WEBVTT - Reckless Replay: From A Superhero To A Hurt Villain 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:03.320 Welcome to Can't Flee Reckless, the production of iHeartRadio and 0:00:03.360 --> 0:00:18.000 The Black Effect. And just like that, y'all, we are 0:00:18.040 --> 0:00:20.640 back with yet another Carefully Reckless episode with your girl, 0:00:20.680 --> 0:00:21.279 Jess Hilarious. 0:00:21.280 --> 0:00:23.239 So listen. What I do is I be. 0:00:23.239 --> 0:00:25.720 Fixing people's mess, y'all, and y'all know I love it. 0:00:25.760 --> 0:00:28.360 I have a different intro every single time. Tell me 0:00:28.400 --> 0:00:30.080 if y'all think I should get an intro for Just 0:00:30.120 --> 0:00:32.840 Fix My Mess, because I have one on Breakfast Club 0:00:33.200 --> 0:00:35.280 for Jess with the Mess. I got one on Breakfast 0:00:35.280 --> 0:00:37.560 Club for Just with the Mess. I don't have an 0:00:37.600 --> 0:00:40.120 intro for Just Fix My Mess for my podcast for 0:00:40.159 --> 0:00:42.880 Carefully Reckless under the Black Effect. You know what I'm saying. 0:00:43.240 --> 0:00:45.960 So I made it. You know that's something that I 0:00:46.000 --> 0:00:49.800 should voice. Y'all should go spam Charlemagne's comments the Black 0:00:49.800 --> 0:00:53.400 Effect and iHeart and Breakfast Club fucking throw them in 0:00:53.440 --> 0:00:53.840 there too. 0:00:54.200 --> 0:00:54.520 Spam. 0:00:54.840 --> 0:00:58.160 Ess Hilarious needs her own intro for Jess Fix My 0:00:58.240 --> 0:01:00.680 Mess on her podcast that we listen to. We tune 0:01:00.720 --> 0:01:04.040 into each and every Wednesday, and so we can't have 0:01:04.160 --> 0:01:06.520 her fixing people's mess if she's not gonna intro it, right, 0:01:07.240 --> 0:01:10.120 So I need an intro. So we're going definitely we 0:01:10.200 --> 0:01:12.880 are what was this called boycotton, We are boycotting and 0:01:12.959 --> 0:01:14.400 rioting for justice intro. 0:01:14.640 --> 0:01:16.880 All right, that's what we're gonna do, all right, but 0:01:16.920 --> 0:01:18.280 we're gonna jump right into it now. 0:01:18.280 --> 0:01:20.840 We don't have voice memos this episode because people don't 0:01:20.880 --> 0:01:22.160 want their voices to be known. 0:01:22.240 --> 0:01:25.040 And that was explained and I do understand you, mate, 0:01:25.040 --> 0:01:26.120 Go and know your voice. 0:01:26.520 --> 0:01:29.120 You calling in about your boyfriend, that nigga, if you 0:01:29.200 --> 0:01:31.040 listened to carefully reckless, he's going to know it's you. 0:01:31.560 --> 0:01:35.040 So please tread lightly, y'all. Tread lightly, y'all. 0:01:36.080 --> 0:01:39.039 I'll be reading. This is from a woman. Hey, Jess, 0:01:39.080 --> 0:01:41.200 I need help. So I've been with my fiance for 0:01:41.240 --> 0:01:44.640 a year and a half and it's been pure hell down. 0:01:45.360 --> 0:01:47.440 When we first got together, I was in a good 0:01:47.440 --> 0:01:50.160 place mentally, emotionally, financially, et cetera. 0:01:50.680 --> 0:01:52.280 Okay, so you was good all the way around. 0:01:52.680 --> 0:01:55.320 So he was living with his brother, but things happened 0:01:55.320 --> 0:01:58.520 to where he had to move. Me, being Captain saber Hole, 0:01:58.680 --> 0:02:00.559 told him he can stay with me till he found 0:02:00.600 --> 0:02:04.080 another place. Mistake number one, Yes it was girl, not 0:02:04.240 --> 0:02:06.000 he can move with you until he found another place. 0:02:06.040 --> 0:02:07.880 If he was your nigga and he moved with you, 0:02:08.440 --> 0:02:09.560 he wasn't moving out. 0:02:10.040 --> 0:02:11.200 That that's just what it is. 0:02:11.600 --> 0:02:14.200 Within that time, I found out I was pregnant, so 0:02:14.200 --> 0:02:17.520 we agreed to just continue to live together. Okay, right 0:02:17.520 --> 0:02:19.359 before I found out I was pregnant, I let him 0:02:19.440 --> 0:02:21.640 use my car to go to work one night, and 0:02:21.680 --> 0:02:24.600 he ended up totaling it. Oh man, I made him 0:02:24.639 --> 0:02:27.720 put down the down payment on another car because he 0:02:27.800 --> 0:02:29.360 was somewhere he wasn't supposed to be. 0:02:29.680 --> 0:02:32.160 Oh, okay, I know the fuck that's right, But no, you. 0:02:32.080 --> 0:02:34.320 Don't make him put a car up a down payment 0:02:34.600 --> 0:02:36.440 on the new car because he was somewhere he wasn't 0:02:36.440 --> 0:02:38.640 supposed to be. You make him put the fucking down 0:02:38.680 --> 0:02:41.040 payment on the new car because he totaled your shit 0:02:41.840 --> 0:02:44.760 and that wasn't his. So I pay the car note, 0:02:44.800 --> 0:02:48.280 the insurance, the rent, electricity, and so on and so forth. 0:02:48.560 --> 0:02:50.399 Now this way the real issues begin. 0:02:50.560 --> 0:02:53.160 Once he found out I was pregnant, he started disappearing 0:02:53.160 --> 0:02:55.600 on me on his payday. He would go lay up 0:02:55.639 --> 0:02:58.200 with whoever and come back home once he's broke. 0:02:58.919 --> 0:03:01.560 I'm pregnant anymore, so I take him back. 0:03:03.200 --> 0:03:06.200 That was a lot to digest in that last little sentence, 0:03:06.440 --> 0:03:08.320 I'm gonna rent it back for those in the back. 0:03:09.040 --> 0:03:11.400 On his payday, he would go lay up with whoever 0:03:11.680 --> 0:03:13.280 and come back home once he's broke. 0:03:14.000 --> 0:03:17.839 I'm pregnant and emotional, so I take him back. Oh babe. 0:03:18.200 --> 0:03:18.640 Mm hmmm. 0:03:19.280 --> 0:03:21.320 I would say mistake number two, but it was so 0:03:21.360 --> 0:03:24.079 many other mistakes leading up to this one. I'm gonna 0:03:24.160 --> 0:03:27.520 let you go in this becomes an ongoing thing. During 0:03:27.520 --> 0:03:30.400 the middle of my pregnancy, I caught COVID really bad, 0:03:30.480 --> 0:03:31.840 so I ended up on bed rests. 0:03:31.880 --> 0:03:32.520 Oh Jesus. 0:03:32.919 --> 0:03:36.440 I started getting unemployment shortly after, and I was still 0:03:36.480 --> 0:03:41.240 paying all the bills myself. When I can time what 0:03:41.480 --> 0:03:43.080 I'm trying to figure out what this is saying. Y'all 0:03:43.120 --> 0:03:45.080 hold up, give me a second. Y'all gotta you know, 0:03:45.120 --> 0:03:47.960 because when they write, they write a little fast. I 0:03:48.000 --> 0:03:53.000 told y'all to make sure y'all punctuate or punctualize or 0:03:53.040 --> 0:03:56.320 punctualize when y'all write, and shit, I'm trying to figure 0:03:56.360 --> 0:03:56.600 it out. 0:03:56.720 --> 0:03:57.120 So this is. 0:03:57.120 --> 0:03:58.600 See if I'm gonna say if I'm a read and then 0:03:58.600 --> 0:03:59.960 I'm gonna say if I can make sense of it 0:04:00.320 --> 0:04:03.400 when I can time to renew my lease, my unemployment 0:04:03.480 --> 0:04:06.680 had ran out, and I end up having to move 0:04:06.760 --> 0:04:10.000 with his mom. Okay, so anyway it happened like this, 0:04:10.040 --> 0:04:12.520 I'm gonna just break it down. When it came time 0:04:12.640 --> 0:04:15.400 to renew the lease, my unemployment had ran out and 0:04:15.440 --> 0:04:17.479 I ended up having to move with his mom. 0:04:18.120 --> 0:04:19.200 I thought this move. 0:04:19.040 --> 0:04:21.480 Would help me as far as child care and being 0:04:21.520 --> 0:04:24.679 able to save. Two months after moving in with his mom, 0:04:24.839 --> 0:04:28.200 he quits his job. I was pissed, but it was 0:04:28.240 --> 0:04:31.000 a nightclub where he did most of his hoeing, so 0:04:31.120 --> 0:04:34.320 I assumed he would just find another job. It's been 0:04:34.440 --> 0:04:37.200 nine months and he still don't have a job. His 0:04:37.320 --> 0:04:39.760 mom became really sick and she put me on her 0:04:39.760 --> 0:04:42.320 medical paperwork because he's unreliable. 0:04:43.200 --> 0:04:47.800 Damn. So now you got two headaches, him and his mom. 0:04:48.120 --> 0:04:50.080 So when she gets real sick, I'm the one that 0:04:50.120 --> 0:04:52.760 has to take off work and make sure she's taken 0:04:52.800 --> 0:04:55.640 care of. I have fallen completely out of love with him, 0:04:55.760 --> 0:04:57.640 but I have a lot of love for him because 0:04:57.640 --> 0:05:00.080 he's still my child's father, and given the history that 0:05:00.200 --> 0:05:02.279 y'all went through. So yeah, I don't know what to 0:05:02.320 --> 0:05:04.479 do because I don't have family that can help me, 0:05:04.600 --> 0:05:08.240 especially with childcare, so I feel like I'm obligated to 0:05:08.279 --> 0:05:10.920 stay in a miserable place in order to make sure 0:05:10.960 --> 0:05:14.040 my child is taken care of. I am stressed to 0:05:14.080 --> 0:05:16.919 the point where I've lost almost twenty pounds in a month. 0:05:17.360 --> 0:05:19.400 Please just keep it real with me and help me 0:05:19.440 --> 0:05:22.760 fix my mess. Love your bunches, baby, I love you too, 0:05:22.839 --> 0:05:24.600 and this is why I'm about to get in your 0:05:24.680 --> 0:05:27.919 ass because I love you. This is gonna be some 0:05:28.040 --> 0:05:30.840 tough love. But baby, if it ain't coming from none 0:05:30.880 --> 0:05:33.239 of your friends, if it ain't coming from your mom, 0:05:33.320 --> 0:05:35.839 I don't know the relationship between y'all. Even if it 0:05:35.839 --> 0:05:39.719 didn't come from his motherfucking mom who he couldn't even move. 0:05:39.560 --> 0:05:40.760 With at first. 0:05:41.320 --> 0:05:43.839 See you see that that's a red flag. You lost 0:05:43.880 --> 0:05:46.080 your job and had to move in with his mom. 0:05:46.560 --> 0:05:49.360 You know you're pregnant. You were already paying the fucking bills, 0:05:49.640 --> 0:05:52.680 every single bill there was to pay, you were paying it, 0:05:52.800 --> 0:05:55.080 so you were already superwoman in your own house. He 0:05:55.160 --> 0:05:57.760 was already doing bad by yourself with a nigga who 0:05:57.839 --> 0:06:01.120 ain't worth two shits. I'm sorry, excuse me, but this 0:06:01.279 --> 0:06:04.120 is exactly what you're giving me, So I'm just regurgitating 0:06:04.160 --> 0:06:07.000 it back to you. And sometimes that is the advice 0:06:07.080 --> 0:06:09.520 you hearing your own shit thrown back at you, so 0:06:09.800 --> 0:06:12.000 to make you further realize what you need to do. 0:06:12.240 --> 0:06:15.800 All right, now, we can't put the baby back, No, 0:06:15.880 --> 0:06:18.120 we can't. And I know you do not regret your child. 0:06:18.160 --> 0:06:21.599 I would never regret any child that I had that 0:06:21.680 --> 0:06:24.400 I gave birth to because of the father. So that's 0:06:24.480 --> 0:06:26.560 one thing. So we have a baby. We know that 0:06:26.920 --> 0:06:31.640 we knew that he was unfucking reliable before you found 0:06:31.640 --> 0:06:33.599 out you were pregnant. You know what I'm saying. He 0:06:33.680 --> 0:06:36.240 had to move in with you, Like you said, that 0:06:36.320 --> 0:06:39.080 was your first mistake. Why couldn't he move in with 0:06:39.200 --> 0:06:40.000 his fucking mother? 0:06:40.600 --> 0:06:41.000 All right? 0:06:41.680 --> 0:06:44.360 Because he likes to be taken care of. You moved 0:06:44.400 --> 0:06:47.080 him in and you enabled him. Yep, you played a 0:06:47.120 --> 0:06:49.640 part in him being lazy. You played a part in 0:06:49.720 --> 0:06:53.359 him not being able to handle his responsibilities. You allowed it, 0:06:53.800 --> 0:06:57.280 and then you expected for him to change. That's not 0:06:57.320 --> 0:07:00.640 even what's supposed to been happening. Didn't even take care 0:07:00.640 --> 0:07:02.640 of herself. He damn sure would not be able to 0:07:02.640 --> 0:07:04.800 take care of a baby. And he and you started 0:07:04.800 --> 0:07:07.839 taking care of him. So he was okay, resting ashore, 0:07:08.600 --> 0:07:10.600 knowing that if she take care of me, she definitely 0:07:10.600 --> 0:07:12.120 can be a good mother to this baby. 0:07:12.360 --> 0:07:14.560 So as long as I got her, I'm good. You 0:07:14.600 --> 0:07:15.239 know what I'm saying. 0:07:15.640 --> 0:07:18.920 So you enabled him, then you lost the job, y'all 0:07:18.960 --> 0:07:21.480 had to move in with his mom. He got a job. 0:07:21.600 --> 0:07:25.440 After two months, he quit. Oh no, wait, let me 0:07:25.480 --> 0:07:30.800 go back. I don't want him misquote you. After two months, Yeah, 0:07:30.840 --> 0:07:34.040 he quit. He didn't even get fucking fired. He quit 0:07:34.120 --> 0:07:39.040 his job after moving in with his mom. Why because 0:07:39.080 --> 0:07:42.000 his mom ain't gonna put him out. That's one thing. 0:07:42.320 --> 0:07:44.400 His mom ain't gonna put you out. And if she 0:07:44.440 --> 0:07:46.840 ain't gonna put you out, she ain't gonna put him out. 0:07:47.080 --> 0:07:49.000 There we go right there, she not. 0:07:49.200 --> 0:07:51.600 Obviously, you two have built the bond because you over 0:07:51.600 --> 0:07:54.680 here taking care of her. Now like you not pregnant, 0:07:54.680 --> 0:07:57.600 in bedridden. You're supposed to been put on bed rest 0:07:57.640 --> 0:08:02.360 because you caught COVID. Shit happens, So now you're even 0:08:02.360 --> 0:08:04.880 more in shambles, you know what I'm saying. 0:08:05.880 --> 0:08:07.000 Do you see this pattern? 0:08:07.840 --> 0:08:11.640 Nine months later, fast forward, the baby's here, he still 0:08:11.640 --> 0:08:14.920 ain't got no fucking job, and You're taking care of 0:08:14.960 --> 0:08:18.360 not only him, but his mother and your baby. So 0:08:18.400 --> 0:08:22.560 you got three people to take care of, two kids 0:08:22.560 --> 0:08:25.040 and a mom. Because I'm sorry, your baby daddy is 0:08:25.080 --> 0:08:27.560 your kid. That's exactly what you need to be claiming. 0:08:27.640 --> 0:08:31.640 Is ass on tagsas or something writing that motherfucker off. 0:08:31.680 --> 0:08:34.080 I wish you could write off somebody. I really wish 0:08:34.160 --> 0:08:38.160 you could a grown ass people. But it sounds as 0:08:38.240 --> 0:08:40.160 if you know exactly what the hell you need to do. 0:08:40.240 --> 0:08:44.000 You said you're falling out of love with him already. 0:08:44.400 --> 0:08:48.040 You're in a miserable place. You're just trying to make 0:08:48.080 --> 0:08:50.120 it work to take care of your child. You lost 0:08:50.200 --> 0:08:52.800 twenty pounds in a month being stressed, trying to figure 0:08:52.800 --> 0:08:55.240 out where your next check don't come from. Then also, 0:08:55.400 --> 0:08:57.320 you got this man that you're taking care of and 0:08:57.360 --> 0:08:59.560 now his mother. You don't want to leave his mother 0:08:59.679 --> 0:09:02.800 hide in dry? Does he have any siblings? Does it? 0:09:02.840 --> 0:09:05.160 Is there any way that if you don't do it, 0:09:05.800 --> 0:09:07.360 he'll step up and fucking do it. 0:09:08.000 --> 0:09:08.680 You know what I'm saying. 0:09:09.200 --> 0:09:11.439 That's a big responsibility. You let her put your name 0:09:11.480 --> 0:09:14.440 down as emergency contact. You got your own shit going on, baby, 0:09:15.000 --> 0:09:17.640 you know what I'm saying. Where's your mom, where's your family? 0:09:17.880 --> 0:09:19.719 You know what I'm saying. What I'm saying, this is 0:09:19.840 --> 0:09:20.280 not good. 0:09:20.760 --> 0:09:23.920 And then the first thing that you said, So, I've 0:09:23.920 --> 0:09:26.040 been with my fiance for a year and a half 0:09:26.080 --> 0:09:28.959 and it's been pure hell. He proposed to you with 0:09:29.040 --> 0:09:31.719 no intention on giving you a fucking wedding. You know 0:09:31.800 --> 0:09:34.400 what I'm saying. And I'm saying that because look at 0:09:34.400 --> 0:09:37.440 the place you're in right now. If he can't even 0:09:37.480 --> 0:09:39.160 pay bills, how the fuck he gonna pay for a 0:09:39.200 --> 0:09:39.880 fucking wedding. 0:09:41.000 --> 0:09:43.240 How it needs you to understand that? 0:09:44.080 --> 0:09:46.000 Hold up, Hold up, I know the shit getting good, 0:09:46.000 --> 0:09:48.320 but listen to just a couple seconds of a commercial. 0:09:48.360 --> 0:09:53.440 If you love me, you'll listen. Your fiance for a 0:09:53.520 --> 0:09:55.920 year and a half. That shit ain't supposed to be 0:09:56.000 --> 0:10:03.760 going bed that soon. But it's still situations that could 0:10:03.760 --> 0:10:07.200 be worse, that are worse than yours. So you're not 0:10:07.440 --> 0:10:09.640 completely in the goddamn dumps. 0:10:09.720 --> 0:10:10.160 No you're not. 0:10:10.440 --> 0:10:12.880 If you still got good credit, you still got breath 0:10:12.880 --> 0:10:15.000 to breathe every time you wake up, you have a 0:10:15.160 --> 0:10:17.000 chance to change your situation. 0:10:18.080 --> 0:10:18.760 There you go. 0:10:19.160 --> 0:10:20.840 And the reason why I say credit is because you 0:10:20.880 --> 0:10:22.040 need to get the hell out of there and get 0:10:22.040 --> 0:10:24.680 into your own shit. Still, you need to get another car, 0:10:25.160 --> 0:10:28.280 all right, You donna let Jody crash and goddamn car up. 0:10:29.040 --> 0:10:32.560 Yes I called him Jody, Yes I did. Event I 0:10:32.679 --> 0:10:35.960 called him Jody, and you didn't let this nigga joey you. 0:10:36.480 --> 0:10:38.600 That's what it is. I ain't mad at him. I'm 0:10:38.600 --> 0:10:42.840 mad at jo ass, yes i am. But unlike my 0:10:42.920 --> 0:10:45.920 brother Charlemagne, I'm not gonna give you dunky other day 0:10:46.559 --> 0:10:49.800 because we live and we fucking learn. We live and 0:10:49.840 --> 0:10:52.439 we fucking learned, and you got a great blessing out 0:10:52.440 --> 0:10:53.720 the deal when that is your baby. 0:10:54.280 --> 0:10:56.560 So we will always move forward with grace. 0:10:57.280 --> 0:11:00.600 But listen, it ain't like he gonna be fighting for 0:11:00.679 --> 0:11:03.400 custody and taking you downtown for child support, baby, and 0:11:03.440 --> 0:11:05.360 he ain't even got a leg to stand on, you know, 0:11:05.480 --> 0:11:08.640 So we just pray for him and you keep it moving, 0:11:09.480 --> 0:11:12.760 You keep it the fuck moving, and you don't look back. 0:11:13.280 --> 0:11:16.200 Don't look back in that way. I don't mean you 0:11:16.240 --> 0:11:17.920 got to cut all ties with him, because he's still 0:11:17.920 --> 0:11:20.079 your child's father and you still have a great amount 0:11:20.120 --> 0:11:22.959 of love for him, but have enough love for him 0:11:23.000 --> 0:11:24.880 to leave his ASTs all the way alone. And let 0:11:24.960 --> 0:11:27.120 him get hisself together, because you can't make him get 0:11:27.120 --> 0:11:29.880 hisself together. You gotta let him get itself together, and 0:11:29.920 --> 0:11:32.839 you can't make your child a part of that, that toxicity, 0:11:33.559 --> 0:11:38.080 that that whole little situation going on, okay, because you 0:11:38.160 --> 0:11:39.839 gotta do it all for your baby. You gotta be 0:11:39.880 --> 0:11:44.679 mentally prepared for motherhood. You know, you got a child 0:11:44.720 --> 0:11:47.800 to raise. So shit is real, all right, Shit is real. 0:11:48.400 --> 0:11:51.240 Shit is real for you every day, all right. So 0:11:51.400 --> 0:11:53.880 I need you to check in with me. Well, the 0:11:53.920 --> 0:11:56.920 advice is straight up to fucking leave. I'm sorry, make 0:11:57.000 --> 0:11:58.679 him take care of his mother. Will let him take 0:11:58.679 --> 0:12:00.679 care of his mother. He ain't gonna let her get 0:12:00.679 --> 0:12:04.200 so sick where she just you know, you know, she 0:12:04.360 --> 0:12:07.600 just fucking croak. You know, if it's if it's you 0:12:07.640 --> 0:12:10.640 know where, if that's in his control, you know, he 0:12:11.040 --> 0:12:12.880 can take care of his mother. You need you are 0:12:12.920 --> 0:12:14.480 a mother, You need to take care of your. 0:12:14.520 --> 0:12:17.240 Child because he can't do that with you. Right now, 0:12:18.280 --> 0:12:19.160 check back in with me. 0:12:19.200 --> 0:12:22.120 I'm gonna need to know because I'm I'm I need 0:12:22.120 --> 0:12:23.720 you to get the fuck up out of their baby. 0:12:24.400 --> 0:12:28.880 And we're moving on. This is from another woman, and 0:12:28.920 --> 0:12:31.680 there is no voice memo. She oh god, she got emoji. 0:12:31.760 --> 0:12:35.120 She really about the main this shit. Okay, hey, jas, 0:12:35.120 --> 0:12:36.840 I just wanted to say that I'm proud of you girl, 0:12:36.920 --> 0:12:39.320 keep doing your thing, but I need help with my mets. 0:12:39.600 --> 0:12:42.280 So I was dating this guy for about three weeks. Okay, 0:12:42.440 --> 0:12:45.600 the vibes was there, he cooked for me, we had drinks. 0:12:45.760 --> 0:12:46.760 I really like him. 0:12:47.200 --> 0:12:49.480 This nigga dropped the love bomb on me after the 0:12:49.520 --> 0:12:52.640 first week. But the nigga threw up a red flag 0:12:52.840 --> 0:12:56.160 two of them shits. I have two jobs, two kids, 0:12:56.160 --> 0:12:58.880 in a house that I'm putting back together. The nigga 0:12:58.920 --> 0:13:01.240 asked me to help him pay his rent that he's 0:13:01.280 --> 0:13:03.160 behind on eighteen hundred dollars. 0:13:03.520 --> 0:13:05.960 The fuck is he on? Then asked me could I 0:13:06.000 --> 0:13:07.880 apply for a loan to help him. 0:13:08.200 --> 0:13:10.640 I immediately fell some type of way because the fuck 0:13:11.200 --> 0:13:13.120 he kept saying, Babe, I just want you to have 0:13:13.240 --> 0:13:15.960 my back and love on me and do what I say. 0:13:16.360 --> 0:13:18.840 He and me fucked up, Jess, I'm too independent for 0:13:18.880 --> 0:13:19.360 this nigga. 0:13:19.679 --> 0:13:22.120 So he snapped on me because I said I'm not 0:13:22.160 --> 0:13:24.920 helping him out, like it's only been three weeks, and 0:13:24.960 --> 0:13:26.439 I honestly feel disrespected. 0:13:26.480 --> 0:13:27.760 It's the audacity for me? 0:13:28.040 --> 0:13:30.560 Then what makes it so bad is I caught feelings 0:13:30.600 --> 0:13:33.600 for his dinosaur dick ass, Jess, I listened to your 0:13:33.600 --> 0:13:35.439 show every time you drop episode. 0:13:37.040 --> 0:13:41.760 Does it the okay? Well? Thank you? You ain't just 0:13:41.800 --> 0:13:42.800 going hold up? 0:13:42.840 --> 0:13:46.360 Wait a minute, time out, flag on the play? Can 0:13:46.440 --> 0:13:49.240 we just go back to our corners real quick? How 0:13:49.280 --> 0:13:51.040 the fuck are you gonna go from? 0:13:51.440 --> 0:13:54.440 She said? It's audacity for me? Then what makes it 0:13:54.480 --> 0:13:56.960 so bad? As I fell for his y. 0:13:58.640 --> 0:14:02.160 I caught feelings for his dick ass, Jess, I listen 0:14:02.240 --> 0:14:05.920 to your show every time you drop episode. That's just 0:14:05.920 --> 0:14:11.120 how we're gonna end it, baby, all right? 0:14:11.160 --> 0:14:12.360 So she listening right now? 0:14:12.400 --> 0:14:14.320 So I gotta help you. I gotta help you. Boy, 0:14:14.320 --> 0:14:16.320 I get it. And you're so pretty. I'm looking at 0:14:16.360 --> 0:14:19.240 your page, your profile, you so pretty? All right, girl, 0:14:20.000 --> 0:14:22.760 here we go here, it's all right. I'm just gonna 0:14:22.760 --> 0:14:24.840 tell you, don't don't beat yourself up for falling for 0:14:24.920 --> 0:14:26.800 the dinosaur dick girl, Please don't. 0:14:26.960 --> 0:14:28.480 I don't. It's alright. 0:14:28.560 --> 0:14:31.000 Sometimes we get a little weakned knees for a little 0:14:31.000 --> 0:14:34.360 dinosaur dane LINGI it's all right, sorry, I'm glad you 0:14:34.400 --> 0:14:38.840 listened to my episode. My episodes every time I drop one, 0:14:39.200 --> 0:14:41.960 and this one is for you baby. Now we got 0:14:42.000 --> 0:14:44.200 a commercial and if you click off this podcast, I 0:14:44.200 --> 0:14:45.440 swear I'm gonna beat your ass. 0:14:45.720 --> 0:14:49.360 Listen, all right, so. 0:14:49.440 --> 0:14:51.840 You seem to be very smart, all right, and look 0:14:52.480 --> 0:14:53.600 at the three weeks girl. 0:14:53.720 --> 0:14:55.480 Look that's a flex. She had a nigga time about 0:14:55.480 --> 0:14:56.320 he love you, all right. 0:14:56.960 --> 0:15:00.360 What's not a flex is him saying he loves you 0:15:00.880 --> 0:15:03.880 and then following up what all this extra bills and 0:15:03.960 --> 0:15:06.960 expenses bullshit that he got going on? Like he just 0:15:07.040 --> 0:15:10.280 reade drop all of that shit in your lab after 0:15:10.320 --> 0:15:11.080 three weeks. 0:15:11.320 --> 0:15:14.480 So this was either his plan because this is what 0:15:14.600 --> 0:15:15.240 he does. 0:15:16.040 --> 0:15:18.760 He saw you, he know, he know the power of 0:15:18.840 --> 0:15:22.600 his Dino dick, and he just was able to win 0:15:22.720 --> 0:15:23.080 you over. 0:15:23.240 --> 0:15:24.040 You know, we got. 0:15:23.840 --> 0:15:28.120 Guys like that, guys that prey on successful women with 0:15:28.280 --> 0:15:32.640 good hearts who like to save people. This is the 0:15:32.680 --> 0:15:35.600 same girl from the last story put on her save 0:15:35.640 --> 0:15:38.840 a whole cake, and now she and the gutter right 0:15:38.880 --> 0:15:41.960 next to the niggadamnnar in the goddamn gutter with a 0:15:42.000 --> 0:15:45.080 baby taking care of his mother and him, and he'dne 0:15:45.080 --> 0:15:46.840 fucked up her credit. 0:15:46.880 --> 0:15:49.440 Her life is and shambles and all this shit. 0:15:49.600 --> 0:15:52.360 That's what happens when you go from being a superhero 0:15:52.600 --> 0:15:56.000 and now you are a hurt villain. That's some bullshit, 0:15:56.120 --> 0:15:58.640 ain't it. That's like the story of the Joker. Everybody 0:15:58.640 --> 0:16:01.840 got a story, right, Every villain has a story because 0:16:01.840 --> 0:16:05.560 every villain wasn't born bad. They were born great and 0:16:05.600 --> 0:16:08.080 they were actually saving people at first, and then they 0:16:08.120 --> 0:16:10.840 got fucked over, and then that that that hurt people, 0:16:10.920 --> 0:16:14.560 hurt people, shit them kicked in and now you're a villain. Well, 0:16:14.600 --> 0:16:16.800 I don't want you to be a villain, young lady. 0:16:16.920 --> 0:16:17.320 I don't. 0:16:17.600 --> 0:16:19.480 I don't want you to hurt the next nigga because 0:16:19.480 --> 0:16:22.760 this nigga was a trash ball, because that's exactly what 0:16:22.800 --> 0:16:24.840 it is. First of all, I don't doubt that he 0:16:24.880 --> 0:16:27.880 loved you. After three weeks. You probably got good conversation. 0:16:28.000 --> 0:16:30.800 You probably different, you know, with all the shit that 0:16:30.840 --> 0:16:32.120 he told you, Yet you different. 0:16:32.440 --> 0:16:34.120 I ain't never hurting nobody like. 0:16:34.040 --> 0:16:37.720 You, like you really got good pussy pussy like you 0:16:37.800 --> 0:16:39.480 know he probably could have, you know, the match to 0:16:39.560 --> 0:16:40.120 Donald Dick. 0:16:40.160 --> 0:16:42.000 I know you got some nice spicy pussy. 0:16:42.520 --> 0:16:46.760 So y'all, sex life was already booming all right the 0:16:46.840 --> 0:16:49.040 red flag you seem to know. 0:16:49.120 --> 0:16:51.760 I see. I hate giving advice to people who already 0:16:51.760 --> 0:16:52.480 know what the fuck. 0:16:52.400 --> 0:16:55.280 Going on, because you are, like I said, like I 0:16:55.320 --> 0:16:57.600 said in the last story, maybe you just need your 0:16:57.600 --> 0:17:00.840 bullshit regurgitated back to you so you know what you 0:17:00.920 --> 0:17:03.600 need to do. You just need to move the fuck on. 0:17:04.000 --> 0:17:06.199 You said he cooked for you, y'all had drinks and 0:17:06.240 --> 0:17:08.840 you really liked them. That's good. That's a part of 0:17:08.880 --> 0:17:10.960 his plan. That's the part of his plan. The only 0:17:11.000 --> 0:17:12.880 thing he didn't give you was no money. That's because 0:17:12.920 --> 0:17:15.439 he had nail money to give you. You had all 0:17:15.440 --> 0:17:18.679 the money to get back. He ended up billing you 0:17:18.720 --> 0:17:22.080 for that dinner that he cooked for all that Donald 0:17:22.160 --> 0:17:25.400 dingling he'd been dropping off, and them good drinks. That's 0:17:25.480 --> 0:17:28.840 your bill. Now you got a goddamn bill, eighteen hundred dollars. 0:17:28.840 --> 0:17:31.280 You need to help them pay his rent. And this 0:17:31.359 --> 0:17:34.439 is how niggas think. You have two jobs, two kids, 0:17:34.520 --> 0:17:37.720 and a house that you're putting back together. So that 0:17:37.800 --> 0:17:40.119 shit must have got blown down by the last nigga. 0:17:40.160 --> 0:17:41.040 Here come another. 0:17:40.840 --> 0:17:42.680 Nigga trying to blow down this house. 0:17:43.480 --> 0:17:46.040 You're gonna let them, or what you're gonna do you're 0:17:46.040 --> 0:17:48.880 gonna dust off your cap and save your goddamn self. 0:17:48.920 --> 0:17:53.359 Don't keep saving these niggas, bitch and not saying you. 0:17:53.400 --> 0:17:57.760 I'm just speaking into the universe. Stop saving these niggas, bitches. 0:17:58.359 --> 0:18:00.399 That's what I need for y'all to, you know, and 0:18:00.440 --> 0:18:02.080 I can be all nice and wholesome with you. 0:18:02.160 --> 0:18:04.160 Stop saving these guys ladies. 0:18:04.440 --> 0:18:07.359 But y'all don't understand when somebody talked to y'all like that, 0:18:07.800 --> 0:18:10.359 because that's how you fucking almost ended up paying an 0:18:10.400 --> 0:18:13.440 eighteen hundred dollars rent that wasn't mean yours while try 0:18:13.480 --> 0:18:16.240 to put your house back together. So yeah, I'm yelling 0:18:16.240 --> 0:18:18.080 at you because I ain't mad at this nigga. I'm 0:18:18.119 --> 0:18:21.359