1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:03,360 Speaker 1: Welcome to desperately devoted Join us as we explore the 2 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:07,119 Speaker 1: human experience through the lens of the iconic show Desperate Housewives. 3 00:00:07,240 --> 00:00:11,000 Speaker 1: I'm Terry Hatcher, I'm Andrea Bowen, and I'm Emerson Tenny. 4 00:00:11,560 --> 00:00:15,080 Speaker 2: Well, we have something to talk about in episode ten, and. 5 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:17,320 Speaker 3: It's sex, sex and more sex. 6 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:20,400 Speaker 2: Some people aren't getting it from where they should be, 7 00:00:20,560 --> 00:00:22,759 Speaker 2: and some people aren't getting it at all. And some 8 00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:25,640 Speaker 2: people could be getting it if they could only figure 9 00:00:25,640 --> 00:00:28,200 Speaker 2: out how to stop getting cock blocked by their ex. 10 00:00:28,280 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 1: I'm gonna guess you're talking about Susan. I say. 11 00:00:33,040 --> 00:00:35,640 Speaker 4: Rex is revealed to be having an S and M affair, 12 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:40,000 Speaker 4: while the affairs of the Scavo household involve their high 13 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:43,600 Speaker 4: grade nanny, making Lynette feel inferior and unable to relax 14 00:00:43,680 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 4: in her newly acquired free time. 15 00:00:45,920 --> 00:00:50,000 Speaker 2: Susan and Mike's intimate intentions are foiled by Carl and 16 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:51,680 Speaker 2: Julie and Zach. 17 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:56,640 Speaker 1: Gabby ways the benefit of money over love and the 18 00:00:56,720 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 1: truth and when trust is broken on Wisteria Elane, we 19 00:01:00,880 --> 00:01:04,520 Speaker 1: find that it is a very fragile thing. When it's lost, 20 00:01:04,720 --> 00:01:05,760 Speaker 1: it can be hard to recover. 21 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:08,960 Speaker 2: We will not break our trust to you because we 22 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:11,039 Speaker 2: are here for another episode. 23 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:14,320 Speaker 3: Let's get started, all right. 24 00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:17,479 Speaker 1: Well, hi you guys. Hello, here we are talking about 25 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:22,280 Speaker 1: season one, episode ten, come Back to Me. This episode title, 26 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:24,840 Speaker 1: come back to Me, comes from a song from the 27 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:28,520 Speaker 1: nineteen sixty five musical On a clear Day, you can 28 00:01:28,560 --> 00:01:33,759 Speaker 1: see Forever, I can hear it. Yes, Mazy Gibbons. We 29 00:01:33,880 --> 00:01:36,200 Speaker 1: open the episode on circling back. I feel like I 30 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 1: had kind of lost sight of her as the pretentious 31 00:01:39,959 --> 00:01:42,959 Speaker 1: mom in the school, and now we find out that 32 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:45,120 Speaker 1: she's a BDSM escort. 33 00:01:45,959 --> 00:01:48,040 Speaker 4: Okay, So I had a question for you because I 34 00:01:48,280 --> 00:01:51,520 Speaker 4: kind of did remember this storyline I remembered when we. 35 00:01:51,480 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 5: Saw Sharon Morris. 36 00:01:53,320 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 1: Yeah. 37 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:56,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, what does that say about me? 38 00:01:56,440 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 1: You were impressionable? 39 00:01:57,560 --> 00:02:00,559 Speaker 4: Yes, I was very impressionable, But I did rememberer Sharon 40 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 4: Lawrence's storyline being more than just what it appeared when 41 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 4: she first showed up on the show a few episodes ago. 42 00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:10,080 Speaker 4: And so, but for you, Emerson, yes, you just probably 43 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 4: thought she was going to be this high strung PTA 44 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:14,919 Speaker 4: mom this the whole time if she ever reappeared, and 45 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:15,799 Speaker 4: she came back in. 46 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:18,040 Speaker 5: A big way this episode. So did that catch you 47 00:02:18,080 --> 00:02:18,520 Speaker 5: off guard? 48 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:22,120 Speaker 1: It totally caught me off guard and immediately hooked me. 49 00:02:22,160 --> 00:02:24,600 Speaker 1: And I think honestly speaks to something we've been talking 50 00:02:24,639 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 1: about in a lot of themes of this episode, which 51 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:31,080 Speaker 1: is that there is always more going on behind closed doors. 52 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:35,200 Speaker 1: There's always another identity behind the mask that we present 53 00:02:35,280 --> 00:02:38,200 Speaker 1: to the world or the forward facing part of ourselves. 54 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 1: And I mean, I really took the roller coaster ride 55 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:44,440 Speaker 1: of this because at first I saw it was Mazy Gibbons, 56 00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:46,480 Speaker 1: I go, oh, my god, Mazi Gibbons is an escort, 57 00:02:46,639 --> 00:02:50,840 Speaker 1: Oh my god, she's a BDSM escort, and then Rex 58 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:54,880 Speaker 1: is her client. Yeah. Ah. In the first couple of minutes. 59 00:02:54,680 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 2: Did you guys get the sense that she was just 60 00:02:58,120 --> 00:03:03,639 Speaker 2: doing it for her own sort of power ego, control, 61 00:03:04,200 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 2: satisfaction or were they actually paying her? 62 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:07,680 Speaker 4: Oh? 63 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:09,160 Speaker 5: I think that she was being paid. 64 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:11,079 Speaker 1: I thought she was being paid. I also felt like 65 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 1: maybe because she talks about how she her husband maybe 66 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:17,119 Speaker 1: lost his job and she they had to stop going 67 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:19,360 Speaker 1: to their country club. So I felt like maybe this 68 00:03:19,560 --> 00:03:23,279 Speaker 1: was something that she picked up partially to make money. 69 00:03:22,960 --> 00:03:25,600 Speaker 2: Money, right, And yeah, I thought that too. But then 70 00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 2: as I thought about it and just kind of sat 71 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:31,480 Speaker 2: with it, I thought, oh, maybe I had made that assumption, 72 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:33,760 Speaker 2: but it was she because they do make the point 73 00:03:33,800 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 2: of saying that they were having financial trouble and they 74 00:03:36,400 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 2: got kicked out of the country club, and right, so 75 00:03:38,960 --> 00:03:41,000 Speaker 2: that's why she decided to start doing this. 76 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:42,920 Speaker 5: But I think it evolved. 77 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:46,760 Speaker 4: For her at least, you know, we when character analyzing her. 78 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:49,720 Speaker 4: I think that you're right that the journey for her 79 00:03:49,760 --> 00:03:53,840 Speaker 4: maybe started with a need to bring in some extra 80 00:03:53,920 --> 00:03:56,520 Speaker 4: money and her creative way of doing that. But then 81 00:03:56,880 --> 00:03:59,200 Speaker 4: I think she gets off on the fact that she's 82 00:03:59,240 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 4: holding everyone. See it's as she says, there's like a 83 00:04:01,280 --> 00:04:03,800 Speaker 4: power in it for her that she's keeping all of 84 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:05,720 Speaker 4: these John's secrets. 85 00:04:05,920 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, and especially the secret Rex feels extra loaded because 86 00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:11,760 Speaker 1: she makes the comment that when she did get kicked 87 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:15,440 Speaker 1: out of the country club, we realize the woman who 88 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:18,520 Speaker 1: was condescending and sort of pitying to her was Brie, 89 00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:25,159 Speaker 1: classic Brie. And now this is her idea of revenge 90 00:04:25,279 --> 00:04:26,280 Speaker 1: or a secret of her own. 91 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:30,720 Speaker 2: Do you guys have feelings about prostitution and its legality 92 00:04:30,920 --> 00:04:35,120 Speaker 2: and you know where it's place in history or whatever. 93 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:40,040 Speaker 2: I mean, I'll just admit that while it seems like, 94 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:42,120 Speaker 2: oh this is the I admit this is the time 95 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:43,760 Speaker 2: I tell you that I was a prostitute. No, I 96 00:04:43,839 --> 00:04:47,800 Speaker 2: just that word admit sounded so much stronger than. 97 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:48,520 Speaker 1: I intended to be. 98 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:50,239 Speaker 5: This is when I reveal. 99 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:56,920 Speaker 3: This is when I reveal. But I I it didn't. 100 00:04:57,440 --> 00:04:58,400 Speaker 3: It seemed you don't have. 101 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:02,480 Speaker 2: This show does a great job at writing this tightrope 102 00:05:02,560 --> 00:05:09,360 Speaker 2: of between like satire and soap and something that feels grounded, 103 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:12,120 Speaker 2: and I think they usually do it really well, and 104 00:05:12,440 --> 00:05:15,680 Speaker 2: I felt like this is an example of that, and 105 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:21,000 Speaker 2: it made me, I don't know, feel like not that 106 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 2: judgmental about her, like that she was providing a service 107 00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:31,680 Speaker 2: that everybody was above board. I mean, you could be 108 00:05:31,760 --> 00:05:33,880 Speaker 2: lying to your spouse, but I mean the people in 109 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:39,440 Speaker 2: the interaction, and it was servicing a need and it 110 00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 2: was fulfilling what she needed. And I don't know, it 111 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 2: made me think about an industry that I guess I've 112 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:49,240 Speaker 2: always thought, you know, well that's not great and that's 113 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:52,360 Speaker 2: sort of frowned upon. But it made me look at 114 00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:53,719 Speaker 2: it a little differently, well. 115 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:55,679 Speaker 1: I think, I mean, I do. I think this stood 116 00:05:55,680 --> 00:05:57,520 Speaker 1: out to me as a very I mean, we're thinking 117 00:05:57,560 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 1: about the show airing in two thousand and four, stood 118 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:03,440 Speaker 1: out to me as a very modern take on sex 119 00:06:03,480 --> 00:06:05,719 Speaker 1: work and the legitimacy of sex work. You know, this 120 00:06:05,839 --> 00:06:07,960 Speaker 1: is an industry that I think has had a lot 121 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:11,719 Speaker 1: of stigma, and of course, in certain scenarios, still does 122 00:06:11,760 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 1: exist in a place where women are disempowered. But I 123 00:06:15,520 --> 00:06:17,960 Speaker 1: think in a lot of scenarios, especially when you like 124 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 1: look at you know, technology today, and I think exists 125 00:06:22,120 --> 00:06:25,159 Speaker 1: in a place where women are really actively choosing something 126 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:26,080 Speaker 1: that feels empowered. 127 00:06:26,120 --> 00:06:30,680 Speaker 2: What's the site where everybody's making a bazillion dollars? Right? 128 00:06:31,160 --> 00:06:33,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, Oh my gosh. 129 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:35,400 Speaker 2: I mean, I guess that's the modern day version of this, 130 00:06:35,560 --> 00:06:36,040 Speaker 2: doesn't it. 131 00:06:36,120 --> 00:06:39,440 Speaker 4: I do agree that in this episode we seem to 132 00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:42,880 Speaker 4: be the thing that's incriminating is the fact that she 133 00:06:43,040 --> 00:06:46,480 Speaker 4: is having an affair with Bree's husband. It's not necessarily 134 00:06:46,480 --> 00:06:49,640 Speaker 4: that we're judging her for doing this service or providing 135 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:51,160 Speaker 4: the service to the people in the neighborhood. 136 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:53,640 Speaker 5: We as an audience and the writers who wrote it. 137 00:06:54,240 --> 00:06:57,240 Speaker 4: The thing that fuels our fire about having an opinion 138 00:06:57,240 --> 00:06:59,600 Speaker 4: over it is just because she's wronging Brie. 139 00:07:00,279 --> 00:07:02,360 Speaker 1: I don't really have an opinion. I mean, I don't 140 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:05,960 Speaker 1: have any judgment of her. I'm judgmental of Rex. He's 141 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:07,920 Speaker 1: the one who's married, who's making the choice. 142 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:12,800 Speaker 2: Like when there's an affair, and the one that's getting 143 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:17,560 Speaker 2: cheated on seems to classically direct their ire at the 144 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:21,760 Speaker 2: female instead of the actual husband partner that is doing 145 00:07:21,760 --> 00:07:22,240 Speaker 2: the cheating. 146 00:07:22,280 --> 00:07:23,600 Speaker 3: And I've never understood that. 147 00:07:23,680 --> 00:07:26,040 Speaker 4: I know, Yeah, I know, And I was just going 148 00:07:26,080 --> 00:07:28,920 Speaker 4: to say that I'm infuriated because, as we talked about 149 00:07:28,960 --> 00:07:32,360 Speaker 4: a couple of episodes ago, when Bree so bravely and 150 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 4: vulnerably goes to Rex and says, I can tell that 151 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:38,000 Speaker 4: there's something you're not getting, and please give me the 152 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:41,120 Speaker 4: opportunity to provide that to you, and he doesn't, and 153 00:07:41,160 --> 00:07:44,120 Speaker 4: now we see it playing out like this, and it 154 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:44,800 Speaker 4: just makes me. 155 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:45,360 Speaker 5: So mad at me. 156 00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:48,040 Speaker 1: I know, I actually wrote down, Oh my gosh, Rex 157 00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:51,640 Speaker 1: is such a gas lighter when he says, oh, I 158 00:07:51,640 --> 00:07:54,880 Speaker 1: could never tell Brie. I could never tell my wife 159 00:07:54,880 --> 00:07:57,040 Speaker 1: about these things that I want to explore that clearly 160 00:07:57,080 --> 00:08:01,120 Speaker 1: he's exploring with Mazie, and I thought, no, you could. 161 00:08:01,280 --> 00:08:05,000 Speaker 1: She held the door open episodes ago for you to 162 00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:08,040 Speaker 1: tell her if something was missing. She point blank said, 163 00:08:08,600 --> 00:08:10,760 Speaker 1: is something missing? I want to give that to you, 164 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:14,120 Speaker 1: and he was too much of a coward to reveal 165 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:16,680 Speaker 1: that part of himself to her, which I do think. 166 00:08:16,760 --> 00:08:20,000 Speaker 1: You know, I think there's a lot of vulnerability in 167 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:25,000 Speaker 1: admitting a kink or admitting something that you want to explore, 168 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 1: specifically sexually, because I think it opens the door up 169 00:08:28,880 --> 00:08:32,679 Speaker 1: to be rejected and to be judged in a way 170 00:08:32,720 --> 00:08:35,880 Speaker 1: that there's already so much taboo around sex. To then 171 00:08:36,240 --> 00:08:40,280 Speaker 1: receive that immediate judgment from your partner may make someone 172 00:08:40,480 --> 00:08:43,679 Speaker 1: like Rex just feel like they absolutely couldn't withstand the rejection. 173 00:08:43,840 --> 00:08:48,400 Speaker 4: And to Mazy's credit, she actually very much is sympathetic 174 00:08:48,440 --> 00:08:51,280 Speaker 4: to breathe. I felt right. She talks to Rex and says, 175 00:08:51,960 --> 00:08:53,480 Speaker 4: you should talk to your wife about this. 176 00:08:53,880 --> 00:08:56,120 Speaker 5: You clearly still are in love with her. I thought 177 00:08:56,160 --> 00:08:56,960 Speaker 5: that was really interesting. 178 00:08:57,080 --> 00:08:57,760 Speaker 3: Yeah you did too. 179 00:08:58,200 --> 00:08:59,679 Speaker 2: I was going to say, like, I'm not going to 180 00:08:59,720 --> 00:09:02,200 Speaker 2: ask anybody to like divulge their kink. 181 00:09:02,080 --> 00:09:05,200 Speaker 5: Or you have to use your special voice. Oh I 182 00:09:05,280 --> 00:09:05,800 Speaker 5: do have to do. 183 00:09:06,160 --> 00:09:07,040 Speaker 3: So what do you like? 184 00:09:08,720 --> 00:09:09,800 Speaker 5: But I will say. 185 00:09:11,520 --> 00:09:16,920 Speaker 2: About myself, I mean, you know, I haven't been intimate 186 00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:20,559 Speaker 2: in a long time, and you know, of course I've 187 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:23,120 Speaker 2: done years of therapy to sort of, you know, figure 188 00:09:23,120 --> 00:09:26,520 Speaker 2: out what I could potentially be afraid of. But it's like, 189 00:09:26,640 --> 00:09:30,760 Speaker 2: when there's a story like this, it does make me think, like, 190 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:36,640 Speaker 2: have I felt safe enough with a partner too? I 191 00:09:36,679 --> 00:09:38,720 Speaker 2: don't know, be able to be honest, Like, is that 192 00:09:38,960 --> 00:09:43,360 Speaker 2: something that people typically feel or I think maybe sadly 193 00:09:43,480 --> 00:09:45,199 Speaker 2: they maybe don't. Right. 194 00:09:45,559 --> 00:09:47,439 Speaker 4: Yeah, I think in a lot of cases, in a 195 00:09:47,440 --> 00:09:50,360 Speaker 4: lot of relationships, it's still a real thing that people 196 00:09:50,400 --> 00:09:53,360 Speaker 4: aren't entirely open with one another out of fear of 197 00:09:53,440 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 4: judgment or just maybe they have a lot of self 198 00:09:56,320 --> 00:09:58,240 Speaker 4: judgment about the things that they're into and they are 199 00:09:58,280 --> 00:10:00,920 Speaker 4: scared to share that with someone else. Society is not 200 00:10:01,080 --> 00:10:03,600 Speaker 4: always on the side of making us all feel included, 201 00:10:04,800 --> 00:10:08,160 Speaker 4: and so I think it's still a problem. But I 202 00:10:08,559 --> 00:10:10,520 Speaker 4: also kind of feel like I'm getting the sense from 203 00:10:10,559 --> 00:10:12,240 Speaker 4: younger generations that it's getting better. 204 00:10:12,679 --> 00:10:14,680 Speaker 1: I have to say, I think a show that just 205 00:10:14,800 --> 00:10:19,440 Speaker 1: recently really handled this idea so well and explored it 206 00:10:19,600 --> 00:10:22,839 Speaker 1: was dying for sex, That TV show with Michelle Willis right. 207 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:25,600 Speaker 3: I loved that show. They were great, and you're. 208 00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:29,080 Speaker 1: Right, yeah, And so many different characters, whether obviously it's 209 00:10:29,160 --> 00:10:32,439 Speaker 1: Michelle Williams herself or character actors like Robbie Hoffman, who 210 00:10:32,600 --> 00:10:36,840 Speaker 1: I adore all of these different actors and characters playing 211 00:10:36,840 --> 00:10:39,400 Speaker 1: out in this show, the idea of the vulnerability it 212 00:10:39,440 --> 00:10:42,640 Speaker 1: takes to really say I want to investigate what turns 213 00:10:42,640 --> 00:10:44,440 Speaker 1: me on and what sex means to me. 214 00:10:44,679 --> 00:10:48,440 Speaker 2: And now that show was That show was actually brilliant 215 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:50,800 Speaker 2: and I and I loved it, I think specifically for 216 00:10:50,880 --> 00:10:54,920 Speaker 2: me because yeah, I felt like it kind of broadened 217 00:10:55,080 --> 00:10:58,120 Speaker 2: what I could imagine my ability might be if I 218 00:10:58,240 --> 00:11:01,440 Speaker 2: ever got into an intimate, really relationship with somebody again, 219 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:03,560 Speaker 2: which you know, other than my cat. 220 00:11:03,800 --> 00:11:04,800 Speaker 3: Away moving on. 221 00:11:06,200 --> 00:11:10,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, so so also after this discovery of his affair, 222 00:11:10,640 --> 00:11:14,160 Speaker 2: and by the way, did anybody think the stilettos were 223 00:11:14,200 --> 00:11:16,760 Speaker 2: going to go right into his spine when she walks 224 00:11:16,800 --> 00:11:17,400 Speaker 2: on his back? 225 00:11:17,559 --> 00:11:20,640 Speaker 4: I just kept thinking out, yeah, out, well, I think, 226 00:11:20,720 --> 00:11:22,319 Speaker 4: my gosh, that's what he liked. 227 00:11:22,400 --> 00:11:25,200 Speaker 2: Yes, I thought, like, not just the pain, but like 228 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:28,040 Speaker 2: it to me, it felt like they were going how 229 00:11:28,080 --> 00:11:30,040 Speaker 2: did they not puncture alung? 230 00:11:30,400 --> 00:11:30,520 Speaker 1: Like? 231 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:32,960 Speaker 5: That's well, but maybe they did. 232 00:11:33,040 --> 00:11:35,800 Speaker 3: I mean, that's true. He did have a heart attack. 233 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:38,320 Speaker 1: He did have to have surgery, right, they pick up 234 00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:39,080 Speaker 1: that that's where. 235 00:11:38,920 --> 00:11:42,280 Speaker 3: It came from. Okay, So then we go to Gabby. 236 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:45,560 Speaker 2: And Carlos and all of the ladies supporting him in 237 00:11:45,720 --> 00:11:49,200 Speaker 2: court finding out that he's not going to get bail 238 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:51,240 Speaker 2: because he doesn't have his passport and. 239 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:54,320 Speaker 5: He's a light risk, I guess, And I thought, oh. 240 00:11:54,200 --> 00:11:58,360 Speaker 1: My god, who misplaces their passport? Like, that's my worst 241 00:11:58,400 --> 00:12:01,320 Speaker 1: fear that I lose a passport or on a trip, 242 00:12:01,600 --> 00:12:03,480 Speaker 1: that I can't find it in my house. And it 243 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:06,719 Speaker 1: feels I mean, and I think will ultimately potentially come 244 00:12:06,760 --> 00:12:10,120 Speaker 1: to be revealed, but it feels suspicious that you can't 245 00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:12,400 Speaker 1: find your passport in your own house. 246 00:12:12,280 --> 00:12:15,480 Speaker 2: Right, And in this case, it ends up being hidden 247 00:12:15,480 --> 00:12:16,280 Speaker 2: in a secret panel. 248 00:12:16,440 --> 00:12:19,960 Speaker 5: Yes, so awfully convenient, but he can't find it. 249 00:12:20,120 --> 00:12:24,320 Speaker 2: You have Lynette, who now this is the first episode 250 00:12:24,320 --> 00:12:27,680 Speaker 2: where she scored in the last episode the high Grade Nanny. Yes, 251 00:12:27,840 --> 00:12:32,240 Speaker 2: she's got the new nanny. She's now got some free time. 252 00:12:32,880 --> 00:12:37,280 Speaker 2: I actually kind of remember this. I mean, I just 253 00:12:37,440 --> 00:12:41,920 Speaker 2: remember feeling how difficult it was as a mom to 254 00:12:42,040 --> 00:12:45,600 Speaker 2: take time for myself, even when I had a support 255 00:12:45,679 --> 00:12:48,000 Speaker 2: system in place to allow me to do that. 256 00:12:48,360 --> 00:12:49,800 Speaker 1: Why was that? Did you feel guilty? 257 00:12:50,000 --> 00:12:52,680 Speaker 2: Did you feel guilt? I think it's guilt. I think also, 258 00:12:53,080 --> 00:12:57,679 Speaker 2: I think you get very wrapped up in your identity 259 00:12:57,760 --> 00:13:01,400 Speaker 2: as a mom, so much so that you forget how 260 00:13:01,440 --> 00:13:02,760 Speaker 2: to just be you. 261 00:13:02,760 --> 00:13:04,079 Speaker 3: You forget how to. 262 00:13:05,920 --> 00:13:11,000 Speaker 2: Walk walk out into the world and not be seen 263 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:13,800 Speaker 2: as a mom carrying a baby, or a mom holding 264 00:13:13,800 --> 00:13:16,240 Speaker 2: the hand of a toddler, or a mom picking up 265 00:13:16,240 --> 00:13:18,760 Speaker 2: goldfish off the ground or a mom wiping you know, 266 00:13:19,520 --> 00:13:23,240 Speaker 2: yogurt off of a off of a shirt like this 267 00:13:23,320 --> 00:13:25,360 Speaker 2: is how you interact with the world and then to 268 00:13:25,440 --> 00:13:29,839 Speaker 2: suddenly go, Okay, I'm gonna go just be myself. 269 00:13:30,760 --> 00:13:33,440 Speaker 5: It's it's just the story. 270 00:13:33,559 --> 00:13:38,200 Speaker 2: It's disorienting and it's unpracticed, and as a mom about 271 00:13:38,240 --> 00:13:43,440 Speaker 2: to be in hindsight, I would encourage young moms to 272 00:13:43,600 --> 00:13:49,120 Speaker 2: not let that happen, you know, to find time to continue, 273 00:13:49,120 --> 00:13:52,520 Speaker 2: even if it's little amounts of time, to continue to 274 00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:55,160 Speaker 2: have a sense of your identity that is separate. 275 00:13:55,240 --> 00:13:57,280 Speaker 4: You know, this is making me think of something so 276 00:13:57,720 --> 00:14:01,319 Speaker 4: interesting and relevant to not only the conversation we're having, 277 00:14:01,400 --> 00:14:04,440 Speaker 4: but also the fact that we are involving this show 278 00:14:04,600 --> 00:14:08,040 Speaker 4: Desperate Housewives, because I recently had dinner with Joy who 279 00:14:08,080 --> 00:14:12,280 Speaker 4: played Marsha's daughter, Yes, who played Danielle, and she is 280 00:14:12,400 --> 00:14:16,120 Speaker 4: a new mom, and we were talking obviously about this 281 00:14:16,200 --> 00:14:18,120 Speaker 4: chapter of my life, in this chapter of her life, 282 00:14:18,160 --> 00:14:21,000 Speaker 4: and she basically said that same thing to me. She said, 283 00:14:22,080 --> 00:14:23,440 Speaker 4: this is not I don't know if you're going to 284 00:14:23,520 --> 00:14:25,440 Speaker 4: hear this advice a lot, and I don't even know 285 00:14:25,480 --> 00:14:27,560 Speaker 4: if it's popular advice. I think she actually said it 286 00:14:27,680 --> 00:14:31,680 Speaker 4: is unpopular advice from her experience, but that she feels 287 00:14:31,720 --> 00:14:37,480 Speaker 4: it's really important to leave early on, like practice leaving 288 00:14:37,760 --> 00:14:41,120 Speaker 4: your baby earlier than you think, earlier than you feel 289 00:14:41,120 --> 00:14:43,840 Speaker 4: ready to, and earlier than maybe someone else should tell you, 290 00:14:43,840 --> 00:14:46,520 Speaker 4: know tells you you should because of that, because of 291 00:14:46,560 --> 00:14:51,440 Speaker 4: the feeling of it's very hard and disorienting to take 292 00:14:51,480 --> 00:14:54,480 Speaker 4: that identity off, even though you never really do. 293 00:14:54,560 --> 00:14:56,920 Speaker 5: But and I appreciated it. 294 00:14:56,960 --> 00:14:59,440 Speaker 4: I actually made a note as well about this particular thing, 295 00:14:59,480 --> 00:15:01,480 Speaker 4: and I said, I so appreciate the writers giving this 296 00:15:01,520 --> 00:15:04,880 Speaker 4: amount of thought to the struggle and often opposing feelings 297 00:15:04,880 --> 00:15:07,480 Speaker 4: that come from being in your house with your children. 298 00:15:07,200 --> 00:15:08,720 Speaker 5: And out of your house without your children. 299 00:15:08,760 --> 00:15:12,640 Speaker 4: It's like Lynette clearly was begging for support and begging 300 00:15:12,680 --> 00:15:15,080 Speaker 4: for the opportunity to have some time to herself, and 301 00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:18,400 Speaker 4: then when she gets it, she's totally paralyzed. She doesn't 302 00:15:18,440 --> 00:15:20,280 Speaker 4: know what to do. So she has that scene with breathe. 303 00:15:20,280 --> 00:15:23,640 Speaker 4: That's really interesting, And yeah, I thought that was cool 304 00:15:23,680 --> 00:15:26,960 Speaker 4: that our writers were giving such a well rounded example 305 00:15:27,160 --> 00:15:28,640 Speaker 4: of the complications of parenting. 306 00:15:28,920 --> 00:15:32,400 Speaker 2: I think sometimes in the pursuit of being like the 307 00:15:32,480 --> 00:15:42,280 Speaker 2: perfect mom, you forget that by demonstrating imperfection, you're actually 308 00:15:42,360 --> 00:15:46,920 Speaker 2: allowing your child to unconsciously understand that they don't have 309 00:15:46,960 --> 00:15:51,400 Speaker 2: to be perfect in this essence of leaving, you know, 310 00:15:52,520 --> 00:15:57,200 Speaker 2: having your child see you take care of yourself is 311 00:15:57,560 --> 00:16:00,960 Speaker 2: unconsciously telling them that they are worthy of taking care 312 00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:05,800 Speaker 2: of themselves. And it's a tricky thing because no mom 313 00:16:05,960 --> 00:16:09,240 Speaker 2: is running around trying to be perfect, giving, giving, given, giving, 314 00:16:09,680 --> 00:16:12,280 Speaker 2: never making any time for herself because she's trying to 315 00:16:12,360 --> 00:16:16,800 Speaker 2: do damage on the kid. But it is kind of 316 00:16:16,960 --> 00:16:20,920 Speaker 2: a byproduct that if they don't see you practice your 317 00:16:21,000 --> 00:16:24,120 Speaker 2: self care, they don't know where to learn that from. 318 00:16:24,600 --> 00:16:37,720 Speaker 1: Right question though, for you and all this fantastic parenting advice, yes, nanny. 319 00:16:37,480 --> 00:16:39,360 Speaker 5: Cam oh, yes or nay? 320 00:16:39,640 --> 00:16:39,920 Speaker 1: Okay? 321 00:16:40,280 --> 00:16:45,520 Speaker 2: Well, well yes, so I think I think nanny cam yay. 322 00:16:45,760 --> 00:16:48,800 Speaker 2: And you know I recently because you guys know that 323 00:16:48,920 --> 00:16:50,680 Speaker 2: I take care of my ninety year old parents. 324 00:16:50,800 --> 00:16:52,240 Speaker 1: Yes, I put. 325 00:16:53,720 --> 00:16:59,840 Speaker 2: Nana Cams granted cam grannycams. I put grannycams, and because 326 00:17:00,160 --> 00:17:03,680 Speaker 2: I every night when I get in bed, my house 327 00:17:03,800 --> 00:17:06,560 Speaker 2: is like down the street. But I look at the 328 00:17:06,680 --> 00:17:09,639 Speaker 2: ring camera and I can see what time they went 329 00:17:09,720 --> 00:17:12,600 Speaker 2: to sleep, if they went to sleep. I can see 330 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:15,399 Speaker 2: if I get like an alert from the alarm company. 331 00:17:15,520 --> 00:17:18,760 Speaker 2: I can see if my parents just forgot and opened 332 00:17:18,800 --> 00:17:21,200 Speaker 2: the door, or if, like God forbid, there was a 333 00:17:21,280 --> 00:17:21,600 Speaker 2: break in. 334 00:17:22,240 --> 00:17:24,919 Speaker 3: But it gives me a lot of peace. 335 00:17:25,280 --> 00:17:28,440 Speaker 2: And it was actually how when my mom was in 336 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:31,840 Speaker 2: the hospital and I couldn't get a caregiver for my dad, 337 00:17:31,920 --> 00:17:35,560 Speaker 2: who has dementia, and he forgot that he had already 338 00:17:35,600 --> 00:17:37,960 Speaker 2: taken his pills because he has dementia, and he took 339 00:17:38,040 --> 00:17:41,680 Speaker 2: them all a second time. I witnessed that on the 340 00:17:41,800 --> 00:17:44,359 Speaker 2: ring camera and was able to call the doctor and 341 00:17:44,480 --> 00:17:46,920 Speaker 2: make sure that we had the right help in case 342 00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:49,560 Speaker 2: my dad got sick from doubling up on pills. 343 00:17:50,119 --> 00:17:54,040 Speaker 3: And so I love the ring camera. 344 00:17:55,200 --> 00:17:57,760 Speaker 2: Proing, but I think, you know, if you're going to 345 00:17:57,840 --> 00:17:59,840 Speaker 2: have one, I think you have to approach it with 346 00:18:00,320 --> 00:18:04,280 Speaker 2: respecting privacy. Like I'm not trying to invade my parents' privacy. 347 00:18:04,400 --> 00:18:06,960 Speaker 2: I'm trying to give them as much independence as I can, 348 00:18:07,760 --> 00:18:10,240 Speaker 2: but still keep them safe, right, and so that is 349 00:18:10,320 --> 00:18:11,840 Speaker 2: the way in which I use it. 350 00:18:12,280 --> 00:18:16,280 Speaker 4: I think I had the same question. I'm curious to 351 00:18:16,320 --> 00:18:19,320 Speaker 4: hear your thoughts as well, Emerson. I think that when 352 00:18:19,359 --> 00:18:23,120 Speaker 4: it comes to nanny cams, I think that as long 353 00:18:23,240 --> 00:18:28,160 Speaker 4: as you disclose that someone's being recorded inside your home, 354 00:18:28,680 --> 00:18:33,560 Speaker 4: then I guess it's okay. I don't have any I 355 00:18:33,640 --> 00:18:37,240 Speaker 4: don't know if I have plans to have a camera inside, 356 00:18:38,160 --> 00:18:41,040 Speaker 4: you know, that my house when it comes to assistance 357 00:18:41,119 --> 00:18:44,560 Speaker 4: with the baby and things like that. I did find 358 00:18:44,600 --> 00:18:48,000 Speaker 4: the montage where Lynette is holding the little bear that 359 00:18:48,080 --> 00:18:50,119 Speaker 4: she's stashed the camera in, and she's doing all of 360 00:18:50,200 --> 00:18:53,040 Speaker 4: the different ideas, playing all of them out of like 361 00:18:53,200 --> 00:18:56,199 Speaker 4: and loving, a loving nanny rocking the bear, and then 362 00:18:56,560 --> 00:18:59,680 Speaker 4: a crazy nanny like shaking the bear. I thought that 363 00:18:59,720 --> 00:19:00,720 Speaker 4: was a very very very. 364 00:19:00,600 --> 00:19:01,480 Speaker 5: Funny and well done. 365 00:19:02,200 --> 00:19:06,160 Speaker 4: But yeah, I think I get uncomfortable with just cameras 366 00:19:06,200 --> 00:19:08,440 Speaker 4: in the world in general these days, Like I buck 367 00:19:08,560 --> 00:19:10,920 Speaker 4: up against the fact that it's kind of impossible to 368 00:19:10,960 --> 00:19:13,760 Speaker 4: walk down the street and not have someone recording something, 369 00:19:14,280 --> 00:19:16,200 Speaker 4: and you just happen to be in the background of 370 00:19:16,280 --> 00:19:19,040 Speaker 4: someone's video and you don't consent to that, and you know, 371 00:19:19,280 --> 00:19:21,160 Speaker 4: or like I am aware of it if I'm doing 372 00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:23,520 Speaker 4: it and there's someone and I'm thinking, well, they're now 373 00:19:23,680 --> 00:19:25,520 Speaker 4: just on my phone and I don't know them, and 374 00:19:25,880 --> 00:19:28,160 Speaker 4: they didn't say that was okay, And that's just kind 375 00:19:28,160 --> 00:19:30,639 Speaker 4: of everywhere. So maybe I take too I give it 376 00:19:30,720 --> 00:19:32,600 Speaker 4: too much thought, and I get too trapped in this 377 00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:36,600 Speaker 4: idea of it's not respectful of someone else's privacy. So 378 00:19:36,720 --> 00:19:39,399 Speaker 4: I think the big thing of disclosing, hey, you're on 379 00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:40,720 Speaker 4: candid camera. 380 00:19:41,400 --> 00:19:45,000 Speaker 3: I we never had one like with for you, Yeah, 381 00:19:45,160 --> 00:19:45,879 Speaker 3: I never had one. 382 00:19:46,080 --> 00:19:49,560 Speaker 5: Are you pro nannycam or anti nannycam or somewhere in between. 383 00:19:49,840 --> 00:19:53,200 Speaker 1: I think I fall on your side, Andrew. I know 384 00:19:53,320 --> 00:19:55,159 Speaker 1: that I didn't grow up with a nanny cam. I 385 00:19:55,359 --> 00:19:59,399 Speaker 1: do feel weird about invading someone else's privacy, but I 386 00:19:59,560 --> 00:20:02,960 Speaker 1: also like when it comes to my future children and 387 00:20:03,920 --> 00:20:07,400 Speaker 1: knowing what is going on with them. I think disclosing 388 00:20:08,119 --> 00:20:09,720 Speaker 1: you know, just you know, we have cameras in our 389 00:20:09,760 --> 00:20:13,200 Speaker 1: house and working here means that you may be filmed 390 00:20:14,240 --> 00:20:17,080 Speaker 1: while you're here. I think that is feels like the 391 00:20:17,119 --> 00:20:19,680 Speaker 1: best of both worlds, where you are able to monitor things. 392 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:22,240 Speaker 1: Maybe you also have a sense of like if you 393 00:20:22,320 --> 00:20:25,280 Speaker 1: were the nanny, you have a sense of self censorship 394 00:20:25,359 --> 00:20:27,359 Speaker 1: if you think that you're being viewed. I mean, I 395 00:20:27,400 --> 00:20:30,919 Speaker 1: hope you wouldn't do anything even if you weren't being watched. 396 00:20:31,040 --> 00:20:33,760 Speaker 1: But sometimes that does, you know, make people think twice 397 00:20:33,760 --> 00:20:35,600 Speaker 1: about their response or behavior to things. 398 00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:38,000 Speaker 4: Speaking of wanting to know what's going on with your 399 00:20:38,040 --> 00:20:40,240 Speaker 4: kid in the house, then that kind of leads us 400 00:20:40,280 --> 00:20:41,560 Speaker 4: into Susan and Julie. 401 00:20:41,800 --> 00:20:45,720 Speaker 1: Wow, okay, which I have to say the takeout scene 402 00:20:46,040 --> 00:20:50,080 Speaker 1: with Mike and Susan and Julie. At first, I'm just 403 00:20:50,240 --> 00:20:52,480 Speaker 1: it's everything that I've wanted for Mike and Susan. They're 404 00:20:52,600 --> 00:20:55,560 Speaker 1: so cute. I know, they're such a cute couple. They're 405 00:20:55,600 --> 00:20:58,440 Speaker 1: eating out of each other's takeout boxes. I don't know why, 406 00:20:58,720 --> 00:21:02,479 Speaker 1: like Chinese takeout box are so romantic to me. Oh, 407 00:21:02,560 --> 00:21:05,159 Speaker 1: there's just this whimsy and this kind of feeling of 408 00:21:05,520 --> 00:21:07,919 Speaker 1: you could have just moved into a place with your partner. 409 00:21:08,119 --> 00:21:09,000 Speaker 5: Because we always see it. 410 00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:11,600 Speaker 4: It's in like every movie and TV show and people 411 00:21:11,960 --> 00:21:13,639 Speaker 4: are having their first night in their new place, or 412 00:21:13,680 --> 00:21:15,720 Speaker 4: they're staying up late in the office and romantic sparks 413 00:21:15,760 --> 00:21:18,240 Speaker 4: are flying. It's always over Chinese takeout, and they're always 414 00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:20,800 Speaker 4: using chopsticks to like, oh, I'm just gonna pluck this out, 415 00:21:20,920 --> 00:21:22,399 Speaker 4: and you know I'm gonna feed you. Now. 416 00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:25,400 Speaker 5: It's like messaging we have received. So now we are like, yep, 417 00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:26,200 Speaker 5: those are romance. 418 00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:30,840 Speaker 1: That's romance, right exactly, Low Maane is romance. And and 419 00:21:31,080 --> 00:21:36,800 Speaker 1: speaking of using your chopsticks, Julie is loading up her plate. 420 00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:42,280 Speaker 1: And I wrote, Okay, now, how could Julie be hiding 421 00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:47,800 Speaker 1: Zach this whole time? I'm shocked. I'm shocked that Susan 422 00:21:47,960 --> 00:21:52,480 Speaker 1: as a mother, never once goes in her daughter's room. 423 00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:56,720 Speaker 1: I'm shocked at the room is big enough that he 424 00:21:56,840 --> 00:21:59,439 Speaker 1: could be hiding in there. How is he using the bathroom? 425 00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:02,080 Speaker 1: I mean obvious some of these questions do get answered 426 00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:05,280 Speaker 1: later in this episode, or you know, he gets exposed. 427 00:22:05,800 --> 00:22:10,080 Speaker 1: But I found this believable and far fetched. 428 00:22:10,200 --> 00:22:12,399 Speaker 3: Yeah, far fetched is the right word. I mean, do 429 00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:14,040 Speaker 3: we have a sense of how long this is? 430 00:22:14,280 --> 00:22:14,320 Speaker 4: No? 431 00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:16,440 Speaker 5: I also wrote how long has this been going on? 432 00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:20,639 Speaker 2: Because because in other people's time, you know, like in 433 00:22:20,760 --> 00:22:24,399 Speaker 2: other characters in like Carlos being in jail or you know, 434 00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:28,359 Speaker 2: Rex having an affair, like it actually feels like quite 435 00:22:28,400 --> 00:22:30,760 Speaker 2: a bit of time. If you just went and looked 436 00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:33,600 Speaker 2: at the last episode, I think that was when Zach 437 00:22:33,720 --> 00:22:37,320 Speaker 2: broke out, right, like, so it or maybe two episodes ago. 438 00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:39,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, so it maybe hasn't been. 439 00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:41,879 Speaker 2: But it does feel like if Mike and Susan are 440 00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:44,680 Speaker 2: now at the almost I love viewpoint, like and they're 441 00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:46,760 Speaker 2: they're having sex, or they're at least. 442 00:22:46,640 --> 00:22:48,680 Speaker 5: Trying to have sex desperately trying to happen. 443 00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:51,520 Speaker 2: It does feel like it's been more than days. So 444 00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:55,760 Speaker 2: I think that that might be down to that the 445 00:22:55,920 --> 00:22:59,480 Speaker 2: writing is happening in real time that I sought a 446 00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:00,640 Speaker 2: sort of recall. 447 00:23:00,920 --> 00:23:01,679 Speaker 3: I mean, I know. 448 00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:06,320 Speaker 2: That the train comes off the tracks at some point. 449 00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:09,760 Speaker 2: It may not be until season two, but there was 450 00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:13,720 Speaker 2: a point where and we'll have to get Dina in here, 451 00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:15,399 Speaker 2: who was my hairdresser, to talk to. 452 00:23:15,440 --> 00:23:16,000 Speaker 5: Me about it. 453 00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:17,760 Speaker 3: We want to tell her all. 454 00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:19,639 Speaker 2: Things hair on the show, because the hair played a 455 00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:22,680 Speaker 2: big part. But also just like behind the scenes, there 456 00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:25,200 Speaker 2: were times when we would show up at five thirty 457 00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:26,920 Speaker 2: in the morning for hair and makeup, and we would 458 00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:29,439 Speaker 2: be in my trailer and there would be no scene 459 00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:32,480 Speaker 2: written and they would say, so, yeah, if you could 460 00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:34,359 Speaker 2: get ready and then go to set at like six 461 00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:37,600 Speaker 2: thirty and we'd go like, okay, well we could get ready, 462 00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:40,399 Speaker 2: but like, if the scene is I come out of 463 00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:43,640 Speaker 2: the shower in a towel, that's going to dictate one look. 464 00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:47,000 Speaker 2: And if the scene is I'm going to the grocery store, 465 00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:49,720 Speaker 2: that would be a different look like and we don't know. 466 00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:53,239 Speaker 3: So it's hard. We're here, but it's hard for us 467 00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:54,320 Speaker 3: to really get ready. 468 00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:57,800 Speaker 2: And then they would we would go to the set 469 00:23:57,920 --> 00:24:00,800 Speaker 2: to Susan's house and be standing there with a director 470 00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:04,240 Speaker 2: and a crew and no scene, and then eventually a 471 00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:06,399 Speaker 2: scene would come. They would hand it to you. You 472 00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:09,960 Speaker 2: would literally learn it in thirty seconds, try to block 473 00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:12,359 Speaker 2: through something, and then go back and get ready and 474 00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:15,320 Speaker 2: then come back and shoot. And so I know that 475 00:24:15,520 --> 00:24:17,600 Speaker 2: we are and it'll be interesting to see if we 476 00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:19,960 Speaker 2: if we see that in the work, because I do 477 00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:22,560 Speaker 2: think everyone involved in this show is a super high 478 00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:26,480 Speaker 2: level of talent, and it was kind of like, you know, 479 00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:29,080 Speaker 2: people were able to pull it together, but it certainly 480 00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:30,760 Speaker 2: isn't an ideal thing? 481 00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:34,120 Speaker 1: Is this because you were just one episode ahead each 482 00:24:34,280 --> 00:24:37,840 Speaker 1: week that you were filming episodes that then were airing 483 00:24:38,080 --> 00:24:39,640 Speaker 1: one or two weeks out. 484 00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:41,760 Speaker 5: I do think that played a part. 485 00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:45,520 Speaker 2: I think things got really got really cramped up and 486 00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:47,600 Speaker 2: this you know, I don't know that this is completely 487 00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:51,080 Speaker 2: unique to Desperate Housewives. I think it was a pretty 488 00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:54,720 Speaker 2: extreme example like as it went on, but you know, 489 00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:58,560 Speaker 2: like I think Doug was sort of alluding to like 490 00:24:58,720 --> 00:25:00,240 Speaker 2: you didn't know if it was going to be a 491 00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:03,480 Speaker 2: big hit, like he was talking about his contract negotiations 492 00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:06,239 Speaker 2: and like and Mark saying, we don't know if it's 493 00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:06,840 Speaker 2: going to be a hit. 494 00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:08,960 Speaker 3: You know, we don't And so I think. 495 00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:12,800 Speaker 2: When if you don't know, there could be the thing 496 00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:15,760 Speaker 2: of where it just all happened so fast and so 497 00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:19,639 Speaker 2: intensely and so huge with such a big light on 498 00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:20,919 Speaker 2: it that it. 499 00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:24,120 Speaker 1: Just like and that's also live TV. I mean, now 500 00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:26,320 Speaker 1: you look at how a TV show gets developed, and 501 00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:29,200 Speaker 1: there's no way that you're going to start filming until 502 00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:31,480 Speaker 1: almost most of the scripts are done. It's also most 503 00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:34,480 Speaker 1: TV shows are ten episodes for eight episodes, yeah. 504 00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:35,040 Speaker 5: Twenty three. 505 00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:37,600 Speaker 4: I keep getting this image in my head of like 506 00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:41,760 Speaker 4: a roller coaster going up that all the way up 507 00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:44,760 Speaker 4: to the top and then not knowing, like not knowing 508 00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:47,840 Speaker 4: where what's coming on that other edge. It's just like now, 509 00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:51,359 Speaker 4: We've made it here, and now what comes next? Is 510 00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:52,960 Speaker 4: there a track or is there not a track? Is 511 00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:54,080 Speaker 4: there a loop coming up? You know? 512 00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:55,680 Speaker 5: That's kind of how I feel like. 513 00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:58,560 Speaker 2: It's so so I think this Zach thing is definitely 514 00:25:58,760 --> 00:26:00,480 Speaker 2: like a I don't know if you we don't have 515 00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:02,600 Speaker 2: to call it like an error or whatever, but it's 516 00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:04,800 Speaker 2: like a hole that that, like you said, fart, doesn't 517 00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:05,560 Speaker 2: quite make sense. 518 00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:09,159 Speaker 1: Well, So, speaking of Zach, you have Mike and Susan, 519 00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:13,600 Speaker 1: who seemed desperate to have sex again. Susan won't have 520 00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:16,119 Speaker 1: sex in Mike's house because she says, I like to 521 00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:17,639 Speaker 1: have my things around me. 522 00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:21,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, I think that's reasonable. I think that's so it's 523 00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:22,520 Speaker 5: annoying too. 524 00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:25,200 Speaker 4: We should point out that the thing that really sends 525 00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:27,720 Speaker 4: them into the whole sex plan kind of off the 526 00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:29,440 Speaker 4: rails is because Carl. 527 00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:33,560 Speaker 5: Damn Carl always Heart the Heart, the Heart. 528 00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:34,840 Speaker 3: Want to come over that weekend. 529 00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:39,560 Speaker 4: So Julie shares that he and Brandy may have broken up, 530 00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:41,040 Speaker 4: which is kind of a big point. 531 00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:42,560 Speaker 5: It's kind of an interesting thing, right. 532 00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:46,760 Speaker 4: Because that's who he left Susan for, and that he's 533 00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:49,680 Speaker 4: he's now he's dealing with that, and so he can't 534 00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:51,720 Speaker 4: take Julie anymore. So now Julie is going to be home, 535 00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:55,160 Speaker 4: and that is spoiling Susan and Mike's sex plans. 536 00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:57,080 Speaker 1: Yes, because Susan does not all want to go over 537 00:26:57,119 --> 00:26:59,320 Speaker 1: to Mike's house and Julie is at home. 538 00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:03,960 Speaker 5: But probably making out upstairs by the way, I herself, So. 539 00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:08,240 Speaker 2: Wait, behind the scenes were Julian and Zach. Was it 540 00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:09,800 Speaker 2: the one kiss and then no more? 541 00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:12,920 Speaker 4: I believe it was probably the one kiss and no 542 00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:16,080 Speaker 4: more at this point. That's what I'm assuming was going on, 543 00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:18,880 Speaker 4: because I think there was just there's Julie is such 544 00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:21,560 Speaker 4: a good girl, even though she's hiding this big secret 545 00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:23,960 Speaker 4: right now, like to her core, I think she was 546 00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:28,000 Speaker 4: probably not prepared to go from one caught off guard 547 00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:30,159 Speaker 4: kiss to like being comfortable with a boy in her 548 00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:31,920 Speaker 4: room just making out. So I think it was probably 549 00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:34,560 Speaker 4: pretty tame up there, just actually sharing Chinese food. 550 00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:38,280 Speaker 1: I agree, And so we have on the other side Susan, 551 00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:42,800 Speaker 1: who's dressed up in super sexy blue lingerie. She's turning 552 00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:45,280 Speaker 1: on music. Mike's gonna come over because Julie's. 553 00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:48,440 Speaker 5: Out, Al Green's come and take me. I thought that 554 00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:49,480 Speaker 5: was a great choice. 555 00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:53,360 Speaker 1: And I think you singing that scene, Ma is so genius, 556 00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:55,639 Speaker 1: and she leaves, and Susan leaves the little note on 557 00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:58,080 Speaker 1: the door that says come on in, and of course 558 00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:02,680 Speaker 1: then she hears poor Zach who's caught in the middle 559 00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:05,680 Speaker 1: trying to sneak out, but she thinks it's Mike coming 560 00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:09,400 Speaker 1: up the hallway. Eventually Mike does come in. Susan has 561 00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:12,600 Speaker 1: this snaff who where she now thinks there's someone breaking in, 562 00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:15,240 Speaker 1: which there kind of is accidentally ends up hitting Mike 563 00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:15,439 Speaker 1: in the. 564 00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:16,600 Speaker 5: Face with a thigh master. 565 00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:18,680 Speaker 3: Do you know what a thigmester is? 566 00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:20,399 Speaker 1: Yes, Suzanne Summer, Oh. 567 00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:24,800 Speaker 5: Yeah, maybe I didn't see that weapon of choice and 568 00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:25,720 Speaker 5: understand what it was. 569 00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:27,960 Speaker 1: I understood what it was. I have to say, my 570 00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:32,680 Speaker 1: good friend Violet is actually Suzanne Summer's granddaughter. Oh so 571 00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:37,680 Speaker 1: I a little inside knowledge to knowing who created the 572 00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:41,360 Speaker 1: thigh master. Okay, hits Mike in the face with the 573 00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:43,320 Speaker 1: thigh master, which is so funny, and then of course 574 00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:47,720 Speaker 1: they both look up to see Zach. Do you remember mom, 575 00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:50,640 Speaker 1: what shooting that scene was like? It's such good again 576 00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:51,600 Speaker 1: physical comedy. 577 00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:57,000 Speaker 2: It's that kind of memory. And you're talking about the 578 00:28:57,160 --> 00:29:00,760 Speaker 2: lingerie and the and the singing and the roses and yeah, 579 00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:07,160 Speaker 2: it's it's loose sometimes memories for me, I don't know 580 00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:10,600 Speaker 2: if you guys feel this way, like they go right 581 00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:14,200 Speaker 2: into like good or bad, like you have no specificity. 582 00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:16,760 Speaker 2: But like so if you see somebody you haven't seen 583 00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:18,520 Speaker 2: in a really long time and you don't remember their 584 00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:20,960 Speaker 2: name and you don't really remember how you met them, 585 00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:23,760 Speaker 2: but you know that you've had an interaction and and 586 00:29:23,880 --> 00:29:26,240 Speaker 2: you're and I will get this thing of like I 587 00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:29,120 Speaker 2: know this is good, like whatever I had with this 588 00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:32,800 Speaker 2: person which I can't remember, is good. Or I'll feel like, 589 00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:35,520 Speaker 2: oh this was not good, like whatever this was awkward. 590 00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:40,280 Speaker 2: So I'm having a lot of good feelings about it. 591 00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:45,640 Speaker 2: I feel like, again, these kinds of scenes are for 592 00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:51,960 Speaker 2: me in the show were very discovered and choreographed, and 593 00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:55,680 Speaker 2: that work was done with either the steady cam or 594 00:29:55,800 --> 00:30:01,120 Speaker 2: the or like a camera on a dolly. And I 595 00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:07,720 Speaker 2: remember probably being very you know, I'm pretty shy when 596 00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:10,400 Speaker 2: it comes like I've never walked around. I wish actually 597 00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:12,600 Speaker 2: my whole life that I'd walked around with more confidence 598 00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:15,080 Speaker 2: in my body, Like I never was the person that. 599 00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:18,280 Speaker 1: Was just like I have a killer body, which is crazy, 600 00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:19,320 Speaker 1: but I I. 601 00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:22,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm well, thanks, I guess, And it was a 602 00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:24,560 Speaker 2: waste of time for sure, because the point is it 603 00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:26,560 Speaker 2: doesn't matter if if anybody else thinks you have a 604 00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:28,760 Speaker 2: killer body or not. You should feel that you have 605 00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:31,640 Speaker 2: one because it's yours and it can do magical things 606 00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:34,920 Speaker 2: and it's awesome. But I never really felt that way 607 00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:37,680 Speaker 2: about myself, So I'm sure that I was quite self 608 00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:40,240 Speaker 2: conscious and making sure that I was, like, probably I 609 00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:42,120 Speaker 2: didn't eat the day before or something. 610 00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:46,080 Speaker 5: You know, she's like when they call cut, she's using 611 00:30:46,120 --> 00:30:46,840 Speaker 5: the time ass. 612 00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:51,880 Speaker 2: But all of I agree with you that I loved 613 00:30:51,960 --> 00:30:55,000 Speaker 2: the work that I did. I the choice to sing, 614 00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:59,240 Speaker 2: I'm sure that was mine. It's so playful, It's really playful. 615 00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:03,600 Speaker 2: It fell it felt truthful, like it felt like private, 616 00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:06,480 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. It felt like how you 617 00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:09,520 Speaker 2: would maybe behave when you thought you were alone and 618 00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:10,959 Speaker 2: excited about something. 619 00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:13,920 Speaker 1: I've had that I've had, the like dance around my 620 00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:17,880 Speaker 1: kitchen excited to go on a date, singing to myself. 621 00:31:18,080 --> 00:31:21,080 Speaker 5: I totally have done that kind of giddy internal moment. 622 00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:22,920 Speaker 3: It's a beautiful moment, and it is. 623 00:31:23,040 --> 00:31:26,320 Speaker 4: So funny when Mike comes around the corner, thinking I mean, 624 00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:28,600 Speaker 4: you've set the groundwork for him to assume he's walking 625 00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:33,000 Speaker 4: in for sex. Yes, probably, just so excited. And then 626 00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:35,480 Speaker 4: he rounds the corner and gets smacked upside the head. 627 00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:37,880 Speaker 4: I mean, wow, talk about mixed signals. 628 00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:42,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I mean just to follow this storyline through 629 00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:46,520 Speaker 1: a little bit. Then we have, of course, things are foiled. 630 00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:50,560 Speaker 1: We discover that Julie in fact has been hiding Zach, 631 00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:55,240 Speaker 1: and we have this conversation between Julie and Susan, which 632 00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:59,040 Speaker 1: I really thought this scene was so interesting because Julie 633 00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:03,760 Speaker 1: is sitting downstairs and Susan comes downstairs in her pajamas, 634 00:32:03,840 --> 00:32:07,240 Speaker 1: and Julie is upset at Susan. And as a writer, 635 00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:10,680 Speaker 1: I was looking at how the scene not just was 636 00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:14,440 Speaker 1: written but was also directed, and all of the elements 637 00:32:14,480 --> 00:32:17,640 Speaker 1: of how it was directed, the wardrobe, the set design, 638 00:32:17,760 --> 00:32:21,000 Speaker 1: the postures that both of you take, and I thought 639 00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:25,840 Speaker 1: it so beautifully illustrated the inversion of roles between Susan 640 00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:29,080 Speaker 1: and Julie, because we have Julie sitting in an armchair 641 00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:31,760 Speaker 1: that kind of looks like a place an adult parent 642 00:32:31,920 --> 00:32:35,120 Speaker 1: would be sitting reading a book, which feels like very 643 00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:39,880 Speaker 1: adult action, and we have Susan sort of trepidaciously creeping 644 00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:44,160 Speaker 1: down the stairs, almost like she is the teenager getting 645 00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:48,120 Speaker 1: caught by her mom. And even in the wardrobe, I 646 00:32:48,240 --> 00:32:50,480 Speaker 1: think Susan looks like a teenager in this scene. She 647 00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:53,120 Speaker 1: has this which is so wide twok, this short sleeve 648 00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:55,800 Speaker 1: shirt with a long sleeve striped shirt underneath it, and 649 00:32:55,840 --> 00:32:57,840 Speaker 1: I'm like, I feel like I wore that when I 650 00:32:58,160 --> 00:33:01,440 Speaker 1: was twelve or thirteen. And then Julie is kind of 651 00:33:01,480 --> 00:33:05,320 Speaker 1: in like a cardigany sweater, and I just thought, wow, 652 00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:10,520 Speaker 1: the dynamic of feeling like Julie is the mom and 653 00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:13,160 Speaker 1: Susan is the teenager, which is then sort of the 654 00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:16,320 Speaker 1: content of the scene too, is it's what Julie says 655 00:33:17,120 --> 00:33:20,600 Speaker 1: and is almost scolding Susan for doing what I think 656 00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:23,040 Speaker 1: any parent would do, which to say, you can't hide 657 00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:24,800 Speaker 1: your friend in your room. 658 00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:27,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, but she goes back and she talks about, you know, 659 00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:31,560 Speaker 2: how bad I was when the divorce happened, and how 660 00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:34,960 Speaker 2: absent I was as a mother with this example and 661 00:33:35,040 --> 00:33:40,200 Speaker 2: that example, and yeah, I'm this is another way, so 662 00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:43,040 Speaker 2: Susan can't cook, and Susan was not as good of a. 663 00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:44,680 Speaker 3: Mother as well. 664 00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:47,040 Speaker 1: I just I mean, and I think it's really smart 665 00:33:47,240 --> 00:33:50,800 Speaker 1: how this whole scene was pieced together to not just 666 00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:54,000 Speaker 1: in the dialogue, but in every bit of action really 667 00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:59,240 Speaker 1: reflect this strange inverted dynamic between I reallylie. 668 00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:02,520 Speaker 4: I love that you were able to view it from 669 00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:05,760 Speaker 4: all those different angles, and that for you, all of 670 00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:09,239 Speaker 4: those different components really made it ring true and feel 671 00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:13,920 Speaker 4: very grounded. I think that this narrative for Susan and 672 00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:17,319 Speaker 4: Julie kind of continues if I remember throughout the show 673 00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:20,399 Speaker 4: a bit with this idea of obviously we've talked about 674 00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:23,560 Speaker 4: the dynamic between them being often more like peers or 675 00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:27,640 Speaker 4: friends than it is parent child or mother daughter. And 676 00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:30,960 Speaker 4: I do think it's fair what Julie says. I think 677 00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:34,600 Speaker 4: it's fair for her to say, Hey, you are now 678 00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:37,879 Speaker 4: taking this parental role and this moral high ground here, 679 00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:42,040 Speaker 4: but I don't feel comfortable listening to you right now 680 00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:44,640 Speaker 4: because it doesn't feel like that is a role you've 681 00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:50,800 Speaker 4: often occupied, is certainly recently and I but to Susan's 682 00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:54,640 Speaker 4: credit in this particular episode, she doesn't just get defensive 683 00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:57,279 Speaker 4: and say, well, you're wrong, and I'm your mom and 684 00:34:57,360 --> 00:35:00,520 Speaker 4: I made the decision and that's the law. She does 685 00:35:00,680 --> 00:35:02,920 Speaker 4: reflect because we see her later go to Mike and say, 686 00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:06,080 Speaker 4: she's kind of right. I leaned pretty heavily on her, 687 00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:08,920 Speaker 4: and it's because she's the person who's around and sharing 688 00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:12,440 Speaker 4: my space and I needed someone and you know. So 689 00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:16,160 Speaker 4: it's not like I think that they're the dynamic we 690 00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:19,040 Speaker 4: have notes on in the sense of for her how 691 00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:20,120 Speaker 4: she could be a better mother. 692 00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:23,320 Speaker 5: But I think that it also has. 693 00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:27,440 Speaker 4: So informed how strong their bond is, that they did 694 00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:32,240 Speaker 4: have that kind of level of openness, and that Julie 695 00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:34,880 Speaker 4: obviously kind of likes taking care of Susan in a 696 00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:37,360 Speaker 4: way too. It gives her a sense of purpose and identity. 697 00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:41,240 Speaker 4: So I'm excited to see obviously where their relationship continues 698 00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:42,320 Speaker 4: to grow and unfold. 699 00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:44,759 Speaker 5: But I thought it was kind of a I. 700 00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:48,600 Speaker 2: Think it's, you know, you're giving all of these families 701 00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:52,239 Speaker 2: on with Seria Lane a problem, you know, and I 702 00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:56,439 Speaker 2: think Susan, other than like she has no love life, 703 00:35:56,800 --> 00:36:02,080 Speaker 2: you know, is the it's the least problematic, do you 704 00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:04,280 Speaker 2: know what I mean? And so I think it's actually 705 00:36:04,480 --> 00:36:08,919 Speaker 2: a good flaw for Susan. I think it's a reasonable 706 00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:16,040 Speaker 2: flaw that she leans too heavily into her daughter as 707 00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:19,320 Speaker 2: a friend and a support system and that's not a 708 00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:23,000 Speaker 2: great conscious choice for a parent to make of their child, 709 00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:26,239 Speaker 2: at least in my judgment. But you don't want your 710 00:36:26,320 --> 00:36:29,160 Speaker 2: characters to be perfect. You want them to be flawed. 711 00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:32,359 Speaker 2: You want them to be able to grow. So, I mean, 712 00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:36,000 Speaker 2: I don't remember where this goes. It's not entirely with 713 00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:38,360 Speaker 2: confidence that I believe that the payoff is going to 714 00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:41,680 Speaker 2: be correct, but I'm willing to watch. 715 00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:52,759 Speaker 1: Obviously, we have so many flawed characters. And speaking of 716 00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:54,560 Speaker 1: flawed characters, I think we have to give a little 717 00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:58,440 Speaker 1: time to talk about Gabby and Carlos's relationship. You know, 718 00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:01,920 Speaker 1: we have Carlos is now in jail and Gabby is 719 00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:07,880 Speaker 1: looking for the passport while the government starts seizing Carlos's assets, 720 00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:09,960 Speaker 1: and I love I think. I don't know if this 721 00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:14,800 Speaker 1: is my favorite line award, but it's my favorite line 722 00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:19,719 Speaker 1: mixed with the direction. Okay, when Gabby says, people don't 723 00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:23,320 Speaker 1: just become poor overnight, and then we hardcut to the 724 00:37:23,480 --> 00:37:27,440 Speaker 1: tow truck outside of their house, loading on her sports 725 00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:30,920 Speaker 1: car onto the tow truck, and she runs out and 726 00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:34,879 Speaker 1: she's so proud that she yells after the tow truck 727 00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:36,799 Speaker 1: as it's going away, and the neighbors across the street 728 00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:39,040 Speaker 1: are kind of watching. She goes, you call that a 729 00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:42,800 Speaker 1: paint job, don't bring it back and tell it's perfect. 730 00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:47,080 Speaker 1: And it's this sad attempt to kind of hold on 731 00:37:47,280 --> 00:37:50,719 Speaker 1: to the lifestyle that is starting to crumble around her 732 00:37:50,840 --> 00:37:53,120 Speaker 1: that she's really not in control of. And I think 733 00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:57,719 Speaker 1: this leads her to really try to hold onto her 734 00:37:57,800 --> 00:38:01,399 Speaker 1: lifestyle by taking everything in the house. 735 00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:02,640 Speaker 3: That's the funny scene. 736 00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:05,600 Speaker 1: It is such a funny scene that they could possibly seize, 737 00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:09,680 Speaker 1: including the pop art photos of her selle of them, 738 00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:11,759 Speaker 1: all three of them. I'm like, I don't know that 739 00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:16,920 Speaker 1: they're going to take those and wheeling it across the streets. 740 00:38:17,000 --> 00:38:19,400 Speaker 5: That is what I gave my most desperate moment for 741 00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:20,160 Speaker 5: this episode. 742 00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:22,000 Speaker 3: She couched down the street. 743 00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:25,200 Speaker 4: The wheeling the furniture cart piled high with all the things, 744 00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:27,440 Speaker 4: shoving it down the street over to Breeze Girl. 745 00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:30,239 Speaker 2: Eyes wondering how she did that, Like what, like if 746 00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:34,360 Speaker 2: there was wires or something out of frame on the 747 00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:37,239 Speaker 2: other side, like helping her pull it. It seemed like 748 00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:40,040 Speaker 2: a lot for her to push by herself, didn't it. 749 00:38:40,239 --> 00:38:41,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I feel like. 750 00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:43,080 Speaker 2: I kind of was also concerned that it was all 751 00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:46,160 Speaker 2: going to fall all over the place, but I mean 752 00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:49,920 Speaker 2: it didn't. So it must have been positioned well to 753 00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:51,440 Speaker 2: be able to shoot that over and over. 754 00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:53,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, or glued on there somehow, I mean. And I 755 00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:55,840 Speaker 1: have to say they are really good, the writers about 756 00:38:55,880 --> 00:39:00,520 Speaker 1: giving Eva and Gabby this again. It reminds me of 757 00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:03,000 Speaker 1: when she's mowing the lawn in her ball gown. You know, 758 00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:05,960 Speaker 1: she's always in these fabulous heels and this little outfit, 759 00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:08,960 Speaker 1: and now she's pushing like a couch and a dining 760 00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:11,319 Speaker 1: table and all the chairs and all this art down 761 00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:11,760 Speaker 1: the street. 762 00:39:11,880 --> 00:39:13,600 Speaker 4: And I think it's made funnier by the fact that 763 00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:16,600 Speaker 4: she's so tiny, you know, she's such a teeny tiny person, 764 00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:19,239 Speaker 4: and so she's so dwarfed by these things that it's 765 00:39:19,480 --> 00:39:22,000 Speaker 4: just funny. It sets us up to find that very funny. 766 00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:25,040 Speaker 1: I mean, and we Brie, who has enough issues of 767 00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:27,759 Speaker 1: her own, because she has just found out that her 768 00:39:27,880 --> 00:39:30,400 Speaker 1: husband is cheating on her and that he's had a 769 00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:32,560 Speaker 1: heart attack and now he's in the hospital, and when 770 00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:36,080 Speaker 1: she goes to meet him, she sees the person who 771 00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:37,840 Speaker 1: signed him in is Mazy Gibbons. 772 00:39:38,080 --> 00:39:39,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, can you imagine. 773 00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:42,160 Speaker 4: I mean, also, I want to go back to the 774 00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:44,520 Speaker 4: very beginning of this episode, because that's where my favorite 775 00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:46,719 Speaker 4: line from the episode comes from, which is in the 776 00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:49,719 Speaker 4: very beginning, Brion rex Are. They have a scene at 777 00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:52,799 Speaker 4: home and Brie asks him, were you with a woman? 778 00:39:52,960 --> 00:39:56,520 Speaker 4: She because she smells his jacket. Yeah, and she says, 779 00:39:56,560 --> 00:39:58,600 Speaker 4: were you with a woman? And then they have this 780 00:39:58,840 --> 00:40:01,480 Speaker 4: moment where she's sort of realizing that yes, he is 781 00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:05,879 Speaker 4: maybe seeing other women, and she gets incensed that he's 782 00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:08,759 Speaker 4: bringing that kind of energy into their house and all 783 00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:12,120 Speaker 4: these things, and she yells out Andrew Danielle, Daddy's gonna 784 00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:16,600 Speaker 4: fordicate for us, And yeah, that was my favorite line 785 00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:18,799 Speaker 4: of this episode. It was just it was just so great. 786 00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:22,360 Speaker 2: Mine was actually when she is finally in his hospital 787 00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:28,000 Speaker 2: room and you know, she's like committed to helping nursing 788 00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:32,520 Speaker 2: him back to health, but only because she goes over 789 00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:35,040 Speaker 2: and tells him that she is literally getting the best 790 00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:38,400 Speaker 2: lawyer and she's going to take everything from him and 791 00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:41,480 Speaker 2: et cetera, et cetera. And then she says, I'm so 792 00:40:41,680 --> 00:40:44,120 Speaker 2: glad you didn't die before I got a chance to 793 00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:44,680 Speaker 2: tell you that. 794 00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:46,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, I know, I know. 795 00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:50,120 Speaker 1: At the end of this episode, Bree goes evil and 796 00:40:50,239 --> 00:40:54,000 Speaker 1: I have to say. Gabby also goes a little evil. 797 00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:56,440 Speaker 1: You know. We have Carlos tell her about the hidden 798 00:40:56,480 --> 00:40:58,560 Speaker 1: panel in the back of the closet where he's keeping 799 00:40:58,600 --> 00:40:59,200 Speaker 1: his passport. 800 00:40:59,360 --> 00:41:01,440 Speaker 3: Tell her what pas. 801 00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:03,600 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, that was amazing me too. 802 00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:04,719 Speaker 3: I love that scene. 803 00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:07,400 Speaker 2: So we've got Gabby and Carlos in the in this 804 00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:10,520 Speaker 2: sort of room where you can go in a jail 805 00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:13,720 Speaker 2: where you can talk to, you know, somebody from the outside, 806 00:41:14,200 --> 00:41:16,840 Speaker 2: and they're not allowed to touch, but somehow they're allowed 807 00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:17,839 Speaker 2: to lean in and kiss. 808 00:41:17,920 --> 00:41:19,399 Speaker 1: Well, they have to keep their hands on the table 809 00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:19,839 Speaker 1: to keep their. 810 00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:21,759 Speaker 2: Hands on the table, and so when they lean in 811 00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:27,200 Speaker 2: to kiss, Carlos gives her all the secret information that 812 00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:28,080 Speaker 2: she needs. 813 00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:30,840 Speaker 3: And I just I thought that scene was incredible and. 814 00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:33,200 Speaker 1: I thought it was such an interesting turn for Gabby 815 00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:37,560 Speaker 1: because Gabby actually feels very repentant over her affair with John. 816 00:41:37,680 --> 00:41:40,600 Speaker 1: She seems like she's actually really missing Carlos's presence in 817 00:41:40,640 --> 00:41:43,960 Speaker 1: the house. And when they first kiss, it's so genuine 818 00:41:44,040 --> 00:41:46,600 Speaker 1: on her end. It feels like she really has missed him. 819 00:41:46,920 --> 00:41:50,120 Speaker 1: And then he whispers in her ear and you watch her, 820 00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:52,480 Speaker 1: I mean, Eva does this really well? You watch her 821 00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:56,560 Speaker 1: turn and go, oh my god, you're not leaning in 822 00:41:56,920 --> 00:41:59,200 Speaker 1: to genuinely kiss me, you're leaning in to ask me 823 00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:00,440 Speaker 1: to cover up for you. 824 00:42:00,680 --> 00:42:03,279 Speaker 2: And yeah, and also, you're not a good guy. You're 825 00:42:03,320 --> 00:42:05,839 Speaker 2: not a good guy who got taken by Tanaka your boss. 826 00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:07,239 Speaker 3: You're actually the bad guy. 827 00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:09,560 Speaker 4: You're part of the problem. And it's after he gives 828 00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:12,520 Speaker 4: her the compliment. It's after the kiss. Comes from the 829 00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:15,600 Speaker 4: fact that he says, I didn't know how you would 830 00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:17,800 Speaker 4: handle something like this. I didn't know what you were capable, 831 00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:21,359 Speaker 4: essentially of. And I'm amazed by how strong you are. 832 00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:24,640 Speaker 4: And you are a good wife. And of course, all 833 00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:26,719 Speaker 4: the way up until this point, she's been thinking she's 834 00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:28,960 Speaker 4: a terrible wife because she's having this affair with you 835 00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:31,440 Speaker 4: know whatever. But he says that, and then they have 836 00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:34,040 Speaker 4: she says, I'm going to kiss my husband, and so 837 00:42:34,160 --> 00:42:38,280 Speaker 4: she thinks it's this tender, romantic moment to your point, Emerson, 838 00:42:38,560 --> 00:42:43,160 Speaker 4: and then he reveals that he's been He's in on it. 839 00:42:43,400 --> 00:42:45,040 Speaker 5: He's in on it, and she's like what. 840 00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:48,000 Speaker 1: And she one ups him. She goes and she gets 841 00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:50,200 Speaker 1: the papers in the passport, but then she doesn't burn 842 00:42:50,239 --> 00:42:52,919 Speaker 1: the papers. She burns the passport and I'm really left 843 00:42:53,000 --> 00:42:57,000 Speaker 1: wondering what does this mean for her intentions about the 844 00:42:57,120 --> 00:42:59,400 Speaker 1: future of their marriage. 845 00:42:59,600 --> 00:43:01,680 Speaker 2: Well, we're to find out when she gets you know, 846 00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:05,800 Speaker 2: when it gets real with where money ends up in 847 00:43:05,920 --> 00:43:06,640 Speaker 2: her life. 848 00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:07,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, or the lack thereof. 849 00:43:08,040 --> 00:43:11,120 Speaker 1: And well, speaking of finding things out, we jumping back 850 00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:14,600 Speaker 1: to Lynette. She has installed the nanny cam. Yes, and 851 00:43:14,840 --> 00:43:18,440 Speaker 1: she watches the best montage. When she gets in bed 852 00:43:18,520 --> 00:43:21,720 Speaker 1: with popcorn, she plugs it in and she watches Claire 853 00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:28,080 Speaker 1: the Nanny be Super Nanny so so so well, no, well. 854 00:43:28,280 --> 00:43:29,800 Speaker 3: First she watched at first. 855 00:43:29,880 --> 00:43:33,200 Speaker 2: Okay, so at first she watches this nanny be Super 856 00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:37,520 Speaker 2: Nanny and she's die is so threatening and so you 857 00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:40,080 Speaker 2: know she you can just see her like I've lost 858 00:43:40,200 --> 00:43:43,800 Speaker 2: my place, I've lost my specialness. I don't matter and 859 00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:47,440 Speaker 2: I love this scene so much. So she decides I'm 860 00:43:47,480 --> 00:43:51,320 Speaker 2: gonna throw this nanny under the bus, and she gives 861 00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:54,000 Speaker 2: the nanny the task of getting her kids to eat 862 00:43:54,040 --> 00:43:55,240 Speaker 2: Brussels sprouts. 863 00:43:55,080 --> 00:43:58,200 Speaker 1: Which we've set up at the beginning. They hate eating 864 00:43:58,280 --> 00:44:00,200 Speaker 1: because we've seen her not be able to get them 865 00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:01,880 Speaker 1: even when she does the cheese trick. 866 00:44:02,160 --> 00:44:04,799 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, and so there and they're by the way, 867 00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:07,719 Speaker 2: they're frozen Brussels sprouts, which I don't know who would 868 00:44:07,719 --> 00:44:10,680 Speaker 2: eat frozen Brussels scouts, But she's trying to get her 869 00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:11,040 Speaker 2: kids seed. 870 00:44:11,320 --> 00:44:13,440 Speaker 3: So that actually brings me to the food that I 871 00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:14,720 Speaker 3: brought in for this episode. 872 00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:18,200 Speaker 2: I made so at Thanksgiving, I make a really lovely 873 00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:23,400 Speaker 2: roasted Brussels sprouts with dates and pumpkin seeds and a 874 00:44:23,480 --> 00:44:27,200 Speaker 2: balsamic and olive oil sort of situation. And so I 875 00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:29,720 Speaker 2: brought those in and we'll have that recipe up online 876 00:44:29,760 --> 00:44:31,640 Speaker 2: and it'll be in time for the holidays, which is 877 00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:34,439 Speaker 2: when everybody should be eating Brussels sprouts, which are such 878 00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:37,200 Speaker 2: a good food for you, and they're so delicious. 879 00:44:37,239 --> 00:44:39,120 Speaker 5: I am unlike the Scavo boys. 880 00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:42,440 Speaker 4: I love Brussels sprouts, and I think obviously they've had 881 00:44:42,440 --> 00:44:45,399 Speaker 4: a very big resurgence and rebranding. I mean, Brussels sprouts 882 00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:47,919 Speaker 4: used to be hated by everyone universally, and now they're 883 00:44:47,960 --> 00:44:52,040 Speaker 4: on like every gastropub menu, every fancy restaurant, every everything 884 00:44:52,160 --> 00:44:52,320 Speaker 4: you know. 885 00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:54,719 Speaker 5: So and I'm sure yours are going to be phenomenal. 886 00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:57,480 Speaker 2: But so when she does finally get in bed at 887 00:44:57,520 --> 00:45:00,120 Speaker 2: the end of the episode, and she's like ready to 888 00:45:00,200 --> 00:45:04,040 Speaker 2: review the camera and she sees the nanny having just 889 00:45:04,200 --> 00:45:06,920 Speaker 2: as much trouble, if not more, than she did trying 890 00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:09,840 Speaker 2: to get the boys to eat Brussels sprouts. She's gleefully 891 00:45:09,920 --> 00:45:14,880 Speaker 2: happy and popping down her popcorn and serving up the 892 00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:16,720 Speaker 2: best movie that she can imagine. 893 00:45:16,960 --> 00:45:18,759 Speaker 1: I know, and I mean I feel for her. I 894 00:45:19,400 --> 00:45:22,120 Speaker 1: really understand because I feel for her. In the scene 895 00:45:22,200 --> 00:45:24,640 Speaker 1: before she says, Okay, this is how I'm gonna, you know, 896 00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:27,920 Speaker 1: bring Claire the super Nanny back to Earth. You know, 897 00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:32,960 Speaker 1: who can make balloon animals and have triloquist dummies. I'm 898 00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:35,360 Speaker 1: gonna task her with Brussels sprouts. But I love that 899 00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:39,080 Speaker 1: before she decides to do that, she tries to spend 900 00:45:39,120 --> 00:45:42,040 Speaker 1: the day with her kids and read to them from 901 00:45:42,120 --> 00:45:44,719 Speaker 1: the book. And she starts to read and they go, well, 902 00:45:44,760 --> 00:45:47,960 Speaker 1: Claire does funny voices, and she goes, oh, okay, and 903 00:45:48,040 --> 00:45:51,520 Speaker 1: so then she does a funny voice, and Felicity does 904 00:45:51,560 --> 00:45:54,080 Speaker 1: this so well, she does a funny voice, and they go, 905 00:45:54,400 --> 00:45:56,239 Speaker 1: that's not a funny voice. And she goes, and this 906 00:45:56,360 --> 00:45:58,200 Speaker 1: is my favorite line of the episode. I'm just getting 907 00:45:58,239 --> 00:45:58,680 Speaker 1: warmed up. 908 00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:02,680 Speaker 4: Well, kids are the toughest critics, aren't they. I mean, 909 00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:04,160 Speaker 4: I feel like they can just cut you down to 910 00:46:04,239 --> 00:46:05,160 Speaker 4: size so quickly. 911 00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:08,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and so she I like that. Lynette gets 912 00:46:08,680 --> 00:46:11,120 Speaker 1: the moment of seeing that everyone is just a human 913 00:46:11,200 --> 00:46:14,920 Speaker 1: being like herself, even Claire couldn't get them to eat 914 00:46:14,920 --> 00:46:15,760 Speaker 1: the Brussels sprouts. 915 00:46:16,520 --> 00:46:19,840 Speaker 2: And then we sort of end on as Zach finally 916 00:46:20,160 --> 00:46:24,880 Speaker 2: gets brought home after he gets discovered in the Julie bedroom, 917 00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:28,000 Speaker 2: where we don't know where he was fitting under the 918 00:46:28,040 --> 00:46:30,680 Speaker 2: bed or in the closet, but he gets discovered and 919 00:46:30,840 --> 00:46:34,200 Speaker 2: Mike decides with Susan that the best move is to 920 00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:35,840 Speaker 2: take him home, take him across the street. 921 00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:38,600 Speaker 1: I like Mike stepping up in this moment. I feel 922 00:46:38,680 --> 00:46:42,359 Speaker 1: like I was like, oh, thank god, Susan finally has 923 00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:45,320 Speaker 1: another adult who's not Julie, who's gonna kind of have 924 00:46:45,480 --> 00:46:45,959 Speaker 1: her back. 925 00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:48,680 Speaker 2: And he does say that to her when she's admitting, 926 00:46:48,760 --> 00:46:52,440 Speaker 2: when Susan is admitting that she, you know, probably did 927 00:46:52,600 --> 00:46:56,399 Speaker 2: lean too hard on Julie and she didn't have anybody else, 928 00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:58,520 Speaker 2: and he says, well, now you have me, yea, which 929 00:46:58,520 --> 00:46:59,200 Speaker 2: is really lovely. 930 00:46:59,760 --> 00:47:02,080 Speaker 5: It is so lovely. It fuels their connection, which is 931 00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:02,600 Speaker 5: really nice. 932 00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:05,640 Speaker 1: And he really steps up for Zach too, you know, 933 00:47:05,760 --> 00:47:07,440 Speaker 1: he says, yes, I'm bringing you back to your dad, 934 00:47:07,520 --> 00:47:10,480 Speaker 1: but also call me. You know, here's my number. I'm 935 00:47:10,520 --> 00:47:13,080 Speaker 1: here for you anytime. And of course, yeah, then we 936 00:47:13,200 --> 00:47:17,800 Speaker 1: get Zach and Paul having the strangest dinner. At first, 937 00:47:17,880 --> 00:47:20,440 Speaker 1: I kind of felt for Paul because he seemed so 938 00:47:20,680 --> 00:47:25,279 Speaker 1: genuinely sad and happy to have his son back, and 939 00:47:25,520 --> 00:47:29,000 Speaker 1: then he starts force feeding him potatoes. 940 00:47:29,400 --> 00:47:29,560 Speaker 4: Yeah. 941 00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:31,480 Speaker 5: How many times does he ask movie wants potatoes in 942 00:47:31,520 --> 00:47:31,879 Speaker 5: that scene? 943 00:47:32,000 --> 00:47:32,200 Speaker 1: Three? 944 00:47:32,560 --> 00:47:33,960 Speaker 5: Yeah, we have this weird scene with. 945 00:47:35,600 --> 00:47:38,279 Speaker 4: Paul and Zach, and their dynamic continues to feel off 946 00:47:38,360 --> 00:47:42,880 Speaker 4: putting and uncomfortable, and because we know, obviously as an 947 00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:45,719 Speaker 4: audience as well, that Paul is still trying to hide 948 00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:49,719 Speaker 4: the fact that Missus Hooper is missing, and Edie in 949 00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:52,920 Speaker 4: this episode kind of gets pushed to the point where 950 00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:54,960 Speaker 4: she's gonna involve the police, and we have this final 951 00:47:55,440 --> 00:47:59,000 Speaker 4: shot of Edie standing outside of Missus Hooper's house and 952 00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:01,239 Speaker 4: the police knocking on her door. So we can only 953 00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:02,719 Speaker 4: imagine where that's gonna go. 954 00:48:03,040 --> 00:48:06,760 Speaker 1: I know, I know, it's a it's a big, juicy episode, 955 00:48:06,840 --> 00:48:07,759 Speaker 1: like they all are. 956 00:48:09,320 --> 00:48:11,880 Speaker 2: I almost made potatoes, by the way, it was. It 957 00:48:12,000 --> 00:48:16,640 Speaker 2: was a tough call between mashed potatoes and the Brussels sprouts, 958 00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:18,320 Speaker 2: but I went with Brussels sprouts. 959 00:48:18,360 --> 00:48:20,320 Speaker 5: I'm glad you went with brussel sprouts. Okay, I love that. 960 00:48:20,440 --> 00:48:21,800 Speaker 3: Well, that was another great episode. 961 00:48:21,880 --> 00:48:22,279 Speaker 5: Yeah, I know. 962 00:48:22,520 --> 00:48:24,680 Speaker 1: And I hope I hope that your people are writing 963 00:48:24,760 --> 00:48:28,600 Speaker 1: in to Desperately Devoted Podcast on Instagram d m us 964 00:48:28,680 --> 00:48:33,680 Speaker 1: your questions, your favorite moments from the episodes. If you 965 00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:35,920 Speaker 1: would cover up for your partner if they were in jail. 966 00:48:36,160 --> 00:48:38,319 Speaker 5: If how long do you think Julie held Zach up 967 00:48:38,320 --> 00:48:38,799 Speaker 5: in her room? 968 00:48:39,320 --> 00:48:40,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, if you're pron 969 00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:43,840 Speaker 2: To leave it and we'll keep your secret, and you 970 00:48:43,920 --> 00:48:47,440 Speaker 2: know why, because we are desperately devoted to you