WEBVTT - Best Bits with Abby: PART 1 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:05.200 It's the Best Bits of the Week with Morgan number two. 0:00:07.520 --> 0:00:10.240 What is up? Y'all, welcome to the Best Bits this weekend. 0:00:10.240 --> 0:00:12.559 I'm excited to be hanging out with not only y'all, 0:00:12.560 --> 0:00:15.000 but also Abby Is on this weekend. What's up? Abby? 0:00:15.200 --> 0:00:17.439 What's up? We got a lot to talk about. Because 0:00:17.440 --> 0:00:19.000 you are at the number one spot. I'm just gonna 0:00:19.000 --> 0:00:21.759 give it away right now. We're not gonna get there yet. 0:00:22.000 --> 0:00:25.080 You're just at the number one spot. That's cool. Yeah, right, 0:00:25.360 --> 0:00:26.920 I got a lot to talk about this week. We're 0:00:26.920 --> 0:00:30.240 gonna dive right in. Coming in at number seven. We 0:00:30.360 --> 0:00:33.960 talked about the experience I had with the sixty seven 0:00:34.000 --> 0:00:37.000 dollars bagel. A lot of drama in my life on 0:00:37.000 --> 0:00:40.680 this day for no reason, Yes, and that's just what 0:00:40.720 --> 0:00:42.559 it is. And I'll let you guys hear the bid 0:00:42.640 --> 0:00:44.360 on the just the Best Bits so you can hear 0:00:44.400 --> 0:00:46.519 why it was a sixty seven dollars bagel. But I 0:00:46.560 --> 0:00:49.680 also want to talk about something else that's been happening recently. 0:00:49.720 --> 0:00:51.839 And I don't know if you've seen anything or experience 0:00:51.920 --> 0:00:55.760 anything crazy lately in public. Have you had anything that's 0:00:55.800 --> 0:00:59.400 happened and you're like, wow, that was weird. Well, it 0:00:59.440 --> 0:01:01.040 was funny when you were saying that, because the exact 0:01:01.080 --> 0:01:03.279 same thing happened to me. I don't want to give 0:01:03.280 --> 0:01:04.520 it if you're not going to give it away what 0:01:04.600 --> 0:01:06.160 it is. No, go ahead and give it away. I 0:01:06.240 --> 0:01:09.200 share our story. Yes, okay, they'll hear the sixty seven 0:01:09.240 --> 0:01:12.280 dollars bagel. Okay, that's true. No, Well, I was going 0:01:12.319 --> 0:01:14.920 in to get I ordered online. Was gonna go inside 0:01:14.959 --> 0:01:17.760 and pick it up. And I parked real quick, and 0:01:18.600 --> 0:01:20.399 it actually took longer than I thought in there. I 0:01:20.400 --> 0:01:21.880 was in there like ten minutes when I come out 0:01:21.959 --> 0:01:24.120 and there is a ticket on my car. Wait, was 0:01:24.120 --> 0:01:27.200 it also a bagel? No, it was Chipotle. It was 0:01:27.240 --> 0:01:29.440 also a bagel. Then dang, will you live the same 0:01:29.520 --> 0:01:31.920 life on different days? You know? But I was mine 0:01:32.000 --> 0:01:33.759 was like the same price, and I was like, are 0:01:33.760 --> 0:01:35.559 you kidding me? All I wanted was like a seven 0:01:35.600 --> 0:01:37.720 dollar bull and I'm walking out it's like, yeah, like 0:01:37.800 --> 0:01:40.760 eighty bucks. And what makes me mad is the parking guy. 0:01:40.959 --> 0:01:42.880 I think he was right there and he watched me 0:01:42.959 --> 0:01:46.520 go in, like he watched me, and they sit in 0:01:46.560 --> 0:01:48.920 their cars, yeah, and they wait for you to leave. 0:01:49.480 --> 0:01:52.400 I have noticed. I thought that was so mean. I 0:01:52.520 --> 0:01:54.000 was like, you could get you could have given me 0:01:54.000 --> 0:01:55.840 a warning, like, hey, I'm gonna have to give you 0:01:55.880 --> 0:01:57.720 a ticket if you don't like pay or something. And 0:01:57.800 --> 0:01:59.960 this was the one where it's like the first hours free. 0:02:00.400 --> 0:02:02.720 You know, wait then why did he give you a ticket? 0:02:03.320 --> 0:02:05.280 Because I didn't have the receipt in there, That's what 0:02:05.320 --> 0:02:07.080 I put on there, no receipt in dash. And I 0:02:07.120 --> 0:02:10.680 was like, so ironic that the first hour is free. 0:02:10.720 --> 0:02:13.760 I get like the way that they keep it on 0:02:13.880 --> 0:02:16.560 track that an hour is free by like showing the 0:02:16.639 --> 0:02:19.079 receipt in the dash, because otherwise you could say it's 0:02:19.440 --> 0:02:21.839 only been an hour if you've been there for five hours. Yes, 0:02:22.040 --> 0:02:24.560 I get it, but it's just weird that the irony 0:02:24.560 --> 0:02:26.520 of them saying it's the first hour free, but they 0:02:26.560 --> 0:02:29.880 still give you a ticket. Yes. I didn't even realize that. Really, 0:02:29.880 --> 0:02:31.359 I didn't know the rules of that parking lot. I 0:02:31.400 --> 0:02:32.640 was just like, I'm gonna be in and out, no 0:02:32.720 --> 0:02:34.920 big deal of it. Yeah, there you go. Yeah, so 0:02:35.000 --> 0:02:37.160 you and I both learned the lesson that if you're 0:02:37.160 --> 0:02:40.880 in Nashville and you're parking anywhere, it's likely not free, right, 0:02:40.919 --> 0:02:42.960 and they're watching you they're watching you walk in and 0:02:42.960 --> 0:02:44.839 they're like ha ha yeah, and they sit in their 0:02:44.880 --> 0:02:47.639 cars and they watch you and they and they do 0:02:47.720 --> 0:02:51.960 that because they don't want you to yell at him. 0:02:52.080 --> 0:02:55.680 That's my that's that's my thing. Listen, I take you know. 0:02:55.760 --> 0:02:58.360 I feel totally bad for these people because this has 0:02:58.400 --> 0:03:00.600 to be a very hard job. You probably you're just 0:03:00.639 --> 0:03:02.160 trying to do your job. This is what you got 0:03:02.240 --> 0:03:05.240 hired to do. But like everybody thinks you're the hole. Yes, 0:03:05.919 --> 0:03:07.519 And so they sit in their cars with because they're 0:03:07.520 --> 0:03:10.079 scary scared of people. No. I had thought about that too. 0:03:10.120 --> 0:03:11.720 I was like, I would hate to have that job 0:03:11.760 --> 0:03:14.799 because you're making people's days really bad. And honestly, I 0:03:14.840 --> 0:03:17.160 think I would do any other job beside that one. Yes, 0:03:17.760 --> 0:03:21.079 like just about anything else beside that one. Like that's 0:03:21.080 --> 0:03:23.040 like the opposite of pimp and joy. Like it's the 0:03:23.520 --> 0:03:26.440 like complete opposite, you know. It's like, oh, especially like 0:03:26.480 --> 0:03:28.960 if it's a minute over or like they just they 0:03:28.960 --> 0:03:31.960 were parked there for five minutes. Yeah, I'm like, y'all 0:03:31.960 --> 0:03:34.840 come on, Also, parking lots like y'all got don't have 0:03:34.880 --> 0:03:36.720 anything more important for people to do than just sit 0:03:36.720 --> 0:03:38.560 there and control people who park in the parking lots. 0:03:38.760 --> 0:03:40.960 I know that's how they make their money. I know. 0:03:42.360 --> 0:03:45.960 As far as other things, other crazy things, I don't really. 0:03:46.960 --> 0:03:50.200 I guess my my month has not been crazy enough. 0:03:50.680 --> 0:03:53.080 That's a good thing. I have another one that happened 0:03:53.120 --> 0:03:55.440 that was interesting. So I had went to a restaurant 0:03:55.480 --> 0:03:59.480 for a birthday party and as we are walking in 0:04:00.040 --> 0:04:04.160 a cake and cookies got confiscated and they were They 0:04:04.160 --> 0:04:08.680 told us that it's an FDA regulation against FDA regulations 0:04:08.720 --> 0:04:11.760 to have outside food or drinks in there. And I 0:04:11.800 --> 0:04:14.240 was like, I don't think that's an FDA regulation. I 0:04:14.280 --> 0:04:17.159 think that's just one of your rules, which is fine 0:04:17.200 --> 0:04:19.159 if that's one of your rules. But I found it 0:04:19.240 --> 0:04:21.400 very ironic because I had just been at the same 0:04:21.480 --> 0:04:25.400 restaurant for a dog birthday party that had cake and cookies, 0:04:26.000 --> 0:04:28.720 no issues. And it's not like you were bringing in 0:04:28.720 --> 0:04:31.880 an alcohol, right, No, so that shouldn't that's that would 0:04:31.880 --> 0:04:35.119 be FDDA or something. Yeah, And like, I just didn't 0:04:35.160 --> 0:04:37.039 understand it. I've never been at a place where they 0:04:37.080 --> 0:04:39.679 didn't allow, for like a birthday to bring in a cake. 0:04:40.640 --> 0:04:43.760 Did you stay? We ended up staying because there was 0:04:43.760 --> 0:04:46.120 like thirty people there. I'm like, it's also not like 0:04:46.120 --> 0:04:48.440 they were not getting business. They were getting a lot 0:04:48.480 --> 0:04:49.920 of people to buy a lot of drinks and a 0:04:50.000 --> 0:04:53.120 lot of food, right, I don't understand that. I've never 0:04:53.160 --> 0:04:56.280 seen that either. And they confiscated until the birthday girl 0:04:56.360 --> 0:04:57.839 laughed and she's like, hey, can I have my cake 0:04:57.880 --> 0:04:59.479 and cookies? And they gave it to her as she 0:04:59.520 --> 0:05:01.960 was leaving. Well in the world, any time I go, 0:05:02.000 --> 0:05:04.080 they're like, oh, can I bring plates? Like do you 0:05:04.120 --> 0:05:07.799 need silverwear? Like that's so weird. Yep, I've never heard 0:05:07.800 --> 0:05:09.839 of that happening. And so maybe if somebody's like in 0:05:09.880 --> 0:05:12.080 the FDA and know something that I don't know, and 0:05:12.160 --> 0:05:14.080 like there's certain restaurants have just always allowed it and 0:05:14.080 --> 0:05:17.200 they're not supposed to. Yeah, I don't know that is. 0:05:17.360 --> 0:05:19.919 But this place also like they do run on tips 0:05:19.960 --> 0:05:21.719 if you're on the inside. If you're on the outside, 0:05:21.760 --> 0:05:23.680 you order at the bar and then you go sit outside. 0:05:24.080 --> 0:05:26.200 So maybe it's because they, you know, they have no 0:05:26.320 --> 0:05:28.640 shame with they don't have to worry about tipping and 0:05:28.760 --> 0:05:31.599 anything like that. They just are doing their jobs, you 0:05:31.640 --> 0:05:33.599 know what I mean. Maybe like servers allow it because 0:05:33.680 --> 0:05:36.919 they want it to be tipped good. Yeah, that's so weird. 0:05:37.160 --> 0:05:39.960 Is that strange? Yes, just weird things that I keep 0:05:40.040 --> 0:05:42.080 running into and I'm like, why are these things happening? 0:05:42.440 --> 0:05:44.919 Why are they? Another why is why do I go 0:05:45.000 --> 0:05:46.960 to a place now and I pay fifteen dollars for 0:05:47.040 --> 0:05:50.440 high noon? Like you know, like are they fifteen dollars? 0:05:51.040 --> 0:05:53.800 I'm not even kidding. Like the little one when we 0:05:53.800 --> 0:05:55.719 were at the hockey game for you, you you had said 0:05:55.720 --> 0:05:57.240 that when you're buying your drink, You're like, why this 0:05:57.320 --> 0:05:59.800 fifteen dollars? Yes, because I was gonna get the big 0:05:59.800 --> 0:06:01.200 one and I was like I don't need that. I'm 0:06:01.240 --> 0:06:03.159 going to be walk around with this gigantic you know, 0:06:03.279 --> 0:06:05.359 truly or whatever. I was like, I'll just get a 0:06:05.400 --> 0:06:07.640 small one and whatever. And it was still fifteen. I 0:06:07.680 --> 0:06:10.359 was like, I could buy a whole eight pack or 0:06:10.520 --> 0:06:13.000 twelve packet. How they get you drunk and how they 0:06:13.000 --> 0:06:16.440 get you spend money? Yeah, it's great, there's another thing, 0:06:16.520 --> 0:06:19.080 but yeah, everything's just expensive and Nashville that's another part 0:06:19.080 --> 0:06:21.640 of that, and a lot of places because of inflation, 0:06:21.800 --> 0:06:26.320 I believe, yes, inflation. Well, besides weird things going on, 0:06:26.360 --> 0:06:28.840 I want to talk about also some cool things going on. 0:06:28.880 --> 0:06:30.840 We had Jordan Davis on the show this week and 0:06:31.120 --> 0:06:33.400 it was really funny. He played a Jordan game in 0:06:33.480 --> 0:06:35.839 a Davis game where he had to name the famous 0:06:35.920 --> 0:06:38.159 Jordan and the famous Davis. If he did well, he 0:06:38.200 --> 0:06:40.919 got to talk about his new album. He didn't do 0:06:41.040 --> 0:06:43.960 very well, and that was pretty hilarious. But just speaking 0:06:44.000 --> 0:06:47.560 of artists and people coming in, I recently saw Nico 0:06:47.640 --> 0:06:50.599 Moon in concert and it was so good. I was 0:06:50.640 --> 0:06:52.880 there too, but I got there kind of late and 0:06:52.960 --> 0:06:54.599 I didn't see you, but I saw your Instagram. I 0:06:54.600 --> 0:06:56.800 was like, she's here too. Yes, it was so good. 0:06:57.160 --> 0:06:59.920 So love his vibes. He's very like Beechy Country. I 0:07:00.080 --> 0:07:02.360 would say he's like in the realm of the next 0:07:02.480 --> 0:07:06.880 Kinney Chesney. Yes, very much. Those vibes like good, good vibes. 0:07:06.880 --> 0:07:09.720 But what is it good times? Good times? Yes, like 0:07:10.000 --> 0:07:12.520 that is like the definition of him. He is the 0:07:12.520 --> 0:07:16.600 most happy guy and it's yes, Yes, it was a 0:07:16.600 --> 0:07:18.600 really good concert. I'm glad that somebody else felt that 0:07:18.640 --> 0:07:20.400 way to it, because I'm I've been a huge fan 0:07:20.440 --> 0:07:22.600 of his for so long that I you know, when 0:07:22.600 --> 0:07:24.080 you're like a big fan of someone, you're not sure 0:07:24.080 --> 0:07:27.760 if you're like, um, seeing a bigger picture. You're just 0:07:27.840 --> 0:07:30.800 kind of like zoned in on them. There's a word 0:07:30.840 --> 0:07:32.280 for that, but it is not coming to my mind 0:07:32.360 --> 0:07:35.280 right now. But you know, I just didn't know if 0:07:35.320 --> 0:07:36.720 I was like, oh my god, I love him so 0:07:36.800 --> 0:07:38.760 much that he's just so good and maybe he's not 0:07:38.800 --> 0:07:40.600 that good, but I'm glad to know that he's just 0:07:40.640 --> 0:07:43.080 that good. Yes, and I liked seeing him in that 0:07:43.080 --> 0:07:46.240 setting too. That was cool. Yes, like an actual concert 0:07:46.440 --> 0:07:49.680 because I guess we've only really seen him in studio 0:07:50.040 --> 0:07:51.880 and that's just kind of like acoustic or whatever. So 0:07:51.960 --> 0:07:54.920 like he his songs like really need like a full band. Yeah, 0:07:54.960 --> 0:07:57.000 they need the whole vibes. Yes, so that's not the 0:07:57.000 --> 0:08:00.000 whole good energy. Yes, you know, Okay, he was really good. 0:08:00.120 --> 0:08:02.679 Have you seen anybody else in concert that you really liked? Okay? 0:08:02.720 --> 0:08:07.000 I just saw fits and the tantrums. Oh yeah. And 0:08:07.040 --> 0:08:09.120 it was so random. My friend just texted me it 0:08:09.200 --> 0:08:10.800 was Valentine's Day and I was like, I'm not gonna 0:08:10.800 --> 0:08:12.400 sit at home, so I'm not gonna I'm gonna go 0:08:12.480 --> 0:08:14.560 to that. And it was really fun, talk about like 0:08:14.640 --> 0:08:17.960 happy and yeah, so much energy. It was so fun. 0:08:18.360 --> 0:08:21.760 They are I would say in the alternative genre. Yeah, 0:08:21.840 --> 0:08:24.120 isn't that kind of realm okay? And had you listen 0:08:24.160 --> 0:08:25.960 to their music before it all? I knew like three 0:08:26.040 --> 0:08:28.960 of their songs, but like all of them were so good, 0:08:29.280 --> 0:08:31.480 Like I was just in a really good mood. Is 0:08:31.520 --> 0:08:33.200 that a type of concert where they're like jumping up 0:08:33.240 --> 0:08:35.520 and down? Yes? So where you jumping up and down? Yes? 0:08:35.559 --> 0:08:37.079 I was. And it's like that's one of the ones 0:08:37.120 --> 0:08:39.080 where you don't know how to dance to it. My 0:08:39.120 --> 0:08:40.559 friend and I were even talking about that. She's like, 0:08:40.559 --> 0:08:42.319 how do we dance to this kind of music? Everybody 0:08:42.360 --> 0:08:45.040 was like wild, There was just like no any like 0:08:45.080 --> 0:08:47.440 people were just crazy. But it was really fun. Yeah, 0:08:47.440 --> 0:08:50.120 it's like the imagetween of like grinding and two step 0:08:50.160 --> 0:08:53.760 in Yeah, like where is that middle area? Exactly? Like 0:08:53.800 --> 0:08:55.400 those are ones you're like you know how to do those, 0:08:55.400 --> 0:08:57.040 but this I have no it and just go why 0:08:57.080 --> 0:09:00.240 I don't even know, but it was so fun. That's 0:09:00.280 --> 0:09:02.719 a good one, and they are really good. Anybody else 0:09:02.800 --> 0:09:05.680 you've seen it? Feel like you've been busy lately? Yeah. 0:09:05.679 --> 0:09:08.160 I went to Megan Maroney too. She had like the 0:09:08.240 --> 0:09:11.559 showcase deal. Yeah, where like a lot of label people 0:09:11.640 --> 0:09:15.120 go and it was so good. Like I only decided 0:09:15.160 --> 0:09:17.920 to see more songs of hers. Yeah, like Tennessee Orange 0:09:17.960 --> 0:09:19.960 was really one of the only ones I knew. And 0:09:20.000 --> 0:09:22.320 then I'm not pretty I knew that one. Yeah, and 0:09:22.360 --> 0:09:25.440 she just released that one recently, yes, yeah, yeah, but 0:09:25.640 --> 0:09:28.200 I was so impro I'm excited for her album. Like 0:09:28.200 --> 0:09:29.840 I didn't know much about her, and I got to 0:09:29.880 --> 0:09:31.880 talk to her, Like she came around and like said 0:09:31.920 --> 0:09:33.680 hi to people, and I was like, she's so sweet. 0:09:34.760 --> 0:09:38.560 She's also gorgeous duo, Oh my gosh. It is a ridiculous. 0:09:39.120 --> 0:09:40.599 And I think she has like a stylist. I'm like, 0:09:40.600 --> 0:09:43.280 how fun would that be? Stylist? You know, just be 0:09:43.320 --> 0:09:44.559 like this is how I want my hair to day. 0:09:44.640 --> 0:09:48.440 Oh right, that's my dream at least like big events 0:09:48.440 --> 0:09:50.680 when you're like, yes, taking pictures and doing a whole 0:09:50.720 --> 0:09:52.760 lot of things. Yeah, just like events like that, like 0:09:52.880 --> 0:09:56.319 be like, oh I'm doing this, Hey you do my hair? Yeah? No, 0:09:56.400 --> 0:09:58.719 and it on mine. Whenever I do big events, it's 0:09:58.760 --> 0:10:00.840 me in the bathroom trying to watch YouTube video and 0:10:00.840 --> 0:10:03.000 put my hair up, and I'm like, that's not gonna 0:10:03.040 --> 0:10:04.640 go quiet as I planned. Is that what you do? 0:10:04.840 --> 0:10:07.600 Like you do like tutorials. Oh yeah, because like whenever 0:10:07.760 --> 0:10:10.000 I do red carpets or anything like that, I like, 0:10:10.040 --> 0:10:12.360 I don't want to pay anybody because I'm not getting 0:10:12.360 --> 0:10:14.520 paid to go do red carpets, Like it's just part 0:10:14.559 --> 0:10:18.320 of kind of the job essentially, and so I'm not 0:10:18.360 --> 0:10:21.320 gonna pay more than i'm getting, right right, there's no 0:10:21.400 --> 0:10:24.520 benefit of that. So I'll be on the YouTube tutorial 0:10:24.520 --> 0:10:26.440 and I'll be like I need this for makeup and 0:10:26.480 --> 0:10:29.120 I need this for my hair, and then I'll spend 0:10:29.160 --> 0:10:31.040 like three hours beforehand trying to figure it out, and 0:10:31.040 --> 0:10:32.720 I'll think I get it, and then I like have 0:10:32.760 --> 0:10:34.960 to redo it, and it's just it's a disaster. Like 0:10:35.000 --> 0:10:37.319 that is a stressful day for me. My gosh, No, 0:10:37.520 --> 0:10:40.320 you always look so good, like it always does look 0:10:40.320 --> 0:10:43.240 like a professional does it. But if I appreciate that, 0:10:43.000 --> 0:10:45.920 but just know that it's me and my bathroom stressing 0:10:45.920 --> 0:10:48.120 out for like three hours trying to figure it out, 0:10:48.880 --> 0:10:52.360 and you just mastered Like the what is it? I 0:10:52.400 --> 0:10:55.319 had it that yes, that I sat on one Friday 0:10:55.400 --> 0:10:57.320 night and I was just literally practicing my cat eyes. 0:10:57.720 --> 0:11:00.960 I am not getting it. I say that, like I 0:11:01.080 --> 0:11:04.920 do this scrap that's hilarious because you would think it's 0:11:04.920 --> 0:11:07.440 not that difficult, right, but I would think it is. 0:11:07.600 --> 0:11:08.840 And then you start to do it and you're like, 0:11:08.880 --> 0:11:11.520 I like, you think you got a steady hand, but 0:11:11.679 --> 0:11:14.080 you don't. And they're not even you have to start 0:11:14.120 --> 0:11:16.040 over because you're like, oh, this one goes up too much. 0:11:16.520 --> 0:11:19.480 I've not mastered that so well, and I have learned. 0:11:19.559 --> 0:11:21.400 I will say, like the pro tip that I've learned 0:11:21.400 --> 0:11:23.840 in the cati, because the caties are so popular right now, 0:11:24.240 --> 0:11:26.640 is that you can do them and then use like 0:11:26.720 --> 0:11:30.160 I use I'm going to pronounce this wrong my cellular water, 0:11:30.520 --> 0:11:33.360 I don't know what it's. Yeah, the miss like, yeah, 0:11:33.400 --> 0:11:36.040 I don't know, just saying missiler. I don't know. I 0:11:36.080 --> 0:11:38.520 don't know because I've never heard anybody say it before. 0:11:38.559 --> 0:11:41.280 I don't know. But I use that and I like, 0:11:41.400 --> 0:11:43.480 what if if it's too thick, or if it goes 0:11:43.559 --> 0:11:45.040 up too much, or it goes a different direction, and 0:11:45.160 --> 0:11:46.520 use a qute tip, put some of that on there, 0:11:46.520 --> 0:11:48.240 and I like, wipe it and then I just kind 0:11:48.240 --> 0:11:51.520 of readjust it. Oh, so pro tip, like you don't 0:11:51.520 --> 0:11:52.800 have to get rid of the whole thing and like 0:11:52.840 --> 0:11:54.880 start all over. You just kind of use that and 0:11:55.880 --> 0:11:59.280 like afterwards too, I'll put kincealer and make like a 0:11:59.320 --> 0:12:03.280 straight line it's like totally straight, instead of just leaving 0:12:03.320 --> 0:12:05.839 it as it is. I kind of like basically I 0:12:05.960 --> 0:12:09.440 color and then color on top of it. Okay, yeah 0:12:09.760 --> 0:12:12.240 that's if that's it makes any stance at all. I'm 0:12:12.280 --> 0:12:14.920 still learning, but that's helped me a lot. Another one 0:12:14.920 --> 0:12:17.440 that I cannot get a smoky eye Like it's like 0:12:17.480 --> 0:12:20.280 the best look, but I look like a raccoon when 0:12:20.360 --> 0:12:22.880 I do it, Like it's so like under my eyes 0:12:22.880 --> 0:12:26.160 it's so dark. I just can't do. The smoky eye 0:12:26.240 --> 0:12:28.400 is on the is the eyeshadows it is. But I 0:12:28.440 --> 0:12:30.360 feel like you can do the one where it's below 0:12:30.400 --> 0:12:33.320 also have you seen that? Well, you can do if 0:12:33.360 --> 0:12:35.640 I ever and it was really bad for my eyes, 0:12:35.679 --> 0:12:37.600 which is why I've really stopped doing it. But if 0:12:37.679 --> 0:12:39.480 I ever wear eyeline or below, I always have to 0:12:39.480 --> 0:12:41.800 put it on the inside because otherwise if I don't, 0:12:41.840 --> 0:12:46.959 it like melts down my face. It does. I put 0:12:46.960 --> 0:12:49.120 eyeliner on the top, but not the bottom. No longer 0:12:49.120 --> 0:12:52.360 the bottom. Oh wow, Okay, yeah, I feel one that 0:12:52.400 --> 0:12:56.600 works like the liquid eyeliner that doesn't that like stays good. Well, 0:12:56.640 --> 0:12:58.080 And I don't know why. I think for so many 0:12:58.120 --> 0:12:59.760 years I put it on the inside of my eye 0:12:59.800 --> 0:13:01.600 that off, I put it underneath. It just looks weird 0:13:01.640 --> 0:13:04.240 to me. Wow. Yeah, I never know. It's really bad 0:13:04.240 --> 0:13:05.760 for your eyes. You're not supposed to do it. You're 0:13:06.000 --> 0:13:10.280 not because that's right there. You're basically drawing on your eyeline. 0:13:10.320 --> 0:13:12.520 Oh you are. You're one hundred percent drawing on the eyelieline. 0:13:12.600 --> 0:13:15.920 It is not good for eel Oh my gosh. Yeah no, 0:13:16.000 --> 0:13:17.199 I did that for a little bit, and I was like, 0:13:17.240 --> 0:13:19.720 I don't think this is good. This this hurts. I 0:13:19.840 --> 0:13:21.800 know when it never hurt. But I was like, I 0:13:21.840 --> 0:13:23.800 know this isn't about For whatever reason, I liked it 0:13:23.840 --> 0:13:25.600 better than the look of the other one I got. 0:13:26.000 --> 0:13:29.080 I started putting some brown ish eyeliner on the bottom 0:13:29.160 --> 0:13:31.520 sometimes if I really want my eyes to pop, yeah, 0:13:31.679 --> 0:13:33.720 or I'll put kind of like a light I'll take 0:13:33.720 --> 0:13:36.280 eyeshadow and put white eyeshadow underneath my eyes or on 0:13:36.320 --> 0:13:38.880 the inside of my eyes. And that I have done that. Yep, 0:13:39.280 --> 0:13:41.920 that helps the eyes pop. But yeah, now I just 0:13:41.960 --> 0:13:44.960 stopped wearing it on the bottom altogether. Wow. M well, 0:13:45.280 --> 0:13:47.840 I didn't even notice. Well. Also, TikTok told me that 0:13:47.920 --> 0:13:49.079 if I wear it on the bottom, it makes me 0:13:49.160 --> 0:13:53.640 look old. So what I'm doing everything wrong? Listen, TikTok 0:13:53.679 --> 0:13:55.240 told me in a lot of ways how old I was, 0:13:55.280 --> 0:13:57.080 and I was like, dang, that's why I started like 0:13:57.320 --> 0:13:59.240 practicing in my eye makeup. I was like, I gotta 0:13:59.320 --> 0:14:01.160 like change this up because of what I'm doing right now, 0:14:01.200 --> 0:14:04.200 I am apparently very old. Yeah, it's I look at 0:14:04.240 --> 0:14:06.080 other people's and I'm just like, man, how did you 0:14:06.120 --> 0:14:07.840 do that? I don't even have any on right now. 0:14:07.880 --> 0:14:10.400 I just I don't. Yeah, but you look good without makeup, 0:14:10.800 --> 0:14:13.240 like you look very pretty. I would have never known 0:14:13.280 --> 0:14:15.520 you to have makeup on today. Really well, I mean 0:14:15.559 --> 0:14:18.319 I still have a little bit of my life room. Well, 0:14:18.720 --> 0:14:21.000 hate didn't come off last night. Hey, you know we 0:14:21.080 --> 0:14:24.720 love a little extra leftover from the night before. I 0:14:24.760 --> 0:14:27.760 will say too, There's something I'm super insecure about. And 0:14:28.120 --> 0:14:30.560 it's gotten better as I've gotten older. But when I 0:14:30.600 --> 0:14:34.240 was in high school, well like middle school, right before 0:14:34.320 --> 0:14:36.440 high school, I had really bad acne and I had 0:14:36.480 --> 0:14:39.400 gone to like a dermatologist, and I had tried everything, 0:14:39.840 --> 0:14:41.800 and there was this is where I found out I 0:14:41.840 --> 0:14:44.400 was allergic. This is like me getting super vulnerable, right. 0:14:44.800 --> 0:14:46.920 This is where I found out I was allergic to sulfa, 0:14:47.240 --> 0:14:50.160 which is like in a lot of medications. You are. Yeah, 0:14:50.200 --> 0:14:52.880 It's also in some beers and some wines. So if 0:14:52.880 --> 0:14:54.840 you ever get headaches after drinking certain things, it's in. 0:14:55.280 --> 0:14:57.960 It's like soul fights. Oh good to know. Yep. Well 0:14:57.960 --> 0:15:00.280 that's why I never drink wine. I never feel good. Yeah, 0:15:00.320 --> 0:15:02.280 particularly red wine, which is why I don't drink a 0:15:02.320 --> 0:15:05.240 lot of red wine. Okay, Yeah, Like I think bud 0:15:05.280 --> 0:15:07.360 Light Platinum at one point when that came out, had 0:15:07.360 --> 0:15:11.240 it in there. Oh geez, random things. I'm learning so much. Okay, 0:15:11.720 --> 0:15:15.800 So I had. But I did this product from the 0:15:15.800 --> 0:15:18.720 dermatologist and it was the only thing that started to 0:15:18.760 --> 0:15:21.280 finally help my skin. And it was like basically the 0:15:21.440 --> 0:15:25.800 solfa based like white makeup wipe that was like not medicated, 0:15:25.920 --> 0:15:29.400 but it was something made specifically to like take away 0:15:29.480 --> 0:15:31.720 makeup and all this stuff. And I loved it and 0:15:31.720 --> 0:15:34.200 it finally helped. It finally had clear skin. But what 0:15:34.360 --> 0:15:37.200 that product did was it like basically took out all 0:15:37.200 --> 0:15:40.960 the pigmentation from my face. So like I've always been 0:15:41.040 --> 0:15:43.360 very white I'm like, I joked that I'm vampire white, 0:15:43.360 --> 0:15:46.840 but I am, like, I'm very, very light skinned. But 0:15:46.920 --> 0:15:50.000 my face became a total different color from the rest 0:15:50.040 --> 0:15:53.040 of my body. Like I was like, if you could, 0:15:53.200 --> 0:15:56.320 my skin is like light skin and that's what most 0:15:56.320 --> 0:15:59.800 people have, but then my face was like a whiteboard. 0:16:00.040 --> 0:16:02.520 Oh my gosh. And so I never go out of 0:16:02.520 --> 0:16:04.360 the house stole at least having some type of like 0:16:04.520 --> 0:16:06.920 bronze or face makeup on because my face is such 0:16:06.920 --> 0:16:08.800 a different color from the rest of my body. Yeah, 0:16:08.840 --> 0:16:11.200 it's gotten as I've gotten older, some of that pigmentation 0:16:11.240 --> 0:16:14.600 has come back because after we realized what was happening, 0:16:14.640 --> 0:16:17.360 I stopped using that product obviously, but it was too late, 0:16:17.400 --> 0:16:19.880 like the damage had been done. That's crazy. And only 0:16:19.960 --> 0:16:22.120 until like maybe the last five years where it really 0:16:22.160 --> 0:16:24.800 has come back, where it's like I can finally and 0:16:24.840 --> 0:16:27.480 now I'll go out in public and not wear makeup. 0:16:27.600 --> 0:16:29.560 But like for so many years, I never wanted to 0:16:29.560 --> 0:16:31.240 wear makeup, but I didn't have a choice. It was 0:16:31.320 --> 0:16:33.640 literally like I was two different colors. It was a 0:16:33.640 --> 0:16:36.400 wild and that can't be good for your skin. No, 0:16:36.880 --> 0:16:39.840 it's like bleaching your skin kind of mean, because I 0:16:40.000 --> 0:16:43.320 was like drying out the acne. Right, that's like what 0:16:43.360 --> 0:16:46.400 it was doing. Well, great product, I mean, like my 0:16:46.520 --> 0:16:48.640 I never had problems after that. That was shortly after 0:16:49.400 --> 0:16:51.640 Shortly after that product is when I finally went on 0:16:51.640 --> 0:16:53.320 birth control, and that was the only thing that actually 0:16:53.440 --> 0:16:55.600 ended up helping and keeping it to go away. My 0:16:55.640 --> 0:16:58.680 hormones were so bad. Wow, yeah, because I'd also started 0:16:58.720 --> 0:17:00.320 I mean, listen to you, am I, but I started 0:17:00.400 --> 0:17:04.200 my my aunt's flow when I was in fourth grade. 0:17:04.560 --> 0:17:09.040 What I was young? What? Yeah, So like everything happened 0:17:09.040 --> 0:17:12.440 for me at a very like quick rate in the world. Yeah. 0:17:12.440 --> 0:17:16.360 So my hormones were not like doing well. And the 0:17:16.400 --> 0:17:18.879 only thing after that product that finally helped was getting 0:17:18.880 --> 0:17:20.440 on birth control, which is I've never been able to 0:17:20.440 --> 0:17:23.880 be off of it because my hormones will go nuts wild. 0:17:24.280 --> 0:17:27.560 Oh my gosh, being a girl, man, I'm telling you, 0:17:27.600 --> 0:17:30.040 being a girl suck. Yeah, it's a lot. Uh huh. 0:17:30.040 --> 0:17:33.120 So that that was a crazy experience for me. But 0:17:33.240 --> 0:17:35.800 um yeah, and I don't even know how we got here. 0:17:35.880 --> 0:17:42.000 But how did we get here? Makeupgan and how pretty 0:17:42.000 --> 0:17:44.639 she is things Megan, I don't know we got a 0:17:44.720 --> 0:17:47.520 makeup Honestly, the hair oh, the her stylist. Okay, yeah, 0:17:47.560 --> 0:17:50.480 the stylist. Yeah, yeah, that's where we got there. I 0:17:50.520 --> 0:17:51.960 was like, I was looking at my notes that I 0:17:52.040 --> 0:17:56.080 was like, we're talking about Nico Moon and concerts. How'n 0:17:56.200 --> 0:17:58.960 get that off track? Love it? It's fine. No, that's 0:17:58.960 --> 0:18:01.160 the best part about the best when we go off track. 0:18:01.280 --> 0:18:04.040 So but yes, back all of that to say that 0:18:04.080 --> 0:18:05.480 there was a lot of things I wasn't able to 0:18:05.480 --> 0:18:07.560 do when I was younger. So now I love exploring 0:18:07.600 --> 0:18:09.960 with makeup and like just sitting there and teaching myself things, 0:18:10.359 --> 0:18:12.080 especially with the help of TikTok. When I see all 0:18:12.080 --> 0:18:14.320 the young people and I know I'm not all I'm 0:18:14.359 --> 0:18:16.960 still considered young, but I see younger people than me 0:18:17.000 --> 0:18:19.320 and they're like, do this, this will like make your 0:18:19.320 --> 0:18:22.040 face look not so old, and I'm like, okay, cool, 0:18:22.040 --> 0:18:23.880 I'll try it. And I don't know what I'm doing. 0:18:24.040 --> 0:18:25.800 But this is a lot of trial on her. It 0:18:25.960 --> 0:18:28.680 is a lot, yeah, and it's I don't know, it's 0:18:28.720 --> 0:18:30.800 hard for me to get it, oh, because there's so 0:18:30.800 --> 0:18:34.040 many steps and they're like, do the concealer and do this, 0:18:34.119 --> 0:18:36.880 and then they do like the contouring, but I can't 0:18:36.960 --> 0:18:38.960 blend it right, they put like, I mean, it is 0:18:39.080 --> 0:18:40.840 very dark, and then it's like a line. But then 0:18:40.880 --> 0:18:42.959 they blend it with like the sponge, and I'm like, 0:18:43.000 --> 0:18:46.320 I can't do that. Yeah, I don't do contours. I've 0:18:46.400 --> 0:18:49.720 not taken that plunge. I don't think I ever will listen. 0:18:49.800 --> 0:18:53.600 Just doing the more I like involved eye makeup that 0:18:53.680 --> 0:18:56.199 I do now has taken what U should be my 0:18:56.320 --> 0:19:00.040 fifteen minute makeup routine to twenty five minutes, and I 0:19:00.119 --> 0:19:06.680 appreciate that. I love my fifteen minute makeup routine. Yeah 0:19:06.720 --> 0:19:09.400 that's my max tail. I'm like ten fifteen minutes. I'm 0:19:09.400 --> 0:19:12.159 maxed out. I got the basics. Let me tell you 0:19:12.200 --> 0:19:14.240 all of this. I don't know if you feel this way. 0:19:14.600 --> 0:19:17.480 I don't mind taking showers. I like them. It makes 0:19:17.480 --> 0:19:21.000 me feel good. I hate getting ready. I literally despise it. 0:19:21.280 --> 0:19:24.119 If I can do anything but get ready, I would. 0:19:24.720 --> 0:19:28.480 I hate it, like actually hate it. I mean it's 0:19:28.480 --> 0:19:31.120 like a task. You're signing up for a lot. Like 0:19:31.240 --> 0:19:32.800 you know, I know when I have to take a shower, 0:19:32.880 --> 0:19:34.840 I'm gonna have to blow dry my hair, straighten it, 0:19:34.920 --> 0:19:37.600 then curl it. Like it's just a lot. It's not 0:19:37.680 --> 0:19:38.919 just like oh I can get out and you know 0:19:38.960 --> 0:19:40.680 it'll be dry, and I walk out the door, It's 0:19:40.720 --> 0:19:42.639 like no, it is like do you are you ready 0:19:42.680 --> 0:19:45.359 to take this? On? Ext an hour and a half 0:19:45.359 --> 0:19:48.920 of like NonStop, just like go, go go. And sometimes 0:19:48.920 --> 0:19:50.480 when I really don't want to get ready, I'll start 0:19:50.520 --> 0:19:52.680 watching TV and I'll bring my makeup and my bull 0:19:52.760 --> 0:19:54.679 dry over in my room and I'll just like watch 0:19:54.760 --> 0:19:57.200 TV and sit there and I'm like, this is dumb. 0:19:58.560 --> 0:20:01.040 I hate being like a f a woman. That's not 0:20:01.400 --> 0:20:04.280 easy for me. I feel you and you always work 0:20:04.320 --> 0:20:07.360 really hard and you always like get ready. I never 0:20:07.400 --> 0:20:10.520 see you when you're not like presentable, like because most 0:20:10.560 --> 0:20:12.480 people won't see me when I'm not presentable. Abbe I 0:20:12.480 --> 0:20:14.680 just hide out my house. So I'm like, I don't 0:20:14.680 --> 0:20:18.439 want to do anything. Okay, they go are late, they 0:20:18.480 --> 0:20:21.560 go together. That's fine. That's why I've never seen it, Okay, 0:20:21.800 --> 0:20:23.680 unless I'm like working out. That's the only other time 0:20:23.720 --> 0:20:25.600 I really don't have makeup on, like on the weekends 0:20:25.720 --> 0:20:28.439 or anything like that. Yes, well that's why I've a 0:20:28.440 --> 0:20:30.920 hat on right now. I made no effort today. Hey, 0:20:31.080 --> 0:20:32.919 you know what, there's a lot of days that you 0:20:33.000 --> 0:20:34.960 deserve to not show effort because it's a lot of 0:20:34.960 --> 0:20:37.199 work being ready as a woman. Right, it's been a 0:20:37.200 --> 0:20:39.920 long week. Yes, you've had a good long week, which 0:20:39.920 --> 0:20:42.720 we're gonna get to that. We'll put a bow on 0:20:42.760 --> 0:20:45.560 this the one that I am going to. I'm sure 0:20:45.640 --> 0:20:48.280 you also got this in vibe. But going to Morgan 0:20:48.320 --> 0:20:50.840 Wallen's listening party for his new album? So was that 0:20:50.960 --> 0:20:53.679 a listening party? Is he gonna be there? Though? I 0:20:53.720 --> 0:20:56.200 don't be there? Is he? Is this the one that 0:20:56.280 --> 0:21:00.760 Marathon music works? Yes? I okay, So it's like Monday, Tuesday, 0:21:00.760 --> 0:21:03.399 and Wednesday. There's three of them. Yes, And I was 0:21:03.440 --> 0:21:06.160 looking on there and it's three dates each day, so 0:21:06.240 --> 0:21:09.840 I don't actually think he's gonna be there. Interesting, but 0:21:09.960 --> 0:21:12.920 you're still gonna hear new music the new album before 0:21:12.960 --> 0:21:15.800 it comes out. Yeah, So there's that. Yeah, that's definitely 0:21:15.800 --> 0:21:18.199 a new twist to things. We're gonna have to look 0:21:18.200 --> 0:21:20.080 at that because I mean you had to because I 0:21:20.200 --> 0:21:23.040 was I didn't like get an invite like a different 0:21:23.080 --> 0:21:25.680 and so I was like looking at the tickets and 0:21:25.840 --> 0:21:28.320 it's like thirty dollars to get in, and it's like 0:21:28.359 --> 0:21:31.040 a sound of visual experience where you like listen on 0:21:31.080 --> 0:21:33.840 headphones and everything, and they have interactive stuff. And then 0:21:34.000 --> 0:21:35.960 I saw people were like, Oh, he's not gonna be there, 0:21:36.400 --> 0:21:38.439 but I feel like he's gonna make us a he 0:21:38.600 --> 0:21:41.240 has to make an appearance. Wait what Okay, well, this 0:21:41.320 --> 0:21:43.160 is the one that email I got Sam was from 0:21:43.160 --> 0:21:46.080 his label. Okay, so I didn't even know that might 0:21:46.119 --> 0:21:49.440 be different because I know for fans they have it's 0:21:49.440 --> 0:21:51.840 still at Marathon Music Works, which is still a thing 0:21:52.200 --> 0:21:55.680 at Marathon. I didn't realize it was like a whole, 0:21:55.800 --> 0:22:00.000 like three day Yeah, look at them. I had. Yeah, 0:22:00.080 --> 0:22:04.520 let me see because it says like Morgan Wallace would 0:22:04.560 --> 0:22:06.119 like to invite you, but I don't know that that 0:22:06.119 --> 0:22:09.720 means you would be there. It also says there's a 0:22:10.720 --> 0:22:14.480 drinks and bites provided it doesn't say in small print 0:22:14.600 --> 0:22:19.639 Morgan will not be here. I don't know, No, it doesn't. 0:22:19.680 --> 0:22:22.680 That's crazy. This one invite only Okay, well that month 0:22:23.560 --> 0:22:27.560 that might be different than but it is the preview experience. 0:22:27.640 --> 0:22:30.840 I'm so curious what's going to happen? I am too. Well, 0:22:30.920 --> 0:22:33.639 I guess we'll we'll find out what day is it on? 0:22:33.800 --> 0:22:35.520 You know what. But at least you get free food 0:22:35.520 --> 0:22:37.480 and drinks and listen to the new album before it 0:22:37.480 --> 0:22:40.119 comes out exactly. This one's on Wednesday is one of 0:22:40.119 --> 0:22:43.640 my mom Wednesday, Yeah, I think so. It was Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, 0:22:44.359 --> 0:22:46.679 and it was like three separate times each day, like 0:22:46.720 --> 0:22:48.720 one was five to six thirty, and then one was 0:22:48.760 --> 0:22:50.480 seven to eight thirty, and then one was like nine 0:22:50.520 --> 0:22:52.560 to ten thirty. Oh, this one's in the afternoon. It 0:22:52.680 --> 0:22:55.640 was a lot happening. Okay, so it's different. It's different, 0:22:56.080 --> 0:22:58.200 but I think it's the same concept. Yeah, that's cool though. 0:22:58.280 --> 0:23:01.280 So everybody's going to get to here this new album, 0:23:01.320 --> 0:23:09.640 I don't know. I'm sure he'll be at yours at 0:23:09.640 --> 0:23:13.040 that one. I don't know, but I mean I RSVP 0:23:13.240 --> 0:23:15.680 to go, mostly just because I love hearing music before 0:23:15.680 --> 0:23:18.280 it comes out, especially because I don't know if you've 0:23:18.320 --> 0:23:20.439 ever seen them, but I do like a first listen Friday. 0:23:20.480 --> 0:23:24.880 It's on iHeartRadio's Twitter, and I'm the only country one 0:23:24.960 --> 0:23:27.480 on there. The rest of them are like pop and 0:23:27.840 --> 0:23:29.920 hip hop, and so I'm like the country one. So 0:23:30.040 --> 0:23:32.600 every time it's like what comes out on Friday, and 0:23:32.600 --> 0:23:34.680 they're like Morgan, what's going on in the country world. 0:23:34.760 --> 0:23:37.000 It gives me like a leg up when I get 0:23:37.000 --> 0:23:40.640 to hear it before I listen like six am Friday morning, right, 0:23:40.800 --> 0:23:42.680 and you can actually be like, oh, it's good instead 0:23:42.720 --> 0:23:45.280 of just saying it's good and it's really not. Yeah. 0:23:45.640 --> 0:23:47.760 Typically you can only listen to the songs like once 0:23:47.800 --> 0:23:50.320 over before we do the live. It's like literally like 0:23:50.320 --> 0:23:52.120 a first listen, Like you hear the song one time 0:23:52.160 --> 0:23:54.840 and it's like, what's your initial reactions and thoughts and 0:23:54.880 --> 0:23:57.440 it's super cool. This one we were supposed to be be 0:23:57.520 --> 0:23:59.719 having like a special guest on this past Friday one. 0:23:59.800 --> 0:24:01.840 So maybe it happened, maybe it didn't. I don't know 0:24:01.880 --> 0:24:04.920 at this moment that we are recording what happened, but 0:24:05.280 --> 0:24:07.359 uh yeah, we'll see. So at least it helps in 0:24:07.760 --> 0:24:11.800 that capacity, so we'll see. Yeah, I'm now intrigued. So 0:24:11.840 --> 0:24:16.600 if I am too, Oh man, I didn't even I 0:24:16.600 --> 0:24:18.479 didn't get in. They were all sold out, Like it 0:24:18.520 --> 0:24:21.639 didn't even work for me. So hey, I can bring 0:24:21.680 --> 0:24:23.080 a plus one, you can come with me. I don't 0:24:23.119 --> 0:24:25.160 think I can. My guess is I am not able 0:24:25.200 --> 0:24:28.239 to oh because it's Morgan Wallen and everything else to go. 0:24:28.800 --> 0:24:30.280 But if I can bring a plus one, you'll be 0:24:30.320 --> 0:24:32.639 my day. Oh I would love to Yeah, let me know, 0:24:32.920 --> 0:24:36.080 I got you. Speaking of Valentine's Day, I definitely want 0:24:36.080 --> 0:24:39.639 to get into some Valentine's Day conversations because you know, 0:24:39.720 --> 0:24:43.479 and maybe February eighteenth, nineteenth whenever you're listening to this. 0:24:43.560 --> 0:24:45.800 But this past week we did have Valentine's Day and 0:24:46.119 --> 0:24:49.600 at the Number five spot, Bobby with Ronnie Dunn's helped 0:24:49.640 --> 0:24:52.720 surprise a listener's wife with these Brooks and Dune tickets 0:24:52.720 --> 0:24:54.720 that he had bought her. It was really cool moment 0:24:54.760 --> 0:24:57.000 and it was for Valentine's Day. But Abby, I want 0:24:57.040 --> 0:24:58.719 to talk about Valentine's Day because you and I are 0:24:58.760 --> 0:25:02.560 both single as a yeah, yeah we are, And you 0:25:02.600 --> 0:25:05.000 told me that you spent your Valentine's Day at a concert. Yeah, 0:25:05.040 --> 0:25:07.840 fits and tantrums. Did you do anything else on the day? 0:25:08.040 --> 0:25:11.000 I really didn't. It was like a normal day. This 0:25:11.080 --> 0:25:13.040 was a there was a lot going on like this 0:25:13.080 --> 0:25:16.160 week with like all the National Anthem stuff and everything. 0:25:16.720 --> 0:25:19.840 So my head was that was like the last thing 0:25:19.880 --> 0:25:23.000 on my list, Like well because Monday, Monday, I sang right, 0:25:23.000 --> 0:25:26.240 and then Tuesday with Valentine's Day. Yeah, so I was traction. Yes, 0:25:26.480 --> 0:25:28.320 I was just like still like on a high from 0:25:28.320 --> 0:25:32.400 that from last night, and then I went to appointments 0:25:32.720 --> 0:25:34.040 and I was like, I'm not going to sit home 0:25:34.080 --> 0:25:35.879 alone though, Like I was working and I was sitting 0:25:35.880 --> 0:25:37.119 on the couch in my friend text. I mean, I 0:25:37.160 --> 0:25:38.560 was like, yeah, yeah, I'm gonna go. I don't want 0:25:38.560 --> 0:25:41.960 to sit home alone. Did you avoid your phone? Because 0:25:42.000 --> 0:25:45.400 I know when I first opened my phone up on Tuesday, 0:25:45.440 --> 0:25:47.960 I was I saw like maybe ten things. I was like, yeah, 0:25:47.960 --> 0:25:51.240 I'm out, I'm out for today. Yeah I saw enough 0:25:51.320 --> 0:25:56.560 like flowers and chocolates and yeah. Yeah. And it's funny 0:25:56.600 --> 0:25:58.800 because I don't want any of those people to stop 0:25:58.840 --> 0:26:01.520 posting that. Yeah. I love that they're happy, but like 0:26:01.760 --> 0:26:05.360 when it is flooded on your feed and you are single. 0:26:07.040 --> 0:26:09.960 I was sitting there like, dang, this is really depressing 0:26:10.000 --> 0:26:12.960 for me, I know. And I'll like, I'll be honest, 0:26:13.040 --> 0:26:16.760 I've never had like a Valentine, a Valentine's Day full on, 0:26:16.880 --> 0:26:18.879 never had a Valentine valent you know what happy. Let 0:26:18.880 --> 0:26:20.560 me tell you something. It's not all it's cracked up 0:26:20.600 --> 0:26:23.240 to me. And maybe it's because I've dated some scrappy people, 0:26:23.280 --> 0:26:27.159 but well last year, I guess I was dating that 0:26:27.240 --> 0:26:30.200 one guy but it didn't really. It wasn't a very 0:26:30.200 --> 0:26:33.040 like special Valentine's Day. So I've never not that all 0:26:33.080 --> 0:26:35.520 it's cracked up to be exactly, it's really not. That's 0:26:35.520 --> 0:26:37.480 why you buy your own flowers and buy your own chocolate, 0:26:37.640 --> 0:26:40.000 uh huh yeah. And usually my parents are the ones 0:26:40.000 --> 0:26:42.280 that send me flowers and like chocolate cover strawberries, and 0:26:42.320 --> 0:26:44.439 I'm like, okay, thank you. Yeah, so they make me 0:26:44.440 --> 0:26:46.639 feel loved. You don't have to be like feel loved. 0:26:46.800 --> 0:26:49.119 And I think I have them hosted that like, just 0:26:49.160 --> 0:26:51.360 because you don't have this certain love that other people 0:26:51.400 --> 0:26:53.919 are celebrating, you have other loves that you can be 0:26:53.960 --> 0:26:57.720 thankful for. Absolutely, Like my sister always sends me some 0:26:57.800 --> 0:27:00.000 kind of treat and that makes me happy. My parents 0:27:00.040 --> 0:27:03.080 and send me flowers, that's so sweet. And then I 0:27:03.160 --> 0:27:05.760 like that night I went out to dinner with some girlfriends. 0:27:05.800 --> 0:27:07.560 I just my thing was like I don't want to 0:27:07.600 --> 0:27:09.959 be on my phone all day and I don't want 0:27:09.960 --> 0:27:12.280 to sit at home and be sad. Yes, so like 0:27:12.440 --> 0:27:14.439 as long as I do something and I don't look 0:27:14.480 --> 0:27:16.000 at my phone, because I knew if I stayed at home, 0:27:16.040 --> 0:27:18.280 i'd be on my phone right because I'd be bored. Yeah, 0:27:18.400 --> 0:27:20.399 and so I was like, let's just do something. And 0:27:20.440 --> 0:27:22.480 we went to dinner and tried a new Italian spot 0:27:22.520 --> 0:27:25.840 which was amazing. Really yes, I have the whole plate apasta, 0:27:25.920 --> 0:27:27.760 which was not good for me, but I did. It 0:27:27.840 --> 0:27:31.320 was so good. Oh my gosh, did you make reservations 0:27:31.160 --> 0:27:33.080 at the time. So one of my girlfriends did. That's 0:27:33.080 --> 0:27:36.000 her things. She loves making like reservations to try new places, 0:27:36.400 --> 0:27:38.680 and so she'll she'll have it like two months out, 0:27:38.840 --> 0:27:41.240 like she's better than dude a million times over. Like 0:27:41.280 --> 0:27:43.040 she's like, guys, I got like three options, so let 0:27:43.119 --> 0:27:45.439 me just know which ones we want. She's already planning 0:27:45.440 --> 0:27:47.720 for next year. How she does, like that's it's the 0:27:47.760 --> 0:27:50.520 best thing ever. So that's awesome. She had that plan. 0:27:50.640 --> 0:27:52.959 She had a reservation for us, which is awesome. And 0:27:53.000 --> 0:27:55.200 so we went and we tried some Italian food and 0:27:55.280 --> 0:27:58.639 we had some one of the other girlfriends bought us 0:27:58.640 --> 0:28:01.040 each a crumble cookie, so we had like a good 0:28:01.080 --> 0:28:04.520 little Galentine's Day on Valentine's Day, Oh, I love that, 0:28:04.560 --> 0:28:06.760 you know what I heard though, or I saw something 0:28:06.800 --> 0:28:09.680 that was like Valentine's Day for single people as Independence 0:28:09.800 --> 0:28:13.240 Day is their independence day was also true, like we're free. 0:28:13.800 --> 0:28:15.840 You don't have anybody telling us where. I mean, you know, 0:28:15.880 --> 0:28:18.159 I did see another thing that was like, listen, I 0:28:18.200 --> 0:28:20.080 know you're seeing a lot of people get flowers and 0:28:20.160 --> 0:28:23.080 chocolates today, but also let me tell you they ain't 0:28:23.119 --> 0:28:25.800 as happy as they look. And I'm like, yeah, you know, true. 0:28:26.119 --> 0:28:27.720 I know some of these ones that posted, I know 0:28:27.760 --> 0:28:31.800 a lot of stories behind that. Yeah, no, it is 0:28:32.000 --> 0:28:34.760 not the full truth. It's actually very interesting and I 0:28:34.760 --> 0:28:36.880 don't know if this is the case for you, but like, 0:28:37.080 --> 0:28:39.520 since we're both from Kansas, all my friends from Kansas, 0:28:39.560 --> 0:28:42.520 they never post anything for some reason. It's it's weird, 0:28:42.600 --> 0:28:45.120 like they just never post. They just live their life, 0:28:45.120 --> 0:28:46.680 but they don't feel they need to post. And I 0:28:46.720 --> 0:28:49.000 know they're like happily married, but everybody in Nashville or 0:28:49.040 --> 0:28:51.120 other cities, big cities, I feel like they have to 0:28:51.120 --> 0:28:54.680 post everything. And so I just I think that's interesting 0:28:54.680 --> 0:28:57.160 because I'm like, there's really happy couples. So we're not 0:28:57.200 --> 0:28:59.280 even seeing what they're doing for Valentine's Day, I know, 0:29:00.000 --> 0:29:02.040 because they're not posting it. And I love it. I 0:29:02.080 --> 0:29:03.880 love when they don't, but yeah, when I see it, 0:29:03.920 --> 0:29:06.640 I'm like it's just my favorite ones, and they pop 0:29:06.720 --> 0:29:11.200 up when I'm like, I know things and I know 0:29:11.960 --> 0:29:14.640 I adn't happy as it's rusts and jolt sitting on 0:29:14.680 --> 0:29:19.280 your counter right now, Like I know that that's that's 0:29:19.320 --> 0:29:21.960 what comes with being in a relationship and being married, 0:29:21.960 --> 0:29:24.160 and there's more to it. But like if it's more 0:29:24.200 --> 0:29:25.960 to it at the point that you've complained about it 0:29:26.000 --> 0:29:29.440 to people outside of the relationship, right, there's a lot 0:29:29.480 --> 0:29:31.680 to it than just like what's going on with you 0:29:31.760 --> 0:29:35.280 two kind of thing. That's when it gets because you're like, oh, 0:29:35.320 --> 0:29:38.240 you were just like complaining or having issues last week 0:29:38.520 --> 0:29:41.640 we were talking, but now everything's great. Yes, And also, 0:29:41.680 --> 0:29:43.280 let me tell you, going out, it was great to 0:29:43.280 --> 0:29:45.440 be with my girlfriends. It was great to be distracted 0:29:45.640 --> 0:29:48.840 not be on my phone. But I'll also say it 0:29:48.920 --> 0:29:51.720 wasn't great being at a restaurant because we were surrounded 0:29:52.080 --> 0:29:55.640 by couples everywhere. Yes, that's exactly what I was thinking. 0:29:55.680 --> 0:29:57.239 At my concert, I was like, I walked in, it 0:29:57.280 --> 0:29:59.600 was literally couple swelding hands. I was like, should I leave? 0:30:00.240 --> 0:30:03.080 Should I go? It was really cute. I was like, oh, 0:30:03.120 --> 0:30:04.880 you guys are so cute. Yeah, it's like, oh, I'm 0:30:04.920 --> 0:30:07.880 really happy for you. Yeah, but I don't want to 0:30:07.880 --> 0:30:10.320 see that those means where or like when people show 0:30:10.360 --> 0:30:13.520 like their love on on TikTok, it's like they'll be like, oh, 0:30:13.560 --> 0:30:15.480 you guys are really cute. I'm gonna go sit on 0:30:15.520 --> 0:30:18.240 train tracks now, like you don't actually mean it. It's 0:30:18.280 --> 0:30:20.400 full on probably not an appropriate joke, but like they 0:30:20.400 --> 0:30:23.480 do say that, yes, or on TikTok where they're driving, 0:30:24.120 --> 0:30:26.560 so I'm gonna act like they're gonna like swerve off 0:30:26.640 --> 0:30:29.480 or like just kidding. Yes, Like dark humor is not 0:30:29.560 --> 0:30:32.080 normally my thing, but I just it's like the idea 0:30:32.080 --> 0:30:33.840 of like, Okay, at least we're all in the boat 0:30:33.880 --> 0:30:36.640 together and seeing all this sucks for all of us. 0:30:37.880 --> 0:30:39.640 It also like gives me hope though, like I'm like, 0:30:39.680 --> 0:30:41.240 I know it's out there, like I know it is. 0:30:41.680 --> 0:30:45.040 It is a perfect timing. Listen, I'll see hope as 0:30:45.280 --> 0:30:47.760 as right mentioned on show, I see blood red on 0:30:47.880 --> 0:30:51.360 Valentine's Day. After that, though, I see hope just on 0:30:51.440 --> 0:30:54.720 Valentine's Day, I don't. I'm like, yeah, I'm like it's 0:30:54.720 --> 0:30:57.480 a made up holiday anyway. Really, oh yeah, but listen, 0:30:57.680 --> 0:31:00.960 Like the best part though, I love this because the 0:31:01.040 --> 0:31:03.160 minute one of us gets in a relationship or like 0:31:03.200 --> 0:31:05.320 we're love and it's amazing and we have Valent's d 0:31:05.320 --> 0:31:06.720 We're gonna post about all the time. It's gonna be 0:31:06.720 --> 0:31:09.000 the best thing ever. Oh no, I was like, I'm 0:31:09.040 --> 0:31:12.240 not judging these people because I would be exactly like, yes, 0:31:12.280 --> 0:31:14.520 I just accept where I'm at in this place in 0:31:14.560 --> 0:31:17.400 my life, and it isn't. I cannot handle seeing these 0:31:17.440 --> 0:31:20.640 things on social media right now. Yeah, it definitely doesn't 0:31:20.680 --> 0:31:22.840 make things easier. It's just like a jab. It's like, 0:31:22.960 --> 0:31:27.520 oh ouch, someday, I know. So yeah, there. I wish 0:31:27.560 --> 0:31:30.560 I was like a safe space to go on Valentine's 0:31:30.600 --> 0:31:32.680 Day where you don't sit at home and be lonely, 0:31:32.960 --> 0:31:34.480 you don't sit at home and look at all the 0:31:34.480 --> 0:31:36.960 things on social media, and you don't go to a 0:31:36.960 --> 0:31:39.280 restaurant because that's also where they all are. So like, 0:31:39.480 --> 0:31:44.200 I need a safe zone. Yeah, we're Valentine's Day for singles. 0:31:45.000 --> 0:31:47.239 I don't know where you go. I know there's like 0:31:47.280 --> 0:31:50.200 the what is it the Cupid like I hate Cupid 0:31:50.280 --> 0:31:53.760 or something like that, like the bars do or it's 0:31:53.760 --> 0:31:57.080 like the single like m I hate I don't even 0:31:57.200 --> 0:31:59.520 have some some are bars need to pick up like 0:31:59.640 --> 0:32:02.360 a goals party, yeah, and do like a vibe for 0:32:02.480 --> 0:32:07.000 Valentine's Day where it's like not couples allowed. Yeah, I 0:32:07.040 --> 0:32:08.800 think they've done that before. I used to go to 0:32:08.840 --> 0:32:10.400 that and I was like this, No, I just is 0:32:10.440 --> 0:32:13.520 it weird? Yeah? I just enjoyed it, didn't look it sane? 0:32:13.600 --> 0:32:15.280 Is next year, I just need to throw a singles 0:32:15.320 --> 0:32:17.400 party and just be at my house. Oh yeah yeah, 0:32:17.840 --> 0:32:22.200 y'all can't be on phones. We're all together, Okay. It 0:32:22.240 --> 0:32:24.360 just has to be on Valentine's Day. Uh huh. It 0:32:24.440 --> 0:32:27.240 can't be before because Valentine's Day. Listen. I love that 0:32:27.240 --> 0:32:29.480 people do the Valentine's Days before and after, but I'm like, 0:32:29.560 --> 0:32:33.920 y'all don't realize the day that matters is Valentine's Day. Yeah. 0:32:34.120 --> 0:32:36.200 I love love and I love self written all of 0:32:36.240 --> 0:32:39.920 us in our friendships. This is great. Like Valentine's Day, 0:32:40.280 --> 0:32:43.000 I'm screwed. You know what I mean to like on 0:32:43.120 --> 0:32:45.880 Valentine's Day? It has to be something happening. Yeah. I 0:32:46.000 --> 0:32:47.720 was on Facebook and there's like this group, like a 0:32:47.760 --> 0:32:50.800 girls group in Nashville, and someone like posted and she 0:32:50.920 --> 0:32:53.280 was like, look what my boyfriend did for me, and 0:32:53.280 --> 0:32:55.520 she's like, hey, show me your pictures what your man did. 0:32:56.200 --> 0:32:58.160 And I was like, well, I can't look at this. 0:32:58.600 --> 0:33:00.800 That just gave me like the chill of like not 0:33:00.840 --> 0:33:02.080 in a good way, of like I know, I don't 0:33:02.120 --> 0:33:03.880 want to see that. And then someone was like, where 0:33:03.880 --> 0:33:06.320 are you finding these men? And I was like, I, yeah, 0:33:06.360 --> 0:33:09.840 where are you? Where are they they on Amazon? Of that, yeah, 0:33:11.760 --> 0:33:14.640 I wish. Okay, well we're gonna we're gonna bounce from 0:33:14.680 --> 0:33:16.760 you know, we got it out. We got our feelings 0:33:16.760 --> 0:33:18.800 of Valentine's Day out, and I hope some people can 0:33:18.840 --> 0:33:21.600 relate because listen, I love love, I love that people 0:33:21.600 --> 0:33:23.640 are happy. But I just needed a moment to get 0:33:23.640 --> 0:33:26.040 all that out of my system. I think people agree. 0:33:26.120 --> 0:33:28.880 I think we're not alone. We needed that. So you know, 0:33:29.080 --> 0:33:32.240 now that that's passed and that has happened, what's something 0:33:32.320 --> 0:33:34.560 that you're really excited about? And I'm gonna tell you 0:33:34.600 --> 0:33:38.200 why I'm asking this because I learned that Barney is 0:33:38.240 --> 0:33:41.640 making a comeback. I'm so excited. Oh my gosh, wait 0:33:41.720 --> 0:33:45.040 wait is it a cartoon one? So that show, yes, 0:33:45.080 --> 0:33:47.320 and they'll be it'll be out in twenty twenty four 0:33:47.960 --> 0:33:51.000 and I'm really excited because I feel like it's gonna 0:33:51.040 --> 0:33:54.080 be cool. I love when things that you loved growing 0:33:54.160 --> 0:33:56.680 up make a comeback because then it means more generations 0:33:56.720 --> 0:33:59.720 get to experience it, and like, you know, you don't 0:33:59.760 --> 0:34:02.280 just have this thing that gets lost to the atmosphere 0:34:02.280 --> 0:34:04.640 and it's never talked about again. And Barney was such 0:34:04.680 --> 0:34:06.480 a big part of my childhood so much that I 0:34:06.520 --> 0:34:11.160 like dressed up as him for Halloweens. Like we loved Barney. 0:34:11.320 --> 0:34:13.239 Oh my gosh, that's so crazy to think about. So 0:34:13.400 --> 0:34:16.880 kids today have probably haven't seen Barney because that's like 0:34:16.920 --> 0:34:20.120 they're like millennial parents were introduced it. Yeah, Like that's 0:34:20.160 --> 0:34:22.400 so wild to me that. I mean, that's what we 0:34:22.560 --> 0:34:26.640 like in that song, like I love you, you love me. 0:34:27.200 --> 0:34:31.400 We're a happy family with a great big again. I 0:34:31.480 --> 0:34:34.680 kiss from me to you. Won't you say you love 0:34:34.800 --> 0:34:40.040 me too? Oh my god, day. I know the last 0:34:40.080 --> 0:34:42.240 time I heard that song, I was probably what six, 0:34:42.440 --> 0:34:45.600 Oh my gosh, Yeah, that's crazy, and that like that 0:34:45.680 --> 0:34:48.200 came out of the vault for me, Like he started 0:34:48.200 --> 0:34:49.520 seeing that. I was like, oh yeah, I know this 0:34:49.640 --> 0:34:53.080 there was just like a natural I was a natural 0:34:53.120 --> 0:34:55.759 reflex sing the Barney song. Wow. See that's how much 0:34:55.760 --> 0:34:58.240 it touched our lives exactly. So I'm just really excited 0:34:58.280 --> 0:35:01.080 to know that another generational it to love Barney. Maybe 0:35:01.080 --> 0:35:03.160 not in the same way because he's animated. He's getting 0:35:03.239 --> 0:35:05.200 his own like animated TV series will be a little 0:35:05.239 --> 0:35:08.439 bit different. He absolutely looks different because he's not a 0:35:08.480 --> 0:35:13.880 guy in a costume. A little more yeah, yeah, more modern, yes, 0:35:14.120 --> 0:35:16.920 But I'm just glad that he's getting the recognition that 0:35:17.000 --> 0:35:20.399 he deserves. So I agree excited about Yes, everybody needs 0:35:20.440 --> 0:35:23.399 to know Barney. Excited to Barney in their lives. Yes, 0:35:23.440 --> 0:35:24.839 they need to kind of love you in their lives. 0:35:24.880 --> 0:35:28.440 What are you excited about anything? Well, I'm excited, speaking 0:35:28.480 --> 0:35:31.080 of love, I'm going on a Bachelorrette party this weekend. 0:35:31.200 --> 0:35:34.080 Oh yeah, so at the current moment when people listen, Yeah, 0:35:34.080 --> 0:35:36.560 I'll be partying it up. I will be. I'm in Scottsdale. 0:35:36.760 --> 0:35:40.040 Let's go very excited for that. We're gonna go hiking 0:35:40.040 --> 0:35:42.440 on camel back. Oh fun. Yes, and then we're going 0:35:42.440 --> 0:35:44.960 on like an ATV tour. We're like ran it's gonna 0:35:45.000 --> 0:35:46.759 be like really dusty. I've never been on one of those. 0:35:47.320 --> 0:35:49.760 I haven't either. That sounds exciting. Yeah, I'm very excited. 0:35:49.800 --> 0:35:51.359 Then we're gonna go out to the bars one night. 0:35:51.400 --> 0:35:54.200 And then she reserved a karaoke room one night because 0:35:54.239 --> 0:35:55.600 she likes to sing too, So I was like, this 0:35:55.640 --> 0:35:57.520 is gonna be so fun. So we're not gonna see 0:35:57.520 --> 0:36:01.120 in karaoke. Oh gosh, I don't even know what will 0:36:01.160 --> 0:36:03.000 be your your number one choice, if you could choose. 0:36:03.040 --> 0:36:06.000 I usually do Miranda like Gunpowder and Letter Kerosene like 0:36:06.040 --> 0:36:09.600 those are mine. Yeah, but I need to branch out. 0:36:09.640 --> 0:36:11.840 I always do the same songs. I'm like, I'm gonna 0:36:11.960 --> 0:36:14.359 branch out to something. I don't know what's a good one? 0:36:14.480 --> 0:36:16.440 Before he cheats? Is always a sassy one too, that 0:36:16.560 --> 0:36:22.160 is yes, m that's a good one everything Shanya, Yeah, anything, Shanna. 0:36:22.200 --> 0:36:24.560 I always do country. I'm like, I should branch out, 0:36:24.600 --> 0:36:27.040 even out of country. Oh you just girls just want 0:36:27.040 --> 0:36:29.799 to have fun. Oh that's oh I like that. That's 0:36:29.800 --> 0:36:32.520 a fun one. Yes, I'm sure there's more I can 0:36:32.560 --> 0:36:34.200 come up with. Let me let me like keep thinking 0:36:34.200 --> 0:36:36.279 on it. Yes, Okay, I got a lot of girl 0:36:36.360 --> 0:36:41.239 power songs. I was like, I'm gonna do a Kelly 0:36:41.239 --> 0:36:43.520 Clarkson song, but I'm not going to do that. Oh, 0:36:43.600 --> 0:36:45.600 it doesn't kill you, make you stronger. I think that's 0:36:45.600 --> 0:36:49.439 called stronger stronger. Yeah, I love that one. Okay, Yeah, 0:36:49.480 --> 0:36:51.319 you can have some ideas, some more to add on 0:36:51.480 --> 0:36:54.799 to your arsenal of songs. Yeah, but that's exciting, I know. 0:36:54.880 --> 0:36:57.680 And then her wedding is next month, so wedding season 0:36:58.320 --> 0:37:02.200 is here. I love weddings, though you love, I love them. Yeah, 0:37:02.239 --> 0:37:05.360 I don't love traveling for weddings. I don't love that 0:37:05.400 --> 0:37:06.960 I live away from everyone and I have to travel 0:37:07.000 --> 0:37:09.399 for the weddings all the time. I'm the same way. Yeah, 0:37:09.480 --> 0:37:11.680 Like I don't mind having to go somewhere, but like 0:37:11.719 --> 0:37:14.200 the fact when you live from everyone else, it's like 0:37:14.239 --> 0:37:17.439 you're the one traveling, right, I know, And you miss 0:37:17.480 --> 0:37:19.279 a lot of the stuff too because you can't get 0:37:19.280 --> 0:37:21.200 there in time, and like the flight, you're basically relying 0:37:21.200 --> 0:37:24.000 on the flight when you can get there exactly, and 0:37:24.120 --> 0:37:26.279 like hoping that you make it back in time to work. Like, 0:37:26.560 --> 0:37:28.759 there's so many factors you don't like fully get to 0:37:28.840 --> 0:37:32.560 enjoy if you're just like already there, I know. Yes, 0:37:33.000 --> 0:37:35.600 so yeah, but I'm very excited and which I'm assuming 0:37:35.600 --> 0:37:37.719 you're traveling for this wedding. Yeah, it's in Kansas City, 0:37:38.120 --> 0:37:41.200 so they're always in Kansas City. I know it is 0:37:41.239 --> 0:37:44.160 a direct flight, so I like that, but still I'm 0:37:44.200 --> 0:37:46.960 just like, oh no, it's annoying because they're already everybody's 0:37:47.000 --> 0:37:49.240 there and they're like riding together and stuff. I'm like, well, 0:37:49.600 --> 0:37:52.640 if someone get me from the airport, right, You're like, 0:37:52.920 --> 0:37:55.920 I need a ride somebody. When I went to my 0:37:55.920 --> 0:37:58.840 friend's wedding in Kansas City last fall, she picked me 0:37:58.920 --> 0:38:02.080 up the bride. Oh it was the day before, thankfully, 0:38:02.120 --> 0:38:03.719 but she was like, oh, I'll come get you. She's like, 0:38:03.760 --> 0:38:05.640 everybody else is doing everything, I'll come get you. This 0:38:05.640 --> 0:38:07.120 will be fun for me. Yeah, it's like to kind 0:38:07.120 --> 0:38:08.360 of get your mind off of things. That's what my 0:38:08.440 --> 0:38:10.719 friend said too, because I'm gonna go and she's like, hey, 0:38:10.920 --> 0:38:13.120 she's get married. She gets married on Saturday, and she 0:38:13.239 --> 0:38:15.279 was like, hey, let me know if you guys are bored, 0:38:15.320 --> 0:38:17.120 we can do something on Friday night. I'm like, are 0:38:17.160 --> 0:38:19.920 you not gonna be busy? Yeah? I think it's getting 0:38:19.920 --> 0:38:22.160 off the mind of all the all the nerves and 0:38:22.239 --> 0:38:24.799 like having someone there in case something goes wrong. It's 0:38:24.800 --> 0:38:27.960 like you're there. Yeah. Yeah, for sure, but I'm very 0:38:28.000 --> 0:38:30.880 excited for that. I love weddings. I'm like dancing and 0:38:31.000 --> 0:38:33.000 all that. And then is this your only wedding this year? 0:38:33.800 --> 0:38:40.040 I think? Yeah. Now I'm like unless someone random, Oh yeah, 0:38:40.080 --> 0:38:42.920 I act like I'm so many Well I'm starting out 0:38:42.920 --> 0:38:45.359 with one. Yeah, maybe someone will you know, get a 0:38:45.400 --> 0:38:48.279 surprise engagement and get married this year. Maybe one of us. 0:38:48.560 --> 0:38:52.279 You never know. I don't anticipate that for myself. I mean, 0:38:52.600 --> 0:38:56.040 if that is what you are, I wholeheartedly support it. No, 0:38:56.160 --> 0:38:58.360 I I want to That's what I don't understand a 0:38:58.360 --> 0:39:00.680 lot about how that, Like I need to get it 0:39:00.680 --> 0:39:02.640 takes a while to get to know someone. Yeah, so 0:39:02.920 --> 0:39:05.360 when you get married after a couple of months, I'm like, wow, 0:39:05.440 --> 0:39:09.239 that's awesome for you. But I'm scared that. Listen, I 0:39:09.280 --> 0:39:11.239 know too many things about too many people now, Like 0:39:11.440 --> 0:39:14.279 there's no chance You're like, I need ten years to 0:39:14.280 --> 0:39:16.640 fully get to know this guy before we talk about 0:39:16.719 --> 0:39:18.080 I need to know a lot of things about you 0:39:18.120 --> 0:39:20.399 before I make that promise. At this point in my life, 0:39:20.400 --> 0:39:24.440 I've learned. I've learned too much. Ye. So, yeah, one 0:39:24.440 --> 0:39:27.359 wedding that I'm excited for. Okay, that's ninety well, I 0:39:27.400 --> 0:39:30.799 hope the Bachelorette goes well, is going well, you know, 0:39:30.840 --> 0:39:32.200 like if I'm talking to future you right now, I 0:39:32.239 --> 0:39:34.800 hope it's going fabulous and they're getting all kinds of 0:39:34.840 --> 0:39:37.480 activity and fun drinks in. I hope I'm not drinking 0:39:37.480 --> 0:39:41.239 too much, and I remember it's hey, if that's your goal, 0:39:41.280 --> 0:39:43.880 then you'll do it because I'm a lightweight. Madeline Edwards 0:39:43.880 --> 0:39:45.560 also stopped to buy the show this week, and it 0:39:45.640 --> 0:39:47.719 was really cool to hear her perform, which he can 0:39:47.719 --> 0:39:51.280 go watch on YouTube Bobby Bones Show. It's so good. 0:39:51.320 --> 0:39:54.960 She just had a killer voice, killer performance, and I 0:39:55.000 --> 0:39:57.120 loved having her in. But what was really cool about 0:39:57.120 --> 0:40:00.120 her interview is that she talked about how she got 0:40:00.120 --> 0:40:02.799 her start in music. She was singing jazz at this 0:40:03.040 --> 0:40:06.719 millionaire's restaurant, which is really cool. Like, you love hearing 0:40:06.760 --> 0:40:08.680 the stories of artists and how they get started, and 0:40:08.719 --> 0:40:11.799 this was a cool story. So I want to talk 0:40:11.840 --> 0:40:15.080 about our job evolutions for us, Well, that looked like 0:40:15.080 --> 0:40:17.279 when we got started. So break it down for me 0:40:17.440 --> 0:40:20.120 from like your first job at like sixteen, or maybe 0:40:20.160 --> 0:40:23.200 it was later your first job to now. Okay, so 0:40:23.400 --> 0:40:25.759 my first job was in high school. I think my 0:40:25.880 --> 0:40:30.719 junior year at Mcalister's Deli okay, sandwiches soups. Yes, but 0:40:30.880 --> 0:40:33.080 I was doing sports and I just like could not 0:40:33.160 --> 0:40:36.920 commit trying to do like sports and um like homework 0:40:36.920 --> 0:40:38.600 and all that. So I didn't do it very long. 0:40:38.920 --> 0:40:41.120 And then in college I was a server at a 0:40:41.120 --> 0:40:44.240 whole bunch of places. So I was in Wichita, Jose Peppers, 0:40:44.280 --> 0:40:48.560 it was Mexican. It's still there at it and I 0:40:48.600 --> 0:40:52.200 haven't been there since. And Red Robin, which it was 0:40:52.560 --> 0:40:56.080 Red Robin. Yeah. Sorry, I'm just like an instinct right now. 0:40:56.200 --> 0:41:00.560 That is a lot of Sorry, I'm still scar I'm 0:41:00.600 --> 0:41:03.360 just very scarred from being a server. Um, I have PTSD, 0:41:03.800 --> 0:41:06.000 like I just it was not for me. It was 0:41:06.040 --> 0:41:09.560 not because I'm a perfectionist and I did so well 0:41:09.600 --> 0:41:12.279 and I still got stiffed so many times people walked 0:41:12.280 --> 0:41:14.680 out on me and didn't tip me, and I just 0:41:14.719 --> 0:41:17.400 had so much anxiety of wanting to do a good job. 0:41:17.520 --> 0:41:21.399 And yeah there's that. What else bella Luna Okay, it's 0:41:21.400 --> 0:41:25.920 a Mediterranean yes, m great which spot? Yes, Yeah. And 0:41:25.920 --> 0:41:28.680 then in college I really didn't have a job. I 0:41:28.719 --> 0:41:31.760 was studying a lot, that's yeah. I was very lucky 0:41:31.800 --> 0:41:34.319 that I didn't need a job. So thank you to 0:41:34.440 --> 0:41:38.280 my parents, Mom and dad, yes, for you know, allowing 0:41:38.280 --> 0:41:39.799 me to do that. But I did try to get 0:41:39.800 --> 0:41:42.479 a job as a server in college and I could 0:41:42.520 --> 0:41:45.360 not like lift the plate. It was an Italian restaurant 0:41:45.360 --> 0:41:47.480 and you had to carry like everything on a gigantic 0:41:47.560 --> 0:41:50.160 tray like over your head, and I was like, I 0:41:50.200 --> 0:41:52.399 am not strong enough to carry this. I was so weak, 0:41:54.120 --> 0:41:56.440 and so they wanted me to put like everything on 0:41:56.440 --> 0:41:58.320 at once. I was like, I can't do this, I'm sorry, 0:41:58.320 --> 0:42:00.240 and I remember having to quit like on day two, 0:42:00.680 --> 0:42:03.000 and they were so mad and I was like, okay, 0:42:03.040 --> 0:42:05.320 I'm not going to get my paycheck then never mind. 0:42:06.480 --> 0:42:08.760 So there was that, and then my last semester of college. 0:42:08.760 --> 0:42:10.600 This is funny because I actually, I don't know people 0:42:10.640 --> 0:42:12.640 know this, but I got my degree in exercise science, 0:42:13.120 --> 0:42:16.040 so it's like nothing to do with music or anything. 0:42:16.600 --> 0:42:18.960 But she got a degree, yes, okay, And so my 0:42:19.040 --> 0:42:21.239 last semester I did an internship and it was like 0:42:21.280 --> 0:42:23.759 a full time, like forty five hours a week internship 0:42:23.760 --> 0:42:26.000 at a health and wellness center here where I did 0:42:26.000 --> 0:42:30.359 like exercise testing and like cardiopulmonary rehab on people like 0:42:30.400 --> 0:42:32.440 it was really cool, Like I was taking their blood 0:42:32.440 --> 0:42:34.880 pressure and they were like running on the treadmill and 0:42:34.880 --> 0:42:37.640 I would give them like exercises to do and plans 0:42:37.680 --> 0:42:41.160 and and then I went back and graduated because I 0:42:41.200 --> 0:42:43.040 was like, I don't think I want to work in 0:42:43.239 --> 0:42:45.839 like healthcare anymore, because I didn't want to keep going 0:42:45.880 --> 0:42:48.200 on to school. Yeah, I didn't want to like be 0:42:48.280 --> 0:42:51.080 a go back to pt school like physical therapy and stuff. 0:42:51.280 --> 0:42:52.799 I was like, I really want to work in music. 0:42:52.840 --> 0:42:55.080 So I came back to Nashville, and then I got 0:42:55.120 --> 0:42:57.799 a job at I Heeart and I was doing like 0:42:57.960 --> 0:43:00.239 remotes and I was driving like the vehicle and I 0:43:00.239 --> 0:43:02.359 remember I was driving the vehicle that like Bobby's face 0:43:02.440 --> 0:43:06.960 was on. It's really funny. And I was like setting 0:43:07.000 --> 0:43:08.920 up the tent and I was out at like car 0:43:09.239 --> 0:43:13.279 carum whatever What am I trying to say, like car dealerships? Oh, 0:43:13.280 --> 0:43:14.520 you know? And I would set up the tent and 0:43:14.520 --> 0:43:17.680 like give out prizes and all that I'm almost done. No, 0:43:17.960 --> 0:43:20.359 this is great, keep good. So I did that for 0:43:20.400 --> 0:43:21.759 a while and then I was like, okay, I can't 0:43:21.840 --> 0:43:24.560 live off of part time, you know. Yeah, So I 0:43:24.600 --> 0:43:27.800 got a job at a video production company at in 0:43:27.880 --> 0:43:30.759 the operations like operations manager. So I basically ran the 0:43:30.800 --> 0:43:33.840 office in Nashville and we did like tours like for 0:43:34.360 --> 0:43:37.920 the video screens and cameras for concerts and tours like 0:43:37.960 --> 0:43:41.400 Blake Shelton, Florida, Georgia, Line, Reba, like so many. And 0:43:41.440 --> 0:43:43.239 I was like in the office and I did that 0:43:43.280 --> 0:43:45.279 for five years, and I was like, I don't want 0:43:45.280 --> 0:43:47.120 to just like sit in an office and do all 0:43:47.120 --> 0:43:49.120 this office work all the time. You know. I like 0:43:49.200 --> 0:43:51.879 to be out and about. And I also had other 0:43:51.880 --> 0:43:53.839 things I wanted to do, like saying and yeah, I 0:43:53.840 --> 0:43:56.440 just were being an artist. Yeah, I just wasn't focusing 0:43:56.480 --> 0:43:59.600 on why I like moved to Nashville and then um 0:43:59.640 --> 0:44:03.239 the opened up with the show and I got that job, 0:44:03.280 --> 0:44:06.759 and here I am, so yeah, I've done a lot 0:44:06.800 --> 0:44:09.480 of different things. Evolution of jobs for you, yes, And 0:44:09.640 --> 0:44:12.920 why didn't you ever want to pursue the exercise science thing? 0:44:13.640 --> 0:44:16.000 I don't it just I was like, I live in 0:44:16.120 --> 0:44:19.560 Nashville and I didn't want to not say I tried. 0:44:20.200 --> 0:44:22.760 I think I just kind of got pushed into healthcare 0:44:22.800 --> 0:44:25.240 because I was like a health freak in high school. 0:44:25.440 --> 0:44:27.600 In college, like I worked out all the time, and 0:44:27.640 --> 0:44:29.640 I ran and I ate really healthy, and I loved 0:44:29.680 --> 0:44:32.080 like science classes and all that. So I liked what 0:44:32.160 --> 0:44:35.239 I did in school. But then I graduated and I 0:44:35.239 --> 0:44:36.360 was like, Okay, what am I going to do with 0:44:36.400 --> 0:44:38.520 my life? I mean I could work at I actually 0:44:38.520 --> 0:44:41.840 applied at the Why and they paid nothing. You know, 0:44:41.840 --> 0:44:43.960 you would have to go on to do more like 0:44:43.480 --> 0:44:46.200 a like a personal trainer or something like that. And 0:44:46.239 --> 0:44:48.680 I was just like, I just don't think I would 0:44:48.719 --> 0:44:50.359 be happy doing that. And I was like, I want 0:44:50.360 --> 0:44:52.440 to work in music, and so I just networked and 0:44:53.160 --> 0:44:55.279 tried to see what was out there, like as far 0:44:55.320 --> 0:44:58.319 as because I grew up listening to country radio and 0:44:58.360 --> 0:45:00.800 like country music and I've wanted to live in Nashville. 0:45:00.840 --> 0:45:02.560 I was like, I want to work in it in 0:45:02.760 --> 0:45:05.719 some capacity, I don't know what. And I also want 0:45:05.719 --> 0:45:08.200 to try singing. But then I put that on hold 0:45:08.239 --> 0:45:12.400 because everybody it's very intimidating here obviously because everybody's things, 0:45:12.440 --> 0:45:15.040 you know. So but I was like, I'm gonna see 0:45:15.080 --> 0:45:16.319 where it takes me. I'm kind of like it, just 0:45:16.320 --> 0:45:17.960 see where it takes me. Person. I don't know if 0:45:17.960 --> 0:45:20.800 that's good or not. I don't even know, I didn't 0:45:20.800 --> 0:45:23.000 really have a plan, and so I was always kind 0:45:23.040 --> 0:45:25.680 of jealous of people that did. And I think you did, 0:45:25.840 --> 0:45:29.000 you know, And like there's certain people like aif they 0:45:29.080 --> 0:45:31.319 know they want to be a firefighter from when they're 0:45:31.320 --> 0:45:33.920 a kid, and they that's all they go after. And 0:45:33.920 --> 0:45:36.000 I was like, I didn't know what I wanted to do. No, 0:45:36.120 --> 0:45:37.880 you explored a lot of different avenues. I think it 0:45:37.920 --> 0:45:40.400 gives you more clarity when you're at this point in 0:45:40.400 --> 0:45:42.680 your life to know that, Okay, I'm doing what I 0:45:42.680 --> 0:45:44.439 really love to do. Because I explored a lot of things. 0:45:45.160 --> 0:45:48.480 I think that's something that's there, Yeah, in not knowing 0:45:48.560 --> 0:45:51.280 what you were going to do, right, because some people 0:45:51.520 --> 0:45:53.160 they do just kind of go on one track and 0:45:53.200 --> 0:45:56.000 they just stay on that track because they're comfortable and 0:45:56.160 --> 0:45:59.680 they don't want to like make the change. But I 0:45:59.719 --> 0:46:02.040 don't know. I mean, I moved to Nashville not knowing anyone, 0:46:02.080 --> 0:46:03.359 So I was like, I have nothing to lose at 0:46:03.360 --> 0:46:06.520 this point, you know, And there's so many more opportunities 0:46:06.520 --> 0:46:11.000 in Nashville anyway than in Kansas. So yeah, that's fair 0:46:11.120 --> 0:46:12.880 that I felt the same way. That's why I couldn't 0:46:12.880 --> 0:46:14.480 stay as much as I wanted to to be with 0:46:14.520 --> 0:46:16.840 my family. I was like, b don't think this is 0:46:16.840 --> 0:46:19.760 where I can be. Yeah, which it is hard because 0:46:19.760 --> 0:46:23.000 you obviously wanted your family in your life when you're 0:46:23.320 --> 0:46:25.000 at your job and you want to share your life 0:46:25.040 --> 0:46:29.160 with them. But anyway, yeah, I just took a crazy path. No, 0:46:29.320 --> 0:46:31.839 I loved it. See. I love that you shared that 0:46:33.320 --> 0:46:35.080 you are right and that mine did look a little 0:46:35.120 --> 0:46:37.719 bit more narrow. I did have some ideas of what 0:46:37.760 --> 0:46:39.600 I wanted to do. But let's see. So when I 0:46:39.640 --> 0:46:42.240 was sixteen, I wanted to get a job right away, 0:46:42.440 --> 0:46:45.040 and so I went and worked at Buffalo Wild Wings 0:46:45.040 --> 0:46:47.360 as a host, and then I moved from a host 0:46:47.400 --> 0:46:50.360 to the takeout cashier, then from the takeout cashier to 0:46:50.360 --> 0:46:52.640 the exbo and then I became a server, which was 0:46:52.680 --> 0:46:54.400 my goal all along. But I obviously couldn't do it 0:46:54.440 --> 0:46:56.040 at sixteen. You couldn't do it until you were eighteen 0:46:56.080 --> 0:46:58.759 at the time. Oh so, because you had to be 0:46:58.840 --> 0:47:01.799 able to handle alcohol, right that I do remember that, huh, 0:47:01.800 --> 0:47:03.200 And I don't know if that's still the case, but 0:47:03.640 --> 0:47:05.879 that was for them, And so I ended up working 0:47:05.920 --> 0:47:09.000 at Buffalo Wallowings for four and a half years. I 0:47:09.040 --> 0:47:11.040 worked there all throughout high school, and then i'd work 0:47:11.080 --> 0:47:13.879 summers when I came back from college, and I loved it. 0:47:13.920 --> 0:47:16.279 I loved like my co workers and it was just 0:47:16.280 --> 0:47:18.879 a really cool environment because Buffalo was like watching sports 0:47:18.920 --> 0:47:21.120 all the time. It's a great time. And so I 0:47:21.200 --> 0:47:23.799 did that. And then one summer I went and worked 0:47:23.840 --> 0:47:25.719 at a brewing company in which show was Shob Brewing 0:47:25.760 --> 0:47:29.280 Company because my old manager from Buffalo ended up working 0:47:29.320 --> 0:47:31.160 there and I had come back for a summer. I 0:47:31.160 --> 0:47:33.160 was like, I need a job. I'm back from college. 0:47:33.160 --> 0:47:34.640 What am I going to do? And so I did 0:47:34.680 --> 0:47:37.800 more starving, and I like, it's funny, I'm the opposite 0:47:37.800 --> 0:47:39.360 of you, but I am a perfectionist. You and I 0:47:39.400 --> 0:47:41.800 are the same in that way. But I loved serving. 0:47:41.960 --> 0:47:44.600 I just I loved talking to people. And like there 0:47:44.640 --> 0:47:46.839 was days I hated it because people would be really rude. Yeah, 0:47:46.840 --> 0:47:49.560 and you learn a lot about people in those types 0:47:49.560 --> 0:47:52.600 of jobs. But I loved it, like I loved being social. 0:47:52.640 --> 0:47:54.799 I was like a little social butterfly. And I made 0:47:54.840 --> 0:47:58.520 so much money, like just so much stupid money from serving. No, yeah, 0:47:58.560 --> 0:48:00.200 it was good money and you get to take get 0:48:00.200 --> 0:48:02.080 home that day and like calea and be like, Oh 0:48:02.120 --> 0:48:03.799 my gosh, they look at all this cash I made 0:48:03.800 --> 0:48:06.480 to day awesome. And I say that as in somebody 0:48:06.480 --> 0:48:09.040 who was in high school and college, like would that 0:48:09.080 --> 0:48:11.360 be good money to me? Now? No, like that's much different. 0:48:11.400 --> 0:48:13.480 But like as a high schooler in college, I was like, 0:48:13.560 --> 0:48:15.279 what what do I do with all of this? Like 0:48:15.320 --> 0:48:17.720 this is amazing compared to a lot of other jobs 0:48:17.719 --> 0:48:21.279 that people were doing. So I did love that, but 0:48:21.360 --> 0:48:23.439 I stopped doing that when I got to the point 0:48:23.480 --> 0:48:25.400 in college when I was doing internships so I can 0:48:25.440 --> 0:48:27.880 no longer work. I was doing free internships and I 0:48:28.040 --> 0:48:31.200 was not fun, but I did. I explored, so broadcast 0:48:31.239 --> 0:48:34.640 journalism was my major. My minor was in leadership Studies. 0:48:34.680 --> 0:48:38.000 I also almost had a minor in French because at 0:48:38.000 --> 0:48:39.880 the time I wanted to be a news reporter and 0:48:39.880 --> 0:48:42.360 I wanted to be bilingual. Oh that's cool, Wait, you 0:48:42.360 --> 0:48:44.640 can speak French? I did at the time. Yeah, I 0:48:44.680 --> 0:48:46.600 was cluent like I had. I So I ended up 0:48:46.640 --> 0:48:48.600 graduating college in three years because I had so many 0:48:48.600 --> 0:48:51.280 credits from what had happened to me in high school 0:48:51.280 --> 0:48:54.960 that I basically went to college early essentially, so I 0:48:54.960 --> 0:48:56.600 had a lot of credits, and it was like, if 0:48:56.640 --> 0:48:59.160 I just took a few extra and made one of 0:48:59.200 --> 0:49:01.719 my semesters pretty heavy, i'd finished in three years. And 0:49:01.760 --> 0:49:03.399 I was like, well, it doesn't make sense to pay 0:49:03.440 --> 0:49:05.839 for a fourth year, even though I could, there's no 0:49:05.880 --> 0:49:09.120 reason too. And so had I stayed that extra fourth year, 0:49:09.120 --> 0:49:10.680 I would have taken my last French credit and it 0:49:10.680 --> 0:49:12.120 would have been I would have had a double minor. 0:49:12.440 --> 0:49:15.960 Oh but French was by far the hardest classes I 0:49:15.960 --> 0:49:18.839 had in college. Oh was it? Oh my god, so hard. 0:49:18.920 --> 0:49:21.200 I had to work my butt off to understand that language. 0:49:21.200 --> 0:49:22.759 And I did, like I was really good at it, 0:49:22.760 --> 0:49:25.279 but I just and then like probably a year later, 0:49:25.320 --> 0:49:28.640 I lost it because I never talked to it, like, yeah, 0:49:28.800 --> 0:49:31.200 it's not here. At least you have the other language 0:49:31.200 --> 0:49:33.680 of Spanish, which a lot of people tend to speak 0:49:33.800 --> 0:49:36.160 in more like kind of pot luck, not pot luck 0:49:36.239 --> 0:49:39.040 is that the word I'm thinking form melting pot cities 0:49:39.640 --> 0:49:42.480 like Nashville, you have at least kind of those dual languages. 0:49:42.480 --> 0:49:44.239 But French isn't one unless I were to go to 0:49:44.280 --> 0:49:48.960 Canada or France, Europe, you know, somewhere over there. But 0:49:49.040 --> 0:49:50.960 I did. I loved the language it's so cool. And 0:49:51.320 --> 0:49:54.640 in college though, when I started working for the Hampshire 0:49:54.719 --> 0:49:56.640 magazine that I still worked for it to this day. 0:49:56.760 --> 0:50:01.160 No way, Oh, I started in college. Yeah, so that 0:50:01.239 --> 0:50:05.319 started because my sister, she was basically two years older 0:50:05.320 --> 0:50:06.799 than me, and she was looking for a job and 0:50:06.840 --> 0:50:09.000 she saw this guy on Craigslist and he was kind 0:50:09.000 --> 0:50:10.440 of like a jack of all trades, did a lot 0:50:10.480 --> 0:50:12.880 of things, and he needed some help, and so she 0:50:13.000 --> 0:50:15.080 started working for him, which was crazy at the time. 0:50:15.080 --> 0:50:17.480 We're like, you just found a job on craigslist. Excuse us, 0:50:17.600 --> 0:50:20.160 Like what's going on? But she was in college, needed 0:50:20.200 --> 0:50:22.920 a job and the guy was super nice, and so 0:50:23.320 --> 0:50:25.799 she started working with him. And he has been like 0:50:25.840 --> 0:50:29.760 the secretary of the American Hampshire Sheep Association for years, 0:50:30.600 --> 0:50:32.799 and so he needed more employees and she's like, well, 0:50:32.840 --> 0:50:34.920 I got my sister, and I don't know how many 0:50:34.920 --> 0:50:37.600 times I'd roll and hung over to this freaking cheap 0:50:37.680 --> 0:50:40.799 office and do work because I was in college and 0:50:41.080 --> 0:50:42.680 you know, but I needed to work when I wanted 0:50:42.719 --> 0:50:45.839 to have fun, and so I started that there and then, yeah, 0:50:45.840 --> 0:50:48.120 I still to this day do that side hustle of 0:50:48.200 --> 0:50:51.480 creating the Sheep magazine three times a year. That is 0:50:51.600 --> 0:50:53.880 awesome working on one right now, this is at one 0:50:53.880 --> 0:50:55.960 point that I'm at one. You're gonna have one of 0:50:55.960 --> 0:50:57.879 my jobs. You're gonna be like eighty years old still 0:50:57.920 --> 0:51:03.560 working on the sheep. Yeah. Yeah, someone it's it's it 0:51:03.680 --> 0:51:06.520 helps them and it's easy money for me. It's a 0:51:06.560 --> 0:51:09.040 slide hustle kind of thing. I'm like, why not? Um 0:51:09.280 --> 0:51:11.160 So I do still do that. But when I was 0:51:11.160 --> 0:51:13.880 in college I also did um I got paid for 0:51:14.000 --> 0:51:16.600 I worked on like the sports teams doing video work 0:51:17.080 --> 0:51:19.279 and talk about you know, speaking of production, Like I 0:51:19.400 --> 0:51:20.880 was on the video side of it, and I'd do 0:51:21.080 --> 0:51:24.040 sideliner reporting and all kinds of stuff like that, and 0:51:24.239 --> 0:51:26.600 I'd get paid doing that. It was a whole organization 0:51:26.640 --> 0:51:29.680 within Case State, which was awesome. And so I did 0:51:29.680 --> 0:51:32.480 a lot of journalism stuff. And then after I graduated, 0:51:32.560 --> 0:51:36.960 I didn't have a job for ah. It's the summer. 0:51:37.080 --> 0:51:39.359 It was like June or July that I finally got 0:51:39.360 --> 0:51:42.240 my job with iHeart and Wichita because I had interned 0:51:42.280 --> 0:51:44.520 with them when they were clear Channel back in the day. 0:51:44.920 --> 0:51:47.360 And I got a job through iHeart and which too. 0:51:47.480 --> 0:51:49.799 I was there for ten months and then I was 0:51:50.200 --> 0:51:53.680 at iHeart in Nashville for ten months before the job 0:51:53.680 --> 0:51:56.000 opened up on the show, and I have been here 0:51:56.040 --> 0:52:01.000 ever since. This will I believe this this summer is 0:52:01.040 --> 0:52:04.200 my seventh year Oh wow with the show. Well you know, oh, 0:52:04.320 --> 0:52:07.360 because the show has been here like ten right, and yeah, 0:52:07.400 --> 0:52:10.200 And I was like, yeah, I wasn't in Nashville very 0:52:10.200 --> 0:52:12.399 long before I joined the show, So it's crazy to think. 0:52:12.400 --> 0:52:14.560 And I look back at that now, I'm like seven years. 0:52:14.680 --> 0:52:17.799 I've been here seven years. Isn't that so weird to 0:52:17.880 --> 0:52:21.120 think about? It's so wild when it's funny because we 0:52:21.200 --> 0:52:23.399 used to do a segment on the show called what 0:52:23.640 --> 0:52:26.520 I Believe? The first one was what twenty four year 0:52:26.560 --> 0:52:29.719 olds care about? Okay, and I think I had just 0:52:29.880 --> 0:52:33.080 turned twenty four around the time when I had joined 0:52:33.080 --> 0:52:36.000 the show. Yeah, and so and I looked back now, 0:52:36.000 --> 0:52:39.839 and I'm about to turn thirty this year, So that 0:52:40.000 --> 0:52:42.400 is wild. Yeah, just like a crazy evolution of that, 0:52:43.080 --> 0:52:46.000 Like that is a long time, huh, Like I've been 0:52:46.040 --> 0:52:48.560 here almost like ten years. Yeah, it doesn't feel weird. 0:52:48.560 --> 0:52:50.160 It doesn't feel like it's actually been that long. No, 0:52:50.239 --> 0:52:53.160 I mean that's a third of my life, which is 0:52:53.400 --> 0:52:58.759 kind of scary. It's incredibly scary. That's weird. It's like, See, 0:52:58.760 --> 0:53:00.600 that's the thing is I always is trying not to 0:53:00.680 --> 0:53:03.080 compare to people, but I'm like, oh my gosh, Like 0:53:03.120 --> 0:53:04.920 a lot of people that I know that have been 0:53:04.960 --> 0:53:06.799 here ten years, I mean they're like married with like 0:53:06.840 --> 0:53:09.160 five kids, and I'm just like, I've been here ten 0:53:09.239 --> 0:53:11.680 years and I'm still in the same page. You know what, though, 0:53:11.719 --> 0:53:14.000 we got a lot to show for that. That's true. Yes, 0:53:14.800 --> 0:53:16.200 you can't go there. We got a lot to show 0:53:16.239 --> 0:53:18.959 for that. That's what my mind does. I know, stop 0:53:18.960 --> 0:53:20.919 doing that. I get it though. We're in our quarter 0:53:20.960 --> 0:53:24.040 life crisis. Yeah, yeah, we are, that's happening right now. Yeah, 0:53:24.040 --> 0:53:26.560 but I'm glad we shared that. We got a little 0:53:26.560 --> 0:53:28.640 bit more talk about before you head off and jet 0:53:28.680 --> 0:53:32.480 to your bachelorette party. Whoa we had Number three spot. 0:53:32.520 --> 0:53:34.439 Amy shared that she cried in the grocery store aisle 0:53:34.480 --> 0:53:36.720 and why that happened and how you should like recognize 0:53:36.719 --> 0:53:38.600 your feelings and kind of shared a pro tip on that, 0:53:38.640 --> 0:53:41.279 and I loved like hearing that from her perspective. So 0:53:41.360 --> 0:53:43.680 I want to share a life hack because I feel 0:53:43.680 --> 0:53:45.239 like what Amy shared is kind of a life hack 0:53:45.560 --> 0:53:48.200 do you have a life hack to share? You go first, 0:53:48.320 --> 0:53:50.720 You let me go first. So this is like legit, 0:53:50.719 --> 0:53:53.520 straight up life hack. If you have gnats or fruit 0:53:53.520 --> 0:53:55.840 flies in your house, listen. I have a little succulent 0:53:56.080 --> 0:53:57.840 plant that I created when I was on which I 0:53:57.920 --> 0:54:00.600 brought back with me. It is thriving, it's so well, 0:54:00.920 --> 0:54:03.319 but it brought gnats into my house, which I was 0:54:03.400 --> 0:54:05.640 not ready for. When I went to water the other day, 0:54:05.680 --> 0:54:07.080 they all came out and I was like, what is 0:54:07.120 --> 0:54:11.279 going on? It was not prepared, and so I had 0:54:11.320 --> 0:54:13.279 looked online all the ways I can get rid of this, 0:54:13.280 --> 0:54:15.520 because they were just kind of swarming the succulents, and 0:54:15.600 --> 0:54:18.000 so I put a little cup of wine next to 0:54:18.040 --> 0:54:20.719 it with a little bit of apple cider vinegar and 0:54:21.200 --> 0:54:25.080 they all fell into it and died. Really, Oh that worked. 0:54:25.120 --> 0:54:26.840 You didn't have to put anything else in it. Nope. 0:54:26.880 --> 0:54:30.560 So because it's sweet and they attract to like nutrients essentially, 0:54:30.640 --> 0:54:33.920 or like something sweet. It's particularly fruit flies do, but 0:54:34.000 --> 0:54:36.040 like gnats are kind of the same way. But yeah, 0:54:36.040 --> 0:54:37.800 I put wine with a little bit of apple cider 0:54:37.840 --> 0:54:39.640 vinegar right next to the plant and they were all 0:54:39.680 --> 0:54:41.839 in there by like forty eight hours they were all gone, 0:54:41.960 --> 0:54:43.640 oh my gosh. I did that one time, and they 0:54:43.680 --> 0:54:45.399 said you have to put like don soap and let 0:54:45.440 --> 0:54:47.760 a bubble so that they get caught in the bubbles. 0:54:47.800 --> 0:54:50.560 But I guess they're they just get so little suckers 0:54:50.640 --> 0:54:54.840 intoxicated by the fumes and they just fall in something. 0:54:54.920 --> 0:54:57.360 I think both work. I think there's a kind of 0:54:57.400 --> 0:54:59.040 an idea of around all of that. But like if 0:54:59.040 --> 0:55:00.640 you don't have don soap at your house and you 0:55:00.719 --> 0:55:03.280 got wine. A lot of people got wine at their house. Yeah, 0:55:03.320 --> 0:55:05.400 a lot of people recently have apples, eide or vinegar. 0:55:05.480 --> 0:55:06.759 So you can do one or the other, you can 0:55:06.800 --> 0:55:09.120 do both. I did a little bit of both, and yeah, 0:55:09.480 --> 0:55:12.520 that is awesome because that's a huge problem in my house. 0:55:12.760 --> 0:55:15.799 Is yes, yeah, all every year that happens. I'm like, 0:55:15.800 --> 0:55:17.600 where are they coming from? Yeah, so just get low 0:55:17.640 --> 0:55:19.120 costs and just put a little bit of wine just 0:55:19.280 --> 0:55:22.200 like all over. I'm telling you, they go away very quickly. 0:55:22.280 --> 0:55:24.719 I'm gonna drive. I honestly didn't know that. Yeah, yeah, 0:55:24.800 --> 0:55:27.560 I got you life act, Oh love it? What you got? Okay, 0:55:27.560 --> 0:55:31.880 Well I have one that okay, So it's about like water, 0:55:32.040 --> 0:55:35.799 you know. In Nashville, the shower water has chlorine in it. 0:55:36.200 --> 0:55:39.400 Oh yeah, it's really bad, yes, and it smells really gross. 0:55:39.400 --> 0:55:42.840 But I got a filter for mine. Yeah, and it 0:55:42.880 --> 0:55:45.520 makes my hair feel so smooth and soft. I'm not 0:55:45.520 --> 0:55:48.960 really kidding. Did you get it on Amazon? Yes? Yeah, yeah, 0:55:49.000 --> 0:55:51.120 And so you just change change the filters, but it 0:55:51.160 --> 0:55:53.440 makes it. I mean I can tell a huge difference, 0:55:53.480 --> 0:55:55.560 and my hair doesn't dry it out because like chlorine, 0:55:55.600 --> 0:55:58.799 it's not good for you to like bathe in basically, 0:55:59.000 --> 0:56:01.279 and you can smell it and like taste bad. There's 0:56:01.320 --> 0:56:03.560 nothing good about it. And I got this filter. I'm 0:56:03.600 --> 0:56:05.800 not even kidding. Life changing. I mean more for girls 0:56:05.800 --> 0:56:08.279 probably than guys would care about. But yeah, but I 0:56:08.280 --> 0:56:10.200 mean guys have hair, maybe you know, like maybe it 0:56:10.200 --> 0:56:12.719 helps them not like lose their hair quicker, if that's 0:56:12.719 --> 0:56:14.960 like something in their gene. Yeah, because I'm sure chlorine 0:56:15.000 --> 0:56:17.319 doesn't help anybody with that, right. There's just nothing good 0:56:17.360 --> 0:56:19.360 about It's not good for your skin, your hair or anything. 0:56:19.440 --> 0:56:21.400 So I'm like, hey, okay, I mean I don't know 0:56:21.400 --> 0:56:23.719 if that's really a life back, that's a life hack, 0:56:23.800 --> 0:56:25.960 because like most people don't even know that that exists. 0:56:26.000 --> 0:56:27.600 I don't think I even learn about it until I 0:56:27.640 --> 0:56:30.520 moved to Nashville because about bad the water it's here, yes, 0:56:30.560 --> 0:56:32.920 and it tastes so bad you have to have a filter. Yep, 0:56:33.040 --> 0:56:34.920 I use a filter because it's so bad. You can't 0:56:35.000 --> 0:56:38.560 drink that tap water here. No, So I mean I 0:56:38.560 --> 0:56:40.960 feel like that could help. That's a great life I 0:56:41.000 --> 0:56:46.400 want smooth him. I love that life hack. That's a 0:56:46.400 --> 0:56:49.680 great one. And now now people have wine and filters 0:56:49.680 --> 0:56:52.680 and they will be happier than ever. H Yes, I'll 0:56:52.719 --> 0:56:55.640 like it. We had in at the number two spots 0:56:55.680 --> 0:56:57.480 Becau but Steve shared how he doesn't want to get 0:56:57.520 --> 0:57:01.040 a vasectomy basically, and I he said, I would rather 0:57:01.080 --> 0:57:03.480 have ten more kids than get a sex to me, 0:57:04.440 --> 0:57:07.200 but do you know the power to that situation? And 0:57:07.320 --> 0:57:09.719 that that's all there. I'll just leave that there. Um 0:57:09.920 --> 0:57:15.120 talk about some dating relationship type updates if you want to, 0:57:15.280 --> 0:57:17.920 I'll share. I'll share mine and see how you feel 0:57:18.200 --> 0:57:20.960 you want to talk about anything. But I had seen 0:57:21.240 --> 0:57:24.840 on TikTok recently, and let me tell you this is 0:57:24.840 --> 0:57:28.360 helping me meet guys I r L in real life. 0:57:28.440 --> 0:57:31.000 Yeah yeah I got that. Yeah, well I realized I 0:57:31.040 --> 0:57:34.320 was like, hold on, that phrase seems weird saying just 0:57:34.360 --> 0:57:36.360 like in real life over like I r L. Yes, 0:57:36.480 --> 0:57:38.200 I don't know why, so I always say IRL, And 0:57:38.200 --> 0:57:40.040 then I realize most people may not know what that is. 0:57:40.360 --> 0:57:43.200 I'm glad you clarified. Just not just for you, it's 0:57:43.200 --> 0:57:45.880 for everyone. I always get that, especially like my dad listening, 0:57:45.920 --> 0:57:47.600 He's gonna be like, Marrion, what's IRL. I'm gonna get 0:57:47.520 --> 0:57:49.160 a phone call on Sunday morning, like Dad, I don't 0:57:49.160 --> 0:57:51.480 know what this. Yeah, it'll be a whole thing. Yeah, 0:57:52.000 --> 0:57:53.920 but I saw this. I don't even know who it 0:57:53.960 --> 0:57:55.880 was that was sharing it, but she was like, hey, 0:57:56.040 --> 0:57:58.600 if you're trying to meet guys in person, same would 0:57:58.600 --> 0:58:00.560 go for females as well, Like, you know, if you're 0:58:00.560 --> 0:58:03.120 a guy trying to dake girls in real life instead 0:58:03.120 --> 0:58:05.360 of being on the dating maps or whatever they say, 0:58:05.720 --> 0:58:09.040 make eye contact and keep the eye contact, you know 0:58:09.080 --> 0:58:11.520 how hard? Like And I thought about this because after 0:58:11.560 --> 0:58:13.120 I saw this video and then I was out in public, 0:58:13.160 --> 0:58:15.040 I was like, dang, I don't do eye contact with anyone. 0:58:15.040 --> 0:58:16.600 I see him and out to look down immediately and 0:58:16.600 --> 0:58:19.160 I would look away and I'm like, no eye contact, yes, 0:58:19.280 --> 0:58:22.200 because it's awkward, right, Oh yeah, but I did this. 0:58:22.360 --> 0:58:23.760 I was like, I had got I had a few 0:58:23.840 --> 0:58:25.479 drinks in me a few nights, and I was like, yeah, 0:58:25.560 --> 0:58:28.160 let's like make sure to keep at least for a 0:58:28.200 --> 0:58:31.000 few seconds, keep the eye contact. And so I did this, 0:58:31.080 --> 0:58:35.120 and I talked to two guys. I rl, yeah, yeah, 0:58:35.120 --> 0:58:37.880 that's awesome. I don't plan to like go out of 0:58:37.920 --> 0:58:40.160 them again, but at least it worked. Yes, they come 0:58:40.240 --> 0:58:43.520 up to you, they did. See. That is amazing. It 0:58:43.520 --> 0:58:46.160 worked so And I think that's because like when you 0:58:46.240 --> 0:58:48.280 keep eye contact, it's your way of saying like, hey, 0:58:48.360 --> 0:58:52.000 I'm interested. You can approach like totally cool, yes, whereas 0:58:52.000 --> 0:58:54.040 if you look away, it's like, oh, they're not interested. 0:58:54.080 --> 0:58:55.680 I'm not going to go up to them. So it's 0:58:55.840 --> 0:58:59.080 literally saying hey I'm interested without saying hey I'm interested. Yeah, 0:58:59.120 --> 0:59:00.680 it's like the body line, which you're not going to 0:59:00.760 --> 0:59:03.400 go up to someone that's like looking down obviously because 0:59:03.600 --> 0:59:05.680 it doesn't look like they're interested, which is what yes, 0:59:05.720 --> 0:59:09.200 we do all the time, but we look away. I'm like, oh, awkward, 0:59:09.280 --> 0:59:11.280 don't want to do that. Oh, but see that's the problem. 0:59:11.320 --> 0:59:13.439 When when we have drinks, we can, But what about 0:59:13.440 --> 0:59:15.520 if you're at the store, Like what if you're at twelve, hey, 0:59:15.680 --> 0:59:18.000 start when you're a little you got a little liquid courage, 0:59:18.080 --> 0:59:20.160 maybe yeah, and then you can do it to the 0:59:20.240 --> 0:59:22.520 sober you. Because I have it's at least now that 0:59:22.560 --> 0:59:24.840 I know that it works, I'm like, okay, okay, I 0:59:25.080 --> 0:59:27.720 can get a little more confidence with this. I'm working on. 0:59:27.760 --> 0:59:30.960 I'm not saying I have yet. No. The things I 0:59:31.000 --> 0:59:33.120 always wonder is like at different places, like what do 0:59:33.160 --> 0:59:34.400 you say? Like what if you see a guy at 0:59:34.400 --> 0:59:36.800 the airport, what could be something you could say to 0:59:37.000 --> 0:59:38.920 start talking to them? Or like if you're at the store, 0:59:39.120 --> 0:59:42.160 you know, I feel like there's good icebreaker things that 0:59:42.200 --> 0:59:44.440 you could actually come up to them, Like let's say 0:59:44.440 --> 0:59:46.240 you're at home depot, like it could be like I 0:59:46.280 --> 0:59:48.320 actually have done this, and I felt I was so 0:59:48.360 --> 0:59:50.360 proud of myself. I was just like I don't remember 0:59:50.400 --> 0:59:52.120 what I was exactly looking at, but I was like, 0:59:52.360 --> 0:59:54.120 I'm trying to like hang this on the wall, like 0:59:54.160 --> 0:59:56.520 what tools should I get? And it actually like that 0:59:56.560 --> 0:59:58.840 was good. I feel like, oh, guys love a damsel 0:59:58.840 --> 1:00:02.480 in distress moment exactly, So that worked. But I'm always 1:00:02.480 --> 1:00:04.400 like I could say, how to get this guy? But 1:00:04.440 --> 1:00:06.400 what do you say you're in target. Yeah, you're not 1:00:06.440 --> 1:00:09.560 just gonna like hi, hi there come here often like 1:00:10.320 --> 1:00:12.919 hey why do I go get drinks? No contexts, just hey, 1:00:13.240 --> 1:00:16.480 I know, yeah, you're right that you need like a 1:00:16.520 --> 1:00:19.480 minimal icebreaker. That's why I liked that they came up 1:00:19.480 --> 1:00:21.400 to you, when they just come up to you. So 1:00:21.520 --> 1:00:24.760 one of them was one of them was totally organic. 1:00:24.800 --> 1:00:27.280 And it happened from that and he was asking me 1:00:27.360 --> 1:00:29.800 a question. So he was with his friends. I was 1:00:29.840 --> 1:00:31.280 with one of my friends, and he was like, Hey, 1:00:31.280 --> 1:00:33.320 we're having this full blown debate, like what's your take 1:00:33.360 --> 1:00:36.240 on it? Great idea. Oh that's so like if you're 1:00:36.240 --> 1:00:38.880 out and about, Yes, great idea to have like a debate, 1:00:38.960 --> 1:00:40.640 even if you're not actually having the debate, but like, 1:00:40.680 --> 1:00:42.360 this is what you want them to give their opinion on. 1:00:42.800 --> 1:00:46.400 Great icebreaker. He did great. Love that. Yeah. Good one. 1:00:46.600 --> 1:00:48.480 The other guy had at least a little bit of 1:00:48.520 --> 1:00:51.360 an icebreaker because he knew the girl I was with, okay, 1:00:51.400 --> 1:00:52.680 and so he came and talked to her and then 1:00:52.680 --> 1:00:54.600 he was like what about you, Like, what's your story? 1:00:54.640 --> 1:00:56.080 What do you do? So it was like she was 1:00:56.120 --> 1:00:59.560 the icebreaker. So that was a little less organic than 1:00:59.560 --> 1:01:01.520 the other one, but he knew I want him to 1:01:01.760 --> 1:01:04.680 approach because I kept making eye contact. I can't look 1:01:04.680 --> 1:01:06.680 over and I give the flirty eyes. I'd be like, 1:01:07.680 --> 1:01:09.320 I'm not gonna do it, but you're gonna do it, 1:01:10.360 --> 1:01:13.160 and then you're just over here, like Okay, I've made it. 1:01:13.720 --> 1:01:15.960 You can come over now. But it also helps me 1:01:16.000 --> 1:01:18.560 because like say they're with someone and you do make 1:01:18.600 --> 1:01:20.840 contact eye contact, I can at least know that, like 1:01:20.920 --> 1:01:22.560 I showed you that interest, and if they do have 1:01:22.600 --> 1:01:24.400 a girlfriend, they're not going to come over at least 1:01:24.400 --> 1:01:28.240 I would freaking hope, yeah, I would hope. Yeah. So 1:01:29.360 --> 1:01:32.960 life hack in dating, I make the eye contact and 1:01:33.040 --> 1:01:35.280 keep the eye contact because it's so easy. And I 1:01:35.320 --> 1:01:37.200 even see it out if you're at places people just 1:01:37.280 --> 1:01:39.920 look at their phones because there it's like even walking 1:01:39.960 --> 1:01:42.360 to their car and I'm like, you're avoiding eye contact 1:01:42.440 --> 1:01:45.240 right now, we're passing, yep. Like it's so if you 1:01:45.240 --> 1:01:48.120 see a cute man, you see a cute girl, eye contact, 1:01:48.160 --> 1:01:50.480 eye contact, Okay, keep it, but make sure you're not 1:01:50.520 --> 1:01:52.760 like staring like death stare, Like give a little smile, 1:01:53.160 --> 1:01:56.840 lettle smirk with the eyes, you know, like a death stare. 1:01:58.080 --> 1:02:00.360 That would be weird. You'r RBF if a guy, Oh 1:02:00.400 --> 1:02:02.120 my gosh, if a guy gave me an RBF for 1:02:02.160 --> 1:02:04.320 a death stare, I'd be like, sir, I gotta go. 1:02:06.160 --> 1:02:08.960 I know he's glaring, but he doesn't know it. Oh yeah, 1:02:09.000 --> 1:02:12.880 so smile with your eyes and with your mouth. Okay, 1:02:13.040 --> 1:02:16.040 I'm gonna try it, so pro chef that one I learned. Um. 1:02:16.440 --> 1:02:19.000 I also, I don't believe I have talked about this, 1:02:19.280 --> 1:02:20.919 and if I have, I'm sorry if y'all are hearing 1:02:21.000 --> 1:02:23.000 this again. But I had stopped talking to a guy 1:02:23.120 --> 1:02:26.360 on a dating app. Let me tell you why. Oh no, 1:02:26.440 --> 1:02:29.720 I'm scared. No, you know, honestly, I bet I bet 1:02:30.080 --> 1:02:33.200 you would have kept talking to this guy. What is that? Okay? 1:02:34.120 --> 1:02:36.320 Because he wasn't a bad guy. He didn't do anything wrong, okay, 1:02:36.920 --> 1:02:40.439 But the conversation turned very awkward because, like I had said, 1:02:40.440 --> 1:02:42.760 hey share with me some fun facts about you, and 1:02:42.840 --> 1:02:45.320 so he does, and then I do. And one of 1:02:45.320 --> 1:02:47.360 my fun facts is always that I've been a vegetarian. 1:02:47.400 --> 1:02:49.479 So that's eight years old. It's the easiest fun fact 1:02:49.520 --> 1:02:52.360 for me, and I share that, right, and I share 1:02:52.400 --> 1:02:54.560 like a few others. But he locks into that fact, 1:02:54.560 --> 1:02:59.840 and he goes, well, um, I buy wholk house to 1:03:00.160 --> 1:03:03.600 eat by myself, so I eat a lot of meat. 1:03:04.760 --> 1:03:08.680 He's like a farmer or something. No, it's And I 1:03:08.720 --> 1:03:10.360 also learned from my sister that this is a real 1:03:10.400 --> 1:03:13.120 thing that like families do. They'll buy like a whole cow, 1:03:13.280 --> 1:03:16.760 like that's been processed whatever, but they'll buy the whole cow, 1:03:16.840 --> 1:03:19.600 or they'll buy half a cow for like the whole family. 1:03:19.640 --> 1:03:22.000 I get it. I get that. I also still don't 1:03:22.000 --> 1:03:24.120 even know that was the thing until this conversation even happened. 1:03:24.400 --> 1:03:27.360 That this is very ironic. Yeah, that like both like 1:03:27.480 --> 1:03:30.640 extremes like zero meat to all the meat in the world. 1:03:30.720 --> 1:03:33.000 And so I'm sitting there and I'm processing this and 1:03:33.000 --> 1:03:35.440 I'm like, this isn't a bad thing for this guy. 1:03:36.920 --> 1:03:39.400 But I cannot imagine my life where I am dating 1:03:39.400 --> 1:03:41.400 a man and he has a whole cow broken down 1:03:41.400 --> 1:03:44.120 in my freezer. You have no room for your stuff. 1:03:44.160 --> 1:03:48.080 And I'm like, I don't see that. I mean, something 1:03:48.120 --> 1:03:52.040 that works. It is a compromise. Is that a thing 1:03:52.120 --> 1:03:54.240 at all? Like be like, hey, could you maybe not 1:03:54.320 --> 1:03:58.200 buy like a thousand pounds? I mean, And I'm just 1:03:58.240 --> 1:04:01.800 like I'm thinking I'm like, that's buy himself, that is 1:04:01.880 --> 1:04:03.800 by himself that he buys this. This is not for 1:04:03.800 --> 1:04:05.760 a family, This is not for small children, This is 1:04:05.760 --> 1:04:09.320 not for like five dudes. This is one man buying 1:04:09.360 --> 1:04:11.520 a whole cow often. And you know what he was 1:04:11.560 --> 1:04:13.680 probably thinking too, He's like, and my fridge is gonna 1:04:13.720 --> 1:04:17.240 be full of like lettuce and carrots and vegetables. Yeah, 1:04:17.320 --> 1:04:20.000 I don't care. So, you know, I just didn't have 1:04:20.080 --> 1:04:23.360 the right thing to say back, so I didn't and 1:04:23.360 --> 1:04:25.439 I didn't say we never met. We had never met 1:04:25.480 --> 1:04:27.360 in person. This is just the exchange on like the 1:04:27.440 --> 1:04:29.200 dating nap. And I was like, you know, I'm just 1:04:29.240 --> 1:04:32.960 gonna cut our loss this here because I just don't 1:04:33.080 --> 1:04:36.320 feel like this is the right fit. I feel like 1:04:36.320 --> 1:04:37.960 you could date a girl who's gonna eat that whole 1:04:37.960 --> 1:04:39.440 cow with you and it's gonna be great for you, 1:04:40.080 --> 1:04:42.520 and I am not that girl. Okay. The last thing 1:04:42.560 --> 1:04:45.040 he said was, oh, I eat a whole cow by myself. 1:04:45.240 --> 1:04:46.920 That's kind of god. Yeah, And he was kind of 1:04:46.960 --> 1:04:48.680 like making he was like in a way, be like 1:04:48.960 --> 1:04:51.560 like would that bother you? And at the first when 1:04:51.600 --> 1:04:53.640 I first saw it, I was like, I don't think 1:04:53.680 --> 1:04:55.960 the fact that you do that bothers me. It's just 1:04:56.000 --> 1:05:00.000 the realization that we live two very different lives. Yeah, 1:05:00.120 --> 1:05:02.040 like I could date a meater if they go eat 1:05:02.120 --> 1:05:05.160 cheeseburger at a restaurant or whatever. Cool. Love that it's 1:05:05.200 --> 1:05:07.760 great for you doesn't bother me. But like, you got 1:05:07.800 --> 1:05:10.160 a whole cow in my freezer, Like I get married, 1:05:10.320 --> 1:05:14.640 You got a whole cow just like. I think this 1:05:14.680 --> 1:05:16.840 is hilarious because I've never even had that happened to 1:05:16.880 --> 1:05:19.600 me and I eat me. I wouldn't mind. I know. 1:05:19.640 --> 1:05:21.360 That's what I'm saying. I think for you or for 1:05:21.400 --> 1:05:24.200 anyone else, it wouldn't have been like okay, yeah, that's fine. 1:05:24.920 --> 1:05:27.760 That's why I'm saying. I think he I'm doing this 1:05:27.800 --> 1:05:29.920 out of fairness to him, that he deserved for girls 1:05:29.960 --> 1:05:32.000 that would eat that cow with him, and that he 1:05:32.040 --> 1:05:34.439 could have that. I mean it concerns me a little 1:05:34.520 --> 1:05:37.960 though with it. He has not much meat for just himself. 1:05:38.000 --> 1:05:41.320 I know, I have talked to us bad. Yeah that 1:05:41.360 --> 1:05:44.520 means he's eating like a whole leg in one day, 1:05:46.680 --> 1:05:50.760 you know. Yeah. Um, I don't know how normal that is. Um, 1:05:52.880 --> 1:05:55.040 according to my sister, is normal, but she said it's 1:05:55.040 --> 1:05:58.120 normal for families to do this. He families, I don't. 1:05:58.280 --> 1:06:00.400 I don't even know if I would continue. I'm be like, 1:06:00.480 --> 1:06:05.640 you got a thing with meat? Yeah? Yeah? Are you 1:06:05.680 --> 1:06:08.240 eating anything else? Or is it just the leg? Because 1:06:08.440 --> 1:06:11.480 I got so many questions, but I couldn't bear. I 1:06:11.520 --> 1:06:14.240 just couldn't. I was like, I'm just going Maybe we 1:06:14.280 --> 1:06:16.240 had maybe exchanged like three or four messages, so it 1:06:16.280 --> 1:06:17.600 wasn't like the end of the world for me to 1:06:17.640 --> 1:06:21.000 stop saying that's something, But I just did you want 1:06:21.000 --> 1:06:22.840 to matchine him? Or just like no, if I just 1:06:22.920 --> 1:06:24.920 left it, I just didn't respond, and he hasn't tried 1:06:25.000 --> 1:06:26.880 to reach out. No. I think he. I think he 1:06:26.920 --> 1:06:28.960 had the same realization that I did that this was 1:06:29.040 --> 1:06:31.960 just not a fit. He's like, both of you just 1:06:32.000 --> 1:06:33.840 like snuck out. I can just see back you like 1:06:34.280 --> 1:06:36.280 it's not gonna see a conversation in person and somebody 1:06:36.280 --> 1:06:38.920 says something awkward and you're both like, well, great to 1:06:38.960 --> 1:06:40.800 meet you, and you run away. This is kind of 1:06:40.800 --> 1:06:44.160 what happened on a dating map. So those are my 1:06:44.640 --> 1:06:48.640 recent stories. That's hilarious. You know, I'm really not active 1:06:48.760 --> 1:06:50.520 on there because every time I do get on, I'm 1:06:50.600 --> 1:06:53.120 very I'm just curious to see what's out there, and 1:06:53.320 --> 1:06:56.320 it's just nothing good. Ever, it's such a waste of 1:06:56.360 --> 1:06:59.360 my time at the moment. They just like don't answer, 1:07:00.080 --> 1:07:01.920 you know, and I'm like, okay, we matched, why are 1:07:01.960 --> 1:07:04.080 you not going to respond? And then I've had some 1:07:04.120 --> 1:07:06.080 guys come back after five months and they're like, hey, 1:07:06.080 --> 1:07:09.880 how have you been. I'm like, we never even like, oh, 1:07:09.920 --> 1:07:12.120 I don't understand. They come back, they come from the 1:07:12.240 --> 1:07:15.600 grave site they do, Yep, they're back, and I'm just like, okay, 1:07:15.600 --> 1:07:18.320 I'm actually really done. So you full on deleted all 1:07:18.320 --> 1:07:22.160 the apps. I didn't know I didn't delete on. Yeah, 1:07:22.160 --> 1:07:25.560 I still look. Just you are still active. I'm not 1:07:25.600 --> 1:07:27.880 act like I don't I don't know. I just tipe 1:07:27.960 --> 1:07:29.600 left all the time. I think I'm just seeing what's 1:07:29.600 --> 1:07:33.600 in Nashville. I don't really know the purpose. That's fair, honestly, 1:07:34.240 --> 1:07:37.160 it gives you. You know, Um, I've learned. This is 1:07:37.480 --> 1:07:40.400 I've not learned. I have heard from therapists. This is 1:07:40.400 --> 1:07:41.720 not the way to do. It is to be like 1:07:41.880 --> 1:07:46.800 inactively actively looking, because you're not like purposefully dating, and 1:07:46.840 --> 1:07:49.560 the purpose is to purposely dating. But let me tell you, 1:07:49.720 --> 1:07:51.320 it makes me feel good when I can match with 1:07:51.360 --> 1:07:53.240 a guy on a dating app, or if I see 1:07:53.240 --> 1:07:55.080 someone I'm like always cute. At least he exists out 1:07:55.080 --> 1:07:58.560 there in the world. Something about that like makes me 1:07:58.680 --> 1:08:03.280 not feel so alone. Yeah, in a way, maybe that's why. Yeah, 1:08:03.360 --> 1:08:05.160 but I don't think it. Yeah, that could be it. 1:08:05.400 --> 1:08:07.959 It's entirely fair. Yeah, it's just like once a week, 1:08:08.080 --> 1:08:11.160 Like it's not it's like the last page of my phone. 1:08:11.640 --> 1:08:13.720 I'm just like, I guess I'll why not just see 1:08:13.760 --> 1:08:15.680 what's out there. It's kind of like me sitting at 1:08:15.680 --> 1:08:18.160 a bar looking around. That's basically what it is, just 1:08:18.240 --> 1:08:21.040 digital like on your phone. Right, that is true, accept 1:08:21.040 --> 1:08:23.280 your fall on. So I mean yes, no, yes, no, 1:08:24.040 --> 1:08:27.760 I can't do that in person. Unfortunately, Yeah you can 1:08:27.840 --> 1:08:30.559 with eye contact. So I think right is making eye contact, 1:08:30.960 --> 1:08:32.800 that's true. And if you don't want to, just don't 1:08:32.840 --> 1:08:35.439 make eye contact, you like look away hard, fast, very 1:08:35.479 --> 1:08:38.280 obviously look away Like yeah, I mean I do that 1:08:38.320 --> 1:08:40.480 now because I kind of get tired of being approached 1:08:40.479 --> 1:08:43.479 by creepers, like honestly, and like when I was in 1:08:43.560 --> 1:08:46.200 Key West that was like perfect example. I would sit 1:08:46.200 --> 1:08:49.000 at the bar by myself and it was people like 1:08:49.120 --> 1:08:52.840 in their fifties, you know, and I'm just like, I 1:08:53.280 --> 1:08:55.360 thank you for talking to me, but I really don't 1:08:55.400 --> 1:08:57.759 want to talk right now, Like I'm enjoying my food, 1:08:58.280 --> 1:09:00.360 you know, I don't want to have a conversation with 1:09:00.880 --> 1:09:05.920 someone that I don't Yeah. See, do you feel that, like, um, 1:09:06.080 --> 1:09:08.280 the guy that you're after is never going to approach you, 1:09:08.320 --> 1:09:10.160 but all the guys that you never go after will 1:09:10.160 --> 1:09:13.400 approach you. Yes, that always happens for some reason. I 1:09:13.760 --> 1:09:16.960 can't figure out what it is, and I don't feel 1:09:17.000 --> 1:09:18.960 like I don't. And that doesn't say people shouldn't approach. 1:09:18.960 --> 1:09:21.600 You should always approach your in someone, but like I 1:09:21.680 --> 1:09:23.760 just don't. I didn't know if that was just a 1:09:23.880 --> 1:09:27.639 mean thing. Maybe I just hate people. No, it's usually 1:09:27.680 --> 1:09:29.639 never someone I want to talk to, to be honest, 1:09:30.680 --> 1:09:34.280 just for whatever reason, just because they have confidence. Yes, No, 1:09:34.400 --> 1:09:37.280 I do like that, Like I admire you full on 1:09:37.880 --> 1:09:40.640 for going. But maybe wait for the eye contacts or 1:09:40.680 --> 1:09:43.840 something that's the key. Yeah. Yeah, But then if they 1:09:43.840 --> 1:09:46.560 never make eye contact but they were interested in misconnection, 1:09:46.600 --> 1:09:48.200 that's the thing too, because what if she just didn't 1:09:48.200 --> 1:09:50.080 see you, she's busy, she's talking with her friends, and 1:09:50.120 --> 1:09:52.840 then there you are so who knows. I don't have 1:09:52.880 --> 1:09:59.000 the answers obviously, so keep approaching and yes, okay, all right, 1:09:59.080 --> 1:10:01.720 So that that is the dating app update for you. 1:10:02.160 --> 1:10:04.760 Any other updates you want to share? Nope, I'm not 1:10:04.800 --> 1:10:07.439 gonna share anything the moment, all right, I'll like it. 1:10:07.880 --> 1:10:10.360 And in that number one spot it is you miss 1:10:10.360 --> 1:10:12.519 Abby sing in the national anthem at the Predators game. 1:10:12.840 --> 1:10:15.719 How do you feel post national anthem? That was awesome 1:10:15.760 --> 1:10:18.360 and crazy and I can't believe it happened. It was 1:10:18.439 --> 1:10:23.160 just very like surreal and cool. Okay, I don't even 1:10:23.160 --> 1:10:26.800 know that you got. Let's feel surreal? You feel cool? 1:10:27.160 --> 1:10:29.439 Do you feel good about it? You feel proud? I do? 1:10:29.520 --> 1:10:31.479 And have you listened back to it? Oh my gosh, 1:10:31.520 --> 1:10:34.120 I yeah, I've listened back, and I'm so critical. I 1:10:34.200 --> 1:10:36.920 don't like to listen back. I feel like it sounded 1:10:37.000 --> 1:10:41.479 better in the arena because it's just more like echo 1:10:41.600 --> 1:10:45.960 and natural, like echo sound or whatever. When you listen 1:10:46.040 --> 1:10:48.960 back to the recording, I can tell him a little 1:10:49.000 --> 1:10:52.200 nervous when I didn't think I was that nervous. Okay, 1:10:52.320 --> 1:10:55.160 but no, I thought I did better than I thought 1:10:55.160 --> 1:10:57.640 it would. Yeah, I thought you did, know, right, But 1:10:58.000 --> 1:11:00.120 you know, we are our own worst critics. So that's 1:11:00.120 --> 1:11:02.479 why I asked if you were having like a high 1:11:02.560 --> 1:11:04.720 from it or if you like had lows from it. 1:11:04.800 --> 1:11:07.280 I kind of cringe when a video or I start 1:11:07.800 --> 1:11:10.400 hearing a video of it for some reason. But I'm 1:11:10.439 --> 1:11:12.840 always like that on things. I just don't like hearing 1:11:13.720 --> 1:11:18.640 my voice back work. That you're gonna be a singer, Abby, 1:11:19.400 --> 1:11:22.880 I think that's it's important. I don't know. I don't know. 1:11:22.920 --> 1:11:25.559 I'm too critical, That's what it is. Have you had 1:11:25.600 --> 1:11:30.840 anybody approached you since the National Anthem? Like professionally, I 1:11:31.000 --> 1:11:35.080 have three contracts like that have been offered. I'm just kidding. 1:11:35.640 --> 1:11:39.080 I was like about like a lot three record deals, 1:11:39.160 --> 1:11:42.479 you know that. I'm kind of maybe hasn't I reach 1:11:42.479 --> 1:11:44.680 out about doing the national Anthem? Maybe you had like 1:11:44.720 --> 1:11:47.000 I actually have, But they're in different states. That makes 1:11:47.000 --> 1:11:50.760 it a little difficult. Okay, Um, what states? Oh, they're 1:11:50.760 --> 1:11:54.839 pretty far. Like one was Maryland. I think one was Florida. 1:11:55.040 --> 1:11:57.920 You do love Florida? What you love Florida? I know 1:11:57.960 --> 1:12:00.759 it's always Florida. Why is it? But it's a games 1:12:00.840 --> 1:12:02.200 or something that I would love to do. Like they 1:12:02.320 --> 1:12:04.120 they're like we have a baseball game coming up? Can 1:12:04.200 --> 1:12:07.479 you do it? Someone tagged me and like the Wichita, 1:12:07.000 --> 1:12:08.880 Oh yeah, you know how they have a baseball team. 1:12:09.080 --> 1:12:11.000 They're like they're doing auditions. You should do it. And 1:12:11.040 --> 1:12:13.080 I'm like, oh, that's cool. But I can never travel, 1:12:13.280 --> 1:12:15.880 So that's true. You and you'd have to be able 1:12:15.880 --> 1:12:18.400 to travel on weekdays. What if you became the traveling 1:12:18.680 --> 1:12:23.240 national anthem singer? What if I did that? That'd be awesome. 1:12:23.600 --> 1:12:25.679 I totally do that. That could be a thing. Yes, 1:12:25.760 --> 1:12:28.280 Like everybody has their thing that could be that could 1:12:28.360 --> 1:12:32.280 be mine. Yes, And like all the feedback is so nice, 1:12:32.320 --> 1:12:34.599 like people are like, oh, it was so great and 1:12:34.640 --> 1:12:37.040 I love that. And then there's like three people that 1:12:37.080 --> 1:12:39.040 are mean and I look at those and I'm like, oh, 1:12:39.080 --> 1:12:42.800 you're so mean, Hey, take them. Don't look at them 1:12:42.800 --> 1:12:46.679 as mean. Take them as constructive criticism. If you can't, 1:12:46.720 --> 1:12:48.559 if they're just so mean and vile that there's not 1:12:48.560 --> 1:12:52.040 even a little bit of criticism, then you forget them. 1:12:52.040 --> 1:12:54.120 You be pushing them out the door. They're not allowed 1:12:54.160 --> 1:12:57.680 in the brain. Yes, But I'm like, I, unless you're 1:12:57.720 --> 1:13:00.759 like Carrie Underwood or you know, like a really good singer, 1:13:00.960 --> 1:13:04.000 I'm like I don't know why you're telling me, Like 1:13:04.040 --> 1:13:06.879 what advice are you gonna give me? Unless you sound amazing, 1:13:07.000 --> 1:13:12.040 then I'm I'll listen. But also like, if you're gonna create, 1:13:12.120 --> 1:13:15.240 like critique someone or criticize him, give them advice on 1:13:15.280 --> 1:13:20.000 how to improve, that's that's like, that's actual constructive criticism. Yes, 1:13:20.000 --> 1:13:21.479 so that is. But when you're just like, oh my gosh, 1:13:21.479 --> 1:13:23.679 she sounds terrible, I agree with lunchbox. I'm like, okay, 1:13:23.680 --> 1:13:26.960 thank you, I've heard that before. Thank you. I don't know. 1:13:27.640 --> 1:13:29.280 And then I did see someone they were like, what 1:13:29.439 --> 1:13:32.560 does it? What do you gain by being negative? And 1:13:32.600 --> 1:13:34.640 I was like, that's such a good Like what do 1:13:34.680 --> 1:13:37.160 you gain by posting something negative? You know? It's funny. 1:13:37.200 --> 1:13:39.519 I've had a recent conversation with my mom about this 1:13:39.640 --> 1:13:42.240 of just like people in general, if there's like negative 1:13:42.720 --> 1:13:46.160 energy that you get from someone and it all stems 1:13:46.240 --> 1:13:49.679 from their own personal insecurities, and it's really hard to 1:13:49.760 --> 1:13:52.160 feel that way when you read things and realize that 1:13:52.200 --> 1:13:54.760 it has nothing to do with you, has everything to 1:13:54.800 --> 1:13:57.879 do with him. But this guy from like a cute grandpa, 1:13:57.960 --> 1:14:01.120 and I'm like, why what are you insecure? It's like, 1:14:01.120 --> 1:14:02.760 why do you have to bash me to feel better 1:14:02.760 --> 1:14:05.200 about yourself. But think about it, right, if he's older 1:14:05.200 --> 1:14:08.400 and he's alone and he's sad, or there's things that 1:14:08.479 --> 1:14:12.320 he's gone through, Like, there's also this level too if 1:14:12.320 --> 1:14:17.280 they are older. That quates to pretty much like everyone 1:14:18.280 --> 1:14:22.680 I don't know, seventy and below, right, but older than that. 1:14:22.760 --> 1:14:24.599 I also think there is a level when you get 1:14:24.640 --> 1:14:26.200 to a point at a certain age, because like going 1:14:26.240 --> 1:14:27.840 to the retirement home, I see this a lot. They're 1:14:27.880 --> 1:14:30.799 so brutally honest, and they don't do it to be vile. 1:14:31.120 --> 1:14:33.519 They do it because they don't know any different. They're 1:14:33.560 --> 1:14:35.760 just like, I'm at the end of my life in 1:14:35.800 --> 1:14:38.559 this capacity. Why am I going to care then to 1:14:38.560 --> 1:14:40.800 share anything? Then what actually comes out of my mouth 1:14:40.920 --> 1:14:44.400 besides thinking about it? That's very true. They get to 1:14:44.439 --> 1:14:46.639 a point you don't care, Yeah, and I think that's 1:14:46.640 --> 1:14:48.200 where it comes from. I don't think it's actually like 1:14:48.240 --> 1:14:51.320 I'm doing this to be mean to this poor young woman. Yeah, 1:14:51.960 --> 1:14:53.680 I'm saying this because this is my opinion and this 1:14:53.760 --> 1:14:56.200 is how I feel, and I don't care, you know 1:14:56.200 --> 1:14:58.519 what I mean. I do think there's that level for 1:14:58.600 --> 1:15:02.639 that for like much much old, but seventy below. Nah, 1:15:03.240 --> 1:15:06.640 everybody's got insecurities. Yeah, no, that's true. That is a 1:15:06.640 --> 1:15:08.360 good way to look at it. But no, it was 1:15:08.400 --> 1:15:11.519 the coolest thing. I Oh my gosh, it was wild 1:15:11.760 --> 1:15:15.840 and like when I went out there, just like everybody looking, 1:15:15.960 --> 1:15:20.280 here's a lot. It was a lot. But I've I've 1:15:20.280 --> 1:15:22.639 watched you perform in our studio, I watched you perform 1:15:22.720 --> 1:15:25.400 on Broadway, and now I've watched you perform here, and 1:15:25.560 --> 1:15:27.679 this time was the one that I've never I didn't 1:15:27.680 --> 1:15:31.800 hear you sound nervous at all. Yay, good m You 1:15:31.840 --> 1:15:35.880 sounded confident, You sounded excited. Your voice is a very 1:15:35.880 --> 1:15:38.439 clear that makes happen. There was no like like when 1:15:38.479 --> 1:15:40.920 you get nervous, it comes across in the shakiness. Right 1:15:40.960 --> 1:15:43.000 You're like, oh, there's a lot happening, and you could 1:15:43.000 --> 1:15:45.080 still sound really good, but there's still shakiness in there, 1:15:45.120 --> 1:15:48.320 and there's just like timidness. I didn't hear that at all. 1:15:49.920 --> 1:15:51.559 That's what I was nervous about, because yes, when I 1:15:51.560 --> 1:15:54.280 sing in studio, it comes over your throat where it 1:15:54.320 --> 1:15:57.640 just kind of like paralyzes your vocal cords really and 1:15:57.920 --> 1:16:00.280 you want to sing out but you can't. And I 1:16:00.320 --> 1:16:02.719 was like, please do not let that happen here, please, 1:16:02.840 --> 1:16:05.960 And you didn't at all. That's why I'm saying, like, 1:16:06.040 --> 1:16:08.120 I think it was your most and you can tell 1:16:08.160 --> 1:16:10.080 you're putting in the work. You got your vocal coach, 1:16:10.280 --> 1:16:12.840 you're putting in the work. I had it amazing. I 1:16:12.880 --> 1:16:14.280 really think that's what it is, because I sang it 1:16:14.360 --> 1:16:16.000 so many times in front of her, and I don't 1:16:16.000 --> 1:16:17.920 like singing one on one to people like that just 1:16:17.960 --> 1:16:21.200 makes me very uncomfortable, you know, like I'd rather sing 1:16:21.240 --> 1:16:23.559 in front of a big crowd than sing one on 1:16:23.560 --> 1:16:25.439 one to someone. And so I think that just helped 1:16:25.439 --> 1:16:27.360 a lot. Who did you watch the entire time during 1:16:27.400 --> 1:16:31.000 the anthem? What did I look at? I honestly just 1:16:31.040 --> 1:16:33.840 look straight ahead. I had no one that I was 1:16:33.920 --> 1:16:35.439 kind of like black, like you just kind of blacked out. 1:16:35.520 --> 1:16:37.920 It really did. Because the lights were so bright on 1:16:38.000 --> 1:16:41.559 me that it was really like dark the crowd, so 1:16:41.560 --> 1:16:43.920 I couldn't really see them, that's fair, you know, and 1:16:43.960 --> 1:16:46.320 everybody's just really standing there, so it was dark there, 1:16:46.360 --> 1:16:47.840 and I think I just looked straight ahead and like 1:16:47.920 --> 1:16:49.600 zoned out. I was like, don't make eye contact with 1:16:49.600 --> 1:16:53.400 a player, because that'd be awkward. Yeah, and I know 1:16:53.439 --> 1:16:56.040 you didn't look down, you were looking up. Yeah. I 1:16:56.040 --> 1:16:57.800 think I like looked up at the screen one time 1:16:57.880 --> 1:17:00.840 or something. But yeah, I was straight ahead. It was 1:17:00.920 --> 1:17:03.680 kind of a blur, okay, I love this. Yeah, And 1:17:03.720 --> 1:17:06.400 it was just all in my ears. I had myself 1:17:06.479 --> 1:17:10.599 up so loud, drown everything out, winning out, drown it out. Yeah. 1:17:10.640 --> 1:17:12.080 So I couldn't hear the crowd at all. I was like, 1:17:12.720 --> 1:17:14.879 are they cheering, are they booing? I don't know what's happening. 1:17:15.000 --> 1:17:17.559 That's that's probably a good thing for this being your 1:17:17.720 --> 1:17:19.559 like big first time. That's what I thought too. I 1:17:19.600 --> 1:17:22.000 was like, it's cool to hear it. You know, artists 1:17:22.000 --> 1:17:24.760 like Garth like they take their ears out so they 1:17:24.760 --> 1:17:29.120 can cheering. And I'm like, just focus on the song, 1:17:29.720 --> 1:17:33.840 get the words right, and yes, oh well, I'm glad 1:17:33.840 --> 1:17:35.840 to hear it. I'm glad you're so beaman from it. 1:17:35.920 --> 1:17:38.920 Don't pay attention to the negative comments, I know, and 1:17:39.120 --> 1:17:41.120 I'm excited to hear if you get any more update zone, 1:17:41.160 --> 1:17:44.200 phone calls from anybody, anything, Okay, And thanks for being 1:17:44.240 --> 1:17:46.439 there and like helping me. That was so much help 1:17:46.520 --> 1:17:48.800 because we were there for a while, like in that 1:17:48.880 --> 1:17:52.519 little wing waiting a big waiting game, it was, and 1:17:52.560 --> 1:17:54.080 then that's when the nerves and I was like, oh, 1:17:54.120 --> 1:17:56.080 you guys, help me, help me get my like my 1:17:56.160 --> 1:17:58.920 hair was messed up, and that was very helpful. So 1:17:58.960 --> 1:18:01.360 thank you. Yeah, I want to have missed it. I'm 1:18:01.439 --> 1:18:04.920 very proud of you. Yay. Thank yes. Well that rounds 1:18:04.920 --> 1:18:08.120 out our best bits this weekend. 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