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Speaker 1: Hi everyone, I'm Rachel Zoe, I'm Roger Berman, and you're

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Speaker 1: listening to Works for Us, where we talk to people

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Speaker 1: about what works for them and their relationships and of

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Speaker 1: course what doesn't. Okay, So today we're talking to a

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Speaker 1: couple who not only have the most incredibly romantic backstory,

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Speaker 1: but they also lead the most romantic life that anyone

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Speaker 1: can ever imagine. Nacho forget us aka kind of the

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Speaker 1: David Backham a polo but he's so beyond that. He's

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Speaker 1: a star polo player, entrepreneur, and model who is the

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Speaker 1: face of Ralph Lauren for many many years. His gorgeous, magnificent, fearless, fabulous.

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Speaker 1: I'm also just improving because I could go on for

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Speaker 1: days about Delphina Blackier is also a model, landscape architect, photographer,

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Speaker 1: and fashion designer who shares a gorgeous storybook farm life

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Speaker 1: with Nacho and they're four beautiful, magical children. Welcome to

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Speaker 1: Works for Us, you guys, it's great for us to

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Speaker 1: be with you, and if you know, let's see if

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Speaker 1: it works for us. You know what I'm here to say, guys,

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Speaker 1: it does work for you. I'm here to say, you're living.

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Speaker 1: We're going to get to some of the roots of

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Speaker 1: what does work and doesn't work. I think you're going

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Speaker 1: to learn a lot. So what's really amazing about our

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Speaker 1: podcast is, you know, we highlight incredible relationships, but we

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Speaker 1: do always want to just start briefly, like from the

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Speaker 1: beginning about how you have first meet, tell us the

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Speaker 1: very very beginning. First, first we saw each other first glance.

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Speaker 1: What happened? Um, it was in Argentina. We were both

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Speaker 1: going to watch the semi finals of the Argentine Open,

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Speaker 1: which is a tournament held in the middle of the

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Speaker 1: city in a beautiful boula field that it's Oh, you

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Speaker 1: didn't go to what the site as yet, so you

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Speaker 1: know we're coming to stay at that house. I'll take you.

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Speaker 1: I think you stay there by the way, we just

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Speaker 1: with two other friends and I'm like, oh, my god,

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Speaker 1: And how old were you, Duffie? How old were you?

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Speaker 1: I was seventeen ester at seventeen, Yeah, I was a baby.

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Speaker 1: after the game, I saw him talking with my cousin.

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Speaker 1: and I asked her to introduce me, and she said, well,

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Speaker 1: and then we kind of started dating after, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we then I was twenty also I saw her. I

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Speaker 1: It was love at first sight, and you know, you say,

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Speaker 1: and I did ask her cousin, you know, and the

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Speaker 1: go downstairs from the stadium in the in the Bolo

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Speaker 1: field in BA there's a bar and so we you know,

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Speaker 1: This was so embarrassing. Yeah, I said, you know, I

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Speaker 1: My dad used to play, my grandfather used to play,

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Speaker 1: it's when you come. It's I know a few people

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Speaker 1: and I think it's so important. It's obviously the most beautiful,

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Speaker 1: I just I want more of it. It should be everywhere.

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Speaker 1: the horses. That's true, ticket everything. But yeah, horses are

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Speaker 1: a it's a real compliment. But we do love polo.

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Speaker 1: there because I'm pretty sure, Natro, I'm pretty sure that

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Speaker 1: it was your personality. Yeah, he's getting all the cry

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Speaker 1: Where did you fall? Where? You? Just like? That night

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Speaker 1: Were you just like she's smart, She's like a badass.

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Speaker 1: this pretty girl like Delphie is like a badass. She

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Speaker 1: on a horse playing polo with guys, Like, who does that? Seriously?

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Speaker 1: So I also so I think that he also brought

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Speaker 1: more of our lives together than apart. Yeah. Same, at

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Speaker 1: You must be twenty one to enjoy busy. I tried

459
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:31,880
Speaker 1: to get my kids on horses, you guys, I really did.

460
00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:34,920
Speaker 1: I'm not giving up yet. La. By the way, how

461
00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:38,040
Speaker 1: are they doing all? They're amazing, They're so that's so good.

462
00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:41,160
Speaker 1: They're so sweet, guys, They're so sweet. Son to keep

463
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:44,760
Speaker 1: them sweet. They're good boys with big hearts. But I

464
00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:46,280
Speaker 1: wish I was like you, guys, I wish we had

465
00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:48,520
Speaker 1: two more. I just but you know what it is

466
00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:51,879
Speaker 1: or something about kids. It's the chaos, it's the noise,

467
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:55,160
Speaker 1: it's the mayhem, it's the like, I don't know, it's

468
00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:58,000
Speaker 1: just the best part of life. In my opinion. It's exhausting,

469
00:27:58,040 --> 00:28:01,240
Speaker 1: but it's just the best thing ever. Yeah, we had four.

470
00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:03,960
Speaker 1: I wish we had four. I do. We always look

471
00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:07,200
Speaker 1: at it like you waited too long. Yeah, you waited.

472
00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:10,800
Speaker 1: You were very busy, which is great, But it's wonderful

473
00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:18,080
Speaker 1: that you as a young as a young person's game. Hey, so,

474
00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:21,560
Speaker 1: how did like COVID happen for you? Where were you

475
00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:24,399
Speaker 1: were you trapped like because you travel like, what happened?

476
00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:28,800
Speaker 1: Where were you down? So we were in Florida last year,

477
00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:32,840
Speaker 1: that's right, that's right when when everything started to go

478
00:28:32,920 --> 00:28:37,440
Speaker 1: down hill, like really badly. I was here in Aspen

479
00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:42,480
Speaker 1: going back home to Florida and everything started closing up

480
00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:47,000
Speaker 1: and we couldn't go back home. We usually spent January

481
00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:50,240
Speaker 1: through April in Florida, then we go April May and Argentina.

482
00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:54,200
Speaker 1: We were we were in Florida, which was a big

483
00:28:55,400 --> 00:28:58,640
Speaker 1: We live in a community in Florida that is very

484
00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:04,240
Speaker 1: open course horses oriented, so we we did in the

485
00:29:04,280 --> 00:29:08,760
Speaker 1: toughest part of it all. You know, we had the

486
00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:12,640
Speaker 1: opportunity to go out and buy and even ride because

487
00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:15,880
Speaker 1: we kept it now in a way where we were

488
00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:18,440
Speaker 1: if you have horses, you are responsible for them, so

489
00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:21,480
Speaker 1: you need to exercise. We had a little we had

490
00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:26,120
Speaker 1: a little bubble between our our teammates. We were like

491
00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 1: maybe six families that we would really take a pod.

492
00:29:30,240 --> 00:29:33,160
Speaker 1: We would go together and we would continue to ride

493
00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:36,840
Speaker 1: the horses, which needed to be exercised. So kids. Also,

494
00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:41,080
Speaker 1: we're able to socialize and we're not isolate. Yeah, so

495
00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:43,760
Speaker 1: we were lessed, unlucky and for us, you know, for

496
00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:46,720
Speaker 1: I think for a lot of families that one of

497
00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:51,280
Speaker 1: the hardest parts about um COVID was having to stay

498
00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:56,000
Speaker 1: in a closed environment and of the whole homeschooling thing,

499
00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:59,400
Speaker 1: I think was was stressful for a lot of people.

500
00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:02,040
Speaker 1: And but the truth is for us, you know, that

501
00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:04,880
Speaker 1: part wasn't so stressful for us because our children are

502
00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:07,239
Speaker 1: used to that. Yeah, that's what we do, even though

503
00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:10,080
Speaker 1: it was a little different because when we used to

504
00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:12,840
Speaker 1: part from school because what we people ask me, how

505
00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:15,680
Speaker 1: do you do in school? How do you educate your kills?

506
00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:18,120
Speaker 1: So my kids go to school in Argentina and when

507
00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:21,240
Speaker 1: we travel, they keep up with the program. And you

508
00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:23,840
Speaker 1: have a teacher that's a tutor that travels with us.

509
00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:28,000
Speaker 1: So when COVID hit, our tutor had to go back home, right,

510
00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:32,120
Speaker 1: So it was really intense. So four kids go up

511
00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:35,720
Speaker 1: three it's super intense. It's much more intense than having

512
00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:39,360
Speaker 1: a tutor and her teach them for a few hours

513
00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:41,880
Speaker 1: and then you do other things and you'll go to

514
00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:46,360
Speaker 1: see other things. And this was like NonStop, four hours

515
00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:49,120
Speaker 1: in the morning for hours in the afternoon. Theoom they

516
00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:54,120
Speaker 1: did the Argentina and Zoom Yeah, yeah, no choice, so

517
00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:58,120
Speaker 1: so so we were were misery. Yeah, it was a lot,

518
00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:01,720
Speaker 1: but we were lucky. We up pretty And then in

519
00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:03,400
Speaker 1: this in the summer, we went to the hunt of

520
00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:06,840
Speaker 1: last year, so we were there. However, that was nice.

521
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:10,560
Speaker 1: Last year was nice. I managed to bring a tutor back,

522
00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:13,959
Speaker 1: so that part was Yeah. By the way, Delphie, I

523
00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:17,720
Speaker 1: remember calling you about homeschool, because we ended up getting

524
00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:19,800
Speaker 1: a teacher at home this past year. We pulled our

525
00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:21,760
Speaker 1: kids out of school, like we just want a teacher.

526
00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:24,680
Speaker 1: And I'll tell you we loved it. We actually really

527
00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:28,040
Speaker 1: really loved it. We thought, I'm actually really really going

528
00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:30,000
Speaker 1: to miss it this year. Like I loved that I

529
00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:32,200
Speaker 1: could be with them, watch them learn, we were part

530
00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:36,760
Speaker 1: of things. It was pretty incredible. Honestly. Yeah. I always say,

531
00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:39,240
Speaker 1: you know, I'm very I have lunch and dinner with

532
00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:43,040
Speaker 1: my children every day in my life. You know, not

533
00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:46,400
Speaker 1: many das our parents can't say that. So it's a

534
00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:49,040
Speaker 1: it's a blessing. And I think a lot of birds

535
00:31:49,040 --> 00:31:51,640
Speaker 1: experienced that during COVID. That was the one of the

536
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:54,920
Speaker 1: positive sites of COVIE, would be thinking for a lot

537
00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:58,920
Speaker 1: of families. It was the opportunity at least, you know,

538
00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:01,400
Speaker 1: in the you know, to spend a lot of time

539
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:06,240
Speaker 1: as a family together that brings being stressed also etc.

540
00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:12,200
Speaker 1: But it was discovering that right, discovering your children and

541
00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:16,640
Speaker 1: your families and spending more time together and playing games

542
00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:19,040
Speaker 1: and doing things that you are you know, Otherwise we

543
00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 1: were all too busy, going too fast. Yeah, I totally agree.

544
00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:29,120
Speaker 1: Um okay, So I have two more questions. What do

545
00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:31,400
Speaker 1: you guys ever fight? Or do you fight like us?

546
00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:33,240
Speaker 1: You're just bicker and then it's over in two minutes.

547
00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:37,920
Speaker 1: We fight, but like you, you know, I think that

548
00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:42,080
Speaker 1: we fight like very rarely, but when we fight, we fight.

549
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:44,920
Speaker 1: How long will you stay mad? Like a day? Because

550
00:32:45,280 --> 00:32:48,480
Speaker 1: like I have to be really mad to like hold it,

551
00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:51,440
Speaker 1: like to hold it overnight and be like don't talk

552
00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:53,560
Speaker 1: to me right now, Like I'm so dune with you

553
00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:56,240
Speaker 1: right now, you leave the room. Or we just bicker,

554
00:32:56,360 --> 00:32:58,000
Speaker 1: you know, like Lucy and Ricky and then it's over,

555
00:32:58,040 --> 00:32:59,680
Speaker 1: like what do you want for dinner? It's like little

556
00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:03,840
Speaker 1: five like you, but I'm tuality. She's always late, so

557
00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:05,960
Speaker 1: you know, I'm always like come on, we're gonna be late.

558
00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:10,240
Speaker 1: Come on, And she's like, what do you mean it's

559
00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:12,800
Speaker 1: not me it's your fault. And I'm like, like she

560
00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:16,560
Speaker 1: she like when you push her, she pushes you harder

561
00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:20,160
Speaker 1: in the sense she does she's fiery. Yea to my delfish,

562
00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 1: she's like that, she's got fire. She's like curs. She

563
00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:26,760
Speaker 1: turns her m punctuality on me. Then it's me I

564
00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 1: was late because I was not well. I'm gonna let

565
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:35,160
Speaker 1: you judge. So we have dinner seven thirty. He's in

566
00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:38,840
Speaker 1: the stables taking care of whatever. He's horses and stuff.

567
00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:44,840
Speaker 1: It's seven o'clock. I'm dressed and already creams everything on,

568
00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:48,480
Speaker 1: like ready, and he comes here. He takes a shower,

569
00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:51,160
Speaker 1: two seconds what she puts a shirt on, and he's like,

570
00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:54,640
Speaker 1: let's go. I'm ready, and then I forget it. I

571
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:58,280
Speaker 1: needed a coach because I go back and when I

572
00:33:58,320 --> 00:34:01,640
Speaker 1: come back, he's like, see you don't care. You ROAs late.

573
00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 1: This is your fault. Meanwhile, he was undressed five seconds ago. No,

574
00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:09,040
Speaker 1: but I but I calculated my time so that I

575
00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:13,040
Speaker 1: would be on time, you know anyway, So those are

576
00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:16,840
Speaker 1: that's how as far as our fights. Okay, twenty years

577
00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:20,120
Speaker 1: from now, what's happening. I don't know, You're gonna grandkids.

578
00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:24,920
Speaker 1: I don't know so much. That's much pressure on the relationship.

579
00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:28,719
Speaker 1: Will let's tomorrow. Do you want to know what I

580
00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:30,840
Speaker 1: think in twenty years from now, you're gonna be just this,

581
00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:33,479
Speaker 1: You're gonna be just You're gonna look exactly the same,

582
00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:36,279
Speaker 1: just because I'm not thinking about the next twenty years.

583
00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:40,040
Speaker 1: Something about tomorrow. Yeah, we'll be fine, We'll be the same.

584
00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:43,560
Speaker 1: We will continue to play polo and travel around the world,

585
00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:47,160
Speaker 1: maybe not as good as but be mostly following the children,

586
00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:50,759
Speaker 1: which will probably be playing all of them. Do you

587
00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:53,959
Speaker 1: think all of them will play? The boys? For sure?

588
00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:56,719
Speaker 1: Aurora loves to horses and loves to play, but she's

589
00:34:56,760 --> 00:35:00,720
Speaker 1: more into photography and art. And think, what about my Alba?

590
00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:04,200
Speaker 1: What about my Aurora? Will you know? Who knows? Probably

591
00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:07,839
Speaker 1: will marry or not another boiler bearry, So that could

592
00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:11,319
Speaker 1: also be a part of her life or not. We

593
00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:16,799
Speaker 1: don't know, an Aa say, always want to put a

594
00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 1: brick on your head on her her? Yeah, she's seven

595
00:35:25,239 --> 00:35:29,640
Speaker 1: eight eight, she's delphy. She looks just like you. My god,

596
00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:33,719
Speaker 1: she's like mini me ne Yeah, oh my god, these

597
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:37,560
Speaker 1: kids I love them so much. To guys, so okay,

598
00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:42,560
Speaker 1: so I just want to say that of all the

599
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:46,720
Speaker 1: people in our lives, of all the relationships and couples

600
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:51,479
Speaker 1: and families, you guys are like you. I mean, It's

601
00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:53,520
Speaker 1: the thing is, I don't think it's make believe. I

602
00:35:53,560 --> 00:35:55,440
Speaker 1: think you call each other out on your things. I

603
00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:57,560
Speaker 1: think you're tough enough with each other. But you guys

604
00:35:57,560 --> 00:36:02,560
Speaker 1: have honestly the most beautiful family and relationship of Honestly,

605
00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:04,640
Speaker 1: I can't think of another family in our lives that

606
00:36:04,719 --> 00:36:07,920
Speaker 1: I just am like magical. You guys are just we

607
00:36:08,040 --> 00:36:11,399
Speaker 1: love you so much and you're such special people. And

608
00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:13,800
Speaker 1: I just I love the life that you guys live together,

609
00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:16,480
Speaker 1: and I love that you love the same things you know,

610
00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:19,040
Speaker 1: and I love that you support each other because Roger

611
00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:21,160
Speaker 1: and I people always ask us, like, what's the secret?

612
00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:23,040
Speaker 1: More always like we root for each other, and you

613
00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:26,799
Speaker 1: guys root for each other, you know. Exactly, that's a

614
00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:30,000
Speaker 1: very good way to put it in. For each other,

615
00:36:30,120 --> 00:36:33,160
Speaker 1: we do root for each other. You can't be competitive.

616
00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:36,720
Speaker 1: We can tell that you are the same way, and

617
00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:41,040
Speaker 1: I think that it's very helpful. Exactly. It's not a competition.

618
00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:45,640
Speaker 1: Is It's always okay doing either things together or supporting

619
00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:51,479
Speaker 1: whatever the other person's doing. That that is a big

620
00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:54,680
Speaker 1: part of and you know, I'm also I think acknowledging

621
00:36:54,719 --> 00:36:58,239
Speaker 1: how blessed we are and how lucky we are to

622
00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:00,360
Speaker 1: have each other, and how lucky we are to have

623
00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:04,560
Speaker 1: the lives that we have. Right, We're very We're very blessed.

624
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:08,000
Speaker 1: Every day. We say it every day. Even when you're

625
00:37:08,040 --> 00:37:13,280
Speaker 1: so tired, you just go not complaining, not complaining, not complaining. Okay,

626
00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:15,759
Speaker 1: So you guys, we have like three questions. We'll ask

627
00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:17,440
Speaker 1: you and we're gonna let you go. And then then

628
00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:19,160
Speaker 1: I feel like you guys are both jumping back on

629
00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:23,759
Speaker 1: horses because that's what you do. Okay. I feel like

630
00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:25,680
Speaker 1: for some reason this is going to be really funny.

631
00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:30,440
Speaker 1: But the ideas that you have to answer for each other, yes, yes, okay, Delphie.

632
00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:39,359
Speaker 1: What would Nacho get arrested for the report? I've never

633
00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:42,480
Speaker 1: been arrested okay yet, but let's see what Let's see

634
00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:44,640
Speaker 1: what if you were to be what would it be?

635
00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:51,040
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I don't know. He's perfect, he really is.

636
00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:56,320
Speaker 1: That's annoying like mine is. Like I would get arrested

637
00:37:56,320 --> 00:37:59,799
Speaker 1: in an airport for yelling at security because they're trying

638
00:37:59,800 --> 00:38:06,399
Speaker 1: to take my bags. Yeah, don't touch my burst, No,

639
00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:09,279
Speaker 1: you have no idea. Roger's like, they're doing their job.

640
00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:11,840
Speaker 1: I'm like, why my bag, why do they have to

641
00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:15,120
Speaker 1: open everything? But a who's gonna get arrested for being

642
00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:18,520
Speaker 1: too high? The other day we went to we were

643
00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:21,359
Speaker 1: going from somewhere to somewhere, and they took her crew.

644
00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:24,880
Speaker 1: She had this like beautiful new huge cream that she

645
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:27,359
Speaker 1: yes that she knows she goes. I'm like, I looked

646
00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:30,440
Speaker 1: at her like, really, you're kidding me. You did did

647
00:38:32,080 --> 00:38:34,560
Speaker 1: any more than they take me on the way out?

648
00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:37,440
Speaker 1: So I forgot about that. I mean, it was like

649
00:38:37,520 --> 00:38:44,839
Speaker 1: a huge cleanser from Chanel. Someone to the guy said

650
00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:51,560
Speaker 1: please don't just take it to your right like she

651
00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:58,480
Speaker 1: actually she was. What would Alphy get arrested for a nacho? Much?

652
00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:05,480
Speaker 1: She's firing. I feel like she can be Yeah, she

653
00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:10,520
Speaker 1: drives SUPERD but not backwards. He supposed to drive back,

654
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:18,200
Speaker 1: So we're going for manslaughter. Manslaughter, Yeah, accidentally back into cars.

655
00:39:18,320 --> 00:39:20,759
Speaker 1: Do your cars kind of like break by themselves? Thank you?

656
00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:25,399
Speaker 1: By the way. Yeah, what about last meal? You guys

657
00:39:25,440 --> 00:39:27,960
Speaker 1: on Earth? What would you eat? What would Delphi e nacho?

658
00:39:28,040 --> 00:39:31,640
Speaker 1: What would be like her dream? Yeah? Oysters for sure.

659
00:39:31,880 --> 00:39:35,520
Speaker 1: Oysters so oysters. Yeah, and what would not just be

660
00:39:35,719 --> 00:39:39,360
Speaker 1: up um, a really good piece of meat. That's about

661
00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:43,080
Speaker 1: to say steak for sure? Sure, okay, Delfie, If not

662
00:39:43,160 --> 00:39:45,279
Speaker 1: you at an extra five hours in the day, what

663
00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:47,520
Speaker 1: would he spend doing? I already know the answer to this.

664
00:39:47,719 --> 00:39:50,000
Speaker 1: What would he do with five extra hours in his day?

665
00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:55,239
Speaker 1: Probably between a horse and reading something? Okay, he'd been

666
00:39:55,280 --> 00:40:03,600
Speaker 1: informing himself of some kind of like new cryptocurrency, your something,

667
00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:11,160
Speaker 1: or on a horse. What's trending? What's trending? Let's learn

668
00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:14,200
Speaker 1: about it? Right well, with Delphi's extra five hours, be

669
00:40:14,719 --> 00:40:19,040
Speaker 1: Delphi extra five hours. She also does love horses very much.

670
00:40:19,160 --> 00:40:23,400
Speaker 1: A horse is animals, garden farm, just be outside, be

671
00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:27,319
Speaker 1: outside in nature and animals. It's like your happiest place. Yes,

672
00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:30,120
Speaker 1: I dream to be like that. We need to. We

673
00:40:30,239 --> 00:40:35,920
Speaker 1: really need to do that. Smart. I try, you, guys,

674
00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:38,880
Speaker 1: I try to, really do I really do. Oh it's fine.

675
00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:40,960
Speaker 1: We love you guys so much. We're gonna let you

676
00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:44,440
Speaker 1: go back. Thanks for having us. It was great. We um,

677
00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:48,799
Speaker 1: it's a fun you do this fun, great, fun thing.

678
00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:52,759
Speaker 1: I'm not surprised that you know, let you do it

679
00:40:52,880 --> 00:40:56,840
Speaker 1: so well. You're always so creative. And always doing great

680
00:40:56,920 --> 00:41:00,560
Speaker 1: things right back at you guys. By I mean, this

681
00:41:00,680 --> 00:41:07,200
Speaker 1: is probably our greatest triumph, this podcasts triumph. Our children

682
00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:10,239
Speaker 1: are our greatest trump. Okay, but just being just being

683
00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:13,560
Speaker 1: able to speak to all these people, it's just nogical.

684
00:41:13,840 --> 00:41:16,400
Speaker 1: But the truth you learn from them too. Yeah, you know,

685
00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:18,759
Speaker 1: I'm teasing. I really do like it. We love it,

686
00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:20,960
Speaker 1: and we really have learned so much. And what we

687
00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:24,359
Speaker 1: have learned is that really successful relationships have a very

688
00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:27,400
Speaker 1: common thread, which is they're not competitive and they and

689
00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:29,840
Speaker 1: they really do root for each other. And you know,

690
00:41:30,120 --> 00:41:35,399
Speaker 1: whether it's friendships, it's siblings, it's couples, it's all the same.

691
00:41:35,520 --> 00:41:38,840
Speaker 1: They're they're they're not competitive with each other, and they

692
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:41,320
Speaker 1: root for each other. And that seems to really be

693
00:41:41,480 --> 00:41:44,480
Speaker 1: the common thread in every single relationship that we that

694
00:41:44,640 --> 00:41:49,160
Speaker 1: we honestly like. Respect it also trust doesn't seem like,

695
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:51,200
Speaker 1: you know, you guys are running around. It's like, you know,

696
00:41:51,360 --> 00:41:53,080
Speaker 1: you can't deal with it, you can't have that stuff

697
00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:59,000
Speaker 1: also very important. Yes, of course that's important. And it

698
00:41:59,160 --> 00:42:04,040
Speaker 1: also makes you more into the other side because you've

699
00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:07,440
Speaker 1: respected and you you like, I mean, I like to

700
00:42:07,480 --> 00:42:12,040
Speaker 1: be respected, and of course he I'm not waiting for

701
00:42:12,160 --> 00:42:15,160
Speaker 1: him to go running around like that. That's out of

702
00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:17,760
Speaker 1: the That's what I always say, And not an option.

703
00:42:17,840 --> 00:42:20,279
Speaker 1: A minute I would think about where he is. It's

704
00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:23,719
Speaker 1: over over exactly. I've never thought about it, not in

705
00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:27,560
Speaker 1: thirty years. It's not an option. And once you realize

706
00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:30,080
Speaker 1: what you have next year, you know there's nothing better

707
00:42:30,200 --> 00:42:34,400
Speaker 1: out there, you know, the thought of something better, you know,

708
00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:37,560
Speaker 1: it's just not a thought. I'm frankly too lazy anyway, No,

709
00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:40,879
Speaker 1: and that's an unrealistic thought. You know, why why would

710
00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:44,279
Speaker 1: you ever want to do anything with someone else than

711
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:47,000
Speaker 1: the person that you love and the mother of your children,

712
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:51,000
Speaker 1: and someone that loves you and respects you and you know,

713
00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:55,200
Speaker 1: with your good and your bad. So it's just it's

714
00:42:55,239 --> 00:42:57,960
Speaker 1: just a blessing to have someone like her next to me.

715
00:42:58,120 --> 00:43:00,680
Speaker 1: And I'll do anything in my power to Carol. I

716
00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:05,000
Speaker 1: could not ask for partner. Oh now I'm nautious, all right,

717
00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:08,880
Speaker 1: I love you. Depressed, I'm depressed. I wish we had

718
00:43:08,960 --> 00:43:12,320
Speaker 1: what they had, Rachel, look at me, na he but

719
00:43:12,640 --> 00:43:14,920
Speaker 1: but honestly, you guys, we we love you so much

720
00:43:14,920 --> 00:43:17,320
Speaker 1: and this was so much fun and we're so happy

721
00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:19,359
Speaker 1: to have you on you know, what my dad said

722
00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:21,040
Speaker 1: to me the other day. He said, when are you

723
00:43:21,160 --> 00:43:23,240
Speaker 1: going to have Nacho and Alphina? And I said, funny

724
00:43:23,239 --> 00:43:26,040
Speaker 1: you asked that. Dad were literally talking to them on Thursday.

725
00:43:27,880 --> 00:43:31,640
Speaker 1: They miss you guys so much. They do, they really

726
00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:34,720
Speaker 1: really do, and I love you both. Love you guys,

727
00:43:35,480 --> 00:43:39,040
Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you again. Really appreciate the family. I

728
00:43:39,160 --> 00:43:44,960
Speaker 1: love you all right, bye, take yamcho. Okay, So, babe,

729
00:43:45,600 --> 00:43:47,839
Speaker 1: I know that you can't even handle it because they

730
00:43:47,880 --> 00:43:50,400
Speaker 1: actually are the real life perfect humans and it's like

731
00:43:50,560 --> 00:43:52,560
Speaker 1: you have to make funny jokes because you can't deal

732
00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:55,120
Speaker 1: with the fact out perfect they actually aren't. Really. I'm

733
00:43:55,160 --> 00:43:58,239
Speaker 1: a little I'm a little pissed off actually because you know,

734
00:43:58,640 --> 00:44:01,640
Speaker 1: we aren't thirty years and I think we and I

735
00:44:01,680 --> 00:44:03,560
Speaker 1: think they make you. He makes you look bad. I

736
00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:05,680
Speaker 1: know we kind of I thought he had a storybook

737
00:44:05,840 --> 00:44:08,080
Speaker 1: kind of a relationship, but I feel like we looked

738
00:44:08,200 --> 00:44:11,520
Speaker 1: pretty much. I'm pretty much depressed. They have four perfect kids.

739
00:44:12,400 --> 00:44:14,520
Speaker 1: I mean, they really do love each other more than

740
00:44:14,560 --> 00:44:16,440
Speaker 1: we do. I'm not gonna lie. I saw them and

741
00:44:16,520 --> 00:44:18,399
Speaker 1: then like I looked at you, and I'm like, yeah,

742
00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:22,000
Speaker 1: more or less, trying to be cool, I got it

743
00:44:22,000 --> 00:44:23,560
Speaker 1: more or less is what I thought about it, really,

744
00:44:23,640 --> 00:44:25,319
Speaker 1: because last night you told me I was the only

745
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:27,719
Speaker 1: thing that matters too in this whole universe, and that

746
00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:31,200
Speaker 1: I was the prettiest person in the world. Um, I

747
00:44:31,360 --> 00:44:36,239
Speaker 1: may have been motivated anyway. They are amazing. They are

748
00:44:36,400 --> 00:44:39,320
Speaker 1: literally I just need to actually recap for one second.

749
00:44:40,200 --> 00:44:42,400
Speaker 1: They have been. We've been fronts with them probably almost

750
00:44:42,440 --> 00:44:45,040
Speaker 1: twenty years, fifteen years at least, and I have to

751
00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:52,000
Speaker 1: tell you they have always been the kindest, classiest, polite,

752
00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:58,879
Speaker 1: unpretentious family well mannered as my mother. I always quote

753
00:44:58,920 --> 00:45:03,040
Speaker 1: my mother, Oh Rachel. When I see them, I just

754
00:45:03,200 --> 00:45:05,719
Speaker 1: don't know who I want to look at more. They're

755
00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:10,799
Speaker 1: both so dropped and beautiful and the kindest, sweetest, most

756
00:45:10,880 --> 00:45:14,279
Speaker 1: polite people. And my mom goes who cares about me?

757
00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:17,560
Speaker 1: And she said, Natcho always goes out of his way

758
00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:20,200
Speaker 1: to help me up steps or like ask me how

759
00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:22,479
Speaker 1: I am. They are the kindest people. They were raised

760
00:45:22,560 --> 00:45:25,120
Speaker 1: so well. It's also a cultural thing, and I think

761
00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:28,600
Speaker 1: in America sometimes, you know, we don't see that as much.

762
00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:31,440
Speaker 1: And I think they were raised in such big families

763
00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:33,480
Speaker 1: and they have kids around them all the time, and

764
00:45:33,719 --> 00:45:36,600
Speaker 1: so much family around them all the time. Their priorities

765
00:45:36,640 --> 00:45:38,920
Speaker 1: are just always straight, and they travel as a family,

766
00:45:38,960 --> 00:45:41,719
Speaker 1: and they homeschool and you know, it's not that they

767
00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:45,200
Speaker 1: don't fight. They're not like, you know, unrealistic human beings.

768
00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:48,840
Speaker 1: But I would say that they are just really magical, beautiful,

769
00:45:48,920 --> 00:45:51,480
Speaker 1: wonderful people and that is all I can say. And

770
00:45:51,560 --> 00:45:54,239
Speaker 1: their love story is also beautiful. And by the way,

771
00:45:54,440 --> 00:45:55,920
Speaker 1: if you ever want to look them up, you know

772
00:45:56,680 --> 00:45:59,680
Speaker 1: and their Ralph Lauren ads, it's actually like make believe.

773
00:45:59,760 --> 00:46:02,080
Speaker 1: They ride in on their horses with their hair blowing

774
00:46:02,120 --> 00:46:04,759
Speaker 1: in the wind, riding through the ocean, and that is

775
00:46:04,800 --> 00:46:07,000
Speaker 1: actually how they live their life on and off camera.

776
00:46:07,239 --> 00:46:09,520
Speaker 1: I just would like to say that, so now that

777
00:46:09,600 --> 00:46:13,680
Speaker 1: we all feel bad about ourselves, if you liked what

778
00:46:13,760 --> 00:46:16,520
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794
00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:09,160
Speaker 1: you the wrong advice. And I kind of feel like

795
00:47:09,200 --> 00:47:11,720
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Speaker 1: Instagram at works dot four dot us. Okay, so before

802
00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:40,720
Speaker 1: we leave, we like to give you a little highlight

803
00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:43,279
Speaker 1: and low light from our week. And in relationships, the

804
00:47:43,360 --> 00:47:45,520
Speaker 1: bad comes with the good, so this is our time

805
00:47:45,560 --> 00:47:48,560
Speaker 1: to mention a little bit of both of those things. Okay,

806
00:47:48,880 --> 00:47:52,919
Speaker 1: mine is really easy. My low light is the fact

807
00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:56,439
Speaker 1: that I have asked Roger to renew our vows since

808
00:47:56,480 --> 00:47:59,879
Speaker 1: our ten year anniversary, our fifteen R twenty or twenty

809
00:48:00,200 --> 00:48:03,560
Speaker 1: five and now our thirtieth, which is coming up on

810
00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:09,040
Speaker 1: this August twenty ninth. Was our first date thirty years ago. Yes,

811
00:48:09,200 --> 00:48:14,080
Speaker 1: we were in kindergarten and so um. But due to

812
00:48:14,280 --> 00:48:18,560
Speaker 1: COVID and the delta variant that's happening right now, neither

813
00:48:18,640 --> 00:48:22,279
Speaker 1: of us feel good about having a hundred person a

814
00:48:22,480 --> 00:48:26,920
Speaker 1: fair to celebrate our anniversary. So when it's safer, we

815
00:48:27,080 --> 00:48:30,560
Speaker 1: will do it. But nonetheless, I'm definitely very sad about it.

816
00:48:30,680 --> 00:48:33,239
Speaker 1: So that's your lowlighter, that's my low light? Could that

817
00:48:33,320 --> 00:48:37,759
Speaker 1: be my highlight? That I dodge another bullet? Nobody thinks

818
00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:40,839
Speaker 1: you're funny. I'm I'm teasing. I try to know. Roger

819
00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:44,600
Speaker 1: tries to be cool and like, I'm sad. I wanted

820
00:48:44,640 --> 00:48:47,800
Speaker 1: to profess my love to you once again. Did you totally?

821
00:48:47,840 --> 00:48:52,279
Speaker 1: I do it every day anyway. So my highlight is

822
00:48:53,280 --> 00:48:57,919
Speaker 1: what is my highlight? I don't have a highlight highlight days.

823
00:48:58,280 --> 00:49:00,239
Speaker 1: I think the only highlighters I've been trying. I've been

824
00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:02,960
Speaker 1: eating some really decent food. The hants is really been

825
00:49:03,000 --> 00:49:04,840
Speaker 1: treating my belly pretty well, So I'm going to go

826
00:49:04,920 --> 00:49:07,600
Speaker 1: with a highlight there. The belly's coming back. Actually, not

827
00:49:07,800 --> 00:49:11,040
Speaker 1: really but he's eating like a college frat boy. I

828
00:49:11,200 --> 00:49:14,920
Speaker 1: just want everyone to delicious. My lowlight has to be

829
00:49:15,000 --> 00:49:18,359
Speaker 1: the fact that it almost feels like summer's over. Yes,

830
00:49:18,440 --> 00:49:22,600
Speaker 1: I would. We've been to the beach like twice, just

831
00:49:22,800 --> 00:49:26,200
Speaker 1: rains here. I'm pretty sure that it's rain summer. Yeah,

832
00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:29,120
Speaker 1: anyone on the East Coast. I mean, it's been a rainy,

833
00:49:29,360 --> 00:49:33,080
Speaker 1: rainy summer. And I can't understand why years go so

834
00:49:33,360 --> 00:49:36,440
Speaker 1: slow and the summer just blows by in like a week. Oh,

835
00:49:36,719 --> 00:49:39,920
Speaker 1: I don't get it. So my lowlight is that summer

836
00:49:40,000 --> 00:49:44,840
Speaker 1: saying like summers starting to be over before it really began.

837
00:49:45,840 --> 00:49:48,239
Speaker 1: I don't have a highlight that I can share. What

838
00:49:48,320 --> 00:49:50,040
Speaker 1: do you mean, I don't have a highlight. I gave

839
00:49:50,080 --> 00:49:51,480
Speaker 1: my low light, but I don't have a highlight. I

840
00:49:51,480 --> 00:49:53,800
Speaker 1: don't feel very highlighting right now. I think the highlight

841
00:49:53,960 --> 00:49:57,320
Speaker 1: is that your husband loves you know. Okay. My highlights

842
00:49:57,360 --> 00:50:00,720
Speaker 1: that my husband loves me. So that's the good news. Okay, everyone,

843
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Speaker 1: thanks for listening. We'll see you and we'll we'll talk

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Speaker 1: to you on the next works for us UM