Speaker 1: Looking Jules. Second. If you're a fan of the second
Speaker 1: eight updates, you know I always ask this question in
Speaker 1: the first part of the second ad up date. I
Speaker 1: always say, is there anything that you can think of
Speaker 1: that went wrong on the date. Most people can't think
Speaker 1: of anything. But the guy who email us to day
Speaker 1: knows exactly what went wrong on his first date. He
Speaker 1: hit on the waitress while he was out with a
Speaker 1: girl that he was out. Yeah. Kind of a big
Speaker 1: mistake there, Tommy, how you doing? It wasn't like that,
Speaker 1: It wasn't like that. It was just she was pretty.
Speaker 1: She was very pretty eyes. Yeah. In other words, I
Speaker 1: think it's good to let people know that they look
Speaker 1: good and let makes me feel good. In other words,
Speaker 1: you hit on the waitress. I mean, no matter what,
Speaker 1: if I'm out with someone in the nick like compliment
Speaker 1: on her hair maybe, but to go you have nice eyes. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I did compliment her on her hair too. Oh. But
Speaker 1: that's the reason she's not calling you back, right because
Speaker 1: you hit on the waitress. I feel terrible if that's
Speaker 1: what she thinks I was doing. And what did she
Speaker 1: do after you made that comment? Um, she was looking
Speaker 1: at the waitress. Did her tone change? I mean, I
Speaker 1: don't mean physically did she react to it, but it
Speaker 1: did the tone of the date change. I don't think
Speaker 1: so it didn't seem that way. Are you a guy
Speaker 1: who likes to give a lot of compliments? Had you
Speaker 1: complimented her a lot that evening? Prior to the waitress incident?
Speaker 1: I did give her many compliments. I'm sure maybe too many.
Speaker 1: I got to make people work for it a little
Speaker 1: bit better. Tommy third date, at least, where was it
Speaker 1: that you guys met? We met on an online dating site? Okay,
Speaker 1: we talked for her a couple of weeks, and I
Speaker 1: finally got a new job and I wanted to celebrate,
Speaker 1: so I asked her to come out with me, and
Speaker 1: she said yes. Had you guys met at the restaurant? Yeah,
Speaker 1: we met and she blew me away when I when
Speaker 1: I saw her walked through the door, she was amazing.
Speaker 1: She actually looked like the picture online. She looked better
Speaker 1: than her. Having done a lot of online dating, I
Speaker 1: can tell you that's not usually actually rare, it's very rare.
Speaker 1: It's like you went out with Bigfoot. Yeah. I think
Speaker 1: I had gotten lucky. So is that all you guys
Speaker 1: did on your day. Just go to the restaurant. Oh,
Speaker 1: that was it. We just had the restaurant, did a
Speaker 1: little walk through town. We really did have a great time.
Speaker 1: I think nice. How did the date end? After the dinner?
Speaker 1: I paid to the date and I was walking it
Speaker 1: to her car, having a good time, laughing. I move
Speaker 1: in for a kiss and she gives me her cheek.
Speaker 1: So she actually shut you down for a kiss. I
Speaker 1: think so, but we had a good time. I'm not sure.
Speaker 1: So you're not positive that she gave you the cheek
Speaker 1: on purpose? Or do you think it was an accident
Speaker 1: that you kissed her on the cheek? And it could
Speaker 1: have been an accident. Who knows. I could have been
Speaker 1: hitting the way a lot of mixed singles. Did you
Speaker 1: guys make plans to go out again? I was hoping
Speaker 1: that that was what was going to happen. I told
Speaker 1: her that I would contact her, and I tried a
Speaker 1: couple of times since her text give her a call
Speaker 1: and her back, and you'd be totally transparent with us
Speaker 1: about the waitress situation. You didn't like grab her number
Speaker 1: on the side at some point. No, come on, no,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't do that. It was just an innocent you
Speaker 1: have nice eyes comment. Yeah, so this whole thing boils
Speaker 1: down to you saying that the waitress was pretty. That's it.
Speaker 1: That's the only thing I can think of, because everything
Speaker 1: was great up to that point. So how long has
Speaker 1: it been since the last day you tried to contact her?
Speaker 1: About a week? All right, So that's why I emailed
Speaker 1: you guys, and I figured maybe you guys can help
Speaker 1: me out. Yeah for sure. All right, we'll play a song, comeback,
Speaker 1: call her and get your second date update. Okay, that's
Speaker 1: good looking jubil In the morning date Tommy is on
Speaker 1: the phone with us, and today he wants us to
Speaker 1: call a girl named Laura. They met online went out
Speaker 1: for dinner. The thing that he thinks went wrong during
Speaker 1: dinner is that he complimented the waitress, and that's when
Speaker 1: he thinks her mood kind of changed about him, which
Speaker 1: is understandable. He admitted that he complimented her hair and eyes. Tommy,
Speaker 1: you did going to anything else any more detail with
Speaker 1: her that you're not telling us, did you? Like? You
Speaker 1: didn't go like, hey, nice ass, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: She was walking away or anything? Oh, definitely not. Definitely,
Speaker 1: don't do that. I'm not an idiot. So it's just
Speaker 1: hair and eyes. That's all you complimented on the waitress
Speaker 1: in front of your date, and that's where you think
Speaker 1: could have gone wrong. Yeah, I think it could have
Speaker 1: been anything else. I didn't ask. Was a waitress uncomfortable
Speaker 1: by your compliments? No? She smiled, She didn't. She didn't
Speaker 1: seem uncomfortable at all. No, okay, so everything seemed normal.
Speaker 1: Well I'm gonna dollar phonnel right now, see if we
Speaker 1: can get Laura on the phone and find out if
Speaker 1: you being attracted to the waitress is what ruined your date.
Speaker 1: I wasn't hitting on her, who was just an innocent comptence.
Speaker 1: Where all right, I'm a dollar phonnel right now. Hello.
Speaker 1: Can I speak to Laura? Please? Yeah? This is she.
Speaker 1: Hey Laura, how are you? This is Jewel from Brook
Speaker 1: and Jewel in the Morning. Um, are you guys calling
Speaker 1: me from the radio? Yes? We are, Laura. Hey, any
Speaker 1: idea why I'm calling you? No? Did I know? Well?
Speaker 1: We do a segment on a show called the Second
Speaker 1: Date Update. It's basically, if you go out on a
Speaker 1: date with somebody and ended up blowing them off, they
Speaker 1: email us to get you on the phone. And ask why,
Speaker 1: so you recently went on a date with somebody who
Speaker 1: listens to our show. Oh okay, his name is Tommy,
Speaker 1: and Tommy told us a little bit about your date.
Speaker 1: But he also told us that you're not calling him back,
Speaker 1: and he was wondering if he did something wrong. Um,
Speaker 1: he's a really nice guy. Um yeah, bless her heart,
Speaker 1: but he's a nice guy. But what, Laura, I just
Speaker 1: can't take him seriously. You can't take him seriously? Why
Speaker 1: is that? It just the date just didn't go as
Speaker 1: well as he may have thought it did, Laura. He
Speaker 1: told us about your date. He said that he complimented
Speaker 1: the waitress during your date, and he thinks that might
Speaker 1: have turned you off. Maybe it felt like he was
Speaker 1: actually hitting on somebody else while he was out on
Speaker 1: a date with you. Yeah, yeah, that was part of it.
Speaker 1: That was so that did bother you? Okay, this kind
Speaker 1: of made me feel like maybe he was like looking
Speaker 1: to date somebody else while he was on a date
Speaker 1: with me. Is that what you mean by you couldn't
Speaker 1: take him seriously? Um? No, he just maybe he's just
Speaker 1: a really nervous persons. Like it started off and he
Speaker 1: like ordered wine for us which was a nice gesture.
Speaker 1: And he was trying to order peanut grigio, but he
Speaker 1: like ordered it peanut Gregario or I'll have the peanut noir. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he was he trying to be funny. I mean, was
Speaker 1: that just a joke that didn't go over very well? No, No,
Speaker 1: he just ordered it and I tried to hold in
Speaker 1: my lap. So he didn't know he was being funny,
Speaker 1: but he was being very funny to you. I don't know,
Speaker 1: I don't want to be like snobby or anything, but
Speaker 1: I think he might be like outside his realm of
Speaker 1: culture or something like, am I going to a restaurant?
Speaker 1: I mean it's pinot griggio? So was that it though?
Speaker 1: I mean the mispronunciation of pinot grigio and the hitting
Speaker 1: of the waitressing on a date probably not going to
Speaker 1: get a second date. So are you saying that he's
Speaker 1: a little more like, hey, supersize that, then go out
Speaker 1: to dinner in order bottle of wine kind of guy
Speaker 1: and you're into a classier type of dude. Yeah, because
Speaker 1: it's like our conversation was interesting. You know, he'd just
Speaker 1: gotten a new job and he was talking about that,
Speaker 1: and but he said his first adult paycheck was going
Speaker 1: to go for him to get cryogenically frozen. What you
Speaker 1: know you tell me about that. Everything you just said
Speaker 1: right there is really strange to me. I'm gonna go
Speaker 1: ahead and pick that apart his first adult paycheck. He
Speaker 1: said that, Yeah, he's an adult. Right When I talked
Speaker 1: to him, he sounded like an older guy. Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Did he explain that has he been living at home?
Speaker 1: Has he been working I don't know, a part time job.
Speaker 1: I didn't get a chance to ask him because he
Speaker 1: was so excited about what he was putting it towards
Speaker 1: and went into the whole thing about technology and he's
Speaker 1: going to put his money into this so that he
Speaker 1: can be frozen and then one day they'll be able
Speaker 1: to put him back. I support him on that, Laura,
Speaker 1: I actually think that's kind of an awesome idea, the cragetically,
Speaker 1: But I can see how that would sound a little
Speaker 1: weird to you. It's totally weird. Yeah, it was just
Speaker 1: too weird for me. I just I didn't want to
Speaker 1: have a second date. Okay, Well, at least don't you
Speaker 1: wish that Tommy would know how to pronounce the name
Speaker 1: of the wine that he's trying to order while he
Speaker 1: was on your date. Why don't you tell him how
Speaker 1: to pronounce it because he's actually on the phone listening, Laura,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, are you doing I'm sorry. I I
Speaker 1: didn't obviously know you were listening. Um well I was,
Speaker 1: um and uh. And as far as being cryogenically frozen,
Speaker 1: it is a proven pathway to eternal life, Tommy, I'm
Speaker 1: with you on the cryogenically man. I just want to
Speaker 1: let you know behind you on that that's an exciting stuff. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's just it's just weird for me. I mean, well,
Speaker 1: you know, science is weird to stupid people sometimes. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, Tommy, No, I wasn't calling you stupid. I
Speaker 1: was just saying that that's something that happens. See, this
Speaker 1: is exactly it. You don't know how to talk to
Speaker 1: people like you don't even realize it. Like you just
Speaker 1: called me stupid and you have no idea. I didn't
Speaker 1: call you stupid. I said the idea of what you
Speaker 1: think is stupid. Okay, that might be in your brain,
Speaker 1: like that might be what you're thinking, but that's not
Speaker 1: what you're saying. So you have to my brain. You're
Speaker 1: not in mind people, my brain if you were in
Speaker 1: my brain, you would know that cryogenically freezing yourself is
Speaker 1: a viable way. I think maybe you should freeze yourself
Speaker 1: right now, Tommy. You just maybe I won't and then
Speaker 1: I'll come damns on your grave, Tommy. You are you
Speaker 1: just feeling a little hurt, Tommy that she said that
Speaker 1: you weren't the brightest guy and that you're kind of
Speaker 1: a little hurt? Okay, a little hurt. Are you attacking her?
Speaker 1: And you know that you are? I'm not knowingly attacking her? No,
Speaker 1: it sounds like you are. Wow. No, that was pretty knowing. No,
Speaker 1: I didn't know. No, that's I didn't know. I was
Speaker 1: hitting on the waitress. Priorgenically freezing yourself as smart, and
Speaker 1: I didn't realize that you were too dumb to get that. Wow,
Speaker 1: you're calling me dumb. You don't even know how to
Speaker 1: say Pinot Greeno, not Gregaria. I know how to say it.
Speaker 1: I could say right now if I wanted to, let's
Speaker 1: hear it, Tommy, how do you say the name of
Speaker 1: that one? Yeah? No, I don't have to prove you well.
Speaker 1: I always do this at the end of the second dates,
Speaker 1: I think I know the answer. I'm both of your
Speaker 1: part now, But Laura, would you like to go out
Speaker 1: with Tommy again? I will pay for a second date
Speaker 1: for you. Guys answer for her. No, oh no, no,
Speaker 1: that's the first thing you've gotten. Right. Well, Laura, thank
Speaker 1: you for your time. I appreciate it. Thanks for being
Speaker 1: honest with us about why you didn't want to go
Speaker 1: out with Tommy again. Yeah, no, no problem. Have a
Speaker 1: good one you too, Tommy. Yeah, don't take this the
Speaker 1: wrong way, but you do sound a little condescending talking
Speaker 1: to her. No, I'm not condescending. I'm just smarter than her. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, Well hit me up about the crowd jenic
Speaker 1: stuff because I'm actually really interested in that. Okay, where
Speaker 1: to go and what to do? How to do? What
Speaker 1: you mean? Yeah? Well, um, there's a couple of places
Speaker 1: online that do cryogenically. I don't actually want to know. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you don't email me. Yeah, that's broken jewel in the morning.