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Speaker 1: Welcome guys to another episode of Horrible Decisions. Oh my

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Speaker 1: wonder full goodness, I'm your host. Mandy V and I'm

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Speaker 1: my donut, actually, and not in this context. Do you

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Speaker 1: we know your name, bit with your arrogant as see

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Speaker 1: Like they're tired. Yeah, they're probably start talking about this

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Speaker 1: man for y'all who do not know. He is a

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Speaker 1: former guest on the Pot and last time he joined

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Speaker 1: us we talked about religion. UM. But we are joined

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Speaker 1: messages like oh my god, look what's going on right now?

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Speaker 1: What do I do? And then actually Daniel was the

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Speaker 1: says offensive clothing. I will tell you though, I did

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Speaker 1: She was like, hey, I love your shirt, but do

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Speaker 1: That's an unreasonable risk or annoyance to pass. That is fair.

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Speaker 1: I'm little, so I'll get in my feet like so

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Speaker 1: I take my shoes, I do it. But you're not

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Speaker 1: talking about if there's a chair in front of me

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Speaker 1: like this, No, I'm talking about if I'm in like

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Speaker 1: bare foot, but I also don't normally wear like sandals

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Speaker 1: but I don't do it in two seats where my

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Speaker 1: So here's the question that, yeah, I wanted us all

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Speaker 1: for places where kids are normally Do you think that man,

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Speaker 1: the human body. That's my tape foot them kids go hey,

426
00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:18,879
Speaker 1: go ahead conservative. I can't even I feel bad saying it,

427
00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:20,800
Speaker 1: but like I could see someone being like, you can't

428
00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:22,800
Speaker 1: have your ass out at six Legs or Disney Bro.

429
00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:24,879
Speaker 1: What about you, Dani? I can see happy. I mean,

430
00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:27,080
Speaker 1: I think you have to respect the kids as much

431
00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:29,919
Speaker 1: as possible. I don't know. I feel like the I

432
00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:34,360
Speaker 1: think because like that's just it's gonna I think sometimes

433
00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:36,520
Speaker 1: it attracts like a lot of negative attention, and I

434
00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:38,880
Speaker 1: think that's not good. I think there's an appropriate way

435
00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:42,760
Speaker 1: to dress when you're in kids spaces. That is okay. Now,

436
00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:47,080
Speaker 1: like this girl with like, yeah, I'm fine with this,

437
00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:53,520
Speaker 1: might lose the leather. My kilter isn't a problem with

438
00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:55,080
Speaker 1: the leather is a problem. I don't think it's revealing

439
00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:57,800
Speaker 1: that as long as like my balls are now, I

440
00:22:57,880 --> 00:22:59,960
Speaker 1: just feel like you should be able to wear whatever

441
00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:02,919
Speaker 1: the funk you want to wear, so all kids, well,

442
00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:04,960
Speaker 1: I gotta respect some niglas that ain't come out of

443
00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:06,879
Speaker 1: my coupe minute. I feel like kids also, like what

444
00:23:06,880 --> 00:23:08,880
Speaker 1: our kids save spaces. It's like, are you talking about

445
00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:10,440
Speaker 1: the PTA meeting? Are you talking about like the park?

446
00:23:10,480 --> 00:23:11,920
Speaker 1: Like if I go to the park, like, let people

447
00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:15,280
Speaker 1: wear what they wanted to Central Park. Maybe even like

448
00:23:15,440 --> 00:23:18,720
Speaker 1: maybe I'm going as an adult to ride these motherfucking rides.

449
00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:20,800
Speaker 1: I don't care about the kids. I just feel like

450
00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:24,720
Speaker 1: my mother hunt in my kids differently, And if you're

451
00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:26,639
Speaker 1: young and you really want to, I want to respect

452
00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:28,280
Speaker 1: how people want to raise their kids, you know what

453
00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:30,919
Speaker 1: I mean. The only thing I'm gonna say is I

454
00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:32,399
Speaker 1: had somebody look at me the other day because I

455
00:23:32,400 --> 00:23:34,680
Speaker 1: was saying and I was like, what the fund is

456
00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:37,240
Speaker 1: this wrong? And then I look and I said it

457
00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:38,840
Speaker 1: out loud, like because she really was staring at me.

458
00:23:38,840 --> 00:23:40,159
Speaker 1: I was like, what the fund is her brother and

459
00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:42,639
Speaker 1: I looked down and she had a kid. These kids

460
00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:47,639
Speaker 1: are on TikTok. They've heard, they've heard big, they've they've

461
00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:50,359
Speaker 1: seen some things. Because they now have they start having

462
00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:53,320
Speaker 1: iPads and phones from like three or four years old. Bro,

463
00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:55,120
Speaker 1: you're not gonna sit here and tell me I gotta

464
00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:59,400
Speaker 1: not talk talk. I apologize. And after I apologize because

465
00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:01,160
Speaker 1: I was on the phone all that, I don't even

466
00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:05,600
Speaker 1: know how the funk I said, because it's just like

467
00:24:05,760 --> 00:24:08,560
Speaker 1: maybe I was making her feel uncomfortable. But with my

468
00:24:08,600 --> 00:24:10,080
Speaker 1: friends who have children, I don't know if you guys

469
00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:12,520
Speaker 1: have had this experience a few times with Charter, I'll

470
00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:14,560
Speaker 1: be cursing around her daughter and I'm like, I'm sorry.

471
00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:16,520
Speaker 1: She's like, oh, this is my fucking house. It's okay.

472
00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:19,919
Speaker 1: She can't speak that way, and like that's true. Dear friends,

473
00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:21,720
Speaker 1: like care if your cursing friend their kids or anything.

474
00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:25,840
Speaker 1: No shout out to Stacy. She just got mad. Uh

475
00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:28,200
Speaker 1: I was watching you were talking about Dick in front

476
00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:30,160
Speaker 1: of her kid or something. You said It wasn't Dick.

477
00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:32,280
Speaker 1: I just said, Todd, all the sign is fine, and

478
00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:35,440
Speaker 1: oh he's single now, girl, and I was talking about

479
00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:38,200
Speaker 1: sliding in his DM s her daughter, but it's tied

480
00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:40,840
Speaker 1: all the sign. He's fine. How old is her daughter?

481
00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:45,159
Speaker 1: I think she was thirteen at the time. Fourteen, you

482
00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:48,800
Speaker 1: know what. But she was like, oh my god, Mandy,

483
00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:52,159
Speaker 1: don't be talking about like about her with men looking

484
00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:54,200
Speaker 1: good and guys. And I was like, girls tied out

485
00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:57,200
Speaker 1: of sign which we all grew up liking in sync

486
00:24:57,280 --> 00:24:59,719
Speaker 1: and be two k and all. I told you all,

487
00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:03,760
Speaker 1: we I don't think I would give. She was like, girl, Also,

488
00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:06,120
Speaker 1: I'm like hot mess, auntie, you know what I mean?

489
00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:08,320
Speaker 1: Like my friends no shout out to a J and toy.

490
00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:10,720
Speaker 1: I'm the godmother of their son. And I said to

491
00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:13,359
Speaker 1: her recently, I got really emotional. They're both She works

492
00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:16,200
Speaker 1: in healthcare right he's in marketing and sales, and they've

493
00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:19,000
Speaker 1: got their own house and they're like this perfect black couple.

494
00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:21,640
Speaker 1: And I was like, I feel like I'm a hot

495
00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:24,359
Speaker 1: fucking mess. You are, you know? And she was like

496
00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:26,600
Speaker 1: she was so sweet. She was like, our son is

497
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:29,000
Speaker 1: gonna know what you do, and we know that he's

498
00:25:29,040 --> 00:25:32,520
Speaker 1: going to live a judgment free like life. You know,

499
00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:34,520
Speaker 1: I have a judgment free relationship with you and he

500
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:36,399
Speaker 1: can come to you about anything. And that made me

501
00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:39,879
Speaker 1: feel so appreciated because I do felt like a hope,

502
00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:42,040
Speaker 1: but I want to be a mom's who. I kind

503
00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:43,920
Speaker 1: of become the cousin. Like I'm the oldest cousin, but

504
00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:45,880
Speaker 1: I've become the cousin that all the other cousins come

505
00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:49,959
Speaker 1: to for like sex questions and like straight up when

506
00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:52,680
Speaker 1: I came out as By, three other cousins came out

507
00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:54,800
Speaker 1: as By. So it was like, this nice way. Is

508
00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:57,240
Speaker 1: that a genetic thing? I don't mean what I think

509
00:25:57,280 --> 00:26:02,440
Speaker 1: so because me and all my sisters, then I feel

510
00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:05,560
Speaker 1: like this, I think it's a generational thing. Mandy and

511
00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:08,480
Speaker 1: I when we first reconnected five years ago, I was like, oh,

512
00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:10,480
Speaker 1: what's up with one of her sister's names. She was like,

513
00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:14,680
Speaker 1: oh girl, she gay as hell now And I was like,

514
00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:17,080
Speaker 1: let me go look at it right, So I click

515
00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:20,639
Speaker 1: on Instagram. I said follow back like, damn, she is gay.

516
00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:29,560
Speaker 1: Let's get into our horde or yes now sex tip

517
00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:31,960
Speaker 1: of the week. I do think we should get pass

518
00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:34,200
Speaker 1: it off to you since we're coming as your cousins.

519
00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:36,000
Speaker 1: Think of us all as your cousins. I think it

520
00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:38,880
Speaker 1: could be for couples, singles, or maybe even first time

521
00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:40,520
Speaker 1: or is at your club, just anything that comes to

522
00:26:40,560 --> 00:26:44,040
Speaker 1: mind that you yeah, I'm the first time I was

523
00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:46,800
Speaker 1: coming to the club. Have a conversation with your partner.

524
00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:49,240
Speaker 1: I think it's really important. I think a lot of

525
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:51,840
Speaker 1: people have gotten kind of used to this idea of like, oh, whatever,

526
00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:55,000
Speaker 1: like I'm down for whatever, I'm down for whatever. They

527
00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:57,320
Speaker 1: want to feel like they're they're they're you know, like

528
00:26:57,359 --> 00:27:00,119
Speaker 1: I'm down for whatever, and it's like they are it,

529
00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:02,440
Speaker 1: you know. So I think it's very important to get

530
00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:05,439
Speaker 1: beyond those kind of like baseline, whatever happens happens, like

531
00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:08,080
Speaker 1: let's go with the flow. Stop having those types of

532
00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:11,440
Speaker 1: conversations as vagueness, you would vagueness is not going to

533
00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:14,439
Speaker 1: help pick something small, pick some like easy goal like

534
00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:17,560
Speaker 1: I'd like to make out with another you know woman tonight.

535
00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:20,879
Speaker 1: I'd like to you know, have like this little experience

536
00:27:20,880 --> 00:27:22,520
Speaker 1: and go for that and then if something else happens,

537
00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:24,680
Speaker 1: that's great. But stop with the go with the flow,

538
00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:26,960
Speaker 1: stop with whatever you want, Stop with any of those

539
00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:29,520
Speaker 1: conversations like if your partner is doing that to you,

540
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:32,800
Speaker 1: like stop like no, let's actually I really like I

541
00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:35,520
Speaker 1: like that a lot. I think that, you know, even

542
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:37,960
Speaker 1: Mandy was just saying how she had recently had a

543
00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:39,760
Speaker 1: new conversation with her partner who she's been going to

544
00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:41,679
Speaker 1: the sex club with for a long time. And I

545
00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:45,359
Speaker 1: like hearing that honesty out of couples, because no, it

546
00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:47,680
Speaker 1: can't all be perfect every time you go. There's gonna

547
00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:49,520
Speaker 1: be one thing you talk about, right, Like there has

548
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:51,920
Speaker 1: to be some kind of consent or even checking in.

549
00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:55,480
Speaker 1: You know, how's your when you guys leave the club,

550
00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:59,280
Speaker 1: what's your experience? Like? I mean a lot of the

551
00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:01,240
Speaker 1: times it is me and him, I push him to

552
00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 1: play um more than I don't normally want to play

553
00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:09,000
Speaker 1: with anyone else unless I play with girls. UM. But

554
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:13,199
Speaker 1: we've come to realize we have very different tastes in girls.

555
00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:18,119
Speaker 1: It's so different, Like all always go for like the

556
00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:23,520
Speaker 1: eccentric girl with piercings or like I like black girls

557
00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:26,720
Speaker 1: like and that's who I'm drawn to every time I

558
00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:30,880
Speaker 1: go to the club. And he'll just be like he

559
00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:33,440
Speaker 1: now starts to know who who I'm looking at before

560
00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 1: I even tell him, And I'd be like damn, and

561
00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:38,720
Speaker 1: he's like, I just he knows my type. His type

562
00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:41,800
Speaker 1: is different and so normally I'll just be like, because

563
00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:43,680
Speaker 1: everyone want to climb him. Every time, I'm like, well,

564
00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:48,280
Speaker 1: go for whoever you want. Um, I think we go

565
00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:51,000
Speaker 1: and he wants me to open up more to be

566
00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:54,360
Speaker 1: with other like men, but that's not something I really want,

567
00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:56,840
Speaker 1: so he'll be of course, the men come to him

568
00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:59,920
Speaker 1: with permission, not knowing what we've talked about, and I'm like, well,

569
00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:01,640
Speaker 1: thank you for giving him permission, but I don't want

570
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:04,640
Speaker 1: him so you know what I mean, Like, he'll give

571
00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:06,600
Speaker 1: the go because the men aren't respectful to where they'll

572
00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:09,600
Speaker 1: approach him first, to even before they crossed the line,

573
00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:13,000
Speaker 1: because clearly we come together. Everyone sees that were together. Um.

574
00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:15,800
Speaker 1: But I've had to tell him time and time again.

575
00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:18,120
Speaker 1: I'm good, you fucked me enough. I'll be tired. I

576
00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:20,600
Speaker 1: don't want no more. Yeah no, Like with a man

577
00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:23,480
Speaker 1: like that, it's gonna be hard to like it's the

578
00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:28,160
Speaker 1: dominant reached the top of the mountain. I don't need

579
00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 1: to spend time. Don't call the other man. Well, I

580
00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:38,080
Speaker 1: did have one thing that I thought about, right, um,

581
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:40,040
Speaker 1: when when you were talking today, Like I don't anyone else,

582
00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:43,000
Speaker 1: I don't anyone else. The most dominant guy I've ever

583
00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:46,320
Speaker 1: been with made me feel like that, not because I

584
00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:48,200
Speaker 1: found him those attractive or I was crazy in love

585
00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 1: with him, but like there was something about him that

586
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:53,520
Speaker 1: was making me always submit. Now with old Bay, what's

587
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:56,480
Speaker 1: interesting is I'm not saying he isn't dominant. I totally

588
00:29:56,480 --> 00:29:59,520
Speaker 1: said about during our sex. He's super sexy. I think

589
00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:01,240
Speaker 1: he's one of the best looking man I've ever sucked.

590
00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 1: I love sucking him. I love having three sons with him.

591
00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:05,760
Speaker 1: I think I'm more open to it because he's so

592
00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:08,880
Speaker 1: fucking chill, Like he's not like this. I don't even

593
00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:11,400
Speaker 1: see him get like that with other people. Like he's

594
00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:13,520
Speaker 1: just really laid back, And I wonder if that is

595
00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:15,120
Speaker 1: a little thing in my head that makes it easier

596
00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:17,960
Speaker 1: to be open, because when I've been with dom dom

597
00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:20,360
Speaker 1: dom guys, I'm like, even when they're like you're good

598
00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:24,720
Speaker 1: and be like no, that's the thing too. I think

599
00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:29,920
Speaker 1: it it's funny because it's almost like the don't press

600
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:32,560
Speaker 1: that red button, and because you get told not to

601
00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:34,720
Speaker 1: press that red button, you want to do it. And

602
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:37,280
Speaker 1: so I think because I finally have someone that is

603
00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:40,080
Speaker 1: like you can go and have other dick just you know,

604
00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:43,239
Speaker 1: it has to be protected. Don't be emotional to this

605
00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:45,920
Speaker 1: person like, um, now that I know I have the

606
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:48,640
Speaker 1: freedom to it, just be like, I mean, I'm good,

607
00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:52,320
Speaker 1: I ain't checking for it. Um, yes, so I mean

608
00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:56,600
Speaker 1: there are more conversations happening now. Um. And and you

609
00:30:56,640 --> 00:30:59,280
Speaker 1: know going to the club. When we go to the club,

610
00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:01,760
Speaker 1: do we have to together all the time? Can we go? Not?

611
00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:04,200
Speaker 1: If you go? Is that something that now you need

612
00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:06,800
Speaker 1: to tell me? I mean, these are conversations now, um,

613
00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:08,600
Speaker 1: that are that are coming about because like I said,

614
00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:11,760
Speaker 1: you really don't know how you'll react to something until

615
00:31:12,440 --> 00:31:14,840
Speaker 1: it's there. I think it's just growing pains too. In

616
00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:17,600
Speaker 1: the beginning, you're just like yeah, whatever, and then once

617
00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:21,200
Speaker 1: you're really setting into the seriousness of your relationship, now

618
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:22,800
Speaker 1: you have to tighten it up sometimes because when you're

619
00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:25,000
Speaker 1: so in love, like I really think I forget you

620
00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:27,320
Speaker 1: like that, you know what I mean? Like I've been

621
00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:28,960
Speaker 1: so in love with my partner that I remember in

622
00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:31,000
Speaker 1: a year and a half, he mustn't heard us talking

623
00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:34,720
Speaker 1: about it. Just all right, let's talk about NSF, did

624
00:31:34,920 --> 00:31:41,200
Speaker 1: you so? Um? I do want to ask your best

625
00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:44,280
Speaker 1: experience at NSFW, because you've had it all, tell us

626
00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:48,080
Speaker 1: about the best night you've ever had at your club.

627
00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:50,160
Speaker 1: I mean there's there's always good nights like we do

628
00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:52,640
Speaker 1: all saying say, which is like my birthday. Everyone dresses

629
00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:56,560
Speaker 1: up religiously. It's like this crazy sacrilegious thing. But recently

630
00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:59,480
Speaker 1: we did a boccus, which is like a Roman orgy

631
00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:02,800
Speaker 1: and too Roman bacchanalia. When that was the one with

632
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:05,400
Speaker 1: the flowers, Yeah, it was the Festival of Flora, and

633
00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:08,320
Speaker 1: I had like, honestly, I felt like I had another

634
00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:11,480
Speaker 1: life experience, Like I felt like I had been at

635
00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:15,800
Speaker 1: this party before, but maybe thousands of years ago. I

636
00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:18,280
Speaker 1: just had like this really strange moment of like I

637
00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:20,000
Speaker 1: feel we did this in the woods once and like

638
00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:25,800
Speaker 1: it just there's elements of it that I was pretty high.

639
00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:27,280
Speaker 1: I feel like I met you in the woods, but

640
00:32:27,480 --> 00:32:29,080
Speaker 1: I feel like I met the words and we were

641
00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:34,640
Speaker 1: all think they were goats last I don't know. It

642
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:38,960
Speaker 1: was a weird flashback anyway, So I had, but it

643
00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:41,320
Speaker 1: was just beautiful to watch. I think anything that we've

644
00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:44,320
Speaker 1: been doing after COVID has felt very, very healing and

645
00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:49,600
Speaker 1: much more um Like I can feel how people's spirits

646
00:32:49,600 --> 00:32:52,600
Speaker 1: are changing, on how people's like feelings towards things are changing,

647
00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:55,280
Speaker 1: and I think people kind of come into the space now.

648
00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:57,280
Speaker 1: You know, initially was like it was just you know,

649
00:32:57,360 --> 00:32:59,120
Speaker 1: freedom and fun and like a great place to go.

650
00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:02,480
Speaker 1: And then through COVID, through the lockdown, through the fear,

651
00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:05,400
Speaker 1: through the trauma, now people coming back into the space.

652
00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:08,800
Speaker 1: I can see how impactful it is. So I feel

653
00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:12,760
Speaker 1: a lot more closer to the membership, lot closer to

654
00:33:12,880 --> 00:33:15,080
Speaker 1: what we're doing and what we're trying to accomplish because

655
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:18,200
Speaker 1: I'm seeing how impactful it is after such a big trauma. Now,

656
00:33:18,240 --> 00:33:20,480
Speaker 1: let me ask you, because you know it was real

657
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:25,200
Speaker 1: Judge that I was going to a six club during COVID, Uh,

658
00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:29,400
Speaker 1: what what were the reactions that you felt from members

659
00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:32,280
Speaker 1: or from people in the community that knew that you

660
00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:35,239
Speaker 1: were still open to a sense? I mean, it was

661
00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:37,560
Speaker 1: much more limited. Like I said, when when I was going,

662
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:42,520
Speaker 1: I appreciated the more twelve to twenty people. Fifteen really

663
00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:45,320
Speaker 1: was was about the average. But now, like I've gone

664
00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:48,320
Speaker 1: on nights and like you said, Max, like eighty people

665
00:33:48,320 --> 00:33:50,360
Speaker 1: in and out. There won't be maybe that many any

666
00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:52,440
Speaker 1: at any one point, but in and out because some

667
00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:55,240
Speaker 1: people like the early times, some people come later and

668
00:33:55,280 --> 00:33:57,920
Speaker 1: now it's it's becoming a lot more. But I want

669
00:33:57,920 --> 00:34:01,120
Speaker 1: to ask you again, circling back, what were people's thoughts.

670
00:34:01,120 --> 00:34:04,640
Speaker 1: Did you get any type of slack for keeping it open? Yeah,

671
00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:06,920
Speaker 1: I mean we opened up during phase four when all

672
00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:08,400
Speaker 1: the other sex clubs in New York we're starting to

673
00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:10,120
Speaker 1: open up, and we were because we just saw that

674
00:34:10,160 --> 00:34:13,600
Speaker 1: in New York. When the other like what does that

675
00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:20,239
Speaker 1: mean indoor dining as well? Indoor dining it into dining.

676
00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 1: I think those coss into dining. I'm pretty sure you're

677
00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:29,600
Speaker 1: eating something, you're eating out, but you're in so no,

678
00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:31,200
Speaker 1: I mean, I think there were some people who were

679
00:34:31,200 --> 00:34:34,760
Speaker 1: concerned when we reopened. It was in communication with the membership.

680
00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:37,560
Speaker 1: Hey for doing this. If you've had COVID, if you

681
00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:39,960
Speaker 1: you feel safe, if you've been in quarantine. I think

682
00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:42,560
Speaker 1: for a lot of people like there there's a couple

683
00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:44,400
Speaker 1: of privilege. I was coming through COVID, Like you have

684
00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:46,560
Speaker 1: a partner, you have someone who you're having sex with regularly.

685
00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:48,920
Speaker 1: They have single people who are like six months no touch,

686
00:34:49,280 --> 00:34:51,920
Speaker 1: you know, six months no interaction, six months no sex.

687
00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:54,080
Speaker 1: And for a lot of those people who were being

688
00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:56,919
Speaker 1: responsible and saying home and like this is the only

689
00:34:56,960 --> 00:34:59,600
Speaker 1: other place they're going to, you know, like then it's fine,

690
00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:02,319
Speaker 1: come be here at least be around people and like

691
00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:05,799
Speaker 1: get that feeling. Um, so I was really doing it

692
00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:08,520
Speaker 1: for them, Like I think during COVID, I got a

693
00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:10,600
Speaker 1: lot of those dark messages. I got a lot of

694
00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:13,439
Speaker 1: those you know, people kind of like feeling like it's

695
00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:15,719
Speaker 1: not going to end, feeling like things are getting worse,

696
00:35:15,800 --> 00:35:18,799
Speaker 1: or losing their jobs, or just doing drugs way too much,

697
00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:21,319
Speaker 1: like a lot of excessive drug use through COVID that

698
00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:24,000
Speaker 1: members were kind of you know, joking about. But it's

699
00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:26,680
Speaker 1: also like, you know, it's Monday, like mid afternoon, you

700
00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:29,520
Speaker 1: shouldn't be cooked up right now. So there was a

701
00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:33,320
Speaker 1: lot of things where I was becoming afraid of losing people.

702
00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:35,480
Speaker 1: And I think when you get so close to a

703
00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:37,520
Speaker 1: group people and you're having sex and you're friends of

704
00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:40,560
Speaker 1: friends and everyone's connected, like one loss does ripple and

705
00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:43,040
Speaker 1: it does feel and like early on in COVID, I

706
00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:45,600
Speaker 1: had a friend who died from um overdose, which was

707
00:35:45,680 --> 00:35:47,799
Speaker 1: very very difficult, and it was like the loneliness and

708
00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:49,839
Speaker 1: the sadness. So you know, I know there was people

709
00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:52,399
Speaker 1: who felt like it was unsafe to open but we

710
00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:54,160
Speaker 1: did it in the ways that we could do it

711
00:35:54,200 --> 00:35:56,640
Speaker 1: as safe as possible, so that people at least have

712
00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:59,400
Speaker 1: a place to be, you know, and it's like something familiar,

713
00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:01,759
Speaker 1: like everything was taken away. New York was really really

714
00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:03,919
Speaker 1: New York was really dark, and it was really dark.

715
00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:07,200
Speaker 1: So it's like just a little bit of hope I

716
00:36:07,239 --> 00:36:09,640
Speaker 1: felt was important. You know. We didn't bake much money.

717
00:36:09,640 --> 00:36:11,600
Speaker 1: It was something to just keep it open and do.

718
00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:14,239
Speaker 1: But um, I don't know, I think when you're getting

719
00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:17,839
Speaker 1: those that too. Yeah, Like it felt embarrassing to admit that.

720
00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:20,560
Speaker 1: I didn't realize how much of my identity was not

721
00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:23,560
Speaker 1: going out but more social interaction. And when we moved

722
00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:26,600
Speaker 1: to Mexico, Um, I mean, granted, it was cheapest to

723
00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:28,040
Speaker 1: live there, right, so it wasn't like it was this

724
00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:30,560
Speaker 1: big elaborate thing. But I went to a jungle party.

725
00:36:30,600 --> 00:36:32,640
Speaker 1: Maybe fifty people were there. I was holding hands with

726
00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:34,400
Speaker 1: people I didn't know. I wasn't even high. I'm like,

727
00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:36,840
Speaker 1: I know I did get high them, right, but it

728
00:36:36,920 --> 00:36:39,400
Speaker 1: was really like, oh my god, Like we get to

729
00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:41,239
Speaker 1: hear music, we get to be together. When you're that

730
00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:44,800
Speaker 1: person and it's taken from you. Even with us Mandy

731
00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:48,400
Speaker 1: and I were touring, bro like, we really enjoy our fans,

732
00:36:48,480 --> 00:36:51,839
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, and a lot of people know,

733
00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:55,480
Speaker 1: you know, we argue and fight a lot, and the

734
00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:59,840
Speaker 1: fucking fans really hold us together. So it was just

735
00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:05,439
Speaker 1: co I'm surprised the show made it through. We would

736
00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:08,480
Speaker 1: talking through lawyers a couple of months. I hated her.

737
00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:12,160
Speaker 1: Then yeah it was now that part's over and yeah

738
00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:15,440
Speaker 1: we're not there anywhere, but like, no, it feels really

739
00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:18,120
Speaker 1: crazy when that is taken from you, and like I

740
00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:20,080
Speaker 1: could see that it sounds very frivo list. I could

741
00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:23,360
Speaker 1: understand again why people think it's frivolous. It's like but

742
00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:25,560
Speaker 1: even for me, like I had such a fucking like

743
00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:28,759
Speaker 1: just Cliff, you know, like doing you know, we do

744
00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:30,680
Speaker 1: three parties a week. It's like three sex parties. That

745
00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:33,680
Speaker 1: energy is like they're three nights a week for five years,

746
00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:36,399
Speaker 1: like over five sex parties that I've hosted. And then

747
00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:39,080
Speaker 1: she just feel like, yeah, we've hostedly, we've been around

748
00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:42,160
Speaker 1: for five years. Three parties a week, you know, it's

749
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:44,560
Speaker 1: it's a lot, and plus sometimes five parties a week,

750
00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:47,480
Speaker 1: like you know, we're constantly developing into doing, so you know,

751
00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:50,440
Speaker 1: to go from that feeling of like that energy. It's

752
00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:52,840
Speaker 1: like it's like a battery. It feels like every party

753
00:37:52,920 --> 00:37:55,640
Speaker 1: like it recharges you. And it's like to see people happy,

754
00:37:55,719 --> 00:37:57,840
Speaker 1: to see people sexually, happy to see people exploring, to

755
00:37:57,880 --> 00:38:00,400
Speaker 1: see people you know on their sexual journe is like

756
00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:03,680
Speaker 1: really flourishing. And then to cut that all off for me,

757
00:38:03,719 --> 00:38:08,240
Speaker 1: it was like ship some crazy ship. So um, tonight

758
00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:11,120
Speaker 1: Your Sex Sells episode premieres. Hopefully we're all watching at

759
00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:15,799
Speaker 1: the clubhouse together. In there literally the conversation had so

760
00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:20,120
Speaker 1: Daniel is the only episode where it is no celebrities,

761
00:38:20,160 --> 00:38:23,840
Speaker 1: completely one business. Okay, I really and we all felt

762
00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:26,800
Speaker 1: like we have to explore this right. People think it's illegal,

763
00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:30,319
Speaker 1: and I want you to talk about that because it

764
00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:33,680
Speaker 1: seems like we're always being secretive about it. Even in

765
00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:36,240
Speaker 1: this moment, we're being secretive about It's not like you

766
00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:37,960
Speaker 1: want to go to the clubhouse. And I was like,

767
00:38:38,200 --> 00:38:47,120
Speaker 1: can I say, but like, is there a yeah, can

768
00:38:47,120 --> 00:38:51,200
Speaker 1: you tell us about how is this fucking place legal? Yeah?

769
00:38:51,239 --> 00:38:53,480
Speaker 1: I mean, look, the government has no right to tell

770
00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:55,160
Speaker 1: you how you should fuck and who you should suck

771
00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:56,480
Speaker 1: and how many of those people you should sork at

772
00:38:56,520 --> 00:38:59,600
Speaker 1: one time. That's it like your bedroom is your you know,

773
00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:03,239
Speaker 1: your your bedroom is your space. I mean, there's there's regulations,

774
00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:05,320
Speaker 1: there's laws, there's things that you have to put in place.

775
00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:08,279
Speaker 1: We operate as a private member's club. Because of that,

776
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:11,399
Speaker 1: we have different rules that we have to kind of follow. Um,

777
00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:14,160
Speaker 1: it's almost like operating a golf club and it's legal

778
00:39:14,239 --> 00:39:18,000
Speaker 1: because you don't charge for sex. Yeah exactly. But even now,

779
00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:21,360
Speaker 1: like now prostitution and massage polers are not getting criminalized

780
00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:23,439
Speaker 1: in New York. You know, there's a lot more talk

781
00:39:23,480 --> 00:39:27,160
Speaker 1: around you know, actual decriminalization and prostitution becoming legal. So

782
00:39:27,280 --> 00:39:29,680
Speaker 1: there is even if we did do that, it still

783
00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:33,320
Speaker 1: wouldn't be illegal technically, or we still wouldn't get prosecuted

784
00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:35,800
Speaker 1: for it. Um. It more falls into like random stuff

785
00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:37,600
Speaker 1: like trafficking if you like, bring someone from another state

786
00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:39,840
Speaker 1: and stuff. So here's the thing with with the sex

787
00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:43,560
Speaker 1: club that I was going The sex club that I

788
00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:47,080
Speaker 1: was going to beforehand wasn't members only. So are there

789
00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:50,840
Speaker 1: different guidelines from something that's maybe just more secretive. Would

790
00:39:50,840 --> 00:39:53,120
Speaker 1: that be considered illegal because that is the one that

791
00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:56,400
Speaker 1: I mean, they had COVID violations with so many people.

792
00:39:56,800 --> 00:39:59,680
Speaker 1: But I want to know then, how does a member's

793
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:04,120
Speaker 1: only situation differ legally from one that is not members only?

794
00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:06,440
Speaker 1: I mean nothing in particular. It's more about you know,

795
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:10,319
Speaker 1: getting city approval for opening up spaces. So when it's

796
00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:12,719
Speaker 1: a private members club, when it's members only, you can

797
00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:15,319
Speaker 1: operate out of like live work spaces for places that

798
00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:17,799
Speaker 1: you live in, which gives you certain legal protections, like

799
00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:21,080
Speaker 1: they can't just bust into your home and what's going on.

800
00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:24,080
Speaker 1: So those things kind of protect us. But if it's

801
00:40:24,120 --> 00:40:26,520
Speaker 1: a you know, a club on the street, like a

802
00:40:26,520 --> 00:40:29,240
Speaker 1: Caligula or something like that, like they have a liquor license,

803
00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:31,600
Speaker 1: they have like parties, they have things coming in, they

804
00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:33,800
Speaker 1: have regulations, have to worry about with the fire department,

805
00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:37,120
Speaker 1: they have zoning rules that they have to consider because

806
00:40:37,160 --> 00:40:41,920
Speaker 1: of the way I didn't. Have you ever had a

807
00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:44,440
Speaker 1: cop knock on the door and have no idea that

808
00:40:44,480 --> 00:40:45,960
Speaker 1: what you're doing is legal. Have you had to teach

809
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:48,880
Speaker 1: a cop before? I mean I've been arrested, Like honestly,

810
00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:51,440
Speaker 1: we got rated in the old clubhouse. The cops like

811
00:40:51,560 --> 00:40:54,840
Speaker 1: came in without a warrant. The fire like someone from

812
00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:56,600
Speaker 1: acting like they were from the fire department came in

813
00:40:56,960 --> 00:40:59,359
Speaker 1: and then invited like forty cops to like walk through

814
00:40:59,360 --> 00:41:02,239
Speaker 1: our space. These fucking police officers walked through. They were

815
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:05,680
Speaker 1: like this must be his rape room. Like like really,

816
00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:08,040
Speaker 1: they were like, this man needs Jesus. He needs to

817
00:41:08,040 --> 00:41:12,399
Speaker 1: go to God already, Like me and Jesus are good.

818
00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:15,200
Speaker 1: Was really saying that. Yeah, I know, it was disgusting.

819
00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:17,279
Speaker 1: It was like it was just forty police officers just

820
00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:20,120
Speaker 1: kind of raided through and we didn't have anything illegal happening,

821
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:22,200
Speaker 1: but I had like a little bit of weed inside

822
00:41:22,239 --> 00:41:25,160
Speaker 1: my bag. And then before the localization, no, no, it

823
00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:27,399
Speaker 1: was legal New York being to decriminalized for a while

824
00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:29,759
Speaker 1: in terms of animis, they're not supposed to prosecute, but

825
00:41:29,840 --> 00:41:31,640
Speaker 1: they that's what they got me on. So like we're

826
00:41:31,640 --> 00:41:34,959
Speaker 1: going to rescue for this weed like an ounce were

827
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:37,200
Speaker 1: was it open or was there a party going on? No,

828
00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:40,400
Speaker 1: this was me alone in the clubhouse. Them rating in

829
00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:43,240
Speaker 1: forty police officers without a warrant coming through the space,

830
00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:46,520
Speaker 1: looking through everything, took all our equipment, hook card computers,

831
00:41:46,560 --> 00:41:50,040
Speaker 1: took all this ship, arrested me and like said it

832
00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:52,799
Speaker 1: was a rape room. Yeah, they were like this must

833
00:41:52,800 --> 00:41:54,920
Speaker 1: be his rape room. As safe as you try to

834
00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:56,960
Speaker 1: keep people that would have that would have hurt my feelingly. Yeah,

835
00:41:57,200 --> 00:41:59,439
Speaker 1: it was really hurtful. And like you know, they got

836
00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:01,600
Speaker 1: you know, arrested on something stupid and then I have

837
00:42:01,680 --> 00:42:04,000
Speaker 1: to like go to jail. Was in like jail for

838
00:42:04,040 --> 00:42:06,040
Speaker 1: like twenty four hours almost, and like you know, I

839
00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:07,719
Speaker 1: had to deal with all legal fees and everything else

840
00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:09,000
Speaker 1: like that. It got us kicked out of the space

841
00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:12,640
Speaker 1: because they're like, you're operating like illegal operations with drugs

842
00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:14,439
Speaker 1: and it's like I had some pot in my bag,

843
00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:16,319
Speaker 1: Like you need to like calm the funk down. This

844
00:42:16,360 --> 00:42:19,680
Speaker 1: is obviously a gross misuse of power. Um, But that's

845
00:42:19,680 --> 00:42:21,960
Speaker 1: how it is sometimes, I think for this space now,

846
00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:24,600
Speaker 1: because you know, we were very good friends with the building,

847
00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:26,680
Speaker 1: we're very good friends with the owners. Like we've been

848
00:42:26,680 --> 00:42:28,439
Speaker 1: operating now for a year and a half. We haven't

849
00:42:28,480 --> 00:42:31,040
Speaker 1: had a single issue with police officers, um. And then

850
00:42:31,080 --> 00:42:33,120
Speaker 1: we just got smarter about it where we just invited

851
00:42:33,120 --> 00:42:34,920
Speaker 1: more police officers to be members, and that's kind of

852
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:37,320
Speaker 1: protected us. You said, y'all can just come here and

853
00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:39,680
Speaker 1: get your dick sets and leave us alone, you know what,

854
00:42:39,760 --> 00:42:43,279
Speaker 1: take your badge off or make it a little day. Now.

855
00:42:43,320 --> 00:42:45,160
Speaker 1: It's like if you invite someone police, and they were like,

856
00:42:45,200 --> 00:42:47,200
Speaker 1: let you know, like, okay, here's what's going on in

857
00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:49,560
Speaker 1: the area, here's what's being said. But we, you know,

858
00:42:49,640 --> 00:42:51,759
Speaker 1: we keep the noise low. That's the main reason that

859
00:42:51,800 --> 00:43:01,520
Speaker 1: they would ever come. And I put this is music.

860
00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:07,920
Speaker 1: I was like, you do be having a good music, Okay,

861
00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:10,680
Speaker 1: So I want to know about an accident or an

862
00:43:10,680 --> 00:43:13,760
Speaker 1: injury that's happening in Has a doctor ever been fucking

863
00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:15,799
Speaker 1: they had to run over and help somebody, Like what

864
00:43:15,880 --> 00:43:18,719
Speaker 1: kind of injuries have happened? Not miss stuck and you

865
00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:20,480
Speaker 1: had to help get it out of anything like that.

866
00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:23,000
Speaker 1: You imagine there's some crazy things we don't have. The

867
00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:27,040
Speaker 1: super Bowl fell. Oh my god, it's actually happened recently. No,

868
00:43:27,520 --> 00:43:29,920
Speaker 1: some girl like kind of like ran up and jumped

869
00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:32,400
Speaker 1: on it or something and like kind of pulled it

870
00:43:32,440 --> 00:43:34,839
Speaker 1: down and like that thing came down and it has

871
00:43:34,880 --> 00:43:37,319
Speaker 1: like this big disc and I just like watch it

872
00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:39,840
Speaker 1: fall maybe like six inches away from a couple of

873
00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:43,560
Speaker 1: fucking I was like, you could have fucking decapitated someone

874
00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:49,920
Speaker 1: Like this is scary. Yeah, that was bad. No, you

875
00:43:50,400 --> 00:43:55,880
Speaker 1: running now, we don't leave it up anymore. It's like

876
00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:58,759
Speaker 1: it goes out for performances. It comes down out of

877
00:43:58,840 --> 00:44:01,520
Speaker 1: the performances. Yeah, they kept it like they almost died

878
00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:05,080
Speaker 1: and she's still coming and I'm like, good for you, girl,

879
00:44:05,200 --> 00:44:08,840
Speaker 1: good for you. I think we said she you liked that.

880
00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:12,560
Speaker 1: Didn't you feel like you wanted to die before? She

881
00:44:12,640 --> 00:44:16,359
Speaker 1: wanted to be drowned or something? I remember you, I said,

882
00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:21,839
Speaker 1: I can see how how people like like I said,

883
00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:25,000
Speaker 1: she said she wanted to be trown? Did Jamaica or something?

884
00:44:25,040 --> 00:44:31,239
Speaker 1: Want being Jamaica water? We had it was aquaphilia? Was

885
00:44:31,239 --> 00:44:33,200
Speaker 1: that it again? We did a kink of the week.

886
00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:34,560
Speaker 1: I was like, I could see if you're working in

887
00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:37,480
Speaker 1: the water. And then I think we came up and

888
00:44:37,480 --> 00:44:40,439
Speaker 1: then you just like not like a little in and out.

889
00:44:40,640 --> 00:44:44,000
Speaker 1: She's like, you want to die? Mandy Ryan is the

890
00:44:44,040 --> 00:44:47,000
Speaker 1: way extreme ship all the time. For example, what do

891
00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:48,960
Speaker 1: I do? I say I have sex in my period?

892
00:44:49,000 --> 00:44:59,880
Speaker 1: She's like, wheezy and comes your blood plain night was

893
00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:05,280
Speaker 1: said another one. Bitch doing me like that, bro, because

894
00:45:05,719 --> 00:45:09,120
Speaker 1: this is how you say because I just received she

895
00:45:09,200 --> 00:45:11,959
Speaker 1: said in front of sucking scissors one time, Um, who's

896
00:45:11,960 --> 00:45:14,759
Speaker 1: my ex girlfriend? We call her scissors? Happen? We were like,

897
00:45:14,920 --> 00:45:17,000
Speaker 1: uh when she came in we shout out to Tye.

898
00:45:17,040 --> 00:45:19,520
Speaker 1: We read his studio a few times recording to Harlem

899
00:45:19,560 --> 00:45:20,920
Speaker 1: and she walked in. She was like, she's beating your

900
00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:28,839
Speaker 1: pussy in her period that Yeah. She was just like,

901
00:45:29,000 --> 00:45:31,480
Speaker 1: what do you mean telling her it's okay? It's no

902
00:45:31,600 --> 00:45:34,239
Speaker 1: worse than fucking fellon Bay coming to a live show

903
00:45:34,239 --> 00:45:38,239
Speaker 1: and she's saying, oh, you're felling Bay, Bro, you call

904
00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:40,239
Speaker 1: this nigga fell into his face. I don't call him

905
00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:45,360
Speaker 1: a fell into his face. I said felling Bay because

906
00:45:45,400 --> 00:45:47,239
Speaker 1: people come up to my boyfriend maybe like, or are

907
00:45:47,239 --> 00:45:49,359
Speaker 1: you old Bay, old Bay. It's not as bad as

908
00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:54,280
Speaker 1: talking about someone's criminal record, literally what you are? Or old?

909
00:45:56,040 --> 00:46:00,320
Speaker 1: Are you not? Old? Bro? Was old? We was in

910
00:46:00,360 --> 00:46:06,279
Speaker 1: our twenties and everything, man, So we didn't give my

911
00:46:06,360 --> 00:46:08,880
Speaker 1: nigga nickname. Oh Bay, Bro, do you know how? And

912
00:46:09,120 --> 00:46:10,879
Speaker 1: people the first thing they say like, oh my god,

913
00:46:10,920 --> 00:46:13,840
Speaker 1: you do not eat my nigga. My man. My boyfriend

914
00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:19,520
Speaker 1: Treay when we hid. One of the girls at the

915
00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:24,759
Speaker 1: club calls him Refrigerator because he's like as big as

916
00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:27,000
Speaker 1: the refrigerator and his sex. Bro, this is him. He

917
00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:30,200
Speaker 1: does not look for D three, obviously, but Mandy fucking

918
00:46:30,239 --> 00:46:34,080
Speaker 1: calls him old bay and it's like, brat, I mind

919
00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:36,320
Speaker 1: the fact that we don't have a nickname for her boyfriend.

920
00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:39,120
Speaker 1: Lisa Anne is here and I'm like, oh my god.

921
00:46:39,160 --> 00:46:40,839
Speaker 1: Maybe I'm like pleasen't like her say my nigg again,

922
00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:43,359
Speaker 1: me my nigga, And I'm like, oh, I can't say

923
00:46:43,440 --> 00:46:45,640
Speaker 1: nigga because she white on the couch. I sometimes that's

924
00:46:45,680 --> 00:46:49,040
Speaker 1: not uncomfortable when like they know they can't say it. Yeah,

925
00:46:49,080 --> 00:46:53,279
Speaker 1: that's it's really important. I want to make them feel uncomfortable.

926
00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:56,800
Speaker 1: Maybe people feel uncomfortable with all of our lives and

927
00:46:56,960 --> 00:46:58,880
Speaker 1: Lisa sitting there, like when I have sex with brothers,

928
00:47:03,080 --> 00:47:08,800
Speaker 1: she said, with her, we want to have lunch. She

929
00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:13,839
Speaker 1: did this whole like we did Smar erotica, where it's

930
00:47:13,880 --> 00:47:15,879
Speaker 1: like we had to been adorable with that. She was great.

931
00:47:15,920 --> 00:47:17,879
Speaker 1: We wrote the scripts of their porn, so we found

932
00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:19,480
Speaker 1: one of their best scenes and like wrote this whole

933
00:47:19,520 --> 00:47:21,399
Speaker 1: erotic story around it, and then they had to read

934
00:47:21,440 --> 00:47:23,799
Speaker 1: it while it was like playing behind them and herd

935
00:47:23,840 --> 00:47:27,439
Speaker 1: just spilling all the secrets of like what's happening behind

936
00:47:27,480 --> 00:47:30,279
Speaker 1: the scenes, like this guy who are never fucking real life,

937
00:47:30,440 --> 00:47:35,560
Speaker 1: like just straight up like damn, she is so tiny,

938
00:47:35,640 --> 00:47:38,280
Speaker 1: and adorable and she I don't know who she reminds

939
00:47:38,320 --> 00:47:39,759
Speaker 1: me of her. I don't want to use the word.

940
00:47:40,200 --> 00:47:43,120
Speaker 1: It's very like sisterly, like whenever she's excited about something,

941
00:47:43,160 --> 00:47:46,239
Speaker 1: she would touch many. You can say Aunty. I was

942
00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:53,600
Speaker 1: gonna say that. I was. I was like Aunty, making

943
00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:59,520
Speaker 1: Auntie negative. I don't like anyway technically, really, Auntie, have

944
00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:02,960
Speaker 1: you ever been embarrassed in front of your members? Yes?

945
00:48:03,320 --> 00:48:06,440
Speaker 1: All the time? Nice, you know, I mean I think

946
00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:10,680
Speaker 1: like there's like the experience of nice early on, and

947
00:48:10,760 --> 00:48:14,000
Speaker 1: now the experience now. It's like like if I start

948
00:48:14,080 --> 00:48:17,279
Speaker 1: having sex, I like almost know there's going to be

949
00:48:17,320 --> 00:48:20,719
Speaker 1: a crowd around afterwards, which feels a little bit like

950
00:48:20,800 --> 00:48:23,320
Speaker 1: because it's you. Yeah, it's a little intimidating. People like

951
00:48:23,360 --> 00:48:25,160
Speaker 1: cheer you on and stuff. And it's like I don't

952
00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:28,600
Speaker 1: mind that so much, but like I don't want that.

953
00:48:29,920 --> 00:48:32,040
Speaker 1: He's like, focus on your own stuff. But sometimes it's

954
00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:39,440
Speaker 1: like a little like sometimes something they do they do

955
00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:41,880
Speaker 1: form like like a little moment. That's why I have

956
00:48:42,000 --> 00:48:44,280
Speaker 1: sex in the back rooms. I'm like, I sneak around.

957
00:48:44,600 --> 00:48:50,840
Speaker 1: I'll be in the bathroom where you were. Let there'll

958
00:48:50,920 --> 00:48:53,200
Speaker 1: be in his crotch, or like we like we've played

959
00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:57,160
Speaker 1: and he's noticed crowds form sometimes around us, and he's

960
00:48:57,239 --> 00:49:00,120
Speaker 1: just like, because you're in action, Oh yeah, we've like

961
00:49:00,320 --> 00:49:02,600
Speaker 1: he knows every time I come from in action, Um,

962
00:49:02,880 --> 00:49:04,440
Speaker 1: most of most of the part, the last couple of times.

963
00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:08,960
Speaker 1: Every time I that every time I arrive, I will

964
00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:12,440
Speaker 1: say for Daniel. If I go in and know I

965
00:49:12,560 --> 00:49:16,520
Speaker 1: have the opportunity to deal with another man, it's always

966
00:49:16,520 --> 00:49:18,600
Speaker 1: a man that's there for Daniel, and I'd be like, God,

967
00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:20,840
Speaker 1: damn this they I don't even want me here for Daniel.

968
00:49:21,360 --> 00:49:25,720
Speaker 1: Daniel be dealing with some fine as men. My god,

969
00:49:26,280 --> 00:49:28,160
Speaker 1: I've noticed one. I did. I did make out with

970
00:49:28,200 --> 00:49:31,920
Speaker 1: one of your booze. But but they just be so

971
00:49:32,040 --> 00:49:35,799
Speaker 1: good looking, Like, damn you you just be pulling them, don't.

972
00:49:36,520 --> 00:49:38,160
Speaker 1: I'll be giving him my five. Have you ever had

973
00:49:38,200 --> 00:49:43,480
Speaker 1: the fight over you? Literally? I think we had somebody

974
00:49:43,560 --> 00:49:53,000
Speaker 1: on Jesus all write yours. Oh wait all right, and

975
00:49:53,080 --> 00:49:59,120
Speaker 1: if you want to come take them into Mark so um,

976
00:49:59,320 --> 00:50:01,839
Speaker 1: I mean the list of people we wanted on sex cells, right,

977
00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:03,880
Speaker 1: people we had to have on Oh, I already know

978
00:50:03,920 --> 00:50:05,520
Speaker 1: who you're talking about. No, No, I'm not gonna say

979
00:50:05,520 --> 00:50:08,480
Speaker 1: that person name but Daniel Um then gave them it

980
00:50:08,600 --> 00:50:10,560
Speaker 1: was very helpful, gave a list. They were like, hey,

981
00:50:10,640 --> 00:50:12,160
Speaker 1: we're kind of still looking for this person or some

982
00:50:12,200 --> 00:50:13,920
Speaker 1: of the people weren't available right like King Nawa and

983
00:50:14,040 --> 00:50:16,880
Speaker 1: Jazz couldn't make it, and so he was making a

984
00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:18,360
Speaker 1: short list as well. He was like, these people are

985
00:50:18,400 --> 00:50:20,320
Speaker 1: great in the community and he was helping out Fuse

986
00:50:21,000 --> 00:50:24,520
Speaker 1: Fuse is an interview with one that they then called me.

987
00:50:24,600 --> 00:50:26,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, I saw that he put this down

988
00:50:26,239 --> 00:50:28,400
Speaker 1: and we're gonna go with them. They're like, well, we

989
00:50:28,520 --> 00:50:32,319
Speaker 1: interviewed this person and they were just very emotional about

990
00:50:32,400 --> 00:50:37,759
Speaker 1: Daniel a lot to say, and like literally one of

991
00:50:37,800 --> 00:50:39,960
Speaker 1: the producers like we couldn't even ask them a question

992
00:50:40,040 --> 00:50:42,880
Speaker 1: outside of Daniel and they would just bring it right

993
00:50:42,920 --> 00:50:45,000
Speaker 1: back up. And she was like, so we think we're

994
00:50:45,000 --> 00:50:48,720
Speaker 1: going to remove them from the list. I was like, okay,

995
00:50:49,080 --> 00:50:52,480
Speaker 1: falling in love with you, I don't mean it's not intentional,

996
00:50:53,200 --> 00:50:59,759
Speaker 1: that's what he sent you the list. Yeah, we can't.

997
00:50:59,800 --> 00:51:01,920
Speaker 1: We're just so we'll just go on the one underneath.

998
00:51:04,239 --> 00:51:07,920
Speaker 1: That's funny. No, I will say, like I love the

999
00:51:08,080 --> 00:51:11,680
Speaker 1: freedom that you have Um as someone who's bisexual, to

1000
00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:14,239
Speaker 1: have your partners not only be aware of each other,

1001
00:51:14,360 --> 00:51:17,359
Speaker 1: be in the same rooms together. You do show each

1002
00:51:17,440 --> 00:51:19,560
Speaker 1: of them attention as much as you can. But what

1003
00:51:19,640 --> 00:51:23,839
Speaker 1: about your boyfriend? Wild and my boyfriends just got back.

1004
00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:26,279
Speaker 1: Probably shouldn't talk about him, but I will say that

1005
00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:29,880
Speaker 1: we're working through certain things good because he's fine. I

1006
00:51:29,960 --> 00:51:31,640
Speaker 1: know he's helping people and I love him. He's like

1007
00:51:31,760 --> 00:51:35,279
Speaker 1: he's an amazing person and I really do like love him. Um,

1008
00:51:35,920 --> 00:51:38,080
Speaker 1: but yeah, it's like he's been away in Saint Martin,

1009
00:51:38,239 --> 00:51:40,719
Speaker 1: like he's still not here, so it's really hard to

1010
00:51:40,760 --> 00:51:42,560
Speaker 1: do the long distance and then to come back here

1011
00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:45,480
Speaker 1: after like three months not being here, Like all right,

1012
00:51:45,560 --> 00:51:47,040
Speaker 1: I need to give you the roster, like I need

1013
00:51:47,120 --> 00:51:49,800
Speaker 1: to like go through like here's everyone, like you know,

1014
00:51:49,840 --> 00:51:53,040
Speaker 1: getting more comfortable with that and I use first experience

1015
00:51:53,080 --> 00:51:55,239
Speaker 1: with openness. No, No, he was probably before and we

1016
00:51:55,280 --> 00:51:56,839
Speaker 1: were dating when I was like, you know, I had

1017
00:51:56,920 --> 00:51:59,600
Speaker 1: my fiance and stuff, like we were sot dating. So

1018
00:51:59,760 --> 00:52:03,000
Speaker 1: like I've always had multiple partners and stuff, some more

1019
00:52:03,040 --> 00:52:04,840
Speaker 1: serious than others, but this one in particular is like

1020
00:52:04,920 --> 00:52:07,920
Speaker 1: more serious. So it's kind of navigating through and like

1021
00:52:08,080 --> 00:52:10,120
Speaker 1: dealing with those things of jealousy and those feelings and

1022
00:52:10,360 --> 00:52:14,600
Speaker 1: do you ever get it? I mean, I don't. I

1023
00:52:14,680 --> 00:52:17,560
Speaker 1: think like, once someone's like not interested in me or

1024
00:52:17,560 --> 00:52:20,000
Speaker 1: it doesn't feel interested in me, I let them go

1025
00:52:20,360 --> 00:52:22,880
Speaker 1: like I'm not I'm not someone to be like, oh,

1026
00:52:22,920 --> 00:52:25,680
Speaker 1: I'm so upset. I'm like, I'm happy for them finding someone,

1027
00:52:25,800 --> 00:52:28,440
Speaker 1: you know, I'm happy for them kind of being with someone. Eventually,

1028
00:52:28,480 --> 00:52:30,800
Speaker 1: I do want to have like my two partners, my

1029
00:52:31,360 --> 00:52:34,480
Speaker 1: husband and wife. I want to have like I was

1030
00:52:34,600 --> 00:52:37,040
Speaker 1: like when he said eventually I want to have I

1031
00:52:37,160 --> 00:52:40,719
Speaker 1: was ready for like my my two partners. I still

1032
00:52:42,560 --> 00:52:44,200
Speaker 1: he really said it was like it was a be singular.

1033
00:52:48,640 --> 00:52:51,560
Speaker 1: While we're speaking of bi sexuality before we get out

1034
00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:53,440
Speaker 1: of here, and of course we want you have another

1035
00:52:53,480 --> 00:52:54,920
Speaker 1: show coming and we want to talk more about and

1036
00:52:54,920 --> 00:52:56,920
Speaker 1: a stuff debut at the end. But I wanted to

1037
00:52:56,960 --> 00:52:59,160
Speaker 1: get to our homemail because this is what I've been

1038
00:52:59,200 --> 00:53:02,279
Speaker 1: trying to actually do and we just haven't made. It's

1039
00:53:02,320 --> 00:53:04,279
Speaker 1: a wholemail and so long, so I wanted to have

1040
00:53:04,400 --> 00:53:07,200
Speaker 1: this one specifically with you. UM again, if you guys

1041
00:53:07,280 --> 00:53:10,360
Speaker 1: have any hope, confessions or homemail that you want to

1042
00:53:10,360 --> 00:53:12,360
Speaker 1: send to us, be sure to send it to Horrible

1043
00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:17,239
Speaker 1: Decisions at gmail dot com. Uh. This one reads, my

1044
00:53:17,400 --> 00:53:21,160
Speaker 1: boyfriend is bisexual. Hi Mandy, and Wheezy love all that

1045
00:53:21,239 --> 00:53:22,920
Speaker 1: you do. Your podcast is probably one of the best

1046
00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:26,000
Speaker 1: things to ever come into my life. So I am

1047
00:53:26,120 --> 00:53:29,560
Speaker 1: a thirty year old bisexual black woman living in the Midwest.

1048
00:53:30,280 --> 00:53:32,800
Speaker 1: I am in a long distance relationship since December of

1049
00:53:32,920 --> 00:53:35,200
Speaker 1: last year, and my partner is a thirty two year

1050
00:53:35,239 --> 00:53:38,680
Speaker 1: old bisexual mail living on the West Coast. The distance

1051
00:53:38,760 --> 00:53:40,400
Speaker 1: is tough, but we've been making it work and this

1052
00:53:40,520 --> 00:53:42,760
Speaker 1: is the happiest I've been in a while. My partner

1053
00:53:42,800 --> 00:53:46,279
Speaker 1: has always been in non monogamous or swinger relationships, so

1054
00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:49,400
Speaker 1: meeting each other was a curveball neither one of us expected.

1055
00:53:50,000 --> 00:53:52,440
Speaker 1: I'd like to think that because of this podcast, I

1056
00:53:52,560 --> 00:53:55,080
Speaker 1: was very receptive to try my hand in the quote

1057
00:53:55,160 --> 00:53:58,640
Speaker 1: unquote lifestyle, especially since the distance will only allow us

1058
00:53:58,680 --> 00:54:00,319
Speaker 1: to see each other three to four times a year

1059
00:54:00,719 --> 00:54:03,760
Speaker 1: and we both have needs. We agreed to be ethically

1060
00:54:03,920 --> 00:54:06,520
Speaker 1: non monogamous, but neither one of us would try to

1061
00:54:06,600 --> 00:54:09,960
Speaker 1: form other relationships outside of each other. Just sex and

1062
00:54:10,080 --> 00:54:13,160
Speaker 1: fun was the arrangement. Other than that. My partner had

1063
00:54:13,239 --> 00:54:16,520
Speaker 1: no stipulations and my only stipulation was that we would

1064
00:54:16,560 --> 00:54:20,560
Speaker 1: only have unprotected sex with each other. So during our

1065
00:54:20,640 --> 00:54:23,400
Speaker 1: last in person meet up, my partner admitted to me

1066
00:54:23,719 --> 00:54:26,040
Speaker 1: that he didn't think he could promise that all of

1067
00:54:26,120 --> 00:54:28,560
Speaker 1: his encounters would be protected, and he wanted to be

1068
00:54:28,640 --> 00:54:31,520
Speaker 1: honest about it. Although I appreciate the honesty, it kind

1069
00:54:31,520 --> 00:54:33,920
Speaker 1: of blew my high from this arrangement because I want

1070
00:54:34,000 --> 00:54:36,239
Speaker 1: us to be able to have the nastiest unprotected sex

1071
00:54:36,360 --> 00:54:38,880
Speaker 1: we want when we do see each other. So I

1072
00:54:38,960 --> 00:54:41,400
Speaker 1: need some help from you, lovely ladies. Should I just

1073
00:54:41,520 --> 00:54:43,800
Speaker 1: be cool with his candor and accept that we'll have

1074
00:54:44,160 --> 00:54:46,440
Speaker 1: protected sex when we see each other, or do you

1075
00:54:46,520 --> 00:54:49,080
Speaker 1: guys have some advice to offer so we can navigate

1076
00:54:49,120 --> 00:54:52,200
Speaker 1: around this boundary. I should also probably note that he

1077
00:54:52,320 --> 00:54:54,480
Speaker 1: is heavy in the lifestyle and party scene on the

1078
00:54:54,560 --> 00:54:58,200
Speaker 1: West Coast, which you which usually involves a lot of drugs,

1079
00:54:58,520 --> 00:55:01,839
Speaker 1: and with that, uh, his inhibitions are usually lowered, which

1080
00:55:01,880 --> 00:55:04,239
Speaker 1: he's also admitted. I love you ladies, keep up the

1081
00:55:04,280 --> 00:55:06,160
Speaker 1: dote work and can't wait to come to a life show.

1082
00:55:07,520 --> 00:55:11,040
Speaker 1: So again, this was a conversation me and my partner had,

1083
00:55:11,120 --> 00:55:14,600
Speaker 1: like there is no unprotected sex happening with anyone else. Um,

1084
00:55:15,080 --> 00:55:16,759
Speaker 1: I guess I want to leave this to you as

1085
00:55:16,800 --> 00:55:20,279
Speaker 1: someone who has multiple partners, and if you have the

1086
00:55:20,360 --> 00:55:26,239
Speaker 1: conversation regarding protection non PROTECTIONID bond, you know, what would

1087
00:55:26,280 --> 00:55:28,600
Speaker 1: that conversation be and what advice would you give to her?

1088
00:55:29,160 --> 00:55:30,920
Speaker 1: I mean, I think like, if her partner is going

1089
00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:34,040
Speaker 1: to be engaging in you know, fluid bonding with other people,

1090
00:55:34,080 --> 00:55:36,799
Speaker 1: are having sex without protection, it's very important for them

1091
00:55:36,840 --> 00:55:38,759
Speaker 1: to agree to get tested before they see each other.

1092
00:55:39,320 --> 00:55:41,400
Speaker 1: I think, like him, if they know when they're going

1093
00:55:41,440 --> 00:55:42,799
Speaker 1: to see each other and no where even travel out

1094
00:55:42,840 --> 00:55:44,920
Speaker 1: to each other, So just make sure a week or

1095
00:55:44,920 --> 00:55:47,280
Speaker 1: two before you're getting tested, you know what your status

1096
00:55:47,440 --> 00:55:50,520
Speaker 1: is coming into the situation, not bringing STDs, not bringing

1097
00:55:50,600 --> 00:55:53,000
Speaker 1: things into the relationship. I feel that's going to be

1098
00:55:53,360 --> 00:55:55,200
Speaker 1: one of the key things that will keep her feeling

1099
00:55:55,280 --> 00:55:56,800
Speaker 1: a little bit more comfortable with the fact that you

1100
00:55:56,920 --> 00:55:59,960
Speaker 1: might be doing that. Um. But yeah, I think it's

1101
00:56:00,160 --> 00:56:02,880
Speaker 1: really a batter of being honest about what your status

1102
00:56:03,000 --> 00:56:04,800
Speaker 1: is and knowing what your status is. If he's engaging

1103
00:56:05,200 --> 00:56:09,200
Speaker 1: and having sex on a regular basis without condoms, without protection, like,

1104
00:56:09,480 --> 00:56:11,680
Speaker 1: is he on prep? Is he like actually doing the

1105
00:56:11,719 --> 00:56:14,440
Speaker 1: work to make sure he's keeping himself safe. Um? I

1106
00:56:14,520 --> 00:56:16,240
Speaker 1: think that's going to be the key for the relationship.

1107
00:56:16,280 --> 00:56:18,520
Speaker 1: They're gonna make it work. I don't see them having

1108
00:56:18,600 --> 00:56:20,840
Speaker 1: to like have only protected sex, because that's going to

1109
00:56:21,120 --> 00:56:23,640
Speaker 1: reduce their connection. That's going to reduce their bond together.

1110
00:56:23,880 --> 00:56:26,880
Speaker 1: It'd be better just to like get tested beforehand. Be ready, No,

1111
00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:29,640
Speaker 1: it's coming up, you know, keep your in your pants

1112
00:56:29,719 --> 00:56:31,640
Speaker 1: for like a week or two. You're coming to see me.

1113
00:56:31,960 --> 00:56:34,080
Speaker 1: Make sure that you have like kind of that dedicated field.

1114
00:56:34,120 --> 00:56:37,160
Speaker 1: But um, yeah, more so now than ever, Like there's

1115
00:56:37,160 --> 00:56:40,439
Speaker 1: fewer and fewer people using protection, using condoms. Um there's

1116
00:56:40,480 --> 00:56:42,160
Speaker 1: there's not as much of an activity in that, so

1117
00:56:42,400 --> 00:56:44,239
Speaker 1: you're going to have more of those risks as a

1118
00:56:44,280 --> 00:56:46,440
Speaker 1: matter of like mitigating and managing those risks as best

1119
00:56:46,440 --> 00:56:48,640
Speaker 1: as possible. I like that he was honest with her,

1120
00:56:48,800 --> 00:56:51,960
Speaker 1: But my fear is and I think her emails really

1121
00:56:52,239 --> 00:56:55,279
Speaker 1: like well written because she didn't even have to like

1122
00:56:56,280 --> 00:57:00,200
Speaker 1: you know, not that I mean, like, let's just she

1123
00:57:00,320 --> 00:57:02,560
Speaker 1: had a reaction that was to like, well, fuck you.

1124
00:57:02,920 --> 00:57:05,480
Speaker 1: Then he's gonna start lying when he doesn't, and that's

1125
00:57:05,560 --> 00:57:07,239
Speaker 1: what you just don't want to happen. You're gonna suck

1126
00:57:07,280 --> 00:57:10,360
Speaker 1: somebody else for all. Okay, But if you're lying about it.

1127
00:57:10,520 --> 00:57:12,680
Speaker 1: That's how you start spreading STDs because then you take

1128
00:57:12,719 --> 00:57:15,960
Speaker 1: away my choice, you know. So I think that's key.

1129
00:57:16,040 --> 00:57:20,160
Speaker 1: It's like, you know, it's yeah, it would be better

1130
00:57:20,200 --> 00:57:22,720
Speaker 1: if he was more responsible and just follow the rules

1131
00:57:22,760 --> 00:57:24,439
Speaker 1: and kept to what it is. But if she's seeing

1132
00:57:24,440 --> 00:57:26,120
Speaker 1: that's a problem, she's seen, it's not gonna be something

1133
00:57:26,160 --> 00:57:28,360
Speaker 1: that he's going to be able to do. Create other

1134
00:57:28,640 --> 00:57:30,880
Speaker 1: things that would work, you know. And if it's about protection,

1135
00:57:30,920 --> 00:57:33,280
Speaker 1: if it's about not getting st I, then make it

1136
00:57:33,360 --> 00:57:35,720
Speaker 1: about that and say like okay, get tested, make sure

1137
00:57:35,760 --> 00:57:38,760
Speaker 1: you're good, then come here. Then let's have a good time. Um.

1138
00:57:39,160 --> 00:57:41,720
Speaker 1: But yeah, I think people get a little bit. You

1139
00:57:41,720 --> 00:57:43,480
Speaker 1: can get caught up on the fluid aspect, like you

1140
00:57:43,560 --> 00:57:45,760
Speaker 1: shared something with someone else without me, or like you

1141
00:57:45,880 --> 00:57:48,680
Speaker 1: shared this fluid, and it becomes that stigma of the STI.

1142
00:57:48,760 --> 00:57:50,840
Speaker 1: It becomes that stigma of like that stronger connection and

1143
00:57:50,880 --> 00:57:54,160
Speaker 1: stronger bond, Like your com has chemicals that cause brain

1144
00:57:54,200 --> 00:57:55,880
Speaker 1: reactions and people that cause them to want you more.

1145
00:57:55,920 --> 00:57:58,240
Speaker 1: I mean, but even that's like literally how your com

1146
00:57:58,440 --> 00:58:00,919
Speaker 1: is built to like release those kind closed from people's brains,

1147
00:58:01,160 --> 00:58:02,880
Speaker 1: so like you're gonna have a stronger band with people

1148
00:58:02,880 --> 00:58:05,200
Speaker 1: you fluid with versus people you're not well, even even

1149
00:58:05,280 --> 00:58:09,280
Speaker 1: the stronger connection. I remember when we first went to

1150
00:58:09,720 --> 00:58:15,440
Speaker 1: your club, he kissed uh two other women, and I

1151
00:58:15,600 --> 00:58:17,640
Speaker 1: was fine clearly with him fucking other women, but the

1152
00:58:17,760 --> 00:58:20,680
Speaker 1: kissing was actually my problem. Of course, he used condoms.

1153
00:58:20,720 --> 00:58:25,120
Speaker 1: You have condoms almost in little areas all over the club, um.

1154
00:58:25,160 --> 00:58:27,240
Speaker 1: But we brought our own and so I knew, like

1155
00:58:27,480 --> 00:58:29,960
Speaker 1: there was no raw sex going on. But the kissing

1156
00:58:30,200 --> 00:58:34,960
Speaker 1: really bothered me because sex kissing during sex prior to sex,

1157
00:58:35,160 --> 00:58:37,840
Speaker 1: I mean, the kissing led up to them having sex,

1158
00:58:37,920 --> 00:58:41,000
Speaker 1: and we were all intertwined, um. And I didn't think

1159
00:58:41,000 --> 00:58:42,680
Speaker 1: I would have a problem with the kissing as much,

1160
00:58:42,800 --> 00:58:45,240
Speaker 1: but we had to have a conversation about that because

1161
00:58:45,320 --> 00:58:49,400
Speaker 1: that's what I linked to intimacy. There's a lot of

1162
00:58:49,440 --> 00:58:51,520
Speaker 1: men who I've had sex with and we didn't kiss

1163
00:58:51,640 --> 00:58:53,600
Speaker 1: because it was just sucking. I've never had sex with.

1164
00:58:55,360 --> 00:58:58,240
Speaker 1: But to see him, to see him kissing women, that's

1165
00:58:58,280 --> 00:59:00,920
Speaker 1: where I was like, that's that, it's see that I

1166
00:59:00,960 --> 00:59:04,360
Speaker 1: didn't want to see. But we ended up having that conversation, uh.

1167
00:59:04,800 --> 00:59:06,800
Speaker 1: And he had a strong reasoning behind it, being in

1168
00:59:06,880 --> 00:59:09,520
Speaker 1: that space, especially being a black male and being how

1169
00:59:09,640 --> 00:59:12,720
Speaker 1: big he is. He said that that's a way to

1170
00:59:13,000 --> 00:59:16,800
Speaker 1: gauge consent kissing back them coming on to me like

1171
00:59:17,160 --> 00:59:19,400
Speaker 1: he does. He never wants to feel like he's too

1172
00:59:19,440 --> 00:59:21,840
Speaker 1: aggressive with anyone, and so he was like, well, the

1173
00:59:21,920 --> 00:59:24,840
Speaker 1: kissing makes me comfortable in this space because I know,

1174
00:59:25,000 --> 00:59:27,600
Speaker 1: like there's a level of consent with who I'm kissing

1175
00:59:27,960 --> 00:59:30,600
Speaker 1: to move forward and we can talk about it. You know,

1176
00:59:30,800 --> 00:59:32,960
Speaker 1: he can gauge it with kissing. And I was like,

1177
00:59:33,040 --> 00:59:35,240
Speaker 1: I didn't even look at it like that. So while

1178
00:59:35,280 --> 00:59:38,200
Speaker 1: I'm looking at kissing as being this super emotional attachment,

1179
00:59:38,560 --> 00:59:40,640
Speaker 1: he's like, not, bitch, I don't need a bit saying

1180
00:59:40,760 --> 00:59:44,240
Speaker 1: I did anything that I didn't think we had agreed to.

1181
00:59:44,760 --> 00:59:46,600
Speaker 1: And I was like, okay. Sometimes also too, if the

1182
00:59:46,720 --> 00:59:48,720
Speaker 1: kissing his whack and you're like, I'm not really feeling that.

1183
00:59:49,480 --> 00:59:51,960
Speaker 1: You tell a lot about like a sexual experience to

1184
00:59:52,200 --> 00:59:57,200
Speaker 1: so help. I kissed someone recently who he's a fighter,

1185
00:59:57,720 --> 00:59:59,840
Speaker 1: So maybe that's why I should have expected him to be.

1186
01:00:00,400 --> 01:00:02,520
Speaker 1: He's like a boxer, or he'd be fine in the

1187
01:00:02,560 --> 01:00:07,440
Speaker 1: streets like a world star path, but he fights like boxing,

1188
01:00:07,880 --> 01:00:09,960
Speaker 1: and when he was kissing me, it was just like

1189
01:00:10,120 --> 01:00:12,760
Speaker 1: a lot, and I was like, dude, because they could

1190
01:00:12,760 --> 01:00:14,720
Speaker 1: go either way. You can hate your face. I hate

1191
01:00:14,760 --> 01:00:20,480
Speaker 1: them type of kisses where the darts sometimes like the

1192
01:00:20,600 --> 01:00:23,880
Speaker 1: darting tongue. People do that when they eat my pussy

1193
01:00:23,920 --> 01:00:27,520
Speaker 1: and I'm like, stop it stop, What did make the

1194
01:00:27,560 --> 01:00:29,240
Speaker 1: stallion stay stopped? Look at my pussy so hard? This

1195
01:00:29,280 --> 01:00:34,200
Speaker 1: year aggravated, like can calm your mouth down? I had

1196
01:00:34,240 --> 01:00:35,920
Speaker 1: to remember someone was eating me out and I was

1197
01:00:36,080 --> 01:00:38,880
Speaker 1: younger than too, this was like maybe early twenties. And

1198
01:00:39,040 --> 01:00:44,000
Speaker 1: I took my hand on his face like s because

1199
01:00:44,000 --> 01:00:46,360
Speaker 1: I didn't know how whatever hand motion I could give

1200
01:00:46,400 --> 01:00:52,240
Speaker 1: that was like, this is not a steak anyway. Um.

1201
01:00:53,680 --> 01:00:56,640
Speaker 1: I wanted to before we get out of here because

1202
01:00:57,560 --> 01:00:59,840
Speaker 1: I'm actually a little unclear. Not that it's confusing, but

1203
01:01:00,640 --> 01:01:02,480
Speaker 1: it is. I guess if I'm saying that, how do

1204
01:01:02,560 --> 01:01:04,600
Speaker 1: your different membership tires work? Because I don't really know.

1205
01:01:04,680 --> 01:01:07,760
Speaker 1: It's changed a few times since since we went the

1206
01:01:07,800 --> 01:01:10,560
Speaker 1: first time, and yeah, how do they work for people? Um? So,

1207
01:01:10,880 --> 01:01:13,439
Speaker 1: right now, people can become Tribute members they pay nineteen

1208
01:01:13,440 --> 01:01:16,760
Speaker 1: a month and they get discounted passes for everything, or

1209
01:01:16,800 --> 01:01:18,480
Speaker 1: they can have a Status member and they get unlimited

1210
01:01:18,560 --> 01:01:21,800
Speaker 1: access it's like a month, so we keep it very reasonable.

1211
01:01:21,840 --> 01:01:24,040
Speaker 1: I think that's very affordable. And now where we gotta

1212
01:01:24,080 --> 01:01:26,120
Speaker 1: work on. We have two new locations that we're opening

1213
01:01:26,200 --> 01:01:29,800
Speaker 1: up right now. Maybe and I were looking through the

1214
01:01:29,840 --> 01:01:33,560
Speaker 1: prices together and I was like, what because because I'm

1215
01:01:33,600 --> 01:01:36,480
Speaker 1: not gonna lie like again, I've brought people to that

1216
01:01:36,560 --> 01:01:38,920
Speaker 1: space and they're like, I want to go again like

1217
01:01:39,080 --> 01:01:41,720
Speaker 1: I brought other I've brought men and women to the

1218
01:01:41,800 --> 01:01:43,919
Speaker 1: space and they're like, so I'm going to become a member.

1219
01:01:43,920 --> 01:01:45,800
Speaker 1: And because that's what I tell them, I'm like, go

1220
01:01:45,960 --> 01:01:47,960
Speaker 1: to the website, became a member, because you ain't just

1221
01:01:48,000 --> 01:01:49,720
Speaker 1: gonna come when I don't want to have to feel

1222
01:01:49,720 --> 01:01:51,360
Speaker 1: like I gotta go every weekend because now I gotta

1223
01:01:51,360 --> 01:01:57,360
Speaker 1: be shepherd. Like literally, it's like bring your work up

1224
01:01:57,400 --> 01:01:59,600
Speaker 1: to work or some ship. I'm like, I don't work here,

1225
01:01:59,680 --> 01:02:03,120
Speaker 1: but okay, so you have the nineteen dollars because you

1226
01:02:03,240 --> 01:02:05,720
Speaker 1: have off tickets and then one sixty nine per month. Um.

1227
01:02:05,880 --> 01:02:09,080
Speaker 1: This clubhouse is actually almost I mean it's pretty much acapacity.

1228
01:02:09,120 --> 01:02:12,200
Speaker 1: So we're opening up a second clubhouse and then the third.

1229
01:02:12,280 --> 01:02:15,600
Speaker 1: So we're doing Williamsburg. We're launching Miami l a We

1230
01:02:15,680 --> 01:02:17,480
Speaker 1: have thirty a street that we're launching, which will be

1231
01:02:17,720 --> 01:02:20,520
Speaker 1: kind of more of like a lounge experience, so bar

1232
01:02:20,800 --> 01:02:22,920
Speaker 1: and you can book dom services and stuff like that

1233
01:02:23,040 --> 01:02:26,480
Speaker 1: within the space that insane performances and just like a

1234
01:02:26,520 --> 01:02:28,520
Speaker 1: sexy little meet up. And then there'll be a bus

1235
01:02:28,640 --> 01:02:30,200
Speaker 1: that can take you to the clubhouse if you want

1236
01:02:30,200 --> 01:02:37,680
Speaker 1: to play in the Bang and Bang bus like the bank,

1237
01:02:38,040 --> 01:02:39,840
Speaker 1: you can funk on the bus. You can spot on

1238
01:02:39,880 --> 01:02:43,160
Speaker 1: the bus. That's fun. Like that Is it like a

1239
01:02:43,200 --> 01:02:48,640
Speaker 1: school bus? Yeah, let me help you with that. Sounds

1240
01:02:48,720 --> 01:02:51,400
Speaker 1: like fun. That sounds awesome. Yeah. So the new location

1241
01:02:51,480 --> 01:02:53,600
Speaker 1: we're launching, we just got Laura Desiree. She's going to

1242
01:02:53,640 --> 01:02:56,240
Speaker 1: be our creative director for the new show. Um, we're

1243
01:02:56,280 --> 01:02:58,600
Speaker 1: booking some amazing talents we've worked with over the years

1244
01:02:58,600 --> 01:03:00,480
Speaker 1: and will be you do put on some show. Yeah,

1245
01:03:02,200 --> 01:03:04,680
Speaker 1: when we had to watch a show like, he was like, oh,

1246
01:03:04,800 --> 01:03:08,680
Speaker 1: Daniel putting on a show for us. It's good. Even

1247
01:03:08,960 --> 01:03:12,800
Speaker 1: even the pegging demo that was it was it was

1248
01:03:12,840 --> 01:03:16,200
Speaker 1: a quick like fifteen minutes. Um, I guess he came

1249
01:03:16,240 --> 01:03:28,560
Speaker 1: that fast. Um damn bitch, I had a question and

1250
01:03:28,640 --> 01:03:34,040
Speaker 1: you're seeing you're throwing in badass jokes forget god damn question.

1251
01:03:34,400 --> 01:03:37,160
Speaker 1: Oh this is my question. So for someone who wants

1252
01:03:37,200 --> 01:03:41,240
Speaker 1: to become a member will have the uh the link

1253
01:03:41,320 --> 01:03:44,440
Speaker 1: in the description. But is there still I remember we

1254
01:03:44,520 --> 01:03:47,240
Speaker 1: talked about it. Is there still like where you guys

1255
01:03:47,320 --> 01:03:50,680
Speaker 1: need pictures, you still have to approve. It's not just

1256
01:03:50,840 --> 01:03:56,680
Speaker 1: you pay now, you're still approval. And the approval process, Um,

1257
01:03:57,400 --> 01:03:59,520
Speaker 1: how long does it take? It can be up to

1258
01:03:59,520 --> 01:04:02,120
Speaker 1: six weeks. We try to let people in at certain

1259
01:04:02,240 --> 01:04:04,680
Speaker 1: like levels. So once we had a hundred people who

1260
01:04:04,680 --> 01:04:06,480
Speaker 1: are approved, will approve that hundred, and then we'll wait

1261
01:04:06,480 --> 01:04:09,600
Speaker 1: from next hundred and the improved. So it is a process.

1262
01:04:09,640 --> 01:04:11,440
Speaker 1: Don't just thank you, you're just gonna be pulling up.

1263
01:04:13,560 --> 01:04:17,240
Speaker 1: You have to actually fly. And honestly, we're creating we're

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Speaker 1: creating more excuses faces because like again within the membership,

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Speaker 1: we have like amazing people like you, like we have

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Speaker 1: big I mean really it is normally regulars. I'm not

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Speaker 1: gonna go there's the same people. Yea, yeah, like regular stuff.

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Speaker 1: Like I do agree, Like we're adding a we're creating

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Speaker 1: a new experience for people who are in a certain

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Speaker 1: caliber in a sense, like you need a little bit

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Speaker 1: more privacy, you want, because you know we the air game, Noel,

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Speaker 1: the club for Mandy, and then the special I need

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Speaker 1: a special club. Now. Now, if you guys want to

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Speaker 1: figure out how the actual business of this works, how

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Speaker 1: Daniel gaines capital, how hiring his staff works, asking I

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Speaker 1: don't know, there's no way fuses leaving in when I

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Speaker 1: asked you who cleans up? Come? But who claims to come?

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Speaker 1: And with no, he's like, well we have our did

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Speaker 1: you call them angels over there? You know? Came? Was like,

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Speaker 1: and can you run that back and not say come

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Speaker 1: this time? Thank you? Uh know? But we It was

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Speaker 1: just really interesting because again this isn't show about business

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01:05:20,760 --> 01:05:23,560
Speaker 1: and like just talking about how you have to find spaces,

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Speaker 1: legalization of things and membership safety, how you build community

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Speaker 1: marketing PR, which, by the way, I don't know who

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01:05:33,520 --> 01:05:38,080
Speaker 1: does your PR. Daniels one we had we had the

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Speaker 1: phone call it. That's how we found him. She's amazing

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Speaker 1: from the New York Post articles. Yeah, like you have

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Speaker 1: and it's represented well, so check it out tonight. Hopefully

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Speaker 1: we are all watching it together as a family in

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Speaker 1: New York. And um yeah, also you guys have your

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Speaker 1: talk show you just did Yeah, yeah, We're really I'm

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Speaker 1: really excited. It's like in partnership with Field. Field is

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Speaker 1: an amazing We talked about all the talk about here,

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Speaker 1: go ahead and drop a check over you. Yeah, sent

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Speaker 1: some checks over, No, but Field is sponsoring that kind

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Speaker 1: of This talk show is just like me speaking to

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Speaker 1: a lot of people who are members, who have been

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Speaker 1: a part of the community or like who know about

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Speaker 1: what it is about. And you know, it's really just

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Speaker 1: talking about you know, really honest conversations around sex and

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Speaker 1: and just kind of bringing that field to people where

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Speaker 1: they can feel little bit more comfortable, you know, exploring

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Speaker 1: and doing stuff like that. So Field has been great

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Speaker 1: and yeah, I'm happy they're working with I love it.

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Speaker 1: And and he does have a ton of episodes for

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01:06:35,400 --> 01:06:37,160
Speaker 1: you guys to listen to. Where will they be able

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01:06:37,200 --> 01:06:39,480
Speaker 1: to catch these episodes? Um? So yeah, we'll have it

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Speaker 1: on our YouTube channel, will have it on all the

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Speaker 1: normal podcasting spots, and if you send it right I

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01:06:45,400 --> 01:06:48,800
Speaker 1: want to, I'll probably have it on my Instagram TV.

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Speaker 1: Uh patrons, I'll make it a public post just so

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Speaker 1: y'll have someone to gain access to it as well.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, Daniel, let everyone know, um where they can

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Speaker 1: find you uh your website and yeah, just NSFW dot

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Speaker 1: house and get to the site and then just Daniel

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Speaker 1: sat for me and all of that will be in

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Speaker 1: the description of this episode. Guys, we want to thank

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Speaker 1: you all for tuning in to another episode. As always,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna leave you guys with a five minute bonus clip.

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Speaker 1: Make sure you check out our Patreon for our twenty

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Speaker 1: a lot of ship. You can also gives a video

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Speaker 1: thing is Wee? See anything else? Because yaya now ship arrogance,

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Speaker 1: let's do it. Checked me out on Tuesdays on for

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Speaker 1: fact sake and every Monday at eleven pm Sex Cells

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Speaker 1: and again, tonight is gonna be Daniel's episode. You guys

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Speaker 1: have seen My Mom Charlotte. I don't know who else

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01:08:28,120 --> 01:08:30,559
Speaker 1: they put in between those, but yes, Daniel is actually

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01:08:31,439 --> 01:08:35,000
Speaker 1: the favorite episode I that we did. We talked with couples.

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Speaker 1: We it's just like a real look inside of his

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Speaker 1: club and it's done so well. Shout out to Josh

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Speaker 1: the DP. Over and over. I said, we have to

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Speaker 1: make this like as high end as it is because

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Speaker 1: his club really is. It's really a club that for

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Speaker 1: the price, like we say, it should be higher because

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Speaker 1: it really feels so elevated. And I was like, we

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Speaker 1: gotta make sure we shoot the ship right, no funny ship,

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Speaker 1: no silly ask music. Yes, hopefully we'll all be watching

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Speaker 1: it in bed together tonight. Movie. Yeah. Well, Daniel, thank

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Speaker 1: you so much for joining us. Hey guys, you are

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Speaker 1: going to get a five minute bonus clip. If you

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Speaker 1: like what you hear, go on over to Patreon dot

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Speaker 1: com back slash Horrible Decisions. This has been another episode

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Speaker 1: of Horrible Decisions. Hi sluts, it's bonus, bitch. Welcome back

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Speaker 1: to another episode of our Cinema. We have been talking

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Speaker 1: about Johnson's cabarets so much chat we weren't able to

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Speaker 1: do it on nothing else. I will tell you guys this,

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01:09:30,640 --> 01:09:33,920
Speaker 1: even if you don't watch the show, we promise we

1360
01:09:33,960 --> 01:09:37,479
Speaker 1: will make it relative, make it fun. It's also such

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01:09:37,520 --> 01:09:39,800
Speaker 1: a hot mess that you've probably seen the show. This

1362
01:09:40,000 --> 01:09:42,960
Speaker 1: is just every ratchet show reincarnated that you've ever watched

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Speaker 1: on DV. I really like it. I really think that

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Speaker 1: what Zeus is doing uh with their content is really

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Speaker 1: really good. I'm watching um. Let me give you a

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Speaker 1: gauge from what I know from other people, so we

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01:09:58,200 --> 01:10:02,280
Speaker 1: could take maybe a guess of what we think. Bad

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Speaker 1: Girls Club Girls get anywhere from two to four thousand

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Speaker 1: an episode Love and Hip Hop Guests three thousand, an

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Speaker 1: episode for first timers, ten thousand for like. That's because

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Speaker 1: I know people I Love and hip got from talking

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Speaker 1: about like for the first show, three thousand for like

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Speaker 1: a no name or first timers to ten thousand, So

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Speaker 1: you could try to get anywhere from one to one

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Speaker 1: fifty and the other thing with Love and Hip Hop,

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Speaker 1: though it's based on appearance, So sorry handing the line,

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Speaker 1: but I do know that Quimby was paying about five

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Speaker 1: thousand an episode for new shows, and Quimby had a

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Speaker 1: larger budgete than Zeus, but they didn't have anyone as

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Speaker 1: big as Joscelyn. Jocelyn's putting out so much and I'm shocked.

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Speaker 1: I mean, Quimby also went out in six months. They did,

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Speaker 1: but they had mad bread though they were giving it

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Speaker 1: all out. That's why I'm like, they were spending on production,

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Speaker 1: building studios, so they just used their money wrong. But

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Speaker 1: if these shows give it out that much, what do

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Speaker 1: you think Jocelyn is getting on a streaming platform not

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Speaker 1: TV or cable. I'm not going to you. It depends

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Speaker 1: how good her attorney is. I know too many people

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Speaker 1: that have done TV who have been like, it's worth it,

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Speaker 1: And I've seen a lot of people who have done

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Speaker 1: TV and said, yeah, it ain't worth it because it's

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Speaker 1: really they can guarantee exposure, so that's where they're like,

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Speaker 1: you can go and get things and bookings. So I

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Speaker 1: don't know. I don't be watching these people. I think

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01:11:35,800 --> 01:11:38,360
Speaker 1: that she definitely is a millionaire out of all of

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Speaker 1: the ventures she has, But I don't watch the Job

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Speaker 1: to you, but I did do. We probably watched the

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Speaker 1: call her Daddy ship whenever something is going on or

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Speaker 1: if anything, I always want to know what people in

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Speaker 1: my lane are getting paid. That's important, bro, for the

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Speaker 1: job that I have. Now, I called three people that

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Speaker 1: worked at Audible. I called Charlotte. I mean, I said,

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Speaker 1: I know y'all don't get along nowad they're friends, but

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Speaker 1: I said, I'm know y'all get along, but I need

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Speaker 1: to talk to the people that do my job on

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Speaker 1: your side. Like we I think getting undervalued and under

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Speaker 1: sold is like something that is super important, and we've

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Speaker 1: definitely been conscientious of that too, Like I'm really happy

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Speaker 1: with what we got, you know, for a Black Effect contract.

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Speaker 1: But even now, it's like, what if we grow crazy

1411
01:12:19,479 --> 01:12:21,800
Speaker 1: then what Like it's it's good to know your competition

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Speaker 1: and um not that I will start a tripper show.

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Speaker 1: But she's just so phenomenal that I am curious because

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Speaker 1: even when I watched season one, it wasn't given. With

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Speaker 1: season two gay, it wasn't giving with a supposed to

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Speaker 1: gay niked. Season two was gorgeous. She was finer, the

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01:12:36,640 --> 01:12:41,600
Speaker 1: bitches was batter like. That show is really impressive to

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01:12:41,680 --> 01:12:43,880
Speaker 1: the point where like now that I'm done and waiting

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01:12:43,920 --> 01:12:46,080
Speaker 1: for the next episode, now Zeus got me clicking on

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01:12:46,160 --> 01:12:49,040
Speaker 1: other ship. Then Nia is smart. Bro Zeus is really good.

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01:12:49,520 --> 01:12:52,599
Speaker 1: Didn't be someone on there too? Yes? Did you watch

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01:12:52,680 --> 01:12:54,840
Speaker 1: it for like the love of beast Smane or something?

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01:12:55,160 --> 01:12:57,559
Speaker 1: I just got Zeus? No, I didn't. I didn't watch

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01:12:57,560 --> 01:13:02,080
Speaker 1: your show. T T got one the dude from with

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01:13:02,240 --> 01:13:06,599
Speaker 1: the blue hair. I wish I could. He's not trained,

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01:13:06,720 --> 01:13:09,400
Speaker 1: he's just been putting a wig on up. Ain't how

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01:13:09,479 --> 01:13:12,080
Speaker 1: glad I got everybody? I gotta show on that motherfuck anyway?

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01:13:13,120 --> 01:13:16,840
Speaker 1: Out of all the women or men that have futured,

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01:13:16,880 --> 01:13:18,880
Speaker 1: you've got her husband in a therapist. Who would you

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01:13:18,960 --> 01:13:25,040
Speaker 1: want to fuck from Jocelyn's capet? Uh? It's damn? What's

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01:13:25,080 --> 01:13:27,760
Speaker 1: her name? How long? I got the one she has

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01:13:27,960 --> 01:13:33,760
Speaker 1: the short hair, like short red hair. Lexi blow, yes,

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01:13:34,040 --> 01:13:37,799
Speaker 1: so the one that Johnson was like so Lexi Lexi

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Speaker 1: and Miss Natural those are my two favorite Miss Natural.

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01:13:43,120 --> 01:13:44,960
Speaker 1: Maybe she just turned me off somebody because she'll be

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01:13:44,960 --> 01:13:48,320
Speaker 1: here everyone nuts. I like her, so I like Miss

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Speaker 1: Natchal and I like Lexi those Miss Lexi blow Lexi

1438
01:13:51,520 --> 01:13:53,479
Speaker 1: blows hot. But that's the lightest I've ever seen you.

1439
01:13:53,680 --> 01:13:57,680
Speaker 1: Um find somebody attracted, you know, what's crazy about you

1440
01:13:57,840 --> 01:14:03,160
Speaker 1: saying that my my ex is the same way now,

1441
01:14:03,520 --> 01:14:09,040
Speaker 1: Like we'll go to a club and uh, he'll like

1442
01:14:09,240 --> 01:14:11,639
Speaker 1: already know and he says that he's like, you don't

1443
01:14:11,680 --> 01:14:12,639
Speaker 1: like light skinned girls.