1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,160 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time. I 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the 3 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:31,120 Speaker 1: million bucks things in it to me through good to other. Please, 4 00:00:38,560 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 1: I don't join jo turn you you gotta turn to 5 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:44,840 Speaker 1: turn them out. Turn You haven't got to turn them 6 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 1: out to turn the water. The water got me? Come 7 00:01:58,360 --> 00:02:04,880 Speaker 1: come on your thuh, I sure will. Good morning everybody 8 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:08,000 Speaker 1: you are listening to the voice, Come on dig me now. 9 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:11,320 Speaker 1: One and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. I 10 00:02:11,400 --> 00:02:14,200 Speaker 1: thank God for it every day. I try to remember 11 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 1: that too, you know. I try to remember to be grateful. 12 00:02:18,160 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 1: I think gratitude is one of the things that helps 13 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:24,280 Speaker 1: keep me grounded. You can go as far as you 14 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:26,680 Speaker 1: want in life. If you don't mind who gets the credit. 15 00:02:27,000 --> 00:02:30,239 Speaker 1: Well that applies to God too, don't it. I mean, 16 00:02:30,320 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 1: you know, really, if you don't mind who gets the credit. 17 00:02:34,280 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 1: I'm surrounded by very competent people. I'm surrounded by a 18 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:42,840 Speaker 1: lot of people who work hard on their jobs on 19 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:49,600 Speaker 1: their career, who are dedicated employees and also just dedicated 20 00:02:49,680 --> 00:02:52,840 Speaker 1: to their families and you know, dedicated to their own 21 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:57,840 Speaker 1: set of aspirations. I don't expect anybody to work for me. Whatever, 22 00:02:58,280 --> 00:03:01,760 Speaker 1: I always look at my job, opportunities are stepping stones 23 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:05,760 Speaker 1: because I want everyone around me really to aspire to 24 00:03:05,840 --> 00:03:09,400 Speaker 1: be more. I mean, that's really the way I am. 25 00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:11,680 Speaker 1: I'm not any other way. I'm not trying to hold 26 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 1: you to this position. You know, tell you there's no 27 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:19,440 Speaker 1: room for growth, any of that. But even though I'm 28 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:24,480 Speaker 1: surrounded by these people, I'm grateful that God placed them 29 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:31,680 Speaker 1: in my path, in my life. But in my mind, 30 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 1: in my spirit, in everything in me, the credit still 31 00:03:38,040 --> 00:03:44,040 Speaker 1: belongs to God. I'm sorry. The credit still belongs to God. 32 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:50,480 Speaker 1: See if you were just for a moment, stop thinking 33 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:54,040 Speaker 1: about yourself, just for a moment. I know that's hard, 34 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:58,120 Speaker 1: but just for a moment, stop thinking about yourself and 35 00:03:58,200 --> 00:04:01,960 Speaker 1: realize that maybe you are who you are because God 36 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:05,800 Speaker 1: is who he is. Maybe that's the case. Have you 37 00:04:05,840 --> 00:04:09,839 Speaker 1: ever considered that? That's the strongest possibility I can give 38 00:04:09,920 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 1: to you? You know, how do you think you're the 39 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:17,479 Speaker 1: one that made it through? How you think you the 40 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:21,839 Speaker 1: one after all of the ignorant decisions we have made? 41 00:04:22,200 --> 00:04:25,320 Speaker 1: And oh my goodness, let's all be honest. Ain't we 42 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:29,120 Speaker 1: made some crazy decisions. I'm talking about, man, I have 43 00:04:29,279 --> 00:04:35,240 Speaker 1: made decisions so adverse to my destiny and career, my promises. 44 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:41,279 Speaker 1: I've made some decisions man, knowingly you hear me, knowingly 45 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:45,040 Speaker 1: do something wrong, and in spite of all that, I'm 46 00:04:45,080 --> 00:04:50,479 Speaker 1: still here standing. Okay, come on now, really, really, all 47 00:04:50,560 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 1: the dirt you've been done, everybody done dirt, all the 48 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:59,479 Speaker 1: mistakes you've made, You're in a position you in today 49 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:03,719 Speaker 1: cause of what? Because you all that? Because you work 50 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:08,359 Speaker 1: harder than anybody else. Look, I work hard, I'll be there. 51 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:10,520 Speaker 1: I'll tell you in a minute. I work hard, But 52 00:05:10,680 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 1: I don't think I'm the hardest working person out there. 53 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:16,480 Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure somebody didn't work way harder than I have. 54 00:05:17,200 --> 00:05:20,480 Speaker 1: So okay, so you work hard? Okay, cool, I got 55 00:05:20,520 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 1: all that. But man, what about his grace and his mercy? 56 00:05:27,640 --> 00:05:32,279 Speaker 1: What about his favor? How many times, man, you didn't 57 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:34,520 Speaker 1: rely on that, even when you ain't know you was 58 00:05:34,600 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 1: relying on it? How many times, man, God hadn't shown 59 00:05:38,000 --> 00:05:41,159 Speaker 1: you mercy? You ain't even deserve it? Do you know 60 00:05:41,160 --> 00:05:43,680 Speaker 1: how many things I've done wrong? I just ain't get 61 00:05:43,680 --> 00:05:48,360 Speaker 1: caught at it? You know. Let me see how simple 62 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:54,320 Speaker 1: I can be here. You speed, you jaywalk, you lie 63 00:05:54,440 --> 00:05:57,320 Speaker 1: to police when you get pulled over that you wasn't 64 00:05:57,360 --> 00:05:59,320 Speaker 1: speed and you go to court and I argue you 65 00:05:59,480 --> 00:06:04,920 Speaker 1: wasn't even when you was, you make you turns. I'm 66 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:09,479 Speaker 1: just doing traffic violations. Now, let's get off traffic for 67 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:13,880 Speaker 1: a second. Let's get on human violations. You talk about 68 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:19,000 Speaker 1: people when you're not supposed to. You indulge yourself in 69 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:22,200 Speaker 1: gossip even when you don't really have all the facts. 70 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:28,159 Speaker 1: You pass judgment, You lust for people that don't belong 71 00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:32,800 Speaker 1: to you. You say things to people that you're not 72 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:39,760 Speaker 1: supposed to say. So look, all of us, we all, 73 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:43,800 Speaker 1: we all guilty. Now see I'm not saying you do 74 00:06:43,880 --> 00:06:46,160 Speaker 1: all of that, but I'm saying I'm pretty sure I 75 00:06:46,279 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 1: hit you somewhere in there, just somewhere in there. You 76 00:06:49,120 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 1: to lie before you know you lied recently. I mean, 77 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:56,080 Speaker 1: come on, And I'm just saying so with all that 78 00:06:56,120 --> 00:06:58,400 Speaker 1: in mind. See, I'm just looking at the little things 79 00:06:58,400 --> 00:07:00,719 Speaker 1: that we do that we don't get busted. Not to 80 00:07:00,800 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 1: mention the chips you stole when you was a kid 81 00:07:03,160 --> 00:07:06,440 Speaker 1: and nobody caught you. Well, that elevated, didn't it. And 82 00:07:06,520 --> 00:07:09,240 Speaker 1: some of y'all just didn't stop stealing the next thing, 83 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:11,080 Speaker 1: you know, you was in a car. Now you're sitting 84 00:07:11,160 --> 00:07:13,440 Speaker 1: somewhere you don't want to be sitting because of a 85 00:07:13,520 --> 00:07:16,720 Speaker 1: decision you made. But through his grace and mercy, couldn't 86 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 1: it have been worse? Though? Without his grace and mercy, 87 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 1: could not it have been worse. I know two dudes 88 00:07:23,080 --> 00:07:25,320 Speaker 1: that got caught in the garage one time trying to 89 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:27,880 Speaker 1: break in somebody's house, and the person the house they 90 00:07:27,920 --> 00:07:31,840 Speaker 1: broke into just happened to have a gun and held 91 00:07:31,880 --> 00:07:35,080 Speaker 1: them into garage, caught them and hailed them to the 92 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:38,120 Speaker 1: garage to the police car. That's Grace and mercy right there, 93 00:07:38,280 --> 00:07:41,520 Speaker 1: because they had all full right to shoot these two people, 94 00:07:41,920 --> 00:07:45,520 Speaker 1: but they didn't. The Grayson Mercy. See, all of us 95 00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:48,960 Speaker 1: have benefited from his grace and mercy. All of us 96 00:07:48,960 --> 00:07:51,760 Speaker 1: have done a wrong, committed a sin, broken the law, 97 00:07:52,040 --> 00:07:56,160 Speaker 1: and somehow, through his grace and mercy, got by, doing drugs, 98 00:07:56,240 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 1: buying drugs, slanging drugs, doing something, got by, jumped on 99 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:04,520 Speaker 1: somebody for no reason, got by, you know. So see 100 00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:08,040 Speaker 1: how you figure with all that that can go on 101 00:08:08,160 --> 00:08:10,520 Speaker 1: in your life? And then hold on, let me throw 102 00:08:10,520 --> 00:08:13,320 Speaker 1: a couple more at you. You can't wake yourself up 103 00:08:13,400 --> 00:08:18,440 Speaker 1: in the morning mister big shot, you don't have the 104 00:08:18,600 --> 00:08:23,160 Speaker 1: ability to control the breaths that you take. Really, mister 105 00:08:23,240 --> 00:08:26,840 Speaker 1: big shot, really, let's get real basic with it now. 106 00:08:27,160 --> 00:08:31,800 Speaker 1: You can't wake yourself up in the morning. That's favor, 107 00:08:33,080 --> 00:08:39,319 Speaker 1: that's grace, that's mercy, that's Him allowing you to wake up, 108 00:08:40,280 --> 00:08:44,240 Speaker 1: just hoping we get it right. You know, God spared 109 00:08:44,320 --> 00:08:46,560 Speaker 1: me through all the dirt I was doing just hoping 110 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:48,960 Speaker 1: one day, man, can you just straighten up a little bit? 111 00:08:50,600 --> 00:08:53,080 Speaker 1: When I finally straightened up, and I'm gonna just say it, 112 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 1: straightened up a little bit. See, I ain't straightened up 113 00:08:55,320 --> 00:08:57,320 Speaker 1: all the way. Say I ain't gonna sit here and 114 00:08:57,320 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 1: tell you that I just straightened up a little bit. 115 00:08:59,720 --> 00:09:02,640 Speaker 1: He's start blessing me. So the more blessings I got 116 00:09:02,679 --> 00:09:04,720 Speaker 1: started going, Man, maybe I'll try straighten up a little 117 00:09:04,760 --> 00:09:06,600 Speaker 1: bit more. So I straightened up a little bit more. Now. 118 00:09:06,640 --> 00:09:08,760 Speaker 1: I still got a long way to go, but I'm 119 00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:11,800 Speaker 1: straighter than I was now. When people judging me and 120 00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:14,240 Speaker 1: as they will, and they do, because that ain't right, 121 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:16,800 Speaker 1: but they do, and I ain't walking just the way 122 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:19,120 Speaker 1: they walk, then here comes to criticism. I get it 123 00:09:19,160 --> 00:09:22,520 Speaker 1: all the time. Stop wanting credit all the time and 124 00:09:22,640 --> 00:09:25,680 Speaker 1: give out some credit where credit is due instead of 125 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:28,360 Speaker 1: get having somebody patting you on your back all the time. 126 00:09:28,559 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 1: Why don't you tell God, tell people it was really 127 00:09:30,760 --> 00:09:33,160 Speaker 1: was God, man, that you don't really know how you 128 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:35,960 Speaker 1: made it? That really man, you have no explanation for 129 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:38,800 Speaker 1: your success or you have no explanation why you still 130 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:41,880 Speaker 1: existing today. Why don't you tell somebody was God today? 131 00:09:42,040 --> 00:09:46,000 Speaker 1: Don't be ashamed. It's the truth, ain't it. I mean, really, man, 132 00:09:46,440 --> 00:09:49,840 Speaker 1: Let's give God some credit. Hell, give God the credit 133 00:09:49,880 --> 00:09:52,520 Speaker 1: and the glory and the honor. And like that plaque said, 134 00:09:52,760 --> 00:09:54,440 Speaker 1: you can go as far as you want in life 135 00:09:54,440 --> 00:09:56,679 Speaker 1: if you don't mind who gets the credit. All right, 136 00:09:57,080 --> 00:10:04,960 Speaker 1: you're listening Steve Harp Morning Show. It's only cracking. That's 137 00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:07,199 Speaker 1: how we started to do. If I called it to 138 00:10:07,320 --> 00:10:09,520 Speaker 1: count off, you know, its gonna be like it was 139 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:11,560 Speaker 1: gonna be a song. But in my heart it is 140 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:14,000 Speaker 1: a song. I just say't feel like singing it to 141 00:10:14,080 --> 00:10:19,000 Speaker 1: y'all today. I might change my mind. I might change 142 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:26,920 Speaker 1: my mind and sang it out anyway. Yeah, I just 143 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:29,760 Speaker 1: came out, came out just like that. That was a 144 00:10:29,800 --> 00:10:36,720 Speaker 1: lounge hit. I might change my mind and sing it anyway. 145 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:40,760 Speaker 1: I was written by Roscoe Wallace in nineteen fifty nine. 146 00:10:43,080 --> 00:10:49,160 Speaker 1: Waute yeah, huge hit it huge Walla been out a 147 00:10:49,160 --> 00:10:51,720 Speaker 1: minute man, I was to think about dusting off turning 148 00:10:51,760 --> 00:10:53,920 Speaker 1: into a hit. This is the Steve Harping Morning Show, 149 00:10:54,200 --> 00:10:57,440 Speaker 1: a very very grateful show, show field with gratitude and love. 150 00:10:57,880 --> 00:11:00,520 Speaker 1: And we will be funny today. Amongst her the things. 151 00:11:00,559 --> 00:11:04,000 Speaker 1: We will be sharing some information, and we will be 152 00:11:04,440 --> 00:11:08,880 Speaker 1: ridiculing one another from time to time in joke form, 153 00:11:09,640 --> 00:11:13,560 Speaker 1: and we will be looking at each other upside each 154 00:11:13,559 --> 00:11:17,120 Speaker 1: other's heads by some of the responses we give. We 155 00:11:17,200 --> 00:11:19,840 Speaker 1: thank the Lord for zooming because it has kept us 156 00:11:19,880 --> 00:11:22,760 Speaker 1: together as a unit, even though we're far a hard 157 00:11:22,800 --> 00:11:26,200 Speaker 1: in miles. Here together to bring you the Steve Harvey 158 00:11:26,280 --> 00:11:31,160 Speaker 1: Morning Show with Shirley Strawberry whose zoom works whenever it 159 00:11:31,280 --> 00:11:37,920 Speaker 1: won't to Colin for real, the Mouth of the South Mississippi, 160 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:42,520 Speaker 1: Monica Junior whose name is actually killed Space and the 161 00:11:42,640 --> 00:11:45,600 Speaker 1: legend that he isn't a few time it Junior horse 162 00:11:45,679 --> 00:11:48,839 Speaker 1: on your mind, Oh pig dog, let me ask you something. 163 00:11:49,760 --> 00:11:53,560 Speaker 1: Trust trusting people. You know you said you have to 164 00:11:53,559 --> 00:11:55,480 Speaker 1: have a good team with people around you. How do 165 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:57,760 Speaker 1: you find out what the people that you don't like, 166 00:11:57,960 --> 00:12:04,079 Speaker 1: you don't trust. Is it hard to get rid of them? No, No, 167 00:12:04,679 --> 00:12:09,960 Speaker 1: it's hard to hold on to them because you sometimes, 168 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:11,760 Speaker 1: as a good person, you want to give the person 169 00:12:11,880 --> 00:12:14,959 Speaker 1: benefit of the doubt, and you want you don't want 170 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:17,280 Speaker 1: to come across as a person that's not an understanding 171 00:12:17,320 --> 00:12:20,280 Speaker 1: of a person that's lacking in some area of their life. 172 00:12:20,320 --> 00:12:22,600 Speaker 1: So you try to be a little bit more accommodating 173 00:12:22,640 --> 00:12:24,199 Speaker 1: and try to give them a little bit of a a 174 00:12:24,280 --> 00:12:28,720 Speaker 1: chance to maybe self correction things like that. But bad 175 00:12:28,760 --> 00:12:32,000 Speaker 1: people don't don't really make self corrections, and it's not 176 00:12:32,120 --> 00:12:33,840 Speaker 1: up to you to try to correct them. Just put 177 00:12:33,880 --> 00:12:36,679 Speaker 1: that in God's hand, cut them loose and going about 178 00:12:36,679 --> 00:12:40,000 Speaker 1: your business, and try to remember this. Everybody come with 179 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:43,480 Speaker 1: you can't go with you and so and some people 180 00:12:43,520 --> 00:12:46,079 Speaker 1: are in your lives just for a season. And you 181 00:12:46,160 --> 00:12:49,880 Speaker 1: got to realize that everybody ain't gonna make the whole trip. 182 00:12:50,640 --> 00:12:53,400 Speaker 1: Some people. That's why the bus make a bunch of stops. 183 00:12:53,920 --> 00:12:57,360 Speaker 1: Everybody ain't going to your destination. Some people get on 184 00:12:57,440 --> 00:13:00,320 Speaker 1: the bus, you enjoy their conversation, and they stop, come up, 185 00:13:00,360 --> 00:13:02,120 Speaker 1: and they get off the bus. You say thank you now, 186 00:13:02,360 --> 00:13:04,520 Speaker 1: And then sometimes a butthole get on the bus and 187 00:13:04,600 --> 00:13:06,400 Speaker 1: be over there the whole time. And you be telling 188 00:13:06,400 --> 00:13:08,600 Speaker 1: a man when they stop at and you need to 189 00:13:08,640 --> 00:13:10,160 Speaker 1: let them be able to get off the boat when 190 00:13:10,160 --> 00:13:11,839 Speaker 1: it's get off the bus, when it's time for them 191 00:13:11,840 --> 00:13:14,160 Speaker 1: to get off the bus. You understand. That's the knowalog 192 00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:16,600 Speaker 1: y'all wanted to pay for. You know, junior, everybody can't 193 00:13:16,640 --> 00:13:18,760 Speaker 1: go with you and ever some people in your life 194 00:13:18,760 --> 00:13:20,960 Speaker 1: just for a season. And when you realize that you 195 00:13:21,000 --> 00:13:22,480 Speaker 1: got to let them get off and go on where 196 00:13:22,480 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 1: they're going, they best. Thank you. Let me tell you 197 00:13:26,280 --> 00:13:30,360 Speaker 1: why somebody getting fired today. You heard them? Thank you. 198 00:13:30,360 --> 00:13:33,679 Speaker 1: I hope you're listening to the morning Uh, coming up 199 00:13:33,679 --> 00:13:37,040 Speaker 1: at thirty two minutes after the hour, we're gonna start 200 00:13:37,080 --> 00:13:39,520 Speaker 1: the show off with nephew Tommy's run that prank back 201 00:13:40,080 --> 00:13:47,160 Speaker 1: right after this. Yeah, you're listening to show. It is 202 00:13:47,200 --> 00:13:49,480 Speaker 1: time now to start your morning off with run that 203 00:13:49,600 --> 00:13:53,600 Speaker 1: prank back from the nephew which you got nef Uh. 204 00:13:53,600 --> 00:13:58,439 Speaker 1: This right here is the new landlord, the new landlord, 205 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:04,520 Speaker 1: new landlord. Everybody ready? Anybody good? Marc doc let me 206 00:14:04,520 --> 00:14:08,480 Speaker 1: give it to your cat dog if you would. Hello, Hello, 207 00:14:08,559 --> 00:14:12,840 Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach a, um Marcus and see who's this? 208 00:14:13,840 --> 00:14:17,679 Speaker 1: My name is Jason. Got you doing all right? What's happening? Listen? Um? 209 00:14:17,720 --> 00:14:19,320 Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out if you guys are gonna 210 00:14:19,320 --> 00:14:22,680 Speaker 1: be out of the house by Sunday? Um, not the house? 211 00:14:22,960 --> 00:14:25,000 Speaker 1: What the hell you mean out of the house? Let 212 00:14:25,000 --> 00:14:26,640 Speaker 1: me let me get the clarification. Are you guys that 213 00:14:26,800 --> 00:14:32,440 Speaker 1: um West Jennings? Yeah? Okay, are you you guys haven't 214 00:14:32,480 --> 00:14:36,200 Speaker 1: start packing up or anything like that? Dude? Who are you? Okay? 215 00:14:36,680 --> 00:14:38,840 Speaker 1: Are you kind of here? You get my number? I 216 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:40,840 Speaker 1: got it from mister Vernon or are you familiar with 217 00:14:40,880 --> 00:14:46,400 Speaker 1: mister Yeah, that's my landlord. Okay, Um, mister hasn't um 218 00:14:46,600 --> 00:14:49,520 Speaker 1: hasn't made contact with you? Marcus. Now, I didn't talk 219 00:14:49,520 --> 00:14:52,000 Speaker 1: to miss the last gave him my papers? Wow, and 220 00:14:52,040 --> 00:14:55,000 Speaker 1: who you are here? My name is Jason. I actually 221 00:14:55,600 --> 00:14:57,480 Speaker 1: who are you? Who are you to mister Well? I 222 00:14:57,520 --> 00:15:02,240 Speaker 1: actually bought the property from mister six weeks ago? Six 223 00:15:02,320 --> 00:15:05,960 Speaker 1: weeks ago? Yeah, I actually owned I actually owned the house. Now, 224 00:15:06,080 --> 00:15:09,600 Speaker 1: I'm it was my assumption that you and mister already 225 00:15:10,200 --> 00:15:12,960 Speaker 1: you know, because I made my last payment less than 226 00:15:13,040 --> 00:15:17,880 Speaker 1: six weeks ago. Can you own this house? Actually? I'm sorry. 227 00:15:17,960 --> 00:15:20,200 Speaker 1: I'm renting this from mister. I gave him my payment 228 00:15:20,280 --> 00:15:22,240 Speaker 1: less than six weeks ago. So he's saying he got 229 00:15:22,280 --> 00:15:25,200 Speaker 1: my money, you owned the house, and what's up with that? Well, yeah, 230 00:15:25,280 --> 00:15:28,040 Speaker 1: I actually do. I guess you know he's um. He 231 00:15:28,160 --> 00:15:30,400 Speaker 1: actually told me that you guys would have been out 232 00:15:30,440 --> 00:15:32,960 Speaker 1: by now, And like I said, I'm gonna I'm looking 233 00:15:33,040 --> 00:15:34,680 Speaker 1: for everybody to be out by Sunday. Are you guys 234 00:15:34,680 --> 00:15:35,760 Speaker 1: are gonna be able to get out of there by? 235 00:15:35,800 --> 00:15:38,680 Speaker 1: Show hold of First of all, I still got two 236 00:15:38,680 --> 00:15:41,200 Speaker 1: more years on my lease at this house. You tell 237 00:15:41,240 --> 00:15:43,760 Speaker 1: me you want me out by Sunday, well Saturday if 238 00:15:43,800 --> 00:15:46,440 Speaker 1: you could actually do it, dude, come on, you want 239 00:15:46,480 --> 00:15:50,800 Speaker 1: me out of here on Sunday. I actually have some 240 00:15:50,920 --> 00:15:52,880 Speaker 1: tenants that are gonna be moving in on Monday. What 241 00:15:52,920 --> 00:15:54,760 Speaker 1: I'm trying to do is actually get in there, get 242 00:15:54,760 --> 00:15:56,600 Speaker 1: you guys out, get the place cleaned up so the 243 00:15:56,640 --> 00:15:59,360 Speaker 1: tenants can move in and actually start unpacking all their things. 244 00:15:59,400 --> 00:16:01,720 Speaker 1: They're wanting to move it on Monday. Ain't listening to 245 00:16:01,760 --> 00:16:04,560 Speaker 1: your man? Me and my family we ain't moving No. Well, right, 246 00:16:04,800 --> 00:16:06,360 Speaker 1: I don't know what the hell you gotta do. Who 247 00:16:06,400 --> 00:16:08,280 Speaker 1: the hell you gotta talk to But you better gonna 248 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:11,480 Speaker 1: fix that because I wish I would come over here 249 00:16:11,520 --> 00:16:12,800 Speaker 1: and try to tell me. I gotta get the hell 250 00:16:12,840 --> 00:16:16,200 Speaker 1: about this house. Okay, sure, because I'm dealing you. I'm 251 00:16:16,440 --> 00:16:19,120 Speaker 1: I'm the owner of this house. Now, I don't give 252 00:16:19,160 --> 00:16:21,680 Speaker 1: a I gave my money to mister Verney. You better 253 00:16:21,720 --> 00:16:24,160 Speaker 1: call him, call somebody take it to fix it because 254 00:16:24,160 --> 00:16:28,480 Speaker 1: we ain't moving though. Please, sir, I'm gonna need you, 255 00:16:28,600 --> 00:16:31,840 Speaker 1: did you I need you out by Sunday, sir. Now 256 00:16:31,880 --> 00:16:34,040 Speaker 1: this is my house and you're actually arguing with me 257 00:16:34,040 --> 00:16:35,880 Speaker 1: about mom. If you ain't listening to me, Man, you 258 00:16:35,880 --> 00:16:39,320 Speaker 1: ain't listening to me. We ain't moving I I still 259 00:16:39,360 --> 00:16:42,080 Speaker 1: got two more years on my least dude, my last payment. 260 00:16:42,240 --> 00:16:44,720 Speaker 1: I paid that to two months in advance. Man, I 261 00:16:44,760 --> 00:16:49,320 Speaker 1: ain't let me get you mindless. If it was it 262 00:16:49,400 --> 00:16:54,880 Speaker 1: was responsibility and let he who come on, dog, you're tripping, 263 00:16:55,240 --> 00:16:58,080 Speaker 1: don't call it over I wouldn't come bring bring your 264 00:16:58,200 --> 00:17:00,680 Speaker 1: cover here. You won't too, all right, I'm over here. 265 00:17:00,760 --> 00:17:03,120 Speaker 1: I will be there on Sunday. Now you're not moving out, 266 00:17:03,120 --> 00:17:06,000 Speaker 1: I'll have to move you like I ain't moving nowhere. 267 00:17:06,320 --> 00:17:08,920 Speaker 1: Selling you over here. You won't I'm not going back 268 00:17:08,960 --> 00:17:10,600 Speaker 1: here half with you. I want you out of my 269 00:17:10,680 --> 00:17:13,960 Speaker 1: house by Sunday. I bring up my people over here 270 00:17:14,040 --> 00:17:15,960 Speaker 1: right now. I'm we can start this right now. I 271 00:17:16,080 --> 00:17:18,560 Speaker 1: need you out of mind? Are you I ain't wanna 272 00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:21,000 Speaker 1: be about I'm gonna hear me. I ain't saying it 273 00:17:21,080 --> 00:17:23,760 Speaker 1: no more? Are you're arguing with me about my property? Sir? 274 00:17:23,800 --> 00:17:26,399 Speaker 1: Are you listening? I'm calling for this. I'm paying on 275 00:17:26,520 --> 00:17:29,320 Speaker 1: this right now. I ain't moving no where. You hear me? 276 00:17:29,480 --> 00:17:32,639 Speaker 1: I made you my kid. If you're gonna two of 277 00:17:32,680 --> 00:17:34,160 Speaker 1: me and saying I can get them a better place, 278 00:17:34,200 --> 00:17:36,480 Speaker 1: are you hear me? Let me attendants that will be 279 00:17:36,640 --> 00:17:40,320 Speaker 1: pulling up? How ain't giving bring whoever want to bring? 280 00:17:40,880 --> 00:17:43,640 Speaker 1: I got something wing on y'all calling in. I ain't 281 00:17:43,680 --> 00:17:47,400 Speaker 1: received no notice. I ain't got a phone call from 282 00:17:47,440 --> 00:17:50,440 Speaker 1: nobody else. I'm like, I'm listening to you talking to 283 00:17:50,480 --> 00:17:53,600 Speaker 1: mister be calling me? He one? Who got my money? Mister? 284 00:17:54,480 --> 00:17:57,800 Speaker 1: This pictures a phone call? No email, no taketeless, no 285 00:17:57,960 --> 00:18:02,639 Speaker 1: what the mister? The pictures? Owning? Then my family. If 286 00:18:02,680 --> 00:18:05,200 Speaker 1: you're gonna be here for another two years here, you're 287 00:18:05,280 --> 00:18:07,159 Speaker 1: not try to get there another two hosten it to 288 00:18:07,240 --> 00:18:09,800 Speaker 1: a better place. You're gonna behind it there. I'm gonna 289 00:18:09,800 --> 00:18:12,600 Speaker 1: hearing my family factors there, y'all bring it for me 290 00:18:12,680 --> 00:18:14,720 Speaker 1: if you want to. Are you listening to me? You're 291 00:18:14,760 --> 00:18:17,560 Speaker 1: gonna be out my day, you know. Come on, hey, 292 00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:19,359 Speaker 1: trying to hear you gotta take care of it. You 293 00:18:19,400 --> 00:18:22,960 Speaker 1: know you ain't moving here and my family? Are you? 294 00:18:23,080 --> 00:18:25,720 Speaker 1: Are you listening to me? Sir? What you gotta say? 295 00:18:25,720 --> 00:18:28,080 Speaker 1: You're saying something different now I'm telling you, if you're 296 00:18:28,119 --> 00:18:30,040 Speaker 1: not out by Sunday, then I'm going to move your 297 00:18:30,080 --> 00:18:33,480 Speaker 1: stuff out by sunday. You ain't moving, Bring over here 298 00:18:33,480 --> 00:18:37,640 Speaker 1: if you want. Oh, I wish you woman, you excuse 299 00:18:37,720 --> 00:18:41,119 Speaker 1: me you? I got something else I need to tell you. 300 00:18:41,240 --> 00:18:45,840 Speaker 1: Are you listening? What? What are you listening to me? What? 301 00:18:46,119 --> 00:18:48,080 Speaker 1: Say something? I want to tell you this. This is 302 00:18:48,160 --> 00:18:51,680 Speaker 1: Nephew Timming from the Steve Harvard Morning Show. Malik, your 303 00:18:51,840 --> 00:18:56,600 Speaker 1: son got me to flank phone call you. Come on, man, 304 00:18:57,800 --> 00:19:03,560 Speaker 1: are you playing? Are you serious? Come on, dog, y'all 305 00:19:03,840 --> 00:19:07,680 Speaker 1: see y'all all the other stuff. Manna, I'm gonna get 306 00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:13,800 Speaker 1: the man. Y'all got me? Dog? Oh? Man, I got 307 00:19:13,880 --> 00:19:16,720 Speaker 1: you man ya Hey, yeah, I'm alrighty man, i'mna let 308 00:19:16,760 --> 00:19:19,320 Speaker 1: me blood pressure calmed down. He told me, y'all listen 309 00:19:19,359 --> 00:19:20,960 Speaker 1: to the show on the way on the way to 310 00:19:21,119 --> 00:19:24,000 Speaker 1: dropping the kids off at school in the morning every morning. Down. 311 00:19:24,200 --> 00:19:28,040 Speaker 1: Oh man, I know you weren't getting out that house. 312 00:19:28,119 --> 00:19:32,680 Speaker 1: Come suddenly, what you dude? Heyn Now, we don't moving nowhere. 313 00:19:33,000 --> 00:19:35,320 Speaker 1: Oh man, I'm already trying to say what I'm trying 314 00:19:35,359 --> 00:19:37,760 Speaker 1: to get them another spot. Hey man, keep pushing, brother. 315 00:19:37,760 --> 00:19:39,240 Speaker 1: I got one more thing to ask you, man, what 316 00:19:39,560 --> 00:19:43,600 Speaker 1: is the baddest radio show in the land. You already know, 317 00:19:43,920 --> 00:19:52,359 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. There there's no comparison to 318 00:19:52,560 --> 00:19:54,879 Speaker 1: the level of stupid that I will bring to you 319 00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:59,280 Speaker 1: in the morning time. There is no level, oh comparison. 320 00:20:00,359 --> 00:20:03,760 Speaker 1: I don't think no one to compare it to. Okay, 321 00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:07,440 Speaker 1: all right then that lets you can stop using comparison. 322 00:20:08,040 --> 00:20:10,440 Speaker 1: Well I'm the greatest at this, That's all I want 323 00:20:10,480 --> 00:20:18,960 Speaker 1: to put Yet no argument from us. Yeah, yeah, there's talks. Yeah, 324 00:20:19,040 --> 00:20:23,640 Speaker 1: there's talks about giving me a stall on the Walk 325 00:20:23,680 --> 00:20:26,760 Speaker 1: of Fame, just you know, because of this stupit ever 326 00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:31,880 Speaker 1: heard that you ain't heard about already talking about it everywhere, man, everywhere. 327 00:20:32,320 --> 00:20:35,840 Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, they're talking about putting me right there 328 00:20:35,880 --> 00:20:38,280 Speaker 1: on Hollywood and Highland. Right over there, man, they're talking 329 00:20:38,280 --> 00:20:42,040 Speaker 1: about it, putting the stall the greatest prankster which to 330 00:20:42,160 --> 00:20:47,280 Speaker 1: pit the Tollywood and Highland. Yeah, right right there. Yeah, 331 00:20:47,560 --> 00:20:53,440 Speaker 1: I didn't thank you. Coming up next, it is asked 332 00:20:53,520 --> 00:20:56,960 Speaker 1: the CLO Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building 333 00:20:57,000 --> 00:21:00,320 Speaker 1: ready for your love questions. Right after this, you're listening 334 00:21:01,000 --> 00:21:03,920 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at the top of 335 00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:06,920 Speaker 1: the hour. And entertainment news. A lot of trending court 336 00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:09,960 Speaker 1: news today. First, just a reminder to check out our 337 00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:14,760 Speaker 1: favorite new TV show, Judge Steve Tonight at eight seventh Central, 338 00:21:15,359 --> 00:21:20,320 Speaker 1: Baby in Hulu. Plus another trending news, a potential juror 339 00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:23,120 Speaker 1: told a judge one of the best excuses we've heard 340 00:21:23,520 --> 00:21:26,800 Speaker 1: to get out of jury duty. And then more court news. 341 00:21:27,040 --> 00:21:29,760 Speaker 1: There is a new host of the Divorce Court. We'll 342 00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:31,840 Speaker 1: talk about these stories at the top of the hour, 343 00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:35,960 Speaker 1: but right now it is time for Ask the CLO 344 00:21:36,280 --> 00:21:40,800 Speaker 1: Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. Bella and Ottawa says, I'm 345 00:21:40,920 --> 00:21:43,000 Speaker 1: in my late thirties and I'm married to a man 346 00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:46,920 Speaker 1: that is only good at sex and nothing else. He 347 00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:51,040 Speaker 1: can't cook, clean, or iron his own clothes. If I 348 00:21:51,160 --> 00:21:53,480 Speaker 1: send him to the grocery store, I have to send 349 00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:56,439 Speaker 1: pictures of the items to him. We dated for two 350 00:21:56,560 --> 00:21:59,639 Speaker 1: years before we got married, but I miss this. Is 351 00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:03,080 Speaker 1: there a way to fix my husband? No? No, See 352 00:22:03,119 --> 00:22:05,879 Speaker 1: this is your fault, and this isn't about fixing your husband. 353 00:22:06,320 --> 00:22:08,200 Speaker 1: You dated him for two years and you say you 354 00:22:08,359 --> 00:22:10,960 Speaker 1: missed this because you weren't looking for nothing else. You 355 00:22:11,080 --> 00:22:13,520 Speaker 1: was just having good sex and you thought that's what 356 00:22:13,680 --> 00:22:16,200 Speaker 1: you wanted to have the rest of your life. Well, 357 00:22:16,240 --> 00:22:19,480 Speaker 1: guess what its moti life than good sex. So you 358 00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:21,720 Speaker 1: can have somebody sex and you all you want, but 359 00:22:21,880 --> 00:22:24,200 Speaker 1: you're the majority of time you together, you won't be 360 00:22:24,400 --> 00:22:27,680 Speaker 1: having sex. I hate to tell you that, but all 361 00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:31,560 Speaker 1: these good sparkling moments gonna get diminished by real life 362 00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:34,959 Speaker 1: realizations and the fact that he can't go to the stove. 363 00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:38,720 Speaker 1: He can't on Did you ever cross your mind he 364 00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:42,040 Speaker 1: was stupid? You got to send pictures to the stove 365 00:22:42,119 --> 00:22:45,399 Speaker 1: by a thirty year old. You didn't marry this ignorant 366 00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:49,720 Speaker 1: ass boy that can't do nothing but bring it. That's 367 00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:53,240 Speaker 1: all he can do. You can't call him nowhere, he 368 00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:56,040 Speaker 1: can't talk you gotta pay in notes on him like 369 00:22:56,359 --> 00:22:59,080 Speaker 1: back in the sixties. You can't send his ass to 370 00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:01,760 Speaker 1: the stove. He don't know how to get gas in 371 00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:04,760 Speaker 1: the car. He ain't pay no bills. He's sitting there, 372 00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:07,240 Speaker 1: he lights his off. He don't know what to do. 373 00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:16,080 Speaker 1: Oh but he can't bring that though. But I love 374 00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:18,000 Speaker 1: for Brad. She's got to give him a picture of that. 375 00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:24,760 Speaker 1: You got just what you wanted. Deal with it. Sorry, 376 00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:29,200 Speaker 1: bet you bet you better next time, because this ain't 377 00:23:29,240 --> 00:23:35,320 Speaker 1: gonna last, all right, Katherine and Teaneck says, I'm a 378 00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:39,040 Speaker 1: dog mom and my boyfriend loves dogs too. When we 379 00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:42,000 Speaker 1: talk about marriage and having children, he says, pets are 380 00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:46,560 Speaker 1: a lot easier and less expensive even when we're serious, 381 00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:50,240 Speaker 1: he says this. Does this mean that he doesn't want children? 382 00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:54,480 Speaker 1: What does sound like to you? What does sound like 383 00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:57,639 Speaker 1: to you? Does this mean he don't won't cheat you? 384 00:23:57,920 --> 00:24:00,480 Speaker 1: Why don't you ask him? Do he won't chea asking? 385 00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:04,000 Speaker 1: You know what you're asking us fault? Why don't you 386 00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:06,320 Speaker 1: say because you don't want to run the risk of 387 00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:09,639 Speaker 1: losing him? Just say, listen, I really want a family. 388 00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:13,400 Speaker 1: Are you against having children or are you for having 389 00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:17,159 Speaker 1: a family? And start that conversation and conversation before you 390 00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:19,720 Speaker 1: get married, and don't get married and just try to 391 00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:24,520 Speaker 1: pop up pregnant. That ain't gonna work. No man, you 392 00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:27,239 Speaker 1: got a chance to talk about this, don't write us. 393 00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:36,080 Speaker 1: That's your advice. Moving on, Moving on to Adrian and Pelham. 394 00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:39,119 Speaker 1: Adrian says, my daughter is twenty eight and she won't 395 00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:41,879 Speaker 1: move out of my house because she says it's not 396 00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:45,240 Speaker 1: my house. When her dad and I divorced years ago, 397 00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:48,160 Speaker 1: he was ordered to pay the mortgage, so he told 398 00:24:48,200 --> 00:24:50,800 Speaker 1: her she can stay. Should I move out and let 399 00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:57,399 Speaker 1: them have it? I don't understand, no one, I don't really, 400 00:24:57,680 --> 00:25:01,280 Speaker 1: I don't care what you do. I mean, should I 401 00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:04,399 Speaker 1: move out and let them have it? You know you 402 00:25:04,520 --> 00:25:07,040 Speaker 1: got the house and the divorce your daughter won't leave. 403 00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:14,600 Speaker 1: First of all, it really ain't your daughter's house. I 404 00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:17,359 Speaker 1: can tell you that right now in the divorce. I 405 00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:19,560 Speaker 1: bet when y'all bought the house, I bet she didn't 406 00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:21,960 Speaker 1: have a dollar to chip in on it. I bet 407 00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:25,000 Speaker 1: her name was never on the mortgage, and I bet 408 00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:29,360 Speaker 1: she never did anything to become homeowner. So now, first 409 00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:31,239 Speaker 1: of all, I don't know why you're taking this from 410 00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:33,360 Speaker 1: your daughter. Y'all be letting these kids have too many 411 00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:37,639 Speaker 1: mony get your ass out. I tell you what be 412 00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:40,960 Speaker 1: here when I get out work, see what happened. But see, 413 00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:44,160 Speaker 1: ain't no consequences, y'all, y'all raise y'all kids like they're 414 00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:47,679 Speaker 1: your friends. You know so now so now she treating 415 00:25:47,720 --> 00:25:50,359 Speaker 1: you like y'all friends because you didn't decide it too 416 00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:54,040 Speaker 1: late to pary so you know, you know now you're 417 00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:56,000 Speaker 1: talking about should I move out and let them have 418 00:25:56,200 --> 00:26:01,040 Speaker 1: it if you want to, because obviously you're not gonna 419 00:26:01,080 --> 00:26:05,080 Speaker 1: confront your daughter. Who you scared of? Yeah, I ain't. 420 00:26:05,119 --> 00:26:07,879 Speaker 1: I ain't got nothing not made. I'm scared of nothing. 421 00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:10,440 Speaker 1: You can lyne all my boys up in the row 422 00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:14,560 Speaker 1: and let the ass whippments begin. Now. They can whoop me, now, 423 00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:18,000 Speaker 1: call them jump on me right now. They can whoop me. 424 00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:20,640 Speaker 1: But they know the first one that come in, though 425 00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:23,400 Speaker 1: it's gonna be two on one called the first one 426 00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:26,520 Speaker 1: in getting hear the had knocked out the first one here. 427 00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:29,320 Speaker 1: And I can tell you they ain't gonna be winning 428 00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:35,200 Speaker 1: because he know, yeah, yeah, it ain't gonna be winning. 429 00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:39,679 Speaker 1: He's not coming in first. I ain't scared of damn thing. 430 00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:46,959 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, all right, Rowena and Madison says, I've 431 00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:50,800 Speaker 1: been married for eighteen years. All of my husband's clothes. 432 00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:56,280 Speaker 1: He's never like shopping and definitely has never done online shopping. Yesterday, 433 00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:59,199 Speaker 1: a package filled with box of briefs and t shirts 434 00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:02,439 Speaker 1: came for him. He said he decided to treat himself. 435 00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:06,359 Speaker 1: Why is he buying new underwear all of a sudden? 436 00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:14,040 Speaker 1: I don't draws? You know, you ain't bought none. So 437 00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:16,920 Speaker 1: maybe the man just wanted to try online shopping and 438 00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:19,760 Speaker 1: wear better to try with this items that can't nobody see? 439 00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:24,399 Speaker 1: He bought some draws online? Why is he buying new 440 00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:30,280 Speaker 1: draws because he needs them? Stopped reading? Anger? You know, 441 00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:33,040 Speaker 1: now if he buys some teddies and stuff online and 442 00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:36,159 Speaker 1: it ain't your size, then now we got problems. You know, 443 00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:40,120 Speaker 1: boxing condoms come in. We got a problem. She thinks 444 00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:44,600 Speaker 1: he's cheating. You know. Thats because because he bought some 445 00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:48,440 Speaker 1: new draws. Yeah, because he bought new underwear. Change your behavior. 446 00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:51,920 Speaker 1: Who's he buying this new underwear for? I buy all 447 00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:55,600 Speaker 1: his clothes, you know, I buy all his stuff. She 448 00:27:55,680 --> 00:28:00,919 Speaker 1: gonna get him some new draws when, Yeah, that's all 449 00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:03,920 Speaker 1: we really need to know, because he going damn I'm 450 00:28:03,960 --> 00:28:06,800 Speaker 1: taking these pants off. Okay, if he is cheating, let's 451 00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:09,920 Speaker 1: let's just look at the logic. Let's say he is cheating. Okay, 452 00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:13,399 Speaker 1: let's just go from there. You ain't buying him no 453 00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:15,840 Speaker 1: new draws. He gotta take his pants off of these 454 00:28:15,920 --> 00:28:18,440 Speaker 1: old draws on in front of people. Now, what you 455 00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:22,280 Speaker 1: want him to do? At least you could do in 456 00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:25,120 Speaker 1: front of these people, these people passing judgment on him. 457 00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:27,840 Speaker 1: All he hedded back in his mind is his mom saying, 458 00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:30,680 Speaker 1: change your underwear case you have to go to the hospital. 459 00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:36,399 Speaker 1: We've all heard it now. Yeah, maybe he's scared of 460 00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:40,160 Speaker 1: going to the hospital. Within bragging head draws or whatever. Now, 461 00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:42,800 Speaker 1: but where do you get Where do you get that 462 00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:45,040 Speaker 1: she's not buying him a new underwear? Where do you 463 00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:47,280 Speaker 1: get that she said she's been married for eighteen years. 464 00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:52,240 Speaker 1: If you ain't bout this man no draws in eighteen years, 465 00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:55,160 Speaker 1: don't you think it's time for him to get some 466 00:28:55,320 --> 00:29:00,720 Speaker 1: new draws? What do that have to do with cheating? 467 00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:03,440 Speaker 1: You've been made eighteen years and you have yet to 468 00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:11,720 Speaker 1: buy the man some drown. That is my god, man, 469 00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:16,600 Speaker 1: get the man some damn drown all right, all right, 470 00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:18,840 Speaker 1: thank you Cello coming up at the top of the hour, 471 00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:21,880 Speaker 1: We'll have some entertainment news for you right after this. 472 00:29:23,480 --> 00:29:28,960 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show, please make 473 00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:32,160 Speaker 1: sure you check out another hilarious episode of Judge Steve 474 00:29:32,960 --> 00:29:36,840 Speaker 1: going down tonight at eight seventh Central on ABC and Hulu. 475 00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:41,400 Speaker 1: Judge Steve Harvey's Court is now in session. Steve. Yeah, 476 00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:46,280 Speaker 1: it is, Yes, still exciting, Yeah, still having fun. It's 477 00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:48,680 Speaker 1: really really a good show, man, really really is. I'm 478 00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:52,320 Speaker 1: not kidding. Not well suited for what I do right 479 00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:55,840 Speaker 1: up into my strong suits and things of that in nature, 480 00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:58,080 Speaker 1: but I'm grateful for it. Man. It's fun to do. 481 00:29:58,360 --> 00:30:02,160 Speaker 1: Every Every case is different, friend, you know, every every 482 00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:06,080 Speaker 1: solve is different. Yes, you know. And and I do 483 00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:08,720 Speaker 1: what most judges are not going to do. I get 484 00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:12,600 Speaker 1: into the story. I really want to know what happened. 485 00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:15,160 Speaker 1: You know, don't nobody else care about what happened. It's 486 00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:17,760 Speaker 1: the law. I don't even know the law, so you 487 00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:24,240 Speaker 1: know that part. Really don't know why y'all keep bringing 488 00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:36,400 Speaker 1: this law up because you're a judge. Yeah, all right, Well, anyway, 489 00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:39,760 Speaker 1: Judge Steve Tonight eight seven Control on the ABC and 490 00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:43,200 Speaker 1: Hulu and other trending court news. A potential juror, woman 491 00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:46,600 Speaker 1: identified only as Miss Bristol, told the judge that she 492 00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:49,360 Speaker 1: was too busy to serve on the jury on the 493 00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:54,120 Speaker 1: sentencing trial of Parkland shooter Nicholas cruz. Um. Take a listen, 494 00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:56,920 Speaker 1: there's dates in July that you're not available. What are 495 00:30:56,960 --> 00:31:03,920 Speaker 1: the seven fourth is clothed again. I need to figure 496 00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:07,640 Speaker 1: out something. I have my sugar daddy that I see 497 00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:12,560 Speaker 1: every day. I'm sorry, my sugar daddy. Okay, I'm not 498 00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:16,959 Speaker 1: exactly sure what you're talking about that I see him 499 00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:18,960 Speaker 1: every day. All right, man, We'll come back to you. Okay, 500 00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:24,920 Speaker 1: thank you. I'm not giving it up. You know I 501 00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:33,600 Speaker 1: saw that. Yeah, yes, well see it through the white 502 00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:36,520 Speaker 1: lady George off because she really didn't know. She said, 503 00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:39,600 Speaker 1: I have a sugar daddy, and I see him every day, 504 00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:44,080 Speaker 1: and so excuse me, I mean and and and white 505 00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:47,080 Speaker 1: lady really shook her head, like, excuse me what? I 506 00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:49,480 Speaker 1: have a sugar daddy? What do I don't understand what 507 00:31:49,520 --> 00:31:52,120 Speaker 1: that means. I'm madd and I have a boyfriend and 508 00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:54,120 Speaker 1: I see every day. Well, we're gonna get back to you. 509 00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:56,280 Speaker 1: She know what to do, see me, I see I 510 00:31:56,400 --> 00:31:58,320 Speaker 1: know right away. First of all, when you tell me 511 00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:02,640 Speaker 1: you gotta sugar daddy George Steve Focusing and girls go, well, okay, 512 00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:07,640 Speaker 1: that ain't none of our business. Oh you need to 513 00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:10,520 Speaker 1: tell a sugar or daddy whoever they are. Did one 514 00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:13,320 Speaker 1: person combined and your ass gonna be in here or 515 00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:19,520 Speaker 1: jewelry duty. Just caule adjust your schedule because somebody won't 516 00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:23,920 Speaker 1: be getting sugar this this moment. She was dismissed from 517 00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:28,920 Speaker 1: jury duty. So no, hell no, hell no. All you 518 00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:33,680 Speaker 1: gotta do to get this I'm CEO ass tomorrow. Yeah, 519 00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:36,600 Speaker 1: somebody ain't getting sugared this week, White power of sugar, 520 00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:40,160 Speaker 1: dusted or nothing. It's gonna be some neaked ass doughnuts 521 00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:43,840 Speaker 1: out here. Just get your ass in here. The man. Yeah, 522 00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:47,520 Speaker 1: this is a serious case too, um. And she got 523 00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:51,240 Speaker 1: up there with that, but yeah, this is a serious case. Um. 524 00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:54,920 Speaker 1: The sentencing trial of Nicholas Cruise. Cruise played guilty to 525 00:32:55,120 --> 00:32:59,200 Speaker 1: twenty eighteen murder of seventeen people from the Merchury Stoneham 526 00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:03,400 Speaker 1: Douglas High School and this jury pool will cons to 527 00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:08,320 Speaker 1: determine his prison sentence or if Nicholas Cruds deserves the 528 00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:13,240 Speaker 1: death penalty. Yeah, death penalty m yeah, yeah yeah, kill 529 00:33:13,280 --> 00:33:17,959 Speaker 1: all them kids many yeah yeah. Why is we wasting 530 00:33:18,040 --> 00:33:24,360 Speaker 1: our money with this mess? Man? Yeah? Well everybody has 531 00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:27,360 Speaker 1: a right to a trial. Um why he didn't have 532 00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:30,920 Speaker 1: to trial? We know he didn't saw you Yeah to 533 00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:35,040 Speaker 1: kill him? Phote's after that? Yeah, all the time sitting 534 00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:38,120 Speaker 1: around kill all them kids. Man, we're in here trial 535 00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:41,720 Speaker 1: defense attorney and all this mess spending taxpay of money. 536 00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:47,840 Speaker 1: You shot them kids with this, you evil. Definitely definitely 537 00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:52,120 Speaker 1: can about this mental el this everybody using. Now we 538 00:33:52,200 --> 00:33:56,600 Speaker 1: ain't doing that one hill okay, yeah. Well. In the 539 00:33:56,640 --> 00:33:59,880 Speaker 1: other trending court news, Star Jones is the new host 540 00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:04,080 Speaker 1: of Divorce Court. According to Variety magazine, Star will take 541 00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:07,720 Speaker 1: over in September. Back in twenty twenty, Judge Lynn Tooler 542 00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:11,600 Speaker 1: left the show Divorce Court and was replaced by judge 543 00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:15,200 Speaker 1: Faith Jenkins, and now Star Jones will replace Faith Jenkins. 544 00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:18,120 Speaker 1: As we all know, Star was a co host of 545 00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:21,440 Speaker 1: the View and a former New York City prosecutor. And 546 00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:25,880 Speaker 1: so congratulations to Star Jones. And then finally, Blue Cheese, 547 00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:29,680 Speaker 1: you are trending again, Steve. You know the picture of 548 00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:33,319 Speaker 1: you rocking your product bucket hat boarding a private jet 549 00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:38,600 Speaker 1: that everybody saw you know the one. Well Snoop has 550 00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:43,399 Speaker 1: made it made it a meet with the caption, they say, 551 00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:45,960 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey about to drop some sugar honey iced tea 552 00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:52,440 Speaker 1: with a little baby. You're going to go into studio. 553 00:34:52,560 --> 00:35:00,960 Speaker 1: You wrap it, yeah, make some music baby like a 554 00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:09,200 Speaker 1: rapper dog. Look like I love that gear. He don't know, 555 00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:10,960 Speaker 1: he don't know how to accept it or nothing. He 556 00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:15,160 Speaker 1: just yea. In fact, let me go see what y'all 557 00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:19,239 Speaker 1: talking about. Why well in the meantime, because listen to me. 558 00:35:21,040 --> 00:35:23,240 Speaker 1: First of all, let me let me be clear about 559 00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:28,160 Speaker 1: stuff y'all see about me posting. I don't, I don't. 560 00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:31,040 Speaker 1: I don't really know how to do this, be honest 561 00:35:31,080 --> 00:35:38,560 Speaker 1: with you. So people, okay, one, that's when you know 562 00:35:38,640 --> 00:35:41,680 Speaker 1: you ever were right there? You better be rich, you 563 00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:50,120 Speaker 1: better be famous. That was like six posts ago. When 564 00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:56,799 Speaker 1: did he put you? I don't even dog do? But again, 565 00:35:57,440 --> 00:36:00,239 Speaker 1: where they get that, I'm tripped where they get it from? 566 00:36:03,239 --> 00:36:06,040 Speaker 1: All right, look, I we'll be back with more of 567 00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:08,839 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show at twenty minutes after the hour. 568 00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:12,839 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. 569 00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:16,480 Speaker 1: All right, So Steve Ti is trending for being booed 570 00:36:16,600 --> 00:36:20,279 Speaker 1: during his comedy set at the Barclay Center, and he 571 00:36:20,400 --> 00:36:23,480 Speaker 1: went live with Michael Blackson saying that he liked being booed. 572 00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:27,400 Speaker 1: Take a listen. I loved it. I didn't feel like 573 00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:30,000 Speaker 1: they were boring me. I feelt like they were boring 574 00:36:30,080 --> 00:36:32,160 Speaker 1: me as like, yeah, you to be more fun. I 575 00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:34,719 Speaker 1: dare you. I dare you to overcome this. I dare 576 00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:37,759 Speaker 1: you you better? And I feel like, yeah, what they 577 00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:41,080 Speaker 1: challenged me to do? What I did? I loved it. Okay, 578 00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:48,800 Speaker 1: you comedians on this show. No, no, you're don't very difficult. 579 00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:54,040 Speaker 1: They told me, no, you don't know, you don't, because 580 00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:57,879 Speaker 1: who the hell love being boomed? And then I didn't 581 00:36:57,920 --> 00:37:01,239 Speaker 1: feel like they were booing me. Who who you think 582 00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:05,200 Speaker 1: theyre boing? I think they was challenging, need to do better. 583 00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:07,879 Speaker 1: That's what the boo in this fault. We don't bought 584 00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:10,480 Speaker 1: our tickets. You said you was funny, now we're waiting 585 00:37:10,520 --> 00:37:14,000 Speaker 1: on it. It's just that he's he's learning this very 586 00:37:14,160 --> 00:37:18,719 Speaker 1: very difficult craft in large arenas because he has a 587 00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:22,880 Speaker 1: name going in so he's on shows that's that that's 588 00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:25,640 Speaker 1: got to sell out capacity written all over for whatever 589 00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:28,359 Speaker 1: the reason whether he's with the other bigger name comedians, 590 00:37:28,960 --> 00:37:30,759 Speaker 1: well all of them got a bigger name than him 591 00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:33,960 Speaker 1: in comedy, but he's got a huge name as a 592 00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:39,600 Speaker 1: star in hip hop. But that serves you nothing. Maybe 593 00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:43,640 Speaker 1: maybe you should wrap and then maybe try to drop 594 00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:47,360 Speaker 1: a joke in between a couple of songs. I'm just traveling. 595 00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:52,680 Speaker 1: I'm telling me this, let's just stop. Let's yeah. What 596 00:37:52,920 --> 00:37:56,040 Speaker 1: you say, Junior, They told me get your ass off 597 00:37:56,120 --> 00:38:06,400 Speaker 1: steaks I was doing. I was, I saw the tape. 598 00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:10,160 Speaker 1: You learned this craft in the grunt rooms. You got 599 00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:12,640 Speaker 1: to get up in front of them audiences, man, and 600 00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:16,960 Speaker 1: your first fifteen tries can't be at the Barclay. Sorry, 601 00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:20,280 Speaker 1: because you're gonna come out there, man, because here's a problem. 602 00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:23,520 Speaker 1: In order to be successful, you're gonna have to learn 603 00:38:23,640 --> 00:38:26,719 Speaker 1: how to produce house laughs. House laughs is when eighty 604 00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:29,239 Speaker 1: five percent of the room is laughing at a particular joke. 605 00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:32,600 Speaker 1: That's how you earn a living. If you're not producing 606 00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:35,800 Speaker 1: an occasional house laugh, you can't stay on this stage. 607 00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:38,560 Speaker 1: Now you're in the room. Let's say you're at the Barclays, 608 00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:41,920 Speaker 1: and the Barclays is five thousand people. You've told a 609 00:38:42,080 --> 00:38:45,440 Speaker 1: joke that a thousand people laugh at. Man, do you 610 00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:49,320 Speaker 1: know how many people that is ain't laughing? So, now, homie, 611 00:38:49,560 --> 00:38:51,640 Speaker 1: you got a problem because you're trying to dig yourself 612 00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:53,640 Speaker 1: out of a hole in front of these four thousands 613 00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:56,280 Speaker 1: who was starting to get the feeling that you ain't funny. 614 00:38:57,520 --> 00:39:00,920 Speaker 1: And what's less was I saw the ki told about 615 00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:04,439 Speaker 1: going into this high end gas station and how women 616 00:39:04,520 --> 00:39:07,279 Speaker 1: need to use a battle. I saw that joke, and 617 00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:10,759 Speaker 1: that joke didn't get five hundred people, lad Like, I said, 618 00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:13,000 Speaker 1: this ain't the craft you can learn on the fly 619 00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:17,160 Speaker 1: in front of big houses. All right, Well, moving on, 620 00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:20,120 Speaker 1: coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour, we're 621 00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:26,040 Speaker 1: gonna check steve voicemail. Right after this. You're listening Steve 622 00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:31,160 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, it's time to check Steve's voicemail. 623 00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:33,600 Speaker 1: If you want to leave a voice message for Steve, 624 00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:36,640 Speaker 1: call him at eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve eight 625 00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:39,960 Speaker 1: seven seven twenty nine. Steve, and Steve, you're ready for 626 00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:44,520 Speaker 1: your messages? Yep, here we go. This one's from Porsche. 627 00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:48,920 Speaker 1: She is a message for the dating community. Okay, R 628 00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:53,480 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. My name is Porsche Ship and I am 629 00:39:53,680 --> 00:39:58,840 Speaker 1: trying to push people to stop having six before marriage, 630 00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:02,239 Speaker 1: and I just want to to get my message out, um, 631 00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:06,520 Speaker 1: just to encourage people to stop having sex before marriage. 632 00:40:07,040 --> 00:40:11,040 Speaker 1: Just start dating without the sex. Just get to know 633 00:40:11,160 --> 00:40:13,920 Speaker 1: each other. And that's my message. And I would like 634 00:40:14,040 --> 00:40:16,440 Speaker 1: to put it on the radio if I can so 635 00:40:17,040 --> 00:40:20,440 Speaker 1: with your help, I would appreciate it. Thank you, bye, 636 00:40:21,520 --> 00:40:27,320 Speaker 1: what appreciate your calling. You know, I'll definitely let you 637 00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:30,080 Speaker 1: come on the show if you contact us. I want 638 00:40:30,120 --> 00:40:32,520 Speaker 1: to hear it. Um. I want to say good luck 639 00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:35,160 Speaker 1: to you. All I was trying to do is just 640 00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:37,640 Speaker 1: to get them to not have sex for ninety days. 641 00:40:37,760 --> 00:40:45,520 Speaker 1: I tried that rule. I just I at least came 642 00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:48,239 Speaker 1: up with a probation period in ninety days. That was 643 00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:53,600 Speaker 1: a hard selling nat Right, you got much that I got. 644 00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:59,080 Speaker 1: I got fought Act of Congress trying to get the 645 00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:02,799 Speaker 1: ninety days is passed. And so good luck to your 646 00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:04,759 Speaker 1: poor shit. You know you want to push it in 647 00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:09,600 Speaker 1: all this hit. Just wait, that's good. Next question campaign, 648 00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:13,600 Speaker 1: it's not gonna you can put that right up there 649 00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:18,960 Speaker 1: with the no cussing thing. They try to messages from 650 00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:23,680 Speaker 1: Gerald from Texas. Hello, missus Steves, this is Gerald or 651 00:41:23,719 --> 00:41:27,120 Speaker 1: from Texas. Man, I listened to you every morning, your messages. 652 00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:29,800 Speaker 1: You have a lot of positive messages, man, and a 653 00:41:29,920 --> 00:41:32,760 Speaker 1: lot of them have touched me. But this one this morning, 654 00:41:33,280 --> 00:41:37,040 Speaker 1: planning to see and not expecting anything from it, just 655 00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:39,000 Speaker 1: wait to see what a growth from it. Man, that's 656 00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:42,439 Speaker 1: a strong missage because, like you say, looking for something 657 00:41:42,480 --> 00:41:45,040 Speaker 1: to return immediately, you don't know what God might have 658 00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:47,759 Speaker 1: a sword for you. I love that message. Man, keep 659 00:41:47,800 --> 00:41:50,600 Speaker 1: on doing what you're doing. Everybody's the show. I love 660 00:41:50,680 --> 00:41:53,040 Speaker 1: what y'all do. Man, God bless you up. Have a 661 00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:57,080 Speaker 1: good day, all right, Joe. I appreciate that. That's true statement. 662 00:41:57,120 --> 00:41:59,600 Speaker 1: I like that one too. I look at my life 663 00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:03,680 Speaker 1: and I look at how many seeds I planted years ago. Now, 664 00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:05,960 Speaker 1: I just, you know, tend to every nine inn by 665 00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:09,920 Speaker 1: water and fertilize them, remaining positive, prayerful, you know, in 666 00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:12,279 Speaker 1: hopes of you know, doing the good wheel and all 667 00:42:12,360 --> 00:42:14,479 Speaker 1: like that. And I can't tell you how much stuff 668 00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:17,160 Speaker 1: is coming up to out the ground later on from it. 669 00:42:17,880 --> 00:42:19,799 Speaker 1: It's just but you got to be willing to plant 670 00:42:19,880 --> 00:42:22,239 Speaker 1: the seeds and do the right things and move on 671 00:42:23,520 --> 00:42:25,080 Speaker 1: and just tend to it. And the way you tend 672 00:42:25,160 --> 00:42:29,000 Speaker 1: to seeds. You planned to stay positive. You know, make contact. 673 00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:30,920 Speaker 1: You don't check it on people every nine in the 674 00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:33,759 Speaker 1: email call them, Hey, just checking with you. Man, We're 675 00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:37,840 Speaker 1: still good. All right, you never know. I like that. Next, Shirley, 676 00:42:38,280 --> 00:42:41,719 Speaker 1: all right, let's go to Corey. Oh, Corey, Hey, see 677 00:42:41,840 --> 00:42:43,880 Speaker 1: this is a sport. I just want to let you know. 678 00:42:44,120 --> 00:42:47,800 Speaker 1: I used to not listen to your inspirational messages in 679 00:42:47,880 --> 00:42:50,160 Speaker 1: the morning. I used to skip right past them because 680 00:42:50,160 --> 00:42:53,399 Speaker 1: I listened to them on the podcast. But this past week, 681 00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:56,560 Speaker 1: for whatever reason, man, I started listening to And I've 682 00:42:56,600 --> 00:43:01,000 Speaker 1: been going through a lot of things, man, our break, homelessness, yeah, 683 00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:05,480 Speaker 1: and a bunch of other things, man, divorce. So I 684 00:43:05,600 --> 00:43:09,000 Speaker 1: started listening to these messages for whatever reason this week, man, 685 00:43:09,160 --> 00:43:12,680 Speaker 1: and everything you said I just made a positive effect 686 00:43:12,760 --> 00:43:15,520 Speaker 1: on me. Man. And now every day I wake up 687 00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:19,160 Speaker 1: and I'm happy because I got a chance to do 688 00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:22,279 Speaker 1: things right today. Every morning that guy gets So I 689 00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:24,120 Speaker 1: want to thank you, man, and I'm gonna continue to 690 00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:27,719 Speaker 1: listen to your inspirational messages in the morning as long 691 00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:33,160 Speaker 1: as you continue to save them. Thank you, Steve well Gerald. 692 00:43:33,200 --> 00:43:34,960 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you that what all you have to 693 00:43:35,040 --> 00:43:38,240 Speaker 1: give a core and you have to give all that credit. 694 00:43:38,320 --> 00:43:41,719 Speaker 1: I have to give all that credit to God. That's 695 00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:45,719 Speaker 1: not me, that's just me allowing him to use me. 696 00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:51,040 Speaker 1: I'm a good person, but I ain't, you know, not 697 00:43:51,239 --> 00:43:54,439 Speaker 1: to that degree. I try to live a good life, 698 00:43:54,520 --> 00:43:57,440 Speaker 1: but I'm flawed myself. Man. And when you say you 699 00:43:57,600 --> 00:44:02,560 Speaker 1: was heartbroken home listening wars, I've been there, done that, 700 00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:06,360 Speaker 1: and God delivered me. So God is in the delivery business. 701 00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:11,279 Speaker 1: Believe and thank you. Man. All right, all right, call 702 00:44:11,760 --> 00:44:14,920 Speaker 1: leave Steve a message at eight seven seven twenty nine. 703 00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:18,080 Speaker 1: Steed coming up next. The nephew is here with today's 704 00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:22,440 Speaker 1: prank phone call. Right after this, you're listening to Harvey 705 00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:26,239 Speaker 1: Morning Show. Coming up at the top of the hour, 706 00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:29,400 Speaker 1: right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today, 707 00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:32,560 Speaker 1: and the subject is what's the rush. We'll get into 708 00:44:32,680 --> 00:44:34,759 Speaker 1: that in a bid, but right now it is time 709 00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:37,320 Speaker 1: for the nephew with today's prying phone call. What you 710 00:44:37,400 --> 00:44:41,120 Speaker 1: got for us, nap. I think we're gonna turn somebody's 711 00:44:41,239 --> 00:44:44,720 Speaker 1: lights off today, Charley. That's what we're gonna do today 712 00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:49,400 Speaker 1: is about to turn your lights off, about to turn 713 00:44:49,719 --> 00:44:53,160 Speaker 1: your lights off? Let's go cut off. Hello, Hello, I'm 714 00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:56,000 Speaker 1: trying to find Gerard. Please get us now, Hey, Gerard, 715 00:44:56,040 --> 00:44:59,200 Speaker 1: how are you doing? This is Mason Man. I'm the 716 00:44:59,239 --> 00:45:01,120 Speaker 1: guy that turns a lights on and off if you 717 00:45:01,160 --> 00:45:03,680 Speaker 1: haven't paid your bill, and I'm over here at your house. 718 00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:06,279 Speaker 1: I'm actually get ready to turn the lights off. But 719 00:45:06,320 --> 00:45:08,840 Speaker 1: I'm trying to. Uh, it's a courtesy car. We're supposed 720 00:45:08,840 --> 00:45:10,840 Speaker 1: to give if people can pay their bill before we 721 00:45:11,040 --> 00:45:13,280 Speaker 1: turn them off, and we collect and we keep moving. 722 00:45:13,800 --> 00:45:16,160 Speaker 1: You say, who you? Who are you again? I'm making 723 00:45:16,640 --> 00:45:20,000 Speaker 1: exactly what. I'm getting ready to turn the lights off 724 00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:22,200 Speaker 1: because the bill hasn't been paid. I'm getting ready to 725 00:45:22,200 --> 00:45:25,640 Speaker 1: turn the power off. Are you here at the house? No, 726 00:45:25,760 --> 00:45:28,600 Speaker 1: I'm at work. Okay, Well, listen, is there anyone at 727 00:45:28,640 --> 00:45:30,760 Speaker 1: the house that can make a payment? Make a payment? 728 00:45:30,840 --> 00:45:33,120 Speaker 1: The payment right now that I have is two hundred 729 00:45:33,120 --> 00:45:36,000 Speaker 1: and twenty one dollars and thirty six cents. Is that right? For? What? 730 00:45:36,840 --> 00:45:39,320 Speaker 1: For the electric bill? Yes? Sir? No, no, sir, no, 731 00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:41,120 Speaker 1: sir no, no, there's nobody at the house, and I 732 00:45:41,160 --> 00:45:43,000 Speaker 1: don't think I owe that much. Well, that's what I 733 00:45:43,120 --> 00:45:45,360 Speaker 1: have right now. It's two hundred and twenty one dollars 734 00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:48,480 Speaker 1: and thirty six cents. See my wife, she already paid 735 00:45:48,600 --> 00:45:51,000 Speaker 1: that sick. Okay, well they don't have a record of that. 736 00:45:51,719 --> 00:45:53,800 Speaker 1: I'm in your driveway right now. I'm getting ready to 737 00:45:53,840 --> 00:45:55,960 Speaker 1: turn this thing off until the payment has been made. 738 00:45:56,040 --> 00:45:58,680 Speaker 1: We'll see that nobody own right now? Okay, Well, if 739 00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:00,520 Speaker 1: no one is here, then I have to follow through 740 00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:03,440 Speaker 1: and continue and go ahead, and and and and turn 741 00:46:03,520 --> 00:46:06,840 Speaker 1: the power off until everything is rectified. Oh oh, you 742 00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:09,040 Speaker 1: and my driveway, I mean you're driveway, sir? Is there 743 00:46:09,120 --> 00:46:11,680 Speaker 1: anyone here? Or how far are you from here? I'm 744 00:46:11,719 --> 00:46:13,600 Speaker 1: at work. I can't get off right now, but you 745 00:46:13,800 --> 00:46:15,960 Speaker 1: gotta get out my driveway. No, no, sir, I'm not 746 00:46:16,000 --> 00:46:17,840 Speaker 1: gonna be able to leave your driveway until I actually 747 00:46:17,920 --> 00:46:20,920 Speaker 1: turned the power off. Can't turn my power off. I 748 00:46:20,960 --> 00:46:23,560 Speaker 1: got food in the frisgerator to my kids, got fished 749 00:46:23,719 --> 00:46:26,200 Speaker 1: and you know, come home man. Well, what do you 750 00:46:26,239 --> 00:46:28,040 Speaker 1: mean you got fished? What does that mean? I can 751 00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:29,799 Speaker 1: be there in thirty minutes, give you the cash right now? 752 00:46:30,280 --> 00:46:32,040 Speaker 1: What what what do you mean when you say you 753 00:46:32,160 --> 00:46:35,320 Speaker 1: got fish? This fish tank? Oh? Fish tank? You have 754 00:46:35,400 --> 00:46:40,200 Speaker 1: a fish tank? Okay, well, sir, I understand that, but uh, 755 00:46:40,960 --> 00:46:42,759 Speaker 1: I'll be there in thirty minute you stay right there, 756 00:46:42,840 --> 00:46:45,920 Speaker 1: don't touch nothing. Okay, So I can't. I can't be 757 00:46:46,040 --> 00:46:48,600 Speaker 1: here thirty minutes. I can't wait that long. Thirty minutes. 758 00:46:48,600 --> 00:46:50,400 Speaker 1: I'll be there with cash and I'll pay you with 759 00:46:50,520 --> 00:46:53,160 Speaker 1: a two hundred. What we don't we don't accept cash, sir. 760 00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:55,080 Speaker 1: We're gonna need a money or I'll have time to go. 761 00:46:55,680 --> 00:46:58,759 Speaker 1: I'll be there with the cash thirty minute. I can't tank. 762 00:46:58,840 --> 00:47:00,960 Speaker 1: Can Are you listening to me? Are you listening to me? 763 00:47:01,200 --> 00:47:04,200 Speaker 1: I'm listening to you. I can't take cash. I need 764 00:47:04,280 --> 00:47:06,960 Speaker 1: a money order. I'll beat as thirty minutes. Okay, sir, 765 00:47:07,080 --> 00:47:08,920 Speaker 1: I have to cut. I have to turn your power 766 00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:11,720 Speaker 1: off if you're not here. I give everybody ten minutes, 767 00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:14,200 Speaker 1: ten minutes where they can pay it or we can 768 00:47:14,239 --> 00:47:16,640 Speaker 1: actually turn it off. Now, you tell me what you 769 00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:19,080 Speaker 1: want me to do. I'ma call my wife real quick, ir, 770 00:47:19,400 --> 00:47:21,480 Speaker 1: real quick. So I don't have time to call you. 771 00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:23,680 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't have time for that. First of all, sir, 772 00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:26,040 Speaker 1: I'll get me upset. I'll wight the mess up bills, okay. 773 00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:29,560 Speaker 1: First of all, okay, okay, if she doesn't mess up bills, 774 00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:31,279 Speaker 1: then what the hell is going on? I don't know 775 00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:35,080 Speaker 1: I'm a call hunt real quick straight okay, okay, well sir, 776 00:47:35,200 --> 00:47:37,480 Speaker 1: I don't have a real quick tide. What we have 777 00:47:37,560 --> 00:47:38,840 Speaker 1: to do right now is I have to do this. 778 00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:40,800 Speaker 1: I have to do to turn your power off. You 779 00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:43,399 Speaker 1: get it turned off now. Listen. I can come back 780 00:47:43,440 --> 00:47:45,480 Speaker 1: and turn this thing right back on next week. It'll 781 00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:49,759 Speaker 1: be one hundred and fifty dollars him reconnect. First of all, 782 00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:51,560 Speaker 1: you get need to get the out of my yard. 783 00:47:51,719 --> 00:47:55,040 Speaker 1: First of all. So I call y'all turn I'm here 784 00:47:55,160 --> 00:47:57,200 Speaker 1: because I'm supposed to be here. I'm here because you 785 00:47:57,239 --> 00:47:59,480 Speaker 1: haven't paid I'm crazy. I'm gonna call my wife to 786 00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:02,160 Speaker 1: look at this. Think right now. I'm here because you 787 00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:05,040 Speaker 1: haven't paid your bill. I paid my bill. My wife 788 00:48:05,120 --> 00:48:06,800 Speaker 1: paid my bill. Well, how do you even know she 789 00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:09,120 Speaker 1: paid it? Because you don't know what damn you don't 790 00:48:09,160 --> 00:48:13,160 Speaker 1: know anything. Hold up, sir, Trust me, my wife paid 791 00:48:13,200 --> 00:48:16,239 Speaker 1: the bill. It's my stick in your system. Get out 792 00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:20,400 Speaker 1: of my yard. Now. Are you in Avenue? Yeah, that's correct, 793 00:48:20,440 --> 00:48:22,440 Speaker 1: but I'm in I'm in there that I'm in the 794 00:48:22,560 --> 00:48:25,120 Speaker 1: right place, sir, And you haven't plaid your bill, and 795 00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:27,120 Speaker 1: I've been ordered to turn it off. I'll tell you 796 00:48:27,200 --> 00:48:28,680 Speaker 1: what tell you? What tell her I'm gonna do. I'm 797 00:48:28,680 --> 00:48:32,080 Speaker 1: gonna be there thirty minutes. I've I'm not gonna be 798 00:48:32,239 --> 00:48:34,839 Speaker 1: in thirty minutes. Okay, you about you? Are you listening? 799 00:48:34,880 --> 00:48:37,040 Speaker 1: I'm turning this off in the next five minutes. Not 800 00:48:37,239 --> 00:48:41,040 Speaker 1: touch my wife paid the bill, leave my lesson, My 801 00:48:41,239 --> 00:48:43,800 Speaker 1: wife hasn't paid the bill. Now, maybe your wife is 802 00:48:43,840 --> 00:48:47,640 Speaker 1: out lallygagging doing something else. Who whoo whoo hoo hole. 803 00:48:47,719 --> 00:48:50,000 Speaker 1: First of all, you keep keep out of it, all right, Okay, 804 00:48:50,080 --> 00:48:51,960 Speaker 1: you don't want that brought her in. I doesn't want 805 00:48:52,000 --> 00:48:53,719 Speaker 1: to keep telling me what she has done, what she 806 00:48:53,800 --> 00:48:56,640 Speaker 1: has done? Lesson, listen, keep my hey, That's why I 807 00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:59,080 Speaker 1: draw the line. I'll be there in thirty minutes. Me 808 00:48:59,120 --> 00:49:01,279 Speaker 1: and you could talk. We're not gonna continue to go 809 00:49:01,360 --> 00:49:03,800 Speaker 1: back and forth with you, sir. I don't have thirty minutes. 810 00:49:04,239 --> 00:49:06,799 Speaker 1: I got ten minutes. You understand me. I gotta I'm 811 00:49:06,840 --> 00:49:10,040 Speaker 1: gonna leave right now. I'm gonna getting the call right now. Okay, 812 00:49:10,160 --> 00:49:12,840 Speaker 1: I'll be that thirty minutes, So I don't have thirty minutes. 813 00:49:12,840 --> 00:49:15,600 Speaker 1: I'm turning it off. You can call downtown and get 814 00:49:15,719 --> 00:49:18,080 Speaker 1: our headquarters to turn it back on and we'll come 815 00:49:18,120 --> 00:49:20,120 Speaker 1: back out here, and it's a reconnect it for a 816 00:49:20,200 --> 00:49:22,720 Speaker 1: hundred and fifty dollars, so I come up with three hundred. 817 00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:25,720 Speaker 1: Oh hell, your bill is two hundred and something dollars, 818 00:49:25,760 --> 00:49:27,839 Speaker 1: and that's gonna be one hundred and fifty dollars reconnecting. 819 00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:32,960 Speaker 1: No hero, No, hey, I'll be had at ten minutes. 820 00:49:33,239 --> 00:49:37,160 Speaker 1: Just okay, Well, sir, and I've told you before, you 821 00:49:37,320 --> 00:49:40,640 Speaker 1: have five minutes to get here. No, listen, listen, listen. 822 00:49:40,760 --> 00:49:42,360 Speaker 1: Let me call my neighbor real quick. Oh hold, let 823 00:49:42,400 --> 00:49:44,279 Speaker 1: me call hold up, let me call. I don't have 824 00:49:44,400 --> 00:49:46,799 Speaker 1: time for you to click over and call other people. Sir. 825 00:49:47,239 --> 00:49:49,759 Speaker 1: Is there somebody that can give me a money order? 826 00:49:49,960 --> 00:49:52,520 Speaker 1: Right now? Yeah? Yeah, right now? Get your money order 827 00:49:52,800 --> 00:49:55,680 Speaker 1: in five minutes. Okay, Now, who's gonna do that? I 828 00:49:55,719 --> 00:49:58,200 Speaker 1: don't know. I call my wife. I told you your 829 00:49:58,239 --> 00:50:00,480 Speaker 1: wife is the reason why you're in the city to waste. 830 00:50:00,640 --> 00:50:03,520 Speaker 1: I'm gonna report you to your SUPERVI. Are you gonna 831 00:50:03,560 --> 00:50:06,200 Speaker 1: whatever mean what? I'm out doing my job. You should 832 00:50:06,239 --> 00:50:09,000 Speaker 1: report your wife for not doing what she's supposed I'm 833 00:50:09,000 --> 00:50:12,239 Speaker 1: gonna do. Let's tell what you say. If do you 834 00:50:12,320 --> 00:50:14,759 Speaker 1: want your lights on off when you get here? I 835 00:50:14,880 --> 00:50:18,719 Speaker 1: want my lights. Your lights are getting turned off in 836 00:50:18,760 --> 00:50:21,080 Speaker 1: the next two minutes because your wife didn't play the 837 00:50:21,200 --> 00:50:24,399 Speaker 1: damn bill. I don'na tell you, excuse me, I gonna 838 00:50:24,400 --> 00:50:28,560 Speaker 1: tell you. Listen heat my wife's name house your mouth. 839 00:50:31,520 --> 00:50:33,560 Speaker 1: I'll tell you what you know what my supervisor would 840 00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:36,239 Speaker 1: tell you. I don't know what your supervisor, but tell 841 00:50:36,320 --> 00:50:39,400 Speaker 1: me know you that you have been talking to nephew 842 00:50:39,520 --> 00:50:42,360 Speaker 1: Tommy from the sea, Hobby more this show. You just 843 00:50:42,719 --> 00:50:49,680 Speaker 1: got bright man, I was. I was on my wedding. 844 00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:53,640 Speaker 1: Your co worker got Joseph. You got you. I'm gonna 845 00:50:53,719 --> 00:50:59,839 Speaker 1: get into don't just no more that man you had me. Hey, 846 00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:01,440 Speaker 1: I got one more thing to ask you. Man, what 847 00:51:01,719 --> 00:51:06,040 Speaker 1: is the baddest radio show in the land? Come on, man, 848 00:51:06,160 --> 00:51:15,960 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morton Show, Come on, come on. He did 849 00:51:16,040 --> 00:51:20,160 Speaker 1: a Will Smith keep my wife's name mouth show. That's 850 00:51:20,200 --> 00:51:23,200 Speaker 1: what he said. He didn't say that I didn't get 851 00:51:23,280 --> 00:51:28,080 Speaker 1: slapped though I ain't get slapped though you know well 852 00:51:28,200 --> 00:51:30,480 Speaker 1: I was slapt in independence day out of wheel. If 853 00:51:30,520 --> 00:51:34,640 Speaker 1: he called himself running, I'm just saying I'm sorry I 854 00:51:34,719 --> 00:51:40,400 Speaker 1: got carried away. And there it is. There you have it. 855 00:51:41,000 --> 00:51:44,520 Speaker 1: Let me thank Charlotte North Carolina again for coming out 856 00:51:44,600 --> 00:51:47,720 Speaker 1: hanging out with your boy five shows Soul Out in Charlotte, 857 00:51:47,719 --> 00:51:49,880 Speaker 1: North Carolina. I thank you, I thank y'all. Thank you. 858 00:51:50,200 --> 00:51:53,359 Speaker 1: Did I do it? Yes? Did did I do it? Charlotte? Yes? 859 00:51:53,520 --> 00:51:57,280 Speaker 1: I did, Yes, I did. Ignorance at its best? Wasn't 860 00:51:57,680 --> 00:52:00,319 Speaker 1: thank you? So catt? All right, see your next time. 861 00:52:00,560 --> 00:52:04,759 Speaker 1: What's laying at? What's on my list? Next? What's on 862 00:52:04,880 --> 00:52:07,480 Speaker 1: your list? Yeah? You know I have a list. I 863 00:52:08,160 --> 00:52:11,360 Speaker 1: gotta go to work. Ready to love is back in 864 00:52:11,800 --> 00:52:16,120 Speaker 1: stride again. I know when it is Columbia, South Carolina, July, 865 00:52:16,320 --> 00:52:20,359 Speaker 1: first Township Auditorium. That's exactly when it is Friday, July, 866 00:52:20,600 --> 00:52:26,319 Speaker 1: first Township Auditorium, Columbia, South Carolina. Until then I will 867 00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:29,440 Speaker 1: lay dormant with my stupid and then I'll rise again 868 00:52:30,000 --> 00:52:40,520 Speaker 1: stupid at his best. Yeah, dormant, Yes, I can lay. 869 00:52:40,560 --> 00:52:48,680 Speaker 1: I can quiet my stupid. I can do that. Push 870 00:52:49,120 --> 00:52:54,239 Speaker 1: put some mush on my stupid. Man yourself, how Queen 871 00:52:57,600 --> 00:53:00,239 Speaker 1: Queen City was good? Sold me mad love came out 872 00:53:00,280 --> 00:53:03,480 Speaker 1: to see your boy, and uh I gave it to him, man, 873 00:53:03,600 --> 00:53:07,160 Speaker 1: I gave it all to him. Queen's City, Yes, Charlotte, 874 00:53:08,120 --> 00:53:11,319 Speaker 1: standing ovations in them shows. That nephew is cold. Y'all 875 00:53:11,320 --> 00:53:14,200 Speaker 1: got to come see him. The nephew is cole t. 876 00:53:14,400 --> 00:53:20,680 Speaker 1: I come hang out with me. I give you ten 877 00:53:21,280 --> 00:53:23,279 Speaker 1: I give you ten minutes and eat comedy club. Baby, 878 00:53:23,600 --> 00:53:27,080 Speaker 1: show you, I can show you something. Come home, all right, 879 00:53:27,200 --> 00:53:30,240 Speaker 1: nephew coming up next. It is a straw barried letter. 880 00:53:30,400 --> 00:53:35,879 Speaker 1: The subject is what's the rush? What's the rush? We'll 881 00:53:35,920 --> 00:53:39,800 Speaker 1: get into that right after this. You're listening to Steve 882 00:53:39,960 --> 00:53:44,879 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show all right time now for today's Strawberry Letter. 883 00:53:44,920 --> 00:53:48,320 Speaker 1: And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, 884 00:53:48,480 --> 00:53:51,640 Speaker 1: parenting and more. Please submit your strawberry letter to Steve 885 00:53:51,719 --> 00:53:55,680 Speaker 1: HARVEYFM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could 886 00:53:55,760 --> 00:53:58,520 Speaker 1: be reading your letter live on the air, just like 887 00:53:58,600 --> 00:54:00,840 Speaker 1: we're gonna read this one right here, right now. It 888 00:54:00,920 --> 00:54:03,960 Speaker 1: could be yours. You never know, you never know. Buckle 889 00:54:04,040 --> 00:54:06,399 Speaker 1: up and hold on tight. We got it. Fight you here. 890 00:54:06,480 --> 00:54:12,640 Speaker 1: It is strawberryletta subject what's the rush? Dear Stephen Shirley. 891 00:54:13,239 --> 00:54:15,640 Speaker 1: I've been with the same man for eleven years and 892 00:54:15,760 --> 00:54:18,799 Speaker 1: he asked me to marry him four years ago. Now, 893 00:54:18,920 --> 00:54:21,160 Speaker 1: all of a sudden, he wants to set a wedding 894 00:54:21,280 --> 00:54:24,319 Speaker 1: date but I do not want to. I met him 895 00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:26,560 Speaker 1: in college, and I thought we were destined to have 896 00:54:26,680 --> 00:54:29,840 Speaker 1: a great love story. I was twenty and he was 897 00:54:29,960 --> 00:54:34,080 Speaker 1: twenty two, and our chemistry was amazing. When I was 898 00:54:34,160 --> 00:54:37,040 Speaker 1: twenty two, I got pregnant and we moved in together. 899 00:54:37,440 --> 00:54:40,200 Speaker 1: I got a job while he got his master's degree, 900 00:54:40,600 --> 00:54:43,880 Speaker 1: and he told me soon as he finished his degree 901 00:54:44,320 --> 00:54:46,960 Speaker 1: he was going to make me his wife. On his 902 00:54:47,080 --> 00:54:51,680 Speaker 1: graduation night, I got pregnant again. He got a really 903 00:54:51,760 --> 00:54:54,920 Speaker 1: good job, and I started teaching school. I fell in 904 00:54:55,000 --> 00:54:57,800 Speaker 1: love with my job and raising our children, so I 905 00:54:57,920 --> 00:55:00,719 Speaker 1: didn't really realize that I was playing house and this 906 00:55:00,960 --> 00:55:03,880 Speaker 1: man did not plan to marry me. I want to 907 00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:05,919 Speaker 1: stay with my mother for a while so I could 908 00:55:05,960 --> 00:55:08,919 Speaker 1: clear my head. He begged me to come back home, 909 00:55:09,080 --> 00:55:12,440 Speaker 1: and he promised that he was about to propose. Years 910 00:55:12,520 --> 00:55:16,440 Speaker 1: passed by and he didn't. His father overheard us bussing 911 00:55:16,520 --> 00:55:19,560 Speaker 1: one day, and he advised his son to either marry 912 00:55:19,640 --> 00:55:23,080 Speaker 1: me or let me go. A few weeks later, he 913 00:55:23,280 --> 00:55:26,359 Speaker 1: asked me to be his wife. That was four years ago, 914 00:55:26,719 --> 00:55:29,279 Speaker 1: and I was ready to do it right then he 915 00:55:29,520 --> 00:55:33,840 Speaker 1: kept stalling and asking me, what's the rush eye and 916 00:55:34,040 --> 00:55:37,920 Speaker 1: moved past it now for the marriage, and I don't 917 00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:41,080 Speaker 1: want him anymore. I don't even wear my ring and 918 00:55:41,280 --> 00:55:44,640 Speaker 1: he hasn't noticed. He invited my mother over last weekend 919 00:55:44,719 --> 00:55:47,440 Speaker 1: to talk about wedding dates and I was checked out 920 00:55:47,480 --> 00:55:51,000 Speaker 1: of the conversation. When my mother left, I asked him, 921 00:55:51,400 --> 00:55:54,680 Speaker 1: what's the rush? He hasn't spoken to me in over 922 00:55:54,760 --> 00:55:57,640 Speaker 1: a week because of my attitude? How can I not 923 00:55:57,800 --> 00:56:00,640 Speaker 1: be allowed to have an attitude? Should I give the 924 00:56:00,760 --> 00:56:03,120 Speaker 1: ring back or move on? Or should I marry an 925 00:56:03,200 --> 00:56:06,360 Speaker 1: old friend and maybe dad that I don't love anymore? 926 00:56:07,840 --> 00:56:10,600 Speaker 1: Please don't do that if that's the truth. I mean, 927 00:56:10,760 --> 00:56:13,960 Speaker 1: why would you marry someone that you don't love anymore? 928 00:56:15,040 --> 00:56:17,560 Speaker 1: That makes about as much sense as him walking around 929 00:56:17,719 --> 00:56:20,480 Speaker 1: for more than a week not talking to you because 930 00:56:20,560 --> 00:56:24,400 Speaker 1: you said to him, what's the rush? The man is 931 00:56:24,400 --> 00:56:27,800 Speaker 1: too him mature for you. I think you have to 932 00:56:27,960 --> 00:56:30,080 Speaker 1: let him, you know. I kind of blame it on 933 00:56:30,160 --> 00:56:32,840 Speaker 1: you a little bit, because you've let him get away 934 00:56:33,000 --> 00:56:36,080 Speaker 1: with too much stuff in this relationship. He's not kept 935 00:56:36,160 --> 00:56:39,719 Speaker 1: his word on anything. And where does he think you 936 00:56:39,960 --> 00:56:42,839 Speaker 1: got what's the rush? From? You got it from him? 937 00:56:42,920 --> 00:56:45,400 Speaker 1: He said it to you first, I mean to the 938 00:56:45,520 --> 00:56:48,720 Speaker 1: real red flag and it's a glimpse into what marriage 939 00:56:49,440 --> 00:56:51,719 Speaker 1: might be like with this man. I mean, this entire 940 00:56:51,840 --> 00:56:55,200 Speaker 1: letter is about your lives together. Since you were twenty 941 00:56:55,239 --> 00:56:58,759 Speaker 1: and twenty two years old, the main thing you wanted 942 00:56:58,920 --> 00:57:01,200 Speaker 1: was to marry this man. He kept putting it off 943 00:57:01,320 --> 00:57:05,040 Speaker 1: because there was no incentive to marry you. You already 944 00:57:05,080 --> 00:57:08,520 Speaker 1: had the babies early on, you were living together. He 945 00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:11,600 Speaker 1: had what he wanted right there, without the benefit of marriage. 946 00:57:11,640 --> 00:57:14,880 Speaker 1: And now he sees you've changed, so he's trying to 947 00:57:14,960 --> 00:57:18,320 Speaker 1: step up, but it's too late. You're over it. You say, 948 00:57:18,400 --> 00:57:20,960 Speaker 1: it's at least the marriage part. I mean. The sad 949 00:57:21,040 --> 00:57:24,120 Speaker 1: thing is you guys do have two children, so you 950 00:57:24,240 --> 00:57:27,080 Speaker 1: have to talk to each other. You gotta communicate. I mean, 951 00:57:27,160 --> 00:57:30,040 Speaker 1: I think this fairy tale you have, of this great 952 00:57:30,160 --> 00:57:33,160 Speaker 1: love story you want it, I think that's over. The 953 00:57:33,280 --> 00:57:37,919 Speaker 1: reality is eleven years later, you're miserable, you're ready to walk, 954 00:57:38,040 --> 00:57:41,720 Speaker 1: and you're writing us. I say, go in peace, knowing 955 00:57:41,840 --> 00:57:44,240 Speaker 1: that you dodged a bullet from not marrying this guy. 956 00:57:44,360 --> 00:57:46,480 Speaker 1: After all these years, I think you should get your 957 00:57:46,520 --> 00:57:49,160 Speaker 1: child support and move on. When you do fall in 958 00:57:49,240 --> 00:57:52,400 Speaker 1: love again with the right man. The next time, when 959 00:57:52,440 --> 00:57:55,680 Speaker 1: he proposed a set a date, start planning immediately. Okay, 960 00:57:55,800 --> 00:58:00,280 Speaker 1: don't waste time, Steve. I'm in two and a half minutes. 961 00:58:00,360 --> 00:58:01,400 Speaker 1: This is what I'm gonna do. And then in the 962 00:58:01,480 --> 00:58:04,360 Speaker 1: second half, I'm gonna show you how this works. I'm 963 00:58:04,360 --> 00:58:07,760 Speaker 1: gonna show you about thirteen questionable statements in this letter. 964 00:58:08,280 --> 00:58:10,840 Speaker 1: He asked me to marry him four years ago. That's one. 965 00:58:11,920 --> 00:58:14,240 Speaker 1: He wanted to set a wedding date, but I do not. 966 00:58:14,560 --> 00:58:17,880 Speaker 1: That's two. When I was twenty two, I got pregnant 967 00:58:17,920 --> 00:58:21,120 Speaker 1: and we moved in together. That's three. I got a 968 00:58:21,200 --> 00:58:23,120 Speaker 1: job while he got his master degree and told me 969 00:58:23,160 --> 00:58:25,040 Speaker 1: soon as he finished his degree, he was gonna make 970 00:58:25,080 --> 00:58:28,920 Speaker 1: me his wife. That's four. The fifth statement was I 971 00:58:29,040 --> 00:58:31,040 Speaker 1: fell in love with my job and raising our children, 972 00:58:31,160 --> 00:58:33,360 Speaker 1: so I didn't realize I was playing house and this 973 00:58:33,640 --> 00:58:37,320 Speaker 1: man did not plan to marry me. That's five. The 974 00:58:37,520 --> 00:58:41,040 Speaker 1: next statement was I tried and wanted to clear my head, 975 00:58:41,080 --> 00:58:43,080 Speaker 1: so I went to stay with my mama. He begged 976 00:58:43,080 --> 00:58:44,880 Speaker 1: me to come back, and now he promised that he 977 00:58:45,160 --> 00:58:48,640 Speaker 1: was going to about to propose. That's six years go buying. 978 00:58:48,760 --> 00:58:52,080 Speaker 1: His father overheard us fussing one day and he advised 979 00:58:52,120 --> 00:58:54,880 Speaker 1: his son either marry me or let me go. That's seven. 980 00:58:56,480 --> 00:58:59,000 Speaker 1: That was four years ago. A week later, he asked 981 00:58:59,040 --> 00:59:01,600 Speaker 1: me to be his wife. That's eight. That was four 982 00:59:01,680 --> 00:59:03,120 Speaker 1: years ago, and I was ready to do it right 983 00:59:03,160 --> 00:59:05,439 Speaker 1: then he kept stalling and asking me, what's the rush? 984 00:59:05,800 --> 00:59:08,800 Speaker 1: That's nine. I cried and moved past it. Now I'm 985 00:59:08,880 --> 00:59:11,560 Speaker 1: over the marriage and I don't want him anymore. That's ten. 986 00:59:11,960 --> 00:59:14,960 Speaker 1: I don't wear my ring and he hasn't notice. That's eleven. 987 00:59:15,400 --> 00:59:18,320 Speaker 1: He invited his mother over my mother over last weekend 988 00:59:18,400 --> 00:59:20,640 Speaker 1: to discuss wedding dates. I was checked out of the conversation. 989 00:59:20,720 --> 00:59:22,919 Speaker 1: When my mother left, I asked you, what was the rush? 990 00:59:23,280 --> 00:59:26,360 Speaker 1: That's twelve. He has an He hasn't spoken to me 991 00:59:26,440 --> 00:59:28,760 Speaker 1: in over a week because of my attitude. So how 992 00:59:28,840 --> 00:59:30,840 Speaker 1: can I not be allowed to have an attitude? Should 993 00:59:30,840 --> 00:59:33,320 Speaker 1: I give the ring back and move on? Or should 994 00:59:33,360 --> 00:59:36,120 Speaker 1: I marry an old friend and baby daddy that I 995 00:59:36,240 --> 00:59:41,760 Speaker 1: don't love anymore? That's thirteen in a one page letter 996 00:59:43,040 --> 00:59:49,480 Speaker 1: I just read to you thirteen very questionable statements. Do 997 00:59:49,680 --> 00:59:54,200 Speaker 1: this sound like marriage to you? Not at all? If 998 00:59:54,320 --> 00:59:57,440 Speaker 1: you don't love somebody, I can promise you marriage is 999 00:59:57,560 --> 01:00:01,120 Speaker 1: out of the question, right Because you're gonna need that 1000 01:00:01,400 --> 01:00:06,680 Speaker 1: mode and money, because I'm telling you, man, money don't 1001 01:00:06,760 --> 01:00:13,360 Speaker 1: keep a relationship together. Love can overcome a multitude of sins, 1002 01:00:14,640 --> 01:00:17,560 Speaker 1: but if you ain't in love, it's no way you 1003 01:00:17,680 --> 01:00:21,680 Speaker 1: can get married and stay married. All right, Steve, hang on, 1004 01:00:22,080 --> 01:00:24,520 Speaker 1: we're waiting for part two of your response. Come on, 1005 01:00:27,640 --> 01:00:31,280 Speaker 1: all right. Title of this strawberry letter, what's the Rush? 1006 01:00:31,480 --> 01:00:34,960 Speaker 1: We'll find out more when we come back. Right, you're 1007 01:00:35,000 --> 01:00:40,040 Speaker 1: listening show? All right, Come on, Steve, Let's recap today's 1008 01:00:40,040 --> 01:00:43,920 Speaker 1: strawberry letter, the subject what's the rush? We just went 1009 01:00:43,960 --> 01:00:46,760 Speaker 1: through this letter about all these reasons that this woman 1010 01:00:46,840 --> 01:00:49,160 Speaker 1: don't need to marry this man. I gave you thirteen 1011 01:00:49,320 --> 01:00:52,959 Speaker 1: questionable statements. At the end of the letter, this lady 1012 01:00:53,040 --> 01:00:55,919 Speaker 1: just said, should I marry an old friend and baby 1013 01:00:56,000 --> 01:01:00,080 Speaker 1: daddy that I don't love anymore? They've been together for 1014 01:01:00,400 --> 01:01:05,360 Speaker 1: eleven years, and he'd been lying about getting married, stall 1015 01:01:05,520 --> 01:01:09,880 Speaker 1: and putting it all, making false promises over and over 1016 01:01:09,960 --> 01:01:13,320 Speaker 1: and over and over. This man. You realize, after you 1017 01:01:13,800 --> 01:01:17,000 Speaker 1: had two children and found a school teaching job you love, 1018 01:01:17,480 --> 01:01:20,000 Speaker 1: that this man was just playing house and did not 1019 01:01:20,240 --> 01:01:22,360 Speaker 1: pretend he didn't even want to get married. Because I've 1020 01:01:22,400 --> 01:01:26,000 Speaker 1: told you all ladies, about this. The wedding day may 1021 01:01:26,040 --> 01:01:28,480 Speaker 1: be the day of your dream, but the man does 1022 01:01:28,600 --> 01:01:31,040 Speaker 1: not have a wedding day as the day of his dream. 1023 01:01:31,080 --> 01:01:33,320 Speaker 1: We only dream of the chick of our dream. And 1024 01:01:33,440 --> 01:01:35,680 Speaker 1: if we can get you without the day, what's the rush? 1025 01:01:36,120 --> 01:01:38,320 Speaker 1: And he just proved what I've been saying for years, 1026 01:01:38,400 --> 01:01:41,040 Speaker 1: so he has you. What's the rush? Ladies? This is 1027 01:01:41,080 --> 01:01:43,200 Speaker 1: what I want to do. Caller Shirley, let me have 1028 01:01:43,280 --> 01:01:47,320 Speaker 1: your undivided attention. Please, we're going to do a reenactment. 1029 01:01:48,200 --> 01:01:51,480 Speaker 1: I am gonna be mister who's the rush? I don't 1030 01:01:51,520 --> 01:01:54,760 Speaker 1: care what you ask me. I'm gonna find a way 1031 01:01:55,320 --> 01:01:57,640 Speaker 1: not to get married. You can make it sound as 1032 01:01:57,720 --> 01:02:00,880 Speaker 1: wonderful as you like. Just make a stay eaten and 1033 01:02:01,160 --> 01:02:03,800 Speaker 1: I am the person that don't want to get married, 1034 01:02:04,120 --> 01:02:07,640 Speaker 1: and I would give you reasons why we can't get married. 1035 01:02:07,920 --> 01:02:10,480 Speaker 1: You don't have to worry about this letter, Shirley and Carlin. 1036 01:02:10,760 --> 01:02:13,680 Speaker 1: You can ask me anything you want, any happy remark 1037 01:02:13,760 --> 01:02:17,080 Speaker 1: about the wedding day, about what your plans are. You 1038 01:02:17,160 --> 01:02:19,880 Speaker 1: can do anything, and I'll just tell you why we 1039 01:02:20,040 --> 01:02:23,240 Speaker 1: can't do it. Ready, said he It is, honey, I 1040 01:02:23,400 --> 01:02:27,640 Speaker 1: just got my wedding dress. I'm so excited. Oh man, 1041 01:02:27,800 --> 01:02:31,480 Speaker 1: that's real nice man. Wedding dresses is they're so nice, 1042 01:02:31,560 --> 01:02:34,640 Speaker 1: you know, but you know, spending all that money for 1043 01:02:34,840 --> 01:02:39,120 Speaker 1: what you know what I mean a dress? You ain't 1044 01:02:39,160 --> 01:02:46,960 Speaker 1: got no dresses. Guess what. My friend is getting married 1045 01:02:47,080 --> 01:02:51,760 Speaker 1: and I just got her save the date in the mail, 1046 01:02:51,880 --> 01:02:57,400 Speaker 1: the invitation to save the day. I'm so exciting. That's cool. 1047 01:02:57,440 --> 01:02:59,240 Speaker 1: I can't wait to go to her way in either 1048 01:03:00,160 --> 01:03:03,840 Speaker 1: say that date. So what Yeah, yeah, let's say that date. 1049 01:03:04,400 --> 01:03:07,200 Speaker 1: That's beautiful. Man, that's good. I'm with that man. So 1050 01:03:07,360 --> 01:03:13,080 Speaker 1: marked day down? Yeah, I got it her sixteen, Yeah 1051 01:03:13,120 --> 01:03:18,000 Speaker 1: it down, got it December sixteen, Special days when we 1052 01:03:18,080 --> 01:03:21,320 Speaker 1: gonna go shopping. And what we're gonna wear. Oh, we 1053 01:03:21,400 --> 01:03:24,200 Speaker 1: can wear all that baby, baby, baby, what you want 1054 01:03:24,200 --> 01:03:28,280 Speaker 1: to wear? What you want? Just let anything you want 1055 01:03:28,320 --> 01:03:31,120 Speaker 1: to separated and dress, you know, you let anything you 1056 01:03:31,200 --> 01:03:38,320 Speaker 1: want to. Honey, I'm pregnant again, man, as well make 1057 01:03:38,360 --> 01:03:42,760 Speaker 1: an honest you pregnant again? Might as well make a 1058 01:03:42,840 --> 01:03:48,440 Speaker 1: hort an honest woman out of me. Marry me, baby, baby. 1059 01:03:48,720 --> 01:03:51,440 Speaker 1: One of the main characteristics that I love about you 1060 01:03:51,600 --> 01:03:55,000 Speaker 1: is your honesty. I don't you know you've been honest 1061 01:03:55,040 --> 01:03:57,640 Speaker 1: with me the whole time with how you are. That's 1062 01:03:57,640 --> 01:04:00,520 Speaker 1: the beautiful thing. But you're already an honest person. You 1063 01:04:00,640 --> 01:04:03,280 Speaker 1: need all that to prove to somebody you an honest woman. 1064 01:04:04,040 --> 01:04:06,520 Speaker 1: You know you've already had the baby. You didn't done 1065 01:04:06,520 --> 01:04:08,920 Speaker 1: all the tricky stuff anyway, and anybody's going to believe 1066 01:04:08,920 --> 01:04:12,040 Speaker 1: you honest nor hon You know, you know you set 1067 01:04:12,120 --> 01:04:13,520 Speaker 1: up here and done all this here. Now you want 1068 01:04:13,560 --> 01:04:16,440 Speaker 1: somebody believe you honest, you know, like you're honest for it. 1069 01:04:16,480 --> 01:04:18,080 Speaker 1: You know we have done the dude now you know 1070 01:04:18,200 --> 01:04:21,439 Speaker 1: baby coming. Everybody know you and all that honest. Ain't 1071 01:04:21,440 --> 01:04:23,800 Speaker 1: know what it needs, you know me, you know, you 1072 01:04:23,880 --> 01:04:27,760 Speaker 1: know you know, but let's seal the deal. Let's seal 1073 01:04:27,880 --> 01:04:32,280 Speaker 1: the deal. Seeing that right there. See that sounds like stealing. 1074 01:04:32,840 --> 01:04:34,720 Speaker 1: You know you don't be talking to talking to Lord 1075 01:04:34,760 --> 01:04:37,280 Speaker 1: about stuff like that. You know we're gonna seal a deal. 1076 01:04:37,480 --> 01:04:39,520 Speaker 1: That's what. That's why I love the church Ill go to, 1077 01:04:39,680 --> 01:04:41,919 Speaker 1: you know, because they try to keep us seeing free. 1078 01:04:42,040 --> 01:04:45,000 Speaker 1: You know. Now we've already been in seein, been mad, 1079 01:04:45,240 --> 01:04:49,000 Speaker 1: you know, have come, you know, you know, compatulating all 1080 01:04:49,040 --> 01:04:51,760 Speaker 1: this before mad. Now all of a sudden, you know 1081 01:04:51,800 --> 01:04:53,680 Speaker 1: you wanta go seal a deal, you know, just like 1082 01:04:53,800 --> 01:04:56,000 Speaker 1: go to hell. You know it don't make no sense. Calling? 1083 01:04:57,400 --> 01:05:00,600 Speaker 1: All right, So we've been talking all this stuff about wedding. 1084 01:05:00,960 --> 01:05:03,080 Speaker 1: When are we gonna set our date? Because I had 1085 01:05:03,160 --> 01:05:06,400 Speaker 1: some dates in mind? So do you want a summer wedding, 1086 01:05:07,320 --> 01:05:10,600 Speaker 1: Christmas winter wedding? Yeah? I was thinking more like a 1087 01:05:10,720 --> 01:05:19,760 Speaker 1: leap year wedding. I love it. I love that long. 1088 01:05:21,960 --> 01:05:24,520 Speaker 1: But see that'd be good then, you know, you know, 1089 01:05:25,120 --> 01:05:27,760 Speaker 1: give us time to play and everything like that. So 1090 01:05:27,880 --> 01:05:30,080 Speaker 1: that's the date I'm looking forward to next time we 1091 01:05:30,200 --> 01:05:33,880 Speaker 1: have leap yea, yeah, go ahead. Well, honey, I talked 1092 01:05:33,920 --> 01:05:37,880 Speaker 1: to the pastor and he said he's ready and all 1093 01:05:37,960 --> 01:05:39,600 Speaker 1: we have to do is get back with him and 1094 01:05:39,720 --> 01:05:42,840 Speaker 1: let him know when we're ready. So he's set to 1095 01:05:43,000 --> 01:05:47,840 Speaker 1: officiate our ceremony. And I'm just so excited, you know 1096 01:05:47,920 --> 01:05:52,280 Speaker 1: how much. That's all good? But I just changed churches 1097 01:05:52,400 --> 01:05:58,080 Speaker 1: as week. Yeah, so we don't even go that no more. 1098 01:05:58,360 --> 01:06:01,120 Speaker 1: That ain't your my pastor no more. So we gotta lie. 1099 01:06:01,160 --> 01:06:03,400 Speaker 1: We gotta get on this new past this list. Go ahead, 1100 01:06:03,720 --> 01:06:07,280 Speaker 1: call yeah, we gotta started this process over. Man, we 1101 01:06:07,360 --> 01:06:09,400 Speaker 1: don't even go there no more. Go ahead? Do you 1102 01:06:09,480 --> 01:06:13,000 Speaker 1: want to go to Vegas. We could just go to Vegas. Hell, yeah, 1103 01:06:13,040 --> 01:06:16,240 Speaker 1: I want to go to Vegas. Man, Okay, let's go 1104 01:06:16,320 --> 01:06:19,000 Speaker 1: to Vegas. But you know what they say, what happens 1105 01:06:19,040 --> 01:06:21,919 Speaker 1: in Vegas stays in Vegas. He don't need us trying 1106 01:06:21,920 --> 01:06:29,360 Speaker 1: to come back with no happy as news. Honey, I'm 1107 01:06:29,480 --> 01:06:32,480 Speaker 1: so happy. Dad was ill. You know, he was sick, 1108 01:06:32,560 --> 01:06:34,640 Speaker 1: but he's better now. And he said he will walk 1109 01:06:34,840 --> 01:06:38,560 Speaker 1: down the aisle. He's ready. Yeah, he's gonna walk me down. Dad, 1110 01:06:38,840 --> 01:06:44,360 Speaker 1: My dad, Dad, Baby, you're sick, ass, daddy, he's no longer. 1111 01:06:45,480 --> 01:06:47,400 Speaker 1: You think I'm gonna be standing up there and watch 1112 01:06:47,480 --> 01:06:49,480 Speaker 1: something happened to hear him on his way down the eye? 1113 01:06:50,880 --> 01:06:57,080 Speaker 1: Well out, I don't even do that with a shape 1114 01:06:57,120 --> 01:07:03,360 Speaker 1: walk down. No, damn, you're listening all right, guys, it 1115 01:07:03,520 --> 01:07:06,080 Speaker 1: is time now for junior and sports talk. What you 1116 01:07:06,160 --> 01:07:10,720 Speaker 1: got junior? Okay, Shirley, Well it is Scottie Scheffler won 1117 01:07:10,840 --> 01:07:14,160 Speaker 1: the Masters. He's only twenty five years old. Congratulations of Scheffler. 1118 01:07:14,360 --> 01:07:18,840 Speaker 1: Uh it was yeah. Did you watch that R mclroy 1119 01:07:21,960 --> 01:07:25,640 Speaker 1: to get him? He was man? That was great. Finished man. 1120 01:07:25,720 --> 01:07:29,200 Speaker 1: Tiger did finish plus thirteen over at the Masses and 1121 01:07:29,280 --> 01:07:31,320 Speaker 1: second worst performance of his career. But the fact that 1122 01:07:31,400 --> 01:07:33,439 Speaker 1: he's able to play in the masses at fourteen months 1123 01:07:33,440 --> 01:07:36,160 Speaker 1: after his car accident, it's a great story. So tigers back. 1124 01:07:36,160 --> 01:07:38,560 Speaker 1: He says he's gonna play in the US Open. NBA 1125 01:07:38,720 --> 01:07:42,480 Speaker 1: news Joel Embi wins the scoring title. He's also favored 1126 01:07:42,560 --> 01:07:47,640 Speaker 1: to win the MVP. Man, yeah, man, And then the 1127 01:07:47,880 --> 01:07:50,800 Speaker 1: Lakers coach Frank Vogel out as the Lagers head coach. 1128 01:07:50,880 --> 01:07:53,600 Speaker 1: That's what sources say. But Frank Vogel said as a 1129 01:07:53,680 --> 01:07:55,760 Speaker 1: Monday he has not heard from the Lakers. Well, they 1130 01:07:55,880 --> 01:07:58,040 Speaker 1: just telling you now, yas sake, gonna be that next season. 1131 01:07:59,280 --> 01:08:02,800 Speaker 1: I don't care what you ain't heard. They said, it's 1132 01:08:02,840 --> 01:08:06,200 Speaker 1: not gonna be the head coach. I ain't heard it. Yeah, 1133 01:08:06,280 --> 01:08:12,000 Speaker 1: he heard nothing. Well how come I heard it? How 1134 01:08:12,080 --> 01:08:16,240 Speaker 1: come I know? And you in the office. Also, the 1135 01:08:16,520 --> 01:08:20,760 Speaker 1: NBA play in Tournament is coming up, man tonight. The 1136 01:08:20,880 --> 01:08:24,519 Speaker 1: play in tournament is the seed seven through ten, seven 1137 01:08:24,600 --> 01:08:26,320 Speaker 1: plays eight to win. Out of that, we'll get the 1138 01:08:26,360 --> 01:08:28,960 Speaker 1: seven seed, nine plays ten and they'll play the one 1139 01:08:29,000 --> 01:08:31,040 Speaker 1: of that game will play the loser of the first game. 1140 01:08:31,160 --> 01:08:35,200 Speaker 1: So here it is in the East Brooklyn and Cleveland. 1141 01:08:35,400 --> 01:08:39,360 Speaker 1: Seven and eight Cleveland the Cavaliers playing to go to 1142 01:08:39,400 --> 01:08:42,759 Speaker 1: the playoffs, and then you have Atlanta and Charlotte playing 1143 01:08:42,840 --> 01:08:46,280 Speaker 1: for the eighth seed. Also in the West, it is 1144 01:08:46,439 --> 01:08:49,680 Speaker 1: Minnesota and the Clippers, and we have New Orleans and 1145 01:08:49,840 --> 01:08:54,040 Speaker 1: San Francisco first seeds on Miami and Phoenix. Who we're 1146 01:08:54,040 --> 01:08:56,120 Speaker 1: looking like? I really want Chris Paul to get a ring, man, 1147 01:08:56,439 --> 01:09:03,280 Speaker 1: Chris Paul, San Francisco, Oakland, Old State. Yeah, I mean Santonio. 1148 01:09:05,640 --> 01:09:12,320 Speaker 1: I'm San Francisco, the forty Niners play basketball. I mean, 1149 01:09:12,520 --> 01:09:17,200 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean San Antonio in New Orleans and 1150 01:09:17,360 --> 01:09:19,720 Speaker 1: Phoenix on the number one seeds? Uncle, do you feel 1151 01:09:19,760 --> 01:09:22,160 Speaker 1: I really root for Chris Paul and the Phoenix Suns? 1152 01:09:22,280 --> 01:09:24,800 Speaker 1: Get this man? Hey, man, I ain't heard y'all mentioned 1153 01:09:24,880 --> 01:09:28,400 Speaker 1: Houston for what it's We've been out since we have 1154 01:09:28,560 --> 01:09:31,800 Speaker 1: been out since October. Oh, y'all out with the Lakers. Yeah, 1155 01:09:31,840 --> 01:09:34,920 Speaker 1: we've been out. We wasn't We lost the first ten 1156 01:09:35,000 --> 01:09:36,760 Speaker 1: games of the season. No, hell where we wasn't for 1157 01:09:36,800 --> 01:09:39,000 Speaker 1: the get it, don't don't don't. Don't. Don't do it 1158 01:09:39,040 --> 01:09:40,960 Speaker 1: with him, Junior, don't do it with him. Yeah, don't 1159 01:09:40,960 --> 01:09:47,599 Speaker 1: go back. I mean, what man, we is doing sports. Yeah, 1160 01:09:47,680 --> 01:09:51,240 Speaker 1: well we are well, you know, congratulates whether you can 1161 01:09:51,320 --> 01:09:58,160 Speaker 1: play it or not, that's really not congratulations Cleveland. Y'all 1162 01:09:58,240 --> 01:10:00,080 Speaker 1: in so we see what y'all do. The name it 1163 01:10:00,160 --> 01:10:02,840 Speaker 1: gets Brooklyn. Hopefully you know y'all be out, then we 1164 01:10:02,920 --> 01:10:05,519 Speaker 1: all be out. That's how I look at it. Thank 1165 01:10:05,600 --> 01:10:08,679 Speaker 1: you coming up at the top of the hour. Yesterday 1166 01:10:08,840 --> 01:10:13,479 Speaker 1: was National eight Track Day, Steve, and Steve, you gonna 1167 01:10:13,520 --> 01:10:15,880 Speaker 1: school us on music from back in the day right 1168 01:10:15,960 --> 01:10:23,240 Speaker 1: after this, Hey are you you're listening to show? All right? 1169 01:10:23,320 --> 01:10:26,880 Speaker 1: So Steve, yesterday was National eight Track Tape Day. So 1170 01:10:27,040 --> 01:10:30,920 Speaker 1: two things. First, we want to explain what eight what 1171 01:10:31,120 --> 01:10:34,719 Speaker 1: eight tracks are okay to this new gentleman. And second, 1172 01:10:35,040 --> 01:10:38,519 Speaker 1: we all love Bruno, Mars and Anderson Pack, Silk Sonic. 1173 01:10:38,840 --> 01:10:41,519 Speaker 1: Their sound is music back in the Day and Silk 1174 01:10:41,560 --> 01:10:44,840 Speaker 1: Sonic's new single is Love's Train, a remake from Confunction. 1175 01:10:45,320 --> 01:11:09,400 Speaker 1: So here's a little bit, Stevey, Oh number causleep too 1176 01:11:09,680 --> 01:11:23,040 Speaker 1: hot for me? Hold back baby calep too. We need 1177 01:11:23,120 --> 01:11:37,080 Speaker 1: to call me if I chance, Yeah, I gotta call it, 1178 01:11:41,840 --> 01:11:55,000 Speaker 1: eat baby die. That number. Ain't nobody come on if 1179 01:11:55,080 --> 01:11:59,120 Speaker 1: my dad come along. You ain't saying it hard enough. 1180 01:11:59,200 --> 01:12:08,519 Speaker 1: Bruno never have it. Let him have it, and in 1181 01:12:08,760 --> 01:12:21,080 Speaker 1: my chance I can come. Oh, I'm begging your nar Yeah. 1182 01:12:21,880 --> 01:12:27,479 Speaker 1: What y'all don't know is that's that's confunction. Yes, Michael Cooper, Yeah, 1183 01:12:29,000 --> 01:12:31,920 Speaker 1: bruning him doing it good. But what he ain't saying 1184 01:12:32,040 --> 01:12:36,439 Speaker 1: hard enough? You got you gott You gotta sing that 1185 01:12:36,560 --> 01:12:41,920 Speaker 1: song like he's fitting the tap like something the tall good. Yeah, 1186 01:12:42,000 --> 01:12:44,080 Speaker 1: that's you gotta come up, you gotta come, you gotta. 1187 01:12:44,360 --> 01:12:51,120 Speaker 1: It's gotta be guttural. And I appreciate Bruno and Anderson Packers. 1188 01:12:51,320 --> 01:12:52,840 Speaker 1: They keep it it real. They the best thing in 1189 01:12:52,960 --> 01:12:56,000 Speaker 1: music right now. What's your question, though, Charley, what's an 1190 01:12:56,080 --> 01:13:01,879 Speaker 1: example of guttural? Guttural? Guttural? Yeah, just give us an example. 1191 01:13:02,640 --> 01:13:05,400 Speaker 1: Let me, let me, let me think like it's so 1192 01:13:05,640 --> 01:13:10,000 Speaker 1: many out but see it, say like this is how 1193 01:13:10,040 --> 01:13:17,920 Speaker 1: a song start. He gave you and he wasn't true. 1194 01:13:19,280 --> 01:13:25,240 Speaker 1: He tried to find another girl. Here we go, sweeter 1195 01:13:25,680 --> 01:13:33,080 Speaker 1: than you got glutt got tired and a little soft 1196 01:13:33,320 --> 01:13:36,320 Speaker 1: punk singing, and it's time to just get down into 1197 01:13:36,400 --> 01:13:39,439 Speaker 1: what we're in here for. Our songs have pain wrapped 1198 01:13:39,520 --> 01:13:41,559 Speaker 1: up in it, and damn it, we need to sound 1199 01:13:41,640 --> 01:13:47,400 Speaker 1: like his pain. Next question, Okay, we'll explain eight tracks. 1200 01:13:48,400 --> 01:13:51,960 Speaker 1: Eight track looked like not give you an example. Have 1201 01:13:52,120 --> 01:13:55,160 Speaker 1: you ever seen a paperback book? Yah? Yah, take a 1202 01:13:55,280 --> 01:13:58,120 Speaker 1: paperback book? Cut it in half. That's an eight track 1203 01:14:00,160 --> 01:14:04,080 Speaker 1: eight track. About that thick look like a paperback. It's 1204 01:14:04,160 --> 01:14:07,280 Speaker 1: about that thick as a paperback cut in had Now 1205 01:14:07,439 --> 01:14:10,840 Speaker 1: on the head has songs, but on an eight track, 1206 01:14:11,000 --> 01:14:15,040 Speaker 1: it has channels fold channels on an eight track. So 1207 01:14:15,320 --> 01:14:18,200 Speaker 1: in the middle of your song, it's got a switch 1208 01:14:18,439 --> 01:14:21,920 Speaker 1: channels and you're gonna hit it click at a certain 1209 01:14:22,000 --> 01:14:25,080 Speaker 1: part of the song. Two damn bad. You don't get 1210 01:14:25,160 --> 01:14:28,160 Speaker 1: to pick when the click is it? Click over it? 1211 01:14:28,360 --> 01:14:31,599 Speaker 1: But it continued. It's an eight track. You can only 1212 01:14:31,720 --> 01:14:34,759 Speaker 1: have about sixteen m in your car at a time. 1213 01:14:35,320 --> 01:14:39,599 Speaker 1: That's it. That's the math, or else or else somebody 1214 01:14:39,720 --> 01:14:45,439 Speaker 1: can't ride. It's sixteen at a time, or somebody else 1215 01:14:45,520 --> 01:14:48,599 Speaker 1: can't ride. You get a fault pack or eight pack, 1216 01:14:48,680 --> 01:14:51,000 Speaker 1: and somebody can ride. Once you get a thirty two, 1217 01:14:51,200 --> 01:14:54,360 Speaker 1: contain them somebody can't ride, to take them a whole seat. 1218 01:14:55,560 --> 01:15:00,639 Speaker 1: That's how we carr music with us back then, uh huh. 1219 01:15:01,080 --> 01:15:03,320 Speaker 1: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming 1220 01:15:03,400 --> 01:15:06,599 Speaker 1: up at twenty minutes after, right after this, you're listening 1221 01:15:06,880 --> 01:15:12,640 Speaker 1: to show. All right, So this Sunday, we know, is 1222 01:15:12,960 --> 01:15:16,400 Speaker 1: Easter Sunday, and a lot of people get you know, 1223 01:15:16,439 --> 01:15:19,840 Speaker 1: a lot of kids get Easter baskets. So here's the question. 1224 01:15:19,920 --> 01:15:23,320 Speaker 1: If you were to receive an adult Easter basket, what 1225 01:15:23,439 --> 01:15:25,439 Speaker 1: would you want in it? What would you want in 1226 01:15:25,520 --> 01:15:30,280 Speaker 1: your Steve, you're asking me now or when I was single? 1227 01:15:32,040 --> 01:15:34,479 Speaker 1: I think when you were single would be more interesting. 1228 01:15:34,600 --> 01:15:37,679 Speaker 1: So let's go with that. Yeah, the Easter Bunny would 1229 01:15:37,680 --> 01:15:45,719 Speaker 1: actually be a girl. The Easter Bunny would be a girl. Yeah, 1230 01:15:46,720 --> 01:15:53,240 Speaker 1: Jessica rabbit in female form, but in live. Oh lord, yeah, 1231 01:15:53,439 --> 01:15:57,720 Speaker 1: that had been my Easter basket. Yeah, I like that? 1232 01:15:58,400 --> 01:16:01,720 Speaker 1: All right? What about your neph Harlotte Barry right in 1233 01:16:01,840 --> 01:16:11,240 Speaker 1: that basket? Right? Yes? Lord? Single? Or now? Back when 1234 01:16:11,280 --> 01:16:14,000 Speaker 1: I was single, back when I was saying, okay, of course, 1235 01:16:14,240 --> 01:16:16,960 Speaker 1: thank you. Thought that'd help you out? All right? Come on, 1236 01:16:17,080 --> 01:16:20,640 Speaker 1: jering you what you got Easter dinner? Just you want 1237 01:16:20,720 --> 01:16:22,840 Speaker 1: to eat some hams? Yeah? I got to eat You know, 1238 01:16:22,960 --> 01:16:25,760 Speaker 1: Holliday's be hard when you single. You gotta figure out 1239 01:16:25,760 --> 01:16:27,040 Speaker 1: where you go eat it. It's kind of going to 1240 01:16:27,080 --> 01:16:28,800 Speaker 1: people's houses. On East. I eat that a here in 1241 01:16:28,920 --> 01:16:34,439 Speaker 1: my basket. That's what I need. Got a big get 1242 01:16:34,479 --> 01:16:40,640 Speaker 1: way to somebody house. That's difficult work to do. All right, 1243 01:16:40,800 --> 01:16:43,040 Speaker 1: thank you guys. Coming up in thirty three minutes after 1244 01:16:43,160 --> 01:16:45,280 Speaker 1: the hour, we'll play a round I would you rather 1245 01:16:45,640 --> 01:16:51,040 Speaker 1: right after this, you're listening to show time for another 1246 01:16:51,160 --> 01:16:55,760 Speaker 1: round of would you rather? Steve? Yes? Would you rather 1247 01:16:55,800 --> 01:16:58,400 Speaker 1: be a star player on a losing basketball team? Or 1248 01:16:58,479 --> 01:17:03,280 Speaker 1: would you ride the bench on winning basketball team? Which one? 1249 01:17:04,200 --> 01:17:06,120 Speaker 1: I might as well get on that bench that winning 1250 01:17:06,200 --> 01:17:14,800 Speaker 1: team because I'm out there win't gonna win. Nephew, Yeah, 1251 01:17:14,800 --> 01:17:18,160 Speaker 1: I'm on the bench. Okay, Junior, I know you want 1252 01:17:18,160 --> 01:17:21,160 Speaker 1: to be a star player. What about you? I love 1253 01:17:21,240 --> 01:17:24,200 Speaker 1: to transit. Here I go again tonight because I got 1254 01:17:24,320 --> 01:17:31,200 Speaker 1: a carross again. Huh, you love, Junior? Coach. We know 1255 01:17:31,320 --> 01:17:35,160 Speaker 1: who ain't gonna show up. I'm gonna get your little 1256 01:17:35,200 --> 01:17:43,479 Speaker 1: last gona be a middle Another question, all right? Would 1257 01:17:43,479 --> 01:17:46,360 Speaker 1: you rather eat the oldest thing in the office bridge 1258 01:17:46,560 --> 01:17:55,040 Speaker 1: or clean the office bathroom? You bathroom? Ye, I'm gonna 1259 01:17:55,120 --> 01:17:58,600 Speaker 1: get fired. Yeah, so you're not doing either. You're not 1260 01:18:00,000 --> 01:18:04,400 Speaker 1: promise you I'm not cleaning that damn bad. I don't 1261 01:18:04,479 --> 01:18:07,400 Speaker 1: clean my own. So I well, we're gonna hear with 1262 01:18:07,479 --> 01:18:12,400 Speaker 1: no damn that little brush with that little tidded bowl 1263 01:18:12,520 --> 01:18:15,160 Speaker 1: and a sponge and some rubber gloves were not finn 1264 01:18:15,240 --> 01:18:18,120 Speaker 1: to do that job. I don't give a damn. I'm fine. 1265 01:18:19,640 --> 01:18:23,720 Speaker 1: I probably lost my job, and I don't want nothing 1266 01:18:23,760 --> 01:18:25,599 Speaker 1: in that damn refrigerator. I'm m out of work, man. 1267 01:18:25,640 --> 01:18:32,960 Speaker 1: I didn't quit. We clearly I might. I might open 1268 01:18:33,040 --> 01:18:34,880 Speaker 1: up that refrigerator and eat something and tell you I 1269 01:18:34,960 --> 01:18:39,280 Speaker 1: eat the oldest thing, and just eat something out of 1270 01:18:39,280 --> 01:18:42,400 Speaker 1: missus Geraldine's lunch, because miss Geraldine could cook her ass. Also, 1271 01:18:42,400 --> 01:18:46,120 Speaker 1: I would eat miss geraldine food. Yeah, but I'm not 1272 01:18:46,479 --> 01:18:50,720 Speaker 1: going in that damn bad food, no disinfected. I ain't 1273 01:18:50,800 --> 01:18:52,920 Speaker 1: gonna going here with no spray. Now you're not gonna 1274 01:18:53,080 --> 01:18:58,720 Speaker 1: see me cleaning the toilet, ye all right? All right? 1275 01:18:58,760 --> 01:19:00,600 Speaker 1: So see we know you don't We know you have 1276 01:19:00,720 --> 01:19:03,519 Speaker 1: people to clean, But just for fun, would you rather 1277 01:19:03,640 --> 01:19:06,880 Speaker 1: do the dishes or do the laundry? Oh? I got 1278 01:19:06,960 --> 01:19:11,760 Speaker 1: a way better chance of getting them dishes, right, be 1279 01:19:11,800 --> 01:19:17,240 Speaker 1: a lot of pink clothes. How to wash clothes? Hell? No, 1280 01:19:17,320 --> 01:19:18,640 Speaker 1: I know getting here well, I don't know how to 1281 01:19:18,720 --> 01:19:21,519 Speaker 1: wash no clothes. I don't know how to use the machine. 1282 01:19:21,880 --> 01:19:23,960 Speaker 1: I don't even know what to do. I don't I 1283 01:19:24,040 --> 01:19:25,479 Speaker 1: don't even know. I don't know where to do. You 1284 01:19:25,520 --> 01:19:31,080 Speaker 1: ain't wash the load though, if you're wash now, when 1285 01:19:31,120 --> 01:19:35,439 Speaker 1: the last time I washed the load of clothes? Did you? 1286 01:19:35,840 --> 01:19:39,679 Speaker 1: Did you? Yeah? Did you? I ain't washed the load 1287 01:19:39,760 --> 01:19:45,320 Speaker 1: of clothes. I know at least how long you go, 1288 01:19:45,600 --> 01:19:48,360 Speaker 1: you're gonna have to go back. It was before the 1289 01:19:48,479 --> 01:19:53,800 Speaker 1: Kennedy comedy is the nineties? All right? Coming up? It 1290 01:19:53,960 --> 01:19:56,800 Speaker 1: is our last break of the day, and at forty 1291 01:19:56,880 --> 01:20:00,280 Speaker 1: nine minutes after we'll have some closing remarks the one 1292 01:20:00,320 --> 01:20:03,280 Speaker 1: and only Steve Harvey right after this you're listening to. 1293 01:20:06,000 --> 01:20:08,439 Speaker 1: It is our last break of the day. Yes, it 1294 01:20:08,680 --> 01:20:11,280 Speaker 1: is our last break of the day on this Tuesday. 1295 01:20:11,360 --> 01:20:17,080 Speaker 1: It's been a good day. It's been a good day. Yeah, 1296 01:20:18,840 --> 01:20:23,599 Speaker 1: it's so fast. Yeah, um, but um yeah, it's time 1297 01:20:23,640 --> 01:20:26,479 Speaker 1: now for Steve to leave us with some clothes. Hey. 1298 01:20:27,600 --> 01:20:33,080 Speaker 1: You know something, Um, I really you know, it's sort 1299 01:20:33,080 --> 01:20:39,880 Speaker 1: of interesting, man, how you discover great things about people 1300 01:20:40,000 --> 01:20:43,320 Speaker 1: after they're gone. Have you ever noticed that? Sometimes? Because 1301 01:20:43,840 --> 01:20:46,920 Speaker 1: I think then people go finding tapes and reels of 1302 01:20:47,040 --> 01:20:53,960 Speaker 1: stuff people said, But I was scrolling through social media 1303 01:20:53,960 --> 01:20:57,639 Speaker 1: and I ran across Stephen A. Smith interviewing Kobe Bryant 1304 01:20:57,760 --> 01:21:01,439 Speaker 1: one time. And I think it was right after the 1305 01:21:02,400 --> 01:21:05,519 Speaker 1: incident with the girl at the hotel in Denver. I 1306 01:21:05,600 --> 01:21:09,960 Speaker 1: think it was that incident right there, which I felt 1307 01:21:10,080 --> 01:21:12,240 Speaker 1: all along for the thing. I thought it was like 1308 01:21:12,439 --> 01:21:16,439 Speaker 1: some crazy bogus charges to me, it was because of 1309 01:21:16,520 --> 01:21:20,439 Speaker 1: the way it went down, you know. But anyway, I 1310 01:21:20,600 --> 01:21:23,320 Speaker 1: was watching this thing on the on the Instagram and 1311 01:21:23,360 --> 01:21:26,080 Speaker 1: I'm gonna play it for you off my phone. It 1312 01:21:26,280 --> 01:21:30,080 Speaker 1: was the most compelling thing that I've ever heard Kobe 1313 01:21:30,200 --> 01:21:36,040 Speaker 1: Bryant say, and uh, I just want to play it 1314 01:21:36,200 --> 01:21:39,720 Speaker 1: for you, and it was just it was just so 1315 01:21:40,040 --> 01:21:44,439 Speaker 1: interesting man about his opinion of God, because I'd never 1316 01:21:44,600 --> 01:21:49,400 Speaker 1: heard Kobe Brian speak about God in any capacity. And 1317 01:21:49,640 --> 01:21:52,599 Speaker 1: so I want to play it for you right now. 1318 01:21:53,200 --> 01:21:58,840 Speaker 1: Is that God is great. Don't get no simpler than that. Brother. 1319 01:22:00,120 --> 01:22:03,000 Speaker 1: You know that, I mean, everybody knows that. But the 1320 01:22:03,080 --> 01:22:06,600 Speaker 1: way you know it now, did you know it? You 1321 01:22:06,640 --> 01:22:08,240 Speaker 1: can know it all you want, but until you got 1322 01:22:08,320 --> 01:22:10,760 Speaker 1: to pick up that cross that you can't carry, and 1323 01:22:10,920 --> 01:22:12,600 Speaker 1: He picks it up for you and carries you and 1324 01:22:12,720 --> 01:22:18,840 Speaker 1: the cross did you know that was so compelling When 1325 01:22:18,880 --> 01:22:22,439 Speaker 1: I heard Kobe Bryant talk. He was talking about God 1326 01:22:22,600 --> 01:22:25,439 Speaker 1: is great, and then stephen A. Smith said, well, did 1327 01:22:25,520 --> 01:22:27,759 Speaker 1: you know that before? He didn't. He said, well everybody, 1328 01:22:28,000 --> 01:22:31,640 Speaker 1: stephen A said, everybody knows it. Well, everybody don't know it, 1329 01:22:32,760 --> 01:22:35,320 Speaker 1: but a lot of people have come to the realization, 1330 01:22:36,200 --> 01:22:39,920 Speaker 1: he said. And Kobe Bryant says, when you have to 1331 01:22:40,040 --> 01:22:44,479 Speaker 1: pick up that cross that you can't carry, and He 1332 01:22:44,680 --> 01:22:48,720 Speaker 1: picks up that cross for you and you too and 1333 01:22:49,000 --> 01:22:52,800 Speaker 1: carries both of you, that's when you know how good 1334 01:22:52,920 --> 01:22:56,000 Speaker 1: God is, how great he is. Because it's so it's 1335 01:22:56,040 --> 01:23:00,400 Speaker 1: so sad for us as people, myself included, where we 1336 01:23:00,560 --> 01:23:05,479 Speaker 1: discover the most about God in times of need, and 1337 01:23:05,720 --> 01:23:10,000 Speaker 1: some of us, myself included, I have not had a 1338 01:23:10,080 --> 01:23:14,080 Speaker 1: relationship with God until something goes wrong. And then when 1339 01:23:14,120 --> 01:23:16,320 Speaker 1: he goes wrong and you have no answers, then all 1340 01:23:16,360 --> 01:23:18,720 Speaker 1: of a sudden, I'm calling on him, Oh Father, God 1341 01:23:18,840 --> 01:23:21,920 Speaker 1: help me. I ain't talking to y'all. I'm talking to myself. 1342 01:23:22,320 --> 01:23:25,360 Speaker 1: I've been guilty of this myself. That's how I know 1343 01:23:25,520 --> 01:23:28,880 Speaker 1: what I'm talking about and what I have found out. 1344 01:23:29,439 --> 01:23:32,840 Speaker 1: It is far better for me to have a relationship 1345 01:23:32,920 --> 01:23:37,400 Speaker 1: with God. When things are going okay and just fine, 1346 01:23:37,920 --> 01:23:41,240 Speaker 1: then to wait on something to happen. Then I have 1347 01:23:41,400 --> 01:23:45,439 Speaker 1: to call on him. I'm telling you, man, my mama 1348 01:23:45,560 --> 01:23:47,439 Speaker 1: used to say something that I didn't get a long 1349 01:23:47,520 --> 01:23:51,599 Speaker 1: time ago. She said, I call on Jesus every day. 1350 01:23:52,640 --> 01:23:55,519 Speaker 1: I don't want to wait till something happens, and I 1351 01:23:55,640 --> 01:24:00,120 Speaker 1: got to call him and introduce myself. That was It's 1352 01:24:00,120 --> 01:24:03,120 Speaker 1: a compelling statement of Mama used to make. She said, 1353 01:24:03,160 --> 01:24:06,080 Speaker 1: I would hate for something that happened to me, and 1354 01:24:06,240 --> 01:24:09,560 Speaker 1: then I have to call him and introduce myself. I 1355 01:24:09,680 --> 01:24:14,160 Speaker 1: want him to already know me, y'all. I'm telling you, man, 1356 01:24:14,920 --> 01:24:17,880 Speaker 1: it's one of the greatest moves you can make. It's 1357 01:24:17,920 --> 01:24:21,760 Speaker 1: to form a relationship with your creator. I don't care 1358 01:24:21,800 --> 01:24:24,040 Speaker 1: what you call him. You can call him Jehovah. That's 1359 01:24:24,120 --> 01:24:26,760 Speaker 1: absolutely fine and perfect. You can call him yah away, 1360 01:24:27,000 --> 01:24:30,840 Speaker 1: you can call him Allah. It's beautiful. I'm telling you. 1361 01:24:31,080 --> 01:24:34,680 Speaker 1: But you got to call him, and you've got to 1362 01:24:34,880 --> 01:24:42,880 Speaker 1: form a relationship with your makeup. Kirk Franklin had a 1363 01:24:42,920 --> 01:24:45,240 Speaker 1: book out one time, and I read this thing about it. 1364 01:24:45,400 --> 01:24:48,479 Speaker 1: He said, he was giving this analogy of when your 1365 01:24:48,560 --> 01:24:53,280 Speaker 1: car breaks down, when your car breaks down. If you're 1366 01:24:53,280 --> 01:24:57,160 Speaker 1: reaching the glove compartment, there as an owner's manual in there, 1367 01:24:57,960 --> 01:25:01,519 Speaker 1: and that owner's manual is put in there by the 1368 01:25:01,720 --> 01:25:08,200 Speaker 1: maker of the car. If you're driving a Ford, the 1369 01:25:08,400 --> 01:25:13,800 Speaker 1: book that you open up is from the Ford manufacturer 1370 01:25:14,360 --> 01:25:17,760 Speaker 1: to tell you how to troubleshoot the problem you're having 1371 01:25:17,880 --> 01:25:23,439 Speaker 1: with the Ford. If you are a Toyota, when you 1372 01:25:23,520 --> 01:25:26,320 Speaker 1: open up the glove compartment, the manual that's in the 1373 01:25:26,520 --> 01:25:33,080 Speaker 1: glove compartment is made by the people who manufacture Toyotas 1374 01:25:34,280 --> 01:25:37,920 Speaker 1: he said, that's how you troubleshoot a car. You refer 1375 01:25:38,080 --> 01:25:42,960 Speaker 1: back to the manual that was designed by the creator 1376 01:25:43,360 --> 01:25:47,640 Speaker 1: of the vehicle. So when I get in trouble as 1377 01:25:47,680 --> 01:25:52,439 Speaker 1: a Christian, I can troubleshoot my life by the manual 1378 01:25:52,560 --> 01:25:55,559 Speaker 1: that was put together by my creator, which is a Bible. 1379 01:25:57,000 --> 01:26:02,760 Speaker 1: But if you're a Muslim and creator is Allah, it's 1380 01:26:02,760 --> 01:26:06,400 Speaker 1: a Koran. Do you understand, It's still how you trouble 1381 01:26:06,439 --> 01:26:08,560 Speaker 1: shoot your life. But who am I to tell the 1382 01:26:08,680 --> 01:26:11,400 Speaker 1: other person that they make ain't right for them. It's 1383 01:26:11,439 --> 01:26:13,320 Speaker 1: only one God. It's whatever you call him. You can 1384 01:26:13,360 --> 01:26:15,200 Speaker 1: call him whatever you want to, But I'm telling you 1385 01:26:15,360 --> 01:26:17,639 Speaker 1: right now you need to have a relationship with God 1386 01:26:17,880 --> 01:26:20,360 Speaker 1: so you can trouble shoot your life. That's my closing 1387 01:26:20,439 --> 01:26:23,320 Speaker 1: remarks today. If you don't like that, would see you tomorrow. 1388 01:26:25,560 --> 01:26:28,080 Speaker 1: Have a great day. Talk to God. He'd love to 1389 01:26:28,160 --> 01:26:40,519 Speaker 1: hear from you. That's a fact too. For all Steve 1390 01:26:40,600 --> 01:26:44,280 Speaker 1: Harvey contests, no purchase necessary void where prohibited. 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