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Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network.

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Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion. Who talks.

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Speaker 2: What's up?

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Speaker 1: Y'all's your girl? A j holiday? What's up? Tam Damn?

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Speaker 2: Hey, y'all, it's Tan band. I love y'all so much.

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Speaker 2: How you doing? Hey day?

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Speaker 1: Why are you doing this? You want to fight?

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Speaker 2: No, I'm just in a good mood. I'm fresh off

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Speaker 2: of vacation.

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Speaker 1: Hey, what was that looking like?

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Speaker 2: Girl? I cut up so bad on them people boat.

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Speaker 2: I went on a cruise, and I'm not a cruise

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Speaker 2: girl because I always end up sick. But this time

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Speaker 2: I started taking my druma met a day before and

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Speaker 2: I was taking it just twice a day the whole time,

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Speaker 2: and I never got sick. And I just must have

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Speaker 2: drank liquor all day for fold age straight?

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Speaker 1: Did y'all have the top shelf package?

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Speaker 2: And I should have got a pack. I did not

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Speaker 2: get a package, and that was a mistake.

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Speaker 1: So you just on the boat buying liquor.

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Speaker 2: I was. I was swiping other people sell a car.

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Speaker 1: Where the boat left for. I don't really like cruises

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Speaker 1: like that. I only been on a cruise one time.

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Speaker 2: Though I'm not a huge fan of them either, because

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Speaker 2: it just feels even though the ships are huge, they're

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Speaker 2: like a little floating city almost, you just still feel confined.

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Speaker 2: It's like you living in the mall or something.

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Speaker 1: So the one cruise I went on was leaving out

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Speaker 1: of Charleston. Y'all, just imagine how country that was. And

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Speaker 1: it's like everybody from North Carolina, Virginia, South Carolina was

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Speaker 1: on this cruise. I think the Lick Cruises be leaving

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Speaker 1: like from.

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Speaker 2: Miami, and shit, yeah that's where we left.

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Speaker 1: And I have no no balcony, Like we booked it

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Speaker 1: last minute. It was like the hole in the wall,

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Speaker 1: like the hole, like the window in the wall, like

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Speaker 1: the circle. M you gotta have a balcony on.

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Speaker 2: Your cruise, I said.

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Speaker 1: Like I was stuck in a cheap motel on the

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Speaker 1: fucking ocean.

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Speaker 2: Bitch, you gotta have a balcony. I won't go on

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Speaker 2: one if I can if I don't have a balcony,

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Speaker 2: because I gotta have a place on my who smoke it, girl,

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Speaker 2: My axe was selling drugs on the boat.

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Speaker 1: And I mean, like for real, they got a jail

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Speaker 1: on the boat. There's their laws on the ocean.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Them people could do what they want. It's people who

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Speaker 1: have come up missing on them.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, somebody get thrown overboard. Me tell you there's

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Speaker 2: a there's a jail on there.

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Speaker 1: Though.

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Speaker 2: You cut up, they'll put you in jail. They got

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Speaker 2: security and they all arrest you. I know for a fact,

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Speaker 2: not because I got arrested, but I know somebody who did.

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Speaker 2: And they was locked up the whole cruise.

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Speaker 1: That's crazy. This nigga was smoking weed in the cabin.

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Speaker 1: The people came to the door. It was like, mister

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Speaker 1: so and so are you in there? Are you smoking

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Speaker 1: weed in the cabin? And he like got real crunk

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Speaker 1: on them, like real nasty. That's how That's how I

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Speaker 1: knew in our relationship when he would be lying because

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Speaker 1: he got people get real angry. Yeah, like you he

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Speaker 1: got tha crawled on those people. Know damn well, he

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Speaker 1: in the room smoking girl exactly.

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Speaker 2: I was danti. I got a video I'm probably posted

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Speaker 2: on We talked back page on the story. I like,

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Speaker 2: my knees is back good. I don't know if that

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Speaker 2: liquor had them oiled up without was getting to the

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Speaker 2: flow at the party in the whole time in the water.

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Speaker 2: I spent like three hours in the water, like in

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Speaker 2: the water. I've never done that before. It was a pool,

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Speaker 2: a beach club, and it was called the Hideaway Pool Club.

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Speaker 2: And you know, I got the bar in the water.

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Speaker 2: I had a time.

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Speaker 1: That's on the boat or wherever y'all doted.

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Speaker 2: That was in Bahamas or it was like called Cococaine

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Speaker 2: or something like that. It's an island, it's not I

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Speaker 2: don't know if it's not the Bahamas. I think the

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Speaker 2: island is owned by the cruise line. Hmmm, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I might be wrong. But it was good. It wasn't Carnival.

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Speaker 2: We were on Royal correct, oh roy Okay, Yeah, and

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Speaker 2: it was a nice time. We had a good time.

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Speaker 2: Everybody got along, so it's fun.

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Speaker 1: What about daddy My daddy wife, she works for a

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Speaker 1: shipping company and they own like cruises like we can

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Speaker 1: get like family discounted, like luxury cruises, like even like

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Speaker 1: shit in Europe. You just gotta fly, you know, to

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Speaker 1: catch the cruise or whatever. But yeah, I don't never

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Speaker 1: be having nobody who want to really go on a cruise.

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Speaker 1: I asked my boyfriend about it, and the Nigga started

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Speaker 1: sending me like all of these ships turned upside down

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Speaker 1: in the ocean.

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Speaker 2: It is harry the idea, especially when you go out

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Speaker 2: on that balcony at night and all you see is

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Speaker 2: the vast, black, pitch black ocean. It makes you realize

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Speaker 2: how small you are for real.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, Like it wasn't until the end of the

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Speaker 1: cruise I was on it. I realized that, bitch, we

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Speaker 1: could have died. It could have been some real Titanic shit,

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Speaker 1: Like you literally are so helpless in the middle of

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Speaker 1: the oce.

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Speaker 2: And if a storm hit, y'all just rocking, you know. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I met this to this guy. He was a security guard.

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Speaker 2: He was from South Africa. He was in love with

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Speaker 2: me on that boat. First of all, I was having

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Speaker 2: my way or it was some white boys on there.

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Speaker 2: These white boys was kind of fire, y'all. They're trying

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Speaker 2: to get me to getting at Jakuzi with him, but

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Speaker 2: I ain't doing it. I came back with the same

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Speaker 2: amount of pussy I left with. I'm so proud of myself.

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Speaker 2: But he said, if I want to go on another cruise,

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Speaker 2: he'll get it. So if you would to go on

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Speaker 2: the cruise, I'll take you. I gotta go back to

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Speaker 2: the same place because that's the only place he going

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Speaker 2: for the next six months. But if you want to go,

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Speaker 2: we could go.

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Speaker 1: They living on the ship, you know what. I'm old

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Speaker 1: people live on a cruise ship instead of paying rent places.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, he lives on like he works on his boat.

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Speaker 2: It's a six month contract, so he just lived there

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Speaker 2: for six months.

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Speaker 1: Well, he's telling him at security, nigga, Yeah, okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: we can use his employee discount for Royal Caribbean. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: but that was nothing much this weekend. Man, Like my

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Speaker 1: daddy in the hospital, y'all. You know you're getting when

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Speaker 1: your parents started getting sick of shit like that. It's

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Speaker 1: just you know, I was talking to one of my

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Speaker 1: homegirls and you know, I guess sounding regular, and she

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Speaker 1: was like, girl.

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Speaker 2: I know you were scared.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, no, like this is literally a part of life. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And I feel like the

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Speaker 1: first time your parents get real, real sick, you start

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Speaker 1: preparing for stupid shit. Like my daddy definitely gonna be around,

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Speaker 1: but his body's just breaking down. He's just getting older

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Speaker 1: and older older. Yeah, dad just turned seventy five.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, that's he getting up there.

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Speaker 1: Hell yeah, man, But seventy five, like we are not

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Speaker 1: living longer than our elders, like they still outliving us.

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Speaker 1: Seventy five is still a long time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: It's a lot of people, younger people who have been

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Speaker 1: passing and I and our elder still around here kicking

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Speaker 1: it with diabetes and everything else.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just want to avoid that that I don't

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Speaker 2: want to be. I knock a wood because diabetes is

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Speaker 2: just like crazy in our community.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely. I don't realize how how bad it is and

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Speaker 1: like it literally, like it's serious. It's very very seas

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Speaker 1: My daddy's diabetic, So of course that's where it starts,

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Speaker 1: right m hm. But you got we gotta take care

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Speaker 1: of ourselves, man, We gotta eat better as as as

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Speaker 1: young adults. You know what I'm saying. I got to

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Speaker 1: work out because I don't want to be old, alive

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Speaker 1: and sick. I don't I don't want that. We want that,

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Speaker 1: and I don't want people to have to care for me.

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Speaker 1: And y'all shout out to my stop shout out to

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Speaker 1: my stamp mama. Only a couple of years older than me,

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Speaker 1: because man, that is she is she there for my daddy?

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Speaker 1: Okay when I can't be thank god, you know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like I have to heavily this worry about

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Speaker 1: my mama. You know what I'm saying. But yeah, she

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Speaker 1: she she's do that's blessing. Yes, I'm grateful for her.

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Speaker 2: Yes, let's get in the sense. You see this this

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Speaker 2: woman she went on Beyon Internet because saying that women

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Speaker 2: should ask permission, but for using someone else's husband to

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Speaker 2: grab something high off the grocery store shelf. And these

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Speaker 2: two women approached her husband and asks that could they

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Speaker 2: please excuse me, sir, could you please help me get

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Speaker 2: that off the top shelf. I'm vertically challenged. They didn't

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Speaker 2: say all of that, but I mean it was evident

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Speaker 2: that they were sure. And she said that her husband

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Speaker 2: looked at her and then she looked at him and

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Speaker 2: gave him the okay that he could do it. But

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Speaker 2: she feels like women should ask the woman, can your

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Speaker 2: husband help me? Versus just saying it to the actual man.

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Speaker 1: And if you ugly just say that girl cheated on you. Yes,

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Speaker 1: you feel small your damn self, because right you that insecure.

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Speaker 2: That a woman can't even what's yeah, like, you can't

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Speaker 2: They can't ask for help. They say, excuse me, sir,

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Speaker 2: can I have a piece of or dig they want

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Speaker 2: some grits off the top shit for something like that.

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Speaker 2: God damn.

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Speaker 1: If I see any woman struggling to do anything and

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Speaker 1: I got a capable man next to me, I'm actually

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Speaker 1: sending him over there to help you, right what we'll

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Speaker 1: be talking about?

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Speaker 2: And if he don't, I'm like, i'n be like, what's

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Speaker 2: wrong with you? Why aren't you helping? You? See them

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Speaker 2: right there? I'm sure too, motherfucking help all of us.

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Speaker 1: Weirdol. She's a weirdo.

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Speaker 2: Man, that's weird.

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Speaker 1: Man. Listen, if you could bag him, you can have them.

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Speaker 1: You cannot be that in sahre man. You know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying. He's going to fuck who you want to

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Speaker 1: fuck anyway. You cannot control people in that manner. And

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Speaker 1: then to go on the internet and talk about it

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Speaker 1: like you got your man in check, like he know better, that's.

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Speaker 2: Even more whack, right, that's worse. Yeah, that's the worst

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Speaker 2: part of it. Where's your boss, sir? Where's your boss at?

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Speaker 2: Because you had to look at her to help. It's crazy, your.

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Speaker 1: Little regular day glass face. Anyway, No, you.

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Speaker 2: Said something else before we recorded. You said, don't ask

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Speaker 2: your man.

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Speaker 1: Oh, don't ask my man for no fucking money. Okay,

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Speaker 1: don't ask listeny. Don't no nigga that I'm associated with

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Speaker 1: should a friend be asking them for money? Okay? And

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Speaker 1: let me tell you I got a city. I have

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Speaker 1: a friend who asked And before we started recording, I

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Speaker 1: have a friend who asked my daddy to help her

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Speaker 1: get her car fixed. Before I feel like you want

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Speaker 1: to suck my daddy, dick, she already did fuck your daddy,

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Speaker 1: because why the fuck? I don't even know that. No,

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Speaker 1: I don't even know that this happened. His girlfriend told

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Speaker 2: And do you talk to this friend on the phone?

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Speaker 2: Do y'all communicate? Hell? No, Oh that wasn't because of it.

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Speaker 2: That what I'm just saying. She ain't say nothing because

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that is fun.

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Speaker 1: That's the ship I'm talking about right there, because you

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Speaker 2: I'm not me. She's not saying I would ask her.

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Speaker 1: I'm kind of explaining perception and like, come on, they

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Speaker 2: Know how Sometimes they don't know, and they'll be like,

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Speaker 1: You as imploral like plural you right, you asking? Yeah? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: like why would you be asking my man for money?

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Speaker 1: Asking any man associated with me for money? I have

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Speaker 2: So let me ask you this. My friend, one of

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Speaker 2: to evict your friend. She's like, you're about to evict who?

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Speaker 2: She's like, I talked to this girl all the time,

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Speaker 2: and she never said that she even came to you

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Speaker 2: rent to rent a place.

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Speaker 1: Now, that's fucked up. That's weird over here.

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Speaker 2: Don't I didn't know about the rental. I don't need

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's y'all business. Once y'all have a conversation, and

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Speaker 1: y'all do business. Do not try to bring me back

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Speaker 1: finding out that she's even living in your place? Y'all

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Speaker 2: And if she's he claimed, he assumed that she knew. Yeah, like,

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Speaker 1: Interesting.

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Speaker 2: But I wanted to let you know that I'm about

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Speaker 1: You know, My thing is, see see you have to

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Speaker 1: Why would you not tell me that you hitting up

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Speaker 1: would you not say don't. Don't Derek got some apartments

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Speaker 1: or whatever, got some places. You think he got something

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Speaker 1: for rent? Like, why would that not be a conversation,

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Speaker 1: especially when you talk to me right exactly? Why would

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Speaker 2: So?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, see that type of ship right there, it's weird

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's weirdo weird. Sure, but getting the grists off

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Speaker 2: the steps, that's fine, you know, like right, you ain't tripping.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So the Internet is coming from one of my

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Speaker 1: Gemini Brotherren or whatever you call it, Masika. She's a

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Speaker 1: Gemini two child, Masika. You owed me fifty seven dollars.

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Speaker 1: I had bought a raffle from her one time for

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Speaker 2: Bit.

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Speaker 1: You owe me fifty seven dollars. So how much of

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Speaker 1: it the ship was? Fifty dollars plus? Never?

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Speaker 2: What was it for?

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Speaker 1: Like apple products, like apple like raffling, like roundless time,

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Speaker 1: like a Christmas one year or something like that. She

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Speaker 2: The raffle, right, niggas was just waiting.

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Speaker 1: It's fun raising right, croudfriending. Yeah. So recently her estranged

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Speaker 1: Sekret responds after social users questioned her grieving the passing

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Speaker 1: new man Bino may be helping her. She said, I

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Speaker 1: have to continue to living my fucking life. This is

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Speaker 1: A couple of weeks ago, the headline came out that

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Speaker 1: this super heartfelt message of online letter to him, Darris

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Speaker 1: my darish Jamar.

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Speaker 2: Did it have dashes in it?

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Speaker 1: Why do you say that.

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Speaker 2: If it's a dash in it? At gpt ro dishes.

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Speaker 2: Anytime I see a dash, which you ain't right, it's

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Speaker 2: funk out of here girl.

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Speaker 1: When I tell you that, that is a whole conversation

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Speaker 1: I just had with somebody because my friend is falling

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Speaker 1: really talk that well, and she sent all this crazy

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Speaker 1: person just be using all these hyphens and the longer hyphen,

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Speaker 2: They nobody's that is super formal. And if I see

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Speaker 1: We onto yall, niggas, We.

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Speaker 2: Argue your motherfucker.

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Speaker 1: We onto you niggas, because like, listen, man, if you

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Speaker 1: you are allowing chat ept to formulate your thoughts, when

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Speaker 2: Well, you know, I use chat GPT too, though I.

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Speaker 1: Do, everybody does. It depends on how you're using it,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Right, you clearly didn't have

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Speaker 1: a response to none of this shit, so you let

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Speaker 1: jack jackie. You basically put she basically put my homegirl's

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Speaker 1: then think for her to respond to her. Yeah, that

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Speaker 1: is you're we are very much so digressing as a people. Used,

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I don't. I mean, I don't know if

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Speaker 1: Have you seen the guy she's with now? No, he's

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Speaker 1: just like a young ass y in well he ain't

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Speaker 2: Everybody listen, I don't question nobody grieving. Everybody grieve different.

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Speaker 2: Everybody goes through their grooving process different. I don't even

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Speaker 2: but that still didn't make it hurt that her baby,

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Speaker 2: you know, her husband, she was in love with him

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and they have kids together, right, so is it

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Speaker 1: two kids? They might have two kids together. Yeah, But

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Speaker 1: guy that what's the girl delicious? You seen delicious boyfriend?

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Speaker 2: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 1: Where they going at with these la gangsters? What these niggas?

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Speaker 1: These niggas is killers.

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Speaker 2: I'm at her that type man. I used to like

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Speaker 2: them when I was younger. I don't want no more

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Speaker 1: Girl, I'm good. Did you want in jail? The niggas

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Speaker 1: doant something to go to?

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Speaker 2: Jail.

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Speaker 1: They don't look like they not going to jail.

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Speaker 2: One of my friends, her homegirls, she fucking with some

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Speaker 2: gangster and she is like, a really, she's Green. She's

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Speaker 2: not in no street chicks, She's Mary Green. A bullet

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Speaker 2: grazed her head in the car with him. I'm talking

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Speaker 2: about she got a bullet burned on the side of

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Speaker 1: By morning, and you.

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Speaker 2: Still fucking with him. Whatever bullet you get next. You

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Speaker 2: know you know what I'm saying, like, leave that man alone.

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Speaker 2: He's gonna get you killed. Are you crazy.

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Speaker 1: Think about going to jail? Like what? Dying never crossed

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Speaker 1: my mind? Because I'm not about to be right around

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Speaker 1: with the Yian. I'm gonna meet his ass everywhere.

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Speaker 2: You nowhere, there's nowhere you can't take the mind.

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Speaker 1: I'll meet you.

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Speaker 2: No, we're not going not to eat a bullet.

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Speaker 1: Did you hear what I said? A bullet or to

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Speaker 1: all of that happening? You just fucking with a Wiian.

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Speaker 1: I'm not pulling like I'll meet you. I'm not getting

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Speaker 1: in the car with you. If you really are, If

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Speaker 1: I even think you living like that girl, I fucking

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Speaker 2: If I think like that and now you got great.

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't it. Ain't no dick that will let me

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Speaker 2: want me to get grazed by a bullet on my face,

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Speaker 2: on her face, bitch, she got yeah nah?

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Speaker 1: And how old is she?

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Speaker 2: Almost forty? Girl?

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Speaker 1: By you remember, bitches thought it was cute for a

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Speaker 1: niggat to smash them with the with the pistol. I

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Speaker 1: would see people post stuff like that, like what they

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Speaker 1: want they they not have sex with them, but with

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Speaker 1: the pistol in his hand, Like fucking them with the

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Speaker 1: pistol in their hand.

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Speaker 2: Bitches is nut using.

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Speaker 1: The pistol to smash them, but just you know, having

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Speaker 1: never been into that type of stupidity.

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Speaker 2: No, that's weird, No, thank you.

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Speaker 1: So apparently the men's the men's the guys they would

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Speaker 1: like to invoke financial celibacy. Okay it what's that? I

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Speaker 1: think we should wait a little while if I give

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Speaker 2: Listen, listen, babe, I fuck with you. But I'm just

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Speaker 3: Not.

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Speaker 1: Because I always like men value their pop pocket and

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Speaker 1: we value our pussy. So we know that, but we

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Speaker 1: still want you to give us the money.

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Speaker 2: How how do you make me right? Just what you said?

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Speaker 1: Put the Yeah, just put the tipping. Let me get

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Speaker 1: in the ATM just to tick. And we treated like

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Speaker 1: some pussy like, yeah, I just want to sort of tipping.

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Speaker 2: Let me tap one time. Just let me tap.

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Speaker 3: Just give me the last four digits the last don't

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Speaker 3: have the last four digits? Yeah, baby baby, let me

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Speaker 3: get that up off you. Yeah, that's all I'm laying.

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Speaker 3: Biggas started acting like they own financial celibacy. I met

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Speaker 3: the finessing yo, baby yo, slippy, let me let me

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Speaker 3: put that.

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Speaker 1: Anytime a nigga text me they miss me, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: you never gave me money. How do you miss me?

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Speaker 1: Men only miss women that they have invested in. That

437
00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:20,000
Speaker 1: nigga does not miss you. You're just trying to finesse

438
00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:23,600
Speaker 1: this phone. You don't miss me. You never gave me

439
00:22:23,640 --> 00:22:26,520
Speaker 1: any money. You do not miss me. Does that make

440
00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:27,880
Speaker 1: sense to you?

441
00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:29,560
Speaker 2: No, what you're saying don't make sense.

442
00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:34,760
Speaker 1: You cannot possibly, nigga, we've been chatting. However, we've been chatting.

443
00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:36,760
Speaker 1: We've been texting whatever. We might talk on the phone

444
00:22:36,800 --> 00:22:39,439
Speaker 1: a few times, and you text me and tell me

445
00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:42,880
Speaker 1: you miss me. You don't miss me. You never gave

446
00:22:42,920 --> 00:22:44,040
Speaker 1: me any money.

447
00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:47,359
Speaker 2: Missing somebody work.

448
00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:54,359
Speaker 1: Yes, it is men like like. I just feel like

449
00:22:54,400 --> 00:22:58,520
Speaker 1: as a man like, dude, if I was a man like,

450
00:22:59,040 --> 00:23:01,200
Speaker 1: I'm not really missing you. I'm trying to fuck I'm

451
00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:02,400
Speaker 1: trying to do something right.

452
00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:03,159
Speaker 2: Like.

453
00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:06,639
Speaker 1: The people that I really miss are the people I

454
00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:09,719
Speaker 1: gave money to. Those are the women I love you,

455
00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:11,919
Speaker 1: see what I'm saying, Like, those are the people I

456
00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:15,040
Speaker 1: really fuck with. If I never gave you money, bitch,

457
00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:18,200
Speaker 1: I don't fuck with you. If a nigga never gave

458
00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:20,920
Speaker 1: you money, he don't fuck with you. That not true.

459
00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:25,880
Speaker 2: No, I agree. If they're not invested in you, they

460
00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:29,320
Speaker 2: probably don't care about you. But I don't think that.

461
00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:31,760
Speaker 2: Don't mean they don't miss you any bitch that they

462
00:23:31,800 --> 00:23:33,879
Speaker 2: can deal with that they don't have to give money.

463
00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:38,080
Speaker 2: I think they would probably miss a lot.

464
00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:39,640
Speaker 1: Nah, you never gave me no money.

465
00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:42,120
Speaker 2: You don't miss me because you were.

466
00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:45,879
Speaker 1: You said, because I was easy.

467
00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:51,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'd mean like, if they never give.

468
00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:55,800
Speaker 1: You money, you were very the God's damn.

469
00:23:56,560 --> 00:23:59,600
Speaker 2: No, I'm just saying like not you per se just

470
00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:05,120
Speaker 2: like you yeah like yeah, like you're very miserable because

471
00:24:05,119 --> 00:24:07,680
Speaker 2: you were easy to obtain and keep on. I didn't

472
00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:09,879
Speaker 2: have to spend no money exactly.

473
00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:12,280
Speaker 1: Men do not miss women they had to spend no

474
00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:15,520
Speaker 1: money with, not for real. They just maybe they don't

475
00:24:15,520 --> 00:24:17,560
Speaker 1: want to spend money with the person they know they

476
00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:19,440
Speaker 1: got to spend money with, so they come into your

477
00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:29,159
Speaker 1: discount pussy green backs.

478
00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:33,600
Speaker 2: What were we talking about this week.

479
00:24:33,760 --> 00:24:38,200
Speaker 1: And talk about the broke friend you know, I mean

480
00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:42,960
Speaker 1: it broke bestI like either, And.

481
00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:45,040
Speaker 2: We're not talking about yourll kids. We're talking about your

482
00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:45,919
Speaker 2: real friends.

483
00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:50,520
Speaker 1: And maybe at some point you've been to broke best

484
00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:51,080
Speaker 1: in life.

485
00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:54,160
Speaker 2: I've definitely been to broke best before. Let's talk about it.

486
00:24:54,720 --> 00:25:00,720
Speaker 2: We'll be right back, all.

487
00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:05,880
Speaker 1: Right, y'all, Today we are talking about your broke bestie.

488
00:25:06,119 --> 00:25:08,680
Speaker 1: Vacation season is gonna be coming out very much soon

489
00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:10,960
Speaker 1: or maybe y'all are planning some share right now. Y'all

490
00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:13,640
Speaker 1: know that list's gonna get real short, never be time

491
00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:17,040
Speaker 1: exactly by the time the vacation ends up coming, you

492
00:25:17,119 --> 00:25:19,280
Speaker 1: might end up going by your damn self and your

493
00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:21,600
Speaker 1: one other homegirl who has the money that's one part

494
00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:30,119
Speaker 1: of the broke bestie conversation. But I don't think that

495
00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:33,000
Speaker 1: you have to stop being friends with somebody just because

496
00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:34,720
Speaker 1: y'all in different tax prackets.

497
00:25:35,240 --> 00:25:38,200
Speaker 2: Basically, No, I think you just have to know your

498
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:42,040
Speaker 2: personnel for real, Like it's some friends that you're gonna

499
00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:46,720
Speaker 2: invite to do certain things, in some friends you're not,

500
00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:50,160
Speaker 2: because you just might know that right now, they ain't

501
00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:55,080
Speaker 2: got it. So we was all, let me just say this.

502
00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:58,040
Speaker 2: We was on the trip, and they was making like,

503
00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:01,320
Speaker 2: I've known these girls for a long time, right, And

504
00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:05,440
Speaker 2: they was making fun of me because all right, at

505
00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:07,320
Speaker 2: this stage in our life, the bill come, we just

506
00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:11,320
Speaker 2: split it evenly. We ain't itemizing shit, We ain't seeing

507
00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:14,480
Speaker 2: who had what. It's just like we counted up and

508
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:17,520
Speaker 2: just chop it up. But they was making fun of

509
00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:20,520
Speaker 2: me because at one time I'd be like, somebody owes

510
00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:23,520
Speaker 2: me a dollar seventy nine cents more, I don't know,

511
00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:28,440
Speaker 2: Like we did the math and I'm still a dollar

512
00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:31,000
Speaker 2: seventy nine cents short. Like I used to penny pitch

513
00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:35,520
Speaker 2: to the to the t to the exact coin. But

514
00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:38,280
Speaker 2: at that time in my life, which was I was

515
00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:43,080
Speaker 2: a young woman and I didn't have, like want any

516
00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:47,160
Speaker 2: financial freedom. I was living hand to mouth. I don't

517
00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:50,399
Speaker 2: know if you know what that means, but like, yeah, girl,

518
00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:57,640
Speaker 2: now you aj goddamn the listeners you're looking at me?

519
00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:03,680
Speaker 2: Who look at I don't know, not you, but like

520
00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:07,320
Speaker 2: you know when I get it, you know. And I

521
00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 2: didn't really have a huge support system where I could

522
00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:12,879
Speaker 2: be like, hey, I'm I don't have no money, you know.

523
00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:15,119
Speaker 2: So that's why I feel like I had to be

524
00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:19,639
Speaker 2: like very conscious about how I spent every penny that

525
00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:21,840
Speaker 2: I got. You know, as I grew older and more

526
00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:26,320
Speaker 2: financially stable, that was able to change. But my back

527
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:31,280
Speaker 2: then they'd be like, damn, it's only two dollars. I

528
00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:35,399
Speaker 2: need my two dollars, bitch of value. I can go

529
00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:39,880
Speaker 2: to Wendy's and get you know, nine your nincent man.

530
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:44,720
Speaker 1: My one of my ex best friends, you know. Now,

531
00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:52,120
Speaker 1: my mama, we definitely weren't rich, right, but my mom

532
00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:55,320
Speaker 1: she's very very good with money, and she ain't buying

533
00:27:55,440 --> 00:28:00,000
Speaker 1: shit you don't need. Okay, So people living in the hood,

534
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:03,119
Speaker 1: they probably had way more shit than I had grown up,

535
00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:05,119
Speaker 1: but we grew up in a in a home. My

536
00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:09,199
Speaker 1: mom was paying a mortgage on right. But I had

537
00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:12,439
Speaker 1: a friend and this is from through from high school

538
00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:16,879
Speaker 1: to college to you know, grown grown age adult, you know,

539
00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:19,840
Speaker 1: early twenties and shit like that. But I felt like

540
00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:22,959
Speaker 1: she just always resented me because I had it and

541
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:24,960
Speaker 1: not even a lot, right, because at some point we

542
00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:27,080
Speaker 1: all started working. So if I we were like going

543
00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:28,679
Speaker 1: out to dinner and she's like that, if she have it,

544
00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:30,760
Speaker 1: I got it, and vice versa. Right, But at some

545
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:35,240
Speaker 1: point I think my income elevated quicker than hers, like

546
00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:38,520
Speaker 1: finishing college or in college, you know what I'm saying,

547
00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:44,640
Speaker 1: So I can remember, like just I never if I

548
00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 1: got it, you can have it. That goes really for anybody,

549
00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:49,160
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. If somebody asked you for

550
00:28:49,240 --> 00:28:50,720
Speaker 1: something and I can stand it, I'm gonna give it

551
00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:55,640
Speaker 1: to you for sure. I remember standing in Express with

552
00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:57,840
Speaker 1: her and I asked her. I think it was for

553
00:28:58,040 --> 00:29:02,520
Speaker 1: like literally some a dollar and some change. When I

554
00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:04,720
Speaker 1: tell you, she hounded me. And I had spent so

555
00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:09,040
Speaker 1: much money on this bitch over the years. It was

556
00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:12,800
Speaker 1: literally like two dollars or some change. She was hounding

557
00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:13,239
Speaker 1: me for it.

558
00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:14,640
Speaker 2: How old were y'all at this point?

559
00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:18,760
Speaker 1: We probably was like I don't know, twenty twenty twenty,

560
00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:23,960
Speaker 1: like twenty like twenty years old. But girl, you got

561
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:26,880
Speaker 1: here in my car on my gas you know, like,

562
00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:29,840
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to calculate up on a bitch, But

563
00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:34,360
Speaker 1: come on, now, two dollars you about to hand me

564
00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:35,360
Speaker 1: for two dollars?

565
00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:37,560
Speaker 2: So what she asked you for the two dollars back?

566
00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 1: Yes, she did, and I got annoyed very fast, and

567
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:47,120
Speaker 1: I did give her her two dollars back. And this

568
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:49,200
Speaker 1: is probably the first time I ever spoken about this

569
00:29:49,320 --> 00:29:52,920
Speaker 1: out loud. But that's some bumshit, bitch.

570
00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:56,400
Speaker 2: I understand he was growth like that makes me think

571
00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:59,400
Speaker 2: of me like eighteen years old in college. I don't

572
00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:04,000
Speaker 2: have any need money. That two dollars is dinner, make money.

573
00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:07,000
Speaker 1: You got my money. Do you see what I'm saying?

574
00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:10,680
Speaker 1: My money is your money. At some point you gonna

575
00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:12,960
Speaker 1: get these This is the way she was hounding me

576
00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:15,680
Speaker 1: for these two dollars. At some point you're gonna get

577
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:17,040
Speaker 1: them two dollars out of me.

578
00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:19,200
Speaker 2: It's crazy two dollars too.

579
00:30:20,800 --> 00:30:24,520
Speaker 1: I knew you were exact. I hope you were exaggerated.

580
00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:26,800
Speaker 2: I'll the amount, but.

581
00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:29,320
Speaker 1: It was for real two dollars. And that's something like

582
00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:31,400
Speaker 1: my money is your money. So at some point you're

583
00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:34,320
Speaker 1: gonna get these two dollars out of me? Are you

584
00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:36,400
Speaker 1: really have nothing else in your pocket right now and

585
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:38,480
Speaker 1: you need these two dollars? I probably needed to hear

586
00:30:38,520 --> 00:30:40,240
Speaker 1: that to be okay with how she was hounding me.

587
00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:44,920
Speaker 2: Well, maybe that's what the case was, though, because when

588
00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:47,760
Speaker 2: you when you're college age and you don't come from

589
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:52,360
Speaker 2: like wealth, college kids be broke.

590
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:55,840
Speaker 1: I used to everybody was broke, but she was fucking

591
00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:58,680
Speaker 1: I had a nigga who was bringing me a car

592
00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:01,000
Speaker 1: so I could drive home gas. Like you know what

593
00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:04,360
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like, Yeah, that is the difference. You see

594
00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:06,760
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like, at some point my mama stopped

595
00:31:06,760 --> 00:31:10,760
Speaker 1: doing for me in college, right and my freshman year

596
00:31:10,760 --> 00:31:14,040
Speaker 1: in college I had to fend for myself. We got

597
00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:16,920
Speaker 1: the same shit going on. Why are you broken? You

598
00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 1: having sex?

599
00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:21,640
Speaker 2: No? I agree there, what.

600
00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:25,000
Speaker 1: Is happening so you could get money? You sitting on it?

601
00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:29,320
Speaker 2: But that's prosecution, Scott. Don't tell the girls that. Not

602
00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:33,360
Speaker 2: if you're in college and your dating someone just as

603
00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:36,200
Speaker 2: broke as you. Y'all are two broke students, y'all just

604
00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:38,160
Speaker 2: trying to figure it out and make it work and

605
00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:42,480
Speaker 2: rubbing pennies together. I remember me and my friend Stephanie

606
00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:47,600
Speaker 2: going to Wendy's and I think we had three dollars

607
00:31:47,640 --> 00:31:51,440
Speaker 2: between the two of us. Dude, like that was it.

608
00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:54,000
Speaker 2: We were so broke, you know, And we went and

609
00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:57,920
Speaker 2: got Wendy's Value menu and split a cheeseburger and half

610
00:31:58,040 --> 00:32:03,719
Speaker 2: is split nuggets like this niggas was broke. Yeah, we

611
00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:05,240
Speaker 2: were sitting on but we wasn't.

612
00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:09,040
Speaker 1: We wasn't selling pussy, Like it's not selling pussy. He

613
00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:10,680
Speaker 1: can at least take you to Walmart. He can at

614
00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:13,000
Speaker 1: least take you to get something to eat. I guess,

615
00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:14,880
Speaker 1: I don't know. I definitely had.

616
00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:17,160
Speaker 2: But you were probably dealing with boyfriend.

617
00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:20,640
Speaker 1: And I had a boyfriend outside of college. Yes, you

618
00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:23,320
Speaker 1: gotta get to all what get a girlfriend.

619
00:32:23,320 --> 00:32:25,360
Speaker 2: At the time, it was broker than me. He was

620
00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:28,040
Speaker 2: from New York and he was like he was cold

621
00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:31,600
Speaker 2: at BA house and wash clothes like we was poor,

622
00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:35,920
Speaker 2: you know. So I mean college students. We're talking about

623
00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:38,840
Speaker 2: your eighteen nineteen years old, so you just were young.

624
00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:43,200
Speaker 2: But once you get a little older, I think you

625
00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:46,640
Speaker 2: start switching up how you move when it comes to money.

626
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:51,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, because you know, as we grow our money grows

627
00:32:52,080 --> 00:33:00,000
Speaker 1: in or should mm hmm, And friendships can't always keep up, right,

628
00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:03,320
Speaker 1: So I have a friend right now, Oh I don't

629
00:33:03,360 --> 00:33:07,120
Speaker 1: be knowing who'll be listening nowadays, like personally.

630
00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:08,560
Speaker 2: Right, yeah, but you're not dropping no names.

631
00:33:08,600 --> 00:33:13,000
Speaker 1: So yeah, but she just recently got ousted from a

632
00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:16,520
Speaker 1: baby shower because she was acting on some broke shit.

633
00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:19,600
Speaker 1: Whereas this friend threw her an entire baby shower, and

634
00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:26,520
Speaker 1: now it's her time. She's having another baby, and somebody

635
00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:29,200
Speaker 1: else is throwing a baby shower and they're collectively put

636
00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:31,480
Speaker 1: money in the pot like to do different things. She

637
00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:34,240
Speaker 1: just didn't have it to do anything right, and everybody

638
00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:37,240
Speaker 1: understood that. So she was asked to do like some task,

639
00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:41,880
Speaker 1: so she said, okay about the yeah, yeah exactly. So

640
00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:45,080
Speaker 1: she told the person who asked her to do the task,

641
00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:47,040
Speaker 1: like can you pick up the cake or whatever? She

642
00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:50,320
Speaker 1: told that person yeah. But then she told somebody else

643
00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:56,480
Speaker 1: that they trying to low girl her. That's an internal problem, right,

644
00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:59,480
Speaker 1: Nobody is low girling you. Nobody even knows that this

645
00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:02,040
Speaker 1: has happened, right, But this is how you're feeling because

646
00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:04,880
Speaker 1: your money fucked up right now, and instead of you

647
00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:08,560
Speaker 1: just recognizing that because everybody else recognizes it, and they're

648
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:12,239
Speaker 1: not putting pressure on you for any you know, financial contribution.

649
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:16,640
Speaker 1: They have some tasks you can still contribute. It doesn't

650
00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:20,839
Speaker 1: have to be monetary, right, But that's the ego. That's

651
00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:27,480
Speaker 1: an ego thing right there, that's would be that's accountability.

652
00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:28,360
Speaker 2: You know.

653
00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:30,439
Speaker 1: It's a lot of different things wrapped up in there.

654
00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:34,520
Speaker 1: But one thing that is not is not your friend's fault. Right,

655
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:38,160
Speaker 1: So if comments was made shit like her and all

656
00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:40,400
Speaker 1: her friends, they be high rolling. They gotta do this,

657
00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:42,520
Speaker 1: they gotta do that. So when you start like critiquing

658
00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:46,000
Speaker 1: what other grown thirty forty year old people are doing

659
00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:49,640
Speaker 1: are able to do and you're not able to do it,

660
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:53,720
Speaker 1: that doesn't make they're not wrong for being an adult,

661
00:34:54,320 --> 00:34:56,239
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying and trying to live life.

662
00:34:56,239 --> 00:34:58,560
Speaker 1: Because first of all, a lot of people be having

663
00:34:58,760 --> 00:35:02,040
Speaker 1: Hella bills, right, but they gonna live first, which I

664
00:35:02,080 --> 00:35:05,239
Speaker 1: agree with, fucking bills a little bit, fuck them a

665
00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:09,680
Speaker 1: little bit, but yeah, live also, right. But she's just

666
00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:12,400
Speaker 1: right now, she's just in between blessings. You're not broke.

667
00:35:13,080 --> 00:35:16,600
Speaker 1: You're in between blessings broke. This is a state of

668
00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:20,200
Speaker 1: mind right, you just broke. You ain't trying to do

669
00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:23,399
Speaker 1: nothing to get out of that. And the thing is that, y'all.

670
00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:25,879
Speaker 1: I like listening to Reverend Ike. Reverend Ike said if

671
00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:30,440
Speaker 1: you if you curse the rich, you'll never be one. Okay,

672
00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:33,760
Speaker 1: So you can't just be talking shit. I don't believe

673
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:36,360
Speaker 1: in a non prosperous god. I don't want to go

674
00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:39,120
Speaker 1: to no church where the preacher broke, Okay. I don't

675
00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:41,920
Speaker 1: want to go to no hospital where the doctor broke.

676
00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:42,120
Speaker 2: Like.

677
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:45,360
Speaker 1: I don't want no broke shit because that is not

678
00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:46,440
Speaker 1: my state of mind.

679
00:35:46,960 --> 00:35:47,120
Speaker 2: Right.

680
00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:50,560
Speaker 1: I believe should be compensated and be making money and

681
00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:53,640
Speaker 1: be very prosperous. That's what I'm That's the energy I'm

682
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:55,920
Speaker 1: fucking with, Like that type of energy that is broke

683
00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:59,800
Speaker 1: bitch energy. For sure, you're thinking this is not gonna

684
00:35:59,840 --> 00:36:01,759
Speaker 1: This is not where you're going to be. Always so

685
00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:06,560
Speaker 1: congratulate and appreciate and show gratitude until you get to

686
00:36:06,560 --> 00:36:07,120
Speaker 1: where you're going.

687
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:10,719
Speaker 2: Have you ever had like something really good happened for

688
00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:15,160
Speaker 2: you and somebody that you thought was gonna be celebrating

689
00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:17,200
Speaker 2: allow us was real quiet?

690
00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:21,960
Speaker 1: Yes, absolutely, and sometimes it could be a motherfucker with money, right,

691
00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:24,960
Speaker 1: it's just still the thing's not happening for them, so

692
00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:28,239
Speaker 1: they can even you know, be happy for you in

693
00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:29,080
Speaker 1: that moment.

694
00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:31,560
Speaker 2: You know, effort. I've had that happen and at first

695
00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:33,719
Speaker 2: I was feeling a way, but then I, you know what,

696
00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:36,640
Speaker 2: I decided not to take it personal because it wasn't

697
00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:41,240
Speaker 2: about me. You know, whatever they were, whatever they were feeling,

698
00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:44,680
Speaker 2: was an internal thing, and I did not take it

699
00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:47,200
Speaker 2: personal at the time. I just was like, you know what,

700
00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:50,200
Speaker 2: everybody going through their own shit. I don't know what

701
00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:51,239
Speaker 2: she's going through right now.

702
00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:52,400
Speaker 1: She might exactly.

703
00:36:52,640 --> 00:36:52,840
Speaker 2: You know.

704
00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:55,880
Speaker 1: I think a lot of times if we just stepped

705
00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:58,279
Speaker 1: back and realized, most shit don't got nothing to do

706
00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:02,560
Speaker 1: with you. Lot of things right and the things that do,

707
00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:03,960
Speaker 1: you know what got to do with you. But a

708
00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:07,560
Speaker 1: lot of times things the way people feel it do

709
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:10,400
Speaker 1: start with them internally. And even if you feel like

710
00:37:10,560 --> 00:37:15,719
Speaker 1: you are, like this feeling is warranted right still, so

711
00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:18,560
Speaker 1: you can stay on top of your blessings. Make it

712
00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:21,480
Speaker 1: you the problem, just make I am learning to be

713
00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:24,560
Speaker 1: the problem, and I'm okay with that shit. It's my fault.

714
00:37:25,239 --> 00:37:26,640
Speaker 2: Let me tell you all this. And this is me

715
00:37:26,719 --> 00:37:29,840
Speaker 2: being vulnerable and metting at a time where I was

716
00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:35,080
Speaker 2: like Loki hating on my friend one time. Well, this

717
00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:37,880
Speaker 2: is job, I'm a human, this is me being honest,

718
00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:42,400
Speaker 2: all right. So at that time, me and her would

719
00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:47,120
Speaker 2: like share designer bags, right, we would swap out if

720
00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:50,680
Speaker 2: her bag mashed my office bar. You know, girls, barshit,

721
00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:55,600
Speaker 2: somebody broke into my house and stole a bunch of

722
00:37:55,680 --> 00:37:59,400
Speaker 2: shit out of my apartment and her bag got stolen.

723
00:38:00,560 --> 00:38:04,920
Speaker 2: So I had to replace her bag, which was like

724
00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:09,719
Speaker 2: almost three grand, and I gave her her money. You know,

725
00:38:10,640 --> 00:38:13,439
Speaker 2: you know, I pay my debts, so I pay her.

726
00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:19,279
Speaker 2: And she was calling me to show me the new

727
00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:21,600
Speaker 2: bag she bought with the money I just sent her,

728
00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:24,800
Speaker 2: and I was like, bitch, I don't even want to

729
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:27,960
Speaker 2: see it. And I was just like, I don't want

730
00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:32,680
Speaker 2: to see that motherfucking bag. Bitch, I don't. And I

731
00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:35,680
Speaker 2: felt like I like she kind of felt salty that

732
00:38:35,760 --> 00:38:41,399
Speaker 2: I wasn't happy about her new bag. But I am

733
00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:43,680
Speaker 2: always happy when you get something new, Like, yes, my

734
00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:47,120
Speaker 2: friend called that she you know, she bossy, but when.

735
00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:51,400
Speaker 1: It's you felt like you bought it. Yeah, I felt

736
00:38:51,400 --> 00:38:54,399
Speaker 1: like I bought that shit. I'm looking at this guy

737
00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:57,320
Speaker 1: because I'm trying to think that if my friend got robbed,

738
00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 1: would I charge her for my stolen item. I don't

739
00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:04,920
Speaker 1: know that I would, because at this point I probably

740
00:39:05,080 --> 00:39:09,040
Speaker 1: paid for it myself. Okay, right, and now I'm asking

741
00:39:09,080 --> 00:39:11,479
Speaker 1: her to cough up three thousand dollars for the bag.

742
00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:15,279
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. Let's file this insurance clan. See,

743
00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:16,840
Speaker 1: we can get this goddamn money.

744
00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:17,520
Speaker 2: I know.

745
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:20,360
Speaker 1: If I don't know, I think I would just eat it. Honestly,

746
00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:22,640
Speaker 1: I think I would have just ate it. I don't

747
00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:24,759
Speaker 1: know if I would have made. I think that you,

748
00:39:25,440 --> 00:39:27,719
Speaker 1: if you were the one that this shit got stolen from,

749
00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:32,680
Speaker 1: you would want your three bands too. Yeah, yeah, see,

750
00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:35,080
Speaker 1: And this is where like, okay, you can understand where

751
00:39:35,080 --> 00:39:36,600
Speaker 1: you're listen.

752
00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:39,680
Speaker 2: And that's why I paid my desk. Listen, I had it,

753
00:39:39,719 --> 00:39:43,080
Speaker 2: I was responsible for somebody stole it from me. Listen,

754
00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:47,239
Speaker 2: I replace what I you know, but don't call me

755
00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:49,760
Speaker 2: bout no new shit you got with my three bands.

756
00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:51,520
Speaker 2: I don't want to hear it. Now.

757
00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:52,920
Speaker 1: Let me tell you how I know this bitch, you

758
00:39:52,960 --> 00:39:55,800
Speaker 1: want them three thousand dollars because when we first started

759
00:39:55,800 --> 00:40:00,120
Speaker 1: this podcast, okay, we was using some wine glass. Is

760
00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:03,359
Speaker 1: this bitch's house. When I tell y'all, tell me ask

761
00:40:03,480 --> 00:40:06,520
Speaker 1: how me for a month to replace her broken wine glass.

762
00:40:07,280 --> 00:40:10,439
Speaker 1: She did that. He on the other hand, I would

763
00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:13,000
Speaker 1: just bought me a new wine glass. That's just it.

764
00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:14,240
Speaker 1: It was an accident.

765
00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:18,000
Speaker 2: It was like an accident. Did you remember?

766
00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:21,080
Speaker 1: I sure did. On the way to record one day,

767
00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:24,000
Speaker 1: you reminded me via text message, and I stopped right

768
00:40:24,040 --> 00:40:26,840
Speaker 1: at the I think it was the container store, createing barrel,

769
00:40:27,320 --> 00:40:29,640
Speaker 1: praying barrel, crateing fucking barrel.

770
00:40:29,719 --> 00:40:30,000
Speaker 2: You know.

771
00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:33,600
Speaker 1: Her wine glass?

772
00:40:33,640 --> 00:40:36,520
Speaker 2: Okay, it was one glass and they wasn't even exclusive

773
00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:40,640
Speaker 2: glasses either, but they're so cute. I can't wait wait

774
00:40:40,680 --> 00:40:41,680
Speaker 2: to move back in mind.

775
00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:44,120
Speaker 1: Girl, I'm not I'm just going to replace my ship

776
00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:46,640
Speaker 1: like I don't have people break so much shit if

777
00:40:46,680 --> 00:40:48,720
Speaker 1: I really really love it. I feel like you should

778
00:40:48,760 --> 00:40:51,840
Speaker 1: take the initiative, initiative and go replace my ship. But

779
00:40:51,880 --> 00:40:54,279
Speaker 1: I'm not about to ask you to if it was

780
00:40:54,320 --> 00:40:57,600
Speaker 1: an accident, but I feel like you should automatically do it.

781
00:40:57,640 --> 00:41:00,560
Speaker 1: Like well, I feel like you offered to repla though

782
00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:02,160
Speaker 1: I did not.

783
00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:03,640
Speaker 2: No, you never did.

784
00:41:05,600 --> 00:41:09,840
Speaker 1: I might have. Even if I offered. You shouldn't have

785
00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:14,239
Speaker 1: held me to God, damn bitch, damn my glass. You

786
00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:17,520
Speaker 1: haven't brought my glass, Like, let me get your glass

787
00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:21,839
Speaker 1: instead of four, now it's three. It's like a wino, right,

788
00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:24,280
Speaker 1: I need my glass.

789
00:41:27,160 --> 00:41:29,759
Speaker 2: Yeah. But yeah, So a friend who maybe I was

790
00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:31,800
Speaker 2: hating a little bit at that time, but only because

791
00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:35,279
Speaker 2: it was my money. If it was I mean, guess

792
00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:37,279
Speaker 2: technically it wasn't my money. It was her money. I

793
00:41:37,320 --> 00:41:40,160
Speaker 2: replaced something that belonged to her. But because I had

794
00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:44,480
Speaker 2: to fork over that money, it just hurt a little

795
00:41:44,480 --> 00:41:46,960
Speaker 2: bit to see because that was in my head, that's

796
00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:48,800
Speaker 2: whatever you bought supposed to be mine.

797
00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:53,320
Speaker 1: Right. I could have bought that bag for three bands.

798
00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:55,960
Speaker 1: I just bought you a bag for three thousand. Yeah,

799
00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:58,400
Speaker 1: I I don't know. That is a lot of money.

800
00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:01,440
Speaker 1: That is a high priced item I would have I

801
00:42:01,680 --> 00:42:03,480
Speaker 1: would have least settled for fifteen hundred.

802
00:42:04,480 --> 00:42:07,680
Speaker 2: Yeah. But and this is that. That was when I

803
00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:11,719
Speaker 2: learned my lesson about exchanging shit with each other, Like,

804
00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:14,879
Speaker 2: don't borrow my ship and I ain't borrowing yours because

805
00:42:14,920 --> 00:42:16,560
Speaker 2: I do not want to have to replace it if

806
00:42:16,560 --> 00:42:17,239
Speaker 2: you gonna miss me.

807
00:42:19,239 --> 00:42:21,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, I really don't, you know. My mama taught me

808
00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:23,080
Speaker 1: that a long time ago. Don't be letting people borrow

809
00:42:23,080 --> 00:42:25,359
Speaker 1: your shit. Don't you borrows people things? If you need something,

810
00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:28,400
Speaker 1: let me know something, you know, I really don't ask

811
00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:30,800
Speaker 1: people for personal items.

812
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:32,000
Speaker 2: I have.

813
00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:35,960
Speaker 1: I have a lot of shit went walking out the door.

814
00:42:37,120 --> 00:42:39,640
Speaker 1: What people you let hole things? They act like they

815
00:42:39,680 --> 00:42:41,400
Speaker 1: forgot to give it to you. You knew you wanted

816
00:42:41,400 --> 00:42:43,160
Speaker 1: this ship when I when I let you hold and

817
00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:45,040
Speaker 1: when you asked me about it? What you so and

818
00:42:45,080 --> 00:42:47,520
Speaker 1: so at let me borrow that? When you asked me

819
00:42:47,560 --> 00:42:51,080
Speaker 1: about it, you was already plotting on accidentally taking that

820
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:56,279
Speaker 1: shit three hours back to your fucking house. But I

821
00:42:56,320 --> 00:42:59,040
Speaker 1: feel like I have had a friend who I'm no

822
00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:03,120
Speaker 1: longer friends with. She had got a large settlement from

823
00:43:03,160 --> 00:43:05,439
Speaker 1: a car accident she got into, like a real bad

824
00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:08,600
Speaker 1: car accident when she got really fucked up, and like

825
00:43:08,840 --> 00:43:10,960
Speaker 1: during the time from this accident, it might have been

826
00:43:11,000 --> 00:43:14,240
Speaker 1: like a year and a half where she was waiting

827
00:43:14,239 --> 00:43:19,040
Speaker 1: on this settlement. Our relationship like plummeted during that time.

828
00:43:19,080 --> 00:43:21,160
Speaker 1: Like I was going through like a bad ass breakup

829
00:43:21,200 --> 00:43:24,239
Speaker 1: at the time, her and her boyfriend and they were

830
00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:25,960
Speaker 1: trying to get like stable and then they actually they

831
00:43:25,960 --> 00:43:28,239
Speaker 1: were engaged to they were trying to get stabled and

832
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:30,160
Speaker 1: with housing and all that stuff, but they had this

833
00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:33,400
Speaker 1: big ass in between blessings. They had this super blessing

834
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:36,640
Speaker 1: coming through, and our relationship just declined at that point.

835
00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:39,640
Speaker 1: And I feel like the people who I am no

836
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:45,160
Speaker 1: longer friends with, I know their struggles and I know

837
00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:48,480
Speaker 1: like their upbringing, I know how they struggled in life,

838
00:43:49,160 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 1: and I feel like they couldn't wait to one up

839
00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:57,760
Speaker 1: me when that is never my mind said bitch, because

840
00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:01,560
Speaker 1: this person couldn't never let me get my hand on

841
00:44:01,640 --> 00:44:05,319
Speaker 1: that type of money first and not make sure she

842
00:44:05,400 --> 00:44:07,719
Speaker 1: was straight. And not saying that, I like think she

843
00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:10,360
Speaker 1: should have made sure I was good, right, But I

844
00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:13,440
Speaker 1: just realized that the whole time, our friendship just wasn't

845
00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:17,040
Speaker 1: what I thought it was. You know what I'm saying

846
00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:21,160
Speaker 1: for money, not even I don't even think it's money.

847
00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:22,799
Speaker 1: I think a lot of times, the problems I have

848
00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:24,799
Speaker 1: with people, it could be like that's part of it, right,

849
00:44:24,920 --> 00:44:27,879
Speaker 1: I have more money in my fucking twenties. Hey, first

850
00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:31,520
Speaker 1: of all, I gotta go real hard. You probably the

851
00:44:31,560 --> 00:44:32,600
Speaker 1: next ten years you.

852
00:44:32,520 --> 00:44:34,680
Speaker 2: Probably didn't have more money. You just probably got more

853
00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:37,680
Speaker 2: financial responsibilities now than you did when you were bitch.

854
00:44:37,760 --> 00:44:39,680
Speaker 1: We still ain't got no turn Like I feel like,

855
00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:41,600
Speaker 1: as long as you don't want no kids, you balling,

856
00:44:41,960 --> 00:44:45,560
Speaker 1: that's not it. But I just always had my own place,

857
00:44:45,719 --> 00:44:48,280
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. For the most part, I

858
00:44:48,320 --> 00:44:51,279
Speaker 1: have always had bills, Yes, but it's parting.

859
00:44:51,000 --> 00:44:54,479
Speaker 2: The eggs twenty seven dollars back then. Yes, it wasn't

860
00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:56,840
Speaker 2: as high as it is all these you know, the

861
00:44:56,920 --> 00:45:02,000
Speaker 2: responsibilities have changed. Then you were accruing student loans, now

862
00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:05,520
Speaker 2: you're paying them. You're like, just you might've been on

863
00:45:05,560 --> 00:45:08,520
Speaker 2: your parents' insurance then now you gotta pay health insurance.

864
00:45:10,000 --> 00:45:12,000
Speaker 2: I don't feel care when nobody's saying, once you get

865
00:45:12,040 --> 00:45:14,040
Speaker 2: closer to the forty, you going to the doctor way

866
00:45:14,040 --> 00:45:15,839
Speaker 2: more you did than you did when you was twenty

867
00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:16,359
Speaker 2: years old.

868
00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:19,600
Speaker 1: Why the fuck was Mike Cole paying eighty dollars? Yeah,

869
00:45:19,680 --> 00:45:20,959
Speaker 1: primary healthcare visit.

870
00:45:21,600 --> 00:45:24,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, So just shit like that, that shit started adding up.

871
00:45:25,680 --> 00:45:28,759
Speaker 2: You're not wearing cheap ass clothes no more.

872
00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:32,680
Speaker 1: Like how girl, we was in college shopping at BB

873
00:45:32,800 --> 00:45:33,319
Speaker 1: and ART and B.

874
00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:34,680
Speaker 2: Yeah.

875
00:45:34,760 --> 00:45:36,400
Speaker 1: I don't know how to fuck or where we was

876
00:45:36,520 --> 00:45:38,759
Speaker 1: like my little friends group where we was getting the

877
00:45:38,800 --> 00:45:43,800
Speaker 1: money from, but we was in there BB and R

878
00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:45,879
Speaker 1: and b was not fucking cheap. I mean, you're paying

879
00:45:45,880 --> 00:45:49,160
Speaker 1: one hundred and twenty five dollars then in college for shirt.

880
00:45:49,480 --> 00:45:52,279
Speaker 2: Right, I don't know. You couldn't tell me shit in

881
00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:55,120
Speaker 2: my little art and b I just love that shit.

882
00:45:55,719 --> 00:45:58,719
Speaker 1: Where was we getting the money from? You're putting some

883
00:45:58,760 --> 00:46:03,799
Speaker 1: Baker pumps and some Baker pumps. You know what I'm saying.

884
00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:05,560
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know he was getting money

885
00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:08,920
Speaker 1: from for real Express Express ain't never been cheap. No,

886
00:46:09,840 --> 00:46:12,879
Speaker 1: I started college with Hella Express. My sister be boosting too, bitch.

887
00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:15,160
Speaker 1: I had so much Tommy Hill figure and shit like

888
00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:18,160
Speaker 1: that back then.

889
00:46:18,360 --> 00:46:20,080
Speaker 2: My sister was I'm about.

890
00:46:19,880 --> 00:46:23,600
Speaker 1: To say, Phil to kill her. I need some shit

891
00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:27,000
Speaker 1: tied again. She not got arrested a couple of times.

892
00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:31,160
Speaker 1: She don't do that shit no more. But what was

893
00:46:31,160 --> 00:46:32,840
Speaker 1: I saying? Yeah, I don't know. I think it's sometimes

894
00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:36,319
Speaker 1: it's the motion, right, just you always have emotion, and

895
00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:38,400
Speaker 1: I know I make it look good even if I

896
00:46:38,400 --> 00:46:40,319
Speaker 1: don't have it good Like I don't have it, I'm

897
00:46:40,360 --> 00:46:42,799
Speaker 1: gonna still make it look like I got in. You

898
00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:44,680
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I've been big money my whole

899
00:46:44,719 --> 00:46:52,400
Speaker 1: life and fucking broke financially, you know people, I would

900
00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:56,359
Speaker 1: always be surprised, like when guys or even homegirls like,

901
00:46:56,520 --> 00:46:58,239
Speaker 1: I don't know what about me? What makes you think

902
00:46:58,239 --> 00:47:01,120
Speaker 1: I got money for you to borrow? Is it not

903
00:47:01,200 --> 00:47:03,880
Speaker 1: ever like surprising when somebody calls and ask you for money?

904
00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:07,400
Speaker 2: It is very surprises to me because they know I

905
00:47:07,400 --> 00:47:10,560
Speaker 2: ain't giving out no money, like I will get money,

906
00:47:10,719 --> 00:47:13,719
Speaker 2: but everybody knows that I'm the very last option.

907
00:47:13,920 --> 00:47:16,600
Speaker 1: Like do I look like a lick? Do I look

908
00:47:16,680 --> 00:47:17,200
Speaker 1: like a lick?

909
00:47:17,560 --> 00:47:17,680
Speaker 2: Like?

910
00:47:18,320 --> 00:47:21,000
Speaker 1: Do I look like a safe space that you could?

911
00:47:21,120 --> 00:47:23,200
Speaker 1: I ask people for money. I ask men for money,

912
00:47:23,239 --> 00:47:25,120
Speaker 1: So why the fuck are you coming over here asking

913
00:47:25,120 --> 00:47:27,840
Speaker 1: me for money? Are you okay? Are you okay?

914
00:47:29,040 --> 00:47:29,360
Speaker 2: Okay?

915
00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:39,200
Speaker 1: Are you okay? Group trips so vacation and shit like that. Like,

916
00:47:39,200 --> 00:47:41,959
Speaker 1: like I said, the vacation starts with how many people

917
00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:44,320
Speaker 1: in the group, and by the end of the damn

918
00:47:44,840 --> 00:47:47,120
Speaker 1: I don't know the how many. Ever, four months y'all

919
00:47:47,160 --> 00:47:50,000
Speaker 1: got to pay towards this thing. Half the group done

920
00:47:50,040 --> 00:47:53,800
Speaker 1: fell out and then be upset when you stop inviting

921
00:47:53,840 --> 00:47:57,760
Speaker 1: them places you It's not that I'm now I am

922
00:47:57,800 --> 00:48:02,040
Speaker 1: like considering your pockets even when you're not right. So

923
00:48:02,080 --> 00:48:03,920
Speaker 1: It's not that I don't want you to do this thing.

924
00:48:03,960 --> 00:48:06,040
Speaker 1: I just don't want to put any stress or pressure

925
00:48:06,120 --> 00:48:09,640
Speaker 1: on you to do it.

926
00:48:09,719 --> 00:48:12,800
Speaker 2: So I don't even I don't even consider that because

927
00:48:13,280 --> 00:48:15,359
Speaker 2: I be feeling like people are an adult. I don't

928
00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:18,120
Speaker 2: count people pocket either. You can do it, you're gonna

929
00:48:18,120 --> 00:48:19,640
Speaker 2: do it. If you can't, you can't.

930
00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:21,640
Speaker 1: So you're gonna still invite them.

931
00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:24,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's up to you to decide how you want

932
00:48:24,160 --> 00:48:29,560
Speaker 2: to allocate your money, right, Yeah, so go ahead now.

933
00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:31,759
Speaker 2: If you make poor choices, that's on you, baby girl.

934
00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:34,400
Speaker 1: I don't know what to tell you all on the boat,

935
00:48:34,680 --> 00:48:37,400
Speaker 1: all on the cruise and then you got rented when

936
00:48:37,440 --> 00:48:38,040
Speaker 1: you get back.

937
00:48:38,400 --> 00:48:40,719
Speaker 2: But in the rent Onney is crazy. But I don't

938
00:48:40,760 --> 00:48:44,480
Speaker 2: think I have friends that are like we're I think

939
00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:46,799
Speaker 2: we're all at of age where we're not making them

940
00:48:46,840 --> 00:48:47,840
Speaker 2: ass choices like that.

941
00:48:48,840 --> 00:48:52,399
Speaker 1: I don't know. I feel like some people probably still are,

942
00:48:52,600 --> 00:48:54,759
Speaker 1: like they just trying to live right now, and then

943
00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:58,840
Speaker 1: they resent it and they have buyers re morse. You know,

944
00:48:59,000 --> 00:49:00,880
Speaker 1: when the thing is over and now you're mad at

945
00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:04,520
Speaker 1: everybody else but yourself. Sometimes you got to stay in

946
00:49:04,520 --> 00:49:08,399
Speaker 1: the house. Yeah, sometimes you gotta sit down. You save

947
00:49:08,520 --> 00:49:10,360
Speaker 1: so much money. Well, I don't know now because of

948
00:49:10,440 --> 00:49:12,919
Speaker 1: online shopping, bitch, because I be in the dark. Last

949
00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:16,520
Speaker 1: night was planning a vacation booking. I don't know how

950
00:49:16,520 --> 00:49:18,000
Speaker 1: the fuck I'm about to pay for this ship, bitch.

951
00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:19,960
Speaker 1: But I'm out for Christmas.

952
00:49:21,120 --> 00:49:24,000
Speaker 2: Legionary, bitch, huh this year?

953
00:49:25,080 --> 00:49:29,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I'm book I booked for the twenty ninth,

954
00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:32,520
Speaker 1: twenty exees me the twenty what's the day after Christmas?

955
00:49:32,560 --> 00:49:36,360
Speaker 1: Twenty sixth, twenty seventh, so the twenty seventh to January second.

956
00:49:37,440 --> 00:49:37,879
Speaker 1: I'm out.

957
00:49:38,360 --> 00:49:42,160
Speaker 2: I know that's right. You're going with your man? Where

958
00:49:42,200 --> 00:49:42,720
Speaker 2: you are going?

959
00:49:44,239 --> 00:49:45,120
Speaker 1: Beatos?

960
00:49:45,480 --> 00:49:47,600
Speaker 2: Are you listen? That been on the bucket list? So

961
00:49:47,680 --> 00:49:48,560
Speaker 2: I'll let you're going.

962
00:49:49,400 --> 00:49:52,160
Speaker 1: I know, so I've been. I tried to see where

963
00:49:52,160 --> 00:49:55,360
Speaker 1: else because the longer you wait, you know, the plane tickets,

964
00:49:55,440 --> 00:49:59,080
Speaker 1: everything go up. But I'm out, man, I need a vacation.

965
00:50:00,200 --> 00:50:02,680
Speaker 1: I haven't felt like I deserved a vacation in a

966
00:50:02,719 --> 00:50:04,560
Speaker 1: long time because I've been just out here doing what

967
00:50:04,560 --> 00:50:06,719
Speaker 1: the fuck I want to do. I feel like I

968
00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:09,520
Speaker 1: deserve a vacation right now, and I'm taking.

969
00:50:09,680 --> 00:50:11,520
Speaker 2: I always feel like I deserve it. I just got

970
00:50:11,640 --> 00:50:14,400
Speaker 2: back and I feel like I deserve another one, all right?

971
00:50:14,520 --> 00:50:17,439
Speaker 1: And restaurants without checking budgets? Do I need to check

972
00:50:17,440 --> 00:50:19,440
Speaker 1: with you to see do I need to consider somebody's

973
00:50:19,480 --> 00:50:21,800
Speaker 1: pocket before I pick what restaurant we're gonna eat at.

974
00:50:22,080 --> 00:50:23,560
Speaker 1: I feel like most of my friends, if we don't

975
00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:26,080
Speaker 1: spend money on nothing else, we spend money on food.

976
00:50:26,080 --> 00:50:30,719
Speaker 2: Right, we're gonna go eat or just don't go, like

977
00:50:30,760 --> 00:50:36,600
Speaker 2: you don't have to go Like that's the thing I

978
00:50:36,600 --> 00:50:38,680
Speaker 2: would listen. I'll let you know up front what I'm

979
00:50:38,680 --> 00:50:41,880
Speaker 2: gonna spend. If you invite me to something I'm not,

980
00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:43,759
Speaker 2: I'll be like, oh no, I ain't doing all of that.

981
00:50:45,680 --> 00:50:49,080
Speaker 2: And then here's my thing. I want to go to everything,

982
00:50:49,680 --> 00:50:53,200
Speaker 2: so I like I would to. In just the past

983
00:50:53,400 --> 00:50:56,200
Speaker 2: month and a half, I went to New Orleans, now

984
00:50:56,239 --> 00:51:04,080
Speaker 2: went to Chicago, New Orleans, New York, Texas. Then the

985
00:51:04,160 --> 00:51:14,280
Speaker 2: crew with different bitches for every trip. But I I'm

986
00:51:14,400 --> 00:51:18,560
Speaker 2: frugal though, Like, I'm not spending too much every place

987
00:51:18,840 --> 00:51:21,200
Speaker 2: because I got bitches. Next week, I'm going somewhere with

988
00:51:21,640 --> 00:51:25,239
Speaker 2: so I can't run it up with y'all, but I'm

989
00:51:25,280 --> 00:51:26,719
Speaker 2: gonna do enough. You know.

990
00:51:28,640 --> 00:51:31,680
Speaker 1: You feel you do not make your friend feel away, though,

991
00:51:32,400 --> 00:51:34,640
Speaker 1: is that even a thing like if you have a

992
00:51:34,800 --> 00:51:38,200
Speaker 1: I remember a friend asked me if I wanted to

993
00:51:38,200 --> 00:51:40,120
Speaker 1: go out to eat, and this is like when we're

994
00:51:40,160 --> 00:51:42,080
Speaker 1: now older. This is the person who actually for the

995
00:51:42,080 --> 00:51:43,960
Speaker 1: two dollars back. So now we're a little older, right,

996
00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:45,560
Speaker 1: she got a kid, now all this shit. And I

997
00:51:45,560 --> 00:51:47,840
Speaker 1: remember calling to ask me if I wanted to go

998
00:51:47,840 --> 00:51:49,880
Speaker 1: out to eat because she was in town, and she

999
00:51:50,000 --> 00:51:52,040
Speaker 1: was like, and I'm paying for She said, I'm gonna

1000
00:51:52,040 --> 00:51:55,919
Speaker 1: pay too for once. What is the phrase? Basically she's saying,

1001
00:51:56,080 --> 00:51:58,640
Speaker 1: and I'm paying because you always was paying for me before, Right,

1002
00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:02,200
Speaker 1: that's on your mind. I never thought about the only

1003
00:52:02,239 --> 00:52:03,960
Speaker 1: time I would think about things I paid for is

1004
00:52:03,960 --> 00:52:05,280
Speaker 1: when she would act selfish.

1005
00:52:06,040 --> 00:52:07,640
Speaker 2: Well maybe she was just trying to let you know

1006
00:52:07,680 --> 00:52:09,560
Speaker 2: she's paying it for it. She want to treat you.

1007
00:52:11,320 --> 00:52:16,799
Speaker 1: That was like a good gesture, I guess, But our

1008
00:52:16,880 --> 00:52:22,359
Speaker 1: friendship ultimately ended up ending really because of like money shit.

1009
00:52:22,520 --> 00:52:26,160
Speaker 1: Like just I remember when she first got her driver's

1010
00:52:26,239 --> 00:52:29,160
Speaker 1: license and she was like she sent me a picture

1011
00:52:29,160 --> 00:52:32,799
Speaker 1: of her license and she was like, don't it look

1012
00:52:32,840 --> 00:52:35,200
Speaker 1: like don't I look like my mama on this license?

1013
00:52:36,080 --> 00:52:36,360
Speaker 2: MH.

1014
00:52:37,600 --> 00:52:39,400
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, like a black panther because she

1015
00:52:39,400 --> 00:52:41,759
Speaker 1: had her afro. Right, you asked me if you look

1016
00:52:41,800 --> 00:52:43,960
Speaker 1: like your mama, a fifty sixty something year old lady,

1017
00:52:44,040 --> 00:52:47,160
Speaker 1: and you got an afro on your driver's license. I

1018
00:52:47,239 --> 00:52:49,520
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, you look like your mama. Not I

1019
00:52:49,600 --> 00:52:52,560
Speaker 1: said her mom's name, now, not like your mama. Yeah,

1020
00:52:52,600 --> 00:52:55,319
Speaker 1: she was like. She messaged me back. She was like,

1021
00:52:55,440 --> 00:53:00,719
Speaker 1: why because I'm not hidden behind We even makeup. It

1022
00:53:00,880 --> 00:53:03,960
Speaker 1: was like, Hello, that ain't I ain't never had nobody

1023
00:53:04,080 --> 00:53:07,080
Speaker 1: taking me to get a driver's license in a car? Hello?

1024
00:53:07,760 --> 00:53:11,720
Speaker 1: What ain't mad about it? Girls? So all these years,

1025
00:53:11,760 --> 00:53:13,360
Speaker 1: mind you, I got a car our last year of

1026
00:53:13,440 --> 00:53:15,360
Speaker 1: high school, and that car got both her and I

1027
00:53:15,560 --> 00:53:18,040
Speaker 1: to work. That car got both her and I to college.

1028
00:53:18,560 --> 00:53:18,920
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.

1029
00:53:19,320 --> 00:53:25,120
Speaker 1: Whatever I had, you had, right, But our entire entire friendship,

1030
00:53:25,520 --> 00:53:28,160
Speaker 1: you have been like tallying up some shit on me

1031
00:53:28,520 --> 00:53:32,120
Speaker 1: that I'm not right. You're tallying up what I'm able

1032
00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:34,839
Speaker 1: to do for you. I'm not tallying up what I've

1033
00:53:34,840 --> 00:53:39,680
Speaker 1: done for you. Yeah, somehow you built resentment towards me

1034
00:53:40,440 --> 00:53:45,719
Speaker 1: for being capable. Right, that has nothing to do with me.

1035
00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:48,680
Speaker 1: And I think sometimes if anybody like I shouldn't have

1036
00:53:48,760 --> 00:53:53,120
Speaker 1: to dumb myself down to ever make anybody else feel

1037
00:53:53,160 --> 00:53:58,360
Speaker 1: comfortable like this, BO says, don't intentionally flex? How do

1038
00:53:58,400 --> 00:54:02,760
Speaker 1: you intentionally flex? You gotta always be intentionally doing something

1039
00:54:02,800 --> 00:54:07,320
Speaker 1: to somebody who can't, because they just gonna be feeling

1040
00:54:07,360 --> 00:54:08,640
Speaker 1: a way. If they gonna feel the way, it's not

1041
00:54:08,800 --> 00:54:11,839
Speaker 1: there's no avoiding that, you know what I'm saying, It's

1042
00:54:11,880 --> 00:54:14,880
Speaker 1: no avoiding that mental illness, because that's what it is.

1043
00:54:14,920 --> 00:54:20,000
Speaker 2: It's hating, Like, is there a way that you're flaunting

1044
00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:24,200
Speaker 2: your wealth or riches? I can't. I don't know. Yeah,

1045
00:54:24,239 --> 00:54:25,840
Speaker 2: I don't agree with that because I don't.

1046
00:54:25,680 --> 00:54:29,960
Speaker 1: Know to be flying, But you would think that it

1047
00:54:29,960 --> 00:54:32,520
Speaker 1: would be the little things that somebody's so jealous of.

1048
00:54:34,080 --> 00:54:38,520
Speaker 1: It's your area, your energy, your motion, right, don't add

1049
00:54:38,520 --> 00:54:41,239
Speaker 1: money on top of that, because I had motion before

1050
00:54:41,239 --> 00:54:44,799
Speaker 1: I have money. I had the energy before I had

1051
00:54:44,800 --> 00:54:47,040
Speaker 1: the bag, and I still ain't got no bag, you

1052
00:54:47,080 --> 00:54:49,840
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like, not the big bag, not

1053
00:54:49,960 --> 00:54:53,800
Speaker 1: what I consider a bag. I saw. I thought about

1054
00:54:53,840 --> 00:54:56,520
Speaker 1: this topic because I saw a post online today and

1055
00:54:56,520 --> 00:55:00,160
Speaker 1: this dude was saying he was like this bitches all

1056
00:55:00,200 --> 00:55:02,160
Speaker 1: mented on his post, and this shit fucked me up.

1057
00:55:03,000 --> 00:55:06,920
Speaker 1: She said, he said. The person commented and said, everybody

1058
00:55:06,920 --> 00:55:11,720
Speaker 1: ain't struggling like I'm all right, and it made him think,

1059
00:55:11,760 --> 00:55:14,200
Speaker 1: like we like a lot of people like post about

1060
00:55:14,239 --> 00:55:17,000
Speaker 1: struggling and this, this, this that and the that, this

1061
00:55:17,120 --> 00:55:18,960
Speaker 1: that and the third going on in life, and that's

1062
00:55:19,000 --> 00:55:22,160
Speaker 1: not everybody's situation. Situation.

1063
00:55:23,080 --> 00:55:24,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, because when I was saying like I was poor

1064
00:55:25,000 --> 00:55:27,520
Speaker 2: in college, it's some people listening like, I don't know

1065
00:55:27,560 --> 00:55:30,120
Speaker 2: what that's like. You know, it's probably like we got

1066
00:55:30,200 --> 00:55:33,160
Speaker 2: listeners that don't have can't identify with being a poor

1067
00:55:33,200 --> 00:55:34,160
Speaker 2: college too, right, you know.

1068
00:55:35,080 --> 00:55:39,040
Speaker 1: So I've always been a hybrid, always been that in

1069
00:55:39,080 --> 00:55:42,240
Speaker 1: the middle. You know what I'm saying. I never had everything.

1070
00:55:43,080 --> 00:55:46,720
Speaker 1: I don't feel like I ever had enough of anything.

1071
00:55:47,120 --> 00:55:49,440
Speaker 1: Have ever missed a meal? Yeah?

1072
00:55:49,600 --> 00:55:49,880
Speaker 2: I have.

1073
00:55:50,040 --> 00:55:53,680
Speaker 1: As an adult, I have missed. Let me stop lying,

1074
00:55:53,719 --> 00:55:56,439
Speaker 1: hold on because you got something to eat.

1075
00:55:57,520 --> 00:55:59,040
Speaker 2: I don't think I ever missed a meal.

1076
00:55:59,320 --> 00:56:01,959
Speaker 1: I think I have. I've never missed a meal. I've

1077
00:56:02,000 --> 00:56:04,320
Speaker 1: never my LIFs ain't never been off in my house

1078
00:56:05,000 --> 00:56:07,719
Speaker 1: as a child or as an adult. It's those are

1079
00:56:07,760 --> 00:56:09,640
Speaker 1: the things I'm a I'm a paid before I do

1080
00:56:09,719 --> 00:56:13,960
Speaker 1: anything else. That's you're not You're not being responsible. Your

1081
00:56:14,000 --> 00:56:16,000
Speaker 1: life is the biggest business you'll ever run.

1082
00:56:16,440 --> 00:56:20,640
Speaker 2: But I mean, everybody bottom different, you know, so yeah,

1083
00:56:20,760 --> 00:56:25,680
Speaker 2: what some might consider what I might consider I'm doing well,

1084
00:56:26,280 --> 00:56:29,359
Speaker 2: I'm wealthy. Is a person out there listening would be like,

1085
00:56:30,040 --> 00:56:32,040
Speaker 2: if I ever get to that, like coming to America,

1086
00:56:32,120 --> 00:56:34,400
Speaker 2: maybe one day you can have all of this, And

1087
00:56:34,440 --> 00:56:37,480
Speaker 2: he was like, that would be something. Yeah, because now

1088
00:56:37,480 --> 00:56:46,200
Speaker 2: I'm for as fuck right everybody you know, everybody's wealthybody different. Yeah,

1089
00:56:46,600 --> 00:56:51,600
Speaker 2: but don't I don't think you should, Like, I think

1090
00:56:51,640 --> 00:56:55,200
Speaker 2: it's mean girl energy to pick your friends based on

1091
00:56:55,320 --> 00:56:59,680
Speaker 2: how much money they got or how they come and financially.

1092
00:57:00,200 --> 00:57:02,399
Speaker 1: Or hear somebody you been friends with for a long time,

1093
00:57:02,480 --> 00:57:03,759
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying that, And this is like

1094
00:57:04,120 --> 00:57:09,000
Speaker 1: you leveled up quicker. Yeah, you know, but I wouldn't

1095
00:57:09,040 --> 00:57:10,480
Speaker 1: like they can't keep up.

1096
00:57:12,000 --> 00:57:14,040
Speaker 2: But you're not. You're not going to discard them because

1097
00:57:14,080 --> 00:57:14,920
Speaker 2: of that, you know, Like.

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00:57:15,040 --> 00:57:20,320
Speaker 1: No, absolutely not, but they might discard you, you know

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00:57:20,360 --> 00:57:25,240
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like that happens, They might start a

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00:57:25,240 --> 00:57:28,000
Speaker 1: lot of times, people who are really wealthy will tell

1101
00:57:28,000 --> 00:57:30,440
Speaker 1: you it's not them that change, just the people around

1102
00:57:30,440 --> 00:57:34,200
Speaker 1: them that changed. People start treating you differently, we don't

1103
00:57:34,200 --> 00:57:37,480
Speaker 1: even got no bags, but we we we got motion. Right,

1104
00:57:37,760 --> 00:57:40,840
Speaker 1: people don't treat you differently. Yeah, just thinking you got

1105
00:57:40,840 --> 00:57:42,200
Speaker 1: some shit going on that you might not.

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00:57:44,000 --> 00:57:44,120
Speaker 2: Right.

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00:57:44,320 --> 00:57:46,680
Speaker 1: I always get a surcharge on shit just because I

1108
00:57:46,760 --> 00:57:50,760
Speaker 1: know Charlemagne, motherfucker always trying to tax me or some shit.

1109
00:57:51,640 --> 00:57:56,600
Speaker 1: I don't have Charlamagne's money that part. So you know, people,

1110
00:57:57,560 --> 00:57:59,919
Speaker 1: it's just a thing, right. And I feel like if

1111
00:58:00,240 --> 00:58:07,360
Speaker 1: success oftentimes either Goner's admiration or a goners hater, like

1112
00:58:07,400 --> 00:58:09,560
Speaker 1: a hater, you become a hater. And adults just have

1113
00:58:09,600 --> 00:58:12,040
Speaker 1: a hard time admitting that they fucking hatter, so they

1114
00:58:12,040 --> 00:58:15,920
Speaker 1: will create reasons to justify the hate. Or she be flexing,

1115
00:58:16,640 --> 00:58:18,560
Speaker 1: or her and an't her friends, they be doing too much,

1116
00:58:18,760 --> 00:58:21,840
Speaker 1: Like no, you're not doing enough because you could be

1117
00:58:21,880 --> 00:58:25,440
Speaker 1: making more money, but you like to lay down. I

1118
00:58:25,640 --> 00:58:28,560
Speaker 1: like to lay down too. At some point you got

1119
00:58:28,560 --> 00:58:28,960
Speaker 1: to get.

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Speaker 2: Up right, I agree. Or you know what, some people

1121
00:58:35,240 --> 00:58:38,240
Speaker 2: are okay with not having a lot of money, but

1122
00:58:38,320 --> 00:58:42,960
Speaker 2: and if you like, I think everybody wants more money.

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00:58:43,120 --> 00:58:45,120
Speaker 2: But I think people some people are okay with like

1124
00:58:45,200 --> 00:58:48,960
Speaker 2: having just a regular house, a regular job. They can

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Speaker 2: feed their family, they can make sure their kids are healthy,

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00:58:53,920 --> 00:58:56,880
Speaker 2: absolutely yeah, and they're not trying to go on the yacht.

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00:58:57,120 --> 00:59:01,800
Speaker 2: They're not trying to buy a expensive bags and all that.

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Speaker 1: Shit is just I don't do none of that. Mean

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00:59:04,280 --> 00:59:09,520
Speaker 1: I definitely like a low boat trip on Victis, Yeah,

1130
00:59:09,560 --> 00:59:12,360
Speaker 1: But like all the materialistic things, like I always say,

1131
00:59:12,400 --> 00:59:14,919
Speaker 1: I want it, I like to buy experiences. It's never

1132
00:59:14,960 --> 00:59:17,200
Speaker 1: gonna be things and stuff.

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00:59:17,680 --> 00:59:20,720
Speaker 2: I want both. I love me a good bag, a

1134
00:59:20,800 --> 00:59:21,600
Speaker 2: good shoe.

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00:59:23,640 --> 00:59:26,280
Speaker 1: Right now, if I gotta choose, you see what I'm saying, yeah,

1136
00:59:26,320 --> 00:59:28,280
Speaker 1: and not saying that I really have to choose. I'm

1137
00:59:28,320 --> 00:59:30,960
Speaker 1: not just living for me. I don't even have kids yet,

1138
00:59:31,080 --> 00:59:34,440
Speaker 1: but I think about right now, at this age, if

1139
00:59:34,440 --> 00:59:36,080
Speaker 1: I have a kid, what am I leaving for them?

1140
00:59:37,000 --> 00:59:38,520
Speaker 1: That's why I'm like, I got a grind for the

1141
00:59:38,520 --> 00:59:40,040
Speaker 1: next ten years because I did what the fuck I

1142
00:59:40,080 --> 00:59:43,040
Speaker 1: want I wanted to for the last ten years. So

1143
00:59:43,120 --> 00:59:46,320
Speaker 1: the next ten years, girl, we're gonna be fucking fifty sixty.

1144
00:59:46,360 --> 00:59:49,600
Speaker 1: That shit is coming girl. Whatever, girl, it is fucking coming,

1145
00:59:50,200 --> 00:59:54,160
Speaker 1: and it's coming. So what a full one k looking like? Right?

1146
00:59:54,480 --> 00:59:57,480
Speaker 1: What a retirement looking like? There's other things to consider

1147
00:59:57,520 --> 00:59:59,360
Speaker 1: other than yourself and your fun today.

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01:00:00,160 --> 01:00:00,760
Speaker 2: No, I agree.

1149
01:00:02,080 --> 01:00:04,960
Speaker 1: So if if right now, at this, at that age,

1150
01:00:04,960 --> 01:00:07,680
Speaker 1: and you still worrying about, you know, not being being

1151
01:00:07,720 --> 01:00:11,360
Speaker 1: able to eat with your friends or do a vacation

1152
01:00:11,520 --> 01:00:16,160
Speaker 1: with your friends, when you gonna do something different, I agree.

1153
01:00:16,200 --> 01:00:19,560
Speaker 1: Were getting older and I feel like there's a certain

1154
01:00:19,680 --> 01:00:22,320
Speaker 1: like there's just adult shit that people are gonna want

1155
01:00:22,320 --> 01:00:25,640
Speaker 1: to do, and it's nobody else's fault if you can't

1156
01:00:25,640 --> 01:00:28,760
Speaker 1: do adult shit with them.

1157
01:00:28,800 --> 01:00:32,280
Speaker 2: This is true. What you're gonna do barbecue mildew.

1158
01:00:32,920 --> 01:00:36,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, what you're gonna do, barbecue mildewyep, for real, for real.

1159
01:00:37,440 --> 01:00:38,800
Speaker 2: That's my last last.

1160
01:00:39,480 --> 01:00:43,160
Speaker 1: My last last is take the trip, bitch. If you

1161
01:00:43,160 --> 01:00:48,480
Speaker 1: gotta pop some extra pussy to do it, don't do that. Listen,

1162
01:00:48,560 --> 01:00:52,400
Speaker 1: they fucking anyway, Why would you not? The men know

1163
01:00:52,440 --> 01:00:54,120
Speaker 1: they gotta come with the offerings.

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01:00:54,200 --> 01:00:54,480
Speaker 2: Y'all.

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01:00:54,480 --> 01:00:57,200
Speaker 1: Do not let these niggas. Oh, you shouldn't be fucking,

1166
01:00:57,200 --> 01:00:58,840
Speaker 1: You shouldn't go on a trip, and you shouldn't be

1167
01:00:58,880 --> 01:01:02,680
Speaker 1: having sex. I'm gonna challenge y'all bitches in twenty twenty six,

1168
01:01:03,600 --> 01:01:07,120
Speaker 1: if you, if your finances are not in order, do

1169
01:01:07,320 --> 01:01:10,320
Speaker 1: not pop that pussy in twenty twenty six. You do

1170
01:01:10,440 --> 01:01:15,160
Speaker 1: not deserve to be popping that pussy bottom line, Okay,

1171
01:01:15,240 --> 01:01:16,280
Speaker 1: I do you know what?

1172
01:01:16,960 --> 01:01:21,160
Speaker 2: Not? Only do you not this? Nobody deserves to be

1173
01:01:21,720 --> 01:01:27,600
Speaker 2: inside your body if they can't help you, if you're

1174
01:01:27,720 --> 01:01:31,120
Speaker 2: if you're fucked up out here? Why is anybody inside

1175
01:01:31,120 --> 01:01:33,720
Speaker 2: your body?

1176
01:01:33,960 --> 01:01:38,920
Speaker 1: Why you not? Time cannot come thinking about my light built.

1177
01:01:41,320 --> 01:01:41,959
Speaker 2: Right that part?

1178
01:01:42,280 --> 01:01:44,720
Speaker 1: I just a loved one to get one hundred dollars

1179
01:01:44,760 --> 01:01:46,240
Speaker 1: from every nigga she fucking.

1180
01:01:47,520 --> 01:01:50,800
Speaker 2: I challenge you to do that if she couldn't, can you.

1181
01:01:50,800 --> 01:01:53,880
Speaker 1: Get I don't know. I didn't never follow up. I

1182
01:01:53,920 --> 01:01:55,680
Speaker 1: just was like, I just threw it out there, like

1183
01:01:56,760 --> 01:02:00,640
Speaker 1: I can't be sucking dick to pay your light bil,

1184
01:02:00,960 --> 01:02:03,120
Speaker 1: because that's how I feel. If I not to say that,

1185
01:02:03,160 --> 01:02:05,080
Speaker 1: I gotta get this money from this man to do

1186
01:02:05,120 --> 01:02:10,480
Speaker 1: this thing for this person, but his money is mine too, essentially, right,

1187
01:02:11,040 --> 01:02:14,400
Speaker 1: So if I I am fucking with somebody that I

1188
01:02:14,520 --> 01:02:18,520
Speaker 1: know that will do anything for me, at some point

1189
01:02:18,600 --> 01:02:20,560
Speaker 1: I might have to use them to do something for you.

1190
01:02:20,680 --> 01:02:23,000
Speaker 1: Why I gotta do that when you fucking too?

1191
01:02:23,880 --> 01:02:28,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm tripping. It's a little prostituting a little bit,

1192
01:02:28,760 --> 01:02:32,160
Speaker 2: but I get where you're going. Where you're going twenty.

1193
01:02:31,960 --> 01:02:36,120
Speaker 1: Twenty six challenge, do not pop that pussy if you

1194
01:02:36,120 --> 01:02:42,160
Speaker 1: ain't popping no bands, okay, and watch out life get

1195
01:02:42,600 --> 01:02:47,120
Speaker 1: if all. Everything feels so much better when you got

1196
01:02:47,200 --> 01:02:51,160
Speaker 1: money in the bank. Everything is lit. It feels good

1197
01:02:51,240 --> 01:02:54,400
Speaker 1: to party with money, It feels good to have sex

1198
01:02:54,440 --> 01:02:56,439
Speaker 1: with money. You have to worry about some shit.

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Speaker 2: It just will take me where. I also challenged the girl,

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01:03:01,600 --> 01:03:05,440
Speaker 2: don't spend your money on a bunch of things, like

1201
01:03:05,480 --> 01:03:08,720
Speaker 2: what catch y'all said, don't waste money on the bag

1202
01:03:08,760 --> 01:03:12,160
Speaker 2: and can't put a bag in it if you can't.

1203
01:03:13,160 --> 01:03:16,760
Speaker 2: If you're using all your money on stuff, but if

1204
01:03:16,800 --> 01:03:20,520
Speaker 2: some shit happen, you can't fund your life, that's a problem.

1205
01:03:20,600 --> 01:03:23,320
Speaker 2: Stop doing that. You don't want to just look good,

1206
01:03:24,160 --> 01:03:25,640
Speaker 2: you really want to be good.

1207
01:03:26,720 --> 01:03:28,760
Speaker 1: I see that happening of wearing their money.

1208
01:03:29,640 --> 01:03:33,240
Speaker 2: Like girl got all kind of Chanel bags and all

1209
01:03:33,280 --> 01:03:37,360
Speaker 2: the shoes, and a nigga was like funding a lot

1210
01:03:37,400 --> 01:03:40,200
Speaker 2: of this stuff, and then he decided to stop paying

1211
01:03:40,240 --> 01:03:44,520
Speaker 2: her rent. She was evicted immediately immediately.

1212
01:03:46,560 --> 01:03:49,600
Speaker 1: What are you doing? The bags are an investment, right,

1213
01:03:49,640 --> 01:03:51,439
Speaker 1: so you can sell them, But then people be still

1214
01:03:51,480 --> 01:03:53,800
Speaker 1: trying to hold on the stuff to still look good

1215
01:03:54,160 --> 01:03:57,320
Speaker 1: for then that whole time their life and fucking shambles.

1216
01:03:57,560 --> 01:04:00,880
Speaker 1: Probably got a kid out here, just it doesn't make

1217
01:04:00,880 --> 01:04:01,400
Speaker 1: any sense.

1218
01:04:02,040 --> 01:04:04,480
Speaker 2: I saw this one girl, she had like all the designer,

1219
01:04:04,640 --> 01:04:09,200
Speaker 2: all the designer. I'm talking about closet stupid. And then

1220
01:04:09,880 --> 01:04:11,840
Speaker 2: what was about her business was like she had like

1221
01:04:11,880 --> 01:04:14,000
Speaker 2: a boutique or something like it. It was folding and

1222
01:04:14,120 --> 01:04:16,440
Speaker 2: she wanted to GoFundMe. She put up like a gofund

1223
01:04:16,480 --> 01:04:19,040
Speaker 2: me asking people to give her money. Girl, if you

1224
01:04:19,040 --> 01:04:22,320
Speaker 2: don't sell all that shit, you got all that, but

1225
01:04:22,360 --> 01:04:24,280
Speaker 2: you're want to keep it. You want to keep all

1226
01:04:24,320 --> 01:04:29,360
Speaker 2: that stuff and use everybody else money. No start over

1227
01:04:29,440 --> 01:04:32,760
Speaker 2: with that. You have what it? That's why when on

1228
01:04:32,920 --> 01:04:36,680
Speaker 2: What's That Show with Mary J. Blige the Tahatas and

1229
01:04:36,720 --> 01:04:38,120
Speaker 2: they was like trying to come up with.

1230
01:04:38,760 --> 01:04:41,280
Speaker 1: How was that right? I've been wearing design and shit

1231
01:04:41,360 --> 01:04:46,040
Speaker 1: for thirty seasons straight. Now admit that knowing guitar sweater,

1232
01:04:46,160 --> 01:04:48,800
Speaker 1: little throat shit you had on bitch, y'all buy it

1233
01:04:48,960 --> 01:04:49,600
Speaker 1: right now.

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01:04:51,240 --> 01:04:54,000
Speaker 2: I would literally watch the show and take their outfits

1235
01:04:54,040 --> 01:04:57,560
Speaker 2: and like add it up, remember, and I screenshot and

1236
01:04:57,600 --> 01:05:00,160
Speaker 2: post the prices of all that shit. Y'all got what

1237
01:05:00,240 --> 01:05:03,200
Speaker 2: y'all need? Why is y'all killing people. Y'all got this

1238
01:05:03,280 --> 01:05:04,280
Speaker 2: ship right there.

1239
01:05:07,120 --> 01:05:09,680
Speaker 1: They one bill away from being a regular nigga. You'll

1240
01:05:09,720 --> 01:05:11,560
Speaker 1: don't live your life like that man. That ship is

1241
01:05:11,600 --> 01:05:15,840
Speaker 1: really whack. And I mean, aside from rent life insurance.

1242
01:05:16,080 --> 01:05:18,880
Speaker 1: Something happening you now. You're trying to get do dinners

1243
01:05:18,880 --> 01:05:23,120
Speaker 1: and go fundy for a funeral you ask deserve to

1244
01:05:23,120 --> 01:05:26,480
Speaker 1: be cremated. You did not. Oh, we're gonna We're gonna

1245
01:05:26,520 --> 01:05:29,000
Speaker 1: make you pay for it. Like did he made Biggie

1246
01:05:29,000 --> 01:05:33,040
Speaker 1: pay for his own funeral. We won't rec that's crazy.

1247
01:05:34,200 --> 01:05:35,160
Speaker 1: We're gonna recoup it.

1248
01:05:37,320 --> 01:05:39,000
Speaker 2: Wow, that's time to go.

1249
01:05:40,440 --> 01:05:44,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, we all enjoyed this episode. Y'all tuned

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01:05:44,240 --> 01:05:46,919
Speaker 1: in every Thursday in the Black Effect. I heart Radio Apple.

1251
01:05:46,960 --> 01:05:48,760
Speaker 1: Where the fuck you get your podcasts at this jo

1252
01:05:48,840 --> 01:05:52,400
Speaker 1: go host a j holiday two play old on instagrams.

1253
01:05:52,760 --> 01:05:54,000
Speaker 1: Kick a Tam.

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01:05:53,680 --> 01:05:56,400
Speaker 2: Y'all its official Tam Bam on Instagram. Y'all follow We

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01:05:56,520 --> 01:05:59,600
Speaker 2: Talked Back podcast on Instagram. I love y'all so much,

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01:05:59,600 --> 01:06:02,040
Speaker 2: and I really appreciate y'all for joining us every week

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01:06:02,080 --> 01:06:05,439
Speaker 2: and being our homegirls and listen to us, listening to

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01:06:05,560 --> 01:06:09,560
Speaker 2: us talk ran about nothing yep every week and I

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01:06:09,600 --> 01:06:12,000
Speaker 2: love y'all for it. Y'all remember speaking now.

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01:06:13,240 --> 01:06:18,000
Speaker 1: I don't know. Never hold no hold yoge wallet, hold

1261
01:06:18,040 --> 01:06:19,040
Speaker 1: on to some of that money.

1262
01:06:19,040 --> 01:06:19,920
Speaker 2: Stop running it up.

1263
01:06:20,080 --> 01:06:23,000
Speaker 1: Don't try to hold your friend accountable for having a bag.

1264
01:06:23,440 --> 01:06:24,480
Speaker 1: Can't be mad at her.

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01:06:26,040 --> 01:06:29,320
Speaker 2: Bit. Bye, y'all, Deuces.

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