1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:01,840 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,280 --> 00:00:10,680 Speaker 2: Y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all at all, So. 3 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:13,760 Speaker 3: Don't given the. 4 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:26,920 Speaker 1: Black the million busy listening to show. 5 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:54,480 Speaker 4: I want joy, yea joy? 6 00:00:59,040 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 3: You want to do that you love? 7 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:27,319 Speaker 5: You gotta turn We. 8 00:01:41,080 --> 00:01:42,280 Speaker 6: Got to turn the mouth. 9 00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:45,480 Speaker 7: Turn you probably got to turn the mouth. 10 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:48,840 Speaker 1: And turn the mouth the water agap. 11 00:01:55,840 --> 00:01:56,240 Speaker 5: Come. 12 00:01:58,480 --> 00:02:03,720 Speaker 7: Come out your b I show will good. 13 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:06,600 Speaker 2: Morning everybody you are listening to the voice, come on 14 00:02:06,840 --> 00:02:07,440 Speaker 2: dig me now. 15 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:08,560 Speaker 7: One and only. 16 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:12,239 Speaker 2: Steve Harvey got a radio show. Got a radio show 17 00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:15,440 Speaker 2: because God in the blessing business. Got a radio show 18 00:02:15,480 --> 00:02:18,840 Speaker 2: because God is in the forgiving business. Got a radio 19 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 2: show because God, I'll let you turn your life around. 20 00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:21,760 Speaker 7: Business. 21 00:02:22,480 --> 00:02:26,760 Speaker 2: Got a radio show because God know better than you know. Yeah, 22 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:30,000 Speaker 2: Steve Harvey got a radio show. Didn't see it coming, 23 00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 2: but he did. I'm gonna share with you today a 24 00:02:34,440 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 2: principle of success. 25 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:38,239 Speaker 7: You know, it's. 26 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:42,400 Speaker 2: Important that we get our lives together. I mean it 27 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:45,359 Speaker 2: really really is. You know, to hereafter is exactly what 28 00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 2: it says is to hereafter, And hopefully for the majority 29 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:53,799 Speaker 2: of us, that's quite a way He's off. So what 30 00:02:53,919 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 2: about how you living today? 31 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 7: How about now? 32 00:02:58,320 --> 00:03:01,359 Speaker 2: You know often talk to talk in the morning about 33 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:04,320 Speaker 2: your relationship with God that can never change. That is 34 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:10,639 Speaker 2: at the forefront and the best thought process that I 35 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 2: can give you. And I know who I'm talking to 36 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:16,000 Speaker 2: on the radio. I'm talking to a lot of people, man, 37 00:03:17,360 --> 00:03:19,600 Speaker 2: who out there just not sure. And I'm talking to 38 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:22,720 Speaker 2: a lot of people out there man that's trying to 39 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:26,240 Speaker 2: pull it together. In other words, you know, I'm talking 40 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:30,120 Speaker 2: to a lot of people like myself. There is a 41 00:03:30,200 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 2: principle of success that is out there that if more 42 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:35,400 Speaker 2: people understood one of the base this is just one 43 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 2: of one of the basic principles of success, you would 44 00:03:38,720 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 2: have more success in your life. And that principle is this, 45 00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 2: the more people you help become successful, the more successful 46 00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 2: you become. 47 00:03:50,360 --> 00:03:51,280 Speaker 7: Well, the more. 48 00:03:51,160 --> 00:03:55,160 Speaker 2: People you help become successful, the more successful you become. 49 00:03:55,440 --> 00:03:59,560 Speaker 2: Because you are practicing helping your and as you do 50 00:03:59,720 --> 00:04:06,600 Speaker 2: unto others, then it's done unto you. You build relationships. 51 00:04:06,640 --> 00:04:10,560 Speaker 2: When you do that, people forget and success that has 52 00:04:10,680 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 2: to be relationships. There is no one person in this 53 00:04:14,160 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 2: world who is just successful all on their own. You 54 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 2: are successful, and successful people form relationships, and you've got 55 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:29,040 Speaker 2: to really coddle these relationships. You've got to nurture these relationships. 56 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:32,880 Speaker 2: They don't just happen. You don't just get cool with 57 00:04:33,080 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 2: people just cause you cool. No, you've got to do 58 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:39,479 Speaker 2: some cool things to these people and for these people, 59 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:41,600 Speaker 2: for these people to be cool with you when you 60 00:04:41,760 --> 00:04:44,920 Speaker 2: need some cool. I don't know if I'm explaining that right, 61 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:46,560 Speaker 2: but that's the best way I can tell it to you. 62 00:04:46,680 --> 00:04:49,760 Speaker 2: I'm just regular, you know, I just speak like that. 63 00:04:50,360 --> 00:04:54,479 Speaker 2: This is an important principle to put into your life. 64 00:04:54,839 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 2: The more people you help become successful, the more successful 65 00:04:59,000 --> 00:04:59,640 Speaker 2: you become. 66 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:03,360 Speaker 7: You can look. You have to say to people, hey, 67 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 7: look I've done that. 68 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:06,560 Speaker 2: This is what you got to do. You got to 69 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:12,080 Speaker 2: take some time out to share. You have to share information, experiences, thoughts. 70 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:16,320 Speaker 2: You got to take a minute, man to uplift somebody, 71 00:05:16,480 --> 00:05:18,120 Speaker 2: give them some encouragement. 72 00:05:18,400 --> 00:05:21,080 Speaker 7: Hey man, you can do it. Don't give up. You 73 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:25,560 Speaker 7: have no idea. You you you right now. 74 00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 2: You have no idea how significant you are to someone else, 75 00:05:32,240 --> 00:05:35,680 Speaker 2: how your words of encouragement could be the difference maker. 76 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:38,720 Speaker 2: Today I'm talking about it's a person looking at you 77 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:40,839 Speaker 2: that you don't even really know you, or you don't 78 00:05:40,880 --> 00:05:43,279 Speaker 2: really know them, and you see them struggling with something. 79 00:05:43,360 --> 00:05:45,240 Speaker 2: Just say, hey, you know what, I've been watching you 80 00:05:45,320 --> 00:05:48,159 Speaker 2: from afar. You gonna be all right, man, I see 81 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:51,040 Speaker 2: some menu. Keep doing the right thing, man, You're gonna 82 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:54,640 Speaker 2: be alright. I had a meeting with a young man 83 00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:58,360 Speaker 2: for the first time, and this young man came into 84 00:05:58,440 --> 00:06:02,960 Speaker 2: my office and never met him. He has an internet service, 85 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:06,360 Speaker 2: which anybody can teach me something about the internet, because 86 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:07,960 Speaker 2: I know little too close to nothing. 87 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:10,760 Speaker 7: He was twenty seven years. 88 00:06:10,560 --> 00:06:16,480 Speaker 2: Old, and he was amazingly bright at this and I guess, 89 00:06:16,640 --> 00:06:19,800 Speaker 2: you know, that's not that hard to impress me. But 90 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:25,560 Speaker 2: the fluid speech pattern that he had about this very 91 00:06:25,640 --> 00:06:28,160 Speaker 2: very difficult subject. He was tossing around the terms I 92 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:31,200 Speaker 2: had heard, but he was actually putting him in sentences 93 00:06:31,360 --> 00:06:35,160 Speaker 2: where it made since to me. It's very fluid, very 94 00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:38,680 Speaker 2: sure of himself. When he was talking about this little thing, 95 00:06:38,800 --> 00:06:42,080 Speaker 2: A young dude twenty seven years old. And when he 96 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:45,360 Speaker 2: got through, the woman that had introduced me to him, 97 00:06:45,440 --> 00:06:47,480 Speaker 2: I was leaving my office and she was going to 98 00:06:47,680 --> 00:06:50,560 Speaker 2: escort him out, and I turned around and I said, 99 00:06:50,640 --> 00:06:54,760 Speaker 2: young man, I said, what size pants are you? And 100 00:06:54,839 --> 00:06:58,600 Speaker 2: I guessed it because I've been dressing for long. I've 101 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:01,719 Speaker 2: been all them sizes. I said, you about a thirty ways? 102 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:03,800 Speaker 2: He said, yes, Sir. I said, what side shoe you 103 00:07:03,880 --> 00:07:06,920 Speaker 2: waisted nine and a half? I said, what side shirt is? 104 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:10,280 Speaker 2: At a medium? He said, I really like extra large. 105 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 2: I said, well that's too big for you. You just 106 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:16,640 Speaker 2: want to look lousy and baggy. And so I was 107 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:19,400 Speaker 2: talking to him. Man I said, Man, I'm gonna help 108 00:07:19,440 --> 00:07:21,240 Speaker 2: you out. I said, man, because let me tell you something. 109 00:07:21,560 --> 00:07:25,320 Speaker 2: You a sharp young dude. Man, you are raisor sharp. 110 00:07:25,800 --> 00:07:29,320 Speaker 2: I said, You've really really impressed me today. I said, 111 00:07:29,320 --> 00:07:31,120 Speaker 2: And you know what, young brother, I said, You're gonna 112 00:07:31,160 --> 00:07:33,640 Speaker 2: make a lot of money one day. Man, I said, 113 00:07:33,720 --> 00:07:35,480 Speaker 2: but I want you to get your image up. 114 00:07:36,160 --> 00:07:36,640 Speaker 7: I want you to. 115 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:38,559 Speaker 2: I want you to look at how you dress because 116 00:07:38,560 --> 00:07:42,160 Speaker 2: you're coming into professional people's office and you're talking about 117 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:45,160 Speaker 2: doing something for them, and it takes money to make 118 00:07:45,200 --> 00:07:46,720 Speaker 2: it happen. I got to give you money to make 119 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:50,240 Speaker 2: this happen. What you cannot afford to do is look 120 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:53,120 Speaker 2: like you need every dime of this money. See you 121 00:07:53,680 --> 00:07:55,720 Speaker 2: get when you go in there and you talking about 122 00:07:56,520 --> 00:07:59,160 Speaker 2: money with another person, the person that's gonna give you 123 00:07:59,240 --> 00:08:01,680 Speaker 2: this money. Can you can't look like you need every 124 00:08:01,800 --> 00:08:04,600 Speaker 2: dime of this money, you know, so you gotta start 125 00:08:04,680 --> 00:08:07,720 Speaker 2: presenting yourself. And that's all I just said to him. 126 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 2: I just said, man, but you know what you shop, 127 00:08:09,840 --> 00:08:12,040 Speaker 2: You're gonna make yourself some money. I'm gonna help you 128 00:08:12,080 --> 00:08:12,680 Speaker 2: out a little bit. 129 00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:15,000 Speaker 7: I walked out. I went on bout my business. 130 00:08:15,080 --> 00:08:17,000 Speaker 2: Later on that afternoon, I had a meeting with the 131 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:19,640 Speaker 2: woman that bought him in and she said, mister Harvey, 132 00:08:19,640 --> 00:08:22,120 Speaker 2: you have no idea what you just did. He said, 133 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:25,840 Speaker 2: his eyes just teared up when you walked out. He said, Wow, man, 134 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:30,120 Speaker 2: that man don't even know me, and he just encouraged me. 135 00:08:30,560 --> 00:08:32,839 Speaker 2: He said, man, I always thought I might could make it, 136 00:08:32,960 --> 00:08:35,719 Speaker 2: but he said, I ain't. Never had nobody like him 137 00:08:35,880 --> 00:08:38,120 Speaker 2: tell me I could make it. And just hearing it 138 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:39,199 Speaker 2: from him, man. 139 00:08:39,160 --> 00:08:39,800 Speaker 7: That's all right. 140 00:08:40,480 --> 00:08:44,160 Speaker 2: I'm gonna get my clothes together. But you know, I've 141 00:08:44,160 --> 00:08:47,360 Speaker 2: been homeless. And then he started telling the woman that 142 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:50,199 Speaker 2: he had been homeless, and so you know, then she 143 00:08:50,320 --> 00:08:52,559 Speaker 2: telling me that now I'm fit to cry, because you know, 144 00:08:52,600 --> 00:08:53,880 Speaker 2: I've been in that hole before. 145 00:08:54,320 --> 00:08:56,280 Speaker 7: And I just and I'm just sharing that story with 146 00:08:56,400 --> 00:08:58,480 Speaker 7: y'all just to say, you don't know. 147 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:02,760 Speaker 2: Who you talking to But what does it hurt if 148 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:05,600 Speaker 2: you just extend your hand to a person and give 149 00:09:05,679 --> 00:09:07,359 Speaker 2: them a moment of encouragement. 150 00:09:08,080 --> 00:09:11,640 Speaker 7: See this young brother right here, he could come back one. 151 00:09:11,600 --> 00:09:15,120 Speaker 2: Day and be a major benefit to me because he 152 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:17,559 Speaker 2: has a skill set that I don't have. 153 00:09:18,440 --> 00:09:18,600 Speaker 7: Oh. 154 00:09:18,760 --> 00:09:21,559 Speaker 2: I might be old, mister Steve Harvey, but hey, guess what, 155 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:24,079 Speaker 2: I don't know nothing about what this young cat know. 156 00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:27,000 Speaker 2: And he'dne went off and educated himself. And just a 157 00:09:27,120 --> 00:09:32,040 Speaker 2: word of encouragement from somebody like yourself can make all 158 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:36,560 Speaker 2: the difference in another person's life. So remember on your 159 00:09:36,640 --> 00:09:40,480 Speaker 2: way to the top. The more people that you help 160 00:09:40,600 --> 00:09:45,719 Speaker 2: become successful, the more successful you become. It's a requirement 161 00:09:45,800 --> 00:09:48,480 Speaker 2: of God that you do that. That ain't Steve Harvey talking. 162 00:09:48,800 --> 00:09:51,200 Speaker 2: If you read your Bible. Somebody got a Bible verse 163 00:09:51,280 --> 00:09:53,240 Speaker 2: that back me up? Email it to me today if 164 00:09:53,280 --> 00:09:55,360 Speaker 2: you know what it is. I don't know, but y'all 165 00:09:55,440 --> 00:09:56,000 Speaker 2: do out there? 166 00:09:56,600 --> 00:10:00,280 Speaker 1: All right, you're listening Morning show. 167 00:10:02,800 --> 00:10:06,920 Speaker 7: Everybody look good here. I got it. What you're talking about. 168 00:10:07,760 --> 00:10:16,160 Speaker 7: I got it. Gratitude, attitude, got it, Come time? I 169 00:10:16,360 --> 00:10:24,120 Speaker 7: got it. What you mean you got it? Talking about that? Gratitude? 170 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:24,839 Speaker 7: I got it? 171 00:10:26,640 --> 00:10:26,840 Speaker 8: Yeah? 172 00:10:27,120 --> 00:10:37,120 Speaker 2: Hey, oh, this is the Steve Harvey Morning Don't ask me, 173 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:41,800 Speaker 2: don't don't make no references to it. You triping all that? 174 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:45,319 Speaker 2: Yeah whatever? You know why I did that because this 175 00:10:45,600 --> 00:10:48,680 Speaker 2: is the Steve Harvey Morning Show. If it was your show, 176 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:53,880 Speaker 2: you might not do that. You know, I understand, I 177 00:10:54,040 --> 00:10:58,920 Speaker 2: really do, and do I have an explanation for it. Absolutely? Now, 178 00:11:01,320 --> 00:11:06,040 Speaker 2: can I make an honest confession. I have no idea 179 00:11:06,120 --> 00:11:07,000 Speaker 2: where that comes from. 180 00:11:09,480 --> 00:11:12,959 Speaker 7: It just came to me. I did it. Ladies and gentlemen. 181 00:11:13,200 --> 00:11:17,599 Speaker 2: This it's the Steve Harvey Morning Show, period, make no 182 00:11:17,760 --> 00:11:18,480 Speaker 2: mistake about it. 183 00:11:18,559 --> 00:11:19,280 Speaker 7: Only one of these. 184 00:11:20,520 --> 00:11:24,000 Speaker 2: Charlie Strawberry calling for real, my father South Junior and 185 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:27,720 Speaker 2: the legend that is nephew tom Well Junior. 186 00:11:27,760 --> 00:11:28,600 Speaker 7: What's on your mind? 187 00:11:28,960 --> 00:11:32,000 Speaker 9: Yeah, let me ask you this, man, because this is 188 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:34,920 Speaker 9: something that I've been thinking about. And man, it's not 189 00:11:35,120 --> 00:11:37,760 Speaker 9: what blessings I have, but some of the blessings God 190 00:11:37,840 --> 00:11:40,160 Speaker 9: don't give you. Have you experienced that in your life 191 00:11:40,200 --> 00:11:42,520 Speaker 9: on some of the stuff that you some of the 192 00:11:42,559 --> 00:11:43,240 Speaker 9: blessings you don't have? 193 00:11:44,120 --> 00:11:48,599 Speaker 7: No next question, you know, I think about all the 194 00:11:48,720 --> 00:11:52,520 Speaker 7: blessings God don't give me what. Well, I'm just saying 195 00:11:52,559 --> 00:11:54,199 Speaker 7: sometuff ain't that it may not be good for you, 196 00:11:55,160 --> 00:11:56,640 Speaker 7: But then it ain't a blessing, is it? 197 00:11:57,960 --> 00:11:58,120 Speaker 2: Oh? 198 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:01,920 Speaker 7: Oh wow? Now you know. 199 00:12:03,520 --> 00:12:06,760 Speaker 2: If it's not to be blessed by something, it's to 200 00:12:06,840 --> 00:12:10,240 Speaker 2: be a dawn or given grace about something. To be 201 00:12:10,360 --> 00:12:15,040 Speaker 2: blessed by something is to be granted something you know, well, 202 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:17,760 Speaker 2: you know. But see, that's what's wrong. A lot of times, 203 00:12:17,800 --> 00:12:20,480 Speaker 2: there are a lot of people who are so focused 204 00:12:20,520 --> 00:12:24,720 Speaker 2: on blaming God for what they don't have when they 205 00:12:24,840 --> 00:12:28,679 Speaker 2: don't even know the truth, understanding and depth of what 206 00:12:28,800 --> 00:12:32,040 Speaker 2: it would mean to even have what they want. Example, 207 00:12:32,520 --> 00:12:35,040 Speaker 2: I'll give you an example, and what better example than 208 00:12:35,240 --> 00:12:38,679 Speaker 2: used in me. When I was in my twenties, I 209 00:12:38,920 --> 00:12:42,640 Speaker 2: was praying to God for a certain amount of money. 210 00:12:43,080 --> 00:12:46,199 Speaker 2: Now guess what, had he given me that money in 211 00:12:46,360 --> 00:12:51,719 Speaker 2: my twenties, I would have blown every single dollar of 212 00:12:51,880 --> 00:12:52,360 Speaker 2: that money. 213 00:12:53,800 --> 00:12:57,719 Speaker 7: Broh, I would have ruined it. He knew that, so 214 00:12:58,000 --> 00:12:59,559 Speaker 7: he didn't give it to me. 215 00:13:00,360 --> 00:13:03,240 Speaker 2: I got a certain little anger level because I can't 216 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 2: believe God ain't giving me what I'm asking for. But 217 00:13:07,640 --> 00:13:11,600 Speaker 2: He knew that that you're asking for at this particular time, 218 00:13:11,880 --> 00:13:15,160 Speaker 2: you're not ready to receive. I had to learn that 219 00:13:15,320 --> 00:13:18,240 Speaker 2: over the years when he did give it to me, 220 00:13:18,760 --> 00:13:21,000 Speaker 2: I took such good care of it because I had 221 00:13:21,080 --> 00:13:25,320 Speaker 2: lost everything before. Kate can't be mad about the blessing 222 00:13:25,440 --> 00:13:27,120 Speaker 2: God I ain't gave you, because if he'd gave it 223 00:13:27,160 --> 00:13:28,360 Speaker 2: to you, wouldn't have been a blessing. 224 00:13:29,360 --> 00:13:32,360 Speaker 1: Amen to that. Coming up at thirty two minutes after 225 00:13:32,440 --> 00:13:34,760 Speaker 1: the hour, we're here from a nephew, I gotta. 226 00:13:35,080 --> 00:13:38,000 Speaker 7: A radio I gotta started listening. Yeah, you need a 227 00:13:38,120 --> 00:13:41,560 Speaker 7: radio show. A radio day. You're gonna get you on. 228 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:48,920 Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening morning show. All right, guys, 229 00:13:49,000 --> 00:13:51,679 Speaker 1: it is time to run that BRNK back with the nephew. Nephew, 230 00:13:52,200 --> 00:13:53,760 Speaker 1: what do you have for us today? 231 00:13:53,840 --> 00:13:54,160 Speaker 2: Darling? 232 00:13:54,559 --> 00:13:55,280 Speaker 7: Want me running back? 233 00:13:55,679 --> 00:13:59,120 Speaker 8: Yes, running back and running for running back, running outside, 234 00:13:59,200 --> 00:14:02,280 Speaker 8: running back like James Brown running back, run for. I 235 00:14:02,360 --> 00:14:04,959 Speaker 8: think I'm about ready to do my Yeah, it's time 236 00:14:05,000 --> 00:14:06,559 Speaker 8: to put the frank in here. It is run that 237 00:14:06,640 --> 00:14:13,360 Speaker 8: frank back. This is bad pot luck, bad boy, hoot loucky. 238 00:14:13,400 --> 00:14:15,319 Speaker 8: You've had it before, you've tasted it. 239 00:14:15,440 --> 00:14:16,120 Speaker 7: You know what it is. 240 00:14:16,920 --> 00:14:20,320 Speaker 8: You've thrown that plate in the trash, you carried it out, 241 00:14:20,400 --> 00:14:22,600 Speaker 8: waited until they went to the kitchen and slid it 242 00:14:22,680 --> 00:14:23,120 Speaker 8: to the dog. 243 00:14:23,280 --> 00:14:24,920 Speaker 7: You did it. You did the dog like that, you 244 00:14:25,040 --> 00:14:29,600 Speaker 7: did cat dog. Let's if you would. This is bad 245 00:14:29,680 --> 00:14:30,160 Speaker 7: pot luck. 246 00:14:31,480 --> 00:14:34,880 Speaker 3: Hello, hello, I'm trying to frying heather. 247 00:14:35,240 --> 00:14:36,200 Speaker 10: Excuse me what you say? 248 00:14:36,360 --> 00:14:37,560 Speaker 3: I'm trying to reach a heap. 249 00:14:39,480 --> 00:14:39,880 Speaker 10: How are you? 250 00:14:40,120 --> 00:14:45,080 Speaker 3: Okay? Okay, listen, I got your lumber from from lowers. 251 00:14:45,240 --> 00:14:48,000 Speaker 3: Look that's my mama. I'm my reach. I'm lowest oldest son. 252 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:54,680 Speaker 10: Now wait wait, excuse me? Lowis who's lowiss? 253 00:14:54,760 --> 00:14:54,920 Speaker 3: Yes? 254 00:14:55,040 --> 00:14:56,680 Speaker 10: Yes, yes, hi? What are you? 255 00:14:57,360 --> 00:15:00,840 Speaker 3: I'm good? You you you you were uh at Mama 256 00:15:00,920 --> 00:15:03,360 Speaker 3: Dean's house on New Year's Day? 257 00:15:04,000 --> 00:15:05,920 Speaker 10: Yes, yes, everybody was there. 258 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:08,520 Speaker 3: Okay when I got When I got there, you was gone. 259 00:15:09,040 --> 00:15:11,120 Speaker 3: But what I'm what I'm calling about is you the 260 00:15:11,240 --> 00:15:14,920 Speaker 3: one made the black eyed peas? Right I did? You 261 00:15:15,160 --> 00:15:19,040 Speaker 3: enjoyed them? No, enjoy the mother thing. That's why I'm calling. 262 00:15:21,440 --> 00:15:22,600 Speaker 3: Let me say this here, let me say this. 263 00:15:22,680 --> 00:15:23,960 Speaker 11: No, no, no, no, come at work. 264 00:15:24,080 --> 00:15:25,360 Speaker 10: You can't talk to me like this. 265 00:15:25,520 --> 00:15:25,960 Speaker 3: Don't do that. 266 00:15:26,200 --> 00:15:26,640 Speaker 7: Don't do that. 267 00:15:26,880 --> 00:15:28,760 Speaker 10: Say whatever you got to say, but please don't curse 268 00:15:28,840 --> 00:15:29,000 Speaker 10: that me. 269 00:15:29,360 --> 00:15:33,560 Speaker 3: Don't no, no, he go to deal your mother things. 270 00:15:33,800 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 3: Got my god checked up and I didn't have to 271 00:15:36,720 --> 00:15:38,760 Speaker 3: go down to the doctor to get my stomach pumped. 272 00:15:38,800 --> 00:15:41,200 Speaker 3: I ain't got no damn insurance for none this. You 273 00:15:41,240 --> 00:15:43,680 Speaker 3: know this, this, this didn't have me messed up for 274 00:15:43,800 --> 00:15:48,680 Speaker 3: the last week. Number for the loanss to tell you 275 00:15:48,880 --> 00:15:52,280 Speaker 3: exactly you know how your damn thieves is okay? 276 00:15:52,760 --> 00:15:56,440 Speaker 10: First of all, okay, I told you ask. I'm at work, 277 00:15:56,640 --> 00:15:58,720 Speaker 10: I'm around all these white people. I can't talk to 278 00:15:58,840 --> 00:16:01,200 Speaker 10: you the way I want to talk to you. But 279 00:16:01,360 --> 00:16:03,160 Speaker 10: let me just tell you this. Don't call me with 280 00:16:03,280 --> 00:16:05,200 Speaker 10: the dump. First of all, there was a whole bunch 281 00:16:05,240 --> 00:16:07,440 Speaker 10: of food there. How do you know how can you 282 00:16:07,520 --> 00:16:10,160 Speaker 10: single out my damn beans that made you sit with 283 00:16:10,240 --> 00:16:12,520 Speaker 10: all that got food there? You're not gonna blame me. 284 00:16:12,600 --> 00:16:15,480 Speaker 3: You get this out of here, Mama Mama Bean says 285 00:16:15,520 --> 00:16:16,760 Speaker 3: you were the one that made the place. 286 00:16:16,880 --> 00:16:17,480 Speaker 6: I don't give us. 287 00:16:17,920 --> 00:16:20,520 Speaker 10: Mama Bean said it was all this food there, and 288 00:16:20,560 --> 00:16:23,120 Speaker 10: you're gonna single out my beans. Nobody else complained, you 289 00:16:23,200 --> 00:16:26,000 Speaker 10: know what the day's date is okay, And not one 290 00:16:26,080 --> 00:16:29,280 Speaker 10: other person called me about them beans, and by the 291 00:16:29,600 --> 00:16:31,840 Speaker 10: as a matter of fact, other people were complimenting me. 292 00:16:32,200 --> 00:16:34,400 Speaker 10: So for you to call me with the dump all 293 00:16:34,480 --> 00:16:37,080 Speaker 10: late and wrong, going to blame me probably because you 294 00:16:37,160 --> 00:16:39,960 Speaker 10: need a doctor's appointment. You should have got Obamacare when 295 00:16:39,960 --> 00:16:41,920 Speaker 10: it was available to you. And now you want to 296 00:16:41,920 --> 00:16:43,040 Speaker 10: call me with no no no, no, no no no, 297 00:16:43,760 --> 00:16:45,720 Speaker 10: so you could tell what. 298 00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:51,400 Speaker 3: Somebody you're trying to blame somebody else's food, Joe beans, 299 00:16:52,040 --> 00:16:54,400 Speaker 3: my stomach up, and that's what That's what it falls 300 00:16:54,480 --> 00:16:56,880 Speaker 3: down to. And at the end of the day, you're prinitive. 301 00:16:56,920 --> 00:17:01,320 Speaker 10: Miss You know the hell, I at what doctor bill? 302 00:17:01,680 --> 00:17:03,440 Speaker 10: You said you don't having short, So how does the 303 00:17:03,480 --> 00:17:05,640 Speaker 10: hell did you go to swallowing short? 304 00:17:05,680 --> 00:17:07,879 Speaker 3: I had to play out my pocket to get my 305 00:17:08,000 --> 00:17:08,800 Speaker 3: stomach pumped. 306 00:17:09,080 --> 00:17:11,760 Speaker 10: Okay, well taken care of. If you paid out your pocket, 307 00:17:12,000 --> 00:17:13,240 Speaker 10: that means the bills pay so. 308 00:17:13,280 --> 00:17:15,639 Speaker 3: You can get you gonna reimburse me. 309 00:17:16,000 --> 00:17:19,040 Speaker 10: No, I'm not going to reimburse you with okay. In fact, 310 00:17:19,119 --> 00:17:21,000 Speaker 10: I got more beans for you since you got a 311 00:17:21,080 --> 00:17:23,960 Speaker 10: problem with them. I got a whole bowl for you. Okay, 312 00:17:24,359 --> 00:17:26,720 Speaker 10: how about because you fullished? So if it made you, 313 00:17:27,080 --> 00:17:27,840 Speaker 10: that's good for you. 314 00:17:28,200 --> 00:17:30,440 Speaker 3: Hey, look, look, I'm gonna tell you this here right now. 315 00:17:31,440 --> 00:17:33,840 Speaker 3: The bill was four hundred and seventy two dollars. I 316 00:17:34,000 --> 00:17:37,639 Speaker 3: need four four hundred and seventy two dollars for your 317 00:17:37,720 --> 00:17:38,639 Speaker 3: bulley things. 318 00:17:39,040 --> 00:17:42,440 Speaker 10: No, no, no, no, you're not getting no money from me. 319 00:17:42,760 --> 00:17:44,520 Speaker 10: And I need to go because I got work to do. 320 00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:45,600 Speaker 3: I don't know what you got to do. 321 00:17:45,760 --> 00:17:47,560 Speaker 10: Spend it all this time on the phone talk about 322 00:17:47,600 --> 00:17:49,720 Speaker 10: some beans with all that food. So the rice didn't 323 00:17:49,760 --> 00:17:52,080 Speaker 10: do it, the meat didn't do it. They had some 324 00:17:52,160 --> 00:17:55,600 Speaker 10: other gravy. Gravy always people up that didn't do it. 325 00:17:55,640 --> 00:17:57,960 Speaker 10: You want to single out my beans got of here? 326 00:17:58,240 --> 00:18:00,440 Speaker 10: Don't be calling me with this dumb you know what? 327 00:18:00,600 --> 00:18:02,920 Speaker 10: Now tell me who gave me your number? Because I 328 00:18:02,920 --> 00:18:04,520 Speaker 10: don't even know you. I do know your mom. 329 00:18:05,040 --> 00:18:07,840 Speaker 3: Mama Bean gave me your number. 330 00:18:07,920 --> 00:18:10,960 Speaker 10: I call Mama Deane passing out numbers. Well, I'm gonna 331 00:18:11,000 --> 00:18:13,760 Speaker 10: call Mama Dean, and I'm gonna see if anybody else 332 00:18:13,800 --> 00:18:16,080 Speaker 10: got sick, which I know they didn't because your ass 333 00:18:16,160 --> 00:18:18,679 Speaker 10: is full of so I'm gonna call her see if 334 00:18:18,680 --> 00:18:20,560 Speaker 10: anybody got sick. How about we do it that way. 335 00:18:20,720 --> 00:18:23,520 Speaker 10: And also I'm gonna call your mother. Okay, I'm gonna 336 00:18:23,520 --> 00:18:26,440 Speaker 10: call miss Lewis and see why her dad son is 337 00:18:26,520 --> 00:18:29,200 Speaker 10: calling me on the phone. Because this is something both 338 00:18:29,359 --> 00:18:31,560 Speaker 10: I'm getting stick and side of this phone call and 339 00:18:32,080 --> 00:18:34,560 Speaker 10: nothing was wrong with my beans. If anything's something wrong 340 00:18:34,560 --> 00:18:37,240 Speaker 10: with you, and so take an accident, clean your ass 341 00:18:37,320 --> 00:18:41,159 Speaker 10: out and keep it too if you get off my phone. 342 00:18:41,960 --> 00:18:44,920 Speaker 3: Okay, okay, okay, they say they say Tommy had some 343 00:18:45,040 --> 00:18:45,920 Speaker 3: problem with the bees. 344 00:18:46,000 --> 00:18:49,880 Speaker 10: To tom First of all, I don't even know no God, 345 00:18:50,160 --> 00:18:52,000 Speaker 10: tom I barely know your mom. 346 00:18:52,440 --> 00:18:53,680 Speaker 3: I just know her by face. 347 00:18:53,720 --> 00:18:57,119 Speaker 10: I don't even know her know her. So Tommy, Hugh, 348 00:18:57,320 --> 00:18:59,760 Speaker 10: I'm calling Mama Dean. She ain't got no Bodin's geting 349 00:18:59,760 --> 00:19:01,400 Speaker 10: my mom up number to nobody. 350 00:19:01,840 --> 00:19:05,119 Speaker 3: This is what what you want me to tell Tommy. 351 00:19:05,880 --> 00:19:08,560 Speaker 10: I just told you I don't know anybody named Tommy. 352 00:19:09,160 --> 00:19:11,360 Speaker 10: So you can tell him whatever you want to tell him. 353 00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:14,080 Speaker 10: And if you want to gain other people who want 354 00:19:14,080 --> 00:19:16,240 Speaker 10: to jump away your side, it's not gonna happen because 355 00:19:16,280 --> 00:19:19,760 Speaker 10: nobody complained about the beam. Give me give me nother names, 356 00:19:19,800 --> 00:19:22,119 Speaker 10: because Tommy wasn't there. I know just about everybody that 357 00:19:22,280 --> 00:19:24,040 Speaker 10: was there was nobody named Tommy there. 358 00:19:24,680 --> 00:19:28,200 Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, so you're gonna say, Nephew, tell me, nephew, 359 00:19:28,240 --> 00:19:33,280 Speaker 3: Tommy wasn't. Now what nephew tell me? This is Nephew 360 00:19:33,680 --> 00:19:35,680 Speaker 3: from The Steve Harvey Morning Show with Heather. 361 00:19:36,359 --> 00:19:36,679 Speaker 7: You just. 362 00:19:40,200 --> 00:19:42,800 Speaker 10: Are you crazy? Your cousin? 363 00:19:45,000 --> 00:19:46,360 Speaker 3: You got me to pray, Paul. 364 00:19:46,280 --> 00:19:50,440 Speaker 10: Call what people walking by me looking at me cause 365 00:19:50,480 --> 00:19:52,840 Speaker 10: I'm walking again right not prob you? Tommy? 366 00:19:53,160 --> 00:19:53,399 Speaker 3: Are you. 367 00:19:57,400 --> 00:19:57,840 Speaker 11: A good. 368 00:20:01,400 --> 00:20:03,240 Speaker 3: Oh man? You got me, You got me wanting to 369 00:20:03,280 --> 00:20:05,440 Speaker 3: taste your black eyed ta okay. 370 00:20:05,359 --> 00:20:08,520 Speaker 10: Oh good, nobody could come. I'm sitting here like I'm 371 00:20:08,560 --> 00:20:11,480 Speaker 10: not want to get these people. Frack you weren't gonna 372 00:20:11,480 --> 00:20:12,280 Speaker 10: get no money. 373 00:20:13,960 --> 00:20:17,520 Speaker 3: Show? Tell me this. What is the baddest, the baddest 374 00:20:17,680 --> 00:20:19,320 Speaker 3: radio show in the land. 375 00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:21,560 Speaker 10: Oh but you know it, but you know it's Steve 376 00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:22,840 Speaker 10: Harvey Morning Show? 377 00:20:23,160 --> 00:20:23,840 Speaker 11: Oh my god? 378 00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:28,119 Speaker 3: Oh keep cooking. 379 00:20:28,840 --> 00:20:29,880 Speaker 10: You are all right? 380 00:20:30,160 --> 00:20:30,560 Speaker 1: Thank you? 381 00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:35,000 Speaker 3: New Year? All right, New Year, and next year I'll 382 00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:36,840 Speaker 3: probably pop up at Mamma Deen house here. 383 00:20:38,640 --> 00:20:39,399 Speaker 10: You are welcome. 384 00:20:39,440 --> 00:20:43,400 Speaker 1: Acome white too much? 385 00:20:44,359 --> 00:20:46,040 Speaker 7: You hate it? Hate it? 386 00:20:47,359 --> 00:20:49,680 Speaker 1: Coming up next, ask the c l O with the 387 00:20:49,760 --> 00:20:55,200 Speaker 1: Chief Love Officers. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, 388 00:20:55,280 --> 00:20:57,679 Speaker 1: time now to ask the c l O. This one 389 00:20:57,840 --> 00:21:01,680 Speaker 1: is from Lucretia in Birmingham, Cresta Rights. I'm a twenty 390 00:21:01,720 --> 00:21:05,080 Speaker 1: eight year old engaged woman and my fiance cheated on 391 00:21:05,200 --> 00:21:09,040 Speaker 1: me several times before we got engaged. I got tired 392 00:21:09,080 --> 00:21:11,800 Speaker 1: of him cheating on me, and I started cheating back, 393 00:21:12,160 --> 00:21:15,159 Speaker 1: but it's with someone that's close to him. Before we 394 00:21:15,280 --> 00:21:18,320 Speaker 1: get married, I think I need to come clean about 395 00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:21,320 Speaker 1: who I messed with. I kind of want him to 396 00:21:21,400 --> 00:21:24,880 Speaker 1: be hurt like he hurt me. If I tell him, 397 00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:28,200 Speaker 1: he may call our wedding off. Should I get revenge 398 00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:31,520 Speaker 1: and tell him or take the secret to my grave? 399 00:21:32,040 --> 00:21:34,959 Speaker 2: I don't think. I don't think y'all need to get married. 400 00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:39,920 Speaker 2: I really don't, because what's y'all's ambition? You want to 401 00:21:40,040 --> 00:21:42,680 Speaker 2: hurt him? Yeah, so you can tell it, but then 402 00:21:42,760 --> 00:21:45,040 Speaker 2: you don't want him to call off the marriage. So 403 00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:46,960 Speaker 2: you want to be married for what? 404 00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:49,720 Speaker 1: J just wants a wedding? You know? 405 00:21:50,119 --> 00:21:50,639 Speaker 3: Do that? 406 00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:52,920 Speaker 7: Ain't y'all? This is doomed? 407 00:21:53,440 --> 00:21:56,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, before you start, this is. 408 00:21:56,359 --> 00:21:59,879 Speaker 2: Y'all operating on no trust. Y'all ain't trying to do 409 00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:02,360 Speaker 2: better by each other. Y'all ain't trying to get right. 410 00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:05,479 Speaker 2: Y'all ain't trying to safeguard each other's feelings. Right now 411 00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:09,399 Speaker 2: you want to staying hire? Oh the what makes you 412 00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:14,040 Speaker 2: think you need to open up about this? So my 413 00:22:14,280 --> 00:22:17,800 Speaker 2: suggestion after listening to this is y'all don't need to be. 414 00:22:17,920 --> 00:22:20,879 Speaker 7: Married at all. You really don't. Y'all need to go 415 00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:24,520 Speaker 7: to something else? Yeah, whyn't y'all go to camp? They 416 00:22:24,720 --> 00:22:29,640 Speaker 7: doing something else? The something Yeah? Yeah, y'all you got 417 00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:32,040 Speaker 7: back at him, y'all, y'all ain't trying to do right. 418 00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:35,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, he cheated and cheated, then they got engaged. Then 419 00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:36,680 Speaker 1: she cheated on him. 420 00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:38,879 Speaker 7: Two rooms don't make a. 421 00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:43,880 Speaker 1: Run, exactly, exactly, all right? Moving on, Colby and Michigan says, 422 00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:46,560 Speaker 1: I'm a thirty seven year old professional man, and I'm 423 00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:49,040 Speaker 1: in a social group that my parents belonged to for 424 00:22:49,160 --> 00:22:53,639 Speaker 1: many years. After my dad passed, rumors started swirling about 425 00:22:53,680 --> 00:22:56,960 Speaker 1: my mom having an affair with a wealthy member of 426 00:22:57,080 --> 00:23:00,480 Speaker 1: the group. Then I heard his wife is involved too, 427 00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:04,560 Speaker 1: like a three way love affair type of thing. My 428 00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:08,360 Speaker 1: mother has a brand new Mercedes SUV and I never 429 00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:11,760 Speaker 1: questioned it because she got a nice insurance settlement from 430 00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:15,280 Speaker 1: my dad's death. Rumors are that this guy bought it. 431 00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:17,960 Speaker 1: Do I confront my mom with these rumors? 432 00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:21,280 Speaker 7: What you're gonna confront your mom about? 433 00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:21,399 Speaker 3: What? 434 00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:24,360 Speaker 7: Why are you in the same social group your mom? 435 00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:26,560 Speaker 7: That's the first question. 436 00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:31,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean that part First of all, it's unimportant. 437 00:23:33,080 --> 00:23:37,280 Speaker 2: It's very very unimportant. And first of all, wherever you 438 00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:41,160 Speaker 2: heard is from, you have to whoever brings you this information. 439 00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:43,480 Speaker 2: You have to try to figure out what they motivation. 440 00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:48,439 Speaker 2: Why ain't nobody just inadvertently said this to you? Somebody 441 00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:51,720 Speaker 2: bought this to you. You ain't heard this. They knew 442 00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:56,080 Speaker 2: you was around, and they talked about it. So now, really, man, 443 00:23:57,040 --> 00:23:59,520 Speaker 2: and I don't know what social group you in at 444 00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:04,080 Speaker 2: your mom. I'm still trying to figure that one out. Man, 445 00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:07,159 Speaker 2: I didn't do I didn't do nothing with my mom. 446 00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:12,120 Speaker 2: What social group is men and women? Given you got 447 00:24:12,160 --> 00:24:13,800 Speaker 2: Eastern Stars and Masons? 448 00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:15,119 Speaker 7: But what social group is? 449 00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:20,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, but may not considered a social group. They they're 450 00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:23,360 Speaker 2: on a whole other level than that. So I don't 451 00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:27,240 Speaker 2: know what social group he talking about. I don't get 452 00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:28,920 Speaker 2: that man, social group. 453 00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:35,960 Speaker 1: So he shouldn't confront social club like New Orleans and 454 00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:37,240 Speaker 1: social clubs. 455 00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:40,280 Speaker 7: Oh yeah, see, I've never heard maybe I'm thinking I'm 456 00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:43,639 Speaker 7: not sure that that could be true. We never had that. 457 00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:48,479 Speaker 7: They be some old lass jack and jail? Can they 458 00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:48,960 Speaker 7: be old? 459 00:24:54,960 --> 00:24:58,000 Speaker 2: What if you find out what what you're gonna confront for? 460 00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:03,520 Speaker 2: Why lead that alone? Man, first of all, ah obusiness. 461 00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:05,600 Speaker 2: And secondly, I ain't got nothing to. 462 00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:06,159 Speaker 3: Do with you. 463 00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:09,160 Speaker 1: Nothing, all right. 464 00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:12,720 Speaker 7: You already lost your father. Man, don't get stupid. 465 00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:15,800 Speaker 1: Enough, all right? Moving on, So Chutta and Tampa says, 466 00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:18,600 Speaker 1: I'm a thirty nine year old single woman and I'm 467 00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:21,840 Speaker 1: with a man that I love, but little things about 468 00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:25,200 Speaker 1: him annoying me. He's a thin man and he wears 469 00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:29,520 Speaker 1: big clothes to camouflage how small he is, but it 470 00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:33,119 Speaker 1: makes him look worse. His hair is thinning at the 471 00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:35,640 Speaker 1: top and he won't cut it so you can see 472 00:25:35,800 --> 00:25:40,320 Speaker 1: right through his little afro. The most annoying thing is 473 00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:44,800 Speaker 1: that he uses the bathroom immediately after we eat, and 474 00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:47,440 Speaker 1: he's left me at the table for his longest thirty 475 00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:51,920 Speaker 1: minutes before in a restaurant. He's forty eight. So do 476 00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:54,480 Speaker 1: you think I can get him to change now? 477 00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:56,920 Speaker 7: First of all, just start this bathroom. 478 00:25:57,000 --> 00:26:05,120 Speaker 2: He regularly, he worked, and he and he emergency regular Yeah, 479 00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:08,359 Speaker 2: you know I'm gonna make it to the house. No, 480 00:26:08,480 --> 00:26:10,520 Speaker 2: i'm e I'm at a public run. You got to 481 00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:12,920 Speaker 2: get a little bit better grip on yourself now, these 482 00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:15,160 Speaker 2: big ass clothes and his little ass body. I don't 483 00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:18,080 Speaker 2: know what to tell you couldn't buy him the right 484 00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:21,600 Speaker 2: side clothes. Now he gonna have to get a hair cut. 485 00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:26,000 Speaker 2: So it was because you said you can see right 486 00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:28,760 Speaker 2: through his little afro. Now everything about this man little 487 00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:32,600 Speaker 2: I think he didnet got on your nerves. 488 00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:35,240 Speaker 3: Just what I like. 489 00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:38,320 Speaker 1: She said, she's with the man that she loves. 490 00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:42,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, you can love love now, but but based on 491 00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:46,119 Speaker 2: this letter, just this fit the wear off because you 492 00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:48,159 Speaker 2: you finding there's too much stuff you don't like. 493 00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:50,680 Speaker 7: He go too damn much. 494 00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:53,800 Speaker 2: He got these big ass clothes, or he lived, and 495 00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:55,960 Speaker 2: he got little afro in this in and at the 496 00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:57,800 Speaker 2: top you looking down on the top, us. 497 00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:06,080 Speaker 7: beIN do this miser, he's fred to desert. God, I'll 498 00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:08,320 Speaker 7: be right back all right. 499 00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:15,240 Speaker 1: Moving on Turquoise and iHeartRadio. App listener says, I'm thirty 500 00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:18,440 Speaker 1: four and my boyfriend is thirty two. He scrolls on 501 00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:20,639 Speaker 1: Instagram all day long, and he posts a lot of 502 00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:23,400 Speaker 1: pictures of himself. I post pictures too, but he never 503 00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:27,600 Speaker 1: seems to notice mine. He likes other women's popes and 504 00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:31,040 Speaker 1: will put the fire emoji under a picture if he 505 00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:34,240 Speaker 1: really likes it. I have told him that it's disrespectful, 506 00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:37,040 Speaker 1: but he doesn't understand. I know it's petty to break 507 00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:39,000 Speaker 1: up over this. So what can I do to get 508 00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:39,600 Speaker 1: through to him? 509 00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:41,400 Speaker 5: Well? 510 00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:43,560 Speaker 2: How would he like it if you put the fire 511 00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:48,600 Speaker 2: mojiic under men's pictures? Sometimes you got to let a 512 00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:50,800 Speaker 2: person put the shoe on the of the foot, and 513 00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:52,680 Speaker 2: you got to help. Sometimes you have to slip it 514 00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:55,080 Speaker 2: on that phone. See how he liked that. If you 515 00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:57,159 Speaker 2: don't want to break up over it, then just let 516 00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:59,960 Speaker 2: him see how it feels and then maybe he'll stop. 517 00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:02,159 Speaker 7: If not, after that, they I don't know what to 518 00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:02,440 Speaker 7: tell you. 519 00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:09,959 Speaker 1: Thank you, c l O. You're listening Morning show? All right, 520 00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:14,159 Speaker 1: it is time for something funny. Now our ceo, our 521 00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:18,400 Speaker 1: beloved one, has a daytime story about the morning crew. 522 00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:19,560 Speaker 1: But Jay, you want to explain it? 523 00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:23,000 Speaker 6: Pople, what are you gonna do is take candies, very 524 00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:28,200 Speaker 6: well known candies describing each person on the show, and 525 00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:31,520 Speaker 6: a bedtime story thing and the whole thing, yeah is 526 00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:32,840 Speaker 6: about candy. 527 00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:35,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, So every description that he has written for me 528 00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:39,040 Speaker 2: is about a candy. R real, Can we have some 529 00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:40,080 Speaker 2: little timmy. 530 00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:41,560 Speaker 1: Music because you sound like uncle Steve. 531 00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:45,560 Speaker 2: Right, it's time for we got to well, well, well, 532 00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:53,680 Speaker 2: welcome Steve Hovey is Daytime Story by boys and girls. 533 00:28:54,920 --> 00:29:02,160 Speaker 2: And today's daytime story is all about Cam twenty Baby, 534 00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:10,040 Speaker 2: don't like camps. Candy's wonderful. It decay your teeth with 535 00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:14,800 Speaker 2: the sting. It's the reasons dentists are as rich as heads. 536 00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:17,720 Speaker 6: Bad word. 537 00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:22,120 Speaker 2: It's all right that way about that. That ain't the 538 00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:27,680 Speaker 2: last time you gonna heal. Wait, do you do something wrong? 539 00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:34,800 Speaker 2: Oh you're gonna get cussed. Smooth out, well gathered around, 540 00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:37,040 Speaker 2: boys and guys. I'm gona tell you about the people 541 00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:41,480 Speaker 2: who work on the Steve Harvey Morning Show. I'll be 542 00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:46,320 Speaker 2: using names of actual candy and I will describe everyone 543 00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:54,760 Speaker 2: on the show. Begin let us start with Shirley. She's 544 00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:59,800 Speaker 2: a pepper med pat. Now, in order to get that kid, 545 00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:04,480 Speaker 2: you got to have a big hey. 546 00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:08,720 Speaker 3: Like you. 547 00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:17,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's using that baby talk. You gotta have a 548 00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:19,680 Speaker 2: big pay day, like one hundred grand. 549 00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:29,200 Speaker 7: I ain't got the money, you just a milk. Then 550 00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:30,680 Speaker 7: let's move on again. 551 00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:39,560 Speaker 2: Dance calling my little Army Joy dog Chocolate arm in Joy. 552 00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:47,360 Speaker 2: And she's married to old and they got together and 553 00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:53,840 Speaker 2: compilated and had themself a little baby roof. The little 554 00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:57,400 Speaker 2: baby roof is at the house. But some days if 555 00:30:57,440 --> 00:31:00,680 Speaker 2: you cross her, he can go really bad for you. 556 00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:07,280 Speaker 2: She becomes a real sour pas. But on her best 557 00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:11,320 Speaker 2: days you can hear her in the background just being 558 00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:12,560 Speaker 2: a jolly red. 559 00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:17,120 Speaker 3: Well. 560 00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:24,240 Speaker 2: Then that's Julie. We like to call him Junior Mitt. 561 00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:31,960 Speaker 2: Most days he just fits over the andy snickers or 562 00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:37,600 Speaker 2: bust out in old laugh attack. Now Junior is a 563 00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:43,240 Speaker 2: part of the three Musketeers. That would be Tommy, Jay 564 00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:44,160 Speaker 2: and Julie. 565 00:31:44,320 --> 00:31:45,840 Speaker 5: Yes, everybody. 566 00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:51,840 Speaker 7: Speaking of Tommy. Tommy can be a real dumb dump, 567 00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:56,760 Speaker 7: yes it is. 568 00:31:58,520 --> 00:31:58,680 Speaker 11: All. 569 00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:02,200 Speaker 7: Sometimes would get an attitude. He's just a real sour talk. 570 00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:13,480 Speaker 2: Then when he snap extra hosy becomes assaulted Armond, I'm 571 00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:19,800 Speaker 2: gonna kill him. Then there's the newcomer to the show, 572 00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:22,160 Speaker 2: j Anthony Brown. He's a diabetic. 573 00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:26,280 Speaker 7: Oh yeah, and that makes him what a sugar dang. 574 00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:40,280 Speaker 2: Surely you ruined in the bay about to laugh. 575 00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:45,360 Speaker 7: This is can Now. He don't care for the black 576 00:32:45,520 --> 00:32:51,120 Speaker 7: cow all the Tussie rolls. Uh uh. That boy just 577 00:32:51,320 --> 00:32:52,600 Speaker 7: like white shot. 578 00:32:57,840 --> 00:33:01,880 Speaker 2: Boy and that leaves me used to be my favorite 579 00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:04,040 Speaker 2: candy too. I'm just a big old box of good 580 00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:10,200 Speaker 2: and plenty with a lot of zeros behind my chip. 581 00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:16,280 Speaker 2: Some days I'm an alms and jolly some jays. 582 00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:16,960 Speaker 7: I'm just a. 583 00:33:20,720 --> 00:33:25,160 Speaker 2: Good but no matter what, I'm down to Mike e oh, 584 00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:28,760 Speaker 2: which means I'm the big faut. 585 00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:37,240 Speaker 7: This is Steve Hawker's daytime stories. The candy but dish. 586 00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:39,760 Speaker 8: Hungry. 587 00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:49,600 Speaker 7: How'd you like that interpretation? 588 00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:54,800 Speaker 6: Man to the paper to the mouth. That's that's why 589 00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:55,440 Speaker 6: this is what. 590 00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:04,200 Speaker 1: Have you always been a diabetic? 591 00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:05,080 Speaker 3: Jay? No? 592 00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:07,360 Speaker 6: About forty years? 593 00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:09,440 Speaker 1: Oh so you've had your shrif of candy? 594 00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:09,680 Speaker 3: Yeah? 595 00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:10,719 Speaker 7: Oh my god? 596 00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:11,600 Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah? 597 00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:13,560 Speaker 1: What was your favorite candy though? Before? 598 00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:18,520 Speaker 7: I can't that's a tough one. 599 00:34:18,760 --> 00:34:23,680 Speaker 2: I'm enjoying. Yeah, I'm enjoy pepper No, my number one 600 00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:24,640 Speaker 2: candy all time. 601 00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:27,640 Speaker 7: Oh yeah, I'm right there. 602 00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:32,680 Speaker 1: Which I'm a Snickers girl myself. You're listening hardy morning show. 603 00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:35,479 Speaker 1: All right, guys, it is time for yet another round 604 00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:37,080 Speaker 1: of would you rather? 605 00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:37,440 Speaker 3: Here? 606 00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:46,440 Speaker 1: We would you? Is that the theme? If you had 607 00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:51,200 Speaker 1: to change jobs? Would you rather be an airline pilot 608 00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:53,240 Speaker 1: or captain of a ship. 609 00:34:54,080 --> 00:35:00,320 Speaker 2: That's so hard in the air or in the watch ahead? 610 00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:00,480 Speaker 3: Up? 611 00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:04,400 Speaker 7: And then? Oh but I don't want to be on 612 00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:10,200 Speaker 7: the job. Yeah, and that water rough man, because when 613 00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:14,000 Speaker 7: you get out of hand out there and all that 614 00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:16,520 Speaker 7: go down with your ship. The captain go down with 615 00:35:16,640 --> 00:35:18,080 Speaker 7: this ship. No, I don't know. 616 00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:22,799 Speaker 9: I don't Okay, I'm gonna go cap in the ship 617 00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:24,040 Speaker 9: because if I'm in there the air and then the 618 00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:27,399 Speaker 9: passing the pilot coming out the cockpit, you start acting 619 00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:27,839 Speaker 9: up up here. 620 00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:31,120 Speaker 7: I'm coming out the cockpit. I'm fighting. I'm not let 621 00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:35,000 Speaker 7: you take over. I'm out. Yeah, I'll be right back. 622 00:35:35,120 --> 00:35:38,200 Speaker 7: Hold on, I'll be right back. What airlines is it 623 00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:39,080 Speaker 7: is the spirit? 624 00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:40,200 Speaker 1: I mean what I'm saying. 625 00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:43,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I gotta know who I'm flying with, 626 00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:46,879 Speaker 2: just to say it is well, you know what, I'll 627 00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:49,480 Speaker 2: probably go in and have to take the captain pilot 628 00:35:49,600 --> 00:35:53,879 Speaker 2: job because at least I know we're gonna land. Yeah, 629 00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:57,760 Speaker 2: flying he is safe. It's just scary. Yeah, yeah, okay, 630 00:35:58,160 --> 00:35:58,480 Speaker 2: all right. 631 00:35:58,800 --> 00:36:01,919 Speaker 1: You'd rather be airline pilot than captain of a ship. 632 00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:05,920 Speaker 7: Yeah, I've been on them boats. You got to know 633 00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:10,520 Speaker 7: a lot. You got to know a lot though. 634 00:36:11,600 --> 00:36:18,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, all right, So everybody, you're a junior airline pilot. 635 00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:21,840 Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm on the pilot. I'm on the Yeah. I 636 00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:23,720 Speaker 7: wanted I'm gonna be on that on that plane. 637 00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:29,800 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Stephen Tommy pilot's junior ship captain. Okay, 638 00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:34,480 Speaker 1: all right, moving on with his little sick Would you rather. 639 00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:38,400 Speaker 7: Like like he went to be somewhere seasick and. 640 00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:45,520 Speaker 1: We don't want him to play? Would you rather your. 641 00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:47,879 Speaker 7: Last need to be somewhere flying where you can get 642 00:36:47,920 --> 00:36:55,080 Speaker 7: to these hospitals doing me bad this week ago? 643 00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:58,800 Speaker 2: I ain't letting him slide at all. Me and Tommy 644 00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:00,359 Speaker 2: that set up here and got on the way. You're 645 00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:03,680 Speaker 2: gonna take your little sick ass on the boat. You're 646 00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:04,600 Speaker 2: in the middle of nowhere. 647 00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:05,000 Speaker 7: You can't. 648 00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:08,400 Speaker 1: All right, we got time for one more. Would you 649 00:37:08,640 --> 00:37:16,800 Speaker 1: rather be reincarnated as a singer Luther Vandross or Marvin 650 00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:20,320 Speaker 1: gay Would you rather be reincarnated as Luther Van Dress 651 00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:21,239 Speaker 1: or Marvin Gaye? 652 00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:25,120 Speaker 7: To come back as Marvin? 653 00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:35,480 Speaker 2: No doubt you've seen Janie, I'm coming back as Marvin 654 00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:37,959 Speaker 2: had a soul trying down so too. No, I'm coming 655 00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:40,239 Speaker 2: back as Marvin gate Boy. 656 00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:47,200 Speaker 1: All right, that's what you're rather for today. You're listening 657 00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:52,680 Speaker 1: morning show? All right, here we go, come on Jay 658 00:37:52,719 --> 00:37:53,600 Speaker 1: with comedy. 659 00:37:53,320 --> 00:37:55,200 Speaker 7: Roulette, kind of very simple. 660 00:37:55,360 --> 00:37:58,000 Speaker 6: Take five subjects, put them on the wheel, spun the 661 00:37:58,040 --> 00:38:00,600 Speaker 6: wheel round, stop. 662 00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:03,600 Speaker 1: We will do the day all. 663 00:38:03,560 --> 00:38:04,320 Speaker 3: Right, here we go. 664 00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:09,920 Speaker 1: Thank you Jay. Number one, her fine in quotations didn't 665 00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:15,439 Speaker 1: hold up. Number two, could you please stop talking about 666 00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:16,840 Speaker 1: what happened in high school? 667 00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:18,000 Speaker 4: Please? 668 00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:19,200 Speaker 3: Three? 669 00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:21,760 Speaker 1: Your church service is too long. 670 00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:24,480 Speaker 7: Too long. 671 00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:28,359 Speaker 1: Four, well, this shirt smells like fish in here. 672 00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:32,479 Speaker 3: Number five. 673 00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:36,000 Speaker 1: I know, I know you're not supposed to laugh at 674 00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:37,480 Speaker 1: a funeral, but. 675 00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:39,400 Speaker 7: Dot dot dot. 676 00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:46,400 Speaker 3: Cat let go. 677 00:38:55,560 --> 00:38:58,440 Speaker 1: Number five stopped doing. I know you're not supposed to 678 00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:05,520 Speaker 1: laugh at a funeral, but like the title, I know 679 00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:08,080 Speaker 1: you're not supposed to laugh at a funeral. 680 00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:15,080 Speaker 6: But but man, when the deacon passed away and Poe 681 00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:18,239 Speaker 6: baby mama shoulder, nobody know nothing. 682 00:39:21,920 --> 00:39:24,160 Speaker 7: All the girls look just like him. 683 00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:29,840 Speaker 1: Look at you. 684 00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:31,680 Speaker 6: You know you're not supposed laugh at the funeral. 685 00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:33,799 Speaker 7: But I know you're not supposed to. 686 00:39:33,840 --> 00:39:35,839 Speaker 12: Laugh at the funeral, but it would have been nice 687 00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:37,480 Speaker 12: they had matching family calls. 688 00:39:37,960 --> 00:39:42,799 Speaker 7: I got a one day and all the family in there. 689 00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:49,640 Speaker 8: I know you're not supposed to laughter, but her wig 690 00:39:49,880 --> 00:39:51,160 Speaker 8: is on bathroom that. 691 00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:54,600 Speaker 7: Come on if somebody flipped that. 692 00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:01,120 Speaker 2: I know you aren't supposed to laugh at the funeral, 693 00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:04,360 Speaker 2: but you know, good and well, y'all needed a wider cast. 694 00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:12,640 Speaker 7: Just the mask this big ass down in there. They're 695 00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:18,480 Speaker 7: shut the lids. Clothes hanging out, they shut the lid. 696 00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:23,880 Speaker 7: You've been to hear him the body, they shut the 697 00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:29,680 Speaker 7: lid the body with good Hell, well, you should have 698 00:40:29,719 --> 00:40:31,560 Speaker 7: spent that money on a bigger cast. 699 00:40:31,960 --> 00:40:32,120 Speaker 3: Come. 700 00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:35,040 Speaker 6: I know you're not supposed to laugh at the funeral, 701 00:40:35,480 --> 00:40:39,120 Speaker 6: but when the passer said we're head to Barry, hold on, what. 702 00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:46,920 Speaker 7: Do you say? That's funny? 703 00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:49,320 Speaker 2: I love it? 704 00:40:49,440 --> 00:40:49,640 Speaker 3: Jay. 705 00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:52,200 Speaker 5: I know we're not. 706 00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:55,960 Speaker 12: Supposed to laugh, But why is all the power bearers 707 00:40:56,080 --> 00:41:04,239 Speaker 12: paying say they don't wrop this boy? Scooby died, they 708 00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:05,160 Speaker 12: not go bad? 709 00:41:05,800 --> 00:41:06,480 Speaker 1: Come on tell me. 710 00:41:07,040 --> 00:41:09,600 Speaker 8: I know we're not supposed to laugh at a funeral, 711 00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:13,080 Speaker 8: but your wife and you got the same daddy you 712 00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:13,960 Speaker 8: just found. 713 00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:21,920 Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve closing out? Oh my god, I. 714 00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:25,839 Speaker 7: Know you ain't supposed to laugh at her funeral. Bo 715 00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:29,080 Speaker 7: When your uncle is up in there and he's buried 716 00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:31,080 Speaker 7: in a Michael. 717 00:41:30,840 --> 00:41:35,120 Speaker 2: Jordan's job, his suit with a headband and a beeper 718 00:41:35,280 --> 00:41:37,879 Speaker 2: old with two wrist bands. 719 00:41:39,320 --> 00:41:46,560 Speaker 7: And some new johnts. You're a good airway. Should have 720 00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:50,080 Speaker 7: put it down way into just a black suit. Ladies 721 00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:52,120 Speaker 7: and gentlemen from the Chicago Bull. 722 00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:57,080 Speaker 1: Uncle all right, nephew, tell me has a prank phone 723 00:41:57,120 --> 00:42:03,000 Speaker 1: call right after this. You're listening Hardy Morning Show. Coming 724 00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:05,120 Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, right about four 725 00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:08,800 Speaker 1: minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today. The subject 726 00:42:09,120 --> 00:42:13,200 Speaker 1: is his ex wife won't let me visit him. Okay, 727 00:42:13,520 --> 00:42:15,560 Speaker 1: his ex wife won't let me visit him. We'll get 728 00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:17,320 Speaker 1: into that in just a few but right now, the 729 00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:20,000 Speaker 1: nephew's here with today's prank phone call. 730 00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:22,360 Speaker 8: What you got for us, nef, Well, we got a 731 00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:28,399 Speaker 8: bit of a problem today, folks. Parasites parasites. Oh yeah, yeah, 732 00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:30,719 Speaker 8: it happens sometime. We got a bit of a problem 733 00:42:31,200 --> 00:42:34,560 Speaker 8: it is. Let's check in with cat dog, cat dog parasites. 734 00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:40,080 Speaker 3: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach it. Brian. Brian, Hey, hey, Brian, 735 00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:46,439 Speaker 3: this is doctor Jacob. How you doing today? Yeah, yeah, okay, listen, 736 00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:49,279 Speaker 3: you actually came in, uh maybe like two and a 737 00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:51,000 Speaker 3: half week, could go here to my office and got 738 00:42:51,080 --> 00:42:55,000 Speaker 3: a physical for life insurance. Yeah yeah, yeah, right right, yeah, 739 00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:58,000 Speaker 3: everything okay, well, yeah, everything that's gonna be pretty good. 740 00:42:58,040 --> 00:42:59,400 Speaker 3: I'd like to see if I can get you to 741 00:42:59,480 --> 00:43:03,200 Speaker 3: come in and I you know, everything's going to be fine, 742 00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:05,040 Speaker 3: and I got a small procedure we'd like to do 743 00:43:05,680 --> 00:43:08,360 Speaker 3: to actually, uh, you know right now, you're not approved 744 00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:10,839 Speaker 3: for your life insurance to do until this procedure is done. 745 00:43:11,280 --> 00:43:13,680 Speaker 3: So if you don't mind coming in, we'd like to 746 00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:15,880 Speaker 3: get you taken care of. When can I schedule you 747 00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:19,000 Speaker 3: to come in, like, uh, maybe tomorrow or the following day. 748 00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:22,360 Speaker 3: What kind of procedure is? Well, actually, I don't know 749 00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:24,880 Speaker 3: if you've heard of it. This is an okostromyn. I 750 00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:31,359 Speaker 3: got something that's got something you wasn't there something doing 751 00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:31,799 Speaker 3: my eyes? 752 00:43:31,880 --> 00:43:32,520 Speaker 11: I ha heard? 753 00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:36,520 Speaker 3: What's that? No? No, has nothing to do with the eyes, No, 754 00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:40,440 Speaker 3: nothing at all. We found a little bit of parasites 755 00:43:40,520 --> 00:43:42,160 Speaker 3: in a particular area, and what we want to do 756 00:43:42,360 --> 00:43:45,879 Speaker 3: is make sure we just remove it completely and you'll 757 00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:47,960 Speaker 3: be fine. You'll get your life insurance, You're and your 758 00:43:47,960 --> 00:43:49,759 Speaker 3: family will be great. So can I get you to 759 00:43:49,800 --> 00:43:54,360 Speaker 3: come in tomorrow? Maybe Thursday afternoon? As what? What? What area? 760 00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:57,600 Speaker 3: I found the parasite? Then? Actually one of your testicles 761 00:43:57,680 --> 00:43:59,719 Speaker 3: has some parasites. So what we're going to do is 762 00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:04,120 Speaker 3: what it's called a okyostromy and okostrom is actually removing 763 00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:07,560 Speaker 3: that testicle completely and then everything gonna be fine, it's 764 00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:10,160 Speaker 3: all confined and we'll be able to remove it. You'll 765 00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:12,000 Speaker 3: be on your way, you'll get your life insurance and 766 00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:14,320 Speaker 3: everything will be fine. Okay, Like I said, can I 767 00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:16,120 Speaker 3: get can I? Can I get you to come in tomorrow? 768 00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:21,840 Speaker 3: My testicle? Well only one, only one, and it's not 769 00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:24,279 Speaker 3: going to take long. With's a thirty minute procedure. But 770 00:44:24,400 --> 00:44:26,160 Speaker 3: we want to get you to come in tomorrow or 771 00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:28,640 Speaker 3: the next day. Can we get you to go? Whether 772 00:44:28,680 --> 00:44:29,400 Speaker 3: are you available? 773 00:44:29,760 --> 00:44:30,840 Speaker 11: I just want to play a routine. 774 00:44:31,560 --> 00:44:33,719 Speaker 3: I got to remove a test sir. You know what, 775 00:44:34,040 --> 00:44:37,120 Speaker 3: oftentimes when people come in with life insurance, these type 776 00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:39,200 Speaker 3: of things happen. So we want to get you in 777 00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:42,520 Speaker 3: and get it out as quickly as possible. No, man, 778 00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:45,200 Speaker 3: I'm waiting for a routine physical. Man. I wasn't supposed 779 00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:47,040 Speaker 3: to be checking all this extra stuff. Now I get 780 00:44:47,080 --> 00:44:49,160 Speaker 3: a parent site, man, and my testical y'all don't remove 781 00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:52,799 Speaker 3: a testicle. Man, I'm twenty five, man, my wife, no kids. 782 00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:54,600 Speaker 3: They were trying to be that I gotta move a testicle. 783 00:44:54,800 --> 00:44:56,520 Speaker 3: Let me say this to you, Brian, You're gonna be 784 00:44:56,600 --> 00:44:59,120 Speaker 3: completely fine. You'll be able to create children, you'll be 785 00:44:59,160 --> 00:45:02,719 Speaker 3: able a little normal. You know you'll just see you 786 00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:04,600 Speaker 3: won't have all of them, but you'll have enough to 787 00:45:04,640 --> 00:45:08,400 Speaker 3: create children. You understand that. Nah Man, I can't No, 788 00:45:08,560 --> 00:45:11,279 Speaker 3: I ain't gonna. I can't come in for that now, Sir. 789 00:45:11,480 --> 00:45:13,360 Speaker 3: Is there any way I can get you in tomorrow 790 00:45:13,520 --> 00:45:16,799 Speaker 3: or tomorrow afternoon or the Thursday afternoon so we can 791 00:45:16,880 --> 00:45:18,440 Speaker 3: kind of get this thing taken care of and we 792 00:45:18,440 --> 00:45:20,040 Speaker 3: can get to moving on your way, and that people 793 00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:22,760 Speaker 3: can get the life insurance papers together and so forth. 794 00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:26,000 Speaker 3: Nah man, Man, we ain't rescheduling now. I need to 795 00:45:26,080 --> 00:45:28,520 Speaker 3: take in a third opinion on that. Man. He's talking 796 00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:31,319 Speaker 3: about taking away one of my We ain't rescheduling nothing, man. 797 00:45:31,320 --> 00:45:34,120 Speaker 3: I'm gonna need to see another doctor. Man, it's some sir. Sir, 798 00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:37,080 Speaker 3: you can go around the entire city and see several doctors. 799 00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:39,520 Speaker 3: I'm here to tell you you're just gonna be wasting time. 800 00:45:39,960 --> 00:45:41,920 Speaker 3: I'm going to try to knock this thing out for you. 801 00:45:42,440 --> 00:45:45,560 Speaker 3: Knock it up. I ain't agreed to nothing. Listen, you 802 00:45:45,640 --> 00:45:48,640 Speaker 3: ain't have to join us to get money, medicine, scheduling, nothing, man. 803 00:45:48,680 --> 00:45:50,640 Speaker 3: I need to take a third of pity. This is 804 00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:53,040 Speaker 3: bloom Brian. I'll tell you if you come in and 805 00:45:53,120 --> 00:45:54,520 Speaker 3: let me get this thing taken care of. 806 00:45:55,040 --> 00:45:56,160 Speaker 10: You know, I have you back. 807 00:45:56,560 --> 00:45:59,239 Speaker 3: You know, big ball and shot calling before it's all over. 808 00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:02,520 Speaker 3: You know what's big? Big ball? That shot call it? Man? 809 00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:04,719 Speaker 3: I told you, man, I ain't going in for none 810 00:46:04,719 --> 00:46:06,359 Speaker 3: of that. Man, I'm supposed to tell my wife. Man, 811 00:46:06,400 --> 00:46:08,319 Speaker 3: this this ain't cool. Man, I ain't going in for that. Man. 812 00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:11,680 Speaker 3: I'm rescheduling, manchul What do you mean you're rescheduling? Sir? 813 00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:14,080 Speaker 3: What I'm getting I'm getting another opinion. I ain't going 814 00:46:14,160 --> 00:46:16,120 Speaker 3: into that. Okay you, but I'm trying to make you 815 00:46:16,200 --> 00:46:19,239 Speaker 3: a big baller shot caller. You know, man, what what 816 00:46:19,440 --> 00:46:20,799 Speaker 3: is your name? Man? You're supposed to be a doctor. 817 00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:22,640 Speaker 3: You're making a little jokes man, and you're doing a 818 00:46:22,680 --> 00:46:24,360 Speaker 3: little play on words. Man. It ain't even funny. Man, 819 00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:27,560 Speaker 3: I'm calling it insurance sinned tell him they give me doctor. Man, 820 00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:29,920 Speaker 3: But you think he's funny. Hey, it ain't funny man. 821 00:46:30,239 --> 00:46:31,600 Speaker 3: You know you're making a little chase. Man. It ain't 822 00:46:31,640 --> 00:46:34,239 Speaker 3: funny man. I'm thinking opinion. Man, I'm forget in all 823 00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:36,440 Speaker 3: of the work that we got, the blood work, the 824 00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:40,160 Speaker 3: yearine work, the complete physical. That's when we didn't realize 825 00:46:40,160 --> 00:46:43,040 Speaker 3: that you had parasites in a particular area. So what 826 00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:44,960 Speaker 3: we're talking, I'm not. I don't mean I turned to 827 00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:47,000 Speaker 3: make a light of make humor in it, just to 828 00:46:47,040 --> 00:46:49,439 Speaker 3: make you feel a little bit more comfortable. I apologize, 829 00:46:49,840 --> 00:46:51,719 Speaker 3: all right. That ain't funny, man. You want to want 830 00:46:51,719 --> 00:46:54,120 Speaker 3: to losing? No, that ain't funny. Man. If I had 831 00:46:54,160 --> 00:46:55,960 Speaker 3: a situation, the nurse would have told me that he 832 00:46:56,000 --> 00:46:58,279 Speaker 3: ain't telling me nothing. Man, ain't me thinking, I'm all good. 833 00:46:58,360 --> 00:47:00,080 Speaker 3: Now you're telling me I got to come in to 834 00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:02,520 Speaker 3: remove a test on that. We have to run tests 835 00:47:02,560 --> 00:47:04,840 Speaker 3: on you, sir. We got tests back when you do 836 00:47:05,000 --> 00:47:06,800 Speaker 3: have the parasites, and what we want to do is 837 00:47:06,880 --> 00:47:09,799 Speaker 3: make sure we get them completely cleared out. The only 838 00:47:09,920 --> 00:47:13,759 Speaker 3: way I can clear that out is to remove that testicle. Man, 839 00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:17,080 Speaker 3: it's some man. I ain't got no parasites. Man, May 840 00:47:17,160 --> 00:47:18,800 Speaker 3: I have your running out of these tests on me? 841 00:47:19,000 --> 00:47:21,440 Speaker 3: I'm going to another doctor, man, because this man, I 842 00:47:21,440 --> 00:47:24,239 Speaker 3: ain't got no paracite. Man, all these kids got somebody 843 00:47:24,239 --> 00:47:25,560 Speaker 3: that ry me. I gotta remove them. 844 00:47:26,120 --> 00:47:27,800 Speaker 10: That's some you know, we hear me. 845 00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:30,160 Speaker 3: So that's I know you doctor, and I ain't got 846 00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:33,239 Speaker 3: a paracise. Man. I'm following my head shut. I'm telling 847 00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:37,680 Speaker 3: my dealing with you. Man. I ain't got no parasites, man, Bryan. 848 00:47:37,840 --> 00:47:39,920 Speaker 3: Let me make you understand something clearly here. It's my 849 00:47:40,120 --> 00:47:42,640 Speaker 3: job as a physician that if the patient doesn't come 850 00:47:42,719 --> 00:47:44,920 Speaker 3: to me, it's my job to come to you and 851 00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:48,200 Speaker 3: extract the problem. You're leaning towards me having to come 852 00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:50,960 Speaker 3: to your home and extract the problem. 853 00:47:51,200 --> 00:47:54,040 Speaker 11: Man, when you want to come home house, may you 854 00:47:54,640 --> 00:47:58,120 Speaker 11: not what you want just with the town to test is? 855 00:47:58,200 --> 00:48:00,400 Speaker 11: May you you fucking want. 856 00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:03,160 Speaker 3: With another doctor. I'm getting another chance. I ain't got 857 00:48:03,239 --> 00:48:06,880 Speaker 3: a pass. Let it, sir. You've got the parasites, and 858 00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:10,160 Speaker 3: you only have twenty four hours for me to get sir. 859 00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:13,759 Speaker 3: I have to move on this quickly, Brian. Okay, I'm 860 00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:14,799 Speaker 3: not gonna take it out again. 861 00:48:14,880 --> 00:48:18,879 Speaker 11: I ain't got I ain't got it. Okay, I'm three minutes. 862 00:48:19,160 --> 00:48:19,640 Speaker 11: Can't give it. 863 00:48:20,000 --> 00:48:20,520 Speaker 3: I ain't give it. 864 00:48:20,880 --> 00:48:21,360 Speaker 1: I ain't got it. 865 00:48:22,520 --> 00:48:25,920 Speaker 3: Man. It's not something that's transmitted. It doesn't come from 866 00:48:25,960 --> 00:48:29,480 Speaker 3: another another human being. It just develops in one out 867 00:48:29,520 --> 00:48:33,040 Speaker 3: of every three or four million people. You actually have it, Brian, 868 00:48:33,200 --> 00:48:34,520 Speaker 3: I got to extracted from you. 869 00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:37,960 Speaker 11: You try to tell me I'm the wire man. You 870 00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:41,920 Speaker 11: know I'm coming like that. Ain't got a passite man, Bryan. 871 00:48:42,120 --> 00:48:44,160 Speaker 3: There's something else that you have and I haven't told 872 00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:46,360 Speaker 3: you about. There's something else I need to tell you. 873 00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:49,960 Speaker 3: I got it. Here's somebody I got passed. What else? 874 00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:53,000 Speaker 3: But like that, Brian, you just got prayed. You just 875 00:48:53,080 --> 00:48:56,040 Speaker 3: got pranked by nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey. Want 876 00:48:56,080 --> 00:48:58,720 Speaker 3: to show Joe wife's Anne because got me the prank 877 00:48:58,840 --> 00:48:59,719 Speaker 3: phone called you. 878 00:49:12,040 --> 00:49:13,280 Speaker 7: Big ball is shot Colin. 879 00:49:13,400 --> 00:49:16,200 Speaker 6: You know I doesn't want to deal with the problem 880 00:49:16,400 --> 00:49:17,920 Speaker 6: at all. He don't want to deal with the problem. 881 00:49:18,440 --> 00:49:20,399 Speaker 6: Just kicking him up and he just want to fight. 882 00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:23,600 Speaker 7: Pick one, okay, but one of them got to go. 883 00:49:23,960 --> 00:49:26,560 Speaker 7: Pick one, Pick the one you want to keep, all right? 884 00:49:26,719 --> 00:49:28,400 Speaker 1: Pick another doctor? How about that. 885 00:49:31,360 --> 00:49:37,200 Speaker 7: Doctor Tommy? Baby, doctor nephew, tell me that was crazy? Yes, stupid? 886 00:49:37,239 --> 00:49:39,919 Speaker 7: That is best? Baby. New York, New York, Big city 887 00:49:40,000 --> 00:49:41,279 Speaker 7: of dreams. Get ready, baby. 888 00:49:41,600 --> 00:49:44,120 Speaker 8: February the third, the Nephew was coming to the n 889 00:49:44,320 --> 00:49:46,839 Speaker 8: y C The City Winery. You heard what I said. 890 00:49:46,880 --> 00:49:49,680 Speaker 8: Tickets are on sale right now. February third, Saturday night, 891 00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:51,680 Speaker 8: New York City. If you can make it New York, 892 00:49:51,800 --> 00:49:54,600 Speaker 8: you can make it anywhere. Tickets on sale right now. 893 00:49:54,880 --> 00:49:56,719 Speaker 8: I'll let you know if I had some shows. Okay, 894 00:49:57,080 --> 00:49:58,680 Speaker 8: I got to talk to my uncle, see if I 895 00:49:58,719 --> 00:50:00,239 Speaker 8: can get off. You know, it takes a minute, gotta 896 00:50:00,239 --> 00:50:02,239 Speaker 8: go through some you know, little red tape the whole tight. 897 00:50:02,440 --> 00:50:04,640 Speaker 7: I'll let y'all know. Okay, hold tight. 898 00:50:04,760 --> 00:50:06,680 Speaker 2: What you need time off? That had the show for 899 00:50:06,960 --> 00:50:08,880 Speaker 2: Just add the show on the night. You already got it. 900 00:50:09,200 --> 00:50:11,640 Speaker 2: She always trying to have your little career be convenient. 901 00:50:11,680 --> 00:50:15,640 Speaker 2: You wanna do two ko ass to bed. We ain't 902 00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:18,000 Speaker 2: got no more damn time off. I do it, man, 903 00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:20,799 Speaker 2: I mind the hustle, and I got that hump show. 904 00:50:20,920 --> 00:50:22,560 Speaker 7: Dass out there and do fourtnights. 905 00:50:22,600 --> 00:50:25,160 Speaker 2: Sinbad would do five and six shows a night, though, 906 00:50:25,400 --> 00:50:29,399 Speaker 2: oh my god, nobody did for since Sinbad did. 907 00:50:29,480 --> 00:50:33,240 Speaker 1: Matt Na's man Wow legend. 908 00:50:33,320 --> 00:50:35,960 Speaker 2: Man, I tried that one time I did a show 909 00:50:36,080 --> 00:50:39,000 Speaker 2: for kids that I was supposed to a forty five 910 00:50:39,080 --> 00:50:45,400 Speaker 2: minute set. That set lasted fifteen minutes. Parents was getting 911 00:50:45,520 --> 00:50:46,000 Speaker 2: up walking. 912 00:50:47,160 --> 00:50:54,040 Speaker 7: What did he just say? Hey, man, hey, I was 913 00:50:54,080 --> 00:50:57,160 Speaker 7: on stage. I didn't have no show for no kids. 914 00:50:57,560 --> 00:50:59,759 Speaker 1: I don't know why they were in here, all right, 915 00:51:00,520 --> 00:51:01,640 Speaker 1: thank you of you coming up. 916 00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:04,160 Speaker 7: I think were made and walk out. Was when I said, 917 00:51:04,200 --> 00:51:05,399 Speaker 7: shot your little punk as. 918 00:51:07,239 --> 00:51:13,759 Speaker 1: That his ex wife won't let me visit him. We'll 919 00:51:13,800 --> 00:51:17,800 Speaker 1: get into it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey 920 00:51:17,880 --> 00:51:22,160 Speaker 1: Morning Show. Well, it's time now for today's Strawberry Letter. 921 00:51:22,360 --> 00:51:26,920 Speaker 1: And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, 922 00:51:27,080 --> 00:51:30,560 Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey 923 00:51:30,800 --> 00:51:34,560 Speaker 1: FM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could 924 00:51:34,600 --> 00:51:37,400 Speaker 1: be reading your letter live on the air, just like 925 00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:39,680 Speaker 1: we're going to read this one right here, right now. 926 00:51:39,840 --> 00:51:41,080 Speaker 1: Who knows it could be yours? 927 00:51:41,880 --> 00:51:43,719 Speaker 7: Buck it up, Hold on tight, we got it. Pull 928 00:51:43,760 --> 00:51:44,000 Speaker 7: you here. 929 00:51:44,080 --> 00:51:48,399 Speaker 1: It is the Strawberry Letters subject his ex wife won't 930 00:51:48,480 --> 00:51:51,680 Speaker 1: let me visit him. Here Stephen Shirley, My boyfriend and 931 00:51:51,760 --> 00:51:54,359 Speaker 1: I have been dating for about five months and he's 932 00:51:54,440 --> 00:51:57,640 Speaker 1: the best man I've ever been with and he treats 933 00:51:57,719 --> 00:52:01,080 Speaker 1: me really good. There's a situation that I'm dealing with 934 00:52:01,280 --> 00:52:04,879 Speaker 1: and my man doesn't understand why it's bothering me. When 935 00:52:04,960 --> 00:52:08,080 Speaker 1: we first met, he had just gotten a divorce. I 936 00:52:08,160 --> 00:52:12,239 Speaker 1: mean it was literally finalized the day before I met him. 937 00:52:12,719 --> 00:52:15,439 Speaker 1: Because it was a quick divorce, he was still living 938 00:52:15,480 --> 00:52:18,360 Speaker 1: in the house he shared with his wife. He said 939 00:52:18,520 --> 00:52:21,080 Speaker 1: they didn't put the house in the divorce settlement because 940 00:52:21,120 --> 00:52:24,680 Speaker 1: it was his wife's house in her name. I thought 941 00:52:24,719 --> 00:52:28,040 Speaker 1: within months of getting a divorce, he'd move out. We 942 00:52:28,200 --> 00:52:30,920 Speaker 1: even went to look at apartments and rental houses together. 943 00:52:31,760 --> 00:52:35,120 Speaker 1: Then he informed me that he decided to stay in 944 00:52:35,239 --> 00:52:38,200 Speaker 1: the house with his ex wife because she agreed to 945 00:52:38,320 --> 00:52:41,640 Speaker 1: let him rent his man cave area of the house. 946 00:52:42,040 --> 00:52:44,759 Speaker 1: He said the room is on the second floor and 947 00:52:44,880 --> 00:52:47,560 Speaker 1: it's got a bathroom attached to it and a wet 948 00:52:47,640 --> 00:52:50,399 Speaker 1: bar section with a tiny fridge in it. He said 949 00:52:50,560 --> 00:52:54,840 Speaker 1: he's got access to a bedroom upstairs too, because his 950 00:52:55,000 --> 00:52:57,799 Speaker 1: wife doesn't go upstairs at all. I asked him about 951 00:52:57,840 --> 00:53:01,000 Speaker 1: the common areas they have to share. Assured me that 952 00:53:01,120 --> 00:53:03,800 Speaker 1: he had it all worked out. This has put a 953 00:53:03,880 --> 00:53:07,279 Speaker 1: strain on our relationship because he has to stay at 954 00:53:07,360 --> 00:53:10,160 Speaker 1: my house all of the time, since I'm not allowed 955 00:53:10,200 --> 00:53:14,080 Speaker 1: to visit him or even step foot on this woman's property. 956 00:53:14,600 --> 00:53:17,080 Speaker 1: I popped over there last week to see what would happen, 957 00:53:17,360 --> 00:53:19,600 Speaker 1: and his ex wife met me at the door and said, 958 00:53:19,719 --> 00:53:21,960 Speaker 1: if I don't like her rules, then I should let 959 00:53:22,040 --> 00:53:24,600 Speaker 1: him move in with me. I left and called and 960 00:53:24,680 --> 00:53:28,000 Speaker 1: cursed him out. He doesn't understand how crazy this is. 961 00:53:28,440 --> 00:53:31,799 Speaker 1: I'm getting the vibe that he's a sorry but man. 962 00:53:34,320 --> 00:53:36,680 Speaker 1: Yeah right, that's what she said. What is really going 963 00:53:36,760 --> 00:53:40,120 Speaker 1: on here? Please help you? 964 00:53:40,200 --> 00:53:40,400 Speaker 3: Know what? 965 00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:44,560 Speaker 1: I don't like this situation at all for you, because 966 00:53:44,800 --> 00:53:47,960 Speaker 1: this arrangement is just really stupid. I mean, what are 967 00:53:48,000 --> 00:53:50,920 Speaker 1: you getting out of this? You're getting nothing but stress 968 00:53:51,040 --> 00:53:54,719 Speaker 1: and misery and unhappiness. This so called best guy that 969 00:53:54,840 --> 00:53:57,920 Speaker 1: you've ever had is living with his ex wife and 970 00:53:58,120 --> 00:54:01,799 Speaker 1: paying her rent to live there. As much time as 971 00:54:01,880 --> 00:54:03,920 Speaker 1: you say he spends at your place. Why don't you 972 00:54:04,040 --> 00:54:07,960 Speaker 1: charge him rent? You should be charging him rent. Maybe 973 00:54:08,080 --> 00:54:11,120 Speaker 1: that will help him to understand that it's time to 974 00:54:11,200 --> 00:54:14,000 Speaker 1: get out of his wife's house and move on with 975 00:54:14,200 --> 00:54:17,600 Speaker 1: you in his life. That means getting his own place. 976 00:54:17,719 --> 00:54:20,880 Speaker 1: You said, you guys have looked at places, what happened. 977 00:54:21,160 --> 00:54:23,960 Speaker 1: That means getting his own place where you're invited, where 978 00:54:23,960 --> 00:54:26,239 Speaker 1: you can go over there and hang out and spend 979 00:54:26,280 --> 00:54:29,560 Speaker 1: the night, things like that that couples do. It makes 980 00:54:29,640 --> 00:54:32,399 Speaker 1: absolutely no sense for him to still be staying there 981 00:54:33,000 --> 00:54:38,400 Speaker 1: unless unless he's, you know, having trouble letting go. He 982 00:54:38,560 --> 00:54:42,480 Speaker 1: might be Remember you said, he treats you really well, 983 00:54:43,000 --> 00:54:45,440 Speaker 1: so he should have moved out when his wife spoke 984 00:54:45,480 --> 00:54:47,839 Speaker 1: to you so rudely when you popped up over there, 985 00:54:48,600 --> 00:54:53,279 Speaker 1: his sorry behind did nothing. Okay, he's not right for you. 986 00:54:53,600 --> 00:54:55,840 Speaker 1: I mean he can barely take care of himself at 987 00:54:55,880 --> 00:54:58,560 Speaker 1: this point, so you need to do for yourself what 988 00:54:58,719 --> 00:55:02,080 Speaker 1: he can't do for himself. And that's move on. It's 989 00:55:02,160 --> 00:55:04,719 Speaker 1: only been five months. You'll be all right. You'll be 990 00:55:04,840 --> 00:55:05,800 Speaker 1: all right, Steve. 991 00:55:08,160 --> 00:55:11,319 Speaker 7: Wow, this letter got I don't believe it written all 992 00:55:11,400 --> 00:55:11,600 Speaker 7: over it. 993 00:55:11,840 --> 00:55:17,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I do not understand why this woman is writing 994 00:55:17,400 --> 00:55:20,239 Speaker 2: this letter because it don't make no sense. How much 995 00:55:20,320 --> 00:55:22,359 Speaker 2: time I got to deal with this before we gonna break? 996 00:55:23,560 --> 00:55:24,560 Speaker 7: All right, stay here with us. 997 00:55:25,800 --> 00:55:28,279 Speaker 2: Now, you first met this man, best man you ever 998 00:55:28,560 --> 00:55:32,680 Speaker 2: had be you never treat you really good. We first 999 00:55:32,800 --> 00:55:36,640 Speaker 2: met he had just gotten divorced, literally finalized the day 1000 00:55:36,760 --> 00:55:37,719 Speaker 2: before I met him. 1001 00:55:38,920 --> 00:55:43,319 Speaker 7: Danger. Danger, we'll rob its. Danger just got out. 1002 00:55:43,440 --> 00:55:43,560 Speaker 3: Now. 1003 00:55:43,600 --> 00:55:46,719 Speaker 2: I know marriages are over long before the date is finalized, 1004 00:55:46,960 --> 00:55:48,759 Speaker 2: so they probably been going through this. But you did 1005 00:55:48,880 --> 00:55:51,640 Speaker 2: say it was a quick divorce. So he was still 1006 00:55:51,719 --> 00:55:53,520 Speaker 2: living in the house that he shared with his wife, 1007 00:55:53,719 --> 00:55:55,760 Speaker 2: and they didn't put the house in the divorce settlement 1008 00:55:55,800 --> 00:55:58,480 Speaker 2: because it was his wife's house in her name. Well, 1009 00:55:58,520 --> 00:56:01,640 Speaker 2: you can't put it in the divorce settlement because of 1010 00:56:01,760 --> 00:56:06,080 Speaker 2: what he did that brought about the quick divorce. You 1011 00:56:06,280 --> 00:56:10,160 Speaker 2: never mentioned that, and now you ain't getting this house. 1012 00:56:10,280 --> 00:56:12,800 Speaker 2: You got to get out. This is my damn house. 1013 00:56:13,719 --> 00:56:16,200 Speaker 2: So now that's why that didn't get put in the 1014 00:56:16,280 --> 00:56:20,520 Speaker 2: divorce settlement. I thought after months, I thought, within monks 1015 00:56:20,560 --> 00:56:23,320 Speaker 2: of getting a divorce, he'd move out. Y'all went to 1016 00:56:23,360 --> 00:56:25,320 Speaker 2: look at apartments and rental houses together. 1017 00:56:25,480 --> 00:56:28,520 Speaker 7: He wasn't serious. He was just you know, you know, 1018 00:56:28,760 --> 00:56:29,440 Speaker 7: appeasing you. 1019 00:56:30,080 --> 00:56:32,560 Speaker 2: Then he informed me that he decided to stay in 1020 00:56:32,640 --> 00:56:35,520 Speaker 2: the house with his ex wife because. 1021 00:56:35,280 --> 00:56:38,520 Speaker 7: She agreed to let him rent his man cave area 1022 00:56:38,680 --> 00:56:39,239 Speaker 7: of the house. 1023 00:56:39,760 --> 00:56:43,400 Speaker 2: He said, The room is on the second floor, and 1024 00:56:43,520 --> 00:56:48,120 Speaker 2: it's got a bathroom attached to it, a wet bar section. 1025 00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:51,279 Speaker 7: With a tiny fridge in it. 1026 00:56:51,920 --> 00:56:55,279 Speaker 2: Listen to me, You mean to tell me that a 1027 00:56:55,440 --> 00:57:00,320 Speaker 2: man gets divorced and his option is to stay in 1028 00:57:00,520 --> 00:57:06,040 Speaker 2: the house with the wife that you've divorced because you 1029 00:57:06,200 --> 00:57:10,239 Speaker 2: got a man cave in it with a access to 1030 00:57:10,360 --> 00:57:14,359 Speaker 2: a bathroom and a tiny fridge. Now later on they say, 1031 00:57:14,440 --> 00:57:18,760 Speaker 2: and the bedroom is he's accessible is on another floor. 1032 00:57:19,400 --> 00:57:24,080 Speaker 2: What girl, A man cave can't mean that much to 1033 00:57:24,240 --> 00:57:28,360 Speaker 2: you if you ain't the king no more. See, a 1034 00:57:28,520 --> 00:57:31,640 Speaker 2: man cave is only good is if you the king 1035 00:57:32,440 --> 00:57:33,840 Speaker 2: and you got a man cave. 1036 00:57:34,440 --> 00:57:37,439 Speaker 7: But if you ain't the king no more, you ain't 1037 00:57:37,520 --> 00:57:38,600 Speaker 7: got a man cave. 1038 00:57:39,120 --> 00:57:39,880 Speaker 10: You're a renter. 1039 00:57:41,040 --> 00:57:44,280 Speaker 2: Matter of fact, you just air B and B. I 1040 00:57:44,320 --> 00:57:46,800 Speaker 2: don't even see how you do. He ain't got nothing. 1041 00:57:46,880 --> 00:57:48,880 Speaker 2: When we come back, I'm gonna break your heart. I'm 1042 00:57:48,880 --> 00:57:49,520 Speaker 2: gonna break y'all. 1043 00:57:49,800 --> 00:57:52,080 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, hang on, we'll have part two of 1044 00:57:52,120 --> 00:57:53,240 Speaker 1: your responses. 1045 00:57:52,840 --> 00:57:55,920 Speaker 7: In a man cave that a little boy got a 1046 00:57:56,080 --> 00:57:58,240 Speaker 7: tiny fridge, little. 1047 00:57:58,040 --> 00:58:02,840 Speaker 1: Bitty fridge coming up. Steve's response Part two at twenty 1048 00:58:02,920 --> 00:58:06,680 Speaker 1: three minutes after the hour Strawberry Letters. Subject for today 1049 00:58:06,760 --> 00:58:08,920 Speaker 1: his ex wife won't let me visit him. We'll get 1050 00:58:08,960 --> 00:58:13,360 Speaker 1: back into it right after this. You're listening, Steve Hardy 1051 00:58:13,440 --> 00:58:16,840 Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's 1052 00:58:16,880 --> 00:58:20,040 Speaker 1: Strawberry letter. The subject his ex wife won't let me 1053 00:58:20,240 --> 00:58:20,760 Speaker 1: visit him. 1054 00:58:21,200 --> 00:58:22,440 Speaker 7: This man got a divorce. 1055 00:58:22,520 --> 00:58:25,520 Speaker 2: You met him right after he got the divorce, y'all, 1056 00:58:25,760 --> 00:58:27,040 Speaker 2: the best man you ever met. 1057 00:58:27,120 --> 00:58:28,360 Speaker 7: You say. It was a quick divorce. 1058 00:58:28,760 --> 00:58:31,560 Speaker 2: So they didn't put the house into the divorce settlement 1059 00:58:31,840 --> 00:58:34,200 Speaker 2: because it was his wife's house and in her name. 1060 00:58:35,280 --> 00:58:35,959 Speaker 7: So you thought. 1061 00:58:36,120 --> 00:58:38,760 Speaker 2: Within monthster getting the divorce, he moved out. Y'all went 1062 00:58:38,800 --> 00:58:41,640 Speaker 2: apartment looking and everything that was just to appease you. 1063 00:58:42,000 --> 00:58:44,360 Speaker 2: Then informed you that he decided to stay in the 1064 00:58:44,440 --> 00:58:48,160 Speaker 2: house with his ex wife because she agreed. She agreed 1065 00:58:48,520 --> 00:58:53,360 Speaker 2: to let him rent his man cave area of the house. Now, 1066 00:58:53,480 --> 00:58:56,920 Speaker 2: he said, the room is on the second floor. It's 1067 00:58:57,000 --> 00:59:00,880 Speaker 2: got a bathroom attached to it. Which anything that's got 1068 00:59:00,920 --> 00:59:03,840 Speaker 2: a bathroom attached to it on the second floor is 1069 00:59:04,000 --> 00:59:10,680 Speaker 2: not a full bath. It's a half bath, sink, toilet. Oh, 1070 00:59:11,400 --> 00:59:13,680 Speaker 2: I want you to understand this. Now, they don't put 1071 00:59:13,720 --> 00:59:17,080 Speaker 2: showers and stuff on little areas. They don't have beds, 1072 00:59:18,520 --> 00:59:21,120 Speaker 2: not in regular houses. They don't. I'm just telling you. 1073 00:59:22,240 --> 00:59:24,360 Speaker 2: He said, the room's on the second floor, it's got 1074 00:59:24,480 --> 00:59:28,200 Speaker 2: bathroom attached to it, and a wet bar section. So 1075 00:59:28,360 --> 00:59:33,800 Speaker 2: that means there's a sink, a sink over there with 1076 00:59:34,040 --> 00:59:38,680 Speaker 2: a tiny refrigerator in it. He got access to a bedroom, 1077 00:59:39,200 --> 00:59:46,520 Speaker 2: but the bedroom is upstairs. What because his wife doesn't 1078 00:59:46,560 --> 00:59:52,280 Speaker 2: go upstairs at all? What in her house she don't 1079 00:59:52,320 --> 00:59:56,720 Speaker 2: go upstairs at all. So you ask him about the 1080 00:59:56,840 --> 00:59:59,920 Speaker 2: common areas that they have to share, and he assued me, 1081 01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:02,680 Speaker 2: ensured me that he has had it all worked out, 1082 01:00:03,040 --> 01:00:05,640 Speaker 2: so now he don't even have an area of his own. 1083 01:00:06,480 --> 01:00:10,920 Speaker 2: He got common areas with his ex wife. This has 1084 01:00:10,960 --> 01:00:13,600 Speaker 2: put a strain under our relationship because he's had to 1085 01:00:13,640 --> 01:00:16,280 Speaker 2: stay at my house all of the time since I'm 1086 01:00:16,320 --> 01:00:18,960 Speaker 2: not allowed to visit him or step foot on this 1087 01:00:19,120 --> 01:00:20,000 Speaker 2: woman's property. 1088 01:00:21,600 --> 01:00:24,040 Speaker 7: Now, guess what this crazy woman does. 1089 01:00:24,440 --> 01:00:27,240 Speaker 2: I popped up over that last week to see what 1090 01:00:27,360 --> 01:00:30,120 Speaker 2: would happen, and his ex wife met me at the 1091 01:00:30,200 --> 01:00:32,360 Speaker 2: door and said, if I don't like her rules, then 1092 01:00:32,440 --> 01:00:34,440 Speaker 2: you should then I should let him move in with me. 1093 01:00:35,680 --> 01:00:37,560 Speaker 7: First of all, you should have never done that. 1094 01:00:38,840 --> 01:00:41,240 Speaker 2: And what you think the woman was gonna say, oh, hey, 1095 01:00:41,400 --> 01:00:44,560 Speaker 2: nice to meet you, come on in in her house 1096 01:00:45,040 --> 01:00:48,680 Speaker 2: that's in her name, that he'dne already he done told him, 1097 01:00:49,080 --> 01:00:51,440 Speaker 2: she done, told him he ain't the king no more, 1098 01:00:52,160 --> 01:00:53,320 Speaker 2: This ain't a man cave. 1099 01:00:53,600 --> 01:00:54,320 Speaker 7: This a room. 1100 01:00:54,800 --> 01:00:58,920 Speaker 2: I'm gonna give you access to a bedroom that's upstairs, 1101 01:00:59,240 --> 01:01:02,600 Speaker 2: and you're gonna pay me money, And then told you 1102 01:01:02,680 --> 01:01:04,240 Speaker 2: if you don't like the rules and ought to let 1103 01:01:04,320 --> 01:01:06,920 Speaker 2: him move in me. I left, called and cussed him out. 1104 01:01:07,040 --> 01:01:09,600 Speaker 2: What you cuss him out for? He told your ass 1105 01:01:09,680 --> 01:01:14,360 Speaker 2: couldn't come over there, right, he said, don't come over here. 1106 01:01:14,840 --> 01:01:19,960 Speaker 2: This hell of crazy. This her house, She making all 1107 01:01:20,080 --> 01:01:23,600 Speaker 2: the rules. He doesn't understand how crazy this is. I'm 1108 01:01:23,640 --> 01:01:26,520 Speaker 2: getting the vibe that he's a sorry ass man, you think, 1109 01:01:28,360 --> 01:01:30,720 Speaker 2: because I'm gonna tell you what's really going on? She say, 1110 01:01:30,800 --> 01:01:31,600 Speaker 2: what's really going on? 1111 01:01:31,760 --> 01:01:33,760 Speaker 7: Please help me? All right? First of all, I'm gonna 1112 01:01:33,760 --> 01:01:34,680 Speaker 7: tell you what's really going on. 1113 01:01:35,160 --> 01:01:39,280 Speaker 2: Number one, he ain't got no money because any man 1114 01:01:39,400 --> 01:01:42,000 Speaker 2: that gets a divorce is not gonna live in a 1115 01:01:42,080 --> 01:01:45,720 Speaker 2: subservient position like this with all these rules. He can't 1116 01:01:45,800 --> 01:01:50,560 Speaker 2: have a company, right, You can't date, and you'd have 1117 01:01:50,600 --> 01:01:52,959 Speaker 2: brought your ass over there to just see what would happen, 1118 01:01:53,360 --> 01:01:55,280 Speaker 2: and you the damn near got cussed out. 1119 01:01:55,800 --> 01:01:58,240 Speaker 7: So now let's go over what this man has. 1120 01:01:58,960 --> 01:02:05,240 Speaker 2: One the fridge okay, he stuck on that too. Access 1121 01:02:05,360 --> 01:02:10,200 Speaker 2: to a bedroom which is not his, He just got 1122 01:02:10,280 --> 01:02:15,640 Speaker 2: access to it. He has a bath that's probably a 1123 01:02:15,840 --> 01:02:22,240 Speaker 2: half bath. They have to share common areas. And if 1124 01:02:22,320 --> 01:02:25,120 Speaker 2: she in now, she can tell him it ain't common. 1125 01:02:25,240 --> 01:02:31,600 Speaker 2: Right now, your ass back in your man cave. Just 1126 01:02:31,800 --> 01:02:38,480 Speaker 2: your space is the man cave. Next one, it's her house, 1127 01:02:39,920 --> 01:02:44,640 Speaker 2: it's in her name. Here's the next one. She makes 1128 01:02:45,280 --> 01:02:48,280 Speaker 2: all the rules. Here's the next one. 1129 01:02:48,680 --> 01:02:52,040 Speaker 7: She told you if he don't like it, he can 1130 01:02:52,160 --> 01:02:53,080 Speaker 7: move in with you. 1131 01:02:55,160 --> 01:02:58,919 Speaker 2: Listen to me, A man cave can't mean that much 1132 01:02:59,720 --> 01:03:04,320 Speaker 2: when you ain't king no more, and he done gave 1133 01:03:04,480 --> 01:03:07,520 Speaker 2: up all rights as king. See what makes you have 1134 01:03:07,640 --> 01:03:10,200 Speaker 2: a man cave is when you king of the castle 1135 01:03:10,720 --> 01:03:13,560 Speaker 2: and your wife gives you a space that she don't lie. 1136 01:03:13,600 --> 01:03:14,440 Speaker 7: The kids come in. 1137 01:03:14,720 --> 01:03:16,960 Speaker 2: Nothing that's yours. You can do it like you want to, 1138 01:03:17,800 --> 01:03:20,400 Speaker 2: cause you the husband, that's your aria. Baby, do it 1139 01:03:20,520 --> 01:03:22,840 Speaker 2: like you want to. Y'all want to watch a game video, 1140 01:03:22,960 --> 01:03:25,080 Speaker 2: whatever you want to do, if that's your room. 1141 01:03:25,920 --> 01:03:27,320 Speaker 1: He don't have that no more. 1142 01:03:28,080 --> 01:03:32,240 Speaker 2: You know why because now he written that. So you 1143 01:03:32,320 --> 01:03:35,720 Speaker 2: see he has nothing and he ain't got no money. 1144 01:03:36,160 --> 01:03:39,240 Speaker 2: Because why would I rent this space that I can't 1145 01:03:39,280 --> 01:03:43,200 Speaker 2: even have company in when I could take my money 1146 01:03:43,240 --> 01:03:45,560 Speaker 2: and get me an apartment. But he can't go get 1147 01:03:45,600 --> 01:03:47,920 Speaker 2: the apartment with you because he ain't got his money, 1148 01:03:48,040 --> 01:03:49,200 Speaker 2: right because. 1149 01:03:48,960 --> 01:03:52,400 Speaker 7: He lost it in the divorce. She ain't just take 1150 01:03:52,480 --> 01:03:52,960 Speaker 7: the house. 1151 01:03:55,680 --> 01:04:00,400 Speaker 2: She got the savings, cause whatever he did to get 1152 01:04:00,480 --> 01:04:03,480 Speaker 2: put out, he got. 1153 01:04:03,360 --> 01:04:04,040 Speaker 7: To pay for it. 1154 01:04:06,120 --> 01:04:09,400 Speaker 2: You get to feeling here, sorry, ass man, she do too. 1155 01:04:12,120 --> 01:04:14,000 Speaker 2: That's why he got that damn man cave, and he 1156 01:04:14,080 --> 01:04:16,720 Speaker 2: paying rent in it, and he got access to a 1157 01:04:16,840 --> 01:04:20,400 Speaker 2: common area and he can't have no company like he's sixteen, 1158 01:04:21,440 --> 01:04:21,919 Speaker 2: all right. 1159 01:04:21,920 --> 01:04:24,600 Speaker 1: Steve post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter and Steve 1160 01:04:24,640 --> 01:04:25,800 Speaker 1: Harvey FM on Instagram. 1161 01:04:25,880 --> 01:04:29,200 Speaker 7: And a teenager check out the Strawberry Letter. 1162 01:04:29,160 --> 01:04:34,480 Speaker 1: Podcast on de Man. You're listening Hardy Morning Show, Come 1163 01:04:34,560 --> 01:04:36,120 Speaker 1: on JR. With Truth be Told. 1164 01:04:36,360 --> 01:04:37,040 Speaker 3: I got do it? 1165 01:04:37,280 --> 01:04:42,160 Speaker 1: Oh my god, do I y'all listen, Charlie. 1166 01:04:42,600 --> 01:04:45,760 Speaker 7: I'm so happy right then, I really he tell me to. 1167 01:04:45,920 --> 01:04:46,640 Speaker 10: Truth be Told. 1168 01:04:47,280 --> 01:04:56,320 Speaker 12: I'm tall, but I need no help getting that off 1169 01:04:56,400 --> 01:04:59,320 Speaker 12: the counter. All of us on the showcase say that, 1170 01:05:00,400 --> 01:05:01,360 Speaker 12: come a up, have. 1171 01:05:01,480 --> 01:05:03,320 Speaker 1: To go get the step now on the side of 1172 01:05:03,360 --> 01:05:06,080 Speaker 1: the refrigerator to get up there. I don't have to 1173 01:05:06,240 --> 01:05:06,520 Speaker 1: do that. 1174 01:05:07,040 --> 01:05:08,720 Speaker 7: You let three, thank you. 1175 01:05:10,240 --> 01:05:10,880 Speaker 1: I'm in there. 1176 01:05:11,360 --> 01:05:13,760 Speaker 12: Tell them the most tall stuff I do at the 1177 01:05:13,800 --> 01:05:15,080 Speaker 12: top of the closet. 1178 01:05:15,280 --> 01:05:17,640 Speaker 1: Like shoes. I get that, you get that. I get that. 1179 01:05:17,800 --> 01:05:20,640 Speaker 7: No problem. I ain't got no problem getting none of that. 1180 01:05:21,160 --> 01:05:25,640 Speaker 1: Everybody on screwing in light bulls, no problem. I'm tall. 1181 01:05:26,360 --> 01:05:27,120 Speaker 1: I can't do that. 1182 01:05:27,480 --> 01:05:29,040 Speaker 7: Now, everybody on this show. 1183 01:05:32,400 --> 01:05:34,880 Speaker 12: Percent of us can do that, not one hundred percent, 1184 01:05:35,000 --> 01:05:40,720 Speaker 12: but ninety five. I'm just saying, like, getting stuff out 1185 01:05:40,760 --> 01:05:43,920 Speaker 12: the freezer at the top, I can't do that. 1186 01:05:44,440 --> 01:05:45,880 Speaker 7: I go in there and get a pack of meat 1187 01:05:45,920 --> 01:05:48,120 Speaker 7: at the top of get out of the. 1188 01:05:50,000 --> 01:05:50,080 Speaker 3: Up. 1189 01:05:50,480 --> 01:05:54,480 Speaker 7: Tommy can put a light bubby, easy bag of it. 1190 01:05:59,040 --> 01:06:06,000 Speaker 7: Cling just have to be a night like like he 1191 01:06:06,160 --> 01:06:07,880 Speaker 7: got to go have the bottom. 1192 01:06:08,360 --> 01:06:09,720 Speaker 12: Then you got to get up here where I am 1193 01:06:10,120 --> 01:06:12,160 Speaker 12: talking me like, man, don't worry about that. I got 1194 01:06:12,280 --> 01:06:15,360 Speaker 12: tall shoulders for you to stand on. You need help 1195 01:06:15,800 --> 01:06:16,400 Speaker 12: and I love you. 1196 01:06:16,480 --> 01:06:17,000 Speaker 7: Made what you do? 1197 01:06:17,160 --> 01:06:17,360 Speaker 2: Short? 1198 01:06:17,440 --> 01:06:18,360 Speaker 7: Behind you all right? 1199 01:06:18,960 --> 01:06:20,600 Speaker 2: Shut no no no, no, no, no, no, no no, 1200 01:06:20,920 --> 01:06:25,520 Speaker 2: you made a mistake. He's behind a shot. That's the 1201 01:06:25,600 --> 01:06:30,160 Speaker 2: tallest thing. Can he get in the talk? Can he 1202 01:06:30,200 --> 01:06:31,280 Speaker 2: get in the tall club now? 1203 01:06:31,440 --> 01:06:36,560 Speaker 1: Tall leg. 1204 01:06:37,880 --> 01:06:40,560 Speaker 7: May little hunchback of not the dame booty. 1205 01:06:41,000 --> 01:06:44,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, he was a little short with us doing that 1206 01:06:44,960 --> 01:06:45,640 Speaker 1: second he was. 1207 01:06:46,520 --> 01:06:51,040 Speaker 7: He was no. Man, don't marrybody one day Tommy, one day, man, 1208 01:06:51,840 --> 01:06:53,880 Speaker 7: one day, one day. 1209 01:06:53,960 --> 01:06:54,080 Speaker 3: Man. 1210 01:06:54,440 --> 01:06:56,280 Speaker 8: You know they sell these things you could put in 1211 01:06:56,360 --> 01:07:01,400 Speaker 8: the shoes and make you you know that, give you 1212 01:07:01,600 --> 01:07:03,160 Speaker 8: like another couple of inches? 1213 01:07:03,240 --> 01:07:09,160 Speaker 7: Action steal showing a couple more inches, you get two inches? 1214 01:07:09,240 --> 01:07:12,040 Speaker 7: You steal shot, I lose two inches. I'm still talking. 1215 01:07:14,200 --> 01:07:16,160 Speaker 6: Yeah, you put those in a shoe, but your heel 1216 01:07:16,240 --> 01:07:17,920 Speaker 6: is sticking at the back of your shoe. 1217 01:07:18,000 --> 01:07:24,200 Speaker 7: It looks real man, your shoe about to come on walking. 1218 01:07:25,400 --> 01:07:31,960 Speaker 1: You're listening Morning show. Have you heard of the health 1219 01:07:32,080 --> 01:07:36,800 Speaker 1: trend dry January as a new year's resolution? All right, 1220 01:07:36,880 --> 01:07:40,440 Speaker 1: a lot of people are doing this for January. For trendy, 1221 01:07:40,560 --> 01:07:43,800 Speaker 1: health conscious people, the start of the new year sometimes 1222 01:07:43,960 --> 01:07:46,520 Speaker 1: mean the start of dry January. 1223 01:07:47,040 --> 01:07:47,160 Speaker 3: Uh. 1224 01:07:47,440 --> 01:07:50,800 Speaker 1: It's a month long public health campaign that encourages people 1225 01:07:50,880 --> 01:07:55,160 Speaker 1: to abstain from alcohol as a way to improve wellness. 1226 01:07:55,440 --> 01:07:58,720 Speaker 1: Is to be a way to be more healthy ultimately. 1227 01:07:58,920 --> 01:08:02,040 Speaker 2: So mon, hey, you want to go and stop reading 1228 01:08:02,120 --> 01:08:07,160 Speaker 2: this right now? Why let me ask you a question. Well, 1229 01:08:07,600 --> 01:08:10,840 Speaker 2: I'm just saying I have a question. Do you know 1230 01:08:11,160 --> 01:08:17,240 Speaker 2: amongst you that's finny do this? Do you know anybody 1231 01:08:17,439 --> 01:08:19,320 Speaker 2: that's finny do dry ass January. 1232 01:08:19,960 --> 01:08:22,120 Speaker 1: I'm just saying it might be something new they might 1233 01:08:22,240 --> 01:08:22,920 Speaker 1: want to try. 1234 01:08:24,680 --> 01:08:31,439 Speaker 2: Anybody anybody other than me on this show willing to 1235 01:08:31,520 --> 01:08:32,879 Speaker 2: do dry ass January. 1236 01:08:33,600 --> 01:08:34,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, no drinking. 1237 01:08:35,040 --> 01:08:35,280 Speaker 5: Yeah. 1238 01:08:37,439 --> 01:08:40,680 Speaker 2: And on my birthday, I promise you I'm gonna have 1239 01:08:40,760 --> 01:08:43,120 Speaker 2: a cocktail and cigarette. So I ain't even gonna do 1240 01:08:43,200 --> 01:08:46,160 Speaker 2: it anybody else. We already know Queen of Titos ain't 1241 01:08:46,160 --> 01:08:50,200 Speaker 2: finna do it. Mississippi Monica she she she actually makes 1242 01:08:50,280 --> 01:08:54,840 Speaker 2: her own potatoes. She bought a potatoes and kicking her 1243 01:08:55,479 --> 01:08:58,400 Speaker 2: country ass family down in Mississippi and found a way 1244 01:08:58,439 --> 01:08:59,479 Speaker 2: to make their own vodka. 1245 01:08:59,600 --> 01:09:03,400 Speaker 7: So we already know. God and the lady from the 1246 01:09:03,479 --> 01:09:04,840 Speaker 7: letter up she's not finn do. 1247 01:09:06,320 --> 01:09:09,000 Speaker 2: She not finna do it? She making my tinas from 1248 01:09:14,040 --> 01:09:16,840 Speaker 2: Monica family in Mississippi. They don't care nothing about that. 1249 01:09:17,520 --> 01:09:19,960 Speaker 2: They find Monica family down in Mississippi. They bought in 1250 01:09:20,040 --> 01:09:22,040 Speaker 2: their own potato. They making a new vodka. They don't 1251 01:09:22,080 --> 01:09:24,920 Speaker 2: wanna make uh Tito's. They're gonna have a new drink 1252 01:09:25,000 --> 01:09:30,400 Speaker 2: called or Mississis. Uh it's called uh Sippo Titos. It's 1253 01:09:30,439 --> 01:09:34,240 Speaker 2: called sipp of Titos's short from Mississippi. It's called sipp 1254 01:09:34,240 --> 01:09:37,200 Speaker 2: of Titos. It's a new vodka that's coming out. So 1255 01:09:37,760 --> 01:09:41,040 Speaker 2: and then Shirley, we've been with you. Shirley was in 1256 01:09:41,200 --> 01:09:45,080 Speaker 2: Dubai and Shirley had a glass of wine with us 1257 01:09:45,120 --> 01:09:48,640 Speaker 2: in Dubai and they had to carry Shirley to her 1258 01:09:49,200 --> 01:09:54,040 Speaker 2: room drink, got her ass drunk. 1259 01:09:53,840 --> 01:09:55,400 Speaker 7: In the damn Muslim country. 1260 01:09:55,479 --> 01:09:58,160 Speaker 2: I said, we don't get her ass in the door 1261 01:09:58,360 --> 01:10:01,439 Speaker 2: somewhere going to so they just have her ass in 1262 01:10:01,520 --> 01:10:07,920 Speaker 2: a prison some damn well. But the whole time they 1263 01:10:08,000 --> 01:10:11,479 Speaker 2: can her to her room, Monica drinking, carrying her to her. 1264 01:10:13,680 --> 01:10:15,960 Speaker 7: Give me your drink. Surely you aren't doing nothing here 1265 01:10:16,040 --> 01:10:19,000 Speaker 7: and call and took her to her room and. 1266 01:10:20,840 --> 01:10:22,000 Speaker 1: With my friend. 1267 01:10:25,000 --> 01:10:30,280 Speaker 7: Drink. It was four thirty in the afternoon. Her whole 1268 01:10:30,400 --> 01:10:32,040 Speaker 7: night dumb. I can't drink. 1269 01:10:33,680 --> 01:10:41,200 Speaker 2: Damn glass, Thomas, one glass of wine. Yeah, they tried 1270 01:10:41,200 --> 01:10:44,479 Speaker 2: to lessen it by getting her to drink some white wine. Now, No, 1271 01:10:44,560 --> 01:10:48,439 Speaker 2: I'm gonna try this red calling. Monica went here. 1272 01:10:50,200 --> 01:10:53,559 Speaker 7: I didn't know it. We're gonna mix it. Hey, dog dog. 1273 01:10:53,640 --> 01:10:55,880 Speaker 2: I took him to lunch one day, got a golf cart, 1274 01:10:56,080 --> 01:10:57,800 Speaker 2: took them to lunch at this special place. 1275 01:10:59,000 --> 01:11:00,800 Speaker 7: Oh we out there. All the man were on the 1276 01:11:00,920 --> 01:11:01,719 Speaker 7: beach and stuff. 1277 01:11:01,760 --> 01:11:05,200 Speaker 2: We have cold sitting around here, were balling food, they 1278 01:11:05,320 --> 01:11:06,360 Speaker 2: bringing it out, just. 1279 01:11:09,200 --> 01:11:13,920 Speaker 7: Bringing it out. Awesome. Ah, this hell fl gonna order 1280 01:11:14,040 --> 01:11:17,840 Speaker 7: some red ones. Everybody told her, get my blood. 1281 01:11:20,280 --> 01:11:23,920 Speaker 2: What your doctor said was they can't get in your blood. 1282 01:11:24,120 --> 01:11:27,360 Speaker 2: That's what your doctor said. Your doctor said, it can't 1283 01:11:27,520 --> 01:11:30,320 Speaker 2: get in your blood. Not just blood for your blood. 1284 01:11:30,400 --> 01:11:33,800 Speaker 7: It's good for everybody else's blood. It can't even get 1285 01:11:33,880 --> 01:11:39,519 Speaker 7: in your blood. This hell for embassing me in July. 1286 01:11:41,840 --> 01:11:42,800 Speaker 7: Dry January? 1287 01:11:43,000 --> 01:11:44,160 Speaker 1: Is that these I think? 1288 01:11:44,320 --> 01:11:45,040 Speaker 10: I think that's. 1289 01:11:47,360 --> 01:11:48,919 Speaker 7: Surely dry January. 1290 01:11:53,400 --> 01:11:57,800 Speaker 1: All right, So there you go, dry January for your health. 1291 01:11:58,240 --> 01:12:00,439 Speaker 1: We'll be back with more of the Steve Every Morning 1292 01:12:00,479 --> 01:12:02,960 Speaker 1: Show coming up at twenty minutes after. Right after this, 1293 01:12:03,520 --> 01:12:10,120 Speaker 1: you're listening to Harvey Morning Show. A software engineer from 1294 01:12:10,280 --> 01:12:12,680 Speaker 1: India got a job with Meta, which used to be 1295 01:12:12,800 --> 01:12:15,720 Speaker 1: known as Facebook. And this guy moved all the way 1296 01:12:15,760 --> 01:12:19,559 Speaker 1: from India to Canada to start work, and then two 1297 01:12:19,680 --> 01:12:22,680 Speaker 1: days later he was laid off as the company let 1298 01:12:22,800 --> 01:12:27,520 Speaker 1: go of eleven thousand employees, or thirteen percent of its workforce. 1299 01:12:27,920 --> 01:12:30,800 Speaker 1: So getting fired two days after starting a job that 1300 01:12:30,960 --> 01:12:34,639 Speaker 1: you moved seven thousand miles for is pretty cold blooded. 1301 01:12:34,760 --> 01:12:36,840 Speaker 1: That's all the throat right there, it is. 1302 01:12:37,240 --> 01:12:40,479 Speaker 7: It really is to yeah, plane, get on back to 1303 01:12:40,600 --> 01:12:41,000 Speaker 7: the crib. 1304 01:12:41,600 --> 01:12:44,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, So Steve I know you've had a lot of jobs. 1305 01:12:45,240 --> 01:12:47,800 Speaker 1: So what's the fastest amount of time you've got you've 1306 01:12:47,840 --> 01:12:49,120 Speaker 1: gotten fired from a job. 1307 01:12:49,400 --> 01:12:50,040 Speaker 7: Twenty minutes. 1308 01:12:51,920 --> 01:12:53,080 Speaker 1: You beat the record. 1309 01:12:55,080 --> 01:12:56,320 Speaker 7: That's just record breaking. 1310 01:12:57,320 --> 01:12:59,559 Speaker 1: Yeah it is you still training? 1311 01:12:59,640 --> 01:13:01,040 Speaker 3: How you? Yeah? 1312 01:13:01,120 --> 01:13:03,759 Speaker 2: I got through in training. I was working at dinners. 1313 01:13:03,800 --> 01:13:05,719 Speaker 2: I was following this white girl man. I was telling 1314 01:13:05,800 --> 01:13:08,040 Speaker 2: her our light was on. The people food ready, that 1315 01:13:08,200 --> 01:13:09,920 Speaker 2: we don't have to get it right now. Yeah, but 1316 01:13:10,000 --> 01:13:12,679 Speaker 2: the man said, when the light come on, we number fourteen, 1317 01:13:12,720 --> 01:13:14,720 Speaker 2: we supposed to go get their food. We'll go get 1318 01:13:14,760 --> 01:13:16,439 Speaker 2: it when I say go get it. You're in training, 1319 01:13:16,479 --> 01:13:18,920 Speaker 2: all right, okay, cool. About ten minutes later, we finally 1320 01:13:18,960 --> 01:13:21,040 Speaker 2: go over there and bring the people food. Big fat 1321 01:13:21,080 --> 01:13:24,880 Speaker 2: white dude said, hey, this effing food is effing cold. 1322 01:13:25,960 --> 01:13:28,080 Speaker 2: I look right upside, I said, I said, I told you. 1323 01:13:28,320 --> 01:13:32,280 Speaker 2: She walked out, learned some customer relations. I say, hey, man, 1324 01:13:32,439 --> 01:13:34,120 Speaker 2: got a quick customing to me because I wanted to 1325 01:13:34,160 --> 01:13:36,080 Speaker 2: brain your food. She told me, I don't give it 1326 01:13:36,479 --> 01:13:38,880 Speaker 2: what you're talking about. So I took the plate and 1327 01:13:38,920 --> 01:13:39,880 Speaker 2: flipped it in his lap. 1328 01:13:43,320 --> 01:13:44,000 Speaker 7: Twenty minutes. 1329 01:13:44,080 --> 01:13:47,320 Speaker 1: That's how twenty minutes all right here coming up in 1330 01:13:47,400 --> 01:13:49,519 Speaker 1: thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll play a round 1331 01:13:49,560 --> 01:13:53,679 Speaker 1: it would you rather? Right after this? You're listening hard 1332 01:13:53,880 --> 01:13:56,519 Speaker 1: morning show? All right, guys, it is time for yet 1333 01:13:56,560 --> 01:13:58,720 Speaker 1: another round of would you rather? 1334 01:13:58,960 --> 01:13:59,080 Speaker 3: Here? 1335 01:13:59,160 --> 01:14:07,760 Speaker 1: We go too? Would because that's the thing, if you 1336 01:14:07,920 --> 01:14:12,280 Speaker 1: had to change jobs, would you rather be an airline 1337 01:14:12,400 --> 01:14:17,840 Speaker 1: pilot or captain of a ship that's a hard one 1338 01:14:18,600 --> 01:14:20,320 Speaker 1: in the air or in the watcher? 1339 01:14:21,280 --> 01:14:22,320 Speaker 7: I'm scared up in there. 1340 01:14:23,000 --> 01:14:27,519 Speaker 2: Oh, but I don't want to be on that job 1341 01:14:28,680 --> 01:14:33,160 Speaker 2: in that water, rough manuse. 1342 01:14:31,600 --> 01:14:35,400 Speaker 7: When you get out of hand out there and all 1343 01:14:35,479 --> 01:14:37,920 Speaker 7: that go down with your ship, the captain go down 1344 01:14:37,960 --> 01:14:42,880 Speaker 7: with this ship. No, I don't know. I don't okay, JR. 1345 01:14:43,200 --> 01:14:44,920 Speaker 9: I'ma go capting the ship because if I'm in the 1346 01:14:45,040 --> 01:14:47,519 Speaker 9: air and then the passing star the pilot coming out 1347 01:14:47,560 --> 01:14:49,320 Speaker 9: the cockpit, you start acting up on pill. 1348 01:14:49,479 --> 01:14:52,240 Speaker 7: I'm coming out the cockpit. I'm fighting. I'm not not suiting. 1349 01:14:52,520 --> 01:14:55,960 Speaker 7: Let you take over for I'm out. Yeah, I'll be 1350 01:14:56,080 --> 01:14:59,400 Speaker 7: right back. Hold on, I'll be right back. What airlines 1351 01:14:59,439 --> 01:14:59,640 Speaker 7: is it? 1352 01:14:59,680 --> 01:14:59,720 Speaker 3: Do? 1353 01:14:59,840 --> 01:15:00,479 Speaker 8: Is spirit? 1354 01:15:00,600 --> 01:15:00,800 Speaker 3: I mean? 1355 01:15:00,840 --> 01:15:04,040 Speaker 7: What's what I'm saying? Yeah, you know, I gotta know 1356 01:15:04,080 --> 01:15:05,200 Speaker 7: who I'm flying with it. 1357 01:15:06,320 --> 01:15:08,120 Speaker 2: Just to say that is well, you know what, I 1358 01:15:08,320 --> 01:15:11,200 Speaker 2: probably don't and have to take the captain pilot job 1359 01:15:11,240 --> 01:15:13,760 Speaker 2: because at least I know we're gonna land here. 1360 01:15:15,080 --> 01:15:19,120 Speaker 7: Yeah, flying, he is safe, it's just scary. Yeah, okay, 1361 01:15:19,520 --> 01:15:19,840 Speaker 7: all right. 1362 01:15:20,160 --> 01:15:22,880 Speaker 1: You'd rather be an airline pilot than the captain of 1363 01:15:22,920 --> 01:15:23,280 Speaker 1: a ship. 1364 01:15:24,120 --> 01:15:27,240 Speaker 7: Yeah, I've been on them boats. You got to know 1365 01:15:27,360 --> 01:15:35,960 Speaker 7: a lot. You got to know a lot though, Yeah, okay, all. 1366 01:15:35,960 --> 01:15:40,000 Speaker 1: Right, So everybody, you're a junior airline pilot. 1367 01:15:40,479 --> 01:15:43,120 Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm on the pilot. I'm on the Yeah, I 1368 01:15:43,200 --> 01:15:45,519 Speaker 7: wanted I'm gonna be on that on that plank. Okay, 1369 01:15:45,840 --> 01:15:46,919 Speaker 7: all right, I'm sorry. 1370 01:15:46,880 --> 01:15:52,400 Speaker 1: Stephen, Tommy pilot, junior ship captain. Okay, all right, moving 1371 01:15:52,479 --> 01:15:55,639 Speaker 1: on with his little sick Would you rather. 1372 01:15:57,200 --> 01:16:00,879 Speaker 7: Like like he wanted to be somewhere seasick and hand sick. 1373 01:16:00,880 --> 01:16:00,960 Speaker 3: So. 1374 01:16:03,360 --> 01:16:04,559 Speaker 1: We don't want him to play. 1375 01:16:04,600 --> 01:16:08,240 Speaker 2: Would you rather your last need to be somewhere flying 1376 01:16:08,280 --> 01:16:10,679 Speaker 2: where you can get to these hospitals. 1377 01:16:14,880 --> 01:16:15,599 Speaker 3: Doing me bad? 1378 01:16:15,680 --> 01:16:16,080 Speaker 2: This week? 1379 01:16:16,120 --> 01:16:18,559 Speaker 7: A man, I ain't letting him slide at all. 1380 01:16:19,360 --> 01:16:20,960 Speaker 2: Me and Tommy that set up here and got on 1381 01:16:21,040 --> 01:16:22,840 Speaker 2: the plane. You're gonna take your little sick ass on 1382 01:16:22,960 --> 01:16:25,719 Speaker 2: the boat. Now you're in the middle of nowhere. 1383 01:16:25,800 --> 01:16:26,160 Speaker 7: You can't. 1384 01:16:27,160 --> 01:16:29,519 Speaker 1: All right, We got time for one more? Would you 1385 01:16:29,720 --> 01:16:37,880 Speaker 1: rather be reincarnated as a singer Luther Vandross or Marvin 1386 01:16:37,960 --> 01:16:41,600 Speaker 1: gay Would you rather be reincarnated as Van Dress or 1387 01:16:41,680 --> 01:16:42,280 Speaker 1: Marvin Gaye? 1388 01:16:43,160 --> 01:16:48,120 Speaker 7: Lulls to come back as Marvin, No. 1389 01:16:48,320 --> 01:16:50,519 Speaker 1: Doubt you've seen Janie. 1390 01:16:53,320 --> 01:16:56,520 Speaker 2: I'm coming back towards from Marvin. 1391 01:16:56,600 --> 01:16:58,960 Speaker 7: Had that soul train Dawn so too. No, I'm coming 1392 01:16:59,080 --> 01:17:00,880 Speaker 7: back as Off and Gate. 1393 01:17:05,400 --> 01:17:07,720 Speaker 1: All right, that's what you're rather for today. Coming up 1394 01:17:07,800 --> 01:17:09,960 Speaker 1: our last break of the day at forty nine minutes 1395 01:17:09,960 --> 01:17:13,160 Speaker 1: after be our We're got some inspiring closing remarks from 1396 01:17:13,160 --> 01:17:15,519 Speaker 1: the one and only, our fearless leader, Steve Harvey. Right 1397 01:17:15,600 --> 01:17:20,800 Speaker 1: after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, 1398 01:17:20,880 --> 01:17:23,519 Speaker 1: here we are our last break of the day, and 1399 01:17:23,920 --> 01:17:26,240 Speaker 1: time now for some closing remarks from the one and 1400 01:17:26,360 --> 01:17:27,360 Speaker 1: only Steve Harvey. 1401 01:17:28,120 --> 01:17:31,280 Speaker 7: Well, you know, I don't. I don't really. I've been 1402 01:17:31,320 --> 01:17:34,360 Speaker 7: thinking about a lot of things, you know, and I 1403 01:17:34,520 --> 01:17:36,760 Speaker 7: was thinking of just on. 1404 01:17:36,880 --> 01:17:40,280 Speaker 2: A positive tip, you know, to just kind of just 1405 01:17:40,479 --> 01:17:43,880 Speaker 2: always encourage people to stay with it. 1406 01:17:44,000 --> 01:17:44,160 Speaker 3: You know. 1407 01:17:44,320 --> 01:17:47,680 Speaker 2: Oftentimes you know, when you all you know, when you 1408 01:17:47,840 --> 01:17:51,200 Speaker 2: have dreams and aspirations, all of us from time to 1409 01:17:51,280 --> 01:17:56,360 Speaker 2: time they get sidelined. All of our dreams and aspiration 1410 01:17:56,600 --> 01:18:00,400 Speaker 2: takes a hit along the way to attaining them, and 1411 01:18:00,479 --> 01:18:05,080 Speaker 2: there's always a detour on the way, there's always some confusion, 1412 01:18:05,600 --> 01:18:09,799 Speaker 2: a set of barrels set up. It's just really hard 1413 01:18:10,080 --> 01:18:14,120 Speaker 2: to see a vision from start to finish scott free 1414 01:18:14,240 --> 01:18:15,080 Speaker 2: with no troubles. 1415 01:18:15,560 --> 01:18:17,760 Speaker 7: So if you're in that position today. 1416 01:18:17,800 --> 01:18:22,439 Speaker 2: And you're finding yourself waning in your dreams and visions, 1417 01:18:22,520 --> 01:18:25,720 Speaker 2: it seems like it's just not happening the way you 1418 01:18:25,920 --> 01:18:29,120 Speaker 2: want it. I want you to understand it's not going 1419 01:18:29,240 --> 01:18:32,920 Speaker 2: to happen just the way you want it. That is 1420 01:18:33,040 --> 01:18:36,240 Speaker 2: the way it works. And I know that's not great news, 1421 01:18:36,760 --> 01:18:41,200 Speaker 2: but it's the truth. Nobody gets where they want to 1422 01:18:41,320 --> 01:18:44,760 Speaker 2: be in life just the way they want it. So 1423 01:18:44,960 --> 01:18:47,559 Speaker 2: if you're thinking that you're gonna get there scott free, 1424 01:18:47,640 --> 01:18:50,439 Speaker 2: that you will just have a smooth sailing, that's not 1425 01:18:50,600 --> 01:18:51,360 Speaker 2: the way it works. 1426 01:18:51,479 --> 01:18:55,640 Speaker 7: Life isn't designed that way. So factor in. 1427 01:18:57,320 --> 01:19:00,479 Speaker 2: The fact that you are going to have troubles and 1428 01:19:00,520 --> 01:19:04,280 Speaker 2: difficulties along the way, and if you stop your visions 1429 01:19:04,360 --> 01:19:10,000 Speaker 2: or dreams because of that reason, right there, the rule 1430 01:19:10,200 --> 01:19:10,839 Speaker 2: is simple. 1431 01:19:11,920 --> 01:19:12,800 Speaker 7: Here's the rule. 1432 01:19:13,680 --> 01:19:19,519 Speaker 2: You can start again today. You can just start again today, 1433 01:19:20,479 --> 01:19:25,479 Speaker 2: and guess what. You don't need anybody's permission. All you 1434 01:19:25,640 --> 01:19:28,280 Speaker 2: have to do is rewrite your dreams down on your 1435 01:19:28,400 --> 01:19:35,600 Speaker 2: vision board, reclaim victory, ask God for your help and 1436 01:19:35,680 --> 01:19:39,439 Speaker 2: your strength, and get back to making your dreams and 1437 01:19:39,600 --> 01:19:41,200 Speaker 2: visions come true for your life. 1438 01:19:41,760 --> 01:19:42,880 Speaker 7: You all, listen to me. 1439 01:19:44,320 --> 01:19:49,160 Speaker 2: Stop waking up just going about the day seeing how 1440 01:19:49,240 --> 01:19:56,600 Speaker 2: it's going without any projects, without any visions, without any aspirations, 1441 01:19:56,960 --> 01:19:59,840 Speaker 2: without a plan to attain the things that you really 1442 01:20:00,080 --> 01:20:00,840 Speaker 2: want in life. 1443 01:20:01,600 --> 01:20:06,760 Speaker 7: Stop waking up like that with nothing to do. Make 1444 01:20:06,840 --> 01:20:07,639 Speaker 7: a plan at. 1445 01:20:07,640 --> 01:20:11,760 Speaker 2: Night, pray about it, ask God for help. You know now, 1446 01:20:11,840 --> 01:20:15,559 Speaker 2: look when you rake, when you make your plan, that's 1447 01:20:15,720 --> 01:20:18,360 Speaker 2: just the request. You're asking God to help you come true. 1448 01:20:18,840 --> 01:20:21,040 Speaker 2: Matter how you get there is going to be difficult. 1449 01:20:22,040 --> 01:20:27,720 Speaker 2: It's going to be difficult, but once you started, there 1450 01:20:27,920 --> 01:20:32,040 Speaker 2: is no one who says you can't. So y'all just 1451 01:20:32,160 --> 01:20:35,200 Speaker 2: get back in the pocket, get back up on the horse, 1452 01:20:35,760 --> 01:20:38,760 Speaker 2: get back to dreaming again, get back to wanting to 1453 01:20:39,000 --> 01:20:44,439 Speaker 2: hoping to believe in again. Don't let the setbacks and 1454 01:20:44,520 --> 01:20:47,479 Speaker 2: the troubles of life stop you, because I got news 1455 01:20:47,560 --> 01:20:47,760 Speaker 2: for you. 1456 01:20:48,000 --> 01:20:52,360 Speaker 7: You're gonna always have them. You're going to always have them. 1457 01:20:53,040 --> 01:20:55,799 Speaker 2: And like today, man, even though I'm still in Africa, 1458 01:20:55,840 --> 01:20:57,640 Speaker 2: I just went back through my phone because what I 1459 01:20:57,720 --> 01:21:02,160 Speaker 2: do is when I see motivat phrases or scriptures that 1460 01:21:02,320 --> 01:21:04,960 Speaker 2: really register with me, I take my phone out and 1461 01:21:05,000 --> 01:21:07,759 Speaker 2: I take the picture of it. And then I've created 1462 01:21:07,800 --> 01:21:12,160 Speaker 2: this album in my photo section called motivation, and I 1463 01:21:12,360 --> 01:21:16,120 Speaker 2: file all those pictures in my motivational thing. And when 1464 01:21:16,160 --> 01:21:20,720 Speaker 2: I find myself wavering, feeling a little uncertain, feeling a 1465 01:21:20,760 --> 01:21:25,080 Speaker 2: little shaky about decisions, I go back to my motivational 1466 01:21:25,280 --> 01:21:28,439 Speaker 2: folder in my photos and I just started reading the 1467 01:21:28,479 --> 01:21:31,080 Speaker 2: little quotes I got in there. I just start going 1468 01:21:31,200 --> 01:21:33,760 Speaker 2: down the line. I've got some stuff in there, man, 1469 01:21:33,880 --> 01:21:37,320 Speaker 2: that I've had in there for years. Man, but I 1470 01:21:37,439 --> 01:21:41,560 Speaker 2: can still read from time to time, you know, Like 1471 01:21:42,000 --> 01:21:44,920 Speaker 2: for example, I was today I read this one. It says, 1472 01:21:45,479 --> 01:21:48,400 Speaker 2: I can't cry about having a lot on my plate 1473 01:21:48,800 --> 01:21:50,840 Speaker 2: when my whole goal was to eat. 1474 01:21:55,160 --> 01:21:56,320 Speaker 1: I can't cry. 1475 01:21:56,479 --> 01:21:59,160 Speaker 2: About having a whole lot on my plate with my 1476 01:21:59,320 --> 01:22:03,960 Speaker 2: whole goal was to eat. And man, I find myself 1477 01:22:04,040 --> 01:22:06,679 Speaker 2: doing that, not talking about Lord, I'm over bird man, 1478 01:22:06,720 --> 01:22:08,880 Speaker 2: I'm tired. You know, I got all this, I got 1479 01:22:08,960 --> 01:22:11,840 Speaker 2: all that. Hey, Steve, did you hear yourself? You got 1480 01:22:11,960 --> 01:22:16,680 Speaker 2: all this and you got all that what you're tripping for, 1481 01:22:16,920 --> 01:22:21,280 Speaker 2: and I gathered myself, you know, and then you know, 1482 01:22:22,160 --> 01:22:23,559 Speaker 2: you know, I have a lot of stuff in there. 1483 01:22:23,640 --> 01:22:25,960 Speaker 2: Like one of them I read today was, oh my bad, 1484 01:22:26,680 --> 01:22:30,400 Speaker 2: I'm sorry for bothering you. I forgot. I only exist 1485 01:22:30,800 --> 01:22:34,479 Speaker 2: when you need me for something. That's God tell you, 1486 01:22:35,640 --> 01:22:39,200 Speaker 2: Oh my bad, I'm sorry for bothering you. I forgot. 1487 01:22:39,640 --> 01:22:42,360 Speaker 2: I only exist when you need me for something. I 1488 01:22:42,520 --> 01:22:47,960 Speaker 2: have all these little things, man, that always motivate me. 1489 01:22:48,120 --> 01:22:51,240 Speaker 2: Here's another one. Winners are not people who never fail, 1490 01:22:52,040 --> 01:22:57,200 Speaker 2: but people who never quit. Amen. Yeah, failure is a part. 1491 01:22:58,040 --> 01:23:01,040 Speaker 2: Failure is a part of the process. Here's another one. 1492 01:23:02,080 --> 01:23:06,439 Speaker 2: I have not failed. I've just found ten thousand ways 1493 01:23:06,960 --> 01:23:10,400 Speaker 2: that don't work. Thomas Edison. 1494 01:23:12,080 --> 01:23:15,200 Speaker 7: Wow, I have not failed. I just found ten thousand 1495 01:23:15,280 --> 01:23:18,439 Speaker 7: ways that don't work. Do you see? 1496 01:23:20,240 --> 01:23:25,080 Speaker 2: Success isn't how far you got, but the distance you 1497 01:23:25,280 --> 01:23:27,519 Speaker 2: travel from where you started. 1498 01:23:29,600 --> 01:23:30,439 Speaker 7: That's a proverb. 1499 01:23:31,000 --> 01:23:34,840 Speaker 2: And I just keep stuff like that, and you know, always, 1500 01:23:35,640 --> 01:23:37,680 Speaker 2: And the last one I read this morning was I 1501 01:23:37,800 --> 01:23:40,880 Speaker 2: want to inspire people. I want someone to look at 1502 01:23:40,920 --> 01:23:43,800 Speaker 2: me and say, because of you, I didn't give up. 1503 01:23:46,400 --> 01:23:51,440 Speaker 2: That's always been important to me. So y'all stay motivated, 1504 01:23:52,200 --> 01:23:55,920 Speaker 2: stay the course, find a way to self motivate yourself 1505 01:23:55,960 --> 01:23:58,800 Speaker 2: when you down, and get back to dreaming and believing again. 1506 01:23:59,040 --> 01:24:01,800 Speaker 7: Those are my clothesmen, y'all have a nice shame. We'll 1507 01:24:01,800 --> 01:24:02,360 Speaker 7: see them all. 1508 01:24:11,800 --> 01:24:15,240 Speaker 1: For all Steve Harvey contests. No purchase necessary, VOIDWAAR prohibited. 1509 01:24:15,320 --> 01:24:18,800 Speaker 1: Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1510 01:24:18,960 --> 01:24:22,679 Speaker 1: unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey 1511 01:24:22,920 --> 01:24:26,880 Speaker 1: FM dot com. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show