WEBVTT - Ep35: P*ssy Is All You Get feat BK Chat 0:00:00.240 --> 0:00:06.000 Alright, let's maybe horsion, but let's rock him round, all right? 0:00:06.480 --> 0:00:09.319 Is this recording? We live? We live, hang on the 0:00:09.360 --> 0:00:24.920 song Get some money, man, I get some money. Let's 0:00:25.000 --> 0:00:31.120 go hold on, let us ride. What what? What? What? 0:00:35.000 --> 0:00:38.040 Shout out to Cardi B. Yeah, that's that's that's a 0:00:38.120 --> 0:00:42.160 real come up story. Man. That's a whole different chapter 0:00:42.320 --> 0:00:44.200 when it comes to like, you know what I'm saying 0:00:44.200 --> 0:00:47.479 these scripts out here, You know what I'm saying from something, 0:00:48.240 --> 0:00:51.680 it's a whole little different shout out to Cardi. Well, 0:00:51.720 --> 0:00:53.400 let's go ahead and get into an intro and then 0:00:53.400 --> 0:00:56.480 we gonna go ahead and talk about the strong. Welcome 0:00:56.520 --> 0:00:59.680 to you another episode of Horrible Decisions. This is the 0:00:59.760 --> 0:01:03.840 girl ANYB. And I'm Wheezy's motherfucking late. Y'all know we've 0:01:03.840 --> 0:01:07.840 been talking about these late motherfucker's and she's late, you 0:01:07.959 --> 0:01:10.800 know Jesus, so she will be joining us in the 0:01:10.800 --> 0:01:14.320 studio any motherfucking second now, um, and we have our 0:01:14.360 --> 0:01:17.200 lovely guests in the d You want to go ahead 0:01:17.200 --> 0:01:19.720 and let our listeners know y'all names, what y'all rep 0:01:19.840 --> 0:01:24.840 and what platform you guys are ladies? First, baby, I'm Alyssa. Um, 0:01:24.880 --> 0:01:29.200 we're coming from black Chat and oistly okay, originally a 0:01:29.280 --> 0:01:31.800 show from London. Um, it's like at the base show. 0:01:31.880 --> 0:01:33.840 So it's our online YouTube show and we give a 0:01:33.880 --> 0:01:36.080 topic and girls and boys just go at it back 0:01:36.120 --> 0:01:40.200 and forth. So now the ship we like and my 0:01:40.280 --> 0:01:43.200 name my name Fleet. You know, some people like to 0:01:43.240 --> 0:01:45.880 call me about my government code. Yo. I want you 0:01:46.000 --> 0:01:50.720 to know he ain't either. Well he's saying here, trying 0:01:50.760 --> 0:01:54.880 to sound off and ship he ain't ship, y'all. Hey, listen, 0:01:54.960 --> 0:01:57.280 I'm not perfect, but you know it all comes from 0:01:57.280 --> 0:01:59.400 a good place. Man, But I'm trying not to make 0:01:59.440 --> 0:02:04.960 some horrible decisions. They're not they're not bad decisions, you know, 0:02:05.080 --> 0:02:11.000 they're not bad. Always lead to something good sometimes always always. 0:02:11.000 --> 0:02:13.320 So we were talking about I want to again shout 0:02:13.320 --> 0:02:16.600 out CARDIV. She made the number one on Billboard, and 0:02:17.919 --> 0:02:20.880 I saw one of the topics on y'all shows, you guys, 0:02:21.000 --> 0:02:23.600 UM debated strippers and if they were wife a bull 0:02:23.639 --> 0:02:25.000 and if you could look at them a certain way 0:02:25.040 --> 0:02:27.880 and just kind of the stigma behind women whose trip 0:02:28.240 --> 0:02:30.919 and she talks about apparently how she was a stripper, 0:02:30.960 --> 0:02:33.680 how she came from being a stripper to now you 0:02:33.720 --> 0:02:37.160 know a number one recording on its artist. Absolutely, So 0:02:37.200 --> 0:02:41.000 what are you guys thoughts on women in this strip 0:02:41.040 --> 0:02:45.400 club and women who choose that profession. Are they looked 0:02:45.400 --> 0:02:48.920 at any specific way? What was the the opinion you 0:02:48.960 --> 0:02:51.440 had on that. I personally don't think there's nothing wrong 0:02:51.480 --> 0:02:53.840 with somebody who's a stripper. I said on the show 0:02:53.919 --> 0:02:57.040 that if my life came to it financially, if my 0:02:57.080 --> 0:02:59.280 life came down to it financially, I wouldn't mind being 0:02:59.320 --> 0:03:02.239 a stripper. What does that mean? You wouldn't mind being 0:03:02.280 --> 0:03:04.720 a stripper? So, like, if I need the money under 0:03:04.760 --> 0:03:09.120 certain circumstances, and like's gonna make a clap, right, Like 0:03:09.280 --> 0:03:11.079 my mom's not helping me, I don't nobody's giving me 0:03:11.120 --> 0:03:13.560 any type of money. I would, I would consider it. 0:03:13.760 --> 0:03:15.440 I don't think there's nothing wrong with But yeah, I 0:03:15.480 --> 0:03:18.160 don't think there's nothing wrong because you're still real hesitant 0:03:18.200 --> 0:03:20.840 when you even talk about it. It's not like, yeah, 0:03:20.880 --> 0:03:22.720 I'm gonna go to nursing school and me in our end, 0:03:22.880 --> 0:03:25.160 Like you're still kind of hesitantly. I mean, I'll be 0:03:25.240 --> 0:03:28.080 a stripper if I have to write. Even how you 0:03:28.160 --> 0:03:30.760 talk about it, you still kind of have you know, 0:03:30.840 --> 0:03:34.040 kind of a backdround to what it means. So is 0:03:34.080 --> 0:03:36.160 it because of how other people would look at you? 0:03:36.520 --> 0:03:39.760 Or what's the hesitant in your voice as to why 0:03:39.880 --> 0:03:42.240 you may not want to be it? No, I don't 0:03:42.240 --> 0:03:44.120 care how people look at me. That doesn't bother me. 0:03:44.480 --> 0:03:47.600 I think, um, the backside of it, like they're they're 0:03:47.600 --> 0:03:51.160 like worried about their safe at all times, like being disrespected. Um, 0:03:51.200 --> 0:03:52.640 I don't want a man to feel like, because I'm 0:03:52.640 --> 0:03:55.640 a stripper, you can degrade me, like disrespect me. But 0:03:55.720 --> 0:03:57.960 I feel like that's part of the culture. Unfortunately, it 0:03:58.080 --> 0:03:59.680 is part of the strip. And we got a man 0:03:59.760 --> 0:04:02.640 in here. Like, do you feel like men look at 0:04:02.760 --> 0:04:05.080 females in the trip differently? I think men look as 0:04:05.480 --> 0:04:09.440 at hors. Definitely, if you out here, put out here 0:04:09.520 --> 0:04:12.160 putting miledge on your COUCHI and man gonna look at 0:04:12.160 --> 0:04:14.680 you some type of way. You know what I'm saying? Okay? 0:04:14.680 --> 0:04:17.040 And is that only if you out here? I got 0:04:17.120 --> 0:04:19.440 sleeping with the same crew, Because if a man goes 0:04:19.440 --> 0:04:21.320 on to a girl's Instagram or meets a girl in 0:04:21.320 --> 0:04:24.080 the street, he don't know what miledge is on her pussy. 0:04:24.160 --> 0:04:27.719 Oh you know, the streets always be talking, always gonna 0:04:27.720 --> 0:04:34.200 come out some holes, and nobody knows any nigga that 0:04:34.279 --> 0:04:36.800 sees as shure he would like listen, I know Hosy 0:04:36.800 --> 0:04:40.080 are married right now. I ain't gonna hold you. They've 0:04:40.120 --> 0:04:42.920 been practiced for a long time. You know what I'm saying, 0:04:43.080 --> 0:04:45.880 God with the right nigger, Like, goddamn you that juices 0:04:45.920 --> 0:04:48.320 for real. You know what I'm saying. So like that's 0:04:48.160 --> 0:04:50.480 a that's a whole different hole. You know what I'm saying, 0:04:50.560 --> 0:04:53.040 category of things. But Nick is always gonna talk the streets, 0:04:53.040 --> 0:04:56.360 always talk. You're gonna hear it happen. What's her name? 0:04:57.000 --> 0:05:01.800 Um On girls, Kanye West? And you know what I'm saying, Like, 0:05:01.839 --> 0:05:08.800 it's always somebody's different situation. She's already famous, so it's 0:05:08.880 --> 0:05:13.320 gone whether you are in a bigger position or niggas 0:05:13.279 --> 0:05:15.400 is petty, man, Come on this. We live in an 0:05:15.440 --> 0:05:17.839 era full of petty niggas right now. If you're out 0:05:17.839 --> 0:05:21.919 here smashing the team and smashing anybody, nigga's gonna let 0:05:22.000 --> 0:05:25.560 niggas know. Oh you baha, Okay, all right, we was 0:05:25.600 --> 0:05:28.680 with her last week. Okay, we hope you're uncovering that, 0:05:29.160 --> 0:05:31.240 especially if you were good niggas gonna try to look 0:05:31.240 --> 0:05:33.160 out for you. If he was a whole nigga, they're 0:05:33.160 --> 0:05:35.000 gonna let you ride out. Fine, So here's my thing. 0:05:35.120 --> 0:05:38.320 At any point, does a man sit here and just 0:05:38.400 --> 0:05:46.320 be like, nigga, mind your business like? So? Do you 0:05:46.440 --> 0:05:48.680 not sit here and as a man be like? Okay? 0:05:48.800 --> 0:05:50.760 She put everybody like, when do you When do you 0:05:50.839 --> 0:05:52.640 guys just sit here and not give a funk about 0:05:52.880 --> 0:05:55.600 what all these other men think they want to be. 0:05:56.440 --> 0:05:58.400 We're not knocking that you could be. You could choose 0:05:58.440 --> 0:06:00.440 not if you bring it up in his face, you can. 0:06:01.240 --> 0:06:03.039 If a nigga brings up to your face, that means 0:06:03.080 --> 0:06:04.839 he got love for you and he's just trying to 0:06:04.839 --> 0:06:06.960 make sure that you're not You don't you don't go 0:06:07.000 --> 0:06:09.720 in the wrong direction. He's just trying to make sure 0:06:09.760 --> 0:06:12.440 you're making the right decisions for your life. You know 0:06:12.440 --> 0:06:14.880 what I'm saying. But but you know, if the nigga 0:06:14.920 --> 0:06:17.559 don't tell you, that means you don't like you. Go ahead? 0:06:17.640 --> 0:06:19.680 Do you think like I listen, if I see my 0:06:19.800 --> 0:06:23.120 bro hanging around with somebody that got extra miledge on 0:06:23.120 --> 0:06:24.680 this ship, I'm like your family. I don't know how 0:06:24.680 --> 0:06:31.120 long if he's extra knowledge. If he's happy, well he 0:06:31.640 --> 0:06:34.080 makes so happy because you know, people do change, you 0:06:34.080 --> 0:06:37.080 know what I'm saying. So, but as females, we're supposed 0:06:37.120 --> 0:06:40.159 to accept that the nigga have been through man, we 0:06:40.240 --> 0:06:43.159 got We're not supposed to care about your We we 0:06:43.160 --> 0:06:49.880 was here first. Wait what we was here? Even here 0:06:49.960 --> 0:06:54.280 at the same time. I know what you're talking about. Confused, 0:06:54.360 --> 0:06:57.200 I'm being a little bit sexist, but you know what 0:06:57.200 --> 0:07:01.520 I'm saying, completely double standing. Just say hold on, hold up, 0:07:01.560 --> 0:07:03.880 just saying your Instagram names. So everybody who watches this 0:07:03.920 --> 0:07:06.719 ship could come at your dumbass, but they say coming 0:07:06.760 --> 0:07:11.680 at me. Can you say some dumbashi? No, no, niggas, 0:07:11.720 --> 0:07:14.560 I keep it at buck fifty. Niggas was definitely here first, 0:07:14.840 --> 0:07:19.840 and we definitely do live because it's written like the 0:07:19.960 --> 0:07:24.480 book where scripture says Adam was created first and then 0:07:24.840 --> 0:07:34.640 and then some niggas was here first, exactly first, right. 0:07:35.760 --> 0:07:38.240 I I don't know about all of that. I don't 0:07:38.240 --> 0:07:40.040 know about all of that, but this is what I know. 0:07:40.240 --> 0:07:42.480 You know what I'm saying. A man was made first, 0:07:42.560 --> 0:07:44.600 and then after that came a woman. You know what 0:07:44.640 --> 0:07:46.840 I'm saying. So obviously we're gonna live in a double 0:07:46.920 --> 0:07:52.600 standard world, or I believe an equal opportunity. I believe 0:07:53.720 --> 0:07:56.800 equal opportunity, but I was living on a line of 0:07:56.840 --> 0:07:59.960 double standards. You can't talk about equal opportunity, not less. 0:08:00.240 --> 0:08:01.960 I was raised by a single parent, you know what 0:08:01.960 --> 0:08:04.320 I'm saying. My mom was a single parent, So if 0:08:04.360 --> 0:08:07.640 she didn't have equal opportunity, I don't think she will 0:08:07.720 --> 0:08:10.880 be in a position to you know, raise or provide 0:08:10.880 --> 0:08:13.480 forward financially because my pops. You know what I'm saying. 0:08:13.200 --> 0:08:16.000 It's like rolling stone. So I definitely do believe it, 0:08:16.360 --> 0:08:21.280 but it's always that meant. But I'm just saying, like, 0:08:21.920 --> 0:08:24.040 we just live in a double standard, you know what 0:08:24.040 --> 0:08:26.400 I'm saying, because we created differently for different purposes. You 0:08:26.440 --> 0:08:27.760 know what I'm saying. That's that's how I look at it. 0:08:27.760 --> 0:08:29.800 That's just my perspective, you know. So I ain't gonna 0:08:31.560 --> 0:08:35.360 real quick, real quick, how I just think of him. 0:08:35.720 --> 0:08:37.760 So I'm in school right now, and I love the 0:08:37.800 --> 0:08:40.200 classes where I get to write an answer because I 0:08:40.200 --> 0:08:42.240 feel like I could write myself in circles to where 0:08:42.280 --> 0:08:44.240 the professor may think I know what I'm talking about. 0:08:44.640 --> 0:08:47.800 That's you, alright, that's what you just did. You just 0:08:47.840 --> 0:08:49.440 did a whole bunch of talking to where we think 0:08:49.440 --> 0:08:53.520 we feel you, but we don't know. But it's cool. 0:08:53.559 --> 0:08:55.400 It's cool because that's what you know. But it's cool though, 0:08:55.360 --> 0:08:57.920 because like we always gona not gonna see all the 0:08:57.920 --> 0:09:00.960 eyes of Venus versus Mars things really that we have, 0:09:01.080 --> 0:09:08.480 you know, right, So we're gonna go ahead and get 0:09:08.480 --> 0:09:12.040 into the homemail for this episode, and then we're gonna 0:09:12.040 --> 0:09:16.440 get into the kink and hopefully were these year right now? Yes, Um, 0:09:16.480 --> 0:09:19.160 if you guys want to go ahead and send us homemail, 0:09:19.520 --> 0:09:23.640 you can send us um your letters, your questions at 0:09:23.640 --> 0:09:26.720 Horrible Decisions at gmail dot com, or send us some 0:09:26.800 --> 0:09:28.800 d M because y'all love d M s and this 0:09:28.840 --> 0:09:32.120 one is out of our d M s, so it says, Hi, guys, 0:09:32.240 --> 0:09:35.600 I have a question. My old best friend as a guy, 0:09:36.080 --> 0:09:38.080 and I was so in love with him from middle 0:09:38.080 --> 0:09:41.360 school to college. Anyways, we hooked up a few times, 0:09:41.360 --> 0:09:43.760 but it was always on some friendship I guess, friends 0:09:43.760 --> 0:09:46.960 with benefits I don't know. Fast forward to present. He 0:09:47.120 --> 0:09:50.640 is getting married in two months and he came over 0:09:50.800 --> 0:09:55.439 last week for my monthly kick back. Yeah. Wait, let 0:09:55.480 --> 0:09:58.280 me finish let me finish. He told me that it 0:09:58.360 --> 0:10:01.760 should have been me that he is married, but he 0:10:01.800 --> 0:10:04.840 said I didn't want his ask, but I do well 0:10:04.880 --> 0:10:07.160 I did before his fiance asked me to be in 0:10:07.200 --> 0:10:11.840 their wedding, right trifling. I absolutely know that we can't 0:10:11.840 --> 0:10:14.120 be together because he's pretty much a married man now. 0:10:14.440 --> 0:10:16.800 But how can I be more flirty? Because I thought 0:10:16.840 --> 0:10:18.840 I was giving him signs that I wanted him, but 0:10:18.920 --> 0:10:21.560 I guess they weren't strong enough. Guys tell me all 0:10:21.559 --> 0:10:24.400 the time, I am too shy. I just want them 0:10:24.440 --> 0:10:28.240 to come to me first. Help love you guys, by 0:10:28.320 --> 0:10:34.760 the way, I'm not gonna say your name that definitely 0:10:34.960 --> 0:10:37.720 don't know it wasn't damn you like the second guess 0:10:37.760 --> 0:10:49.600 that be thinking about like no, it made me um, 0:10:49.640 --> 0:10:51.880 But I feel like this is kind of a question. 0:10:52.320 --> 0:10:54.360 I guess we can get it to her and then 0:10:54.360 --> 0:10:56.880 more so talk about how you're friends with guys or 0:10:56.960 --> 0:10:59.319 girls that you may have feelings for, and how you 0:10:59.640 --> 0:11:02.280 let it be known without just staying in a friend 0:11:02.440 --> 0:11:07.400 zone the whole time for her, right, she's now gonna 0:11:07.440 --> 0:11:09.920 be a part of the wedding, so I think her 0:11:09.960 --> 0:11:12.480 trying to come up with ways to flirt with him more. 0:11:13.000 --> 0:11:16.360 I don't know. I don't understand how that's going to help, 0:11:16.400 --> 0:11:20.319 because I feel like she just needs to she needs 0:11:20.360 --> 0:11:22.320 to tell him to cancel that wedding, Like, just cancel 0:11:22.360 --> 0:11:25.240 the whole ship. You're gonna make him get married to 0:11:25.280 --> 0:11:27.200 this girl that he's not happy with, and then you're 0:11:27.200 --> 0:11:29.800 gonna look a hypocrite because he attended the wedding. But 0:11:30.280 --> 0:11:33.080 it was the side check the whole time, right, So 0:11:33.120 --> 0:11:34.880 I feel like she should like, I mean, to me, 0:11:34.960 --> 0:11:37.120 if he's wedding, I don't know how true it is, 0:11:37.160 --> 0:11:39.679 of course, but he said you're the one I should 0:11:39.720 --> 0:11:42.520 be marrying. That's the movie type ship. Like to me 0:11:42.600 --> 0:11:45.200 if he said this, like maybe you should go and 0:11:45.600 --> 0:11:50.320 walk down the aisle. No, you shouldn't get married, and 0:11:50.800 --> 0:11:52.600 he's settling like a part of him is just like, well, 0:11:52.640 --> 0:11:55.160 I didn't get you, but this girl likes why not? 0:11:55.200 --> 0:11:58.600 Just like that? I feel like niggas lie to niggas, nigga, 0:12:01.440 --> 0:12:04.360 but you know why, niggas be I'm listening because you're 0:12:07.280 --> 0:12:11.000 the truth never works for us. The truth never works. Listen, 0:12:11.040 --> 0:12:12.839 I'll be trying to be the truth. I tell I'm 0:12:12.840 --> 0:12:15.360 telling you all the truth right now. You know what 0:12:15.400 --> 0:12:18.160 I'm saying, So I'll be trying the best. Um. But 0:12:18.240 --> 0:12:20.719 it's just just the way you know the planet in 0:12:20.720 --> 0:12:23.800 the university. You think it's possible that this her best 0:12:23.880 --> 0:12:26.840 friend is just saying that to make her feel better. Man, 0:12:26.920 --> 0:12:29.520 it sounds like a sticky situation. Man. I feel like 0:12:29.520 --> 0:12:32.720 if they because it could be some feelings. If you 0:12:32.800 --> 0:12:35.400 can't come up, you can't come up and say, yo, 0:12:35.640 --> 0:12:37.520 you're the one I should be married. When you don't 0:12:37.640 --> 0:12:39.760 put it down payment now and ago, you don't walk 0:12:39.800 --> 0:12:45.160 down the hour dress on her, everything you can't do 0:12:45.640 --> 0:12:48.840 I mean, I mean, I would have nothing if he 0:12:48.960 --> 0:12:51.160 did that, if he really loved this girl that he's 0:12:51.200 --> 0:12:54.280 talking about. Like listen, man, you you will, you will 0:12:54.320 --> 0:12:57.000 go to the moon to come right back for But 0:12:57.400 --> 0:13:00.680 you know what I'm saying, But that's just sticky, crazy situation. 0:13:00.720 --> 0:13:03.120 Somebody needs to write a book because she needs that 0:13:03.160 --> 0:13:05.240 needs to be sold, man, not to be told that 0:13:05.240 --> 0:13:08.280 should be sold. She should just either talk to him 0:13:08.320 --> 0:13:11.320 like say, yo, you don't go through with this, or 0:13:11.360 --> 0:13:13.400 she just needs to get the funk out the wedding, 0:13:13.480 --> 0:13:15.599 like just say I can't do this. I agree, I 0:13:15.600 --> 0:13:17.000 don't think she should be a part of it. At 0:13:17.040 --> 0:13:20.080 this point, I feel I feel sorry for because they 0:13:20.400 --> 0:13:24.480 sorry for the wife he's married. Niggas is dirty out here, man. 0:13:24.600 --> 0:13:26.600 And if they have her in the wedding, like let's 0:13:26.600 --> 0:13:28.640 say she's like something important like maide of honor, like 0:13:28.640 --> 0:13:30.520 a bridesman, like imagine they look at her as like 0:13:30.559 --> 0:13:34.480 a future godmother for like the child or something like yeah, man, 0:13:35.360 --> 0:13:38.920 my godmother and my stepmother, like right, right right. And 0:13:38.960 --> 0:13:41.040 the weirdest thing about it is like we're living in 0:13:41.120 --> 0:13:45.320 a time where a lot of us black men, you know, 0:13:45.920 --> 0:13:55.040 a lot of you already called it, but right now, 0:13:55.360 --> 0:13:58.200 like you know, ever since we had Kobe, we have Melo, 0:13:58.440 --> 0:14:02.080 we have it's a lot of niggs out here. This 0:14:02.080 --> 0:14:04.559 is getting caught slipping, making us look bad. But I 0:14:04.600 --> 0:14:06.560 ain't gonna hold you. I was I was dating. I 0:14:06.640 --> 0:14:09.679 was dating the Iranian chick, and the whole time we 0:14:09.679 --> 0:14:12.400 were daming, she was just skeptical, like thinking I was 0:14:12.520 --> 0:14:15.280 after the whole Kobe situation, she thought I was going 0:14:15.320 --> 0:14:17.560 to cheat on har someh. So she had like a 0:14:17.679 --> 0:14:22.400 very like insecure issue about you know, black men being cheated, 0:14:22.560 --> 0:14:24.160 you know what I'm saying, And I kind of hurt 0:14:24.160 --> 0:14:25.680 my heart, because you know, I ain't really the type 0:14:25.680 --> 0:14:28.520 to be doing all of that. You know, I don't 0:14:28.560 --> 0:14:31.360 believe you. I don't know why. It's kind of hard. 0:14:31.440 --> 0:14:33.600 It's kind of hard, but it's definitely the truth. I 0:14:33.640 --> 0:14:47.080 bet you if I lied, you definitely believe me. But Yeahsion, 0:14:49.160 --> 0:14:53.200 I hope you make a hard decision this morning. Well, y'all, 0:14:53.280 --> 0:15:01.240 guess who just came in studio? Finally people in here? Yeah, 0:15:01.280 --> 0:15:07.360 no's yourself. You're late. We're just now about to segue 0:15:07.400 --> 0:15:10.320 into the kink of the week. Dude, I'm so fucked up. 0:15:10.360 --> 0:15:12.280 She's so hungover. Guys, it's not even allow to you. 0:15:12.360 --> 0:15:16.600 I did a lot of drinking and other things, horrible 0:15:16.760 --> 0:15:19.960 decisions things I want to make you fun if I 0:15:19.960 --> 0:15:28.560 didn't throw up goddamn place. I've been watching you guys 0:15:28.640 --> 0:15:30.440 this morning like that was my homework. It was in 0:15:30.480 --> 0:15:32.520 between me leaning over to the trash can and then 0:15:32.560 --> 0:15:40.240 having your yeah, girl, okay, catch me up. So we 0:15:40.320 --> 0:15:44.920 just went through the you know what, I need to 0:15:44.960 --> 0:15:47.800 play this voice out. I'm so you know, I've been 0:15:47.840 --> 0:15:50.720 trying to really make this relationship. You see how she 0:15:50.840 --> 0:15:56.800 just coming and just this dick got this voice. I 0:15:56.920 --> 0:15:58.360 just can't wait for you to hear this, because this 0:15:58.440 --> 0:16:00.760 is how bullshit it is. Wait. Was in an open 0:16:00.800 --> 0:16:03.360 relationship and like, I haven't been doing as much as 0:16:03.400 --> 0:16:04.840 I should be on the other side with other man, 0:16:04.920 --> 0:16:06.840 I've been kind of nervous to do it and feeling guilty. 0:16:07.040 --> 0:16:08.800 So I came. My name was his wife Win last night, 0:16:09.480 --> 0:16:11.720 talked to him for twenty minutes. I swear to god, 0:16:11.920 --> 0:16:14.040 he calls me. My phone was on silent. This is 0:16:14.080 --> 0:16:17.200 the message he left me at five. He was thinking 0:16:17.240 --> 0:16:23.280 about you. Oh you get the name out. Damn. I'm 0:16:23.320 --> 0:16:27.720 like locked out of my friend department. Um, if I 0:16:27.760 --> 0:16:30.480 can crash on the couch like a hallway or something, 0:16:30.640 --> 0:16:38.000 that'd be great. And this is this is what yourway. 0:16:38.120 --> 0:16:41.720 No no no, no, no, because no time time out, time 0:16:41.760 --> 0:16:43.600 out time. He was keeping a reil. He was trying 0:16:43.600 --> 0:16:46.080 to let you know. No, no, no, he really was 0:16:46.200 --> 0:16:48.600 locked out. And he didn't want you to think what 0:16:48.640 --> 0:16:50.640 if he didn't meet me thirty minutes before? No no, no, 0:16:50.680 --> 0:16:53.240 but but but but he didn't want He didn't want 0:16:53.280 --> 0:16:55.160 you to think he was trying to get some math. 0:16:55.440 --> 0:17:02.440 That was him trying to get happy. Heard I was 0:17:02.880 --> 0:17:05.879 so that means he was like oh she's gonna say, yeah, listen, 0:17:06.480 --> 0:17:10.479 that's exactly why I don't give the pussy out. That's 0:17:10.520 --> 0:17:12.680 what it was. I'm too expensive, I'd like to eat 0:17:12.680 --> 0:17:15.320 too much steak, like I just I can't. And so 0:17:15.400 --> 0:17:17.840 I'm absolutely fine when not fucking it. It's gonna be 0:17:17.880 --> 0:17:20.119 when it was like he condor wanted to sleep in 0:17:20.160 --> 0:17:22.919 your heart, it's the hallway. Is that not fucking trash? 0:17:22.960 --> 0:17:25.040 Like I know, I think he knew, like you're not leaving, 0:17:25.080 --> 0:17:26.720 like you're not gonna let nobody stay in your hallway, 0:17:26.760 --> 0:17:31.040 like you're gonna feel kind come over here. And they 0:17:31.040 --> 0:17:40.920 had a car anyway, I changed his name of Connor bum. 0:17:41.040 --> 0:17:44.320 He just would have got blocked. That's what happened. Okay, 0:17:44.359 --> 0:17:46.840 Well I'm glad you're dating. Because so the next kink 0:17:47.520 --> 0:17:50.800 has to do with like a perfect I guess. So 0:17:50.800 --> 0:17:52.240 we're going to discuss this because I think it's a 0:17:52.240 --> 0:17:55.640 good topic. So this week is, you know, we don't 0:17:55.640 --> 0:17:59.399 never know how to say these ships. Anna's temophilia, Anna 0:17:59.480 --> 0:18:06.679 stage and no bitch alright, So Anna steam affilia is 0:18:06.720 --> 0:18:13.400 an attraction too smaller, too taller, or shorter partners. And 0:18:13.480 --> 0:18:20.040 I wanted to discuss this because height limits, so I 0:18:20.119 --> 0:18:22.040 normally won't talk to a guy like most of the 0:18:22.040 --> 0:18:24.720 things on my phone are like six we plus. My 0:18:24.800 --> 0:18:26.600 last one who I really liked was seven ft two 0:18:26.600 --> 0:18:31.680 and lawyer Bay is six seven is like something love, 0:18:32.240 --> 0:18:36.119 So this is what I'm gonna do. Bend down so 0:18:36.680 --> 0:18:40.719 this is also right, no shape, but I have like 0:18:40.760 --> 0:18:46.600 a Napoleon complex, and I feel like you're afraid that. Okay, no, bitch, 0:18:46.640 --> 0:18:48.680 I do have. No I feel way bigger, like I'm 0:18:48.680 --> 0:18:50.960 only five one, but my nigga, I feel like I'm 0:18:51.000 --> 0:18:55.440 six four, So I like not only that, like a bitch, 0:18:55.480 --> 0:18:58.320 not small. So when I'll be with these tall me 0:18:58.320 --> 0:19:00.800 because they be using words like maybe you're so tiny, 0:19:00.920 --> 0:19:06.200 you're so small, and I'd be like, what were do 0:19:06.359 --> 0:19:11.119 you you think to describe me? They'd be picking me 0:19:11.240 --> 0:19:14.680 up like it could pick you up to know they 0:19:14.760 --> 0:19:17.600 cannot can ones that are like juice in the most 0:19:17.640 --> 0:19:21.679 because they're so like what they like. But the limit 0:19:21.760 --> 0:19:23.119 might not be the same. You know, you know it 0:19:23.240 --> 0:19:26.160 might not feel this only you won't hit the ceiling 0:19:26.160 --> 0:19:29.800 if I sit like they're gonna die. No, I feel 0:19:29.800 --> 0:19:34.800 like I'm squishing them. I want to because you can 0:19:34.800 --> 0:19:36.640 wear your heels can be as tall as you, as 0:19:36.680 --> 0:19:39.119 tall as and hat having to adjust my heels. Some 0:19:39.200 --> 0:19:46.359 guy like you got you have just no not but 0:19:46.400 --> 0:19:51.280 like you know, I'm like up, but you don't got 0:19:51.359 --> 0:19:52.760 to do it. I think it's mass sexy to have 0:19:52.840 --> 0:19:55.399 a Well, let me ask you. You're a man, do 0:19:55.440 --> 0:19:57.399 you like women shorter than you were, taller than you were? 0:19:57.480 --> 0:20:04.680 Kidding data that she makes happy? You know we're gonna forget. 0:20:05.480 --> 0:20:07.760 I'm more about I'm really more about vibes, and I 0:20:07.760 --> 0:20:09.840 don't know about the height or nothing. It's more about 0:20:09.840 --> 0:20:12.280 the vibration because she's down there, so she's gonna get 0:20:12.320 --> 0:20:16.280 quicker to his dick, Like I see that. That's what 0:20:16.320 --> 0:20:19.480 I do know. I ain't even had to get on 0:20:19.520 --> 0:20:25.320 the knee, right. I remember that dick second story. He 0:20:25.440 --> 0:20:28.160 told my mom that. I remember she looked at she like, hey, Dad, 0:20:31.400 --> 0:20:39.040 where is it your mom here doing? Do you have 0:20:39.080 --> 0:20:41.480 a hy perfect You definitely have my high perfect minds 0:20:41.480 --> 0:20:43.520 a little more emotional than that, But I don't want 0:20:43.520 --> 0:20:44.960 to get deep because I feel like we're having fun. 0:20:46.240 --> 0:20:49.400 Do you want me to go so emotional? Guys, I'm 0:20:49.520 --> 0:20:52.320 just okay, I'm a emo ho, but I'm telling you what. 0:20:52.480 --> 0:20:56.119 I was in, um, like an emotionally abusive relationship, and 0:20:56.160 --> 0:20:58.119 I feel like it's because he was short. And his 0:20:58.200 --> 0:21:00.560 mother told me that she thinks that he used to 0:21:00.600 --> 0:21:03.119 talk to me like that because he had to feel 0:21:03.119 --> 0:21:06.960 like the bigger man. Um. I mean that was actually 0:21:07.040 --> 0:21:09.000 I feel like that does. I mean, I was in 0:21:09.160 --> 0:21:10.840 and it almost pissed me off. I was in tears 0:21:10.920 --> 0:21:12.440 in front of his mom and she's like, you know what, 0:21:12.720 --> 0:21:16.960 it's because because he's short, baby, damn, that's yeah. And 0:21:17.000 --> 0:21:19.040 she said that she really believed that in her heart 0:21:19.359 --> 0:21:21.200 because they got to make up a hight like yeah. 0:21:21.840 --> 0:21:26.480 I mean even when they're now in public, it's like, nigga, okay, 0:21:26.880 --> 0:21:28.280 we got it. I don't know. I mean, you know, 0:21:28.320 --> 0:21:29.879 he would tell me about the shoes I needed to 0:21:29.880 --> 0:21:31.640 wear a ship like that. He was very like all 0:21:31.680 --> 0:21:33.920 about image. And so now I think it's mass sexy 0:21:34.000 --> 0:21:39.600 if you have a bigger, tall woman, Daniel, I'm okay, 0:21:39.600 --> 0:21:46.320 that's normal. Yeah, but updated women go a little thicker 0:21:46.400 --> 0:21:51.400 and some because you're not that short if you're you're 0:21:51.480 --> 0:21:55.560 dating and check, but they be updated, like two taller 0:21:55.640 --> 0:21:58.119 women and they were older too as well. So it 0:21:58.200 --> 0:21:59.840 was just I just like the fact that you know, 0:22:00.080 --> 0:22:01.760 I'm a little dude going do you like to be 0:22:01.800 --> 0:22:09.720 submissive to submissive? Go ahead? Well, I'm serious and nobody 0:22:09.720 --> 0:22:12.800 who from my button? Don't trying. I don't mean like 0:22:12.840 --> 0:22:15.639 you're sitting there with like a lesha on, but I mean, like, 0:22:15.720 --> 0:22:17.960 do you like when women take control? No? No, that 0:22:17.960 --> 0:22:20.359 that should get annoyed? You know. I feel like every 0:22:20.359 --> 0:22:24.320 time like sometimes they because these particular women I'm talking about, 0:22:24.359 --> 0:22:27.919 because they were older and taller, you know, they always 0:22:28.000 --> 0:22:29.680 wanted to, like, you know, take the lead and tell 0:22:29.800 --> 0:22:31.280 me what to do. I'm like, listen, I know you're 0:22:31.280 --> 0:22:33.280 older than be a girl, but ship, you went with it. 0:22:34.080 --> 0:22:40.400