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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Davin,

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Speaker 1: good morning, Welcome to the program. How are you very well?

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Speaker 1: Devin's got a deep voice. Hig, Devin, Let's hear about

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Speaker 1: this date that you went on with Jackie is her name.

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Speaker 1: We got to know kind of all the background, how

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Speaker 1: you met, about the date or dates, and then where

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Speaker 1: you guys stand right now?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, I met Jackie actually on a dating app,

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Speaker 2: and we decided we're going to go out to dinner.

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Speaker 2: So we had like a dinner date, and I really

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Speaker 2: liked her. We have such a good time laughing, and

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Speaker 2: I don't know, out of nowhere, she just completely ghosted me.

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Speaker 2: And I'm just kind of confused because we talked about,

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Speaker 2: like during our day going on another date, and she

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Speaker 2: said like she wanted to go. But then when I

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Speaker 2: cut out of contact her, so I don't get any response.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I mean, I guess some people are forward enough

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Speaker 1: to say hey, I'm not interested, and some people might

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Speaker 1: kind of dodge it, you know, and say oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: yeah yeah, and then ghost you, which isn't cool, but

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Speaker 1: you know, who knows. But you look back on this

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Speaker 1: date and you feel like it all went great. I

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Speaker 1: mean the communication was good. You know, weird topics you

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Speaker 1: didn't bring up, like any kind of you know, crazy

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Speaker 1: ass political view or some sort of sado masochism that

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Speaker 1: you're into, or like, I mean, just honestly, like you

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Speaker 1: look back and you say this was a good date.

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Speaker 3: There should be another day.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I mean, I those of my best behavior.

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Speaker 2: We had such a good time. Like, there's nothing could

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Speaker 2: have been wrong.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you don't have a pet snake collection, you don't.

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Speaker 1: You didn't lie about your job. I mean, this is

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Speaker 1: everything went straightforward and on the up and up.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well let's I'm going to play one song.

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Speaker 1: We'll come back in a couple of minutes. We'll call Jackie.

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Speaker 1: You'll be on the phone. We'll ask some questions. At

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Speaker 1: some point you're welcome to jump in, and you know,

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Speaker 1: our hope is that we can straighten this out, figure

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Speaker 1: out what's going on, set you guys up on another date,

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Speaker 1: and pay for that one, which we never have to do,

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Speaker 1: so it'll be a very nice date if it is.

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Speaker 3: I'm good.

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Speaker 1: Can you hang on for a second and be right back, okay, Devin, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: all right, let's call Jackie.

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Speaker 3: You guys met a dating app.

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Speaker 1: You went in a day, you thought it went great,

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Speaker 1: good chemistry, You talked about a second date, except she's

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Speaker 1: not responding to you. You've reached out to her, called her,

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Speaker 1: texted or whatever to plan this state and she's nowhere

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Speaker 1: to be found, and you want to know why you're

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Speaker 1: being ghosted. Let's call her right now?

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Speaker 3: Good luck? Hello? Hi is this Jackie? Yes?

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Speaker 1: Hi, Hey Jackie, good morning. My name is Fred. The

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Speaker 1: whole crew is here from the Fred Show. I'm sorry

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Speaker 1: to bother you, but I do have to tell you

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Speaker 1: that we are on the radio right now. I would

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Speaker 1: need your permission to continue with the call. Is it

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Speaker 1: okay if we talk for a couple of minutes?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Okay. I know it's weird.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you've heard this before, maybe not,

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Speaker 1: but we're calling on behalf of a guy named Devin

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Speaker 1: who says he met you on a dating app and

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Speaker 1: you guys recently went on a date.

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Speaker 3: Devin.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, all right, Well, so what happened with this guy?

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Speaker 1: Because he called us sounds like a nice enough guy.

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Speaker 1: They usually do, but there's always something. Nonetheless, he said

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Speaker 1: that he thought the date went great. He likes you,

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Speaker 1: felt good chemistry. He says that you guys even talked

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Speaker 1: about going out again, and apparently now you're not responding

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Speaker 1: to him.

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Speaker 3: So what's going on.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's the story he's going with.

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, okay, that's not the story. Then that's not

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Speaker 3: all of it.

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Speaker 1: No, we did go on a date.

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Speaker 4: I mean, he was nice and the date went well,

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Speaker 4: I thought, and I would have been happy to go

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Speaker 3: But after our date, what he didn't tell you is.

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Speaker 4: He texts me and asks me if I would drag

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Speaker 4: him to his colonoscopy.

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Speaker 1: Oh right, I mean because they put you under for that,

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Speaker 1: you know, so you need someone to well you need

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Speaker 1: someone to pick you up, I know. Yeah, so you're

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Speaker 1: not gonna drive, right yeah? Okay?

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Speaker 3: Wow?

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Speaker 1: All right, So you've met him once, one date, and

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Speaker 1: yet he wants you to to go, you know, help

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Speaker 1: him out with a colonoscopy. Okay, and you you think

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Speaker 1: you think that's a little intrusive. It's a little too

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Speaker 1: too much, too soon.

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Speaker 4: Not just that he wanted to stay at my house

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Speaker 4: the night before because his appointment was like early or something,

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Speaker 4: so he wanted to stay at my house.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, but this person that I just met, but

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Speaker 1: there's the prep for that work.

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Speaker 3: And I then take him to his goin on who whoa, wha,

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Speaker 3: wha what.

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Speaker 1: No, I've not had one yet, but from what I Kalen,

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Speaker 1: you have. From what I understand, you know they got

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Speaker 1: you got to clean yourself out before they go looking

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Speaker 1: around in there with a camera. So you gotta drink

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Speaker 1: some potion or whatever, and then you poop for like

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Speaker 1: half a day, right, A long time?

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, picking laxatives like NonStop. I don't want someone

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Speaker 4: some stranger blowing.

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Speaker 3: Up my bathroom.

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Speaker 1: So it's one thing to ask someone to drive you

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Speaker 1: to an appointment.

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Speaker 3: That's one thing. I mean, that's one thing.

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Speaker 1: It's a whole different thing to say that you got

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Speaker 1: to do the prep and all that stuff. I mean,

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Speaker 1: my I think that's alone time. I think I need

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Speaker 1: to be on my own for that. Let me bring

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Speaker 1: in Deva. I forgot to mention the Devin is here. Dude,

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Speaker 1: you were you were comfortable going over to her house

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Speaker 1: doing what you got to do to get ready for

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Speaker 1: this colonoscopy and then having her drive you. Do you Now,

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Speaker 1: one part of you is like, this isn't sexy.

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Speaker 2: I mean I had to get my medical procedure done.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I don't understand what the deal is. And

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Speaker 2: we had such a good time, I mean eight.

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Speaker 1: She had so much fun that you wanted to Let

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Speaker 1: me tell you when I'm when I'm having a great

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Speaker 1: time on a date, what I'm thinking is, is this

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Speaker 1: woman gonna let me crap at her house? Right?

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Speaker 3: Like excessively? It's real bad. I don't know if you've

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Speaker 3: had one before, but it's real bad.

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Speaker 1: And I don't do you not have a friend or

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Speaker 1: an uncle or something I hate, Like I hope you

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Speaker 1: do have all those things, but there's nobody else in

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Speaker 1: your life who you don't hope to have a romantic relationship,

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Speaker 1: you know, to do that for you.

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Speaker 2: Nobody lived here in town. So it's like I need

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Speaker 2: needed to help. And she was very caring, very giving,

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Speaker 2: and she said, you'd like to help people.

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Speaker 1: Out, it's a stretch. No, maybe somebody would drive you.

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Speaker 1: Maybe that's a little weird too, but the let me

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Speaker 1: come over the day before and do the whole deal.

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, we.

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Speaker 2: Have a really really really good time though, like you know,

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Speaker 2: so three.

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Speaker 3: Times one think Kevin, you want to ruin it.

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Speaker 2: That was our one only moments to fall in love

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Speaker 2: if I just.

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Speaker 3: Like, uh, and then a few moments to.

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Speaker 2: Talk to me.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like a housewife and your mom all in one.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sorry that you don't have anybody else

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Speaker 1: to do this for you, but I probably wouldn't ask

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Speaker 1: somebody to on the first date, uh, or at least

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Speaker 1: for the Hey, for our second date, I'm gonna pooh everywhere.

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Speaker 1: And then you're gonna drive me to Michael and oscopy,

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Speaker 1: which which good on you for, you know, being responsible

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Speaker 1: and checking on your uh your colon health, you know,

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Speaker 1: but but that might be something that you do privately.

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Speaker 2: But the door would have been closed, I mean, not

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Speaker 2: like I would have been going to the bathroom.

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Speaker 3: He would have the door.

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Speaker 1: Sam, it's loud, but he would have closed the door.

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Speaker 1: And you know, I bet he even would have ran

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Speaker 1: the sink. That's thoughtful. You're gonna oh, No, I think

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Speaker 1: it's it's a little personal for someone that you don't

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Speaker 1: know that well. And remember, you eventually want this person

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Speaker 1: to do other things with you, and they don't even

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Speaker 1: know you, and and now they're going to be thinking

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Speaker 1: about that. I just I don't know. I think that

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Speaker 1: was a misjudgment on your part. But okay, Jackie, would

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Speaker 1: you would you consider, you know, maybe give this guy

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Speaker 1: another chance? I mean, so it wasn't a good call.

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Speaker 1: I guess he thought he was falling in love or

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Speaker 1: you could be his soulmate. And if you'd driven him

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Speaker 1: to the colonoscopy, that would have confirmed it. I guess

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Speaker 1: which which it probably would have. Yeah, will you give

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Speaker 1: him another shot? Though, Jackie?

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Speaker 3: Uh No, I don't think so.

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Speaker 1: Okay, it was a reach. It was too personal, it

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Speaker 1: was too much and okay, made you feel uncomfortable and

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Speaker 1: maybe maybe this guy's you know, moving at a different speed.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay.

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Speaker 1: Did everything go okay with the kolonoscopy? I hope everything

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Speaker 1: went well if it already happened, Yeah, I mean things

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Speaker 3: Oh good, good, glad to hear it. How was that prep?

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Speaker 1: And by the way, now that you've done the prep,

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Speaker 1: can you you really don't think that that we're weird

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Speaker 1: to do at someone else's house.

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Speaker 2: I mean, in my opinion, it wasn't that bad. It

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Speaker 2: was a lot, but there was.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was so okay.

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Speaker 1: Guys, look, thank you for your time, and I wish

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Speaker 1: you both the best supplying