WEBVTT - Why We Stopped Recapping 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:08.479 Hello, gorgeous. It's Lala Kent. Welcome to untraditionally Lala, Hello, 0:00:08.560 --> 0:00:11.680 gorge La La Kent. Here we are bonusing our little 0:00:11.680 --> 0:00:14.160 hearts out. I did a Q and A for you guys, 0:00:15.000 --> 0:00:19.720 and you asked some amazing questions, a lot of questions 0:00:19.920 --> 0:00:22.240 about Jasmine's wedding and why I wasn't there, and why 0:00:22.360 --> 0:00:25.759 Easton and my mom don't recap the episodes. But first 0:00:25.840 --> 0:00:30.680 I want to acknowledge this one. Joe Mini Underscore asks me, 0:00:31.240 --> 0:00:34.839 what's the cheese routine looking like these days? Guda and 0:00:35.000 --> 0:00:39.040 crackers still care gold for the win, so I've actually 0:00:39.600 --> 0:00:42.000 I'm a weirdo. I go through phases. It was like 0:00:42.120 --> 0:00:44.279 cheese and crackers in the bed for like months on end, 0:00:44.320 --> 0:00:46.920 and I haven't done it in so long. But I 0:00:46.960 --> 0:00:48.960 do cheese and crackers on the couch now like a 0:00:48.960 --> 0:00:54.520 civilized human now. And I'm very, very into a pack 0:00:54.560 --> 0:01:00.600 of Sargento either Havardi or I do love my Guda 0:01:00.640 --> 0:01:05.759 with like a ritz cracker. That's my go to. Robertson 0:01:05.840 --> 0:01:07.920 B two says, how do you and Amber co pair 0:01:07.959 --> 0:01:11.319 in each other's kids? I actually love this question, so 0:01:13.080 --> 0:01:15.960 she facetimes with her kids a lot, a lot, a lot, 0:01:16.000 --> 0:01:19.280 like multiple times a day when she's in town or 0:01:19.319 --> 0:01:22.200 when we're together. And there are times where you know 0:01:22.240 --> 0:01:24.480 her kids are older and they're going through just the 0:01:24.520 --> 0:01:29.840 spirals that happen when you're a teenager, and we'll sit 0:01:29.959 --> 0:01:33.480 on the phone with them and if you know London 0:01:33.600 --> 0:01:36.600 is feeling anxious, because she's kind of like me and 0:01:36.680 --> 0:01:40.440 Amber and just an anxious human by nature. So with London, 0:01:40.440 --> 0:01:43.679 if she's going through panic, I will step in with 0:01:43.720 --> 0:01:45.520 Amber and we'll both be on the FaceTime like this, 0:01:45.600 --> 0:01:49.200 and I'm like, Okay, let's pinpoint what's giving you anxiety. Okay, 0:01:49.200 --> 0:01:51.080 do we feel like we need to do that? Do 0:01:51.280 --> 0:01:52.880 is that like something we need to do? And if 0:01:52.880 --> 0:01:54.760 London's like I feel like I need to do it, 0:01:54.800 --> 0:01:56.720 but I'm so scared, and I was like, then we 0:01:56.800 --> 0:01:58.800 come up with a game plan like, Okay, we're going 0:01:58.880 --> 0:02:00.640 to take it step by step. You are gonna get there, 0:02:00.640 --> 0:02:02.840 and you're gonna stay in the moment. If you're feeling anxious, 0:02:02.840 --> 0:02:04.320 you're gonna have your phone with you, you can call 0:02:04.400 --> 0:02:07.960 your mom. You're never stuck anywhere. Like moments like that 0:02:08.000 --> 0:02:11.359 we co parent. Then there's Riley and she goes toes. 0:02:11.880 --> 0:02:14.920 There are times where her mom will be talking to 0:02:14.960 --> 0:02:17.799 her and I'll step in and be like, Riley, listen 0:02:17.880 --> 0:02:21.880 to me. This person sounds crazy. I get it, but 0:02:21.960 --> 0:02:24.919 you gotta disengage now. This is what you're gonna write 0:02:25.000 --> 0:02:27.360 back and like leave it alone. So that's kind of 0:02:27.360 --> 0:02:31.360 how we co parent and Ocean's just a little bit 0:02:31.440 --> 0:02:34.760 chiller are co parenting with Ocean is like I wake 0:02:34.840 --> 0:02:37.200 up early and I'm dealing with Sosa, and Amber will 0:02:37.200 --> 0:02:39.720 be upstairs doing Ocean's hair and like getting her out 0:02:39.760 --> 0:02:42.639 the door for school. Or I'll be throwing Ocean shoes 0:02:42.680 --> 0:02:44.639 on and Amber's in there, like putting the lunch in 0:02:44.680 --> 0:02:47.239 the backpack, getting the water bottle filled up, or hanging 0:02:47.280 --> 0:02:49.760 out with or takes care of Sosa while I get 0:02:49.760 --> 0:02:51.440 in the car and take Ocean school. Like it's a 0:02:51.560 --> 0:02:54.520 very We just do it. It's like a you know, 0:02:54.560 --> 0:03:00.240 it takes a villagin Tatelin with three ends says, is 0:03:00.560 --> 0:03:03.080 what's something you're most proud of that never made it 0:03:03.080 --> 0:03:09.360 onto TV? Honestly, I would say my Sobriety, I don't 0:03:09.400 --> 0:03:13.040 feel like they ever have been able to really cover it. 0:03:13.520 --> 0:03:16.600 Here's the thing, the rock and the hard spot because yes, 0:03:16.639 --> 0:03:18.280 they'd want to cover it. And even if you say 0:03:18.320 --> 0:03:21.880 you can, you still feel because it's an anonymous thing, 0:03:22.000 --> 0:03:25.480 so a lot of people kind of respect that. Even 0:03:25.480 --> 0:03:27.120 if you're like, come and follow me, they're like, we 0:03:27.160 --> 0:03:29.680 would love to, but you're going to see other people 0:03:29.760 --> 0:03:32.040 who are anonymous, and now you're putting it in other people, 0:03:32.080 --> 0:03:33.920 so it's very hard. So I agree with you that 0:03:33.960 --> 0:03:34.760 they haven't shown it. 0:03:34.920 --> 0:03:37.200 They haven't shown it because they haven't been able to. 0:03:37.240 --> 0:03:39.520 They're like, can we film you with your sponsor. I'm like, no, 0:03:39.640 --> 0:03:42.400 absolutely not. That's the work that I do behind closed doors. 0:03:42.400 --> 0:03:44.840 Can we film you in a therapy session? No, because 0:03:44.880 --> 0:03:46.360 in real life I wouldn't bring a friend of my 0:03:46.400 --> 0:03:48.880 therapy session, let alone an entire camera crew to then 0:03:48.880 --> 0:03:51.840 air it on TV, So that's not happening. But I mean, 0:03:51.920 --> 0:03:54.560 even when they ask me about my day to day 0:03:54.600 --> 0:03:58.880 with sobriety, it's just never quite made the cut until 0:03:59.240 --> 0:04:04.320 this season, where my seven year sobriety birthday actually happened 0:04:04.360 --> 0:04:08.880 during filming because we used to film the other show 0:04:08.920 --> 0:04:12.840 during the summertime, so things didn't really have like I 0:04:12.840 --> 0:04:15.800 didn't have a birthday, a sober birthday on camera but 0:04:16.800 --> 0:04:20.760 this season they do get to to capture that a 0:04:20.760 --> 0:04:23.719 little bit more. This person. This was such an interesting 0:04:23.800 --> 0:04:26.800 question to me because I like it, but I don't 0:04:26.880 --> 0:04:31.080 understand it. Rebecca Carlton fifty two. Why do you always 0:04:31.120 --> 0:04:36.520 pout your lips? I didn't realize that I was doing that. No, me, not, 0:04:36.680 --> 0:04:39.560 you like this? I think I go like this a lot. 0:04:39.960 --> 0:04:40.720 I think you do too. 0:04:41.200 --> 0:04:43.960 You do. I do it when I'm pissed off, when 0:04:44.040 --> 0:04:47.839 someone says something that I'm not quite sure about that 0:04:47.920 --> 0:04:52.120 I find is bullshit, or when I'm listening intently, I 0:04:52.200 --> 0:04:54.640 tend to first. 0:04:55.080 --> 0:04:57.280 Yeah, you do it a lot, I will say. 0:04:57.320 --> 0:04:59.279 Even when we're just at like lunchhall, look over and 0:04:59.279 --> 0:05:01.760 you're doing it deep in thought. 0:05:02.000 --> 0:05:04.560 That's what it is. I'm a thinker by nature, and 0:05:04.600 --> 0:05:07.479 my face shows it. Like most people have a lot 0:05:07.480 --> 0:05:11.320 on their minds all the time. Right, it's just human nature. 0:05:11.360 --> 0:05:12.000 We're all thinking. 0:05:12.920 --> 0:05:13.360 Everybody. 0:05:13.400 --> 0:05:16.920 I want everybody to to pucker your lips like Law 0:05:16.960 --> 0:05:19.880 does and even start thinking, because it really is a 0:05:19.880 --> 0:05:23.520 different mindset. Oh, it's like all the things I've done 0:05:23.520 --> 0:05:24.320 wrong in my life. 0:05:24.400 --> 0:05:26.159 No, but my mom will look at me and go, 0:05:26.240 --> 0:05:28.200 what are you thinking about? I'm like you can tell 0:05:28.200 --> 0:05:29.120 them I'm thinking about. 0:05:28.880 --> 0:05:31.240 Something right now. It's like, well, fucking very apparent. 0:05:31.320 --> 0:05:33.000 We'll be in the car and she's just stewing in 0:05:33.040 --> 0:05:34.640 the side and go, what are you thinking about? 0:05:35.080 --> 0:05:37.000 How could you tell? How could you not? 0:05:37.560 --> 0:05:40.360 There was this guy that I used to date, and 0:05:41.520 --> 0:05:44.720 he always knew when I was livid because he'd go, 0:05:44.800 --> 0:05:47.440 oh my god, the lips, the lips are happening. And 0:05:47.480 --> 0:05:50.599 I'm like, yeah, I'm really fucking annoyed right now because 0:05:50.640 --> 0:05:55.800 immediately it's person of the lips. That's why I pucker. 0:05:57.000 --> 0:05:57.880 That's why I'm puckering. 0:05:57.960 --> 0:05:58.279 Baby. 0:05:59.160 --> 0:06:04.520 Call it three two three The Regrets BJ's for Pj's question, Mark, 0:06:04.560 --> 0:06:08.320 will you encourage Ocean to do? BJ's for Pj's. I 0:06:08.360 --> 0:06:10.240 find this to be kind of a dumb question because 0:06:10.279 --> 0:06:12.359 I don't know of any mother who would encourage. 0:06:12.640 --> 0:06:18.800 I don't think their daughter encouraging what happened? And does it? 0:06:19.040 --> 0:06:21.800 I mean, I have a feeling we don't want that. 0:06:22.200 --> 0:06:25.000 No, but I have a feeling that Ocean is going 0:06:25.040 --> 0:06:27.800 to say a lot of things because life makes you 0:06:27.920 --> 0:06:30.720 get older and you have no control over what your 0:06:30.760 --> 0:06:34.479 kids say or do. Let me be very clear, during 0:06:34.480 --> 0:06:37.279 that time when I was saying BJ's for pj's, I 0:06:37.400 --> 0:06:40.520 was being called Yes, I was drinking. I was also 0:06:40.640 --> 0:06:43.000 very young, and I was being called a lot of names. 0:06:43.440 --> 0:06:46.440 So if you can't beat them, join them. So I 0:06:46.600 --> 0:06:49.560 just started saying things to kind of get under people's skin. 0:06:50.080 --> 0:06:53.159 You know. People were mad that I had my bum 0:06:53.240 --> 0:06:56.279 is my profile picture. So what did I do? I 0:06:56.400 --> 0:07:00.200 decided to wear thong underwear or bikinis to the beach. 0:07:00.360 --> 0:07:03.360 Like now, I'm just feeding into this. Everyone was like, 0:07:03.920 --> 0:07:07.000 you're sucking dick for this, and it's like, let's let's remember, 0:07:07.120 --> 0:07:11.360 like I wasn't doing that for things like this person 0:07:12.640 --> 0:07:16.520 was my boyfriend who went on to be my fiance, 0:07:16.760 --> 0:07:18.920 who then went on to to be like the father 0:07:19.000 --> 0:07:20.120 of my child. 0:07:20.600 --> 0:07:23.040 You wouldn't take it as far as let me have 0:07:23.080 --> 0:07:26.200 a child because the BJ's for the PJ wasn't enough. 0:07:26.680 --> 0:07:29.400 No, I was just feeding into what was being said 0:07:29.400 --> 0:07:30.960 about me. I was like, well, if you guys want 0:07:30.960 --> 0:07:32.760 to be assholes, then I'm going to make jokes and 0:07:32.800 --> 0:07:35.720 really like I'm really gonna be you want to talk about, 0:07:35.760 --> 0:07:37.800 I'm going to give you fucking something to talk about. 0:07:38.600 --> 0:07:40.760 Blow jobs for private jets. 0:07:41.080 --> 0:07:41.520 Yay. 0:07:41.720 --> 0:07:43.600 It was just me trying to be annoying and get 0:07:43.680 --> 0:07:46.080 under people's skin. Now, would I operate that way now? No, 0:07:46.120 --> 0:07:48.360 because I'm not twenty four years old and I'm not drinking. 0:07:48.480 --> 0:07:52.160 I'm a grown ass woman. I still crack very inappropriate 0:07:52.240 --> 0:07:57.440 jokes sometimes because I'm immature at times. And sometimes yes, 0:07:57.680 --> 0:08:00.960 and sometimes I like to say things to have to 0:08:01.000 --> 0:08:03.360 see the look on people's faces, like the shock. 0:08:03.520 --> 0:08:05.200 Do you ever go out with somebody and they're like 0:08:05.960 --> 0:08:07.920 our age and you're trying to make jokes and they're 0:08:07.960 --> 0:08:14.840 like You're like whoas I know we're adults now, It's like, 0:08:15.240 --> 0:08:18.560 I promise you we have at any time to be adults. 0:08:18.760 --> 0:08:20.280 I'm going to be a kid right now at thirty three. 0:08:20.320 --> 0:08:21.520 You're gonna be a kid for my whole life. 0:08:21.600 --> 0:08:22.920 Yeah, looks way more fun. 0:08:23.000 --> 0:08:24.400 And I'm going to assess the situation. 0:08:24.680 --> 0:08:29.360 And that's why like so young there it is fruitful. 0:08:29.040 --> 0:08:32.800 Cracking inappropriate joke sometimes, Yes, you got to assess the situation. 0:08:32.920 --> 0:08:35.560 You think, I'm sitting at tables with CEOs all buttoned 0:08:35.640 --> 0:08:38.120 up with like their bougie wives don't say that same 0:08:38.240 --> 0:08:41.400 things like that. No, And by the way, they probably 0:08:41.480 --> 0:08:42.400 have watched it. 0:08:42.800 --> 0:08:43.480 Just to let you know. 0:08:43.600 --> 0:08:45.400 I've been in some crazy rooms and I know you 0:08:45.440 --> 0:08:48.280 have when I was in a little writer's room. And 0:08:48.720 --> 0:08:51.120 to be completely honest, the ship that comes out of 0:08:51.280 --> 0:08:53.280 half of these people's mouth that we all love and 0:08:53.320 --> 0:08:56.439 a door, it's fantastic. 0:08:56.559 --> 0:08:58.240 You're like you are one of us. 0:08:58.600 --> 0:09:02.640 Yeah, because the kind of takes We're just. 0:09:02.760 --> 0:09:04.920 People just here for whatever reason. 0:09:05.040 --> 0:09:07.240 And I'm really never going to be around someone who 0:09:07.320 --> 0:09:09.640 finds my behavior. 0:09:10.120 --> 0:09:13.240 I don't like, we're not going to connect and I 0:09:13.280 --> 0:09:13.760 don't need to. 0:09:14.120 --> 0:09:16.760 Like when people write me on Instagram and they talk 0:09:16.800 --> 0:09:19.560 about my behavior, it's like, save it, man, Like you 0:09:19.600 --> 0:09:21.000 were just not each other's cup of tea. 0:09:21.320 --> 0:09:23.160 Put a camera on you, and then maybe we can 0:09:23.200 --> 0:09:24.320 talk about your behavior. 0:09:24.440 --> 0:09:26.360 But beyond that, they're like, we would never be friends. 0:09:26.360 --> 0:09:27.760 It's like, we don't need to worry about it because 0:09:27.760 --> 0:09:29.120 I'm never going to even know who you are. I 0:09:29.200 --> 0:09:30.319 know we're never going to meet. 0:09:30.720 --> 0:09:31.520 And what's funny is. 0:09:33.440 --> 0:09:35.280 Yeah, like the fact that you would think that you 0:09:35.320 --> 0:09:37.440 have to turn me down to be your friend is. 0:09:37.400 --> 0:09:41.559 Wild, right, just like everyone calm down, calm down, that's 0:09:41.600 --> 0:09:44.240 the BJ's for PJS. Ocean is going to say inappropriate things. 0:09:44.280 --> 0:09:46.079 So so SA and you know what. They're going to 0:09:46.120 --> 0:09:50.240 be able to watch me back, like, won't you be embarrassed? No, 0:09:51.080 --> 0:09:53.160 I was a young girl having the time of my life, 0:09:53.480 --> 0:09:55.600 and they're going to watch that and be like, wow, okay. 0:09:55.760 --> 0:09:58.040 I know what and not what to do and whatnot 0:09:58.120 --> 0:10:00.440 what not to do. You'll find out their little and 0:10:00.520 --> 0:10:02.840 go oh okay. Yes. 0:10:03.360 --> 0:10:05.920 But also, don't you think when you know that your 0:10:06.080 --> 0:10:08.640 mom has like done some crazy stuff, it's like, oh, 0:10:08.720 --> 0:10:10.760 this is a judgment free zone. My mom may know 0:10:10.800 --> 0:10:13.080 what she's talking about. My mom was a little bit wild, 0:10:13.720 --> 0:10:13.920 you know. 0:10:14.320 --> 0:10:17.360 Yeah. No, yeah, that's. 0:10:17.160 --> 0:10:23.440 How I feel about it. A a Locke says, were 0:10:23.440 --> 0:10:27.880 you invited to the wedding? I lost so many questions 0:10:28.440 --> 0:10:31.680 about this? But by the ways, when people meet you, 0:10:31.720 --> 0:10:33.280 they like you way more than they like me. 0:10:33.360 --> 0:10:36.240 Well, no, I'm like a pair of brand new tips. 0:10:36.480 --> 0:10:38.280 Pretty perfect. 0:10:39.040 --> 0:10:43.440 It's so weird. Oh my god, someone needs a nap. 0:10:44.000 --> 0:10:46.480 He's going rogue. Guys, he's gone rogue. 0:10:46.679 --> 0:10:47.839 I really I do need a nap. 0:10:48.160 --> 0:10:50.360 It's okay, Well, most most of these questions are about 0:10:50.400 --> 0:10:53.840 me anyway, perfect. I was invited and I talked about 0:10:53.840 --> 0:10:57.280 this on the main episode My best friend since kindergarten 0:10:57.480 --> 0:10:59.400 has been trying to get pregnant for eight years and 0:10:59.480 --> 0:11:03.000 is finally expecting a little boy with her husband the 0:11:03.120 --> 0:11:07.400 end of August. So I went to Utah to celebrate 0:11:07.480 --> 0:11:10.320 that and had massive fomo. Loved being in Utah. That 0:11:10.400 --> 0:11:12.320 was a no brainer. It was like, obviously I'm gonna 0:11:12.320 --> 0:11:16.000 be there with my bestie, but I had fomo. Looking 0:11:16.120 --> 0:11:19.840 at the content that people were posting. I just wish 0:11:19.880 --> 0:11:22.280 they would have fallen on different weekends. That's okay, Yeah, 0:11:22.320 --> 0:11:37.840 all is good. Jessica underscore Monte Rosa. Why do you 0:11:38.280 --> 0:11:41.319 say on the show that I'm not on? It's kind 0:11:41.320 --> 0:11:43.440 of like my little stick because we're not allowed to 0:11:43.480 --> 0:11:47.760 talk about the valley to hear the show I'm not on. Well, no, 0:11:47.800 --> 0:11:50.160 because that's not why, and your turn will come because 0:11:50.160 --> 0:11:52.000 someone else asked the question. 0:11:51.800 --> 0:11:52.640 That I know you want to care. 0:11:53.600 --> 0:11:57.360 This was long before, like when I signed my contract 0:11:57.400 --> 0:12:00.040 and we started doing like the photos and filming and 0:12:00.120 --> 0:12:04.000 we had the air date. They told me like, by 0:12:04.040 --> 0:12:06.480 the way, you cannot talk about the show, like just 0:12:06.559 --> 0:12:09.360 pretend that you're not even on it. And I was like, oh, 0:12:09.400 --> 0:12:12.840 that's that's very different from when I was on vander Pump. 0:12:12.840 --> 0:12:16.119 We were very much allowed to talk about that show, 0:12:16.200 --> 0:12:18.040 So this is a little bit different. But I didn't 0:12:18.040 --> 0:12:22.040 realize how hard that line was, where it's like, no, literally, 0:12:22.320 --> 0:12:23.480 don't say a word. 0:12:24.000 --> 0:12:26.319 So here I am talking about it again. 0:12:27.440 --> 0:12:28.800 So that's why I say the show I'm not on 0:12:28.840 --> 0:12:32.280 because we're not allowed to talk about it. Lure one 0:12:32.400 --> 0:12:35.520 five eighty six. Are you still in an active custody 0:12:35.559 --> 0:12:39.440 battle or have things come to an agreement? We came 0:12:39.480 --> 0:12:40.240 to an agreement. 0:12:41.720 --> 0:12:43.439 In define agreement. 0:12:45.040 --> 0:12:50.120 We won't even get into those Sosa was born. Sosa 0:12:50.160 --> 0:12:53.840 was born in September, and we reached an agreement the 0:12:53.840 --> 0:12:58.400 following February. Beautiful, Yeah, it was great. Came to a close. 0:13:00.440 --> 0:13:05.280 Chelsea Rose Kaylin. If you could have any superpower in 0:13:05.320 --> 0:13:09.000 the world, what would it be? What would yours be? 0:13:09.040 --> 0:13:16.280 Easton teleporting either teleporting flying. 0:13:16.360 --> 0:13:18.560 Teleporting would be great, but flying would be way fun 0:13:18.559 --> 0:13:20.040 because you've got to be a part of the flying 0:13:20.080 --> 0:13:23.160 in the experience, which is I think ege my mind, 0:13:23.240 --> 0:13:25.640 because like teleporting is just like, yeah, you're there, but 0:13:25.720 --> 0:13:27.920 like the experience of flying would be crazy. 0:13:28.400 --> 0:13:31.000 So that or mind reader. 0:13:31.520 --> 0:13:33.920 See I was thinking mind reader, but I'm already in 0:13:33.920 --> 0:13:36.640 my head so much that if I really actually knew. 0:13:36.840 --> 0:13:38.200 But then you don't have to be in your head. 0:13:39.080 --> 0:13:41.720 Yeah, and you know everything, so it's like there's nothing 0:13:41.760 --> 0:13:44.040 to be in your head about, Like am I thinking that? 0:13:44.280 --> 0:13:47.480 There are they thinking this? Am I? Right? You just know? 0:13:48.480 --> 0:13:53.000 Maybe I would want to control the future. I don't 0:13:53.000 --> 0:13:54.679 want to see the future, but like not in that 0:13:54.679 --> 0:13:57.160 that's the raven kind of way where she does needs. 0:13:58.559 --> 0:13:59.240 Reverse time. 0:13:59.559 --> 0:14:01.800 When really good idea comes, I can reverse time and 0:14:01.840 --> 0:14:04.840 come up with it myself, like loogle. 0:14:05.200 --> 0:14:07.520 Could you only reverse time? Or could just speed it up? Too? 0:14:10.320 --> 0:14:14.320 Is an option from this is your then both come on, 0:14:14.400 --> 0:14:17.480 now you want a little fast forward like loogle. I 0:14:17.480 --> 0:14:20.360 don't know if you've seen hot Tub time machine, but 0:14:20.760 --> 0:14:23.080 Google is a thing. And then they go back in 0:14:23.160 --> 0:14:26.400 time and he starts it instead of Google. His name's 0:14:26.440 --> 0:14:29.280 Lou and he makes it Loogle and he's a billionaire. 0:14:29.520 --> 0:14:33.400 Oh wow, you just beat him to the punch genius. 0:14:33.480 --> 0:14:35.640 Yeah, so that would be mine too, because I could 0:14:35.640 --> 0:14:38.240 be very rich, very rich. 0:14:38.720 --> 0:14:43.840 Yeah, so rich. You're like fuel the jet, I know, 0:14:43.880 --> 0:14:46.120 But then what if you're like fuel the jet and 0:14:46.160 --> 0:14:47.840 then all of your friends are on the jet and 0:14:47.840 --> 0:14:50.000 you're just to the side of it. Flying by, like, hey, 0:14:50.720 --> 0:14:51.720 oh could be legit. 0:14:51.840 --> 0:14:55.120 See now there's too many superpowers that I would want. 0:14:55.960 --> 0:14:59.760 Molly underscore Ron. Does it interest you to date someone 0:14:59.760 --> 0:15:04.160 who drinks around you and your kids? That's kind of 0:15:04.160 --> 0:15:10.160 a loaded question. Yeah, I think a normy who can 0:15:10.200 --> 0:15:12.760 have like a cocktail or like a glass of wine. 0:15:12.800 --> 0:15:14.720 Here's the thing though, when you throw in the kids, 0:15:14.760 --> 0:15:16.840 I think it's unnecessary for you to be drinking in 0:15:16.840 --> 0:15:17.880 front of my kids. 0:15:18.160 --> 0:15:20.720 But then again, it's like, I mean here's the thing 0:15:20.760 --> 0:15:21.960 I feel like, see. 0:15:21.680 --> 0:15:23.560 I immediately go to if you're gonna drink in front 0:15:23.560 --> 0:15:24.640 of my kids, you're gonna be drunk. 0:15:25.040 --> 0:15:28.360 No, See that's normy. Like all you have to say 0:15:28.440 --> 0:15:31.560 is like I'm an addict. There's people who are normal 0:15:31.560 --> 0:15:33.120 and they're like, does me drinking in front of you? 0:15:33.200 --> 0:15:35.680 It's like, No, what pisses me off is that you're 0:15:35.760 --> 0:15:37.720 leaving a little bit of that wine with you. Fuck, 0:15:38.160 --> 0:15:40.680 that's what's pissing me off. But that's the addict. But 0:15:40.720 --> 0:15:44.920 like there's been like Landing. Yeah, he would go out, 0:15:44.960 --> 0:15:47.280 he would get an apparol sprits and like talk about 0:15:47.280 --> 0:15:49.000 the taste of it, yeah, and how he loved it. 0:15:49.040 --> 0:15:50.640 And when we leave there was still some in there 0:15:50.640 --> 0:15:51.920 and be like, oh, are you gonna drink it and be 0:15:52.000 --> 0:15:55.440 like no, I'm great. It's like, oh, you're normal, okay. 0:15:55.080 --> 0:15:57.320 So then I like that. If they're a normal person, 0:15:57.440 --> 0:15:59.120 I don't care if they drink around. 0:15:59.080 --> 0:16:01.480 No lass of wine which take the. 0:16:01.480 --> 0:16:05.000 Kids out of it. Though, if you're enormy and like 0:16:05.400 --> 0:16:07.520 you're drinking and you have nights where you get a 0:16:07.560 --> 0:16:10.200 little drunk, I'm totally fine with that. Again, if you're 0:16:10.280 --> 0:16:15.000 a normal person. My sobriety, I obviously have my crew 0:16:15.040 --> 0:16:17.920 of other sober people, which is a must. You have 0:16:18.000 --> 0:16:20.680 to have those people. Amber is sober. A lot of 0:16:20.680 --> 0:16:22.560 people that come to the house they may not be sober, 0:16:22.600 --> 0:16:25.000 but they I've found a lot of people a lot 0:16:25.000 --> 0:16:25.520 of just. 0:16:25.440 --> 0:16:28.240 Don't drink or smug. They're just like, yeah, I just stopped. 0:16:28.320 --> 0:16:31.400 I'm like, oh they're programmed. They're like no, they just 0:16:31.440 --> 0:16:32.400 don't self control. 0:16:32.520 --> 0:16:34.240 Yeah, exactly, oh something I don't have. 0:16:34.440 --> 0:16:36.800 Then they'll have like a gummy or something, which doesn't 0:16:37.400 --> 0:16:38.120 bother me at all. 0:16:38.160 --> 0:16:39.080 No loss. 0:16:39.160 --> 0:16:43.520 However, I don't and I always crack jokes because there 0:16:43.520 --> 0:16:44.880 are some people that are like, do care if I 0:16:44.920 --> 0:16:46.760 drink around you? I'm like, I would prefer you do. 0:16:46.920 --> 0:16:48.480 And then it leads to a question of why, and 0:16:48.520 --> 0:16:51.600 I go because I'm hell of fun sober, you're. 0:16:51.520 --> 0:16:51.840 Kind of not. 0:16:52.080 --> 0:16:55.160 Yeah, that's yeah, And then they get offended. 0:16:55.240 --> 0:16:56.440 Just kidding, they don't get offended. 0:16:56.960 --> 0:17:00.240 But the other part of it is I profer or 0:17:00.640 --> 0:17:04.240 for me and my sobriety. I prefer to date someone 0:17:04.480 --> 0:17:07.120 who is not in the program and who is not sober. 0:17:07.240 --> 0:17:12.600 And here's why I am very strong in my sobriety. 0:17:12.880 --> 0:17:16.560 I have my tools. I know what to do, God willing, 0:17:16.600 --> 0:17:18.919 I will continue to know what to do for the 0:17:19.160 --> 0:17:23.000 long haul, but exactly one day at a time. I 0:17:23.119 --> 0:17:25.800 don't want to have to worry about your sobriety. Here 0:17:25.880 --> 0:17:28.480 it is if you are in the program, that means 0:17:28.640 --> 0:17:30.560 you and I are one and the same. I don't 0:17:30.560 --> 0:17:32.639 know what you're like in your sobriety. You can say 0:17:32.680 --> 0:17:35.240 that you're not triggered by things. I can't worry about it. 0:17:35.400 --> 0:17:39.280 I have a life. I have a beautiful family that 0:17:39.359 --> 0:17:42.520 I've created, these two beautiful babies who I can't take 0:17:42.560 --> 0:17:45.960 any chances. So I prefer that you just are a 0:17:46.119 --> 0:17:49.480 normal drinker, go out. Sometimes you may have a rougher 0:17:49.560 --> 0:17:53.960 night than you know. The others all good. I don't 0:17:54.040 --> 0:17:58.160 want to worry about you relapsing because I can't deal. 0:17:59.280 --> 0:18:01.840 I know that that's cold and heartless. But if I'm 0:18:01.880 --> 0:18:04.959 welcoming you in in that capacity, I can't worry about it. 0:18:04.840 --> 0:18:07.080 It sounds that way, I will say from just like 0:18:07.080 --> 0:18:10.560 an outsider's But that's me putting my foot in the 0:18:10.560 --> 0:18:14.720 other shoe. But until you are an addict, and unless 0:18:14.760 --> 0:18:16.840 you are, you'll never know what it's like to live 0:18:16.840 --> 0:18:20.760 in this mind. But it's enough just to keep me sober. 0:18:21.240 --> 0:18:25.400 I can't add somebody else, yeah, because that will fucking 0:18:25.480 --> 0:18:28.960 drive me to relapse. Yes, And that's why it's like, 0:18:29.320 --> 0:18:32.600 I just need somebody normal. You don't overdrink. I'm only 0:18:32.640 --> 0:18:35.560 worried about me. I'm not like, are you sneaking? 0:18:35.920 --> 0:18:37.520 Like I'm too worried about me. 0:18:37.600 --> 0:18:39.920 And it's like if I'm worried about you sneaking and drink, 0:18:39.920 --> 0:18:42.199 maybe it's because maybe I'm worried about me. 0:18:42.520 --> 0:18:45.000 Yeah, it's just or for everything. 0:18:45.040 --> 0:18:46.560 And that's where it's just like, you know what, I'm 0:18:46.600 --> 0:18:48.159 happy where I'm at, and I like what I I. 0:18:48.160 --> 0:18:50.440 Want a guy who's normal and walks in a room 0:18:50.440 --> 0:18:51.920 and doesn't even have to think about it. Little kids 0:18:51.960 --> 0:18:54.040 are here, like, not the time to get wasted, and 0:18:54.080 --> 0:18:56.400 I don't even want to get wasted because I'm an ormy, right, 0:19:08.359 --> 0:19:11.120 Holly Marie Loy says, why are you no longer doing 0:19:11.160 --> 0:19:12.760 Monday recaps of the Valley? 0:19:13.119 --> 0:19:16.640 Was loving those who oh man, mom. 0:19:17.520 --> 0:19:21.000 We had people that were not happy about the recaps happening, 0:19:21.160 --> 0:19:24.760 and it's easier to just say can you please be quiet, 0:19:24.840 --> 0:19:27.600 because I will I do listen. I just thought I 0:19:27.720 --> 0:19:30.119 wasn't allowed to talk about it, but I guess than 0:19:30.200 --> 0:19:34.239 it is getting other people to not care. There's a 0:19:34.320 --> 0:19:37.440 handful of people on this cast that are extremely sensitive, 0:19:37.760 --> 0:19:39.320 which I didn't have to deal with. On the last 0:19:39.359 --> 0:19:42.560 show that I was on, everyone knew the drill. We 0:19:42.640 --> 0:19:46.399 talked about podcasts all the time when we picked up 0:19:46.400 --> 0:19:50.560 cameras again, and no one was calling and complaining and 0:19:50.840 --> 0:19:54.000 crying about things like your actions. 0:19:53.440 --> 0:19:56.240 Were on the television and what was spoken about your 0:19:56.280 --> 0:19:57.560 actions was all right. 0:19:58.480 --> 0:20:00.680