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Speaker 1: It's the Best Bits of the Week with Morgan number two.

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Speaker 1: What is up? Y'all, welcome to the Best Bits this weekend.

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Speaker 1: I'm excited to be hanging out with not only y'all,

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Speaker 1: but also Abby Is on this weekend. What's up? Abby?

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Speaker 1: What's up? We got a lot to talk about. Because

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Speaker 1: you are at the number one spot. I'm just gonna

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Speaker 1: give it away right now. We're not gonna get there yet.

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Speaker 1: You're just at the number one spot. That's cool. Yeah, right,

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Speaker 1: I got a lot to talk about this week. We're

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Speaker 1: gonna dive right in. Coming in at number seven. We

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Speaker 1: talked about the experience I had with the sixty seven

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Speaker 1: dollars bagel. A lot of drama in my life on

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Speaker 1: this day for no reason, Yes, and that's just what

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Speaker 1: it is. And I'll let you guys hear the bid

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Speaker 1: on the just the Best Bits so you can hear

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Speaker 1: why it was a sixty seven dollars bagel. But I

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Speaker 1: also want to talk about something else that's been happening recently.

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Speaker 1: And I don't know if you've seen anything or experience

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Speaker 1: anything crazy lately in public. Have you had anything that's

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Speaker 1: happened and you're like, wow, that was weird. Well, it

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Speaker 1: was funny when you were saying that, because the exact

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Speaker 1: same thing happened to me. I don't want to give

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Speaker 1: it if you're not going to give it away what

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Speaker 1: it is. No, go ahead and give it away. I

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Speaker 1: share our story. Yes, okay, they'll hear the sixty seven

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Speaker 1: dollars bagel. Okay, that's true. No, Well, I was going

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Speaker 1: in to get I ordered online. Was gonna go inside

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Speaker 1: and pick it up. And I parked real quick, and

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Speaker 1: it actually took longer than I thought in there. I

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Speaker 1: was in there like ten minutes when I come out

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Speaker 1: and there is a ticket on my car. Wait, was

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Speaker 1: it also a bagel? No, it was Chipotle. It was

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Speaker 1: also a bagel. Then dang, will you live the same

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Speaker 1: life on different days? You know? But I was mine

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Speaker 1: was like the same price, and I was like, are

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Speaker 1: you kidding me? All I wanted was like a seven

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Speaker 1: dollar bull and I'm walking out it's like, yeah, like

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Speaker 1: eighty bucks. And what makes me mad is the parking guy.

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Speaker 1: I think he was right there and he watched me

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Speaker 1: go in, like he watched me, and they sit in

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Speaker 1: their cars, yeah, and they wait for you to leave.

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Speaker 1: I have noticed. I thought that was so mean. I

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Speaker 1: was like, you could get you could have given me

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Speaker 1: a warning, like, hey, I'm gonna have to give you

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Speaker 1: a ticket if you don't like pay or something. And

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Speaker 1: this was the one where it's like the first hours free.

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Speaker 1: You know, wait then why did he give you a ticket?

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Speaker 1: Because I didn't have the receipt in there, That's what

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Speaker 1: I put on there, no receipt in dash. And I

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Speaker 1: was like, so ironic that the first hour is free.

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Speaker 1: I get like the way that they keep it on

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Speaker 1: track that an hour is free by like showing the

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Speaker 1: receipt in the dash, because otherwise you could say it's

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Speaker 1: only been an hour if you've been there for five hours. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I get it, but it's just weird that the irony

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Speaker 1: of them saying it's the first hour free, but they

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Speaker 1: still give you a ticket. Yes. I didn't even realize that. Really,

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Speaker 1: I didn't know the rules of that parking lot. I

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Speaker 1: was just like, I'm gonna be in and out, no

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Speaker 1: big deal of it. Yeah, there you go. Yeah, so

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Speaker 1: you and I both learned the lesson that if you're

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Speaker 1: in Nashville and you're parking anywhere, it's likely not free, right,

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Speaker 1: and they're watching you they're watching you walk in and

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Speaker 1: they're like ha ha yeah, and they sit in their

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Speaker 1: that because they don't want you to yell at him.

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Speaker 1: That's my that's that's my thing. Listen, I take you know.

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Speaker 1: I feel totally bad for these people because this has

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Speaker 1: And so they sit in their cars with because they're

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Speaker 1: scary scared of people. No. I had thought about that too.

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Speaker 1: I was like, I would hate to have that job

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Speaker 1: like just about anything else beside that one. Like that's

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Speaker 1: like the opposite of pimp and joy. Like it's the

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Speaker 1: if it's a minute over or like they just they

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Speaker 1: I know that's how they make their money. I know.

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Speaker 1: As far as other things, other crazy things, I don't really.

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Speaker 1: I guess my my month has not been crazy enough.

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Speaker 1: That's a good thing. I have another one that happened

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Speaker 1: that was interesting. So I had went to a restaurant

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Speaker 1: told us that it's an FDA regulation against FDA regulations

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Speaker 1: think that's just one of your rules, which is fine

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Speaker 1: no issues. And it's not like you were bringing in

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Speaker 1: Did you stay? We ended up staying because there was

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Speaker 1: So maybe it's because they, you know, they have no

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Speaker 1: shame with they don't have to worry about tipping and

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Speaker 1: Is that strange? Yes, just weird things that I keep

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Speaker 1: I'm not even kidding. Like the little one when we

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Speaker 1: get you spend money? Yeah, it's great, there's another thing,

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Speaker 1: but yeah, everything's just expensive and Nashville that's another part

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Speaker 1: We had Jordan Davis on the show this week and

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Speaker 1: it was really funny. He played a Jordan game in

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Speaker 1: got to talk about his new album. He didn't do

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Speaker 1: very well, and that was pretty hilarious. But just speaking

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Speaker 1: of artists and people coming in, I recently saw Nico

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Speaker 1: Moon in concert and it was so good. I was

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Speaker 1: was like, she's here too. Yes, it was so good.

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Speaker 1: Kinney Chesney. Yes, very much. Those vibes like good, good vibes.

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Speaker 1: But what is it good times? Good times? Yes, like

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Speaker 1: that is like the definition of him. He is the

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Speaker 1: really good concert. I'm glad that somebody else felt that

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Speaker 1: if you're like, um, seeing a bigger picture. You're just

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Speaker 1: was Valentine's Day and I was like, I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: to that. And it was really fun, talk about like

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Speaker 1: They are I would say in the alternative genre. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: isn't that kind of realm okay? And had you listen

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Speaker 1: to their music before it all? I knew like three

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Speaker 1: of their songs, but like all of them were so good,

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Speaker 1: Like I was just in a really good mood. Is

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Speaker 1: that a type of concert where they're like jumping up

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Speaker 1: I was. And it's like that's one of the ones

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Speaker 1: it's like the imagetween of like grinding and two step

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Speaker 1: those are ones you're like you know how to do those,

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Speaker 1: but this I have no it and just go why

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Speaker 1: I don't even know, but it was so fun. That's

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Speaker 1: a good one, and they are really good. Anybody else

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Speaker 1: you've seen it? Feel like you've been busy lately? Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I went to Megan Maroney too. She had like the

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Speaker 1: showcase deal. Yeah, where like a lot of label people

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Speaker 1: blend it right, they put like, I mean, it is

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00:18:39,080 --> 00:18:40,840
Speaker 1: very dark, and then it's like a line. But then

424
00:18:40,880 --> 00:18:42,959
Speaker 1: they blend it with like the sponge, and I'm like,

425
00:18:43,000 --> 00:18:46,320
Speaker 1: I can't do that. Yeah, I don't do contours. I've

426
00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:49,720
Speaker 1: not taken that plunge. I don't think I ever will listen.

427
00:18:49,800 --> 00:18:53,600
Speaker 1: Just doing the more I like involved eye makeup that

428
00:18:53,680 --> 00:18:56,199
Speaker 1: I do now has taken what U should be my

429
00:18:56,320 --> 00:19:00,040
Speaker 1: fifteen minute makeup routine to twenty five minutes, and I

430
00:19:00,119 --> 00:19:06,680
Speaker 1: appreciate that. I love my fifteen minute makeup routine. Yeah

431
00:19:06,720 --> 00:19:09,400
Speaker 1: that's my max tail. I'm like ten fifteen minutes. I'm

432
00:19:09,400 --> 00:19:12,159
Speaker 1: maxed out. I got the basics. Let me tell you

433
00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:14,240
Speaker 1: all of this. I don't know if you feel this way.

434
00:19:14,600 --> 00:19:17,480
Speaker 1: I don't mind taking showers. I like them. It makes

435
00:19:17,480 --> 00:19:21,000
Speaker 1: me feel good. I hate getting ready. I literally despise it.

436
00:19:21,280 --> 00:19:24,119
Speaker 1: If I can do anything but get ready, I would.

437
00:19:24,720 --> 00:19:28,480
Speaker 1: I hate it, like actually hate it. I mean it's

438
00:19:28,480 --> 00:19:31,120
Speaker 1: like a task. You're signing up for a lot. Like

439
00:19:31,240 --> 00:19:32,800
Speaker 1: you know, I know when I have to take a shower,

440
00:19:32,880 --> 00:19:34,840
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to blow dry my hair, straighten it,

441
00:19:34,920 --> 00:19:37,600
Speaker 1: then curl it. Like it's just a lot. It's not

442
00:19:37,680 --> 00:19:38,919
Speaker 1: just like oh I can get out and you know

443
00:19:38,960 --> 00:19:40,680
Speaker 1: it'll be dry, and I walk out the door, It's

444
00:19:40,720 --> 00:19:42,639
Speaker 1: like no, it is like do you are you ready

445
00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:45,359
Speaker 1: to take this? On? Ext an hour and a half

446
00:19:45,359 --> 00:19:48,920
Speaker 1: of like NonStop, just like go, go go. And sometimes

447
00:19:48,920 --> 00:19:50,480
Speaker 1: when I really don't want to get ready, I'll start

448
00:19:50,520 --> 00:19:52,680
Speaker 1: watching TV and I'll bring my makeup and my bull

449
00:19:52,760 --> 00:19:54,679
Speaker 1: dry over in my room and I'll just like watch

450
00:19:54,760 --> 00:19:57,200
Speaker 1: TV and sit there and I'm like, this is dumb.

451
00:19:58,560 --> 00:20:01,040
Speaker 1: I hate being like a f a woman. That's not

452
00:20:01,400 --> 00:20:04,280
Speaker 1: easy for me. I feel you and you always work

453
00:20:04,320 --> 00:20:07,360
Speaker 1: really hard and you always like get ready. I never

454
00:20:07,400 --> 00:20:10,520
Speaker 1: see you when you're not like presentable, like because most

455
00:20:10,560 --> 00:20:12,480
Speaker 1: people won't see me when I'm not presentable. Abbe I

456
00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:14,680
Speaker 1: just hide out my house. So I'm like, I don't

457
00:20:14,680 --> 00:20:18,439
Speaker 1: want to do anything. Okay, they go are late, they

458
00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:21,560
Speaker 1: go together. That's fine. That's why I've never seen it, Okay,

459
00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:23,680
Speaker 1: unless I'm like working out. That's the only other time

460
00:20:23,720 --> 00:20:25,600
Speaker 1: I really don't have makeup on, like on the weekends

461
00:20:25,720 --> 00:20:28,439
Speaker 1: or anything like that. Yes, well that's why I've a

462
00:20:28,440 --> 00:20:30,920
Speaker 1: hat on right now. I made no effort today. Hey,

463
00:20:31,080 --> 00:20:32,919
Speaker 1: you know what, there's a lot of days that you

464
00:20:33,000 --> 00:20:34,960
Speaker 1: deserve to not show effort because it's a lot of

465
00:20:34,960 --> 00:20:37,199
Speaker 1: work being ready as a woman. Right, it's been a

466
00:20:37,200 --> 00:20:39,920
Speaker 1: long week. Yes, you've had a good long week, which

467
00:20:39,920 --> 00:20:42,720
Speaker 1: we're gonna get to that. We'll put a bow on

468
00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:45,560
Speaker 1: this the one that I am going to. I'm sure

469
00:20:45,640 --> 00:20:48,280
Speaker 1: you also got this in vibe. But going to Morgan

470
00:20:48,320 --> 00:20:50,840
Speaker 1: Wallen's listening party for his new album? So was that

471
00:20:50,960 --> 00:20:53,679
Speaker 1: a listening party? Is he gonna be there? Though? I

472
00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:56,200
Speaker 1: don't be there? Is he? Is this the one that

473
00:20:56,280 --> 00:21:00,760
Speaker 1: Marathon music works? Yes? I okay, So it's like Monday, Tuesday,

474
00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:03,399
Speaker 1: and Wednesday. There's three of them. Yes, And I was

475
00:21:03,440 --> 00:21:06,160
Speaker 1: looking on there and it's three dates each day, so

476
00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:09,840
Speaker 1: I don't actually think he's gonna be there. Interesting, but

477
00:21:09,960 --> 00:21:12,920
Speaker 1: you're still gonna hear new music the new album before

478
00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:15,800
Speaker 1: it comes out. Yeah, So there's that. Yeah, that's definitely

479
00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:18,199
Speaker 1: a new twist to things. We're gonna have to look

480
00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:20,080
Speaker 1: at that because I mean you had to because I

481
00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:23,040
Speaker 1: was I didn't like get an invite like a different

482
00:21:23,080 --> 00:21:25,680
Speaker 1: and so I was like looking at the tickets and

483
00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:28,320
Speaker 1: it's like thirty dollars to get in, and it's like

484
00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:31,040
Speaker 1: a sound of visual experience where you like listen on

485
00:21:31,080 --> 00:21:33,840
Speaker 1: headphones and everything, and they have interactive stuff. And then

486
00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:35,960
Speaker 1: I saw people were like, Oh, he's not gonna be there,

487
00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:38,439
Speaker 1: but I feel like he's gonna make us a he

488
00:21:38,600 --> 00:21:41,240
Speaker 1: has to make an appearance. Wait what Okay, well, this

489
00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:43,160
Speaker 1: is the one that email I got Sam was from

490
00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:46,080
Speaker 1: his label. Okay, so I didn't even know that might

491
00:21:46,119 --> 00:21:49,440
Speaker 1: be different because I know for fans they have it's

492
00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:51,840
Speaker 1: still at Marathon Music Works, which is still a thing

493
00:21:52,200 --> 00:21:55,680
Speaker 1: at Marathon. I didn't realize it was like a whole,

494
00:21:55,800 --> 00:22:00,000
Speaker 1: like three day Yeah, look at them. I had. Yeah,

495
00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:04,520
Speaker 1: let me see because it says like Morgan Wallace would

496
00:22:04,560 --> 00:22:06,119
Speaker 1: like to invite you, but I don't know that that

497
00:22:06,119 --> 00:22:09,720
Speaker 1: means you would be there. It also says there's a

498
00:22:10,720 --> 00:22:14,480
Speaker 1: drinks and bites provided it doesn't say in small print

499
00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:19,639
Speaker 1: Morgan will not be here. I don't know, No, it doesn't.

500
00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:22,680
Speaker 1: That's crazy. This one invite only Okay, well that month

501
00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:27,560
Speaker 1: that might be different than but it is the preview experience.

502
00:22:27,640 --> 00:22:30,840
Speaker 1: I'm so curious what's going to happen? I am too. Well,

503
00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:33,639
Speaker 1: I guess we'll we'll find out what day is it on?

504
00:22:33,800 --> 00:22:35,520
Speaker 1: You know what. But at least you get free food

505
00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:37,480
Speaker 1: and drinks and listen to the new album before it

506
00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:40,119
Speaker 1: comes out exactly. This one's on Wednesday is one of

507
00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:43,640
Speaker 1: my mom Wednesday, Yeah, I think so. It was Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday,

508
00:22:44,359 --> 00:22:46,679
Speaker 1: and it was like three separate times each day, like

509
00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:48,720
Speaker 1: one was five to six thirty, and then one was

510
00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:50,480
Speaker 1: seven to eight thirty, and then one was like nine

511
00:22:50,520 --> 00:22:52,560
Speaker 1: to ten thirty. Oh, this one's in the afternoon. It

512
00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:55,640
Speaker 1: was a lot happening. Okay, so it's different. It's different,

513
00:22:56,080 --> 00:22:58,200
Speaker 1: but I think it's the same concept. Yeah, that's cool though.

514
00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:01,280
Speaker 1: So everybody's going to get to here this new album,

515
00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:09,640
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm sure he'll be at yours at

516
00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:13,040
Speaker 1: that one. I don't know, but I mean I RSVP

517
00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:15,680
Speaker 1: to go, mostly just because I love hearing music before

518
00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:18,280
Speaker 1: it comes out, especially because I don't know if you've

519
00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:20,439
Speaker 1: ever seen them, but I do like a first listen Friday.

520
00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:24,880
Speaker 1: It's on iHeartRadio's Twitter, and I'm the only country one

521
00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:27,480
Speaker 1: on there. The rest of them are like pop and

522
00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:29,920
Speaker 1: hip hop, and so I'm like the country one. So

523
00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:32,600
Speaker 1: every time it's like what comes out on Friday, and

524
00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:34,680
Speaker 1: they're like Morgan, what's going on in the country world.

525
00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:37,000
Speaker 1: It gives me like a leg up when I get

526
00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:40,640
Speaker 1: to hear it before I listen like six am Friday morning, right,

527
00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:42,680
Speaker 1: and you can actually be like, oh, it's good instead

528
00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:45,280
Speaker 1: of just saying it's good and it's really not. Yeah.

529
00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:47,760
Speaker 1: Typically you can only listen to the songs like once

530
00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:50,320
Speaker 1: over before we do the live. It's like literally like

531
00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:52,120
Speaker 1: a first listen, Like you hear the song one time

532
00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:54,840
Speaker 1: and it's like, what's your initial reactions and thoughts and

533
00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:57,440
Speaker 1: it's super cool. This one we were supposed to be be

534
00:23:57,520 --> 00:23:59,719
Speaker 1: having like a special guest on this past Friday one.

535
00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:01,840
Speaker 1: So maybe it happened, maybe it didn't. I don't know

536
00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:04,920
Speaker 1: at this moment that we are recording what happened, but

537
00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:07,359
Speaker 1: uh yeah, we'll see. So at least it helps in

538
00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:11,800
Speaker 1: that capacity, so we'll see. Yeah, I'm now intrigued. So

539
00:24:11,840 --> 00:24:16,600
Speaker 1: if I am too, Oh man, I didn't even I

540
00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:18,479
Speaker 1: didn't get in. They were all sold out, Like it

541
00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:21,639
Speaker 1: didn't even work for me. So hey, I can bring

542
00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:23,080
Speaker 1: a plus one, you can come with me. I don't

543
00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:25,160
Speaker 1: think I can. My guess is I am not able

544
00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:28,239
Speaker 1: to oh because it's Morgan Wallen and everything else to go.

545
00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:30,280
Speaker 1: But if I can bring a plus one, you'll be

546
00:24:30,320 --> 00:24:32,639
Speaker 1: my day. Oh I would love to Yeah, let me know,

547
00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:36,080
Speaker 1: I got you. Speaking of Valentine's Day, I definitely want

548
00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:39,639
Speaker 1: to get into some Valentine's Day conversations because you know,

549
00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:43,479
Speaker 1: and maybe February eighteenth, nineteenth whenever you're listening to this.

550
00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:45,800
Speaker 1: But this past week we did have Valentine's Day and

551
00:24:46,119 --> 00:24:49,600
Speaker 1: at the Number five spot, Bobby with Ronnie Dunn's helped

552
00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:52,720
Speaker 1: surprise a listener's wife with these Brooks and Dune tickets

553
00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:54,720
Speaker 1: that he had bought her. It was really cool moment

554
00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:57,000
Speaker 1: and it was for Valentine's Day. But Abby, I want

555
00:24:57,040 --> 00:24:58,719
Speaker 1: to talk about Valentine's Day because you and I are

556
00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:02,560
Speaker 1: both single as a yeah, yeah we are, And you

557
00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:05,000
Speaker 1: told me that you spent your Valentine's Day at a concert. Yeah,

558
00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:07,840
Speaker 1: fits and tantrums. Did you do anything else on the day?

559
00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:11,000
Speaker 1: I really didn't. It was like a normal day. This

560
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:13,040
Speaker 1: was a there was a lot going on like this

561
00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:16,160
Speaker 1: week with like all the National Anthem stuff and everything.

562
00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:19,840
Speaker 1: So my head was that was like the last thing

563
00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:23,000
Speaker 1: on my list, Like well because Monday, Monday, I sang right,

564
00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:26,240
Speaker 1: and then Tuesday with Valentine's Day. Yeah, so I was traction. Yes,

565
00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:28,320
Speaker 1: I was just like still like on a high from

566
00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:32,400
Speaker 1: that from last night, and then I went to appointments

567
00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:34,040
Speaker 1: and I was like, I'm not going to sit home

568
00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:35,879
Speaker 1: alone though, Like I was working and I was sitting

569
00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:37,119
Speaker 1: on the couch in my friend text. I mean, I

570
00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:38,560
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, yeah, I'm gonna go. I don't want

571
00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:41,960
Speaker 1: to sit home alone. Did you avoid your phone? Because

572
00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:45,400
Speaker 1: I know when I first opened my phone up on Tuesday,

573
00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:47,960
Speaker 1: I was I saw like maybe ten things. I was like, yeah,

574
00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:51,240
Speaker 1: I'm out, I'm out for today. Yeah I saw enough

575
00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:56,560
Speaker 1: like flowers and chocolates and yeah. Yeah. And it's funny

576
00:25:56,600 --> 00:25:58,800
Speaker 1: because I don't want any of those people to stop

577
00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:01,520
Speaker 1: posting that. Yeah. I love that they're happy, but like

578
00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:05,360
Speaker 1: when it is flooded on your feed and you are single.

579
00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:09,960
Speaker 1: I was sitting there like, dang, this is really depressing

580
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:12,960
Speaker 1: for me, I know. And I'll like, I'll be honest,

581
00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:16,760
Speaker 1: I've never had like a Valentine, a Valentine's Day full on,

582
00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:18,879
Speaker 1: never had a Valentine valent you know what happy. Let

583
00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:20,560
Speaker 1: me tell you something. It's not all it's cracked up

584
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:23,240
Speaker 1: to me. And maybe it's because I've dated some scrappy people,

585
00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:27,159
Speaker 1: but well last year, I guess I was dating that

586
00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:30,200
Speaker 1: one guy but it didn't really. It wasn't a very

587
00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:33,040
Speaker 1: like special Valentine's Day. So I've never not that all

588
00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:35,520
Speaker 1: it's cracked up to be exactly, it's really not. That's

589
00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:37,480
Speaker 1: why you buy your own flowers and buy your own chocolate,

590
00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:40,000
Speaker 1: uh huh yeah. And usually my parents are the ones

591
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:42,280
Speaker 1: that send me flowers and like chocolate cover strawberries, and

592
00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:44,439
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, thank you. Yeah, so they make me

593
00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:46,639
Speaker 1: feel loved. You don't have to be like feel loved.

594
00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:49,119
Speaker 1: And I think I have them hosted that like, just

595
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:51,360
Speaker 1: because you don't have this certain love that other people

596
00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:53,919
Speaker 1: are celebrating, you have other loves that you can be

597
00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:57,720
Speaker 1: thankful for. Absolutely, Like my sister always sends me some

598
00:26:57,800 --> 00:27:00,000
Speaker 1: kind of treat and that makes me happy. My parents

599
00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:03,080
Speaker 1: and send me flowers, that's so sweet. And then I

600
00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:05,760
Speaker 1: like that night I went out to dinner with some girlfriends.

601
00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:07,560
Speaker 1: I just my thing was like I don't want to

602
00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:09,959
Speaker 1: be on my phone all day and I don't want

603
00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:12,280
Speaker 1: to sit at home and be sad. Yes, so like

604
00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:14,439
Speaker 1: as long as I do something and I don't look

605
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:16,000
Speaker 1: at my phone, because I knew if I stayed at home,

606
00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:18,280
Speaker 1: i'd be on my phone right because I'd be bored. Yeah,

607
00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:20,399
Speaker 1: and so I was like, let's just do something. And

608
00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:22,480
Speaker 1: we went to dinner and tried a new Italian spot

609
00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:25,840
Speaker 1: which was amazing. Really yes, I have the whole plate apasta,

610
00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:27,760
Speaker 1: which was not good for me, but I did. It

611
00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:31,320
Speaker 1: was so good. Oh my gosh, did you make reservations

612
00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 1: at the time. So one of my girlfriends did. That's

613
00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:36,000
Speaker 1: her things. She loves making like reservations to try new places,

614
00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:38,680
Speaker 1: and so she'll she'll have it like two months out,

615
00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:41,240
Speaker 1: like she's better than dude a million times over. Like

616
00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:43,040
Speaker 1: she's like, guys, I got like three options, so let

617
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:45,439
Speaker 1: me just know which ones we want. She's already planning

618
00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:47,720
Speaker 1: for next year. How she does, like that's it's the

619
00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:50,520
Speaker 1: best thing ever. So that's awesome. She had that plan.

620
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:52,959
Speaker 1: She had a reservation for us, which is awesome. And

621
00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:55,200
Speaker 1: so we went and we tried some Italian food and

622
00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:58,639
Speaker 1: we had some one of the other girlfriends bought us

623
00:27:58,640 --> 00:28:01,040
Speaker 1: each a crumble cookie, so we had like a good

624
00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:04,520
Speaker 1: little Galentine's Day on Valentine's Day, Oh, I love that,

625
00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:06,760
Speaker 1: you know what I heard though, or I saw something

626
00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:09,680
Speaker 1: that was like Valentine's Day for single people as Independence

627
00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:13,240
Speaker 1: Day is their independence day was also true, like we're free.

628
00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:15,840
Speaker 1: You don't have anybody telling us where. I mean, you know,

629
00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:18,159
Speaker 1: I did see another thing that was like, listen, I

630
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 1: know you're seeing a lot of people get flowers and

631
00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:23,080
Speaker 1: chocolates today, but also let me tell you they ain't

632
00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:25,800
Speaker 1: as happy as they look. And I'm like, yeah, you know, true.

633
00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:27,720
Speaker 1: I know some of these ones that posted, I know

634
00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:31,800
Speaker 1: a lot of stories behind that. Yeah, no, it is

635
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:34,760
Speaker 1: not the full truth. It's actually very interesting and I

636
00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:36,880
Speaker 1: don't know if this is the case for you, but like,

637
00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:39,520
Speaker 1: since we're both from Kansas, all my friends from Kansas,

638
00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:42,520
Speaker 1: they never post anything for some reason. It's it's weird,

639
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:45,120
Speaker 1: like they just never post. They just live their life,

640
00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:46,680
Speaker 1: but they don't feel they need to post. And I

641
00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:49,000
Speaker 1: know they're like happily married, but everybody in Nashville or

642
00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:51,120
Speaker 1: other cities, big cities, I feel like they have to

643
00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:54,680
Speaker 1: post everything. And so I just I think that's interesting

644
00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:57,160
Speaker 1: because I'm like, there's really happy couples. So we're not

645
00:28:57,200 --> 00:28:59,280
Speaker 1: even seeing what they're doing for Valentine's Day, I know,

646
00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:02,040
Speaker 1: because they're not posting it. And I love it. I

647
00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:03,880
Speaker 1: love when they don't, but yeah, when I see it,

648
00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:06,640
Speaker 1: I'm like it's just my favorite ones, and they pop

649
00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:11,200
Speaker 1: up when I'm like, I know things and I know

650
00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:14,640
Speaker 1: I adn't happy as it's rusts and jolt sitting on

651
00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:19,280
Speaker 1: your counter right now, Like I know that that's that's

652
00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:21,960
Speaker 1: what comes with being in a relationship and being married,

653
00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:24,160
Speaker 1: and there's more to it. But like if it's more

654
00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:25,960
Speaker 1: to it at the point that you've complained about it

655
00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:29,440
Speaker 1: to people outside of the relationship, right, there's a lot

656
00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:31,680
Speaker 1: to it than just like what's going on with you

657
00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:35,280
Speaker 1: two kind of thing. That's when it gets because you're like, oh,

658
00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:38,240
Speaker 1: you were just like complaining or having issues last week

659
00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:41,640
Speaker 1: we were talking, but now everything's great. Yes, And also,

660
00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:43,280
Speaker 1: let me tell you, going out, it was great to

661
00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:45,440
Speaker 1: be with my girlfriends. It was great to be distracted

662
00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:48,840
Speaker 1: not be on my phone. But I'll also say it

663
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:51,720
Speaker 1: wasn't great being at a restaurant because we were surrounded

664
00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:55,640
Speaker 1: by couples everywhere. Yes, that's exactly what I was thinking.

665
00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:57,239
Speaker 1: At my concert, I was like, I walked in, it

666
00:29:57,280 --> 00:29:59,600
Speaker 1: was literally couple swelding hands. I was like, should I leave?

667
00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:03,080
Speaker 1: Should I go? It was really cute. I was like, oh,

668
00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:04,880
Speaker 1: you guys are so cute. Yeah, it's like, oh, I'm

669
00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:07,880
Speaker 1: really happy for you. Yeah, but I don't want to

670
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:10,320
Speaker 1: see that those means where or like when people show

671
00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:13,520
Speaker 1: like their love on on TikTok, it's like they'll be like, oh,

672
00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:15,480
Speaker 1: you guys are really cute. I'm gonna go sit on

673
00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:18,240
Speaker 1: train tracks now, like you don't actually mean it. It's

674
00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:20,400
Speaker 1: full on probably not an appropriate joke, but like they

675
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:23,480
Speaker 1: do say that, yes, or on TikTok where they're driving,

676
00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:26,560
Speaker 1: so I'm gonna act like they're gonna like swerve off

677
00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:29,480
Speaker 1: or like just kidding. Yes, Like dark humor is not

678
00:30:29,560 --> 00:30:32,080
Speaker 1: normally my thing, but I just it's like the idea

679
00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 1: of like, Okay, at least we're all in the boat

680
00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:36,640
Speaker 1: together and seeing all this sucks for all of us.

681
00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:39,640
Speaker 1: It also like gives me hope though, like I'm like,

682
00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:41,240
Speaker 1: I know it's out there, like I know it is.

683
00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:45,040
Speaker 1: It is a perfect timing. Listen, I'll see hope as

684
00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:47,760
Speaker 1: as right mentioned on show, I see blood red on

685
00:30:47,880 --> 00:30:51,360
Speaker 1: Valentine's Day. After that, though, I see hope just on

686
00:30:51,440 --> 00:30:54,720
Speaker 1: Valentine's Day, I don't. I'm like, yeah, I'm like it's

687
00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:57,480
Speaker 1: a made up holiday anyway. Really, oh yeah, but listen,

688
00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:00,960
Speaker 1: Like the best part though, I love this because the

689
00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:03,160
Speaker 1: minute one of us gets in a relationship or like

690
00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 1: we're love and it's amazing and we have Valent's d

691
00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:06,720
Speaker 1: We're gonna post about all the time. It's gonna be

692
00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:09,000
Speaker 1: the best thing ever. Oh no, I was like, I'm

693
00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:12,240
Speaker 1: not judging these people because I would be exactly like, yes,

694
00:31:12,280 --> 00:31:14,520
Speaker 1: I just accept where I'm at in this place in

695
00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:17,400
Speaker 1: my life, and it isn't. I cannot handle seeing these

696
00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:20,640
Speaker 1: things on social media right now. Yeah, it definitely doesn't

697
00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:22,840
Speaker 1: make things easier. It's just like a jab. It's like,

698
00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:27,520
Speaker 1: oh ouch, someday, I know. So yeah, there. I wish

699
00:31:27,560 --> 00:31:30,560
Speaker 1: I was like a safe space to go on Valentine's

700
00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:32,680
Speaker 1: Day where you don't sit at home and be lonely,

701
00:31:32,960 --> 00:31:34,480
Speaker 1: you don't sit at home and look at all the

702
00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:36,960
Speaker 1: things on social media, and you don't go to a

703
00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:39,280
Speaker 1: restaurant because that's also where they all are. So like,

704
00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:44,200
Speaker 1: I need a safe zone. Yeah, we're Valentine's Day for singles.

705
00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:47,239
Speaker 1: I don't know where you go. I know there's like

706
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:50,200
Speaker 1: the what is it the Cupid like I hate Cupid

707
00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:53,760
Speaker 1: or something like that, like the bars do or it's

708
00:31:53,760 --> 00:31:57,080
Speaker 1: like the single like m I hate I don't even

709
00:31:57,200 --> 00:31:59,520
Speaker 1: have some some are bars need to pick up like

710
00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:02,360
Speaker 1: a goals party, yeah, and do like a vibe for

711
00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:07,000
Speaker 1: Valentine's Day where it's like not couples allowed. Yeah, I

712
00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:08,800
Speaker 1: think they've done that before. I used to go to

713
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:10,400
Speaker 1: that and I was like this, No, I just is

714
00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:13,520
Speaker 1: it weird? Yeah? I just enjoyed it, didn't look it sane?

715
00:32:13,600 --> 00:32:15,280
Speaker 1: Is next year, I just need to throw a singles

716
00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 1: party and just be at my house. Oh yeah yeah,

717
00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:22,200
Speaker 1: y'all can't be on phones. We're all together, Okay. It

718
00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:24,360
Speaker 1: just has to be on Valentine's Day. Uh huh. It

719
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:27,240
Speaker 1: can't be before because Valentine's Day. Listen. I love that

720
00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:29,480
Speaker 1: people do the Valentine's Days before and after, but I'm like,

721
00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:33,920
Speaker 1: y'all don't realize the day that matters is Valentine's Day. Yeah.

722
00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:36,200
Speaker 1: I love love and I love self written all of

723
00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:39,920
Speaker 1: us in our friendships. This is great. Like Valentine's Day,

724
00:32:40,280 --> 00:32:43,000
Speaker 1: I'm screwed. You know what I mean to like on

725
00:32:43,120 --> 00:32:45,880
Speaker 1: Valentine's Day? It has to be something happening. Yeah. I

726
00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:47,720
Speaker 1: was on Facebook and there's like this group, like a

727
00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:50,800
Speaker 1: girls group in Nashville, and someone like posted and she

728
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:53,280
Speaker 1: was like, look what my boyfriend did for me, and

729
00:32:53,280 --> 00:32:55,520
Speaker 1: she's like, hey, show me your pictures what your man did.

730
00:32:56,200 --> 00:32:58,160
Speaker 1: And I was like, well, I can't look at this.

731
00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:00,800
Speaker 1: That just gave me like the chill of like not

732
00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:02,080
Speaker 1: in a good way, of like I know, I don't

733
00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:03,880
Speaker 1: want to see that. And then someone was like, where

734
00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:06,320
Speaker 1: are you finding these men? And I was like, I, yeah,

735
00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:09,840
Speaker 1: where are you? Where are they they on Amazon? Of that, yeah,

736
00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:14,640
Speaker 1: I wish. Okay, well we're gonna we're gonna bounce from

737
00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:16,760
Speaker 1: you know, we got it out. We got our feelings

738
00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:18,800
Speaker 1: of Valentine's Day out, and I hope some people can

739
00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:21,600
Speaker 1: relate because listen, I love love, I love that people

740
00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:23,640
Speaker 1: are happy. But I just needed a moment to get

741
00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:26,040
Speaker 1: all that out of my system. I think people agree.

742
00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:28,880
Speaker 1: I think we're not alone. We needed that. So you know,

743
00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:32,240
Speaker 1: now that that's passed and that has happened, what's something

744
00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:34,560
Speaker 1: that you're really excited about? And I'm gonna tell you

745
00:33:34,600 --> 00:33:38,200
Speaker 1: why I'm asking this because I learned that Barney is

746
00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 1: making a comeback. I'm so excited. Oh my gosh, wait

747
00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:45,040
Speaker 1: wait is it a cartoon one? So that show, yes,

748
00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:47,320
Speaker 1: and they'll be it'll be out in twenty twenty four

749
00:33:47,960 --> 00:33:51,000
Speaker 1: and I'm really excited because I feel like it's gonna

750
00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:54,080
Speaker 1: be cool. I love when things that you loved growing

751
00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:56,680
Speaker 1: up make a comeback because then it means more generations

752
00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:59,720
Speaker 1: get to experience it, and like, you know, you don't

753
00:33:59,760 --> 00:34:02,280
Speaker 1: just have this thing that gets lost to the atmosphere

754
00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:04,640
Speaker 1: and it's never talked about again. And Barney was such

755
00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:06,480
Speaker 1: a big part of my childhood so much that I

756
00:34:06,520 --> 00:34:11,160
Speaker 1: like dressed up as him for Halloweens. Like we loved Barney.

757
00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:13,239
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that's so crazy to think about. So

758
00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:16,880
Speaker 1: kids today have probably haven't seen Barney because that's like

759
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:20,120
Speaker 1: they're like millennial parents were introduced it. Yeah, Like that's

760
00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:22,400
Speaker 1: so wild to me that. I mean, that's what we

761
00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:26,640
Speaker 1: like in that song, like I love you, you love me.

762
00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:31,400
Speaker 1: We're a happy family with a great big again. I

763
00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:34,680
Speaker 1: kiss from me to you. Won't you say you love

764
00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:40,040
Speaker 1: me too? Oh my god, day. I know the last

765
00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:42,240
Speaker 1: time I heard that song, I was probably what six,

766
00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:45,600
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Yeah, that's crazy, and that like that

767
00:34:45,680 --> 00:34:48,200
Speaker 1: came out of the vault for me, Like he started

768
00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:49,520
Speaker 1: seeing that. I was like, oh yeah, I know this

769
00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:53,080
Speaker 1: there was just like a natural I was a natural

770
00:34:53,120 --> 00:34:55,759
Speaker 1: reflex sing the Barney song. Wow. See that's how much

771
00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:58,240
Speaker 1: it touched our lives exactly. So I'm just really excited

772
00:34:58,280 --> 00:35:01,080
Speaker 1: to know that another generational it to love Barney. Maybe

773
00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:03,160
Speaker 1: not in the same way because he's animated. He's getting

774
00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:05,200
Speaker 1: his own like animated TV series will be a little

775
00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:08,439
Speaker 1: bit different. He absolutely looks different because he's not a

776
00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:13,880
Speaker 1: guy in a costume. A little more yeah, yeah, more modern, yes,

777
00:35:14,120 --> 00:35:16,920
Speaker 1: But I'm just glad that he's getting the recognition that

778
00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:20,399
Speaker 1: he deserves. So I agree excited about Yes, everybody needs

779
00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:23,399
Speaker 1: to know Barney. Excited to Barney in their lives. Yes,

780
00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:24,839
Speaker 1: they need to kind of love you in their lives.

781
00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:28,440
Speaker 1: What are you excited about anything? Well, I'm excited, speaking

782
00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:31,080
Speaker 1: of love, I'm going on a Bachelorrette party this weekend.

783
00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:34,080
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so at the current moment when people listen, Yeah,

784
00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:36,560
Speaker 1: I'll be partying it up. I will be. I'm in Scottsdale.

785
00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:40,040
Speaker 1: Let's go very excited for that. We're gonna go hiking

786
00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:42,440
Speaker 1: on camel back. Oh fun. Yes, and then we're going

787
00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:44,960
Speaker 1: on like an ATV tour. We're like ran it's gonna

788
00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:46,759
Speaker 1: be like really dusty. I've never been on one of those.

789
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:49,760
Speaker 1: I haven't either. That sounds exciting. Yeah, I'm very excited.

790
00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:51,359
Speaker 1: Then we're gonna go out to the bars one night.

791
00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:54,200
Speaker 1: And then she reserved a karaoke room one night because

792
00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:55,600
Speaker 1: she likes to sing too, So I was like, this

793
00:35:55,640 --> 00:35:57,520
Speaker 1: is gonna be so fun. So we're not gonna see

794
00:35:57,520 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 1: in karaoke. Oh gosh, I don't even know what will

795
00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:03,000
Speaker 1: be your your number one choice, if you could choose.

796
00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:06,000
Speaker 1: I usually do Miranda like Gunpowder and Letter Kerosene like

797
00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:09,600
Speaker 1: those are mine. Yeah, but I need to branch out.

798
00:36:09,640 --> 00:36:11,840
Speaker 1: I always do the same songs. I'm like, I'm gonna

799
00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:14,359
Speaker 1: branch out to something. I don't know what's a good one?

800
00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:16,440
Speaker 1: Before he cheats? Is always a sassy one too, that

801
00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:22,160
Speaker 1: is yes, m that's a good one everything Shanya, Yeah, anything, Shanna.

802
00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:24,560
Speaker 1: I always do country. I'm like, I should branch out,

803
00:36:24,600 --> 00:36:27,040
Speaker 1: even out of country. Oh you just girls just want

804
00:36:27,040 --> 00:36:29,799
Speaker 1: to have fun. Oh that's oh I like that. That's

805
00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:32,520
Speaker 1: a fun one. Yes, I'm sure there's more I can

806
00:36:32,560 --> 00:36:34,200
Speaker 1: come up with. Let me let me like keep thinking

807
00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:36,279
Speaker 1: on it. Yes, Okay, I got a lot of girl

808
00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:41,239
Speaker 1: power songs. I was like, I'm gonna do a Kelly

809
00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:43,520
Speaker 1: Clarkson song, but I'm not going to do that. Oh,

810
00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:45,600
Speaker 1: it doesn't kill you, make you stronger. I think that's

811
00:36:45,600 --> 00:36:49,439
Speaker 1: called stronger stronger. Yeah, I love that one. Okay, Yeah,

812
00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:51,319
Speaker 1: you can have some ideas, some more to add on

813
00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:54,799
Speaker 1: to your arsenal of songs. Yeah, but that's exciting, I know.

814
00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:57,680
Speaker 1: And then her wedding is next month, so wedding season

815
00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:02,200
Speaker 1: is here. I love weddings, though you love, I love them. Yeah,

816
00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:05,360
Speaker 1: I don't love traveling for weddings. I don't love that

817
00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:06,960
Speaker 1: I live away from everyone and I have to travel

818
00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:09,399
Speaker 1: for the weddings all the time. I'm the same way. Yeah,

819
00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:11,680
Speaker 1: Like I don't mind having to go somewhere, but like

820
00:37:11,719 --> 00:37:14,200
Speaker 1: the fact when you live from everyone else, it's like

821
00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:17,439
Speaker 1: you're the one traveling, right, I know, And you miss

822
00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:19,279
Speaker 1: a lot of the stuff too because you can't get

823
00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:21,200
Speaker 1: there in time, and like the flight, you're basically relying

824
00:37:21,200 --> 00:37:24,000
Speaker 1: on the flight when you can get there exactly, and

825
00:37:24,120 --> 00:37:26,279
Speaker 1: like hoping that you make it back in time to work. Like,

826
00:37:26,560 --> 00:37:28,759
Speaker 1: there's so many factors you don't like fully get to

827
00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:32,560
Speaker 1: enjoy if you're just like already there, I know. Yes,

828
00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:35,600
Speaker 1: so yeah, but I'm very excited and which I'm assuming

829
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:37,719
Speaker 1: you're traveling for this wedding. Yeah, it's in Kansas City,

830
00:37:38,120 --> 00:37:41,200
Speaker 1: so they're always in Kansas City. I know it is

831
00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:44,160
Speaker 1: a direct flight, so I like that, but still I'm

832
00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:46,960
Speaker 1: just like, oh no, it's annoying because they're already everybody's

833
00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:49,240
Speaker 1: there and they're like riding together and stuff. I'm like, well,

834
00:37:49,600 --> 00:37:52,640
Speaker 1: if someone get me from the airport, right, You're like,

835
00:37:52,920 --> 00:37:55,920
Speaker 1: I need a ride somebody. When I went to my

836
00:37:55,920 --> 00:37:58,840
Speaker 1: friend's wedding in Kansas City last fall, she picked me

837
00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:02,080
Speaker 1: up the bride. Oh it was the day before, thankfully,

838
00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:03,719
Speaker 1: but she was like, oh, I'll come get you. She's like,

839
00:38:03,760 --> 00:38:05,640
Speaker 1: everybody else is doing everything, I'll come get you. This

840
00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:07,120
Speaker 1: will be fun for me. Yeah, it's like to kind

841
00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:08,360
Speaker 1: of get your mind off of things. That's what my

842
00:38:08,440 --> 00:38:10,719
Speaker 1: friend said too, because I'm gonna go and she's like, hey,

843
00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:13,120
Speaker 1: she's get married. She gets married on Saturday, and she

844
00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:15,279
Speaker 1: was like, hey, let me know if you guys are bored,

845
00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:17,120
Speaker 1: we can do something on Friday night. I'm like, are

846
00:38:17,160 --> 00:38:19,920
Speaker 1: you not gonna be busy? Yeah? I think it's getting

847
00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:22,160
Speaker 1: off the mind of all the all the nerves and

848
00:38:22,239 --> 00:38:24,799
Speaker 1: like having someone there in case something goes wrong. It's

849
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:27,960
Speaker 1: like you're there. Yeah. Yeah, for sure, but I'm very

850
00:38:28,000 --> 00:38:30,880
Speaker 1: excited for that. I love weddings. I'm like dancing and

851
00:38:31,000 --> 00:38:33,000
Speaker 1: all that. And then is this your only wedding this year?

852
00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:40,040
Speaker 1: I think? Yeah. Now I'm like unless someone random, Oh yeah,

853
00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:42,920
Speaker 1: I act like I'm so many Well I'm starting out

854
00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:45,359
Speaker 1: with one. Yeah, maybe someone will you know, get a

855
00:38:45,400 --> 00:38:48,279
Speaker 1: surprise engagement and get married this year. Maybe one of us.

856
00:38:48,560 --> 00:38:52,279
Speaker 1: You never know. I don't anticipate that for myself. I mean,

857
00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:56,040
Speaker 1: if that is what you are, I wholeheartedly support it. No,

858
00:38:56,160 --> 00:38:58,360
Speaker 1: I I want to That's what I don't understand a

859
00:38:58,360 --> 00:39:00,680
Speaker 1: lot about how that, Like I need to get it

860
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:02,640
Speaker 1: takes a while to get to know someone. Yeah, so

861
00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:05,360
Speaker 1: when you get married after a couple of months, I'm like, wow,

862
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:09,239
Speaker 1: that's awesome for you. But I'm scared that. Listen, I

863
00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:11,239
Speaker 1: know too many things about too many people now, Like

864
00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:14,279
Speaker 1: there's no chance You're like, I need ten years to

865
00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:16,640
Speaker 1: fully get to know this guy before we talk about

866
00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:18,080
Speaker 1: I need to know a lot of things about you

867
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:20,399
Speaker 1: before I make that promise. At this point in my life,

868
00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:24,440
Speaker 1: I've learned. I've learned too much. Ye. So, yeah, one

869
00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:27,359
Speaker 1: wedding that I'm excited for. Okay, that's ninety well, I

870
00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:30,799
Speaker 1: hope the Bachelorette goes well, is going well, you know,

871
00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:32,200
Speaker 1: like if I'm talking to future you right now, I

872
00:39:32,239 --> 00:39:34,800
Speaker 1: hope it's going fabulous and they're getting all kinds of

873
00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:37,480
Speaker 1: activity and fun drinks in. I hope I'm not drinking

874
00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:41,239
Speaker 1: too much, and I remember it's hey, if that's your goal,

875
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:43,880
Speaker 1: then you'll do it because I'm a lightweight. Madeline Edwards

876
00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:45,560
Speaker 1: also stopped to buy the show this week, and it

877
00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:47,719
Speaker 1: was really cool to hear her perform, which he can

878
00:39:47,719 --> 00:39:51,280
Speaker 1: go watch on YouTube Bobby Bones Show. It's so good.

879
00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:54,960
Speaker 1: She just had a killer voice, killer performance, and I

880
00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:57,120
Speaker 1: loved having her in. But what was really cool about

881
00:39:57,120 --> 00:40:00,120
Speaker 1: her interview is that she talked about how she got

882
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:02,799
Speaker 1: her start in music. She was singing jazz at this

883
00:40:03,040 --> 00:40:06,719
Speaker 1: millionaire's restaurant, which is really cool. Like, you love hearing

884
00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:08,680
Speaker 1: the stories of artists and how they get started, and

885
00:40:08,719 --> 00:40:11,799
Speaker 1: this was a cool story. So I want to talk

886
00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:15,080
Speaker 1: about our job evolutions for us, Well, that looked like

887
00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:17,279
Speaker 1: when we got started. So break it down for me

888
00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:20,120
Speaker 1: from like your first job at like sixteen, or maybe

889
00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:23,200
Speaker 1: it was later your first job to now. Okay, so

890
00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:25,759
Speaker 1: my first job was in high school. I think my

891
00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:30,719
Speaker 1: junior year at Mcalister's Deli okay, sandwiches soups. Yes, but

892
00:40:30,880 --> 00:40:33,080
Speaker 1: I was doing sports and I just like could not

893
00:40:33,160 --> 00:40:36,920
Speaker 1: commit trying to do like sports and um like homework

894
00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:38,600
Speaker 1: and all that. So I didn't do it very long.

895
00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:41,120
Speaker 1: And then in college I was a server at a

896
00:40:41,120 --> 00:40:44,240
Speaker 1: whole bunch of places. So I was in Wichita, Jose Peppers,

897
00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:48,560
Speaker 1: it was Mexican. It's still there at it and I

898
00:40:48,600 --> 00:40:52,200
Speaker 1: haven't been there since. And Red Robin, which it was

899
00:40:52,560 --> 00:40:56,080
Speaker 1: Red Robin. Yeah. Sorry, I'm just like an instinct right now.

900
00:40:56,200 --> 00:41:00,560
Speaker 1: That is a lot of Sorry, I'm still scar I'm

901
00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:03,360
Speaker 1: just very scarred from being a server. Um, I have PTSD,

902
00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:06,000
Speaker 1: like I just it was not for me. It was

903
00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:09,560
Speaker 1: not because I'm a perfectionist and I did so well

904
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:12,279
Speaker 1: and I still got stiffed so many times people walked

905
00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:14,680
Speaker 1: out on me and didn't tip me, and I just

906
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:17,400
Speaker 1: had so much anxiety of wanting to do a good job.

907
00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:21,399
Speaker 1: And yeah there's that. What else bella Luna Okay, it's

908
00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:25,920
Speaker 1: a Mediterranean yes, m great which spot? Yes, Yeah. And

909
00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:28,680
Speaker 1: then in college I really didn't have a job. I

910
00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:31,760
Speaker 1: was studying a lot, that's yeah. I was very lucky

911
00:41:31,800 --> 00:41:34,319
Speaker 1: that I didn't need a job. So thank you to

912
00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:38,280
Speaker 1: my parents, Mom and dad, yes, for you know, allowing

913
00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:39,799
Speaker 1: me to do that. But I did try to get

914
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:42,479
Speaker 1: a job as a server in college and I could

915
00:41:42,520 --> 00:41:45,360
Speaker 1: not like lift the plate. It was an Italian restaurant

916
00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:47,480
Speaker 1: and you had to carry like everything on a gigantic

917
00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:50,160
Speaker 1: tray like over your head, and I was like, I

918
00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:52,399
Speaker 1: am not strong enough to carry this. I was so weak,

919
00:41:54,120 --> 00:41:56,440
Speaker 1: and so they wanted me to put like everything on

920
00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:58,320
Speaker 1: at once. I was like, I can't do this, I'm sorry,

921
00:41:58,320 --> 00:42:00,240
Speaker 1: and I remember having to quit like on day two,

922
00:42:00,680 --> 00:42:03,000
Speaker 1: and they were so mad and I was like, okay,

923
00:42:03,040 --> 00:42:05,320
Speaker 1: I'm not going to get my paycheck then never mind.

924
00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:08,760
Speaker 1: So there was that, and then my last semester of college.

925
00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:10,600
Speaker 1: This is funny because I actually, I don't know people

926
00:42:10,640 --> 00:42:12,640
Speaker 1: know this, but I got my degree in exercise science,

927
00:42:13,120 --> 00:42:16,040
Speaker 1: so it's like nothing to do with music or anything.

928
00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:18,960
Speaker 1: But she got a degree, yes, okay, And so my

929
00:42:19,040 --> 00:42:21,239
Speaker 1: last semester I did an internship and it was like

930
00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:23,759
Speaker 1: a full time, like forty five hours a week internship

931
00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:26,000
Speaker 1: at a health and wellness center here where I did

932
00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:30,359
Speaker 1: like exercise testing and like cardiopulmonary rehab on people like

933
00:42:30,400 --> 00:42:32,440
Speaker 1: it was really cool, Like I was taking their blood

934
00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:34,880
Speaker 1: pressure and they were like running on the treadmill and

935
00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:37,640
Speaker 1: I would give them like exercises to do and plans

936
00:42:37,680 --> 00:42:41,160
Speaker 1: and and then I went back and graduated because I

937
00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:43,040
Speaker 1: was like, I don't think I want to work in

938
00:42:43,239 --> 00:42:45,839
Speaker 1: like healthcare anymore, because I didn't want to keep going

939
00:42:45,880 --> 00:42:48,200
Speaker 1: on to school. Yeah, I didn't want to like be

940
00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:51,080
Speaker 1: a go back to pt school like physical therapy and stuff.

941
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:52,799
Speaker 1: I was like, I really want to work in music.

942
00:42:52,840 --> 00:42:55,080
Speaker 1: So I came back to Nashville, and then I got

943
00:42:55,120 --> 00:42:57,799
Speaker 1: a job at I Heeart and I was doing like

944
00:42:57,960 --> 00:43:00,239
Speaker 1: remotes and I was driving like the vehicle and I

945
00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:02,359
Speaker 1: remember I was driving the vehicle that like Bobby's face

946
00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:06,960
Speaker 1: was on. It's really funny. And I was like setting

947
00:43:07,000 --> 00:43:08,920
Speaker 1: up the tent and I was out at like car

948
00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:13,279
Speaker 1: carum whatever What am I trying to say, like car dealerships? Oh,

949
00:43:13,280 --> 00:43:14,520
Speaker 1: you know? And I would set up the tent and

950
00:43:14,520 --> 00:43:17,680
Speaker 1: like give out prizes and all that I'm almost done. No,

951
00:43:17,960 --> 00:43:20,359
Speaker 1: this is great, keep good. So I did that for

952
00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:21,759
Speaker 1: a while and then I was like, okay, I can't

953
00:43:21,840 --> 00:43:24,560
Speaker 1: live off of part time, you know. Yeah, So I

954
00:43:24,600 --> 00:43:27,800
Speaker 1: got a job at a video production company at in

955
00:43:27,880 --> 00:43:30,759
Speaker 1: the operations like operations manager. So I basically ran the

956
00:43:30,800 --> 00:43:33,840
Speaker 1: office in Nashville and we did like tours like for

957
00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:37,920
Speaker 1: the video screens and cameras for concerts and tours like

958
00:43:37,960 --> 00:43:41,400
Speaker 1: Blake Shelton, Florida, Georgia, Line, Reba, like so many. And

959
00:43:41,440 --> 00:43:43,239
Speaker 1: I was like in the office and I did that

960
00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:45,279
Speaker 1: for five years, and I was like, I don't want

961
00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:47,120
Speaker 1: to just like sit in an office and do all

962
00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:49,120
Speaker 1: this office work all the time. You know. I like

963
00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:51,879
Speaker 1: to be out and about. And I also had other

964
00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:53,839
Speaker 1: things I wanted to do, like saying and yeah, I

965
00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:56,440
Speaker 1: just were being an artist. Yeah, I just wasn't focusing

966
00:43:56,480 --> 00:43:59,600
Speaker 1: on why I like moved to Nashville and then um

967
00:43:59,640 --> 00:44:03,239
Speaker 1: the opened up with the show and I got that job,

968
00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:06,759
Speaker 1: and here I am, so yeah, I've done a lot

969
00:44:06,800 --> 00:44:09,480
Speaker 1: of different things. Evolution of jobs for you, yes, And

970
00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:12,920
Speaker 1: why didn't you ever want to pursue the exercise science thing?

971
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:16,000
Speaker 1: I don't it just I was like, I live in

972
00:44:16,120 --> 00:44:19,560
Speaker 1: Nashville and I didn't want to not say I tried.

973
00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:22,760
Speaker 1: I think I just kind of got pushed into healthcare

974
00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:25,240
Speaker 1: because I was like a health freak in high school.

975
00:44:25,440 --> 00:44:27,600
Speaker 1: In college, like I worked out all the time, and

976
00:44:27,640 --> 00:44:29,640
Speaker 1: I ran and I ate really healthy, and I loved

977
00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:32,080
Speaker 1: like science classes and all that. So I liked what

978
00:44:32,160 --> 00:44:35,239
Speaker 1: I did in school. But then I graduated and I

979
00:44:35,239 --> 00:44:36,360
Speaker 1: was like, Okay, what am I going to do with

980
00:44:36,400 --> 00:44:38,520
Speaker 1: my life? I mean I could work at I actually

981
00:44:38,520 --> 00:44:41,840
Speaker 1: applied at the Why and they paid nothing. You know,

982
00:44:41,840 --> 00:44:43,960
Speaker 1: you would have to go on to do more like

983
00:44:43,480 --> 00:44:46,200
Speaker 1: a like a personal trainer or something like that. And

984
00:44:46,239 --> 00:44:48,680
Speaker 1: I was just like, I just don't think I would

985
00:44:48,719 --> 00:44:50,359
Speaker 1: be happy doing that. And I was like, I want

986
00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:52,440
Speaker 1: to work in music, and so I just networked and

987
00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:55,279
Speaker 1: tried to see what was out there, like as far

988
00:44:55,320 --> 00:44:58,319
Speaker 1: as because I grew up listening to country radio and

989
00:44:58,360 --> 00:45:00,800
Speaker 1: like country music and I've wanted to live in Nashville.

990
00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:02,560
Speaker 1: I was like, I want to work in it in

991
00:45:02,760 --> 00:45:05,719
Speaker 1: some capacity, I don't know what. And I also want

992
00:45:05,719 --> 00:45:08,200
Speaker 1: to try singing. But then I put that on hold

993
00:45:08,239 --> 00:45:12,400
Speaker 1: because everybody it's very intimidating here obviously because everybody's things,

994
00:45:12,440 --> 00:45:15,040
Speaker 1: you know. So but I was like, I'm gonna see

995
00:45:15,080 --> 00:45:16,319
Speaker 1: where it takes me. I'm kind of like it, just

996
00:45:16,320 --> 00:45:17,960
Speaker 1: see where it takes me. Person. I don't know if

997
00:45:17,960 --> 00:45:20,800
Speaker 1: that's good or not. I don't even know, I didn't

998
00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:23,000
Speaker 1: really have a plan, and so I was always kind

999
00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:25,680
Speaker 1: of jealous of people that did. And I think you did,

1000
00:45:25,840 --> 00:45:29,000
Speaker 1: you know, And like there's certain people like aif they

1001
00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:31,319
Speaker 1: know they want to be a firefighter from when they're

1002
00:45:31,320 --> 00:45:33,920
Speaker 1: a kid, and they that's all they go after. And

1003
00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:36,000
Speaker 1: I was like, I didn't know what I wanted to do. No,

1004
00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:37,880
Speaker 1: you explored a lot of different avenues. I think it

1005
00:45:37,920 --> 00:45:40,400
Speaker 1: gives you more clarity when you're at this point in

1006
00:45:40,400 --> 00:45:42,680
Speaker 1: your life to know that, Okay, I'm doing what I

1007
00:45:42,680 --> 00:45:44,439
Speaker 1: really love to do. Because I explored a lot of things.

1008
00:45:45,160 --> 00:45:48,480
Speaker 1: I think that's something that's there, Yeah, in not knowing

1009
00:45:48,560 --> 00:45:51,280
Speaker 1: what you were going to do, right, because some people

1010
00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:53,160
Speaker 1: they do just kind of go on one track and

1011
00:45:53,200 --> 00:45:56,000
Speaker 1: they just stay on that track because they're comfortable and

1012
00:45:56,160 --> 00:45:59,680
Speaker 1: they don't want to like make the change. But I

1013
00:45:59,719 --> 00:46:02,040
Speaker 1: don't know. I mean, I moved to Nashville not knowing anyone,

1014
00:46:02,080 --> 00:46:03,359
Speaker 1: So I was like, I have nothing to lose at

1015
00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:06,520
Speaker 1: this point, you know, And there's so many more opportunities

1016
00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:11,000
Speaker 1: in Nashville anyway than in Kansas. So yeah, that's fair

1017
00:46:11,120 --> 00:46:12,880
Speaker 1: that I felt the same way. That's why I couldn't

1018
00:46:12,880 --> 00:46:14,480
Speaker 1: stay as much as I wanted to to be with

1019
00:46:14,520 --> 00:46:16,840
Speaker 1: my family. I was like, b don't think this is

1020
00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:19,760
Speaker 1: where I can be. Yeah, which it is hard because

1021
00:46:19,760 --> 00:46:23,000
Speaker 1: you obviously wanted your family in your life when you're

1022
00:46:23,320 --> 00:46:25,000
Speaker 1: at your job and you want to share your life

1023
00:46:25,040 --> 00:46:29,160
Speaker 1: with them. But anyway, yeah, I just took a crazy path. No,

1024
00:46:29,320 --> 00:46:31,839
Speaker 1: I loved it. See. I love that you shared that

1025
00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:35,080
Speaker 1: you are right and that mine did look a little

1026
00:46:35,120 --> 00:46:37,719
Speaker 1: bit more narrow. I did have some ideas of what

1027
00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:39,600
Speaker 1: I wanted to do. But let's see. So when I

1028
00:46:39,640 --> 00:46:42,240
Speaker 1: was sixteen, I wanted to get a job right away,

1029
00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:45,040
Speaker 1: and so I went and worked at Buffalo Wild Wings

1030
00:46:45,040 --> 00:46:47,360
Speaker 1: as a host, and then I moved from a host

1031
00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:50,360
Speaker 1: to the takeout cashier, then from the takeout cashier to

1032
00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:52,640
Speaker 1: the exbo and then I became a server, which was

1033
00:46:52,680 --> 00:46:54,400
Speaker 1: my goal all along. But I obviously couldn't do it

1034
00:46:54,440 --> 00:46:56,040
Speaker 1: at sixteen. You couldn't do it until you were eighteen

1035
00:46:56,080 --> 00:46:58,759
Speaker 1: at the time. Oh so, because you had to be

1036
00:46:58,840 --> 00:47:01,799
Speaker 1: able to handle alcohol, right that I do remember that, huh,

1037
00:47:01,800 --> 00:47:03,200
Speaker 1: And I don't know if that's still the case, but

1038
00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:05,879
Speaker 1: that was for them, And so I ended up working

1039
00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:09,000
Speaker 1: at Buffalo Wallowings for four and a half years. I

1040
00:47:09,040 --> 00:47:11,040
Speaker 1: worked there all throughout high school, and then i'd work

1041
00:47:11,080 --> 00:47:13,879
Speaker 1: summers when I came back from college, and I loved it.

1042
00:47:13,920 --> 00:47:16,279
Speaker 1: I loved like my co workers and it was just

1043
00:47:16,280 --> 00:47:18,879
Speaker 1: a really cool environment because Buffalo was like watching sports

1044
00:47:18,920 --> 00:47:21,120
Speaker 1: all the time. It's a great time. And so I

1045
00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:23,799
Speaker 1: did that. And then one summer I went and worked

1046
00:47:23,840 --> 00:47:25,719
Speaker 1: at a brewing company in which show was Shob Brewing

1047
00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:29,280
Speaker 1: Company because my old manager from Buffalo ended up working

1048
00:47:29,320 --> 00:47:31,160
Speaker 1: there and I had come back for a summer. I

1049
00:47:31,160 --> 00:47:33,160
Speaker 1: was like, I need a job. I'm back from college.

1050
00:47:33,160 --> 00:47:34,640
Speaker 1: What am I going to do? And so I did

1051
00:47:34,680 --> 00:47:37,800
Speaker 1: more starving, and I like, it's funny, I'm the opposite

1052
00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:39,360
Speaker 1: of you, but I am a perfectionist. You and I

1053
00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:41,800
Speaker 1: are the same in that way. But I loved serving.

1054
00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:44,600
Speaker 1: I just I loved talking to people. And like there

1055
00:47:44,640 --> 00:47:46,839
Speaker 1: was days I hated it because people would be really rude. Yeah,

1056
00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:49,560
Speaker 1: and you learn a lot about people in those types

1057
00:47:49,560 --> 00:47:52,600
Speaker 1: of jobs. But I loved it, like I loved being social.

1058
00:47:52,640 --> 00:47:54,799
Speaker 1: I was like a little social butterfly. And I made

1059
00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:58,520
Speaker 1: so much money, like just so much stupid money from serving. No, yeah,

1060
00:47:58,560 --> 00:48:00,200
Speaker 1: it was good money and you get to take get

1061
00:48:00,200 --> 00:48:02,080
Speaker 1: home that day and like calea and be like, Oh

1062
00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:03,799
Speaker 1: my gosh, they look at all this cash I made

1063
00:48:03,800 --> 00:48:06,480
Speaker 1: to day awesome. And I say that as in somebody

1064
00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:09,040
Speaker 1: who was in high school and college, like would that

1065
00:48:09,080 --> 00:48:11,360
Speaker 1: be good money to me? Now? No, like that's much different.

1066
00:48:11,400 --> 00:48:13,480
Speaker 1: But like as a high schooler in college, I was like,

1067
00:48:13,560 --> 00:48:15,279
Speaker 1: what what do I do with all of this? Like

1068
00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:17,720
Speaker 1: this is amazing compared to a lot of other jobs

1069
00:48:17,719 --> 00:48:21,279
Speaker 1: that people were doing. So I did love that, but

1070
00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:23,439
Speaker 1: I stopped doing that when I got to the point

1071
00:48:23,480 --> 00:48:25,400
Speaker 1: in college when I was doing internships so I can

1072
00:48:25,440 --> 00:48:27,880
Speaker 1: no longer work. I was doing free internships and I

1073
00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:31,200
Speaker 1: was not fun, but I did. I explored, so broadcast

1074
00:48:31,239 --> 00:48:34,640
Speaker 1: journalism was my major. My minor was in leadership Studies.

1075
00:48:34,680 --> 00:48:38,000
Speaker 1: I also almost had a minor in French because at

1076
00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:39,880
Speaker 1: the time I wanted to be a news reporter and

1077
00:48:39,880 --> 00:48:42,360
Speaker 1: I wanted to be bilingual. Oh that's cool, Wait, you

1078
00:48:42,360 --> 00:48:44,640
Speaker 1: can speak French? I did at the time. Yeah, I

1079
00:48:44,680 --> 00:48:46,600
Speaker 1: was cluent like I had. I So I ended up

1080
00:48:46,640 --> 00:48:48,600
Speaker 1: graduating college in three years because I had so many

1081
00:48:48,600 --> 00:48:51,280
Speaker 1: credits from what had happened to me in high school

1082
00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:54,960
Speaker 1: that I basically went to college early essentially, so I

1083
00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:56,600
Speaker 1: had a lot of credits, and it was like, if

1084
00:48:56,640 --> 00:48:59,160
Speaker 1: I just took a few extra and made one of

1085
00:48:59,200 --> 00:49:01,719
Speaker 1: my semesters pretty heavy, i'd finished in three years. And

1086
00:49:01,760 --> 00:49:03,399
Speaker 1: I was like, well, it doesn't make sense to pay

1087
00:49:03,440 --> 00:49:05,839
Speaker 1: for a fourth year, even though I could, there's no

1088
00:49:05,880 --> 00:49:09,120
Speaker 1: reason too. And so had I stayed that extra fourth year,

1089
00:49:09,120 --> 00:49:10,680
Speaker 1: I would have taken my last French credit and it

1090
00:49:10,680 --> 00:49:12,120
Speaker 1: would have been I would have had a double minor.

1091
00:49:12,440 --> 00:49:15,960
Speaker 1: Oh but French was by far the hardest classes I

1092
00:49:15,960 --> 00:49:18,839
Speaker 1: had in college. Oh was it? Oh my god, so hard.

1093
00:49:18,920 --> 00:49:21,200
Speaker 1: I had to work my butt off to understand that language.

1094
00:49:21,200 --> 00:49:22,759
Speaker 1: And I did, like I was really good at it,

1095
00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:25,279
Speaker 1: but I just and then like probably a year later,

1096
00:49:25,320 --> 00:49:28,640
Speaker 1: I lost it because I never talked to it, like, yeah,

1097
00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:31,200
Speaker 1: it's not here. At least you have the other language

1098
00:49:31,200 --> 00:49:33,680
Speaker 1: of Spanish, which a lot of people tend to speak

1099
00:49:33,800 --> 00:49:36,160
Speaker 1: in more like kind of pot luck, not pot luck

1100
00:49:36,239 --> 00:49:39,040
Speaker 1: is that the word I'm thinking form melting pot cities

1101
00:49:39,640 --> 00:49:42,480
Speaker 1: like Nashville, you have at least kind of those dual languages.

1102
00:49:42,480 --> 00:49:44,239
Speaker 1: But French isn't one unless I were to go to

1103
00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:48,960
Speaker 1: Canada or France, Europe, you know, somewhere over there. But

1104
00:49:49,040 --> 00:49:50,960
Speaker 1: I did. I loved the language it's so cool. And

1105
00:49:51,320 --> 00:49:54,640
Speaker 1: in college though, when I started working for the Hampshire

1106
00:49:54,719 --> 00:49:56,640
Speaker 1: magazine that I still worked for it to this day.

1107
00:49:56,760 --> 00:50:01,160
Speaker 1: No way, Oh, I started in college. Yeah, so that

1108
00:50:01,239 --> 00:50:05,319
Speaker 1: started because my sister, she was basically two years older

1109
00:50:05,320 --> 00:50:06,799
Speaker 1: than me, and she was looking for a job and

1110
00:50:06,840 --> 00:50:09,000
Speaker 1: she saw this guy on Craigslist and he was kind

1111
00:50:09,000 --> 00:50:10,440
Speaker 1: of like a jack of all trades, did a lot

1112
00:50:10,480 --> 00:50:12,880
Speaker 1: of things, and he needed some help, and so she

1113
00:50:13,000 --> 00:50:15,080
Speaker 1: started working for him, which was crazy at the time.

1114
00:50:15,080 --> 00:50:17,480
Speaker 1: We're like, you just found a job on craigslist. Excuse us,

1115
00:50:17,600 --> 00:50:20,160
Speaker 1: Like what's going on? But she was in college, needed

1116
00:50:20,200 --> 00:50:22,920
Speaker 1: a job and the guy was super nice, and so

1117
00:50:23,320 --> 00:50:25,799
Speaker 1: she started working with him. And he has been like

1118
00:50:25,840 --> 00:50:29,760
Speaker 1: the secretary of the American Hampshire Sheep Association for years,

1119
00:50:30,600 --> 00:50:32,799
Speaker 1: and so he needed more employees and she's like, well,

1120
00:50:32,840 --> 00:50:34,920
Speaker 1: I got my sister, and I don't know how many

1121
00:50:34,920 --> 00:50:37,600
Speaker 1: times I'd roll and hung over to this freaking cheap

1122
00:50:37,680 --> 00:50:40,799
Speaker 1: office and do work because I was in college and

1123
00:50:41,080 --> 00:50:42,680
Speaker 1: you know, but I needed to work when I wanted

1124
00:50:42,719 --> 00:50:45,839
Speaker 1: to have fun, and so I started that there and then, yeah,

1125
00:50:45,840 --> 00:50:48,120
Speaker 1: I still to this day do that side hustle of

1126
00:50:48,200 --> 00:50:51,480
Speaker 1: creating the Sheep magazine three times a year. That is

1127
00:50:51,600 --> 00:50:53,880
Speaker 1: awesome working on one right now, this is at one

1128
00:50:53,880 --> 00:50:55,960
Speaker 1: point that I'm at one. You're gonna have one of

1129
00:50:55,960 --> 00:50:57,879
Speaker 1: my jobs. You're gonna be like eighty years old still

1130
00:50:57,920 --> 00:51:03,560
Speaker 1: working on the sheep. Yeah. Yeah, someone it's it's it

1131
00:51:03,680 --> 00:51:06,520
Speaker 1: helps them and it's easy money for me. It's a

1132
00:51:06,560 --> 00:51:09,040
Speaker 1: slide hustle kind of thing. I'm like, why not? Um

1133
00:51:09,280 --> 00:51:11,160
Speaker 1: So I do still do that. But when I was

1134
00:51:11,160 --> 00:51:13,880
Speaker 1: in college I also did um I got paid for

1135
00:51:14,000 --> 00:51:16,600
Speaker 1: I worked on like the sports teams doing video work

1136
00:51:17,080 --> 00:51:19,279
Speaker 1: and talk about you know, speaking of production, Like I

1137
00:51:19,400 --> 00:51:20,880
Speaker 1: was on the video side of it, and I'd do

1138
00:51:21,080 --> 00:51:24,040
Speaker 1: sideliner reporting and all kinds of stuff like that, and

1139
00:51:24,239 --> 00:51:26,600
Speaker 1: I'd get paid doing that. It was a whole organization

1140
00:51:26,640 --> 00:51:29,680
Speaker 1: within Case State, which was awesome. And so I did

1141
00:51:29,680 --> 00:51:32,480
Speaker 1: a lot of journalism stuff. And then after I graduated,

1142
00:51:32,560 --> 00:51:36,960
Speaker 1: I didn't have a job for ah. It's the summer.

1143
00:51:37,080 --> 00:51:39,359
Speaker 1: It was like June or July that I finally got

1144
00:51:39,360 --> 00:51:42,240
Speaker 1: my job with iHeart and Wichita because I had interned

1145
00:51:42,280 --> 00:51:44,520
Speaker 1: with them when they were clear Channel back in the day.

1146
00:51:44,920 --> 00:51:47,360
Speaker 1: And I got a job through iHeart and which too.

1147
00:51:47,480 --> 00:51:49,799
Speaker 1: I was there for ten months and then I was

1148
00:51:50,200 --> 00:51:53,680
Speaker 1: at iHeart in Nashville for ten months before the job

1149
00:51:53,680 --> 00:51:56,000
Speaker 1: opened up on the show, and I have been here

1150
00:51:56,040 --> 00:52:01,000
Speaker 1: ever since. This will I believe this this summer is

1151
00:52:01,040 --> 00:52:04,200
Speaker 1: my seventh year Oh wow with the show. Well you know, oh,

1152
00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:07,360
Speaker 1: because the show has been here like ten right, and yeah,

1153
00:52:07,400 --> 00:52:10,200
Speaker 1: And I was like, yeah, I wasn't in Nashville very

1154
00:52:10,200 --> 00:52:12,399
Speaker 1: long before I joined the show, So it's crazy to think.

1155
00:52:12,400 --> 00:52:14,560
Speaker 1: And I look back at that now, I'm like seven years.

1156
00:52:14,680 --> 00:52:17,799
Speaker 1: I've been here seven years. Isn't that so weird to

1157
00:52:17,880 --> 00:52:21,120
Speaker 1: think about? It's so wild when it's funny because we

1158
00:52:21,200 --> 00:52:23,399
Speaker 1: used to do a segment on the show called what

1159
00:52:23,640 --> 00:52:26,520
Speaker 1: I Believe? The first one was what twenty four year

1160
00:52:26,560 --> 00:52:29,719
Speaker 1: olds care about? Okay, and I think I had just

1161
00:52:29,880 --> 00:52:33,080
Speaker 1: turned twenty four around the time when I had joined

1162
00:52:33,080 --> 00:52:36,000
Speaker 1: the show. Yeah, and so and I looked back now,

1163
00:52:36,000 --> 00:52:39,839
Speaker 1: and I'm about to turn thirty this year, So that

1164
00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:42,400
Speaker 1: is wild. Yeah, just like a crazy evolution of that,

1165
00:52:43,080 --> 00:52:46,000
Speaker 1: Like that is a long time, huh, Like I've been

1166
00:52:46,040 --> 00:52:48,560
Speaker 1: here almost like ten years. Yeah, it doesn't feel weird.

1167
00:52:48,560 --> 00:52:50,160
Speaker 1: It doesn't feel like it's actually been that long. No,

1168
00:52:50,239 --> 00:52:53,160
Speaker 1: I mean that's a third of my life, which is

1169
00:52:53,400 --> 00:52:58,759
Speaker 1: kind of scary. It's incredibly scary. That's weird. It's like, See,

1170
00:52:58,760 --> 00:53:00,600
Speaker 1: that's the thing is I always is trying not to

1171
00:53:00,680 --> 00:53:03,080
Speaker 1: compare to people, but I'm like, oh my gosh, Like

1172
00:53:03,120 --> 00:53:04,920
Speaker 1: a lot of people that I know that have been

1173
00:53:04,960 --> 00:53:06,799
Speaker 1: here ten years, I mean they're like married with like

1174
00:53:06,840 --> 00:53:09,160
Speaker 1: five kids, and I'm just like, I've been here ten

1175
00:53:09,239 --> 00:53:11,680
Speaker 1: years and I'm still in the same page. You know what, though,

1176
00:53:11,719 --> 00:53:14,000
Speaker 1: we got a lot to show for that. That's true. Yes,

1177
00:53:14,800 --> 00:53:16,200
Speaker 1: you can't go there. We got a lot to show

1178
00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:18,959
Speaker 1: for that. That's what my mind does. I know, stop

1179
00:53:18,960 --> 00:53:20,919
Speaker 1: doing that. I get it though. We're in our quarter

1180
00:53:20,960 --> 00:53:24,040
Speaker 1: life crisis. Yeah, yeah, we are, that's happening right now. Yeah,

1181
00:53:24,040 --> 00:53:26,560
Speaker 1: but I'm glad we shared that. We got a little

1182
00:53:26,560 --> 00:53:28,640
Speaker 1: bit more talk about before you head off and jet

1183
00:53:28,680 --> 00:53:32,480
Speaker 1: to your bachelorette party. Whoa we had Number three spot.

1184
00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:34,439
Speaker 1: Amy shared that she cried in the grocery store aisle

1185
00:53:34,480 --> 00:53:36,720
Speaker 1: and why that happened and how you should like recognize

1186
00:53:36,719 --> 00:53:38,600
Speaker 1: your feelings and kind of shared a pro tip on that,

1187
00:53:38,640 --> 00:53:41,279
Speaker 1: and I loved like hearing that from her perspective. So

1188
00:53:41,360 --> 00:53:43,680
Speaker 1: I want to share a life hack because I feel

1189
00:53:43,680 --> 00:53:45,239
Speaker 1: like what Amy shared is kind of a life hack

1190
00:53:45,560 --> 00:53:48,200
Speaker 1: do you have a life hack to share? You go first,

1191
00:53:48,320 --> 00:53:50,720
Speaker 1: You let me go first. So this is like legit,

1192
00:53:50,719 --> 00:53:53,520
Speaker 1: straight up life hack. If you have gnats or fruit

1193
00:53:53,520 --> 00:53:55,840
Speaker 1: flies in your house, listen. I have a little succulent

1194
00:53:56,080 --> 00:53:57,840
Speaker 1: plant that I created when I was on which I

1195
00:53:57,920 --> 00:54:00,600
Speaker 1: brought back with me. It is thriving, it's so well,

1196
00:54:00,920 --> 00:54:03,319
Speaker 1: but it brought gnats into my house, which I was

1197
00:54:03,400 --> 00:54:05,640
Speaker 1: not ready for. When I went to water the other day,

1198
00:54:05,680 --> 00:54:07,080
Speaker 1: they all came out and I was like, what is

1199
00:54:07,120 --> 00:54:11,279
Speaker 1: going on? It was not prepared, and so I had

1200
00:54:11,320 --> 00:54:13,279
Speaker 1: looked online all the ways I can get rid of this,

1201
00:54:13,280 --> 00:54:15,520
Speaker 1: because they were just kind of swarming the succulents, and

1202
00:54:15,600 --> 00:54:18,000
Speaker 1: so I put a little cup of wine next to

1203
00:54:18,040 --> 00:54:20,719
Speaker 1: it with a little bit of apple cider vinegar and

1204
00:54:21,200 --> 00:54:25,080
Speaker 1: they all fell into it and died. Really, Oh that worked.

1205
00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:26,840
Speaker 1: You didn't have to put anything else in it. Nope.

1206
00:54:26,880 --> 00:54:30,560
Speaker 1: So because it's sweet and they attract to like nutrients essentially,

1207
00:54:30,640 --> 00:54:33,920
Speaker 1: or like something sweet. It's particularly fruit flies do, but

1208
00:54:34,000 --> 00:54:36,040
Speaker 1: like gnats are kind of the same way. But yeah,

1209
00:54:36,040 --> 00:54:37,800
Speaker 1: I put wine with a little bit of apple cider

1210
00:54:37,840 --> 00:54:39,640
Speaker 1: vinegar right next to the plant and they were all

1211
00:54:39,680 --> 00:54:41,839
Speaker 1: in there by like forty eight hours they were all gone,

1212
00:54:41,960 --> 00:54:43,640
Speaker 1: oh my gosh. I did that one time, and they

1213
00:54:43,680 --> 00:54:45,399
Speaker 1: said you have to put like don soap and let

1214
00:54:45,440 --> 00:54:47,760
Speaker 1: a bubble so that they get caught in the bubbles.

1215
00:54:47,800 --> 00:54:50,560
Speaker 1: But I guess they're they just get so little suckers

1216
00:54:50,640 --> 00:54:54,840
Speaker 1: intoxicated by the fumes and they just fall in something.

1217
00:54:54,920 --> 00:54:57,360
Speaker 1: I think both work. I think there's a kind of

1218
00:54:57,400 --> 00:54:59,040
Speaker 1: an idea of around all of that. But like if

1219
00:54:59,040 --> 00:55:00,640
Speaker 1: you don't have don soap at your house and you

1220
00:55:00,719 --> 00:55:03,280
Speaker 1: got wine. A lot of people got wine at their house. Yeah,

1221
00:55:03,320 --> 00:55:05,400
Speaker 1: a lot of people recently have apples, eide or vinegar.

1222
00:55:05,480 --> 00:55:06,759
Speaker 1: So you can do one or the other, you can

1223
00:55:06,800 --> 00:55:09,120
Speaker 1: do both. I did a little bit of both, and yeah,

1224
00:55:09,480 --> 00:55:12,520
Speaker 1: that is awesome because that's a huge problem in my house.

1225
00:55:12,760 --> 00:55:15,799
Speaker 1: Is yes, yeah, all every year that happens. I'm like,

1226
00:55:15,800 --> 00:55:17,600
Speaker 1: where are they coming from? Yeah, so just get low

1227
00:55:17,640 --> 00:55:19,120
Speaker 1: costs and just put a little bit of wine just

1228
00:55:19,280 --> 00:55:22,200
Speaker 1: like all over. I'm telling you, they go away very quickly.

1229
00:55:22,280 --> 00:55:24,719
Speaker 1: I'm gonna drive. I honestly didn't know that. Yeah, yeah,

1230
00:55:24,800 --> 00:55:27,560
Speaker 1: I got you life act, Oh love it? What you got? Okay,

1231
00:55:27,560 --> 00:55:31,880
Speaker 1: Well I have one that okay, So it's about like water,

1232
00:55:32,040 --> 00:55:35,799
Speaker 1: you know. In Nashville, the shower water has chlorine in it.

1233
00:55:36,200 --> 00:55:39,400
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it's really bad, yes, and it smells really gross.

1234
00:55:39,400 --> 00:55:42,840
Speaker 1: But I got a filter for mine. Yeah, and it

1235
00:55:42,880 --> 00:55:45,520
Speaker 1: makes my hair feel so smooth and soft. I'm not

1236
00:55:45,520 --> 00:55:48,960
Speaker 1: really kidding. Did you get it on Amazon? Yes? Yeah, yeah,

1237
00:55:49,000 --> 00:55:51,120
Speaker 1: And so you just change change the filters, but it

1238
00:55:51,160 --> 00:55:53,440
Speaker 1: makes it. I mean I can tell a huge difference,

1239
00:55:53,480 --> 00:55:55,560
Speaker 1: and my hair doesn't dry it out because like chlorine,

1240
00:55:55,600 --> 00:55:58,799
Speaker 1: it's not good for you to like bathe in basically,

1241
00:55:59,000 --> 00:56:01,279
Speaker 1: and you can smell it and like taste bad. There's

1242
00:56:01,320 --> 00:56:03,560
Speaker 1: nothing good about it. And I got this filter. I'm

1243
00:56:03,600 --> 00:56:05,800
Speaker 1: not even kidding. Life changing. I mean more for girls

1244
00:56:05,800 --> 00:56:08,279
Speaker 1: probably than guys would care about. But yeah, but I

1245
00:56:08,280 --> 00:56:10,200
Speaker 1: mean guys have hair, maybe you know, like maybe it

1246
00:56:10,200 --> 00:56:12,719
Speaker 1: helps them not like lose their hair quicker, if that's

1247
00:56:12,719 --> 00:56:14,960
Speaker 1: like something in their gene. Yeah, because I'm sure chlorine

1248
00:56:15,000 --> 00:56:17,319
Speaker 1: doesn't help anybody with that, right. There's just nothing good

1249
00:56:17,360 --> 00:56:19,360
Speaker 1: about It's not good for your skin, your hair or anything.

1250
00:56:19,440 --> 00:56:21,400
Speaker 1: So I'm like, hey, okay, I mean I don't know

1251
00:56:21,400 --> 00:56:23,719
Speaker 1: if that's really a life back, that's a life hack,

1252
00:56:23,800 --> 00:56:25,960
Speaker 1: because like most people don't even know that that exists.

1253
00:56:26,000 --> 00:56:27,600
Speaker 1: I don't think I even learn about it until I

1254
00:56:27,640 --> 00:56:30,520
Speaker 1: moved to Nashville because about bad the water it's here, yes,

1255
00:56:30,560 --> 00:56:32,920
Speaker 1: and it tastes so bad you have to have a filter. Yep,

1256
00:56:33,040 --> 00:56:34,920
Speaker 1: I use a filter because it's so bad. You can't

1257
00:56:35,000 --> 00:56:38,560
Speaker 1: drink that tap water here. No, So I mean I

1258
00:56:38,560 --> 00:56:40,960
Speaker 1: feel like that could help. That's a great life I

1259
00:56:41,000 --> 00:56:46,400
Speaker 1: want smooth him. I love that life hack. That's a

1260
00:56:46,400 --> 00:56:49,680
Speaker 1: great one. And now now people have wine and filters

1261
00:56:49,680 --> 00:56:52,680
Speaker 1: and they will be happier than ever. H Yes, I'll

1262
00:56:52,719 --> 00:56:55,640
Speaker 1: like it. We had in at the number two spots

1263
00:56:55,680 --> 00:56:57,480
Speaker 1: Becau but Steve shared how he doesn't want to get

1264
00:56:57,520 --> 00:57:01,040
Speaker 1: a vasectomy basically, and I he said, I would rather

1265
00:57:01,080 --> 00:57:03,480
Speaker 1: have ten more kids than get a sex to me,

1266
00:57:04,440 --> 00:57:07,200
Speaker 1: but do you know the power to that situation? And

1267
00:57:07,320 --> 00:57:09,719
Speaker 1: that that's all there. I'll just leave that there. Um

1268
00:57:09,920 --> 00:57:15,120
Speaker 1: talk about some dating relationship type updates if you want to,

1269
00:57:15,280 --> 00:57:17,920
Speaker 1: I'll share. I'll share mine and see how you feel

1270
00:57:18,200 --> 00:57:20,960
Speaker 1: you want to talk about anything. But I had seen

1271
00:57:21,240 --> 00:57:24,840
Speaker 1: on TikTok recently, and let me tell you this is

1272
00:57:24,840 --> 00:57:28,360
Speaker 1: helping me meet guys I r L in real life.

1273
00:57:28,440 --> 00:57:31,000
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah I got that. Yeah, well I realized I

1274
00:57:31,040 --> 00:57:34,320
Speaker 1: was like, hold on, that phrase seems weird saying just

1275
00:57:34,360 --> 00:57:36,360
Speaker 1: like in real life over like I r L. Yes,

1276
00:57:36,480 --> 00:57:38,200
Speaker 1: I don't know why, so I always say IRL, And

1277
00:57:38,200 --> 00:57:40,040
Speaker 1: then I realize most people may not know what that is.

1278
00:57:40,360 --> 00:57:43,200
Speaker 1: I'm glad you clarified. Just not just for you, it's

1279
00:57:43,200 --> 00:57:45,880
Speaker 1: for everyone. I always get that, especially like my dad listening,

1280
00:57:45,920 --> 00:57:47,600
Speaker 1: He's gonna be like, Marrion, what's IRL. I'm gonna get

1281
00:57:47,520 --> 00:57:49,160
Speaker 1: a phone call on Sunday morning, like Dad, I don't

1282
00:57:49,160 --> 00:57:51,480
Speaker 1: know what this. Yeah, it'll be a whole thing. Yeah,

1283
00:57:52,000 --> 00:57:53,920
Speaker 1: but I saw this. I don't even know who it

1284
00:57:53,960 --> 00:57:55,880
Speaker 1: was that was sharing it, but she was like, hey,

1285
00:57:56,040 --> 00:57:58,600
Speaker 1: if you're trying to meet guys in person, same would

1286
00:57:58,600 --> 00:58:00,560
Speaker 1: go for females as well, Like, you know, if you're

1287
00:58:00,560 --> 00:58:03,120
Speaker 1: a guy trying to dake girls in real life instead

1288
00:58:03,120 --> 00:58:05,360
Speaker 1: of being on the dating maps or whatever they say,

1289
00:58:05,720 --> 00:58:09,040
Speaker 1: make eye contact and keep the eye contact, you know

1290
00:58:09,080 --> 00:58:11,520
Speaker 1: how hard? Like And I thought about this because after

1291
00:58:11,560 --> 00:58:13,120
Speaker 1: I saw this video and then I was out in public,

1292
00:58:13,160 --> 00:58:15,040
Speaker 1: I was like, dang, I don't do eye contact with anyone.

1293
00:58:15,040 --> 00:58:16,600
Speaker 1: I see him and out to look down immediately and

1294
00:58:16,600 --> 00:58:19,160
Speaker 1: I would look away and I'm like, no eye contact, yes,

1295
00:58:19,280 --> 00:58:22,200
Speaker 1: because it's awkward, right, Oh yeah, but I did this.

1296
00:58:22,360 --> 00:58:23,760
Speaker 1: I was like, I had got I had a few

1297
00:58:23,840 --> 00:58:25,479
Speaker 1: drinks in me a few nights, and I was like, yeah,

1298
00:58:25,560 --> 00:58:28,160
Speaker 1: let's like make sure to keep at least for a

1299
00:58:28,200 --> 00:58:31,000
Speaker 1: few seconds, keep the eye contact. And so I did this,

1300
00:58:31,080 --> 00:58:35,120
Speaker 1: and I talked to two guys. I rl, yeah, yeah,

1301
00:58:35,120 --> 00:58:37,880
Speaker 1: that's awesome. I don't plan to like go out of

1302
00:58:37,920 --> 00:58:40,160
Speaker 1: them again, but at least it worked. Yes, they come

1303
00:58:40,240 --> 00:58:43,520
Speaker 1: up to you, they did. See. That is amazing. It

1304
00:58:43,520 --> 00:58:46,160
Speaker 1: worked so And I think that's because like when you

1305
00:58:46,240 --> 00:58:48,280
Speaker 1: keep eye contact, it's your way of saying like, hey,

1306
00:58:48,360 --> 00:58:52,000
Speaker 1: I'm interested. You can approach like totally cool, yes, whereas

1307
00:58:52,000 --> 00:58:54,040
Speaker 1: if you look away, it's like, oh, they're not interested.

1308
00:58:54,080 --> 00:58:55,680
Speaker 1: I'm not going to go up to them. So it's

1309
00:58:55,840 --> 00:58:59,080
Speaker 1: literally saying hey I'm interested without saying hey I'm interested. Yeah,

1310
00:58:59,120 --> 00:59:00,680
Speaker 1: it's like the body line, which you're not going to

1311
00:59:00,760 --> 00:59:03,400
Speaker 1: go up to someone that's like looking down obviously because

1312
00:59:03,600 --> 00:59:05,680
Speaker 1: it doesn't look like they're interested, which is what yes,

1313
00:59:05,720 --> 00:59:09,200
Speaker 1: we do all the time, but we look away. I'm like, oh, awkward,

1314
00:59:09,280 --> 00:59:11,280
Speaker 1: don't want to do that. Oh, but see that's the problem.

1315
00:59:11,320 --> 00:59:13,439
Speaker 1: When when we have drinks, we can, But what about

1316
00:59:13,440 --> 00:59:15,520
Speaker 1: if you're at the store, Like what if you're at twelve, hey,

1317
00:59:15,680 --> 00:59:18,000
Speaker 1: start when you're a little you got a little liquid courage,

1318
00:59:18,080 --> 00:59:20,160
Speaker 1: maybe yeah, and then you can do it to the

1319
00:59:20,240 --> 00:59:22,520
Speaker 1: sober you. Because I have it's at least now that

1320
00:59:22,560 --> 00:59:24,840
Speaker 1: I know that it works, I'm like, okay, okay, I

1321
00:59:25,080 --> 00:59:27,720
Speaker 1: can get a little more confidence with this. I'm working on.

1322
00:59:27,760 --> 00:59:30,960
Speaker 1: I'm not saying I have yet. No. The things I

1323
00:59:31,000 --> 00:59:33,120
Speaker 1: always wonder is like at different places, like what do

1324
00:59:33,160 --> 00:59:34,400
Speaker 1: you say? Like what if you see a guy at

1325
00:59:34,400 --> 00:59:36,800
Speaker 1: the airport, what could be something you could say to

1326
00:59:37,000 --> 00:59:38,920
Speaker 1: start talking to them? Or like if you're at the store,

1327
00:59:39,120 --> 00:59:42,160
Speaker 1: you know, I feel like there's good icebreaker things that

1328
00:59:42,200 --> 00:59:44,440
Speaker 1: you could actually come up to them, Like let's say

1329
00:59:44,440 --> 00:59:46,240
Speaker 1: you're at home depot, like it could be like I

1330
00:59:46,280 --> 00:59:48,320
Speaker 1: actually have done this, and I felt I was so

1331
00:59:48,360 --> 00:59:50,360
Speaker 1: proud of myself. I was just like I don't remember

1332
00:59:50,400 --> 00:59:52,120
Speaker 1: what I was exactly looking at, but I was like,

1333
00:59:52,360 --> 00:59:54,120
Speaker 1: I'm trying to like hang this on the wall, like

1334
00:59:54,160 --> 00:59:56,520
Speaker 1: what tools should I get? And it actually like that

1335
00:59:56,560 --> 00:59:58,840
Speaker 1: was good. I feel like, oh, guys love a damsel

1336
00:59:58,840 --> 01:00:02,480
Speaker 1: in distress moment exactly, So that worked. But I'm always

1337
01:00:02,480 --> 01:00:04,400
Speaker 1: like I could say, how to get this guy? But

1338
01:00:04,440 --> 01:00:06,400
Speaker 1: what do you say you're in target. Yeah, you're not

1339
01:00:06,440 --> 01:00:09,560
Speaker 1: just gonna like hi, hi there come here often like

1340
01:00:10,320 --> 01:00:12,919
Speaker 1: hey why do I go get drinks? No contexts, just hey,

1341
01:00:13,240 --> 01:00:16,480
Speaker 1: I know, yeah, you're right that you need like a

1342
01:00:16,520 --> 01:00:19,480
Speaker 1: minimal icebreaker. That's why I liked that they came up

1343
01:00:19,480 --> 01:00:21,400
Speaker 1: to you, when they just come up to you. So

1344
01:00:21,520 --> 01:00:24,760
Speaker 1: one of them was one of them was totally organic.

1345
01:00:24,800 --> 01:00:27,280
Speaker 1: And it happened from that and he was asking me

1346
01:00:27,360 --> 01:00:29,800
Speaker 1: a question. So he was with his friends. I was

1347
01:00:29,840 --> 01:00:31,280
Speaker 1: with one of my friends, and he was like, Hey,

1348
01:00:31,280 --> 01:00:33,320
Speaker 1: we're having this full blown debate, like what's your take

1349
01:00:33,360 --> 01:00:36,240
Speaker 1: on it? Great idea. Oh that's so like if you're

1350
01:00:36,240 --> 01:00:38,880
Speaker 1: out and about, Yes, great idea to have like a debate,

1351
01:00:38,960 --> 01:00:40,640
Speaker 1: even if you're not actually having the debate, but like,

1352
01:00:40,680 --> 01:00:42,360
Speaker 1: this is what you want them to give their opinion on.

1353
01:00:42,800 --> 01:00:46,400
Speaker 1: Great icebreaker. He did great. Love that. Yeah. Good one.

1354
01:00:46,600 --> 01:00:48,480
Speaker 1: The other guy had at least a little bit of

1355
01:00:48,520 --> 01:00:51,360
Speaker 1: an icebreaker because he knew the girl I was with, okay,

1356
01:00:51,400 --> 01:00:52,680
Speaker 1: and so he came and talked to her and then

1357
01:00:52,680 --> 01:00:54,600
Speaker 1: he was like what about you, Like, what's your story?

1358
01:00:54,640 --> 01:00:56,080
Speaker 1: What do you do? So it was like she was

1359
01:00:56,120 --> 01:00:59,560
Speaker 1: the icebreaker. So that was a little less organic than

1360
01:00:59,560 --> 01:01:01,520
Speaker 1: the other one, but he knew I want him to

1361
01:01:01,760 --> 01:01:04,680
Speaker 1: approach because I kept making eye contact. I can't look

1362
01:01:04,680 --> 01:01:06,680
Speaker 1: over and I give the flirty eyes. I'd be like,

1363
01:01:07,680 --> 01:01:09,320
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do it, but you're gonna do it,

1364
01:01:10,360 --> 01:01:13,160
Speaker 1: and then you're just over here, like Okay, I've made it.

1365
01:01:13,720 --> 01:01:15,960
Speaker 1: You can come over now. But it also helps me

1366
01:01:16,000 --> 01:01:18,560
Speaker 1: because like say they're with someone and you do make

1367
01:01:18,600 --> 01:01:20,840
Speaker 1: contact eye contact, I can at least know that, like

1368
01:01:20,920 --> 01:01:22,560
Speaker 1: I showed you that interest, and if they do have

1369
01:01:22,600 --> 01:01:24,400
Speaker 1: a girlfriend, they're not going to come over at least

1370
01:01:24,400 --> 01:01:28,240
Speaker 1: I would freaking hope, yeah, I would hope. Yeah. So

1371
01:01:29,360 --> 01:01:32,960
Speaker 1: life hack in dating, I make the eye contact and

1372
01:01:33,040 --> 01:01:35,280
Speaker 1: keep the eye contact because it's so easy. And I

1373
01:01:35,320 --> 01:01:37,200
Speaker 1: even see it out if you're at places people just

1374
01:01:37,280 --> 01:01:39,920
Speaker 1: look at their phones because there it's like even walking

1375
01:01:39,960 --> 01:01:42,360
Speaker 1: to their car and I'm like, you're avoiding eye contact

1376
01:01:42,440 --> 01:01:45,240
Speaker 1: right now, we're passing, yep. Like it's so if you

1377
01:01:45,240 --> 01:01:48,120
Speaker 1: see a cute man, you see a cute girl, eye contact,

1378
01:01:48,160 --> 01:01:50,480
Speaker 1: eye contact, Okay, keep it, but make sure you're not

1379
01:01:50,520 --> 01:01:52,760
Speaker 1: like staring like death stare, Like give a little smile,

1380
01:01:53,160 --> 01:01:56,840
Speaker 1: lettle smirk with the eyes, you know, like a death stare.

1381
01:01:58,080 --> 01:02:00,360
Speaker 1: That would be weird. You'r RBF if a guy, Oh

1382
01:02:00,400 --> 01:02:02,120
Speaker 1: my gosh, if a guy gave me an RBF for

1383
01:02:02,160 --> 01:02:04,320
Speaker 1: a death stare, I'd be like, sir, I gotta go.

1384
01:02:06,160 --> 01:02:08,960
Speaker 1: I know he's glaring, but he doesn't know it. Oh yeah,

1385
01:02:09,000 --> 01:02:12,880
Speaker 1: so smile with your eyes and with your mouth. Okay,

1386
01:02:13,040 --> 01:02:16,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna try it, so pro chef that one I learned. Um.

1387
01:02:16,440 --> 01:02:19,000
Speaker 1: I also, I don't believe I have talked about this,

1388
01:02:19,280 --> 01:02:20,919
Speaker 1: and if I have, I'm sorry if y'all are hearing

1389
01:02:21,000 --> 01:02:23,000
Speaker 1: this again. But I had stopped talking to a guy

1390
01:02:23,120 --> 01:02:26,360
Speaker 1: on a dating app. Let me tell you why. Oh no,

1391
01:02:26,440 --> 01:02:29,720
Speaker 1: I'm scared. No, you know, honestly, I bet I bet

1392
01:02:30,080 --> 01:02:33,200
Speaker 1: you would have kept talking to this guy. What is that? Okay?

1393
01:02:34,120 --> 01:02:36,320
Speaker 1: Because he wasn't a bad guy. He didn't do anything wrong, okay,

1394
01:02:36,920 --> 01:02:40,439
Speaker 1: But the conversation turned very awkward because, like I had said,

1395
01:02:40,440 --> 01:02:42,760
Speaker 1: hey share with me some fun facts about you, and

1396
01:02:42,840 --> 01:02:45,320
Speaker 1: so he does, and then I do. And one of

1397
01:02:45,320 --> 01:02:47,360
Speaker 1: my fun facts is always that I've been a vegetarian.

1398
01:02:47,400 --> 01:02:49,479
Speaker 1: So that's eight years old. It's the easiest fun fact

1399
01:02:49,520 --> 01:02:52,360
Speaker 1: for me, and I share that, right, and I share

1400
01:02:52,400 --> 01:02:54,560
Speaker 1: like a few others. But he locks into that fact,

1401
01:02:54,560 --> 01:02:59,840
Speaker 1: and he goes, well, um, I buy wholk house to

1402
01:03:00,160 --> 01:03:03,600
Speaker 1: eat by myself, so I eat a lot of meat.

1403
01:03:04,760 --> 01:03:08,680
Speaker 1: He's like a farmer or something. No, it's And I

1404
01:03:08,720 --> 01:03:10,360
Speaker 1: also learned from my sister that this is a real

1405
01:03:10,400 --> 01:03:13,120
Speaker 1: thing that like families do. They'll buy like a whole cow,

1406
01:03:13,280 --> 01:03:16,760
Speaker 1: like that's been processed whatever, but they'll buy the whole cow,

1407
01:03:16,840 --> 01:03:19,600
Speaker 1: or they'll buy half a cow for like the whole family.

1408
01:03:19,640 --> 01:03:22,000
Speaker 1: I get it. I get that. I also still don't

1409
01:03:22,000 --> 01:03:24,120
Speaker 1: even know that was the thing until this conversation even happened.

1410
01:03:24,400 --> 01:03:27,360
Speaker 1: That this is very ironic. Yeah, that like both like

1411
01:03:27,480 --> 01:03:30,640
Speaker 1: extremes like zero meat to all the meat in the world.

1412
01:03:30,720 --> 01:03:33,000
Speaker 1: And so I'm sitting there and I'm processing this and

1413
01:03:33,000 --> 01:03:35,440
Speaker 1: I'm like, this isn't a bad thing for this guy.

1414
01:03:36,920 --> 01:03:39,400
Speaker 1: But I cannot imagine my life where I am dating

1415
01:03:39,400 --> 01:03:41,400
Speaker 1: a man and he has a whole cow broken down

1416
01:03:41,400 --> 01:03:44,120
Speaker 1: in my freezer. You have no room for your stuff.

1417
01:03:44,160 --> 01:03:48,080
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I don't see that. I mean, something

1418
01:03:48,120 --> 01:03:52,040
Speaker 1: that works. It is a compromise. Is that a thing

1419
01:03:52,120 --> 01:03:54,240
Speaker 1: at all? Like be like, hey, could you maybe not

1420
01:03:54,320 --> 01:03:58,200
Speaker 1: buy like a thousand pounds? I mean, And I'm just

1421
01:03:58,240 --> 01:04:01,800
Speaker 1: like I'm thinking I'm like, that's buy himself, that is

1422
01:04:01,880 --> 01:04:03,800
Speaker 1: by himself that he buys this. This is not for

1423
01:04:03,800 --> 01:04:05,760
Speaker 1: a family, This is not for small children, This is

1424
01:04:05,760 --> 01:04:09,320
Speaker 1: not for like five dudes. This is one man buying

1425
01:04:09,360 --> 01:04:11,520
Speaker 1: a whole cow often. And you know what he was

1426
01:04:11,560 --> 01:04:13,680
Speaker 1: probably thinking too, He's like, and my fridge is gonna

1427
01:04:13,720 --> 01:04:17,240
Speaker 1: be full of like lettuce and carrots and vegetables. Yeah,

1428
01:04:17,320 --> 01:04:20,000
Speaker 1: I don't care. So, you know, I just didn't have

1429
01:04:20,080 --> 01:04:23,360
Speaker 1: the right thing to say back, so I didn't and

1430
01:04:23,360 --> 01:04:25,439
Speaker 1: I didn't say we never met. We had never met

1431
01:04:25,480 --> 01:04:27,360
Speaker 1: in person. This is just the exchange on like the

1432
01:04:27,440 --> 01:04:29,200
Speaker 1: dating nap. And I was like, you know, I'm just

1433
01:04:29,240 --> 01:04:32,960
Speaker 1: gonna cut our loss this here because I just don't

1434
01:04:33,080 --> 01:04:36,320
Speaker 1: feel like this is the right fit. I feel like

1435
01:04:36,320 --> 01:04:37,960
Speaker 1: you could date a girl who's gonna eat that whole

1436
01:04:37,960 --> 01:04:39,440
Speaker 1: cow with you and it's gonna be great for you,

1437
01:04:40,080 --> 01:04:42,520
Speaker 1: and I am not that girl. Okay. The last thing

1438
01:04:42,560 --> 01:04:45,040
Speaker 1: he said was, oh, I eat a whole cow by myself.

1439
01:04:45,240 --> 01:04:46,920
Speaker 1: That's kind of god. Yeah, And he was kind of

1440
01:04:46,960 --> 01:04:48,680
Speaker 1: like making he was like in a way, be like

1441
01:04:48,960 --> 01:04:51,560
Speaker 1: like would that bother you? And at the first when

1442
01:04:51,600 --> 01:04:53,640
Speaker 1: I first saw it, I was like, I don't think

1443
01:04:53,680 --> 01:04:55,960
Speaker 1: the fact that you do that bothers me. It's just

1444
01:04:56,000 --> 01:05:00,000
Speaker 1: the realization that we live two very different lives. Yeah,

1445
01:05:00,120 --> 01:05:02,040
Speaker 1: like I could date a meater if they go eat

1446
01:05:02,120 --> 01:05:05,160
Speaker 1: cheeseburger at a restaurant or whatever. Cool. Love that it's

1447
01:05:05,200 --> 01:05:07,760
Speaker 1: great for you doesn't bother me. But like, you got

1448
01:05:07,800 --> 01:05:10,160
Speaker 1: a whole cow in my freezer, Like I get married,

1449
01:05:10,320 --> 01:05:14,640
Speaker 1: You got a whole cow just like. I think this

1450
01:05:14,680 --> 01:05:16,840
Speaker 1: is hilarious because I've never even had that happened to

1451
01:05:16,880 --> 01:05:19,600
Speaker 1: me and I eat me. I wouldn't mind. I know.

1452
01:05:19,640 --> 01:05:21,360
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. I think for you or for

1453
01:05:21,400 --> 01:05:24,200
Speaker 1: anyone else, it wouldn't have been like okay, yeah, that's fine.

1454
01:05:24,920 --> 01:05:27,760
Speaker 1: That's why I'm saying. I think he I'm doing this

1455
01:05:27,800 --> 01:05:29,920
Speaker 1: out of fairness to him, that he deserved for girls

1456
01:05:29,960 --> 01:05:32,000
Speaker 1: that would eat that cow with him, and that he

1457
01:05:32,040 --> 01:05:34,439
Speaker 1: could have that. I mean it concerns me a little

1458
01:05:34,520 --> 01:05:37,960
Speaker 1: though with it. He has not much meat for just himself.

1459
01:05:38,000 --> 01:05:41,320
Speaker 1: I know, I have talked to us bad. Yeah that

1460
01:05:41,360 --> 01:05:44,520
Speaker 1: means he's eating like a whole leg in one day,

1461
01:05:46,680 --> 01:05:50,760
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah. Um, I don't know how normal that is. Um,

1462
01:05:52,880 --> 01:05:55,040
Speaker 1: according to my sister, is normal, but she said it's

1463
01:05:55,040 --> 01:05:58,120
Speaker 1: normal for families to do this. He families, I don't.

1464
01:05:58,280 --> 01:06:00,400
Speaker 1: I don't even know if I would continue. I'm be like,

1465
01:06:00,480 --> 01:06:05,640
Speaker 1: you got a thing with meat? Yeah? Yeah? Are you

1466
01:06:05,680 --> 01:06:08,240
Speaker 1: eating anything else? Or is it just the leg? Because

1467
01:06:08,440 --> 01:06:11,480
Speaker 1: I got so many questions, but I couldn't bear. I

1468
01:06:11,520 --> 01:06:14,240
Speaker 1: just couldn't. I was like, I'm just going Maybe we

1469
01:06:14,280 --> 01:06:16,240
Speaker 1: had maybe exchanged like three or four messages, so it

1470
01:06:16,280 --> 01:06:17,600
Speaker 1: wasn't like the end of the world for me to

1471
01:06:17,640 --> 01:06:21,000
Speaker 1: stop saying that's something, But I just did you want

1472
01:06:21,000 --> 01:06:22,840
Speaker 1: to matchine him? Or just like no, if I just

1473
01:06:22,920 --> 01:06:24,920
Speaker 1: left it, I just didn't respond, and he hasn't tried

1474
01:06:25,000 --> 01:06:26,880
Speaker 1: to reach out. No. I think he. I think he

1475
01:06:26,920 --> 01:06:28,960
Speaker 1: had the same realization that I did that this was

1476
01:06:29,040 --> 01:06:31,960
Speaker 1: just not a fit. He's like, both of you just

1477
01:06:32,000 --> 01:06:33,840
Speaker 1: like snuck out. I can just see back you like

1478
01:06:34,280 --> 01:06:36,280
Speaker 1: it's not gonna see a conversation in person and somebody

1479
01:06:36,280 --> 01:06:38,920
Speaker 1: says something awkward and you're both like, well, great to

1480
01:06:38,960 --> 01:06:40,800
Speaker 1: meet you, and you run away. This is kind of

1481
01:06:40,800 --> 01:06:44,160
Speaker 1: what happened on a dating map. So those are my

1482
01:06:44,640 --> 01:06:48,640
Speaker 1: recent stories. That's hilarious. You know, I'm really not active

1483
01:06:48,760 --> 01:06:50,520
Speaker 1: on there because every time I do get on, I'm

1484
01:06:50,600 --> 01:06:53,120
Speaker 1: very I'm just curious to see what's out there, and

1485
01:06:53,320 --> 01:06:56,320
Speaker 1: it's just nothing good. Ever, it's such a waste of

1486
01:06:56,360 --> 01:06:59,360
Speaker 1: my time at the moment. They just like don't answer,

1487
01:07:00,080 --> 01:07:01,920
Speaker 1: you know, and I'm like, okay, we matched, why are

1488
01:07:01,960 --> 01:07:04,080
Speaker 1: you not going to respond? And then I've had some

1489
01:07:04,120 --> 01:07:06,080
Speaker 1: guys come back after five months and they're like, hey,

1490
01:07:06,080 --> 01:07:09,880
Speaker 1: how have you been. I'm like, we never even like, oh,

1491
01:07:09,920 --> 01:07:12,120
Speaker 1: I don't understand. They come back, they come from the

1492
01:07:12,240 --> 01:07:15,600
Speaker 1: grave site they do, Yep, they're back, and I'm just like, okay,

1493
01:07:15,600 --> 01:07:18,320
Speaker 1: I'm actually really done. So you full on deleted all

1494
01:07:18,320 --> 01:07:22,160
Speaker 1: the apps. I didn't know I didn't delete on. Yeah,

1495
01:07:22,160 --> 01:07:25,560
Speaker 1: I still look. Just you are still active. I'm not

1496
01:07:25,600 --> 01:07:27,880
Speaker 1: act like I don't I don't know. I just tipe

1497
01:07:27,960 --> 01:07:29,600
Speaker 1: left all the time. I think I'm just seeing what's

1498
01:07:29,600 --> 01:07:33,600
Speaker 1: in Nashville. I don't really know the purpose. That's fair, honestly,

1499
01:07:34,240 --> 01:07:37,160
Speaker 1: it gives you. You know, Um, I've learned. This is

1500
01:07:37,480 --> 01:07:40,400
Speaker 1: I've not learned. I have heard from therapists. This is

1501
01:07:40,400 --> 01:07:41,720
Speaker 1: not the way to do. It is to be like

1502
01:07:41,880 --> 01:07:46,800
Speaker 1: inactively actively looking, because you're not like purposefully dating, and

1503
01:07:46,840 --> 01:07:49,560
Speaker 1: the purpose is to purposely dating. But let me tell you,

1504
01:07:49,720 --> 01:07:51,320
Speaker 1: it makes me feel good when I can match with

1505
01:07:51,360 --> 01:07:53,240
Speaker 1: a guy on a dating app, or if I see

1506
01:07:53,240 --> 01:07:55,080
Speaker 1: someone I'm like always cute. At least he exists out

1507
01:07:55,080 --> 01:07:58,560
Speaker 1: there in the world. Something about that like makes me

1508
01:07:58,680 --> 01:08:03,280
Speaker 1: not feel so alone. Yeah, in a way, maybe that's why. Yeah,

1509
01:08:03,360 --> 01:08:05,160
Speaker 1: but I don't think it. Yeah, that could be it.

1510
01:08:05,400 --> 01:08:07,959
Speaker 1: It's entirely fair. Yeah, it's just like once a week,

1511
01:08:08,080 --> 01:08:11,160
Speaker 1: Like it's not it's like the last page of my phone.

1512
01:08:11,640 --> 01:08:13,720
Speaker 1: I'm just like, I guess I'll why not just see

1513
01:08:13,760 --> 01:08:15,680
Speaker 1: what's out there. It's kind of like me sitting at

1514
01:08:15,680 --> 01:08:18,160
Speaker 1: a bar looking around. That's basically what it is, just

1515
01:08:18,240 --> 01:08:21,040
Speaker 1: digital like on your phone. Right, that is true, accept

1516
01:08:21,040 --> 01:08:23,280
Speaker 1: your fall on. So I mean yes, no, yes, no,

1517
01:08:24,040 --> 01:08:27,760
Speaker 1: I can't do that in person. Unfortunately, Yeah you can

1518
01:08:27,840 --> 01:08:30,559
Speaker 1: with eye contact. So I think right is making eye contact,

1519
01:08:30,960 --> 01:08:32,800
Speaker 1: that's true. And if you don't want to, just don't

1520
01:08:32,840 --> 01:08:35,439
Speaker 1: make eye contact, you like look away hard, fast, very

1521
01:08:35,479 --> 01:08:38,280
Speaker 1: obviously look away Like yeah, I mean I do that

1522
01:08:38,320 --> 01:08:40,480
Speaker 1: now because I kind of get tired of being approached

1523
01:08:40,479 --> 01:08:43,479
Speaker 1: by creepers, like honestly, and like when I was in

1524
01:08:43,560 --> 01:08:46,200
Speaker 1: Key West that was like perfect example. I would sit

1525
01:08:46,200 --> 01:08:49,000
Speaker 1: at the bar by myself and it was people like

1526
01:08:49,120 --> 01:08:52,840
Speaker 1: in their fifties, you know, and I'm just like, I

1527
01:08:53,280 --> 01:08:55,360
Speaker 1: thank you for talking to me, but I really don't

1528
01:08:55,400 --> 01:08:57,759
Speaker 1: want to talk right now, Like I'm enjoying my food,

1529
01:08:58,280 --> 01:09:00,360
Speaker 1: you know, I don't want to have a conversation with

1530
01:09:00,880 --> 01:09:05,920
Speaker 1: someone that I don't Yeah. See, do you feel that, like, um,

1531
01:09:06,080 --> 01:09:08,280
Speaker 1: the guy that you're after is never going to approach you,

1532
01:09:08,320 --> 01:09:10,160
Speaker 1: but all the guys that you never go after will

1533
01:09:10,160 --> 01:09:13,400
Speaker 1: approach you. Yes, that always happens for some reason. I

1534
01:09:13,760 --> 01:09:16,960
Speaker 1: can't figure out what it is, and I don't feel

1535
01:09:17,000 --> 01:09:18,960
Speaker 1: like I don't. And that doesn't say people shouldn't approach.

1536
01:09:18,960 --> 01:09:21,600
Speaker 1: You should always approach your in someone, but like I

1537
01:09:21,680 --> 01:09:23,760
Speaker 1: just don't. I didn't know if that was just a

1538
01:09:23,880 --> 01:09:27,639
Speaker 1: mean thing. Maybe I just hate people. No, it's usually

1539
01:09:27,680 --> 01:09:29,639
Speaker 1: never someone I want to talk to, to be honest,

1540
01:09:30,680 --> 01:09:34,280
Speaker 1: just for whatever reason, just because they have confidence. Yes, No,

1541
01:09:34,400 --> 01:09:37,280
Speaker 1: I do like that, Like I admire you full on

1542
01:09:37,880 --> 01:09:40,640
Speaker 1: for going. But maybe wait for the eye contacts or

1543
01:09:40,680 --> 01:09:43,840
Speaker 1: something that's the key. Yeah. Yeah, But then if they

1544
01:09:43,840 --> 01:09:46,560
Speaker 1: never make eye contact but they were interested in misconnection,

1545
01:09:46,600 --> 01:09:48,200
Speaker 1: that's the thing too, because what if she just didn't

1546
01:09:48,200 --> 01:09:50,080
Speaker 1: see you, she's busy, she's talking with her friends, and

1547
01:09:50,120 --> 01:09:52,840
Speaker 1: then there you are so who knows. I don't have

1548
01:09:52,880 --> 01:09:59,000
Speaker 1: the answers obviously, so keep approaching and yes, okay, all right,

1549
01:09:59,080 --> 01:10:01,720
Speaker 1: So that that is the dating app update for you.

1550
01:10:02,160 --> 01:10:04,760
Speaker 1: Any other updates you want to share? Nope, I'm not

1551
01:10:04,800 --> 01:10:07,439
Speaker 1: gonna share anything the moment, all right, I'll like it.

1552
01:10:07,880 --> 01:10:10,360
Speaker 1: And in that number one spot it is you miss

1553
01:10:10,360 --> 01:10:12,519
Speaker 1: Abby sing in the national anthem at the Predators game.

1554
01:10:12,840 --> 01:10:15,719
Speaker 1: How do you feel post national anthem? That was awesome

1555
01:10:15,760 --> 01:10:18,360
Speaker 1: and crazy and I can't believe it happened. It was

1556
01:10:18,439 --> 01:10:23,160
Speaker 1: just very like surreal and cool. Okay, I don't even

1557
01:10:23,160 --> 01:10:26,800
Speaker 1: know that you got. Let's feel surreal? You feel cool?

1558
01:10:27,160 --> 01:10:29,439
Speaker 1: Do you feel good about it? You feel proud? I do?

1559
01:10:29,520 --> 01:10:31,479
Speaker 1: And have you listened back to it? Oh my gosh,

1560
01:10:31,520 --> 01:10:34,120
Speaker 1: I yeah, I've listened back, and I'm so critical. I

1561
01:10:34,200 --> 01:10:36,920
Speaker 1: don't like to listen back. I feel like it sounded

1562
01:10:37,000 --> 01:10:41,479
Speaker 1: better in the arena because it's just more like echo

1563
01:10:41,600 --> 01:10:45,960
Speaker 1: and natural, like echo sound or whatever. When you listen

1564
01:10:46,040 --> 01:10:48,960
Speaker 1: back to the recording, I can tell him a little

1565
01:10:49,000 --> 01:10:52,200
Speaker 1: nervous when I didn't think I was that nervous. Okay,

1566
01:10:52,320 --> 01:10:55,160
Speaker 1: but no, I thought I did better than I thought

1567
01:10:55,160 --> 01:10:57,640
Speaker 1: it would. Yeah, I thought you did, know, right, But

1568
01:10:58,000 --> 01:11:00,120
Speaker 1: you know, we are our own worst critics. So that's

1569
01:11:00,120 --> 01:11:02,479
Speaker 1: why I asked if you were having like a high

1570
01:11:02,560 --> 01:11:04,720
Speaker 1: from it or if you like had lows from it.

1571
01:11:04,800 --> 01:11:07,280
Speaker 1: I kind of cringe when a video or I start

1572
01:11:07,800 --> 01:11:10,400
Speaker 1: hearing a video of it for some reason. But I'm

1573
01:11:10,439 --> 01:11:12,840
Speaker 1: always like that on things. I just don't like hearing

1574
01:11:13,720 --> 01:11:18,640
Speaker 1: my voice back work. That you're gonna be a singer, Abby,

1575
01:11:19,400 --> 01:11:22,880
Speaker 1: I think that's it's important. I don't know. I don't know.

1576
01:11:22,920 --> 01:11:25,559
Speaker 1: I'm too critical, That's what it is. Have you had

1577
01:11:25,600 --> 01:11:30,840
Speaker 1: anybody approached you since the National Anthem? Like professionally, I

1578
01:11:31,000 --> 01:11:35,080
Speaker 1: have three contracts like that have been offered. I'm just kidding.

1579
01:11:35,640 --> 01:11:39,080
Speaker 1: I was like about like a lot three record deals,

1580
01:11:39,160 --> 01:11:42,479
Speaker 1: you know that. I'm kind of maybe hasn't I reach

1581
01:11:42,479 --> 01:11:44,680
Speaker 1: out about doing the national Anthem? Maybe you had like

1582
01:11:44,720 --> 01:11:47,000
Speaker 1: I actually have, But they're in different states. That makes

1583
01:11:47,000 --> 01:11:50,760
Speaker 1: it a little difficult. Okay, Um, what states? Oh, they're

1584
01:11:50,760 --> 01:11:54,839
Speaker 1: pretty far. Like one was Maryland. I think one was Florida.

1585
01:11:55,040 --> 01:11:57,920
Speaker 1: You do love Florida? What you love Florida? I know

1586
01:11:57,960 --> 01:12:00,759
Speaker 1: it's always Florida. Why is it? But it's a games

1587
01:12:00,840 --> 01:12:02,200
Speaker 1: or something that I would love to do. Like they

1588
01:12:02,320 --> 01:12:04,120
Speaker 1: they're like we have a baseball game coming up? Can

1589
01:12:04,200 --> 01:12:07,479
Speaker 1: you do it? Someone tagged me and like the Wichita,

1590
01:12:07,000 --> 01:12:08,880
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you know how they have a baseball team.

1591
01:12:09,080 --> 01:12:11,000
Speaker 1: They're like they're doing auditions. You should do it. And

1592
01:12:11,040 --> 01:12:13,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, that's cool. But I can never travel,

1593
01:12:13,280 --> 01:12:15,880
Speaker 1: So that's true. You and you'd have to be able

1594
01:12:15,880 --> 01:12:18,400
Speaker 1: to travel on weekdays. What if you became the traveling

1595
01:12:18,680 --> 01:12:23,240
Speaker 1: national anthem singer? What if I did that? That'd be awesome.

1596
01:12:23,600 --> 01:12:25,679
Speaker 1: I totally do that. That could be a thing. Yes,

1597
01:12:25,760 --> 01:12:28,280
Speaker 1: Like everybody has their thing that could be that could

1598
01:12:28,360 --> 01:12:32,280
Speaker 1: be mine. Yes, And like all the feedback is so nice,

1599
01:12:32,320 --> 01:12:34,599
Speaker 1: like people are like, oh, it was so great and

1600
01:12:34,640 --> 01:12:37,040
Speaker 1: I love that. And then there's like three people that

1601
01:12:37,080 --> 01:12:39,040
Speaker 1: are mean and I look at those and I'm like, oh,

1602
01:12:39,080 --> 01:12:42,800
Speaker 1: you're so mean, Hey, take them. Don't look at them

1603
01:12:42,800 --> 01:12:46,679
Speaker 1: as mean. Take them as constructive criticism. If you can't,

1604
01:12:46,720 --> 01:12:48,559
Speaker 1: if they're just so mean and vile that there's not

1605
01:12:48,560 --> 01:12:52,040
Speaker 1: even a little bit of criticism, then you forget them.

1606
01:12:52,040 --> 01:12:54,120
Speaker 1: You be pushing them out the door. They're not allowed

1607
01:12:54,160 --> 01:12:57,680
Speaker 1: in the brain. Yes, But I'm like, I, unless you're

1608
01:12:57,720 --> 01:13:00,759
Speaker 1: like Carrie Underwood or you know, like a really good singer,

1609
01:13:00,960 --> 01:13:04,000
Speaker 1: I'm like I don't know why you're telling me, Like

1610
01:13:04,040 --> 01:13:06,879
Speaker 1: what advice are you gonna give me? Unless you sound amazing,

1611
01:13:07,000 --> 01:13:12,040
Speaker 1: then I'm I'll listen. But also like, if you're gonna create,

1612
01:13:12,120 --> 01:13:15,240
Speaker 1: like critique someone or criticize him, give them advice on

1613
01:13:15,280 --> 01:13:20,000
Speaker 1: how to improve, that's that's like, that's actual constructive criticism. Yes,

1614
01:13:20,000 --> 01:13:21,479
Speaker 1: so that is. But when you're just like, oh my gosh,

1615
01:13:21,479 --> 01:13:23,679
Speaker 1: she sounds terrible, I agree with lunchbox. I'm like, okay,

1616
01:13:23,680 --> 01:13:26,960
Speaker 1: thank you, I've heard that before. Thank you. I don't know.

1617
01:13:27,640 --> 01:13:29,280
Speaker 1: And then I did see someone they were like, what

1618
01:13:29,439 --> 01:13:32,560
Speaker 1: does it? What do you gain by being negative? And

1619
01:13:32,600 --> 01:13:34,640
Speaker 1: I was like, that's such a good Like what do

1620
01:13:34,680 --> 01:13:37,160
Speaker 1: you gain by posting something negative? You know? It's funny.

1621
01:13:37,200 --> 01:13:39,519
Speaker 1: I've had a recent conversation with my mom about this

1622
01:13:39,640 --> 01:13:42,240
Speaker 1: of just like people in general, if there's like negative

1623
01:13:42,720 --> 01:13:46,160
Speaker 1: energy that you get from someone and it all stems

1624
01:13:46,240 --> 01:13:49,679
Speaker 1: from their own personal insecurities, and it's really hard to

1625
01:13:49,760 --> 01:13:52,160
Speaker 1: feel that way when you read things and realize that

1626
01:13:52,200 --> 01:13:54,760
Speaker 1: it has nothing to do with you, has everything to

1627
01:13:54,800 --> 01:13:57,879
Speaker 1: do with him. But this guy from like a cute grandpa,

1628
01:13:57,960 --> 01:14:01,120
Speaker 1: and I'm like, why what are you insecure? It's like,

1629
01:14:01,120 --> 01:14:02,760
Speaker 1: why do you have to bash me to feel better

1630
01:14:02,760 --> 01:14:05,200
Speaker 1: about yourself. But think about it, right, if he's older

1631
01:14:05,200 --> 01:14:08,400
Speaker 1: and he's alone and he's sad, or there's things that

1632
01:14:08,479 --> 01:14:12,320
Speaker 1: he's gone through, Like, there's also this level too if

1633
01:14:12,320 --> 01:14:17,280
Speaker 1: they are older. That quates to pretty much like everyone

1634
01:14:18,280 --> 01:14:22,680
Speaker 1: I don't know, seventy and below, right, but older than that.

1635
01:14:22,760 --> 01:14:24,599
Speaker 1: I also think there is a level when you get

1636
01:14:24,640 --> 01:14:26,200
Speaker 1: to a point at a certain age, because like going

1637
01:14:26,240 --> 01:14:27,840
Speaker 1: to the retirement home, I see this a lot. They're

1638
01:14:27,880 --> 01:14:30,799
Speaker 1: so brutally honest, and they don't do it to be vile.

1639
01:14:31,120 --> 01:14:33,519
Speaker 1: They do it because they don't know any different. They're

1640
01:14:33,560 --> 01:14:35,760
Speaker 1: just like, I'm at the end of my life in

1641
01:14:35,800 --> 01:14:38,559
Speaker 1: this capacity. Why am I going to care then to

1642
01:14:38,560 --> 01:14:40,800
Speaker 1: share anything? Then what actually comes out of my mouth

1643
01:14:40,920 --> 01:14:44,400
Speaker 1: besides thinking about it? That's very true. They get to

1644
01:14:44,439 --> 01:14:46,639
Speaker 1: a point you don't care, Yeah, and I think that's

1645
01:14:46,640 --> 01:14:48,200
Speaker 1: where it comes from. I don't think it's actually like

1646
01:14:48,240 --> 01:14:51,320
Speaker 1: I'm doing this to be mean to this poor young woman. Yeah,

1647
01:14:51,960 --> 01:14:53,680
Speaker 1: I'm saying this because this is my opinion and this

1648
01:14:53,760 --> 01:14:56,200
Speaker 1: is how I feel, and I don't care, you know

1649
01:14:56,200 --> 01:14:58,519
Speaker 1: what I mean. I do think there's that level for

1650
01:14:58,600 --> 01:15:02,639
Speaker 1: that for like much much old, but seventy below. Nah,

1651
01:15:03,240 --> 01:15:06,640
Speaker 1: everybody's got insecurities. Yeah, no, that's true. That is a

1652
01:15:06,640 --> 01:15:08,360
Speaker 1: good way to look at it. But no, it was

1653
01:15:08,400 --> 01:15:11,519
Speaker 1: the coolest thing. I Oh my gosh, it was wild

1654
01:15:11,760 --> 01:15:15,840
Speaker 1: and like when I went out there, just like everybody looking,

1655
01:15:15,960 --> 01:15:20,280
Speaker 1: here's a lot. It was a lot. But I've I've

1656
01:15:20,280 --> 01:15:22,639
Speaker 1: watched you perform in our studio, I watched you perform

1657
01:15:22,720 --> 01:15:25,400
Speaker 1: on Broadway, and now I've watched you perform here, and

1658
01:15:25,560 --> 01:15:27,679
Speaker 1: this time was the one that I've never I didn't

1659
01:15:27,680 --> 01:15:31,800
Speaker 1: hear you sound nervous at all. Yay, good m You

1660
01:15:31,840 --> 01:15:35,880
Speaker 1: sounded confident, You sounded excited. Your voice is a very

1661
01:15:35,880 --> 01:15:38,439
Speaker 1: clear that makes happen. There was no like like when

1662
01:15:38,479 --> 01:15:40,920
Speaker 1: you get nervous, it comes across in the shakiness. Right

1663
01:15:40,960 --> 01:15:43,000
Speaker 1: You're like, oh, there's a lot happening, and you could

1664
01:15:43,000 --> 01:15:45,080
Speaker 1: still sound really good, but there's still shakiness in there,

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01:15:45,120 --> 01:15:48,320
Speaker 1: and there's just like timidness. I didn't hear that at all.

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01:15:49,920 --> 01:15:51,559
Speaker 1: That's what I was nervous about, because yes, when I

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01:15:51,560 --> 01:15:54,280
Speaker 1: sing in studio, it comes over your throat where it

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01:15:54,320 --> 01:15:57,640
Speaker 1: just kind of like paralyzes your vocal cords really and

1669
01:15:57,920 --> 01:16:00,280
Speaker 1: you want to sing out but you can't. And I

1670
01:16:00,320 --> 01:16:02,719
Speaker 1: was like, please do not let that happen here, please,

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01:16:02,840 --> 01:16:05,960
Speaker 1: And you didn't at all. That's why I'm saying, like,

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01:16:06,040 --> 01:16:08,120
Speaker 1: I think it was your most and you can tell

1673
01:16:08,160 --> 01:16:10,080
Speaker 1: you're putting in the work. You got your vocal coach,

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01:16:10,280 --> 01:16:12,840
Speaker 1: you're putting in the work. I had it amazing. I

1675
01:16:12,880 --> 01:16:14,280
Speaker 1: really think that's what it is, because I sang it

1676
01:16:14,360 --> 01:16:16,000
Speaker 1: so many times in front of her, and I don't

1677
01:16:16,000 --> 01:16:17,920
Speaker 1: like singing one on one to people like that just

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01:16:17,960 --> 01:16:21,200
Speaker 1: makes me very uncomfortable, you know, like I'd rather sing

1679
01:16:21,240 --> 01:16:23,559
Speaker 1: in front of a big crowd than sing one on

1680
01:16:23,560 --> 01:16:25,439
Speaker 1: one to someone. And so I think that just helped

1681
01:16:25,439 --> 01:16:27,360
Speaker 1: a lot. Who did you watch the entire time during

1682
01:16:27,400 --> 01:16:31,000
Speaker 1: the anthem? What did I look at? I honestly just

1683
01:16:31,040 --> 01:16:33,840
Speaker 1: look straight ahead. I had no one that I was

1684
01:16:33,920 --> 01:16:35,439
Speaker 1: kind of like black, like you just kind of blacked out.

1685
01:16:35,520 --> 01:16:37,920
Speaker 1: It really did. Because the lights were so bright on

1686
01:16:38,000 --> 01:16:41,559
Speaker 1: me that it was really like dark the crowd, so

1687
01:16:41,560 --> 01:16:43,920
Speaker 1: I couldn't really see them, that's fair, you know, and

1688
01:16:43,960 --> 01:16:46,320
Speaker 1: everybody's just really standing there, so it was dark there,

1689
01:16:46,360 --> 01:16:47,840
Speaker 1: and I think I just looked straight ahead and like

1690
01:16:47,920 --> 01:16:49,600
Speaker 1: zoned out. I was like, don't make eye contact with

1691
01:16:49,600 --> 01:16:53,400
Speaker 1: a player, because that'd be awkward. Yeah, and I know

1692
01:16:53,439 --> 01:16:56,040
Speaker 1: you didn't look down, you were looking up. Yeah. I

1693
01:16:56,040 --> 01:16:57,800
Speaker 1: think I like looked up at the screen one time

1694
01:16:57,880 --> 01:17:00,840
Speaker 1: or something. But yeah, I was straight ahead. It was

1695
01:17:00,920 --> 01:17:03,680
Speaker 1: kind of a blur, okay, I love this. Yeah, And

1696
01:17:03,720 --> 01:17:06,400
Speaker 1: it was just all in my ears. I had myself

1697
01:17:06,479 --> 01:17:10,599
Speaker 1: up so loud, drown everything out, winning out, drown it out. Yeah.

1698
01:17:10,640 --> 01:17:12,080
Speaker 1: So I couldn't hear the crowd at all. I was like,

1699
01:17:12,720 --> 01:17:14,879
Speaker 1: are they cheering, are they booing? I don't know what's happening.

1700
01:17:15,000 --> 01:17:17,559
Speaker 1: That's that's probably a good thing for this being your

1701
01:17:17,720 --> 01:17:19,559
Speaker 1: like big first time. That's what I thought too. I

1702
01:17:19,600 --> 01:17:22,000
Speaker 1: was like, it's cool to hear it. You know, artists

1703
01:17:22,000 --> 01:17:24,760
Speaker 1: like Garth like they take their ears out so they

1704
01:17:24,760 --> 01:17:29,120
Speaker 1: can cheering. And I'm like, just focus on the song,

1705
01:17:29,720 --> 01:17:33,840
Speaker 1: get the words right, and yes, oh well, I'm glad

1706
01:17:33,840 --> 01:17:35,840
Speaker 1: to hear it. I'm glad you're so beaman from it.

1707
01:17:35,920 --> 01:17:38,920
Speaker 1: Don't pay attention to the negative comments, I know, and

1708
01:17:39,120 --> 01:17:41,120
Speaker 1: I'm excited to hear if you get any more update zone,

1709
01:17:41,160 --> 01:17:44,200
Speaker 1: phone calls from anybody, anything, Okay, And thanks for being

1710
01:17:44,240 --> 01:17:46,439
Speaker 1: there and like helping me. That was so much help

1711
01:17:46,520 --> 01:17:48,800
Speaker 1: because we were there for a while, like in that

1712
01:17:48,880 --> 01:17:52,519
Speaker 1: little wing waiting a big waiting game, it was, and

1713
01:17:52,560 --> 01:17:54,080
Speaker 1: then that's when the nerves and I was like, oh,

1714
01:17:54,120 --> 01:17:56,080
Speaker 1: you guys, help me, help me get my like my

1715
01:17:56,160 --> 01:17:58,920
Speaker 1: hair was messed up, and that was very helpful. So

1716
01:17:58,960 --> 01:18:01,360
Speaker 1: thank you. Yeah, I want to have missed it. I'm

1717
01:18:01,439 --> 01:18:04,920
Speaker 1: very proud of you. Yay. Thank yes. Well that rounds

1718
01:18:04,920 --> 01:18:08,120
Speaker 1: out our best bits this weekend. I gotta let Abby

1719
01:18:08,280 --> 01:18:10,559
Speaker 1: go send off to go do her bachelor rutting for

1720
01:18:10,600 --> 01:18:12,920
Speaker 1: the weekend. I'm pumped. Thank you for being on. Tell

1721
01:18:12,920 --> 01:18:14,599
Speaker 1: the people where they can find you on social media

1722
01:18:14,880 --> 01:18:20,280
Speaker 1: on Instagram at Abbeyda anderson One Underscore and then Twitter

1723
01:18:20,360 --> 01:18:23,280
Speaker 1: at sing an Abbey I love it and y'all can

1724
01:18:23,320 --> 01:18:26,559
Speaker 1: find me out web Girl Morgan on Instagram, TikTok, Twitter, Facebook,

1725
01:18:26,600 --> 01:18:28,800
Speaker 1: all the good stuff. I'm even on be Real if

1726
01:18:28,800 --> 01:18:31,600
Speaker 1: you hang out there, But you can also follow the

1727
01:18:31,600 --> 01:18:34,280
Speaker 1: show at Bobby Bones Show on all the things, including YouTube,

1728
01:18:34,280 --> 01:18:36,720
Speaker 1: where most of these performances and interviews that we're talking

1729
01:18:36,720 --> 01:18:38,880
Speaker 1: about are up. There can also see some more bits

1730
01:18:38,880 --> 01:18:40,559
Speaker 1: from the show, so be sure to check that out

1731
01:18:40,760 --> 01:18:43,120
Speaker 1: and go to Bobby Bones Wow, I still that funny

1732
01:18:43,320 --> 01:18:46,000
Speaker 1: Bobby Bones dot Com from more content up there that

1733
01:18:46,080 --> 01:18:48,759
Speaker 1: I didn't get to on here, but I love y'all.

1734
01:18:48,800 --> 01:18:51,439
Speaker 1: Abby have fun partying it up. Thank you, I will,

1735
01:18:51,479 --> 01:18:54,439
Speaker 1: I can't wait enjoy Arizona and y'all. I hope you

1736
01:18:54,439 --> 01:18:59,680
Speaker 1: have a fabulous weekend. Bye bye