 3: you eaten today?

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Speaker 2: I haven't eaten today.

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Speaker 3: It's eleven am and you've not eaten a thing?

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Speaker 2: No nothing.

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Speaker 3: What will you eat when you leave here?

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Speaker 2: I'm sure? What do you do for lunch? Well?

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Speaker 4: I made a salad, but I keep my salad tomorrow.

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Speaker 4: If you want to go to courl treat I have okay,

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Speaker 4: you have the plans.

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Speaker 2: I have some things I have to do. Don't worry

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Speaker 2: about it.

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Speaker 3: We need to get to the doctor w conversation. But

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Speaker 3: I'm wondering if we should maybe talk about care Of

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Speaker 3: before we do that.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, Oh I just got my care of.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'm really into the care of vitamins.

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Speaker 1: This is actually a good segue because we're talking about

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Speaker 1: eating healthy.

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Speaker 2: And treating our body.

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Speaker 4: Treating body right, something that I'm a firm belief.

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Speaker 1: I'm a big believer in vitamins, but taking the vitamins

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Speaker 1: that you need to right now, there's so taking a

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Speaker 1: million vitamins that don't do anything.

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Speaker 2: Right, and everyone's body is different. So care Of is

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Speaker 2: a monthly subscription vitamin service and they deliver completely personalized

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Speaker 2: vitamin and supplement packs right to your door.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and so you go.

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Speaker 1: You take this online quiz asks you about your diet

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Speaker 1: and your health goals, lifestyle choices.

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Speaker 2: No, thank you so much for coming on. I love

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Speaker 5: was buy the Farris Wheel, which everyone you know goes

447
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Speaker 5: and takes their photo there, and you know, I'm being

448
00:19:17,720 --> 00:19:20,080
Speaker 5: sent out by brands, going to parties like living my

449
00:19:20,119 --> 00:19:23,159
Speaker 5: best blogger life and all I could think about, was

450
00:19:23,240 --> 00:19:25,439
Speaker 5: I need this photo by the Ferris Wheel, right, and

451
00:19:25,720 --> 00:19:27,600
Speaker 5: here I am like stick with a fever. I just

452
00:19:27,680 --> 00:19:31,080
Speaker 5: missed my favorite performer, and all I can care about

453
00:19:31,200 --> 00:19:33,000
Speaker 5: was the photo that I needed to post on my

454
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Speaker 5: Instagram to show the world that, like, I was at

455
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Speaker 5: Coachella having the best time, and I took this photo

456
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Speaker 5: and it was the most perfect photo that you could

457
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Speaker 5: ever post. And I just came back and I was

458
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Speaker 5: just like, first of all, when I was at Cotella,

459
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Speaker 5: I looked around me and saw everyone else doing the

460
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Speaker 5: same thing, blogger not taking these photos, And I'm like,

461
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Speaker 5: what world do we live in where like we're all

462
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Speaker 5: so consumed with like posting these things on social media

463
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Speaker 5: that we can't even enjoy a moment and like be

464
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Speaker 5: happy for ourselves. Is what I felt, because I was

465
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Speaker 5: so upset at that moment. And so when I came back,

466
00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:05,560
Speaker 5: I just felt like I was on this mission for

467
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Speaker 5: this past year to kind of change the way that

468
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Speaker 5: we see and speak about social media and like really

469
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Speaker 5: bring awareness to the fact that, like, and I wrote

470
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Speaker 5: in this post that I did of that photo that

471
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Speaker 5: if I didn't say anything, you would have thought this

472
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Speaker 5: was the most perfect photo in the perfect day, but

473
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Speaker 5: in fact I was sick. I missed my performer and

474
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Speaker 5: all this stuff. But through social media, you don't know

475
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Speaker 5: these things and you don't see these things. So I

476
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Speaker 5: wanted to start a challenge about so we can all

477
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Speaker 5: have this conversation that we all are aware that we

478
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Speaker 5: all deal with things, we deal with imperfections, we deal

479
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Speaker 5: with real life struggles and kind of like unifying the

480
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Speaker 5: world in this way. And so the concept of that

481
00:20:41,200 --> 00:20:43,080
Speaker 5: woke up this way is I'm like, well, what's the

482
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Speaker 5: most imperfect photo of ourselves? And that's what we look

483
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Speaker 5: like when we wake up in the morning without our

484
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Speaker 5: hair and makeup done. And I know, so for a

485
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Speaker 5: lot of girls taking part in this movement, it's been

486
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Speaker 5: even more powerful since you can't wear the hair and

487
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Speaker 5: makeup that guys don't typically have to wear. But yeah,

488
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Speaker 5: so it's just been a conversation of like bringing realness

489
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Speaker 5: back to social Media's like the tagline I've created about it,

490
00:21:05,880 --> 00:21:08,000
Speaker 5: so in every way of like what you look like

491
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Speaker 5: because a lot of girls, you know, put filters on

492
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Speaker 5: things and stay tuned things, and then also about the

493
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Speaker 5: real struggles we kind of go through behind the scenes

494
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Speaker 5: with the perfect photos.

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Speaker 2: It's so true, Like I go to these amazing events

496
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Speaker 2: and these shows, and I have these moments where I'm

497
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Speaker 2: focused on getting the perfect photo or the perfect video,

498
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Speaker 2: and I have I've had moments where I think, like,

499
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Speaker 2: why am I not enjoying this? Like this is such

500
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Speaker 2: an amazing experience, and it's it's getting warped by trying

501
00:21:38,440 --> 00:21:40,320
Speaker 2: to get a photo to post on Instagram.

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Speaker 4: I think it's just.

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Speaker 1: Like, also, it doesn't have to be a per because

504
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Speaker 1: you know what, I love Instagram. I don't care, I'll

505
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Speaker 1: admit it. I freaking love it. Yeah, love Instagram, and

506
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Speaker 1: I like sharing photos. I like posting photos places that

507
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Speaker 1: I go. But it's it's like it doesn't have to

508
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Speaker 1: be the perfect photo. I think, like sometimes we get

509
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Speaker 1: so hung up on like does it you know what

510
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Speaker 1: I mean? Then I do it too, where like you

511
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Speaker 1: get hung up on having like the perfect photo, where

512
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Speaker 1: sometimes it's like maybe we.

513
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Speaker 4: Just like just post a photo.

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. Yeah, yeah, it doesn't have to

515
00:22:06,520 --> 00:22:09,800
Speaker 2: be like I think. I sometimes am like I need

516
00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:12,159
Speaker 2: the perfect background, the lighting needs to be great, and

517
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Speaker 2: it's like why not just post what it was like

518
00:22:14,960 --> 00:22:16,480
Speaker 2: there and that we had a great.

519
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Speaker 5: Time, tunds just percent and it's like, I mean even

520
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Speaker 5: with my friends, it's like I didn't get to sony

521
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Speaker 5: likes on the photo. Should I delete it? And it's

522
00:22:23,119 --> 00:22:25,399
Speaker 5: like we all are living in this world and like

523
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Speaker 5: to get likes, like we feel validated by the amount

524
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Speaker 5: of lives and comments we get. You know.

525
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Speaker 1: I actually went back to this to my high school.

526
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Speaker 1: This is a couple months ago, and this girl told

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Speaker 1: me that if she doesn't get a hundred likes on

528
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Speaker 1: her photo, she takes it down. And I was like, wow,

529
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Speaker 1: this girl's probably fourteen years old.

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Speaker 5: It's so sent And I was like one girl that

531
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Speaker 5: posted like like I've been reading everyone's comments and like captains,

532
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Speaker 5: which has been more moving than just even.

533
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Speaker 4: The photo itself.

534
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Speaker 5: And this one like fourteen year old girl wrote this

535
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Speaker 5: thing like, you know, like I'm not so happy with

536
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Speaker 5: what I look like and it's even affected like the

537
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Speaker 5: way I talk to boys and like all this us

538
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Speaker 5: but like she saw someone else post this which inspired

539
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Speaker 5: her post. I'm just going to do this because I

540
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Speaker 5: just I feel like I should and like, I you know,

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Speaker 5: I feel better like doing this post. And this is

542
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Speaker 5: like but I'm also posting a photo like as a

543
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Speaker 5: swipe like of me with a filter, just so like

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Speaker 5: I feel a.

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Speaker 4: Little better about myself.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, well I think yeah, I think it's more

547
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Speaker 2: of just I mean, Instagram is fun and there is

548
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Speaker 2: so many things you can do with editing, and there

549
00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:25,119
Speaker 2: is fun to it. I mean, I don't think anyone

550
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Speaker 2: should be shamed for editing or doing anything like that,

551
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Speaker 2: but I do think it is important to show the

552
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Speaker 2: real parts during, you know, throughout the craziness that hey

553
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Speaker 2: I have a pimple, or hey my hair is terrible

554
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Speaker 2: right now, or hey, you know, I'm not happy with

555
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Speaker 2: my body, but I'm working towards something to be better,

556
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Speaker 2: and I think it's really important. So I'm I'm so

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Speaker 2: glad that we got to talk to you and have

558
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Speaker 2: you come on the show and talk about it because

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Speaker 2: it is very important, right.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you so much for taking the time.

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Speaker 5: Thank you so much for sharing this movement. It's so

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Speaker 5: spussful and I'm just like so overwhelmed with all the

563
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Speaker 5: people that are loving the idea and feeling unified other

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Speaker 5: So thank you guys for sharing it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So, once again, her website is fashion lane dot com

567
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Speaker 2: and what's your Instagram.

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Speaker 5: Like, yeah, it's I am Fashion Lane, but it's.

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Speaker 3: L A I n E.

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Speaker 2: All right, perfect, So I am Fashion Lane. And then

571
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Speaker 2: the hashtag is Woke Up this Way Challenge, So everyone

572
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Speaker 2: check it out. It's pretty awesome.

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Speaker 5: Everyone get woke.

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Speaker 2: Bye, have a good day.

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Speaker 5: Bye bye.

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Speaker 1: I was like so moved by this Alley Fedatowski photo.

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Speaker 4: I don't know why.

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Speaker 1: It just like really hit me because I think I

579
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Speaker 1: don't know why it just like affected me so much.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's kind of similar. Caitlin Bristow did the real

581
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Speaker 2: Instagram where she and I did a few like I've

582
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Speaker 2: done a few photos where it's just like no makeup,

583
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Speaker 2: this is what I look like, no filter or anything,

584
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Speaker 2: and it is really interesting to see how people react

585
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Speaker 2: to it. You realize how important it is to show

586
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Speaker 2: people that you know, like beyond all the like professional

587
00:24:57,640 --> 00:25:02,840
Speaker 2: photos and the makeup and the like everyone is because.

588
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Speaker 1: Like I saw photos so this was her second child

589
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Speaker 1: that she just had. I saw photos of her after

590
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Speaker 1: her first child, and like she got her body.

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Speaker 4: I don't know how.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how long it takes to get your

593
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Speaker 1: body back. I've never had a baby, but I saw

594
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Speaker 1: photos of her after her first and looked like she

595
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Speaker 1: bounced back really quick. Body looks banging, you know. And

596
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Speaker 1: then she posted this, I don't I think she's the

597
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Speaker 1: baby in May and it's just so like I was like, wow,

598
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Speaker 1: that that takes like it's so brave to just like

599
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Speaker 1: bear all your imperfections like that. Yeah, and then she'll

600
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Speaker 1: get her body back. I mean, obviously it takes time,

601
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Speaker 1: but it's just really crazy.

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Speaker 3: I wish people knew how beautiful they are. Like no

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Speaker 3: one seems to know that, you know what I'm saying, Yeah,

604
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Speaker 3: like no one. Everyone is in their own way, but

605
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Speaker 3: no one gets that.

606
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Speaker 1: Totally because everybody wants to change something about themselves. There's

607
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Speaker 1: always something.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, there's always something, And I think that's so strange.

609
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Speaker 3: And that's the world we live in. Now that we

610
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Speaker 3: have the ability to change those things, we just do

611
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Speaker 3: it rather than accepting ourselves.

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Speaker 1: I have a friend that like, she thinks that her

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Speaker 1: face is like not cute. She likes her body, but

614
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Speaker 1: she's like, I don't like my face. I'm like, you

615
00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:10,920
Speaker 1: are so pretty, like are you? It's so weird.

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Speaker 3: It is weird. It's all weird.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it is weird. And I think it's like we

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Speaker 2: it is. I mean, I love social media and it's

619
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Speaker 2: my job essentially, but there is that point where you go, okay,

620
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Speaker 2: like this isn't all real all the time, and so

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Speaker 2: I think that's why these posts like Ali, yeah, this

622
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Speaker 2: woke up this way, like that's why they stick out

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Speaker 2: to us.

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Speaker 1: And Lena did you see Lena Dunhams no posts? She

625
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Speaker 1: posted two photos side by side and she's like, the

626
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Speaker 1: one on the left, I'm one hundred and thirty pounds

627
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Speaker 1: eating like whatever not, you know, getting compliments, compliments by

628
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Speaker 1: everybody on the cover of tabloids, saying like the diet

629
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Speaker 1: that works. And on the right side, I'm one hundred

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Speaker 1: and sixty some pounds happy, getting compliments from people that

631
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Speaker 1: care about me, and uh, eating like eating normal food

632
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Speaker 1: or I can't remember exactly what it was, but essentially

633
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Speaker 1: it was like side by side, like thirty pound difference

634
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Speaker 1: and just.

635
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Speaker 4: How like mentally freed she felt, you know.

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Speaker 1: Being She's like, I'm happier and like it doesn't matter,

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00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:15,359
Speaker 1: and she's like, yeah, sometimes I look at the photo

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Speaker 1: on the left and I think, like, dang, I looked better,

639
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:21,560
Speaker 1: but like my happiness matters more. Yeah, and like you

640
00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:23,239
Speaker 1: can tell on the photos, you know what I mean,

641
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Speaker 1: like just that.

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Speaker 2: It yeah, yeah, I know. I've seen someone posted reposted

643
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Speaker 2: a story like that on our Facebook group and she

644
00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:34,199
Speaker 2: was saying she she was getting all the guys that

645
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Speaker 2: she wanted and she was just like as skinny as

646
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Speaker 2: she wanted to be. But she was like I was miserable.

647
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Speaker 2: I'd go home and feel like this emptiness. And then

648
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Speaker 2: she posted a photo of her now and she was like,

649
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Speaker 2: I'm married to this guy who adores me and loves me,

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Speaker 2: and it's it's really.

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Speaker 1: It's interesting because like especially for me, so I obviously

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Speaker 1: I've been open about the fact that I was doing

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Speaker 1: you know, Teddy's accountability program, and like I lost a

654
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Speaker 1: lot of weight and I set this goal for myself

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Speaker 1: and it was like a weight, like a number on

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Speaker 1: the scale, and I never hit that number. But I

657
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Speaker 1: didn't as I was like going down and like I

658
00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:09,960
Speaker 1: was eating healthier and feeling better.

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Speaker 4: I didn't want to hit that number anymore.

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Speaker 1: I wanted to just be where I'm at now because

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Speaker 1: this to me feels sustainable and I feel happy and

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Speaker 1: I feel healthy and I feel like I look good

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Speaker 1: and I never like it was just like I didn't

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Speaker 1: never hit that number that I wanted to hit.

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Speaker 4: In my mind, if that makes sense. But it doesn't

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Can we get into this. We've put it off for

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Speaker 3: on the website on the Facebook group from Joe who said,

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Speaker 3: I'm curious what everyone else thinks. What do y'all use

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Speaker 3: to wash your body with? And then you put choices

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Speaker 3: you could vote loofa your hands washcloth, And here are

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Speaker 3: the results. Fifty four percent of a loofah oh, thirty

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Speaker 3: five percent said their hands, eleven percent in seat of washcloth.

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Speaker 3: So before I read some of the comments, which I

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Speaker 3: thought were hilarious, what do you guys use to wash

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Speaker 3: yourselves in the shower? I am a loofa person.

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Speaker 2: Oh wait, I use a Why are you grossed out?

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Speaker 4: Do you know how much bacteria is in that? Do

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Speaker 4: you wash it daily? In hot water?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? No you don't, well, yeah I do. It's in

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Speaker 2: the shower.

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Speaker 3: That's the hot water that's coming out of the shower.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, No, it needs to be like you

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Speaker 1: need to throw it in like your washing machine or something.

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Speaker 2: Oh I don't whatever. Okay, I don't consider myself that dirty.

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Speaker 4: You're washing bacteria's skin, that's.

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Speaker 2: Oreat But I will say this, if I'm using like

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Speaker 2: a bar soap bar all the time, using a bar

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Speaker 2: of soap, I use my hands. Yes, I'd never use

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Speaker 2: a washcloth. Okay, so I go between hands in the lufa.

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Speaker 3: How often have you been using a loofa? Not the

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Speaker 3: same loof I just loof is in your life?

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Speaker 2: You know? I would say quite a few years, quite

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Speaker 2: a few years.

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Speaker 3: And as it made you sick? Have you vomited from loofa?

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Speaker 2: Use? Oh? It smell very good.

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Speaker 3: This bacteria that's making Tanya turn green talking about it?

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Speaker 3: Has that ever caused problems for you?

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Speaker 2: Me?

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Speaker 3: Neither have been Lufa guy for a long time. Is

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Speaker 3: shoes and that is clearly the winner. Tanya, what are

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Speaker 3: you use?

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying it's going to make you sick. I

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Speaker 1: use my hands.

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Speaker 2: Do you know how many bacteria is in your hands?

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Speaker 4: Not when you wash your hands with soap and birthday twice.

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Speaker 2: With soap on it and wash it off in hot water.

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Speaker 1: I don't think you wash it well enough because your

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Speaker 1: skin particles get inside the loofa and then they just

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Speaker 1: sit there in wetness and they just like grow bacteria

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Speaker 1: day and day out.

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Speaker 3: But so whatci us anywhere?

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Speaker 5: Take?

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Speaker 4: You don't want to wash yourself to clean the world.

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Speaker 3: The world is bacteria. We're surrounded by.

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Speaker 2: Bacteria in a bacteria filled world.

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Speaker 3: Many Blanco's feet were on that counter?

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Speaker 4: Who Benny Blanco?

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Speaker 2: Why what counter? Where?

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Speaker 3: I know this counter the tiny is sitting at He

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Speaker 3: put his feet up there to prove that he was barefoot.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and you're just like sitting there.

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Speaker 3: But it's bacteria. We're saying, it's all bacteria.

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Speaker 4: But I'm not putting it on my arm.

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Speaker 3: Okay, but let me ask you. Let me give you

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Speaker 3: Lindsay's comment, because I kind of this is my thought,

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Speaker 3: is kind of where Lindsay she's speaking for me. She said,

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Speaker 3: when I first dated my boyfriend's I was amazed that

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Speaker 3: there was not a washcloth in the shower. You're telling

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Speaker 3: me I'm supposed to finger my own belly button and

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Speaker 3: butt crack to get clean. No, thank you? Is that

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Speaker 3: not what you just admitted to doing.

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 1: Yes, but I don't you mean putting a loofo in

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Speaker 1: your all these places day and day at with all

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Speaker 1: the bacteria and they're.

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Speaker 4: Just so how are you cleaning it with my hands?

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Speaker 4: My hands have gone far?

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Speaker 2: She's saying. You're telling me I'm supposed to finger my

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Speaker 4: Button spinger, then yeah, wash your hands right out and

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Speaker 4: wash your hands.

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Speaker 3: Uh as far as the washcloths go. Uh, my Mallory,

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Speaker 3: I lived with a friend in high school. Literally didn't

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Speaker 3: was shocked. Isn't that literally what they're for wash cloths.

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Speaker 3: Isn't that why they're manufactured in the first place. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: but that was before the loofa understood. But isn't that

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Speaker 3: the point of washcloths? Like you can choose one or

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Speaker 3: the other, but the point is to wash with a

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Speaker 4: Yes, I suppose, I don't know. I don't work for

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Speaker 3: Vanessa agrees with time you for all be saying loofah,

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Speaker 3: stop it. It's seriously not sanitary. But if you must

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Speaker 3: change them every week, yeah, every.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, if I had to do one every day, I

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Speaker 3: It all seems waste It's all very strange. So I

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Speaker 3: don't think we've come to an it. No, I think

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Speaker 2: I mean, I use it like I don't use a washcloth.

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Speaker 2: It's either a loof on my hand, tory, what do

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Speaker 3: She's a washlo So everyone's right, throw the washing machine.

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Speaker 1: I want them all to be what's the word uniform

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Speaker 1: unison the same?

886
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Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, but.

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Speaker 1: I wanted to do it when I moved into my

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Speaker 1: new when I moved into my own place, so that

889
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Speaker 1: I can have a place to like actually put them up.

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00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:37,160
Speaker 3: You don't want them to be uniformist that what you're saying.

891
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Speaker 4: No, I want them to all look the same kind

892
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Speaker 4: of because.

893
00:38:39,840 --> 00:38:41,680
Speaker 3: At the iHeart building here, all of the artwork on

894
00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:44,160
Speaker 3: the walls is very very the same every room you go,

895
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Speaker 3: and they're like a consistent look. And is that kind

896
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Speaker 3: of what you're going for?

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Speaker 1: Yes, But I don't have anywhere right now in my

898
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Speaker 1: apartment to put these things framed, so I've been saving

899
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Speaker 1: them up.

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Speaker 4: So that's what I'm going to do.

901
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Speaker 1: I'm going to have them send me like the packaging

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Speaker 1: so I can safely send them these little trinkets and

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Speaker 1: I can get them back framed and put into my

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Speaker 2: Yeah. It's so cute and it's really really easy. Like

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Speaker 3: We hadn't mentioned that. That's big deals in Tanya's life

927
00:40:06,560 --> 00:40:08,879
Speaker 3: that she's gonna have her own place in San Fernando Valley.

928
00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:10,360
Speaker 3: She's leaving her roommate.

929
00:40:10,600 --> 00:40:12,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, well it's like happening.

930
00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:14,719
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, what where you went out of town?

931
00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:17,399
Speaker 3: And I'm moving out and she's moving far away from Becca?

932
00:40:18,480 --> 00:40:19,879
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm moving across the four or five.

933
00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:22,839
Speaker 3: Wow. So if you don't live in Los Angeles, I'm

934
00:40:22,840 --> 00:40:24,840
Speaker 3: not sure how to explain this to you. But basically,

935
00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:26,919
Speaker 3: they're going to be a good twenty minute drive away

936
00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:29,000
Speaker 3: from each other. But that's twenty minutes is on the

937
00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:31,440
Speaker 3: worst freeway in America. So it's going to be at

938
00:40:31,520 --> 00:40:33,359
Speaker 3: least forty five minutes to an hour away from each other,

939
00:40:33,360 --> 00:40:35,280
Speaker 3: which I think is going to harm this friendship.

940
00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:37,480
Speaker 2: It's like we're only going to see each other when

941
00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:39,319
Speaker 2: we do the podcast pretty much.

942
00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:41,040
Speaker 3: Do you ever go to the valley?

943
00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:42,799
Speaker 2: Not often? Yeah?

944
00:40:43,000 --> 00:40:43,040
Speaker 3: No?

945
00:40:43,239 --> 00:40:43,399
Speaker 4: Never?

946
00:40:44,080 --> 00:40:44,560
Speaker 2: Yeah never?

947
00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:47,200
Speaker 4: And I always have to go to your house?

948
00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:49,440
Speaker 3: What when?

949
00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 4: Where we are now? I mean you're two blocks away

950
00:40:51,560 --> 00:40:51,759
Speaker 4: from me?

951
00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:52,120
Speaker 2: Right?

952
00:40:52,239 --> 00:40:53,400
Speaker 3: You never go to Tanya's No?

953
00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:55,279
Speaker 2: Why she never invites me? Yeah?

954
00:40:55,520 --> 00:40:57,040
Speaker 4: Becca's house is like cozier.

955
00:40:58,239 --> 00:41:01,040
Speaker 2: Oh I love that. I'm welcome, Matt says, come in

956
00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:02,040
Speaker 2: and cozy up.

957
00:41:04,080 --> 00:41:07,560
Speaker 3: That's such southern charm. All right, we have a wide

958
00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:11,440
Speaker 3: variety of email topics to get to this week. First

959
00:41:11,640 --> 00:41:12,960
Speaker 3: is Vanessa, I'm.

960
00:41:12,920 --> 00:41:13,680
Speaker 4: Really not going to see you.

961
00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:17,080
Speaker 2: I mean this is going to be talk about this.

962
00:41:17,200 --> 00:41:18,920
Speaker 3: These are different area codes now, and if you ever

963
00:41:18,960 --> 00:41:21,880
Speaker 3: saw swingers different area you know, the three one and

964
00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:23,440
Speaker 3: the one at are very different places.

965
00:41:23,520 --> 00:41:24,800
Speaker 4: Don't you want to move to the valley?

966
00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:28,799
Speaker 2: No? I mean I am looking for places, but there's

967
00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:31,400
Speaker 2: no set and it's not set in motion or anything.

968
00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:33,000
Speaker 3: Well, now you have motivation.

969
00:41:33,200 --> 00:41:37,040
Speaker 1: I know thing I Haveka, but it's actually really cute,

970
00:41:37,160 --> 00:41:39,279
Speaker 1: Like I kind of like this area, Like I'm liking

971
00:41:39,320 --> 00:41:39,919
Speaker 1: it more and more.

972
00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:41,760
Speaker 3: Okay, Bea, you may need a Fanya.

973
00:41:42,600 --> 00:41:45,400
Speaker 2: I might actually can we start of gofund me from Kanya.

974
00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:46,800
Speaker 4: You don't even want a Fanya.

975
00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:51,960
Speaker 1: She doesn't need a Fanya because I'm always here, so

976
00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:54,520
Speaker 1: like Fanya, I would really get neglected.

977
00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:57,240
Speaker 2: Okaynya, I need Fanya.

978
00:41:58,040 --> 00:42:00,040
Speaker 3: All right, Vanessa. First of all, she has one of

979
00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:01,680
Speaker 3: the things to say, she loves you. She feels like

980
00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:02,520
Speaker 3: she really knows you.

981
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:02,880
Speaker 6: Guys.

982
00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:05,120
Speaker 3: Congrats and all your success with the podcast, and Tanya

983
00:42:05,360 --> 00:42:07,200
Speaker 3: keep up the great work filling in on on air

984
00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:08,759
Speaker 3: with Ryan Seacrest, isn't that nice to first?

985
00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:09,600
Speaker 2: That is so nice.

986
00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:12,400
Speaker 3: She's twenty eight and a mom of two adorable babies.

987
00:42:12,440 --> 00:42:14,680
Speaker 3: They're a year apart, fifteen months and two months, almost

988
00:42:14,680 --> 00:42:17,239
Speaker 3: a year apart, you know, Irish twins. Some would say

989
00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:20,200
Speaker 3: life with kids is so incredible, but also exhausting, and

990
00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:22,960
Speaker 3: obviously it takes more effort to do social activities. I'm

991
00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:25,560
Speaker 3: the first of my girlfriends to have kids. They're all

992
00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:28,439
Speaker 3: thrilled to be honorary aunties, but do you think they're

993
00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:30,600
Speaker 3: okay with the kids tagging along when they invite us

994
00:42:30,600 --> 00:42:33,720
Speaker 3: to social events. We're grateful to have the grandma's babysit

995
00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:35,279
Speaker 3: for big events, but we don't feel like we're going

996
00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:36,880
Speaker 3: to take advantage of them for every little dinner and

997
00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:39,320
Speaker 3: brunch dates, so we bring the kids along. My husband

998
00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:40,680
Speaker 3: and I have always said we don't want to become

999
00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:42,760
Speaker 3: hermits or say no to plans because of the kids.

1000
00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:45,520
Speaker 3: But are we annoying our friends? They don't seem to

1001
00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:48,120
Speaker 3: be annoyed, but we're worried that they're annoyed. So would

1002
00:42:48,120 --> 00:42:50,480
Speaker 3: you guys be annoyed if one of your circle of

1003
00:42:50,560 --> 00:42:55,160
Speaker 3: friends always brought their babies out that silence tells you

1004
00:42:55,239 --> 00:42:58,239
Speaker 3: a lot. Vanessa, Okay, here's the thing.

1005
00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:02,120
Speaker 2: It really depends on how the kids behave because I

1006
00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:05,759
Speaker 2: love baby. I love kids like I love babies. I

1007
00:43:05,840 --> 00:43:08,040
Speaker 2: can I'm always the one if we're at a social

1008
00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:09,880
Speaker 2: event and there's a baby, I'm always like kind of

1009
00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:12,120
Speaker 2: creepy where I'm like, I'll hold your baby if you

1010
00:43:12,160 --> 00:43:14,560
Speaker 2: want to bro and I'm like I'm good with kids,

1011
00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:16,799
Speaker 2: like you can trust me, but they've never met me before,

1012
00:43:16,880 --> 00:43:20,359
Speaker 2: but I am very happy to do that. I don't

1013
00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:23,239
Speaker 2: know if every time if I invited my friend out

1014
00:43:23,280 --> 00:43:26,680
Speaker 2: and they brought the kids, if I'd be like excited

1015
00:43:26,719 --> 00:43:28,160
Speaker 2: every time if I'm being It's.

1016
00:43:28,080 --> 00:43:31,759
Speaker 1: Just it's so weird because like when you're in a

1017
00:43:31,880 --> 00:43:34,840
Speaker 1: certain like I guess season of life, Like we're not

1018
00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:37,200
Speaker 1: in that season in our lives, so like it doesn't

1019
00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:40,480
Speaker 1: even it doesn't even dawn on me, like I feel, uh,

1020
00:43:41,280 --> 00:43:41,720
Speaker 1: it doesn't.

1021
00:43:41,840 --> 00:43:42,920
Speaker 4: I wouldn't even like.

1022
00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:43,840
Speaker 2: What do we do?

1023
00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:45,719
Speaker 1: We like hang out of each other's houses and like

1024
00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:48,919
Speaker 1: go do random things like yeah, I don't know, it'd

1025
00:43:48,960 --> 00:43:51,399
Speaker 1: be weird to be like, okay, yeah, bring a kid

1026
00:43:52,000 --> 00:43:55,560
Speaker 1: to the well, to bring to kids to the sweat lodge.

1027
00:43:55,360 --> 00:43:55,440
Speaker 2: Or.

1028
00:43:57,480 --> 00:43:58,640
Speaker 3: Dinner drinks.

1029
00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:02,359
Speaker 2: Maybe there's like a time like maybe once every other

1030
00:44:02,520 --> 00:44:04,759
Speaker 2: time you bring the kids, and maybe the other times

1031
00:44:04,800 --> 00:44:06,560
Speaker 2: you either don't go or you get a babysitter.

1032
00:44:07,000 --> 00:44:09,120
Speaker 3: I think there does. As the guy with kids, I

1033
00:44:09,200 --> 00:44:12,520
Speaker 3: think there is a ramp up of missing activities and

1034
00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:14,520
Speaker 3: I know the phone work can be difficult or.

1035
00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:17,279
Speaker 1: Like I would, Uh, two of my friends just had

1036
00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:19,239
Speaker 1: a baby and they invite me over to their house

1037
00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:19,560
Speaker 1: a lot.

1038
00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:21,919
Speaker 4: So I just go to their house. We have dinner

1039
00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:24,160
Speaker 4: at their house to hang out with cute little Lenin

1040
00:44:24,400 --> 00:44:25,839
Speaker 4: and like all is good.

1041
00:44:26,600 --> 00:44:28,000
Speaker 3: Actually, like the kids don't want to be there.

1042
00:44:28,200 --> 00:44:29,000
Speaker 2: That's what I was going to say.

1043
00:44:29,120 --> 00:44:31,680
Speaker 3: Friends, your kids there, I think you probably are gonna

1044
00:44:31,680 --> 00:44:33,520
Speaker 3: have to give up some stuff. I know you don't

1045
00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:35,279
Speaker 3: want to be hermits, but maybe you have.

1046
00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:38,319
Speaker 2: Social nights at the house or every other time or something.

1047
00:44:39,000 --> 00:44:41,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, behalf hermits, yeah, semi hermits.

1048
00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:43,960
Speaker 2: Like it is it kind of is. It's not like

1049
00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:47,640
Speaker 2: obviously you adore your kids and you're happy with your life,

1050
00:44:47,680 --> 00:44:49,960
Speaker 2: but there are there are there are sacrifices you make

1051
00:44:50,160 --> 00:44:51,000
Speaker 2: become a parent, and.

1052
00:44:51,160 --> 00:44:52,839
Speaker 3: It's great that your friends aren't making you feel that way.

1053
00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:55,440
Speaker 3: But I think your friends are probably over it, or

1054
00:44:55,560 --> 00:44:58,960
Speaker 3: just invite them over. Yeah, Anonymous, she thank you so

1055
00:44:59,080 --> 00:45:00,520
Speaker 3: much for the podcast. I know you heard of a

1056
00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:02,320
Speaker 3: thousand times, but thanks to each of you and the

1057
00:45:02,360 --> 00:45:06,439
Speaker 3: Facebook group, I have grown as an individual tremendously. Let's

1058
00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:08,920
Speaker 3: h praise Anyway, she was talking about what we were

1059
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:12,680
Speaker 3: talking about, people who can't have children recently July ninth.

1060
00:45:12,760 --> 00:45:15,080
Speaker 3: She says she was born with a syndrome that prevents

1061
00:45:15,120 --> 00:45:18,080
Speaker 3: her from ever carrying children. And while she may never

1062
00:45:18,160 --> 00:45:20,600
Speaker 3: be able to be barefoot and pregnant like she's always

1063
00:45:20,680 --> 00:45:23,520
Speaker 3: dreamed of being, she may be able to have a surrogate,

1064
00:45:23,640 --> 00:45:25,840
Speaker 3: she may adopt. She's not sure. But anywhere point is

1065
00:45:26,200 --> 00:45:28,440
Speaker 3: at what point in a relationship do you tell the

1066
00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:31,000
Speaker 3: person that you can't have children? Like that doesn't seem

1067
00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:34,279
Speaker 3: like first date conversation. So when do you say that

1068
00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:36,400
Speaker 3: before the guy feels like he's been duped? It's too

1069
00:45:36,480 --> 00:45:39,799
Speaker 3: far in she's asking me in Easton. I'll mentioned Easton

1070
00:45:39,840 --> 00:45:41,319
Speaker 3: in a second. But how would you handle it if

1071
00:45:41,320 --> 00:45:43,239
Speaker 3: you're significant other way you know they couldn't have kids.

1072
00:45:43,320 --> 00:45:45,239
Speaker 3: Is it a turn off? Could you love them the same?

1073
00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:47,560
Speaker 3: What would you want from your significant other in the

1074
00:45:47,680 --> 00:45:50,960
Speaker 3: taking it in period. Thanks for your help. Love you guys, dearly.

1075
00:45:51,160 --> 00:45:53,239
Speaker 3: You've helped me become the young lady I am today.

1076
00:45:53,880 --> 00:45:57,080
Speaker 3: So sweet. That is really nice. East is not but

1077
00:45:57,200 --> 00:45:58,839
Speaker 3: on the past couple of weeks because he's doing another

1078
00:45:58,880 --> 00:46:02,600
Speaker 3: podcast down the hall. We're an assembly line at iHeartMedia,

1079
00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:04,439
Speaker 3: and so we're having to divide and conquer a little

1080
00:46:04,440 --> 00:46:06,879
Speaker 3: bit because there's more. We're always creating more.

1081
00:46:07,000 --> 00:46:11,800
Speaker 6: Not happy about this, selfish she will be back, Yeah, okay, anyway, thoughts,

1082
00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:17,200
Speaker 6: I don't know.

1083
00:46:17,239 --> 00:46:19,080
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know when the right time is

1084
00:46:19,200 --> 00:46:22,000
Speaker 2: to bring that up. Obviously it's not the first date.

1085
00:46:22,200 --> 00:46:25,359
Speaker 2: But I do think if it becomes where you could

1086
00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:28,359
Speaker 2: see yourself with this person long term, I think when

1087
00:46:28,760 --> 00:46:31,280
Speaker 2: that moment hits of like I could see myself marrying

1088
00:46:31,320 --> 00:46:34,280
Speaker 2: this person and him being the father of my kids

1089
00:46:34,360 --> 00:46:38,919
Speaker 2: that I hope to adopt or have someone else carry

1090
00:46:38,920 --> 00:46:41,080
Speaker 2: for me one day, I think it's important for you

1091
00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:43,439
Speaker 2: to be honest and upfront about that, because you don't

1092
00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:46,680
Speaker 2: want to get to a point where he feels like

1093
00:46:47,160 --> 00:46:52,440
Speaker 2: you withheld this information from him. However, I don't personally

1094
00:46:52,680 --> 00:46:55,239
Speaker 2: I and I am a female, but if it's a

1095
00:46:55,360 --> 00:46:59,279
Speaker 2: turn off, I would be surprised. I mean, I guess

1096
00:46:59,680 --> 00:46:59,840
Speaker 2: it's not.

1097
00:47:00,000 --> 00:47:03,319
Speaker 4: I mean, she can always surrogacy is an option. It's

1098
00:47:03,320 --> 00:47:04,120
Speaker 4: not like she can't.

1099
00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:08,000
Speaker 3: True, because I think, speaking as a guy, guys are

1100
00:47:08,120 --> 00:47:13,040
Speaker 3: very selfish. Guys want to make more of themselves right

1101
00:47:13,160 --> 00:47:15,080
Speaker 3: in the world, you know, I think it could be

1102
00:47:15,560 --> 00:47:18,160
Speaker 3: a deal breaker for some guys. The surrogacy is interesting

1103
00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:20,879
Speaker 3: because then it still is your kid and his kid.

1104
00:47:21,160 --> 00:47:25,680
Speaker 3: And that's kind of the same idea adopting, as Glorioa says,

1105
00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:27,920
Speaker 3: that is, I think some people don't put that at

1106
00:47:28,200 --> 00:47:30,000
Speaker 3: the top of their list, right, and so if you're

1107
00:47:30,040 --> 00:47:32,080
Speaker 3: not deep enough into the relationship, they're going to look

1108
00:47:32,120 --> 00:47:35,239
Speaker 3: elsewhere perhaps, So it's it's a it's a tough tight

1109
00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:35,799
Speaker 3: rope to walk.

1110
00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:38,440
Speaker 1: I mean, I would probably give the worst advice because

1111
00:47:38,520 --> 00:47:41,600
Speaker 1: I'm such a bully. I overshare to the tenth degree.

1112
00:47:41,719 --> 00:47:43,000
Speaker 1: So like second third date.

1113
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:47,920
Speaker 4: In I'm like bearing every part of me to somebody,

1114
00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:48,840
Speaker 4: So like I.

1115
00:47:49,480 --> 00:47:51,959
Speaker 1: Would not be willing to give you any advice because

1116
00:47:52,000 --> 00:47:53,960
Speaker 1: I probably do the opposite than what you should do.

1117
00:47:54,480 --> 00:47:56,360
Speaker 1: Like literally third day with doctor W I was like

1118
00:47:56,840 --> 00:48:02,040
Speaker 1: and I like am constipated, I have like no filter,

1119
00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:04,400
Speaker 1: and like I try to like give all the like

1120
00:48:04,800 --> 00:48:07,400
Speaker 1: bad news early so that they know like what to

1121
00:48:07,480 --> 00:48:08,520
Speaker 1: prepare for, you know what I mean.

1122
00:48:08,760 --> 00:48:10,440
Speaker 3: This morning, she said, how much time do I have?

1123
00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:13,360
Speaker 3: But ten minutes? Okay, I'm going to go change my tampon, Tanya,

1124
00:48:13,640 --> 00:48:14,520
Speaker 3: I don't need to know that.

1125
00:48:15,560 --> 00:48:17,960
Speaker 1: I know, like, and I even find myself saying I'm

1126
00:48:18,000 --> 00:48:19,440
Speaker 1: going to the restroom would have been fine?

1127
00:48:20,800 --> 00:48:23,480
Speaker 3: Fine, or not even just leaving the room. We understand

1128
00:48:23,560 --> 00:48:24,359
Speaker 3: that you're not going home.

1129
00:48:24,480 --> 00:48:26,280
Speaker 4: Well, I need to know how much time I had.

1130
00:48:26,280 --> 00:48:28,440
Speaker 2: Yes, well, yeah, I go in the restroom would have sufficed.

1131
00:48:28,760 --> 00:48:30,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, I just overshare.

1132
00:48:30,160 --> 00:48:32,600
Speaker 1: And so I think I'm just not going to give

1133
00:48:32,640 --> 00:48:35,960
Speaker 1: my advice on this, yeah, because I think i'd say

1134
00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:38,840
Speaker 1: Tom right away, but that would not be Well, it's probably.

1135
00:48:38,600 --> 00:48:40,680
Speaker 3: Better to be upfront at some point. But it's not

1136
00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:42,600
Speaker 3: first date, it's not second date. But it's probably when

1137
00:48:42,600 --> 00:48:44,680
Speaker 3: the intimacy starts to ramp up. That's probably the time.

1138
00:48:46,880 --> 00:48:48,640
Speaker 2: But I also don't think it should be something that

1139
00:48:48,719 --> 00:48:50,719
Speaker 2: you live with like shame about, Like you know, it's

1140
00:48:50,800 --> 00:48:53,160
Speaker 2: something that you can't control. And you do have the

1141
00:48:53,200 --> 00:48:55,040
Speaker 2: option to be a parent or mom one day, and

1142
00:48:55,160 --> 00:49:00,960
Speaker 2: that's very exciting and I hope that whoever you're dating like,

1143
00:49:01,120 --> 00:49:04,399
Speaker 2: respects that and loves you all the way.

1144
00:49:05,760 --> 00:49:09,279
Speaker 3: Scrubbing in at iHeartMedia dot com. This one's frustrating. But

1145
00:49:09,320 --> 00:49:10,719
Speaker 3: this is one of those emails where I think a

1146
00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:12,319
Speaker 3: lot of times people sit down to write us an

1147
00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:16,480
Speaker 3: email and they answer their own question. They get it

1148
00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:18,800
Speaker 3: all out and all the answers are right there on

1149
00:49:18,880 --> 00:49:21,080
Speaker 3: the page, and they still can't quite see it. This

1150
00:49:21,280 --> 00:49:25,239
Speaker 3: is Chelsea changed his tune is what it's titled. I

1151
00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:27,360
Speaker 3: moved in with my on and off again boyfriend for

1152
00:49:27,440 --> 00:49:29,920
Speaker 3: eight years. I'm sorry. We've been together eight years on

1153
00:49:30,040 --> 00:49:32,200
Speaker 3: and off. We moved in together four months ago. Things

1154
00:49:32,239 --> 00:49:34,680
Speaker 3: were fine for a while, then they went downhill. He

1155
00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:37,080
Speaker 3: says he's unhappy and things can't be fixed. He has

1156
00:49:37,120 --> 00:49:39,560
Speaker 3: burned out emotionally. He doesn't see us working out, he

1157
00:49:39,680 --> 00:49:42,319
Speaker 3: doesn't want kids, he doesn't want marriage with me, etc.

1158
00:49:43,360 --> 00:49:44,799
Speaker 3: It's so hard for me to just chalk it up

1159
00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:46,640
Speaker 3: and say we're different people. That's not the issue. The

1160
00:49:46,719 --> 00:49:49,680
Speaker 3: issue is his lack of affection. His lack of sex

1161
00:49:49,760 --> 00:49:52,680
Speaker 3: drives lack of romance in any way, never planning things

1162
00:49:52,719 --> 00:49:56,160
Speaker 3: with me ever, no communication, taking me for granted. He

1163
00:49:56,280 --> 00:49:57,759
Speaker 3: said he thinks it would be best if I move

1164
00:49:57,800 --> 00:50:01,640
Speaker 3: out because it's his house. Hurt by this, I packed

1165
00:50:01,680 --> 00:50:03,520
Speaker 3: a bag because I wanted us to take time apart

1166
00:50:03,560 --> 00:50:05,920
Speaker 3: before I officially move out. I'm thinking maybe if I

1167
00:50:05,960 --> 00:50:07,960
Speaker 3: spend some time away from him, he'll realize that he's

1168
00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:10,120
Speaker 3: making a mistake. Maybe it would give us time to

1169
00:50:10,160 --> 00:50:12,560
Speaker 3: cool down and see the situation better. Or should I

1170
00:50:12,600 --> 00:50:14,120
Speaker 3: get all my stuff out of there right now? I

1171
00:50:14,239 --> 00:50:16,279
Speaker 3: know once I move out there is no going back,

1172
00:50:16,440 --> 00:50:19,040
Speaker 3: and it's over for good. I can never forgive him

1173
00:50:19,160 --> 00:50:21,920
Speaker 3: for giving up on us again and kicking me out again.

1174
00:50:22,080 --> 00:50:25,400
Speaker 3: I just can't, Chelsea, get out. What's the deal you

1175
00:50:25,480 --> 00:50:28,520
Speaker 3: gotta get out of that? I mean, you're ranting here,

1176
00:50:28,760 --> 00:50:31,080
Speaker 3: so maybe you're leaving out all of the wonderful qualities

1177
00:50:31,120 --> 00:50:33,080
Speaker 3: he has. But I don't see any on this page.

1178
00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:36,759
Speaker 2: I see nothing that should I mean, aside from just

1179
00:50:36,920 --> 00:50:39,080
Speaker 2: being used to some Oh No has.

1180
00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:39,560
Speaker 3: A different take.

1181
00:50:40,040 --> 00:50:40,200
Speaker 2: Take.

1182
00:50:40,360 --> 00:50:43,000
Speaker 1: I don't have a different take, but I think it's

1183
00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:45,319
Speaker 1: a lot easier when you're not in the relationship. They've

1184
00:50:45,320 --> 00:50:48,279
Speaker 1: been together for eight years, on and off, on and off.

1185
00:50:48,320 --> 00:50:50,799
Speaker 1: But eight years is a long time of your life.

1186
00:50:50,880 --> 00:50:54,759
Speaker 2: I told her he doesn't want her, basically in we

1187
00:50:54,840 --> 00:50:57,480
Speaker 2: don't know in what context he doesn't want to see

1188
00:50:57,719 --> 00:50:59,919
Speaker 2: things working out, nor does he want kids or mayor

1189
00:51:00,280 --> 00:51:01,959
Speaker 2: with me. He doesn't. He's saying he don't want.

1190
00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:04,120
Speaker 3: Her, And on top of him saying those things with

1191
00:51:04,320 --> 00:51:08,359
Speaker 3: his mouth, he's been telling you all these things nonverbally

1192
00:51:08,680 --> 00:51:11,640
Speaker 3: for a long time. No affection, no sex, drive, no romance,

1193
00:51:11,719 --> 00:51:15,880
Speaker 3: no planning things, no communication. This sounds like a terrible relationship, Chelsea,

1194
00:51:16,080 --> 00:51:16,360
Speaker 3: I know.

1195
00:51:16,560 --> 00:51:18,759
Speaker 1: But I just I feel for her because I feel

1196
00:51:18,840 --> 00:51:22,760
Speaker 1: like she's she's wrestling with the idea because she's invested

1197
00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:25,279
Speaker 1: so much of her time and energy and like wants

1198
00:51:25,360 --> 00:51:26,319
Speaker 1: us to work so bad.

1199
00:51:26,480 --> 00:51:28,920
Speaker 3: I don't know her age, but I think we can assume.

1200
00:51:28,960 --> 00:51:30,680
Speaker 3: I think most of our listeners and just from the

1201
00:51:30,680 --> 00:51:33,480
Speaker 3: Facebook grouper in the mid twenties, yeah, maybe late twenties. Yeah,

1202
00:51:33,480 --> 00:51:35,680
Speaker 3: So I think's probably You're right, she's given a good

1203
00:51:35,840 --> 00:51:36,399
Speaker 3: junk of her.

1204
00:51:36,320 --> 00:51:38,760
Speaker 4: Life, so she's just kind of scraping.

1205
00:51:39,080 --> 00:51:41,000
Speaker 3: But also that means she doesn't know what else is

1206
00:51:41,040 --> 00:51:41,319
Speaker 3: out there.

1207
00:51:41,480 --> 00:51:41,640
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1208
00:51:41,719 --> 00:51:43,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, And that's the other thing. I think a lot

1209
00:51:43,520 --> 00:51:46,120
Speaker 1: of people fear like, I'm not going to get better

1210
00:51:46,200 --> 00:51:49,000
Speaker 1: than this, so I just need to stay in this

1211
00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:49,640
Speaker 1: and make it work.

1212
00:51:49,680 --> 00:51:50,040
Speaker 4: So wow.

1213
00:51:50,080 --> 00:51:52,120
Speaker 1: I think that's like a really really big fear that

1214
00:51:52,160 --> 00:51:54,960
Speaker 1: people have, like I'm I can't do better than this,

1215
00:51:55,239 --> 00:51:58,560
Speaker 1: when that's actually like not, it's such a lie that

1216
00:51:58,640 --> 00:52:01,200
Speaker 1: we tell ourselves. It's like we create these narratives in

1217
00:52:01,239 --> 00:52:03,200
Speaker 1: our head and then like we make these narratives into

1218
00:52:03,239 --> 00:52:05,480
Speaker 1: a reality. When like you say, I'm not going to

1219
00:52:05,520 --> 00:52:07,680
Speaker 1: deserve better, You're not going to find better. But when

1220
00:52:07,719 --> 00:52:11,040
Speaker 1: you're like envisioning and praying and thinking about that beautiful

1221
00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:14,160
Speaker 1: relationship that you want and you deserve, you're gonna step

1222
00:52:14,200 --> 00:52:14,520
Speaker 1: into it.

1223
00:52:14,840 --> 00:52:15,919
Speaker 4: It's just gonna take some time.

1224
00:52:16,040 --> 00:52:16,960
Speaker 3: So let's motivate her.

1225
00:52:17,320 --> 00:52:19,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, at the very least, Chelsea, you deserve to

1226
00:52:19,960 --> 00:52:22,759
Speaker 2: be with someone who wants you. Like, at the very least,

1227
00:52:22,840 --> 00:52:24,400
Speaker 2: that should be like level one.

1228
00:52:24,760 --> 00:52:26,680
Speaker 1: Someone who wants I think what, Chelsea, I think what

1229
00:52:26,760 --> 00:52:28,759
Speaker 1: you should do is you should write down what you

1230
00:52:28,880 --> 00:52:31,759
Speaker 1: want out of a relationship, what your expectations are of

1231
00:52:32,000 --> 00:52:37,279
Speaker 1: a happy where you see yourself with somebody, and really

1232
00:52:37,360 --> 00:52:39,440
Speaker 1: start like write them down, physically write them down, look

1233
00:52:39,440 --> 00:52:42,040
Speaker 1: at them every day, and just start really envisioning that.

1234
00:52:42,320 --> 00:52:44,160
Speaker 3: And Chelsea, you are amazing.

1235
00:52:44,520 --> 00:52:46,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, And you woke up like this, Yeah, and you're

1236
00:52:46,680 --> 00:52:48,719
Speaker 4: a modern woman. Yes, get out there.

1237
00:52:49,120 --> 00:52:50,359
Speaker 2: Yes, you do better.

1238
00:52:50,600 --> 00:52:51,239
Speaker 3: You're a cat.

1239
00:52:51,560 --> 00:52:53,400
Speaker 2: Deserve you.

1240
00:52:53,719 --> 00:52:58,160
Speaker 3: No, someone's gonna be so lucky to have you someday, Chelsea,

1241
00:52:58,200 --> 00:52:59,920
Speaker 3: and you're gonna be like, why did I wat eight

1242
00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:00,879
Speaker 3: years with that guy?

1243
00:53:01,040 --> 00:53:02,879
Speaker 2: I know? Or time wasted on this guy?

1244
00:53:03,040 --> 00:53:05,880
Speaker 1: No, And he's gonna and he one day is going

1245
00:53:05,920 --> 00:53:09,320
Speaker 1: to wake up and be like, yes, why let her go?

1246
00:53:09,560 --> 00:53:12,080
Speaker 1: And you know what, You're gonna be so far gone

1247
00:53:12,800 --> 00:53:16,880
Speaker 1: that he's going to be like, shoot, I'm gonna have

1248
00:53:16,920 --> 00:53:18,279
Speaker 1: to go with Plan B. I could have had my

1249
00:53:18,360 --> 00:53:20,400
Speaker 1: Plan A yep, but I screwed it up.

1250
00:53:20,800 --> 00:53:23,920
Speaker 2: And you're gonna be with your plan A h at

1251
00:53:23,960 --> 00:53:24,520
Speaker 2: that point.

1252
00:53:24,360 --> 00:53:25,800
Speaker 4: Which you're going to think was your Plan B, but

1253
00:53:25,880 --> 00:53:26,800
Speaker 4: it was always your plan A.

1254
00:53:27,000 --> 00:53:28,399
Speaker 3: Go get all your stuff out of his house?

1255
00:53:28,520 --> 00:53:31,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, pack all the bags.

1256
00:53:32,040 --> 00:53:32,480
Speaker 3: Brandy.

1257
00:53:32,960 --> 00:53:35,600
Speaker 4: Wait, wh I like this anonymous one? Which one to

1258
00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:36,600
Speaker 4: insecure to date?

1259
00:53:36,680 --> 00:53:39,360
Speaker 3: All right? She turned twenty seven dating a ton in

1260
00:53:39,400 --> 00:53:41,520
Speaker 3: the last year, and she's not incountering great men because

1261
00:53:41,520 --> 00:53:44,080
Speaker 3: of this. I'm extra insecure whenever I first start talking

1262
00:53:44,160 --> 00:53:46,840
Speaker 3: to someone. How do I shake off these insecurities and

1263
00:53:46,920 --> 00:53:49,520
Speaker 3: not have the idea that every man just wants one thing.

1264
00:53:50,120 --> 00:53:52,120
Speaker 3: For example, I totally ruined things with a guy I

1265
00:53:52,239 --> 00:53:53,879
Speaker 3: was last dated because he said I had so many

1266
00:53:53,920 --> 00:53:57,279
Speaker 3: insecurities and jealousies he couldn't handle it. But if you

1267
00:53:57,320 --> 00:53:59,279
Speaker 3: only knew how much I've been hurt, can you help

1268
00:53:59,280 --> 00:53:59,799
Speaker 3: a girl out?

1269
00:54:01,239 --> 00:54:01,800
Speaker 4: So sad?

1270
00:54:01,920 --> 00:54:02,600
Speaker 3: It is sad.

1271
00:54:04,239 --> 00:54:08,160
Speaker 4: Because like I've been there, We've all.

1272
00:54:08,120 --> 00:54:15,400
Speaker 3: Been there, right, We've all felt unworthy because like, Nope, I.

1273
00:54:15,480 --> 00:54:18,879
Speaker 2: Did not say that. Wait, that's not fair.

1274
00:54:20,000 --> 00:54:28,400
Speaker 4: She'd give me this look like okay, that is not

1275
00:54:28,840 --> 00:54:31,240
Speaker 4: fair to get to your credit.

1276
00:54:31,320 --> 00:54:33,520
Speaker 1: I don't think it's that you don't have insecurities. I

1277
00:54:33,640 --> 00:54:35,480
Speaker 1: think you just don't care when you're dating.

1278
00:54:35,840 --> 00:54:38,400
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, first of all, the look on my face

1279
00:54:38,440 --> 00:54:42,880
Speaker 2: as I was thinking about lunch for and so I

1280
00:54:42,920 --> 00:54:45,360
Speaker 2: don't even know what face I was making, So that

1281
00:54:45,560 --> 00:54:49,200
Speaker 2: was not fair. But what what are you implying that

1282
00:54:49,280 --> 00:54:50,640
Speaker 2: I've never been insecure?

1283
00:54:51,280 --> 00:54:54,560
Speaker 1: No, because she's talking about how that dating with all

1284
00:54:54,600 --> 00:54:56,239
Speaker 1: these insecurities can be really hard.

1285
00:54:57,040 --> 00:54:58,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm how bad she's been hurt.

1286
00:54:58,719 --> 00:55:04,000
Speaker 2: I am very blessed that. Emotionally, I don't let myself

1287
00:55:04,080 --> 00:55:07,360
Speaker 2: get too invested in anything, and so it makes it

1288
00:55:07,520 --> 00:55:09,800
Speaker 2: very easy to if something like if I meet a

1289
00:55:09,880 --> 00:55:13,520
Speaker 2: guy and he this feelings isn't recipricador or whatever to

1290
00:55:13,680 --> 00:55:15,400
Speaker 2: just write whatever. He wasn't the one. I know.

1291
00:55:15,719 --> 00:55:18,359
Speaker 1: It's so that is not easy for people to it's

1292
00:55:18,440 --> 00:55:20,880
Speaker 1: not and it's like something I so badly wish that

1293
00:55:21,000 --> 00:55:22,719
Speaker 1: I could have her rub off on.

1294
00:55:22,800 --> 00:55:26,440
Speaker 2: Me, But I say I could get super excited about something.

1295
00:55:26,560 --> 00:55:26,800
Speaker 2: I know.

1296
00:55:27,719 --> 00:55:31,000
Speaker 1: It's so frustrating because like I was saying this the

1297
00:55:31,040 --> 00:55:32,279
Speaker 1: other day, I was like, I wish I could just

1298
00:55:32,440 --> 00:55:34,200
Speaker 1: date and like not care, you know what I mean,

1299
00:55:34,320 --> 00:55:37,800
Speaker 1: just like date and not just just to date. And

1300
00:55:37,880 --> 00:55:39,920
Speaker 1: I can't do it, Like I literally I don't think

1301
00:55:39,920 --> 00:55:41,880
Speaker 1: I can go on one day somebody. The other day

1302
00:55:41,880 --> 00:55:43,960
Speaker 1: I wanted to set me up with somebody, and I

1303
00:55:44,080 --> 00:55:45,960
Speaker 1: was asking just like a lot of questions, and they

1304
00:55:46,000 --> 00:55:47,279
Speaker 1: were like why asking so many questions?

1305
00:55:47,320 --> 00:55:48,600
Speaker 4: Just go on the date. It's a free meal, and

1306
00:55:48,640 --> 00:55:48,920
Speaker 4: I'm like.

1307
00:55:50,040 --> 00:55:52,439
Speaker 1: It's not that for me, Like I would rather pay

1308
00:55:52,560 --> 00:55:55,520
Speaker 1: thirty dollars for my dinner than sit through a meal

1309
00:55:55,600 --> 00:55:56,560
Speaker 1: that someone's going to pay for.

1310
00:55:56,640 --> 00:55:58,600
Speaker 4: Me and have it not go anywhere or have it

1311
00:55:58,719 --> 00:56:00,319
Speaker 4: be boring or like not.

1312
00:56:00,440 --> 00:56:03,319
Speaker 2: Any like surface level questions that you ask someone about

1313
00:56:03,360 --> 00:56:05,799
Speaker 2: someone you can't know how you're gonna connect with something.

1314
00:56:05,840 --> 00:56:06,279
Speaker 2: It's true.

1315
00:56:06,320 --> 00:56:08,600
Speaker 1: But I know if there's a like if there's a

1316
00:56:08,640 --> 00:56:10,680
Speaker 1: couple of things, you know what I mean that are

1317
00:56:10,760 --> 00:56:12,839
Speaker 1: just such I know I could never date.

1318
00:56:12,920 --> 00:56:17,640
Speaker 4: Does that make sense, like say that this is true?

1319
00:56:20,960 --> 00:56:22,239
Speaker 2: Some things are unexpected.

1320
00:56:22,920 --> 00:56:24,759
Speaker 3: So we have any advice that work, It doesn't seem

1321
00:56:24,800 --> 00:56:27,239
Speaker 3: like we do. Yeah, insecurity is tough for the people

1322
00:56:27,280 --> 00:56:29,279
Speaker 3: experiencing it and for your partner. Yeah, And so I'm

1323
00:56:29,320 --> 00:56:31,440
Speaker 3: not sure how to just overcome insecurity. I'm not sure

1324
00:56:31,480 --> 00:56:32,080
Speaker 3: what you I mean.

1325
00:56:32,120 --> 00:56:33,480
Speaker 2: I think that was my whole when I lost my

1326
00:56:33,600 --> 00:56:36,320
Speaker 2: mojo for a second. There's that feeling of like I

1327
00:56:36,480 --> 00:56:39,160
Speaker 2: don't feel like I can go up and interact to

1328
00:56:39,200 --> 00:56:41,920
Speaker 2: someone and feel confident about it. And it does like

1329
00:56:42,040 --> 00:56:45,520
Speaker 2: make you feel insecure going into any situation, any date,

1330
00:56:45,560 --> 00:56:48,880
Speaker 2: any social environment. And I think you just have to

1331
00:56:48,920 --> 00:56:50,880
Speaker 2: get to a place where you realize, like I am

1332
00:56:50,960 --> 00:56:54,040
Speaker 2: amazing and I'm going to find someone who who thinks

1333
00:56:54,080 --> 00:56:56,920
Speaker 2: I'm amazing and who I click with And maybe it's

1334
00:56:56,960 --> 00:56:59,040
Speaker 2: going to take a while, Like we don't know how

1335
00:56:59,160 --> 00:57:01,840
Speaker 2: timing works, but it's going to happen, and you have

1336
00:57:01,920 --> 00:57:04,239
Speaker 2: to like have faith in that and not like the

1337
00:57:04,400 --> 00:57:07,280
Speaker 2: bad ones get you to a place where you're that defeated.

1338
00:57:07,440 --> 00:57:09,719
Speaker 1: I think also the hurt you're saying that you've been

1339
00:57:09,800 --> 00:57:11,319
Speaker 1: hurt so much in the past, And I think something

1340
00:57:11,360 --> 00:57:12,719
Speaker 1: that I try to do and I try to be

1341
00:57:12,840 --> 00:57:15,080
Speaker 1: really like, uh, I really try to focus on this

1342
00:57:15,360 --> 00:57:18,040
Speaker 1: is I used to take a lot of hurt from

1343
00:57:18,080 --> 00:57:21,360
Speaker 1: my past relationships and past dating experiences into every date

1344
00:57:21,440 --> 00:57:23,600
Speaker 1: that I was going on. And that's such a bad

1345
00:57:23,680 --> 00:57:26,680
Speaker 1: thing to do because you're basically giving this brand new

1346
00:57:26,720 --> 00:57:29,800
Speaker 1: person baggage that they don't even deserve to have. So

1347
00:57:29,840 --> 00:57:31,600
Speaker 1: I think just being really aware of, like the pain

1348
00:57:31,640 --> 00:57:34,000
Speaker 1: that you've felt in the past is just from your past,

1349
00:57:34,120 --> 00:57:36,840
Speaker 1: and like try and enter each new date and new

1350
00:57:36,960 --> 00:57:41,120
Speaker 1: person with a clean slate, because that's just how you

1351
00:57:41,200 --> 00:57:43,320
Speaker 1: have to do it. Yeah, you can't carry it over

1352
00:57:43,400 --> 00:57:45,120
Speaker 1: otherwise it's just going to lead to demise.

1353
00:57:45,280 --> 00:57:46,360
Speaker 3: O such a good advice.

1354
00:57:46,440 --> 00:57:47,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was gonna say it.

1355
00:57:47,160 --> 00:57:49,240
Speaker 4: That's really good advice, thank you. But it's because I

1356
00:57:49,400 --> 00:57:49,640
Speaker 4: do it.

1357
00:57:49,800 --> 00:57:52,720
Speaker 1: Like I literally ruined a really good relationship of mine

1358
00:57:52,760 --> 00:57:57,160
Speaker 1: because I just been cheated on from my boyfriend before

1359
00:57:57,240 --> 00:58:00,520
Speaker 1: this one, and so I just I was just so

1360
00:58:00,720 --> 00:58:03,120
Speaker 1: prone to be like this man's is gonna cheat on me,

1361
00:58:03,200 --> 00:58:04,880
Speaker 1: and I was like just searching for things and I

1362
00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:05,720
Speaker 1: swear I ruined that.

1363
00:58:05,840 --> 00:58:07,920
Speaker 4: I mean, I don't think he's my forever guy, like no,

1364
00:58:08,080 --> 00:58:10,520
Speaker 4: but a lot of relationship yeah, And I was.

1365
00:58:10,560 --> 00:58:13,400
Speaker 1: Just being so like insecure in that relationship when this

1366
00:58:13,480 --> 00:58:17,480
Speaker 1: guy did nothing to like for me to not trust him.

1367
00:58:18,240 --> 00:58:20,640
Speaker 2: I wanted to talk about something. There was someone posted

1368
00:58:20,720 --> 00:58:23,520
Speaker 2: something about how they get really frustrated listening to me

1369
00:58:23,720 --> 00:58:27,480
Speaker 2: because I talk about not being like emotionally ready for

1370
00:58:27,560 --> 00:58:29,960
Speaker 2: a relationship or I'm like scared of being in a

1371
00:58:30,000 --> 00:58:33,280
Speaker 2: serious relationship. But then I mentioned how I see myself

1372
00:58:33,320 --> 00:58:35,640
Speaker 2: being a mom one day, and they said something along

1373
00:58:35,680 --> 00:58:37,240
Speaker 2: the lines like they just want to shake me or

1374
00:58:37,320 --> 00:58:40,200
Speaker 2: something like that and be like, like you have to,

1375
00:58:40,440 --> 00:58:42,640
Speaker 2: like you have to be in a relationship to have

1376
00:58:42,720 --> 00:58:45,680
Speaker 2: a to have a child one day. And I would

1377
00:58:45,760 --> 00:58:47,960
Speaker 2: just like to say, I understand the confusion of that,

1378
00:58:48,240 --> 00:58:50,640
Speaker 2: but I'm also not ready to have a baby tomorrow.

1379
00:58:50,720 --> 00:58:52,560
Speaker 2: I'm not saying I'm like I could, just I know

1380
00:58:52,720 --> 00:58:54,920
Speaker 2: that I could be. I want to be a mom

1381
00:58:55,000 --> 00:59:00,800
Speaker 2: one day, and it doesn't necessarily have to I don't know,

1382
00:59:00,960 --> 00:59:02,840
Speaker 2: I don't I know it's not traditional to think like

1383
00:59:02,960 --> 00:59:05,280
Speaker 2: but if I never meet, I'm never gonna get married

1384
00:59:05,360 --> 00:59:07,560
Speaker 2: or be in a wrong relationship just so I can

1385
00:59:07,600 --> 00:59:09,880
Speaker 2: have a child, you know what I'm saying. So I

1386
00:59:10,000 --> 00:59:11,520
Speaker 2: just want to clear that up for all of you

1387
00:59:11,600 --> 00:59:14,760
Speaker 2: who have confusion about my emotional state slash wanting to

1388
00:59:14,800 --> 00:59:15,200
Speaker 2: be a mom.

1389
00:59:15,520 --> 00:59:18,080
Speaker 4: I don't I still don't understand what she was saying.

1390
00:59:18,120 --> 00:59:19,840
Speaker 2: She was just implying, like, well, you need to be

1391
00:59:19,920 --> 00:59:22,080
Speaker 2: in a relationship to have a baby, Like you have

1392
00:59:22,240 --> 00:59:24,000
Speaker 2: to be able to commit yourself to someone to have

1393
00:59:24,040 --> 00:59:26,439
Speaker 2: a baby. So if you want a baby so bad,

1394
00:59:26,560 --> 00:59:28,560
Speaker 2: like why are you so emotional.

1395
00:59:28,200 --> 00:59:30,320
Speaker 4: Hesitant to commit? Oh, you're not in a rush to

1396
00:59:30,360 --> 00:59:31,040
Speaker 4: have a baby.

1397
00:59:30,960 --> 00:59:32,520
Speaker 2: Right, she shouldn't. To clear that up.

1398
00:59:32,800 --> 00:59:37,360
Speaker 4: But also, what if you were single and you wanted

1399
00:59:37,360 --> 00:59:37,680
Speaker 4: a baby.

1400
00:59:38,640 --> 00:59:42,480
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying, and it's not traditional, But I

1401
00:59:42,560 --> 00:59:45,080
Speaker 2: get a baby whenever I want to have a baby exactly.

1402
00:59:45,600 --> 00:59:48,160
Speaker 3: But you do picture yourself though in love someday, you think,

1403
00:59:48,200 --> 00:59:50,200
Speaker 3: and with a long term, forever person.

1404
00:59:50,360 --> 00:59:54,120
Speaker 2: Yeah I do, Okay, Yeah hopefully, I mean it's a hope.

1405
00:59:54,240 --> 00:59:56,680
Speaker 2: I mean that's what you want. Yeah, But I'm also

1406
00:59:56,800 --> 00:59:58,280
Speaker 2: I'm okay if that never happened.

1407
00:59:58,320 --> 01:00:01,120
Speaker 3: Yes, I think that's the goal forever. Everyone, Right, you

1408
01:00:01,240 --> 01:00:03,000
Speaker 3: have the what is the expression?

1409
01:00:03,920 --> 01:00:04,160
Speaker 2: It is?

1410
01:00:04,800 --> 01:00:07,200
Speaker 4: Be open to the possibility but not attached to the outcome.

1411
01:00:07,320 --> 01:00:07,760
Speaker 3: Yeah it is.

1412
01:00:09,000 --> 01:00:10,680
Speaker 4: Oh no, what I actually said that out loud.

1413
01:00:10,920 --> 01:00:13,480
Speaker 1: I've been like saying monovational quotes to myself a lot

1414
01:00:13,520 --> 01:00:14,200
Speaker 1: in the past week.

1415
01:00:14,640 --> 01:00:16,440
Speaker 2: If it doesn't challenge you, it doesn't change you.

1416
01:00:16,520 --> 01:00:19,560
Speaker 4: It doesn't challenge you, it doesn't change you. Be open

1417
01:00:19,600 --> 01:00:21,720
Speaker 4: to the possibility and not attached to the outcome.

1418
01:00:21,840 --> 01:00:25,440
Speaker 1: I say that one a lot because I always always

1419
01:00:25,520 --> 01:00:26,800
Speaker 1: attach myself to an outcome.

1420
01:00:27,400 --> 01:00:28,880
Speaker 4: It just naturally happens for me.

1421
01:00:29,120 --> 01:00:31,400
Speaker 3: Yeah. What was the one that we did with Seacrest?

1422
01:00:32,760 --> 01:00:36,160
Speaker 3: I think it was this morning, don't sacrifice your authenticity

1423
01:00:36,400 --> 01:00:38,520
Speaker 3: for approval. Yeah, that's a good one.

1424
01:00:38,640 --> 01:00:39,439
Speaker 4: It's a good one.

1425
01:00:40,040 --> 01:00:43,360
Speaker 3: Okay, Brandy. I keep teasing Brandy here, but it's another

1426
01:00:43,400 --> 01:00:45,000
Speaker 3: one that I think is kind of cut and dried

1427
01:00:45,080 --> 01:00:47,480
Speaker 3: for me. Anyway. She met a guy, super attractive, involved

1428
01:00:47,520 --> 01:00:50,720
Speaker 3: in church, but he seems like he just wants to

1429
01:00:50,760 --> 01:00:54,280
Speaker 3: have a relationship with somebody, not particularly me. He's going

1430
01:00:54,320 --> 01:00:55,840
Speaker 3: to boot camp in a year, and I said, I

1431
01:00:55,920 --> 01:00:58,200
Speaker 3: just want to have someone when I leave. Also on

1432
01:00:58,280 --> 01:01:00,480
Speaker 3: his Twitter, he's tweeted or retweeted stuff that looks like

1433
01:01:00,520 --> 01:01:02,600
Speaker 3: he's really desperate to let people know he's single and

1434
01:01:02,640 --> 01:01:05,760
Speaker 3: wants a relationship. He's pursued me. He's taking an effort,

1435
01:01:05,760 --> 01:01:09,120
Speaker 3: which I appreciate. I appreciate, but I still don't know. Also,

1436
01:01:09,440 --> 01:01:12,560
Speaker 3: he likes so many girls pictures on social media, very

1437
01:01:12,680 --> 01:01:15,400
Speaker 3: sexual pictures of girls that are half naked, just straight

1438
01:01:15,480 --> 01:01:17,400
Speaker 3: up booty picks. I get that these single, but it

1439
01:01:17,480 --> 01:01:19,600
Speaker 3: makes me question what he's really looking for.

1440
01:01:20,920 --> 01:01:24,240
Speaker 4: That feature on Instagram needs to go away? What feature

1441
01:01:24,360 --> 01:01:25,200
Speaker 4: that where where you can.

1442
01:01:25,120 --> 01:01:27,600
Speaker 1: See what everybody's liked, you know, like that you slide

1443
01:01:27,600 --> 01:01:29,640
Speaker 1: over the left and it shows you like atillies like

1444
01:01:29,760 --> 01:01:31,120
Speaker 1: this photo and this photo on this photo.

1445
01:01:31,160 --> 01:01:33,560
Speaker 3: I think it's or we could have some self restraint

1446
01:01:33,720 --> 01:01:35,600
Speaker 3: and not like things that I can't come back to.

1447
01:01:36,240 --> 01:01:38,960
Speaker 2: Why can't Why can't you just look at photos and

1448
01:01:39,240 --> 01:01:40,120
Speaker 2: like them like you.

1449
01:01:40,160 --> 01:01:45,680
Speaker 4: Mentally, mentally, just like it mentally. Don't double tap the double.

1450
01:01:45,480 --> 01:01:48,280
Speaker 2: Tap if you're especially in those situations like if it's

1451
01:01:48,360 --> 01:01:50,680
Speaker 2: just a friend or whatever and you're like liking their photos,

1452
01:01:50,920 --> 01:01:53,000
Speaker 2: but if you like those photos, it's because you want

1453
01:01:53,040 --> 01:01:55,560
Speaker 2: that person to maybe notice you totally.

1454
01:01:55,760 --> 01:02:01,480
Speaker 4: That's like, liking a photo is essentially like dropping a handkerchief.

1455
01:02:01,600 --> 01:02:07,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, it is, yes, And it's so classless to like

1456
01:02:07,160 --> 01:02:07,960
Speaker 3: pictures like that.

1457
01:02:08,200 --> 01:02:09,800
Speaker 1: In my opinion, I was gonna say, I thought you

1458
01:02:09,840 --> 01:02:12,800
Speaker 1: were saying it's classless to drop a handkerchief.

1459
01:02:12,360 --> 01:02:16,920
Speaker 2: Like that, and dropping lots of.

1460
01:02:17,080 --> 01:02:18,960
Speaker 1: Dropping lots of handkerchiefs this last week.

1461
01:02:19,000 --> 01:02:21,200
Speaker 3: I'm just saying for single guys who just and they

1462
01:02:21,240 --> 01:02:22,960
Speaker 3: don't see the repercussions, but when they go out and

1463
01:02:23,000 --> 01:02:25,440
Speaker 3: they start tapping all of these booty pictures or whatever,

1464
01:02:26,160 --> 01:02:29,640
Speaker 3: it's really a bad look. Yeah, everybody, I agree. I

1465
01:02:29,720 --> 01:02:32,640
Speaker 3: don't get the motivation that, Like you said, just enjoy

1466
01:02:32,760 --> 01:02:33,600
Speaker 3: it with your eyes.

1467
01:02:33,680 --> 01:02:35,760
Speaker 4: Do you know who would never double tap photos like that?

1468
01:02:36,280 --> 01:02:37,000
Speaker 4: Derek Shepherd?

1469
01:02:38,320 --> 01:02:40,640
Speaker 1: He I just could never see him on Instagram double

1470
01:02:40,720 --> 01:02:42,640
Speaker 1: tapping any boot photos.

1471
01:02:42,720 --> 01:02:46,000
Speaker 2: You're right, I like, don't either, But you really messed

1472
01:02:46,040 --> 01:02:47,720
Speaker 2: me up. As on that one girl said that like

1473
01:02:47,840 --> 01:02:51,640
Speaker 2: Derek Shepherd wasn't that great? Oh yeah, she was, like, but.

1474
01:02:51,720 --> 01:02:54,600
Speaker 4: Again, remember everything, good points, everybody, can I know?

1475
01:02:54,720 --> 01:02:55,320
Speaker 2: I didn't like that.

1476
01:02:55,400 --> 01:02:56,240
Speaker 3: She made good points.

1477
01:02:56,480 --> 01:02:56,800
Speaker 2: She did.

1478
01:02:57,160 --> 01:02:59,400
Speaker 3: Also, the dichotomy of this guy being really involved in

1479
01:02:59,480 --> 01:03:01,280
Speaker 3: his church and the going like and all these booty

1480
01:03:01,320 --> 01:03:03,360
Speaker 3: pictures is kind of an interesting thing. But anyway, I

1481
01:03:03,440 --> 01:03:05,360
Speaker 3: think Brandy's gut is right on this one. I think

1482
01:03:05,400 --> 01:03:07,880
Speaker 3: he just wants somebody. Yeah, because all of the guys

1483
01:03:07,920 --> 01:03:09,640
Speaker 3: at boot camp are going to have somebody, and he

1484
01:03:09,720 --> 01:03:12,160
Speaker 3: wants somebody to write to or to get pictures from.

1485
01:03:12,240 --> 01:03:13,840
Speaker 3: And boy that he's going to want to get some pictures.

1486
01:03:14,040 --> 01:03:14,919
Speaker 2: He's going to want some pics.

1487
01:03:15,000 --> 01:03:15,800
Speaker 3: This is what he wants.

1488
01:03:16,040 --> 01:03:17,680
Speaker 1: I do have to hate to say, but when your

1489
01:03:17,720 --> 01:03:19,840
Speaker 1: gut's telling you something, I think you go with, then

1490
01:03:19,960 --> 01:03:20,600
Speaker 1: you deserve better.

1491
01:03:20,760 --> 01:03:22,760
Speaker 3: He needs a source of newdies. Well, he's at boot

1492
01:03:22,800 --> 01:03:24,120
Speaker 3: camp and you don't need to be that.

1493
01:03:24,360 --> 01:03:28,040
Speaker 4: No, he needs You're not the dispensary. You're the sanctuary.

1494
01:03:28,360 --> 01:03:29,680
Speaker 5: Oh what.

1495
01:03:37,000 --> 01:03:37,960
Speaker 2: That just came to you.

1496
01:03:38,280 --> 01:03:40,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just like it's like weird, Like it's kind

1497
01:03:40,640 --> 01:03:44,680
Speaker 4: of like how his tatty stuff comes to you. That

1498
01:03:45,120 --> 01:03:47,480
Speaker 4: was are not the dispense.

1499
01:03:52,320 --> 01:03:55,200
Speaker 2: Wow, I am so excited about this, Like that might

1500
01:03:55,280 --> 01:03:57,840
Speaker 2: be tweeted, that might be a T shirt.

1501
01:03:57,880 --> 01:03:59,120
Speaker 4: That might be a T shirt for sure.

1502
01:03:59,240 --> 01:04:03,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I'm going to make merch uh Odra wait, okay, Oudra.

1503
01:04:03,960 --> 01:04:06,040
Speaker 3: How do you feel about your significant other having people

1504
01:04:06,080 --> 01:04:08,720
Speaker 3: of the opposite sex sleeping over at their house or apartments.

1505
01:04:08,800 --> 01:04:10,400
Speaker 2: Oh, not great.

1506
01:04:11,880 --> 01:04:13,600
Speaker 3: The story is you've been seeing to that for nine

1507
01:04:13,680 --> 01:04:16,880
Speaker 3: months and he's having some friends over this weekend. Two guys,

1508
01:04:17,400 --> 01:04:20,200
Speaker 3: two girls. One of them is one guy won't go

1509
01:04:20,280 --> 01:04:22,120
Speaker 3: engage to each other. The other two are single. Okay,

1510
01:04:22,320 --> 01:04:24,200
Speaker 3: it's a single guy at a single girl. We've known

1511
01:04:24,200 --> 01:04:26,160
Speaker 3: each other a long time. We all went to school together.

1512
01:04:26,240 --> 01:04:27,920
Speaker 3: But they're a little closer to him than they are

1513
01:04:28,040 --> 01:04:30,280
Speaker 3: with me. I have no reason not to trust them.

1514
01:04:30,320 --> 01:04:31,960
Speaker 3: I have no reason not to trust my boyfriend. But

1515
01:04:32,000 --> 01:04:34,440
Speaker 3: I found out casually that the two girls are going over.

1516
01:04:34,560 --> 01:04:36,480
Speaker 3: They're early to spend the night at my boyfriend's house.

1517
01:04:36,720 --> 01:04:38,560
Speaker 3: I won't be there, the other guys won't be there,

1518
01:04:38,560 --> 01:04:40,760
Speaker 3: and I feel weird about it? Or am I overreacting?

1519
01:04:41,160 --> 01:04:43,360
Speaker 3: He didn't ask me, He didn't tell me about it,

1520
01:04:43,640 --> 01:04:46,080
Speaker 3: which is what really bothers me. I think I'm fine

1521
01:04:46,120 --> 01:04:47,560
Speaker 3: with it, and I think I trust him. But is

1522
01:04:47,600 --> 01:04:49,120
Speaker 3: it okay to expect him to ask me if he

1523
01:04:49,160 --> 01:04:52,520
Speaker 3: has girls sleeping over at his place? Would love to

1524
01:04:52,560 --> 01:04:53,240
Speaker 3: hear your thoughts.

1525
01:04:53,800 --> 01:04:59,240
Speaker 1: Okay, My initial reaction was no, I did not like it.

1526
01:05:00,480 --> 01:05:04,520
Speaker 1: Having now heard the email, I don't mind it. Nine

1527
01:05:04,560 --> 01:05:09,360
Speaker 1: months into a relationship, pretty stable, pretty stable, fairly stable,

1528
01:05:11,000 --> 01:05:13,160
Speaker 1: And this has happened to me in the past relationship

1529
01:05:13,280 --> 01:05:16,800
Speaker 1: with a stable guy. It was like my long serious relationship,

1530
01:05:16,880 --> 01:05:20,000
Speaker 1: and he was having guys and girls of it's kind

1531
01:05:20,000 --> 01:05:21,680
Speaker 1: of similar. They all went to college together, they were

1532
01:05:21,680 --> 01:05:24,200
Speaker 1: friends in this honorary that they had, and there was

1533
01:05:24,440 --> 01:05:26,320
Speaker 1: three guys and two girls spending the weekend at his

1534
01:05:26,400 --> 01:05:30,040
Speaker 1: place and it was okay. He never done anything to

1535
01:05:30,120 --> 01:05:32,480
Speaker 1: make me not trust him. He didn't do anything that

1536
01:05:32,560 --> 01:05:35,480
Speaker 1: weekend that made me not trust him. Was I uneasy

1537
01:05:35,480 --> 01:05:38,040
Speaker 1: about it at the time, a little bit, but I

1538
01:05:38,120 --> 01:05:40,360
Speaker 1: had no reason to be. It was all fine, So

1539
01:05:40,560 --> 01:05:42,760
Speaker 1: I think, I mean, I would have rather him told

1540
01:05:42,840 --> 01:05:46,280
Speaker 1: you that's my only thing, but I think it's gonna

1541
01:05:46,280 --> 01:05:46,600
Speaker 1: be okay.

1542
01:05:48,320 --> 01:05:51,200
Speaker 4: That's my knee jerk reaction. Take it away.

1543
01:05:51,240 --> 01:05:57,080
Speaker 2: Why why wouldn't he tell her? Ask her if I.

1544
01:05:57,080 --> 01:06:00,400
Speaker 3: Think I could answer that, Yeah, because guys are dumb, okay,

1545
01:06:00,640 --> 01:06:04,400
Speaker 3: and we don't think like that. Because if he's not

1546
01:06:04,680 --> 01:06:07,280
Speaker 3: thinking like that with these girls, he's not thinking there's

1547
01:06:07,280 --> 01:06:09,640
Speaker 3: any reason to tell you because it's not a thing.

1548
01:06:09,840 --> 01:06:12,600
Speaker 2: Point, Like, he doesn't even see it as an issue

1549
01:06:12,640 --> 01:06:15,360
Speaker 2: because he doesn't even think of it. Is that being

1550
01:06:15,440 --> 01:06:18,120
Speaker 2: a problem. But does she bring it up and say

1551
01:06:18,240 --> 01:06:21,040
Speaker 2: like hey, or does she just let it let it rest?

1552
01:06:22,440 --> 01:06:23,240
Speaker 4: She toe lows it?

1553
01:06:24,080 --> 01:06:24,400
Speaker 2: What's that?

1554
01:06:24,840 --> 01:06:26,240
Speaker 4: I'm a cool girl.

1555
01:06:27,760 --> 01:06:28,040
Speaker 2: Cool.

1556
01:06:28,400 --> 01:06:30,480
Speaker 3: Feel like we're going to get negative feedback on this

1557
01:06:30,600 --> 01:06:32,480
Speaker 3: advice that we're giving. But I agree with you. I

1558
01:06:32,520 --> 01:06:34,680
Speaker 3: think she lets it lie. I think you have to

1559
01:06:34,720 --> 01:06:36,560
Speaker 3: show him the trust because you don't want to come

1560
01:06:36,600 --> 01:06:40,040
Speaker 3: off as overbearing because he'll be blindsided by this because

1561
01:06:40,040 --> 01:06:41,200
Speaker 3: he's not even thinking that way.

1562
01:06:41,320 --> 01:06:41,520
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1563
01:06:41,640 --> 01:06:44,480
Speaker 3: So if he's like, WHOA, what is this? What is

1564
01:06:44,560 --> 01:06:47,160
Speaker 3: happening right now? It's not good for the relationship. So

1565
01:06:47,240 --> 01:06:49,200
Speaker 3: I feel like I think everything's okay here.

1566
01:06:49,440 --> 01:06:49,640
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1567
01:06:49,680 --> 01:06:51,320
Speaker 1: And if you've been with him for nine months and

1568
01:06:51,360 --> 01:06:53,720
Speaker 1: he's never made you question his trust or made you

1569
01:06:54,040 --> 01:06:58,440
Speaker 1: feel any sort of inkling that he's a dishonest person.

1570
01:07:01,080 --> 01:07:04,560
Speaker 2: But if we don't know the clump, if he has, yeah, that's.

1571
01:07:04,440 --> 01:07:04,840
Speaker 4: What I'm saying.

1572
01:07:04,880 --> 01:07:07,280
Speaker 3: If he hasn't, that's different. If he has he has,

1573
01:07:07,680 --> 01:07:10,160
Speaker 3: he's fine. I think leave it be all right. One

1574
01:07:10,200 --> 01:07:13,200
Speaker 3: more Jordan. I find this interesting. She's turned twenty one

1575
01:07:13,240 --> 01:07:14,600
Speaker 3: this week, and so she's going to go out drinks

1576
01:07:14,600 --> 01:07:16,439
Speaker 3: with her friends go out to bars whatever, blah blah blah.

1577
01:07:16,560 --> 01:07:19,560
Speaker 3: Her parents are vehemently anti drinking. They don't see the

1578
01:07:19,640 --> 01:07:21,760
Speaker 3: point of it. They've never had alcohol before, and they

1579
01:07:21,800 --> 01:07:24,840
Speaker 3: expect the same of Jordan and her brother. They've given

1580
01:07:24,920 --> 01:07:27,240
Speaker 3: us speeches on the topic as recently as a few

1581
01:07:27,280 --> 01:07:29,680
Speaker 3: weeks ago. And my friends don't have any advice because

1582
01:07:29,680 --> 01:07:31,240
Speaker 3: they don't have parents like I do. They don't get it.

1583
01:07:31,640 --> 01:07:33,120
Speaker 3: Do I talk to my parents and say, look, here's

1584
01:07:33,120 --> 01:07:35,080
Speaker 3: the deal. I'm going to go drink. I'm going to

1585
01:07:35,120 --> 01:07:37,520
Speaker 3: be responsible. We have to agree to disagree or do

1586
01:07:37,640 --> 01:07:39,560
Speaker 3: we just not bring it up? Go do what I'm

1587
01:07:39,600 --> 01:07:42,400
Speaker 3: going to do, because if I have this conversation, it's

1588
01:07:42,440 --> 01:07:44,720
Speaker 3: just going to make things worse in the household. She

1589
01:07:44,880 --> 01:07:48,280
Speaker 3: feels stuck. She's a grown woman. She doesn't want to

1590
01:07:48,320 --> 01:07:49,800
Speaker 3: be stuck to her parents' rules for the rest of

1591
01:07:49,840 --> 01:07:51,400
Speaker 3: her life. She wants to make her own decisions.

1592
01:07:52,640 --> 01:07:54,560
Speaker 4: Wait, did I miss in the email that she did

1593
01:07:54,600 --> 01:07:55,720
Speaker 4: she live with her parents as well?

1594
01:07:56,080 --> 01:07:58,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, she never said that implicitly, but I'm pretty confident

1595
01:07:58,680 --> 01:07:59,360
Speaker 3: she lives with her parents.

1596
01:07:59,400 --> 01:08:01,280
Speaker 4: Okay, do you.

1597
01:08:01,320 --> 01:08:03,320
Speaker 2: Still go with their house their rules time? You?

1598
01:08:03,640 --> 01:08:07,280
Speaker 3: I mean kinda, so you're advising her to not drink

1599
01:08:07,320 --> 01:08:08,360
Speaker 3: on her twenty first birthday.

1600
01:08:08,560 --> 01:08:09,000
Speaker 5: No, but.

1601
01:08:11,520 --> 01:08:13,280
Speaker 4: Not in the house. I guess if that's what her

1602
01:08:13,320 --> 01:08:14,160
Speaker 4: parents don't want.

1603
01:08:14,120 --> 01:08:16,760
Speaker 3: That's not the issue. The issue was no drinking. So

1604
01:08:16,880 --> 01:08:18,800
Speaker 3: her question is do I tell them I'm going to

1605
01:08:18,880 --> 01:08:21,640
Speaker 3: drink and I will promise I'll be responsible or does

1606
01:08:21,680 --> 01:08:23,800
Speaker 3: she not tell them drink behind their back? Because that

1607
01:08:23,880 --> 01:08:25,040
Speaker 3: conversation is going to be weird.

1608
01:08:27,280 --> 01:08:30,639
Speaker 2: Uh, Okay, here's what I'm this. I'm going to give

1609
01:08:30,640 --> 01:08:32,600
Speaker 2: advice and I'm going to tell you what i'd probably do.

1610
01:08:33,400 --> 01:08:33,960
Speaker 2: It's different.

1611
01:08:34,240 --> 01:08:35,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree.

1612
01:08:35,200 --> 01:08:38,800
Speaker 2: Okay, in my head, I feel like you should sit

1613
01:08:38,880 --> 01:08:41,160
Speaker 2: them down and say, I want to let you know

1614
01:08:41,240 --> 01:08:43,759
Speaker 2: I'm going out to dinner with my friends. I'm probably

1615
01:08:43,800 --> 01:08:45,920
Speaker 2: going to have a few drinks. It's my twenty first birthday.

1616
01:08:45,960 --> 01:08:49,560
Speaker 2: I know that y'all don't agree with it, but I

1617
01:08:49,760 --> 01:08:51,400
Speaker 2: love y'all and I respect you. But this is what

1618
01:08:51,479 --> 01:08:52,880
Speaker 2: I'm going to do, and I just wanted to let

1619
01:08:52,920 --> 01:08:54,600
Speaker 2: you know that I'm going to be responsible.

1620
01:08:55,040 --> 01:08:57,320
Speaker 3: Why Becca, I'm your dad, now, why do you feel

1621
01:08:57,360 --> 01:08:57,639
Speaker 3: they need.

1622
01:08:57,640 --> 01:08:59,680
Speaker 2: To do this? It's just something I want to do,

1623
01:09:00,160 --> 01:09:02,880
Speaker 2: able to do it legally, and it's I just want

1624
01:09:02,880 --> 01:09:04,000
Speaker 2: to have a few drinks with my friends.

1625
01:09:04,320 --> 01:09:06,800
Speaker 3: Sounds fun, But what's the why can't you have water?

1626
01:09:06,880 --> 01:09:10,400
Speaker 3: You can have fun, You can have fun without alcohol, of.

1627
01:09:10,560 --> 01:09:13,760
Speaker 2: Course, But this is this is something that I've been

1628
01:09:13,800 --> 01:09:14,640
Speaker 2: looking forward to.

1629
01:09:15,000 --> 01:09:16,320
Speaker 3: You have I don't know about this.

1630
01:09:16,680 --> 01:09:17,519
Speaker 2: Well, this is the.

1631
01:09:17,800 --> 01:09:21,240
Speaker 4: Truth, father, This is so uncomfortable.

1632
01:09:21,680 --> 01:09:23,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is probably what's going to be like for

1633
01:09:23,280 --> 01:09:25,120
Speaker 3: her that they're never going to get it, is my point.

1634
01:09:25,280 --> 01:09:26,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, well this is what I would do. I would

1635
01:09:26,920 --> 01:09:28,240
Speaker 2: go drink and not say anything.

1636
01:09:28,520 --> 01:09:32,840
Speaker 3: And then it's hundreds of years people have drank behind

1637
01:09:32,880 --> 01:09:36,000
Speaker 3: the parents back, drunk, drank, drunk, whatever it is, whatever

1638
01:09:36,080 --> 01:09:39,880
Speaker 3: the past participle is. Yeah, that's true, hundreds of years.

1639
01:09:40,120 --> 01:09:43,920
Speaker 3: You're just look, I'm a guy who's never been drunk before,

1640
01:09:44,040 --> 01:09:46,160
Speaker 3: so I'm not the best advice on this. Ye And

1641
01:09:46,240 --> 01:09:48,240
Speaker 3: I got kids, and I had parents. I did plenty

1642
01:09:48,280 --> 01:09:49,160
Speaker 3: of stuff behind their backs.

1643
01:09:49,320 --> 01:09:51,040
Speaker 2: I think, Well, I didn't drink till I was like

1644
01:09:51,120 --> 01:09:54,320
Speaker 2: twenty four, so I'm like, you know, I was very

1645
01:09:54,640 --> 01:09:56,640
Speaker 2: I never my parents ever worried about that with me,

1646
01:09:56,800 --> 01:09:57,840
Speaker 2: but I mean I was.

1647
01:09:58,080 --> 01:09:59,920
Speaker 4: I was like drinking at like fourteen.

1648
01:10:00,360 --> 01:10:01,160
Speaker 2: Well when do you drink? What?

1649
01:10:01,200 --> 01:10:02,000
Speaker 4: What's seventh grade?

1650
01:10:02,760 --> 01:10:05,639
Speaker 3: It's thirteen, but they're twelve. Actually it's twelve.

1651
01:10:05,880 --> 01:10:06,160
Speaker 2: Wow.

1652
01:10:07,120 --> 01:10:09,479
Speaker 3: It's different because your parents are Eastern European and drinking

1653
01:10:09,479 --> 01:10:10,439
Speaker 3: is a whole different Vibeay.

1654
01:10:10,520 --> 01:10:12,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I imagine if they did not drink at all

1655
01:10:12,960 --> 01:10:15,599
Speaker 2: and was like and then my dad growing up did

1656
01:10:15,680 --> 01:10:17,640
Speaker 2: not drink at all, so I would I never had

1657
01:10:17,680 --> 01:10:20,240
Speaker 2: alcohol around, but my dad, both of them, like my

1658
01:10:20,360 --> 01:10:22,240
Speaker 2: mom doesn't really ever drink, but she'll have a drink

1659
01:10:22,280 --> 01:10:24,719
Speaker 2: every now and then, like whine, but my dad drinks.

1660
01:10:24,800 --> 01:10:29,880
Speaker 2: And I think when you know, I think when I

1661
01:10:29,960 --> 01:10:31,600
Speaker 2: all of a sudden started drinking even though I was

1662
01:10:31,640 --> 01:10:34,240
Speaker 2: twenty four, my mom was kind of like, oh, like,

1663
01:10:34,320 --> 01:10:36,519
Speaker 2: you drink now, you know, Like it is when you're

1664
01:10:36,640 --> 01:10:38,760
Speaker 2: used to something or you don't agree with something, and

1665
01:10:38,840 --> 01:10:42,479
Speaker 2: then I think you raise your child to be to

1666
01:10:42,640 --> 01:10:47,120
Speaker 2: have that certain belief or respect for themselves and then

1667
01:10:47,200 --> 01:10:51,479
Speaker 2: they do something different. It's shocking, yeah.

1668
01:10:52,000 --> 01:10:53,559
Speaker 3: Because your parents are always going to see you as

1669
01:10:53,560 --> 01:10:54,559
Speaker 3: a five year old totally.

1670
01:10:54,680 --> 01:10:57,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's your life, I know. And that's the thing

1671
01:10:57,120 --> 01:10:58,240
Speaker 4: I think that it comes down to.

1672
01:10:58,360 --> 01:11:00,840
Speaker 1: It's like you obviously, like you love your parents so much,

1673
01:11:01,000 --> 01:11:03,160
Speaker 1: like I would do anything for my parents, but you

1674
01:11:03,240 --> 01:11:05,559
Speaker 1: also have to live your life for yourself because I think,

1675
01:11:05,840 --> 01:11:07,800
Speaker 1: I mean, drinking is such a small example of it,

1676
01:11:07,920 --> 01:11:10,240
Speaker 1: but just things in general. You know, like you're never

1677
01:11:10,320 --> 01:11:12,519
Speaker 1: gonna have your parents. They're never one hundred percent and

1678
01:11:12,680 --> 01:11:15,040
Speaker 1: agree with everything that you do, you know, and I

1679
01:11:15,120 --> 01:11:17,360
Speaker 1: think you just have to do what feels right for

1680
01:11:17,520 --> 01:11:18,719
Speaker 1: you in every aspect.

1681
01:11:18,840 --> 01:11:22,320
Speaker 4: I mean, the drinking thing, I'm like, it's I don't know,

1682
01:11:22,439 --> 01:11:23,360
Speaker 4: I mean, I really.

1683
01:11:23,280 --> 01:11:23,920
Speaker 2: Don't know advice.

1684
01:11:23,960 --> 01:11:27,040
Speaker 1: I was literally like taking vodka out of my dad's

1685
01:11:27,040 --> 01:11:28,960
Speaker 1: freezer and like filling it back up with water and

1686
01:11:29,120 --> 01:11:30,680
Speaker 1: like having it freeze in there.

1687
01:11:30,720 --> 01:11:32,680
Speaker 3: And then they're really, that's interesting because your parents were

1688
01:11:32,680 --> 01:11:34,400
Speaker 3: cool with drinking and you were still doing stuff behind

1689
01:11:34,400 --> 01:11:34,680
Speaker 3: their back.

1690
01:11:34,760 --> 01:11:37,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think they were like cool. I don't

1691
01:11:37,000 --> 01:11:38,960
Speaker 1: think they were ever like oh, Tanya, go get drunk.

1692
01:11:39,600 --> 01:11:41,519
Speaker 1: But like when we had like our slavas and things

1693
01:11:41,560 --> 01:11:44,240
Speaker 1: like that, like I they would, you know, we would

1694
01:11:44,280 --> 01:11:46,240
Speaker 1: all drink at myt my home, and I'd be home

1695
01:11:46,320 --> 01:11:48,120
Speaker 1: and then I'd go to bed and like I was safe,

1696
01:11:48,280 --> 01:11:48,439
Speaker 1: you know.

1697
01:11:48,960 --> 01:11:49,200
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1698
01:11:49,360 --> 01:11:51,000
Speaker 3: So but then there is the argument that if you

1699
01:11:51,280 --> 01:11:53,400
Speaker 3: when a kid is twelve thirteen, like in Europe, you

1700
01:11:53,479 --> 01:11:56,120
Speaker 3: give them wine or whatever and then they're more comfortable

1701
01:11:56,200 --> 01:11:57,840
Speaker 3: with it. It's a normal thing and they're not going

1702
01:11:57,920 --> 01:12:01,000
Speaker 3: to go banging it. Wais that didn't work? What do

1703
01:12:01,080 --> 01:12:03,840
Speaker 3: you mean meaning it didn't you still went out in

1704
01:12:04,240 --> 01:12:04,880
Speaker 3: didn't right?

1705
01:12:05,080 --> 01:12:05,200
Speaker 2: Right?

1706
01:12:05,880 --> 01:12:08,559
Speaker 1: But like when I went away to college and everybody

1707
01:12:08,680 --> 01:12:12,000
Speaker 1: was like going rogue crazy, getting wasted, like passing out

1708
01:12:12,000 --> 01:12:12,759
Speaker 1: at frat houses.

1709
01:12:12,920 --> 01:12:14,120
Speaker 4: I never was that girl.

1710
01:12:14,880 --> 01:12:16,920
Speaker 1: I was never that girl because A I don't know

1711
01:12:16,960 --> 01:12:18,840
Speaker 1: if I could like handle my liquor better or I

1712
01:12:19,000 --> 01:12:21,400
Speaker 1: just wasn't like it wasn't so foreign to me that

1713
01:12:21,560 --> 01:12:23,519
Speaker 1: I wasn't getting so like hyped on it, like.

1714
01:12:24,000 --> 01:12:26,040
Speaker 4: Because I was doing it for so long. Does that

1715
01:12:26,120 --> 01:12:27,680
Speaker 4: make sense? Yeah, So I don't know.

1716
01:12:27,840 --> 01:12:29,800
Speaker 1: I think it did work because I never my parents

1717
01:12:29,920 --> 01:12:32,320
Speaker 1: never had to like deal with me getting into any

1718
01:12:32,400 --> 01:12:33,080
Speaker 1: crazy trouble.

1719
01:12:33,360 --> 01:12:36,160
Speaker 2: Well, and I think you're you clearly respect your parents

1720
01:12:36,280 --> 01:12:39,679
Speaker 2: because you are you're battling with this. If you didn't

1721
01:12:39,720 --> 01:12:41,920
Speaker 2: have respect for them, you would just that that's a.

1722
01:12:41,960 --> 01:12:43,439
Speaker 3: Very good point. So clearly this is not a girl

1723
01:12:43,439 --> 01:12:44,800
Speaker 3: who has done a lot of lying to her.

1724
01:12:44,800 --> 01:12:46,000
Speaker 4: Parents, right, which is a good thing.

1725
01:12:46,120 --> 01:12:49,639
Speaker 2: And I think and if that, if that holds true

1726
01:12:49,760 --> 01:12:52,080
Speaker 2: to your relationship, then maybe you need to have a

1727
01:12:52,160 --> 01:12:55,200
Speaker 2: conversation for peace of mind, like maybe going out and

1728
01:12:55,200 --> 01:12:58,439
Speaker 2: getting drunk behind their back is just gonna make might

1729
01:12:58,560 --> 01:13:00,680
Speaker 2: hinder the relationship if every thing has been out in

1730
01:13:00,680 --> 01:13:02,599
Speaker 2: the opening up front with them to this point.

1731
01:13:03,439 --> 01:13:05,680
Speaker 3: So so we I think we're we've come around on

1732
01:13:05,760 --> 01:13:09,519
Speaker 3: this one. We've evolved since we started this letter. More mature,

1733
01:13:10,040 --> 01:13:13,519
Speaker 3: talk to your parents, let him know what's going on. Okay,

1734
01:13:14,160 --> 01:13:15,120
Speaker 3: before we wrap?

1735
01:13:15,840 --> 01:13:20,280
Speaker 2: Literally, Oh yeah, shoot, you didn't develop a rap.

1736
01:13:20,320 --> 01:13:21,320
Speaker 3: We're supposed to do a rap out?

1737
01:13:21,640 --> 01:13:25,120
Speaker 2: Ready to do it too? This is are you ready

1738
01:13:25,160 --> 01:13:26,519
Speaker 2: and wrap a good NICKI mina.

1739
01:13:26,720 --> 01:13:29,080
Speaker 1: Okay, let me give a couple of shout outs and

1740
01:13:29,160 --> 01:13:32,439
Speaker 1: then also for next week, I would like to toss

1741
01:13:32,479 --> 01:13:33,479
Speaker 1: out some some.

1742
01:13:34,880 --> 01:13:39,040
Speaker 2: Oh no, she's already a lot. What is she toss

1743
01:13:39,200 --> 01:13:39,679
Speaker 2: out someone?

1744
01:13:41,320 --> 01:13:43,400
Speaker 4: Uh? People really want me to date somebody?

1745
01:13:44,240 --> 01:13:45,360
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, okay fine.

1746
01:13:45,920 --> 01:13:49,720
Speaker 1: Mark is so anti Bobby Bone. Mark is like over

1747
01:13:49,800 --> 01:13:50,920
Speaker 1: it before it even started.

1748
01:13:50,960 --> 01:13:53,360
Speaker 3: He lives across the country. It's not it's not realistic.

1749
01:13:53,520 --> 01:13:55,479
Speaker 3: It's not it's he he wants you for a radio bit.

1750
01:13:55,600 --> 01:14:01,439
Speaker 3: It's not real. It's so hard, it's not real. I'm

1751
01:14:01,479 --> 01:14:03,840
Speaker 3: trying to protect you. I'm tired of these yeay, who's

1752
01:14:03,880 --> 01:14:07,840
Speaker 3: coming through town. I'm done with it. Oh, I'm not

1753
01:14:07,920 --> 01:14:10,000
Speaker 3: here for it. I'm sorry. Wow.

1754
01:14:10,880 --> 01:14:15,559
Speaker 2: Wow, I'm unsure how to react. I feel uncomfortable. That's

1755
01:14:15,800 --> 01:14:20,640
Speaker 2: so mean. But that was. He never just says something like,

1756
01:14:20,760 --> 01:14:21,320
Speaker 2: I mean that was.

1757
01:14:21,520 --> 01:14:24,679
Speaker 3: I'm telling you he's looking for content for his show.

1758
01:14:25,400 --> 01:14:27,320
Speaker 3: That's my that's my belief. Wow.

1759
01:14:28,280 --> 01:14:30,599
Speaker 4: You don't think there's any genuine interest whatsoever?

1760
01:14:30,680 --> 01:14:32,519
Speaker 3: And how many people that are in the world like

1761
01:14:32,720 --> 01:14:38,000
Speaker 3: find somebody? I understand that. But he's not it. He's

1762
01:14:38,080 --> 01:14:38,400
Speaker 3: not it.

1763
01:14:38,600 --> 01:14:44,679
Speaker 2: This is a family friendly show. Sorry a lot. Wow.

1764
01:14:45,320 --> 01:14:47,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, Wow, I don't like it.

1765
01:14:47,320 --> 01:14:49,800
Speaker 2: That was a moment that might be our teaser for this.

1766
01:14:51,280 --> 01:14:52,519
Speaker 4: Mark is Not Here party.

1767
01:14:52,920 --> 01:14:56,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, doesn't want Tonya today?

1768
01:14:56,720 --> 01:14:56,960
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1769
01:14:58,439 --> 01:15:01,080
Speaker 3: Can I give you a few shout outs? Yes, devoted

1770
01:15:01,160 --> 01:15:04,280
Speaker 3: fans Madison Fishers of Liver in California smoking some weed

1771
01:15:04,360 --> 01:15:05,320
Speaker 3: while listening to show.

1772
01:15:05,600 --> 01:15:08,320
Speaker 4: Wow, you know what, that is a topic I would

1773
01:15:08,320 --> 01:15:10,559
Speaker 4: like to talk about next week. Okay, smoking weed?

1774
01:15:10,600 --> 01:15:13,400
Speaker 2: Should we do it? Yeah? I like that's a great topic.

1775
01:15:13,640 --> 01:15:17,760
Speaker 3: And the THHC and the what's the other oil cbv.

1776
01:15:17,680 --> 01:15:21,559
Speaker 2: Cbdb cbd or for for Phoebe on her flight?

1777
01:15:21,720 --> 01:15:22,759
Speaker 4: I have never smoked.

1778
01:15:23,120 --> 01:15:23,840
Speaker 2: Give it to pets.

1779
01:15:25,080 --> 01:15:27,160
Speaker 3: Well, this is what we got to talk about, because

1780
01:15:27,200 --> 01:15:29,160
Speaker 3: in California, it's a whole new world now it.

1781
01:15:29,400 --> 01:15:32,200
Speaker 4: Is, and everybody's saying it's like so great, and I'm like,

1782
01:15:32,280 --> 01:15:34,400
Speaker 4: am I am? I late to the party, Like I

1783
01:15:34,520 --> 01:15:34,880
Speaker 4: don't know.

1784
01:15:35,080 --> 01:15:36,920
Speaker 3: By the way, you're moving to Studio City. I saw

1785
01:15:36,920 --> 01:15:40,280
Speaker 3: a billboard in Studio City marijuana, you know, stop here

1786
01:15:40,560 --> 01:15:43,840
Speaker 3: on this corner. Yeah, it's amazing how it's just there here.

1787
01:15:43,880 --> 01:15:45,439
Speaker 3: It is. It's like alcohol or.

1788
01:15:46,120 --> 01:15:47,120
Speaker 4: Gotten high before.

1789
01:15:48,080 --> 01:15:49,240
Speaker 2: It's weird. I'm neither.

1790
01:15:50,000 --> 01:15:52,360
Speaker 1: Well, it's not gonna be a great conversation because it's

1791
01:15:52,400 --> 01:15:54,479
Speaker 1: not a show that seems illegal.

1792
01:15:55,439 --> 01:15:56,000
Speaker 4: Well, yeah, I.

1793
01:15:56,000 --> 01:15:58,840
Speaker 3: Don't think you could do it from your home. You

1794
01:15:58,880 --> 01:16:01,880
Speaker 3: couldn't do it in this building and then come in here.

1795
01:16:04,240 --> 01:16:04,519
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1796
01:16:04,560 --> 01:16:05,559
Speaker 4: It sounds like a bad ida.

1797
01:16:05,600 --> 01:16:08,439
Speaker 2: You're right, terribly. I gave it for a Facebook a

1798
01:16:08,560 --> 01:16:10,840
Speaker 2: Facebook line if we get brave enough.

1799
01:16:11,040 --> 01:16:13,760
Speaker 4: Because like there's all these things now and everyone's.

1800
01:16:13,400 --> 01:16:15,200
Speaker 2: Just scared of it. I'm scared of it, like a

1801
01:16:15,320 --> 01:16:16,479
Speaker 2: panic attacker too.

1802
01:16:16,680 --> 01:16:19,400
Speaker 1: I'm scared that I would like, I don't know what

1803
01:16:19,520 --> 01:16:23,000
Speaker 1: happens when you get high, but it seems if you've never.

1804
01:16:23,200 --> 01:16:24,880
Speaker 3: Been high, you don't know. I don't know, you could

1805
01:16:24,920 --> 01:16:28,679
Speaker 3: get super paranoid. All right. Ashley Picard is doing a challenge.

1806
01:16:28,800 --> 01:16:32,080
Speaker 3: She's in Maine. She's walking or running twenty eighteen miles

1807
01:16:32,160 --> 01:16:34,479
Speaker 3: in twenty eighteen. That works out to five and a

1808
01:16:34,520 --> 01:16:36,760
Speaker 3: half miles a day. So she listens to us as

1809
01:16:36,800 --> 01:16:38,720
Speaker 3: she walks or runs, and she would like you to

1810
01:16:38,800 --> 01:16:42,680
Speaker 3: cheer her on. Oh wow, yeah, Ashley, go go go,

1811
01:16:42,880 --> 01:16:49,280
Speaker 3: actually go run those Steph Ventura is in Costa Rica.

1812
01:16:49,400 --> 01:16:51,920
Speaker 3: She's illegal advisor. What's that said?

1813
01:16:51,920 --> 01:16:53,040
Speaker 4: But ice your feet after you run?

1814
01:16:53,040 --> 01:16:56,000
Speaker 3: Because ice your feet? Oh my gosh, what is with you?

1815
01:16:56,400 --> 01:16:57,080
Speaker 3: No goodness?

1816
01:16:58,560 --> 01:16:59,240
Speaker 4: Curse this much?

1817
01:16:59,280 --> 01:17:01,360
Speaker 3: Anyway, Stephan, here's a Costa Rica. My parents are going

1818
01:17:01,400 --> 01:17:04,320
Speaker 3: there for Christmases. Here, Costa Rica. They'll look for Steph Ventura.

1819
01:17:04,400 --> 01:17:06,280
Speaker 3: She's a legal adviser. If they are running into trouble

1820
01:17:06,320 --> 01:17:09,080
Speaker 3: down there, I know who to call. Gracie Swain's in

1821
01:17:09,120 --> 01:17:11,400
Speaker 3: Alabama getting her first Greade classroom, ready for the new

1822
01:17:11,400 --> 01:17:13,720
Speaker 3: sweet kiddos to come. That's a quote from her July

1823
01:17:13,920 --> 01:17:17,519
Speaker 3: seventeenth Back to schools here already, yeah it is. Kaylie

1824
01:17:17,520 --> 01:17:19,920
Speaker 3: de Winter is in New Brunswick getting ready for work,

1825
01:17:19,960 --> 01:17:21,800
Speaker 3: and she says it's not great because she laughs so

1826
01:17:21,960 --> 01:17:24,360
Speaker 3: hard she's putting her makeup on, she gets eyelighter on

1827
01:17:24,439 --> 01:17:26,240
Speaker 3: the stair all over her face. But she loves you.

1828
01:17:27,120 --> 01:17:28,800
Speaker 3: And Easton wanted me to give some shout outs to

1829
01:17:28,800 --> 01:17:32,839
Speaker 3: Emily trolling her from Rogers, Arkansas. It was her birthday yesterday.

1830
01:17:32,920 --> 01:17:33,919
Speaker 2: Oh, happy birthday.

1831
01:17:34,120 --> 01:17:37,920
Speaker 3: And Christine Nigerian and Stephanie Cleman from Chicago. They loved

1832
01:17:37,960 --> 01:17:40,720
Speaker 3: the show. They bonded over Easton's wife's request to take

1833
01:17:40,760 --> 01:17:44,679
Speaker 3: out the garbage. I think that was in an Instagram comment.

1834
01:17:45,720 --> 01:17:49,200
Speaker 3: I think okay, anyway, all right, here we go. What

1835
01:17:49,360 --> 01:17:51,479
Speaker 3: is the rap that's going to wrap up the show today?

1836
01:17:51,880 --> 01:17:52,439
Speaker 2: What do you up?

1837
01:17:52,600 --> 01:17:53,280
Speaker 4: I got Cardi B?

1838
01:17:53,400 --> 01:17:53,800
Speaker 2: I like it?

1839
01:17:53,920 --> 01:17:54,200
Speaker 3: All right?

1840
01:17:54,240 --> 01:17:55,519
Speaker 2: Do you want to go love Cardi B?

1841
01:17:55,760 --> 01:17:57,560
Speaker 3: If you want to go first back, I'll give you

1842
01:17:57,680 --> 01:18:01,479
Speaker 3: three options, go first, go second, or crafted for next week. Uh.

1843
01:18:01,960 --> 01:18:03,479
Speaker 2: I'm gonna craft it for next week. But I want

1844
01:18:03,479 --> 01:18:05,080
Speaker 2: to have a story about the song. I played it

1845
01:18:05,200 --> 01:18:07,840
Speaker 2: my parents, like literally on the beach and everything we

1846
01:18:07,880 --> 01:18:10,880
Speaker 2: were listening to like old seventies music, you know, didn't

1847
01:18:10,920 --> 01:18:12,800
Speaker 2: get to play my Top forty like normal. So we

1848
01:18:12,840 --> 01:18:14,400
Speaker 2: get in the car and I put this song on

1849
01:18:14,720 --> 01:18:16,800
Speaker 2: and my mom's like, and they're laughing because I was

1850
01:18:17,040 --> 01:18:18,960
Speaker 2: dancing and stuff and my mom's like, who is this?

1851
01:18:19,080 --> 01:18:22,000
Speaker 2: And I was like Cardi B. And she goes, who's

1852
01:18:22,120 --> 01:18:26,120
Speaker 2: Carly B. I'm know, so cute, mom.

1853
01:18:26,439 --> 01:18:28,160
Speaker 4: I don't think my parents know who she is either.

1854
01:18:28,400 --> 01:18:30,120
Speaker 2: It just seems like she's just everywhere.

1855
01:18:30,120 --> 01:18:31,720
Speaker 4: It's like, how have you not heard of car now?

1856
01:18:31,920 --> 01:18:33,080
Speaker 4: But we live in a different world.

1857
01:18:33,120 --> 01:18:34,280
Speaker 2: You're right, okay.

1858
01:18:34,280 --> 01:18:35,920
Speaker 4: I just seem to play like a smeche to like

1859
01:18:36,160 --> 01:18:38,679
Speaker 4: get it, get hold on diamonds.

1860
01:18:38,760 --> 01:18:41,120
Speaker 1: I like Dallas, I like Donne and I like Seane.

1861
01:18:41,360 --> 01:18:44,519
Speaker 1: I like million dollar bills. Where's my jump sign it?

1862
01:18:44,640 --> 01:18:47,720
Speaker 1: I like those Balencia yagas, the ones that look like suck.

1863
01:18:47,960 --> 01:18:50,400
Speaker 4: I like going through the jeweler. I put rocks al

1864
01:18:50,479 --> 01:18:51,040
Speaker 4: in my watch.

1865
01:18:51,280 --> 01:18:53,600
Speaker 1: I get Texas from my exes when they want a

1866
01:18:53,720 --> 01:18:56,519
Speaker 1: second chance, I get I like proven wrong.

1867
01:18:56,720 --> 01:18:57,639
Speaker 2: I do what they say.

1868
01:18:57,720 --> 01:18:58,080
Speaker 4: I can't.

1869
01:18:58,120 --> 01:19:01,840
Speaker 1: They call me Kardi Kardi banging, spicy Mommy hot to Mala,

1870
01:19:02,080 --> 01:19:06,479
Speaker 1: how to Molly Potter, Dennis up, Molly Cardiop on the

1871
01:19:06,520 --> 01:19:10,599
Speaker 1: poop hop, on the food and no no, I can't

1872
01:19:10,680 --> 01:19:13,960
Speaker 1: tell that. I'm sorry run that like CARTI No no,

1873
01:19:14,160 --> 01:19:17,040
Speaker 1: no money man, I run that like Cardi Yo bed

1874
01:19:17,840 --> 01:19:18,280
Speaker 1: I liked it.

1875
01:19:19,040 --> 01:19:21,840
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, is there okay?

1876
01:19:24,280 --> 01:19:25,120
Speaker 2: That was ting down?

1877
01:19:25,360 --> 01:19:25,599
Speaker 3: Great?

1878
01:19:26,320 --> 01:19:34,800
Speaker 2: Twelve seventeen. Yeah, let's see you.

1879
01:19:35,439 --> 01:19:37,760
Speaker 4: The ones that look like Sack. I like going to

1880
01:19:37,960 --> 01:19:40,320
Speaker 4: the jeweler. I put rock sl in my watch. I

1881
01:19:40,439 --> 01:19:43,559
Speaker 4: get Texas from my exes when they want a second chance.

1882
01:19:43,800 --> 01:19:44,160
Speaker 2: Broach