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Speaker 1: gonna read this one right here, right now, and you

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Speaker 1: it's time for the Strawberry Letter with my good friend

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Speaker 1: Shirley Strawberry. Thank you, Junior. Subjects the rug shaker Go ahead,

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Speaker 1: huh say it again? That sounded weird. Get everybody, WelCom

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Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter, My deep free Shalley. We are friends, say Junior.

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Speaker 1: The rum shaker took my man is the subject, Dear

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Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. My husband and I have been together fourteen

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Speaker 1: years and he's sixty and I'm fifty seven years old.

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Speaker 1: We don't have any children, so we do a lot

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Speaker 1: of activities together and we travel a lot. We're in

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Speaker 1: a vacation club and there's one other couple that we

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Speaker 1: enjoy meeting up with at different destinations. Mother's Day weekend,

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Speaker 1: we met the couple in Barcelona and we stayed in

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Speaker 1: a vacation rental. When we got there, we went straight

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Speaker 1: to the beach to relax. There was a black couple

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Speaker 1: so we invited the couple up to our house for dinner.

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Speaker 1: Me and my friend didn't want another couple in the

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Speaker 1: and we had a great dinner by a private chef,

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Speaker 1: could not sit still. She sashayed around and was very

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Speaker 1: expressive when she talked and touching on my husband. My

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Speaker 1: inside and left her with the men. I had already

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Speaker 1: heard my husband tell my girlfriend's husband that that woman

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Speaker 1: was built like a mustang. I let it slide because

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Speaker 1: she's got a big muscular butt and thighs, which isn't

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Speaker 1: my husband's type at all. I want to take a

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Speaker 1: and dropping it, and her husband was in a chair asleep.

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Speaker 1: My husband went over to her and grabbed her from

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Speaker 1: having innocent fun with the rump shaker. He said he'd

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Speaker 1: never do anything stupid with me in the house. Should

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Speaker 1: I believe him or not? Well, what do you think?

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Speaker 1: Don't believe him? You saw it with your very own eyes.

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Speaker 1: What do you think grabbing her from behind and and

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Speaker 1: grinding on her can lead to what do you think

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Speaker 1: was getting ready to happen? He should have gotten out

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Speaker 1: the hot tub a long time ago. Right, this is

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Speaker 1: your husband, She is married. She was in the hot

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Speaker 1: of your husband. There was nothing innocent about that at all.

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Speaker 1: Your husband grabbed her from behind and grinding on her.

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Speaker 1: That was not innocent. Okay, that's how having sex starts. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's how it starts. She was wrong. He was most

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Speaker 1: definitely out of order. Who does this and their spouses

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Speaker 1: are right there. Her husband could have woken up at

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Speaker 1: out there anyway? I didn't understand that. And you know

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Speaker 1: your husband was again out of order, saying she was

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Speaker 1: that's wrong as well. I don't understand why you left

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Speaker 1: her out there. You didn't like her, You shouldn't have

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Speaker 1: I don't trust her. It's a good thing you went

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Speaker 1: you should not believe him. Surprised us all you're asking us,

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Speaker 1: But no, all right, Steve, it's on you, now go.

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Speaker 1: The rump shaker took my man. I didn't see this

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Speaker 1: he's sixty, unfit yourself, y'all, ain't got no kids, y'all

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Speaker 1: meet in different destination. Here's a problem. Mother's Day weekend.

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Speaker 1: We met the couple in Barcelona. We stayed in a

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Speaker 1: He knew the guy. Put the star next to that.

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Speaker 1: He invited the couple up to our house for dinner.

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Speaker 1: let's put that on though, burn it too, because obviously

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Speaker 1: you've run about a lot of stuff. They came. We

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Speaker 1: The other woman could not sit still. Though she sassed around.

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Speaker 1: It was very expressive when she talked, and she kept

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Speaker 1: touching my husband. Let's marked that right there, sash and

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Speaker 1: around touching. All right, hold it still. Oh, I'm gonna hold.

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Speaker 1: I have all the notes, I have a conclusion. Okay,

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Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry Letter, subject

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Speaker 1: the rump Shaker took my man. We'll get back into

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Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening, stay morning show. All right,

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Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject

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Speaker 1: the rump Shaker I took my man. Well, first of all,

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Speaker 1: let's start with the subject is completely deceiving, because that's

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Speaker 1: not what happened in the letter, The rump Shaker took

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Speaker 1: my man. He's sixty fifty seven. Y'all do a lot

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Speaker 1: You and the other woman did not want the woman

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Speaker 1: how wrong you are? You're wrong now, Remember he knew

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Speaker 1: I'm a little confused. She sass her in around, touching

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Speaker 1: That's stupid. I had already heard my husband tell my

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Speaker 1: Who does that? Who says to another man, man, your

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Speaker 1: He know the guy. That's why he was comfortable to say, man,

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Speaker 1: girl built like a Mustang and didn't get knocked out.

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Speaker 1: And he's sixty, he already know better. Man. But he

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Speaker 1: which isn't my husband's type at all. Well then, well

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Speaker 1: you're wrong about that, But let me ask you a question.

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Speaker 1: She had a big muscular button thighs, which isn't my type,

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Speaker 1: That's what that lets me know, because if you did,

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Speaker 1: you know that was his type. But you, little miss

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Speaker 1: thin mint pepmint patty, you sitting up in here, or

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Speaker 1: I don't know what you are, but you obviously ain't

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Speaker 1: You don't, you don't, You don't see what's happening, because

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Speaker 1: Are you kidding me? My husband went over to her

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Speaker 1: He was shot as heck when I walked outside. Hell yeah.

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Speaker 1: He said he was just having innocent fun with the

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Speaker 1: man is a swinger. That's why he said she built

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Speaker 1: know him overseas and see this woman she built like

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Speaker 1: a mustang. That didn't happen. Then he acts like he's

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Speaker 1: She twerking in a hot tub. He goes and grabbled

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Speaker 1: from man how he grinded them. It's just innocent fun.

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Speaker 1: Well we all know that ain't innocent. We do understand

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Speaker 1: that part. Shirley's absolutely correct about that. And that's gonna

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Speaker 1: lead to something else. That was it gonna lead to

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Speaker 1: something that night? I doubted unless you were willing to participate.

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Speaker 1: But you too square for this because this ain't what

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Speaker 1: you do. And because you don't want to be a

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Speaker 1: swinger don't mean you square. You should be square. I'm

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Speaker 1: square when it comes to that, you ain't swinging with mine. Dog.

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Speaker 1: Now back in the day, you still wasn't swingling mine.

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Speaker 1: You just swing with me, but you wasn't swinging with mine.

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Speaker 1: That's difference. Thanks for the clarity. You can swing with me, Okay,

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Speaker 1: we'll do. We had rules on this here thing, but

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Speaker 1: that's all. This is day swingers. And she was out

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Speaker 1: you were down with it, that's what that was gonna be.

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