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Speaker 1: EJ on Reddit, Steve writes, my husband and I have

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Speaker 1: been happily married. I'm sorry EJ on Reddit rites. My

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Speaker 1: wife and I have been happily married for nearly a

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Speaker 1: decade and we have two kids. We met in college,

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Speaker 1: but after we got married, we moved back to my hometown.

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Speaker 1: She made new friends here. However, I haven't told her this,

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Speaker 1: but before I met her, I had a history with

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Speaker 1: most of them. She knows I dated one or two,

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Speaker 1: but she has no idea that I slept with nearly

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Speaker 1: all of them. It was all years before we met,

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Speaker 1: and I've never cheated, but I still feel badly and

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Speaker 1: kind of guilty. I keep wondering if I should tell

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Speaker 1: her before she finds out on her own, or that

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Speaker 1: if that would really hurt her for no reason. If

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Speaker 1: she ever finds out, it'll feel like I was keeping

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Speaker 1: something from her. So the question is from EJ. Should

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Speaker 1: I tell her the whole truth or just let it

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Speaker 1: be since it's all in the past.

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Speaker 2: No, No, neitherlone e J. Don't you don't you like

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Speaker 2: that match and start that five? Leave it alone? If

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Speaker 2: it comes up, you just say, I don't even remember.

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Speaker 2: What are you talking about now? Now? The one you

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Speaker 2: said she knows about it was one or two and

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Speaker 2: she'd know about. Leave it at that, don't don't bring

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Speaker 2: no more. And I know I did it all of them.

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Speaker 2: Shut your damn mind.

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Speaker 1: I did.

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Speaker 2: So, and one of them go. You know, me and

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Speaker 2: him used to date, really and then I dated in too. Girl,

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Speaker 2: they're gonna be out talking, Deny, how the hell I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna date all of them?

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Speaker 1: I mean at appalled.

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Speaker 2: How in the world could I date all of them

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Speaker 2: in this small ass town and they wouldn't know it? Man,

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Speaker 2: that don't need to come out. I don't know what's up.

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Speaker 2: Maybe they probably jealous, or the fact that I went

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Speaker 2: on and got myself together and got married and marriage

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Speaker 2: such a fine woman that they all trying to say

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Speaker 2: it could have been me, it could have been me. No,

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Speaker 2: I couldn't have been there, because it's you. You are

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Speaker 2: the one and only.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I like it lying bigger than fine women. We

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Speaker 1: have time for another one. Steve. This is from d

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Speaker 1: on Steve Harvey FM. He says, I'm a white man.

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Speaker 1: So when I was out with my girlfriend the other

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Speaker 1: day and we saw this gorgeous black woman, I couldn't

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Speaker 1: help but mention how attractive I found this woman. My

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Speaker 1: girlfriend admitted that the woman was hot, but then said

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Speaker 1: I could never sleep with anyone who isn't white. I

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Speaker 1: followed up by saying.

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Speaker 2: Whoa Whoaly, well, whoa whoa whoa? Okay, I must have

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Speaker 2: missed something. Start over for me, go back.

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Speaker 1: All right, This is d on Steve Harvey FM. He says,

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Speaker 1: I'm a white man. So when I was out with

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Speaker 1: my girlfriend the other day we saw this gorgeous black woman,

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Speaker 1: I couldn't help but mention how attractive I found this woman.

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Speaker 1: My girlfriend admitted that the woman was hot, but then

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Speaker 1: said I could never sleep with anyone who isn't white.

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Speaker 1: I followed up by saying, surely there are non white

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Speaker 1: people that she thinks are attractive, but she said she

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Speaker 1: just isn't attracted to anyone who isn't white. So the

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Speaker 1: question is, is my girlfriend a racist? So you got everything,

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Speaker 1: You got the whole story, because yeah, yeah, she explained

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Speaker 1: it to you.

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Speaker 2: I can't see myself with nobody if they not white.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Coober, so she's a racist, you're saying, that's the

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Speaker 1: question he wants to know?

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Speaker 2: Shay.

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Speaker 1: He says he's considering breaking up with her over those comments, and.

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Speaker 2: You sure, dog, Look that's what it is, y'all gonna

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Speaker 2: have no racist ass kids and everything.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's cycle.

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Speaker 2: But in it some black people that don't want to

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Speaker 2: be with nobody other than black people's relationships.

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Speaker 1: Relationship, Yes, yes, that's me.

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Speaker 2: Yes, three wives, three black women. I ain't even considered

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Speaker 2: nobody else. It's not it's it ain't an option. But

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Speaker 2: I have a special reason though. It ain't because I'm racist.

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Speaker 2: It's because my ass is too black.

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Speaker 1: And you did it.

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Speaker 2: It's, you know, stuff I be wanting that he did.

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Speaker 2: You know, can't nobody in your family make no crackling

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Speaker 2: corn brig you know yo over here?

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Speaker 1: You know, bringing punking pie or Thanksgiving dinner. It's just

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Speaker 1: some things that I just can't do. And then they

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Speaker 1: got nothing to do with races, mostly food choices. What

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Speaker 1: is this coming up in twenty minutes after the hours.

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Speaker 2: You don't know how to you out here grilling, You

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Speaker 2: don't know how to barbecue. That's why I came there.

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Speaker 1: Nobody. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show