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Speaker 1: And welcome to episode one three of the Bobby Casts

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Speaker 1: where Amy's in my house today. We're testing out some

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Speaker 1: new studio equipment. So we thought we do a podcast

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Speaker 1: and I would just answer questions sent in from the

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Speaker 1: Instagram question where you post it up. And so what

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Speaker 1: I did as I said, Hey, just questions for Amy

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Speaker 1: and myself and so as you can see, i'll show

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Speaker 1: you here. We got a lot of them. Okay, and

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Speaker 1: so might D. And I mean thousands and thousands of Okay, Well,

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Speaker 1: m D and I have pulled ten questions. He's pulled them.

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Speaker 1: I've just sent him give I give him my phone.

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Speaker 1: I have no idea what they are. Yeah, well I don't.

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Speaker 1: I just said here's my phone and hopefully didn't look

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Speaker 1: all through my d m um. And and these are questions, um,

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Speaker 1: and you know I was looking. I posted some of

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Speaker 1: them on my answer story because Amy was here we

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Speaker 1: were doing it. Um. You know a lot of the

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Speaker 1: general questions are things like before I might get into specifics,

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Speaker 1: if you could switch your show from in the mornings,

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Speaker 1: would you a lot of people ask you about the

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Speaker 1: time of our show. Yeah? Absolutely, in this in a second,

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Speaker 1: I'm not Amy's bit of a morning person. I mean, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I am not, but to be fair, it's not really

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Speaker 1: a morning you have to wake up before a morning

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Speaker 1: person would wake up. Yeah, it's not about being a

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Speaker 1: morning person. It's about being like, can your alarm go

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Speaker 1: off basically in the middle of the night and you

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Speaker 1: still be happy? Yes? And the answer is yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: you can choose to be happy, but it's difficult. I

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Speaker 1: feel like we've gotten smarter as the years have gone by,

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Speaker 1: like wiser with when we like you used to want

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Speaker 1: to do all of the pre show prep at the

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Speaker 1: station way back in the day. We used to get

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Speaker 1: to the station like so early, like it was ridiculous,

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Speaker 1: and now you work from home. I stopped that whenever

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Speaker 1: I got jumped in the parking lot because I would

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Speaker 1: get there in the morning. And now I'm so sad

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Speaker 1: that that happened to you. But also also I was like,

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Speaker 1: pretty amazing, Now Amy's the one who jumped me. Husband.

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Speaker 1: Now that I think back, I'm like, you know what,

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Speaker 1: this is what it takes to wake up at two?

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Speaker 1: I am okay, uh that A lot of people wonder

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Speaker 1: about the dynamics of how things get on the air

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Speaker 1: on the show, and so I would say at this point, Um,

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Speaker 1: how it works is the only two microphones to stay open.

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Speaker 1: The open means on that you're talking to. Open means

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Speaker 1: that microphones are just on. Amy's a minor open all

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Speaker 1: the time. Everybody else kind of has to get a

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Speaker 1: segment on by submit, by segment idea or Mike d

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Speaker 1: and I will go through news and be like, hey,

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Speaker 1: this would be interesting for Amy to talk about her

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Speaker 1: lunchbox to talk about. So that's really how you get

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Speaker 1: a segment on the show. Now, like someone like, uh,

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Speaker 1: lunchbox went to the street bit put those on Raymundo

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Speaker 1: when he does well, right, he just sent some funny Yes,

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Speaker 1: that's that's how you get on the show. We have

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Speaker 1: so many people now to do different things that how

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Speaker 1: a good idea to talk about on the show. Other

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Speaker 1: than that, Mike, let's roll with some of this stuff. Alright, alright,

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Speaker 1: Question number one from E. A. Morrison. How did it

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Speaker 1: go from Amy saying hi to you guys being friends

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Speaker 1: to her on the show. Now, I think it was

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Speaker 1: just high to me more than it was that you guys. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you were sitting by yourself, you were eating alone, and

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Speaker 1: I remember in Andrea, she's been my friends since we

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Speaker 1: We're still friends, and so we talked about it sometimes

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Speaker 1: we're like, how crazy is it that this is. She

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Speaker 1: was like, what is this life? It's so crazy because

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Speaker 1: and I was like, I think that that's Bobby Bones

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Speaker 1: and she she didn't listen, so she literally was like

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Speaker 1: that's that's how I said hi to you. It was

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Speaker 1: also a different life Igo too. Oh yeah we were kids. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: of it went met Amy Amy. I didn't have budget

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Speaker 1: for you to come on the show as a co host.

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Speaker 1: You came on as a producer, which was it. Then

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Speaker 1: You've done a lot of weird stuff to be Like,

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Speaker 1: so it went from meeting to her coming on as

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Speaker 1: remember how long it took, but yeah, probably in a

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Speaker 1: contractually I was still a producer and my contract was

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Speaker 1: that I don't even know, No, it was just my

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Speaker 1: and I was going to quit the show and my

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Speaker 1: know what, we fulfilled contracts when we signed them, we

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Speaker 1: I was going to be done. We Last night, Amy's

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Speaker 1: my husband lived in North Carolina. He spent a lot

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Speaker 1: of time in Afghanistan to be fair, but still like

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Speaker 1: I wasn't in our home. He and I don't think

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Speaker 1: can we have lunch? Get margharita that chewies And he's like,

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Speaker 1: Two months later, I'm like, so you want to move

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Speaker 1: So that's what That's the other part where I think

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Speaker 1: I had no idea. Well, they just gave you a

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Speaker 1: Bobby Bones Show, and so they were like, when the

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Speaker 1: Oh what else that's not? You don't have anything else

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Speaker 1: like changed maybe or I don't know it. I feel

428
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Speaker 1: like you give me maybe sometimes a quick response that

429
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Speaker 1: that hits me where I'm like I couldn't. I disagree

430
00:19:57,680 --> 00:20:00,840
Speaker 1: with that, but that's where I think maybe sometimes if

431
00:20:00,920 --> 00:20:04,040
Speaker 1: we were to have a thoughtful conversation about it, there

432
00:20:04,040 --> 00:20:06,200
Speaker 1: would be a different conclusion. I don't think so, you

433
00:20:06,240 --> 00:20:08,760
Speaker 1: don't think see, you don't think so. No, I'm a

434
00:20:08,800 --> 00:20:10,960
Speaker 1: big believer in not spending too much time thinking about

435
00:20:10,960 --> 00:20:14,439
Speaker 1: things because I think you're your gut instinct is not

436
00:20:14,560 --> 00:20:16,280
Speaker 1: really an instinct at all. You just know how you

437
00:20:16,320 --> 00:20:18,600
Speaker 1: feel about things, and you start to a second guess yourself,

438
00:20:18,840 --> 00:20:21,800
Speaker 1: and you start talking yourself into maybes and what ifs,

439
00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:23,200
Speaker 1: and the next thing you know, you really don't feel

440
00:20:23,240 --> 00:20:25,760
Speaker 1: like you know, even though you knew from the beginning. Also,

441
00:20:25,800 --> 00:20:27,960
Speaker 1: I do answer short. I just said. I just I'm

442
00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:30,840
Speaker 1: not good at fluffing things. I'm not good. I get

443
00:20:30,880 --> 00:20:34,280
Speaker 1: in trouble with emails because I'm just like, send to everyone,

444
00:20:34,320 --> 00:20:36,600
Speaker 1: not just you. Oh yeah, I know. That's why I

445
00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:38,480
Speaker 1: have to say. I have to know not to take

446
00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:43,000
Speaker 1: it personally. I have a conversation with Amy. It's nothing

447
00:20:43,040 --> 00:20:46,600
Speaker 1: you did, Yeah, it's nothing. It's not even that I'm busy.

448
00:20:46,680 --> 00:20:48,600
Speaker 1: It's just we have a lot you're getting through. But

449
00:20:48,640 --> 00:20:49,920
Speaker 1: I don't even know that that's the case. I think

450
00:20:49,920 --> 00:20:58,480
Speaker 1: that's just that's just me always when eight probably, I think,

451
00:20:58,560 --> 00:21:00,720
Speaker 1: I probably, this is what I think. I think that

452
00:21:01,560 --> 00:21:04,399
Speaker 1: I wasn't listened to a lot young, so when I

453
00:21:04,440 --> 00:21:06,760
Speaker 1: had shots to be heard, I just said it quick,

454
00:21:07,200 --> 00:21:09,639
Speaker 1: like can I get in? So I don't really I

455
00:21:09,680 --> 00:21:11,240
Speaker 1: had people had to listen to me all the time.

456
00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:16,880
Speaker 1: That's different, that's probably listen. I don't know. I don't

457
00:21:16,880 --> 00:21:19,439
Speaker 1: have the answer. I don't sometimes and people ask us

458
00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:22,160
Speaker 1: to do. We still hang out outside of the show.

459
00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:26,280
Speaker 1: When we first started, we took vacations together. But really,

460
00:21:26,880 --> 00:21:28,600
Speaker 1: if you and I get any time now to hang

461
00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:30,720
Speaker 1: out outside of the show where there's nothing work related,

462
00:21:30,880 --> 00:21:32,919
Speaker 1: I mean it's like once ever a few months. But

463
00:21:33,000 --> 00:21:34,720
Speaker 1: we spend five or six hours a day together, so

464
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Speaker 1: it's not like we're racing to get home and hang

465
00:21:36,680 --> 00:21:41,840
Speaker 1: out either. You know, you have your your relationship and

466
00:21:41,840 --> 00:21:44,200
Speaker 1: your kids, and I have my new relationship with work,

467
00:21:44,320 --> 00:21:47,199
Speaker 1: jobs everywhere. I'm all over the place, and so like

468
00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:51,960
Speaker 1: we hardly ever hang out outside of work. Um Eddie

469
00:21:51,960 --> 00:21:53,400
Speaker 1: and I don't hang out unless we're on the road

470
00:21:53,440 --> 00:21:56,879
Speaker 1: together doing raging idiot stuff. We don't ever just like

471
00:21:56,920 --> 00:21:59,920
Speaker 1: go rarely hang out. I mean this in the best way.

472
00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:01,600
Speaker 1: We have spent years and years hanging out to get

473
00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:05,320
Speaker 1: to this point. Yes, Like, had we not spent invested

474
00:22:05,280 --> 00:22:08,000
Speaker 1: in many many years into this show as all close friends,

475
00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:09,800
Speaker 1: we definitely wouldn't be able to be here. I never

476
00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:12,800
Speaker 1: hang out with the Raymondo outside of the show. Um,

477
00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:16,399
Speaker 1: yesterday we did. Never hang out the Raymondo. Only hang

478
00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:18,320
Speaker 1: out with Eddie if we're on the road. Never hang

479
00:22:18,320 --> 00:22:19,959
Speaker 1: out on lunchboxes outside of the show. Only hang out

480
00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:22,359
Speaker 1: with you once every what we tried once every three months.

481
00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:24,520
Speaker 1: We try if it works, so you'll come by and

482
00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:26,439
Speaker 1: hang out with the kids and like hang at the

483
00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:28,720
Speaker 1: house for a little bit something like that. That's the

484
00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:31,080
Speaker 1: one I probably try the most. Yeah, which makes sense

485
00:22:31,119 --> 00:22:34,520
Speaker 1: and I appreciate that. Like, yeah, so that's a question

486
00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:35,800
Speaker 1: I get on Instagram a lie, like do you guys

487
00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:37,080
Speaker 1: still hang out? But no, we're kind of adults and

488
00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:39,440
Speaker 1: everybody has their own Yeah, like we get it. It's

489
00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:42,840
Speaker 1: not like it has to happen, but sometimes there needs

490
00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:45,040
Speaker 1: to be just that if you go and just have

491
00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:46,719
Speaker 1: like that normal. But it doesn't have to be all

492
00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:48,520
Speaker 1: the time. But like a dinner every once in a

493
00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:51,000
Speaker 1: while is good. I feel like for us. We just

494
00:22:51,080 --> 00:22:54,239
Speaker 1: fly somewhere together. That's that's usually where it's like, oh,

495
00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:56,600
Speaker 1: we actually have an hour, we can't run and you

496
00:22:56,640 --> 00:23:00,320
Speaker 1: have to deal with the kids. Yeah, some like that.

497
00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:02,960
Speaker 1: But again we're spending seven hours a day already talk

498
00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:05,680
Speaker 1: about everything, so it's like even before the show, we're

499
00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:07,520
Speaker 1: in your office together talking, so I feel like we

500
00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:10,159
Speaker 1: catch up a lot. So yeah, sometimes like a dinner

501
00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:14,080
Speaker 1: doesn't make sense. This is otis Gray And for this

502
00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:16,640
Speaker 1: season On the Job, we're hitting the road to tell

503
00:23:16,680 --> 00:23:20,440
Speaker 1: amazing stories of real people and their life's work, from

504
00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:23,480
Speaker 1: a young woman making dolls for an underserved market to

505
00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:26,480
Speaker 1: folks falling in love at the office. Each episode will

506
00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:30,040
Speaker 1: surprise you. And just when we thought it couldn't get

507
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Speaker 1: any worse, we got the job from hell. Check it

508
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Speaker 1: out by searching for On the Job from Express Employment

509
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Speaker 1: Professionals in the I Heart Radio app or wherever you listen. Um, Mike,

510
00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:47,120
Speaker 1: what's the next number five? From Nina Star? What's been

511
00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:56,000
Speaker 1: your biggest fight? Mm? Hmm biggest fight? Did something come

512
00:23:56,040 --> 00:23:59,480
Speaker 1: to your mind? No, not not like an issue like

513
00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:06,199
Speaker 1: we've had some. I mean I know something, but it

514
00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:09,040
Speaker 1: is like way back, it's still something I think about

515
00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:11,520
Speaker 1: because I'm like, so nothing's coming to my mind. Let

516
00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:13,800
Speaker 1: me think for a second, because it's like way back,

517
00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:19,600
Speaker 1: and I get it sort of. You're already defending it.

518
00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:26,840
Speaker 1: We were twenty six maybe over years ago. But again,

519
00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:28,160
Speaker 1: if we have to look back and try to find

520
00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:31,440
Speaker 1: a fight, yeah, even like really a fight, that's the thing. Well,

521
00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:33,840
Speaker 1: let me clarify your shirt that you wore that from

522
00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:37,320
Speaker 1: Dumb and Dumb. Oh no, that's no, no, but that

523
00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:43,399
Speaker 1: was pretty bad and we made fun of her and

524
00:24:43,480 --> 00:24:47,320
Speaker 1: she cried, and I wish we wouldn't have. But also

525
00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:48,880
Speaker 1: you were a little sensitive too, because you make fun

526
00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:51,000
Speaker 1: of your friend. It's fine. We should in this because

527
00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:52,920
Speaker 1: that was on air. I was thinking like something off heir,

528
00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:56,080
Speaker 1: but on hair. There was probably that time. I don't

529
00:24:56,080 --> 00:24:58,679
Speaker 1: know for sure if I walked off, but there's been

530
00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:01,080
Speaker 1: at least once or twice where we were in Austin

531
00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:03,719
Speaker 1: live on the air, like I left the room and

532
00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:07,160
Speaker 1: I went fully into I left live radio, left the room.

533
00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:10,760
Speaker 1: You were lunchbox, somebody sweater Day. I don't know sweater Gate.

534
00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:15,000
Speaker 1: You were in on that, but the lunchbox yeah where yeah,

535
00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:17,480
Speaker 1: he came on, But there was something else. Maybe when

536
00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:19,520
Speaker 1: I said, I was leaving. I don't know if that

537
00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:22,200
Speaker 1: was Candy Day, but I said, whoever, it takes over

538
00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:24,320
Speaker 1: my job that are being prepared and then I go

539
00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:29,879
Speaker 1: freaking prepared Candy Day. Okay. So I just remember going

540
00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:32,119
Speaker 1: to the bathroom and like crying and I was like,

541
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:35,800
Speaker 1: I'm quitting, I'm quitting, I'm leaving now like this. I

542
00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:38,360
Speaker 1: just like I'm not prepared for this. But those are

543
00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:41,959
Speaker 1: obviously times for maybe I was a little hormonal and

544
00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:44,320
Speaker 1: and yeah, I was trying to get pregnant with Sweater Day,

545
00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:50,080
Speaker 1: I was on clovid. Yes, emotional, but yeah, we had

546
00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:52,520
Speaker 1: an issue. Like it wasn't a fight. Oh what I

547
00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:55,560
Speaker 1: was going to say about our fights, Bobby doesn't fight,

548
00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:58,879
Speaker 1: but he doesn't fight, so there's no real fight. There's

549
00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:05,280
Speaker 1: just a annoyance or something like there's like like that's

550
00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:09,280
Speaker 1: so frustrating, Like we're frustrated. And then I'll say something

551
00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:11,600
Speaker 1: new about it and you'll like, I remember one time

552
00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:14,560
Speaker 1: I said, you like a three paragraph email because I

553
00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:17,919
Speaker 1: was just like, so like this is when and I

554
00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:21,359
Speaker 1: was like, oh, like and then You've replied back like

555
00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:27,280
Speaker 1: oh one or two horrid response, and I'm just like sweet,

556
00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:30,240
Speaker 1: good talk. Like and then it just and then it

557
00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:32,840
Speaker 1: just fizzled out, like there's no fighting with you. I

558
00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:35,480
Speaker 1: can only imagine what it's like being like your girlfriend

559
00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:38,560
Speaker 1: like there, because there's no fighting. You just kind of

560
00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:41,800
Speaker 1: like do your one response and you're like, Okay, they'll

561
00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:44,760
Speaker 1: probably get over it soon, which obviously I still think

562
00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:49,639
Speaker 1: about it or not, I don't know. I do remember

563
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:53,200
Speaker 1: exactly what it was. Okay, we had taken a trip

564
00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:57,119
Speaker 1: to Las Vegas the show, and again I wasn't I

565
00:26:57,160 --> 00:27:00,720
Speaker 1: had stayed behind, was living in and Ston. My husband

566
00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:03,879
Speaker 1: was living in North Carolina. He was would go to

567
00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:07,199
Speaker 1: Afghanistan whatever. We were newly married, and he had the

568
00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:10,080
Speaker 1: weekend off. He was supposed to go somewhere with the

569
00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:11,800
Speaker 1: Air Force. I don't know what's supposed to go somewhere,

570
00:27:11,800 --> 00:27:14,440
Speaker 1: and then didn't. So then that's normally weekend we would

571
00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:17,159
Speaker 1: have been together. So this, but you had planned a

572
00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:21,040
Speaker 1: show trip to Vegas with me and land and paid

573
00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:23,360
Speaker 1: for it all like a show bonding trip. I remember this, right,

574
00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:26,680
Speaker 1: Carlo Carlos, Maybe was there show bonding trip? Well I

575
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:30,159
Speaker 1: didn't really, I didn't know. I mean, he's like, I

576
00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:32,560
Speaker 1: want to see my wife. So he came and surprised

577
00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:36,080
Speaker 1: me in Las Vegas, and there was nothing I could

578
00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:37,720
Speaker 1: really do about it. I mean, and he got a

579
00:27:37,760 --> 00:27:40,840
Speaker 1: different hotel room, like he paid for whatever, but I

580
00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:42,520
Speaker 1: was still going to be really engaged with what he

581
00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:44,800
Speaker 1: had going on. I felt really torn between the show

582
00:27:44,880 --> 00:27:47,600
Speaker 1: and then my new husband, who I didn't ever get

583
00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:50,720
Speaker 1: to see. And it wasn't like, oh, sweet Amy's husband's here,

584
00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:52,000
Speaker 1: like let's just make the best of it and we

585
00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:54,560
Speaker 1: can all hang out. It was like, this is really

586
00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:58,639
Speaker 1: annoying that he's here, and um, you basically give me

587
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:00,440
Speaker 1: the cold shoulder the rest of the trip. It's funny

588
00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:02,880
Speaker 1: you think I haven't thought about that. Oh. I went

589
00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:05,120
Speaker 1: home and because I lived with my mom again didn't

590
00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:07,160
Speaker 1: live with my husband because I was doing the show.

591
00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:09,639
Speaker 1: I went home broke it down with my mom and

592
00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:12,359
Speaker 1: she was like, any you just need to. It's it's

593
00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:15,160
Speaker 1: like there's nothing you can do besides send him send

594
00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:18,040
Speaker 1: him your thoughts. So that is what I did. And

595
00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:22,640
Speaker 1: you replied with I think you've said something like Jesus,

596
00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:26,480
Speaker 1: this is a long email or something, and I was like, yes,

597
00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:29,520
Speaker 1: dear baby, Jesus, help me. Who thinks one. I was

598
00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:31,720
Speaker 1: probably frustrated because I paid thousands of dollars for it

599
00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:33,920
Speaker 1: to come out as a show. Triply I'm still in

600
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:35,960
Speaker 1: the wrong. That being said, when you send me text

601
00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:38,080
Speaker 1: messages that are super long. Oh yeah, Now he doesn't

602
00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:40,800
Speaker 1: know if Mary and I have anything like pimp joy

603
00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:43,840
Speaker 1: to discuss with Bobby, like and we're married with the

604
00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:45,840
Speaker 1: shot forward and like anything we're trying to do, Like

605
00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:48,040
Speaker 1: if we want to give him information about something or whatever,

606
00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:51,200
Speaker 1: She'll like, I'll She'll send something and I'll be looking

607
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:52,800
Speaker 1: at it and austin her. No, I'll be like, you know,

608
00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:56,320
Speaker 1: he's not reading that, right. We have a hashtag too

609
00:28:56,400 --> 00:28:58,760
Speaker 1: much text, because like Bobby, you'll just like, you know,

610
00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:01,640
Speaker 1: that's too much text, Like you send me a whole page.

611
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:04,160
Speaker 1: I'm like too much. I know, I know. And that's

612
00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:06,960
Speaker 1: how I learned that way back from that Vegas trip

613
00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:10,120
Speaker 1: when I was basically poured out everything because this is

614
00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:12,280
Speaker 1: how I wanted to communicate. I didn't want us to fight,

615
00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:14,920
Speaker 1: but I was so frustrated with how it all went down,

616
00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 1: and so again we didn't really resolve it. We didn't fight,

617
00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 1: definitely didn't fight. But that's because you went all like

618
00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:25,520
Speaker 1: my peace and I was like sweet, so here we

619
00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:34,520
Speaker 1: are fifteen years later? Just kidding. Get next question? Yeah, yeah,

620
00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:36,640
Speaker 1: I don't. I guess I don't really fight, do you?

621
00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:38,960
Speaker 1: You don't you don't have a fight example, Yeah, because

622
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:42,080
Speaker 1: we don't fight. Did you get annoyed and then I

623
00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:44,800
Speaker 1: get over it? Yeah? And most of the time I'm wrong.

624
00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:50,160
Speaker 1: That's not always the case, but mostly mostly What else?

625
00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:54,080
Speaker 1: From b very twelve? Why does Google have your height wrong? Oh?

626
00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:58,240
Speaker 1: I hate that. I'm so pissed about that. And to clarify,

627
00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:01,280
Speaker 1: Bobby is six ft one? The doctor the last doctor

628
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:04,640
Speaker 1: that I was. It doesn't matter when do you go

629
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:08,000
Speaker 1: to the doctor take your shoes off? Never? But does not?

630
00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:11,239
Speaker 1: Did it was? Never? Worry three? Okay, so six ft one?

631
00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:15,480
Speaker 1: This is going to be our latest fight. Refuses to

632
00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:18,360
Speaker 1: six ft Google is the five time? Which is the

633
00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:23,680
Speaker 1: live doctors? Six one? And how about you me in

634
00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:28,200
Speaker 1: the middle six six? No, I'm my medical tests have

635
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:31,360
Speaker 1: shown I'm six ft one. Okay. I don't know why that?

636
00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:33,760
Speaker 1: Why would Google? Can you fix that? Is it Wikipedia

637
00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:35,680
Speaker 1: that has the wronger? Google? I don't know, I've seen this.

638
00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:38,200
Speaker 1: Google is the first thing that comes out. I don't

639
00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:42,880
Speaker 1: even know who would write that? Yeah? What else? Another one?

640
00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:46,240
Speaker 1: From HEATHERN maguire, who is the biggest diva between Amy

641
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:52,480
Speaker 1: and Bobby No different reasons. Yeah, you need your You're

642
00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:59,040
Speaker 1: equally diva is totally I agree a go ahead, no

643
00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:02,760
Speaker 1: going to no, just like you have your yours is

644
00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:07,479
Speaker 1: very food related. Yeah, what's trying to say? I mean

645
00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:11,760
Speaker 1: like at work in life, Yeah, I can be particular. Yeah,

646
00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:16,320
Speaker 1: I mean I didn't know is someone who's particular. So

647
00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:19,760
Speaker 1: you definitely have the I have the health particular things.

648
00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:22,040
Speaker 1: And but I'm way more chilled than I used to be,

649
00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:24,040
Speaker 1: Like I used to be way more uptight, which my

650
00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:26,720
Speaker 1: husband appreciates. My kids. I think my kids coming in

651
00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:28,960
Speaker 1: have helped me live a little bit more when it

652
00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 1: comes to that, and I'm super thankful. It was hard

653
00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:34,960
Speaker 1: for me to accept it first. But like, even with them,

654
00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:36,360
Speaker 1: I'm not as up tired as I thought I was

655
00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:37,560
Speaker 1: going to be because I thought they were going to

656
00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:39,400
Speaker 1: only eat a certain way and I wasn't gonna let

657
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:42,400
Speaker 1: them deviate and eat junk because I didn't want them

658
00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:45,880
Speaker 1: to grow up like craving bad things. Like they were

659
00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:48,520
Speaker 1: already at a negative coming from the orphanage because they

660
00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:51,960
Speaker 1: had not a lot of nutrition there, like substance like

661
00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:53,800
Speaker 1: stuff that's like really good for them, and it's just

662
00:31:53,840 --> 00:31:55,920
Speaker 1: like rice and beans every day. It was more calories

663
00:31:55,960 --> 00:32:01,400
Speaker 1: in not nutrients. So but now I'm like whatever, I'm like,

664
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:04,080
Speaker 1: before you get your if you even want to have

665
00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:07,240
Speaker 1: ice cream, you better eat that entire slice of pizza.

666
00:32:07,560 --> 00:32:10,120
Speaker 1: And like then I'm like, who am I right now?

667
00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:12,760
Speaker 1: But I'm like, you know what, Like they're kids and

668
00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:16,000
Speaker 1: I should be that way too, And so at the beginning,

669
00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:17,840
Speaker 1: they weren't used to me having anything with them, and

670
00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:20,280
Speaker 1: now if I have like a piece of pizza with them,

671
00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:24,480
Speaker 1: they're like what, mom, are you serious right now? And

672
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:27,280
Speaker 1: then that they love it, and I'm like, oh, colle,

673
00:32:27,280 --> 00:32:33,800
Speaker 1: why was I so uptight? What is my biggest diva tendency? Well,

674
00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:38,800
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean time isn't diva whatever. That's discipline

675
00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:40,880
Speaker 1: that's like no, can whatever whatever comes to your mind

676
00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:42,760
Speaker 1: stay it out loud. Well no, I mean I think

677
00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:45,160
Speaker 1: it's just sometimes like you, well, but you have every

678
00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:47,440
Speaker 1: right to have want things done a certain way when

679
00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:49,840
Speaker 1: we're doing the show, Like sometimes I'll record something and

680
00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:52,080
Speaker 1: you'll be like do it again, and I was like, Okay,

681
00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:54,320
Speaker 1: I'll do it again. You'll do it again, and I'm like,

682
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:56,840
Speaker 1: I literally just said it the same or I'm gonna

683
00:32:56,840 --> 00:32:59,120
Speaker 1: say it the same way again. But I don't know

684
00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:01,480
Speaker 1: why you're I don't know if that's diva, But I'm like,

685
00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:03,040
Speaker 1: what is he looking for? Like, I don't know how

686
00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:06,960
Speaker 1: to say this any differently. You know the letter R

687
00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:09,040
Speaker 1: in it, you don't know, you're not able to say,

688
00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:13,200
Speaker 1: so I'll try. I'll try a different inflection. Brad Paisley

689
00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:17,600
Speaker 1: is from rural. What let's do it again. You don't

690
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:22,680
Speaker 1: say rural? Yeah, yeah, but that's like, that's just you

691
00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:27,240
Speaker 1: being particular. But like we've said, particular can be diva. Um,

692
00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:29,240
Speaker 1: what else are? What do you diva on? I mean

693
00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:31,440
Speaker 1: sometimes I mean you want your latte a certain way. No,

694
00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:33,640
Speaker 1: I don't want everybody goes to Starbucks and has their

695
00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:39,360
Speaker 1: own thing done their way. Okay, sorry, never mind, you'll

696
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:42,560
Speaker 1: drink whatever, thank you, thank you. I don't drink coffee,

697
00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 1: but I do have a child latte with dirty shots

698
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:51,400
Speaker 1: whatever they're called espress those shots. Yeah. I don't think

699
00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:54,880
Speaker 1: it's that crazy. I know what I want. Yeah, same,

700
00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:57,600
Speaker 1: And that's good. That's good. That's why I wouldn't. Then

701
00:33:57,760 --> 00:34:00,480
Speaker 1: then I take it back we're not diva's yeah, I mean,

702
00:34:00,840 --> 00:34:05,040
Speaker 1: we're just particular. Like if you ever get diva though,

703
00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:08,279
Speaker 1: like I feel like I need to because you know,

704
00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:11,279
Speaker 1: you hear people that the more successful they get, they

705
00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:15,359
Speaker 1: kind of get different and like diva ish, So do

706
00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:19,160
Speaker 1: how is our relationship? Like would you want me to

707
00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:21,600
Speaker 1: call you out if you started acting like a diva?

708
00:34:21,719 --> 00:34:23,160
Speaker 1: What I would want is for you to say you

709
00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:24,520
Speaker 1: were going to call me out, but never actually do

710
00:34:25,960 --> 00:34:28,200
Speaker 1: so I never say anything to that. I think that

711
00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:31,759
Speaker 1: I want to be particular. Things are work related for

712
00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:34,040
Speaker 1: the most part, Like I need if I walk into

713
00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:36,759
Speaker 1: the studio on a road show, I want everything in

714
00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:39,759
Speaker 1: the right place so I can grab the things with

715
00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:41,440
Speaker 1: my right hand that I know we're supposed to be there.

716
00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:45,080
Speaker 1: Everything's printed out water or like every you need water.

717
00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:47,799
Speaker 1: Like sometimes when we're recording stuff, I feel weird if

718
00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:49,239
Speaker 1: we're like in the room and we can't really get

719
00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:51,239
Speaker 1: up and we're knocking stuff out in Bobby's office and

720
00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:55,040
Speaker 1: we're like, hey, water, yeah, And I used to feel

721
00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:56,719
Speaker 1: like ottle, but now, I mean I've tried it a

722
00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:59,760
Speaker 1: couple of times and I'm like, and then water unless

723
00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:02,840
Speaker 1: you any different, I'm like this is amazing. I'm just

724
00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:07,359
Speaker 1: gonna start yelling water or I would watch you like

725
00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:10,200
Speaker 1: I would watch you kind of like get irritated if

726
00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:13,080
Speaker 1: something was handed to you and it's like written poorly

727
00:35:13,360 --> 00:35:16,600
Speaker 1: or no pronunciations or dinada, and I would see you

728
00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:18,960
Speaker 1: just be like, you know, kind of just yell out.

729
00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:21,439
Speaker 1: But it's more of a time management. You're not like mad,

730
00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:24,120
Speaker 1: and you're not like mad at anybody particular, like if

731
00:35:24,200 --> 00:35:26,560
Speaker 1: Hillary has to run in and be like oh, but

732
00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:29,520
Speaker 1: it's because you have to be efficient with time. And

733
00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:32,319
Speaker 1: it's like this should have been vetted before it got

734
00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:35,279
Speaker 1: to me. So it's not diva. But if someone was

735
00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:37,920
Speaker 1: a fly on the wall, they might look at the

736
00:35:38,480 --> 00:35:43,319
Speaker 1: who wrote this water? Is this a dirty child? Like?

737
00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:46,120
Speaker 1: They may see that as diva, But it's it's really not.

738
00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:49,080
Speaker 1: It's just and and I've even caught myself doing it.

739
00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:54,040
Speaker 1: But I feel like I you emulate who you learned from,

740
00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:57,120
Speaker 1: and I learned from you, and I definitely you better

741
00:35:57,160 --> 00:35:58,480
Speaker 1: not even bring me a piece of paper if it

742
00:35:58,480 --> 00:36:00,239
Speaker 1: doesn't have a pronunciation on it, because you, oh, I'm

743
00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:01,759
Speaker 1: not going to figure it out on my own. I

744
00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:05,320
Speaker 1: pronounced everything wrong. Well, listen, it's embarrassing for me to

745
00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:06,840
Speaker 1: go on in cities that we're not on and I

746
00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:09,600
Speaker 1: say things wrong. And if I don't tell people to

747
00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:12,359
Speaker 1: have it already looked up for me, and I do

748
00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:14,359
Speaker 1: it wrong, then we all look foolish and it heards

749
00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:18,640
Speaker 1: the entire brand. So yeah, for me, it's everything's about

750
00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:22,880
Speaker 1: efficiency at work, Everything all the time is about efficiency.

751
00:36:23,080 --> 00:36:24,719
Speaker 1: How can we get a to be the fastest and

752
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:27,399
Speaker 1: most effective? And if you don't tell people what you want,

753
00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:29,799
Speaker 1: you never get what you want. If I don't tell

754
00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:33,480
Speaker 1: his Hillary her job really is too uh commercials and production,

755
00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:35,960
Speaker 1: and she goes through to make sure it's not written poorly.

756
00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:38,960
Speaker 1: Sometimes local will send us commercials that are from a

757
00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:41,200
Speaker 1: car dealership. They've written like a nine year old wrote them,

758
00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:43,160
Speaker 1: And and I don't have seven minutes to figure how

759
00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:45,440
Speaker 1: to put a forty five second commercial together that shouldn't

760
00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:47,520
Speaker 1: be moving lines. So Hillary, that's what Hillary will do,

761
00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:49,839
Speaker 1: And she'll build these commercials out and I'll read them

762
00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:51,239
Speaker 1: and I'll be like, I don't know how to say

763
00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:54,319
Speaker 1: wax up wax the hatcheet, and I do. That's Mike

764
00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:56,680
Speaker 1: D's where from shout out. But I'm saying I wouldn't

765
00:36:56,680 --> 00:36:59,239
Speaker 1: know how to know if I didn't know, so yeah,

766
00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:00,960
Speaker 1: and then I it to you guys to be as

767
00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:04,120
Speaker 1: present as possible during the show. Something pre imposed the show,

768
00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:08,960
Speaker 1: and I'm so present all the time, never doodling. Sometimes

769
00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:11,560
Speaker 1: I can be double present. I'm gonna work really hard

770
00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:13,680
Speaker 1: on that this week. But just in general, I mean,

771
00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:16,520
Speaker 1: if you're listening to this, you can't expect people to

772
00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:20,200
Speaker 1: know what you want if you don't tell them, just

773
00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:23,320
Speaker 1: period in life. That's advice you've given, and I've taken

774
00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:27,359
Speaker 1: it and used it with you. I can't expect you

775
00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:31,120
Speaker 1: to know what I want, and I've I've there's been

776
00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:34,760
Speaker 1: times where I've literally I wanted to tell you something,

777
00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:36,879
Speaker 1: but I was like, you know, I just I don't

778
00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:38,120
Speaker 1: know if I want to. But then I'm like, you

779
00:37:38,160 --> 00:37:40,279
Speaker 1: know what his advice is. He's not going to know

780
00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:42,080
Speaker 1: that this is something you want to do unless you

781
00:37:42,200 --> 00:37:44,960
Speaker 1: tell him. It's trying to I'm not in the prediction business,

782
00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:48,439
Speaker 1: miss Cleo, So you gotta tell me, and I tell

783
00:37:48,640 --> 00:37:51,680
Speaker 1: I'm I'm so transparent with our bosses to the point

784
00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:54,439
Speaker 1: where it's it like I over tell them all the time,

785
00:37:54,480 --> 00:37:55,920
Speaker 1: this is what I want. I don't get most of

786
00:37:55,920 --> 00:37:57,719
Speaker 1: what I want, but I just keep fine. And also

787
00:37:57,760 --> 00:37:59,480
Speaker 1: you can just beat people down to you ask just

788
00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:01,200
Speaker 1: any want this, and want this, and with this, eventually

789
00:38:01,239 --> 00:38:04,439
Speaker 1: they go, oh my god, I gotta give him something. Yeah.

790
00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:08,480
Speaker 1: If you don't tell people what you want, then they

791
00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:10,239
Speaker 1: they'll never know. And you have no right to get

792
00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:12,200
Speaker 1: mad at people for not meeting your expectations if you

793
00:38:12,200 --> 00:38:15,920
Speaker 1: don't tell them what your expectation is. So yeah, and

794
00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:20,240
Speaker 1: so that. Yeah, I'm Beyonce. Thanks all right? From Jamie

795
00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:22,880
Speaker 1: both Is Amy sad for you because you are single

796
00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:26,600
Speaker 1: and don't have a girlfriend. No, I'm not sad for you.

797
00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:29,520
Speaker 1: I'm I'm excited for you for where you're going. I

798
00:38:29,560 --> 00:38:32,239
Speaker 1: feel like you have you have your heart set on

799
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:35,520
Speaker 1: different things right now. I guess I'm sad that you

800
00:38:35,600 --> 00:38:41,480
Speaker 1: haven't experienced it. But maybe a two years ago or

801
00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:43,120
Speaker 1: a year or so ago, I would have said that.

802
00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:44,600
Speaker 1: But you've had a lot of growth in the last

803
00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:47,279
Speaker 1: year to where I think you're more open to it

804
00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:52,279
Speaker 1: now than ever. Not growth in that direction, but so

805
00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:54,919
Speaker 1: I'm I'm no longer. I think there's been times where

806
00:38:54,960 --> 00:38:57,160
Speaker 1: I've been sad for you because I wanted you to

807
00:38:57,280 --> 00:39:01,000
Speaker 1: have that. I think I'm sad that you have the

808
00:39:01,040 --> 00:39:03,759
Speaker 1: walls up that you do because of your circumstances, your

809
00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 1: upbringing that created this situation. Makes you sad, But everybody

810
00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:09,960
Speaker 1: has different things in there. Makes me sad for you.

811
00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:13,200
Speaker 1: Excuse me, but everybody's got different things that they have

812
00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:16,920
Speaker 1: have to deal with, and that's I can't be sad

813
00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:20,080
Speaker 1: about that. Like you're you're moving forward, I'll move forward

814
00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:22,920
Speaker 1: with you, and I think I'm excited to see what happens.

815
00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:26,040
Speaker 1: I'm pumped about all of your success, but I hope

816
00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:29,480
Speaker 1: with that you don't you don't just experience it alone.

817
00:39:29,840 --> 00:39:31,600
Speaker 1: That's what I want for you is to like have

818
00:39:31,640 --> 00:39:34,560
Speaker 1: somebody to share it with and have a family if

819
00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:38,279
Speaker 1: that's what you want, which I think that you do,

820
00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:40,279
Speaker 1: but if your desires changed, and I would want to

821
00:39:40,320 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 1: know that. And I'm not going to be sad for

822
00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:43,600
Speaker 1: you to just because it's something that's ideal for me,

823
00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:45,839
Speaker 1: like you should have a wife and kids. It may

824
00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:48,520
Speaker 1: not be what's ideal for you, but I mean I

825
00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:50,279
Speaker 1: think it would bring you a lot of joy. Well,

826
00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:52,560
Speaker 1: thanks for not being sad for me. We were on

827
00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:56,920
Speaker 1: the flight yesterday and it was me, your husband, Clay, Travis,

828
00:39:57,360 --> 00:40:00,720
Speaker 1: and Ray Mundo and they were talking about kids because

829
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:04,720
Speaker 1: class three boys in Clays forty your husband's forty, right,

830
00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:08,960
Speaker 1: And they were just like, man, that's where it's all at.

831
00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:11,919
Speaker 1: It's all it's all being a dad, being a dad.

832
00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:14,759
Speaker 1: And I was like, yeah, that's all right, all right,

833
00:40:14,840 --> 00:40:17,440
Speaker 1: but you'll don't you feel like you're closer to Oh yeah,

834
00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:20,520
Speaker 1: yeah that than ever? Yeah of course, not because we've

835
00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:24,960
Speaker 1: gotten older, but because I think you've um emotionally matured.

836
00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:28,080
Speaker 1: I think I yeah, sure, Like I'm like a hundred

837
00:40:28,120 --> 00:40:32,759
Speaker 1: in one way and like twelve on another. So yeah,

838
00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:37,239
Speaker 1: I'm I'm I'm definitely in that path. And I'm dating now,

839
00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:39,120
Speaker 1: but I'm not dating to date because I don't even

840
00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:42,160
Speaker 1: like dating, but like I'm actually like going, all right,

841
00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:48,919
Speaker 1: let me just find somebody who I can partner rise.

842
00:40:50,120 --> 00:40:51,839
Speaker 1: It's a good way to put thank you very much,

843
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:55,640
Speaker 1: thank thank you. It's so romantic. Would you like to

844
00:40:56,280 --> 00:41:00,560
Speaker 1: would like I'm looking for I'm gonna do that with

845
00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:06,399
Speaker 1: so I can be a dad. Oh I know, Um, Mike,

846
00:41:06,600 --> 00:41:08,239
Speaker 1: what's what number are we on here? We got two more?

847
00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:10,040
Speaker 1: Let me say this because I don't want to get

848
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Speaker 1: the end of this podcast and not put the plug

849
00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:14,280
Speaker 1: in first, check out Amies podcast Four Things with Amy

850
00:41:14,320 --> 00:41:16,719
Speaker 1: Brown while we still have your attention, there really is

851
00:41:16,719 --> 00:41:20,120
Speaker 1: a fantastic podcast. It's how would you describe the podcast? Well,

852
00:41:20,200 --> 00:41:22,720
Speaker 1: each episode is four different things. Sometimes it's an interview

853
00:41:22,719 --> 00:41:24,920
Speaker 1: with a guest that's talking about a certain topic, but

854
00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:28,560
Speaker 1: a lot of health related stuff, some fitness, some fashion.

855
00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:31,400
Speaker 1: It's a lifestyle piece, but a lot of different pieces

856
00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:34,759
Speaker 1: where you know, because of my life and I'm adopted,

857
00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:38,040
Speaker 1: I'm an adopted parent. Excuse me, my kids come on.

858
00:41:38,160 --> 00:41:42,400
Speaker 1: Sometimes I have um other adoptive parents or foster parents.

859
00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:45,520
Speaker 1: We like to touch on issues that are important to

860
00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:48,240
Speaker 1: me into a lot of you listening. I like feedback.

861
00:41:48,280 --> 00:41:50,280
Speaker 1: I have an email and people send me show ideas.

862
00:41:50,640 --> 00:41:53,120
Speaker 1: Very into health stuff, for sure, because that's what a

863
00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:55,400
Speaker 1: lot of people. I don't know how. I'm not like

864
00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:57,800
Speaker 1: the health expert, so I try to do my research,

865
00:41:57,840 --> 00:41:59,920
Speaker 1: but I try to bring in experts to come be

866
00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:02,839
Speaker 1: on my show, so that way I'm giving accurate information. Yeah,

867
00:42:02,880 --> 00:42:07,680
Speaker 1: I would say it's like um um health faith positivity podcasts.

868
00:42:07,719 --> 00:42:10,920
Speaker 1: There you go, Yeah, you should be better. You're better

869
00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:15,800
Speaker 1: at promoting me efficient efficient. I'm like, well, so I

870
00:42:15,840 --> 00:42:17,680
Speaker 1: don't really know I mean, I have people when I

871
00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:20,960
Speaker 1: was seven. How you can get paid to talk, I

872
00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:27,560
Speaker 1: don't know, because honestly, I'm not good at it. You

873
00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:29,520
Speaker 1: are also, let me say this is that we can

874
00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:32,399
Speaker 1: sit here and have these uncomfortable conversations a bit because

875
00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 1: we are so comfortable with each other. So if you

876
00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:38,040
Speaker 1: hear us and we're like like kind of you know,

877
00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:40,279
Speaker 1: snapping at each other a little bit, which were really

878
00:42:40,280 --> 00:42:43,640
Speaker 1: not We couldn't do this in a healthy environment if

879
00:42:43,680 --> 00:42:46,160
Speaker 1: we weren't healthy. That makes sense. Yeah, Like you couldn't

880
00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:47,160
Speaker 1: sit here and tell me about a fight that we

881
00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:48,439
Speaker 1: used to have if you didn't think if you thought

882
00:42:48,440 --> 00:42:51,040
Speaker 1: I was gonna blow back up and make us bed. No,

883
00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:55,080
Speaker 1: it's fine. Where's you go? Did you stay with? My

884
00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:57,799
Speaker 1: podcast is called four Things with Amy Brown? Thank you?

885
00:42:57,800 --> 00:43:00,320
Speaker 1: You're welcome? All right? Sure, wherever you listen to podcast?

886
00:43:00,360 --> 00:43:03,440
Speaker 1: There you go. What's number nine from Kirsten Webt below?

887
00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:07,200
Speaker 1: Are your radio shows always live? Um? Some of the

888
00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:09,600
Speaker 1: interviews aren't. Sometimes you'll see one of different clothes that

889
00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:13,040
Speaker 1: we're doing an interview. Because sometimes artists will have to

890
00:43:13,080 --> 00:43:15,080
Speaker 1: go up and do Good Morning America on a record

891
00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:18,600
Speaker 1: release day, which is a Friday and if they're like, hey,

892
00:43:18,600 --> 00:43:21,640
Speaker 1: can we come on the show on Wednesday to record

893
00:43:21,680 --> 00:43:24,560
Speaker 1: for Friday? So we'll do those sometimes, Um, we don't

894
00:43:24,560 --> 00:43:26,759
Speaker 1: say that on the show because it doesn't matter, so

895
00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:29,319
Speaker 1: we don't go up. This was recorded thirty six hours ago,

896
00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:32,600
Speaker 1: but the answer is no. And there are times on

897
00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:34,400
Speaker 1: Instagram before in two sets the closes in the same day.

898
00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:36,480
Speaker 1: It's because Dustin Lynch has been up and I want

899
00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:37,640
Speaker 1: to have him on for to help him out with

900
00:43:37,680 --> 00:43:41,080
Speaker 1: his record on a Friday, and he can't be there

901
00:43:41,080 --> 00:43:44,680
Speaker 1: because he's doing TV press on that Friday. So good.

902
00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:49,240
Speaker 1: Question number ten from Chef Underscore one. Why is Amy

903
00:43:49,280 --> 00:43:54,560
Speaker 1: crazy about microwaves but not about cell phones and other electronics? Oh? Yes, um,

904
00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:57,279
Speaker 1: because I have my stove top and that helps. Now

905
00:43:57,320 --> 00:43:59,680
Speaker 1: while it's slower, I don't have any other ways to

906
00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:02,960
Speaker 1: talk to people unless like I choose, like no, you

907
00:44:03,080 --> 00:44:06,279
Speaker 1: do mail horse and a buggy. Yes, you picked a

908
00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:08,360
Speaker 1: slower alternative for cooking. Why would you not pick the

909
00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:11,520
Speaker 1: slower alternative we're talking because that would take like four Okay,

910
00:44:11,560 --> 00:44:15,080
Speaker 1: all the questions asked, you're saying ytical. Oh, I agree,

911
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:22,840
Speaker 1: and that's next week. I acknowledge my hypocrisy but I

912
00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:25,560
Speaker 1: mean I just sent shift on a tough word. Oh

913
00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:30,399
Speaker 1: did I get it right? Nice? Thank you? Okay? So yeah,

914
00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:33,160
Speaker 1: no microwaves, but you know you get you give some

915
00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:37,200
Speaker 1: What does that takes winds? Imus? It's like, hey, I'm

916
00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:38,799
Speaker 1: not gonna use the work were but I'm gonna like

917
00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:41,480
Speaker 1: probably have a brain tumor. It's fine, which we probably

918
00:44:41,520 --> 00:44:45,080
Speaker 1: all are. I have to find another method of communication.

919
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:46,640
Speaker 1: As you hold your phone up to your head as

920
00:44:46,640 --> 00:44:49,160
Speaker 1: you're doing doing a bit and you're right across from me.

921
00:44:49,160 --> 00:44:53,520
Speaker 1: The only I know it's so hard. I don't know

922
00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:56,080
Speaker 1: what to do. But I mean, I need my phone.

923
00:44:56,239 --> 00:44:58,160
Speaker 1: So what are you gonna do? I don't need a microwave.

924
00:44:58,320 --> 00:45:01,120
Speaker 1: That's why you don't need a phone. Did you watch

925
00:45:01,200 --> 00:45:03,600
Speaker 1: the You don't need Yeah? There a lot of people

926
00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:08,520
Speaker 1: don't have phones. Are a few, Bobby. I've been to

927
00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:10,759
Speaker 1: very remote places in the middle of Haiti where like

928
00:45:10,760 --> 00:45:14,400
Speaker 1: people have nothing, but they have a cellphone. Literally. My

929
00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:16,719
Speaker 1: husband's like, I'm in the middle of like poo knows where,

930
00:45:16,800 --> 00:45:19,920
Speaker 1: Middle East, in some caves somewhere. They have nothing, but

931
00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:22,719
Speaker 1: they have a cell phone. They don't need it, well

932
00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:27,359
Speaker 1: they do. Um. Did you you watch Black mirror watch

933
00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:29,800
Speaker 1: which one? Well, have you seen into the new season.

934
00:45:30,640 --> 00:45:32,799
Speaker 1: I've seen some of the new season, but I was

935
00:45:32,880 --> 00:45:36,160
Speaker 1: multitasking Miley Cyrus. Yeah that was a pretty good one. Okay,

936
00:45:36,360 --> 00:45:38,440
Speaker 1: watch the whole thing. Did you watch any of the

937
00:45:38,440 --> 00:45:39,880
Speaker 1: whole ones? I don't know. If you tell me what

938
00:45:39,920 --> 00:45:41,160
Speaker 1: it is, I can tell you if I watched it,

939
00:45:41,200 --> 00:45:42,680
Speaker 1: you would know if you watch it. Oh my gosh,

940
00:45:42,760 --> 00:45:47,200
Speaker 1: is it about cellphones? Kind of tell me something. There's

941
00:45:47,239 --> 00:45:48,960
Speaker 1: a really good episode in the last season. I think

942
00:45:49,160 --> 00:45:50,600
Speaker 1: you think it's the best one of the new I

943
00:45:50,640 --> 00:45:54,480
Speaker 1: would say so. Yeah, it's the most like uber and

944
00:45:54,600 --> 00:45:57,440
Speaker 1: cell phones, that's what it's about. I guess you should

945
00:45:57,440 --> 00:45:59,120
Speaker 1: watch it. Did you see the one about the bees

946
00:45:59,520 --> 00:46:04,359
Speaker 1: like eight years ago? That was so crazy? That one

947
00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:11,680
Speaker 1: was insane? Is technology? It's like technology, um, Alfred Hitchcock. Yeah,

948
00:46:11,719 --> 00:46:15,880
Speaker 1: it's it's the craziest stuff ever. But but what's alarming

949
00:46:15,880 --> 00:46:18,440
Speaker 1: about it is it could all happen. It actually has

950
00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:21,840
Speaker 1: from the past past wonderful. Yeah, great, And the social

951
00:46:21,840 --> 00:46:26,160
Speaker 1: media one is nuts nuts. Have you seen social media one? Yeah? Yeah,

952
00:46:26,200 --> 00:46:28,080
Speaker 1: yea yeah. The girl and then she gets in the

953
00:46:28,080 --> 00:46:31,840
Speaker 1: car she got invited her friend's wedding it's fantastic that shows.

954
00:46:32,080 --> 00:46:34,000
Speaker 1: So I'm like, how do these people even think of

955
00:46:34,000 --> 00:46:36,759
Speaker 1: this stuff? And then well, because it's one guy that

956
00:46:36,880 --> 00:46:40,040
Speaker 1: Charlie Brooker Booker writes the whole writes them, Oh how

957
00:46:40,080 --> 00:46:44,680
Speaker 1: does okay? Um? I think that's good. Yeah, I think

958
00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:46,680
Speaker 1: so that's gonna be the rap hered Um? Do you

959
00:46:46,719 --> 00:46:50,479
Speaker 1: want to do amount? Rushmore musical artists before we go? Five?

960
00:46:50,560 --> 00:46:53,000
Speaker 1: Five favorite of all time? I We've done it a

961
00:46:53,040 --> 00:46:55,000
Speaker 1: couple of times, and I've minds John Mayor and Garth

962
00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:58,839
Speaker 1: Brooks and Weezer and if you're picking five, I put

963
00:47:00,320 --> 00:47:05,080
Speaker 1: Willie Nelson on there, and I put somebody else folds Um,

964
00:47:05,160 --> 00:47:13,080
Speaker 1: George Straight, Okay one, Taylor Swift two, Tupac three, Biggie four,

965
00:47:13,560 --> 00:47:18,880
Speaker 1: East and West fight put beside each other. I have

966
00:47:18,920 --> 00:47:21,000
Speaker 1: a shirt that says East Coast West goes in there

967
00:47:21,040 --> 00:47:23,600
Speaker 1: on it. And I've been watching that document that it's

968
00:47:23,640 --> 00:47:27,000
Speaker 1: not a documentary, it was scripted. It's the scripted documentary

969
00:47:27,080 --> 00:47:33,800
Speaker 1: about their their deaths and the investigation documents. It's called

970
00:47:33,840 --> 00:47:36,360
Speaker 1: I don't know what that's called, but it's a re enactment,

971
00:47:37,160 --> 00:47:40,600
Speaker 1: scripted of the thing. And did you know Biggie's mom

972
00:47:40,680 --> 00:47:45,440
Speaker 1: is claiming they were friends. So yeah, I know they

973
00:47:45,440 --> 00:47:49,360
Speaker 1: were friends in the beef, but police are like involved anyway,

974
00:47:49,400 --> 00:47:52,399
Speaker 1: I'm watching that. How many more? I have one more?

975
00:47:52,920 --> 00:47:55,799
Speaker 1: Biggie Taylor Swift, George Straight, you get one more? Oh

976
00:47:55,920 --> 00:48:01,520
Speaker 1: the Dixie Chicks that works. There are three headed, um

977
00:48:01,680 --> 00:48:03,480
Speaker 1: little they won't take up all the room. They'll take

978
00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:05,960
Speaker 1: up the room of one head with three heads. Pick wheezer.

979
00:48:05,960 --> 00:48:07,960
Speaker 1: So I just put the lead singer up there. Um

980
00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:12,759
Speaker 1: So Natalie means favorite. This is the question I didn't

981
00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:14,560
Speaker 1: do with Kaylee, but and I ad I used to

982
00:48:14,600 --> 00:48:17,080
Speaker 1: check that one out. Favorite contemporary country artist right now

983
00:48:17,320 --> 00:48:19,799
Speaker 1: like this on the radio. This is hard. I can

984
00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:24,360
Speaker 1: tell you mine, how you think about yours, then mine,

985
00:48:24,400 --> 00:48:27,080
Speaker 1: I've minded the same. I've used to just be casey,

986
00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:29,960
Speaker 1: but now it's casey and old dominions. I was thinking

987
00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:32,279
Speaker 1: old dominion because I mean, they're just That's why I

988
00:48:32,320 --> 00:48:36,520
Speaker 1: was like, this is so hard, because I have contemporary

989
00:48:36,520 --> 00:48:39,080
Speaker 1: wise Dirk S. Bentley is like up there for me,

990
00:48:39,200 --> 00:48:41,799
Speaker 1: like big time, been a fan viz for a really

991
00:48:41,880 --> 00:48:45,280
Speaker 1: long time. Um, but I would just say old dominion

992
00:48:45,440 --> 00:48:48,759
Speaker 1: is just like hit after hit after hit, and it

993
00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:52,880
Speaker 1: doesn't hurt whenever we also get to know them, and

994
00:48:52,880 --> 00:48:55,560
Speaker 1: it doesn't have to because I just Casey and I

995
00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:59,080
Speaker 1: don't have a relationship at all outside and not even

996
00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:02,440
Speaker 1: really a fessionally so but she that doesn't mean she

997
00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:04,359
Speaker 1: keep my favorite because they are artists that I bring

998
00:49:04,400 --> 00:49:05,759
Speaker 1: on the show that I don't really like that much

999
00:49:05,760 --> 00:49:08,000
Speaker 1: as people. But they're great interviews. And there's some great

1000
00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:11,799
Speaker 1: people that I won't bring on because they're terrible interviews. Um,

1001
00:49:12,000 --> 00:49:15,120
Speaker 1: but it is tough whenever people are really cool to

1002
00:49:15,239 --> 00:49:18,239
Speaker 1: not root for them. And I really like the old

1003
00:49:18,280 --> 00:49:20,640
Speaker 1: MENIU guys, and they're just you're right. Hit after hit

1004
00:49:20,680 --> 00:49:23,640
Speaker 1: after hit after hit after hit. I saw Trevor Um

1005
00:49:23,680 --> 00:49:25,680
Speaker 1: at CMA Fest and his wife talked to them for

1006
00:49:25,680 --> 00:49:29,360
Speaker 1: a bit. Oh my Disney buddies. Yeah, Brett Aldridge is

1007
00:49:29,400 --> 00:49:32,200
Speaker 1: up there too, Like there's just there's so much good

1008
00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:35,640
Speaker 1: music right now, A little big down. Hello, Okay, but

1009
00:49:35,680 --> 00:49:38,400
Speaker 1: who's your favorite? You can even pick two of dirt,

1010
00:49:38,640 --> 00:49:40,319
Speaker 1: You can pick whoever you want. Don't let me affect you,

1011
00:49:42,239 --> 00:49:46,600
Speaker 1: but I'll go a little big town. They weren't even

1012
00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:48,359
Speaker 1: in your one or two in Yeah, but I don't

1013
00:49:48,360 --> 00:49:50,440
Speaker 1: want to pick the same as you with and then

1014
00:49:50,440 --> 00:49:54,360
Speaker 1: Brett Eldridge is amazing. I mean you can Okay, stop,

1015
00:49:54,400 --> 00:49:57,920
Speaker 1: I'm obsessed with Karen Fairchild. Don't tell her that I

1016
00:49:57,960 --> 00:50:01,279
Speaker 1: play it so cool around her. Ut it down, all right,

1017
00:50:01,719 --> 00:50:04,200
Speaker 1: so we don't need her to know. That's gonna wrap

1018
00:50:04,640 --> 00:50:06,960
Speaker 1: this edition of the Bobby Cast. Amy. Thank you for Stompabye.

1019
00:50:07,200 --> 00:50:08,919
Speaker 1: Thanks for having me wait, did a lot of work

1020
00:50:08,960 --> 00:50:11,320
Speaker 1: before this. I thanks everybody who's sent all the Instagram

1021
00:50:11,480 --> 00:50:15,319
Speaker 1: messages and questions we answered. I'm here, Um, I'm sorry

1022
00:50:15,320 --> 00:50:17,799
Speaker 1: for everything I've ever done to you. Same okay? God?

1023
00:50:20,680 --> 00:50:24,160
Speaker 1: Is that okay? Yeah? What cares? You're happy with that? Yeah,

1024
00:50:24,160 --> 00:50:25,799
Speaker 1: we're happy with that. Okay, all right, thanks next time.

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Speaker 1: I see next time. Everybody