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Speaker 1: It is the straw Barry Lenna subject. I'm grown and

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Speaker 1: still having daddy issues. Dear Shirley and Uncle Steve. I

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Speaker 1: and now he and my mom fight all of the time.

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Speaker 1: I called my parents daily before I go to work,

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Speaker 1: and each day it's a struggle to talk to my dad.

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Speaker 1: He manages to twist every conversation into something negative. He

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Speaker 1: constantly tells me that he's old and dying. My mom

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Speaker 1: them through this. I have paid for counseling for him,

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Speaker 1: and he stopped going because he thinks his situation is helpless.

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Speaker 1: have changed since I moved away and got married. My

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Speaker 1: dad wasn't always like that. He was an intellectual, hard

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Speaker 1: not want to relocate. This is breaking my heart. What

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Speaker 1: but maybe they want to see your face. Sometimes, you know,

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Speaker 1: makes them feel better inside. Um, you can go for

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Speaker 1: a visit, takes some time off you and your husband,

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Speaker 1: or just you by yourself. Go sit with your parents,

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Speaker 1: because all you have been doing is living your life.

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Speaker 1: Like you said, you traveled around the world. You know,

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Speaker 1: them counseling and everything, but sometimes it's just not enough.

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Speaker 1: Your parents maybe you know, like you say, they're getting

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Speaker 1: I don't see that. I don't see that in this letter.

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Speaker 1: I see a situation that can be avoided. I see

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Speaker 1: an old man that's manipulative. Now here's what I see.

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Speaker 1: I'm having a hard time dealing with a situation with

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Speaker 1: love of my life right there. Should have kept going?

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Speaker 1: Should have kept going. You've been all around the world,

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Speaker 1: You should have kept going. Going back home ain't always

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Speaker 1: surely no this her mom and daddy. But I want

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Speaker 1: you to listen to the letter. Now, my dad's health

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Speaker 1: He manages to twist every conversation into something negative. Quick

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Speaker 1: But he gonna make you though, because he real manipulatively,

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Speaker 1: So watch this him. He twists every conversation into something.

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Speaker 1: He constantly says that I bandoned him and my mom

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Speaker 1: what we're doing. They want to see her face. No, Sureley,

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Speaker 1: He twisted everything up. Even we're talking about your mama.

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Speaker 1: that's what I want to get to now, said your wife.

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Speaker 1: Your wife is a bad mother. Mother is a bad wife.

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Speaker 1: He ain't working and he ain't saying nothing positive. That

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Speaker 1: his medication. He says, I've changed since I moved away

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Speaker 1: and got married. You did change when you got married.

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Speaker 1: You were supposed to see. Now they're using uh an

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Speaker 1: They've applied guilt to you, and guilt serves no person

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Speaker 1: What should I do? It's breaking your heart? But if

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Speaker 1: gotta move past that. You don't paid for counseling. He

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Speaker 1: quit going because he thinks his situation is hopeless. What what? What?

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Speaker 1: So you're gonna move back to town and do what?

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Speaker 1: I gonna do that to yourself? You've fin to burn

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Speaker 1: don't have to. They Christians. Let him keep praying. He

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Speaker 1: needs to go visit her parents. She doesn't have to

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Speaker 1: move there, Steve, just visit them, she said, moved back.

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Speaker 1: Just let it ain't about visitation. Hey, And he talked

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Speaker 1: what he tell her something negative. You didn't got married,

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Speaker 1: you didn't change. Now you supposed to, man, Stop letting

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Speaker 1: when somebody else look at it. Are you to moved

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Speaker 1: anybody else? Yeah, I'm something. I got out now. I

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Speaker 1: ain't got to prove of it. And Shirley, I really

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Speaker 1: and making him and the mother her responsibility they're not

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Speaker 1: invalids right there, don't need a car. I agree with

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Speaker 1: and nothing. It's not even about that. I just think sometimes, well,

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Speaker 1: It would just make her whole face light up to

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Speaker 1: And sometimes that's what it is. She would never say

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Speaker 1: not ignoring the letter. I'm she said, I'm emostly draineding

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Speaker 1: at this point, I'm thinking about moving back home to help.

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Speaker 1: I don't think she should move back. I never said that.

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Speaker 1: I think she should go for a visit to check it,

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Speaker 1: check on shout, visit one night. Yes, sometimes phone calls

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Speaker 1: don't do it. You know, you think you get it.

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Speaker 1: You get in somebody's face, manipulating you and using guilt

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Speaker 1: You're gonna want to be on that plane so bad.

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Speaker 1: I want to be back on their phone. And that's okay,

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Speaker 1: But at least you'll know for herself, Am daddy. Haven't

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Speaker 1: you heard that expression? I just want to put my

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Speaker 1: saying it's her. Damn daddy, Have I heard that saying?

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Speaker 1: I just see it? I just said, yeah, I heard

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Speaker 1: It's okay, we can agree to disagree. It's all right.

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Speaker 1: We don't stay long. Twenty four hours. No, that's too long.

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Speaker 1: That's too long for me. I wish I wish Jay

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Speaker 1: the cantankerous dad, Steve in this letter that alright, guys,

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Speaker 1: we do have to go. I think we'll have a

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Speaker 1: re enactment when we come back. It. I wonder who

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Speaker 1: I'm all. In the meantime, you can email us or Instagram.

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Speaker 1: That's your thoughts on today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: you know? A re enactment? The letter today the subject

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Speaker 1: I'm grown and still having daddy issues. Right after this

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Speaker 1: the Strawberry Letter today, the subject was I'm grown and

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Speaker 1: still having Daddy issues, Steve, and it was about a

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Speaker 1: deal with her family, her mom and dad. To be exact,

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Speaker 1: she's left home a long time ago, travel the world,

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Speaker 1: really negative and he's saying that, you know, the daughter's changed,

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Speaker 1: and all of that and she doesn't know what to

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Speaker 1: She calls them every night, and her husband doesn't want

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Speaker 1: much the recap. Who who I'm well, yeah, the daughter,

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Speaker 1: you're the daughter, of course, your ring ring ring ring? Yo?

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Speaker 1: Hey hey, daddy, what's going on? How you doing well

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Speaker 1: here yourself? How you doing today? Well? How was I

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Speaker 1: doing yesterday? Baby? He was? He was doing good? I

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Speaker 1: am I ain ever doing good? What you mean by

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Speaker 1: you're not never doing? You ain't doing good. I'm hurt

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Speaker 1: all the time. I got sick, I had lot, my job,

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Speaker 1: ain't nothing going right. I ain't like to count for

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Speaker 1: You're retired, No, you're there right, I'm tired. No, I

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Speaker 1: didn't say you was tired. I said you're retired. I

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Speaker 1: said I'm tired. But what's your time? You got money?

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Speaker 1: I'll send you money. I call you every day. Anything.

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Speaker 1: Oh you call that money? Huh? How much you need that?

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Speaker 1: Whatever you want? I get it for you obviously. What

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Speaker 1: what what I need? You ain't sent you how much

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Speaker 1: you need? Just tell me I write to check daddy.

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Speaker 1: What you need? Just tell me me? And your mom

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Speaker 1: need least in out of the month. What what? What

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Speaker 1: hold on? That? It? The connection here is really bad.

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Speaker 1: It sounded like you said ten thousand. No, you didn't

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Speaker 1: say that, And why can't I say that? Well, you

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Speaker 1: could say it, well that what I said, but obviously

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Speaker 1: you got a problem with that. I had no problem

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Speaker 1: with what you need ten thousand dollars? But what's that for?

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Speaker 1: What you're gonna buy with it? I got this hold

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Speaker 1: convocation once you We ain't got money for that. We

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Speaker 1: ain't never been on vacation nowhere. The MoMA won't go

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Speaker 1: on the cruise, turned down the monther where you don't

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Speaker 1: want to help us, don't then don't help us. I'm

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Speaker 1: helping you. But I've respected you all my life. That it,

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Speaker 1: but you ain't. I've never cussed you, but you're pushing it.

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Speaker 1: Not that now you're talking about cussing your father. I

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Speaker 1: would never cut you. I just said you was pushing

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Speaker 1: it towards cussing. I didn't say I was gonna cuss you.

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Speaker 1: Lemit tell you. Let me tell you something about your father.

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Speaker 1: I've only cussed you out about fifteen times. That's all

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Speaker 1: what we are about five times? About fifty times you

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Speaker 1: cuss me out? And how old is you know? I'm

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Speaker 1: forty three, daddy, forty three. That's just one cuss in

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Speaker 1: the year and and sometime twice. What it all the

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Speaker 1: doom and gloom come from. I don't know what doom

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Speaker 1: and gloom come from. It just came in here. I

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Speaker 1: can't make it rain. Why are you so mean to me?

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Speaker 1: I'm helping you. Ask me where some damn doom and

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Speaker 1: gloom for you? Donna bring me for that, folk too.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna blame me for that too. I don't know

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Speaker 1: where dum and gloom come from. Look at the bright side, daddy,

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Speaker 1: ain't no damn bright side bright side? You just said

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Speaker 1: we're doing and gloomy here? Where you see bright in that?

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Speaker 1: But you don't. You don't have to see it. Looks

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Speaker 1: like the bad part of everything that you're so damn

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Speaker 1: stupid good a K B E KB day and night

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Speaker 1: at the same time, bad side of everything, damn daddy.

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Speaker 1: Oh you're custom. No no, I wasn't cuss. No no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: no no no no. Now you didn't custom your father

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Speaker 1: and we christ did it. No daddy. I did not

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Speaker 1: cuss you. I said damn daddy. I didn't say damn you, daddy.

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Speaker 1: That's cussing. I just said damn. Well, listening to this

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Speaker 1: right here said were hurting each other. Uh, I hope

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Speaker 1: you have a stroke for what I do. What I mean,

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Speaker 1: don't move back, girl, that I don't even know where

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Speaker 1: you get them Trump tendencies from, because you didn't have

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Speaker 1: when I was living at that what you call me

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Speaker 1: Trump tendencies. I didn't vote for no damn Trump. I

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Speaker 1: didn't say acting like it. If I was acting like

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Speaker 1: I'll be rich, I wouldn't need no damn help. You're ungrateful. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's what I see. That we're wrong. I should have

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Speaker 1: I should have put you in Foster Kill. That's what

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Speaker 1: I wanted to do. Your mama made you keep us,

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Speaker 1: and then your mama we don't talk to me, and

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Speaker 1: letting you come out here. Now hear you look at

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Speaker 1: your mama wanted to put you in Foster Kill. Well,

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Speaker 1: I know the Fosters that live down the street, their

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Speaker 1: beautiful people, Daddy. That what I wanted to do. You know,

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Speaker 1: but you were going to Foster care. You thought they

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Speaker 1: called their lad name were froster. Well, the problem is this.

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Speaker 1: You want me to come home, and I can't come home.

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Speaker 1: I can send money and I can call and check

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Speaker 1: on you. Right now I'm living. You can't come see

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Speaker 1: about your mom and your daddy. Not right now, Daddy,

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Speaker 1: I got a husband. See right there, see you right there?

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Speaker 1: When you got in trouble, who come up to the school?

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Speaker 1: You did? Did not go on there? Now I'm in trouble.

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Speaker 1: You can't come to the house. What the hell going on?

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Speaker 1: Said I wouldn't come, And I just said I didn't

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Speaker 1: come right now. You ain't dying in the mar Daddy.

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Speaker 1: I was almost dead to mother. Go girl, you solid

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Speaker 1: metals in our head. You wouldn't know almost Dad, you

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Speaker 1: did that dead ideas you think? Wrong with you? Well,

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Speaker 1: I guess going and let the Lord take me on home.

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Speaker 1: You don't sorry for you? Hope, I hope I wake

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Speaker 1: up when I lay down. I tell you what Daddy

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Speaker 1: called me when the party over they had to go. Daddy,

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Speaker 1: am out of here. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show.