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Speaker 1: This show contains adult material and swearing. You have been warned.

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Speaker 1: I feel like you're like working for the pr foot

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Speaker 1: fetisures right now. I'm sold.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sold. That's train. I'm like, let me get

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Speaker 2: my foot out, suck my toes.

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Speaker 3: Around me.

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Speaker 2: I'm a savage.

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Speaker 1: Are you bored of modern dating? Meeting the same people

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Speaker 1: from the same apps in the same bar You've only

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Speaker 1: chosen because it's close to your house and you can

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Speaker 1: make your usual quick getaway. It's time to change the

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Speaker 1: narrative on how we find love. It's time to start

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Speaker 1: looking for love in all the wrong places. I'm going

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Speaker 1: on a wild dating adventure, only picking people who are

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Speaker 1: the total opposite of my type. And after twenty eight

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Speaker 1: of these dates in two months, will I find that

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Speaker 1: special someone? Or well, this experiment proved that I should

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Speaker 1: just give up on dating altogether. It's time to find out.

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Speaker 1: I'm Grace Campbell and this is twenty eight dates later. Hey, Grace,

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Speaker 1: hi Ross, how are you.

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Speaker 3: I'm good? I am very excited about this week because

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Speaker 3: you went on a date with someone who has a

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Speaker 3: foot fetish Like, tell me, like, where did you find him?

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Speaker 1: Honestly, what is my fucking life. I found him on

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Speaker 1: field and on his profile it said that he has

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Speaker 1: a foot fetti. Really yeah, And okay, what's your like

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Speaker 1: initial when you hear something? If you found out that

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Speaker 1: someone you know has a foot fetish, what do you think?

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't judge at all.

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Speaker 3: Like I'm intrigued by it, like and not an intrigued

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Speaker 3: in a way of like it's a novelty.

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Speaker 2: I think I'm kind of intrigued by.

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Speaker 3: It because I'm always trying to get my boyfriend to

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Speaker 3: give me a foot massatae and he's like.

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Speaker 2: No get away.

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Speaker 3: And I'm like, I wish you had a full fetish,

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Speaker 3: you know.

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Speaker 2: What I mean. If you're tired at night, you should

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Speaker 2: be like, look, just I keep my.

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Speaker 4: End of the bed.

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Speaker 2: You do your thing, although I'm not.

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Speaker 3: Really sure that that's what a full fetish person will

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Speaker 3: be doing. My football listen, I like, as long as

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Speaker 3: you're touching, and I think it is really well.

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Speaker 1: I think they like to massage fee. I think they

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Speaker 1: like to suck toes and stuff. I think maybe they

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Speaker 1: also like to sexualize feet, so it's maybe okay.

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Speaker 3: Well, I feel like, okay, I feel like he wouldn't

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Speaker 3: necessarily like me like I have been hiking for a

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Speaker 3: long time. I have a bion on one side. My

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Speaker 3: feet are like I've got big feet, Like, actually, maybe

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Speaker 3: they'd like that.

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Speaker 1: Well, this guy was really into hiking.

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Speaker 3: I did, actually, sorry, I did look at his profile

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Speaker 3: and I was just like, he is like a wholesome lad.

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Speaker 2: Yea his fast picture, he's scuba diving.

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Speaker 1: His second picture he looks like he's on a boat

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Speaker 1: and he's very.

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Speaker 2: Talk because he hunched over.

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Speaker 1: It, like, yeah, it is his head touching the room.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, he's six seven, he's six seven. And then he

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Speaker 2: has another photo that I have no idea what this is.

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Speaker 1: So he's done a test, right, and he's put the

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Speaker 1: screenshot of the results of his test, and it's basically

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Speaker 1: a test to see what his kinks are. And there

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Speaker 1: are loads of words here. I don't know, rigor exhibitionists.

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Speaker 1: He got hard percent for Voyer non monogamoust degrader one

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Speaker 1: hundred percent dominant, ninety percent experimentalist.

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Speaker 3: Say this, sorry, what's a brat tamer? That sounds like

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Speaker 3: my type?

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Speaker 2: Also a primal hunter, Like, what's what are you gonna do?

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Speaker 2: Dress you opposite deer?

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Speaker 1: Sorry? A brat tamer is what I'm looking for, So

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Speaker 1: he's making it clear there that he's looking for people

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Speaker 1: who are exploring their kinks. When I got there, he

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Speaker 1: I got there, So I didn't really get to soak

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Speaker 1: in how tall he was until later on.

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Speaker 2: But the first.

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Speaker 1: Thing I asked him about was what was it like

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Speaker 1: being so tall? You're six and seven?

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Speaker 5: I am, yes, God, I bet that gets you loads

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Speaker 5: of a bit of.

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Speaker 4: A tenter, quite a lot of facts. I would say,

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Speaker 4: I love format they do.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I feel like I wouldn't want to be any tolderman. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: I once matched with a girl who is four foot

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Speaker 5: eight on hinge. I didn't see when I.

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Speaker 4: Couldn't.

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Speaker 1: Oh, that would be like where on your body?

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Speaker 4: Maybe?

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Speaker 1: No way?

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Speaker 2: Where? Sorry? Where did he point to?

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Speaker 1: Like below his ribs?

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna I'm such a dirty mind. It's like where

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Speaker 2: did he point to his dick? So? Like, is he

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Speaker 2: to deal breaker for you?

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: So sorry? What height are you? Grace? I know you're

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Speaker 2: like what.

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Speaker 1: I'm yeah, yeah, So it's it's not a deal breaker.

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Speaker 1: I don't need to go out of a basketball player,

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Speaker 1: but I don't I would, I wouldn't want a boyfriend

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Speaker 1: who's shorter than me, you.

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Speaker 3: Know, yeah, God, like I suppose I'm five five eleven.

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Speaker 3: I've always gone it with guys who are told than

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Speaker 3: me but are the same. Yeah, I actually I've I've

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Speaker 3: actually sorry, I want to get to someone who's smaller

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Speaker 3: than me. Did you, Tom Hardy, if you're listening, what

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Speaker 3: I actually I did?

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Speaker 2: I did actually go out with someone who was smaller

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Speaker 2: than me. Yeah, by how much?

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Speaker 3: Oh? He was probably like I'm so I'm five five eleven,

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Speaker 3: he's probably five to seven. You're lying, No, No, I'm serious.

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Speaker 3: Yeah that's a mad difference. Yes, wow, And did you

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Speaker 3: and you didn't mind that?

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Speaker 2: No? Like he was I was in school.

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Speaker 3: He was really cool, So like I think I was

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Speaker 3: just like you know, when you're in school, you just

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Speaker 3: want to go out with the popular guys whatever.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, it didn't actually bother me at all. But

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Speaker 2: I think from then.

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Speaker 3: I've never gone out with someone who's who's smaller anyway, Like,

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Speaker 3: was there anything maybe at the day that you didn't like?

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Speaker 3: Because I'm sorry, but you seem you're like, oh, it's

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Speaker 3: really nice, but you don't seem.

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Speaker 2: Like I did.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I don't think like I could tell

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Speaker 1: yeah that he was attractive, and I feel like he

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Speaker 1: shags a lot. Really why because he told me, how

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Speaker 1: long have you been single?

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Speaker 4: About nine months? Now?

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Speaker 5: Like when I came out of my relationship, I was like,

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Speaker 5: went through a bit of a slusty period.

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Speaker 4: Just enjoying myself.

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Speaker 5: And then yeah, then had a bit of a haters

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Speaker 5: for a couple of months, and now I'm like, bash,

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Speaker 5: I bet yeah, I had quite a bit of fun

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Speaker 5: a few weeks ago, had a freesome with a girl

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Speaker 5: and her best mate.

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Speaker 4: That was super fun. Now it's just like living living

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Speaker 4: your life, living my best life. This was not me

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Speaker 4: like a couple of years ago.

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Speaker 2: Bless him. He's having he's having his slat period.

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Speaker 3: It's funny because like on other dates when guys have

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Speaker 3: bragged a bit off like this, I'm like, oh whatever,

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Speaker 3: But with him, I'm like, go you no, No.

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Speaker 2: I don't know why. He just seems like such a

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Speaker 2: nice guy because he had.

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Speaker 1: A sort of like very humble, like kind of nerdy energy.

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Speaker 1: Why don't you just see Yeah, so he was twenty eight,

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Speaker 1: So as me.

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Speaker 2: Jesus, I thought you were forty. Fuck off.

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Speaker 1: Somebody said to me the other day that I could

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Speaker 1: be sixty four.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, Grace, Oh my gosh. Yeah, so like yeah, eight,

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Speaker 2: like he's just living his best life.

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Speaker 1: He's just living his life, and so I feel he

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Speaker 1: just wants to like have fun and he's doing that.

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Speaker 1: But he seemed quite like communicative. He'd probably be one

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Speaker 1: of those guys, which also annoys me if he'd start

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Speaker 1: seeing someone them be like, by the way, I want

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Speaker 1: to say, I'm not looking for a relationship right now,

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Speaker 1: but I think he'd communicate that he wouldn't like lead someone.

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Speaker 3: On, So like, Okay, he's very open about like obviously

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Speaker 3: his fetishes and his sex life.

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Speaker 2: Was there anything that he was like like did he

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Speaker 2: ask you any questions? Like was he like this is

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Speaker 2: something I want to do? U?

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Speaker 1: No? No, because I think I was very much the

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Speaker 1: vanilla person in that situation, which you can relate to.

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Speaker 1: He was very much in his slot era and he

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Speaker 1: is shagging around. Do you date quite a lot?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because like you're having sex, like is.

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Speaker 4: It like more like I've got a very high sex drive,

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Speaker 4: so it's more for the sex. But I'm not into

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Speaker 4: like one night stands.

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Speaker 5: Right, Okay, Mostly they can be good, but mostly ship.

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Speaker 4: If you've got like kinks and fetishes, you're not.

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Speaker 1: Gonna dispose at the beginning.

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Speaker 4: Time, like trusting communication.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what are you?

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Speaker 5: I like a bit of lingerie massiveish and a bit

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Speaker 5: of foot fetish.

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Speaker 4: Really yeah.

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Speaker 5: I feel like some people get like proper wedded out

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Speaker 5: by it and be like, oh no, but why exactly?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't really understand that.

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Speaker 4: No, I don't.

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Speaker 5: But but then a lot of a lot of obviously

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Speaker 5: not everyone's the same, of course, but a lot of

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Speaker 5: women they never have their foot slicks whatever.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and then they love it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, I've got like amazing feet, so I'm always

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Speaker 1: very like show off my feet. My grandma says I

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Speaker 1: should have been a foot model. They and she was

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Speaker 1: right now.

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Speaker 2: He just came. Yeah, he was hard and you could

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Speaker 2: tell the boner.

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Speaker 3: I was waiting for you, like the whole conversation, just

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Speaker 3: to be like, I've got grafie until he can see them.

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Speaker 1: When he was like a lot of women don't realize

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Speaker 1: that they have a footberge until they get there.

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Speaker 2: He sucked.

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Speaker 1: I was like, I feel like you're like working for

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Speaker 1: the pr heat fetishes right now, I'm sold.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sold, let's try it.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, let me get.

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Speaker 2: My foot out, and he sucked my toes.

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Speaker 4: Back.

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Speaker 5: When I was like twenty one twenty two, I had

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Speaker 5: a bit of a sugar mama sit question.

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Speaker 4: Really very weird set up, right, this obviously been in life.

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Speaker 4: A twenty two year old lad.

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Speaker 5: I was like, yeah, why not had this woman take

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Speaker 5: me out for dinner by myself?

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Speaker 1: How old was she?

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Speaker 4: She was thirty eight.

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Speaker 1: How did you meet her?

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Speaker 4: Just some tinder?

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Speaker 5: And then after after a few weeks of it, it

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Speaker 5: was very like it wasn't anything long term. But after

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Speaker 1: I think the term for that is cuck where he's

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Speaker 2: God, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: I just feel so like naive, like I live under

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: But it's like that thing where you know, it's like

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Speaker 2: Isn't it funny here?

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Speaker 3: Like if you start dating someone and if they asked

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Speaker 3: No, Well, I think until really recently, like most women,

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Speaker 1: There's there's kind of no right or wrong way.

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Speaker 1: Um, no way, the thing is right, Like my dad

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Speaker 1: I actually don't like that. Do You'd let it?

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Speaker 1: And then you get older and you're like, actually, no,

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Speaker 5: Yes, I love a debrief afterwards after sex and like

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Speaker 1: It's very garassed.

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Speaker 4: Locker room.

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Speaker 1: No, I agree, tell me, but.

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Speaker 5: They didn't like that, or like they prefer me to

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Speaker 4: When you talk to your parents.

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Speaker 1: About oh yeah, huge bit of my stick is like

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Speaker 1: I have to say I got a bit ick when

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Speaker 3: Debrief, Yeah, like I'm going to send you Google for

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Speaker 3: him if you just feel it out and let me.

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Speaker 3: what do you enjoy all that? But like, I think

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Speaker 3: it was just how he worried it, like a debrief

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Garret Southgate being the England football team manager.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for explaining. I actually have no idea who he was,

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Speaker 2: did you not? No, No, I knowed who he was,

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Speaker 2: So like meeting everyone, how do you think that went?

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Speaker 2: You could have done better there? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: It's like the halftime like rids and loads like you

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Speaker 3: Crazy, Harry, Listen, you're pulling some some people out of

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Speaker 3: this bag. You're like a magician. You're like, I don't

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Speaker 1: Experience in the last few months while I was on tour,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and do you know what I As I said,

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Speaker 2: I'm living vicariously through you. So I'm totadly enjoying this.

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Speaker 3: And you're debriefing, I've got debrief in my head and

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Speaker 2: Thank you. That makes me feel super cheap.

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Speaker 4: I've got a date this evening.

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Speaker 2: I love that.

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Speaker 1: Date. Check the time, I've got another one. It's fine.

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Speaker 1: Got a busy day of.

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Speaker 2: Grace. Did you really have another date? I actually did?

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Speaker 1: Okay, oh my god, sorry, kind of different. I'm making

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's he's a player.

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Speaker 3: I'm like this man from the get go. He's like,

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Speaker 1: If you ask my dad what does Grace need, he'd

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Speaker 1: He just wasn't really like my kind of man, but

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Speaker 2: You picked the location.

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Speaker 1: I picked the location because it was really last minute,

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Speaker 1: so it's my fault, but I just there was too

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Speaker 2: Ick, especially, you know, I mean, if you're talking about

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Speaker 3: As I'm getting my feet out and he's fucking stay

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Speaker 1: Next time on twenty eight dates later. So when you're

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Speaker 3: When they then got a photo and it's with someone else,

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Speaker 4: Their X that is.

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Speaker 1: Just crop it just don't use it.

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Speaker 4: Wait, sorry you were dating an emoji.

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Speaker 2: I'm a Savage.

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