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Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous. It's Lala Kent.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to Untraditionally, Lala Hey bids, It's Lala Kent, Welcome

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Speaker 2: back to untraditionally Laala Easton Birmingham is up in the villain.

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Speaker 1: How's it going?

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Speaker 3: How you feeling?

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Speaker 1: I'm here, I'm here. Can I just tell you, guys,

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Speaker 1: what a fantastic birthday party that I threw for my baby.

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Speaker 1: So this is how it started, you guys. What I

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Speaker 1: was going to do was take ocean and have her

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Speaker 1: birthday at like an equestrian center. And I was praying

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Speaker 1: to God that I could get her to co sign

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Speaker 1: on the theme being Brave. I would have settled for

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Speaker 1: all Disney princesses because most of them ride horses, but

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Speaker 1: I really wanted Brave, just because I like the message

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Speaker 1: in Brave. She's like, I'll be fighting for my own hand.

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Speaker 1: She doesn't want to get married, She's like, fuck your mom,

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Speaker 1: I haven't. She wants to ride horse and shoot her

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Speaker 1: bow and arrow, and I like it.

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Speaker 4: I have only seen a little bit of a movie,

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Speaker 4: but isn't that where she shoots the boat?

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Speaker 1: All the guys come to like shoot because they want

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Speaker 1: to trying to woo them with the hitting a bulls eye,

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Speaker 1: and then she gets up there and shoots the bull

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Speaker 1: and that's when she drops the line that she'll be

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Speaker 1: fighting for her own hands. And then her mom turns

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Speaker 1: into a bear. It's a movie. It's fantastic, it's so good.

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Speaker 1: So I was hoping that she would want Breathe theme,

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Speaker 1: and I was going to give her a miniature horse

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Speaker 1: as a Harby and they'll poe me as her birthday gift.

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Speaker 1: And we're driving in the car one day and keep

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Speaker 1: in mind the following day is when I'm going to

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Speaker 1: see the space and like lock it down and I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna like talk to them about keeping the miniature horse

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Speaker 1: there and whatnot. She says to me, Mom, Sosa has

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Speaker 1: way better birthday parties than I have. By the way,

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Speaker 1: she's had one party, one fucking party in her life.

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Speaker 1: She has way better birthday parties than I do. And

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Speaker 1: I was like what I was like, And then I

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Speaker 1: showed her when we got home. I showed her every

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Speaker 1: birthday party she's ever had and how fabulous they've been.

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Speaker 1: Of course she didn't remember, because you don't even start

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Speaker 1: making memories until you're older six No. Five Ocean remembers

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Speaker 1: living at the apartment, and she was.

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Speaker 4: Like, yeah, but like, will those same sade as she

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Speaker 4: gets older, Like when she hits ten, will she only

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Speaker 4: remember being five, not five, remember being two? That could happen.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm no scientist.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how you compute and then like separate.

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Speaker 4: But the one thing that I do, we tell her

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Speaker 4: because I feel like she kind of tell.

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Speaker 1: Her what about the like hey, did you know? No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: we don't tell her. You freaking you would have got

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Speaker 1: a horse. So I asked her, what about Sosa's party party,

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Speaker 1: because there's only been one was better than all the

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Speaker 1: other birthday parties, and she said she had a bouncy house,

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Speaker 1: a ball pit and a slide, and that was like

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Speaker 1: that's all you want. Wow, I'm one hundred percent not

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Speaker 1: buying a fucking miniature horse. Figuring out where to house

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Speaker 1: this thing, how to feed this thing? Ah, and then

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Speaker 1: like forcing you to have a brave birthday party. So

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Speaker 1: she settled on K pop demon Hunters. That was the

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Speaker 1: theme that she kept going back to. So I knew

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Speaker 1: that my party planner, her name's Audrey. She has picnic

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Speaker 1: and pedal and she's done every single birthday party that

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Speaker 1: I have had for my kids, and they're always fantastic.

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Speaker 1: So I was like, you're the theme is K Pop

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Speaker 1: Demon Hunters. It's going to be in the backyard. All

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Speaker 1: I know is she wants a slide, a ball pit,

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Speaker 1: and a bouncy house. And she was like, great, we

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Speaker 1: can also do like teacups that spin around. I was like, great, perfect,

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Speaker 1: whatever you can fit in the backyard, let's do it.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why I have such a high level

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Speaker 1: of anxiety when it comes to throwing a child's party,

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Speaker 1: but there's just like a tremendous amount of pressure. You

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Speaker 1: hope that everything goes well. The Russians came into town.

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Speaker 1: It was fabulous. We had a full house. Ocean got

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Speaker 1: to play with Sailor, which is one of the Russing kids.

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Speaker 1: He has a girlfriend who has a five year old

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Speaker 1: and Sailor and Ocean played beautifully. They were so cute.

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Speaker 1: Day of the party. You guys, we don't have weather.

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Speaker 1: We don't have weather, Are you joking? It's like Groundhog's

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Speaker 1: Day out here. We barely today. It decides that it

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Speaker 1: wants to just like be a windy lady. She was

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Speaker 1: a windy lady. I'm watching the party planner set up

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Speaker 1: and everything is blowry into.

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Speaker 3: The pool a cookie with him. It was in its wrapper,

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Speaker 3: thank god.

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Speaker 4: But I caught the cookie right when it went in,

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Speaker 4: and then we put the plates back inside.

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Speaker 1: No, it was we decided to abort mean and I

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Speaker 1: keeping the plates out with the cookies on them. I

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Speaker 1: was like, I don't care about the aesthetic, Like, let's

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Speaker 1: just like get everything that's necessary set out and we'll

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Speaker 1: just keep the cookies inside. Anyway, wind stops perfect timing,

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Speaker 1: perfect timing the entire party. No wind, a nice little

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Speaker 1: breeze that was coming through to keep everyone cool. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: The K Pop demon Hunters, Oh.

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Speaker 1: Fuck you guys. My mom found these K pop demon

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Speaker 1: Hunter chicks to come. They entertained the entire time. It

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Speaker 1: was only a two hour party.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and I get anxiety, so I hide a lot.

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Speaker 4: So I went upstairs and watched TV and then would

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Speaker 4: meander down. But those K pop girls, whenever they got

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Speaker 4: paid triple it, they they handled the whole party. I

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Speaker 4: like literally sat inside and ate tacos. Yeah, they were

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Speaker 4: like Cynthia's family.

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Speaker 1: Cynthia is ocean, and so says nanny her family caters.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, it is the best Mexican food I've

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Speaker 1: ever had in my life.

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Speaker 4: We're gonna have to get there. I want to drop

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Speaker 4: the catering their catering name though, so I for every party, No,

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Speaker 4: I know, but if other people want them to, because

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Speaker 4: they really are amazing in the LA area.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And I was thinking, I'm like, do we do

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Speaker 1: noodles to stay on them? I don't care. What's great

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Speaker 1: about a kid's party though, that I was thinking about

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Speaker 1: is as parents, like, we all know the drill, right,

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Speaker 1: It's like, really love having the kids at home. It

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Speaker 1: is nice as they get older to start sending them

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Speaker 1: to school. But then the weekend rules around and you're like,

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Speaker 1: kids for two straight days to keep them entertained but

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Speaker 1: also run them into the ground so they're exhausted.

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Speaker 2: So we had.

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Speaker 4: Meanwhile trying to do everything you guys have to you know,

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Speaker 4: all you moms and stuff have to do.

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Speaker 3: It's like, I holy shit.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes it makes you wonder why people have kids. No,

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Speaker 1: I mean.

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Speaker 3: I don't have kids, but I get why people do.

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Speaker 1: No, I get why it is the most fulfilling thing

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Speaker 1: I have ever done in my life. Yeah, when I

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Speaker 1: I'm like, what would I what is my purpose in life? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: No, I really want a child. I feel like there's

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Speaker 4: it brings. Having just being an uncle to four has

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Speaker 4: been like it's made me like a better human. Like

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Speaker 4: there's little things that I do where it would be

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Speaker 4: like and I know it sounds silly, but like I'm like,

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Speaker 4: as a like a hands on you know uncle, would

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Speaker 4: they be proud of this?

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Speaker 3: No, so I don't do it.

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Speaker 4: So there's little things or like even ocean, Like the

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Speaker 4: way ocean keeps me in check is unreal. Like I

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Speaker 4: was talking to somebody and I even thought like like

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Speaker 4: I could have been nicer.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 4: There's just little things where I'm like I could have

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Speaker 4: and things like that where I'm like, Wow, that's why

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Speaker 3: It's almost to better yourself.

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Speaker 1: No, and by the way, I was totally no, but

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Speaker 1: kids are the most incredible thing.

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Speaker 4: What you're saying, Like after you drop them off and

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Speaker 4: you're picking them off, You're like, what the hell is

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Speaker 1: Just like to be emotional part of it and just

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Speaker 1: logistic whise I say, Okay, so I'm expected to wake up,

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Speaker 1: then at the end of it, I'm going to be

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Speaker 1: fucking exhausted. But there's no time to be exhausted because

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Speaker 1: I got to get home, get my family fed.

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Speaker 3: Get kissner.

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Speaker 1: Then I got to clean up everything and start again

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Speaker 1: the next day having kids, seeing that I need to

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Speaker 1: because I don't work. That can't happen because I have kids.

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Speaker 4: It's just no being a parent. Anybody who can become

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Speaker 4: parent is like one of the most difficult and I'll

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Speaker 4: say joyous, but also like one of the most I'm

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Speaker 4: trying to think of the word selfless things because you

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Speaker 1: You can't. Yeah, you absolutely cannot. Your whole world changes

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Speaker 1: you like sleeping in You better kiss that shit, go bye.

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Speaker 1: My mother the other day, I think we talked about

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Speaker 1: this already, but my mom makes fun of the what

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Speaker 1: time I go to bed, And let's be real, like

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Speaker 1: I need like at least twelve hours in the bed.

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Speaker 1: But I'm only sleeping for probably six seven just to unwind.

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Speaker 1: But there was a day that she had to wake

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Speaker 1: looks at me and goes, why are you awake?

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Speaker 3: I was like, this is the day.

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Speaker 1: The day has started. That's why she at theb came home,

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Speaker 1: came home at eleven, took a nap from noon till three,

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Speaker 1: I was like, I never want to hear She was,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to bed so early tonight. Like I never

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Speaker 1: granted she's sixty five, but I'm like, I don't want

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Speaker 1: to hear one more word of you making fun of me.

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Speaker 1: Go going up to my room at seven thirty to

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Speaker 1: start just unwinding. Well and there, because that's the difference.

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Speaker 4: Well, I don't think mom sees the difference, because yes,

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Speaker 4: you go up to your room at seven. I go

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Speaker 4: over to my house. My house is no different than

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Speaker 4: you in your room. Yeah, Like I go over there, I'll.

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Speaker 3: Turn on TV. I like, will do a little bit

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Speaker 3: of my hair.

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Speaker 4: I'll put in some like scalp trees make fun to

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Speaker 4: just like yeah, I'll do like like I have the

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Speaker 4: little eye mask, so I'll do those, and then I'll

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Speaker 4: watch like Formula one racing like that just came out

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Speaker 4: Drive to Survive, like, I'll watch that. And then before

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Speaker 4: you know it, it's like ten o'clock and I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 4: I need to go to bed like I've.

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Speaker 1: Been doing of dicking around. I have them and I

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Speaker 1: set the lighting perfectly. I turned like both of my

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Speaker 1: little my little like hanging pendant lights on and the

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Speaker 1: room looks gorgeous, and I'm like, oh, I'm going to

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Speaker 1: do a little face mask. Maybe then derma play in

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Speaker 1: my face. Maybe I'll do a hair mask. Red light.

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Speaker 4: A dog is just a dry run for grandma.

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Speaker 3: Little different because it is what it is.

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Speaker 1: But like she had somebody's such a sweetheart.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but like think of that, she has no one

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true. You're making me feel a lot better. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: She's desensitized because she hasn't had somebody she had a

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Speaker 3: Like, No, she's dry. She will hurt your fucking feelings.

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Speaker 1: No, we're at a light the other day. You guys

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Speaker 1: Oh so you can fight the guy that she brings.

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Speaker 3: K pop has done that to you, But is it

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Speaker 1: Or do I just have a very specific human on

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Speaker 3: I mean, didn't we watch Pocahontas. She falls in love

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Speaker 1: She didn't want to be with CoCom He was so

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Speaker 4: John Smith's a dick. John Smith couldn't go fuck his hand. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And then he has the audacity to move Pokemonas to

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Speaker 5: I followed this account that talks about all of like

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Speaker 1: But I was always drawn to Cocoam. It was my

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Speaker 1: I had to do with love and the Prince coming

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Speaker 4: Talk about another one that not it's not the princess

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Speaker 3: That's beautiful. They chose to be ogres for love. Well, no,

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Speaker 1: Let's go go, all right, you had some fun stories

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Speaker 3: Blood dry, I can speak on that. I almost passed out.

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Speaker 3: I think I'm there with you now.

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Speaker 1: Oh when they took your blood? Can dude needles anymore?

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Speaker 1: It's weird though, that we can get tattoos and not

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Speaker 4: Let me set a stage for you guys. Me right here,

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Speaker 4: She goes, no, we're going to lay it down. That

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Speaker 4: All they did was take my blood to spin it. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I was I got four shots, one in the front.

436
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Speaker 3: I was upright on the back too. And I did

437
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Speaker 3: tell him.

438
00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:53,000
Speaker 4: I was like, hey, I'm feeling a little and he

439
00:21:53,080 --> 00:21:54,600
Speaker 4: was like, perfect, we'll lay you down and he goes,

440
00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:56,640
Speaker 4: but I can do these two laying down now.

441
00:21:56,760 --> 00:21:57,600
Speaker 3: So I was like perfect.

442
00:21:57,920 --> 00:21:59,600
Speaker 4: So he did it, and then they even like they

443
00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:03,080
Speaker 4: gave me treats and stuff like crackers. But I guess

444
00:22:03,080 --> 00:22:05,400
Speaker 4: I was not good because even after they were done,

445
00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:07,080
Speaker 4: they going. He was like, yeah, we're gonna keep you

446
00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:09,439
Speaker 4: for another like ten minutes or so, just so everything,

447
00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:11,320
Speaker 4: and like he came and like put my knees up

448
00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:13,199
Speaker 4: against you know, I'm on my back, but he put

449
00:22:13,240 --> 00:22:15,000
Speaker 4: them up so I could get it was it.

450
00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:17,199
Speaker 1: Was wild, you know. When I had to go and

451
00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:19,520
Speaker 1: to get my blood taken when I was pregnant with Sosa,

452
00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:21,399
Speaker 1: I was just sitting in the chair and I just

453
00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:25,159
Speaker 1: remember waking up and they had taken like my I

454
00:22:25,200 --> 00:22:27,400
Speaker 1: had this just like sweater on with a shirt underneath.

455
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Speaker 1: They had taken my sweater off. My hairline was drenched

456
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Speaker 1: in sweat. My t shirt was sweaty, sweaty.

457
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Speaker 3: Yep.

458
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Speaker 1: They were like, you went down. I was like, yeah,

459
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Speaker 1: I don't remember anything.

460
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Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I was there, That's where I was. But

461
00:22:42,200 --> 00:22:45,040
Speaker 4: then I got my PRP shot. Everything's good, shoulders popping

462
00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:47,800
Speaker 4: out of place. If you do it, I highly recommend it.

463
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Speaker 4: It's the holistic route of going, so no, try there

464
00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:54,399
Speaker 4: it is. I was just gonna say it before, and

465
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Speaker 4: he even told me. He was like, with what you

466
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Speaker 4: have told me, we're going to try this. If we do,

467
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Speaker 4: he wants to do two or three treatments, depending on

468
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Speaker 4: how I feel. I'm gonna do two for sure. There's

469
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Speaker 4: my first one. He was like, if it pops out

470
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Speaker 4: again and more, go get an MRI because then.

471
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Speaker 3: We are too far gone. So I was like, perfect,

472
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Speaker 3: So I'm starting this route. But other than that, I.

473
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Speaker 1: Think you're not young enough for this.

474
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Speaker 3: But it's all happening in my gay baseball league.

475
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Speaker 1: I know how fabulous.

476
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Speaker 4: I won the game, guys. I got a walk off single. Yeah.

477
00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:26,320
Speaker 3: Game, so we had three games that day.

478
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Speaker 1: It wouldn't have happened had Mom and I gone no.

479
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Speaker 3: No, no. But so the game is tied, we have

480
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Speaker 3: a runner on third. I'm up to bat, two outs.

481
00:23:33,119 --> 00:23:36,359
Speaker 4: I can't fuck up, and I hit a single and

482
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Speaker 4: we scored a run won the game. As I was

483
00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:43,959
Speaker 4: running to first base to win the game, I pulled

484
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Speaker 4: my hammy so I couldn't play Game two. And that's

485
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Speaker 4: where I'm like anxiety riddled, pissed off. I do not

486
00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:51,440
Speaker 4: want to be my mom. I do not want to

487
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Speaker 4: be my dad. They both fucking are thirty years older

488
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Speaker 4: than what they are.

489
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Speaker 1: Because they never moved a muscle. No, we did not

490
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Speaker 1: come from a family of active people. My mom always

491
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Speaker 1: says that she hates working out. It makes her nauseate,

492
00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:07,840
Speaker 1: and I'm like, because you never do it, and you

493
00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:10,040
Speaker 1: also forget to breathe while you're doing it. I also

494
00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:11,600
Speaker 1: would want to feel like I was going to throw

495
00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:14,440
Speaker 1: up and pass out. My dad would much rather sit

496
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Speaker 1: on the patio and drink wine or go to a

497
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Speaker 1: coffee shop.

498
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Speaker 4: It was not was like early drinks and dinners with

499
00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:22,720
Speaker 4: friends and then he'd come home to a glass of wine.

500
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Speaker 4: I love my dad, Like, there's a lot of things

501
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Speaker 4: like he wouldn't throw them all with me.

502
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Speaker 1: No, there are things I think that we just grew

503
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Speaker 1: up in an active family and for me watching how

504
00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:38,320
Speaker 1: both of them were, I worked out back in Utah.

505
00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:40,560
Speaker 1: We had like a little home gym downstairs. I was

506
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Speaker 1: very adamant that that was going to be how I

507
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Speaker 1: started my day. And even now, like my mom will

508
00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:50,280
Speaker 1: say to me, because I work out between like seven

509
00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:54,239
Speaker 1: and eight seven, is is like my early workout. And

510
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Speaker 1: sometimes it throws her for a loop because she's not

511
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Speaker 1: a morning person, and she'll say, like, I just don't

512
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:04,080
Speaker 1: know why you can't miss the workout tomorrow because.

513
00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:08,600
Speaker 4: I can't be you bitch, because I can't be you bitch.

514
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:11,480
Speaker 1: That would hurt her feelings, it would.

515
00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:13,360
Speaker 4: But I would hope she would look at me and go,

516
00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:15,400
Speaker 4: you're right, I do not want you to.

517
00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:16,159
Speaker 3: Feel like I do.

518
00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:19,679
Speaker 1: She's not like, she's not like that, And so I

519
00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:22,320
Speaker 1: have to tell her, Mom, this is what makes me

520
00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:26,600
Speaker 1: feel good to go and start my day. My body

521
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:31,000
Speaker 1: feels strong. I like that feeling. I like when I

522
00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:33,880
Speaker 1: can go and something up and feel like my bicep

523
00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:36,360
Speaker 1: is not going to rip off the bone. Yeah, there

524
00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:38,520
Speaker 1: are just things that I don't even know why we're

525
00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:39,959
Speaker 1: talking about this, How did this come up?

526
00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:42,359
Speaker 3: My PRP and all that.

527
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Speaker 1: It is important for me that you take control over

528
00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:52,919
Speaker 1: doing some sort of activity, because like, you can't end

529
00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:53,840
Speaker 1: up like mom and daddy.

530
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Speaker 4: No, And that's and that's where I'm like, okay, and

531
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Speaker 4: I love being active and like doing little things. Yes,

532
00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:00,800
Speaker 4: I know that I'm getting up there in age, but

533
00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:04,879
Speaker 4: it's like, okay, I can do a little more to

534
00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:09,720
Speaker 4: prevent more injuries, whether that be going outside and putting

535
00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:12,600
Speaker 4: a weighted vest on and doing lunges, doing just things

536
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:15,840
Speaker 4: like I just I'm sick of not feeling good and

537
00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:18,280
Speaker 4: looking at a mirror of my mom and dad, I'm like,

538
00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:19,720
Speaker 4: I need to do more.

539
00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:22,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, And when people like my mom will say you

540
00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:24,080
Speaker 1: don't need to do it tomorrow, you look great, I'm like,

541
00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:25,280
Speaker 1: this is I look.

542
00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:27,520
Speaker 4: Great because I did it because yesterday and I'm going

543
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Speaker 4: to do it today.

544
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Speaker 1: But also it's so that's the body that you get

545
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:34,440
Speaker 1: is just the cherry on top. The mental is everything

546
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Speaker 1: on top of When I hear my mom say you're

547
00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:40,919
Speaker 1: still young, you can do you know, X, Y and Z,

548
00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 1: and it's like yes, but let me tell you this.

549
00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:48,200
Speaker 1: I was twenty one, I blinked, and now I'm thirty

550
00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:50,800
Speaker 1: five with two kids, So we can say I'm young now.

551
00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:54,160
Speaker 1: In two point seven seconds, I'm going to be your

552
00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:58,159
Speaker 1: fucking age and I'm gonna need to be able to

553
00:26:58,240 --> 00:26:59,080
Speaker 1: like keep up.

554
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Speaker 4: Yeah, there's a song about it once I was seven

555
00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:04,720
Speaker 4: years old. Oh that's all makes me sad. Oh that

556
00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:06,800
Speaker 4: is so sad. All right, let's move on to a

557
00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:07,399
Speaker 4: fun topic.

558
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Speaker 1: I have to touch on this before before we sign

559
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:13,480
Speaker 1: off because I died. Florida man claims he was kidnapped

560
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Speaker 1: by dolphins and forced to build underwater city. Believe it.

561
00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:23,679
Speaker 1: I believe it, Yes, I believe it. Why do you

562
00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:27,400
Speaker 1: believe it? He can't breathe underwater for that long?

563
00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:32,880
Speaker 4: She said, there was greg or something, the main, the main,

564
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:35,600
Speaker 4: the main dolphin was his breathing source.

565
00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:40,160
Speaker 1: It's giving independence to day where the guy the drunk

566
00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:42,560
Speaker 1: was like, I was taken by aliens and then he

567
00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:44,320
Speaker 1: for sure was atlantis.

568
00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:48,080
Speaker 4: That's them. The dolphins are the underwater atlantis. They're the

569
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Speaker 4: ones who've taken.

570
00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:52,360
Speaker 1: Point yesterday. I don't believe it.

571
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Speaker 4: I don't because Florida man, any other city I would

572
00:27:57,600 --> 00:27:58,160
Speaker 4: have believed.

573
00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:01,840
Speaker 1: But Florida man, that's where they lost you. Is it said?

574
00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:05,840
Speaker 1: Oh people are going to come for you, So harch

575
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:10,000
Speaker 1: have Florida pride.

576
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Speaker 4: Bro Florida. Miami, Yeah, that's where I want to live,

577
00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:16,639
Speaker 4: not the other parts. No, Miami is great, but Miami

578
00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:21,960
Speaker 4: is but no, hold on here. Why tell me this?

579
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Speaker 4: Why is it illegal for us to communicate with dolphins

580
00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:32,520
Speaker 4: but keep them in captivity at sea World? Tell me this,

581
00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:35,280
Speaker 4: because you really aren't allowed to communicate with dolphins. It

582
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Speaker 4: is illegal, and they say it's illegal for the dolphins benefit,

583
00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:43,400
Speaker 4: because they like, if you talk to it, it becomes attached. Yeah,

584
00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:47,360
Speaker 4: but I think it's because.

585
00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:50,080
Speaker 1: Forming a genuine connection and having like old fuck that

586
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:52,280
Speaker 1: is so sad, or like taking them away from their

587
00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:54,800
Speaker 1: natural habitat and forcing them to live out the rest

588
00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:56,000
Speaker 1: of their days in a tank.

589
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Speaker 4: Another another it's in Indonesia. I didn't write it down

590
00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:05,040
Speaker 4: because I knew I'd forgot. I'd remember in Indonesia a

591
00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:10,640
Speaker 4: giant whale swam up to kids while they were swimming.

592
00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:14,120
Speaker 4: They swam away because they were scared. One kid saw

593
00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:17,000
Speaker 4: something giant and shiny in its mouth and it was

594
00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:19,760
Speaker 4: a hook. The kids all went out and got the

595
00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:22,959
Speaker 4: hook out. The Now the dolphs or the whale comes

596
00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:25,440
Speaker 4: by in that bay every morning and all the kids

597
00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:26,760
Speaker 4: like sit on it and it.

598
00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:27,680
Speaker 3: Just hangs out with them.

599
00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:30,800
Speaker 4: That is so bad now because it like owes the

600
00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:33,520
Speaker 4: life to the kids for helping. Just like that same

601
00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:35,760
Speaker 4: story that I showed you with the dolphins, where that

602
00:29:35,840 --> 00:29:39,400
Speaker 4: sucker fish was on one and the dolphins were just

603
00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:41,280
Speaker 4: swimming with the boat and she was like, I know,

604
00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:43,080
Speaker 4: I want to hang out, but we have to go home.

605
00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:45,240
Speaker 4: And that's where it's like. Is that why it's illegal

606
00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:47,840
Speaker 4: to communicate because of what it does? Or because they're

607
00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:50,640
Speaker 4: going to take you down to their underwater city.

608
00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:52,680
Speaker 1: Do you want to go to their underwater city? I

609
00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:55,200
Speaker 1: think it may just force me to build dolphins.

610
00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:58,560
Speaker 4: Will tell me this. Our dolphins in whales smarter than

611
00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:01,360
Speaker 4: human beings. Yeah, yes, tell me so. Why wouldn't they

612
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:02,720
Speaker 4: be able to do something crazy?

613
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:04,800
Speaker 1: You know what? You make so much sense. There's just

614
00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:08,120
Speaker 1: those thumbs. They don't have thumbs, no, but they have

615
00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:11,920
Speaker 1: tails and mouths. All right? What an excellent episode, A

616
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Speaker 1: little all over the place. Oh my gosh, I feels

617
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Speaker 1: so og. I feel so og.

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Speaker 3: We're going back, baby. I love you guys.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for listening to another tangent episode of Untraditionally

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Speaker 1: La La. I'm gonna catch you on Monday for a

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Speaker 1: bonus and again next week. Bye,