WEBVTT - Yesterday's Price is Not Today's w/ Zoba Martin

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<v Speaker 1>We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion. He

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<v Speaker 1>talks back. What's up, y'all? Thank you for tuning in

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<v Speaker 1>for a new episode of We Talked Back. I show

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<v Speaker 1>dedicated to you, Nick Is and Needs Hoes and everybody

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<v Speaker 1>else in between, your co host a J. What's up? Tim? Hey?

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<v Speaker 1>What's up? Everybody is? Tim? Vam? I love y'all. Thank

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<v Speaker 1>y'all for tuning in again. What's up? A J? Nothing? Then?

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<v Speaker 1>What's it going now? And what are you doing? You

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<v Speaker 1>sound real, Charleston? Just now? I am shi, Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes you don't sound it just now? You sounded real,

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<v Speaker 1>like hey, box you and y'all A all right? Going forward?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm doing every episode like real, Gucci no, because people

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<v Speaker 1>need to understand what you're saying is a governed language.

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<v Speaker 1>They'll understand. What'd you do over the weekend? Did rachet

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<v Speaker 1>ship with my new group of friends? Okay? I went

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<v Speaker 1>to just outside, y'all. I went to like Christmas parties

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<v Speaker 1>and like hung up with white people. I mean, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just really let I've been doing a lot of networking.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just great, not white people, beige people. Yes, I

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<v Speaker 1>have some new beige friends as well, but it's cool. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's been nice. So my friends, my best friend's husband

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<v Speaker 1>through her a surprise dinner because she got her I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's her second massages degree. I can't rely she got.

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<v Speaker 1>But so she didn't know nothing. So all of her

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<v Speaker 1>closest friends were there and most of us don't like

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<v Speaker 1>each other, but we got along real good for her. Then, Uh, Saturday,

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<v Speaker 1>we I had my annuals so I belonged to this group.

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<v Speaker 1>We do a gift exchange every Christmas. Is the twelfth

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<v Speaker 1>year in a row. I've only been participating for six years.

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<v Speaker 1>But uh, and we have a theme and we get together,

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<v Speaker 1>we exchange gifts. Is really nice. I did that. We

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<v Speaker 1>had a sneaker ball theme this year, which I really

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<v Speaker 1>hate sneaker balls because I feel like you're not supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to have on them shoes with those nice dresses. But

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<v Speaker 1>it's comfortable though, it's comfortable, but it ain't cute to me. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we have balls all the time. I've never been to

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<v Speaker 1>one though, like the little snaker balls, sneaker balls And

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<v Speaker 1>that was Oh and then I put up my Christmas tree.

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<v Speaker 1>I know I'm late for y'all. People's like, ain't no

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<v Speaker 1>point in putting it up Christmas is is the It

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<v Speaker 1>was the eleventh or something like that. So what's the

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<v Speaker 1>rule on when to put the Christmas tree up? I

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<v Speaker 1>think you gotta put it up the day before Thanksgiving

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<v Speaker 1>us something. Who's that that we got? Like what you

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<v Speaker 1>put it up the day after Halloween? Actually, girl, it's Halloween, Christmas, Christmas,

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<v Speaker 1>Christmas two days and Thanksgiving and then Christmas, Christmas, Christmas.

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<v Speaker 1>Why my home girl ain't never took her Christmas treet down.

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<v Speaker 1>She just put it in her spare room and took

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<v Speaker 1>that bitch back out, smart woman. It's nice too, a

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<v Speaker 1>really nice Christmas tree. I like my little Christmas tree.

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<v Speaker 1>My so, my face is pretty small, but I found

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<v Speaker 1>a Christmas tree that was like seven and a half

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<v Speaker 1>feet tall. Maybe it might even be taller than that,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's skinny. So if it's in my space, my

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<v Speaker 1>mama gonna say, my tree, look anna, rexy. It looks nice.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, it's nice. Balls on there and all that ship.

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<v Speaker 1>It's nice. Merry Christmas. Home. Well we got going on

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<v Speaker 1>the internet news this week line. Okay, so Britney Grinder

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<v Speaker 1>is home, Thank God, thanks Goddess that she's home. And

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<v Speaker 1>I don't feel like I don't like how our community

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<v Speaker 1>is welcoming her back. Jokes. It's so it's not just

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<v Speaker 1>jokes that is hilarious. Man. She's homesafe, in the arms

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<v Speaker 1>of her loved ones. She's not harmed. She ain't got

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<v Speaker 1>hurt locks no more. But I know somebody who can

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<v Speaker 1>add them back if she's still got them. She's okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we can make a little jokey joke, she's not okay.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't understand the mental language. I'm pretty sure that

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<v Speaker 1>she went through she not did over the last few months,

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<v Speaker 1>and she back home. She not in jail, she not

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<v Speaker 1>did she back home. We would never understand what she's

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<v Speaker 1>been through. So for for people not to be completely

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<v Speaker 1>um supportive of her return, it's disheartening to me. So

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people have been talking about how the

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<v Speaker 1>swap wasn't even so they so britty grinder. She's back

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<v Speaker 1>in the US Thursday. Um, they swapped her for a

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<v Speaker 1>Victor Bout, nicknamed the Merchant of Death by his accusers,

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<v Speaker 1>his accusers being the United States of America. Okay, who

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<v Speaker 1>acquired this man from a whole another country. Let's be clear,

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<v Speaker 1>he wasn't caught in America. But about he's a former

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<v Speaker 1>Soviet military officer and he was serving a twenty five

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<v Speaker 1>years sentence in America for conspiring to kill Americans allegedly right, well,

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<v Speaker 1>not allegedly because he was um, I mean, he was convincing, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So they did the swap for him. So people are saying, like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>they should have you know, gotten a couple other people

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<v Speaker 1>for him, like that, the crimes don't fit. We don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if this man was rightfully imprisoned in this country.

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<v Speaker 1>That's just another perspective I want to offer, right, because

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<v Speaker 1>why would they swap that type of person for uh

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<v Speaker 1>celebrity basketball player? Right? But we ain't gonna act like

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<v Speaker 1>she's just innocent now, Yeah, of course not. But I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>did the punishment fit the crime at all? And I

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<v Speaker 1>understand it being Russia, I think it was more it

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't fit the crime in the United States, but she

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<v Speaker 1>was not in the United States. And what people need

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<v Speaker 1>to understand is you can't you're not governed by the

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<v Speaker 1>laws of where you're from in other countries. You can't

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<v Speaker 1>just do what the funk you want. You can't go

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<v Speaker 1>over to Russia. They smoke your cartridges. You're not in

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<v Speaker 1>l a no more, bitch, you got by by the

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<v Speaker 1>laws of the land. So we know that a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people commit crimes, they're just not calling right. So

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<v Speaker 1>what if it were you, I wouldn't give a funk

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<v Speaker 1>who they had to trade. Bring my bed home. That's

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<v Speaker 1>how I feel like. If I got to conversent and

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<v Speaker 1>get you, so, I don't care what other beige people

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<v Speaker 1>are still in prison over there, bring that black lady home,

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<v Speaker 1>That's how I feel about it. Yeah, I wanted her

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<v Speaker 1>to come home too, But I I'm going to correct

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<v Speaker 1>a little joke. I mean, you did some stupid shit,

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<v Speaker 1>but she smoked weed. She don't deserve nine years for that.

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<v Speaker 1>Nine No, I don't. I don't believe. I don't believe

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<v Speaker 1>she deserved that type of term for that. No. But

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<v Speaker 1>it's just not in America. You know, if you travel

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<v Speaker 1>what she she got, you know she's not a novice

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<v Speaker 1>to traveling. So you gotta understand it. You gotta learn

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<v Speaker 1>the laws of these places you're going to before you

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<v Speaker 1>end up in a broken down palace. They literally said

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<v Speaker 1>she was over there working to pay her child support

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<v Speaker 1>because she wasn't making enough money playing playing in the

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<v Speaker 1>w n B a in Americas. Now, this was her

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<v Speaker 1>last trip leaving Russia. She wasn't planning on going back

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<v Speaker 1>after that, and I think they knew that, and they

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<v Speaker 1>essentially kidnapped her as far as I'm concerned, and then

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<v Speaker 1>they extorted America for this other guy. Now it looks

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<v Speaker 1>good for the Democratic Party for Biden if he plans

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<v Speaker 1>on running a second um second term, because now you

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<v Speaker 1>have a black woman who's a part of the LGBTQ

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<v Speaker 1>community and like she's a celebrity. So to me, like

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<v Speaker 1>the whole ship has been so politicalized. I don't trust

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<v Speaker 1>none of it. It's just like it's acting as far

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<v Speaker 1>as I'm concerned, But I don't know whether she was

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<v Speaker 1>a part of it or not. I'm happy she's home. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I doubt she's part of it because the way she

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<v Speaker 1>looked on their play coming home, she looks meek and humble.

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<v Speaker 1>Baby m m. They humbled hers because that I ain't forgot.

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<v Speaker 1>She used to be beating Beach's ass. She that's a

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<v Speaker 1>big bitch now a little damn. That's a big bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>But she she probably don't want no smoke with nobody

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<v Speaker 1>right now. She probably just wanted to welcome in Britain. Ye. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so uh, a man by the name of Patrick Xavier

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<v Speaker 1>Clark was arrested for the murder of Takeoff, a member

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<v Speaker 1>of the Meigo's rap group, so he asked the court

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<v Speaker 1>to grant him five thousand dollars to hire a private

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<v Speaker 1>investigator to help to prepare for his defense. And UM,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm wondering, is he guilty? Why would you do that

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<v Speaker 1>if you were, you know, if you knew you had

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<v Speaker 1>kill somebody? Is that normal? I mean, uh, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought I was a lawyer. I didn't even know

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<v Speaker 1>that you could actually request something like that, but I

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<v Speaker 1>guess you can if you can get a public defender,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, somebody to represent you. So that's something else

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<v Speaker 1>he needs for his legal defense. UM, I personally don't

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<v Speaker 1>think that he is the shooter. There was multiple people

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<v Speaker 1>out there. I watched those videos multiple times, just the

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<v Speaker 1>the UM the altercation leading up to UM take Off

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<v Speaker 1>being shot, and I didn't see him. I didn't see

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<v Speaker 1>him in the video. I don't want I didn't watch that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't see him, So I don't know. This ship

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<v Speaker 1>is real sketchy because remember initially after um take Off

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<v Speaker 1>as murder, they supposed he had this dude, a low

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<v Speaker 1>low something somebody that was first he was dead, then

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<v Speaker 1>he was actually on Twitter tweeting, and then like now

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<v Speaker 1>he's in jail for some other ship that they were

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<v Speaker 1>saying he was a shooter. But he looks like a

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<v Speaker 1>little boy, So I don't know, but I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>that they have the absolutely, and grown men use little

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<v Speaker 1>boys as crash dummies all the time, right, don't let

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<v Speaker 1>these old niggas use y'all young man. But um, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think he's a shooter. And I mean he says

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<v Speaker 1>he needs um a private detective because he's innocent. He

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<v Speaker 1>needs somebody to do an independent um detective work to

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<v Speaker 1>Claire his name ship. I hope he gets justice and

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<v Speaker 1>I hope take off you say him or take off

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<v Speaker 1>both of them, Like yeah, I hope, Yeah, I hope.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, if justice is putting his ass and fucking

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<v Speaker 1>jail because he actually shot take off, then so be

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<v Speaker 1>it just a speedy trial so they can get this

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<v Speaker 1>ship done done with. But but whoever really didn't need

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<v Speaker 1>to go down? Absolutely, Yeah, it's weird to me, the

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing. Yeah, alright, um did you see that? Did

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<v Speaker 1>y'all see did he had a baby? Mm hmm who it? Listen?

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know at first. It was like an announcement

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<v Speaker 1>that did he had a baby, but nobody knew who

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<v Speaker 1>the mama was. But apparently the mom is a a Asian.

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<v Speaker 1>It's looking I'm not sure if she's Asian, but Asian

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<v Speaker 1>woman named Dana Tran a k a. Dana t. According

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<v Speaker 1>to the baby's birth certificate, Love Sean Coins was born

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<v Speaker 1>October fifteenth in Newport Beach, California, and did He is

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<v Speaker 1>listed as the father in the twenty eight year old

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<v Speaker 1>Dana Tran is the mother. H Uh, fifty three year old?

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<v Speaker 1>Did he? Corisha? Please come to the motherfucking podium, Come

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<v Speaker 1>to the podium, girl? What's up? What I mean? What

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<v Speaker 1>can Carisa say? They never were in a committed relationship, right?

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<v Speaker 1>They never admitted, They never said that they were committed.

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<v Speaker 1>And especially if the baby, the woman had to be

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<v Speaker 1>gotten pregnant at least nine months ago, I mean six

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<v Speaker 1>to nine months ago. I just feel like they were

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<v Speaker 1>even less close. Why don't um any of these women

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<v Speaker 1>think they deserve more? You know what I'm saying, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>why are you letting a fifty three year old front

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<v Speaker 1>play with you like this, even if you really because

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<v Speaker 1>there's some old man and not not the dogs off

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<v Speaker 1>that boos. Obviously did he healthy as fun? He started

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<v Speaker 1>here making babies obviously obviously, But man, I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>maybe she can't do better. I'm not gonna even give

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<v Speaker 1>her that type of grace. Maybe this is what she wants, obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>this is what she's signing up for, but I think

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<v Speaker 1>that she deserves better. Cassie knew she deserved better, and

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<v Speaker 1>how long it took to figure that? It did take

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<v Speaker 1>her a while and she got the funk up out

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<v Speaker 1>of there, but I still don't think that did He

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<v Speaker 1>was playing with her publicly like he's doing Kaisha, if

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<v Speaker 1>they have any type of even as a friendship, Karisia said,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not mad, I'm trending. Next, I think this was

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<v Speaker 1>on Twitter and then she said, like she's out there

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<v Speaker 1>fighting for her life against these girls coming for her

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<v Speaker 1>girls and guys coming for her own Twitter she said,

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<v Speaker 1>did he won't even look half of y'all bitches, way

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<v Speaker 1>majority of y'all praying upon a falling star, bitch, Please

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<v Speaker 1>y'all want to laugh, Let's laugh, and a bunch of

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<v Speaker 1>laughing faces and then shut up, girl. If you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>do it, don't even play the people no attention at

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<v Speaker 1>this point for sure. She also told academics to uh,

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<v Speaker 1>her name made dick, so keep it out his mouth,

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<v Speaker 1>and she said, you're the type of nigga that do

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<v Speaker 1>life sentence You're the type of nigga her uncle doing

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<v Speaker 1>life sentences behind. I don't know what the rest said

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<v Speaker 1>because it was bleeped out, but I think it's like something,

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<v Speaker 1>probably like gay, she said. I don't know, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>nobody's side, bitch. Let's just make this clear on this

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<v Speaker 1>good Monday. I don't come second to no bitches may

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<v Speaker 1>come third, fourth, all right? I mean maybe y're all

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<v Speaker 1>standing side by side. I don't know how it worked.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's whack man. I JT J T a

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<v Speaker 1>real nigger. I mean I probably I ain't gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 1>Did he was like? If did he slid in my DearS?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm probably anteggarty? Come on, man, what's wrong with? What's

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<v Speaker 1>wrong with me? Want to um see what the did

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<v Speaker 1>life look like? Girl? Anyway, I ain't I ain't trying

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<v Speaker 1>to have no baby with did he? But did he

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<v Speaker 1>want to take me to Santro pay, I might see

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on in Santra Pey. I ain't gonna lie. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't trying to be no baby mama, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think neither. Karsha, Yeah, like you already got two kids

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<v Speaker 1>out of wedlock. I feel like she should probably make

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<v Speaker 1>better decisions at this point. No am I tripping? Like?

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<v Speaker 1>Do I have too much integrity? I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if it's integrity that the issue. Let's look

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<v Speaker 1>up the definition of integrity. Let's let's define it. Y'all

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<v Speaker 1>know I love definitions. The quality of being honest and

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<v Speaker 1>having strong moral principles, moral uprightness, the state of the

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<v Speaker 1>state of being whole and undivided. Uh so, internal consistency

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<v Speaker 1>or our lack of corruption and collect and electric data

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<v Speaker 1>whatever that means. Okay, So it's just like having what's

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<v Speaker 1>your where's your what's your moral compass? I know we

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<v Speaker 1>live in a world where everybody this night truth. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna live my truth. I could do what I want

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<v Speaker 1>to do, but you know, things have consequences, is especially

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<v Speaker 1>when you create in other humans. You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I said. I wouldn't want to have a

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<v Speaker 1>baby by him, But I definitely would want to go

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<v Speaker 1>on a vacation. What's Where's what's wrong with that? Does

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<v Speaker 1>that mean I don't have integrity? Girl? Integrity and not

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<v Speaker 1>having integrity would be me like going on vacation with

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<v Speaker 1>a dukie? Why? Why? What's because he's because he's in

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<v Speaker 1>a committed relationship while he was in a committed relationship

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<v Speaker 1>with someone, and then that's deceitful? Did he don't commit

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<v Speaker 1>to nobody? Did he don't a lie of them? Girls?

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<v Speaker 1>I just wouldn't want to associate myself with somebody like Diddy.

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<v Speaker 1>So maybe that's what I'm thinking about when I say integrity?

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<v Speaker 1>Did he is not the type of person? And I

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<v Speaker 1>don't look, I'm not trying to get cancer like he did.

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<v Speaker 1>Wendy Williams asked, Okay, I just shut up. That's a

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<v Speaker 1>J Diddy. I would not associate myself but a man

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<v Speaker 1>like did he. I like men with a little bit more. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>just I don't know, just a better character. That dude

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<v Speaker 1>is not good. He's not, but okay, we can move on. Though,

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<v Speaker 1>we can move on a little bit. So um, y'all

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<v Speaker 1>know Tory Lanes and a big Meg. They in court

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<v Speaker 1>last two weeks now and um, so there's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of things that's coming out on the defense and prosecution side.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw some commentary that said, like, the prosecutors really

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<v Speaker 1>weren't doing a good job proving their case like that,

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<v Speaker 1>it looked like the defense was kind of winning. So

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<v Speaker 1>during cross examination, the l a p D officer Sandra Cabro,

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<v Speaker 1>who pulled over the STUV Mega Stallion and Tory Lanes

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<v Speaker 1>was riding in um says Kelsey had blood and scratches

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<v Speaker 1>on her leg, plus a ripped strap on the left

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<v Speaker 1>side of her Babes suit. So clearly there was a fight.

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<v Speaker 1>Whoever called a police was like the neighbors or somebody

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<v Speaker 1>on the doorbell ringbell, the little doorbell ship. They heard

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<v Speaker 1>somebody saying dance bitch. They heard that. They also heard

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<v Speaker 1>the gunshots. But you know, there's no there's no video footage.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just all audio. M um, and so I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know exactly what the prosecution strategy is, but the defense

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<v Speaker 1>strategy is like really just making Meg to look like

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<v Speaker 1>the super ho who's working with Tory Lanes and a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of other people behind her best friend, right, And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just confused as to how your best like you're

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<v Speaker 1>the artist, right, you're the one that that's working with

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<v Speaker 1>all these different people. How your best friend get access

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<v Speaker 1>to them in that way? You see her pictures of

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<v Speaker 1>her who are best friends? She fine? Oh god see

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<v Speaker 1>look you would know, bitch, I've seen her. But I

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<v Speaker 1>look at her in that lens. Okay, she or she

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<v Speaker 1>around for the party, she along with me, and she's

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<v Speaker 1>attractive woman. So I can see how she would be

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<v Speaker 1>able to have sex with these people or have you know,

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<v Speaker 1>interactions with these people. Yes, So prosecutors kick things off

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<v Speaker 1>on Monday, saying that whether they're claiming that Tory fired,

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<v Speaker 1>I've shots on the evening of July twelve, striking Megan

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<v Speaker 1>the foot, actually both feet, claiming Tory was set off

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<v Speaker 1>after Megan insulted um his skills by sarcastically calling him

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<v Speaker 1>a beautiful artist. I don't understand. Oh there, yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like a little man, right. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>this is what I think happened. I feel like Tory

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<v Speaker 1>was I'm not to her. I feel like Meg was

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<v Speaker 1>beating both of the ass got the best of both

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<v Speaker 1>of them, and then she got shot. Regardless of what

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<v Speaker 1>does she deserve to be shot. People are calling her

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<v Speaker 1>a liar, but the fact that she's she didn't lie

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<v Speaker 1>about anything. She actually got shot or she was shot

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<v Speaker 1>at because it was bullet fragments that they took out

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<v Speaker 1>of her feet. She did initially thought, you know, she

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<v Speaker 1>had stepped on glass. It was the dog, it was

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<v Speaker 1>the hospital like that told her, no, there's a bullet

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<v Speaker 1>fragments in your foot, and let's not forget. Originally, she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even want to fucking snitch on this nigger. And

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<v Speaker 1>maybe her head was turned. Maybe she doesn't know exactly

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<v Speaker 1>who did it. She just knows she got hurt in

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<v Speaker 1>the midst of all the rockets. I'm over how long

0:20:14.600 --> 0:20:17.919
<v Speaker 1>was this? This is before the pandemic started, ain't it? Goddamn?

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<v Speaker 1>This is during the pandemic. I'm over it. Who did it?

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<v Speaker 1>Who did it? Who did it? At this point? God damn,

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<v Speaker 1>this is the biggest case of a Scooba duo I

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<v Speaker 1>ever seen in my life. I think I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>Tory could have easily said, I don't shoot her homegirl?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you care about this way? Somebody the pull of

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<v Speaker 1>mask off. It was Red Harry, and I would have

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<v Speaker 1>got away what it if it wasn't for you snotty kids,

0:20:54.320 --> 0:21:00.000
<v Speaker 1>man's fucking kids. Anyway, like we're waiting to see the result.

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<v Speaker 1>The story is still developing, so I mean we'll hear

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<v Speaker 1>some more by the time y'all hear this goddamn episode. Anyway, y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>we do have a special guest on we talked Back

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<v Speaker 1>this week. Okay, we got Shazova Martin. She is a

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<v Speaker 1>fashion designer born Nigerian, but she listened Toronto, Canada doing

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<v Speaker 1>super Fly Ship. Y'all saw some of her pieces in

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<v Speaker 1>one of a couple of a matter of fact, a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of Drake videos. Okay, the shade will anyway, y'all

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<v Speaker 1>stay tuned, we'll be right back, all right, y'all listen.

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<v Speaker 1>So we do have a special guest on we talked

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<v Speaker 1>Back this week. Okay, she's recently she was on the

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<v Speaker 1>Canadian show Dragons then, which would be like the equivalent

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<v Speaker 1>to America's Shark Team. Okay, Yeah. Martin is a super

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<v Speaker 1>dope Nigerian born designer and founder of Zoba Martin, a

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<v Speaker 1>luxury brand based in Toronto. Her pieces haven't seen at Canadians,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, music awards and even a few of Drake's

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<v Speaker 1>music videos. Okay, so um recently, I saw it. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know we saw it him, but she had a

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<v Speaker 1>damn dress made out of toilet tissue on the shade room. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was magnificent. Okay, it was beautiful. It was beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to we talk back. Soba, hey girl, y'all don't

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<v Speaker 1>hit me up on Instagram a couple of weeks ago

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<v Speaker 1>and asked me to watch the clip of her on Dragons.

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<v Speaker 1>Then she actually reached out to your girl for business advice. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so some of y'all, do you listening to me? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not just a crazy motherfucker on we talked back, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but you got some crazy people be smart when okay,

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<v Speaker 1>mm hmm. Soo, but how did you get into fashion? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>So when I was like probably eleven, I saw my

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<v Speaker 1>aunt go rest her. So I saw her make her

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<v Speaker 1>wedding dress. So she was in a living room. She

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<v Speaker 1>bought white satin fabry and she designed a whole wedding dress.

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<v Speaker 1>And then you know, you know how you have different

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<v Speaker 1>antswers in the house, like they're like making fun of her,

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<v Speaker 1>saying she's cheap. Lad, I'm like, no, she just made

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<v Speaker 1>her wedding. I making my own wedding dress and yes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like and then she's like I did all the

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<v Speaker 1>bees and you know, bam she had a wedding dress.

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<v Speaker 1>But I was like a while ago anyway, So when

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<v Speaker 1>I was in Uni, I always knew like I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to have a corporate job because like the idea

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<v Speaker 1>of it kind of made me sad, like it just

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<v Speaker 1>when the reason. So I'm like, okay, I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>be into fashion because I mean I just like being creating,

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<v Speaker 1>like making things in my hand. So right after school,

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<v Speaker 1>I went to University of Ottawa, Canada. But after school,

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<v Speaker 1>I went to Fashion School and my dad and my

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<v Speaker 1>mom we were very supportive, like normally with Nigerian parents

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<v Speaker 1>and like don't do anything that My parents were not

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<v Speaker 1>like that. I come from a bloodline of entrepreneurs, so like,

0:24:14.119 --> 0:24:16.320
<v Speaker 1>if you want to be an entrepreneur, everyone has your back.

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<v Speaker 1>So like they paid for any school that wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>go to. So I went to Fashion School Toronto and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, my final project was a twelve line collection

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<v Speaker 1>and people love the time, Like okay, I actually love

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<v Speaker 1>doing this as the crowd is receiving it. Well, so

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<v Speaker 1>I just decided to you know, take the care of

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<v Speaker 1>from there, and then I worked at klient Field. Went

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<v Speaker 1>while I was in fashion school, which is like this,

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<v Speaker 1>everybody say, yes, you address, everybody knows maybe you know

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<v Speaker 1>okay yeaah so um yeah, and I was seeing people

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<v Speaker 1>pay like almost hundred for alternations and went in dress

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<v Speaker 1>not for the price of the weding dress because when

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<v Speaker 1>there's probably like five key and then they pay extra

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<v Speaker 1>for altuations. And I'm like, I'm gonna make this weding

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<v Speaker 1>dresses for the price of the altuations and see what happens.

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<v Speaker 1>And I said, I do, and I'm like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't love making what a dresses more So That's

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<v Speaker 1>how I started my line and I've been doing it.

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<v Speaker 1>I worked in insurance for three years and I remember

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<v Speaker 1>I'll take like ten minutes break and I'm just staring

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<v Speaker 1>into space because I'm so sad, just like being in

0:25:16.359 --> 0:25:17.880
<v Speaker 1>the space I didn't want to be in. And then

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<v Speaker 1>they like it's just like very pretendious, everyone trying to

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<v Speaker 1>like make the manager happy, and it was just not

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<v Speaker 1>my style. So I just, you know, go Turkey quicktures

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<v Speaker 1>full time. And I've been doing that since today night.

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's so how did you end up in a

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<v Speaker 1>drunk video. It wasn't referral. Honestly, you're good because can

0:25:43.359 --> 0:25:49.159
<v Speaker 1>you say I've worked on three drink music videos and

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<v Speaker 1>it was just true. Like word of mount was like

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<v Speaker 1>the statist was looking for someone it seems stressed on set.

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<v Speaker 1>It was to Wait for You music video, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like I called her back and she's like, yeah, we

0:25:59.840 --> 0:26:03.360
<v Speaker 1>need used to come like two hours away from Toronto.

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<v Speaker 1>We're going in the middle of nowhere to shoot and

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<v Speaker 1>drink music video. I'm like, sure, I'll come, and then

0:26:08.160 --> 0:26:09.840
<v Speaker 1>I have to beat my friend to contacting from me,

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<v Speaker 1>like this is where I'm this first lesson just to

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<v Speaker 1>get something. I don't know. It was legitima you just

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<v Speaker 1>like sucking. I'm out. I'm like I'm there. You're like,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna pay you some more for like three years.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, yes, yes, yes, sign me up. I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>just for the just for the you know. And then

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<v Speaker 1>I went there was my first time being on set

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<v Speaker 1>and just speaking all this term like copy move like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, what's happening, Okay. Then I had to create

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the I don't know if you watched Wait

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<v Speaker 1>for You music video like the girl like you know,

0:26:42.600 --> 0:26:44.560
<v Speaker 1>he saves the damn soel and then she goes into

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<v Speaker 1>the room. So the course that she was when I

0:26:46.119 --> 0:26:49.600
<v Speaker 1>actually made that for like three hours, like so much pressure.

0:26:49.640 --> 0:26:52.760
<v Speaker 1>I want to directors with X. It was such a

0:26:52.880 --> 0:26:57.919
<v Speaker 1>fun for us. Yeah. He was there like, I'm like,

0:26:57.960 --> 0:26:59.879
<v Speaker 1>what do you want me to do? He's like, just

0:27:00.080 --> 0:27:03.120
<v Speaker 1>make something out of this. I'm like, all right, cool,

0:27:03.960 --> 0:27:06.679
<v Speaker 1>I didn't know what something was. He likes what I

0:27:06.760 --> 0:27:09.840
<v Speaker 1>mean too. Yeah, And then the one went we married

0:27:09.920 --> 0:27:17.080
<v Speaker 1>like twenty something girls. Yeah, also, and that's said, yeah,

0:27:17.200 --> 0:27:19.760
<v Speaker 1>I tell you all the wedding dresses, like girls came

0:27:19.800 --> 0:27:21.840
<v Speaker 1>from all over the world just to be in a

0:27:21.920 --> 0:27:26.200
<v Speaker 1>music video. And then there was a two rog Field Yeah.

0:27:26.280 --> 0:27:28.679
<v Speaker 1>And then the one we did your key and baby,

0:27:31.520 --> 0:27:34.720
<v Speaker 1>you're supposed to be excited, this is yeah excited. Yeah,

0:27:34.760 --> 0:27:37.439
<v Speaker 1>you're supposed to be excited about it doesn't any bit.

0:27:37.560 --> 0:27:39.439
<v Speaker 1>You can make a dress out of toilet tissue that

0:27:39.480 --> 0:27:41.440
<v Speaker 1>looks good is a tanlent and need to be all

0:27:41.480 --> 0:27:45.560
<v Speaker 1>everybody said period because all I can do with white

0:27:45.560 --> 0:27:50.840
<v Speaker 1>my ass. That's it helps had to reach it out

0:27:50.880 --> 0:27:53.560
<v Speaker 1>to me to come be her personal designer at all.

0:27:54.480 --> 0:27:57.080
<v Speaker 1>I make all these people reach out to me. I'm here.

0:27:57.240 --> 0:28:00.000
<v Speaker 1>You know, That's how I'm feeling sometimes. I mean, times

0:28:00.119 --> 0:28:03.320
<v Speaker 1>is not on set for you know. Yeah, I just

0:28:03.359 --> 0:28:07.359
<v Speaker 1>started and yeah, and when the shade re pusted the

0:28:07.440 --> 0:28:11.280
<v Speaker 1>Battom video, I just made like a behind the scenes

0:28:11.640 --> 0:28:13.479
<v Speaker 1>people were like, oh, we see where all these toilet

0:28:13.480 --> 0:28:22.159
<v Speaker 1>people went to, you know you like, yeah, it's like

0:28:22.200 --> 0:28:25.159
<v Speaker 1>it's a toilet paper short and it's a bitch making

0:28:25.200 --> 0:28:28.119
<v Speaker 1>like boxing the company sending the boxes of toilet paper.

0:28:28.160 --> 0:28:30.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I need more and he's more just sending more,

0:28:30.480 --> 0:28:35.960
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like making y'all gotta save that. The drags,

0:28:36.080 --> 0:28:38.680
<v Speaker 1>yeah you know that time. I've also makes hair, so

0:28:38.800 --> 0:28:41.520
<v Speaker 1>I bread it as well. That's why incorporated it into

0:28:41.600 --> 0:28:46.040
<v Speaker 1>the saw Giant. I saw it was like braided down

0:28:46.120 --> 0:28:50.000
<v Speaker 1>the back and like, yeah it was nice. That's amazing man.

0:28:50.120 --> 0:28:52.760
<v Speaker 1>So what was the process for dragging? Because I always

0:28:52.800 --> 0:28:55.440
<v Speaker 1>wanted to go on Shark thank I got this idea

0:28:55.560 --> 0:28:59.880
<v Speaker 1>about like it's Christmas time, right, you said, access will

0:28:59.880 --> 0:29:02.280
<v Speaker 1>be put up a Christmas tree. So what if you

0:29:02.360 --> 0:29:04.240
<v Speaker 1>had a Christmas tree you can open up like an

0:29:04.320 --> 0:29:09.880
<v Speaker 1>umbrella and it's already like fluffed out. I mean, you

0:29:09.960 --> 0:29:12.040
<v Speaker 1>don't have to put those things on. You have to

0:29:12.040 --> 0:29:19.000
<v Speaker 1>put each branch on and fluff it. I think I

0:29:19.080 --> 0:29:22.320
<v Speaker 1>bought a tree where it was it was three sections

0:29:22.560 --> 0:29:25.000
<v Speaker 1>that you just open up and then you put one

0:29:25.040 --> 0:29:26.760
<v Speaker 1>on the top and the third one on it and

0:29:26.760 --> 0:29:31.120
<v Speaker 1>it just it's already put together. Look, I guess I'm

0:29:31.160 --> 0:29:33.240
<v Speaker 1>a narcissist. I think I'm the first to do everything.

0:29:35.920 --> 0:29:38.120
<v Speaker 1>I mean, like all these ideas you're giving out, you

0:29:38.160 --> 0:29:40.520
<v Speaker 1>can't still do it. You can't still have made some o.

0:29:41.080 --> 0:29:43.719
<v Speaker 1>You just make it better than that. So the one

0:29:43.760 --> 0:29:45.920
<v Speaker 1>I had was three pieces. Maybe you can make it

0:29:45.960 --> 0:29:50.880
<v Speaker 1>where it's no pieces and you fluff out your leaves

0:29:51.200 --> 0:29:54.560
<v Speaker 1>and you put your decorations on five minute Christmas tree.

0:29:55.360 --> 0:29:59.720
<v Speaker 1>You ain't buy that, going sure, yeah, I'm not out.

0:30:02.480 --> 0:30:05.920
<v Speaker 1>So what was your experience on the dragons then? How

0:30:05.960 --> 0:30:08.880
<v Speaker 1>do you end up there? Yeah? So um Dragons then

0:30:08.960 --> 0:30:11.360
<v Speaker 1>reached out to me and said, like, we want your

0:30:11.440 --> 0:30:15.040
<v Speaker 1>dragons then, because like the magazine, it's called blog t oh,

0:30:15.080 --> 0:30:17.840
<v Speaker 1>it's like a big blog in Toronto. So they shared

0:30:17.880 --> 0:30:20.160
<v Speaker 1>my work, talked about sustainable design and all that. So

0:30:20.200 --> 0:30:22.320
<v Speaker 1>they reached out and the casting director returned to me

0:30:22.520 --> 0:30:24.880
<v Speaker 1>like we want your dragons then, I'm like, yeah, when

0:30:24.920 --> 0:30:27.680
<v Speaker 1>is it for three? Like no, in ten days? And

0:30:27.800 --> 0:30:30.680
<v Speaker 1>like what yeah, You're like you either want it or

0:30:30.720 --> 0:30:32.600
<v Speaker 1>you don't want it, like you know out, I mean,

0:30:32.600 --> 0:30:34.200
<v Speaker 1>you can't do it next year, but we don't really

0:30:34.240 --> 0:30:36.760
<v Speaker 1>we're going to renew. But I said, yes, I took

0:30:36.760 --> 0:30:38.800
<v Speaker 1>the one I had in the moment, and I just

0:30:39.360 --> 0:30:42.080
<v Speaker 1>never written a page. My numbers are there, but like

0:30:42.120 --> 0:30:44.680
<v Speaker 1>I had to like polish you with my accountant, and yeah,

0:30:44.680 --> 0:30:47.360
<v Speaker 1>I went into the dance scared, scared as fun. It

0:30:47.520 --> 0:30:52.160
<v Speaker 1>was very scary, but I did it. I went there

0:30:52.160 --> 0:30:54.400
<v Speaker 1>and then I had my friend come over. I made

0:30:54.440 --> 0:30:56.440
<v Speaker 1>her wedding dress. Actually, I made her wedding dress in

0:30:56.440 --> 0:31:00.000
<v Speaker 1>twenty nineteen. Her winding got cantled three weeks before the pandemic.

0:31:01.000 --> 0:31:03.640
<v Speaker 1>So you know, imagine paying all all that money and

0:31:03.720 --> 0:31:06.160
<v Speaker 1>having all this right out party and then like your

0:31:06.160 --> 0:31:09.680
<v Speaker 1>wedding doesn't happen. Because so yeah, I'm like, hey, do

0:31:09.720 --> 0:31:11.320
<v Speaker 1>you want to come wear your dress on dragons there?

0:31:11.320 --> 0:31:13.520
<v Speaker 1>She's like, yeah, sure, I'm coming. And she could still

0:31:13.520 --> 0:31:15.320
<v Speaker 1>fit the dress how the whole baby and she could

0:31:15.320 --> 0:31:18.840
<v Speaker 1>still fit the dress after her wedding, so after nineteen,

0:31:19.160 --> 0:31:21.040
<v Speaker 1>so she came with me on the show practice my

0:31:21.120 --> 0:31:25.040
<v Speaker 1>picture for me, and yeah, I spoke to the dragons

0:31:25.240 --> 0:31:31.480
<v Speaker 1>or six of them scared. Let's talk about this right, Okay,

0:31:31.720 --> 0:31:34.360
<v Speaker 1>let out listeners know what you went on the dragons

0:31:34.480 --> 0:31:36.760
<v Speaker 1>And just in case you don't watch the clip, what

0:31:36.920 --> 0:31:42.320
<v Speaker 1>was your ask from the from the dragon? Okay, So

0:31:42.360 --> 0:31:43.960
<v Speaker 1>if you didn't watch the clip, you can go on

0:31:44.040 --> 0:31:48.520
<v Speaker 1>CBC CBC dot com and then watch season seventh seen

0:31:48.640 --> 0:31:52.200
<v Speaker 1>episode ten. That's what I pitched on. So I went

0:31:52.240 --> 0:31:55.400
<v Speaker 1>and asking for a fourth forty thou dollars for twelve

0:31:55.440 --> 0:32:06.120
<v Speaker 1>point five percent of my company. But I know that's

0:32:06.200 --> 0:32:09.000
<v Speaker 1>exactly why I said it, because I'm like roast me

0:32:09.080 --> 0:32:14.440
<v Speaker 1>because I know I have to rost from that. But

0:32:14.440 --> 0:32:16.240
<v Speaker 1>but the thing is that you have to determine the

0:32:16.360 --> 0:32:21.560
<v Speaker 1>value you're asking for more. Yeah, like if you're asking

0:32:21.640 --> 0:32:23.920
<v Speaker 1>for more than to like me, asking for a twelve

0:32:23.960 --> 0:32:27.040
<v Speaker 1>point five meant I valued my company at three hundred

0:32:27.120 --> 0:32:30.239
<v Speaker 1>or something. That wasn't if anything Dragons then taught me

0:32:30.280 --> 0:32:32.800
<v Speaker 1>is I'm on to value myself a lot. You know.

0:32:33.120 --> 0:32:35.480
<v Speaker 1>After pitching, I pitched all the way with me. I

0:32:35.520 --> 0:32:37.720
<v Speaker 1>was depressed for like three days. I was on my floor.

0:32:37.760 --> 0:32:39.600
<v Speaker 1>I was crying because I'm like why did I do that?

0:32:39.720 --> 0:32:41.400
<v Speaker 1>Like I was just like all the things they told

0:32:41.440 --> 0:32:43.000
<v Speaker 1>me was just like ringing in my head. I remember

0:32:43.040 --> 0:32:45.200
<v Speaker 1>I got my period the next day I couldn't work.

0:32:45.720 --> 0:32:47.760
<v Speaker 1>So I'm just like thinking, if something I haven't seeing

0:32:47.840 --> 0:32:49.600
<v Speaker 1>what happens to come because that was what they kept

0:32:49.640 --> 0:32:52.440
<v Speaker 1>on telling me. Then and my friends who came home.

0:32:52.520 --> 0:32:54.240
<v Speaker 1>She came to my house. I wasn't asking her question

0:32:54.360 --> 0:32:56.200
<v Speaker 1>to my house, took me to different bride out stories,

0:32:56.240 --> 0:32:58.840
<v Speaker 1>into rount and she's like, this is your competition. So

0:32:58.920 --> 0:33:01.080
<v Speaker 1>like if you don't read someone, that person would do

0:33:01.120 --> 0:33:04.920
<v Speaker 1>it too, like you know, get yourself. Remember. So I

0:33:05.000 --> 0:33:08.480
<v Speaker 1>just snapped off of that, but yeah, I know. And

0:33:08.520 --> 0:33:13.760
<v Speaker 1>then I walked out with five sorry forty Okay, y'all

0:33:13.840 --> 0:33:16.440
<v Speaker 1>let me break this down right quickly. Okay, So Sooba

0:33:16.520 --> 0:33:22.400
<v Speaker 1>went on Dragon's Dead. Her ask was forty dollars for

0:33:22.560 --> 0:33:26.200
<v Speaker 1>twelve point five percent of a company that she is

0:33:26.240 --> 0:33:32.800
<v Speaker 1>the number one laborer at. Okay, and so what was

0:33:32.840 --> 0:33:36.120
<v Speaker 1>the guy who actually accepted? But he wanted forty thousand

0:33:37.440 --> 0:33:42.400
<v Speaker 1>of your company? This is essentially it's a small business, right,

0:33:43.520 --> 0:33:46.280
<v Speaker 1>you're big, but it's a small business. One person. How

0:33:46.280 --> 0:33:52.960
<v Speaker 1>many employees do you have time. So like the main

0:33:53.040 --> 0:33:55.719
<v Speaker 1>thing I asked was what did you ever have your

0:33:55.760 --> 0:33:58.760
<v Speaker 1>business evaluated? What your what was your business evaluated at?

0:33:58.760 --> 0:34:00.440
<v Speaker 1>Because that that would be the first thing you want

0:34:00.440 --> 0:34:03.680
<v Speaker 1>to do before asking somebody for money. And really what

0:34:03.800 --> 0:34:10.400
<v Speaker 1>you needed was a businessman not said that. So the

0:34:10.960 --> 0:34:14.000
<v Speaker 1>reason why I wanted an investor was not necessarily for

0:34:14.160 --> 0:34:18.000
<v Speaker 1>the money. I think I needed more mentorship, like just

0:34:18.080 --> 0:34:20.160
<v Speaker 1>someone to like helping with the business side, because the

0:34:20.200 --> 0:34:22.960
<v Speaker 1>critic side is fine, but like because I'm obviously I'm

0:34:22.960 --> 0:34:25.759
<v Speaker 1>always improving on my critivity and like learning, but the

0:34:25.800 --> 0:34:27.839
<v Speaker 1>business side is like something that I wasn't really paying

0:34:27.880 --> 0:34:30.640
<v Speaker 1>attention to as much as I should have. So I

0:34:30.719 --> 0:34:34.120
<v Speaker 1>needed a mentor. But after the then I realized that

0:34:34.160 --> 0:34:36.320
<v Speaker 1>although we can find out, but yeah, did you accept

0:34:36.400 --> 0:34:38.440
<v Speaker 1>the deal? Like did it go through like that somebody

0:34:38.480 --> 0:34:43.359
<v Speaker 1>owns twenty in your company? No, nothing is finalized, as

0:34:43.360 --> 0:34:45.520
<v Speaker 1>we're still in the process like due diligence, like we're

0:34:45.600 --> 0:34:47.520
<v Speaker 1>checking numbers, like this was all the way at me

0:34:47.600 --> 0:34:51.680
<v Speaker 1>and you know since from dancing now nothing has been finalized.

0:34:52.719 --> 0:34:59.080
<v Speaker 1>Don't do it, said, tell me why I was listening

0:34:59.120 --> 0:35:02.520
<v Speaker 1>to you. I just told you and I told you

0:35:02.560 --> 0:35:07.240
<v Speaker 1>when you message me, you are worth way than forty dollars.

0:35:07.760 --> 0:35:10.919
<v Speaker 1>And then for somebody you have of a company where

0:35:10.920 --> 0:35:12.840
<v Speaker 1>they may not be doing much, what you need is

0:35:13.160 --> 0:35:15.600
<v Speaker 1>you need a mentor. Like you said, there's funny people

0:35:15.640 --> 0:35:19.080
<v Speaker 1>out here that actually mentor you for free, you know,

0:35:20.520 --> 0:35:23.640
<v Speaker 1>as opposed to I did you know going on one

0:35:23.640 --> 0:35:27.440
<v Speaker 1>of these names. So you're only gonna get forty dollars

0:35:27.440 --> 0:35:30.759
<v Speaker 1>and they're gonna have company, but the life of your

0:35:30.760 --> 0:35:35.120
<v Speaker 1>company for how long? Like I said, nothing has been finalized,

0:35:35.160 --> 0:35:37.120
<v Speaker 1>Like we haven't even got into that part yet. They're

0:35:37.160 --> 0:35:40.400
<v Speaker 1>still in like you in the number of stage. So

0:35:41.520 --> 0:35:43.840
<v Speaker 1>dragons don't will tell you, like they're not responsible for

0:35:43.880 --> 0:35:47.200
<v Speaker 1>what you do after the after the you don't care

0:35:47.200 --> 0:35:49.200
<v Speaker 1>what you do after Like that's on you. Right, So

0:35:49.920 --> 0:35:52.600
<v Speaker 1>anything I said, like whatever was I agree on it's

0:35:52.640 --> 0:35:57.279
<v Speaker 1>not necessary. Okay, So you can renegotiated, So you can

0:35:57.360 --> 0:35:59.440
<v Speaker 1>also pull out and want you like you can just

0:35:59.480 --> 0:36:03.480
<v Speaker 1>not with anything, right yeah, okay, yeah, yeah, right now

0:36:03.560 --> 0:36:12.360
<v Speaker 1>I still owned my company in a real way. I

0:36:12.440 --> 0:36:15.040
<v Speaker 1>have already spoken to some people I know, like that

0:36:15.080 --> 0:36:18.279
<v Speaker 1>I that I know have business relationships at banks. I

0:36:18.360 --> 0:36:20.640
<v Speaker 1>told him about you, like I know one of my

0:36:20.760 --> 0:36:23.080
<v Speaker 1>one of my good friends. Yeah, like what you need

0:36:23.160 --> 0:36:25.799
<v Speaker 1>is a business plan. You got. I'm pretty sure you

0:36:25.840 --> 0:36:28.239
<v Speaker 1>have the company incorporated and all that good stuff. I

0:36:28.280 --> 0:36:31.800
<v Speaker 1>don't know like the process in Canada for like business

0:36:31.800 --> 0:36:34.600
<v Speaker 1>credit and stuff like that. But you definitely don't need

0:36:34.640 --> 0:36:37.759
<v Speaker 1>to go to like this one individual for for that

0:36:37.840 --> 0:36:39.759
<v Speaker 1>you can get you just leave alone. You just need

0:36:39.760 --> 0:36:43.520
<v Speaker 1>it alone. So has has your business grown since you

0:36:43.520 --> 0:36:46.480
<v Speaker 1>know you've been on the show? Yeah, but before it

0:36:46.520 --> 0:36:50.440
<v Speaker 1>aired from me too, So now it definitely has, Like

0:36:50.880 --> 0:36:54.120
<v Speaker 1>because I worked on I think it was after it aired.

0:36:54.600 --> 0:36:56.680
<v Speaker 1>Then I worked on a few of them music videos

0:36:56.920 --> 0:37:02.040
<v Speaker 1>and got more clients, like I just um on my

0:37:02.120 --> 0:37:06.000
<v Speaker 1>trying to see it definitely has grown since then. I

0:37:06.040 --> 0:37:08.479
<v Speaker 1>don't really have the specifics and the numbers right now

0:37:08.520 --> 0:37:10.680
<v Speaker 1>because you know, well yeah it high school. I've seen

0:37:10.680 --> 0:37:12.960
<v Speaker 1>a difference and then and even meets are the person

0:37:13.040 --> 0:37:15.640
<v Speaker 1>I've grown as well, like I took. I learned so

0:37:15.800 --> 0:37:18.600
<v Speaker 1>much from them, like skilling in business. I have invested

0:37:18.640 --> 0:37:21.680
<v Speaker 1>in mentorship because you know that's might need like not

0:37:21.840 --> 0:37:25.400
<v Speaker 1>just like and it's important to hire someone because anybody

0:37:25.440 --> 0:37:27.799
<v Speaker 1>can't do anybody can learn how to do. And then

0:37:28.480 --> 0:37:31.520
<v Speaker 1>with designing aspect of them like other parts of the business.

0:37:32.000 --> 0:37:34.879
<v Speaker 1>I can publish myself in those ways, you know, while

0:37:34.920 --> 0:37:38.840
<v Speaker 1>someone is sewing and I'm learning. Yeah, right, oh girl,

0:37:39.360 --> 0:37:42.520
<v Speaker 1>I would ask you asked about two d dollars okay,

0:37:42.520 --> 0:37:45.960
<v Speaker 1>half a million, it was like two yeah, because this

0:37:46.040 --> 0:37:49.759
<v Speaker 1>kind of like because from then to now, like I've

0:37:49.760 --> 0:37:55.600
<v Speaker 1>made forty like from exactly because it's like, right, yeah,

0:37:57.280 --> 0:37:59.120
<v Speaker 1>and I made that in the last couple of months.

0:37:59.120 --> 0:38:03.200
<v Speaker 1>What you're gonna get me? Maybe because they talked about

0:38:03.239 --> 0:38:07.680
<v Speaker 1>my price has been too and they talked to the

0:38:07.719 --> 0:38:13.279
<v Speaker 1>price that right, yesterday's pricing, today's price, right, the prices yeah, yeah, yeah,

0:38:13.360 --> 0:38:17.520
<v Speaker 1>it's gone up for sure. The price has gone up.

0:38:17.880 --> 0:38:22.080
<v Speaker 1>And you know, uh, even when the pricing is so

0:38:22.239 --> 0:38:25.480
<v Speaker 1>tricky too, because it's like I don't know where this

0:38:25.600 --> 0:38:29.000
<v Speaker 1>is coming from. Maybe it's like racism and like coming

0:38:29.000 --> 0:38:31.279
<v Speaker 1>from nature and like seeing how much people pay for it.

0:38:31.719 --> 0:38:33.799
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what it is. Like, I honestly don't

0:38:33.840 --> 0:38:36.600
<v Speaker 1>know why I'm so afraid to increase my price and

0:38:36.600 --> 0:38:38.920
<v Speaker 1>I charge my worst right, It's like, I don't know

0:38:38.960 --> 0:38:42.279
<v Speaker 1>what that is. Don't be scared raise the price, because

0:38:42.280 --> 0:38:44.160
<v Speaker 1>then you're just gonna have people with mind. I think

0:38:44.200 --> 0:38:47.279
<v Speaker 1>it's a black people, I think we are afraid of

0:38:47.560 --> 0:38:50.439
<v Speaker 1>asking for what we know we deserve, even when people

0:38:50.440 --> 0:38:53.359
<v Speaker 1>are working in corporate settings, like black people sit there

0:38:53.400 --> 0:38:56.160
<v Speaker 1>and make the same money for five years. You know

0:38:56.200 --> 0:38:58.600
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying, Even if you do a lateral move,

0:38:58.800 --> 0:39:02.880
<v Speaker 1>you could don't ask for more money. Do you think

0:39:02.960 --> 0:39:06.759
<v Speaker 1>that's a black thing or a female thing? Um, I

0:39:06.840 --> 0:39:09.400
<v Speaker 1>just think it might be a black it's a female

0:39:09.440 --> 0:39:13.400
<v Speaker 1>thing when it comes to asking for money, Like, I

0:39:13.400 --> 0:39:20.880
<v Speaker 1>don't even know how I'm the only I'm the only dad. Like,

0:39:20.920 --> 0:39:22.520
<v Speaker 1>I can't ask my dad. I want me to get

0:39:22.600 --> 0:39:25.040
<v Speaker 1>to annoying. She's like, you want the money, go ask him,

0:39:25.040 --> 0:39:26.920
<v Speaker 1>and I know you go ask him. She's like, I'm

0:39:26.920 --> 0:39:29.480
<v Speaker 1>gonna ask this one more time. Next time you have

0:39:29.600 --> 0:39:31.200
<v Speaker 1>to ask him. Like I guess I have to do

0:39:31.320 --> 0:39:33.960
<v Speaker 1>your daddy. I don't ask my dad for money, No,

0:39:34.160 --> 0:39:38.400
<v Speaker 1>because I cannot open my mouth for children. I'm the

0:39:38.440 --> 0:39:43.200
<v Speaker 1>only girl. I don't. So here's them. That's more reason

0:39:43.280 --> 0:39:45.400
<v Speaker 1>for you to be able to ask your dad daddy

0:39:47.640 --> 0:39:49.879
<v Speaker 1>some money to all these people. And I'm just there

0:39:49.920 --> 0:39:58.359
<v Speaker 1>like money, So imagine how that translates into business and relationships.

0:39:58.360 --> 0:40:00.799
<v Speaker 1>If you can't even ask the person closest to you,

0:40:00.960 --> 0:40:04.480
<v Speaker 1>but what you need? So how are you going to

0:40:04.480 --> 0:40:07.279
<v Speaker 1>get around this? Okay? Because you could have got that

0:40:08.000 --> 0:40:14.320
<v Speaker 1>problems Canadian boy. Yeah, what the Canadian nigga is hitting forward?

0:40:14.320 --> 0:40:18.359
<v Speaker 1>You Canadian guys like let me bost who like, I'm

0:40:18.400 --> 0:40:25.960
<v Speaker 1>just annoyed. It's like Canadian, I'm okay, I'm going to

0:40:26.000 --> 0:40:29.600
<v Speaker 1>sleep from my experience like most people. Most guys in Canada,

0:40:31.200 --> 0:40:34.359
<v Speaker 1>like they're not on the oh, I'll give you this,

0:40:34.520 --> 0:40:39.319
<v Speaker 1>do it like they're always like America. Yeah when let

0:40:39.360 --> 0:40:45.880
<v Speaker 1>it down a minut American tarnished everybody. No obio fest

0:40:45.920 --> 0:40:51.399
<v Speaker 1>for me baby, like that why your men will take

0:40:51.480 --> 0:40:55.399
<v Speaker 1>you on your friends? They don't. I was about to say,

0:40:55.400 --> 0:40:58.560
<v Speaker 1>wait what no, no, no, Like even Durant guys they

0:40:58.600 --> 0:41:01.000
<v Speaker 1>see you like bring your friend is his normal and

0:41:01.040 --> 0:41:06.520
<v Speaker 1>he's paying for everybody, Like that's normal that you you're

0:41:06.280 --> 0:41:12.480
<v Speaker 1>You're everything is swirt. Yeah that's so they don't have

0:41:12.480 --> 0:41:16.239
<v Speaker 1>any Nigerians. Is that what we're saying, ain't on Nigerians

0:41:16.239 --> 0:41:22.319
<v Speaker 1>a Canada. I don't know where they. Yeah, my friend

0:41:22.400 --> 0:41:25.040
<v Speaker 1>right now, she's like she left Kinada, she's in she's

0:41:25.080 --> 0:41:27.680
<v Speaker 1>in South Africa because she's like the guy she wanted

0:41:27.760 --> 0:41:30.640
<v Speaker 1>to marry is in South because he doesn't mind like

0:41:30.680 --> 0:41:33.080
<v Speaker 1>paying for her stuff, right, and she found like canydian

0:41:33.200 --> 0:41:36.680
<v Speaker 1>guys who wants to fifty everything. She didn't come from

0:41:36.760 --> 0:41:38.400
<v Speaker 1>me for coming for them. But you know I had

0:41:38.440 --> 0:41:44.320
<v Speaker 1>to be even dates I've I've been on dates where

0:41:44.440 --> 0:41:49.040
<v Speaker 1>you know you went, yeah, well I will just not

0:41:49.120 --> 0:41:51.319
<v Speaker 1>city person again, like I don't mind paying, but like

0:41:51.360 --> 0:41:55.200
<v Speaker 1>that's the last thing, right, So how did that go?

0:41:55.320 --> 0:41:56.879
<v Speaker 1>At the end of the night, Nika was just looking

0:41:56.920 --> 0:42:00.160
<v Speaker 1>in the sky when the checken's weird, like like I

0:42:00.239 --> 0:42:05.840
<v Speaker 1>had the chicken for anything. Oh no, I act like

0:42:05.840 --> 0:42:10.520
<v Speaker 1>I and leave someone I didn't have to go pee

0:42:10.560 --> 0:42:15.920
<v Speaker 1>and then they covered like since then I mean to

0:42:16.239 --> 0:42:23.160
<v Speaker 1>on you like I'm like in this moment, that's when

0:42:23.160 --> 0:42:25.960
<v Speaker 1>he wants to pee. Okay, yeah, he wanted to see

0:42:26.239 --> 0:42:29.480
<v Speaker 1>I I haven't seen to thing cause I'm like and

0:42:29.560 --> 0:42:37.200
<v Speaker 1>he's like, oh you can nah. If he came back

0:42:37.200 --> 0:42:39.920
<v Speaker 1>to keep your curse on your lap under the table,

0:42:40.000 --> 0:42:41.920
<v Speaker 1>like don't reaching your ships, see what they're gonna do.

0:42:42.320 --> 0:42:44.680
<v Speaker 1>And then if he really liked on that type of time,

0:42:45.080 --> 0:42:46.920
<v Speaker 1>then you split and not talked to this as someone.

0:42:46.960 --> 0:42:49.759
<v Speaker 1>But I'll be damn like coup of the whole bill

0:42:50.719 --> 0:42:53.279
<v Speaker 1>went to the bathroom, especially if you're just like if

0:42:53.440 --> 0:42:56.799
<v Speaker 1>if it's someone I'm dating already, I don't mind paying

0:42:56.840 --> 0:42:59.279
<v Speaker 1>every now and then, But if we're just going on

0:42:59.320 --> 0:43:02.319
<v Speaker 1>our first couple day first, you need to be courting me, sir,

0:43:02.640 --> 0:43:06.680
<v Speaker 1>or you should be dating, okay, right, you shouldn't be

0:43:06.760 --> 0:43:10.239
<v Speaker 1>dating like men be complaining about how much money they

0:43:10.239 --> 0:43:12.480
<v Speaker 1>spend on dates, like they dating budget. But why don't

0:43:12.520 --> 0:43:15.279
<v Speaker 1>you just find like somebody you're interested in and that

0:43:15.360 --> 0:43:18.440
<v Speaker 1>they're interested in you, and you know, because they want

0:43:18.440 --> 0:43:19.759
<v Speaker 1>to pay for the date to get pussy at the

0:43:19.800 --> 0:43:21.400
<v Speaker 1>end of the night, So we gotta pay for the

0:43:21.480 --> 0:43:23.680
<v Speaker 1>date and pussy a lot of times we don't have to,

0:43:23.880 --> 0:43:27.600
<v Speaker 1>but that's what they expect, right, But why not just

0:43:27.760 --> 0:43:31.319
<v Speaker 1>date with purpose? And you went mind spending money on

0:43:31.400 --> 0:43:39.160
<v Speaker 1>the person? Like what the fuck? Let's terry you? So

0:43:39.160 --> 0:43:48.000
<v Speaker 1>so we're not taking the deal? Right? Let her negotia.

0:43:48.160 --> 0:43:51.120
<v Speaker 1>Do you have an attorney? I have an attorney that

0:43:51.200 --> 0:43:52.839
<v Speaker 1>is ready to step in when it's time for her

0:43:52.920 --> 0:43:55.839
<v Speaker 1>to step in, but like right now, I don't need

0:43:55.920 --> 0:43:58.719
<v Speaker 1>her yet. But I did mention that I do want

0:43:58.760 --> 0:44:02.279
<v Speaker 1>to renegot ship because like Yeah, like I said, I

0:44:02.360 --> 0:44:05.680
<v Speaker 1>just invested in like mentorship on coaching, and it was

0:44:05.719 --> 0:44:08.319
<v Speaker 1>a lot of money for I needed It's worth it

0:44:08.400 --> 0:44:11.799
<v Speaker 1>because I talked to value myself on price mife. So

0:44:11.880 --> 0:44:14.440
<v Speaker 1>on top of being like a business professional, I also

0:44:14.520 --> 0:44:22.320
<v Speaker 1>like to think I'm on an emma an attorney as well.

0:44:23.280 --> 0:44:27.439
<v Speaker 1>Documents over and I reviewing for you. Okay, I feel

0:44:27.480 --> 0:44:31.399
<v Speaker 1>like everything in life is negotiable. And those people know

0:44:31.600 --> 0:44:34.200
<v Speaker 1>your work. They were just testing to see if you did.

0:44:35.640 --> 0:44:38.200
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying, Like you know, damn well,

0:44:38.239 --> 0:44:42.279
<v Speaker 1>he's not gonna get of your company that you are, Like,

0:44:42.440 --> 0:44:45.840
<v Speaker 1>this is your ship. This is not like a I

0:44:45.880 --> 0:44:48.440
<v Speaker 1>don't know, like a factory job or something like. I

0:44:48.480 --> 0:44:52.400
<v Speaker 1>don't like. This is not like a what are the

0:44:52.440 --> 0:44:55.000
<v Speaker 1>companies that what would need somebody? You would need someone

0:44:55.080 --> 0:44:58.080
<v Speaker 1>to invest in, not something like this, I don't think,

0:44:58.120 --> 0:45:02.239
<v Speaker 1>not at this stage of your business where you are

0:45:02.280 --> 0:45:06.160
<v Speaker 1>bringing old investors. It's not big enough. Yeah, you know

0:45:06.200 --> 0:45:08.080
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying. And I feel like even though it's

0:45:08.120 --> 0:45:10.680
<v Speaker 1>not that big, you can still ask for at least

0:45:10.719 --> 0:45:13.759
<v Speaker 1>a hundred and fifty thousand dollars and like, how long

0:45:13.880 --> 0:45:16.160
<v Speaker 1>am I supposed to give you twenty five of my

0:45:16.239 --> 0:45:21.360
<v Speaker 1>business that you're asking doing nothing but talking to me

0:45:21.480 --> 0:45:26.839
<v Speaker 1>and like I don't know, giving business advice a lot

0:45:26.960 --> 0:45:32.120
<v Speaker 1>of money. And then dandell Um he was the only

0:45:32.120 --> 0:45:35.400
<v Speaker 1>one that I really understood the business model because like

0:45:36.160 --> 0:45:40.759
<v Speaker 1>in Nigeria, it's normal that people have things cost on

0:45:40.920 --> 0:45:43.120
<v Speaker 1>me for them for event. Look at Porschres wedding. How

0:45:43.120 --> 0:45:46.680
<v Speaker 1>many dresses she really like? So many? Like that's how

0:45:46.680 --> 0:45:49.359
<v Speaker 1>it is, like every Saturday that's a wedding and you're

0:45:49.400 --> 0:45:52.160
<v Speaker 1>going to your designer to make something new for you,

0:45:52.239 --> 0:45:54.680
<v Speaker 1>like and I'm just saying, how come can you how

0:45:54.719 --> 0:45:56.440
<v Speaker 1>come it's not a thing here? Like it should be

0:45:56.480 --> 0:46:00.399
<v Speaker 1>a thing people think like um fast flash and first

0:46:00.440 --> 0:46:02.920
<v Speaker 1>before thinking of having something custom made, like it's the

0:46:02.960 --> 0:46:05.399
<v Speaker 1>opposite world from like it's like and then I'm trying

0:46:05.400 --> 0:46:08.480
<v Speaker 1>to import that to this part of the world. But

0:46:08.680 --> 0:46:10.160
<v Speaker 1>most of the people in the room did not see.

0:46:10.239 --> 0:46:12.319
<v Speaker 1>But I see it, and I know that people like

0:46:12.360 --> 0:46:15.200
<v Speaker 1>my clients I dress worked with, she's like, she has

0:46:15.239 --> 0:46:18.560
<v Speaker 1>a very tiny waist and she's very curvy, so she

0:46:18.800 --> 0:46:21.560
<v Speaker 1>went to stores and wasn't finding things that feed her perfectly.

0:46:21.640 --> 0:46:24.160
<v Speaker 1>And like the way I courstted and snatched her dress.

0:46:24.239 --> 0:46:26.719
<v Speaker 1>She was so happy and she's like, yeah, she's going

0:46:26.760 --> 0:46:30.280
<v Speaker 1>to come to me for future dresses to feed her body.

0:46:30.280 --> 0:46:32.319
<v Speaker 1>Because like even when I went to fashion school, I

0:46:32.360 --> 0:46:36.040
<v Speaker 1>wasn't thought how to make designs for plus sides, not

0:46:36.120 --> 0:46:39.640
<v Speaker 1>even plus size. But like black men, we have more current, right,

0:46:40.080 --> 0:46:43.279
<v Speaker 1>it's just like European like side six sides to That's

0:46:43.280 --> 0:46:45.800
<v Speaker 1>why I was still had to like go outside school

0:46:45.800 --> 0:46:49.640
<v Speaker 1>to learn how to make for women. After my clients,

0:46:49.719 --> 0:46:53.480
<v Speaker 1>yeah yeah, like take all of that in like snatch

0:46:53.520 --> 0:46:58.360
<v Speaker 1>everything and walk down the arm Marrio King the nice dress.

0:46:58.560 --> 0:47:03.160
<v Speaker 1>You know. I was saying, um, there's a wedding every Saturday.

0:47:03.200 --> 0:47:04.880
<v Speaker 1>And when she said that, I was like, Lord, what

0:47:05.040 --> 0:47:12.920
<v Speaker 1>you have done for hey? Maybe right now? Every every

0:47:15.000 --> 0:47:21.799
<v Speaker 1>right now right now? Yeah? You know married. I was

0:47:21.840 --> 0:47:25.000
<v Speaker 1>talking to one of my friends yesterday. He is from

0:47:25.320 --> 0:47:28.759
<v Speaker 1>uh the Congo, but he wants to buy a new car.

0:47:29.000 --> 0:47:31.400
<v Speaker 1>You know that, this Chris calvs Tam who was on

0:47:31.440 --> 0:47:33.640
<v Speaker 1>the show. He wants to buy a new car, right,

0:47:33.680 --> 0:47:35.680
<v Speaker 1>so he said, him and his dad got into argument

0:47:35.800 --> 0:47:39.600
<v Speaker 1>because his dad is like a traditional African dad, right,

0:47:40.200 --> 0:47:42.000
<v Speaker 1>why are you buying new ship when you don't have

0:47:42.040 --> 0:47:45.480
<v Speaker 1>a wife yet? Is his dad's argument like why are

0:47:45.480 --> 0:47:47.680
<v Speaker 1>you not planning, like doing that type of life planning,

0:47:47.719 --> 0:47:53.200
<v Speaker 1>You're just buying more liabilities. Essentially, It's just true. That's

0:47:53.239 --> 0:47:56.239
<v Speaker 1>a good man, that's a good dad. You know what

0:47:56.280 --> 0:47:59.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. Like these guys, like in Canada and America,

0:47:59.360 --> 0:48:01.759
<v Speaker 1>they need more men to push them and you know,

0:48:01.800 --> 0:48:05.080
<v Speaker 1>to show them the benefits of having a wife. Because

0:48:05.360 --> 0:48:08.480
<v Speaker 1>you get a wife, you sing around and get ten cars,

0:48:08.560 --> 0:48:12.120
<v Speaker 1>whatever cars you want. Women multiply ship the right woman,

0:48:13.840 --> 0:48:16.200
<v Speaker 1>and you also live longer. Men who have women in

0:48:16.200 --> 0:48:20.560
<v Speaker 1>their lives live longer now. Women who have met done

0:48:20.560 --> 0:48:25.800
<v Speaker 1>their lives actually die earlier. Yeah, why are you asking,

0:48:25.880 --> 0:48:28.279
<v Speaker 1>like what's the benefits? Nigga? I'm gonna make sure you

0:48:28.400 --> 0:48:30.480
<v Speaker 1>get the health care you need. How about that? That's

0:48:30.520 --> 0:48:33.359
<v Speaker 1>a big benefit. Right, you're gonna tax You're gonna take

0:48:33.440 --> 0:48:40.040
<v Speaker 1>some of my lifeline. Kind of like they don't like

0:48:40.080 --> 0:48:41.880
<v Speaker 1>being to it what to do? That's why I like

0:48:42.000 --> 0:48:43.960
<v Speaker 1>to just you know, they feel like women are heads.

0:48:44.000 --> 0:48:46.680
<v Speaker 1>Like fully stand and tell them what if you actually listen.

0:48:46.719 --> 0:48:51.359
<v Speaker 1>There's some germs in the message. Always eat the meat,

0:48:51.400 --> 0:48:53.480
<v Speaker 1>spit out the bones. Yeah, they've been worrying about the

0:48:53.480 --> 0:48:56.759
<v Speaker 1>wrong ship. Get you a goddamn white and get your

0:48:56.800 --> 0:49:02.840
<v Speaker 1>life together? So what no, go ahead? What did tell you?

0:49:02.920 --> 0:49:04.680
<v Speaker 1>Oh no? She was like, oh my god, yeah, I'll

0:49:04.719 --> 0:49:07.000
<v Speaker 1>here making all these wedding dresses that your single. How

0:49:07.000 --> 0:49:12.560
<v Speaker 1>does that feel? I'm like, I would have accidentally stamped

0:49:12.600 --> 0:49:16.880
<v Speaker 1>over the stitch. I'm sorry. Still, I know. It's just

0:49:16.920 --> 0:49:20.520
<v Speaker 1>like I actually like making your dress, Like I'm even

0:49:20.520 --> 0:49:23.799
<v Speaker 1>thinking about that, right, Like, yeah, bitch, why are you

0:49:23.840 --> 0:49:26.360
<v Speaker 1>thinking about that? Right? When do you want me to

0:49:26.400 --> 0:49:32.560
<v Speaker 1>make for your divorce dress? Right? I mean you should

0:49:32.560 --> 0:49:35.560
<v Speaker 1>start that. You should start a line of divorce dresses

0:49:36.800 --> 0:49:42.399
<v Speaker 1>doing as women getting divorced just as much as they

0:49:42.400 --> 0:49:52.560
<v Speaker 1>are getting married. Yea black, yellow, should like yeah, I

0:49:52.680 --> 0:49:56.799
<v Speaker 1>think like you should yellow, bright, nice, happy like like

0:49:56.960 --> 0:50:02.080
<v Speaker 1>me sad. It's the end. It's the end of something.

0:50:02.440 --> 0:50:06.920
<v Speaker 1>It's the death the beginning, let's be clear. So I

0:50:07.040 --> 0:50:09.560
<v Speaker 1>want to you can do you can make it like

0:50:09.640 --> 0:50:12.640
<v Speaker 1>the motherfucking dresses off of what's that movie where the

0:50:12.680 --> 0:50:15.600
<v Speaker 1>girl was on fire? You know what I'm talking about?

0:50:16.880 --> 0:50:19.759
<v Speaker 1>What's the white girl? And they was like zone four,

0:50:20.920 --> 0:50:23.360
<v Speaker 1>zone three, zone four? What was that movie? Hunger Games?

0:50:24.000 --> 0:50:29.600
<v Speaker 1>Her dress, her dress was black and then it turned red. Baby,

0:50:29.880 --> 0:50:31.399
<v Speaker 1>I won't one of them and I ain't never been

0:50:31.440 --> 0:50:34.799
<v Speaker 1>married or divorce. Oh bitch, I was about to go

0:50:34.800 --> 0:50:38.919
<v Speaker 1>back to Drake. Let's go to drink. So what was what?

0:50:38.920 --> 0:50:44.960
<v Speaker 1>What was he like? Um, honestly on set, like Drake

0:50:45.000 --> 0:50:47.960
<v Speaker 1>will just calm and then admired to work and I'm

0:50:48.000 --> 0:50:52.000
<v Speaker 1>just working, busy and we don't already see anything. No,

0:50:52.120 --> 0:50:54.360
<v Speaker 1>he's just doing his thing, like because everybody did is

0:50:54.400 --> 0:50:57.960
<v Speaker 1>like we've worked on well maybe they've worked on multiple

0:50:58.000 --> 0:51:00.359
<v Speaker 1>dricks where like that was like my second one the point,

0:51:00.360 --> 0:51:02.439
<v Speaker 1>but like you're just working and you're not gonna paying

0:51:02.480 --> 0:51:05.520
<v Speaker 1>attention to the like you're not paying attention to him.

0:51:05.560 --> 0:51:08.800
<v Speaker 1>But like you're expected to be professional in those settings,

0:51:08.880 --> 0:51:12.279
<v Speaker 1>right you like finding out right there exactly? I just

0:51:12.280 --> 0:51:14.400
<v Speaker 1>could not because I had something to do and there

0:51:14.440 --> 0:51:17.960
<v Speaker 1>was a deadline. So the person that got me stop

0:51:18.280 --> 0:51:21.120
<v Speaker 1>was working with Kendrick with mar Like being in the

0:51:21.239 --> 0:51:24.520
<v Speaker 1>room with Kendrick, like his presence was so calming, like

0:51:24.640 --> 0:51:27.040
<v Speaker 1>it was so beautiful. Just to be the same I

0:51:27.040 --> 0:51:29.839
<v Speaker 1>would have been in there Like that is so unprofessional.

0:51:29.880 --> 0:51:35.400
<v Speaker 1>Why it's tam bam sucking Drakes dick over there? Stupid stupid,

0:51:35.440 --> 0:51:37.799
<v Speaker 1>you know the bodies that the bodies that were in

0:51:37.880 --> 0:51:41.120
<v Speaker 1>that music video. I'm just saying, where did you guys

0:51:41.160 --> 0:51:45.080
<v Speaker 1>come from? This? Beautiful girls everywhere? I a should have

0:51:45.080 --> 0:51:51.600
<v Speaker 1>been in that marriage video. Yeah, man, let's actually go

0:51:51.680 --> 0:51:53.479
<v Speaker 1>to commercial and then when we come back, we're gonna

0:51:53.520 --> 0:51:57.799
<v Speaker 1>get into Zoba's dumb bitch story. We'll be right back

0:51:59.120 --> 0:52:03.799
<v Speaker 1>stumbish story because we've all been a dumb bit. At

0:52:03.840 --> 0:52:10.200
<v Speaker 1>least it was twice my dumb story. It was when

0:52:10.239 --> 0:52:14.440
<v Speaker 1>I was in university and my I think my fourth yeaters.

0:52:14.440 --> 0:52:16.160
<v Speaker 1>This guy was talking to and I really liked him

0:52:16.200 --> 0:52:19.359
<v Speaker 1>for whatever reason, and yeah, like I was like, oh,

0:52:19.400 --> 0:52:22.479
<v Speaker 1>do you want to go out sometime? And he said yes,

0:52:22.640 --> 0:52:25.920
<v Speaker 1>he said yes, that's like I asked. Anyways, So we

0:52:25.960 --> 0:52:28.279
<v Speaker 1>went to this restaurant we ate. This was I was

0:52:28.320 --> 0:52:32.719
<v Speaker 1>like eight seen and the bill came and the bill

0:52:32.840 --> 0:52:35.400
<v Speaker 1>was I think it was like a hundred and almost

0:52:35.400 --> 0:52:37.799
<v Speaker 1>two hundred dollars and I had seven hundred and fifty

0:52:37.880 --> 0:52:41.719
<v Speaker 1>dollars and my savings accounts. And then I paid the

0:52:41.800 --> 0:52:44.640
<v Speaker 1>bill because he was like, you invited me out, so

0:52:44.719 --> 0:52:46.600
<v Speaker 1>you should pay for you. And this guy was like

0:52:46.680 --> 0:52:49.640
<v Speaker 1>at least seven years older than me, and I was confused.

0:52:49.680 --> 0:52:52.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, why am I paying taking care of you?

0:52:52.320 --> 0:52:54.160
<v Speaker 1>And he was like, yeah, you invited me. That's how

0:52:54.160 --> 0:52:56.200
<v Speaker 1>it worked. Me invite someone out one date, then you

0:52:56.239 --> 0:52:59.440
<v Speaker 1>paid the bill and I'm like, yeah, my clown makeup

0:52:59.600 --> 0:53:02.720
<v Speaker 1>and myself and my service account. I transferred the money.

0:53:02.760 --> 0:53:05.919
<v Speaker 1>I paid for the things, and I'm like I went home. Yeah,

0:53:05.960 --> 0:53:11.920
<v Speaker 1>that's my domber story. Yeah, that's when I would be like, okay,

0:53:12.000 --> 0:53:13.760
<v Speaker 1>I paid for a home. Let me go use the bathroom,

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<v Speaker 1>real quick about it. I saw him aga after that.

0:53:19.560 --> 0:53:22.640
<v Speaker 1>I saw him aging after that. I mean, he is right,

0:53:22.680 --> 0:53:25.880
<v Speaker 1>if you invite somebody on a date, you are entitled

0:53:25.920 --> 0:53:30.040
<v Speaker 1>to pay. But when I asked go ahead, I mean

0:53:30.400 --> 0:53:33.080
<v Speaker 1>you are technically when you ask somebody. But I when

0:53:33.120 --> 0:53:35.160
<v Speaker 1>I I say would you like to take me to

0:53:35.239 --> 0:53:37.759
<v Speaker 1>this place? I don't ask them do you want to?

0:53:37.800 --> 0:53:39.600
<v Speaker 1>Do you want to go to the movies? I'd be like,

0:53:39.840 --> 0:53:42.880
<v Speaker 1>do you want to take me to the movies on Thursday? Yeah?

0:53:43.719 --> 0:53:47.439
<v Speaker 1>So you know who's paying words back? Do you want

0:53:47.440 --> 0:53:55.400
<v Speaker 1>to take me? Right? That's almost this is just stressed.

0:53:55.520 --> 0:53:57.480
<v Speaker 1>That's why I just focused on my work because it's

0:53:57.520 --> 0:54:05.560
<v Speaker 1>like I'm seeing results, like no result, it ain't no result. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So listen. We do have a simple story from one

0:54:08.800 --> 0:54:11.640
<v Speaker 1>of our listeners, Slash. I guess I don't know. He

0:54:11.680 --> 0:54:14.480
<v Speaker 1>calls herself a dumb bitch too, so let's see. Um

0:54:14.600 --> 0:54:17.520
<v Speaker 1>he says, hey, Tam, bam and a j help. I

0:54:17.600 --> 0:54:23.120
<v Speaker 1>need some simple dumb nig advice. My girl is pregnant,

0:54:23.360 --> 0:54:25.799
<v Speaker 1>and it would be all good except for the fact

0:54:25.840 --> 0:54:30.280
<v Speaker 1>that I haven't told my actual girlfriend my girl is pregnant.

0:54:30.280 --> 0:54:34.000
<v Speaker 1>But I have not told my actual girlfriend. Um, I

0:54:34.040 --> 0:54:36.760
<v Speaker 1>already I already know y'all are gonna say, a ship

0:54:37.080 --> 0:54:43.360
<v Speaker 1>is this Diddy? It might be like it's anonymous, it

0:54:43.480 --> 0:54:46.839
<v Speaker 1>might be Diddy? Ya know. Um, I already know y'all

0:54:46.840 --> 0:54:49.120
<v Speaker 1>are gonna say. I ain't shit. Already know that. But

0:54:49.200 --> 0:54:52.640
<v Speaker 1>I love them. Shorty, Shorty, that's pregnant. I met her

0:54:52.680 --> 0:54:54.759
<v Speaker 1>on I G earlier this year, and I took her

0:54:54.800 --> 0:54:57.759
<v Speaker 1>on vacation on my guy's trip. And he puts that

0:54:57.800 --> 0:55:02.000
<v Speaker 1>in quotes, Oh my guys trip to Mexico back in August,

0:55:02.160 --> 0:55:06.600
<v Speaker 1>and now she's pregnant. Um. I've been with my girlfriend

0:55:06.640 --> 0:55:08.960
<v Speaker 1>for about three years, we actually lived together, and she's

0:55:09.000 --> 0:55:12.279
<v Speaker 1>never gotten pregnant. I want my child, so abortion was

0:55:12.320 --> 0:55:16.200
<v Speaker 1>never an option. My other girl always knew about my

0:55:16.280 --> 0:55:19.960
<v Speaker 1>existing relationship, and of course it was all cool until

0:55:19.960 --> 0:55:22.719
<v Speaker 1>she got pregnant. Now she's pressuring me to move to

0:55:22.840 --> 0:55:25.320
<v Speaker 1>d C with her or she's moving to North Carolina.

0:55:26.160 --> 0:55:30.000
<v Speaker 1>I want them boats, I get money and can slash.

0:55:30.080 --> 0:55:32.640
<v Speaker 1>Have been taking care of everyone, But I know my

0:55:32.760 --> 0:55:36.239
<v Speaker 1>girl isn't having that ship when she finds out. How

0:55:36.280 --> 0:55:38.600
<v Speaker 1>the hell am I supposed to tell her all of

0:55:38.640 --> 0:55:45.520
<v Speaker 1>this and have her state is what he needs? Not helpful, nigga,

0:55:45.600 --> 0:55:47.600
<v Speaker 1>she's not gonna stay. You got a baby on the way,

0:55:47.640 --> 0:55:50.120
<v Speaker 1>you might as well take that and either let that

0:55:50.239 --> 0:55:52.160
<v Speaker 1>girl move to d C and stay with your girlfriend.

0:55:52.440 --> 0:55:54.080
<v Speaker 1>But I mean, once you find out you got a baby,

0:55:54.080 --> 0:55:56.600
<v Speaker 1>she's probably gonna leave you alone. And she don't have

0:55:56.640 --> 0:56:00.160
<v Speaker 1>a kid. That's hurtful unless you how much money do

0:56:00.200 --> 0:56:02.799
<v Speaker 1>you have, sir, because that that really is gonna make

0:56:02.800 --> 0:56:08.000
<v Speaker 1>the difference. If you can buy her a really big

0:56:08.040 --> 0:56:13.480
<v Speaker 1>house in a new car, maybe she'll stay. But what

0:56:13.520 --> 0:56:18.359
<v Speaker 1>are you gonna do with the girl that's pregnant. I mean,

0:56:18.440 --> 0:56:20.640
<v Speaker 1>she's oh, she wants him to come be with him,

0:56:20.719 --> 0:56:23.680
<v Speaker 1>she wants what are you saying is she wants him

0:56:23.760 --> 0:56:27.120
<v Speaker 1>to move to where she is to DC. She's gonna

0:56:27.120 --> 0:56:31.560
<v Speaker 1>be moving to where he's at. So it's like, oh,

0:56:31.600 --> 0:56:36.239
<v Speaker 1>he lives he's in North Carolina, she lives in DC. Boy,

0:56:36.280 --> 0:56:43.600
<v Speaker 1>you're about to be funked up by here. Please tell

0:56:43.680 --> 0:56:45.680
<v Speaker 1>us what because you're about to have a whole ship

0:56:45.760 --> 0:56:49.240
<v Speaker 1>storm in is. Men don't realize they can have everything

0:56:49.280 --> 0:56:51.600
<v Speaker 1>they wanted to. Just be honest, Why don't even tell you?

0:56:51.680 --> 0:56:55.880
<v Speaker 1>Like you should have just maybe told your girlfriend before

0:56:55.920 --> 0:56:58.080
<v Speaker 1>you got a whole another girl friend, like this is

0:56:58.120 --> 0:57:01.240
<v Speaker 1>some ship you had going on, so she could leave beforehand.

0:57:02.239 --> 0:57:04.960
<v Speaker 1>Now now you gotta add some extra shift onto this

0:57:05.040 --> 0:57:07.839
<v Speaker 1>and you expect her to stay. Would you stay if

0:57:07.880 --> 0:57:10.000
<v Speaker 1>she had a baby for somebody else and she was

0:57:10.080 --> 0:57:12.240
<v Speaker 1>right in your house right now, I'm pregnant for another nigga,

0:57:13.440 --> 0:57:18.040
<v Speaker 1>imagine that. Why are we as women expected to give

0:57:18.160 --> 0:57:21.240
<v Speaker 1>way more grace than these niggas will ever allow for

0:57:22.240 --> 0:57:26.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm confused, So I don't know my my advice to

0:57:26.400 --> 0:57:27.920
<v Speaker 1>him and just count on me a bit leaving. I

0:57:27.960 --> 0:57:32.040
<v Speaker 1>don't think she's staying, but tell her, tell her like soon,

0:57:32.280 --> 0:57:35.080
<v Speaker 1>So August to December, this person gotta be like four

0:57:35.080 --> 0:57:40.080
<v Speaker 1>months pregnant. Sod, you lie about your trip, You didn't

0:57:40.080 --> 0:57:42.720
<v Speaker 1>go with no guys. You went with whoever you went

0:57:42.760 --> 0:57:47.080
<v Speaker 1>with her ain't got her pregnant? A random bit you

0:57:47.080 --> 0:57:54.880
<v Speaker 1>off the internet. M did he it's gold Tell Kaisha,

0:57:56.160 --> 0:57:58.360
<v Speaker 1>Kaisha no. Now at this point, by the time we

0:57:58.440 --> 0:58:01.560
<v Speaker 1>recorded this, Karesha knows, So just tell us what happened

0:58:01.560 --> 0:58:03.520
<v Speaker 1>this place for the pictures, like you always been doing it?

0:58:03.720 --> 0:58:08.120
<v Speaker 1>He so, But you'll have no advice car for a listener.

0:58:09.480 --> 0:58:11.560
<v Speaker 1>I just kind of guess it was the fact that

0:58:11.880 --> 0:58:14.560
<v Speaker 1>there's a whole girlfriend and you're having raw sex and

0:58:14.640 --> 0:58:16.600
<v Speaker 1>then you come back and have sex and your girlfriend

0:58:16.640 --> 0:58:21.000
<v Speaker 1>Like I mean, I don't have any advice for him.

0:58:21.080 --> 0:58:22.680
<v Speaker 1>He doesn't want to my two wives. I don't think

0:58:22.720 --> 0:58:26.000
<v Speaker 1>the other girl is gonna stay unless she is into

0:58:26.080 --> 0:58:30.200
<v Speaker 1>like polygamy. I don't have any advice for him. He

0:58:30.240 --> 0:58:32.000
<v Speaker 1>knows what he wants to do. He knows if he

0:58:32.040 --> 0:58:35.000
<v Speaker 1>wants her to be with him, the pregnant girl. He

0:58:35.040 --> 0:58:36.520
<v Speaker 1>knows if he wants her to come stay with him.

0:58:36.560 --> 0:58:38.800
<v Speaker 1>He knows that. So is he willing to lose the

0:58:38.840 --> 0:58:40.919
<v Speaker 1>other girl? Because why did he have the other girl?

0:58:42.120 --> 0:58:45.720
<v Speaker 1>He said he wants them both. He can't have them boted,

0:58:45.800 --> 0:58:47.760
<v Speaker 1>where are you like? Can you have them both have

0:58:47.800 --> 0:58:50.720
<v Speaker 1>a conversation. I mean he's rich enough, he might be

0:58:50.760 --> 0:58:53.560
<v Speaker 1>able to she might consider if he got enough money.

0:58:53.720 --> 0:58:57.240
<v Speaker 1>So like that's the main question for real, right, how rich?

0:58:57.560 --> 0:58:59.080
<v Speaker 1>He said, he can take care of both of him,

0:58:59.120 --> 0:59:02.280
<v Speaker 1>But how well can you take care of Yeah, maybe

0:59:02.640 --> 0:59:06.320
<v Speaker 1>maybe his main girlfriend is fine actually with him having

0:59:06.360 --> 0:59:08.440
<v Speaker 1>another print now. I think if she was fine with it,

0:59:08.480 --> 0:59:11.160
<v Speaker 1>that he wouldn't have to hight that r he said.

0:59:11.240 --> 0:59:13.280
<v Speaker 1>He said she ain't going for it. He said he

0:59:13.280 --> 0:59:16.800
<v Speaker 1>already knew she ain't going for it, right, and he

0:59:16.880 --> 0:59:22.080
<v Speaker 1>won our advice. Nigga, we're just gonna dog, I don't know,

0:59:23.200 --> 0:59:25.080
<v Speaker 1>and if we fired up all were gonna try to

0:59:25.080 --> 0:59:31.440
<v Speaker 1>get you a bit your hair. Both both of them

0:59:31.880 --> 0:59:34.000
<v Speaker 1>you know that, you know, the pregnant one on the side,

0:59:34.040 --> 0:59:37.080
<v Speaker 1>like she probably the down as did she ain't coming,

0:59:37.520 --> 0:59:40.600
<v Speaker 1>She's gonna try to as good as possible. Should just

0:59:40.640 --> 0:59:42.760
<v Speaker 1>be with her then he can be with her then.

0:59:43.400 --> 0:59:47.720
<v Speaker 1>But he wants the same thing exactly, do the same

0:59:47.760 --> 0:59:53.760
<v Speaker 1>thing to her child. Yeah, this future, This is why

0:59:53.840 --> 0:59:58.480
<v Speaker 1>I promote condoms. Like just think you use condoms, guys

1:00:00.000 --> 1:00:04.000
<v Speaker 1>age everything, call them sex your mind, Like wants you

1:00:04.120 --> 1:00:06.760
<v Speaker 1>just use condoms like you don't have to worry about

1:00:06.760 --> 1:00:12.600
<v Speaker 1>all of this, Like you're like, yeah, by next that's true,

1:00:12.720 --> 1:00:18.200
<v Speaker 1>But it feels the same to me, I mean not

1:00:18.360 --> 1:00:21.080
<v Speaker 1>exactly the same, but good enough, you know. I feel

1:00:21.080 --> 1:00:23.360
<v Speaker 1>like call them add like an extra sensation to like

1:00:23.400 --> 1:00:26.400
<v Speaker 1>the extra like rubber like robes and it feels nice. No,

1:00:26.760 --> 1:00:28.560
<v Speaker 1>what ain are you using what they got in Canada?

1:00:28.600 --> 1:00:32.840
<v Speaker 1>Mail us time of them because they like you're talking

1:00:35.120 --> 1:00:39.440
<v Speaker 1>like this kid wants like it feels nice when that's

1:00:39.440 --> 1:00:45.120
<v Speaker 1>the ones I used it. Yeah, it would be pretty good.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even best is peace of mind, Like I

1:00:48.040 --> 1:00:52.240
<v Speaker 1>don't have to worry about right, I mean you still

1:00:52.280 --> 1:00:58.240
<v Speaker 1>gotta worry, but not as much as you would wrong, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean ship you can still get with a right.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't condom right? And yeah, her pose would like

1:01:06.240 --> 1:01:10.000
<v Speaker 1>kissing people from I think, yeah, and then there's another

1:01:10.080 --> 1:01:14.520
<v Speaker 1>disease to like, what's that thing? My story lies? Oh crap,

1:01:23.440 --> 1:01:28.840
<v Speaker 1>c yeah, I can't remember the name like things, but

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<v Speaker 1>and then I wants the other std feelings period you

1:01:34.480 --> 1:01:39.880
<v Speaker 1>transmitted transmitted demons? Yes, like we condoms, you don't have

1:01:39.920 --> 1:01:42.720
<v Speaker 1>to worry about it. I mean you can't do feelings

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<v Speaker 1>with condoms. I don't when I tell you feel no

1:01:46.800 --> 1:01:50.600
<v Speaker 1>condom dick I needed, but like if you have like

1:01:50.640 --> 1:01:53.880
<v Speaker 1>no condom sex, like I just feel Sometimes I find

1:01:53.880 --> 1:01:55.960
<v Speaker 1>myself being obsessive, like where are you? Who are you

1:01:56.000 --> 1:01:59.400
<v Speaker 1>talking to? Period? Yeah? You my boyfriend and you hit

1:01:59.400 --> 1:02:04.840
<v Speaker 1>this person, You're definitely like my future husband. Where have

1:02:05.000 --> 1:02:11.720
<v Speaker 1>you been? And where are you going to? I have

1:02:11.840 --> 1:02:20.520
<v Speaker 1>the same attarrassment raw as condom sex. Not all the time,

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<v Speaker 1>but most of the time. It's been some sex that

1:02:23.680 --> 1:02:25.920
<v Speaker 1>I've had with condoms where I was like thank you,

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<v Speaker 1>But thenent of times I'm like, good morning, did you

1:02:33.440 --> 1:02:41.800
<v Speaker 1>have breakfast? Ready to buy? Yeah? What's I shoe? You are?

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<v Speaker 1>But you drinking? Have you had raw sex where it's

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<v Speaker 1>like thank you by I've never had thank you by

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<v Speaker 1>raw dick. No, But that's because by the time we

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<v Speaker 1>get to raw dick, I'm already like all in you know,

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<v Speaker 1>yeah that me you have had the rodic the first time?

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