WEBVTT - Game, Set, MATCH for Kelly 0:00:13.480 --> 0:00:15.120 Welcome back to IG Part two. 0:00:15.160 --> 0:00:18.720 It's Kelly ben Simone, one of your celebrity mentors here 0:00:18.760 --> 0:00:22.560 on the pod. I am having so much fun with 0:00:22.680 --> 0:00:25.480 this show, and I've been really open about putting myself 0:00:25.680 --> 0:00:28.240 back out there into the dating scene and just being 0:00:28.280 --> 0:00:30.680 really open to meeting people and having a good time. 0:00:31.160 --> 0:00:34.400 So today we're going to talk about setups not only 0:00:34.479 --> 0:00:38.240 in the romantic but also in the platonic. So we're 0:00:38.240 --> 0:00:42.400 meeting Cheryl Burke, who I love so much, and also 0:00:42.720 --> 0:00:48.519 my producers Amy Sugarman and Heather Monday are also have 0:00:48.720 --> 0:00:50.800 set me up and are going to set me up 0:00:51.240 --> 0:00:56.560 with a platonic relationship, a new friend and a romantic one. 0:00:57.320 --> 0:00:59.520 So I have a lot of fun. 0:00:59.760 --> 0:01:04.080 In So what we want people to know is this 0:01:04.280 --> 0:01:08.720 is real, right, It's not it's not like we didn't 0:01:08.800 --> 0:01:09.920 cast this person. 0:01:10.120 --> 0:01:11.280 It's not a celebrity. 0:01:11.319 --> 0:01:14.920 This is an actual, real setup that we hope on 0:01:15.000 --> 0:01:18.920 the romantic one that you'll really possibly like this guy. 0:01:19.160 --> 0:01:21.560 So it's it's totally real. 0:01:22.200 --> 0:01:25.800 But we do have his permission to give all the details. 0:01:25.800 --> 0:01:29.280 So we want to take everyone on this journey with you. 0:01:29.920 --> 0:01:35.640 Yes, this has been very exciting and very fun, so 0:01:35.840 --> 0:01:39.200 Amy Sugarman introduced me to a really nice guy. 0:01:39.480 --> 0:01:40.160 He's a lawyer. 0:01:40.400 --> 0:01:42.399 Hey, what do we call him? Do we call him 0:01:42.440 --> 0:01:44.119 tennis Man? Do we call him? 0:01:44.720 --> 0:01:47.720 Because he's a real guy? Because this is a total guy. 0:01:48.200 --> 0:01:51.440 Not a famous person, not a person on a dating show, 0:01:51.880 --> 0:01:53.760 not a person like who wants to be on the 0:01:53.800 --> 0:01:55.440 reality show. It's a real guy. So we just got 0:01:55.440 --> 0:01:57.200 to give him a nickname. So what are we calling him? 0:01:57.240 --> 0:02:00.240 The tennis Man? 0:02:00.440 --> 0:02:00.600 Oh? 0:02:00.640 --> 0:02:01.279 Mister Tennis. 0:02:01.320 --> 0:02:02.120 Okay, that's really good. 0:02:02.120 --> 0:02:05.120 Okay, Yeah, So. 0:02:05.120 --> 0:02:09.960 I've known mister Tennis since seventh grade and I'm fifty, 0:02:10.360 --> 0:02:14.880 so that's a lot of years. I know his family. 0:02:15.560 --> 0:02:19.320 His sister's one of my oldest friends. I know his parents, 0:02:19.840 --> 0:02:22.040 so I can definitely vouch for this guy. 0:02:22.760 --> 0:02:25.600 And basically he was in a relationship. 0:02:25.760 --> 0:02:29.680 He's out of that relationship, and I said, Hey, I 0:02:29.760 --> 0:02:31.639 want to set you up with my friend Kelly. 0:02:32.040 --> 0:02:34.680 He did know who you were, like, he's never. 0:02:34.520 --> 0:02:36.840 Really watched, but he knew your name and I think 0:02:36.880 --> 0:02:37.960 he knew what you looked like. 0:02:38.520 --> 0:02:38.680 Ok. 0:02:39.040 --> 0:02:43.200 And so basically we started a text group with the. 0:02:43.280 --> 0:02:45.839 Four of us. He probably was like, why are there 0:02:45.880 --> 0:02:47.480 two supervisors in here? 0:02:47.520 --> 0:02:50.040 But so we want everyone listening, like we're going to 0:02:50.120 --> 0:02:52.880 tell you the real, real stuff. 0:02:52.880 --> 0:02:55.919 So Heather read, So basically, I started. 0:02:55.560 --> 0:03:00.000 The text and said, Amy played matchmaker, Kelly, meet mister Tennis, 0:03:00.080 --> 0:03:04.200 and then read what Kelly's first text was. 0:03:04.360 --> 0:03:06.240 Kelly said, Aloha. 0:03:07.919 --> 0:03:11.440 I don't live in Hawaii, but I think Aloha really 0:03:11.480 --> 0:03:15.160 sums me up, sonny and happy about everything. 0:03:15.720 --> 0:03:17.840 Have an amazing holiday season. 0:03:18.600 --> 0:03:22.399 Now, did Jana not tell you not to write aloha anymore? 0:03:22.960 --> 0:03:23.600 She did? 0:03:24.040 --> 0:03:25.840 Okay, so that's Finana Kramer did. 0:03:26.240 --> 0:03:29.440 Jana Kramer did tell me her advice was to not 0:03:29.480 --> 0:03:30.799 write aloha, but it's just. 0:03:30.680 --> 0:03:31.519 Like my thing. 0:03:31.919 --> 0:03:33.000 That's fine, you be you. 0:03:33.560 --> 0:03:36.280 And I also like the fact that it's like very 0:03:36.360 --> 0:03:39.720 me because it is very sunny. But it's also like 0:03:39.960 --> 0:03:42.640 no one says aloa must It's. 0:03:42.320 --> 0:03:46.600 Fine, it's fine, It's totally fine. We're not gonna judge it. 0:03:46.640 --> 0:03:50.120 We're just gonna do it. So then he responded quickly, 0:03:50.280 --> 0:03:52.200 and Heather and I were still in the text at 0:03:52.200 --> 0:03:54.880 this point, and then Heather what did he say next? 0:03:55.120 --> 0:03:58.400 He said, Hey, Amy, you're amazing and always looking out 0:03:58.440 --> 0:04:02.600 for me. I'm very appreciate of that, Kelly. I'm glad 0:04:02.680 --> 0:04:06.400 we have connected. Amy says nothing but great things about you. 0:04:06.400 --> 0:04:10.600 Your energy is fun and cool, positive and smart with 0:04:10.640 --> 0:04:14.280 an amazing smile. I live in LA and from San 0:04:14.320 --> 0:04:18.320 Francisco Bay Area. My work office is headquartered in New York. 0:04:18.640 --> 0:04:21.560 Have a great holiday season. We'd love to connect over 0:04:21.600 --> 0:04:25.040 the phone and or in person at some point soon. 0:04:25.680 --> 0:04:28.159 Okay, so all right, let's analyze this. 0:04:28.680 --> 0:04:32.400 He's got some game, right, Like I think he's got 0:04:32.440 --> 0:04:35.719 game because he's super nice, but he also is like 0:04:36.640 --> 0:04:40.000 dropping the carrot or whatever the saying would be. He's 0:04:40.080 --> 0:04:44.880 dangling the carrot. He's saying, let's connect on the phone. 0:04:45.000 --> 0:04:47.039 So he's figuring out a way to get me and 0:04:47.120 --> 0:04:47.800 Heather out. 0:04:47.680 --> 0:04:52.200 Of there, and then he's saying some nice compliments acknowledging 0:04:52.240 --> 0:04:54.680 he knows who you are and he's seen you. And 0:04:54.720 --> 0:04:56.880 then also he's kind of moving it along right like 0:04:56.960 --> 0:04:59.800 he's saying, let's maybe see each other in. 0:04:59.760 --> 0:05:03.880 Per And he's also saying that your area is already 0:05:03.920 --> 0:05:07.440 on his radar, like he, oh, yeah, not a problem 0:05:07.560 --> 0:05:09.200 for you to be on the East coast, Like that 0:05:09.320 --> 0:05:11.520 works for him, is what he's saying. And he's throwing 0:05:11.560 --> 0:05:14.400 in a really nice compliment saying that you have a 0:05:14.440 --> 0:05:19.400 beautiful smile. So he's showing attraction as well in this message. 0:05:19.800 --> 0:05:22.360 So, Kelly, how did you feel when you first got 0:05:22.400 --> 0:05:25.320 the text? And have you seen his picture? Have I 0:05:25.440 --> 0:05:26.520 sent you a picture of him? 0:05:26.680 --> 0:05:29.400 He sent me, yes, a thirst trap was very attractive. Yes, 0:05:29.480 --> 0:05:32.000 oh good, okay, yeah he said. 0:05:31.839 --> 0:05:32.920 You a thirst trap? 0:05:33.560 --> 0:05:35.880 Yeah, he said, Amy said this was a thirst trap? 0:05:36.000 --> 0:05:38.159 Wait which picture did he send you? Is he with 0:05:38.279 --> 0:05:38.719 the kids? 0:05:38.760 --> 0:05:41.520 Stless at the gym? Like where is he? 0:05:41.520 --> 0:05:44.240 He sent me one with his kids, but he sent 0:05:44.320 --> 0:05:46.800 me one where he's like on a blue T shirt 0:05:46.839 --> 0:05:49.000 and he's kind of like looking out, and then he 0:05:49.040 --> 0:05:49.680 said another one. 0:05:49.880 --> 0:05:53.000 He's obviously playing tennis because he'd in green and he's 0:05:53.040 --> 0:05:53.760 like looking down. 0:05:54.080 --> 0:05:55.480 He's a really good tennis player. 0:05:55.640 --> 0:06:00.400 Yeah, definitely athletic, which I love. And he's also he's 0:06:00.520 --> 0:06:02.600 just you know, I like, I really like smart. 0:06:03.240 --> 0:06:06.760 Yeah, he's really smart. So how we went to college together? Also, 0:06:07.360 --> 0:06:09.160 so we went to Berkeley, so I will out that 0:06:09.240 --> 0:06:09.520 he went. 0:06:10.040 --> 0:06:10.640 He's smart. 0:06:10.760 --> 0:06:13.239 So how did you feel based on his first text 0:06:13.440 --> 0:06:16.039 before you saw the picture? Just from the text, were 0:06:16.040 --> 0:06:18.920 you feeling like, I don't know, just judge the text? 0:06:19.279 --> 0:06:22.039 Reading his text was like so nice and it was 0:06:22.080 --> 0:06:25.520 really sweet for him to be complimentary, but not like mushy. 0:06:25.680 --> 0:06:27.039 He just was like, you're funny. 0:06:27.839 --> 0:06:31.240 You know, you have a nice personality, and you know 0:06:31.279 --> 0:06:33.599 he could tell immediately. I think that's when the aloha 0:06:33.760 --> 0:06:35.360 is nice because like people are like, oh my god, 0:06:35.400 --> 0:06:38.839 she's like playful and I'm not taking myself too seriously. 0:06:39.120 --> 0:06:43.240 And he was also very proactive about making a plan. 0:06:43.560 --> 0:06:45.360 And he's been like, yeah, okay, when am I talking 0:06:45.360 --> 0:06:46.919 to you on the phone. I'm like, well okay, oh 0:06:46.960 --> 0:06:47.279 my god. 0:06:47.880 --> 0:06:49.320 Yeah, so he's like okay. 0:06:49.440 --> 0:06:52.840 So behind the scenes, he did call me because he 0:06:52.960 --> 0:06:55.839 sort of said, should I go to New York? Because 0:06:55.839 --> 0:06:58.080 he does he doesn't have his kids right now, so 0:06:58.120 --> 0:06:59.520 he was like, uh, should. 0:06:59.279 --> 0:06:59.680 I do that? 0:07:00.080 --> 0:07:01.360 And I did encourage him. 0:07:01.360 --> 0:07:05.000 I'm like, hey, like Kurpe, dim do this, Like yeah, 0:07:05.120 --> 0:07:08.039 And you would have been excited, right if he jumped 0:07:08.040 --> 0:07:08.559 on a plane. 0:07:08.600 --> 0:07:10.440 Oh he was supposed to come tonight because he has 0:07:10.480 --> 0:07:12.480 his kids tomorrow, and he was I thought that was 0:07:12.520 --> 0:07:15.480 also really amazing that he was just going to hop 0:07:15.520 --> 0:07:17.920 on a plane, come and see me for dinner and 0:07:17.920 --> 0:07:20.200 then leave the next day and see his kids. Like 0:07:20.960 --> 0:07:24.720 that's like real, that's like legit. It's not like, let 0:07:24.760 --> 0:07:27.680 me talk to you after the New Year. Hope you're 0:07:27.720 --> 0:07:28.840 having a nice time. 0:07:29.800 --> 0:07:30.080 Yeah. 0:07:30.120 --> 0:07:33.800 He's definitely not like half assing this. He's like, I 0:07:34.000 --> 0:07:36.520 want to go out with you, which I think is great. 0:07:36.800 --> 0:07:39.800 And he's also like a real human, like he's a dad, 0:07:40.040 --> 0:07:43.360 he's he has a great job, like he's a real human. 0:07:43.440 --> 0:07:47.559 He's not you know, So what has happened since? 0:07:47.640 --> 0:07:50.320 He Okay, so he basically started texting you. 0:07:50.320 --> 0:07:53.240 Without Heather and I being able to see. So we 0:07:53.320 --> 0:07:55.560 can't see it anymore. So what have you guys talked 0:07:55.600 --> 0:07:58.440 on the phone or just text or what not yet? 0:07:58.480 --> 0:08:00.520 But he said, uh, hi, kel, I hope you're having 0:08:00.600 --> 0:08:03.680 a great Christmas and save travels Vermont. I said, Aloha 0:08:03.800 --> 0:08:06.480 is working today hopefully leaving leaving tomorrow. 0:08:07.080 --> 0:08:07.440 Vermont. 0:08:07.480 --> 0:08:09.600 How's your And then I said how's your day? He 0:08:09.640 --> 0:08:10.640 said Aloha? 0:08:11.360 --> 0:08:11.960 He loves it. 0:08:12.520 --> 0:08:15.720 He goes, Aloha working the day after Christmas is very impressive. 0:08:16.160 --> 0:08:18.480 I should too, but I started running errands and haven't 0:08:18.480 --> 0:08:20.760 stopped going to play tennis around four thirty. 0:08:20.840 --> 0:08:23.080 That's very cool. Vermont looks so peaceful. 0:08:23.120 --> 0:08:25.560 I'm watching this show on Peacock called based on a 0:08:25.560 --> 0:08:28.320 true story, which is so ridiculous, but I now kind 0:08:28.360 --> 0:08:28.800 of like it. 0:08:28.840 --> 0:08:30.560 I needed a break from the drama thrillers. 0:08:30.640 --> 0:08:32.840 Okay, wait, wait, wait, wait, because I want to follow this. 0:08:33.080 --> 0:08:35.160 So he's watching it, or you're watching it. 0:08:35.320 --> 0:08:36.319 He's watching it. 0:08:36.640 --> 0:08:39.439 Oh, so he's really engaging. Okay, Okay, good keep going. 0:08:39.520 --> 0:08:40.240 That's a good show. 0:08:40.360 --> 0:08:42.080 By the way, I'm going to watch it. 0:08:42.240 --> 0:08:44.560 He's telling me what he's doing, which is like, it's 0:08:44.600 --> 0:08:47.959 not like hey, I'm He's like, this is my day, Kelly, 0:08:48.160 --> 0:08:50.960 I'm playing to mister Tennis is like playing tennis and 0:08:51.000 --> 0:08:52.560 he's watching you know, Peacock. 0:08:53.040 --> 0:08:56.280 He's also a meaty texter, like these are like yeah, 0:08:56.440 --> 0:08:59.920 little paragraphs. It's really putting some thought behind it. You're 0:09:00.160 --> 0:09:02.600 not getting the one word answer. You're not getting like 0:09:03.160 --> 0:09:07.360 multiple bubbles. You're getting like nice, little meaty responses, which 0:09:07.400 --> 0:09:08.439 I think is a good sign. 0:09:08.880 --> 0:09:10.920 Okay, let me ask Okay, I'm gonna finish reading that 0:09:10.960 --> 0:09:13.120 and then I want to ask you about the bubbles 0:09:13.200 --> 0:09:16.520 and the meaty texting. So remind me of that. So 0:09:17.120 --> 0:09:21.160 he said, looks Pete von Vermont, looks peaceful. He's he's 0:09:21.200 --> 0:09:24.400 watching Peacock. That we should talk over the phone at 0:09:24.440 --> 0:09:26.080 some point, right, Oh. 0:09:26.120 --> 0:09:26.640 That's good. 0:09:26.800 --> 0:09:29.319 I like that he wrote that, I know there are 0:09:29.360 --> 0:09:31.000 there are rules blah blah blah. 0:09:31.080 --> 0:09:31.800 But what do you think? 0:09:32.679 --> 0:09:34.800 What are the rules? What does he mean there are rules? 0:09:34.880 --> 0:09:37.560 I don't know. I don't know. Is he remember the 0:09:37.600 --> 0:09:39.080 book the rules? Remember the book? 0:09:40.080 --> 0:09:41.240 Yeah? 0:09:41.320 --> 0:09:41.560 Okay? 0:09:41.600 --> 0:09:44.000 And I said, I'd love that exclamation point. Tell me 0:09:44.040 --> 0:09:46.800 when the house I'm saying at is an old inn. 0:09:47.920 --> 0:09:51.439 I'm excited to relax and ski. And then he said, 0:09:51.840 --> 0:09:55.000 so he goes, okay, He's like back to the date. 0:09:55.360 --> 0:09:56.920 He's like, that's nice to hear about your of a 0:09:56.960 --> 0:10:00.520 cover modifacation. But Kelly, he was like, this is text 0:10:00.760 --> 0:10:01.679 they're trying to like the president. 0:10:01.760 --> 0:10:04.520 Kelly. I like that he uses my name. But I 0:10:04.600 --> 0:10:05.360 know there is a. 0:10:05.280 --> 0:10:08.040 Time difference, So don't want to call you too late. 0:10:08.440 --> 0:10:10.040 I can try around nine thirty or ten. 0:10:10.160 --> 0:10:12.640 Oh, so you're supposed to get a call tonight. 0:10:12.480 --> 0:10:15.360 Yes, I know, getting a call in like three hours? Okay, 0:10:15.559 --> 0:10:16.520 I can, I can. 0:10:16.600 --> 0:10:19.040 I can call you tonight your time or this weekend 0:10:19.160 --> 0:10:20.280 or on a chairlift or something. 0:10:20.360 --> 0:10:23.080 That was very clever and fun. That's so nice. While 0:10:23.080 --> 0:10:25.600 I'm jealous with lax, the wine chill you deserve it. 0:10:25.640 --> 0:10:28.920 I mean, that's just a very also thoughtful, you know, 0:10:29.000 --> 0:10:33.560 way of understanding what I'm doing, but also saying like 0:10:33.760 --> 0:10:35.280 we're doing this per meeting. 0:10:35.320 --> 0:10:38.680 That's a that's a flirty technique he's using by saying 0:10:38.720 --> 0:10:41.520 your name in the text. That is a flirting technique 0:10:41.520 --> 0:10:44.600 to show your interest and engaged. When you continue to 0:10:44.640 --> 0:10:48.080 say somebody's name to them back and forth. That's he's 0:10:48.280 --> 0:10:53.440 very interested. This is like really good green green flag, 0:10:53.520 --> 0:10:54.480 green flag, you know. 0:10:54.559 --> 0:10:57.040 Yeah, And I like that he's scheduling the time for 0:10:57.120 --> 0:10:59.080 the call you too, that's good too. 0:10:59.240 --> 0:11:01.080 And I'm not coaching him up at all. 0:11:01.160 --> 0:11:04.000 He's doing this all on his own, other than asking 0:11:04.040 --> 0:11:06.280 me if it was like too crazy for him to 0:11:06.280 --> 0:11:08.320 come visit you soon, and I said, no, it's not. 0:11:08.480 --> 0:11:08.839 Do it. 0:11:08.960 --> 0:11:09.760 That's so cute. 0:11:09.960 --> 0:11:13.120 So here's my question about the bubbles, because okay, so 0:11:14.040 --> 0:11:18.640 my youngest daughter said, you're only supposed to have a 0:11:18.720 --> 0:11:21.000 little bit of blue and they're supposed to be more 0:11:21.240 --> 0:11:23.679 of the conversation. That's like that, that's one of the 0:11:24.080 --> 0:11:26.120 things that were that that you're you're. 0:11:25.960 --> 0:11:27.000 Supposed to do in texting. 0:11:27.840 --> 0:11:30.240 So but I so then I was like, well, okay, 0:11:30.360 --> 0:11:33.319 so I'll do like I do like one bubble, two bubbles, 0:11:33.320 --> 0:11:35.760 three bubbles and then I'll stop. But he does a 0:11:35.840 --> 0:11:39.240 meaty text like to Heather's points, So what do you 0:11:39.320 --> 0:11:41.440 I mean not that there's any rules, And again I 0:11:41.480 --> 0:11:45.200 know I'm not I'm I'm not following rules and doing 0:11:45.240 --> 0:11:49.720 whatever whatever I want in a genuine way, but just 0:11:49.760 --> 0:11:52.840 to be mindful of like people's phone time, Like what 0:11:52.960 --> 0:11:53.880 is normal protocol? 0:11:55.160 --> 0:11:56.240 I think you just said it. 0:11:56.320 --> 0:11:59.960 You do what you want. You're you're having good bab 0:12:00.040 --> 0:12:03.200 answer back and forth. You're in different time zones. I say, 0:12:03.679 --> 0:12:05.600 do what you want. It's not like you're blowing him 0:12:05.679 --> 0:12:08.199 up at three in the morning, you know, on his 0:12:08.360 --> 0:12:11.040 coast and six am where you are. You know, you're 0:12:11.080 --> 0:12:14.120 being mindful. He's wanting to actually take it off of 0:12:14.200 --> 0:12:15.160 texting and go. 0:12:15.240 --> 0:12:17.640 To a phone call. So I think that's even better. 0:12:17.920 --> 0:12:21.040 This is what I prefer about a setup versus like 0:12:21.520 --> 0:12:26.080 dating apps that I I feel it's just terrible, these 0:12:26.160 --> 0:12:29.679 dating apps that people have to use, because I think 0:12:29.760 --> 0:12:32.160 that's when you start playing this weird game and you're 0:12:32.200 --> 0:12:34.200 all like you don't know this person. 0:12:34.320 --> 0:12:38.120 It's like you you know me, I've set you up. 0:12:38.480 --> 0:12:40.560 This guy knows you he's a good guy. 0:12:40.640 --> 0:12:44.000 He has every intention of being a good guy going 0:12:44.040 --> 0:12:47.640 out with you. We know he thinks you're cute, So 0:12:47.800 --> 0:12:50.480 I think you it's easier you just be you and 0:12:50.520 --> 0:12:51.480 he's gonna be him. 0:12:51.679 --> 0:12:55.520 I think the apps are make it really hard, but with. 0:12:55.559 --> 0:12:58.800 The flow, because let's say tonight's call goes really well, 0:12:59.200 --> 0:13:01.920 then you want to like talk again tomorrow. 0:13:02.480 --> 0:13:04.439 Talk again tomorrow, do another. 0:13:04.240 --> 0:13:08.839 Cally do right, and don't feel like, oh I need 0:13:08.880 --> 0:13:11.319 to like be less available. 0:13:10.840 --> 0:13:13.120 To like show him that I'm not. Don't don't do 0:13:13.200 --> 0:13:15.200 any of that. Don't play that. That's a game. 0:13:15.360 --> 0:13:18.240 Your daughters are in their twenties and a lot next 0:13:18.440 --> 0:13:21.640 and flirting, you have to follow that kind of protocol. 0:13:21.840 --> 0:13:25.240 When you're in your I do part two, those things 0:13:25.280 --> 0:13:26.160 go out the window. 0:13:26.400 --> 0:13:28.599 Yeah, I agree, I agree. 0:13:29.000 --> 0:13:31.320 Wait, okay, so first of all, we're gonna definitely have 0:13:31.480 --> 0:13:35.400 to talk to you on air tomorrow so we can 0:13:35.679 --> 0:13:39.719 find out how the call goes tonight. So just you know, 0:13:39.920 --> 0:13:42.760 try to remember, take a little bit of notes because, 0:13:42.920 --> 0:13:44.560 like I said, this is a real guy, but he 0:13:44.640 --> 0:13:48.120 has given us permission to give all the details, so 0:13:48.240 --> 0:13:49.440 we're not betraying that. 0:13:50.120 --> 0:13:52.360 No, And you know what else, I really liked is 0:13:52.400 --> 0:13:57.280 that he said, you know, we can talk tonight. We 0:13:57.320 --> 0:13:59.360 can he wants to talk tonight, but he also said, 0:13:59.440 --> 0:14:02.400 like we can also talk on the chairlift. We can 0:14:02.440 --> 0:14:04.800 talk on the weekend. Basically, it's just like we can 0:14:04.800 --> 0:14:08.000 talk anytime. Well, like some guys are like you want me, 0:14:08.160 --> 0:14:09.360 you want to talk to me on the chairlift? Why 0:14:09.360 --> 0:14:10.960 don't you talk to me when you can like really 0:14:11.000 --> 0:14:13.360 talk to me. And so he wants to like be 0:14:13.440 --> 0:14:17.600 a part of my life too, and he once he's 0:14:17.600 --> 0:14:19.560 trying to share what he's doing with his life, which 0:14:19.560 --> 0:14:21.720 I think is really really really sweet. 0:14:21.880 --> 0:14:23.360 Yeah, it feels very loose. 0:14:23.600 --> 0:14:26.720 He's not hiding behind a keyboard. He's like, let's get 0:14:26.800 --> 0:14:29.040 let's get on the phone, like let's talk and get 0:14:29.240 --> 0:14:32.200 in like exchange energy, you know what I mean. Like 0:14:32.280 --> 0:14:34.960 that's what he seems to be all about. And that 0:14:35.200 --> 0:14:40.400 is unfortunately a lost sense of communication as generations go on, 0:14:41.160 --> 0:14:43.400 more and more people don't want to just talk on 0:14:43.440 --> 0:14:45.880 the phone. And I think it's really admirable that that's 0:14:45.920 --> 0:14:48.640 what he's pushing for. And he's like, let's stop all 0:14:48.680 --> 0:14:51.200 this texting, like let's get let's get on the phone 0:14:51.240 --> 0:14:53.120 and like check vibe. 0:14:53.200 --> 0:14:53.520 Yeah. 0:14:53.640 --> 0:14:57.880 I think that's a great, great thing too for people 0:14:58.120 --> 0:14:59.640 looking for their I do part two. 0:15:00.000 --> 0:15:02.600 It's like we're all old, so. 0:15:03.960 --> 0:15:06.680 Go back to the way it was like we are 0:15:06.760 --> 0:15:10.720 of the generation that did not even have texting when. 0:15:10.560 --> 0:15:13.960 We were, you know, in college or even shortly after. 0:15:14.320 --> 0:15:19.840 So it's like, get on the phone. So, Kelly, Cheryl 0:15:19.880 --> 0:15:20.560 Burke is here. 0:15:20.680 --> 0:15:22.840 I want you to bring her up to speed, see 0:15:22.840 --> 0:15:26.200 if she's got any thoughts. And let's also see if 0:15:26.240 --> 0:15:28.360 we can encourage Cheryl to maybe try to set up 0:15:28.520 --> 0:15:34.480 good luck to you guys. 0:15:41.720 --> 0:15:48.240 All right, so I'm bringing in my new bestie, Cheryl Burke. So, Cheryl, 0:15:48.400 --> 0:15:51.080 I have to tell you that Amy and Heather introduced 0:15:51.080 --> 0:15:54.440 me to a really nice guy and I'm calling him 0:15:54.480 --> 0:15:58.600 mister Tennis. We've been texting back and forth. We're gonna 0:15:58.600 --> 0:16:00.480 be talking on the phone tonight. I'm or may not 0:16:00.520 --> 0:16:02.760 have sent him a photo or a video of me 0:16:02.880 --> 0:16:04.200 walking my dog Tars. 0:16:04.000 --> 0:16:05.760 And yes, I did that yesterday. 0:16:06.560 --> 0:16:07.080 Okay. 0:16:07.360 --> 0:16:11.040 He's super cute, very smart, super very smart, which is 0:16:11.080 --> 0:16:14.920 like really good for me, has kids and he lives 0:16:14.920 --> 0:16:16.640 in LA but he also works in New York. So 0:16:16.680 --> 0:16:19.880 he's like a good guy, like a guy that I 0:16:19.880 --> 0:16:21.040 could actually really. 0:16:22.320 --> 0:16:22.400 Like. 0:16:23.320 --> 0:16:24.400 Did he send you pictures? 0:16:24.960 --> 0:16:25.320 Yes? 0:16:25.920 --> 0:16:27.880 Okay, and he's very good looking. 0:16:28.400 --> 0:16:32.200 I also know that Amy and Heather may Or may 0:16:32.240 --> 0:16:35.200 have may not have introduced him to you. 0:16:35.480 --> 0:16:37.080 Wait, I was gonna I was gonna break. 0:16:37.920 --> 0:16:40.840 I was gonna break the interesting news as soon as 0:16:40.880 --> 0:16:44.680 I heard your perspective. But yes, Amy the executive producer, 0:16:45.240 --> 0:16:48.080 she definitely set me up. He was my first and 0:16:48.160 --> 0:16:49.640 last date since my divorce. 0:16:50.280 --> 0:16:54.000 Oh my god, I love that. So how was it? 0:16:54.000 --> 0:16:56.000 It was good? It was good for me to go 0:16:56.040 --> 0:16:56.880 out on a date. 0:16:57.720 --> 0:17:02.480 I wasn't necessarily like, Okay, I tried not to like judge. 0:17:02.480 --> 0:17:03.240 I don't try. 0:17:03.360 --> 0:17:05.280 I mean, it's hard not to judge a book by 0:17:05.280 --> 0:17:07.560 its cover, because we're all human, right. But we went 0:17:07.600 --> 0:17:11.119 to a restaurant in Los Angeles, and you know, he 0:17:11.160 --> 0:17:12.600 was a gentleman, and. 0:17:14.080 --> 0:17:17.000 But there was just no there was just no chemistry 0:17:17.040 --> 0:17:17.600 for me, for. 0:17:17.640 --> 0:17:20.120 Me, right for you. Yeah, he was cute. 0:17:20.200 --> 0:17:23.840 He was a cute, smart guy who seems to be 0:17:24.200 --> 0:17:25.879 he's got a good head on his shoulders. From what 0:17:26.000 --> 0:17:29.040 I was able to kind of like sess out a 0:17:29.080 --> 0:17:29.840 little bit, you know. 0:17:29.960 --> 0:17:31.720 Okay, Well that's really good that you know him now 0:17:31.760 --> 0:17:32.960 I have to ask you a question. 0:17:33.040 --> 0:17:35.920 What do you think of because we don't I don't 0:17:35.920 --> 0:17:37.680 want to live in a vacuum and I trust you. 0:17:38.200 --> 0:17:40.240 So what do you think of. 0:17:41.680 --> 0:17:44.440 Introducing your friends to guys that you went out with 0:17:45.240 --> 0:17:47.280 and that you are setting them up with. 0:17:47.320 --> 0:17:48.200 What do you think about that? 0:17:48.359 --> 0:17:50.840 Like in our situation that do you think it's a 0:17:50.880 --> 0:17:53.119 good idea to like, you dated, he went on a 0:17:53.200 --> 0:17:54.480 date with them, and now I'm going to go on 0:17:54.520 --> 0:17:55.120 a date with them. 0:17:55.280 --> 0:17:55.760 Totally? 0:17:56.119 --> 0:17:57.840 I do too. I actually did that with a friend 0:17:57.840 --> 0:17:58.120 of mine. 0:17:58.160 --> 0:17:59.880 I introduced her to a guy that I want to date, 0:18:00.280 --> 0:18:01.480 and I was like, he's nice, but he's not my 0:18:01.560 --> 0:18:03.479 kind of He's not my cup of tea. And then 0:18:03.520 --> 0:18:07.480 I introduced him to her and weird stuff happened, but 0:18:07.480 --> 0:18:08.280 had nothing to do with me. 0:18:08.359 --> 0:18:09.399 I did not know anything. 0:18:09.680 --> 0:18:11.960 Yeah, I think if it was if it were opposite, 0:18:12.080 --> 0:18:13.919 like if I really liked him, let's say and he 0:18:14.000 --> 0:18:16.840 ghosted me and then you were dating him, that'd be odd. 0:18:17.040 --> 0:18:19.680