Speaker 1: From Hollywood, thank you for listening to us with Ryan Seacrest. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Harry Style was influencing everybody's fashion. There was a woman
Speaker 1: on Americano Ava maybe who was you know, didn't make
Speaker 1: it any further. She had to say goodbye to the vote,
Speaker 1: but she was saying that her style influenced by Harry Style.
Speaker 1: I have to tell you I'm more open than not,
Speaker 1: more than for, more open than not for some of
Speaker 1: that stuff. If you were to say to me Bro,
Speaker 1: Like just if you were to say to me Bro,
Speaker 1: I'd be like, Bro, thank you for saying to me Bro. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I used to call you a girl? Yeah, well not usually.
Speaker 1: I think it's a split. But like come fall, we
Speaker 1: might put a little light scarf on right to to
Speaker 1: go along the coastal cities nice, but come fall in winter,
Speaker 1: he's gonna make a Boa a new scarf. Like it's
Speaker 1: gonna be totally not a double take for you know,
Speaker 1: someone like East and our engineer to throw Boa. Well,
Speaker 1: his big feathered coat that he wore Coachella. I was
Speaker 1: already like I need this in my life. Was it
Speaker 1: real feathers? It was like a feathery fur texture. I
Speaker 1: just like the optionality, you know. But the funny thing
Speaker 1: is it's a round because I'm trying to simplify everything
Speaker 1: in my life. I like want to wear the same
Speaker 1: four things. However, I see his stop and I'm like,
Speaker 1: every once in a while, yeah, spice it up a
Speaker 1: bit for wangoo oh my. Can you imagine if I
Speaker 1: did Ryan is Harry sequence, Ryan Sequence, Ryan Sequence, Ryan sequence,
Speaker 1: come into a lot air with Ryan sequence. I love
Speaker 1: a sequence, could do a tank top a sequence tank
Speaker 1: top like Joe Jonas. I need be tank top ready.
Speaker 1: But there was moments when he was this was weekend
Speaker 1: one when he wore that sequen the Romper at Coachella
Speaker 1: that I was like, you know what, Ryan, you could
Speaker 1: maybe rock an oufit like this, not not so much
Speaker 1: of a deep van, but I think you could. I
Speaker 1: think it might be you just trying a little too hard. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's all about how you own it. Yeah, there's gotta
Speaker 1: be there's gotta be a dabble in that anyway. That's
Speaker 1: Terry Styles getting to school in this morning. Hi, guys,
Speaker 1: how are you good? Anything I need to own the
Speaker 1: last twenty four hours that I am not aware of
Speaker 1: In the last twenty four hours, Uh, not necessarily. I
Speaker 1: had Sam in last night with a little garlic and
Speaker 1: some capers. Let see, I thought you just said I
Speaker 1: had Sam in last night. I'm like, who's Sam? And
Speaker 1: Sam Smith just came after my house, came over. I'm
Speaker 1: glad you guys are bonding now that you're the music
Speaker 1: director of one of all of the artists are coming
Speaker 1: by at my house. Yeah, um, well, I did get
Speaker 1: my hair blonder, but that happened last weekend. None of
Speaker 1: you noticed, so well, I already knew you were there.
Speaker 1: I honestly can't tell the difference. I can see the
Speaker 1: darkness in the middle. What do you call that part? Well,
Speaker 1: that's like the melting I don't know the melt team. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know. Do you intend to have a dark middle? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's supposed to make it look more natural. I thought
Speaker 1: that's what we called roots. Well, no, you have. I
Speaker 1: have roots, but I just call my roots like a
Speaker 1: slippery slope. Yeah, Like, what are you trying to say?
Speaker 1: You know, like a platinum blonde. And she's trying to
Speaker 1: say more natural in the same sentence, I'm like, it's well,
Speaker 1: you have like a little bit of growth like in
Speaker 1: other places, So that when you do get roots, it's
Speaker 1: not as noticeable. I hear you. All this is saying,
Speaker 1: as you've been feeling the heat of the week and
Speaker 1: you're ready for summer, and you're ready for summer. All right,
Speaker 1: let's let me break down what we're gonna do today.
Speaker 1: Today we've got more not as bad, actually more sunshine,
Speaker 1: but not as hot. So that's like your shirt today.
Speaker 1: Thank you. I've had this for so long back in
Speaker 1: the closet. I think it's gone. I think it's called
Speaker 1: I think it's I think Quicksilver made it. No, those
Speaker 1: brands are coming back. This other girl was wearing the
Speaker 1: cutest jeans the other day and I was like, those
Speaker 1: are so cute. I need them. Unless she said she
Speaker 1: got them from PACs on. I was like, right, all
Speaker 1: all that was then is now. And if it's if
Speaker 1: it wasn't, make it right, just make it be that way.
Speaker 1: Then is now. That's now. As time goes by and
Speaker 1: you realize that you are an active person, or maybe
Speaker 1: you're not an active person, but you are active for
Speaker 1: a day or two, things begin to hurt. Muscles get
Speaker 1: tight one of the things. Actually, I was just reading
Speaker 1: about this. Um, I don't know do you guys, And
Speaker 1: believe me, I never even thought about stretching until recently,
Speaker 1: and of course through all my life, I blew it
Speaker 1: off at school athletics, even like ten years ago, five
Speaker 1: four years ago, I blew it off. You know, people say,
Speaker 1: are you stretching? Yeah. I lied to my chiropractor that
Speaker 1: I stretched. I used to lie to my dentists that
Speaker 1: I've lost because you say, you're like face to face
Speaker 1: and like, how's this stretching going, And it was like fantastic.
Speaker 1: I feel so good. It was weird when my dentist
Speaker 1: asked me about my stretching. That was like a whole
Speaker 1: So anyway, the thing is you should do it. And
Speaker 1: if you don't think you should, now you should because
Speaker 1: you don't pay the press. But I was about five
Speaker 1: stretches you could do on like instantly in five minutes
Speaker 1: in the morning. Down dog, you know, down dog, downward dog.
Speaker 1: This six five minutes, so you do down dog. These
Speaker 1: are the ones that they say will keep you in line.
Speaker 1: But you hold all these for like a minute. I
Speaker 1: mean basically that's five of them, right, So down dog,
Speaker 1: cat and cow that's just cat. Huh. I'm seeded forward
Speaker 1: fold like sea and then Chris cross apple sauce with
Speaker 1: your legs and then you go all the way forward
Speaker 1: and bridge pose and what's I don't know this one?
Speaker 1: Lord of the fishes. They say, what's Lord of the fishes?
Speaker 1: You got me off to look you looked at up. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm surprised. Pigeons on their pigeon I do every day.
Speaker 1: For me, my floor needs to be publicized because I
Speaker 1: need to be doing more of the pigeon. Anyway, I'm
Speaker 1: bringing this up because you have a you had an incident,
Speaker 1: didn't you a body work incident, sissy? Um kind of.
Speaker 1: I've been in a lot of lower back pain, and
Speaker 1: I think it's just a mixture of like the way
Speaker 1: I'm picking up the baby and the other kids that
Speaker 1: are way larger, almost fourty pounds each, and so it
Speaker 1: just kind of like I feel like I'm not properly.
Speaker 1: I don't have good posture throughout the day, you know,
Speaker 1: and so it's affecting my lower back. So I started
Speaker 1: going to this chiropractice that I was just talking about,
Speaker 1: and then he was like, you really need to go
Speaker 1: get some deep titie massages as well. Great, so I
Speaker 1: found this place they're fantastic. However, my first massage there
Speaker 1: was with a gentleman and I actually picked I don't
Speaker 1: want to say his name, because I picked the name
Speaker 1: thinking it was a girl. I like female therapist. I
Speaker 1: don't necessarily like a massage from a man. Feels weird.
Speaker 1: It feels like I'm cheating on my husband. I don't
Speaker 1: like it, and it's it's weird. I don't know what.
Speaker 1: It weirds me out. So I was very surprised that
Speaker 1: it was a male and I was like, okay, just
Speaker 1: go with it. So this dude starts massage with me,
Speaker 1: and it is a moan. You guys like when he
Speaker 1: makes a moan, not me maybe, but somebody like they're
Speaker 1: trying to triggy to breathe. A few times he would say, okay,
Speaker 1: take a deep breath and release, and as I'm really
Speaker 1: he's going, no, no, no no, that's chewing breathe this ninety minutes,
Speaker 1: this is it's all your head is in the wrong
Speaker 1: place because you you're already in his zone because you're
Speaker 1: cheating on your husband with the guy there. Now the
Speaker 1: fact that he's actually inhaling and exhale and he's moaning.
Speaker 1: I mean you're being extremist. I'm not an extremist. I
Speaker 1: couldn't go back. I booked another equintment just to be polite,
Speaker 1: but then I canceled it, like ty is with me
Speaker 1: on this massage. Instead of saying breathe, they breathe deliberately
Speaker 1: to get you to copy them. It literally was so uncomfortable.
Speaker 1: It was like, yeah, that's them telling you to breathe.
Speaker 1: That's what they do. They all do that, not the
Speaker 1: female therapist. Anybody's getting married forever, right, this what happens.
Speaker 1: You're married forever. Man breathed and he's moaning, Yeah that
Speaker 1: moanus this imanus. That's it's like that is like that
Speaker 1: you guys air air. There was okay, fine. There was
Speaker 1: a few times when he did it. He would actually
Speaker 1: like laugh afterwards, what are you taking? Taking that repeat
Speaker 1: so he'd be like no, he would not. Right there
Speaker 1: is not a lie. What do you say right there?
Speaker 1: Because he's feeling my whatever the kno moving it's acceptable
Speaker 1: because he's right there. He's saying that, like the not
Speaker 1: the knot is releasing. He's not wrong. But I don't
Speaker 1: need to wear to this thinking it was some sort
Speaker 1: of fantasy. The problem you've already you've set the stage.
Speaker 1: So he was probably hot hot, No, he was. He
Speaker 1: was a short king. Not my vibe. Oh, easy on
Speaker 1: the short I'm just throw in the torch. Not for me.
Speaker 1: I think he was probably just doing his deep tissue job.
Speaker 1: You know, all right, get more male therapy. I'll take
Speaker 1: that one, alright. So what is Lord of the Fishes?
Speaker 1: Oh so Lord of the Fishes is? Oh, I just
Speaker 1: had it pulled up and then I went and then
Speaker 1: I clicked out, basically put one straight out, they crossed
Speaker 1: the other one over the knee, and then you kind
Speaker 1: of turn your body the other way. So anyway, five
Speaker 1: minutes to stretching the more and they say do it now,
Speaker 1: even you don't think you need to, and it will
Speaker 1: make you live and feel better longer. Oh, and breathe
Speaker 1: when you do it. I can't. This is your morning
Speaker 1: hack about restaurants. I don't know if they're clean. Then
Speaker 1: I got a quote of the day. So I've been
Speaker 1: surprised some restaurants. I think, you know, you look at
Speaker 1: me like, oh, that's not going to be the cleanest place.
Speaker 1: But they're known as the best spot for a certain
Speaker 1: local food and it's certainly in certain neighborhoods, right so,
Speaker 1: And even when you travel to different towns or cities
Speaker 1: out of the state, it's hard. You can't judge your
Speaker 1: book by its car, You just can't. But how do
Speaker 1: you know if it's clean? And I've seen kitchens of
Speaker 1: restaurants that are good and you look at the kitchen
Speaker 1: and you go, but it's still clean. But the kitchens
Speaker 1: are titan packed, so they say check the bathroom. Makes sense.
Speaker 1: If the soap dispenser is empty, if the toilet paper
Speaker 1: rolls empty, if the toilet is dirty, it's a sign
Speaker 1: that the staff isn't doing their jobs. And who knows
Speaker 1: what else is being neglected? If that's being neglected, and
Speaker 1: everybody sees that what else is being neglected is the premise.
Speaker 1: It really irks me when people don't take pride in
Speaker 1: their bathrooms at their facilities. I feel like it's so simple,
Speaker 1: a fresh coat of paint, put a plant in the corner,
Speaker 1: make it look nice in there. I hate bathrooms that
Speaker 1: are dirty. I actually have worked on my endurance, my
Speaker 1: breath holding endurance, by using certain bathrooms over the course
Speaker 1: of money. Believe it, I can go full link to
Speaker 1: pools based on the bathrooms that I've used growing up.
Speaker 1: So here's today's a quote. You know who's going through
Speaker 1: a lot right now, literally everyone, So just be kind.
Speaker 1: That's the quote with Ryan Seacreats headline. Well, we all
Speaker 1: saw the news yesterday afternoon. Twitter's board accepted an offer
Speaker 1: from billionaire Elon Musk to buy the social media company
Speaker 1: and take it private. The cash deal, at fifty four
Speaker 1: twenty per share, is valued at forty four billion dollars,
Speaker 1: and this is according to the press release. Twitter would
Speaker 1: become a private company on completion of the deal, which
Speaker 1: requires shareholder and regulatory approval. So basically this is going
Speaker 1: to take a long time, like months. L a U.
Speaker 1: S D is letting students know that a four year
Speaker 1: university isn't the only possible path to success. Now, this
Speaker 1: is interesting. They're saying that in their last two years
Speaker 1: of high school in the l a U. S D
Speaker 1: School District, students can now choose to work towards career
Speaker 1: technical education or CT in several professional areas. This means
Speaker 1: that students can begin working towards technical training careers for
Speaker 1: the auto industry, healthcare, and information information technology. Wow, that's
Speaker 1: pretty cool. Halloween time is one of the best times
Speaker 1: of the year. I think we can all agree on that,
Speaker 1: and Disney Parks is celebrating early with a Halfway to
Speaker 1: Halloween celebration this Thursday, April, which includes inst worthy food.
Speaker 1: Of course, you know they're gonna have all the fancy
Speaker 1: drinks as well. The Halfway to Halloween menu items include
Speaker 1: collectible popcorn buckets, spooky trurose, and more. The Sweet Treets
Speaker 1: are gonna be available for a limited time this week.
Speaker 1: I mean, why not. Right on air with Ryan Seacrest, Melissa,
Speaker 1: good morning, How you doing. I'm good, Ryan, how are
Speaker 1: you super good? Thanks for calling. What's happening? Okay, So
Speaker 1: I follow your Instagram account. You're verified Ryan seacrest Instagram account,
Speaker 1: and I just you know, one day I was looking
Speaker 1: through and I saw these adorable pictures of you and
Speaker 1: your niece, and I commented on it and I basically said, like,
Speaker 1: so heartwarming, such a great uncle. Like I just was
Speaker 1: complimenting you and your career and like your stamina to
Speaker 1: keep up with it on and stuff like that. And
Speaker 1: then two days later I got a d M and
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, like totally shocked. So anyway, but
Speaker 1: it referenced my message to you, so I thought it
Speaker 1: was you. So I was I thought was I was,
Speaker 1: you know, going back and forth with this account for
Speaker 1: a couple of days. I know so. And then yesterday
Speaker 1: I get another d M from another account claiming to
Speaker 1: be you, same thing referencing my d M to you.
Speaker 1: So I was like, I basically so like, this doesn't
Speaker 1: make any sense. And on the first account, obviously I
Speaker 1: wasn't going to be like, Okay, Ryan proved to me
Speaker 1: you're Ryan. I kind of felt weird, you know what,
Speaker 1: exactly like I did. The whole thing was very weird.
Speaker 1: So anyway, but the impostor Ryan was like, Oh, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna have my you know, my team call you and
Speaker 1: we can get together and blah blah blah. And I
Speaker 1: was like, okay, Um, I think it's safe to say
Speaker 1: I never ever respond to a DM and haven't, so
Speaker 1: there's any If anybody responds to you in the d
Speaker 1: M from me, guaranteed it's not me because I don't
Speaker 1: have take enough skin to even read the comments. Now, Melissa,
Speaker 1: I want to know somebody, what did the other me
Speaker 1: to phone me and you talk about well, very interesting?
Speaker 1: Um kind of got a little deep, which, uh, personal
Speaker 1: stuff a little bit. And the thing that caught me
Speaker 1: off guard was, well, the red flag that went up
Speaker 1: for me was I was like, there's pictures of my
Speaker 1: dogs on my Instagram and they commented on it and
Speaker 1: I was and he said, whoever it was, that I
Speaker 1: love dogs, and I said, well, I know you do too.
Speaker 1: Now I've been a fan of yours back to like
Speaker 1: the Kelly Clarkson dyed but and we're around the same
Speaker 1: age and whatever. But I was married, a four kids
Speaker 1: and I'm a widow. Now, so long story short. Um,
Speaker 1: you know, I basically was talking a little bit about
Speaker 1: my life. He was talking a little bit about his wife.
Speaker 1: And the scary thing is like people know a lot
Speaker 1: of stuff. So I basically said, oh, how's your dog,
Speaker 1: and he was like, I don't have a dog. You know.
Speaker 1: I would have instantly been like, my baby, Georgia, I
Speaker 1: love my baby well, and I knew you had a dog,
Speaker 1: So I was like flag warning. Now here's the deal again. First, listen,
Speaker 1: thank you for the public service. Second of all, just
Speaker 1: know that I have never responded to a d M,
Speaker 1: so therefore I'm here every day so you can get
Speaker 1: a verbal direct message any day you want right here
Speaker 1: for hours. Um, but I'm glad you reached out. That's
Speaker 1: so crazy. Just heads up to anybody else out there
Speaker 1: that you know chatting with me about my wine preferences
Speaker 1: and my lack of love of dogs. Beware, it ain't
Speaker 1: mean thanks for listening to us. You take care of yourself, Melissa,
Speaker 1: you too, Ryan By. I guess that happens that people
Speaker 1: all the time. Right. You don't know who you're talking
Speaker 1: to on the other end. That's why you got to
Speaker 1: look for the blue checkmark. Man. You gotta see if
Speaker 1: it's what's it? Certified? Right? Verified? A vertified certified verified?
Speaker 1: All right. So Adam reaches out to us via email
Speaker 1: about a woman named Brooke and name at on a
Speaker 1: dating app, and uh, he says it was super flirty
Speaker 1: and fun. Hey, Adam, how are you? Hey? How's it going? Guys?
Speaker 1: Good man? So then you ended up seeing her briefly
Speaker 1: running into each other, but things were different after that. Okay,
Speaker 1: so let me go back for a second. Tell me
Speaker 1: about your flirty game. What were you doing this flirty? We?
Speaker 1: I mean we're like, you know, there was a physical
Speaker 1: touching and laughing. You know, I thought you were flirting
Speaker 1: on the dating app, you're flirting when you saw her
Speaker 1: when you went out. Well, yeah, we went out on
Speaker 1: the first date and we went to thirty Degrees on
Speaker 1: Monrovia and then, uh, you know, like everything went well,
Speaker 1: kissed her good night and everything was good, you know.
Speaker 1: And then uh, so we were testing after that, and
Speaker 1: we realized that we were like kind of close to
Speaker 1: each other. So she stopped by the grocery store when
Speaker 1: I was shopping, and then, um, you know, we tried
Speaker 1: texting after that, but she was just very vague and
Speaker 1: like noncommittal. So she stopped by the store while you
Speaker 1: were shopping. Yeah, she was at the Starbucks around the corner,
Speaker 1: and then she just came by. What like, we just
Speaker 1: realized that we were close to each other half Okay,
Speaker 1: So then after that encounter at the store, things got different. Yeah.
Speaker 1: It was just like, you know, I really couldn't you know,
Speaker 1: line up another date, and it was just she's just
Speaker 1: very being kind of like distant and vague. You know.
Speaker 1: So you have any idea, you have no hunch just
Speaker 1: to what's going on. I don't. Yeah, I have no clue. Okay,
Speaker 1: hold one second here, Adam. So we have a second
Speaker 1: date up date in progress. Adam met Brooke dating app.
Speaker 1: They went out, kissed her good night. They ran into
Speaker 1: each other at a grocery store, and since that second
Speaker 1: encounter in person, she's been acting strange. So and Alam
Speaker 1: doesn't know why, and it's it's keeping him up at
Speaker 1: night basically, So what's our role? He wants to find
Speaker 1: out why, good or bad? Why she's kind of distant
Speaker 1: after so many after so much good Momentum, I guess
Speaker 1: all right, Adam, So we have her on the line.
Speaker 1: Be very quiet. We're gonna talk to you and see
Speaker 1: what we can find out. Okay, So I don't say anything, Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, Mrs Brooke. Second date update, Hello Brooke, Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: thank you for a green to come on with us.
Speaker 1: It's Ryan Sisting Tanya. Good morning, morning, good morning. That's
Speaker 1: crazy quick question for you, h Adam, you went with
Speaker 1: a guy named Adam? Does that ring a bell? Totally? Yeah?
Speaker 1: We we met on bumble So how was it hanging
Speaker 1: out with Adam? I mean it was it was great,
Speaker 1: like we would and got drinks. Um, and I mean
Speaker 1: he kissed me, denied and I was interested. Um, but
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure he's married and not telling me what
Speaker 1: what makes you think that? I mean there, we like
Speaker 1: met up very briefly afterwards at um I was basically
Speaker 1: at a Starbucks on Foothill and Um we were kind
Speaker 1: of messaging a little bit. He was like, oh, I'm
Speaker 1: just let the Ralph's right by, and so we just
Speaker 1: kind of decided I would go meet him there real quick.
Speaker 1: And I don't know, I saw something that I'm not
Speaker 1: so sure I was supposed to see. Okay, what well,
Speaker 1: I mean when I looked in his cart, at the
Speaker 1: bottom of the up of it, there were some feminine products,
Speaker 1: and I know they're not his, and so where were
Speaker 1: the feminine products exactly? They were at the bottom of
Speaker 1: his cart a shopping cart. Yeah, he could be buying
Speaker 1: after anybody. And you know, single guys want to keep
Speaker 1: that in our stors in town, like and made him
Speaker 1: go to the story. I mean, hair bands, products like
Speaker 1: you want to have things. They're out of convenient abundance
Speaker 1: of convenience. Right. I've never known anyone to be that
Speaker 1: to just have that at their house. And let's it's
Speaker 1: like buying for their girlfriend or their wife. Okay, well
Speaker 1: that's the daughter. I mean, I just thought it was
Speaker 1: very bizarre, and it's like if there is someone living
Speaker 1: at his house, like I would think that's something you
Speaker 1: should bring up on a first date. Okay, I want
Speaker 1: to bring Adam in and you have to know he's
Speaker 1: listening to this and so let's apologize for that later.
Speaker 1: But Adam, can you explain the feminine products? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm not married. I actually I do have a daughter.
Speaker 1: I'm a single dad and uh yeah, I mean it
Speaker 1: was just you know that's okay, that's even worse. That's
Speaker 1: the worst. Why is that worse? How is that worse?
Speaker 1: Like a mom? Like, why wouldn't you tell me that
Speaker 1: on your first date? Because it was I didn't have
Speaker 1: an opportunity to bring it up. It was more casually.
Speaker 1: We were just like kind of hanging out, Like I
Speaker 1: don't I keep my personal life, you know, personally, you know,
Speaker 1: like you don't have to be a mom. You can't
Speaker 1: hang out with the guy, you know, it doesn't have
Speaker 1: to go the date. I don't know not to be
Speaker 1: a mom. Yeah, but like you're wasting my time. Like
Speaker 1: if I want kids, like I want them to be
Speaker 1: my own. So this idea of like coming to a
Speaker 1: first date, you kind of lay out the big thing. Wow, okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I'm glad we got that cleared up. I mean,
Speaker 1: uh yeah, I mean I'm not good. Then it's not
Speaker 1: a match. Wow, it's just not going to work out. Guys,
Speaker 1: we're no experts, but um, all right, well but I'm good. Okay,
Speaker 1: brook thank you and Adam thank you very much. We'll
Speaker 1: let it go from here. Good luck to you guys.
Speaker 1: One that was uncomfortable as we've had. But Brooks, how
Speaker 1: about Brooks put it on your profile, like, if you're
Speaker 1: that adamant, don't even date me. If you have kids?
Speaker 1: Eating is the more hold on that she can depend
Speaker 1: Can we debate this in a minute, don't save us,
Speaker 1: Ryan sads all right quickly, let's just hash this out
Speaker 1: because we're moving into the next hour and got a
Speaker 1: lot to do. Brooke and Adam. So Adam, when I
Speaker 1: was Brooke, he didn't tell her he had a daughter.
Speaker 1: She found out, She's like, I don't want to be
Speaker 1: a mom. You should have told me out of the gate.
Speaker 1: I don't know that I agree, and I don't know
Speaker 1: that she has to be a mom. If she likes
Speaker 1: the guy, can't they just casually date for a little while.
Speaker 1: I think if she's that bitter already, it needs to
Speaker 1: be something that she puts in her profile because she
Speaker 1: wasted his time, you know, that's how I see it,
Speaker 1: Because she said he wasted her time. I mean, he's
Speaker 1: a single dad trying to take care of his daughter,
Speaker 1: and there's probably plenty of women out there that are
Speaker 1: gonna love him and the daughter and it's great, it's
Speaker 1: no issue. But for her, it just that wasn't her teeth.
Speaker 1: But she was like jumping to being the mom they
Speaker 1: just met. Well, that's you know, dating. You know, you
Speaker 1: date hoping it leads somewhere. You don't have to date
Speaker 1: hoping it goes the distance you could shed. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: think you don't. It's called a hook up. What about
Speaker 1: some companionship? Many ones companionship that leads to nowhere? I
Speaker 1: mean some people, early in my early twenties, I just
Speaker 1: wanted companionship. I'm just saying, I don't look it's you're
Speaker 1: allowed to want what you want. She know she does
Speaker 1: not want to date a man with kids. That's her
Speaker 1: own thing. I generalized. You cannot tell me that everyone
Speaker 1: listening is thinking about the lifespan when they meet somebody.
Speaker 1: They might just want to be in the moment maybe,
Speaker 1: but you kind of like have that fifteen second thought
Speaker 1: of like could I marry that guy? Then maybe you
Speaker 1: know what's great about brooking Adam? I had ten seconds
Speaker 1: to know they're not a match. Definitely not happening on
Speaker 1: air with Ryan Secret. Check this out. All the moms,
Speaker 1: her moms to be parents out there, you're gonna love this.
Speaker 1: Isney read. Uh you read about a woman who charges
Speaker 1: people like ten thousand dollars to name their babies, right right.
Speaker 1: I mean that's the extreme amount, but like a thousand
Speaker 1: dollars if she just wants to spend like a phone
Speaker 1: call with you because she tries to come up with unique, creative, creative,
Speaker 1: meaningful names. And I was like, I could do this job.
Speaker 1: So I'm doing it for free for anybody who I thought, Well,
Speaker 1: no one's really going to call in. I don't feel
Speaker 1: right to hargen anybody that's going in. So we're gonna
Speaker 1: we're gonna do work here. Ye. So anyway, Jackie Martinez
Speaker 1: in Santa Anna called and it's Jackie and Michael, a
Speaker 1: couple here. Build I'm building my resume, you know. Yeah, no, no,
Speaker 1: this is a pilot, right, all right, Jackie and Michael.
Speaker 1: Good morning Jackie, Michael, everything's still good? Hi? Right? All right?
Speaker 1: So you called in and sent Ana called into. Have
Speaker 1: Sisney come up with some creative names for your baby.
Speaker 1: So since we last spolk Sysney, what happened? So no,
Speaker 1: Well we got information from them. So we learned that
Speaker 1: you guys met online, um, and that you know Michael's
Speaker 1: a pilot, and your first date was at a park,
Speaker 1: your Beyonce fans, you love Colorado, things like that. So
Speaker 1: I took all this information and I tried to figure
Speaker 1: out a few options for you. So you guys don't
Speaker 1: know what you're having yet. So I'm did two boy names,
Speaker 1: two girl names, and a general neutral name for you guys. Oh,
Speaker 1: I love it beautiful, So here we go. I'm a
Speaker 1: lot of names. I'm five. I'm a little nervous. Okay,
Speaker 1: this one. The first name Sterling. Sterling. Sterling is a
Speaker 1: city in Colorado. The area code is nine seven, oh,
Speaker 1: which I kind of liked because the due date is
Speaker 1: November seven, so there was a seven in the area code.
Speaker 1: I thought it was meaningful. And Sterling also means of
Speaker 1: high quality. So who wouldn't want to name their son.
Speaker 1: Isn't it silver? Sterling of high quality? Isn't also silver? Sure? Sure?
Speaker 1: Isn't that the most common sterling? Sterling? Silver? I think
Speaker 1: it's an adjective. Yeah, high quality, high quality silver. Yeah, exactly,
Speaker 1: you don't. We don't know that. Look, Tubs is near
Speaker 1: east Silver? What does it mean by definition? I like
Speaker 1: that name actually, and to thank you, The next boy
Speaker 1: name is Parker, So hang on. Beyonce's at leisure line
Speaker 1: is called Ivy Park Park. You're a big Beyonce fan,
Speaker 1: and this also has a lot of meaning because your
Speaker 1: guys first date was at a park. I love Parker
Speaker 1: that you're cute. No, no, no, no, this is great.
Speaker 1: Now let's me to some girls options Parkers good good
Speaker 1: good good. Dove the name dove for a girl. There
Speaker 1: are two Colorado connections here. There's Dove Creek and there's
Speaker 1: Duve Valley in Colorado. But but but Dove Cameron is
Speaker 1: on the radio right now. I'm Phil from Kiss like
Speaker 1: the playlist. Well, it could also be a really cute
Speaker 1: middle name. You know, it's a subtle way to show
Speaker 1: peace and love. Dove would be really ultrasound are ultrasound
Speaker 1: actually looks like a duck, so I kind of was
Speaker 1: aiming for a bird name. It literally looks like a
Speaker 1: little baby duck. It's really cute. That's really cute. Okay,
Speaker 1: here's another option for a girl name Rayla, after Michael's
Speaker 1: dad and Michael's middle name, Michael. So it's you know,
Speaker 1: you're not doing Ray Jr. You're not doing ray for
Speaker 1: like the boy, but you do Rayla for a girl. Also,
Speaker 1: Rayla means a wise and strong ruler. Oh, I love that.
Speaker 1: I like it. I like it. And then this is
Speaker 1: the final one. It's gender neutral, so you can decide.
Speaker 1: You know, Noah spelled n o A. I really liked
Speaker 1: the oa sound from from Balboa, which is the lake
Speaker 1: at Woodley Park where you goah Noah as well. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's really good. So Jack and Michael of the list,
Speaker 1: what do you like the most? Top two? I love job.
Speaker 1: I like no one Raylo. To be honest, you have
Speaker 1: some really good skills on naming there, guys. Thank you.
Speaker 1: I just want to also say, you know, I did
Speaker 1: toss out the name wing. You can take the wings three.
Speaker 1: I don't know a chicken wings. Yeah, my mom was like, no,
Speaker 1: I'll be hungry every time I say, and his dad
Speaker 1: was like, no, yeah, that's hard. I've always loved that.
Speaker 1: It was a really good ones. Sterling too, well, listen,
Speaker 1: let me know what you decide, because I put Sterling
Speaker 1: in my potential list here, so you guys don't know.
Speaker 1: I like Sterling a lot. Yeah, Sterling is great, very strong.
Speaker 1: It alright, Well, thank you so so much, Sisfany and
Speaker 1: and Ryan and everyone. They're we're so appreciative of this.
Speaker 1: You're very welcome. Keep us posted. Obviously you don't have
Speaker 1: to go with any of these names. But let me
Speaker 1: know what you guys decide. When the baby's here, Okay,
Speaker 1: I Dove is coming. I love that. Thank you, guys.
Speaker 1: Thank you. We can't believe. Thank you. You have a talent.
Speaker 1: Thank you. Jully. We don't well, hey, we don't. Don't
Speaker 1: hupe me in with you, Wing, I'm not. I'm putting
Speaker 1: that on my list. Although its are always sentimental, time,
Speaker 1: I don't think it will be that occupied. So go
Speaker 1: for it. Put it on your life. I'm thrilled with that.
Speaker 1: Trying report, Tanya, were in your world. The question is, uh,
Speaker 1: the one thing I believe you absolutely need in a
Speaker 1: long lasting relationship, and it's one word, And I'll tell
Speaker 1: you how I got to this hypothesis or thesis. Actually,
Speaker 1: Matthew Broderick and Sarah Jessica Parker, so they got married,
Speaker 1: they have three kids together, and I think we can
Speaker 1: all agree that they are a healthy, loving, mutually respectful relationship.
Speaker 1: Am I right? Yes? Okay, So Matthew opened up about
Speaker 1: from the outside right now, I don't know them personally,
Speaker 1: but I did have one experience with s JP and
Speaker 1: she was fantastic. Yeah, classy, humble, queen um. But Matthew
Speaker 1: opened up about when he knew he wanted to spend
Speaker 1: the rest of his life with her, and he said, oh,
Speaker 1: the first time I met her, I saw her walking
Speaker 1: down the street and I thought that's it. So here's
Speaker 1: the kicker. He was asked what qualities he admires about her,
Speaker 1: and he said her humor and wisdom. Yes, I know,
Speaker 1: but I want hone in on the word admire. Admire
Speaker 1: He admires these qualities about her, And I feel like
Speaker 1: that is a word that is not thrown around a lot,
Speaker 1: and I think it's the key to a successful long
Speaker 1: asking relationship because if you're with somebody that you don't admire,
Speaker 1: you don't respect them, and then that's gonna end up
Speaker 1: your question? Is that not a good baby? Names are admire,
Speaker 1: addie for short, kind of love it middle name. I
Speaker 1: don't know about the first, but it's such a key word.
Speaker 1: Is onto something? Thank you? This is a revelation. I agree.
Speaker 1: Admire is a threshold term. It's it's a it's a
Speaker 1: it's a it's a term that opens up a lot
Speaker 1: of sub terms. It's love, respect all wrapped into one.
Speaker 1: Because I believe if you do not admire and admire
Speaker 1: is important. I'm loving this moment. If you do not
Speaker 1: admire your significant other, the respect isn't there, and then
Speaker 1: the relationship is going to be imbalanced. So there's gonna
Speaker 1: be some sort of superiority or so here's the thing. Uh,
Speaker 1: I'm always oh, what's the one word patients? What's the
Speaker 1: one word trust? What's one word wisdom? Humor? Those are
Speaker 1: all words. Admire gives you the opportunity to go through
Speaker 1: the door of admiration to all those other things. Tonya,
Speaker 1: this is let's mark the day. Let's mark the China repport.
Speaker 1: I like it. Don't let us forget this admire is
Speaker 1: the word. It's the word way better than wing. Yeah
Speaker 1: that on air with Ryan Secrets. This is very interesting, guys.
Speaker 1: We're about to find out what a divorce photographer is. Here.
Speaker 1: You know what a wedding photographer is, but what is
Speaker 1: a divorce photographer? Ali cr To is a divorce photographer.
Speaker 1: She spent ten years as a wedding photographer and decided,
Speaker 1: you know what, I'm gonna turn this whole business upside
Speaker 1: down and she's now calling herself a divorce photographer and
Speaker 1: it just was It piqued my interest. So Ali, good morning,
Speaker 1: how are you. I'm great, how are you doing? Super good?
Speaker 1: So clarify for us what is a divorce photographer? Yeah?
Speaker 1: So in my cases, I kind of feel like I
Speaker 1: just made it up. But okay, I've looked into other
Speaker 1: types of divorce photography and there are two ways of
Speaker 1: doing it. So one is like we're carrying down our
Speaker 1: old life, We're burning the wedding dress, we're tearing up
Speaker 1: the photo, and that's not what they do. So instead
Speaker 1: of tearing down the old life, I'm really focused more
Speaker 1: on like building up the new phase of life. So
Speaker 1: honoring what someone's been through and just honoring who they
Speaker 1: are and giving them a chance to take beautiful photos
Speaker 1: of themselves to feel good again after going through so much.
Speaker 1: So just building confidence, getting hair and makeup done so
Speaker 1: that they can come and doing really good. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: then they have these photos that you know, some will
Speaker 1: use them for dating dating profiles, because online dating is
Speaker 1: very much the theo thing that they're probably going to
Speaker 1: turn to. Um some of them will just put them
Speaker 1: on social media and like make them their profile pictures.
Speaker 1: And I love seeing that because they get so many
Speaker 1: positive comments from their friends and family that it just
Speaker 1: makes me like, I love that. It's a great So
Speaker 1: you get that there's a psychological moment to this, and
Speaker 1: there's also the marketability of the photos, right yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean there's so much that they can do with the photos.
Speaker 1: It kind of started because I was photographing brands, people
Speaker 1: doing small business branding, and they were like women who
Speaker 1: just happened to In my case, it's not that it's
Speaker 1: only for women, but most of the people have come
Speaker 1: to me have been women. So they came to me
Speaker 1: they were looking to start a new phase of life.
Speaker 1: They hired me for branding photography, like starting their business,
Speaker 1: and then I realized these women going through or recently
Speaker 1: they've gone through divorce, Like, there's some of my favorite clients,
Speaker 1: and I thought, maybe there's something there from wedding wedding
Speaker 1: photography client base into the client base who got divorced
Speaker 1: that you still work with. Yeah, so I was a
Speaker 1: wedding photographer. I started in as a wedding photographer and
Speaker 1: that was great for many years. And then do you
Speaker 1: I don't know if you remember, but um, that's not
Speaker 1: it's not a great time to be a wedding photographer.
Speaker 1: So so basically like half of my business just disappeared
Speaker 1: that year. So people were rescheduling their weddings, they were
Speaker 1: postponed or postponing, they were canceling, they were just like
Speaker 1: everything is going on. So, um, it's such a very
Speaker 1: entrepreneurial of you. Divorce. I had to try something new. Yeah,
Speaker 1: let let me send people to check you out. If
Speaker 1: you're going through a divorce or if you're getting married,
Speaker 1: inevitably half of you will go through one. So let
Speaker 1: me give you nothing but joy from this guy today.
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to be a realists. Let's which stats. Yeah,
Speaker 1: somebody get the stats on that, Like, really get the
Speaker 1: stats all right now, Alice c r Toe Okay Alice
Speaker 1: on Instagram Instagram, she's a divorce. Maybe you don't need
Speaker 1: it today. Put in your pocket. Ali, how crazy would
Speaker 1: it be if one of your next clients is somebody
Speaker 1: that you shot their wedding years ago and now that's coming.
Speaker 1: That's what she's doing. I know that's what she's doing.
Speaker 1: But I'm just saying that she had the same client
Speaker 1: for both options, Like basically that she married them, she
Speaker 1: took their pictures, and now sends later. That's half of
Speaker 1: her base now, But you're right if that's no, I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm waiting for that day. Wouldn't that be wild if
Speaker 1: that happened? And it would be truly real? Guys, Guys, guys,
Speaker 1: I am not making this stuff up. Forty one of
Speaker 1: all I'm reading it online, and everything online is true
Speaker 1: of all first marriages and in divorce, sixty percent of
Speaker 1: second marriages and seventy of third Guy. There, work it out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're good for you. Lower You're gonna be busy the
Speaker 1: rest of your life. Thank you for coming on with us.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much. All right, you take good care,
Speaker 1: all right, bye bye, Thank you. I didn't know those
Speaker 1: other facts. Those are scarier's. I mean, it's yeah, if
Speaker 1: you're ready to quit on the first one, and chances
Speaker 1: are it's probably not gonna work again on the second one.
Speaker 1: Not too much for me. On a Tuesday, Hey Rob,
Speaker 1: good morning Rob. How are you good? How are you?
Speaker 1: I'm good. So it says here on the call screen
Speaker 1: you've been interviewing for a company so like a job. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I've been on the jump job hunt lately, and um
Speaker 1: with this one company that I'm really excited about. I
Speaker 1: gone through three lounds of interviews and I'm feeling really
Speaker 1: good about it. But this morning I woke up to
Speaker 1: an email from the last person I interviewed with, and
Speaker 1: I'm not sure what it means. So the body of
Speaker 1: the email is blank, but the subject reads Amber, and
Speaker 1: I'm obviously not Amber, and I never interviewed with an Amber,
Speaker 1: so I don't know whether to like really respond or ignoring.
Speaker 1: And I'm also kind of worry about that they're giving
Speaker 1: this Amber person the job, and I don't know what
Speaker 1: to do. Weird email from one of the people you
Speaker 1: interviewed where let's see, the email is blank, there's nothing, yeah, nothing,
Speaker 1: and that subject line has Amber in it, and then
Speaker 1: it was sent there's nothing in the space the potential
Speaker 1: new boss of yours. Yeah, I just delete it by Yeah.
Speaker 1: I guess it's something you're not supposed to have and
Speaker 1: you're just gonna have to wait. They're gonna get back
Speaker 1: to you, obviously and let you know, right, I don't
Speaker 1: know I would respond back, what do you say, um,
Speaker 1: accidentally sent this? Hey? Yeah, did you actually wrong receiver?
Speaker 1: Or what is this? I'm not Amber? Uh yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that seems like I don't want it. I don't want to, Like,
Speaker 1: you know, with jobs, they can pick any reason to
Speaker 1: not pick you. So I'm just worried. So do a
Speaker 1: polite uh reply. I think this was misdirected. I think
Speaker 1: so because not saying anything already shows that you're not
Speaker 1: attention to detail. Okay, you're on my opinion, you're correct.
Speaker 1: That great, So maybe a nice like, um, perhaps this
Speaker 1: is the wrong recipient? Wrong recipient? Did you mean to
Speaker 1: send this? You would be like sorry, never, no, never, sorry? Alright,
Speaker 1: So um that's weakness. That's actually strength. Too easy. We're
Speaker 1: talking about Rob's John, not email guys. He's had three interviews.
Speaker 1: So Rob, I think you don't ask a question. You
Speaker 1: don't say sorry, say wrong recipient, thank you, thank you,
Speaker 1: thank you nice Hello, wrong recipient, thank you, Well, good luck.
Speaker 1: Three interviews, come on, you got this, Rob, Thank you
Speaker 1: guys so much. Good luck. Or he could use it
Speaker 1: as an opportunity to say, so sorry, this is not Amber.
Speaker 1: My name is Rob. Do you have a follow up
Speaker 1: from my third interview? Heay, take out? So sorry, so sorry.
Speaker 1: Hello hello, wrong recipient. No, no, we're on something. Collaborators
Speaker 1: like the second wrong recipient. This is Rob. Since I
Speaker 1: have you? No, no, I have you. I don't know Rob.
Speaker 1: Do you we need your help here? But you're looking
Speaker 1: forward to your feedback from our interview third interview. Yeah,
Speaker 1: oh Rob, this is you got this on. It takes
Speaker 1: five of us, but we got there. You're just you're
Speaker 1: not so sorry. No, no, no, Rob, good luck, brother
Speaker 1: with the job. Okay, all right, thank you guys so much.
Speaker 1: All right, thank you. It takes a while, right, but
Speaker 1: we sort of read the engines and then boom. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's that's what brainstormy is all about. So I get
Speaker 1: all kinds of calls, all kinds of emails I can
Speaker 1: usually to, and what's apps? I get weird what's apps too?
Speaker 1: You can you can just read the first couple of words.
Speaker 1: They try to hook you in to open you up good.
Speaker 1: I don't fall for it for number to fall for
Speaker 1: it meaning a number that's not in my context. Don't
Speaker 1: fall for it anyway. What's the email scams? And we
Speaker 1: should So this is the newest one. Basically, scammers send
Speaker 1: you a bogus receipt from a purchase that you didn't make,
Speaker 1: in hopes that you're going to try to fix the
Speaker 1: situation by clicking some of the things. But the receipt
Speaker 1: is from Apple, and so it looks super legit. It's
Speaker 1: got the logo, it looks exactly like an Apple receipt does.
Speaker 1: Like whenever you buy an app whatever, you get them
Speaker 1: in your email it says like, for example, UM, thank
Speaker 1: you for your purchase of Spider Man No Way Home
Speaker 1: for nothing crazy like maybe it was a purchase, but
Speaker 1: you know for a fact, like I did not rent
Speaker 1: this movie. I did not buy this movie. And then
Speaker 1: right under it, it says click here if you want
Speaker 1: to cancel your order. So you're kind of, you know,
Speaker 1: furious at this moment, and I think most people would
Speaker 1: just go to click there to cancel the order right
Speaker 1: away because you don't want to be charged with And
Speaker 1: that's when they get your passwords. That's when they get
Speaker 1: your credit card info, that's anything linked to your Apple account.
Speaker 1: Who knows you know what I mean. So a good
Speaker 1: rule of thumb with this is if you just hover
Speaker 1: your mouse over the click here hyperlink, you'll see like
Speaker 1: a pop up of the website that it's trying to
Speaker 1: take you too. And right there is when you'll notice
Speaker 1: that it's not Apple. Could these brilliant, brilliant brains refocus
Speaker 1: and do some good for us because this stuff is
Speaker 1: so out there in terms of it's cleverness and it's intelligence.
Speaker 1: We need help on the other side, guys, I know
Speaker 1: we definitely did. Like the the amount of time they
Speaker 1: spend on this stuff. It's like the greatest I saw
Speaker 1: sixty minutes. The greatest threat is a nemesis of ours,
Speaker 1: a country nemesis of ours, stealing our I p hacking
Speaker 1: into all of our secrets, trade secrets. Maybe this is
Speaker 1: what that is. I don't know, I don't know who,
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's a boutique operation or a
Speaker 1: nation operation. I just feel so bad and not to
Speaker 1: call out old people. But like I'll put my parents
Speaker 1: in that category. I just feel like this really targets
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's like my dad would
Speaker 1: for sure click on somebody and then boom, there you go,
Speaker 1: and it's like a domino effect. So just be aware
Speaker 1: of any little thing. Ask you to do something, you
Speaker 1: kind of don't do it. I just don't do anything.
Speaker 1: Just don't do anything. A matter of fact, throw it away,
Speaker 1: put the phone down. On Air with Ryan Seacrest, We're
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