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Speaker 1: talks back. What's up, y'all? Thank you for tuning in

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Speaker 1: for a new episode of We Talked Back. I show

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Speaker 1: dedicated to you, Nick Is and Needs Hoes and everybody

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Speaker 1: else in between, your co host a J. What's up? Tim? Hey?

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Speaker 1: What's up? Everybody is? Tim? Vam? I love y'all. Thank

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Speaker 1: y'all for tuning in again. What's up? A J? Nothing? Then?

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Speaker 1: What's it going now? And what are you doing? You

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Speaker 1: sound real, Charleston? Just now? I am shi, Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: sometimes you don't sound it just now? You sounded real,

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Speaker 1: like hey, box you and y'all A all right? Going forward?

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Speaker 1: I'm doing every episode like real, Gucci no, because people

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Speaker 1: need to understand what you're saying is a governed language.

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Speaker 1: They'll understand. What'd you do over the weekend? Did rachet

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Speaker 1: ship with my new group of friends? Okay? I went

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Speaker 1: to just outside, y'all. I went to like Christmas parties

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Speaker 1: and like hung up with white people. I mean, it's

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Speaker 1: just really let I've been doing a lot of networking.

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Speaker 1: It's just great, not white people, beige people. Yes, I

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Speaker 1: have some new beige friends as well, but it's cool. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's been nice. So my friends, my best friend's husband

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Speaker 1: through her a surprise dinner because she got her I

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Speaker 1: think it's her second massages degree. I can't rely she got.

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Speaker 1: But so she didn't know nothing. So all of her

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Speaker 1: closest friends were there and most of us don't like

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Speaker 1: each other, but we got along real good for her. Then, Uh, Saturday,

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Speaker 1: we I had my annuals so I belonged to this group.

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Speaker 1: We do a gift exchange every Christmas. Is the twelfth

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Speaker 1: year in a row. I've only been participating for six years.

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Speaker 1: But uh, and we have a theme and we get together,

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Speaker 1: we exchange gifts. Is really nice. I did that. We

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Speaker 1: had a sneaker ball theme this year, which I really

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Speaker 1: hate sneaker balls because I feel like you're not supposed

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Speaker 1: it's comfortable though, it's comfortable, but it ain't cute to me. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we have balls all the time. I've never been to

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Speaker 1: that was Oh and then I put up my Christmas tree.

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Speaker 1: I know I'm late for y'all. People's like, ain't no

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Speaker 1: point in putting it up Christmas is is the It

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Speaker 1: was the eleventh or something like that. So what's the

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Speaker 1: rule on when to put the Christmas tree up? I

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Speaker 1: think you gotta put it up the day before Thanksgiving

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Speaker 1: us something. Who's that that we got? Like what you

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Speaker 1: put it up the day after Halloween? Actually, girl, it's Halloween, Christmas, Christmas,

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Speaker 1: Christmas two days and Thanksgiving and then Christmas, Christmas, Christmas.

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Speaker 1: Why my home girl ain't never took her Christmas treet down.

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Speaker 1: She just put it in her spare room and took

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Speaker 1: really nice Christmas tree. I like my little Christmas tree.

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Speaker 1: My so, my face is pretty small, but I found

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Speaker 1: a Christmas tree that was like seven and a half

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Speaker 1: but it's skinny. So if it's in my space, my

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Speaker 1: mama gonna say, my tree, look anna, rexy. It looks nice.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, it's nice. Balls on there and all that ship.

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Speaker 1: It's nice. Merry Christmas. Home. Well we got going on

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Speaker 1: the internet news this week line. Okay, so Britney Grinder

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Speaker 1: I don't feel like I don't like how our community

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Speaker 1: of her loved ones. She's not harmed. She ain't got

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Speaker 1: add them back if she's still got them. She's okay,

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Speaker 1: we can make a little jokey joke, she's not okay.

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Speaker 1: We don't understand the mental language. I'm pretty sure that

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Speaker 1: swap wasn't even so they so britty grinder. She's back

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Speaker 1: of people commit crimes, they're just not calling right. So

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Speaker 1: what if it were you, I wouldn't give a funk

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Speaker 1: That's how I feel about it. Yeah, I wanted her

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Speaker 1: a little joke. I mean, you did some stupid shit,

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Speaker 1: but she smoked weed. She don't deserve nine years for that.

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Speaker 1: she deserved that type of term for that. No. But

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Speaker 1: it's just not in America. You know, if you travel

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Speaker 1: She used to be beating Beach's ass. She that's a

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Speaker 1: But she she probably don't want no smoke with nobody

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Speaker 1: so uh, a man by the name of Patrick Xavier

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Speaker 1: Clark was arrested for the murder of Takeoff, a member

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Speaker 1: of the Meigo's rap group, so he asked the court

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Speaker 1: I'm wondering, is he guilty? Why would you do that

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Speaker 1: him in the video. I don't want I didn't watch that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he's in jail for some other ship that they were

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Speaker 1: saying he was a shooter. But he looks like a

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Speaker 1: these old niggas use y'all young man. But um, I

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Speaker 1: I hope take off you say him or take off

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Speaker 1: I mean, if justice is putting his ass and fucking

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Speaker 1: it just a speedy trial so they can get this

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Speaker 1: whole thing. Yeah, alright, um did you see that? Did

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Speaker 1: It's looking I'm not sure if she's Asian, but Asian

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Speaker 1: woman named Dana Tran a k a. Dana t. According

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Speaker 1: to the baby's birth certificate, Love Sean Coins was born

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Speaker 1: October fifteenth in Newport Beach, California, and did He is

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Speaker 1: listed as the father in the twenty eight year old

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Speaker 1: Dana Tran is the mother. H Uh, fifty three year old?

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Speaker 1: Did he? Corisha? Please come to the motherfucking podium, Come

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Speaker 1: to the podium, girl? What's up? What I mean? What

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Speaker 1: can Carisa say? They never were in a committed relationship, right?

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Speaker 1: They never admitted, They never said that they were committed.

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Speaker 1: And especially if the baby, the woman had to be

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Speaker 1: gotten pregnant at least nine months ago, I mean six

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Speaker 1: even less close. Why don't um any of these women

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Speaker 1: think they deserve more? You know what I'm saying, Like,

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Speaker 1: why are you letting a fifty three year old front

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Speaker 1: play with you like this, even if you really because

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Speaker 1: that boos. Obviously did he healthy as fun? He started

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Speaker 1: that she deserves better. Cassie knew she deserved better, and

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Speaker 1: That's that's so how did you end up in a

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00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:43,240
Speaker 1: drunk video. It wasn't referral. Honestly, you're good because can

421
00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:49,159
Speaker 1: you say I've worked on three drink music videos and

422
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:51,760
Speaker 1: it was just true. Like word of mount was like

423
00:25:51,880 --> 00:25:54,720
Speaker 1: the statist was looking for someone it seems stressed on set.

424
00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:57,440
Speaker 1: It was to Wait for You music video, and I'm

425
00:25:57,520 --> 00:25:59,840
Speaker 1: like I called her back and she's like, yeah, we

426
00:25:59,840 --> 00:26:03,360
Speaker 1: need used to come like two hours away from Toronto.

427
00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:05,359
Speaker 1: We're going in the middle of nowhere to shoot and

428
00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:08,119
Speaker 1: drink music video. I'm like, sure, I'll come, and then

429
00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:09,840
Speaker 1: I have to beat my friend to contacting from me,

430
00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:12,760
Speaker 1: like this is where I'm this first lesson just to

431
00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:16,879
Speaker 1: get something. I don't know. It was legitima you just

432
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:22,000
Speaker 1: like sucking. I'm out. I'm like I'm there. You're like,

433
00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:23,800
Speaker 1: we're gonna pay you some more for like three years.

434
00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:25,639
Speaker 1: I'm like, yes, yes, yes, sign me up. I'm like

435
00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:28,880
Speaker 1: just for the just for the you know. And then

436
00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:31,000
Speaker 1: I went there was my first time being on set

437
00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:33,639
Speaker 1: and just speaking all this term like copy move like

438
00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:36,399
Speaker 1: I'm like, what's happening, Okay. Then I had to create

439
00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:39,880
Speaker 1: you know, the I don't know if you watched Wait

440
00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 1: for You music video like the girl like you know,

441
00:26:42,600 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 1: he saves the damn soel and then she goes into

442
00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:46,119
Speaker 1: the room. So the course that she was when I

443
00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:49,600
Speaker 1: actually made that for like three hours, like so much pressure.

444
00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:52,760
Speaker 1: I want to directors with X. It was such a

445
00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:57,919
Speaker 1: fun for us. Yeah. He was there like, I'm like,

446
00:26:57,960 --> 00:26:59,879
Speaker 1: what do you want me to do? He's like, just

447
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:03,120
Speaker 1: make something out of this. I'm like, all right, cool,

448
00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:06,679
Speaker 1: I didn't know what something was. He likes what I

449
00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 1: mean too. Yeah, And then the one went we married

450
00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:17,080
Speaker 1: like twenty something girls. Yeah, also, and that's said, yeah,

451
00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:19,760
Speaker 1: I tell you all the wedding dresses, like girls came

452
00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:21,840
Speaker 1: from all over the world just to be in a

453
00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:26,200
Speaker 1: music video. And then there was a two rog Field Yeah.

454
00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:28,679
Speaker 1: And then the one we did your key and baby,

455
00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:34,720
Speaker 1: you're supposed to be excited, this is yeah excited. Yeah,

456
00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:37,439
Speaker 1: you're supposed to be excited about it doesn't any bit.

457
00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:39,439
Speaker 1: You can make a dress out of toilet tissue that

458
00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:41,440
Speaker 1: looks good is a tanlent and need to be all

459
00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:45,560
Speaker 1: everybody said period because all I can do with white

460
00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:50,840
Speaker 1: my ass. That's it helps had to reach it out

461
00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:53,560
Speaker 1: to me to come be her personal designer at all.

462
00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:57,080
Speaker 1: I make all these people reach out to me. I'm here.

463
00:27:57,240 --> 00:28:00,000
Speaker 1: You know, That's how I'm feeling sometimes. I mean, times

464
00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:03,320
Speaker 1: is not on set for you know. Yeah, I just

465
00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:07,359
Speaker 1: started and yeah, and when the shade re pusted the

466
00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:11,280
Speaker 1: Battom video, I just made like a behind the scenes

467
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:13,479
Speaker 1: people were like, oh, we see where all these toilet

468
00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:22,159
Speaker 1: people went to, you know you like, yeah, it's like

469
00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:25,159
Speaker 1: it's a toilet paper short and it's a bitch making

470
00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:28,119
Speaker 1: like boxing the company sending the boxes of toilet paper.

471
00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:30,480
Speaker 1: I'm like, I need more and he's more just sending more,

472
00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:35,960
Speaker 1: and I'm like making y'all gotta save that. The drags,

473
00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:38,680
Speaker 1: yeah you know that time. I've also makes hair, so

474
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:41,520
Speaker 1: I bread it as well. That's why incorporated it into

475
00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:46,040
Speaker 1: the saw Giant. I saw it was like braided down

476
00:28:46,120 --> 00:28:50,000
Speaker 1: the back and like, yeah it was nice. That's amazing man.

477
00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:52,760
Speaker 1: So what was the process for dragging? Because I always

478
00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:55,440
Speaker 1: wanted to go on Shark thank I got this idea

479
00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:59,880
Speaker 1: about like it's Christmas time, right, you said, access will

480
00:28:59,880 --> 00:29:02,280
Speaker 1: be put up a Christmas tree. So what if you

481
00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:04,240
Speaker 1: had a Christmas tree you can open up like an

482
00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:09,880
Speaker 1: umbrella and it's already like fluffed out. I mean, you

483
00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:12,040
Speaker 1: don't have to put those things on. You have to

484
00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 1: put each branch on and fluff it. I think I

485
00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 1: bought a tree where it was it was three sections

486
00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:25,000
Speaker 1: that you just open up and then you put one

487
00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:26,760
Speaker 1: on the top and the third one on it and

488
00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:31,120
Speaker 1: it just it's already put together. Look, I guess I'm

489
00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:33,240
Speaker 1: a narcissist. I think I'm the first to do everything.

490
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:38,120
Speaker 1: I mean, like all these ideas you're giving out, you

491
00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:40,520
Speaker 1: can't still do it. You can't still have made some o.

492
00:29:41,080 --> 00:29:43,719
Speaker 1: You just make it better than that. So the one

493
00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 1: I had was three pieces. Maybe you can make it

494
00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 1: where it's no pieces and you fluff out your leaves

495
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:54,560
Speaker 1: and you put your decorations on five minute Christmas tree.

496
00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:59,720
Speaker 1: You ain't buy that, going sure, yeah, I'm not out.

497
00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:05,920
Speaker 1: So what was your experience on the dragons then? How

498
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:08,880
Speaker 1: do you end up there? Yeah? So um Dragons then

499
00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:11,360
Speaker 1: reached out to me and said, like, we want your

500
00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:15,040
Speaker 1: dragons then, because like the magazine, it's called blog t oh,

501
00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:17,840
Speaker 1: it's like a big blog in Toronto. So they shared

502
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:20,160
Speaker 1: my work, talked about sustainable design and all that. So

503
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:22,320
Speaker 1: they reached out and the casting director returned to me

504
00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:24,880
Speaker 1: like we want your dragons then, I'm like, yeah, when

505
00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:27,680
Speaker 1: is it for three? Like no, in ten days? And

506
00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:30,680
Speaker 1: like what yeah, You're like you either want it or

507
00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:32,600
Speaker 1: you don't want it, like you know out, I mean,

508
00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:34,200
Speaker 1: you can't do it next year, but we don't really

509
00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:36,760
Speaker 1: we're going to renew. But I said, yes, I took

510
00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:38,800
Speaker 1: the one I had in the moment, and I just

511
00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:42,080
Speaker 1: never written a page. My numbers are there, but like

512
00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:44,680
Speaker 1: I had to like polish you with my accountant, and yeah,

513
00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:47,360
Speaker 1: I went into the dance scared, scared as fun. It

514
00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:52,160
Speaker 1: was very scary, but I did it. I went there

515
00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:54,400
Speaker 1: and then I had my friend come over. I made

516
00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 1: her wedding dress. Actually, I made her wedding dress in

517
00:30:56,440 --> 00:31:00,000
Speaker 1: twenty nineteen. Her winding got cantled three weeks before the pandemic.

518
00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:03,640
Speaker 1: So you know, imagine paying all all that money and

519
00:31:03,720 --> 00:31:06,160
Speaker 1: having all this right out party and then like your

520
00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:09,680
Speaker 1: wedding doesn't happen. Because so yeah, I'm like, hey, do

521
00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:11,320
Speaker 1: you want to come wear your dress on dragons there?

522
00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:13,520
Speaker 1: She's like, yeah, sure, I'm coming. And she could still

523
00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:15,320
Speaker 1: fit the dress how the whole baby and she could

524
00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:18,840
Speaker 1: still fit the dress after her wedding, so after nineteen,

525
00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:21,040
Speaker 1: so she came with me on the show practice my

526
00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:25,040
Speaker 1: picture for me, and yeah, I spoke to the dragons

527
00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:31,480
Speaker 1: or six of them scared. Let's talk about this right, Okay,

528
00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:34,360
Speaker 1: let out listeners know what you went on the dragons

529
00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:36,760
Speaker 1: And just in case you don't watch the clip, what

530
00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:42,320
Speaker 1: was your ask from the from the dragon? Okay, So

531
00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:43,960
Speaker 1: if you didn't watch the clip, you can go on

532
00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:48,520
Speaker 1: CBC CBC dot com and then watch season seventh seen

533
00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:52,200
Speaker 1: episode ten. That's what I pitched on. So I went

534
00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:55,400
Speaker 1: and asking for a fourth forty thou dollars for twelve

535
00:31:55,440 --> 00:32:06,120
Speaker 1: point five percent of my company. But I know that's

536
00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:09,000
Speaker 1: exactly why I said it, because I'm like roast me

537
00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:14,440
Speaker 1: because I know I have to rost from that. But

538
00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:16,240
Speaker 1: but the thing is that you have to determine the

539
00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:21,560
Speaker 1: value you're asking for more. Yeah, like if you're asking

540
00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:23,920
Speaker 1: for more than to like me, asking for a twelve

541
00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:27,040
Speaker 1: point five meant I valued my company at three hundred

542
00:32:27,120 --> 00:32:30,239
Speaker 1: or something. That wasn't if anything Dragons then taught me

543
00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:32,800
Speaker 1: is I'm on to value myself a lot. You know.

544
00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:35,480
Speaker 1: After pitching, I pitched all the way with me. I

545
00:32:35,520 --> 00:32:37,720
Speaker 1: was depressed for like three days. I was on my floor.

546
00:32:37,760 --> 00:32:39,600
Speaker 1: I was crying because I'm like why did I do that?

547
00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:41,400
Speaker 1: Like I was just like all the things they told

548
00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:43,000
Speaker 1: me was just like ringing in my head. I remember

549
00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:45,200
Speaker 1: I got my period the next day I couldn't work.

550
00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:47,760
Speaker 1: So I'm just like thinking, if something I haven't seeing

551
00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:49,600
Speaker 1: what happens to come because that was what they kept

552
00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:52,440
Speaker 1: on telling me. Then and my friends who came home.

553
00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:54,240
Speaker 1: She came to my house. I wasn't asking her question

554
00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:56,200
Speaker 1: to my house, took me to different bride out stories,

555
00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:58,840
Speaker 1: into rount and she's like, this is your competition. So

556
00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:01,080
Speaker 1: like if you don't read someone, that person would do

557
00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:04,920
Speaker 1: it too, like you know, get yourself. Remember. So I

558
00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:08,480
Speaker 1: just snapped off of that, but yeah, I know. And

559
00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:13,760
Speaker 1: then I walked out with five sorry forty Okay, y'all

560
00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:16,440
Speaker 1: let me break this down right quickly. Okay, So Sooba

561
00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:22,400
Speaker 1: went on Dragon's Dead. Her ask was forty dollars for

562
00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:26,200
Speaker 1: twelve point five percent of a company that she is

563
00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:32,800
Speaker 1: the number one laborer at. Okay, and so what was

564
00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:36,120
Speaker 1: the guy who actually accepted? But he wanted forty thousand

565
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:42,400
Speaker 1: of your company? This is essentially it's a small business, right,

566
00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:46,280
Speaker 1: you're big, but it's a small business. One person. How

567
00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:52,960
Speaker 1: many employees do you have time. So like the main

568
00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:55,719
Speaker 1: thing I asked was what did you ever have your

569
00:33:55,760 --> 00:33:58,760
Speaker 1: business evaluated? What your what was your business evaluated at?

570
00:33:58,760 --> 00:34:00,440
Speaker 1: Because that that would be the first thing you want

571
00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:03,680
Speaker 1: to do before asking somebody for money. And really what

572
00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:10,400
Speaker 1: you needed was a businessman not said that. So the

573
00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:14,000
Speaker 1: reason why I wanted an investor was not necessarily for

574
00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:18,000
Speaker 1: the money. I think I needed more mentorship, like just

575
00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:20,160
Speaker 1: someone to like helping with the business side, because the

576
00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:22,960
Speaker 1: critic side is fine, but like because I'm obviously I'm

577
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:25,759
Speaker 1: always improving on my critivity and like learning, but the

578
00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:27,839
Speaker 1: business side is like something that I wasn't really paying

579
00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:30,640
Speaker 1: attention to as much as I should have. So I

580
00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:34,120
Speaker 1: needed a mentor. But after the then I realized that

581
00:34:34,160 --> 00:34:36,320
Speaker 1: although we can find out, but yeah, did you accept

582
00:34:36,400 --> 00:34:38,440
Speaker 1: the deal? Like did it go through like that somebody

583
00:34:38,480 --> 00:34:43,359
Speaker 1: owns twenty in your company? No, nothing is finalized, as

584
00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:45,520
Speaker 1: we're still in the process like due diligence, like we're

585
00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:47,520
Speaker 1: checking numbers, like this was all the way at me

586
00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:51,680
Speaker 1: and you know since from dancing now nothing has been finalized.

587
00:34:52,719 --> 00:34:59,080
Speaker 1: Don't do it, said, tell me why I was listening

588
00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:02,520
Speaker 1: to you. I just told you and I told you

589
00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:07,240
Speaker 1: when you message me, you are worth way than forty dollars.

590
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:10,919
Speaker 1: And then for somebody you have of a company where

591
00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:12,840
Speaker 1: they may not be doing much, what you need is

592
00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:15,600
Speaker 1: you need a mentor. Like you said, there's funny people

593
00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:19,080
Speaker 1: out here that actually mentor you for free, you know,

594
00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:23,640
Speaker 1: as opposed to I did you know going on one

595
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:27,440
Speaker 1: of these names. So you're only gonna get forty dollars

596
00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:30,759
Speaker 1: and they're gonna have company, but the life of your

597
00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:35,120
Speaker 1: company for how long? Like I said, nothing has been finalized,

598
00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:37,120
Speaker 1: Like we haven't even got into that part yet. They're

599
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:40,400
Speaker 1: still in like you in the number of stage. So

600
00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:43,840
Speaker 1: dragons don't will tell you, like they're not responsible for

601
00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 1: what you do after the after the you don't care

602
00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:49,200
Speaker 1: what you do after Like that's on you. Right, So

603
00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:52,600
Speaker 1: anything I said, like whatever was I agree on it's

604
00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:57,279
Speaker 1: not necessary. Okay, So you can renegotiated, So you can

605
00:35:57,360 --> 00:35:59,440
Speaker 1: also pull out and want you like you can just

606
00:35:59,480 --> 00:36:03,480
Speaker 1: not with anything, right yeah, okay, yeah, yeah, right now

607
00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:12,360
Speaker 1: I still owned my company in a real way. I

608
00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:15,040
Speaker 1: have already spoken to some people I know, like that

609
00:36:15,080 --> 00:36:18,279
Speaker 1: I that I know have business relationships at banks. I

610
00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:20,640
Speaker 1: told him about you, like I know one of my

611
00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:23,080
Speaker 1: one of my good friends. Yeah, like what you need

612
00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:25,799
Speaker 1: is a business plan. You got. I'm pretty sure you

613
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:28,239
Speaker 1: have the company incorporated and all that good stuff. I

614
00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:31,800
Speaker 1: don't know like the process in Canada for like business

615
00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:34,600
Speaker 1: credit and stuff like that. But you definitely don't need

616
00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:37,759
Speaker 1: to go to like this one individual for for that

617
00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:39,759
Speaker 1: you can get you just leave alone. You just need

618
00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:43,520
Speaker 1: it alone. So has has your business grown since you

619
00:36:43,520 --> 00:36:46,480
Speaker 1: know you've been on the show? Yeah, but before it

620
00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:50,440
Speaker 1: aired from me too, So now it definitely has, Like

621
00:36:50,880 --> 00:36:54,120
Speaker 1: because I worked on I think it was after it aired.

622
00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:56,680
Speaker 1: Then I worked on a few of them music videos

623
00:36:56,920 --> 00:37:02,040
Speaker 1: and got more clients, like I just um on my

624
00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:06,000
Speaker 1: trying to see it definitely has grown since then. I

625
00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:08,479
Speaker 1: don't really have the specifics and the numbers right now

626
00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:10,680
Speaker 1: because you know, well yeah it high school. I've seen

627
00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:12,960
Speaker 1: a difference and then and even meets are the person

628
00:37:13,040 --> 00:37:15,640
Speaker 1: I've grown as well, like I took. I learned so

629
00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:18,600
Speaker 1: much from them, like skilling in business. I have invested

630
00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:21,680
Speaker 1: in mentorship because you know that's might need like not

631
00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:25,400
Speaker 1: just like and it's important to hire someone because anybody

632
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:27,799
Speaker 1: can't do anybody can learn how to do. And then

633
00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:31,520
Speaker 1: with designing aspect of them like other parts of the business.

634
00:37:32,000 --> 00:37:34,879
Speaker 1: I can publish myself in those ways, you know, while

635
00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:38,840
Speaker 1: someone is sewing and I'm learning. Yeah, right, oh girl,

636
00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:42,520
Speaker 1: I would ask you asked about two d dollars okay,

637
00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:45,960
Speaker 1: half a million, it was like two yeah, because this

638
00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:49,759
Speaker 1: kind of like because from then to now, like I've

639
00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:55,600
Speaker 1: made forty like from exactly because it's like, right, yeah,

640
00:37:57,280 --> 00:37:59,120
Speaker 1: and I made that in the last couple of months.

641
00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:03,200
Speaker 1: What you're gonna get me? Maybe because they talked about

642
00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:07,680
Speaker 1: my price has been too and they talked to the

643
00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:13,279
Speaker 1: price that right, yesterday's pricing, today's price, right, the prices yeah, yeah, yeah,

644
00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:17,520
Speaker 1: it's gone up for sure. The price has gone up.

645
00:38:17,880 --> 00:38:22,080
Speaker 1: And you know, uh, even when the pricing is so

646
00:38:22,239 --> 00:38:25,480
Speaker 1: tricky too, because it's like I don't know where this

647
00:38:25,600 --> 00:38:29,000
Speaker 1: is coming from. Maybe it's like racism and like coming

648
00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:31,279
Speaker 1: from nature and like seeing how much people pay for it.

649
00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:33,799
Speaker 1: I don't know what it is. Like, I honestly don't

650
00:38:33,840 --> 00:38:36,600
Speaker 1: know why I'm so afraid to increase my price and

651
00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:38,920
Speaker 1: I charge my worst right, It's like, I don't know

652
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:42,279
Speaker 1: what that is. Don't be scared raise the price, because

653
00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:44,160
Speaker 1: then you're just gonna have people with mind. I think

654
00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:47,279
Speaker 1: it's a black people, I think we are afraid of

655
00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:50,439
Speaker 1: asking for what we know we deserve, even when people

656
00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:53,359
Speaker 1: are working in corporate settings, like black people sit there

657
00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:56,160
Speaker 1: and make the same money for five years. You know

658
00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:58,600
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Even if you do a lateral move,

659
00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:02,880
Speaker 1: you could don't ask for more money. Do you think

660
00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:06,759
Speaker 1: that's a black thing or a female thing? Um, I

661
00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:09,400
Speaker 1: just think it might be a black it's a female

662
00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:13,400
Speaker 1: thing when it comes to asking for money, Like, I

663
00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:20,880
Speaker 1: don't even know how I'm the only I'm the only dad. Like,

664
00:39:20,920 --> 00:39:22,520
Speaker 1: I can't ask my dad. I want me to get

665
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:25,040
Speaker 1: to annoying. She's like, you want the money, go ask him,

666
00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:26,920
Speaker 1: and I know you go ask him. She's like, I'm

667
00:39:26,920 --> 00:39:29,480
Speaker 1: gonna ask this one more time. Next time you have

668
00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:31,200
Speaker 1: to ask him. Like I guess I have to do

669
00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:33,960
Speaker 1: your daddy. I don't ask my dad for money, No,

670
00:39:34,160 --> 00:39:38,400
Speaker 1: because I cannot open my mouth for children. I'm the

671
00:39:38,440 --> 00:39:43,200
Speaker 1: only girl. I don't. So here's them. That's more reason

672
00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:45,400
Speaker 1: for you to be able to ask your dad daddy

673
00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:49,879
Speaker 1: some money to all these people. And I'm just there

674
00:39:49,920 --> 00:39:58,359
Speaker 1: like money, So imagine how that translates into business and relationships.

675
00:39:58,360 --> 00:40:00,799
Speaker 1: If you can't even ask the person closest to you,

676
00:40:00,960 --> 00:40:04,480
Speaker 1: but what you need? So how are you going to

677
00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:07,279
Speaker 1: get around this? Okay? Because you could have got that

678
00:40:08,000 --> 00:40:14,320
Speaker 1: problems Canadian boy. Yeah, what the Canadian nigga is hitting forward?

679
00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:18,359
Speaker 1: You Canadian guys like let me bost who like, I'm

680
00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:25,960
Speaker 1: just annoyed. It's like Canadian, I'm okay, I'm going to

681
00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:29,600
Speaker 1: sleep from my experience like most people. Most guys in Canada,

682
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:34,359
Speaker 1: like they're not on the oh, I'll give you this,

683
00:40:34,520 --> 00:40:39,319
Speaker 1: do it like they're always like America. Yeah when let

684
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:45,880
Speaker 1: it down a minut American tarnished everybody. No obio fest

685
00:40:45,920 --> 00:40:51,399
Speaker 1: for me baby, like that why your men will take

686
00:40:51,480 --> 00:40:55,399
Speaker 1: you on your friends? They don't. I was about to say,

687
00:40:55,400 --> 00:40:58,560
Speaker 1: wait what no, no, no, Like even Durant guys they

688
00:40:58,600 --> 00:41:01,000
Speaker 1: see you like bring your friend is his normal and

689
00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:06,520
Speaker 1: he's paying for everybody, Like that's normal that you you're

690
00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:12,480
Speaker 1: You're everything is swirt. Yeah that's so they don't have

691
00:41:12,480 --> 00:41:16,239
Speaker 1: any Nigerians. Is that what we're saying, ain't on Nigerians

692
00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:22,319
Speaker 1: a Canada. I don't know where they. Yeah, my friend

693
00:41:22,400 --> 00:41:25,040
Speaker 1: right now, she's like she left Kinada, she's in she's

694
00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:27,680
Speaker 1: in South Africa because she's like the guy she wanted

695
00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:30,640
Speaker 1: to marry is in South because he doesn't mind like

696
00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:33,080
Speaker 1: paying for her stuff, right, and she found like canydian

697
00:41:33,200 --> 00:41:36,680
Speaker 1: guys who wants to fifty everything. She didn't come from

698
00:41:36,760 --> 00:41:38,400
Speaker 1: me for coming for them. But you know I had

699
00:41:38,440 --> 00:41:44,320
Speaker 1: to be even dates I've I've been on dates where

700
00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:49,040
Speaker 1: you know you went, yeah, well I will just not

701
00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:51,319
Speaker 1: city person again, like I don't mind paying, but like

702
00:41:51,360 --> 00:41:55,200
Speaker 1: that's the last thing, right, So how did that go?

703
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:56,879
Speaker 1: At the end of the night, Nika was just looking

704
00:41:56,920 --> 00:42:00,160
Speaker 1: in the sky when the checken's weird, like like I

705
00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:05,840
Speaker 1: had the chicken for anything. Oh no, I act like

706
00:42:05,840 --> 00:42:10,520
Speaker 1: I and leave someone I didn't have to go pee

707
00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:15,920
Speaker 1: and then they covered like since then I mean to

708
00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:23,160
Speaker 1: on you like I'm like in this moment, that's when

709
00:42:23,160 --> 00:42:25,960
Speaker 1: he wants to pee. Okay, yeah, he wanted to see

710
00:42:26,239 --> 00:42:29,480
Speaker 1: I I haven't seen to thing cause I'm like and

711
00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:37,200
Speaker 1: he's like, oh you can nah. If he came back

712
00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:39,920
Speaker 1: to keep your curse on your lap under the table,

713
00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:41,920
Speaker 1: like don't reaching your ships, see what they're gonna do.

714
00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:44,680
Speaker 1: And then if he really liked on that type of time,

715
00:42:45,080 --> 00:42:46,920
Speaker 1: then you split and not talked to this as someone.

716
00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:49,759
Speaker 1: But I'll be damn like coup of the whole bill

717
00:42:50,719 --> 00:42:53,279
Speaker 1: went to the bathroom, especially if you're just like if

718
00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:56,799
Speaker 1: if it's someone I'm dating already, I don't mind paying

719
00:42:56,840 --> 00:42:59,279
Speaker 1: every now and then, But if we're just going on

720
00:42:59,320 --> 00:43:02,319
Speaker 1: our first couple day first, you need to be courting me, sir,

721
00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:06,680
Speaker 1: or you should be dating, okay, right, you shouldn't be

722
00:43:06,760 --> 00:43:10,239
Speaker 1: dating like men be complaining about how much money they

723
00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:12,480
Speaker 1: spend on dates, like they dating budget. But why don't

724
00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:15,279
Speaker 1: you just find like somebody you're interested in and that

725
00:43:15,360 --> 00:43:18,440
Speaker 1: they're interested in you, and you know, because they want

726
00:43:18,440 --> 00:43:19,759
Speaker 1: to pay for the date to get pussy at the

727
00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:21,400
Speaker 1: end of the night, So we gotta pay for the

728
00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:23,680
Speaker 1: date and pussy a lot of times we don't have to,

729
00:43:23,880 --> 00:43:27,600
Speaker 1: but that's what they expect, right, But why not just

730
00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:31,319
Speaker 1: date with purpose? And you went mind spending money on

731
00:43:31,400 --> 00:43:39,160
Speaker 1: the person? Like what the fuck? Let's terry you? So

732
00:43:39,160 --> 00:43:48,000
Speaker 1: so we're not taking the deal? Right? Let her negotia.

733
00:43:48,160 --> 00:43:51,120
Speaker 1: Do you have an attorney? I have an attorney that

734
00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:52,839
Speaker 1: is ready to step in when it's time for her

735
00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:55,839
Speaker 1: to step in, but like right now, I don't need

736
00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:58,719
Speaker 1: her yet. But I did mention that I do want

737
00:43:58,760 --> 00:44:02,279
Speaker 1: to renegot ship because like Yeah, like I said, I

738
00:44:02,360 --> 00:44:05,680
Speaker 1: just invested in like mentorship on coaching, and it was

739
00:44:05,719 --> 00:44:08,319
Speaker 1: a lot of money for I needed It's worth it

740
00:44:08,400 --> 00:44:11,799
Speaker 1: because I talked to value myself on price mife. So

741
00:44:11,880 --> 00:44:14,440
Speaker 1: on top of being like a business professional, I also

742
00:44:14,520 --> 00:44:22,320
Speaker 1: like to think I'm on an emma an attorney as well.

743
00:44:23,280 --> 00:44:27,439
Speaker 1: Documents over and I reviewing for you. Okay, I feel

744
00:44:27,480 --> 00:44:31,399
Speaker 1: like everything in life is negotiable. And those people know

745
00:44:31,600 --> 00:44:34,200
Speaker 1: your work. They were just testing to see if you did.

746
00:44:35,640 --> 00:44:38,200
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like you know, damn well,

747
00:44:38,239 --> 00:44:42,279
Speaker 1: he's not gonna get of your company that you are, Like,

748
00:44:42,440 --> 00:44:45,840
Speaker 1: this is your ship. This is not like a I

749
00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:48,440
Speaker 1: don't know, like a factory job or something like. I

750
00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:52,400
Speaker 1: don't like. This is not like a what are the

751
00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:55,000
Speaker 1: companies that what would need somebody? You would need someone

752
00:44:55,080 --> 00:44:58,080
Speaker 1: to invest in, not something like this, I don't think,

753
00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:02,239
Speaker 1: not at this stage of your business where you are

754
00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:06,160
Speaker 1: bringing old investors. It's not big enough. Yeah, you know

755
00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:08,080
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. And I feel like even though it's

756
00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:10,680
Speaker 1: not that big, you can still ask for at least

757
00:45:10,719 --> 00:45:13,759
Speaker 1: a hundred and fifty thousand dollars and like, how long

758
00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:16,160
Speaker 1: am I supposed to give you twenty five of my

759
00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:21,360
Speaker 1: business that you're asking doing nothing but talking to me

760
00:45:21,480 --> 00:45:26,839
Speaker 1: and like I don't know, giving business advice a lot

761
00:45:26,960 --> 00:45:32,120
Speaker 1: of money. And then dandell Um he was the only

762
00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:35,400
Speaker 1: one that I really understood the business model because like

763
00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:40,759
Speaker 1: in Nigeria, it's normal that people have things cost on

764
00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:43,120
Speaker 1: me for them for event. Look at Porschres wedding. How

765
00:45:43,120 --> 00:45:46,680
Speaker 1: many dresses she really like? So many? Like that's how

766
00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:49,359
Speaker 1: it is, like every Saturday that's a wedding and you're

767
00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:52,160
Speaker 1: going to your designer to make something new for you,

768
00:45:52,239 --> 00:45:54,680
Speaker 1: like and I'm just saying, how come can you how

769
00:45:54,719 --> 00:45:56,440
Speaker 1: come it's not a thing here? Like it should be

770
00:45:56,480 --> 00:46:00,399
Speaker 1: a thing people think like um fast flash and first

771
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:02,920
Speaker 1: before thinking of having something custom made, like it's the

772
00:46:02,960 --> 00:46:05,399
Speaker 1: opposite world from like it's like and then I'm trying

773
00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:08,480
Speaker 1: to import that to this part of the world. But

774
00:46:08,680 --> 00:46:10,160
Speaker 1: most of the people in the room did not see.

775
00:46:10,239 --> 00:46:12,319
Speaker 1: But I see it, and I know that people like

776
00:46:12,360 --> 00:46:15,200
Speaker 1: my clients I dress worked with, she's like, she has

777
00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:18,560
Speaker 1: a very tiny waist and she's very curvy, so she

778
00:46:18,800 --> 00:46:21,560
Speaker 1: went to stores and wasn't finding things that feed her perfectly.

779
00:46:21,640 --> 00:46:24,160
Speaker 1: And like the way I courstted and snatched her dress.

780
00:46:24,239 --> 00:46:26,719
Speaker 1: She was so happy and she's like, yeah, she's going

781
00:46:26,760 --> 00:46:30,280
Speaker 1: to come to me for future dresses to feed her body.

782
00:46:30,280 --> 00:46:32,319
Speaker 1: Because like even when I went to fashion school, I

783
00:46:32,360 --> 00:46:36,040
Speaker 1: wasn't thought how to make designs for plus sides, not

784
00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:39,640
Speaker 1: even plus size. But like black men, we have more current, right,

785
00:46:40,080 --> 00:46:43,279
Speaker 1: it's just like European like side six sides to That's

786
00:46:43,280 --> 00:46:45,800
Speaker 1: why I was still had to like go outside school

787
00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:49,640
Speaker 1: to learn how to make for women. After my clients,

788
00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:53,480
Speaker 1: yeah yeah, like take all of that in like snatch

789
00:46:53,520 --> 00:46:58,360
Speaker 1: everything and walk down the arm Marrio King the nice dress.

790
00:46:58,560 --> 00:47:03,160
Speaker 1: You know. I was saying, um, there's a wedding every Saturday.

791
00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:04,880
Speaker 1: And when she said that, I was like, Lord, what

792
00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:12,920
Speaker 1: you have done for hey? Maybe right now? Every every

793
00:47:15,000 --> 00:47:21,799
Speaker 1: right now right now? Yeah? You know married. I was

794
00:47:21,840 --> 00:47:25,000
Speaker 1: talking to one of my friends yesterday. He is from

795
00:47:25,320 --> 00:47:28,759
Speaker 1: uh the Congo, but he wants to buy a new car.

796
00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:31,400
Speaker 1: You know that, this Chris calvs Tam who was on

797
00:47:31,440 --> 00:47:33,640
Speaker 1: the show. He wants to buy a new car, right,

798
00:47:33,680 --> 00:47:35,680
Speaker 1: so he said, him and his dad got into argument

799
00:47:35,800 --> 00:47:39,600
Speaker 1: because his dad is like a traditional African dad, right,

800
00:47:40,200 --> 00:47:42,000
Speaker 1: why are you buying new ship when you don't have

801
00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:45,480
Speaker 1: a wife yet? Is his dad's argument like why are

802
00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:47,680
Speaker 1: you not planning, like doing that type of life planning,

803
00:47:47,719 --> 00:47:53,200
Speaker 1: You're just buying more liabilities. Essentially, It's just true. That's

804
00:47:53,239 --> 00:47:56,239
Speaker 1: a good man, that's a good dad. You know what

805
00:47:56,280 --> 00:47:59,200
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Like these guys, like in Canada and America,

806
00:47:59,360 --> 00:48:01,759
Speaker 1: they need more men to push them and you know,

807
00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:05,080
Speaker 1: to show them the benefits of having a wife. Because

808
00:48:05,360 --> 00:48:08,480
Speaker 1: you get a wife, you sing around and get ten cars,

809
00:48:08,560 --> 00:48:12,120
Speaker 1: whatever cars you want. Women multiply ship the right woman,

810
00:48:13,840 --> 00:48:16,200
Speaker 1: and you also live longer. Men who have women in

811
00:48:16,200 --> 00:48:20,560
Speaker 1: their lives live longer now. Women who have met done

812
00:48:20,560 --> 00:48:25,800
Speaker 1: their lives actually die earlier. Yeah, why are you asking,

813
00:48:25,880 --> 00:48:28,279
Speaker 1: like what's the benefits? Nigga? I'm gonna make sure you

814
00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:30,480
Speaker 1: get the health care you need. How about that? That's

815
00:48:30,520 --> 00:48:33,359
Speaker 1: a big benefit. Right, you're gonna tax You're gonna take

816
00:48:33,440 --> 00:48:40,040
Speaker 1: some of my lifeline. Kind of like they don't like

817
00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:41,880
Speaker 1: being to it what to do? That's why I like

818
00:48:42,000 --> 00:48:43,960
Speaker 1: to just you know, they feel like women are heads.

819
00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:46,680
Speaker 1: Like fully stand and tell them what if you actually listen.

820
00:48:46,719 --> 00:48:51,359
Speaker 1: There's some germs in the message. Always eat the meat,

821
00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:53,480
Speaker 1: spit out the bones. Yeah, they've been worrying about the

822
00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:56,759
Speaker 1: wrong ship. Get you a goddamn white and get your

823
00:48:56,800 --> 00:49:02,840
Speaker 1: life together? So what no, go ahead? What did tell you?

824
00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:04,680
Speaker 1: Oh no? She was like, oh my god, yeah, I'll

825
00:49:04,719 --> 00:49:07,000
Speaker 1: here making all these wedding dresses that your single. How

826
00:49:07,000 --> 00:49:12,560
Speaker 1: does that feel? I'm like, I would have accidentally stamped

827
00:49:12,600 --> 00:49:16,880
Speaker 1: over the stitch. I'm sorry. Still, I know. It's just

828
00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:20,520
Speaker 1: like I actually like making your dress, Like I'm even

829
00:49:20,520 --> 00:49:23,799
Speaker 1: thinking about that, right, Like, yeah, bitch, why are you

830
00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:26,360
Speaker 1: thinking about that? Right? When do you want me to

831
00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:32,560
Speaker 1: make for your divorce dress? Right? I mean you should

832
00:49:32,560 --> 00:49:35,560
Speaker 1: start that. You should start a line of divorce dresses

833
00:49:36,800 --> 00:49:42,399
Speaker 1: doing as women getting divorced just as much as they

834
00:49:42,400 --> 00:49:52,560
Speaker 1: are getting married. Yea black, yellow, should like yeah, I

835
00:49:52,680 --> 00:49:56,799
Speaker 1: think like you should yellow, bright, nice, happy like like

836
00:49:56,960 --> 00:50:02,080
Speaker 1: me sad. It's the end. It's the end of something.

837
00:50:02,440 --> 00:50:06,920
Speaker 1: It's the death the beginning, let's be clear. So I

838
00:50:07,040 --> 00:50:09,560
Speaker 1: want to you can do you can make it like

839
00:50:09,640 --> 00:50:12,640
Speaker 1: the motherfucking dresses off of what's that movie where the

840
00:50:12,680 --> 00:50:15,600
Speaker 1: girl was on fire? You know what I'm talking about?

841
00:50:16,880 --> 00:50:19,759
Speaker 1: What's the white girl? And they was like zone four,

842
00:50:20,920 --> 00:50:23,360
Speaker 1: zone three, zone four? What was that movie? Hunger Games?

843
00:50:24,000 --> 00:50:29,600
Speaker 1: Her dress, her dress was black and then it turned red. Baby,

844
00:50:29,880 --> 00:50:31,399
Speaker 1: I won't one of them and I ain't never been

845
00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:34,799
Speaker 1: married or divorce. Oh bitch, I was about to go

846
00:50:34,800 --> 00:50:38,919
Speaker 1: back to Drake. Let's go to drink. So what was what?

847
00:50:38,920 --> 00:50:44,960
Speaker 1: What was he like? Um, honestly on set, like Drake

848
00:50:45,000 --> 00:50:47,960
Speaker 1: will just calm and then admired to work and I'm

849
00:50:48,000 --> 00:50:52,000
Speaker 1: just working, busy and we don't already see anything. No,

850
00:50:52,120 --> 00:50:54,360
Speaker 1: he's just doing his thing, like because everybody did is

851
00:50:54,400 --> 00:50:57,960
Speaker 1: like we've worked on well maybe they've worked on multiple

852
00:50:58,000 --> 00:51:00,359
Speaker 1: dricks where like that was like my second one the point,

853
00:51:00,360 --> 00:51:02,439
Speaker 1: but like you're just working and you're not gonna paying

854
00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:05,520
Speaker 1: attention to the like you're not paying attention to him.

855
00:51:05,560 --> 00:51:08,800
Speaker 1: But like you're expected to be professional in those settings,

856
00:51:08,880 --> 00:51:12,279
Speaker 1: right you like finding out right there exactly? I just

857
00:51:12,280 --> 00:51:14,400
Speaker 1: could not because I had something to do and there

858
00:51:14,440 --> 00:51:17,960
Speaker 1: was a deadline. So the person that got me stop

859
00:51:18,280 --> 00:51:21,120
Speaker 1: was working with Kendrick with mar Like being in the

860
00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:24,520
Speaker 1: room with Kendrick, like his presence was so calming, like

861
00:51:24,640 --> 00:51:27,040
Speaker 1: it was so beautiful. Just to be the same I

862
00:51:27,040 --> 00:51:29,839
Speaker 1: would have been in there Like that is so unprofessional.

863
00:51:29,880 --> 00:51:35,400
Speaker 1: Why it's tam bam sucking Drakes dick over there? Stupid stupid,

864
00:51:35,440 --> 00:51:37,799
Speaker 1: you know the bodies that the bodies that were in

865
00:51:37,880 --> 00:51:41,120
Speaker 1: that music video. I'm just saying, where did you guys

866
00:51:41,160 --> 00:51:45,080
Speaker 1: come from? This? Beautiful girls everywhere? I a should have

867
00:51:45,080 --> 00:51:51,600
Speaker 1: been in that marriage video. Yeah, man, let's actually go

868
00:51:51,680 --> 00:51:53,479
Speaker 1: to commercial and then when we come back, we're gonna

869
00:51:53,520 --> 00:51:57,799
Speaker 1: get into Zoba's dumb bitch story. We'll be right back

870
00:51:59,120 --> 00:52:03,799
Speaker 1: stumbish story because we've all been a dumb bit. At

871
00:52:03,840 --> 00:52:10,200
Speaker 1: least it was twice my dumb story. It was when

872
00:52:10,239 --> 00:52:14,440
Speaker 1: I was in university and my I think my fourth yeaters.

873
00:52:14,440 --> 00:52:16,160
Speaker 1: This guy was talking to and I really liked him

874
00:52:16,200 --> 00:52:19,359
Speaker 1: for whatever reason, and yeah, like I was like, oh,

875
00:52:19,400 --> 00:52:22,479
Speaker 1: do you want to go out sometime? And he said yes,

876
00:52:22,640 --> 00:52:25,920
Speaker 1: he said yes, that's like I asked. Anyways, So we

877
00:52:25,960 --> 00:52:28,279
Speaker 1: went to this restaurant we ate. This was I was

878
00:52:28,320 --> 00:52:32,719
Speaker 1: like eight seen and the bill came and the bill

879
00:52:32,840 --> 00:52:35,400
Speaker 1: was I think it was like a hundred and almost

880
00:52:35,400 --> 00:52:37,799
Speaker 1: two hundred dollars and I had seven hundred and fifty

881
00:52:37,880 --> 00:52:41,719
Speaker 1: dollars and my savings accounts. And then I paid the

882
00:52:41,800 --> 00:52:44,640
Speaker 1: bill because he was like, you invited me out, so

883
00:52:44,719 --> 00:52:46,600
Speaker 1: you should pay for you. And this guy was like

884
00:52:46,680 --> 00:52:49,640
Speaker 1: at least seven years older than me, and I was confused.

885
00:52:49,680 --> 00:52:52,160
Speaker 1: I'm like, why am I paying taking care of you?

886
00:52:52,320 --> 00:52:54,160
Speaker 1: And he was like, yeah, you invited me. That's how

887
00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:56,200
Speaker 1: it worked. Me invite someone out one date, then you

888
00:52:56,239 --> 00:52:59,440
Speaker 1: paid the bill and I'm like, yeah, my clown makeup

889
00:52:59,600 --> 00:53:02,720
Speaker 1: and myself and my service account. I transferred the money.

890
00:53:02,760 --> 00:53:05,919
Speaker 1: I paid for the things, and I'm like I went home. Yeah,

891
00:53:05,960 --> 00:53:11,920
Speaker 1: that's my domber story. Yeah, that's when I would be like, okay,

892
00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:13,760
Speaker 1: I paid for a home. Let me go use the bathroom,

893
00:53:13,800 --> 00:53:19,239
Speaker 1: real quick about it. I saw him aga after that.

894
00:53:19,560 --> 00:53:22,640
Speaker 1: I saw him aging after that. I mean, he is right,

895
00:53:22,680 --> 00:53:25,880
Speaker 1: if you invite somebody on a date, you are entitled

896
00:53:25,920 --> 00:53:30,040
Speaker 1: to pay. But when I asked go ahead, I mean

897
00:53:30,400 --> 00:53:33,080
Speaker 1: you are technically when you ask somebody. But I when

898
00:53:33,120 --> 00:53:35,160
Speaker 1: I I say would you like to take me to

899
00:53:35,239 --> 00:53:37,759
Speaker 1: this place? I don't ask them do you want to?

900
00:53:37,800 --> 00:53:39,600
Speaker 1: Do you want to go to the movies? I'd be like,

901
00:53:39,840 --> 00:53:42,880
Speaker 1: do you want to take me to the movies on Thursday? Yeah?

902
00:53:43,719 --> 00:53:47,439
Speaker 1: So you know who's paying words back? Do you want

903
00:53:47,440 --> 00:53:55,400
Speaker 1: to take me? Right? That's almost this is just stressed.

904
00:53:55,520 --> 00:53:57,480
Speaker 1: That's why I just focused on my work because it's

905
00:53:57,520 --> 00:54:05,560
Speaker 1: like I'm seeing results, like no result, it ain't no result. Yeah.

906
00:54:05,680 --> 00:54:08,799
Speaker 1: So listen. We do have a simple story from one

907
00:54:08,800 --> 00:54:11,640
Speaker 1: of our listeners, Slash. I guess I don't know. He

908
00:54:11,680 --> 00:54:14,480
Speaker 1: calls herself a dumb bitch too, so let's see. Um

909
00:54:14,600 --> 00:54:17,520
Speaker 1: he says, hey, Tam, bam and a j help. I

910
00:54:17,600 --> 00:54:23,120
Speaker 1: need some simple dumb nig advice. My girl is pregnant,

911
00:54:23,360 --> 00:54:25,799
Speaker 1: and it would be all good except for the fact

912
00:54:25,840 --> 00:54:30,280
Speaker 1: that I haven't told my actual girlfriend my girl is pregnant.

913
00:54:30,280 --> 00:54:34,000
Speaker 1: But I have not told my actual girlfriend. Um, I

914
00:54:34,040 --> 00:54:36,760
Speaker 1: already I already know y'all are gonna say, a ship

915
00:54:37,080 --> 00:54:43,360
Speaker 1: is this Diddy? It might be like it's anonymous, it

916
00:54:43,480 --> 00:54:46,839
Speaker 1: might be Diddy? Ya know. Um, I already know y'all

917
00:54:46,840 --> 00:54:49,120
Speaker 1: are gonna say. I ain't shit. Already know that. But

918
00:54:49,200 --> 00:54:52,640
Speaker 1: I love them. Shorty, Shorty, that's pregnant. I met her

919
00:54:52,680 --> 00:54:54,759
Speaker 1: on I G earlier this year, and I took her

920
00:54:54,800 --> 00:54:57,759
Speaker 1: on vacation on my guy's trip. And he puts that

921
00:54:57,800 --> 00:55:02,000
Speaker 1: in quotes, Oh my guys trip to Mexico back in August,

922
00:55:02,160 --> 00:55:06,600
Speaker 1: and now she's pregnant. Um. I've been with my girlfriend

923
00:55:06,640 --> 00:55:08,960
Speaker 1: for about three years, we actually lived together, and she's

924
00:55:09,000 --> 00:55:12,279
Speaker 1: never gotten pregnant. I want my child, so abortion was

925
00:55:12,320 --> 00:55:16,200
Speaker 1: never an option. My other girl always knew about my

926
00:55:16,280 --> 00:55:19,960
Speaker 1: existing relationship, and of course it was all cool until

927
00:55:19,960 --> 00:55:22,719
Speaker 1: she got pregnant. Now she's pressuring me to move to

928
00:55:22,840 --> 00:55:25,320
Speaker 1: d C with her or she's moving to North Carolina.

929
00:55:26,160 --> 00:55:30,000
Speaker 1: I want them boats, I get money and can slash.

930
00:55:30,080 --> 00:55:32,640
Speaker 1: Have been taking care of everyone, But I know my

931
00:55:32,760 --> 00:55:36,239
Speaker 1: girl isn't having that ship when she finds out. How

932
00:55:36,280 --> 00:55:38,600
Speaker 1: the hell am I supposed to tell her all of

933
00:55:38,640 --> 00:55:45,520
Speaker 1: this and have her state is what he needs? Not helpful, nigga,

934
00:55:45,600 --> 00:55:47,600
Speaker 1: she's not gonna stay. You got a baby on the way,

935
00:55:47,640 --> 00:55:50,120
Speaker 1: you might as well take that and either let that

936
00:55:50,239 --> 00:55:52,160
Speaker 1: girl move to d C and stay with your girlfriend.

937
00:55:52,440 --> 00:55:54,080
Speaker 1: But I mean, once you find out you got a baby,

938
00:55:54,080 --> 00:55:56,600
Speaker 1: she's probably gonna leave you alone. And she don't have

939
00:55:56,640 --> 00:56:00,160
Speaker 1: a kid. That's hurtful unless you how much money do

940
00:56:00,200 --> 00:56:02,799
Speaker 1: you have, sir, because that that really is gonna make

941
00:56:02,800 --> 00:56:08,000
Speaker 1: the difference. If you can buy her a really big

942
00:56:08,040 --> 00:56:13,480
Speaker 1: house in a new car, maybe she'll stay. But what

943
00:56:13,520 --> 00:56:18,359
Speaker 1: are you gonna do with the girl that's pregnant. I mean,

944
00:56:18,440 --> 00:56:20,640
Speaker 1: she's oh, she wants him to come be with him,

945
00:56:20,719 --> 00:56:23,680
Speaker 1: she wants what are you saying is she wants him

946
00:56:23,760 --> 00:56:27,120
Speaker 1: to move to where she is to DC. She's gonna

947
00:56:27,120 --> 00:56:31,560
Speaker 1: be moving to where he's at. So it's like, oh,

948
00:56:31,600 --> 00:56:36,239
Speaker 1: he lives he's in North Carolina, she lives in DC. Boy,

949
00:56:36,280 --> 00:56:43,600
Speaker 1: you're about to be funked up by here. Please tell

950
00:56:43,680 --> 00:56:45,680
Speaker 1: us what because you're about to have a whole ship

951
00:56:45,760 --> 00:56:49,240
Speaker 1: storm in is. Men don't realize they can have everything

952
00:56:49,280 --> 00:56:51,600
Speaker 1: they wanted to. Just be honest, Why don't even tell you?

953
00:56:51,680 --> 00:56:55,880
Speaker 1: Like you should have just maybe told your girlfriend before

954
00:56:55,920 --> 00:56:58,080
Speaker 1: you got a whole another girl friend, like this is

955
00:56:58,120 --> 00:57:01,240
Speaker 1: some ship you had going on, so she could leave beforehand.

956
00:57:02,239 --> 00:57:04,960
Speaker 1: Now now you gotta add some extra shift onto this

957
00:57:05,040 --> 00:57:07,839
Speaker 1: and you expect her to stay. Would you stay if

958
00:57:07,880 --> 00:57:10,000
Speaker 1: she had a baby for somebody else and she was

959
00:57:10,080 --> 00:57:12,240
Speaker 1: right in your house right now, I'm pregnant for another nigga,

960
00:57:13,440 --> 00:57:18,040
Speaker 1: imagine that. Why are we as women expected to give

961
00:57:18,160 --> 00:57:21,240
Speaker 1: way more grace than these niggas will ever allow for

962
00:57:22,240 --> 00:57:26,320
Speaker 1: I'm confused, So I don't know my my advice to

963
00:57:26,400 --> 00:57:27,920
Speaker 1: him and just count on me a bit leaving. I

964
00:57:27,960 --> 00:57:32,040
Speaker 1: don't think she's staying, but tell her, tell her like soon,

965
00:57:32,280 --> 00:57:35,080
Speaker 1: So August to December, this person gotta be like four

966
00:57:35,080 --> 00:57:40,080
Speaker 1: months pregnant. Sod, you lie about your trip, You didn't

967
00:57:40,080 --> 00:57:42,720
Speaker 1: go with no guys. You went with whoever you went

968
00:57:42,760 --> 00:57:47,080
Speaker 1: with her ain't got her pregnant? A random bit you

969
00:57:47,080 --> 00:57:54,880
Speaker 1: off the internet. M did he it's gold Tell Kaisha,

970
00:57:56,160 --> 00:57:58,360
Speaker 1: Kaisha no. Now at this point, by the time we

971
00:57:58,440 --> 00:58:01,560
Speaker 1: recorded this, Karesha knows, So just tell us what happened

972
00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:03,520
Speaker 1: this place for the pictures, like you always been doing it?

973
00:58:03,720 --> 00:58:08,120
Speaker 1: He so, But you'll have no advice car for a listener.

974
00:58:09,480 --> 00:58:11,560
Speaker 1: I just kind of guess it was the fact that

975
00:58:11,880 --> 00:58:14,560
Speaker 1: there's a whole girlfriend and you're having raw sex and

976
00:58:14,640 --> 00:58:16,600
Speaker 1: then you come back and have sex and your girlfriend

977
00:58:16,640 --> 00:58:21,000
Speaker 1: Like I mean, I don't have any advice for him.

978
00:58:21,080 --> 00:58:22,680
Speaker 1: He doesn't want to my two wives. I don't think

979
00:58:22,720 --> 00:58:26,000
Speaker 1: the other girl is gonna stay unless she is into

980
00:58:26,080 --> 00:58:30,200
Speaker 1: like polygamy. I don't have any advice for him. He

981
00:58:30,240 --> 00:58:32,000
Speaker 1: knows what he wants to do. He knows if he

982
00:58:32,040 --> 00:58:35,000
Speaker 1: wants her to be with him, the pregnant girl. He

983
00:58:35,040 --> 00:58:36,520
Speaker 1: knows if he wants her to come stay with him.

984
00:58:36,560 --> 00:58:38,800
Speaker 1: He knows that. So is he willing to lose the

985
00:58:38,840 --> 00:58:40,919
Speaker 1: other girl? Because why did he have the other girl?

986
00:58:42,120 --> 00:58:45,720
Speaker 1: He said he wants them both. He can't have them boted,

987
00:58:45,800 --> 00:58:47,760
Speaker 1: where are you like? Can you have them both have

988
00:58:47,800 --> 00:58:50,720
Speaker 1: a conversation. I mean he's rich enough, he might be

989
00:58:50,760 --> 00:58:53,560
Speaker 1: able to she might consider if he got enough money.

990
00:58:53,720 --> 00:58:57,240
Speaker 1: So like that's the main question for real, right, how rich?

991
00:58:57,560 --> 00:58:59,080
Speaker 1: He said, he can take care of both of him,

992
00:58:59,120 --> 00:59:02,280
Speaker 1: But how well can you take care of Yeah, maybe

993
00:59:02,640 --> 00:59:06,320
Speaker 1: maybe his main girlfriend is fine actually with him having

994
00:59:06,360 --> 00:59:08,440
Speaker 1: another print now. I think if she was fine with it,

995
00:59:08,480 --> 00:59:11,160
Speaker 1: that he wouldn't have to hight that r he said.

996
00:59:11,240 --> 00:59:13,280
Speaker 1: He said she ain't going for it. He said he

997
00:59:13,280 --> 00:59:16,800
Speaker 1: already knew she ain't going for it, right, and he

998
00:59:16,880 --> 00:59:22,080
Speaker 1: won our advice. Nigga, we're just gonna dog, I don't know,

999
00:59:23,200 --> 00:59:25,080
Speaker 1: and if we fired up all were gonna try to

1000
00:59:25,080 --> 00:59:31,440
Speaker 1: get you a bit your hair. Both both of them

1001
00:59:31,880 --> 00:59:34,000
Speaker 1: you know that, you know, the pregnant one on the side,

1002
00:59:34,040 --> 00:59:37,080
Speaker 1: like she probably the down as did she ain't coming,

1003
00:59:37,520 --> 00:59:40,600
Speaker 1: She's gonna try to as good as possible. Should just

1004
00:59:40,640 --> 00:59:42,760
Speaker 1: be with her then he can be with her then.

1005
00:59:43,400 --> 00:59:47,720
Speaker 1: But he wants the same thing exactly, do the same

1006
00:59:47,760 --> 00:59:53,760
Speaker 1: thing to her child. Yeah, this future, This is why

1007
00:59:53,840 --> 00:59:58,480
Speaker 1: I promote condoms. Like just think you use condoms, guys

1008
01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:04,000
Speaker 1: age everything, call them sex your mind, Like wants you

1009
01:00:04,120 --> 01:00:06,760
Speaker 1: just use condoms like you don't have to worry about

1010
01:00:06,760 --> 01:00:12,600
Speaker 1: all of this, Like you're like, yeah, by next that's true,

1011
01:00:12,720 --> 01:00:18,200
Speaker 1: But it feels the same to me, I mean not

1012
01:00:18,360 --> 01:00:21,080
Speaker 1: exactly the same, but good enough, you know. I feel

1013
01:00:21,080 --> 01:00:23,360
Speaker 1: like call them add like an extra sensation to like

1014
01:00:23,400 --> 01:00:26,400
Speaker 1: the extra like rubber like robes and it feels nice. No,

1015
01:00:26,760 --> 01:00:28,560
Speaker 1: what ain are you using what they got in Canada?

1016
01:00:28,600 --> 01:00:32,840
Speaker 1: Mail us time of them because they like you're talking

1017
01:00:35,120 --> 01:00:39,440
Speaker 1: like this kid wants like it feels nice when that's

1018
01:00:39,440 --> 01:00:45,120
Speaker 1: the ones I used it. Yeah, it would be pretty good.

1019
01:00:45,600 --> 01:00:48,000
Speaker 1: I don't even best is peace of mind, Like I

1020
01:00:48,040 --> 01:00:52,240
Speaker 1: don't have to worry about right, I mean you still

1021
01:00:52,280 --> 01:00:58,240
Speaker 1: gotta worry, but not as much as you would wrong, Yeah,

1022
01:00:58,240 --> 01:01:00,840
Speaker 1: I mean ship you can still get with a right.

1023
01:01:01,720 --> 01:01:06,160
Speaker 1: You can't condom right? And yeah, her pose would like

1024
01:01:06,240 --> 01:01:10,000
Speaker 1: kissing people from I think, yeah, and then there's another

1025
01:01:10,080 --> 01:01:14,520
Speaker 1: disease to like, what's that thing? My story lies? Oh crap,

1026
01:01:23,440 --> 01:01:28,840
Speaker 1: c yeah, I can't remember the name like things, but

1027
01:01:29,480 --> 01:01:34,400
Speaker 1: and then I wants the other std feelings period you

1028
01:01:34,480 --> 01:01:39,880
Speaker 1: transmitted transmitted demons? Yes, like we condoms, you don't have

1029
01:01:39,920 --> 01:01:42,720
Speaker 1: to worry about it. I mean you can't do feelings

1030
01:01:42,760 --> 01:01:46,680
Speaker 1: with condoms. I don't when I tell you feel no

1031
01:01:46,800 --> 01:01:50,600
Speaker 1: condom dick I needed, but like if you have like

1032
01:01:50,640 --> 01:01:53,880
Speaker 1: no condom sex, like I just feel Sometimes I find

1033
01:01:53,880 --> 01:01:55,960
Speaker 1: myself being obsessive, like where are you? Who are you

1034
01:01:56,000 --> 01:01:59,400
Speaker 1: talking to? Period? Yeah? You my boyfriend and you hit

1035
01:01:59,400 --> 01:02:04,840
Speaker 1: this person, You're definitely like my future husband. Where have

1036
01:02:05,000 --> 01:02:11,720
Speaker 1: you been? And where are you going to? I have

1037
01:02:11,840 --> 01:02:20,520
Speaker 1: the same attarrassment raw as condom sex. Not all the time,

1038
01:02:20,600 --> 01:02:23,640
Speaker 1: but most of the time. It's been some sex that

1039
01:02:23,680 --> 01:02:25,920
Speaker 1: I've had with condoms where I was like thank you,

1040
01:02:27,720 --> 01:02:33,400
Speaker 1: But thenent of times I'm like, good morning, did you

1041
01:02:33,440 --> 01:02:41,800
Speaker 1: have breakfast? Ready to buy? Yeah? What's I shoe? You are?

1042
01:02:41,080 --> 01:02:44,640
Speaker 1: But you drinking? Have you had raw sex where it's

1043
01:02:44,720 --> 01:02:49,000
Speaker 1: like thank you by I've never had thank you by

1044
01:02:49,120 --> 01:02:55,200
Speaker 1: raw dick. No, But that's because by the time we

1045
01:02:55,240 --> 01:02:59,280
Speaker 1: get to raw dick, I'm already like all in you know,

1046
01:02:59,600 --> 01:03:02,320
Speaker 1: yeah that me you have had the rodic the first time?

1047
01:03:03,400 --> 01:03:09,320
Speaker 1: That's that would if you like thank you bye righte

1048
01:03:10,160 --> 01:03:13,960
Speaker 1: at the gate And I'm scared of all zoba. Tell

1049
01:03:14,040 --> 01:03:16,360
Speaker 1: everybody where they can find you, where they can get

1050
01:03:16,360 --> 01:03:21,960
Speaker 1: address all your infro. Find me at www dot zoba

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