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Speaker 1: Is this recording? We live? We live, hang on the

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Speaker 1: song Get some money, man, I get some money. Let's

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Speaker 1: go hold on, let us ride. What what? What? What?

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Speaker 1: Shout out to Cardi B. Yeah, that's that's that's a

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Speaker 1: real come up story. Man. That's a whole different chapter

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Speaker 1: when it comes to like, you know what I'm saying

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Speaker 1: it's a whole little different shout out to Cardi. Well,

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Speaker 1: let's go ahead and get into an intro and then

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Speaker 1: we gonna go ahead and talk about the strong. Welcome

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Speaker 1: to you another episode of Horrible Decisions. This is the

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Speaker 1: girl ANYB. And I'm Wheezy's motherfucking late. Y'all know we've

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Speaker 1: been talking about these late motherfucker's and she's late, you

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Speaker 1: studio any motherfucking second now, um, and we have our

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Speaker 1: lovely guests in the d You want to go ahead

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Speaker 1: and let our listeners know y'all names, what y'all rep

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Speaker 1: and what platform you guys are ladies? First, baby, I'm Alyssa. Um,

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Speaker 1: we're coming from black Chat and oistly okay, originally a

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Speaker 1: show from London. Um, it's like at the base show.

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Speaker 1: So it's our online YouTube show and we give a

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Speaker 1: topic and girls and boys just go at it back

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Speaker 1: and forth. So now the ship we like and my

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Speaker 1: name my name Fleet. You know, some people like to

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Speaker 1: call me about my government code. Yo. I want you

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Speaker 1: to know he ain't either. Well he's saying here, trying

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Speaker 1: to sound off and ship he ain't ship, y'all. Hey, listen,

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Speaker 1: I'm not perfect, but you know it all comes from

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Speaker 1: a good place. Man, But I'm trying not to make

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Speaker 1: some horrible decisions. They're not they're not bad decisions, you know,

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Speaker 1: they're not bad. Always lead to something good sometimes always always.

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Speaker 1: So we were talking about I want to again shout

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Speaker 1: out CARDIV. She made the number one on Billboard, and

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Speaker 1: I saw one of the topics on y'all shows, you guys,

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Speaker 1: UM debated strippers and if they were wife a bull

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Speaker 1: and if you could look at them a certain way

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Speaker 1: and just kind of the stigma behind women whose trip

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Speaker 1: and she talks about apparently how she was a stripper,

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Speaker 1: how she came from being a stripper to now you

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Speaker 1: know a number one recording on its artist. Absolutely, So

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Speaker 1: what are you guys thoughts on women in this strip

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Speaker 1: club and women who choose that profession. Are they looked

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Speaker 1: at any specific way? What was the the opinion you

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Speaker 1: had on that. I personally don't think there's nothing wrong

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Speaker 1: a stripper. What does that mean? You wouldn't mind being

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Speaker 1: a stripper? So, like, if I need the money under

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Speaker 1: certain circumstances, and like's gonna make a clap, right, Like

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Speaker 1: my mom's not helping me, I don't nobody's giving me

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Speaker 1: any type of money. I would, I would consider it.

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Speaker 1: I don't think there's nothing wrong with But yeah, I

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Speaker 1: don't think there's nothing wrong because you're still real hesitant

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Speaker 1: when you even talk about it. It's not like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go to nursing school and me in our end,

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Speaker 1: Like you're still kind of hesitantly. I mean, I'll be

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Speaker 1: a stripper if I have to write. Even how you

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Speaker 1: it because of how other people would look at you?

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Speaker 1: Or what's the hesitant in your voice as to why

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Speaker 1: you may not want to be it? No, I don't

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Speaker 1: care how people look at me. That doesn't bother me.

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Speaker 1: I think, um, the backside of it, like they're they're

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Speaker 1: I don't want a man to feel like, because I'm

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Speaker 1: females in the trip differently? I think men look as

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Speaker 1: at hors. Definitely, if you out here, put out here

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Speaker 1: putting miledge on your COUCHI and man gonna look at

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Speaker 1: you some type of way. You know what I'm saying? Okay?

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Speaker 1: And is that only if you out here? I got

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Speaker 1: Oh you know, the streets always be talking, always gonna

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Speaker 1: sees as shure he would like listen, I know Hosy

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Speaker 1: are married right now. I ain't gonna hold you. They've

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Speaker 1: category of things. But Nick is always gonna talk the streets,

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Speaker 1: always talk. You're gonna hear it happen. What's her name?

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Speaker 1: Um On girls, Kanye West? And you know what I'm saying, Like,

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Speaker 1: is petty, man, Come on this. We live in an

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Speaker 1: niggas know. Oh you baha, Okay, all right, we was

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Speaker 1: especially if you were good niggas gonna try to look

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Speaker 1: gonna let you ride out. Fine, So here's my thing.

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Speaker 1: At any point, does a man sit here and just

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Speaker 1: be like, nigga, mind your business like? So? Do you

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Speaker 1: not sit here and as a man be like? Okay?

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Speaker 1: She put everybody like, when do you When do you

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Speaker 1: what all these other men think they want to be.

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Speaker 1: We're not knocking that you could be. You could choose

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Speaker 1: If a nigga brings up to your face, that means

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. But but you know, if the nigga

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Speaker 1: don't tell you, that means you don't like you. Go ahead?

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Speaker 1: Do you think like I listen, if I see my

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Speaker 1: this ship, I'm like your family. I don't know how

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Speaker 1: to accept that the nigga have been through man, we

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Speaker 1: got We're not supposed to care about your We we

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Speaker 1: I'm being a little bit sexist, but you know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying, completely double standing. Just say hold on, hold up,

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Speaker 1: just saying your Instagram names. So everybody who watches this

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Speaker 1: at me. Can you say some dumbashi? No, no, niggas,

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Speaker 1: I keep it at buck fifty. Niggas was definitely here first,

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Speaker 1: I I don't know about all of that. I don't

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. A man was made first,

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Speaker 1: I'm saying. So obviously we're gonna live in a double

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Speaker 1: standard world, or I believe an equal opportunity. I believe

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Speaker 1: double standards. You can't talk about equal opportunity, not less.

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Speaker 1: I was raised by a single parent, you know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying. My mom was a single parent, So if

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Speaker 1: It's like rolling stone. So I definitely do believe it,

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Speaker 1: So I'm in school right now, and I love the

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Speaker 1: more so talk about how you're friends with guys or

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Speaker 1: He just would have got blocked. That's what happened. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I do have. No I feel way bigger, like I'm

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Speaker 1: because they're so like what they like. But the limit

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Speaker 1: might not be the same. You know, you know it

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Speaker 1: like I'm squishing them. I want to because you can

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Speaker 1: if you have a bigger, tall woman, Daniel, I'm okay,

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Speaker 1: And these are expensive to I want to hear and

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Speaker 1: guys do homail? Yep? Kind of what happened? Dude? What

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Speaker 1: know what? Though we never have like four people on

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Speaker 1: And if so, did you choose to stay with your partner?

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00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:47,880
Speaker 1: And then we'll segue into the open relationship, etcetera, etcetera.

422
00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:51,040
Speaker 1: But that's the question to both of you. I've cheated before.

423
00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:55,639
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and I got cheated on same guy. Yeah,

424
00:23:55,760 --> 00:24:00,760
Speaker 1: we did it to each other with each other right now.

425
00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:02,600
Speaker 1: But it's not him. It's not him, it's not him.

426
00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:10,240
Speaker 1: That's my daddy. He doesn't do daddy. Now wait, wait

427
00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:13,280
Speaker 1: this boyfriend, No, this is not the boyfriend I'm talking about. Wait,

428
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:16,119
Speaker 1: but you thought have one, you know? Yeah, that's my

429
00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:19,399
Speaker 1: boyfriend a previous relationship where I cheated and was cheated

430
00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:23,879
Speaker 1: on because listen, I was like, because we're still fucking yeah, no,

431
00:24:23,960 --> 00:24:26,600
Speaker 1: I'm still sucking him. But that's my boyfriend. You cheated

432
00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:29,119
Speaker 1: on him? No? I never cheated on him and cheated

433
00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:33,680
Speaker 1: with him. No, okay, you your last boyfriend. Yeah, let's

434
00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:36,680
Speaker 1: get back to the last boyfriend. So you both cheated

435
00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:39,719
Speaker 1: on each other? Was it revenge cheating? Did you do

436
00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:43,080
Speaker 1: it and get caught? Like? How did that happen? I?

437
00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:47,239
Speaker 1: Whenever I did, I didn't get caught. Women, No, I

438
00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:49,199
Speaker 1: told I would tell him like my conscience will kill me,

439
00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:51,040
Speaker 1: so I would tell him, but he would always get called.

440
00:24:51,640 --> 00:24:55,359
Speaker 1: And how did he get called? Facebook? Because I stopped

441
00:24:55,359 --> 00:24:57,160
Speaker 1: your Facebook and I stopped your hold a social media

442
00:24:57,200 --> 00:24:58,640
Speaker 1: So I find a little ship like she like too

443
00:24:58,640 --> 00:25:04,800
Speaker 1: many pictures see Mattern's bits right right, you should play

444
00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:07,080
Speaker 1: like you should be like officers and lawyers. Dude, I

445
00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:09,200
Speaker 1: want to be an FBI agent for Halloween, but Loki,

446
00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:14,560
Speaker 1: it's like honestly my everyday living. So yeah, I'm gonna

447
00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:17,239
Speaker 1: be a nun because that's my day. Screen shots when

448
00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:18,960
Speaker 1: the nikkel tells me, like he'd be like, oh, yeah,

449
00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:21,000
Speaker 1: I'm over here in babe blah blah click, okay, so

450
00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:27,680
Speaker 1: Saturday and not listen. In an open relationship, the bare

451
00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:30,080
Speaker 1: minimum you can do is be honest. So I need

452
00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:31,720
Speaker 1: to catch if you're gonna lie, because then I know

453
00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:34,400
Speaker 1: you really aren't ship. You feel me? So what made

454
00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:36,960
Speaker 1: you cheat on him? Like? Was it that you knew

455
00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:39,840
Speaker 1: he cheated on you? Or were you seeking something else?

456
00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:41,800
Speaker 1: I think I knew that he was going to cheat,

457
00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:44,040
Speaker 1: so I was like, I'll do it first. What I

458
00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:45,879
Speaker 1: just knew that he wasn't ship, Like, I was like,

459
00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:47,240
Speaker 1: I'll do it first, but you're not. You did it

460
00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:52,600
Speaker 1: to save your heart right, so I had it. I

461
00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:55,080
Speaker 1: was like I featured to it. So he was like,

462
00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:58,560
Speaker 1: see that's an actual kind of cheating, Like that's smart,

463
00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:01,640
Speaker 1: that's smart smart He's like to cheat to save their heartbreak?

464
00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:04,879
Speaker 1: Why why would you even wasn't shipped? I just I

465
00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:08,000
Speaker 1: couldn't help that I had feelings for him? Did it

466
00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:09,840
Speaker 1: wasn't hard to cheat? Like? Did you have to really

467
00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:14,520
Speaker 1: like go out by something? Like I'm saying because cheating

468
00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:17,240
Speaker 1: normally is like accidental, but like you have to put

469
00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:19,440
Speaker 1: effort into it to do it, Like when you're a woman.

470
00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:21,800
Speaker 1: You go out in the nigga fine and want to

471
00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:25,480
Speaker 1: fight y'all fucking it's not Yeah, I didn't like the

472
00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:27,760
Speaker 1: cheating you did. Are you didn't like you? Like I

473
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:29,600
Speaker 1: didn't have sex with somebody else. I just like, messed

474
00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:35,440
Speaker 1: with somebody else? What's messed? I guess right? High school

475
00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:38,720
Speaker 1: relationship when white guys tell me the word like, oh,

476
00:26:38,800 --> 00:26:40,920
Speaker 1: you know we just hooked up. What do that mean?

477
00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:46,560
Speaker 1: You messed? Like? No, not like that, but like we did,

478
00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:49,159
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you. I'm gonna tell you what mess means.

479
00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:52,000
Speaker 1: All right, So they made out and he probably put

480
00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:55,359
Speaker 1: his fingers somewhere it was supposed to be inappropriate. That

481
00:26:55,359 --> 00:26:57,600
Speaker 1: don't count to me. That don't count fingering, But that's

482
00:26:57,600 --> 00:26:59,280
Speaker 1: still cheating. Like your man do that? You don't know?

483
00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:01,000
Speaker 1: You're not gonna be like, that's not The girl gives

484
00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:06,200
Speaker 1: him my hands automatically think that why think? Are you crazy?

485
00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:08,560
Speaker 1: I'm gonna sit here and be like, was she in

486
00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 1: high school? What then? Are you doing getting a hand job? Ahead? No?

487
00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:21,280
Speaker 1: No finger and hand job? Yeah? So this is a

488
00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:24,000
Speaker 1: boyfriend in high school? Yeah, okay, high school ship. This

489
00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:28,280
Speaker 1: doesn't count. What are we talking about that I'm turning

490
00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:34,680
Speaker 1: to Okay, yeah, yeah, it doesn't count. Say you're talking

491
00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:37,359
Speaker 1: about finger popping and chips. Why you're saying we messed

492
00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:39,840
Speaker 1: around because like growing as man is sitting there kissing

493
00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:45,760
Speaker 1: her finger and that I do that because giving guys

494
00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:48,679
Speaker 1: like anything, you what I have, just like make up

495
00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:51,840
Speaker 1: and be like I'm not giving you ship like not

496
00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:54,240
Speaker 1: not it would be like that. Sometimes it depends in

497
00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:57,040
Speaker 1: like the situation and the time and how tired you

498
00:27:57,280 --> 00:27:59,399
Speaker 1: My situation, I was tired, so I was like, just

499
00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:03,879
Speaker 1: give you some roll over? Up because of the cheating

500
00:28:03,960 --> 00:28:06,920
Speaker 1: or did you guys break up for another reason? Um,

501
00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:08,800
Speaker 1: I grew, I just blew out of the relationship just

502
00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:10,840
Speaker 1: like I want something. So right now you're in a

503
00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:13,600
Speaker 1: relationship where you don't feel like you have to cheat.

504
00:28:14,600 --> 00:28:22,320
Speaker 1: Everything secure? Yeah that together, Um they have no reunions, no,

505
00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:24,760
Speaker 1: no anniversaries going on. How long you have been together?

506
00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:29,880
Speaker 1: A week on his fingers? Is that eight months? Yeah?

507
00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 1: That's it to cheat on each other. Yet, so before

508
00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:40,000
Speaker 1: before we actually got into relationship, we were just friends

509
00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:42,640
Speaker 1: for nine months and we didn't do like anything. You

510
00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:45,320
Speaker 1: never want to him, No, you didn't want to him.

511
00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:50,240
Speaker 1: He's good looking. It was hard, but he didn't. I

512
00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:52,680
Speaker 1: don't know. We just didn't like it just never happened.

513
00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:56,880
Speaker 1: I was never He's light skinned with a beard, and

514
00:28:56,920 --> 00:29:01,480
Speaker 1: you trust him now? How yeah? I trust him. He

515
00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:07,959
Speaker 1: doesn't look like the truck's worthy type. He he has

516
00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:17,560
Speaker 1: dimpal so you're probably crazy crazy mean, I get it. Okay,

517
00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:23,240
Speaker 1: So actually, real quick, this is not this is I'm weazy,

518
00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:26,240
Speaker 1: she literally has. So can we get the video someone?

519
00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:29,440
Speaker 1: I want to play the audio from this video because

520
00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:32,200
Speaker 1: now that we're talking about her boyfriend, I want to discuss. Sorry,

521
00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:34,520
Speaker 1: this is not about cheating, but it could be about cheating,

522
00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:36,640
Speaker 1: because I feel like this is a good reason for

523
00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:39,360
Speaker 1: someone to cheat with your motherfucking mindset. So we're gonna

524
00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:41,840
Speaker 1: play this motherfucking video real quick, and I want you

525
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:43,360
Speaker 1: to listen because you ain't hurt a bit because you

526
00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:46,480
Speaker 1: ain't do your research. She said she watched it this morning. Okay,

527
00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:49,080
Speaker 1: well I'm going to play it. So the infidelity conversation

528
00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:52,400
Speaker 1: so different, So litt listen. I'm gonna play it for

529
00:29:52,400 --> 00:30:04,720
Speaker 1: you guys. Nothing nothing I said there and I got

530
00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:12,560
Speaker 1: what I want. Wait, do you cook if you want?

531
00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:26,200
Speaker 1: That's all? He is pissed. Bro, this is great. I'm

532
00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:29,280
Speaker 1: just saying this. You're like, oh, it's my my magical

533
00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:33,200
Speaker 1: pussy like your pussy. You know, everyone pussy is. Pussy

534
00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:37,680
Speaker 1: is special, irish rare. Every other chick is walking around

535
00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 1: with Did you already play this listening? No, I haven't

536
00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:45,160
Speaker 1: come here for a second. I'm serious, come here. I'm

537
00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:48,040
Speaker 1: just motioning your boyfriend to come here. How long did

538
00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:51,200
Speaker 1: you do that? Um that that video was like July

539
00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:54,400
Speaker 1: we recorded them. Okay, so you guys are together. Yes,

540
00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:58,560
Speaker 1: when you watched it, how do you feel nothing? Get

541
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:02,080
Speaker 1: nothing about it? It didn't make you feel like ship

542
00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:05,240
Speaker 1: when you watched it, because I'm not here to do

543
00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:07,640
Speaker 1: anything for me? What if he said that about you?

544
00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:10,320
Speaker 1: I want to care? What do you didn't care that?

545
00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:13,520
Speaker 1: He pretty much said I do nothing for my female

546
00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:17,920
Speaker 1: I got this, did she need money? And I got

547
00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:22,160
Speaker 1: she need? Well that wasn't hold. So that's that's the part.

548
00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:24,440
Speaker 1: That's the video that's going right roll on Twitter. Right,

549
00:31:24,840 --> 00:31:26,400
Speaker 1: that's the only thing. But if you watched the whole

550
00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:29,600
Speaker 1: entire show, I actually like I talk about like other

551
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:31,320
Speaker 1: things that I do do for him. But it's just

552
00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:33,360
Speaker 1: like I didn't like being asked the question of like housewife,

553
00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:35,280
Speaker 1: Like they asked me, like do I cook for him?

554
00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:37,000
Speaker 1: Why do I have to cook for him? Why don't

555
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:39,160
Speaker 1: Why don't I ever get asked does my boyfriend cooked

556
00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:45,000
Speaker 1: for me? Do you live together? So wait, like raven together?

557
00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:48,320
Speaker 1: Almost like probably another year, you will write, someone's least

558
00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:51,520
Speaker 1: gonna be up man name. Let's let us rent. So

559
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:54,400
Speaker 1: this sounds like they're splitting rent for sure. I just

560
00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:59,760
Speaker 1: I'm really curious, Like, so what do you like are

561
00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:02,000
Speaker 1: you with you both working unto five? Like we don't

562
00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:03,960
Speaker 1: have a job, okay, so like you both work for

563
00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:05,360
Speaker 1: the hours a week, so that's a lot of time.

564
00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:08,200
Speaker 1: Are you ever gonna feel like if the house is

565
00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:12,120
Speaker 1: dirty that you gotta blame her for that. We're gonna

566
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:14,440
Speaker 1: both be working. It depends on who has the time

567
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:16,640
Speaker 1: during the day to actually come home if we ever

568
00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:18,840
Speaker 1: get to that point where were living together, who actually

569
00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:25,160
Speaker 1: had the time of day to um do the shorts first? Right,

570
00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:31,600
Speaker 1: It's like I work from I work from seven to six,

571
00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:33,560
Speaker 1: two jobs and I go to school from That's a lot.

572
00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:36,640
Speaker 1: So you are you in school and work too? I

573
00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:39,200
Speaker 1: just graduated, so you do a lot more out of

574
00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:42,520
Speaker 1: the house. So like, are you gonna feel like you

575
00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:44,840
Speaker 1: have more responsible now. The thing is, I'm not gonna

576
00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:46,360
Speaker 1: lie right now. It makes sense. All he got time

577
00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:52,080
Speaker 1: for the diamond bussy. That's all she got. Like and

578
00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:54,120
Speaker 1: at that time you get home as good Old Sam

579
00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:57,959
Speaker 1: would be good as health time guys, Honey, turkey and cheese, sandwich,

580
00:32:58,120 --> 00:33:00,840
Speaker 1: some chips on us soft. It's good. Yeah. But when

581
00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:02,800
Speaker 1: we started our relationship, I've always said that, and I

582
00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:04,480
Speaker 1: always tell guys that, like, I'm not I'm not about

583
00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:05,800
Speaker 1: to be your housewife. I'm not to be in the

584
00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:07,800
Speaker 1: house like cooking for you while you'll here cheating like

585
00:33:07,840 --> 00:33:12,640
Speaker 1: I see my wait, my mom was scorn brol. My

586
00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:15,360
Speaker 1: mom was the thank you boyfriend, we're gonna we're gonna

587
00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:20,760
Speaker 1: try to get your girlfriend. No, no, Look, so my

588
00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:23,120
Speaker 1: mom was with my stepfather for years. My mom done

589
00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:24,800
Speaker 1: had the house nice and clean for him every single

590
00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:26,560
Speaker 1: day to come home from work. What ch your background?

591
00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:29,240
Speaker 1: By the way, you I'm Dominican. So she had the

592
00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:30,640
Speaker 1: house nice and clean. Friend where he came home, he

593
00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:31,920
Speaker 1: didn't have to deal with the kids because they were

594
00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:33,920
Speaker 1: already in bed. Homework was done, the house was nice

595
00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:36,320
Speaker 1: and clean, his food was nice and cooked. He didn't

596
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:38,720
Speaker 1: have to do ship, but come home she didn't work

597
00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:40,880
Speaker 1: or nothing. So I guess it was just like that, like, Okay,

598
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:43,360
Speaker 1: you're bringing the money, I'll do I'll do the housewife stuff.

599
00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:45,760
Speaker 1: She did all of that, raised all his kids and

600
00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:49,360
Speaker 1: still got cheated on. So I just don't Okay, okay,

601
00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:52,040
Speaker 1: you didn't. We I mean, you have a new man,

602
00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:54,600
Speaker 1: new relationship. We gotta stop harvoring them old feelings, right,

603
00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:57,800
Speaker 1: And so he's at work and in school, so like

604
00:33:57,920 --> 00:34:00,520
Speaker 1: really holding it down because eventually, like we want you

605
00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:04,520
Speaker 1: to not work. Though, do you feel like, whether it's

606
00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:06,560
Speaker 1: because maybe you're not married or something like that, that

607
00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:09,239
Speaker 1: you shouldn't have to hold those household duties down. I mean,

608
00:34:09,320 --> 00:34:11,120
Speaker 1: especially when you're a man is going to be that busy.

609
00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:13,640
Speaker 1: Let's say you do live together, but we're both that

610
00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:16,600
Speaker 1: busy and like I really just graduated college, like what

611
00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:19,440
Speaker 1: he or something like, we're both that busy. I just

612
00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:21,719
Speaker 1: feel like, unfortunately, and I'll sit here and say this

613
00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:25,480
Speaker 1: because I feel like so many guys right now got

614
00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:29,680
Speaker 1: bitch as tendencies, and it's because so many females aren't

615
00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:32,919
Speaker 1: embracing the roles of women anymore either, and they out

616
00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:35,200
Speaker 1: here I can like niggas and to me, I feel

617
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:38,000
Speaker 1: like as a woman yet and as a woman, there's

618
00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:40,520
Speaker 1: certain things that we should do and our man should

619
00:34:40,520 --> 00:34:41,920
Speaker 1: want us for. And I kind of wanted to ask

620
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:44,440
Speaker 1: you this, but you're not on the mic anymore. But

621
00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:47,759
Speaker 1: I wanted to know, like, besides pussy, what else are

622
00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 1: you offering that? What else can you bring as a female?

623
00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:54,960
Speaker 1: What else? I mean besides the pussy? Do you do

624
00:34:55,000 --> 00:34:59,200
Speaker 1: you want to say? I mean, I would like to know.

625
00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:03,560
Speaker 1: Does I mean? I get it? It's a magical pussy,

626
00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:08,560
Speaker 1: because let's be real, like, right, you're cute like bear tats?

627
00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:10,920
Speaker 1: Why her? You know you? I'm sure you have a

628
00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:14,040
Speaker 1: bunch of girls. So what made you want to wipe her?

629
00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:20,200
Speaker 1: Because we're single? No, but really, especially when after you

630
00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:24,880
Speaker 1: hear you say all right, honestly, she was honest from

631
00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:27,279
Speaker 1: the drum, from the minute that we started talking. She

632
00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:29,239
Speaker 1: told me from the drump that she will not cooking me.

633
00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:31,440
Speaker 1: This girl then told me she was never gonna love me,

634
00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:33,040
Speaker 1: she would never have sex with me, she would never

635
00:35:33,080 --> 00:35:36,799
Speaker 1: be with me because of the already, because of the

636
00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:38,840
Speaker 1: background I had. So but this is what I'm saying, Like,

637
00:35:39,200 --> 00:35:41,400
Speaker 1: it's more It's more like when she had that conversation,

638
00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:44,680
Speaker 1: I didn't get upset abody because she does cook well.

639
00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:46,279
Speaker 1: People were making a seem like she was like, I

640
00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:49,080
Speaker 1: have to obligate her to make me a me She's

641
00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:52,279
Speaker 1: not obligated to make me a meal my mother. My

642
00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:54,920
Speaker 1: mother raised me to never depend on the female. So

643
00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:56,960
Speaker 1: I work harder than I make the money that could

644
00:35:57,000 --> 00:35:58,560
Speaker 1: buy my own food if I want to make something,

645
00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:00,000
Speaker 1: and I know how to cook, so I can cook

646
00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:02,279
Speaker 1: for her as well. It's equality. We can do things

647
00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:08,080
Speaker 1: for each other. Okay, it's most people like she from

648
00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:10,000
Speaker 1: the jump, from the minute we got together, she was

649
00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:12,360
Speaker 1: honestly like, I'm not gonna cook. I don't cook. I

650
00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:14,600
Speaker 1: don't know how to. I'm like holding something back that

651
00:36:14,680 --> 00:36:18,560
Speaker 1: I don't know. Don't don't cute, They're very cute. No, No,

652
00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:20,360
Speaker 1: But the thing is, I think I hate I hate

653
00:36:20,400 --> 00:36:22,720
Speaker 1: being asked what do I have to bring to the table?

654
00:36:23,239 --> 00:36:25,879
Speaker 1: Let feel like a man is never I absolutely agree

655
00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:28,680
Speaker 1: with you, especially as a self proclaimed feminist, but I

656
00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:33,240
Speaker 1: also know that with longevity, right, Like, I've just seen

657
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:36,160
Speaker 1: relationships over and over time after time. Think about when

658
00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:38,080
Speaker 1: you have a guy that wants to cheat on their girlfriend.

659
00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:41,279
Speaker 1: What's the first thing they say, she doesn't do this.

660
00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:44,680
Speaker 1: But if we go by that, that's bullshit because I

661
00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:46,840
Speaker 1: can give him. I can give a guy the world,

662
00:36:46,880 --> 00:36:51,399
Speaker 1: But I've said that about man when I've cheated. He's

663
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:54,200
Speaker 1: not making me feel wanted. He's not doing these things

664
00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:56,080
Speaker 1: or whatever, he's not taking me out on date. You

665
00:36:56,120 --> 00:36:58,000
Speaker 1: can do all of that and they will still cheat,

666
00:36:58,040 --> 00:37:00,960
Speaker 1: Like they're still gonna cheat that. But I don't they like,

667
00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:02,960
Speaker 1: I don't think I'm like in my I don't start

668
00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:05,359
Speaker 1: the relationship thinking if I cook this Nike is still

669
00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:07,200
Speaker 1: might go out a bit. No, No, I just don't.

670
00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:09,239
Speaker 1: That's just it's not like I don't like to do

671
00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:10,839
Speaker 1: it for a man. I just I don't like to cook,

672
00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:13,400
Speaker 1: Like even before I got to relationship with him. My

673
00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:14,960
Speaker 1: thing is I want to be so rich I can

674
00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:17,480
Speaker 1: hire a chef one day, like that's never paid. My

675
00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:20,160
Speaker 1: mentality like come home, Like I don't know, is there

676
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:23,480
Speaker 1: anything you enjoy about like taking care of whether it

677
00:37:23,560 --> 00:37:26,200
Speaker 1: be laundry or like something like that you like doing

678
00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:30,160
Speaker 1: for him or do you really have this like mentality

679
00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:32,440
Speaker 1: like I'm not doing ship you're grown as man. Some

680
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:34,239
Speaker 1: women do, which is what it seems like you are.

681
00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:38,040
Speaker 1: But is there anything you do? For example, I stay

682
00:37:38,120 --> 00:37:39,440
Speaker 1: to do there's a lot of money, so when he

683
00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:41,560
Speaker 1: I know he takes care of ship, and I'd like

684
00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:44,080
Speaker 1: to clean his house. I do. Sometimes he'll come back

685
00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:46,640
Speaker 1: and I liked him to know his house was clean. Whatever.

686
00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:47,880
Speaker 1: That's something that I like to do. It makes me

687
00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:49,400
Speaker 1: feel good. It's not because I feel like I have to.

688
00:37:49,640 --> 00:37:51,440
Speaker 1: He doesn't ask me. I like to make the bed,

689
00:37:51,520 --> 00:37:53,160
Speaker 1: like to fold his clothes if they were in the corner,

690
00:37:53,200 --> 00:37:55,560
Speaker 1: or whatever, clean things up like. I like him knowing

691
00:37:55,560 --> 00:37:57,640
Speaker 1: that I can do that. Now I've done things like

692
00:37:57,680 --> 00:37:59,239
Speaker 1: that for him. But there is there any things that

693
00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:02,279
Speaker 1: you enjoy doing? Or do you feel bitter about it?

694
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:04,880
Speaker 1: Because he sounds now it sounds it sounds like you

695
00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:07,560
Speaker 1: don't like doing these things. I mean, I don't know.

696
00:38:07,560 --> 00:38:10,319
Speaker 1: I just enjoy him like I enjoy being with my man.

697
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:18,200
Speaker 1: I don't know, Like we stop putting pressure on relationship.

698
00:38:18,680 --> 00:38:20,560
Speaker 1: I want to know this because we do have another

699
00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:24,560
Speaker 1: guy in the building. Would you date a female with that?

700
00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:28,800
Speaker 1: And why? Because I'm not playing that. How do you

701
00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:37,080
Speaker 1: I'm twenty nine years I'm huh different. Now I feel

702
00:38:37,120 --> 00:38:39,560
Speaker 1: like we gotta play ball. Man, relationship is all about

703
00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:42,600
Speaker 1: playing ball, and the house gotta get clean somehow somewhere.

704
00:38:42,640 --> 00:38:45,560
Speaker 1: If we're going if we're gonna hire somebody to do

705
00:38:45,600 --> 00:38:47,960
Speaker 1: that because we're both busy, then we're playing ball. That's

706
00:38:48,040 --> 00:38:50,120
Speaker 1: that's the agreement we're gonna But I gotta make sure

707
00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:52,960
Speaker 1: that my girl knows how to handle these things so

708
00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:54,960
Speaker 1: that way that could be passing on to my daughter

709
00:38:55,440 --> 00:38:59,160
Speaker 1: or you know what I'm saying. She can't clean the house,

710
00:38:58,239 --> 00:39:01,520
Speaker 1: She's gotta be able to. I've cleaned his house, like

711
00:39:01,520 --> 00:39:03,400
Speaker 1: there's been times like babe, I'm gonna go play basketball.

712
00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:05,080
Speaker 1: I'm just chilling his house. And I have cleaned his

713
00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:07,560
Speaker 1: home before. And there's been times where I'm home and

714
00:39:07,560 --> 00:39:08,880
Speaker 1: he's in my house and I wake up and he

715
00:39:08,920 --> 00:39:12,239
Speaker 1: has breakfast ready for me. I just don't people are

716
00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:13,960
Speaker 1: making it seem like I had, like these are things

717
00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:16,799
Speaker 1: that I have to do, Like I just don't think

718
00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:18,920
Speaker 1: I have. Do you think there's anything for you in

719
00:39:18,920 --> 00:39:21,160
Speaker 1: your relationship? When're looking for women, they do have to do?

720
00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:23,000
Speaker 1: Not have to excuse me. I don't take that word back,

721
00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:27,560
Speaker 1: like the pressure like right right, do you need? I

722
00:39:27,600 --> 00:39:30,400
Speaker 1: just feel like apart from their emotional things because listen, man,

723
00:39:30,400 --> 00:39:33,120
Speaker 1: it's like it's a million and ones like on that tape,

724
00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:36,839
Speaker 1: there's just like a billion pussy's on the planet, all right,

725
00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:40,120
Speaker 1: So so so being there's a lot and the fact

726
00:39:40,120 --> 00:39:42,680
Speaker 1: that women mature and get old a lot faster. My

727
00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:45,200
Speaker 1: whole thing is, you don't want a younger female coming

728
00:39:45,239 --> 00:39:47,600
Speaker 1: in the game with a little bit of like you know,

729
00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:51,200
Speaker 1: juice and knows how to do these extra things. And

730
00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:53,160
Speaker 1: then you know what I'm saying, costract the nigger, and

731
00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:55,279
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, he and he looks at

732
00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:57,279
Speaker 1: it like, oh ship, my girl, don't do that, My girl,

733
00:39:57,320 --> 00:40:00,520
Speaker 1: don't do that. So it's easier for I'm to speaking

734
00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:03,520
Speaker 1: that I choose to do those things. And those the

735
00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:05,640
Speaker 1: reason I know my nigga needs to wake up and

736
00:40:05,680 --> 00:40:07,840
Speaker 1: comment like a little hole on my Instagram just like

737
00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:09,560
Speaker 1: the other ones. Well you need to be thirsty for

738
00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:12,600
Speaker 1: not only that, I wanted to bring a question to

739
00:40:12,640 --> 00:40:15,319
Speaker 1: you because I'm thinking of myself while y'all are answering this,

740
00:40:15,800 --> 00:40:20,279
Speaker 1: what do you expect from him? Before you answer that,

741
00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:22,799
Speaker 1: I'll give you where this question comes from. To me,

742
00:40:23,760 --> 00:40:26,279
Speaker 1: my man, I want to be I feel like a

743
00:40:26,280 --> 00:40:29,799
Speaker 1: man's job is to provide. So I'm not spilling bills. Sorry, bro,

744
00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:32,800
Speaker 1: that's not me. We've discussied, we've we've had this discussion.

745
00:40:33,239 --> 00:40:36,040
Speaker 1: So as a man and his job to be as

746
00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:37,799
Speaker 1: a provider, I didn't grow up with that. I grew

747
00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:39,759
Speaker 1: up in a single parent household as well, which is

748
00:40:39,760 --> 00:40:42,440
Speaker 1: why since then every nigga fun has been rich because

749
00:40:42,480 --> 00:40:45,640
Speaker 1: I'm not dealing with no broadcast nigga. And so I

750
00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:48,840
Speaker 1: feel like, as a man, who I'm expecting to provide,

751
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:51,879
Speaker 1: to pay the bills, to take care of the house.

752
00:40:51,880 --> 00:40:55,000
Speaker 1: Guess that's why I clean the house. Right. As a female,

753
00:40:55,480 --> 00:40:57,600
Speaker 1: I feel like, yeah, I'm gonna suck you. I'm gonna

754
00:40:57,600 --> 00:40:59,640
Speaker 1: do all this. You're not gonna make me suck you.

755
00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:01,759
Speaker 1: Fuck you clean the house, wash the dishes, do all

756
00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:04,600
Speaker 1: this and then expect me to split the rent. So

757
00:41:04,640 --> 00:41:09,239
Speaker 1: to me, as you've got magical because but so to me,

758
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:12,560
Speaker 1: I feel like if I'm expecting that from him, like listen,

759
00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:14,200
Speaker 1: I feel like, you need to be the provider and

760
00:41:14,200 --> 00:41:16,640
Speaker 1: you need to take care of the household. The least

761
00:41:16,680 --> 00:41:19,239
Speaker 1: I can do, not feeling an obligation, but the least

762
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 1: I can do is make the house clean, make sure

763
00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:25,080
Speaker 1: that the dishes washed the laungest. I am so proud

764
00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:27,719
Speaker 1: of your daughter right now, let me tell you, because

765
00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:32,120
Speaker 1: you really ain't ship, I am really mind saying that

766
00:41:32,480 --> 00:41:35,000
Speaker 1: you don't talk like this privately with me. Well, you

767
00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:38,960
Speaker 1: don't talk privately no more. I've never heard you say that.

768
00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:41,759
Speaker 1: Me and crystill talk about it. We we debate this

769
00:41:41,920 --> 00:41:45,120
Speaker 1: so much. I've almost heard you talk more like her. No,

770
00:41:45,719 --> 00:41:48,040
Speaker 1: I'm serious. I've heard you say like, he's gonna do this,

771
00:41:48,040 --> 00:41:51,439
Speaker 1: this this for me. I've never heard you say, well,

772
00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:54,160
Speaker 1: that's why I ain't having sex, because I'm in the

773
00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:57,120
Speaker 1: right where I'm not dealing with the boys because they

774
00:41:57,160 --> 00:41:58,880
Speaker 1: look good no more. I'm looking for a man, and

775
00:41:58,880 --> 00:42:01,120
Speaker 1: this is as what I'm looking for in a man.

776
00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:03,960
Speaker 1: It's him to be a provider. And because he's a provider,

777
00:42:04,320 --> 00:42:06,120
Speaker 1: I know that I can clean house. I know that,

778
00:42:06,320 --> 00:42:08,560
Speaker 1: and I know that I should do that because I

779
00:42:08,600 --> 00:42:10,960
Speaker 1: want to guy to provide. Which is why I'm asking you,

780
00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:12,800
Speaker 1: what do you want from him? What are you expecting

781
00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:15,360
Speaker 1: from him as a man? I just want him to

782
00:42:15,400 --> 00:42:20,799
Speaker 1: always be honest with me. This is what you want

783
00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:24,600
Speaker 1: to But I've never I've never said you're just enjoying it.

784
00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:28,880
Speaker 1: I've never I've never been there, even before being with

785
00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:30,520
Speaker 1: I've never been the kind of girl where I want

786
00:42:30,600 --> 00:42:32,719
Speaker 1: I don't want a guy to want to take care

787
00:42:32,760 --> 00:42:34,719
Speaker 1: of me and then like possibly have that ship thrown

788
00:42:34,719 --> 00:42:37,160
Speaker 1: in my face like I'm okay, Like I feel like

789
00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:40,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have enough money to to provide for myself,

790
00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:42,680
Speaker 1: like financially, be okay. I don't want a guy to

791
00:42:42,719 --> 00:42:44,239
Speaker 1: ever throw that in my face, like I did this

792
00:42:44,280 --> 00:42:47,239
Speaker 1: for you, like I don't. I don't know, Well, it's

793
00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:49,160
Speaker 1: not necessarily for you. If you lived together, you did

794
00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:51,799
Speaker 1: this for us. It's for us, this for us or

795
00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:54,000
Speaker 1: whatever you're like holding on the fort. I'm gonna be

796
00:42:54,040 --> 00:42:56,480
Speaker 1: honest with you. I mean, like in eight months, and

797
00:42:56,520 --> 00:42:58,600
Speaker 1: I trust me, I'm not doing this in a shitty way.

798
00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:01,279
Speaker 1: But I know at twenty two, I don't know if

799
00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:03,320
Speaker 1: I thought about things like that because I just enjoyed

800
00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:06,000
Speaker 1: being in love now. And you know it's true. The

801
00:43:06,600 --> 00:43:09,560
Speaker 1: cynicism like that I give off is because I don't

802
00:43:09,560 --> 00:43:13,759
Speaker 1: have time to waste anymore. We're feeling like I can't,

803
00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:15,919
Speaker 1: so I'm looking for different. I can't fall in love

804
00:43:15,920 --> 00:43:18,520
Speaker 1: like this anymore and not know about these things. Oh

805
00:43:18,600 --> 00:43:21,680
Speaker 1: and and even when getting into a relationship, it's like,

806
00:43:22,760 --> 00:43:24,719
Speaker 1: do I see myself man and this man that's five

807
00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:27,200
Speaker 1: years later? Like it's crazy how like it changes. I

808
00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:29,920
Speaker 1: don't know if it's because maybe just like this dude, right,

809
00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:31,359
Speaker 1: I don't know if I make too much now, if

810
00:43:31,400 --> 00:43:32,920
Speaker 1: I got too many bills going on. I don't know

811
00:43:32,960 --> 00:43:34,520
Speaker 1: what it is in my life that like I can't

812
00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:36,600
Speaker 1: just feel like all I need is honesty or not

813
00:43:36,640 --> 00:43:39,480
Speaker 1: only that I talked about seven and all my friends

814
00:43:39,520 --> 00:43:41,319
Speaker 1: are like, why didn't you make him your boyfriend? Dada

815
00:43:41,400 --> 00:43:44,760
Speaker 1: da da? And to me, I'm now, I literally graduated

816
00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:47,960
Speaker 1: in December and I'm going into accounting of finance. And

817
00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:51,680
Speaker 1: when I see tattoos on your neck, I'm like, oh

818
00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:53,439
Speaker 1: my god, can I take him to my Christmas party

819
00:43:53,480 --> 00:43:56,680
Speaker 1: for my company? How will they? How will my um

820
00:43:56,719 --> 00:43:58,440
Speaker 1: co workers look at me? And stuff like that. But

821
00:43:58,600 --> 00:44:00,879
Speaker 1: you can't think about stuff like that. But but as

822
00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:04,160
Speaker 1: a grown ass woman, I do care. As a grown

823
00:44:04,160 --> 00:44:06,560
Speaker 1: ass woman, I do care about what my husband looks like.

824
00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:08,879
Speaker 1: Do I want someone who's sagging his pants because he's

825
00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:12,560
Speaker 1: going to be a representation of me, I mean pants

826
00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:19,480
Speaker 1: and he makes you happy? So what you want a

827
00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:22,399
Speaker 1: man to be judgment because you're not perfect, even none

828
00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:24,520
Speaker 1: of y'all both for you. We got somebody that I

829
00:44:24,520 --> 00:44:26,360
Speaker 1: want to say something. We got someone else in the studio.

830
00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:28,840
Speaker 1: Y'all go ahead and drop with you. She wanted to

831
00:44:28,840 --> 00:44:32,239
Speaker 1: say something real bad up because I understand what is

832
00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:37,200
Speaker 1: coming from, Like you have to understand. It's nice to

833
00:44:37,760 --> 00:44:40,200
Speaker 1: be able to be a woman and be able to

834
00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:42,799
Speaker 1: cook for your man, clean free man, and do all

835
00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:46,479
Speaker 1: the necessary responsibilities. I didn't grow up in a single

836
00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:49,319
Speaker 1: parent household. I grew up with both my parents, my

837
00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:53,040
Speaker 1: mom and my dad, and I've seen my mom literally

838
00:44:53,520 --> 00:44:57,160
Speaker 1: be Melyssa where she told my father there was a

839
00:44:57,160 --> 00:44:59,600
Speaker 1: point in time where my mother was in school full

840
00:44:59,600 --> 00:45:03,120
Speaker 1: time and my father was doing all the women duties

841
00:45:03,160 --> 00:45:05,680
Speaker 1: in the household, and they were maddening in love with

842
00:45:05,719 --> 00:45:07,960
Speaker 1: each other. Still, my father has never cheated on my mother,

843
00:45:08,080 --> 00:45:11,120
Speaker 1: not one moment in their relationship. And I feel like

844
00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:14,280
Speaker 1: one thing that we get misconstrued, especially in our generation,

845
00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:18,160
Speaker 1: is we have to uphold a certain image before we

846
00:45:18,200 --> 00:45:21,680
Speaker 1: can obtain a certain type of love, and we keep

847
00:45:21,719 --> 00:45:25,000
Speaker 1: forgetting that it's not only the characteristics that you have,

848
00:45:25,040 --> 00:45:28,360
Speaker 1: but a lot of emotions also. How are you guys. Emotionally,

849
00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:31,200
Speaker 1: it's nice to have a man that presents himself properly.

850
00:45:31,200 --> 00:45:33,200
Speaker 1: It's nice to have a man that's rich. It's nice

851
00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:35,239
Speaker 1: to have a man that has that proper nice to

852
00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:37,319
Speaker 1: fiver works in the bank or as a lawyer. But

853
00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:38,880
Speaker 1: then after that, what else is? You know what? I

854
00:45:38,880 --> 00:45:40,239
Speaker 1: don't want to cut you off, but you just made

855
00:45:40,280 --> 00:45:42,279
Speaker 1: me think of something. Why we're talking like this and

856
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:45,400
Speaker 1: why you are expecting something different? When you just asked

857
00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:47,319
Speaker 1: what does she expect to him? She said one thing

858
00:45:47,320 --> 00:45:49,320
Speaker 1: that was honestly, we are expecting way more things, and

859
00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:52,080
Speaker 1: that's why we're willing to give more. So you aren't

860
00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:53,799
Speaker 1: going to give all this ship because you ain't ask

861
00:45:53,840 --> 00:45:55,759
Speaker 1: him for much, you know what I mean? So like

862
00:45:55,840 --> 00:45:58,279
Speaker 1: that is just the difference and what we're looking for

863
00:45:58,800 --> 00:46:01,200
Speaker 1: you want to have. You got to jump out his

864
00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:03,440
Speaker 1: seat real quickly, finished, and then he got something you

865
00:46:03,440 --> 00:46:05,960
Speaker 1: don't know what? You know what I'm saying. I'm sitting here,

866
00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:09,279
Speaker 1: you and I are working for huge fucking companies, man,

867
00:46:09,719 --> 00:46:11,919
Speaker 1: and like I can't do that either. I just can't.

868
00:46:11,920 --> 00:46:13,800
Speaker 1: It's not right for my lifestyle right now or whatever.

869
00:46:14,040 --> 00:46:16,880
Speaker 1: I can't. So I completely understand why I need a

870
00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:18,320
Speaker 1: man to have these things. I don't need you to

871
00:46:18,360 --> 00:46:20,200
Speaker 1: be a lawyer. I'm dating an entrepreneur, but I need

872
00:46:20,239 --> 00:46:21,920
Speaker 1: you to be able to carry yourself out. I had

873
00:46:21,920 --> 00:46:24,920
Speaker 1: to text on the other day by one, right, I mean,

874
00:46:24,960 --> 00:46:27,040
Speaker 1: but no, but like what she's saying, she dude, she's

875
00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:29,920
Speaker 1: talking about as a rapper, and like righteous you can

876
00:46:29,920 --> 00:46:37,200
Speaker 1: I know, but you know, I mean, we're looking for

877
00:46:37,280 --> 00:46:39,600
Speaker 1: something different. That's what we're offering as much as we

878
00:46:39,680 --> 00:46:41,879
Speaker 1: are willing to. But but but then again, you guys

879
00:46:42,040 --> 00:46:44,480
Speaker 1: did not decide who you got fall in love with, right,

880
00:46:44,719 --> 00:46:47,640
Speaker 1: because it's emotional. It's an emotional attraction thing, you know

881
00:46:47,680 --> 00:46:50,120
Speaker 1: what I mean. So you know, you're saying that you're

882
00:46:50,120 --> 00:46:52,520
Speaker 1: not going rock with a dude because he got tattoos

883
00:46:52,520 --> 00:46:55,680
Speaker 1: on his neck and sagging his pants him in the bedroom.

884
00:46:57,120 --> 00:47:00,120
Speaker 1: But are you going out of that? But what I

885
00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:03,239
Speaker 1: mean that there's like women that okay, like so I

886
00:47:03,280 --> 00:47:07,960
Speaker 1: ain't gonna knock you. I got some girls that i'd

887
00:47:07,960 --> 00:47:10,279
Speaker 1: be like that. But but then again, you just you

888
00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:12,880
Speaker 1: just don't know who eventually, like the motions are going

889
00:47:12,920 --> 00:47:15,600
Speaker 1: to build up. No, yeah, that's what happened. Like I

890
00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:17,239
Speaker 1: did not think I was gonna fall for him, and

891
00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:19,080
Speaker 1: I was like, yeo, why is he so funking on everything?

892
00:47:19,080 --> 00:47:20,880
Speaker 1: He's like and I take you on the I was like,

893
00:47:20,920 --> 00:47:22,960
Speaker 1: leave me, I'm not going to take with you. And

894
00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:24,799
Speaker 1: I kept rejecting him, rejected him, and I started to

895
00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:26,200
Speaker 1: like I was like a fucking shout, I like him.

896
00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:27,719
Speaker 1: And then I was like no, I gotta stay away

897
00:47:27,719 --> 00:47:28,959
Speaker 1: from and I try. I was like, yeah, we can't

898
00:47:28,960 --> 00:47:30,480
Speaker 1: talk like I actually like you, so you need to

899
00:47:30,520 --> 00:47:32,520
Speaker 1: like stay away and I'm just like in love and

900
00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:36,200
Speaker 1: I'm like funk, like you really tried until I gave in,

901
00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:38,600
Speaker 1: and it like I didn't know what that magic trick

902
00:47:38,800 --> 00:47:40,600
Speaker 1: was because I might need a tip of two men

903
00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:42,120
Speaker 1: talk to you know what? The thing he had to

904
00:47:42,120 --> 00:47:46,120
Speaker 1: wait nine months for this. Wait hold on nine moms

905
00:47:46,160 --> 00:47:47,920
Speaker 1: he waited for and then we were talking for like

906
00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:49,520
Speaker 1: less than a month, and it was like, I want

907
00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:52,840
Speaker 1: to celebrate. Were just friends, look if it was a friendship.

908
00:47:52,880 --> 00:47:55,680
Speaker 1: He didn't wait. No, no, so we started talking. We

909
00:47:55,719 --> 00:47:57,640
Speaker 1: talked for nine months and then that's where we kind

910
00:47:57,640 --> 00:48:01,040
Speaker 1: of build our friendship through there. So we were the

911
00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:03,160
Speaker 1: first month it was like less than a month for something.

912
00:48:03,239 --> 00:48:04,960
Speaker 1: He was like, um, I want to I've never been.

913
00:48:05,200 --> 00:48:07,279
Speaker 1: I've never celebrated my birthday and I was like, like,

914
00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:09,799
Speaker 1: I'm mad, big on that's my birthday, Like, oh year,

915
00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:12,279
Speaker 1: my birthday is just one day a year like. So

916
00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:13,920
Speaker 1: he was like, I want to go to Miami for more.

917
00:48:13,920 --> 00:48:15,600
Speaker 1: I said, alright, cool, seems like can I take you?

918
00:48:15,640 --> 00:48:17,520
Speaker 1: I said yeah. I was like, if you take me

919
00:48:17,560 --> 00:48:19,839
Speaker 1: to Miami, just no, I'm not sucking you, like, don't

920
00:48:19,840 --> 00:48:21,640
Speaker 1: take don't fly me out because you think I'm gonna

921
00:48:21,640 --> 00:48:23,120
Speaker 1: get pussy, because that's that's not the kind of girl.

922
00:48:23,160 --> 00:48:29,920
Speaker 1: I am not sucking you. So no, he look, listen, heels.

923
00:48:30,200 --> 00:48:33,920
Speaker 1: I shouldn't have got on that flight. But he was like,

924
00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:37,560
Speaker 1: I'm not expecting you to suck men like Miami. No,

925
00:48:37,640 --> 00:48:41,799
Speaker 1: we did? Did you want? I wanted to and I did.

926
00:48:42,440 --> 00:48:44,239
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just it's something like in my

927
00:48:44,280 --> 00:48:46,440
Speaker 1: corshes that doesn't even like I have to feel comfortable

928
00:48:46,520 --> 00:48:49,839
Speaker 1: with you in order to do it. Okay, no, no, no, no,

929
00:48:49,920 --> 00:48:52,120
Speaker 1: this was no. This was the first month, Like I'm

930
00:48:52,120 --> 00:48:54,879
Speaker 1: not I get it because like for me, I feel

931
00:48:54,920 --> 00:48:56,560
Speaker 1: the same way, like the whole flyout thing. It makes

932
00:48:56,560 --> 00:48:58,759
Speaker 1: you feel like okay, now I gotta suck you like, no, right,

933
00:48:58,760 --> 00:49:03,279
Speaker 1: so I won't get on a flight, but I'm not

934
00:49:03,360 --> 00:49:07,279
Speaker 1: making someone someone whatever, like but the thing is like

935
00:49:07,440 --> 00:49:09,520
Speaker 1: what kept like, I don't know what is it? I

936
00:49:09,560 --> 00:49:12,160
Speaker 1: just I'm just I don't know. I feel like like

937
00:49:12,200 --> 00:49:14,360
Speaker 1: it's it's it's I just don't think I should have

938
00:49:14,440 --> 00:49:16,640
Speaker 1: to give my pussy out that fast, like I don't know,

939
00:49:16,760 --> 00:49:18,759
Speaker 1: I feel like but it was no, not no, no,

940
00:49:18,760 --> 00:49:20,759
Speaker 1: no no. This was the first month, the first month

941
00:49:20,800 --> 00:49:23,760
Speaker 1: that we started talking, he offered to take me to Miami, okay,

942
00:49:23,760 --> 00:49:25,480
Speaker 1: And then after that that's when like, hold, I need

943
00:49:25,480 --> 00:49:26,960
Speaker 1: to know you were like sleeping in the bed together,

944
00:49:27,000 --> 00:49:28,800
Speaker 1: like we were sleeping. We were sleeping. One day, we

945
00:49:28,840 --> 00:49:31,319
Speaker 1: got real drunk and went wet least um. Then we

946
00:49:31,480 --> 00:49:33,720
Speaker 1: headed over to the hotel room. We took some shots

947
00:49:34,040 --> 00:49:35,840
Speaker 1: and I was like, yo, I'm going to sleep, and

948
00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:37,840
Speaker 1: I went to sleep, and then I spelled asleep but

949
00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:39,759
Speaker 1: like my thong, and he was just like, you're going

950
00:49:39,760 --> 00:49:42,719
Speaker 1: to sleep in yourself childish because as someone who's not

951
00:49:42,719 --> 00:49:44,480
Speaker 1: even giving a pussy, why are you sleeping in the

952
00:49:44,520 --> 00:49:49,160
Speaker 1: bed with a dong? No, I was drunk as chopping

953
00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:53,920
Speaker 1: kind to say this, and so this is the boy's

954
00:49:53,960 --> 00:50:00,360
Speaker 1: ready to get it out. So coming from my like

955
00:50:00,400 --> 00:50:02,399
Speaker 1: not my background, but like the type of guy I

956
00:50:02,440 --> 00:50:04,520
Speaker 1: was proughd to this. I've never been rejected from a

957
00:50:04,560 --> 00:50:08,920
Speaker 1: female ever. And it's gonna sound like I'm being extremely

958
00:50:08,960 --> 00:50:11,959
Speaker 1: conceived about it, but I've never been believe, I've never

959
00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:16,719
Speaker 1: I've never I've never had to wait for pussy before. Ever.

960
00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:19,919
Speaker 1: The simple fact that she made me wait those nine

961
00:50:20,000 --> 00:50:22,439
Speaker 1: months it had me thinking like, if she made me wait,

962
00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:24,439
Speaker 1: that means she never suck the man before. That means

963
00:50:24,440 --> 00:50:27,560
Speaker 1: something about how must be special? That was one I'm

964
00:50:27,600 --> 00:50:30,360
Speaker 1: twenty four. Wait now, had you've had a one night

965
00:50:30,440 --> 00:50:32,960
Speaker 1: stand before? Right? No? I never had a one night

966
00:50:33,000 --> 00:50:35,960
Speaker 1: stand you see if that's a different but she she haven't,

967
00:50:36,000 --> 00:50:38,160
Speaker 1: but I have before. And the fact that she didn't

968
00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:40,400
Speaker 1: do it to me when we are in a different state,

969
00:50:41,200 --> 00:50:44,239
Speaker 1: You're making all dudes wait like this, are you quick? No,

970
00:50:44,280 --> 00:50:46,400
Speaker 1: I've never d like, I don't. I don't say like

971
00:50:46,440 --> 00:50:48,040
Speaker 1: nine months, I just wait what I feel like, I'm

972
00:50:48,080 --> 00:50:50,759
Speaker 1: comfortable enough to you, you've never felt comfortable in a week?

973
00:50:51,360 --> 00:51:02,200
Speaker 1: Hell no, really other for thirty five minutes. It seems

974
00:51:02,239 --> 00:51:04,319
Speaker 1: like much longer. You know. It's funny because like when

975
00:51:04,360 --> 00:51:07,680
Speaker 1: I was listening to you talk like it's funny now

976
00:51:07,880 --> 00:51:14,000
Speaker 1: how because you're like to blah blah blah and super open,

977
00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:17,160
Speaker 1: but like no, no exactly. And that's what's crazy because

978
00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:18,879
Speaker 1: my friends are watching and they're like, you're not even

979
00:51:18,960 --> 00:51:21,080
Speaker 1: like this, and I'm like, well, if I if I

980
00:51:21,120 --> 00:51:23,000
Speaker 1: came down to it, like I would strip if something

981
00:51:23,040 --> 00:51:25,399
Speaker 1: happened in my life, I would. And then the girl

982
00:51:25,480 --> 00:51:27,319
Speaker 1: asked me, what do you what do you do when

983
00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:29,960
Speaker 1: your man is hungry? Like that ship irritated the so

984
00:51:30,080 --> 00:51:31,960
Speaker 1: out of me, Like, don't fucking ask what I'll do

985
00:51:32,040 --> 00:51:33,759
Speaker 1: if he's hungry. Asked me what the funk he does

986
00:51:33,760 --> 00:51:37,560
Speaker 1: when I'm hungry like that that ship? That ship bothered me,

987
00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:39,239
Speaker 1: Like why he got to be hungry? I don't get

988
00:51:39,280 --> 00:51:41,440
Speaker 1: know what that would have pissed me off to. And

989
00:51:41,440 --> 00:51:45,960
Speaker 1: then people are like I need making airplane right, And

990
00:51:45,960 --> 00:51:47,719
Speaker 1: then people are like on Twitter like so it's not

991
00:51:47,760 --> 00:51:50,440
Speaker 1: about like um cooking for him, it's about keeping him nurtured.

992
00:51:50,760 --> 00:51:52,640
Speaker 1: So I don't need to be healthy. I don't need to,

993
00:51:52,960 --> 00:51:55,799
Speaker 1: but you're gonna no. But people are making it like,

994
00:51:55,880 --> 00:51:58,960
Speaker 1: oh man, priority comes first before mine, and it's like, no,

995
00:51:59,040 --> 00:52:01,000
Speaker 1: if I've cooked for us right, and I'm like, ya,

996
00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:04,359
Speaker 1: I'm hungry. I'm gonna cook something. But it ain't like, oh,

997
00:52:04,680 --> 00:52:06,400
Speaker 1: I see when they got on you, but from that

998
00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:08,560
Speaker 1: reaction because I maybe maybe would have had the same

999
00:52:08,600 --> 00:52:11,000
Speaker 1: But now hearing that you say, all you want from

1000
00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:14,520
Speaker 1: him is honesty, girl, I don't blame you said I

1001
00:52:14,600 --> 00:52:18,279
Speaker 1: really all you want is just the relationship you have.

1002
00:52:18,960 --> 00:52:20,880
Speaker 1: You're not thinking about anything else right now, so like

1003
00:52:20,920 --> 00:52:23,160
Speaker 1: there is nothing else to get, Like yeah, for what,

1004
00:52:23,520 --> 00:52:26,000
Speaker 1: that's a hope that, like long term, I think that

1005
00:52:26,040 --> 00:52:28,480
Speaker 1: financially will be fine. Like we're both in college and

1006
00:52:28,680 --> 00:52:30,759
Speaker 1: he's going to get his PhD because I'm playing that ship.

1007
00:52:31,400 --> 00:52:34,880
Speaker 1: So he's gonna get his PhD. And what are your degrees?

1008
00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:40,319
Speaker 1: I have a degree in psychology and women's studdies. Nice. Well,

1009
00:52:40,400 --> 00:52:43,200
Speaker 1: I'm going to school for exercise science and coodnesiology to

1010
00:52:43,280 --> 00:52:45,360
Speaker 1: become a fitness trainer. I'm trying to open up my

1011
00:52:45,360 --> 00:52:50,040
Speaker 1: own gym teacher working bot event now. So it's good.

1012
00:52:50,960 --> 00:52:55,359
Speaker 1: So I hope that finally, like finance, you're talking about

1013
00:52:55,400 --> 00:52:58,120
Speaker 1: him getting a PhD. I'm going I'm gonna get one too,

1014
00:52:58,560 --> 00:53:00,439
Speaker 1: Because I was going to say psychologies don't make sure

1015
00:53:01,640 --> 00:53:04,239
Speaker 1: you're not making no money. It's boy, we're going I

1016
00:53:04,280 --> 00:53:06,240
Speaker 1: have plan on going to That's one of those degrees

1017
00:53:06,280 --> 00:53:08,960
Speaker 1: that I try to steer people away from getting um. So,

1018
00:53:09,000 --> 00:53:11,200
Speaker 1: as long as you have like an end goal in

1019
00:53:11,760 --> 00:53:14,279
Speaker 1: what you want with that degree, I think that's that's

1020
00:53:14,320 --> 00:53:17,640
Speaker 1: definitely great, but it's definitely you need more interesting. To me,

1021
00:53:17,640 --> 00:53:20,840
Speaker 1: it's the most attractive field me too, Like I love you,

1022
00:53:20,920 --> 00:53:25,319
Speaker 1: don't get out. Yeah, but like when you love it,

1023
00:53:25,360 --> 00:53:26,600
Speaker 1: like they said, when you love it, you'll find a

1024
00:53:26,600 --> 00:53:32,160
Speaker 1: way to make love. Don't pay the bills. No, but

1025
00:53:32,200 --> 00:53:33,920
Speaker 1: I want to go. I want to go ready far

1026
00:53:33,960 --> 00:53:37,120
Speaker 1: with it. I'm still like trying to figure out exactly what.

1027
00:53:37,280 --> 00:53:39,320
Speaker 1: At first, I went into college with the mindset that

1028
00:53:39,320 --> 00:53:40,840
Speaker 1: I wanted to become a psychiatrist and be able to

1029
00:53:40,880 --> 00:53:44,280
Speaker 1: provide people medication. I realized I don't. I no longer

1030
00:53:44,360 --> 00:53:46,400
Speaker 1: have that passion, and I think that for me, I

1031
00:53:46,400 --> 00:53:48,000
Speaker 1: want to be able to do because I would love

1032
00:53:48,040 --> 00:53:49,799
Speaker 1: to dig into your script. No, yeah, me too. I

1033
00:53:49,800 --> 00:53:51,400
Speaker 1: want to be like take that ship. But like I

1034
00:53:51,880 --> 00:53:53,600
Speaker 1: just lost interest. So for me now, I feel like

1035
00:53:53,640 --> 00:53:56,839
Speaker 1: I want to provide reason. I want to provide psychological

1036
00:53:56,880 --> 00:53:59,200
Speaker 1: services to women who have been breaped. That's where my

1037
00:53:59,239 --> 00:54:02,920
Speaker 1: heart's right, that's like where I'm just like, so that's

1038
00:54:02,920 --> 00:54:05,600
Speaker 1: where i'm That's where I'm good for you, girl. I

1039
00:54:05,640 --> 00:54:08,560
Speaker 1: like that. I like that too. Sorry, No, I was

1040
00:54:08,600 --> 00:54:13,040
Speaker 1: gonna say, like she specifies her psychology into a specific format,

1041
00:54:13,120 --> 00:54:16,400
Speaker 1: maybe like for a specific sports team or something. It's

1042
00:54:16,440 --> 00:54:19,120
Speaker 1: still beyond a bachelor's you have to do masters and

1043
00:54:19,120 --> 00:54:21,680
Speaker 1: then you have to at least get a PhD in

1044
00:54:21,680 --> 00:54:25,080
Speaker 1: psychology any sort of like real money of course, and

1045
00:54:25,360 --> 00:54:27,919
Speaker 1: I hate to differentiate between real money and fake money,

1046
00:54:27,920 --> 00:54:32,160
Speaker 1: but there's a difference. And it's the thing, like there's

1047
00:54:32,160 --> 00:54:34,279
Speaker 1: a lot of people who major in psychology, so more

1048
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Speaker 1: people that major in it, the less money was right,

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Speaker 1: The demand isn't the time because it's an oversaturated um

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Speaker 1: you know, like talk space is super popular. Now you

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Speaker 1: can make your own ship girl just a woman's hotline.

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Speaker 1: And right now, ain't pays for the girl? Are you

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Speaker 1: talking about? Pays for that? Hey to place? But let's right,

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Speaker 1: but we gotta go ahead and this up. Guys. Thank

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Speaker 1: you guys so much for coming on. Where can our

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Speaker 1: listeners find you? Guys, We're not gonna put the boyfriend's

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Speaker 1: Instagram out there because that's just all bad just out here,

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Speaker 1: like I could be your boyfriend's girlfriend. So where can

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Speaker 1: they find you, guys? Where can they find b K

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Speaker 1: chat or YouTube b K chat? Um, there's a New

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Speaker 1: York one and a London one. If YouTube b K

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Speaker 1: chat and we'll see you get to watch the shows.

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Speaker 1: It's just a debate show about you know, when male

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Speaker 1: and female perspectives. And you can get to see different

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Speaker 1: characters in New York, um, you know, discussing different you

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Speaker 1: guys have an audience that watches it. Yeah, it's mainly

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Speaker 1: right now, I think it's crazy. Man, they'be throwing the

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Speaker 1: ship out of me now. I feel like right now

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Speaker 1: that I think, correct me if I'm wrong. I think

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Speaker 1: it's mainly like like an African audience, and I think

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Speaker 1: that's why I'm We have a large African morning. And

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Speaker 1: I was gonna say, I saw you were the most

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Speaker 1: vocal and then a girl name esterday. It was really

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Speaker 1: driving me crazy. Well, I'm not gonna lie, I super.

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Speaker 1: I was hoping we got to London house so over it, bro,

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Speaker 1: and she was like, no, I got my body done.

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Speaker 1: But you know I'm not gonna be a stripper. I

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Speaker 1: mean but whatever, and then you had to come in

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Speaker 1: there and be like, now he got upset because she

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Speaker 1: was like, I got my body that He's like, how

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Speaker 1: do you get your body done? And you don't twork?

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Speaker 1: You're never gonna catch me working, girl, And you can

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Speaker 1: get your body done to work. Guys, if you guys

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Speaker 1: want to hear more of these type of debates in conversations,

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Speaker 1: I know we have a ton on the show, but

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Speaker 1: you guys can follow them on YouTube and be K

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Speaker 1: chat and you want to let them know something else. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: So it's b K chat World on Instagram and then

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Speaker 1: b K Chat on YouTube. There's two different type of

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Speaker 1: shows under that out right now. It's one for New

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Speaker 1: York City, which are these guys, and then one for London,

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Speaker 1: which is and I love them accents on about the

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Speaker 1: show with the London, just the way they talk and

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Speaker 1: they'll pronounces be like when I can talk to production

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Speaker 1: because they need to be on at least the next one.

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Speaker 1: So and you pushed ahead of you. But if that

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Speaker 1: was crazy topic these bitches is hard. We know. Hey,

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Speaker 1: thank you guys for listening to get another episode of

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Speaker 1: Horrible Decision. Definitely by