1 00:00:00,840 --> 00:00:03,960 Speaker 1: The Best Bits of the week with Morgan, Part one, 2 00:00:04,120 --> 00:00:04,680 Speaker 1: I hang. 3 00:00:04,559 --> 00:00:09,680 Speaker 2: A thing with a member of the show. What's up, everybody, 4 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:12,520 Speaker 2: I'm joined this weekend by school a scoob of Steave. 5 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:15,000 Speaker 1: This is part one, just to chat, as Morgan. 6 00:00:14,720 --> 00:00:17,439 Speaker 2: Says, just the chat, or as I call him, Scoobs, 7 00:00:17,920 --> 00:00:20,400 Speaker 2: scoobs like I don't spell like how you It felt 8 00:00:20,400 --> 00:00:23,160 Speaker 2: like scoob. I spelt like scooby doo like scoobs. 9 00:00:23,160 --> 00:00:25,400 Speaker 1: It's two o's. Yeah, okay, I. 10 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:27,360 Speaker 2: Don't know if you've knowed that. Sometimes I'll text y'all 11 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:31,120 Speaker 2: like scoops yeahol. I don't know why. I don't know why, 12 00:00:31,240 --> 00:00:33,800 Speaker 2: but that's where it is. Okay, before we get started chatting, 13 00:00:33,920 --> 00:00:35,599 Speaker 2: just real quick if you do want to catch up 14 00:00:35,600 --> 00:00:38,120 Speaker 2: on the best bits, like the actual segments from the 15 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:39,880 Speaker 2: show's weeek what she got over there? We got Ann 16 00:00:39,920 --> 00:00:43,360 Speaker 2: Wilson and we interview at Kane Brown interview, we got 17 00:00:43,520 --> 00:00:46,080 Speaker 2: myself in Lunchbox who saw signs. We got Eddie who 18 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:50,520 Speaker 2: did something not great, and Bobby's update on his seapat 19 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:54,440 Speaker 2: Machine Raymundo hanging out with Sam Hunt and Lunchbox's son 20 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:57,360 Speaker 2: getting bullied. So a lot over there for y'all to 21 00:00:57,400 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 2: catch up on if you missed it. But now it's 22 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:02,080 Speaker 2: time for the chat, as I like to call it. 23 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:04,840 Speaker 2: All right, Scoob, Like, I know that you and I 24 00:01:04,920 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 2: have some great stories because just in our conversations in life, 25 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:10,040 Speaker 2: we always have fun stories to share with each other. 26 00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:12,720 Speaker 2: I want to talk about our near death experiences we've 27 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:15,199 Speaker 2: had in life. I imagine you've had one. 28 00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:18,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, I was trying to drum up a story and. 29 00:01:18,959 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 2: One is this real or is it fake? Does that 30 00:01:21,520 --> 00:01:22,080 Speaker 2: mean it's real? 31 00:01:23,400 --> 00:01:25,039 Speaker 1: Ready to tell it? To tell a story of a 32 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 1: near death? 33 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:27,559 Speaker 2: Said drum up? Like, let me make one up real quick. 34 00:01:28,920 --> 00:01:31,200 Speaker 1: I like, reach it in the anals of my mind. 35 00:01:30,959 --> 00:01:33,280 Speaker 2: And find Okay, we can't say that either, if you can. 36 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:37,759 Speaker 1: The anals of your mind. I don't know what you're 37 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:39,399 Speaker 1: thinking about, but I'm thinking about like. 38 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:41,199 Speaker 2: Sorry, you said anal, but yeah. 39 00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:43,040 Speaker 1: You're saying it in a different way. I'm talking about 40 00:01:43,080 --> 00:01:45,640 Speaker 1: when you go through like an archive, the anals of 41 00:01:45,680 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 1: the the that's the thing. So I don't know what 42 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:49,040 Speaker 1: you're talking about. 43 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 2: I have never in my life heard that. 44 00:01:51,280 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, the only. 45 00:01:52,520 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 2: Way I've ever heard that word is one way. 46 00:01:54,680 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 1: Well, you can look it up on the internet. Okay, 47 00:01:58,040 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 1: don't look at images, just look. 48 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:01,560 Speaker 2: At don't think so I think I'm good. 49 00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 1: Okay, you tell yours, and I'll say because there's probably 50 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:09,880 Speaker 1: thousands of stories between the age of like thirteen to 51 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:11,800 Speaker 1: twenty three where I could have died. 52 00:02:12,200 --> 00:02:14,160 Speaker 2: Okay, So that's a lot. 53 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 1: Yes, when he came my head right now, I'm a 54 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 1: trip to Key West. But I'll hold mine, okay, and 55 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:19,440 Speaker 1: then you tell yours. 56 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:22,520 Speaker 2: Okay. So I was on a boat with my family 57 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:24,960 Speaker 2: and we were on a lake at table Rock Lake, 58 00:02:25,320 --> 00:02:27,440 Speaker 2: and there's this crazy it might have been table Rock 59 00:02:27,440 --> 00:02:29,120 Speaker 2: where it might have been grand like in Oklahoma. Now 60 00:02:29,160 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 2: I can't remember because it was a wild moment. But 61 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 2: there was a huge thunderstorm that came in. It was 62 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:36,120 Speaker 2: not planned, like we checked the weather. It wasn't supposed 63 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:38,320 Speaker 2: to came, but it did. And there was this wild 64 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:40,400 Speaker 2: thunderstorm while we're out on the water. And if you've 65 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:42,560 Speaker 2: never been out on the water, when a thunderstorm comes 66 00:02:42,600 --> 00:02:45,079 Speaker 2: on a boat, yeah, I can tell you don't want 67 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:47,000 Speaker 2: to be There's a reason that people don't go out 68 00:02:47,040 --> 00:02:49,800 Speaker 2: on water when they're a thunderstorms come choppy and so 69 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:52,919 Speaker 2: choppy like like you know you see those videos of 70 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 2: like the North Sea where you're like, oh, what's happening 71 00:02:55,760 --> 00:02:57,239 Speaker 2: out there? Like that's some crazy stuff. 72 00:02:57,280 --> 00:02:59,280 Speaker 1: Those cruise ships that like things are flying all over 73 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:01,120 Speaker 1: the place because they're the middle of the ocean. 74 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like thunderstorms on a lake are like our Norsey, 75 00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:06,280 Speaker 2: like the the closest you're ever going to probably come 76 00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:09,560 Speaker 2: to that. Yes, and not good. So we're in huge 77 00:03:09,600 --> 00:03:11,280 Speaker 2: choppy water, I mean the boat we are going up 78 00:03:11,280 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 2: and down and all around, and we're trying to get 79 00:03:13,240 --> 00:03:16,840 Speaker 2: to a safe place. Well, in the midst of this thunderstorm, 80 00:03:17,320 --> 00:03:20,680 Speaker 2: my hat flies off, my favorite hat, and I still like, 81 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:23,200 Speaker 2: I love this hat. You can't get anymore. It was 82 00:03:23,200 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 2: like limited edition, only one, Like I love this hat. 83 00:03:26,280 --> 00:03:31,000 Speaker 2: I'm so sad, okay to die for Basically, Unfortunately I 84 00:03:31,200 --> 00:03:31,960 Speaker 2: was in that moment. 85 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:33,600 Speaker 1: I should not have been Yeah, yeah, how are you 86 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 1: going to. 87 00:03:34,560 --> 00:03:36,720 Speaker 2: I was in like I think I was in like 88 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 2: maybe a freshman in high school. 89 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 1: Gotcha, you didn't have consequences quite yet. 90 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:42,280 Speaker 2: No, I'm still a pretty wild child. 91 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 3: Well and do whatever. 92 00:03:43,040 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 2: Yeah I got Yeah, So this hat flies off and 93 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:48,160 Speaker 2: without even thinking, okay, I jump in the water. Oh 94 00:03:48,200 --> 00:03:51,480 Speaker 2: my god, Like there is not a moment of me 95 00:03:51,560 --> 00:03:53,840 Speaker 2: being like this is a bad idea. Yeah, I just 96 00:03:53,920 --> 00:03:56,840 Speaker 2: was like my hat jump in the water and not 97 00:03:57,120 --> 00:04:00,440 Speaker 2: Oh I can hear my parents like still of this day, 98 00:04:00,480 --> 00:04:02,880 Speaker 2: like really like so angry with me. 99 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:04,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, they're scared because not one of them things they 100 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:05,600 Speaker 1: have to jump in to save you. 101 00:04:05,720 --> 00:04:07,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I'm like I give a hat. I'm like 102 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 2: I'm in there. I'm like that's fine, I got it. 103 00:04:09,480 --> 00:04:11,800 Speaker 2: I got it, and like but then I wasn't thinking 104 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:14,080 Speaker 2: the process of me like getting back into the boat 105 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:15,800 Speaker 2: and that they have to like stop moving what we 106 00:04:15,840 --> 00:04:18,719 Speaker 2: were doing trying to get away from the thunderstorm. But 107 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:20,279 Speaker 2: they did give me. We got we got back in 108 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:23,520 Speaker 2: the boat. But I got reamed. I got reamed that 109 00:04:23,640 --> 00:04:26,040 Speaker 2: day for my parents for like what were you what 110 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:28,000 Speaker 2: was possibly going through your mind that you thought a 111 00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:30,000 Speaker 2: hat was more important than your life life? 112 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, I had They could probably find an eBay for 113 00:04:32,040 --> 00:04:32,400 Speaker 1: you if they. 114 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:34,960 Speaker 2: Needed to, probably, Like it's not that limited edition. It 115 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:37,440 Speaker 2: wasn't like signed by It was just like my favorite hat. 116 00:04:37,440 --> 00:04:39,240 Speaker 2: It's the vill hat that I still wear like to 117 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:39,600 Speaker 2: this day. 118 00:04:39,640 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 1: I know what you mean by if I wear a 119 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:42,039 Speaker 1: hats a lot. I have a favorite hat too that 120 00:04:42,040 --> 00:04:44,080 Speaker 1: I lost on a roller coaster, and you can't get 121 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:46,120 Speaker 1: that back. That's long gone. So I don't mean if 122 00:04:46,160 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 1: I could jump off the roller coaster, I would have 123 00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 1: jumped off and got my hat, see it like that? 124 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:52,800 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, but I really did, like it was touch 125 00:04:52,839 --> 00:04:54,440 Speaker 2: and go like because the boat kept kind of coming 126 00:04:54,520 --> 00:04:56,160 Speaker 2: up over me, like when they were trying to get 127 00:04:56,160 --> 00:04:58,800 Speaker 2: back to me and get back in the boat. Like genuinely, 128 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:00,359 Speaker 2: it was one of those things that I like back on, 129 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 2: I was like, I probably should not have made that, now, 130 00:05:04,440 --> 00:05:05,560 Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like I should not have 131 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:06,720 Speaker 2: made it out of that situation. 132 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:08,440 Speaker 1: Water in your lungs. You would have been at the 133 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 1: bottom of the lake, and it's lakes which are scary 134 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:11,880 Speaker 1: because you can't see the bottom of them. 135 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:14,800 Speaker 2: No, and like terrifying weather which you have no. 136 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:17,280 Speaker 1: Control over lightning or anything. 137 00:05:17,320 --> 00:05:18,839 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, And it was like it was an understorm, 138 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:21,159 Speaker 2: like there was there was lightning, and there was everything happening. 139 00:05:21,279 --> 00:05:24,279 Speaker 2: So I look back on that and I think about often. 140 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:27,720 Speaker 1: Forget it. 141 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:28,839 Speaker 2: I think they try and forget it. 142 00:05:28,920 --> 00:05:30,680 Speaker 1: Were you grounded or in trouble, were they taking anything 143 00:05:30,640 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 1: away from you? Is there any punishment? 144 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:33,359 Speaker 2: I don't think my parents talk to me like the 145 00:05:33,360 --> 00:05:35,479 Speaker 2: rest of that day, Like I'm pretty sure I got 146 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 2: I got the silent treatment, like after I got yelled 147 00:05:38,040 --> 00:05:39,680 Speaker 2: as soon as I got back on the boat, it 148 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 2: was like, we're not talking to you, Like, no, this 149 00:05:42,400 --> 00:05:45,200 Speaker 2: is not okay. Now I did learn my lesson. I 150 00:05:45,200 --> 00:05:48,240 Speaker 2: mean I've had more near death experiences since, but that 151 00:05:48,320 --> 00:05:50,720 Speaker 2: was like the closest where like I was very irrational, 152 00:05:50,760 --> 00:05:54,039 Speaker 2: thinking okay, really bad. So that's fine, Okay, okay, what 153 00:05:54,080 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 2: do you got. 154 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:56,599 Speaker 1: So one that came to mind, I'll tell this one 155 00:05:57,360 --> 00:06:00,360 Speaker 1: is we were driving down to Miami from Orlando, Florida, 156 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:02,800 Speaker 1: and we were heading too I think it was Key West. Yes, 157 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 1: this also ties into Kenny Chesney and seeing him perform 158 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:08,240 Speaker 1: live at a animally at a bar. But we're heading 159 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:10,200 Speaker 1: down to Key West. It almost didn't make it because 160 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:12,839 Speaker 1: we're going down through I think we're in the Miami area. 161 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:15,240 Speaker 1: And have you ever heard of penny showers? 162 00:06:15,760 --> 00:06:17,960 Speaker 2: No, Like is that pennies that come down from the sky. 163 00:06:18,640 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 1: No, these are pennies that you have in your car 164 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:24,240 Speaker 1: or change and you grab a fistful of it, you 165 00:06:24,279 --> 00:06:26,400 Speaker 1: throw it out the window at like a car or 166 00:06:26,520 --> 00:06:30,240 Speaker 1: people or bikes or stuff like that. 167 00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 2: Amy would bring up as like a gang initiation thing 168 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 2: that happened. 169 00:06:34,200 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, So this is also in a period of time 170 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:40,839 Speaker 1: where I was not understanding of consequences and having perspective 171 00:06:40,920 --> 00:06:44,800 Speaker 1: on life and everything around me, and I was an ignorant, stupid, 172 00:06:44,960 --> 00:06:47,839 Speaker 1: probably twenty year old. Maybe it was also with my 173 00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 1: ex wife the time, who was my girlfriend, and just 174 00:06:50,839 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 1: all of bad people and bad that's. 175 00:06:53,279 --> 00:06:55,800 Speaker 2: Bad energy and juju going around in not Yes, I went. 176 00:06:55,720 --> 00:06:58,039 Speaker 1: Through a lot of bad things during that time in 177 00:06:58,040 --> 00:06:59,920 Speaker 1: my life. And I remember we were driving down to 178 00:07:00,880 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 1: Key West and it was me and her and then 179 00:07:03,560 --> 00:07:05,560 Speaker 1: my friend Justin in the back and his girlfriend at 180 00:07:05,600 --> 00:07:07,600 Speaker 1: the time whoever he was dating, the flavor of the week, 181 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:10,280 Speaker 1: and we're all going down to Key West. We're so excited, 182 00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 1: mind you, in the car. I didn't realize this, but 183 00:07:12,280 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 1: Justin brought drugs, like illegal drugs like cocaine and stuff, 184 00:07:16,520 --> 00:07:19,600 Speaker 1: hard drugs, hard drugs, soft ones, not the soft ones 185 00:07:19,600 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 1: like smoking a little bit here and there, which even 186 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:24,400 Speaker 1: then that's still illegal. Yeah, in two thousand and five Florida. 187 00:07:24,800 --> 00:07:27,360 Speaker 1: But we're driving down and I forget even what happened. 188 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:30,440 Speaker 1: But at this moment where a motorcycle cut us off 189 00:07:30,480 --> 00:07:32,680 Speaker 1: and we got real angry about it. And I don't 190 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:34,680 Speaker 1: know why we cared about it so much, but we 191 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:37,640 Speaker 1: were just so pissed off and we're gonna do whatever 192 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:40,119 Speaker 1: it took to get back at them for cutting us off. 193 00:07:40,680 --> 00:07:43,360 Speaker 1: Who cares? Now, in the grand scheme of life, happens 194 00:07:43,360 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 1: all the time of me. Now, I'm just coming whatever 195 00:07:44,880 --> 00:07:46,760 Speaker 1: and I just keep driving. But back then it just 196 00:07:46,880 --> 00:07:48,800 Speaker 1: fired me up, and I was like, oh. 197 00:07:48,720 --> 00:07:49,080 Speaker 2: Hell no. 198 00:07:49,400 --> 00:07:52,120 Speaker 3: I was like justin Penny showers and he's like, yeah, 199 00:07:52,200 --> 00:07:52,760 Speaker 3: let's do it. 200 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:54,600 Speaker 1: And so then we grabbed each grab a handful of 201 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:57,360 Speaker 1: pennies and we throw it out the window and it 202 00:07:57,440 --> 00:07:59,400 Speaker 1: hits the biker and we're going eighty miles an hour, 203 00:07:59,440 --> 00:08:02,040 Speaker 1: so penny motorcycle. He's on a motorcycle. So we hit 204 00:08:02,080 --> 00:08:04,640 Speaker 1: this guy or girl going eighty miles an hour? Would 205 00:08:04,680 --> 00:08:06,640 Speaker 1: just you throw the pennies out and it's like gravity. 206 00:08:06,800 --> 00:08:08,680 Speaker 1: It goes out, and then gravity takes it and he 207 00:08:08,720 --> 00:08:11,120 Speaker 1: goes and it goes backwards and it hits the person 208 00:08:11,560 --> 00:08:14,920 Speaker 1: on the motorcycle, and then out of nowhere, all of 209 00:08:14,960 --> 00:08:17,720 Speaker 1: a sudden, like a bunch of motorcycles starts showing up. 210 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:19,720 Speaker 1: So it turns out that was like the first person 211 00:08:19,760 --> 00:08:22,200 Speaker 1: on the front of this motorcycle brigade or whatever. Now 212 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:26,119 Speaker 1: he got like twenty or thirty motorcycles, this crappy little 213 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:27,200 Speaker 1: jeep grit turkey. 214 00:08:27,360 --> 00:08:29,600 Speaker 2: Honestly, you should have Yeah, no, totally, Yeah. 215 00:08:29,600 --> 00:08:30,720 Speaker 1: I would haven't say that. If I were in the 216 00:08:30,760 --> 00:08:32,960 Speaker 1: motorcycle thing. I'd be like radio. My friend's like, yo, 217 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:34,200 Speaker 1: this guy through pennies at me. 218 00:08:34,240 --> 00:08:36,720 Speaker 2: You guys are really lucky that that person didn't crash. 219 00:08:37,400 --> 00:08:39,320 Speaker 1: Yes, like we were, of course in the moment, worried 220 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:40,360 Speaker 1: about us getting her ask here. 221 00:08:40,400 --> 00:08:42,840 Speaker 2: Well yeah, and you're like upset getting cut off. There's 222 00:08:42,880 --> 00:08:48,120 Speaker 2: a rational anger happening there. Yeah, but but really bad, 223 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:51,040 Speaker 2: like they like motorcycles can't even be on like grass sharts, 224 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:53,800 Speaker 2: Like that's dangerous for them. Let alone. I can't imagine, 225 00:08:53,800 --> 00:08:56,880 Speaker 2: like tans, pennies and nimes and nickels and quarters come 226 00:08:56,960 --> 00:08:57,640 Speaker 2: right out of your face. 227 00:08:57,679 --> 00:09:00,280 Speaker 1: So he threw it out the window. Wasn't me, He 228 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:01,280 Speaker 1: threw them out the window. 229 00:09:02,559 --> 00:09:04,440 Speaker 2: We're changing the story a little bit, now, got it? 230 00:09:04,480 --> 00:09:06,600 Speaker 1: Okay, he threw the window. It was definitely my ex 231 00:09:06,600 --> 00:09:09,240 Speaker 1: wife's idea, for sure. She was like the one who 232 00:09:09,280 --> 00:09:11,720 Speaker 1: was Yeah, she was the one instigating it, and even 233 00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:14,160 Speaker 1: handed him the change and was like, dude, I always 234 00:09:14,520 --> 00:09:16,560 Speaker 1: got rolls of quarters, get them out, you know. So 235 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:18,240 Speaker 1: he threw it. She was once said to do it, 236 00:09:18,240 --> 00:09:19,760 Speaker 1: wasn't me, had nothing new that. I was like, guys, 237 00:09:19,920 --> 00:09:20,640 Speaker 1: I shouldn't do this. 238 00:09:20,840 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 3: All change in the story, terrible idea, like we shouldn't. 239 00:09:24,800 --> 00:09:26,640 Speaker 1: We're going to key West, like the most happiest place 240 00:09:26,679 --> 00:09:28,440 Speaker 1: on earth, at least for us at the time, and 241 00:09:28,520 --> 00:09:31,160 Speaker 1: we're so excited to go there. And he throws the 242 00:09:31,200 --> 00:09:34,840 Speaker 1: quarters out throw my ex wife's advice, and it nails them, 243 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:36,160 Speaker 1: and then and then again, and then all of a sudden, 244 00:09:36,160 --> 00:09:39,199 Speaker 1: you hear like and I look back in there, it's 245 00:09:39,280 --> 00:09:41,599 Speaker 1: like a bunch a motorcycles coming away, and it's like 246 00:09:41,640 --> 00:09:43,959 Speaker 1: a mixture of like the crows rockets, yeah, with the 247 00:09:44,000 --> 00:09:46,240 Speaker 1: fast and furious type of motorcycles, Yeah, mixed with a 248 00:09:46,240 --> 00:09:47,640 Speaker 1: couple of the hogs. It must have been one of 249 00:09:47,640 --> 00:09:49,360 Speaker 1: those things where they all saw it and they're all like, oh, 250 00:09:49,360 --> 00:09:52,240 Speaker 1: hell no, and they all came together and they surrounded 251 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:55,240 Speaker 1: our vehicle and I'm like, oh, we're and we're going 252 00:09:55,240 --> 00:09:57,480 Speaker 1: like seventy miles an hour and these bikes all around us, 253 00:09:57,520 --> 00:09:59,800 Speaker 1: and we're like, oh, I don't. 254 00:10:00,280 --> 00:10:01,600 Speaker 3: I was like, what do we do? 255 00:10:02,440 --> 00:10:03,200 Speaker 2: What did you raise? 256 00:10:03,440 --> 00:10:05,280 Speaker 1: I think I started crying a little bit and I 257 00:10:05,280 --> 00:10:08,720 Speaker 1: got really nervous, and then the initial reaction was to 258 00:10:08,720 --> 00:10:12,400 Speaker 1: throw more pennies and more coins at them. So then, ah, 259 00:10:12,480 --> 00:10:15,199 Speaker 1: you So then he rolls down the window exactly you asked, 260 00:10:15,200 --> 00:10:17,800 Speaker 1: like a near your death experience. This was definitely it. 261 00:10:17,960 --> 00:10:20,679 Speaker 1: So he rolls down the window and throws out more coins. 262 00:10:20,720 --> 00:10:22,520 Speaker 1: He's like, oh, yeah, you want that, you want some 263 00:10:22,559 --> 00:10:24,880 Speaker 1: more of this, And so he grows and throws out 264 00:10:25,280 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 1: more coins out the window at more people that are 265 00:10:28,720 --> 00:10:30,960 Speaker 1: driving down the freeway at seventy to eighty miles per hour. 266 00:10:31,559 --> 00:10:33,240 Speaker 1: And then I'm like, oh no, I'm like, oh. 267 00:10:35,160 --> 00:10:36,079 Speaker 2: I regret everything. 268 00:10:36,480 --> 00:10:38,800 Speaker 1: I regret everything. And I think I blocked out of 269 00:10:38,800 --> 00:10:40,439 Speaker 1: that moment because I was just you ever have those 270 00:10:40,480 --> 00:10:43,040 Speaker 1: moments where you are so nervous you can't breathe, you 271 00:10:43,080 --> 00:10:46,960 Speaker 1: can't catch your breath, the pity your stomach is like churning, 272 00:10:47,520 --> 00:10:49,000 Speaker 1: and you're just like and you're like, how do we 273 00:10:49,040 --> 00:10:50,520 Speaker 1: get out of this? There's no way out of this, 274 00:10:51,040 --> 00:10:52,839 Speaker 1: Like we're going to jail or we're dying, or they're 275 00:10:52,880 --> 00:10:55,720 Speaker 1: gonna shoot us, they're gonna beat the crap out of us. Yeah, 276 00:10:55,760 --> 00:10:57,240 Speaker 1: And it was one of those things, and I think 277 00:10:57,280 --> 00:10:59,240 Speaker 1: I blacked out. And I'm trying to remember it because 278 00:10:59,240 --> 00:11:00,880 Speaker 1: this was so long of this is like twenty years ago. 279 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:03,640 Speaker 1: I try to remember how this story ended, because all 280 00:11:03,640 --> 00:11:05,240 Speaker 1: I remember is the trauma of you. 281 00:11:05,320 --> 00:11:06,160 Speaker 2: Trauma blocked it. 282 00:11:06,600 --> 00:11:08,640 Speaker 1: I trauma blocked it because I don't I'm trying to 283 00:11:08,640 --> 00:11:09,719 Speaker 1: think at the end of it. I don't remember the 284 00:11:09,800 --> 00:11:10,640 Speaker 1: end of it, but I know the end of the 285 00:11:10,679 --> 00:11:12,000 Speaker 1: story is we made it to Key West. 286 00:11:12,040 --> 00:11:14,720 Speaker 2: Well, obviously you're alive, and yeah, you have Key West stories, 287 00:11:14,800 --> 00:11:16,079 Speaker 2: so like you did make it. 288 00:11:16,160 --> 00:11:18,000 Speaker 1: I didn't make it. But I'm trying to remember how 289 00:11:18,000 --> 00:11:19,959 Speaker 1: it ended, because I remember being like, what do we do? 290 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:22,560 Speaker 1: And I remember being a long stretch of the ninety five, 291 00:11:22,600 --> 00:11:26,199 Speaker 1: which is a massive freeway that rolls through Florida, goes 292 00:11:26,200 --> 00:11:27,880 Speaker 1: all I've done the East Coast actually up to New York, 293 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:30,720 Speaker 1: and it's remember being like, we have to get we 294 00:11:30,760 --> 00:11:32,160 Speaker 1: have to we have to avoid them. How do we 295 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:34,120 Speaker 1: get away from them? And we're drying this like piece 296 00:11:34,160 --> 00:11:36,959 Speaker 1: of crap jeep Grand Cherokee and they're all in these 297 00:11:36,960 --> 00:11:39,040 Speaker 1: like really fast motorcycles that can zip around and everything. 298 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:41,439 Speaker 1: So I tell, I tell my ex the time I 299 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:44,439 Speaker 1: go over there, now go over here, and I try 300 00:11:44,480 --> 00:11:47,079 Speaker 1: to guide her through traffic to get around and get 301 00:11:47,080 --> 00:11:49,160 Speaker 1: away from them, but they're fast. And then we lose 302 00:11:49,200 --> 00:11:51,960 Speaker 1: a few of them, maybe too because of traffic, and 303 00:11:51,960 --> 00:11:53,080 Speaker 1: some just maybe getting over. 304 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:54,480 Speaker 2: It, and like, well, yeah, and they probably were like 305 00:11:54,520 --> 00:11:57,600 Speaker 2: these people aren't worth going to do it for murder exactly. Yes, yeah, 306 00:11:57,720 --> 00:11:59,520 Speaker 2: we may really want to, but they ain't worth it. 307 00:11:59,400 --> 00:12:01,200 Speaker 1: It ain't worth it. Maybe they were smarter than us. 308 00:12:01,400 --> 00:12:03,480 Speaker 1: And I just always think about like guardian angels and 309 00:12:03,480 --> 00:12:04,719 Speaker 1: people who are out there looking for you. And I 310 00:12:04,760 --> 00:12:06,440 Speaker 1: think it was one of those scenarios where someone was like, 311 00:12:06,480 --> 00:12:09,520 Speaker 1: not today, he ain't. This ain't happening to him. Plus 312 00:12:09,520 --> 00:12:11,280 Speaker 1: it isn't even his fault. It's his ex's fall and 313 00:12:11,320 --> 00:12:12,880 Speaker 1: his friend's fault with throwing the coins out the window. 314 00:12:12,880 --> 00:12:14,559 Speaker 1: He had nothing to do with this. He's just a bystander, 315 00:12:14,760 --> 00:12:16,560 Speaker 1: innocent in the car. And all, by the way, there's 316 00:12:16,559 --> 00:12:19,040 Speaker 1: cocaine in the car. I didn't even know legitimately, didn't 317 00:12:19,040 --> 00:12:19,959 Speaker 1: even know was in the vehicle. 318 00:12:20,040 --> 00:12:22,920 Speaker 2: But you have also learned that as a bystander, you 319 00:12:22,960 --> 00:12:26,360 Speaker 2: are also contributing because you're so s but yeah, you're 320 00:12:26,400 --> 00:12:28,400 Speaker 2: part of it. You didn't stop it from happening, Yes, I. 321 00:12:28,320 --> 00:12:30,559 Speaker 1: Didn't stop it. I tried, though, I really did try, 322 00:12:31,160 --> 00:12:33,240 Speaker 1: really tried, and I just remember I think it just 323 00:12:33,320 --> 00:12:35,400 Speaker 1: kind of just peetered off where it ended up being 324 00:12:35,440 --> 00:12:38,000 Speaker 1: like twenty car motorcycles, so like ten motorcycles, and the 325 00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:40,319 Speaker 1: more we maneuver through traffic, it became like five and 326 00:12:40,440 --> 00:12:42,360 Speaker 1: down like the original one or two, and it was 327 00:12:42,400 --> 00:12:44,640 Speaker 1: just like constantly would roll up to the window. It 328 00:12:44,679 --> 00:12:46,760 Speaker 1: was like probably a thirty forty minute thing happening where 329 00:12:46,760 --> 00:12:48,320 Speaker 1: they would get up to the window and they would 330 00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:52,880 Speaker 1: yell at us, like oh, we'd yell back at them. 331 00:12:53,880 --> 00:12:56,240 Speaker 1: I think at the next point, I think Justin then 332 00:12:56,280 --> 00:12:58,360 Speaker 1: started opening up a suitcase to find things to throw 333 00:12:58,400 --> 00:13:00,000 Speaker 1: out at them because we had run out of coin 334 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:02,560 Speaker 1: at that point. And I think it ended up being 335 00:13:02,559 --> 00:13:03,880 Speaker 1: where they gave up and they was just kind of 336 00:13:03,880 --> 00:13:05,720 Speaker 1: like where they RAI waive their hand, They're like whatever, 337 00:13:06,160 --> 00:13:08,079 Speaker 1: And then I was terrified the rest of the trip 338 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:11,880 Speaker 1: that they had then called not HP F HP Florida 339 00:13:11,920 --> 00:13:13,760 Speaker 1: High Patrol, like oh, now they're going to Now they've 340 00:13:13,760 --> 00:13:16,160 Speaker 1: called the cops because that's what it was. They started 341 00:13:16,160 --> 00:13:18,840 Speaker 1: to pull back because they realized we're thing crazy and 342 00:13:18,920 --> 00:13:21,080 Speaker 1: not giving up. And I think they probably I was like, oh, 343 00:13:21,120 --> 00:13:22,560 Speaker 1: they called the cops, Now we're going. Now, we're definitely 344 00:13:22,559 --> 00:13:24,360 Speaker 1: going to jail, like for sure. Yeah, And I think 345 00:13:24,360 --> 00:13:25,880 Speaker 1: that's how it ended. And we didn't go to jail. 346 00:13:25,880 --> 00:13:28,720 Speaker 1: We made it across the into the Key West area 347 00:13:28,760 --> 00:13:29,920 Speaker 1: and had a freaking blast. 348 00:13:29,960 --> 00:13:32,360 Speaker 2: Yeah you did. You did have angel looking over you, man. 349 00:13:32,640 --> 00:13:35,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, that was one of the probably thirty stories of 350 00:13:35,280 --> 00:13:36,520 Speaker 1: near death experiences. 351 00:13:36,800 --> 00:13:39,640 Speaker 2: Oh, Scuba Steve, I'm glad, I'm glad you've learned. I'm 352 00:13:39,640 --> 00:13:41,560 Speaker 2: glad you were a better man because of it. I'm 353 00:13:41,600 --> 00:13:42,040 Speaker 2: proud of you. 354 00:13:42,160 --> 00:13:44,160 Speaker 1: Yeah. I think that whole relationship was just a lot 355 00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:45,840 Speaker 1: of dark and bad. 356 00:13:47,240 --> 00:13:49,040 Speaker 2: Like, yeah, she gave you, she gave me a lot 357 00:13:49,040 --> 00:13:49,680 Speaker 2: of bad energy. 358 00:13:49,960 --> 00:13:51,840 Speaker 1: Yeah you can get pulled down on that. You've been 359 00:13:51,880 --> 00:13:52,560 Speaker 1: in bad relationships. 360 00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:54,640 Speaker 2: Well oh yeah, heck yeah, you are what you surround 361 00:13:54,640 --> 00:13:56,679 Speaker 2: yourself with. There's there's no doubt about that. 362 00:13:56,760 --> 00:13:59,160 Speaker 1: Totally. In the moment I left her, my career took off, 363 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:00,880 Speaker 1: like everything just got better. 364 00:14:01,000 --> 00:14:02,760 Speaker 2: Dead weight, you dropped that dead weight. 365 00:14:03,040 --> 00:14:04,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, I dropped that way for sure. Yeah. 366 00:14:04,760 --> 00:14:07,440 Speaker 2: So okay, Well, speaking of like just stories and stuff, 367 00:14:07,440 --> 00:14:10,880 Speaker 2: I do want to talk about intuition too, okay, Like, 368 00:14:11,080 --> 00:14:13,280 Speaker 2: and I'll tell you why the scot Because I was 369 00:14:13,280 --> 00:14:14,880 Speaker 2: talking to one of my friends and we were talking 370 00:14:14,880 --> 00:14:17,400 Speaker 2: about just like our gut intuition. We were talking about 371 00:14:17,480 --> 00:14:21,680 Speaker 2: dating particularly, but like how like really your gut is 372 00:14:21,720 --> 00:14:25,080 Speaker 2: always right, like it might like you may hide it, 373 00:14:25,200 --> 00:14:27,040 Speaker 2: it may protect him and be like, nah, it's not, 374 00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:31,240 Speaker 2: but your gut like literally, we'll always know the right 375 00:14:31,280 --> 00:14:33,960 Speaker 2: answer and always can feel it regardless of how your 376 00:14:34,000 --> 00:14:38,600 Speaker 2: brain and your heart decide something. And I can attest 377 00:14:38,680 --> 00:14:41,880 Speaker 2: to this because I was dating a guy back in 378 00:14:41,920 --> 00:14:45,880 Speaker 2: college and we were long distance. We're at different colleges, 379 00:14:46,520 --> 00:14:48,640 Speaker 2: and we would at the time, we were always on 380 00:14:48,680 --> 00:14:52,200 Speaker 2: Skype together, right, and during a lot of the skypes 381 00:14:52,240 --> 00:14:54,640 Speaker 2: and sometimes that I had visited him, I had met 382 00:14:54,680 --> 00:14:58,760 Speaker 2: this girl and she she lingered around a lot. And 383 00:14:59,080 --> 00:15:02,720 Speaker 2: from the very first moment I met her, like literally 384 00:15:02,800 --> 00:15:05,320 Speaker 2: told multiple of my friends he's going to cheat on 385 00:15:05,360 --> 00:15:08,560 Speaker 2: me with her, Like I felt it, like I knew 386 00:15:08,560 --> 00:15:10,240 Speaker 2: as soon as I met her, as soon as I 387 00:15:10,280 --> 00:15:12,480 Speaker 2: and I kept seeing her pop up. There was even 388 00:15:12,800 --> 00:15:15,640 Speaker 2: so specific that there was one weekend where he was like, Hey, 389 00:15:15,720 --> 00:15:18,240 Speaker 2: we're gonna go to her parents' house and like watch 390 00:15:18,280 --> 00:15:19,960 Speaker 2: this game and stuff, and I was like, I really 391 00:15:19,960 --> 00:15:22,800 Speaker 2: don't want you to. I have a really bad feeling 392 00:15:22,840 --> 00:15:25,400 Speaker 2: about this. Yeah, I don't feel like this is good 393 00:15:25,440 --> 00:15:27,680 Speaker 2: for us, and he was like, no, it's fine, there's 394 00:15:27,680 --> 00:15:32,359 Speaker 2: gonna be a bunch of us whatever. I literally accurately 395 00:15:32,360 --> 00:15:34,520 Speaker 2: predicted he would cheat on me that weekend with that 396 00:15:34,560 --> 00:15:38,400 Speaker 2: girl at that place. Two days after, I got a 397 00:15:38,400 --> 00:15:41,440 Speaker 2: skype call confirming that he did, in fact cheat on 398 00:15:41,480 --> 00:15:42,760 Speaker 2: me with said girl at said place. 399 00:15:44,480 --> 00:15:46,480 Speaker 1: Was he, I guess leading up to this, was there 400 00:15:46,640 --> 00:15:49,320 Speaker 1: any other gut feelings like Okay, this is meant to 401 00:15:49,320 --> 00:15:51,480 Speaker 1: be and this happened for a reason and thank god 402 00:15:51,680 --> 00:15:53,400 Speaker 1: I'm over him and over it. No. 403 00:15:53,440 --> 00:15:55,200 Speaker 2: But I mean I think anybody can attest who's in 404 00:15:55,240 --> 00:15:57,560 Speaker 2: a long distance relationship, especially when you're young, right, Like 405 00:15:57,600 --> 00:15:59,880 Speaker 2: it's different when you're older, but like young, you're new in. 406 00:15:59,840 --> 00:16:02,320 Speaker 1: Calle, especially yeah in college. 407 00:16:02,440 --> 00:16:05,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you have an idea that it's probably not 408 00:16:06,040 --> 00:16:07,800 Speaker 2: going to work, but you're going to desperately try and 409 00:16:07,800 --> 00:16:10,760 Speaker 2: make it work, because why give up? Yeah, So I 410 00:16:10,800 --> 00:16:12,360 Speaker 2: think there was always a part of me that just 411 00:16:12,400 --> 00:16:15,560 Speaker 2: knew it wasn't probably going to work. But no, she 412 00:16:15,680 --> 00:16:18,520 Speaker 2: was the only person who I was like that, And 413 00:16:18,520 --> 00:16:19,960 Speaker 2: and that was the start of all of it, right, 414 00:16:19,960 --> 00:16:21,880 Speaker 2: It was started with all the trust issues and everything 415 00:16:21,920 --> 00:16:24,960 Speaker 2: started with that and then got worse. 416 00:16:25,120 --> 00:16:26,800 Speaker 1: And then they got married and had three kids and 417 00:16:26,840 --> 00:16:27,480 Speaker 1: she looks like crap. 418 00:16:27,560 --> 00:16:30,320 Speaker 2: Surprisingly not they didn't get married and stuff. I mean 419 00:16:30,360 --> 00:16:32,560 Speaker 2: he is like happily married and stuff now, which I 420 00:16:32,600 --> 00:16:36,760 Speaker 2: am happy for him, like we we reconciled, like we're fine. 421 00:16:37,480 --> 00:16:39,760 Speaker 2: But it was a very weird situation for me to 422 00:16:39,960 --> 00:16:43,040 Speaker 2: feel and see my intuition be so spot on that 423 00:16:43,160 --> 00:16:45,880 Speaker 2: I predicted it happening, like time, place everything. 424 00:16:46,000 --> 00:16:48,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's even more obscure, like crazy, the fact that 425 00:16:48,440 --> 00:16:50,360 Speaker 1: you play even like the moment like this is the 426 00:16:50,360 --> 00:16:52,520 Speaker 1: moment where he's going to do it. They like had 427 00:16:52,560 --> 00:16:56,440 Speaker 1: like like sex, yes, oh my gosh. 428 00:16:56,200 --> 00:16:59,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I predicted all of it. 429 00:16:59,040 --> 00:17:00,600 Speaker 1: Wow, even like you like hit on her a little 430 00:17:00,600 --> 00:17:02,600 Speaker 1: bit or talked to her or got a number, they 431 00:17:02,640 --> 00:17:03,680 Speaker 1: like went for the whole thing. 432 00:17:03,840 --> 00:17:06,639 Speaker 2: Yeah yeahow yeah. And let's be honest, when you're cheating, 433 00:17:06,680 --> 00:17:08,840 Speaker 2: I mean you're doing the whole thing. Yeah, yeah, you're 434 00:17:08,840 --> 00:17:10,240 Speaker 2: not doing it just for a kiss. 435 00:17:10,520 --> 00:17:12,520 Speaker 1: True. I mean there are some guys that will like, oh, 436 00:17:12,560 --> 00:17:14,320 Speaker 1: I just hung out with her and you. 437 00:17:14,280 --> 00:17:16,880 Speaker 2: Know, yes, she loves the unicorn cheat. 438 00:17:17,040 --> 00:17:18,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, she'd said she loved me. But it was at 439 00:17:18,400 --> 00:17:19,800 Speaker 1: a strip club and I kept giving a hundred dollar 440 00:17:19,840 --> 00:17:22,280 Speaker 1: bills and never you know. Yeah. 441 00:17:22,320 --> 00:17:24,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, So that was my like crazy intuition that I 442 00:17:24,800 --> 00:17:26,680 Speaker 2: still look back and I'm like, I can't ever doubt 443 00:17:26,720 --> 00:17:30,159 Speaker 2: my intuition because like it's got radar. Yeah, and I 444 00:17:30,200 --> 00:17:31,120 Speaker 2: got to trust. 445 00:17:30,880 --> 00:17:32,680 Speaker 1: So many a little bit too. This is probably just 446 00:17:32,720 --> 00:17:33,240 Speaker 1: the tip of it. 447 00:17:33,359 --> 00:17:35,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, this is just one where I like predicted with it, 448 00:17:35,960 --> 00:17:37,280 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. Like normally I can I 449 00:17:37,320 --> 00:17:39,639 Speaker 2: get like really big gut feelings that I always trust, 450 00:17:40,000 --> 00:17:42,800 Speaker 2: but like there are moments too where I've like predicted. 451 00:17:42,840 --> 00:17:45,159 Speaker 2: I'm like, dang, that's crazy, that's wild. 452 00:17:45,240 --> 00:17:46,040 Speaker 1: Am I a psychic? 453 00:17:46,560 --> 00:17:48,399 Speaker 2: That's what makes me like trust psychics. And I'm like, 454 00:17:48,520 --> 00:17:51,520 Speaker 2: there is a part of my energy that has accurately 455 00:17:51,520 --> 00:17:53,600 Speaker 2: predicted things. I can't do it for other people, I 456 00:17:53,600 --> 00:17:54,480 Speaker 2: can do it for myself. 457 00:17:54,600 --> 00:17:54,800 Speaker 1: Yeah. 458 00:17:54,840 --> 00:17:57,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, so like there is energy around that. Yeah, So 459 00:17:57,280 --> 00:17:59,080 Speaker 2: that's why I don't like question. I'm like, yeah, you're 460 00:17:59,080 --> 00:18:00,960 Speaker 2: probably right. You probably come up on something totally. 461 00:18:01,040 --> 00:18:04,120 Speaker 1: Plus, people give you vibes and they exude their energy 462 00:18:04,119 --> 00:18:05,760 Speaker 1: and their vibrations and you're like, oh, this is all 463 00:18:05,840 --> 00:18:08,040 Speaker 1: negative or this is all bad, or he's gonna achieve 464 00:18:08,080 --> 00:18:10,280 Speaker 1: for sure. Yeah, you get the recipe of the disaster 465 00:18:10,359 --> 00:18:14,040 Speaker 1: of a party and drinking and he's in college, long. 466 00:18:13,960 --> 00:18:15,040 Speaker 2: Distance every factor. 467 00:18:15,160 --> 00:18:15,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, totally. 468 00:18:15,960 --> 00:18:18,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, So that's fine. That's my story, my intuition, Like 469 00:18:19,840 --> 00:18:22,440 Speaker 2: it's cool to know that my body's got my back. Yeah, 470 00:18:22,480 --> 00:18:31,240 Speaker 2: that's awesome. Body so much, you know whatever. Do you 471 00:18:31,280 --> 00:18:33,240 Speaker 2: have anything like that, like intuition that you can think 472 00:18:33,280 --> 00:18:34,280 Speaker 2: over You're like, dang, that was right. 473 00:18:34,440 --> 00:18:36,679 Speaker 1: Yeah. I'm trying to a specific example, but like you, 474 00:18:36,800 --> 00:18:40,520 Speaker 1: I've had thousands upon thousands of occurrences, like even like 475 00:18:40,560 --> 00:18:43,240 Speaker 1: a professionally personally, like even in my career. I can't 476 00:18:43,240 --> 00:18:45,119 Speaker 1: get it too specific on one of them because someone 477 00:18:45,160 --> 00:18:47,800 Speaker 1: got legally in trouble. But in a previous radio job, 478 00:18:48,280 --> 00:18:50,280 Speaker 1: one of the guys that we worked with was going 479 00:18:50,359 --> 00:18:52,920 Speaker 1: to let something flat fly and I was like, Nah, 480 00:18:52,960 --> 00:18:55,800 Speaker 1: this has like murderer written all over it, And I 481 00:18:55,840 --> 00:18:57,560 Speaker 1: was like, we should not have this person on the show. 482 00:18:57,600 --> 00:18:59,800 Speaker 1: I won't put it on the national show. It'll only 483 00:18:59,840 --> 00:19:02,040 Speaker 1: live here in this one market and it'll die like 484 00:19:02,080 --> 00:19:03,879 Speaker 1: but on the bigger show that I control, we are 485 00:19:04,000 --> 00:19:06,800 Speaker 1: not doing this. And then it turned out this person 486 00:19:06,840 --> 00:19:08,199 Speaker 1: that they put on and did all this stuff for, 487 00:19:08,320 --> 00:19:10,000 Speaker 1: and then I think involved in a game show that's 488 00:19:10,040 --> 00:19:12,720 Speaker 1: on television did all these things ended up being like 489 00:19:12,720 --> 00:19:14,520 Speaker 1: someone on the run that was a murderer, like a 490 00:19:14,520 --> 00:19:16,359 Speaker 1: serial killer or something like that. And I was like, 491 00:19:16,359 --> 00:19:18,600 Speaker 1: I had a gut feeling about this person not being right, 492 00:19:18,840 --> 00:19:21,400 Speaker 1: and they would say things that were just a little 493 00:19:21,440 --> 00:19:23,280 Speaker 1: bit off putting, and I was like, as I was 494 00:19:23,320 --> 00:19:25,199 Speaker 1: hearing it happened, I was like, I'm not putting this 495 00:19:25,200 --> 00:19:27,199 Speaker 1: on my show. This is done. And then some and 496 00:19:27,200 --> 00:19:28,720 Speaker 1: then someone was asking me like, hey, you put that on. 497 00:19:28,720 --> 00:19:29,720 Speaker 1: It was great, and I was like, yeah, I don't 498 00:19:29,720 --> 00:19:31,280 Speaker 1: put it on. And then a week later they're like, hey, 499 00:19:31,280 --> 00:19:32,480 Speaker 1: it's a good thing you didn't put it on because 500 00:19:32,480 --> 00:19:34,800 Speaker 1: that guy was a serial killer and he is now 501 00:19:34,840 --> 00:19:36,399 Speaker 1: in trouble and da da da Dad, And I'm like, 502 00:19:36,680 --> 00:19:39,639 Speaker 1: I knew it. I had a gut feeling. And there 503 00:19:39,680 --> 00:19:41,639 Speaker 1: was another time with that same show where they did 504 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:45,200 Speaker 1: something another another evolving something else that was on television 505 00:19:45,480 --> 00:19:47,040 Speaker 1: and I was like, Nah, we shouldn't touch that with 506 00:19:47,040 --> 00:19:48,760 Speaker 1: a ten foot pole. And it was another like bad 507 00:19:48,880 --> 00:19:51,639 Speaker 1: Apple type guests that ended up being like I think 508 00:19:51,640 --> 00:19:54,840 Speaker 1: a battle well or something yeah, and we got a 509 00:19:54,840 --> 00:19:57,240 Speaker 1: lot of legal trouble on one end, but not on 510 00:19:57,280 --> 00:19:59,840 Speaker 1: my end because we didn't do like my again, gut 511 00:20:00,200 --> 00:20:02,359 Speaker 1: just like having a gut feeling about a situation or 512 00:20:02,400 --> 00:20:06,280 Speaker 1: a person. I think the most recent gut feeling that 513 00:20:06,320 --> 00:20:10,879 Speaker 1: I've been getting lately is my career choice and path 514 00:20:11,400 --> 00:20:14,520 Speaker 1: and following a dream. And I've been following it lately 515 00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:18,920 Speaker 1: in my own lane, with me doing certain things behind 516 00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:21,040 Speaker 1: the scenes to do it, and I've never had this 517 00:20:21,240 --> 00:20:24,919 Speaker 1: exact same feeling and things aligning through that process. And 518 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:27,720 Speaker 1: I'm being really cryptic and maybe annoying for anyone listening 519 00:20:27,720 --> 00:20:29,480 Speaker 1: who doesn't know, but it will come to fruition. You'll 520 00:20:29,480 --> 00:20:32,080 Speaker 1: find out soon. But I've been working towards some things, 521 00:20:32,119 --> 00:20:34,399 Speaker 1: and I've been working towards my whole career, and I 522 00:20:34,440 --> 00:20:36,760 Speaker 1: feel it's now starting to come together. And my gut 523 00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:38,600 Speaker 1: feeling was to take a leap of faith on at 524 00:20:38,720 --> 00:20:40,960 Speaker 1: on a few things that I've done recently, and they've 525 00:20:41,000 --> 00:20:44,520 Speaker 1: paid off tremendously and it's slowly paying off and it's 526 00:20:44,520 --> 00:20:48,920 Speaker 1: slowly coming together. And this is again like the gut 527 00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:51,280 Speaker 1: and knowing and knowing when to strike and when not 528 00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:54,080 Speaker 1: to do certain things. And man, I've been hitting pretty 529 00:20:54,080 --> 00:20:54,600 Speaker 1: good lately. 530 00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:57,240 Speaker 2: No good, that's great. 531 00:20:57,400 --> 00:21:00,119 Speaker 1: Yes, right, Oh, it's incredible. Oh my gosh. Yeah. And 532 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:01,560 Speaker 1: then like even more of a sad gut thing, like 533 00:21:01,600 --> 00:21:03,720 Speaker 1: my dog Marley died. I had a gut feeling like 534 00:21:03,800 --> 00:21:06,840 Speaker 1: that was not like it was his his his time. 535 00:21:07,520 --> 00:21:09,800 Speaker 2: That was correct me if I'm wrong. He was your 536 00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:12,840 Speaker 2: soul dog. And when you're interconnected in that way, you 537 00:21:12,880 --> 00:21:13,440 Speaker 2: feel things. 538 00:21:13,600 --> 00:21:15,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, I've had him for almost eighteen years. You came 539 00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:19,040 Speaker 1: for me from Orlando to San Francisco to Los Angeles 540 00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:22,160 Speaker 1: to Nashville. He's seen me go through a bad relationship. 541 00:21:22,200 --> 00:21:24,560 Speaker 1: He's seen me be on my own. He's seen me 542 00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:27,000 Speaker 1: move around the country and then find my soulmate and 543 00:21:27,040 --> 00:21:29,880 Speaker 1: have kids. And he's seen dogs come and go too. 544 00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:33,080 Speaker 1: So it's like that that my intuition that day when 545 00:21:33,080 --> 00:21:35,840 Speaker 1: it happened, I was like, I think today's day, and 546 00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:37,880 Speaker 1: then it was my gut feeling. And then I even 547 00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:39,879 Speaker 1: like was talking to him out loud, and then he 548 00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:41,480 Speaker 1: let go. I could feel him let go, and I 549 00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:44,040 Speaker 1: was like, oh shit, I just sorry, it's okay. 550 00:21:44,920 --> 00:21:46,040 Speaker 2: You get a free one on that. 551 00:21:46,320 --> 00:21:48,240 Speaker 1: I appreciate it. And it hit and I was like, 552 00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:52,119 Speaker 1: all right, Well, my gut unfortunately was correct. But I 553 00:21:52,200 --> 00:21:54,399 Speaker 1: knew it was coming. It was almost eighteen. I was 554 00:21:54,400 --> 00:21:56,560 Speaker 1: hoping he'd be like the guns Spoke World Records Oldest 555 00:21:56,600 --> 00:21:58,040 Speaker 1: Dog and live for thirty or something. 556 00:21:58,200 --> 00:22:01,000 Speaker 2: Oh like, also, so amazing that I lived to be 557 00:22:01,040 --> 00:22:04,160 Speaker 2: eighteen years old, Like, yeah, that's incredible. And the fact 558 00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:06,080 Speaker 2: that you got to have eighteen amazing years with him 559 00:22:06,160 --> 00:22:06,880 Speaker 2: is so special. 560 00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:08,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, it really is. I look at it that way 561 00:22:08,520 --> 00:22:09,960 Speaker 1: to kind of think of the positive side. 562 00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:11,960 Speaker 2: Of it, and you got to have some insane soul 563 00:22:12,040 --> 00:22:13,440 Speaker 2: dog love and there's nothing like that. 564 00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:16,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, oh my gosh. Yeah. So yeah, so yeah. My intuition, 565 00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:19,600 Speaker 1: like you and gut, plays in many different factors. And 566 00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:22,440 Speaker 1: then even like relationships, my ex wife was a gut feeling. 567 00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:24,560 Speaker 1: I knew she was cheating on me. She kept saying, no, 568 00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:26,879 Speaker 1: they're just clients or people that I work with at 569 00:22:26,920 --> 00:22:30,720 Speaker 1: the hotel. And he had that sickening pit in your stomach. 570 00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:32,680 Speaker 1: Like one time, she's like, oh, I have to work late, 571 00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:34,040 Speaker 1: and I was like, I don't think she has to 572 00:22:34,080 --> 00:22:34,520 Speaker 1: work late. 573 00:22:34,680 --> 00:22:35,480 Speaker 2: Oh yeah. 574 00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:37,000 Speaker 1: I was taking my dogs for a walk. I was 575 00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:39,439 Speaker 1: taking Ziggy and Marley for a walk and we're walking 576 00:22:39,600 --> 00:22:42,240 Speaker 1: up Knob Hill, which is this very iconic area of 577 00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:44,159 Speaker 1: San Francisco we lived on and you walk up to 578 00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:45,639 Speaker 1: the top of the hill and there was the hotel 579 00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:47,320 Speaker 1: she worked at. We got to the top of the 580 00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:49,399 Speaker 1: hill and my gut was telling me. I had this 581 00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:51,080 Speaker 1: gut feeling. I was like, go walk the dogs. And 582 00:22:51,119 --> 00:22:53,199 Speaker 1: I was like I had worked the next morning, like 583 00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:54,600 Speaker 1: three or four in the morning. I was so tired. 584 00:22:54,640 --> 00:22:56,040 Speaker 1: I was like, it was like, go walk the dogs. 585 00:22:56,080 --> 00:22:58,000 Speaker 1: Go walk the dogs. It was like eleven thirty, Go 586 00:22:58,040 --> 00:22:59,399 Speaker 1: walk the dogs. And I was like, all right, I'm 587 00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:01,359 Speaker 1: gonna walk it all. And I went to walk that dogs, 588 00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:02,320 Speaker 1: and sure enough, I get to the top of the 589 00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:05,080 Speaker 1: hill and there's my ex wife wife at the time, 590 00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:09,000 Speaker 1: and this dude and they're like drunk and laughing and 591 00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:11,200 Speaker 1: stumbling back and I was like hey. 592 00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:15,800 Speaker 3: She's like oh hey, and I'm like, oh, hey, who 593 00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:17,639 Speaker 3: knows that, Oh, it's. 594 00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:18,720 Speaker 1: Just a climb him. One we just had a really 595 00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:20,919 Speaker 1: good time dad, and he's like I could see it 596 00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:23,679 Speaker 1: in his face. He's like, oh crap, I wasn't supposed 597 00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:25,760 Speaker 1: to be seen with you and who's that? And then 598 00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:27,160 Speaker 1: I was like, hey, my name is Steve and I'm 599 00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:28,760 Speaker 1: her husband, and I could see it in his face 600 00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:31,320 Speaker 1: where he's like, oh no, and it was just like 601 00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:33,520 Speaker 1: one of another guess another one of those gut things 602 00:23:33,840 --> 00:23:35,920 Speaker 1: where and then that was like the unraveling of all 603 00:23:35,960 --> 00:23:38,520 Speaker 1: of that was like that was the Then I was like, Okay, 604 00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:40,840 Speaker 1: now everything's like starting to come together and like, oh crap, 605 00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:43,080 Speaker 1: that was probably that. That was probably that, and then 606 00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:45,800 Speaker 1: it just unraveled into where then my story took me 607 00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:49,200 Speaker 1: to finding her cheating on me and actually things all 608 00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:52,159 Speaker 1: the things. So yes, again the gut plays into personal 609 00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:54,399 Speaker 1: professional everything. Yeah. 610 00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:56,480 Speaker 2: Yeah for people who can really in touch with that 611 00:23:56,520 --> 00:23:58,399 Speaker 2: and like listen to that the first time instead of 612 00:23:58,440 --> 00:24:00,560 Speaker 2: like waiting till your heart in your head catch up 613 00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:02,880 Speaker 2: to it. Yeah, props to y'all, because like I want 614 00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:04,320 Speaker 2: to be like I want to question it all the 615 00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:07,280 Speaker 2: time and I'm like you sure, you're right, you sure, 616 00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:09,960 Speaker 2: and every time it is, but I'm like every time 617 00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:12,080 Speaker 2: I'm questioning it even though it's proven to be one 618 00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:14,440 Speaker 2: hundred percent of the time. Yeah, it's right, you know 619 00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:14,800 Speaker 2: what I mean? 620 00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:16,879 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, exact what you mean? Then also impedes in 621 00:24:16,880 --> 00:24:18,800 Speaker 1: your personal life because then you're word like crap. Am 622 00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:20,240 Speaker 1: I always over thinking everything? 623 00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:20,760 Speaker 2: Yeah? 624 00:24:20,800 --> 00:24:22,399 Speaker 1: Now, am I ever gonna be able to let go? 625 00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:26,760 Speaker 1: You know the answer is no, you shouldn't stand strong. 626 00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:30,679 Speaker 2: Well, very sorry about Marley. I'm really glad that you 627 00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:33,840 Speaker 2: and I both have some incredible intuition in all of 628 00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:35,880 Speaker 2: our lives. Yeah, and I know we can keep talking 629 00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:37,520 Speaker 2: about this forever, which is why I wanted us to talk. 630 00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:39,359 Speaker 1: About it more. 631 00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:41,280 Speaker 2: I know, I know we got we got great stories, 632 00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:42,440 Speaker 2: but we do have more to do. So we're gonna 633 00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:44,359 Speaker 2: take a quick break and we'll come back. We'll do that, 634 00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:49,320 Speaker 2: all right, Excuba. I have put together, like you know, 635 00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:51,560 Speaker 2: because we can't play songs and stuff, so I had 636 00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:54,240 Speaker 2: like pitch an idea for this like voice famous voice 637 00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:57,480 Speaker 2: game okay, where we play clips of like famous people 638 00:24:57,520 --> 00:25:02,360 Speaker 2: who are doing animated voice work. But I obviously don't 639 00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:04,439 Speaker 2: have the clips or anything loaded up on here, so 640 00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:07,000 Speaker 2: I'm just gonna go through them and like quiz you 641 00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:08,959 Speaker 2: based on the character in the movie and see if 642 00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:10,960 Speaker 2: you know who the celebrity is that voice is. Okay, 643 00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:14,880 Speaker 2: like start off with a soft ball, Dorry and finding Nemo? 644 00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:17,840 Speaker 1: Okay, who is it? Dorry and finding Nemo would be 645 00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:18,560 Speaker 1: Ellen DeGeneres. 646 00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:24,119 Speaker 2: Okay, all right, what about Duke Kaboom in Toy Story four. 647 00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:28,120 Speaker 1: Duke Kaboom, Yeah that's the guy. Yeah, that's who does 648 00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:28,600 Speaker 1: the voice. 649 00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:31,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, so we're you're you're trying to name the famous voice, 650 00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:33,159 Speaker 2: and it's a famous voice, but these are big people. 651 00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:35,720 Speaker 1: Yes, it's do kaboomabom? What you will, Arnette? 652 00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:37,960 Speaker 2: No, I guess I'll give you three guests just because 653 00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:39,360 Speaker 2: like if I could play you the clip, that would 654 00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:41,359 Speaker 2: be obviously very helpful to you. 655 00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:42,960 Speaker 1: Kaboom do kaboom. 656 00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:45,840 Speaker 2: But these are like animated like Disney a lot, so 657 00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:47,400 Speaker 2: a lot of things you'll probably have known. 658 00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:50,600 Speaker 1: Okay, Douke Kaboom, Yeah for sure, that was Will Arnette. 659 00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:52,199 Speaker 1: I mean my next guest will be it would be 660 00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:54,960 Speaker 1: Tom Hanks doing another voice on the film. Yeah, Tim 661 00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:55,679 Speaker 1: Allen doing it. 662 00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:58,560 Speaker 2: Okay, No, it's not. But here I'm gonna try and 663 00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:00,720 Speaker 2: play you like a little clip it up to the mic. 664 00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:03,720 Speaker 2: Okay's greatest stunt man. 665 00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:13,119 Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, one, oh yeah, that's. 666 00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:15,520 Speaker 2: Probably not giving you much, no, not, but it sounds familiar. 667 00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:16,479 Speaker 1: But I don't know who that is. 668 00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:18,040 Speaker 2: Let me tell you, tell me. 669 00:26:20,240 --> 00:26:23,240 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah that when you say that, it sounds now. 670 00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:24,879 Speaker 1: I can see him in the booth going, oh. 671 00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:27,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, I'm going to attempt to play some of 672 00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:29,560 Speaker 2: these clips. Well I have to, Like I'm going through 673 00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:34,879 Speaker 2: the YouTube videos. Okay, we've got Chief Bogo in Zootopia, 674 00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:40,200 Speaker 2: missed abandon in your post insides, and a scurry reckless 675 00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:43,600 Speaker 2: yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, we got there. 676 00:26:43,640 --> 00:26:45,760 Speaker 1: I love Utopia. Do you know their building? Do you 677 00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:48,000 Speaker 1: know they're building a whole Utopia landing. It's at Tokyo 678 00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:52,320 Speaker 1: Disney really, then they're talking about doing it in Orlando 679 00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:54,800 Speaker 1: because Disney World is having a massive battle right now 680 00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:57,360 Speaker 1: against Universal, because Universe is opening that new theme park 681 00:26:57,359 --> 00:27:01,080 Speaker 1: that's gonna blow their blow them out of the fin water. 682 00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:05,520 Speaker 2: Well, I will say like Universal versus Disney is already 683 00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:09,040 Speaker 2: better for adults. Like I love Disney for the iconic 684 00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:11,560 Speaker 2: mone and I love so many Disney movies and shows 685 00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:14,080 Speaker 2: and stuff, But as far as the theme parks, Universal 686 00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:17,199 Speaker 2: was far and above like for adults like, that's all 687 00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:20,760 Speaker 2: you have time for? Do Universaleah, So I don't know 688 00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:22,679 Speaker 2: that they have to take too much step further to 689 00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:24,600 Speaker 2: you know what I mean, like beat that now. Yeah. 690 00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:26,119 Speaker 1: But this is a good one too, because this this 691 00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:28,119 Speaker 1: next park is going to be a mixture of adult 692 00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:31,199 Speaker 1: and kid both win. But just the concept of it. 693 00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:34,119 Speaker 1: If you ever have time, watch their promo video for 694 00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:37,440 Speaker 1: the concept. It's so it's so freaking cool. 695 00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:45,040 Speaker 2: Like that. Don't need to be getting in trouble, okay, explicitly, 696 00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:49,320 Speaker 2: Mark Okay, Okay, here we go. I gotta turn off, 697 00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:53,639 Speaker 2: turn off my email. Okay. Groot in Guardians of the Galaxy, 698 00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:57,480 Speaker 2: I am Groot. Yeah Okay, I wasn't say because he 699 00:27:57,520 --> 00:27:59,120 Speaker 2: doesn't say anything. He just says I am Grew. 700 00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:00,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. 701 00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:01,520 Speaker 2: Okay, so you got that one. I don't have to 702 00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:05,000 Speaker 2: do that, okay. Anna in Frozen, Oh no, this is 703 00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:07,760 Speaker 2: Kristen Bell. Okay, see, I'll play the clubs if you're 704 00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:11,760 Speaker 2: not sure yet, okay, Okay. The White Rabbit in Secret 705 00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:12,840 Speaker 2: Life of Pets too. 706 00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:16,439 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna guess because I think I know it is. 707 00:28:16,440 --> 00:28:17,200 Speaker 1: Is it? Kevin Hart? 708 00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:17,800 Speaker 3: Yeah? 709 00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:19,760 Speaker 2: I want to see if I can find a clipbok 710 00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:22,440 Speaker 2: because he is really funny, funny like that. Oh here 711 00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:25,399 Speaker 2: he is, and I'm just like also hoping it's cursing. 712 00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:28,560 Speaker 2: I don't think he is because his kids moving. Oh 713 00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:29,800 Speaker 2: I just rescue the tiger. 714 00:28:30,160 --> 00:28:31,480 Speaker 1: I'm not even trying to brag about that. 715 00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:34,760 Speaker 2: I love him like you love him. 716 00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:36,560 Speaker 1: Great character actor and voice actor too. 717 00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:40,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's just good at everything. Okay, Audrey in Lorax 718 00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:42,520 Speaker 2: Audrey and Lorax. 719 00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:44,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know for me. 720 00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:46,040 Speaker 2: Okay, hold on, I gotta fin I gotta find it 721 00:28:46,040 --> 00:28:47,720 Speaker 2: in which clip because I have like three different YouTube 722 00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:50,240 Speaker 2: videos where I went down like a rabbit hole. There's 723 00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:52,800 Speaker 2: all these videos of all like the famous people behind them, 724 00:28:52,840 --> 00:28:53,840 Speaker 2: and they're so good. 725 00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:56,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's really cool. I like watching the videos of 726 00:28:56,280 --> 00:28:58,760 Speaker 1: them in the booth recording it, and then they'll put 727 00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:00,840 Speaker 1: like the animation next to it and them, and it 728 00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:02,880 Speaker 1: almost like it blows your mind, like, oh my gosh, 729 00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:04,720 Speaker 1: that's so cool to see it that way. 730 00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:06,360 Speaker 2: For me at least, that's what this is. That's what 731 00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:08,760 Speaker 2: these YouTube videos. So that's like U's how I like 732 00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:09,800 Speaker 2: started this whole game. 733 00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:10,800 Speaker 1: Yeah was that? 734 00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:12,720 Speaker 2: Okay, hell on, I gotta find. 735 00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:13,400 Speaker 1: I've seen Rex. 736 00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:14,160 Speaker 2: Oh here we go a. 737 00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:14,840 Speaker 1: Couple of times. 738 00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:19,840 Speaker 2: Are you ready? Seriously? How cool is your grandma? 739 00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:22,040 Speaker 1: Real? 740 00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:30,080 Speaker 2: The Oxygen for three? Very famous voice. 741 00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:34,959 Speaker 1: Taylor Swift. 742 00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:36,880 Speaker 2: I probably give you a little bit of a clue 743 00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:39,040 Speaker 2: with them. Very famous. But yeah, it doesn't hundred percent 744 00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:39,920 Speaker 2: sound like her, doesn't. 745 00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:41,760 Speaker 1: No, it doesn't. But that last one that you play 746 00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:43,680 Speaker 1: where she inflects a little more than I'm like, oh, 747 00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:44,440 Speaker 1: that's Taylor Swift. 748 00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:46,959 Speaker 2: I think she was pretty young in that one too, 749 00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:50,200 Speaker 2: because I was. That's the lorox is a few years old, 750 00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:53,520 Speaker 2: I believe. Now I'm trying to I'm gonna try and 751 00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:55,600 Speaker 2: find these other clips. But do you know who Joe 752 00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:59,760 Speaker 2: this is a newer movie. Joe Gardner in Seoul have 753 00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:00,440 Speaker 2: seen The Soul. 754 00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:02,160 Speaker 1: I've seen, So that's That's another one of the movies 755 00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:04,280 Speaker 1: that like it takes your mind and bends it to 756 00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:04,960 Speaker 1: another degree. 757 00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:05,400 Speaker 2: So good. 758 00:30:05,520 --> 00:30:07,680 Speaker 1: It's such a great movie. My first guestle not even 759 00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:10,280 Speaker 1: thinking about it, was either going to be Samuel L. 760 00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:15,280 Speaker 1: Jackson or play if maybe you gotta play it isn't him, 761 00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:15,760 Speaker 1: I don't think. 762 00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:19,400 Speaker 2: Let me just find it. I'm just gonna start searching him. 763 00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:20,560 Speaker 1: So he's the main character. 764 00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:23,280 Speaker 2: He's the main character. I got a jazz musician, and 765 00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:25,800 Speaker 2: let me see if I can just get a conversation. 766 00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:30,720 Speaker 1: She can fix my suit. So, mom, is there anything. 767 00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:32,160 Speaker 2: There was a clip of him? You heard it for 768 00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:35,920 Speaker 2: a second, fix my suit? Embarrassing, that's not that's not 769 00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:42,440 Speaker 2: the person. This is where they're like switching different. I 770 00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:44,080 Speaker 2: literally had to google a conversation. 771 00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:47,960 Speaker 1: My mom has never understood what I'm trying to do 772 00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:52,720 Speaker 1: with my life. Oh okay, my mom. It sounds like 773 00:30:52,720 --> 00:30:54,160 Speaker 1: a little bit like a taste of Kanye for a 774 00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:57,720 Speaker 1: quick second there Kanye because he was not mentally saying 775 00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:00,800 Speaker 1: to be around for the recording of that. Also, isn't 776 00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:02,880 Speaker 1: it weird that you know that they re released at 777 00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:05,320 Speaker 1: the theaters. It became a theater movie. It's like only 778 00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:07,280 Speaker 1: in theaters because it came out there in COVID. 779 00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:10,120 Speaker 2: That's wild man, Who is it? 780 00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:12,120 Speaker 1: That's such a very familiar voice. 781 00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:14,240 Speaker 2: Yep, you'll be mad that you're not gonna get me. 782 00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:15,800 Speaker 1: Very pissed. I'm not going to get it. He like 783 00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:17,080 Speaker 1: the first initial. 784 00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:23,280 Speaker 2: J Jay, Oh Jay, you're not thinking in this realm. 785 00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:27,800 Speaker 1: No, I'm not, Oh man, I'm out. I don't know. 786 00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:32,600 Speaker 1: Jamie Fox, Oh yes, Jamie Fox, Yes, definitely now. 787 00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:36,880 Speaker 2: That you say, yeah, Okaymorrow, Yeah you knew it. You 788 00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:39,080 Speaker 2: may not need the clip for this one, but I'll 789 00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:44,680 Speaker 2: play it first and they'll do hold on, I need 790 00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:47,600 Speaker 2: them to talk. Keep them. Keep in mind, I'm searching these. 791 00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:50,120 Speaker 1: Like prepare this well. 792 00:31:50,160 --> 00:31:53,520 Speaker 3: I did to pull the clips. 793 00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:54,960 Speaker 2: The clips, but they're all together, so like I have 794 00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:56,680 Speaker 2: to go through the video to get to each O. 795 00:31:57,120 --> 00:32:07,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm which one like that voice. 796 00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:09,680 Speaker 2: Says Rocket and Guardians of the Galaxy. 797 00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:12,200 Speaker 1: Oh Rocket, so that's Bradley Cooper. 798 00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:14,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I was gonna say, I don't know if 799 00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:15,000 Speaker 2: you needed the clip for him. 800 00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:16,600 Speaker 1: Yes, Rocket's him. And then I got to look at 801 00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:18,400 Speaker 1: these guys. I heard Chris Pratt for a second there, 802 00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:19,880 Speaker 1: I know, and I was like, okay, gotcha. 803 00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:21,880 Speaker 2: It was one of the scenes with all of them, because, 804 00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:24,520 Speaker 2: like I said, now, I'm just like searching for their characters. Okay, 805 00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:28,520 Speaker 2: here's grew Yes and Minions. 806 00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:29,800 Speaker 1: Oh that's Steve Crow. 807 00:32:30,320 --> 00:32:33,160 Speaker 2: Yep, Steve cre Yeah, yep, okay, Steve Crew. And last 808 00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:36,080 Speaker 2: one okay, Poppy and Trolls. 809 00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:39,080 Speaker 1: Poppy and Trolls. That is Anna Kendrick. 810 00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:42,440 Speaker 2: Really appreciate you making me not search for this. 811 00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:44,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm really good at these things. 812 00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:46,440 Speaker 2: So that was a game I had prepared, was to 813 00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:49,000 Speaker 2: like guess the voices because they like as much as 814 00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:51,840 Speaker 2: they're iconic. Yeah, when they get into an animated character, 815 00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:53,120 Speaker 2: you may not be able to put them together. 816 00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:54,280 Speaker 1: They changed a little bit totally. 817 00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:57,719 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, I feel like you got like like 818 00:32:57,720 --> 00:32:58,479 Speaker 2: a minus. 819 00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:02,000 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, definitely a name I minis one. Yeah yeah, 820 00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:03,680 Speaker 1: Jamie Fox, I missed that one. 821 00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:06,479 Speaker 2: And you missed Kanu Reeves. So so technically, because there 822 00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:08,440 Speaker 2: was ten, you have eighty percent to. 823 00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:09,560 Speaker 3: Be that crap? 824 00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:11,640 Speaker 1: Are you looking at scale or like I missed two 825 00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:13,760 Speaker 1: and it's already done with be almost a c for 826 00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:14,480 Speaker 1: missing two. 827 00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:17,440 Speaker 2: I know it's so dumb unbelievable, but it was ten 828 00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:19,400 Speaker 2: of but good time. You did do really good, like 829 00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:21,800 Speaker 2: for the chaos that that was. He digressed, Thank you 830 00:33:21,800 --> 00:33:22,040 Speaker 2: so much. 831 00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:23,480 Speaker 1: If I would have had to line up perfectly, I'll 832 00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:24,320 Speaker 1: probably got them all right. 833 00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:28,680 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, Okay, we're gonna take one more quick break 834 00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:35,040 Speaker 2: and we'll be right back, all right. Scuba hot topic. 835 00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:38,440 Speaker 2: So I have stumbled on store or a topic? No, no, no, 836 00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:39,200 Speaker 2: like topics. 837 00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:39,920 Speaker 1: I'm a hot topic. 838 00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:42,280 Speaker 2: Yes, I know there's a store called that too. 839 00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:44,200 Speaker 1: Never doing brick and mortar. We're doing like. 840 00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:47,480 Speaker 2: Things, no things, so all over my TikTok feed is 841 00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:53,320 Speaker 2: these guys who are like revealing min's darkest, dirtiest secrets, 842 00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:56,080 Speaker 2: which is really entertaining as a woman because all it 843 00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:58,040 Speaker 2: does is validate a lot of things that we've already 844 00:33:58,040 --> 00:34:00,440 Speaker 2: thought about, y'all, but you know it's coming out. Guys 845 00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:02,280 Speaker 2: are like, no, it's true, like one hundred percent okay, 846 00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:05,680 Speaker 2: And it's about like dating and women. So I want 847 00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:09,520 Speaker 2: to ask you, like from your perspective, okay, if these 848 00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:13,280 Speaker 2: things are true for you? Okay, okay, So like people 849 00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:15,600 Speaker 2: that I know, oh yeah, yeah, are guys that you 850 00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:19,799 Speaker 2: know whatever, like generically for the average man, is this true? 851 00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:20,400 Speaker 1: Okay? 852 00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:23,560 Speaker 2: So is? And they're all kind of like concepts around 853 00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:26,320 Speaker 2: like I said, dating and women. Yeah, So we're starting 854 00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:28,839 Speaker 2: off with the first one. If he wanted to, he 855 00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:32,280 Speaker 2: would the concept of saying like, if a man genuinely 856 00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:34,279 Speaker 2: cares for you, once you loves you, he is going 857 00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:35,840 Speaker 2: to pursue. He's going to come after, he's going to 858 00:34:35,920 --> 00:34:39,960 Speaker 2: do all the things to have you, yeah, because he 859 00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:42,880 Speaker 2: like he wants you. But if he doesn't, he's not 860 00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:45,239 Speaker 2: going to because he doesn't want to yes, So like 861 00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:47,839 Speaker 2: if he wanted to, he would yes. 862 00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:50,680 Speaker 1: What are they saying that's not true or it is true? 863 00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:52,560 Speaker 2: No, I'm just asking because I'm so curious because like, 864 00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:54,279 Speaker 2: these are guys on TikTok, so I want to know, 865 00:34:54,360 --> 00:34:56,839 Speaker 2: like across the board is this most men? 866 00:34:57,120 --> 00:34:58,880 Speaker 1: I think yet most men that is that, and I 867 00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:00,440 Speaker 1: think the ones that don't aren't into it. And a 868 00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:02,520 Speaker 1: woman pursues even harder, and then they do get together 869 00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:04,839 Speaker 1: and it ends up in a break up or cheating. You're like, well, duh, 870 00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:06,960 Speaker 1: he told he didn't show any interest in the beginning. 871 00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:09,040 Speaker 1: It wasn't his movie. It's just he just wasn't interested 872 00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:11,120 Speaker 1: and you forced it upon him and then gave him 873 00:35:11,120 --> 00:35:12,640 Speaker 1: something and he was like, well it was kind of 874 00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:14,239 Speaker 1: felt good. So I guess I did a couple more 875 00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:16,080 Speaker 1: times in the next thing, you know, six months later 876 00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:17,719 Speaker 1: he's in a relationship. He's like, crap, I didn't want 877 00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:20,040 Speaker 1: to be in this relationship. So yes, I think men 878 00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:21,759 Speaker 1: are more driven based on what they want, and if 879 00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:23,719 Speaker 1: they don't want it, they won't pursue it. Not saying 880 00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:25,400 Speaker 1: women aren't that way, but I feel like in a 881 00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:30,359 Speaker 1: relationship sometimes I've noticed that women could they have their 882 00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:32,239 Speaker 1: eyes set in a particular guy because it checks the 883 00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:34,560 Speaker 1: boxes and they will go all out to get that guy. 884 00:35:34,840 --> 00:35:36,520 Speaker 1: And if the guy is not interested, he will be 885 00:35:36,640 --> 00:35:38,640 Speaker 1: very very very blunt that he's not interested. 886 00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:40,759 Speaker 2: So could it be safe to assume that if a 887 00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:42,880 Speaker 2: guy is not pursuing in the early stages, he is 888 00:35:43,120 --> 00:35:45,560 Speaker 2: likely along the lines of the movie, he's just not 889 00:35:45,800 --> 00:35:46,439 Speaker 2: that into you. 890 00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:52,080 Speaker 1: So exactly. Yes, the whole growing to love sometimes works, 891 00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:54,720 Speaker 1: But I think for the way that men are wired, 892 00:35:55,600 --> 00:35:56,960 Speaker 1: if we don't want it, we don't want it. Like 893 00:35:57,000 --> 00:35:58,719 Speaker 1: if I'm not into it, I'm not into it. It could 894 00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:01,040 Speaker 1: be anything you want to go to line chat here, like, no, 895 00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:02,000 Speaker 1: I'm not really into that. 896 00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:06,120 Speaker 2: A lot of a lot of midlife for you coming 897 00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:07,840 Speaker 2: if that's the guy that you choose to pursue. 898 00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:08,360 Speaker 3: Exactly. 899 00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:10,560 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Oh I've seen it many times growing up 900 00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:13,040 Speaker 1: and outside of Orlando, where you got these people that 901 00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:15,319 Speaker 1: were that was convenient in high school and then they 902 00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:17,879 Speaker 1: all of a sudden kept going and then the guy 903 00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:20,360 Speaker 1: probably showed interests elsewhere and the girl was like, no, 904 00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:21,919 Speaker 1: I've been in this for eight years, and you feel 905 00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:23,799 Speaker 1: bad for the girl, and then they get married because 906 00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:25,879 Speaker 1: there's pressure, and then they have kids, and then twenty 907 00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:28,560 Speaker 1: years later there's the woman's cheating on the guy because 908 00:36:28,600 --> 00:36:30,919 Speaker 1: she didn't get the love that she wanted and he's 909 00:36:31,360 --> 00:36:33,560 Speaker 1: fat and lazy and on drugs. It doesn't care, and 910 00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:34,520 Speaker 1: then you got kids involved. 911 00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:36,160 Speaker 2: I took a long road, but yeah, yeah. 912 00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:39,080 Speaker 1: Quarterback and the head cheerleader don't always work out, folks, 913 00:36:39,440 --> 00:36:41,640 Speaker 1: And if you think it does, you're wrong. It doesn't. 914 00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:43,920 Speaker 2: Okay, now we're going to dive into which thank you. 915 00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:46,200 Speaker 2: I really, like I said, when I hear you guys 916 00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:48,400 Speaker 2: talk about these things, it validates a lot of things 917 00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:50,600 Speaker 2: that I've already learned and experienced to know. 918 00:36:50,960 --> 00:36:53,200 Speaker 1: But also f you to the guy that doesn't eventually 919 00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:56,080 Speaker 1: be like, girl, I know you pursue me, but like 920 00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:57,440 Speaker 1: this is not for me. 921 00:36:57,719 --> 00:36:59,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, they just let it happen. They're like, yeah, Sue 922 00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:00,480 Speaker 2: feels good. 923 00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:02,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that sounds great. Cool, you're gonna bomb me 924 00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:04,720 Speaker 1: something and when we have sex and then whatever. 925 00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:05,080 Speaker 3: Sure. 926 00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:07,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, so I think also screamed to the guy who 927 00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:09,919 Speaker 1: doesn't man, who isn't man enough to say, look, dude, 928 00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:12,200 Speaker 1: I ain't end to you. I'm so sorry, but this is. 929 00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:13,640 Speaker 2: Not going to work well and I think so much 930 00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:15,640 Speaker 2: of this is coming from, like when guys are talking 931 00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:17,719 Speaker 2: about this and girls are watching it, it's coming from 932 00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:20,880 Speaker 2: the fact that there's so much lack of communication in 933 00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:24,520 Speaker 2: the dating world, right, Yeah, Like men don't communate. They again, 934 00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:26,800 Speaker 2: and to their credit, have been taught not to communicate. 935 00:37:27,040 --> 00:37:29,200 Speaker 2: They've been taught not to talk about their feelings, so 936 00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:31,359 Speaker 2: they don't and then in turn, you have a lot 937 00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:33,279 Speaker 2: of women out there who are very confused and don't 938 00:37:33,360 --> 00:37:35,920 Speaker 2: understand in trying to have closure or at least trying 939 00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:38,399 Speaker 2: to understand what went wrong. Yeah, So because they want 940 00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:40,759 Speaker 2: to learn, they want to grow. So the lack of 941 00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:43,279 Speaker 2: communication is where this is all stemming from. Right, And 942 00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:46,600 Speaker 2: if men would just communicate and say I'm into I'm 943 00:37:46,600 --> 00:37:48,640 Speaker 2: not into you, I don't think there would be all 944 00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:50,319 Speaker 2: these series and all these things. I'm just putting that 945 00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:53,120 Speaker 2: out there, like there's all of these because we have 946 00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:56,080 Speaker 2: to decipher what something means. Yes, yeah, that's where this 947 00:37:56,120 --> 00:37:59,440 Speaker 2: is coming from. Okay, the cab light theory. So this 948 00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:02,040 Speaker 2: all like started in actually in Sex and the City, 949 00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:05,680 Speaker 2: but it's really respond on TikTok and the whole theory 950 00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:08,120 Speaker 2: from Sex and the City is where Miranda She says, 951 00:38:08,160 --> 00:38:11,359 Speaker 2: like men are like cabs. When they're available, their light 952 00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:13,799 Speaker 2: goes on. They awake one day and decide they're ready 953 00:38:13,840 --> 00:38:16,000 Speaker 2: to settle down, have babies, and they'll turn their light on, 954 00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:18,560 Speaker 2: and then the next women they choose, it's going to 955 00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:21,160 Speaker 2: be that one, even if it's not the right one 956 00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:23,399 Speaker 2: for them, it just so happens that it's the right 957 00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:24,520 Speaker 2: timing of their cab light. 958 00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:25,160 Speaker 1: Yeah. 959 00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:28,359 Speaker 2: So the whole theory is that, like for women, our 960 00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:31,920 Speaker 2: cab lights are always on. For men, they could meet 961 00:38:31,960 --> 00:38:34,040 Speaker 2: the right person, but their cab light is not on. 962 00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:36,960 Speaker 2: But five years down the road their light comes on. 963 00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:39,279 Speaker 2: The next woman they meet, they're going to marry because 964 00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:41,000 Speaker 2: that's who's there when their cab light turned on. 965 00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:41,760 Speaker 1: Yeah. 966 00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:44,320 Speaker 2: Do you feel like that theory is true. 967 00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:47,520 Speaker 1: I've seen it true with some of my friends who 968 00:38:47,960 --> 00:38:50,960 Speaker 1: who are like on and off. A girl will come by. 969 00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:54,360 Speaker 1: I'm like, and I'm like, dude, that girl is amazing. Yeah, 970 00:38:54,360 --> 00:38:56,759 Speaker 1: she's whatever. I'm like, are you kidding me? Not only 971 00:38:56,840 --> 00:38:58,759 Speaker 1: is she on the xterier, she's beautiful, but she's a 972 00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:00,839 Speaker 1: really good person and she does always kind things, and 973 00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:03,040 Speaker 1: she's thinking of you and doing these things for you, 974 00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:05,359 Speaker 1: and you don't even care. Like I saw it many 975 00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:07,400 Speaker 1: different times with one of my best friends and this 976 00:39:07,440 --> 00:39:09,480 Speaker 1: girl he was dating for a little bit and then 977 00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:11,440 Speaker 1: like didn't date her, and I was like, what, I 978 00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:13,600 Speaker 1: would love to date her, but she had no interest 979 00:39:13,600 --> 00:39:15,399 Speaker 1: in me whatsoever. She wanted to be with this guy. 980 00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:19,000 Speaker 1: And so, yes, that theory is definitely true, not for 981 00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:21,319 Speaker 1: all guys, but for some of the guys that I've 982 00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:23,600 Speaker 1: been around and seeing. Yes, for me and not necessarily 983 00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:26,120 Speaker 1: for me. For me, there is no cablee. It's just 984 00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:27,200 Speaker 1: a me INDI or not. 985 00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:30,799 Speaker 2: You know, Yeah, like your cablite turned on because you 986 00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:32,080 Speaker 2: were interested in somebody. 987 00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:33,520 Speaker 1: Exactly, not because there's having me a moment in time 988 00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:36,240 Speaker 1: that it's on. Yeah, yeah, because it's not a cablite 989 00:39:36,280 --> 00:39:38,239 Speaker 1: season for me, it's oh now season it's on. 990 00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:41,239 Speaker 2: Because I do think for some men the cablite is 991 00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:44,520 Speaker 2: always on, but I think more often than not it's not. Yes, 992 00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:46,600 Speaker 2: I think you're more of a unicorn in that aspect. 993 00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:48,560 Speaker 1: Yes, And I think mostly too, because I was raised 994 00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:51,920 Speaker 1: by all women, like sister is one brother but he's 995 00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:55,560 Speaker 1: younger than me, cousins, aunts like all women, grandmother, mother, 996 00:39:55,760 --> 00:39:57,400 Speaker 1: all women. So I was raised and I had a 997 00:39:57,440 --> 00:39:59,360 Speaker 1: different perspective on life because I was around a lot 998 00:39:59,400 --> 00:40:01,520 Speaker 1: of women all the crap that they had to go 999 00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:02,480 Speaker 1: through because of guys. 1000 00:40:03,840 --> 00:40:06,800 Speaker 2: You're emotionally available, yeah. 1001 00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:09,600 Speaker 1: Seeah, and I'm a cancer of some just emotional in general. 1002 00:40:09,760 --> 00:40:13,919 Speaker 2: Okay, love that. Okay. The guy knows within the first 1003 00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:16,960 Speaker 2: time of meeting you what category he's placing you in. 1004 00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:20,440 Speaker 2: For example, you're either going in the hookup category or 1005 00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:22,360 Speaker 2: date girlfriend wife category. 1006 00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:25,200 Speaker 1: Yeah. I think it depends on how long your conversation was, 1007 00:40:25,719 --> 00:40:27,600 Speaker 1: or you're saying this is like an initial Yeah. 1008 00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:29,200 Speaker 2: Like say like your first you go on a first 1009 00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:32,359 Speaker 2: date with somebody, and the guy knows right away which 1010 00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:34,239 Speaker 2: of the two categories he's going to put you in. 1011 00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:36,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, I could say that, Yeah, for sure. And I 1012 00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:38,759 Speaker 1: think I think sometimes guys always want to put every 1013 00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:41,560 Speaker 1: girl in the category of we're hooking up, So that category, 1014 00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:43,200 Speaker 1: I think is always standing strong. 1015 00:40:44,040 --> 00:40:44,439 Speaker 2: That's fair. 1016 00:40:44,960 --> 00:40:46,799 Speaker 1: It's like, hey, this is a hook up and then 1017 00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:48,839 Speaker 1: also she's pretty cool too, so we could also date. 1018 00:40:49,080 --> 00:40:51,000 Speaker 1: But I feel like that the number one criteria for 1019 00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:52,920 Speaker 1: most minute they're going out, especially if they're going out 1020 00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:58,040 Speaker 1: over all the boys, they're like, they're number one thought 1021 00:40:58,400 --> 00:41:01,160 Speaker 1: is how can I get in. 1022 00:41:01,120 --> 00:41:03,240 Speaker 2: The wild, as you say, yes. 1023 00:41:03,080 --> 00:41:05,160 Speaker 1: In the wild, how can I get some? And then 1024 00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:09,920 Speaker 1: maybe if something happens along the way. Cool. But sometimes 1025 00:41:09,920 --> 00:41:11,600 Speaker 1: there's like there have been seasons where you're like, man, 1026 00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:13,279 Speaker 1: I just really want to find a good girl, and 1027 00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:14,840 Speaker 1: then you don't want to hook up and you just 1028 00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:17,399 Speaker 1: genuinely look for a good girl. And sometimes you find 1029 00:41:17,400 --> 00:41:20,239 Speaker 1: the bad girls and they're in the season of a 1030 00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:21,920 Speaker 1: man and they're well. 1031 00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:23,600 Speaker 2: You know that that's a trade off for us there Scuba, 1032 00:41:23,719 --> 00:41:25,560 Speaker 2: because we always have the bad boys. So you know, 1033 00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:28,160 Speaker 2: if you only had a season of bad girls, I 1034 00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:30,360 Speaker 2: think you're doing pretty good. Okay, cool, you know, for 1035 00:41:30,520 --> 00:41:31,760 Speaker 2: like us, it's every season. 1036 00:41:32,080 --> 00:41:33,719 Speaker 1: Yeah. And then I also I think I fall in 1037 00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:37,760 Speaker 1: love easily. Not easily, but like I find a few traits. 1038 00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:39,439 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, it checks the box, and I could 1039 00:41:39,440 --> 00:41:41,560 Speaker 1: fall in love and then get hurt pretty quickly too, 1040 00:41:42,360 --> 00:41:43,800 Speaker 1: just because they checked a few of the boxes and 1041 00:41:43,800 --> 00:41:45,360 Speaker 1: not all the boxes. And I put blinders on. 1042 00:41:45,719 --> 00:41:53,480 Speaker 2: You've always been in your lover area, yeah, lover era, yes, yes, yes, yeah. 1043 00:41:53,360 --> 00:41:55,799 Speaker 1: I've always been. Yes, I think always been a lover 1044 00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:57,880 Speaker 1: And again I think it's because I'm a cancer. I 1045 00:41:58,040 --> 00:41:59,919 Speaker 1: just always open for love. 1046 00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:02,080 Speaker 2: All right, Hey, we like it. We like it love 1047 00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:02,800 Speaker 2: or not a fighter. 1048 00:42:03,040 --> 00:42:03,719 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1049 00:42:04,040 --> 00:42:06,600 Speaker 2: Busy okay, is a word you don't want to hear 1050 00:42:06,719 --> 00:42:08,759 Speaker 2: because he's not busy, he's ignoring you. 1051 00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:11,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, for sure. Yet busy is just a way 1052 00:42:11,480 --> 00:42:13,880 Speaker 1: to be like, oh, it's it's the it's like the 1053 00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:17,440 Speaker 1: long standing excuse just say you're busy. But especially when 1054 00:42:17,440 --> 00:42:19,640 Speaker 1: you know, like you're not busy. You work at hot topic, 1055 00:42:20,680 --> 00:42:23,560 Speaker 1: you have nothing going on for you, you still live at home, 1056 00:42:23,680 --> 00:42:27,800 Speaker 1: you have three friends, you're never busy. Maybe like like 1057 00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:29,960 Speaker 1: Lunchbox be like I'm busy. I'm like, you're a liar. 1058 00:42:30,320 --> 00:42:32,440 Speaker 1: You're at home doing nothing right now, you're not busy? 1059 00:42:33,120 --> 00:42:36,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know what here here's something to punk lunchbox. 1060 00:42:36,239 --> 00:42:39,080 Speaker 1: But yeah, an example of the audience to understand it's great. 1061 00:42:39,239 --> 00:42:42,480 Speaker 2: Yeah. Uh, you know, from a from a woman's standpoint, 1062 00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:45,880 Speaker 2: I a few different levels of this. I've used this 1063 00:42:45,960 --> 00:42:48,719 Speaker 2: word when I'm not interested, and I recognize it, Like 1064 00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:51,400 Speaker 2: I won't even recognize that I'm not interested until I 1065 00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:53,880 Speaker 2: realize I'm not responding. I'm like, sorry, I'm so busy. 1066 00:42:54,040 --> 00:42:57,440 Speaker 2: I wasn't busy, yeah, and I wasn't intentionally not responding. 1067 00:42:57,680 --> 00:43:00,200 Speaker 2: I just wasn't interested, and I wasn't ready to say 1068 00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:02,200 Speaker 2: I wasn't interested yet. I just you know what I mean, 1069 00:43:02,239 --> 00:43:06,680 Speaker 2: Like it was that gray area. But so I think 1070 00:43:06,719 --> 00:43:08,279 Speaker 2: this is true for more than just men. I think 1071 00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:10,520 Speaker 2: it's true for both women and men. Busy is like 1072 00:43:10,600 --> 00:43:12,560 Speaker 2: a word that if you're using the word busy, like 1073 00:43:12,680 --> 00:43:16,480 Speaker 2: genuinely a lot. Granted if you're straight up a busy person, 1074 00:43:16,800 --> 00:43:20,360 Speaker 2: like you have one, got it respect, but like it 1075 00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:22,399 Speaker 2: can't be get your excuse, you get like that one 1076 00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:26,919 Speaker 2: time and beyond that, like you're prioritizing things at that point. 1077 00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:28,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think most people think they go off. 1078 00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:30,720 Speaker 1: I say they're busy, they'll leave me along and also 1079 00:43:30,719 --> 00:43:33,319 Speaker 1: feel bad for me because I'm so busy. I'm so 1080 00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:35,239 Speaker 1: swamp right now. Yes, oh my, I'm so sorry. I 1081 00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:37,080 Speaker 1: won't bother you. And then just helping them, they just 1082 00:43:37,120 --> 00:43:38,680 Speaker 1: go egg because you're busy. 1083 00:43:38,560 --> 00:43:41,080 Speaker 2: And I like from you know, we touched on a 1084 00:43:41,120 --> 00:43:43,080 Speaker 2: little bit of the cheating, but I've been in every 1085 00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:45,960 Speaker 2: relationship I've been on in in was cheat I was 1086 00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:48,960 Speaker 2: cheated on. So I have an anxious attachment style. So 1087 00:43:49,280 --> 00:43:52,040 Speaker 2: I always really wanted like texting and stuff to happen, 1088 00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:55,560 Speaker 2: but mature Morgan has grown up a lot and actually 1089 00:43:55,680 --> 00:43:58,319 Speaker 2: really hates texting. Like I thought I really wanted it, 1090 00:43:58,360 --> 00:44:00,520 Speaker 2: but actually, when I'm in a secure setting, I actually 1091 00:44:00,600 --> 00:44:03,080 Speaker 2: don't want it. You might put conversations on the phone, 1092 00:44:03,080 --> 00:44:06,160 Speaker 2: then well I prefer as long as there's like a 1093 00:44:06,239 --> 00:44:08,600 Speaker 2: standing communication of like, hey, I hope you have a 1094 00:44:08,640 --> 00:44:11,279 Speaker 2: great day. We don't have to talk. Yeah, as long 1095 00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:14,720 Speaker 2: as there I'm I'm feeling consistently like they are thinking 1096 00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:17,839 Speaker 2: about me or trying to make plans, like we don't 1097 00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:19,400 Speaker 2: talk for twenty four hours the next days like hey, 1098 00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:22,000 Speaker 2: I want to make plans with you for Saturday seven pm. 1099 00:44:22,040 --> 00:44:23,840 Speaker 2: Let's do dinner. And I'm like, cool, you don't have 1100 00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:25,799 Speaker 2: to talk to me until Friday when you confirm said plans. 1101 00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:26,320 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1102 00:44:26,360 --> 00:44:29,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, as long as I'm feeling secure in that situation 1103 00:44:29,840 --> 00:44:33,000 Speaker 2: where it's consistent that I feel wanted and I feel 1104 00:44:33,000 --> 00:44:35,480 Speaker 2: like you are making an effort, I don't need the car. 1105 00:44:35,520 --> 00:44:37,000 Speaker 2: I don't even need the phone calls, like if you 1106 00:44:37,040 --> 00:44:37,800 Speaker 2: want to, that's. 1107 00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:40,160 Speaker 1: Cool, Okay, So as long as long as someone's continually 1108 00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:42,600 Speaker 1: pursuing you and wanting to do things and hang out 1109 00:44:42,640 --> 00:44:43,640 Speaker 1: and yeah. 1110 00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:46,520 Speaker 2: The texting like I've also learned that like a consistent 1111 00:44:46,600 --> 00:44:51,080 Speaker 2: texting is also really unhealthy. Yeah, and not actually like 1112 00:44:51,160 --> 00:44:54,040 Speaker 2: the sign of a mature, healthy relationship. It's actually the 1113 00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:56,960 Speaker 2: sign of like some some really different attachment styles, like 1114 00:44:57,000 --> 00:44:58,920 Speaker 2: combining together well eve me, like my. 1115 00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:01,000 Speaker 1: Wife and I will a whole day, will go buy it. 1116 00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:03,160 Speaker 1: Oh crap, and like, oh I haven't I haven't hit 1117 00:45:03,160 --> 00:45:05,040 Speaker 1: her up yet. Hey y'all good. Yeah, I'm all good. 1118 00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:06,040 Speaker 1: So I'm busy. 1119 00:45:06,440 --> 00:45:09,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, but like she probably appreciated just that you even 1120 00:45:09,280 --> 00:45:11,040 Speaker 2: were like hey you guys good. Yeah, you don't have 1121 00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:13,080 Speaker 2: to talk about it, but like just checking in totally. 1122 00:45:13,120 --> 00:45:13,319 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1123 00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:15,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think that's what's healthy. 1124 00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:17,680 Speaker 1: We're just secure in a relationship. And it's like she's 1125 00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:19,600 Speaker 1: doing anything, I'm doing my thing, and then if I 1126 00:45:19,600 --> 00:45:20,840 Speaker 1: need you for something, I'll hit you up or just 1127 00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:22,400 Speaker 1: send me a picture once a while from like daycare, 1128 00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:23,960 Speaker 1: Like I always a picture of one of our daughters 1129 00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:25,640 Speaker 1: doing something. Oh my god, it's so cool. Sometimes I 1130 00:45:25,680 --> 00:45:28,480 Speaker 1: just look at hearted and just keep moving and then 1131 00:45:28,520 --> 00:45:30,959 Speaker 1: everyone's talk until I see her when I go yeah. 1132 00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:33,200 Speaker 1: So yeah, but we're super secure in our relationship and I 1133 00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:35,040 Speaker 1: don't have to always be checking on her and vice versa. 1134 00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:38,319 Speaker 2: No, and because it doesn't allow for any spon eity 1135 00:45:38,360 --> 00:45:40,200 Speaker 2: to happen either, because you were texting every day, you 1136 00:45:40,200 --> 00:45:42,000 Speaker 2: already know about their whole day in life. What are 1137 00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:43,239 Speaker 2: you gonna talk about it? Yeah? 1138 00:45:43,280 --> 00:45:44,239 Speaker 1: What do you know about when you get when you 1139 00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:45,160 Speaker 1: see this was like. 1140 00:45:45,160 --> 00:45:47,360 Speaker 2: Six months on, exactly what else you got left to 1141 00:45:47,360 --> 00:45:47,759 Speaker 2: talk about? 1142 00:45:47,840 --> 00:45:48,160 Speaker 1: Nothing? 1143 00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:49,880 Speaker 2: As you already know everything about you? 1144 00:45:50,040 --> 00:45:51,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know exactly. I read your book. 1145 00:45:51,719 --> 00:45:54,160 Speaker 2: So there is but there's a fine line because obviously, 1146 00:45:54,239 --> 00:45:57,239 Speaker 2: like if they're not even responding, texting, whatever, and there's 1147 00:45:57,280 --> 00:45:59,919 Speaker 2: no plans being made, then this is clearly somebody who's 1148 00:46:00,160 --> 00:46:03,160 Speaker 2: interested totally. But I think there's a there's a level 1149 00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:06,080 Speaker 2: there that happens, and we've been known to believe personally 1150 00:46:06,160 --> 00:46:08,640 Speaker 2: somebody like me who may also be an anxious attachment 1151 00:46:08,640 --> 00:46:10,880 Speaker 2: and be like this, I need this, I need communication 1152 00:46:10,960 --> 00:46:13,560 Speaker 2: all the time, or they're not into me, when really 1153 00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:16,000 Speaker 2: it's just I've met a lot of avoidant attachments who 1154 00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:18,480 Speaker 2: don't even communicate in the first place. Yeah, Yeah, why 1155 00:46:18,520 --> 00:46:20,440 Speaker 2: I'm being anxious because I'm like, what's happening? 1156 00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:21,799 Speaker 1: There's the anxiety comes from. 1157 00:46:21,880 --> 00:46:24,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, So I do think there's more phases too, you 1158 00:46:24,960 --> 00:46:30,200 Speaker 2: know that level. If you hang out during the week 1159 00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:32,560 Speaker 2: versus the weekend, you're on the roster. 1160 00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:35,200 Speaker 1: Week versus weekend, you're on the roster. 1161 00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:38,440 Speaker 2: Weekend meaning weekend is primetime. 1162 00:46:38,040 --> 00:46:39,040 Speaker 1: Friday, Saturday, Sunday. 1163 00:46:39,080 --> 00:46:41,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, And if they keep choosing now not early early stage, 1164 00:46:41,560 --> 00:46:42,600 Speaker 2: I don't even I don't even like to go out 1165 00:46:42,600 --> 00:46:44,360 Speaker 2: on the weekends unless that's all the time I have opened 1166 00:46:44,480 --> 00:46:46,719 Speaker 2: because that is my primetime, Like that's the time I 1167 00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:48,480 Speaker 2: get from me and my friends and not working. 1168 00:46:48,800 --> 00:46:49,200 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1169 00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:52,399 Speaker 2: So for I say, like first three dates, you don't 1170 00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:55,600 Speaker 2: really need the weekend moment, but let's let's focus on 1171 00:46:55,680 --> 00:46:59,359 Speaker 2: like after three dates, you're still the week day and 1172 00:46:59,400 --> 00:47:02,759 Speaker 2: no weekend, Like you're not getting any weekend time. Are 1173 00:47:02,800 --> 00:47:05,840 Speaker 2: you on the roster or are you like something else happening. 1174 00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:08,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know, because for me, it's most of 1175 00:47:08,160 --> 00:47:10,480 Speaker 1: my life. I never had time during the week, So 1176 00:47:10,520 --> 00:47:13,320 Speaker 1: all my stuff was on the weekend, even dates and stuff, 1177 00:47:13,360 --> 00:47:15,239 Speaker 1: just because during the week I'd have work and then 1178 00:47:15,320 --> 00:47:17,320 Speaker 1: when work was over, I was like I want to 1179 00:47:17,400 --> 00:47:19,719 Speaker 1: meet time, I would crash and I had no time 1180 00:47:19,719 --> 00:47:22,120 Speaker 1: for anyone during the week, So I'm I was always 1181 00:47:22,120 --> 00:47:25,640 Speaker 1: a weekend hangout type person. Weekday would only be if 1182 00:47:25,680 --> 00:47:28,759 Speaker 1: it was like a concert happened, like Bruno Mars is 1183 00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:30,880 Speaker 1: performing at the Oracle, and I have tickets on a Tuesday, 1184 00:47:31,080 --> 00:47:33,400 Speaker 1: let's go to that. But I was always a weekend 1185 00:47:33,400 --> 00:47:35,200 Speaker 1: person just because I've never had time during the week 1186 00:47:35,440 --> 00:47:38,520 Speaker 1: So from my personal experience, I had no experience of that, okay, 1187 00:47:38,800 --> 00:47:40,759 Speaker 1: because I'd never did. I wasn't age both. 1188 00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:43,239 Speaker 2: I like the respective, like I don't have experience and 1189 00:47:43,320 --> 00:47:46,920 Speaker 2: it love it. We'll get you a very emotionally mature man. 1190 00:47:47,840 --> 00:47:51,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, really, I really don't have I can't give an 1191 00:47:51,040 --> 00:47:52,120 Speaker 1: answer that I don't know, and I can't even think 1192 00:47:52,120 --> 00:47:54,960 Speaker 1: about like friends and stuff because even most of my friends, 1193 00:47:55,120 --> 00:47:57,640 Speaker 1: I feel like we were always weekend people with everything. Okay, 1194 00:47:57,719 --> 00:47:59,280 Speaker 1: so yeah, we were weekend warriors. 1195 00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:00,880 Speaker 2: Well there's this deer out there that if you're not 1196 00:48:00,880 --> 00:48:04,000 Speaker 2: getting any weekend primetime spots after like say you know, 1197 00:48:04,239 --> 00:48:06,280 Speaker 2: third day, yeah, you're the roster. 1198 00:48:06,560 --> 00:48:09,840 Speaker 1: And I could see that possibly because I guess proving 1199 00:48:10,000 --> 00:48:12,000 Speaker 1: my point. The weekend was always my time to go 1200 00:48:12,040 --> 00:48:14,400 Speaker 1: out and have fun and do things. We were so 1201 00:48:14,440 --> 00:48:17,359 Speaker 1: excited for Friday and Saturday and then Sunday and it 1202 00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:19,600 Speaker 1: was like so yeah, I could see if you are 1203 00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:21,799 Speaker 1: always during the weekend and never on the weekend, you'd 1204 00:48:21,840 --> 00:48:23,440 Speaker 1: be like, well, then what's happening on the weekend? Are 1205 00:48:23,440 --> 00:48:26,040 Speaker 1: you married with like children or something? Yeah or yeah? 1206 00:48:26,280 --> 00:48:27,920 Speaker 1: Or you have a girlfriend that you live with and 1207 00:48:27,960 --> 00:48:29,400 Speaker 1: you spend time with her on the weekend. I'm just 1208 00:48:29,440 --> 00:48:32,040 Speaker 1: during the weekday because you're going somewhere for a work 1209 00:48:32,120 --> 00:48:35,160 Speaker 1: thing or dinner or whatever. I could see that, yes, 1210 00:48:35,960 --> 00:48:38,040 Speaker 1: if that was what's in your mind or what. 1211 00:48:38,239 --> 00:48:41,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, okay, well those are all I got for now. 1212 00:48:42,120 --> 00:48:43,440 Speaker 2: I really appreciate your input. 1213 00:48:43,640 --> 00:48:45,839 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you know that was helpful in some way 1214 00:48:45,880 --> 00:48:46,120 Speaker 1: to you. 1215 00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:48,680 Speaker 2: Are No, it's so great. I think it's I think 1216 00:48:48,719 --> 00:48:51,480 Speaker 2: it's great to have perspective from every area, especially too 1217 00:48:51,600 --> 00:48:55,279 Speaker 2: because the date listen, the dating scene is a dumpster fire. 1218 00:48:55,480 --> 00:48:58,160 Speaker 1: Oh I can only imagine, especially here in Nashville, where 1219 00:48:58,200 --> 00:49:01,160 Speaker 1: you are out numbered bunch of other women's like nine 1220 00:49:01,200 --> 00:49:02,240 Speaker 1: women to one dude. 1221 00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:05,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, and and just any big city, like I mean, yeah, 1222 00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:07,400 Speaker 2: any big city. I mean also the rule areas you 1223 00:49:07,440 --> 00:49:09,440 Speaker 2: don't have a lot of a big data. It's just 1224 00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:11,920 Speaker 2: a dumpster fire. We got we don't have. We have 1225 00:49:12,040 --> 00:49:14,080 Speaker 2: quantity over quality is what's happening. 1226 00:49:14,160 --> 00:49:15,960 Speaker 1: Yes, you do have a lot of quantity, yeah, but. 1227 00:49:15,920 --> 00:49:18,880 Speaker 2: Not a lot of quality. Yeah, so yeah, put in 1228 00:49:19,040 --> 00:49:20,040 Speaker 2: a little bit extra work. 1229 00:49:20,280 --> 00:49:22,520 Speaker 1: Yeah. I think San Francisco was a really great city 1230 00:49:22,520 --> 00:49:27,640 Speaker 1: to date and just because of you had you had quantity, quality, 1231 00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:30,960 Speaker 1: and you had diversity. There's so many different kinds of 1232 00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:33,920 Speaker 1: people from all over the world that had come to 1233 00:49:33,960 --> 00:49:36,759 Speaker 1: San Francisco and like all kinds of different walks of 1234 00:49:36,800 --> 00:49:39,719 Speaker 1: lives and then hybrids of people because you had like 1235 00:49:39,800 --> 00:49:43,960 Speaker 1: you know, Mexicans sleeping with uh with a black chick, 1236 00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:47,000 Speaker 1: or you had like you know, Filipino and why it's 1237 00:49:47,040 --> 00:49:49,040 Speaker 1: so many different combinations. Like it was, I think it 1238 00:49:49,040 --> 00:49:50,600 Speaker 1: was the only space I felt and I'm sure there's 1239 00:49:50,600 --> 00:49:52,640 Speaker 1: other places across the world, but it's the only place 1240 00:49:52,680 --> 00:49:55,200 Speaker 1: I felt where no one cared about what you looked 1241 00:49:55,239 --> 00:49:57,440 Speaker 1: like or who you were, where you're from, just as 1242 00:49:57,480 --> 00:49:59,440 Speaker 1: long as they were into you. It didn't like it 1243 00:49:59,440 --> 00:50:01,719 Speaker 1: was the first time I life. I think coming from Florida, 1244 00:50:01,880 --> 00:50:04,360 Speaker 1: or at least from the outskirts for Orlando, it was 1245 00:50:04,400 --> 00:50:06,640 Speaker 1: always like you know, there was just like everyone stuck 1246 00:50:06,640 --> 00:50:09,120 Speaker 1: with who they looked like or what they're around. But 1247 00:50:09,320 --> 00:50:11,080 Speaker 1: coming to San Francisco was so cool because I was 1248 00:50:11,080 --> 00:50:13,400 Speaker 1: always the person that was like not really actually in 1249 00:50:14,040 --> 00:50:16,600 Speaker 1: to the people that are here. I never really found 1250 00:50:16,600 --> 00:50:19,000 Speaker 1: someone that was really like of course my ex wife, 1251 00:50:19,040 --> 00:50:20,480 Speaker 1: but that was again, that was like one of those 1252 00:50:20,440 --> 00:50:22,960 Speaker 1: things where it was convenient and we touched in that earlier. 1253 00:50:22,960 --> 00:50:24,799 Speaker 1: I I it just was whatever, you wake up six 1254 00:50:24,880 --> 00:50:28,120 Speaker 1: months later, like crap, I'm still in this thing. Yeah, 1255 00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:30,040 Speaker 1: But like like it was so cool going somewhere else 1256 00:50:30,040 --> 00:50:33,400 Speaker 1: and just seeing different like different people like the for 1257 00:50:33,520 --> 00:50:35,480 Speaker 1: women for men and men for women, and it was 1258 00:50:35,520 --> 00:50:37,480 Speaker 1: just like everyone was in all kinds of cool stuff. 1259 00:50:37,480 --> 00:50:39,799 Speaker 1: It was like free love and man. But it was 1260 00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:42,640 Speaker 1: just it was such a cool place that I almost 1261 00:50:43,719 --> 00:50:46,000 Speaker 1: I almost encourage people to go to San Francisco if 1262 00:50:46,040 --> 00:50:46,759 Speaker 1: you're single. 1263 00:50:46,719 --> 00:50:48,680 Speaker 2: I do want to go to San Francisco. Don't don't 1264 00:50:48,680 --> 00:50:50,240 Speaker 2: give me any reason to leave Scuba. 1265 00:50:50,400 --> 00:50:52,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I think you really should go there just 1266 00:50:52,239 --> 00:50:54,000 Speaker 1: to see all the different walks of life because it 1267 00:50:54,040 --> 00:50:57,239 Speaker 1: is like a melting pot of different kinds of people 1268 00:50:57,320 --> 00:50:59,600 Speaker 1: from all over the world. Yeah, that it's a pretty 1269 00:50:59,600 --> 00:51:00,719 Speaker 1: special place for that. 1270 00:51:00,760 --> 00:51:02,920 Speaker 2: At least any more of that energy in my life. 1271 00:51:03,000 --> 00:51:05,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like here, I'm not trying to say, here, it's 1272 00:51:06,040 --> 00:51:09,360 Speaker 1: just a lot of white people, and the only diversity 1273 00:51:09,360 --> 00:51:11,160 Speaker 1: you get is like where you're from. One from Kansas, 1274 00:51:11,160 --> 00:51:13,920 Speaker 1: I'm from Minnesota. It's different. I'm from Florida, I'm from 1275 00:51:13,920 --> 00:51:16,200 Speaker 1: New York. It's just I mean, there are or there. 1276 00:51:16,600 --> 00:51:18,640 Speaker 2: You know, we're all influencers and that's it. 1277 00:51:18,719 --> 00:51:21,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, everyone's an influencer on TikTok. Yeah, you don't get 1278 00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:22,960 Speaker 1: a lot of diversity. I feel like in some places 1279 00:51:22,960 --> 00:51:25,080 Speaker 1: like this, because there isn't a lot of diversity, you're 1280 00:51:25,120 --> 00:51:26,640 Speaker 1: not getting you're not getting a lot, a lot of 1281 00:51:26,640 --> 00:51:28,480 Speaker 1: different things to choose from. It's changing over the over 1282 00:51:28,480 --> 00:51:30,160 Speaker 1: the last four years i've lived here, it's become more 1283 00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:31,680 Speaker 1: of a melting pot. But I feel like if you 1284 00:51:31,680 --> 00:51:33,480 Speaker 1: want a true melting pot of all kinds of different 1285 00:51:33,480 --> 00:51:35,640 Speaker 1: walks of life, I recommend you go to San Francisco. 1286 00:51:35,920 --> 00:51:37,840 Speaker 1: I'm like a girl's trouble, like you and your best friend, 1287 00:51:38,120 --> 00:51:40,080 Speaker 1: and just go out there with an open mind and 1288 00:51:40,120 --> 00:51:41,680 Speaker 1: I'll tell you all the great places to go and 1289 00:51:41,680 --> 00:51:42,680 Speaker 1: where do I hang out? 1290 00:51:42,920 --> 00:51:45,920 Speaker 2: Listen scoopa. When I was when I was swiping swiping 1291 00:51:46,360 --> 00:51:49,839 Speaker 2: in Denver, or as they call Menver, I was having 1292 00:51:49,880 --> 00:51:51,800 Speaker 2: a great time I was like, this is awesome. 1293 00:51:52,080 --> 00:51:53,600 Speaker 1: Denver's a good a cool spot too. You have a 1294 00:51:53,640 --> 00:51:56,160 Speaker 1: lot of eclectic people there and different love. 1295 00:51:56,040 --> 00:51:58,399 Speaker 2: Mountain men like I love listen, I'm a mountain girl, 1296 00:51:58,560 --> 00:51:59,799 Speaker 2: like I love me a mountain man. 1297 00:52:00,120 --> 00:52:05,200 Speaker 1: Huh yeah whatever, just thinking about. 1298 00:52:04,960 --> 00:52:06,760 Speaker 2: That I'm in the wrong place. 1299 00:52:07,000 --> 00:52:09,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I feel yeah, yeah, I wouldn't be dating here. 1300 00:52:09,719 --> 00:52:12,720 Speaker 1: Oh my god, hell no, thank god, I found my soulmate. 1301 00:52:12,800 --> 00:52:15,200 Speaker 1: Thanks and San Francisco for siate. 1302 00:52:16,280 --> 00:52:19,000 Speaker 3: Hey, by the way, Laura, you're screwed. I mean, Laura Morgan, 1303 00:52:19,000 --> 00:52:19,560 Speaker 3: you're screwed. 1304 00:52:20,120 --> 00:52:22,440 Speaker 2: Lauren too getting married? 1305 00:52:22,520 --> 00:52:25,040 Speaker 1: Well, Laura's get married. Yeah, that's right, she is. 1306 00:52:25,200 --> 00:52:27,279 Speaker 2: I'm just chilling over here by myself. 1307 00:52:27,200 --> 00:52:28,799 Speaker 1: And I say Lauren too, because you too, dress a 1308 00:52:28,800 --> 00:52:31,400 Speaker 1: lot alike. Sometimes. The other day you were both wearing 1309 00:52:31,440 --> 00:52:32,799 Speaker 1: the exact. 1310 00:52:32,880 --> 00:52:34,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, that was totally unintentional. 1311 00:52:34,480 --> 00:52:36,840 Speaker 1: It was scary. It was It wasn't like it was 1312 00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:38,719 Speaker 1: like a similar kind of outfit. It was like the 1313 00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:43,120 Speaker 1: exact same pants, the exact same shirt, your hairstyle, your shoes, 1314 00:52:43,480 --> 00:52:46,280 Speaker 1: the color scheme was spot like you guys, her sisters. 1315 00:52:46,760 --> 00:52:47,360 Speaker 1: It was weird. 1316 00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:49,399 Speaker 2: Okay, but let's put out there like sometimes you and Rake, 1317 00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:51,959 Speaker 2: I'm in here looking similar to So sometimes it's also 1318 00:52:52,040 --> 00:52:54,000 Speaker 2: by proximity. You're just around people a lot. 1319 00:52:54,120 --> 00:52:56,000 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, you get similar yeah yeah. 1320 00:52:56,000 --> 00:52:57,239 Speaker 2: And it was just happened to be a day where 1321 00:52:57,239 --> 00:52:58,759 Speaker 2: we could be don't have any guests coming in, so 1322 00:52:58,840 --> 00:53:00,960 Speaker 2: we were both really comfies. Like we had the same 1323 00:53:01,120 --> 00:53:02,320 Speaker 2: company Vibe coming. 1324 00:53:02,080 --> 00:53:03,720 Speaker 1: In the same color scheme too. 1325 00:53:03,600 --> 00:53:05,920 Speaker 2: And I don't get help. They were a blonde maybe in. 1326 00:53:05,960 --> 00:53:07,360 Speaker 1: The same brand of clothes you were wearing. It was 1327 00:53:07,400 --> 00:53:08,680 Speaker 1: like they are both of you know. 1328 00:53:08,880 --> 00:53:10,719 Speaker 2: I was jealous because she had the dupe and my 1329 00:53:10,880 --> 00:53:14,239 Speaker 2: coss like freaking dollars. I was like, now I want 1330 00:53:14,239 --> 00:53:14,560 Speaker 2: the doom. 1331 00:53:14,760 --> 00:53:16,880 Speaker 1: She's got double she had dual income, she's getting married, 1332 00:53:16,880 --> 00:53:20,319 Speaker 1: she's just two incomes. Yeah, that's another benefit too. 1333 00:53:21,120 --> 00:53:23,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll have that mine. I'm over here on momm 1334 00:53:23,239 --> 00:53:26,200 Speaker 2: Okay I did. I did recently have a tweet because 1335 00:53:26,200 --> 00:53:29,320 Speaker 2: I like, I, I, uh, you know, hey, best Bits 1336 00:53:29,400 --> 00:53:31,800 Speaker 2: is thriving, which I'm so thankful for everybody that listens, 1337 00:53:32,000 --> 00:53:35,359 Speaker 2: and I have my little paycheck from from Best Bits coming, 1338 00:53:35,400 --> 00:53:37,000 Speaker 2: and I was like, okay, I need to celebrate myself. 1339 00:53:37,040 --> 00:53:39,920 Speaker 2: Nobody else is doing it. So I did finally buy 1340 00:53:39,960 --> 00:53:40,840 Speaker 2: the Dyson Air wrap. 1341 00:53:41,040 --> 00:53:42,640 Speaker 1: Oh nice, Okay. 1342 00:53:42,840 --> 00:53:45,520 Speaker 2: In my swerge I also bought three person genes and 1343 00:53:45,600 --> 00:53:50,600 Speaker 2: eight for eight boxes of girls stock and so I tweeted, 1344 00:53:51,200 --> 00:53:53,839 Speaker 2: I'm either in a pre mid life crisis or I'm 1345 00:53:53,880 --> 00:53:56,600 Speaker 2: just single. Nobody's really sure at this point. 1346 00:53:56,760 --> 00:53:58,360 Speaker 1: Boxes. That's awesome. 1347 00:53:58,400 --> 00:54:01,399 Speaker 2: I went hard another one, Oh, I need that one, 1348 00:54:01,600 --> 00:54:02,680 Speaker 2: and again all for me. 1349 00:54:02,880 --> 00:54:04,920 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, yeah. 1350 00:54:04,520 --> 00:54:06,480 Speaker 2: That's my life. Okay, We're going to go to the 1351 00:54:06,600 --> 00:54:09,200 Speaker 2: circu and we'll meet you guys over there. 1352 00:54:09,840 --> 00:54:12,680 Speaker 1: That's the best bits of the week with Morgan. Thanks 1353 00:54:12,719 --> 00:54:14,759 Speaker 1: for listening. Be sure to check out the other two 1354 00:54:14,800 --> 00:54:18,040 Speaker 1: parts this weekend. Go follow the show on all social platforms. 1355 00:54:18,760 --> 00:54:21,080 Speaker 2: Show and followed web girl Morgan to 1356 00:54:21,080 --> 00:54:23,600 Speaker 1: Submit your listener questions for next week's episode.